March 25, 2025 • 41 mins
Comedian, actor and Venezuelan podcaster in Mexico City.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
He kind of says, I was on my way, you know.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
I think that's what he meant before when he said
that he wasn't given the opportunity that he deserved to
go kind of maybe go a step further where he
wanted to go or where he wanted to be in life.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
You know.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Welcome to ghost therapy, where it's not just about connecting
with desised loved ones, it's about learning through them and
their new perspective. Hi, guys, welcome to ghost Therapy. I'm
Paula Pedrosa, so happy you can join us.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
This is a really.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Special episode because usually your intention is to talk to
somebody in particular. This time around, we had Bully the
Ass on the episode.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
And she's a Venezuelan.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
She's in Mexico, living and doing her thing, and she
really wanted to talk to her cousin and in came stepfather,
which she loved very much, and the stepfather was like,
I'm here to stay, I'm gonna talk, and I'm gonna talk,
and he never let the cousin talk.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
And that happens.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Sometimes it's not really about what you want to hear
or who you want to talk to.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
It's like what God.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Wants you to hear, and God in that moment really
wanted for the stepfather to come in and say some
things that I believe were good things for her. So
listen up to this one. It's pretty interesting. Thank you
for being here.
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It's the.
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Then lokay bueno and does they say.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
What I mean? Let's go overrect mind blowing.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
So he's I feel like he's very proud of you,
not only proud of what you do, it's more about
being proud of how you've come to where you are
right now, because he really didn't imagine or understand when
he was alive what you do, with what happens with
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what you do?
Speaker 1 (14:49):
You know, it's like where is it going? What are
you doing? How is it going to go down?
Speaker 9 (14:54):
You know?
Speaker 2 (14:54):
And now he's like, oh, now I get it. You
see what I'm saying. So this is this is what
he wants to say to you because he's very proud.
Hold on, just a second, is there something that I
don't know if when he died or after that, something
about that you had to like sell your car or
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something about that you had to do like these things
to kind of I don't know if it was survive
or if it was something that you decided to do
for your own good, but I feel it's something like
getting rid of something.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
There's like an important move that you made.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Since he died up to now that I feel change
your life or changed the course of your career or
of your life.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
That he's very.
Speaker 2 (15:47):
Happy that you did it, because it seemed like it
was something really hard to do.
Speaker 10 (15:55):
Yeah, I mean, I love my good I in Mexico
right now, so maybe something, yes, something about that.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
I mean I was I was living in Mexico when
he passed away.
Speaker 6 (16:10):
I was already live in here.
Speaker 11 (16:12):
We both left Venezuela like months like I left in yeah,
in January, and he was living in Minnesuola.
Speaker 6 (16:25):
Maybe in July.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
So maybe he's referring to Yeah, makes sense, very like
very proud of you and very I just feel like
he feels you're in the right place, you know, like
good for you. He's happy that you didn't. Yeah, even
though it was a sacrifice. That makes sense if you
if you changed country, that would make sense that it's
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a big sacrifice. But it's like he's he feels and
believes that you did the right thing and that you
are where you need to be for your career, right.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
Like Mexico is where is that for you?
Speaker 2 (17:07):
And again he still refers to his life as he
would have loved for.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Something like.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
It's crazy because he would have liked to, like give
you money so you can go and put you up
in a very nice apartment. You see what I said,
Like he really really took it on, took on the
father role in a way with so much love.
Speaker 4 (17:35):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Yeah, And so he's like, I would have really if
I get if I could, I would have loved to
put you up there with a car with like you know,
with everything you needed. I really really wanted to do it,
he said. And I was on my He kind of says,
I was on my way, you know. I think that's
what he meant before when he said that he wasn't
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given the opportunity that he deserved to go kind of
maybe go a step further where he wanted to go
or where he wanted to be in life, you know,
And he feels like like I swear, like a responsibility
to his kids. You know, like even though he was
your stepfather, he really felt that responsibility to give you
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everything he could.
Speaker 4 (18:24):
Yeah, I know, he was very much like that. He
was always giving us money really out of nowhere.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Yeah, not a lot of stepfathers maybe do that when
they're we're grown kids.
Speaker 5 (18:39):
I know, it's always going out without cash, very teenager like. So, yeah,
he was always giving me money so I could take
I don't know, drinks and ubers or whatever. But he
always picked parties, so the money was for me.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
He was trying his best to be or like not
not replace your father, I know, but to be a
good stepfather.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
No, No, like he was.
Speaker 5 (19:06):
He was very aware that we had that we have
a father, and we really love him, and we have
great relationship with our father, and like our dad is
the best.
Speaker 4 (19:15):
He was never like being in competition with my father
was never something.
Speaker 5 (19:24):
That he You're not pursued, right, But yeah, he was
very aware that we were grown ups.
Speaker 4 (19:34):
But my mom needed help and my mom needed a partner,
and he was a partner, a great partner, but he
was also a friend. He was also for us.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
He's very endearing, very very endearing. So his energy is beautiful.
Speaker 4 (19:51):
Yeah, and he.
Speaker 5 (19:52):
Also he also had he has a child of his own, Samantha,
and and we love her.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
Like, okay, okay, thank you for that context. Okay, I'm
going to move over to your personal space, your personal.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
Situations. He wants to keep you like advice.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
He's saying, listen, if you want to get this done,
it starts by you. Don't expect other people to kind
of come in.
Speaker 1 (20:39):
And push you up. He's like, you have to do it.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
And I don't know if this is like something that's
happening now or if this is something that maybe is
going to happen in the future.
Speaker 1 (20:53):
But he's like, it starts with you.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
You are the one that sets the example, and you
are the one that's gonna make it happen nobody else.
So it's not he's not saying to not trust anybody.
He's just saying, like, do the majority of the work,
because I feel like right now there are very few
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people like when you're an artist or something like that.
Speaker 1 (21:20):
I feel you're an artist, you are right.
Speaker 6 (21:24):
Your comedian, Yeah, I'm a comedian.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
I feel that sometimes.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
Or like singers is like you need people to believe
in you that kind of thing, so you can you know,
they can put you places or whatever. And it's very
hard to find somebody to believe in you because those
are the ones that get you somewhere. And I feel like,
right now, you don't feel like many people believe in you.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
I don't know if this is true or not. Does
this make sense to you?
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Like I feel you're in the middle of finding who
believes in you kind of thing, and I feel like
he wants you to stop looking for that in particular.
Speaker 4 (22:09):
Yeah, it does make sense.
Speaker 5 (22:10):
I feel like as artists, as an artist right now,
as artists, if anyone is write any artists just listening
to this, that we're always like trying to chase like
brands or like people who already succeed, you know, to
maybe help us or maybe like trying to to help
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us or guide us maybe through this path. But I
feel like right now, if you work in social media
and you have your own community, that's the only thing
you need, you know, like people to trust you, people
to love what you do.
Speaker 4 (22:55):
And if you have them and you like work to build.
Speaker 5 (22:59):
That community, that's the only thing that you that you
actually need to you know, people to go to your shows,
people to to buy your merch or to even I
don't know, like wat your details. That's the only thing
that you need right now, but it is, but it
is true that sometimes it gets very hard, especially when
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it comes to money, especially when you feel like you're
always like working so hard to get the money that
you need to be like a normal human being and
like to get a car and to get a.
Speaker 4 (23:32):
House or you know, like to be an adult. So
sometimes sometimes it's like maybe if I.
Speaker 5 (23:40):
Had like a sponsor, it would be so much easier,
you know, and you're always like trying to be light.
Speaker 4 (23:47):
So these brands and these sponsors come to you.
Speaker 5 (23:51):
But then like when you realize that if you have
no one, you'll be free to whatever you want it,
to be true to yourself and to be authentic, Like
that's that's the real work. That's the job, like to
be yourself and being yourself like having this community that's
going to support you.
Speaker 8 (24:11):
From now on.
Speaker 5 (24:13):
So it makes sense that he says that because I
feel like, but the people, that's the way that's that's working, right.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
It's the new way. It's the way.
Speaker 5 (24:28):
It's hard, it's it's the new way, and it's the
only way right now. And if you do that, if
you do that, the sponsor.
Speaker 10 (24:38):
Will come, and the brands will come, and the great
deals will come.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
But you have to do the dirty fun.
Speaker 4 (24:46):
That. Yeah, you have to do all the work on
your own.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
Right exactly.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Yeah, It's like sometimes we feel like we need that
one person that's gonna, you know, take us to the
you know, to the brands, or we need that one
person that's gonna give us money.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
And it's not like that anymore.
Speaker 5 (25:07):
Yeah, And once you go viral, and once you go viral,
then the brands are gonna come and they're gonna give
you money. And so if you have money, you're gonna
buy the camera, and you're gonna buy the microphone, and
you're gonna get you know, and you're gonna get everything
that you need.
Speaker 4 (25:19):
So your project can be bigger, but it's gonna come
at the end of the Yeah.
Speaker 5 (25:25):
So but at the end of the day, you just
have to work on your community and and and your
faithful community and the support that they give you will
will you know, build this platform that you actually need
to have a career for the rest of your life
and not only having a moment because there's a lot
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of artists right now having moments and once the and once.
Speaker 6 (25:51):
That are the past, the one you know.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get that. I get that you're
gonna you're gonna do good. You're gonna do good. But
is yeah, he really he really really wants you to
to not you know, depend on anybody because you can
do it yourself. Okay, I tell there's something about stretching
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as much as you can your stay. He's like stretched,
like try to fight to stay there. Are you planning
on living anytime soon?
Speaker 4 (26:30):
Yeah, I've been thinking. I've been thinking about leaving Mexico
for for a while so I can pursue other opportunities.
But but I haven't. I haven't make a decision.
Speaker 6 (26:46):
About living for good.
Speaker 4 (26:49):
I've been only you know, flirting with the idea of
me being, you know, living.
Speaker 6 (26:58):
In because right now you whatever you want and you
just you can be just.
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Everywhere, you know.
Speaker 5 (27:03):
But I feel like something like in Latin America people
are so closed minded.
Speaker 4 (27:10):
Sometimes they'll be like so if you're in Mexico, then
you're working for the Mexican market, and if you're in US,
then you're working for them, And it's like no, you
can be whatever you want and just work with anything
and for everything.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
The old school model of TV. Let's say, but now
where you're at is a whole other game. You can
be anywhere. But it used to be like that, you know, but.
Speaker 5 (27:37):
Still still like even if we know that's the way
you work, right now, people they just like be like,
so if you are in Mexico, then now I'll work
with you, But if you are in another city, it's.
Speaker 4 (27:55):
Gonna it's not gonna be easier better.
Speaker 6 (28:00):
Honest, we're staying. We're staying longer, but.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
Because I feel you want you to stay and stretch
it out as much as you can. So maybe there's
something good there that you know is coming. So maybe
not think about moving for a while, and then you know,
as long as you can as long as you can,
that would be great.
Speaker 1 (28:25):
Do you have any questions for him? I know you
wanted to talk to your sister.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
I'm so sorry, but Uan Cadloss kind of just came
in and didn't want to leave, which is great.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
You know, he took he took the official for himself.
Speaker 5 (28:42):
No, I mean like more than questions or more than advice,
it's just like letting him know that we love him.
Speaker 4 (28:50):
So much and like we're okay, and of course we
miss him, you.
Speaker 1 (28:55):
Know, knows that. Just remember that they're always with you.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
They're not on you know, they're always like they don't
have a body now, but they're there, you know, and
they know everything you're doing, what you're doing. You know,
it's every everything. It's like it hasn't changed, but it's changed,
you know. But he's you know, he's just there too,
proud and to be your cheerleader. And I feel like
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he really believes in you, and and I feel like,
you know, he's also a dad and he believes in you,
and I think that.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
He really wants you to know how proud he is
of you.
Speaker 4 (29:39):
Yeah, that's so sweet.
Speaker 6 (29:41):
I love him so much.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
I know it's okay, it's okay.
Speaker 9 (29:46):
I know.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
I know he feels the same way. He's not crying
because God doesn't let them cry. They he doesn't let them.
Speaker 5 (29:55):
I always get very emoaning over from in a way
where I'm not like, of course I'm sad that he's
not with us anymore, because he was so young and
me like he had a future, such a great future
for him. He was building something for himself and for
his family, so for me, it was so unfair that
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he left us so young.
Speaker 4 (30:18):
But at the same time, like he was so important and.
Speaker 6 (30:21):
He was so loving all the way.
Speaker 4 (30:24):
Like and for me, he always was like a teacher
when it comes to loving and conditionally and just give
everything to the people that he loved. And for me,
that's the only way it has to be.
Speaker 5 (30:43):
You know, when you love someone, you just give them
everything without asking anything back.
Speaker 1 (30:50):
He meant it, He really meant it.
Speaker 4 (30:52):
He was.
Speaker 5 (30:55):
And I know, like every time he did it, it
was like, of course, that's that's how he is, that's
his personality, that's the way he he loves.
Speaker 4 (31:05):
So for me, it's so important that he knows that.
We did know that, Like we know this all the time.
Speaker 12 (31:13):
And and and I learned a lot from having another
father figure very different from my own father figure, from
my biological father, which and.
Speaker 5 (31:32):
Who I love so much that I did love him too.
So I had them both and they're so different and
they gave me. They both gave me different.
Speaker 4 (31:42):
Views type of love. And you know, and for people
who are listening to this and they have you know,
a mother that has a new boyfriend.
Speaker 5 (31:52):
Just give them the opportunity because it's so great to
see your mother being loved and also having.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
That for yourself important message Like my husband when when
my father in law died, like they never let my
mother in law have a boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (32:08):
Never, They're like, no, my father, and that's it. You
want her to be alone for the rest of life.
You can have a life. Everybody can have a.
Speaker 6 (32:16):
Life except you.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
Oh my god. It makes me so mad, but it
makes him even matter. I know he doesn't even like it.
Speaker 4 (32:23):
Yeah, no, No, mothers.
Speaker 5 (32:25):
They deserve love and we deserve to spend our families
because when he came into our lives, we.
Speaker 4 (32:37):
Had a father.
Speaker 5 (32:38):
We gained a father, but we also we now have
like a little sister because for us we love her
as a sister, we love her as a cousin.
Speaker 4 (32:47):
His daughter is a great friend for us. We love
her so much.
Speaker 5 (32:53):
So I don't know, like he taught us a lot
about love and patience because he was so patient, and
when he left us it was very I felt like
it was unfair. I still feel like it's unfair. But
at the same time, when someone leaves us, you have
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to stay.
Speaker 1 (33:17):
With the you know, the.
Speaker 5 (33:21):
The knowledge whatever he left them.
Speaker 2 (33:25):
What happens with death is that it's it sounds very weird,
but death is like a positive thing for all the
people that are around that person that died, And it
sounds kind of like yeah, right, like we're all suffering. Yeah,
I know the suffering is separately, but that death causes you,
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for example, to have more knowledge and actually use it.
Maybe when he was alive, you didn't valueate.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
Like you value it now.
Speaker 2 (33:55):
You know something like that, And it happens all the time,
but we don't see it like that because I know
we're in pain, you know, and it's fine.
Speaker 4 (34:05):
I don't know. I don't know if this is something
that he can actually tells you about. But when when
I when I had when I I don't know see
how to say this. How when I found out about
he's passing, I was so in shocked. I was so shocked.
Speaker 5 (34:30):
I was like for me, it was so hard to
It was so hard because it was starting the whole
pandemic thing.
Speaker 4 (34:41):
So I was very sensitive and I feel very vulnerable.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
And I remember that I felt very mad because I
didn't answer a few texts that he is and to
me because I'm so bad at what's up and at
my emails like a the worst person answering miss it is.
Speaker 4 (35:02):
But then I went to home gain Mehico.
Speaker 9 (35:05):
And I just walked and I remember that I imagined
that was he was right next to me, just walking
in the park and we talked and I felt like
he was.
Speaker 8 (35:17):
There with me.
Speaker 4 (35:18):
And I don't know if that was something that I imagined,
but I truly truly saw him. I truly felt like
he was just you know, they holding me.
Speaker 2 (35:28):
At that moment, that's when you can actually feel them.
You know, normally in your daily life, they're there, but
you don't feel them.
Speaker 1 (35:36):
But when you're like, like you're saying so.
Speaker 2 (35:38):
Sensitive and that part of your life was like that,
it was most definitely you know what I mean, like
you felt him.
Speaker 5 (35:47):
And yeah, and he's so grassive because every time I
talk about him, I'm always quiet, Like there's not that's.
Speaker 4 (35:59):
Your hurdles. So come on, tears of joy mixed well.
Speaker 2 (36:03):
Because it's that type of lod that he gave you.
You know, it's it's so hard to know that it's
not going to be there anymore. Right, it's kind of
like what's happening, what's going to happen now? And stuff
like that. But let me, let me tell you a
little like quick story when they when they die, they
go up there with God and they're like they see
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their their their life, like what was what they did,
what they did wrong, what they did right?
Speaker 1 (36:31):
And they forgive and they are forgiven.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
And I wanted to just tell you that because you
said how some texts you didn't answer and all that stuff.
Just just know that they don't even remember the negative things,
like they can't feel negative, like they can't piss you,
they can't be mad at you. All of those bad,
bad feelings, they can't have them, like God takes them away.
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So don't ever feel like guilty about those texts or
don't feel like maybe he he's up there saying damn,
you should have answered them or something like that, because
it is what it is, and it doesn't change how
you feel about him, and it doesn't change all the
all the positiveness that came from being with him in
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your family, you know, So forget about all those things
that you feel guilty about. They don't They don't even
remember all those.
Speaker 13 (37:29):
Things now, you know what, Like it's crazy because I
don't feel guilty about him thinking something bad about me.
Speaker 4 (37:40):
It's just like me that I didn't answer him, so
I didn't like I didn't have right, I didn't have
that for me.
Speaker 5 (37:50):
For myself that last conversation or or or that you know,
those messages of me saying to him like I'm good,
what about you tell me something about you? Like, it's
more for me because I know because of the way
that he was and the way that.
Speaker 4 (38:07):
I am, and he knew me very well that he
didn't okay, take it personally, it was like this girl,
it's a mess I know, I know her. You know.
It's more like for me, it's like, why didn't answer?
Why you didn't tell him like I love you. I
hope you know this and I'm trying whatever see you
soon your life.
Speaker 1 (38:28):
That's a good thing that.
Speaker 2 (38:29):
You say it, because anybody that's listening out there, you
know that answer the text, you know, say I love you,
and you never know when it's going to be the
last day, especially when it's an accident or something like that.
Speaker 1 (38:42):
It's like, do it. Do it?
Speaker 2 (38:44):
Especially to those people like your stepdad that really showed
their love, you know, because sometimes we feel we have
to kind of like love people because of our family.
But him, he's different because he actually really did want
to love you and really did want.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
The best for you, and yeah, he worked exactly.
Speaker 2 (39:10):
And those are the ones that deserve, you know, the
text and those are the ones that deserve you know,
or not the not the ones that oh I have
to answer back because you know, oh he's my friend,
I have to you know, I don't know, go with
the ones that really are, you know, like you said,
working at at the love at the relationship, you know,
but just know that that, yeah, there he's always He's
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always there for you, and he will be continuously throughout
your career and you you are going to do great.
Speaker 1 (39:42):
I'm going to thank you for reading, and I'm going
to tell one god loss.
Speaker 2 (39:46):
I'm going to give him back to the light where
he belongs, and we thank him very much for all
the messages that he sent.
Speaker 1 (39:57):
Pollie.
Speaker 2 (39:57):
I give you back your energy and I take mine back.
Everything is perfect, amen. He just shouted before he left.
He's like, take care of your finances, damn it.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Okay, so I guess be more careful with your money like.
Speaker 4 (40:21):
Like that.
Speaker 2 (40:22):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you have to like something you always
do or something like that is like you don't, you
don't you don't learn something like that you're not learning.
Speaker 1 (40:31):
Okay, okay. That was his last message.
Speaker 2 (40:34):
Instead of saying I love you or something, he's like,
take care of your fagnances.
Speaker 1 (40:40):
That was thank you so much, thank you
Speaker 9 (40:48):
So
He kind of says, I was on my way, you know.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
I think that's what he meant before when he said
that he wasn't given the opportunity that he deserved to
go kind of maybe go a step further where he
wanted to go or where he wanted to be in life.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
You know.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Welcome to ghost therapy, where it's not just about connecting
with desised loved ones, it's about learning through them and
their new perspective. Hi, guys, welcome to ghost Therapy. I'm
Paula Pedrosa, so happy you can join us.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
This is a really.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Special episode because usually your intention is to talk to
somebody in particular. This time around, we had Bully the
Ass on the episode.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
And she's a Venezuelan.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
She's in Mexico, living and doing her thing, and she
really wanted to talk to her cousin and in came stepfather,
which she loved very much, and the stepfather was like,
I'm here to stay, I'm gonna talk, and I'm gonna talk,
and he never let the cousin talk.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
And that happens.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Sometimes it's not really about what you want to hear
or who you want to talk to.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
It's like what God.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Wants you to hear, and God in that moment really
wanted for the stepfather to come in and say some
things that I believe were good things for her. So
listen up to this one. It's pretty interesting. Thank you
for being here.
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Then lokay bueno and does they say.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
What I mean? Let's go overrect mind blowing.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
So he's I feel like he's very proud of you,
not only proud of what you do, it's more about
being proud of how you've come to where you are
right now, because he really didn't imagine or understand when
he was alive what you do, with what happens with
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what you do?
Speaker 1 (14:49):
You know, it's like where is it going? What are
you doing? How is it going to go down?
Speaker 9 (14:54):
You know?
Speaker 2 (14:54):
And now he's like, oh, now I get it. You
see what I'm saying. So this is this is what
he wants to say to you because he's very proud.
Hold on, just a second, is there something that I
don't know if when he died or after that, something
about that you had to like sell your car or
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something about that you had to do like these things
to kind of I don't know if it was survive
or if it was something that you decided to do
for your own good, but I feel it's something like
getting rid of something.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
There's like an important move that you made.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Since he died up to now that I feel change
your life or changed the course of your career or
of your life.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
That he's very.
Speaker 2 (15:47):
Happy that you did it, because it seemed like it
was something really hard to do.
Speaker 10 (15:55):
Yeah, I mean, I love my good I in Mexico
right now, so maybe something, yes, something about that.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
I mean I was I was living in Mexico when
he passed away.
Speaker 6 (16:10):
I was already live in here.
Speaker 11 (16:12):
We both left Venezuela like months like I left in yeah,
in January, and he was living in Minnesuola.
Speaker 6 (16:25):
Maybe in July.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
So maybe he's referring to Yeah, makes sense, very like
very proud of you and very I just feel like
he feels you're in the right place, you know, like
good for you. He's happy that you didn't. Yeah, even
though it was a sacrifice. That makes sense if you
if you changed country, that would make sense that it's
(16:48):
a big sacrifice. But it's like he's he feels and
believes that you did the right thing and that you
are where you need to be for your career, right.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
Like Mexico is where is that for you?
Speaker 2 (17:07):
And again he still refers to his life as he
would have loved for.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Something like.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
It's crazy because he would have liked to, like give
you money so you can go and put you up
in a very nice apartment. You see what I said,
Like he really really took it on, took on the
father role in a way with so much love.
Speaker 4 (17:35):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Yeah, And so he's like, I would have really if
I get if I could, I would have loved to
put you up there with a car with like you know,
with everything you needed. I really really wanted to do it,
he said. And I was on my He kind of says,
I was on my way, you know. I think that's
what he meant before when he said that he wasn't
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given the opportunity that he deserved to go kind of
maybe go a step further where he wanted to go
or where he wanted to be in life, you know,
And he feels like like I swear, like a responsibility
to his kids. You know, like even though he was
your stepfather, he really felt that responsibility to give you
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everything he could.
Speaker 4 (18:24):
Yeah, I know, he was very much like that. He
was always giving us money really out of nowhere.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Yeah, not a lot of stepfathers maybe do that when
they're we're grown kids.
Speaker 5 (18:39):
I know, it's always going out without cash, very teenager like. So, yeah,
he was always giving me money so I could take
I don't know, drinks and ubers or whatever. But he
always picked parties, so the money was for me.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
He was trying his best to be or like not
not replace your father, I know, but to be a
good stepfather.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
No, No, like he was.
Speaker 5 (19:06):
He was very aware that we had that we have
a father, and we really love him, and we have
great relationship with our father, and like our dad is
the best.
Speaker 4 (19:15):
He was never like being in competition with my father
was never something.
Speaker 5 (19:24):
That he You're not pursued, right, But yeah, he was
very aware that we were grown ups.
Speaker 4 (19:34):
But my mom needed help and my mom needed a partner,
and he was a partner, a great partner, but he
was also a friend. He was also for us.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
He's very endearing, very very endearing. So his energy is beautiful.
Speaker 4 (19:51):
Yeah, and he.
Speaker 5 (19:52):
Also he also had he has a child of his own, Samantha,
and and we love her.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
Like, okay, okay, thank you for that context. Okay, I'm
going to move over to your personal space, your personal.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
Situations. He wants to keep you like advice.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
He's saying, listen, if you want to get this done,
it starts by you. Don't expect other people to kind
of come in.
Speaker 1 (20:39):
And push you up. He's like, you have to do it.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
And I don't know if this is like something that's
happening now or if this is something that maybe is
going to happen in the future.
Speaker 1 (20:53):
But he's like, it starts with you.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
You are the one that sets the example, and you
are the one that's gonna make it happen nobody else.
So it's not he's not saying to not trust anybody.
He's just saying, like, do the majority of the work,
because I feel like right now there are very few
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people like when you're an artist or something like that.
Speaker 1 (21:20):
I feel you're an artist, you are right.
Speaker 6 (21:24):
Your comedian, Yeah, I'm a comedian.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
I feel that sometimes.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
Or like singers is like you need people to believe
in you that kind of thing, so you can you know,
they can put you places or whatever. And it's very
hard to find somebody to believe in you because those
are the ones that get you somewhere. And I feel like,
right now, you don't feel like many people believe in you.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
I don't know if this is true or not. Does
this make sense to you?
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Like I feel you're in the middle of finding who
believes in you kind of thing, and I feel like
he wants you to stop looking for that in particular.
Speaker 4 (22:09):
Yeah, it does make sense.
Speaker 5 (22:10):
I feel like as artists, as an artist right now,
as artists, if anyone is write any artists just listening
to this, that we're always like trying to chase like
brands or like people who already succeed, you know, to
maybe help us or maybe like trying to to help
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us or guide us maybe through this path. But I
feel like right now, if you work in social media
and you have your own community, that's the only thing
you need, you know, like people to trust you, people
to love what you do.
Speaker 4 (22:55):
And if you have them and you like work to build.
Speaker 5 (22:59):
That community, that's the only thing that you that you
actually need to you know, people to go to your shows,
people to to buy your merch or to even I
don't know, like wat your details. That's the only thing
that you need right now, but it is, but it
is true that sometimes it gets very hard, especially when
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it comes to money, especially when you feel like you're
always like working so hard to get the money that
you need to be like a normal human being and
like to get a car and to get a.
Speaker 4 (23:32):
House or you know, like to be an adult. So
sometimes sometimes it's like maybe if I.
Speaker 5 (23:40):
Had like a sponsor, it would be so much easier,
you know, and you're always like trying to be light.
Speaker 4 (23:47):
So these brands and these sponsors come to you.
Speaker 5 (23:51):
But then like when you realize that if you have
no one, you'll be free to whatever you want it,
to be true to yourself and to be authentic, Like
that's that's the real work. That's the job, like to
be yourself and being yourself like having this community that's
going to support you.
Speaker 8 (24:11):
From now on.
Speaker 5 (24:13):
So it makes sense that he says that because I
feel like, but the people, that's the way that's that's working, right.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
It's the new way. It's the way.
Speaker 5 (24:28):
It's hard, it's it's the new way, and it's the
only way right now. And if you do that, if
you do that, the sponsor.
Speaker 10 (24:38):
Will come, and the brands will come, and the great
deals will come.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
But you have to do the dirty fun.
Speaker 4 (24:46):
That. Yeah, you have to do all the work on
your own.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
Right exactly.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Yeah, It's like sometimes we feel like we need that
one person that's gonna, you know, take us to the
you know, to the brands, or we need that one
person that's gonna give us money.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
And it's not like that anymore.
Speaker 5 (25:07):
Yeah, And once you go viral, and once you go viral,
then the brands are gonna come and they're gonna give
you money. And so if you have money, you're gonna
buy the camera, and you're gonna buy the microphone, and
you're gonna get you know, and you're gonna get everything
that you need.
Speaker 4 (25:19):
So your project can be bigger, but it's gonna come
at the end of the Yeah.
Speaker 5 (25:25):
So but at the end of the day, you just
have to work on your community and and and your
faithful community and the support that they give you will
will you know, build this platform that you actually need
to have a career for the rest of your life
and not only having a moment because there's a lot
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of artists right now having moments and once the and once.
Speaker 6 (25:51):
That are the past, the one you know.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get that. I get that you're
gonna you're gonna do good. You're gonna do good. But
is yeah, he really he really really wants you to
to not you know, depend on anybody because you can
do it yourself. Okay, I tell there's something about stretching
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as much as you can your stay. He's like stretched,
like try to fight to stay there. Are you planning
on living anytime soon?
Speaker 4 (26:30):
Yeah, I've been thinking. I've been thinking about leaving Mexico
for for a while so I can pursue other opportunities.
But but I haven't. I haven't make a decision.
Speaker 6 (26:46):
About living for good.
Speaker 4 (26:49):
I've been only you know, flirting with the idea of
me being, you know, living.
Speaker 6 (26:58):
In because right now you whatever you want and you
just you can be just.
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Everywhere, you know.
Speaker 5 (27:03):
But I feel like something like in Latin America people
are so closed minded.
Speaker 4 (27:10):
Sometimes they'll be like so if you're in Mexico, then
you're working for the Mexican market, and if you're in US,
then you're working for them, And it's like no, you
can be whatever you want and just work with anything
and for everything.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
The old school model of TV. Let's say, but now
where you're at is a whole other game. You can
be anywhere. But it used to be like that, you know, but.
Speaker 5 (27:37):
Still still like even if we know that's the way
you work, right now, people they just like be like,
so if you are in Mexico, then now I'll work
with you, But if you are in another city, it's.
Speaker 4 (27:55):
Gonna it's not gonna be easier better.
Speaker 6 (28:00):
Honest, we're staying. We're staying longer, but.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
Because I feel you want you to stay and stretch
it out as much as you can. So maybe there's
something good there that you know is coming. So maybe
not think about moving for a while, and then you know,
as long as you can as long as you can,
that would be great.
Speaker 1 (28:25):
Do you have any questions for him? I know you
wanted to talk to your sister.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
I'm so sorry, but Uan Cadloss kind of just came
in and didn't want to leave, which is great.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
You know, he took he took the official for himself.
Speaker 5 (28:42):
No, I mean like more than questions or more than advice,
it's just like letting him know that we love him.
Speaker 4 (28:50):
So much and like we're okay, and of course we
miss him, you.
Speaker 1 (28:55):
Know, knows that. Just remember that they're always with you.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
They're not on you know, they're always like they don't
have a body now, but they're there, you know, and
they know everything you're doing, what you're doing. You know,
it's every everything. It's like it hasn't changed, but it's changed,
you know. But he's you know, he's just there too,
proud and to be your cheerleader. And I feel like
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he really believes in you, and and I feel like,
you know, he's also a dad and he believes in you,
and I think that.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
He really wants you to know how proud he is
of you.
Speaker 4 (29:39):
Yeah, that's so sweet.
Speaker 6 (29:41):
I love him so much.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
I know it's okay, it's okay.
Speaker 9 (29:46):
I know.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
I know he feels the same way. He's not crying
because God doesn't let them cry. They he doesn't let them.
Speaker 5 (29:55):
I always get very emoaning over from in a way
where I'm not like, of course I'm sad that he's
not with us anymore, because he was so young and
me like he had a future, such a great future
for him. He was building something for himself and for
his family, so for me, it was so unfair that
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he left us so young.
Speaker 4 (30:18):
But at the same time, like he was so important and.
Speaker 6 (30:21):
He was so loving all the way.
Speaker 4 (30:24):
Like and for me, he always was like a teacher
when it comes to loving and conditionally and just give
everything to the people that he loved. And for me,
that's the only way it has to be.
Speaker 5 (30:43):
You know, when you love someone, you just give them
everything without asking anything back.
Speaker 1 (30:50):
He meant it, He really meant it.
Speaker 4 (30:52):
He was.
Speaker 5 (30:55):
And I know, like every time he did it, it
was like, of course, that's that's how he is, that's
his personality, that's the way he he loves.
Speaker 4 (31:05):
So for me, it's so important that he knows that.
We did know that, Like we know this all the time.
Speaker 12 (31:13):
And and and I learned a lot from having another
father figure very different from my own father figure, from
my biological father, which and.
Speaker 5 (31:32):
Who I love so much that I did love him too.
So I had them both and they're so different and
they gave me. They both gave me different.
Speaker 4 (31:42):
Views type of love. And you know, and for people
who are listening to this and they have you know,
a mother that has a new boyfriend.
Speaker 5 (31:52):
Just give them the opportunity because it's so great to
see your mother being loved and also having.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
That for yourself important message Like my husband when when
my father in law died, like they never let my
mother in law have a boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (32:08):
Never, They're like, no, my father, and that's it. You
want her to be alone for the rest of life.
You can have a life. Everybody can have a.
Speaker 6 (32:16):
Life except you.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
Oh my god. It makes me so mad, but it
makes him even matter. I know he doesn't even like it.
Speaker 4 (32:23):
Yeah, no, No, mothers.
Speaker 5 (32:25):
They deserve love and we deserve to spend our families
because when he came into our lives, we.
Speaker 4 (32:37):
Had a father.
Speaker 5 (32:38):
We gained a father, but we also we now have
like a little sister because for us we love her
as a sister, we love her as a cousin.
Speaker 4 (32:47):
His daughter is a great friend for us. We love
her so much.
Speaker 5 (32:53):
So I don't know, like he taught us a lot
about love and patience because he was so patient, and
when he left us it was very I felt like
it was unfair. I still feel like it's unfair. But
at the same time, when someone leaves us, you have
(33:16):
to stay.
Speaker 1 (33:17):
With the you know, the.
Speaker 5 (33:21):
The knowledge whatever he left them.
Speaker 2 (33:25):
What happens with death is that it's it sounds very weird,
but death is like a positive thing for all the
people that are around that person that died, And it
sounds kind of like yeah, right, like we're all suffering. Yeah,
I know the suffering is separately, but that death causes you,
(33:46):
for example, to have more knowledge and actually use it.
Maybe when he was alive, you didn't valueate.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
Like you value it now.
Speaker 2 (33:55):
You know something like that, And it happens all the time,
but we don't see it like that because I know
we're in pain, you know, and it's fine.
Speaker 4 (34:05):
I don't know. I don't know if this is something
that he can actually tells you about. But when when
I when I had when I I don't know see
how to say this. How when I found out about
he's passing, I was so in shocked. I was so shocked.
Speaker 5 (34:30):
I was like for me, it was so hard to
It was so hard because it was starting the whole
pandemic thing.
Speaker 4 (34:41):
So I was very sensitive and I feel very vulnerable.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
And I remember that I felt very mad because I
didn't answer a few texts that he is and to
me because I'm so bad at what's up and at
my emails like a the worst person answering miss it is.
Speaker 4 (35:02):
But then I went to home gain Mehico.
Speaker 9 (35:05):
And I just walked and I remember that I imagined
that was he was right next to me, just walking
in the park and we talked and I felt like
he was.
Speaker 8 (35:17):
There with me.
Speaker 4 (35:18):
And I don't know if that was something that I imagined,
but I truly truly saw him. I truly felt like
he was just you know, they holding me.
Speaker 2 (35:28):
At that moment, that's when you can actually feel them.
You know, normally in your daily life, they're there, but
you don't feel them.
Speaker 1 (35:36):
But when you're like, like you're saying so.
Speaker 2 (35:38):
Sensitive and that part of your life was like that,
it was most definitely you know what I mean, like
you felt him.
Speaker 5 (35:47):
And yeah, and he's so grassive because every time I
talk about him, I'm always quiet, Like there's not that's.
Speaker 4 (35:59):
Your hurdles. So come on, tears of joy mixed well.
Speaker 2 (36:03):
Because it's that type of lod that he gave you.
You know, it's it's so hard to know that it's
not going to be there anymore. Right, it's kind of
like what's happening, what's going to happen now? And stuff
like that. But let me, let me tell you a
little like quick story when they when they die, they
go up there with God and they're like they see
(36:25):
their their their life, like what was what they did,
what they did wrong, what they did right?
Speaker 1 (36:31):
And they forgive and they are forgiven.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
And I wanted to just tell you that because you
said how some texts you didn't answer and all that stuff.
Just just know that they don't even remember the negative things,
like they can't feel negative, like they can't piss you,
they can't be mad at you. All of those bad,
bad feelings, they can't have them, like God takes them away.
(36:58):
So don't ever feel like guilty about those texts or
don't feel like maybe he he's up there saying damn,
you should have answered them or something like that, because
it is what it is, and it doesn't change how
you feel about him, and it doesn't change all the
all the positiveness that came from being with him in
(37:22):
your family, you know, So forget about all those things
that you feel guilty about. They don't They don't even
remember all those.
Speaker 13 (37:29):
Things now, you know what, Like it's crazy because I
don't feel guilty about him thinking something bad about me.
Speaker 4 (37:40):
It's just like me that I didn't answer him, so
I didn't like I didn't have right, I didn't have
that for me.
Speaker 5 (37:50):
For myself that last conversation or or or that you know,
those messages of me saying to him like I'm good,
what about you tell me something about you? Like, it's
more for me because I know because of the way
that he was and the way that.
Speaker 4 (38:07):
I am, and he knew me very well that he
didn't okay, take it personally, it was like this girl,
it's a mess I know, I know her. You know.
It's more like for me, it's like, why didn't answer?
Why you didn't tell him like I love you. I
hope you know this and I'm trying whatever see you
soon your life.
Speaker 1 (38:28):
That's a good thing that.
Speaker 2 (38:29):
You say it, because anybody that's listening out there, you
know that answer the text, you know, say I love you,
and you never know when it's going to be the
last day, especially when it's an accident or something like that.
Speaker 1 (38:42):
It's like, do it. Do it?
Speaker 2 (38:44):
Especially to those people like your stepdad that really showed
their love, you know, because sometimes we feel we have
to kind of like love people because of our family.
But him, he's different because he actually really did want
to love you and really did want.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
The best for you, and yeah, he worked exactly.
Speaker 2 (39:10):
And those are the ones that deserve, you know, the
text and those are the ones that deserve you know,
or not the not the ones that oh I have
to answer back because you know, oh he's my friend,
I have to you know, I don't know, go with
the ones that really are, you know, like you said,
working at at the love at the relationship, you know,
but just know that that, yeah, there he's always He's
(39:33):
always there for you, and he will be continuously throughout
your career and you you are going to do great.
Speaker 1 (39:42):
I'm going to thank you for reading, and I'm going
to tell one god loss.
Speaker 2 (39:46):
I'm going to give him back to the light where
he belongs, and we thank him very much for all
the messages that he sent.
Speaker 1 (39:57):
Pollie.
Speaker 2 (39:57):
I give you back your energy and I take mine back.
Everything is perfect, amen. He just shouted before he left.
He's like, take care of your finances, damn it.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Okay, so I guess be more careful with your money like.
Speaker 4 (40:21):
Like that.
Speaker 2 (40:22):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you have to like something you always
do or something like that is like you don't, you
don't you don't learn something like that you're not learning.
Speaker 1 (40:31):
Okay, okay. That was his last message.
Speaker 2 (40:34):
Instead of saying I love you or something, he's like,
take care of your fagnances.
Speaker 1 (40:40):
That was thank you so much, thank you
Speaker 9 (40:48):
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