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The honeymoon was over almost as soon as it began for Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez. Alex Rodriguez seems to be subtly commenting on the end of "Bennifer 2.0" from a distance. Brandi Glanville has claimed that Andy Cohen was "pimping out" to other Bravolebrities and crew members, including Southern Charm star Austen Kroll.

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Speaker 1 (00:11):
Hell No, welcome to show. I'm your host, Shooter, and
it is a beautiful Thursday morning, and we have a
beautiful Mark Looper with us. Hey, Lupy Lou, how old
were you when you knew you were cute?

Speaker 2 (00:25):
I don't mean maybe the first few days I was born.
So silly.

Speaker 1 (00:31):
He's such a monster monster. If you weren't so cute,
it would be absolutely annoying. You get away with so
much of that big smile of yours, Mark Lupo, Well,
you bring.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
It out in me rather help but smile when I
see your face.

Speaker 1 (00:45):
We like to laugh. I'm suspicious of people that don't
find joy I am. I like to laugh, Mark. I
find joy in even the dull stuff, like when I'm
walking my dark stuff. I can always find a flower
or the doggy, or my doggie that makes me smile.

Speaker 2 (01:02):
Your dog is so cute, but you're cut, I think, yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
Oh yeah, excellent taste. Let's ump into the show. What
time is it, my friends? It is time? Okay, big
story at the top of the show, So Ben Affleck
and Jennifer Lopez marrit All woes began on the honeymoon
in Italy. Now we reported first on this show that
Jennifer took her manager on the honeymoon. There were some
photographs of Benny Medina, Jennifer's manager, in the background. So

(01:27):
when you go on a honeymoon and you take your manager,
and you probably take your hair and makeup people, and
you're assistant, like Jennifer is a lot. There's an entourage
that comes with j Loo. I used to work with
her and it was ridiculous whenever she was on a
morning show. I almost had to get like a spare
room mark just for the entourage. So Jennifer had her
dressing room, and then we needed like another room, but

(01:49):
not just the small room, like almost like a banquet room,
not to put everybody else in here. There's always hair
and makeup and verybusoned yoga and st and then somebody
from Dulgey and a banner turns up and it's just
it's a whirlwind of what I found very exciting. I
loved all the j love of Jennifer Lopez. It was

(02:10):
it was great fun. But I do think your honeymoon
is someone that's meant to be about the two US.
So pay six is reporting that they went to Lake
Cuomo in Italy, which is where George Clooney lives. I
believe they were on their honeymoon there and problems bubbled
up right away. So despite being very very affectionate in public,
We've seen the photographs, we've seen the videos. They were

(02:33):
on shopping trips, they were kissing, they were hugging. Paparazzi
followed them everywhere. Paid six are reporting Ben was very
unhappy that the paparazzi were following them. She's an international superstar,
and he acted like it was a surprise that people
would be interested in her. They barely spoke to each other,
which was supposed to be the happiest time of their life,
and he he sold her. This is so interesting. Friends

(02:55):
are saying he sold her on being a changed man.
He had stopped drinking, he was now sober. The last
time he was in rehab was twenty eighteen. So he
had sold her that he was a brand new person.
And now Jala's friends are saying, you know what, those
struggles didn't go away. Lots of information there, Mark, what

(03:16):
do you think about Ben? Should just sell somebody on
not the whole truth? We all do it, Mark, We
all present the best Selms, best version of ourselves and Also,
what do you think about the honeymoon. That's a bad sign, you.

Speaker 2 (03:28):
Know, listen, I think, with the respect to Ben and
being a changed man, while he has main improvements, when
you're an addict, you were always an adict or an
addict for a life. I mean, he's in recovery, he's
a recovering addict, but he still has tendencies. He still
could be triggered. And so when you enter back into
this fame, into this the Finn that Jennifer Lopez brings,

(03:49):
it's something that's very much unrelatable to most of us.
And so I think it's overwhelming to go on in
honeymoon where your manager, your wife's manager, and other people
are kind of following you.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
It's uncomfortable. And also I do question.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
Why they would choose Lake Womo as a place to honeymoon,
because there's just so many other destinations that you can
find complete privacy, and I don't think that Lakewomo's destination
where you're gonna find yourself just like peaceful and just
hanging out the two of you, you.

Speaker 1 (04:16):
Know, right, But isn't that part of the problem here?
And this is where I don't buy Ben's story. He
knew she was Jalo. If you marry Jlo, you know
what you're getting into. If you married the captain of
a boat, you better like the water like this is
something like I like going to the theater, and so

(04:37):
does Bruce, but I really enjoy it. So when he
married me, he knew I was going to go and
see Hello Dollar like I loved it. He could come
with movie once he did, but you don't have to.
It's the same with you, Mark, you know what you're
getting into. You pick people. You fall in love with people,
hopefully because you have a lot in common or there's
something about them that interests you. But to pretend that

(04:59):
you didn't think Jlo would get a crowd of photographers
walking down the streets of Lake Cuobo, it's just naive, now, Mark,
we know a lot of celebrities. Even when on vacation
once with a very big star, nobody knew he was there.
You can be discreet. We never know when Jennifer Amaston

(05:20):
is doing something we don't. She's like a stealth bomber,
like it's so hot to get any information about her.
They're celebrities like the Housewives, the Bethany Frankles, who always
want to be seen in any restaurant, in any bar,
in any club. They always want the attention. I get it.
Good for them, They're very good at it. And then
there's other celebrities, big stars, the Julia Roberts, the Sandra Bullocks,

(05:41):
who can disappear. Jelo doesn't want to disappear.

Speaker 2 (05:46):
No, And I think, if anything, Jlo is on the
other side of fifty. And I think for male or female,
when you get to a particular age, I think sometimes
society can be unkind and I think while things have evolved,
you know, there's a sure probably remain in the spotlight
and to remain relevant and to continue this machine to
sell things and to be talked about. And a lot

(06:07):
has changed since two thousand four when they first, you know,
were together, and pop culture has kind of moved on
in a different way. And there's other people that we
care about it and are talking about. And I would imagine
she's thinking about those things.

Speaker 1 (06:20):
It's interesting because when I worked with somebody wants to
ask me, like, what are her hobbies, like what she
is likely she liked when she's not Jaylon, And I said,
she's never not Jayler. Jennifer is her own hobby. From
the moment she gets up to the moment she goes
to sleep, she thinks about being jailer. Right, That's why
she's so good at it. It's a full time job.
If you do something twelve hours a day, twenty four
hours a day, if you do something all the time,

(06:41):
you're going to get good at it. If I went
to the gym every single day for ten hours mark
in six months, I would look incredible because that would
become my full time job. I'm a big believer that
nobody has something that we don't have. They just put
in the work that I'm not willing to do. I
know I could get a six pack app. I do know.

(07:01):
I'm actually pretty close to it now I've lost all
this weight. But in order to get it, I'd have
to work out for three hours every day. Price is
too high. It's just too high. I'd have to stop drinking,
I'd have to stop eating. I know how to get
it marked. I just don't want to pay that price.
I want it, but I don't want to play at
the price for it. If I could get it as
a discount, I'd probably do it. Jlo works every day

(07:22):
at being j Lo. You gotta tip your hat to
her here. It doesn't leave a lot of time for
a private life. But the reason she's so magnificent is
this is all she does, and she does it every
single day. Days when we're not watching Mark, she's at
the gym. Days when you and mera Bodyo's drinking, she
is working out. And so I do believe Jennifer deserves

(07:44):
all this success. I just wonder is there time for
anything else? Which brings us to our pole question of
the day, Benaffleck and Jennifer Lopez's marital rules began during
their honeymoon, which is never a good sign. Are your
team Jen? Or are your team Ben? Whose side do
you want to hear? This is going to be controversialot

(08:07):
I go back and forth. Sometimes I'm like he knew
what he was getting into, and sometimes I'm like, oh, Jen,
you're such a handful. Take it down and notch. This
could go back and forth. Hey, go vote on our
Twitter paget notte Nights Rob or a Facebook page which
is not a gossip, and be sure to check back
tomorrow to hear your results. Heilupie, what are you working on? Okay?

Speaker 2 (08:25):
So Alex Rodriguez has posted a cryptic quote after his xpiance,
Jennifer Lopez has filed from divorced from Ben Affleick, so
Alex Rodriguez seems to be suddenly commenting on the end
of Benefit two point zero from a distance. The former
MLB stars share a cryptic message on its Instagram story,
coinciding with the news that his expiancee Jennifer Lopez's file

(08:47):
from divorce. He wrote on Instagram quote, you either go
one way or the other. You might as well be
the one deciding the direction. We remember they've been dating.
You're right. Rodriguez and Lopez had been eating in twenty seventeen.
Their relationship blew up. They got engaged in thaty nineteen
and then called it off in twenty twenty one.

Speaker 1 (09:07):
What do you think, oh, Mark, Well, let's be honest here.
For the minute this story broke, you texted me it's
caught your autoitat. You're a very busy person. That's like Markstwers.
Why did this story speak to you so much?

Speaker 2 (09:21):
I think we've been for years been laughing about Alex Rodriguez.
I think the only person, second to Jennifer Lobet who
loves fame is Alex Rodriguez.

Speaker 1 (09:30):
Alex who loves fame, loves he loves fame. I spoke
to a friend of his after I saw this, this post,
this cryptic post. They said, he's emailed her, so he
he would love to get for dinner tonight. Of course
I love, of course he would love to recan rekindle.
I want to say their love of fame not necessarily

(09:51):
one another. But I could see these two maybe not
getting back together in a traditional way, but I could
see a photo. Well, a bed would explode if he
saw her out with Arod. Oh yeah, Ben would explode.
And there's a little bit of vengeance at the moment.
Jennifer's not happy. Ayrod would love this because he's going
to get on the cover of every magazine, of every newspaper,

(10:13):
which he hasn't really been on since breaking up with Jennifer.
They might even get married. They were not just dating.
They were engaged, Their kids were friends, they had a
wedding datemark. Like we forget that she was this close
to marrying a Rod in a weird way of celebrity,
and we've covered this a long time. I actually think

(10:33):
they're a better fit because I know what each other wants.
Out of the other. They both have decided that to
combine their star power makes them even bigger stars. I'm
not quite sure if that's true for Jennifer. She doesn't
really need anybody. She's the biggest star in the world.
But it is interesting. Could you see these two going
on the date? You know, I agree with you.

Speaker 2 (10:53):
I think a Rod has a much better suit for
Jennifer Lobeest because he loves the fame, and also because
he seems to have been in a more confident place
about it. He's not struggling with certain issues. He's happy
to be photographed, and I think we both that we're
on the same peach bug creating this narrative that we
are kind of butt into. Ultimately, he fumbled the bag.
I think it would have been, you know, married at

(11:15):
this point if he had them dming random reality stories.

Speaker 1 (11:18):
Jen does like the rebound it. We saw it with
Ben Affleck. We've seen it before, and so we saw
it with Mark Antony. Listening Helloa Lolo put down the
dumb bells the gym. You know it too much makes
me laugh? Okay, moving along, more j Low stories. The
whole show today, it's a lot of j Lex there's

(11:40):
so much to discuss. So Ben Affleck reportedly had no
interest in fixing the marriage. So according to insiders who
spoke to people, so you know it's true, the actor
showed no interest, no interest in mending the fractured relationship.
So as he said that she's very disappointed and sad,
but Ben has given her up, no sign that he

(12:01):
wants to continue in the relationship. We found out that
they broke up about four months ago, and he hasn't
shown any commitment or interest in making the marriage work.
When they moved out, he didn't say to her, what
are we doing, Let's try and fix this. When she
came to New York, remember all the time she was
being photographed shady in the Hampton's. He didn't like try

(12:21):
to come and be with her or phoda. I'm told
that Ben just gave up. That's so immature, though, because
sometimes you want to give up, don't you, With friends,
with lovers, with partners, you do deserve a conversation. I
think a conversation should always be had, even if it's
not the nicest conversation. Mark, I make myself do it

(12:42):
if I'm about to fall out with somebody or there's
something on my mind. If somebody's upset me, I really
do try not to stew in it, but to say something.

Speaker 2 (12:51):
You know, And I almost want to give him the
benefit of the doubt that he did. But however, there's
so many source reporting and shared with various outlets that
I would imagine their teams were both kind of speaking
to us via these sources, and so it seems like, yes,
he was over it. If you look at his face
and the pictures that have been out recently, he looks
tired and bored. And I also, thank you, to his credit,

(13:12):
he's taking time to you know, tend to his kids.
He dropped his kid off of college last week, and
he's doing, you know, going on family vacations, and I
think his priorities have shifted to something more important to him.

Speaker 1 (13:23):
I hope, sir, I hope so okay more Ben and
Jlo news Mark. We found out that they did not
that I was shocked by this. They did not sign
a prenup.

Speaker 2 (13:32):
I was shocked too. So there's potentially a significant financial
shake up ahead as Jennifer Lopez and Ben moved forward
in the divorce. The couple did not sign a prenuptial
agreement before their wedding two years ago. Now, the lack
of the prenup means that any income or property accreed
during their marriage could be considered community property. So, in
other words, both Lopez and Afflis might be seen as

(13:54):
equal owners assets, income, or even debts, regardless of who
earned or purchased them during their brief marriage, which Jennifer
was very productive. She starred in several films, she launched
her Ready Meat cocktail brand, and her networth are reportedly
is now about four hundred million dollars while Ben is
about million dollars.

Speaker 1 (14:14):
Oh boohoo. There's so much money here. I'm not going
to worry about either one of them. And let's remember
they were only married for two years and they didn't
have children together, so they don't have to worry about
that logical children together. And I think here the majority
of that money was made before they got married. Like, yes, Ben,
Ben's been busy, Yes Jennifer's been busy, but neither one

(14:34):
of them were exactly in Barbie, you know what I mean. Right,
They did make some movies, a lot of Netflix stuff,
which pays very well, but neither one of them exactly
had Avatar. They didn't have this block buster event happened
in those two years. Ben was Ben before these two years,
and it's the same afterwards. And even Jennifer's liquor company,

(14:54):
it didn't exactly explode like it felt any more remotea
singer than anybody. Remember when Ramona, how many bottles are that? So?
I think here they will be fine. I hope so.
But it is shocking. No, Preena, that's not the Jennifer
I knew, which tells me when they got married, she

(15:16):
was head over heels. She was absolutely giddy with joy. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (15:21):
I mean, it's just strange. Though, considering her record, this
is her fourth divorce, you would think maybe just in
Key something happens on.

Speaker 1 (15:29):
Jen Moving forward, Okay, let's hope we don't have to
talk about it again. I hope Jennifer finds love, I
really do. I hope it's not with a rather, but
I hope she finds love in Late Cloma. Let's take
a break and we will be right back. Welcome back
to the naughty, but Nisha, I'm not true to it.
Her dear friend Mark Lupo, Hey loopy, let's get to

(15:50):
the polls. Yesterday we talked about had ben Affleck and
Jennifer Gone reunited to take their daughter Violet to college.
She may done at Yale Ya fancy fancy? Do you
know who else is there? Goopy's son son Moses. I
want Violet to Moses to be a power couple on campus.

(16:12):
Can you imagine those two? I'll be marvelous. But that
wasn't That wasn't my question. I've gone on the tracks
a little bit. Our question was should Jlo have joined them?
We do know that Violet is very close with Jennifer
or is this just a moment for your biological moment? Dad?
What do you think should Jailor have been there? Ninety
two percent said absolutely not. It has nothing to do

(16:33):
with Jennifer Lopez. But you shouldn't be there. I think
I agree with you. Naughties. Don't forget to vote on
to day's Paul, get a Twitter paycheck, naughty nice rabble
on Facebook page which is not doing yours, and sure
to check back tomorrow to hear your results. And now
this is one of my favorite favorite nicest of the

(16:53):
days of all time. It just made me giggle. Mark,
Who's the nicest of the day. Wow.

Speaker 2 (17:01):
So it's the state of New York. New York has
been ranked the seventeenth most foul mouthed state in the US.
Let me explain what's going on here. So, New York
has earned the title of the seventeenth most foul mouth
state in the nation, according to a recent analysis by
word tips. The study, which examined one point seven million
Geotag tweets from the social media platform x filter for

(17:24):
explicit language, that reveals the New Yorkers aren't as prone
to swearing online as residents of some other states. Now
it's kind of shocked me. In the top spot for
the most foul mouth state went to Maryland, with Ohio
coming in and Virginia, Georgia, and Louisiana rounding out the
top five.

Speaker 1 (17:41):
Maryland is the most foul mouthed state. Well, New York
likes to be number one in everything, don't wait. So
I sent this to my friend Theana, a New Yorker
who has a potty man, and she wrote back, are
you effing kidd mouth? The New York does have a
foul the nicest of the day for a very naughty reason.

(18:03):
And now I know it is the day Nordy, Nordy.
This is serious. So Brandon Glansville is accusing Andy Cohen
of pressuring her to hook up with another cast member,
somebody on Southern Charm. So she's got text messages and
she's showing them now and they're really, really alarming. She said,
I felt like he's sex worker and I'm not. I'm
a mom of two. I've been in two long term
relationships in my life. He asked questions about Eddie Siprianni.

(18:27):
Remember she was married to him, very good looking. Oh yeah,
the size of his penis. Andy wanted to know about that,
and he encouraged her to hook up with different guys,
including a stage manager of his show. And she said
none of these were jokes. They were all sexually explicit
texts and emails. She also added here that he was
a boss. She didn't know what to do. If your

(18:49):
boss is sending you stuff like this, what did you say?
Because he was really powerful. He still is. If you
upset him, you could get kicked off the show. She's
got all these text messages now, these seem to be
going back a few years, but nevertheless, he was still
the boss. I think times have changed around Andy and
his behavior. Now he's trying to catch up. But what

(19:10):
he could get away with ten years ago, with these ladies,
isn't funny anymore? What do you think?

Speaker 2 (19:15):
I mean, I think what's most disturbing the videos that
she shared and he can look in his eyes. He
has this crazy, crazy look and it just seems a
little dark and twisted, and he's drunk these on other
things maybe And yeah, I mean imagining myself in that situation,
it's like you wanted to go along with it because
you're like, ah, what else do I do? But I mean, yeah,
I think he recognizes his behavior is inappropriate and now

(19:37):
he has to make a change or maybe there will
be more to colm. I don't know, but yeah, not
a good look for him.

Speaker 1 (19:42):
Yeah. A friend of mine told me, a source of
mind told me a brav incided that they're really worried
because if you did this to one house wife, there's
a hundred of their month. They probably all have text too. Now.
A lot of them don't want to say anything because
they want to keep their jobs. Let's again confirming what
Brandy said. But as more and more of these ladies
get fired, they're going to come forward because they've got
nothing to lose, which actually means a lot of ladies

(20:03):
might be safe because and he doesn't want to upset
at the moment. So if Teresa is back, I would
guess it's because she's got a text. Hey, let's send
to the moment of arm. You're gonna rob, you gonna
rub you a rub. Drew Barrymore said the following, and
I just love it. In the end, some of your
greatest pains will become your greatest strength. When I was

(20:25):
little and my arm was damaged, I would have given
anything to have two good arms. Now I wouldn't. I
love that my broken arm is part of me and
it's become one of my superpowers. Hey, that is it
for today. Thank you so much for listening to The
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