April 19, 2022 • 39 mins
Wild N’ Out veteran Tim Chantarangsu (formerly known as Tim DeLaGhetto) joins our hosts to chat about changing his stage name and what it was like being the only Asian American cast member on Wild N’ Out. He also shares wisdom on life from his experience with fatherhood to how he keeps the spark in his marriage alive.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
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guest today. We're do want to introduce our guests. Tim
He's an actor, he's an fluencer. He's in a while
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and out veteran Timothy deg Ghetto. That was a horrible intro.
I know, all right, let me tea this. I guess.
I mean, we have a guest here, and it's like
our close frighten, our close buddy. I used to like
steal off of him and pick up and kill it.
I didn't know what I was saying, and I used
to always say he was the only person I wanted
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to be your partner, the only person you know, because
I'm about to do it. I would look at being
and be like, look, if you're not gonna focus and
get their minds right, I'm not. I'm gonna go with this. Tina,
You're so crazy. Justina is very patient with me, okay,
d see your side is very it's very patient with
me and Timothy. Joe, get anybody else I'm saying his name. Yeah,
(02:10):
Chico was like, I'm not going to Carlo won't even
talk to me. Carlos won't even talk baby girl. Then
you are oh hell no, oh hell you I'm scared
to go to rookies. I'm like, I don't want to
messe your time. Don't dare ask me to go nowhere.
I ain't going save job. I'm gonna mess shop every
times me and look better than me as a rookie.
Do you know each time a guest would come, they
(02:32):
would choose you, just steal or do they try? Never
look at me to go against don't guests, And I
don't know why they take you. Rat told me up.
I'm still mad at her about man the rat win
on me and I said, I complimented, you know, it's
I'm just And they called me a veteran yesterday. I'm
a vet I thought I yesterday here you a you
a rookie, a rookie? Veit call me that this season? Rookie?
(02:54):
All right, y'all. So we aren't here with our guests
of the hourds Timothy they like ghetto but he changed
his name, hates him. He's up, Yes, I changed it
all up. It's it's good to it's can you say
my name though? Tim? No? No, I just sounded out.
It's just like Tim. It's Tim Chanta wrang suit, Tim
(03:24):
Chanta suit. So so what what name changed him? Man?
You know what, well, first of all, it's good to
see your faces, you know. I mean, I know they
can't they can't see us, but it's good to see you.
And it looks so beautiful right now, y'all looks so good.
I feel like I'm on a double zoom date and
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I'm hyped, you know, like the middle two they told
us we couldn't they couldn't see us, But I was like,
I'm gonna get dressed with these girls. I took a shower,
I brushed my teeth, I scraped my tongue finally. Yeah,
you know, I haven't been brushing it through the whole pandemic,
but I was like, I'm brushing for the girls. How
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do you find time to do all that stuff with
being a new father? Wait, I'll answer the first question.
First I changed Okay, So it was it was it
was a bunch of things, right. It was like I
had been thinking about just going by my real name
for like a couple of years, right, But then I
was like, you know, what's my brand? Is this and that? Um?
(04:30):
And then I was thinking like maybe I'll do the
like Curtis fifty cent Jackson, you know, tim Day La
Ghetto chant ron su. But then I was like chilling
at the house quarantine had just started, and I started
thinking about like life and my legacy and who I
am as a person. I was like, if I died,
let's say I caught COVID and died right now, right,
(04:52):
And I was like, do I want to be remembered
by this like silly YouTube name I made up? You know,
I got it from The Fresh Prince if people don't know,
like daylight Ghetto comes from an old episode of The
Fresh Prince where he like joins yeah, yeah, so he
you know, he joins it for those you don't know,
for the young uns out there, Will Smith joins a
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poetry club to meet girls and he and he makes
up a poet named Raphael Day like ghetto, right, and
uh Fresh Prince was like such a huge inspiration from
me growing up. I was just trying to be like
the Asian Will Smith. Right, So one day when I
was freestyle and I was like yeah, blah blah blah
Timothy Day like ghetto and it just stuck. And so anyways, pandemic,
(05:34):
I'm thinking about life, I'm like, do I want to
be uh Day like Ghetto as my legacy, and I
was like, no, you know, I really you know, if
I died today, I kind of want people to really
remember like me. And I was like if and also
if I want to accomplish everything I want to accomplish,
like you know, like movies and awards and all that,
I don't want to be up on stage excepting as
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Timothy Day like ghetto. You know what I'm saying. I'm like,
let me have them know my real last name. And plus,
like my whole m O was like, let me make
these little young Asian kids be proud of who they are,
proud of where they come from, and like, let me
embrace my Yeah. You know what I'm saying, because part
of the reason why you feel like a name exactly
because I felt like, you know, when I was younger.
(06:17):
I'm like, I need a stage name because the Hollywood
is not gonna want want like of this long ass
high name. You know what I'm saying. I like, I
need I need to switch up for for the industry. Right.
But then but then I thought about him, like, Okay,
if they can pronounce Arnold Schwartzenegger and the Cole Switchinger,
you know what I'm saying they can learn. Yeah, And
(06:39):
so I was like, let me just go ahead and
fully like embrace, embrace that part that name, so these
little kids can be like, Okay, yeah, people think my
name sounds funny. But if like Tim can be like
fully embrace that ship, that I can embrace it. And
also like you know, my dad, I'm like one of
the last Chanta wrong su was out here in the world.
I was like, let me, let me go ahead and
hold it down for my family. We um and all
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thank you. And also, you know, like these young uns
that don't know it comes from the Fresh Prince. The
young the young uns are like why did that man
call himself ghetto? You know what I'm saying, like yeah,
like so and I realized, you know, I was explaining
a lot. I'm like, yeah, it's from the Fresh Prince,
blah blah blah. But then I was like, the older
I get, the younger they're gonna get, they're not gonna
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know where it's from. And so I was like, let
me just go ahead and like I've been meaning to
do this, and let me just take this time while
the world is is kind of quiet to like reset
you know what I'm saying yeah, So that's that's that's
when we start doing that. When you start having babies,
they start maturing, like yeah, I'm sitting by myself. No,
you were sitting with that baby. And that's her last name.
This was pre baby. It is her last name. She
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was like. My wife was like, you don't want to
just give her my last name so she don't have
to go through learning to spell it like you did.
I was like, no, no, no, no, Now this baby
is gonna learn this long ass name. Yeah, other's last
name exactly. Yes, man, the name change the name. You
don't got a baby on us, you didn't got married
(08:09):
on us. So like b x before this is your
second question. Um, so how's the daddy life? Man? Let
me tell you pretty, because I know how Peanut treat me.
He's a handful of the house and he's visiting, so
your town is much more of a handful. Man. Um
(08:30):
let me tell you daddy life is lit. I love it.
Uh you know what I mean. The baby and all
your youtubes and all your here's the thing, right, my
I needed my lights and engagement to go up. So
I was like, let me just have this baby, get
these Instagram lights up. You know what I'm saying, But
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you baby, it's cute, because some babies may be showing
them too soon. It's like, get a minute growing to features.
Man facts, let's let's let the let the moush it's
unmushified before you put it out there, like come out.
But yeah, man, she's she's cute. It's lit Um, it's
so fun. Um. You know, I see where Nick is
coming from. I might just work around and have like
eight kids like Nick. You know what I'm saying, because
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it's I'm having I'm having a good time, you know. Um,
It's it really is, you know, like not to be
on some cliche what everybody says, but it really is,
like you know what I'm saying, You look into the
eyes of your child and it kind of gives you, um,
a new motivation in life, you know what I'm saying,
Like a new purpose. Yeah, yeah, a new purpose. While
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I was feeling kind of um comfortable and unmotivated, you know,
I feel like she kind of gives me a reason
to go back to grinding again, you know, to really
get back to work. Yeah. You know, because it's like
you make a little money, you get a little comfortable
you get a little like you don't really feel like
putting in work like you used to when you were
(09:55):
like broke, you know what I'm saying. But now it's like, okay, yeah,
another reason to really get on my my ship again.
You know, I have to check her out. She is
so beautiful and she's beautiful. She looks like me when
I was tim Like, you're you're so like for the culture.
You know, I've seen like your YouTube and like you're
(10:17):
wrapping and just everybody, And I just want to know, like, like, no, seriously,
like you you're so like well rounded and like for
African Americans. You know you've been around it. You probably
you know, you lived it, you know, so I want
to know, like where did you grow up? And like
how did you get your start? Like you know, how
did you make you know, funny or full time job
(10:38):
like you know you came from. Wasn't rat battling? And sure,
let's let's talk about it pretty um not when up?
So I mean, let's talk about it. What is you?
What is what is your want? What is you? Huh No, No,
I was gonna say what wasn't you want to six
some part? But then maybe that was a different guy.
He was the one of six in part. No, that
was that was you you getting your Asians pretty v
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you keep you keep sucking up your Asian talk. Sorry,
what's funny? What's actually what's funny about that is Um,
me and Jin, we we did a song together years
ago about how people get us confused. So like his
whole his whole verses like people being like, ain't you
not do for a while now? And my whole verses
about like people coming up to me like ain't you
not do for one or six? In part and people
(11:24):
always getting this mixed stuff. Um. I actually used Jen's
name to try and get girls back when Jin was
on one or six and Park, like, because because me
and Jim high key like not even on some all
Asians look alike ship, but like back in the day,
you know, we like we really looked alike. Like, um,
I remember when Jim was first popping on one of
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six and Park. My boy called me and he was like, Yo,
it's a dude, Asian dude on wan us to this park.
He's rapping. He looks like you. And I was like, yeah,
whatever are you just saying that because he's Asian? Blah blah, blah,
and I turned on BT and I was like, Yo,
what the this fool looks like me? And I was
kind of upset. Um. But then I was probably you know,
in high school, and I was going around. I mean,
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these girls were following me around, Um, not Scary Farm,
which is like a thing they do out here. Uh,
it's not to Bury Farm. It's a theme park and
every Halloween they do not Scary Farm. Anyways, these girls
were follow me around because they thought I was Jin
and everybody was like, hate you that I asked that
boy from one or six and part blah blah blah
blah blah. And so he was like him, are you saying?
And I was well no, And then they were like
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are you that boy for one of six in park?
And I was like, yeah, that's me. And then there
was like if you gen wrapped in so I spent
some of my bars and it was like that was cute,
You're not Gen, and I was like, no, I'm not Jin.
And I also tried to get Kyla Pratt's number by
telling her I was Jin. Um Oh, I love kind
of Pratt. You man me too. And this was like
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way back at the So it was at the South
Bay Galleria Mall in Torrance, and I saw Kyler practice
and I was like, yo, that's kind of pratt and
she was getting like some little stir fry situation. And
I was like, all right, I'm gonna go. I'm gonna
go try and get her number. And I was like,
aren't you that girl from that show? She was like yeah,
And I was like, all right, well, I don't know
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if you watched one or six in part, but you know, um,
my name's Jen. I've been doing the freestyle fridays on there.
And she was like okay, and I was like, well,
look if you tell the truth. So she gave you
the number. You weren't that mate his thing. It didn't
even work because I was like, all right, well, let
me know if you need, like, you know, a little
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guests guests me want me to do guest apparents on
on your show, blah blah blah. She was like okay,
and then turned around and didn't say shoot up. So
I was like, all right, all right, Oh, she wasn't
worried about She was not worried about Timothy. Didn't know
what I was talking about. So this is crazy, yo,
tip An, We'll be right back this break y'all. You
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know what time it is. Gon'll be some moone Tim
and the building. We'll be right back, y'all gonna be amount.
We are back with more women. A while. In our podcast,
we have our guests on the show today, Tim and
my girl Pretty V. Tim talked to us, So, Tim, um, um,
(14:17):
what is what is hard? Being um the only Asian
America on the show on while? Um, what was it hard? Well?
You know what, No, I'll tell you. I'll tell you. Um.
I mean like I was telling be Simone like when um,
like when I was going to school and Paramount rap
battling and stuff. Um, you know, I was used to
(14:39):
being the only Asian in the crowd just roasting each other.
You know what I'm saying. I feel like that's kind
of how I learned how to come back. Yeah. Yeah,
because you know the thing about it is stereotypical jokes. Yeah,
because it's the same old we're going to come at you. Yeah. Yeah,
I've I've had the clap backs for that since I
was like fourteen, you know I'm saying. So when I
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came onto the show, I knew what it was gonna be.
So as soon as they started hitting me with the
like I think con was the first. Connor dough Boy
was the first person to really hit me with the
you know, eat the eat the dog a joke, and
I already had the Oh but nah, but I eat
your mom's pussy like locked and loading, you know what
I'm saying. But I would say, yeah, you know, but
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I would say the The difficult part for that is, like,
you know, when I roast back, when I'm in the
wild style, I'm not. I can't hit him with the
black Joe, black joe, black joke, you know what I'm saying.
But when they come at like if I'm talking to Loas,
I gotta hit Loas with a low specific joke talking
about his beard, talking about this. When they're coming at me,
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it's it's only Asian jokes. No one's coming at me
with tim jokes, you know what I'm saying. So it's
low key, like I feel like I'm fighting for my
whole race of people's hit the whole community, you know
what I'm saying, because like you know, out my physical apearance,
they're not Yeah, it might hit me with a short joke.
Community los might hit me with an acne joke, but
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for the most part is Asian jokes. Right, So I
gotta like, I can't I can't come at like Chico
with a black joke, lose with a black joke. I
mean yeah, like I've had a couple in the past
and like I feel like, um, since I grew up
in a very diverse school, like, um, I knew how
to do the jokes right, you feel me? Um, But
I think for me that was a struggle where it's like, Okay,
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I know they're gonna come at with with Asian jokes,
but I got clip backs for these ready to go,
but I also have to be um creative with mine.
You feel me? So what is fun? So Tim, Yeah,
the word influencer, how do you feel about it? Do
you feel like you like what? I mean? Do you
like determine influencer? I mean, do you consider yourself? I mean,
(16:51):
like you know what I'm actually I don't know. I
definitely yeah, I look, I feel like I definitely do
influenza things. Um, it's not my favorite term. I like
that people kind of moved to like, I like creator.
I like that over influencer because I feel like, you know,
they want to call everybody, um, you know that has
a social media following an influencer. But I feel like
(17:13):
not everybody should have influence, you know what I'm saying,
Like especially a lot of people. Everybody should, but a
lot of people. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So I
feel like, you know, when you got people just doing
silly ship just for like like just stupid silly ship,
and like now you want to call this person, Oh,
they're an influencer. I just don't like influence in the
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culture to be yeah you know, yeah, you're letting somebody
carry and carry that weight like they got they got influence,
And I'm like, no, that sounds not everybody should have that.
I feel like, yeah, okay, yeah we need some creators,
Like yeah, okay, you might create like dumbass content, but
you're still creating it, you know. And I'm not mad
at that. Um. And you know, you know I do
fault you know, I know I do influencer creator things,
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but also you know, I like I like that. Um.
People also can look at my resume and though I
do other things as well, you know what I'm saying, Yeah,
but I'm not I'm not mad. Yeah, Like, yes, I
definitely will you know, I'll push some uh some some
flat tummy t for a check if that's when it
comes down to, because you know, we are you know,
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or promoting something or brand or doing influencers ship. But
I like, I like now, I'm like my bioa said,
you know how you can put like podcasts or business
or whatever. Mind says entrepreneur. I'm a standing the comedian.
I have my own business. Like, at the end of
the day, I'm an entrepreneur. I'm a serial entrepreneur. Every
single outlet for us is a different source of income.
So we're just entrepreneurs and influencer or creator falls under
(18:42):
that whatever. Yeah, well we're trying to get like that's
what I just said. I'm trying to get like you.
But I said that to say we're single and you
know we're dating, we're doing whatever, but you're married, you
have a baby, Like, how do you keep us aren't?
Because I need some I need some tips with that
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because I'm being quick. I'm like, it's been all right,
it's being a It's like, Okay, here's the thing I think, um,
you know the beautiful thing about like love and marriage
and all that, uh is it's not even necessarily about
like a spark anymore, you know, because I've you know,
me and Chia Uh. I think the beauty of it
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is we like being bored together, you know what I'm saying.
Like it's never like yeah like we were were really
we like hanging out. It's it's weird saying like yeah,
like hey, we're best friends, but like that's what it is,
you know, and like for us, you know, we're not
so much worried about the spark like we like just
you know, like, man, this is great, this is you,
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this is me. We're chilling like with Like it's when
you find somebody that you are comfortable with being bored with.
I think that's like that's when you know, yeah all
the time, that's when you you know, this is really
you know, like I definitely, you know, I have my time.
I definitely got bored with people with with with women
when I was dating and doing my thing like a lot,
(20:08):
you know what I'm saying, Um and um. I think
with her, from early on, I just knew it was different.
I'll tell you when one reason why I knew she
was different from the jump, all right, and it was
just okay, so you know I was you know I was.
I was still talking like in like single or I
don't know if you're gonna want to do this, but
I'll tell you will work for me. Um early early on, Uh, well,
(20:33):
I was just kind of like doing my thing right
and we we we hung out and then uh the
first night like we spent together, I was like, all right, well,
I'm gonna take a ship and and and shower and
she was like okay. And the fact that she didn't
say oh my god, too much information or like, oh
my god, did you have to tell me that, or
oh my god, you're so gross, I was like, she's different.
(20:55):
She's and I was like, yo, she's different. Where because me,
I know, I like to talk about poop a lot.
I like to joke about pooping, and I like to
you know, um, I just like I like talking about poop.
As to the fact that she was like unfazed, Yeah,
I just like she and the fact that she was
unfazed by me being like, all right, I'm gonna take
a ship. I was like, she's she's special. She's different
(21:19):
because she adores my ship. Yes, she's different, but what
do you mean like, no spark, No, I mean look,
because like you know I think. I mean, obviously you're
not like having butterflies every day and every day is
in romance. But I'm saying it has to be some
type of feeling. I mean definitely, but like, here's the thing.
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A spark is is like you know, you feel chemistry, right,
chemistry and like, oh, fireworks, spark, this is spark. But
we've been together. I mean, we've been together for ten years.
So it's like, you know, almost you have to put
effort into sparking ship at this point because I was
just telling her yes, and I was talking like low
(22:01):
key and I'll tell you like um, because you know,
she was walking up the stairs with the baby the
other day and like she had like a big gass
shirt on her assholes out, she's just in some panties,
and like when you're with somebody for ten years, you
know you kind of get you kind of just walked
by your wife with her ass out, and you know
you sometimes you might not like realize like, oh this
is some sexy ship's sexy. Yeah. Yeah, so I really
(22:24):
have to be like I have to stop and be like,
wait her asses out, this is a good ass. I
have to stop and look and be like this is hot,
you know what I'm saying, Like, I really I feel
like it's more like an effort. You have to put
it in and be like, this is some sexy ship
and it you know every day you have to be
intentional with it, right, um. And also like I feel
like it's important to um prioritize your wife the way
(22:47):
you would um prioritize like things that you kind of
have on your list, Like I feel like it's easy
to be like, yo, I gotta get this money, I
gotta get this work, and then you kinda it's easy
too for people who have our mindset of like work
and grinding and hustling. She was like to have to
accidentally put things on the back burner, you feel me,
and so I for for her, I try to make
(23:07):
sure that like I will um show up the same
way I would for like a shoot for a meeting,
Like if we have something scheduled like a date or
like something we're doing that I make sure, like you know,
I'm not gonna take no like business calls, I'm not
gonna be on my phone, like I'm like committing my
time to this the way I would commit my time
(23:29):
to my workship. You know you hear that. That's called
intent intentions. What are your intentions? Intent? I'm walking around
no no intent? What is your intent from the day right?
What you're gonna do? What you're gonna do intention and
have to be intentional, You have to. And you know,
(23:50):
like and for people who I feel like are in
long long time relationships and you or long term relationships
and you feel like, uh, like you know, I know
somebody who's like, man, you don't want to be with
my girl for so long? And and I don't, you know,
kind of like I don't really see her like the
same way because you know, she's too comfy and like
she's just like walking around uh in big gass shirts
(24:13):
all the time, and like it's not like he's like,
you know, he doesn't really see her the same way.
I'm like, well, brought for me, you know, like you
ever just pick her up just some sexy ships to
throw on, like lingerie or like you know, something like
just so that you know it's hot. I'm sure she
would be down, like she wants to be hot for you,
of course, but she might not know how you feel,
you know, and like especially just like how he's telling
(24:36):
you he need to tell her have these conversations with
your significant other. No nobody's saying like you're not hot anymore,
but have these conversations. If that's your friend, if y'all
are best friends, if y'all are in a relationship, y'all
should be able to have these conversations and be honest
with your partners so you don't have to cheat and
look for you know, give them a chance to fix it.
Exactly yeah, man, especially with exactly right, And especially when
(25:01):
I knew when we were trying to make a baby,
and I knew were just gonna be getting it in
like like a lot, like you know, I knew I
was gonna get a little tired. So I was like, look,
I just bought like five slutty ass outfits feed the
thrown just in case I get a little antress something.
And I remember that week when she was like ovulating.
When she was ovulating, I was like, all right, look man,
(25:23):
I'm tired, but you throw on this cheerleader outfit. I
think we're gonna be good to go. And so it
was like every night it was like that when she
got pregnant, in we'll see what I think. It's hard
to tell because it was getting in that whole week.
So I like sometimes I joke him like, I wonder
what did it? Was it? Like the cheerleader outfit was
at the sea through thing? Was it the uh? Was
it the While and out girl T shirt? I don't know, man,
(25:49):
but I love ship like that though him. I love
I love those type of things. I love to definitely yeah.
Was it the road the pink roll for God? Yeah? Yeah?
Would you give your girl? Like would you give your
girl like a day pass to like freak with her
fantasy man crush? You know what's funny is we we
always joke like we got a celebrity pass um and
(26:12):
uh and I uh, you know, I always joke like, oh,
you know, would you be you know, like, okay, maybe
you know if I could hook us up for you,
I would for her? You know what I'm saying, Because
for her it was like it was Channing Tatum for
a minute. Um. And I was like, I was like, look, man,
if I ever get to a situation where I could
talk to this dude and make this happen for you,
(26:33):
I'm I might. I might do that. But She's like no,
I'm not serious. I'm like, oh, all right, man, because
because at the same time, if you like to give
her a pants so yoo asking Yeah exactly. Wait who
would your crush me outside of your beautiful wife? Man? Um?
You know, for a long time was Nicole Schortzinger Um,
(26:58):
And up until I got pregnant, it was Rihanna. I mean,
who's who's not who's not so fine? Matthew Mkonda hair.
But I could go for some Doja Cat too. If
Doja Cat was with it, I put her, Yeah, definitely.
I also like that she's weird, you know what I'm saying.
(27:20):
But I like, yeah, I just love how she's herself,
Like she's different, she's herself. She's like goofy and like
you said, weird, which is it's not the average norm,
but in a good way herself you don't care about. Yeah,
I love that. Yeah. Yeah, so Tim, what's up with you?
(27:40):
A Big Baby? I'll still working, Yeah, I mean big Baby,
we still got new episodes basically to booge you that
are gonna drop. I think this is like the fifth
fifth season the basis booze you've been doing um And yeah,
I just I was just texting Big Baby too. Uh
And you know that's my guy. We definitely like bond.
We bonded from doing Basics to Booze you together something
(28:01):
like this. Yeah, man, that's my boy. You know, it's
just a good time. I think when we got put
together for that show, it was like we knew, we
knew it would be funny. But then like we really
kind of built like a bond through that show. And
that's my guy. Um, you know, um, I think, uh,
you know, trying to see what's up with doing some
other stuff with him. Um, I've been telling MTV like, man,
(28:21):
y'all just stopped working around and give us a give
us a show. You know what happened? Yeah, that makes sense.
So then what's coming up next to him? Tell us
what's coming up next? When we let you go and
you know, get you back to your daddy duties, what
is next? Yeah, well what's coming up next? You know what?
(28:42):
So I haven't so this year will actually be the
first like the ten year anniversary of the last like
full ass like album I put out on some rap shit.
So um, the people that really like f with my
music have been bugging me, and I kept telling them like, yeah,
I'm gonna do some new ship. But I really have
been dropping like maybe like a year a song a
(29:02):
year for the past a few years. I actually want
to really commit to trying to crank out like a
full project this year, a couple like four or five records. No,
I'm doing twelve tracks someone and then um and um,
you know, I'm trying to like I'm trying to write,
just write my own movie. Get it done, sell it,
(29:24):
get it done. Like, um, you know, I've been auditioning
of course, Like, but I'm really just trying to write
my own ship because I feel like it's a good
time people. You know, Hollywood's really finally UMU. The movie
is about like I'm writing a couple. I'm trying to
do like a new age Harold and Kumar for this generation.
But like me and my other comedian homie, I'm gonna
(29:45):
have him played my brother and we're trying to like
save the family's restaurant. But like I'm trying to yeah yeah, yeah,
so it should be funny. Um and uh, you know,
I feel like it's a good time because Hollywood's finally
really beginning to put Asian dudes and stuff, you know
what I'm saying, for the for the first time. So
it's like, you know, she's getting she's getting wet right now.
(30:06):
So I'm really trying to ride, like get in there
and uh and and and just get my own ship going.
You know, write me in a row period. Okay, I
just gonna be nasty. Okay, Well, all I gotta do
is that all I want to do is just be
the cash were just a lady. Let's see. You know,
I always some people that I always tell people that
(30:27):
when they're doing something. I'm doing a movie, I always like,
just put me in the girl that's walking through the
corner stone. I just want to wink at the camera
and they're gonna know it's me, or like they had
to rewind it be like like that's all I wanted.
Just give me that time. And I've had two many
of those wrong, I'm tim Okay, So give us a quote.
It's so quote when we literally leave, you know, the podcast,
(30:51):
we always tell our guests to give us a quote,
something inspiring and affirmation, whatever quote you may live by,
something positive and don't say nothing about like my dick
is too short and I live good, Like I don't
want to hear that. I give you. I give you
two quotes. One has to do with my dick and
another one that has his life right. So the Dick
quote is, um, it's something my dad hasn't telling me
since I was a little kid, right, And he's like, yes, yes,
(31:15):
I'll tell you right now. And he's like, he's like,
you know what they say. He's like because Thai chili's.
He's like, Thai penises are like Thai chili's. They're not
the biggest ones, but they're the most powerful. And so
you know, because because when you cook with Thi chili's,
they're like the most like spiciest chilis you can use.
So he's like, Thai chilies are like Thai penises, and
I might be big, but they are the strongest ones.
(31:36):
So I let him tell, you know, I let the
world know because he's trying to he's trying to pass
this knowledge onto me and give me this game. You
don't tell you that. As soon as I came out
the womb, that was my first word he was. He
was like, this is how you got here, the Thai
chili potency, right. And second all right, so um, I
(32:00):
always tell people, um that I don't to Uh what's
the quote? It's a don't look at your goals as dreams.
Look at them as destinations. All right, now, let me explain, okay,
because I always tell kids, like, when you think of
a dream, you know what I'm saying, it's like it
feels like something that's kind of like far away and
and and like when you think of dream, you think
(32:21):
of like flying on unicorns. Uh, and like and your
and your legs turn to spaghetti or something like that.
You know I'm saying. I say, look at your goals
and destinations. Yeah, like a fair tale, Because I say,
if you look at it like a destination, then it's
something that you know that's there, and if you keep
working towards it, you're gonna get there. You feel needle,
because like you're gonna get there as long as you
keep moving forward, you'll get there eventually, you know. So
(32:44):
it's like a real tangible thing that you can have
um in your vision. You feel me it exists. So
I always tell people like, like when they asked me, like, yo,
how does it feel to be living your dream? I'm like,
I never looked at like having a career in entertainment
as a dream. I looked at it as something that
if I put in the work and I kept making
the rightness is gonna happen. It would just happen, you
(33:07):
know what I'm saying. Like the same way where if
you want to be a doctor, you know you gotta
go to you know, biology pre med med school and
it's gonna be a long time, but you eventually get
your doctorate. That's how I looked at everything I'm doing now, Like,
as long as I put in the right work and
keep making these moves and keep making like steps, even
if they're baby steps, I knew I was gonna get
(33:27):
here eventually as long as I stayed consistent. And that's
why I tell people, don't look at your goals as dreams.
Look at them as destinations. So you know, it's not
a matter of if, it's just a matter of when. Okay,
that's the first like motivational thing I've ever heard you say, yeah,
because I mean, we never had a real conversation. We
just be goofing and gaffing. You know what I'm saying,
(33:48):
you'd be goofing help me, and I'm gonna be and
I would be very honest. Though there's a lot of
talented souls on Wilding now, but it's a lot of
them on their show too. That got a lot of knowledge,
and you don't get to know them until after we
leave a break we have one of these podcast episodes.
You know, Tim, we love you so much, We really do.
(34:08):
And I pray that God would just continue to order
your steps and you continue to be the daddy, the
best daddy that you can be, and your wife continue
to the best husband, and then you're you know, and
your wife continued to spark the spark, and yeall continue
to make magic. Your union is basic coming to town. Hey, ladies,
(34:30):
thanks for having me. I appreciate you both. Um, I
love your faces. I missed your faces. I hope that
tell me your favorite thing about me and then you
can go um aside from them take all. But now
I'm just playing, um my favorite I wish I can see.
My favorite thing about you, be Simone, is you know
your positive energy. You know what I'm saying. I felt
(34:50):
your light from the moment I met you, and that's
why I was always been one of your biggest cheerleaders.
Right here. Thank you so much, Tim, Love Me, Women
About Not Podcast signing out with Tim Mathee Say it again,
Captain Ron, I write y'all stay tunes. Don't leave. You
(35:16):
gotta take a real quick break. Stay right there, We'll
be right back. So we are bad with the women
of Bousing Out has pretty v V Samon. We just
had our boys, Tim on the show. I still am
not gonna mess up his last name. I'm you know
how you're messing up the whole show. I did Tim?
(35:39):
I think so you don't put my name in it.
Tim is so sweet, like he's scared. He's so smart,
he's so passionate about what he does. Oh my god,
he is just everything. He's just so everything. But do
you follow him? Have you seen his baby? I mean
I follow everybody on wild Out app don't do a man?
(36:00):
Why are you hating on him like that child? Be
beef over the little thing? Like you wouldn't say the line,
and it's just like, yo, give me a second. I
was nervous. I was nervous. Well, you need to get
them nervous out. It's like I was nervous over there
eating pineapples. I want some. I mean they kicking my canvy.
(36:21):
I need a facial. Ain't gonna go to Done. I
don't know about Annie. Done does a great job. She
would love to such a scam. Um, you guys, this
episode was phenomenal because we haven't seen him in a minute. Um,
you know, so I'm happy that we were to chop
it up. I haven't him since probably the last time
(36:43):
I saw him, and so my stuff here and there
on social media. But I love how he said him
and his girl are best friends, like best friends, so
you want to have that friendship first as a foundation.
So if anything happens, y'all get into what you're gonna
have your rough patches. The spark is gone, y'all are
still friends, but I have you shape the love today
from Tim and you already know what time it is.
(37:04):
My quote today is just a delay is never denied.
Are you saying that every delay ever did that? Okay?
Let the scripture and that's only he said. The only
thing to do I told you, Oh yeah, a delay
is never a gal to keep fast and remember sound
(37:30):
me on the Sabbay? Alright, me, come on, now, what
is the quote? I did want to last song? The
lays even to that, Okay, I got a code, a
goal without a plan. It's just a wish, yeah, just
I wish you gotta put some work behind that. That's
just facts. Okay, what are you gonna sur I was
(37:52):
gonna say, A faith that that works is day here
the same thing juice is one and one. In the
beginning God created and then no I had all of
animals and then John three sixteen, what's n three six TV?
And I'm gonna leave you alone. We're gonna, we're gonna come.
If you don't know John three sixteen, if you're not
really like did you? Every day? You send me your
mom on live talking about the noise, But you don't
(38:14):
like songs familiar it does? So what does it be?
So with John three sixteen, So it's John three sixteen,
you're a for guy so loved the word world that
he gives only come on and whoso well what come on?
Thank you? I don't know. I believe it in him
shall not perish? Come on. I haven't never lasked sing
(38:36):
hey more. But you should know that scriptures the only
one I know that I know that scripture. My mom
says all the time, Well I love y'all. So y'all
women A while in that podcast where it's John three
sixteen and DRN sixteen three, read your work, read your
word words st
Welcome to the women about on our podcast. You gut
baby girl, mom, but hey it's your girl. Why y'all? Girl,
pretty yore back your girl? Just ena be with pretty
D and D somebore? What's the boy? Give you anybody
to kill your show? Ladies? And tonight we're gonna have
(00:23):
the women a while and cats all the cars? What's up?
You got to your own beast to mount and I'm
with my beautiful corhouse, pretty be. You already know who
Pasamon is. You might know me from Wild and Now
Comedy Towards and Martin Lawrence doing stand up all over
(00:45):
the world. I know you can see me on your
TV and movies here and there, Baby got baby why
I don't want your timeline yelling, screaming, and y'all don't
seem pretty v everywhere? And Rea time where they see you?
What they do? What they do? What they do? You are?
What time? It is? Season? Christ Day? You are? You
know y'all see me a while? And now bt V
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(01:06):
got movies that shows that will back to come out.
You already know we just we just lave laugh, got merchandized,
Get your pretty view perfume. But anyways, we have a
guest today. We're do want to introduce our guests. Tim
He's an actor, he's an fluencer. He's in a while
(01:27):
and out veteran Timothy deg Ghetto. That was a horrible intro.
I know, all right, let me tea this. I guess.
I mean, we have a guest here, and it's like
our close frighten, our close buddy. I used to like
steal off of him and pick up and kill it.
I didn't know what I was saying, and I used
to always say he was the only person I wanted
(01:47):
to be your partner, the only person you know, because
I'm about to do it. I would look at being
and be like, look, if you're not gonna focus and
get their minds right, I'm not. I'm gonna go with this. Tina,
You're so crazy. Justina is very patient with me, okay,
d see your side is very it's very patient with
me and Timothy. Joe, get anybody else I'm saying his name. Yeah,
(02:10):
Chico was like, I'm not going to Carlo won't even
talk to me. Carlos won't even talk baby girl. Then
you are oh hell no, oh hell you I'm scared
to go to rookies. I'm like, I don't want to
messe your time. Don't dare ask me to go nowhere.
I ain't going save job. I'm gonna mess shop every
times me and look better than me as a rookie.
Do you know each time a guest would come, they
(02:32):
would choose you, just steal or do they try? Never
look at me to go against don't guests, And I
don't know why they take you. Rat told me up.
I'm still mad at her about man the rat win
on me and I said, I complimented, you know, it's
I'm just And they called me a veteran yesterday. I'm
a vet I thought I yesterday here you a you
a rookie, a rookie? Veit call me that this season? Rookie?
(02:54):
All right, y'all. So we aren't here with our guests
of the hourds Timothy they like ghetto but he changed
his name, hates him. He's up, Yes, I changed it
all up. It's it's good to it's can you say
my name though? Tim? No? No, I just sounded out.
It's just like Tim. It's Tim Chanta wrang suit, Tim
(03:24):
Chanta suit. So so what what name changed him? Man?
You know what, well, first of all, it's good to
see your faces, you know. I mean, I know they
can't they can't see us, but it's good to see you.
And it looks so beautiful right now, y'all looks so good.
I feel like I'm on a double zoom date and
(03:46):
I'm hyped, you know, like the middle two they told
us we couldn't they couldn't see us, But I was like,
I'm gonna get dressed with these girls. I took a shower,
I brushed my teeth, I scraped my tongue finally. Yeah,
you know, I haven't been brushing it through the whole pandemic,
but I was like, I'm brushing for the girls. How
(04:07):
do you find time to do all that stuff with
being a new father? Wait, I'll answer the first question.
First I changed Okay, So it was it was it
was a bunch of things, right. It was like I
had been thinking about just going by my real name
for like a couple of years, right, But then I
was like, you know, what's my brand? Is this and that? Um?
(04:30):
And then I was thinking like maybe I'll do the
like Curtis fifty cent Jackson, you know, tim Day La
Ghetto chant ron su. But then I was like chilling
at the house quarantine had just started, and I started
thinking about like life and my legacy and who I
am as a person. I was like, if I died,
let's say I caught COVID and died right now, right,
(04:52):
And I was like, do I want to be remembered
by this like silly YouTube name I made up? You know,
I got it from The Fresh Prince if people don't know,
like daylight Ghetto comes from an old episode of The
Fresh Prince where he like joins yeah, yeah, so he
you know, he joins it for those you don't know,
for the young uns out there, Will Smith joins a
(05:13):
poetry club to meet girls and he and he makes
up a poet named Raphael Day like ghetto, right, and
uh Fresh Prince was like such a huge inspiration from
me growing up. I was just trying to be like
the Asian Will Smith. Right, So one day when I
was freestyle and I was like yeah, blah blah blah
Timothy Day like ghetto and it just stuck. And so anyways, pandemic,
(05:34):
I'm thinking about life, I'm like, do I want to
be uh Day like Ghetto as my legacy, and I
was like, no, you know, I really you know, if
I died today, I kind of want people to really
remember like me. And I was like if and also
if I want to accomplish everything I want to accomplish,
like you know, like movies and awards and all that,
I don't want to be up on stage excepting as
(05:56):
Timothy Day like ghetto. You know what I'm saying. I'm like,
let me have them know my real last name. And plus,
like my whole m O was like, let me make
these little young Asian kids be proud of who they are,
proud of where they come from, and like, let me
embrace my Yeah. You know what I'm saying, because part
of the reason why you feel like a name exactly
because I felt like, you know, when I was younger.
(06:17):
I'm like, I need a stage name because the Hollywood
is not gonna want want like of this long ass
high name. You know what I'm saying. I like, I
need I need to switch up for for the industry. Right.
But then but then I thought about him, like, Okay,
if they can pronounce Arnold Schwartzenegger and the Cole Switchinger,
you know what I'm saying they can learn. Yeah, And
(06:39):
so I was like, let me just go ahead and
fully like embrace, embrace that part that name, so these
little kids can be like, Okay, yeah, people think my
name sounds funny. But if like Tim can be like
fully embrace that ship, that I can embrace it. And
also like you know, my dad, I'm like one of
the last Chanta wrong su was out here in the world.
I was like, let me, let me go ahead and
hold it down for my family. We um and all
(07:02):
thank you. And also, you know, like these young uns
that don't know it comes from the Fresh Prince. The
young the young uns are like why did that man
call himself ghetto? You know what I'm saying, like yeah,
like so and I realized, you know, I was explaining
a lot. I'm like, yeah, it's from the Fresh Prince,
blah blah blah. But then I was like, the older
I get, the younger they're gonna get, they're not gonna
(07:24):
know where it's from. And so I was like, let
me just go ahead and like I've been meaning to
do this, and let me just take this time while
the world is is kind of quiet to like reset
you know what I'm saying yeah, So that's that's that's
when we start doing that. When you start having babies,
they start maturing, like yeah, I'm sitting by myself. No,
you were sitting with that baby. And that's her last name.
This was pre baby. It is her last name. She
(07:46):
was like. My wife was like, you don't want to
just give her my last name so she don't have
to go through learning to spell it like you did.
I was like, no, no, no, no, Now this baby
is gonna learn this long ass name. Yeah, other's last
name exactly. Yes, man, the name change the name. You
don't got a baby on us, you didn't got married
(08:09):
on us. So like b x before this is your
second question. Um, so how's the daddy life? Man? Let
me tell you pretty, because I know how Peanut treat me.
He's a handful of the house and he's visiting, so
your town is much more of a handful. Man. Um
(08:30):
let me tell you daddy life is lit. I love it.
Uh you know what I mean. The baby and all
your youtubes and all your here's the thing, right, my
I needed my lights and engagement to go up. So
I was like, let me just have this baby, get
these Instagram lights up. You know what I'm saying, But
(08:52):
you baby, it's cute, because some babies may be showing
them too soon. It's like, get a minute growing to features.
Man facts, let's let's let the let the moush it's
unmushified before you put it out there, like come out.
But yeah, man, she's she's cute. It's lit Um, it's
so fun. Um. You know, I see where Nick is
coming from. I might just work around and have like
eight kids like Nick. You know what I'm saying, because
(09:13):
it's I'm having I'm having a good time, you know. Um,
It's it really is, you know, like not to be
on some cliche what everybody says, but it really is,
like you know what I'm saying, You look into the
eyes of your child and it kind of gives you, um,
a new motivation in life, you know what I'm saying,
Like a new purpose. Yeah, yeah, a new purpose. While
(09:35):
I was feeling kind of um comfortable and unmotivated, you know,
I feel like she kind of gives me a reason
to go back to grinding again, you know, to really
get back to work. Yeah. You know, because it's like
you make a little money, you get a little comfortable
you get a little like you don't really feel like
putting in work like you used to when you were
(09:55):
like broke, you know what I'm saying. But now it's like, okay, yeah,
another reason to really get on my my ship again.
You know, I have to check her out. She is
so beautiful and she's beautiful. She looks like me when
I was tim Like, you're you're so like for the culture.
You know, I've seen like your YouTube and like you're
(10:17):
wrapping and just everybody, And I just want to know, like, like, no, seriously,
like you you're so like well rounded and like for
African Americans. You know you've been around it. You probably
you know, you lived it, you know, so I want
to know, like where did you grow up? And like
how did you get your start? Like you know, how
did you make you know, funny or full time job
(10:38):
like you know you came from. Wasn't rat battling? And sure,
let's let's talk about it pretty um not when up?
So I mean, let's talk about it. What is you?
What is what is your want? What is you? Huh No, No,
I was gonna say what wasn't you want to six
some part? But then maybe that was a different guy.
He was the one of six in part. No, that
was that was you you getting your Asians pretty v
(11:03):
you keep you keep sucking up your Asian talk. Sorry,
what's funny? What's actually what's funny about that is Um,
me and Jin, we we did a song together years
ago about how people get us confused. So like his
whole his whole verses like people being like, ain't you
not do for a while now? And my whole verses
about like people coming up to me like ain't you
not do for one or six? In part and people
(11:24):
always getting this mixed stuff. Um. I actually used Jen's
name to try and get girls back when Jin was
on one or six and Park, like, because because me
and Jim high key like not even on some all
Asians look alike ship, but like back in the day,
you know, we like we really looked alike. Like, um,
I remember when Jim was first popping on one of
(11:46):
six and Park. My boy called me and he was like, Yo,
it's a dude, Asian dude on wan us to this park.
He's rapping. He looks like you. And I was like, yeah,
whatever are you just saying that because he's Asian? Blah blah, blah,
and I turned on BT and I was like, Yo,
what the this fool looks like me? And I was
kind of upset. Um. But then I was probably you know,
in high school, and I was going around. I mean,
(12:08):
these girls were following me around, Um, not Scary Farm,
which is like a thing they do out here. Uh,
it's not to Bury Farm. It's a theme park and
every Halloween they do not Scary Farm. Anyways, these girls
were follow me around because they thought I was Jin
and everybody was like, hate you that I asked that
boy from one or six and part blah blah blah
blah blah. And so he was like him, are you saying?
And I was well no, And then they were like
(12:29):
are you that boy for one of six in park?
And I was like, yeah, that's me. And then there
was like if you gen wrapped in so I spent
some of my bars and it was like that was cute,
You're not Gen, and I was like, no, I'm not Jin.
And I also tried to get Kyla Pratt's number by
telling her I was Jin. Um Oh, I love kind
of Pratt. You man me too. And this was like
(12:52):
way back at the So it was at the South
Bay Galleria Mall in Torrance, and I saw Kyler practice
and I was like, yo, that's kind of pratt and
she was getting like some little stir fry situation. And
I was like, all right, I'm gonna go. I'm gonna
go try and get her number. And I was like,
aren't you that girl from that show? She was like yeah,
And I was like, all right, well, I don't know
(13:13):
if you watched one or six in part, but you know, um,
my name's Jen. I've been doing the freestyle fridays on there.
And she was like okay, and I was like, well,
look if you tell the truth. So she gave you
the number. You weren't that mate his thing. It didn't
even work because I was like, all right, well, let
me know if you need, like, you know, a little
(13:33):
guests guests me want me to do guest apparents on
on your show, blah blah blah. She was like okay,
and then turned around and didn't say shoot up. So
I was like, all right, all right, Oh, she wasn't
worried about She was not worried about Timothy. Didn't know
what I was talking about. So this is crazy, yo,
tip An, We'll be right back this break y'all. You
(13:55):
know what time it is. Gon'll be some moone Tim
and the building. We'll be right back, y'all gonna be amount.
We are back with more women. A while. In our podcast,
we have our guests on the show today, Tim and
my girl Pretty V. Tim talked to us, So, Tim, um, um,
(14:17):
what is what is hard? Being um the only Asian
America on the show on while? Um, what was it hard? Well?
You know what, No, I'll tell you. I'll tell you. Um.
I mean like I was telling be Simone like when um,
like when I was going to school and Paramount rap
battling and stuff. Um, you know, I was used to
(14:39):
being the only Asian in the crowd just roasting each other.
You know what I'm saying. I feel like that's kind
of how I learned how to come back. Yeah. Yeah,
because you know the thing about it is stereotypical jokes. Yeah,
because it's the same old we're going to come at you. Yeah. Yeah,
I've I've had the clap backs for that since I
was like fourteen, you know I'm saying. So when I
(15:01):
came onto the show, I knew what it was gonna be.
So as soon as they started hitting me with the
like I think con was the first. Connor dough Boy
was the first person to really hit me with the
you know, eat the eat the dog a joke, and
I already had the Oh but nah, but I eat
your mom's pussy like locked and loading, you know what
I'm saying. But I would say, yeah, you know, but
(15:24):
I would say the The difficult part for that is, like,
you know, when I roast back, when I'm in the
wild style, I'm not. I can't hit him with the
black Joe, black joe, black joke, you know what I'm saying.
But when they come at like if I'm talking to Loas,
I gotta hit Loas with a low specific joke talking
about his beard, talking about this. When they're coming at me,
(15:46):
it's it's only Asian jokes. No one's coming at me
with tim jokes, you know what I'm saying. So it's
low key, like I feel like I'm fighting for my
whole race of people's hit the whole community, you know
what I'm saying, because like you know, out my physical apearance,
they're not Yeah, it might hit me with a short joke.
Community los might hit me with an acne joke, but
(16:07):
for the most part is Asian jokes. Right, So I
gotta like, I can't I can't come at like Chico
with a black joke, lose with a black joke. I
mean yeah, like I've had a couple in the past
and like I feel like, um, since I grew up
in a very diverse school, like, um, I knew how
to do the jokes right, you feel me? Um, But
I think for me that was a struggle where it's like, Okay,
(16:28):
I know they're gonna come at with with Asian jokes,
but I got clip backs for these ready to go,
but I also have to be um creative with mine.
You feel me? So what is fun? So Tim, Yeah,
the word influencer, how do you feel about it? Do
you feel like you like what? I mean? Do you
like determine influencer? I mean, do you consider yourself? I mean,
(16:51):
like you know what I'm actually I don't know. I
definitely yeah, I look, I feel like I definitely do
influenza things. Um, it's not my favorite term. I like
that people kind of moved to like, I like creator.
I like that over influencer because I feel like, you know,
they want to call everybody, um, you know that has
a social media following an influencer. But I feel like
(17:13):
not everybody should have influence, you know what I'm saying,
Like especially a lot of people. Everybody should, but a
lot of people. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So I
feel like, you know, when you got people just doing
silly ship just for like like just stupid silly ship,
and like now you want to call this person, Oh,
they're an influencer. I just don't like influence in the
(17:34):
culture to be yeah you know, yeah, you're letting somebody
carry and carry that weight like they got they got influence,
And I'm like, no, that sounds not everybody should have that.
I feel like, yeah, okay, yeah we need some creators,
Like yeah, okay, you might create like dumbass content, but
you're still creating it, you know. And I'm not mad
at that. Um. And you know, you know I do
fault you know, I know I do influencer creator things,
(17:56):
but also you know, I like I like that. Um.
People also can look at my resume and though I
do other things as well, you know what I'm saying, Yeah,
but I'm not I'm not mad. Yeah, Like, yes, I
definitely will you know, I'll push some uh some some
flat tummy t for a check if that's when it
comes down to, because you know, we are you know,
(18:18):
or promoting something or brand or doing influencers ship. But
I like, I like now, I'm like my bioa said,
you know how you can put like podcasts or business
or whatever. Mind says entrepreneur. I'm a standing the comedian.
I have my own business. Like, at the end of
the day, I'm an entrepreneur. I'm a serial entrepreneur. Every
single outlet for us is a different source of income.
So we're just entrepreneurs and influencer or creator falls under
(18:42):
that whatever. Yeah, well we're trying to get like that's
what I just said. I'm trying to get like you.
But I said that to say we're single and you
know we're dating, we're doing whatever, but you're married, you
have a baby, Like, how do you keep us aren't?
Because I need some I need some tips with that
(19:02):
because I'm being quick. I'm like, it's been all right,
it's being a It's like, Okay, here's the thing I think, um,
you know the beautiful thing about like love and marriage
and all that, uh is it's not even necessarily about
like a spark anymore, you know, because I've you know,
me and Chia Uh. I think the beauty of it
(19:25):
is we like being bored together, you know what I'm saying.
Like it's never like yeah like we were were really
we like hanging out. It's it's weird saying like yeah,
like hey, we're best friends, but like that's what it is,
you know, and like for us, you know, we're not
so much worried about the spark like we like just
you know, like, man, this is great, this is you,
(19:47):
this is me. We're chilling like with Like it's when
you find somebody that you are comfortable with being bored with.
I think that's like that's when you know, yeah all
the time, that's when you you know, this is really
you know, like I definitely, you know, I have my time.
I definitely got bored with people with with with women
when I was dating and doing my thing like a lot,
(20:08):
you know what I'm saying, Um and um. I think
with her, from early on, I just knew it was different.
I'll tell you when one reason why I knew she
was different from the jump, all right, and it was
just okay, so you know I was you know I was.
I was still talking like in like single or I
don't know if you're gonna want to do this, but
I'll tell you will work for me. Um early early on, Uh, well,
(20:33):
I was just kind of like doing my thing right
and we we we hung out and then uh the
first night like we spent together, I was like, all right, well,
I'm gonna take a ship and and and shower and
she was like okay. And the fact that she didn't
say oh my god, too much information or like, oh
my god, did you have to tell me that, or
oh my god, you're so gross, I was like, she's different.
(20:55):
She's and I was like, yo, she's different. Where because me,
I know, I like to talk about poop a lot.
I like to joke about pooping, and I like to
you know, um, I just like I like talking about poop.
As to the fact that she was like unfazed, Yeah,
I just like she and the fact that she was
unfazed by me being like, all right, I'm gonna take
a ship. I was like, she's she's special. She's different
(21:19):
because she adores my ship. Yes, she's different, but what
do you mean like, no spark, No, I mean look,
because like you know I think. I mean, obviously you're
not like having butterflies every day and every day is
in romance. But I'm saying it has to be some
type of feeling. I mean definitely, but like, here's the thing.
(21:40):
A spark is is like you know, you feel chemistry, right,
chemistry and like, oh, fireworks, spark, this is spark. But
we've been together. I mean, we've been together for ten years.
So it's like, you know, almost you have to put
effort into sparking ship at this point because I was
just telling her yes, and I was talking like low
(22:01):
key and I'll tell you like um, because you know,
she was walking up the stairs with the baby the
other day and like she had like a big gass
shirt on her assholes out, she's just in some panties,
and like when you're with somebody for ten years, you
know you kind of get you kind of just walked
by your wife with her ass out, and you know
you sometimes you might not like realize like, oh this
is some sexy ship's sexy. Yeah. Yeah, so I really
(22:24):
have to be like I have to stop and be like,
wait her asses out, this is a good ass. I
have to stop and look and be like this is hot,
you know what I'm saying, Like, I really I feel
like it's more like an effort. You have to put
it in and be like, this is some sexy ship
and it you know every day you have to be
intentional with it, right, um. And also like I feel
like it's important to um prioritize your wife the way
(22:47):
you would um prioritize like things that you kind of
have on your list, Like I feel like it's easy
to be like, yo, I gotta get this money, I
gotta get this work, and then you kinda it's easy
too for people who have our mindset of like work
and grinding and hustling. She was like to have to
accidentally put things on the back burner, you feel me,
and so I for for her, I try to make
(23:07):
sure that like I will um show up the same
way I would for like a shoot for a meeting,
Like if we have something scheduled like a date or
like something we're doing that I make sure, like you know,
I'm not gonna take no like business calls, I'm not
gonna be on my phone, like I'm like committing my
time to this the way I would commit my time
(23:29):
to my workship. You know you hear that. That's called
intent intentions. What are your intentions? Intent? I'm walking around
no no intent? What is your intent from the day right?
What you're gonna do? What you're gonna do intention and
have to be intentional, You have to. And you know,
(23:50):
like and for people who I feel like are in
long long time relationships and you or long term relationships
and you feel like, uh, like you know, I know
somebody who's like, man, you don't want to be with
my girl for so long? And and I don't, you know,
kind of like I don't really see her like the
same way because you know, she's too comfy and like
she's just like walking around uh in big gass shirts
(24:13):
all the time, and like it's not like he's like,
you know, he doesn't really see her the same way.
I'm like, well, brought for me, you know, like you
ever just pick her up just some sexy ships to
throw on, like lingerie or like you know, something like
just so that you know it's hot. I'm sure she
would be down, like she wants to be hot for you,
of course, but she might not know how you feel,
you know, and like especially just like how he's telling
(24:36):
you he need to tell her have these conversations with
your significant other. No nobody's saying like you're not hot anymore,
but have these conversations. If that's your friend, if y'all
are best friends, if y'all are in a relationship, y'all
should be able to have these conversations and be honest
with your partners so you don't have to cheat and
look for you know, give them a chance to fix it.
Exactly yeah, man, especially with exactly right, And especially when
(25:01):
I knew when we were trying to make a baby,
and I knew were just gonna be getting it in
like like a lot, like you know, I knew I
was gonna get a little tired. So I was like, look,
I just bought like five slutty ass outfits feed the
thrown just in case I get a little antress something.
And I remember that week when she was like ovulating.
When she was ovulating, I was like, all right, look man,
(25:23):
I'm tired, but you throw on this cheerleader outfit. I
think we're gonna be good to go. And so it
was like every night it was like that when she
got pregnant, in we'll see what I think. It's hard
to tell because it was getting in that whole week.
So I like sometimes I joke him like, I wonder
what did it? Was it? Like the cheerleader outfit was
at the sea through thing? Was it the uh? Was
it the While and out girl T shirt? I don't know, man,
(25:49):
but I love ship like that though him. I love
I love those type of things. I love to definitely yeah.
Was it the road the pink roll for God? Yeah? Yeah?
Would you give your girl? Like would you give your
girl like a day pass to like freak with her
fantasy man crush? You know what's funny is we we
always joke like we got a celebrity pass um and
(26:12):
uh and I uh, you know, I always joke like, oh,
you know, would you be you know, like, okay, maybe
you know if I could hook us up for you,
I would for her? You know what I'm saying, Because
for her it was like it was Channing Tatum for
a minute. Um. And I was like, I was like, look, man,
if I ever get to a situation where I could
talk to this dude and make this happen for you,
(26:33):
I'm I might. I might do that. But She's like no,
I'm not serious. I'm like, oh, all right, man, because
because at the same time, if you like to give
her a pants so yoo asking Yeah exactly. Wait who
would your crush me outside of your beautiful wife? Man? Um?
You know, for a long time was Nicole Schortzinger Um,
(26:58):
And up until I got pregnant, it was Rihanna. I mean,
who's who's not who's not so fine? Matthew Mkonda hair.
But I could go for some Doja Cat too. If
Doja Cat was with it, I put her, Yeah, definitely.
I also like that she's weird, you know what I'm saying.
(27:20):
But I like, yeah, I just love how she's herself,
Like she's different, she's herself. She's like goofy and like
you said, weird, which is it's not the average norm,
but in a good way herself you don't care about. Yeah,
I love that. Yeah. Yeah, so Tim, what's up with you?
(27:40):
A Big Baby? I'll still working, Yeah, I mean big Baby,
we still got new episodes basically to booge you that
are gonna drop. I think this is like the fifth
fifth season the basis booze you've been doing um And yeah,
I just I was just texting Big Baby too. Uh
And you know that's my guy. We definitely like bond.
We bonded from doing Basics to Booze you together something
(28:01):
like this. Yeah, man, that's my boy. You know, it's
just a good time. I think when we got put
together for that show, it was like we knew, we
knew it would be funny. But then like we really
kind of built like a bond through that show. And
that's my guy. Um, you know, um, I think, uh,
you know, trying to see what's up with doing some
other stuff with him. Um, I've been telling MTV like, man,
(28:21):
y'all just stopped working around and give us a give
us a show. You know what happened? Yeah, that makes sense.
So then what's coming up next to him? Tell us
what's coming up next? When we let you go and
you know, get you back to your daddy duties, what
is next? Yeah, well what's coming up next? You know what?
(28:42):
So I haven't so this year will actually be the
first like the ten year anniversary of the last like
full ass like album I put out on some rap shit.
So um, the people that really like f with my
music have been bugging me, and I kept telling them like, yeah,
I'm gonna do some new ship. But I really have
been dropping like maybe like a year a song a
(29:02):
year for the past a few years. I actually want
to really commit to trying to crank out like a
full project this year, a couple like four or five records. No,
I'm doing twelve tracks someone and then um and um,
you know, I'm trying to like I'm trying to write,
just write my own movie. Get it done, sell it,
(29:24):
get it done. Like, um, you know, I've been auditioning
of course, Like, but I'm really just trying to write
my own ship because I feel like it's a good
time people. You know, Hollywood's really finally UMU. The movie
is about like I'm writing a couple. I'm trying to
do like a new age Harold and Kumar for this generation.
But like me and my other comedian homie, I'm gonna
(29:45):
have him played my brother and we're trying to like
save the family's restaurant. But like I'm trying to yeah yeah, yeah,
so it should be funny. Um and uh, you know,
I feel like it's a good time because Hollywood's finally
really beginning to put Asian dudes and stuff, you know
what I'm saying, for the for the first time. So
it's like, you know, she's getting she's getting wet right now.
(30:06):
So I'm really trying to ride, like get in there
and uh and and and just get my own ship going.
You know, write me in a row period. Okay, I
just gonna be nasty. Okay, Well, all I gotta do
is that all I want to do is just be
the cash were just a lady. Let's see. You know,
I always some people that I always tell people that
(30:27):
when they're doing something. I'm doing a movie, I always like,
just put me in the girl that's walking through the
corner stone. I just want to wink at the camera
and they're gonna know it's me, or like they had
to rewind it be like like that's all I wanted.
Just give me that time. And I've had two many
of those wrong, I'm tim Okay, So give us a quote.
It's so quote when we literally leave, you know, the podcast,
(30:51):
we always tell our guests to give us a quote,
something inspiring and affirmation, whatever quote you may live by,
something positive and don't say nothing about like my dick
is too short and I live good, Like I don't
want to hear that. I give you. I give you
two quotes. One has to do with my dick and
another one that has his life right. So the Dick
quote is, um, it's something my dad hasn't telling me
since I was a little kid, right, And he's like, yes, yes,
(31:15):
I'll tell you right now. And he's like, he's like,
you know what they say. He's like because Thai chili's.
He's like, Thai penises are like Thai chili's. They're not
the biggest ones, but they're the most powerful. And so
you know, because because when you cook with Thi chili's,
they're like the most like spiciest chilis you can use.
So he's like, Thai chilies are like Thai penises, and
I might be big, but they are the strongest ones.
(31:36):
So I let him tell, you know, I let the
world know because he's trying to he's trying to pass
this knowledge onto me and give me this game. You
don't tell you that. As soon as I came out
the womb, that was my first word he was. He
was like, this is how you got here, the Thai
chili potency, right. And second all right, so um, I
(32:00):
always tell people, um that I don't to Uh what's
the quote? It's a don't look at your goals as dreams.
Look at them as destinations. All right, now, let me explain, okay,
because I always tell kids, like, when you think of
a dream, you know what I'm saying, it's like it
feels like something that's kind of like far away and
and and like when you think of dream, you think
(32:21):
of like flying on unicorns. Uh, and like and your
and your legs turn to spaghetti or something like that.
You know I'm saying. I say, look at your goals
and destinations. Yeah, like a fair tale, Because I say,
if you look at it like a destination, then it's
something that you know that's there, and if you keep
working towards it, you're gonna get there. You feel needle,
because like you're gonna get there as long as you
keep moving forward, you'll get there eventually, you know. So
(32:44):
it's like a real tangible thing that you can have
um in your vision. You feel me it exists. So
I always tell people like, like when they asked me, like, yo,
how does it feel to be living your dream? I'm like,
I never looked at like having a career in entertainment
as a dream. I looked at it as something that
if I put in the work and I kept making
the rightness is gonna happen. It would just happen, you
(33:07):
know what I'm saying. Like the same way where if
you want to be a doctor, you know you gotta
go to you know, biology pre med med school and
it's gonna be a long time, but you eventually get
your doctorate. That's how I looked at everything I'm doing now, Like,
as long as I put in the right work and
keep making these moves and keep making like steps, even
if they're baby steps, I knew I was gonna get
(33:27):
here eventually as long as I stayed consistent. And that's
why I tell people, don't look at your goals as dreams.
Look at them as destinations. So you know, it's not
a matter of if, it's just a matter of when. Okay,
that's the first like motivational thing I've ever heard you say, yeah,
because I mean, we never had a real conversation. We
just be goofing and gaffing. You know what I'm saying,
(33:48):
you'd be goofing help me, and I'm gonna be and
I would be very honest. Though there's a lot of
talented souls on Wilding now, but it's a lot of
them on their show too. That got a lot of knowledge,
and you don't get to know them until after we
leave a break we have one of these podcast episodes.
You know, Tim, we love you so much, We really do.
(34:08):
And I pray that God would just continue to order
your steps and you continue to be the daddy, the
best daddy that you can be, and your wife continue
to the best husband, and then you're you know, and
your wife continued to spark the spark, and yeall continue
to make magic. Your union is basic coming to town. Hey, ladies,
(34:30):
thanks for having me. I appreciate you both. Um, I
love your faces. I missed your faces. I hope that
tell me your favorite thing about me and then you
can go um aside from them take all. But now
I'm just playing, um my favorite I wish I can see.
My favorite thing about you, be Simone, is you know
your positive energy. You know what I'm saying. I felt
(34:50):
your light from the moment I met you, and that's
why I was always been one of your biggest cheerleaders.
Right here. Thank you so much, Tim, Love Me, Women
About Not Podcast signing out with Tim Mathee Say it again,
Captain Ron, I write y'all stay tunes. Don't leave. You
(35:16):
gotta take a real quick break. Stay right there, We'll
be right back. So we are bad with the women
of Bousing Out has pretty v V Samon. We just
had our boys, Tim on the show. I still am
not gonna mess up his last name. I'm you know
how you're messing up the whole show. I did Tim?
(35:39):
I think so you don't put my name in it.
Tim is so sweet, like he's scared. He's so smart,
he's so passionate about what he does. Oh my god,
he is just everything. He's just so everything. But do
you follow him? Have you seen his baby? I mean
I follow everybody on wild Out app don't do a man?
(36:00):
Why are you hating on him like that child? Be
beef over the little thing? Like you wouldn't say the line,
and it's just like, yo, give me a second. I
was nervous. I was nervous. Well, you need to get
them nervous out. It's like I was nervous over there
eating pineapples. I want some. I mean they kicking my canvy.
(36:21):
I need a facial. Ain't gonna go to Done. I
don't know about Annie. Done does a great job. She
would love to such a scam. Um, you guys, this
episode was phenomenal because we haven't seen him in a minute. Um,
you know, so I'm happy that we were to chop
it up. I haven't him since probably the last time
(36:43):
I saw him, and so my stuff here and there
on social media. But I love how he said him
and his girl are best friends, like best friends, so
you want to have that friendship first as a foundation.
So if anything happens, y'all get into what you're gonna
have your rough patches. The spark is gone, y'all are
still friends, but I have you shape the love today
from Tim and you already know what time it is.
(37:04):
My quote today is just a delay is never denied.
Are you saying that every delay ever did that? Okay?
Let the scripture and that's only he said. The only
thing to do I told you, Oh yeah, a delay
is never a gal to keep fast and remember sound
(37:30):
me on the Sabbay? Alright, me, come on, now, what
is the quote? I did want to last song? The
lays even to that, Okay, I got a code, a
goal without a plan. It's just a wish, yeah, just
I wish you gotta put some work behind that. That's
just facts. Okay, what are you gonna sur I was
(37:52):
gonna say, A faith that that works is day here
the same thing juice is one and one. In the
beginning God created and then no I had all of
animals and then John three sixteen, what's n three six TV?
And I'm gonna leave you alone. We're gonna, we're gonna come.
If you don't know John three sixteen, if you're not
really like did you? Every day? You send me your
mom on live talking about the noise, But you don't
(38:14):
like songs familiar it does? So what does it be?
So with John three sixteen, So it's John three sixteen,
you're a for guy so loved the word world that
he gives only come on and whoso well what come on?
Thank you? I don't know. I believe it in him
shall not perish? Come on. I haven't never lasked sing
(38:36):
hey more. But you should know that scriptures the only
one I know that I know that scripture. My mom
says all the time, Well I love y'all. So y'all
women A while in that podcast where it's John three
sixteen and DRN sixteen three, read your work, read your
word words st
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