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Speaker 1 (00:02):
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Welcome back to the Women Out Pop. Sorry, women are
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I'm just kidding. Arena standing Yeah, I am be samoned
with my beautiful co host Pretty and CD. We are
so excited. Today we have a guest we will talk
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about later. But before we introduced our guest, Brie is
going to do our toast. Okay, you know, we'd like
to start off with good vibes, good energy, and then
we have something new up here, and I let pretty
be explain what this is and the next and tell
me what was in that cup because it looks a
little it looks a little scared. I'm gonna tell you
what's in it. Okay, Well, on that note, with that cup,
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I'm going to say that my chairs is to live
today like we would die tomorrow. So I've been wanting
to live to the fullest lately and traveling and I've
just been loving everything. Y'all make me do my comfort
zone on this show, ladies that yeah, yes, that's so cute,
and it's gonna be a great show. It's it's about
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to go down. We got a dope, I guess. We
got a beautiful guest, actually so beautiful individual inside me
and Mina just be talking to her. What did you say?
It was like, she's like me, the old school beauty.
She billy, the old school beauty. And I remember in
the house Mia the dark skins. I don't remember her.
You gotta show me a picture. You know what she doing?
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Remind me you off? I told her this today. I'm
gonna say it on the podcast. One of any Cannababy.
Mama's his ex girlfriend. She's so beautiful, brown skin mom
with the long hair. I don't know if she got
long hair. She has long hair. She has nice was
part extensions. I was on her page last night. Yeah,
because I went down a rabbit hole. I clicked Nick
Cannon while the nawth that I went to one baby.
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She's kind of like, No, she's not skinny, but she's
like my figure. She's a model. She was in music videos.
But yes, we'll introduce her guests in a few acting
wow briefcase on the plane. Yes, girl, please tell me
I'm chlora phille. This is why my internals don't stink, okay,
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because chlorophil helps with a lot of stuff internally and
helps with your body odor and it's healthy. It's like, yeah,
I don't know about that. I don't know breathing on me.
I'm like it was something that's something is hot. That's
a lot you gotta receipt is I know you ain't
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talking because you asked for it every day because I
wanted to get in the game. She'd be still in
my cor You got some color field. It is six am,
but you guys, this is gonna be a dope episode
because you know, usually we have stuff, some topics and
you alred know we're gonna talk about this today that today.
But we are in b I mean, what do you
wanna name it? I mean this is a jaw full
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of surprise, Okay, whiling out surprises. Yeah, let's get why
do not jow surprises? Whiling out giddy jar of surprises
with the tea, a little bit of tea, a little bit,
a little bit juice, the juice, who got the juice?
Who got the juice? While now who got the juice?
Jaw but um, we're gonna grab We're gonna get into
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it soon, but we're gonna grab one of these cute
little um she's a little colorful paper. Shout out to
our producers for hooking his jar up. And there's topics,
there's questions. We're doing now sneaky okay, my favorite color
spink so and pink annyelo mm girl, you get one
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little reverization Okay, I want to do the first one
scenario scenario. He's white, he loves you, his family storm
the capital. You gonna do? Wait what he's white? Okay,
he but he loves you. His his family was one
who stormed the capital. What you're gonna do. I'm still
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talk to Hi. I'm still by his side. Or you
gonna he loves you? Do you love him? I don't
love the family. Maybe hand out to dude that maybe
his family was just We talked about this earlier, not earlier,
but before when we were talking about skin colors. He
was like, would you take somebody outside and race? I'm like, yes,
love is love, but ultimately I would love to marry
a black man. I'm not gonna just ex out anybody
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out of my race, but um, I would date outside
of my race, but ultimately I would love to marry
a black man. My boyfriend is a black chocolate and
storm in the capital. And you get to that part yet, well,
you know I've um, of course I've dated outside of
my race. And when I say that Hispanics, I have
never dated um Trump, I've always you know, had a
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brother beside me. But you know, sometimes, you know, sometimes
those brothers do act up. Sometimes we sometimes I have
to be like, okay, come out here, Luigi. Okay, but
now she date one little Latina that I'm spending get
it right, baby Chico. But yeah, something in Spanish give
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me kids. Okay, say something else that's not even say.
But you know, it's nothing like a strong black man periods,
period muscles, and some of them ain't ship. Some white
men ain't ship. Some Hispanics period, some Vietnam's ain't ship.
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As we just had eighty five South Show Carlos and Chico. Okay,
did you know what about you Bree? Oh yeah, I
definitely did that some risk. Yeah. Can we talked about
this before? But what ethnicity are you? I'm Native American
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and Italian? So you call me why? I don't really know.
Remember the whole season, and it's so annoying. I'm like,
don't get away from me fifteen days. But I mean
to answer that. To be in that scenario, I mean
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I love him, So I mean whatever the family do,
they just do, but maybe me and to do in
Hawaiian way, pain, I have call me if somebody going
to the Bergency room and then then that we get
we're stepping on peanut glades. Let me pick one more
and then we'll introduce our guests. Green for money. What
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would you do if your child or baby sister brother? So,
what would you do if your child or sibling came
to you and said they were being bullied. This is
one of that what's talk about pet peeves. I hate bullies.
I think it is so fucked up, Like pick on
somebody that's gonna roast you back. There's like wiling out
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you roast me, I roast you. You're coming for me.
I'm coming for you. Don't just keep nagging at somebody
that's not standing up for themselves. That's weak to me,
definitely weak. I mean, you know, I've been bullied, um
and now I talked about that when it shouldn't me
and be someone was on Girls Crew, So I know
how that affects and feels um so for me at
the end of the day, bullying you know, um always
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pointing at somebody getting any nerves like that's one of
my biggest pet peeves as well. Like I don't like
the because I'll be getting ready to fight. Yeah, Like
I want to fight, like now I want to fight,
Like now I want to fight, you know, Like no,
like now that you pull you talk to Yeah, but
I'm working on my aggressive this though, God has been good.
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What about you bread, Yeah, girl, I just feel like
that's something that has gone way too far that you've
got kids can't in themselves and just like it's just gone.
It's insane, and with the internet it's times a thousand.
So it's like, I feel like it's time that everybody
starts sticking up. Like you hear somebody said like all right, relaxed, bro,
Like you know, like everybody kind of needs to you
not on that front because that's so much damage. And
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I'm like, you're like, I want to fight you. Yeah.
There was a show I saw on Instagram. It was
like a clip like a compilation, and it was like
a hitting camera and it was like somebody fighting getting
up and people walking by people citizens or you know,
regular people would do. So it was like very like damn,
like people really don't be sticking up for people and
they don't want to be part of it, you know.
But yeah, it's my opinion on it. Yeah, yeah, I
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just want to say something about the bulliance situation even too,
Like we were saying, you know, the kids culding themselves,
and the thing about it is if you don't have
a foundation at home to make sure that you're loved
and that you are worthy and that you you know,
are protected, you're gonna let the enemy you know, feed
you and and and it's it's we are humans. We
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know a lot of things happen when you leave your home.
Your mama dressed you, you go home, it's a whole
different ball game, you know, at school, so your mom
is not with you every day. And sometimes they don't
even tell their parents. Sometimes I want to tell their
parents right household, I don't even know, right, But sometimes
you just you gotta. I don't know. I just hate
thinking about that because these kids are really out here,
like really killing herself, are attempting to do it, and
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sometimes they get mad when they don't do it. They
just talked about that at the Red Table talk with
Paris Jackson. She was so like mad that it didn't
work out for her to kill himself. You know, like,
that's a lot, and it all starts in the mind,
because the mind is our battlefield. So you know, when
you feel like you're being bullied or even a situation
with doing ways, you know, daughter, you know, that's a lot.
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You know, what if she didn't talk to get union,
what if she didn't talk to you doing weight and
she said, you know what, I'm not being accepted, I'm
not this thing like that. So I'm gonna go ahead
and pull it now. I'm in the bathroom by myself.
It's my time. My childhood best friend at it. I
got her tattooed on me, and she did it. It
was going into our freshman year of high school. And
you look back at it and you're like, what, what
are they even talking about? Like it's crazy. So it's
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definitely a real thing that I think everybody's got to
start stepping up and doing some shit about. It's not
something just wash over. Because if you don't have the
home life, you don't know. Yeah you think that's true. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
you're just living on your loved ones, living on your
kids before they leave their house, you know, just loving
on it. Because when you when you, like I said,
when you feel like it's just like regular, well I'm
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doing this, I'm doing that. I'm gonna go to school
and get a black guy coming home. Sometimes it stands
from where we sleep. Sometimes we stand the conversation to
people we have around, because not just kids are getting bullied.
We got grown people. You don't know whether they're coming from.
That's why they're taking it out on you know. Yeah,
other kids we got on social media with comments get
we get bullied in through them all day. It's fell
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on the ground. Well, we have our guests coming up
right after this break. I wanted the other cars so
we could talk to her about these two topics. Um beautiful, beautiful,
beautiful Amber die Man, she was a violet and now girl.
Now she's on the cast and and it's to us
telling jokes, running out with us on different on the
squaw's um. So right after this breaky I will meet
Amber timing. All right, you guys, we are back with
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the women of while in podcast. We're about to bring
up our guests right now, Amber Diamond, the beautiful baby sexy. Okay,
let's talk about it. Having said, I don't have to
getting talent in that body or Amber girl, they're welcome.
When we got our water, I think you got coffee.
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She's got black because I know y'all did the cheers before.
I want to do it to Okay, Okay, all right,
here's to you, and here's to me. The best of
people will always be. And if by chance we disagree
and fuck you holds and here's to me, hey, you know,
because we're gonna disagree, so it's gonna be cheers to me,
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thank you for yes. So beautiful. So glad to be
around you more this season because you moved from while
and out girl to cast member. Now they're telling jokes
walking up. Look yesterday they DJ d red Cutty. He
said next game and said I got one. Yeah, but
you know you ain't in the back. You're stepping up,
You're talking to your playing every game. How does it feel?
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How does that transition feel? It feels so good because
now I feel like I finally get the show more
of my personality and I'm getting you know, hurt, and
people are taking me more serious because when I was
a While and Our Girl. Not to say they don't
take the While and Our Girl serious because they do. Um,
but it's just like, you know, just like being able
to transition and to be up there with the big leagues,
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Like I'm I feel like I'm in the NBA right now,
and like you guys accepting me in like brought me in.
Nobody was like Caddy or anything like that, and I
felt comfortable being around you guys. So I'm like, I
really enjoyed my experience this season. I really do did
more than me because my first season, I was like
really spoke up, you know what, you feel like? It
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was more so because I was not to say that
I was trying to prove a point, but I was
kind of trying to prove a point, you know what
I'm saying for a reason. Yeah, I'm like, I'm not
trying to be silence. I'm not trying to be like
I'm trying to be up there. I'm trying to Yeah. Anyways,
but I would say, you don't you think it kind
of helps that you know everyone. You're so comfortable, you know,
like just how many years I've been here. I would
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only be okay with something like that because I know everybody,
and I feel way more comfortable to put myself out
there versus like jumping in cold Turkey like that definitely helped.
Because I've been on since season seven, um, and I
was a wiling our girl since season seven. I was
off for like two seasons. I came back as a
while and out girl, UM, and then last season I
gave was given the opportunity to become a while and
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outcast member for like four episodes. And I remember when, Um,
I think it was Annie and I think no, I
don't know. It was two people who came up to
me and told me it was like, Amber, how would
you feel if we put you on the episode? And
I was like for real? And I literally what what? What
What made that happen? Why was it you? Was it
your personality? Was it? Hey? They knew you wanted to
be an actress or you did comedy? What made them
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choose Amber Diamonds? So season seven, Um Shelby. I don't
know where her title was at that time, but Shelby
came to me and she told me, Amber, we have
this gig or whatever, I think you'd be good for
us audition. I became a host of this show called
bench Thinking on MTV MTV two UM and so I
was traveling around the state during drunk trivia, interviewing people
on the streets. And we did two seasons and it
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was pretty dump. It's on YouTube, It's on YouTube. It
was um. And then after that I came back and
I was a while and a girl. I did all
the promos, that did all the commercials, Like when it
came to Wild and Out, I was there on all
the promos, all the commercials. I was like the token
black girl, not to be yeah, but I did everything
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and so UM, I kept putting it into nick ear,
like I saw they brought Rose a coast on Britian
and Lena auditions, and so I was like, come on,
like these willing that girls, they're good, but I'm good too.
Kept putting in their ears like please give me a chance.
And I told Nick that one time, and I think um,
and I told any and I told now. I kept
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telling him I really wanted to be on the cars,
and they came up to me. I was smoking in
Bobby's house one season in Atlanta, and I walked out
and there was an amber came here and I was like,
oh ship, I'm in trouble because I got scared, Like
we're gonna give you one episode and I was like,
oh ship on the pop it was all girls episode
the first time, and then I actually killed it, like
I feel like I killed it my first time. After that,
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they gave me three more episodes that season, and then
I was like, alright, cool. So they kept putting in
my ear that I was gonna be on the cast
the next season, but then the show got canceled. I'm like, damn,
it's my chance. But then they actually brought me back
to be on the cast this season, and I feel
like I did good. I feel I'm comfortable with everybody.
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I feel like the boys were super cool, Like if
I needed help, if I had any jokes, anything, everyone
give me support and black No, that ain't good. That okay? Ship?
But what about this one? Even you? Like when I
heard what was my Baby Mama, he was like, that's
not the one. I'm like, okay, well let me go.
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That's that's it. That's that's the one. And I damn
sure got a bell. Yeah, that's a good experience. That's awesome.
So let us know about like Amber Diamond, like, where
are you from? How did you start in this entertainment industry?
Because I knew you was on a different another show too.
Yeah we did. I did a couple of shows. Um
so I'm from Birmingham, Alabama. I came to l A
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Country Country. Came to l A when I was seventeen. Um,
me and my mom my little sister, we lived in
the motel, were really broke. We had no money. Um.
We used to literally still stuff from the girlcery stores.
We stole a turkey one year like girl. And at
that point we moved out of the motel. We was
living in a little small apartment in Guardina, and so
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we had no furniture, but we all just like was
in it together. Um. And then my mom end up
getting her like a sugar daddy or whatever, and we
got out the hood and we end up moving to
another house. My mom always made sure we were straight. Um.
But throughout those years or whatever, I met Nick Cannon.
But before I met Nick Cannon, um, I did um
a reality show called Raising Fame on TLC with my mom.
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My mom was my manager, and that one was a
good show. And then after that I did another show
called um Beau Didn't Geek Australia where I had to
live in Australia and I played games. Yeah I didn't. Yeah,
it wasn't you excuse me, I'm sorry. Wasn't you on
Love and Hip Hoping? It was Loveing hip Hop? But
it was raising I mean fixed my mom on Oxygen?
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I think it was, But I thought you was? Was
the other show that? Yeah it was something else? Maybe? Okay.
So after I did all the other shows, and I
started to do like a whole bunch of extras and
stuff and movies and stuff. And then I did a
featured extra and Real Husband's of Hollywood, and that's how
I met Nick, and Nick gave me the job to
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become a while and our girl. That day he was like,
we need chocolate girls on the show, like come through
and I was like, oh cool. So then I end
up looking that. After that, I me and my mom
got another show called Fixed my Mom on Oxygen. Uh.
It was a crazy show. We were in the house
with other mothers and daughters or whatever and we was arguing,
like with the therapists and stuff. But yeah, so that's
my little story. So I'm gonna ask you about your
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man and a little bit. But do you have a
scenario being a pull the top of you want to
read that you can read? Okay, so it's scenario. He's white,
he loves you, his family stormed the capital. What you're
gonna do? I mean ship thing? Okay, he's white. That's
one thing. So the first thing, I love me a
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strong black man. I don't know not to say. I
haven't dated a white updated white guys before, but I
do prefer a strong black man. I want to have
me a black ass chocolate baby. Yeah, I want you know, so, um,
But that's one thing that that scenario is kind of false,
but but no, um, if he loves me and I
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love him, and that's the type of relationship is his
family because at the end of the day, and I
feel like, if you get a relationship, you choose to
be us against the world. Yeah, so I'm always support
my man no matter what. You know, I got a
boyfriend outside. I've been together like how long, girl, Like
a week? Like when you were talking for a while,
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and we've been talking for a while and hopefully it
stays good. Yeah, because I haven't had a real boyfriend
since high school. Girl, So did he ask you like, hey,
will you be my girlfriend? Did he say, hey, you mind?
And he was like, man, we're just together, y'all. Just
even had that conversation like we've just been kicking it
for so long. We go together. Um, So we did
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kind of have a conversation. It was more so like
his birthday is coming up, so he's going to Jamaica whatever,
and I was like, well, I want to celebrate your
birthday with you too, and he was like, well, if
you're my girlfriend, they were going to do stuff before
and after and I'm like, okay, well I am your girlfriend.
Like I thought we were making this official now, and
then after that we was like all right, cool, So
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then to make sure that I wasn't tripping because you know,
you know, yes, you are my girl right be locked
in your eyes much. I literally I think it was
a text or something and I'm like, so, no, no,
it was on the phone. I was like, so I
am your girlfriend, to be sure, and he's like yes,
and I'm like all right, cool social, but I'm like
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everybody keeps saying that he making up because you're a
castin er now and you're all of Communians and all
this time, I'm like, shit, maybe hat white happened, and
let them people know who said that. Maybe I've been
amber down before. WHI very clean TV. Everybody be like
dying and I'm like, it's my middle name. Gave me
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that name and she and she didn't lie either, because
you are did shine beautiful? And what did I tell
you in the dressing room? I said, baby, you want
to do so much and I could feel that and
just continue to let your light shine because you like you.
I watched you like they got the corner my. I'm like,
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I ever want to get up on that stage so bad?
And when when I told you, when I didn't want
to do the because I was sick now and I
had and I was like, oh, um, you know I
didn't do the episode and you said thank you. You
know that meant a lot because I was in your
shoes before and I got told um the show the
other day, Like I feel like I am so the rookie,
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you know on some things, because I don't know some games.
I hate some of the games, like the Only Game.
So I see y'all get up there, and y'all show
all your personality and y'all not afraid because like everybody
looked at me and they're like, oh, she just a
pretty face. You be trying to work my way out
of being pretty, and that's my thing. Y'all get up there,
y'all still fucking gorgeous, and you'll be killing ship like
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you don't have so much respect from all the other
Calast members that you can tell. And so like when
I watch y'all, I'll be trying to like, Okay, I
want to come up with my own thing. Like you
got your baby girl, and you got your weddy do
and all your go back and be I'm like, what
is my You'll find that you don't even look for it.
It'll come to you that she came to us by
acting dumb. But let me tell you, you know what
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I mean. But let me tell you what I think
that's yours though. When you go up and be very
like perky, like yeah, like you do that, like every
time you go up, like that's maybe her niche maybe
that's her thing that she could do next season. But
like I told, you're like shine, keep going like you're
so so so dope. Like I said, I feel like
I'm sort of a rookie deep down because I'm sort
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of student. I'm still learning. I don't get some of
the games. The only game I do not like is
that pickup And I don't know why. I just I
don't know why, just something I feel like i'd meet me,
you can't pick it up. Maybe that's what it is. Okay,
we're happy to get you apart because like you sit
right on it so ill. I'm so proud of you,
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so proud of you. So you too. You guys were
you know, wilding out goddesses now, but you know you
were wild out so they just didn't know what that
was our name? Right? So how this relation relationship start
with you guys? Didn't start from the Chamber being Amber.
Amber is you know what you're saying, like it's just
your energy or everything. I had a hope to talk
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about you. Um, I love Amber. I was like literally
when I came on, I was like, oh, Ship, there's
a lot of bites on here and they're not nice
and I'm scared and I'm listening over here, and it
was like a different vibe. And when Amber comes in,
everyone likes up and it is on. We're having a
great time, and she like has this way of like
mending all of like the way the girls were separated,
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and it's like you can't not laugh at this bitch. Ye,
So like we just had the best time, would always
be smoking. And I think she's definitely, um the person
that helped me come out of mine, as I said,
And it really got me much closer with the cast,
which I love because I've been around for a while
as well. So she's still my book. Yeah, I know
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you wanted this, so I'm proud. So what would you
want next? Like your ultimate goal? Is it acting? Is
it TV? Is it stand up? You know? Like, first
of all, congratulations on be some own beauty because I
use your lip loss and that's good. I like it,
thank you. It's not sticky, it's creamy. It's beauty dot com. Yeah.
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So I want to start a business, you know. So
I've been working on a loungeoy line. It's called D
and dwere we just do not disturb Lounge where skincare line.
That's why everyone keeps saying thank you. I appreciate that
skincare is beautiful. I get scared and if I do
come up with a skin Carolina up, everybody scanning bringing
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me out just one little thing and it's from trade
to Joe. But I definitely want to start. I've been
working on my lounge where, which is like awesome women,
men and dogs and babies, because I have a dog,
have a dog, and I want my ship to match
my dog. Boxes for what kind of dog? I have
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a f English bull dog. It's a friend. She makes
with English. So that's so cute. She's fat and short
and small, but she's just you gotta show me. I
missed my baby, now need me to Someone told me
to get a dog in and I looked at them
like it was crazy. I'm gonna get you eating your birthday.
She's so please, a little one she's like girl. But
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if it is when I yeah, because Yorkie I already had.
My mom already has a Yorkie when I say so,
but you gotta show I want like Dave Bella has
this dog and it is so freaking cute. That's today,
Bella Bella exce my boyfriend's birthday. I spent too much day.
Bell I think you pocketed something a tl But yeah,
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if you get me one a poodle, you get a
little talk about it, talk about it. But the Golden
Dudos are so cute, but they get like, no, but
they got the mini ones that you need so cute. Yeah,
I just need a little mini. But y'all travel so much,
don't y'all? So it's like every since I got my dog,
he's been on every fight with me except for a
while and out with a trainer. I did that too,
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until American Carolines decide to stop letting your emotional support
animals come to you. Gotta have making my service dog
really on sometime though I don't even they don't even
know I have them. Yeah, but your dog is little?
Oh yours isn't She's she's not little enough? Yeah, so
who watches the dog? Right now. My sisters at my
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house keeping her. She has a dog as well, so
they're both at my house lit play day, sucking up
all my rugs. So when I get back, he can
be on his best behavior. Right, that's good. Did you
just give him to anybody? He all the ship? You
don't tell him for the past three months. Now he
been with your friend for two weeks and he don't
know how to sit? Yeah, right, Like but yeah, so yeah,
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my lounge wear inline and then, um, I want to
do movies. I do want to be acting. I wasn't
acting school for a minute. I actually went to school
for nursing. I stopped when the pandemic hit because I
started my science and my mouth classes and that's one
thing that I don't want to do online because that's hard. Yeah,
I'm like, how the hell I'm gonna do labs at home?
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So I was like, you know, well, Let'm just stop.
I could go back. I only have one more year.
Was it a passion though? It was more so I
wanted to be a legal drug dealer because I was
gonna become a nurse practitioner, and nurse practitioners practitioners are
able to prescribe medicine to people. So I have a
whole bunch of celebrity friends and I've been around them,
and I've been on trips to where we came back
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and I heard them on the phone call like, hey,
I've been sucking some of these bitches. I need some
of that. Yeah. So I'm like, I want to be
that middleman because people don't want to go to the
hospital all the time. Called me up Amber, Hey, I
need some kind of selling for this ship, and I'm like,
I legally I could prescribe that I need a little
anybody attic for this Easton f U t I, I
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got you. Yeah, but that's what I wanted to do.
Legal drug dealer. Um, I like that, So I was
gonna use it for that. But I think that's still
good work for work, being acting and all that. I'm
nothing like having some form of I mean, everybody, don't
You don't have to go to school to be a
radio personality or be whatever you want to be some
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you know some things. You may have to be a lawyer,
you have to be in somebody school of course, the doctor,
but you know, for yourself, you know, it's dope to
have some form of a little education. I think that's
fly too. I went to Africa and um, when I'm
to Africa, I kept meeting people and they kept telling
me school is so important. So of course I'm like
that that's something, especially me being Caribbean to education, education
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and US. But before all this, I want to go
to SCAD. I want to be a fashion day right, Yeah,
I want to fit them. Yeah. I wanted to be
a part of there and that. Yeah, do you have
like clothing line or anything like that? Are you doing something?
My merchandise isn't store city trends so well the whole
line right now, see you doing fashion being a fashion
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like wearing it. I can see her everything like fashion icon.
You're gonna do her whole commercials, dancing and the commercials. Yeah.
I love you, Like, get up there and you'll be
doing your thing. That's that's why I'll be looking up
to y'all, like, y'a, don't you have your personality? And
you get up there and just crazy her thing. You like,
that's her, that's about me. I'd be like, I cannot
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believe that's my friend. Yeah, girl, that's amvvy. I love
it and it's so crazy what I amired about because
you know the thing about is even when we did
let's go back envy just the other day when Nick
brought you upstage and give me your glasses, I'm not
going up there. I'm gonna just stand here and wave
the wand Nick said, come on, be some own literally
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Be is a cute. Let me tell you every event
that any of her friends have be would come in sweats.
We would come in a wife Beta and I'm saying
Blissia and she will come on and stay. We're gonna go.
First it was ugs. I didn't got her rugs. She
threw them stuff on and she would come such a
great support system. But when I looked at her doing
that wilding out episode again, like I said, she didn't
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have to make up. Our own hair was curly, hat
on whatever she had on, wringing it. But just to
see her on the side of my face, like girl,
do it like go, it just makes me emotional because
you just have a friend that I've started, we started,
she do doing her skits before me heavy, but just
watching how our first litle day that yard house, and
how we've both grown and nobody shining away. She wasn't
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even gonna say go back envy. I'm not saying I
made her do it in but I'm like venus, yeah,
she waste something. I write something. They just put the
mic in your hand. You have to say something, and
then looking at her stupid ass. In the original the
original video that went viral, was she like, I love
this idiot. Like I'm just like, girl, I don't have
nothing to say. You know that episode come with the
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baby and that with the whole thing. I was just like, girl,
let them have a vibe. But you know, he was like,
I don't care what you say. I was going to
say someone like yeah, sometimes you needed I was like,
what did you learning workshops? I had nothing. But you know,
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sometimes people see stuff in you that you don't see,
and I know she sees it and you too, like
even me looking at you when you're in an audience,
you look from an artist perspective. People who aren't artists
and comedians they're just like, oh she's funny. Oh she's
not funny, she's pretty. I'm looking at the lighting. I'm
looking at Damn, this costs so much money. I'm looking
at the floor. I'm looking at When we got into
the car, she was like, look at this I said,
look at this, and then you you. They always say
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keeping if you fail, fail, you don't you will finish
your act until you're off camera. I'm like, she is professional,
you know what I mean? You know this little stuff
like that. If you turn around, yeah, you don't keep
your but you do all that, you know all the way.
Then you're a competitive person too. I see like you
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don't want like you want to get it. When he could,
he said all right, we're gonna give it. She said,
I'm mad at neck, but he didn't let me come
back at candy. I was like, how dare you? He
was like no, he she already got y'all, Like she
murdered y'all, so you have. I said no, I don't
care if you edit it out. Let me say yeah.
And when you're under that pressure too, we forget the
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lines in between. We were like, because you got me
the first stage, but show I have so much fun
and just the energy. Especially this season, I definitely felt
like we was like a family because we was in
quarantine every day, we had to be together, Like I
just I felt the energy of this season. It was
just amazing. One of my favorite seasons for real, because
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I thought it was just up and down. I would
be wanting to leave. Let me go to Starbucks or something,
let me bubble. This season, I was like, please come
back in October so I could be come back so
I can just do my ship because this season like
we need somebody to sit out. And did it and
she ain't never been this tired. Look at her like
girl three pregnancy tests three because I was like, why
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am I so tired? And I had to take a
lot of mental stuff. You know, when you mentally um drain,
you just weren't relaxed. And later now because your mind
is so many other places. But you know, everybody is
going through stuff. That's why I come in people like,
we don't matter what she's going through. Her personality is
the same. I say that she she was I don't
remember who he was talking to. You was like, man,
that's why I love her because she's the same every day.
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And he was like, no, she's not. She's three different people.
But she'll be crying and then she's gonna be on stage.
Just this hype as she wasn't. She wasn't if I'm
crying before said I'm on stage, but it's just crying,
you know, but it's the opposite for us because even
when I'm angry, he would turn it off and be like, Okay,
let's get it. When I'm angry, you see on my
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face like I'm like like yeah, like that because I
just really feel like Dad. I was upset when dj
D gave me the buzz, was so mad, I said,
I looked across the thing, I said, let it go, like, um,
you know if he needs the game buzz, you like,
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all right, right, right, right, right right. So we're so
happy to have you, you know, really love you, and
I can't wait to see what those guys to store
for you and whatever your heart desires. Girl hears you
keep going and you get your I know, you get
your whole vibe from your mom. You know the struggling,
you know, you know the struggle is. You know what
is to have, not to have, You know what it
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is to get in the forefront and show phase because
if you what you want it, you're gonna get it,
you know. So you keep going, And before we do
your toastes, I do want to say I always be like,
you're so beautiful. You're so beautiful, but it's not just external.
You don't just walk up to girls that ain't got
that personality, but you are so pretty. That's relevant. It's
inside too, like there's a million bitches not just while
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then I got women that are beautiful. And if your
internal ain't right, you ain't even cute to me. Right,
get your internal right, so you have both before you go.
You know, we want you to do a quote like
just something motivational. Could be something you felt today, something
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you've been going through, something uh, you know, somebody left
you with. Well, one thing that I always say is
protect your energy at all costs. Um. I've had so
many people come into my life, are coming to like
my day or whatever's going on, and just we'll say
one thing and we're ruined my whole day, my whole week,
and I chake it out on everybody and I don't
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even we want to put that energy out. So at
the end of the day, if you got to cut
somebody off, if you gotta you know, change friends or
do whatever you gotta do to protect your energy, didn't
do it. Because at the end of the day, mental
health is what's important. So you can't let anybody funk
up your mental health. And so that's what's gonna help
sunk up your mental health, is you know, to protect
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your engall cone energy. Thank you beautiful ladies for having me.
You're welcome guys after this would be right back. Give
it up for Ambert Timing. Thank you having love y'all.
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Welcome back to the Women of Wilding Out podcast. Amber
did so good. Beautiful beautiful a quote beautiful skin, protect
your energy at all called and that's true. I live
by that. You know, I'm playing by that. I feel it.
My spirit determintion. She wrong, she that's the new game
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we got? Is it headed in our house? She get it? Yeah?
She Amber was awesome. She was so so dope and
the things that she's done, her down all her accolades.
I know that about her, so many shows with her childhood.
So I love you. Ambering mama is a Libra also
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with thirteen, so you know she's a bousse and she's
gonna get it. If we got a big uncle, Wes
is gonna be big him. I saw the uncle everyone found.
I have a couple of money couples. Never was awesome.
She was dope and she got a boyfriend that everybody's
getting bade up, bowed up. Yeah, I'm right there. A
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little bit, just a little bit black here. I don't
mean to have a boyfriend right now, I said basically. No,
you said basically, but don't say that right now because
I'm scared. Now I'm rooting for him. He is so sweet,
Thank you friend. Because she want toxicity. I do not
want toxic, anything toxic in my life. I would bet
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that right now, any possible at the end of they know,
I want everything to be loved, no fear, no toxic
like the niggas. I don't like. Are you kidding right now?
All them niggas. I didn't see your your list. I
know that's all the old me. I loved hood niggers.
I love toxicity. I loved being a joke. I can't
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walk down the hour you you well, I could have
seen you walking on the baby. If you didn't meet
your boyfriend. That is a drink. The baby is not
husband material. What about Drake though, No, absolutely, I'm trying
to get married. We changed. That was the old me
lost in the wilderness. But now I have a real man. Man.
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Say they're not real man, but I'm saying their lifestyle.
They're not ready. They're very vocal about it, very obvious.
You're not ready down and you don't want to be Chico.
Please and please stop telling other men to be like you.
Plea sure, thank you, But yeah, I'm right now, I'm
I'm I'm getting loved on. I'm getting loved on one
because I'm loving myself. And I think I wrote it
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on start. Yeah, I wrote on a lot of things
that we could talk about um us as women, and
I know we could agree to it and in it's
dope if we disagree, but just loving yourself first, I
think it starts there. And I'm loving on me like
I've been through up and down with myself, relationships, friends
all that put put the title on friends, but we
really like each other like I hadn't been through all
as moments And right now I'm loving myself. I have
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someone who loves me and that's the man above. So yeah, anyways,
thank you guys were watching the women were well control
the man. You know you don't need to do all that.
When you sneeze, just sneeze, that's all you have to
do it. Bless you. You guys want to ask any
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more questions real quick before we guess? Hope Nick allows
us to like interview like sweetie or something. We'll be
able to interview everybody if they're here in person. I
want to say, oh, so really like this question. I
like this because I think now I wrote this for you.
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Is there a time and a place for bonnets? Oh
that is great, God, dear God, let me reach out
the bottom or the juice job. I'm in place for
bonnets because we know where it on stage, on TV,
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on the podcast, at the airport, at Walmart, in the car,
and in the bed. I'll have to bring all that
dirt and I'll put it on my pillow at night.
I think it's not question okay because Monique in um,
I don't. It's not that big of a deal to me.
It's just not. Um. I think I wear it so much,
be because it's my hat, because I wear them. I'll
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sell these. I sell my own bonnets, so I shout
out to my girl who does it for me, But
I sell them for I'll be just thinking it's my
hat now. But my mom be like, you need to
check it off before you get in my call. Yeah,
but then be wearing her bonnet everywhere. And I don't
wear it to like the grocery stores. I don't. I
don't work to the mall. I don't. I don't work
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to the gas station. I don't know. When I'm traveling
out of town and your town airport. Sometimes I may
slip it off the airport and they ain't know it's
me with that robe to the flying sneakers on though,
so wait, you go to the airport in the robe
and the bonnet. Sometimes I stopped doing it because they know,
and I'm getting chase. I gotta go to my gate,
and I hate going to them gates. When they'd be
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like D three's, I'd be like, we're on a yeah,
so yeah, to eat its own, and you know, I don't. Obviously,
we don't want to do anything. We're already the minority.
We already got people talking about we already get we
already loud, We already this, we already did so just
throwing a bonnet on top of it. Sometimes in a
in a professional setting, of course, but there's the time
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of place I feel like, if you're chilling in the airport,
that don't bother me, That just don't bother me because
of that type of person. Anyway, I've walked through and
sweat in the same but lendsiaga's every day. I were
the same ship every day, every episode. I don't have
to these gray pants. I had to get some new hugs.
She did. She got me some new hugs, you know,
and I word else every day and now I need
some more new It's like six pears of those why anymore? Okay,
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Well put that bug in your ear when you're ready
that you deserve us and you deserve your talking, get
time and start it out. Be someone on the side. Thanks.
So yeah, that's my opinion. What's your opinion on you
should do whatever? The richest people walking around looking crazy?
One thing, I just said, I'm a very I'm o
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c D. So I stopped wearing my robe. I mean
I have clothes, of course, everything touched the bathroom saying,
so I take it off, so I don't wear the bonnet.
I don't wear the robe in the airport now if
I have some long braids or I don't want my
agges to get messed up like of course, and my
flight is like just thirty minutes, I'm throwing my about
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it on if the first class with it. I'm just
getting to the point where we treat the janitor like
the balls it wouldn't matter what people had on me,
and Nellie was the first class. That's Nellie. Do you mind.
Thank you for watching the Women I Waded Up podcast.
Let us know what you think about bonnets coming below.
Thanks y'all, Jesus, thank you. Have a great life.