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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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with her male best friend.

Speaker 2 (00:22):
Not a joke.

Speaker 3 (00:23):
My girlfriend, Jenna and I have been together for a
little over two years. I'm a veterinarian, and we met
at my office. She had just moved to the city
and brought her dog in for an ear infection. We
started talking and what should have been a fifteen minute
appointment turned into an hour long talking session.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
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Delated and if you want to submit your own stories,
go to our slash Okay story Times. So I read it,
so I've never been so smitten with a woman before.
Before Jenna, I lived the bachelor lifestyle. I was beginning
to think I'd stay single for even though that lifestyle
of nothing but casual flings is growing really old and empty.

(01:05):
Though we know it. Jenna is a charismatic woman with
a lot of friends. Her best friend is a guy Dylan,
she knew in her old town. I trust Jenna, but
I'd be bold faced lying if I told her that
her relationship with him doesn't bother me at all. I
don't get angry with her or fight about it. She's
reassured me that they've been friends their whole lives and

(01:28):
have never had any spicy related relationship. I'm secure and
I'm not insane, so I accept that they were friends
and have tried to buddy up with him as well.
He's visited the city three times. He's a cool guy. However,
he does not seem to like me much. M Jenna
says he's just protective. Comes off a whole lot more

(01:52):
like jealousy though than protectiveness, in my opinion. Jenna just
finished up grad school this spring, but she's had a
really tough time a job. We have lived together for
a year and have been understanding that she can't help
pay rent, etcetera.

Speaker 2 (02:05):
Right now.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
I'm very financially secure, all right, mister Vetch, So it
isn't an issue. However, I am careful to not become
a reason for her to not get a job and
have her own financial independence. I just think it's important
for everyone to have this sort of independence. Agreed, Agreed, Aka,
I don't want to pay for it, got you? I

(02:27):
just yeah, So, without being pushy, I let her know
that she does need to start paying half of the
expenses once she secures a job. Anyway, she texted me
at work on Monday to tell me she got a job.
Oh it's a job she really really wanted and had
to go through some pretty grueling interviews to get. I

(02:48):
was so happy and proud of her that decided to
leave the rest of the day at the office to
my staff and took off early without telling Jenna. I
bought her favorite boot, grabbed a bunch of Chinese take
out her favorite, and bought her flowers.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
I had bought her a.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
Nice necklace that she'd seen at a store a couple
of weeks ago. Nothing super extravagant, but it has a
shark on it, and that woman is just obsessed with
anything to do with sharks. That's cute, adorable. I'd hidden
it in the basement and figured i'd give it to
her soon, totally surprise her once she'd forgotten about seeing
it in the store. I got home are we seeing?

Speaker 2 (03:24):
Are we seeing? In a little ice?

Speaker 4 (03:26):
You?

Speaker 2 (03:26):
John?

Speaker 3 (03:30):
I really hope, I really hope I'm not seeing what
I write. I want to see what I don't want
to see.

Speaker 2 (03:35):
Who.

Speaker 3 (03:36):
But I got home and came in the side entrance
to the basement so I could grab the necklace and
then surprise her. When I came up the basement steps
and opened the door, I could hear her talking on
the phone.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
Okay, normally I wouldn't.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
Stop and listen, but I heard her laughing uncontrollably like
Belly laughing. M It was pretty cute, So I figured
I wait for her to get off the phone before
I surprised her.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
I think we're about to see some unintentional eavesdropping about
to happen.

Speaker 2 (04:08):
She was talking to Dylan. Hmmm, hey, laughing is not
a crime. Yeah, no, we're fine.

Speaker 3 (04:21):
Do you have any you have any reason to not
like the Laughfia's staring so he has given me that
she's got the old stay guy. That she was talking
to Dylan, nothing new, nothing new there. They talk at
least once a week. Then I heard what they were
laughing about. It took me a few dole minutes to
realize she was laughing about our spicy sleep life. Oh no,

(04:48):
she said something about how, no, he can't even compare
to ex boyfriend. Ex boyfriend had at least three inches
on it.

Speaker 1 (05:00):
Oh my god, yikes, yikes, O got inches.

Speaker 2 (05:09):
Damn.

Speaker 1 (05:10):
I mean that's that's a lot, even in high Yeah,
exactly light.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
That's a lot. Three inches, man for something starting a
three geeze crazy? Oh man, Oh dude, not still recovering.
That is a rough one. That's tough, man, that's tough.
That's tough. That's tough. That's tough. Hey, you know, there's

(05:35):
always the gym.

Speaker 3 (05:36):
So I feel bad every time I eat a baby.
Oh no, oh no, I feel bad every time I
eat a baby carring around him because it must be
so traumatic to see me chomping down on something the
same size as him.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
Mm hmm. That's rough. It is a little bit tragically hilarious.

Speaker 1 (06:09):
Oh oh god, I feel so bad for him. Oh god,
this this sucks.

Speaker 2 (06:22):
This Ah dang, dude. A tank can't can't grow, that's
not that's not what mother nature intend.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
Mother nature intended for carrots to that. That is that's
fruit from from the earth right there. Yeah, carrot. It's like,
I will not get back to reality. I will stay crazy. Try, Sophia, Try.
It would almost be cute if it didn't suck so much.
His body is amazing as long as he keeps his

(06:51):
boxers on. I don't give a craft what people on
Reddit think about the size of my member, but I
do think it's important to say that what she was
making fun of wasn't even true.

Speaker 2 (07:05):
Old on, Wait a minute, which.

Speaker 3 (07:07):
In my opinion makes it even more hurtful. I mean,
I don't know about the ex boyfriend. Maybe he was
a horse, but I'm very average, just good old fashioned average.
Not going to up sell myself here. It's nothing to
write home about. But it's also not laughable. I've never
felt self conscious. It is what it is. But to

(07:30):
hear her ripping me apart to this guy that she
knows I have some concern about was just beyond hurtful.
Hurtful doesn't cover it. She also made fun of me
for being gorgeous.

Speaker 2 (07:40):
But not super smart. All right, all right, really quick, yep,
talk to me. I mean, this is pretty bad. It's
so bad. It's pretty bad. This is pretty good. So
it's wow so whack so whack.

Speaker 3 (07:54):
Yeah, And Jellybud did some quick math for us. So
he's a five and the other guy's an eight.

Speaker 2 (08:00):
There you go. Thanks for the quick math, Jellbos for
the quick math.

Speaker 1 (08:03):
Crunching those numbers over there like a baby carrots doing
the lord, doing the lord's work.

Speaker 3 (08:11):
I really think this is this is one violation of
trust to just really cruel and mean cruel. Maybe, I like,
I feel like I wouldn't want to be with a
person that thought this little of me one hundred and
you know what.

Speaker 1 (08:27):
I think, like, you know, if a woman is like,
you know, not satisfied in the bedroom, I do think
that's like a such an unfortunate predicament. It's such an
awkward thing to bring up and whatnot. So I feel,
I feel, I feel for people in that perspective, but
there are so many other and also this does not
accomplish satisfying her more all this does, if anything, it's

(08:50):
like the exact.

Speaker 3 (08:51):
That's confident, you know, yeah, yeah, it's not gonna but
I but I feel like her goal isn't for them
to have a better spicy sleep.

Speaker 1 (08:58):
I think her goal is to bomb with Dylan. Oh
wait she is, do we know for sure? If she's
telling us to Dylan or I thought, for sure, alfriend.

Speaker 3 (09:11):
I'm highly educated. This isn't even remotely a concern of mine.
I know I'm smart, gorgeous, and super smart with an
average size wiener. Thanks very much, Let's go stand on business,
Stand on business fully erect. I left after that. Did
I throw the flowers out of my car window?

Speaker 2 (09:32):
Yes? Did I cry in up parking lot? Yes?

Speaker 3 (09:37):
I think she may have heard the basement door close,
maybe even saw my car driving away, because she started
texting me pretty quickly after I left, asking me when
I was coming home. That was Monday, and I haven't
brought it up.

Speaker 2 (09:49):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (09:49):
I think I'm still processing everything. It's horribly embarrassing and hurtful,
but dang, I love this girl right not saying I'm
going to forgive her necessarily, I just want to stress
how hard this whole thing is for me. I know
I need to bring it up to her, but how
any suggestions on how to start a conversation with her.
I'm extremely hurt and I don't know if I can

(10:09):
forgive her for this.

Speaker 2 (10:11):
We haven't edit.

Speaker 3 (10:12):
We haven't edit, but right now, let us talk about
what we think we should do here? Is this just
talk about it. Is this a breakup than talk or
a talk and then maybe break up?

Speaker 2 (10:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (10:23):
I think he has to sit her down and be like, hey,
I heard the whole conversation and that was absolutely awful
to have to listen to. And I feel like doodoo
and maybe even just starting there, like just saying like, hey,
I heard this, it like really hurt. Yeah, you know,

(10:45):
and just seeing what she says I think is a
good first step and see how she responds.

Speaker 3 (10:51):
I mean, he's obviously he said he's still in love
with her, So I think like spending some time before
making any actions and just being like what does she
say and how do I feel about what she says?

Speaker 2 (11:03):
Like let's like say, with that, you still might break up. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (11:06):
It gives an opportunity for him to understand more about
what's going on too. You know when we talk about
relationship integrity, like we talk about this idea of oh,
you know like yeah, maybe you could forgive, but are
you going to be able to trust again? And you
might get you might be able to get back together,
but will the relationship be the same. Yeah, And this
feels like one of those things that may forever change

(11:27):
that relationship. So it's like, is it is this something
that you want to come back to knowing that it
could could forever?

Speaker 1 (11:33):
Yeah, it's like a double whammy. The spicy sleep life
has forever change. And then can I trust her with
like very like intimate things and that she won't like
tell her friends to be giggling about me. So it's like, yeah,
it's tough, so tough one to come back from.

Speaker 2 (11:45):
Honestly, but we got an update. Wow, thanks everyone.

Speaker 3 (11:49):
I just wanted to add that I definitely will be
breaking up with Jenna. There it is, there we go.
Just made stand on business fully erect. I agree an
adult soda with three friends and told them their sentiments
matched yours, dumper, do it quick? Call my mom and
told her about it. Yeah, I told her everything, embarrassing

(12:11):
as it was. We were pretty close and I wanted
to tell her the whole story. And I've never heard
her so angry about anything. She knew I'd bought a
ring for Jenna, I will put.

Speaker 1 (12:20):
Oh, oh that makes it so much worse.

Speaker 2 (12:26):
Dude, so much worse. Oh but honestly, what timing? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (12:33):
What time? I mean better better before you propose that
after right before? Oh my goodness, she knew I'd bought
a ring for Jenna. I will post an update after
I do it, probably tomorrow, though it may take me
a couple of days to post about it. I'm going
to be pretty wrecked emotionally. Thanks again for all the comments.
It's the last messages of support and encouragement. I really
did not expect anyone to be rooting for me like this.

(12:55):
And we got an update. Oh, we got an update.

Speaker 2 (12:59):
Wow.

Speaker 3 (13:00):
I think we're I think we're going straight into it.
I I like I like that. This is this is
where it's going. Sophia.

Speaker 2 (13:05):
Do you remember how long they've been together? Do you
let me know?

Speaker 4 (13:08):
No, you can, you can pull the Micael dear p
two years, two years, two years.

Speaker 2 (13:18):
That's a long time. It's a long time. Yeah. That
means it'll take you two months or a year, two months,
two a year to get over There we go, There
we go.

Speaker 3 (13:25):
We've got the time and rule for every year of
a relationship is at least a month. That's right, supportive
Reddit strangers. I stayed strong and broke up with Jenna
Thursday evening.

Speaker 2 (13:38):
Let's go.

Speaker 3 (13:40):
This has honestly been the most dramatic couple of days
of my life. I am exhausted. Things got pretty ugly
on her part. Oh, she was ugly to begin with
on the inside. Sorry, this is so long. A lot happened.
At the suggestion of my friend's mother, brother and many
of you, I talked to her in private but still
public place. The thought behind was that someone who can

(14:02):
be so cruel and reveal herself as a liar is
potentially capable of trying to turn things around on me
and say that she left me because I hurt her,
or some other nonsense. I like to think she wouldn't
do something like that, but who knows, especially after everything
that has happened. Better safe than sorry. I thought about
just boxing up her stuff and breaking things off with

(14:22):
no explanation, but it's been over two years together. I
decided the best thing to do is to confront her
calmly and then hear her out if she had an explanation.
I wanted to hear it, even if it didn't change
the decision to break up with her. So I took
her to a wine bar in downtown that has those
little individual booths with half curtains. She's been sugary sweet
since Monday, which tells me either a felt guilty about

(14:45):
what a knucklehead she was, and B thought I might
have heard her or C. She just knew I was
acting distant and it was totally clueless as to why.
So she dressed up really nice, and despite everything that
has happened, I can admit that she looked stunning. Rats
come on, man, keep it together, whole strong brother. She

(15:07):
was also very affectionate. I kept making out of sexy
comments about all the things she wanted to hear, Brother,
stay strong.

Speaker 2 (15:17):
Stay strong, to let her put any ranch on that
baby care oday? No snacks today? Oh yeah.

Speaker 3 (15:26):
Normally, my precious little baby Carrot would have been thrilled
by this, but given the circumstances, it was difficult to
hear and act normal. I had rehearsed what I was
going to say to her over and over, so as
soon as we sat down and got our wine, I started.
I can't remember word for word. My adrenaline was put
into pretty high gear, so it feels fuzzy. I basically

(15:47):
started by saying how much I've loved her, how She's
the only woman that I've ever felt connected to so
profoundly that I opened myself up to her completely and
trusted her.

Speaker 2 (15:57):
Oh, I told her that she he's the.

Speaker 3 (16:00):
Only woman I've ever thought about marrying that I've gone
ring shopping for. I left that part out about how
I actually bought the ring, and then I've actually imagined
having children with her in the next few years. She
kept interrupting me to say oh, or to tell me
how much she loves me too. Then I looked her
and the eye and asked her point blank, why if

(16:21):
she loved me so much, did she horrendously make fun
of me to Dylan.

Speaker 2 (16:25):
Boom? There it is what she gotta say.

Speaker 3 (16:28):
Boom boom. Come on, I want to hear it. I
have to say. The look on her face was a
bit satisfying. As expected. She denied it at first and
acted like she had no idea what I was talking about.
She said Dylan knows how much he loves me and
that she's never made fun of me to him. I
kind of just looked at her and said something like,

(16:49):
come on, Jenna, we both know.

Speaker 2 (16:51):
What's going on. We know what's going on. I heard
you you gotta drop a baby carriage joke at this point.
That's going on. Oh yeah, dude, that would be sweet. Yeah, listen,
like I know I'm not your favorite vegetable in the garden.
I'm no legg plants.

Speaker 1 (17:05):
But heystat stay together, stand strong against your tyranny.

Speaker 3 (17:11):
But she still denied it, even after I told her
that I come home early on Monday and it hurt her.
It was pretty frustrating, but I kept my cool. I
just told her that she and I both know she's lying,
and that the things she said were unforgivable, and that
I couldn't wrap my mind around why she would say
things like that to anyone, let alone Dylan, especially because

(17:34):
she was lying just to be able to rag on me.
Still denied and acted like I was crazy. She said
she loves me so much that she's not dissatisfied with
her spicy sleep life. I would never say she was
or complain.

Speaker 2 (17:47):
About my size. That she knows how smart and sweet
I am. That's why she loves me.

Speaker 3 (17:52):
If I hadn't heard what she said to Dylan myself,
I would have believed her he deserves an Oscar for
that performance. Oh dude, that but that craft scares me. Bro, Yeah, dude,
like Oscar worthy, lying like I'm the worst liar ever.
I'd never lie. I never practice it, So that's maybe
why I'm so bad. But people that lie all the time, dude,

(18:14):
they're good. They're goaded. Some commoners asked if I was
sure she was talking about me when I overheard her
when she was talking about her ex boyfriend, his kraken
of a wiener, he said my name when she was
making the comparison. I'm definitely sure that she was talking
about me, and that she was lying to my face
about it. I told her that I would drive us home.

(18:34):
She grabbed the essential she needed and her dog. My
brother and his girlfriend would be at the house too.
I wanted to make sure there were other people there,
just to have witnesses that I let her get her
stuff and didn't do anything aggressive or destructive. I told
her I'd pack the rest of her stuff up and
leave it out for her to get whenever she could.
She was in total disbelief that I was actually breaking

(18:57):
up with her. She pleaded with me, but my mind
was slash is made up and I wasn't budging. It
was hard not to cry in front of her, though,
when she kept saying how much she wanted to be
with me forever and that she planned to be the
mother of my children. Someday I own my house, and
since Jenna hasn't helped with expenses by paying rent or utilities,

(19:18):
I wasn't too concerned about putting it bluntly punting her out.
She kept asking me what she was supposed to do
and where she was supposed to sleep. I told her
it wasn't really my problem anymore, and that she has
plenty of friends you can stay with until she gets
her own place. Basically, all the furniture and Decora's mind,
she just has clothes, toilet, trees, et cetera.

Speaker 2 (19:36):
To get out.

Speaker 3 (19:37):
All the redecorating she did to my house was done
on my dime. Then came the water work.

Speaker 2 (19:44):
Here we go the multiple stages.

Speaker 3 (19:47):
She started crying and saying that she didn't understand how
I could do this to her.

Speaker 2 (19:53):
She said she thought it was a nice guy. About
a million times I told her I.

Speaker 3 (19:58):
Am a nice guy, which is why I didn't throw
her stuff out in the front lawn and change the
locks and give her no explanation. Then I swear to you,
this woman dug the knife even deeper. Okay, she's going
for the hearts, going for the What else can you say, lady?

Speaker 2 (20:18):
She said?

Speaker 3 (20:19):
She said John, Yes, she didn't know why she said
those things to Dylan. She finally acknowledged it, okay, and
that maybe because Dylan brings out the best in her
and she's able to laugh about things that would normally
make her cry.

Speaker 2 (20:35):
I guess, like my wiener, Oh no, oh, no, so bad.
I thought you said it was great two seconds.

Speaker 1 (20:45):
Sea you just yeah, she's a big lie dude, Like literally,
this lies all over the place.

Speaker 3 (20:50):
I told her that it's really sad to me if
what I heard was her at her best. It was petty,
and usually I'm above making snide comments. But I told
her that she can go back to her hometown and
go live with Dylan or her nine inch wiener ex boyfriend.

Speaker 2 (21:06):
Okay, so my boy's six boy six, fine, that's good.
That's a full carrot. It's a full carrot. That's a
full carroty boy six.

Speaker 1 (21:17):
He's fine, he's doing five fine, and he's fit. This
is the full package. This is the full package right here.
And he's like, let me take the high road, you know,
let me just tell you express exactly how I feel,
work with you on moving out, and then you know,
if that's it not, don't throw the stuff on the lawn.

Speaker 3 (21:38):
Yeah, come on, it was amazing to watch how fast
those tears disappeared. Apparently I'm the a hole. I didn't
know how to treat woman. I'm a loser. My wiener
is tiny, and I'm going to be alone forever. She
never really loved me and I was more like a friend,
but she didn't want to hurt me, so she stayed
with me. Makes a lot of sense. She would have
said no if I proposed again. I'm a loser and

(21:59):
a hole. And in case I get it the first time,
she meant it when she said my wiener was a
baby carrot. Oh oh, and I will pass away alone.
I told her passing her alone is preferred to passing
away married to a woman who is cruel and doesn't
love her respect me, no joke. She started to scream. Oh,
not words, just a long, extremely loud scream.

Speaker 2 (22:22):
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (22:24):
I was alarming, and she just booked it out of
there after calling me a disgusting pig. After paying the
bill and apologizing to the waiter about the drama, I
left and Jenna was standing outside crying. I know what
she did was horrible, and all the things she said
just a few minutes earlier were horrible, but I still
didn't like seeing her like that and didn't want to

(22:45):
just leave her on the sidewalk. I'm in New England.
It's already pretty cold here, so I told her to
let me give her a ride back to the house
so she could get her stuff. But she needed to
leave and go stay somewhere else as soon as she
packed a bag. Yeah, she agreed. I didn't talk at
all in the car, talk about an awkward ride. My
brother and his wife were at the house when we

(23:07):
got there, so I stayed inside. Well, Jenna got some
stuff together and my brother waited outside with me. That
went pretty uneventfully, and she had a girlfriend come pick
her up. I got my keyback from her before she left.
She texted me throughout the night, and the text ranges
from sorry to sad, too angry to really angry and
back again. I didn't answer any of them, and only

(23:28):
texted her yesterday morning to tell her that her stuff
was on the porch and that she should come to
pick it up while I'm at work. I didn't hear
from her all day until it was almost time for
me to go home. There was a pretty nasty text
wishing me about every ill you can wish a person.
I didn't answer.

Speaker 2 (23:45):
Great boom she moved.

Speaker 3 (23:47):
Oh no, oh well I come home, Oh to a
disaster zone. She smashed everything. I don't know if she
made a spare key at some point that I was
unaware of, or she knows how to pick locks. But
she got into the house somehow and she destroyed it.

Speaker 2 (24:04):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 3 (24:05):
She smashed stuff that's irreplaceable. She ripped up furniture, She
clogged two sinks, left the water running, She let the
refrigerator open and threw food all over the kitchen. It
was wrecked. The only considerate thing she did was lock
my two dogs up in the bedroom. I guess so
they didn't cut themselves on glass or eat the food.

Speaker 2 (24:26):
Oh my god, dude.

Speaker 3 (24:29):
Oh my god, dude, I don't understand, Like what what
frightens me. What frightens me is you can be in
a relationship with someone for two years and it's totally fine,
and then snap they become a crazy person.

Speaker 1 (24:44):
Yeah, just snap. Does that not terrify you? I mean,
that is that is? That is absolutely that. How do
you test for that?

Speaker 2 (24:57):
Cha? What's the crazy test? No?

Speaker 3 (24:59):
Do something really difficult and hard together where like things
will go wrong, yeah, travel maybe, yeah, get a dog,
but they had dogs in the crazy to come out.

Speaker 2 (25:09):
That's true. I think I'm gonna get flamed for this.
Here we go.

Speaker 3 (25:11):
But I think if you take care of a partner
too much, it might prevent you from learning if they can,
like can weather difficulty.

Speaker 1 (25:21):
Right, because it's like it's the same thing of the
difficult scenario where it's all right, if you put yourselves
in a difficult scenario, you see yourself at your worse
and it's like, how do you behave and act and like.

Speaker 3 (25:33):
Care sounds like he kind of insulated her from anything rough.

Speaker 2 (25:38):
We got some.

Speaker 3 (25:39):
We got some more here. So I have two vehicles,
one for everyday use and then an suv for work.
I use the suv for when I make house calls
and may have to bring large or exotic animals into
the vehicle to transport it into the clinic. In the
middle of the drama, I'd forgotten I'd given her a
key to the suv in case she ever had had

(26:00):
an emergency and needed to drive somewhere. I went out
to check the car, and she trashed the inside of it.
She don't flower all over the inside. In addition to tomato stew.
The stuff is just stuff. I suppose it's more of
the fact that she could do something so childish and
awful on top of everything else. It blows my mind.
Last weekend I took her to a play went out

(26:21):
with her and her friends. We played Monopoly one night
and made up our own drinking game with it. We
hung out and watched Netflix Made Love several times. All right,
flexless And this week in my house and vehicle are destroyed,
and so am I amazing how fast things change?

Speaker 2 (26:36):
Truly? Yeah, you better look alound her every once in
a while. You might miss it. Wow.

Speaker 3 (26:42):
Wow, not my finest moment. But I was so pissed
off that I got right onto Costco's instant delivery and
ordered twenty five bag bounds and ordered five pound bags
of baby carrots and had them shipped to her friend's place,

(27:05):
addressed to Jenna. One hundred pounds of baby carrots. They
deliver within one hour. I got a slew of interesting
and insulting text from her that evening. Yes, it was petty,
but the only good I have about it is that
it was a waste of food. Hopefully she donates them
or cooks some of them or something. So that's that
I blocked her the night after the nasty texts from

(27:27):
her kept coming. I'm feeling pretty beaten down right now,
and I have cried more than I have in a
long time. It's obvious that I made the right choice.
Jenna is clearly not emotionally stable or mature. She really
is cruel, and I know I do deserve better. I've
spent a lot of time since Monday thinking about myself
as a partner and trying to figure out what could
have led her, obviously to having some resentment or something.

(27:49):
For me, I'm going to be one hundred percent honest here.

Speaker 2 (27:52):
I work a lot.

Speaker 3 (27:53):
I try still to make time for people I love
and try not to bring work home with me when
I've had a bad day, but sometimes I do. I
know this, Jenna and I have thought about it before,
and I've really tried to pace my days a certain
way so that I can get home at a reasonable time,
and I've tried to leave bad days at work as
much as I can. However, anyone who is a VET

(28:13):
or has worked with one knows we're always on call
for emergencies. Sometimes we have patients that we have to
check on or stay with through the night. Time off
can be challenging. It's doable, but challenging. My staff is
incredible and can handle most situations, but I do still
get a lot of calls or texts from them when
I'm on vacation or an off day. I'm sure there
have been times when Jenna felt second best to my job. Well,

(28:37):
I guess I know there have been. She's told me
that much in the past. I did try to make changes,
but there's only so much I can do. As far
as I remember, I've never been purposely mean to Jenna.
I've had bad days and been grumpy or absent. We've
had our shared disagreements and fights, but nothing unhealthy or excessive.
I really thought we had a solid relationship and that
we were both happy.

Speaker 2 (28:57):
I know I was.

Speaker 3 (28:58):
It's hard not to question myself in one or if
I really am a letdown, or if I neglected her
at some point that she felt unloved enough to act
the way she did. I don't know, but I do
know that no matter what the way she put me
down and the way she reacted to breaking up this
way was way out of line. I didn't deserve that,
and that's on her, true, But you know what, each

(29:20):
and every one of you freaking deserve what to listen
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there's another relevant update, Johnny, Yes, sir, But how do
we feel about where things have ended?

Speaker 2 (29:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (29:37):
Man, I think, uh, you know, op, I think he
did a pretty good job at navigating everything and you know,
just trying to keep it even keel, try to take
the high road, try to just make it as unmessy
as possible. In a massively literally and figuratively messy situation.

Speaker 2 (29:57):
It is messy as heck.

Speaker 1 (29:59):
Uh, thank odd it happened before he gave the ring,
because she for sure, I mean she probably would.

Speaker 2 (30:04):
Have taken it or sure, but god knows what I got.
How much damage did she create in that house?

Speaker 1 (30:10):
Yeah, honestly, Emma Wilkins just said what I was thinking.
He definitely needs to sue her, I mean, less charges.
That's that's you. You can't expect like you're the one
that did the thing wrong, Like what are you destroying
his place?

Speaker 2 (30:25):
And properity for the immature people do. That's what I guess. So,
but again when they're back fronted, back to the lying thing, it's.

Speaker 1 (30:32):
Just like so it's like so so scary and so
just like it's like hard to imagine.

Speaker 2 (30:36):
I don't know like that someone would do that.

Speaker 3 (30:38):
But wow, well we got a little bit more of
the story. Well let's get into it. Hey it's Sam.
We're going to get back to these stories. But here's
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Speaker 2 (30:47):
Thank you for rooting for me. Readit.

Speaker 3 (30:49):
It's been great to read all the nice words. Time
for me and my baby care to eventually find a
woman who appreciates us for what we are Edits got
an edit. So I did find police report and took pictures,
which will hopefully help with recouping some of the money
lost to insurance. As far as the police report, it's
very doubtful anything will come of it since I can't
prove it was her. Same goes for trying to sue

(31:10):
her in small claims court, and honestly, I'd rather not
deal with her anymore. I'm going to hope that insurance
will cover the damages and I can move on with
my life facts to dude. Honestly, op is the most
stoic man a lot, dude, I mean, dude is crushing it.
And I have to say, listen, we we always preach

(31:31):
self care, not pettiness, but the hundred pounds of baby
cars was hilarious.

Speaker 1 (31:37):
Hilarious and like like non offensive, harmful pettiness, you know, yeah,
this is this.

Speaker 3 (31:43):
Is not harmful. Yeah, one hundred percent. And I feel
like you need to do something. I mean, she literally
destroyed his whole house. Yeah, like put in some delivering
some baby cares. Bro deserves something. We got to give
him something, man. But that's where that story ends. But
not this episode. We got another episode for you. But
oh my god, yeah that was a lot.

Speaker 2 (32:04):
That was a lot. My goodness.

Speaker 1 (32:06):
My fiance went to a spicy dancing club after I
told him not to.

Speaker 2 (32:12):
Oh no, wasn't the glitter that gave it away? Huh
uh oh.

Speaker 1 (32:16):
Now, two weeks ago, my fiance and I were laying
in bed about to get intimate when I glanced over
and saw him looking at thirst traps on his phone.
I was completely turned off and told him I found
it disrespectful to look at corn with me laying right
next to him, especially since we were about to have
spicy sleep.

Speaker 2 (32:32):
Hey, it was just getting ready. This is the warm up, babe.

Speaker 1 (32:37):
He apologized profusely. And by the way, this comes from
GFL one on one and if you want to submit
your own stories, go to the r slash okay storytime subreddit.
So when we spoke about this incident with our couple's therapist, Boom,
I opened up about my struggles with corn and related issues.
I was raised very conservatively, and while I understand it's
not realistic to ask him to not ever look at corn,

(32:59):
I have previously asked him to have the respect to
not do it in front of me. Babe. I need it,
I need it, I need it. Dude, just get a
VR headset. Problem solve.

Speaker 2 (33:13):
She'll never see it, babe. I swear, I'm just plenty carrot. Yeah,
it's a new game, bame.

Speaker 1 (33:21):
Game. Yeah, I'm a kneading dough. I'm a I'm a
baker in Friends and Belly and swe Baker. Bread is
on the walls, you know, at the top down. All
the kids are playing it. I also, oh god, he's
basting the bread with the egg wash.

Speaker 2 (33:43):
Oh man.

Speaker 1 (33:46):
I also suggested multiple times that we discuss our boundaries
with corn, spicy dancers, et cetera, et cetera, of course,
And he replied with, I don't think.

Speaker 2 (33:55):
We need to.

Speaker 3 (33:55):
We're on the same page. But we're on the same page.
Let me just put it by headset and seed some dope,
that's what I call him, the same page, babe.

Speaker 1 (34:06):
This weekend is his bachelor party in Vegas.

Speaker 2 (34:09):
God put in ice. You in sat right now. I
see you. We can see a miles so painfully. Oh God.

Speaker 1 (34:19):
So we didn't talk about specifics, but I trusted him
per our previous conversations to know where my head was at. Yeah,
him deciding where your head was at for you. Yes,
that conversation.

Speaker 3 (34:31):
It's not corn. You know it's real. They're dancers.

Speaker 1 (34:36):
Do you hate expression, babe?

Speaker 2 (34:39):
And you hurt? You were You were so mad at
me for doing corn. So I said, not doing corn anymore,
switching it up. You're welcome in.

Speaker 3 (34:47):
Person, baby, I mean, hey, is it a crime to
look at the statue of David and that man's baby carrot?

Speaker 2 (34:54):
No?

Speaker 3 (34:55):
No, no, it's not. That is that is beauty right there.
That is that is the human body. And I'm just
appreciating subsculpted human bodies.

Speaker 2 (35:04):
Actually quite beautiful. The statue statue he actually got a
baby carrot. Well, oh, not specifically that, just in general.
The statue's nice. The statue. He's a good looking man.
He is literally the perfect the proportion man. That's how
they made him. Ah, well, there you go, dude.

Speaker 1 (35:22):
If I'm being honest, had he asked me ahead of
time or mentioned he was going to go to a
spicy dancing club but with his buddies, I would have
been open to discussing it. Okay, communication could have happened.
He's been calling a few times a day to check in.
I told him that wasn't necessary, but he insisted. Late
last night, I was temporarily locked out of our apartment
building while walking our dogs. I tried using the intercom buzzer,

(35:45):
which calls his phone, but it went straight to voicemail.
Once I finally got inside, I texted him that I
was sorry to bug him, but it was me and
I made it in.

Speaker 2 (35:53):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (35:54):
He immediately read the message and didn't reply, which is
unlike him. He's left leaving her on red. I mean
it can't it can't really text? Yeah, Okay, my fingers
are reoccupied to experience the domemaking of real life. Dude, God,
I'm finally gonna be a real baker. This is chef's school.

Speaker 2 (36:16):
Oh God.

Speaker 1 (36:17):
I asked him whether everything was okay, and again he
left me on rend. This is unlike him, so I
grew a bit concerned. We share a locations and I
wanted to make sure his phone wasn't stolen or he
wasn't in the hospital or something. He has checked my
location several times before as well, so not a president
to do this.

Speaker 2 (36:34):
He was at a spicy dancing club. Oh rough, yep.

Speaker 1 (36:37):
I will admit that it didn't feel great, but I
was going to let it go until he got home
so it wouldn't ruin his bachelor weekends. He called about
five minutes later to make sure I was okay. He
could tell from my voice I wasn't okay. I asked
him where he was. He initially said, oh, club, and
finally admitted it was a spicy dancer club.

Speaker 2 (36:57):
Yep, yep, there you go.

Speaker 1 (36:58):
And just just to be crystal clear, this is the
kind of spicy dancing club where the clothes disappear.

Speaker 2 (37:07):
It's a magic show. Yeah, just to just to define.

Speaker 3 (37:09):
Our celting show you know, and close disappear and things
grow before your eyes.

Speaker 2 (37:15):
He wants to be a baker and a magician.

Speaker 3 (37:17):
Yeah yeah, baby carrots turn into full developed carrot.

Speaker 1 (37:20):
Watch my engagement disappear. He promised he wasn't doing anything bad.
I explained how I found out and mentioned that I
wish that we had talked about it beforehand.

Speaker 2 (37:30):
I wasn't mad. I didn't yell.

Speaker 1 (37:31):
I was just disappointed and deflated in the moment. Once
he sensed us, he immediately got defensive and said that
we were both at faults.

Speaker 3 (37:40):
They David's kind of your fault that I'll be. I
recognize its my fault, but it's also your fault.

Speaker 2 (37:47):
How could you let me do this?

Speaker 3 (37:48):
Yeah yeah, I mean you said, no corn. What's a
man supposed to do?

Speaker 2 (37:54):
I'm but a man. I have needs.

Speaker 1 (37:57):
I need the big is my passion getroke?

Speaker 2 (38:04):
Oh god?

Speaker 1 (38:05):
He said it was too coincidental and I must have
been stalking him all weekend.

Speaker 2 (38:09):
Oh okay, that's that's what he's okay, my goodness.

Speaker 1 (38:12):
He accused me of making up a story about getting
locked out. I don't want a debate about whether spicy
clubs are okay, I recognize I am very conservative in
this area. Again, I would be open to talking to
him had he brought it up. The only factor is
that one of his friends on the trip is a
spicy club regular.

Speaker 2 (38:30):
Babe. I'm just trying to help him get boys.

Speaker 1 (38:32):
Sorry, hearing a free hot wings babe, bress me. Oh
my god, yeah, babe, I didn't go for the dancers.
I went for the hot wings. That food is amazing.

Speaker 2 (38:44):
Dude, and then get ready for this part.

Speaker 1 (38:46):
And that friend is constantly bragging about how many spicy
dancers he pays to sleep with.

Speaker 2 (38:52):
Is that impressive? That's that's a brag. That doesn't feel
like the flex you think, Yeah, no one will sleep
with me for free?

Speaker 1 (39:00):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (39:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (39:01):
I feel like my fiance broke my trust and now
I'm afraid of what else he did. Once he started
making ridiculous accusations, I did start yelling expletives and hung
up on him. He turned off his phone and I
haven't heard from him since. What's the best path forward here?
I haven't been able to sleep much at all, and
I feel sick to my stomach.

Speaker 2 (39:19):
Our wedding is in two weeks.

Speaker 1 (39:22):
WHOA, and we have an update where we may get
the either the wedding or the cancelation.

Speaker 2 (39:27):
That's what I think is coming up here.

Speaker 3 (39:28):
Well, John, there's a I feel like we've talked about
this before, and I think we're in agreement that we
kind of don't like this common trope that kind of
happens in bachelor and bachelorette parties.

Speaker 2 (39:39):
Yes, where it's like last night of freedom. Why do
we need to do this? I hate that, Why do
we do this? It is that so unnecessary, so dumb.

Speaker 3 (39:49):
But I do think there's a lot of people out
there that use the bachelor bachelorette party as the last
side of freedom and like say, like, hey, my one
day where anything goes it's like purge for spicy sleep.
And I'm not saying it's for sure, but the fact
that he's in the company of a guy that is
paying for spicy sleep on the rag, I'm not one

(40:12):
hundred percent convinced that he didn't do anything more than.

Speaker 1 (40:17):
Just watch yeah, especially like she said, once he started
getting defensive and trying to like put the blame on
her too, like yeah, it's just and everything we've seen
from the sky so far, it I don't know if
we have the trust in his responsibility and ability to
honor and respect their soon to be marriage.

Speaker 2 (40:38):
But ladies and gentlemen, we have an updates. Oh boy,
let's see hey John Ogi host here.

Speaker 1 (40:44):
We're gonna get back to this episode, but a quick
three minute break of ads from a sponsor's keeping the
show alive.

Speaker 2 (40:50):
Well.

Speaker 1 (40:50):
First of all, I want to thank everyone for their responses.
I read every single one. It was overwhelming. I had
posted this looking for some advice. I I didn't feel
like I could talk to my friends about this, as
I would be embarrassed. I know some folks probably think
I posted this to get validation. It was actually the opposite.
I was hoping I would be told I was overreacting

(41:11):
so I could get out of my head and stop spiraling.
I would also like to add that if I read
this post, or if a friend came to me with
the situation, I would have reacted similarly. Before I update, though,
I would like to provide some background slash context and
answer some of the questions that were brought up. It's
a lot, so if you don't care, skip to the update.
My fans and I have been together for a bit

(41:33):
over three years. I had mentioned we are already in
couple's therapy. At true, I forgot about that, and some
were questioning why that is. My fiance was previously married
and his first wife passed away. Relationships with widower's can
be extremely difficult to navigate, so we sought help with
some of the trickier nuances of ours. We also both
have individual therapists. I started seeing one about a year

(41:53):
into dating him. As I mentioned, I come from a
conservative background. I grew up in the Midwestern US, and
most of the folks around me were religious. My family
is not religious, but I guess some of these values
were imprinted. My father has never been to a spicy
dancing club in his life. He never had corn or
suggestive material. When I was younger, I remember my father

(42:14):
telling our family at dinner he found his boss, who
was a family friend, frequented spicy dancing clubs the way.
He and my mom spoke about it with disgusts that
they both equated it to infidelity. As I got older,
I moved around the country, I started to realize how
extreme those beliefs are. I've personally struggled with a lot
of these thoughts. I have been to spicy dancing clubs.

(42:35):
I don't look down on folks who enjoy them, nor
do I look down on spicy sleep workers. It's not
my values or how I choose to live my life,
but I'm sure others could say the same about me.
Corn is another thing I have viewed corn solo as
well with my fiance. My issues with him and Corn
didn't arise until I realized how bad it seems to be.

(42:56):
About a year and a half ago, he was showing
me something on Instagram and his for.

Speaker 2 (43:01):
You page was literally all thirst traps.

Speaker 3 (43:05):
I will say, if you are a man on Instagram,
you have to actively prune your explore page to not
show you booties.

Speaker 2 (43:16):
Yes, it's just a fact of life.

Speaker 1 (43:19):
I think, like any it's like, oh if you like uh,
oh you like racing, Oh you like whatever, they're like, oh,
let's just let's just throw some bootiest booty.

Speaker 2 (43:26):
I mean, like, there're so I would.

Speaker 3 (43:29):
There's a lot of other things that I would would say, like, hey,
like that's not good. The Instagram explore page, I don't
think is the smoking gun that you think it is. However,
I I prune my Instagram explore, I would I would
actually be down to show my Instagram explore page right.

Speaker 2 (43:46):
Now, that's how confident I am do it that there
it's blurry. Oh wow, but there is what the heck?

Speaker 3 (43:58):
I think I've said I'm not into stid in women
so many times that now Instagram has put me the.

Speaker 1 (44:04):
Other way, the other way. It was like, this must
be the other answer. There's no other way.

Speaker 2 (44:09):
No, we gotta make this guy horny somehow. That's so funny.

Speaker 3 (44:13):
Just no, it's not a complete smoking gun, but it is.

Speaker 2 (44:17):
It's a little bit. I think.

Speaker 1 (44:18):
Yeah, I think I'm just imagining in my mind's eye
what she's seeing, and I feel like there's a difference
between oh, there's like a sprinkling and like like.

Speaker 2 (44:27):
Yeah, eefing, yeah, and all of it combined. Yes.

Speaker 1 (44:31):
And then I also noticed him looking at one on
the couch once and I called him out. I worked
with my individual therapist about why this bothers me. I'm
not sure if the problem got better or I just
chose to ignore it. Cut to a few weeks ago,
we were on a short vacation.

Speaker 2 (44:48):
We were lying in bed. It's going on social media.

Speaker 1 (44:51):
There was something he had done that annoyed me, but
nothing major. I was just a little on edge, spicy
sleep was inevitable. We both knew it. That was until
I glanced over and watched him go to a search page,
scroll and click on a thirst trap and proceed to
scroll through her post. So I simply said, I guess
we're not having spicy to sleep now. He got defensive

(45:12):
at first. It just popped up on my feed. What
was I supposed to do? Okay, help myself. Three dots
not interested? Click and this man, this man know, this
man has been in a relationship, he knows, he knows
what's up.

Speaker 2 (45:26):
Get that.

Speaker 3 (45:27):
Get that out of my face. Come on, yeah, I
have again like that. The not interested is a powerful tool,
very advantage if you're in a relationship, that is, are
struggling with like corn addiction or anything like that, like
or if you just like do it for whatever reason,
like I don't want to look at spicy picks on
the internet anymore. Just not interested, not interested? He can
get it out of.

Speaker 2 (45:47):
Here, delete.

Speaker 1 (45:47):
But I called him out and said, you clicked and
scrolled with a real life woman next to you. You
could have the filtered photo instead. Have fun with the photo.
We spent the next therapy session going over what had happened.
He owned up to it, being one hundred percent in
the wrong, agreeing it was disrespectful, apologizing profusely, and promising
it wouldn't happen again. I use the opportunity to give
the therapist the context I just provided above. I guess

(46:10):
I feel I have to justify this for some reason.
After a therapy session ended, I said it would probably
be a good idea to talk through boundaries, you know,
the rest of what happened and now, ladies and gentlemen,
that was just the context. That was just more background
to set the stage for the true update. Maybe, I

(46:30):
mean that's I feel like that was good context.

Speaker 3 (46:33):
Right, Yeah, we don't always get good context, but this
is I feel, fully, fully educated, fully up to speed.

Speaker 2 (46:40):
So now we're going to get into the juice.

Speaker 1 (46:43):
Once he realized how upset I was, my fiance booked
an earlier flight from an earlier flight home from Vegas.
When I picked him up from the airport, which I
debated doing. I could tell he didn't think this was
this was as big of a deal as it was.
I let him know if I could postpone the wedding,
I would, but we can't, and if we cancel the wedding,
We're done. So basically, I think she's saying, if I

(47:07):
could postpone the wedding, I would, but I guess I'm
guessing venues and.

Speaker 2 (47:11):
Other things like it just doesn't work.

Speaker 1 (47:13):
And if she decides to cancel the wedding, they're done, which,
by the way, reminder, it's in two weeks. So I
feel like opis Opie's kind of saying like, hey, we
have a two week window here to fix everything.

Speaker 2 (47:28):
Dude, that's not gonna work. It's just, yeah, that's that's
too much. That's too much. It's not gonna work.

Speaker 3 (47:32):
Yeah, if it's if it's not a heck, yeah, to
get married, it should be a hair or not.

Speaker 1 (47:38):
And also, I'm like, totally it would probably be a
horrendous pill to swallow, but probably doable. You just lose
all the money and everything else, because you're gonna lose
it anyways.

Speaker 2 (47:48):
If you're not you're not gonna have the money anyways.
If you do the wedding, exactly, you might as well
just not be married to the person you shouldn't be
married to. Hey, you know what's more expensive. Divorce is
very into wedding, So how about that double.

Speaker 1 (48:00):
So I also laid out the terms for what the
breakup would look like, and I insisted that he would
be the one telling our guests the reason why. And
it's not because he went to a spicy club. It's
because he's a manipulative liar who doesn't respect me. He
was completely shocked in his mind. All he did was
go to a spicy club on his bachelor party. He
tried to feign ignorance. All the other guys were married,

(48:21):
and their wives didn't care. Well, guess what, their wives
ain't me? Okay, your wives ain't this girl. You're marrying me, buddy,
Not their wives. They're already taken for I can across
the pond. If you want that fish, smell God, you
want this fish, you gotta rule preemium, Mahi machia market,

(48:43):
market day price. Okay, that's me, game cut. I laid
out everything that he did. I even chose some quotes
from the comments on the original post. Some of you
are better at articulating my feelings than me. Now I
understand what I'm about to tell you next can be
a form of manipulation. He could all also very well
be lying. I lay it out before I explain how

(49:03):
I feel. He started to sob, not cry, but uncontrollably sob.
I have never seen him anywhere close to that. He
didn't realize what he had done to me in our
relationship and so close to the wedding.

Speaker 2 (49:14):
He said he was ashamed of himself as a man
and a partner. He promised.

Speaker 1 (49:17):
Nothing happened, not even a lap dance. He claims he
had never been to a spicy club.

Speaker 2 (49:22):
I swear nothing happened, not even a lap dance.

Speaker 1 (49:26):
I didn't do anything. I came for the hot wings.
I came for the lemon pepper.

Speaker 2 (49:33):
I swear. Uh.

Speaker 1 (49:35):
He claims it was the toxic friend. Oh, now he's toxic.
He went from bragging for paying for spicy sleep, I
mentioned the original post who was pushing the spicy club,
and he had to fight him, eventually losing. He admits
it was wrong, Yeah, fight him to go to a
spicy Nancy club.

Speaker 2 (49:52):
On your own bachelor party. Come on, come on.

Speaker 1 (49:55):
He admits it was wrong to accuse me of making
up the story about getting locked out. He was mad
at me and turned off his phone as an fu.
He couldn't believe that I would even think he would
be unfaithful, and so on. I'm still very much struggling.
I hate that a lot of this is around him
going to a spicy club. That's not what it is.
It's aligning, the gas lighting, the wilful disrespect. I asked
him why he would even want to be with someone

(50:16):
like me when our values are so clearly misaligned. He said,
they are aligned, Babe, We're on the same page. Your
poison tonic says, babe. I didn't get a lap dance.
I got two lap dances. Yeahs, bab, I just let
that out.

Speaker 2 (50:32):
I was a lying babe.

Speaker 1 (50:34):
I also got a grammar game on my VR headset. Okay,
I taped the right word to a lingo. He doesn't
want to be the person who goes to spicy clubs,
then don't do it. You just thought about that so simple.
He wants to live up to my standards. I don't
know how I feel about that last comment. At this point,
I don't know what to believe. I don't think he

(50:55):
cheated on me. In terms of what happened to the
spicy club. He swears they were at a big table,
only the toxic guy went to the back room for
a lap dance. I had to explain to him several
times how he was lying. I don't know what I
believe in terms of who pushed who to go or
whether that was the plan. There's a lot of doubts.
By the way, One thing that you will be never

(51:16):
in doubt of is that you have two thousand episodes
waiting for you to binge at your heart's desire.

Speaker 2 (51:22):
If you go to.

Speaker 1 (51:22):
Spotify, Apple or iHeart Radio and search, Okay, storytime being
to the pod guys, it's a it's a it's a
great thing too, you know it is check out. But
before we get into the finale of this story and episode,
what are we thinking thosing thoughts?

Speaker 5 (51:37):
I feel like, I mean, like basically what the crux
of it is he he didn't he wasn't truthful about
going to the Spicy Club or wasn't fourth right, and
it seems like he's like having some kind of corn addiction.

Speaker 3 (51:52):
I think it. The thing is, it's been brought up
a lot. They're already in counseling. Yeah, I think maybe
you can you can like really say like this is
like you know that she's kind of said all the
things like she's like, I don't know, this is like really,
in my values, it feels like we're entering a breaking point.
I mean, I'm down to because I don't feel like

(52:15):
it's it is divorce divorce worthy. But I also don't
think you should get married. You know what the marriage
is in two weeks. This feels this feels like a
like a postpone or cancel marriage. But it also seems
that if you cancel the marriage that it's over.

Speaker 2 (52:31):
That's what she you know.

Speaker 3 (52:33):
Yeah, if I was to lean one way, it would
probably be to to not get married, not get married, Yeah,
everything that entails, Oh for sure.

Speaker 2 (52:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (52:42):
I think like I would say, like definitely don't get married,
but maybe just like give yourself that beat just to
you if anything, just like you know, think through everything
and figure out what your next move is. But I think,
I think I feel it feels like she's frustrated and
he keeps ping ponging like he's like, oh, I'm so sorry,
and then he goes and does the same like like

(53:04):
so similar, but not that exact same thing.

Speaker 2 (53:06):
You know.

Speaker 1 (53:07):
It goes from you know, first it's the explore page
when they're about to look up. Then it's the strip club,
like it's it's.

Speaker 3 (53:13):
It's spicy sleep whack them all, yes, right, yes, like, oh,
I can't do this all right over here, Oh I
can't do this boo.

Speaker 1 (53:20):
And Opie's like, I'm not trying to play whack them all.
Just give me my my cute teddy bear and let
me let me go home. Ah well, let's let's get
into the finale of the story and episode.

Speaker 2 (53:29):
Okay, let's see.

Speaker 1 (53:31):
I'm sorry I can't provide a better update, but I
don't know what will happen. We have a couple of
therapy tonight. I'm putting together a list of requirements that
I am going to consider moving forward. How do you
move forward when the trust has been this broken? I
don't know. There's still a lot of pain and anger.
I feel foolish, scared of the future, weak. Thanks for
giving me an outlet. I will try to reply to
comments if anyone cares for more information.

Speaker 2 (53:51):
And that is it. So we don't know.

Speaker 1 (53:53):
We don't know how it ended up, but you know
what Opie's I feel like Opie's on the path to
figuring out.

Speaker 3 (54:00):
Yeah, and like giving her some time to figure it
out and giving himself a beat. Kim believe the counseling. Yeah,
Kimberly Fine, says the Lord knows. He gave himself a
beat too.

Speaker 1 (54:12):
Oh god, oh god. Yeah, he decided to add uh,
what's it called.

Speaker 2 (54:19):
Yeah, he decided to add butcher to the to the
to the hyphen job list. He's a what is it? Baker, Baker,
butcher and spicy sleep connoisseur.

Speaker 1 (54:29):
Yes, absolutely, there was. There was another one we threw
in there, Baker butcher and oh gosh, I thought there was.
I thought there was a second one, we said, but
I remember, but I believe that's where that episode ends.
That's rights of you. O. Yes, it is.

Speaker 3 (54:46):
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