Best Of Nightcap - Shannon Sharpe's WILDEST & FUNNIEST dating stories - Nightcap

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a woman through social media? Have the work should I
just focus on myself and let.

Speaker 3 (02:17):
Oh whoa, whoa, whoa.

Speaker 1 (02:18):
How are you struggling? Finding a woman on social media?

Speaker 5 (02:21):
What I want to wane.

Speaker 1 (02:22):
You can go outside. You can find them there. You
can find them on social media. You can find women
at church, you can find women at the library. You
can find women at the gas station. There's so many
places you can find library.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
I ain't going.

Speaker 5 (02:35):
Huh, you ain't going to library?

Speaker 1 (02:37):
No, no, okay, what I'm talking about, buddy, buddy, buddy.
Women's everywhere. But when you got this, it's so easy
to find. But it's all about staying within your lane.
Stay within your salary cap, stay within your financial lane,
and you'll be fine. All these women on social media,
those are what I like to call salary cap casualties.

Speaker 5 (02:56):
You don't want the problems.

Speaker 1 (02:58):
You want to stay within and under the cap, sometimes
below the cap. Right now, the Bengals are eighty four
million dollars below the cap. Sometimes you gotta go that
route to have an efficient team. Oh you know you,
Joe Burrow.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
Get you what huh? Get you one that just got released, yep,
right there.

Speaker 1 (03:15):
Catch Get you one that's vulnerable. Get you one that
that's vulnerable dude just left crying. And listen, you ain't
got to go for No.

Speaker 6 (03:23):
Ten.

Speaker 5 (03:23):
You don't need a ten. You don't need a ten.
You know what you need.

Speaker 1 (03:26):
You need a six that when she get dressed up,
she's a seven and a half for eight.

Speaker 5 (03:32):
That's all you need. That's all you need.

Speaker 1 (03:34):
Get your six when she just you know, chilling, But
when she put her clothes on, she about a seven
eight and a half.

Speaker 5 (03:41):
Boom.

Speaker 1 (03:41):
You set, you set. You ain't got to worry about
everybody trying to holler. Everybody's trying to holler at No.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
Six.

Speaker 5 (03:48):
You're comfortable.

Speaker 3 (03:49):
You got some lot skin it all the pins. It
all depends on yo.

Speaker 2 (03:53):
I can go get a I guarantee you I can
go get a woman right now, five hundred pounds. And
the matter of fact, shunting shark with if somebody else
gonna want me, they ain't nobody thinking about it.

Speaker 3 (04:01):
That's how to operate.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
You think about you think about this and I and
I tell the story all the time. My first college girlfriend. Yes,
I watched the walk across the yard. I talked my
college roommate at the time. I said, that's gonna be
my girlfriend. I'm just gonna see how I play out.
She walked across from the from the hall all the
way back to locket. She walked out, was a stept
Ain't nobody said a word right, I saw I was.

Speaker 3 (04:24):
I was standing.

Speaker 2 (04:25):
I was standing standing in the hall and bathroom, and
I saw I ran out there. Say what's your name?

Speaker 3 (04:30):
She says? Such and such. I ain't gonna call her name, but.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
Anybody that, anybody that witnessa batto state didn't know exactly
what I'm talking about.

Speaker 5 (04:38):
Tasha, Okay, go ahead.

Speaker 2 (04:40):
I said, what's your name? She said, Uh, my name
is such and such, but everybody call me this. I said, okay,
what you want me to call you? She said, you
can call me my nickname? I said, okay. I said,
you dating anybody? She said no.

Speaker 3 (04:52):
She said, I'm just you know, here to you know,
get my, get my you know, don't want to go to school.
I want to graduate. You know.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
We started talking. She said, I got a son. I said, oh,
they ain't got no problem.

Speaker 3 (05:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (05:02):
I say, you know, hey, if I f with you,
I got a son too. You know, I'm like that. Yeah,
I'm about it.

Speaker 5 (05:07):
Ain't you in the door. You ain't that one?

Speaker 3 (05:10):
Oh? She ain't.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
So I'm saying, hey, ain't nobody I ain't nobody saying nothing.
I walked by in the hall. Ain't nobody said a
word to her. So the next day, Yeah, I see
in the hall. I see in the hall. So you know,
we start talking. I walk of the class. Oh wait,
did you carry your books? I ain't carry a book.
Oh Joe, I'll walk of the class. I see I

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see a walking to the cafeteria. Guys hanging on the
like a like the lines on.

Speaker 3 (05:41):
The wheeler Beast.

Speaker 5 (05:42):
God damn.

Speaker 2 (05:43):
Ain't nobody thought about it until they shot.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
With the Yeah, I said, yeah, even some of my teammates.

Speaker 1 (05:55):
What the're gonna try to double trying to back dunbody.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
Wanted with oh hand, Oh Joe, you have what you
have to understand. I'm big dog. Yeah, I'm the eight
out on the campus. Yeah I got it. I got
a three hundred Z. I got a brother in the NFL.
I'm wearing polo, I'm wearing eyes oded, i wear jeans.

Speaker 5 (06:18):
Yeah you're that boy.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
Yeah. So everybody trying to beat my time, but you
know I was. I was used saying boat, I laid
a blistering time down. They couldn't touch, yes, sir, and
then you know, I said, come on, man, So this
is what I found out. The moment they found out,
they didn't want. Ain't nobody talk to her? I watched them.

Speaker 3 (06:40):
Yeah, I hustler from the day I saw I started
I hustling. I said, God dang man.

Speaker 1 (06:47):
But maybe everybody was scared to say something. But when
they saw so, all of a sudden, now you not.
Now they got courage. Now they got confidence. Right, No,
but that's okay. I said, okay, Hey, so you know
what I did o Joe? I said, hey, want you
come to the game? Did you give did you give
you your jersey?

Speaker 3 (07:06):
Though?

Speaker 2 (07:07):
Now he we have no, we'll have no no, no.
I said, come to the game. Hey, I put on
a show.

Speaker 5 (07:17):
Yeah, I.

Speaker 3 (07:19):
Put on the show.

Speaker 6 (07:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (07:21):
So so homecoming rolled around? Yeah, I said, my mom
coming my sister. Uh, because by that time we had
started dating. So I had it.

Speaker 5 (07:31):
But she got to meet mama.

Speaker 3 (07:33):
She got to meet my mom.

Speaker 2 (07:34):
Now, my mom at this point in time, my mom
had never seen me play, right, So I go tell coach.

Speaker 3 (07:41):
I said, hey, coach, my mom comeing in town. Blah
blah blah. Now I had.

Speaker 2 (07:44):
None jove in the middle of the night to let
my sister see. Let let my sister meet it. You know,
my sister and I, you know, my sister's good judge.
So I'm gonna let whatever bucks say. That's that's that's
kind of my measure of stick because she got a
good feel.

Speaker 3 (07:59):
So he sit them there, so everybody.

Speaker 2 (08:02):
So when my mom came, you know, he's sitting next
to my mom and my sister.

Speaker 3 (08:08):
I showed up a let's go boy, I said, come
on with it. I said, come on with it. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (08:14):
But and the thing was, oh Joe, now proud of
that nobody. I ain't let nobody drive my car. But
I ain't never let nobody drive my car. So we
had you let it get in the whip. Oh Joe,
So check this out, she said, She said, uh so

(08:35):
check this out. Uh So we had practice. So she
got I said, uh, can you do me a favor?

Speaker 3 (08:44):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (08:44):
Uh, I said, uh, I got some laundry and I
need it. I need it washed, I need it. Can
you do it?

Speaker 3 (08:50):
He said? Yeah? But she went to the laundry math
for you took everything. Oh oh one.

Speaker 2 (08:57):
Oh Joe, check this out, O Joe, you know how
you go to the laundry and when you come back,
all that stuff all folded in.

Speaker 1 (09:04):
Yeah, she had everything folded like colors, like whites, whites,
lights and darks.

Speaker 2 (09:09):
If I didn't know better, I thought she worked in retail. Man,
she had everything folded.

Speaker 1 (09:13):
Hey, that's the one boy, That is the one boy.

Speaker 5 (09:19):
You got to go back and get that.

Speaker 3 (09:22):
Man, I'm fifty five. That's the one boy.

Speaker 1 (09:26):
She had your clothes folded whites, lights and darks in college.
In college, you know what I mean. But she has structure,
and that's what you've been missing.

Speaker 2 (09:41):
That means O'Shane gave a mean when the first time.
That's what it means. Oh Shae gave a mean one.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
Yeah, okay, okay, hey listen, I see where you're going.
I see where you're going. But I ain't trying. I
ain't trying to get in no trouble. I'm more than
a dog house.

Speaker 3 (09:53):
But I know what you're talking. I know.

Speaker 5 (09:56):
Hey, you put that blue diamond.

Speaker 3 (09:59):
Now.

Speaker 2 (09:59):
There were no diamon back then. But when I'm back then,
but I was like a truck on red bull.

Speaker 3 (10:03):
Oh night m hm, hey say with him? Say hell
with you?

Speaker 6 (10:18):
Well?

Speaker 3 (10:18):
Now, man, who bad? Please?

Speaker 2 (10:22):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (10:23):
Ship. Ain't like that.

Speaker 1 (10:25):
I like that, Bud. Then with a day, boy, that's
a good story. You gotta go find her man o.

Speaker 3 (10:32):
Joe, I ain't like oo.

Speaker 2 (10:35):
To be able to be between the ages of nineteen
and twenty nineteen and twenty one.

Speaker 3 (10:42):
I get two million dollar cash money right now. Mm hmm.
If I could get, if I could, if I could
just be age nineteen or twenty, the nineteen or twenty
one with what you know?

Speaker 7 (10:53):
Now with what I have to go back, boy, but
you know what a baby, because I'm gonna have to
have a president because I ain't got time to putting
no legs back together.

Speaker 3 (11:05):
But I have to have Oh.

Speaker 2 (11:07):
John, oh Joe, No, what I don't done twenty one?

Speaker 3 (11:13):
Yeah? Hey doc, Oh my god, babe, Oh Joe boy
back in the day.

Speaker 5 (11:23):
Listen, I know, I know what you mean.

Speaker 3 (11:26):
I haven't spent the night at the girl's house in
probably thirty years. What I had a bad situation.

Speaker 5 (11:33):
Oh he pulled up on you. He pulled up on you.
Oh you put can you pull that scrap out?

Speaker 3 (11:39):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (11:39):
No, I had two situations. Check this out. I had
just I had just got drafted. This was in This
was in May of nineteen ninety and I called a
young lady that I used to mess I used to
talk to, but I didn't mess with anymore. So I
was coming back from Denver because I was still in school.
But I didn't want to drive home in the middle

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of the night and wake my grandma up because she
was gonna like fake something wrong. So I was like,
I called. I said, hey, you see anybody. She's like, no,
I ain't see nobody. I said, I don't want to
wake my grandmother up. I could have just went. I
could have went and got a hotel room for fifty dollars.

Speaker 3 (12:14):
That's what that on.

Speaker 5 (12:15):
Being fast? You're being hot?

Speaker 2 (12:17):
No, check this out? Oh yo, check this out? She said, no,
you can come on over. So I go over. Something
tells me, oh Joe, I got on shorts and a
T shirt. I got a T shirt and shorts on.
Something tells me, M keep the stuff on. I ain't
that night. Ain't nothing pop on?

Speaker 3 (12:36):
Oh Joe.

Speaker 2 (12:36):
You ever been a sleep You feel like you can't move,
but you could hear everything.

Speaker 3 (12:41):
Right, I felt.

Speaker 2 (12:43):
I felt like I was dreaming, but I could hear
people arguing, and I'm like, but I can't move.

Speaker 5 (12:49):
Oo Like right move talking about.

Speaker 2 (12:54):
After a while, boom the door flows, the hinges. So
you got to understand, Oyo, your boy, your boy about
to be twenty two. So I'm saying, hey, you know
what I'm saying, O Joe. So your boy, So I'm ready,
I'm proud. Okay, I'm mad. Contact huh oh, bro, it

(13:18):
wouldn't have been good, O Joe.

Speaker 5 (13:20):
What happened?

Speaker 2 (13:22):
He had a couple of bodies on the resume, so
he recognized who I was. I recognized who he was.
So he's like shop. I said, yeah, man, he said, man,
I love man. Hey, congratulations going to the Broncos live, Hey,
he said, man, you Savannah State boy. I used to
tell my home I usually tell the homies. I said,

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that boy sharp he going to the NFL. I put
my shoes on, haveing socks on everything. Check this out,
O Joe, I said, God, if you get me out
of this situation, I wouldn't get back in another one.

Speaker 3 (13:56):
Yeah. Three years later, I go back to Savannah State homecoming.
I called it. I said, what's going on? I said,
you know, you're the same girl, A different one, different one.

Speaker 2 (14:05):
No, no, different one. She said, check this out with Joe.
I said, you know your boy, and she said come on,
come on. I said, okay, I ride with my homeboy.

Speaker 3 (14:13):
Bucket.

Speaker 2 (14:14):
I said, bucket, turn around because we had just left campus.
I said, turn this thing around, bucket. He turned around.
We pull up, so I said, homeboy, you know watch
Houmban said, hey, no home going back to homeboy all right?

Speaker 3 (14:28):
So he gets Jet magazine, so you know, I got
to ROLLI on.

Speaker 2 (14:32):
I got Jane eighty four, so you know, you know,
she's like, I feel the good. I feel the good
Old Joe, I feel a good. So by two, okay,
I got my I got my shirt. I took my
shirt off. I see the door handle turning. I'm like,

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what what the hell? My homeboy thinking, dude came in
that thing with the ak and with the a K. Now,
mind you, she done undressed. I just got my shorts on,
so I done. Just came up with my T shirt
and took my jewel, raph my ROLEI my chain. So

(15:14):
he looked at me. I look at him. I said,
this is your people.

Speaker 3 (15:19):
My man.

Speaker 2 (15:20):
He's like, yeah, I said, okay, my bad. Guess what
he asked me. He said, my man, you shocked? I
said yeah, he said, I thought so so I look
out in the hallway. Yeah, homeboy got the shot sawd
off my homeboy sitting on the couch, because I know
my homeboy would alerted me, but he got the sawt

(15:41):
off on him.

Speaker 5 (15:43):
Yes, say okay, okay.

Speaker 2 (15:45):
So I get my stuff and say, my bad bro,
I said, I ain't. No, I say, you know me,
I don't know who you are, my bad I thought,
I'm wrong. So I get my necklace. I'm sure, I'm sure.

Speaker 3 (16:00):
Sure. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (16:01):
So I leave and I'm thinking, like, oh ship, I said, homeboy,
I left my roller in there. He said, man if
I said, man, you better turn this more for a rod.
I'm going to get my joint.

Speaker 3 (16:13):
You got it, did I? Boy?

Speaker 2 (16:16):
That was fifty bands? Why did I?

Speaker 3 (16:21):
Hey? I said, my man, my roller on the dresser.
He said, hey, you go go man, I got it.

Speaker 5 (16:28):
I said no again. So that's why it's been thirty years. Huh.

Speaker 3 (16:31):
I can't, I can't.

Speaker 5 (16:33):
I can't slap enough.

Speaker 3 (16:36):
For the longest time.

Speaker 2 (16:37):
Yeah, I would not go to a female's house with
that thing on the table right right right right right. No,
I say, you know what, just let me just look.
I feel comfortable in my own home or were gonna
meet in a neutral place. I said, but I can't.
I said, I can't risk it anymore. I say, because
somebody's gonna because they're gonna recognize who I am, and
they gonna think, because who I am, I think I

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can run rough shot over them. I say, it ain't
even worth it, old shoe, I say, But I say,
you got me out of that one. Yeah, and closing
my eyes of another and closed my eyes of another
female's house that was there.

Speaker 3 (17:11):
The dude walked in on us in ninety three. That's it.
So thirty years and.

Speaker 1 (17:16):
Listen, I'm never don't. I don't have a story of
that magnitude of story that great. I never had that problem.
I rarely really ever go to people's house, especially spending
the night, because I gotta be it. But I got
I got to be able to play.

Speaker 5 (17:28):
With my video game.

Speaker 1 (17:28):
So I'm not staying at your house. But God, but
that was a good story, boy. And the funny the
funny thing about that story is that happened to a
lot of dudes. But the outcome isn't as gracious as
your faith.

Speaker 3 (17:43):
Was.

Speaker 2 (17:44):
I believe had he not known who I was, now,
I do I ate another story I was at I
have an sl in ninety two and I was in Savannah.
So you know, used to have an old pay phone, right,
and you know back then they ain't have no GPS.

Speaker 3 (18:00):
You could punch it in and pull it up.

Speaker 2 (18:02):
So so she told me her address and I drove.

Speaker 3 (18:06):
I said, damn, so I'm not even thinking.

Speaker 2 (18:08):
I mean, I'm on thirty seventh in bull If you're
from Savannah, you know exactly what I'm talking about. And
I pulled in the parking lot. Pashaw had a car wash.
So I pull up there and the dude run up
on me. He said, you know what it is? I said,
my man, everything I got in Hey, so my wallet's
in the car. Everything I got is in the car,
he said, sharp. I said, yeah, I'm a man, hey,

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he said. He said, Bro, you in the league. You
better get a cell phone. Get out of here, right.
You ain't got to tell me no more. Hey, But
I still made that calling with the shot.

Speaker 3 (18:42):
I did do that.

Speaker 1 (18:44):
Hey, Hey, bro, I got to friend of your call. Bro,
you you ain't pass that up. Don't don't do no
man shot down. Man, Listen what I got? I got
some good stories, man, but nothing nothing, nothing.

Speaker 3 (18:58):
Like that I told you.

Speaker 5 (19:02):
Were you were you tripping?

Speaker 3 (19:04):
Oho?

Speaker 2 (19:06):
You just be All they do is to tell me
they have somebody, and I'll have never stepped forward.

Speaker 3 (19:11):
Man, You know, I was just women.

Speaker 1 (19:12):
I don't I don't think women never tell the truth
and listen. And you just got to the league too.
You think they finish ruined the opportunity in that chest?

Speaker 3 (19:19):
Yeah, she.

Speaker 2 (19:21):
Ruin please ruin it. I think I think your later
ruin my chances. I thank your later. But but I
wanted my story, and from time to time I'm gonna
share a few stories with you. And I got a
bunch of them over my fifty five years.

Speaker 1 (19:35):
I got I got some good ones. I just just
not not like that though.

Speaker 2 (19:43):
All right, oh Joe, that was in there. It was
in the early nineties. I met this chick.

Speaker 5 (19:51):
Okay, wait a minute, what's her name? Man, give us
a full story.

Speaker 2 (19:56):
At Black College Beach with She was fine, she probably
probably one.

Speaker 3 (20:06):
She was petite, but she had big natural booths, nice hair.

Speaker 5 (20:11):
Yeah, you know.

Speaker 3 (20:13):
So it was a bunch of us and we were
playing this game called questions.

Speaker 2 (20:18):
You asked somebody a question and they got to answer
with a question or they have to take a drink.
So if I ask you your name, you can't say,
oh Joe, you gotta ask where you're from or what
do you have a car?

Speaker 3 (20:32):
How old are you?

Speaker 2 (20:33):
So every time somebody asked you a question, you can't
answer it. You have to respond with a question. So
we playing the game. But I noticed, you know, if
some other heavyweights in the room. So she keep asking
me questions. Now we met them at the gas stage.
They was getting gassed me and me and my other
partners that we would you know, and so you know,

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I jump out the car. We got some other heavyweights
of other NFL players come you're part Yeah, okay, but
now you know you saw how you boy, I posted
a picture back when it back to thirty five years ago?

Speaker 3 (21:08):
You talking about it now? Yeah, you're wrong, yo, Joe.

Speaker 2 (21:12):
Now remember now I told you I was hell when
I was well. But anyway, you know what I'm saying.
So mind you this April, so I've been working out.
So you know your boy Tever sick.

Speaker 5 (21:22):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah right, I was right like.

Speaker 3 (21:25):
A Trump tax turn.

Speaker 2 (21:26):
You know what I'm talking about, Joe yeahed you broke
me traded, So you know we talked, uh you know
we exchanged information because this was like a Saturday, I'm
leaving to go back.

Speaker 3 (21:39):
Excuse me, I'm leaving to go back to Savannah Sunday.

Speaker 2 (21:43):
We exchanged information, were talking, you know, hey, you got somebody, No,
I done broke up.

Speaker 3 (21:48):
Blah blah blah.

Speaker 2 (21:49):
I ain't got nobody, right, I said, okay, cool, I said, man.
So my brother said, hey, bro, I need you. I'm
having to get together. I need you to come. I said, okay,
no problem. I said, look, yeah, I'm gonna bring you
to my brother's place in South Carolina. She's like, okay, cool.

Speaker 3 (22:09):
We come. Have a good old time.

Speaker 2 (22:11):
You know, my brother have a pool party, you know, cookings,
few and everything. Were having a good old time, you know.

Speaker 3 (22:16):
Woop woop whoop.

Speaker 2 (22:17):
I said, okay, I kind of like this more folks
night had a great time. When I say, great, great
great great great.

Speaker 3 (22:26):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (22:26):
Right.

Speaker 3 (22:28):
But anyway, so now it's my turn to return to Flavor.
I'm going to her.

Speaker 5 (22:33):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 2 (22:36):
I get down there. She picks me up and say
we got to go by the hospital.

Speaker 5 (22:39):
I said, what we gotta wait, west state, west State.

Speaker 3 (22:43):
We're in Florida. Yeah, oh Miami. No. No.

Speaker 2 (22:46):
As a matter of fact, I can't tell you because
people gonna try to pain point everything and I'm gonna
tell you.

Speaker 5 (22:50):
But anyway, okay, okay, go ahead.

Speaker 2 (22:52):
You picked up at the airport. She said, we got
to go by the hospital. I said, well, we got
to go to the hospital. She said, my sister is
about to have a baby.

Speaker 3 (23:00):
But no problem.

Speaker 2 (23:01):
We go by the hospital. By the time we get there,
sister had the baby. I was like, I never met you.
So she said, no, you want to meet you. So
I go in there, I meet the sister, meet the
meet her husband, meet the baby. To the day that
she remembered me because we know we.

Speaker 3 (23:19):
Were cool, you know. But anyway, so I'm like, so
go get a hotel.

Speaker 2 (23:25):
Now, mind you, I'm in the state of Florida, big
and it's a big city. Remember she told me she
ain't got nobody. I take her out of a word. So
I let you know, you know, your boy layer that
thing on a Friday, bight. You don't you know that
did it? That went by? You know that went about

(23:46):
five round? You know, your boy, young man, you boy five?

Speaker 3 (23:51):
I got five on it. You know what I'm saying,
O Joe? So five five.

Speaker 1 (23:57):
Like hold on you did, you did like five like
in three minute intervals like like me, or you went
like five once.

Speaker 2 (24:05):
But I'm saying no, that that that whole day was
five rounds because once we went and saw something, you know,
we got a couple of rounds in, took a nap,
got up, got another another. You know, we got something
to eat. So you know, we got up the next morning.
I was like, okay, get some breakfast. Every window in

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the car busted out, every tie flat. Her boyfriend umb
found out what hotel we at and did that to
the car.

Speaker 3 (24:41):
Who car was it?

Speaker 5 (24:41):
It was hers? Wait, she had a friend you see.
You see what I'm talking about.

Speaker 3 (24:50):
Man, and he don't put it on flats every window.

Speaker 2 (24:57):
He wasn't not there when you went out. He wasn't
about got a with you, because that was that was
some guard to stuff that you did. Real dudes don't
do no stuff like that.

Speaker 1 (25:08):
Yeah, real dudes don't do that. But you got to
stay in your place. If she lied, if I lied,
got nobody. That ain't your fight. She she puts you,
She puts you in harm's way.

Speaker 3 (25:22):
I don't know what it is. Oh so now who
you think gotta repair everything?

Speaker 5 (25:32):
I hope you ain't shd me.

Speaker 1 (25:36):
Boy, you you're a better man than me. For one,
I'm thinking about what if it didn't go that way?
What if it didn't go to what if he flattened
the tires? What if you're waiting on you outside and
you have a situation like you had before when Buddy
pulled out that goddamn gun.

Speaker 5 (25:52):
There have been many.

Speaker 1 (25:53):
Instances with with with fellas like this, For women have
lied saying they ain't got nobody. Sometimes some of those
fellas aren't even here to tell a story. I don't
know what you want me to tell, Yojo, jealousy.

Speaker 3 (26:05):
It was it look didn't have a boyfriend.

Speaker 2 (26:11):
Now I later found out she had broken up with
the guy for like a week or like a week.
I'm just telling you because you know, I read a
couple of the messages, and you know, I couldn't believe
you did this to me and all that kind of stuff,
because I say, you put me in harms way. I
just said the exact same thing. I said, you know

(26:31):
who I am. And at this time, Ojo, I've just
started to become Shannon Shark. I said you put me
in harms way, I say this thing could have been
a lot of I said, this thing could have been
a lot of different ways. So I was like, look,
all you had to do is say, Shannon, I've just
broke up with my boyfriend within a month or something

(26:53):
like that. Because that's still now, give me an opportunity.
I'm probably still said Ojo that time, I was living.
You know what I'm saying, O Joe, I was living living.
I was living living, just joking and put every jump
bust out. All this was before Jasmine Cellar came A

(27:13):
bust the window, not your car, I bust the window.

Speaker 5 (27:19):
Yeah, you gotta be kerevil.

Speaker 1 (27:20):
You remember just just last year, remember the situation where
young boy rest in peace. Trouble you know, trouble you
from at the girl house. The ex come over out
of the Bluejo He emotionally, emotionally unstable.

Speaker 5 (27:36):
Not trouble.

Speaker 3 (27:37):
Ain't here, Joe, But like I wasn't at a house.

Speaker 5 (27:44):
Wait, how you even found out what she?

Speaker 3 (27:47):
No idea?

Speaker 2 (27:48):
Do you know the effort that he had to put
in because I guess he he done rolled but had
the bride because she at the time she lived with
a sister. She he had that rolled by there and
didn't see the car now normally with creatures of habit
right right, Okay, he rolled by. He know his sister
was pregnant. Car it at the hospital. Okay, If not

(28:10):
at the house, where could she be? Maybe maybe she
gave him sign that she started acting. But I don't know, Ojo.
But I'm just telling you.

Speaker 5 (28:19):
Right right, right right, Yeah, you gotta pay attention.

Speaker 2 (28:22):
Now the signs of now he makes me well, I
want to even more. I want him more now. Now
you can't get a back. You not finna get a back.
If you thought about you could. It's over for you, clown.

Speaker 1 (28:37):
And now that I think about it, you had to
be in a small city. You had to be in
the smaller city in Florida.

Speaker 3 (28:42):
You know why.

Speaker 5 (28:43):
You know why I say that, because he had I
was in Tampa. Go to the park, Okay, so stay
with me, now, stay with me.

Speaker 1 (28:51):
He had to go to all the hotels in the
surrounding area and check the parking lot looking for her. Yeah,
and that's exactly how you yeah found y'all. So there
wasn't no damn apple tag back then. Yeah, yeah, that's
what he did. Or he went through a lot too,
So that means he was mad he was mad. He
had to was yea to find that car. That's that's that,

(29:14):
that's that. Yeah, it's still it's still fresh a week,
even a even a month like.

Speaker 2 (29:20):
That again because we went to we went to a
black college, beat Daytonah, Black college beat a week and
then if you you went to a black college or
you know anything about Daytona. So it was like it
was like the first or second week in April. She
came to my brother's place in May, and I went
down to her in June.

Speaker 3 (29:40):
So it happened very rapidly.

Speaker 5 (29:43):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but but I don't, I don't.

Speaker 3 (29:46):
I'm like ro so now I can't let I can't let.

Speaker 2 (29:51):
Him win, right, you were younger, I probably, yeah, twenty three,
twenty four, and you.

Speaker 1 (30:01):
Know, and you know how it is at that age
when you're in your twenties, when you in your twenties
and you're dealing with somebody and that person becomes a
part of your everyday routine because you don't have that
much going on at that age. For men or fellas,
it's even that much harder to let go. It's even
that much harder to let go. The less you have

(30:23):
going on, the more your life is about the individual you're.

Speaker 3 (30:26):
Dealing with, and thank your whole thing.

Speaker 2 (30:30):
That was the first matter of fact, that was the
first time that I was I'm talking about like I'm
talking about, I'm talking about I ain't got I ain't
talking to nobody.

Speaker 3 (30:40):
I'm talking about I'm scar right.

Speaker 5 (30:43):
Yeah, so you were good, you were yes, yes, yeah.

Speaker 1 (30:47):
But they see she didn't give you the same respect
because things could have.

Speaker 3 (30:50):
Gone lest Yeah. The only thing probably real quick.

Speaker 2 (30:52):
I probably wouldn't have went down there if I knew
she had somebody. I'll still make Okay, you gotta come,
you gotta come to me. You gotta come to me,
because that.

Speaker 3 (31:06):
Situation from happening. Oh yo, uh, I don't know what
it is.

Speaker 2 (31:20):
Man, and people tell about man, bro, oh yo, I
ain't gonna lie my grandma and my sister done saying
some prayers for me, because ain't no way, bro. If
you actually knew a lot of the stuff, oh Joe,
I guarantee you, I could write a book and y'all
would and y'all like, man.

Speaker 5 (31:38):
Oh lie, yeah, you wouldn't believe the stories.

Speaker 3 (31:42):
Because people don't believe that the dude walked in on
the chopper.

Speaker 2 (31:45):
I could get my homeboy bucket and he'll tell you
verbatim what I'm saying. And when I was sleep and
I thought I had sleep, Paraule said, I'm just I
can hear boys and dude kick the door off the hinges.

Speaker 3 (31:58):
But this happened to me.

Speaker 5 (32:00):
That sounds like some That sounds like some shit.

Speaker 2 (32:01):
Otoe this the I mean flattening the tires and busted
out the windows. Yeah, I alea lie. Oh yo, not
that happened to me by five timesamn.

Speaker 3 (32:14):
Five five.

Speaker 5 (32:17):
You gotta start stop messing with people with ojo.

Speaker 3 (32:19):
How about you tell me you got a boyfriend? Oh?

Speaker 2 (32:22):
How about you tell me you got a crazy ex husband.
I don't, oh Joe, I'm taking people that they word,
O Joe, I ain't doing no background You can't do that.

Speaker 3 (32:30):
I'm a background check your asses, not si.

Speaker 1 (32:34):
You know, women don't tell the truth. They tell little
white lies. It'll never be the full truth or truth
if they the women to tell you sixty five seventy
of the truth.

Speaker 3 (32:42):
I'm and the I'm running background check on everybody. O Joe.
The chat disagrees with would you pay to fix her car?

Speaker 2 (32:52):
Uh? Seventeen percent? Yeah, I gotta eighty three percent say
now unk tripping? Yeah shit, I would I wasn't paying
pay for who what? No, sir, No, sir reed and listen.
Thing could have win south. You know I could have
been out there, We could have been in the car.

Speaker 5 (33:09):
I could have been. Ain't no telling what he would
have done.

Speaker 1 (33:11):
And you think I'm for the paper and you don't
put me in this way by telling me a little
white lions. I was telling me the truth, No, sir,
matter of fact, I'm surprised you kept dealing with it
after that.

Speaker 3 (33:21):
Did Oh, come on, man, you bad oo oh, Joe?
You bad oh bad?

Speaker 5 (33:32):
If she was that bad, If she was that bad,
y'all will still be friends. If she was that bad y'all.

Speaker 3 (33:40):
Today.

Speaker 1 (33:42):
Okay, my bad, my bad Oh, that's why you ain't
want to say name.

Speaker 5 (33:45):
Okay, my bad, oh, Joe.

Speaker 3 (33:47):
Ain't happen to be one time and we walk out
in the now. Hold check this out on yo. Back
I go.

Speaker 2 (33:54):
I go by alias, so I don't put my real
name down. Yeah, tell okay, same thing you done. Drove
around flatten all the times. Bust the windows out again?

Speaker 5 (34:08):
Where you where you got?

Speaker 3 (34:09):
Bad o? Joe?

Speaker 2 (34:09):
Check this out on yo dude, bamming on the dough.
How you know what room you they told him at
the front desk. Oh, that's Cardinal's.

Speaker 5 (34:21):
Hotel. You never get old.

Speaker 3 (34:25):
Oh Joe. So I'm looking at her. I was like,
oh what outside she said, let's go.

Speaker 2 (34:37):
Go with She said, let's go say okay, so we
walk out.

Speaker 3 (34:46):
Oh.

Speaker 2 (34:46):
I can't believe you do this to me. I thought
you and me was cool. Oh Joe, So I'm walking Oho, like,
remember now this product like may Yeah, now you know
I'm probably so you know how I'm I just it's made.

Speaker 3 (35:02):
I've been working out three months.

Speaker 5 (35:03):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, so you ready? You ready?

Speaker 3 (35:08):
I gave old boy a look.

Speaker 5 (35:11):
Yeah, this ain't what you want now, she said.

Speaker 2 (35:17):
By the time I get to my mama's house, right
and I get back because I'm going to eat brunch
with him, my car better be fixed.

Speaker 5 (35:29):
Oh but who?

Speaker 2 (35:33):
But who?

Speaker 5 (35:33):
She she talking like she was out of the.

Speaker 3 (35:35):
Blanco When we got back from brunch.

Speaker 2 (35:39):
Car was parked in a mama's driveway and everything was done.

Speaker 5 (35:46):
But who was you dating?

Speaker 3 (35:47):
What?

Speaker 1 (35:48):
Who was she?

Speaker 3 (35:52):
So?

Speaker 2 (35:52):
Y'all understand y'all talking about yeah, up being in some trauma,
up be in some trauma. So excuse me if ain't
the most trusted because they had un over a babe.

Speaker 5 (36:07):
And you got you, you got it. You can't. You
can't be listening to him like that.

Speaker 1 (36:10):
Man.

Speaker 5 (36:11):
You got to do your homework.

Speaker 3 (36:12):
Man, man, Oh and I have you can look at.

Speaker 2 (36:16):
I had a chick. Man, I was talking to this
chick and we were cool. She was fine, And I
don't know what I said, yes, sir.

Speaker 3 (36:29):
Oh yoall.

Speaker 5 (36:31):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 3 (36:32):
She went up under pillar.

Speaker 5 (36:35):
What she had? She put it to your head.

Speaker 3 (36:41):
Oh y'all, what you did wrong? By you? Had you had?

Speaker 2 (36:52):
I probably, oh your god, on the truth, I probably
should have been. I probably should have been, like I said,
my grandma's sister. I probably should have been dead about
six times. Oh Joe, we was having Oh yoe, we
was having a good time. We were just joking. And
I don't even remember what I said, right, I don't

(37:12):
even remember, because all I remember is that she went
up on the pillow and she put that chrome forty
five to my head.

Speaker 5 (37:22):
You know what derry might be?

Speaker 3 (37:25):
Yeah, she had a real thing.

Speaker 2 (37:32):
Oh man, man, man, she said, trade this out on
your book, she said, And to kill you m cause
you've been She said, you've been and playing with me
all this time.

Speaker 5 (37:49):
Oh you had you a crazy man.

Speaker 2 (37:52):
I'm gonna let you get your issue and you getting
at my effing house. Don't call me, don't like me.
I got my stuff?

Speaker 3 (38:06):
TI did you?

Speaker 5 (38:07):
Did you? Did you call her back?

Speaker 3 (38:09):
Hell?

Speaker 2 (38:09):
No?

Speaker 3 (38:10):
She said, oh, calla.

Speaker 5 (38:13):
But did you at least apologize?

Speaker 2 (38:14):
I don't even know what I did. So check this out.
Oh yo, you know, oh yo, I swear I don't
to this day go this had This is like early
two thousands, twelve thirteen years later, phone ring. Yeah, I'm sorry,

(38:39):
I said, who is this? She said, I'm sorry I
said this? She said, yeah, she said I was wrong.
She said I was just having a bad day. It
wasn't nothing.

Speaker 5 (38:52):
Now, bad bad, bad day. You pull a gun out
on me, and you having a bad day. You're having
a bad day and you pull a gun.

Speaker 1 (38:58):
You put a gun to bad that could have went off,
but you having a bad That.

Speaker 5 (39:03):
Was how you said.

Speaker 3 (39:03):
Hey.

Speaker 2 (39:04):
She said, you've been good. She said, you've been good
to me. She said, Shannon, we've been She said, we've
been cool for this. So this this was like we
had been we had been like fooling around for a
minute for like like a decade, and this happened. So

(39:25):
she she did that. I ain't hear him from him
for like a minute. Popped up, she apologized, guess what
I do?

Speaker 5 (39:41):
Don't tell me? You went right back.

Speaker 3 (39:43):
I went to see her at work.

Speaker 5 (39:45):
Man, I'm gone. Man, she put a gun to your head.

Speaker 3 (39:58):
Man, God, she didn't mean to. She didn't be too
come on.

Speaker 1 (40:06):
Hey, hey, the fact that you've been able to a
court remain a cordial relationship with people that you've dated
and been intimate with even after the fact, it's very commenable,
very very very commenable, because most of the time, you know,
things always end on bad terms and there is no

(40:28):
you know, being friends once you cross a certain.

Speaker 2 (40:33):
It took me a while to get it took me
a while. It took me a while because I was
allowing these women to hold my feelings hostage. They were
gone on with their line, but I was in bondage,
so I said, I am not going on allow you
to hold my feelings hostage. I refused to be in bondage,

(40:54):
so I had to forgive them. And yet it took
me a while because some of them did some things
they didn't have to do.

Speaker 3 (41:00):
You could have just.

Speaker 2 (41:02):
I tell people all the time, Oh Joe, I don't
have bars on my house, so it's not to keep
you in or out. You walk in the door, I'll
want you to walk out.

Speaker 3 (41:11):
Yeah, boy. And so for me, it took it took
me a while. It took me a while.

Speaker 2 (41:16):
Yeah, I've had situation, but i've all because I believe,
oh cho, that I'm always gonna come out on the
winning side. And so when they've done things to me,
I was like, Okay, it is what it is. Then
you felt that's what you needed to do. But I'm
gonna win. I'm gonna win. Yeah, I've had said I've
had situations, oh Joe, with women that I've dated, they

(41:37):
ended up getting married when they're going through hard time. Befo,
you think they called for Shanon. I wanna get a door.
So I said, no, you're not. I said you better
stay with that man. I said, you gotta understand how
old you think you are? You got two kids? You
this age. I said, I tell you what I'm gonna do.
I'm gonna get you a hotel room. You stayed there
for a week, y'all figured it's issh out. But you

(41:58):
don't need to leave him.

Speaker 5 (42:01):
Yeah, yeah, we talked, We talked. We talked about it
last night. Now he.

Speaker 2 (42:08):
Said, I said, who you think you're about to get?
Who you think you about to get?

Speaker 3 (42:12):
You and your.

Speaker 1 (42:15):
Listen, well react where reality will hit once you get
out there in the streets and you see.

Speaker 5 (42:21):
What's just sober?

Speaker 2 (42:22):
I said, because y'all have a disagreement. Oh, he's saying
something that you didn't like or you don't like the
way he Oh hell, now y'all better solve that. And
as a matter of fact, hey, I already got it
taken care of. You ain't gotta show nothing. Everything that
you need. The room and the incidentals are taken care of. Hey,
stay your ass that and makes a make sure you

(42:42):
make the right decision.

Speaker 5 (42:43):
Now, Yeah, yeah, you make the one.

Speaker 1 (42:48):
You're gonna look, you're gonna be looking back and be
looking back.

Speaker 3 (42:51):
Ten years later they still married. Thank you. I appreciate that.

Speaker 2 (42:56):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 5 (42:57):
Look but you are you are?

Speaker 3 (42:59):
You are?

Speaker 2 (43:00):
Oh tr the way I look at look, you and
I didn't work out. I don't think you're a bad person.
You might have not been right for me. I might
have not been right for you, But you might be
perfect for someone, is right.

Speaker 1 (43:12):
Yeah, that's okay, and that's okay at the end of
the day, I want you to be happy.

Speaker 2 (43:18):
I might not can give you the happiness that you're
looking for, but that doesn't mean I don't want you
to have it.

Speaker 3 (43:24):
And if you found it at one point in time,
stay there. I said, it's easy.

Speaker 2 (43:29):
I said, damn, y'all the minute of heart, I thought,
riches is important, sickness in the health, and well, damn that.
So y'all just talking up there in front of the
main hunh, y'all up there in the church, and y'all just.

Speaker 1 (43:42):
Yeah, they be ready to go now, and just say
any of the slightest inconvenienced things don't go well, or
or you do something that don't don't sit right with them,
you're ready to go. They ready to go, matter of fact,
and they ready to go to somebody else that can
it were the same thing.

Speaker 5 (43:58):
Yeah, But you know, you know, like.

Speaker 1 (44:00):
My grandma said, My grandma always told me that you
don't have to lie to You don't have to lie
to a woman because she like you enough.

Speaker 5 (44:06):
She lied to herself for sure. You don't have to
lie to.

Speaker 1 (44:10):
A woman because she like you enough for them red
flags like six flags, the color Oh yeah, when it's
when it's convenient based on But I want.

Speaker 2 (44:24):
I want all the women that I've been with and
in my time, I want them to find happiness.

Speaker 3 (44:29):
It wasn't for me. You know, we didn't work out.

Speaker 2 (44:33):
But if there's anything I can do to help you,
and and you're in a situation, I got you. We
didn't work for me all that, like I said, And
even though sometimes, oh Joe, it didn't end on the
best no, the best term, we didn't end on.

Speaker 3 (44:45):
The best terms. That's all right.

Speaker 2 (44:50):
I mean I think that that came from my grandmother
and my sister, because my sister like, Shanna, you just
pray about it.

Speaker 3 (44:56):
It's gonna be okay.

Speaker 2 (44:58):
You still she's like, still my little She always tells
me this when I every time, every time I'm always
gone through something a breakup, she always she always reminds me,
who I am you still shouting sharp? You're still my
little brother, and you're gonna be okay.

Speaker 3 (45:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (45:14):
She's a she's that calming voice because a lot of
time I'm like, hey, I want to I want to
bury it.

Speaker 3 (45:20):
If you know what say Shanna, what do you get
out of that? What do you get out of that? Right?
I mean?

Speaker 2 (45:28):
My sister. Look, look, let me tell you what my
sister did. I was in a relationship. M hm, my sister.
Let me tell you what my sister did. My sister
really because like if you call my sister, if you automatically,
I would think my.

Speaker 3 (45:47):
Sister would take up for me. That what my sister did.

Speaker 5 (45:50):
Right, Wait, when you're wrong, you're wrong. Now she got
to hold you account.

Speaker 3 (45:56):
Leave it. Mm hm.

Speaker 2 (46:00):
He ain't doing right? So why you're gonna stay? Why
are you gonna stay in a situation which you're unhappy?
You know he makes you unhappy, You're not happy, but
you're gonna stay?

Speaker 3 (46:09):
Why leave? And if it's if it's y'all all be together, you'll.

Speaker 5 (46:17):
Come back like.

Speaker 3 (46:20):
What the hell?

Speaker 5 (46:21):
You not done?

Speaker 3 (46:25):
What you think? What you think the girl did? Left?

Speaker 5 (46:31):
Let you serious?

Speaker 1 (46:35):
He look back, man, it's that's too nice in the
road and then told me somebody like that, it's okay.

Speaker 3 (46:42):
It's not the end of the world. Oh yo, oh yoall.

Speaker 2 (46:52):
CBS, c CBS, CBS, take me go with I went
to under few, that got bigger under few. Let me
go now look at it. Look at the subs. I
got more subs than undisputed. You look at that.

Speaker 3 (47:04):
Look at the talent they got over there.

Speaker 2 (47:06):
I got, I got, we got a new podcast, and
we got more subs than everybody that got over there combined.
So that cat, I'm okay. I'm gonna be okay. I
believe in me. I'm always gonna better on black.

Speaker 3 (47:22):
Yeah. So I don't. I don't. I don't get you know,
when when something happens.

Speaker 2 (47:26):
I remember I wanted a situation and my agent said, hey,
don't worry about it. Don't worry about it. Next contract.
Somebody else will pay for what you lost.

Speaker 3 (47:38):
I don't like. I don't.

Speaker 2 (47:40):
I don't get upset. Man, It's not the end of
the world. I'm strong. I'm strong. Hey, I'm born in
sixty eight. I came from good stock, not woodstock. She
would have understand where I came from and how I.

Speaker 3 (47:55):
Came to be. Damn what you like?

Speaker 1 (48:04):
You're a good dude, man, because I'm like like that.
That that that's that's that's the man. That's that's two times.
It's two times, somebody, oh the first the first time.

Speaker 3 (48:16):
That is the first time. That's not the second time.
I was dating.

Speaker 2 (48:18):
I was dating the female and and we were living together,
and when I came home, she was.

Speaker 5 (48:22):
Gone, oh hell hell h like that's the type of
ship you.

Speaker 2 (48:34):
See, And that was I guess I was living a movie.
Then hey, oh joey looking. Listen, when I tell people
I could write a book, y'all think I'm lying.

Speaker 3 (48:47):
I know, y'all think I'm lying. But that man, you
came home.

Speaker 1 (48:50):
You came home like like on some gone Girl ship,
like the movie Gone Girl.

Speaker 2 (48:54):
She was gone, big gie, big old biggie bi gone.

Speaker 3 (49:03):
Bye bye bverden man.

Speaker 5 (49:08):
And that's like respectful. Because if you, if you, if
you love.

Speaker 1 (49:15):
Yeah any anymore, will you tell me that you if you,
if you, if you've checked out mentally and you still
here physically and you're not feeling the situation we're in.
I need you to communicate. Isn't that what women always
talking about?

Speaker 5 (49:27):
Women not big on communications? The communication?

Speaker 1 (49:30):
If anyone, why wait until you leave on some sucker
ship and then pack your ship and leave in when
when I ain't here and not face face the walker,
face the worm.

Speaker 2 (49:42):
Come on nine, I mean, oh yo, everybody can't handle
situations like I don't know how you have those situations.
But I can sit down. I can have a conversation.
You're not happy, you want to move on, I'm not happy.
I want to move on. I can have that kind
of conversation. But everybody can't have that conversation. Everybody's not
built like you or that like.

Speaker 3 (50:02):
I can't speak for you. I'm built I can.

Speaker 1 (50:06):
But but listen, let me, let me tell you something.
Let me tell you how I feel, and to me,
you're on the same page. I was born a seven
eight man. I were born a seven eight. But one
thing about it is I'll give my all and do
all I can. Now if you choose to lose, I
never see it as a loss. I see it as

(50:26):
one less expense. Right, that's it because I'm doing everything.
So now that's somebody else responsibility. If they want to
pick up where I left off and do more, so
be Yeah, good luck, We'll be in good luck.

Speaker 5 (50:39):
But I always I.

Speaker 1 (50:39):
Always see someone actually leaving me or ship that's better
for me. I just think about how much I can
say from this.

Speaker 3 (50:46):
I don't I don't.

Speaker 2 (50:46):
I don't I don't get upset, I don't fuss and fight.
I want things a certain way. I like people that
after you've been with me for a while, you kind
of understand my manner rhythm, you know what.

Speaker 3 (50:57):
I okay, really want to talk let him be.

Speaker 2 (51:02):
I don't want right right something like this, or she
don't want something like that. Let me have this ready
for me. I want people to like study me and
have without me having to tell your no, no, no no.

Speaker 3 (51:13):
I think the.

Speaker 2 (51:13):
Best relationships are you've been with someone long enough you understand.

Speaker 1 (51:20):
Hey, you know it's funny. I like that you just
said that. Like I've been moreal like so long. Now
we started to look like I can start a sentence,
I can start it. I can started, I can start
a sentence, and before I even finish what I'm saying,
she finished the damn sentence. I'm like, but can I
And it kind of irks me a little bit, like
can I get my thoughts out?

Speaker 5 (51:40):
I know?

Speaker 1 (51:41):
You know, because I'm increase your habit, huh, you don't change.
My routine doesn't change, and the things that I say
based on the situation, it never changes as well. So
I'll start saying something and she had finished it whatever
it was, I know, I know, I know, I know,
ye say let me let me say it.

Speaker 3 (52:00):
Let me finish.

Speaker 5 (52:01):
So it basically it's like you.

Speaker 1 (52:03):
It sounds like you irritated because you already know what
I'm getting ready.

Speaker 3 (52:06):
To say and you don't want me to say it.

Speaker 5 (52:08):
It's smart. Yeah, yeah, small, little, small, little discrepancy. We'll
be having you know that. That that starts, but it's
gonna happen.

Speaker 3 (52:15):
O Joe.

Speaker 2 (52:18):
There's a woman that recorded herself refusing refusing to get
out of a car because her date took it to
the cheesecake factory.

Speaker 5 (52:28):
What's wrong with cheesecakes?

Speaker 3 (52:29):
It's a chain? So is mascros, so is del Frisco?
So is uh uh? What's the what's that other one? Catch?

Speaker 2 (52:39):
Catch l A That's a chain? Waally's is a chain.
Ruth Chris is a chain. Joe's crab shot is a chain.
So let me ask you a question. Have you ever
had a situation?

Speaker 3 (52:51):
What would you do?

Speaker 6 (52:52):
Now?

Speaker 2 (52:52):
I'm just oo, you drive up, you pull up and
she's like, okay, heybaby, we're here, or you meet Because
until I got the l A yo, I had never
I had never not gone I don't know if I
could use double negative, but I had always gone to
the ladies home to pick her up or to her
apartment or picked her.

Speaker 3 (53:10):
Up from a parents' house. I never like.

Speaker 2 (53:12):
And when I got there, lady, it's like, okay, I'll
just meet you. I was like, and now you know
it's Donald. Okay, you don't ay, they don't know me
like that, so it's cool. But before I got to
LA I would always go pick the young lady up.
So now you get to the state, whether you pick
her up or you meet her there and she's and
she gets there and she's like, well, I ain't getting
out because this here, this is beneath me.

Speaker 3 (53:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (53:37):
For one, that that is a woman that's really nice.

Speaker 3 (53:40):
Yeah, for sure.

Speaker 1 (53:40):
In general, that's just a woman not interested in you
in general, and that and most of the time, obviously
it's the era that we're in right now.

Speaker 5 (53:47):
Men are are are being I don't want to.

Speaker 1 (53:52):
Say use for food, but if you have to go
to these high end restaurants, first dates.

Speaker 2 (53:59):
But everybody I didn't like, oh Joe, everybody ain't making
seven pigures. Everybody and got it like that to go
drop two three hundred dollars on a meal, Damn.

Speaker 5 (54:06):
It makes it makes no sense.

Speaker 1 (54:09):
If you gotta leave with money, if you have to leave.
If you have to lead with money, If you have
to leave with money, you already know the time. You
already know what the place, You already.

Speaker 3 (54:17):
Know what the it.

Speaker 2 (54:18):
If I got first of all, I'm a firm believer
in this, O Joe. If I gotta borrow my brother's car,
if I got to borrow a homeboy car, if I
gotta borrow money to take somebody on the date, they
not for me.

Speaker 3 (54:29):
They not for me.

Speaker 2 (54:30):
Because all I can do is this is a what
this is a singular act, because I'm not gonna borrow
money every time to take you somewhere. I'm not gonna
borrow my brothers or my homeboy's car to take you somewhere. Man,
Oh your man, Look, I don't even want to tell
you this story. I don't even want to tell you
the story. What happened to me?

Speaker 5 (54:47):
Ojo, you got to give it to me, come on, man,
oh joy.

Speaker 2 (54:49):
This was this nineteen ninety I met this young lady
and she's so and she's like, we're gonna go We're
gonna go out. I was like, okay, now, oh your
mind you I'm only make it sixty three five. I
got a three hundred and thirty five dollars four door
blazer payment. I think my my my rent at Mill
Pond in Denver. I think it was about five fifty plus.

(55:10):
You know, I gotta you know, take you know, take
care of my send money home for my grandmother, my sister.
I'm helping my girlfriend who's going to school. I'm helping her.
I'm paying for her to go to school. So I
ain't got a whole lot of money. But you know
what I say, you know what I'm gonna do. I'm
gonna deny myself something to get her nice, nice little
you know, get a nice little meal. So we get

(55:31):
there and so you know, I'm gonna order something, but
I'm not gonna get what I would normally get, but
I'm gonna get something a little down just in case
she goes up. So we get there, so you know,
we get a little appetizer. I think back then I
was into caesar salad. Now I had never had a
really had caesar salad. So I got a little Caesar salad.
You know, I got ordered caesar. She got something. And

(55:53):
so the server comes back says, you know, okay, you
ready to or what I'm like, Yeah, So I got
I think I think I got something, probably cost like
thirty forty dollars and so on.

Speaker 3 (56:03):
Your shit.

Speaker 2 (56:04):
Got the menu and she just looking. I'm like, damn,
what she gonna order? I say, I say, you're gonna
go ahead, you gonna order something. She say, uh, I'm
trying to figure out what go with? What go with lobster?
I say, condoms? I say, because if you order that,
we're gonna have sex tonight. Needless to say, needless to say.

(56:25):
She didn't order that, and I never saw her again.
Real I put that on everything. Oh yo, see on
y'all you bad. You get me on here on you,
I get on here with you mad, and you have
me be telling a story. Man, I was supposed to
take this to my grade bad. He talking about she

(56:49):
trying to figure out what go with lobster? Condoms?

Speaker 5 (56:54):
Hey, we're lost.

Speaker 2 (56:55):
Yeah, condoms cause we having sex if you order that,
lofter ain't bread like that?

Speaker 3 (57:00):
Oh Joe.

Speaker 2 (57:01):
I can see if I was making If I came in,
I'm a first round or second round draft pick, because
back then, a first round draft pick got like a
million dollars signing bonus. Oh Joe, I came in, they
gave me like twenty two, five hundred dollars.

Speaker 3 (57:14):
Okay, when you.

Speaker 5 (57:15):
Gotta make, you gotta make, you gotta make that down.

Speaker 2 (57:17):
And so when when when when they when they take
the taxes out of it.

Speaker 3 (57:21):
Not need a whole lot of money.

Speaker 2 (57:23):
But y'all ladies out there, look, I understand that you
want to be treated nice. But everybody ain't making bread
like no professional athlete. Everybody ain't got no six and
no seven figure jobs. Some of these dudes making seventy
five thousand, seventy five thousand to a dude and after taxes,
he can't be breaking bread on no five hundred dollars meal.

Speaker 5 (57:41):
And this is this is the funny thing. This is
the funny thing.

Speaker 1 (57:43):
It's a tough situation because there will always be men willing.
Women will always be able to get who and what
they want, but it not might be from the guy
they want, because they will always be a man willing
to spend the money based on what it is that
women want, because they will alway to be a guy
with to do it.

Speaker 2 (57:58):
But he's trying to impress them though, O Joe, Yeah,
always oh way, try to impress them.

Speaker 5 (58:02):
The more money you have, the easier it is get
to your end goal. That's just life. That's the way
it is.

Speaker 1 (58:07):
But I tell dudes all the time, dudes, stay within
your salary cap and accuate.

Speaker 5 (58:13):
Stay within your salary cap and accuate. What's for you
will be there.

Speaker 1 (58:18):
And as your as your money continues to grow and
gets hired and hire the caliber of the caliber of
women you want to choose, it gets hired.

Speaker 5 (58:29):
At the end of the day. It's all pink on
the inside.

Speaker 3 (58:34):
I hope you're talking about a stake, but anyway.

Speaker 5 (58:38):
Yeah, I'm talking about.

Speaker 3 (58:40):
Right there with.

Speaker 2 (58:43):
The thing.

Speaker 3 (58:44):
Choose the woman that likes you, not the woman you like.
If you choose the woman that likes you, you'll be straight.
That's a good one.

Speaker 1 (58:54):
Straight, that's a good one.

Speaker 3 (58:56):
That's what.

Speaker 5 (58:57):
If you got to leave with money, she don't like you,
I like you. If you gotta leave with.

Speaker 1 (59:01):
Money, And if she say, if you got to apply
pressure she don't like you, don't fall any time.

Speaker 2 (59:07):
If you if you tell me I don't need your money,
I make my own money, I'm going another way. That's
I've heard that lot too many times to be true. Dahn, Yeah, yeah,
like that.

Speaker 5 (59:19):
But this isn't a good thing. This is a good
thing for women.

Speaker 1 (59:21):
Though women will never go it out because they will
always be a man with her always.

Speaker 3 (59:27):
But I couldn't. Like I said, I I don't mind.

Speaker 2 (59:30):
But at the end of the day, like I said,
I didn't have And you know what, O Joe, if
I was making money like I was my fourth or
fifth year, if she wanted to get the life, to
have baby, get to take one home, I ain't got
but I didn't. But I didn't have no bread like that.
At that point in time. My my focus was, Okay,
pay my bills, help my grandmother. You know, my mom working,

(59:52):
But I still got to break her off. So when
I when I get back and the cell phone see
before Ojo, cell phone with the sall phone was probably
about I was a minute and if you left the city,
it started roaming.

Speaker 5 (01:00:04):
Man, Oh Joe, Man had I.

Speaker 3 (01:00:08):
Had a cell phone bill twelve hundred One time back
then my brother, my brother called me and say turn
it off, turn it off.

Speaker 2 (01:00:18):
Because back then, oh Joe, if you waited after I
think it's after seven o'clock, the minutes were freeing and
then on weekend minutes were free But man, who would
the hell gon't wait till after seven o'clock to talk
to Somebody'll wait to damn Saturday, Friday night, Saturday night, Sunday,
nod I want to talk. When I wanted to talk,

(01:00:39):
six thousand people that voted, they said fifty three percent say,
farting in front of your man is over.

Speaker 3 (01:00:46):
I need to see the age Democrats.

Speaker 1 (01:00:48):
No, don't try to change it is. Listen, this is wait.

Speaker 3 (01:00:56):
Chewing go ahead ahead, let me figure gonna let you
fin go ahead, go.

Speaker 5 (01:01:00):
Passing gas, fraudulating is normal.

Speaker 1 (01:01:05):
Telling your spouse they have to go to a man,
going to going to a completely different room just to do.

Speaker 5 (01:01:12):
What is natural.

Speaker 1 (01:01:14):
And you got to have your stomach hurting because they're
holding it. That's not right. That is imprisonment. Not okay,
chewing your food is natural. But time saying someone's.

Speaker 5 (01:01:25):
Smacking, I understand. That's like nails on the truck.

Speaker 3 (01:01:30):
Chewing food is natural.

Speaker 5 (01:01:31):
You can do it with your mouth closes.

Speaker 3 (01:01:34):
Okay, you can go to the bathroom in part from.

Speaker 5 (01:01:37):
Me, but but you know, to each his own, to
each his own.

Speaker 6 (01:01:39):
But what we're saying, you're not gonna make it far
in a relationship with us, Like we you cool with
a fartherer, We're cool you cool.

Speaker 1 (01:01:48):
Well, listen about it. They're going to do it anyway.
They're gonna do it like they got.

Speaker 6 (01:01:54):
You just said, Mama farty. You just said Mama farty,
and I hate you.

Speaker 1 (01:01:59):
She did because I can smell it. I can smell
I can smell it. I remember Mama rest in peace.
I could smell it. But she was staying it came
from somewhere and it wasn't me.

Speaker 5 (01:02:10):
She did it that.

Speaker 2 (01:02:12):
I just said, I've never I haven't. I never experienced that.
Knock on wood, thank you, because that that that's not
gonna go well, I never I'm gonna tell, but it
happened one time. I'm gonna tell the story another day time.

Speaker 3 (01:02:26):
But huh, I mean knowing you was it during but
knowing you was during something, Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:02:36):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know. Hey you out fish fish,
I got it. This would happened we were having sex.

Speaker 3 (01:02:51):
I put this on. I put this on everything. I
was having safe.

Speaker 1 (01:02:57):
Hold on the whole picture. That don't don't get don't
cheat me, don't. Yeah, don't either, Okay, I want detail,
having details. Where has this physician? Yeah yeah, yeah, you.

Speaker 3 (01:03:09):
Know, y'all know what Jesus he doing. But she don't
know that is.

Speaker 2 (01:03:19):
And what I'm about to say is one thought of baby.
So she passed, she said, she said, excuse me. I said,
that's why door. Yes, she passed, excuse me, don't Yeah,
she knew tired, tired, she said, excuse me. I said,

(01:03:42):
to make him ship. Hey, she said, excuse me. I said,
that's all right, baby, I generally make him ship.

Speaker 3 (01:03:48):
It kept going.

Speaker 5 (01:03:58):
Come on, man, man, both y'all nasty dog. Hey, don't
do that, y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:04:11):
Ain't no good that chatting.

Speaker 5 (01:04:13):
That's not Don't do that, y'all. Y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:04:16):
What you want, what you want to? You want? What
you how to look back and say, excuse me with it?

Speaker 5 (01:04:24):
Hey, I gotta write that down there, I gotta write
that down.

Speaker 3 (01:04:28):
Don't he write that down?

Speaker 5 (01:04:30):
Yes, there's a song. Chat.

Speaker 1 (01:04:41):
There's a song at the beginning of a song by
Bobbi wo Mack. Chat Bobby back Bob Bobby wo Mack,
and he talks about what we're talking about right now.

Speaker 5 (01:04:51):
It's called the facts of Life.

Speaker 1 (01:04:53):
Listen to the beginning of the facts of Life and
you'll get a better understanding of what we talk about.
Bobby wo Mac, the facts of life. I'd never forget it,
he told her. Listen, he would to buy the lady
a drink. You want to come up to my room,
the lady say, what you need me to come up
to your room for? You could buy me a drink?

(01:05:14):
You just want to get me up to your room.

Speaker 5 (01:05:16):
Well huh, hello, huh.

Speaker 1 (01:05:18):
I'm only here for one night. Come on now, that's
what Luther said. You remember, that's aw what Luther said.

Speaker 5 (01:05:24):
Oh yeah, I'm on, but no way, I can't sing.
I forgot if only for one night, that's it. Oh man,
it's so many good stories, man, but that's for another day.

Speaker 2 (01:05:36):
But see, here is the thing, O, Joe, I know
you'll act accordingly in my face? Yeah, oh yeah, when
I'm not around, will you still accept that drink? Will
you still talk as if I'm not there? You see
what I'm saying. Oo, I don't worry about you because
I first of all, I am not worried about to
dude disrespecting me, And I'm not worried about her disrespect

(01:05:58):
to me because I give respect, and I wouldn't let
my teammates.

Speaker 3 (01:06:02):
Yeah, we had their bad chicks walking in and they do.

Speaker 2 (01:06:07):
Bro, We're not finna disrespect my man, just because you
make this and you feel you can whip him. That's
not gonna happen because I'm gonna be with him, right
because you wouldn't let nobody do that if you walked
in here with your woman and dude tried to holler
at us, already know what's gonna happen.

Speaker 3 (01:06:24):
So we're gonna do this thing the same way.

Speaker 2 (01:06:26):
That's how we're gonna do it, Oh Joe, when you're
around me, able one way to do things that's right, right,
And I'm gonna tell you I would say, look here, now, hey,
now you know hey, they gonna maneuver a way and
pretend like they got to go to the bathroom because
they done made our contact.

Speaker 3 (01:06:42):
Okay, now.

Speaker 5 (01:06:48):
It's a dirty game, man, Okay, dirty game.

Speaker 2 (01:06:55):
I don't like I said. I'm just I'm just I'm
just real. I'm just real with it. I don't I
don't like disrespect on no level. I'm not gonna let
my teammates disrespect a guy just because he doesn't have
the money, he doesn't have the cachet, he doesn't have
the the the name recognition.

Speaker 3 (01:07:15):
We ain't gonna do that, not on my walk. Now.
If I didn't go out that night.

Speaker 2 (01:07:19):
If I didn't go out on a Thursday night, because
that was really the only night I kind of went out,
unless unless I had my homeboys in town. My homeboy
would coming that Friday. We go out that Saturday night.
But it was the same thing. If I was somewhere
and my teammate showed up and there was a chicken
there and chicks came in there with their boyfriend. We're
not finna do that, right, That ain't gonna happen, right

(01:07:41):
because at the end of the day, now that he's
still a man, Now he's still a man, and you know,
man would both his back in front of his lady. Yeah,
then what for what happened? We got in the bral
We got into a fighting in h at night in
my rookie year by the.

Speaker 3 (01:08:00):
Chick y'all were brawling in there by the chick go
look it up. Damn huh.

Speaker 5 (01:08:07):
She must hey, she must have been bad. She must
have been bad to the world life.

Speaker 3 (01:08:11):
She was fire five. You're only worth what somebody's willing
to pay. People like man.

Speaker 2 (01:08:21):
I wouldn't pay twenty million for no house, okay, but
somebody else did. I will pay two million for a
car but somebody else will. Worth is only determined by
what someone is willing to pay for it.

Speaker 3 (01:08:33):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 2 (01:08:34):
That's what worth is. You don't get determine your worth
because you don't get to say. You don't get to
pay yourself. Hey how at EFPN, Hey get me forty
million a year? Hey, hey, that sounds like ladies and
on ig.

Speaker 3 (01:08:52):
Hey know you're worth? Know your self worth?

Speaker 1 (01:08:55):
Girl?

Speaker 3 (01:08:55):
Yeah? Oh I work, I'm worth this. I worth that.
Not a dude ain't willing to give it to you.
You not.

Speaker 2 (01:09:03):
Understand, you know, baby, you think you worth a burking
bag and a colorist and a private jet.

Speaker 3 (01:09:10):
I get that.

Speaker 2 (01:09:10):
You think you're supposed to get all of that, but
that ain't how I value you. Yes, so unless look, hey, now, Giel,
I had a situation. I was talking to this young
lady and she says the I want to watch So
you know, I'm thinking you don't what you want? I
want an AP?

Speaker 3 (01:09:30):
Gil? I only got one AP. Now, I got one
AP after playing.

Speaker 2 (01:09:35):
Fourteen years in the NFL, being a Hall of Famer,
and having a seventeen year career in TV.

Speaker 3 (01:09:41):
I got one AP. And you come in and say
you want an AP? Upter an ap.

Speaker 2 (01:09:50):
I say, hey, Gilgail, I see, and she said, if
you don't get it, we can't see each other no more.

Speaker 3 (01:09:58):
Cool walk right downstairs, she gil right hand before God.

Speaker 2 (01:10:05):
She already knew I was gonna get it because as
I walking, as I'm walking down the stairs, she had
an oober out there waiting.

Speaker 1 (01:10:14):
Mm.

Speaker 2 (01:10:14):
She already know I won't get it. I saw, I
saw Gil, I saw three days later. Guess what she
had on on.

Speaker 3 (01:10:23):
I g ap. Somebody got it? Oh, Shane Sharp was
gonna get it.

Speaker 5 (01:10:31):
Honestly, I don't.

Speaker 3 (01:10:32):
I don't. I don't know. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:10:34):
Brother Jalen, you know I don't. Yeah, I mean we
can't be mad. We gotta be happy for him. I mean,
it's no point of being mad now that the baby
on the way. I wish them nothing but the best.

Speaker 3 (01:10:48):
The best. One of the guys.

Speaker 2 (01:10:50):
Shan't have been twenty two in the NFL.

Speaker 5 (01:10:53):
Yeah what.

Speaker 3 (01:10:55):
If she look like that? Yeah, she.

Speaker 5 (01:10:59):
She got you hook, Yo would have got shake.

Speaker 3 (01:11:03):
Oh she's got no shake and one almost have o Joe.

Speaker 1 (01:11:09):
She had me. Are you you're trying to get the
fut of the hu you're trying to get I shoot
the hook got my mouth. You don't know, big mouth
band fight the water ship.

Speaker 2 (01:11:21):
I shoot now, I shoot now hoo went on back
in the water swimmer ain't buying no moto.

Speaker 5 (01:11:26):
Yeah you got hey. Listen, listen, the game is the game.

Speaker 3 (01:11:29):
Now.

Speaker 5 (01:11:30):
You gotta understand.

Speaker 3 (01:11:31):
You gotta bad.

Speaker 5 (01:11:34):
I know she was, I know she was. That's that's
that's how they catch him.

Speaker 3 (01:11:39):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (01:11:39):
You know what they playing, right? They playing a long game. Yeah,
they're playing a long game.

Speaker 5 (01:11:45):
I need I need Hey, I need financial security. Huh.

Speaker 1 (01:11:48):
I'm trying to I'm trying to maintain. I'm trying to
maintain the lifestyle that I want to live. And how
am I going to afford that? I got to you know, O, Joe,
not this chest, not check is now?

Speaker 2 (01:12:01):
Man, that's the only OO in all my life. That's
the only time. Yeah, my mama has ever said anything
to me.

Speaker 3 (01:12:11):
M hm hm the only time. Yeah mm hmm. I
didn't know.

Speaker 2 (01:12:22):
I didn't know until years later my sister told me. Yeah,
I wonder, I'm I didn't know, but I guess I
had left.

Speaker 3 (01:12:33):
I had left my mom and my sister was there. Yeah,
and she came to my apartment.

Speaker 5 (01:12:40):
Oh come on, now, I was on the door.

Speaker 3 (01:12:45):
My mom open the door. My mom like, who you? Oh,
such and such. My mom said, you look a little old,
my son. How old are you? She told her. My
mom said, look here, my son just got here. You're
gonna miss it over with you. Mm hmm. You get
your damn man's away from my son.

Speaker 5 (01:13:10):
So you cut off god off?

Speaker 3 (01:13:13):
Oh I had you. It broke my heart.

Speaker 5 (01:13:18):
All along, hold on, like wait, y'all went out? Did
you got some first? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:13:27):
Boy, I was in there like section eight you thought about?
Did I please? What about old John?

Speaker 2 (01:13:40):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (01:13:40):
Yeah, man, what are you talking about? Did I?

Speaker 5 (01:13:47):
You was in there like and you was in there
like what section eight?

Speaker 3 (01:13:51):
Deep? Off up in that thing? But bad.

Speaker 5 (01:14:03):
There are no umb rules.

Speaker 1 (01:14:04):
You just obviously the three The three that nobody needs
to say is obviously you don't talk about nobody wife,
You don't try to holler at nobody wife no no,
And you don't talk about nobody goddamn kids no.

Speaker 5 (01:14:15):
No, and ship. That's pretty much it. Yeah, I mean,
just just the common common you know that thing was
you know out hold on?

Speaker 2 (01:14:24):
I was I think it was little Gills. The podcast
they were talking about about how the situation like Okay,
your wife is off limit, and then you get the
you know you get you know, you get the.

Speaker 3 (01:14:34):
Girl you know you put you get one. Your wife
is on the shelf.

Speaker 5 (01:14:41):
Everybody else, everybody else, everybody.

Speaker 3 (01:14:43):
Everybody else touchable, everybody reachable, everybody checked out.

Speaker 5 (01:14:47):
Hey, that was a good episode to me.

Speaker 2 (01:14:49):
Hey, remember, if you got a wife and you got
a badi ch, you think you're gonna be able to
save both of them, know you not.

Speaker 3 (01:14:57):
You're not gonna say that girl, your wife. I ain't
trying to.

Speaker 2 (01:15:00):
I ain't even looking at her, but oh, you best
believe I'm throwing I'm throwing her there out there trying
to relay in.

Speaker 1 (01:15:06):
Hey, it was so funny in the conversation he was
having right there there. Somebody said, oh, I see so
and so on the stands to night. Okay, which onuny,
y'all got so and so here at this game?

Speaker 5 (01:15:16):
Hey man, I was funny. Listen.

Speaker 1 (01:15:18):
But the basketball players, they got them. They moved different. Boy,
they do, but they moved, they got they moved different.

Speaker 2 (01:15:24):
I an't if you if you if you talk to him,
if you tell me you used to if they told
me they talked to you know, I used to talk to.
Somebody took my tailor run. I ain't got that kind
of per I can't fight him. I can't fight.

Speaker 3 (01:15:38):
I can't. I can't fight what he can do for you? Noah,
I can.

Speaker 2 (01:15:41):
You know, back in the day, and you know your
boy used to be ready to tussle at the drop.
But I done got old now that that ain't in
me no more. But oh they say, oh yeah, you
get you get your you get your you get your wife.

Speaker 3 (01:15:54):
No no, no, no, no, no, no no you don't.
Oh no, hell no.

Speaker 2 (01:15:57):
You get to put one on the shelf and she
can't be touched. Now, if it could be your wife,
it can be your girl. But you don't get too
Oh damn you know. Oh no, sir, I don't know where.
I don't know where they do that at.

Speaker 3 (01:16:12):
Listen for them boys, vicious boy. They could be vicious
all they want to.

Speaker 1 (01:16:16):
But I know if I them boys play a different
ball games don't play.

Speaker 2 (01:16:22):
That's why I can't get zero. They got that kind
of See, they got that kind of money. If you
want to keep up with them, you don't need tracks.
You you need a check book. And I ain't I
got a check book. Oh yeah, So nah, nah, but
I would talk to Gil about that when you come
back on the web that like here, I heard y'all talking.

Speaker 3 (01:16:38):
Y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:16:39):
You can't say no, you get to save one now
you gotta. Yo, you got a choice, two people drowning.
You could only say one.

Speaker 5 (01:16:47):
You can't, Nah, you can't.

Speaker 2 (01:16:49):
You can't swim back to shore with two drowning people. Now,
which one you want to put up there to make
sure she's saved?

Speaker 3 (01:16:56):
Come the other one? Mm hmm, we coming.

Speaker 2 (01:16:59):
Yeah, I'm a rip tie hey howl though you that
rip curR, that rip car Yeah, that powerful even come
of the strongest women's me you got you gotta let
just go with it.

Speaker 3 (01:17:10):
Those women get it because all they do is tie
you out and drown.

Speaker 6 (01:17:13):
You go with it.

Speaker 3 (01:17:14):
It's all that a little bit and then come on back.

Speaker 5 (01:17:16):
You know what the funny thing is?

Speaker 1 (01:17:18):
You know what makes it makes it even worse, is
there's so many, so many fine, I'm about the finest
of the finest women, right.

Speaker 5 (01:17:27):
How many athletes is it that really got it?

Speaker 3 (01:17:29):
Think about it.

Speaker 1 (01:17:31):
It's only a select few, it's only a smart it's
only a handful of me. But there's so many women
and all the women want to select few athletes, so.

Speaker 3 (01:17:40):
Gus select few athletes. Want the women, and they.

Speaker 5 (01:17:43):
Want the women they picked. They pick who.

Speaker 2 (01:17:46):
Man, it don't matter, and it's it's a certain type
of woman that athlete really has to have.

Speaker 3 (01:17:54):
Yeah, and if love light.

Speaker 2 (01:17:57):
Man, they got that hair, whether if the hair the
barry crop, whether it's long and wavy, they bought the
they mixed.

Speaker 3 (01:18:04):
You know, I don't know what it is. My grandma
used to say, my grandma without a little boy, she said, boy,
you color struck.

Speaker 2 (01:18:10):
What she meant by that, but the red ball hot. Yeah,
women be doing that too, telling like they sleep faking.
You should to keep her from keeping from doing Oh
your true story. I broke up with I broke up
with my girlfriend and my.

Speaker 5 (01:18:30):
You broke up her. She broke up with you.

Speaker 3 (01:18:32):
I broke I broke up my girlfriend. This was this
one years ago. That's probably twenty to twenty five years.

Speaker 5 (01:18:35):
Every time you tell a story, it's years ago.

Speaker 3 (01:18:37):
I'm thinking this. This don't know nothing.

Speaker 2 (01:18:42):
And uh, my sister, My sister told my grandma to say, Granny,
you know, yelling such and such, not going together. They
they're not together no more. My grandma, I ain't tell
you her name, but you know what it is. You
know what my grandma said? What she say she wasn't
doing the nightly duties. Oh wait a minute, that was
my granted, and say that's what my grant is.

Speaker 1 (01:19:02):
Sake, Wait, let me sit up because I went wait,
let me let me give me no, let me give
my note pad out with a nightly duty so I
can make sure you know what.

Speaker 3 (01:19:12):
You know what night the duty or everybody that watching
this know what nightly duties.

Speaker 1 (01:19:16):
I need you Listen, I'm trying to get where you are.
You have a little bit more life experience in me,
so give me. Let me Joe.

Speaker 2 (01:19:23):
She was doing like the female European common from She
was fake, oh oh the time, pretending like he would sleep.

Speaker 5 (01:19:31):
Oh but y'all living. Yeah, wait, wait a minute, let's
dive a little deeper.

Speaker 3 (01:19:37):
Listen.

Speaker 5 (01:19:37):
Is a lot to unpack now, y'all live together. And
she wasn't doing her I.

Speaker 3 (01:19:41):
Got to roll back light light. I don't ever check,
no look, and so you want.

Speaker 5 (01:19:45):
That wait, understand that the last time I checked, I
saw it. I saw it on on.

Speaker 3 (01:19:53):
Murder.

Speaker 1 (01:19:53):
She wrote A woman that was getting sleep every time
he came home and just to come to find out
towards the end of the story that happened to be
another man. M yeah, and that happened. That happens a
lot in life in general. The person you with start
acting funny, and when you're diving a little bit deeper,
you always tend to find out the routine changes from

(01:20:15):
who they used to be when you're first met and
you start listen that because it happened to me.

Speaker 5 (01:20:21):
That's how I know it happened to me, And you
started acting funny. And what did I do? I put
on my black dickies, I put on a black skull cap.
Or you sleep? So what I did? I jumped in
the car. Are you sleep? Okay?

Speaker 6 (01:20:35):
Bet?

Speaker 5 (01:20:36):
Wait a minute? How you sleep at eight thirty?

Speaker 3 (01:20:38):
Okay?

Speaker 5 (01:20:39):
Bet? Well you go ahead and get your nice license.

Speaker 3 (01:20:41):
So I get in the car. You know I gotta.

Speaker 1 (01:20:46):
Now, Yeah, I had to because listen, I could be
honest with you, because we family, I could be honest
with you, like I listen, I get in the car.

Speaker 5 (01:20:58):
I go to the house you know, staying on she's
staying over there all at the time. She in Carroll City.
You know that one nothing by the thirty minute drive
real quickly. I jumped on the highway.

Speaker 3 (01:21:06):
I jumped on minutes. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:21:10):
I pull up to the house. The can in the driveway.
Wait a minute, Wait a minute, how the conn in
the driveway.

Speaker 1 (01:21:17):
But you just told me you sleep, That's what I'm
saying in my head, I'm saying, Oh no, oh, she
want to play back.

Speaker 3 (01:21:24):
I waited.

Speaker 1 (01:21:24):
I waited bout five minutes. I called the phone back, oh,
slapping the phone in ring. I kept calling over and
over mine. It ain't been number thirty minutes. So how
you sleep already?

Speaker 5 (01:21:36):
I ain't chilling. So I sat on the front porch.
I took a picture, right, I took a picture at
the front door like this, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, Hey,
I took a picture.

Speaker 3 (01:21:48):
Did you you?

Speaker 5 (01:21:50):
I sent it to her. Oh but you sleep?

Speaker 6 (01:21:53):
Huh?

Speaker 1 (01:21:53):
Okay, back eighty eight, listen and block and blocked the
number and went on about and went on about my
business in my life now acting guess who are trying
to spin the block? You know, she started she started seeing,
you know, I start. I had a little motion, A
little motion was back in effect. You know, my visibility
started being back popping. It was too late then, because
real had done, came and snatched me up real quick.

Speaker 3 (01:22:17):
Oh man, I'm good.

Speaker 5 (01:22:19):
I'm good.

Speaker 2 (01:22:20):
I sometimes been hapless sometimes in a relationship, Yes, sir,
one party wants to move on, but they don't know
how to.

Speaker 3 (01:22:29):
Tell the other they want to move on.

Speaker 5 (01:22:32):
That's a good one.

Speaker 1 (01:22:33):
That's that's because a lot of people watching right now,
A lot of people watching right now. I'm gonna tell
you no lie, because a lot of people are watching
right now with someone and they don't know how to.

Speaker 5 (01:22:42):
Break it off.

Speaker 1 (01:22:43):
Not only do they not only do they not want
to break it off. In this economy, you have someone
that's helping you and taking care of you, you really
don't want to lose that sense of security and help.
Some men as well, they were women. Yeah, they gotta stay.
They gotta stay with the women because you need a
roof over your head.

Speaker 3 (01:22:59):
But I like that.

Speaker 2 (01:23:00):
I can I can never let I can't never. I
can never let a woman take care of me. I
can never let a woman go.

Speaker 5 (01:23:05):
But I'm not saying I'm not saying take care of it.
I'm just some men are. Some men are.

Speaker 1 (01:23:09):
Some men aren't fortunate, and they're in situations where they
need that roof over their head and they're dealing with
someone that's able to provide that.

Speaker 2 (01:23:17):
Yeah, and that that's that's that's tough. That's tough when
you're somewhere you don't want to be. Because I told
you the lowelss My grand used to say, boy, the
lowless place in the world is to be somewhere you're
not wanted, right right, And and if you don't know
you're not wanting, it's another thing to know you're not wanted.
In college, I remember in college, I broke over with
my girlfriend. I was moping.

Speaker 3 (01:23:35):
I used to work.

Speaker 2 (01:23:36):
We used to have work study, and I worked for
Coach Davis rest and sould Coach David and if I
used to go to his office every day, and when
I wasn't in class, I would do my homework. Uh,
if we didn't look the professor would cancel class or
something happened. I would go to Coach Davis's office get
my hours in, but I would do my homework. A
couple of days go by, he see me moping. He's like, so,
He's like, so, what's going on, Coach I broke over

(01:23:58):
with my girlfriend? I see me my So my girlfriend
and I broke up. He said, well, damn son. He
said everything okay, I said, coach, we were both sick.
And he looked at me.

Speaker 3 (01:24:07):
He said, y'all were both I said, yeah, Coach, I
was sick of her and she was sick of me.

Speaker 1 (01:24:14):
Hey, that's a good one. Let me let me let
me tell you something. Let me let me tell you
something I always think about. Obviously, it's it's okay to her,
it's okay to morn it's good. Yeah, it's okay to
be sad when things don't work out. But I tell
min this all the time, when when you're moping and
you're chasing your fighting back to get a woman back
that that you might have been with for a long
time the last time, think about this. When someone leaves you,

(01:24:39):
a woman doesn't want to be with you anymore. I
always see it as one less expense. And I mean
that in the most respectful way possible. I just see
it as one less expense that I have to worry
about that becomes someone else's responsibility. So I've never seen
who want to chase and added an extra bill? Why
why do you want to do that?

Speaker 5 (01:25:00):
I see it in that way, and trying to put
things into perspective in hindsight.

Speaker 1 (01:25:05):
If you if you have one hundred dollars as a dude, right,
if you have one hundred dollars as a dude and
you lose that hundred dollars trying to chase someone because
you have to pay, in which I call transition, transition, transactional, transactional.

Speaker 5 (01:25:20):
Yeah, it doesn't.

Speaker 1 (01:25:21):
It doesn't bring any value to you because it's taking
what you have bring and adding nothing to it.

Speaker 5 (01:25:27):
So why did that you? Why are you hurting?

Speaker 3 (01:25:29):
Why are you sad?

Speaker 5 (01:25:30):
And that's just a small analogy.

Speaker 1 (01:25:32):
And I mean that in the most respectful way possible.
It happens on a small scale, and it happens on
the grand of scale. Depends what you don't look at it,
but you know what it is. It's kind of like
from me, and I don't want and I don't want
people to take this the wrong way. It says I'm
trying to compare a woman to sport, but I'm What
I'm saying is that when you invest something, when you
invest for damn the when I invest my time, my energy, my.

Speaker 2 (01:25:56):
Heart and soul like I did the sport, it hurts
when you lose. So I'm looking at it when I
lose her. I'm hurt you damn right, I'm hurt. Yes,
I cry, and even though I might not sure awkwardly, internally,
I'm in a not I had a young lady telling
me one time, She's like, you're not hurting. I said,

(01:26:20):
what do you mean I'm not hurting? She say, because
when I see you, you're not You're not in a ball.
I said, is that what you want? I said, and
you want me to hurt that bad? I said, you
want me to not be able to function. You don't
want me to be able to go to work. I
was like, I get it, I get it. Yes, I'm
sure I've hurt you. But just because I'm not curled

(01:26:42):
up in a ball, because I'm not in a psych ward,
trust me when I say this, and I say this
in all sincerity, I'm hurting. But I've been able to
compartmentalize because when you become a part, when you become
a professional athlete, the one thing you must be able
to do above all forget because you don't make it
to the level that you make it as a professional athlete.

(01:27:04):
If you can't play, You've got to be able to compartmentalize.
If you cannot come apartmentalize. You can't play it on
the level of the professional sport. You've got to be able,
he says. Okay, I've got this going on being at home.

Speaker 3 (01:27:15):
My wife is.

Speaker 2 (01:27:15):
Gonna go my nerves or my girlfriend. My kids are sick,
my mom is not my mom or my daddy. There's
something going on. I've got to be able to say
that aside for them two and a half hours and
be able to get done when I need to get done,
because you know what, them eighty five thousand fans and
on my forty five teammates, Hey, they depending on me.
They don't want to hear nothing. All they see is
eighty four in the front and sharp on the back,

(01:27:37):
and I need to get it done.

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