May 29, 2024 • 26 mins
Minnie questions Romy Gill MBE, chef, food and travel writer, and broadcaster. Romy reminisces about childhood train rides through India, writing letters to some of the world’s top chefs when she was a young chef in training, and why a meal from a food cart was one of the best things she’s ever eaten.
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
I think like you, I.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Really pushed myself, and I also I think I should stop.
You know, you're not never going to please anybody.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Yeah, you're never going to please anybody.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
That's so funny as opposed to you're never going to
please everybody.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
You're never going to please anybody.
Speaker 4 (00:18):
My dad used to say that because you know, the
phrase is I can't have everything, and my.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Dad used to go, oh, well you can't have anything.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
I like that.
Speaker 5 (00:28):
Hello, I'm Mini driver. I've always loved Preust's questionnaire. It
was originally in nineteenth century parlor game where players would
ask each other thirty five questions aimed at revealing.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
The other player's true nature.
Speaker 5 (00:43):
In asking different people the same set of questions, you
can make observations about which truths appear to be universal.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
And it made me.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Wonder, what if these questions were just a jumping off point,
what greater depths would be revealed if I asked these
questions as conversation starters. So I adapted Pru's questionnaire and
I wrote my own seven questions that I personally think
are pertinent to a person's story. They are when and
where were you happiest? What is the quality you like
least about yourself. What relationship, real or fictionalized, defines love
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for you? What question would you most like answered, What person, place,
or experience has shaped you the most? What would be
your last meal? And can you tell me something in
your life that's grown out of a personal disaster? And
I've gathered a group of really remarkable people, ones that
I am honored and humbled to have had the chance
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to engage with. You may not hear their answers to
all seven of these questions. We've whittled it down to
which questions felt closest to their experience or the most surprising,
or created the most fertile ground to connect.
Speaker 6 (01:51):
My guest today is the chef, author, and broadcaster Romy Gill,
a truly wonderful, self made powerhouse whose food is well.
Last time I ate at one of her pop up restaurants,
it was an extremely quiet experience because nearly everyone in
the restaurant was quite literally in a silent reverie over
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her food. Her cookbooks are warm and insightful, and the
newest of which is out this September and is entitled
Romy Girls India.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Where and When were you Happiest?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
So I'm going to take you back to my childhood,
those long train journeys. If anybody hasn't experienced that, children's
born in nineteen seventies, eighties and early nineties, Indian families
will understand what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
In India is such a big.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Country and those long train journeys were something so beautiful,
so amazing that we would embark on this journey. My
dad worked in a steel plant in West Bengal, but
my parents are both.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
From north in Deer and we would take this.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Long journey from Bengal to the Punjab.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Jah, which is a nor then investment goal is to
East India. So I think that journey was more than
twenty four hours on a train on the train, and
you know, and Dad would make this beautiful picnic that
needed to be last the whole more than twenty four hours,
and we would look in the uniqueness of that. I
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think it's rare now because everybody flies so quickly from
one destination to another, and that train going from different
regions of different state, and then the trains would stop
and my dad and mom hagging and bartering for mangoes.
You know, if it's like one hundred of fees, give
it for sixty rupees or something like that to kill it.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
And all those food.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
From different regions or states, you would only eat when
you're going on that journey, because you have to understand
it's so diverse. We are such a diverse country. We
speak different languages, a food is different, and as a child,
that was for me something I don't know. I was
so eager to wait for those delicacies, to eat those food.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
So as you go into each region, you'd get a difference,
so you'd know we're going into mango region. Now that's
what we're going to be looking forward to. And then
that's so lovely.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
And strain would stop, and then we would need Like
some places there was a katori or body, which is
like a deep fried bread with potato curry, which is
so delicious, so simple, and you know, just digging that
bread in soaking aludum, we would call it just heavenly.
As a child, those things were so important. You know,
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you understand we didn't have that technology. We are brought
up in a very different environment, in a very sheltered environment.
You know, grew up in a steel plant. So I
think for us, especially for me, those strange journeys, I
think is my happiest place.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Still.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
It still gives me joy when I talk about it.
It's just it reminds me how I would meet people
from different states going on that journey. You make friendships,
and my system met her husband on the train. You
fell in love and got married.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
No, Oh, my gosh, that's so incredibly romantic. That's amazing.
Would food become I mean, I'm assuming it would. The
different regions and the different times, and the different things
that you would eat, I'm sure became markers of time
on a very long train journey. What you were going
to eat next would be then sort of next focus.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
I mean, eating is an excellent way.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
To excitement, isn't it.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
And then there would be little street vendors coming with chai,
which is Indian tea, or child moor, which is like
an Indian snack of things like that. They would get
on the train and sell I mean even at mango
or raw mango with little chili flakes and black salt,
and you bite into that sourness and sweetness and chile.
I mean, I just cannot tell you how magical the food.
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And I'm so.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Happy that I I'm a chef, and I.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Have those wonderful memories that I can create those dishes
as well. I think that will always be my safest
place and a happy place.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Oh how lovely.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
What relationship, real or fictionalized, defines love for you?
Speaker 2 (06:19):
I don't know if you've seen or heard a film
called Lunchbox. It's a beautiful, beautiful movie. It came out
in twenty thirteen. It tells a story of a mistaken
lunch box delivery in Mumbai, where it leads to an unexpected,
beautiful friendship between a loona and a housewife who's very neglected,
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and they started exchanging notes in the lunch box. And
that relationship, I can't tell you, gives me goosebumps because
it's such a beautiful movie the way it's made, Because
if you see Bollivard movies, there are movies dancing around
the trees and many other things. But we have very
very good films as well, and they develop, I would say,
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a deep emotional connection despite not ever meeting face to face.
They do decide to meet, and then circumstances happen and
they don't meet, and they leave you in a kind
of a situation.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
You can make up your mind and think.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
That they might meet it, or they might not meet
I think the brief, profound connection.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
That impacted their lives.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
I think that for me is a remember of power
of how you don't have to have a connection through
just you know, sexual or anything like the connection they
had through those letters through the food. For me, that
I think defines a relationship or love. I think it's beautiful.
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I think you will love that movie.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
I'm definitely going to check that out. I love the
sound of that. I think it's not astonishing to me
that the idea of a conversation through food is something
that really appeals to you, because that's what your food is,
and it's what your books are like. They are like
having a conversation with your My favorite cookbooks are that way.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
You feel like.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
You're having a conversation with a person who wrote them
because of their conversation with the food. And when you've
cooked for me and all the other people who were
there the night that we ate your food, you couldn't
hear anybody talk because everyone was so busy eating. But
I love that idea of the literal and the figurative
communicating through a lunch box. That's so beautiful.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
It's a beautiful movie.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
So what question would you most like answered?
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Do you know what I'm thinking about this? For ages?
Just I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
I think finding meaning and happiness in my life? Should
my life be about finding meaning and happiness?
Speaker 3 (09:13):
If I know the root to one.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
Of those things, I think I would have also found the.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Way to the other.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
If you find meaning and happiness in my life, Oh,
I see.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
So do you not feel like those things are present
in your life anyway?
Speaker 1 (09:30):
They are? Yes?
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Meaning for me, meaningful with be I'm just chasing this
dream of being the best chef or a good author,
or a good mom or you know, things that are
meaningful for me. And happiness is where my family is,
my friendships are There's two different things for me. They
are in my life, but I'm still chasing them.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
So as your question, how you would combine both of those,
how to cont them both.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
How to connect them, and how in that way would
I be able to find join together happiness?
Speaker 1 (10:07):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Yeah, I mean it's the balance of it comes back
to kind of the work ethic and feeling like there
is huge meaning in our work, huge meaning in our family. Yeah,
but how to connect those in a way that is balanced.
I feel like that's pretty much everybody. I mean, well
good people who are kind and loving and want to
explore how it is to combine those things.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
But it's tricky, it is.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
I know, I'm very happy with that what I do,
but I'm just pushing and pushing and pushing you know
when it's going to be enough. But I think that
to balance. Like you said, yeah, yeah, I mean good luck.
But you're not alone feeling that way. It's like something
that I said in my book. I was always complaining
to my mother about the hustle and having to always
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work so hard and constantly trying to keep things going.
And you know, I'm self employed, always have been, that's
what you do too, and because getting exhausted with that,
it exhausted with how much constant worry and work that takes.
But she would always say that's why she got out
of bed in the morning, and that if you took
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that away, we probably wouldn't be happy. In quotes, you know,
it's really tricky because it's kind of counterintuitive. I think
the stuff that you think, if you got rid of that,
you'd be happy, but I don't think. No, if I
got rid of hustling really hard every day for everything,
every job, everything that I write.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
You know, I don't know who doesn't.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
I sit around and I sometimes make lists of people
that I think have it really easy, and then I
read it out to my boyfriend and he's like, no,
I don't believe it.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
They had this thing. No, they wake up at four.
Speaker 4 (11:51):
In the morning and they remember when they did that. No,
they made that film. It was rubbish. You know.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
It is one of those things I think. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
Maybe I'm Indian, and I just think coming to this
country and my daughter's a first generation here and living
in a very white town on where I live in
near a village, opening a restaurant or it's just constantly
trying to prove myself. I think it's never going to
be enough, you know, like you said, never going to
be enough. It's just everybody has to do it, so it's.
Speaker 3 (12:17):
Not just me. Where was your restaurant in the Cotswolds.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Yeah, South Gloucestershire.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
Yes, God, your food is amazing.
Speaker 4 (12:24):
But I think about that, like, did you in creating
that place, that incredible restaurant, did you think about where
you'd come from? Like, was that part of the journey
of opening it there? Did it add another level of
I really really understand where I came from because I'm
in a place that is so extraordinarily different from It's
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not even London, you know London at least it's super multicultural,
and you know it wouldn't be such a big deal,
but that must have been such a big deal for you.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
It was, but my daughter was six months old, meaning
and I really wanted to be where my kids are.
If something happened, I could just rush quickly. I want
to be around that. It affected my relationship with my kids,
my husband because I wanted to open there. It took
me nearly four years. The banks won't give me a loan.
I sold all my jewelry, all the gold jourally my
parents and my in laws had given me, sold all
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the jewey to invest in it, and my husband helped
me along with it. But I think it was hard.
But I didn't want to do it anywhere else. But
people did support me, and people came from far places
to eat.
Speaker 3 (13:26):
I know they did.
Speaker 4 (13:26):
I mean because it was incredible and it actually it
wouldn't have mattered where it was, I don't think because
it was so incredibly delicious, and that must.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
Have been amazingly satisfying for you to.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
Have created something that was really hard to create in
a place that was local to you but not lots
of people, and then to see everybody coming from all
over the world.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
I think sometimes people say, oh, passion, you do the passion,
because it's no.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
You have to have the pushing you. I had to
be there.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
I had to be continuously sleek, push myself and be
there like fourteen hours, killing myself. But I think the
restaurant made me what I am today. I would not
change anything about where I opened, and I think if
I didn't open it there, I wouldn't open anywhere else.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
I think the restaurant is what Romi is today.
Speaker 4 (14:14):
How amazing I mean clearly. I mean everything has grown
out of that. All of the books and all of
the rest of the cooking has grown out of what
began there.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Right in's a little seed and that was my foundation
and now it's all the branches.
Speaker 4 (14:26):
Yeah. Yeah, what person, place, or experience most altered your life?
Speaker 1 (14:35):
God, it's got to be Gundi. It's got to be
my husband.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
I know it's People might think all that, but if
you have to understand Indian men. And I always wanted
a husband like my dad, who's really calm, really placid,
very helpful to my mom. My dad is fantastic and
I Gundhi was one of those people that really encouraged me.
You know how we met and eventually opening the restaurant.
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Anything I sa said, he was there for me. He
changed my life for many things. Also, anywhere in the
world I go, he's always there to hold my hand
and say, even if he's here, I'm there. He's always there.
He's never said you can't do this and you can't
do that. He's always been very supportive behind me. And
a lot of people say, very se your husband. We
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never see him. He's very shy. He doesn't look like
to go out anywhere. But he's always there for me.
I think if he didn't support the way when I
open the restaurant and looking after our daughters, I wouldn't
be where I am today. I think, you know, and
when some you know potwasher didn't turn up, he would
go to the restaurant and wash the dishes for me
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in front of the house. Thing he has done, I
can't tell you how lucky I have. I've known him
for twenty seven years, and I think he's one of
those people that has really really changed my wheels on
many things. I think he keeps me grounded because I
am a very hyper person. He's a very calm.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
Were you a chef when you met him? Were you
already a professional chef?
Speaker 1 (16:05):
No?
Speaker 2 (16:05):
I was not at that time here when we met,
because my mom had cancer when I was growing up
and doing my A levels. When I got to know
and I said to my dad, I want to be
a chef and he said no, because they're very handful
of women chefs in India and you just won't survive.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
And in a way he was right.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
I think when you have in you whatever you want
to do, you eventually when I met gun Deep and
I said, this is what I want to do and
I want to be in the hospitality.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
Were you in India? Was this happening?
Speaker 4 (16:32):
So? When your dad said no, there are too few chefs,
it's not a stable life. What did you then go
on to do?
Speaker 1 (16:39):
I went on to do arts.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
I did literature, history and philosophy and completely different from
what I did. And when I moved here and met
gun Deep and I said, I want to open my
own restaurant one day. We were like two in twenties,
and he looked at me and he thought, this woman
is going to do it.
Speaker 5 (16:56):
So wait, how did you get from philosophy and the
arts in did you go to college in India?
Speaker 3 (17:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (17:01):
So what brought you to England? And how did you
get from philosophy in the arts to I'm going to
open a restaurant.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
I came here when I got married, you know, mad
Gundi back in India, and then I just followed him.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
And then you're married.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Here, so I think that kind of we met in
a wedding and then we've just followed each other and
I knew he's a keeper.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
He's a keeper. I'm not going to let him go.
Speaker 4 (17:24):
And how did you just never let go of that
dream of having a restaurant, even when you were studying
other things which were interesting and great. Were you still
harboring those feelings of I'm going to open a restaurant
one day?
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Always, always, always, aways, always I wrote to different chefs.
Micheline started chef's cookery schools men when I came here
in and I was like, don't give me money, don't
pay me, I want to learn.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
I want to learn.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
All the techniques. Everything up front of the house is
very important. Everything little detail about restaurant is not just
about cooking. And a lot of the chefs did reply,
and a lot of the cookery school did and didn't
pay me.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
But it was okay.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
I was prepared to do things that I could learn,
the techniques, the method, how it's done. I think you
have to have that and you have to learn from people.
Speaker 4 (18:11):
Who was the first chef who really taught you beyond
your mother and back home.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
Chef Manjid Gil who is in India. He was executive
chefs of ITC in India and I always followed his vision.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
He used to be on television as well.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
And I wrote to him from here that I want
to learn from you, and he did reply. Those times,
calling India was so expensive, so I used to beautifully
write letters and I got and replied back and he said, yes,
I would love to teach you. I love to meet you.
He's my mentor and he still guides.
Speaker 3 (18:46):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Yeah, he's like you know, he's one of the I
never met him, and I wrote to him and then
I also should really give credit to Utule culture as
amazing restaurants he was the first Mission Chef.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
Is it the first mission to start Indian restaurant?
Speaker 1 (19:01):
And he really helped me to be on TV.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
And he was doing this Master Chef in his restaurant
and he said, I really like Romi to be on
it as a guest judge. And my restaurant has just opened.
He was really really encouraging. He said, Romey has opened
this restaurant. She's really feisty, and she's really good at
what she does.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
She knows the food.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
And you know, I always always mentioned the couple of
people that really pushed me in my life. I think
you should never forget those people. They're really important. People
come in your life that really encourage you. He was
the one who put intelligence and restless history. It's because
of our all. And you know, Ali like meeting you
talking about your book on Radio four, I know was incredible.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
It's an amazing thing that all of these things that
connect us, like the appreciation of each other's art. I
wish it happened more. I love it you reaching out
to tell me that you love my book, or then
all my friends hearing you on Radio food h that
they've listened to forever, or me coming to eat in
your pop up and bringing my friend and now her
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having your cookery books, and now us making your food together.
Like there's such a beautiful exchange that I think it's
lost or we forget it. In all of the hardship
and the awfulness that is happening in the world, we
forget there are these extraordinary moments.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
Where we lift each other up.
Speaker 4 (20:21):
Whether it's a mentor helping you to begin what's a
pretty fantastic journey on television that you're so good on
TV and on the radio, or I don't know, like
people hearing about my book from you.
Speaker 3 (20:32):
I love that exchange.
Speaker 4 (20:34):
I think it's so important. You're the person I've wanted
to ask this question to more than anybody else.
Speaker 3 (20:52):
Ever, what would be your last meal?
Speaker 1 (20:55):
My last meal? I wish one day I'd take you
to India. You have to travel with me.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
I have never been. I will come with you, I think, because.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
I write for New York Times and many other publications
and things, I put food and travel together. So I
lost my mom in twenty nineteen and I was going
to write an article for in Himachal Pradesh. I was
going to take my mom on that journey. Just before
they commissioned me this article and suddenly my mom passed
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away in February and I had to go back to
India to write the article in March, and I said
to my editor, is there anyway I can take my
dad on a journey. I've lost my mom. I'm still
grieving and my dad is We are grieving in two
different ways. Dad, who's been with my mom for fifty
two years and I have just lost her. And she said, O, yes,
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just take your dad going this journey together and.
Speaker 1 (21:48):
See what you find.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
And last day off my trip, I was going to
do this paragliding and just before paragliding, my dad was
really nervous of.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Me doing it. You know, I'm crazy and do all
this things. And so Dad, are you hungry? He said yes?
Speaker 2 (22:02):
And we found this tabo which is a roadside food
eatering and I saw so many people queuing there and
I said, it's only vegetarian and we stopped there. Maybe
I had the most amazing vegetarian feast.
Speaker 1 (22:19):
I could have Italian. It's so cheap. That will be
my last meal.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
It was curry chowol curdi is like a yogurt dish
made with crumb flower, which is black chickpa flower, not
the chickpi flower people. I think it's crumb flower, and
we have these pecoras in it. Then kidney beans is
a char which is a pickle tandoi rotti and dhal
mcknee which is dull, and all these vegetarian feasts.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
My moutha is still watering.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
I know I cook and eat everything, but for me,
vegetarian food is soulful because I grew up as a
Punjabi eating a lot of vegetarian food, and we are
naturally plant based. We are naturally vegetarian. We aren't even thinking,
so I think that would be my mind.
Speaker 4 (23:01):
You wow, oh my god, I'm so hungry right now
and I want your food.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
I have to come and cook for you.
Speaker 3 (23:09):
Oh my god, We're going to have to figure that out.
Speaker 4 (23:11):
I'm just imagining black chicky flour and I'm imagining percoras.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
So do you think that.
Speaker 4 (23:17):
It was the fact that you're there with your dad,
your mama's gone, You're on this journey together, and I'm
sure that it was exquisitely deliciously cooked. But do you
think it was also the connection that this is food
from your childhood and that they're in this moment, that
that food, that the idea of the connection to your
past is what makes this explode, because you must have
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eaten a thousand pcoras a thousand beautiful delicious vegetarian dishes,
but like at that moment in your life, in your
dad's life, to eat that delicious food quite unexpectedly, I.
Speaker 2 (23:51):
Imagine it was, and we were just stared at each
other dipping in those blood breads pot. It was just
I think my father found and happiness in a sense
that he was with me and it was comforting the
food that my mom would cook.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
As well, similar food.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
I think it was where the comfort of us being
together was just literally six weeks ago lost Mom and
we're together eating the food that mom would cook. I
think that's why probably, like you said, very very true.
Speaker 3 (24:23):
Wow, gosh, can we go one day?
Speaker 4 (24:26):
Can we take trains and go from the Punjab all
the way down to Carol.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
I hold you to that. We will do that.
Speaker 4 (24:33):
I've dreamed of that to start in the Punjab where
my mother traveled all through India all her life, just
dreamed of making that journey. So maybe we should do that,
and maybe we should make a TV show out of it.
Speaker 1 (24:43):
Two women on long train journey in India.
Speaker 4 (24:46):
Two women on a long train journey in India. By
the way, that is a really good time long, but
that's what the journey would be.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
I don't think it would be a hard sell, to
tell you the truth. I think it would be amazing.
Speaker 4 (24:57):
You're an angel I so look forward to two women
on a long train journey in India, and to seeing
you again in person, and to eating your extraordinary food.
You know your cookbooks keep me company, so you're a germ.
Speaker 2 (25:12):
Thank you so much, thank you for having mea.
Speaker 5 (25:15):
Okay, dear audience, this is the last episode for a
little mini break, if you will. We'll be back in
a few months with the second half of season three
of Mini Questions, So until then, keep looking for the
answers and asking the good questions. Mini Questions is hosted
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and written by Me Mini Driver, Executive produced by Me
and Aaron Kaufman, with production support from Jennifer Bassett, Zoe Denkler,
and Ali Perry.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
The theme music is also by Me and additional music
by Aaron Kaufman.
Speaker 4 (25:54):
Special thanks to Jim Nikolay Addison, O'Day, Henry Driver, Lisa Castella,
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I think like you, I.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Really pushed myself, and I also I think I should stop.
You know, you're not never going to please anybody.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Yeah, you're never going to please anybody.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
That's so funny as opposed to you're never going to
please everybody.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
You're never going to please anybody.
Speaker 4 (00:18):
My dad used to say that because you know, the
phrase is I can't have everything, and my.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Dad used to go, oh, well you can't have anything.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
I like that.
Speaker 5 (00:28):
Hello, I'm Mini driver. I've always loved Preust's questionnaire. It
was originally in nineteenth century parlor game where players would
ask each other thirty five questions aimed at revealing.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
The other player's true nature.
Speaker 5 (00:43):
In asking different people the same set of questions, you
can make observations about which truths appear to be universal.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
And it made me.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Wonder, what if these questions were just a jumping off point,
what greater depths would be revealed if I asked these
questions as conversation starters. So I adapted Pru's questionnaire and
I wrote my own seven questions that I personally think
are pertinent to a person's story. They are when and
where were you happiest? What is the quality you like
least about yourself. What relationship, real or fictionalized, defines love
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for you? What question would you most like answered, What person, place,
or experience has shaped you the most? What would be
your last meal? And can you tell me something in
your life that's grown out of a personal disaster? And
I've gathered a group of really remarkable people, ones that
I am honored and humbled to have had the chance
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to engage with. You may not hear their answers to
all seven of these questions. We've whittled it down to
which questions felt closest to their experience or the most surprising,
or created the most fertile ground to connect.
Speaker 6 (01:51):
My guest today is the chef, author, and broadcaster Romy Gill,
a truly wonderful, self made powerhouse whose food is well.
Last time I ate at one of her pop up restaurants,
it was an extremely quiet experience because nearly everyone in
the restaurant was quite literally in a silent reverie over
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her food. Her cookbooks are warm and insightful, and the
newest of which is out this September and is entitled
Romy Girls India.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Where and When were you Happiest?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
So I'm going to take you back to my childhood,
those long train journeys. If anybody hasn't experienced that, children's
born in nineteen seventies, eighties and early nineties, Indian families
will understand what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
In India is such a big.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Country and those long train journeys were something so beautiful,
so amazing that we would embark on this journey. My
dad worked in a steel plant in West Bengal, but
my parents are both.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
From north in Deer and we would take this.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Long journey from Bengal to the Punjab.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Jah, which is a nor then investment goal is to
East India. So I think that journey was more than
twenty four hours on a train on the train, and
you know, and Dad would make this beautiful picnic that
needed to be last the whole more than twenty four hours,
and we would look in the uniqueness of that. I
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think it's rare now because everybody flies so quickly from
one destination to another, and that train going from different
regions of different state, and then the trains would stop
and my dad and mom hagging and bartering for mangoes.
You know, if it's like one hundred of fees, give
it for sixty rupees or something like that to kill it.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
And all those food.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
From different regions or states, you would only eat when
you're going on that journey, because you have to understand
it's so diverse. We are such a diverse country. We
speak different languages, a food is different, and as a child,
that was for me something I don't know. I was
so eager to wait for those delicacies, to eat those food.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
So as you go into each region, you'd get a difference,
so you'd know we're going into mango region. Now that's
what we're going to be looking forward to. And then
that's so lovely.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
And strain would stop, and then we would need Like
some places there was a katori or body, which is
like a deep fried bread with potato curry, which is
so delicious, so simple, and you know, just digging that
bread in soaking aludum, we would call it just heavenly.
As a child, those things were so important. You know,
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you understand we didn't have that technology. We are brought
up in a very different environment, in a very sheltered environment.
You know, grew up in a steel plant. So I
think for us, especially for me, those strange journeys, I
think is my happiest place.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Still.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
It still gives me joy when I talk about it.
It's just it reminds me how I would meet people
from different states going on that journey. You make friendships,
and my system met her husband on the train. You
fell in love and got married.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
No, Oh, my gosh, that's so incredibly romantic. That's amazing.
Would food become I mean, I'm assuming it would. The
different regions and the different times, and the different things
that you would eat, I'm sure became markers of time
on a very long train journey. What you were going
to eat next would be then sort of next focus.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
I mean, eating is an excellent way.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
To excitement, isn't it.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
And then there would be little street vendors coming with chai,
which is Indian tea, or child moor, which is like
an Indian snack of things like that. They would get
on the train and sell I mean even at mango
or raw mango with little chili flakes and black salt,
and you bite into that sourness and sweetness and chile.
I mean, I just cannot tell you how magical the food.
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And I'm so.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Happy that I I'm a chef, and I.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Have those wonderful memories that I can create those dishes
as well. I think that will always be my safest
place and a happy place.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Oh how lovely.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
What relationship, real or fictionalized, defines love for you?
Speaker 2 (06:19):
I don't know if you've seen or heard a film
called Lunchbox. It's a beautiful, beautiful movie. It came out
in twenty thirteen. It tells a story of a mistaken
lunch box delivery in Mumbai, where it leads to an unexpected,
beautiful friendship between a loona and a housewife who's very neglected,
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and they started exchanging notes in the lunch box. And
that relationship, I can't tell you, gives me goosebumps because
it's such a beautiful movie the way it's made, Because
if you see Bollivard movies, there are movies dancing around
the trees and many other things. But we have very
very good films as well, and they develop, I would say,
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a deep emotional connection despite not ever meeting face to face.
They do decide to meet, and then circumstances happen and
they don't meet, and they leave you in a kind
of a situation.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
You can make up your mind and think.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
That they might meet it, or they might not meet
I think the brief, profound connection.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
That impacted their lives.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
I think that for me is a remember of power
of how you don't have to have a connection through
just you know, sexual or anything like the connection they
had through those letters through the food. For me, that
I think defines a relationship or love. I think it's beautiful.
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I think you will love that movie.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
I'm definitely going to check that out. I love the
sound of that. I think it's not astonishing to me
that the idea of a conversation through food is something
that really appeals to you, because that's what your food is,
and it's what your books are like. They are like
having a conversation with your My favorite cookbooks are that way.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
You feel like.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
You're having a conversation with a person who wrote them
because of their conversation with the food. And when you've
cooked for me and all the other people who were
there the night that we ate your food, you couldn't
hear anybody talk because everyone was so busy eating. But
I love that idea of the literal and the figurative
communicating through a lunch box. That's so beautiful.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
It's a beautiful movie.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
So what question would you most like answered?
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Do you know what I'm thinking about this? For ages?
Just I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
I think finding meaning and happiness in my life? Should
my life be about finding meaning and happiness?
Speaker 3 (09:13):
If I know the root to one.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
Of those things, I think I would have also found the.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Way to the other.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
If you find meaning and happiness in my life, Oh,
I see.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
So do you not feel like those things are present
in your life anyway?
Speaker 1 (09:30):
They are? Yes?
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Meaning for me, meaningful with be I'm just chasing this
dream of being the best chef or a good author,
or a good mom or you know, things that are
meaningful for me. And happiness is where my family is,
my friendships are There's two different things for me. They
are in my life, but I'm still chasing them.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
So as your question, how you would combine both of those,
how to cont them both.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
How to connect them, and how in that way would
I be able to find join together happiness?
Speaker 1 (10:07):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Yeah, I mean it's the balance of it comes back
to kind of the work ethic and feeling like there
is huge meaning in our work, huge meaning in our family. Yeah,
but how to connect those in a way that is balanced.
I feel like that's pretty much everybody. I mean, well
good people who are kind and loving and want to
explore how it is to combine those things.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
But it's tricky, it is.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
I know, I'm very happy with that what I do,
but I'm just pushing and pushing and pushing you know
when it's going to be enough. But I think that
to balance. Like you said, yeah, yeah, I mean good luck.
But you're not alone feeling that way. It's like something
that I said in my book. I was always complaining
to my mother about the hustle and having to always
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work so hard and constantly trying to keep things going.
And you know, I'm self employed, always have been, that's
what you do too, and because getting exhausted with that,
it exhausted with how much constant worry and work that takes.
But she would always say that's why she got out
of bed in the morning, and that if you took
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that away, we probably wouldn't be happy. In quotes, you know,
it's really tricky because it's kind of counterintuitive. I think
the stuff that you think, if you got rid of that,
you'd be happy, but I don't think. No, if I
got rid of hustling really hard every day for everything,
every job, everything that I write.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
You know, I don't know who doesn't.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
I sit around and I sometimes make lists of people
that I think have it really easy, and then I
read it out to my boyfriend and he's like, no,
I don't believe it.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
They had this thing. No, they wake up at four.
Speaker 4 (11:51):
In the morning and they remember when they did that. No,
they made that film. It was rubbish. You know.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
It is one of those things I think. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
Maybe I'm Indian, and I just think coming to this
country and my daughter's a first generation here and living
in a very white town on where I live in
near a village, opening a restaurant or it's just constantly
trying to prove myself. I think it's never going to
be enough, you know, like you said, never going to
be enough. It's just everybody has to do it, so it's.
Speaker 3 (12:17):
Not just me. Where was your restaurant in the Cotswolds.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Yeah, South Gloucestershire.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
Yes, God, your food is amazing.
Speaker 4 (12:24):
But I think about that, like, did you in creating
that place, that incredible restaurant, did you think about where
you'd come from? Like, was that part of the journey
of opening it there? Did it add another level of
I really really understand where I came from because I'm
in a place that is so extraordinarily different from It's
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not even London, you know London at least it's super multicultural,
and you know it wouldn't be such a big deal,
but that must have been such a big deal for you.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
It was, but my daughter was six months old, meaning
and I really wanted to be where my kids are.
If something happened, I could just rush quickly. I want
to be around that. It affected my relationship with my kids,
my husband because I wanted to open there. It took
me nearly four years. The banks won't give me a loan.
I sold all my jewelry, all the gold jourally my
parents and my in laws had given me, sold all
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the jewey to invest in it, and my husband helped
me along with it. But I think it was hard.
But I didn't want to do it anywhere else. But
people did support me, and people came from far places
to eat.
Speaker 3 (13:26):
I know they did.
Speaker 4 (13:26):
I mean because it was incredible and it actually it
wouldn't have mattered where it was, I don't think because
it was so incredibly delicious, and that must.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
Have been amazingly satisfying for you to.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
Have created something that was really hard to create in
a place that was local to you but not lots
of people, and then to see everybody coming from all
over the world.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
I think sometimes people say, oh, passion, you do the passion,
because it's no.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
You have to have the pushing you. I had to
be there.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
I had to be continuously sleek, push myself and be
there like fourteen hours, killing myself. But I think the
restaurant made me what I am today. I would not
change anything about where I opened, and I think if
I didn't open it there, I wouldn't open anywhere else.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
I think the restaurant is what Romi is today.
Speaker 4 (14:14):
How amazing I mean clearly. I mean everything has grown
out of that. All of the books and all of
the rest of the cooking has grown out of what
began there.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Right in's a little seed and that was my foundation
and now it's all the branches.
Speaker 4 (14:26):
Yeah. Yeah, what person, place, or experience most altered your life?
Speaker 1 (14:35):
God, it's got to be Gundi. It's got to be
my husband.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
I know it's People might think all that, but if
you have to understand Indian men. And I always wanted
a husband like my dad, who's really calm, really placid,
very helpful to my mom. My dad is fantastic and
I Gundhi was one of those people that really encouraged me.
You know how we met and eventually opening the restaurant.
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Anything I sa said, he was there for me. He
changed my life for many things. Also, anywhere in the
world I go, he's always there to hold my hand
and say, even if he's here, I'm there. He's always there.
He's never said you can't do this and you can't
do that. He's always been very supportive behind me. And
a lot of people say, very se your husband. We
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never see him. He's very shy. He doesn't look like
to go out anywhere. But he's always there for me.
I think if he didn't support the way when I
open the restaurant and looking after our daughters, I wouldn't
be where I am today. I think, you know, and
when some you know potwasher didn't turn up, he would
go to the restaurant and wash the dishes for me
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in front of the house. Thing he has done, I
can't tell you how lucky I have. I've known him
for twenty seven years, and I think he's one of
those people that has really really changed my wheels on
many things. I think he keeps me grounded because I
am a very hyper person. He's a very calm.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
Were you a chef when you met him? Were you
already a professional chef?
Speaker 1 (16:05):
No?
Speaker 2 (16:05):
I was not at that time here when we met,
because my mom had cancer when I was growing up
and doing my A levels. When I got to know
and I said to my dad, I want to be
a chef and he said no, because they're very handful
of women chefs in India and you just won't survive.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
And in a way he was right.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
I think when you have in you whatever you want
to do, you eventually when I met gun Deep and
I said, this is what I want to do and
I want to be in the hospitality.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
Were you in India? Was this happening?
Speaker 4 (16:32):
So? When your dad said no, there are too few chefs,
it's not a stable life. What did you then go
on to do?
Speaker 1 (16:39):
I went on to do arts.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
I did literature, history and philosophy and completely different from
what I did. And when I moved here and met
gun Deep and I said, I want to open my
own restaurant one day. We were like two in twenties,
and he looked at me and he thought, this woman
is going to do it.
Speaker 5 (16:56):
So wait, how did you get from philosophy and the
arts in did you go to college in India?
Speaker 3 (17:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (17:01):
So what brought you to England? And how did you
get from philosophy in the arts to I'm going to
open a restaurant.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
I came here when I got married, you know, mad
Gundi back in India, and then I just followed him.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
And then you're married.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Here, so I think that kind of we met in
a wedding and then we've just followed each other and
I knew he's a keeper.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
He's a keeper. I'm not going to let him go.
Speaker 4 (17:24):
And how did you just never let go of that
dream of having a restaurant, even when you were studying
other things which were interesting and great. Were you still
harboring those feelings of I'm going to open a restaurant
one day?
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Always, always, always, aways, always I wrote to different chefs.
Micheline started chef's cookery schools men when I came here
in and I was like, don't give me money, don't
pay me, I want to learn.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
I want to learn.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
All the techniques. Everything up front of the house is
very important. Everything little detail about restaurant is not just
about cooking. And a lot of the chefs did reply,
and a lot of the cookery school did and didn't
pay me.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
But it was okay.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
I was prepared to do things that I could learn,
the techniques, the method, how it's done. I think you
have to have that and you have to learn from people.
Speaker 4 (18:11):
Who was the first chef who really taught you beyond
your mother and back home.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
Chef Manjid Gil who is in India. He was executive
chefs of ITC in India and I always followed his vision.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
He used to be on television as well.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
And I wrote to him from here that I want
to learn from you, and he did reply. Those times,
calling India was so expensive, so I used to beautifully
write letters and I got and replied back and he said, yes,
I would love to teach you. I love to meet you.
He's my mentor and he still guides.
Speaker 3 (18:46):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Yeah, he's like you know, he's one of the I
never met him, and I wrote to him and then
I also should really give credit to Utule culture as
amazing restaurants he was the first Mission Chef.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
Is it the first mission to start Indian restaurant?
Speaker 1 (19:01):
And he really helped me to be on TV.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
And he was doing this Master Chef in his restaurant
and he said, I really like Romi to be on
it as a guest judge. And my restaurant has just opened.
He was really really encouraging. He said, Romey has opened
this restaurant. She's really feisty, and she's really good at
what she does.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
She knows the food.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
And you know, I always always mentioned the couple of
people that really pushed me in my life. I think
you should never forget those people. They're really important. People
come in your life that really encourage you. He was
the one who put intelligence and restless history. It's because
of our all. And you know, Ali like meeting you
talking about your book on Radio four, I know was incredible.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
It's an amazing thing that all of these things that
connect us, like the appreciation of each other's art. I
wish it happened more. I love it you reaching out
to tell me that you love my book, or then
all my friends hearing you on Radio food h that
they've listened to forever, or me coming to eat in
your pop up and bringing my friend and now her
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having your cookery books, and now us making your food together.
Like there's such a beautiful exchange that I think it's
lost or we forget it. In all of the hardship
and the awfulness that is happening in the world, we
forget there are these extraordinary moments.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
Where we lift each other up.
Speaker 4 (20:21):
Whether it's a mentor helping you to begin what's a
pretty fantastic journey on television that you're so good on
TV and on the radio, or I don't know, like
people hearing about my book from you.
Speaker 3 (20:32):
I love that exchange.
Speaker 4 (20:34):
I think it's so important. You're the person I've wanted
to ask this question to more than anybody else.
Speaker 3 (20:52):
Ever, what would be your last meal?
Speaker 1 (20:55):
My last meal? I wish one day I'd take you
to India. You have to travel with me.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
I have never been. I will come with you, I think, because.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
I write for New York Times and many other publications
and things, I put food and travel together. So I
lost my mom in twenty nineteen and I was going
to write an article for in Himachal Pradesh. I was
going to take my mom on that journey. Just before
they commissioned me this article and suddenly my mom passed
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away in February and I had to go back to
India to write the article in March, and I said
to my editor, is there anyway I can take my
dad on a journey. I've lost my mom. I'm still
grieving and my dad is We are grieving in two
different ways. Dad, who's been with my mom for fifty
two years and I have just lost her. And she said, O, yes,
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just take your dad going this journey together and.
Speaker 1 (21:48):
See what you find.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
And last day off my trip, I was going to
do this paragliding and just before paragliding, my dad was
really nervous of.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Me doing it. You know, I'm crazy and do all
this things. And so Dad, are you hungry? He said yes?
Speaker 2 (22:02):
And we found this tabo which is a roadside food
eatering and I saw so many people queuing there and
I said, it's only vegetarian and we stopped there. Maybe
I had the most amazing vegetarian feast.
Speaker 1 (22:19):
I could have Italian. It's so cheap. That will be
my last meal.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
It was curry chowol curdi is like a yogurt dish
made with crumb flower, which is black chickpa flower, not
the chickpi flower people. I think it's crumb flower, and
we have these pecoras in it. Then kidney beans is
a char which is a pickle tandoi rotti and dhal
mcknee which is dull, and all these vegetarian feasts.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
My moutha is still watering.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
I know I cook and eat everything, but for me,
vegetarian food is soulful because I grew up as a
Punjabi eating a lot of vegetarian food, and we are
naturally plant based. We are naturally vegetarian. We aren't even thinking,
so I think that would be my mind.
Speaker 4 (23:01):
You wow, oh my god, I'm so hungry right now
and I want your food.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
I have to come and cook for you.
Speaker 3 (23:09):
Oh my god, We're going to have to figure that out.
Speaker 4 (23:11):
I'm just imagining black chicky flour and I'm imagining percoras.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
So do you think that.
Speaker 4 (23:17):
It was the fact that you're there with your dad,
your mama's gone, You're on this journey together, and I'm
sure that it was exquisitely deliciously cooked. But do you
think it was also the connection that this is food
from your childhood and that they're in this moment, that
that food, that the idea of the connection to your
past is what makes this explode, because you must have
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eaten a thousand pcoras a thousand beautiful delicious vegetarian dishes,
but like at that moment in your life, in your
dad's life, to eat that delicious food quite unexpectedly, I.
Speaker 2 (23:51):
Imagine it was, and we were just stared at each
other dipping in those blood breads pot. It was just
I think my father found and happiness in a sense
that he was with me and it was comforting the
food that my mom would cook.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
As well, similar food.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
I think it was where the comfort of us being
together was just literally six weeks ago lost Mom and
we're together eating the food that mom would cook. I
think that's why probably, like you said, very very true.
Speaker 3 (24:23):
Wow, gosh, can we go one day?
Speaker 4 (24:26):
Can we take trains and go from the Punjab all
the way down to Carol.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
I hold you to that. We will do that.
Speaker 4 (24:33):
I've dreamed of that to start in the Punjab where
my mother traveled all through India all her life, just
dreamed of making that journey. So maybe we should do that,
and maybe we should make a TV show out of it.
Speaker 1 (24:43):
Two women on long train journey in India.
Speaker 4 (24:46):
Two women on a long train journey in India. By
the way, that is a really good time long, but
that's what the journey would be.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
I don't think it would be a hard sell, to
tell you the truth. I think it would be amazing.
Speaker 4 (24:57):
You're an angel I so look forward to two women
on a long train journey in India, and to seeing
you again in person, and to eating your extraordinary food.
You know your cookbooks keep me company, so you're a germ.
Speaker 2 (25:12):
Thank you so much, thank you for having mea.
Speaker 5 (25:15):
Okay, dear audience, this is the last episode for a
little mini break, if you will. We'll be back in
a few months with the second half of season three
of Mini Questions, So until then, keep looking for the
answers and asking the good questions. Mini Questions is hosted
(25:37):
and written by Me Mini Driver, Executive produced by Me
and Aaron Kaufman, with production support from Jennifer Bassett, Zoe Denkler,
and Ali Perry.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
The theme music is also by Me and additional music
by Aaron Kaufman.
Speaker 4 (25:54):
Special thanks to Jim Nikolay Addison, O'Day, Henry Driver, Lisa Castella,
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