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May 9, 2025 14 mins

Building an audience means building trust. And when you break that trust... PLUS: Have you started decluttering yet???

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Speaker 1 (00:12):
Okay, let's talk about very viral people. I see this
more on TikTok than anywhere. There will be someone who
for a fortnite is the most famous person in the world,
like the most famous person in the world, and then
they either just fade out or they become detestable detestable.

(00:36):
So some are fade out, like there's I remember there
was a girl like faded out like I need a
man of finance, six feet whatever, like six', five blah blah,
blah like she Was madonna for two. Weeks then there
Was Jules lebron who was like It's i'm not like
you as a girl. Is i'm, Tipsy i'm. Demure and
then there was the woman who was Like. Pakistan she
was like In pakistan and she was like just standing
in front of microphones just saying. Things she's LIKE i

(00:57):
need two thousand Or i'm not, leaving and she was
the most famous person for two. Weeks then there are
other people that like they just have a way of
talking or something that has made them super famous on
social and they just become. Detestable the same thing you
like about. Them they're, winging they're, whining their, twang their,

(01:18):
accent their whatever becomes. Detestable it's it's not the. Same
but people who are extremely, charming it could be, amazing
and it's just so, charming and everyone Loves dan And
bob and let's hang out With bob and Is bob
coming and let's Bring. Bob and then two weeks later you're,
like get Fucking bob out of my. Face he's so.

(01:38):
Annoying it's it's it's beloved to. Detestable so here's a
thing going on on social. Media it has to be a.
Discussion so munjaro and ozempic and any of these. DRUGS
i don't know if those are glps or IF glp
is something. Else but like people say that, WORD i
see it a. Lot it doesn't matter to. Me but

(01:59):
like any drug that you could take that you're gonna
like lose. Weight now there's we have to talk about this.
Thing like you're gonna like you're gonna do, it do,
it stab you, whatever give yourself a. Shot you're gonna lose.
Weight another, day we could talk about the, money how
much it. Cost another, day we could talk about what
you think about, it et. Cetera you could talk about that.
Today but there are a couple of things going. On number,

(02:20):
one the first phase of it was shame and, Denial
so people who had had pretty much the same body
type their entire, life certainly their entire adult, life with
the exception of we got food, poisoning we did a juice,
FAST i went, Away i'm changing my, LIFE i lost
eight pounds. Whatever with the exception of, that they've had
the same body type and it's been a. Struggle it's

(02:43):
been a white knuckle. Struggle then one day they majestically
lose all this, weight they change the way they, look
and they refuse to tell the truth about, it and everyone,
knows AND i have specific examples in my mind right,
now but they refuse to tell the truth about. It
and it's absolutely, stupid and it's more stupid for, them

(03:06):
like than just the overall. Concept it's specifically stupid from
a personal brand, standpoint because no one's going to believe
anything they. Say after no one's gonna believe ANYTHING i,
say where'd you get? That check? IT i don't. Remember
they don't believe. You how much did it? Cost oh the?
House we sold it in two weeks and we sold
it for twenty five. Million, Dollars we don't believe you and.

(03:28):
Anything my, daughter you, know she's doing really. Well she
just gets. A'sed we don't believe. You if someone's lying about,
anything they're probably lying about, everything like outright lying in
such a manner of like something like, that like a
drastic weight, loss life. Change and they all say fitness and, exercise,
okay or some other thing, fitness, exercise, Hormones god only

(03:49):
knows the horoscope does it, whatever love, diet the, stress,
diet blah blah. Blah so that's a trust. Issue and
once they get, in they can never get. Out i'm
thinking of specific. Examples they can never tell the truth
because they once got. In. Okay next, step there's a
group of those people that come to eventually admit it

(04:11):
and have to tell people that they didn't want to
admit it because they had shame or they thought they'd be,
judged or that they thought people wouldn't believe that they
actually did change their diet and. Exercise and it does
contribute again credibility. Lost and you're having people on the
internet and social media that either are in the diet

(04:34):
business selling diet, products in the body business and the
body weight, business and the nutrition business and the you,
know give tips for healthy living, business and then you
find out that they're on this fucking shot and you
are someone who feels alone and like a, loser like
you've been. BELIEVING i don't blame these, people like you're
buying this thing and it was been a. LIE i

(04:56):
get what they're. SAYING i actually get what they're saying
because they've been on a ride and there's been an
indication or an implication or an outright proclamation about it
being about health and. Diet and there are some people
that are. Pureists there are some people that do not
want to put botox in their. Face there are some

(05:16):
people that are old. School there's some people that are
bad at tech and bad at fucking all this, tech you,
know all this futuristic stuff and don't UNDERSTAND. Ai and
they want to just SAY i want to know THAT
i can do, myself and they don't need to do it,
Themselves like it's like someone doesn't have to have a
midwife and not get the. Shot but some people want
to knock at the epidural for whatever. Reason it's their own,
body their own. Choice so these people are, like, yes

(05:38):
this is a role model for this, experience And i'm
excited and then you're, like wait what you fucking? Liar
and now even, worse they're lost in the. Middle wait a,
minute COULD i believe any of the food? Stuff they? Said?
Wait so is that actually good as that crack or
SOMETHING i should eat or shouldn't? Eat? Wait AM i
actually supposed to eat fruit with? Yogurt And i'm not
supposed to eat fruit with? Yogurt? Wait AM i having peanut?
Butter or is peanut butter the? Devil because you're a

(06:00):
fucking liar and you can have one little lick a
peanut butter because you're on a, Shot and it is,
Bullshit and they have a reason to be. Pissed they
have a reason to be. Pissed it is based on a. Lie,

(06:25):
now like people have talked About Kylie jenner who's selling
lip kits when she didn't have lips three years. Before
but like it's lip. Gloss we could see we have
with our, eyes she's starting out with good lips even
if she didn't have them three years. Ago we shouldn't
put the lip gloss on three years. Ago today is
the day we're looking at your. Lips we know they're
big and now you're putting like a sheene on. Them
that's not the same as being, Like i'm telling you

(06:48):
to eat tuna salad with green peas in it BECAUSE
i lost all this. Weight and then you're, like but,
wait you fucking lost the week because you did the.
Thing and it's fine that you did the, thing but,
like then at least start for. That then you could
appeal to that group Him i'm taking the. Shot who
else is with? Me this is WHAT i find that
we should eat. Together if you're taking the. Shot, oh

(07:09):
here's a. High the high is, that LIKE i don't
have an. Appetit the low is THAT i do get
stomach aches Or i'm oddly gaining weight through this. Thing
like you want to like meet someone where they're fucking,
at so you could It, like for, Example i've been
SAYING i Want i'm on a Supermodel i'm on a supermodel.
Program now it's for a, month And i'm it's kind
OF i already fell off of it a couple. Times

(07:31):
BUT i am being a little, conscientious not because LIKE
i THINK i need to lose weight or That i'm not,
THIN i have, Eyeballs i'm not body, dysmorphic, Right But
i'm doing something that is very very super, modelish AND
i don't know if like eating lean protein makes the
difference versus like just drinking tequila and like being swollen
or eating sugar or. Whatever So i'm trying to do

(07:53):
something healthy BECAUSE i want, to, like at least even
if it's in my, mind have SAID i did something
to prepare for, this because what was happening was it's
not that far. Away it's a couple weeks. Away And
i've been, like what the fuck AM i? Doing Like
i'm fifty four years, old and there's like young people
doing this thing and that do this, thing and Who
i'm just gonna stroll in there when young people talk

(08:15):
about what they eat on the day of a photoshoot
and what their workout is and what their diet is
and what their boot camp is and you know the
supplements are. TAKING i take zero. SUPPLEMENTS i do zero.
EXERCISE i don't have that much. INTENTION i MEAN i
eat pretty, well but LIKE i eat sweetish candy and
cake and fried. Shit SO i was, like let me
just at least pretend That i'm like one of these
people that's like living this life for a couple of

(08:36):
weeks that like is gearing up to. Something so at
least WHEN i walk AND i see that there's like,
skinny jiggly, JELLO i could SAY i gave it my
shot because While i'm very i'm, Thin i'm one of
those like not quite But i'm, Like i'm like one of,
those Like i'm not flabby. THIN i won't use that.
Word i'm okay because of the beachwalks and things like,
that But i'm sort of like a fat thin, Person

(08:57):
Like i'm not gonna. Lie i'm like a little bit
of like a sl slightly slovenly thin. Person AND i
want to like be like feeling like strong and, like,
yeah just having a smoothie BECAUSE i just did a,
workout like and of COURSE i haven't worked out for
two days, now BUT i did take a little walk
And i'm gonna do a walk today And i'm doing
the best THAT i. Can But I'm i'm at least

(09:18):
taking people on the journey with, me telling them what's going.
ON i had a piece Of swedish candy dipped in
crunchy exterior the other day AND i, said we're not
super models. Anymore i'm sorry, GUYS i KNOW i took
you on this. JOURNEY i have to leave you. Behind
you can go, stay do whatever you. Want BUT i
Found swedish candy encased in like a crunchy blowpop type. Coating,
okay deal with. That basements and, Garages, OKAY i could

(09:44):
be canceled for saying this BECAUSE i said it on
the world wide interwebs that like cancel, them cancel, addicts
cancel storage. FACILITIES i didn't even say that, there AND i.
WOULD i that's a that's a no. Brainer so, like
you can have a basement and a garage for these,
things the, cars, decorations but in a mindful, way in
a nice bag that looks like some version of a

(10:07):
holiday duff full, suitcase and, like lean it. Out this
is not a dumping ground of everything you ever had
your whole. Life oh we'll keep. It put it in the.
Basement whatever it is in your, basement go look, around
look it up. Online it's three, dollars it's eight. Dollars
get it the fuck. Out, basements, addicts garages are nests of, shit,

(10:28):
okay nests of collecting. Garbage the mental LANGUAGE i am
terrified to. PURCHASE i just bought a bunch of shit like,
online And i'm already sweating and panic in that it's
coming BECAUSE i did such a purge of the seventy
five percent of my belongings that in the house That
i'm in, now Which i'm going to be here for
like another, month i have. Nothing i'm going To europe
And i'm bringing like fucking Gauzy amazon shorts LIKE i don't.

(10:52):
CARE i want it to get rid of so much
and not like take anything into the new house That i'm,
wearing LIKE cbs clothing To, sentropez LIKE i JUST i don't.
Care i'm buying AND i know it's the fast fashion
these some of these listenings say. Sustainable i'm not buying expensive.
Shit i'll give it. AWAY i just don't want more
stuff overall in my, LIFE i don't want to like
schlep stuff from place to place to place to place to.

(11:14):
Place it's. Over i'm never going back there again. Ever
in my. Life i'm literally the word dump it comes
out of my fingers on text to my staff eight
times a. Day dump, it dump. It it feels so.
Good dump it one way or the. Other, yeah you're,
not it's not you're not giving it away people could use.

(11:34):
It they don't want your old, shit dump, it give
it to someone who actually wants, it and then don't
make the mistake. Again they don't fucking want. It, okay poor,
people victims of, hurricanes victims of, tornadoes victims of, fires
victims of, floods people who have. Nothing they don't want,
old ill, sized, dirty, mismatched trashy. Garbage, okay that's. Bullshit

(12:00):
get it out and don't make yourself feel better with.
IT i have a whole fucking posh thing of stuff
that comes to me and the money goes to. Charity
but it's, like you, know it's A i, mean it's
twenty five thousand a. YEAR i don't talk about. IT
i don't tell you. Guys go send it, There go
buy this. Stuff you're doing. Charity you're not doing. Charity
you're not doing charity by buying. Clothes, okay it's just.
There SO i thoughts in my. HOUSE i got to
get the fuck. Out where is it going and what's it?

(12:21):
Doing you know WHAT i? Mean someone sends me nine
shades of a brand of, Foundation what AM i? DOING
i have one, face So i've got eight other. Shades my.
Assistance everyone that works for me is like they're like
taking bath as a. Foundation so where does it? GO a,
sweater a tach goes in the corner in the posh.
Pile then they sell it for a. Fraction so it's

(12:42):
probably one hundred and twenty five thousand dollars a shit
a year if twenty five goes to be. Strong but
that's where it fucking, goes be cause it's got to
go somewhere that is not doing. Charity that is just
a service for. Me and WHY i don't promote that
and talk about. It why BECAUSE i can raise twenty
million dollars in a. Week i'm not going to start being, like,
yo go buy a three dollar lip. Glass it usually
costs twelve and it's going a. Chair shut the fuck.

(13:03):
Up none of that's that's just making yourself feel. Better
none of this. Shit, Okay so that's. Over. Supermodel i'm
kind of a, supermodel But i'm kind of not a.
Supermodel something's coming. Up i've been healthy Or i'm trying to.
EXERCISE i had a, trainer full, DISCLOSURE i had a.
Trainer three. Times i've told, everyone well, LISTEN i have

(13:25):
a trainer With capital Tr ai N E. R AND
i pulled out my. Back fucking my back. HURTS i
didn't want to say it BEFORE i started. It every
Time i've worked, out if my body, hurts LIKE i,
know but you just at the, beginning it is SO
i don't, think SO i don't. Think SO i pulled
my fucking back. Out, OKAY i could barely walk WHEN
i get out of bed in the. Morning so IF

(13:46):
i have to do this THING i have to do
and a fucking, came everyone's getting. Canceled So i'm gonna
try to do some yoga to, day take a nice
garden fucking walk nature walk In. Connecticut BUT i don't
know HOW i feel yet about this trainer workout. Thing
it's kind of it's not, natural troll for the. Body
it's not. Natural BUT i am a supermodel in. Waiting
love you, Guys, bye
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