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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, this is Sam. This is a John your og
Okay Storytime podcast host and we got some great stories
coming up. Before that, we have a quick two minute
break from the sponsors that keep the show a lot.
My husband cheating on me with two women. He wants
to stay together because he has cancer. Should I stay?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Okay? Sam?
Speaker 3 (00:14):
This has to be the craziest story in Okay Storytime
podcast history.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Well that's because it's dump and weak. And this user writes,
my partner told me when we first got together that
he has cancer and if his operation doesn't go well,
could be terminal. He's currently living with his mom while
he is in recovery, so that it takes the pressure
off me caring for both him and our baby until
he is well enough to move into our new home
with us. Well, last week we had an attempted break in.
(00:39):
I asked my husband, who is supposed to be at
his mom's to come over and change the locks, but
he wouldn't and his mom told me he wasn't with her.
I went to Facebook and it took me less than
an hour to find the first two women he was
cheating on me with.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
What else is he lying about?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
I don't know. John but also first too, not last two.
This story is gonna get messy. Thing my paranoia just
wouldn't let up about was his cancer and his treatments.
I asked his mom about it, who told me, hey,
he doesn't have cancer.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
She also informed me he was in rehab, not the hospital.
Apparently he suffered from addiction and was trying to recover
for me and our baby.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
That's not good news.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Throw him out. I never mentioned to him what I knew.
I assumed it was the embarrassment of wanting to get
clean without me knowing, so he could be a good
partner and dad. I was proud of him forgetting that
help that I never spoke about it.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
We just skipped all the things to work on. The
cheating and everything.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Yeah, you know, I was proud for him, like going
and get rehabbed behind my back after cheating all.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
This tuff man gets the hall Pass of the century.
The bar is so low. The bar is in the
magma in the middle of the Earth.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Dude, it's you know what, below the space time continuum below.
We got to go below the milky make.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
It's in a wormhole, traveling through space. And still this
man is trying to limbo under it. Yeah, and she's
letting him what with his immune disease. His mom explained
how brutal it has been for him and that he
did have chemo a few years back, so maybe that's
why he's confused.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
No, Also, mom, why are you like defending him?
Speaker 1 (02:12):
I mean, you know, sometimes you know, you think, oh,
like that person on facebook's my wife, you know, and
you just gotta you gotta DM them pictures of yours
just just in case. Well, pregnancy brain is a real thing.
Or maybe I'm just too blindly in love emphasis on
the blind because I accepted this and never question it again.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
Ooh, no communication, Okay, no communication.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Yeah, this is not this is not good. This is
not good. After discovering the first two women, oh, I
sent my partner a message telling him to let his
girlfriend know I'm asking after her and not to bother
coming home anymore. Okay, maybe she's putting her foot down
breaking the limbo stick.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
We're all right, we're we're we're flipping it up.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
I like it.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
I like it.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
I guess all right, you can giving me a little whiplash,
but kind kind of whiplash that I like. Take it.
I've had the locks changed from the break in so
he can't get in double wind. He panicked and started
begging me to answer the phone and let him come
see me so he could explain everything. Babe, it was
my sickness brain. I thought she was you.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
It was a nurse, I was. I was so confused.
I thought it was back of the hospital, and then
she was a nurse.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
They said it was an experimental treatment where they just
had to just you know, go crazy on it, you know,
bounce on it craziest style. I started to see everything
through clear eyes for the first time and realized how
long he had been gaslighting me for and told him,
dump him there, it is there, it is. Dump him
in the ground, get him there. Put a hole that
(03:45):
go straight to the magma chambers of the earth. Go
kick him in there Sparta style.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
And then we'll fart him into the wormhole.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Fart yeah, put him into the wormhole. He doesn't deserve
to be in the same universe as Yes. Realizing he
couldn't get through to me and now aware I was
trying to contact his girlfriend, he panicked and went to
her instead, got a backup home. During that time, I
found a photo U oh, is it a spicy photo
she had shared of the two of them and shared
(04:14):
it to my profile Petty with the caption can someone
please ask this woman to contact me? Yeah, I'm so
Op wants to contact the girlfriend because she wants to
tell the truth of the web of lies. She's she's
put it on blast. She's like, the truth will set
(04:36):
you free, and she's trying to spread that truth far
and wide every face. Yeah. Yeah, maybe throw it into
the wormhole too, Yeah, so everyone can know. She instantly
blocked me. Maybe she knew, but her sister got in
touch with me instead. Apparently the family has never trusted
him and knew something was wrong.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
That also means that they were deep in the relationship.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Yeah, the family even knew.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
This wasn't just a flame, this was a girlfriend. Also, like,
oh pee, how do you not see these red flag
like old guys?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Family knew super quick. Personal Okay, storytime. I know of
a person who had a wife and family for five
years and.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
A separate wife and family, a second family, which was
the practice one.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
The person I know was the practice.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
That was the practice family.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
He would come home with glitter and he said, oh
I did Sunday arts and school. You know a Sunday
school arts and crafts with his other kids, or with
strippers with That's who it really was. Whoa but he
had a family with a stripper.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Not a no.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
So he was going to the strip club even with
the wife at home and.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
The girlfriend, the whole practice family.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Yeah, he was crazy.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Oh but maybe he would find a stripper with the
heart of gold. Anyway, back to this story, this affair
is serious enough to have met the family man is
a full time juggler. She says he has told her
not to speak to me as I'm deranged stalker. He
slept with once years ago and has been and hunting
him down, trying to convince people my baby is his.
(06:04):
The gas lighting is unrail.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Yeah that is. That's some other of your child, and
you're telling people.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
God, dude, that's just some girl. I don't know what
you're to do. What what information do you have? Bro?
I think you're off You're off base.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
We've got to figure out something.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
You're de range. You need to be put on block.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Apparently.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
I sent her a photo of the birth certificate Wow
and us in hospital together, Ah to show her sister
before he can lie to her anymore. Photoshop During this,
I am also messaging another woman who is furious at
what he has done and is helping me with all
the information she is aware of. Yes, you nights, Yes,
(06:41):
Powerpuff Girls, take this guy down. We want this, Yes,
we want this.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
You know, sugar, spice and everything nice emphasis on the
spice spice.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Yeah, there's not much nice here, but maybe you know,
through the power of cheating, new friendships can occur. It's
a beautiful thing, you know, I fairly love and a
hopeless place. It's gonna be all them when they feel
how they realize how much they love each other. I mean,
there's a reason that they all connected with this guy.
They probably have a lot in common.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
It could be the burgeoning of the greatest friendships the
world has ever known through the most unlikely of circumstances.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Yeah, yeah, that's that. Let's think positive lemons. She tells
me he broke her heart by cheating on her without
even knowing he was cheating on me too. Also, if
you're new here, there are multiple parts of the stories,
and make sure to follow us on iHeart and Apple podcasts.
And we're gonna get back into this story. But it
(07:36):
gets a little crazier. It gets a little crazy, and
just to recap for everyone, a woman is confronting a
man for gaslighting her about being the father and reaches
out to others for support, and those others being this
woman who is now like the guy is living with
and has is so deep that he's met this girl's
whole family family and another girl that's like, oh, I
(07:57):
didn't know he was cheating on me with bol of you,
op and this woman that met the family yep.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
The wife and the two mistresses.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
Yeah, who's the most Mistressy like, well, who's the most wife?
And who's I mean, it's.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Gotta be the third dude.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
The third person is just sad man because like he's
got the baby with OPI, he's now living at home
with the second.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
The third's just getting scraps.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Yeah, just scraps, you know nothing. Yeah, well so far.
So now OPI's constructing a timeline. So far, I have
the current timeline Chemo in March, a nineteen year old
rehab in April, so he met the girl in rehab July,
a woman of an appropriate age this time, but also
cheating on her. August now his twenty year old girlfriend.
(08:39):
I then find out his emergency cancer medication that he had,
so he had to leave in the middle of labor
crazy because of there was two failed epidurals. Opie was
screaming and agning, begginging doctors to help because I thought
I was passing away while the emergency team rushed in
to place extra monitors on our baby in distress. But
that was an actually huge turn on for him, so
(09:00):
he needed to go sleep with a twenty year old
before making it back in time to kiss me before
I went into emergency surgery.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Bro left in the middle of not only not only
his baby's birth, but his wife is like emergency mode.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
He left in the middle of that to go give
me his chick.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
He just needs a little afternoon delight.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
A afternoon delight, My god.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
This is the most, without a doubt, the most horrendous
case of afternoon delight in humanity.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
I actually I can't think of a worse one right now.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
No worse examples.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Yeah, please let me know if you have a worse example.
This is this is pretty bad comment below.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
You can't beat it.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
You go ahead it. You can't beat it, Harry, But
I hope no one can beat it. Well, this was Sunday.
It is now Saturday. The following week, I made a
post on Facebook calling out my partner for his actions
with photographs, medical notes, and evidence, and asking people to
leave me alone. On Tuesday, after forty eight hours of
no sleep, multiple calls to the crisis team, and a
barrage hacraftsment from his friends and family who want to
(10:02):
sue me for character defamation OPI as the receipts sue.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Ah, dude, you have the audacity to round up losses
ageinzer stop it.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Yeah, get out of here. I need to get out
of here.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Dude needs to go down. I can't wait. I can't wait.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
Hey, it's Sam, your og host here. We're gonna get
back to the stories. But here's three minutes of ads
from our sponsors. Well, if this was a regular affair,
I'd lick my wounds and move on. But I have
now learnt. I have been leaving my daughter alone with
a substance regular user who is claiming he doesn't know
me or his daughters to others, but demanding custody rights
(10:38):
to me. So publicly, he's saying that's not my kid. Privately,
he's like, I still want to see my kids.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
It's go time. I think it's go time.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
He just wants to be a good dad.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
He's like, Hey, I have my daughter. I need to
know women as much as possible. How can I know
I do only have one wife.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
I have to have three women to understand women enough
to raise.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
Me exactly he's getting, He's getting a sample size, you know,
he's ensuring that he does understand, like women's are like diamonds, multifaceted,
and he needs He only has three facets, I mean,
fat army. How many facets is a normal diamond? Twenty
He's far from his final form, Dude.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
He's trying to go to VVS as far as you
can go VVS.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
That's like the highest quality, like clear diamond.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Sham Man's in a relationship. Deep yeah, maybe, well he
doesn't know Melah tens.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Oh we were joking.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Oh Man has the facets. Tens tens of women. Tens
of women have now come forward who have also dated
him during our relationship with no idea of me or
each other. Tens.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
At a certain point, you have to respect the game game.
That's insane, Like, bro, if you had applied this to.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
Anything else, he would be a millionaire.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
He would be.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
He would be the president.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
Suit, he would be the president.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
He's kissing babies and making them the president of mistresses.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
Oh, my God, make every baby he has to kiss them.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Man, his gang is caught over here. He's gonna be
repopulating the earth. Holy, his seed is spreading far and wide.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Tens.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
The scheduling of that alone, I mean, is mythical again,
like he would be the greatest, like organizer logistics coo
in Hyeah mystery. I can barely talk to ten friends
in a week. To have ten mistresses, you need to
hire him for all your new day. Oh, I know
I'm gonna go on to Hinge dates.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Recently he's about to catch a client contract.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
Yeah, hopefully catch nothing else. Oh, tens of women I've
now come forward who've also dated him during our relationship,
with no idea of me or each other. This obviously
is really upseting understatement of this to reap. But what
upsets me the most is that I'm beginning to notice
a very word being patterned.
Speaker 3 (13:01):
Hmm, more than we already have to worry, Okay, more
than okay? What man is the onion of terribleness?
Speaker 1 (13:10):
True? You just keep peeling layers layers and you're like, Oh,
it can't possibly be worse than this, And it's moldier,
it's stinkier, it's more disturbing with every layer.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
I don't understand.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
What's your guess on what could be possibly more worrying
than everything that we've seen before.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
He left a trail of some spicy diseases.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
I mean, honestly, I feel like it's worse their wife foos.
Riley says their wife foos. I'm fine with a couple
of wife foods.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
Oh is he no? I see? Are they all the
same type of woman?
Speaker 1 (13:42):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Basically does he have a type?
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Type?
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Does he have a type?
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Yeah? I guess that would feel pretty bad where it
was like, guy just has a type and they like
all look the same as twenty clones. It's twenty clones,
because then I would be like, not only is he
cheating on me, but he's I'm like common enough to
find twenty of me. Yeah, yeah, that would feel bad.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Oh I'm not ready for this, but I am.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
But let us know what your guesses are in the comments.
No cheating, don't ahead, no cheating you okay? Well, but
what upsets me the most is that I began to
notice a very worrying pattern. He has told every single
one of these women that he has cancer and can't
get them pregnant. Man's trying to raw dog his way
(14:26):
to Genghis Khan fame. I think that's kind of what
it is, kind of Yeah, yeah, he's farming.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
I remember he was like, Oh, I'm pregnant now, whoa.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Yeah, whoa. I said, my labor and delivery was difficult.
I was induced due to an infection I had. My
GP had told me I had an SDI, and although
I understood and took the treatment and was induced, my
madly in love pregnancy brain never accepted it as an
SDI until I went back this week and checked my
(14:54):
hospital discharge notes and they're in big bold letters sensitive
Partner SDI. So the doctor's knew I called it, but
I'm not happy you did call it.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
I did call you.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
That's a little bit of a Reddit guru right there.
But you don't feel great about it. I feel like, yeah,
it's like saying the end is nigh and then like
you know, a meteor hits the planet and you're like, oh,
well I was right.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
But yeah, yeah, just the.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
Cloud of just terribleness. Ash everywhere and Magma hits you.
If only Opie's husband was in there, then I would
be fair. Yeah, yeah, it is not good. Well, at
least he has whatever she has. You know, I'll be
having what she's having. And uh, that's one thing you
don't want to share. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's not caring.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Well. Also, if you're new here, there are multiple parts
of the story, so make sure to follow us. Okay,
story Time podcast on the iHeart app or Apple podcasts. Okay,
back to this story. So he's been telling women that
he has cancer and can't get the pregnant so they
don't use protection, which led to an STI which almost
unalived me and his daughter in labor. And he wasn't
even there to be with us because he was sleeping
(16:02):
with a girl who also believes he has cancer. Bro.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
Actually, like in real reality worlds needs to go to
jail for, like he needs to be sentenced for, Like
lifetime isn't enough.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
It has to be like thousands.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
Of years, thousands of years, like just so many years
in prison, so many locked in a box.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
I think I was gonna say, like hopefully not with
everyone else. We don't want those things spreading. I mean
I think, bro get out. We can't put him around
any human. Yeah. Man, the man is going to get
after whatever he sees in front. We can't have it.
Box walls, lock bo. Maybe he has holes in the walls.
Just you know, we can't give I think I think,
you know, no pillows, No, no pillows, No wife who pillows?
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Definitely not bos.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
I don't know. I think I would like to give
him one hole. He's human. He's human after all.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
If I can give him five thousand years, no, no hole,
absolutely not zero, no no hole. This judge is saying
no holes. All right, let us know if that jurisdiction
is uncalled for. Well, I decided to let everyone know
that he in fact does not have cancer by using
a screenshot of his mom's messages, all the women he
(17:10):
has slept with to make sure they take a pregnancy
and SDI test, and all of his friends who he's
been guilty for years over his condition, and also social
services and the police for spicy related endangerment. Yes, fuck,
we're getting them. It's the house of cards is tumbling.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Yeah, and we are clapping back on the man with
the clap Yeah. Well god me my daughter now have
safeguarding in place for us from a local organization for
women leaving abusive relationships. So I feel very safe to
reveal the truth about him and make sure all of
his partners are safe and informed. As he couldn't uphold
(17:48):
his legal obligation of declaring SDI, I guess his postpartum
girlfriend will do it for him. I've also had contact
from many of his old friends, band members, band members.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
Let's delete page. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
I hope he has zero listeners on Spotify, yeah, and
ex partners who have all given me testimonies to use
for the police and then as backup for if his
mother does, in fact try to assume me. This man
has been a lying and manipulating women for over nine years.
Nine years nine years man probably a lot. Again, we
(18:21):
didn't say it wasn't like ten women. It was tense.
It was tense, and that could be up to nine tens.
Speaker 2 (18:28):
I mean, I think he could have ten children, or
like I.
Speaker 1 (18:31):
Think he more he's sleeping with all of them, unprotected
or trying trying. Yeah, so far everyone is now aware
of his lies, and I'm waiting for my in person
meeting with the police.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
Good.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
I'm also preparing for the good battle. Yes. Oh, also,
my partner is a primary school teacher. Man should not
be teaching the youth. Get him away, Yeah, I'm away.
Speaker 2 (18:56):
Well, definitely getting fired, so that's good.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
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Hey, this is Sam. This is a John your og
Okay Storytime podcast host and we got some great stories
coming up. Before that, we have a quick two minute
break from the sponsors that keep the show a lot.
My husband cheating on me with two women. He wants
to stay together because he has cancer. Should I stay?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Okay? Sam?
Speaker 3 (00:14):
This has to be the craziest story in Okay Storytime
podcast history.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Well that's because it's dump and weak. And this user writes,
my partner told me when we first got together that
he has cancer and if his operation doesn't go well,
could be terminal. He's currently living with his mom while
he is in recovery, so that it takes the pressure
off me caring for both him and our baby until
he is well enough to move into our new home
with us. Well, last week we had an attempted break in.
(00:39):
I asked my husband, who is supposed to be at
his mom's to come over and change the locks, but
he wouldn't and his mom told me he wasn't with her.
I went to Facebook and it took me less than
an hour to find the first two women he was
cheating on me with.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
What else is he lying about?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
I don't know. John but also first too, not last two.
This story is gonna get messy. Thing my paranoia just
wouldn't let up about was his cancer and his treatments.
I asked his mom about it, who told me, hey,
he doesn't have cancer.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
She also informed me he was in rehab, not the hospital.
Apparently he suffered from addiction and was trying to recover
for me and our baby.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
That's not good news.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Throw him out. I never mentioned to him what I knew.
I assumed it was the embarrassment of wanting to get
clean without me knowing, so he could be a good
partner and dad. I was proud of him forgetting that
help that I never spoke about it.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
We just skipped all the things to work on. The
cheating and everything.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Yeah, you know, I was proud for him, like going
and get rehabbed behind my back after cheating all.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
This tuff man gets the hall Pass of the century.
The bar is so low. The bar is in the
magma in the middle of the Earth.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Dude, it's you know what, below the space time continuum below.
We got to go below the milky make.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
It's in a wormhole, traveling through space. And still this
man is trying to limbo under it. Yeah, and she's
letting him what with his immune disease. His mom explained
how brutal it has been for him and that he
did have chemo a few years back, so maybe that's
why he's confused.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
No, Also, mom, why are you like defending him?
Speaker 1 (02:12):
I mean, you know, sometimes you know, you think, oh,
like that person on facebook's my wife, you know, and
you just gotta you gotta DM them pictures of yours
just just in case. Well, pregnancy brain is a real thing.
Or maybe I'm just too blindly in love emphasis on
the blind because I accepted this and never question it again.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
Ooh, no communication, Okay, no communication.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Yeah, this is not this is not good. This is
not good. After discovering the first two women, oh, I
sent my partner a message telling him to let his
girlfriend know I'm asking after her and not to bother
coming home anymore. Okay, maybe she's putting her foot down
breaking the limbo stick.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
We're all right, we're we're we're flipping it up.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
I like it.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
I like it.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
I guess all right, you can giving me a little whiplash,
but kind kind of whiplash that I like. Take it.
I've had the locks changed from the break in so
he can't get in double wind. He panicked and started
begging me to answer the phone and let him come
see me so he could explain everything. Babe, it was
my sickness brain. I thought she was you.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
It was a nurse, I was. I was so confused.
I thought it was back of the hospital, and then
she was a nurse.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
They said it was an experimental treatment where they just
had to just you know, go crazy on it, you know,
bounce on it craziest style. I started to see everything
through clear eyes for the first time and realized how
long he had been gaslighting me for and told him,
dump him there, it is there, it is. Dump him
in the ground, get him there. Put a hole that
(03:45):
go straight to the magma chambers of the earth. Go
kick him in there Sparta style.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
And then we'll fart him into the wormhole.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Fart yeah, put him into the wormhole. He doesn't deserve
to be in the same universe as Yes. Realizing he
couldn't get through to me and now aware I was
trying to contact his girlfriend, he panicked and went to
her instead, got a backup home. During that time, I
found a photo U oh, is it a spicy photo
she had shared of the two of them and shared
(04:14):
it to my profile Petty with the caption can someone
please ask this woman to contact me? Yeah, I'm so
Op wants to contact the girlfriend because she wants to
tell the truth of the web of lies. She's she's
put it on blast. She's like, the truth will set
(04:36):
you free, and she's trying to spread that truth far
and wide every face. Yeah. Yeah, maybe throw it into
the wormhole too, Yeah, so everyone can know. She instantly
blocked me. Maybe she knew, but her sister got in
touch with me instead. Apparently the family has never trusted
him and knew something was wrong.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
That also means that they were deep in the relationship.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Yeah, the family even knew.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
This wasn't just a flame, this was a girlfriend. Also, like,
oh pee, how do you not see these red flag
like old guys?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Family knew super quick. Personal Okay, storytime. I know of
a person who had a wife and family for five
years and.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
A separate wife and family, a second family, which was
the practice one.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
The person I know was the practice.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
That was the practice family.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
He would come home with glitter and he said, oh
I did Sunday arts and school. You know a Sunday
school arts and crafts with his other kids, or with
strippers with That's who it really was. Whoa but he
had a family with a stripper.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Not a no.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
So he was going to the strip club even with
the wife at home and.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
The girlfriend, the whole practice family.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Yeah, he was crazy.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Oh but maybe he would find a stripper with the
heart of gold. Anyway, back to this story, this affair
is serious enough to have met the family man is
a full time juggler. She says he has told her
not to speak to me as I'm deranged stalker. He
slept with once years ago and has been and hunting
him down, trying to convince people my baby is his.
(06:04):
The gas lighting is unrail.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Yeah that is. That's some other of your child, and
you're telling people.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
God, dude, that's just some girl. I don't know what
you're to do. What what information do you have? Bro?
I think you're off You're off base.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
We've got to figure out something.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
You're de range. You need to be put on block.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Apparently.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
I sent her a photo of the birth certificate Wow
and us in hospital together, Ah to show her sister
before he can lie to her anymore. Photoshop During this,
I am also messaging another woman who is furious at
what he has done and is helping me with all
the information she is aware of. Yes, you nights, Yes,
(06:41):
Powerpuff Girls, take this guy down. We want this, Yes,
we want this.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
You know, sugar, spice and everything nice emphasis on the
spice spice.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Yeah, there's not much nice here, but maybe you know,
through the power of cheating, new friendships can occur. It's
a beautiful thing, you know, I fairly love and a
hopeless place. It's gonna be all them when they feel
how they realize how much they love each other. I mean,
there's a reason that they all connected with this guy.
They probably have a lot in common.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
It could be the burgeoning of the greatest friendships the
world has ever known through the most unlikely of circumstances.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Yeah, yeah, that's that. Let's think positive lemons. She tells
me he broke her heart by cheating on her without
even knowing he was cheating on me too. Also, if
you're new here, there are multiple parts of the stories,
and make sure to follow us on iHeart and Apple podcasts.
And we're gonna get back into this story. But it
(07:36):
gets a little crazier. It gets a little crazy, and
just to recap for everyone, a woman is confronting a
man for gaslighting her about being the father and reaches
out to others for support, and those others being this
woman who is now like the guy is living with
and has is so deep that he's met this girl's
whole family family and another girl that's like, oh, I
(07:57):
didn't know he was cheating on me with bol of you,
op and this woman that met the family yep.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
The wife and the two mistresses.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
Yeah, who's the most Mistressy like, well, who's the most wife?
And who's I mean, it's.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Gotta be the third dude.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
The third person is just sad man because like he's
got the baby with OPI, he's now living at home
with the second.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
The third's just getting scraps.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Yeah, just scraps, you know nothing. Yeah, well so far.
So now OPI's constructing a timeline. So far, I have
the current timeline Chemo in March, a nineteen year old
rehab in April, so he met the girl in rehab July,
a woman of an appropriate age this time, but also
cheating on her. August now his twenty year old girlfriend.
(08:39):
I then find out his emergency cancer medication that he had,
so he had to leave in the middle of labor
crazy because of there was two failed epidurals. Opie was
screaming and agning, begginging doctors to help because I thought
I was passing away while the emergency team rushed in
to place extra monitors on our baby in distress. But
that was an actually huge turn on for him, so
(09:00):
he needed to go sleep with a twenty year old
before making it back in time to kiss me before
I went into emergency surgery.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Bro left in the middle of not only not only
his baby's birth, but his wife is like emergency mode.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
He left in the middle of that to go give
me his chick.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
He just needs a little afternoon delight.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
A afternoon delight, My god.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
This is the most, without a doubt, the most horrendous
case of afternoon delight in humanity.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
I actually I can't think of a worse one right now.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
No worse examples.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Yeah, please let me know if you have a worse example.
This is this is pretty bad comment below.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
You can't beat it.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
You go ahead it. You can't beat it, Harry, But
I hope no one can beat it. Well, this was Sunday.
It is now Saturday. The following week, I made a
post on Facebook calling out my partner for his actions
with photographs, medical notes, and evidence, and asking people to
leave me alone. On Tuesday, after forty eight hours of
no sleep, multiple calls to the crisis team, and a
barrage hacraftsment from his friends and family who want to
(10:02):
sue me for character defamation OPI as the receipts sue.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Ah, dude, you have the audacity to round up losses
ageinzer stop it.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Yeah, get out of here. I need to get out
of here.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Dude needs to go down. I can't wait. I can't wait.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
Hey, it's Sam, your og host here. We're gonna get
back to the stories. But here's three minutes of ads
from our sponsors. Well, if this was a regular affair,
I'd lick my wounds and move on. But I have
now learnt. I have been leaving my daughter alone with
a substance regular user who is claiming he doesn't know
me or his daughters to others, but demanding custody rights
(10:38):
to me. So publicly, he's saying that's not my kid. Privately,
he's like, I still want to see my kids.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
It's go time. I think it's go time.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
He just wants to be a good dad.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
He's like, Hey, I have my daughter. I need to
know women as much as possible. How can I know
I do only have one wife.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
I have to have three women to understand women enough
to raise.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
Me exactly he's getting, He's getting a sample size, you know,
he's ensuring that he does understand, like women's are like diamonds, multifaceted,
and he needs He only has three facets, I mean,
fat army. How many facets is a normal diamond? Twenty
He's far from his final form, Dude.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
He's trying to go to VVS as far as you
can go VVS.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
That's like the highest quality, like clear diamond.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Sham Man's in a relationship. Deep yeah, maybe, well he
doesn't know Melah tens.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Oh we were joking.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Oh Man has the facets. Tens tens of women. Tens
of women have now come forward who have also dated
him during our relationship with no idea of me or
each other. Tens.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
At a certain point, you have to respect the game game.
That's insane, Like, bro, if you had applied this to.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
Anything else, he would be a millionaire.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
He would be.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
He would be the president.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
Suit, he would be the president.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
He's kissing babies and making them the president of mistresses.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
Oh, my God, make every baby he has to kiss them.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Man, his gang is caught over here. He's gonna be
repopulating the earth. Holy, his seed is spreading far and wide.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Tens.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
The scheduling of that alone, I mean, is mythical again,
like he would be the greatest, like organizer logistics coo
in Hyeah mystery. I can barely talk to ten friends
in a week. To have ten mistresses, you need to
hire him for all your new day. Oh, I know
I'm gonna go on to Hinge dates.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Recently he's about to catch a client contract.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
Yeah, hopefully catch nothing else. Oh, tens of women I've
now come forward who've also dated him during our relationship,
with no idea of me or each other. This obviously
is really upseting understatement of this to reap. But what
upsets me the most is that I'm beginning to notice
a very word being patterned.
Speaker 3 (13:01):
Hmm, more than we already have to worry, Okay, more
than okay? What man is the onion of terribleness?
Speaker 1 (13:10):
True? You just keep peeling layers layers and you're like, Oh,
it can't possibly be worse than this, And it's moldier,
it's stinkier, it's more disturbing with every layer.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
I don't understand.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
What's your guess on what could be possibly more worrying
than everything that we've seen before.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
He left a trail of some spicy diseases.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
I mean, honestly, I feel like it's worse their wife foos.
Riley says their wife foos. I'm fine with a couple
of wife foods.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
Oh is he no? I see? Are they all the
same type of woman?
Speaker 1 (13:42):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Basically does he have a type?
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Type?
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Does he have a type?
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Yeah? I guess that would feel pretty bad where it
was like, guy just has a type and they like
all look the same as twenty clones. It's twenty clones,
because then I would be like, not only is he
cheating on me, but he's I'm like common enough to
find twenty of me. Yeah, yeah, that would feel bad.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Oh I'm not ready for this, but I am.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
But let us know what your guesses are in the comments.
No cheating, don't ahead, no cheating you okay? Well, but
what upsets me the most is that I began to
notice a very worrying pattern. He has told every single
one of these women that he has cancer and can't
get them pregnant. Man's trying to raw dog his way
(14:26):
to Genghis Khan fame. I think that's kind of what
it is, kind of Yeah, yeah, he's farming.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
I remember he was like, Oh, I'm pregnant now, whoa.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Yeah, whoa. I said, my labor and delivery was difficult.
I was induced due to an infection I had. My
GP had told me I had an SDI, and although
I understood and took the treatment and was induced, my
madly in love pregnancy brain never accepted it as an
SDI until I went back this week and checked my
(14:54):
hospital discharge notes and they're in big bold letters sensitive
Partner SDI. So the doctor's knew I called it, but
I'm not happy you did call it.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
I did call you.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
That's a little bit of a Reddit guru right there.
But you don't feel great about it. I feel like, yeah,
it's like saying the end is nigh and then like
you know, a meteor hits the planet and you're like, oh,
well I was right.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
But yeah, yeah, just the.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
Cloud of just terribleness. Ash everywhere and Magma hits you.
If only Opie's husband was in there, then I would
be fair. Yeah, yeah, it is not good. Well, at
least he has whatever she has. You know, I'll be
having what she's having. And uh, that's one thing you
don't want to share. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's not caring.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Well. Also, if you're new here, there are multiple parts
of the story, so make sure to follow us. Okay,
story Time podcast on the iHeart app or Apple podcasts. Okay,
back to this story. So he's been telling women that
he has cancer and can't get the pregnant so they
don't use protection, which led to an STI which almost
unalived me and his daughter in labor. And he wasn't
even there to be with us because he was sleeping
(16:02):
with a girl who also believes he has cancer. Bro.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
Actually, like in real reality worlds needs to go to
jail for, like he needs to be sentenced for, Like
lifetime isn't enough.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
It has to be like thousands.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
Of years, thousands of years, like just so many years
in prison, so many locked in a box.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
I think I was gonna say, like hopefully not with
everyone else. We don't want those things spreading. I mean
I think, bro get out. We can't put him around
any human. Yeah. Man, the man is going to get
after whatever he sees in front. We can't have it.
Box walls, lock bo. Maybe he has holes in the walls.
Just you know, we can't give I think I think,
you know, no pillows, No, no pillows, No wife who pillows?
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Definitely not bos.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
I don't know. I think I would like to give
him one hole. He's human. He's human after all.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
If I can give him five thousand years, no, no hole,
absolutely not zero, no no hole. This judge is saying
no holes. All right, let us know if that jurisdiction
is uncalled for. Well, I decided to let everyone know
that he in fact does not have cancer by using
a screenshot of his mom's messages, all the women he
(17:10):
has slept with to make sure they take a pregnancy
and SDI test, and all of his friends who he's
been guilty for years over his condition, and also social
services and the police for spicy related endangerment. Yes, fuck,
we're getting them. It's the house of cards is tumbling.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Yeah, and we are clapping back on the man with
the clap Yeah. Well god me my daughter now have
safeguarding in place for us from a local organization for
women leaving abusive relationships. So I feel very safe to
reveal the truth about him and make sure all of
his partners are safe and informed. As he couldn't uphold
(17:48):
his legal obligation of declaring SDI, I guess his postpartum
girlfriend will do it for him. I've also had contact
from many of his old friends, band members, band members.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
Let's delete page. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
I hope he has zero listeners on Spotify, yeah, and
ex partners who have all given me testimonies to use
for the police and then as backup for if his
mother does, in fact try to assume me. This man
has been a lying and manipulating women for over nine years.
Nine years nine years man probably a lot. Again, we
(18:21):
didn't say it wasn't like ten women. It was tense.
It was tense, and that could be up to nine tens.
Speaker 2 (18:28):
I mean, I think he could have ten children, or
like I.
Speaker 1 (18:31):
Think he more he's sleeping with all of them, unprotected
or trying trying. Yeah, so far everyone is now aware
of his lies, and I'm waiting for my in person
meeting with the police.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
Good.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
I'm also preparing for the good battle. Yes. Oh, also,
my partner is a primary school teacher. Man should not
be teaching the youth. Get him away, Yeah, I'm away.
Speaker 2 (18:56):
Well, definitely getting fired, so that's good.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
Yeah, oh my goodness. Okay, So, if you're new here,
this is our podcast, Okay, story time. This is just
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