April 15, 2022 • 32 mins
We've been bringing you MyDayFriday for EIGHT YEARS!! We talk about things we've learned from the podcast, what the most difficult part of the podcast has been, and what's next! Carla Marie is the Queen of New Jersey and Anthony is going to the clerb!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, we are officially doing it. We're celebrating the
eight year anniversary of the My Day Friday podcast. I
can't believe it. Eight is actually the age that I
remember being like the first time I remember turning age,
like for a birthday. M I don't know if I
remember my eighth birthday. Either way, we're gonna hit the intro.
We're gonna talk about some things that we've learned as
(00:21):
we've done this podcast. We are doing it from different places,
so there might be a delayed there might be like
talking over one another a little bit. But I think
it's actually pretty cool that the podcast that took us
from New York and New Jersey to Seattle, we are
now doing from New Jersey and Seattle simultaneously. So how
about we played the little intro Carl Murray, let's do it.
(00:57):
It's Pete went from Far Boy, and you're listening to
my two favorite people, Carla Marie and Anthony's Friday. Hi,
I'm carry hi only I am dressing Hi am j
I will and you'll listen to Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, Come on,
(01:19):
come all, bring your friends, let's have a good time,
because that's what this podcast was all about Carlurys chugging
some water before she's ready to rage. All right, So
the Monday Friday podcast started originally because Carlin, Maurye and
I wanted to practice doing our own show and seeing
what it would sound like and not even knowing that
(01:41):
we would have our own show one day, but we
thought we were eventually going to be, you know, sent
on our separate ways. But we needed a place to
practice kind of doing a thing where we talk more
and more. What I always thought we were a package deal. No,
I didn't. You were drying a piecemeal to our show.
I was. There was actually not a lot of people
(02:01):
know this. There was a show out west before we
got our show in Seattle that apparently had some interest
in us. And when we were originally told now this
is only about six months after we started My Day Friday,
and the someone had talked to us about this show.
And I don't want to say the name of the
show because it's still miraculously on the radio. Um, but
(02:24):
they told us the city that it would be in,
and I remember Carlon Marie was like, I don't know,
I can't move there. Why would I leave? This is
before you were ready to like leave the Elvis nest.
I don't know what. Um, I don't want to say
too much. But the person who told us about that
event then came to me later on it was like,
(02:45):
just so you know, I know, Carl Marie is not
ready to leave, but if you are, they'll probably still
hire you on your own. Yeah, I'm pretty sure I
told you about this before. Well, you know what, there
were plenty of times people came to me and said,
ditch Anthony and we'll give you the world, And I said,
I can't do that to him. What world were you
going to be given? Carla Murray? Glamorous? Like what what
(03:07):
glamorous world in the world? Radio were you're going to
be given? Well? Maybe it was going to be TV?
Maybe where was this going to be? What we were
going to give me? Car What they're gonna give me?
Cars and houses with pools, exotic animals? And I said,
(03:30):
I can't. I'm sorry. It sounds great, but I can't
do that. Dan, I would have for all of those things,
I would have left you in a heartbe I still would,
I think. So just keep that in mind. What you
have a car, you have a house, and you have exotic,
exotic animal. I don't have a car, and I don't
have a house, and I have four very basic animals,
(03:50):
the opposite of exotic cats and dogs are about as
basic as you can get. But we started the podcast,
like I said, to practice kind of doing radio things.
And this is before podcasting really took off the way
it has, like Mark Mayron had his podcast, Joe Rogan
had his podcast, but even then, they weren't getting the
numbers that they were getting now or that they are
(04:12):
getting now. So we jumped into this space. And the
first thing I want to ask you, Carl Murray, is
as we celebrate eight years of My Day Friday, what
do you think is one thing you learned from this podcast? Specifically?
Is there like a life lesson you learned? Is there
(04:34):
a I'm sure there's a bunch, but what what sticks out?
I think because we have done this so long, in
such pivotal points of our lives, that I have learned
that it is very okay to change your mind and
want different things, and and your opinion as well can change.
Like I'm not saying it's ok to be a hypocrite,
(04:55):
but you can grow like who we were and when
we started this podcast, as are clearly still who we
are now, But there were so many things that Like
if you go back and listen where I've I said
I would never have a cat, Like that's a simple,
like the most symbol of it. But like it's okay
to evolve, and you should never feel the same way
(05:16):
your entire life because things are going to change around
you and it's okay to adapt to those things as
you move to new cities or make new friends or
whatever it is. And I think be learning that knowing
it's okay to change your mind makes you feel so
much better. Like, well I used to think this, What
if I think differently? No things make you change? Okay,
(05:38):
I'm about you for me, and I don't want to
use like the Nike slogans. I'm trying to think of
something other than just do it. Um, maybe give it
a try. Just start is a big one. Just start
is a big one. I don't know if I necessarily
love I like the idea of just start. Don't get
me wrong, I think the one thing people for get
(06:00):
when they say just start is you can't just start
without a plan. Um. But I think we didn't necessarily
have an idea when we first came up with doing
this podcast. We didn't know what it was going to
be or where it was going to take us, but
we sat down, we came up with, you know, a
(06:21):
a framework of what we wanted to do, what we
wanted it to sound like. We handled it in the
most professional way we knew how at the time. And
then with all of the other things that we've done
since then, we've kind of taken that same approach. When
we got to launch our show in Seattle, we sat down,
came up with a framework, and then said, let's just
(06:41):
give this a shot. When we did our show on Twitch,
same thing. Let's learn, let's come up with a framework,
and let's do it. Let's try it out. Uh what's
another example, Oh, our merch line that you look Great line.
You know, we didn't know what we were getting into.
We didn't know if it would be successful or not,
but we created a brand of clothing. And I think
(07:02):
the Morning Show podcast. The Morning Show podcast is another
great example, thank you. But I think all of those
things they started with the same core idea of yes,
an idea is great, and yes, at some point you
just have to start it, but make sure that you're
gathering as much information as you can and even if
you don't have the best resources, the best equipment, the
(07:23):
best uh. You know, we don't have a staff. It's
just the two of us. If you sit down and
you come up with a framework of what you want
to do, and you stick to it, then you might
find some success. And I think that's been the thing
that I've learned, and it's one of the reasons I
really do feel like I can take on anything because
I think we've done so many different things and so
(07:44):
many different arenas with the same idea and we've been
able to have similar success. So like, why don't we
do something like super crazy and outrageous and be like,
let's try it, like what like I don't know, some
other kind of business? Like what else is there? Everything's taken,
but we can do the Cardamurie Anthony sprinkle on it. Okay,
(08:04):
let me ask you another question, Carl Maury Anthony, as
we celebrate eight years of the My Day Friday podcast,
what's been the most difficult thing about the podcast? Mhm,
I know it's a tough question. It's not hard, it's
it's hard to be consistent. I'll say that, Um, I
(08:28):
think there was a time when we were on the
radio that we felt obligated to do the podcast, and
it was more of a half to not a want to.
And I think I'm glad that we still continued, obviously
because we got out of that rup, but we were
like all of our creative juices were gone. And I
wish that when we started we did this seasonal a
(08:52):
bit of like, hey, we're gonna do the podcast for
every two months, take off two weeks, and then do
it again. Maybe something like that, just to give our
brains a break, even when we went on vacation. I
think I think the feeling of like we have to
do it, we have to do it, opposed to it
was something we wanted to do was a difficult time.
But there was nothing hard about doing this podcast. Yeah,
(09:13):
I agree. I think there was definitely time, especially when
we first started in Seattle, because there was so much
going on. It wasn't necessarily that it wasn't like this
was a hassle, like you said, but there's just an
energy drain. And when we've we've talked about this before.
Our jobs are not difficult. Yes, they can be tedious
at times. With all the technical things we've got to do,
but it's not the end of the world. We didn't
(09:33):
have to go to like eighteen years of schooling to
do this. The difficult thing about this in any job
where you're front and center, right where you're like in
front of people, is there is definitely a mental and
energy drain to it, and it it affects you physically
as well. I think when we were doing things like
doing our morning show on Power than doing weekend shifts
(09:56):
because we have to prerecord those for the same for
the same station. Then we'd have meetings, we'd have we'd
also know that we were going to go do a
live broadcast at the Mariners game and then go do
a live broadcast at a club, and we had to
somehow find time to do my day Friday and all
of that. That was definitely a draining part. So I
definitely agree with that um, but I also think, oddly enough,
(10:18):
this is gonna sound really weird, and I don't know
if we've ever even really talked about this. There was
also a lot of like resentment that we got from
I would call them industry people because of the podcast,
and I think that was a weird thing to navigate
because it's not something that we anticipated obviously, but when
(10:38):
we did the podcast, we were probably outside of t J,
one of the first radio people to do like this
side podcast and be like, oh, your little podcast, and
I'm like, okay, we got like that all the time,
and then what happened. We got a morning show and
literally it was like pop up of a podcast. Every
week it was a new podcast, and I was like,
(10:59):
f off. But because so many people didn't understand where
podcasting was going and what we were doing on our podcast,
what we would get, you know, opportunities to do things
with clients or to do things at big events, people
got really bad and we ended up we ended up
being you know, I don't want to say shunned by
any means, but we were definitely kind of like the
Black Sheep for a little bit because of this. And
(11:22):
this is why I don't think like anytime something new
comes out. I think every once in a while, yeah,
we'll make fun of things, but I don't think either
of us ever shoot on any of it. Like n
F T S. I may not completely understand it, but
it's it's a big thing and it's going to get
even bigger, and and we we should be a part
of it, Uh Twitch right, People like, oh, what what
(11:42):
is what is that? What do you mean you're on Twitch?
That sounds silly? Like okay, and that's how we make money.
Like there's just so much that people make fun of,
and not only in the media world, of anything that
it seems to be a bandwagon thing, but if you
jump on it early on, it becomes a big thing.
Like why make fun of that? It is easy to
make fun of things you don't understand. And even n
f t is, like you brought up. We were talking
(12:04):
about it during the week and I've I've said many
times n f t s will be around for a
long time. I don't know if they're going to be
around in the capacity that they are now with people
selling monkeys for you know, cartoon monkeys for three hundred
thousand or six hundred thousand dollars. I got a message
from someone today that wants to have a conversation with
us about something involving n f t S that could
(12:25):
be wild. I forgot to tell Anthony this. I'm just
putting it and this is what I'm saying, like, don't
make fun of things just because you don't understand it
or you don't know now. Teasing is a different thing, right,
Like making jokes about things are different, but being a
bully about something another story. Another thing I would say
about difficult part of this podcast, and it was more
(12:46):
difficult time was when we got let go and we're
told we can no longer do this podcast, and those
three months of fighting to keep our podcasts. Shout out
telling us for making sure that we got to do
this podcast. Is really without Elvis stepping in, we wouldn't
be doing this right now. For the last year and
a half or whatever it's almost two years, we would
not have been doing this podcast, and who knows how
(13:08):
long we'll do it for. But this it's weird because
through all of it, through the things we've learned, the struggles,
this podcast, I think for both of us and I
hope for you as you listen, has been a place
of consistency and normalcy in a in a really weird way,
you know, throughout all of the ups and downs for
(13:30):
eight years. I think it's also been like even when
times were absolutely still, Like if I'm in a bad
mood or I'm going through a rough time, when I
sit down to do this podcast, I kind of forget
about that and we go into this separate world. And
I think everyone who listens feels the same way. I
hope so, because that's kind of the goal. The goal was,
(13:52):
you know, whatever you've got to do, take out this
time and ideally take out all a Friday if you can,
or at least a couple of hours for you, you know.
And I think it was a process that we were
not a process, an idea that we had where when
that studio door closed, when we used to record this
in an actual radio studio, when that door closes, whatever
(14:13):
is on the other side of that door doesn't matter.
Let's enjoy the time that we have with these microphones,
with our with our friends that are listening with each other,
and let's go from there. And obviously that's not the
easiest thing to do all the time, but it's it's
a good thought to have, Like sometimes you do have
to block out all the noise around you and just
enjoy the moment that you're in. Obviously, completely agreed, and
(14:37):
who you have any more questions for me? What's the
most fun thing that you've done during this for the
not during this podcast, because we kind of do the
same thing during the podcast. What is the most fun
thing you've been able to do because of this podcast?
There we go. I think the live podcast in Cleveland
(14:59):
one of the coolest things. I don't know, I mean
the coolest thing we got to because the podcast was
hosted our own morning show. I guess. I think the
when we got to introduce Shawn Mendez on top of
Radio City Music Hall, on top of that Marquis, that
iconic Marquis. It's like a landmark in New York City.
We were only able to do that, especially as a pair,
(15:20):
because this podcast had people view us as a pair
of hosts as opposed to two individual people who work
on Elvis a show on these like lower level tasks.
So I think in a weird way, this podcast allowed
us to do that and that was really cool. Is
this podcast what made you think of us as um,
(15:42):
you know, a duo, a couple. No, No, because we
had been doing this podcast for a really long time
before that was even with this podcast is what led
us together? You know, it's like a time capsule of
our love. Shut up, Well, I have a statement to make.
I go for it. Maybe talking into the microphone. I
(16:02):
don't think I'm coming back to Seattle because I am
a queen in New Jersey. Okay, don't come back to you.
Let me tell you. I this morning walked into Orange
Theory in East rather for New Jersey on roots seventeen
UM and the coach for the class is my friend
from Rutgers. We went to college together, lived on the
same dorm. Now she's a coach there, so I was
(16:23):
very excited to take her class. I walk in and
I'm like one of the last people to get there,
and there they the studio like lobby is packed, and
everyone's heads turned and look at me, and I'm like,
oh man, I'm late. That's weird. I'm like everyone staring
at me. What's happening? So I go up to the counter.
And every time you go to a new Orange Theory
as an Orange Theory member, there's always like a little
(16:44):
flyer a note that says like, welcome Carla Marie from Seattle.
So it clearly said that up there for the whole
morning or a whole day. As people checked in, and
I'm like, oh, there I am, that's my name, and
they checked me in. I obviously say my name Carla Murie.
They checked and I take the whole class and throughout
the class and like, man, I don't like people are
looking at me. Am I doing things wrong today? So
(17:06):
class ends and this girl comes right up to me.
She's like, so do you know Elvis Turran? Like as
a joke, obviously, like you know, trying to be funny.
I was like yeah, and like I now I'm like,
oh okay. So then her and the other girl like yeah,
like I love Elvins or whatever, and it was like
so bizarre. Then my coach, my friend comes up to
me and she's like, when you walked in to the lobby,
(17:27):
I had so many people coming up to me and go,
did you know that's the girl that used to be
on Elvis. That's Carla Marie. She used to be on
the radio here And so now I'm taking a class
with all these people and I'm like, well, what faces
was whereas I'm making Was I doing it hard enough
on the treadmill? Or should I have listen? And then
another girl, Denise, she was awesome. She came back in
(17:48):
the studio after classes like can I get a picture?
I said, not in that shirt? She was wearing a
seton Hall University. Yeah. And my friend Resa, who was
coaching I was like, how do you let her in
here with that shirt on? She's like, I know, I
gave her crap every time she does it. So it
is funny when you're especially in New York, especially New Jersey,
I should say, I mean, the power of Elvis Duran
(18:09):
is crazy. It is. It is nuts. And I do
think we oftentimes forget because you know, we have public
facing jobs that people sometimes recognize you, which is a
good reminder because you're always you should be on your
best behavior. Well now I gotta lift higher weights heavier.
So anyway, another thing I noticed in class today now
(18:31):
being able to go from Orange Theory in Seattle and
Florida and Nashville, like I've taken you know, them all over,
but specifically obviously the most in Seattle. I'm looking around
the room today and I'm like, everyone looks like they're
from New Jersey. And it's something like and I don't
even mean style at all. I don't mean hair, I
(18:51):
don't mean outfits. I don't know. I guess everyone's just Italian,
like I don't know what it is. But you see
a face and I'm like, you're from Jersey Town, where
you're well, yeah, of course, but I'm like, it's just
and I'm like laughing to myself looking at people. I'm like,
I would never see your face in Seattle. I would
never see a face like yours. But there's also there's
(19:12):
a way that people carry themselves, and I think it
applies to every part of the country, but there's a
way specifically that people from New York, New Jersey carry themselves.
And actually there was a tweet then our friend Mayhem,
who lives out here is from Spokane originally, uh he
posted yesterday and there was some video my Twitter is
(19:32):
not working for some reason. Um, were you hack? No? No,
it's like the app just keep just just keeps closing.
I go to open it and it closes. But there
was a tweet that said, there's something about a New
Yorker telling someone to s their d that always sounds
so oddly artistic, and it's like, yeah, no one says
that thing better than someone from New York, New Jersey.
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It's weird. I can say it if you want, you
don't have to people. I think people know. Yes, he
did share that that's exactly what it said. And then
I also shared on my Instagram story. I don't know
by the time this comes out, it might be gone.
But it's a New York City account that I followed
that always post like New York City beams, and it
was a woman being like, listen, if you don't if
(20:18):
I'll hold that door for you, and if you don't
say thank you, I'm saying you're welcome either way. And
it's not rude of me to say you're welcome. You're
the rude one. And I was like, I do this
when I hold a door for someone I don't care
where I am and they don't say you're welcome. I
say you're welcome out loud, and one day I'm gonna
get punched in the face for it, but I'm ready.
See that actually happened. My my one friend in high
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school almost got into a fight because of that. And
I've always been listen. I think you should say thank
you if someone holds the door open, but also you
should be holding that door open because it's the right
thing to do, not because you're getting a thank you. No,
I want to I want a cookie. But I remember
I was walking into Odyssey Jim, which I don't know
if it's still in Waldwick, New Jersey or not, but
my friend was walking in as well. He was in front,
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I mean he held we were going in, but there
was an older guy coming out. Now, when I tell you,
we were maybe eighteen nineteen years old. The guy who
was walking out was probably over sixty, right, So my
friend holds the door open. The guy walks out and
walks straight past both of us, and my friend decides
(21:22):
to tell you're welcome, asshole, that's okay, next line. And
then the old guy turned around and my friend was big,
like he was six to probably to sixty, and this
old guy was like my size. And the old guy
starts turning around and starts yapping back at my friend,
and I was like, I'm I'm about to watch my
(21:42):
friend go to jail. There's no way he comes out
of this. Okay, he's gonna kill this old man by accident.
And thankfully the guy like he apped a little bit.
Then I think he finally realized how big my friend
was and just like turned around and walked to his car.
You've never haven't hung out with him since high school,
so you've probably have never met him, but um, very
(22:03):
big person. I will say that my chiropractor is also
in the same building as a daycare and those kids
are hilarious at all times of day. But I was
walking into the chiropractor one day last week and I
was like, all the way down to the bottom of
the ramp, you know how we always talk about, oh,
do you hold the door off the person's far away,
blah blah whatever. It was a four year old who
(22:25):
held the door for me the whole way up the
ram and the teachers like, come on, She's like, no,
someone's coming. And I get to the door and I
was like, thank you so much, and I like I
wanted to be like, do nice things forever, please, And
the teacher was like, that was very nice of you
to her, and I was like, oh my god, what
a good kid. But that's when you also have to
teach that kid, uh practical sense or common sense and say,
(22:46):
hey man, when that person's thirty ft away from you,
you don't need to hold the door open. What is
your what is the limit? I never know. I hate
the eye contact no because sometimes I just I'll always
turn around, or not always, but I'll usually turn around
to check. And I've made eye contact with people that
are pretty far and I think there's an agreement like
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it would be weird if I held the door open
this long. But then there's that middle ground when they're
like fifteen twenty ft away from you, You're like, uh,
this is questionable. I don't know if this is just
gonna be weird because now I'm waiting here for approximately
thirty seconds for you to walk in. I don't know. Yeah,
(23:29):
I just know that if I make eye contact, I
hold it. I can't make eye contact and turn my
back on that person. Oh, I absolutely can, and mainly
because I I know that I'm doing them a favor
at some point by not making it awkward. That's gonna
like to spring. Yeah, no one wants that because you've
and the kid is a bad example because it's a
(23:50):
little kid. But I'm sure you've been in a situation
where someone has held the door open for you and
you're like, I don't want to move faster now, Now
this is rude. I don't know what it's not rude
because your ask has to move faster. And again, I
don't know what the the appropriate distance is. I don't
know if we've come to that conclusion as a society yet.
(24:12):
Um no, and we never will. But moving on, well,
I do want to say that this is a podcast
that we started basically just like drinking on the podcast, right,
and we'd go out on Friday as that was my
whole thing. I'm actually going to the club today, that's right, Tomorrow,
I'm gonna do an old school Moday Friday weekend because
I'm going out Friday and Saturday back to hack it
(24:34):
at clubs. Well, tomorrow night, I'm most likely not going
to be drinking and might have like one kind of
social cocktail as I hang around there. Um, mainly because
I've got to drive all the way out to Bellevue. Yeah,
you don't want to uber there because that's a hundred
dollars exactly. Now there is a chance that I get
a ride to Bellevue, um, and then I could uber back,
So we'll see how that works. But tonight is at
(24:54):
View which is in Seattle right on second second half,
and then tomorrow is that form social house in Bellevue.
And the reason I'm going to both is my friend
d J. Marco Penta, who we've had on the Twitch show,
who I used to do events with while we were
working together with Elvis's show, who actually used to host
parties that I threw at seton Hall and he was
(25:15):
on the K to Use Street team with me, so
I've known him now for like fifteen years. He is
out here in Seattle for the first time, djaying, so
are you gonna wear tones? I don't know, probably some
dope ass sneakers, some jeans and a T shirt. Hm,
why are you gonna grind? Am I gonna with Marco?
He's gonna be busy, He's gonna be DJ the ladies
(25:38):
at the club. I don't believe. So alright, I think
I'm really just gonna be chilling, like in the DJ
booth for the most part, taking requests. Can I Can
I get requests this song? Apparently everyone just requests bad
Bunny all the time. That's what they get. Yeah, I
see them tweeting about that. So I don't know what
the setup is a view, but I know I think
the DJ booth is actually elevated, almost like a balcony.
(26:02):
You're gonna feel so cool, and then I know it
forms social house. There's kind of like a V I
P area right behind the DJ booth. So when I've
gone to hang out with DJ Phase, that's normally I'll
just sit back with him, sitting on the couch, have
like one beer for about three hours, and then I'll
go home. It's cool, it's good people watching there. But
tonight I'll actually be able to drink a bunch because
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I'm just gonna uber there and back. Where is it?
It's on second half kind of by my barber. Be
careful down there. Well, I'm just ubering there and back.
I'm not walking there, so it's mighty far walk. Okay,
So Anthony's going to the club. Anthony is also a
cat dad big time this week. Um, we did just
get a tacks from the kitten's mom that you were watching,
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she said, checking in on how the kidies are doing,
because normally when I go watch them, they get pictures.
I was sending you pictures were for some reason. I
don't think I saved her number. Well, she just texted
the boat of Us Okay, perfect. But um, I did
also get an alert on my phone that the little
robot draw is full. Drawer. Who Jersey just came into
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my body? Was that mom Memrie on the podcast. I
think it's because I'm next to addresser and it has drawers.
I don't know what happened anyway, The drawer is full
of poop and you need to get rid of it.
Draw is full of poop, the poop draw, so you
gotta empty that. How are they doing that? Like, are
they listening to you? Or they out of line? What's up?
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They're just being cats. They're doing cat things right now.
There's actually someone there's an electrician here who's doing a
bunch of work, so they're just kind of following him around.
I asked him before he walked in if he was
allergic to cats. He said no, he actually has some.
So it's all working out. So ice cream Man's hair,
it's April. Oh, they come as soon as long as
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the sun is out. Are you getting ice cream? Mom?
She's already outside. I'm not asking me if I want anything.
She loved the ice cream truck. Everyone loves the ice
cream truck. We don't have them in Seattle. And this
is what I'm saying, like we need to drive on
ice cream truck. That can say the Morning Show podcast
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Monday Friday, Twitch and we just give out ice cream.
What will you sell it? Go for it, Carl Maury.
There are two things I want to talk about before
we because we have to wrap this podcast up. The
first thing I want to talk about is we did
have our first call about merch and it looks like
very soon we will have our merch line like ready
to go, and this will be similar to what we
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did last year and before Christmas. It will be the
limited time exclusive pre sale and we'll have more information
on that um. Of course, you can subscribe to our newsletter.
Carlambury is going to have that information. In the description
of this podcast, I will say we don't know what
items are staying or going that are currently in the store.
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So if there's something you've been eyeing up, like a
hoodie or whatever, I would pick that up. And the
second thing is we have decided that since this is
the eight year celebration of My Day Friday, we are
going to attempt to put together a summer event down
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the Shore. I'm not saying where yet, we don't know
exactly if it will happen. I just want everyone to
know that near the end of June, we will most
likely have an event that is easily accessible for people
in New York, New Jersey and Philadelphia, maybe even Connecticut
if you can make a drive. We're going to the shore.
It will be down the Shore area. So I wanted
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to put that out there into the universe, because sometimes
you have to say something to do something that's true.
It's called manifesting. And I'm going to say where it
might be to also promote that place in the meantime. UM,
it might be at my brother's new steakhouse in Point
Pleasant Beach. It's called Center Steakhouse. I went last night
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with um Sam and my sister Sam from elis Un
Joe who was with us for this last week and
my sister. We went there and it's really good. The
space is awesome. There's a giant parking lot across the street.
It's like right on like the inlet, so you can
see the water in the boats. It's really cool. And uh,
the other's that outdoor area that my brother said we
could use. I don't know what the logistics will be.
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I don't know that there will be free anything. I'm
not going to promise that, but it will be a
meet up. We don't have a date. It's not place,
but just letting you know. Yeah, And we just wanted
to put it out there. We want everyone to have
that on their radar. So the two things coming up
as we celebrate eight years of this podcast eight years
as a duo. Um, We've got the merch launch on
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the way and that meet up event that we will do.
Maybe it'll be like a happy hour type thing. We'll
we'll figure it out. We'll have more information on the way,
and maybe it'll actually be a live podcast similar to
what we did in Cleveland. All right, a Jersey live podcast.
Any last words before we close out this celebration, carlm No,
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But were are my cats? They're scattered, especially because the
electricians here that some of them are hiding. John's been
under the bed the whole time. I'm not going to
collect them that John, he needs whooping. All right, thank
you so much. Honestly, we we thank you every week
for listening to this podcast. But for those of you
who have been here since the first podcast for eight years,
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and for everyone who we have collected, like Dorothy along
the way, thank you very much for helping us create
this space. Because if you've found it useful or helpful
or therapeutic at all, just know that we to use
this space the same way a h have been able
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to have this as an outlet. Just people who listen
reaching out and saying that they enjoy it or they
laugh or whatever it is helps us so much. So
if you're saying like Anthony said, if you're saying, oh,
my day, Friday helps me. When you tell us that
you like it, it also helps us know that you
know what we're doing is good. But just the act
of us being able to get on this podcast vent
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talk about things in our life just has been a
gift that not everyone gets in their life. So that's
been really cool for us. So thank you for listening
to us for eight years. I wonder how many hours.
That's a lot of hours. Thank you, do something good
for yourself this weekend, do something good for someone else,
and remember you look great. You look great.
All right, we are officially doing it. We're celebrating the
eight year anniversary of the My Day Friday podcast. I
can't believe it. Eight is actually the age that I
remember being like the first time I remember turning age,
like for a birthday. M I don't know if I
remember my eighth birthday. Either way, we're gonna hit the intro.
We're gonna talk about some things that we've learned as
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we've done this podcast. We are doing it from different places,
so there might be a delayed there might be like
talking over one another a little bit. But I think
it's actually pretty cool that the podcast that took us
from New York and New Jersey to Seattle, we are
now doing from New Jersey and Seattle simultaneously. So how
about we played the little intro Carl Murray, let's do it.
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It's Pete went from Far Boy, and you're listening to
my two favorite people, Carla Marie and Anthony's Friday. Hi,
I'm carry hi only I am dressing Hi am j
I will and you'll listen to Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, Come on,
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come all, bring your friends, let's have a good time,
because that's what this podcast was all about Carlurys chugging
some water before she's ready to rage. All right, So
the Monday Friday podcast started originally because Carlin, Maurye and
I wanted to practice doing our own show and seeing
what it would sound like and not even knowing that
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we would have our own show one day, but we
thought we were eventually going to be, you know, sent
on our separate ways. But we needed a place to
practice kind of doing a thing where we talk more
and more. What I always thought we were a package deal. No,
I didn't. You were drying a piecemeal to our show.
I was. There was actually not a lot of people
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know this. There was a show out west before we
got our show in Seattle that apparently had some interest
in us. And when we were originally told now this
is only about six months after we started My Day Friday,
and the someone had talked to us about this show.
And I don't want to say the name of the
show because it's still miraculously on the radio. Um, but
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they told us the city that it would be in,
and I remember Carlon Marie was like, I don't know,
I can't move there. Why would I leave? This is
before you were ready to like leave the Elvis nest.
I don't know what. Um, I don't want to say
too much. But the person who told us about that
event then came to me later on it was like,
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just so you know, I know, Carl Marie is not
ready to leave, but if you are, they'll probably still
hire you on your own. Yeah, I'm pretty sure I
told you about this before. Well, you know what, there
were plenty of times people came to me and said,
ditch Anthony and we'll give you the world, And I said,
I can't do that to him. What world were you
going to be given? Carla Murray? Glamorous? Like what what
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glamorous world in the world? Radio were you're going to
be given? Well? Maybe it was going to be TV?
Maybe where was this going to be? What we were
going to give me? Car What they're gonna give me?
Cars and houses with pools, exotic animals? And I said,
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I can't. I'm sorry. It sounds great, but I can't
do that. Dan, I would have for all of those things,
I would have left you in a heartbe I still would,
I think. So just keep that in mind. What you
have a car, you have a house, and you have exotic,
exotic animal. I don't have a car, and I don't
have a house, and I have four very basic animals,
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the opposite of exotic cats and dogs are about as
basic as you can get. But we started the podcast,
like I said, to practice kind of doing radio things.
And this is before podcasting really took off the way
it has, like Mark Mayron had his podcast, Joe Rogan
had his podcast, but even then, they weren't getting the
numbers that they were getting now or that they are
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getting now. So we jumped into this space. And the
first thing I want to ask you, Carl Murray, is
as we celebrate eight years of My Day Friday, what
do you think is one thing you learned from this podcast? Specifically?
Is there like a life lesson you learned? Is there
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a I'm sure there's a bunch, but what what sticks out?
I think because we have done this so long, in
such pivotal points of our lives, that I have learned
that it is very okay to change your mind and
want different things, and and your opinion as well can change.
Like I'm not saying it's ok to be a hypocrite,
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but you can grow like who we were and when
we started this podcast, as are clearly still who we
are now, But there were so many things that Like
if you go back and listen where I've I said
I would never have a cat, Like that's a simple,
like the most symbol of it. But like it's okay
to evolve, and you should never feel the same way
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your entire life because things are going to change around
you and it's okay to adapt to those things as
you move to new cities or make new friends or
whatever it is. And I think be learning that knowing
it's okay to change your mind makes you feel so
much better. Like, well I used to think this, What
if I think differently? No things make you change? Okay,
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I'm about you for me, and I don't want to
use like the Nike slogans. I'm trying to think of
something other than just do it. Um, maybe give it
a try. Just start is a big one. Just start
is a big one. I don't know if I necessarily
love I like the idea of just start. Don't get
me wrong, I think the one thing people for get
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when they say just start is you can't just start
without a plan. Um. But I think we didn't necessarily
have an idea when we first came up with doing
this podcast. We didn't know what it was going to
be or where it was going to take us, but
we sat down, we came up with, you know, a
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a framework of what we wanted to do, what we
wanted it to sound like. We handled it in the
most professional way we knew how at the time. And
then with all of the other things that we've done
since then, we've kind of taken that same approach. When
we got to launch our show in Seattle, we sat down,
came up with a framework, and then said, let's just
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give this a shot. When we did our show on Twitch,
same thing. Let's learn, let's come up with a framework,
and let's do it. Let's try it out. Uh what's
another example, Oh, our merch line that you look Great line.
You know, we didn't know what we were getting into.
We didn't know if it would be successful or not,
but we created a brand of clothing. And I think
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the Morning Show podcast. The Morning Show podcast is another
great example, thank you. But I think all of those
things they started with the same core idea of yes,
an idea is great, and yes, at some point you
just have to start it, but make sure that you're
gathering as much information as you can and even if
you don't have the best resources, the best equipment, the
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best uh. You know, we don't have a staff. It's
just the two of us. If you sit down and
you come up with a framework of what you want
to do, and you stick to it, then you might
find some success. And I think that's been the thing
that I've learned, and it's one of the reasons I
really do feel like I can take on anything because
I think we've done so many different things and so
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many different arenas with the same idea and we've been
able to have similar success. So like, why don't we
do something like super crazy and outrageous and be like,
let's try it, like what like I don't know, some
other kind of business? Like what else is there? Everything's taken,
but we can do the Cardamurie Anthony sprinkle on it. Okay,
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let me ask you another question, Carl Maury Anthony, as
we celebrate eight years of the My Day Friday podcast,
what's been the most difficult thing about the podcast? Mhm,
I know it's a tough question. It's not hard, it's
it's hard to be consistent. I'll say that, Um, I
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think there was a time when we were on the
radio that we felt obligated to do the podcast, and
it was more of a half to not a want to.
And I think I'm glad that we still continued, obviously
because we got out of that rup, but we were
like all of our creative juices were gone. And I
wish that when we started we did this seasonal a
(08:52):
bit of like, hey, we're gonna do the podcast for
every two months, take off two weeks, and then do
it again. Maybe something like that, just to give our
brains a break, even when we went on vacation. I
think I think the feeling of like we have to
do it, we have to do it, opposed to it
was something we wanted to do was a difficult time.
But there was nothing hard about doing this podcast. Yeah,
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I agree. I think there was definitely time, especially when
we first started in Seattle, because there was so much
going on. It wasn't necessarily that it wasn't like this
was a hassle, like you said, but there's just an
energy drain. And when we've we've talked about this before.
Our jobs are not difficult. Yes, they can be tedious
at times. With all the technical things we've got to do,
but it's not the end of the world. We didn't
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have to go to like eighteen years of schooling to
do this. The difficult thing about this in any job
where you're front and center, right where you're like in
front of people, is there is definitely a mental and
energy drain to it, and it it affects you physically
as well. I think when we were doing things like
doing our morning show on Power than doing weekend shifts
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because we have to prerecord those for the same for
the same station. Then we'd have meetings, we'd have we'd
also know that we were going to go do a
live broadcast at the Mariners game and then go do
a live broadcast at a club, and we had to
somehow find time to do my day Friday and all
of that. That was definitely a draining part. So I
definitely agree with that um, but I also think, oddly enough,
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this is gonna sound really weird, and I don't know
if we've ever even really talked about this. There was
also a lot of like resentment that we got from
I would call them industry people because of the podcast,
and I think that was a weird thing to navigate
because it's not something that we anticipated obviously, but when
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we did the podcast, we were probably outside of t J,
one of the first radio people to do like this
side podcast and be like, oh, your little podcast, and
I'm like, okay, we got like that all the time,
and then what happened. We got a morning show and
literally it was like pop up of a podcast. Every
week it was a new podcast, and I was like,
(10:59):
f off. But because so many people didn't understand where
podcasting was going and what we were doing on our podcast,
what we would get, you know, opportunities to do things
with clients or to do things at big events, people
got really bad and we ended up we ended up
being you know, I don't want to say shunned by
any means, but we were definitely kind of like the
Black Sheep for a little bit because of this. And
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this is why I don't think like anytime something new
comes out. I think every once in a while, yeah,
we'll make fun of things, but I don't think either
of us ever shoot on any of it. Like n
F T S. I may not completely understand it, but
it's it's a big thing and it's going to get
even bigger, and and we we should be a part
of it, Uh Twitch right, People like, oh, what what
(11:42):
is what is that? What do you mean you're on Twitch?
That sounds silly? Like okay, and that's how we make money.
Like there's just so much that people make fun of,
and not only in the media world, of anything that
it seems to be a bandwagon thing, but if you
jump on it early on, it becomes a big thing.
Like why make fun of that? It is easy to
make fun of things you don't understand. And even n
f t is, like you brought up. We were talking
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about it during the week and I've I've said many
times n f t s will be around for a
long time. I don't know if they're going to be
around in the capacity that they are now with people
selling monkeys for you know, cartoon monkeys for three hundred
thousand or six hundred thousand dollars. I got a message
from someone today that wants to have a conversation with
us about something involving n f t S that could
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be wild. I forgot to tell Anthony this. I'm just
putting it and this is what I'm saying, like, don't
make fun of things just because you don't understand it
or you don't know now. Teasing is a different thing, right,
Like making jokes about things are different, but being a
bully about something another story. Another thing I would say
about difficult part of this podcast, and it was more
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difficult time was when we got let go and we're
told we can no longer do this podcast, and those
three months of fighting to keep our podcasts. Shout out
telling us for making sure that we got to do
this podcast. Is really without Elvis stepping in, we wouldn't
be doing this right now. For the last year and
a half or whatever it's almost two years, we would
not have been doing this podcast, and who knows how
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long we'll do it for. But this it's weird because
through all of it, through the things we've learned, the struggles,
this podcast, I think for both of us and I
hope for you as you listen, has been a place
of consistency and normalcy in a in a really weird way,
you know, throughout all of the ups and downs for
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eight years. I think it's also been like even when
times were absolutely still, Like if I'm in a bad
mood or I'm going through a rough time, when I
sit down to do this podcast, I kind of forget
about that and we go into this separate world. And
I think everyone who listens feels the same way. I
hope so, because that's kind of the goal. The goal was,
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you know, whatever you've got to do, take out this
time and ideally take out all a Friday if you can,
or at least a couple of hours for you, you know.
And I think it was a process that we were
not a process, an idea that we had where when
that studio door closed, when we used to record this
in an actual radio studio, when that door closes, whatever
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is on the other side of that door doesn't matter.
Let's enjoy the time that we have with these microphones,
with our with our friends that are listening with each other,
and let's go from there. And obviously that's not the
easiest thing to do all the time, but it's it's
a good thought to have, Like sometimes you do have
to block out all the noise around you and just
enjoy the moment that you're in. Obviously, completely agreed, and
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who you have any more questions for me? What's the
most fun thing that you've done during this for the
not during this podcast, because we kind of do the
same thing during the podcast. What is the most fun
thing you've been able to do because of this podcast?
There we go. I think the live podcast in Cleveland
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one of the coolest things. I don't know, I mean
the coolest thing we got to because the podcast was
hosted our own morning show. I guess. I think the
when we got to introduce Shawn Mendez on top of
Radio City Music Hall, on top of that Marquis, that
iconic Marquis. It's like a landmark in New York City.
We were only able to do that, especially as a pair,
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because this podcast had people view us as a pair
of hosts as opposed to two individual people who work
on Elvis a show on these like lower level tasks.
So I think in a weird way, this podcast allowed
us to do that and that was really cool. Is
this podcast what made you think of us as um,
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you know, a duo, a couple. No, No, because we
had been doing this podcast for a really long time
before that was even with this podcast is what led
us together? You know, it's like a time capsule of
our love. Shut up, Well, I have a statement to make.
I go for it. Maybe talking into the microphone. I
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don't think I'm coming back to Seattle because I am
a queen in New Jersey. Okay, don't come back to you.
Let me tell you. I this morning walked into Orange
Theory in East rather for New Jersey on roots seventeen
UM and the coach for the class is my friend
from Rutgers. We went to college together, lived on the
same dorm. Now she's a coach there, so I was
(16:23):
very excited to take her class. I walk in and
I'm like one of the last people to get there,
and there they the studio like lobby is packed, and
everyone's heads turned and look at me, and I'm like,
oh man, I'm late. That's weird. I'm like everyone staring
at me. What's happening? So I go up to the counter.
And every time you go to a new Orange Theory
as an Orange Theory member, there's always like a little
(16:44):
flyer a note that says like, welcome Carla Marie from Seattle.
So it clearly said that up there for the whole
morning or a whole day. As people checked in, and
I'm like, oh, there I am, that's my name, and
they checked me in. I obviously say my name Carla Murie.
They checked and I take the whole class and throughout
the class and like, man, I don't like people are
looking at me. Am I doing things wrong today? So
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class ends and this girl comes right up to me.
She's like, so do you know Elvis Turran? Like as
a joke, obviously, like you know, trying to be funny.
I was like yeah, and like I now I'm like,
oh okay. So then her and the other girl like yeah,
like I love Elvins or whatever, and it was like
so bizarre. Then my coach, my friend comes up to
me and she's like, when you walked in to the lobby,
(17:27):
I had so many people coming up to me and go,
did you know that's the girl that used to be
on Elvis. That's Carla Marie. She used to be on
the radio here And so now I'm taking a class
with all these people and I'm like, well, what faces
was whereas I'm making Was I doing it hard enough
on the treadmill? Or should I have listen? And then
another girl, Denise, she was awesome. She came back in
(17:48):
the studio after classes like can I get a picture?
I said, not in that shirt? She was wearing a
seton Hall University. Yeah. And my friend Resa, who was
coaching I was like, how do you let her in
here with that shirt on? She's like, I know, I
gave her crap every time she does it. So it
is funny when you're especially in New York, especially New Jersey,
I should say, I mean, the power of Elvis Duran
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is crazy. It is. It is nuts. And I do
think we oftentimes forget because you know, we have public
facing jobs that people sometimes recognize you, which is a
good reminder because you're always you should be on your
best behavior. Well now I gotta lift higher weights heavier.
So anyway, another thing I noticed in class today now
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being able to go from Orange Theory in Seattle and
Florida and Nashville, like I've taken you know, them all over,
but specifically obviously the most in Seattle. I'm looking around
the room today and I'm like, everyone looks like they're
from New Jersey. And it's something like and I don't
even mean style at all. I don't mean hair, I
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don't mean outfits. I don't know. I guess everyone's just Italian,
like I don't know what it is. But you see
a face and I'm like, you're from Jersey Town, where
you're well, yeah, of course, but I'm like, it's just
and I'm like laughing to myself looking at people. I'm like,
I would never see your face in Seattle. I would
never see a face like yours. But there's also there's
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a way that people carry themselves, and I think it
applies to every part of the country, but there's a
way specifically that people from New York, New Jersey carry themselves.
And actually there was a tweet then our friend Mayhem,
who lives out here is from Spokane originally, uh he
posted yesterday and there was some video my Twitter is
(19:32):
not working for some reason. Um, were you hack? No? No,
it's like the app just keep just just keeps closing.
I go to open it and it closes. But there
was a tweet that said, there's something about a New
Yorker telling someone to s their d that always sounds
so oddly artistic, and it's like, yeah, no one says
that thing better than someone from New York, New Jersey.
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It's weird. I can say it if you want, you
don't have to people. I think people know. Yes, he
did share that that's exactly what it said. And then
I also shared on my Instagram story. I don't know
by the time this comes out, it might be gone.
But it's a New York City account that I followed
that always post like New York City beams, and it
was a woman being like, listen, if you don't if
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I'll hold that door for you, and if you don't
say thank you, I'm saying you're welcome either way. And
it's not rude of me to say you're welcome. You're
the rude one. And I was like, I do this
when I hold a door for someone I don't care
where I am and they don't say you're welcome. I
say you're welcome out loud, and one day I'm gonna
get punched in the face for it, but I'm ready.
See that actually happened. My my one friend in high
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school almost got into a fight because of that. And
I've always been listen. I think you should say thank
you if someone holds the door open, but also you
should be holding that door open because it's the right
thing to do, not because you're getting a thank you. No,
I want to I want a cookie. But I remember
I was walking into Odyssey Jim, which I don't know
if it's still in Waldwick, New Jersey or not, but
my friend was walking in as well. He was in front,
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I mean he held we were going in, but there
was an older guy coming out. Now, when I tell you,
we were maybe eighteen nineteen years old. The guy who
was walking out was probably over sixty, right, So my
friend holds the door open. The guy walks out and
walks straight past both of us, and my friend decides
(21:22):
to tell you're welcome, asshole, that's okay, next line. And
then the old guy turned around and my friend was big,
like he was six to probably to sixty, and this
old guy was like my size. And the old guy
starts turning around and starts yapping back at my friend,
and I was like, I'm I'm about to watch my
(21:42):
friend go to jail. There's no way he comes out
of this. Okay, he's gonna kill this old man by accident.
And thankfully the guy like he apped a little bit.
Then I think he finally realized how big my friend
was and just like turned around and walked to his car.
You've never haven't hung out with him since high school,
so you've probably have never met him, but um, very
(22:03):
big person. I will say that my chiropractor is also
in the same building as a daycare and those kids
are hilarious at all times of day. But I was
walking into the chiropractor one day last week and I
was like, all the way down to the bottom of
the ramp, you know how we always talk about, oh,
do you hold the door off the person's far away,
blah blah whatever. It was a four year old who
(22:25):
held the door for me the whole way up the
ram and the teachers like, come on, She's like, no,
someone's coming. And I get to the door and I
was like, thank you so much, and I like I
wanted to be like, do nice things forever, please, And
the teacher was like, that was very nice of you
to her, and I was like, oh my god, what
a good kid. But that's when you also have to
teach that kid, uh practical sense or common sense and say,
(22:46):
hey man, when that person's thirty ft away from you,
you don't need to hold the door open. What is
your what is the limit? I never know. I hate
the eye contact no because sometimes I just I'll always
turn around, or not always, but I'll usually turn around
to check. And I've made eye contact with people that
are pretty far and I think there's an agreement like
(23:07):
it would be weird if I held the door open
this long. But then there's that middle ground when they're
like fifteen twenty ft away from you, You're like, uh,
this is questionable. I don't know if this is just
gonna be weird because now I'm waiting here for approximately
thirty seconds for you to walk in. I don't know. Yeah,
(23:29):
I just know that if I make eye contact, I
hold it. I can't make eye contact and turn my
back on that person. Oh, I absolutely can, and mainly
because I I know that I'm doing them a favor
at some point by not making it awkward. That's gonna
like to spring. Yeah, no one wants that because you've
and the kid is a bad example because it's a
(23:50):
little kid. But I'm sure you've been in a situation
where someone has held the door open for you and
you're like, I don't want to move faster now, Now
this is rude. I don't know what it's not rude
because your ask has to move faster. And again, I
don't know what the the appropriate distance is. I don't
know if we've come to that conclusion as a society yet.
(24:12):
Um no, and we never will. But moving on, well,
I do want to say that this is a podcast
that we started basically just like drinking on the podcast, right,
and we'd go out on Friday as that was my
whole thing. I'm actually going to the club today, that's right, Tomorrow,
I'm gonna do an old school Moday Friday weekend because
I'm going out Friday and Saturday back to hack it
(24:34):
at clubs. Well, tomorrow night, I'm most likely not going
to be drinking and might have like one kind of
social cocktail as I hang around there. Um, mainly because
I've got to drive all the way out to Bellevue. Yeah,
you don't want to uber there because that's a hundred
dollars exactly. Now there is a chance that I get
a ride to Bellevue, um, and then I could uber back,
So we'll see how that works. But tonight is at
(24:54):
View which is in Seattle right on second second half,
and then tomorrow is that form social house in Bellevue.
And the reason I'm going to both is my friend
d J. Marco Penta, who we've had on the Twitch show,
who I used to do events with while we were
working together with Elvis's show, who actually used to host
parties that I threw at seton Hall and he was
(25:15):
on the K to Use Street team with me, so
I've known him now for like fifteen years. He is
out here in Seattle for the first time, djaying, so
are you gonna wear tones? I don't know, probably some
dope ass sneakers, some jeans and a T shirt. Hm,
why are you gonna grind? Am I gonna with Marco?
He's gonna be busy, He's gonna be DJ the ladies
(25:38):
at the club. I don't believe. So alright, I think
I'm really just gonna be chilling, like in the DJ
booth for the most part, taking requests. Can I Can
I get requests this song? Apparently everyone just requests bad
Bunny all the time. That's what they get. Yeah, I
see them tweeting about that. So I don't know what
the setup is a view, but I know I think
the DJ booth is actually elevated, almost like a balcony.
(26:02):
You're gonna feel so cool, and then I know it
forms social house. There's kind of like a V I
P area right behind the DJ booth. So when I've
gone to hang out with DJ Phase, that's normally I'll
just sit back with him, sitting on the couch, have
like one beer for about three hours, and then I'll
go home. It's cool, it's good people watching there. But
tonight I'll actually be able to drink a bunch because
(26:23):
I'm just gonna uber there and back. Where is it?
It's on second half kind of by my barber. Be
careful down there. Well, I'm just ubering there and back.
I'm not walking there, so it's mighty far walk. Okay,
So Anthony's going to the club. Anthony is also a
cat dad big time this week. Um, we did just
get a tacks from the kitten's mom that you were watching,
(26:45):
she said, checking in on how the kidies are doing,
because normally when I go watch them, they get pictures.
I was sending you pictures were for some reason. I
don't think I saved her number. Well, she just texted
the boat of Us Okay, perfect. But um, I did
also get an alert on my phone that the little
robot draw is full. Drawer. Who Jersey just came into
(27:09):
my body? Was that mom Memrie on the podcast. I
think it's because I'm next to addresser and it has drawers.
I don't know what happened anyway, The drawer is full
of poop and you need to get rid of it.
Draw is full of poop, the poop draw, so you
gotta empty that. How are they doing that? Like, are
they listening to you? Or they out of line? What's up?
(27:29):
They're just being cats. They're doing cat things right now.
There's actually someone there's an electrician here who's doing a
bunch of work, so they're just kind of following him around.
I asked him before he walked in if he was
allergic to cats. He said no, he actually has some.
So it's all working out. So ice cream Man's hair,
it's April. Oh, they come as soon as long as
(27:49):
the sun is out. Are you getting ice cream? Mom?
She's already outside. I'm not asking me if I want anything.
She loved the ice cream truck. Everyone loves the ice
cream truck. We don't have them in Seattle. And this
is what I'm saying, like we need to drive on
ice cream truck. That can say the Morning Show podcast
(28:10):
Monday Friday, Twitch and we just give out ice cream.
What will you sell it? Go for it, Carl Maury.
There are two things I want to talk about before
we because we have to wrap this podcast up. The
first thing I want to talk about is we did
have our first call about merch and it looks like
very soon we will have our merch line like ready
to go, and this will be similar to what we
(28:31):
did last year and before Christmas. It will be the
limited time exclusive pre sale and we'll have more information
on that um. Of course, you can subscribe to our newsletter.
Carlambury is going to have that information. In the description
of this podcast, I will say we don't know what
items are staying or going that are currently in the store.
(28:52):
So if there's something you've been eyeing up, like a
hoodie or whatever, I would pick that up. And the
second thing is we have decided that since this is
the eight year celebration of My Day Friday, we are
going to attempt to put together a summer event down
(29:13):
the Shore. I'm not saying where yet, we don't know
exactly if it will happen. I just want everyone to
know that near the end of June, we will most
likely have an event that is easily accessible for people
in New York, New Jersey and Philadelphia, maybe even Connecticut
if you can make a drive. We're going to the shore.
It will be down the Shore area. So I wanted
(29:38):
to put that out there into the universe, because sometimes
you have to say something to do something that's true.
It's called manifesting. And I'm going to say where it
might be to also promote that place in the meantime. UM,
it might be at my brother's new steakhouse in Point
Pleasant Beach. It's called Center Steakhouse. I went last night
(30:00):
with um Sam and my sister Sam from elis Un
Joe who was with us for this last week and
my sister. We went there and it's really good. The
space is awesome. There's a giant parking lot across the street.
It's like right on like the inlet, so you can
see the water in the boats. It's really cool. And uh,
the other's that outdoor area that my brother said we
could use. I don't know what the logistics will be.
(30:21):
I don't know that there will be free anything. I'm
not going to promise that, but it will be a
meet up. We don't have a date. It's not place,
but just letting you know. Yeah, And we just wanted
to put it out there. We want everyone to have
that on their radar. So the two things coming up
as we celebrate eight years of this podcast eight years
as a duo. Um, We've got the merch launch on
(30:43):
the way and that meet up event that we will do.
Maybe it'll be like a happy hour type thing. We'll
we'll figure it out. We'll have more information on the way,
and maybe it'll actually be a live podcast similar to
what we did in Cleveland. All right, a Jersey live podcast.
Any last words before we close out this celebration, carlm No,
(31:07):
But were are my cats? They're scattered, especially because the
electricians here that some of them are hiding. John's been
under the bed the whole time. I'm not going to
collect them that John, he needs whooping. All right, thank
you so much. Honestly, we we thank you every week
for listening to this podcast. But for those of you
who have been here since the first podcast for eight years,
(31:29):
and for everyone who we have collected, like Dorothy along
the way, thank you very much for helping us create
this space. Because if you've found it useful or helpful
or therapeutic at all, just know that we to use
this space the same way a h have been able
(31:50):
to have this as an outlet. Just people who listen
reaching out and saying that they enjoy it or they
laugh or whatever it is helps us so much. So
if you're saying like Anthony said, if you're saying, oh,
my day, Friday helps me. When you tell us that
you like it, it also helps us know that you
know what we're doing is good. But just the act
of us being able to get on this podcast vent
(32:12):
talk about things in our life just has been a
gift that not everyone gets in their life. So that's
been really cool for us. So thank you for listening
to us for eight years. I wonder how many hours.
That's a lot of hours. Thank you, do something good
for yourself this weekend, do something good for someone else,
and remember you look great. You look great.
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