October 9, 2023 • 30 mins
From photoshoots to photoshop...Ros and Eric take picture day at school to the next level...yes, they were the only parents there, and yes Ros brought a lighting kit. Meanwhile, find out why Eric is all about that photoshop after a mom goes viral for removing a guest from her photographic memories!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is he said a yadiho with Eric Winter and
Rosalind fantaz.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Hello, what's happening? Uh? Your fluster as usual? What's going on? Business?
Just go go go.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Yeah, just dealing with a lot of texts and emails
and I have a lot of stuff to do.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
But I'm excited to be He still flustered with from
micromanaging Dylan school pictures this morning. Oh guys, anyways, welcome
here Sea.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Yeah, the listeners, We are so happy to be here
for another episode where Eric is going to bring up
how my kids can't start.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
I would never bring that up. I'm not saying that.
I was just joking about. You forget we're having this conversation.
I said, Roger, you forget that. When you're a kid,
your parents being on campus can be good. But then
also if you're in their business constantly, then they get
embarrassed and they're just like god, Mom, they don't know,
stop he's too much. Now that's all kids.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
What happened to my sweet little boy? That was, Oh
my god, you do no wrong.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Mom and dad. You're amazing.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
He's five years old. They took a school picture. I
didn't like it. They have a redo. So the reado
was today, so I made sure that I was.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
There were the only parents there for a reading picture.
That's not correct because I saw a lot of adults.
Those are teachers doing their teachers our staff. Yeah, book
and then we h.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
I brought my own lighting just forget please do it?
Speaker 3 (01:28):
You dare pull that lighting? Please don't pull that light out?
Oh what's that dealing? Would have had to probably melt
that any thing. I'm not saying, we're rong the picture.
The original picture came out really bad exactly. It was
just it was just bad lighting. It didn't make sense.
It was not not the right picture. And it was
lighting again today, I know. But at the end of
the day, it's still a school picture. People laugh about
(01:48):
how bad school pictures were, They make fun of them.
It's like it's not that big of a deal. But
to me, it's a memory that lasts a lifetime. So
you wanna you wanna was the last time you looked
at your kindergarten school picture? I look at them. I
was the last time you paid? Well, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
I have a kindergarten.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Exactly, so it doesn't last a lifetime.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
I have third fourth when It's fine.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
I have all those I understand. How often do you
look at them? It's no, it doesn't matter how often
you look at him is when you do. But my
point is I just wanted you to give him a
little forgiveness because you forget that kids get embarrassed. Mom
is literally going, no, Dyln, move this, move your hair
this way. No smile like this, No smile like this.
Do this. He's going, Mom, stop and put you in
(02:30):
a battloot. But it's did we live and we learn? Right?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
I was just trying to help.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Here's an interesting topic speaking about kids. This is a
little bit of a you know, side step clearly from
this conversation, but Mick Jagger says that he may not
leave his fortune to his kids. Legendary rocker who's been,
you know, obviously making millions and millions of dollars, has
now said that my children don't need five hundred million
dollars to live. Well, he's like, come on, you know they,
(02:58):
you know they, why don't you do some good with
that money. I'm sure he'll leave them something. Maybe he
has eight kids, is that what it is? I believe
eighty eight kids, So I'm sure he'll leave them something.
But what do you think five hundred million, it's a
great thing to donate a chunk of that to charity.
The kids obviously don't need, necessarily need five hundred million.
(03:18):
They could get away with a cool, you know, twenty million.
I'm sure to get started in life of his five
hundred million fortune, and they can build their own fortune
with that very easily. Some people obviously, well most people
obviously don't have a whole lot and have to make
millions on their own starting from scratch.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
If that's the case, Yeah, that's not their circumstance. I
know they come from a father that is very wealthy.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Bill Gates supposedly did the same thing, did not leave
his kids.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Sure the kids really, well.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
They live well, I'm sure, I'm sure they you know,
they have a leg up on helping in the listen
in their entrepreneurial endeavors. But this is what I think.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I think that, Yes, when you have that amount of money,
it's an incredible thing for you to give back to
the world and society and many families and people in need.
So yeah, I feel like at least half of it,
because it's so much.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Should go to charity.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
And I think this is something that he's going to do,
and I think I find that I find that to
be fabulous.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
But I also believe that you know that you.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Have children, it's an amazing thing when you can provide
for your kids as long as your kids are responsible. Now,
if you have children good point that they have all
kinds of issues and addictions, and you know they're going
to blow that money doing nonsense, then yeah, you have
an argument to be like, you know, you're not deserving
(04:47):
because I don't trust that you're going to do something
meaningful with what I'm giving you.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
For sure, if they're not responsible young adults, that would
be my biggest issue. Were not too far apart on this.
I think if I was ever fortunate to come into
a fortune like that, I think, uh, look at your money,
and if you want to help a society and help
different causes, you absolutely should do with your money what
(05:13):
you what you want. And I think if you've built
this future for you know your family, and you have
good responsible humans that you've raised, and they're now young
adults or full adults, whatever the case may be, and
they are living up to their potential, and they're going
to be responsible with that money. Then I think, yeah,
you should be great to leave them some kind of
a headstart that you didn't maybe have as a as
(05:33):
a young person coming up. I think there's nothing wrong
with that. I don't think so, But I wonder how
the kids feel. You imagine that conversation. I'm not going
to give you anything. You're on your own.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
He's going to give them some.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I don't believe for a second that he's going.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
To be like you, you deserve nothing.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
And but what about his grandchildren and things like that.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Of course they're all going to be said. I mean,
I think all kids there should be stipulation about if they,
you know, are growing up to do their part in
things and they're being there, they're good, responsible adults.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Your dad did it for Dylan and Sabella. They can't
touch the money, yeah, ontil they're like what thirty three
years old?
Speaker 3 (06:11):
On there, there's an age. But also like even I
forgot what it is, but even in our own living trust,
it's it's something that we, you know, lay out like
our kids have to grow up to be good humans.
They can't just have problems and they can't just tap
into those funds whenever they want and just do what
they want and blow it all on bad habits.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
You know, what about this mom that is pregnant with
her fourth child. She has three daughters that she loves dearly,
and she did a gender reveal with all the family
and friends and all that, and the reveal says, pooh pink,
it's another little girl. And she burst into tears, like
(06:48):
devastated because she's a what another girl? And of course
now people are saying, you know, you should be grateful.
What about all those moms that all those women that
would love to be mothers and can even get pregnant
and you have four and you're complaining about being another girl?
And do you have compassion for what she's feeling?
Speaker 3 (07:12):
This is what I do know. As soon as you
decide to put your private experiences on a public platform,
you're going to pay some kind of price. Your reaction
will be judged by everyone. Always always, Now listen, do
I think she has the right to be bummed out
if she was expecting a boy?
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Sure, I mean that's totally fine. I mean I don't
you know whatever, people are going to make a big
deal out of it. My point is people are going
to make a big deal of it because they feel
they're entitled to because you put it on a public
platform and your reaction is something that people can feel
strong enough to attack.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
But they shouldn't be entitled to anything.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
You put it on a public platforms social media.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
It doesn't mean they're entitled, or they have the rights,
or they should comment on something that clearly affects the
woman deeply.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
It doesn't matter what they should or shouldn't do. You
put it on a platform which is asking for opinions.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
I'm I'm sure she didn't anticipate that she was going
to react like that.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
As soon as it's public, people can make comments. That
means they're going to give opinions. So that's the pitfall
of social media. We've had this conversation so many times.
But do I think it's right? Nah, I don't think
it's a big of a deal. The ladies bummed out.
She had, you know, another girl. She thought the pregnancy
was so different this time. She was swore it was
a boy. But I think also, you know, maybe if
(08:34):
she deep down she had to have known that she
was going to be affected by the outcome.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Yes, but she's saying I have three girls. The pregnancies
were identical. This pregnancy, this experience was so different that
I was convinced this is a boy.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
But my point is there's no question that she was
battling some inner dilemma here if it was going to
be a boy, right, Like she always knew. If this
doesn't come out a boy, I'm gonna have a problem.
She always knew that for sure, because she's that's what
came out. So if you're that worked up about it,
maybe just don't do a gender reveal and check with
(09:14):
the doctor and find out what you're gonna have so
you can prepare mentally.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
The gender reveals are fun.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Yeah, but then you're at this, you're at the mercy
of your gut reaction not going in your favor if
it doesn't work out, because, like I said, that doesn't
just happen out of nowhere. If you if you're going
into a gender reveal, like I'm just so excited to
find out what I'm gonna have, I don't care. I'm
just I can't wait to be surprised. You're never gonna
have that reaction if you're going into a gender reveal
(09:39):
and you're going I know this is a boy. I
know this is a boy, I'm gonna have a boy.
It's a girl then, and you're gonna be that affected
by it. Probably wasn't the right idea to put your
gender reveal on.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
I feel for and I have a little compassion for
her because I'm sure she was super excited to have
to have a baby boy. Anyways, can we talk about
something like really sad?
Speaker 3 (10:00):
Sad?
Speaker 2 (10:00):
I'm not sad, but this is a very interesting comp
I had a topic I don't about that.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Can we this is kind of in the same vein,
but go ahead.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
So we have a good friend of ours that I
just saw for an incredible loss, and I kep thinking
about it, thinking about it because you know what, this
is a girl in front of ours that had a
very close friend, a girlfriend, right was part of her clique,
part of her group for many, many, many years. We've
known her for well, you've known the couple for twenty
something years, and that girl was always.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
One of her best friends.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
So we're talking about like really lifelong friends. And she
was diagnosed with cancer and passed away last week. We're
talking about early forties, beautiful, married, you know, vibrant.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
I had no idea she was sick.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
To me when I read the post, I thought it
was probably an accident. I didn't think it a million
years as she had cancer because we saw her recently
and she looked fine.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Apparently it was like a private battle was so that
was my question.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
So my friend, of course, I texted her saying, I
am so so sorry.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
I'm still shocked.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
I'm going life is so unpredictable.
Speaker 3 (11:11):
And what's ironic because she didn't pass away from cancer.
She passed away from something going wrong in the treatment.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
She was going in for a bone marrow and then
something got infected and she passed because of the infection.
But I guess the cancer was pretty I mean, she
wasn't too intermission. It came back, so I guess the cancer.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Was becoming very expressive factor.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
But I thought it was interesting because my friend said
she was dealing with a private.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
Battle with cancer.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
I guess she was incredibly private that even her best
friends were not very clear about how bad the situation was,
to the point that she told everybody, I am going
to go to this state to deal with the family thing.
And in reality she was going to a different state
for a bone marrow transplant, and da, da da, and
then she didn't make it, and all the friends are
(11:58):
beside themselves going but we were not there for her.
And that's how private she was about what she was
going through four years that even her girlfriend basically sisters
because there was like a sisterhood, were not there for her.
A noow.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
They're all shocked.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
And severely depressed because it was like, oh my god,
we lost her and we didn't say goodbye. It was
basically we didn't say goodbye. So in a situation like that,
let's and this is an awful thought, but how do
you think you'll handle if you get diagnosed with something
that's term well, would you want to be severely private
(12:42):
and just just keep to yourself and not announcer or
would you be open and surround yourself with your loved
ones more than ever because you know.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Your times are your times are like your time is coming.
My feeling and it kind of goes back to like
what Chadwick Boseman went through. Right with Chadwick Boss we
play Black Panther and he passed away with cancer. No
one knew, yeah, right, but I think his fiance knew.
I think the ones that are probably immediately in my
inner very tight circle I would probably I would definitely
(13:13):
want to have those preparations, you know what I mean,
especially with kids and all those kinds of things. But
I don't know. I kind of see that part of
it where you would, you know, to go through that
battle if it makes you feel better going through that
battle on your own and not have all the sort
of outside Even though it can be positive prayers and
positive energy and good things, it just can feel maybe
(13:35):
like it's too much, or like what everyone feels bad
for me, and it just feels like compounded even though
they're praying for you. So I can understand people wanting
to go through a private battle if I actually very
much do it, and I might I could potentially fall
in that category if it was ever me like I
might want to be private.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
I think you would knowing you. I think you wouldn't
want anybody to know.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
I mean my immediate immediate family.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
And do you think that people that are in the
business and announce it and everybody lives the battle with you,
do you think there's an element of show?
Speaker 3 (14:13):
Do they really want the prayers? And they do?
Speaker 2 (14:15):
They do believe in collective prayer and good thoughts and going.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
Through a terminal situation. I would never say there's any
anything other than what their own personal choices. I wouldn't
judge anything that they chose to do. Yeah, I really
wouldn't think. I think somebody wants to go through something
publicly they're a public figure, then some people think that
they use I can't even hide it. Sometimes you can't
hide it. But some people use it to raise awareness. Yeah,
(14:41):
you raise awareness. Or if you're if you're a female
and you're you're you know, you go through chemo and
you're losing your hair. It's it's very difficult to hide
that if you're in public. So it's going to start
coming out. There's gonna be a narrative, and you're going
to want to correct that narrative. So and as a man,
you could be the same boat if you had a
full head of hair and you didn't and then you know,
but if you were already a ball. So there's a
lot of things that you can't hide if you're a
public figure. But the ones who chose to go down
(15:02):
that route, I think, or choose whichever route they want
totally personal. It freak me out.
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Speaker 2 (16:16):
I know you have a topic and you want to
talk about, but you know what I was going through them,
he say, page and this is random what I want
to say, But you know that we did an episode
that we're joking about. You wanted to caddle and I
was like, like you wanted to get close and I
was like onlydog, only banded and Archie because I like
my Space when I'm sleeping and we had that whole
clip that was very funny. So we did an episode
(16:39):
of that, right, and then you know, we posted about
Matthew McConaughey because we had him last episode and that
was so.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
Amazing for us.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
And you know, I was reading some comments just to
see how people reacted to the episode, which I thought
was a phenomenal episode, and then I find this woman
lecture me, lecture me.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
I stop reading comments. I just care about what the
listeners and I respect it.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
But it was I was very close to because when
we when I posted it and when the producers posted it, uh,
the hours into it, somebody was like, oh, Ross, I
wish I could like like, I don't know how something
about it.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
I don't know how how. I feel so bad.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
I feel so bad for Eric, right, And I replied
joking and I said, oh, he's perfectly fine, trust me.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
I live with him.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
So this person and like ha ha ha like emoji laughing.
So this person took offense. This other person took offense
to me in a very like arrogant way, saying like
ha ha ha like, and she lectured me basically like
talking to me about her forty years of marriage and
how I cann't it was. And it's really interesting, Eric,
how people get so invested. And I feel like, why
(18:00):
don't you listen to every single episode we've done for
two seasons so you understand our dynamic and do you
understand who I am. Don't be so quick to judge
because of a clip that is actually funny. Ah am
I right or wrong?
Speaker 3 (18:18):
Me? And more. I'm telling you, when you put something public,
you're gonna have to accept the opinions that come in.
It's a public platform. People are going to have opinions.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
I know.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
It just happened to us the other day. I was
joking with you at school, and that was even that
was even on a public platform. I was joking with
you about something silly about being a room parent at school,
because you would be a great room parent. But I
know it's, you know, the time consuming factor at all
these other angles, and you I'm the one that keep
the one that keeps track. I mean, look, we've talked
about it before. I'm the one that keeps track of
(18:54):
all the schedules. I'm the one that's you know, more
organized when it comes to that type of stuff. It's
not your forte putting together an event no problem. You
crush many things. I have my strengths, I have my weaknesses,
you know what I mean. But I was joking about
you with our friends who are close friends, and even
that friend felt compelled to say, oh, Roz, I just
(19:14):
I love Eric. I think you're really, you know, talented,
and I was joking and I have know your talent,
and I know you're a beast when it comes to
putting things together and making things happen, and you're extremely
competent in those in all those areas. But we have
a dynamic and we like to give each other. This
is what take each other.
Speaker 4 (19:31):
If Rosalie was room parent at school got emails, the
emails will consist of pickup time is two thirty PM,
lunchtime is twelve.
Speaker 3 (19:43):
And you got to preface it with this. The emails
that come in from room parents, God bless them. I'm
very specific, freaking so detailed, like two pages, which I
would do about every single interesting You would do it
with the needles, and I would be like so painful.
I mean, they it's so much work. And like I said,
God bless them. You need them, right. Who wants to
(20:04):
take on that responsibility? But Roz first, of all, I
would be asking what was that day to get what
was it? Because I don't organized as a calendar. So
I was joking that her emails would be like everyone,
guess what. Everyone's still in school today and they're out
at two thirty. Make sure you pick them up. It
would be just like a super simply look like a dumbas.
It was a joke. That's our dynamic, yes, and our
(20:27):
friend because.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
You do recognize that I am very capable of the
same way you recognize that. There's no poor eric the relationship.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
Thank you everybody, support me, help help joke. Don't watch
that run, don't read the comments from that. I'm joking.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
You know what I always tell you, I'm twice if
you help if you're that unhappy one that I said,
by the way I say run.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
Is open.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
You know we're joking, guys.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
Our whole marriage, our whole relationship. We laugh, we tease
each other, We don't take each other too seriously. We
do when it matters. We're there for each other when
it matters. We fight when it you know, people fight
and we make up. But we joke a lot. But stop.
Let's talk about topic that you put me out from
before what poor me can't get a word in. Don't
(21:34):
say that with that, she doesn't let him talk at all.
That's another one. Poor Eric, Eric Listen. I saw this
in the press not too long ago, and I just
wanted to circle it back. Baby shower guests gets mad
at the mom to be for photoshopping her kid out
of the photos. He wasn't meant to be in. Say
(21:56):
that again. So all right, there's a baby shower, a
bunch of people are invited. The mom to be is
getting a bunch of photos of her baby shower things
that she wants to set up for her memories. There's
a moment where she's opening gifts with her you know, partner,
and I think she has another kid and dah da
dah and one of the guests their child just kind
(22:18):
of like went into the area sort of trying to
open gifts, and the mom to be was kind of like,
oh no, no, no, can you go, you know, back
over here, And the other mom was like, oh, it's fine,
it's fine, Like he's just gonna he's just having fun
with you. And then the other parent, trying to be nice,
was again trying to sort of discourage it. But the
mom was like telling other people, Oh, she doesn't mind.
It's one of my close friends. She hasn't mind. Cut
(22:40):
to all those pictures of her opening the gifts and
the other kid randomly in them, they photoshop the kid out.
I think brilliant. Great. I would do the same thing.
This other mom throw a fit at her friend for
taking her kid out of the photos, saying that it
was rude and it wasn't kind and blah blah blah
a ba and they shouldn't have done that to her kid.
(23:02):
And why would you do that? He you know, we
were invited guests, we were there, blah blah blah. I
know what side you would take. But I'm just why
don't you go ahead? And what side would I take?
The mom to be? You'd photosh up the of every
kid that came in there, the picture.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
The eve, the picture. Yeah, they'll because the one that
is still looking very cute, I'll face like face taking.
Speaker 3 (23:27):
The picture, like what are you doing that picture? Joking?
Speaker 2 (23:32):
But listen, if it's a it's a family moment and
there's a kid, even if you love the kid because
it's a guest, but if it's a family thing and
you're telling the parents listening.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
I just want the family.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
You have all the right to photoshop whatever you want.
Is your baby shower, is your album, is your photo gallery?
Speaker 3 (23:47):
Yeah, this isn't people like the person made it to
people making comment, I mean, have a whole interview. I
was like, this is absurd. I'd be pissed if I
was the mom to be and my friend also.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
But also if you the other parent, it's like, it's
it's your child.
Speaker 3 (23:59):
Is like, this is what I think happens all the time.
And I see this at birthday parties. I see this
at a lot of functions, right, I believe that you
know me, I get really anxious when kids do things
that I feel like they shouldn't be doing, my kids included,
and I don't want them to impose on somebody else's
special moment or thing or whatever the case may be.
(24:19):
Like if I was at a birthday party and our kids,
which I've seen many times, crowd the birthday cake and
like swipe at it or do something, I would chew
my kid out, even though there's just being a kid.
It's like, that's your friend's moment. Be respectful, don't get
in the middle of that. Yet as a kid sometimes
they don't, but some parents know what parents can manage
that situation and not allow it to get that far.
(24:39):
But instead I feel like they just want their kid
to be free and do whatever they want. And then
sometimes that kid who doesn't know it's not the kid's
total fault. They're just being a kid. There are no
boundary set, so they feel free to kind of do
whatever they want. And I don't agree with that. I
feel like, you know what, it's somebody else's moment. You're
gonna have a moment too, Be wait your turn, be patient,
let them have their picture, let them have their moment.
(25:01):
I get it. I say, photo shop him out, photoshop
feel bad about it, so let's go back to your friend.
He's not your my friend.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
DiCaprio dating another young model, good for it, again and again.
Speaker 3 (25:14):
Good for him, Good for him, and again good for him.
What does it matter? Why do people have such a
problem with this?
Speaker 2 (25:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
Let him date whoever he wants.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
Ye, dude, you're fifty something.
Speaker 3 (25:26):
You don't have a problem, and you've said it before
with Katherine McPhee dating David Foster, who's thirty three years older.
That's what I don't understand why it's always double It's
come on, if a woman dates way over? Okay, the
same scenario, Same scenario.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
Oh he's only forty eight, he's not fifty, he's forty
eight and.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
Twenty five.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
This comes months after he was spotted hiking out.
Speaker 3 (25:53):
With less less less of an age difference between Catherine
and husband. Why is it different? Still a male that's
older and a female that's younger? Why is this is
a thought started? At what point does dating your models
over and over just become creepy and sad? It's not?
What is David? Is it not creepy that a man
(26:14):
who is dating a girl thirty three years younger? Why
is it not creepy? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
I'm just joking. Do you think Judeo has issues with
actual intimacy and isn't able to connect on an emotional level? No?
Speaker 3 (26:29):
How can you say that you know nothing about the guy?
Speaker 2 (26:32):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
Yeah, there's no way of knowing that. There's track record
of not being able to sustain was like in and
out of relationships most of his life and finally settled
down older. I don't want the fifties or something like that.
He was older significantly older, finally settled down, finally had
kids when he was ready with that woman his age,
when he was ready.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
Well is she his age?
Speaker 3 (26:55):
I don't think she's a little younger, but not, but whatever,
when he was ready. Like, it doesn't mean that maybe
Leo will never settle down.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Do you think? Okay, so do you think Leo will
ever get tired of dating young girls and finally settle
down with a woman his age?
Speaker 3 (27:08):
I doubt. I think he's going to keep having fun
with the younger girls. But you know, good for him,
so you I have zero problem with this. It's a
zero problem, zero. Okay.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
We have a good friend that lives that lifestyle. He's
in his fifties and he loves I'm not going to
say right ahead, and he travels the world and he
dates much younger girls. And it's interesting because this is
somebody that I've known my whole life, from my childhood,
(27:40):
and I always thought that he was going to be
an incredible dad and an incredible family man because he
comes up from a very loving, you know, like a
very normal man.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
He still might be when he's bringing when he's sixty,
when he's ready, and he may not at some point
want to be a dad. Maybe he's okay, but you
don't think he Maybe he's okay not getting married.
Speaker 2 (28:01):
I think he's fine.
Speaker 3 (28:02):
Maybe he's okay just having a life partner at some
point for just each to each his own. Would you
have a problem if a woman was dating if it
was a forty something. You're a woman dating a twenty
five year old guy, would you have a problem.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
I think it's ridiculous, would you?
Speaker 3 (28:18):
Why you shouldn't say that?
Speaker 2 (28:19):
Because I do have a friend that I mean, the
gap is not as a severe I.
Speaker 3 (28:22):
Think it's twelve years. What it was twenty years.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
Between a woman and a man and a guy. It's
tricky for me because I feel like at some point,
when she's sixty and he's only thirty or fifty, she's
seventy and he's fifty, a fifty year old male most
likely is going to start having a wandering eye because
your partner is seventy years old.
Speaker 3 (28:43):
It's a big gap, which is seventy Why do you assume,
maybe I'm wrong? I don't assume that a thirty year
old woman is not going to have a wandering eye
with her seventy year old because women are different.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
Oh my because we women to have an emotional I
get show.
Speaker 3 (28:55):
Here we go. I told you the conversation that my
trainer was we were talking about was somebody that he
works with and the person it was a woman that
got caught having the affair with the man, sneaking in
the house and fooling around in their home and the
husband age. Not my point. You always act like women
(29:15):
don't do these things. I don't. I recognize that women
there are like fact factual. You know, there's evidence and
a lot of a lot of research done that women
do this just as much as men. They just have
a different reasoning for having the affair. So protecting women,
I don't know, fifty ratio, it's fifty fifty. I know
(29:38):
it's not, you know, eighty twenty. It's not that lopsided.
It's pretty close. It's pretty close. Women's eyes can wander
just as much as men.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
But you do recognize that when women are looking into
intimacy and partnership and husband material and settling down, there's
an emotional intelligence and a jety component that for guys,
it's a lot of time that it's not.
Speaker 3 (30:01):
The might be different, but at the end of the day,
if you're not getting the needs for whatever they are.
If your needs aren't being met for whichever needs you
you are most important to you, You're gonna probably start
to wander, you know what I mean? Like, that's just
how it goes with some people. Okay, go leo.
Speaker 4 (30:19):
Wow, I'm just saying it doesn't matter.
Speaker 3 (30:25):
It doesn't matter. Good for him. If he's happy, he's happy.
Talented actor is crushing it, So it's all good. It's
all good. Love you, I love you. Thanks for listening.
Don't forget to write us a review and tell us
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Speaker 3 (30:52):
See you next time.
This is he said a yadiho with Eric Winter and
Rosalind fantaz.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Hello, what's happening? Uh? Your fluster as usual? What's going on? Business?
Just go go go.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Yeah, just dealing with a lot of texts and emails
and I have a lot of stuff to do.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
But I'm excited to be He still flustered with from
micromanaging Dylan school pictures this morning. Oh guys, anyways, welcome
here Sea.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Yeah, the listeners, We are so happy to be here
for another episode where Eric is going to bring up
how my kids can't start.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
I would never bring that up. I'm not saying that.
I was just joking about. You forget we're having this conversation.
I said, Roger, you forget that. When you're a kid,
your parents being on campus can be good. But then
also if you're in their business constantly, then they get
embarrassed and they're just like god, Mom, they don't know,
stop he's too much. Now that's all kids.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
What happened to my sweet little boy? That was, Oh
my god, you do no wrong.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Mom and dad. You're amazing.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
He's five years old. They took a school picture. I
didn't like it. They have a redo. So the reado
was today, so I made sure that I was.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
There were the only parents there for a reading picture.
That's not correct because I saw a lot of adults.
Those are teachers doing their teachers our staff. Yeah, book
and then we h.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
I brought my own lighting just forget please do it?
Speaker 3 (01:28):
You dare pull that lighting? Please don't pull that light out?
Oh what's that dealing? Would have had to probably melt
that any thing. I'm not saying, we're rong the picture.
The original picture came out really bad exactly. It was
just it was just bad lighting. It didn't make sense.
It was not not the right picture. And it was
lighting again today, I know. But at the end of
the day, it's still a school picture. People laugh about
(01:48):
how bad school pictures were, They make fun of them.
It's like it's not that big of a deal. But
to me, it's a memory that lasts a lifetime. So
you wanna you wanna was the last time you looked
at your kindergarten school picture? I look at them. I
was the last time you paid? Well, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
I have a kindergarten.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Exactly, so it doesn't last a lifetime.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
I have third fourth when It's fine.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
I have all those I understand. How often do you
look at them? It's no, it doesn't matter how often
you look at him is when you do. But my
point is I just wanted you to give him a
little forgiveness because you forget that kids get embarrassed. Mom
is literally going, no, Dyln, move this, move your hair
this way. No smile like this, No smile like this.
Do this. He's going, Mom, stop and put you in
(02:30):
a battloot. But it's did we live and we learn? Right?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
I was just trying to help.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Here's an interesting topic speaking about kids. This is a
little bit of a you know, side step clearly from
this conversation, but Mick Jagger says that he may not
leave his fortune to his kids. Legendary rocker who's been,
you know, obviously making millions and millions of dollars, has
now said that my children don't need five hundred million
dollars to live. Well, he's like, come on, you know they,
(02:58):
you know they, why don't you do some good with
that money. I'm sure he'll leave them something. Maybe he
has eight kids, is that what it is? I believe
eighty eight kids, So I'm sure he'll leave them something.
But what do you think five hundred million, it's a
great thing to donate a chunk of that to charity.
The kids obviously don't need, necessarily need five hundred million.
(03:18):
They could get away with a cool, you know, twenty million.
I'm sure to get started in life of his five
hundred million fortune, and they can build their own fortune
with that very easily. Some people obviously, well most people
obviously don't have a whole lot and have to make
millions on their own starting from scratch.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
If that's the case, Yeah, that's not their circumstance. I
know they come from a father that is very wealthy.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Bill Gates supposedly did the same thing, did not leave
his kids.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Sure the kids really, well.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
They live well, I'm sure, I'm sure they you know,
they have a leg up on helping in the listen
in their entrepreneurial endeavors. But this is what I think.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I think that, Yes, when you have that amount of money,
it's an incredible thing for you to give back to
the world and society and many families and people in need.
So yeah, I feel like at least half of it,
because it's so much.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Should go to charity.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
And I think this is something that he's going to do,
and I think I find that I find that to
be fabulous.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
But I also believe that you know that you.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Have children, it's an amazing thing when you can provide
for your kids as long as your kids are responsible. Now,
if you have children good point that they have all
kinds of issues and addictions, and you know they're going
to blow that money doing nonsense, then yeah, you have
an argument to be like, you know, you're not deserving
(04:47):
because I don't trust that you're going to do something
meaningful with what I'm giving you.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
For sure, if they're not responsible young adults, that would
be my biggest issue. Were not too far apart on this.
I think if I was ever fortunate to come into
a fortune like that, I think, uh, look at your money,
and if you want to help a society and help
different causes, you absolutely should do with your money what
(05:13):
you what you want. And I think if you've built
this future for you know your family, and you have
good responsible humans that you've raised, and they're now young
adults or full adults, whatever the case may be, and
they are living up to their potential, and they're going
to be responsible with that money. Then I think, yeah,
you should be great to leave them some kind of
a headstart that you didn't maybe have as a as
(05:33):
a young person coming up. I think there's nothing wrong
with that. I don't think so, But I wonder how
the kids feel. You imagine that conversation. I'm not going
to give you anything. You're on your own.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
He's going to give them some.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I don't believe for a second that he's going.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
To be like you, you deserve nothing.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
And but what about his grandchildren and things like that.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Of course they're all going to be said. I mean,
I think all kids there should be stipulation about if they,
you know, are growing up to do their part in
things and they're being there, they're good, responsible adults.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Your dad did it for Dylan and Sabella. They can't
touch the money, yeah, ontil they're like what thirty three
years old?
Speaker 3 (06:11):
On there, there's an age. But also like even I
forgot what it is, but even in our own living trust,
it's it's something that we, you know, lay out like
our kids have to grow up to be good humans.
They can't just have problems and they can't just tap
into those funds whenever they want and just do what
they want and blow it all on bad habits.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
You know, what about this mom that is pregnant with
her fourth child. She has three daughters that she loves dearly,
and she did a gender reveal with all the family
and friends and all that, and the reveal says, pooh pink,
it's another little girl. And she burst into tears, like
(06:48):
devastated because she's a what another girl? And of course
now people are saying, you know, you should be grateful.
What about all those moms that all those women that
would love to be mothers and can even get pregnant
and you have four and you're complaining about being another girl?
And do you have compassion for what she's feeling?
Speaker 3 (07:12):
This is what I do know. As soon as you
decide to put your private experiences on a public platform,
you're going to pay some kind of price. Your reaction
will be judged by everyone. Always always, Now listen, do
I think she has the right to be bummed out
if she was expecting a boy?
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Sure, I mean that's totally fine. I mean I don't
you know whatever, people are going to make a big
deal out of it. My point is people are going
to make a big deal of it because they feel
they're entitled to because you put it on a public
platform and your reaction is something that people can feel
strong enough to attack.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
But they shouldn't be entitled to anything.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
You put it on a public platforms social media.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
It doesn't mean they're entitled, or they have the rights,
or they should comment on something that clearly affects the
woman deeply.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
It doesn't matter what they should or shouldn't do. You
put it on a platform which is asking for opinions.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
I'm I'm sure she didn't anticipate that she was going
to react like that.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
As soon as it's public, people can make comments. That
means they're going to give opinions. So that's the pitfall
of social media. We've had this conversation so many times.
But do I think it's right? Nah, I don't think
it's a big of a deal. The ladies bummed out.
She had, you know, another girl. She thought the pregnancy
was so different this time. She was swore it was
a boy. But I think also, you know, maybe if
(08:34):
she deep down she had to have known that she
was going to be affected by the outcome.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Yes, but she's saying I have three girls. The pregnancies
were identical. This pregnancy, this experience was so different that
I was convinced this is a boy.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
But my point is there's no question that she was
battling some inner dilemma here if it was going to
be a boy, right, Like she always knew. If this
doesn't come out a boy, I'm gonna have a problem.
She always knew that for sure, because she's that's what
came out. So if you're that worked up about it,
maybe just don't do a gender reveal and check with
(09:14):
the doctor and find out what you're gonna have so
you can prepare mentally.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
The gender reveals are fun.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Yeah, but then you're at this, you're at the mercy
of your gut reaction not going in your favor if
it doesn't work out, because, like I said, that doesn't
just happen out of nowhere. If you if you're going
into a gender reveal, like I'm just so excited to
find out what I'm gonna have, I don't care. I'm
just I can't wait to be surprised. You're never gonna
have that reaction if you're going into a gender reveal
(09:39):
and you're going I know this is a boy. I
know this is a boy, I'm gonna have a boy.
It's a girl then, and you're gonna be that affected
by it. Probably wasn't the right idea to put your
gender reveal on.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
I feel for and I have a little compassion for
her because I'm sure she was super excited to have
to have a baby boy. Anyways, can we talk about
something like really sad?
Speaker 3 (10:00):
Sad?
Speaker 2 (10:00):
I'm not sad, but this is a very interesting comp
I had a topic I don't about that.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Can we this is kind of in the same vein,
but go ahead.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
So we have a good friend of ours that I
just saw for an incredible loss, and I kep thinking
about it, thinking about it because you know what, this
is a girl in front of ours that had a
very close friend, a girlfriend, right was part of her clique,
part of her group for many, many, many years. We've
known her for well, you've known the couple for twenty
something years, and that girl was always.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
One of her best friends.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
So we're talking about like really lifelong friends. And she
was diagnosed with cancer and passed away last week. We're
talking about early forties, beautiful, married, you know, vibrant.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
I had no idea she was sick.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
To me when I read the post, I thought it
was probably an accident. I didn't think it a million
years as she had cancer because we saw her recently
and she looked fine.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Apparently it was like a private battle was so that
was my question.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
So my friend, of course, I texted her saying, I
am so so sorry.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
I'm still shocked.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
I'm going life is so unpredictable.
Speaker 3 (11:11):
And what's ironic because she didn't pass away from cancer.
She passed away from something going wrong in the treatment.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
She was going in for a bone marrow and then
something got infected and she passed because of the infection.
But I guess the cancer was pretty I mean, she
wasn't too intermission. It came back, so I guess the cancer.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Was becoming very expressive factor.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
But I thought it was interesting because my friend said
she was dealing with a private.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
Battle with cancer.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
I guess she was incredibly private that even her best
friends were not very clear about how bad the situation was,
to the point that she told everybody, I am going
to go to this state to deal with the family thing.
And in reality she was going to a different state
for a bone marrow transplant, and da, da da, and
then she didn't make it, and all the friends are
(11:58):
beside themselves going but we were not there for her.
And that's how private she was about what she was
going through four years that even her girlfriend basically sisters
because there was like a sisterhood, were not there for her.
A noow.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
They're all shocked.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
And severely depressed because it was like, oh my god,
we lost her and we didn't say goodbye. It was
basically we didn't say goodbye. So in a situation like that,
let's and this is an awful thought, but how do
you think you'll handle if you get diagnosed with something
that's term well, would you want to be severely private
(12:42):
and just just keep to yourself and not announcer or
would you be open and surround yourself with your loved
ones more than ever because you know.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Your times are your times are like your time is coming.
My feeling and it kind of goes back to like
what Chadwick Boseman went through. Right with Chadwick Boss we
play Black Panther and he passed away with cancer. No
one knew, yeah, right, but I think his fiance knew.
I think the ones that are probably immediately in my
inner very tight circle I would probably I would definitely
(13:13):
want to have those preparations, you know what I mean,
especially with kids and all those kinds of things. But
I don't know. I kind of see that part of
it where you would, you know, to go through that
battle if it makes you feel better going through that
battle on your own and not have all the sort
of outside Even though it can be positive prayers and
positive energy and good things, it just can feel maybe
(13:35):
like it's too much, or like what everyone feels bad
for me, and it just feels like compounded even though
they're praying for you. So I can understand people wanting
to go through a private battle if I actually very
much do it, and I might I could potentially fall
in that category if it was ever me like I
might want to be private.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
I think you would knowing you. I think you wouldn't
want anybody to know.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
I mean my immediate immediate family.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
And do you think that people that are in the
business and announce it and everybody lives the battle with you,
do you think there's an element of show?
Speaker 3 (14:13):
Do they really want the prayers? And they do?
Speaker 2 (14:15):
They do believe in collective prayer and good thoughts and going.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
Through a terminal situation. I would never say there's any
anything other than what their own personal choices. I wouldn't
judge anything that they chose to do. Yeah, I really
wouldn't think. I think somebody wants to go through something
publicly they're a public figure, then some people think that
they use I can't even hide it. Sometimes you can't
hide it. But some people use it to raise awareness. Yeah,
(14:41):
you raise awareness. Or if you're if you're a female
and you're you're you know, you go through chemo and
you're losing your hair. It's it's very difficult to hide
that if you're in public. So it's going to start
coming out. There's gonna be a narrative, and you're going
to want to correct that narrative. So and as a man,
you could be the same boat if you had a
full head of hair and you didn't and then you know,
but if you were already a ball. So there's a
lot of things that you can't hide if you're a
public figure. But the ones who chose to go down
(15:02):
that route, I think, or choose whichever route they want
totally personal. It freak me out.
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Speaker 2 (16:16):
I know you have a topic and you want to
talk about, but you know what I was going through them,
he say, page and this is random what I want
to say, But you know that we did an episode
that we're joking about. You wanted to caddle and I
was like, like you wanted to get close and I
was like onlydog, only banded and Archie because I like
my Space when I'm sleeping and we had that whole
clip that was very funny. So we did an episode
(16:39):
of that, right, and then you know, we posted about
Matthew McConaughey because we had him last episode and that
was so.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
Amazing for us.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
And you know, I was reading some comments just to
see how people reacted to the episode, which I thought
was a phenomenal episode, and then I find this woman
lecture me, lecture me.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
I stop reading comments. I just care about what the
listeners and I respect it.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
But it was I was very close to because when
we when I posted it and when the producers posted it, uh,
the hours into it, somebody was like, oh, Ross, I
wish I could like like, I don't know how something
about it.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
I don't know how how. I feel so bad.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
I feel so bad for Eric, right, And I replied
joking and I said, oh, he's perfectly fine, trust me.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
I live with him.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
So this person and like ha ha ha like emoji laughing.
So this person took offense. This other person took offense
to me in a very like arrogant way, saying like
ha ha ha like, and she lectured me basically like
talking to me about her forty years of marriage and
how I cann't it was. And it's really interesting, Eric,
how people get so invested. And I feel like, why
(18:00):
don't you listen to every single episode we've done for
two seasons so you understand our dynamic and do you
understand who I am. Don't be so quick to judge
because of a clip that is actually funny. Ah am
I right or wrong?
Speaker 3 (18:18):
Me? And more. I'm telling you, when you put something public,
you're gonna have to accept the opinions that come in.
It's a public platform. People are going to have opinions.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
I know.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
It just happened to us the other day. I was
joking with you at school, and that was even that
was even on a public platform. I was joking with
you about something silly about being a room parent at school,
because you would be a great room parent. But I
know it's, you know, the time consuming factor at all
these other angles, and you I'm the one that keep
the one that keeps track. I mean, look, we've talked
about it before. I'm the one that keeps track of
(18:54):
all the schedules. I'm the one that's you know, more
organized when it comes to that type of stuff. It's
not your forte putting together an event no problem. You
crush many things. I have my strengths, I have my weaknesses,
you know what I mean. But I was joking about
you with our friends who are close friends, and even
that friend felt compelled to say, oh, Roz, I just
(19:14):
I love Eric. I think you're really, you know, talented,
and I was joking and I have know your talent,
and I know you're a beast when it comes to
putting things together and making things happen, and you're extremely
competent in those in all those areas. But we have
a dynamic and we like to give each other. This
is what take each other.
Speaker 4 (19:31):
If Rosalie was room parent at school got emails, the
emails will consist of pickup time is two thirty PM,
lunchtime is twelve.
Speaker 3 (19:43):
And you got to preface it with this. The emails
that come in from room parents, God bless them. I'm
very specific, freaking so detailed, like two pages, which I
would do about every single interesting You would do it
with the needles, and I would be like so painful.
I mean, they it's so much work. And like I said,
God bless them. You need them, right. Who wants to
(20:04):
take on that responsibility? But Roz first, of all, I
would be asking what was that day to get what
was it? Because I don't organized as a calendar. So
I was joking that her emails would be like everyone,
guess what. Everyone's still in school today and they're out
at two thirty. Make sure you pick them up. It
would be just like a super simply look like a dumbas.
It was a joke. That's our dynamic, yes, and our
(20:27):
friend because.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
You do recognize that I am very capable of the
same way you recognize that. There's no poor eric the relationship.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
Thank you everybody, support me, help help joke. Don't watch
that run, don't read the comments from that. I'm joking.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
You know what I always tell you, I'm twice if
you help if you're that unhappy one that I said,
by the way I say run.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
Is open.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
You know we're joking, guys.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
Our whole marriage, our whole relationship. We laugh, we tease
each other, We don't take each other too seriously. We
do when it matters. We're there for each other when
it matters. We fight when it you know, people fight
and we make up. But we joke a lot. But stop.
Let's talk about topic that you put me out from
before what poor me can't get a word in. Don't
(21:34):
say that with that, she doesn't let him talk at all.
That's another one. Poor Eric, Eric Listen. I saw this
in the press not too long ago, and I just
wanted to circle it back. Baby shower guests gets mad
at the mom to be for photoshopping her kid out
of the photos. He wasn't meant to be in. Say
(21:56):
that again. So all right, there's a baby shower, a
bunch of people are invited. The mom to be is
getting a bunch of photos of her baby shower things
that she wants to set up for her memories. There's
a moment where she's opening gifts with her you know, partner,
and I think she has another kid and dah da
dah and one of the guests their child just kind
(22:18):
of like went into the area sort of trying to
open gifts, and the mom to be was kind of like,
oh no, no, no, can you go, you know, back
over here, And the other mom was like, oh, it's fine,
it's fine, Like he's just gonna he's just having fun
with you. And then the other parent, trying to be nice,
was again trying to sort of discourage it. But the
mom was like telling other people, Oh, she doesn't mind.
It's one of my close friends. She hasn't mind. Cut
(22:40):
to all those pictures of her opening the gifts and
the other kid randomly in them, they photoshop the kid out.
I think brilliant. Great. I would do the same thing.
This other mom throw a fit at her friend for
taking her kid out of the photos, saying that it
was rude and it wasn't kind and blah blah blah
a ba and they shouldn't have done that to her kid.
(23:02):
And why would you do that? He you know, we
were invited guests, we were there, blah blah blah. I
know what side you would take. But I'm just why
don't you go ahead? And what side would I take?
The mom to be? You'd photosh up the of every
kid that came in there, the picture.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
The eve, the picture. Yeah, they'll because the one that
is still looking very cute, I'll face like face taking.
Speaker 3 (23:27):
The picture, like what are you doing that picture? Joking?
Speaker 2 (23:32):
But listen, if it's a it's a family moment and
there's a kid, even if you love the kid because
it's a guest, but if it's a family thing and
you're telling the parents listening.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
I just want the family.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
You have all the right to photoshop whatever you want.
Is your baby shower, is your album, is your photo gallery?
Speaker 3 (23:47):
Yeah, this isn't people like the person made it to
people making comment, I mean, have a whole interview. I
was like, this is absurd. I'd be pissed if I
was the mom to be and my friend also.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
But also if you the other parent, it's like, it's
it's your child.
Speaker 3 (23:59):
Is like, this is what I think happens all the time.
And I see this at birthday parties. I see this
at a lot of functions, right, I believe that you
know me, I get really anxious when kids do things
that I feel like they shouldn't be doing, my kids included,
and I don't want them to impose on somebody else's
special moment or thing or whatever the case may be.
(24:19):
Like if I was at a birthday party and our kids,
which I've seen many times, crowd the birthday cake and
like swipe at it or do something, I would chew
my kid out, even though there's just being a kid.
It's like, that's your friend's moment. Be respectful, don't get
in the middle of that. Yet as a kid sometimes
they don't, but some parents know what parents can manage
that situation and not allow it to get that far.
(24:39):
But instead I feel like they just want their kid
to be free and do whatever they want. And then
sometimes that kid who doesn't know it's not the kid's
total fault. They're just being a kid. There are no
boundary set, so they feel free to kind of do
whatever they want. And I don't agree with that. I
feel like, you know what, it's somebody else's moment. You're
gonna have a moment too, Be wait your turn, be patient,
let them have their picture, let them have their moment.
(25:01):
I get it. I say, photo shop him out, photoshop
feel bad about it, so let's go back to your friend.
He's not your my friend.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
DiCaprio dating another young model, good for it, again and again.
Speaker 3 (25:14):
Good for him, Good for him, and again good for him.
What does it matter? Why do people have such a
problem with this?
Speaker 2 (25:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
Let him date whoever he wants.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
Ye, dude, you're fifty something.
Speaker 3 (25:26):
You don't have a problem, and you've said it before
with Katherine McPhee dating David Foster, who's thirty three years older.
That's what I don't understand why it's always double It's
come on, if a woman dates way over? Okay, the
same scenario, Same scenario.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
Oh he's only forty eight, he's not fifty, he's forty
eight and.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
Twenty five.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
This comes months after he was spotted hiking out.
Speaker 3 (25:53):
With less less less of an age difference between Catherine
and husband. Why is it different? Still a male that's
older and a female that's younger? Why is this is
a thought started? At what point does dating your models
over and over just become creepy and sad? It's not?
What is David? Is it not creepy that a man
(26:14):
who is dating a girl thirty three years younger? Why
is it not creepy? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
I'm just joking. Do you think Judeo has issues with
actual intimacy and isn't able to connect on an emotional level? No?
Speaker 3 (26:29):
How can you say that you know nothing about the guy?
Speaker 2 (26:32):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
Yeah, there's no way of knowing that. There's track record
of not being able to sustain was like in and
out of relationships most of his life and finally settled
down older. I don't want the fifties or something like that.
He was older significantly older, finally settled down, finally had
kids when he was ready with that woman his age,
when he was ready.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
Well is she his age?
Speaker 3 (26:55):
I don't think she's a little younger, but not, but whatever,
when he was ready. Like, it doesn't mean that maybe
Leo will never settle down.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Do you think? Okay, so do you think Leo will
ever get tired of dating young girls and finally settle
down with a woman his age?
Speaker 3 (27:08):
I doubt. I think he's going to keep having fun
with the younger girls. But you know, good for him,
so you I have zero problem with this. It's a
zero problem, zero. Okay.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
We have a good friend that lives that lifestyle. He's
in his fifties and he loves I'm not going to
say right ahead, and he travels the world and he
dates much younger girls. And it's interesting because this is
somebody that I've known my whole life, from my childhood,
(27:40):
and I always thought that he was going to be
an incredible dad and an incredible family man because he
comes up from a very loving, you know, like a
very normal man.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
He still might be when he's bringing when he's sixty,
when he's ready, and he may not at some point
want to be a dad. Maybe he's okay, but you
don't think he Maybe he's okay not getting married.
Speaker 2 (28:01):
I think he's fine.
Speaker 3 (28:02):
Maybe he's okay just having a life partner at some
point for just each to each his own. Would you
have a problem if a woman was dating if it
was a forty something. You're a woman dating a twenty
five year old guy, would you have a problem.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
I think it's ridiculous, would you?
Speaker 3 (28:18):
Why you shouldn't say that?
Speaker 2 (28:19):
Because I do have a friend that I mean, the
gap is not as a severe I.
Speaker 3 (28:22):
Think it's twelve years. What it was twenty years.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
Between a woman and a man and a guy. It's
tricky for me because I feel like at some point,
when she's sixty and he's only thirty or fifty, she's
seventy and he's fifty, a fifty year old male most
likely is going to start having a wandering eye because
your partner is seventy years old.
Speaker 3 (28:43):
It's a big gap, which is seventy Why do you assume,
maybe I'm wrong? I don't assume that a thirty year
old woman is not going to have a wandering eye
with her seventy year old because women are different.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
Oh my because we women to have an emotional I
get show.
Speaker 3 (28:55):
Here we go. I told you the conversation that my
trainer was we were talking about was somebody that he
works with and the person it was a woman that
got caught having the affair with the man, sneaking in
the house and fooling around in their home and the
husband age. Not my point. You always act like women
(29:15):
don't do these things. I don't. I recognize that women
there are like fact factual. You know, there's evidence and
a lot of a lot of research done that women
do this just as much as men. They just have
a different reasoning for having the affair. So protecting women,
I don't know, fifty ratio, it's fifty fifty. I know
(29:38):
it's not, you know, eighty twenty. It's not that lopsided.
It's pretty close. It's pretty close. Women's eyes can wander
just as much as men.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
But you do recognize that when women are looking into
intimacy and partnership and husband material and settling down, there's
an emotional intelligence and a jety component that for guys,
it's a lot of time that it's not.
Speaker 3 (30:01):
The might be different, but at the end of the day,
if you're not getting the needs for whatever they are.
If your needs aren't being met for whichever needs you
you are most important to you, You're gonna probably start
to wander, you know what I mean? Like, that's just
how it goes with some people. Okay, go leo.
Speaker 4 (30:19):
Wow, I'm just saying it doesn't matter.
Speaker 3 (30:25):
It doesn't matter. Good for him. If he's happy, he's happy.
Talented actor is crushing it, So it's all good. It's
all good. Love you, I love you. Thanks for listening.
Don't forget to write us a review and tell us
what you think.
Speaker 2 (30:40):
If you want to follow us on Instagram, check goes
out at he said. Is that email Eric and Ross
at iHeartRadio dot com. He said, is part of iHeart
Radio's Mike Will Do That podcast network.
Speaker 3 (30:52):
See you next time.
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