August 31, 2023 • 24 mins
In their first interview ever, Gabby and her girlfriend, Robby, join Bethenny.
Robby reveals what she was like growing up in a conservative, Hasidic Jewish family and how she now feels “the gayest she’s ever been.”
It’s almost unheard of in Hollywood to get a couple willing to be so open about their lives and relationship!
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Speaker 1 (00:12):
Enter, Robbie, you just said, who just said she? What
did you say?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
She's so gay?
Speaker 1 (00:17):
It's crazy, it's crazy, Like she's the gayest person you've
ever met.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
She's very good. She makes me get I think I
was always good. This is the gayest I then people.
You know, I know, but I don't believe it. Babe, Babe, babe,
look at.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Me, Babe. She literally is like leaping like a unicorn
gay like she's all right. So so this is hot
and heavy, like.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
It's very serious. You don't want to see a snake
out I do.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
I mean, I think I already have.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
I think I.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Already have to tell the story of when we met,
did you not?
Speaker 1 (00:48):
I did?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
But you tell it?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
You don't think I say it accurately? What's she wants?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
She said that she used to had to explain that
she was dabbling and had said to friends she was
exploring her sexuality.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
I like that. Yeah, no, no, but at thirty two
you explore your teenager?
Speaker 1 (01:05):
I told you, right, Well, when, well, when were you
exploring your sexuality?
Speaker 2 (01:10):
You know what?
Speaker 4 (01:10):
I didn't do nothing, didn't do nothing, didn't do nothing,
and suddenly I was gay? When what I swear like
I wasn't like I give hand jobs like I was doing.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Like a shape.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
You've both seen penises before.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
We understand.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
We came in knowing that.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
Me, babe, oh ninth grade, I give not. I did
pretty well, okay, you know I was kind of a
cute girl. I'm low key pretty, you know, and I
a beautiful skin.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Before I even said, she doesn't know that's your favorite
thing to say, she's like, I.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Have you're beautiful because you are very Some of daddies
with this like this one like what she did, like
you know, ugly, and I'm like, I'm.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
Actually cutie, No, you are pretty perfect features your I
know she doesn't do anything very well.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
You're not wearing make up, you know.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
I was very like a childlike for a very long time.
Even though I was like hooking up. We were doing
like you know, what you were supposed to do. And
I love the tension and I like, I like flirting
and whatever. But I was very kid like for a
long time.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I was.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
I was, I was a real like goofing around with
my friends. I wasn't into the whole hot thing, mind you,
because it was a diversion.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
You were like trying of trying.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
To I just like I just was like so and
then suddenly I fell in love with a girl and
I was which has never been in fiction.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
That's why you disrupting your interview.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
You were disrupting her this.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Yeah, by the way, I.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Go mine, I go after the juice were interrupting.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
We're interrupting.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Okay, right, so you gave a hand job and you
were dating a guy, which the world.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
And that was it.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
I kind of And then I was like seventeen eighteen
and I got outed brutally, and so, you know, because
I was outed, you know, people would tell me like, hey,
I'm hearing some things about you know. I had a
best friend to tell me, I just think it's really weird,
you know.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
And it wasn't like it's not even like the time,
you know, this is like you know, the mid two thousands.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
It wasn't like crazy time.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
But I did grow up in a consumer conservat It
wasn't being discussed like it is now.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
At mid two thousand.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
It wasn't yah, And I was like friends with a
group of girls, like we were like eight, like super
close friends, and we were all kind of jappie.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
And I don't mean the Japanese people. By the way, Hello,
you mean a Jewish you know, princess?
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Yeah? Yeah, so, and I was trying.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
I was so poor and I went to this rich
Jewish school on subsidy, and I was always trying to
like kind of fit in and not make any waves.
And I know I was on. My mother was like,
don't just be good, just be good. This is a
great opportunity for you. And she was totally right. I
got a great education out of it.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
But she didn't want you to be gay, and like,
but yeah, yeah, let's not ruffle everything.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
And you were you grew up in a Hassidic household. Yeah,
I was born Hasidic. I have nine siblings, and then
we grew up more conservative. We moved to Canada. My
mother's Canadian. And that's kind of when I explore, you know,
when you're saying Explored was a teenager and all that,
so when she tells she's thirty two, No, I'm just saying, like,
going from being a growing again a Hasidic household in
Ground Heights to being a lesbian to being with someone
(04:14):
on the Bat Show, like this is this is crazy? No,
I know, Causidic decision no, I know Hasidic decision and
dreams do come true if you believe.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
I'm not. You know, no one better sham to think.
So it's wonderful.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
He's like, I've never been more religious, and honestly same.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
You're never been more religious, and you've never been more gay.
Are you going to so what about if you get married?
What's the religion going to be in the household?
Speaker 3 (04:34):
I'll convert.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
She's I've said nothing. We don't need this. People vote
is important to you Jewish? It's over what are we
talking about?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Right?
Speaker 3 (04:48):
But she's so, I get a Jewish history lesson almost
every day, which I love and I die for now
and there is there's so much culture.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
I mean, truly, you would love.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
It's a very funny language.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
She knows.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
She says something, Say what you say something?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
I forget say things you said, say something?
Speaker 2 (05:04):
God forbid something? What you said?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I know, no no plus us, no bid, just say
it fast.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Plus for Okay, what did you have to say yesterday?
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Hush him?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
There we go.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Yeah, but you would love. I'm s fitzing when you're speading.
I know, I'm sitting when you're getting.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Which I have to go pick.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
But now, I'm like, I almost caught myself saying it
the other day. I like the numbers thing, the eighteen.
So now, when I was at the spot the other
day and I looked for like a multiple of eighteen
to put my stuff in, I'm like, oh, because this
is probably good luck.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
You're going to be a great Jewish lesbian.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Is great.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Yeah, I'm like buying it, honestly, just for the fun
of it. I'm here, Yeah, I want another party about me.
I'm here for a good time.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
To have a bout. I want to go, I want
to plan it. We're doing here.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Yeah, I had a major property.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
You could do the property.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
I apologize. Wait, I'm dying.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
The big story was not even the gay that she
didn't a jew, I said, I said to my I
said Jewish.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
Well, she's very Jewish. She says she's more Jewish than
she is gay.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Yes, that's very intense. Yeah are you fasting?
Speaker 2 (06:30):
No?
Speaker 4 (06:31):
But yeah, I'm you fast I listen. I'm not an animal.
Of course I fast for you, all right, So would
you expect her to fast for you?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
But it's one day because it hasn't come yet, the
day of atonement, it's coming up very soon.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
It's coming.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
You have a lot to atone for.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Some people think I'll do it, you know, I think
I should was totally on our side. But anyway, I mean,
he's blessed. I tell my mother, I'm like, I mean,
how blessed am I? He said, unbelievable.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Well what do your parents think?
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Well, my father's still holsidic.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
We have no relationship and my mother my mother was
dabbling maybe gay at some point, but now she's due
for Jesus, she's addicted to religions.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Wait, so you have no relationship because you're gay and
it's just too big a diference.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
My father's another disaster for another time. But yeah, he's
very religious, so it can't interest you. And this would
be yeah, and I don't know he's not going. You
got to earn with everybody in my life. I think
it's such a privilege for me to be in your life,
such a privilege, and for Gabby to be in anybody's
life that if you don't come correct, like, it's no fight,
(07:27):
Like I'm not I'm a delight. So so to not
having in your life, it's like a youth thing, right,
it's you actually suffer from that, right, I understand.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Yeah, yeah, I get what you're saying. You're saying like
there isn't you don't come with a lot of problems,
there are dramas. No, we're just we just enjoy and
I'm close with a lot of my siblings. You know,
you know, I'm not like and my mother is great
and whatever. But you know, I think it's different when
you grow up in a family of twelve. I have
nine siblings and two You can't compare it to a
two kid, two parent household because it's like we also
(08:01):
there was this level of co racing that happened.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Yes, you know.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
And it's also Dennis Leary grew up and I think
a family of nine and they take care, you take care.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Of each other.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
And so it's like I like having friends and I
love my friends. But my sister, I mean, what are
we even talking about here?
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Have you met them?
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Yeah? You met how many sisters?
Speaker 4 (08:19):
You know?
Speaker 2 (08:19):
She's met a couple of the ones who are in LA.
I have four sisters.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
One of her sisters is watching my dog right now. Yeah,
so you have a whole big family.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
Now. I know.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
It's the best. Can't you see why I'm in love?
It's like there's really a delation.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Yeah, I'm in. I know I'm in.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
I can't believe I'm I feel so I feel you're delight,
But I can't believe I'm getting this right now. I
walked into like interview. I can't believe it's happening. I know,
and I think this is like the best interview in
the world.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
And it's hard to explain it. Just like on paper,
people see pictures of us, of course, like online has
a lot to say, but it's like the second you
meet us in person, it's like, oh, it all makes sense.
Nobody can even be around us because we're like so
in love. It's annoying, right, the compliment.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
Yeah, before I forget shout out to my sisters, Kraaya,
let's give everybody Devora yohodis So my brother Shmoy because
he's a big fan as well. So your brother Shirley's
a fan of mine.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Yeah, a big fan.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
Watching years ago when you were on that show, it
was you you would Jill period, Well, she.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
She's gonna be so jealous that she wasn't here. She's
gonna die. But you were really you were that you
spoke for the we We felt like you were of
the people for the people. Oh, I appreciate the show.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
I appreciate smoothly. I love it.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Wow, amazing, I love this you guys.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
I would say someone's going to definitely say that they
want to do a reality show with the two of you.
And I was going to say, be careful of fame.
I know, no, no, don't and don't don't ruin this
because honestly, it can. And I was going to say,
be careful of fame because it all is great and
it seems fun and everything seems like a good idea.
And I've been through that because it is the bubble
and you have to try to preserve it. And fame
(09:52):
is such bullshit. And don't listen to the opinions and
the way that people think that you look and preconceived notions.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
People are really fucked up.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
And on social media, what's happened now is that the
people doing videos are the people you used to.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Say, who are these crazy people in the comments? But
now they're a lot. They're live. Like remember you'd be like,
who writes these comments like on these articles? I'm not no,
because I don't. I don't look at it.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
You know, I've been a comedian almost ten years. You
know I've been it's kind of a slower burn. It
isn't like one of these pop offs. I knew that,
you know, once we've got to it and I'll tell
my our origin story. But yeah, I'm kinda I'm around,
you know. I just it's been a real nice So
this is like I'm still doing what I do.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
You take a look, you're folding it into the battery.
Speaker 4 (10:37):
Yeah, like I'm I always said, like lover money, this
is what I do to the day I die. I'm
doing what I do. I write, I do stand up.
This great fun. But it's not it's just it all
is very organic. I didn't go out of my way.
There's nothing. I'm never on an app or something like that.
Just it's evolving naturally. But you also both grew up
(10:59):
in crazy houses, so it's all a.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Second question I asked you.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
Yeah, and we saw in each other like right away,
because I think obviously that translates to relationships and just
like how you talk about things, how you want to
be seen. So it was just it was really a
whole layer, a big layer that you don't have to
explain your totally because crazy. Yeah, I can't relate to it.
It's like, how can I even begin to exppt For me,
I need.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
That, I need that adversity. So for me, like when
I asked her, so, I don't know what you said
of the story, but I'll say it. Uh, we're at
a bar.
Speaker 4 (11:33):
I had a show that night. My friend shout out
to rocks. My friend wanted me to go, uh, just
have a drink with her ketchup. I hadn't seen her
a while. I said, I have this show. It was
like kind of like a sometimes this bar has gay nights,
sometimes it's not, so it's more of the safe space.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
And so I said, well, I can meet you there,
but I can only get their lates, you know, public
people gone, who cares.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
We'll just will split a beer.
Speaker 4 (11:57):
So I get there and we have it and it's
kind of you know, it's ending and we're all saying goodbye.
I have a drinker, throw ketchup. It's wonderful.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
And then I'm leaving and I see a dike like me,
like looking at me, like I say that, yeah, like
the point of view, I don't think I can say
that any of that. I don't know if yeah, you're
new don't you know.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
Yeah, have a baby gay, I'm walking on eggshells.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Yeah yeah. But I'm like, you know, like a butchy,
like dyke like me, and I'm not gay like that.
So I'm like, oh, no, it's looking at.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Me because you're in a package that people think that
you're gonna want to be with someone like you wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Know, but sometimes like this is so niche, niche, niche.
Speaker 4 (12:31):
But I like but in the gay community, you know,
it's like some people are doing masks for me, some
some boyish girls like other boyish girls.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Right, not me. I'm not gay like that, right, How
does anyone know? Well for me, I don't know, Like
it doesn't matter one. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
I just I don't know. I like what I like.
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
I meant, I'm thinking stupid, like, how does anyone know
whether I like a man who's blonde or dark?
Speaker 4 (12:52):
You just figured it out you don't have a type.
But I was like, this person was looking me, and
I was like, oh, it's not huh. So I was like,
we should go.
Speaker 3 (12:59):
But Kyle is beautiful, very.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
But I know it's in the same thing.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
We don't know.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
By the way, I'm ready. I'm ready, But is this
your type?
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Is hot? Like she just like she?
Speaker 4 (13:15):
It's not even like because I don't date, because I
don't like I've had relationships, but I don't do like this,
like I don't know necessarily a look thing.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
To me, it's like a connection thing.
Speaker 4 (13:25):
And that's why to me, I don't think I ever dated,
because it's you know, you need times when you're you
know whatever, not down, but when you meet something like
I need to know I need with my own with
my head maya everything boom, like I need to know.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
I can't be email. You're not gonna be.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Able to figure this out on an app. You need
to feel me and you felt it.
Speaker 4 (13:45):
Immediately with her, was like immediately. So this so this
other butch beautiful shout out to Kyle comes up to
me and and God Hashem sends me some miracle and goes, oh, sorry,
I noticed you from your stand up.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
I saw you here here here, and it was wonderful.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
So me getting spotted in something like this, it's like,
I mean, so she's probably always spot you know, so,
but it'd happen to me, Thank you God, you know
what I mean. This is why I say the Shama
every night. So so this happened Sma's prayer. I still
pray at night. Okay, it means to hear and no.
So so she goes, oh, I message your comedy and
(14:19):
I go, okay, well never mind that.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Who's this?
Speaker 4 (14:22):
Because she was standing with Gabby, who looks one of
these things does not belong if the you know what
I mean?
Speaker 1 (14:28):
What is she dressed like this?
Speaker 4 (14:29):
On his No?
Speaker 2 (14:30):
So the thing is is you can't really recognize her
on the show because she had like, you know, like
a what is it called shore?
Speaker 1 (14:35):
But sexy?
Speaker 2 (14:36):
You address incredible? Got it?
Speaker 4 (14:38):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (14:39):
Hot?
Speaker 4 (14:39):
She right?
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Okay, hot is hot? So I go, what's this? And
the and the Kyle goes's a bachelor? I said, the
Bachelor's gay? Yeah, just like that.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
I'm like, I don't know what she's asking, Like, I
don't know who she's talking to. What's going on here?
Speaker 1 (14:55):
As I heard from the show, I don't know, right,
But have you watched the show?
Speaker 4 (14:58):
Now? Yes?
Speaker 1 (14:58):
So is so? Then?
Speaker 2 (14:59):
I so?
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Then because I thought she looked familiar. This really lesbians
loved the Bachelor. That's a sentence I never thought i'd hear.
Speaker 4 (15:06):
In my life. Shout out to my friends Kathleen, Sophie, Sophie,
Sophie Sophie A shout out to Kathleen and Sophie. He's
throw a dyke night where we sometimes if they're in
the city. So I actually saw a few of her
episodes because when this person was looking at me recognized me,
I thought i'd recognize her. But I'm like, oh, for
stand up so often that like maybe shows or whatever,
maybe she does stand up somewhere.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
I don't know, so I'm.
Speaker 4 (15:27):
Always like and then and then she said, I said,
the Batchel's gay. And then she said, well, I'm exploring,
and so how old are you? And she said thirty
two and you're gay?
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
And then I said, you come for money or not?
Because it's just like.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
I don't know how to answer this question correctly, like
I don't think so yeah, and then I don't feel.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
Like when you said spaghettios, you came from money? How
did you not know?
Speaker 3 (15:48):
But it was like it was like it's like still
kind of middle class. I mean I didn't know I
was wanting, like I wasn't like super, I didn't know where,
like you know, the conversation I'm.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Going now I have money.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
So I'm like, I don't know. Yeah, so.
Speaker 3 (16:03):
You're placed in the Hampton's nothing like that.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
Let's be clear. You can say anytime you want in
that cottage. You can has a separate life, separate everything,
and there you can say every time you want.
Speaker 4 (16:18):
And yeah, it was just like you know your answer.
I knew your answer because you said you weren't sure
and this and that. People come from it.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
They say uncomfortable say something like this, yeah, oh you
know we did we do okay? I think, or then
we do okay. That's a good one.
Speaker 4 (16:31):
Yeah, yeah, so I knew right away. And for me,
that is people. That's what you asked. It's like to me,
that's like dating inside or outside the faith. Like you know,
some people say it's just easier to be with a Jew,
it's just easier to be with the Catholic. It's just
easier dating the faith. You don't explain for me the
coming for money versus not. I said it's easier.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
It's never funny because I said to her on The Bachelor,
it's never a dress. You come from a trailer and
then you go eating and Mickey nose on a on
a yacht. But like I don't understand. What are you
gonna you go back to the spaghettios, Like, let's discuss it.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
People should discuss.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
I agree with you because we do talk about money
a lot. You were like, you were pretty open about it.
You're like, hey, you know, I grew up poor, Like
I have money scarcity. This is something I'm always dealing.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
Have money noise.
Speaker 4 (17:14):
Yes, even though I have my listen, I'm always gonna
be careful, you know. So for me, it's like I
don't want to hear. Oh, you drive a nice car,
you have this, Well, why don't you want to spend
on this? I have trauma from it sometimes sometimes if
I'm in a store, Yes, if I have the money,
I'm not in the mood I get. I get, I understand,
you know, and so I don't need to explain or
this not I Sometimes i'm you know. So it's just
(17:36):
you never know where the trauma hits and stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
But I don't need to explain. I think these peaches
are a little.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
Too little conscious No money is a very ye can't.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Afford the peaches, But I'm not spending this on a peach.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
I was once dating a guy who was even though
I would like a waiter like he decatered, and you
knew he came from humble beginnings in New Orleans. And
we were with my daughter and we were at CBS
and I was getting some stuff for here for the
Hamptons on the way out, and I think it was
like one hundred and something dollars, and I felt really
uncomfortable because I didn't want to do this here because
I didn't want him to think he had to pay
(18:10):
for me because he was the guy dating me, and
make him stretch over and I'll never forget, like I
just I paid for myself. And then he was like, no,
I'll get it. But I felt uncomfortable because for me
money does come more easily than it probably did for him.
But I didn't want it to be that it wasn't discussed.
And that is a stupid example of like that dynamic
that can come up over Peachah.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
I just want to know that she you know, and
we're both doing okay now, but that how you do
when you're doing okay is very formed by your upbringing.
So for me, it's really like baiting in the faith
because to me, I look at the country that way.
You know, I'm controversial in this way. Sometimes I don't
care a Republican or Democrat. I look at rich versus
poor period.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
It's very interesting. I never really said that that way.
I've not really heard that, and I agree because I
asked her that question about the macheress.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
So it's very interesting. Okay, so you guys been together
five months?
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Now, what do you think? What are you gonna do
here in the Hamptons. You're gonna go to my my recommendations.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
Yes, we want your recommend I said, we do. She
don't want to ask you. I said, she goes, Well,
why don't she goes for everything?
Speaker 3 (19:12):
She's like just throwing I'm like, this our first.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Coming on Bethany.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Yes, I agree.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
I agree even the point, there's no point.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
I'll give you all the people to call the places
we can't get in and we want to do this
or yeah the Jewish ways, yes, and this is my
place and yeah, this is my life, and yeah, you
guys could stay in the cottage. Room is a great
one hundred percent not just I'm not just saying that. Yeah, Paul,
my fiance produced Eliza Schlessinger good on paper.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
I just feel like your story. You should talk to him.
He's produced one past.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
Guys, if you are want gonna make a movie, you know,
we're on a strike right now. I'm in development currently, well.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
Eventually, but I'm saying you should talk to him because
he did a movie just around a comedian and it's
a great movie. It's called It's About Dating. Good on
Paper was number one on Netflix. You just remind me
of like someone that he would love.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
It's just ad break. You have a really interesting story.
So all right there.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
Anything we did not cover well is Robbie the first
woman you've suck with?
Speaker 2 (20:10):
Yes, okay and the last.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
Are you uncomfortable with the attention not from her, from
everybody and this being.
Speaker 3 (20:17):
Like, oh it's attention, let's not like get into it.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
And if it was like.
Speaker 4 (20:23):
Nineteen forty by all means, but right now it's like
all fun, I did okay, fellas, Yes, yeah, it's not
the worst thing that could happen.
Speaker 3 (20:32):
So she's like, right after we came out in the view,
she's checking her name on Twitter. I've had a couple
of hours the.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
Street and you're making out like what are people like,
like have we made out in the Hamptons on street yet?
Or what are people acting? And you just god here
I got to do some yeah back.
Speaker 3 (20:47):
And people like after the view, people recognized us and
they were taking pictures of both of us, like we're
so happy.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
I'm still I'm holding the camera, you know.
Speaker 4 (20:57):
When we were well after this, like you know, I was,
I was like, they'll find out I'm Jewish because that
hadn't for me.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
I was paranoid. That's that's it. That's an inherited trauma.
I'm like, forget gay. No, I think that's your own noise.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
I really do. I don't think and I don't think
that's a thing. I feel like Jewish lesbians are no
literal I know, but in the Bachelor Nation, I know,
but they have you said, lesbians, have you seen a
Jewish Bachelor?
Speaker 2 (21:26):
No, but I'm loving.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
Oh that's you've seen a Jewish And we can do
the Bacher.
Speaker 2 (21:30):
We can fucking nail.
Speaker 1 (21:31):
We could do the Macher. Wait, yes, we need the
Jewish Bachelor, a Jewish bachelor. Jewish guys treat women phenomenal.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
Yeah, the best I had I had a type. It
was Jewish and it still stands.
Speaker 1 (21:43):
No and and Jewish And they should discuss sexuality more
on the Bachelor. I know they won't's ABC, but they
should a little bit. Like some people are okay with
an open relationships, some people are okay non traditional. I
think there should be I think you're you talking is interesting.
It just opens up a discussion. I think it's amazing.
I think you're great.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
I did not.
Speaker 4 (22:00):
I was excited to have you on, but like I
got this was like a fucking this was like she's
inside it out like a Russian dog.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
Yeah, this kept getting more layer. This is like an
amazing like pinata, Candy's flying out, It's all different.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
This is amazing.
Speaker 1 (22:13):
So I'm so happy for you guys, and I want
to like know you got go live your life.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (22:32):
That was beyond Like that was such an incredible conversation
and such an amazing young woman. And Robbie was amazing,
Like you just want the best for them. The lead
that has been buried is that Robbie is one of
nine children born Hasidic in Crown Heights, Brooklyn, Like if
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you know you know that is that alone is a story?
Like that alone is the story. Then being gay, then
getting into a relationship with someone who was on the Bachelor,
Like each of their stories are so fascinating individually that
then put them together. This is incredible, Like, what an
(23:16):
amazing duo, What a crazy story. It's really just about
living your life the way that you honestly want to,
living in your truth, like it's your journey. You get
one ride. They are in love, they are having the
time of their lives. They are reaching the apex of
their careers. The sum is greater than its parts. All
(23:38):
boats rise with the tide. They came to my house.
We had such a good time.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
We laughed.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
They're fun, They're entertaining, They're funny. Go for yours. I
am so team them.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
This is amazing.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
I loved them.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
I'm friends with them, I know them. They can stay
in my house. Thrilling.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
And I was talking to iHeart about how obviously different
an interview this was from the Rachel interview, which I
haven't really expressed that that was a very sensitive interview
with a very sensitive person at a very sensitive time
in her life. Like it wasn't like a freak. Let's
talk about you know, sexuality, let's talk about food, let's
talk about travel, let's talk about that show. It was
(24:14):
about like talking about a very specific traumatic experience with
emotional abuse and getting from there to here. It's just
like to have those two interviews back to back is
like being on a roller coaster ride because they couldn't
be more different, and both to me so fascinating and
interesting in their own way. But wow, strong women really amazing,
(24:36):
so excited, opinionated, strong opinionated women love it.
Enter, Robbie, you just said, who just said she? What
did you say?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
She's so gay?
Speaker 1 (00:17):
It's crazy, it's crazy, Like she's the gayest person you've
ever met.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
She's very good. She makes me get I think I
was always good. This is the gayest I then people.
You know, I know, but I don't believe it. Babe, Babe, babe,
look at.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Me, Babe. She literally is like leaping like a unicorn
gay like she's all right. So so this is hot
and heavy, like.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
It's very serious. You don't want to see a snake
out I do.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
I mean, I think I already have.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
I think I.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Already have to tell the story of when we met,
did you not?
Speaker 1 (00:48):
I did?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
But you tell it?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
You don't think I say it accurately? What's she wants?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
She said that she used to had to explain that
she was dabbling and had said to friends she was
exploring her sexuality.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
I like that. Yeah, no, no, but at thirty two
you explore your teenager?
Speaker 1 (01:05):
I told you, right, Well, when, well, when were you
exploring your sexuality?
Speaker 2 (01:10):
You know what?
Speaker 4 (01:10):
I didn't do nothing, didn't do nothing, didn't do nothing,
and suddenly I was gay? When what I swear like
I wasn't like I give hand jobs like I was doing.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Like a shape.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
You've both seen penises before.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
We understand.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
We came in knowing that.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
Me, babe, oh ninth grade, I give not. I did
pretty well, okay, you know I was kind of a
cute girl. I'm low key pretty, you know, and I
a beautiful skin.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Before I even said, she doesn't know that's your favorite
thing to say, she's like, I.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Have you're beautiful because you are very Some of daddies
with this like this one like what she did, like
you know, ugly, and I'm like, I'm.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
Actually cutie, No, you are pretty perfect features your I
know she doesn't do anything very well.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
You're not wearing make up, you know.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
I was very like a childlike for a very long time.
Even though I was like hooking up. We were doing
like you know, what you were supposed to do. And
I love the tension and I like, I like flirting
and whatever. But I was very kid like for a
long time.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I was.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
I was, I was a real like goofing around with
my friends. I wasn't into the whole hot thing, mind you,
because it was a diversion.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
You were like trying of trying.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
To I just like I just was like so and
then suddenly I fell in love with a girl and
I was which has never been in fiction.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
That's why you disrupting your interview.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
You were disrupting her this.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Yeah, by the way, I.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Go mine, I go after the juice were interrupting.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
We're interrupting.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Okay, right, so you gave a hand job and you
were dating a guy, which the world.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
And that was it.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
I kind of And then I was like seventeen eighteen
and I got outed brutally, and so, you know, because
I was outed, you know, people would tell me like, hey,
I'm hearing some things about you know. I had a
best friend to tell me, I just think it's really weird,
you know.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
And it wasn't like it's not even like the time,
you know, this is like you know, the mid two thousands.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
It wasn't like crazy time.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
But I did grow up in a consumer conservat It
wasn't being discussed like it is now.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
At mid two thousand.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
It wasn't yah, And I was like friends with a
group of girls, like we were like eight, like super
close friends, and we were all kind of jappie.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
And I don't mean the Japanese people. By the way, Hello,
you mean a Jewish you know, princess?
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Yeah? Yeah, so, and I was trying.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
I was so poor and I went to this rich
Jewish school on subsidy, and I was always trying to
like kind of fit in and not make any waves.
And I know I was on. My mother was like,
don't just be good, just be good. This is a
great opportunity for you. And she was totally right. I
got a great education out of it.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
But she didn't want you to be gay, and like,
but yeah, yeah, let's not ruffle everything.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
And you were you grew up in a Hassidic household. Yeah,
I was born Hasidic. I have nine siblings, and then
we grew up more conservative. We moved to Canada. My
mother's Canadian. And that's kind of when I explore, you know,
when you're saying Explored was a teenager and all that,
so when she tells she's thirty two, No, I'm just saying, like,
going from being a growing again a Hasidic household in
Ground Heights to being a lesbian to being with someone
(04:14):
on the Bat Show, like this is this is crazy? No,
I know, Causidic decision no, I know Hasidic decision and
dreams do come true if you believe.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
I'm not. You know, no one better sham to think.
So it's wonderful.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
He's like, I've never been more religious, and honestly same.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
You're never been more religious, and you've never been more gay.
Are you going to so what about if you get married?
What's the religion going to be in the household?
Speaker 3 (04:34):
I'll convert.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
She's I've said nothing. We don't need this. People vote
is important to you Jewish? It's over what are we
talking about?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Right?
Speaker 3 (04:48):
But she's so, I get a Jewish history lesson almost
every day, which I love and I die for now
and there is there's so much culture.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
I mean, truly, you would love.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
It's a very funny language.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
She knows.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
She says something, Say what you say something?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
I forget say things you said, say something?
Speaker 2 (05:04):
God forbid something? What you said?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I know, no no plus us, no bid, just say
it fast.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Plus for Okay, what did you have to say yesterday?
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Hush him?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
There we go.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Yeah, but you would love. I'm s fitzing when you're speading.
I know, I'm sitting when you're getting.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Which I have to go pick.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
But now, I'm like, I almost caught myself saying it
the other day. I like the numbers thing, the eighteen.
So now, when I was at the spot the other
day and I looked for like a multiple of eighteen
to put my stuff in, I'm like, oh, because this
is probably good luck.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
You're going to be a great Jewish lesbian.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Is great.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Yeah, I'm like buying it, honestly, just for the fun
of it. I'm here, Yeah, I want another party about me.
I'm here for a good time.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
To have a bout. I want to go, I want
to plan it. We're doing here.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Yeah, I had a major property.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
You could do the property.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
I apologize. Wait, I'm dying.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
The big story was not even the gay that she
didn't a jew, I said, I said to my I
said Jewish.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
Well, she's very Jewish. She says she's more Jewish than
she is gay.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Yes, that's very intense. Yeah are you fasting?
Speaker 2 (06:30):
No?
Speaker 4 (06:31):
But yeah, I'm you fast I listen. I'm not an animal.
Of course I fast for you, all right, So would
you expect her to fast for you?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
But it's one day because it hasn't come yet, the
day of atonement, it's coming up very soon.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
It's coming.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
You have a lot to atone for.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Some people think I'll do it, you know, I think
I should was totally on our side. But anyway, I mean,
he's blessed. I tell my mother, I'm like, I mean,
how blessed am I? He said, unbelievable.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Well what do your parents think?
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Well, my father's still holsidic.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
We have no relationship and my mother my mother was
dabbling maybe gay at some point, but now she's due
for Jesus, she's addicted to religions.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Wait, so you have no relationship because you're gay and
it's just too big a diference.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
My father's another disaster for another time. But yeah, he's
very religious, so it can't interest you. And this would
be yeah, and I don't know he's not going. You
got to earn with everybody in my life. I think
it's such a privilege for me to be in your life,
such a privilege, and for Gabby to be in anybody's
life that if you don't come correct, like, it's no fight,
(07:27):
Like I'm not I'm a delight. So so to not
having in your life, it's like a youth thing, right,
it's you actually suffer from that, right, I understand.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Yeah, yeah, I get what you're saying. You're saying like
there isn't you don't come with a lot of problems,
there are dramas. No, we're just we just enjoy and
I'm close with a lot of my siblings. You know,
you know, I'm not like and my mother is great
and whatever. But you know, I think it's different when
you grow up in a family of twelve. I have
nine siblings and two You can't compare it to a
two kid, two parent household because it's like we also
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there was this level of co racing that happened.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Yes, you know.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
And it's also Dennis Leary grew up and I think
a family of nine and they take care, you take care.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Of each other.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
And so it's like I like having friends and I
love my friends. But my sister, I mean, what are
we even talking about here?
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Have you met them?
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Yeah? You met how many sisters?
Speaker 4 (08:19):
You know?
Speaker 2 (08:19):
She's met a couple of the ones who are in LA.
I have four sisters.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
One of her sisters is watching my dog right now. Yeah,
so you have a whole big family.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
Now. I know.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
It's the best. Can't you see why I'm in love?
It's like there's really a delation.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Yeah, I'm in. I know I'm in.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
I can't believe I'm I feel so I feel you're delight,
But I can't believe I'm getting this right now. I
walked into like interview. I can't believe it's happening. I know,
and I think this is like the best interview in
the world.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
And it's hard to explain it. Just like on paper,
people see pictures of us, of course, like online has
a lot to say, but it's like the second you
meet us in person, it's like, oh, it all makes sense.
Nobody can even be around us because we're like so
in love. It's annoying, right, the compliment.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
Yeah, before I forget shout out to my sisters, Kraaya,
let's give everybody Devora yohodis So my brother Shmoy because
he's a big fan as well. So your brother Shirley's
a fan of mine.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Yeah, a big fan.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
Watching years ago when you were on that show, it
was you you would Jill period, Well, she.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
She's gonna be so jealous that she wasn't here. She's
gonna die. But you were really you were that you
spoke for the we We felt like you were of
the people for the people. Oh, I appreciate the show.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
I appreciate smoothly. I love it.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Wow, amazing, I love this you guys.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
I would say someone's going to definitely say that they
want to do a reality show with the two of you.
And I was going to say, be careful of fame.
I know, no, no, don't and don't don't ruin this
because honestly, it can. And I was going to say,
be careful of fame because it all is great and
it seems fun and everything seems like a good idea.
And I've been through that because it is the bubble
and you have to try to preserve it. And fame
(09:52):
is such bullshit. And don't listen to the opinions and
the way that people think that you look and preconceived notions.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
People are really fucked up.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
And on social media, what's happened now is that the
people doing videos are the people you used to.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Say, who are these crazy people in the comments? But
now they're a lot. They're live. Like remember you'd be like,
who writes these comments like on these articles? I'm not no,
because I don't. I don't look at it.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
You know, I've been a comedian almost ten years. You
know I've been it's kind of a slower burn. It
isn't like one of these pop offs. I knew that,
you know, once we've got to it and I'll tell
my our origin story. But yeah, I'm kinda I'm around,
you know. I just it's been a real nice So
this is like I'm still doing what I do.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
You take a look, you're folding it into the battery.
Speaker 4 (10:37):
Yeah, like I'm I always said, like lover money, this
is what I do to the day I die. I'm
doing what I do. I write, I do stand up.
This great fun. But it's not it's just it all
is very organic. I didn't go out of my way.
There's nothing. I'm never on an app or something like that.
Just it's evolving naturally. But you also both grew up
(10:59):
in crazy houses, so it's all a.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Second question I asked you.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
Yeah, and we saw in each other like right away,
because I think obviously that translates to relationships and just
like how you talk about things, how you want to
be seen. So it was just it was really a
whole layer, a big layer that you don't have to
explain your totally because crazy. Yeah, I can't relate to it.
It's like, how can I even begin to exppt For me,
I need.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
That, I need that adversity. So for me, like when
I asked her, so, I don't know what you said
of the story, but I'll say it. Uh, we're at
a bar.
Speaker 4 (11:33):
I had a show that night. My friend shout out
to rocks. My friend wanted me to go, uh, just
have a drink with her ketchup. I hadn't seen her
a while. I said, I have this show. It was
like kind of like a sometimes this bar has gay nights,
sometimes it's not, so it's more of the safe space.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
And so I said, well, I can meet you there,
but I can only get their lates, you know, public
people gone, who cares.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
We'll just will split a beer.
Speaker 4 (11:57):
So I get there and we have it and it's
kind of you know, it's ending and we're all saying goodbye.
I have a drinker, throw ketchup. It's wonderful.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
And then I'm leaving and I see a dike like me,
like looking at me, like I say that, yeah, like
the point of view, I don't think I can say
that any of that. I don't know if yeah, you're
new don't you know.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
Yeah, have a baby gay, I'm walking on eggshells.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Yeah yeah. But I'm like, you know, like a butchy,
like dyke like me, and I'm not gay like that.
So I'm like, oh, no, it's looking at.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Me because you're in a package that people think that
you're gonna want to be with someone like you wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Know, but sometimes like this is so niche, niche, niche.
Speaker 4 (12:31):
But I like but in the gay community, you know,
it's like some people are doing masks for me, some
some boyish girls like other boyish girls.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Right, not me. I'm not gay like that, right, How
does anyone know? Well for me, I don't know, Like
it doesn't matter one. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
I just I don't know. I like what I like.
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
I meant, I'm thinking stupid, like, how does anyone know
whether I like a man who's blonde or dark?
Speaker 4 (12:52):
You just figured it out you don't have a type.
But I was like, this person was looking me, and
I was like, oh, it's not huh. So I was like,
we should go.
Speaker 3 (12:59):
But Kyle is beautiful, very.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
But I know it's in the same thing.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
We don't know.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
By the way, I'm ready. I'm ready, But is this
your type?
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Is hot? Like she just like she?
Speaker 4 (13:15):
It's not even like because I don't date, because I
don't like I've had relationships, but I don't do like this,
like I don't know necessarily a look thing.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
To me, it's like a connection thing.
Speaker 4 (13:25):
And that's why to me, I don't think I ever dated,
because it's you know, you need times when you're you
know whatever, not down, but when you meet something like
I need to know I need with my own with
my head maya everything boom, like I need to know.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
I can't be email. You're not gonna be.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Able to figure this out on an app. You need
to feel me and you felt it.
Speaker 4 (13:45):
Immediately with her, was like immediately. So this so this
other butch beautiful shout out to Kyle comes up to
me and and God Hashem sends me some miracle and goes, oh, sorry,
I noticed you from your stand up.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
I saw you here here here, and it was wonderful.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
So me getting spotted in something like this, it's like,
I mean, so she's probably always spot you know, so,
but it'd happen to me, Thank you God, you know
what I mean. This is why I say the Shama
every night. So so this happened Sma's prayer. I still
pray at night. Okay, it means to hear and no.
So so she goes, oh, I message your comedy and
(14:19):
I go, okay, well never mind that.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Who's this?
Speaker 4 (14:22):
Because she was standing with Gabby, who looks one of
these things does not belong if the you know what
I mean?
Speaker 1 (14:28):
What is she dressed like this?
Speaker 4 (14:29):
On his No?
Speaker 2 (14:30):
So the thing is is you can't really recognize her
on the show because she had like, you know, like
a what is it called shore?
Speaker 1 (14:35):
But sexy?
Speaker 2 (14:36):
You address incredible? Got it?
Speaker 4 (14:38):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (14:39):
Hot?
Speaker 4 (14:39):
She right?
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Okay, hot is hot? So I go, what's this? And
the and the Kyle goes's a bachelor? I said, the
Bachelor's gay? Yeah, just like that.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
I'm like, I don't know what she's asking, Like, I
don't know who she's talking to. What's going on here?
Speaker 1 (14:55):
As I heard from the show, I don't know, right,
But have you watched the show?
Speaker 4 (14:58):
Now? Yes?
Speaker 1 (14:58):
So is so? Then?
Speaker 2 (14:59):
I so?
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Then because I thought she looked familiar. This really lesbians
loved the Bachelor. That's a sentence I never thought i'd hear.
Speaker 4 (15:06):
In my life. Shout out to my friends Kathleen, Sophie, Sophie,
Sophie Sophie A shout out to Kathleen and Sophie. He's
throw a dyke night where we sometimes if they're in
the city. So I actually saw a few of her
episodes because when this person was looking at me recognized me,
I thought i'd recognize her. But I'm like, oh, for
stand up so often that like maybe shows or whatever,
maybe she does stand up somewhere.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
I don't know, so I'm.
Speaker 4 (15:27):
Always like and then and then she said, I said,
the Batchel's gay. And then she said, well, I'm exploring,
and so how old are you? And she said thirty
two and you're gay?
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
And then I said, you come for money or not?
Because it's just like.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
I don't know how to answer this question correctly, like
I don't think so yeah, and then I don't feel.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
Like when you said spaghettios, you came from money? How
did you not know?
Speaker 3 (15:48):
But it was like it was like it's like still
kind of middle class. I mean I didn't know I
was wanting, like I wasn't like super, I didn't know where,
like you know, the conversation I'm.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Going now I have money.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
So I'm like, I don't know. Yeah, so.
Speaker 3 (16:03):
You're placed in the Hampton's nothing like that.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
Let's be clear. You can say anytime you want in
that cottage. You can has a separate life, separate everything,
and there you can say every time you want.
Speaker 4 (16:18):
And yeah, it was just like you know your answer.
I knew your answer because you said you weren't sure
and this and that. People come from it.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
They say uncomfortable say something like this, yeah, oh you
know we did we do okay? I think, or then
we do okay. That's a good one.
Speaker 4 (16:31):
Yeah, yeah, so I knew right away. And for me,
that is people. That's what you asked. It's like to me,
that's like dating inside or outside the faith. Like you know,
some people say it's just easier to be with a Jew,
it's just easier to be with the Catholic. It's just
easier dating the faith. You don't explain for me the
coming for money versus not. I said it's easier.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
It's never funny because I said to her on The Bachelor,
it's never a dress. You come from a trailer and
then you go eating and Mickey nose on a on
a yacht. But like I don't understand. What are you
gonna you go back to the spaghettios, Like, let's discuss it.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
People should discuss.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
I agree with you because we do talk about money
a lot. You were like, you were pretty open about it.
You're like, hey, you know, I grew up poor, Like
I have money scarcity. This is something I'm always dealing.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
Have money noise.
Speaker 4 (17:14):
Yes, even though I have my listen, I'm always gonna
be careful, you know. So for me, it's like I
don't want to hear. Oh, you drive a nice car,
you have this, Well, why don't you want to spend
on this? I have trauma from it sometimes sometimes if
I'm in a store, Yes, if I have the money,
I'm not in the mood I get. I get, I understand,
you know, and so I don't need to explain or
this not I Sometimes i'm you know. So it's just
(17:36):
you never know where the trauma hits and stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
But I don't need to explain. I think these peaches
are a little.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
Too little conscious No money is a very ye can't.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Afford the peaches, But I'm not spending this on a peach.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
I was once dating a guy who was even though
I would like a waiter like he decatered, and you
knew he came from humble beginnings in New Orleans. And
we were with my daughter and we were at CBS
and I was getting some stuff for here for the
Hamptons on the way out, and I think it was
like one hundred and something dollars, and I felt really
uncomfortable because I didn't want to do this here because
I didn't want him to think he had to pay
(18:10):
for me because he was the guy dating me, and
make him stretch over and I'll never forget, like I
just I paid for myself. And then he was like, no,
I'll get it. But I felt uncomfortable because for me
money does come more easily than it probably did for him.
But I didn't want it to be that it wasn't discussed.
And that is a stupid example of like that dynamic
that can come up over Peachah.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
I just want to know that she you know, and
we're both doing okay now, but that how you do
when you're doing okay is very formed by your upbringing.
So for me, it's really like baiting in the faith
because to me, I look at the country that way.
You know, I'm controversial in this way. Sometimes I don't
care a Republican or Democrat. I look at rich versus
poor period.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
It's very interesting. I never really said that that way.
I've not really heard that, and I agree because I
asked her that question about the macheress.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
So it's very interesting. Okay, so you guys been together
five months?
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Now, what do you think? What are you gonna do
here in the Hamptons. You're gonna go to my my recommendations.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
Yes, we want your recommend I said, we do. She
don't want to ask you. I said, she goes, Well,
why don't she goes for everything?
Speaker 3 (19:12):
She's like just throwing I'm like, this our first.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Coming on Bethany.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Yes, I agree.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
I agree even the point, there's no point.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
I'll give you all the people to call the places
we can't get in and we want to do this
or yeah the Jewish ways, yes, and this is my
place and yeah, this is my life, and yeah, you
guys could stay in the cottage. Room is a great
one hundred percent not just I'm not just saying that. Yeah, Paul,
my fiance produced Eliza Schlessinger good on paper.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
I just feel like your story. You should talk to him.
He's produced one past.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
Guys, if you are want gonna make a movie, you know,
we're on a strike right now. I'm in development currently, well.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
Eventually, but I'm saying you should talk to him because
he did a movie just around a comedian and it's
a great movie. It's called It's About Dating. Good on
Paper was number one on Netflix. You just remind me
of like someone that he would love.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
It's just ad break. You have a really interesting story.
So all right there.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
Anything we did not cover well is Robbie the first
woman you've suck with?
Speaker 2 (20:10):
Yes, okay and the last.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
Are you uncomfortable with the attention not from her, from
everybody and this being.
Speaker 3 (20:17):
Like, oh it's attention, let's not like get into it.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
And if it was like.
Speaker 4 (20:23):
Nineteen forty by all means, but right now it's like
all fun, I did okay, fellas, Yes, yeah, it's not
the worst thing that could happen.
Speaker 3 (20:32):
So she's like, right after we came out in the view,
she's checking her name on Twitter. I've had a couple
of hours the.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
Street and you're making out like what are people like,
like have we made out in the Hamptons on street yet?
Or what are people acting? And you just god here
I got to do some yeah back.
Speaker 3 (20:47):
And people like after the view, people recognized us and
they were taking pictures of both of us, like we're
so happy.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
I'm still I'm holding the camera, you know.
Speaker 4 (20:57):
When we were well after this, like you know, I was,
I was like, they'll find out I'm Jewish because that
hadn't for me.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
I was paranoid. That's that's it. That's an inherited trauma.
I'm like, forget gay. No, I think that's your own noise.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
I really do. I don't think and I don't think
that's a thing. I feel like Jewish lesbians are no
literal I know, but in the Bachelor Nation, I know,
but they have you said, lesbians, have you seen a
Jewish Bachelor?
Speaker 2 (21:26):
No, but I'm loving.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
Oh that's you've seen a Jewish And we can do
the Bacher.
Speaker 2 (21:30):
We can fucking nail.
Speaker 1 (21:31):
We could do the Macher. Wait, yes, we need the
Jewish Bachelor, a Jewish bachelor. Jewish guys treat women phenomenal.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
Yeah, the best I had I had a type. It
was Jewish and it still stands.
Speaker 1 (21:43):
No and and Jewish And they should discuss sexuality more
on the Bachelor. I know they won't's ABC, but they
should a little bit. Like some people are okay with
an open relationships, some people are okay non traditional. I
think there should be I think you're you talking is interesting.
It just opens up a discussion. I think it's amazing.
I think you're great.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
I did not.
Speaker 4 (22:00):
I was excited to have you on, but like I
got this was like a fucking this was like she's
inside it out like a Russian dog.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
Yeah, this kept getting more layer. This is like an
amazing like pinata, Candy's flying out, It's all different.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
This is amazing.
Speaker 1 (22:13):
So I'm so happy for you guys, and I want
to like know you got go live your life.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (22:32):
That was beyond Like that was such an incredible conversation
and such an amazing young woman. And Robbie was amazing,
Like you just want the best for them. The lead
that has been buried is that Robbie is one of
nine children born Hasidic in Crown Heights, Brooklyn, Like if
(22:55):
you know you know that is that alone is a story?
Like that alone is the story. Then being gay, then
getting into a relationship with someone who was on the Bachelor,
Like each of their stories are so fascinating individually that
then put them together. This is incredible, Like, what an
(23:16):
amazing duo, What a crazy story. It's really just about
living your life the way that you honestly want to,
living in your truth, like it's your journey. You get
one ride. They are in love, they are having the
time of their lives. They are reaching the apex of
their careers. The sum is greater than its parts. All
(23:38):
boats rise with the tide. They came to my house.
We had such a good time.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
We laughed.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
They're fun, They're entertaining, They're funny. Go for yours. I
am so team them.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
This is amazing.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
I loved them.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
I'm friends with them, I know them. They can stay
in my house. Thrilling.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
And I was talking to iHeart about how obviously different
an interview this was from the Rachel interview, which I
haven't really expressed that that was a very sensitive interview
with a very sensitive person at a very sensitive time
in her life. Like it wasn't like a freak. Let's
talk about you know, sexuality, let's talk about food, let's
talk about travel, let's talk about that show. It was
(24:14):
about like talking about a very specific traumatic experience with
emotional abuse and getting from there to here. It's just
like to have those two interviews back to back is
like being on a roller coaster ride because they couldn't
be more different, and both to me so fascinating and
interesting in their own way. But wow, strong women really amazing,
(24:36):
so excited, opinionated, strong opinionated women love it.
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