Episode 378 | Mr. Fred - New Rory & MAL

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of an episode. Yeah it is Monday, Tuesday, if you're
listening to this. Yeah, the BT Awards just happened. M
maul and I just took over LA. Shut it down.
We didn't shut it No, LA was exactly the same
as we came.

Speaker 3 (01:12):
Nothing nothing changed, literally nothing at all.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
But we are back here and excited for the week.

Speaker 3 (01:19):
Good to be back home. How are you feeling I'm
good man. How are you feeling too bad?

Speaker 2 (01:23):
This is bad acting as we're wearing the same clothes
from a previous episode. Of course is pre recording, of course,
and I are in la We actually might be at
the BET Awards on Monday night. We haven't really decided
if we're going to, like hit the carpet or not.
What's your carpet?

Speaker 3 (01:39):
So talking to our future selves.

Speaker 2 (01:41):
Yes, in the event that we decide outside of the weekend,
we would actually go to the awards. One, what are
you wearing?

Speaker 3 (01:48):
I don't know. I have no idea. You think I
know what I'm wearing.

Speaker 2 (01:52):
We're talking in the future from the past right now.

Speaker 3 (01:54):
Yes, I don't know. Something comfortable and casual as always, okay,
like sweats, not sweats a lot of might I might
do some, I might do some some jeans maybe.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
Okay, I'm trying to think BT Awards twenty twenty four
men Fashion Pause. It's casual, but there's people in suits here.
Usher was giving them the jeans blazer like Kamas. That's
that's that's your age group for sure.

Speaker 3 (02:25):
Always has. Usher was always jeans blazer.

Speaker 2 (02:28):
If we had to walk the carpet together, how would
you feel if I went full Gunna and did the
vest with the slacks. I would feel like with my
white biceps, I would feel.

Speaker 3 (02:38):
Like I'm ready to go home, ready to leave it
at right, you choose not to do it, you choose
not to do it, you go.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
You don't think I'll say Tank and I could wear
the same fit.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
No, I don't. I don't think you and Tank could
wear anything remotely close too similar.

Speaker 2 (02:54):
Well, yeah, that is something we have to think about.
If we are, in fact already been on the carpet.
Maybe they already saw us, and while they're listening to this,
they're like, we already saw Rory pull off the sleepless
face exactly, and then we saw them all exit, Sam.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
Leave, because that's exactly what I'll be doing.

Speaker 2 (03:06):
Yeah, but how's everyone feeling, Damaris? Can you talk to
your future self? How did your hosting go?

Speaker 4 (03:12):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (03:12):
What amazing?

Speaker 2 (03:14):
I love that we can also update on our Thursday
Friday episode. We'll have our predictions reviewed.

Speaker 3 (03:20):
Okay, how did it go?

Speaker 5 (03:22):
Ah?

Speaker 1 (03:22):
You know?

Speaker 2 (03:23):
Meanwhile, she ended up crying in the back seat of
a car.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
Of course.

Speaker 6 (03:26):
Nah, no, no more that Demarus is goode. No more
that Demarus.

Speaker 2 (03:32):
They didn't have my rider together.

Speaker 3 (03:33):
Where did she go?

Speaker 6 (03:34):
What Drake's aid alright, pe to the girl you used
to see. Those days are over, y'all. Don't remember that?

Speaker 3 (03:42):
Yes, yeah, remember that? So I just talked about I
just don't know if that's like what you should be saying,
because is it over?

Speaker 2 (03:50):
It was a rebirth on it's a rebirth.

Speaker 6 (03:52):
Yeah, I told y'all. So, okay, it's Monday, it's Tuesday. Yeah,
I already found my Stefan Diggs.

Speaker 3 (03:59):
Okay, yeah, found him. When we get to meet into existence?

Speaker 6 (04:02):
Yeah, we're gonna meet him at your album release party.

Speaker 2 (04:05):
No, but that could be. No, we need to meet
him like this week.

Speaker 7 (04:07):
Nah, No.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
On Thursday.

Speaker 6 (04:10):
No, Cardi and him, I went around for a while.
They popped out of the next game. We're gonna pop
up at your album release like I popped out with
my last one.

Speaker 3 (04:16):
Got rid of him.

Speaker 2 (04:17):
You had popped out with him before that though, Yeah,
but I don't know if there is that the president
you want to keep setting keeping h it didn't last.
He brought him to the last album release part it's true,
So you want to bring him to the new album release.

Speaker 3 (04:29):
And yeah, I don't know this one.

Speaker 6 (04:32):
This one, this one better. So we're gonna bring him
to the album release.

Speaker 3 (04:35):
You, I've known him for forty hours.

Speaker 6 (04:36):
You guys will all meet him and everything's in behod.

Speaker 3 (04:40):
I didn't meet the last one, Yes, you did?

Speaker 2 (04:43):
You did? He's work paying attention.

Speaker 3 (04:45):
I did.

Speaker 6 (04:45):
Yeah, he was at the well I threw the party
for our our live after show party too, But you
were just miserable. You were ready to go home. We
had to the live show. Then I made y'all come
to a party that you didn't want to come to.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
But he was at the single release as well. Yeah,
he was at the single real h definitely met him.

Speaker 6 (05:00):
You was over in the corner talking to Diannay. I
got a picture of y'all.

Speaker 3 (05:03):
Okay, that's cute.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
Yeah, I just feel like it needs to happen before then.
If this guy is as good as you say, is
the guy that I haven't after twenty four hours?

Speaker 3 (05:12):
This is just steff on my stuff on.

Speaker 2 (05:14):
Did he take you to brunch the next day or
did you just like recover?

Speaker 3 (05:17):
Nah?

Speaker 2 (05:17):
You know, I play coy like now. I have a
lot to do tomorrow.

Speaker 6 (05:20):
Yeah, and I also I'm moving this week.

Speaker 3 (05:22):
So does he help you?

Speaker 6 (05:24):
The new nigga I just met forty eight hours ago
that technically I really haven't met yet, because we're talking
in the future. No, I don't think he's moving. I
don't want him to know where I live yet. Okay,
I don't let niggas know where I lived to at
least six seven, eight, nine months in damn.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
He definitely, he definitely got the lie off.

Speaker 6 (05:38):
You tell a nigga where you live, Man, you could
live in Brooklyn. Suddenly a Bronx nigga riding through your neighborhood. No, man,
now you got an auntie over here. No, I don't
want nobody little where I live.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
You think out a neighborhood.

Speaker 2 (05:49):
You don't think I know anyone in Brooklyn?

Speaker 3 (05:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (05:52):
Like yeah, but now you're in the neighborhood like you
was a Coney Island nigga before. What you're doing over
here driving through bedstide? Talk about you in the area?

Speaker 2 (05:58):
Move now. First of all, that's a super red flag.
I was in the neighborhood. What guy's doing that?

Speaker 6 (06:04):
Well, I'm from a small town, So men did that.
A lot were from a small town. They're always in
the neighborhood.

Speaker 3 (06:08):
Like if I run to the corner, I'm running patch.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
Everyone's on the Bulevard.

Speaker 3 (06:14):
We're all on the same street. We all live right here,
go to the same bar, the same barbershop, same club,
same restaurants. It's only what three date nighte spots you
can go to. That's like nice in a small town,
I'm saying, yeah.

Speaker 2 (06:28):
Just doing that period. It's creepy though in New York too.
You live in the Bronx and you just like, yo,
I'm in the neighborhood in Brooklyn.

Speaker 3 (06:34):
You know, being in the neighborhood, Like yeah, at least
do it before you leave it, Like, yo, listen, I
gotta go to Brooklyn today, Like yeah.

Speaker 6 (06:42):
We got back to back episodes two Evergreens and a
Patreon can't make it.

Speaker 3 (06:46):
Sorry, but you should.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
Read the situation to begin with. If she would even
want to see you, oh, I feel like you would
only do that, Hey, I'm in the neighborhood. If you're
already like getting evidence that this girl doesn't want to
see you, yeah, you have to be at that because like, yo,
come to the neighborhood.

Speaker 3 (07:00):
Yeah, you know, when a girl is like woul, she'd
be mad if you was in her hood and didn't
hit her, versus you hitting up when you're in the
hood and she's like Yo, why are you telling me that, Like,
you're not coming to my house?

Speaker 2 (07:11):
Be the worst cats when they found out you was
in the neighborhood and you never hit them.

Speaker 6 (07:13):
Yeah, it's like now I knew I was when niggas
be like, yo, I mean your city, have fun, go
see the Eiffel Tower. I don't know what the fuck
you want. I mean the statue of liberty.

Speaker 3 (07:21):
As want to go see the Eiffel Tower, And you
keep that, I like that better.

Speaker 6 (07:24):
Statue can't help you, Like, I'm not helping you.

Speaker 3 (07:28):
But you only only only to the guy you don't
want to see. Of course, if guy want to.

Speaker 6 (07:33):
Be laying there with a full body full of hair,
and I will get in the shower and like putting
air from my eyebrows down to my tone, everything.

Speaker 3 (07:41):
Like everything gone twenty minutes. Yeah, I know, it's I know,
I know all about those days.

Speaker 2 (07:49):
This is gonna sound sick, but it's just because we've
gotten older and we've had experiences. Have you been going
to a city for like over a decade and every
time you text that girl, I'm in your city, they
do exactly what Damarus just said. Every single time for
a decade, you start thinking like though you hain never
been in a relationship, every time I touch down, no
matter what month it is, what random day of the

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week it is, why are you free all the time?

Speaker 3 (08:15):
That's what you call a soldier ready for war? Like
you never even been in like a she ready for
war at all times? You never catch you she never
on her cycle.

Speaker 2 (08:25):
Because there's been like times where even chicks you've talked
to for that long, they'll be like months or years
where it's like I'm in a relationship now and like,
enjoy yourself. If you need something whatever, just hit me.
But I'm a relationship. I won't respect that. Cool. But
there's some girls that for a decade, every Tuesday, I
could just show up in Arizona and you ready ready.

Speaker 3 (08:46):
That's what you call a soldier. Those are the no
limit soldiers right there.

Speaker 2 (08:50):
And then you feel bad because in your head, you're like,
that girl could make a great girlfriend.

Speaker 3 (08:54):
What is wrong?

Speaker 2 (08:55):
Because you're only spending at most three days around her
at a time, you start to wonder what she's like
outside of those days. You've known her for ten years,
but only in three day increments, like what's her two weeks? Wag?
Like there's no way, this pretty girl that's cool is
not in a relationship at some point, and.

Speaker 3 (09:12):
Then you get upset when she stops answering your text.

Speaker 2 (09:15):
Well, that's I'm sure she's changed the number.

Speaker 3 (09:17):
No, no, no, it's still number. It's still find her email.
That's sick. Now, that's still a number.

Speaker 2 (09:24):
I know you're I know you're too cool, Damaris. When
was the last time you send an email to somebody?
You know, the emails I'm talking about.

Speaker 3 (09:32):
Shit go green?

Speaker 2 (09:33):
You blocked on ig. When was the last time you
sent the email out?

Speaker 6 (09:36):
Well? See, I haven't had to send an email because
I'm a cash app girl. I'm gonna I'm gonna request
a dollar on cash app and send fifty messages.

Speaker 2 (09:46):
But how many characters are in cash ap?

Speaker 3 (09:48):
I've only like people a couple like you can send
a couple. I don't need that with playing if you
could get that off, bitch stop, Yeah, yeah, I don't
take much.

Speaker 2 (10:01):
There's not a character limit.

Speaker 3 (10:03):
There is a character limit, but it's the same as Twitter.
It's like four hundred.

Speaker 2 (10:06):
Oh, I can get my shit off if it's one.

Speaker 6 (10:08):
Well, Rory, were you aware that you have that? Even
when you block somebody, they can still leave your voicemail,
like you have a blocked voicemails folder. Yeah, so like
even when you block people, that can still leave your voicemail.
And then when you go to your blocked voicemail folder,
like you can see all the voicemails.

Speaker 3 (10:22):
That I don't have nobody blocked. That's funny, really no.

Speaker 6 (10:26):
Body, because Ma, you're so mean, Like if we were mean,
if you were listen, you're strict. I'll say you're strict
if we were dating and you were to block me out.
I mean, if we were dating and you were to
say I don't want to talk to you no more
like I wouldn't blow your phone up because you strict,
like you give, like like you not for the games,
like you give like you meant what the fuck you said?

Speaker 3 (10:47):
Yeah, I said what I said, stop playing. We're not
playing the game games.

Speaker 6 (10:50):
You don't have to block them.

Speaker 3 (10:51):
Yeah, I don't have to, like or.

Speaker 6 (10:53):
Niggas said Rory say he done. Man, I know if
I call five times.

Speaker 3 (10:56):
I'm gonna get through and he'll come and he'll come
pick you up exactly. Sounds like a kind soul. He
block it and go pick up.

Speaker 2 (11:06):
I'm not I'm not a block and I'm not a
block person.

Speaker 3 (11:08):
You've never blocked nobody.

Speaker 2 (11:09):
I've only blocked like spam number like weird shit. I've
never blocked a girl.

Speaker 3 (11:13):
I just yeah. Never a nigga called wrong around me.
He blocked. I've been.

Speaker 2 (11:17):
I've been blocked before, and I've done the email thing
and I always started like the same way every time. Oh,
I guess you're not into communication.

Speaker 3 (11:24):
Mm hm.

Speaker 2 (11:28):
Oh, I guess this is how you handle issues.

Speaker 3 (11:30):
Yeah, someone's not being an adult yet. Yeah, I see you.

Speaker 2 (11:33):
Run away from your problems instead of confront them. Exactly
how that's starting every email that way I've done. You
always has to be no subject either.

Speaker 6 (11:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (11:40):
I've definitely been blocked though, and I don't know why
because I don't blow phones up, but whatever.

Speaker 2 (11:44):
I mean, maybe I blocked a number for like the
night because they were blowing my phone up. But I've
unblocked it like I've never. If I go through my
block contacts, it's a bunch of random numbers. I do
not know.

Speaker 3 (11:55):
I thought about changing my number.

Speaker 6 (11:57):
You've had it for so long I've had I know
you're not gonna give us the new one either.

Speaker 3 (12:00):
No, you have to have no mom. I'm saying like,
it's so many people that know not to hit my
phone that still have my number. Yeah, just like I
don't know. I just I feel like I want to
change my number.

Speaker 2 (12:09):
Tho I did. I mean you guys, remember what I
had like five different numbers of one. I kept switching
my number because I was doing the social cleanse. But
this was right before COVID. I've been fine since, like
only people that need to have my number of it,
because it was before I was just too many people
have mine. Yeah, too many people were hit me. But
that should have clear your mind.

Speaker 3 (12:30):
Trust me.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
I encourage it.

Speaker 3 (12:33):
It's changing it.

Speaker 2 (12:33):
I would change that shit.

Speaker 3 (12:34):
Yeah, yeah, I'm thinking about it. I'm really thinking about it.

Speaker 2 (12:37):
At one point, I was doing it like once a year.

Speaker 3 (12:40):
Nah, see that I can't.

Speaker 6 (12:41):
My little sister does that once every six months.

Speaker 2 (12:43):
Like well no, no. It started fucking with like business stuff
at that point. I got to keep my number because
I've had this number definitely since like twenty nineteen eighteen.
But I was switching my ship a lot because I
don't know too many people. I think Paluza also had
a lot to do with it, because it was just
so many it okay, like everybody was I forgot even
in the blues group would give my number to so

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many people, and I'm like, yeah, it got to a
point where I was like, who, who the fuck are
these people that get like that. I can understand that
it got way too crazy. I can see that, and
I mean, of course I was a heart throb. So
the hoes was just like, oh, can I get a break?

Speaker 3 (13:18):
Guy? Yeah? Can I get a break? Guys?

Speaker 6 (13:21):
I was as I was telling y'all on the last episode,
and I said, I was gonna talk to y'all about
it on this one. When I get in a new relationship,
I'm gonna change my number. But I'm about to start
casual day And Maul said, that's how you become a whole.
But I realized I had a self for.

Speaker 3 (13:32):
No, No, that's not I didn't say that's how you become
a wh I said, baby d about to become a hoe.
It's a different of what's the difference a difference? I
said what I.

Speaker 6 (13:40):
Said, I do not feel like I'm about to become
a whole. But what I realized when I looked back
on my dating history, I only casually dated from eighteen
to as an adult, from eighteen to twenty three, twenty
two to twenty three, that was it since.

Speaker 3 (13:56):
Twenty three, he was raised.

Speaker 6 (13:58):
I have been in real relationships and then a very
toxic situationship. I have never just dated just like, oh
I have a date this.

Speaker 3 (14:06):
Day and the date six situationship.

Speaker 6 (14:09):
Yeah, Like I haven't just been like oh I have
a date this week and then I have a date
like I don't date. Like I don't date. I don't
have sex with people who are already.

Speaker 3 (14:16):
In love with me.

Speaker 6 (14:17):
I caught one new body in the past seven years,
like I have to. I wasted my twenties in relationships.

Speaker 3 (14:25):
So I want to get you what type of math
you're doing? What do you mean? So you caught one
new body?

Speaker 6 (14:30):
One new body as in everybody.

Speaker 3 (14:34):
Female bodies count. See this is this woman math, See
this this.

Speaker 2 (14:37):
Is aunt is Yes, be prideful.

Speaker 3 (14:43):
How many cats have you looked in the last seven years?

Speaker 6 (14:48):
Okay, cancel each other out.

Speaker 7 (14:53):
Zero.

Speaker 6 (14:55):
I've entertained intimately one new male in the past seven years.

Speaker 3 (15:00):
I've entertained That's why. That's what you sound like Jada. Yeah,
you sound like Jada at the red table, Like.

Speaker 8 (15:05):
What.

Speaker 3 (15:07):
Are you talking about?

Speaker 6 (15:08):
I was, Yeah, I was you had.

Speaker 3 (15:10):
Sex with one new guy in the last seven years?

Speaker 6 (15:13):
Yes, okay, that's that's insane. Shead girl in her twenties.

Speaker 2 (15:17):
No superhead said we collided mmm when somebody asked her, like,
did you fuck this personally? Well, we collided.

Speaker 6 (15:24):
Our universe is collided.

Speaker 2 (15:25):
Yeah, we swapped energies.

Speaker 3 (15:27):
Okay, So you also you're looking you're looking to get
back into the data laying game.

Speaker 6 (15:31):
Yeah, but I don't. I don't know how to do
it because I've never done it as an adult. I've
never done it. So I'm trying to figure out how
to be cool and like laid back and not jump
into a relationship after date three, which is what I
usually do.

Speaker 2 (15:45):
Yeah, I don't think you're built how tough. I don't
know if ho one is really for.

Speaker 6 (15:48):
You, but I don't really want to hole is like,
is there only really serial monogamous and whole? Is there
like no middle ground?

Speaker 3 (15:59):
What is it? How?

Speaker 2 (16:00):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (16:00):
How do I get there?

Speaker 2 (16:01):
Casual dating? Okay, I don't know if you're built for
casual dating.

Speaker 6 (16:06):
I don't think I don't. I don't think I am either,
But I don't really have a choice. I can't go
and get into another relationship right now, I think that
that is. I don't think that's the spot in my
life I need to be in right now.

Speaker 3 (16:15):
Yeah, I don't. I wouldn't say go get into another relationship,
but you could have fun. You casually date, have fun.
It doesn't have to be. It doesn't have to be.
You don't have to be like intimate or physical to
casually date, you know what I mean. You don't have
to have sex with somebody to casually date, hang out,
flirt a little bit, you know, just to see what happens.
But you don't have to, like, don't put that pressure

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on you, like, oh he's gonna want some Yes, he's
gonna want some pussy. We all know that.

Speaker 2 (16:42):
It comes with it.

Speaker 3 (16:43):
Yes, it comes with it. Like no matter how many
flowers he sends you, how many good morning he thinking about.

Speaker 2 (16:48):
That cat, and in his head he's saying, damn, I
even ask her to come through, like I took her
on a date us.

Speaker 3 (16:53):
But you know, just just just have fun. Don't put
no pressure on it, no pressure, don't put no pressure,
don't put no expectation.

Speaker 6 (17:00):
I don't like calling a nigga and he don't answer,
Like I haven't had to deal with that in a
very long I'll call a nigga and like he don't answer.
Not okay, I've called him in and they don't answer,
But like I can't cuss you out for not answering,
Like I don't like that, but like I got to
just deal with the fact you didn't answer. You busy, Yeah,
and you don't have to explain to me what you're doing,
Like you don't have to like tell me like anything,
like you was just I was out. I was just out.

Speaker 2 (17:22):
I can't That is the toughest part about going from
serial monogamy ship, which I've done and then tried to date.
Your brain is wired for exactly what course. Like no,
I'm not saying you owe me that, but when you're
talking to somebody, you just that's what you're used to. Yeah,
what you're doing where you're not even on like o yo,
what the fuck you're doing? You're just used to that
update Like let him not talking to somebody for a day,

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You're like, wait, what the fuck?

Speaker 3 (17:46):
Yeah, dude, like me, like I don't know what word.

Speaker 2 (17:48):
The psycho passing that degree, But.

Speaker 3 (17:50):
Let him know, though, baby, Like let them. I'm not
pressing you. I'm not trying to be like flock carrier.
That's like leading with that. No, nobody let him know,
like I'm not it's not oppressed. I'm not saying, yo,
what you was doing, Like, I'm not pressing you. You
just like you know that's what you're used to. It's
just like you know you just okay.

Speaker 6 (18:07):
How do I know that they like me?

Speaker 3 (18:09):
How do you know if they like you like for me?
How do I know that I mean what you mean
for you?

Speaker 6 (18:14):
How do I know if they like me for me?
Or if they're just trying to hit you?

Speaker 3 (18:18):
You don't always trying. I just told you step on
a nigga is always trying to hit, Like, let's not
skip over step.

Speaker 2 (18:25):
Also, that doesn't mean a bad thing. He could also
want to hit. But really like.

Speaker 6 (18:30):
Difference between like I know, first of all, okay, let
me put like this. I've been loved by men, so
I know what it feels like to be loved by
men by men.

Speaker 3 (18:39):
But if huh, nothing good.

Speaker 6 (18:41):
But as far as the casual dating thing, the slow
growth of it all without running and jumping into a relationship,
how do I know, Like, I don't know, how do
I know.

Speaker 3 (18:51):
That to take that time?

Speaker 2 (18:52):
So you don't end up in a seven year toxic
situationship where you're both trying to prove and disprove that
you like each other. You actually have to take the
time in the beginning to do so instead of rushing
into what you know. I'm not judging you, because I've
done it a million times, of just immediately hopping into
a relationship with somebody that you just like at the time,
and then you don't really get to know each other

(19:13):
and it ends up being a toxic situation for years,
instead of taking the time to really get to know
them before you hop into anything. Getting to know somebody
that way in a relationship is where the toxic shit starts.
After two weeks, it's like, move in, you don't even
know that that be me, but you don't even know them.
That's why it turns into toxic shit because you don't

(19:34):
even know them. You're getting to know them once you've
already committed to somebody, but you don't even know.

Speaker 3 (19:38):
Moving after two weeks is crazy, baby d So you
can't do that.

Speaker 6 (19:40):
I moved in I think after two months two months,
I moved in.

Speaker 3 (19:44):
Moved in with somebody. Yeah, that's wild. After two months.

Speaker 6 (19:51):
It was we were in love.

Speaker 3 (19:52):
We were in love. I okay, hmm, two months is crazy.

Speaker 2 (19:56):
You're in love with the idea.

Speaker 3 (19:58):
I don't think we really we really weren't living eventually.

Speaker 6 (20:00):
Yes, yeah that didn't work, but we really were in
love with each other. But my thing is Okay, So
I was having this because I'm asking all my male
homeboys about this. Y'all are my male homeboys? I asked
reason about this, he said. I said, okay, So how
do I handle if I start having sex with someone
but like I'm casually dating and I start dating somebody else,
like obviously.

Speaker 5 (20:19):
I'm not use oh use, oh I told you? Oh
oh no.

Speaker 3 (20:31):
I'm sorry, baby. I just had a flash.

Speaker 2 (20:33):
Bubba sparks as Ludo isn't Luda and Bubba though, go ahead.

Speaker 3 (20:40):
They were trying to put the whites in the hip hop.
See yeah, I see Dungeon family.

Speaker 6 (20:43):
I was just trying to figure out, like, Okay, if
you're sleeping with one you really like them, and then
you start liking another one, but you don't another one like.

Speaker 2 (20:50):
Speak about us, You're like one of those objectives.

Speaker 6 (20:54):
I don't operate in that environment, Like I don't know
how to like two people at one time, Like, what
do I do?

Speaker 3 (20:59):
Yes, you do? You know, trying to fuck two people
at the same time. Okay, but yeah, but you know
how to like two people at the same If I'm.

Speaker 6 (21:04):
Really really liking somebody, at first of all, I order
for me to sleep with you, I have to really
really like you. And then if I'm really really liking
you and really really liking the sex, how am I
going to continue to just casually date other people? I
don't know how to how to make my brain split?

Speaker 3 (21:16):
Like, okay, So what you need to do is you
need to always remember this is just fun casually dating.
If you slip and fall into bed and he knocked
your head through the headboard, when you get up and
you go in a shower to get that warm rag,
we're looking in the mirror and say, this is just
fun to marriage. This is just not a long term relationship. Okay,

(21:39):
I'm still having fun. This is okay, I like him.
It's cool to like somebody. I'm not gonna say I
don't like nobody. I like him. Just keep your options,
you know, still keep walking. That's like this at the buffet,
you stop at the chicken tenders. But that's not all
you put on your plate. We love who doesn't love you?
Love chicken tenders? Of course you love the chicken tendors,
But you gotta move on down some sides. Get some greens,

(22:02):
some veggies, a salad, you know, get your whole spread gun.

Speaker 2 (22:06):
Forty eight months realistics.

Speaker 3 (22:07):
Yeah, okay, that's what you gotta do. Have fun, love
your chicken tenders, but leave room on your plate for others,
is what I'm saying. Okay, that's all right.

Speaker 2 (22:17):
Are you somebody that wants rigorous honesty in dating?

Speaker 3 (22:24):
Swallowed your prideright? There? You hear how that motherfucker hit?
I heard that shit hit her belly button, that shit
went strict boom. Damn.

Speaker 2 (22:32):
Women can't even did you swallowed the sneakery?

Speaker 3 (22:37):
You heard that? Yo? Women can't swallow their pride at all.
I do, I do, I do.

Speaker 6 (22:43):
I do want honesty.

Speaker 2 (22:45):
I do. Okay, let's say we've been on two dates talking,
but honestly though the three let's say two weeks, two weeks,
two dates, talk whatever, And you say, hey, are you
free Tuesday? And I say no, I'm not. And you
just because we've just been talking back and forth? Oh okay,
like what you got going on I.

Speaker 3 (23:04):
Got a date, I have a date? Is that the
type of honor with that honesty? That shit hurt?

Speaker 6 (23:14):
I got PTSD. I would like for you, okay, I
would like for you to be honest. I want you
to feel like you can be honest. I don't want
you to feel like you have to be honest about that.
Like if I asked you.

Speaker 3 (23:28):
You're not answering a question.

Speaker 6 (23:31):
How okay? I want the honesty. I do want the honesty,
but I don't want I'm cool if I don't get
it either, Like I'm like, I'm like, if you just
tell me you busy and I don't ask a follow
up question, then that's fine in sce lie, but I'm
fine if you omit some shit, But I don't want
you to lie. Like if I asked you, hey, I
called you last night, where were you? And you're like, oh,
I was on a date.

Speaker 3 (23:52):
I gotta eat that.

Speaker 6 (23:53):
I gotta eat that. I gotta eat that. But I'm
probably not gonna I'm probably not gonna do the same.
I don't think that men can handle that same amout
of honesty. Men when they find out that other men
are entertaining you. There's from what I've experienced. There's two
different types of men. There's one that they see that
they have competition and they're gonna act like a lion
and really go hard for it. And then there's someone
they see that they have competition. They're gonna fall back

(24:14):
and say, oh, I'm not about to be trying to
woo you when another niggas trying to woo you.

Speaker 3 (24:17):
No, I don't. Well, for myself, I was at a
girl's house. We were just just friends, like just just home,
I'm sure, And I was at her crib and we
was chilling, rolling up, smoking, right, and she was like, yeah,
you know this, this guy was about to pull up
whatever whatever, we're about to come through. He's supposed to
do something for whatever, right, respected the honesty, gangster right now.

(24:43):
I never saw her again after that, Like I never
never help after that, But I respect the honesty though,
Like all right, cool, Like let me get about your space,
you know what I'm saying. I was at her crib chilling,
you know, rolling up, smoking talk and shit, just chilling.
She's like, yeah, you know, friends about to pull up
in the feud that Uh, she just let me know
like basically like you know, so we got to wrap

(25:06):
this up. I respected it. Never saw again after that,
never went to a crib after that. Why I'm I
don't know, if I'm being honest, It wasn't because it
wasn't again with just homies. It wasn't nothing like you know,
wasn't trying to really do nothing. But if there's other

(25:27):
men actively coming to your crib to like kicking and
chill and hang out, I don't need to be in
that rotation, not me, like you could take me out
of that. You could. I'll go over here, I'll take
myself out of the rotation. I took myself out the rotation.

Speaker 6 (25:40):
But if and that's why I say, that's why sometimes
women lie, because I do know that men feel You're
not the only man that I know feels like that
as far as coming to my cribin always coming to
my crib, but as far as just you know, like
if you feel like you're in a rotation, a lot
of men don't like feeling like that, so they'll take
themselves out of the rotation. Whereas it's like the whole
purpose of cash rule dating is like this shit a

(26:01):
rat race whire you gonna see who the fuck make
it to the finish line.

Speaker 3 (26:03):
So but but you could win. No, no, no, no,
because you know why I took myself out of rotation
Because other men can't handle knowing that a girl has
a rotation. So now this dude pull up, I'm near chilling,
say we just our times just overlap. He pull up
sooner than he was supposed to.

Speaker 6 (26:22):
Yes, that's dangerous.

Speaker 3 (26:23):
You understand what I'm saying. So that's why I take
myself out of the question, because I know other dudes
can't handle. I'm fine with it. I'm cool, like I'm
not tripping, But I know other dudes can't. You know,
they can't handle that. They get mad when they know
that the girl that they like is, you know, entertaining
other guys that they even if the guy is just
literally just chilling like they don't they're not gonna take that. Well,

(26:45):
and then I don't take and asking getting you know,
asked questions well, like you're not gonna question me like
I'm walking off, yo. Who you fancy?

Speaker 4 (26:52):
Now?

Speaker 3 (26:53):
Talk to her? Don't ask me nothing. I don't ask
me where I'm from, who I can't aim to see
how long we've been knowing each other? Don't ask me nothing.
Talk to her, she'd give you the rundown, and that's
between y'all. I'm out. And that's why I take myself
out of that because again I know what comes with
that with other men, like they can't handle that. But

(27:16):
I would say to you, keep your options open though,
have fun. Let him know listen, I'm not looking for
nothing too heavy, too serious. I'm having fun getting to
know people.

Speaker 2 (27:25):
But when you say that, that tell A guy can
say like, I have a date tonight and say he
says that, I know how pedy you are. The way
that's happened to.

Speaker 6 (27:33):
Me, it's gonna be a PTech on the story in
five seconds, like what.

Speaker 2 (27:37):
Are you saying the next day? Like oh, how is
your little date?

Speaker 6 (27:40):
Like, oh, I'm for sure, like oh how was your day?
Oh that's what's up? She smell good, That's what's up.

Speaker 2 (27:46):
What it depends its anytime a woman has said that,
I said, oh, my phone is on when you want
to come through after I've said that, and it's worked
more than once my phone as well.

Speaker 6 (27:57):
If a nigga said that to me, I might I
might be in.

Speaker 2 (28:02):
My phone is on for what you want to come
through after thinking I'm out after she left a date
as I know, it's not I know she's gonna like
me better.

Speaker 6 (28:09):
Oh that's what you meant. I thought you meant, like
after you lead the date, see if I want to
come through after.

Speaker 7 (28:13):
No, no, no.

Speaker 2 (28:14):
If a woman says she's gone on the date, like
she went out to dinner with a guy, all right,
when dinner's done, hit me, I'll let you know how
I go.

Speaker 3 (28:23):
No, I don't let me know how your date went.
You ain't got to tell me, Like don't, I don't.

Speaker 2 (28:28):
But I'm said, like, that's a win or lose situation.
There's no gray area with that one, because when she
don't hit you, you're gonna feel away, like, oh so
they did ship after that?

Speaker 3 (28:38):
Yeah, but he hitting something.

Speaker 2 (28:40):
But it's been the biggest confidence booster when after dinner, Yeah,
where you at? Then I know what tom it is.
But that time, that time, it's a risk.

Speaker 3 (28:50):
When she pull up after the date and she's telling
you about the date and how whack it was while
she taking her clothes off. Oh that's I mean, God,
bless your heart.

Speaker 2 (28:59):
I've had like the situationship in cabs.

Speaker 3 (29:02):
He got your cabs and dropped you off. You got
your favorite Martine to get you in that movie.

Speaker 1 (29:09):
Yo.

Speaker 6 (29:10):
Man, see, y'all gonna make people afraid to date.

Speaker 3 (29:13):
Don't do that. I'm gonna make people. I'm just giving
them what's out there. Some of y'all be dropping her
off at the nigga crib. That's wow. It's a fact. Though.
You can be on a day with a girl like Yo,
you're going now, I'm going to my friend's house. I'll
drop you off. She ain't say what friend it was.
She just says she was going on her friend's house.
And here you are pulling up.

Speaker 6 (29:33):
You shouldn't even have no nigga knowing where the nigga.
Just people not raised right.

Speaker 3 (29:37):
He upstairs on GTA nine hours. You done spend four hundred.

Speaker 2 (29:42):
She got underwear, ant tooth brush there.

Speaker 3 (29:44):
Stop.

Speaker 6 (29:45):
Y'all gonna make people afraid of women who okay, but
there are women who don't.

Speaker 2 (29:49):
It's happened to everybody both ways.

Speaker 3 (29:51):
Yeah, it's women that don't, but it's women that do.
That's all we speaking to the women that do. Don't
you be one of those women that do? Though, Baby, No,
I don't.

Speaker 6 (29:57):
I don't.

Speaker 3 (29:58):
I don't. That's not but it's good that you being
back out there though, getting back out on the dating scene,
and you know, seeing what's out there.

Speaker 6 (30:04):
I'm either going to be back celibate by August or
in a relationship by September.

Speaker 2 (30:10):
Get Rich of d Trump.

Speaker 3 (30:11):
If y'all know me, y'all know me.

Speaker 6 (30:12):
I'm either gonna be back celibate by August or in
a relationship by fining Rich.

Speaker 2 (30:15):
By twenty six I'll be beater in jail. Yeah, yeah,
so why are you putting out? But don't put that
much see though, you can't put that much pressure on it.

Speaker 6 (30:22):
Though, I just know myself. I'm very I'm trying to
break my patterns, but I'm very aware of my patterns.
I've gotten rid of my other patterns. Those patterns are blocked,
but my patterns tend to be I tend to end
up in a relationship. Or I'll go on one date
and hate men so much that I'll be like I'm cool,
Like one day, go bad for me. I can't handle
a bad day. I'd be like, oh, I'm cool, I.

Speaker 3 (30:42):
Just one day.

Speaker 2 (30:42):
But you shouldn't deal it that way though I know
that was just the right person.

Speaker 6 (30:46):
I'm trying to be better.

Speaker 2 (30:47):
I mean, don't I know you're not going to spend
the block on the toxic relationship. But nothing is more
fun when you've had a situation like that that wasn't
toxic and you're still cool with her and she's actively
telling you about her dating life, like going one on
a date and show you know, y'all not fucking nothing anymore.
But she'll text you like, oh this this was bad

(31:08):
whatever one of the ten year things I was talking about.
I've had these conversations with nothing boost your ego more.
When she goes on a bunch of dates in their
trash and she she thought she was a piece of shit,
but y'all still cool. Death roat don't look so bad now,
I'll do it. These guys is boring, Huh, that's why. Yeah, Now,
this is what comes with the territory. I may be

(31:29):
a piece of shit, but I'm fun.

Speaker 6 (31:31):
I had to stop dating. I went on a date
one time and called my old shit crying. I said,
I hate it out here. I'm coming back. These niggas
tried to make me take up fucking trained back home
from a date. I hate it here. I can't live
like this. Come stop being a hole and just let

(31:51):
me love you. Crying.

Speaker 7 (31:54):
Yo.

Speaker 6 (31:54):
I was like, I cannot get back out here, but
fuck it.

Speaker 3 (31:56):
I'm not going here now. What's up? See back outside.

Speaker 6 (31:59):
I'm trying to find niggas. I've been cuffed up too long.
Let me remind niggas. Yeah, CARDI, that.

Speaker 3 (32:05):
Spoke to your soul. Huh, it's gonna speak to your I'm.

Speaker 6 (32:08):
I'm speed dating and find some holes.

Speaker 3 (32:11):
Meal I'm down.

Speaker 6 (32:14):
You don't for real?

Speaker 3 (32:15):
Would you go speed day?

Speaker 6 (32:17):
Okay, I'm gonna finding the ones with bad I'm not
looking for nobody at the speed day.

Speaker 3 (32:20):
I'm just gonna that has the bad bitches.

Speaker 6 (32:23):
Speed d ain't be have bad bitches.

Speaker 3 (32:24):
I don't know. I've never but bad regular women though,
like the like the j cole fans, All right.

Speaker 2 (32:30):
Hold on with speed dating is like cuckdating To me,
how are you just watching the girl you like talk
to fifty men in one second?

Speaker 6 (32:38):
It's not fifty, it'd be like twelve. And it's for
like sixty seconds.

Speaker 2 (32:43):
And like imagine if you because the girls move or
the guys move.

Speaker 6 (32:47):
The girls move, No, the guys move, the guys move, Okay.

Speaker 2 (32:51):
But you're still in the same rotation, right, Like what
if I don't even know more, but he's ahead of me.
And like, the whole time I'm trying to date, all
I can hear is him making every girl laugh after
I didn't make her laugh. You're not weird that much,
feel That's why speed dating would be rough.

Speaker 3 (33:07):
Yeah, you got it so much going on, it's a lot.
That's a lot. I mean, I'm down to go just
to have fun with you.

Speaker 2 (33:13):
But and then the girl that doesn't like the girl
doesn't move. She can hear the other guy use the
same lines one table over like there's no winning in
that entire thing.

Speaker 3 (33:23):
Yeah, see, I'm I'm, but I'm I would be a
bad speed data because if I'm hitting up with my
funnies and she ain't laughing, like, look she laughed, I
think she's the one, Like, yeah, she laughed, she thought
I was. She thought I was great.

Speaker 6 (33:33):
Number three thought I was.

Speaker 3 (33:34):
She thought I was great, Like, I don't know why
you not laughing? But whatever?

Speaker 2 (33:36):
And so do you exchange numbers? How does it work?

Speaker 6 (33:39):
I think if you like him at the end, you
like exchange so you get sixty seconds to get your ship.

Speaker 2 (33:43):
Off sixty seconds again, that's how people get I'm coming
in hot, coming to what you're.

Speaker 6 (33:46):
Saying, come on, do it right now. Sixty seconds we
starting now.

Speaker 3 (33:50):
Favorite position? Have you fucked on the first day before?
How long did it last? Did you like it? Mom?
Fit a swallow fucking yeah. You gotta get sixty seconds.

Speaker 2 (34:04):
We're only ten seconds in. I'm looking at the clock.

Speaker 3 (34:08):
You gotta go to it.

Speaker 6 (34:09):
I'm not comfortable answering any of those questions, sir, why
are you here? Because I'm trying to get in a relationship.
I'm not just trying to fuck.

Speaker 3 (34:15):
Okay, So you're trying in a relationship. What are you
looking for?

Speaker 6 (34:18):
I'm looking for a guy that's like nice, sweet, honest.

Speaker 3 (34:21):
At a speed date. Yeah, nobody's honest at a speed day.
We got sixty seconds to lie.

Speaker 6 (34:25):
Nobody's fucking at a speed date.

Speaker 3 (34:27):
I fucked at a speed Dad. I'm here every month.
You gotta get your shit off. You gotta get your
shit over. Ry.

Speaker 2 (34:36):
You guys have ten more seconds. You gotta get your
shit off.

Speaker 6 (34:39):
I think I think you're a serial killer, and I
think I'm okay, But I did enjoy this time with you.

Speaker 3 (34:42):
You were funny, So.

Speaker 2 (34:43):
Switch all right, bye, here's the thing. Let's say there's
twenty girls there mal is definitely for just by sheer numbers.
He's fucking three girls from there based off that, Oh
my for sure. God, I didn't say all, but there's
definitely three girls that are definitely into that exact.

Speaker 3 (35:02):
Shore knocking three shots now that might go through with
that energy three for twelve, but I'm not leaving here
with anything in my book bag. Three is crazy. Three
for twelve. I went three for twelve to night coach
put me in all.

Speaker 2 (35:15):
Right, but did that that probably left more of an impression,
even if it was a creepy one or hyper sexual
one to.

Speaker 3 (35:20):
Everybody will be talking about me.

Speaker 2 (35:22):
Let's let's start the clock.

Speaker 3 (35:24):
Now. What's your name, Tamaris?

Speaker 1 (35:28):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (35:29):
Like, what are you going?

Speaker 7 (35:29):
So?

Speaker 3 (35:29):
Like?

Speaker 2 (35:30):
What type of stuff do you like to do?

Speaker 6 (35:31):
I like to read, I like to dance, I like
to cook. I like to entertain my friends. I'm a
family orientated person.

Speaker 3 (35:37):
How about you? Okay?

Speaker 2 (35:38):
I like outdoor sports and you know, like I'm really
into reading as well. Like last he's gay, Like, what
is leaving a lasting impression? What my bullshit or what
he did? Because he's you're gonna wonder about him after
speed dating is over.

Speaker 3 (35:57):
There's a wow there's a middle browne.

Speaker 2 (36:00):
You're gonna look him up online to like really find
that guy?

Speaker 3 (36:03):
What was wrong? You'll be mad you didn't take my number?

Speaker 6 (36:05):
No, I'm coming in hot.

Speaker 3 (36:06):
What time is it?

Speaker 6 (36:07):
We're starting at thirty six?

Speaker 3 (36:08):
Hold on? So why are you here?

Speaker 6 (36:11):
Because you way too fine to be single?

Speaker 2 (36:14):
Talking to me or the guy next to me. There's
too many people can talking to you.

Speaker 6 (36:22):
To me, I'm talking to you. See you got you
got nervous.

Speaker 2 (36:31):
All right, so me all right?

Speaker 3 (36:32):
Okay, three, two one go?

Speaker 6 (36:35):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (36:35):
So you wait?

Speaker 6 (36:36):
Too fine to be single? What you're doing here?

Speaker 2 (36:38):
You probably said that to the last three guys. Does
it matter she said the same thing? Does it matter
if I'm saying it?

Speaker 3 (36:43):
Do you right now? What's up?

Speaker 2 (36:45):
But you said it one minute to go to somebody else?

Speaker 6 (36:46):
Doesn't matter? Why do you keep worrying about him when
I'm right here? How?

Speaker 3 (36:49):
Because we sit in.

Speaker 2 (36:50):
Thought of thought?

Speaker 6 (36:50):
What's your name?

Speaker 2 (36:52):
My name is Rory.

Speaker 3 (36:53):
Do you have any kids? Yes?

Speaker 6 (36:54):
Can you show me a picture of her?

Speaker 3 (36:56):
Fuck? No? Do you want any more?

Speaker 2 (37:00):
Now with somebody that says the same thing the last
three guys?

Speaker 6 (37:03):
Why did you come to speed day? And if you're
so worried about what the other men need somebody here
for him?

Speaker 3 (37:08):
No, I'm not.

Speaker 2 (37:09):
We're just happy to be sitting next to each other.

Speaker 6 (37:12):
He's too nervous.

Speaker 3 (37:13):
He's shaken.

Speaker 6 (37:14):
I got him shaky. He blushing and ship like.

Speaker 2 (37:16):
Come on now, yes, I would like kids eventually you would?

Speaker 1 (37:21):
So?

Speaker 6 (37:21):
Are you interested in like casual dating? Are you looking
for something serious like what prompted you?

Speaker 2 (37:25):
I'm looking for casual into serious?

Speaker 6 (37:30):
Nine two?

Speaker 8 (37:32):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (37:34):
Wait, that got the number? Yo?

Speaker 6 (37:36):
Man?

Speaker 3 (37:37):
See you didn't think my rent to bo he's a
serial killer. You can't get nas nazi. That's why I
can't go speed in because I'll yell at but he
got your number? Nah? Come on? What's funny?

Speaker 2 (37:52):
Is I would? I'd probably call her.

Speaker 3 (37:55):
No, you wouldn't. That's not the girl you want? Why
is hey?

Speaker 6 (37:59):
What the fuck?

Speaker 3 (38:00):
Why is that not the girl you want?

Speaker 8 (38:01):
No?

Speaker 3 (38:01):
You don't want that girl?

Speaker 2 (38:02):
Why?

Speaker 6 (38:02):
What's wrong with me?

Speaker 3 (38:03):
Ma?

Speaker 8 (38:04):
No?

Speaker 3 (38:04):
Nothing is not you. Nothing is wrong with you. And
I'm just saying you don't want the girl that a
conversation like that, You don't want her number?

Speaker 6 (38:11):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (38:11):
I do, because that's hilarious.

Speaker 3 (38:13):
See he's weird. I forget why you don't like smooth
women more. That was that was funny, smooth.

Speaker 6 (38:19):
That was just because you made it awkward. I was
rising you up and you kept being cleared. I was
smooth saying you too fine.

Speaker 2 (38:25):
Here is not rising it up.

Speaker 3 (38:26):
You too fond to be here. I ain't never seen
you around here.

Speaker 2 (38:29):
Before where you come from, because I really would have
met that if we were being serious, I would have
met that with whired you here. You don't think highly
of yourself.

Speaker 3 (38:39):
No, that's what you gotta say, because I knew you
was here. See, I knew you was here. I don't.

Speaker 2 (38:46):
Even have a reality.

Speaker 3 (38:48):
I have reality.

Speaker 2 (38:51):
I like that Thatch is cute at the party, and
don't I can do that for fun for funzies at
the party.

Speaker 6 (38:58):
I've never seen you give riz, will you be talking
a bit?

Speaker 2 (39:01):
Just you be like you?

Speaker 3 (39:02):
Just like you.

Speaker 6 (39:03):
They love you because you're like awkward, funny.

Speaker 3 (39:07):
Peach.

Speaker 2 (39:08):
You've seen me in.

Speaker 8 (39:09):
Action, remarkable, remarkable back like he's so good, man, he's
just so good.

Speaker 6 (39:27):
How does he do him?

Speaker 3 (39:28):
Man? Look at him? Go man.

Speaker 2 (39:30):
I was using that I feel like we've known each
other line before. It was mainstream, like we've known each
other forever. He was ended with that it's like it's
definitely grassroot. I was fat beats at that. I was
the raucus of that. Likely know each other at night.
I just feels like we've known each other forever. I'm

(39:50):
so comfortable around.

Speaker 3 (39:51):
You, Maul.

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Speaker 2 (40:09):
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Speaker 2 (40:29):
We didn't talk about it last week because I didn't
really want to give it too much light because I
know it is a rumor of Vanessa Bryant being pregnant
and people were tweeting how upset they were about it.
I don't care to talk about that rumor because it
was false, even down to like people saying Lauren London
was dating just that topic in general, Why are people

(40:52):
so upset after so many years that people would move
on with their lives. Like I could't even speak to it.
In my family, my cousin passed when I was fifteen.
She was married at the time. I went to her
husband's wedding. M h, I mean it was years and
years and years later. But like people are supposed to

(41:12):
just forever be alone, Like I don't get that. Like
me and my family all went to my cousin's husband's
new wedding, and like, we love his wife. She's amazing.
She treats us great respectfully to her daughter, Alexandria, She's
an amazing step mother. Like what it's people move on?

Speaker 3 (41:35):
Like, you know, I think with this one is just
because obviously, you know it being one of the greatest
athletes of our time, and then the way in which
he passed, and you know, his daughter and everybody else
that day. I think, you know, again, fans just being

(41:55):
fans and fanatics and wanting to attach themselves too much
to the situation, and you know, the family just expressing
themselves and feeling like, you know, Vanessa Bryant should still
be in mourning and you know she should never move on.
You know, even though Kobe is passed, she should never
move on and find love again to be happy. That's

(42:17):
just that's just not realistic. That's not reality. Even if
Vanessa Bryant has moved on, and even if she is pregnant,
you know, that's you know, that's it's her life. She
has to move on, she has to her life continues,
should carry her daughter and her husband with her forever
and the memory of them, in the spirit of them.

(42:38):
But you know, she should, she should find happiness and
you know, helpful because we don't think about her enough
mentally where she was losing a daughter and her husband
and the way they passed, you know, such a tragic accident.
So for her to even find herself back in a
position where you know, she's dating or you know, she

(42:58):
she she's looking for love again or companionship or whatever,
people should be happy about that to some capacity, you
know what I mean. Like, and again, people just need
to stop being so involved, like that's none of our business.
Like if she moved on, great, if she's pregnant, congrats
you know, God bless but you know, just just fans

(43:19):
being fans and feeling like they have a platform to
voice their opinions and you know, just to talk shit.
It's stupid, but you know, either way, life goes on.
People die, and you know, tragically, but you know this,
the widow should be allowed to move on at some point.

Speaker 2 (43:38):
I mean, I think what Dame and his current wife
have is great because I see Dame honor a Leah constantly,
especially on her birthday day of or passing. I see
Dame's wife honor her as well, like you.

Speaker 3 (43:55):
Still love the person, you still love them forever. But
it's just life goes on.

Speaker 7 (43:58):
Man.

Speaker 3 (43:58):
We got to move forward. Life. Life is going to continue,
Life is going to happen.

Speaker 2 (44:01):
And okay, but from beyond the grave. I don't think
you'd be cool with it.

Speaker 3 (44:06):
We spoke beyond the grave. We spoke about that already. Now,
you single forever day I died, the day I die,
I'm taking that pussy with me. Oh yeah, my old
school baby. Do you hear me?

Speaker 2 (44:21):
You would try to haunt them?

Speaker 3 (44:22):
Yeah, for sure?

Speaker 6 (44:24):
What if he oh my god, I can't imagine if
he clapping from the back and like he slapped your
ass a specific way, and it's like, damn, this remind
me of mall.

Speaker 3 (44:32):
That's a different type of evil, Like that thought was
being really weird. Yo, that was like you just took
that to like a whole real ear like drop out
your eye like damn, scare like that. Yeah, like this,
look how you what's wrong with you? How would your
mind even go to that somebody after your husband?

Speaker 6 (44:51):
Because some things have familiar Like what if he got
your cologne on? Like I go on a first day,
he go to kiss me, he got he got your
cologne on?

Speaker 3 (44:58):
You should start breaking down, having emotional down crying.

Speaker 6 (45:01):
I am, But what if I really like that cologne
on you used to really like turn me on like
it he's supposed to turn me on on him.

Speaker 3 (45:06):
It's not on me.

Speaker 2 (45:06):
Would that be a sign that you shouldn't be there
or that you should.

Speaker 3 (45:10):
A sign that you should?

Speaker 6 (45:11):
I think that would be I would take that as
a sign that I was supposed to be there the.

Speaker 3 (45:14):
Baby, but as the man that's on the date devil,
I would the devil.

Speaker 6 (45:20):
If I'm a man of and it's reminding me of
somebody I love, like damn, like this makes me feel comfort.
This makes me feel safe, like how mall used to.

Speaker 2 (45:27):
Okay, if you told me that on the first day
or even we were saying we were a year and
year you told me you brought that up again, really
creeped out.

Speaker 3 (45:36):
I would never tell you, like, wait, so do you
like it?

Speaker 2 (45:38):
Am I here? Because I had that Colonne on and
I'm the replacement.

Speaker 6 (45:42):
Thinking that just the cologne is what kept me and
ended up me in a relationship with you is insane.

Speaker 2 (45:47):
But that could be grief.

Speaker 6 (45:49):
That could be a positive sign, like, oh my god,
he smells like ma he smells like he's comforting me.
Like yeah, I feel like that's a good sign.

Speaker 2 (45:58):
I mean, I'm not more. I would want my significant
other to eventually move on.

Speaker 3 (46:02):
Yeah you have know I would. I'm joking. You have
to move on. Life goes on. But like.

Speaker 2 (46:07):
If it was within two years, like I'm definitely i'moulda
be sitting there with Jesus, Like, yo, look at.

Speaker 3 (46:14):
This whole I'm thinking you're gonna be with Jesus, crazy
like me and Jesus be like on. But now you
gotta be careful now because there are some sick people
out here, and you know, somebody like a Vanessa Bryant
could meet a sick guy who just want the clout
of being the guy that Vanessa Bryant was with after Kobe.

Speaker 6 (46:31):
Like, I don't even think Vanessa Bryant would run into
I get what you're saying.

Speaker 3 (46:35):
What happens, don't think it, don't I'm sure it does.

Speaker 6 (46:37):
But I'm pretty sure that she has enough people around her.
I'm pretty sure she has the discernment.

Speaker 2 (46:42):
Oh yeah, I'm just saying not her in particular, but
women in her position, Like gotta be careful because absolutely
guys would clout chase and be like they would want
to be in that position, like because they know they
know what comes with that, like everything that's happening on
the internet now.

Speaker 3 (46:57):
They know what comes with that.

Speaker 2 (46:58):
Unfortunately, like with her moving over there life. Not that
I want to make it clear, I don't think Vanessa
Briant would even look my way, but that in that
scenario would intimidate me, Like I don't I know what
comes with that, Like we're saying, I don't know if
i'd want to date the widow of COVID, Like even
if we got along, I still that's that's a lot
of what's going on there. Yeah, I feel awkward even

(47:20):
going on the first Let's say we had mutual friends,
like you guys would get along. She's ready to get
back out there, Like I think, I'm cool.

Speaker 3 (47:27):
She's been a lot. It's definitely heavy. It's a heavy
it's a heavy thing to kind of take into account,
you know what I mean. But listen, man, life goes on. Man,
we all got to move forward. And if Vanessa Brian
is happy, that's all that matters.

Speaker 6 (47:39):
Well. I hope she. I hope she. I hope this
is I mean, obviously this shit isn't true, but I
do hope that she finds happiness.

Speaker 3 (47:46):
Yeah, it is absolutely she deserves it. She deserves to
be happy. Or know what we're about to say.

Speaker 2 (47:52):
Have you guys had any of these type of situations
in your families or lives where that's happened.

Speaker 7 (47:59):
Uh.

Speaker 6 (48:00):
When my grandfather died, my grandmother uh started dating again.
She was at her older ages, and it was, you know,
we all wanted the best for her. I think our
thing was just kind of like constantly comparing him to
my grandfather. It was just kind of like my grandfather
was like that, and like this ain't that you know,

(48:20):
Like but she but she's you were a little bit.

Speaker 3 (48:23):
That's how they go, That's how they gonna look at Homie.
That's Daved, Vanessa Bryant. You ain't. You ain't Kobe Nigga.

Speaker 2 (48:29):
That's like everyone.

Speaker 3 (48:33):
You can't. It could be that you can't go left.
You can't hear the free throw with a blown Achilles like.
You can't.

Speaker 2 (48:39):
You can't do that, you know, imagine trying to date
the person that dated Mama mentality.

Speaker 3 (48:44):
I don't have it.

Speaker 6 (48:45):
Yeah, yeah, I don't have Mama mentality, have a sneakers
so garden snake mentality.

Speaker 3 (48:50):
Back to your grandmother dating. How old was your grandmother
when she got back out there?

Speaker 7 (48:53):
She was.

Speaker 3 (48:55):
In her seventies late granny, Granny, Granny. I love you, Granny,
but cut the ship. You can't get they could be, yes,
you'd be companionship at the in the seventies.

Speaker 6 (49:07):
You have the highest rates of chlamydia are in the
nursing homes. Wait what the highest rates of chlamydia are
in the nurse Chlamydia runs. Chlamydia runs rampant through nursing home.

Speaker 2 (49:22):
I think it's going way crazier in DC.

Speaker 3 (49:25):
But where and what the nursing homes in DC. Where
and why do you have that information?

Speaker 6 (49:31):
Because I read that nursing homes tend to be very
high at STDs, because I mean, you at that age,
you ain't funing on no condo.

Speaker 2 (49:38):
We fucking like, where where'd you get chlamydia?

Speaker 6 (49:40):
I don't really have nothing to lose, Like they're fucking,
they be fucking and them people don't get checked, Beau.

Speaker 3 (49:47):
Who got who got?

Speaker 1 (49:49):
She just had?

Speaker 3 (49:50):
You got the bigger things to worry about, the chlamydia,
she just had a stroke.

Speaker 2 (49:53):
And the amount of medication that they're taking in penicillin,
Like the fact that the STD could survive in their
body is crazy. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (49:59):
While specific up the minute data or I love when
they say up to the minute, up to the minute data,
committee rates in nursing homes by location is limited, it's
clear that STIs including committee are on the rise among
older adults, including those in nursing homes. The overall trend
indicates that the number of COMMITTEA cases among those age
sixty five and older has more than tripled between twenty

(50:19):
ten and Oh that's because when they get older, they
feel like they don't know how much time they got
left the fuck. Yeah, they just fucking.

Speaker 2 (50:26):
So that doesn't mean that the highest rate of the
clap is in there. It's just tripled sense. But I'm
saying you always have to find the source. Like if
you ever watched the age documentaries where they try to
find out exactly like who fucked who to get the
entire thing, what young bull fucked a granny.

Speaker 3 (50:44):
One of the male nurses in that it doesn't have
to be that's probably many.

Speaker 6 (50:48):
Could have had chlamydia, or Grandpa could have had chlamydia,
because you know, old niggas do not go to the doctor.
Grandpa could have had chlamydia for fucking thirty years and
he was only fucking his wife, so they both just
had it and then she died and now he don't like.

Speaker 3 (50:59):
The common cold.

Speaker 6 (51:04):
If you thinking niggas don't be having fucking STDs for
twenty some years these older people, these older people ain't
going to the doctors to get they dick swabbed bro
especially if they're unsymptomatic or asymptomatic.

Speaker 3 (51:14):
They're not going to do that. They just got that ship.

Speaker 6 (51:17):
HPV syphilis, the philis before they know they even got syphilis.

Speaker 3 (51:22):
Yeah, yeah, I guess at that age, you just happy
your shit still work. Yeah, they don't give fuck. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (51:27):
If my ship work at that age, committee is the
last thing in my mind, and it worked.

Speaker 6 (51:31):
Just because you older don't mean you stop missing companionship
and love.

Speaker 3 (51:34):
Yeah, companionship and love is different. Committee is another thing.
I would Why didn't say, I'm just saying that championship
older people be fucking Okay, So Granny got back out there.

Speaker 6 (51:44):
She Yeah, she had a little boyfriend.

Speaker 3 (51:45):
Okay, she needs somebody around the house. She needed that companionship,
that company. She had a little b I ain't mad
at that. Go ahead, Granny, What what.

Speaker 2 (51:53):
You gonna call him? Grandpa me?

Speaker 3 (51:55):
Yeah, I don't know that nigga my grandfather. To get
all my love for respect that nigga? Who is that nigga?
I don't know that nigga?

Speaker 2 (52:04):
Tell us about the war?

Speaker 3 (52:06):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (52:08):
Yeah, bringing somebody to like to a holiday would be
kind of crazy though.

Speaker 3 (52:12):
Yeah, your grandmother walking with a new boyfriend on the
holiday after your grandfather died. It's like, what we're gonna do.
We can't beat them, we can't jump them.

Speaker 2 (52:21):
And that's that's to be intimidating on the other side too,
because like just dating somebody with a kid is a
thing in itself. You got five kids, ten grandchildren, Like,
I'm just walking into that shit.

Speaker 3 (52:32):
And they always fronting the other dudes, always from like
they just take your grandmother to run errands. No, I
just take it to go get her groceries. And yeah,
you in there fucking my grandmothers. Shut up. You stopped
making it seem like you just picked my grandmother up
like you access a ride or something. Nigga, You take
my grandmother to get her groceries and then go back
and eat her groceries. It's not just bingo on Tuesdays. Yeah,

(52:53):
she got new she got a new house. Dresses, She
walking around in there all.

Speaker 2 (52:57):
Or a sudden, smelling different.

Speaker 3 (52:58):
Yeah, them slippers, I mean to say, same slippers you
had on for the last three years. New slippers. She
getting her head done, now, got them little pin curls
in there all day, grandie. What you doing you in
there fucking She got Hulu.

Speaker 2 (53:13):
The grandmother got a streaming service.

Speaker 3 (53:16):
Now, yeah, Grandy in there humping mister Fred. It's always
a mister Fred too. He wants you to call him
mister nigga. I'm not calling you mister Fred. Nigga.

Speaker 2 (53:27):
My thirties.

Speaker 3 (53:28):
I'm a grown fucking mister Fred. Get the fuck out.
I think that was his name too. It's always a
mister Fred.

Speaker 2 (53:34):
His name was Michael, but you called her Fred. I
would want Granny to get fucked into her grave though,
for sure.

Speaker 3 (53:41):
I mean that's what she wants. I don't want to
see it, though.

Speaker 2 (53:44):
I'm not suggesting to see it.

Speaker 3 (53:45):
Yeah, I don't want to. I don't want to see it.
I don't even want to know about it. But have fun, Granny,
do what you do.

Speaker 2 (53:50):
But like once she passed, like, you're not a part
of this.

Speaker 3 (53:54):
You don't do that.

Speaker 2 (53:55):
You're not front row. You're not in the front peel.

Speaker 4 (53:57):
He has to be.

Speaker 3 (53:58):
That's family. Don't do that.

Speaker 2 (54:01):
You're not entitled.

Speaker 3 (54:02):
If your grandmother has a boyfriend and your grandmother passes away,
he's allowed to come to the funeral.

Speaker 2 (54:06):
But no, no, he can go to the funeral. I
never said that. You're not in the first family pew.

Speaker 3 (54:11):
Why not?

Speaker 2 (54:12):
It's gonna be pew pew. What the fuck are you
talking about in the first pew? Yes, there are certain
cousins that don't even make the first pew.

Speaker 3 (54:19):
That her grandmother's that's her her boyfriend. I was her man.
He knew her intimately. Yeah, he was taking care of
her the days you didn't want to go to Grandy's house.
Mister Fred was the breakfast mister Fred.

Speaker 2 (54:29):
How long were they dating?

Speaker 6 (54:30):
Ten years?

Speaker 3 (54:32):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (54:32):
All right, that's why. No, No, ten years before because.

Speaker 6 (54:36):
I even think five years. I think five years.

Speaker 3 (54:38):
He deserves five years. No, you start years five Christmas,
she's seventy five. She only got five years. She's dead.
She only full last five years. You're pew three.

Speaker 2 (54:53):
And if my grandfather is still alive, he's pew one.

Speaker 3 (54:56):
You're disrespectful.

Speaker 2 (54:57):
He can't see a Paul Barret five years in.

Speaker 3 (54:59):
He can't care.

Speaker 7 (55:00):
Already know, goddamn cascular. He will be to sam funeral
next week? Can't he be a he gonna do that bullshit?
Now that she died, I'm dying, you just oh, I
had to go with it.

Speaker 3 (55:13):
I had to go ahead. Yeah, I had to go
with her. I had to go with my had Okay, but.

Speaker 2 (55:18):
You know that's part of the back of the Paul Bear.
You don't really have to carry anything. You could just
be there for show. I've been to Paul Bear enough times.

Speaker 3 (55:25):
I know what you know he walks behind the casket.
He walked around five years fucking up here.

Speaker 2 (55:32):
You with the amount of cousins uncles, I'm gon keep.

Speaker 6 (55:37):
It roal cho, I'm gonnakeep it roch too. Your grandmother
didn't Your grandmother died, did bless her? So I guarantee you, Shane,
fuck with seventy five percent of your cousins.

Speaker 2 (55:45):
And you know that true.

Speaker 6 (55:47):
I guarantee you she love her.

Speaker 2 (55:49):
My grandmother and my grandfather pulled me aside when I
was like twenty, when I was at Saint Peter's. No,
it was right before I got kicked out in nineteen,
and said, it's really just up to you. I swear
to God. Both my grandparents are dead, and thank god,
they paus died like Paul's died together. I don't know where.

(56:10):
There was a pause there, and there was not a
mister Fred anywhere around, but they really pulled me aside
and said, it's really up to you.

Speaker 3 (56:18):
Your grandparents died together.

Speaker 2 (56:19):
No, like a week or two. So my grandfather died
during COVID. He fell down the steps and then COVID happened.
He wasn't able to see anybody, so like his health
deteriorated right away and he passed. And then my only
Republican uncle was like, they're just folding him into the
COVID numbers. I was like, Uncle Paul, now is like

(56:40):
of all the times that you want to talk about
your Republican bullshit, Like, can we just not do this
right now? So my grandmother had Alzheimer's and my grandfather
refused to ever go to a home. That's why he
fell down the steps. Prideful Irish guy. Grandma had Alzheimer's,
was taking care of her. She went from uncle aunt
house to house and it got too crazy, so she

(57:01):
went to a home and the doctor said the only
reason she stayed alive was because of her Alzheimer's, because
every day she forgot that he died. And then we
were talking to the doctor when she passed and he
was like, it takes a while with patients from Alzheimer's
for their body to set in that the person was gone.
I was like, oh wow, that was like deeply fucking romantic, doc, Wow,

(57:23):
But yeah, Alzheimer's can keep because they were together since
they were nineteen. My grandfather died when he was ninety three.
My grandmother died when she was ninety one ninety two crazy,
and he was like, yeah, Alzheimer's makes them forget that shit.
And it took her body more time to figure that
shit out. And then I was like, yeah, my grandfather
was wearing that out. If it took her body some time,
we never needed.

Speaker 3 (57:43):
Mister Fred knocked the memory out of it. All right, Okay,
I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (57:51):
But with that said, if my grandmother dated somebody else
five years, no, even if she didn't fuck with my
cousins that don't even come around and check on anybody.
They're a Paul Bearer before mister Fred for sure.

Speaker 3 (58:01):
Yeah, you don't get to be a poor bro. You
could walk behind the casket, the right behind the casket.

Speaker 6 (58:06):
Three.

Speaker 3 (58:07):
That was my girlfriend. That was my lady. He loved her.

Speaker 2 (58:10):
Yeah, we don't even know, like did you claim her
like that? Like I don't even know what you else?

Speaker 3 (58:14):
Stay than how you how.

Speaker 6 (58:16):
You claim people when you old? Like how you like
y'all go to church together?

Speaker 3 (58:20):
No, you do what Cardi and steff on there you
post each other on it.

Speaker 2 (58:27):
There's a lot of women that are show up to
a funeral plane they was a girlfriend.

Speaker 3 (58:29):
Too, and they wasn't well, not even p. Three, that
that happens. That that happened, and they've been dating for
fifteen years. Yeah, that happened. So you find out somebody
got to kids. You ain't even know you living fifteen years,
but you got kids. You was with her for fifteen years.
You know you got kids. I see some crazy shit
at funerals, Man, funerals, It's gonna come out. I'm dead

(58:51):
and gone. Fuck it, y'all do what y'all want. I
I have anxiety from the grave.

Speaker 6 (58:56):
Please Lord, please, please, don't let nobody sit next to
each other. Don't let nobody talk. You know, niggas be
at the repass talking about good times. Time start overlapping,
time start seven years, seven years.

Speaker 3 (59:12):
It's always seven.

Speaker 2 (59:13):
It's always five or seven, depending on what it is,
it's five or seven, five or seven.

Speaker 3 (59:18):
Always it's always seven, seven years ago? Seven which years ago?

Speaker 2 (59:22):
Which side of y'all family are you more worried about
with funerals as far as what shit being exposed or
how it's going to go.

Speaker 3 (59:31):
My mom's side, my DAD'SI my mom's side of the
family is certified crazy, certified. Some shit gonna happen at
a funeral in my mom's side.

Speaker 2 (59:42):
My dad's side is going to be louder and more obnoxious,
maybe more physical, but everything is going to be fine.
My mother's side scares me more because it'll be like yo,
you know you touch kids right like, it'll be the
very subtle, weird shit that they'll hold. I'm more terrified
at my mother's side when it comes to funerals, More
more insane shit is gonna come out on her side.

(01:00:05):
My dad's side is gonna be loud, angry, drunk people,
and every gonna be fine. After you're gonna hear some
dark ship like nobody brought this up when he was alive.

Speaker 3 (01:00:14):
I don't know why you ain't here crying about Uncle Teddy.
You know what he used to do. You know what?

Speaker 2 (01:00:20):
That's my mom's side.

Speaker 3 (01:00:21):
Yeah, no, I could see that.

Speaker 2 (01:00:23):
I thought we're here to honor him, not bring out
his deepest dark you know he's been at every Thanksgiving.

Speaker 3 (01:00:27):
What the fuck?

Speaker 2 (01:00:29):
So either way, stay away from mister Fred.

Speaker 3 (01:00:33):
Nah. Shout out to mister Fred's around the world. Shout
out to m taking care of grandmother's in their ladys
after this spouse passed away. You've got mail, all right?

Speaker 2 (01:00:49):
Yeah, that got dark. Let's let's get to voicemails. Let's
do it and of course sponsored by Row Row Sparks
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Speaker 3 (01:01:09):
Okay, five, Hey.

Speaker 4 (01:01:14):
What's going on? And Marris I enjoyed the show. I'm
gonna keep this anonymous. Two part question one, what is
the dumbest argument you've had at a relationship? And while
I express my dumbest part of argument relationship, let me
know if I'm in the right or wrong. So my
job got rid of the teleorworks. I go in five

(01:01:36):
years a week now and it just makes sense to
join the gym at my job, and ever since I've joined,
I go to the gym at least four times a
week now. My wife hit me up the other day
and was just like, you know, I think you need
to either slow down or just stop so you can
allow me sometimes just to catch up. But my problem
is she has been motivated to work out. Granted I

(01:02:00):
have to stop working out myself, but you know, it
was just like, you know, I don't know if there's
any type of insecurities for why she would want me
to stop or slow down, and yet she's not doing
anything herself. I understand that women. I would love Demerius's
perspective on this as well, but I understand, you know,
women can have some insecurities. I still find my wife's attractive, beautiful,

(01:02:23):
all that, but you know, we definitely bump hands with
it because I haven't stopped, but yet she hasn't started,
and I just want to know who was in the
right or wrong and I have. You know, we do
go walking together as a couple. That's good, you know,
a couple of times a week when I come home
from work, but that's where it stops. So am I
right wrong?

Speaker 3 (01:02:41):
Let me know ya?

Speaker 2 (01:02:43):
Women are the fucking worst.

Speaker 6 (01:02:44):
Yeah, you're You're not wrong at all, I know, they say,
now I am. Demeris says women are always right, which
is not true. But you're not wrong at all. You're
doing was best for you and what's best for your body.
If she's feeling insecure because you getting finer, and she
doesn't like the way that she looked, and that's her
problem is she needs to work on that. You can
as long as you're being encouraging to her and loving
her like you said that you are, which you probably

(01:03:05):
don't even care. If she lose weight that's her thing,
then you're doing everything right that you can. You should
not stop working out because she hasn't gotten her ass
up to do it. Now, if you want to go
be super super boyfriend, you can come up with some
creative way to motivate her. But that's not your job
and that's not on your plate. Nobody is gonna make
her lose weight for her, so she needs to get
in the gym and do what the fuck she has

(01:03:26):
to do or a risk getting her nigga snatched by
it's one of them fine bitches at the gym.

Speaker 3 (01:03:29):
I don't know. I'm just saying, if you making it.

Speaker 6 (01:03:33):
Sorry, but if you were that worried about him and
him looking fine, that's motivation. My motivation is, oh my god,
my nigga look mad good. Somebody might snatch him from me.
Now I'm getting my ass up and hitting that treadmill.

Speaker 3 (01:03:44):
But that's just me.

Speaker 6 (01:03:44):
She ain't.

Speaker 3 (01:03:45):
She don't want it badly enough, and.

Speaker 2 (01:03:47):
I feel like if roles were reversed, she would bring
that up in an argument that she'd be at the
gym looking great, and you just don't be doing shit.
Women suck, I mean, I mean also, you know, maybe
he just need to find a way to come to start.
Maybe instead of going to the gym, start right then
in the house or yeah, at the time that they
do their walks, maybe do something a bit more.

Speaker 3 (01:04:08):
Than bring the bring the work out to the crib,
do something, you know. I mean, but again, when you're
married and this is your partner, sure you know what
I'm saying. Sometimes you recognize your partner's a little bit
of a rut, maybe a little bit of a depression.
It's your job to kind of like, you know, ease
them out of that, help them out of that, find
their way again, find their get their foot up, their
footing underneath them again. Maybe she don't want to go

(01:04:31):
to the gym. Maybe that's a stretch, So bring the
gym to her, work out in the house, do some
things around the house then that to go into you know,
let's go for a walk or they doing walk, let's
go for a run now. Maybe get the Apple watches
and kind of like challenge each other weekly, you know,
things like that kind of you know, just just just
to let her know, like you're listen, like you know,
you're my wife, I love you, you look great. I'm

(01:04:53):
still attracting to you. But like, let's challenge ourselves to like,
you know, transition and transform into you know, get a
getting into the best shape that we've probably ever been
in our lives. Like I think that's you know, there's
ways to do it. Maybe it's getting her to actually
go to the gym is too much of a jump
right now, So reeling in a little bit, start working
on their own.

Speaker 2 (01:05:13):
Yeah, there's a bunch of apps and sit on YouTube,
like just pull that shit up on the TV and
start there, Like, just got back from work, Let's take
fifteen twenty minutes of most and do this.

Speaker 3 (01:05:22):
Because the gym can be intimidating to some people, Like
they go, yeah, for sure, and you know it's just
like everybody else is in shape and people, you know,
are lifting heavier weights and doing more reps and not
breathing as heavy as you are and things like that.
So yeah, so you know, you start starting starting the
house where nobody can see you, Nobody can see you struggling,
nobody can see how you look right now, nobody, And

(01:05:42):
then you know, you open it up to getting into
the gym and changing it and then do maybe do
some fun workouts with her, like maybe go to like,
you know, a cool you know, hot yoga class, go
to some you know cycling classes. You know they try
to make the work got experience fund, go to some
cool pilates whatever, something like that. Just make it something

(01:06:04):
that you know, you think your women would be interested
in as well, and not just feel like she's going
to the gym to work out because she's out of shape.
Make it feel like a fun activity, but it's also
you know, stringing with some of the body.

Speaker 6 (01:06:15):
If you have the extra funds, if you have it,
I know most people just don't. But if you have
the extra funds, get her a personal trainer as a gift.

Speaker 3 (01:06:23):
See hold on, time out what a woman personal trainer?

Speaker 6 (01:06:30):
Mall, come on, bro, it doesn't matter a good.

Speaker 3 (01:06:32):
It does matter? Does it matter because these personal trainers
are nasty?

Speaker 2 (01:06:36):
I'm not against you there. Yes, there are a lot
of weird, pervy personal trainers. Yeah, never woman, nobody, but
personal trainer is a fucking perverse I'm not saying every
I'm saying there's.

Speaker 3 (01:06:49):
There's definitely I don't even want to say.

Speaker 2 (01:06:51):
There's there's the photographers and the the personal trainers. Yes,
there's there's a lot of pervs in that business.

Speaker 3 (01:06:57):
Get a female trainer. Women know women, they know each
other's bodies, they know what they're feeling, they.

Speaker 6 (01:07:01):
Know, yes, but women don't. From my experience, I've had both.
The man was better for me because he was stricter.
He was a stricter and probably because of my relationship
with my father, I probably respected his dynamic a little
bit more when he would tell me to do stuff
like a girl ain't aboud to yell at me.

Speaker 3 (01:07:20):
I just can't.

Speaker 6 (01:07:21):
You ain't about to yell at me. Fuck you talking
to But like when men yell at me, it's like,
all right, I hear you.

Speaker 3 (01:07:27):
I'll do it. Whatever you're saying. That's dark.

Speaker 2 (01:07:29):
That's for mister Fred.

Speaker 3 (01:07:32):
That's dark. I just wasn't.

Speaker 6 (01:07:33):
I was taught to respect male authority.

Speaker 3 (01:07:36):
Were you.

Speaker 2 (01:07:36):
I was not your But like I'm paying you, actually
I'm actually putting money in you're paying the trainer.

Speaker 8 (01:07:47):
The it is what it is.

Speaker 6 (01:07:50):
No, I'm just I feel like women will sometimes having
a male and also with some women that I've seen.

Speaker 3 (01:07:56):
I had a friend that had a personal trainer.

Speaker 6 (01:07:58):
It can be you were looking at her body and
wondering why her body isn't doing why your body isn't
doing what her body is doing, And it can be
a distraction. You can feel, you know, you're sitting next
to some fine ass one.

Speaker 3 (01:08:08):
But that's insecurity. It ain't no training gonna help that.

Speaker 6 (01:08:10):
But she's insecure here.

Speaker 3 (01:08:11):
So that's why you get a woman training. Girl, I
want my body likeye, So then put the fucking potato
salad down. Damn I love potato. See that's what I'm saying.
But that's why your striations ain't showing. Put the potatoes
the muscles right here, like the striations is. You know
when it's cut, when it's definition. I'm saying, get your striations.

Speaker 2 (01:08:32):
Right, Okay, you just give her packs when anyone like
that could have a nice little.

Speaker 6 (01:08:36):
Get her a good personal trainer. If she's more comfortable
with a woman, that's fine. Get her a good personal
trainer if you have the extra funds for it. I
think that that's a good. Like you know, because sometimes
when your partner is motivating you like, it's tougher because
you don't feel like you like if I'm supposed to
meet my partner at the gym. I don't feel bad
about canceling on them because it's my partner.

Speaker 3 (01:08:55):
We live together.

Speaker 6 (01:08:55):
It's like I don't want to go out.

Speaker 3 (01:08:56):
I want to go.

Speaker 6 (01:08:57):
If my partner is paying somebody to be at the
gym and they're waiting for me to be there at
eight am, it's more motivation of like, fuck, I don't
want to go. I don't want to go, but I
have to go, and.

Speaker 2 (01:09:06):
I find that we'll not the opposite, per say, but
if I'm working out with a partner that keeps me
more honest with everything, like I can cancel myself. I
just be like I'm tired, But if my partner's like
we're going at this time, I would feel obligatord to
do it.

Speaker 3 (01:09:18):
Well yeah, no, for sure.

Speaker 6 (01:09:19):
But I'm just talking about in comparison to the personal trainer,
Like a person like I can, I can guilt my
part like I can be like babybe were really sleepy,
have sex with him and go to sleep and neither
one of us will feel any guilt. If he's paying
a personal trainer is like I have to go make
any weapons.

Speaker 2 (01:09:34):
No, that's and that's what he You don't want to
sleep with them because you want to tonight, we got
to go to the gym. That's a form of manipulation
and it's.

Speaker 3 (01:09:41):
A great minute. They will work on me.

Speaker 6 (01:09:43):
Yeah, but that's not I will come in this bitch
looking like Tyra Banks exactly.

Speaker 3 (01:09:47):
You want me to knock that. Let's get let's knock
this work out out and come back in the house
and knock headboard.

Speaker 4 (01:09:53):
You know what?

Speaker 2 (01:09:54):
Okay, Well, what happens when you have sex with him
and he still goes to the gym? And I just
saw a viral video of a girl with her whole
ass shee at the gym. If I'm worried about you,
shet not with tights on like she had her ass out.
It was damn near a throng and doing that. People
trying to go viral on the internet, which I think
in mind you she looked good, but that like, what

(01:10:14):
the fuck you doing? Nobody wants to see us in
the gym, I.

Speaker 3 (01:10:17):
Mean people want to see it. No I don't. I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:10:24):
Same same with the Lizzo combo with the Lakers game.
Keep your ass cheeks out of pubble at the Lakers
game at the gym too. I don't care what your
cheeks look good at the gym, like put something on.

Speaker 3 (01:10:36):
Yeah, but if she's a physic the ass yeah. What
if she's a physic model and she has to see
make sure everything is looking she's about to go.

Speaker 2 (01:10:42):
No, she was on Live like doing squats with her
whole ass out. This is your planet fitness, the funk
you doing.

Speaker 3 (01:10:50):
Let me know what's planet fit off? Which one?

Speaker 2 (01:10:55):
I will tell you that gym off, Mike. But let's
get out of here in the meantime so you can
make the gym.

Speaker 3 (01:11:00):
Let's do that, all right. We'll be back in a
couple of days to talk to y'all. Until then, as always,
be safe, be blessed. I'm that nigga, he's just ginger peace,
no Wien.

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