March 18, 2022 • 35 mins
We have been MIA - we'll tell you why! Carla Marie may not live through the episode and Anthony shares why he is a "fashion icon." We discuss the 12 things you should know about your significant other!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh, hello again, good to see you. Oh it's been
some time. Thanks for invitting us into your ears. Sorry
that we didn't do a podcast in the last two weeks.
Between our schedule and honestly getting the proper like internet
to post everything, we have been a struggling a little
bit because there's been a lot of travel, a lot
(00:20):
of just craziness going on. Excuses, excuses, that's that's just
what it is, and that's life, and we had to
deal with that. So we appreciate you coming back and
hanging out with us. We didn't even do a Birthday Friday.
We did. My name is Anthony, I'm Carla Murray and
this is the My Day Friday podcast. I know Carla
Marie has some list that she's going to test me
on a little bit. Well, it's the twelve things you
(00:42):
should know about your partner six months into our relationship. Okay,
So well we'll go through that. We're also gonna talk
a little bit of basketball because it is n C
Double A tournament season and I am literally as we
wrap this up, packing my little backpack and heading down
to San Diego to go stay with my friends. Okay, Dora, Yeah,
it's my backpack, backpack, and I'm gonna watch the Seaton
(01:04):
Hall Pirates take on who are you playing? Oh, the
Texas Christian University Horned Frogs. Oh my god, I love
horn frogs. Yeah. They're so cool. They're the best kind
of frog. They're so pretty and they're so slimy. They're
not slimy though, they're not they're prickly. Yeah. So like,
so you really like those frogs? Huh? Yeah? How did Rutgers?
(01:27):
You know what. Let's talk about that later. Here's an
intro Friday. So it's Pete went from Far Boy and
you're listening to my two favorite people, Carla Marie and Anthony.
(01:49):
It's Friday Friday. Hi, I'm carry hi only I am dressing.
Hi am cheese, I will And you're listening to Yes,
it is Friday Friday. Closer to the microphone, closer like this.
I'm trying to make sure that our levels are like, Okay,
(02:10):
you know, something's been awfulately, So first and foremost my
travel to San Diego. I will be flying down. They're
gonna check out Seaton Hall as they take on TCU
in the first and their first games. The horn Frogs.
You're like screaming into the microphone. Dog horn dogs, and
then I thought, corn dogs, You're the worst. Like, here's
(02:33):
the funny thing about Carla Marie is she has fully
bought into the Seaton Hall h Rutgers rivalry, mainly because
she likes to antagonize me. But ask carl the Marie
how many Rutgers basketball games she has been to? And
I can tell you the answer. It's one. And do
(02:57):
you know why she went to that one basketball game?
Because all of my Seaton Hall friends we're going to
watch the Seaton Hall Rutgers game at the Prudential Center.
So carl the Marie tagged along, how many football games
have you been to? Zero? Because there's none, because you're dumb.
There is There is no official Seaton Hall football team. However,
(03:18):
the Seaton Hall intramural flag football team that ran that
campus in two thousand and six and two thousand and seven,
and actually I think in two thousand five as well,
we beat the priests at the seminary finished that sentence,
(03:39):
so it was like seventy it was the it was
the championship game, and I think we beat them by
fifty points. I wouldn't feel so bad. Tackling a priest.
We just had to pull the flag. Now. I also
got kicked out of the championship game one of the years. No,
so we we had a very very good team. We
(04:00):
had a couple of guys like I was a Division
one track athlete. We've talked about that before, so I
was pretty fast. We had a couple of guys on
our team who could have gone Division one in other
sports and other schools, or at least Division three and
chose not to. It's been a very athletic intramural team.
And in the semifinal game we were destroying this one team.
There was like three seconds left in the game and
(04:23):
they kind of they rushed our quarterback, my friend Jake,
and I believe they like ran into him. Dr Daddy. Yeah,
he was a phenomenal quarterback. And basically what happened was
they were super aggressive at the end of the game.
It caused a little bit of a scuffle and for
whatever reason, I picked up the football and I chucked
it at the kid that was getting into it with
(04:45):
my friend and I got thrown out. Bas a Catholic school,
it's not allowed really at all. And curse there or
show your shoulders. I showed my shoulders all the time.
I did. I used to run in a little like
uh racing singlet. I've heard about this and I have
seen no photos. There are there really warrant a ton
(05:05):
of photos. If I buy you a singlet for stage coach,
will you wear it? No? I will wear overalls, but
shorts which will look a little bit like a loose
singlet thing. No, the singlet it was real tight. Did
you wear a cup? No? Then then people just saw everything.
I mean, I would like you talk it a little bit,
not talk, not talk like uh like silence of the
(05:28):
lamb tuck. You're like a justice so it's not just
like a weird blob in the front of you. I
actually don't want to see these photos. And I would
normally if I was racing in the singlet, I would
normally have like sweatpants on right before the race, I
take them off race and then put them back on.
Did everyone wear this or you chose? It depends. There
(05:48):
were a couple of different uniforms you could choose a
lot of Especially because our team was a really good
sprint team, most of the sprinters used the singlet at
least tights on the bottom and like a jersey on top.
Did girls wear this? Uh? The girls were like tight
bottoms with like sports brought top basically what I think.
So mostly around it was either indoor track or spring
(06:11):
track or winter indoor. So my question is, at what
point are you at, like practice and they're like, all right, team,
come pick out your uniform. Then you like try on
the different things and decide I'm gonna go with this one. No,
they give you you have access to all the different combinations.
But I'm saying, so every day you could just pick
a different one, Like what is that process? Like? So
I would depending on the event that I was running
(06:34):
or competing in, like in winter track when I was
just sprinting, because you don't have javelin and indoor track, Um,
I would normally wear the tights and this or and
or the singlet or not or or the singlet. And
then it was also dependent on if I was on
a relay team or not, because your relay team has
to match, right, So how did you guys like pick
what are we gonna wear? Someone just says, hey, we're
doing the jersey or the and this the shorts or
(06:56):
you would switch it off weekly dance team. It also
depended on the memory dependent or was dependent on the
members of the relay team, because sometimes the teammates would
switch up, so you basically were a dance team. Sure, yeah,
it's like we needed to. I used to have a
thing in high school and college, and I even did
it when I was playing in like a church league
(07:17):
basketball after college. I usually wear long socks, like almost
knee high socks, and they're usually different colors, so and
then I also have they're not only different colors, the
darker sock always goes on the right foot. I don't
know why. It's just something I started doing, I think
in football in high school and then in track and
continued very fashion forward when it comes to my athletics,
(07:41):
you know, because again, like we talked about on Twitter
about two weeks ago, I'm a style icon. I'm a
fashion iconshi fashion and style that I'm the intersection of both,
says the man who wears literally only a f from
target first dope fake for specifically faux for fake for
(08:02):
faux fur if you're gonna call is just a French
word for fake. I'm an American fashion icon, not a
French fashion icon. Although Lebanon was under French occupation for
a long time, so we're like kind of French, which
probably is where my fashion forward sense comes from. You
can't even name a French company. I can absolutely Airbus,
(08:24):
no fashion company. You said French a French fashion company? Yes,
thank you? Is Vonchi? Is that? Or No? I don't
know Gucci? No, that's a town that's Italian, Gucci, Italian product,
Italian Italian plus all the fashion brands that I know.
(08:45):
You wouldn't even they're so like up and coming that
you wouldn't even know them because I'm that far ahead
of the curve. Okay, Anna Delvi, who's that? He's so poor?
I was doing it so good earlier. Oh is that
that stupid? As Okay, let me explain something about that show.
I'm sure that I know it's based on a true
(09:06):
story and everything, and I'm sure it's a great show.
I cannot stand. I cannot stand the accent. So she
puts on and she's a great actress, she's it's the
girl from Ozark. I thought the same things. I watched
the trailer and was like, I can't do it, and
Ricky was like, no, you should watch it. So I
got into it, and now now it's like funny and
I get it, Anthony, but I'm telling if you watch it,
(09:28):
you would actually like it. You're so poor that ain't
for me. Dog, Why do you dress like that? Not
a fashion Icon't okay? Moving forward, Um, Rutgers had their
showing in the n C Double A Tournament. How did
that go? Seton Hall is so dumb? How did the
Rutgers game go? It was? They were winning most of it.
(09:50):
It was actually a phenomenal game. They took on Notre
Dame Wednesday night, lost in overtime, double overtime, which is nuts. There.
I've like, there's been more overtime games in the first
couple of days of the tournament that I had seen
in a long time. Properly it does. It normally means
they were well, actually, I take that back, it doesn't.
(10:11):
Here's why, Carl Maurie, in your game, the Rutgers Notre
Dame game that was matched evenly because they were both
supposed to be even teams playing for the eleven seed.
Maybe that's right, they're not. They're like one verse. But
for all of the other games, that means that maybe
they weren't matched properly, because technically, like if you're playing,
if you're a four playing a thirteen, right, is that
(10:32):
how they were? Yeah, a four playing a thirteen, The
four is supposed to blow out the third team. That's
how that works. Are you always nine spots away? Uh no?
But the company in the first round, only the first round,
the combination of teams they're seating will always add up
to seventeen because you have one playing sixteen to playing fifteen.
(10:53):
You got it. But then that's just what it is.
Why can't they do a different number because you have
to add or subtract teams. I don't even I actually
don't even know what you're asking? How many? What are
you high? Oh? Why can't they just do like thirty four?
(11:19):
Do you have a stitch? And thought my sister? I
think my sister just ruptured. So maybe that's why you've
been all wacky. You've been like real wacky today. Just
super are you okay? Okay? If it's gas pains, get
(11:39):
the hell out of the studio. It's too small in here.
If you're gonna make me keep laughing, I gotta go
somewhere because it's there's I can't help it. Hilarious. Someone
just took a knife and slid it across the side
of the whole front of my stomach. Is this a
serious problem we need to address? Because you have a
huge smile on your face and I don't know how
to do this. Like imagine someone's looking at you laughing
(12:00):
like I am dying help me, and you're like, but
you're laughing. I don't know what to do because I
hurt so bad. I don't know what's happening. Okay, are
you okay? Do you need uh? I don't know, Toms
no doing what asking me if I what medicines I need? Well,
then okay, here's the one thing they do need medicine.
(12:21):
Last week I was like, I don't know. My stomach
herts really bad, and he said, do you need an
an acid? Like, okay, you guys gonna get me a
flint Stones vitamin. That's an acid and an ascid is
what TOMS is, isn't it isn't that for heartburn, indigestion.
It's just to like settle your stomach, I believe, or
settle whatever is going on. Maybe I've been using antacid
(12:45):
all around my whole life, not that I use it
that often the word or the product. The product I
also don't use the word. I probably use the word
less than I use the product now that I think
about it. And is a substance that neutralized the stomach acidity,
thank you, and is used to relieve heartburn ingestion or
an upset something. So you're welcome for caring. But here's
(13:08):
one of the problems. And this is something that I
believe normally is one of the differentiating factors between men,
men and women. Okay, men, when you present a problem,
the male instinct is to like hammer away at it, like,
how do I fix this problem? How do I fix
this problem? I'm gonna suggest a bunch of things until
(13:29):
the problem is fixed or I don't have to worry
about it anymore. Women will open up and reveal and
talk about a problem without necessarily needing to solve it. No,
women will just fix it instead of hammering away. And
they'll just fix it in the first hammer. That's true. Um,
when you understand what I'm saying, because like you'll say,
oh my God, I don't feel good, blah blah blah
(13:51):
this and that, Oh my God, had bad dreams, My
stomach curts, my toe hurts whatever, and I'll suggest things
to help you solve that, and then you're just like, no,
I don't need help, just leave me a lot. I
just wanted to say it. It's like, well then don't okay, okay,
do you need to do you need a Tom's No,
(14:12):
it's not Tom's related. It's not Tom's related pepto. It
might be my ovari insists literally rupturing live on this podcast.
So what do I do for a minute? If I
shush and you leave, this podcast is done or or
it's gas pains. It's very hard to tell the difference.
(14:33):
So what are you gonna do? Go fart? I don't know. Yeah, girls,
fart Anthony. Anyway, what I was saying is oftentimes women
will present a problem just because they feel like letting
someone know there is a problem. This is the most
misogynoust thing you've said. I'm not saying either one is
(14:54):
right or wrong. I'm just saying, and I think a
lot of people have probably observed the same thing. Maybe
because we like to speak about we're open and honest
about things, where men just like don't do that. What's
the opposite of misogynistic? There issogynistic either way, whatever you
(15:15):
said is the opposite of misogyny. No, it's I think
that's like a food thing. It's the difference. Is you
basically just said that all women do is complain? No, yes,
I did. I said that women. Basically, what I'm saying
was women enjoy airing their problems without necessarily needing to
(15:38):
solve them. And I think that's a I think that's
actually very good because the idiotic caveman mentality of a
guy to be like, there's a problem, I need to
hammer away at this somehow isn't necessarily always the most
positive things. Sometimes you need to sit back and just
say what the problem is, let your brain kind of
process a bunch of stuff. But I think it's also
like when something's wrong with you, I'm like, what do
(16:00):
you need? What do you want? I'll get you this.
You know. That's what I'm telling you to shut up
because that's just the same thing. It's the same thing.
It's the ailer versus the fixer. Theiler like ailment an ailer.
I mean I made a homogeney before, so I guess
I can't really talk. I wish somebody made a glossory
(16:21):
of all the words we've make. It would be so
stupid would be good. Um. So basically, if you're in need,
you're always like uh, and the other person like what
do you need? What do you need? You're like, I
just need to be Uh. Yeah. So it's not a
man women thing. I think it's more often women. I
agree with what I just said. I know. So, um,
(16:45):
let's go into your your stupid list? What is this list?
Twelve things six months partners? Twelve things you should know
about your partner six months into a relationship, according to
a couple's counselor all right, let's do it. One. What
makes your partner laugh and cry? Me? Next? No, you
should know that. What makes you laugh? Asking you what
(17:06):
they are? So you're just gonna go through the list. Then?
What makes me laughing? Cry? What makes you laugh? Comedy shows?
I hope? So what makes you a partner? Laugh? Funny things? Items?
What's wrong with you? Okay, maybe we should only do
(17:34):
this podcast once every three weeks because I feel like
we're on fire. I'm dying, Lily in pain. This might
be the last one. Then something's happening. Oh my god,
if I die, it's been really really fun anyway. What
makes you laugh? I don't know you like Dave Chappelle. Okay,
he's funny again. Stand up comedy makes me laugh? Wow,
(17:57):
you know me so well. I make you laugh and
that's true just by being me. Now, what makes you cry?
I'm trying to say, the last time we got emotional? Sports? What? What?
(18:17):
I don't know what was a worse answer? Stants up
comedy or sports? Oh god, the last time you cried?
I can't believe you said stand up comedy makes me laugh?
Like that was a new revelation. It was literally like,
what is your dad like as a kid? And you
draw it sports? Again? My dad likes to work. Um?
What makes tones cry? Not much? Really? No, I I've
(18:41):
seen you cry a lot, a lot, define a lot
in the ten years i've known you. You cried when
we moved, you cried when we got here, you cried,
We both cried when we broke up. At one point,
what if you're gonna sit here and try to look
me in the eye and tell me you didn't cry?
Not but you didn't see me do that? I sure did.
(19:04):
I think you're lying, Anthony George. I think you're lying.
You know how I know that you're wrong, and you
know you're wrong. She wouldn't be saying I think you're lying. No,
I just don't remember that moment. Well I do. Maybe
I've blocked it out all right because it was so sad.
You can never I was expecting to be like, I
don't know, emotional sad things make him cry. I'm not
(19:27):
really a cry so it's a tough Yeah, okay, what
makes me laugh and cry? I'm hilarious. I'm also very frustrating.
See things that frustrate Carla Marie makes make her cry
more more so than sad things. Carl Marie is a frustrated,
angry crier, which is super annoying. Honestly, it's super annoying.
(19:50):
And I am, oh, I'm sorry, and you're a man,
and my female emotions bother you know, it doesn't bother me.
But think about it. This one we've actually taught. We
used to talk about this on the radio show. People
will defend crying in the workplace and be like, well,
you know that's showing emotion, blah blah blah. Crying is
(20:12):
not an emotion. Crying as a reaction to different emotions, right,
Because you can be happy and cry, sad and cry
anger and cry frustrated and cry, confused and cry when
you I believe that. First off, Yeah, sometimes crying is inevitable, right,
regardless of where you are. But I think if you
(20:33):
continually cry in the workplace, you just haven't figured out
how to control your emotions in the workplace. But sometimes
you physically cannot control it. But think about it this way.
Imagine what if you were laughing somewhere and you couldn't
stop laughing. But your responsibility, especially at work, is to
control your reactions in the workplace now, and you can screaming,
(20:56):
you can control that. But no, that's how come? How
come if a guy like a bodily function. Okay, so
it's pissing, you control that, you know, just some times
when it gets bottled up and comes out. But hear
me out for a second. And I don't want to
vilify anyone who's cried. This is just a debate, right,
This is just talking. It's just a discussion. This was
(21:17):
supposed to be fun. It is fun. This is fun.
Have fun. Um. Nope. Just like if a guy or
a woman whoever gets angry and throws things, right, the throwing,
the throwing something is your reaction to being angry. Yeah,
but that is something that you physically decided to do.
(21:37):
I am when I start crying, I'm not like, okay,
cry no. But but you can't compare this. You can
absolutely can both reactions to emotions and stimulus stimuli. I
can't control crying. You cannot think you maybe you should, no,
but no, but people can't. I disagree. If you're gonna cry,
you're gonna cry. I think when you're grieving, right, that's
(22:02):
totally different. But I think in the workplace, stop, it's
totally different. Allowed to talk about feelings until you watch
Inside Out, the Pixar movie about feelings. Why everything? Because
there's a little color colored cartoon character in my brain
pulling lovers. Because you can't control crying, you can be like,
(22:27):
stop it, don't cry, don't cry, don't cry. But and
it's still like that thing is still there. Okay. Next
the well, what makes me laugh? What makes you laugh?
Your cats make you laugh? They do, They're funny, I think.
And this is gonna sound somewhat dumb at first. Carla
Marie's friends make her laugh, which ones most of them
(22:51):
because carl the Marie get in a laughing mood even
if things are not funny around her friends. Does that
make more sense? All right? Well, like give me an example,
like a couple of weekends ago when Erica and John
and Rickey and Jake Rere, you just laughed the whole time.
Maybe the stupidest thing. You'd be like, oh my god,
these cookies don't taste good. Yeah you did. You told
(23:12):
us they were dusty cookies that we died. But it's me.
I'm not the only one. Erica does too. This isn't
about all right, No, what's number two? I didn't like
number one? That's stupid? What you should know? What? Your
partner is passionate about cats, small businesses and supporting people.
(23:33):
And for you, that's it national parks, saving the animals.
When was the last time you went to a national park?
It's been a long time. What doesn't mean I don't
love him. I just bought it at some oar calendar, okay,
And it's it's for the parks. I would say, your
number one is cats. Your number two is supporting um,
(23:58):
the people in your life to all of their passions
and stuff like that. Number three small business. Number four
is national parks? What am I? So? Is it just
that what you're passionate about okay, go sports, Okay, no,
for real, though, you are passionate specifically about tenhole basketball,
that might be number one. Uh, passionate about what we
(24:22):
do as Uh. I don't want to just say like
our podcast and our show. You're more passionate about every time,
just the future of it, like what's next for you?
It is the what is next? In business? Um? You
are passionate about your family specifically, are you gonna cry? Man?
(24:45):
I'm literally just looking at you. I think that would
be it. You're passionate about traveling to see the Brosky
didn't say working out. Oh my god, I forgot about it.
It's like you don't even know me. I guess that
is very important, but I would I forget that. That's
like a thing that you can be passionate about and
not like it's just part of your life. Yeah, well,
(25:08):
I'm I'm so passionate that has become part of my
life now. That might be seen whole basketball again? On
what is this list again? Really? A number two? Twelve
things we're not doing? Okay, so let's let's speed through here.
Number three. You should know how their family affected their growth.
I I know so well I thought we were answering
(25:28):
all that. I'm just saying yes. I know it's turned
into yes or no. False. Well, you had a big family.
You were like cousin. Your cousins were always around. I
know that your aunt. You had to move in with
your aunt for a while because your mom kicked you out. Well,
yes and no, but yeah, I know all about that,
you know. And for the record, I wasn't kicked out,
(25:51):
like get out of my house, I'm never seeing you again.
It was like, you're really bad at schoolwork, You're gonna
go live literally three blocks away with her aunt and
she is the smartest one of the family, and you're
gonna get your school work done. So I wasn't like
out on the streets out. Carline has been influenced by
her family, and I noticed this once I started getting
to know the family. Um and when Carlin is back
(26:11):
with her family, it's a very loud, in your face family.
Like you, if you don't say what you want to
what your point is so loud and so quickly, you'll
never be heard. But you also have to say it
like it's the most important thing in the world. That's
the that's the difference, because I also have a big
family where you have to get your point out very quickly.
But in Carline is family, and it is why Carline
(26:33):
is the way she is. Everything that you think is
the most important thing in the world. Uh, you should
know what makes your partner mad? B Yes, you are
the answer. Actually, there's a lot of things make you mad. Oh,
and a lot of things don't make you mad. People
people not putting the weights back at the gym. It's
a whole big thing I get. I get a whole
(26:53):
long text about someone that didn't put their weights. Organizational
things make me very bad because they're simple. My my
computer being too far over in your way. So mad?
Me accidentally folding this table cloth that we use like
bending it? So mad? All right? What's next? What makes
me mad? Everything? You? Yeah, mainly me when you sleep
(27:15):
on the couch. All right. So this person says you're
supposed to know what makes the mad. Obviously, do they
have spiritual beliefs and how do they affect their choices?
I don't think it affects your choices, but you do
have them? Okay, Um, you're I don't You're not a
very spiritual person. I'm spiritual. Spiritual? Yeah, it sounds like
it what's next? But I'm spiritual in that is um,
(27:41):
what's the other word, superstitious? Okay, yeah, Carlin Reid doesn't
want your shoes on the table or something. No, that's dirt. No,
it wasn't there, Like you can't with sneaker boxes on
the table or something, snead Oh what are their defining moments?
You should know that about your partner defining moment? For
(28:04):
Carla Marie, what is the defining I don't know. I
honestly don't know your Caesar, and I think the problem
Maybe it's because I've known you so long. It's not
like I've had to tell you. But like, that's such
a weird thing. It's not like some my defining Like
what does that even mean? Let me read We suggest
you let gut and stink in context determine whether or
(28:24):
not meeting you is an acceptable response. Well, a defining
moment of my life would not have been meeting you,
although I think a defining moment of my life would
just be working at all. Show. Yeah, I think I'm
definitely the most influential person in your life. I would
also be the most influential in your influenced most influential
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person in my life. I don't know next, what's that?
What's next on the list? You should know what is
most important to them? Your cats and your family. The
same thing for you. Your family. Then the cats, they're
no that. I don't put them at number two on
my list. Max is maybe number four? Well, most important
to you is living a healthy lifestyle and working out.
(29:08):
I don't know. Next one this list is I'm I'm fading.
Just go through. How would they define success? You should
know that money that's not true. What kind of support
do they need when they're stressed? Are sad? When you
are stressed or sad, you need not time alone to decompress.
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But I think you need time with someone to decompress.
You need time alone. I need absolutely. I say whatever
you need, come find Yeah. For me, it's like I
just have to sit in the same room as you
and not speak. Yes. Uh. Number ten, What are they
the most proud of about themselves? My dick, I'm not no,
(29:57):
I know, but the spirits people that are just probably crashed.
Oh man, Um, what is the thing you're the most
proud of? Is how many weights you lift? I mean
it's up there, It's not that impressive though, So I
don't think it's the most I don't know what I'm
most proud of. Um, you are most proud. I think
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of your work with small businesses and animal rescues. Yes,
just specifically the beautiful animals that I have rescued in
this house. Number eleven? What can instantly light them up inside?
Like in a good way, like, I don't know, skip
that one? And then last, how do they recharge their
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emotional batteries? Sleep? Oh for me? Are you? I'm answering
for you? Right? Um? I think you need time to watch,
like you just watch a stupid show or something you'll
watch like that ship's creek or the office. You'll that's
how you recharge? Yeah? Yeah, like that lights me up inside? Actually,
and going walks for both of us, say, is that
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what recharges me? Who wrote this stupid ass list? I'll
tell you, Emma Singer? You know what, Emma, your list
is garbage? Put it in the trash? What is it?
What do you say? What do you say? Throw it
in the garbage? In the garbage? Never reading another article
by Emma Singer again if she write better articles. But
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this is when we do these lists all the time.
It's one of the problems. I mean, it's it's so
click batty, and there's so many websites out there. They're
like they their whole they worked with the counselor that
doesn't mean anything. So I'm going to work with like
Dr A and be like, here are the twelve signs
that you're allergic to food? Sure, Like we need to
start work with the experts in our lives, Like who
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do we got experts? Like someone you should interview me?
Twelve signs you love your cat? You know what's so
sad about the internet is that article would actually do
super well. I click on the exactly signed you love
your cat. It's got to be taken already read this
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article to tell you exactly what you know. Confirmation bias.
Here you go. Literally, I'm signed you love your job, boyfriend, girlfriend?
Did you love your cat too much? Oh? That's a
good one, and you probably are going to read it,
but you're not gonna read it while we're on the podcast.
We have been doing this now for about thirty minutes
or so. Carl, Marie and I have to still pack
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my backpack up and head down to San Diego. So
are you packing? Swim trunks. Yeah, I'm gonna have a
short pair of shorts in there. I'm packing very like that,
literally like computer, microphone, no jim stuff. I'm not going
to the gym at all, Oh my god, mainly because
I just wanted to pack light, so I'm not doing that.
You know you're not going to pack your weight clamps. No,
(32:51):
I'm not packing the clamps. And I know it seems
like ridiculous to travel with clamps for the gym, but
it it was a lot of time just search and
for those stupid clamps everywhere because no one puts anything back.
So I just carry them around with me now, Like
I will literally travel if I know I'm going to
the gym. Is that what makes you mad? A lot
of things make me mad, mainly, that's true. You said
(33:12):
a lot of things make me mac do you live
and you live in the little red person? And um
inside out you're the little red guy? Yeah, that is me.
I am almost in a constant state of annoyed. Last
two weekends. When our friends around, like what's wrong with Antony,
I'm like, that's just him, that's all the time. I'm
the happiest angry person you're going to meet. Maybe you
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should talk into the microphe just getting a cat. Maybe
you should go see a therapist. Maybe maybe one day.
Thank you so much for hanging out with us. I
don't even know what we did today in this podcast,
but it was a lot of fun and we appreciate
you given us thirty minutes of your time. If you
have not done so yet, Carlin, Marie and I launched
this project a couple of weeks ago called The Morning
Show Podcast. If you it's linked in the description of
(33:58):
this podcast, but wherever you listen, just search the Morning
Show Podcast and it should come up. You can keep
searching Carla Marine Anthony with it if it doesn't come
up automatically in your search bar. It's been a lot
of fun, actually, and we're both very shocked at how
successful it's been in the responses from people, so as always,
(34:18):
thank you for supporting us into those people who said
they don't watch twitch, they just listened to Monday Friday.
That was part of the reason why we were asking that,
because I think we're gonna actually reach out to each
of you individually and be like, hey, here's a new
thing for you. Yeah, And one of the reasons we
did it was it gives us an opportunity to go
back into that morning show Monday through Friday, part of
(34:39):
your morning routine. World Audio, and that's one of the
things we really really wanted to do. So it's always
less than twenty five minutes. It will give you the
biggest news stories for the record you started saying, so
it's always under twenty five minutes um. It will give
you the big four news stories of the world, a
little hope for humanity, Carlin, Maury does what's trending. We
(34:59):
play a music game that people seem to enjoy, So
it's all of that in a very concise package. You
don't get all the songs repeating like you would on
a radio station, or twenty minutes of commercials in thirty
minutes of driving time, or a laugh track, or fake callers,
any of that stuff. So check it out. The Morning
Show podcast link is in the description of Monday Friday
Oh, hello again, good to see you. Oh it's been
some time. Thanks for invitting us into your ears. Sorry
that we didn't do a podcast in the last two weeks.
Between our schedule and honestly getting the proper like internet
to post everything, we have been a struggling a little
bit because there's been a lot of travel, a lot
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of just craziness going on. Excuses, excuses, that's that's just
what it is, and that's life, and we had to
deal with that. So we appreciate you coming back and
hanging out with us. We didn't even do a Birthday Friday.
We did. My name is Anthony, I'm Carla Murray and
this is the My Day Friday podcast. I know Carla
Marie has some list that she's going to test me
on a little bit. Well, it's the twelve things you
(00:42):
should know about your partner six months into our relationship. Okay,
So well we'll go through that. We're also gonna talk
a little bit of basketball because it is n C
Double A tournament season and I am literally as we
wrap this up, packing my little backpack and heading down
to San Diego to go stay with my friends. Okay, Dora, Yeah,
it's my backpack, backpack, and I'm gonna watch the Seaton
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Hall Pirates take on who are you playing? Oh, the
Texas Christian University Horned Frogs. Oh my god, I love
horn frogs. Yeah. They're so cool. They're the best kind
of frog. They're so pretty and they're so slimy. They're
not slimy though, they're not they're prickly. Yeah. So like,
so you really like those frogs? Huh? Yeah? How did Rutgers?
(01:27):
You know what. Let's talk about that later. Here's an
intro Friday. So it's Pete went from Far Boy and
you're listening to my two favorite people, Carla Marie and Anthony.
(01:49):
It's Friday Friday. Hi, I'm carry hi only I am dressing.
Hi am cheese, I will And you're listening to Yes,
it is Friday Friday. Closer to the microphone, closer like this.
I'm trying to make sure that our levels are like, Okay,
(02:10):
you know, something's been awfulately, So first and foremost my
travel to San Diego. I will be flying down. They're
gonna check out Seaton Hall as they take on TCU
in the first and their first games. The horn Frogs.
You're like screaming into the microphone. Dog horn dogs, and
then I thought, corn dogs, You're the worst. Like, here's
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the funny thing about Carla Marie is she has fully
bought into the Seaton Hall h Rutgers rivalry, mainly because
she likes to antagonize me. But ask carl the Marie
how many Rutgers basketball games she has been to? And
I can tell you the answer. It's one. And do
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you know why she went to that one basketball game?
Because all of my Seaton Hall friends we're going to
watch the Seaton Hall Rutgers game at the Prudential Center.
So carl the Marie tagged along, how many football games
have you been to? Zero? Because there's none, because you're dumb.
There is There is no official Seaton Hall football team. However,
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the Seaton Hall intramural flag football team that ran that
campus in two thousand and six and two thousand and seven,
and actually I think in two thousand five as well,
we beat the priests at the seminary finished that sentence,
(03:39):
so it was like seventy it was the it was
the championship game, and I think we beat them by
fifty points. I wouldn't feel so bad. Tackling a priest.
We just had to pull the flag. Now. I also
got kicked out of the championship game one of the years. No,
so we we had a very very good team. We
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had a couple of guys like I was a Division
one track athlete. We've talked about that before, so I
was pretty fast. We had a couple of guys on
our team who could have gone Division one in other
sports and other schools, or at least Division three and
chose not to. It's been a very athletic intramural team.
And in the semifinal game we were destroying this one team.
There was like three seconds left in the game and
(04:23):
they kind of they rushed our quarterback, my friend Jake,
and I believe they like ran into him. Dr Daddy. Yeah,
he was a phenomenal quarterback. And basically what happened was
they were super aggressive at the end of the game.
It caused a little bit of a scuffle and for
whatever reason, I picked up the football and I chucked
it at the kid that was getting into it with
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my friend and I got thrown out. Bas a Catholic school,
it's not allowed really at all. And curse there or
show your shoulders. I showed my shoulders all the time.
I did. I used to run in a little like
uh racing singlet. I've heard about this and I have
seen no photos. There are there really warrant a ton
(05:05):
of photos. If I buy you a singlet for stage coach,
will you wear it? No? I will wear overalls, but
shorts which will look a little bit like a loose
singlet thing. No, the singlet it was real tight. Did
you wear a cup? No? Then then people just saw everything.
I mean, I would like you talk it a little bit,
not talk, not talk like uh like silence of the
(05:28):
lamb tuck. You're like a justice so it's not just
like a weird blob in the front of you. I
actually don't want to see these photos. And I would
normally if I was racing in the singlet, I would
normally have like sweatpants on right before the race, I
take them off race and then put them back on.
Did everyone wear this or you chose? It depends. There
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were a couple of different uniforms you could choose a
lot of Especially because our team was a really good
sprint team, most of the sprinters used the singlet at
least tights on the bottom and like a jersey on top.
Did girls wear this? Uh? The girls were like tight
bottoms with like sports brought top basically what I think.
So mostly around it was either indoor track or spring
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track or winter indoor. So my question is, at what
point are you at, like practice and they're like, all right, team,
come pick out your uniform. Then you like try on
the different things and decide I'm gonna go with this one. No,
they give you you have access to all the different combinations.
But I'm saying, so every day you could just pick
a different one, Like what is that process? Like? So
I would depending on the event that I was running
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or competing in, like in winter track when I was
just sprinting, because you don't have javelin and indoor track, Um,
I would normally wear the tights and this or and
or the singlet or not or or the singlet. And
then it was also dependent on if I was on
a relay team or not, because your relay team has
to match, right, So how did you guys like pick
what are we gonna wear? Someone just says, hey, we're
doing the jersey or the and this the shorts or
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you would switch it off weekly dance team. It also
depended on the memory dependent or was dependent on the
members of the relay team, because sometimes the teammates would
switch up, so you basically were a dance team. Sure, yeah,
it's like we needed to. I used to have a
thing in high school and college, and I even did
it when I was playing in like a church league
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basketball after college. I usually wear long socks, like almost
knee high socks, and they're usually different colors, so and
then I also have they're not only different colors, the
darker sock always goes on the right foot. I don't
know why. It's just something I started doing, I think
in football in high school and then in track and
continued very fashion forward when it comes to my athletics,
(07:41):
you know, because again, like we talked about on Twitter
about two weeks ago, I'm a style icon. I'm a
fashion iconshi fashion and style that I'm the intersection of both,
says the man who wears literally only a f from
target first dope fake for specifically faux for fake for
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faux fur if you're gonna call is just a French
word for fake. I'm an American fashion icon, not a
French fashion icon. Although Lebanon was under French occupation for
a long time, so we're like kind of French, which
probably is where my fashion forward sense comes from. You
can't even name a French company. I can absolutely Airbus,
(08:24):
no fashion company. You said French a French fashion company? Yes,
thank you? Is Vonchi? Is that? Or No? I don't
know Gucci? No, that's a town that's Italian, Gucci, Italian product,
Italian Italian plus all the fashion brands that I know.
(08:45):
You wouldn't even they're so like up and coming that
you wouldn't even know them because I'm that far ahead
of the curve. Okay, Anna Delvi, who's that? He's so poor?
I was doing it so good earlier. Oh is that
that stupid? As Okay, let me explain something about that show.
I'm sure that I know it's based on a true
(09:06):
story and everything, and I'm sure it's a great show.
I cannot stand. I cannot stand the accent. So she
puts on and she's a great actress, she's it's the
girl from Ozark. I thought the same things. I watched
the trailer and was like, I can't do it, and
Ricky was like, no, you should watch it. So I
got into it, and now now it's like funny and
I get it, Anthony, but I'm telling if you watch it,
(09:28):
you would actually like it. You're so poor that ain't
for me. Dog, Why do you dress like that? Not
a fashion Icon't okay? Moving forward, Um, Rutgers had their
showing in the n C Double A Tournament. How did
that go? Seton Hall is so dumb? How did the
Rutgers game go? It was? They were winning most of it.
(09:50):
It was actually a phenomenal game. They took on Notre
Dame Wednesday night, lost in overtime, double overtime, which is nuts. There.
I've like, there's been more overtime games in the first
couple of days of the tournament that I had seen
in a long time. Properly it does. It normally means
they were well, actually, I take that back, it doesn't.
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Here's why, Carl Maurie, in your game, the Rutgers Notre
Dame game that was matched evenly because they were both
supposed to be even teams playing for the eleven seed.
Maybe that's right, they're not. They're like one verse. But
for all of the other games, that means that maybe
they weren't matched properly, because technically, like if you're playing,
if you're a four playing a thirteen, right, is that
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how they were? Yeah, a four playing a thirteen, The
four is supposed to blow out the third team. That's
how that works. Are you always nine spots away? Uh no?
But the company in the first round, only the first round,
the combination of teams they're seating will always add up
to seventeen because you have one playing sixteen to playing fifteen.
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You got it. But then that's just what it is.
Why can't they do a different number because you have
to add or subtract teams. I don't even I actually
don't even know what you're asking? How many? What are
you high? Oh? Why can't they just do like thirty four?
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Do you have a stitch? And thought my sister? I
think my sister just ruptured. So maybe that's why you've
been all wacky. You've been like real wacky today. Just
super are you okay? Okay? If it's gas pains, get
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the hell out of the studio. It's too small in here.
If you're gonna make me keep laughing, I gotta go
somewhere because it's there's I can't help it. Hilarious. Someone
just took a knife and slid it across the side
of the whole front of my stomach. Is this a
serious problem we need to address? Because you have a
huge smile on your face and I don't know how
to do this. Like imagine someone's looking at you laughing
(12:00):
like I am dying help me, and you're like, but
you're laughing. I don't know what to do because I
hurt so bad. I don't know what's happening. Okay, are
you okay? Do you need uh? I don't know, Toms
no doing what asking me if I what medicines I need? Well,
then okay, here's the one thing they do need medicine.
(12:21):
Last week I was like, I don't know. My stomach
herts really bad, and he said, do you need an
an acid? Like, okay, you guys gonna get me a
flint Stones vitamin. That's an acid and an ascid is
what TOMS is, isn't it isn't that for heartburn, indigestion.
It's just to like settle your stomach, I believe, or
settle whatever is going on. Maybe I've been using antacid
(12:45):
all around my whole life, not that I use it
that often the word or the product. The product I
also don't use the word. I probably use the word
less than I use the product now that I think
about it. And is a substance that neutralized the stomach acidity,
thank you, and is used to relieve heartburn ingestion or
an upset something. So you're welcome for caring. But here's
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one of the problems. And this is something that I
believe normally is one of the differentiating factors between men,
men and women. Okay, men, when you present a problem,
the male instinct is to like hammer away at it, like,
how do I fix this problem? How do I fix
this problem? I'm gonna suggest a bunch of things until
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the problem is fixed or I don't have to worry
about it anymore. Women will open up and reveal and
talk about a problem without necessarily needing to solve it. No,
women will just fix it instead of hammering away. And
they'll just fix it in the first hammer. That's true. Um,
when you understand what I'm saying, because like you'll say,
oh my God, I don't feel good, blah blah blah
(13:51):
this and that, Oh my God, had bad dreams, My
stomach curts, my toe hurts whatever, and I'll suggest things
to help you solve that, and then you're just like, no,
I don't need help, just leave me a lot. I
just wanted to say it. It's like, well then don't okay, okay,
do you need to do you need a Tom's No,
(14:12):
it's not Tom's related. It's not Tom's related pepto. It
might be my ovari insists literally rupturing live on this podcast.
So what do I do for a minute? If I
shush and you leave, this podcast is done or or
it's gas pains. It's very hard to tell the difference.
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So what are you gonna do? Go fart? I don't know. Yeah, girls,
fart Anthony. Anyway, what I was saying is oftentimes women
will present a problem just because they feel like letting
someone know there is a problem. This is the most
misogynoust thing you've said. I'm not saying either one is
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right or wrong. I'm just saying, and I think a
lot of people have probably observed the same thing. Maybe
because we like to speak about we're open and honest
about things, where men just like don't do that. What's
the opposite of misogynistic? There issogynistic either way, whatever you
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said is the opposite of misogyny. No, it's I think
that's like a food thing. It's the difference. Is you
basically just said that all women do is complain? No, yes,
I did. I said that women. Basically, what I'm saying
was women enjoy airing their problems without necessarily needing to
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solve them. And I think that's a I think that's
actually very good because the idiotic caveman mentality of a
guy to be like, there's a problem, I need to
hammer away at this somehow isn't necessarily always the most
positive things. Sometimes you need to sit back and just
say what the problem is, let your brain kind of
process a bunch of stuff. But I think it's also
like when something's wrong with you, I'm like, what do
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you need? What do you want? I'll get you this.
You know. That's what I'm telling you to shut up
because that's just the same thing. It's the same thing.
It's the ailer versus the fixer. Theiler like ailment an ailer.
I mean I made a homogeney before, so I guess
I can't really talk. I wish somebody made a glossory
(16:21):
of all the words we've make. It would be so
stupid would be good. Um. So basically, if you're in need,
you're always like uh, and the other person like what
do you need? What do you need? You're like, I
just need to be Uh. Yeah. So it's not a
man women thing. I think it's more often women. I
agree with what I just said. I know. So, um,
(16:45):
let's go into your your stupid list? What is this list?
Twelve things six months partners? Twelve things you should know
about your partner six months into a relationship, according to
a couple's counselor all right, let's do it. One. What
makes your partner laugh and cry? Me? Next? No, you
should know that. What makes you laugh? Asking you what
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they are? So you're just gonna go through the list. Then?
What makes me laughing? Cry? What makes you laugh? Comedy shows?
I hope? So what makes you a partner? Laugh? Funny things? Items?
What's wrong with you? Okay, maybe we should only do
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this podcast once every three weeks because I feel like
we're on fire. I'm dying, Lily in pain. This might
be the last one. Then something's happening. Oh my god,
if I die, it's been really really fun anyway. What
makes you laugh? I don't know you like Dave Chappelle. Okay,
he's funny again. Stand up comedy makes me laugh? Wow,
(17:57):
you know me so well. I make you laugh and
that's true just by being me. Now, what makes you cry?
I'm trying to say, the last time we got emotional? Sports? What? What?
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I don't know what was a worse answer? Stants up
comedy or sports? Oh god, the last time you cried?
I can't believe you said stand up comedy makes me laugh?
Like that was a new revelation. It was literally like,
what is your dad like as a kid? And you
draw it sports? Again? My dad likes to work. Um?
What makes tones cry? Not much? Really? No, I I've
(18:41):
seen you cry a lot, a lot, define a lot
in the ten years i've known you. You cried when
we moved, you cried when we got here, you cried,
We both cried when we broke up. At one point,
what if you're gonna sit here and try to look
me in the eye and tell me you didn't cry?
Not but you didn't see me do that? I sure did.
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I think you're lying, Anthony George. I think you're lying.
You know how I know that you're wrong, and you
know you're wrong. She wouldn't be saying I think you're lying. No,
I just don't remember that moment. Well I do. Maybe
I've blocked it out all right because it was so sad.
You can never I was expecting to be like, I
don't know, emotional sad things make him cry. I'm not
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really a cry so it's a tough Yeah, okay, what
makes me laugh and cry? I'm hilarious. I'm also very frustrating.
See things that frustrate Carla Marie makes make her cry
more more so than sad things. Carl Marie is a frustrated,
angry crier, which is super annoying. Honestly, it's super annoying.
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And I am, oh, I'm sorry, and you're a man,
and my female emotions bother you know, it doesn't bother me.
But think about it. This one we've actually taught. We
used to talk about this on the radio show. People
will defend crying in the workplace and be like, well,
you know that's showing emotion, blah blah blah. Crying is
(20:12):
not an emotion. Crying as a reaction to different emotions, right,
Because you can be happy and cry, sad and cry
anger and cry frustrated and cry, confused and cry when
you I believe that. First off, Yeah, sometimes crying is inevitable, right,
regardless of where you are. But I think if you
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continually cry in the workplace, you just haven't figured out
how to control your emotions in the workplace. But sometimes
you physically cannot control it. But think about it this way.
Imagine what if you were laughing somewhere and you couldn't
stop laughing. But your responsibility, especially at work, is to
control your reactions in the workplace now, and you can screaming,
(20:56):
you can control that. But no, that's how come? How
come if a guy like a bodily function. Okay, so
it's pissing, you control that, you know, just some times
when it gets bottled up and comes out. But hear
me out for a second. And I don't want to
vilify anyone who's cried. This is just a debate, right,
This is just talking. It's just a discussion. This was
(21:17):
supposed to be fun. It is fun. This is fun.
Have fun. Um. Nope. Just like if a guy or
a woman whoever gets angry and throws things, right, the throwing,
the throwing something is your reaction to being angry. Yeah,
but that is something that you physically decided to do.
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I am when I start crying, I'm not like, okay,
cry no. But but you can't compare this. You can
absolutely can both reactions to emotions and stimulus stimuli. I
can't control crying. You cannot think you maybe you should, no,
but no, but people can't. I disagree. If you're gonna cry,
you're gonna cry. I think when you're grieving, right, that's
(22:02):
totally different. But I think in the workplace, stop, it's
totally different. Allowed to talk about feelings until you watch
Inside Out, the Pixar movie about feelings. Why everything? Because
there's a little color colored cartoon character in my brain
pulling lovers. Because you can't control crying, you can be like,
(22:27):
stop it, don't cry, don't cry, don't cry. But and
it's still like that thing is still there. Okay. Next
the well, what makes me laugh? What makes you laugh?
Your cats make you laugh? They do, They're funny, I think.
And this is gonna sound somewhat dumb at first. Carla
Marie's friends make her laugh, which ones most of them
(22:51):
because carl the Marie get in a laughing mood even
if things are not funny around her friends. Does that
make more sense? All right? Well, like give me an example,
like a couple of weekends ago when Erica and John
and Rickey and Jake Rere, you just laughed the whole time.
Maybe the stupidest thing. You'd be like, oh my god,
these cookies don't taste good. Yeah you did. You told
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us they were dusty cookies that we died. But it's me.
I'm not the only one. Erica does too. This isn't
about all right, No, what's number two? I didn't like
number one? That's stupid? What you should know? What? Your
partner is passionate about cats, small businesses and supporting people.
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And for you, that's it national parks, saving the animals.
When was the last time you went to a national park?
It's been a long time. What doesn't mean I don't
love him. I just bought it at some oar calendar, okay,
And it's it's for the parks. I would say, your
number one is cats. Your number two is supporting um,
(23:58):
the people in your life to all of their passions
and stuff like that. Number three small business. Number four
is national parks? What am I? So? Is it just
that what you're passionate about okay, go sports, Okay, no,
for real, though, you are passionate specifically about tenhole basketball,
that might be number one. Uh, passionate about what we
(24:22):
do as Uh. I don't want to just say like
our podcast and our show. You're more passionate about every time,
just the future of it, like what's next for you?
It is the what is next? In business? Um? You
are passionate about your family specifically, are you gonna cry? Man?
(24:45):
I'm literally just looking at you. I think that would
be it. You're passionate about traveling to see the Brosky
didn't say working out. Oh my god, I forgot about it.
It's like you don't even know me. I guess that
is very important, but I would I forget that. That's
like a thing that you can be passionate about and
not like it's just part of your life. Yeah, well,
(25:08):
I'm I'm so passionate that has become part of my
life now. That might be seen whole basketball again? On
what is this list again? Really? A number two? Twelve
things we're not doing? Okay, so let's let's speed through here.
Number three. You should know how their family affected their growth.
I I know so well I thought we were answering
(25:28):
all that. I'm just saying yes. I know it's turned
into yes or no. False. Well, you had a big family.
You were like cousin. Your cousins were always around. I
know that your aunt. You had to move in with
your aunt for a while because your mom kicked you out. Well,
yes and no, but yeah, I know all about that,
you know. And for the record, I wasn't kicked out,
(25:51):
like get out of my house, I'm never seeing you again.
It was like, you're really bad at schoolwork, You're gonna
go live literally three blocks away with her aunt and
she is the smartest one of the family, and you're
gonna get your school work done. So I wasn't like
out on the streets out. Carline has been influenced by
her family, and I noticed this once I started getting
to know the family. Um and when Carlin is back
(26:11):
with her family, it's a very loud, in your face family.
Like you, if you don't say what you want to
what your point is so loud and so quickly, you'll
never be heard. But you also have to say it
like it's the most important thing in the world. That's
the that's the difference, because I also have a big
family where you have to get your point out very quickly.
But in Carline is family, and it is why Carline
(26:33):
is the way she is. Everything that you think is
the most important thing in the world. Uh, you should
know what makes your partner mad? B Yes, you are
the answer. Actually, there's a lot of things make you mad. Oh,
and a lot of things don't make you mad. People
people not putting the weights back at the gym. It's
a whole big thing I get. I get a whole
(26:53):
long text about someone that didn't put their weights. Organizational
things make me very bad because they're simple. My my
computer being too far over in your way. So mad?
Me accidentally folding this table cloth that we use like
bending it? So mad? All right? What's next? What makes
me mad? Everything? You? Yeah, mainly me when you sleep
(27:15):
on the couch. All right. So this person says you're
supposed to know what makes the mad. Obviously, do they
have spiritual beliefs and how do they affect their choices?
I don't think it affects your choices, but you do
have them? Okay, Um, you're I don't You're not a
very spiritual person. I'm spiritual. Spiritual? Yeah, it sounds like
it what's next? But I'm spiritual in that is um,
(27:41):
what's the other word, superstitious? Okay, yeah, Carlin Reid doesn't
want your shoes on the table or something. No, that's dirt. No,
it wasn't there, Like you can't with sneaker boxes on
the table or something, snead Oh what are their defining moments?
You should know that about your partner defining moment? For
(28:04):
Carla Marie, what is the defining I don't know. I
honestly don't know your Caesar, and I think the problem
Maybe it's because I've known you so long. It's not
like I've had to tell you. But like, that's such
a weird thing. It's not like some my defining Like
what does that even mean? Let me read We suggest
you let gut and stink in context determine whether or
(28:24):
not meeting you is an acceptable response. Well, a defining
moment of my life would not have been meeting you,
although I think a defining moment of my life would
just be working at all. Show. Yeah, I think I'm
definitely the most influential person in your life. I would
also be the most influential in your influenced most influential
(28:45):
person in my life. I don't know next, what's that?
What's next on the list? You should know what is
most important to them? Your cats and your family. The
same thing for you. Your family. Then the cats, they're
no that. I don't put them at number two on
my list. Max is maybe number four? Well, most important
to you is living a healthy lifestyle and working out.
(29:08):
I don't know. Next one this list is I'm I'm fading.
Just go through. How would they define success? You should
know that money that's not true. What kind of support
do they need when they're stressed? Are sad? When you
are stressed or sad, you need not time alone to decompress.
(29:33):
But I think you need time with someone to decompress.
You need time alone. I need absolutely. I say whatever
you need, come find Yeah. For me, it's like I
just have to sit in the same room as you
and not speak. Yes. Uh. Number ten, What are they
the most proud of about themselves? My dick, I'm not no,
(29:57):
I know, but the spirits people that are just probably crashed.
Oh man, Um, what is the thing you're the most
proud of? Is how many weights you lift? I mean
it's up there, It's not that impressive though, So I
don't think it's the most I don't know what I'm
most proud of. Um, you are most proud. I think
(30:18):
of your work with small businesses and animal rescues. Yes,
just specifically the beautiful animals that I have rescued in
this house. Number eleven? What can instantly light them up inside?
Like in a good way, like, I don't know, skip
that one? And then last, how do they recharge their
(30:40):
emotional batteries? Sleep? Oh for me? Are you? I'm answering
for you? Right? Um? I think you need time to watch,
like you just watch a stupid show or something you'll
watch like that ship's creek or the office. You'll that's
how you recharge? Yeah? Yeah, like that lights me up inside? Actually,
and going walks for both of us, say, is that
(31:03):
what recharges me? Who wrote this stupid ass list? I'll
tell you, Emma Singer? You know what, Emma, your list
is garbage? Put it in the trash? What is it?
What do you say? What do you say? Throw it
in the garbage? In the garbage? Never reading another article
by Emma Singer again if she write better articles. But
(31:24):
this is when we do these lists all the time.
It's one of the problems. I mean, it's it's so
click batty, and there's so many websites out there. They're
like they their whole they worked with the counselor that
doesn't mean anything. So I'm going to work with like
Dr A and be like, here are the twelve signs
that you're allergic to food? Sure, Like we need to
start work with the experts in our lives, Like who
(31:46):
do we got experts? Like someone you should interview me?
Twelve signs you love your cat? You know what's so
sad about the internet is that article would actually do
super well. I click on the exactly signed you love
your cat. It's got to be taken already read this
(32:07):
article to tell you exactly what you know. Confirmation bias.
Here you go. Literally, I'm signed you love your job, boyfriend, girlfriend?
Did you love your cat too much? Oh? That's a
good one, and you probably are going to read it,
but you're not gonna read it while we're on the podcast.
We have been doing this now for about thirty minutes
or so. Carl, Marie and I have to still pack
(32:30):
my backpack up and head down to San Diego. So
are you packing? Swim trunks. Yeah, I'm gonna have a
short pair of shorts in there. I'm packing very like that,
literally like computer, microphone, no jim stuff. I'm not going
to the gym at all, Oh my god, mainly because
I just wanted to pack light, so I'm not doing that.
You know you're not going to pack your weight clamps. No,
(32:51):
I'm not packing the clamps. And I know it seems
like ridiculous to travel with clamps for the gym, but
it it was a lot of time just search and
for those stupid clamps everywhere because no one puts anything back.
So I just carry them around with me now, Like
I will literally travel if I know I'm going to
the gym. Is that what makes you mad? A lot
of things make me mad, mainly, that's true. You said
(33:12):
a lot of things make me mac do you live
and you live in the little red person? And um
inside out you're the little red guy? Yeah, that is me.
I am almost in a constant state of annoyed. Last
two weekends. When our friends around, like what's wrong with Antony,
I'm like, that's just him, that's all the time. I'm
the happiest angry person you're going to meet. Maybe you
(33:36):
should talk into the microphe just getting a cat. Maybe
you should go see a therapist. Maybe maybe one day.
Thank you so much for hanging out with us. I
don't even know what we did today in this podcast,
but it was a lot of fun and we appreciate
you given us thirty minutes of your time. If you
have not done so yet, Carlin, Marie and I launched
this project a couple of weeks ago called The Morning
Show Podcast. If you it's linked in the description of
(33:58):
this podcast, but wherever you listen, just search the Morning
Show Podcast and it should come up. You can keep
searching Carla Marine Anthony with it if it doesn't come
up automatically in your search bar. It's been a lot
of fun, actually, and we're both very shocked at how
successful it's been in the responses from people, so as always,
(34:18):
thank you for supporting us into those people who said
they don't watch twitch, they just listened to Monday Friday.
That was part of the reason why we were asking that,
because I think we're gonna actually reach out to each
of you individually and be like, hey, here's a new
thing for you. Yeah, And one of the reasons we
did it was it gives us an opportunity to go
back into that morning show Monday through Friday, part of
(34:39):
your morning routine. World Audio, and that's one of the
things we really really wanted to do. So it's always
less than twenty five minutes. It will give you the
biggest news stories for the record you started saying, so
it's always under twenty five minutes um. It will give
you the big four news stories of the world, a
little hope for humanity, Carlin, Maury does what's trending. We
(34:59):
play a music game that people seem to enjoy, So
it's all of that in a very concise package. You
don't get all the songs repeating like you would on
a radio station, or twenty minutes of commercials in thirty
minutes of driving time, or a laugh track, or fake callers,
any of that stuff. So check it out. The Morning
Show podcast link is in the description of Monday Friday
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