May 2, 2022 • 45 mins
Paris is going one on one with clairvoyant medium Tyler Henry. Is Paris ready for what Tyler is about to tell her??!! Is Paris a believer?! ....we'll see. Tyler reveals his most profound celebrity reading. Plus, who knew Tyler was a fan of The Simple Life!?
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
This is Paris. Hello Tyler, Hello Paris Hilton. How are
you amazing? Hashtag girls on the grind always it's it's
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how we were all. Is that hot? That's hot? Thank you.
It is such an honor to be here with you today.
I when I found out that I was going to
get to meet you about how to stroke, really just
right there just almost killed over. So thank you for
having me. Well, I feel the same way because I've
been wanting to meet you and I was just like,
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oh my god, I love what you do and it's
really just amazing, and you have such a gift and
it's just an honor to have you here at my home.
Thank you. It's a beautiful home, beautiful day. And have
a good conversation. Thank you. Where are you from? Originally
Central California, kind of your friends know, so a lot
of agriculture, a lot of prisons. It's very quaint. And
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you live in l A at Hollywood Hills currently, and
I'm I'm moving out towards Malibu. Ye. My husband and
I just got a new house and alibazing, Oh my goodness. Yeah,
it's such a vibe, so relaxing and beautiful. I used
to live there on the beach in the Latigo Shore
area and just when you come home the oceans right there.
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It's such a cleansing force, you know for our energies. Yeah,
I think we both definitely need it because I could
see with you, I could relate how people it's like
I don't have like a lot of energy. People around
like vampires almost sometimes it like suck my energy away,
And I'm sure with you having to do what you do,
that must be so draining energy is such a thing.
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And you know, I think a lot of people when
we hear the word like empathy, they relate to being empathetic,
and I think most people are on some level. But
in jobs where you're interacting with people, whether it's interviewing
or deejaying, right, that's such an immersive job. You're connecting
to people's presence, their energy um And so I think that,
you know, it's important to have certain mechanisms to kind
of clear our energy, whether that's solitude sometimes you know,
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separating ourselves from certain environments. It's it's essential. So you believe,
like like I feel it too, but it is a
true thing, like people can take your energy. Well, I
think certain people might not be compatible with our energy, right.
I kind of consider it to be like akin to
cigarette smoke. So if you're not a smoker and you
go into a group of people who all just finished
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chain smoking, if you leave that group, you're gonna smell
like cigarette smoke, even though you yourself don't smoke. I
think of it as very similar. The people we surround
ourselves do live leave an imprint on us, and we
leave an imprint on them consciously, subconsciously, and so um.
I think that's kind of speaks to the importance of intuition.
The more connected we can be to our own intuition,
the more we can really objectively gauge what we resonate
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with and what we don't. So for you, can you
see when people have good bad energy right away? You know.
I've learned to not limited to that juxtaposition of good
or bad. You know. Even in my work, I've dealt
with some very tragic, very heavy, very sad situations that
led to a lot of hurt, you know, and often
in people's lives, But I've learned to not villainize them. Uh.
And my job has made me very not judgmental in
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understanding that we are all human we all go through things,
and uh, nothing human is really foreign to us. So
I definitely tend to get a vibe of kind of
whether I resonate with someone immediately or not. And I
think you can relate to it too. We all get
first impressions right when we shake somebody's hand, and yes,
sometimes people give us an ick and we've got to
trust that feeling because that really is our our inner sense. Yeah,
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I feel like I have like psychic powers to That's
something my grandmother did too, and she always said that,
and I always I feel like I've predicted things before
they've happened. I've seen in the future. I think that's
why I'm an innovator and someone who does things first,
like I always have, like I don't know, like seen
into the future and can feel like my grandmother a
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lot with me all the time time. Um, and I'm
just like fascinated by this whole world. So it's just
like to be someone who's like so respected and like
you are, just like, I'm so proud of you and
what you're doing and just using your gift for good
and really bringing people peace. To know. I know, I
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was just watching some some of the things you've done,
and just like the parents to know like she's okay,
and she's watching and she's still here. And that's just
like a really comforted feeling because I was so scared
always like what happens after you die? Like I was
always like, what if it's nothing, it's just like darkness
and you're That would be so boring, just insufferably boring,
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wouldn't it was? I can't, Like, that's so scary. So
to know that that's not the case and it's I
don't know, we live on. Well, I really believe that
consciousness fundamentally does continue on in whatever form, you know.
I certainly don't claim to have all the answers, nor
do I think anybody does. But my work has shown
me invalidated that there is this continuation of life, There
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is a continuation of love. We are so much more
than what happens to us in life. We are so
much more than ultimately how we pass, you know. So
I think it's important when we think of our loved
ones who have died. As easy as it is sometimes
to think of them and maybe be sad that they
died or how they passed, they want us to think
of them and smile and that be our first kind
of inclination versus being devastated by how they passed. And
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of course that's a process that we all get to
in our own way, but I try to just honor
their lives because we only have one that's true. Well,
has there been any stories that have really touched you?
You know, they're all evocative. Every reading gives me an
insight into people's lives, and you, being a celebrity, can
relate to the celebrity experience. And on my first show,
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Hollywood Medium, I sat with over two hundred celebrities, and
then on my new Netflix show, I sat with a
bunch of everyday people and traveled the country and connected
to some really profound stories. And that dichotomy who was
really interesting to see between public figures and every day
you know people, And I think that has been really meaningful.
One of my most profound readings was with RuPaul Charles Uh.
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Fabulous person of course, but icon absolutely, But that was
somebody who I, being a gay kid in a rural place,
you know, used to look at him on TV and think, wow, okay,
there are people who kind of get what I'm going for. Um,
And then to finally meet him as an adult and
be able to give him healing around the death of
his father, something he never thought he'd get in this lifetime. Um,
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it almost went full circle. He helped me as a
kid without realizing it, and then I was able to
help RuPaul as an adult. That's magic. I love RuPaul.
Have you met much with Ruple? It's just like around,
just from him being in the industry, and I'm friends
with got Mick. So I was doing some stuff for
the show to support Love That Loves It Loves It.
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Did you watch The Simple Life? Oh? Of course I
It's like my I watched it before I go to
sleep at night, me and my partner and I just
laugh every time. It is timeless. People will watch it
in a hundred years and still laugh. Thank you, Iconic.
You're a visionary. You saw it coming. Did you see
the success of that show at the time that you
did in I you know, it was the first of
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its kind. There was no reality show, so there's nothing
really to like learn from or even no. I was
like this unknown world and my whole family was like, no,
your parents hilting, You're not doing a reality show. I'm
like Nikki. They want us to do it together. My
sister was like, I'm not being on a reality show, like,
no way, and I just knew. I was like, I
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think there's something here and this is something special, and
I don't want to I'm someone who doesn't really follow
rules and I like to do my own thing. So
I just went for it and had the time in
my life. And I'm so happy that I did it
with Nicole, my best friend since I'm too, because it
wouldn't have been the show like without that, because it
was just like two best friends going and just doing
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all these crazy things. And it's like, you can't write that,
you can't invent something like that. It's just like so
real and it was just incredible. And now it's like
started this whole new genre of celebrity and this whole
reality show culture and pop culture and selfies and absolutely
and you were an innovator through it all. Well, it's incredible.
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That show really was I think the right time, the
right place, the right people, and that chemistry you could
feel on screen. So thank you. Yeah, my husband and
I have been watching it like during the pandemic, just laughed.
It was just so many memories ring brought up I'm sure.
I'm sure some of the things that didn't make the
cut to make some stor Oh yeah, there's there's a lot, definitely.
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So when did you discover that you had this gift? Well,
this kind of started for me. My first inclination of
it was when I was ten years old. Um. I
grew up in a very conservative household. You know, we
didn't talk about mediums or psychics or any of that.
But I woke up one night when I was ten
and I just had this knowing nous that my grandmother
was going to die. And at the time, it just
felt like something I knew. It felt almost like a
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memory that hadn't happened yet, and so it was really confusing.
But at ten years old, you know, you don't really
think much of it. So I rolled out of bed
after I had woken up with this feeling, and I
went into the room to try to explain this to
my mom, and she was in there and she was like, okay, Tyler,
calmed down, you know, and we were interrupted by her
phone ringing, and she said, okay, hold on. She picked
up her phone and as she did, I remember first
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her face changed and then she started weeping because it
was my dad calling her in that moment to tell
her that my grandmother had just died right in front
of him. So that was an immediate validation of that
initial feeling, But it took a lot of time to
really understand that these brief moments of knowingness could be
used as an ability. Wow, that's powerful, and it's so
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interesting because so many people do relate to that feeling
of having premonitions. I know, you spoke to yourself feeling
inclinations of the future, and you know it does happen
to us and often around births and deaths. And for
your mother, what can you tell our listeners about that story? Well,
you know, my mom had definitely didn't know how to
process what I had shared with her. You know, we
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were very close to my grandmother and I were very close,
and so my mom just kind of assumed this was
a one off thing. Um. But then I started reading
kids at school and getting impressions about teachers, and I
would share them and they would share that with my mom,
and then you know, that was quite a situation. So
I was telling teachers about their marital issues, students about
their parental drama very early on, and it was very intense,
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so you could just like literally like like see into
people's lives in the present or the past or future.
Like how I never had any control over it, and
I still don't, so it either just kind of either
happens or it doesn't. But very often it would be
about things regarding the past, and then sometimes things even
going on, like the morning before. There was one situation
when I was in middle school. I was washing my
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hands in the bathroom and I heard the door open
from behind me, and I turned around and I looked,
and it was my childhood bully. He had watched me
go into the bathroom and all of his friends were
kind of running into the room to follow and and
beat me up basically, And this had happened to me before,
and on this particular occasion, I turned around and I
looked at him, and these words just left my mouth.
I said, your aunt knows that you were crying with
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your dad last night, and you need to leave me alone.
And I just said it, and his friends looked at him,
and he looked at them, and then he ran out
of the bathroom. His aunt had died a few days before,
and he had been crying with his dad privately, uh
that night. So it was really intense validation in the
sense that it did help me fend off bullies sometimes
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but very very divisive, you know. Yeah, kids are so
me in school. Sometimes they are absolutely and you know
what we kind of I think can both relate to um,
you know, in the sense of being public. I feel
like a lot of those kids often don't grow up,
you don't be controversial and all of that. So it's
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it's an interesting world. Yeah, I know those kids turned
to like the trolls on the comments sections, sitting there
like being mean all day. They become calmness. It's really sad.
This is paris So when people come through do you
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said you can feel it through your five senses? Does
that ever? Do you ever get scared? I used to
get more frightened earlier on when I was a kid,
and it would happen. I would get into very intense
physical pain. And so in one particular case, I remember
I was reading a woman and I felt like my
throat was going to close, and as I was explaining
this to her, She's about ready to call nine one one.
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It ended up with the person I was bringing through
for her had actually passed away of throat cancer, and
so when I got that validated, the feeling left. But
I think the best way to understand my ability is
to kind of understand that the sixth sense works through
the other five senses. So when I do a reading,
I'm not seeing dead people walking around that would be terrifying.
If anything, I just kind of have trained myself to
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enter into an altered state of consciousness, or I'm just
hyper aware of any changes that go on in my
mind and in my body, and those changes are generally
indicative of like a message or something I need to relay,
And if I do my job right, I can take
that sensation and turn it into a message, and then
that gets validated by the person I'm connecting with. So
you ever seen anything like in a mirror or like
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in a photo, or so funny that you say that.
In my new Netflix show Life After Death was just
just came out, we actually experimented with building a room
dedicated to trying to connect with the other side. And
it sounds a lot creepier than it really was. It
was the equivalent of like a prayer closet. But I
created this whole space and I used it to try
to you know, connect more fluently, and the validations that
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came from it really intense. So I really think it's
more just about mindfulness. I think everybody has the ability
to connect to that intuition. It just as a matter
of eliminating the blocks that stop us from connecting to
that inate sense of who we are. And so for
some people, praying helps kind of connect on a deeper level.
For me, building a room and looking at a mirror
was just a way of kind of letting go of
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all of the stuff going on around me and just
focusing my intention on trying to connect. So it's just
a tool. Have you ever done the WEGI word, you
know as a kid? I did. I don't, you know,
really have many strong opinions on it. I think it's
important to put out good energy. I think there's more
productive uses of people's time. And I kind of liken
it too. You wouldn't you know, open your front door
and just let anyone off the street in. So why
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would we do that energetically spiritually? And to me, that's
kind of what we GI boards are saying, Oh, anybody here,
come on in, let's connect. And you don't know what
the integrity of that consciousness is going to be Yeah.
I did that once when I was a teenager. My
friend came over for a sleepover. We went to our
friend's house and she brought one and I was always
so scared of them because the movies, it's like so scary.
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And then she made us do it, and I didn't
want to be like not cool, so I was like okay,
and it started like moving, and I don't they all
said they didn't do it. To this day, I don't know,
but I don't know. It's just something that I us
get so scared of the speechy boards. I totally get that,
and I think when it comes to spirituality, our spirituality
shouldn't scare us, right, So if there's something that scares us,
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we don't need to do it necessarily, you know, in
that realm of the paranormal. I think so often with
spirituality people are kind of worried. They're like, okay, well,
if my loved ones are around, are they watching me constantly?
If it doesn't need to be that fear, you know,
your our spirituality should invigorate us, should make us feel
comforted and protected. And I agree with kind of staying
away from things that might not give us good feelings. Yeah. Yeah,
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that's something I always think about too, like, oh my god,
I'm like a shower, Like are they watching me? You know,
I think they have bigger concerns in the long run.
I've learned from the other side that from what I
can glean, they seem to realize that really nothing human
is foreign to them, you know, where all human beings,
we all live, we all die, and they don't seem
to be really hung up on those things, those things
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that just make us us, you know. So do you
think that's certain like spirits stay around to protect I've wondered.
I seem in my work to only connect to individuals
who seem to have made a full transition. And I
call it a transition because it seems to be a
process um that they go through, and some you know,
people do report having like hauntings and ghosts and things
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like that. I don't really connect on that realm. So
if there, if there are like earthbound spirits, I don't
really tend to connect with them. So they're spirits are
here and in other realms. That's the belief. Do you
believe in dad realms? You know, I'm open to it.
I try to avoid when I talk about the afterlife,
the phrasing of like heaven or hell, because those are
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such loaded terms. Right, Even the word God is so loaded. Right,
But we think of God, we think, okay, bearded man
in this guy. Um, I certainly believe in the possibility
of maybe more negative realms. But if from what I've
been able to glean, the transition process seems to be
one of self reflection, introspection. It doesn't seem to come
from a place of judgment as much as it's a
place of self analysis. And I believe that's what we
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all go through when we pass, So it doesn't seem
to be punishment based, more just reflective based how we lived,
how we died, what we did, what we didn't do,
and ultimately finding acceptance through how we lived in past.
Do you believe in reincarnation? I do, but I don't
necessarily think the soul is a singular unit. So I
to me, the soul is probably more complicated than we
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really give a get credit for. UM. I think it
probably exists in many places at once. Um. One thing
that's interesting of learning my work is time doesn't seem
to really apply to those on the other side they're
not limited by a twenty four hour day. So it
then begs the question of you know, is reincarnation a
process where we live and die and are reborn, or
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is it possible that you could exist now, You could
exist simultaneously a hundred years ago, you might exist fifty
years in the future. I know it sounds nuts, but
I think the soul has gotten so simplified that we
think of it as this kind of mechanical birth, rebirth,
birth rebirth, when it really could be a lot more complicated. Yeah,
for me, I think about it, I'm like, it sounds well,
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because then you have to live again, But I would
rather be me as paris the ghost forever. I don't
want to imagine if you're like I don't know, like
an aunt or like something like a bee, and like
someone kills you like right away, and then your ghost
is like that, Like, I just want to be me forever.
Do you Have you ever had any past life memories
or any like phobias or anything in your life where
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you've been like, wow, I wonder where that's coming from,
because I can't place the cause in my current life.
Any anything that's ever came to the surface for me
I've had like psychics tell me, like you've lived other lives,
like you were a queen, like naturally you're like the
scottest or something. I'm like, they always say all this
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to me, so like I wouldn't mind being all those people.
Save the best for last. Absolutely, we're not coming back.
What do you love about l A? All the weather?
I mean, that's such a generic response, and I'll ask
you the same question. But I've tried to travel from
my work or do a live tour across the country.
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I'll go to like Snectady, New York, and I'm like,
you know, it's freezing cold, and we really haven't made
here in California. So that, and then I think the men,
the men here in California, I just can't beat them
on a hoteas move here. They all come from their
little rural hometowns in you know, Illinois or whatever. It's
a lot of hot men in Illinois. Just well, bam,
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psychic coming. I said, I wanted a Midwest boy a
perfect There you go. But I'm telling you, they send
their hometown's hottest to l A. And then everybody's inspiring actor.
So it works. It works. It's fabulous. So I heard
do you have a new boyfriend? Oh? New boy from
Well he've been together for five years? Sorry nil, No,
it's okay. I'm not looking at the questions because I'm
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just like reading it. So I know it's Clint. It
is Clint as in Eastwood. Yes, and five years together,
so it's been something amazing. I feel really lucky, you know.
I think one bit fit of having a good intuition,
and I'm sure you can relate, is you know, you
get a feeling for whether someone's the right fit or not,
and sometimes you gotta go through you know, a couple
uh situations to find the one and that's the beauty
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of being able to kind of connect to that. Yeah,
I feel like I learned that intuition over years and
years of trauma, um and then finally being ready for
the nice guy. Absolutely. Well, divine timing too, you know,
so I'm a big believer in that as well. Yes,
timing is everything, I really believe absolutely for success in
all ranges from career success, love successes, timing is huge.
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Is this considered living fun matter or is this livington manner? Yeah,
it's like the other house is living to manner. This
is living to manner again part two. Yeah, and then
I had this living spot on stairs after lives It's reincarnations.
How you do it? He Slivey Live, Slivey Live trademark.
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I'm sure obviously. Do you have any like lines that
you say that our trademark? You know what? No, But
I always when watching the show back, people are always
like you always say, well, that'll be that people when
you are and you can really do this having a
TV show or just being in the public, like people
pick up on things and you do that you don't
notice you do, and then people are like, oh, yeah,
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so I made up words apparently on my show. Yeah.
It's it's really incredible that they will notice if the
hair is out of place. Yeah. Do they notice everything
with your Did you ever find new catchphrases just kind
of manifest into your visionary? Yeah, like that's hot and
loves it. I've said forever and I loved it, and
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then I will say them forever. But I needed a
new I didn't need one new one. It just happened naturally.
On Halloween. I was walking into this after party and
I was just so happy and I was so sick,
and I just like looked at my friends like sliving
and they're like what, And I was like, I was
trying to say like slang and living my best life
and killing it like an all in one word, and
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sliving came out and they were like, that's the sickest word.
And then I like trademarked it, and then it was
an urban dictionary and now it's like a lifestyle and
a movement and everyone's saying it. Gay rights was born
in one moment Paris Hilton singlehandedly. She threw the first
brick at Stonewall, Paras Hilton, living living, that's always living
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my best life. What would you so if you're gonna
if you get a tagline, what's it going to beat?
You know what? Oh god, we'll see. I gained weight
over the pandemic, thank you, But I don't know. I'm
like medium gone large, medium gone large. Yeah, I'll be
the pound medium, which is just ironic in it everyself. TLC.
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Better call me after this and then I can just
read people in my little little you know. So there's
that if you know, I could lose weight be a
small medium, but that's less interesting. Yeah. No, I'm going
to work on catchphrases. I definitely don't have the visionary
energies like you, so I might need a consult Okay,
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you know all consult with you on like after life
or after whirl or before what is it called after life?
After all? You know what, Hey, it's all all life?
Does I remember when you on The Simple Life, you
you did the psychic thing? That was funny, that was whoilarious.
I think you were probably more psychic than than the lady. Yeah,
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but that was entertaining. So for you, like, do you
have to have to deal with that, like people who
are haters? Because there's so many people who take advantage
and they pretend they have the gift and like they
take advantage of people and they're just they're con artists.
So it gives like other people of that name, I
feel like, how do you deal with the haters? I
think it's important to be skeptical, and I actually embrace skepticism.
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I think that in this industry it's unregulated and so
there isn't like a board of commissioners that you can
go apply to be a medium for you can't really
get a permit to be a meat. Anybody can do
it or claim to do it. So I think it's
actually beneficial to be skeptical. Um. Anybody who's legitimate will
not be afraid of people asking questions of you, being like, okay,
break it down from me, or explain this. Um. So
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I think it's just important, you know, for those who
are interested in seeing a medium to just ensure that
they're doing everything they can to get a direct recommendation
from someone that they trust. Um. You know, if you
think of it as a practice, I view of this
work as being like a practitioner. I viewed as something
very serious and just as you wouldn't, you know, walk
into a Neon sign for five bucks and expect, you know,
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a thousand dollar experience. Um. It's good to take that
in mind that you know, through word of mouth is
typically the best way to see a medium. Yeah, I agree,
definitely daries yes, yes, yes, and through someone you trusted.
It helps to know somebody who had firsthand testimonials. Out
of everything that you've ever learning your life, what was
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like the most surprising part, The most surprising part, I
think just for me really the fragility of life, you know,
I'm I sit with people who have gone through such
extreme loss and how quickly life could change and I've
learned the importance of saying it now while I still
have the chance. Um, I tell my mom I love
her every single time she leaves my house, my boyfriend,
and make sure to you know, never go go to
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bed mad if if we're having a little tube. Um.
It's taught me the importance of seizing the moment in
every way that we can, because so many people that
sit in that chair in front of me are sitting
there because they have regret, regret for either what went unsaid,
what went undone. And so when we can live life
more mindfully in the here and the now and validate
the people in our lives, you know, make sure things
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aren't going on side and make sure they're not going undone,
then we save ourselves from having future regret. And I
think that's for me, the most empowering message I've gotten
from my work. And what's your favorite part of what
you do? I love the surprise, the reactions. You know,
you never know what people are are expecting or what
they think about it. And so sometimes I find reading
skeptics is actually easier than reading hardcore believers because the
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bars kind of a little lower with skeptics. So like Okay,
what can he tell me? And then something will come
through and then you see this whole transformation happen. Um.
Whereas hardcore believers sometimes they'll sit in the chair and
they're like, Tyler, I know how amazing you can you know,
I know how great of an experience you can give me,
And so the bar is very high, and I suddenly
have to kind of meet that expectation. So it's always
a challenge. It's always something new, and um, it's always
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a surprise. So sitting here with me, now, do you
feel anything or I would have to about the notebook?
But I will definitely talk because I I definitely feel
like there's some good things, good things to discuss. But
we'll make some time. We can do a little notebook
scratchy scratchy as you see me do on my show,
and then we'll see what comes through, because that's kind
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of how I turn on and start connecting to some
of the deeper things. But I have no doubt you know,
all your love ones are so proud of what you've
done and being able to take your life story and
honor that there's such power and storytelling and what you've
been able to do to bring you awareness to your
survivorship has inspired so many people. And I think, if
anything is a testament to the power of storytelling. No
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matter where we are socioeconomically, whether we're celebrity or not,
we can really change other people's lives through honoring our voice.
And that that spreads far and wide. That echo might
you know, affect people you don't even realize in there
and there, So keep it up. Thank you, yeah, thank
you very much. Of it's been just the most empowering
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and it's important and impactful time in my life. And
I just feel like I've found my mission and maybe
I was put through this like by God and given
this gift so that one day I could use my
voice to stop it from happening to other children. And
you know the fact that I've changed laws now in
seven states and now going back to Washington, d C.
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In two weeks, and I will not stop fighting until
change is made amazing. That's really what it's all about.
And just a side note, intuitively, one thing good to
keep in mind is I do feel like I kept
when you sat down and kept getting my symbology for
publishing literary that kind of thing. So just keep us
in mind. Over the court. The next two years, you
might have the chance to release something from a publishing perspective,
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So think like book, something we would write and then release,
but on a larger scale than even we've done in
the past. Something to think about. I'm writing my book now.
I just wrote the first three and our pages and
things like that. Power in your storytelling that really is
changing the world. And good on you for using your platform.
You know, it would have been so easy for you
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not to, so the fact that you did is even
more commendable. Yeah, that's something I was never planning on
ever discussing because I was just, you know, so traumatized
that I didn't want to think about it. I wanted
to bury it. And then, um, it always came back
to me my nightmares, and maybe that was for a
reason to be too so I couldn't finally go and
make a change because the nightmares they didn't stop, and
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it was every night where I was like back in
those places, and it felt so real. And now since
I've been making change, like the nightmares are gone. I
sleep like I don't have insomnia. Like it's just like
changed my life if in every way, and people come
up to me on the street and they're just like,
you change my life. Like nobody believed me. Now my
family finally believes me. Like I feel so validated, Like
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just thank you for telling your story. And that's just
been not just the most important thing, Like I've done
a lot of things in my life I'm proud of,
but this is like by far the most thing. Absolutely well,
and clearly the effect of it is so widespread, And
I wonder if your intuition was communicating to you by
having those dreams maybe on some level, as a way
to bring it to your conscious mind, as a way
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to say, hey, you know, we need to look at
this and there's an opportunity to help people with it.
So good on you for noticing that. You know, you
could have just ignored it and kept having nightmares. Yeah.
I think before I was just so concerned about, you know,
kind of projecting that perfect life to everyone, because in Hollywood,
like they make you feel that way, like you have
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to be perfect and everything needs to do this, and
you know, there's so much power and being vulnerable and
real and because no one's perfect and we've all been
through things and it it helps others when you can
be vulnerable and tell the truth because everyone not everyone
can relate, but there's a lot of people who will relate.
It will mean, It will mean a lot too. Absolutely,
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that vulnerability is so key to be able to honor
that in ourselves. I think it inspires other people to
open up. That's huge. Wow, what are you working on
now that you're most excited about? Oh? You know, well,
I just had my my most recent book, here and
Hereafter came out this month, and then I had the
new Thank You, the new show Life After Death on Netflix.
And I do live tours across the country, so I
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stand in front of thousands of people and do readings
and audience settings and that's really fun. It's really nerve
wracking and a big challenge as a medium, but that's
where I feel like I get to do the most
amount of work in the smallest amount of time. So
I get to touch on all people across the country.
And you know, as you know, traveling the country to
rural places, it's amazing the different cultures and the stories
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and you see the differences but also the similarities. It's
really fascinating. Which place are you excited to go on
the tour? Oh? I like to go to rural places
like I like, take me to like rural south. I
went to a Biloxi, Mississippi or performed dead as a medium.
It's pretty bolicy because you know, it's Mississippi. Body. It
was cool. It's cool to get to travel there, and
I'm you hope to go back, but to be able
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to go to places where people might not have access
to l a and maybe they need to, you know,
be exposed to that conversation around grief and loss. So
I like to come to people. Yeah, I was a
Mississippi for the simple life of them all around there.
So the sun, yeah, humid for sure. Yeah. The food
is so good. I love the food. Did you how
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did you like? Do you is soul food? Are you
a soul food person? Yes? I love it so good.
Yeah yeah, fried chicken going over and cheese yes, I
gotta go. Okay, I love it like I'm just I
just love eating food. That's good. I know it's just
how um Yeah, comfort food. Absolutely, it makes you just
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feel happy. That's right. Do you cook? No, one of
my not one of my many talents. No, but I
can burn water and that's about the extent of it.
That's hot. Do you cook. If I watched YouTube video
you you you were sent something? Yeah, living Zanya? Yes,
do you enjoy cooking? Is it something you? It's fun?
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It is fun. It's about the experience, right, It's the
journey not the destination. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. I travel so
much now that I don't have time to cook like
I used to. But during the pandemic, I just like
was loving to cook, and my husband loves my cooking,
so I was on, there you go. Does Clint cook
better than I do? He went to culinary school briefly,
so I use him for his sauces. He just can
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make a sauce for anything. And oh my god, don't
get lost in the sauce. I'm so dumb, Oh my god.
But yes, no, no, I don't know. I like to eat.
I'm more of an eater than a maker fruit. Yeah,
you eat it and make it. Yeah? What sign? Are
you a Capricorn? What about you as Aquarius? My mom's
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an Aquarius? Good, good, good, solid, salt of the earth.
We're fun. That's right, that's right. Do you resonate with
your astrology sign? Yes, I'm obsessed fully. Yeah. I completely
believe in signs and astrology and the horoscopes, and it's
like crazy, how real it is for mine? Especially? Have
you looked into your partner's horoscope as well to see
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if they're compatible? Yeah? Both Aquarius. Okay, there you go
a lot of a lot of I always thought it
was a water sign, but apparently it's an air sign.
I didn't know, Aquarious. Isn't it an airside? I don't know.
I thought it was. I thought it was water to Aqui. Yeah,
you would think, right, But I think it's an air sign.
It's not weird. It wouldn't even make sense because it's
a fish. But I think it's an Yeah, like like
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a unicorn that's right, flying over the rainbow. I love
your interior design. I aspire to have well, I would
yea in my next life. I want to come back
as Parashilton. That's all I'm saying. I have to be
reincarnated this or your dog. Yes, yeah, my fayisdic as
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my errant designer, and she did it so she gets
so beautiful. And then I came in and like put
all the neon signs and like everything she said. Parents
were supposed to shoot this for architectural digests, Like what
did you do to my designs. I was like, I
parasized it. It's in the state of Paris, Paris Solist.
(34:35):
We're working on this. Yeah, everywhere I thought is funny. Well, look,
if I were as beautiful, I think I would be
having photos of myself. Ever equally, I just love it,
Like who else I'm not gonna have about I have Maryland.
It's me and Maryland normally. Okay, So in fashion inspiration,
women that give you, you know, a sense of aspiration.
(34:58):
Who would those women be free in your life? Marilyn
Monroe obviously, Grace Kelly, Princess Diana, Heck, yes, I love
Princess Diana Bummer. I know. Paparazzi bummer, Like I know,
it's like it was so preventable. I know, and that,
(35:19):
you know. I get asked about conspiracies and people are like,
do you know, JFK, what do you think? Well, I
don't know, but I think Diana thought that was some
weird there's some weirdness there with that passing. I think
there was incentive for her to be taken out, So
I hope that didn't happen, But I wonder. I know
it's living, sliving, non sliving, living, do you believe in them. Conspiracy,
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there's not somewhat typically not just because I think, you know,
you know, critical thinking, logic, reason, I'm big on that.
But simultaneously, you know, I don't know. Sometimes things happen good.
I'm sure they exist. Things happen to conspire there every
now and then, So I'm open minded. And what about aliens?
Do you believe? I do believe in alien So I
think there's there's too much evidence out there from the
(36:03):
UAP phenomenon. It's for me unidentified aerial phenomenon to indicate
that it's real. The Pentagon released some really interesting videos
that they were able to capture in the past couple
of years, so ufology is definitely getting more credibility in
recent years than it has ever before. So it'll be
fascinating to see. I know, I totally I think I
am an alien. You know, what's the visionary you've got
(36:25):
to go on. You might might be from a different planet.
Have you ever seen a UFO? I feel like I have.
I've seen things that look like UFOs that are like
flying and they're like huge and round and it's like
late lighting up, So I think they are. I don't
know if it's like a drone because there's like drone
paparai sometimes two. It could be that I take an
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edible once I thought I saw what I was like.
It wasn't. It was completely identifiable, but it was life. Yes,
And what is like? What is when you were like
a little before you know? It's like what did you
want to be? I wanted to be an archaeologist, which
I feel like it is a pretty part for the
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course answer what about you? I probably wanted to be
archaeologists too, and I was like seven because I would
love the class when we would like dig it and
like find the cool like fossils, Like that was so cool.
And I still I still love doing things like that.
But archaeology just turning into archaeologists, that's just in the backyard.
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Slash DJ. I love that you should have run for president.
You would be an amazing president. Thank you, Paris for President,
Paris for President. Make America hot again again? Absolutely, I
love it. You're very diplomatic. I've watched and watch what
Happens live and you're always so poised. I admire I
admire it so much. Yeah, com in this business a
(37:51):
long time and you learn all the tricks of what
they're trying to do, Dodge, dodge, pivot. You're amazing. What
did you get shy when you first started doing interviews?
And yeah, I'm I get excited every day when I
get to go to an interview like this. I'm always like,
oh my god, this is my life. And I just
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I would never want to lose that childlike sense of
wonder and that sense of giddiness. And I think when
people lose it, you know, they become very jaded in cynicals.
So for me, I just I love the excitement and
it feels so privileged to be in my position. Yeah,
I'm such a kid at heart. They got to hold
onto that because I gets lost as people get older
and not the sacrifice often of their own happiness. Why
(38:33):
not be so I don't know, it's not it's boring. Yeah,
some people don't let themselves go through those childlike emotions,
you know, and sit with them. So well, at least
where kids at heart. Man, that's right. Absolutely, this is Paris.
(38:57):
This is seven ns living questions. I'm ready for all seven.
Let's live. We're sliving. What is your go to dance move?
Go to dance move? Maybe a plank. Is that a plank?
Is that a dance move? Is that when you just
lay that dance it's just to just is that when
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they lay across the table it is And I think
that embodies my ability to to get the groove on. Really,
just let me lay there, leave me alone, check on
me every thirty second minute, make sure I stall have
a pulse, Give me a little cup of water. I'm
google my dance move. Like, what is your spirit animal?
And why? I'm gonna saying Nicole Ritchie? But this is awkward?
(39:41):
Down um spirit animal? Oh God? Why is this such
a hard Honestly, no, I don't. I should I should
have came prepared minds. A unicorn is a unicorn, which
is very apt. I think I would be a Golden
Retriever if I were a person animal. If I was
a person, I am a person. I'm actually a Golden
Retriever and my spirit animals Tyler, And so the cat
(40:02):
is out of the bag. Next question, I love golden
two years I am. You're making my tail wag? Yes? Oh? Next,
what is um? How long does it take you to
get ready? Oh? Like not that long. I mean at
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the end of the day when I'm done putting the
makeup on, get the hair. I look and I look
at the mirror and I go, this is as good
as it's going to get. And then I walk out
the door. So I try my best, but yeah, I'm
not a miracle worker. What is the worst date that
you've ever been on? And what the worst date I've
ever been on? Was with the guy. He came over
to my house and he tracked muddon through the front
(40:45):
door on his shoes, so it's like we're off to
a great start. And then he's he's a journalist and
so he on the way they're called me. He's like, oh,
I I can't come over right away, and I was like,
what's wrong. He's like, oh, someone just got murdered and
I have to go like on the scene to like
report this murder and then I'll come over to your house.
So I was like, it was waiting all night because
someone got shot. And then he finally showed up track
(41:08):
dirt in through the house and that was it. I
thought it was kind of a bad date. Okay, that
sounds brutal. Yeah, nothing like you know, homicide to really
set the tone for the date. Romantic, Yeah, that's not hot,
not hot, not at all. Are you a facetim or texting?
(41:28):
When people FaceTime me, it's it's they go on my
list if you face If people face time me, I'm
like immediately nope. And then and then I just I
don't know. Face timing is the worst. I don't know
why people think they can just face time me freely.
It seems like something needs to be scheduled planned. I
need perfect lighting and I need you know, the full
makeup on. So yeah, no, no facetiming. People feel entitled.
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I know a lot of people always try it. I'm like, dude,
I like don't even like speaking on the phone. I
like to text and like face timing, Like no, it's
way too immersive. It's like really early in the morning too.
I'm like, are you crazy when there are in other
time zones and you're like, it's three eating cheetos, okay, same.
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I like texting, all right, we'll just text each clet
and voice note and it's I'm lazy to texts. I
usually like, do the voice memo and your voice note,
and I like text for you spells everything wrong. It's
the worst. And then my thumbs are so fat I
have like the Megan Fox fingers thumbs where like I'll
hold the voice note little memo to try to do it,
(42:34):
and then I'm like sending six different or it goes
on like stops and then it erases. So I want
to die when that happens after a long rue. Yes,
you're like I was committed the Beach of the Mountains beach,
beach beach, What about you? Beach beach? Any reason why?
I love ocean. I love the sand, and I love swimming,
and I love surfing and dolphins. I love all of that.
(42:56):
I love just going on tropical vacations. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no,
it's just the best. Water is so therapeutic and restorative
and represents our subconscious sounds good, good place to be.
What is your favorite beauty tip? Favorite beauty tip just
use lots of Scotch tape to pull the face back.
That's why I look twelve. No, I'm just kidding. Uh,
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favorite beauty cool girl. I could take some beauty tips,
and I think I could probably better off receiving them
than giving them. I would say, well, I say this
as my hair it literally looks I got a haircut recently,
and so now I look like the coolest eighth grader,
like my hair is growing out and it looks like
I don't know. Be mindful of your fly aways. That's
what I would say. Greatest beauty tip, be mindful of
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your flyways because all it takes is one and then
people are watching you and it's all they're both focused on.
As she's looking at my flyways so very much. You
have cute bangs, you know what I grew on myself
just for you, just for this event. They're hot. Thanks.
And your last selling question, what is your go to karaoke?
(44:00):
Go to karaoke? Go co uh Africa Bye bye Toto,
not actually, but the visual that would be hilarious and
me just like, yeah, singing Africa by Toto Africa Africa
(44:22):
is not how it goes first. I don't remember that.
All the yeah, all the treading, Oh yeah yeah that one.
You know, um, what about you? You surprise me here?
What would what would you do if you had to
do a karaoke I always do Betty Davis eye and
stars are blind obviously naturally there you go. Okay, I'm inspired.
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My next karaoke I've men to think of you. Thank you, Yes, yes, Paris.
This has been so fun, so much fun. Thank you
for having me so much. Thank you, and I can't
wait to do a reading with you. And we're gonna
have a good time. We'll do it. Let's it. We're
going to just be sliving now through them and beyond.
Loves it. Thanks for listening to This Is Paris. We
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This is Paris. Hello Tyler, Hello Paris Hilton. How are
you amazing? Hashtag girls on the grind always it's it's
(00:22):
how we were all. Is that hot? That's hot? Thank you.
It is such an honor to be here with you today.
I when I found out that I was going to
get to meet you about how to stroke, really just
right there just almost killed over. So thank you for
having me. Well, I feel the same way because I've
been wanting to meet you and I was just like,
(00:42):
oh my god, I love what you do and it's
really just amazing, and you have such a gift and
it's just an honor to have you here at my home.
Thank you. It's a beautiful home, beautiful day. And have
a good conversation. Thank you. Where are you from? Originally
Central California, kind of your friends know, so a lot
of agriculture, a lot of prisons. It's very quaint. And
(01:04):
you live in l A at Hollywood Hills currently, and
I'm I'm moving out towards Malibu. Ye. My husband and
I just got a new house and alibazing, Oh my goodness. Yeah,
it's such a vibe, so relaxing and beautiful. I used
to live there on the beach in the Latigo Shore
area and just when you come home the oceans right there.
(01:25):
It's such a cleansing force, you know for our energies. Yeah,
I think we both definitely need it because I could
see with you, I could relate how people it's like
I don't have like a lot of energy. People around
like vampires almost sometimes it like suck my energy away,
And I'm sure with you having to do what you do,
that must be so draining energy is such a thing.
(01:48):
And you know, I think a lot of people when
we hear the word like empathy, they relate to being empathetic,
and I think most people are on some level. But
in jobs where you're interacting with people, whether it's interviewing
or deejaying, right, that's such an immersive job. You're connecting
to people's presence, their energy um And so I think that,
you know, it's important to have certain mechanisms to kind
of clear our energy, whether that's solitude sometimes you know,
(02:11):
separating ourselves from certain environments. It's it's essential. So you believe,
like like I feel it too, but it is a
true thing, like people can take your energy. Well, I
think certain people might not be compatible with our energy, right.
I kind of consider it to be like akin to
cigarette smoke. So if you're not a smoker and you
go into a group of people who all just finished
(02:33):
chain smoking, if you leave that group, you're gonna smell
like cigarette smoke, even though you yourself don't smoke. I
think of it as very similar. The people we surround
ourselves do live leave an imprint on us, and we
leave an imprint on them consciously, subconsciously, and so um.
I think that's kind of speaks to the importance of intuition.
The more connected we can be to our own intuition,
the more we can really objectively gauge what we resonate
(02:55):
with and what we don't. So for you, can you
see when people have good bad energy right away? You know.
I've learned to not limited to that juxtaposition of good
or bad. You know. Even in my work, I've dealt
with some very tragic, very heavy, very sad situations that
led to a lot of hurt, you know, and often
in people's lives, But I've learned to not villainize them. Uh.
And my job has made me very not judgmental in
(03:17):
understanding that we are all human we all go through things,
and uh, nothing human is really foreign to us. So
I definitely tend to get a vibe of kind of
whether I resonate with someone immediately or not. And I
think you can relate to it too. We all get
first impressions right when we shake somebody's hand, and yes,
sometimes people give us an ick and we've got to
trust that feeling because that really is our our inner sense. Yeah,
(03:38):
I feel like I have like psychic powers to That's
something my grandmother did too, and she always said that,
and I always I feel like I've predicted things before
they've happened. I've seen in the future. I think that's
why I'm an innovator and someone who does things first,
like I always have, like I don't know, like seen
into the future and can feel like my grandmother a
(03:59):
lot with me all the time time. Um, and I'm
just like fascinated by this whole world. So it's just
like to be someone who's like so respected and like
you are, just like, I'm so proud of you and
what you're doing and just using your gift for good
and really bringing people peace. To know. I know, I
(04:19):
was just watching some some of the things you've done,
and just like the parents to know like she's okay,
and she's watching and she's still here. And that's just
like a really comforted feeling because I was so scared
always like what happens after you die? Like I was
always like, what if it's nothing, it's just like darkness
and you're That would be so boring, just insufferably boring,
(04:41):
wouldn't it was? I can't, Like, that's so scary. So
to know that that's not the case and it's I
don't know, we live on. Well, I really believe that
consciousness fundamentally does continue on in whatever form, you know.
I certainly don't claim to have all the answers, nor
do I think anybody does. But my work has shown
me invalidated that there is this continuation of life, There
(05:02):
is a continuation of love. We are so much more
than what happens to us in life. We are so
much more than ultimately how we pass, you know. So
I think it's important when we think of our loved
ones who have died. As easy as it is sometimes
to think of them and maybe be sad that they
died or how they passed, they want us to think
of them and smile and that be our first kind
of inclination versus being devastated by how they passed. And
(05:24):
of course that's a process that we all get to
in our own way, but I try to just honor
their lives because we only have one that's true. Well,
has there been any stories that have really touched you?
You know, they're all evocative. Every reading gives me an
insight into people's lives, and you, being a celebrity, can
relate to the celebrity experience. And on my first show,
(05:44):
Hollywood Medium, I sat with over two hundred celebrities, and
then on my new Netflix show, I sat with a
bunch of everyday people and traveled the country and connected
to some really profound stories. And that dichotomy who was
really interesting to see between public figures and every day
you know people, And I think that has been really meaningful.
One of my most profound readings was with RuPaul Charles Uh.
(06:07):
Fabulous person of course, but icon absolutely, But that was
somebody who I, being a gay kid in a rural place,
you know, used to look at him on TV and think, wow, okay,
there are people who kind of get what I'm going for. Um,
And then to finally meet him as an adult and
be able to give him healing around the death of
his father, something he never thought he'd get in this lifetime. Um,
(06:28):
it almost went full circle. He helped me as a
kid without realizing it, and then I was able to
help RuPaul as an adult. That's magic. I love RuPaul.
Have you met much with Ruple? It's just like around,
just from him being in the industry, and I'm friends
with got Mick. So I was doing some stuff for
the show to support Love That Loves It Loves It.
(06:53):
Did you watch The Simple Life? Oh? Of course I
It's like my I watched it before I go to
sleep at night, me and my partner and I just
laugh every time. It is timeless. People will watch it
in a hundred years and still laugh. Thank you, Iconic.
You're a visionary. You saw it coming. Did you see
the success of that show at the time that you
did in I you know, it was the first of
(07:15):
its kind. There was no reality show, so there's nothing
really to like learn from or even no. I was
like this unknown world and my whole family was like, no,
your parents hilting, You're not doing a reality show. I'm
like Nikki. They want us to do it together. My
sister was like, I'm not being on a reality show, like,
no way, and I just knew. I was like, I
(07:35):
think there's something here and this is something special, and
I don't want to I'm someone who doesn't really follow
rules and I like to do my own thing. So
I just went for it and had the time in
my life. And I'm so happy that I did it
with Nicole, my best friend since I'm too, because it
wouldn't have been the show like without that, because it
was just like two best friends going and just doing
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all these crazy things. And it's like, you can't write that,
you can't invent something like that. It's just like so
real and it was just incredible. And now it's like
started this whole new genre of celebrity and this whole
reality show culture and pop culture and selfies and absolutely
and you were an innovator through it all. Well, it's incredible.
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That show really was I think the right time, the
right place, the right people, and that chemistry you could
feel on screen. So thank you. Yeah, my husband and
I have been watching it like during the pandemic, just laughed.
It was just so many memories ring brought up I'm sure.
I'm sure some of the things that didn't make the
cut to make some stor Oh yeah, there's there's a lot, definitely.
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So when did you discover that you had this gift? Well,
this kind of started for me. My first inclination of
it was when I was ten years old. Um. I
grew up in a very conservative household. You know, we
didn't talk about mediums or psychics or any of that.
But I woke up one night when I was ten
and I just had this knowing nous that my grandmother
was going to die. And at the time, it just
felt like something I knew. It felt almost like a
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memory that hadn't happened yet, and so it was really confusing.
But at ten years old, you know, you don't really
think much of it. So I rolled out of bed
after I had woken up with this feeling, and I
went into the room to try to explain this to
my mom, and she was in there and she was like, okay, Tyler,
calmed down, you know, and we were interrupted by her
phone ringing, and she said, okay, hold on. She picked
up her phone and as she did, I remember first
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her face changed and then she started weeping because it
was my dad calling her in that moment to tell
her that my grandmother had just died right in front
of him. So that was an immediate validation of that
initial feeling, But it took a lot of time to
really understand that these brief moments of knowingness could be
used as an ability. Wow, that's powerful, and it's so
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interesting because so many people do relate to that feeling
of having premonitions. I know, you spoke to yourself feeling
inclinations of the future, and you know it does happen
to us and often around births and deaths. And for
your mother, what can you tell our listeners about that story? Well,
you know, my mom had definitely didn't know how to
process what I had shared with her. You know, we
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were very close to my grandmother and I were very close,
and so my mom just kind of assumed this was
a one off thing. Um. But then I started reading
kids at school and getting impressions about teachers, and I
would share them and they would share that with my mom,
and then you know, that was quite a situation. So
I was telling teachers about their marital issues, students about
their parental drama very early on, and it was very intense,
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so you could just like literally like like see into
people's lives in the present or the past or future.
Like how I never had any control over it, and
I still don't, so it either just kind of either
happens or it doesn't. But very often it would be
about things regarding the past, and then sometimes things even
going on, like the morning before. There was one situation
when I was in middle school. I was washing my
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hands in the bathroom and I heard the door open
from behind me, and I turned around and I looked,
and it was my childhood bully. He had watched me
go into the bathroom and all of his friends were
kind of running into the room to follow and and
beat me up basically, And this had happened to me before,
and on this particular occasion, I turned around and I
looked at him, and these words just left my mouth.
I said, your aunt knows that you were crying with
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your dad last night, and you need to leave me alone.
And I just said it, and his friends looked at him,
and he looked at them, and then he ran out
of the bathroom. His aunt had died a few days before,
and he had been crying with his dad privately, uh
that night. So it was really intense validation in the
sense that it did help me fend off bullies sometimes
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but very very divisive, you know. Yeah, kids are so
me in school. Sometimes they are absolutely and you know
what we kind of I think can both relate to um,
you know, in the sense of being public. I feel
like a lot of those kids often don't grow up,
you don't be controversial and all of that. So it's
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it's an interesting world. Yeah, I know those kids turned
to like the trolls on the comments sections, sitting there
like being mean all day. They become calmness. It's really sad.
This is paris So when people come through do you
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said you can feel it through your five senses? Does
that ever? Do you ever get scared? I used to
get more frightened earlier on when I was a kid,
and it would happen. I would get into very intense
physical pain. And so in one particular case, I remember
I was reading a woman and I felt like my
throat was going to close, and as I was explaining
this to her, She's about ready to call nine one one.
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It ended up with the person I was bringing through
for her had actually passed away of throat cancer, and
so when I got that validated, the feeling left. But
I think the best way to understand my ability is
to kind of understand that the sixth sense works through
the other five senses. So when I do a reading,
I'm not seeing dead people walking around that would be terrifying.
If anything, I just kind of have trained myself to
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enter into an altered state of consciousness, or I'm just
hyper aware of any changes that go on in my
mind and in my body, and those changes are generally
indicative of like a message or something I need to relay,
And if I do my job right, I can take
that sensation and turn it into a message, and then
that gets validated by the person I'm connecting with. So
you ever seen anything like in a mirror or like
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in a photo, or so funny that you say that.
In my new Netflix show Life After Death was just
just came out, we actually experimented with building a room
dedicated to trying to connect with the other side. And
it sounds a lot creepier than it really was. It
was the equivalent of like a prayer closet. But I
created this whole space and I used it to try
to you know, connect more fluently, and the validations that
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came from it really intense. So I really think it's
more just about mindfulness. I think everybody has the ability
to connect to that intuition. It just as a matter
of eliminating the blocks that stop us from connecting to
that inate sense of who we are. And so for
some people, praying helps kind of connect on a deeper level.
For me, building a room and looking at a mirror
was just a way of kind of letting go of
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all of the stuff going on around me and just
focusing my intention on trying to connect. So it's just
a tool. Have you ever done the WEGI word, you
know as a kid? I did. I don't, you know,
really have many strong opinions on it. I think it's
important to put out good energy. I think there's more
productive uses of people's time. And I kind of liken
it too. You wouldn't you know, open your front door
and just let anyone off the street in. So why
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would we do that energetically spiritually? And to me, that's
kind of what we GI boards are saying, Oh, anybody here,
come on in, let's connect. And you don't know what
the integrity of that consciousness is going to be Yeah.
I did that once when I was a teenager. My
friend came over for a sleepover. We went to our
friend's house and she brought one and I was always
so scared of them because the movies, it's like so scary.
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And then she made us do it, and I didn't
want to be like not cool, so I was like okay,
and it started like moving, and I don't they all
said they didn't do it. To this day, I don't know,
but I don't know. It's just something that I us
get so scared of the speechy boards. I totally get that,
and I think when it comes to spirituality, our spirituality
shouldn't scare us, right, So if there's something that scares us,
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we don't need to do it necessarily, you know, in
that realm of the paranormal. I think so often with
spirituality people are kind of worried. They're like, okay, well,
if my loved ones are around, are they watching me constantly?
If it doesn't need to be that fear, you know,
your our spirituality should invigorate us, should make us feel
comforted and protected. And I agree with kind of staying
away from things that might not give us good feelings. Yeah. Yeah,
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that's something I always think about too, like, oh my god,
I'm like a shower, Like are they watching me? You know,
I think they have bigger concerns in the long run.
I've learned from the other side that from what I
can glean, they seem to realize that really nothing human
is foreign to them, you know, where all human beings,
we all live, we all die, and they don't seem
to be really hung up on those things, those things
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that just make us us, you know. So do you
think that's certain like spirits stay around to protect I've wondered.
I seem in my work to only connect to individuals
who seem to have made a full transition. And I
call it a transition because it seems to be a
process um that they go through, and some you know,
people do report having like hauntings and ghosts and things
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like that. I don't really connect on that realm. So
if there, if there are like earthbound spirits, I don't
really tend to connect with them. So they're spirits are
here and in other realms. That's the belief. Do you
believe in dad realms? You know, I'm open to it.
I try to avoid when I talk about the afterlife,
the phrasing of like heaven or hell, because those are
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such loaded terms. Right, Even the word God is so loaded. Right,
But we think of God, we think, okay, bearded man
in this guy. Um, I certainly believe in the possibility
of maybe more negative realms. But if from what I've
been able to glean, the transition process seems to be
one of self reflection, introspection. It doesn't seem to come
from a place of judgment as much as it's a
place of self analysis. And I believe that's what we
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all go through when we pass, So it doesn't seem
to be punishment based, more just reflective based how we lived,
how we died, what we did, what we didn't do,
and ultimately finding acceptance through how we lived in past.
Do you believe in reincarnation? I do, but I don't
necessarily think the soul is a singular unit. So I
to me, the soul is probably more complicated than we
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really give a get credit for. UM. I think it
probably exists in many places at once. Um. One thing
that's interesting of learning my work is time doesn't seem
to really apply to those on the other side they're
not limited by a twenty four hour day. So it
then begs the question of you know, is reincarnation a
process where we live and die and are reborn, or
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is it possible that you could exist now, You could
exist simultaneously a hundred years ago, you might exist fifty
years in the future. I know it sounds nuts, but
I think the soul has gotten so simplified that we
think of it as this kind of mechanical birth, rebirth,
birth rebirth, when it really could be a lot more complicated. Yeah,
for me, I think about it, I'm like, it sounds well,
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because then you have to live again, But I would
rather be me as paris the ghost forever. I don't
want to imagine if you're like I don't know, like
an aunt or like something like a bee, and like
someone kills you like right away, and then your ghost
is like that, Like, I just want to be me forever.
Do you Have you ever had any past life memories
or any like phobias or anything in your life where
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you've been like, wow, I wonder where that's coming from,
because I can't place the cause in my current life.
Any anything that's ever came to the surface for me
I've had like psychics tell me, like you've lived other lives,
like you were a queen, like naturally you're like the
scottest or something. I'm like, they always say all this
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to me, so like I wouldn't mind being all those people.
Save the best for last. Absolutely, we're not coming back.
What do you love about l A? All the weather?
I mean, that's such a generic response, and I'll ask
you the same question. But I've tried to travel from
my work or do a live tour across the country.
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I'll go to like Snectady, New York, and I'm like,
you know, it's freezing cold, and we really haven't made
here in California. So that, and then I think the men,
the men here in California, I just can't beat them
on a hoteas move here. They all come from their
little rural hometowns in you know, Illinois or whatever. It's
a lot of hot men in Illinois. Just well, bam,
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psychic coming. I said, I wanted a Midwest boy a
perfect There you go. But I'm telling you, they send
their hometown's hottest to l A. And then everybody's inspiring actor.
So it works. It works. It's fabulous. So I heard
do you have a new boyfriend? Oh? New boy from
Well he've been together for five years? Sorry nil, No,
it's okay. I'm not looking at the questions because I'm
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just like reading it. So I know it's Clint. It
is Clint as in Eastwood. Yes, and five years together,
so it's been something amazing. I feel really lucky, you know.
I think one bit fit of having a good intuition,
and I'm sure you can relate, is you know, you
get a feeling for whether someone's the right fit or not,
and sometimes you gotta go through you know, a couple
uh situations to find the one and that's the beauty
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of being able to kind of connect to that. Yeah,
I feel like I learned that intuition over years and
years of trauma, um and then finally being ready for
the nice guy. Absolutely. Well, divine timing too, you know,
so I'm a big believer in that as well. Yes,
timing is everything, I really believe absolutely for success in
all ranges from career success, love successes, timing is huge.
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Is this considered living fun matter or is this livington manner? Yeah,
it's like the other house is living to manner. This
is living to manner again part two. Yeah, and then
I had this living spot on stairs after lives It's reincarnations.
How you do it? He Slivey Live, Slivey Live trademark.
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I'm sure obviously. Do you have any like lines that
you say that our trademark? You know what? No, But
I always when watching the show back, people are always
like you always say, well, that'll be that people when
you are and you can really do this having a
TV show or just being in the public, like people
pick up on things and you do that you don't
notice you do, and then people are like, oh, yeah,
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so I made up words apparently on my show. Yeah.
It's it's really incredible that they will notice if the
hair is out of place. Yeah. Do they notice everything
with your Did you ever find new catchphrases just kind
of manifest into your visionary? Yeah, like that's hot and
loves it. I've said forever and I loved it, and
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then I will say them forever. But I needed a
new I didn't need one new one. It just happened naturally.
On Halloween. I was walking into this after party and
I was just so happy and I was so sick,
and I just like looked at my friends like sliving
and they're like what, And I was like, I was
trying to say like slang and living my best life
and killing it like an all in one word, and
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sliving came out and they were like, that's the sickest word.
And then I like trademarked it, and then it was
an urban dictionary and now it's like a lifestyle and
a movement and everyone's saying it. Gay rights was born
in one moment Paris Hilton singlehandedly. She threw the first
brick at Stonewall, Paras Hilton, living living, that's always living
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my best life. What would you so if you're gonna
if you get a tagline, what's it going to beat?
You know what? Oh god, we'll see. I gained weight
over the pandemic, thank you, But I don't know. I'm
like medium gone large, medium gone large. Yeah, I'll be
the pound medium, which is just ironic in it everyself. TLC.
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Better call me after this and then I can just
read people in my little little you know. So there's
that if you know, I could lose weight be a
small medium, but that's less interesting. Yeah. No, I'm going
to work on catchphrases. I definitely don't have the visionary
energies like you, so I might need a consult Okay,
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you know all consult with you on like after life
or after whirl or before what is it called after life?
After all? You know what, Hey, it's all all life?
Does I remember when you on The Simple Life, you
you did the psychic thing? That was funny, that was whoilarious.
I think you were probably more psychic than than the lady. Yeah,
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but that was entertaining. So for you, like, do you
have to have to deal with that, like people who
are haters? Because there's so many people who take advantage
and they pretend they have the gift and like they
take advantage of people and they're just they're con artists.
So it gives like other people of that name, I
feel like, how do you deal with the haters? I
think it's important to be skeptical, and I actually embrace skepticism.
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I think that in this industry it's unregulated and so
there isn't like a board of commissioners that you can
go apply to be a medium for you can't really
get a permit to be a meat. Anybody can do
it or claim to do it. So I think it's
actually beneficial to be skeptical. Um. Anybody who's legitimate will
not be afraid of people asking questions of you, being like, okay,
break it down from me, or explain this. Um. So
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I think it's just important, you know, for those who
are interested in seeing a medium to just ensure that
they're doing everything they can to get a direct recommendation
from someone that they trust. Um. You know, if you
think of it as a practice, I view of this
work as being like a practitioner. I viewed as something
very serious and just as you wouldn't, you know, walk
into a Neon sign for five bucks and expect, you know,
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a thousand dollar experience. Um. It's good to take that
in mind that you know, through word of mouth is
typically the best way to see a medium. Yeah, I agree,
definitely daries yes, yes, yes, and through someone you trusted.
It helps to know somebody who had firsthand testimonials. Out
of everything that you've ever learning your life, what was
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like the most surprising part, The most surprising part, I
think just for me really the fragility of life, you know,
I'm I sit with people who have gone through such
extreme loss and how quickly life could change and I've
learned the importance of saying it now while I still
have the chance. Um, I tell my mom I love
her every single time she leaves my house, my boyfriend,
and make sure to you know, never go go to
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bed mad if if we're having a little tube. Um.
It's taught me the importance of seizing the moment in
every way that we can, because so many people that
sit in that chair in front of me are sitting
there because they have regret, regret for either what went unsaid,
what went undone. And so when we can live life
more mindfully in the here and the now and validate
the people in our lives, you know, make sure things
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aren't going on side and make sure they're not going undone,
then we save ourselves from having future regret. And I
think that's for me, the most empowering message I've gotten
from my work. And what's your favorite part of what
you do? I love the surprise, the reactions. You know,
you never know what people are are expecting or what
they think about it. And so sometimes I find reading
skeptics is actually easier than reading hardcore believers because the
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bars kind of a little lower with skeptics. So like Okay,
what can he tell me? And then something will come
through and then you see this whole transformation happen. Um.
Whereas hardcore believers sometimes they'll sit in the chair and
they're like, Tyler, I know how amazing you can you know,
I know how great of an experience you can give me,
And so the bar is very high, and I suddenly
have to kind of meet that expectation. So it's always
a challenge. It's always something new, and um, it's always
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a surprise. So sitting here with me, now, do you
feel anything or I would have to about the notebook?
But I will definitely talk because I I definitely feel
like there's some good things, good things to discuss. But
we'll make some time. We can do a little notebook
scratchy scratchy as you see me do on my show,
and then we'll see what comes through, because that's kind
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of how I turn on and start connecting to some
of the deeper things. But I have no doubt you know,
all your love ones are so proud of what you've
done and being able to take your life story and
honor that there's such power and storytelling and what you've
been able to do to bring you awareness to your
survivorship has inspired so many people. And I think, if
anything is a testament to the power of storytelling. No
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matter where we are socioeconomically, whether we're celebrity or not,
we can really change other people's lives through honoring our voice.
And that that spreads far and wide. That echo might
you know, affect people you don't even realize in there
and there, So keep it up. Thank you, yeah, thank
you very much. Of it's been just the most empowering
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and it's important and impactful time in my life. And
I just feel like I've found my mission and maybe
I was put through this like by God and given
this gift so that one day I could use my
voice to stop it from happening to other children. And
you know the fact that I've changed laws now in
seven states and now going back to Washington, d C.
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In two weeks, and I will not stop fighting until
change is made amazing. That's really what it's all about.
And just a side note, intuitively, one thing good to
keep in mind is I do feel like I kept
when you sat down and kept getting my symbology for
publishing literary that kind of thing. So just keep us
in mind. Over the court. The next two years, you
might have the chance to release something from a publishing perspective,
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So think like book, something we would write and then release,
but on a larger scale than even we've done in
the past. Something to think about. I'm writing my book now.
I just wrote the first three and our pages and
things like that. Power in your storytelling that really is
changing the world. And good on you for using your platform.
You know, it would have been so easy for you
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not to, so the fact that you did is even
more commendable. Yeah, that's something I was never planning on
ever discussing because I was just, you know, so traumatized
that I didn't want to think about it. I wanted
to bury it. And then, um, it always came back
to me my nightmares, and maybe that was for a
reason to be too so I couldn't finally go and
make a change because the nightmares they didn't stop, and
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it was every night where I was like back in
those places, and it felt so real. And now since
I've been making change, like the nightmares are gone. I
sleep like I don't have insomnia. Like it's just like
changed my life if in every way, and people come
up to me on the street and they're just like,
you change my life. Like nobody believed me. Now my
family finally believes me. Like I feel so validated, Like
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just thank you for telling your story. And that's just
been not just the most important thing, Like I've done
a lot of things in my life I'm proud of,
but this is like by far the most thing. Absolutely well,
and clearly the effect of it is so widespread, And
I wonder if your intuition was communicating to you by
having those dreams maybe on some level, as a way
to bring it to your conscious mind, as a way
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to say, hey, you know, we need to look at
this and there's an opportunity to help people with it.
So good on you for noticing that. You know, you
could have just ignored it and kept having nightmares. Yeah.
I think before I was just so concerned about, you know,
kind of projecting that perfect life to everyone, because in Hollywood,
like they make you feel that way, like you have
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to be perfect and everything needs to do this, and
you know, there's so much power and being vulnerable and
real and because no one's perfect and we've all been
through things and it it helps others when you can
be vulnerable and tell the truth because everyone not everyone
can relate, but there's a lot of people who will relate.
It will mean, It will mean a lot too. Absolutely,
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that vulnerability is so key to be able to honor
that in ourselves. I think it inspires other people to
open up. That's huge. Wow, what are you working on
now that you're most excited about? Oh? You know, well,
I just had my my most recent book, here and
Hereafter came out this month, and then I had the
new Thank You, the new show Life After Death on Netflix.
And I do live tours across the country, so I
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stand in front of thousands of people and do readings
and audience settings and that's really fun. It's really nerve
wracking and a big challenge as a medium, but that's
where I feel like I get to do the most
amount of work in the smallest amount of time. So
I get to touch on all people across the country.
And you know, as you know, traveling the country to
rural places, it's amazing the different cultures and the stories
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and you see the differences but also the similarities. It's
really fascinating. Which place are you excited to go on
the tour? Oh? I like to go to rural places
like I like, take me to like rural south. I
went to a Biloxi, Mississippi or performed dead as a medium.
It's pretty bolicy because you know, it's Mississippi. Body. It
was cool. It's cool to get to travel there, and
I'm you hope to go back, but to be able
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to go to places where people might not have access
to l a and maybe they need to, you know,
be exposed to that conversation around grief and loss. So
I like to come to people. Yeah, I was a
Mississippi for the simple life of them all around there.
So the sun, yeah, humid for sure. Yeah. The food
is so good. I love the food. Did you how
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did you like? Do you is soul food? Are you
a soul food person? Yes? I love it so good.
Yeah yeah, fried chicken going over and cheese yes, I
gotta go. Okay, I love it like I'm just I
just love eating food. That's good. I know it's just
how um Yeah, comfort food. Absolutely, it makes you just
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feel happy. That's right. Do you cook? No, one of
my not one of my many talents. No, but I
can burn water and that's about the extent of it.
That's hot. Do you cook. If I watched YouTube video
you you you were sent something? Yeah, living Zanya? Yes,
do you enjoy cooking? Is it something you? It's fun?
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It is fun. It's about the experience, right, It's the
journey not the destination. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. I travel so
much now that I don't have time to cook like
I used to. But during the pandemic, I just like
was loving to cook, and my husband loves my cooking,
so I was on, there you go. Does Clint cook
better than I do? He went to culinary school briefly,
so I use him for his sauces. He just can
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make a sauce for anything. And oh my god, don't
get lost in the sauce. I'm so dumb, Oh my god.
But yes, no, no, I don't know. I like to eat.
I'm more of an eater than a maker fruit. Yeah,
you eat it and make it. Yeah? What sign? Are
you a Capricorn? What about you as Aquarius? My mom's
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an Aquarius? Good, good, good, solid, salt of the earth.
We're fun. That's right, that's right. Do you resonate with
your astrology sign? Yes, I'm obsessed fully. Yeah. I completely
believe in signs and astrology and the horoscopes, and it's
like crazy, how real it is for mine? Especially? Have
you looked into your partner's horoscope as well to see
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if they're compatible? Yeah? Both Aquarius. Okay, there you go
a lot of a lot of I always thought it
was a water sign, but apparently it's an air sign.
I didn't know, Aquarious. Isn't it an airside? I don't know.
I thought it was. I thought it was water to Aqui. Yeah,
you would think, right, But I think it's an air sign.
It's not weird. It wouldn't even make sense because it's
a fish. But I think it's an Yeah, like like
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a unicorn that's right, flying over the rainbow. I love
your interior design. I aspire to have well, I would
yea in my next life. I want to come back
as Parashilton. That's all I'm saying. I have to be
reincarnated this or your dog. Yes, yeah, my fayisdic as
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my errant designer, and she did it so she gets
so beautiful. And then I came in and like put
all the neon signs and like everything she said. Parents
were supposed to shoot this for architectural digests, Like what
did you do to my designs. I was like, I
parasized it. It's in the state of Paris, Paris Solist.
(34:35):
We're working on this. Yeah, everywhere I thought is funny. Well, look,
if I were as beautiful, I think I would be
having photos of myself. Ever equally, I just love it,
Like who else I'm not gonna have about I have Maryland.
It's me and Maryland normally. Okay, So in fashion inspiration,
women that give you, you know, a sense of aspiration.
(34:58):
Who would those women be free in your life? Marilyn
Monroe obviously, Grace Kelly, Princess Diana, Heck, yes, I love
Princess Diana Bummer. I know. Paparazzi bummer, Like I know,
it's like it was so preventable. I know, and that,
(35:19):
you know. I get asked about conspiracies and people are like,
do you know, JFK, what do you think? Well, I
don't know, but I think Diana thought that was some
weird there's some weirdness there with that passing. I think
there was incentive for her to be taken out, So
I hope that didn't happen, But I wonder. I know
it's living, sliving, non sliving, living, do you believe in them. Conspiracy,
(35:40):
there's not somewhat typically not just because I think, you know,
you know, critical thinking, logic, reason, I'm big on that.
But simultaneously, you know, I don't know. Sometimes things happen good.
I'm sure they exist. Things happen to conspire there every
now and then, So I'm open minded. And what about aliens?
Do you believe? I do believe in alien So I
think there's there's too much evidence out there from the
(36:03):
UAP phenomenon. It's for me unidentified aerial phenomenon to indicate
that it's real. The Pentagon released some really interesting videos
that they were able to capture in the past couple
of years, so ufology is definitely getting more credibility in
recent years than it has ever before. So it'll be
fascinating to see. I know, I totally I think I
am an alien. You know, what's the visionary you've got
(36:25):
to go on. You might might be from a different planet.
Have you ever seen a UFO? I feel like I have.
I've seen things that look like UFOs that are like
flying and they're like huge and round and it's like
late lighting up, So I think they are. I don't
know if it's like a drone because there's like drone
paparai sometimes two. It could be that I take an
(36:48):
edible once I thought I saw what I was like.
It wasn't. It was completely identifiable, but it was life. Yes,
And what is like? What is when you were like
a little before you know? It's like what did you
want to be? I wanted to be an archaeologist, which
I feel like it is a pretty part for the
(37:08):
course answer what about you? I probably wanted to be
archaeologists too, and I was like seven because I would
love the class when we would like dig it and
like find the cool like fossils, Like that was so cool.
And I still I still love doing things like that.
But archaeology just turning into archaeologists, that's just in the backyard.
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Slash DJ. I love that you should have run for president.
You would be an amazing president. Thank you, Paris for President,
Paris for President. Make America hot again again? Absolutely, I
love it. You're very diplomatic. I've watched and watch what
Happens live and you're always so poised. I admire I
admire it so much. Yeah, com in this business a
(37:51):
long time and you learn all the tricks of what
they're trying to do, Dodge, dodge, pivot. You're amazing. What
did you get shy when you first started doing interviews?
And yeah, I'm I get excited every day when I
get to go to an interview like this. I'm always like,
oh my god, this is my life. And I just
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I would never want to lose that childlike sense of
wonder and that sense of giddiness. And I think when
people lose it, you know, they become very jaded in cynicals.
So for me, I just I love the excitement and
it feels so privileged to be in my position. Yeah,
I'm such a kid at heart. They got to hold
onto that because I gets lost as people get older
and not the sacrifice often of their own happiness. Why
(38:33):
not be so I don't know, it's not it's boring. Yeah,
some people don't let themselves go through those childlike emotions,
you know, and sit with them. So well, at least
where kids at heart. Man, that's right. Absolutely, this is Paris.
(38:57):
This is seven ns living questions. I'm ready for all seven.
Let's live. We're sliving. What is your go to dance move?
Go to dance move? Maybe a plank. Is that a plank?
Is that a dance move? Is that when you just
lay that dance it's just to just is that when
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they lay across the table it is And I think
that embodies my ability to to get the groove on. Really,
just let me lay there, leave me alone, check on
me every thirty second minute, make sure I stall have
a pulse, Give me a little cup of water. I'm
google my dance move. Like, what is your spirit animal?
And why? I'm gonna saying Nicole Ritchie? But this is awkward?
(39:41):
Down um spirit animal? Oh God? Why is this such
a hard Honestly, no, I don't. I should I should
have came prepared minds. A unicorn is a unicorn, which
is very apt. I think I would be a Golden
Retriever if I were a person animal. If I was
a person, I am a person. I'm actually a Golden
Retriever and my spirit animals Tyler, And so the cat
(40:02):
is out of the bag. Next question, I love golden
two years I am. You're making my tail wag? Yes? Oh? Next,
what is um? How long does it take you to
get ready? Oh? Like not that long. I mean at
(40:23):
the end of the day when I'm done putting the
makeup on, get the hair. I look and I look
at the mirror and I go, this is as good
as it's going to get. And then I walk out
the door. So I try my best, but yeah, I'm
not a miracle worker. What is the worst date that
you've ever been on? And what the worst date I've
ever been on? Was with the guy. He came over
to my house and he tracked muddon through the front
(40:45):
door on his shoes, so it's like we're off to
a great start. And then he's he's a journalist and
so he on the way they're called me. He's like, oh,
I I can't come over right away, and I was like,
what's wrong. He's like, oh, someone just got murdered and
I have to go like on the scene to like
report this murder and then I'll come over to your house.
So I was like, it was waiting all night because
someone got shot. And then he finally showed up track
(41:08):
dirt in through the house and that was it. I
thought it was kind of a bad date. Okay, that
sounds brutal. Yeah, nothing like you know, homicide to really
set the tone for the date. Romantic, Yeah, that's not hot,
not hot, not at all. Are you a facetim or texting?
(41:28):
When people FaceTime me, it's it's they go on my
list if you face If people face time me, I'm
like immediately nope. And then and then I just I
don't know. Face timing is the worst. I don't know
why people think they can just face time me freely.
It seems like something needs to be scheduled planned. I
need perfect lighting and I need you know, the full
makeup on. So yeah, no, no facetiming. People feel entitled.
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I know a lot of people always try it. I'm like, dude,
I like don't even like speaking on the phone. I
like to text and like face timing, Like no, it's
way too immersive. It's like really early in the morning too.
I'm like, are you crazy when there are in other
time zones and you're like, it's three eating cheetos, okay, same.
(42:12):
I like texting, all right, we'll just text each clet
and voice note and it's I'm lazy to texts. I
usually like, do the voice memo and your voice note,
and I like text for you spells everything wrong. It's
the worst. And then my thumbs are so fat I
have like the Megan Fox fingers thumbs where like I'll
hold the voice note little memo to try to do it,
(42:34):
and then I'm like sending six different or it goes
on like stops and then it erases. So I want
to die when that happens after a long rue. Yes,
you're like I was committed the Beach of the Mountains beach,
beach beach, What about you? Beach beach? Any reason why?
I love ocean. I love the sand, and I love swimming,
and I love surfing and dolphins. I love all of that.
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I love just going on tropical vacations. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no,
it's just the best. Water is so therapeutic and restorative
and represents our subconscious sounds good, good place to be.
What is your favorite beauty tip? Favorite beauty tip just
use lots of Scotch tape to pull the face back.
That's why I look twelve. No, I'm just kidding. Uh,
(43:17):
favorite beauty cool girl. I could take some beauty tips,
and I think I could probably better off receiving them
than giving them. I would say, well, I say this
as my hair it literally looks I got a haircut recently,
and so now I look like the coolest eighth grader,
like my hair is growing out and it looks like
I don't know. Be mindful of your fly aways. That's
what I would say. Greatest beauty tip, be mindful of
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your flyways because all it takes is one and then
people are watching you and it's all they're both focused on.
As she's looking at my flyways so very much. You
have cute bangs, you know what I grew on myself
just for you, just for this event. They're hot. Thanks.
And your last selling question, what is your go to karaoke?
(44:00):
Go to karaoke? Go co uh Africa Bye bye Toto,
not actually, but the visual that would be hilarious and
me just like, yeah, singing Africa by Toto Africa Africa
(44:22):
is not how it goes first. I don't remember that.
All the yeah, all the treading, Oh yeah yeah that one.
You know, um, what about you? You surprise me here?
What would what would you do if you had to
do a karaoke I always do Betty Davis eye and
stars are blind obviously naturally there you go. Okay, I'm inspired.
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My next karaoke I've men to think of you. Thank you, Yes, yes, Paris.
This has been so fun, so much fun. Thank you
for having me so much. Thank you, and I can't
wait to do a reading with you. And we're gonna
have a good time. We'll do it. Let's it. We're
going to just be sliving now through them and beyond.
Loves it. Thanks for listening to This Is Paris. We
(45:07):
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