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Jennifer Lopez is making the most of her time in the Hamptons, bonding with her stepdaughter Violet. Sarah Michelle Gellar is urging fans to honor Shannen Doherty’s legacy following her passing. Prince William and Kate Middleton delighted fans by offering a rare peek into the private lives of their youngest children, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis.

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Speaker 1 (00:09):
Advice. Now, welcome to the naught a bit nicer. I'm
your host, strum Shooter and East Tuesday, which means our
dear friend, Miss d joins us. It was touch and go, Misty,
but here you are.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
I was touch and go. So I have to tell
you where I am. I'm in Chicago. So I was
on a flight to Kentucky for my lovely job at Ebony,
but our flight was canceled at midnight, so I had
to find a hotel. And now I'm in lovely Chicago.

(00:44):
So if there's any listeners in Chicago, thank you for
allowing me to spend the day in your lovely city.

Speaker 1 (00:51):
It's a great place. I love Chicago. I love Chicago.
It's so beautiful there.

Speaker 2 (00:56):
Miss.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
We always try to find the bright side here on life,
on this stuff that happens. I mean, Chicago, the city
of Oprah pretty not so bad.

Speaker 2 (01:07):
Yeah, the last time I think I was here, No,
it's I've been to Chicago since then. But I do
remember bringing in my dear Nana here to go to
the Oprah show.

Speaker 3 (01:17):
It was a birthday Wow, so so much fun.

Speaker 2 (01:20):
I remember we were like, oh, you know, get your
fanciest coat because we're going to see miss Oprah and
we sat in like the third row and it was
just so exciting. She's a magnificent oh yeah, yeah, a
magnificent mile and my sorority Alpha Kappa Alpha's already incorporated,

(01:40):
is located headquartered in Chicago.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
Look at that. Look at that. You might never leave.
Have so much to say. Okay, let's jump into the show.
What time is it, my friends? It is tea time.
So the ongoing Jennifer Lopez Ben Affleck drama has taken
a twist as his daughter Violet has been spotted with
Jen so Ghen was spotted She's adding the Hampton's. Ben
is in La Jenny's on the East Coast and she

(02:04):
was bonding with her stepdaughter Violet. She's eighteen years old.
She's the eldest daughter of Ben and Jennifer Gardener and
they were spotted in Southampton, strolling through the village and
even having a warm embrace. Jayla looked fabulous, let me
tell you, in a black jumpsuits, but also too. Violet

(02:25):
looked fantastic too, and she looks happy. She was wearing
a T shirt and jeans adorned with spaghetti and tomato print.
So really really cute. They went to a restaurant together.
I hit the phones, what is going on here? And
my sources tell me that even though things are difficult
between Jen and Ben, Jennifer is working really hard to

(02:45):
maintain a relationship with her stepchildren. She knows these kids,
She really likes these kids. Her kids like these kids.
This has become part of her family, and even if
things don't work out with Ben, they might not. She
wants to make sure that Violet and Ben's other children
are still involved in her life in some capacity. She

(03:06):
married Ben, she will always be part of that family.
She will always be their stepmother or their former stepmother.
And Jennifer's taken this really seriously. One of her friends
told me, now, when she broke up with a rot,
the thing that she regrets the most is she'd got
really close to his kids. His kids and her kids
had practically moved in together, and so she felt as

(03:27):
if she she broke up this whole family. And so
Jennifer here is trying to figure out away to have
Ben's children but maybe not Ben.

Speaker 3 (03:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
I think this is the hardest part of a breakup,
and especially for Jennifer Lopez. She loves very deeply, and
she loves not only the man, but the family he
brings with him.

Speaker 3 (03:49):
We've seen this happen.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
We've seen the pictures where she does the blended family
thing in the matching pajamas, spending time with the family,
and it's very hard. Children are are young, they're emotional
to make that separation. So I think for her as
a mother, it's so important to keep that relationship alive.
So I can see why she's still close to the kids.

Speaker 3 (04:13):
And it's you know, I'm.

Speaker 2 (04:15):
Sure it's a very tricky situation, like how do you
handle this?

Speaker 3 (04:20):
How do you do it?

Speaker 2 (04:21):
Really really gingerly and really thoughtfully. But let's face it,
there's two people in this. If Violet is there and
loving spending time with Jennifer, then she wants to have
this woman in her life as well, you know, So
we'll see what happens.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
Yeah, Violet's an eighteen year old person, so she can
make her own decisions. She likes Jennifer Lopez. Jennifer Lopez
has been really kind to her, and she likes hanging
out with Jenny. Doesn't take anything away from her mom
or a father, a biological mother, a biological father. It
can be complicated here, but it also too doesn't have
to be and we can make choices in life. I
try to find out each day how I can make

(05:03):
my life better. I write down at the top of
my journal each day, how do I make today easier.
I just want an easy day. I want a good day.
I want to work hard, I want to laugh with
my friends. But it doesn't need to be nasty. And
I've learned the hard way to put down the sword,
to stop carrying that sword around. It was always in
my hand. In fact, mystery. I'm frightened to admit it.

(05:25):
I'm not proud of this. I was the sword. Everything
about me was ready for a fight, everything about me
was ready to stand up for what I thought was right.
And then I realized, no, that's not true. You're cloaking
yourself in those emotions, because really what you are is scared.
Life can be scary. Enjoy all the emotions. They how

(05:48):
a rainbow of emotions. We all have different emotions that
we can tap into. And so I'm really proud here.
I used to work for j Loo, so I know
her a little bit. I'm really proud that she's doing
this to make sure that those kids know that she's
there for them, that it might not work out with
her dad, which is a really tough thing to admit,
but it's the truth. It might not work out. But

(06:10):
if it doesn't work out, Jennifer would love to still
have a relationship with Ben's children, which brings us to
our pole question of the day. We Spotty j Lo
in the Hampton's with Violet sharing a real heart heartwarming
moment in the Hampton's. Can you remain friends with your
ex's kids? Is that possible? Has this happened to you?

(06:31):
Tell me your experience. Have you tried and it just
hasn't worked out? Let us know. Go to vote on
our Twitter page out Naughty Nice Rob or our Facebook
page which is a naughty gossip, and be sure to
check back to up brow Wolter hear your results. He
miss do Love, what are you working on?

Speaker 2 (06:48):
What was really sad news this weekend? To hear about
Shannon Doherty's passing and her very good friend Sarah. Michelle
Geller is urging fans to honor Shannon's legacy following her death,
so the Buffy the Vampire stars chered a heartfelt tribute
on her Instagram after Shannon her friend of thirty years

(07:08):
succumb to breast cancer on Saturday.

Speaker 3 (07:11):
She wrote, how do you.

Speaker 2 (07:12):
Possibly find the right words to sum up thirty years
of friendship? I keep reminding myself it only hurts this
much because there was so much love now. Sarah emphasized
that the best way to honor Shannon his memory is
through Shannon's love for animals, and she wrote, more than anything,

(07:34):
Shan loved animals, especially dogs, and her memory, let's support
some of her favorite animal charities and even our own.
And so she encouraged fans to donate to the charities,
to visit local shelters and offer cuddles and walks to animals,
or simply to tag shelters and let them know how

(07:54):
much they care. I mean, I was in shock when
I saw the news. I know Shannon have been fighting
so hard, and I know it must be so challenging
when you lose a friend, but you just have to
keep the memory alive and through another living thing.

Speaker 3 (08:11):
It's just a beautiful thought. What do you think, Rob, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (08:15):
I think this is such a beautiful thing to say.
It hurts so much because there was so much love.
There was so much love there. That's why it hurts.
It's very complicated. What would you rather have in life?
Not the love and then you don't have the hurt. No,
we want that love. We want that love, but with
it comes hurt. It does hurt when your friends pass,

(08:39):
when your dogs pass. My goodness, when my last dog died,
it was the most heartbreaking day and I almost thought
this just isn't worth it. There is nothing that is
worth this amount of pain. But the answer is yes,
there is. It's ten, twelve, fifteen years. In my case,
I was lucky of having a beautiful companion by my
side again. And we're touching on this a lot today.

(09:02):
It's a bad experience in all the emotions as and
so if you want to love deeply, you're probably gonna
hurt deeply at some point two. But I promise you
it's really worth it. Okay, Moving along, Julia Roberts and
Danni moder enjoyed an incredible Wimbledon date after twenty two
years of marriage. So, because we were all talking about

(09:23):
Kate Middleton, if you've got to look over a shoulder,
if you looked, have a Kate shoulder, there was Julia Roberts.
How many times it's Julia Roberts in the audience, and
you don't look at her because somebody else is there
who's an even bigger start. It was Kate's day. We
celebrated that. Yesterday on the show, I did point out
that Julia Roberts was there, and now a friend of
mine pointed out that they have just celebrated their twenty

(09:45):
second anniversary. Julia is one of the most private celebrities.
I would argue Julia and Jennifer Amiston are probably the
two most private. But recently Julia is enjoying Instagram, and
so she put up a picture of the two of
them having this brilliant life together. Twenty two years of happiness.

(10:05):
These two. You never ever hear any drama about mister.
We cover celebrities for a living. We know this beat.
We know the ones that are naughty, we we know
the ones that are nice, and we know the ones
that are Julia Roberts, which means we basically don't know anything.
She keeps her cards close to her chest.

Speaker 2 (10:23):
She does, but listen, I sat across from Julia Roberts.

Speaker 3 (10:28):
She did a movie for Netflix.

Speaker 2 (10:30):
It escapes me the name at the moment, but let
me tell you that woman is exquisite. She smiles, it
lights up the room. She's got legs for days. And
she was the nicest person I have spoken to in
a long time. So I am happy for her happiness.
I mean, hashtag relationship goals twenty two years. And you

(10:55):
know what, after twenty two years of love and happiness,
you might want to share a little, just a teeny bit.
She's not gonna give us a lot, but she might
give us a picture or two to say in her
own way, we are happy. And you know what, you
can have this too. So miss Julia, I am looking

(11:16):
and I am listen.

Speaker 1 (11:20):
You are she is extraordinary. I sat behind her a
pretty woman on Broadway. They turned her movie into a
Broadway musical, and she went to see it, and the
pr people tipped us off and we sat behind her,
and during the intermission I came face to face with her.
My goodness, is a movie star. There's very few that
are absolute movie stars. Angelina Jolie is a movie star.

(11:44):
Brad Pitt is a movie star. Julia Roberts she's one
of the last remaining movie stars. Okay, moving along, we
now know Shannon's final wishes about where she wanted to
be buried, Misty, what what did she want?

Speaker 2 (12:00):
Yeah, so months before her passings, she actually openly discussed
her final wishes regarding her remains. Now we knew her
from Charmed, I mean Beverly Hill's nine two one to oh,
the original I watched heronda. She revealed on her podcast
Let's Be Clear in January her desire to be cremated
and have her ashes combined with those of her beloved

(12:23):
dog Bowie and her late father. So she said back then,
I want my ashes to be mixed with my dad's
and my dogs, and she wished that the blend would
integrate all their ashes together.

Speaker 3 (12:36):
The most important people and dog in her life.

Speaker 2 (12:42):
So she passed away as we know, at fifty three,
battling cancer. And she also granted permission for her friend
Chris to wear a portion of her ashes around his neck.
A guest, you're reminiscent of how she had worn her
own father's ashes following his death in twenty ten. I mean,

(13:03):
that's crazy nine to two and oh twenty ten. So
you in the final day she was with her friend Chris,
and I mean this, it's just so sad. When you
she knew that her time was short, so she made
the most of it, and she told us what she wanted.
A lot of us, you know, we don't. We don't
get an opportunity to say this is what we want

(13:24):
because hopefully we have nice, long lives and we don't
have to think about it. But Rob, but what do
you think about that? I know your dog means your life.

Speaker 1 (13:33):
I love my dog? Is I love my dog? Is?
I think you're right, mister. We don't have to think
about this, hopefully, but maybe we should. Maybe we should
all think about our final wishes. Where we want to go.
Do you want to be cremated? Do you want to
be buried? What do you want? You're finding resting place
to be and maybe that's a good and comfortable conversation

(13:56):
to have with yourself, with your friends, with your loved ones,
with your family. Make your decisions. Don't let somebody else
make them for you. Okay, quickly, before we get a break.
Richard Simmons expressed a gratitude of life for life in
his final interview just before his death, so People magazine
spoke to him just shortly before his death. They spoke
to him because he was celebrating his seventy sixth birthday

(14:20):
and he said, quitet, I feel good. I'm grateful to
be here. I am alive for another day.

Speaker 3 (14:25):
Now.

Speaker 1 (14:26):
There's new shocking news coming out of LA two that
when Richard had a fall in his house, he turned
down medical attention. The housekeeper found him, knew he had
had a fall, wanted to get medical intervention. Richard said no,
he went to bed and never woke up. Just heartbreaking.

(14:49):
I do like to know though, that just days before
he passed, he was doing interviews. He was talking about life.
This man was an extraordinary hum and being who really
changed the fitness business. Like we all smile and giggle
when we think of Richard, but he did wonderful work too.
He's the first one that put people of all shapes
and sizes in his fitness videos. That didn't exist until him.

(15:13):
He was the first one out there telling people not
to diet but instead to make sensible choices, moderation. A
wonderful man, and he did it all with a smile. Richard,
Rest in power. Okay, We're going to take a quick
break and we will be right back. Welcome back to
the nautyburn I show your husband Shooter with our dear friend,
Miss d from Chic Cargo, who was up until I

(15:33):
think three am finding a hotel. So thank you for
getting up so early and being with us today, Miss
d Okay, let's get to the polls. Thank you, Thank you.
That show we talked about Kate Middleton looking amazing, stunning
in a surprise appearance at Wimbledon. Our question was, were

(15:54):
you surprised to see her? Let's have a look. Oh,
sixty five percent said yes, you were surprised. It's been
so so careful to stay out of the public eye.
We saw her at Trooping the Color and now at Wimbledon.
But I'm told my sources are telling me she's carefully
selecting the events that she wants to go to while

(16:15):
she still goes through her treatment. Kate, it was wonderful
to see you. Okay, don't forget to vote on today's Paul.
We'll go to add to a debated a naughty nice
robo on Facebook page nobody else him and be sure
to check back tomorrow to hear your results. And now
it's time for our Nice of the Day.

Speaker 2 (16:34):
We our nice of the day is the real couple
William and Kate, because they delighted us all by sharing
just a rare peek into their private lives of the
youngest children. So we're talking about Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis. Oh,
that little little cutie troublemaker, So the royal couple.

Speaker 3 (16:53):
They're both forty two.

Speaker 2 (16:55):
They shared an intimate photo of Charlotte and Louis enjoying
a moment together while watching the u e FA European
Championship match between England and Spain. So now, in this
heartwarming picture, Charlotte and Louis were dressed in customized soccer
jerseys featuring their first name and their ages, which is
nine and six, and the photo posted on their Instagram

(17:18):
apparent the parents' Instagram account captured the siblings just watching
the game.

Speaker 3 (17:24):
They were having a great time.

Speaker 2 (17:25):
And it was just a little glimpse of their cozy
family life. Now, we don't know where Prince George was
at the time, so some fans were wondering about his whereabouts.
But you know, oldest brother might have been at who knows,
golf camp, or basketball camp, or or Bible camp.

Speaker 3 (17:44):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (17:45):
That's what my nephews are doing all summer long. So
maybe my nephew Chase, who's nine is hanging out with
Prince George.

Speaker 1 (17:55):
Lovely, lovely I do. I did find out where George was.
He was at a football game in Germany, so he
was football game, so while they were watching it on television,
George was actually there and nicest of the day. I
love that they're giving us an insight into their lives, mystery,
a peek behind the curtain. I think they've really figured
this out, that this is not something that the family
naturally does. But it's modern, it's new, and it's Kate

(18:18):
and it's William. We love it, okay, and now I
know it's the day noughty naughty. Kim's in a ton
of trouble for wearing red to an Indian wedding. So
she went to a billionaire wedding in India and wore red.
Not once, Misty, she wore it twice. Now some people
might not know this, but traditionally reddy is reserved in
an Indian wedding for the bride. So think about a

(18:40):
wedding you may have had. You might have decided to
wear white and if anybody else will white, you'd probably
be annoyed. Well, that's the same in India with red.
Red is the color for the bride, so Kim was
wearing red. People are angry about it. Some people said,
quote ready for the bride. Another person said, you know,
why aren't you respecting the culture? Oh, Kim, Kim, Kim.

(19:04):
You know, I get that these celebrities are busy. I'm
sure a stylist probably picked her too amazing outfits. She
looks brilliant, Hire better people. Surround yourself with people who
know this, and it is the day. Let's end with
a moment of arm. You're gonna in life. It's important
to know when to stop arguing with people and simply

(19:24):
let them be wrong. I have figured this out. I
used to argue to the death Misty. I would argue
and arguem and argue convinced I was going to convince you.
Otherwise I'm not. It's arrogant for me to think I'm
going to change your mind, so instead I walk away.
Being right? Isn't that important? It really isn't. Just be

(19:44):
right in your own actions, in your own mind and
let everybody else do what they want to do. Hey,
that is it full today? Thank you so much everybody
for the birthday wishes. I'm going to have an amazing
and amazing day you naughties just like family. Thank you,
thank you, thank you. It warmed my heart this morning
when I woke up and saw all the dms, all

(20:05):
the notes. Thank you, thank you, thank you, and thank
you for listening to The Naughty Bit Nice with Robert
mist Show, a production of iHeartRadio. Don't forget to subscribe
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And remember all together now, if you're going to be naughty,
you got to be nice. Nice, take care everybody pit here.

Speaker 3 (20:30):
Happy birthday, mister Rob. It's not even nice with roub
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