February 12, 2024 • 23 mins
Would you be shocked if you pulled up to school drop off and someone had a decal of their OnlyFans account on their back windshield?? Well Ros and Eric have very different opinions on not only that... but how to say "decal". That and more hot topics on this episode!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is he said a YADIHO with Eric Winter and
Rodalind Fantaz next episode of he said, how you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
I am good?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
How are you? I'm doing okay? You, I know, you
sound very stuffy. You're having a little bit of a
panic attack today that you're bleeding through your nose in
the world is falling apart.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Guys, have you ever had a nose bleed? That is
so bad?
Speaker 3 (00:25):
I'm back to my list. Hi TMJ hi device back
in my mouth. So I am sorry again if I
sound funky.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
So yeah, my husband this is.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
This is going to be interesting, stuffy and with a lisp.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
Yeah, my husband is completely dismissing me blowing my nose.
I've been dealing with a sinus infection. It's been bananas.
I have never had one like this in my life.
It's been now a whole week of not being able
to breathe a night is pretty crazy. I'm taking no medications.
I'm going I'm going cold turkey. And the funny thing
is that I have been blowing my nose twenty thirty
(01:00):
forty times. It keeps bleeding, and it keeps He keeps saying,
it's okay, don't worry.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
About it.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
I'm bringing sexy back. Why are you doing that? Because
I'm it's just your it's very pretty tops. It's just
raw ra. You think the world is falling apart every
time something happens. It's you know, I get it, it's
your nose is raw. But I said, if it concerned,
you call the doctor. Does she call the doctor? Never?
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What is he going to do?
Speaker 2 (01:28):
What is going to say?
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Why does it give you medication if you're that concerned
about it. But I don't doubt for a second that
she doesn't feel well or something's not right. But what
she tends to do is just tell me about it
repeatedly and then never go to the doctor, or never
try and get prescriptions or never you never try to
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take care of yourself.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
It's just I'm not like you that immediately takes pills
and medicaid.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
You love medicine, perfect medication and prescriptions. You love that.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
I do. Oh, perfect example. She gets on this kick
and listen. We're excited. We have our big consult today
with Gary Brekka, and I wonder if we can get
them on the podcast. At some point we should bring
that up. He'd be great to have on the podcast. Anyways,
we have a big consultation to day roslind is now
all into I need to drink hydrogen water. I need
to drink hydrogen water. Spends three hundred dollars on a thermos.
(02:21):
I gotta buy this water. I'm like, kind of like,
and I finally go, you know what, I'll buy the water.
But I need to ask some questions to this company.
So I call them, I get the lay of the
land on what you do with hydrogen water. Minimum of
three of these thermis is a day to feel any
kind of an impact. She can barely finish one thermos,
so she basically bought a three hundred dollars bottle a
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thermis for three hundred dollars that you are not using properly.
But yeah, we'll still complain about all the issues that
she's dealing with and try to fix them, but only
fixes them halfway. Got it?
Speaker 2 (02:55):
My job?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
You need to improve upon taking safety. Sure, it's a
great You need to improve upon taking care of yourself. Okay, anyway,
you can't just complain about what is. So we have
Valentines this week. We I'm working though, so you know
we're not going to be celebrating on Valentine's Day?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
So what are you going to do that is extra crispy,
extra special?
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Says? I have I ever failed on Valentini to be ado?
I've always been pretty good on Valentine's? Are you getting
me this year?
Speaker 2 (03:27):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Maybe you don't know, happy happy socks. Let me ask you,
what do you do for me? Last Valentine Last?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
I think I bit you flowers? I think, I wow,
that is so romantic. Gone. Last Valentine's you were in
Puerto Rico. You were basically not even with your husband.
But we're gonna well, you know, we don't always have to.
I don't think people need to stress on the day, right,
you know, it's funny my makeup art is that on
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the rookie Judy, who we all love, She says to
her and her her husband, they don't celebrate any of
these holidays. They just because he believes in just being
that way all the time. Are they that way all?
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:06):
She says, he buys her gifts all the time, each
other with I believe it. They don't just make kid
dosn't like the singular day celebration that there's so much
importance on one day and then the rest of the
year falls to the crap. You got to really put
in the work all year long, so then it's just
another day. But it's a fun day. I mean, do it,
you do it. I know.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Valentine's is about friendship and love. It doesn't have to
be like a couple, like a marriage that was situation.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
But let me ask you something Gallentine's Day.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Marriage has evolved and most people haven't noticed what people
want in marriage today. In the past, marriage was for
survival and to.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Meet basic needs.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Today people want actual partnership. They want someone who's immortally
engaged and supportive, not someone they have to parent. They
want someone who knows how to show up, how to
listen to, someone with maturity to solve a proproblems two together.
Some people wake up and realize they're doing everything alone.
(05:05):
They live with someone, but that person is not a
partner on their team. Divorce becomes this show when it's
clear the person has no interest in evolution, communication or
healing the trauma that's causing issues. As marriage evolves, people
want different things. They want an emotional connection and people
didn't require that. People didn't require in the past. We
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have to start talking about it.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
And the first time I'm talking about it because I
didn't even know she was going to do this.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
No, because I just read this this morning from Chess Hols.
How do you say, Louis House. I'm sorry, Lewis. We
love Louise Lewis House. He's a life coach. He's just
has an incredible podcast. But anyways, he posted this and
I was like, I wonder, you know what, Yeah, I
think marriage has evolved like when you When I think
about my parents and what marriage meant for them, they're
(05:56):
in their eighties, seven together, sixty plus years. It is
so different from the way we are wired and the
way our kids are wired when it comes to marriage.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
That makes perfect sense. I mean everything's always evolving, the
way that kids are being raised nowadays, the way that,
like you said, relationships have evolved, the way that you're
treating your spouse, your partner, what you're looking for in
a spouse and partner. I mean, so much in society
has evolved that I think, Yeah, the way of thinking
about a partnership is totally different.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
But you believe before in the past, I mean when
our parents got married, it was more about basic needs,
about somebody taking care of you and providing for you.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Well, I think it was a combination still of things
like now. I mean people still have those relationships for sure,
where someone is the caregiver at home and someone is
providing for the family. That's still a standard practice.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
But actually the sun of practice was men is the
one providing. Women raise their children, they say home. I
think nowadays women their menstality is completely different. They want
to be independent, they want to be so sufficient. Women
their majority, they're they're changing their ways even culturally. All
the countries where women are completely submitted to men, they're
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actually finally raising up and talking out loud and actually
opening a conversation about you know what, we also want
one to be considered as an equal m M. I
think this is a movement that is actually catching some
some fire in all these different countries.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
I would agree. But I think it's not quite just
blanket that women are just doing this. I think there are,
it's just mixed. Now. I think you have women that
are actually yeah in the workforce and men staying at
home taking care of the family. And I think you
have the traditional way as well of what what was
considered traditional. What is your way? Well, my way is
My wife is never going to be the one that
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just stays home and does the family because she wants
to work, work, work, work, work, She wants to work
all the time.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
But what are you want? What would make you happy?
Speaker 1 (08:03):
No? I like the balance. I like the balance of
being at home. I love being at home with the kids,
but I also love working, So I like the balance.
Like if we can, if you can do both, I
think it's a win win. And you like to work,
work work.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
That explains why guys Eric hates Wanna fly. He supports
me because he supports my career, but he hates it.
And then Eric has this saying that if I'm home, right,
I'm home, Like he cannot see me just sitting down
doing nothing. If I'm home, ras, can you get this?
He could be next to the refrigerator and I'm in
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the proximity of the refrigerator, and can.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
You do my favorite?
Speaker 3 (08:46):
Can you give me some cheese? I mean, like, dude,
you're right there. It's just to see me active and
doing something. It's almost like true, it is funny. And
what about to be Like I have become a dishwasher.
All I do is do dishes when I'm home I'm
not working and I'm home for a period of time.
All I do is get up, deal with the dishes,
the dishes.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Kill the dishes.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
I finished.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
No face is this lady. Tell me if I'm the
only one going through this experience. So he's dealing with
the kids, I am doing the dishes. I leave everything clean,
everything is put away right before, right before I turn
around to just do something else, clank, something basically just
gets into the sink again. No one more thing. I'm
(09:31):
going Eric, You just saw me finishes the entire kitchen.
Why do you have to wait until now to just
add one?
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Because you are OCD compulsive when it comes to cleaning
the sink, cleaning the dishes. Here's the problem. Here's the problem.
And I say this to you all the time. We
wake up in the morning. It's chaos everywhere. I don't
care how we try to. I don't care if we
get up early. The a lot. Well, first of all,
she never gets up, brother, I'm the first one up
every single time. I usually do most of the prep.
She comes out with at least another hour of sleep,
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and she.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
Says, no, I.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Running and I'm like, been up for an hour feeding
the dogs, because somebody has to take to get all
this stuff done. So she gets like, I'm not arrested
now in an extra hour sleep, and I'm doing all
the feeding the dogs, I'm making this is what I
was working early. So then cut to we're scrambling. I
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don't care how I get up. We're always running like
I don't know what happens. We're scrambling, We're getting things done.
I'm making lunches, I'm getting breakfast done for both kids.
And she feels the need to start doing dishes in
the middle of it all.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
I cannot see ras.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
I say to her all the time, just wait, help
me get the kids out of the house when we leave,
and you are whole by yourself, then do the dishes.
But instead you like to do the dishes mid task.
And I'm still making lunches, helping them get they're done,
and I leave the kidschen pristee. That's why more items
(11:06):
keep falling into the sink, because you do it mid
because you're anyways, just help with the stuff. She doesn't
like to help with this ros. The dishes don't need
to be done right this second. Just help me get
the kids ready for school, then do the dishes.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Okay, anyways, that'll be Valentine's My love.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
You're amazing.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Thank you for all you do for your family. Thank
you for getting.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
About six in the morning, thank you for feeding the dogs,
thank you for preparing.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
Would you ever do this? This is something for the
opposite of Valentine's Day, So yeah, that's what I'm talking about.
This is all for charity, which I think is actually
pretty brilliant. So the San Antonio Zoo once again, let
you name a cockroach after your ex and then have
it fed to an animal, and it's all the name
of charity.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
It is brilliant.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
Would you ever do that? Of course it's funny. Yeah,
I mean I think it's I don't know if I
cared after my ex. I just like they see the cockroach.
It'd be fun to just feed the animals. But you
like the idea of going like bye, Joe, you've been
chomped on. You like that idea, like you feel good
about yourself going bye Santiago.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
I think it's we'll get a kick out of it,
and it's for charity. Listen, you're doing it for a
good cause. You know, you're healing your heart, You're healing
your mind, and you're doing it for a good cause.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
What about this one? An animal shelters offering to Newter
your X for Valentine's Day. Basically, you get your dog
and you chop off the balls, and the balls are
basically the X. Like you're like, bye bye, Joe, that's funny,
Snipper them you do that too? Are you the godmother?
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Savage?
Speaker 1 (12:48):
You godmother? Just chopping out the excess balls and feeding
them to animals and stuff?
Speaker 3 (12:55):
Guys, we saw the cocaine, We saw Sophia's and Grisel
Leverlanco and the woman. We went back to watch Cocaine Cowboys,
which is a documentary from many, many many years ago
that first talked about Lucie Leblanco, and it was interesting
to compare both things. And it was interesting to to
realize even though we know this story really well, even
before Sophia, I know the story, we know the story
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really well, that she was out of her mind.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Pretty vicious. It's fascinating how the world, you know, the
world can be transformed, not just the world, but like
let's say, cities and stuff can be changed and built
upon a corrupt organization. Whatever it might be right, whether
it's mafia, whether it's narcos, you know, drugs. Are talking
about the rise of Miami, the difference in Miami, how
much it's changed over the years, and it was basically
(13:45):
built on its crazy. Yeah, it's pretty. It's fascinating.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
This one is a good one.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Guys.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
So this mom, she's an only fans and she has
how do you call decor de call the call.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
Decal decl decal on her car? De call d cow.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
I have a freaking mouthpiece?
Speaker 4 (14:10):
Is so?
Speaker 2 (14:11):
I have a massive retainer that I can't speak.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
Look about the zoo the call?
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Say it?
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Then you say it decal deca dec ow ow is
it an access not the mouthpiece? That's the accent. Cow.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
I don't care. I don't care when I'm lying on a.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Freaking this chick. This chick has a decal on her
car that she's going to and from picking up her
kids from school advertising her only fans page, which I
think is insane.
Speaker 2 (14:50):
She's saying, I'm not breaking the law. She's correct.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Well, the school finally said you can't drop off kids
anymore with the decal on your car. Listen, I'm not
mad at that's a private.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
Christian school where the kids are enrolled, I will let
her park on their property because her car has only.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
I have to agree with the school. That's the side
I'm taking. Why because you don't need to be advertising
your only fans account out of school. What about all
the kids that could see that, you know, kids that
are probably like you know, let's say it's high school
kids that can go on there and with their own
money join only fans to check out some other kids
mom on OnlyFans. I think it's terrible, even though her
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intention is probably not.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
She says that she doesn't put any explicit there's no
nudity does explicit content, but.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
Only Fans is known for a certain thing, right, And
I'm not saying she's for years, she's not marketing or
advertising to kids per se like that's not her probably
her mo. But she's still going to and from a
school with a big d gal in her car basically saying,
come check out my only fans. I don't know. That's
crazy if someone feels that compeled just like you.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
She has a job just like you.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
Okay, I don't know. I'm on the side of the school.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
Actually her kids, so allowing them to go to.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
Privates that are going by at the private school and
they're just like, huh, what's that? Scan the code? Check
out the only fans. The whys are gonna be cool
with that.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
The same way that a hard girl that is the
celebrity walks in the school and the other dad goes,
I want to check her Instagram. Let me see if
she has a kicktock account, she's if she's on Facebook
to go.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
On to only fans. So it's you're looking to get
into the same I get you, but I don't think
it's necessary. I think it's a ballsy move, but I
don't think she should have it on her car picking
up kids, her kids from school. That is too fun.
I'm gonna side with the school and that one you
don't agree with the school.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
I don't know how I feel.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
I wonder.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Let me see, let me let me transport myself. I'm
driving TOBL to.
Speaker 3 (16:47):
School and there's this transport yourself sticker and she gets
out of the car with her kids, and I'm looking
at the only fans.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
And I think I start laughing. I don't know, I
don't know how I feels.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
I just don't think it should happen. I disagree with you,
Why because I don't think it's I don't think you
should listen. Let's talk about the Grammys. Did you did
you watch the Grammys?
Speaker 3 (17:11):
No?
Speaker 1 (17:12):
I didn't either. I didn't watch any awards shows this year.
But here's what I will say. I saw some aftermath
of the Grammys, and there are some great things that happen.
And I always like the musical performances. But what I
don't like. I'm getting so tired of everybody complaining when
somebody else doesn't win. I think it's crazy. Why do
people have to complain like it's not They're lively, these artists,
(17:34):
livelihoods are are intact, they're doing well. Why do you
have to take away somebody else's moment because you think
somebody else should have won an award? And why do
people have to get so bent out of shape? It's like, man,
you all live in your best life. Why does this
award matter so much? And I'm not saying that you
(17:54):
don't deserve awards like everybody, but everybody it's so subjective.
Everybody deserves the hard work that they put in. There's
so many arts that don't get nominated. Somebody artists that
do get nominated just getting nominated as a win. Why
do people complain so much? And why do celebrities always
feel compelled to use award shows as a platform to
be political or to like preach to the world. Why
(18:16):
would you do that? Please, if you ever get on
the stage.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
Like awareness, I know, but don't You don't have to.
And sometimes you're a celebrity with a purpose.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
But then go on your Instagram, make that your Instagram.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
It's not the same to actually go to a big,
massive award show that has been viewed by millions of
people and actually take a stent.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
But it's entertainment. People are there to watch something and escape.
They want to watch music, they want to see their
favorite actors or musicians, and they just want to enjoy
a show. They don't want to be preached to. It
doesn't bother you, it bothers me. I don't know why
celebrities feel so compelled to preach all the time, Like,
just because you're a celebrity doesn't mean you have to
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try so hard to persuade other people to see your
point of view. A lot of people to have their
own points of view? Why are you so quiet with
this topic and bothers me?
Speaker 2 (19:10):
What does it bother you? That I'm quiet, I'm.
Speaker 1 (19:13):
I know it's going to be in your book. That's fine.
Use your book as your platform. By the way, that
makes sense. So if you're putting out a book, use
that as your platform.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
And that will bother you too. Her book she has.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
If it's in your book, it's in your book, it's
your own, that's your that's you're so boxed, So.
Speaker 3 (19:32):
You're bothered that. J C said, why the heck is
Taylor Swift winning Best Album of the Year for the
fourth or fifth time when my wife has been the most,
she has won.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
The most Grammy is a rock star.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
She has so many Grammys.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
But do you think that one Grammy is going to
change the life or the livelihood or the career of
that artist? Zero star?
Speaker 3 (19:59):
She an artist that means everything is the most important one.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
They are all capitalizing in a big way on their
success and on these awards and all this notoriety and
claim they've already received, Like you don't need to have everything.
Speaker 2 (20:16):
So do you think that?
Speaker 1 (20:17):
And why is it wrong if she if somebody else
gets it, who also very well could deserve it.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Okay, what do you think that is? What is speaking?
Speaker 3 (20:26):
What was speaking when he was speaking, what what what.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
Was actually speaking while jay Z was speaking?
Speaker 1 (20:33):
What was actually the word was a three letter while
jay Z was speaking, it's a three letter word. God
out all that's four letters. Ego ego maybe, but look
(20:55):
it's so ego then so many celebrities need to put
their ego aside, like God.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
But if you're a celebrity, you feed your ego on
a daily basis. But if you're in this business, not
just the entertainment business, any creative business, it.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
Is that's what That's what social media is in general. Now,
you don't have to be an entertainment you don't have
to be a celebrity social media. Everybody that goes on
social media loves the likes, loves the comments.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
What do you think it is? An ego? Talk to
me about that word. What does it mean to you?
Speaker 1 (21:26):
Well, an ego can be healthy as well, Like you
need to have confidence and believe in who you are
and the things that you do. And it's okay to
have a healthy ego. But I don't think you need
to try to rip apart somebody else's claim to feed
your own ego. I don't think that is or somebody else.
I don't think it's the right thing to do. Now,
(21:47):
I'm not just talking about jay Z in general.
Speaker 3 (21:49):
So if you ever receive an award, let's say that
you're nominated for an Emmy or a Golden Globe, what
is going.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
To be your speech?
Speaker 1 (21:59):
I don't know. I don't ever. I'm not thinking. I
never think about that think about it. I don't think
about that next topic.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
And you didn't thank me.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
Of course, I'm gonna thank you. What if you forget
about me? I hope your nose is not bleeding anymore.
I love you anymore. Oh well, on that note, listen,
it's all good, jay Z. You're crushing it, your wife's
crushing it. You guys are going to be just fine
with the Grammy.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
At some point, everybody was talking about why why was
she hiding? She had this massive cowboy hat and it
was like all the way down, so she was very deceiving,
like like you couldn't see her expression. She basically even
when he was doing the speech. When he was giving
the speech, she's kind of like a statue.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
That's true.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
I don't know, why do we talking about that. I
don't want to talk about that.
Speaker 2 (22:51):
You don't want to talk about But that makes you uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
No, no, what she's hiding. I have no idea.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Why is she hiding?
Speaker 1 (22:56):
I have no idea. I have no idea. All right,
listen everyone, we appreciate you. I gotta go film the rookie.
Now I'm gonna have to jump off this podcast. But
it's been a lot of fun times. Everybody, we appreciate you.
And again we say this all the time. But if
you have something you want to talk to us about,
send us d ms at he said AA d Ho
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on Instagram or email us at ericanros at iHeart dot com.
Till next time, love you, I love you. Thanks for listening.
Don't forget to write us a review and tell us
what you think.
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Speaker 1 (23:37):
See you next time. Bye,
This is he said a YADIHO with Eric Winter and
Rodalind Fantaz next episode of he said, how you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
I am good?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
How are you? I'm doing okay? You, I know, you
sound very stuffy. You're having a little bit of a
panic attack today that you're bleeding through your nose in
the world is falling apart.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Guys, have you ever had a nose bleed? That is
so bad?
Speaker 3 (00:25):
I'm back to my list. Hi TMJ hi device back
in my mouth. So I am sorry again if I
sound funky.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
So yeah, my husband this is.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
This is going to be interesting, stuffy and with a lisp.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
Yeah, my husband is completely dismissing me blowing my nose.
I've been dealing with a sinus infection. It's been bananas.
I have never had one like this in my life.
It's been now a whole week of not being able
to breathe a night is pretty crazy. I'm taking no medications.
I'm going I'm going cold turkey. And the funny thing
is that I have been blowing my nose twenty thirty
(01:00):
forty times. It keeps bleeding, and it keeps He keeps saying,
it's okay, don't worry.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
About it.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
I'm bringing sexy back. Why are you doing that? Because
I'm it's just your it's very pretty tops. It's just
raw ra. You think the world is falling apart every
time something happens. It's you know, I get it, it's
your nose is raw. But I said, if it concerned,
you call the doctor. Does she call the doctor? Never?
(01:27):
What is he going to do?
Speaker 2 (01:28):
What is going to say?
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Why does it give you medication if you're that concerned
about it. But I don't doubt for a second that
she doesn't feel well or something's not right. But what
she tends to do is just tell me about it
repeatedly and then never go to the doctor, or never
try and get prescriptions or never you never try to
(01:51):
take care of yourself.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
It's just I'm not like you that immediately takes pills
and medicaid.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
You love medicine, perfect medication and prescriptions. You love that.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
I do. Oh, perfect example. She gets on this kick
and listen. We're excited. We have our big consult today
with Gary Brekka, and I wonder if we can get
them on the podcast. At some point we should bring
that up. He'd be great to have on the podcast. Anyways,
we have a big consultation to day roslind is now
all into I need to drink hydrogen water. I need
to drink hydrogen water. Spends three hundred dollars on a thermos.
(02:21):
I gotta buy this water. I'm like, kind of like,
and I finally go, you know what, I'll buy the water.
But I need to ask some questions to this company.
So I call them, I get the lay of the
land on what you do with hydrogen water. Minimum of
three of these thermis is a day to feel any
kind of an impact. She can barely finish one thermos,
so she basically bought a three hundred dollars bottle a
(02:44):
thermis for three hundred dollars that you are not using properly.
But yeah, we'll still complain about all the issues that
she's dealing with and try to fix them, but only
fixes them halfway. Got it?
Speaker 2 (02:55):
My job?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
You need to improve upon taking safety. Sure, it's a
great You need to improve upon taking care of yourself. Okay, anyway,
you can't just complain about what is. So we have
Valentines this week. We I'm working though, so you know
we're not going to be celebrating on Valentine's Day?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
So what are you going to do that is extra crispy,
extra special?
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Says? I have I ever failed on Valentini to be ado?
I've always been pretty good on Valentine's? Are you getting
me this year?
Speaker 2 (03:27):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Maybe you don't know, happy happy socks. Let me ask you,
what do you do for me? Last Valentine Last?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
I think I bit you flowers? I think, I wow,
that is so romantic. Gone. Last Valentine's you were in
Puerto Rico. You were basically not even with your husband.
But we're gonna well, you know, we don't always have to.
I don't think people need to stress on the day, right,
you know, it's funny my makeup art is that on
(03:54):
the rookie Judy, who we all love, She says to
her and her her husband, they don't celebrate any of
these holidays. They just because he believes in just being
that way all the time. Are they that way all?
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:06):
She says, he buys her gifts all the time, each
other with I believe it. They don't just make kid
dosn't like the singular day celebration that there's so much
importance on one day and then the rest of the
year falls to the crap. You got to really put
in the work all year long, so then it's just
another day. But it's a fun day. I mean, do it,
you do it. I know.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Valentine's is about friendship and love. It doesn't have to
be like a couple, like a marriage that was situation.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
But let me ask you something Gallentine's Day.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Marriage has evolved and most people haven't noticed what people
want in marriage today. In the past, marriage was for
survival and to.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Meet basic needs.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Today people want actual partnership. They want someone who's immortally
engaged and supportive, not someone they have to parent. They
want someone who knows how to show up, how to
listen to, someone with maturity to solve a proproblems two together.
Some people wake up and realize they're doing everything alone.
(05:05):
They live with someone, but that person is not a
partner on their team. Divorce becomes this show when it's
clear the person has no interest in evolution, communication or
healing the trauma that's causing issues. As marriage evolves, people
want different things. They want an emotional connection and people
didn't require that. People didn't require in the past. We
(05:27):
have to start talking about it.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
And the first time I'm talking about it because I
didn't even know she was going to do this.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
No, because I just read this this morning from Chess Hols.
How do you say, Louis House. I'm sorry, Lewis. We
love Louise Lewis House. He's a life coach. He's just
has an incredible podcast. But anyways, he posted this and
I was like, I wonder, you know what, Yeah, I
think marriage has evolved like when you When I think
about my parents and what marriage meant for them, they're
(05:56):
in their eighties, seven together, sixty plus years. It is
so different from the way we are wired and the
way our kids are wired when it comes to marriage.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
That makes perfect sense. I mean everything's always evolving, the
way that kids are being raised nowadays, the way that,
like you said, relationships have evolved, the way that you're
treating your spouse, your partner, what you're looking for in
a spouse and partner. I mean, so much in society
has evolved that I think, Yeah, the way of thinking
about a partnership is totally different.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
But you believe before in the past, I mean when
our parents got married, it was more about basic needs,
about somebody taking care of you and providing for you.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Well, I think it was a combination still of things
like now. I mean people still have those relationships for sure,
where someone is the caregiver at home and someone is
providing for the family. That's still a standard practice.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
But actually the sun of practice was men is the
one providing. Women raise their children, they say home. I
think nowadays women their menstality is completely different. They want
to be independent, they want to be so sufficient. Women
their majority, they're they're changing their ways even culturally. All
the countries where women are completely submitted to men, they're
(07:09):
actually finally raising up and talking out loud and actually
opening a conversation about you know what, we also want
one to be considered as an equal m M. I
think this is a movement that is actually catching some
some fire in all these different countries.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
I would agree. But I think it's not quite just
blanket that women are just doing this. I think there are,
it's just mixed. Now. I think you have women that
are actually yeah in the workforce and men staying at
home taking care of the family. And I think you
have the traditional way as well of what what was
considered traditional. What is your way? Well, my way is
My wife is never going to be the one that
(07:50):
just stays home and does the family because she wants
to work, work, work, work, work, She wants to work
all the time.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
But what are you want? What would make you happy?
Speaker 1 (08:03):
No? I like the balance. I like the balance of
being at home. I love being at home with the kids,
but I also love working, So I like the balance.
Like if we can, if you can do both, I
think it's a win win. And you like to work,
work work.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
That explains why guys Eric hates Wanna fly. He supports
me because he supports my career, but he hates it.
And then Eric has this saying that if I'm home, right,
I'm home, Like he cannot see me just sitting down
doing nothing. If I'm home, ras, can you get this?
He could be next to the refrigerator and I'm in
(08:43):
the proximity of the refrigerator, and can.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
You do my favorite?
Speaker 3 (08:46):
Can you give me some cheese? I mean, like, dude,
you're right there. It's just to see me active and
doing something. It's almost like true, it is funny. And
what about to be Like I have become a dishwasher.
All I do is do dishes when I'm home I'm
not working and I'm home for a period of time.
All I do is get up, deal with the dishes,
the dishes.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Kill the dishes.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
I finished.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
No face is this lady. Tell me if I'm the
only one going through this experience. So he's dealing with
the kids, I am doing the dishes. I leave everything clean,
everything is put away right before, right before I turn
around to just do something else, clank, something basically just
gets into the sink again. No one more thing. I'm
(09:31):
going Eric, You just saw me finishes the entire kitchen.
Why do you have to wait until now to just
add one?
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Because you are OCD compulsive when it comes to cleaning
the sink, cleaning the dishes. Here's the problem. Here's the problem.
And I say this to you all the time. We
wake up in the morning. It's chaos everywhere. I don't
care how we try to. I don't care if we
get up early. The a lot. Well, first of all,
she never gets up, brother, I'm the first one up
every single time. I usually do most of the prep.
She comes out with at least another hour of sleep,
(09:58):
and she.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
Says, no, I.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Running and I'm like, been up for an hour feeding
the dogs, because somebody has to take to get all
this stuff done. So she gets like, I'm not arrested
now in an extra hour sleep, and I'm doing all
the feeding the dogs, I'm making this is what I
was working early. So then cut to we're scrambling. I
(10:27):
don't care how I get up. We're always running like
I don't know what happens. We're scrambling, We're getting things done.
I'm making lunches, I'm getting breakfast done for both kids.
And she feels the need to start doing dishes in
the middle of it all.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
I cannot see ras.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
I say to her all the time, just wait, help
me get the kids out of the house when we leave,
and you are whole by yourself, then do the dishes.
But instead you like to do the dishes mid task.
And I'm still making lunches, helping them get they're done,
and I leave the kidschen pristee. That's why more items
(11:06):
keep falling into the sink, because you do it mid
because you're anyways, just help with the stuff. She doesn't
like to help with this ros. The dishes don't need
to be done right this second. Just help me get
the kids ready for school, then do the dishes.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Okay, anyways, that'll be Valentine's My love.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
You're amazing.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Thank you for all you do for your family. Thank
you for getting.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
About six in the morning, thank you for feeding the dogs,
thank you for preparing.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
Would you ever do this? This is something for the
opposite of Valentine's Day, So yeah, that's what I'm talking about.
This is all for charity, which I think is actually
pretty brilliant. So the San Antonio Zoo once again, let
you name a cockroach after your ex and then have
it fed to an animal, and it's all the name
of charity.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
It is brilliant.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
Would you ever do that? Of course it's funny. Yeah,
I mean I think it's I don't know if I
cared after my ex. I just like they see the cockroach.
It'd be fun to just feed the animals. But you
like the idea of going like bye, Joe, you've been
chomped on. You like that idea, like you feel good
about yourself going bye Santiago.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
I think it's we'll get a kick out of it,
and it's for charity. Listen, you're doing it for a
good cause. You know, you're healing your heart, You're healing
your mind, and you're doing it for a good cause.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
What about this one? An animal shelters offering to Newter
your X for Valentine's Day. Basically, you get your dog
and you chop off the balls, and the balls are
basically the X. Like you're like, bye bye, Joe, that's funny,
Snipper them you do that too? Are you the godmother?
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Savage?
Speaker 1 (12:48):
You godmother? Just chopping out the excess balls and feeding
them to animals and stuff?
Speaker 3 (12:55):
Guys, we saw the cocaine, We saw Sophia's and Grisel
Leverlanco and the woman. We went back to watch Cocaine Cowboys,
which is a documentary from many, many many years ago
that first talked about Lucie Leblanco, and it was interesting
to compare both things. And it was interesting to to
realize even though we know this story really well, even
before Sophia, I know the story, we know the story
(13:17):
really well, that she was out of her mind.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Pretty vicious. It's fascinating how the world, you know, the
world can be transformed, not just the world, but like
let's say, cities and stuff can be changed and built
upon a corrupt organization. Whatever it might be right, whether
it's mafia, whether it's narcos, you know, drugs. Are talking
about the rise of Miami, the difference in Miami, how
much it's changed over the years, and it was basically
(13:45):
built on its crazy. Yeah, it's pretty. It's fascinating.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
This one is a good one.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Guys.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
So this mom, she's an only fans and she has
how do you call decor de call the call.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
Decal decl decal on her car? De call d cow.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
I have a freaking mouthpiece?
Speaker 4 (14:10):
Is so?
Speaker 2 (14:11):
I have a massive retainer that I can't speak.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
Look about the zoo the call?
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Say it?
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Then you say it decal deca dec ow ow is
it an access not the mouthpiece? That's the accent. Cow.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
I don't care. I don't care when I'm lying on a.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Freaking this chick. This chick has a decal on her
car that she's going to and from picking up her
kids from school advertising her only fans page, which I
think is insane.
Speaker 2 (14:50):
She's saying, I'm not breaking the law. She's correct.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Well, the school finally said you can't drop off kids
anymore with the decal on your car. Listen, I'm not
mad at that's a private.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
Christian school where the kids are enrolled, I will let
her park on their property because her car has only.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
I have to agree with the school. That's the side
I'm taking. Why because you don't need to be advertising
your only fans account out of school. What about all
the kids that could see that, you know, kids that
are probably like you know, let's say it's high school
kids that can go on there and with their own
money join only fans to check out some other kids
mom on OnlyFans. I think it's terrible, even though her
(15:27):
intention is probably not.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
She says that she doesn't put any explicit there's no
nudity does explicit content, but.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
Only Fans is known for a certain thing, right, And
I'm not saying she's for years, she's not marketing or
advertising to kids per se like that's not her probably
her mo. But she's still going to and from a
school with a big d gal in her car basically saying,
come check out my only fans. I don't know. That's
crazy if someone feels that compeled just like you.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
She has a job just like you.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
Okay, I don't know. I'm on the side of the school.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
Actually her kids, so allowing them to go to.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
Privates that are going by at the private school and
they're just like, huh, what's that? Scan the code? Check
out the only fans. The whys are gonna be cool
with that.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
The same way that a hard girl that is the
celebrity walks in the school and the other dad goes,
I want to check her Instagram. Let me see if
she has a kicktock account, she's if she's on Facebook
to go.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
On to only fans. So it's you're looking to get
into the same I get you, but I don't think
it's necessary. I think it's a ballsy move, but I
don't think she should have it on her car picking
up kids, her kids from school. That is too fun.
I'm gonna side with the school and that one you
don't agree with the school.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
I don't know how I feel.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
I wonder.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Let me see, let me let me transport myself. I'm
driving TOBL to.
Speaker 3 (16:47):
School and there's this transport yourself sticker and she gets
out of the car with her kids, and I'm looking
at the only fans.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
And I think I start laughing. I don't know, I
don't know how I feels.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
I just don't think it should happen. I disagree with you,
Why because I don't think it's I don't think you
should listen. Let's talk about the Grammys. Did you did
you watch the Grammys?
Speaker 3 (17:11):
No?
Speaker 1 (17:12):
I didn't either. I didn't watch any awards shows this year.
But here's what I will say. I saw some aftermath
of the Grammys, and there are some great things that happen.
And I always like the musical performances. But what I
don't like. I'm getting so tired of everybody complaining when
somebody else doesn't win. I think it's crazy. Why do
people have to complain like it's not They're lively, these artists,
(17:34):
livelihoods are are intact, they're doing well. Why do you
have to take away somebody else's moment because you think
somebody else should have won an award? And why do
people have to get so bent out of shape? It's like, man,
you all live in your best life. Why does this
award matter so much? And I'm not saying that you
(17:54):
don't deserve awards like everybody, but everybody it's so subjective.
Everybody deserves the hard work that they put in. There's
so many arts that don't get nominated. Somebody artists that
do get nominated just getting nominated as a win. Why
do people complain so much? And why do celebrities always
feel compelled to use award shows as a platform to
be political or to like preach to the world. Why
(18:16):
would you do that? Please, if you ever get on
the stage.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
Like awareness, I know, but don't You don't have to.
And sometimes you're a celebrity with a purpose.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
But then go on your Instagram, make that your Instagram.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
It's not the same to actually go to a big,
massive award show that has been viewed by millions of
people and actually take a stent.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
But it's entertainment. People are there to watch something and escape.
They want to watch music, they want to see their
favorite actors or musicians, and they just want to enjoy
a show. They don't want to be preached to. It
doesn't bother you, it bothers me. I don't know why
celebrities feel so compelled to preach all the time, Like,
just because you're a celebrity doesn't mean you have to
(18:57):
try so hard to persuade other people to see your
point of view. A lot of people to have their
own points of view? Why are you so quiet with
this topic and bothers me?
Speaker 2 (19:10):
What does it bother you? That I'm quiet, I'm.
Speaker 1 (19:13):
I know it's going to be in your book. That's fine.
Use your book as your platform. By the way, that
makes sense. So if you're putting out a book, use
that as your platform.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
And that will bother you too. Her book she has.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
If it's in your book, it's in your book, it's
your own, that's your that's you're so boxed, So.
Speaker 3 (19:32):
You're bothered that. J C said, why the heck is
Taylor Swift winning Best Album of the Year for the
fourth or fifth time when my wife has been the most,
she has won.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
The most Grammy is a rock star.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
She has so many Grammys.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
But do you think that one Grammy is going to
change the life or the livelihood or the career of
that artist? Zero star?
Speaker 3 (19:59):
She an artist that means everything is the most important one.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
They are all capitalizing in a big way on their
success and on these awards and all this notoriety and
claim they've already received, Like you don't need to have everything.
Speaker 2 (20:16):
So do you think that?
Speaker 1 (20:17):
And why is it wrong if she if somebody else
gets it, who also very well could deserve it.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Okay, what do you think that is? What is speaking?
Speaker 3 (20:26):
What was speaking when he was speaking, what what what.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
Was actually speaking while jay Z was speaking?
Speaker 1 (20:33):
What was actually the word was a three letter while
jay Z was speaking, it's a three letter word. God
out all that's four letters. Ego ego maybe, but look
(20:55):
it's so ego then so many celebrities need to put
their ego aside, like God.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
But if you're a celebrity, you feed your ego on
a daily basis. But if you're in this business, not
just the entertainment business, any creative business, it.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
Is that's what That's what social media is in general. Now,
you don't have to be an entertainment you don't have
to be a celebrity social media. Everybody that goes on
social media loves the likes, loves the comments.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
What do you think it is? An ego? Talk to
me about that word. What does it mean to you?
Speaker 1 (21:26):
Well, an ego can be healthy as well, Like you
need to have confidence and believe in who you are
and the things that you do. And it's okay to
have a healthy ego. But I don't think you need
to try to rip apart somebody else's claim to feed
your own ego. I don't think that is or somebody else.
I don't think it's the right thing to do. Now,
(21:47):
I'm not just talking about jay Z in general.
Speaker 3 (21:49):
So if you ever receive an award, let's say that
you're nominated for an Emmy or a Golden Globe, what
is going.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
To be your speech?
Speaker 1 (21:59):
I don't know. I don't ever. I'm not thinking. I
never think about that think about it. I don't think
about that next topic.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
And you didn't thank me.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
Of course, I'm gonna thank you. What if you forget
about me? I hope your nose is not bleeding anymore.
I love you anymore. Oh well, on that note, listen,
it's all good, jay Z. You're crushing it, your wife's
crushing it. You guys are going to be just fine
with the Grammy.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
At some point, everybody was talking about why why was
she hiding? She had this massive cowboy hat and it
was like all the way down, so she was very deceiving,
like like you couldn't see her expression. She basically even
when he was doing the speech. When he was giving
the speech, she's kind of like a statue.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
That's true.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
I don't know, why do we talking about that. I
don't want to talk about that.
Speaker 2 (22:51):
You don't want to talk about But that makes you uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
No, no, what she's hiding. I have no idea.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Why is she hiding?
Speaker 1 (22:56):
I have no idea. I have no idea. All right,
listen everyone, we appreciate you. I gotta go film the rookie.
Now I'm gonna have to jump off this podcast. But
it's been a lot of fun times. Everybody, we appreciate you.
And again we say this all the time. But if
you have something you want to talk to us about,
send us d ms at he said AA d Ho
(23:17):
on Instagram or email us at ericanros at iHeart dot com.
Till next time, love you, I love you. Thanks for listening.
Don't forget to write us a review and tell us
what you think.
Speaker 4 (23:25):
If you want to follow us on Instagram, check us
out at, he said ajors At, email Eric and Ross
at iHeartRadio dot com. He said, AJAB is part of
iHeartRadio's Mike Will Do That podcast network.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
See you next time. Bye,
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