October 27, 2023 • 33 mins
Today Michael gives you the skinny on Fat Shaming. And is just saying the word “Fat” being derogatory or descriptive or are we over reacting? Let’s talk about it.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
M ya all ready, let's go.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Well, so missus, Michael called this world started doing venice peach.
Now he reached in the world, He'll make you left.
Take the stomach car supple fly. Nice guys riding to
me told he ain't ready for the star hears winter
and oh g three times this thing gonna beginning. Whether
you want your house, you want your brother out, o's
a dinner.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
On your drive and your brother I mean it's a
reb Michael Taus said, everybody call yes.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Michael Taus had everybody like a call.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Yes, Michael Saus say, everybody you know what shin.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
Called?
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Michael fuck said, everybody called.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Michael tausaid everybody Michael.
Speaker 5 (00:42):
To say, my good everybody, everybody you call, Hey, it's
Michael Kay.
Speaker 6 (00:51):
Is another amazing day. And man, no, only do I
talk to everybody. I talked to all kinds of people
when we talk about all type of topics. Yes, Michael
talks to everybody. And the question that was in my
mind was, uh, is it wrong to call a fat
lady fat? That's That's all I'm trying to think. Is
it Is it wrong? Because everybody's so politically correct, everybody's
(01:13):
so uptight you can't say nothing without people trying to
cancel you. And you know I was accused actually uh
a fat shaming. I think I told you this therek Oh,
we have with us the fabulous comedian Derek Keener from Arkan, Sam.
What is an arkansaw and Kansas together are? Wait, don't
say ark in Tansas? Ar arkin't ark and Texas? Wait? Okay,
(01:37):
how do you pronounce this Arkansas?
Speaker 3 (01:40):
But you you guys call it ar Kansas.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
No, you have something else that's in the middle of it,
text ar Canada.
Speaker 6 (01:46):
That's the one that's just retarded. To remember to say that.
And once again, you can't say retarded. That's politically correct
correct too. You know, you can't call midget a midget.
You gotta call the midget little personause I have a
friend and I don't come a little person because we'll
be fussing, the fighting all the time. I call him
little motherfucker, a little bit motherfucker.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
And but because we be arguing the shit right and
he'd be drunk, he'd be talking shit.
Speaker 6 (02:12):
He came running at me one day. Man, he was
toe up and we was laughing. You know, I cut
you short and shouting, you know, so He come running
at me doing the little legs right, but I don't
think his knees meant so. He didn't quite clear that
curve right, he hit that motherfuck ground and rode boy.
I laughed by But that's politically incorrect. Well, all that
stuff is wrong, And I tell you what happened to
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I saw this. This fat lady was riding the bike
and she was peddling too. Oh she's peeling her ass off, Derek,
and I yelled out cow. So she turns to me,
give me the finger, turned back around and ran right
into the fucking cow. I don't think that's fat shame man,
I don't know, but anyway, you can't say nothing about nobody.
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Today's topic is body shaming. We have the crew here today,
the Great Anthony Oaks. He from the DMB, actually just
from DC, but they used me letters they can down there.
Hey Anthony, how are you today?
Speaker 7 (03:11):
I am great?
Speaker 4 (03:13):
How are you doing, sir?
Speaker 6 (03:14):
Man? Hey, I'm thirty day. Well, since we don't know
when the show gonna drop, let me just see this.
I'll be married in a pair second. So I am
doing awesome. Astraya black straya black is funny strayl black
as our other crew member. How you doing that?
Speaker 1 (03:31):
How guys?
Speaker 5 (03:32):
I wish they could see you. You got a different hat,
but you're cute as a button. You can wear some
hats now. Third, another fella that wears.
Speaker 6 (03:39):
A cute hat my cousin, Derek, Derek Kena and I
went up, Derek, Tina.
Speaker 5 (03:45):
And I mean, you know, I feel I feel a
little funny about you inviting me on today because I
feel like I'm the only fat person on here and
you needed warn and I forget that. Let me say this,
I don't want to.
Speaker 6 (04:00):
Thank you fat. I don't think you fat. I think
you're fluffy.
Speaker 8 (04:02):
Go ahead, you identify fat, though you identified your identify.
Speaker 5 (04:08):
Damn American, I might identify you at the more you talking.
So I'm gonna tell you recently I had a lady
quote unquote fat Shamie. And this is no joke. So
I'm on the radio in Texas, Arcana, and the lady
who I work with know me, I guess my whole life,
hadn't seen me in years. And she heard my voice
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over the intercom at the regular job I had, and
she said.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
That is Derreck Keener. Where are you at? And I
told her where I was at, and she came up
there to the warehouse to see me.
Speaker 5 (04:39):
And when this woman got up there, she looked at
me and said, damn you the game of way Ooh,
I hate that.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Now.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Listen now, in my mind I wanted to call say
you fuck it be, but I didn't say it. What
I did was I then took my fliffant but onto
my radio show, and then I proceeded to talk about
how she.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Had lost all of her teeth, because what is shame
me not?
Speaker 5 (05:07):
I never called her name, but she knew I was
talking to and from that day, oh, she never spoke
to be a.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
Speaker 5 (05:16):
You're from the ghetto like I am. There, I say
what's good for the goose is good for the geeses.
Speaker 8 (05:23):
If you in the LGBT community say what's good for
the goose is good for the gooch?
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Oh damn, oh my god, that the hell is the coach?
Speaker 3 (05:36):
I feel?
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Okay, So as a lady, I'm just gonna say, in
the past, women didn't like, you know, to be fed,
you know, or to be call fed, or just the
whole fat word. But now you know, fat is being sexy.
You know, it's on the eye of the beholder.
Speaker 6 (05:54):
Some people, some people find fat sexy.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
I mean you have something.
Speaker 6 (05:59):
Yeah, you see Derrick Keena's face with a smile and
a positive nod when I see it?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Do they? Okay?
Speaker 6 (06:06):
Really?
Speaker 5 (06:07):
Oh yeah, there's some chubby taper out there, chubby Jesus.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
Okay, all right?
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah, I like the big guy. I mean me standing
next to a big dude. We look like the number ten.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
We win it.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
I'm engaged to a big dude. And let me tell
you he.
Speaker 6 (06:24):
Is not that big. I met him comedy.
Speaker 8 (06:27):
But his name, no, his name is the fat Vegan.
He used to be four hundred pounds and then he
went vegan and was not so.
Speaker 7 (06:36):
But I mean, I'm two skinny dudes. What're talking?
Speaker 6 (06:40):
Two skinny people gonna do?
Speaker 4 (06:41):
Create a fire in the bed like two matchsticks rubbing together.
I can't deal with that. I need some flesh.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
He needs to be fleshy, so okay, yeah, you need
something to grab hold too.
Speaker 7 (06:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (06:52):
And in the in the alphabet community, there's a whole
section we call them bears. Like cousin Derek will be
considered a bear if he were in that community.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
A Bear is a stocky, bigger gay person.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
I don't want to be a I don't want to be.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
I know.
Speaker 8 (07:09):
I'm not saying you want to be. I'm not saying
that you want. Oh God, disclaimer, cousin Derrek is not
a Bear. I want to go ahead and put it
in the mind.
Speaker 6 (07:19):
But he's still a stocky, big gay fella.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
Anyway, Bear, I'm not sensitive at all. If you were
saying that, it wouldn't It doesn't bother me, you know
what I mean, Like some guys are, so it don't
bother me.
Speaker 6 (07:33):
I get it. But but people always saying stuff too
about your weight, like people always got their own stuff.
You're losing weight, and that makes you scared any till
somebody asks you losing weight? They think you see it?
Are you losing?
Speaker 5 (07:46):
I think everybody needs to be comfortable in the skin
that they're in. I don't allow other people to dictate
how I feel about me. Now how you see me
as how you see me. But I still see me
as wonderful. And it ain't about the body that I
got Cause let me tell you something, the Lord is
sparing y'all from me. Come on, somebody coming off the
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one I wanted, Oh, you couldn't beat me with clothes
off naked, you just walk around button my god, because
everything else is good, it's just this extra layer.
Speaker 6 (08:21):
Well, my vanity won't let me get fat. I'm just
too vain. And I've come in the bed in the
bathroom get ready in the morning, and I have to
look at this body butt naked, and if the body
ain't shaped up right, I run back after I've run
out the bathroom called the mirrors in there. I just
ran out to the hallway from this run out and
I peeped back in. I'm like, oh, fuck, that's me.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
And I can relate to that. I can relate to that.
When I after having my son women, we gained weight
and I got so big and I asked my son's father.
I looked at him and I was like, I'm not
gonna be upset, just be super transparent. I'm big as
hell right, And he was like no. I was like,
I'm big as hell right, and he looked at me
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and it was just the nicest yeah, you are. And
I was like, I don't know way I'm about to
be no fab beach respect. I was so determined, like
I can't eat being no fab beach. I can't be
looking at myself with all these jiggles and wiggles, so
I comestairs.
Speaker 5 (09:22):
So yeah, well I'm gonna tell you so man. I
had a woman that she didn't like her body. And
most people whenever they make love, they love to cut
the lights out. They don't want you to see them.
I want to see you. I want to see all
of you. And so she said, but I got stress
marks on my thighs. I said, girl, ain't nobody skilled
no quarter of roy pants? Because that's what.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Nobody do.
Speaker 6 (09:46):
Skinny people have a problem with that.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
Shame.
Speaker 8 (09:49):
Let me tell you, Michael, First and foremost, I grew
as a as an adolescent, I was husky.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
I shopped in the husky section.
Speaker 7 (09:57):
I was a little pool.
Speaker 8 (09:59):
I know, when I'm to the pool, I would wear
a T shirt because I was self conscious about my
little pre prepubescent titties.
Speaker 6 (10:07):
I was just self conscious.
Speaker 8 (10:08):
But then, when you know, I hear puberty, and then
I kind of grew up and I got skinnier people.
This is what I'm saying, we should normalize. Stop commenting
on people's body types. Let's just do that, because people
would see me and they be like, oh my god,
you've lost so much weight. My grandma, she was a stern.
She was an advocate of saying stuff like that, you
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need to get in here and eat you.
Speaker 6 (10:31):
And you know, because I'm gay, she was like, you.
Speaker 7 (10:32):
Ain't got that thing. That thing that's.
Speaker 8 (10:34):
Going gave people getting and you know, and it gave
me a complex so much so that growing up I
would wear an a shirt, a tank top, a T
shirt under my clothes so that I did not look
as skinny as I actually wiz was. And it gives
people stop commenting on people's body types.
Speaker 5 (10:57):
Hey, I'm gonna tell you, Anthony, it seemed like black
people wants to do it the most. And I don't
mean to put race on that, but I mean with
black folks. See, I ain't seen a long time, and
I'm trying to get people to normalize just saying, hey,
it's good to see you, versus good lord, look at you, well,
you can thin you getting beat whatever it is, that's
usually just our way of greetings in it and it's uh,
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it can be traumatizing.
Speaker 6 (11:20):
I don't I don't know why. It's difficult not to
call a big bitch big bitt it's hard to say
it's not hard.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
I don't think that it's hard. I just think being
with them, you know, sometimes I don't think it's hard
at all because everybody knows of everybody has them. In
no disrespect because I don't want to, you know, like
I'm shaming the fact culture. But it's it's it's just
a little now I'm poly correct.
Speaker 6 (11:50):
But you are correct because it's a culture, not.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
It's just that being everybody has them, but to be
with one is something different, meaning like you know, Anthony
spoke about you know, his partner, you know him being
big now he's little. But sometimes being with big people,
being seen with them, that's a big problem for some people.
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It's not so much as you know, being with them,
being out being seen with them sometimes can come, you know,
become a problem.
Speaker 6 (12:21):
But if you walk on the opposite side of them,
like if you're on one side and the people on
the other side, they don't really see you. Okay, sorry,
this is a terror terror but no, let me tell
you because I came up in that age era. I
was out there getting behind in the streets and shit,
and I was worried too, and whenever I would lose weight.
Speaker 3 (12:43):
People walk, are you okay?
Speaker 6 (12:45):
You're looking really thin? I'm like, well, who did I kiss?
Speaker 7 (12:47):
Who?
Speaker 6 (12:48):
What happened when I could be in danger here? And
so for years I'd always fluctuate my weight so I wouldn't.
I don't want to be fat, so I work hard
to go back down. Then once I go back down,
I go down too far. Now I'm word, oh shit,
So I started eating, I go back up. I would
just go back and forth with it.
Speaker 8 (13:05):
You know, you know what when I stopped, you know,
because everybody knows that I'm recovering cocaine at it, but
I was the most felt when I was on that cocaine.
Speaker 4 (13:15):
Baby you want to.
Speaker 8 (13:19):
But when I stopped doing it, you know what I'm saying,
Like the appetite, appetite came back.
Speaker 6 (13:25):
People will see me.
Speaker 8 (13:26):
They'd be like, oh my god, the weight looks good
on you. That's Black people have a different way of saying.
They'd be like, lord, look at you.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
You know.
Speaker 4 (13:33):
White people be like, oh my god, the weight looks
good on you.
Speaker 6 (13:36):
But then people comment once you are just a little heavier,
people will never be satisfied.
Speaker 8 (13:43):
Never whether you're fat or skinny or medium, regardless of
what you are, and they're going to comment about it.
Speaker 5 (13:49):
Hey, because if you lose all that weight but your
head is still bigs.
Speaker 7 (13:58):
Look like a pen.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
You can't please be people. You better. You better look
the best that you can look for you.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
You can just not win if you If you gain
a weight, he was got off drugs. If you lose
the weight, he on them drugs. So I mean, what
can you do you situation.
Speaker 5 (14:15):
The one thing the Lord did is it made me
handle and it made me comfort. And I don't care
what you got to say by me. It ain't stopped nothing.
And I'm you know one thing. I know that with
the weight or without the weight, or with the money
or without the money, or with the car or without
the car, it's me that people like. They don't you know,
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people are not hanging around me because of what I
could do for them. They're not hanging around me for
where I can take yo.
Speaker 3 (14:43):
I like me.
Speaker 5 (14:44):
So a lot of that shame come from you not
liking you. You can't shame me, and they're not liking me.
Speaker 6 (14:50):
Now gonna get a.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
Pound of life, then please shame me.
Speaker 6 (14:57):
I mean, we gotta go. We gotta go to a break.
I ain't gonn get a but listen before we step off,
what about the lady we be seeing on TV with
the six hundred pounds. When we come back, there's an
actual show My six hundred pound life and all these
people are six hundred pounds and more.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
We'll be right back.
Speaker 6 (15:17):
Hey, y'all, we gotta go sell some Michael talks that
everybody Yo today on with cousin Derek, on with Straya
and Anthony, and we're talking about body shaming. See you
in a minute, and we're black. So have you seen
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the show six hundred pounds? You've seen it, Derek, and
don't you have to see it? Say words because Derek
do a lot of waving, giving thumbs up and shaking
his head. But they only gonna hear this. They're not
gonna see this, so they don't.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
They don't hear. But I do that. I'm not talking
over anybody.
Speaker 6 (15:56):
I love that.
Speaker 3 (15:56):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
So now I'm learning there, I'm learning.
Speaker 5 (16:01):
So what it is I've seen that? Yeahs like, yeah,
that's the that's the way. So now let me tell
you one thing I know about everybody on my seat,
dred pound of life.
Speaker 3 (16:11):
They ain't single, not single.
Speaker 6 (16:14):
It is somebody, for everybody.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
I was just.
Speaker 6 (16:17):
For everybody.
Speaker 5 (16:18):
I want that type of love that they have, because
that day I seen that man wrench that woman off
on the porch.
Speaker 6 (16:25):
Wait what do you do?
Speaker 5 (16:26):
He wrenched the whole fact, he ran her off.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
He wrink the water hole and he listened.
Speaker 6 (16:33):
He lifted up, He lifted up.
Speaker 5 (16:38):
You know the type of love You got to have
somebody to set them on the porch and wash them
off with a water hole. And when they be like that,
you have to lift up each individual breast and wash
underneath it.
Speaker 6 (16:49):
The baby.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
Think you down there? Think it stinks down there? They
make booby odor and he stinks.
Speaker 6 (17:00):
Know what we're doing with this topic, but I don't
know how. Everything we're doing is shaming. So go ahead.
What were you saying that?
Speaker 3 (17:07):
You know?
Speaker 4 (17:07):
If earring back think you know that?
Speaker 6 (17:14):
And what what? What about the folks with that extra stomach?
What the fuck? What is that where it hangs down
so fucking look like One lady was walking towards me
and her stomach was hanging so low towards her kuchi.
It looked like it was It looked food posts, It
looked like it was her ass. So it looked like
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she was walking towards me with her ass and I said, ma'am,
you need to flip your feet around or something because
you you walking the wrong anute.
Speaker 5 (17:46):
That you know what, what would say that I fat
shame somebody that was on your show once, comedian Brandy
she's been like a little sister to me, Brandy Adams
in Houston.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
Oh man, I thought.
Speaker 5 (17:58):
Brand after she lost all that way, man, it looked
like somebody put her knees on backwards, like, oh my god.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
What happened in your legs where they flipped around? And yeah?
Speaker 8 (18:08):
But you know what, though, I think people are taking
their their power. Like for instance, black people were called
the N word. They took that word, reverse it and
now they use it as a like gay people. For me,
people you know, used to say the F word and
now you know, we use it amongst each other so
that when other people use it, it took the sting away.
And I think that people are using fat the term
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fat now to do that as well. But I think
six hundred pounds life, that's more obesity. You have to
get clinical Yeah, that's obesity.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Yeah, that's not A doctor is always upset telling them
you have to lose enough way to get the surgery doctor.
Speaker 6 (18:49):
Everybody needs that doctor.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Yes, but I think the part that you're talking about, Michael,
it's called a flip set upper part of the pussy.
So I mean it's I have one. I have a
but mine doesn't go down to my feet.
Speaker 3 (19:05):
It doesn't.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
It bothers me. I'm not a real big I'm not
a big girl.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
I'm a medium. What does it?
Speaker 6 (19:12):
What does it represent? What does the letters mean?
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Again, it's called fat upper part, pussy.
Speaker 7 (19:22):
Man area. Yeah, I did not know that was an acronym.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
I knew it, but I didn't know what it was
like it. I like it because you push it in
a little bit little juice.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
Yeah, it's a real thing for women, like medium machine.
Speaker 6 (19:40):
I don't like.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
Garren is asshole, but it's for a medium women.
Speaker 6 (19:46):
But push it and a little juice come out.
Speaker 5 (19:49):
You said, Yeah, it's like Saniti, like you push it.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
Well, I mean not the part where you I mean,
I was just thinking, like my good b you know,
and I was thinking of the whole you know, so
I got kind of lost. I did, But let's get
back to let's get back to it. My foopa doesn't
hang to the ground and the hoopers that you talking
about them or not. That's fucking disgusting that we got
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a call to say I'm sorry, and I did say,
no disrespect to the fat people, but for your fat
part of the pussy and something to be mixed together.
And it's always to the ground. It's fucking discussing somebody.
Speaker 3 (20:31):
Somebody know what it's somebody doing, you strech.
Speaker 5 (20:35):
You sound like them people that thanksgiving them like, don't
like their food, touch it.
Speaker 3 (20:38):
I want my foot.
Speaker 6 (20:44):
Oh my god, oh my god. I only had that
problem with pancakes. I don't want all the breakfast, all
my pancakes. I want the pancake to stand by itself
and all the other things can sit up against each other.
Speaker 8 (20:55):
That's what you don't have a there's not only approved
Dietitian less obesity, obesity.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
I just don't want it to hang to the ground.
It's okay to have one, so it could be okay,
so you can have a small, way, a medium, you
can even have one kind of the size of center.
But I just do not want one this long like
you got tubercle, I mean elephant, elephant, you know what
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I'm talking about. I don't like my balls or balls
coming from his stomach or like ann character.
Speaker 6 (21:35):
Damn, So look me straight.
Speaker 8 (21:37):
Let me get this straight. So it's like a vendor machine.
You can get different sizes. You just push it and
then juice come out and it's different sizes. Right, I'm
just asking for like for my fellow LG letter. I
don't know the letter.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
Yeah, I've never seen it. So I'm just trying to
with with what she's talking about. Man, she's going to.
Speaker 6 (21:56):
Paul saying, let me get this straight, gig seeing, let
me get this straight.
Speaker 3 (22:01):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (22:03):
At this point, I'm not even gay no more.
Speaker 7 (22:05):
I'm not gay no more. Deliver okay.
Speaker 5 (22:11):
And I had a question for Infinity. You said the
F word. Were you talking about flimsy?
Speaker 7 (22:16):
No, I'm talking about friend.
Speaker 5 (22:17):
Okay, Okay, but I could say flimsy. That's what I
be calling my cousin. Bro, you look flimsy today?
Speaker 4 (22:22):
Well, no, my risks be flimsy sometimes when I be
holding it like.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
This, I think the word we was initially using was fluffy.
And no, lie, this is a true story. I got
an uncle. He only dated again, no disrespect, he only
dated fat women. And when we were younger, when we
were younger, he wouldn't say fat. He would say he
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dates fluffy women, and so no disrespect to my aunts
and my you know, cousin. He would call him fluffy.
He would be like, hey, fleuslie. Now, some of them
would be very upset because they knew what he was saying.
But I thought it was a pretty word for fat.
Like growing up, I thought it was a cute word
for fat. But some people really like fluffy fat women.
Speaker 6 (23:12):
But do fluffy women like to be called fluffy?
Speaker 8 (23:14):
Yes, But I don't want nobody calling me cochi, Hey, cochy,
because it's.
Speaker 5 (23:31):
Part of your Listen, man, you don't want nobody to
know listen and see they don't see you doing the coke,
but see, we see the person's body.
Speaker 3 (23:38):
So that's why they call. Because, man, let me tell
you something.
Speaker 5 (23:41):
You know, what you do to somebody's psyche if you're
always refinding them of what they consider the worst part
of them to be funny, But listen, if somebody knew
the worst part of you or what you consider the
worst part of you, and that's all they said every
time they saw you, man, it would cause you to
feel some type of way. That's what that's what's wrong
with Monique right now, skinny bitches? Because you know what
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I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (24:05):
Somebody that made their baby feel bad?
Speaker 6 (24:07):
So KOCHI listen. Is that what we're doing?
Speaker 8 (24:17):
Wait a minute, hold on, let me reach my chest
for a little name I can find.
Speaker 6 (24:21):
Is that what we're doing.
Speaker 3 (24:27):
Right now?
Speaker 4 (24:28):
Chest my treasure chests for some name?
Speaker 6 (24:31):
But should we care what people say about it? I mean, like,
I think, if you weigh six hundred pounds at that point,
you don't give a fuck when people think about you.
No more, no way, because you don't care what you
think about you. So do we care what folks think
about us? Australa?
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Some people don't care. But may my brother rest in peace.
My brother name was Chris, and everybody that knew him
call him fat Chris. And so sometimes when he would
get into it or you know, the first thing that say, like,
were your fat ass, and he would say, everybody know,
I'm faid you something else and it'll.
Speaker 6 (25:05):
Be so funny.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
It would really be so funny because his name was
fat Chris.
Speaker 6 (25:10):
So you something else? Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (25:14):
But so some people, you know, depending on you know,
the mentality the person, you know, the self esteem, some
people it doesn't bother whereas some people it really bothers them.
You know some people who were fat as they were younger.
Anthony's you know, used an example, but he's not like that.
But some people are so messed up from being fed
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when they were young that they don't want to have
anything to do with being big period or fat.
Speaker 3 (25:40):
Austraya is spot on with what she just said.
Speaker 5 (25:44):
Uh. The football player Terrell Owens, he and Cherto Josenko
they were talking the other day and to was talking
about how black women used.
Speaker 3 (25:52):
To call him ugly when he was young.
Speaker 5 (25:55):
But he listen, you fought at some years old, almost
fit at this point, and that's still when you were
a kid.
Speaker 3 (26:03):
It's still Listen.
Speaker 5 (26:04):
We project trauma up on people and then we tell
them we'll get over everybody deal with that. Everybody's not
doesn't have the ability to get over it like you
think they should.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
And deal with it. Let me tell you what you
cause in people.
Speaker 5 (26:18):
Whenever all your daughters bringing up whatever they consider to
be the worst part of them. Now, you make everybody
angry that's gonna do something to somebody one day, and
when they snap, then you will say, Lily, wasn't that serious.
Speaker 3 (26:28):
Wasn't that serious to you?
Speaker 5 (26:29):
But after the nine minius fat joke, I'm gonna show you.
I'm gonna show you. I'm gonna show you have what fact.
Speaker 6 (26:36):
Just say this, if you've been called ugly as a kid,
if you still ugly and fault it, that's on you, okay,
because to learn how to adjust.
Speaker 8 (26:45):
He ain't ugly now he was speaking in retroflect like
he was reflecting on Terrell Owens. He's not uglying that
he was knowing that it pushed him away from dating
black women because he was teased so much with black
women calling him ugly, ugly.
Speaker 7 (27:02):
You ain't gonna father do nothing.
Speaker 8 (27:04):
All you can do is sweep out the caboos.
Speaker 5 (27:09):
Yes, it calls that trauma in that man, and he
still suffers today and people are going just get over it.
Let me tell you something, that trauma follows us. We
gotta start realizing that we participate in other people's trauma
because we've been traumatized and this, and for black folks,
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it's definitely like a right of passage.
Speaker 6 (27:32):
But Derek, how how is the Terrell Owens? How does
that carry over? Because he's he's a good looking man.
Now he was ugly. At least they called him ugly
when he was younger. How could that still be affecting
him when he's out of that state.
Speaker 5 (27:45):
Of I'm gonna tell you how man, Whenever, if a
person was quote unquote fat or.
Speaker 3 (27:51):
Big mentally, they still feel that way.
Speaker 7 (27:56):
Really.
Speaker 5 (27:57):
Oh yeah, but they may have lost their weight, but
damn that fat ass foot still loan is a mentality.
And so yes, I've grown from it, I've grown up,
but it still hurts right here. Why because amen, your heart, well,
your heart got to be here for you to get
over stuff like that.
Speaker 6 (28:17):
I don't want to ever deliberately hurt anybody's feelings. So
I'm not gonna call a fat person fat. Do they face?
I think that's just the kind of thing. That's the
kind of thing you keep with yourselves when you're smoking
a fat one and you're just having a fat one,
when you're smoking a cigarette and you're just having a
good time, having soda pops and having jokes. But I
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don't I would never, on purpose, out loud, say something
to make somebody feel bad about themselves. I don't do
I wouldn't even do that on stage as a comedian.
If my joke about you was gonna make you feel
bad about yourself. I'm not doing that joke. But if
I can say something about you and make you laugh too,
then I'm in.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
Let me clap, because I'm not there all the way,
not there. I'm not there. I'm so serious and this
is why I am. I am a mustard seed, and
I have so much work because if you deliberately or
you're doing something to me and you're a fat motherfucker,
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you are. If you do something to somebody that I
love or care about and you a fat motherfucker.
Speaker 8 (29:22):
Oh baby, you're gonna get all kind of lizzos and
vestas girls and all.
Speaker 6 (29:32):
Take your rubs.
Speaker 3 (29:35):
Hilarious.
Speaker 6 (29:37):
Well, I'm glad to see that you're all so sensitive
about people's bodies and the whole topic of bodies shaming.
Speaker 5 (29:44):
I had no ideal or caring y'all would be for
the peoples, but clearly you are.
Speaker 6 (29:49):
Okay, we gotta get out of here. We're out of time, folks.
I guess the message is, uh, fat shaming ain't nice,
and people saying bad stuff about you don't make you
feel good. But don't worry about people what they got
to say. You just got to worry about yourself and
how you feel about yourself, and if you feel good,
Fuck what anybody else got to say. You know, I
have the simplest way of dealing with people.
Speaker 5 (30:10):
If you like me, I like you. If you don't
like me, then fuck you too, and just keep it moving.
We don't need no great area.
Speaker 6 (30:15):
Okay, learn to love whoever you are because that's who
you are, and you stuck with you. Get back to
loving you, and then walk like you do. And you
could be fat, skinny, or anything else. But if you
walk with that right confidence, they will look at you
like they look at a lizzle little change the way
you look at big people. Little has so much fucking
confidence you ain't gonna even tell us she's fat. She
don't believe that the fuck out of here fat. I've
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got enough to hundred pound for I'm actually fat, you know.
So let's be kind to people. But if you're the
people who aren't being spoken too kindly, then I say
to you, just stand up, talk, keep your head up.
Fuck them. If they cared about you, they'd be worthwhile.
If they don't care about you, they doesn't matter you
no way. They know what they're saying. And just keep
it moving. Tell people how they can find you. Cudz
(30:59):
and there.
Speaker 5 (31:00):
Y'all can find me at the Michael Carya and Sonia wedding.
You can find me at uh at the reception. You
can find me on Instagram A's cousin Derek and on
Facebook is Derek Keenan I love.
Speaker 6 (31:21):
You love a straight of black. How do they find you?
Speaker 1 (31:23):
Oh? You can find me on all social media platforms
Astralia Black Sunny. And you can find me Monday through
Friday on the Michael Callion Morning Show.
Speaker 3 (31:31):
Woo Woo woo.
Speaker 5 (31:33):
And you Anthony King, Anthony Oaks, what can they find you?
Speaker 4 (31:36):
Queen Anthony Oaks, Queen so far.
Speaker 7 (31:42):
You can find me at.
Speaker 8 (31:44):
The d C m prov I have shows like every
couple of weeks that you can always find me there.
You can also find me at I'm Not Fat No
More dot com.
Speaker 5 (31:58):
Oh my god, thank you, KOCHI Now listen, I'm just
playing cause I smoked way more crack than you even imagine.
Speaker 8 (32:08):
Son Now tell them story strikes you out?
Speaker 6 (32:13):
You looked in your chest twice. Hey, y'all, we gotta
get over here. God is great. We gotta get out
of here. God is outstanding and so are you. Go
ahead and love yourself. It's all right, you got our permission.
We gotta get out of here. Michael Talks to everybody.
We do three new shows every week and five days
a week. You can catch me on YouTube. But the
Michael Caya Morning Show. Have an amazing day. Let no
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If you dig it, I see you on the next one. Woo.
I had a good time today. I hope y'all did too.
Speaker 3 (32:46):
Man.
Speaker 6 (32:47):
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Speaker 3 (33:30):
I see y'all later
M ya all ready, let's go.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Well, so missus, Michael called this world started doing venice peach.
Now he reached in the world, He'll make you left.
Take the stomach car supple fly. Nice guys riding to
me told he ain't ready for the star hears winter
and oh g three times this thing gonna beginning. Whether
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a dinner.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
On your drive and your brother I mean it's a
reb Michael Taus said, everybody call yes.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Michael Taus had everybody like a call.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Yes, Michael Saus say, everybody you know what shin.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
Called?
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Michael fuck said, everybody called.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Michael tausaid everybody Michael.
Speaker 5 (00:42):
To say, my good everybody, everybody you call, Hey, it's
Michael Kay.
Speaker 6 (00:51):
Is another amazing day. And man, no, only do I
talk to everybody. I talked to all kinds of people
when we talk about all type of topics. Yes, Michael
talks to everybody. And the question that was in my
mind was, uh, is it wrong to call a fat
lady fat? That's That's all I'm trying to think. Is
it Is it wrong? Because everybody's so politically correct, everybody's
(01:13):
so uptight you can't say nothing without people trying to
cancel you. And you know I was accused actually uh
a fat shaming. I think I told you this therek Oh,
we have with us the fabulous comedian Derek Keener from Arkan, Sam.
What is an arkansaw and Kansas together are? Wait, don't
say ark in Tansas? Ar arkin't ark and Texas? Wait? Okay,
(01:37):
how do you pronounce this Arkansas?
Speaker 3 (01:40):
But you you guys call it ar Kansas.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
No, you have something else that's in the middle of it,
text ar Canada.
Speaker 6 (01:46):
That's the one that's just retarded. To remember to say that.
And once again, you can't say retarded. That's politically correct
correct too. You know, you can't call midget a midget.
You gotta call the midget little personause I have a
friend and I don't come a little person because we'll
be fussing, the fighting all the time. I call him
little motherfucker, a little bit motherfucker.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
And but because we be arguing the shit right and
he'd be drunk, he'd be talking shit.
Speaker 6 (02:12):
He came running at me one day. Man, he was
toe up and we was laughing. You know, I cut
you short and shouting, you know, so He come running
at me doing the little legs right, but I don't
think his knees meant so. He didn't quite clear that
curve right, he hit that motherfuck ground and rode boy.
I laughed by But that's politically incorrect. Well, all that
stuff is wrong, And I tell you what happened to
(02:35):
I saw this. This fat lady was riding the bike
and she was peddling too. Oh she's peeling her ass off, Derek,
and I yelled out cow. So she turns to me,
give me the finger, turned back around and ran right
into the fucking cow. I don't think that's fat shame man,
I don't know, but anyway, you can't say nothing about nobody.
(02:58):
Today's topic is body shaming. We have the crew here today,
the Great Anthony Oaks. He from the DMB, actually just
from DC, but they used me letters they can down there.
Hey Anthony, how are you today?
Speaker 7 (03:11):
I am great?
Speaker 4 (03:13):
How are you doing, sir?
Speaker 6 (03:14):
Man? Hey, I'm thirty day. Well, since we don't know
when the show gonna drop, let me just see this.
I'll be married in a pair second. So I am
doing awesome. Astraya black straya black is funny strayl black
as our other crew member. How you doing that?
Speaker 1 (03:31):
How guys?
Speaker 5 (03:32):
I wish they could see you. You got a different hat,
but you're cute as a button. You can wear some
hats now. Third, another fella that wears.
Speaker 6 (03:39):
A cute hat my cousin, Derek, Derek Kena and I
went up, Derek, Tina.
Speaker 5 (03:45):
And I mean, you know, I feel I feel a
little funny about you inviting me on today because I
feel like I'm the only fat person on here and
you needed warn and I forget that. Let me say this,
I don't want to.
Speaker 6 (04:00):
Thank you fat. I don't think you fat. I think
you're fluffy.
Speaker 8 (04:02):
Go ahead, you identify fat, though you identified your identify.
Speaker 5 (04:08):
Damn American, I might identify you at the more you talking.
So I'm gonna tell you recently I had a lady
quote unquote fat Shamie. And this is no joke. So
I'm on the radio in Texas, Arcana, and the lady
who I work with know me, I guess my whole life,
hadn't seen me in years. And she heard my voice
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over the intercom at the regular job I had, and
she said.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
That is Derreck Keener. Where are you at? And I
told her where I was at, and she came up
there to the warehouse to see me.
Speaker 5 (04:39):
And when this woman got up there, she looked at
me and said, damn you the game of way Ooh,
I hate that.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Now.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Listen now, in my mind I wanted to call say
you fuck it be, but I didn't say it. What
I did was I then took my fliffant but onto
my radio show, and then I proceeded to talk about
how she.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Had lost all of her teeth, because what is shame
me not?
Speaker 5 (05:07):
I never called her name, but she knew I was
talking to and from that day, oh, she never spoke
to be a.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
Speaker 5 (05:16):
You're from the ghetto like I am. There, I say
what's good for the goose is good for the geeses.
Speaker 8 (05:23):
If you in the LGBT community say what's good for
the goose is good for the gooch?
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Oh damn, oh my god, that the hell is the coach?
Speaker 3 (05:36):
I feel?
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Okay, So as a lady, I'm just gonna say, in
the past, women didn't like, you know, to be fed,
you know, or to be call fed, or just the
whole fat word. But now you know, fat is being sexy.
You know, it's on the eye of the beholder.
Speaker 6 (05:54):
Some people, some people find fat sexy.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
I mean you have something.
Speaker 6 (05:59):
Yeah, you see Derrick Keena's face with a smile and
a positive nod when I see it?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Do they? Okay?
Speaker 6 (06:06):
Really?
Speaker 5 (06:07):
Oh yeah, there's some chubby taper out there, chubby Jesus.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
Okay, all right?
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah, I like the big guy. I mean me standing
next to a big dude. We look like the number ten.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
We win it.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
I'm engaged to a big dude. And let me tell
you he.
Speaker 6 (06:24):
Is not that big. I met him comedy.
Speaker 8 (06:27):
But his name, no, his name is the fat Vegan.
He used to be four hundred pounds and then he
went vegan and was not so.
Speaker 7 (06:36):
But I mean, I'm two skinny dudes. What're talking?
Speaker 6 (06:40):
Two skinny people gonna do?
Speaker 4 (06:41):
Create a fire in the bed like two matchsticks rubbing together.
I can't deal with that. I need some flesh.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
He needs to be fleshy, so okay, yeah, you need
something to grab hold too.
Speaker 7 (06:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (06:52):
And in the in the alphabet community, there's a whole
section we call them bears. Like cousin Derek will be
considered a bear if he were in that community.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
A Bear is a stocky, bigger gay person.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
I don't want to be a I don't want to be.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
I know.
Speaker 8 (07:09):
I'm not saying you want to be. I'm not saying
that you want. Oh God, disclaimer, cousin Derrek is not
a Bear. I want to go ahead and put it
in the mind.
Speaker 6 (07:19):
But he's still a stocky, big gay fella.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
Anyway, Bear, I'm not sensitive at all. If you were
saying that, it wouldn't It doesn't bother me, you know
what I mean, Like some guys are, so it don't
bother me.
Speaker 6 (07:33):
I get it. But but people always saying stuff too
about your weight, like people always got their own stuff.
You're losing weight, and that makes you scared any till
somebody asks you losing weight? They think you see it?
Are you losing?
Speaker 5 (07:46):
I think everybody needs to be comfortable in the skin
that they're in. I don't allow other people to dictate
how I feel about me. Now how you see me
as how you see me. But I still see me
as wonderful. And it ain't about the body that I
got Cause let me tell you something, the Lord is
sparing y'all from me. Come on, somebody coming off the
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one I wanted, Oh, you couldn't beat me with clothes
off naked, you just walk around button my god, because
everything else is good, it's just this extra layer.
Speaker 6 (08:21):
Well, my vanity won't let me get fat. I'm just
too vain. And I've come in the bed in the
bathroom get ready in the morning, and I have to
look at this body butt naked, and if the body
ain't shaped up right, I run back after I've run
out the bathroom called the mirrors in there. I just
ran out to the hallway from this run out and
I peeped back in. I'm like, oh, fuck, that's me.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
And I can relate to that. I can relate to that.
When I after having my son women, we gained weight
and I got so big and I asked my son's father.
I looked at him and I was like, I'm not
gonna be upset, just be super transparent. I'm big as
hell right, And he was like no. I was like,
I'm big as hell right, and he looked at me
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and it was just the nicest yeah, you are. And
I was like, I don't know way I'm about to
be no fab beach respect. I was so determined, like
I can't eat being no fab beach. I can't be
looking at myself with all these jiggles and wiggles, so
I comestairs.
Speaker 5 (09:22):
So yeah, well I'm gonna tell you so man. I
had a woman that she didn't like her body. And
most people whenever they make love, they love to cut
the lights out. They don't want you to see them.
I want to see you. I want to see all
of you. And so she said, but I got stress
marks on my thighs. I said, girl, ain't nobody skilled
no quarter of roy pants? Because that's what.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Nobody do.
Speaker 6 (09:46):
Skinny people have a problem with that.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
Shame.
Speaker 8 (09:49):
Let me tell you, Michael, First and foremost, I grew
as a as an adolescent, I was husky.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
I shopped in the husky section.
Speaker 7 (09:57):
I was a little pool.
Speaker 8 (09:59):
I know, when I'm to the pool, I would wear
a T shirt because I was self conscious about my
little pre prepubescent titties.
Speaker 6 (10:07):
I was just self conscious.
Speaker 8 (10:08):
But then, when you know, I hear puberty, and then
I kind of grew up and I got skinnier people.
This is what I'm saying, we should normalize. Stop commenting
on people's body types. Let's just do that, because people
would see me and they be like, oh my god,
you've lost so much weight. My grandma, she was a stern.
She was an advocate of saying stuff like that, you
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need to get in here and eat you.
Speaker 6 (10:31):
And you know, because I'm gay, she was like, you.
Speaker 7 (10:32):
Ain't got that thing. That thing that's.
Speaker 8 (10:34):
Going gave people getting and you know, and it gave
me a complex so much so that growing up I
would wear an a shirt, a tank top, a T
shirt under my clothes so that I did not look
as skinny as I actually wiz was. And it gives
people stop commenting on people's body types.
Speaker 5 (10:57):
Hey, I'm gonna tell you, Anthony, it seemed like black
people wants to do it the most. And I don't
mean to put race on that, but I mean with
black folks. See, I ain't seen a long time, and
I'm trying to get people to normalize just saying, hey,
it's good to see you, versus good lord, look at you, well,
you can thin you getting beat whatever it is, that's
usually just our way of greetings in it and it's uh,
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it can be traumatizing.
Speaker 6 (11:20):
I don't I don't know why. It's difficult not to
call a big bitch big bitt it's hard to say
it's not hard.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
I don't think that it's hard. I just think being
with them, you know, sometimes I don't think it's hard
at all because everybody knows of everybody has them. In
no disrespect because I don't want to, you know, like
I'm shaming the fact culture. But it's it's it's just
a little now I'm poly correct.
Speaker 6 (11:50):
But you are correct because it's a culture, not.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
It's just that being everybody has them, but to be
with one is something different, meaning like you know, Anthony
spoke about you know, his partner, you know him being
big now he's little. But sometimes being with big people,
being seen with them, that's a big problem for some people.
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It's not so much as you know, being with them,
being out being seen with them sometimes can come, you know,
become a problem.
Speaker 6 (12:21):
But if you walk on the opposite side of them,
like if you're on one side and the people on
the other side, they don't really see you. Okay, sorry,
this is a terror terror but no, let me tell
you because I came up in that age era. I
was out there getting behind in the streets and shit,
and I was worried too, and whenever I would lose weight.
Speaker 3 (12:43):
People walk, are you okay?
Speaker 6 (12:45):
You're looking really thin? I'm like, well, who did I kiss?
Speaker 7 (12:47):
Who?
Speaker 6 (12:48):
What happened when I could be in danger here? And
so for years I'd always fluctuate my weight so I wouldn't.
I don't want to be fat, so I work hard
to go back down. Then once I go back down,
I go down too far. Now I'm word, oh shit,
So I started eating, I go back up. I would
just go back and forth with it.
Speaker 8 (13:05):
You know, you know what when I stopped, you know,
because everybody knows that I'm recovering cocaine at it, but
I was the most felt when I was on that cocaine.
Speaker 4 (13:15):
Baby you want to.
Speaker 8 (13:19):
But when I stopped doing it, you know what I'm saying,
Like the appetite, appetite came back.
Speaker 6 (13:25):
People will see me.
Speaker 8 (13:26):
They'd be like, oh my god, the weight looks good
on you. That's Black people have a different way of saying.
They'd be like, lord, look at you.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
You know.
Speaker 4 (13:33):
White people be like, oh my god, the weight looks
good on you.
Speaker 6 (13:36):
But then people comment once you are just a little heavier,
people will never be satisfied.
Speaker 8 (13:43):
Never whether you're fat or skinny or medium, regardless of
what you are, and they're going to comment about it.
Speaker 5 (13:49):
Hey, because if you lose all that weight but your
head is still bigs.
Speaker 7 (13:58):
Look like a pen.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
You can't please be people. You better. You better look
the best that you can look for you.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
You can just not win if you If you gain
a weight, he was got off drugs. If you lose
the weight, he on them drugs. So I mean, what
can you do you situation.
Speaker 5 (14:15):
The one thing the Lord did is it made me
handle and it made me comfort. And I don't care
what you got to say by me. It ain't stopped nothing.
And I'm you know one thing. I know that with
the weight or without the weight, or with the money
or without the money, or with the car or without
the car, it's me that people like. They don't you know,
(14:36):
people are not hanging around me because of what I
could do for them. They're not hanging around me for
where I can take yo.
Speaker 3 (14:43):
I like me.
Speaker 5 (14:44):
So a lot of that shame come from you not
liking you. You can't shame me, and they're not liking me.
Speaker 6 (14:50):
Now gonna get a.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
Pound of life, then please shame me.
Speaker 6 (14:57):
I mean, we gotta go. We gotta go to a break.
I ain't gonn get a but listen before we step off,
what about the lady we be seeing on TV with
the six hundred pounds. When we come back, there's an
actual show My six hundred pound life and all these
people are six hundred pounds and more.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
We'll be right back.
Speaker 6 (15:17):
Hey, y'all, we gotta go sell some Michael talks that
everybody Yo today on with cousin Derek, on with Straya
and Anthony, and we're talking about body shaming. See you
in a minute, and we're black. So have you seen
(15:40):
the show six hundred pounds? You've seen it, Derek, and
don't you have to see it? Say words because Derek
do a lot of waving, giving thumbs up and shaking
his head. But they only gonna hear this. They're not
gonna see this, so they don't.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
They don't hear. But I do that. I'm not talking
over anybody.
Speaker 6 (15:56):
I love that.
Speaker 3 (15:56):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
So now I'm learning there, I'm learning.
Speaker 5 (16:01):
So what it is I've seen that? Yeahs like, yeah,
that's the that's the way. So now let me tell
you one thing I know about everybody on my seat,
dred pound of life.
Speaker 3 (16:11):
They ain't single, not single.
Speaker 6 (16:14):
It is somebody, for everybody.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
I was just.
Speaker 6 (16:17):
For everybody.
Speaker 5 (16:18):
I want that type of love that they have, because
that day I seen that man wrench that woman off
on the porch.
Speaker 6 (16:25):
Wait what do you do?
Speaker 5 (16:26):
He wrenched the whole fact, he ran her off.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
He wrink the water hole and he listened.
Speaker 6 (16:33):
He lifted up, He lifted up.
Speaker 5 (16:38):
You know the type of love You got to have
somebody to set them on the porch and wash them
off with a water hole. And when they be like that,
you have to lift up each individual breast and wash
underneath it.
Speaker 6 (16:49):
The baby.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
Think you down there? Think it stinks down there? They
make booby odor and he stinks.
Speaker 6 (17:00):
Know what we're doing with this topic, but I don't
know how. Everything we're doing is shaming. So go ahead.
What were you saying that?
Speaker 3 (17:07):
You know?
Speaker 4 (17:07):
If earring back think you know that?
Speaker 6 (17:14):
And what what? What about the folks with that extra stomach?
What the fuck? What is that where it hangs down
so fucking look like One lady was walking towards me
and her stomach was hanging so low towards her kuchi.
It looked like it was It looked food posts, It
looked like it was her ass. So it looked like
(17:35):
she was walking towards me with her ass and I said, ma'am,
you need to flip your feet around or something because
you you walking the wrong anute.
Speaker 5 (17:46):
That you know what, what would say that I fat
shame somebody that was on your show once, comedian Brandy
she's been like a little sister to me, Brandy Adams
in Houston.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
Oh man, I thought.
Speaker 5 (17:58):
Brand after she lost all that way, man, it looked
like somebody put her knees on backwards, like, oh my god.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
What happened in your legs where they flipped around? And yeah?
Speaker 8 (18:08):
But you know what, though, I think people are taking
their their power. Like for instance, black people were called
the N word. They took that word, reverse it and
now they use it as a like gay people. For me,
people you know, used to say the F word and
now you know, we use it amongst each other so
that when other people use it, it took the sting away.
And I think that people are using fat the term
(18:30):
fat now to do that as well. But I think
six hundred pounds life, that's more obesity. You have to
get clinical Yeah, that's obesity.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Yeah, that's not A doctor is always upset telling them
you have to lose enough way to get the surgery doctor.
Speaker 6 (18:49):
Everybody needs that doctor.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Yes, but I think the part that you're talking about, Michael,
it's called a flip set upper part of the pussy.
So I mean it's I have one. I have a
but mine doesn't go down to my feet.
Speaker 3 (19:05):
It doesn't.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
It bothers me. I'm not a real big I'm not
a big girl.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
I'm a medium. What does it?
Speaker 6 (19:12):
What does it represent? What does the letters mean?
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Again, it's called fat upper part, pussy.
Speaker 7 (19:22):
Man area. Yeah, I did not know that was an acronym.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
I knew it, but I didn't know what it was
like it. I like it because you push it in
a little bit little juice.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
Yeah, it's a real thing for women, like medium machine.
Speaker 6 (19:40):
I don't like.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
Garren is asshole, but it's for a medium women.
Speaker 6 (19:46):
But push it and a little juice come out.
Speaker 5 (19:49):
You said, Yeah, it's like Saniti, like you push it.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
Well, I mean not the part where you I mean,
I was just thinking, like my good b you know,
and I was thinking of the whole you know, so
I got kind of lost. I did, But let's get
back to let's get back to it. My foopa doesn't
hang to the ground and the hoopers that you talking
about them or not. That's fucking disgusting that we got
(20:17):
a call to say I'm sorry, and I did say,
no disrespect to the fat people, but for your fat
part of the pussy and something to be mixed together.
And it's always to the ground. It's fucking discussing somebody.
Speaker 3 (20:31):
Somebody know what it's somebody doing, you strech.
Speaker 5 (20:35):
You sound like them people that thanksgiving them like, don't
like their food, touch it.
Speaker 3 (20:38):
I want my foot.
Speaker 6 (20:44):
Oh my god, oh my god. I only had that
problem with pancakes. I don't want all the breakfast, all
my pancakes. I want the pancake to stand by itself
and all the other things can sit up against each other.
Speaker 8 (20:55):
That's what you don't have a there's not only approved
Dietitian less obesity, obesity.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
I just don't want it to hang to the ground.
It's okay to have one, so it could be okay,
so you can have a small, way, a medium, you
can even have one kind of the size of center.
But I just do not want one this long like
you got tubercle, I mean elephant, elephant, you know what
(21:28):
I'm talking about. I don't like my balls or balls
coming from his stomach or like ann character.
Speaker 6 (21:35):
Damn, So look me straight.
Speaker 8 (21:37):
Let me get this straight. So it's like a vendor machine.
You can get different sizes. You just push it and
then juice come out and it's different sizes. Right, I'm
just asking for like for my fellow LG letter. I
don't know the letter.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
Yeah, I've never seen it. So I'm just trying to
with with what she's talking about. Man, she's going to.
Speaker 6 (21:56):
Paul saying, let me get this straight, gig seeing, let
me get this straight.
Speaker 3 (22:01):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (22:03):
At this point, I'm not even gay no more.
Speaker 7 (22:05):
I'm not gay no more. Deliver okay.
Speaker 5 (22:11):
And I had a question for Infinity. You said the
F word. Were you talking about flimsy?
Speaker 7 (22:16):
No, I'm talking about friend.
Speaker 5 (22:17):
Okay, Okay, but I could say flimsy. That's what I
be calling my cousin. Bro, you look flimsy today?
Speaker 4 (22:22):
Well, no, my risks be flimsy sometimes when I be
holding it like.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
This, I think the word we was initially using was fluffy.
And no, lie, this is a true story. I got
an uncle. He only dated again, no disrespect, he only
dated fat women. And when we were younger, when we
were younger, he wouldn't say fat. He would say he
(22:48):
dates fluffy women, and so no disrespect to my aunts
and my you know, cousin. He would call him fluffy.
He would be like, hey, fleuslie. Now, some of them
would be very upset because they knew what he was saying.
But I thought it was a pretty word for fat.
Like growing up, I thought it was a cute word
for fat. But some people really like fluffy fat women.
Speaker 6 (23:12):
But do fluffy women like to be called fluffy?
Speaker 8 (23:14):
Yes, But I don't want nobody calling me cochi, Hey, cochy,
because it's.
Speaker 5 (23:31):
Part of your Listen, man, you don't want nobody to
know listen and see they don't see you doing the coke,
but see, we see the person's body.
Speaker 3 (23:38):
So that's why they call. Because, man, let me tell
you something.
Speaker 5 (23:41):
You know, what you do to somebody's psyche if you're
always refinding them of what they consider the worst part
of them to be funny, But listen, if somebody knew
the worst part of you or what you consider the
worst part of you, and that's all they said every
time they saw you, man, it would cause you to
feel some type of way. That's what that's what's wrong
with Monique right now, skinny bitches? Because you know what
(24:05):
I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (24:05):
Somebody that made their baby feel bad?
Speaker 6 (24:07):
So KOCHI listen. Is that what we're doing?
Speaker 8 (24:17):
Wait a minute, hold on, let me reach my chest
for a little name I can find.
Speaker 6 (24:21):
Is that what we're doing.
Speaker 3 (24:27):
Right now?
Speaker 4 (24:28):
Chest my treasure chests for some name?
Speaker 6 (24:31):
But should we care what people say about it? I mean, like,
I think, if you weigh six hundred pounds at that point,
you don't give a fuck when people think about you.
No more, no way, because you don't care what you
think about you. So do we care what folks think
about us? Australa?
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Some people don't care. But may my brother rest in peace.
My brother name was Chris, and everybody that knew him
call him fat Chris. And so sometimes when he would
get into it or you know, the first thing that say, like,
were your fat ass, and he would say, everybody know,
I'm faid you something else and it'll.
Speaker 6 (25:05):
Be so funny.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
It would really be so funny because his name was
fat Chris.
Speaker 6 (25:10):
So you something else? Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (25:14):
But so some people, you know, depending on you know,
the mentality the person, you know, the self esteem, some
people it doesn't bother whereas some people it really bothers them.
You know some people who were fat as they were younger.
Anthony's you know, used an example, but he's not like that.
But some people are so messed up from being fed
(25:34):
when they were young that they don't want to have
anything to do with being big period or fat.
Speaker 3 (25:40):
Austraya is spot on with what she just said.
Speaker 5 (25:44):
Uh. The football player Terrell Owens, he and Cherto Josenko
they were talking the other day and to was talking
about how black women used.
Speaker 3 (25:52):
To call him ugly when he was young.
Speaker 5 (25:55):
But he listen, you fought at some years old, almost
fit at this point, and that's still when you were
a kid.
Speaker 3 (26:03):
It's still Listen.
Speaker 5 (26:04):
We project trauma up on people and then we tell
them we'll get over everybody deal with that. Everybody's not
doesn't have the ability to get over it like you
think they should.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
And deal with it. Let me tell you what you
cause in people.
Speaker 5 (26:18):
Whenever all your daughters bringing up whatever they consider to
be the worst part of them. Now, you make everybody
angry that's gonna do something to somebody one day, and
when they snap, then you will say, Lily, wasn't that serious.
Speaker 3 (26:28):
Wasn't that serious to you?
Speaker 5 (26:29):
But after the nine minius fat joke, I'm gonna show you.
I'm gonna show you. I'm gonna show you have what fact.
Speaker 6 (26:36):
Just say this, if you've been called ugly as a kid,
if you still ugly and fault it, that's on you, okay,
because to learn how to adjust.
Speaker 8 (26:45):
He ain't ugly now he was speaking in retroflect like
he was reflecting on Terrell Owens. He's not uglying that
he was knowing that it pushed him away from dating
black women because he was teased so much with black
women calling him ugly, ugly.
Speaker 7 (27:02):
You ain't gonna father do nothing.
Speaker 8 (27:04):
All you can do is sweep out the caboos.
Speaker 5 (27:09):
Yes, it calls that trauma in that man, and he
still suffers today and people are going just get over it.
Let me tell you something, that trauma follows us. We
gotta start realizing that we participate in other people's trauma
because we've been traumatized and this, and for black folks,
(27:30):
it's definitely like a right of passage.
Speaker 6 (27:32):
But Derek, how how is the Terrell Owens? How does
that carry over? Because he's he's a good looking man.
Now he was ugly. At least they called him ugly
when he was younger. How could that still be affecting
him when he's out of that state.
Speaker 5 (27:45):
Of I'm gonna tell you how man, Whenever, if a
person was quote unquote fat or.
Speaker 3 (27:51):
Big mentally, they still feel that way.
Speaker 7 (27:56):
Really.
Speaker 5 (27:57):
Oh yeah, but they may have lost their weight, but
damn that fat ass foot still loan is a mentality.
And so yes, I've grown from it, I've grown up,
but it still hurts right here. Why because amen, your heart, well,
your heart got to be here for you to get
over stuff like that.
Speaker 6 (28:17):
I don't want to ever deliberately hurt anybody's feelings. So
I'm not gonna call a fat person fat. Do they face?
I think that's just the kind of thing. That's the
kind of thing you keep with yourselves when you're smoking
a fat one and you're just having a fat one,
when you're smoking a cigarette and you're just having a
good time, having soda pops and having jokes. But I
(28:37):
don't I would never, on purpose, out loud, say something
to make somebody feel bad about themselves. I don't do
I wouldn't even do that on stage as a comedian.
If my joke about you was gonna make you feel
bad about yourself. I'm not doing that joke. But if
I can say something about you and make you laugh too,
then I'm in.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
Let me clap, because I'm not there all the way,
not there. I'm not there. I'm so serious and this
is why I am. I am a mustard seed, and
I have so much work because if you deliberately or
you're doing something to me and you're a fat motherfucker,
(29:13):
you are. If you do something to somebody that I
love or care about and you a fat motherfucker.
Speaker 8 (29:22):
Oh baby, you're gonna get all kind of lizzos and
vestas girls and all.
Speaker 6 (29:32):
Take your rubs.
Speaker 3 (29:35):
Hilarious.
Speaker 6 (29:37):
Well, I'm glad to see that you're all so sensitive
about people's bodies and the whole topic of bodies shaming.
Speaker 5 (29:44):
I had no ideal or caring y'all would be for
the peoples, but clearly you are.
Speaker 6 (29:49):
Okay, we gotta get out of here. We're out of time, folks.
I guess the message is, uh, fat shaming ain't nice,
and people saying bad stuff about you don't make you
feel good. But don't worry about people what they got
to say. You just got to worry about yourself and
how you feel about yourself, and if you feel good,
Fuck what anybody else got to say. You know, I
have the simplest way of dealing with people.
Speaker 5 (30:10):
If you like me, I like you. If you don't
like me, then fuck you too, and just keep it moving.
We don't need no great area.
Speaker 6 (30:15):
Okay, learn to love whoever you are because that's who
you are, and you stuck with you. Get back to
loving you, and then walk like you do. And you
could be fat, skinny, or anything else. But if you
walk with that right confidence, they will look at you
like they look at a lizzle little change the way
you look at big people. Little has so much fucking
confidence you ain't gonna even tell us she's fat. She
don't believe that the fuck out of here fat. I've
(30:37):
got enough to hundred pound for I'm actually fat, you know.
So let's be kind to people. But if you're the
people who aren't being spoken too kindly, then I say
to you, just stand up, talk, keep your head up.
Fuck them. If they cared about you, they'd be worthwhile.
If they don't care about you, they doesn't matter you
no way. They know what they're saying. And just keep
it moving. Tell people how they can find you. Cudz
(30:59):
and there.
Speaker 5 (31:00):
Y'all can find me at the Michael Carya and Sonia wedding.
You can find me at uh at the reception. You
can find me on Instagram A's cousin Derek and on
Facebook is Derek Keenan I love.
Speaker 6 (31:21):
You love a straight of black. How do they find you?
Speaker 1 (31:23):
Oh? You can find me on all social media platforms
Astralia Black Sunny. And you can find me Monday through
Friday on the Michael Callion Morning Show.
Speaker 3 (31:31):
Woo Woo woo.
Speaker 5 (31:33):
And you Anthony King, Anthony Oaks, what can they find you?
Speaker 4 (31:36):
Queen Anthony Oaks, Queen so far.
Speaker 7 (31:42):
You can find me at.
Speaker 8 (31:44):
The d C m prov I have shows like every
couple of weeks that you can always find me there.
You can also find me at I'm Not Fat No
More dot com.
Speaker 5 (31:58):
Oh my god, thank you, KOCHI Now listen, I'm just
playing cause I smoked way more crack than you even imagine.
Speaker 8 (32:08):
Son Now tell them story strikes you out?
Speaker 6 (32:13):
You looked in your chest twice. Hey, y'all, we gotta
get over here. God is great. We gotta get out
of here. God is outstanding and so are you. Go
ahead and love yourself. It's all right, you got our permission.
We gotta get out of here. Michael Talks to everybody.
We do three new shows every week and five days
a week. You can catch me on YouTube. But the
Michael Caya Morning Show. Have an amazing day. Let no
(32:33):
one steal your rainbow, and remember life. Here is a garden.
If you dig it, I see you on the next one. Woo.
I had a good time today. I hope y'all did too.
Speaker 3 (32:46):
Man.
Speaker 6 (32:47):
Thank y'all for checking us out here at Michael Talks
to everybody. Hey, you can follow me, man, I'm easy
to follow. I'm on Instagram just under act Michael Kaya.
I'm on TikTok. That's Michael Kaya one three five. I
have a very sexy webpage called the Realmichael Kaye dot Com.
You know you go over there. You can find out
about my merchandise and what I'm doing and where all
my shows I airthing is right there. Or if you
(33:09):
really love me, you can go to my cass shaft.
That's dollar sign Michael Kaye's money. I'm playing with y'all,
but I accept green stem foods and Canadian money. I'll
take your bus transfer if it's got some time left
on it. And my morning show, oh my goodness, the
Michael Kaye Morning Show. That's seven eight m Pacific time, YO,
five days a week. This has been a ray Lock
Group production.
Speaker 3 (33:30):
I see y'all later
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