January 30, 2025 • 73 mins
This week Sydnee and Marie dive into their everyday messes, featuring guest Liza Trager, The trio covers a range of topics, including their love for gossip, handling messy relationships, and their thoughts on celebrity behaviors and tipping, and of course -- your MESS!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Ooh, you're listening to mess. Okay, welcome to.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Girl.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Okay, so listen.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
You already started hot friends.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
I know, I know.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
But the thing is, it's like every time I'll be
trying to go like right into our mess when we
have a guest, and I'm trying to.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Do better at that.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
But I'm happy to be included in the mess right away.
You're right, you're right, but I was starting mid convo
from the last.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
I started convo. Hey, you're still in that convo.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Yeah, yeah, and now you're dropping. Welcome to the college.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
I don't know what's wrong with my brain.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
It's just it's like do this, do that, and do
this and do that, and I'm trying to.
Speaker 5 (00:44):
Do oh the way my yea yeah yeah. So that's
my brain at home. My brain at home is thing is.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
The old world. We're post phone. We are not for long.
That's it's it. We're done, right.
Speaker 5 (00:58):
You see this guests already talking, is already in lot
and to click the link so you know who the guests.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
You know who it is, and it is Lisa Trigger.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
She has a special on Netflix coming out January twenty eight.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
It's already out.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
It's already out. It's already already out out. The date
is out, it's out. It's it's called night out.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
And you have to listen.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
You gotta watch live Love laughing.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
It would have been so good like MTV VJ Sydney
Who that's what you were giving right now? Oh it's
look incredible. No, it's I You know what I did.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
I had a coffee on an empty stomach, and so
it revs me up. But then it also revs up
my ass and I came in running. Yes, I had
to spew out just nonsense.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
You have I have to stop.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
What what is this called stat You are static? Queen.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
Every conversation you're talking about far pooping, weeping, listening for
like six minutes.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
You she's trying to be relatable.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
No, I'm not not relatable, not relatable to be like.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Listen, I should pay.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
That's it's so relatable relatable to baby.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
People are having diarrhea in the streets.
Speaker 6 (02:07):
Don't want to shout out to my ib s, batties
or that listening to mess this girl because sometimes I
don't even know what the food is that is upsetting
me because I'm like, is it I don't It's ever changing,
but it's always an issue, no matter.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
This is one of the girls I want. Doesn't mean
and you know I have it tried a hole. Don't
talk about the size of my hole.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Is it big?
Speaker 4 (02:30):
No, it's a normal hole. I think she made it
seem like it was loosey goosey.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Oh okay, Well my mindes is loose and I'm.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Proud you can hear draft free.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
I already started with my mess.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Oh my god, it's your mess.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Well, my mess is I was talking about I b
s again, But I'm gonna.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Switch that switch that.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
My mess this week is that I don't have any
curtains and I keep watching my neighbors from across.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
Yeah, but you know my opinion on this. I was
encouraging you say, yeah, we.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Bought are I came over and I was I turned
the couch.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
I told her to get a telescope and she goes,
I got to talk to somebody else.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
I didn't want to talk to me. More wrong and
I will go to jail. And so do you have
my do you have money for using it? It has
to be put on a constellation.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Wait what it needs to be like putt in a
different place, or like like a like an art, you know,
like you got to move it around.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
No, you're a little binocular Fuck the telescope.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
That's bad advice for star Yeah, binoculars is for neighbors
and get.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
On the ground. I have watched my neighbors now for
two weeks. But you don't like them. They're boring.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
They're not fucking are boring. I found out how much
people are paying across the way. It's way more than me.
I mean, they're in the hundreds of thousands of dollars
paying for you know, condominiums or whatnot. And it's like,
why do you have overhead lighting? That is nasty, nasty work,
you kidd it is you. You can afford better lighting.
That's lighting that they have in Akia. Just get a lamp.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Get a lamp, get a sexy sex light. You're very
lamp forward.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
And I don't think I learned how disgusted people were
with overhead lighting till very recently in my life.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Have you been underneath underhead lighting? No?
Speaker 4 (04:18):
No, even in my brain, I'm like, oh, my parents
we had lamps. We didn't do overhead lighting. But for
some reason, I just don't think about things and I'll
have over I just I'll watch it with you'll have
to come over and be like, turn the light off
to watch this movie.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
Yeah, well that's something I feel like you should know.
Each day you go to the movie theater, it's better
to watch it in the dark.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
No, I mean lighting there being like, oh I should
do that, but I need to see the flair like
it's not a natural instinct for everybody.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
So I sympathize, like overhead light.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
And every time I go to my mom's house and
they don't have no lamps, yeah, and I'm like whise
and my dad hates the living room light, so it's
always either dark in the living room and bright in
the kitchen.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Are they anti lamp?
Speaker 5 (04:57):
I don't know. I don't know. They just don't have
the Haitians don't believe in lamb.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
What if you buy them a lamp? Were like, you know,
Mother's Day or Father's.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Day, my Father's Day, I shall get them.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Yeah from youell you know, you always have the living room.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Pitch black Mother's Day, Father's Day double lamp. I like
that because they're gonna love the first lamp and they're
gonna go, oh my god, thank you for the lamp.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
I don't use the word love.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Okay, then again, they are Haitian.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
They don't. They don't say that.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
My parents don't either say I love you. No, really,
there's a bit of a special about that. But my
dad went into heart surgery. I said I love you.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
He didn't say it back. He couldn't.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
He smiled, he's I could tell you like that. I
said it, but he couldn't say it back.
Speaker 5 (05:39):
So pretend I'm your dad or pretending your your dad
and I'm it took me a lot.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Of courage too, because we don't say it right. And girls,
so like a hugging house.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Your heart is beating you and your dad is laying down.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
No, not like because it was COVID. So my sister
was the one. She's like in charge. No, no, no, no,
I'm escorting him out of the house, right so I'm like,
I'm grabbing his older in the alley where we're parked,
where my sister's we have alley parking.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
We're in a town home. Okay, I'm sorry, our richest guest.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
This area now, but not in the rich New York way,
in a suburb way. Town home sounds better than house.
Well that's why I said it, because the townhouse is embarrassing. Okay,
tell us what happened.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
So I grab him, I hug him, and I go,
I love you. He smiled.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
I could hear my sister go oh. And then my
dad didn't say it back and he went in the car.
But I thought I would have to say it just
in case.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
You know, Okay, so can you explain this because I
really I grew up that way too, but I'm not
that kind of person.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
I'm such a loving like I have to say.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
It took me a lot of drug trips to get there,
you said, I look, took me a lot of drugs.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
I didn't even like. I didn't want to hug. Yeah,
it took me along. You don't like you don't like
touching you not.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
You really pushed the limb. You're one of the people
that push I've gotten better. I've gotten better. I had
like a bil I push the limit? Do you push?
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Yeah? With her?
Speaker 4 (07:02):
Know you're a petty you always you know. I had
a friend in like high school in early twenties. She's
like she liked to be pet and I would be like,
I don't want to pet you, and she's like, you're weird.
Speaker 5 (07:11):
You need to get hold on hold on, hold on,
hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
She liked to be pett you're.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
Weird, like she liked to be like touch, like she
just wanted to be pet And yeah, I also didn't
like touching pregnant bellies. And someone made me feel bad
and they're like, you need to touch my belly, and
I'm like, it makes me uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Well, I can't touch a pregnant belly unless they tell you.
If this person grabbed my hand and put it on
their belly, I didn't want it, and did did the
baby kick you? It did not. It makes me physically uncomfortable.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
That's how I feel about babies and tiny dogs. Oh
I want to hold a baby, a baby, I'm afraid
I'm going to drop it a little like teacup dog.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
I'm afraid I'm going to break it.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Which is these are all valid reasons to not want
to really hold right touch because.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
It's like I saw a dog.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
What about a four month old their next baby that's.
Speaker 5 (07:59):
A little more dense, Yeah, you know, like like a
rosebud baby. Yeah, baby was indestructively Yeah. Yeah, Like I'm like,
this is like a bag of flower, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Like a bag of rice, you know, yes, back of
the back of rice. Rosebud shout out to Minnow being heavy.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
Well, I mean that's already.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
No, Truly, she should go on like American Ninja warrior,
like I know Rosebud from for carrying the baby, like
I think she would excel on survivor or something. And really,
because I I've only held the baby once and I
don't think I've even made it five I handed it off,
baby baby.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
I'm trying to figure out if this because now I
realize both of you guys are very similar in the
like touching and being affectionate and stuff like that.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
I love you to friends. I had to be taught that.
You have to be taught that. Marie.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
I count on my hands how many times this bitch
I said I love you, and I was like, if
I passed, Marie, do you feel comfortable with that?
Speaker 3 (08:53):
I'd be like, love you always through trap and I
would hate that.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
I cannot everything I see it. I'm like will Strang,
tiny Korean heart. I like that. I gotta learn how
to do it. Does this dun't?
Speaker 4 (09:12):
I don't promote its dunk you just say I love you,
just hug, just be like I do, I do.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
I think I do? Yah, hugged.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
I'm gonna say it to my mom on the phone
next time I speak to her and see what happened,
and she's gonna be like bye.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
My mom will text it, but never out loud. Is
it l O v E or l ug? She started
doing it.
Speaker 4 (09:32):
I wonder if she like found something on the internet
about me talking about her or something.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
My mom doesn't know how to use the internet. I
found out my.
Speaker 4 (09:39):
Mom was googling my Twitter and going on it. No,
your mother, that's what my sister let it slip.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
That's invasive.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
That's mess.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
That's mess. That's mess.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
And actually, where do you think I get it from?
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Well, I mean we talked about Sydney's, but that was
your mess.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
Yeah, and I would really like to talk to Lisa
about what her mess is for today.
Speaker 4 (09:59):
Yeah, this was mom mess. Hold on before we and
we need to get in therefore we will. I also,
we obviously have the final topic. But then I was thinking, like,
you know, what else is messy in my life? What
the apartment?
Speaker 1 (10:10):
That's physical mass. Yeah, that's physical mess. Yeah, it doesn't matter,
it doesn't count.
Speaker 6 (10:14):
No.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
I went over there and I cleaned it. Since you can,
I would be I think it'd be impressed, but I wasn't.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
When I went over there, I wasn't mad at it.
I was like, you are very active.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
You're in and out. You have a lot to do, and.
Speaker 5 (10:28):
You're saying a lot about what the place looks like.
You set the scene. You're very active. That means it
looks like a Tasmanian devil wrin.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Now you're in and out.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
That means the colts just fall away.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
The fall you have a lot going on, means you
take your panties off, you leave them on the floor.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
I see panties on the floor. I saw panties on
the floor. I saw them, and I said, we're close,
we're friends, family, I got like a good neighbor. We're
dating city there. Yeah, so that's your physical mass.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
But what what else? What else? The question? Also have
a I have a prop mess. Actually, you're gonna be mad.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
You are a prop person now because you're a show.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
Your show. But I noticed it's gonna bother you. So
that's why I think I should.
Speaker 3 (11:11):
It's gonna bother me.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Do you don't care?
Speaker 4 (11:14):
Oh, but Sydney has said she's gonna pray for me.
But I have another I have another letter.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
From a letter from who you brought this?
Speaker 4 (11:22):
I didn't, I wrote I was inspired, so I wrote
it today. But I'm gonna drop it off.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
But I only trust dropping off mail near a post office?
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Wait?
Speaker 1 (11:30):
Who did you write a letter to five? To Luigi
in prison? Oh? Did you? Is the letter sealed? Can
we read it now? Of course it's sealed, it's taped. It' saled.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
Let's seem it open. Okay, you know what I'm so.
But it's my second letter.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
But she was a second letter. Second girl.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
You can't barely respond to people text message, but here
you are handwriting something to a man.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
We don't even know if he's gonna read it. Wait,
hold on, you hand wrote a note? Yes? How do
you write a letter?
Speaker 3 (11:56):
You type it and print it out inside.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Do you have a printer house? Yeah? And it was
a passed down.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Nobody both climber passed down the stressing. Now I give
one to Jared Goldstein has one of my printers.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
I think someone has another one. It's kind that's been beautiful.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Somebody would have way both.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Why you you know, Lisa, what are you saying?
Speaker 4 (12:21):
I think it's important. I think we have to pay attention.
We can't let this case slide. It's with the terrorism charges.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
He is the new business and we should be the
most no locked, but no, no no.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
I also the incarcerated firefighters, so that so I was
filling him in on the fires.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
You don't think they have TVs in prisons.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
Tell us what you're writing.
Speaker 4 (12:43):
But when I was at the MET yesterday there was
a a criminal corrections way.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
I didn't go for that, but I was not No,
I went for something.
Speaker 4 (12:53):
I have a friend with a piece of the mate
left his special to How honestly, I've never felt cooler
than going to the Met and being like, I know
this person. And then two women were walking towards his piece,
and one of them said I want that, And then
I saw them like read read the description, and.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
You're like, that's my friend.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Like maybe, so wait, why are you writing, Luigi? Tell me?
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (13:22):
It seems like definitely sick. Like maybe I should like up,
back up in therapy, but I do feel.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
I want to hear. I do feel passionate about this case.
Go to therapy. Yeah, I should say it louder. Yeah, yeah,
from your direphrag. But other therapists did send me a
name like eight months ago, but I.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
Just the therapists said it's too much for me.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
No, you know when you're no. We parted ways and
then I had a couple I needed her.
Speaker 5 (13:51):
And then you know when you're on the call with
someone and you're like, can I speak to your supervisor
because you clearly can't help me. Yes, that's what your
therapist did for you. Yes, okay, So all right, well,
I'm sure you have a draft of the letter somewhere.
I would love to hear.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
No draft, I go straight to the on the card.
So wait in the card?
Speaker 2 (14:08):
So wait, do you strap a car out and use
white out or you're just you're this is a this
is a rough draft, and you're making no And I
like thought about it and.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Took a few notes, but then with this swam, yeah,
just free form. I wish I was passionate about something
like this.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
It feels like stuff that feels like jail homework.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
I gotta go to this.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
I got to pick up a card and then I
gotta write it's small enough, not thing that I want
to put in there fits in the car. Then I
gotta get a stamp. Yeah, and then I have an
idea for the next one.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
But Lisa, again, why writing I don't know.
Speaker 4 (14:44):
I feel passionate about it, miss but honestly people have
sent him so many books they're sending it back to publisher.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
Well, I don't know. I have to like confirm the info.
Speaker 5 (14:52):
Okay, Lisa, you're here to answer the question, Please give
it for me.
Speaker 3 (14:56):
Are secrets myths?
Speaker 4 (14:58):
I think it's secrets, gossip, talk, shap I don't know
if they're all three separate categories.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
Are all want at Which one is it?
Speaker 5 (15:03):
I think I think gossip, gossip, gossip, Missy. It can
be it's fun.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
You have to wield it responsibly. Wield it responsibly with gossip,
can you explain to us?
Speaker 4 (15:15):
I think when someone does say you need to lock
this down, you lock it down to earn trust, like
when things are very serious you need to prove your
trustworthiness and keep your mouth.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Shut to what serious I'm putting?
Speaker 4 (15:29):
I don know what are the things that you've told
me that I can't tell anyone that I will know
one about girl?
Speaker 1 (15:33):
But what I mean?
Speaker 4 (15:35):
But I didn't tell anyone until it started spreading, and
then I was like, then I want this. Once I
heard it, I got to be like, oh, but I
didn't have to reveal a source. I didn't need to
talk about it. You know every people already knew.
Speaker 5 (15:48):
Well, Lisa, let's talk what gossip have you heard about
Sydney that everybody already knew?
Speaker 1 (15:52):
I don't. I don't think I would allow gossip to happen.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
Okay, and that's what people already knew. So was it
like her moving back to New York?
Speaker 1 (15:59):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (15:59):
Not about.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
Else?
Speaker 1 (16:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (16:04):
Somebody, somebody, somebody was Oh, nothing like that. Okay, yeah, No,
it was somebody dating someone big and person.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
I didn't even remember what it was.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
I honestly write down all of the gossip that I
say to you to make sure if I hear it again,
I'll be like totally.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
But you know what, I feel like, I've come on
here and I'm gonna expose. I'm here to expose.
Speaker 4 (16:25):
Yes, you taught me about invisible ink. That that's you
got you You weren't doing that before? No, I don't
even I still don't know how to do it.
Speaker 5 (16:33):
You got to hold the button, but no, don't still
release it, and then you gotta kind of shake your
thumb a little bit invisible ink.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
I love when I get an invisible I love it.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
Invisible ink is mess because the person who is over
your shoulder looking already knows that something that was written
is mess, and that's why they have to have it.
Speaker 3 (16:50):
Well, it's mess to be over my shoulder looking at
me when I'm looking at my one.
Speaker 1 (16:55):
Why is it? Why are you lurking and leering? Why not?
Speaker 4 (16:58):
Huh?
Speaker 3 (16:59):
Why are you?
Speaker 4 (16:59):
Don't?
Speaker 1 (17:00):
I would go to a court protector, I would go
to a court.
Speaker 5 (17:02):
I'd go, well, no, because I sent Sidney something in
invisible ink ones and she fully read it with the
person and I was talking to her mind and they
were looking at her phone. So yeah, invisible in the corrus.
Speaker 3 (17:23):
Arrest and then arrested. I think they saw. I was like,
they wouldn't let.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Them say definitely, definitely. Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (17:30):
That reminds me of one of my big flaws is
I will say something I thought someone already knew, and
then it ruins the night because they didn't know we
were keeping it from them.
Speaker 3 (17:38):
Did didn't you what a surprise party wants?
Speaker 1 (17:42):
I've never wrote, oh maybe.
Speaker 3 (17:43):
Yeah, Sydney's surprise dinner, but no.
Speaker 4 (17:47):
One used the word surprise, and I sent screenshots. I
had screenshots and I sent them to the people that.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Were accusing me.
Speaker 5 (17:52):
But why would you talk to the person who whose
birthday party it is or dinner it is?
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Have ignored her?
Speaker 5 (17:59):
Have you ignored I'm saying, I'm saying saying she had not.
She was not the one who invited you. So you
can't talk to the like you and Sydney talk almost
every day.
Speaker 4 (18:09):
No, for sure, it was also my karma because Rob
Hayes ruined Sidney's surprise birds already that I was planning
in La and I went at him.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
She did, and so this was my lesson of being
like you can you can be the flubber up too.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
I think that gossip it happens, and we should all
know that when you tell somebody else, it's in the universe.
The universe already knows that you're running your mouth, So
the chances of it not being told can only happen
if you don't run your mouth.
Speaker 4 (18:39):
But for me, but do you feel like you guys
have this relationship or not? Where if there is a
person where someone tells me and I go, well, I'm
gonna tell her, and then they have to specify I'm
not going to tell my about people.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
Tell me you cannot tell Marie because they know I'm
going straight to her. Yeah. Literally, while they're telling me,
I'm texting and Red like, girl, I'm calling her.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
I'm sitting I'm like, do you hear this right now?
But if they say no, Marie, then I don't tell Marie.
Or I'll be like Marie, if I tell you this, girl, you.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
Yeah, so do you do that?
Speaker 3 (19:14):
I feel like a good chunk.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
Only only a few people will be like, don't tell Marie.
But for the most part, people already know I'm about
to tell her. But if you can trust Marie.
Speaker 4 (19:24):
Because they're telling you because they want remember though they like,
she will not remember talking about.
Speaker 1 (19:29):
She's not good.
Speaker 5 (19:30):
Sidney tells me she don't get it, and then I'll
go back to her and I'll be like, let me
tell you what I heard. And I'm like and Sidy
be like I told you that, and I'd be like, oh,
so you already have the tea yeah, and it's like yeah.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
No, I'm the one that goes someone's my favorite when
someone tells me something and be like, yeah, I started that,
you create, Yeah I did that. I figured that out.
But I also I also don't wouldn't.
Speaker 4 (19:54):
I don't want to fuck with someone I have done it,
though I've made huge mistakes with my getting in the
we need all of it. This is I'm embarrassed by this.
I have apologized to this person multiple times. Okay, but
I did get someone fired and it was none of
my business and I and I don't like fucking with
people's money, and that.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
Was like a bad thing. Are you being Karen right now?
You got the work, Karen.
Speaker 4 (20:18):
It was defending other people that I but I should
have gone to the person directly, and I should not have.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
I was. I was messy and it had like real
what did you say? Sacrifice? I can't, it'll it's just
let me. I'm trying to figure out how to say
it with that, but I don't. But in terms of gossip,
I I fucked up that time, but I try not
to fuck with people's money.
Speaker 4 (20:37):
Or like when someone got home they fired. If someone's cheating,
you know, you know, I don't know except a friend.
Now I would tell a friend if well, if.
Speaker 5 (20:45):
Someone's cheating on your friend, yeah you should tell your friend.
But if your friend cheating on someone, that's not no, no, no, no,
of course not really. If my friend is cheating on
somebody and I'm friends.
Speaker 1 (20:55):
With, what if it's double friends, that's a good one.
Speaker 4 (20:59):
It depends because that's my thing. I think a lot
of my guy friends know I'm not that I'm not
that cool, and that's good. I'm gonna tell him now
they should know. But women, you're like, girl, no, I
found her a friend's person on bumball and people were like,
did you tell her? And I go within ten seconds
of screenshots were son like I didn't even think twice.
Speaker 1 (21:20):
Yeah, right.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
My whole thing is is like getting into people's relationship stuff.
It happens all the time. I'll do my due diligence,
be a good friend, and that bitch will turn right
back and be with him. And now I got to
stare at him at this fucking event and be like yeah,
and and he looking at me like fucking bitch, and
he's like, so now we don't like each other. It's
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obvious we can't be in the same room. This is
your fartis, this is your funt. I told you your
man ain't shit.
Speaker 1 (21:48):
You told him that I said he ain't shit, and
I saw him do something and now you'll still together.
Speaker 4 (21:52):
And the reason you don't think he's anything. I ain't shit.
He ain't shit, But it doesn't sound correct.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
Don't let get it clean for the character?
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Yeah, the reason ship.
Speaker 4 (22:08):
That's the titles episodes. Because she's talking about him to you.
It's like on her to keep her mouth shut. But
do you think the thing about she's confused when I
don't like them.
Speaker 5 (22:19):
But that's the thing about relationships is if you tell
people everything that their person, your person does wrong, we
go judge them based on what we know.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
Then when you forgive them, everyone is still like but
he ain't shit.
Speaker 4 (22:31):
That's why you need to go to therapy. You can't
tell people that you want this person to get along
with later.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
What do you mean?
Speaker 4 (22:37):
Like you can if you are married to someone or
with someone a long time and you want to be
with them. I don't think you should be telling like
you can vent to a friend once in a while
or something, or a fight, but like, but not everything.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
You can't.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
Really you gotta be specific about what the fight is
because if it's a fight that it's like an integrity
thing or you think that person is putting your friend down.
I don't don't tell me. I'll be like, this is
this is not a good person because that's a character flaw. Yeah,
we're gonna hate that person. Yeah, like it's a yeah,
that person is dead to me, Maria is good for
that person is dead to me. If you if you
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say that this person has done you wrong, Mari will
be solid.
Speaker 5 (23:14):
I hate them until I die. Yeah, until they die, yea,
because I'm probably gonna live for a long time.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
Also, I think that's I think that's weird. Which somebody
has told you about this too. It's like if you
gossip about somebody and then I see you hanging out
with the person.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
I'm bad about that you do that.
Speaker 4 (23:32):
Oh yeah yeah, but but I also tell you more
than I tell Joe blow right, Like I've definitely better
like just any random like you might be hearing more
about a person that is bothering me, that's in my
life that I'm gonna hang out with, but I probably
wouldn't talk about that. I would, though you would. I
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I hate The worst is when you reveal too much
and you immediately know you did the wrong thing or
like that's the worst. So you're like, fuck, I know this,
I know this person is gonna react badly. This is
gonna happen, Like what the fuck you dumb?
Speaker 1 (24:05):
What do you mean? Like the like the moment the
words leave your mouth, like you know you shouldn't have
told that person. Has that happened to you, Marie?
Speaker 5 (24:14):
Sure of course, like absolutely. I can't think of a
specific example right now. But sometimes you'll be out, you'd
be like at a party, or you'd be at a bar,
or you'd be at a show and someone asked you
a question about somebody else's life or I don't know whatever,
and I'll be like, well, you know my sister blah
blahlah bah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 3 (24:35):
And then after I'll be like, oh, well, maybe I
shouldn't have been saying O my.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Sister's business, you know, Marie.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
But you are good for not telling my business because
I will be going through something and somebody won't know
because you're like.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Yeah, she's great, she's killing it. Yeah, Allie's great. La
is great. I think everyone knew everyone, Yeah, everybody they
already knew.
Speaker 3 (24:55):
Yeah, you were on.
Speaker 5 (24:56):
You were on people like you were on in the
story with a Bob, and you'll hoodie over the hob
with your face in a dog's like stomach, talking about
how much you hated La for like a year.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
People know the people.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
Yeah, why do you like hearing secrets?
Speaker 5 (25:34):
Now?
Speaker 1 (25:35):
I love secrets well, and it's like bonding. It's fun.
Speaker 4 (25:39):
And I again sorry to mention the special I do
a bit about talking shit. It is a passion of mine.
But it's like, what do you mean say it to
my face? Like, let me talk about you in the car?
Speaker 1 (25:49):
I love.
Speaker 4 (25:50):
It's really hard to be around as people like we're difficult,
we're annoying, we do annoying things, We're rude our front
Like shit happens.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
You don't want it always to be a fight and
a big thing.
Speaker 4 (25:59):
And so it's like, yeah, talk about like I don't know,
venting I think is maybe venting to in an inner
group is different than shit talking.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
Well, I'm sure I was talking to somebody who like
was talking about like a person that they work it
or whatever. I was like, well, do they know this is?
Like do they have you spoken to them? And they're like, oh,
you know, I don't know what. But I was like,
do you want a solution? Do you want to keep
being mad at them and have these issues or do
you just want to talk shit? Because if you just
want to talk shit, that's fine. But don't talk to
(26:28):
me as if you need help, because I'll just give
you an ear if you need any.
Speaker 1 (26:32):
But you're also good at formulating an email or a
spraise or like kind of community's chat GPT, and that's nice. Yeah,
I am chat GPT for some of my friends.
Speaker 4 (26:42):
Direct people struggle with direct communication and awkward situition.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
You know, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
I think gossip is fun. I mean it's not the.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
Worst one time, sorry, center up, but once I got
I just say you hadn't let me fis Oh my god?
Speaker 5 (27:00):
Yeah, sorry, and you My memory is bad. Every time
I start to say something, y'all will cut me off.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
You know, I'm glad she is included. I'm sorry because I'm.
Speaker 5 (27:09):
Like, I'm sitting here looking at and I'm like, they're
really having a conversation, like I'm not.
Speaker 3 (27:15):
Oh my god, no, change my cup, no, oh my god,
it's open.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
Tell us.
Speaker 3 (27:23):
I don't even remember what I was gonna say.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
It was just my bad flood. I'm sitting here. Wow,
I feel devastated by it's really Lisa cutting you off.
That's bad. Well, she's including you. Yeah, Lisa, but we
were talking about like why do you like secrets? Like
(27:48):
gossip is fine.
Speaker 5 (27:49):
I feel like the word gossip gets a bad rap.
It's not always bad. We're not always talking ship. Sometimes
we're just like sharing your business and we're like I
did that once in third grade.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
I think it's fun. Anyway, now that I said it,
I feel like I didn't need to say it.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
No the herd So.
Speaker 1 (28:07):
That was the clip friend. Yeah, gossip gets the bad rap. Yeah,
that is the type it's says it is.
Speaker 4 (28:14):
It's sexistause men don't want to talk to each other,
so what we do is trivial and annoying and bad
and we're causing drama and it's like you know nothing
about your friends and you're all taking your own lives.
Speaker 3 (28:23):
I feel like men gossip about like athletes that they
like and like Drake.
Speaker 4 (28:29):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (28:29):
I think the classic kind of like a joke is
like a husband will be like, oh, yeah they broke up.
What happened?
Speaker 4 (28:36):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (28:36):
I didn't ask. They don't ask nothing. It's like, what
the fun? You don't know when?
Speaker 4 (28:39):
How?
Speaker 1 (28:39):
What? Like? What are you talking about? They're getting divorced
and you know nothing? Yeah, what happened? I don't know.
Speaker 3 (28:46):
She kind of mean and then they die along.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
Problem though, I do hear the information and then I
go to Marie and Marie rull be like so why
and I'm like, oh, you know, they was saying stuff,
but I was like listen, I was in and out.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
I couldn't.
Speaker 2 (28:58):
Yeah, you are giving me a piece of the t Yeah,
a piece of the tea. A piece of a piece
of the tea.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
I like that title as well. No, I have one friend.
She knows I'll fly off the handle, so she does that.
Speaker 3 (29:09):
What do you mean?
Speaker 1 (29:10):
She'll allude to stuff and be like that's all you
actually need to know. No, but then you'll you will
ask constantly. You want to know. Help maybe, but not
with this leather person.
Speaker 4 (29:20):
They have different boundaries because they know you and they
know that they're not trying to set you off.
Speaker 1 (29:24):
Yeah, but you are very passionate, Lisa about a lot
of stuff. I know, I gotta get a life.
Speaker 5 (29:30):
I gotta get do you allow life and its talking? Yeah,
it includes secrets.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
I know.
Speaker 2 (29:38):
I do get annoyed at the people who will be like, oh, yeah, no,
I don't want to get involved, shut up.
Speaker 1 (29:44):
I want to be a. Yeah, they're like goodie to no, No,
I don't want to talk about No, I don't. I
don't got but I don't want to.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
It's like, okay, so you're people who are like I
don't gossip. They talk about themselves a lot, and that
it's the people that go, I don't have a TV,
but watch it on their laptop. Yes, you're being annoying.
Still I am person.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
It's like, you don't want to get involved, but I
know you got. I know you're tied up in something though.
Speaker 4 (30:14):
I will just listen to something, but I on the street,
on the street at dinner, or like if if we're
out to dinner and then I hear somethings riling up
over here, and I'll be like, oh I need, I
need I.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
Yeah, it's fun that.
Speaker 5 (30:30):
I'll be at dinner and my eyes will glaze over
and people be like, right, Marie, and I'll be like,
I'm not listening to nothing, y'all saying they arguing over there.
Speaker 4 (30:36):
If me does, it comes from genuine interest of like
people behavior. I don't know, like a part of me.
I think it's interested in humanity. I don't think it's
yeah bad, is it?
Speaker 6 (30:48):
Is?
Speaker 4 (30:49):
It?
Speaker 5 (30:49):
Messy to care about. And it's not even necessarily care.
Is it messy just to want to know? Because we
don't necessarily care about what we're hearing. We just want
to know the information.
Speaker 1 (31:00):
No I care.
Speaker 2 (31:01):
Whenever somebody passes away and they post about it, you're
going to have to tell me what happened. I need
to know something like I need like you need to
put like a mental health awareness so I know, oh,
it might be suicide or it's like, you know, in
the hashtag, you're like drive by suck, like like now
I know that person who was in a drive by, Yes,
(31:21):
but I need to But I always going the comments
and I somebody would be like what happened, question mark,
and that's insensitive. And then somebody were like he got
shot outside and I'm like, thank you, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 1 (31:33):
I want to know.
Speaker 2 (31:35):
I need to know because then it's like how much
am I going to be invested in this? You know,
if it was like a freak accident, I'm out, I
clicked out. But if it's like someone did commit suicide,
then I'm going to their page. That's how weird I am.
Speaker 3 (31:47):
But that just helped me.
Speaker 4 (31:49):
Someone famous recently passed and no one's saying the reason
the family doesn't want to Oh that sound like that
we know what that means, right, yeah, but I get
you know, well, this is when you were like, gossip
is good when you know I interrupted a fla flah.
I was gonna say one time someone's like, oh, I
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have gossip, And then it was that a friend we
knew relapsed and was on hair and then again, and
I go, that's not what I want to hear it
at all. That's actually like, that's worse than us. It's tragic,
and it's like, is their action or not? Like and
for you to think that that's info I want. I
don't like what you think of me because that or
(32:31):
the way you spun it. But I'm like, that's not
the gossip I want.
Speaker 2 (32:33):
I can't stand when somebody is like talking about somebody close.
Speaker 1 (32:38):
I'm like, why did you think that I was gonna
be okay with that?
Speaker 5 (32:41):
Like yes, oh that's yes, Wait, that's your favorite when
they talk about someone you're cool with.
Speaker 4 (32:47):
This happened to me once with someone where they started
talking shit about someone I was friends with, and I
was like, are you out of your fucking you stopped it?
Speaker 1 (32:55):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (32:55):
I went all in and then I've yelled at them again.
I mean it's been normal because I've calmed down, but
I've screamed at them in an elevator before. Yeah, Like
it went crazy where I was like are you I
went nuts because I was like, why it means you
don't have friends?
Speaker 5 (33:10):
No, it means that you don't have no decorum, because
why are you talking to me about my friend?
Speaker 1 (33:14):
You know, I'm cool with this person.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
But if somebody is talking about a friend, do you
are like, oh, I kind of do want to know
what you're about to say, so I could tell my friend.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
But then it's like then your friend is like, so
you heard all that? And then what?
Speaker 3 (33:27):
Yeah, what did you say?
Speaker 1 (33:28):
No, I'm like pretty reactive. I was okay, get mad,
I don't want to know nothing. Don't tell me anything.
I'm gonna curse unless I think my friend also is
a fucking idiot in this moment.
Speaker 4 (33:38):
Because I did defend someone once and then I went
back and listened to the thing that in question, and
it was it was mad.
Speaker 1 (33:44):
I was like, yeah, I get why they didn't like you.
Speaker 5 (33:49):
I'm torn between two I'm between two firms on this
because part of me does want to be able to
be like what the fuck is wrong with you? Or
like are you out of your mind like you did
on the elevator explosively. But then the other part of
me is like, well, I kind of want to hear
what you're gonna say so that I can tell my
friend what you just said if.
Speaker 1 (34:06):
You but you want to hear everything, right, But then
you got to curse the mouth after. I feel like
my face changes so much.
Speaker 4 (34:13):
The back pedal. I like a back pedal when someone
thinks they're and you're like, I actually don't like what
you're saying to me right now.
Speaker 1 (34:23):
Well, this happened to me and Marie years ago where
something happened between me. It was cereal Gate with me
and our friend Carolina ciel Gate.
Speaker 2 (34:33):
Cereal Gate was it was explosive, It was really really bad,
and Carolina had went back to Marie and said something
to her about it. And Marie is in the middle, right,
But Marie is my best friend. I don't have to
be Marie's she is mine, So it's like, why would
you go to my best friend about this?
Speaker 1 (34:52):
That you got to go to your best friend about that?
Speaker 2 (34:54):
So then Marie kind of got worked up listening to
also her close friend or whatever, best friend, whatever you whatever.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
You want, and then Marie was coming for my neck.
Speaker 2 (35:06):
It felt like it because she was just like, well,
if you did that, that's fucking that's not You're not
being a good friend. I said, Oh, so then I
got mad at you, got madder madder at Carolyn. Why
would you go to my best friend? But Marie Carolyne
is like, wait, hold on, now we're all friends, and
it's like, uh uh, you gotta be real specific and
real particular about the words because we're all close.
Speaker 4 (35:28):
But it's also the opposite of what we said earlier.
Venting in a group is different than gossipping out doors.
But she should have told her and her friend or best.
Speaker 5 (35:36):
Friend, Carolina famously a virgo as well. You know, I
think Carolina knows that what my energy is. You know,
I was a mediator in second grade, so she knew
that your mediator, Marie mediator. And second Marie, I mean, Sidney,
you know this about me friend or not my friend.
I am listening to the facts. Yeah, okay, I'm the
judge judy here and I'm listening, and I'm like, well,
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that sounds wrong, and that sounds right because Sidney was like,
you always say Carolina's side, and Carolina was like, you
always say Sydney's side, And I'm like, no, no, no, I'm.
Speaker 1 (36:05):
With the truth, babe.
Speaker 5 (36:07):
I'm with the truth of truth. I'm on the right side,
on the right side. But let's pivot real quick. We're
all you know, it's in a couple of years. It's
twenty twenty five, let's say twenty twenty six, twenty twenty seven.
Our careers have exploded. We we're famous, we're doing well,
we're thriving. Are we making people sign NDAs?
Speaker 1 (36:28):
Yeah, but my career will be ruined with everything I've
already said about this is part.
Speaker 4 (36:35):
I just say crazy shit on podcasts for years. And
I was young, like we started young, so it's like
before we podcasts were even a thing. Twitter was nothing
like we were in the beginning. So it's like, and yeah,
I'm sure he said crazy stuff.
Speaker 1 (36:49):
Oh girl.
Speaker 3 (36:49):
I think first podcast I ever did, I was yacking.
Speaker 5 (36:55):
And somebody that was cool with my ex heard the
episode because I was like, what is a podcast? Like,
nobody listens to this. Somebody heard it and then told him,
and I think he listened to it. And he hit
me up about it. Yeah, and he was like, that's
crazy that you would just say all that. And I
was like, that's crazy that you listen.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
To Yeah, why would you listen? That's another thing.
Speaker 2 (37:15):
It's like, if you are a very close friend, why
the f are you listening to my podcast?
Speaker 1 (37:20):
You talk to me on a regular basis, that's right. No, No,
what if you guys have a guest, I'm interested to them.
You better look that guests up and see them on
another podcast.
Speaker 4 (37:31):
No, look what about but I put on this tradio.
I listened to your stradio lab. Do you think I'm
a freak.
Speaker 1 (37:40):
I don't know. Yeah, I just think that we are,
you know, public figures. That is what we are. It
says it on our Instagram. We are. We are for
the masses. Right, So if you are a close friend,
what I'm saying on a podcast is not for you.
Speaker 2 (37:56):
It's for the masses. So you kind of listening in
on like an interpretation of what I need to, like
be reped up for somebody to follow me. You misinterpreted it.
Speaker 1 (38:08):
This wasn't for you, babe.
Speaker 2 (38:09):
If I'm talking, but I'm talking to you, right, If
I'm dating somebody, I'm gonna tell them, like the good stuff.
Speaker 1 (38:16):
Nobody wants to hear that.
Speaker 2 (38:17):
That's not gonna get clicks. They're like, oh, you're in
a love relationship. They don't hit you like no, no,
they don't hit you. Raised to say, but I'm just
saying like people like the mess, people like the strife,
the ridiculousness of it all. So it's like, if you're
a close friend and I'm retelling a story, I'm not
gonna tell, like exactly what happened.
Speaker 1 (38:39):
If it's dull, you know, I'm.
Speaker 4 (38:41):
Not gonna call you and go, you dumb bet you
said something different to me than on the pod.
Speaker 1 (38:46):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (38:47):
I'm not gonna agree with you on this. Sydney, don't
we want to support?
Speaker 5 (38:51):
I want my friends reposted, reposted I'm cool with my
friends listening. I'm cool with my friends reposting.
Speaker 4 (38:58):
If I'm dating you, don't podcast, Yes, don't watch Why Special,
don't watch anything.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
Get out of my life.
Speaker 4 (39:05):
It's an unfair, imbalanced because you can know everything about
us in a day. You can sit and listen and
know every opinion on everything, And it's unfair, right because.
Speaker 3 (39:16):
I know nothing about you, nothing, because you are a
man who has no hobbies.
Speaker 4 (39:21):
No, I'm curious saying it like you it's unfair, and
then you're coming it's it's creepy.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
It's like doing research on someone before you know them.
Speaker 4 (39:27):
It's like this was a rom com pre podcast and
someone was like following you and your interests and learning
and then they can change who.
Speaker 3 (39:34):
They are, Like it's giving you on Netflix?
Speaker 1 (39:37):
Saw there you Yeah, yeah, but never been a fan
of that.
Speaker 5 (39:42):
I don't like I can't date anybody who I feel
like knows more about me than I know about them.
Speaker 2 (39:46):
Okay, but what about talking about like gossiping about dating,
like on a public platform or even to other people?
Speaker 3 (39:54):
Like how who I'm talking to you?
Speaker 1 (39:56):
Yeah? Like how juicy can it be?
Speaker 4 (39:58):
How like you have to that's Taylor Swift. But if
a man talks shit, I don't owe him nothing. So
I think you could talk. If someone does you wrong,
you can talk about them all you want. And happened
to you, it's your story, you could.
Speaker 1 (40:10):
Talk about it.
Speaker 4 (40:11):
I can talk about friends. I had an ex through
someone be like, can you stop talking about this person?
And I went absolutely not. I'm gonna talk about you
as much as I want. Yeah, I talk about dates online.
I'm gonna talk about you. Yeah, if it's good or
funny or really really bad and some person that you're
gonna date is gonna be into that. I think it's funny,
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not care or like yeah, I means being riled up.
I still don't want them to listen, but I probably
talk about you.
Speaker 1 (40:39):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (40:39):
I had somebody that I was dating that there was
like I heard what you said and that was like,
I didn't think that was funny. That was very personal
looking up us like any of that. It's weird if
someone did that to you and saying and they know
it's you, that's that I don't like.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
She was like, I don't like that, like was very
and I never even thought.
Speaker 2 (41:01):
About it like that because I was like, I'm on podcast,
I'm having fun.
Speaker 1 (41:04):
It's like, yeah, I don't.
Speaker 2 (41:06):
It's the way we say stuff. It's funny. But for
then they were like, but that's not your person.
Speaker 5 (41:12):
But that's why you got to be like someone I
dated once, Yeah, you got to make it sound like
it happened, you know the pro Yeah, you'll be like
I dated this guy once, what did he say? And
it's somebody that's said.
Speaker 1 (41:26):
I was in London, and I do it.
Speaker 4 (41:28):
I had an old joke about leaving DNA when you're
hooking up with someone.
Speaker 1 (41:31):
But I was in London.
Speaker 4 (41:32):
I met someone on an app and then was taking
a car to hook up with them, and I tweeted
about it. And then when I arrived, he was like,
you know, you're pretty easy to find on the internet.
Speaker 1 (41:42):
And I did see the tweet.
Speaker 5 (41:46):
I would have been like, chance, I'm very active, don't
google me while I'm in the car on the way.
Speaker 3 (41:54):
To the hook up.
Speaker 1 (41:55):
That is strange. I don't think it's that crazy.
Speaker 4 (41:57):
It's more crazy to go to a stranger's house that's
a man, and I think, you know, and.
Speaker 3 (42:03):
Oh yeah, but I've done it.
Speaker 5 (42:04):
We've all done every time I didn't get kidnapped, i'd
have enough to pay a rank.
Speaker 1 (42:10):
Oh this is not about gossip but mess. So Marie
and I did starv Ros's podcast.
Speaker 4 (42:16):
The last interaction I with this person I've never met
with them, but you know, like a sex situation. But
then I was turned off. Hey, great job on the
podcast is starv Ros School. Two things up.
Speaker 1 (42:27):
It's like a video of this person coming and it's like,
that's crazy. I haven't. It's like been a year and
a half and I get a text about is starv
Ros School? That's crazy?
Speaker 2 (42:37):
Ew, that's disgusting, disgusting, I don't like disgusting, horrific. And
the video is from how long ago?
Speaker 1 (42:44):
I don't. I don't have the number saved you. I
don't know. I'd have to find. Yeah, what I'm saying like,
how much time do you think had passed between I
would say eight months to a year less or more.
Men will continue to disappoint us every time. That's fast.
Speaker 2 (42:58):
They don't post them, cast them, They're gonna they're gonna
find a way to make you regret pressing post for sure.
Speaker 1 (43:06):
But the engagement, no chat, the wedding, the wedding, Oh
you're saying the engagement.
Speaker 5 (43:13):
I mean there are people who who have been single
the entire time I followed them, and then now they're
in relationships and now their page is a couple page, and.
Speaker 1 (43:21):
It's like I can't stand that.
Speaker 5 (43:23):
Please don't when y'all break up or if they disappear
from the page, I will go to your page and
scroll back as many weeks as I can to see
if you archived everything.
Speaker 1 (43:32):
Is it messed to be like what happened?
Speaker 6 (43:34):
No?
Speaker 4 (43:35):
I mean, oh, I send you know what? Sometimes I
don't get respond I don't care. If I want to
know something, I'll send the eyes like someone might have post.
It might have been a platonic friend, but I just
I saw and I went I was with Lisa.
Speaker 5 (43:50):
Last month, and oh, I think we talked about this
with Caleb. Yes, yes, but I'm gonna bring it up
right now because you're sitting right here. I was with
Lisa last week and you know, Marcello had done all
this stuff for Sabrina Carpenter's tour, and she sees him
and she was like, can I ask a personal question?
Speaker 3 (44:07):
And as soon as he walks can I ask a
personal question? He was like, yeah, what's up? She was like,
did you have sex with Sabrina Carpenter?
Speaker 1 (44:14):
And I said to Cam, I was like, why would
he say that? Why would he tell you the truth.
Speaker 5 (44:18):
He said no immediately, and I said, well, you said
no too fast, and he was like, well, ask me again.
Speaker 1 (44:22):
And then I.
Speaker 2 (44:25):
Was like, why, Lisa, who will be online in a
messy bun run in her mouth.
Speaker 1 (44:30):
I'm not telling you nothing.
Speaker 4 (44:31):
If not if he is it up to but maybe, well,
you know what, one time I got some good gossip
about someone and I went to their good friends and
I okay, bold as fuck, Lisa, if you knew these people,
you wouldn't care and make these noises as much. It's like,
but I went up to someone and I asked right
away about the friend. It's kind of from a signful episode,
(44:52):
but I was like, did this person have a baby?
Speaker 1 (44:55):
And he went up.
Speaker 4 (44:58):
No, and I go, great, all I needed to know,
of course this person dead like and it felt great,
But also, how do you hide a baby? I'm gonna
see them eventually.
Speaker 1 (45:06):
People hire babies, people hide babies. I think it's okay.
Speaker 3 (45:09):
I think people need to hide babies.
Speaker 1 (45:11):
But that was mesty.
Speaker 4 (45:12):
But I went up, well, or if that's like, that's
how I practice acting too.
Speaker 1 (45:17):
I think, if like I know information, you be like,
oh no way does that ding? You'll act like you
don't know.
Speaker 3 (45:26):
I'll be I'll clutch my Pearl'd be.
Speaker 2 (45:28):
Like, it's important to be that person. You cannot just
show your cards. It's it's kind of and I am
that person. Unfortunately, I'm just too transparent. It's it stresses
me out. I don't really I am I am like,
I think that's good.
Speaker 1 (45:45):
I think it's good.
Speaker 2 (45:46):
I don't know no, no, no, no no, Because sometimes
I'll be like writing stuff you think it's and I'll see,
like Marie.
Speaker 1 (45:52):
This is what I wrote to Why did you write that?
Why you start up top with that?
Speaker 4 (45:57):
They don't need to know that, Julia's I'll just all
all this info and it's like, what are you even
writing to the stranger?
Speaker 5 (46:03):
You know that I see ads for like grammar ly
and it'll be like you'll take a big ass sentence
and turn it into two words. That's how I feel
like y'all talk, y'all talk like so I would like
to know, and I'm like, nah, you don't need all
this these filler words.
Speaker 2 (46:18):
When I'm canceling things, I'm like, so, like today was
really crazy and then like I was so behind and
then you know, like something happened like mentally where I
just I don't think I could do this, but like
I will show up if if I have to, if
you if you tell me this is it's like, no,
all you have to do, I cannot come. Unfortunately, Unfortunately
(46:38):
I'm going to have to pull out of this.
Speaker 3 (46:40):
Yeah, and I'm so sorry. Do you need me to
try to replace it.
Speaker 1 (46:43):
I didn't realize this was crazy.
Speaker 4 (46:44):
But one time I booked a sh I was booked
on the show, and when I got the notification or text,
I wrote back, Oh, I didn't realize it was Memorial
Day weekend.
Speaker 1 (46:52):
I'm not coming. And they said, I can't believe you
said that, And I go, is it that crazy? Like
you would rather me?
Speaker 4 (46:59):
Like to you, I'm not coming. I'm gonna going to
the beach. How dare you book me on a Sunday
on a Moral Day weekend? Was it?
Speaker 3 (47:05):
Was it the knitting factory?
Speaker 1 (47:06):
No, she would never. I would never.
Speaker 3 (47:09):
Well, it might have been before our tenure. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (47:12):
No, I feel the NIT was a big deal to
do the NET always it was. It's a huge deal
a lot of people.
Speaker 1 (47:19):
You wanted to do good. You don't want to embarrass
yourself with the NET.
Speaker 3 (47:22):
I mean, pre pandemic, Knit was the police.
Speaker 4 (47:25):
But you also were the best show back from pandemic.
In that background, we were doing two shows and you
were paying. You were like paying money post pandemic and
us sold out show.
Speaker 1 (47:36):
We are we were for the people, respect for us.
Speaker 5 (47:40):
We're literally hidden figures. We are people didn't see us,
but we were there doing the work.
Speaker 1 (47:47):
We should be on more list, We should be in
more documentary.
Speaker 5 (47:50):
I mean, do you think that back in the day, Like,
do you think it like the sixties, in the fifties,
they were gossiping.
Speaker 1 (47:57):
Yeah, but it was better no phones.
Speaker 4 (48:00):
Even the nineties movie stars Gwyneth Paltrow, they'll do interviews
being like it was the fucking best.
Speaker 3 (48:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (48:05):
They were like just bar hopping, partying, doing. You could
do drugs wherever you wanted. No one had like, no
one had a phone.
Speaker 2 (48:12):
Yeah, nobody had a phone. Right, So you don't have
real footage unless they're coming out of their shows they
have coke around their nose or whatever.
Speaker 1 (48:20):
That's the only time.
Speaker 5 (48:21):
Yeah, I know that they had coke around their nose.
But photos were black and white. So and if the
white people will wipe up on their nose, we don't
see that. I'm like, oh my god, look at a highlighter.
Speaker 4 (48:30):
And the boys do gossip the guy. Yeah, everyone is gossiping.
People want to know secrets. I'm sure there's a psychological study.
I think we should all share. People were gossiping, but
steaks were higher because I was thinking, like I back.
I bet back in like castle, old timy days, there
was gossip, a gossip white people killed.
Speaker 1 (48:46):
I mean still that's yeah, but we're talking about the prisons.
Speaker 2 (48:50):
Castle gossip now where you're really taking us on a journey, Lisa,
you you are a historian of gossip.
Speaker 1 (48:58):
We all have feudal lord.
Speaker 3 (49:02):
Game of Throne mess, but they did gossip on Game
of Thrones.
Speaker 5 (49:07):
There was that little ball guy with sleeves that would
be like you didn't hear this from me, but and
you were like.
Speaker 1 (49:13):
My favorite story.
Speaker 4 (49:14):
I guess there was like a basketball like a sports
wife that her ship kept getting leaked, like a footballer's wife.
Her ship kept getting leaked and she didn't know what.
So she made a close friends, but only for one
person she suspected, and so that's how she was able
to figure out who it was.
Speaker 1 (49:31):
I love that she was like doing this subtraction and
she's like, I'm gonna get this right. That's how you
find the all, how you find the mall. C im.
Speaker 2 (49:58):
I do appreciate how we are transparent about our own
mess in like business, because then it's like you can't
make me ashamed of something that I openly already talked
about I don't care like and I think that is
the reason why people are saying everything and doing have
diary of the mouth, because.
Speaker 1 (50:18):
Like, what you gonna do?
Speaker 2 (50:19):
You if somebody pulls up something from my podcast, it's like, yeah,
I said that, I'm standing on that.
Speaker 1 (50:23):
Yeah I did say that, Like what's the problem? She
can't sing there?
Speaker 4 (50:26):
It is?
Speaker 1 (50:27):
Do you have yours? That's crazy?
Speaker 5 (50:29):
What if someone pulls up something that I said on
the podcast, I'd be like, I said that, Oh that's
that seemed like a deep sake.
Speaker 6 (50:39):
Me.
Speaker 4 (50:40):
I think about this salat and I think I would
have had a different perspective before the last Culturistas episode
with Tina Fay when she said authenticity is dangerous and
expensive and that everything because not everything, because I probably
still get into trouble. I think twice now, I think
three times.
Speaker 3 (50:56):
Now, Well she said that what did she mean?
Speaker 1 (50:58):
It was about the io stuff? But then her I
don't think so, honey, it was bo and you're too
famous to talk shit about like the movies you don't
like because what if they want you in that movie?
You're too famous now?
Speaker 2 (51:08):
Yeah, But also it's like we're in entertainment, we're in
the celebrity of it all, like you're you don't You're
not absorbed from somewhe to critiquing you or talking shit
or making jokes.
Speaker 1 (51:18):
You we are all in this business. What is the whole?
No no, no, no no no, I'm creating art. It's
like you're not a heart surgeon.
Speaker 2 (51:26):
You're literally doing words or you're being a personality word
are you're saying words?
Speaker 1 (51:32):
You're like, it's like, have fun.
Speaker 2 (51:34):
I love the celebrities that like read out, like tweet
people like have fun like you if you see it
and if you act like you've never heard somebody say
something shitty about you, then who are you? Are you
a human being? Nobody is perfect. Everybody has done stuff.
Speaker 1 (51:50):
I love when celebrities is like, oh I've done that before,
are so like or whatever, like like you can turn
it around. You don't have to make it this big thing.
Speaker 5 (51:57):
Also, j Lo is the easiest person to talk mess about.
People want to not like her no, and then it's
like we liked her and then we turned out a tip.
Speaker 4 (52:09):
You got a tip, like what you gotta why she
I've heard stories it's alleged the tip to me, that's
like scum.
Speaker 3 (52:18):
She's a bad tipper.
Speaker 4 (52:20):
No, I heard it's a no tipper. I heard it's
Ben Affleck tried to tip and she went no oh,
but you know, I mean.
Speaker 3 (52:28):
Well, Sidney, did you never meet her? Did she never
leave you with two?
Speaker 2 (52:30):
Oh? She actually did allegedly when I was working at
this hotel, she did her baby shower on the rooftop
and she told like her people are like, I don't
want any of the staff. I don't want anybody talking
to me. I only want this one person I don't want.
Don't don't look at me, don't talk to me, don't
engage with me. This is my baby shower. If you
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need anything, talk to this the liaison or whatever.
Speaker 1 (52:54):
And I was like, that's just so bo.
Speaker 2 (53:00):
Hold on, we see how people can't help themselves and
they are weird. They are you work there, stop asking,
stop taking photos, stop being strained you were on the clock, like.
Speaker 1 (53:11):
Or hide behind a curtain and take a photo. Don't
outwardly be like, well, those people shouldn't be working at
that price. But there's so many people like this.
Speaker 3 (53:19):
There's so right.
Speaker 1 (53:20):
So it's like I kind of do understand.
Speaker 4 (53:22):
Where it's like, no, it's definite because I heard a
tour bus situation where she allegedly was on a bus
for three months did not say hi, bye, thank you,
not once.
Speaker 1 (53:33):
To the driver. Correct.
Speaker 3 (53:35):
Well, that's the thing about that.
Speaker 1 (53:36):
Not everyone at the that's like this man that's driving.
Speaker 5 (53:40):
You can't say good morning when you get on the bus.
You can't say hey, can we stop here? I want
to pick up a chicken sandwich.
Speaker 3 (53:46):
Well.
Speaker 2 (53:46):
Also, let's be honest, we have had somebody like say like, oh,
this person did this sat and the third to me
and then come back around. It's like they missed it.
That that's not what happened. So it's sometimes people, how
do I miss you not saying hello to me for
three People exaggerate it's three months. She never bad behavior,
you're acting like you have not seen bad behavior.
Speaker 5 (54:07):
That power her too, though, is that she doesn't want
people to look at her. She doesn't want people to
talk to her.
Speaker 3 (54:12):
I mean certain divass.
Speaker 4 (54:14):
Because you know she didn't get an Oscar nom and
it's like, well, you got to be the people's princess.
Speaker 1 (54:18):
But sometimes when people look at you, you're like you
do me off. No, you're giving celebrity.
Speaker 2 (54:27):
No, ma'am girl, I mean you just skate off just
a little bit because you're looking it feels like you're
looking into my soul. You need something, you're taking something
away when you're just like bearing into my foreheaded I'm famous.
Speaker 5 (54:40):
Of course you want to look at me. You should
want to look at me. I'm cute in real life.
Or you saying don't look at me, don't make eye
contact makes me feel like you're self conscious about what
you look like without a filter, because why can't I
look over it?
Speaker 6 (54:51):
No?
Speaker 1 (54:51):
But I mean famously, we were sitting next to.
Speaker 3 (54:53):
Jailah last year and we were like this and we
were famously in her face. Should you get tell me from.
Speaker 1 (55:01):
We were We're very demure, very mindful about it.
Speaker 3 (55:05):
I want to say, uh, the back of her bun. Yeah,
I'm that person.
Speaker 1 (55:09):
I'm like, no, come on, no, you are you are?
I know, And I'd rather someone be who they are
than be fake and like come out like being polite
and then they're actually a monster behind me, you know.
Speaker 2 (55:20):
Like but yeah, but the thing about the I'm going
to say the thing about tipping right, like, also, a
lot of what people don't know is a lot of
times people come into establishments and uh, the managers will
be like it's on the house, it's on us. Don't like, don't,
don't pull your card out, nothing like that. So then
the waitress is like, oh my god, they didn't pay me.
But then then you go back and the managers like, oh, yeah, no,
(55:41):
I told them I took care of it. It's like
they can still give me some cat.
Speaker 1 (55:44):
Well that's what I mean. They're bad people. Who are you?
Speaker 4 (55:46):
If you're that famous, you should have hundreds ready to
tip because you know your meal is calmed exactly. You
know your meal is going to be caught exactly. You're
that famous, you think it's the first time their meal
has been coree.
Speaker 1 (55:55):
Do you always have cash on you? I'm not that
famous and I'm not that rich, but when you, when
you are, this is my whole game.
Speaker 3 (56:02):
That is my hold on, hold on Sydney. They got
entourage and assistance and and security.
Speaker 5 (56:09):
Those people have cash on them. Hey, I left I
left my bag of money on the bus or in
the in the maybox. Let me uh that the famous
that it's comped.
Speaker 1 (56:19):
You know you should tip.
Speaker 3 (56:21):
I have should have cash on I have.
Speaker 2 (56:23):
I know I've bumped heads a lot of assistance. I've
had a run into people. Managers will be like, oh yeah, no, no,
I told them that it's taking care of I said,
why'd you tell them that? Right, tell them that I
took care of the actual bill, but they can still tip.
You're like, no, no, no, you guys are already making
it a lot. No no, no, no, that's not for
(56:43):
you to decide that's bad. But sometimes it's not the
celebrities because I've seen it in real life.
Speaker 5 (56:51):
Girl, even if boots on the ground, even if someone's like, yeah,
this is fully camped, don't worry about it, we'll take
care of it, will take care of it. As a
rich ass person, you should definitely be tipping one hundred
two hundred percent like you have it, you spent.
Speaker 6 (57:07):
We do that.
Speaker 4 (57:08):
It's not as people my coffee at my spot, when
they give me my you know, my regular rate, I
tip them to when the real prices and.
Speaker 1 (57:17):
Lisa, that's why we're bad with money. Yeah, we are
bad with money, like this whole thing that people should
be good like.
Speaker 2 (57:24):
Pulling out all their dollars for people in this economy,
you're out, but we're not talking.
Speaker 1 (57:29):
I'm just saying we're out of our mind. But literally,
if you are that rich, Like, I just can't imagine
why you wouldn't leave like a few hundred.
Speaker 3 (57:39):
Dollars Jo's net worth? Becca, Oh, I just want to know.
Speaker 1 (57:42):
Oh, I would say, I would guess one hundred fifty million.
Speaker 5 (57:44):
I feel like it's like more four hundred mini. Yeah,
because she's millions of dollars on that movie. But if
you're worth fo hundred million dollars, you can afford to
put some money down on the table after your baby shower,
that or the body they.
Speaker 1 (57:55):
Paid for the whole establishment. And if you pay sometimes
you pay so much money and you do all these things,
you have some rules. And I think when we get
to that point now you're say something for the wealthy.
Speaker 3 (58:06):
That's crazy. Sydney is pro rich. Sydney said let them
eat cakes.
Speaker 1 (58:11):
I'm not pro rich.
Speaker 2 (58:12):
I'm I'm I'm like the entitlement has gotten out of
control on all parties.
Speaker 1 (58:18):
Everybody, everybody needs to get shook up. No, so let's
stop comping the celebrities then.
Speaker 2 (58:24):
But do you know if your establishment you bring celebrities in,
that's gonna get more people. Of course we're gonna come.
It's gonna be in page six or whatever. And that's
gonna be good for your business, and.
Speaker 1 (58:32):
You can't fifty dollars.
Speaker 5 (58:35):
Come on, come on, come on, you buy it. You're
drinking Ace of Spades, but you can't put no money down.
Speaker 1 (58:41):
It's trash.
Speaker 2 (58:42):
If you think, if you think the waitresses and the
barteers ain't stealing, they getting a fifty five percent.
Speaker 1 (58:47):
Please believe you didn't hear this from.
Speaker 2 (58:49):
Me, but hey, hey that's celebrity. We're gonna get our
money done. Something's getting spilled, okay, oh the bottle broke.
Speaker 1 (58:59):
Like you know, I think it's funny.
Speaker 3 (59:02):
I can't wait to be rich.
Speaker 5 (59:05):
I think that I'll be okay, But I also feel
like I could also be one of these people that's like,
turn the lights off, don't look at me, and then
and then I want to spotlight when I walk in
so everyone can just see between.
Speaker 4 (59:18):
Because I've had I would say five to ten, I
would say I've been crazy.
Speaker 1 (59:21):
Before, so I have to take that.
Speaker 2 (59:24):
This was the craziest thing. Allegedly, I had a whole
section along the wall. Jana Jackson comes in.
Speaker 3 (59:31):
And she said, oh, yes, smoking up in here.
Speaker 1 (59:33):
No no, no, no, it's a it's a candlelit bar. Whatever.
Allegedly candles everywhere.
Speaker 2 (59:38):
Literally, she sits down, tells them blow out all the
candles over here, ma'am, Now we're looking. Why all the
candles out over there? You're you're bringing more attention to you.
Speaker 1 (59:49):
This is weird.
Speaker 2 (59:50):
So then there's no light, so like waitress literally tripped
over something because she couldn't see. So it was like, hey,
we got to turn this light back on. And then
she had someone move the whole candle holder. I was like,
not her, but probably somebody in allegedly in the camp.
So it was like, I don't know, Maybe I do
(01:00:10):
want to be a celebrity so I can be ridiculous,
like turn all the lights off, turn it lights on,
the lights off, stupid.
Speaker 1 (01:00:19):
I think I'm gonna it's gotta be. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:00:21):
We just like celebs that are nicer but still like
I feel I feel like Rihanna is polite, but she
doesn't take shit. I actually know someone that tried to
be annoying at a club dor and she was like,
and I like that. I think there you can be
real in the moment, like you could be a person.
If someone's being crazy and annoying, you can acknowledge it.
But if people are at work and someone's happy to
(01:00:42):
see you because you're this person that has music that
people love.
Speaker 1 (01:00:46):
Like it's that bad. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:00:47):
I saw Spike Lee walking on my block and I
went and he went and that felt good, like a
not is all I really needed, and I on changed
my day. I go, I'm in New York like I
love it, And it was just a nod like that.
Speaker 5 (01:01:02):
You know.
Speaker 4 (01:01:02):
But if you're not in the mood or you're having
a bad day, I understand being like fuck you, but overall, but.
Speaker 2 (01:01:07):
Then you'll be in your hotel and somebody's like what
bab and she turns around, she's like what, Like, yeah,
I don't, please, don't scream my name.
Speaker 1 (01:01:14):
We're in New York City. You gotta be cooler than that.
Speaker 5 (01:01:17):
You have to be cooler than that, or you wave
or whatever, and then you keep it moving and then
you can scream on your face time, scream on your
live but like act.
Speaker 3 (01:01:27):
Act a little cooler in that.
Speaker 1 (01:01:28):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 5 (01:01:29):
I heard that there's a celebrity that went to use
a public bathroom and they made everybody leave the bathroom
so she could pee or poop or whatever she was
doing in the bathroom.
Speaker 4 (01:01:38):
I get that because I hate when I go to
a comedy club and they don't have a separate bathroom
in the green room and I have to like go
to the bathroom with the people in the show.
Speaker 1 (01:01:45):
I go, that's not okay. Honestly, I want to do
that as a normal person because the way my ibs will, oh.
Speaker 2 (01:01:52):
And we're back okay, because that makes me feel like
it's over. I know, you know that, I say, we
stay talking to each other.
Speaker 1 (01:02:02):
Well, I'll tell you.
Speaker 4 (01:02:03):
The recent message was getting drunk with some friends and
there's another friend that's like I think is cool and
hot and awesome, and I don't think who they're dating
is cool.
Speaker 1 (01:02:12):
As this person went.
Speaker 4 (01:02:13):
She cheats on him, and I went, yes, like what
a nut? I go, I love that, And I you know,
I'll never I said it here. I hope it's Joe,
but I don't think i'll ever. I wouldn't want to
tell anyone ever.
Speaker 1 (01:02:28):
I mean, but I love it. I loved it. I
love it. The joy we all felt like tipsy a
few cocktails, and I mean.
Speaker 3 (01:02:35):
I mean, yeah, let women cheat too, and someone you.
Speaker 1 (01:02:37):
Don't like when you think the girl's cool. I like that.
Speaker 5 (01:02:40):
I do like that I think before we go after
re read the message, I think we should all share
a secret on the pod. Maybe something you haven't told anybody. Yetyeah,
I'm thinking about what my name is.
Speaker 2 (01:02:52):
But yeah, okay, so please you'll send in the audio.
We love hearing your voices. They're very sexy. Yeah, sometimes
people talk too well. Okay, Lisa, maybe on your pot
not our bring audio, call us leave the message.
Speaker 1 (01:03:07):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (01:03:08):
Okay, speed it up, write it down, maybe like practice
La play at one point.
Speaker 1 (01:03:13):
Speed. Yeah, that's the secret. Okay. So Hi, my name
is Christine. So I'm currently in a relationship. Good for you, babe.
Speaker 2 (01:03:21):
And I'm also dating this person who I met while
I was on a break with my current partner. She's
got she's got wealth over here wealth in relationship. Both
men do not know about each other. Both of them
live in a different state than me, and I usually
see them at different times.
Speaker 1 (01:03:37):
Hmm.
Speaker 2 (01:03:38):
Each one has aspect that I want in my life.
So is it bad that I want to be with
both safely?
Speaker 1 (01:03:44):
Of course?
Speaker 2 (01:03:45):
Should I just pick one or stick with both of them?
This is this is teetering on mess teetering.
Speaker 5 (01:03:52):
So you met somebody on the break that you like,
and you're still talking to them. Yes, but you're back
with the person you was on a break from. So
we Polly.
Speaker 1 (01:04:03):
Well, it's only.
Speaker 2 (01:04:04):
Polly if everybody knows about each other, and everybody has
to be in the No, babe, it's a need to
know when you are Polly and you're talking to other people.
Speaker 1 (01:04:12):
You got to put it in the Google's mask. But
I like it, you like it. I like it.
Speaker 4 (01:04:16):
I like that it's different states in the Yeah, the
two guys are in different states from where she lives.
Speaker 1 (01:04:22):
So I like that.
Speaker 4 (01:04:23):
Oh, if it's a long distance, you don't want anyone
anything and you can do whatever. But obviously, like I
believe in honesty.
Speaker 1 (01:04:30):
And being Oh, but I like this.
Speaker 3 (01:04:35):
I like it. I believe honesty.
Speaker 4 (01:04:36):
There's like a fantasy I truly believe in. But I'm like,
I'm in it for her, and this is a fantasy
too cool.
Speaker 1 (01:04:42):
I love it. I mean it is. It's a little mess.
Speaker 5 (01:04:45):
But like, if you're in a long distance relationship, are
you in a relationship and you already had.
Speaker 1 (01:04:49):
A break, fuck that guy.
Speaker 4 (01:04:52):
She's get up little bits from each of them and
hopefully she'll find you know her, mister, that has all
of it combined.
Speaker 2 (01:05:00):
So just tell them though, Like, but the thing is is, well,
Marie told me that or no, I think we talked
about it.
Speaker 1 (01:05:05):
Like, omitting is kind of lying, it's lying. It is
omitting that they say it's was it a white lie?
Speaker 2 (01:05:12):
Because you know, white people do be lying, okay, but
it's white. But omitting is different. It's like if we're talking, talking, talking,
and you never asked me that I'm talking to somebody else, right,
and we're not like established, am I am I lying?
Speaker 1 (01:05:27):
You just never asked me and I didn't tell you.
Speaker 5 (01:05:29):
No, Yeah, I mean, is it exclusive if we're long distance?
I think that's the information that I'm missing here.
Speaker 4 (01:05:36):
I about that man thinks he's in a relationship, but
what's saying that he also isn't dating someone in the
city that they live in because she didn't ask, right.
Speaker 1 (01:05:44):
So that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (01:05:45):
If nobody cares, if the communication isn't very clear, then
anything is up for grab. But I think if you're
if you want to get something off your chest and
like sleep well at night, but you some people don't.
Speaker 1 (01:05:57):
People like the in the gray that's that's hot for them.
Speaker 2 (01:06:00):
Oh, they don't know if we're really together or not, Oh,
I'm talking to somebody else. That's why I think Polly
doesn't work sometimes because everybody's in the know, and it's
like cheating is exciting and lying is fun. Being honest
nobody's nobody's coming so hard to honesty.
Speaker 3 (01:06:20):
I mean, some people probably are some I think more moving.
Speaker 1 (01:06:24):
All this dating stuff.
Speaker 2 (01:06:25):
It's like when people are being like I like you
and into you and picking up in the first ring,
You're like.
Speaker 3 (01:06:31):
Yuck, Well, I like it.
Speaker 4 (01:06:34):
I hate when it's not real, like a love bomb. Yeah,
I'm into love bombs. I like getting love bomb. I mean,
I like several romance in terms of like, I like
the idea of meeting someone and being like, oh yeah
for sure, and then just being together and having it
be a whirlwind romance. Like, I like the idea of that,
(01:06:55):
whether I don't think it's a healthy or good thing.
When you hear people go we got married three weeks
in and they're together forever, that's cool, I think.
Speaker 5 (01:07:03):
I mean, we were talking to a friend this weekend
and she met somebody on vacation right after our my
birthday trip in Morocco.
Speaker 3 (01:07:13):
And now is moving to Europe.
Speaker 1 (01:07:15):
I was like, hey, babe, I did that in La
and our Yeah, but Europe is different than La.
Speaker 2 (01:07:23):
It's like you don't know place, Yes, your place, they're
very very you don't know anybody and don't and don't
speak the language and don't speak the language.
Speaker 4 (01:07:33):
Honey, we're entering fascism, Like let someone like entertain an
escape option?
Speaker 1 (01:07:43):
Yeah? Is that what we're doing now? Yeah? I would.
Speaker 4 (01:07:47):
I'm hoping my special is a success so I can
become rich and famous in London so I can leave.
Speaker 1 (01:07:52):
But I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:07:53):
I think fashions everywhere, listeners is up to y'all. If
we all, if everybody everyone.
Speaker 1 (01:07:58):
I'll tip yeah she people will make post being like
we made the right girl famous? Yeah you are? Would
people really would enjoy you as a famous person? I
hope so? But then when you know, yeah, and then
what And then a hotel room's not ready, and then
I flip out.
Speaker 2 (01:08:19):
Ready I'm at the montre On right now, and can
you believe they're fifteen minutes past not ready for my room?
Speaker 3 (01:08:29):
I mad?
Speaker 1 (01:08:29):
Now I'm out here.
Speaker 2 (01:08:30):
You see my messy bun, my eyeliners everywhere. I thought
I was just gonna walk in and go to sleep. Yeah,
the hotel's gotta get it together. Yeah, because how's the
room not ready? I made this reservation weeks ago.
Speaker 4 (01:08:40):
Because just sometimes when you're taking these flight, you know,
and you're on the road, it's tough.
Speaker 1 (01:08:43):
But I do apologize. I go back downstairs and apologize
post snap. Usually, Oh you do, you have apologize? Everybody.
Speaker 2 (01:08:51):
Make Liza Treger famous, please and make sure you watch
these people.
Speaker 4 (01:08:55):
You hear about certain celebs where the stories are just
kind of jovial or chill and it feels nice toy
story like that.
Speaker 3 (01:09:02):
Yeah, I don't know if it's gonna be you, but yo, No.
Speaker 1 (01:09:06):
I'm thinking Adam Sandler. People like him. He nods, he's happy,
I think to be famous. I mean, he's also in
a sleep shirt everywhere he goes. You should be happy.
Speaker 5 (01:09:16):
He's also wearing a long sleeve shirt under a short
sleeve shirt and wearing basketball shorts.
Speaker 3 (01:09:20):
Of course he's chew.
Speaker 1 (01:09:21):
Yeah, he's happy, like you know what a guy wearing
that is all about.
Speaker 2 (01:09:24):
Yeah, you can't expect somebody in a button down and
some tight ass slacks and some hard bottoms to always
be nodding.
Speaker 1 (01:09:32):
They don't have, you know, they don't comfort so the
less comfortable you are, the more allowance we give to
bad behavior.
Speaker 3 (01:09:39):
I didn't say no, no, no, no, we're saying the
bad behavior is less likely.
Speaker 2 (01:09:42):
Yeah, when someone is in a so Kate lubaton which
you're literally piercing both pinky toes and the big book
like this, if you don't say high back, I get it.
You're focused on let me put one foot, next foot,
next foot. But ooh, like I get it, I get it.
Speaker 1 (01:10:01):
I'd be okay if someone ignored my presence as a
famous person. Oh, because somebody has ignored you and you
were variable.
Speaker 4 (01:10:10):
Well, they didn't just ignore me, They went with their
and I went, oh, okay, okay, we've done whippets together.
Speaker 5 (01:10:18):
But sure, okay Demi Moore, but sure, okay? I mean
did she did she ignore what's her face at the
Golden Globes or not?
Speaker 1 (01:10:27):
Oh? Kylie?
Speaker 3 (01:10:28):
Yeah, I mean we we watched that video over and
over again, like.
Speaker 1 (01:10:31):
Just the woody Oh yeah, what do you think?
Speaker 3 (01:10:34):
I mean, it looks like she she hit her with
a little smile.
Speaker 4 (01:10:36):
And then in my head, she's the same age as
I bet in my head when I saw that she's
the same age as Demi Moore's daughters around. I wonder
if they went to schools together, summer camp, did something together,
and like she doesn't like them, the kids.
Speaker 1 (01:10:49):
The kids are fighting. That's where my brain went.
Speaker 3 (01:10:51):
Has given rumor Willess baby, Yeah maybe.
Speaker 1 (01:10:53):
Tallula was like fuck that bit, and she's like, I'm
gonna fucking ignore her.
Speaker 3 (01:10:57):
Demi Moore, you could do whatever you want, baby, whatever
you want to do.
Speaker 4 (01:11:01):
Do it.
Speaker 1 (01:11:01):
I'm not wanting and beautiful, beautiful, kind and nice. And
she acknowledged you.
Speaker 4 (01:11:07):
Oh yeah, And she gave me a secret and I
have not. You know, I don't tell people allegedly allegedly
and I don't.
Speaker 1 (01:11:14):
She's going to keep it. I keep it.
Speaker 5 (01:11:15):
I would never publicly fu Well, let's wrap this podcast
up so I can hear the secret.
Speaker 3 (01:11:21):
Well, we did what we needed to do.
Speaker 1 (01:11:23):
I have secret. You didn't even think of one.
Speaker 5 (01:11:25):
You don't have a secret.
Speaker 1 (01:11:26):
I asked for one and I can't even think of one.
That's crazy marine. Well, you guys find out our secrets
the next episode.
Speaker 2 (01:11:32):
If you listen and make sure you listen to Lisa
Traggers No Watch or Special Night Out on Netflix.
Speaker 3 (01:11:38):
And if you're not a fan of comedy, which I
don't know what you're doing.
Speaker 1 (01:11:41):
Crazy.
Speaker 3 (01:11:41):
Just go to Netflix, let it play, leave your house
on the way out, on the way out.
Speaker 1 (01:11:48):
Let me in the top ten. That's my escape plan.
I have intimcy issues. I'm not going to meet someone quick,
but I can hopefully get in the top ten.
Speaker 2 (01:11:56):
Right.
Speaker 5 (01:11:56):
And if you're in the top ten, more people will
see you and know who you are, and then they'll
approach you in the lounge at Delta like you don't
to say.
Speaker 4 (01:12:04):
It, like yeah, well yeah, I tried stepping it up
one time on a plane and my family roasted the
shit out of me. When I got off the plane
and they picked me up, they go, why are you
wearing business casual? Are you on your lunch break? And
I went one time, I try to look normal on
a fly.
Speaker 2 (01:12:18):
Also, we have another mess live show coming up too.
Speaker 1 (01:12:23):
Oh and I want to say I went as a
viewer of the live show them. I mean, we were laughing,
we were laughing so much. Was so fun. I love that,
love that so fun. It's the next date, Marie. I
don't know, damn, we gotta know. Wait, okay, hold on,
we got it to twenty two.
Speaker 2 (01:12:42):
Februard twenty seconds see your favorite, Come see mess Live,
bring your mess, review the mess, be a.
Speaker 4 (01:12:51):
Ma that's President's Day, be the mess that you want
to be. Messy, they are messy if you thank you. Messias, Yeah, messiahs,
no Messican. We're working on the names. I'm Mestis.
Speaker 2 (01:13:03):
I like mesties as well, but also Messicans, Messicans that
down the Messicans or mess like munchkins, but mess whatever anyway,
thanks so much, Thank you a pleading the mess.
Speaker 4 (01:13:19):
Mess with Sydney Washington and Marie Foston is a production
by Will Ferrell's Big Money Players and iHeartRadio podcasts, created
and hosted by Sydney Washington and Marie Foston. Executive produced
by Olivia Aguilar and Hans Sonny, super produced by Becca Ramos,
edited and mixed by Brian Jeffries.
Speaker 3 (01:13:36):
If you would like your messages read on air, please
email us at mess Thepodcast at gmail dot com, or
call for your messages to be played at seven six
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Ooh, you're listening to mess. Okay, welcome to.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Girl.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Okay, so listen.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
You already started hot friends.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
I know, I know.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
But the thing is, it's like every time I'll be
trying to go like right into our mess when we
have a guest, and I'm trying to.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Do better at that.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
But I'm happy to be included in the mess right away.
You're right, you're right, but I was starting mid convo
from the last.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
I started convo. Hey, you're still in that convo.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Yeah, yeah, and now you're dropping. Welcome to the college.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
I don't know what's wrong with my brain.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
It's just it's like do this, do that, and do
this and do that, and I'm trying to.
Speaker 5 (00:44):
Do oh the way my yea yeah yeah. So that's
my brain at home. My brain at home is thing is.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
The old world. We're post phone. We are not for long.
That's it's it. We're done, right.
Speaker 5 (00:58):
You see this guests already talking, is already in lot
and to click the link so you know who the guests.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
You know who it is, and it is Lisa Trigger.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
She has a special on Netflix coming out January twenty eight.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
It's already out.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
It's already out. It's already already out out. The date
is out, it's out. It's it's called night out.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
And you have to listen.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
You gotta watch live Love laughing.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
It would have been so good like MTV VJ Sydney
Who that's what you were giving right now? Oh it's
look incredible. No, it's I You know what I did.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
I had a coffee on an empty stomach, and so
it revs me up. But then it also revs up
my ass and I came in running. Yes, I had
to spew out just nonsense.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
You have I have to stop.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
What what is this called stat You are static? Queen.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
Every conversation you're talking about far pooping, weeping, listening for
like six minutes.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
You she's trying to be relatable.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
No, I'm not not relatable, not relatable to be like.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Listen, I should pay.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
That's it's so relatable relatable to baby.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
People are having diarrhea in the streets.
Speaker 6 (02:07):
Don't want to shout out to my ib s, batties
or that listening to mess this girl because sometimes I
don't even know what the food is that is upsetting
me because I'm like, is it I don't It's ever changing,
but it's always an issue, no matter.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
This is one of the girls I want. Doesn't mean
and you know I have it tried a hole. Don't
talk about the size of my hole.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Is it big?
Speaker 4 (02:30):
No, it's a normal hole. I think she made it
seem like it was loosey goosey.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Oh okay, Well my mindes is loose and I'm.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Proud you can hear draft free.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
I already started with my mess.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Oh my god, it's your mess.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Well, my mess is I was talking about I b
s again, But I'm gonna.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Switch that switch that.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
My mess this week is that I don't have any
curtains and I keep watching my neighbors from across.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
Yeah, but you know my opinion on this. I was
encouraging you say, yeah, we.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Bought are I came over and I was I turned
the couch.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
I told her to get a telescope and she goes,
I got to talk to somebody else.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
I didn't want to talk to me. More wrong and
I will go to jail. And so do you have
my do you have money for using it? It has
to be put on a constellation.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Wait what it needs to be like putt in a
different place, or like like a like an art, you know,
like you got to move it around.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
No, you're a little binocular Fuck the telescope.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
That's bad advice for star Yeah, binoculars is for neighbors
and get.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
On the ground. I have watched my neighbors now for
two weeks. But you don't like them. They're boring.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
They're not fucking are boring. I found out how much
people are paying across the way. It's way more than me.
I mean, they're in the hundreds of thousands of dollars
paying for you know, condominiums or whatnot. And it's like,
why do you have overhead lighting? That is nasty, nasty work,
you kidd it is you. You can afford better lighting.
That's lighting that they have in Akia. Just get a lamp.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Get a lamp, get a sexy sex light. You're very
lamp forward.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
And I don't think I learned how disgusted people were
with overhead lighting till very recently in my life.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Have you been underneath underhead lighting? No?
Speaker 4 (04:18):
No, even in my brain, I'm like, oh, my parents
we had lamps. We didn't do overhead lighting. But for
some reason, I just don't think about things and I'll
have over I just I'll watch it with you'll have
to come over and be like, turn the light off
to watch this movie.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
Yeah, well that's something I feel like you should know.
Each day you go to the movie theater, it's better
to watch it in the dark.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
No, I mean lighting there being like, oh I should
do that, but I need to see the flair like
it's not a natural instinct for everybody.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
So I sympathize, like overhead light.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
And every time I go to my mom's house and
they don't have no lamps, yeah, and I'm like whise
and my dad hates the living room light, so it's
always either dark in the living room and bright in
the kitchen.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Are they anti lamp?
Speaker 5 (04:57):
I don't know. I don't know. They just don't have
the Haitians don't believe in lamb.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
What if you buy them a lamp? Were like, you know,
Mother's Day or Father's.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Day, my Father's Day, I shall get them.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Yeah from youell you know, you always have the living room.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Pitch black Mother's Day, Father's Day double lamp. I like
that because they're gonna love the first lamp and they're
gonna go, oh my god, thank you for the lamp.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
I don't use the word love.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Okay, then again, they are Haitian.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
They don't. They don't say that.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
My parents don't either say I love you. No, really,
there's a bit of a special about that. But my
dad went into heart surgery. I said I love you.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
He didn't say it back. He couldn't.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
He smiled, he's I could tell you like that. I
said it, but he couldn't say it back.
Speaker 5 (05:39):
So pretend I'm your dad or pretending your your dad
and I'm it took me a lot.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Of courage too, because we don't say it right. And girls,
so like a hugging house.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Your heart is beating you and your dad is laying down.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
No, not like because it was COVID. So my sister
was the one. She's like in charge. No, no, no, no,
I'm escorting him out of the house, right so I'm like,
I'm grabbing his older in the alley where we're parked,
where my sister's we have alley parking.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
We're in a town home. Okay, I'm sorry, our richest guest.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
This area now, but not in the rich New York way,
in a suburb way. Town home sounds better than house.
Well that's why I said it, because the townhouse is embarrassing. Okay,
tell us what happened.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
So I grab him, I hug him, and I go,
I love you. He smiled.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
I could hear my sister go oh. And then my
dad didn't say it back and he went in the car.
But I thought I would have to say it just
in case.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
You know, Okay, so can you explain this because I
really I grew up that way too, but I'm not
that kind of person.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
I'm such a loving like I have to say.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
It took me a lot of drug trips to get there,
you said, I look, took me a lot of drugs.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
I didn't even like. I didn't want to hug. Yeah,
it took me along. You don't like you don't like
touching you not.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
You really pushed the limb. You're one of the people
that push I've gotten better. I've gotten better. I had
like a bil I push the limit? Do you push?
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Yeah? With her?
Speaker 4 (07:02):
Know you're a petty you always you know. I had
a friend in like high school in early twenties. She's
like she liked to be pet and I would be like,
I don't want to pet you, and she's like, you're weird.
Speaker 5 (07:11):
You need to get hold on hold on, hold on,
hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
She liked to be pett you're.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
Weird, like she liked to be like touch, like she
just wanted to be pet And yeah, I also didn't
like touching pregnant bellies. And someone made me feel bad
and they're like, you need to touch my belly, and
I'm like, it makes me uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Well, I can't touch a pregnant belly unless they tell you.
If this person grabbed my hand and put it on
their belly, I didn't want it, and did did the
baby kick you? It did not. It makes me physically uncomfortable.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
That's how I feel about babies and tiny dogs. Oh
I want to hold a baby, a baby, I'm afraid
I'm going to drop it a little like teacup dog.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
I'm afraid I'm going to break it.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Which is these are all valid reasons to not want
to really hold right touch because.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
It's like I saw a dog.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
What about a four month old their next baby that's.
Speaker 5 (07:59):
A little more dense, Yeah, you know, like like a
rosebud baby. Yeah, baby was indestructively Yeah. Yeah, Like I'm like,
this is like a bag of flower, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Like a bag of rice, you know, yes, back of
the back of rice. Rosebud shout out to Minnow being heavy.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
Well, I mean that's already.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
No, Truly, she should go on like American Ninja warrior,
like I know Rosebud from for carrying the baby, like
I think she would excel on survivor or something. And really,
because I I've only held the baby once and I
don't think I've even made it five I handed it off,
baby baby.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
I'm trying to figure out if this because now I
realize both of you guys are very similar in the
like touching and being affectionate and stuff like that.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
I love you to friends. I had to be taught that.
You have to be taught that. Marie.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
I count on my hands how many times this bitch
I said I love you, and I was like, if
I passed, Marie, do you feel comfortable with that?
Speaker 3 (08:53):
I'd be like, love you always through trap and I
would hate that.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
I cannot everything I see it. I'm like will Strang,
tiny Korean heart. I like that. I gotta learn how
to do it. Does this dun't?
Speaker 4 (09:12):
I don't promote its dunk you just say I love you,
just hug, just be like I do, I do.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
I think I do? Yah, hugged.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
I'm gonna say it to my mom on the phone
next time I speak to her and see what happened,
and she's gonna be like bye.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
My mom will text it, but never out loud. Is
it l O v E or l ug? She started
doing it.
Speaker 4 (09:32):
I wonder if she like found something on the internet
about me talking about her or something.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
My mom doesn't know how to use the internet. I
found out my.
Speaker 4 (09:39):
Mom was googling my Twitter and going on it. No,
your mother, that's what my sister let it slip.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
That's invasive.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
That's mess.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
That's mess. That's mess.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
And actually, where do you think I get it from?
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Well, I mean we talked about Sydney's, but that was
your mess.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
Yeah, and I would really like to talk to Lisa
about what her mess is for today.
Speaker 4 (09:59):
Yeah, this was mom mess. Hold on before we and
we need to get in therefore we will. I also,
we obviously have the final topic. But then I was thinking, like,
you know, what else is messy in my life? What
the apartment?
Speaker 1 (10:10):
That's physical mass. Yeah, that's physical mess. Yeah, it doesn't matter,
it doesn't count.
Speaker 6 (10:14):
No.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
I went over there and I cleaned it. Since you can,
I would be I think it'd be impressed, but I wasn't.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
When I went over there, I wasn't mad at it.
I was like, you are very active.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
You're in and out. You have a lot to do, and.
Speaker 5 (10:28):
You're saying a lot about what the place looks like.
You set the scene. You're very active. That means it
looks like a Tasmanian devil wrin.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Now you're in and out.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
That means the colts just fall away.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
The fall you have a lot going on, means you
take your panties off, you leave them on the floor.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
I see panties on the floor. I saw panties on
the floor. I saw them, and I said, we're close,
we're friends, family, I got like a good neighbor. We're
dating city there. Yeah, so that's your physical mass.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
But what what else? What else? The question? Also have
a I have a prop mess. Actually, you're gonna be mad.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
You are a prop person now because you're a show.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
Your show. But I noticed it's gonna bother you. So
that's why I think I should.
Speaker 3 (11:11):
It's gonna bother me.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Do you don't care?
Speaker 4 (11:14):
Oh, but Sydney has said she's gonna pray for me.
But I have another I have another letter.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
From a letter from who you brought this?
Speaker 4 (11:22):
I didn't, I wrote I was inspired, so I wrote
it today. But I'm gonna drop it off.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
But I only trust dropping off mail near a post office?
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Wait?
Speaker 1 (11:30):
Who did you write a letter to five? To Luigi
in prison? Oh? Did you? Is the letter sealed? Can
we read it now? Of course it's sealed, it's taped. It' saled.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
Let's seem it open. Okay, you know what I'm so.
But it's my second letter.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
But she was a second letter. Second girl.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
You can't barely respond to people text message, but here
you are handwriting something to a man.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
We don't even know if he's gonna read it. Wait,
hold on, you hand wrote a note? Yes? How do
you write a letter?
Speaker 3 (11:56):
You type it and print it out inside.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Do you have a printer house? Yeah? And it was
a passed down.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Nobody both climber passed down the stressing. Now I give
one to Jared Goldstein has one of my printers.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
I think someone has another one. It's kind that's been beautiful.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Somebody would have way both.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Why you you know, Lisa, what are you saying?
Speaker 4 (12:21):
I think it's important. I think we have to pay attention.
We can't let this case slide. It's with the terrorism charges.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
He is the new business and we should be the
most no locked, but no, no no.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
I also the incarcerated firefighters, so that so I was
filling him in on the fires.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
You don't think they have TVs in prisons.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
Tell us what you're writing.
Speaker 4 (12:43):
But when I was at the MET yesterday there was
a a criminal corrections way.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
I didn't go for that, but I was not No,
I went for something.
Speaker 4 (12:53):
I have a friend with a piece of the mate
left his special to How honestly, I've never felt cooler
than going to the Met and being like, I know
this person. And then two women were walking towards his piece,
and one of them said I want that, And then
I saw them like read read the description, and.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
You're like, that's my friend.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Like maybe, so wait, why are you writing, Luigi? Tell me?
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (13:22):
It seems like definitely sick. Like maybe I should like up,
back up in therapy, but I do feel.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
I want to hear. I do feel passionate about this case.
Go to therapy. Yeah, I should say it louder. Yeah, yeah,
from your direphrag. But other therapists did send me a
name like eight months ago, but I.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
Just the therapists said it's too much for me.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
No, you know when you're no. We parted ways and
then I had a couple I needed her.
Speaker 5 (13:51):
And then you know when you're on the call with
someone and you're like, can I speak to your supervisor
because you clearly can't help me. Yes, that's what your
therapist did for you. Yes, okay, So all right, well,
I'm sure you have a draft of the letter somewhere.
I would love to hear.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
No draft, I go straight to the on the card.
So wait in the card?
Speaker 2 (14:08):
So wait, do you strap a car out and use
white out or you're just you're this is a this
is a rough draft, and you're making no And I
like thought about it and.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Took a few notes, but then with this swam, yeah,
just free form. I wish I was passionate about something
like this.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
It feels like stuff that feels like jail homework.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
I gotta go to this.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
I got to pick up a card and then I
gotta write it's small enough, not thing that I want
to put in there fits in the car. Then I
gotta get a stamp. Yeah, and then I have an
idea for the next one.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
But Lisa, again, why writing I don't know.
Speaker 4 (14:44):
I feel passionate about it, miss but honestly people have
sent him so many books they're sending it back to publisher.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
Well, I don't know. I have to like confirm the info.
Speaker 5 (14:52):
Okay, Lisa, you're here to answer the question, Please give
it for me.
Speaker 3 (14:56):
Are secrets myths?
Speaker 4 (14:58):
I think it's secrets, gossip, talk, shap I don't know
if they're all three separate categories.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
Are all want at Which one is it?
Speaker 5 (15:03):
I think I think gossip, gossip, gossip, Missy. It can
be it's fun.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
You have to wield it responsibly. Wield it responsibly with gossip,
can you explain to us?
Speaker 4 (15:15):
I think when someone does say you need to lock
this down, you lock it down to earn trust, like
when things are very serious you need to prove your
trustworthiness and keep your mouth.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Shut to what serious I'm putting?
Speaker 4 (15:29):
I don know what are the things that you've told
me that I can't tell anyone that I will know
one about girl?
Speaker 1 (15:33):
But what I mean?
Speaker 4 (15:35):
But I didn't tell anyone until it started spreading, and
then I was like, then I want this. Once I
heard it, I got to be like, oh, but I
didn't have to reveal a source. I didn't need to
talk about it. You know every people already knew.
Speaker 5 (15:48):
Well, Lisa, let's talk what gossip have you heard about
Sydney that everybody already knew?
Speaker 1 (15:52):
I don't. I don't think I would allow gossip to happen.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
Okay, and that's what people already knew. So was it
like her moving back to New York?
Speaker 1 (15:59):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (15:59):
Not about.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
Else?
Speaker 1 (16:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (16:04):
Somebody, somebody, somebody was Oh, nothing like that. Okay, yeah, No,
it was somebody dating someone big and person.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
I didn't even remember what it was.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
I honestly write down all of the gossip that I
say to you to make sure if I hear it again,
I'll be like totally.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
But you know what, I feel like, I've come on
here and I'm gonna expose. I'm here to expose.
Speaker 4 (16:25):
Yes, you taught me about invisible ink. That that's you
got you You weren't doing that before? No, I don't
even I still don't know how to do it.
Speaker 5 (16:33):
You got to hold the button, but no, don't still
release it, and then you gotta kind of shake your
thumb a little bit invisible ink.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
I love when I get an invisible I love it.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
Invisible ink is mess because the person who is over
your shoulder looking already knows that something that was written
is mess, and that's why they have to have it.
Speaker 3 (16:50):
Well, it's mess to be over my shoulder looking at
me when I'm looking at my one.
Speaker 1 (16:55):
Why is it? Why are you lurking and leering? Why not?
Speaker 4 (16:58):
Huh?
Speaker 3 (16:59):
Why are you?
Speaker 4 (16:59):
Don't?
Speaker 1 (17:00):
I would go to a court protector, I would go
to a court.
Speaker 5 (17:02):
I'd go, well, no, because I sent Sidney something in
invisible ink ones and she fully read it with the
person and I was talking to her mind and they
were looking at her phone. So yeah, invisible in the corrus.
Speaker 3 (17:23):
Arrest and then arrested. I think they saw. I was like,
they wouldn't let.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Them say definitely, definitely. Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (17:30):
That reminds me of one of my big flaws is
I will say something I thought someone already knew, and
then it ruins the night because they didn't know we
were keeping it from them.
Speaker 3 (17:38):
Did didn't you what a surprise party wants?
Speaker 1 (17:42):
I've never wrote, oh maybe.
Speaker 3 (17:43):
Yeah, Sydney's surprise dinner, but no.
Speaker 4 (17:47):
One used the word surprise, and I sent screenshots. I
had screenshots and I sent them to the people that.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Were accusing me.
Speaker 5 (17:52):
But why would you talk to the person who whose
birthday party it is or dinner it is?
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Have ignored her?
Speaker 5 (17:59):
Have you ignored I'm saying, I'm saying saying she had not.
She was not the one who invited you. So you
can't talk to the like you and Sydney talk almost
every day.
Speaker 4 (18:09):
No, for sure, it was also my karma because Rob
Hayes ruined Sidney's surprise birds already that I was planning
in La and I went at him.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
She did, and so this was my lesson of being
like you can you can be the flubber up too.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
I think that gossip it happens, and we should all
know that when you tell somebody else, it's in the universe.
The universe already knows that you're running your mouth, So
the chances of it not being told can only happen
if you don't run your mouth.
Speaker 4 (18:39):
But for me, but do you feel like you guys
have this relationship or not? Where if there is a
person where someone tells me and I go, well, I'm
gonna tell her, and then they have to specify I'm
not going to tell my about people.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
Tell me you cannot tell Marie because they know I'm
going straight to her. Yeah. Literally, while they're telling me,
I'm texting and Red like, girl, I'm calling her.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
I'm sitting I'm like, do you hear this right now?
But if they say no, Marie, then I don't tell Marie.
Or I'll be like Marie, if I tell you this, girl, you.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
Yeah, so do you do that?
Speaker 3 (19:14):
I feel like a good chunk.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
Only only a few people will be like, don't tell Marie.
But for the most part, people already know I'm about
to tell her. But if you can trust Marie.
Speaker 4 (19:24):
Because they're telling you because they want remember though they like,
she will not remember talking about.
Speaker 1 (19:29):
She's not good.
Speaker 5 (19:30):
Sidney tells me she don't get it, and then I'll
go back to her and I'll be like, let me
tell you what I heard. And I'm like and Sidy
be like I told you that, and I'd be like, oh,
so you already have the tea yeah, and it's like yeah.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
No, I'm the one that goes someone's my favorite when
someone tells me something and be like, yeah, I started that,
you create, Yeah I did that. I figured that out.
But I also I also don't wouldn't.
Speaker 4 (19:54):
I don't want to fuck with someone I have done it,
though I've made huge mistakes with my getting in the
we need all of it. This is I'm embarrassed by this.
I have apologized to this person multiple times. Okay, but
I did get someone fired and it was none of
my business and I and I don't like fucking with
people's money, and that.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
Was like a bad thing. Are you being Karen right now?
You got the work, Karen.
Speaker 4 (20:18):
It was defending other people that I but I should
have gone to the person directly, and I should not have.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
I was. I was messy and it had like real
what did you say? Sacrifice? I can't, it'll it's just
let me. I'm trying to figure out how to say
it with that, but I don't. But in terms of gossip,
I I fucked up that time, but I try not
to fuck with people's money.
Speaker 4 (20:37):
Or like when someone got home they fired. If someone's cheating,
you know, you know, I don't know except a friend.
Now I would tell a friend if well, if.
Speaker 5 (20:45):
Someone's cheating on your friend, yeah you should tell your friend.
But if your friend cheating on someone, that's not no, no, no, no,
of course not really. If my friend is cheating on
somebody and I'm friends.
Speaker 1 (20:55):
With, what if it's double friends, that's a good one.
Speaker 4 (20:59):
It depends because that's my thing. I think a lot
of my guy friends know I'm not that I'm not
that cool, and that's good. I'm gonna tell him now
they should know. But women, you're like, girl, no, I
found her a friend's person on bumball and people were like,
did you tell her? And I go within ten seconds
of screenshots were son like I didn't even think twice.
Speaker 1 (21:20):
Yeah, right.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
My whole thing is is like getting into people's relationship stuff.
It happens all the time. I'll do my due diligence,
be a good friend, and that bitch will turn right
back and be with him. And now I got to
stare at him at this fucking event and be like yeah,
and and he looking at me like fucking bitch, and
he's like, so now we don't like each other. It's
(21:43):
obvious we can't be in the same room. This is
your fartis, this is your funt. I told you your
man ain't shit.
Speaker 1 (21:48):
You told him that I said he ain't shit, and
I saw him do something and now you'll still together.
Speaker 4 (21:52):
And the reason you don't think he's anything. I ain't shit.
He ain't shit, But it doesn't sound correct.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
Don't let get it clean for the character?
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Yeah, the reason ship.
Speaker 4 (22:08):
That's the titles episodes. Because she's talking about him to you.
It's like on her to keep her mouth shut. But
do you think the thing about she's confused when I
don't like them.
Speaker 5 (22:19):
But that's the thing about relationships is if you tell
people everything that their person, your person does wrong, we
go judge them based on what we know.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
Then when you forgive them, everyone is still like but
he ain't shit.
Speaker 4 (22:31):
That's why you need to go to therapy. You can't
tell people that you want this person to get along
with later.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
What do you mean?
Speaker 4 (22:37):
Like you can if you are married to someone or
with someone a long time and you want to be
with them. I don't think you should be telling like
you can vent to a friend once in a while
or something, or a fight, but like, but not everything.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
You can't.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
Really you gotta be specific about what the fight is
because if it's a fight that it's like an integrity
thing or you think that person is putting your friend down.
I don't don't tell me. I'll be like, this is
this is not a good person because that's a character flaw. Yeah,
we're gonna hate that person. Yeah, like it's a yeah,
that person is dead to me, Maria is good for
that person is dead to me. If you if you
(23:11):
say that this person has done you wrong, Mari will
be solid.
Speaker 5 (23:14):
I hate them until I die. Yeah, until they die, yea,
because I'm probably gonna live for a long time.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
Also, I think that's I think that's weird. Which somebody
has told you about this too. It's like if you
gossip about somebody and then I see you hanging out
with the person.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
I'm bad about that you do that.
Speaker 4 (23:32):
Oh yeah yeah, but but I also tell you more
than I tell Joe blow right, Like I've definitely better
like just any random like you might be hearing more
about a person that is bothering me, that's in my
life that I'm gonna hang out with, but I probably
wouldn't talk about that. I would, though you would. I
(23:53):
I hate The worst is when you reveal too much
and you immediately know you did the wrong thing or
like that's the worst. So you're like, fuck, I know this,
I know this person is gonna react badly. This is
gonna happen, Like what the fuck you dumb?
Speaker 1 (24:05):
What do you mean? Like the like the moment the
words leave your mouth, like you know you shouldn't have
told that person. Has that happened to you, Marie?
Speaker 5 (24:14):
Sure of course, like absolutely. I can't think of a
specific example right now. But sometimes you'll be out, you'd
be like at a party, or you'd be at a bar,
or you'd be at a show and someone asked you
a question about somebody else's life or I don't know whatever,
and I'll be like, well, you know my sister blah
blahlah bah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 3 (24:35):
And then after I'll be like, oh, well, maybe I
shouldn't have been saying O my.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Sister's business, you know, Marie.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
But you are good for not telling my business because
I will be going through something and somebody won't know
because you're like.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Yeah, she's great, she's killing it. Yeah, Allie's great. La
is great. I think everyone knew everyone, Yeah, everybody they
already knew.
Speaker 3 (24:55):
Yeah, you were on.
Speaker 5 (24:56):
You were on people like you were on in the
story with a Bob, and you'll hoodie over the hob
with your face in a dog's like stomach, talking about
how much you hated La for like a year.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
People know the people.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
Yeah, why do you like hearing secrets?
Speaker 5 (25:34):
Now?
Speaker 1 (25:35):
I love secrets well, and it's like bonding. It's fun.
Speaker 4 (25:39):
And I again sorry to mention the special I do
a bit about talking shit. It is a passion of mine.
But it's like, what do you mean say it to
my face? Like, let me talk about you in the car?
Speaker 1 (25:49):
I love.
Speaker 4 (25:50):
It's really hard to be around as people like we're difficult,
we're annoying, we do annoying things, We're rude our front
Like shit happens.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
You don't want it always to be a fight and
a big thing.
Speaker 4 (25:59):
And so it's like, yeah, talk about like I don't know,
venting I think is maybe venting to in an inner
group is different than shit talking.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
Well, I'm sure I was talking to somebody who like
was talking about like a person that they work it
or whatever. I was like, well, do they know this is?
Like do they have you spoken to them? And they're like, oh,
you know, I don't know what. But I was like,
do you want a solution? Do you want to keep
being mad at them and have these issues or do
you just want to talk shit? Because if you just
want to talk shit, that's fine. But don't talk to
(26:28):
me as if you need help, because I'll just give
you an ear if you need any.
Speaker 1 (26:32):
But you're also good at formulating an email or a
spraise or like kind of community's chat GPT, and that's nice. Yeah,
I am chat GPT for some of my friends.
Speaker 4 (26:42):
Direct people struggle with direct communication and awkward situition.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
You know, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
I think gossip is fun. I mean it's not the.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
Worst one time, sorry, center up, but once I got
I just say you hadn't let me fis Oh my god?
Speaker 5 (27:00):
Yeah, sorry, and you My memory is bad. Every time
I start to say something, y'all will cut me off.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
You know, I'm glad she is included. I'm sorry because I'm.
Speaker 5 (27:09):
Like, I'm sitting here looking at and I'm like, they're
really having a conversation, like I'm not.
Speaker 3 (27:15):
Oh my god, no, change my cup, no, oh my god,
it's open.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
Tell us.
Speaker 3 (27:23):
I don't even remember what I was gonna say.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
It was just my bad flood. I'm sitting here. Wow,
I feel devastated by it's really Lisa cutting you off.
That's bad. Well, she's including you. Yeah, Lisa, but we
were talking about like why do you like secrets? Like
(27:48):
gossip is fine.
Speaker 5 (27:49):
I feel like the word gossip gets a bad rap.
It's not always bad. We're not always talking ship. Sometimes
we're just like sharing your business and we're like I
did that once in third grade.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
I think it's fun. Anyway, now that I said it,
I feel like I didn't need to say it.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
No the herd So.
Speaker 1 (28:07):
That was the clip friend. Yeah, gossip gets the bad rap. Yeah,
that is the type it's says it is.
Speaker 4 (28:14):
It's sexistause men don't want to talk to each other,
so what we do is trivial and annoying and bad
and we're causing drama and it's like you know nothing
about your friends and you're all taking your own lives.
Speaker 3 (28:23):
I feel like men gossip about like athletes that they
like and like Drake.
Speaker 4 (28:29):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (28:29):
I think the classic kind of like a joke is
like a husband will be like, oh, yeah they broke up.
What happened?
Speaker 4 (28:36):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (28:36):
I didn't ask. They don't ask nothing. It's like, what
the fun? You don't know when?
Speaker 4 (28:39):
How?
Speaker 1 (28:39):
What? Like? What are you talking about? They're getting divorced
and you know nothing? Yeah, what happened? I don't know.
Speaker 3 (28:46):
She kind of mean and then they die along.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
Problem though, I do hear the information and then I
go to Marie and Marie rull be like so why
and I'm like, oh, you know, they was saying stuff,
but I was like listen, I was in and out.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
I couldn't.
Speaker 2 (28:58):
Yeah, you are giving me a piece of the t Yeah,
a piece of the tea. A piece of a piece
of the tea.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
I like that title as well. No, I have one friend.
She knows I'll fly off the handle, so she does that.
Speaker 3 (29:09):
What do you mean?
Speaker 1 (29:10):
She'll allude to stuff and be like that's all you
actually need to know. No, but then you'll you will
ask constantly. You want to know. Help maybe, but not
with this leather person.
Speaker 4 (29:20):
They have different boundaries because they know you and they
know that they're not trying to set you off.
Speaker 1 (29:24):
Yeah, but you are very passionate, Lisa about a lot
of stuff. I know, I gotta get a life.
Speaker 5 (29:30):
I gotta get do you allow life and its talking? Yeah,
it includes secrets.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
I know.
Speaker 2 (29:38):
I do get annoyed at the people who will be like, oh, yeah, no,
I don't want to get involved, shut up.
Speaker 1 (29:44):
I want to be a. Yeah, they're like goodie to no, No,
I don't want to talk about No, I don't. I
don't got but I don't want to.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
It's like, okay, so you're people who are like I
don't gossip. They talk about themselves a lot, and that
it's the people that go, I don't have a TV,
but watch it on their laptop. Yes, you're being annoying.
Still I am person.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
It's like, you don't want to get involved, but I
know you got. I know you're tied up in something though.
Speaker 4 (30:14):
I will just listen to something, but I on the street,
on the street at dinner, or like if if we're
out to dinner and then I hear somethings riling up
over here, and I'll be like, oh I need, I
need I.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
Yeah, it's fun that.
Speaker 5 (30:30):
I'll be at dinner and my eyes will glaze over
and people be like, right, Marie, and I'll be like,
I'm not listening to nothing, y'all saying they arguing over there.
Speaker 4 (30:36):
If me does, it comes from genuine interest of like
people behavior. I don't know, like a part of me.
I think it's interested in humanity. I don't think it's
yeah bad, is it?
Speaker 6 (30:48):
Is?
Speaker 4 (30:49):
It?
Speaker 5 (30:49):
Messy to care about. And it's not even necessarily care.
Is it messy just to want to know? Because we
don't necessarily care about what we're hearing. We just want
to know the information.
Speaker 1 (31:00):
No I care.
Speaker 2 (31:01):
Whenever somebody passes away and they post about it, you're
going to have to tell me what happened. I need
to know something like I need like you need to
put like a mental health awareness so I know, oh,
it might be suicide or it's like, you know, in
the hashtag, you're like drive by suck, like like now
I know that person who was in a drive by, Yes,
(31:21):
but I need to But I always going the comments
and I somebody would be like what happened, question mark,
and that's insensitive. And then somebody were like he got
shot outside and I'm like, thank you, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 1 (31:33):
I want to know.
Speaker 2 (31:35):
I need to know because then it's like how much
am I going to be invested in this? You know,
if it was like a freak accident, I'm out, I
clicked out. But if it's like someone did commit suicide,
then I'm going to their page. That's how weird I am.
Speaker 3 (31:47):
But that just helped me.
Speaker 4 (31:49):
Someone famous recently passed and no one's saying the reason
the family doesn't want to Oh that sound like that
we know what that means, right, yeah, but I get
you know, well, this is when you were like, gossip
is good when you know I interrupted a fla flah.
I was gonna say one time someone's like, oh, I
(32:10):
have gossip, And then it was that a friend we
knew relapsed and was on hair and then again, and
I go, that's not what I want to hear it
at all. That's actually like, that's worse than us. It's tragic,
and it's like, is their action or not? Like and
for you to think that that's info I want. I
don't like what you think of me because that or
(32:31):
the way you spun it. But I'm like, that's not
the gossip I want.
Speaker 2 (32:33):
I can't stand when somebody is like talking about somebody close.
Speaker 1 (32:38):
I'm like, why did you think that I was gonna
be okay with that?
Speaker 5 (32:41):
Like yes, oh that's yes, Wait, that's your favorite when
they talk about someone you're cool with.
Speaker 4 (32:47):
This happened to me once with someone where they started
talking shit about someone I was friends with, and I
was like, are you out of your fucking you stopped it?
Speaker 1 (32:55):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (32:55):
I went all in and then I've yelled at them again.
I mean it's been normal because I've calmed down, but
I've screamed at them in an elevator before. Yeah, Like
it went crazy where I was like are you I
went nuts because I was like, why it means you
don't have friends?
Speaker 5 (33:10):
No, it means that you don't have no decorum, because
why are you talking to me about my friend?
Speaker 1 (33:14):
You know, I'm cool with this person.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
But if somebody is talking about a friend, do you
are like, oh, I kind of do want to know
what you're about to say, so I could tell my friend.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
But then it's like then your friend is like, so
you heard all that? And then what?
Speaker 3 (33:27):
Yeah, what did you say?
Speaker 1 (33:28):
No, I'm like pretty reactive. I was okay, get mad,
I don't want to know nothing. Don't tell me anything.
I'm gonna curse unless I think my friend also is
a fucking idiot in this moment.
Speaker 4 (33:38):
Because I did defend someone once and then I went
back and listened to the thing that in question, and
it was it was mad.
Speaker 1 (33:44):
I was like, yeah, I get why they didn't like you.
Speaker 5 (33:49):
I'm torn between two I'm between two firms on this
because part of me does want to be able to
be like what the fuck is wrong with you? Or
like are you out of your mind like you did
on the elevator explosively. But then the other part of
me is like, well, I kind of want to hear
what you're gonna say so that I can tell my
friend what you just said if.
Speaker 1 (34:06):
You but you want to hear everything, right, But then
you got to curse the mouth after. I feel like
my face changes so much.
Speaker 4 (34:13):
The back pedal. I like a back pedal when someone
thinks they're and you're like, I actually don't like what
you're saying to me right now.
Speaker 1 (34:23):
Well, this happened to me and Marie years ago where
something happened between me. It was cereal Gate with me
and our friend Carolina ciel Gate.
Speaker 2 (34:33):
Cereal Gate was it was explosive, It was really really bad,
and Carolina had went back to Marie and said something
to her about it. And Marie is in the middle, right,
But Marie is my best friend. I don't have to
be Marie's she is mine, So it's like, why would
you go to my best friend about this?
Speaker 1 (34:52):
That you got to go to your best friend about that?
Speaker 2 (34:54):
So then Marie kind of got worked up listening to
also her close friend or whatever, best friend, whatever you whatever.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
You want, and then Marie was coming for my neck.
Speaker 2 (35:06):
It felt like it because she was just like, well,
if you did that, that's fucking that's not You're not
being a good friend. I said, Oh, so then I
got mad at you, got madder madder at Carolyn. Why
would you go to my best friend? But Marie Carolyne
is like, wait, hold on, now we're all friends, and
it's like, uh uh, you gotta be real specific and
real particular about the words because we're all close.
Speaker 4 (35:28):
But it's also the opposite of what we said earlier.
Venting in a group is different than gossipping out doors.
But she should have told her and her friend or best.
Speaker 5 (35:36):
Friend, Carolina famously a virgo as well. You know, I
think Carolina knows that what my energy is. You know,
I was a mediator in second grade, so she knew
that your mediator, Marie mediator. And second Marie, I mean, Sidney,
you know this about me friend or not my friend.
I am listening to the facts. Yeah, okay, I'm the
judge judy here and I'm listening, and I'm like, well,
(35:57):
that sounds wrong, and that sounds right because Sidney was like,
you always say Carolina's side, and Carolina was like, you
always say Sydney's side, And I'm like, no, no, no, I'm.
Speaker 1 (36:05):
With the truth, babe.
Speaker 5 (36:07):
I'm with the truth of truth. I'm on the right side,
on the right side. But let's pivot real quick. We're
all you know, it's in a couple of years. It's
twenty twenty five, let's say twenty twenty six, twenty twenty seven.
Our careers have exploded. We we're famous, we're doing well,
we're thriving. Are we making people sign NDAs?
Speaker 1 (36:28):
Yeah, but my career will be ruined with everything I've
already said about this is part.
Speaker 4 (36:35):
I just say crazy shit on podcasts for years. And
I was young, like we started young, so it's like
before we podcasts were even a thing. Twitter was nothing
like we were in the beginning. So it's like, and yeah,
I'm sure he said crazy stuff.
Speaker 1 (36:49):
Oh girl.
Speaker 3 (36:49):
I think first podcast I ever did, I was yacking.
Speaker 5 (36:55):
And somebody that was cool with my ex heard the
episode because I was like, what is a podcast? Like,
nobody listens to this. Somebody heard it and then told him,
and I think he listened to it. And he hit
me up about it. Yeah, and he was like, that's
crazy that you would just say all that. And I
was like, that's crazy that you listen.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
To Yeah, why would you listen? That's another thing.
Speaker 2 (37:15):
It's like, if you are a very close friend, why
the f are you listening to my podcast?
Speaker 1 (37:20):
You talk to me on a regular basis, that's right. No, No,
what if you guys have a guest, I'm interested to them.
You better look that guests up and see them on
another podcast.
Speaker 4 (37:31):
No, look what about but I put on this tradio.
I listened to your stradio lab. Do you think I'm
a freak.
Speaker 1 (37:40):
I don't know. Yeah, I just think that we are,
you know, public figures. That is what we are. It
says it on our Instagram. We are. We are for
the masses. Right, So if you are a close friend,
what I'm saying on a podcast is not for you.
Speaker 2 (37:56):
It's for the masses. So you kind of listening in
on like an interpretation of what I need to, like
be reped up for somebody to follow me. You misinterpreted it.
Speaker 1 (38:08):
This wasn't for you, babe.
Speaker 2 (38:09):
If I'm talking, but I'm talking to you, right, If
I'm dating somebody, I'm gonna tell them, like the good stuff.
Speaker 1 (38:16):
Nobody wants to hear that.
Speaker 2 (38:17):
That's not gonna get clicks. They're like, oh, you're in
a love relationship. They don't hit you like no, no,
they don't hit you. Raised to say, but I'm just
saying like people like the mess, people like the strife,
the ridiculousness of it all. So it's like, if you're
a close friend and I'm retelling a story, I'm not
gonna tell, like exactly what happened.
Speaker 1 (38:39):
If it's dull, you know, I'm.
Speaker 4 (38:41):
Not gonna call you and go, you dumb bet you
said something different to me than on the pod.
Speaker 1 (38:46):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (38:47):
I'm not gonna agree with you on this. Sydney, don't
we want to support?
Speaker 5 (38:51):
I want my friends reposted, reposted I'm cool with my
friends listening. I'm cool with my friends reposting.
Speaker 4 (38:58):
If I'm dating you, don't podcast, Yes, don't watch Why Special,
don't watch anything.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
Get out of my life.
Speaker 4 (39:05):
It's an unfair, imbalanced because you can know everything about
us in a day. You can sit and listen and
know every opinion on everything, And it's unfair, right because.
Speaker 3 (39:16):
I know nothing about you, nothing, because you are a
man who has no hobbies.
Speaker 4 (39:21):
No, I'm curious saying it like you it's unfair, and
then you're coming it's it's creepy.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
It's like doing research on someone before you know them.
Speaker 4 (39:27):
It's like this was a rom com pre podcast and
someone was like following you and your interests and learning
and then they can change who.
Speaker 3 (39:34):
They are, Like it's giving you on Netflix?
Speaker 1 (39:37):
Saw there you Yeah, yeah, but never been a fan
of that.
Speaker 5 (39:42):
I don't like I can't date anybody who I feel
like knows more about me than I know about them.
Speaker 2 (39:46):
Okay, but what about talking about like gossiping about dating,
like on a public platform or even to other people?
Speaker 3 (39:54):
Like how who I'm talking to you?
Speaker 1 (39:56):
Yeah? Like how juicy can it be?
Speaker 4 (39:58):
How like you have to that's Taylor Swift. But if
a man talks shit, I don't owe him nothing. So
I think you could talk. If someone does you wrong,
you can talk about them all you want. And happened
to you, it's your story, you could.
Speaker 1 (40:10):
Talk about it.
Speaker 4 (40:11):
I can talk about friends. I had an ex through
someone be like, can you stop talking about this person?
And I went absolutely not. I'm gonna talk about you
as much as I want. Yeah, I talk about dates online.
I'm gonna talk about you. Yeah, if it's good or
funny or really really bad and some person that you're
gonna date is gonna be into that. I think it's funny,
(40:31):
not care or like yeah, I means being riled up.
I still don't want them to listen, but I probably
talk about you.
Speaker 1 (40:39):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (40:39):
I had somebody that I was dating that there was
like I heard what you said and that was like,
I didn't think that was funny. That was very personal
looking up us like any of that. It's weird if
someone did that to you and saying and they know
it's you, that's that I don't like.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
She was like, I don't like that, like was very
and I never even thought.
Speaker 2 (41:01):
About it like that because I was like, I'm on podcast,
I'm having fun.
Speaker 1 (41:04):
It's like, yeah, I don't.
Speaker 2 (41:06):
It's the way we say stuff. It's funny. But for
then they were like, but that's not your person.
Speaker 5 (41:12):
But that's why you got to be like someone I
dated once, Yeah, you got to make it sound like
it happened, you know the pro Yeah, you'll be like
I dated this guy once, what did he say? And
it's somebody that's said.
Speaker 1 (41:26):
I was in London, and I do it.
Speaker 4 (41:28):
I had an old joke about leaving DNA when you're
hooking up with someone.
Speaker 1 (41:31):
But I was in London.
Speaker 4 (41:32):
I met someone on an app and then was taking
a car to hook up with them, and I tweeted
about it. And then when I arrived, he was like,
you know, you're pretty easy to find on the internet.
Speaker 1 (41:42):
And I did see the tweet.
Speaker 5 (41:46):
I would have been like, chance, I'm very active, don't
google me while I'm in the car on the way.
Speaker 3 (41:54):
To the hook up.
Speaker 1 (41:55):
That is strange. I don't think it's that crazy.
Speaker 4 (41:57):
It's more crazy to go to a stranger's house that's
a man, and I think, you know, and.
Speaker 3 (42:03):
Oh yeah, but I've done it.
Speaker 5 (42:04):
We've all done every time I didn't get kidnapped, i'd
have enough to pay a rank.
Speaker 1 (42:10):
Oh this is not about gossip but mess. So Marie
and I did starv Ros's podcast.
Speaker 4 (42:16):
The last interaction I with this person I've never met
with them, but you know, like a sex situation. But
then I was turned off. Hey, great job on the
podcast is starv Ros School. Two things up.
Speaker 1 (42:27):
It's like a video of this person coming and it's like,
that's crazy. I haven't. It's like been a year and
a half and I get a text about is starv
Ros School? That's crazy?
Speaker 2 (42:37):
Ew, that's disgusting, disgusting, I don't like disgusting, horrific. And
the video is from how long ago?
Speaker 1 (42:44):
I don't. I don't have the number saved you. I
don't know. I'd have to find. Yeah, what I'm saying like,
how much time do you think had passed between I
would say eight months to a year less or more.
Men will continue to disappoint us every time. That's fast.
Speaker 2 (42:58):
They don't post them, cast them, They're gonna they're gonna
find a way to make you regret pressing post for sure.
Speaker 1 (43:06):
But the engagement, no chat, the wedding, the wedding, Oh
you're saying the engagement.
Speaker 5 (43:13):
I mean there are people who who have been single
the entire time I followed them, and then now they're
in relationships and now their page is a couple page, and.
Speaker 1 (43:21):
It's like I can't stand that.
Speaker 5 (43:23):
Please don't when y'all break up or if they disappear
from the page, I will go to your page and
scroll back as many weeks as I can to see
if you archived everything.
Speaker 1 (43:32):
Is it messed to be like what happened?
Speaker 6 (43:34):
No?
Speaker 4 (43:35):
I mean, oh, I send you know what? Sometimes I
don't get respond I don't care. If I want to
know something, I'll send the eyes like someone might have post.
It might have been a platonic friend, but I just
I saw and I went I was with Lisa.
Speaker 5 (43:50):
Last month, and oh, I think we talked about this
with Caleb. Yes, yes, but I'm gonna bring it up
right now because you're sitting right here. I was with
Lisa last week and you know, Marcello had done all
this stuff for Sabrina Carpenter's tour, and she sees him
and she was like, can I ask a personal question?
Speaker 3 (44:07):
And as soon as he walks can I ask a
personal question? He was like, yeah, what's up? She was like,
did you have sex with Sabrina Carpenter?
Speaker 1 (44:14):
And I said to Cam, I was like, why would
he say that? Why would he tell you the truth.
Speaker 5 (44:18):
He said no immediately, and I said, well, you said
no too fast, and he was like, well, ask me again.
Speaker 1 (44:22):
And then I.
Speaker 2 (44:25):
Was like, why, Lisa, who will be online in a
messy bun run in her mouth.
Speaker 1 (44:30):
I'm not telling you nothing.
Speaker 4 (44:31):
If not if he is it up to but maybe, well,
you know what, one time I got some good gossip
about someone and I went to their good friends and
I okay, bold as fuck, Lisa, if you knew these people,
you wouldn't care and make these noises as much. It's like,
but I went up to someone and I asked right
away about the friend. It's kind of from a signful episode,
(44:52):
but I was like, did this person have a baby?
Speaker 1 (44:55):
And he went up.
Speaker 4 (44:58):
No, and I go, great, all I needed to know,
of course this person dead like and it felt great,
But also, how do you hide a baby? I'm gonna
see them eventually.
Speaker 1 (45:06):
People hire babies, people hide babies. I think it's okay.
Speaker 3 (45:09):
I think people need to hide babies.
Speaker 1 (45:11):
But that was mesty.
Speaker 4 (45:12):
But I went up, well, or if that's like, that's
how I practice acting too.
Speaker 1 (45:17):
I think, if like I know information, you be like,
oh no way does that ding? You'll act like you
don't know.
Speaker 3 (45:26):
I'll be I'll clutch my Pearl'd be.
Speaker 2 (45:28):
Like, it's important to be that person. You cannot just
show your cards. It's it's kind of and I am
that person. Unfortunately, I'm just too transparent. It's it stresses
me out. I don't really I am I am like,
I think that's good.
Speaker 1 (45:45):
I think it's good.
Speaker 2 (45:46):
I don't know no, no, no, no no, Because sometimes
I'll be like writing stuff you think it's and I'll see,
like Marie.
Speaker 1 (45:52):
This is what I wrote to Why did you write that?
Why you start up top with that?
Speaker 4 (45:57):
They don't need to know that, Julia's I'll just all
all this info and it's like, what are you even
writing to the stranger?
Speaker 5 (46:03):
You know that I see ads for like grammar ly
and it'll be like you'll take a big ass sentence
and turn it into two words. That's how I feel
like y'all talk, y'all talk like so I would like
to know, and I'm like, nah, you don't need all
this these filler words.
Speaker 2 (46:18):
When I'm canceling things, I'm like, so, like today was
really crazy and then like I was so behind and
then you know, like something happened like mentally where I
just I don't think I could do this, but like
I will show up if if I have to, if
you if you tell me this is it's like, no,
all you have to do, I cannot come. Unfortunately, Unfortunately
(46:38):
I'm going to have to pull out of this.
Speaker 3 (46:40):
Yeah, and I'm so sorry. Do you need me to
try to replace it.
Speaker 1 (46:43):
I didn't realize this was crazy.
Speaker 4 (46:44):
But one time I booked a sh I was booked
on the show, and when I got the notification or text,
I wrote back, Oh, I didn't realize it was Memorial
Day weekend.
Speaker 1 (46:52):
I'm not coming. And they said, I can't believe you
said that, And I go, is it that crazy? Like
you would rather me?
Speaker 4 (46:59):
Like to you, I'm not coming. I'm gonna going to
the beach. How dare you book me on a Sunday
on a Moral Day weekend? Was it?
Speaker 3 (47:05):
Was it the knitting factory?
Speaker 1 (47:06):
No, she would never. I would never.
Speaker 3 (47:09):
Well, it might have been before our tenure. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (47:12):
No, I feel the NIT was a big deal to
do the NET always it was. It's a huge deal
a lot of people.
Speaker 1 (47:19):
You wanted to do good. You don't want to embarrass
yourself with the NET.
Speaker 3 (47:22):
I mean, pre pandemic, Knit was the police.
Speaker 4 (47:25):
But you also were the best show back from pandemic.
In that background, we were doing two shows and you
were paying. You were like paying money post pandemic and
us sold out show.
Speaker 1 (47:36):
We are we were for the people, respect for us.
Speaker 5 (47:40):
We're literally hidden figures. We are people didn't see us,
but we were there doing the work.
Speaker 1 (47:47):
We should be on more list, We should be in
more documentary.
Speaker 5 (47:50):
I mean, do you think that back in the day, Like,
do you think it like the sixties, in the fifties,
they were gossiping.
Speaker 1 (47:57):
Yeah, but it was better no phones.
Speaker 4 (48:00):
Even the nineties movie stars Gwyneth Paltrow, they'll do interviews
being like it was the fucking best.
Speaker 3 (48:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (48:05):
They were like just bar hopping, partying, doing. You could
do drugs wherever you wanted. No one had like, no
one had a phone.
Speaker 2 (48:12):
Yeah, nobody had a phone. Right, So you don't have
real footage unless they're coming out of their shows they
have coke around their nose or whatever.
Speaker 1 (48:20):
That's the only time.
Speaker 5 (48:21):
Yeah, I know that they had coke around their nose.
But photos were black and white. So and if the
white people will wipe up on their nose, we don't
see that. I'm like, oh my god, look at a highlighter.
Speaker 4 (48:30):
And the boys do gossip the guy. Yeah, everyone is gossiping.
People want to know secrets. I'm sure there's a psychological study.
I think we should all share. People were gossiping, but
steaks were higher because I was thinking, like I back.
I bet back in like castle, old timy days, there
was gossip, a gossip white people killed.
Speaker 1 (48:46):
I mean still that's yeah, but we're talking about the prisons.
Speaker 2 (48:50):
Castle gossip now where you're really taking us on a journey, Lisa,
you you are a historian of gossip.
Speaker 1 (48:58):
We all have feudal lord.
Speaker 3 (49:02):
Game of Throne mess, but they did gossip on Game
of Thrones.
Speaker 5 (49:07):
There was that little ball guy with sleeves that would
be like you didn't hear this from me, but and
you were like.
Speaker 1 (49:13):
My favorite story.
Speaker 4 (49:14):
I guess there was like a basketball like a sports
wife that her ship kept getting leaked, like a footballer's wife.
Her ship kept getting leaked and she didn't know what.
So she made a close friends, but only for one
person she suspected, and so that's how she was able
to figure out who it was.
Speaker 1 (49:31):
I love that she was like doing this subtraction and
she's like, I'm gonna get this right. That's how you
find the all, how you find the mall. C im.
Speaker 2 (49:58):
I do appreciate how we are transparent about our own
mess in like business, because then it's like you can't
make me ashamed of something that I openly already talked
about I don't care like and I think that is
the reason why people are saying everything and doing have
diary of the mouth, because.
Speaker 1 (50:18):
Like, what you gonna do?
Speaker 2 (50:19):
You if somebody pulls up something from my podcast, it's like, yeah,
I said that, I'm standing on that.
Speaker 1 (50:23):
Yeah I did say that, Like what's the problem? She
can't sing there?
Speaker 4 (50:26):
It is?
Speaker 1 (50:27):
Do you have yours? That's crazy?
Speaker 5 (50:29):
What if someone pulls up something that I said on
the podcast, I'd be like, I said that, Oh that's
that seemed like a deep sake.
Speaker 6 (50:39):
Me.
Speaker 4 (50:40):
I think about this salat and I think I would
have had a different perspective before the last Culturistas episode
with Tina Fay when she said authenticity is dangerous and
expensive and that everything because not everything, because I probably
still get into trouble. I think twice now, I think
three times.
Speaker 3 (50:56):
Now, Well she said that what did she mean?
Speaker 1 (50:58):
It was about the io stuff? But then her I
don't think so, honey, it was bo and you're too
famous to talk shit about like the movies you don't
like because what if they want you in that movie?
You're too famous now?
Speaker 2 (51:08):
Yeah, But also it's like we're in entertainment, we're in
the celebrity of it all, like you're you don't You're
not absorbed from somewhe to critiquing you or talking shit
or making jokes.
Speaker 1 (51:18):
You we are all in this business. What is the whole?
No no, no, no no no, I'm creating art. It's
like you're not a heart surgeon.
Speaker 2 (51:26):
You're literally doing words or you're being a personality word
are you're saying words?
Speaker 1 (51:32):
You're like, it's like, have fun.
Speaker 2 (51:34):
I love the celebrities that like read out, like tweet
people like have fun like you if you see it
and if you act like you've never heard somebody say
something shitty about you, then who are you? Are you
a human being? Nobody is perfect. Everybody has done stuff.
Speaker 1 (51:50):
I love when celebrities is like, oh I've done that before,
are so like or whatever, like like you can turn
it around. You don't have to make it this big thing.
Speaker 5 (51:57):
Also, j Lo is the easiest person to talk mess about.
People want to not like her no, and then it's
like we liked her and then we turned out a tip.
Speaker 4 (52:09):
You got a tip, like what you gotta why she
I've heard stories it's alleged the tip to me, that's
like scum.
Speaker 3 (52:18):
She's a bad tipper.
Speaker 4 (52:20):
No, I heard it's a no tipper. I heard it's
Ben Affleck tried to tip and she went no oh,
but you know, I mean.
Speaker 3 (52:28):
Well, Sidney, did you never meet her? Did she never
leave you with two?
Speaker 2 (52:30):
Oh? She actually did allegedly when I was working at
this hotel, she did her baby shower on the rooftop
and she told like her people are like, I don't
want any of the staff. I don't want anybody talking
to me. I only want this one person I don't want.
Don't don't look at me, don't talk to me, don't
engage with me. This is my baby shower. If you
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need anything, talk to this the liaison or whatever.
Speaker 1 (52:54):
And I was like, that's just so bo.
Speaker 2 (53:00):
Hold on, we see how people can't help themselves and
they are weird. They are you work there, stop asking,
stop taking photos, stop being strained you were on the clock, like.
Speaker 1 (53:11):
Or hide behind a curtain and take a photo. Don't
outwardly be like, well, those people shouldn't be working at
that price. But there's so many people like this.
Speaker 3 (53:19):
There's so right.
Speaker 1 (53:20):
So it's like I kind of do understand.
Speaker 4 (53:22):
Where it's like, no, it's definite because I heard a
tour bus situation where she allegedly was on a bus
for three months did not say hi, bye, thank you,
not once.
Speaker 1 (53:33):
To the driver. Correct.
Speaker 3 (53:35):
Well, that's the thing about that.
Speaker 1 (53:36):
Not everyone at the that's like this man that's driving.
Speaker 5 (53:40):
You can't say good morning when you get on the bus.
You can't say hey, can we stop here? I want
to pick up a chicken sandwich.
Speaker 3 (53:46):
Well.
Speaker 2 (53:46):
Also, let's be honest, we have had somebody like say like, oh,
this person did this sat and the third to me
and then come back around. It's like they missed it.
That that's not what happened. So it's sometimes people, how
do I miss you not saying hello to me for
three People exaggerate it's three months. She never bad behavior,
you're acting like you have not seen bad behavior.
Speaker 5 (54:07):
That power her too, though, is that she doesn't want
people to look at her. She doesn't want people to
talk to her.
Speaker 3 (54:12):
I mean certain divass.
Speaker 4 (54:14):
Because you know she didn't get an Oscar nom and
it's like, well, you got to be the people's princess.
Speaker 1 (54:18):
But sometimes when people look at you, you're like you
do me off. No, you're giving celebrity.
Speaker 2 (54:27):
No, ma'am girl, I mean you just skate off just
a little bit because you're looking it feels like you're
looking into my soul. You need something, you're taking something
away when you're just like bearing into my foreheaded I'm famous.
Speaker 5 (54:40):
Of course you want to look at me. You should
want to look at me. I'm cute in real life.
Or you saying don't look at me, don't make eye
contact makes me feel like you're self conscious about what
you look like without a filter, because why can't I
look over it?
Speaker 6 (54:51):
No?
Speaker 1 (54:51):
But I mean famously, we were sitting next to.
Speaker 3 (54:53):
Jailah last year and we were like this and we
were famously in her face. Should you get tell me from.
Speaker 1 (55:01):
We were We're very demure, very mindful about it.
Speaker 3 (55:05):
I want to say, uh, the back of her bun. Yeah,
I'm that person.
Speaker 1 (55:09):
I'm like, no, come on, no, you are you are?
I know, And I'd rather someone be who they are
than be fake and like come out like being polite
and then they're actually a monster behind me, you know.
Speaker 2 (55:20):
Like but yeah, but the thing about the I'm going
to say the thing about tipping right, like, also, a
lot of what people don't know is a lot of
times people come into establishments and uh, the managers will
be like it's on the house, it's on us. Don't like, don't,
don't pull your card out, nothing like that. So then
the waitress is like, oh my god, they didn't pay me.
But then then you go back and the managers like, oh, yeah, no,
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I told them I took care of it. It's like
they can still give me some cat.
Speaker 1 (55:44):
Well that's what I mean. They're bad people. Who are you?
Speaker 4 (55:46):
If you're that famous, you should have hundreds ready to
tip because you know your meal is calmed exactly. You
know your meal is going to be caught exactly. You're
that famous, you think it's the first time their meal
has been coree.
Speaker 1 (55:55):
Do you always have cash on you? I'm not that
famous and I'm not that rich, but when you, when
you are, this is my whole game.
Speaker 3 (56:02):
That is my hold on, hold on Sydney. They got
entourage and assistance and and security.
Speaker 5 (56:09):
Those people have cash on them. Hey, I left I
left my bag of money on the bus or in
the in the maybox. Let me uh that the famous
that it's comped.
Speaker 1 (56:19):
You know you should tip.
Speaker 3 (56:21):
I have should have cash on I have.
Speaker 2 (56:23):
I know I've bumped heads a lot of assistance. I've
had a run into people. Managers will be like, oh yeah, no, no,
I told them that it's taking care of I said,
why'd you tell them that? Right, tell them that I
took care of the actual bill, but they can still tip.
You're like, no, no, no, you guys are already making
it a lot. No no, no, no, that's not for
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you to decide that's bad. But sometimes it's not the
celebrities because I've seen it in real life.
Speaker 5 (56:51):
Girl, even if boots on the ground, even if someone's like, yeah,
this is fully camped, don't worry about it, we'll take
care of it, will take care of it. As a
rich ass person, you should definitely be tipping one hundred
two hundred percent like you have it, you spent.
Speaker 6 (57:07):
We do that.
Speaker 4 (57:08):
It's not as people my coffee at my spot, when
they give me my you know, my regular rate, I
tip them to when the real prices and.
Speaker 1 (57:17):
Lisa, that's why we're bad with money. Yeah, we are
bad with money, like this whole thing that people should
be good like.
Speaker 2 (57:24):
Pulling out all their dollars for people in this economy,
you're out, but we're not talking.
Speaker 1 (57:29):
I'm just saying we're out of our mind. But literally,
if you are that rich, Like, I just can't imagine
why you wouldn't leave like a few hundred.
Speaker 3 (57:39):
Dollars Jo's net worth? Becca, Oh, I just want to know.
Speaker 1 (57:42):
Oh, I would say, I would guess one hundred fifty million.
Speaker 5 (57:44):
I feel like it's like more four hundred mini. Yeah,
because she's millions of dollars on that movie. But if
you're worth fo hundred million dollars, you can afford to
put some money down on the table after your baby shower,
that or the body they.
Speaker 1 (57:55):
Paid for the whole establishment. And if you pay sometimes
you pay so much money and you do all these things,
you have some rules. And I think when we get
to that point now you're say something for the wealthy.
Speaker 3 (58:06):
That's crazy. Sydney is pro rich. Sydney said let them
eat cakes.
Speaker 1 (58:11):
I'm not pro rich.
Speaker 2 (58:12):
I'm I'm I'm like the entitlement has gotten out of
control on all parties.
Speaker 1 (58:18):
Everybody, everybody needs to get shook up. No, so let's
stop comping the celebrities then.
Speaker 2 (58:24):
But do you know if your establishment you bring celebrities in,
that's gonna get more people. Of course we're gonna come.
It's gonna be in page six or whatever. And that's
gonna be good for your business, and.
Speaker 1 (58:32):
You can't fifty dollars.
Speaker 5 (58:35):
Come on, come on, come on, you buy it. You're
drinking Ace of Spades, but you can't put no money down.
Speaker 1 (58:41):
It's trash.
Speaker 2 (58:42):
If you think, if you think the waitresses and the
barteers ain't stealing, they getting a fifty five percent.
Speaker 1 (58:47):
Please believe you didn't hear this from.
Speaker 2 (58:49):
Me, but hey, hey that's celebrity. We're gonna get our
money done. Something's getting spilled, okay, oh the bottle broke.
Speaker 1 (58:59):
Like you know, I think it's funny.
Speaker 3 (59:02):
I can't wait to be rich.
Speaker 5 (59:05):
I think that I'll be okay, But I also feel
like I could also be one of these people that's like,
turn the lights off, don't look at me, and then
and then I want to spotlight when I walk in
so everyone can just see between.
Speaker 4 (59:18):
Because I've had I would say five to ten, I
would say I've been crazy.
Speaker 1 (59:21):
Before, so I have to take that.
Speaker 2 (59:24):
This was the craziest thing. Allegedly, I had a whole
section along the wall. Jana Jackson comes in.
Speaker 3 (59:31):
And she said, oh, yes, smoking up in here.
Speaker 1 (59:33):
No no, no, no, it's a it's a candlelit bar. Whatever.
Allegedly candles everywhere.
Speaker 2 (59:38):
Literally, she sits down, tells them blow out all the
candles over here, ma'am, Now we're looking. Why all the
candles out over there? You're you're bringing more attention to you.
Speaker 1 (59:49):
This is weird.
Speaker 2 (59:50):
So then there's no light, so like waitress literally tripped
over something because she couldn't see. So it was like, hey,
we got to turn this light back on. And then
she had someone move the whole candle holder. I was like,
not her, but probably somebody in allegedly in the camp.
So it was like, I don't know, Maybe I do
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want to be a celebrity so I can be ridiculous,
like turn all the lights off, turn it lights on,
the lights off, stupid.
Speaker 1 (01:00:19):
I think I'm gonna it's gotta be. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:00:21):
We just like celebs that are nicer but still like
I feel I feel like Rihanna is polite, but she
doesn't take shit. I actually know someone that tried to
be annoying at a club dor and she was like,
and I like that. I think there you can be
real in the moment, like you could be a person.
If someone's being crazy and annoying, you can acknowledge it.
But if people are at work and someone's happy to
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see you because you're this person that has music that
people love.
Speaker 1 (01:00:46):
Like it's that bad. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:00:47):
I saw Spike Lee walking on my block and I
went and he went and that felt good, like a
not is all I really needed, and I on changed
my day. I go, I'm in New York like I
love it, And it was just a nod like that.
Speaker 5 (01:01:02):
You know.
Speaker 4 (01:01:02):
But if you're not in the mood or you're having
a bad day, I understand being like fuck you, but overall, but.
Speaker 2 (01:01:07):
Then you'll be in your hotel and somebody's like what
bab and she turns around, she's like what, Like, yeah,
I don't, please, don't scream my name.
Speaker 1 (01:01:14):
We're in New York City. You gotta be cooler than that.
Speaker 5 (01:01:17):
You have to be cooler than that, or you wave
or whatever, and then you keep it moving and then
you can scream on your face time, scream on your
live but like act.
Speaker 3 (01:01:27):
Act a little cooler in that.
Speaker 1 (01:01:28):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 5 (01:01:29):
I heard that there's a celebrity that went to use
a public bathroom and they made everybody leave the bathroom
so she could pee or poop or whatever she was
doing in the bathroom.
Speaker 4 (01:01:38):
I get that because I hate when I go to
a comedy club and they don't have a separate bathroom
in the green room and I have to like go
to the bathroom with the people in the show.
Speaker 1 (01:01:45):
I go, that's not okay. Honestly, I want to do
that as a normal person because the way my ibs will, oh.
Speaker 2 (01:01:52):
And we're back okay, because that makes me feel like
it's over. I know, you know that, I say, we
stay talking to each other.
Speaker 1 (01:02:02):
Well, I'll tell you.
Speaker 4 (01:02:03):
The recent message was getting drunk with some friends and
there's another friend that's like I think is cool and
hot and awesome, and I don't think who they're dating
is cool.
Speaker 1 (01:02:12):
As this person went.
Speaker 4 (01:02:13):
She cheats on him, and I went, yes, like what
a nut? I go, I love that, And I you know,
I'll never I said it here. I hope it's Joe,
but I don't think i'll ever. I wouldn't want to
tell anyone ever.
Speaker 1 (01:02:28):
I mean, but I love it. I loved it. I
love it. The joy we all felt like tipsy a
few cocktails, and I mean.
Speaker 3 (01:02:35):
I mean, yeah, let women cheat too, and someone you.
Speaker 1 (01:02:37):
Don't like when you think the girl's cool. I like that.
Speaker 5 (01:02:40):
I do like that I think before we go after
re read the message, I think we should all share
a secret on the pod. Maybe something you haven't told anybody. Yetyeah,
I'm thinking about what my name is.
Speaker 2 (01:02:52):
But yeah, okay, so please you'll send in the audio.
We love hearing your voices. They're very sexy. Yeah, sometimes
people talk too well. Okay, Lisa, maybe on your pot
not our bring audio, call us leave the message.
Speaker 1 (01:03:07):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (01:03:08):
Okay, speed it up, write it down, maybe like practice
La play at one point.
Speaker 1 (01:03:13):
Speed. Yeah, that's the secret. Okay. So Hi, my name
is Christine. So I'm currently in a relationship. Good for you, babe.
Speaker 2 (01:03:21):
And I'm also dating this person who I met while
I was on a break with my current partner. She's
got she's got wealth over here wealth in relationship. Both
men do not know about each other. Both of them
live in a different state than me, and I usually
see them at different times.
Speaker 1 (01:03:37):
Hmm.
Speaker 2 (01:03:38):
Each one has aspect that I want in my life.
So is it bad that I want to be with
both safely?
Speaker 1 (01:03:44):
Of course?
Speaker 2 (01:03:45):
Should I just pick one or stick with both of them?
This is this is teetering on mess teetering.
Speaker 5 (01:03:52):
So you met somebody on the break that you like,
and you're still talking to them. Yes, but you're back
with the person you was on a break from. So
we Polly.
Speaker 1 (01:04:03):
Well, it's only.
Speaker 2 (01:04:04):
Polly if everybody knows about each other, and everybody has
to be in the No, babe, it's a need to
know when you are Polly and you're talking to other people.
Speaker 1 (01:04:12):
You got to put it in the Google's mask. But
I like it, you like it. I like it.
Speaker 4 (01:04:16):
I like that it's different states in the Yeah, the
two guys are in different states from where she lives.
Speaker 1 (01:04:22):
So I like that.
Speaker 4 (01:04:23):
Oh, if it's a long distance, you don't want anyone
anything and you can do whatever. But obviously, like I
believe in honesty.
Speaker 1 (01:04:30):
And being Oh, but I like this.
Speaker 3 (01:04:35):
I like it. I believe honesty.
Speaker 4 (01:04:36):
There's like a fantasy I truly believe in. But I'm like,
I'm in it for her, and this is a fantasy
too cool.
Speaker 1 (01:04:42):
I love it. I mean it is. It's a little mess.
Speaker 5 (01:04:45):
But like, if you're in a long distance relationship, are
you in a relationship and you already had.
Speaker 1 (01:04:49):
A break, fuck that guy.
Speaker 4 (01:04:52):
She's get up little bits from each of them and
hopefully she'll find you know her, mister, that has all
of it combined.
Speaker 2 (01:05:00):
So just tell them though, Like, but the thing is is, well,
Marie told me that or no, I think we talked
about it.
Speaker 1 (01:05:05):
Like, omitting is kind of lying, it's lying. It is
omitting that they say it's was it a white lie?
Speaker 2 (01:05:12):
Because you know, white people do be lying, okay, but
it's white. But omitting is different. It's like if we're talking, talking, talking,
and you never asked me that I'm talking to somebody else, right,
and we're not like established, am I am I lying?
Speaker 1 (01:05:27):
You just never asked me and I didn't tell you.
Speaker 5 (01:05:29):
No, Yeah, I mean, is it exclusive if we're long distance?
I think that's the information that I'm missing here.
Speaker 4 (01:05:36):
I about that man thinks he's in a relationship, but
what's saying that he also isn't dating someone in the
city that they live in because she didn't ask, right.
Speaker 1 (01:05:44):
So that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (01:05:45):
If nobody cares, if the communication isn't very clear, then
anything is up for grab. But I think if you're
if you want to get something off your chest and
like sleep well at night, but you some people don't.
Speaker 1 (01:05:57):
People like the in the gray that's that's hot for them.
Speaker 2 (01:06:00):
Oh, they don't know if we're really together or not, Oh,
I'm talking to somebody else. That's why I think Polly
doesn't work sometimes because everybody's in the know, and it's
like cheating is exciting and lying is fun. Being honest
nobody's nobody's coming so hard to honesty.
Speaker 3 (01:06:20):
I mean, some people probably are some I think more moving.
Speaker 1 (01:06:24):
All this dating stuff.
Speaker 2 (01:06:25):
It's like when people are being like I like you
and into you and picking up in the first ring,
You're like.
Speaker 3 (01:06:31):
Yuck, Well, I like it.
Speaker 4 (01:06:34):
I hate when it's not real, like a love bomb. Yeah,
I'm into love bombs. I like getting love bomb. I mean,
I like several romance in terms of like, I like
the idea of meeting someone and being like, oh yeah
for sure, and then just being together and having it
be a whirlwind romance. Like, I like the idea of that,
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whether I don't think it's a healthy or good thing.
When you hear people go we got married three weeks
in and they're together forever, that's cool, I think.
Speaker 5 (01:07:03):
I mean, we were talking to a friend this weekend
and she met somebody on vacation right after our my
birthday trip in Morocco.
Speaker 3 (01:07:13):
And now is moving to Europe.
Speaker 1 (01:07:15):
I was like, hey, babe, I did that in La
and our Yeah, but Europe is different than La.
Speaker 2 (01:07:23):
It's like you don't know place, Yes, your place, they're
very very you don't know anybody and don't and don't
speak the language and don't speak the language.
Speaker 4 (01:07:33):
Honey, we're entering fascism, Like let someone like entertain an
escape option?
Speaker 1 (01:07:43):
Yeah? Is that what we're doing now? Yeah? I would.
Speaker 4 (01:07:47):
I'm hoping my special is a success so I can
become rich and famous in London so I can leave.
Speaker 1 (01:07:52):
But I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:07:53):
I think fashions everywhere, listeners is up to y'all. If
we all, if everybody everyone.
Speaker 1 (01:07:58):
I'll tip yeah she people will make post being like
we made the right girl famous? Yeah you are? Would
people really would enjoy you as a famous person? I
hope so? But then when you know, yeah, and then
what And then a hotel room's not ready, and then
I flip out.
Speaker 2 (01:08:19):
Ready I'm at the montre On right now, and can
you believe they're fifteen minutes past not ready for my room?
Speaker 3 (01:08:29):
I mad?
Speaker 1 (01:08:29):
Now I'm out here.
Speaker 2 (01:08:30):
You see my messy bun, my eyeliners everywhere. I thought
I was just gonna walk in and go to sleep. Yeah,
the hotel's gotta get it together. Yeah, because how's the
room not ready? I made this reservation weeks ago.
Speaker 4 (01:08:40):
Because just sometimes when you're taking these flight, you know,
and you're on the road, it's tough.
Speaker 1 (01:08:43):
But I do apologize. I go back downstairs and apologize
post snap. Usually, Oh you do, you have apologize? Everybody.
Speaker 2 (01:08:51):
Make Liza Treger famous, please and make sure you watch
these people.
Speaker 4 (01:08:55):
You hear about certain celebs where the stories are just
kind of jovial or chill and it feels nice toy
story like that.
Speaker 3 (01:09:02):
Yeah, I don't know if it's gonna be you, but yo, No.
Speaker 1 (01:09:06):
I'm thinking Adam Sandler. People like him. He nods, he's happy,
I think to be famous. I mean, he's also in
a sleep shirt everywhere he goes. You should be happy.
Speaker 5 (01:09:16):
He's also wearing a long sleeve shirt under a short
sleeve shirt and wearing basketball shorts.
Speaker 3 (01:09:20):
Of course he's chew.
Speaker 1 (01:09:21):
Yeah, he's happy, like you know what a guy wearing
that is all about.
Speaker 2 (01:09:24):
Yeah, you can't expect somebody in a button down and
some tight ass slacks and some hard bottoms to always
be nodding.
Speaker 1 (01:09:32):
They don't have, you know, they don't comfort so the
less comfortable you are, the more allowance we give to
bad behavior.
Speaker 3 (01:09:39):
I didn't say no, no, no, no, we're saying the
bad behavior is less likely.
Speaker 2 (01:09:42):
Yeah, when someone is in a so Kate lubaton which
you're literally piercing both pinky toes and the big book
like this, if you don't say high back, I get it.
You're focused on let me put one foot, next foot,
next foot. But ooh, like I get it, I get it.
Speaker 1 (01:10:01):
I'd be okay if someone ignored my presence as a
famous person. Oh, because somebody has ignored you and you
were variable.
Speaker 4 (01:10:10):
Well, they didn't just ignore me, They went with their
and I went, oh, okay, okay, we've done whippets together.
Speaker 5 (01:10:18):
But sure, okay Demi Moore, but sure, okay? I mean
did she did she ignore what's her face at the
Golden Globes or not?
Speaker 1 (01:10:27):
Oh? Kylie?
Speaker 3 (01:10:28):
Yeah, I mean we we watched that video over and
over again, like.
Speaker 1 (01:10:31):
Just the woody Oh yeah, what do you think?
Speaker 3 (01:10:34):
I mean, it looks like she she hit her with
a little smile.
Speaker 4 (01:10:36):
And then in my head, she's the same age as
I bet in my head when I saw that she's
the same age as Demi Moore's daughters around. I wonder
if they went to schools together, summer camp, did something together,
and like she doesn't like them, the kids.
Speaker 1 (01:10:49):
The kids are fighting. That's where my brain went.
Speaker 3 (01:10:51):
Has given rumor Willess baby, Yeah maybe.
Speaker 1 (01:10:53):
Tallula was like fuck that bit, and she's like, I'm
gonna fucking ignore her.
Speaker 3 (01:10:57):
Demi Moore, you could do whatever you want, baby, whatever
you want to do.
Speaker 4 (01:11:01):
Do it.
Speaker 1 (01:11:01):
I'm not wanting and beautiful, beautiful, kind and nice. And
she acknowledged you.
Speaker 4 (01:11:07):
Oh yeah, And she gave me a secret and I
have not. You know, I don't tell people allegedly allegedly
and I don't.
Speaker 1 (01:11:14):
She's going to keep it. I keep it.
Speaker 5 (01:11:15):
I would never publicly fu Well, let's wrap this podcast
up so I can hear the secret.
Speaker 3 (01:11:21):
Well, we did what we needed to do.
Speaker 1 (01:11:23):
I have secret. You didn't even think of one.
Speaker 5 (01:11:25):
You don't have a secret.
Speaker 1 (01:11:26):
I asked for one and I can't even think of one.
That's crazy marine. Well, you guys find out our secrets
the next episode.
Speaker 2 (01:11:32):
If you listen and make sure you listen to Lisa
Traggers No Watch or Special Night Out on Netflix.
Speaker 3 (01:11:38):
And if you're not a fan of comedy, which I
don't know what you're doing.
Speaker 1 (01:11:41):
Crazy.
Speaker 3 (01:11:41):
Just go to Netflix, let it play, leave your house
on the way out, on the way out.
Speaker 1 (01:11:48):
Let me in the top ten. That's my escape plan.
I have intimcy issues. I'm not going to meet someone quick,
but I can hopefully get in the top ten.
Speaker 2 (01:11:56):
Right.
Speaker 5 (01:11:56):
And if you're in the top ten, more people will
see you and know who you are, and then they'll
approach you in the lounge at Delta like you don't
to say.
Speaker 4 (01:12:04):
It, like yeah, well yeah, I tried stepping it up
one time on a plane and my family roasted the
shit out of me. When I got off the plane
and they picked me up, they go, why are you
wearing business casual? Are you on your lunch break? And
I went one time, I try to look normal on
a fly.
Speaker 2 (01:12:18):
Also, we have another mess live show coming up too.
Speaker 1 (01:12:23):
Oh and I want to say I went as a
viewer of the live show them. I mean, we were laughing,
we were laughing so much. Was so fun. I love that,
love that so fun. It's the next date, Marie. I
don't know, damn, we gotta know. Wait, okay, hold on,
we got it to twenty two.
Speaker 2 (01:12:42):
Februard twenty seconds see your favorite, Come see mess Live,
bring your mess, review the mess, be a.
Speaker 4 (01:12:51):
Ma that's President's Day, be the mess that you want
to be. Messy, they are messy if you thank you. Messias, Yeah, messiahs,
no Messican. We're working on the names. I'm Mestis.
Speaker 2 (01:13:03):
I like mesties as well, but also Messicans, Messicans that
down the Messicans or mess like munchkins, but mess whatever anyway,
thanks so much, Thank you a pleading the mess.
Speaker 4 (01:13:19):
Mess with Sydney Washington and Marie Foston is a production
by Will Ferrell's Big Money Players and iHeartRadio podcasts, created
and hosted by Sydney Washington and Marie Foston. Executive produced
by Olivia Aguilar and Hans Sonny, super produced by Becca Ramos,
edited and mixed by Brian Jeffries.
Speaker 3 (01:13:36):
If you would like your messages read on air, please
email us at mess Thepodcast at gmail dot com, or
call for your messages to be played at seven six
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