December 4, 2025 • 22 mins
It’s that time of year where we’re all looking for gifts for our loved ones! From stocking stuffers to the latest new gadgets, Amy and T.J. are spending the next several weeks trying out some of the hottest gift ideas and will give you their honest take. Below is a link with more information on the product (which we have NOT been paid to promote), and we’ll also be sharing it on our Instagram @amyandtjpodcast.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Hey there, everybody. It is Thursday, December fourth, and this
is day four of our Holiday Gift Guide. And each
day we've been sharing with you some holiday gift ideas
that our producers from iHeart sent to our apartment. We're
testing them out fifteen in total, one every weekday, and
the hope is we can make your holiday shopping a
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little bit easier. We're not getting paid by these products.
We're giving our honest feedback about what these gifts have
been like to experience. And we have been very excited
about this particular gift.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
This is dangerous.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
It's a game. It's called fill your Tank questions people
are never honest about. Oh wow, okay you nervous?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Uh? I don't well, we're recording this. If I don't
like something, we can stop, all right.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
So this deck of cards, I think this already, this
seems like a really fun, interactive gift.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Again.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
It's called fill your Tank questions people are never honest about,
and so it has fifty three question cards. They're designed
to spark deeper, honest conversations and ones that you never
probably have on your own.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Now, is this something you can win or lose? Or
this is just something to have fun with like cars
of humanity against Umanity.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
So I didn't read the rules. I think it's just
to have fun. So basically there are they've got three
different levels, so three different levels of intensity, so it
lets you start out light and easy, and then you
can get into more vulnerable conversations at your own pace.
So each level takes you deeper, okay, and then you
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can get I didn't see this five bonus introspective questions,
so that you can get to know someone new or
reconnect with people you love. They suggest that you take
this box of cards with you on everything from wine
nights to weekend trips to late night couch chats, so
you can do it a group of two to six.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Don't take it on a honeymoon.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
And maybe you should do this before you propose.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
But this is how they describe this deck of cards, raw,
unfiltered and intentionally honest, a fun way to break down
walls and actually learn something real about the people around you.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
And that's why we got We held off because Sabine
was hanging out and opened this box, was checking out
and read us a few and we said stop. This
is going to be an incredible podcast because the questions
are uncomfortable. They're uncomfortable at least what we've seen so far,
and you're supposed to answer them honestly. Who's going to
answer this honestly in the middle of the game.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Well that's the whole point though, I mean the questions.
Are we going to answer this honestly? Can we say?
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Skip?
Speaker 1 (02:51):
So we right now A gave each other yep, some
cards from level one, level two, and level three to
ask one another. Now we have looked at these cards,
we have not so I think we should be able
to have pass.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Come on, let's not do that. No passes here. Let's
show the people how this game is supposed to work.
Oh my goodness, is this and no? You give the
price and everything later? Is this a fairly new game
where something like this has been out and we're just
hearing about it.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I've never heard of this game before. You know, I
love games, Cards against Humanity, all of those kind of fun.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
There's no winner loser in that, is it? Well, you're
just going around.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
There's no winner or loser. No, but you people play
it with a glass of beverage in hand and have
fun with How would.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
You play that? And seeing people get pissed like it
gets really uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Oh, I have seen I have been in situations where
couples get into we're going to break up fights over
certain things being revealed or said or shared or suspected.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
So maybe this game is not one for everybody. Really,
you need to be playing with people you are very close, comfortable,
and who will be like maybe family.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
I think you have to be in the right state
of mind. I think you have to be willing to
be open and vulnerable and want to hear honest answers
and not take things personally or have expectations that someone
should or needs to answer a certain way.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Is this supposed to be fun?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Though? It's supposed to be fun, But I'm a little murvous.
Maybe my story about breakup couples, but that was a
specific would you rather or I've one of those stupid
games and it just, man, it just absolutely spiraled out.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Okay, here, so these are the ones that Sabine already
let us here, so I'll share it. We've heard, so
let's give people an idea. Now. It just so happens
the ones Sabine gave us are all level three. Oh
I did not know.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
That she went straight for the love of free intensity.
That makes sense. Okay.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
So the cards just on one side have a color
and it says level one, level till over three And
then you turn on the back and the question is
there here it is is there somebody that left your
life that you wish stayed? A question like that? Right,
your head is spinning, and I'm sure people who are
listening you think about that. If you're sitting around with
a group of people and somebody asked you that in
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front of everybody, do you have and answer? Another card?
Level three? Describe your last poop.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Ill?
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Would you do that in front of a group?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
No?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yeah, Do you wish you lost your virginity at a
different time into a different person?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
That could cause a problem in a relationship?
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Another level three card? Turn them back and this is
all it says, worst sex story.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Go.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
What is the most physically attractive part of yourself? I
think we answer that in front of Sabine. We had
a good time with. Yes, what would your younger self
say about the person you are today? It's not so
bad as the level three Right, that's not bad. What
do you think is the most beautiful thing about me?
Is this one? So that gives you an idea those
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and when she went through those, we were having such
a good time. We said stop, we'll wait and we'll
do this in front of everybody. So do you so
far at least what you know of the game? Is
it something you recommend?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
I think this is great. I think this is fun.
I think this is a fun gift because it's something
that could be played later. You know, we've got family
gatherings and again, as long as you're in a comfortable space,
this is a really fun gift that everyone can enjoy.
I like that. It's an experience and it's something that
can be used again and again and again.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Oh, there's nothing political. You don't know that yet. You
want to go you know what I'm going to do this? Okay,
I'm a star. Level two. Let's go down the middle
with a steet spot. I question again, folks, she has
not seen it. I have not seen it. We're all
going to do it. Lie, you're ready to be it?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Yeah? All right?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Level two question from this gift we are possibly recommending
it says, would you rather be alone or settle for
the wrong person alone? What is an insult somebody said
to you that you still remember today, you're a fraud.
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What is something you think people over react to.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Life's little annoyances?
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Nice? What is something you learned in your last breakup?
And with that we'll take a commercial break up.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
That it's better to be it's it's better to rip
the band aid off?
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Wow? Wow? Okay, so those are all your level two.
I have to be honest with you. Not so bad.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
No, it wasn't bad. But let's see how you feel
when I return. Should I do level two? I'll do
level two. I'll do tit for tat all.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Right, that's what a relationship is, after all.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
When was the last time you cried? Uh?
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Probably this morning? Typically I do it in the morning,
you know what. I'm be honest. I cary almost daily
with something emotional, not because something upset me, but something
touches me in some way. What was the last It
was during news coverage of some kind. I cannot remember,
but it was a news story that did it.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Wow, I do I do concur you do cry almost daily?
It's very sweet? I see you?
Speaker 2 (08:13):
Why see not sweet? Sad? It's terrible.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
No, you you're you're I feel like you're in connection
with your emotions. That's amazing. All right, would you rather
break somebody's heart or get your heartbroken?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Give my heart broken?
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Yeah? What is the farthest you've cyber stalked someone?
Speaker 2 (08:30):
The farthest yep?
Speaker 1 (08:32):
What does?
Speaker 2 (08:32):
I don't even know what that means, Like how far?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
How long have you googled, like done a deep dive
basically on somebody, like you're trying to figure.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Out like what ours days, weeks, months, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
It's the farthest you've cyber stalked somebody.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
I don't know if I ever have, only for a
news story, probably cyberstalked.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Meaning like that's kind of it sounds like a nefarious term,
but you're googling them to find more and more. Like
it could even be a celebrity, like for instance, Terror Reid. Right,
we're looking to see what happened to her? How deep
did you dive into her life or whatever? Like that
would be the thing I could think of.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
Not very is my response to.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Okay, are we going to go to level three? Oh?
Speaker 2 (09:10):
You're done with Two's?
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (09:12):
So that wasn't so bad.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
No, not at all.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
That was so I assume the level ones won't be so.
So now my question is does the game go far enough.
My question to you now, is it provocative enough?
Speaker 1 (09:23):
I think we'd have to go and see what level
three brings us.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
All right, well, folks, stay with us when we come back.
You know what, let me knock out the level ones.
Can I do that with you?
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Okay, so this can't be that bad. Level one? Is
your life more a result of luck or hard work?
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Hard work? All right? Are you a follow the herd
or create new ways? Mentality?
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Yeah, let's try to create new ways there. What is
a red flag you've ignored? Now? That's an interesting question.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Love bombing?
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Nice?
Speaker 1 (09:56):
What is the first thing you think about when you
wake up? Work?
Speaker 2 (10:02):
Shit? It's work.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
That's an honest answer, that's true.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
From one to ten? How happy are you to wake
up every day?
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Nine?
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Okay, we're going to talk about that last one later.
This is se that's a relationship question there. Why is
it not a ten?
Speaker 1 (10:21):
Because it's four am? That's why seem like I could
wake up at six thirty, it'd be a ten.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
You wake up alone every morning, and that's because I'm
already out of it.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
I know, I know. Yeah, so I feel guilty. That's
part of that too. If time was frozen for eight
hours right now, and you could still move freely. What
would you do?
Speaker 2 (10:44):
I have questions. I have questions. Is anybody going to
know what I was doing?
Speaker 1 (10:49):
No? Because time is frozen, so you can do whatever
you want, Like all of us are frozen and it's
just you. What do you do?
Speaker 2 (10:55):
I got eight hours?
Speaker 1 (10:56):
Eight hours.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
I might disappear, I might put it all together. And
when everybody starts moving again, where's TJ.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Well, that's a relationship vender too.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Look, were supposed to be honest here. If you don't
like my answers, you should stop asking scared questions. What
is the worst thing you have forgiven? I'm glad I
did not get that question?
Speaker 1 (11:21):
The worst wow thing you have forgiven? Ooh? I just
think like, oh.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
Do I have options?
Speaker 1 (11:33):
I do?
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Okay, that could come up with one.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Do you want to know what I was trying to think?
Have I truly forgiven? I think being lied about, like
deliberately maliciously lied about. I think for me that's been
the hardest start, and I think I've forgiven on my
way and last one for you ask a wise friend
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in the group to oh, that doesn't make any sense,
what is it? Says? Ask a wise friend in the
group to write their own question into the deck and
sign it.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
Okay, yeah, yeah, we're not going to do that. Most
embarrassing moment you chose to forget about.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
Most embarrassing moment I chose to forget about? Well, then,
why would I want to tell everybody right now?
Speaker 2 (12:26):
What is a small thing you judge people about?
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I think do you hold grudges?
Speaker 1 (12:33):
No?
Speaker 2 (12:34):
See, okay, folks. That gives you an idea again the game.
What's the name here? Fill your tank? It comes in
this actually small, cute, little easily to carry.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
I like it.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
This is very at all cards to come in a
little box like this. It's very easy to travel with,
very easy to carry. But again those were level one
and level two a little uncomfortable at times. Stay here
will tell you where you can get this thing, how
much it's going to cost. You will tell you if
we actually do recommend it, and most importantly, we will
tell tell you how we are about to answer the
still unseen level three cards in the decks. Stay here,
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we continue back. We are still together after the first
round level one and level two of this game. It's
our gift guy, Fill your tank. This is a fun one.
It's been a couple of beauty items so far, a
neck pillow. But this is a fun game, and if
you're going to get this one, I would recommend you
get it before the holiday so everybody could enjoy it.
Maybe during the holiday.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Yeah, it's really fun and thought provoking, and so far
it's interesting. The level one questions I think actually were
a little bit more fun trickier.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Oh well they may. They were more thought provocative, provocative
than yes than the two two. So I don't know
what to expect from level three.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
I don't either, but should we give it a whirl?
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Level three questions again reminded they come in level one,
level two, Level three these are supposed to be the
more difficult and probing ones. How about this, robes, What
are you insecure about that you shouldn't be but still are? Damn?
These are tough things.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
That something that I'm insecure about that I shouldn't be,
but that I still am. Ah, I'm trying to think they.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
Do get tougher. I guess they do.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
I guess that I no that I actually should be
insecure about that. Guess.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Okay, you need to move on.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
I know I can't think of that's a tough one.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
Rapid fire. All right.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
What is the most pain you felt that wasn't physical?
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Uh, it might have been a was it a relationship?
I'm trying to think of a more gutting one. I'm
thinking about deaths and family members. A pain I felt
there was a personal defeat, you know, it might have Yeah,
I remember her heartbreak more than anything else. I'm trying
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to think of a pain that wasn't physical. I remember
that more anything. Yeah, I had some professional losses that
job and work out. I didn't get that. It was
just devastating and almost feel that in my gut, and
so the stuff was in the heart.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
If someone were to write a biography about you, what
would you want them to leave out? These do get good?
Oh man, y'all should see her face right now.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
I would say I would want them to leave out
any anything embarrassing, which is a lot.
Speaker 2 (15:47):
Oh my god. Okay, keep it going, all right.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
What is the worst thing you've had to apologize to
someone else for?
Speaker 2 (15:55):
Worst thing I apologize to some one else?
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Four?
Speaker 2 (16:05):
The worst thing I've apologized for Because I think I
think of all these bad things I've done, I'd never
apologized for it. That reads I'm kidding. I know the
worst thing I'm trying to I stole something once, but
I was a child, so I don't know if that
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was so bad. You know what I I apologize to
a coworker for talking about them behind their back, and
I walked them into the I went into their face
and I said I should have I had a problem
with you, and I told somebody else about it, and
I ducked around it and I skipped and I walked
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to her and I looked at her in the face
and I said, hey, I apologize, and this happened and
I had to reveal and we were cool after that.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
Wow, that's impressive.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
I'm not sure why I ended up doing that old,
but yeah, I didn't have to. Not impressive.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Most people wouldn't do that. That's that. That takes a
lot of courage.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
I know the level three for you? How many items
are in your bedside drawer that you would choose not
to disclose to a group?
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Zero?
Speaker 2 (17:14):
Yeah, I was in there.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
You've seen it. There's nothing in there.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
It's a mess, though.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
But other than that, Penn's keys, passports.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
And a bunch of glass cases, sunglass and a.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Lot of yep, and then I have a lot of
lip balm, like lots of different kinds of But that's
not embarrassing, all right. What is something you wish people
noticed more about you?
Speaker 2 (17:39):
You know what kindness? People recognize it individually, but you
have seen this, like the the I forget sometimes the
things I have done, and then I have somebody come
up to me and say, man, several years ago when
I had bo I have that happen to me on
individual basis, But I am considered sometimes. I mean, yes,
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that story is written not for us sometimes, but I
think I am even sometimes I stop and I go, wow,
I forgot I did that? Remember we in Arkansas and
this girl I ain't talked to. She's a grown woman now,
she said when she was in high school, I wrote
a letter to her encouraging her to go to the
Universe of Arkansas Journalism department and not the University of Missouri.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
You remember that, That's very cool.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
I'm like, Okay, I find like things like that I
don't recognize. And sometimes everybody, remember, you make an impact
on people, one buccaroo at a times.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Sometimes yes, But I think people also just don't recognize
how kind you are for a lot of reasons, because
you're direct, and I think there's a real kindness to that.
But some people are taken aback by that and don't
recognize how kind that actually is. I've appreciated that about you,
and some people aren't, like it's better than being some
smooth talking schmoozer who's just manipulating you. You are not
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like that, and there's a real kindness to that, which
I appreciate. I was actually trying to think about because
I didn't want to skip out of not having the
insecure you know what it is? I would think something
that I'm still insecure about that I shouldn't be is
weakness of any kind, physical or mental or emotional. I
am insecure about it. I beat myself up about it.
I don't give myself the up because I don't like
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to be weak and that's ridiculous, and I feel insecure
about it. So I always maybe even posture or try
to prove something when I know I can't do it
physically or weakness. The weakness is that, No, what is
weakness to you? Oh, physically not being able to do
something or reach something.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
Any I can't do. We all can't, but sure.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
About it, And I think I try to pretend like
I'm not, and that's that is something that's I need
to let go. But I know that I'm like.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
That, like on the plane trying to put your bag.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
Up exactly exactly.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
That's ridiculous. See, who's a big girl to make fun
of me? Three?
Speaker 1 (19:56):
Oh you got one more?
Speaker 2 (19:57):
Oh you don't have any more? One? Great? Do you
still think about your excess? That's the question.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
No, that is very easy to answer. Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
Okay, So folks, that gives you an idea of this game.
It's this is a fun one. Fill your tank, and
it's one I think is more fun the more people
maybe you have around the table. Really is our drinks
necessary for this one?
Speaker 1 (20:21):
They're not necessary, but they might make people be a
little more honest. You know what they say about liquid courage.
So look, if you are somebody who likes to have
a little wine a little beer when you're playing a
game around the table, this would sure be a fun one,
I think to add to the merriment.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
And this isn't an expensive one? Well, yes, where can
we find this one? And how much it's going to
set us back?
Speaker 1 (20:43):
Yes? So this is at goop dot com and the
retail price is twenty five bucks. So it's a perfect
stocking stuffer. It's a great gift to give someone that
everyone can enjoy. So I fully recommend this. How about you?
Speaker 2 (21:00):
Can you use this over and over? I wonder if
you with the same group or will this get old?
Speaker 1 (21:06):
I think you would definitely want to mix up the
groups because at a certain point if you go through
all the cards. A lot of these types of games,
if they're successful, they'll have like edition one, Edition two,
they know that they have to kind of keep upping.
The anti cards against Humanity has like I don't even
know how many different variations that you can keep playing it.
But I love the idea of this, and I think
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it could make your holidays even more fun because you're
going deep. You're getting to learn about the people who
you love spending time.
Speaker 2 (21:36):
With, or you'll have a family disaster, but either way
it'll be entertaining. With that, we also one, two, three.
I'm trying to think of this is is this the
first one I recommend?
Speaker 1 (21:47):
Maybe? I don't know if you have because you really
haven't put your rubber stamp on anything because they've mostly
been for us girls.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
Yes, the neck pillow thing, I at least acknowledged it
looks better than the other neck pillows without the hood.
Though without the hood. Okay, anyway, that was Gift three.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
Check out now and tomorrow. I want to tease what
we are bringing to you tomorrow. It will be our
Friday gift, So this will be the fifth in our series.
It is for the athletic content creator in your life.
It is it's a multifunctional gift that I believe most
people under the age of thirty five will love. There
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there's some function to this and some fun to it.
So excited about bringing this one to you tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
Most confusing tease ever, which is what teases should be.
It's a mystery.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
And with that everyone, thank you for listening to us.
I made roboch alongside TJ. Holmes. We'll talk to you soon.
Hey there, everybody. It is Thursday, December fourth, and this
is day four of our Holiday Gift Guide. And each
day we've been sharing with you some holiday gift ideas
that our producers from iHeart sent to our apartment. We're
testing them out fifteen in total, one every weekday, and
the hope is we can make your holiday shopping a
(00:24):
little bit easier. We're not getting paid by these products.
We're giving our honest feedback about what these gifts have
been like to experience. And we have been very excited
about this particular gift.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
This is dangerous.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
It's a game. It's called fill your Tank questions people
are never honest about. Oh wow, okay you nervous?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Uh? I don't well, we're recording this. If I don't
like something, we can stop, all right.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
So this deck of cards, I think this already, this
seems like a really fun, interactive gift.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Again.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
It's called fill your Tank questions people are never honest about,
and so it has fifty three question cards. They're designed
to spark deeper, honest conversations and ones that you never
probably have on your own.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Now, is this something you can win or lose? Or
this is just something to have fun with like cars
of humanity against Umanity.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
So I didn't read the rules. I think it's just
to have fun. So basically there are they've got three
different levels, so three different levels of intensity, so it
lets you start out light and easy, and then you
can get into more vulnerable conversations at your own pace.
So each level takes you deeper, okay, and then you
(01:44):
can get I didn't see this five bonus introspective questions,
so that you can get to know someone new or
reconnect with people you love. They suggest that you take
this box of cards with you on everything from wine
nights to weekend trips to late night couch chats, so
you can do it a group of two to six.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Don't take it on a honeymoon.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
And maybe you should do this before you propose.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
But this is how they describe this deck of cards, raw,
unfiltered and intentionally honest, a fun way to break down
walls and actually learn something real about the people around you.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
And that's why we got We held off because Sabine
was hanging out and opened this box, was checking out
and read us a few and we said stop. This
is going to be an incredible podcast because the questions
are uncomfortable. They're uncomfortable at least what we've seen so far,
and you're supposed to answer them honestly. Who's going to
answer this honestly in the middle of the game.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Well that's the whole point though, I mean the questions.
Are we going to answer this honestly? Can we say?
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Skip?
Speaker 1 (02:51):
So we right now A gave each other yep, some
cards from level one, level two, and level three to
ask one another. Now we have looked at these cards,
we have not so I think we should be able
to have pass.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Come on, let's not do that. No passes here. Let's
show the people how this game is supposed to work.
Oh my goodness, is this and no? You give the
price and everything later? Is this a fairly new game
where something like this has been out and we're just
hearing about it.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I've never heard of this game before. You know, I
love games, Cards against Humanity, all of those kind of fun.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
There's no winner loser in that, is it? Well, you're
just going around.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
There's no winner or loser. No, but you people play
it with a glass of beverage in hand and have
fun with How would.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
You play that? And seeing people get pissed like it
gets really uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Oh, I have seen I have been in situations where
couples get into we're going to break up fights over
certain things being revealed or said or shared or suspected.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
So maybe this game is not one for everybody. Really,
you need to be playing with people you are very close, comfortable,
and who will be like maybe family.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
I think you have to be in the right state
of mind. I think you have to be willing to
be open and vulnerable and want to hear honest answers
and not take things personally or have expectations that someone
should or needs to answer a certain way.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Is this supposed to be fun?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Though? It's supposed to be fun, But I'm a little murvous.
Maybe my story about breakup couples, but that was a
specific would you rather or I've one of those stupid
games and it just, man, it just absolutely spiraled out.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Okay, here, so these are the ones that Sabine already
let us here, so I'll share it. We've heard, so
let's give people an idea. Now. It just so happens
the ones Sabine gave us are all level three. Oh
I did not know.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
That she went straight for the love of free intensity.
That makes sense. Okay.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
So the cards just on one side have a color
and it says level one, level till over three And
then you turn on the back and the question is
there here it is is there somebody that left your
life that you wish stayed? A question like that? Right,
your head is spinning, and I'm sure people who are
listening you think about that. If you're sitting around with
a group of people and somebody asked you that in
(05:08):
front of everybody, do you have and answer? Another card?
Level three? Describe your last poop.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Ill?
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Would you do that in front of a group?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
No?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yeah, Do you wish you lost your virginity at a
different time into a different person?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
That could cause a problem in a relationship?
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Another level three card? Turn them back and this is
all it says, worst sex story.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Go.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
What is the most physically attractive part of yourself? I
think we answer that in front of Sabine. We had
a good time with. Yes, what would your younger self
say about the person you are today? It's not so
bad as the level three Right, that's not bad. What
do you think is the most beautiful thing about me?
Is this one? So that gives you an idea those
(05:56):
and when she went through those, we were having such
a good time. We said stop, we'll wait and we'll
do this in front of everybody. So do you so
far at least what you know of the game? Is
it something you recommend?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
I think this is great. I think this is fun.
I think this is a fun gift because it's something
that could be played later. You know, we've got family
gatherings and again, as long as you're in a comfortable space,
this is a really fun gift that everyone can enjoy.
I like that. It's an experience and it's something that
can be used again and again and again.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Oh, there's nothing political. You don't know that yet. You
want to go you know what I'm going to do this? Okay,
I'm a star. Level two. Let's go down the middle
with a steet spot. I question again, folks, she has
not seen it. I have not seen it. We're all
going to do it. Lie, you're ready to be it?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Yeah? All right?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Level two question from this gift we are possibly recommending
it says, would you rather be alone or settle for
the wrong person alone? What is an insult somebody said
to you that you still remember today, you're a fraud.
(07:02):
What is something you think people over react to.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Life's little annoyances?
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Nice? What is something you learned in your last breakup?
And with that we'll take a commercial break up.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
That it's better to be it's it's better to rip
the band aid off?
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Wow? Wow? Okay, so those are all your level two.
I have to be honest with you. Not so bad.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
No, it wasn't bad. But let's see how you feel
when I return. Should I do level two? I'll do
level two. I'll do tit for tat all.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Right, that's what a relationship is, after all.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
When was the last time you cried? Uh?
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Probably this morning? Typically I do it in the morning,
you know what. I'm be honest. I cary almost daily
with something emotional, not because something upset me, but something
touches me in some way. What was the last It
was during news coverage of some kind. I cannot remember,
but it was a news story that did it.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Wow, I do I do concur you do cry almost daily?
It's very sweet? I see you?
Speaker 2 (08:13):
Why see not sweet? Sad? It's terrible.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
No, you you're you're I feel like you're in connection
with your emotions. That's amazing. All right, would you rather
break somebody's heart or get your heartbroken?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Give my heart broken?
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Yeah? What is the farthest you've cyber stalked someone?
Speaker 2 (08:30):
The farthest yep?
Speaker 1 (08:32):
What does?
Speaker 2 (08:32):
I don't even know what that means, Like how far?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
How long have you googled, like done a deep dive
basically on somebody, like you're trying to figure.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Out like what ours days, weeks, months, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
It's the farthest you've cyber stalked somebody.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
I don't know if I ever have, only for a
news story, probably cyberstalked.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Meaning like that's kind of it sounds like a nefarious term,
but you're googling them to find more and more. Like
it could even be a celebrity, like for instance, Terror Reid. Right,
we're looking to see what happened to her? How deep
did you dive into her life or whatever? Like that
would be the thing I could think of.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
Not very is my response to.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Okay, are we going to go to level three? Oh?
Speaker 2 (09:10):
You're done with Two's?
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (09:12):
So that wasn't so bad.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
No, not at all.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
That was so I assume the level ones won't be so.
So now my question is does the game go far enough.
My question to you now, is it provocative enough?
Speaker 1 (09:23):
I think we'd have to go and see what level
three brings us.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
All right, well, folks, stay with us when we come back.
You know what, let me knock out the level ones.
Can I do that with you?
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Okay, so this can't be that bad. Level one? Is
your life more a result of luck or hard work?
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Hard work? All right? Are you a follow the herd
or create new ways? Mentality?
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Yeah, let's try to create new ways there. What is
a red flag you've ignored? Now? That's an interesting question.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Love bombing?
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Nice?
Speaker 1 (09:56):
What is the first thing you think about when you
wake up? Work?
Speaker 2 (10:02):
Shit? It's work.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
That's an honest answer, that's true.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
From one to ten? How happy are you to wake
up every day?
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Nine?
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Okay, we're going to talk about that last one later.
This is se that's a relationship question there. Why is
it not a ten?
Speaker 1 (10:21):
Because it's four am? That's why seem like I could
wake up at six thirty, it'd be a ten.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
You wake up alone every morning, and that's because I'm
already out of it.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
I know, I know. Yeah, so I feel guilty. That's
part of that too. If time was frozen for eight
hours right now, and you could still move freely. What
would you do?
Speaker 2 (10:44):
I have questions. I have questions. Is anybody going to
know what I was doing?
Speaker 1 (10:49):
No? Because time is frozen, so you can do whatever
you want, Like all of us are frozen and it's
just you. What do you do?
Speaker 2 (10:55):
I got eight hours?
Speaker 1 (10:56):
Eight hours.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
I might disappear, I might put it all together. And
when everybody starts moving again, where's TJ.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Well, that's a relationship vender too.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Look, were supposed to be honest here. If you don't
like my answers, you should stop asking scared questions. What
is the worst thing you have forgiven? I'm glad I
did not get that question?
Speaker 1 (11:21):
The worst wow thing you have forgiven? Ooh? I just
think like, oh.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
Do I have options?
Speaker 1 (11:33):
I do?
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Okay, that could come up with one.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Do you want to know what I was trying to think?
Have I truly forgiven? I think being lied about, like
deliberately maliciously lied about. I think for me that's been
the hardest start, and I think I've forgiven on my
way and last one for you ask a wise friend
(11:57):
in the group to oh, that doesn't make any sense,
what is it? Says? Ask a wise friend in the
group to write their own question into the deck and
sign it.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
Okay, yeah, yeah, we're not going to do that. Most
embarrassing moment you chose to forget about.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
Most embarrassing moment I chose to forget about? Well, then,
why would I want to tell everybody right now?
Speaker 2 (12:26):
What is a small thing you judge people about?
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I think do you hold grudges?
Speaker 1 (12:33):
No?
Speaker 2 (12:34):
See, okay, folks. That gives you an idea again the game.
What's the name here? Fill your tank? It comes in
this actually small, cute, little easily to carry.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
I like it.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
This is very at all cards to come in a
little box like this. It's very easy to travel with,
very easy to carry. But again those were level one
and level two a little uncomfortable at times. Stay here
will tell you where you can get this thing, how
much it's going to cost. You will tell you if
we actually do recommend it, and most importantly, we will
tell tell you how we are about to answer the
still unseen level three cards in the decks. Stay here,
(13:16):
we continue back. We are still together after the first
round level one and level two of this game. It's
our gift guy, Fill your tank. This is a fun one.
It's been a couple of beauty items so far, a
neck pillow. But this is a fun game, and if
you're going to get this one, I would recommend you
get it before the holiday so everybody could enjoy it.
Maybe during the holiday.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Yeah, it's really fun and thought provoking, and so far
it's interesting. The level one questions I think actually were
a little bit more fun trickier.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Oh well they may. They were more thought provocative, provocative
than yes than the two two. So I don't know
what to expect from level three.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
I don't either, but should we give it a whirl?
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Level three questions again reminded they come in level one,
level two, Level three these are supposed to be the
more difficult and probing ones. How about this, robes, What
are you insecure about that you shouldn't be but still are? Damn?
These are tough things.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
That something that I'm insecure about that I shouldn't be,
but that I still am. Ah, I'm trying to think they.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
Do get tougher. I guess they do.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
I guess that I no that I actually should be
insecure about that. Guess.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Okay, you need to move on.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
I know I can't think of that's a tough one.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
Rapid fire. All right.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
What is the most pain you felt that wasn't physical?
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Uh, it might have been a was it a relationship?
I'm trying to think of a more gutting one. I'm
thinking about deaths and family members. A pain I felt
there was a personal defeat, you know, it might have Yeah,
I remember her heartbreak more than anything else. I'm trying
(15:04):
to think of a pain that wasn't physical. I remember
that more anything. Yeah, I had some professional losses that
job and work out. I didn't get that. It was
just devastating and almost feel that in my gut, and
so the stuff was in the heart.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
If someone were to write a biography about you, what
would you want them to leave out? These do get good?
Oh man, y'all should see her face right now.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
I would say I would want them to leave out
any anything embarrassing, which is a lot.
Speaker 2 (15:47):
Oh my god. Okay, keep it going, all right.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
What is the worst thing you've had to apologize to
someone else for?
Speaker 2 (15:55):
Worst thing I apologize to some one else?
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Four?
Speaker 2 (16:05):
The worst thing I've apologized for Because I think I
think of all these bad things I've done, I'd never
apologized for it. That reads I'm kidding. I know the
worst thing I'm trying to I stole something once, but
I was a child, so I don't know if that
(16:26):
was so bad. You know what I I apologize to
a coworker for talking about them behind their back, and
I walked them into the I went into their face
and I said I should have I had a problem
with you, and I told somebody else about it, and
I ducked around it and I skipped and I walked
(16:48):
to her and I looked at her in the face
and I said, hey, I apologize, and this happened and
I had to reveal and we were cool after that.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
Wow, that's impressive.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
I'm not sure why I ended up doing that old,
but yeah, I didn't have to. Not impressive.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Most people wouldn't do that. That's that. That takes a
lot of courage.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
I know the level three for you? How many items
are in your bedside drawer that you would choose not
to disclose to a group?
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Zero?
Speaker 2 (17:14):
Yeah, I was in there.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
You've seen it. There's nothing in there.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
It's a mess, though.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
But other than that, Penn's keys, passports.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
And a bunch of glass cases, sunglass and a.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Lot of yep, and then I have a lot of
lip balm, like lots of different kinds of But that's
not embarrassing, all right. What is something you wish people
noticed more about you?
Speaker 2 (17:39):
You know what kindness? People recognize it individually, but you
have seen this, like the the I forget sometimes the
things I have done, and then I have somebody come
up to me and say, man, several years ago when
I had bo I have that happen to me on
individual basis, But I am considered sometimes. I mean, yes,
(18:03):
that story is written not for us sometimes, but I
think I am even sometimes I stop and I go, wow,
I forgot I did that? Remember we in Arkansas and
this girl I ain't talked to. She's a grown woman now,
she said when she was in high school, I wrote
a letter to her encouraging her to go to the
Universe of Arkansas Journalism department and not the University of Missouri.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
You remember that, That's very cool.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
I'm like, Okay, I find like things like that I
don't recognize. And sometimes everybody, remember, you make an impact
on people, one buccaroo at a times.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Sometimes yes, But I think people also just don't recognize
how kind you are for a lot of reasons, because
you're direct, and I think there's a real kindness to that.
But some people are taken aback by that and don't
recognize how kind that actually is. I've appreciated that about you,
and some people aren't, like it's better than being some
smooth talking schmoozer who's just manipulating you. You are not
(18:56):
like that, and there's a real kindness to that, which
I appreciate. I was actually trying to think about because
I didn't want to skip out of not having the
insecure you know what it is? I would think something
that I'm still insecure about that I shouldn't be is
weakness of any kind, physical or mental or emotional. I
am insecure about it. I beat myself up about it.
I don't give myself the up because I don't like
(19:19):
to be weak and that's ridiculous, and I feel insecure
about it. So I always maybe even posture or try
to prove something when I know I can't do it
physically or weakness. The weakness is that, No, what is
weakness to you? Oh, physically not being able to do
something or reach something.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
Any I can't do. We all can't, but sure.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
About it, And I think I try to pretend like
I'm not, and that's that is something that's I need
to let go. But I know that I'm like.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
That, like on the plane trying to put your bag.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
Up exactly exactly.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
That's ridiculous. See, who's a big girl to make fun
of me? Three?
Speaker 1 (19:56):
Oh you got one more?
Speaker 2 (19:57):
Oh you don't have any more? One? Great? Do you
still think about your excess? That's the question.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
No, that is very easy to answer. Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
Okay, So folks, that gives you an idea of this game.
It's this is a fun one. Fill your tank, and
it's one I think is more fun the more people
maybe you have around the table. Really is our drinks
necessary for this one?
Speaker 1 (20:21):
They're not necessary, but they might make people be a
little more honest. You know what they say about liquid courage.
So look, if you are somebody who likes to have
a little wine a little beer when you're playing a
game around the table, this would sure be a fun one,
I think to add to the merriment.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
And this isn't an expensive one? Well, yes, where can
we find this one? And how much it's going to
set us back?
Speaker 1 (20:43):
Yes? So this is at goop dot com and the
retail price is twenty five bucks. So it's a perfect
stocking stuffer. It's a great gift to give someone that
everyone can enjoy. So I fully recommend this. How about you?
Speaker 2 (21:00):
Can you use this over and over? I wonder if
you with the same group or will this get old?
Speaker 1 (21:06):
I think you would definitely want to mix up the
groups because at a certain point if you go through
all the cards. A lot of these types of games,
if they're successful, they'll have like edition one, Edition two,
they know that they have to kind of keep upping.
The anti cards against Humanity has like I don't even
know how many different variations that you can keep playing it.
But I love the idea of this, and I think
(21:28):
it could make your holidays even more fun because you're
going deep. You're getting to learn about the people who
you love spending time.
Speaker 2 (21:36):
With, or you'll have a family disaster, but either way
it'll be entertaining. With that, we also one, two, three.
I'm trying to think of this is is this the
first one I recommend?
Speaker 1 (21:47):
Maybe? I don't know if you have because you really
haven't put your rubber stamp on anything because they've mostly
been for us girls.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
Yes, the neck pillow thing, I at least acknowledged it
looks better than the other neck pillows without the hood.
Though without the hood. Okay, anyway, that was Gift three.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
Check out now and tomorrow. I want to tease what
we are bringing to you tomorrow. It will be our
Friday gift, So this will be the fifth in our series.
It is for the athletic content creator in your life.
It is it's a multifunctional gift that I believe most
people under the age of thirty five will love. There
(22:25):
there's some function to this and some fun to it.
So excited about bringing this one to you tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
Most confusing tease ever, which is what teases should be.
It's a mystery.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
And with that everyone, thank you for listening to us.
I made roboch alongside TJ. Holmes. We'll talk to you soon.
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