Cults, Kool-Aid and OnlyFans w/ Amber Singletary

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
You're listening to mess?

Speaker 2 (00:05):
All right, all right, all right, all right girl.

Speaker 3 (00:07):
I'm first of all so excited because I feel like
this is gonna be a hot one. I could just
the energy it is percolating. This is gonna be so much.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
This is gonna be easy sailing the mess.

Speaker 1 (00:20):
So I'm I'm strapped in? Are you? I am strapped in?

Speaker 4 (00:24):
I'm in. You're in, I'm in.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
You're not out? No, you're in.

Speaker 4 (00:28):
I'm in.

Speaker 1 (00:29):
Okay, I mean three black girls in the studio. Yeah,
but hey, let's bring our guests in.

Speaker 3 (00:42):
Okay, we got a sister in the building that's not
from Harlem.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
No, not from But we are so glad to have
you here.

Speaker 1 (00:49):
I'm so happy to be here. Exciting a singletary. You know,
I had to pause myself because I appreciate Amber singletary.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
You have a great series called Judge on uh on Instagrams, Yes, instagrams,
instagram and TikTok an TikTok and TikTok.

Speaker 4 (01:04):
Can you judge people on it?

Speaker 1 (01:06):
I judge people in the park, Yes, Oh, I love that.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
That's the perfect place to actually judge people.

Speaker 5 (01:11):
It is, But then you have the stragglers that come
up and want to be judged, and people that want
to be judged should not be on care talk to them.

Speaker 1 (01:18):
We don't want to talk to them.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
It's always the people who are like, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:21):
I was like, yes, perfect you. You know what kills
me is the I have a story. Oh my gosh.
And then they get on camera and they're like what
should I say?

Speaker 5 (01:28):
And I'm like, so, so you had nothing. You ran
down here to tell a story and you have nothing.

Speaker 3 (01:35):
Or they have a story and you're like this is like,
oh my god, it's my ears are bleeding.

Speaker 5 (01:39):
One girl today was like, I'm a compulsive liar. I said, babe,
that's not a story, that's a fact profession.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
Yeah, which I would.

Speaker 4 (01:46):
Like that a compulsive liar.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
Okay, so tell me the time you lie. She can
think of one. I said, is this a lie? Right?

Speaker 4 (01:54):
Is the fact that you're a liar a liar?

Speaker 1 (01:56):
Yes? A lie is a lie is a lie. But
I will say watching people do stuff it does it
can look effortless, but then when you're in front of
that camera, you're like, you know, it's true.

Speaker 3 (02:09):
It happens to me sometimes like somebody asked me to
say something on camera yesterday about somebody that I know,
and I said immediately I was like, well and started
using words that I'm like, I don't really talk like that.
I said, can we do this over? Can we do
this over? And they were like, oh yeah, sure.

Speaker 1 (02:24):
So was it saying something nice or yes?

Speaker 4 (02:26):
It was.

Speaker 3 (02:27):
It was basically like describing the person. I was just
using words that.

Speaker 1 (02:30):
Just was You're like, they're impeccable. I would use that word.
Maybe I would use that word Marie, mm hmm, Well
what words did you use? That's what we did you say?
What did you say? I think I said whimsical.

Speaker 5 (02:44):
Okay, if somebody describe as whimsical.

Speaker 1 (02:54):
That's a word, though, But what that feels like somebody
who's like a Disney adult No, no, no, no, whimsical
is like it's described me as whimsical. I'd be like,
she was maybe not the first one. She was a fairy. Yeah, yeah,
she was a fairy.

Speaker 4 (03:07):
That's that's whimsy.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
Whimsy all right?

Speaker 3 (03:12):
Now, Marie, do you have any We usually talk about
our mass up top, and then I'll get in whenever
you want to, and then we'll you know, bring you in,
uh with yours?

Speaker 1 (03:21):
What you got for us Marie.

Speaker 4 (03:23):
I don't know what's my mess?

Speaker 1 (03:25):
Nothing new has really happened in the time. That's a
lot between episodes. Between episodes, Sidney, what's my mess? You went?
You went to a party. Your brother was there away, like,
I did you know what my mess is? I got
a neck tattoo this yes, yeah, that's me. Okay, okay,
that's fun mess. That's fun mess.

Speaker 4 (03:46):
I see it.

Speaker 1 (03:46):
It's very when you tell me I just took the
table off you see it? Wait, yeah, it's cute.

Speaker 5 (03:52):
It's cute, and it's like, okay, I thought we meant
like maybe a hand like if I'm gonna do if
I'm gonna do it, I'm just gonna you know, Yeah, but.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
Say, what is it? What is X so huge?

Speaker 3 (04:03):
Okay, okay, that's sweet. Was it a tattoo party? No,
it was a party that had tattoos at it.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
Okay, I'm they're doing I said, I was doing tattoo
and I love a party with free, free, free.

Speaker 4 (04:17):
That's what I got to I said, can.

Speaker 1 (04:19):
You do what every tattoo party I've been to the charging, Yeah,
they do. That was the first one that wasn't a
tattoo part. Okay, Well, I forgot. It was like we
had it was a dinner and then they they had
they were doing tattoos in the side room and I said, oh,
and the line on that is so straight and so good.
It's really really good.

Speaker 4 (04:38):
Perfect he do, he does good work. He's his.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
Soho shout out to George with the what's his? Is his?
Is that Jorge is studios?

Speaker 4 (04:45):
That's what I said. He said, no, George.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
He said it's George okay, because I said, oh, George
with a J is that horay?

Speaker 4 (04:51):
He said no, he said George okay.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
He said it's not George. It's George of the Jungle. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (05:01):
He said, he's like known for his line work.

Speaker 3 (05:04):
Lines.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
But yeah, So I I went to this event. I
invited my brother. I was really, you know, when I
get invited somewhere and I get a plus one, there's
very few people that I want to bring with me.

Speaker 4 (05:16):
You know.

Speaker 1 (05:17):
It's Sydney, it's my sister. It used to be Carolina
before she was a mother. She is a mother and
she I said that to her on the phone the
other day and she was like, I can still come
out shout out to you and the baby. Carolina. I said,
you're a mom, and I feel like, if I invite
you out, you're going to be like, I wonder if
I help the baby, can the baby come? Tattoo? Baby
can't come? Now the baby has a tattoo exactly. So

(05:40):
I invited my brother, and you know, inviting him out
is always interesting. It's so funny. He's good man, he's
perfect plus one, goofy and fun. But he is also
a breakdancer. So no, wait, now that's whimsical. No, no,
it's foolish. That's what it is. Stumps the yard, fully

(06:03):
breakdancing in front of everybody we meet on the elbows
in the air, legs and hair.

Speaker 3 (06:07):
Girl.

Speaker 1 (06:07):
I mean he it's definitely step up to the streets.
It's the street. Yeah, it's insane, bro, I said Sydney
a video. She was like, no, he sweated out your hat,
sweat all all the way.

Speaker 4 (06:23):
Around the hat.

Speaker 1 (06:25):
Was this a habit he had while you guys were younger,
or I mean when we used to go visit Sydney
At work, it's like what is going?

Speaker 4 (06:32):
He would be full breakdancing.

Speaker 1 (06:34):
He'd be like mono combat and it's like a busy night,
it's packed and he's doing he's doing jumps like he
needs in the chest, he needs a.

Speaker 3 (06:43):
Clear BrownHouse, kicks and everything, and he'll do a flip.

Speaker 1 (06:47):
It's like, wow, so you guys are athletic. I mean
I don't do none of that.

Speaker 4 (06:53):
Yeah, so full choreo. Full is a man on the
floor like Crump, Like does.

Speaker 1 (07:01):
He have a team. He doesn't need a team. He's
a one man show. He is a one man show.
And he dancing his ass off and our friend was
there and he was like, Yo, your brother's pretty cool.
But then we started dancing.

Speaker 4 (07:15):
He was like, oh, said, have.

Speaker 1 (07:21):
You ever thought to break dance? No? What I mean,
it's it's like a funny thing that like I'll pretend
to do but like not, no, I'm not like, Oh
he's like dead series so serious. He's not fucking around. Okay.
I didn't know if he was like laughing and being like, oh,
he won't battle.

Speaker 3 (07:37):
He will battle if you wanted to, like, you know,
step up to the streets.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
Do that. I bet you can move walk of course.
Yeah yeah, I don't even every move.

Speaker 4 (07:48):
What's the thing with the windmill?

Speaker 1 (07:50):
With the legs. He can do all of that. So
he was mad when that lady was in the Olympics.
What's her name.

Speaker 4 (07:56):
Honestly, we didn't we didn't talk about the Australian lady.

Speaker 1 (07:59):
But I'm sure it upset him, yeah, because he was like,
I could have did that.

Speaker 3 (08:03):
Yeah, he's I could have represented this country at the Olympic.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
But yeah, he was at the party living his best life.
And then he watched me get two tattoos. That's a
good brother.

Speaker 4 (08:12):
I mean, I'm a good sister because I invited him.

Speaker 1 (08:14):
Yeah, that's true. That's true. You can't have one without
the other. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (08:18):
Anyway, we had a good time. That's my mess. I
invited him.

Speaker 1 (08:22):
And now I'm about to have his birthday party and
I know he's going to bring the same exact energy.

Speaker 3 (08:27):
And we and when I tell you, I'm gonna have
so much storage on my phone so I can get
these videos.

Speaker 1 (08:32):
And it's a light up dance floor. So he is
gonna oh he's you know what, It's a perfect place
for him.

Speaker 5 (08:38):
This is this is his moment. Oh baby, he's Yeah,
I can't wait to see it.

Speaker 2 (08:42):
I think we need to bring your brother back on
the pod. Yes, God damn it.

Speaker 1 (08:46):
Yes.

Speaker 5 (08:47):
Does he actively go out and be like, Okay, I'm
going out to breakdance night because it seems like something
that would take like practice.

Speaker 1 (08:52):
No girl, so he has a store the muscle memory.
This is just in him.

Speaker 4 (08:56):
Yeah, I want to say he got best dancer in
high school or maybe.

Speaker 1 (09:00):
Leaning on it. Obviously talent was runner up. You say
he's leaning on Yeah, he's it's not even that he's
leaning on. He just he likes to dance, so like
if there's a DJ that he likes, So he's passionate
about this. Sweet he likes it. But I'm like, hey,
you're just trying to be chilled tonight, like you have
to be like hey, and but I could say that

(09:22):
she does not, but I don't, So you are he's
not going to listen to me. When the spirit.

Speaker 3 (09:28):
Took her hat, put it on and then sweaated it out,
I'm sure it's he has.

Speaker 1 (09:33):
To give me a new hat. Oh it's stained. It's
not stained, but it's definitely you know, you know it
was there. Listen, Marita's a sweat. You know it was
a new, brand new hat. He put it on and
literally there's a ring of sweat. When she show that,
I said, I've seen enough sweated it out. I was
supposed to go to the party and I didn't get
an update at it.

Speaker 2 (09:54):
Right enough time. I said, well, I'm not getting ready.

Speaker 1 (09:56):
Then I FaceTime I said, city, I'm getting your neck tattoo.

Speaker 5 (09:59):
She said, ashm, you were like, I should have came
to do myself.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
Yes, when she messaged me, she said, hey, we're not
even there yet. So she basically she was like, you
have enough time here, and I was like, I'm already
comfy in the big It's.

Speaker 1 (10:14):
Over once you get.

Speaker 4 (10:16):
On you if you get in the bay. No, you're
going out. You mentally prepared, you.

Speaker 1 (10:21):
Ready, I gotta be. I gotta know three days before.

Speaker 2 (10:23):
Oh, I don't need that. But I definitely was like.

Speaker 1 (10:26):
I was just like morning of at least I said
this on TIC.

Speaker 5 (10:29):
I'm not a same day friend. Don't ask me to
do some same day I can't. I gotta, I gotta,
I can't.

Speaker 1 (10:34):
It is It's New York City, babe.

Speaker 4 (10:36):
Stuff happens every day, but it is.

Speaker 1 (10:39):
Kind of mess. It's kind of like you set me up.

Speaker 5 (10:41):
To fail, because that's what the people that do ask
me same day.

Speaker 1 (10:43):
I'm like, you're doing this on purpose. You have somebody else?

Speaker 5 (10:46):
Yeah, like you had somebody else and know you're asking
me or you know that I'm not gonna be able
to get my fit together, so you are banking on
me looking terrible, and I'm not going.

Speaker 1 (10:54):
What kind of friends you got? Friend? She's not a
friend anymore anyway.

Speaker 5 (10:58):
And we might Now, I just noticed that every time
we will want to go somewhere, it would.

Speaker 1 (11:05):
Always be like, no, just wear would you have on?

Speaker 5 (11:07):
And I'd be like, I want sweatpants, I want a jersey,
I want a jersey dress.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
I don't know what I would have on.

Speaker 3 (11:11):
But I've always seen you look fly, So I'm maybe
just playing when I know about the event three days,
two days before, same day.

Speaker 5 (11:18):
I mean a girl, you do give some time, not
two hours two hours before. She's a one hour two
hour before ask her.

Speaker 1 (11:25):
I mean I feel like we're we're a little bit
of both. We will know about stuff and be like, oh,
you want to go to this with me next day?
But then also it'd be like, hey, I just got
invited to this thing. Oh we gotta go now, let's go,
we gotta go now.

Speaker 5 (11:38):
But what if they know about it for weeks and
then they didn't tell you until two hours before.

Speaker 1 (11:43):
No, I'm never doing that to none of my homegirls.
That's when I do that to a man. Hey in two.

Speaker 3 (11:49):
Hours, what you gotta do your little with the short
sleep that got the button that that that brings this
leave up a little bit.

Speaker 1 (12:01):
To Chelsea boots and let's go put your cortuoid cross
truck a shack it on.

Speaker 4 (12:08):
And let's go.

Speaker 1 (12:09):
Remember when they wear the vest shadow vest to play. Damn.

Speaker 4 (12:14):
I think this might be the winter that I get
a bubble vest.

Speaker 1 (12:17):
I love, this is cute. I might do it. Yeah,
you have.

Speaker 3 (12:20):
Really cute, but there it is that there is a
thin line between it looking cute and then looking like
too small, you know, like a medium, like a shmedium vest.

Speaker 5 (12:33):
Well, I don't want it to be too small, but
I also don't want it to be too big because
then it's not fitted to the outfit. Right, And then yeah,
very TLC, very TLC.

Speaker 1 (12:42):
You don't need that. Okay, you can probably work it,
though I feel like you could work it. I feel
like I need to try some things on. Okay, but yeah, yeah,
you know what for the fall, not the winter, because winter,
you know you need sleeves. Fall.

Speaker 4 (12:53):
I'm gonna get a vest.

Speaker 1 (12:54):
Watch this space watch, watch this space I'm getting the vest.

Speaker 5 (13:00):
You a long shirt or a short shirt under the vest.
Type of person, you know. I've never been a vest person,
so I don't know me either. I feel tryst lately
maybe long. I think long looks best. I think shortly
looks like you wear vests, you know, like you are
a vest, just wear range.

Speaker 3 (13:16):
I can't stand when the dudes come into the bar
and they got they got they like the work shirt
on with with the vest and like we didn't work
like car hert or like work like no, like a
T shirt, like like a button down a button down
short sleeve. I honestly I do not like a button
down short sleep on a man.

Speaker 4 (13:36):
That's what I'm doing.

Speaker 1 (13:37):
That's what it sounds like. The Patagonia, but that's a
fleece finance bro vest. Yeah, I don't like that. I'm
talking about like a puffy like bright colors.

Speaker 5 (13:45):
Okay, okay, so maybe maybe orange compartments and then they
got the lines in it. That's fast, that's fashion.

Speaker 1 (13:52):
The Patagonia is the flag performance. It's not fashion, but
it's not even warm. So I'm wondering what the rage
is about. Are they warm? Okay? Period, They're very and
I was like, Okay, now I still they have it
on Sydney. I need a photo of you because what
you got that from?

Speaker 4 (14:09):
Marizzio?

Speaker 1 (14:10):
Where you get that from? It was a baby fat
patagony event.

Speaker 3 (14:13):
It was a it was a girlfriend of mine's vest, Yeah,
and it was it was very nice. I was like,
I wouldn't want to be caught dead club with this,
but I would see why somebody will.

Speaker 5 (14:25):
It was like throwing on a hoodie. But Yesonia is
not for the clerk, and they be in the bars
with it. They love it, gettings and everything. Your work
on purposes seems like it seems like they don't even
go home.

Speaker 1 (14:37):
And that is mess. That is mess.

Speaker 3 (14:39):
I'm fully against this, Like afterwork meet up situation, you
need to go home. You got to switch out of
that work energy and then start over.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
When people you don't walk to something, No, because the
people who are coming straight from work, they're not staying
out long. No, they're literally popping out for like that's
what you think, that's what you thing.

Speaker 3 (15:00):
But why is your briefcase still in the pro check
and you here at one am and.

Speaker 1 (15:04):
It's all check But that's an alcoholic, yes, and they
are alcohol They are.

Speaker 3 (15:10):
Why do you think they're going to these afterwork problems
because they're trying to get the the margaritas all.

Speaker 1 (15:14):
For five dollars. And then I told somebody the working
late you got dollar margaritas happy hour? Where are they?
Five dollars happy hour? Drop a pe Margaritaville. Everybody in
here mar Margaritaville. They're five dollars.

Speaker 4 (15:27):
I'm not going to Margita.

Speaker 1 (15:28):
Do you need a Paagonia to get in?

Speaker 2 (15:30):
You as manurs, we should have a Pentagonia party.

Speaker 1 (15:33):
Yes, I want to get some Paragonia party.

Speaker 2 (15:35):
Anybody who has like the vest, get in for half off.

Speaker 1 (15:38):
None of us are getting intoed. No, you have to
and you have to wear the work shirt. You have
to wear a shirt salmon colored, salmon colored with the
navy blue your vests to show up with the flats,
the flats that I wear.

Speaker 4 (15:50):
On the train.

Speaker 1 (15:52):
Oh, the train flats.

Speaker 5 (15:54):
That's what I do. I do like seeing the the
train flats at the in the bar. It makes me
feel like the girls don't care, and I like that.

Speaker 2 (16:00):
No, that's a mess. We got to care, just a little,
just a little, just a little.

Speaker 1 (16:04):
Now I'm hanging out with a bunch of people in
Patagonia invests. You can wear the care, you could wear
the flats man. But then they have more money than
a lot of people. So I'm wondering, what is what
is the tea?

Speaker 3 (16:12):
It's not about the money, friend, It's about like wanting
better for yourself.

Speaker 2 (16:15):
Okay, just because everybody else is being all.

Speaker 3 (16:18):
Like Lilly and Willy Nilly with you know, their fashions
or their vibe.

Speaker 2 (16:23):
You don't have to you don't have to care, you
can't partake, you can carry that.

Speaker 1 (16:26):
That's what I think. But that's just me. You don't think.
You just try one time. I don't want I don't
want to be Actually once I when I went.

Speaker 3 (16:33):
To La and Uh, I got, I got Willy Nilly
and I got and I just was like, I'm gonna.

Speaker 1 (16:40):
Throw anything on it with your friend's clocking. Yes they did.

Speaker 3 (16:42):
They said, hey, it's too many like baseball hats, like
you're doing witness protection. And then you're wearing the hoodie
and the sweatpants with it. It's like the hoodie. And
then you gotta have like a cute geno and you're
wearing the hoodie.

Speaker 1 (16:55):
Oh you're in the matching set.

Speaker 3 (16:56):
No, no, no, it's one is fat, them is faded.

Speaker 1 (17:00):
It's like unblack and black. Yes.

Speaker 3 (17:02):
They were like, you were going black and blackish. Yes,
it's black and blackish. And people were like, hey, I
don't know. And then it got really bad. When I
start wearing the birkenstocks. I said, oh no, no, no, no,
I don't know if you think you're going to Trader Joe's.

Speaker 1 (17:14):
But I was showing up to places like it to
a party, not a party, but a gathering to gather there.

Speaker 4 (17:21):
That's how people in La dress.

Speaker 3 (17:22):
Yes, but that's but but that's when people were like,
wellness checked, Sydney has on burk and yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:27):
Are you okay? She has person you're not in the heel.

Speaker 2 (17:31):
I don't do that. I will wear a sneakers, don't.

Speaker 1 (17:33):
I don't do that.

Speaker 5 (17:34):
No, you were't getting ready at Carolina's house one day
and you almost do a tantrum because you had to
put on a sneaker.

Speaker 1 (17:38):
I was, yeah, I've changed, I've changed. You were not happy,
but yeah, you were going.

Speaker 3 (17:43):
So you were going to every day people with Marie,
I feel like, and you were like, it's like a
love of heel, but I know that it would hurt
it would hurt.

Speaker 1 (17:49):
But the look. But also I feel like a lot
of people now it's the you know, first of all,
kitten heels is what the girls are wearing. You're in.
But even before the kitten it felt like people weren't
really like putting on heels to go out. No, no,
not anymore.

Speaker 5 (18:02):
We used to go in the business casual business cute babe.

Speaker 1 (18:07):
But but the thing is that full button.

Speaker 3 (18:10):
Down, peplum top business people would be still dancing.

Speaker 1 (18:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (18:14):
The thing is is that And if you do a
business casual and you're just standing around, then people can
look at you and it is embarrassing. But we were
so caught up, you know, doing the armor retd of
sours and Long Island I teas and feeling.

Speaker 2 (18:25):
Good and Joe, we weren't caring about the clothes.

Speaker 1 (18:27):
I think we gotta The problem is cameras on phones
we gotta, and we don't need more k we don't
need HD. The camera quality needs to be shitty, it
needs to be parties can so you can't get my
pinstriped skirt and my blazer. Well, because if you're if
your camera's bad, you're not shooting nothing.

Speaker 4 (18:45):
No, you like you're dancing like my brother at that part.

Speaker 3 (18:48):
Yeah, and I will say most people with androids they're
not taking as many photos. No, not even more fun
than the rest of them. They are, they really are.
They're very free, They're loose.

Speaker 1 (18:56):
Yes, they're freecouse, no one's blowing them up because the
bubbles is green.

Speaker 5 (18:59):
And then everybody's tag That's why I can't the tagging.
Don't tag me and I used to get tagged feet
on the wall. Tags, don't tag.

Speaker 4 (19:08):
Y yea yea yeah, ye yeah, Please.

Speaker 1 (19:09):
Don't tag me. You know what, Please keep that same energy.
On September twenty third, I.

Speaker 5 (19:15):
Don't think I can. I tried the other day to
do what I used to do. Somebody was from college
was in town. I was like, dude, that thing used
to do in college.

Speaker 1 (19:21):
I almost hurt myself. I slipped the disc. I feel like,
look at this. Well, let me tell you this. You
gotta yoga before you go to the party. You gotta stretch.
You gotta get yoga yoga with Nicole or so.

Speaker 5 (19:34):
I have to do a real stretch now, yes, girl,
you are a woman age I am.

Speaker 1 (19:40):
That's crazy and I can't stretch. I can't. That's how
I to my achilles. You're trying to do too much.

Speaker 4 (19:45):
You did do that?

Speaker 1 (19:46):
Do that? I was playing basketball trying to do too much. Oh,
that's right.

Speaker 4 (19:49):
I do remember the boot, the boot.

Speaker 1 (19:51):
But in the cast you was fly with the boot.
In the cast you did that.

Speaker 5 (19:54):
Yeah, but the boot don't pair well with the boot,
don't pair well with anything.

Speaker 1 (19:58):
Now you gotta wear like a wing or a platform.
You were a sneaker, you had to wear a sneaker.
I tried to wear a heel.

Speaker 3 (20:04):
When they do that, when they do the hill in
the boot together and they and they're coming to the
club and say.

Speaker 5 (20:09):
No, I was already turned away from you, already see
the I was turned away the skirt on in the
boot and a heel.

Speaker 1 (20:15):
The woman said, I can't it's a liability.

Speaker 5 (20:18):
I said it's a liability, and she said, actually no,
I just don't want to see it, and then.

Speaker 1 (20:21):
Turned me away. Now you just sent me for And
to be honest, I said, you know what, if I
was you, I would have done the same. She sister,
she needed to go home.

Speaker 3 (20:30):
That's a I just want her to knowles and or
is she a friend of mine?

Speaker 1 (20:35):
Is she a friend of her?

Speaker 5 (20:36):
Because I could have I could have been tagged. She's
probably with the And she said, I don't want that
anything Libras. I like, Libra's a lot like that. I'm
sat of here.

Speaker 4 (20:44):
It's sad in here.

Speaker 5 (20:45):
And I mean, she was honest. I said, is it
really and she said no, I just really don't want
to see it.

Speaker 3 (20:48):
It is a liability because people are walking around, you know,
doing the h chund stump and whatnot, and they might
and they might do it.

Speaker 5 (20:56):
And my toes was out. I mean, I had a sock.
You had a sock at the top of the boot.

Speaker 1 (21:01):
Now listen, hold on. It was a boot with the
toes are free.

Speaker 5 (21:05):
So I had to wear a sock underneath, underneath where
the white of my sock was shown.

Speaker 1 (21:10):
And then I had on a heel and she did not.

Speaker 5 (21:12):
As soon as she saw she saw the fit from
the right side, and she was like and then she
started a boot and she was just like.

Speaker 1 (21:20):
And then my friends hit me with the are you
gonna go home? I was like, oh, you're not gonna.

Speaker 4 (21:23):
Come, oh girl, They said, we outside, okay.

Speaker 1 (21:26):
So I just got on the train. The train.

Speaker 5 (21:29):
I had to get on the train. I didn't get
on the train phone was dead. Couldn't even overhead to
get on the train. I said, nobody loves me dead.
And then I hadn't even started. I had to have
somebody open the door to the train because my phone
was dead.

Speaker 2 (21:40):
You're so full of mess, and I see myself in you.

Speaker 1 (21:44):
Yeah, my family called me kout of good, out of good.

Speaker 5 (21:46):
That's it always works out. But once once it starts,
I don't know where it's gonna go.

Speaker 1 (21:51):
I really don't know. It'd be like that. Yeah, it'd
be like that a lot.

Speaker 4 (21:54):
Sidney. What is your mess for the week?

Speaker 1 (21:56):
Oh? My mess for I'm gonna do this real quick. Okay.

Speaker 3 (21:58):
So a friend in our group chat said that they're
thinking about getting a facelift, and that's that's alarming for me.
That was alarming for me because I was.

Speaker 1 (22:13):
Like, facelift is like sixty That's that's why I think
they're getting them a lot younger. Now.

Speaker 2 (22:20):
They're getting many face lifts and things face.

Speaker 1 (22:23):
You can get a half a lower face lift. Wait,
this is.

Speaker 3 (22:26):
All new stuff. This is all new things, and you
want to test it. You don't want to get the
first round of anything. You got to wait for a
couple of years.

Speaker 1 (22:33):
But the friend.

Speaker 3 (22:34):
I was like, we're in the group chat and everybody's like,
what what what? And I wrote, if you're not going
to Lindsay Lohans doctor dot dot dot, And then they
were like, oh, well, I'm going to X, Y and
Z and this is more reasonably priced.

Speaker 1 (22:49):
Now for me as soon as you say reasonably priced.

Speaker 3 (22:53):
And that's what I wanted to write in the group chat,
but I didn't because I was like, you know, if
somebody's saying they need a you know, no, a facelift,
then this is something that's bothering me. But as somebody
who got my boobs on discount, no no, no, no no, Sure, okay.

Speaker 1 (23:13):
Sure you know what I have. I haven't seen the news.

Speaker 3 (23:15):
Sure, but the first go round when I got them done,
I was, I was heavily upset, and luckily I could.

Speaker 1 (23:23):
Throw a shirt over it.

Speaker 3 (23:25):
You know, you can't put some shirt a couple of
brawls on, you know what I mean. And I didn't
think they were symmetrical at a moment. So that's just
my this is my tits, right, imagine your face. So
that's why when it comes to the face, I do
get a little apprehensive.

Speaker 2 (23:43):
As soon as you're like reasonably priced, no, ma'am.

Speaker 1 (23:48):
And if you mess it up, you can't fix it.
You really can't.

Speaker 3 (23:50):
Fig So my mess was that, I like, I don't
want to be mean, but it was taken everything and
me was like, reasonably be priced sounds that sounds poor.

Speaker 1 (24:02):
You know, Yeah, poor people don't get face listen. Yeah,
I know.

Speaker 5 (24:09):
And she's and she's far from that. But it's like
spend the money. Yeah, but you can't, but you can't
say it. I was waiting, but you say that you
were going to say.

Speaker 1 (24:18):
Old at the the Lindsay Lohan thing. I thought you
were John say you can't be cheap.

Speaker 3 (24:25):
That sounds I think that you would say, Marie, but Sydney,
because where were your heart.

Speaker 1 (24:30):
You should have said it. You should have spoken I
should have or you should have messaged me on the side, Hey,
tell her not to be you could.

Speaker 5 (24:37):
Now what happens if she gets it and it's bad.
I don't think it's gonna be bad.

Speaker 1 (24:40):
Okay, So I don't think so.

Speaker 3 (24:41):
But also it's just like mess is getting the first
round of something that's just starting, I think, But I
don't think it's.

Speaker 4 (24:50):
The first round.

Speaker 1 (24:52):
Doing lower face lifts for long time wow, and they
were looking bad, but they weren't looking they weren't ugly.
People were still looking like, oh, did you get some rest?
Like you know what I mean? Okay, I just googled
how much does a facelift cost? Okay, okay, I need
to Okay, yeah, okay, tell us. A facelift cost can
vary significantly, but the national averages around nine thousand, two

(25:15):
hundred and eighty one dollars. That doesn't sound enough. Anesthesia
okay enough, that doesn't sound like enough, and other expenses,
while in areas like New York City period okay, here
we go, HOSS can range from twenty thousand to eighty thousand.
The first price was Utah. That makes it the first
price was the National Midwest. That's like you going to
Oklahoma to get a lift?

Speaker 2 (25:35):
No, now, why would I be in Oklahoma with a
face list?

Speaker 1 (25:38):
That's where I live.

Speaker 3 (25:39):
That doesn't That doesn't feel like a good usage of
an investment. You're in Oklahoma, but they do them there, right,
because I mean, by you're in Oklahoma, there's cows.

Speaker 1 (25:50):
People zip get one of all for the sheep? No,
you do not, but maybe it's like you know Chicago
in no Okay, okay, that makes sense. Yeah, like nobody
can get some cheap stuff.

Speaker 3 (26:03):
I don't know, I just I think it is right now.
We are so obsessed with the way that we look,
and I'm trying my best to be like, how do
we how do we pull back just a little bit,
just dismidge.

Speaker 1 (26:17):
It's because we see ourselves all days too much, and
you're seeing other people like it's been what's the word,
We're like de sensitive, yes, desensitized. The gen Z Girls
is twenty one getting oh my gosh, facelifts like the
Girl from My Island facelifts, filler all that. I'm like,
you're not even like it's too much brains, not even done.

Speaker 4 (26:38):
It's too face settle first. That's not even your final
Your face is gonna change until you turn I don't know,
twenty six.

Speaker 3 (26:47):
Yeah, there's definitely there's about three drafts that you go
through to get your body.

Speaker 1 (26:52):
I do feel like.

Speaker 3 (26:53):
I'm on my on my I feel like I'm on
my third draft, the third draft of my body.

Speaker 5 (26:57):
Yes, really sure, No wonder my body's been shocking me lately,
shocking me, shocking me from what I see.

Speaker 1 (27:04):
It's a good shot.

Speaker 5 (27:04):
And you know what and it's covering, and it's covered respectfully, respectfully.

Speaker 1 (27:10):
Yeah, but that steps on the scale the other day
and I was like.

Speaker 4 (27:12):
Ah, the scale be lying sometimes.

Speaker 2 (27:14):
Yeah, and it's not about the way.

Speaker 1 (27:15):
You gotta step off and you gotta got a new scale.
I said. Okay, so I thought it was don't calibrate this.
They said, it's it's a manual.

Speaker 3 (27:24):
I said, oh, perfect, new way new.

Speaker 1 (27:29):
Wait wait, so Amber, what is your mess? What did

(27:49):
you come to talk to us about. I have so
much mess, you have some, I have so much lay
it down.

Speaker 5 (27:55):
So the messiest thing I can think of right now
is that I have a friend that is definitely currently
in a church cult.

Speaker 1 (28:03):
A church cult like Octification Bible School. No no, no, no,
like maybe it started there and went left.

Speaker 3 (28:10):
No no, no, no, Now, don't you do that to vacation
Bible School.

Speaker 1 (28:14):
Vacation Bible School was lit.

Speaker 2 (28:16):
It was lit, and it's not cold at all.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
For me, like a member of the she said, And
first of all, where her long jean skirt. First of all,
it's football.

Speaker 2 (28:26):
Okay, we were not wearing jeans, y'all.

Speaker 1 (28:28):
Weren't wearing the dinner splitting directly Vacation Bible school, the
jeans skirt, the max jeans skirt. We were not wearing
a vacation. Oh. I thought I was it with the patchwords.
I was tight though. Oh see mine wasn't tight. Mom
was giving bail.

Speaker 4 (28:43):
Oh I was tight, and I was like, my.

Speaker 1 (28:45):
Mama, let me wear a tight one. She was like,
get this one. It's cute. I was like, this is
too big. All my stuff was oversighted.

Speaker 3 (28:51):
It was a lot of my stuff was hand me
downs for my cousins and whatnot. So nothing was fitting
me right, even my shoes. Okay, so your friend you
think she's in cult? You think or I don't think
I know?

Speaker 5 (29:01):
You know her I know, and matter of fact, I
don't think she I know she's in a call because
she don't know she's in a call, and that's how
you's in a call.

Speaker 1 (29:08):
Yeah. So okay, So first of.

Speaker 5 (29:09):
All, she started going to this new church, and we
was like, okay, she's always been in the church. Were
not always she reformed herself. Shout out to you, girl.
I don't know what name you're using now, but.

Speaker 1 (29:19):
She's on the run. She's on the run. So so okay,
we're gonna call her jo.

Speaker 3 (29:26):
Yeah, we're gonna call her Jaylo. So Jlo was always
in a church, reformed her life. She started this is
we can't use Jlo because so Jennifer.

Speaker 1 (29:34):
My girl me me, I'm gonna called me my girl Memi.

Speaker 5 (29:37):
She joined this, she joined the church, and then she
changed churches and we're like okay, like cool whatever. So
then she was like, oh, I love this church. So
then it started to be like the hour she was
at church. So I'm like, wait, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday. And
I thought it was just Wednesday and Sunday. I can
I can do Wednesday and Sunday. But I was like, okay,
it's Thursday. You at the sanctuary eight o'clock. It's Friday.

Speaker 1 (30:00):
Why are you at the church.

Speaker 5 (30:02):
So then it was like, okay, now I'm seeing you
with the people who run the church.

Speaker 1 (30:06):
On your Instagram.

Speaker 5 (30:07):
You're not posting anything else but being at the church.
And then it was oh, I haven't been around because
I they bought me an apartment in Dubai.

Speaker 1 (30:16):
WHOA bought an apartment in Dubai?

Speaker 3 (30:19):
Now?

Speaker 1 (30:19):
How many ties? Now? Dump on your chest? For the Lord?
Hold on? Where is this church? Would love to sign
up the churches in Maryland if you want to sign up.
They are taking by member by homes in Dubai.

Speaker 4 (30:31):
That's crazy in Maryland.

Speaker 1 (30:33):
I need to know.

Speaker 4 (30:34):
I need to know what is going on now.

Speaker 5 (30:36):
That's the information I got that she had an apartment
in Dubai. That's why she hadn't been around. But did
she go Do you know she was in Dubai?

Speaker 1 (30:43):
She was.

Speaker 5 (30:43):
I mean, she had videos in Dubai. Would be one
day she's at the church and then we saw her
Dubai covered up. I said, okay, you're living. So at
first we were like, okay, they're taking you to Dubai.

Speaker 1 (30:51):
What they doing there? She was like, Oh, they're recruiting me.

Speaker 3 (30:54):
I was like, but wait, what kind of denomination is this?
It's not Muslim. No, what they're doing in Dubai. I think, hey,
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (31:04):
What would be the mecca for Christianity.

Speaker 1 (31:07):
I guess them.

Speaker 5 (31:08):
Oh, I was gonna I don't know why. I was
gonna say, maybe New York City or l A.

Speaker 1 (31:11):
I don't know. I don't know. I don't know where
Jesus lad at the end, I want to say Jerusalem.
That jean skirt on in BBS and you were they
had me in the.

Speaker 3 (31:22):
Play and everything with New York was the mecca, the
spirit the most.

Speaker 5 (31:29):
Yeah, not me, having lived in Mississippi before. Yes, that's
where I mean they loved the Lord down there.

Speaker 1 (31:36):
What Dubai bye? Are you sure it? Why? But that's
what I think, so listen.

Speaker 5 (31:43):
So then she was like, oh, you know, they're they're wonderful,
blah blah. So then it started to be she slowly
stopped talking to people, but no, they would come.

Speaker 1 (31:53):
Back and she wouldn't see her family no more. So
she's coming back.

Speaker 5 (31:56):
So we're like, okay, you're not in Dubai, you're gonna
go see your mom, and she said.

Speaker 1 (32:00):
She was just like, oh, I'm so busy. I'm so busy.
I'm so busy.

Speaker 5 (32:02):
So then we noticed that, like she's now at these
people's house all the time, not at the church, She's
at their house, in their home, and I'm like, this
is weird. So then she's calling the wife of the
pastor her spiritual mother. Then it became she's like my mom,
my second mom, my second mom. I was like, how
old is this woman? She was like, oh, she's three
years older.

Speaker 1 (32:22):
Than this girl. Three years.

Speaker 5 (32:23):
They're part in three years. Also, the suit's the man
is wearing a horrible they are What does the pastor
look like?

Speaker 2 (32:30):
Is it Steve Harvey? Is it Steve Harvey?

Speaker 1 (32:33):
So, no, he's not giving Steve Harvey. He is giving.

Speaker 5 (32:35):
So first of all, I don't know where he's from.
He's giving dreads, red suit.

Speaker 3 (32:40):
Hold on, hold on, hold away in church. Now, I
thought I thought this pastor was white.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
No, it's a black man. Well when we heard red suit,
we knew it wasn't a white with a black wife.

Speaker 5 (32:52):
A black wife who said that she is a prophet
because they slept together and now she can see what
God has for them.

Speaker 3 (33:00):
I'm scared because can you can you even be a
prophet and have sex?

Speaker 1 (33:04):
What?

Speaker 5 (33:05):
Apparently they can? They have a whole, they have two kids,
of a house. Apparently were they married? They're married now
the spiritual mother.

Speaker 4 (33:12):
Okay, okay, can you be a prophet and have sex?

Speaker 1 (33:15):
As Wow, that's a good question.

Speaker 4 (33:17):
No, why can't.

Speaker 1 (33:18):
You have sex?

Speaker 4 (33:18):
If you can see things?

Speaker 1 (33:20):
I don't know. Can you could see that? If you
could see so much, why you need to have sex?
Because you know? Because I know it's gonna be good.

Speaker 2 (33:28):
Once you have sex, you can't see no more.

Speaker 1 (33:31):
That's what it is, you.

Speaker 3 (33:36):
Said, the prophecies get a little different. No, this is
not just my story. Okay, I know people have this journey.

Speaker 1 (33:45):
Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah it was it.

Speaker 4 (33:47):
It's called digmatized.

Speaker 1 (33:48):
Yes. Can I show the guy? Can I show you
all the guy? Yeah? Please? Oh?

Speaker 4 (33:57):
Why they look like a love and hip hop?

Speaker 1 (34:00):
When I say it looks like love and hip hop?
Up in that church, here's my girl. So it's a megachurch.
They have like an mega church. How many people mega church?
I would say five hundred, six hundred.

Speaker 3 (34:14):
That's not a mega church. I'll said, the megachurch if
they want to Dubai. If the church has an escalator
inside the church? Okay, there we go about to say.

Speaker 1 (34:22):
Let me see. I went to the family. This is
the spiritual mother. Now she's a batti. The tea with
this woman?

Speaker 5 (34:29):
Is that every video I see her in looking at
my friends, she looks disgusted at me.

Speaker 3 (34:35):
He has so many followers. Yes, no, but she did
pay for it. You're right, she paid for Yeah, that's
what I said. I said, there's no way. Maybe they
got a few members in Dubai.

Speaker 1 (34:46):
No.

Speaker 3 (34:46):
I went to Hillsong. Hillsong was a mega church. Oh,
thousands of people were there at one time.

Speaker 1 (34:52):
Yes, oh god, they were in theaters. They had to
be in theaters. But a megachurch if there's an escalator
in it and a balcony, a mezzanine. There there's an
lator and a balcony and they're selling couches. Wait wait now,
wait now it's Pops. It's Bob so CV two for
the Lord. It's going to shout out to Bobs Furniture.

Speaker 5 (35:13):
So when they do a blessing on a chair, they
will then try to sell it to the congregation and say,
God has moved me and told me that somebody needs
to buy this for ten thousand dollars and thousand dollars
it's drugs.

Speaker 1 (35:25):
It has to be. Having closed the doors, close the doors,
the doors.

Speaker 3 (35:29):
This is wild that you brought this up, because I
watched the documentary on that pastor Jim Jones who had
all those people go to Guyana. He was, he, yes,
he was, And is that the kool aid man?

Speaker 1 (35:40):
Yes, that's the kool aid man.

Speaker 3 (35:42):
And he went there and it was over nine hundred
and something people who died from suicide or murder. But
while watching the documentary, this is my mess is that
every time I watch a documentary, I try to find
the funny in it, and I gotta stop because it's
that it's sad.

Speaker 1 (35:56):
But what happened was when.

Speaker 3 (35:58):
It was the day of you know, everybody supposed to
commit suicide, right, every everybody does die.

Speaker 2 (36:06):
But there was an older lady who stayed in her cot.
She fell asleep.

Speaker 1 (36:11):
She missed it, so she.

Speaker 3 (36:12):
Came out and everybody is de was dead. And I said,
that's me that would maybe she's a prophet that.

Speaker 1 (36:22):
I would love.

Speaker 5 (36:23):
I would love to oversleep a mass murder or suicide.

Speaker 1 (36:25):
And she said, no, I don't think they thought they
were gonna die. Didn't they know? They did? They knew.
I think he said we going to going together. He
let them know, he gave them where did they think
they were going? I guess to heaven?

Speaker 3 (36:38):
Yeah, yeah, broom, yeah, they put it wasn't even kool aid.

Speaker 1 (36:44):
It was called flavor aid, so it.

Speaker 3 (36:46):
Wasn't And so it was if I was kool aid,
I would I would sue for deformation because they all.

Speaker 1 (36:54):
Dead because they drink the kool aid. Don't drink kol aid. Yeah,
but it was aid flavor aid, so he really he
had the discount.

Speaker 3 (37:01):
Yes, the Kirkling, the curling kool aid, the Kroger's kool aid.

Speaker 1 (37:06):
They had to buy a bunch, so that's probably why
he had to get the discount. And it's not one
hundred people. He said, okay, the discount. He didn't have
a Costco card and I can't. I can't leader that
don't have no Costco card because what because the Costco
it's so messed up.

Speaker 3 (37:24):
But yeah, there was there was people who did survive
out of that, and out of all the people who did,
I resonated so much with this older lady.

Speaker 2 (37:32):
And she came out and she was like, what was
going on?

Speaker 1 (37:35):
I was like, that's me.

Speaker 3 (37:37):
She didn't know what time it was with it and
it was like everybody had everybody gone.

Speaker 1 (37:41):
Yeah. But if she knew that there was all the
suicide was scheduled, I'm sure there was a cup.

Speaker 5 (37:45):
You know, she was probably like, okay, y'all just wake
me up.

Speaker 1 (37:49):
Yeah, but I'm saying like, I'm sure she could have
been like let me just get let me let me.

Speaker 5 (37:52):
Just get a little bit, let me just don but maybe, uh,
suicide in the group when you're doing aybody yourself's not
as fun, right, you can't.

Speaker 1 (38:00):
Yeah, if you're listening to this, sorry, So first of all,
this might be a little bit triggering, but.

Speaker 4 (38:05):
You want to do a deal with nine hundred others?

Speaker 1 (38:10):
Love?

Speaker 4 (38:11):
I love that in a red suit?

Speaker 1 (38:12):
Yeah? No, there was no residents.

Speaker 4 (38:15):
You know, I'm saying he had the glasses.

Speaker 1 (38:17):
Yeah, but the guy was odd. But he wasn't even athletic.

Speaker 4 (38:21):
So does he need to be athletic to be a call?

Speaker 1 (38:22):
So what I'm saying, Okay, So what I'm saying is
if you are a prophet, right and you want me
to get you to follow you somewhere, or you're telling
me we're going to do this altogether. You can't even
run a mile.

Speaker 5 (38:33):
You can't be physically inferior and telling me that I
can go follow you.

Speaker 1 (38:37):
You see what I'm saying, to follow you?

Speaker 2 (38:39):
And that's why I think Harriet Tubman had to be
the best.

Speaker 3 (38:42):
She had to be the best to get all them
people to go follow her underground Railroad, especially the men.

Speaker 1 (38:48):
Oh she was told in the wagon.

Speaker 3 (38:49):
You know.

Speaker 1 (38:50):
Now I'm going too far with it, but I know
she was. You think people try I agree, like, well,
they won't. They They're like, okay, if I follow her,
maybe she'd give me someone.

Speaker 4 (38:58):
I feel like, for sure, Harriet Tubman must have.

Speaker 1 (39:01):
Had a fatty like big she original bbl body, Harriet.
Is it a Sarah Bartman?

Speaker 5 (39:08):
No, not that, not that, Okay, that Harry Tubman had
this small waist.

Speaker 1 (39:12):
Yes, because then she had that the dress that was
running down the back. And they can see that, okay, right,
the biggest the back. I can see that. I can
see that. It's easier to get people to follow you
if you got a big movie, if you've got a
big boy. But and I think that's why, that's why
nobody's following me.

Speaker 4 (39:27):
No, that's what it is.

Speaker 1 (39:33):
You're so smaller in real I thought.

Speaker 2 (39:34):
And they were talking about your ass for sure.

Speaker 1 (39:37):
Yeah, because the people think that I'm taller than I.

Speaker 3 (39:42):
You feel tall online and yet you feel tall on line.
I feel like, but you have tall proportions too, Like
you have long legs and long arms.

Speaker 4 (39:49):
Oh okay, m yeah sure yeah.

Speaker 1 (39:51):
You know like if I if somebody took a picture
of your legs was like how tall this person? I
would play like five? Yeah, five show is quite short.
That's good, look at that start a call.

Speaker 5 (40:05):
All you need is a room, really, I guess a lady,
you actually.

Speaker 1 (40:11):
Maybe he has a lot of energy.

Speaker 3 (40:12):
I don't know, know you what it is is you
have to have people who have nothing to look forward to,
and then it's true. When when I was my saddest
and lowest, that's when I went to Hillsong.

Speaker 1 (40:24):
I was going through a relapse with alcohol. I don't
say Hillsong pulls you in a different way. The fastest
got on all saints to leaveless vests. They tatted, you're
like live church is lip.

Speaker 3 (40:39):
But in order for me to even step into that building,
I was at my lowest.

Speaker 1 (40:45):
So this is a quote said by my friend.

Speaker 5 (40:47):
I'm so sorry. If you watch this also, you need
to hear this. My one friend did say she.

Speaker 1 (40:51):
Was like, well, if any of us gotten a call,
it would have been her.

Speaker 2 (40:54):
I said, m she she have like sheep mentality.

Speaker 1 (40:58):
So not sheep mentality.

Speaker 5 (41:00):
But I feel like she has had the roughest time
and had to do the most as far as like
emotionally like with her. You know, she raised her sister
all these things, so I feel like when she met
somebody that was like take a break, come in here,
she was like, great, somebody else can be in charge
wonderful and then it was a cult.

Speaker 4 (41:19):
But now, when's the last time you saw her?

Speaker 1 (41:22):
Probably two or three years. We haven't seen her. Nobody's
seen her in years. That's what happens when you're in
a cult.

Speaker 5 (41:26):
They but the crazy thing is she was started to
be isolated. We would see her posting. She doesn't post anymore.
And now she goes by Sarah.

Speaker 2 (41:34):
Sarah's Now that's that's her.

Speaker 1 (41:36):
That's her cult name.

Speaker 5 (41:37):
That's her cult name. She goes by Sarah. Sorry, I'm sorry, girl,
I have to say her name.

Speaker 1 (41:43):
Her name is. Oh, we were bleeping that out.

Speaker 3 (41:48):
They said, we're bleeping that out amber. We're not keeping that.
They said, you are a mess. You're usually people don't
say the names.

Speaker 1 (41:55):
Girl.

Speaker 5 (41:56):
I would have said her last name too. I would
have said her last name because my thing is.

Speaker 1 (42:02):
Girl stop like literally, she can't. She's in a cold.

Speaker 4 (42:05):
So how do we get somebody out of a colt?

Speaker 1 (42:07):
But that's okay? So we tried. We tried to go in.

Speaker 5 (42:10):
With a sleeper sound and was like, you go to
the church and see, but she said I had to leave.

Speaker 1 (42:14):
They was too inviting. She said it was I could
see why somebody would get stuck, so our spell had
to leave. Yeah, she said, I gotta go. I can't
keep going to this was it? Where you gotta go?
Are they cooking oxtails? Like?

Speaker 5 (42:25):
I think they'd be cooking and they got a big
old house, they'd be cooking oxtails and stuff.

Speaker 3 (42:28):
They because if you put a good plate in front
of me, you got a nice couch.

Speaker 5 (42:33):
But ten thousand dollar couch that you're gonna buy. It
wasn't a love sack either. I'm not buying a couch.

Speaker 2 (42:38):
Yeah, I don't have Yeah, No, I don't have them.

Speaker 1 (42:42):
They be having parties at their house. What kind of parties,
I don't know. Look like a coal party to me.

Speaker 5 (42:47):
I feel like he is making a gang of women
to follow him.

Speaker 1 (42:51):
It was a lot of women. It's a lot of women,
mostly women most.

Speaker 3 (42:55):
That was the thing about the Jim Jones guy. It
was mainly women who were in this.

Speaker 1 (43:00):
Cult, which is weird because I feel like men, it
can they get caught up in like so many in
cults too, but they don't know that they're cold men.
Cults is like fantasy foot yeah Thursday night, not flying
them to Dubai prob. I feel like when you're a woman.
You can get flown out all these things. You can't

(43:21):
tell them. Man, we're about to go to Dubai. What
we gonna do? Yeah, what we're gonna do when we
get there? Twelve sixty men? What are we gonna do?
This is a good question. You can't take sixty men
in to Dubai. Would you? Would you go to would
you go to Dubai?

Speaker 2 (43:35):
Would you if your church was like we're going to Dubai,
we're flying you out.

Speaker 5 (43:39):
What if they was like, we got you an apartment
in Dubai?

Speaker 1 (43:43):
Yay? Okay, amen, Amen all the time.

Speaker 4 (43:49):
You can be gay for the Lord.

Speaker 3 (43:53):
The Lord, don like some gay No, not his lord.

Speaker 2 (43:57):
Oh okay, not that denomination.

Speaker 1 (44:00):
There's a straight lord. Okay, straight Jesus.

Speaker 3 (44:03):
So your friend is in a cold yes, it clear
you can't get her out?

Speaker 1 (44:08):
No?

Speaker 3 (44:09):
I mean when when someone is in a cult, what's
what's the best way to call?

Speaker 1 (44:14):
Yeah? What's the protocol? So? Okay?

Speaker 5 (44:16):
So we had I have my friend in La. She
the coult girl went to La and my friend still
had her location. Girl, when you didn't, I'm so sorry.
You have to be called girl. Sorry, you just have
to be You have to. So her best best friend
went to La and was like, I still have location.
I'm gonna pull up on her, okay. And I was like, okay,

(44:36):
what what's going to go on? She said, She pulled
up on her and the girl looked shook.

Speaker 1 (44:40):
She was like why are you here? Like what are
you doing?

Speaker 5 (44:42):
And she was like, well, you haven't answered any of us.
You won't talk to us. And she said She was like, okay,
I'll just call you tomorrow. She never called her.

Speaker 4 (44:50):
She said, what are you doing here?

Speaker 1 (44:51):
She said, what are you doing here? That's scary? I mean,
Marie twenty eighteen, she's so pretty. She's so pretty. That's
why they got her.

Speaker 4 (44:59):
So saying there's no ugly people in the cold.

Speaker 1 (45:01):
No, well, and maybe this specific cast.

Speaker 5 (45:04):
And then when I see the man's comments, it's like
this lady is always in there, like take tell them
how you.

Speaker 1 (45:08):
Abandoned your other family for your new family. I'm like,
this is a mass. Actually now this is sad mass.
But now my question is, oh, you said she calls
them the prophets, So she don't call them my pastor.

Speaker 4 (45:21):
She doesn't say she calls them both.

Speaker 5 (45:23):
She calls the one the lady, her spiritual mother. And
she calls the other one the prophet. And that was
years ago, so I don't know what she calls them now.
She might call him something else now. Sorry, sorry if
I'm getting it wrong.

Speaker 1 (45:32):
Reflo Dollar just just went to just went to jail
for all of this crazy stuff. He was also a
pastor in like flashy suits and like they said in
the church, and.

Speaker 4 (45:46):
I think he bought a helicopter he had the church.

Speaker 1 (45:49):
He was like, hey, I need a new private jet
because this one is old. And they tithe. But that's
what happens.

Speaker 5 (45:56):
He'll tell them that he needs to go to a
vacation for a week so that he can get more people,
and they will pay for it.

Speaker 1 (46:03):
The church.

Speaker 2 (46:04):
My pastor was not going on no vacations. He was
in mental house.

Speaker 3 (46:07):
He was very very His car was just al right.
His home was right next to the church.

Speaker 1 (46:14):
It was chill. He was living like the Lord. Yeah. Yeah,
but you wouldn't follow him to do bay. No, No,
you wouldn't find out how we getting there.

Speaker 2 (46:22):
He wasn't asking nobody to go by either.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
But if you're trying to start a colt, they you know,
people like flashiness, Yeah, they nowadays you know. They like
things that like they're like, ooh, that's pretty. You got
regular stuff that I got. I'm not following you. Yeah, no, no, no, no,
have cool glasses? You does it even have jos Yeah,

(46:45):
you don't even have the Jim Joe.

Speaker 3 (46:46):
Yeah, he did have some like you know, not I
wouldn't say flashy glasses, but they were definitely glasses.

Speaker 1 (46:51):
But had chish.

Speaker 3 (46:52):
Okay, well, he was pretending to, you know, bite off
of the other black pastors.

Speaker 1 (46:58):
He was mirror See. The problem is, I feel like
cults have been around so long. Haven't we heard this
all before?

Speaker 3 (47:03):
It doesn't matter when I'm telling you, when you down
and out, when you looking, when you're looking for a sign.

Speaker 1 (47:09):
Get the Bible. The Bible app. It'll send you a
verse at eight o'clock.

Speaker 3 (47:13):
I'm not I'm sorry. That's two new ages. You have
to get the actual Bible. I think you actually said
the time the Bible through Kendle. Okay, you got to
actually open the book. But if I'm saying now, you're
not listening to okay, sir, if I was reading the Bible,
it's not.

Speaker 2 (47:31):
Going to be on a handheld thing.

Speaker 1 (47:33):
I'm opening the book. I'm opening the book.

Speaker 4 (47:36):
You do everything on your phone, you can't.

Speaker 3 (47:39):
I think they took they took it too far when
they started putting church on zoom and on the Bible
on the phone.

Speaker 2 (47:45):
That's where we lost the way.

Speaker 1 (47:47):
You think we lost the way. So we can't zoom
in the church. No, what you have to show up.

Speaker 5 (47:53):
So sometimes I turn on the TV a little bit
and maybe I'm if I got something else going on.

Speaker 1 (47:58):
No, I'll be watching the church in Harlem. There's a
church in Harlem I watch Sometimes I don't know. Sometimes
I just.

Speaker 3 (48:02):
Google fun Church and then and that is see and no.
Amber black Man put it in TikTok mess fun Church
for Blacks, and then it'll come up.

Speaker 1 (48:18):
And then sometimes I'll get get a little word in.

Speaker 5 (48:20):
And then I just listen to the same to Kirk
Franklin songs and then I call it a Sunday same
to listen Stomp and mellow ds from Himven.

Speaker 1 (48:30):
You're and I mean that I don't know if your
prayers are being answered being answered?

Speaker 5 (48:35):
Oh, because I was like if Actually, I'm not sure.

Speaker 1 (48:42):
Oh wait actually and the worst thing is, okay, this
is my tea with you.

Speaker 5 (48:45):
Sarah new name so she stole my cousin's name who
was her best friend.

Speaker 1 (48:49):
And I'm like, could you have picked any other name?

Speaker 3 (48:51):
But anyway, still a Sarah. Sarah's for everybody, and that's
for the street.

Speaker 1 (48:55):
Then you should have picked somebody else.

Speaker 5 (48:57):
That's like, okay, that's like you joining a call and
then ask you what you want your new name to be,
and you pick Marie.

Speaker 1 (49:02):
Well, ain't there somebody in the Mary? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (49:06):
Mary Marie, that is not the same Miss Mary mac.

Speaker 1 (49:11):
Back mac justin black, black, black down her back, back back.
That was a baddie too, Miss Mary Mack. Shout out
to miss Mary Mack.

Speaker 2 (49:23):
Okay, So Marie, if I was in a cult, would
you come and get me?

Speaker 1 (49:27):
How deep are you?

Speaker 4 (49:28):
I would? I would.

Speaker 1 (49:29):
I think we would all pull up and come get you.
You have a community, I would say that would come
and get you. I would get my sister to grab
you by the back of the neck like you were
a cat. Your brother in there and he would distract
the devil with his I'm doing a roundhouse kick on
the past, not distract the devil, house kick on the devil.

(49:51):
And then and then they would be like, what he
do her in her long skirt? Do you think she
would be the time to say there's nothing wrong. I
think Sinney would be like, I just I don't know.

Speaker 4 (50:03):
I feel like would be like I just I'd.

Speaker 1 (50:06):
Like you to hear no, I wouldn't. First of all,
I would be like, I'm trying to figure my stuff out. Yeah,
I'm trying to get my figure out the house. You know.
I would be we got caught at the house. I
would be like young thug on the phone with Wham.

Speaker 3 (50:20):
I'm like, no, I'm telling you listen, I didn't drag
everybody and they Grandmama, okay, whoop whoop to dude with
the like, I'd be like Nicki Minaj and I would
have been talking about everybody and everyone that's in the cult.
If you were in a cult, I'm like, you see
they got the nerve with the mint over new balances.
They try to give me a new balance. And that's

(50:40):
when I said this might not be the colt for me.

Speaker 1 (50:43):
I would be on the phone with you, Marie. Can
you imagine fighting for a heel and a cult there? Like,
do you have any heels? Ship? I'd be like, did
I get a black here? I said?

Speaker 3 (50:53):
Now?

Speaker 1 (50:53):
The meals are cute. The meals. The meals are cute.
The meals are cute.

Speaker 3 (50:57):
But when they asked me about a ten thousand dollars house,
I said, I might need to get a friend.

Speaker 1 (51:01):
I need to get a friend of her. Are you
taking the apartment in Dubai?

Speaker 4 (51:04):
I would.

Speaker 3 (51:07):
If you if you asked me this eight months ago,
when I didn't have an apartment, Oh I would.

Speaker 5 (51:12):
I would have prayed for lead on an apartment. It's
in a cult, but it is in Dubai.

Speaker 4 (51:19):
Honestly, I love it.

Speaker 1 (51:20):
But this mess. You couldn't you'll be straight. Oh, yeah,
you can't. You can't be getting so are you gonna?
But your rent is paid in Dubai. You your people
are in New York. You would be miserable out there.

Speaker 3 (51:37):
There's gotta be some secret lessonds in Dubai, not WITHO
my rent pay.

Speaker 1 (51:41):
Like, so I'm there?

Speaker 3 (51:42):
Am I working like anything?

Speaker 1 (51:45):
You're working with the cult?

Speaker 4 (51:46):
Yeah? You would be doing what the profits is telling you.

Speaker 1 (51:48):
And now that's the other thing. I don't know.

Speaker 5 (51:49):
I don't know what she does when she gets to
these places like I'm just getting Oh I'm in Dubai.
I don't know what the intangibles are so so if you.

Speaker 1 (51:58):
Called her, she wanted If you call, she won't pick
up at all. If you text her, she won't respond.

Speaker 5 (52:04):
I stopped telling her Happy birthday, probably like a year
or two ago, because she slowly but surely stopped answering.

Speaker 4 (52:09):
What if you send her a voice note.

Speaker 1 (52:11):
Like we're in a cult, you're in al.

Speaker 4 (52:13):
Girl, just thinking about you?

Speaker 5 (52:15):
She would look at it, and then the worst thing
is that she looks at everything people send her and
then she doesn't reply, even her voice note. So we thought,
so we have a theory, and if you see this,
prove us wrong by talking to us and coming in public.

Speaker 1 (52:28):
She we were like, are they running her social media? Now?

Speaker 3 (52:31):
Probably because yeah, probably because why would they allow her
if she's in a cult, why would they allow her
to have access to talk to the strangers?

Speaker 4 (52:40):
And the family think they're running her social media?

Speaker 5 (52:42):
Well, because it just it started to be about It
was like her. She would be her sister's birthday parties,
her family stuff, d D. And then it slowly became
all about them, and then it became like she's posting stuff,
but she's in what she's posting in somebody else's recording.

Speaker 1 (52:56):
So I'm like, where I need that.

Speaker 3 (52:58):
I need a social media listen. I'm so tired of
like picking up my phone and thinking about.

Speaker 1 (53:06):
I got I got somebody else.

Speaker 3 (53:08):
So they're paying for my rent, okay, and they're taking
care of my social media and everybody like, and they're
filming the content too, and free meals.

Speaker 1 (53:15):
Maybe does she get to wear what she wants or
she dressed in like how we don't.

Speaker 5 (53:19):
Know now she was at first, but then I saw
them at their house with Mansion T shirts on.

Speaker 1 (53:23):
I don't know. I don't know what the Christmas like,
the pajamas, Like all of the girls in the church
have on a mashing T shirt.

Speaker 5 (53:31):
But then they the profits they have on like fancy clothes.
But everybody else is dressing down.

Speaker 1 (53:35):
Nobody is.

Speaker 5 (53:36):
I've what I've noticed is it doesn't seem like anybody
is allowed to be over dressed above them, like dressed
better than them.

Speaker 1 (53:43):
Now is this the extra long T shirts or giving choirs?
H I don't like that. I don't like it.

Speaker 5 (53:53):
This is scary, friend, I hope, but also like if
you are actually because if the worst thing about this
is us annoying, you have fun, girl, literally were all
having fun.

Speaker 1 (54:00):
Sorry boo. Okay, so now it's not it is.

Speaker 3 (54:04):
But if she's having fun, so should we get all
of our followers to start spamming the.

Speaker 5 (54:09):
Y'all spam the page and they will block you butt
just keep.

Speaker 1 (54:14):
Trying literally or just go.

Speaker 5 (54:16):
They will be strong, be strong though, because they are
having a good time in there.

Speaker 3 (54:21):
So we are not going to Maryland, so they don't
have to worry about.

Speaker 1 (54:24):
It, not have to worry about it. I don't do it, tomoore.
I will pull up to Baltimore for another function, maybe
a function, something fun.

Speaker 3 (54:37):
If if I'm booked to do a showy there, We'll
swing by.

Speaker 1 (54:42):
We'll swing maybe we could.

Speaker 3 (54:43):
Have a mess alive and mess to the church.

Speaker 1 (54:47):
Yeah for the youth. Okay, wait, so what was the

(55:07):
other thing that you wanted to say was mess?

Speaker 5 (55:09):
My other mess is that I used to work for
an OnlyFans girl who is now having her mother run
her page.

Speaker 4 (55:17):
When you say you used to work, what would you
do in lubing her body down?

Speaker 5 (55:20):
So I didn't do any I've actually never met this
woman in person. I just run her instagrams and her
all her pages, so I'm not oiling or video ing anything.
I would just post for her, like maybe I'm a
co leader. I would just be posting for her. She
picks whatever she wants to post for her every day,
so it's a seven day a week a gig. Is
it good money every day? Not as much as she's making,

(55:42):
but it's good money. It's enough for me not to quit.

Speaker 4 (55:45):
How much you think she's making in like a year?

Speaker 1 (55:48):
Oh she knows. Oh, I know exactly how much. We
met an OnlyFans girl manager at a SNL party and
he was saying she was making twenty eight million a
year or something.

Speaker 5 (56:02):
Oh, then she's the top of the top. There's one girl,
Sophie Rain, that makes three million a month. She does
not make three million, Yes she does three million dollars.
Way she can make three She is the top creator
on all of Only Fans three million months.

Speaker 1 (56:15):
This is what this girl made. I'm gonna she doing.

Speaker 5 (56:19):
The biggest tea with the top girls is that they
are not doing what the other girls are doing. They
are a lot of the younger booty girls, sorry booty girls.
They are selling the thought of them starting to have sex.
So they're like, I'm a virgin, like, so men will
follow them like, oh, when's the first time they're gonna
post a porno and then they just don't.

Speaker 3 (56:40):
So it's kind of like it's it's kind of like,
what do you call it. It's when you it's called edging.

Speaker 1 (56:47):
Yes, that's what it is. They're egging.

Speaker 5 (56:49):
Yes, So I'm gonna show you all this because I
can't say it on so colorable.

Speaker 1 (56:55):
So that is what she made this year. But the
year's not over. So it's September. Were at the top
of the Blue. I feel like I made that before.
Where is it? It's gone, It's gone right wow.

Speaker 5 (57:07):
But now this is this is she had a busy
I'm a creator that doesn't try very hard, so.

Speaker 1 (57:14):
Like I'll be texting her like hey, we gotta we
gotta post something, and she'd just be like, you just
liked me for real? Yes, Holy Sidney and Marie.

Speaker 5 (57:23):
Honestly, she has the same energy. All she said, I
don't feel like doing this. I really don't want to
do anything.

Speaker 3 (57:28):
You showed me, well, you showed me the only fans yes,
And I was like, oh, I should be paying because
you should show me, and well yeah, but she I mean.

Speaker 5 (57:39):
Easy, easy, yeah. And the things that they post online
are not like they'll just do a handstand like.

Speaker 1 (57:45):
I can't do that, but like every day they don't
know what post a headstand? I mean, but they're doing
them against the wall. Could make three million dollars a month,
I think so.

Speaker 5 (57:54):
I think so because also there's not a lot of
black creators on OnlyFans and.

Speaker 1 (57:58):
There might be a reason why. Well why because we're
just not willing to do some of those things.

Speaker 2 (58:05):
We have dignity and pride.

Speaker 1 (58:07):
That's true. I mean they're selfish. There was a guy
that would touch neither.

Speaker 5 (58:17):
Oh my god, I'm telling I mean, but they pay
for anything. Like there is one guy that the girl
I used to work for, probably like a year or
two ago. He would message her every day and pay
her a thousand dollars a day just to tell him
when he could drink his own come.

Speaker 1 (58:36):
Every day. I would have to say, go ahead, Larry.

Speaker 3 (58:38):
Wait, so you were responding to yes, I'm responded, but
I'm not getting none of the money, not of that
money and the tip money. No, he's a day, he's
drink thousand dollars a day.

Speaker 1 (58:49):
Do you really think he's drinking his own stuff? He
did it on camera, he did that, Yes, you see that.
It was every day he would go and mind you
you need to get paid more. Friend, thank you, you
hear that. We'll get you to join the only fans union,
syst a union.

Speaker 5 (59:06):
But you know what, the job takes me probably an
hour a day. So bad to watch. But that's why
I passed on the message to her mom because now
she needed to see that.

Speaker 4 (59:15):
Now the mom is watching Larry drink this.

Speaker 2 (59:17):
How much is the mom making?

Speaker 5 (59:19):
Probably less than me, sorry, less to me, less than
I was. Now you do your family worse?

Speaker 2 (59:25):
You like, it's true, what is it about that?

Speaker 3 (59:27):
But it's also like your family trying to get a
cut is something that it's like.

Speaker 1 (59:30):
You should be just doing.

Speaker 5 (59:31):
But you know what it is she I think she
funds her family in a way that's like, okay, if
you're doing this, you're gonna get.

Speaker 1 (59:37):
Your little three hundred dollars and they go.

Speaker 3 (59:38):
So I'm glad I don't even deal with these people
because imagine if they well sometimes I do be getting
a text and I'm like say what, but yeah, imagine
if I was very close to my family, Well, the
people that I would give money to they have all
passed away. But if I did, like if I did
have to fund my oh, stressful would.

Speaker 5 (59:56):
But I think that's why she can't find the energy
sometimes because she's like, the more money I make, take.

Speaker 1 (01:00:01):
The thousand dollars a day, me too. I'll tell you
when to drink it.

Speaker 5 (01:00:04):
I'll tell you to drink it every day. There was
one man that offer her twenty thousand dollars for a meetup.

Speaker 1 (01:00:08):
I said, what if I just show up? Twenty thousand
dollars for a meetup? Is not enough? That sound like
you eat for me that day? I was like, what
if I just show up? Robert? He was a professor?
What how do you know if that's real?

Speaker 4 (01:00:21):
The person that wanted to meet is a professor?

Speaker 1 (01:00:24):
He sure is. How do you know he could be lying?
He's on LinkedIn? Baby, you don't linked Wait, they're putting LinkedIn.
They're only fan they we looked him up on LinkedIn.

Speaker 5 (01:00:33):
So some of these people are not using their fake
names like their doctors.

Speaker 1 (01:00:37):
You're so dumb ry, so dumb.

Speaker 4 (01:00:41):
I'm not surprised.

Speaker 5 (01:00:42):
But that a whole family talking about do you want
to meet up? I'll send you twenty careaight down, whole family,
the whole I mean, he has a whole family, and
I meet.

Speaker 1 (01:00:49):
Twenty k from each family member, the baby, the mom,
the son, grandma.

Speaker 4 (01:00:53):
I gotta give me twenty k for the meetup.

Speaker 1 (01:00:56):
Damn, I met up zero dollars. You're zero. Think of
all the people we met for free? Oh you know?
But then twenty k can't not be enough. If I'd
have met some people for free.

Speaker 3 (01:01:06):
Well, I hope, but what if, for matter fact, it
wasn't even free.

Speaker 1 (01:01:10):
I was paying. Or don't say that. We're cutting that.
It's a man up sixty dollars on me. We're also
bleeping this. We're potting all this stuff out because we can't.

Speaker 4 (01:01:20):
Want all of it in there.

Speaker 3 (01:01:22):
But if they're offering twenty k, they got it. I'm
afraid of what you're gonna do when you meet me.

Speaker 1 (01:01:28):
I didn't care. I said, what if she just shows
up as a black woman? But they don't.

Speaker 5 (01:01:33):
They don't like black. They really don't. The girls I
work for from they don't like black. I made them
at episode they don't like black. I made him taken
put a black emoji I had cause you know, my
emojis don't change.

Speaker 1 (01:01:44):
I had made him, made him a sake and put
a little black peace on. They was like, what is that?
I said who is that.

Speaker 3 (01:01:49):
I was like, oh, but I would ask that because
where is these black hands coming from.

Speaker 1 (01:01:54):
I had to just say that my emojis are in blackface. Oh.
They were like, oh okay, they said.

Speaker 5 (01:02:03):
They said, did somebody steal your phone? I said, what happened?
They were like it was a black I said, oh,
I made a mistake. I'm so sorry.

Speaker 1 (01:02:10):
Then I'm sitting there black like, oh God, is that serious.
I don't think you're getting enough money for that. Hold on, no,
and I think I have PTSD. Honestly you should. So
you were responding to all her messages or she had
multiple people responding to her message.

Speaker 5 (01:02:23):
So at this time I was responding to every message.
I was posting every day, responding the messages, editing video, editing.

Speaker 1 (01:02:30):
Video, editing video.

Speaker 5 (01:02:32):
I got an edit video today. I'm so sorry, is
lit girl? You can't but no, you won't see this.
You won't see this. They're starting to shoot shoot the
videos with the metaglasses now and those files are too big, babe,
the file is too big.

Speaker 3 (01:02:43):
I want to say, those metaglasses, when yoused correctly, are
fucking cool.

Speaker 1 (01:02:50):
Yeah, but my girlfriend has them, and she was like,
can we use you know what.

Speaker 3 (01:02:54):
But so then they come up see me.

Speaker 1 (01:03:00):
I was like, yo, an, it's in really just like
let me blurw your heads up.

Speaker 5 (01:03:06):
You know, there's some only fans girls that don't show
their face the whole time. There's one girl she makes
probably like nine hundred thousand dollars a month. She does
not show her face at all, nine thousand dollars a month,
nine hundred thousand. And the thing is, but she goes
through so many people because as soon as you don't
blur one second video, you are fired, and she getting
somebody else.

Speaker 1 (01:03:22):
She said, I need people with attention to do that,
but I already got my money though, so people don't care.
That's why.

Speaker 5 (01:03:27):
So it's like you have to blur her face out
every frame. So if you don't blur, you're getting fired.

Speaker 1 (01:03:35):
If you miss a frame, you're gone. Well yeah, the
whole My whole gimmick is people don't know who.

Speaker 2 (01:03:38):
I A exactly, and I would definitely mess that up.

Speaker 3 (01:03:40):
But people are crazy as many grammatical errors.

Speaker 5 (01:03:43):
And I I think they would know it was you
what you mean? I think you have a distinct like
vibe and voice.

Speaker 4 (01:03:49):
What I mean what you're saying that if you want
to blur your face. They would know it was You
would know I was.

Speaker 2 (01:03:54):
Talking about editing somebody else.

Speaker 1 (01:03:56):
Oh no, you edit. But the problem is after you've.

Speaker 5 (01:03:58):
Seen so many and vaginas and antics ainal and plugs
you like, babe, I don't care. And why don't they
make an app that's like, Okay, I picked this face and
you blow to face the whole thing.

Speaker 1 (01:04:08):
Why am I doing key frames? Why am I doing that? Well?
What what do you have? Are you using this on Camva?
I don't do I don't know.

Speaker 5 (01:04:15):
I don't don't know. I don't know what mother does that.
I don't do that tom Canva. They don't have those
type of capabilities.

Speaker 1 (01:04:21):
On Canvas stream.

Speaker 5 (01:04:23):
So I had to literally be sent a Android phone
because Android is the only people that have an app
where you can pick a face and it blurs it
the whole time. iPhone does not have that app.

Speaker 1 (01:04:33):
Yet.

Speaker 3 (01:04:33):
This is a great this is a great plug for Android.
This is how they should be prom.

Speaker 1 (01:04:37):
Android and the camera.

Speaker 5 (01:04:39):
Android actually has so many apps and I know this
from working this job that you cannot get on iPhones.

Speaker 1 (01:04:45):
Now, Amber, let's talk about this. How does one become
a manager for come Juice? And but like the only fans,
how do you like?

Speaker 5 (01:04:55):
Who saw you at a bar? And was like a
we like, she can do this. So this is what happened.
And so this is what happened. So I was before
a babysitter and I had tore my achilles and I
could not work. And my friend was like, hey, I
found a social media manager job on Facebook.

Speaker 1 (01:05:10):
But wait it's vague.

Speaker 2 (01:05:11):
Wait wait this is so this is not on LinkedIn.

Speaker 5 (01:05:14):
This is no this is they posting this on Facebook,
Instagram Stories stories.

Speaker 1 (01:05:20):
Why is this not coming up on my feed? You
gotta do it, you gotta, you gotta join.

Speaker 5 (01:05:25):
You gott to join the Atlanta Professional Women's Group. Atlanta
Professional Women's Group is where we found it. So my
friend is in this group on Facebook and she was like,
I'm gonna help you find a job.

Speaker 1 (01:05:33):
I found this.

Speaker 5 (01:05:34):
Social media post, but it's vague. It's not saying the company.
She's my best friend. Her name is also Amber. I
love you girl, she is my best friend. To Ambers
one two Ambers one cup. It's so great. She sent
it to me and she was like, let me know
what it is. So I messaged them and then I
was like, girl, this is scam. They messaging me back
instantly and she was like yes. They were like, oh, well, Buck,
can you hop on a call in thirty minutes. I

(01:05:55):
was like thirty okay, And I just told you I'm
not a same day friend, so I was like getting anxious.

Speaker 1 (01:05:59):
I was like, I don't know. So I let them
call me and they're like, we want to do full disclosure.
We do porn. I said, that's the opening line. Opening line, disclosure, Comma, we.

Speaker 5 (01:06:09):
Do porn, but it's remote and we make the job
tailored to your phone, so you never have to do
anything but be.

Speaker 1 (01:06:15):
On your phone. I love that. I would have heard
find out for this. It's a perfect job we do.
We do porn.

Speaker 2 (01:06:20):
You don't have to be in it, no okay.

Speaker 5 (01:06:23):
And they pay me for forty hours, but it probably
takes me like six to seven hours a week to
do this job.

Speaker 1 (01:06:28):
Listen, somebody listening to this right now. Job they don't
have an apartment in du Bui. Also on the.

Speaker 5 (01:06:33):
Fans, because if you need somebody to just post for you,
please hit me up.

Speaker 1 (01:06:36):
Please, I need more money, you said, the mom. The
mom doing it now. The mom' doing the messages now,
So why don't you want to why you don't want
to take.

Speaker 4 (01:06:44):
That back book.

Speaker 5 (01:06:44):
I can't do the messages anymore because when you so,
you're answering two hundred plus messages a day every day.
Picture exact picture, you had two hundred dms every day
that you had to answer everyone. They want you to
answer every single one because people are buying videos.

Speaker 1 (01:06:58):
So it's like people are.

Speaker 5 (01:06:59):
Like, send me thirty six through forty, send me videos one,
two and three. So you got to send the videos,
and then you got to act like you like these people.
You gotta be Oh, they might ask for dick rating,
they might ask for a custom video.

Speaker 1 (01:07:12):
Okay, well let's talk about dick ratings boom, since we
have an expert in the studio.

Speaker 4 (01:07:16):
What's the good dick?

Speaker 1 (01:07:18):
A good dick is one that looks better than the
ones I see every.

Speaker 3 (01:07:21):
Day, because I'm thinking ones that look good are not
giving up that they're not.

Speaker 5 (01:07:27):
No, the people to know, the men and only fans
they are fifty plus or and the young men that
are on Instagram, they're not showing the dicks.

Speaker 1 (01:07:36):
No, it's it's it's little buddy and the child brothers.
It's the child brothers. You know, wider than it is long.

Speaker 5 (01:07:43):
It's it's looking like maybe pastrami sandwich is getting a drum.

Speaker 1 (01:07:47):
What is that? I'm gonna throw up.

Speaker 4 (01:07:49):
I don't even know what.

Speaker 5 (01:07:50):
They have got things, they have, moles, they have and
some of them want you to be mean. They're like,
I want you to be as mean as Because I
told this one guy like his length was an eight.
He was like, I know you're fucking lying. My dick
is little and I've always known that. Give me a
real fucking dick grating. So I had to literally be like, okay,
two out of ten and he was like, thank you
so much, thank you so much, and we have abody. Finally,

(01:08:12):
who's honest?

Speaker 1 (01:08:13):
Somebody honest? Yes, they it's girth with grooming size and visual. Yeah,
she grades on the grooming as well. I think you
could get into this, you because you would be mean.
You would make so much money just being mean. You
want to respond to two hundred dick pics a day,

(01:08:34):
Well that's you. Then you hire me and then I
do it, and then you may see the business. I
see the vision. I see the vision and then.

Speaker 3 (01:08:44):
Shit, you know what, Well, the girl I used to
work now was the girl I used to work for
He had two men answer her messages.

Speaker 1 (01:08:53):
And they kill. The men do way better than the
women because the women are trying to be nice. Yeah,
the men are like, send the dick. Now, I'm like, oh,
is that what they want? Sendy Sandy by.

Speaker 3 (01:09:07):
Remember now you don't have to say exactly how much
money you were making, but what's the ballpark?

Speaker 1 (01:09:13):
Not enough?

Speaker 5 (01:09:14):
So I mean she was paying me like thirty five
an hour for forty hours a week.

Speaker 1 (01:09:20):
It's not all the money that she was making. It's
not an you gonna know your worth, your value. I
can't say nothing to it because I buy. By nine am,
I'm done the job.

Speaker 4 (01:09:28):
The job is done.

Speaker 1 (01:09:29):
I done forgot the job. You wake and bake. You
wake up to this.

Speaker 5 (01:09:33):
When I say, I wake Roller blunt and post on
her three Instagrams, two facebooks, two YouTube's, to Twitters, her clapper,
her fed life, and then.

Speaker 1 (01:09:42):
I roll in and go to bed. But then you gotta
see rocket Still's skin.

Speaker 5 (01:09:46):
I don't know anymore. You gotta a message anymore. Now
I'm I'm the only socials. And when I was doing
only fans and social, she was paying me more. But
now I'm only doing social. Now I'm only posting, so
I don't see no dicks no more. Thank God, by
the grace, by the grace.

Speaker 1 (01:10:00):
So you said thirty five times forty no taxes though,
so that's not enough. They give you cash. They're giving
me cash up.

Speaker 5 (01:10:07):
But then she pays me a bonus at the top
of the month for whatever, a percentage or whatever she
made that month.

Speaker 1 (01:10:11):
This is so wait, so this is for the month.
At the top of the month, I get for the month. Yeah.
So then at the top of the month, rent.

Speaker 4 (01:10:17):
You can get a nice little highride.

Speaker 1 (01:10:18):
That's what I'm telling you.

Speaker 5 (01:10:19):
And then at the top of the month, she pays
me a bonus of five percent or whatever she made
that month.

Speaker 1 (01:10:23):
Oh, now, that's what you need to lead with that.
I didn't want to lead with it because I want
people to think them broke.

Speaker 4 (01:10:27):
What's five of.

Speaker 1 (01:10:29):
Nine hundred thousand, She ain't making that, honey.

Speaker 5 (01:10:31):
If you make nine hundred thousand, I'm telling you that month,
you'll never hear from me again.

Speaker 1 (01:10:37):
I'm gonna go. I'm going to get amber now.

Speaker 2 (01:10:40):
We all now, we all are going to be applying
for your jobs.

Speaker 1 (01:10:43):
Please take it. I would love for.

Speaker 5 (01:10:45):
You to take it, because I can't the duality of
me running only fans and then having to pick children
up in the afternoon.

Speaker 1 (01:10:50):
It's too mon, that's it, and you still nanny. Yes,
sometimes I gotta be like dicks and I'm like, shut up, dicks, girl,
what that can do? Both? I amber, Yeah. The funny
thing is I don't have to babies anymore.

Speaker 5 (01:11:08):
But when I'm like, what after I hurt my I
don't know. So I like, I am a capricorn and
I just am. Never I'm always like, but I could
make more.

Speaker 1 (01:11:16):
Money, But what are you doing with the money. I
don't know. I just have it. And then sometimes I
can buy boots, but you know, Gucci. No. And you
know what's the worst part about it. I with my
new found money, I just sit with it because I
get anxious that I'll spend it all.

Speaker 5 (01:11:32):
It's like there's no in between. You're saving none. Okay,
that's a lie.

Speaker 1 (01:11:36):
So I can either. So I'm either.

Speaker 2 (01:11:38):
Saving her because I'm I'm done so.

Speaker 1 (01:11:40):
This moment, this month, I'm saving because I'm trying to move.
So I'm in as I should have enough money to
move now, so I do have enough money move, But
now I'm like, okay, if I move or I could
just buy a bunch of clothes.

Speaker 3 (01:11:52):
You're not making sense right now, so let's talk. If
you really this is enough money to buy an apartment.
See it's not, but I'm not getting it all the
ones I need.

Speaker 1 (01:12:00):
That in a lumpsum. Let me tell you what you
need to do. He really want a big lump? Okay,
you gotta start doing only things I care. Yeah, put
your boot on the table, you think, but I think
I'm goofy couchie. I think I can't.

Speaker 3 (01:12:15):
That's your new that's and you know, you know how
white guys do. They love You wouldn't know what to do.
You already know what to do.

Speaker 5 (01:12:25):
But she's doing pussy spreading and then she's got the
big tits and she's like jiggling.

Speaker 1 (01:12:30):
I can't. Then you just show your the real who
you want me to call my brother to choreograph? Yes?

Speaker 5 (01:12:39):
Wait, break dance could do number real money isn't collabing
with other girls. And I'm not that like friendly. I'm
friendly because I.

Speaker 1 (01:12:51):
Like you guys, and I think you're funny.

Speaker 5 (01:12:53):
Like two girls, they have to be very fake and
be like, oh, I'm gonna fly to Arizona to meet
you for the first time, and then we're gonna have
sex and take a video.

Speaker 1 (01:13:01):
I can't do that. I can't do that by Arizona.

Speaker 5 (01:13:04):
She's somewhere camping with a girl right now and they
shooting content the whole time.

Speaker 1 (01:13:08):
I hope. So please Splinter, are running low? Please?

Speaker 5 (01:13:14):
I have to pick from these albums over dayre running low.
I need her to put, you know, put some new
stuff in there.

Speaker 1 (01:13:18):
Yo, Amber, you really did show up with one but
two actually a couple of messes because I'm n y you.
We are so fat, we are so fed, we are
we are so lovely.

Speaker 4 (01:13:32):
I think I'm wondering.

Speaker 3 (01:13:33):
You know what, Whenever somebody asked to do the pod,
we are sending them your episode.

Speaker 1 (01:13:38):
They're like, if you can't please like.

Speaker 4 (01:13:40):
This, this is the standard.

Speaker 1 (01:13:42):
This is It's like, we don't even need to do name. Yeah,
you're you are.

Speaker 3 (01:13:47):
I'm a nighber of names. I'm a name the name
we might need to sign. You need to sign an
NDA with us.

Speaker 1 (01:13:52):
You think so with us? Okay, okay, I want to.

Speaker 5 (01:13:54):
Tell none of I'm out with just throat record.

Speaker 1 (01:14:02):
I don't trust you. I'm not telling my business, but
I'm only telling them business because I'm trying to get
her out of a colt. Oh, I'm the and into
the only fans. But that's a call too, it is.

Speaker 4 (01:14:15):
But at least she's got money.

Speaker 1 (01:14:17):
At least she gets the dress in outside of a
long T shirt. Yeah, but the thing is, I'm calling
in a cult.

Speaker 5 (01:14:21):
Meanwhile, the girl I worked for has gone to the
Netherlands this year. She's gone everywhere. She she goes everywhere,
So good for you, girl, traveling call she's a traveler,
so hey shout out to her.

Speaker 1 (01:14:31):
She's platinum in Delta.

Speaker 5 (01:14:34):
She said she only flies Delta and Jet Blue. And
she said, I am an avid visitor of the sky
Lounge and she loves it.

Speaker 1 (01:14:41):
She's always first class, period.

Speaker 4 (01:14:42):
Period period. I mean, if I was doing only fans,
I'm not sending him coach.

Speaker 2 (01:14:46):
Yeah, why would just for the.

Speaker 4 (01:14:47):
People who are buying my only fan.

Speaker 3 (01:14:49):
Exactly, No, they honestly they taking the bus. The people
who are buying the only that's bus bust.

Speaker 1 (01:14:55):
And the out of one thousand dollars a day a day,
you go taking the butt. But we don't know if
that's coming out his child's trust. I don't know that's
the Kennedy.

Speaker 3 (01:15:06):
Yeah, you sounding you're so today, I'm worn out. I'm tired.

Speaker 1 (01:15:17):
I need to be I need to know the names
of the people more than the Epstein list. You can
release the list.

Speaker 5 (01:15:24):
If I released the list of the men subscribed and
the things I've seen men say and the rappers.

Speaker 1 (01:15:31):
Here's a rapper. I need to do a part too.
I'm gonna say a name, and you tell me if
you saw Okay Kodak Black. No. No, I don't think
she's a tight but I don't know if Kodak could
keep it together long enough to go through the app.
It gets complicated.

Speaker 5 (01:15:47):
You gotta the app is complicated because they'll be texting
me text questions. They're like how do I get to
I'm like, hey, you gotta go there?

Speaker 1 (01:15:52):
Okay, So I have a question. What is the most
common thing that you would see when you were like
the most kind of thing that men would say or
like request.

Speaker 3 (01:16:02):
Yes, something that is used over and over, So it
would be why don't you do anal?

Speaker 1 (01:16:09):
There were sir, why don't you do anal? And then
it would always be so she stopped doing like she
only does simple customs, no penetration, only things that can
be a minute, only with a vibrator.

Speaker 5 (01:16:24):
But people always request a video saying their name. That's
always a request like can you do but it'll be something,
it'll be whatever saying my name Like this one guy
was like, can you take a video of you shaving
and saying my name? Can you take a video of
you doing a handstand saying my name?

Speaker 1 (01:16:38):
Can you take a.

Speaker 5 (01:16:39):
Video of you getting out of the shower and wiping
off and being dry saying my name?

Speaker 3 (01:16:44):
Well, why don't you just use like some do ones
for these like generic names and they have them ready.

Speaker 1 (01:16:51):
I think it's the black They don't like the black
one there. I'm telling you.

Speaker 5 (01:16:54):
I think it's a racist app They don't like. I'm
telling you black people don't do well. Only fans except
for the top creators.

Speaker 1 (01:17:00):
Friend, did you hear me?

Speaker 2 (01:17:00):
I said, why don't she do like generic, like use
these names.

Speaker 1 (01:17:04):
Because their names be Jebediah Oh. I would never have
thought that. I thought it would be. I thought it
would be.

Speaker 5 (01:17:13):
You know, there's a lot of there's a lot of John's,
there's a lot of J's.

Speaker 1 (01:17:17):
There's a lot of Eric James, Yes, James, there's a
lot of James James.

Speaker 4 (01:17:22):
Why are you pointing to me, James, you don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:17:25):
We know what, James, but oh you know he's not
he's not a top spender. I am full of Yeah.
I didn't realize my left was so messy until I
got here. You knew, you know, you have to do
it's fair, fair face that watching that man. You were
watching Larry once a day do what Larry do with

(01:17:45):
a straw about around his neck.

Speaker 3 (01:17:47):
I forgot what kind of belt leather?

Speaker 1 (01:17:51):
Of course, like what else would it be? Was it
like an adult Jay Gobana called friend?

Speaker 4 (01:17:59):
I'm not going out.

Speaker 1 (01:18:03):
That. If you meet a man with a Kenneth Cole belt, run,
he's a freak. That's a red flag.

Speaker 5 (01:18:11):
If they spending too long on their lunch break, they
are drinking their own come and I'll end it there.
That work he was, I mean, this is every day,
so he would be in he would be in business
clothes in a like hotel room.

Speaker 1 (01:18:22):
It looked like every day. It lands every day. But
then think about how many people.

Speaker 4 (01:18:32):
Would he ever? Would you ever tell him put an
ice cube in it?

Speaker 1 (01:18:35):
Ew, you're gonna put it on.

Speaker 5 (01:18:38):
How many people have come from their lunch break with
cum breath like the people?

Speaker 1 (01:18:42):
Is that a thing. Sorry, Okay, I've had enough. I'm done. Finished,
Actually I'm finished. Yeah right, I gotta.

Speaker 2 (01:18:48):
Yeah breath, Amber, tell everybody where they can follow you.

Speaker 5 (01:18:52):
Guys, please follow me at at AM dot com, on
Everything A M, B D O T C O M.
And also please follow at Judge series on TikTok and Instagram.

Speaker 1 (01:19:01):
They have a YouTube, but I don't know what it is,
so sorry, Amber, you could do OnlyFans? Yeah, sure she does.
My whole days are over. I'm on this episode. People
hopefully will listen to. Maybe.

Speaker 5 (01:19:10):
Also, I'll make a free one if enough of y'all
comment that I should, and you give me a dollar?

Speaker 1 (01:19:15):
Thank you? Coming up a dollar? One dollar? Just a
dollar a day. I get forty thousand people to give
me one dollar. Do not supporting? Do you a pitch
and I'll do the background music? Go ahead, her lashlights on. Hi.

Speaker 5 (01:19:30):
Do you want to see just regular, a regular lady
doing regular things. Sometimes she'll go outside, sometimes you walk
down the street. Sometimes she'll make chocolate milk. No way,
why give me the African spirit music?

Speaker 4 (01:19:46):
I was thinking, Saram.

Speaker 3 (01:19:47):
Mcglocy, that's the dead poppy music.

Speaker 1 (01:19:50):
Yes, for just a dollar a day? Okay, we gotta go.
Good bye, y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:19:54):
You oh, and don't forget to keep leaving reviews on
Spotify and Apple and keep sending messages. And our next
left show is October twelve.

Speaker 1 (01:20:08):
I think, yes, I believe so.

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Anyway, come see us. Yeah, it's at Union Hall.

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We'll see you. Yay, Love you guys. It was so fun,
Yes on the Rocks.

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by Will Ferrell's Big Money Players and iHeartRadio podcast, created
and hosted by Sidney Washington and Marie Foston.

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