April 26, 2022 • 36 mins
It’s the first solo show of the year for The Women of Wild N’ Out. B. Simone, Justina Valentine, and Pretty Vee get together and share memories of their first kisses, losing their virginity, and even first heartbreaks. Then, they get “down and dirty” on more juicy topics like shaving versus waxing, anal sex, and more.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Welcome to the women able in our podcast. You guys,
the girl boy, it's your girl, y'all, Girl, Pretty bills up, Yo,
We're back your girl Justina be with Pretty D and
d somebody what's the boy? Gebody get your show, ladies
and Na Tonight we're gonna have the women a while.
(00:24):
And I'm cats all the cars. What's up? You guys,
it's your girl be some moth, Pretty TV and my
baby just in the Valentine. We are here. I'm so
excited for this episode. All three girls are busy at
what's up? Ladies? What do you guys? It's sugarl Pretty TV,
(00:48):
you guys. And I ain't on the table today, y'all,
so you know I'm late. I'm just here girl. What's
that Justina? What's that? Baby? It's your girl j V.
And I'm so glad to be back here with my
girls because it is the women a While in our podcast.
We do run this. We don't have no boys in
the building, you know what I mean from more perspective,
and you know they say ladies run the world, and
(01:10):
speaking or running um, you know, I mean. I've just
gotten a little cardio, so I'm feeling good. My ticker
is ticking. Yeah, I'm feeling good man. I'm proud of you. Yes, okay,
Sports Illustrated. They needed Sports Illustrated edition the women a
while and now just like flesh get a good do.
(01:31):
Oh my gosh, we should make that house shoot our
own magazine cover magazines. Yes, they gotta get me my
ass from the right angle. No, I can't see it
from there. I watched my chee and I ripped off
my skin because I have a little god. Oh do
(01:55):
you guys want my chin and my lip? Hell? Yeah,
you can have a leave. Women still shave. That's mind block. Okay,
like we get like that's self. I still shave if
I can't get to the wax people, So I do
like a little sad of you. Yeah yeah, because I'm
a type of girl. I would walk on a photo
(02:15):
shoot and I would be very hairy and how do
you do that? Sickening? Sickening? My issue with the wax
stop it like the thing with the wax though, because
I tried it a couple of times. First of all,
I think the woman that I just got was brutal,
Like it hurts so bad. I don't think it was
supposed to hurt it wasn't supposed to hurt as bad
as it did. I think she was just like, no,
(02:37):
you gotta go to like a European wax in er,
a place where they use hard way do they use
strips like the strip they put the strip on. I
have no idea what she put hard, but it hurts
so so after that I was like, I just shave.
I don't mind shaving because then when you get it wack,
No you do, you're gonna mind. No, You're gonna mind
shaving after you get a good way. But then what
do you do? So what do you do? You get
(02:58):
wax on a Monday, right, you gotta shoot on a Thursday.
You got a little stubble, you have to shave. You're
not gonna have stubble. You're not gonna have stuffle. It's
waxing out of the root the last for a month.
I do like the sugar wax like then. I also
do like the wax like they put you and they
just like taking it off. And I sometimes used the
strips me. On the other hand, I don't like all
(03:21):
that painty painty because when they get to them lips,
I'm thinking they turn that shirt off literally save a
little hair striped like a little I don't even a
little strip on my lip. I wish I could show
you my poop from right now. I promise it looks
like let's this would have a lot of views right
it's but right now it's bad. Um, I don't know it.
(03:45):
I prefer the shade because I feel like you could
just keep it clean, do it quickly. But I don't know.
Maybe I just had a really bad experience waxing. You know,
my nigga, I'm not taking like I used to do this.
I took the shaver and I will look between my
legs and then I would have to open my and
I would keep doing all that. That's too much work.
So I was like, yo, lady, I'm gonna toot my
(04:05):
legs up. You'll worried about all this pain for wax
and sugaring, and I know both of y'all done ain't
no before You'll ain't worried about the pain with that. Well,
you're gonna really say, how the hell you know? I
didn't like because so confused because I know you, and
I know that ass, and I know that he and
I know a lot of things have been up it
now from big, like and I even imagine being a
(04:30):
having sex with some I can't. I can't either, I
can imagine. I hate that. I hate trying to imagine
being like just making all types of face start start
looking at me. But look, it's a it's a whole
little it's a whole different beasting when you're trying to
get between No, that's what I am too, as goofy
(04:54):
as we are we're in the bedroom, it's like give
you give yourself. This is audition at this point, but
it's like, why do not all that ship pick up?
Giving my all? Baby? It's like pick up kid, I like,
y'all gonna see seriously, like it's that so I mean
(05:16):
first time. That's I think that's literally what we're gonna
get into right now. It's the first time. Okay, first time.
You ain't all though seventh grade, Justina. Yeah, we got
some homes on this show. I'm the least hoe. Yeah.
I think Na and Justine our neck and neck with
the whole story. We've been getting a lot of these.
(05:39):
When be someone used to tell me about her stories
about like kissing and like her first time for this,
I'm like, are you don't do that? In nineteen, but
you have to do that. In the seventh grade. Seventh grade,
I was fast, sevenst and spread. I was fast. Yeah,
I was doing some things that them kids right, the
kids right now in this generation probably whatever, But back
then that was that that was not loud. I shouldn't
(06:01):
have been doing. I was very curious, curious, George. I
wanted to know he was alazer. Baby, you know what? Okay,
first time you gave here? Oh, I don't know. I
think that's like maybe n T great. I don't remember
the first day if I stuck, that's crazy. First thick you, honey.
(06:22):
I just hope my mama ain't listening to this podcast, y'all.
We'll be right back, y'all with more. Could be funny
to get in to our first time and I know
y'all want here my time. Welcome back to the women
and while now podcast we get back to the nitty
the gritty the first time this show' gonna be about
mavn first your house on the house and this is
(06:51):
a solo. Used to do that to me all the
time when I was wrapping us, to be like like
let me do it, like I'm killing Oh my god. Yeah,
we got back honey, and I want to y'all know
everybody don't know all our tease, but that's seventh grade.
I'm gonna tell you about my first dad. Well, okay,
we don't even know about the first time he has
(07:11):
six I let's talking about okay, our first kids. Ye's
easy into it. Yeah, okay, let's ease into it. Oh.
I remember the first time I got my titty sucked.
It was at a church convention. Was it was it?
It was it like like a pure or something be
like in the church or hell no, we was at
a convention and it was an usher's convention. So it
(07:34):
was a convention. I don't know what city was in,
but was so man j he went that titty out.
I was like, fitteen, I ain't had sex yet. We
didn't do anything. He just sucked my nipple. What do
you do? It? Just took it out, held in like,
and then put the shirt back my suck. I was like,
(07:56):
oh my god, I don't know when it was my
first time. I think I just did a whole chevyh once.
It was a care package. My first kiss. Your first
kiss was not when you first washed. Oh my first kiss,
I don't remember that you don't remember your first kids,
do you, Yeah, my first kids. I remember. Um, we
were outside. I was like either eleven or twelve, and
(08:17):
it was it was cold because you know, Jersey's like
always fucking cold. We only have like two two months
of nice weather, so it was cold. We had the
jackets on and we were just like, all right, let's kiss.
So we like did it. We stuck our tongues out
and we was just like, you know, just moving our
tongues around. We really didn't know how to do it,
but um, you know it was kind of like a
little gross, but like you still hype because you're like,
(08:38):
I have my first kiss and like I ran, I
told like my big cousins and stuff and it was cute.
So yeah, I remember it was outside. It was cold,
and it was like nasty, you know what I mean,
because it just felt like two worms, like wrestling, you know,
like I really know how to do it. Like as
you get older, it's like I don't know about about
you guys, but like the way I like the kiss
(08:58):
is more now like it was in show up. Yeah,
it's like open mouth kissing. It's not like you like
you Yeah, we just wanted to say we made out
with the tongue, you know, and that was but it
was cute. You know what about your first remember how
was it? Oh? Lord? I remember I was playing how
(09:18):
didn't go get it? But I see I was the
good kid. I never did nothing. I was like so
scared to get in trouble, scared of kids like guys
watching parents gonna find out. I did not want to
shake the room. So he found me, bitch, and I
was like, don't like, don't touch me, like you know
your and he just kissed me in this closet and
(09:38):
I was so scared. Well, nowadays he bring you in
trouble for that. He kind of took that kiss. Yeah,
I think I don't know my first kiss. I don't know.
I don't know where I was at. I just know
I when I was like me like, I'm a very
affectionate person. I was touching everything everyone. So it was
just like any guy I've seen, Oh, like you're my boyfriend,
(09:59):
Like you're cute, right, So it's like it was one
of those moments like run around in Miami like just
everybody knible girl, Oh you cute? Les? Yeah, how to
go giddy? Like you come over with my grandma house,
like we're gonna do something, you know. It was the
more those moments, and we were just young. We just
want to know what was going on. So I don't
remember that. I remember when I did it. Let's get today.
Were you guys, were you guys like boys crazy, like
(10:21):
just like so into boys and like not, no, not
at all. You probably weren't. I was like very crazy
because no, no, I was. I was boy crazy because
like my thing is, I was so curious as a kid,
like I would like, if I'm seeing a marian I'm like,
I know somebody in the hood of Miami got a
Mario looking like like I'm gonna find videos and be like, oh,
(10:44):
I can find somebody that look just like that. So
when I when I did kind of find something like similar,
then I used to love like being around older guys,
so I said, cute, but you my daddy age at
this point, you know, so it was it was like
calm down, you know, but literally I was very much
like curious George. And see everybody thinks my dad, my
dad didn't like that. He'd like you in too many
(11:05):
people faces, right, So what about your guys, like first date, Like,
do you remember like the first date, and you know
it's crazy. I remember my first hell date. But I
will say, did anybody teach you on how to date? Like, nobody,
not a woman in my family, not a father, and
my family set me down and told me how to date,
how to go on a date, how to be a lady,
(11:26):
cross your legs, let him put out your chair, let
him open your door. Now that is whack to me,
that's whack. That's when I have kids, They're gonna know
how to be a lady on the first date, and
the gentleman is going to know how to treat a
woman on the first date. I'm lying. My grandmother taught
me and my mom she was more so telling me,
like how to eat when you go out with people
if it's a date, like how to eat. A man
(11:47):
should open the door. I said this on my mom's
Live last night. She's always telling me, before you leave
the house, have a hundred dollars with you are twenty dollars.
Say if a man don't want to pay any act
like they don't got a money on you, you, as
a woman should come and say I got it. See
that's good, and that's good. Yeah. She used to teach
me that. So I came from my mom, did teach
me and my grandmother? Did you choose how you want
(12:08):
to you choose how you want to move after you
get taught, like you know about your parents, but my
mom and my grandma, dad, my grandma especially, Yeah, she said,
that's good. Yeah, I'm with you. The first hill date, y'all.
Let me tell you my first hun date. His name
was Trey. He drove old school Cadillac. It was on rims,
you know, from Dallas, Texas, so like Houston, Dallas, just
(12:29):
like swinging on phofols, tipping on pho phones back in
the day. It was all that Paul Wall, Chamellionaire rams, candy, paint,
wood grain. I didn't even get in the damn car.
The fucking wheels were so high on this motherfucker. I
remember that. I don't remember this ship. This man had
a patch on his eye because let me tell you, hey,
(12:49):
you got my number. Were driving on the highway in Dallas, Texas.
He was over there. I was over here, left to
the right, and I yelled at my number to him
to one though, so I didn't really see him see him,
you know. So he text me, I'm gonna come pick
you up. Were gonna got to eat. It was the
worst day. First we stopped at the trap house before
(13:10):
we even went to go eat and take care of
business gas to get the money for They felt so uncomfortable.
I was like, if we get pulled over. We did
get pulled over, by the way it got pulled over.
He putting all this stuff in the He moved the
what's the events where the air come out. He moved
the event and started putting stuff in there. I was like, Oh,
I'm with a fucking felon, Like, I was so scared.
(13:32):
I was looking at him like I am not the
down ass bitch, and you're obviously not the nigga that's
gonna be with a boogie bitch, So you need to
take me home. We didn't even eat. No, we made
so many stops and got pulled over. I was like,
we should just like take me back to the crib.
We we both knew I ain't for you when you
ain't for me, and it we never talked again. It
(13:53):
was horrible. When he got the number, you probably only
saw the side you only was used on the non
ipatch side. Oh, on the other side, he had a
patch which don't matter. If you're a good person, don't
put me on a high speed chase on the first date.
If you gotta patch, you gotta have a good heart,
because you can't have a patch in and be he
haven't to be I think for me, Um, I didn't.
(14:16):
I never experienced a real date until now, Like I've
never been in like in a real relationship relationships. On me,
dates you be on like a date. I've never been
on a date. You. I've never been on a date.
I haven't been, like my real dates are now and
it's been the person. It's only been with people that like, like, Okay,
I've been on one date with a Russian guy and
(14:37):
he took me to my first rehanda concert. But I'm
like whatever, But like I didn't feel it, Like it
was like we're just going out and we worked out
at a gym, so like we're gonna go to the
gym and we're gonna get ready at that. But that
was still a date because he liked you, you just
didn't like I don't think he liked me. Um, So
you know, but I think my dates start now, like
I'm going on dates now, period. So yeah, yeah, I
(14:59):
never had one I remember. I remember I probably didn't
like high school, but I don't know I was doing
too much, like trying to have sex instead of going
on days. I'm gonna cutter right, like you just trying
to skip it, like just turn on a movie and
do it to me. You're trying to get to the
bus I'm trying of the thing I'm nervous about. Oh sorry,
I'm just about to say one thing I'm nervous about
(15:21):
with my b a Bay because we're about going on
first day is He made it very clear that what
if it's pet Peeves is smacking and yeah, like I don't.
I don't smack though, Like I don't eat like a
fucking mama. But I am definitely like when the food
I'm watching the food come like I'm the person that's
like sauce dip. Yeah, I need all the sauce stuff
(15:43):
food of foodie. So I'm just like, I ain't nobody
trying to eat cute, right, So I'm never you gotta
try a little bit to eat with your mouth clothes,
But I really can't. I am a smacker, and you
know with these little ass novels I got, I can't
read you good like you want me to dire? Do
you want me to eat it? And eve? But um, yeah, yeah,
(16:04):
I always dated like troublemakers and like I always dated
you know guys and you felt safe, like you were
comfortable with that, you weren't scared. Yeah no, I mean
I you know, I was on kind of the same
wavelength as them. But I never dated guys that were
like really like nice and stuff like that. I wasn't
really into that. And when I would kind of talk
to a nice guy, like, I didn't like them as
(16:26):
much as the asshole guy. So I was never really
a data type. I was always working like mad hours
a week, you know, wait just saying bartending, working in
the strip clubs bartending. So it's like most of the
guys I dated, it was like we would hang out
like at the crib, but we weren't really going on dates.
And then one guy I was with for a minute,
he owned a bar, so I was, you know, running
(16:48):
the bar. So it was like no dating. It was
just like but kind of like the said you had
just kicking it at the crib. It was really no
like dates like that. And that really didn't bother me
because because I was always on my ground and trying
to make ship happen and get to where we all
are now. So it was never on my mind like, oh,
I want to go in a night you were younger, Yeah,
(17:09):
And I was never like I want to go on
a nice day. I was like, I want to progress
and what I'm trying to do. So that's kind of
where I was at with it. And I was always
the type that if the guy couldn't see my vision
or wasn't down for what I was trying to do,
then he just didn't work next exactly, he didn't even
work in my schedule. But I just sent on the
top of the dates. B I just wanna be a
(17:29):
little nosy like you n V a bit like where
is there a reservation? Like? Where is it? Is it rude?
Is it red? Lobster? Like? Where we going? So he's coming,
He's definitely getting a hotel. Um, he's coming, But are
you No, I'm not. I'm on my period. Man, I'm
not having said him. We already talked about sexual intercourse
and we're not having sex yet, got it? Okay? He
(17:51):
actually brought it up. He said he wasn't. He didn't
want to, you know, step that line. He's like, I've
had sex too soon in the past and it ruined
the relationship and I want something real. Girl. He heard
the podcast. He knew he wasn't getting puss. Let me
let me sound like a gentleman girl here do not
listening about but um yeah, so we decided to take
(18:13):
it slow. He is getting a hotel, you know, which
I like, you don't Nigga's be coming to town, like, oh,
I'm staying with you? Hook Like no, like, be a man,
come in, get you a room and I must stay
at the room. I'm gonna say at the room, which
so I'm about gona stay with him, and um yeah,
we'll just see what happens. I told him to plan,
he said, you know, he got a driver for the
weekend and he's planning everything. I like, when a man leaves.
(18:36):
You want to court me, you want to date me,
don't ask me. What is there to do in Atlanta?
Google figured out, like, I know, you know niggas in Atlanta.
You know people in Atlanta. Make some calls, make some reservations,
and just tell me when to be ready. I'm not
about to court you, like, so you know, and he's
been doing that. So he actually just landed a little
bit ago. So he'll be pens at his hotel and
(18:57):
I'm going to meet him there. So how are we
moving with the um with appeared on a double up
war like are you heavy? Me? I'm not having sex
with him, so we don't have to talking about that.
I'm talking about when you're in that bed land and
then you know, you know, baby, I don't just wake
up in a puddle of bud. Girl, I'm heavy. I
(19:18):
gotta I gotta double up and put the baby. Lena,
Oh my god, that's so what you're doing. That's just
too much. Are you guys eating in like at the hotel?
We're gonna go out to eat. He actually had a
chef that he was flying in. He was gonna cook
for me at my house. I had no idea, but
um the chef canceled. He lives out of town. So
(19:41):
he was asking, He's like, do you know what chef
in Atlanta? I was like, I know a few. You know,
if you want to stay in, we're gonna have a
dinner here or we could go out whatever, So we'll
probably go like out to eat. I told him about
this hook lounge that I like, Um Road low key.
I'm not trying to beat in the mix. Like if
I get drunk or something and want to make out
with him, I don't want people being like, there's be
someone in the corner. Maybe I would have random to
good No, yea, so you know, keep it cute about that.
(20:05):
What are you wearing? So this is my first date
since my breakup, y'all, let's go. Okay, So when did
y'all lose oppriginity? You go seventh grade? I think the
v for me was eighth and then I know be
Simone said she and she just lost her ship like
(20:25):
two years ago. Yes, when I was nineteen nine. No,
I was my seventh grade. Just yeah, that's ridiculous. What
y'all doing? Serious? Like all the home girls say they
did it and oh my god, it hurts so bad.
I'm like, oh my god, the real you justus. Yeah,
(20:45):
you just wanted to feel it. Um. I think like
back then we didn't really know what the heck we
were doing. But like you said, it's like you're wanna
do it, You wanna try it out, you with a
boy you like, and you you get it done. I
respect how be Simone did it because probably by the
time she did it at nineteen, probably dated the guy
for a little bit, still didn't know know, so it
(21:06):
was a hook up. I met the nigga, he tricked me.
I had sex with him, fell in love with him.
I was buying him shoes and he had a whole
another girlfriend. Did you really like the guy who took
your Virginia v or was it just like one and done.
Let me tell you something. I wrote about him in
my diet. That's how. That's how he was on right.
(21:28):
He literally was just so handsome to me. He was
chocolate football player, just so freaking cute, and just he
ran track because like like I said, Miami boys, they
are definitely too advanced, and it's just like they and
you know how the league you got the big league,
you just you're paying football for the parts, you know.
So it was a moment until you get like you
(21:51):
got to college and then you get you know, drafted,
and like it was one of those moments. And I
loved him so much and I still um. We still
talked like me to get here, and they're just like
checking in. He got yes, he got a baby, was playing,
he was playing football, like you know, so he's doing
his thing. But I was so obsessed with him and
I moved in South Carolina. He only got like the
(22:14):
six seventh and eighth grade. For me, Yeah, I was
on pretty much the same path as you beat my guy. Um,
Like I said, were doing all that seventh and eight
between you know this and then the v car So
it wasn't it was in those years. And it's funny
when you're that young and you really like someone, you're
just like you just think you're so in love, and
I guess at the time you know you are. But um, yeah,
(22:35):
I think that's that's the pearist form of love, that
you're not dating people for money and staff. I like
you exactly like I like you just like you. So
I got a question for you guys about first When
was your first heartbreak? Oh my god, I just talked
about I did this story time on my close friends
literally two days ago. I did my whole time. That
(22:59):
was my whole any time, my first time. I got
cheated on my first heartbreak. It was so sad. Let
me tell y'all. I ain't gonna take out the details
because it ain't fair to my close friends that have
that have subscribed. But it boils down to be doing
this girl's hair, and she was like, yeah, like, are
you still talking to someone? So I'm like, yeah, that's
my boyfriend. Like what do you mean am I talking
(23:20):
to him? We're not talking. We've been together for a
year and a half. She's like, wow, that's so crazy,
Like when you were knocking at his door and he
didn't open the door and you finally came in, Like,
I had to hide in the bathroom until you left.
Because she's like, she got booked in the point with me,
got her hair done, and this at the end of
her hair and point she was. She was smart. She
told you at the end because you might have snipped
(23:40):
a little bit too much. I was like, oh my gosh.
She was like, yeah, that was pretty, that was pretty
cheating was cheating on you with me? I would have
slapped the ship out of here. I don't it looks
at the podcast right now, Cynthia Cassandra. I would have Cynthia,
I would have knocked you out, sweets. I would have
looked you said, what, yeah, it was crazy break. Yeah,
(24:05):
that's that's crazy that the girl came what was yours?
My heartbreak? M gonna be very honest. Um. I would
have to say seven eighth grade, like when I'm o,
my god, no, it was her first kiss, she lost
her had her first yeah right, yeah, it was literally
(24:26):
that moment. It was like yeah, because I just think
he was flailed with me. He was cheating on me,
and he was dating somebody in high school. What was crazy?
And then he was eight eighth grade. You're still trying
to you talking talking to these these girls and my things.
I filled the fourth grade. I've bol have been in
eighth grade when it when everybody was where it was
seventh grade, which I was in eighth grade, but I
had filled the fourth grade. So it was given very
(24:48):
much like okay, like I'm holding it was giving very money.
I'm your same age right at this point. So if
you want somebody on the beach, it's me because I
mean fourth grade, y'all. Yeah, V and everything. Within forty
eight hours, like you said, be the kids to break
up the sack. The butt says, oh forty eight hours.
(25:09):
Got knocked it on quick. I know your diary was
on fire that week, so it was kind of break
cold turkey, bitch now like oh yeah, I cold turkey.
It ain't no oh uniqu closure my closure is the
truth next? Like, that's enough, that's what the funk I'm
talking about. That is sucking be simone. Sucking edges is
slicking slate. And we out of here. This in the condo.
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She's a psychopath. Yeah, all right, let's get to this. Okay,
we've been doing too much juicy, Like, come on, let's
get into it asking this question. I'm ready, I'm ready
for this. I'm ready for the shebang. The shebank was
you ain't listen. You don't get crazier than that. You
don't get no more shebank either that. But but we
didn't let me ask you all this. Wow, what do
(25:54):
you guys think? Like like about the heartbreak? Like, I
remember my heartbreak. It was my first heartbreak. Was with
the same value he took my Virginia. We alreadygether for
a few years whatever, then when we broke up. That
was my first heartbreak. Like do you feel like your
heartbreak got worse as you grew up and matured and
you would have heartbreak or do you feel like that
first one just hit different? No, I feel like it
(26:15):
got worse because the older you get, the more serious
you are, Like, the more serious you are, not worse
I guess, yeah, I guess worse, worse because you think
you're gonna be with this person forever. Like the older
you get like I hadn't been through this, i'd've been
through that. I'd have been through this. Okay, this is
the one, right, Okay, this is the one. It's like
God damn. But it also allows you to know what
I've been through so much heartbreak this I'm gonna make
(26:38):
it through this one too, Like I've had my heart
broken before, so it's it heals every time. Right, Well,
go ahead, Yeah, I think I hear. I feel like
you want to give us the details of the anal,
So let's get down and dirty. I mean with the
I'm gonna just definitely talk about the heartbreak moment because
I feel like to like the heartbreak would be a
moment like okay, like you over it and then you're
(26:58):
done with it, but it still gives a woman like
you know what the next person that come around me, like,
I'm not gonna be like sad, but if it'd be
so that connection that I'm sad again, you know, like
now I didn't give you too much. Now I'm heartbroken
in the game, and I know this is popular love,
and I know this is this. Now I'm sad because
I didn't told myself I ain't gonna do this. But
then you're such a good person. Now you're getting on
my nerves. So it's just it is what it is.
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But boom, ain't no, let's get to it, you know.
And we already talked about ain't no wena. We didn't
need it. We didn't talk about so okay, what do
you want to say about? Right? And are you and
are you still into it? Or have you had your film?
No pun intendant like, have you had your Filipino or
are you still I may be very youngest and I'm
(27:45):
gonna keep with that stack. Seventh grade tried it right,
and I didn't know what was going on because I
think seventh grade like everybody got their little hormone's happening,
like you know, eighth grade they're like, O hey, I
stopped this down there, I feel like something good. She
So it was more like trying to figure it out
with the guys. So we just really tried it. We
tried it in the stepth grade and you know, I
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don't know. It was so weird because we went to
the mama bed then we went to his bump bed.
It was like the bump, the bump bet and the
mom I love yeah, like my band turns, I love
one bad. Yeah. Yeah, bummers are cute. But I think
but I think, Um, he had a bumpet, so it
was like him, he had a bump it. And then
we did it by the the you know, the lower
bent bed. We did it there. Then it was like, okay,
(28:27):
let's get like, let's see how grown he is. So
we went to the MoMA bed, so like, oh, we've grown.
How could we in a big king bed? And then
we did that and it was like it was like
just keep going, to keep going. And that's when the
first time I hadn't know and then I was like, okay,
let's do it again. Eighth grade happened. Then of course
I did it like down the line, like so just
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try and get just different things. I liked experiensively, I
don't like the same thing. So if we could do
it on the island, if we could do it on
the cows, if you could do it in the back seat,
we could do it on my part the record, I've
never done antal just be done? What about what about
just a finger be just a little. Have I had
a finger in my as I think I had a
(29:12):
finger in a tongue back there, but not a dick, bitch,
God damn. Imagine imagine I'm not about to pay this.
Imagine that your your I was gonna take your b spot.
I tell y'all everything. If I had an'tal, y'all would yo.
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But imagine that your g spot is anal and you
just haven't had an orgasm because you never know. I
would never have an orgasm, so you would never have
an orgasm. It's on her chair, sticking a bottle of
her ass. Yeah, that's why I'm about to put this
on my close friends which to do it. She does
have to be bottle about anal. This bitch want to do?
(29:55):
Ain't no so bad? She's being a stop get off. Yeah,
I'm so sorry. You can't see this, fool. This is
what happened. Stick it up. You gotta you gotta wet
that spot thought that spot. Gotta get a wet your
You gotta with the spot a little bit because you
just can't. How did you know that? In seventh grade? Baby,
That's what I'm saying. I wasn't introduced to it. He's
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all you gotta do is just wet the little spot up,
you know a lot, make sure it's wet. Did you cry?
Didn't hurt? No? Like I was walking on like this
the thing it was like ya what I was like
like a penguin literally so you So, I mean, okay,
so Venus and Ado Justinus and ain't. No, I have
not done an I'll never try to be maybe with
my husband. Yeah, I mean to be honest with you,
I don't. It's just not like my thing, like like
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I don't I don't enjoy it. I don't. I don't
really enjoy it, and I don't do it like as
often as I'm not like I want to do it.
I want to do in the island. I'm gonna do
it in the basement. Like Vena wants to keep putting
in the butt. That's not my like m I look
slipping there every now and again. But I much rather
just you know, get it in the pus puss. Let
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me be very honest, like it's not every time I'm
having put it in my as my pussy go right
starting the asp like right, so like it's just like
all right, if I want to be like my thing, is.
I want to know, stuff it in my button. You
put it, you put it in, and niggas be like,
(31:27):
niggas be like, I've never done this before. I'm like, okay,
seven niggas did not say that. Um, they're lying, I've
never done this before. And then when niggas, when my
thing is understand, you just gotta try everything. Put it
in your butt, put it in your pump, poom, slap
it around your titties, whatever I don't have. First of all,
don't ever put it in your butt. Then your vagina,
(31:48):
that's a factor. That's b B, that's that's instant east. Yes,
back to your vaginosis. Yeah, pussy to ask, it's just
like wiping. It's like wiping. Gotta go from the pussy.
Oh my god. Yeah, I don't do that one. I
don't do that one. But let me tell you something
he took when he took his penis out of your
as with shipped on them. I mean it's happened. Listen.
(32:10):
If you don't, if you don't prepare so that they're
down there, Yeah, you gotta do an animal. You gotta
do an animal to clean out the system because it's
like it's like stick in your hand um in in
like a fish shank. If the fish shank is dirty,
gonna come out with some crund on your arm. So
it's like if you if you sist the main clean
(32:31):
and the pipe goes up, you know, the pipe goes
up there, it's gonna come out being a little Definitely.
I can't imagine. I can't imagine. I can't imagine. I
can't imagine. I can't imagine. What about being on your
period does your man but not like full blood like
first day I've done it, like where you're spotting a
little bit there or a little you know, brown here
(32:54):
and there, but not like a whole a little day one. Yeah,
some guys don't like to do it. Some guys don't
like to run the red lights. My nigga. Niggas don't
care as long as they feel what they gotta feel.
If the lights is off, that's probably the best sex.
I mean, it's more, you know, it's more moisture. I mean,
could be a little nasty. But as you have a comment,
let me tell you something. Let me say, adn't did
(33:16):
it when it first started that guy had to take it.
I'd be profund. I was cramping, I was like, yoah,
let's get it buddy married. Then days two days after
it calmed down, we went at it again. Whatever long
as you're doing in the show, you could. I remember
I had sex with my ex and we was in
the hotel room and I was them sheaths was done.
The first four day was them sheets was done. I
(33:38):
was like, yo, what they gonna is? My credit caught
on file and we're good to go. Okay, y'all, But
before we get through all this, this is just nasty.
We're gonna go to break. We'll have more with the
Women a While now podcast. We come back after these messages.
All right, you guys, we are back with the Women
(34:00):
a While in our podcast. It should get a beast
the mom My Baby Pretty TV. Just seeing a Valentine
this podcast was it went from zero to a hunted
real quick, like real quick. Do y'all have any advice
to give to these young girls, these young people, anybody
that's not experienced, Like, what is a good tip for
somebody that's not experienced. I have a good tip. Don't
do butt sex because it could be a shitty situation
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and that's intending. Take take your time, don't be like
me and vis a little fast as like, take your time, um,
be careful, educate yourself. Definitely for the young girls listening
and young guys listening, where protection because one dirty dick
or one dirty poom boom could change your life. So
we're protection and just be safe and don't follow me
(34:46):
and these lead I please, don't let me tell you something.
Wrap it up. That's the biggest thing I can tell
y'all to wrap it up and have safe sex. This
is we got to be disciplined in those areas as
you guys, And like I said, wrap it up. And
like Justina said, don't be like me hot now okay,
because I know some friends I was doing what I
(35:07):
was doing, ain't pregnant? All right, all right back here now.
I love y'all so much. No, seriously, we're not trying
to promote anything. Just definitely wait, be like be someone
and and lose you and if that's what it is,
and that's what yeh, don't be don't be in such
a rush to grow up. Take your time and just
be safe about it. And you know what I mean.
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Just just because when your friends are jumping off the building,
don't mean you need to do it too, all right,
so we know this episode was a little nasty. We
got down and dirty, but um we got to the realm.
This was just it was all about our first We
love y'all and yeah, yo signing now I remember to
(35:48):
wrap it up, don't
Welcome to the women able in our podcast. You guys,
the girl boy, it's your girl, y'all, Girl, Pretty bills up, Yo,
We're back your girl Justina be with Pretty D and
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and Na Tonight we're gonna have the women a while.
(00:24):
And I'm cats all the cars. What's up? You guys,
it's your girl be some moth, Pretty TV and my
baby just in the Valentine. We are here. I'm so
excited for this episode. All three girls are busy at
what's up? Ladies? What do you guys? It's sugarl Pretty TV,
(00:48):
you guys. And I ain't on the table today, y'all,
so you know I'm late. I'm just here girl. What's
that Justina? What's that? Baby? It's your girl j V.
And I'm so glad to be back here with my
girls because it is the women a While in our podcast.
We do run this. We don't have no boys in
the building, you know what I mean from more perspective,
and you know they say ladies run the world, and
(01:10):
speaking or running um, you know, I mean. I've just
gotten a little cardio, so I'm feeling good. My ticker
is ticking. Yeah, I'm feeling good man. I'm proud of you. Yes, okay,
Sports Illustrated. They needed Sports Illustrated edition the women a
while and now just like flesh get a good do.
(01:31):
Oh my gosh, we should make that house shoot our
own magazine cover magazines. Yes, they gotta get me my
ass from the right angle. No, I can't see it
from there. I watched my chee and I ripped off
my skin because I have a little god. Oh do
(01:55):
you guys want my chin and my lip? Hell? Yeah,
you can have a leave. Women still shave. That's mind block. Okay,
like we get like that's self. I still shave if
I can't get to the wax people, So I do
like a little sad of you. Yeah yeah, because I'm
a type of girl. I would walk on a photo
(02:15):
shoot and I would be very hairy and how do
you do that? Sickening? Sickening? My issue with the wax
stop it like the thing with the wax though, because
I tried it a couple of times. First of all,
I think the woman that I just got was brutal,
Like it hurts so bad. I don't think it was
supposed to hurt it wasn't supposed to hurt as bad
as it did. I think she was just like, no,
(02:37):
you gotta go to like a European wax in er,
a place where they use hard way do they use
strips like the strip they put the strip on. I
have no idea what she put hard, but it hurts
so so after that I was like, I just shave.
I don't mind shaving because then when you get it wack,
No you do, you're gonna mind. No, You're gonna mind
shaving after you get a good way. But then what
do you do? So what do you do? You get
(02:58):
wax on a Monday, right, you gotta shoot on a Thursday.
You got a little stubble, you have to shave. You're
not gonna have stubble. You're not gonna have stuffle. It's
waxing out of the root the last for a month.
I do like the sugar wax like then. I also
do like the wax like they put you and they
just like taking it off. And I sometimes used the
strips me. On the other hand, I don't like all
(03:21):
that painty painty because when they get to them lips,
I'm thinking they turn that shirt off literally save a
little hair striped like a little I don't even a
little strip on my lip. I wish I could show
you my poop from right now. I promise it looks
like let's this would have a lot of views right
it's but right now it's bad. Um, I don't know it.
(03:45):
I prefer the shade because I feel like you could
just keep it clean, do it quickly. But I don't know.
Maybe I just had a really bad experience waxing. You know,
my nigga, I'm not taking like I used to do this.
I took the shaver and I will look between my
legs and then I would have to open my and
I would keep doing all that. That's too much work.
So I was like, yo, lady, I'm gonna toot my
(04:05):
legs up. You'll worried about all this pain for wax
and sugaring, and I know both of y'all done ain't
no before You'll ain't worried about the pain with that. Well,
you're gonna really say, how the hell you know? I
didn't like because so confused because I know you, and
I know that ass, and I know that he and
I know a lot of things have been up it
now from big, like and I even imagine being a
(04:30):
having sex with some I can't. I can't either, I
can imagine. I hate that. I hate trying to imagine
being like just making all types of face start start
looking at me. But look, it's a it's a whole
little it's a whole different beasting when you're trying to
get between No, that's what I am too, as goofy
(04:54):
as we are we're in the bedroom, it's like give
you give yourself. This is audition at this point, but
it's like, why do not all that ship pick up?
Giving my all? Baby? It's like pick up kid, I like,
y'all gonna see seriously, like it's that so I mean
(05:16):
first time. That's I think that's literally what we're gonna
get into right now. It's the first time. Okay, first time.
You ain't all though seventh grade, Justina. Yeah, we got
some homes on this show. I'm the least hoe. Yeah.
I think Na and Justine our neck and neck with
the whole story. We've been getting a lot of these.
(05:39):
When be someone used to tell me about her stories
about like kissing and like her first time for this,
I'm like, are you don't do that? In nineteen, but
you have to do that. In the seventh grade. Seventh grade,
I was fast, sevenst and spread. I was fast. Yeah,
I was doing some things that them kids right, the
kids right now in this generation probably whatever, But back
then that was that that was not loud. I shouldn't
(06:01):
have been doing. I was very curious, curious, George. I
wanted to know he was alazer. Baby, you know what? Okay,
first time you gave here? Oh, I don't know. I
think that's like maybe n T great. I don't remember
the first day if I stuck, that's crazy. First thick you, honey.
(06:22):
I just hope my mama ain't listening to this podcast, y'all.
We'll be right back, y'all with more. Could be funny
to get in to our first time and I know
y'all want here my time. Welcome back to the women
and while now podcast we get back to the nitty
the gritty the first time this show' gonna be about
mavn first your house on the house and this is
(06:51):
a solo. Used to do that to me all the
time when I was wrapping us, to be like like
let me do it, like I'm killing Oh my god. Yeah,
we got back honey, and I want to y'all know
everybody don't know all our tease, but that's seventh grade.
I'm gonna tell you about my first dad. Well, okay,
we don't even know about the first time he has
(07:11):
six I let's talking about okay, our first kids. Ye's
easy into it. Yeah, okay, let's ease into it. Oh.
I remember the first time I got my titty sucked.
It was at a church convention. Was it was it?
It was it like like a pure or something be
like in the church or hell no, we was at
a convention and it was an usher's convention. So it
(07:34):
was a convention. I don't know what city was in,
but was so man j he went that titty out.
I was like, fitteen, I ain't had sex yet. We
didn't do anything. He just sucked my nipple. What do
you do? It? Just took it out, held in like,
and then put the shirt back my suck. I was like,
(07:56):
oh my god, I don't know when it was my
first time. I think I just did a whole chevyh once.
It was a care package. My first kiss. Your first
kiss was not when you first washed. Oh my first kiss,
I don't remember that you don't remember your first kids,
do you, Yeah, my first kids. I remember. Um, we
were outside. I was like either eleven or twelve, and
(08:17):
it was it was cold because you know, Jersey's like
always fucking cold. We only have like two two months
of nice weather, so it was cold. We had the
jackets on and we were just like, all right, let's kiss.
So we like did it. We stuck our tongues out
and we was just like, you know, just moving our
tongues around. We really didn't know how to do it,
but um, you know it was kind of like a
little gross, but like you still hype because you're like,
(08:38):
I have my first kiss and like I ran, I
told like my big cousins and stuff and it was cute.
So yeah, I remember it was outside. It was cold,
and it was like nasty, you know what I mean,
because it just felt like two worms, like wrestling, you know,
like I really know how to do it. Like as
you get older, it's like I don't know about about
you guys, but like the way I like the kiss
(08:58):
is more now like it was in show up. Yeah,
it's like open mouth kissing. It's not like you like
you Yeah, we just wanted to say we made out
with the tongue, you know, and that was but it
was cute. You know what about your first remember how
was it? Oh? Lord? I remember I was playing how
(09:18):
didn't go get it? But I see I was the
good kid. I never did nothing. I was like so
scared to get in trouble, scared of kids like guys
watching parents gonna find out. I did not want to
shake the room. So he found me, bitch, and I
was like, don't like, don't touch me, like you know
your and he just kissed me in this closet and
(09:38):
I was so scared. Well, nowadays he bring you in
trouble for that. He kind of took that kiss. Yeah,
I think I don't know my first kiss. I don't know.
I don't know where I was at. I just know
I when I was like me like, I'm a very
affectionate person. I was touching everything everyone. So it was
just like any guy I've seen, Oh, like you're my boyfriend,
(09:59):
Like you're cute, right, So it's like it was one
of those moments like run around in Miami like just
everybody knible girl, Oh you cute? Les? Yeah, how to
go giddy? Like you come over with my grandma house,
like we're gonna do something, you know. It was the
more those moments, and we were just young. We just
want to know what was going on. So I don't
remember that. I remember when I did it. Let's get today.
Were you guys, were you guys like boys crazy, like
(10:21):
just like so into boys and like not, no, not
at all. You probably weren't. I was like very crazy
because no, no, I was. I was boy crazy because
like my thing is, I was so curious as a kid,
like I would like, if I'm seeing a marian I'm like,
I know somebody in the hood of Miami got a
Mario looking like like I'm gonna find videos and be like, oh,
(10:44):
I can find somebody that look just like that. So
when I when I did kind of find something like similar,
then I used to love like being around older guys,
so I said, cute, but you my daddy age at
this point, you know, so it was it was like
calm down, you know, but literally I was very much
like curious George. And see everybody thinks my dad, my
dad didn't like that. He'd like you in too many
(11:05):
people faces, right, So what about your guys, like first date, Like,
do you remember like the first date, and you know
it's crazy. I remember my first hell date. But I
will say, did anybody teach you on how to date? Like, nobody,
not a woman in my family, not a father, and
my family set me down and told me how to date,
how to go on a date, how to be a lady,
(11:26):
cross your legs, let him put out your chair, let
him open your door. Now that is whack to me,
that's whack. That's when I have kids, They're gonna know
how to be a lady on the first date, and
the gentleman is going to know how to treat a
woman on the first date. I'm lying. My grandmother taught
me and my mom she was more so telling me,
like how to eat when you go out with people
if it's a date, like how to eat. A man
(11:47):
should open the door. I said this on my mom's
Live last night. She's always telling me, before you leave
the house, have a hundred dollars with you are twenty dollars.
Say if a man don't want to pay any act
like they don't got a money on you, you, as
a woman should come and say I got it. See
that's good, and that's good. Yeah. She used to teach
me that. So I came from my mom, did teach
me and my grandmother? Did you choose how you want
(12:08):
to you choose how you want to move after you
get taught, like you know about your parents, but my
mom and my grandma, dad, my grandma especially, Yeah, she said,
that's good. Yeah, I'm with you. The first hill date, y'all.
Let me tell you my first hun date. His name
was Trey. He drove old school Cadillac. It was on rims,
you know, from Dallas, Texas, so like Houston, Dallas, just
(12:29):
like swinging on phofols, tipping on pho phones back in
the day. It was all that Paul Wall, Chamellionaire rams, candy, paint,
wood grain. I didn't even get in the damn car.
The fucking wheels were so high on this motherfucker. I
remember that. I don't remember this ship. This man had
a patch on his eye because let me tell you, hey,
(12:49):
you got my number. Were driving on the highway in Dallas, Texas.
He was over there. I was over here, left to
the right, and I yelled at my number to him
to one though, so I didn't really see him see him,
you know. So he text me, I'm gonna come pick
you up. Were gonna got to eat. It was the
worst day. First we stopped at the trap house before
(13:10):
we even went to go eat and take care of
business gas to get the money for They felt so uncomfortable.
I was like, if we get pulled over. We did
get pulled over, by the way it got pulled over.
He putting all this stuff in the He moved the
what's the events where the air come out. He moved
the event and started putting stuff in there. I was like, Oh,
I'm with a fucking felon, Like, I was so scared.
(13:32):
I was looking at him like I am not the
down ass bitch, and you're obviously not the nigga that's
gonna be with a boogie bitch, So you need to
take me home. We didn't even eat. No, we made
so many stops and got pulled over. I was like,
we should just like take me back to the crib.
We we both knew I ain't for you when you
ain't for me, and it we never talked again. It
(13:53):
was horrible. When he got the number, you probably only
saw the side you only was used on the non
ipatch side. Oh, on the other side, he had a
patch which don't matter. If you're a good person, don't
put me on a high speed chase on the first date.
If you gotta patch, you gotta have a good heart,
because you can't have a patch in and be he
haven't to be I think for me, Um, I didn't.
(14:16):
I never experienced a real date until now, Like I've
never been in like in a real relationship relationships. On me,
dates you be on like a date. I've never been
on a date. You. I've never been on a date.
I haven't been, like my real dates are now and
it's been the person. It's only been with people that like, like, Okay,
I've been on one date with a Russian guy and
(14:37):
he took me to my first rehanda concert. But I'm
like whatever, But like I didn't feel it, Like it
was like we're just going out and we worked out
at a gym, so like we're gonna go to the
gym and we're gonna get ready at that. But that
was still a date because he liked you, you just
didn't like I don't think he liked me. Um, So
you know, but I think my dates start now, like
I'm going on dates now, period. So yeah, yeah, I
(14:59):
never had one I remember. I remember I probably didn't
like high school, but I don't know I was doing
too much, like trying to have sex instead of going
on days. I'm gonna cutter right, like you just trying
to skip it, like just turn on a movie and
do it to me. You're trying to get to the
bus I'm trying of the thing I'm nervous about. Oh sorry,
I'm just about to say one thing I'm nervous about
(15:21):
with my b a Bay because we're about going on
first day is He made it very clear that what
if it's pet Peeves is smacking and yeah, like I don't.
I don't smack though, Like I don't eat like a
fucking mama. But I am definitely like when the food
I'm watching the food come like I'm the person that's
like sauce dip. Yeah, I need all the sauce stuff
(15:43):
food of foodie. So I'm just like, I ain't nobody
trying to eat cute, right, So I'm never you gotta
try a little bit to eat with your mouth clothes,
But I really can't. I am a smacker, and you
know with these little ass novels I got, I can't
read you good like you want me to dire? Do
you want me to eat it? And eve? But um, yeah, yeah,
(16:04):
I always dated like troublemakers and like I always dated
you know guys and you felt safe, like you were
comfortable with that, you weren't scared. Yeah no, I mean
I you know, I was on kind of the same
wavelength as them. But I never dated guys that were
like really like nice and stuff like that. I wasn't
really into that. And when I would kind of talk
to a nice guy, like, I didn't like them as
(16:26):
much as the asshole guy. So I was never really
a data type. I was always working like mad hours
a week, you know, wait just saying bartending, working in
the strip clubs bartending. So it's like most of the
guys I dated, it was like we would hang out
like at the crib, but we weren't really going on dates.
And then one guy I was with for a minute,
he owned a bar, so I was, you know, running
(16:48):
the bar. So it was like no dating. It was
just like but kind of like the said you had
just kicking it at the crib. It was really no
like dates like that. And that really didn't bother me
because because I was always on my ground and trying
to make ship happen and get to where we all
are now. So it was never on my mind like, oh,
I want to go in a night you were younger, Yeah,
(17:09):
And I was never like I want to go on
a nice day. I was like, I want to progress
and what I'm trying to do. So that's kind of
where I was at with it. And I was always
the type that if the guy couldn't see my vision
or wasn't down for what I was trying to do,
then he just didn't work next exactly, he didn't even
work in my schedule. But I just sent on the
top of the dates. B I just wanna be a
(17:29):
little nosy like you n V a bit like where
is there a reservation? Like? Where is it? Is it rude?
Is it red? Lobster? Like? Where we going? So he's coming,
He's definitely getting a hotel. Um, he's coming, But are
you No, I'm not. I'm on my period. Man, I'm
not having said him. We already talked about sexual intercourse
and we're not having sex yet, got it? Okay? He
(17:51):
actually brought it up. He said he wasn't. He didn't
want to, you know, step that line. He's like, I've
had sex too soon in the past and it ruined
the relationship and I want something real. Girl. He heard
the podcast. He knew he wasn't getting puss. Let me
let me sound like a gentleman girl here do not
listening about but um yeah, so we decided to take
(18:13):
it slow. He is getting a hotel, you know, which
I like, you don't Nigga's be coming to town, like, oh,
I'm staying with you? Hook Like no, like, be a man,
come in, get you a room and I must stay
at the room. I'm gonna say at the room, which
so I'm about gona stay with him, and um yeah,
we'll just see what happens. I told him to plan,
he said, you know, he got a driver for the
weekend and he's planning everything. I like, when a man leaves.
(18:36):
You want to court me, you want to date me,
don't ask me. What is there to do in Atlanta?
Google figured out, like, I know, you know niggas in Atlanta.
You know people in Atlanta. Make some calls, make some reservations,
and just tell me when to be ready. I'm not
about to court you, like, so you know, and he's
been doing that. So he actually just landed a little
bit ago. So he'll be pens at his hotel and
(18:57):
I'm going to meet him there. So how are we
moving with the um with appeared on a double up
war like are you heavy? Me? I'm not having sex
with him, so we don't have to talking about that.
I'm talking about when you're in that bed land and
then you know, you know, baby, I don't just wake
up in a puddle of bud. Girl, I'm heavy. I
(19:18):
gotta I gotta double up and put the baby. Lena,
Oh my god, that's so what you're doing. That's just
too much. Are you guys eating in like at the hotel?
We're gonna go out to eat. He actually had a
chef that he was flying in. He was gonna cook
for me at my house. I had no idea, but
um the chef canceled. He lives out of town. So
(19:41):
he was asking, He's like, do you know what chef
in Atlanta? I was like, I know a few. You know,
if you want to stay in, we're gonna have a
dinner here or we could go out whatever, So we'll
probably go like out to eat. I told him about
this hook lounge that I like, Um Road low key.
I'm not trying to beat in the mix. Like if
I get drunk or something and want to make out
with him, I don't want people being like, there's be
someone in the corner. Maybe I would have random to
good No, yea, so you know, keep it cute about that.
(20:05):
What are you wearing? So this is my first date
since my breakup, y'all, let's go. Okay, So when did
y'all lose oppriginity? You go seventh grade? I think the
v for me was eighth and then I know be
Simone said she and she just lost her ship like
(20:25):
two years ago. Yes, when I was nineteen nine. No,
I was my seventh grade. Just yeah, that's ridiculous. What
y'all doing? Serious? Like all the home girls say they
did it and oh my god, it hurts so bad.
I'm like, oh my god, the real you justus. Yeah,
(20:45):
you just wanted to feel it. Um. I think like
back then we didn't really know what the heck we
were doing. But like you said, it's like you're wanna
do it, You wanna try it out, you with a
boy you like, and you you get it done. I
respect how be Simone did it because probably by the
time she did it at nineteen, probably dated the guy
for a little bit, still didn't know know, so it
(21:06):
was a hook up. I met the nigga, he tricked me.
I had sex with him, fell in love with him.
I was buying him shoes and he had a whole
another girlfriend. Did you really like the guy who took
your Virginia v or was it just like one and done.
Let me tell you something. I wrote about him in
my diet. That's how. That's how he was on right.
(21:28):
He literally was just so handsome to me. He was
chocolate football player, just so freaking cute, and just he
ran track because like like I said, Miami boys, they
are definitely too advanced, and it's just like they and
you know how the league you got the big league,
you just you're paying football for the parts, you know.
So it was a moment until you get like you
(21:51):
got to college and then you get you know, drafted,
and like it was one of those moments. And I
loved him so much and I still um. We still
talked like me to get here, and they're just like
checking in. He got yes, he got a baby, was playing,
he was playing football, like you know, so he's doing
his thing. But I was so obsessed with him and
I moved in South Carolina. He only got like the
(22:14):
six seventh and eighth grade. For me, Yeah, I was
on pretty much the same path as you beat my guy. Um,
Like I said, were doing all that seventh and eight
between you know this and then the v car So
it wasn't it was in those years. And it's funny
when you're that young and you really like someone, you're
just like you just think you're so in love, and
I guess at the time you know you are. But um, yeah,
(22:35):
I think that's that's the pearist form of love, that
you're not dating people for money and staff. I like
you exactly like I like you just like you. So
I got a question for you guys about first When
was your first heartbreak? Oh my god, I just talked
about I did this story time on my close friends
literally two days ago. I did my whole time. That
(22:59):
was my whole any time, my first time. I got
cheated on my first heartbreak. It was so sad. Let
me tell y'all. I ain't gonna take out the details
because it ain't fair to my close friends that have
that have subscribed. But it boils down to be doing
this girl's hair, and she was like, yeah, like, are
you still talking to someone? So I'm like, yeah, that's
my boyfriend. Like what do you mean am I talking
(23:20):
to him? We're not talking. We've been together for a
year and a half. She's like, wow, that's so crazy,
Like when you were knocking at his door and he
didn't open the door and you finally came in, Like,
I had to hide in the bathroom until you left.
Because she's like, she got booked in the point with me,
got her hair done, and this at the end of
her hair and point she was. She was smart. She
told you at the end because you might have snipped
(23:40):
a little bit too much. I was like, oh my gosh.
She was like, yeah, that was pretty, that was pretty
cheating was cheating on you with me? I would have
slapped the ship out of here. I don't it looks
at the podcast right now, Cynthia Cassandra. I would have Cynthia,
I would have knocked you out, sweets. I would have
looked you said, what, yeah, it was crazy break. Yeah,
(24:05):
that's that's crazy that the girl came what was yours?
My heartbreak? M gonna be very honest. Um. I would
have to say seven eighth grade, like when I'm o,
my god, no, it was her first kiss, she lost
her had her first yeah right, yeah, it was literally
(24:26):
that moment. It was like yeah, because I just think
he was flailed with me. He was cheating on me,
and he was dating somebody in high school. What was crazy?
And then he was eight eighth grade. You're still trying
to you talking talking to these these girls and my things.
I filled the fourth grade. I've bol have been in
eighth grade when it when everybody was where it was
seventh grade, which I was in eighth grade, but I
had filled the fourth grade. So it was given very
(24:48):
much like okay, like I'm holding it was giving very money.
I'm your same age right at this point. So if
you want somebody on the beach, it's me because I
mean fourth grade, y'all. Yeah, V and everything. Within forty
eight hours, like you said, be the kids to break
up the sack. The butt says, oh forty eight hours.
(25:09):
Got knocked it on quick. I know your diary was
on fire that week, so it was kind of break
cold turkey, bitch now like oh yeah, I cold turkey.
It ain't no oh uniqu closure my closure is the
truth next? Like, that's enough, that's what the funk I'm
talking about. That is sucking be simone. Sucking edges is
slicking slate. And we out of here. This in the condo.
(25:33):
She's a psychopath. Yeah, all right, let's get to this. Okay,
we've been doing too much juicy, Like, come on, let's
get into it asking this question. I'm ready, I'm ready
for this. I'm ready for the shebang. The shebank was
you ain't listen. You don't get crazier than that. You
don't get no more shebank either that. But but we
didn't let me ask you all this. Wow, what do
(25:54):
you guys think? Like like about the heartbreak? Like, I
remember my heartbreak. It was my first heartbreak. Was with
the same value he took my Virginia. We alreadygether for
a few years whatever, then when we broke up. That
was my first heartbreak. Like do you feel like your
heartbreak got worse as you grew up and matured and
you would have heartbreak or do you feel like that
first one just hit different? No, I feel like it
(26:15):
got worse because the older you get, the more serious
you are, Like, the more serious you are, not worse
I guess, yeah, I guess worse, worse because you think
you're gonna be with this person forever. Like the older
you get like I hadn't been through this, i'd've been
through that. I'd have been through this. Okay, this is
the one, right, Okay, this is the one. It's like
God damn. But it also allows you to know what
I've been through so much heartbreak this I'm gonna make
(26:38):
it through this one too, Like I've had my heart
broken before, so it's it heals every time. Right, Well,
go ahead, Yeah, I think I hear. I feel like
you want to give us the details of the anal,
So let's get down and dirty. I mean with the
I'm gonna just definitely talk about the heartbreak moment because
I feel like to like the heartbreak would be a
moment like okay, like you over it and then you're
(26:58):
done with it, but it still gives a woman like
you know what the next person that come around me, like,
I'm not gonna be like sad, but if it'd be
so that connection that I'm sad again, you know, like
now I didn't give you too much. Now I'm heartbroken
in the game, and I know this is popular love,
and I know this is this. Now I'm sad because
I didn't told myself I ain't gonna do this. But
then you're such a good person. Now you're getting on
my nerves. So it's just it is what it is.
(27:20):
But boom, ain't no, let's get to it, you know.
And we already talked about ain't no wena. We didn't
need it. We didn't talk about so okay, what do
you want to say about? Right? And are you and
are you still into it? Or have you had your film?
No pun intendant like, have you had your Filipino or
are you still I may be very youngest and I'm
(27:45):
gonna keep with that stack. Seventh grade tried it right,
and I didn't know what was going on because I
think seventh grade like everybody got their little hormone's happening,
like you know, eighth grade they're like, O hey, I
stopped this down there, I feel like something good. She
So it was more like trying to figure it out
with the guys. So we just really tried it. We
tried it in the stepth grade and you know, I
(28:06):
don't know. It was so weird because we went to
the mama bed then we went to his bump bed.
It was like the bump, the bump bet and the
mom I love yeah, like my band turns, I love
one bad. Yeah. Yeah, bummers are cute. But I think
but I think, Um, he had a bumpet, so it
was like him, he had a bump it. And then
we did it by the the you know, the lower
bent bed. We did it there. Then it was like, okay,
(28:27):
let's get like, let's see how grown he is. So
we went to the MoMA bed, so like, oh, we've grown.
How could we in a big king bed? And then
we did that and it was like it was like
just keep going, to keep going. And that's when the
first time I hadn't know and then I was like, okay,
let's do it again. Eighth grade happened. Then of course
I did it like down the line, like so just
(28:50):
try and get just different things. I liked experiensively, I
don't like the same thing. So if we could do
it on the island, if we could do it on
the cows, if you could do it in the back seat,
we could do it on my part the record, I've
never done antal just be done? What about what about
just a finger be just a little. Have I had
a finger in my as I think I had a
(29:12):
finger in a tongue back there, but not a dick, bitch,
God damn. Imagine imagine I'm not about to pay this.
Imagine that your your I was gonna take your b spot.
I tell y'all everything. If I had an'tal, y'all would yo.
(29:32):
But imagine that your g spot is anal and you
just haven't had an orgasm because you never know. I
would never have an orgasm, so you would never have
an orgasm. It's on her chair, sticking a bottle of
her ass. Yeah, that's why I'm about to put this
on my close friends which to do it. She does
have to be bottle about anal. This bitch want to do?
(29:55):
Ain't no so bad? She's being a stop get off. Yeah,
I'm so sorry. You can't see this, fool. This is
what happened. Stick it up. You gotta you gotta wet
that spot thought that spot. Gotta get a wet your
You gotta with the spot a little bit because you
just can't. How did you know that? In seventh grade? Baby,
That's what I'm saying. I wasn't introduced to it. He's
(30:19):
all you gotta do is just wet the little spot up,
you know a lot, make sure it's wet. Did you cry?
Didn't hurt? No? Like I was walking on like this
the thing it was like ya what I was like
like a penguin literally so you So, I mean, okay,
so Venus and Ado Justinus and ain't. No, I have
not done an I'll never try to be maybe with
my husband. Yeah, I mean to be honest with you,
I don't. It's just not like my thing, like like
(30:42):
I don't I don't enjoy it. I don't. I don't
really enjoy it, and I don't do it like as
often as I'm not like I want to do it.
I want to do in the island. I'm gonna do
it in the basement. Like Vena wants to keep putting
in the butt. That's not my like m I look
slipping there every now and again. But I much rather
just you know, get it in the pus puss. Let
(31:04):
me be very honest, like it's not every time I'm
having put it in my as my pussy go right
starting the asp like right, so like it's just like
all right, if I want to be like my thing, is.
I want to know, stuff it in my button. You
put it, you put it in, and niggas be like,
(31:27):
niggas be like, I've never done this before. I'm like, okay,
seven niggas did not say that. Um, they're lying, I've
never done this before. And then when niggas, when my
thing is understand, you just gotta try everything. Put it
in your butt, put it in your pump, poom, slap
it around your titties, whatever I don't have. First of all,
don't ever put it in your butt. Then your vagina,
(31:48):
that's a factor. That's b B, that's that's instant east. Yes,
back to your vaginosis. Yeah, pussy to ask, it's just
like wiping. It's like wiping. Gotta go from the pussy.
Oh my god. Yeah, I don't do that one. I
don't do that one. But let me tell you something
he took when he took his penis out of your
as with shipped on them. I mean it's happened. Listen.
(32:10):
If you don't, if you don't prepare so that they're
down there, Yeah, you gotta do an animal. You gotta
do an animal to clean out the system because it's
like it's like stick in your hand um in in
like a fish shank. If the fish shank is dirty,
gonna come out with some crund on your arm. So
it's like if you if you sist the main clean
(32:31):
and the pipe goes up, you know, the pipe goes
up there, it's gonna come out being a little Definitely.
I can't imagine. I can't imagine. I can't imagine. I
can't imagine. I can't imagine. What about being on your
period does your man but not like full blood like
first day I've done it, like where you're spotting a
little bit there or a little you know, brown here
(32:54):
and there, but not like a whole a little day one. Yeah,
some guys don't like to do it. Some guys don't
like to run the red lights. My nigga. Niggas don't
care as long as they feel what they gotta feel.
If the lights is off, that's probably the best sex.
I mean, it's more, you know, it's more moisture. I mean,
could be a little nasty. But as you have a comment,
let me tell you something. Let me say, adn't did
(33:16):
it when it first started that guy had to take it.
I'd be profund. I was cramping, I was like, yoah,
let's get it buddy married. Then days two days after
it calmed down, we went at it again. Whatever long
as you're doing in the show, you could. I remember
I had sex with my ex and we was in
the hotel room and I was them sheaths was done.
The first four day was them sheets was done. I
(33:38):
was like, yo, what they gonna is? My credit caught
on file and we're good to go. Okay, y'all, But
before we get through all this, this is just nasty.
We're gonna go to break. We'll have more with the
Women a While now podcast. We come back after these messages.
All right, you guys, we are back with the Women
(34:00):
a While in our podcast. It should get a beast
the mom My Baby Pretty TV. Just seeing a Valentine
this podcast was it went from zero to a hunted
real quick, like real quick. Do y'all have any advice
to give to these young girls, these young people, anybody
that's not experienced, Like, what is a good tip for
somebody that's not experienced. I have a good tip. Don't
do butt sex because it could be a shitty situation
(34:22):
and that's intending. Take take your time, don't be like
me and vis a little fast as like, take your time, um,
be careful, educate yourself. Definitely for the young girls listening
and young guys listening, where protection because one dirty dick
or one dirty poom boom could change your life. So
we're protection and just be safe and don't follow me
(34:46):
and these lead I please, don't let me tell you something.
Wrap it up. That's the biggest thing I can tell
y'all to wrap it up and have safe sex. This
is we got to be disciplined in those areas as
you guys, And like I said, wrap it up. And
like Justina said, don't be like me hot now okay,
because I know some friends I was doing what I
(35:07):
was doing, ain't pregnant? All right, all right back here now.
I love y'all so much. No, seriously, we're not trying
to promote anything. Just definitely wait, be like be someone
and and lose you and if that's what it is,
and that's what yeh, don't be don't be in such
a rush to grow up. Take your time and just
be safe about it. And you know what I mean.
(35:28):
Just just because when your friends are jumping off the building,
don't mean you need to do it too, all right,
so we know this episode was a little nasty. We
got down and dirty, but um we got to the realm.
This was just it was all about our first We
love y'all and yeah, yo signing now I remember to
(35:48):
wrap it up, don't
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