September 7, 2021 • 38 mins
The ladies discuss chasing the bag online, anti-Asian hate, the highs and lows of marriage and dating in the public eye. Lovely Mimi brings her energy, charisma and lovely personality to the Women of Wild N’ Out Podcast
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Welcome to the women around our high cast. You guy,
you girl many your girl y y'alla, Welcome to the
Women While and Out podcast. You guys for the ladies
and Wilding Out control the body you body to get
your show. Hello ladies, Tonight we're gonna have the Women
(00:23):
a While and podcasts on the cars how you guys,
welcome back to Women a While and out padcasts where
we can trip the map that goes down. It's like
a jungle sometime to give me before keeping going? Who
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is that? Um? How do you seven? Before your time?
Because before mine? And I'm thirty one? Yeah, yeah, it's
the Woman of Wilding Out podcast? And I'm pretty v
and who am I daddy? We yes, real raw and
uncook conversations that cut every Tuesday up all right now
(01:16):
your TV every Monday night. But I have a question
since all these young in just doing this now, see
back in my day, we didn't have only fans. We
had lastnet CHRISTI, what do y'all think about only fans?
And where's the line drawn? Because it's like only fans
(01:38):
for her. They're making money off only fans and you don't.
And my thing is you don't have to drop your
drawers to get a hundred thousand like in ten minutes,
like they promote their music. But in the beginning, that's
all it was and when it first came out. But
now bad Boy, she'd have made a million in like
an hour just off just posting one picture doing her music,
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you know what, would because it gave the name that
it was only fans to do all that new Yeah,
like sexual if it came out to promote your business,
of course I probably would jump on it to get
how it came out. In the beginning, it was just
like only fans your boobs, and we just had the
China's we had all these people were just doing it.
Not to say that they were showing anything crazy, but
(02:20):
too much. The thing is like, if you show this
on only fans, whoever is on your only fans can
just take it and posted on Twitter. You know what
you feel about it? Well, in the beginning, you know,
it was all about nakedness. It's just like but now
I see people doing like live classes, workouts, go really yeah,
people making money like differently from it. Now it's branching
(02:42):
out into being like an actual channel for television and
they're doing shows on it and stuff. But I still,
as Vina said, with the name and the notion name, Yeah,
I don't think I would. Yeah, it's just the name
that the stereotypic, Like if it was like pretty, we
got only fans like what where's Pete back? Um, what
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do you feel about it? Would you do it? Oh? No,
I wouldn't do it. Yeah, because of the name. You know,
it's just like a negative what's the word? Um, I
was about say condensation, but that since you're constantation connotation,
conversation constipation. But since you're old, be like you're older
(03:25):
now and you're thirty four, I think you should how
it happened to power in the time. Yeah, I think
I think how we shifted the mindset two minutes. I
think we should like get your wine that and go
back to pretty v and pull up. I think we
should get you on there so you could for the crap. Yeah, yeah,
(03:46):
I wouldn't do it. But they're playing somebody and when
they google you, when you're trying to do film and
make you seriously attached to your name, Google, you will
be someone only fans pretty many fancies like you can't
even delete it, you even take it along. Yeah, I
don't think I would do it, but y'all, we got somebody.
(04:07):
I want to hear her opinion this because you know,
she's so crazy, vibrant, beautiful. I always I told her
every day, I like, you are the cutest little She
looks like a cartoon character to me. She does. I
get that all the time. We got me me. It's
bringing me me. Yes, it's lovely MEMI come on out, girls,
I need to feel girl all right now? He so cute,
(04:36):
so beautiful, happy, vibrant. Okay, we'll welcome to our podcast
in a while. And now you look so cute. I know,
cartoon character. So who is lovely me? Who is lovely me?
MEI I am. Well, if you google the most ratchet
Asian girl, I pop up. I was like, you know,
(04:56):
they gave me that name like six seven years ago,
and I just ran with it. I was like, it's better,
and I have one titty bitch or something like that,
A man when I take it. I wouldn't say yetto
I think, just more a bigger personality. When it comes
to Asian people, A lot of time we're laid back
or more reserved, more reserved, and I've just always been
had this bubbly personality, you know, always been the cost
count and stuff like that. What vinomes kind of Asian?
(05:22):
Are you? Yeah? Well yeah, I was gonna say nationality.
I don't know ethnicity. So you're in Vitnamese. Yes, we
do the nail honey. Yeah, you still have your salans.
I actually sold them actually right before the pandemic, so
it all worked out. Wow, you got out of there
at a good time, right, perfect time, perfect time. What
made you tell you? You know, after the divorce and
(05:43):
stuff like that, I was just ready to move away.
And I'm so glad you made it through that. Thank you.
I know you're probably you know, still going through in
different ways and spaces and but you Yeah, but I know,
I'm glad you made it through that. Thank you because
you guys were very supportive things you personal. Now, so
(06:03):
we were talking about only fans, girl, what's your thoughts
on that? Only fans? Okay, So it took me a
long time to want to do it. You know, you're
only fans. I had only fans. Fans is the whole. Yeah,
you know, Okay, take me a long time because I'm like,
like you guys said, like, if you want to get
into acting, or more professionalism. You had a bad name
(06:25):
and carried a bad name, especially during the pandemic. You know,
all the girls, especially dancers at the ship clubs, and
they couldn't go in and work, so everybody's making their
money through only fans. So it took me a while,
and I didn't want it to do it like being single,
you know, I wanted to be in a relationship and
actually have it, like we'd be on the same page, like, hey,
we're doing this against some money, so we you know,
(06:46):
we do it together. And it's not X rated as
HBO after Dark. That's you know. Now the creepy guys,
they're like, you a fucking scammer. Why are you going
on a scammer? Because you know they're expecting more X
rated style. But I'm actually putting a lot of hard
work behind my content, Like I put it together, like
I have scenes, and I have like different costumes and
(07:09):
I have slow motion parts. Um, so it's not X
rating or nothing like that. Actually, before I actually got
on it, I was like, you know, how about I
do nail classes and charge people, you know for nail classes,
like per nail classes. I told all the ladies and
mature lely in them all my YouTube. I was like,
come join my only fans. And as soon as I
made my only fan, I was like, never mind, missure,
(07:30):
you don't come over content completely. I think I thought
that I was able to, you know, veer off into
a different way of my only fans and make money
different you know. Um, but it's really just sexual. You know.
I got on the nail classes. Yeah, don't come over here.
(07:52):
There's nothing over here. So six like, give us an
example of something. If we went to the only fans,
what will we see? You see? Just like lingerie picks
and stuff like that. I deleted like on my main page,
like any laundry or any sexy picture, you have to
go to only fans. So you have to go to
only fans and pay to see the content. So that's
smart right there. But it's sexual. Like as soon as
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I got on there, you know, all the men were
like writing me messages like we want to see you.
Sc'm like, oh my god, I just got here, and
like why do you today my first day? What do
you mean when are you going to start sucking? Oh
my god? Sorry you guys. So it's really intense, but
I got it got really busy really fast because I
(08:35):
realized that men been creeping on me for a long time,
you know, and this has you know, and I never
showed anything. And I'm always always been goofy, you know,
I'll shake a little something right here and there, but
not but nothing in a sexy way. I've always been
a goofy sexy. So they've been creeping on me for
a long time. So I did actually only fans. Actually
the most money I've ever made in anything that I
have done. Wow, I will tell you that. So it
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persuaded me. Come on, girl, I'm pretty sure I've been
waiting for you to do that. I couldn't even believe
the numbers. I was not what my expectation for. It
was much much lower, about nine lower than what I
have made. And it's consistent. Yeah, no, not consistent. You
have to work to work, and I don't. I don't,
(09:20):
you know, I don't think it's really gonna last long.
I honestly will see temporary because they expect to see
more every time they they're expecting. So it's like they
wanted to build up Like the first month, they wanted
me to be a whore porn star, like look what
you see what you get was what you Okay, I
don't where. I don't think I will go that far. Okay,
(09:42):
well I'm glad I didn't talk to you about only fans.
Know you had one girl be on their in granny
panties in the world, Like, I mean, I'm not gonna lie,
Like I mean the type of content I'm I'm I'm
getting paid for. It's like stuff that you can post
on Instagram even when you can get Yeah, it's like
(10:06):
savage originally, like I was pushing for a deal and
they're like, you know where this and I'm like, well,
I don't want to just weird and post it on there,
like I want to make some money, so I just
had to go sell it on only fans and it
makes a lot more. How did your significant other feel
about it? He's always there with me, so every time
we're filming something, you know, we're together, so I you know,
(10:27):
tell him before I post something, and we go every
over everything together. Yeah, and then you know, you set prices.
So then we rewatched the video together, like how much
how much there was a little areola right there? There
should be more so, but it actually brought us a
lot closer together. Bars, like, intimately it brought us closer together.
(10:48):
That's awesome. Yeah, what about these foot fanishes because maybe
I've gotten a few messages about that. Have you done it?
Would you do it? There? I'll send you for like
three pictures of your feet. No polish on the truck,
just like one good foot, all right, a lot of
(11:09):
corns on the right, three bones on a liot. Al right. Everyone,
don't go anywhere. We'll be right back with Women of
Wild and Out. Um, so may me. So you said
your significant other, right, so you're dating again? Um, how
(11:31):
was that for you as far as hopping out of
your situation and not saying jumping right in because you
probably took you said you to take time to heal,
you know, if you to open these doors. But you
said when we spoke, um, um, outside of all this,
you said you've already knew him before. Yeah, I dated him.
Because everybody's like, oh, you only have one type. You
look like your ex was just more tattoos. I'm like, well,
I only have one type. Like I'm aware of that, Like,
(11:53):
you don't got to tell me that you resembles I
think being from the d m V. Like that's just
the type we like it, dre Hayes and uh, I
like I'm tall over six foot and I like I'm
slim bill. Um, So yeah, I dated him. He's the
original my type. Okay, So I dated him before I
dated my ex husband, you know, um, like eleven years ago.
(12:16):
But back then he wasn't like he wasn't ready like
I've always been that. I've always been a relationship person.
So I don't believe in just dating living steparuly and like,
we're together, ready together. You know, if we're having unprotect
success work together, you're gonna be with me and we're
gonna be together. So yeah, I just I don't I
don't like dating. I don't like dating, and I don't
like being alone. And I accepted that and I'm okay
(12:37):
with it. Would you get married again? It's beautiful? Yeah,
but also you know, um, with your new significant that
was his name Stretch Stretch so mr Mr Stretch, Mr? Yes,
So how does that you know now that you have
grown and he has seen your growth and he has
(12:59):
involved and he also see the different side that you've
been through with your husband, how are you feeling with
him now and your kids? Like, how is he accepting?
Like you and your kids. And I mean he's spent
eleven years ago, so things have changed. You're a different person.
You're different person. I think I'm still growing every day, Like, um,
he's great with the kids. For me, when I'm dating
a man, like is my one get too free? So
(13:21):
it's not just you're not just dating me. So for me,
you have to get along with my kids. My kids
have to like you have to see how you are
and how you interact with them and lifestyle and everything. Um,
but I still have a lot to grow because my
last relationship was toxic, Like things that I thought were normal,
we're not normal. And that's what I'm learning that I'm like,
(13:42):
you know, calling each other out of our names and
really fighting, throwing things and um me bouncing off the wall,
squeezing everybody and jumping on people and jumping on people
like off break that a lot of those things my
boyfriend now is teaching me, Like that's that's not okay
in a relationship. Ship Like I don't know what kind
of relations should you been in, But I don't really
(14:02):
think you know how to be in a relationship, And
honestly I don't. I mean I was with the same
person for like ten years and we were just so
toxic to the point that we thought I don't know
no better. Yeah, so he's teaching me how to be
in a relationship. So I'm growing departments on a nothing though.
Did you ever think you would be on MTV so wild? Now?
(14:23):
You know? Now m one? You know what, like my
first my viral, like in two thousand and fifteen, two
thousand and sixteen, I always said I wanted to be
on Wild and Now. Really, somehow I got on Love
and hip Hop, don't ask. There was no love or
hip hop with me, but I got on there. But
originally I've always wanted to be on Wild and Now,
(14:44):
So I think it's amazing. I'm really excited and I
love Wild and Girl. This season you've been me me practicing. Yeah,
I mean you aren't killing thank you, thank you. I
think I'm getting more comfortable and are competent and I yeah,
more grown up a lot. I see your growth. Yeah,
(15:04):
I see like everything, like when you walked in down
to the dark, hare down to you just caring yourself.
It's not like no shade. We used to hear you
yes from the other room, used to running circles, running
circles like literally, just you hear me me coming Like
but I mean that's just your personality. That's our bold
and like confident you are. But like now that I
(15:25):
see you, it's like it's like it's at peace, like
a different side of you and you just really have
fun and work, you know. Third now, Yeah, one, I
love I love I love you, I love wild Oness.
I can say, um, compared to other shows I've done,
Like we pray together here. I love that. You know,
we pray before every episode and we together, we pray,
(15:46):
we work together. It's good bye. Yeah, it's a family.
We don't come to here fighting and trying to figure
out who we're gonna fight this episode. The devil don't
exist here. This is an amazing show. Yeah, and everyone
and everyone loves each other like it's not like it's
really no beef on this show. And if we answer,
we answer like siblings and yeah, you know, yea what
y'all got going on? Yeah, yeah, it's a really good show. Um,
(16:10):
I had to ask you another question. Okay, you know, um,
do you need to talk about you know, how she
feels about stomach? Um, talk about what you know, you know,
surroundings that you know that's going on. Honestly feel that
it is very unfortunate. You know, as much as this
country deal with um racial injustice and we're having you
(16:31):
know what, you would think that all the minorities would
stick together, especially with everything with Black Lives Matter and
being the minority in this country is very unfortunate and
seeing it and the saddest part for me is seeing
the elderly, you know, get attacked because they can't defend themselves.
These are like ninety year old woman, ninety year old
men and getting stabbed, getting killed, and it's sad and
(16:52):
a lot of time, I feel like it became like
a trend. You know, if people are hop on, people
can't speak for themselves. They see, oh, somebody bullying, and
they think it's cool and they want to hop on.
And this is unfortunate because everything that we have gone
through in this country, especially with minorities and just fighting
for our vices, is disgusting. And I wish the mother
funker would try me. I just said, you know, you're
(17:16):
you're picking on the older people, you know, and it's disgusting,
like they can't so they can't defend themselves, and what's
sad is when people scream, I all, go back to
your country or go back to where you're from. And
there's a lot of Asian people that have been born
in America. Yes, their country, this is where they're born
and raised, not just the first generation with multiple generation.
(17:36):
This is their home as much as is somebody else's home.
You know, So what country you want to go back to?
You know, like there's people who never even been to
their country. They don't They wouldn't raise there, they weren't
born there. Their family been here, they build a foundation here.
For for people to throw out go back to your
country is so ignorant. Now it's a lot of your
family over here. Uh yeah, my family is over here.
(17:57):
I still have like a sister and stuff over there.
I'm not the first generation and I was born in Vietnam.
I came here when so my children are the first generation.
But I ever go back and visit. I went once
when I was twelve, but I don't and I haven't
been since. She's like, yeah, I do. I do want
to go and actually visit my father's grave. So beautiful. Yeah,
(18:20):
my mom is still alive. She's out in Maryland. Okay,
she's scared to leave the house, like it's it's sad,
you know. And she calls me, she's like, oh, you're
in California now, like be careful. You know. Um, there's
so much of that Asian hate going on, especially in California.
She's like, she's scared to leave the house. And it's real,
it's really sad, it's really unfortunate, and it's happening from
different races, not you know, it's it's white people, Black people,
(18:43):
Hispanic people that are committing all these hate crimes. And
it's just like, we are the minority. Why are we
not sticking together. People don't realize how important minorities are
in the country, Like they've tried to, you know, get
rid of minorities, and then it went a ship. Yeah,
and they realized like, oh, we can't really live without them,
(19:04):
Like it doesn't really make sense. So yeah, I mean
nothing is we love you down. You bring such energy.
Energy is amazing, Like you just bring so much to
the show, Like thank you. So I mean when you
mess up in like workshops, then when I mess up,
I feel like we have a connection. We don't just
(19:26):
really say okay. It was so funny. Connection connections I
can't relate to maybe not maybe we don't get on beat.
It's like, yes, you'd be on being you don't say
no word word. I was making the whole first season. Yeah,
(19:49):
I don't know what I'd be here. I don't hear
nothing clips said. You know, it's the same beat for
the whole. I don't got no excuse. I tried on
the word what do you killing this season? W down
to your looks, stay here like just every day, I
tell you. And I'm like that means a lot because
I honestly I didn't want to come back and like
(20:09):
just be at a standstill, like all you gotta you
gotta do something, like if you're gonna do what you
need to do it you need to focus. Hotel. I'm
able to focus because I can't leave because in Atlanta,
you know, if I wasn't shooting, I go to the shop,
I go work. I didn't come move around. I didn't work.
I'm stuck in a hotel COVID. So I'm writing. I'm
having time sitting down writing. Look at you and that's
(20:30):
so and how what are you same agey? I'm tourists
stories in your aries? Yeah, the same age? And how
many kids. Do you have to want more my daughter seven? Yeah?
I do. I do want one more, just one boy,
one more. But you say you want one more boy? Yeah?
(20:53):
Like what you know? God always give me what I
want because you know all of my this is some brother.
Everybody has two boys, two boys, two boys. So when
it came to my daughter, I was like this, this
baby going to either be a girl or she gonna
be a gay boy. I'm not y'all know. Now it's
gonna be a girl. Like and everybody has two boys
in my family. So the fact that I went in
(21:15):
and it was a girl. So I have a really
deep connection with God. I feel like he spoils me.
I feel like he spoils me. Like most of the time,
things that I pray for it they comes out with fans.
Ya come on, I prayed to get my nails done.
So what I'm asking you, I don't know her name,
I don't do I am a only fanhole now I
(21:36):
don't do nail no more. Well, I'm happy about anything,
and I'm just happy to her cup. You didn't want water,
no I drink. So the question is what you're gonna
get on fans? What what's next? For me, what is next.
(21:58):
I go with the flow of life and whatever is offered,
and I try to do my best and everything. Um,
but I really want to start acting. I want to
do some type of you know, get my acting out us.
I feel like Lingling is a great character and I
can make it into something. And I'm on the West
coast now. I moved here now, so it's a lot
more opportunities for acting and stuff is for me. But
(22:20):
whatever I do in life, for it is as long
as I make sure that my bills are paid, my
kids are good. That's all that matter. Whatever I gotta
do to make sure that my house is paid. You know,
I was would you ever do stand up? I have? Um,
I did one with Tyler and them in North Carolina,
did a little ten minutes. I actually did really good.
They were laughing. Yeah. Well see they were trying to
put me out as the first person to open up.
(22:41):
I said, no, that's the person that sucks or something.
And everything is practice make perfect. So normally I used
to when I was hosting comedy clubs, I was just
going up there staying whatever, talking. Yeah, but when you
have a set, it's different. The practice. My problem was
staying on topic, you know, not switching topics so much.
(23:01):
And I got a d D. This should be like everywhere.
So once I practiced, I did really good on there.
So I would actually love to do comedy. I saw
you doing your tour and turned out really good. I
love standing. Yeah, yeah, a lot of stories. I think
it should be good. Yeah, I would love to see you. Yeah, okay,
movies toards, no money, no problems. You know, I'm not
(23:26):
my business, y'all'll never see me under nobody comments like
I don't. I don't bother nobody. I don't be up
in the comments section. I don't. I don't bother nobody.
If I see it and trust me, you know, i'd
learn and that I Lindsten, but I never replied. I
don't reply my business. You know, I keep it peaceful
with people now. But if I have to pull up
and find I mean, that's no problem too. You know,
(23:51):
what's the last one you gotta um? Like last week?
What was your last fight? My last fight? Remember two
years ago? Have you ever been a fright me either? Girl? Here,
I feel like I don't just scary fight, you know,
(24:12):
all like my high school, mid middle school years, like
and I did. I did Juvie for like four years too,
So from twelve to sixteen, I was I was in Juvie,
So I always I never fought for myself though, I
always fought for other people, Like I don't like bullies,
so I always found myself fighting from other people, taking
up for them, taking out for them because I just
hate which I was doing a Juvie cross puzzle Girl
playing Space. I played the hell out of some Space
(24:35):
playing Space all daw nails every time I got place.
Oh Lord, of course I never wanted to go to
juvenile and like that. I just really feel like, what
did you people y'all doing then when you're in there?
But I know I have a lot of friends and
people that I watched a lot of like Joe shows
on Netflix, and I was like, yeah, like what gets
(24:56):
you there? And I know you were as Juvie that
um there's d j J and there's DSS. So they're
so service where you know your family is not fit
or they want need to put you in the d
JJ where you actually catch hard, you get in trouble
and stuff like that, you're bad. But the hardest thing
about a juvenile is like you don't just do time.
Like as an adult, Okay, the judge give you a year.
(25:16):
You do a year, you get out. As a juvie,
you have to complete a program. So I've been to
many different programs, like I did a wilderness program live
outside of the woods for a whole year straight, like
either three to nine month programs or not nine to
twelve months to fifteen months. Like you have to actually
complete the program to get out. And that's where the
hardest part I had was I took to complete programs
because I used to. I'd be scared in places and
(25:37):
I would be right by. When I was just living
in South Carolina. That ship is country, different different places.
There's lockdown facilities and there's like group homes and then
their shelters and then the wilderness program I was at.
But I did go back to one of the juvies
and actually want to speak to the girls like not
to go and that's what I wanted to do. I
wanted to um talk to young girls that's locked up
(26:00):
or just have a counseling thing for just girls like sixteen.
So some of the girls that are that I was
locked up with, they didn't turn out too well. Yeah,
now that we're old. I can only imagine. So I
feel blessed that I've made it out of there, you know,
on my feet. But I mean after I got out
at sixteen, I've been in my own never since. Yeah. Yeah,
(26:20):
we talked about only fans, Um, how do you make
money on social media like securing the bag on Instagram, Twitter,
so media in general outside of only fans because yeah,
well only fantage that started. It's only been like four months,
three or four months, hasn't been that long. Um, But
before that, like, I make money off of YouTube, do
a lot of cooking and banks. Yeah, a lot of
(26:41):
cooking and and um, a lot of people. It's actually
a lot harder on YouTube to build your your followings
because it's so much harder. It's more personal. You know,
on Instagram, people get to see you for one minute
max or maybe I g t V before you know,
before it was made, it was really just one minute videos.
But on YouTube, they're there, which you've like over thirty
minutes for even then sometime they sit with me for
(27:01):
two hours. But it's it's more of a personal connection.
You know, they want to see your family, your kids,
and where you go, your daily life stuff and that
really like that. They have to like you. Yeah, so
I do make money off of YouTube from cooking and eating,
you know, eat weird ship and I like spicy stuff
and keeping that. And then of course any type of
(27:22):
promo promo is easy money, you know, promoting people business.
I've always been a small business supporter, like even at
the nail salons, like outside of social media, like all
the all the bootleg people. Whatever you got detergent lotion,
I'm buying it. You got plates, you want to come
in here and sell it, drinks, sell everything. I bought everything.
I support everybody, you know, because they were like fake bags.
(27:45):
Back in one of my shop, my old boss like
she was, she she was getting mad as this guy
because he kept coming in and to sell bags, and
she keep trying to kick him out. And I'm like,
would you let the people who come sell vegetable when
fruit come in? You know, I'm like, that's not fair
because he's just trying to make He's not coming here
trying to rob us or sell drugs or none of that. Ship.
(28:07):
He's literally just trying to make an honest living from
selling some bags, like him self his bag. Let him
promote it and let him go. He was just a
little bit loud, so you know, I was just telling
keep it down so she don't kick you out. So
I've always supported people in their hustle because I'd rather
you wake up and do something and do nothing at all. Yeah, yeah,
I'm hurry. I'm happy that God to took you out
(28:29):
of some places. I'm glad that you are where you
are at and you have involved evolved, you have trying
into a butterfly, you know, still blooming, and you have
found your prints and I prayed it. God gives you
unity and your own and you said you are now
located out here here and on What's coast. So we
(28:50):
are so happy for you. Thank you, thank you, thank
you for having me. I'm excited to see what God
has in story. Yeah, well you ain't leaving yet, because girl,
every show we do a final, so you have to
leave us with a positive motivation. Okay, So the full quote.
I've always had this quote and my sister told me
and I've always lived by it, and it's um you know,
(29:10):
be like a lotus. Although it blooms and live in
the swamp and in the mud, it still blooms into
a beautiful flower. So it doesn't matter what you've been through,
what your troubles, and whatever hardship you have in life,
you can still bloom into that beautiful flower and you
can still be whoever and whatever you want to be
in a positible, beautiful way. So we toast to the cup. Cheers.
(29:35):
It's invisible water. Cheers just a little, this little sid improblem.
That's some good invisible water. Guys, so much. And if
y'all you know seeing a side of Mimi hopefully tonight
that you have not seen before. She Yes, she is loud, Yes,
(29:57):
she is crazy. Yes, she is vibrant. Yes, she has
her own, you know, beautiful personality. But she is also deep.
She's also why she is also a mother, she has
her business is going on. So I love that people
can see the side of you too, don't you do
show this side but people know pick up you. Yes,
(30:19):
and I love that side too. That's what's balance, balancing
all the personalities. Yeah, I love it, honest, all the
personality connection personal And also tell the people where to
follow you at you can find you. Guys can follow me.
(30:40):
It's lovingly me me I T S l O v
E L Y M I M fans. Click the link
in my bio if you want to see some Texasy
her name. So thank you. Let a night. All right, everyone,
don't go anywhere. We'll be right back after this break.
(31:03):
We are back. Well, I mean me me. She came
in the building. She uh, we've seen different sides of
you not know she had only fans. I didn't know either,
I mean either crazy me so cute and you know,
I was so intrigued with her cignificant other coming in
her life from eleven years ago and then her divorce.
That was a lot for her on the ground. Yeah,
(31:24):
she handled it well because her stuff was very public.
It was on the shade un but she really went
off one's good time though. She really liked something big,
like she was going back and forth. It was a lot.
And then yeah, after that, but I deemed her and
I told her, I said, you know, you need to
see SISSSS which is a counselor um and she was like, yeah,
(31:45):
give me information a therapist. But yeah, I spoke to
her and I said, do you want to her faith
based you know, to get right? And she was like
all right, well, I mean based on her mentor just
the conversation and it seems like it's in a really
good place. Yeah, she's in a position where she can actually,
like based on what I was saying earlier about humilities,
you know, call her ego aside and say just what
(32:08):
I need to work on exactly for myself in order
to move on and get that piece to then invite
somebody else in my life. Yeah, it made me such
a good person. Her energy is all the time, and
I prose we can relate the connection we have. Yeah,
I like, I love Mimi. I think she she's dope
and like I said, like I said, she's involving, evolving.
(32:29):
She's out here now at West you know, she she's
killing it on stage. She is. I mean, if now
has not tapped you on your shoulder and told your
bags need to be packed by nine o'clock and you
have a seat, I promise you you could be replaced,
and I would think that your ship is safe. I'm
(32:51):
like I but at least she told us, like apart
from only fans, like obviously, there's all the other social
media platforms that we can work for me. It's a
hustler always, definitely. Yeah. But now this tonight was a
great show once again, it's what is it the fifth
sixth show? Yeah about about begetting out um energy was amazing.
(33:14):
I mean, you know me, I'm gonna leave off for
the quote um inspire us. You know we're gonna wrap
this thing up and you're gonna wrap it up like this,
raise your glasses and we ain't gonna shake gasses, but
we're gonna raise the glasses. I don't wrote it down,
so it's all it says, celebrate yourself. Nobody knows what
(33:36):
it takes to be you a beautiful so nobody knows
what it takes to have this energy. So no, I
think sometimes we don't know how to do that because
we always feel like we're missing out on something. We
always feel like we have to work so hard because
(33:58):
we have to get your certain goal. To write the
little wind, the little ones, the small wings, the big
thing that I do that I've always tried to celebrate
my small bing wings, even when it's when I had
my first magazine cover with High Pair, people was like,
oh my god, that magazine so oh they came out
of the nineties, but it's so legendary to me that
I'm inside Angela Bassett and I decide you had to
(34:18):
pink it and I'm aside Sierra and um um, it's
just Legends and Ledger magazine and I was now I'm
one of the faces of them. So why would I
not celebrate that. You guys don't have to be in
it with me. But I'm going to get better at that.
I mean, I mean, I celebrate my small wing the
opinion to the opinion at all. You know, we have
(34:44):
five points two million followers. They allway, that's something to say,
but I acknowed it anyway. Yeah, thank you for tuning
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is that? Um? How do you seven? Before your time?
Because before mine? And I'm thirty one? Yeah, yeah, it's
the Woman of Wilding Out podcast? And I'm pretty v
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your TV every Monday night. But I have a question
since all these young in just doing this now, see
back in my day, we didn't have only fans. We
had lastnet CHRISTI, what do y'all think about only fans?
And where's the line drawn? Because it's like only fans
(01:38):
for her. They're making money off only fans and you don't.
And my thing is you don't have to drop your
drawers to get a hundred thousand like in ten minutes,
like they promote their music. But in the beginning, that's
all it was and when it first came out. But
now bad Boy, she'd have made a million in like
an hour just off just posting one picture doing her music,
(02:00):
you know what, would because it gave the name that
it was only fans to do all that new Yeah,
like sexual if it came out to promote your business,
of course I probably would jump on it to get
how it came out. In the beginning, it was just
like only fans your boobs, and we just had the
China's we had all these people were just doing it.
Not to say that they were showing anything crazy, but
(02:20):
too much. The thing is like, if you show this
on only fans, whoever is on your only fans can
just take it and posted on Twitter. You know what
you feel about it? Well, in the beginning, you know,
it was all about nakedness. It's just like but now
I see people doing like live classes, workouts, go really yeah,
people making money like differently from it. Now it's branching
(02:42):
out into being like an actual channel for television and
they're doing shows on it and stuff. But I still,
as Vina said, with the name and the notion name, Yeah,
I don't think I would. Yeah, it's just the name
that the stereotypic, Like if it was like pretty, we
got only fans like what where's Pete back? Um, what
(03:05):
do you feel about it? Would you do it? Oh? No,
I wouldn't do it. Yeah, because of the name. You know,
it's just like a negative what's the word? Um, I
was about say condensation, but that since you're constantation connotation,
conversation constipation. But since you're old, be like you're older
(03:25):
now and you're thirty four, I think you should how
it happened to power in the time. Yeah, I think
I think how we shifted the mindset two minutes. I
think we should like get your wine that and go
back to pretty v and pull up. I think we
should get you on there so you could for the crap. Yeah, yeah,
(03:46):
I wouldn't do it. But they're playing somebody and when
they google you, when you're trying to do film and
make you seriously attached to your name, Google, you will
be someone only fans pretty many fancies like you can't
even delete it, you even take it along. Yeah, I
don't think I would do it, but y'all, we got somebody.
(04:07):
I want to hear her opinion this because you know,
she's so crazy, vibrant, beautiful. I always I told her
every day, I like, you are the cutest little She
looks like a cartoon character to me. She does. I
get that all the time. We got me me. It's
bringing me me. Yes, it's lovely MEMI come on out, girls,
I need to feel girl all right now? He so cute,
(04:36):
so beautiful, happy, vibrant. Okay, we'll welcome to our podcast
in a while. And now you look so cute. I know,
cartoon character. So who is lovely me? Who is lovely me?
MEI I am. Well, if you google the most ratchet
Asian girl, I pop up. I was like, you know,
(04:56):
they gave me that name like six seven years ago,
and I just ran with it. I was like, it's better,
and I have one titty bitch or something like that,
A man when I take it. I wouldn't say yetto
I think, just more a bigger personality. When it comes
to Asian people, A lot of time we're laid back
or more reserved, more reserved, and I've just always been
had this bubbly personality, you know, always been the cost
count and stuff like that. What vinomes kind of Asian?
(05:22):
Are you? Yeah? Well yeah, I was gonna say nationality.
I don't know ethnicity. So you're in Vitnamese. Yes, we
do the nail honey. Yeah, you still have your salans.
I actually sold them actually right before the pandemic, so
it all worked out. Wow, you got out of there
at a good time, right, perfect time, perfect time. What
made you tell you? You know, after the divorce and
(05:43):
stuff like that, I was just ready to move away.
And I'm so glad you made it through that. Thank you.
I know you're probably you know, still going through in
different ways and spaces and but you Yeah, but I know,
I'm glad you made it through that. Thank you because
you guys were very supportive things you personal. Now, so
(06:03):
we were talking about only fans, girl, what's your thoughts
on that? Only fans? Okay, So it took me a
long time to want to do it. You know, you're
only fans. I had only fans. Fans is the whole. Yeah,
you know, Okay, take me a long time because I'm like,
like you guys said, like, if you want to get
into acting, or more professionalism. You had a bad name
(06:25):
and carried a bad name, especially during the pandemic. You know,
all the girls, especially dancers at the ship clubs, and
they couldn't go in and work, so everybody's making their
money through only fans. So it took me a while,
and I didn't want it to do it like being single,
you know, I wanted to be in a relationship and
actually have it, like we'd be on the same page, like, hey,
we're doing this against some money, so we you know,
(06:46):
we do it together. And it's not X rated as
HBO after Dark. That's you know. Now the creepy guys,
they're like, you a fucking scammer. Why are you going
on a scammer? Because you know they're expecting more X
rated style. But I'm actually putting a lot of hard
work behind my content, Like I put it together, like
I have scenes, and I have like different costumes and
(07:09):
I have slow motion parts. Um, so it's not X
rating or nothing like that. Actually, before I actually got
on it, I was like, you know, how about I
do nail classes and charge people, you know for nail classes,
like per nail classes. I told all the ladies and
mature lely in them all my YouTube. I was like,
come join my only fans. And as soon as I
made my only fan, I was like, never mind, missure,
(07:30):
you don't come over content completely. I think I thought
that I was able to, you know, veer off into
a different way of my only fans and make money
different you know. Um, but it's really just sexual. You know.
I got on the nail classes. Yeah, don't come over here.
(07:52):
There's nothing over here. So six like, give us an
example of something. If we went to the only fans,
what will we see? You see? Just like lingerie picks
and stuff like that. I deleted like on my main page,
like any laundry or any sexy picture, you have to
go to only fans. So you have to go to
only fans and pay to see the content. So that's
smart right there. But it's sexual. Like as soon as
(08:13):
I got on there, you know, all the men were
like writing me messages like we want to see you.
Sc'm like, oh my god, I just got here, and
like why do you today my first day? What do
you mean when are you going to start sucking? Oh
my god? Sorry you guys. So it's really intense, but
I got it got really busy really fast because I
(08:35):
realized that men been creeping on me for a long time,
you know, and this has you know, and I never
showed anything. And I'm always always been goofy, you know,
I'll shake a little something right here and there, but
not but nothing in a sexy way. I've always been
a goofy sexy. So they've been creeping on me for
a long time. So I did actually only fans. Actually
the most money I've ever made in anything that I
have done. Wow, I will tell you that. So it
(08:58):
persuaded me. Come on, girl, I'm pretty sure I've been
waiting for you to do that. I couldn't even believe
the numbers. I was not what my expectation for. It
was much much lower, about nine lower than what I
have made. And it's consistent. Yeah, no, not consistent. You
have to work to work, and I don't. I don't,
(09:20):
you know, I don't think it's really gonna last long.
I honestly will see temporary because they expect to see
more every time they they're expecting. So it's like they
wanted to build up Like the first month, they wanted
me to be a whore porn star, like look what
you see what you get was what you Okay, I
don't where. I don't think I will go that far. Okay,
(09:42):
well I'm glad I didn't talk to you about only fans.
Know you had one girl be on their in granny
panties in the world, Like, I mean, I'm not gonna lie,
Like I mean the type of content I'm I'm I'm
getting paid for. It's like stuff that you can post
on Instagram even when you can get Yeah, it's like
(10:06):
savage originally, like I was pushing for a deal and
they're like, you know where this and I'm like, well,
I don't want to just weird and post it on there,
like I want to make some money, so I just
had to go sell it on only fans and it
makes a lot more. How did your significant other feel
about it? He's always there with me, so every time
we're filming something, you know, we're together, so I you know,
(10:27):
tell him before I post something, and we go every
over everything together. Yeah, and then you know, you set prices.
So then we rewatched the video together, like how much
how much there was a little areola right there? There
should be more so, but it actually brought us a
lot closer together. Bars, like, intimately it brought us closer together.
(10:48):
That's awesome. Yeah, what about these foot fanishes because maybe
I've gotten a few messages about that. Have you done it?
Would you do it? There? I'll send you for like
three pictures of your feet. No polish on the truck,
just like one good foot, all right, a lot of
(11:09):
corns on the right, three bones on a liot. Al right. Everyone,
don't go anywhere. We'll be right back with Women of
Wild and Out. Um, so may me. So you said
your significant other, right, so you're dating again? Um, how
(11:31):
was that for you as far as hopping out of
your situation and not saying jumping right in because you
probably took you said you to take time to heal,
you know, if you to open these doors. But you
said when we spoke, um, um, outside of all this,
you said you've already knew him before. Yeah, I dated him.
Because everybody's like, oh, you only have one type. You
look like your ex was just more tattoos. I'm like, well,
I only have one type. Like I'm aware of that, Like,
(11:53):
you don't got to tell me that you resembles I
think being from the d m V. Like that's just
the type we like it, dre Hayes and uh, I
like I'm tall over six foot and I like I'm
slim bill. Um, So yeah, I dated him. He's the
original my type. Okay, So I dated him before I
dated my ex husband, you know, um, like eleven years ago.
(12:16):
But back then he wasn't like he wasn't ready like
I've always been that. I've always been a relationship person.
So I don't believe in just dating living steparuly and like,
we're together, ready together. You know, if we're having unprotect
success work together, you're gonna be with me and we're
gonna be together. So yeah, I just I don't I
don't like dating. I don't like dating, and I don't
like being alone. And I accepted that and I'm okay
(12:37):
with it. Would you get married again? It's beautiful? Yeah,
but also you know, um, with your new significant that
was his name Stretch Stretch so mr Mr Stretch, Mr? Yes,
So how does that you know now that you have
grown and he has seen your growth and he has
(12:59):
involved and he also see the different side that you've
been through with your husband, how are you feeling with
him now and your kids? Like, how is he accepting?
Like you and your kids. And I mean he's spent
eleven years ago, so things have changed. You're a different person.
You're different person. I think I'm still growing every day, Like, um,
he's great with the kids. For me, when I'm dating
a man, like is my one get too free? So
(13:21):
it's not just you're not just dating me. So for me,
you have to get along with my kids. My kids
have to like you have to see how you are
and how you interact with them and lifestyle and everything. Um,
but I still have a lot to grow because my
last relationship was toxic, Like things that I thought were normal,
we're not normal. And that's what I'm learning that I'm like,
(13:42):
you know, calling each other out of our names and
really fighting, throwing things and um me bouncing off the wall,
squeezing everybody and jumping on people and jumping on people
like off break that a lot of those things my
boyfriend now is teaching me, Like that's that's not okay
in a relationship. Ship Like I don't know what kind
of relations should you been in, But I don't really
(14:02):
think you know how to be in a relationship, And
honestly I don't. I mean I was with the same
person for like ten years and we were just so
toxic to the point that we thought I don't know
no better. Yeah, so he's teaching me how to be
in a relationship. So I'm growing departments on a nothing though.
Did you ever think you would be on MTV so wild? Now?
(14:23):
You know? Now m one? You know what, like my
first my viral, like in two thousand and fifteen, two
thousand and sixteen, I always said I wanted to be
on Wild and Now. Really, somehow I got on Love
and hip Hop, don't ask. There was no love or
hip hop with me, but I got on there. But
originally I've always wanted to be on Wild and Now,
(14:44):
So I think it's amazing. I'm really excited and I
love Wild and Girl. This season you've been me me practicing. Yeah,
I mean you aren't killing thank you, thank you. I
think I'm getting more comfortable and are competent and I yeah,
more grown up a lot. I see your growth. Yeah,
(15:04):
I see like everything, like when you walked in down
to the dark, hare down to you just caring yourself.
It's not like no shade. We used to hear you
yes from the other room, used to running circles, running
circles like literally, just you hear me me coming Like
but I mean that's just your personality. That's our bold
and like confident you are. But like now that I
(15:25):
see you, it's like it's like it's at peace, like
a different side of you and you just really have
fun and work, you know. Third now, Yeah, one, I
love I love I love you, I love wild Oness.
I can say, um, compared to other shows I've done,
Like we pray together here. I love that. You know,
we pray before every episode and we together, we pray,
(15:46):
we work together. It's good bye. Yeah, it's a family.
We don't come to here fighting and trying to figure
out who we're gonna fight this episode. The devil don't
exist here. This is an amazing show. Yeah, and everyone
and everyone loves each other like it's not like it's
really no beef on this show. And if we answer,
we answer like siblings and yeah, you know, yea what
y'all got going on? Yeah, yeah, it's a really good show. Um,
(16:10):
I had to ask you another question. Okay, you know, um,
do you need to talk about you know, how she
feels about stomach? Um, talk about what you know, you know,
surroundings that you know that's going on. Honestly feel that
it is very unfortunate. You know, as much as this
country deal with um racial injustice and we're having you
(16:31):
know what, you would think that all the minorities would
stick together, especially with everything with Black Lives Matter and
being the minority in this country is very unfortunate and
seeing it and the saddest part for me is seeing
the elderly, you know, get attacked because they can't defend themselves.
These are like ninety year old woman, ninety year old
men and getting stabbed, getting killed, and it's sad and
(16:52):
a lot of time, I feel like it became like
a trend. You know, if people are hop on, people
can't speak for themselves. They see, oh, somebody bullying, and
they think it's cool and they want to hop on.
And this is unfortunate because everything that we have gone
through in this country, especially with minorities and just fighting
for our vices, is disgusting. And I wish the mother
funker would try me. I just said, you know, you're
(17:16):
you're picking on the older people, you know, and it's disgusting,
like they can't so they can't defend themselves, and what's
sad is when people scream, I all, go back to
your country or go back to where you're from. And
there's a lot of Asian people that have been born
in America. Yes, their country, this is where they're born
and raised, not just the first generation with multiple generation.
(17:36):
This is their home as much as is somebody else's home.
You know, So what country you want to go back to?
You know, like there's people who never even been to
their country. They don't They wouldn't raise there, they weren't
born there. Their family been here, they build a foundation here.
For for people to throw out go back to your
country is so ignorant. Now it's a lot of your
family over here. Uh yeah, my family is over here.
(17:57):
I still have like a sister and stuff over there.
I'm not the first generation and I was born in Vietnam.
I came here when so my children are the first generation.
But I ever go back and visit. I went once
when I was twelve, but I don't and I haven't
been since. She's like, yeah, I do. I do want
to go and actually visit my father's grave. So beautiful. Yeah,
(18:20):
my mom is still alive. She's out in Maryland. Okay,
she's scared to leave the house, like it's it's sad,
you know. And she calls me, she's like, oh, you're
in California now, like be careful. You know. Um, there's
so much of that Asian hate going on, especially in California.
She's like, she's scared to leave the house. And it's real,
it's really sad, it's really unfortunate, and it's happening from
different races, not you know, it's it's white people, Black people,
(18:43):
Hispanic people that are committing all these hate crimes. And
it's just like, we are the minority. Why are we
not sticking together. People don't realize how important minorities are
in the country, Like they've tried to, you know, get
rid of minorities, and then it went a ship. Yeah,
and they realized like, oh, we can't really live without them,
(19:04):
Like it doesn't really make sense. So yeah, I mean
nothing is we love you down. You bring such energy.
Energy is amazing, Like you just bring so much to
the show, Like thank you. So I mean when you
mess up in like workshops, then when I mess up,
I feel like we have a connection. We don't just
(19:26):
really say okay. It was so funny. Connection connections I
can't relate to maybe not maybe we don't get on beat.
It's like, yes, you'd be on being you don't say
no word word. I was making the whole first season. Yeah,
(19:49):
I don't know what I'd be here. I don't hear
nothing clips said. You know, it's the same beat for
the whole. I don't got no excuse. I tried on
the word what do you killing this season? W down
to your looks, stay here like just every day, I
tell you. And I'm like that means a lot because
I honestly I didn't want to come back and like
(20:09):
just be at a standstill, like all you gotta you
gotta do something, like if you're gonna do what you
need to do it you need to focus. Hotel. I'm
able to focus because I can't leave because in Atlanta,
you know, if I wasn't shooting, I go to the shop,
I go work. I didn't come move around. I didn't work.
I'm stuck in a hotel COVID. So I'm writing. I'm
having time sitting down writing. Look at you and that's
(20:30):
so and how what are you same agey? I'm tourists
stories in your aries? Yeah, the same age? And how
many kids. Do you have to want more my daughter seven? Yeah?
I do. I do want one more, just one boy,
one more. But you say you want one more boy? Yeah?
(20:53):
Like what you know? God always give me what I
want because you know all of my this is some brother.
Everybody has two boys, two boys, two boys. So when
it came to my daughter, I was like this, this
baby going to either be a girl or she gonna
be a gay boy. I'm not y'all know. Now it's
gonna be a girl. Like and everybody has two boys
in my family. So the fact that I went in
(21:15):
and it was a girl. So I have a really
deep connection with God. I feel like he spoils me.
I feel like he spoils me. Like most of the time,
things that I pray for it they comes out with fans.
Ya come on, I prayed to get my nails done.
So what I'm asking you, I don't know her name,
I don't do I am a only fanhole now I
(21:36):
don't do nail no more. Well, I'm happy about anything,
and I'm just happy to her cup. You didn't want water,
no I drink. So the question is what you're gonna
get on fans? What what's next? For me, what is next.
(21:58):
I go with the flow of life and whatever is offered,
and I try to do my best and everything. Um,
but I really want to start acting. I want to
do some type of you know, get my acting out us.
I feel like Lingling is a great character and I
can make it into something. And I'm on the West
coast now. I moved here now, so it's a lot
more opportunities for acting and stuff is for me. But
(22:20):
whatever I do in life, for it is as long
as I make sure that my bills are paid, my
kids are good. That's all that matter. Whatever I gotta
do to make sure that my house is paid. You know,
I was would you ever do stand up? I have? Um,
I did one with Tyler and them in North Carolina,
did a little ten minutes. I actually did really good.
They were laughing. Yeah. Well see they were trying to
put me out as the first person to open up.
(22:41):
I said, no, that's the person that sucks or something.
And everything is practice make perfect. So normally I used
to when I was hosting comedy clubs, I was just
going up there staying whatever, talking. Yeah, but when you
have a set, it's different. The practice. My problem was
staying on topic, you know, not switching topics so much.
(23:01):
And I got a d D. This should be like everywhere.
So once I practiced, I did really good on there.
So I would actually love to do comedy. I saw
you doing your tour and turned out really good. I
love standing. Yeah, yeah, a lot of stories. I think
it should be good. Yeah, I would love to see you. Yeah, okay,
movies toards, no money, no problems. You know, I'm not
(23:26):
my business, y'all'll never see me under nobody comments like
I don't. I don't bother nobody. I don't be up
in the comments section. I don't. I don't bother nobody.
If I see it and trust me, you know, i'd
learn and that I Lindsten, but I never replied. I
don't reply my business. You know, I keep it peaceful
with people now. But if I have to pull up
and find I mean, that's no problem too. You know,
(23:51):
what's the last one you gotta um? Like last week?
What was your last fight? My last fight? Remember two
years ago? Have you ever been a fright me either? Girl? Here,
I feel like I don't just scary fight, you know,
(24:12):
all like my high school, mid middle school years, like
and I did. I did Juvie for like four years too,
So from twelve to sixteen, I was I was in Juvie,
So I always I never fought for myself though, I
always fought for other people, Like I don't like bullies,
so I always found myself fighting from other people, taking
up for them, taking out for them because I just
hate which I was doing a Juvie cross puzzle Girl
playing Space. I played the hell out of some Space
(24:35):
playing Space all daw nails every time I got place.
Oh Lord, of course I never wanted to go to
juvenile and like that. I just really feel like, what
did you people y'all doing then when you're in there?
But I know I have a lot of friends and
people that I watched a lot of like Joe shows
on Netflix, and I was like, yeah, like what gets
(24:56):
you there? And I know you were as Juvie that
um there's d j J and there's DSS. So they're
so service where you know your family is not fit
or they want need to put you in the d
JJ where you actually catch hard, you get in trouble
and stuff like that, you're bad. But the hardest thing
about a juvenile is like you don't just do time.
Like as an adult, Okay, the judge give you a year.
(25:16):
You do a year, you get out. As a juvie,
you have to complete a program. So I've been to
many different programs, like I did a wilderness program live
outside of the woods for a whole year straight, like
either three to nine month programs or not nine to
twelve months to fifteen months. Like you have to actually
complete the program to get out. And that's where the
hardest part I had was I took to complete programs
because I used to. I'd be scared in places and
(25:37):
I would be right by. When I was just living
in South Carolina. That ship is country, different different places.
There's lockdown facilities and there's like group homes and then
their shelters and then the wilderness program I was at.
But I did go back to one of the juvies
and actually want to speak to the girls like not
to go and that's what I wanted to do. I
wanted to um talk to young girls that's locked up
(26:00):
or just have a counseling thing for just girls like sixteen.
So some of the girls that are that I was
locked up with, they didn't turn out too well. Yeah,
now that we're old. I can only imagine. So I
feel blessed that I've made it out of there, you know,
on my feet. But I mean after I got out
at sixteen, I've been in my own never since. Yeah. Yeah,
(26:20):
we talked about only fans, Um, how do you make
money on social media like securing the bag on Instagram, Twitter,
so media in general outside of only fans because yeah,
well only fantage that started. It's only been like four months,
three or four months, hasn't been that long. Um, But
before that, like, I make money off of YouTube, do
a lot of cooking and banks. Yeah, a lot of
(26:41):
cooking and and um, a lot of people. It's actually
a lot harder on YouTube to build your your followings
because it's so much harder. It's more personal. You know,
on Instagram, people get to see you for one minute
max or maybe I g t V before you know,
before it was made, it was really just one minute videos.
But on YouTube, they're there, which you've like over thirty
minutes for even then sometime they sit with me for
(27:01):
two hours. But it's it's more of a personal connection.
You know, they want to see your family, your kids,
and where you go, your daily life stuff and that
really like that. They have to like you. Yeah, so
I do make money off of YouTube from cooking and eating,
you know, eat weird ship and I like spicy stuff
and keeping that. And then of course any type of
(27:22):
promo promo is easy money, you know, promoting people business.
I've always been a small business supporter, like even at
the nail salons, like outside of social media, like all
the all the bootleg people. Whatever you got detergent lotion,
I'm buying it. You got plates, you want to come
in here and sell it, drinks, sell everything. I bought everything.
I support everybody, you know, because they were like fake bags.
(27:45):
Back in one of my shop, my old boss like
she was, she she was getting mad as this guy
because he kept coming in and to sell bags, and
she keep trying to kick him out. And I'm like,
would you let the people who come sell vegetable when
fruit come in? You know, I'm like, that's not fair
because he's just trying to make He's not coming here
trying to rob us or sell drugs or none of that. Ship.
(28:07):
He's literally just trying to make an honest living from
selling some bags, like him self his bag. Let him
promote it and let him go. He was just a
little bit loud, so you know, I was just telling
keep it down so she don't kick you out. So
I've always supported people in their hustle because I'd rather
you wake up and do something and do nothing at all. Yeah, yeah,
I'm hurry. I'm happy that God to took you out
(28:29):
of some places. I'm glad that you are where you
are at and you have involved evolved, you have trying
into a butterfly, you know, still blooming, and you have
found your prints and I prayed it. God gives you
unity and your own and you said you are now
located out here here and on What's coast. So we
(28:50):
are so happy for you. Thank you, thank you, thank
you for having me. I'm excited to see what God
has in story. Yeah, well you ain't leaving yet, because girl,
every show we do a final, so you have to
leave us with a positive motivation. Okay, So the full quote.
I've always had this quote and my sister told me
and I've always lived by it, and it's um you know,
(29:10):
be like a lotus. Although it blooms and live in
the swamp and in the mud, it still blooms into
a beautiful flower. So it doesn't matter what you've been through,
what your troubles, and whatever hardship you have in life,
you can still bloom into that beautiful flower and you
can still be whoever and whatever you want to be
in a positible, beautiful way. So we toast to the cup. Cheers.
(29:35):
It's invisible water. Cheers just a little, this little sid improblem.
That's some good invisible water. Guys, so much. And if
y'all you know seeing a side of Mimi hopefully tonight
that you have not seen before. She Yes, she is loud, Yes,
(29:57):
she is crazy. Yes, she is vibrant. Yes, she has
her own, you know, beautiful personality. But she is also deep.
She's also why she is also a mother, she has
her business is going on. So I love that people
can see the side of you too, don't you do
show this side but people know pick up you. Yes,
(30:19):
and I love that side too. That's what's balance, balancing
all the personalities. Yeah, I love it, honest, all the
personality connection personal And also tell the people where to
follow you at you can find you. Guys can follow me.
(30:40):
It's lovingly me me I T S l O v
E L Y M I M fans. Click the link
in my bio if you want to see some Texasy
her name. So thank you. Let a night. All right, everyone,
don't go anywhere. We'll be right back after this break.
(31:03):
We are back. Well, I mean me me. She came
in the building. She uh, we've seen different sides of
you not know she had only fans. I didn't know either,
I mean either crazy me so cute and you know,
I was so intrigued with her cignificant other coming in
her life from eleven years ago and then her divorce.
That was a lot for her on the ground. Yeah,
(31:24):
she handled it well because her stuff was very public.
It was on the shade un but she really went
off one's good time though. She really liked something big,
like she was going back and forth. It was a lot.
And then yeah, after that, but I deemed her and
I told her, I said, you know, you need to
see SISSSS which is a counselor um and she was like, yeah,
(31:45):
give me information a therapist. But yeah, I spoke to
her and I said, do you want to her faith
based you know, to get right? And she was like
all right, well, I mean based on her mentor just
the conversation and it seems like it's in a really
good place. Yeah, she's in a position where she can actually,
like based on what I was saying earlier about humilities,
you know, call her ego aside and say just what
(32:08):
I need to work on exactly for myself in order
to move on and get that piece to then invite
somebody else in my life. Yeah, it made me such
a good person. Her energy is all the time, and
I prose we can relate the connection we have. Yeah,
I like, I love Mimi. I think she she's dope
and like I said, like I said, she's involving, evolving.
(32:29):
She's out here now at West you know, she she's
killing it on stage. She is. I mean, if now
has not tapped you on your shoulder and told your
bags need to be packed by nine o'clock and you
have a seat, I promise you you could be replaced,
and I would think that your ship is safe. I'm
(32:51):
like I but at least she told us, like apart
from only fans, like obviously, there's all the other social
media platforms that we can work for me. It's a
hustler always, definitely. Yeah. But now this tonight was a
great show once again, it's what is it the fifth
sixth show? Yeah about about begetting out um energy was amazing.
(33:14):
I mean, you know me, I'm gonna leave off for
the quote um inspire us. You know we're gonna wrap
this thing up and you're gonna wrap it up like this,
raise your glasses and we ain't gonna shake gasses, but
we're gonna raise the glasses. I don't wrote it down,
so it's all it says, celebrate yourself. Nobody knows what
(33:36):
it takes to be you a beautiful so nobody knows
what it takes to have this energy. So no, I
think sometimes we don't know how to do that because
we always feel like we're missing out on something. We
always feel like we have to work so hard because
(33:58):
we have to get your certain goal. To write the
little wind, the little ones, the small wings, the big
thing that I do that I've always tried to celebrate
my small bing wings, even when it's when I had
my first magazine cover with High Pair, people was like,
oh my god, that magazine so oh they came out
of the nineties, but it's so legendary to me that
I'm inside Angela Bassett and I decide you had to
(34:18):
pink it and I'm aside Sierra and um um, it's
just Legends and Ledger magazine and I was now I'm
one of the faces of them. So why would I
not celebrate that. You guys don't have to be in
it with me. But I'm going to get better at that.
I mean, I mean, I celebrate my small wing the
opinion to the opinion at all. You know, we have
(34:44):
five points two million followers. They allway, that's something to say,
but I acknowed it anyway. Yeah, thank you for tuning
in everyone. Don't forget to tune into our next one,
and don't forget to join and subscribe, follow, and like
the podcast Women of While and now I mean Girl
Crystal Angelique and we have Best Amount and your Girl
Pretty t V. Thank you, and good night, morning or afternoon.
(35:20):
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