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Welcome back to More to It, to show that takes
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in every single story. I'm your host, ourselfswhially that dude,
I'll be right back. Oh god lord, what happened? I
went too far? Yeah, it was one of the weekends.
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Y'all did too much. Y'all might can hear a tinge
of it in my voice? Oh man, but love for
you guys. Man, y'all know this show never shut up
where we learn those life lessons. Yep, we're gonna talk
from sports, but we're gonna also cover those who cover
sports like no one else. So let's get the show
started with what's up with that dude? Like what you
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do this weekend? Dog? Look in a little slim. Y'all
gonna figure out why, and y'all gonna laugh. Okay, So
I played a little pickaball Saturday morning, got up nine o'clock.
Has some great people over here. I love doing a
pick aball social I ain't gonna lie. It's the best
way to just meet new people without it feeling so cold.
Call is dick ice. You know how it goes. Man,
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You want a network, You just want to meet other people,
just want to see who else has similar interests. But
sometimes it's just the awkwardness of making that happen which
stops a lot of us. So me, I have found
that pickle ball is doing an amazing job at it,
and frankly I love it because I love pickleball. So
everybody else who's a part of that, we always have
a great time. We had a man Jason over here.
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He's part owner of LAFC. Tons of work in the community, philanthropists, etc.
Carolina's in the house. She helps builds out networks for
high networth individuals. High networth like I don't even qualify y'all.
This sucker's got do do so anyway, she was there.
Mike Wang, my guy loved my man brother from another
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and my man aj former soccer player. This dude had
too many muscles. Soon as I saw him, I was like,
you ain't gonna be good at pick a ball. He
was like why. I was like, you too athletic. Look
you got to bring it down a note. You got
to be a tennis player, a former tennis player. You
know how they got a little layer on him. Still
most of them they ain't like cut up like that.
He came in here. I was like basketball court over
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there too. You can play something else. Had a great time,
the same old me. I'm just a C plus B minus.
I'm good around the kitchen. Other than that, I suck ahright,
that's life, all right? So what else I do? After that?
Watched the fight. I know y'all watched the fight. Fight
was banging. That was a good fight. It wasn't a
great fight because we didn't see enough my man Charlo.
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But hey, he moved up two divisions A fight Canelo.
That's a lot on it. And then now only moved
on two divisions fight Canelo. Huh okay. Once you just
get up there and see I fields filled with that
weight class looked like first look, Canelo looked quicker, looked
much stronger, and was he mucking it up? That little
pit bull wasn't playing godly. He was just throwing him
across the ring, like, bro, whoever come up here in
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this weight division? Again, I'm gonna show you something. So
that was cool to watch. Still went the distance that
was fun. Shout out to Ben Horwitz. We go back
and forth. He's a boxing official officially, because every time
I bet him, I lose, and I shouldn't be Losinguse
I thought I knew boxing, but I didn't know that.
I thought that Charlo was actually gonna do something in
that fight. I was wrong. I woke up the next day,
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had our game. Paul's right here, and I don't mean
Paul's like Cam and Mason. I hear Richard Sherman. Nowever,
I'm not doing that. My team is on a two
game losing streak. It's crazy. We have lost our last
two games by a total combined seven points, so one
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possession of two games. Right, We're like, if you score
get two point conversion, we would have won both these games.
Point being very fixable, we played. I hear the two
best teams, one for sure and the other one's gonna
be up there, probably top three, and boy, we are
an inch of a flag away. And then I got
caught up in this moment. I got caught up and
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watching some of the clips back. I always watched the
clips back, good, bad, ugly. Just what I didn't see
in that moment, and I am not a complainer, but
I'm not a complainer to a fault. I need to
complain more. I watched back the film and MJ still scored,
had a run call back. It was a BS call.
But I do not complain right to a fault. I
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let him do it, even and I was like, you know,
he didn't flag guard. MJ runs like this and he
does moves, and sometimes you can call a flag garden.
But to me, I thought this was flag guard. He
just doing moves. I could show it to you. He
ain't flag guard. Anyway, I don't complain. But then I
started noticing this one kid kept getting MJ. He the
only kid that could really it was to him, but
one in particular. Then I watched the film and this
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sucker here kept jumping to get MJ's flag, and I
was like, now, I remember getting yelled at by a
ref one time to not teach the kids to jump.
I said, I'm not. He's like, well, they can't jump.
But then I checked the rules. It's not in the
rule books. So I'm trying to clarify that. But my
point is I need to start complaining a lot more
because it's starting to hurt my kids, you know, at
this age, they don't get it. They know what cheating is,
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but at the same time, they're also looking for an
adult to protect them, right, And I don't want my
kids to be complainers, and I also don't want them
be cheaters. But I'm starting to see a lot of
cheating out there that I need to start complaining about.
But we that close. We all make the playoffs, so
we all see these teams again and hopefully we'll have
the end that we desire. Other than that, went to
the Chargers game after that. Look how focused I am.
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I am such a committed coach and committed father that
I actually went to my Charger game late. Got there,
like in the second quarter, late second quarter. We already
up twenty four to seven something, crazy smash and I
get there late because I was coaching my team. Shout
out to everybody it was there. It was great. I
love going to Raider Charger games for many reasons. Especially
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Chargers usually beat the agg One thing, the Charge is
good for beating the Raiders. We do not lose to
the Raiders. I don't even know what the record is.
It just don't feel like we ever lose to the Raiders.
So it was good. You know stadium, they took over
the stadium. I don't care for all y'all out there
arguing over Oh my god, look at your fan base, man,
like the road team has way more people than you.
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You got shuck. I'm gonna tell you one thing. I'm
gonna tell you what every fan is doing, just like
every player does. When you get the schedule in April,
you circle where you're gonna go on the road, and
if you from a bad weather place where a lot
of these places are, uh, they gonna pick that spot.
And if it ain't a bad weather place, it just
ain't a better place than La. Vegas is amazing, and
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it ain't La. Even though Vegas amazing, maybe it is better.
Point being, they circle where they want to go. If
you in Vegas, you're like, I gotta go La, I
gotta go to Miami, et cetera. So that's how the
game goes, and ain't got nothing to do well, how
great the fan base is, how loyal it is, stop playing.
Pittsburgh went up in there in Vegas and took over.
And we know how big the Raiders fan base is
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the biggest, but Pittsburgh the biggest point being Pittsburgh about
to get cold as hell and they going to Vegas.
That simple, so all good. We won. And now let
me tell all of y'all, excuse me, miss Purdy, excuse
me why it looks so skinny right now. I might
not look skinny, but I feel skinny. And the scale,
god lord, I'm having one of them shows, y'all. The
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scales say I'm gonna be skinny. Went to bed last
night with MJ and my three year old. No lie
in our house. We all picked two beds and we
just changed up the order. So my wife was with
my four year old to Riyah and I'm went the
three year old and MJ. All good, except she couldn't
go to sleep. I was like, go to sleep or I'm
gonna leave. That doesn't work because she last. She's like,
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I'm too cute to leave, and she's right, so I'm there.
We finally go to bed and then I wake up.
I got the bubble guts. Then I wake up. I'm leaking, y'all.
I'm everywhere. I got the bug, all that bug that
was going around and it caught my kids. On Friday,
I think caught me slipping. WHOA had one of them nights, y'all.
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So not gonna get too graphic, not too nasty. But
as Courtney was telling me, I was just one stomach
flew away for my goal weight, and now I donet
hit my goal weight. I love getting sick, not like sick,
just the scale sick, the scale me looking good when
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it's gonna do the damn show. Yes I am. I'm
gonna talk about dan Orlowski right now. We know who
he is, NFL analyst ESPN, who at one time was
gonna come to Fox. I remember hearing that. I was like, whoa.
They were trying to make that happen, some dirty macing
going on in there, but it didn't happen. So he's
still at ESPN, known for his unusual habits and choices.
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Some would say that sparks a lot of discussions amongst viewers.
Him and Ocho are really cool. So I really caught
up on him through Acho. I like how he does it.
He's how'd he do it? He does it like with
an intense focus. It seems serious, but there's always a
layer laced with some laughter and some fun, some lightheartedness.
So I'm a fan of his big time recent incident.
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I've seen a lot of girls wearing these, and now
I'm dan warm. It's those skin colored pants, like it
was a mute new food or something like that. They
wear their color in the pants, So you'd be like,
when you see the girls wear Lord is so hard
live in this life, it's crazy. So he had on
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some during the broadcast, and then people were like commented
and saying, what the heck he wearing those? You can't
wear those one of those. So then Laura Rutless went
out there and said, look, he's wearing pants, y'all, is
not his skin. He ain't bucket naked on this set. Okay,
So why am I bringing this up? It's not like
the most hot button of issues. But a lot of
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y'all always ask me about the prep process and the
amenities that come with doing sports media and comes with
the industry. So I thought, where else am I gonna
get a lay up alley like this other than talking
about how it goes down. Now, let me give you
the contrast between ESPN and Fox in terms of amenities
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and prep etc. There's no conversation, there is no competition.
Fox destroys ESPN in terms of the prep process. Let
me tell you what I remember when I first got
the Fox, Mark Seriff was there. He had left the
ESPN to go to Fox. Soon I see him like
day one, He's like, what's that man? Congratulations, good to
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see you. I'm glad, welcome to the family. I was like,
what's the biggest difference to you so far? He said, said,
working at ESPN was like McDonald's, and over here it's
like in and out. Now. I had in and out
last night, and I had the bubble guts. So I
don't know if this is a good time to bring
that up. But point being, y'all know the difference. Stop
talking bad about McDonald's. First of all, y'all because McDonald's
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be everywhere, and y'all all be there at least, I know,
how go. It ain't the best burger, we know it,
but it's just so convenient and it just hits us nostalgia.
I don't know it's good enough, right. Foxes that in
and out going may right. So they had a budget
for you at Fox, whereas for your wardrobe they had.
Now this may have shifted at ESPN. They may have
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changed it, they may have been specific, but in general
how it was because Fox has that movie studio lot mentality.
So we need our analyst, our host to be stars. Right,
So you get a budget, you have a wardrobe department.
Shout out to Victoria and shout out to all them
in the wardrobe department. They have all of those things,
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and then you go to ESPN. Guess what you got.
If you're lucky, you got a cubicle. And I ain't lying,
ain't no wardrobe. Bring your own suits, steam your own suits,
hit your own tie, hit you knock. Start looking at
the cat's knots on Fox versus the cat's knots on ESPN.
I remember doing. I was like, dog, you go buy
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somebody like I remember going buy some of the famous cats,
like you know, you go by back in the days,
shoe even a Steward Scot whoever it was, and you
just see ties all over their cubiclele got a tie
rack up in their cubicle. I'll tell you, you know,
you just look at cats, Scott van Pell, You're like
nine hundred ties right here. I remember going to Fox.
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You see Colin Cowerd and Jason Woodlock had their own
suitees on a different floor than everybody else who had
their dressing rooms. And I was like, damn a little
different over here. This is in and out right. So
that was interesting. So in terms of Dan Orlowski, as
far as I know, he could pick what he wants
to wear and that's gonna be all over the place
at times. If he wants to remember, Jesse Palmer used
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to wear them skin tight pants before they became fashionable
and just go out there and rocket suit. So it's
a big difference, I mean in terms of the network
support getting you on air. Another thing that I saw
that was interesting is the days of us pulling off
the up top. You know, everybody does a zoom now
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and then on the zoom you got you dressed up
exactly how I said you was dressed up. You ain't
dressed on the down right, like, look at me right now.
I got on this fresh facts over feeling shirts go
to Marcel's wileshop dot com Marcel's wileyshop dot com. But
I also got on this what of else? I got
on some crocks and some sweats. Well, there was a
time where I got caught slipping and dance spin put
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out of this big article. Let me tell you this
story and get up out of here. I was wearing shorts.
I did like a midnight ESPN sports center. I don't know,
And it's funny. It's funny. At ESPN you will work
at six in the morning, five in the morning and
be working till twelve o'clock that night. For real, you
get brakes, but it's tough to have a break when
you know you gotta go back to work. I digress.
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So I remember doing that and I was like, I
had to do this midnight Sports center. I'm like, man,
I'm coming from the hotel, halfway tired. All right, already
prep i'm'a dress up from the top. I'm behind the desk.
Problem was, I was on the side, the corner part
of the desk, and somebody took pictures because somebody was
in there just feeling froggy taking pictures, and Dad Spind
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caught it. Let me tell you why this was a stupid,
silly story, not Dad Spind, how our execs reacted. So
these are the same execs and people that you see
all the time when they see you going dressed up,
not dressed down, and then saying word about it until
that article came out. Now, I remember they came back
set tripping. They was like, hey, why all y'all matter
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of fact? Everybody company why? I was like, what why
can I got cross slipping? I had to mess it
up for everybody, you know what I mean? Like, yeah, okay, sorry,
I got in trouble. Yeah, you caught me with the beer. Yeah,
I'm sorry. Let them all still have alcohol access, you
know what I mean? Like, you's mean, bro? So that
was weird. Then they really got upset at that moment.
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But that's how the game goes. Man, So y'all see this.
Did y'all see him? And did y'all think he had
on pants or not? Because some people was really hitting me,
I was like, I am not about to stop what
I'm doing right now to go see if Dani or
LASSI got on pants? And what should we make of
this situation? This story? Did y'all know what I told
y'all about Fox and ESPN? Have you ever noticed the
wardrobe differences between Fox and ESPN? Like who dresses better
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and fresh and all that stuff? You ever catch that? Well,
maybe that makes sense of what I told you guys
just now, Oh, if your daughter dates a dude that
goes and did this, they getting divorced and let me stop.
Oh man, I'm so judgmental. I'll see some stuff we
do and I do it too. I No, I ain't
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never been nowhere top than the a that and every day.
I never did that. Because if you're doing that you're
doing what everybody else doing. If you're doing what everybody
else doing, you ain't gonna be doing what you want
to do, which is unique, which is authentic, which is
gonna get you where you need to go. So I
used to judge, can't you do you? Okay? Like you
just watch MTV raps and all of a sudden you
just come Oh God, all right, man, go to Project
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gotta be greater than our greatest excuse seriously, any amount,
it doesn't matter, just supports you be a part of
the team, all right. Trent dilferd used to be a
part of my team at ESPN, used to be a
part of my team at Fox. No lie to me
my favorite all time NFL analyst to break down games
and film trend dilfer y'all agree? Anybody dog that sucker there? Man?
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He used to kill it. Oh, I love me some
trend different. All right, here's the thing we know he is.
We know he's known for NFL playing career. We know
he won the Super Bowl in Baltimore. We know y'all
gonna temperate, y'all gonna clown him, y'all gonna clown him
because of how they want a Super Bowl with an
average quarterback. He knows all of that, et cetera. Okay,
then he transitioned into coaching, became a coach. He was
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at Lipscomb Academy for of three years. We saw him
down there. Now he's at UAB the Blazers just Blaze.
He started there in November twenty twenty two. Okay, so
we all got the video of him before on the
online with the kids telling him shoot down, shut shoot down,
which I didn't like. Why Because what he's trying to
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do is flex his authority and he's trying to make
the kid obedient. Now, in the process of learning what
you don't want, even though sometimes you feel like you
have to be that direct is obedience. Obedience is basically
I'm gonna listen to something to do it without thinking
through it, just because I got to. Now there are
times and places where you think that's that's that's necessary.
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I understand, like, Okay, your kid ain't listening much. And
then you're like, yo, were out here in these streets
and I don't need you running out in no streets.
So when I say stop, you stop, I get that.
But when you're talking about a team game, you talking
about football, when you're talking about sports, you always want
them to be able to conceptualize and internalize because that's
the greater learn right. Ninety nine point nine percent of
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these cats playing sports is any sport ain't going pro.
So you're not teaching them football only. You're not teaching
them basketball only. You're teaching them life lessons through the
sport that they love and that they have passion for.
Simple as that you're preparing them for the real world
because the real world is really not probably going pro.
Even if they are, you're still preparing them for life
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after pro. You're preparing them for something grander than the game.
So when you're trying to tell somebody to sit down
just because you want to flex your authority, not really
teaching him anything in that moment, that's when you lose me.
That's when he lost me. In that video, but that
ain't his only video, y'all. Way, it gets worse. Oh man.
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So we saw the video this weekend. Even market spears
of ESPN had to say, Man, turn different, sit down,
you're gonna get a butt whipping. Oh man, it was bad.
Let's talk about these actions that we saw on the
sideline of a trend. Different because this time he's spass
because they had twelve minut on the field, so he's
spassed on his assistant coaches, two of them, and then
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just look so boisterous and out of control that you're like,
is that our leader? Is that our leader? That's our leader? Interesting? Okay,
now let me do some HDN right here, hypothetical detective work,
because this is wrong on its surface. Everybody could see it.
There's no defending this. And it's not the antics that
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is the worst part. It's his lack of accountability in
that moment showing them antics. I am a coach. He's
a coach with different level coaches, but coaches. We know coaches.
I know coaches. Coaches get it wrong all the time,
all the time. Look, I've gotten it wrong the last
two weeks, right, the first week a couple weeks ago,
our first game we lost, told the kids to hand
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the ball off. I emphasized overhand, the underhand. That matters
in our league. That's on me. I didn't Also, this week,
we up by two points. It's two minutes to go.
We can't really run out the clock just yet. They
got two timeouts. We got to get a first down.
Blah blah blah. But I shouldn't have threw the ball
where I threw the ball. I told him to throw
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the ball, he threw it. That was his second interception
of the game. I digressed, could have took care of
him better, put him in a better position to succeed.
I was wrong in that moment. I feel now coaches
watch a ton of film for one reason in this conversation,
one reason because they know they get it wrong what
I tell y'all to begin in the show. I go
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back and watch clips of my son and everybody, because
I know in that moment I ain't get it all.
I didn't catch it all. Now, this was explicit, This
was simple. Twelve minute the field. Who the hell substitution? Right?
That's simple. But coach, you still gotta teach the team
accountability by you also remembering that at times you have
been wrong. That's why coaches watched that film in the dark,
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and they sit there and they learn from it, right,
and they're quiet corridors. They're allowed to criticize themselves without
the critics being in the room. But the mistakes are
there on that video, yep. And that's why film is
therapy so many coach You want to want to know
why partly they watch so much film because they over
there without all of the criticism, without all of the noise,
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breaking themselves down to get better accountability. So coach on
the sideline, please don't have the antics to the point
to the point where it looks like it's our fault,
not our fault. I get it. You know, what do
they say when you win, you say y'all. What they
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say when you win, it is we When we lose,
it's me. In that moment, it looked like he was
saying y'all and that ain't a good coach in that moment.
But hey, I don't want to micro assess everything, but
there are moments when you know a coach is trying
to dictate terms to you. But in this moment, I
don't see any positivity that came out of that everybody.
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Now you undress your assistance and coaches, and then it's
gonna try and employ and empower them to now make
sure that these players know what to do. I have
to use this them dog cursed him. You think I
got that same respect for him? H you do? Oh?
You tripping you bout the fool. So in that situation,
I was just sitting there like Trent, this ain't gonna
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win in this moment. You may look like the big
man on sidelines, but after this guy's gonna lose something
for you in terms of I respect the meter, trust me.
I've never had a coach like that. Never. Now I
think Trent's like that, I ain't gonna lie. This is
me being a hypothetical detective HD. I think all of
that criticism of when he played, he harbors some of that.
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Why do I say that, because there's some frustration in
my man when you are a super Bowl champion, a
former pro no matter who criticizing you on the college ranks,
on the sidelines and their newspapers articles, they ain't trend Dilfer.
But somehow, some way he doesn't feel like Trent differ
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because y'all, when he was turning differ. Y'all were cutting
them down, y'all were chopping them up. Y'a were chopping
his knees. So I think some of that is there,
the flex you know how it goes. Who are the
worst coaches you see? I tell you who they are,
the ones who didn't realize their dreams, didn't make it,
or in this case, maybe somebody who made it but
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had a tougher experience in terms of respect and acceptance
than they wanted and then desired. But the worst coaches
I see are always the same. He was good, not
good enough, and boy, y'all gonna pay for it because y'all,
y'all might have a chance. I hate them coaches, So
I never had a coach like that. Bill Parcells was
the only coach that had some of that like gangster
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in them. But even by the time I got to
a parcels oh four, he kind of had most of
that was going Marty Schottenheimer same way. Marty Schottenheimer had
converted that to passion. He would cry every day, reci peace,
Marty Sucker cry every day. But he ain't go overboard
like that. So I would never allow my kid to
play for a coach like that. Because I know it's
another way up the mountain, and you can say what
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you want and say he's soft. I was like, yeah
you are food, Yeah you a problem. You got angry issues, bruh,
Like you can't get it out better than that. Tell
me if I'm right, Tell me if I'm wrong in
those comments right now? And how do y'all think these
public disprays a frustration like what Trent Dilford did impact
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his effectiveness for real and the team's morale. You think
they respect him the same, respect them more or respect
them less? And do y'all think this justified? Look? I
don't seen every coach lose it, but at the same time,
this felt different than losing. And asked Marcus Spears, I
don't know. He donet seen a lot of coaches losing too.
This looked different. And there are any situations where the
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actions are justified. You're like, hey, hey, you remembered up, homie,
you dropped the ball, and it's okay for coach to
go do that skirt skirt. Oh that's another thing if
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All right, Well we saw we got on Saturday a
Tale of two gangs. Well this was a tale of
the man. This ship, I don't know Gilligan's I tell
them to found this Shaw. You remember that no sump
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talking about something this hold up follow up for ah Man.
I hated it when people judged what you liked growing
up like I love Gilligans Out. And then I told
my boys, I remember growing like you like that corny show.
I'm really you know. I like facts of like to
take the good, you take the badge, to take them both,
and there you got the facts of like I was like, yeah,
I like facts of like who ain't thinking two Dy
the finest woman alive right now? Or Charlene from different
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strokes point of being, Hey, you got Judge because you
like the show right and now this one I did
get Dukes of Hazzard. I used to love who just
a good old boy. I had the card every day,
I had the whole city. Then one day somebody like,
hey man, look at that flag. I was like, yeah,
it's dope, this General Leaf flag. They're like the food.
Ain't no General Leaf flag? You know that flag is?
I said, no, my brothers, I'm nine, What the hell?
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I don't even know all the state flags? What you mean?
He's like, oh man. Then I started watching the show
a little different, just like w w F when you
find out it was choreographed, when you find out that
ain't no brothers on Dukes hass. I was like, really,
h wait a minute, all let's talk about Gus Johnson
right here, because wait a minute, when you bias towards
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Colorado and not towards USC did you keep a balanced
approach in this conversation. Okay, they got some evidence. Just
go back if you don't believe, because fans are perplexed,
as they said, listening to Johnson do these two different calls. Okay,
when he did a USC call, Marshaon Lloyd scored twenty
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seven yard touchdown, he kind of was like, here am radio, right,
and then when all of a sudden thirty yard touchdown
passed from Shaduur Sanders to Jimmy Horn. Now there was
a different level of enthusiasm throughout the broadcast. Let's just
say that. Some say it was way more animated for
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Colorado and not so much USC. Now, I know in
this moment they want to make your racial but they
not because Colorado dion and then link urd USC. But
I know they didn't go there because that's stupid, right, right,
even though they saying Colorado games or the BT Awards,
they saying stilly stupid. Somebody was like BT wards. The
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point is, y'all know his brothers all on both sides,
who cares? All, Right, let's talk about this. I think
this is where they went because everybody's caught up in
this hype of Colorado and whether it's Gus Johnson because
he's black or Gus Johnson because he's always hyping. You
can meet hype and hype. He gonna be hyper. Who
I love Gus Johnson's salute to him. He knows last
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time we talked much respect giving on both sides. Man,
I got deep love for how he does it. It
was a tail of two games. So watching them get
beat down be real. Watching USC beat down Colorado in
the beginning, was it twenty eight zero? You're like, all right, expected,
all right? Whatever? Boring rigamaro. Oh see, it just happened
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to me naturally. Oh they coming back. It could have
been in USC. Oh, they coming back. That's how it goes, right,
So he talking about USC, I expected doing it, still
doing my job amazingly. But right here Colorado, oh oh
oh eight forty one, Like when you get hyped for
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somebody trying to do that, when you get hype rooting
David on to go get your life right. So I
think that's what happened here, more so than he had
a rooting interest with Colorado than USC. But tell me,
come mean, look, he doing the biggest games on Fox.
Trust me, he gonna be doing a lot more usc
longer this year and see might not. They got a
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hell of a schedule. It's tough, but see got squad
for real. So let me take you guys back to
the days of when you had to hide your fandom
when you were on air. Remember those days when it
was taboo to say what team you really like? And
people who didn't really complain that much. We didn't have
social media like that, but still people weren't complaining that much,
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but they were like, yo, who you think you know?
You got Jess Patriots? Who do you think who you got? Who?
You'd be like, I'm just doing the game. And then
really it was because there was a battery in our
back saying you better not have any energy towards one
of those teams and biased the executives. We had an
order that we couldn't step in it be neutral, be unbiased.
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That was the rule, that was the way. And then
all of a sudden, cats, I mean, the industry just
kept growing. Maybe you couldn't police it the same, Maybe
because it became more authentic, more fragmented. You guys wanted
more of the real person instead of just like the broadcaster.
I remember I start banging my Clippers. I start banging
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them Clippers yep. I was like, what's up this West
Side Clippers? Homey? What up Clips City? You know? And
I and no, Lie, the more I talk about the Clippers,
the more the producers in the X was like, talk
about the Clippers because nobody was talking about the Clippers
were two. It was the whole Like, Wow, I thought
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the fans would be mad that you were biased. They
wouldn't be mad. They'd be like, he doing it tongue
in cheek or that's who he is, and all right,
as long as you keep it real about when you're
talking good and bad about him. And I was like,
all right, I will. And I've always even through the process,
as much as I'm a Clipper lover, I wouldn't a
Laker hater. I always get the Lakers their props, sir.
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I mean, I knew a lot of those guys, and
on top of that, they were just better than us
for a long time. Yeah, we would beat them, we
would win more regular season games, but then they'll get
the championship. Still, Kobe got two. Then you mess around
to Lebron, I won that's three championships and what thirteen years?
How mean? We got none in it forevery year, so
I caught it. Point being, it was just amazing to
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watch not only the fans changed their minds about things,
but also the executives and the executive orders of now
lean into it. So now Mike Greenberg Greeney, every time
the Jets come on, you already know you already know
how it's gonna go down. Stephen A. Smith, the Knicks
already know you know that's how the game goes, etc.
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Et cetera, et cetera. So it's kind of the same
as gambling. Like gambling at one time was taboo. Now
you got guys talking through the spread. You're like, what
you who go win the game? Well minus three and
a halfs? You're like, who's gonna win the game? Seriously? Right?
And that's coming from what executive order? Why US bets
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DraftKings fan duel all up in there. It's real, man.
So I'm glad it's this way. Now it's gonna go
even further because I don't like being inauthentic. I hate
the fakeness. So authenticity is what rules the world. Execs
finally caught win to that. So did y'all see the
broadcast did y'all see Gus Johnson out there leaning one
way for Dion and the love for Dion. Everybody caught
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up in the phenomenon. Everybody doing this when Dion come in,
vitna big. Everybody doing that right because Dion is the
fat Deon's the dance you gotta do if you go
out to the club, right, or just because they were
coming back, he was hype. Every time somebody's coming back
could get hyper. Come on now, So let's see what
y'all think of that. And then you think commentators like
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Gus Johnson, you think that they should be allowed to
be biased or commentators. Nah, but y'all people who got
opinions and analysts, Yeah, but not the commentaries, not the broadcast.
Tell me what you guys think about this? And did
y'all catch him slipping or you were like, nah, doll,
he was just doing this job. Come in here, come here,
come here. Hey, what's up? Oh? Man, love for you
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Ebedy k Williams, she's on this show again. She famous.
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She used to be a housewife, so oh better look out, annam.
But to watch yourself, you're about to be famous like this.
Every time she says something, it seems like it's sparking
a lot of conversation and controversy. Excuse me, dirty, excuse me.
It's pretty good for her. Let's talk about her next
video that it was trending this weekend, which is about
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kind of over here hurting right now. I'm so sorry, y'all,
where she was talking about young black women versus young
white women and how they go to college with different mindsets.
I guess that's a general way of saying it. All right,
So it was an article that said that she was
taking out of context. That's why it blew up. You know,
it's funny. A lot of things do blow up when
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you take them out of context. Why because usually when
things are in context properly neat, you know, curated, it's
almost too clean, for you to mess it up, for
everyone to have different opinions on it, it becomes very
binary almost like yeah, I'm with it. No, well, but
when it's taken out of context, what what do you mean?
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What they say? Why they do that? And you see
already all these questions and then all of those are
antennas for you to just take a different directions for real.
I'm not sure people do it on purpose, but I
do know the unintended consequences of something taking out of context,
even from you, is to be like wait, wait, wait,
wait wait, and then you're gonna have to go clarify
blah blah blah, and then they're be like noah, nah nah,
(38:21):
I heard this, And y'all just getting to that tug
of war, all right, So she's into this one right here.
She's talking about the mrs degree right, miss degree. All right,
we already know where women aim to secure fiance by graduation.
That's what the white women were showing in their video clips.
But she emphasized cultural differences and goals between black and
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white female college students. Not only am I experienced and
an expert on this subject because I went to college
and I know women and I dated women in college,
but also have a college graduate what are a master's
and from Columbia as a daughter. So let's talk through this.
This is real, so she said, Historically, black women have
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been taught to focus on education, careers, and financial stability
before seeking the mate, which differs from the get the
ring by spring mentality of white females. We get those generalizations.
Nobody could lie about that. So it also underscores where
some of the fuel for this thought was, well, look
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at your suitors, look at your counterparts, look at the
men white men versus black men and black men, and
the war on drugs on black men and the mass
incarceration against black men have influenced the choices of black women,
pushing them to prioritize their career in financial independence. Basically,
the dudes ain't there in the house. You know, the
welfare state. How that incentivized women to marry the government
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and not marry a man. Then dudes are caught up
in the war on drugs and mass incarceration, etc. Okay,
one thing I want to poke at is the fact
that the war on drugs and mass incarceration. Obviously in sentencing,
we've seen how drastically different. It was for those caught
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what crack versus those caught with regular powder cocaine. We
seen those reports, et cetera, and a lot of times
that is mapped on based on race. It's not congruent,
but it's certainly there was some correlations. Right, Let's say that.
But as a brother, as a dude from the neighborhood,
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there was a war on drugs where there was mass incarceration.
Let me just say this. The sentencing was messed up.
But you didn't have to join that war. You didn't
have to join that fight. You didn't have to. I
had uncles who did. I had family members who did.
I have friends who did. I have friends who didn't.
And I'm one of those people who didn't. I just
want to get that out there. Now, y'all take it
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and go where you want. But when we say that,
let's not be so simple and lazy like the war
forced you to get drafted into it. This is not
that type of war. This type of war was a
person saying, man, I don't have any options, so I
got to go make money somehow, So I'm gonna do
it this way and sell it to my people. And
but you had an option, You had other options. You
didn't liked them options, but you had them. Let's just
get that. Okay, So now we get back on this.
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Ebone and doctor Bean suggest that college is the opportunity
time for black women to meet potential partners who master
educational and life goals. Yes, this goal is kind of
in sync with Tyler Perry talking about struggle love and
the difficulty of finding suitable partners as successful black women
get older. Okay, so they all talk about how you
know this starts off with high standards and not wanting
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to compromise in your relationships. But then if you don't
do that in compromise, how in the hell you're gonna
find somebody I love? When people say they I want
to compromise, have you ever looked in the mirror? Your
ass ain't perfect? How about this? You are far from perfect,
including me. I got a gut right now. He ain't big,
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it ain't little, though. Come on now, I don't look
like them, whoever they are. I mean, I'm a good
looking dude. I ain't great looking though. It's somebody finer
than me. Like compromise, What the compromise? Let me just
tell y'all. I've had this argument too many times to
even say this. My favorite wildism to shut all of
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this down is this, Stop talking about your standards. Stop
talking about what you bringing, cause that ain't it. Don't
miss the boat waiting on a yacht and let me
just tell you your ass try to swim across that
you ain't gonna make it look. I know them for
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every single girl and dude, and none of them are happy.
I know dudes who get divorced and already got girlfriends.
Why cause we built to be together. Now, that don't
mean it's gonna be perfect together. He may cheat on her,
she may cheat on him. It may not end well,
ain't not in like they desire. But we built to
do it again. We built to be together. We built
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this city. We are built to be together, y'all. So
stop the bs. And there's somebody for everybody people say no,
there's not, Yes, there are now. There are more women
than men. I know, I ain't get it. And if
you master them all up, somebody gonna be left out
in the dark. I know, I know. But guess what,
y'all have a factory in Some people don't want to
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get married, and they gonna fight that struggle. They gonna
swim across. I know a few of my homies they're like,
don't forget that, I'm always gonna be in these streets. Honey.
He don't count then good? All right, guess what I got, homegirls,
I'm the one. I'm the one. Ain't nobody like being good?
You don't count you helping the numbers out. Good for y'all,
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But don't miss the boat waiting on the yard. I
get sick and tired. My girlfriend, my daughter has a boyfriend.
Let me be real about it. My daughter's a really
good girl. I don't know she gonna marry him. I
ain't even gonna put him on blasts like that. I
ain't gonna put that pressure on him. Live your life,
young man, Live your life, young woman. However she wants
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to get married, she'll get married. Why because she wants
to get married and she's a great person. And it
ain't that deep. I ain't nobody if I have my homeboys, wool,
we used to walk in this party, walking the club.
I mean, ain't nobody in here. Ain't nothing in here,
whether they were talking about tonight or they were talking
about for you know, I do they were like, ain't
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nobody in here, Ain't no wife's sitting here, Ain't no
wife he's in there, and ain't nobody mess around with tonight?
And I was like, are you in here? And they'd
be like, yeah, fool, I'm right here. It's time up.
I was like, well, then, if you hear they here.
A law of attraction, a law of association, it always
works that way. If you want it, you go get it.
Somebody else gonna want and go get it with you
because they both wanted. Stop thinking you so damn unique.
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Stop thinking you so you the star of all the
shows that only you qualify, only in you wanted only
in you? Is there one like stop oh imperfect? And boy,
give me specific names, and I tell you I chop
them down because I chop myself down first. There I'll
be like, once I'm chopped, you chopped too, or I
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could do it? Come on? Oh uh nink in my degree?
Nincot my degree? Eh? Okay? What else? Oh yeah, I
got my own job? What else? First of all, dudes
in general don't care about how much money you make.
Do feel like that's all him? So you bringing all
that money, like all right, that's cute. I gotta go
get mine still, so like you know, when nobody's trying
to negate that, but they at the same time, if
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you're trying to impress him, gotta come a different way.
You gotta come in one. Let's just be real. You
gotta look good now looking good look different than a
lot of people. Me and my boys never fought. Weould
always sayd we never fight at the club, cause well,
why they won't we don't. I used to like real
pretty faces, and I ain't care nothing else. It could
have been on a trot, she could have been her
legs could have been a tripod, three legs, this kidding.
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I ain't care if her face is pretty. I'm like, oh,
cause I used to always say we go to I'm
just looking. I'm like, oh, you're so beautiful. Stupid. But
point is or softball players, you know, five to six,
one ninety, you're like got Dad Wiley. Nobody fight with me.
Then my boy's like other types. The point is there's
a type for everybody, because it's your type, your type.
Second thing is be somebody's type after that, and be
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a good person. Damn it, stop talking, y'all, be skipping.
Good person. Like, just be pleasant, polite, respectful, emit, emit light.
Cats will will love you. It's that simple. Now, stop
thinking that means it's gonna be a perfect life. It
ain't marriage hard, y'all. Why is it hard? Because you
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don't even know yourself fully and you trying to make
it work with somebody else who doesn't know them self fully.
Guess what. There's gonna be some gaps and knowledge. It
ain't that damn deep tired in women always talk about
they degrees and who they are. It ain't no man,
and I'm tired to do Some of these girls ain't
nothing and they trifle like you're telling on yourself. Bro,
that's you. They're telling yourself. If you want it, go
get it, be greater your greatest excuse. Damnit read this book?
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Damnit long on the project Transition, do or do so?
But nah? I saw this and being real to make
it racial like they did, Cause you know, I ain't
scared of race. I just don't. I don't lean into
it these conversations. In general, Black people have a survive mentality.
White people have a thrive mentality. How do I know this?
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Two ways? One I used to take care of white
people growing up. That's why one reason I look at
race a lot different than other people. I had white
people that needed me growing up, like for their basic
necessities and needs. Yeah, white people, you imagine that. And
everybody tell you, oh, white people are superior. White people,
you know, the supreme, and they run the country. I'm like,
not the white people. I know they need me and
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I'm on welfare and I got more than them, so
stop it. That was one. Two is since I'm bilingual
and have and have nots growing up without nothing. Now
I got five dollars. I've seen my key. They are
not in the same mindset and mentality and mode I was.
They are not in a survived mindset. They are in
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a thrive mindset. They are the ooh about to cry.
One of the greatest compliments I ever got, And it
wasn't really for me, but it was. It was from
my friend Terry. He came over, shout out to Terry,
who lives in Mexico, just picked up his bags, him
and his wife moved to Mexico. Loved that we had
a party. And all my parties are typical. I think
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all of them kid friendly. I don't like having them
adult only parties. I do, but kid friendly lifeguard. Somebody
watched the kids in the pool, everybody else running around,
kids playing clean version music. So if kids could hear it,
play paddle tennis over there, pick a ball up there, basketball,
kids running around. Look out for the kids. Have fun.
They know those red cups saying gatorade, have fun. Live.
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My boy Terry came to me in that moment. He said, Man,
he said, look at it all these kids. You know,
my kids included their friends, all types. He said, look
at all these kids, and look how free they are acting.
You know, but gear it to you real. I got family.
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I grew up where you ever see those kids that's
super quiet, And it's not because they're shy. It's because
a lot of their enthusiasm got beat out of them
by the conditions, by the world, by the naysayers, by
the system telling them they couldn't. You know, I heard
it too growing up. Oh you ain't gonna be I'm like,
who is saying this? If I keep hearing it, I
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don't see them, but I hear it right, the people
stepping on your seeds that you're trying to blossom. And
he said, Daddy said, look at all these kids, and
the bunch of black kids too. Of course, he was like,
look at all these kids and how free they acting like,
just free, not no slavery free, just like they doing
whatever they want to do and ain't doing nothing bad.
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You know, don't touch that cook Jar, leave the house.
Cookie Jar messed up. I'm not even setting rules. I'm
just saying, hey, don't hurt each other, be nice to
each other. Kids run around doing what they do. They
go over here, bay blade tournaments in the corner. Let
us go bottle flipping. It's just crazy, right. So I
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brought all that up to say that I know that
typically black people are in a survive because of all
the socioeconomic issues, in a survive mentality, more so than
white people in a thrive mentality. So when they hit college,
guess what happens. They ready to go get it, whereas
the black people are just trying to get something. I
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want to remind people that the greatest transactions of wealth
in this country, Number one is inheritance. Leave it for yours,
leave it for your family. Inheritance the number one transaction
of wealth. Number two the institution of marriage. Make it
a black white issue if you won't all I'm saying
is be a good person. Emit that light and if
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you want it, marriage is good for you and it's
good for yours. So it's many ways up the love mountain.
So I ain't here to preach. You don't want to
get married, go ahead, I just know what you're about
to go through. You want to get married, go ahead.
I know what you're about to go through too. Food,
oh man. But there's the all kinds of degrees of success,
and none is full of proof. Married, married or not married, single,
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not single, But many ways up the mountain. Just make
sure you get to the top, all right, y'all. So
y'all understand and what y'all think about what Ebany is
talking about, what I'm talking about. Y'all agree with me,
you agree with her, you agree with both of us,
disagree with both of us, and tell me better lifestyle.
You gotta pick married or single? That's it. Don't say
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I don't know. I ain't ask you the third choice,
and no third choice. I'm about to die married or single.
Tell me which one you think is a better life?
Coming up next? Like, oh, I gotta deal with funcus
with comments? Oh Courtney, huh? Oh I was about to die.
So I was just trying to leave y'all all right
to focus on commics. Funcus some comments. Yea, he needs
to stand up for WSH. We talk about Ryan Leaf
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since ESPN on focuses on promoting certain universities. Well out here,
both universities OSU and WSU had good records going into
the game and trying to get into the Big twelve,
and then the game day folks made a joke of
those two teams. I stopped watching ESPN Game Day once
they created the Longhorn Longhorn Network. Okay, yeah, it's tough
for me to say ESPN to state just balanced when
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they they spend a lot of money for the sec
certain teams. I'm with Ryan Leaf's side for different reasons.
All this realignment on the surface now looks great, but
like all things, it would take a few years until
we all see all the consequences play out. When big
corporate mergers happen. A lot of people that used to
have jobs don't. So what will happen here once all
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the dust settles. We all know big time big boy
football is the driver, but what about the unforeseen? How
long before travel becomes an issue? What does Wake Forwards
versus Stanford girls softball look like I don't know, I'm
not watching. Or do those programs now get canceled because
they don't bring in that dough though you already know
you answered it. How does nil effect this? We've not
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even begun to see what the big picture will be here.
I could see one day one one big singular conference
of thirty forty or so teams just for football, and
if you're in Minnesota or Iowa State or even like
a Purdue, it can spell death. All this may not
be the best, but we'll see all real points right there,
big dog, follow the money. You want to know where
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this is going. Follow the money? Stephen A want skip
Shaq in two thousand and eight, Kobe tell me how
my ass tastes. Kobe have to winning his fifth got
one more than Shaq. Come on, y'all, I don't forget nothing.
Alpha men at the top are very competitive. It's how
they got where they got, and they are the most
competitive with the people closest to them. Yep, Stephen, ain't skip.
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I like to add, when first really got number one,
ESPN had great shows from Mike and Mike all the
way through the afternoon. You could watch ESPN all day.
My husband and I would just watch until Sports Center
Undisputed is doing well, considering they are even in the
conversation with an old dog like First Take, and truly
they are alone in that conversation. FS one would have
to build an amazing lineup, as ESPN did in order
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to achieve the numbers that ESPN is achieved. Too bad
they didn't value what they had because I feel like
firing all that talent was a mistake as a whole.
I don't really even know any other show on the
ESPN except First Take anymore or Real Loss. I remember
when I first saw you Max and Beatle the good
old days. But I wish you could get Max on
here too. People want Max on here one day one
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day I just saw the other day, wink, I just
saw the other day. Steven A. Smith actually jogged up
the clip of skipping Shannon's spat during the podcast. Don't
give me one bit for the audience who may not
have seen. That was a thousand percent to maximize the
chances he got a good sound bite response. Bring all
him a motions right back for that visceral reaction possibility. Yeah,
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he was baiting Shannon on that podcast. I do admit that,
like he wanted, he was like, so what is this,
what's this doing? What are you feeling in this moment?
What are you thinking? Oh? You mad? Stopped? Nah, it's
just all right, said. It's NFL racist. NFL is no
more racist than the rest of the country. The NFL
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equally doesn't care about their health any of their players,
and have no problem cutting the player if they get hurt,
you know, I mean you could. It's hard NFL racist. No,
they be cutting a lot of white dudes. No, they'll
be paying a lot of black dudes. No, they care
about green Dog this country, Green Brouh twenty twenty three.
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I ain't reading this. Next one channel Jones, let me
get this straight. McDaniels brings him to the Raiders from
New England. Jones becomes a radic and blames the same
man of killing the X teammate who hung himself in prison,
and he goes after Mark Davis as well. At what
point do you say enough is enough? I would anyone
put up with such shit? Well they don't, they haven't,
and they're not. You know what's now? Bye bye? He
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got cut this Saturday I hope it ends well for him,
because boy, that ain't no good. Now he doesn't even
have any structure. All right, y'all, y'all know were in
the show. We ended with a wiy is pray for
challenge Jones. Y'all. Yeah, you can't turn back the clock,
but you can wind it up again. You can't turn
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back the clock. Nah, man, This is something I need
to hear, because God dat every night about four four
fourteen and then at four forty four. It happens a
lot to me too, which means the angels are looking
out for you. They second whatever. But the point is,
I always start thinking about my day, and I start
thinking about what I've been through, like, yeah, wait, who cares?
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Get your ass up? Stop talking about what you've been through.
You ain't wanna do it. Go through something and get
to it right. But then I catch myself the football
player me. Now, I gotta watch film. I gotta check
out what I did. I gotta see if I was
doing it perfectly, efficiently, effectively the best I can, all right,
because I ain't get the results I desire to the
fullest I could do this, And I watch game film,
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I'll be in that damn film session all the time. Look, Oh,
when I was a kid, it was so hard. Look,
Oh what happened to her? Oh? Why my boy? Do
me like that? Look? I'm like, if you control this,
you let this shine. It's a rap out there, man.
So I know a lot of us get caught up
and looking back, and we sometimes maybe even disguise it
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like we're trying to look back to get better, But
a lot of times you also get bitter, not better
in those moments, much better, much more bitter than better.
Just know that you gotta go forward or what you're thinking,
but you gotta know what you've been through to get there, right,
And I get it, I get it. A lot of
this stuff builds us. It gives us the character that
we need to go out there and attack what's next.
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But just remember as you're going through that process, man,
because sometimes it takes some of your fuel away. Sometimes
it takes some of your energy away. And we're all
energy vessels just walking around here exchanging it, not creating it,
not destroying it, just exchanging it. So remember you can't
turn back the clock, b bike, but you can't wind
it up again. All right, y'all, that'll do It. For
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