October 17, 2025 • 25 mins
Eric asked for tips on raising a teen, and you delivered!In this episode, Ros and Eric talk through the advice you shared for some much needed teen therapy.Negotiating, snapchat, and sleepovers…these are just some of the teen topics they tackle with your help.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is he said a Yadiho with Eric Winter and
Rodland fantag He Hello, Hello, welcome to another episode of
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be here. What's up with you? I'm just showing the
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Speaker 1 (00:29):
That was that was funny.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
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Speaker 1 (00:33):
No, not at all.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
We just as usual scrambling to get things going. You
had a great trip to Orlando that just happened.
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New York this weekend in Chicago. Then l A. Everybody
keeps showing up in a big way. We appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
So it's been Uh, it's been awesome for you to
see that success. And everybody's been so just complimentary and supportive.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
They have embraced the area people of all ages and ethnicities,
and we are incredibly grateful.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Absolutely listen, you know, it's so funny we just had
uh I think we've spoken about this about how we're
just you know, and everybody's different. There's no parenting way
that's the right way by any means, and we don't
think our way is the right way. But uh, I
probably more so even than you, am very very panic
and standoffish about social media with the kids, right and.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Well not anymore based on the stuff that I've been
seeing what not you on social media?
Speaker 1 (01:48):
No, with the kids being on social media.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Not me, We're no years that you would you have
been like, I've been very very stand offish about the
about the kids.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
I was like with your social media.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Well, neither of us. I think we're on social media time.
All you do is live on social media, editing, cutting.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Promoters, sub promoting a movie. Guys that I'm busting my ass.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
But when it comes to the kids, all I we've
been talking a lot about that, and it's funny. Well,
Dylan's too young, but Sabella has so many friends with
you know, there's this pressure going on for Snapchat, which
I thought was a dying platform, but apparently it's still
a very popular platform.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
I think it's huge.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Well, yeah, I guess it still is big. I didn't
think I knew it had a moment. I guess it's
still big with younger generally.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
I ask you, snapshot is the arena William's husband or
Jesse husband.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Reddit, Jasmine Tuke's husband?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Okay, and what's wild? So a couple things are happening,
you know.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
My my standoffish ness when it comes to it is
I just think it's exposing kids to a lot of
things to navigate at an early age, which, you know,
I get it. Everybody's different. It's it's not there's no
right or wrong answer. Tons of her friends, our friends
have their kids on social media, and we are just
trying to hold off as long as possible. But it's
been a big might have contention with Sabella And I
(03:03):
just saw today that Instagram is now trying to step
up with their parental controls so that kids who are
basically kids when you put your name and you set
up your app, you're only going to be fed PG
thirteen type content whatever that means.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
But what is PG thirteen content really? I mean, I
think PG.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Thirteen is you can have a kiss, but no foul language,
no but words, no but words, and maybe love scenes
like full on love scenes.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Like acting stuff. I mean, I'm talking about what you'd
see on what you'd see on Instagram. Oh, I guess
news gets censored, like what gets censored?
Speaker 1 (03:45):
That makes Pg. Thirteen.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
But that being said, you know, we're struggling with this,
even the Snapchat of it all, because our daughter keeps
saying it's not social media. It's just like another way
all the kids communicate on Snapchat. But then I check
out the app and it's definitely full blown social media.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
There's a for you page, you scroll, you do everything
that you do on the problem that we have.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
All of the problem that we have is the following. Okay,
so they have a group of friends that they have
these chats, right, but the number can be accessible for
them to get a direct message from whoever, and it's
up to them to accept that person so they can
start communicating with that person. The kids say, I will
never do that. I was, and I had this conversation
(04:23):
with Sabella. She said, you don't trust me. I have
a good judgment. I'm not going to start a conversation
with a person that I don't know. It's just my group.
And I said, Isabella, curiosity kill the cat. And the
reality is, at your age, okay, you can say to
me all you want, I'm never gonna do it. But
(04:43):
if for whatever reason, one day you get a request
and it looks interesting and you think it's I'm just
gonna go click, just just because why not, and then
you can get yourself into a bad situation even if
you if you don't want to. And she was like,
I will never do that, and I said, Isabella, ninety
nine point nine of you do it not because you
(05:04):
want to get into trouble, not because you think it's
anything wrong. You go in very innocently thinking, oh, it
doesn't really matter. I'm just accepting somebody. What if I
just get a new friend. But at the end of
the day, you don't know what's behind that number or
that handle that is requesting access to your life.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Is your concern because my concern isn't just that part
of it. That is a big part of it.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
That's the part of petrifies really, So you're not concerned
about what they see on the feed at all times?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Yes, but yes me, but I'm more concerned about somebody
going into her head saying, hey, how are you. I'm
from so and so in California. Oh my god, I
saw that you play tennis. It's so cool too.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
As a parent, you can see where they follow. You
could make sure who's this person? You got those conversations.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
But she can. She can engage with somebody and then
delete it and then we don't know, and then do
it again and deleted. I don't know how that the mechanics. Oh,
I don't know how the mechanics of it all work.
But to me, the amount of predators that are out
there is waiting for situations like this to happen, especially
with Sabella. That is somebody that is in the public
eye because of who we are. Now do you know
how many people are opening tiktoks.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
So many fake accounts.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Yeah, that is not even her. She doesn't have social
media channels. She has sebitenis because we are the one posting.
She doesn't know anything about it. So it's scary. That's
my main thing that you go, it doesn't matter how
smart she is and how much we monitor. I don't
want an ahole female male to feel like, oh I
have an opening here.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Mine's the double amy minds that and the content on
the scroll, which I struggle with. Guys, Listen, I again,
there's no right or wrong answer to this. But like
I said, we have so many friends who have social media,
their kids have social media, and I don't judge anybody.
It's just this is a hard thing for me to
wrap my head around that we are struggling with Sabella.
Which you know, this is a fun segue because you
(06:53):
know the last host Chared I did by myself, we
talked a lot about or I I should say, ask
the audience it's give me some parenting tips because I'm
sure struggling with Sabella. And there's a lot of people
that had some very good advice. Some of it I
think easier said than done, and it's kind of where
your head is at, I guess, in the process and
how lean you can be. But here was one of them, Roz.
The first one says, don't nag, let them learn some
(07:15):
things the hard way.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
And I do agree. We can't. You can't.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Even though it can be a tendency to want to
be a helicopter parent, it's very it's not great for
their development. Like I guess, you could probably say your
mom was a helicopter parent.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
My parents.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
My parents were not I fell down a lot, had
to figure it out on my own. They probably had
a bit too much.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Trust to me that I was doing always, you know,
good stuff.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
So I do agree with this for sure, but it
is a definitely a tough thing to it's navigating.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
It's crazy because I think I've been I am to
a point, but I'm nothing compared to how my mom was.
And I'm consciously not doing that because.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
I hated it.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
I used to this spies the way she would be
all over me and I couldn't keep a journal because
she would just mess with it. I couldn't do anything
and she was all over it. Now I understand why,
you know, and she was just being a parent. And
now I go, you know what, she did the right thing,
but I know how it affected me. I will look
(08:23):
at her with this guss because I'll be like, ugh,
why are you doing that? You know, like, I hated it.
I hated it, and I don't want Sabella to develop that,
you know, like, and I'm much more open with Sabella.
I have a very different relationship with Sabella than what
my mom had with me. And still she's very difficult.
(08:43):
Still she gives me a hard time. So if I
was even close to the way my mom was, I
don't even know if she could even look at me.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Yeah, no, I hear you, I hear you.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
This is I think we do probably have to let
her fall down a bit more, you know, to figure
how if you can really punch you in the face
of time.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
It's interesting because last night she's been begging for, like
you said, snapshot, and I had a whole conversation with
Sabella and I said so about that if we ever
compromise and allow you to have it, I just want
you to know that this is the this is the deal.
It's going to be a rule. I'm I'm going to
have complete access to your snapchat. So at any moment,
any day, anytime, I'm going to say, give me your
phone because I want to check your snapchat. And she looked,
(09:25):
I mean for a second, kind of like like I knew,
like a thousand thoughts went to her mind, like what
the heck right, And she's like, fine, fine, it do'es
what it takes. Fine, I don't care. I'm I have
nothing to hide. You can look at everything. And I said, no,
just look at me, look into my eyes at any time.
At any time, I'm going to check your Snapchat and
she's like, well, it's like, it's exactly what you guys
(09:46):
do with my text, Like I know, you guys look
look at my text and I said we might we
might not, but just know that we are all over it.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
But back to snapchat and then you explain to me.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
It disappears exactly, so I don't know exactly. Again, I
don't know the mechanics of snapchat to know how what's
going to be our decision? Are we gonna let her
do it or not? Or when? How? Why? I have
an idea.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
I'm gonna jump to another another point that listeners brought up,
and what do you think about this one? Negotiating is
actually good. It continues to build the trust you and
your daughter have.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
We negotiate every single day.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Way too much, I know. I think this is the thing.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
I this is the new age of parenting right because
when I was a kid, I did not negotiate at all.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
But can you imagine negotiating with your parents.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
This reminds me like when I was talking to her
last night, I don't know what I said, something about Sibilla,
your attitude and you feel like you have to argue
at all times. And you know what she said to me,
She's like, yeah, that's why people think that I should
be a lawyer. You guys said that I should be
a lawyer because I debate, because I argue, because I
ask questions. She was turning the whole conversation around into
(10:55):
a positive. It's great that I do that because I'm
going to be a lawyer. If I would looked at
her and I wanted to say, you're so full of shit.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
We've never I was never allowed to do that as
a kid. If I started talking back.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
To the little about it now.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
I would have been grounded. Yeah, so I do think listen,
I will agree.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
I don't think it's a bad quality, especially as they
become mature, older, you know, young humans. But at this age,
I think it could be borderline, you get to it disrespectful.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
Yeah, corner guy, So Bellie is a girl that are
five years old. We had to call the pedatrician and
ask the doctor Alison Man, you remember, ask her, look
is this normal? We have a five year old that comments, asks, debates,
is defiant. It's like she shouldn't have this kind of mind.
(11:45):
It's too much. We're like scared, and she's like, guys,
it's okay. It's very hard when you have very stubborn kids,
but in the future you're gonna appreciate it. It means
that she's going to be a very independent, strong woman.
And we're like, oh, okay, it's normal, and she's like,
it's absolutely normal. And what we're going to We're going okay, okay,
I guess we have to trust.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
So one hundred percent, I fully agree. What do you
think about this?
Speaker 3 (12:08):
If your teen wants to go to her friend's houses
all the time, make your house the cool house and
be the host, which I think we try to do.
We try to have a lot of play dates at
our house with Dylan's friends, with Sabella's if she's had
some sleepovers at our house, we try.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
To make it fun. I agree with that my house
was the cool house growing up. A lot of my
friends came over to my house.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
Yeah, my house was true.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
I didn't have to go I didn't have to go
seek it because we had fun hanging out home.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
We even had that debate because she's gonna have a
there's a sleepover being planned with seven girls her click,
her group and she came home saying, Oh, we're gonna
do We're gonna go to the mall and we're gonna
do this, and we're gonna do that, and then we're
gonna stay over. Everybody's gonna stay over at this house.
And we were like, no, you're not. What do you mean.
It's like, you know the family. She's your boss, dad,
(12:53):
she works for ABC, she's the president. And Eric is like, girls,
she's not. She's not my boss, she's not the she
could be freaking Michelle and out a mom on Barack Obama.
We don't care, you know what I mean. So it's
like the reality is it's not.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
Really going to happen, but we're not. Everybody does it different.
One of your friends and she's had.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Sleepovers and we're okay with it. It's just I feel
like you comfortable.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Even if we expand. I think you have to know
the parents a bit. She's not having you have to
know them a bit.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
I don't want this whole podcast to be about let's
rant about Sabella, because that's where we're headed.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
That's no, we're not a bad I don't want to
go into that place.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
We're not ranting about Sabella. We're ranting about being parents
of a of a of a teenager, of a teenager, exactly.
It has nothing to do with Sabella specifically.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Yeah no, but we've used her name a lot.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
Okay, so her name is Maria.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
Yeah no, no, but just in general, these are the
interesting things. Now, this one, I do agree. Never talk
to a teen and I'm terrible at this. Never talk
to a teen when they are upset. Let them cool down,
first match energy.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
It's very important. I don't know how to you that.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
I The problem is that Sabella actually never.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
She triggers me.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
I argues with you. Sabella looks at you like you like,
oh my god, Maria. The thing is that Maria never,
she never argues with you. She looks at you like
you're tripping. She looks at you like you're tripping. You're
the one is you become the child, and you're the
ones that you cannot stop.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
This one.
Speaker 3 (14:21):
I do like, though, just remember teenage girls grow out
of the rebellious phage. Try to have some fun with
it while you're there. Much well, I think we try
to laugh. It's good to try to laugh sometimes and
just be like, oh my god. And I do think
it's much more important like this one walk away and
revisit later.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
I am terrible about walking away from a situation.
Speaker 3 (14:43):
If there's a situation going on, I want in now,
and then what happens is it gets heightened, it builds,
it explodes, and it's usually bad. What I need to
do is I need to be able to patience and
walk away from a situation that would be ideal. But
look all this to say, I mean thank you every
for sending in these, these these tips and these good
(15:03):
words of advice. We think it's incredibly valuable and we
don't take a life. Yes, thank you again, We're I
will say this. Sabella is a phenomenal little girl.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
She is so uh you.
Speaker 3 (15:15):
Know, we're so proud of her and so many things
as she does. We are just for the first time,
obviously ever, being hit with the full blown teenage phase.
And I don't think the teenage years will be the
same for Dylan.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
I think it'll be different.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
He's also very stubborn, but I think it'll be a
bit different in the way he navigates it.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Uh and maybe just with girls, it's a little trickier.
I don't know. This is my obviously first time.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
I have a question for the audience. You know, we
have two Sabelli's thirteen Maria, Maria thirteen and Dylan, and
Dylan is seven, and Sibeli is convinced that we have
that I have a favorite. Sabelli is convinced that she's
your favorite and that Dylan is my favorite. And she
says it all the time, and I refuse, and I says, Sybelle,
(16:00):
you're my number one, You're my first born. I love
you both the same, and I hug her, but she
tells me a lot. I think deeply, she feels it deeply,
like my favorite child is Dylan. Is that normal like
people that have two kids, and especially a boy and
a girl. Is it normal for the oldest one to
feel that way? Because I don't know what else to
(16:20):
do to let her know this.
Speaker 3 (16:22):
When you were growing up, I'm sure you felt, hands
down you were your mom's favorite.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
No, Georgie was my mom's favorite.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
Do you think so? Really?
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Well? It was me because I was a girl and
she always wanted out. She actually did not want a girl.
She likes boys. It's just that after having three then
she's like, I want to have a girl, but my
mom prefers boys, and the pride and joy of my
mom is Georgie. She loves all of us. Actually, she
adores Franco because frank is the most sensitive. Franco is
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the one that is there for them at all times.
Pito is a doctor, is also the priduct Joy.
Speaker 3 (16:57):
I say it now, but when they were young time,
when you're younger, was a doctor. When he was a kid,
Franko was not.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
If you ask my brothers, they will say that hands down,
my mom's favorite pratte and joy is me because she dedicated.
When I was born, my mom retired and her life
became rosalind when when my brothers were growing up, she
was still working. She was a school teacher. I was born,
and she's like, I'm done. I'm all about my girl.
So and if you ask Georgie, like, to me, he's
(17:23):
a favorite. If you ask Georgie, Georgie will say, oh
my god, you are the favorite. Like we are nothing,
you know what I mean. It's like, it's interesting, it's
famili dynamics. But to me, growing up, I'll always be like, Okay,
Georgie is a favorite. Was Juji was a perfect child,
like a nerd. Never gave any problems, very self spoken,
incredibly talented at a piano, or just a good, good kid.
Speaker 3 (17:52):
Well, listen, like we said, thank you everybody. This has
been really fun with those with those responses.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
But listen.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
A couple of topics I wanted I've been following and seeing.
One of them was I just saw Christy Teague came
out I guess saying that she's due exempic now after
her pregnancies.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
Ozempic is a trip. I will say that. I'm just
gonna start by saying that I think I think.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
Is taken.
Speaker 3 (18:16):
Yeah, but I think people who really, if people really
need it to get themselves in a place of health,
I think it could be a great kickstarter.
Speaker 1 (18:28):
The problem I'm really having is twofold.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
One, when you get off of it, what happens, You're
gonna go right back because you're not learning how to
eat or maintain your weight. But Two, the people that
I'm seeing, at least in Hollywood that are on it,
it's becoming so unbelievably a staple signature. Look like I
can do you just look at somebody's face and you're like,
oh my god, that person's another ozembic victory.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
Not only the face the whole body, even when you
when you hog them, when you touch them, it's very flaccid.
It's becoming like it's yeah, it's very weird, but it
does to me. Also it's funny because I I hug
a lot so many women right, and the way the
body feels in terms of like absolutely no muscle, it's
like very very fluffy. It's very interesting.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
I just wish doctors would speak up a bit more
about that, because to me, it can't be healthy if
you start looking so gaunt, so frail and almost skeleton.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
Like. What I don't I don't understand is you do
it right and then you lose a lot of weight,
But then every expert tells you when you stop, if
you don't get if you don't have good habits, is
you're going to gain it back and even more. And
a lot of people claim, oh, I stopped doing it
like like a year ago. Oh I've thought it. I
did it like two years ago, And they still have
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maintained not only the same weight, but the same skeletor
look to them, and I don't think they've been honest.
Just say I'm still doing it and it's been years.
Maybe I don't do it the amount of times consecutively.
Maybe I spread them, but there's no way you stop
doing it because you look like you're doing it.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
It's getting a little too intense, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
I think again, if it helps somebody get over a hump,
and it's used the right way or monitored the right
way by a doctor.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
To me, eric more than a zembic is how women
are transforming their faces now with all these face lips
and all the treatments. I just saw a friend of mine, Dude,
I just saw a friend of mine. Beautiful to begin with.
There's no need for her to do anything. She's not
even fifty years old. She's in her forties. Looks like
she's in her thirties because she's tiny, you know what
I mean. She looks very young. Just they did not
(20:30):
a full of nose job. It's something that you do
that they inject, So it's not surgical. It's no, it's
not surgical. It's like, you know, they inject whatever they
do and they manipulate the nose and it looks like
a like a like a surgery, but it's not. I
don't know if it's I don't know how long it
stays I have no idea how that works. But the
chin and the nose, it's a different face. It's a
different phase. And you see all these girls I don't
(20:52):
want her name names like big Hollywood people, not stars
like personalities. You know there are big stars. It's a
different human being, Like how do you?
Speaker 1 (21:02):
How do you?
Speaker 2 (21:02):
I don't understand how do you live like that? You
that aren't happy with yourself because listen doing a little
bit of lip fillers or doing a little bit of
botox and trying to prevent aging somehow. Okay, I get
it, It is fine, do it, do what makes you happy.
But when they completely fundamentally change their faces that it
becomes a different human being. Is like, how do you
(21:25):
do that? How do you look at yourself in the mirror?
Some of them look fantastic, but how do you look
at yourself in the mirror and be like, oh, I
used to be named Joanna, Now I should be named
Fabiola because I'm a different person.
Speaker 3 (21:36):
I do think there's grounds for sure where I see
some people, I'm like, oh, yeah, that made sense. I
understand why you did it, and I can see why
it makes you happy. But there are people that do
it that I blows my mind because I think they
look great the way they are, and all of a
sudden they go too far with another thing.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
I don't mind about that. I mind about how do
you live knowing that your face and your body is
eighty percent different from what God gave you?
Speaker 1 (22:01):
My thing brings you happiness that makes you more confident
and makes.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
Sure that when is it going to be the day
that I'm going to be like? I just need to
do stuff. I mean, I know for sure at some
point I'm just gonna do a little bit tick take
over here that this needs to be.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
Here we go the one saying I don't understand.
Speaker 2 (22:17):
I look fabulous, but at some point I'm fifty two,
when I'm sixty something, like guys, he goes today.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
There we go a little bit.
Speaker 2 (22:24):
I'm still gonna look like me though.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
You know what else is a great diet diet trend
is Dance with the Stars. He lose a lot of
weight doing Dance with the stars. These people getting crazy
and crazy.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
Shape with the six and seven hours or dancing.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
I saw this thing about Dylan that f Friant worry.
I guess he's working his butt off so intensely. He's
like exhausted. He comes home, he feels like he can't
even be there for his girlfriend. He can't function when
he's done with the hours and the amount of work
he's putting in.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
To try to stay on the ship. Believe I believe it.
Speaker 2 (22:51):
Man.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
Those guys, they those guys and girls, they.
Speaker 3 (22:53):
Bust their butts to get really good at the end
of the thing. I remember being asked to do Dancing
with the Stars years ago after I did the movie
The Ugly Truth, and I always petrified and I said, Nope,
not doing it. I know you've always wanted to do
it in a weird way, like you've always been something
be very fun to because you love to dance.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
I love to dance. I think they have called me
three times to do it, and each time we discuss
it and we're like, I'm not going to do it.
I think it will be an incredible experience, incredible because
I love dancing, because the caliber of dancers that you
get to dance with, in terms of who's your partner,
those people are incredible. So for many for health reasons,
(23:34):
for fun reasons, for dream reasons, it'll be amazing. But
I know that my body it's too much work right now,
and I think I'll be I'll get injured within one day.
And because also because I feel like I'm going to
have something to prove, because people know that I grew
up as a dancer, so they have an expectation. So
(23:55):
just because of that, I feel like I have to
go like extra hard because I'm going, oh my god,
people think that I should probably win this thing. So
let me just and I know me now, I'll be
like within two days, guys, I can't move.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
I'll do let me tell you some serious exercise great way.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
I wonder I wonder if he if he has if
if it has created issues with the celebrities that go,
if he if it creates issues within the relationships. Not
because of I'm tired. I'm tired, and I don't have
time to spend with my kids and my wife and
I'm exhausted so I can't even touch her or touch him.
(24:32):
I wonder if he has created problems between marriages. Because
you know, when you're dancing and when you're doing all
these different disciplines of dance, you know there's something there's
there's something incredibly intimate about dance. When you spend so
much time with somebody in the public. I don't think
there has been broken marriages because of Dancing with the Stars.
Speaker 3 (24:52):
I'm wrong, But wasn't the guy from Shark Thing? Didn't
he get a divorce after Dancing Stars and his new
wife is the was the dancer and Dancing with the Stars.
Speaker 2 (24:59):
I don't know if he was married.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
I thought he was.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
I don't know who it was.
Speaker 1 (25:02):
Maybe I'm making that up, but I feel like there's
been a number of.
Speaker 3 (25:04):
Rumors of stories of those dancers and the partners, and
maybe some of them are all rumors because they use
it to build up the social media and the following
so people can actually you know who knows well A
lot of respect for him. This is an episode that
was all over the place as usual.
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Speaker 3 (01:19):
Absolutely listen, you know, it's so funny we just had
uh I think we've spoken about this about how we're
just you know, and everybody's different. There's no parenting way
that's the right way by any means, and we don't
think our way is the right way. But uh, I
probably more so even than you, am very very panic
and standoffish about social media with the kids, right and.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Well not anymore based on the stuff that I've been
seeing what not you on social media?
Speaker 1 (01:48):
No, with the kids being on social media.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Not me, We're no years that you would you have
been like, I've been very very stand offish about the
about the kids.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
I was like with your social media.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Well, neither of us. I think we're on social media time.
All you do is live on social media, editing, cutting.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Promoters, sub promoting a movie. Guys that I'm busting my ass.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
But when it comes to the kids, all I we've
been talking a lot about that, and it's funny. Well,
Dylan's too young, but Sabella has so many friends with
you know, there's this pressure going on for Snapchat, which
I thought was a dying platform, but apparently it's still
a very popular platform.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
I think it's huge.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Well, yeah, I guess it still is big. I didn't
think I knew it had a moment. I guess it's
still big with younger generally.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
I ask you, snapshot is the arena William's husband or
Jesse husband.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Reddit, Jasmine Tuke's husband?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Okay, and what's wild? So a couple things are happening,
you know.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
My my standoffish ness when it comes to it is
I just think it's exposing kids to a lot of
things to navigate at an early age, which, you know,
I get it. Everybody's different. It's it's not there's no
right or wrong answer. Tons of her friends, our friends
have their kids on social media, and we are just
trying to hold off as long as possible. But it's
been a big might have contention with Sabella And I
(03:03):
just saw today that Instagram is now trying to step
up with their parental controls so that kids who are
basically kids when you put your name and you set
up your app, you're only going to be fed PG
thirteen type content whatever that means.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
But what is PG thirteen content really? I mean, I
think PG.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Thirteen is you can have a kiss, but no foul language,
no but words, no but words, and maybe love scenes
like full on love scenes.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Like acting stuff. I mean, I'm talking about what you'd
see on what you'd see on Instagram. Oh, I guess
news gets censored, like what gets censored?
Speaker 1 (03:45):
That makes Pg. Thirteen.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
But that being said, you know, we're struggling with this,
even the Snapchat of it all, because our daughter keeps
saying it's not social media. It's just like another way
all the kids communicate on Snapchat. But then I check
out the app and it's definitely full blown social media.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
There's a for you page, you scroll, you do everything
that you do on the problem that we have.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
All of the problem that we have is the following. Okay,
so they have a group of friends that they have
these chats, right, but the number can be accessible for
them to get a direct message from whoever, and it's
up to them to accept that person so they can
start communicating with that person. The kids say, I will
never do that. I was, and I had this conversation
(04:23):
with Sabella. She said, you don't trust me. I have
a good judgment. I'm not going to start a conversation
with a person that I don't know. It's just my group.
And I said, Isabella, curiosity kill the cat. And the
reality is, at your age, okay, you can say to
me all you want, I'm never gonna do it. But
(04:43):
if for whatever reason, one day you get a request
and it looks interesting and you think it's I'm just
gonna go click, just just because why not, and then
you can get yourself into a bad situation even if
you if you don't want to. And she was like,
I will never do that, and I said, Isabella, ninety
nine point nine of you do it not because you
(05:04):
want to get into trouble, not because you think it's
anything wrong. You go in very innocently thinking, oh, it
doesn't really matter. I'm just accepting somebody. What if I
just get a new friend. But at the end of
the day, you don't know what's behind that number or
that handle that is requesting access to your life.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Is your concern because my concern isn't just that part
of it. That is a big part of it.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
That's the part of petrifies really, So you're not concerned
about what they see on the feed at all times?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Yes, but yes me, but I'm more concerned about somebody
going into her head saying, hey, how are you. I'm
from so and so in California. Oh my god, I
saw that you play tennis. It's so cool too.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
As a parent, you can see where they follow. You
could make sure who's this person? You got those conversations.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
But she can. She can engage with somebody and then
delete it and then we don't know, and then do
it again and deleted. I don't know how that the mechanics. Oh,
I don't know how the mechanics of it all work.
But to me, the amount of predators that are out
there is waiting for situations like this to happen, especially
with Sabella. That is somebody that is in the public
eye because of who we are. Now do you know
how many people are opening tiktoks.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
So many fake accounts.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Yeah, that is not even her. She doesn't have social
media channels. She has sebitenis because we are the one posting.
She doesn't know anything about it. So it's scary. That's
my main thing that you go, it doesn't matter how
smart she is and how much we monitor. I don't
want an ahole female male to feel like, oh I
have an opening here.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Mine's the double amy minds that and the content on
the scroll, which I struggle with. Guys, Listen, I again,
there's no right or wrong answer to this. But like
I said, we have so many friends who have social media,
their kids have social media, and I don't judge anybody.
It's just this is a hard thing for me to
wrap my head around that we are struggling with Sabella.
Which you know, this is a fun segue because you
(06:53):
know the last host Chared I did by myself, we
talked a lot about or I I should say, ask
the audience it's give me some parenting tips because I'm
sure struggling with Sabella. And there's a lot of people
that had some very good advice. Some of it I
think easier said than done, and it's kind of where
your head is at, I guess, in the process and
how lean you can be. But here was one of them, Roz.
The first one says, don't nag, let them learn some
(07:15):
things the hard way.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
And I do agree. We can't. You can't.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Even though it can be a tendency to want to
be a helicopter parent, it's very it's not great for
their development. Like I guess, you could probably say your
mom was a helicopter parent.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
My parents.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
My parents were not I fell down a lot, had
to figure it out on my own. They probably had
a bit too much.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Trust to me that I was doing always, you know,
good stuff.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
So I do agree with this for sure, but it
is a definitely a tough thing to it's navigating.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
It's crazy because I think I've been I am to
a point, but I'm nothing compared to how my mom was.
And I'm consciously not doing that because.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
I hated it.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
I used to this spies the way she would be
all over me and I couldn't keep a journal because
she would just mess with it. I couldn't do anything
and she was all over it. Now I understand why,
you know, and she was just being a parent. And
now I go, you know what, she did the right thing,
but I know how it affected me. I will look
(08:23):
at her with this guss because I'll be like, ugh,
why are you doing that? You know, like, I hated it.
I hated it, and I don't want Sabella to develop that,
you know, like, and I'm much more open with Sabella.
I have a very different relationship with Sabella than what
my mom had with me. And still she's very difficult.
(08:43):
Still she gives me a hard time. So if I
was even close to the way my mom was, I
don't even know if she could even look at me.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Yeah, no, I hear you, I hear you.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
This is I think we do probably have to let
her fall down a bit more, you know, to figure
how if you can really punch you in the face
of time.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
It's interesting because last night she's been begging for, like
you said, snapshot, and I had a whole conversation with
Sabella and I said so about that if we ever
compromise and allow you to have it, I just want
you to know that this is the this is the deal.
It's going to be a rule. I'm I'm going to
have complete access to your snapchat. So at any moment,
any day, anytime, I'm going to say, give me your
phone because I want to check your snapchat. And she looked,
(09:25):
I mean for a second, kind of like like I knew,
like a thousand thoughts went to her mind, like what
the heck right, And she's like, fine, fine, it do'es
what it takes. Fine, I don't care. I'm I have
nothing to hide. You can look at everything. And I said, no,
just look at me, look into my eyes at any time.
At any time, I'm going to check your Snapchat and
she's like, well, it's like, it's exactly what you guys
(09:46):
do with my text, Like I know, you guys look
look at my text and I said we might we
might not, but just know that we are all over it.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
But back to snapchat and then you explain to me.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
It disappears exactly, so I don't know exactly. Again, I
don't know the mechanics of snapchat to know how what's
going to be our decision? Are we gonna let her
do it or not? Or when? How? Why? I have
an idea.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
I'm gonna jump to another another point that listeners brought up,
and what do you think about this one? Negotiating is
actually good. It continues to build the trust you and
your daughter have.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
We negotiate every single day.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Way too much, I know. I think this is the thing.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
I this is the new age of parenting right because
when I was a kid, I did not negotiate at all.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
But can you imagine negotiating with your parents.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
This reminds me like when I was talking to her
last night, I don't know what I said, something about Sibilla,
your attitude and you feel like you have to argue
at all times. And you know what she said to me,
She's like, yeah, that's why people think that I should
be a lawyer. You guys said that I should be
a lawyer because I debate, because I argue, because I
ask questions. She was turning the whole conversation around into
(10:55):
a positive. It's great that I do that because I'm
going to be a lawyer. If I would looked at
her and I wanted to say, you're so full of shit.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
We've never I was never allowed to do that as
a kid. If I started talking back.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
To the little about it now.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
I would have been grounded. Yeah, so I do think listen,
I will agree.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
I don't think it's a bad quality, especially as they
become mature, older, you know, young humans. But at this age,
I think it could be borderline, you get to it disrespectful.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
Yeah, corner guy, So Bellie is a girl that are
five years old. We had to call the pedatrician and
ask the doctor Alison Man, you remember, ask her, look
is this normal? We have a five year old that comments, asks, debates,
is defiant. It's like she shouldn't have this kind of mind.
(11:45):
It's too much. We're like scared, and she's like, guys,
it's okay. It's very hard when you have very stubborn kids,
but in the future you're gonna appreciate it. It means
that she's going to be a very independent, strong woman.
And we're like, oh, okay, it's normal, and she's like,
it's absolutely normal. And what we're going to We're going okay, okay,
I guess we have to trust.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
So one hundred percent, I fully agree. What do you
think about this?
Speaker 3 (12:08):
If your teen wants to go to her friend's houses
all the time, make your house the cool house and
be the host, which I think we try to do.
We try to have a lot of play dates at
our house with Dylan's friends, with Sabella's if she's had
some sleepovers at our house, we try.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
To make it fun. I agree with that my house
was the cool house growing up. A lot of my
friends came over to my house.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
Yeah, my house was true.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
I didn't have to go I didn't have to go
seek it because we had fun hanging out home.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
We even had that debate because she's gonna have a
there's a sleepover being planned with seven girls her click,
her group and she came home saying, Oh, we're gonna
do We're gonna go to the mall and we're gonna
do this, and we're gonna do that, and then we're
gonna stay over. Everybody's gonna stay over at this house.
And we were like, no, you're not. What do you mean.
It's like, you know the family. She's your boss, dad,
(12:53):
she works for ABC, she's the president. And Eric is like, girls,
she's not. She's not my boss, she's not the she
could be freaking Michelle and out a mom on Barack Obama.
We don't care, you know what I mean. So it's
like the reality is it's not.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
Really going to happen, but we're not. Everybody does it different.
One of your friends and she's had.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Sleepovers and we're okay with it. It's just I feel
like you comfortable.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Even if we expand. I think you have to know
the parents a bit. She's not having you have to
know them a bit.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
I don't want this whole podcast to be about let's
rant about Sabella, because that's where we're headed.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
That's no, we're not a bad I don't want to
go into that place.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
We're not ranting about Sabella. We're ranting about being parents
of a of a of a teenager, of a teenager, exactly.
It has nothing to do with Sabella specifically.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Yeah no, but we've used her name a lot.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
Okay, so her name is Maria.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
Yeah no, no, but just in general, these are the
interesting things. Now, this one, I do agree. Never talk
to a teen and I'm terrible at this. Never talk
to a teen when they are upset. Let them cool down,
first match energy.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
It's very important. I don't know how to you that.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
I The problem is that Sabella actually never.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
She triggers me.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
I argues with you. Sabella looks at you like you like,
oh my god, Maria. The thing is that Maria never,
she never argues with you. She looks at you like
you're tripping. She looks at you like you're tripping. You're
the one is you become the child, and you're the
ones that you cannot stop.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
This one.
Speaker 3 (14:21):
I do like, though, just remember teenage girls grow out
of the rebellious phage. Try to have some fun with
it while you're there. Much well, I think we try
to laugh. It's good to try to laugh sometimes and
just be like, oh my god. And I do think
it's much more important like this one walk away and
revisit later.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
I am terrible about walking away from a situation.
Speaker 3 (14:43):
If there's a situation going on, I want in now,
and then what happens is it gets heightened, it builds,
it explodes, and it's usually bad. What I need to
do is I need to be able to patience and
walk away from a situation that would be ideal. But
look all this to say, I mean thank you every
for sending in these, these these tips and these good
(15:03):
words of advice. We think it's incredibly valuable and we
don't take a life. Yes, thank you again, We're I
will say this. Sabella is a phenomenal little girl.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
She is so uh you.
Speaker 3 (15:15):
Know, we're so proud of her and so many things
as she does. We are just for the first time,
obviously ever, being hit with the full blown teenage phase.
And I don't think the teenage years will be the
same for Dylan.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
I think it'll be different.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
He's also very stubborn, but I think it'll be a
bit different in the way he navigates it.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Uh and maybe just with girls, it's a little trickier.
I don't know. This is my obviously first time.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
I have a question for the audience. You know, we
have two Sabelli's thirteen Maria, Maria thirteen and Dylan, and
Dylan is seven, and Sibeli is convinced that we have
that I have a favorite. Sabelli is convinced that she's
your favorite and that Dylan is my favorite. And she
says it all the time, and I refuse, and I says, Sybelle,
(16:00):
you're my number one, You're my first born. I love
you both the same, and I hug her, but she
tells me a lot. I think deeply, she feels it deeply,
like my favorite child is Dylan. Is that normal like
people that have two kids, and especially a boy and
a girl. Is it normal for the oldest one to
feel that way? Because I don't know what else to
(16:20):
do to let her know this.
Speaker 3 (16:22):
When you were growing up, I'm sure you felt, hands
down you were your mom's favorite.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
No, Georgie was my mom's favorite.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
Do you think so? Really?
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Well? It was me because I was a girl and
she always wanted out. She actually did not want a girl.
She likes boys. It's just that after having three then
she's like, I want to have a girl, but my
mom prefers boys, and the pride and joy of my
mom is Georgie. She loves all of us. Actually, she
adores Franco because frank is the most sensitive. Franco is
(16:53):
the one that is there for them at all times.
Pito is a doctor, is also the priduct Joy.
Speaker 3 (16:57):
I say it now, but when they were young time,
when you're younger, was a doctor. When he was a kid,
Franko was not.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
If you ask my brothers, they will say that hands down,
my mom's favorite pratte and joy is me because she dedicated.
When I was born, my mom retired and her life
became rosalind when when my brothers were growing up, she
was still working. She was a school teacher. I was born,
and she's like, I'm done. I'm all about my girl.
So and if you ask Georgie, like, to me, he's
(17:23):
a favorite. If you ask Georgie, Georgie will say, oh
my god, you are the favorite. Like we are nothing,
you know what I mean. It's like, it's interesting, it's
famili dynamics. But to me, growing up, I'll always be like, Okay,
Georgie is a favorite. Was Juji was a perfect child,
like a nerd. Never gave any problems, very self spoken,
incredibly talented at a piano, or just a good, good kid.
Speaker 3 (17:52):
Well, listen, like we said, thank you everybody. This has
been really fun with those with those responses.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
But listen.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
A couple of topics I wanted I've been following and seeing.
One of them was I just saw Christy Teague came
out I guess saying that she's due exempic now after
her pregnancies.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
Ozempic is a trip. I will say that. I'm just
gonna start by saying that I think I think.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
Is taken.
Speaker 3 (18:16):
Yeah, but I think people who really, if people really
need it to get themselves in a place of health,
I think it could be a great kickstarter.
Speaker 1 (18:28):
The problem I'm really having is twofold.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
One, when you get off of it, what happens, You're
gonna go right back because you're not learning how to
eat or maintain your weight. But Two, the people that
I'm seeing, at least in Hollywood that are on it,
it's becoming so unbelievably a staple signature. Look like I
can do you just look at somebody's face and you're like,
oh my god, that person's another ozembic victory.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
Not only the face the whole body, even when you
when you hog them, when you touch them, it's very flaccid.
It's becoming like it's yeah, it's very weird, but it
does to me. Also it's funny because I I hug
a lot so many women right, and the way the
body feels in terms of like absolutely no muscle, it's
like very very fluffy. It's very interesting.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
I just wish doctors would speak up a bit more
about that, because to me, it can't be healthy if
you start looking so gaunt, so frail and almost skeleton.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
Like. What I don't I don't understand is you do
it right and then you lose a lot of weight,
But then every expert tells you when you stop, if
you don't get if you don't have good habits, is
you're going to gain it back and even more. And
a lot of people claim, oh, I stopped doing it
like like a year ago. Oh I've thought it. I
did it like two years ago, And they still have
(19:44):
maintained not only the same weight, but the same skeletor
look to them, and I don't think they've been honest.
Just say I'm still doing it and it's been years.
Maybe I don't do it the amount of times consecutively.
Maybe I spread them, but there's no way you stop
doing it because you look like you're doing it.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
It's getting a little too intense, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
I think again, if it helps somebody get over a hump,
and it's used the right way or monitored the right
way by a doctor.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
To me, eric more than a zembic is how women
are transforming their faces now with all these face lips
and all the treatments. I just saw a friend of mine, Dude,
I just saw a friend of mine. Beautiful to begin with.
There's no need for her to do anything. She's not
even fifty years old. She's in her forties. Looks like
she's in her thirties because she's tiny, you know what
I mean. She looks very young. Just they did not
(20:30):
a full of nose job. It's something that you do
that they inject, So it's not surgical. It's no, it's
not surgical. It's like, you know, they inject whatever they
do and they manipulate the nose and it looks like
a like a like a surgery, but it's not. I
don't know if it's I don't know how long it
stays I have no idea how that works. But the
chin and the nose, it's a different face. It's a
different phase. And you see all these girls I don't
(20:52):
want her name names like big Hollywood people, not stars
like personalities. You know there are big stars. It's a
different human being, Like how do you?
Speaker 1 (21:02):
How do you?
Speaker 2 (21:02):
I don't understand how do you live like that? You
that aren't happy with yourself because listen doing a little
bit of lip fillers or doing a little bit of
botox and trying to prevent aging somehow. Okay, I get
it, It is fine, do it, do what makes you happy.
But when they completely fundamentally change their faces that it
becomes a different human being. Is like, how do you
(21:25):
do that? How do you look at yourself in the mirror?
Some of them look fantastic, but how do you look
at yourself in the mirror and be like, oh, I
used to be named Joanna, Now I should be named
Fabiola because I'm a different person.
Speaker 3 (21:36):
I do think there's grounds for sure where I see
some people, I'm like, oh, yeah, that made sense. I
understand why you did it, and I can see why
it makes you happy. But there are people that do
it that I blows my mind because I think they
look great the way they are, and all of a
sudden they go too far with another thing.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
I don't mind about that. I mind about how do
you live knowing that your face and your body is
eighty percent different from what God gave you?
Speaker 1 (22:01):
My thing brings you happiness that makes you more confident
and makes.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
Sure that when is it going to be the day
that I'm going to be like? I just need to
do stuff. I mean, I know for sure at some
point I'm just gonna do a little bit tick take
over here that this needs to be.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
Here we go the one saying I don't understand.
Speaker 2 (22:17):
I look fabulous, but at some point I'm fifty two,
when I'm sixty something, like guys, he goes today.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
There we go a little bit.
Speaker 2 (22:24):
I'm still gonna look like me though.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
You know what else is a great diet diet trend
is Dance with the Stars. He lose a lot of
weight doing Dance with the stars. These people getting crazy
and crazy.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
Shape with the six and seven hours or dancing.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
I saw this thing about Dylan that f Friant worry.
I guess he's working his butt off so intensely. He's
like exhausted. He comes home, he feels like he can't
even be there for his girlfriend. He can't function when
he's done with the hours and the amount of work
he's putting in.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
To try to stay on the ship. Believe I believe it.
Speaker 2 (22:51):
Man.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
Those guys, they those guys and girls, they.
Speaker 3 (22:53):
Bust their butts to get really good at the end
of the thing. I remember being asked to do Dancing
with the Stars years ago after I did the movie
The Ugly Truth, and I always petrified and I said, Nope,
not doing it. I know you've always wanted to do
it in a weird way, like you've always been something
be very fun to because you love to dance.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
I love to dance. I think they have called me
three times to do it, and each time we discuss
it and we're like, I'm not going to do it.
I think it will be an incredible experience, incredible because
I love dancing, because the caliber of dancers that you
get to dance with, in terms of who's your partner,
those people are incredible. So for many for health reasons,
(23:34):
for fun reasons, for dream reasons, it'll be amazing. But
I know that my body it's too much work right now,
and I think I'll be I'll get injured within one day.
And because also because I feel like I'm going to
have something to prove, because people know that I grew
up as a dancer, so they have an expectation. So
(23:55):
just because of that, I feel like I have to
go like extra hard because I'm going, oh my god,
people think that I should probably win this thing. So
let me just and I know me now, I'll be
like within two days, guys, I can't move.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
I'll do let me tell you some serious exercise great way.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
I wonder I wonder if he if he has if
if it has created issues with the celebrities that go,
if he if it creates issues within the relationships. Not
because of I'm tired. I'm tired, and I don't have
time to spend with my kids and my wife and
I'm exhausted so I can't even touch her or touch him.
(24:32):
I wonder if he has created problems between marriages. Because
you know, when you're dancing and when you're doing all
these different disciplines of dance, you know there's something there's
there's something incredibly intimate about dance. When you spend so
much time with somebody in the public. I don't think
there has been broken marriages because of Dancing with the Stars.
Speaker 3 (24:52):
I'm wrong, But wasn't the guy from Shark Thing? Didn't
he get a divorce after Dancing Stars and his new
wife is the was the dancer and Dancing with the Stars.
Speaker 2 (24:59):
I don't know if he was married.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
I thought he was.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
I don't know who it was.
Speaker 1 (25:02):
Maybe I'm making that up, but I feel like there's
been a number of.
Speaker 3 (25:04):
Rumors of stories of those dancers and the partners, and
maybe some of them are all rumors because they use
it to build up the social media and the following
so people can actually you know who knows well A
lot of respect for him. This is an episode that
was all over the place as usual.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
Till next time.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
Thanks for listening. Don't forget to write us a review
and tell us what you think.
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Speaker 1 (25:38):
See you next time.
Speaker 2 (25:39):
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