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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, this is Sam. This is John the og story
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Speaker 1 (00:10):
Propped up like a little house. Oh yeah, my widow
dad is hooking up with my mom's friend. Ooh, call
it a comeback story. Oh god, Well, keeping that my
mom became friends with the woman will refer to her
as Reagan, and after she and I became close friends

(00:31):
too as I worked with her. We've been friends for
a good few years. But my partner and I and
my brothers never really liked Reagan and said that she
was very rude and abrupt and also extremely entitled. I
did see this too, but I'm a pushover and a
people pleaser, so I always let things slide until it
reaches a breaking points. By the way, this comes from
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(00:51):
submit your own stories, go to the r slash Okay
Storytime Star about So, my mom had cancer and sadly
passed away in twenty twenty one and was only in
her fifties. My dad is not the type of person
that does well on his own and he and my
mom did everything together, so I fully expected he would
meet someone else at some point. Okay, all right, so
at least that's expected. Yeah, yeah, nope, he's giving him

(01:14):
kind of the license, like hey, yep, makes sense, especially
as he was also fairly young and hopefully still had
a lot more life to live. At one point, my
sister said that she thought that Reagan and my dad
were seeing each other, to which I said no, as
I knew he was seeing someone else at that time.
Daddy's playing the field, dude, Daddy chill, Daddy chill. I

(01:35):
even spoke to Reagan about this, but more along the
lines of isn't that funny? Not a free pass to
go pursue my dad? Oh boy, Reagan is looking at
that free pass. Yeah, she thought it was the go car,
you know, proceed two stages to your destination and going.

Speaker 2 (01:54):
You know, I'm looking through that estate sale. Oh yeah,
after mom's passing and I just chose your dad. We're
closing on Yeah, we're closing.

Speaker 1 (02:03):
So fast forward to my wedding. My mom passed away
seven months before a wedding, so it was still extremely fresh,
and of course her absence was very much felt Reagan
had already done a couple of entitled things at that point,
one being that she had asked if she could bring
her kid to our no kid's wedding. I of course
said no, and she still insisted. But I held firm
and said, it's only immediate family, I e. Nieces, nephews,

(02:26):
and our own child. She told me, well, in that case,
you have to help find child care for her kid. WHOA,
that's crazy. Otherwise she can't go. I did give her
another firm no, as I was already busy working full time,
caring for a one year old and planning a wedding.
She did find childcare and she did end up coming. Okay, well,

(02:49):
at least at least that, But I don't know. I
feel like I don't even want Reagan coming at this. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:53):
I'm not like, oh, it's please Reagan. In my life,
it's screw my dad. Oh God, he needs a relief,
only raise at least one thing from the dead.

Speaker 1 (03:08):
Who Everyone grieves differently. I didn't see anything during the day.
I was busy having fun at my own wedding with
my husband, makes sense. But in the morning when we
came down to breakfast, Reagan was also there. This surprised me,
and she proceeded to say how she booked last minute
to stay at the venue itself. I found it quite odd,
especially as we'd booked all rooms for family, but I

(03:30):
didn't think too much more of it. Put an ICU
in the oh, I see you.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
You see the use I'm seeing you see the use?
They shacking? They shacking in the same.

Speaker 1 (03:44):
Room, No need to book one. A couple of months later,
when we met up, she told me that her and
my dad had been seeing each other, like, Hey, I'm
Martin looking at Riley right now, I see I see Riley?
Or is it like I'm seeing Riley? I think he's
Oh yeah, Oh yeah, god, there it is. Take that thing.

(04:07):
The creaking noises were too much. I was quite taken
aback and asked since when, and she told me that
they had hooked up at my wedding. Let's go. What
a classic mood. Then to make someone hornier than love.

Speaker 3 (04:21):
Oh then your kids love, dude, Yeah, then your kids love.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
Oh god, Oh, I'm watching my daughter get married so much.

Speaker 1 (04:33):
I need to get in a room right now. Oh no, no.
Apparently she pursued him there, but the only reason she
did it was because I'd apparently put the idea into
her head when I had told her what my sister
said about thinking they were seeing each other already again,
which was a joke. I you know, you know, the

(04:53):
funniest jokes have a little bit of truth thumb. Oh,
unfortunately they do. There is a joke inside every joke.
Oh God, and there's more things inside than just a joke.
I will say she is closer to my dad's age
rather than mine, but I found it very strange. Nonetheless,
I said, Okay, well, I guess I'm happy for you both,
but just to be clear, this is my dad, not

(05:15):
just a random boyfriend of yours, so you absolutely cannot
talk to me about any of your relationship stuff. She agreed,
but still trampled all over that boundary many times. Regardless.
Reagan not feeling like the best friend slash stepmom. Ever,
oh no, not dude friend slash stepmom A friend becomes

(05:36):
the step mom stepmom friend. H that's that's not good.
It's not uncle dad. It's no uncle. It's no uncle,
it's no uncle dad. But hey, it's also not the best.
It's not no, not the best. Yeah, I had to
repeatedly tell her to stop over the following months. Another
piece of crucial information is that she is a single
mother of a young son under eight years old, new

(05:59):
brother Let's go, who is adopted and referred to as Alan.
Alan is on the autism spectrum. The more crucial info. Now,
his name? Wait did you just put in Alan? I
put in his name is A. His name is A.
I hope it's up. Yeah, okay, call him autistic?

Speaker 2 (06:16):
Yeah, I feel like I feel like they were all
I'd like, is A A for autistic?

Speaker 1 (06:21):
Dude? Like you gotta choose a different letter. Hey, this
was o peace choice, not mine. We were that he made.

Speaker 3 (06:29):
And Okay, so for simplicity's sake, which just call him Audie.

Speaker 1 (06:33):
That's that is crazy. After several months, my dad confided
in me that he had met someone. He told me
a little bit about her. She was actually only a
few years older than me, which I found weird at first,
but now we've got to know her and she's really lovely.
It was very awkward for me, though, as I knew
from Reagan's perspective they were still together. Wait a second,

(06:55):
are we understanding right that him and Reagan started seeing
each other potentially casually and now because remember she was like, oh,
Reagan is actually pretty close in age to my dad,
And now Dad is coming back to Ope and it's like, heyop,
I'm actually seeing someone. She's like, oh, she's kind of
close to your age. It seems like this is not Reagan.

(07:16):
Daddy is playing the field, Daddy, Daddy, Daddy's doing it.
Maybe might be going to Lord's work. Daddy's going going
going crazy in these streets. Yeah, dude, crazy in these
streets and maybe these sheets, I think. So it seems
likely my dad asked me not to say anything to Reagan.
There it is. That's I mean, that sounds like confirmation. Yeah,

(07:38):
he's got a roster. Golly, he's feeding Impasta and lobster.
I was never going to get involved, but I didn't
like being in the middle of it this way, and
it was exactly what I didn't want to happen. In
the end, my dad ended up ending things with Reagan
but still remained friends with her, and Reagan somehow became
a fixture in her eyes. Definitely in our family. Ah,

(08:01):
Wagan's trying to plant her flag or right in the middle, dude,
she is. She is not trying to leave not trying
to leave. She would invite herself to family events and
bring Alan. She organized a party for Alan at my parents' house,
et cetera. I didn't quite understand why, but we're gonna
get to that shortly. They stay locked in a few
months later, my dad announces he and the new girlfriend

(08:23):
are engaged.

Speaker 2 (08:25):
And Daddy was seeing new girlfriend at the same time
as Reagan.

Speaker 1 (08:29):
There was some crossover. Her today official he did end
things with Reagan, but there was also.

Speaker 2 (08:34):
Cross But I think there was crossover, and like, you know,
was it was it more serious when there was.

Speaker 1 (08:39):
Crossover, like a new girlfriend.

Speaker 2 (08:41):
Now, it could be they were like dating and then
he's like, oh no, I want to marry, so I'm
going to break it off. But it was kind of
like a little sus super sussed. Daddy's getting drained. Dot
com rand your daddy, dot com.

Speaker 1 (08:56):
We own that. We this, we might have to buy.
Stop draining the daddy, draining your dad. You gotta stop this.
This daddy is drained enough. His tank is empty dry,
it is bone dry.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
Is he is shooting blanks? Oh god, it's just it's
just uh baby powdered dusts.

Speaker 1 (09:16):
Just at this point now, Reagan messaged me about the engagement,
and rather than ask how I felt about him being
engaged so soon after my mom passed, she went on
about how she felt in details I didn't want to
know about her and my dad's relationship. I will say,
throughout all this, she never really mentioned my mom, despite
them being friends, and we all met her through and

(09:37):
we all met her through her in the first place. Dude,
all right, I see you Reagan and Dad doing it
while the mom was still alive, or as the mom
was passing away. Because Reagan's like, I'm here for you,
my friend, and you know, Dad's like, I'm here for you,
my wife. And they're like, oh, we're both here for her.

(09:58):
Like we have so much in common. What do they
always say common times some people cheap pregnancy, hospital pregnancy,
and hospital pregnancy and hospital. That one. We got half
half of the situation, just saying Reagan's golly, you know, listen.
And if there's one thing we know about Reagan is
she she she knew what to do. Oh yeah, okay,
she was. She was an expert, and yeah some things

(10:20):
she is. Also she's a clown. The Ronald. I was
making a Ronald Reagan Ronald McDonald thing. Yeah, I didn't
quite have it. Figured it was close. It was close,
it was almost executed.

Speaker 2 (10:34):
You got you guys saw I don't need to complete
it and needed guys. You guys saw that.

Speaker 1 (10:37):
We see it. We see the fast forward to dad's wedding.
Reagan came and brought Alan with her. Kids were invited
to this wedding. Alan has very volatile and challenging behavior.
He has done some pretty awful things, like punting an
eighteen month old girl in the back on a slide
hard with both feet. He was seven, and has been
pretty awful to my own kid too. I now whish.

(10:59):
I mean, he is a child on the spectrum, So
just to throw that out there, opie, But I digress.
Now I feel terrible for insisting we still see them
for so long, but I've learned never to do that again.
Reagan always turns a blind eye or even tells the
other parents off. That's where it's like, if Reagan is
not stepping in and trying to help with that, that's it.
I mean, they get to do something like put that

(11:21):
kid in a bubble or something, you know, the Samuel
donn Her parenting method.

Speaker 2 (11:27):
I mean, hey, if my kid is constantly like hitting
other kids, but I want my kid to socialize. Bubble
that is one way, bubble that is one way, and
then like like.

Speaker 1 (11:38):
Maybe maybe all the kids are in bubbles, then it's
like a bubble bubble pit. A bubble pit. Be fun,
That would be a good time. But to give you
guys an example, she wouldn't do anything when Alan punted
the little girl. I jumped up, apologized and removed down
from a situation. And Reagan then said, well, she clearly
was too young to be on that slide, So what
did the parent expect? Not it? Not it, dude. At

(12:01):
my dad's wedding, Allan was absolutely rampant. All the guests
and the catering staff knew out who knew who Alan was.
By the end, he was running and attacking all the
young children, throwing things at the adults, running through the
catering tent and grabbing crockery and throwing it at a slash,
trying to grab the deep the deep fat fryar et cetera.
I think this is I think this is like, you know,

(12:24):
there's as uh as we're seeing in the chat.

Speaker 2 (12:27):
Juste is like, hey, this is above autism. I feel
like this is not just this is not just autism.
I mean it's I think it's a little bit of
a parental She's not correcting, she's not she's doing nothing.

Speaker 1 (12:40):
This is bad behavior.

Speaker 2 (12:41):
You know, we do, we do want to, like you know,
give grace for people with special needs. But also I
feel like this is a parenting issue.

Speaker 1 (12:50):
And especially like the deep fat friar, like I think
with with with the wedding is like you just got
to keep him out, socialize him at the park with
other things. But like not that, not that we don't
need We don't need him at the wedding. We don't
need him at the wedding. And if he is at
the wedding, bubble bubble bubble. I even watched this. This
eight year old boy ripped apart a solid wooden bench

(13:11):
with his own hands. Man needs to be in some
kind of sport. Listen, super lifter here the next remember
the world's strongest kid.

Speaker 2 (13:19):
These kids he ripped a bench. Yes, oh my goodness,
this guy is the hulk.

Speaker 1 (13:25):
Let's put him in power something, powerlifting, boxing, put put
his superpower bubble soccer. Oh man, it was a lot
so the whole time. Reagan made sure she was always
at the opposite end of the venue away from Alan,
and seemed to quite deliberately ignore and allow Alan to
wreak havoc. It came to a crux when Alan picked

(13:48):
up a wooden chair and hit our child, then.

Speaker 2 (13:51):
Three and coming in to the ring. Is chair chair chair?
He may have autism. That has nothing to do with
what I powerhouse.

Speaker 1 (14:13):
He is in this ring. Bro. If you hit an
adult with a wooden chair, that is bad. A three
year old a toddler.

Speaker 2 (14:25):
At the low at the lot Ooh, maybe that toddler
shouldn't have stepped in the ring. Oh God, that's what
Reagan is about, Tode. What did a baby expect going
to a wedding. Our kid ran to us crying, and
my husband went to him. He said something to Alan
and then he ran off. I went over to speak
to Reagan about Alan hurting our son, and instead of
being receptive, she abruptly asked if I saw it. I

(14:47):
said no, but I've seen Alan attacking all the other kids,
et cetera. Dude, dude, she asked Alan, and he said, yes,
I hit him. This is unacceptable, but damn that is truthful.

Speaker 1 (15:09):
Bro. Bro's keeping it a whole fifties wow. But but
that it was an accident. Come on, man, Reagan said, See,
it was an accident, So there you go. What I'm
more concerned about is that your husband is threatening my child.

(15:29):
Reagan needs to be out of the family. I'm sorry, Rag.
We need Reagan out right, Yeah, dude, she has done
nothing since the mom passed, but just like make things terrible.

Speaker 2 (15:39):
Yeah, she is causing a ruckus. We don't need this,
but you know I need I need more of Alan, dude,
I need you know. I think we just need to
channel this rage into something where he can be successful
because he's got he's got that brutal honesty. There's something
there and he's got just brutal chair hitting. There's this

(16:00):
is WWE superstar and I really think he could be
the next John Cena w w E superstars. Yeah, I
think we I think we got something here. Reagan just
needs to be like you know how they have those
dance moms. Reagan needs to be a WWE mom. Yeah,
and get this kid into something where he can just
blossom like the WWE star.

Speaker 1 (16:19):
We know we can't be. Yeah, hit hit six foot five,
muscled up men with chairs yeah, exactly, not toddlers. Yep,
that seems like a better rest of it. Is my
my wife, my one and only motto, and only one
and only motto I live by, don't hit toddlers with chairs.
There we go. So I said to all this that
I didn't know about that, but I'll speak to him.
But I still think that Alan should apologize. She flat

(16:41):
out refused and instead wouldn't let go about my husband.
Which listen, she's She's been holding onto a lot of
the men in Op's life, so I'd be worried about that.
She had let go girl. It turned out that all
he had said was how would you like it if
I hit you? So not a threat whatsoever? Just would
you like it if I hit you? How would you

(17:02):
like it?

Speaker 3 (17:02):
To a minor?

Speaker 1 (17:03):
How would you like it if I hit you?

Speaker 3 (17:06):
Bobby Bot? Who is Alan? Bobby Botts? Who's Alan?

Speaker 1 (17:10):
Let us know is Bobby Bot? Worry? I don't even
believe Bobby bot work. Where is it?

Speaker 3 (17:14):
Bobby Bots? Who's Alan?

Speaker 1 (17:15):
He's never he's never, he's never appeared. He has notched
into the chat. I avoided Reagan for the rest of
the event, and she was rude and condescending to all
the parents and even the catering staff, asking her to
keep an eye on Alan as he was endangering their kids,
them and himself. She even stuck her hand up in
the head catereder's face and walked off talk to the

(17:37):
hand buddy. Dang. She latched onto my sister, however, who
later said that Reagan went on and on about how
she was wronged by our dad and he clearly overlapped
them and it's shut an injustice to her because again
he was seeing you know, the new young wife now
at the same time as he was Reagan in the beginning.
We don't know how much communication was going on there.

(18:00):
Not once did she mention our mom or how we
might be feeling. She did later come to me, but
acted like nothing was wrong. I told her I was
really upset with how the situation was handled, with her
son being really physically hurt, and instead she just yelled
at me that I have no idea how hard it
is to be a single mom to an autistic child.
Just pausing real quick right here, I think we need

(18:22):
to break it, break it down, a little break down.
What like actionable steps should we do with Reagan at
this point in time, do you think with all that
we've seen.

Speaker 2 (18:31):
I think some some low contact is in order, for sure.
I mean it's like the dad isn't seeing her actively anymore. No,
like op doesn't like her. Who likes her in the family, nobody?

Speaker 1 (18:43):
She she started like latching onto and like getting around
the sister and the sisters like she's just she just
yapping about. I think what we gotta do I think
we got to do is I think we got to
put a little distance. Yes, And we gotta tell Reagan, hey,
we want a little distance. I think we tell everyone else, hey,
we're I'm trying to have distance. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (19:02):
Yeah, I think we gotta put a nice, clean and
delicious barrier between us and Reagan's ridiculousness. It sounds like
she's more of a parasitic barnacle on the bottom of
your boat, just latched on for dear life, and you
just gotta scrape those barnacles off.

Speaker 1 (19:19):
We need to get a freaking a shovel and get
shop in the scuba gear and just go dum dum
dun kum dunk. Yeah, all those barnacles have been bunked off. Yeah,
get those barnacles off. So Opie says, Look, I get it.
I'm not in the situation of being a single mom
with an autistic child. But there was also another autistic
child at the wedding and he was being looked after
and monitored by his mother.

Speaker 2 (19:40):
See, autism is not an excuse. As Josephine said, there you.

Speaker 1 (19:44):
Go, by the way. You know what else is not
an excuse. Tell me John the fact that you haven't
looked up our podcast yet, because we have full episodes
with stories just like this. All you have to do
is search Okay story Time on Spotify, Apple, the iHeart
podcast app. Is that a reasonable excuse Sam to not
watch it?

Speaker 2 (20:04):
There's no reasonable excuse to not watch it, zero, because
literally you can search Okay story Time wherever you get
your podcast, So freakin' do it.

Speaker 1 (20:13):
It's easy. It's easy unless you're a silly goose. Are you?
Are you? Yeah? Yeah, dude, that's you right now. I
don't know how to do it story Time. Stop it.
So anyway, we all cut her off after that, and
I told my dad to stop inviting her to family things,

(20:33):
as we all have had a bad time as she
routinely dumps Alan onto us and he is violent to
our kids, et cetera, et cetera. My dad seemed hesitant,
and I later found out that he had loaned Reagan
a significant amount of money. Why why you do this
for what?

Speaker 2 (20:51):
Reagan doesn't need anything or except a bubble to put.

Speaker 1 (20:56):
Her, Regan in a bubble.

Speaker 2 (20:58):
That's Reagan needs a bubble, yes, dude, or and her
son should be in a bubble together.

Speaker 1 (21:03):
But Opie says, I initially thought it was a few
grand which would be bad enough, but then it turned
out to be forty thousand dollars and he has not
seen a pennyback, and I doubt he ever will. Forty
thousand dollars for the side.

Speaker 2 (21:20):
Piece out here? Okay, really quick, really quick. I feel
gran pay.

Speaker 1 (21:27):
I feel that if you're lending a friend or family
member money, you should just expect it to go with yep. Away.
I feel you should just expect it to go away. Yep.
Oh my god, forty k is crazy. I hope they
just expected to go away, because that is that is

(21:47):
a wacked whack of dude. So it's quite clear that
she pursued my dad. She knew my mom was very wealthy,
as my mom was a client of hers and quite
frankly financially mistreated a vulnerable widow and try to sabotage
his wedding. Dum. It took me a long time to
see how awful all of this behavior was. But sometimes

(22:08):
when you're in it, you can't see the woods or
the trees, and that is the that's it, that's it.
That's that's Reagan. We got Reagan is Reagan. The worst
is a little poopy head. Wow. Good dude.

Speaker 2 (22:24):
I don't want to use that languid, but I'm gonna say, well,
that's I don't know, Sam, your ole poopy Wow, that's
ten toes down, Wow, standing on this poop waffle? Stop
head waffle stomping into the shower drain. Wow, really quick,
you're seeing some girl. You know it's sliding cheeks on

(22:45):
the side. You're not gonna loan forty thousand dollars, but
are you good alone?

Speaker 1 (22:51):
Forty K to the.

Speaker 2 (22:52):
Mother of your A strange child, a fair baby. Dang it,
he was adopted.

Speaker 1 (23:00):
Ah.

Speaker 2 (23:02):
My stepmother demands an apology from my wife, but I
won't allow it.

Speaker 1 (23:06):
Not today. No apology needed because I don't want it.

Speaker 2 (23:11):
Tie thirty two male have been married to my wife
Vivian twenty nine, female for six years.

Speaker 1 (23:15):
We have three kids.

Speaker 2 (23:16):
I have several siblings, but this instance revolves around my
half brother, Trevor eighteen, who lives out of state. Trevor
came to visit over a spring break. My step mom
has never liked Trevor, mostly because she doesn't like his mother.
By the way, this comes from other transition four three seven.
If you want us some of your own stories?

Speaker 1 (23:34):
Good? Who are slash? Okay? Story time? So bread it?
Oh yeah oh.

Speaker 2 (23:39):
Three days into Trevor's visit, my step mom kept making
snarky colms about him, his mom, his family, school, his
tat two, et cetera. Trevor got tired of this and
grabbed his car keys and said he was leaving. This
is around eleven PM. My step mom laughs and says
he doesn't have enough gas to get home or money
to get more.

Speaker 1 (24:00):
Get wreck over.

Speaker 2 (24:02):
Trevor said that he didn't need enough gas or money
to get home, He just needed enough gas to get
to my house.

Speaker 1 (24:10):
Oh.

Speaker 2 (24:11):
My stepmom laughs again and says I'm not even home,
I'm at work, which was true at work nights, and
that Vivian, my wife, would never let him stay there.
Trevor says, I guess we'll see, we got a little
we got a little stand off here, yep, because he
knew Vivian wouldn't tell him no, and leaves. My stepmother

(24:31):
then calls my wife and tells her that Trevor is
on his way to our house and under no circumstances
is Vivian to allow him to stay with us. Vivian
says she's not going to turn him away, especially down
in the middle of the night, and that everyone can
all talk about it tomorrow. So let me know to
call my dad when I get a chance to figure
out what's going on. My stepmom begets angry and says
that Trevor is not Vivian's child and is allowed to

(24:54):
do whatever he wants, and Vivian needs to respect her
as the mother of the family, and that she can
make life in the family difficult for Vivian if she
needs to. For Vivian to understand her place.

Speaker 1 (25:08):
That is a threat, dude, And also, real quick, I
heard this. I heard a quote recently. I think it
was on one of her own videos. They're like, if
someone marries your dad in adulthood, that's not your step mom.
That is your husband's wife. You're not telling me, mom,
big boy, I'm a man.

Speaker 2 (25:27):
Yeah, And that Vivian has no right to let people
into my name's home without my knowledge. There were other
things said as well, and eventually Vivian loses her patients
and ends the call by saying that my mom is
just mad that she can't be a f mom bully
to Trevor anymore because he found a loophole. My stepmother

(25:49):
calls me while I'm at work and tells me Vivian
was rude to her. At this point, I have no
idea that anything has happened. She then calls my dad,
he works nights as well, and tells some version of events.
My dad calls me and tells me that Vivian was
disrespectful and had no right to speak to her that
way and needs to apologize for her behavior. I get

(26:11):
a call about five minutes later from Vivian. He tells
me that Trevor is at our house and they tell
me everything that happened. Since Vivian wasn't at the house
and Trevor wasn't there yet for a call, I call
my dad and tell him that it doesn't sound like
Vivian did anything except stand up for herself, and my
dad insists that Vivian needs to apologize. Why does Vivian

(26:33):
need to apologize? Last I heard, your stepmom was being
mean to Trevor. Trevor leaves. Trevor goes and says that Vivian,
Vivian can let whoever she wants into the house, big girl,
Trevor's eighteen. Trevor is legally a man, that's true, non
legally a boy, but legally a man. Yes, I don't
want to say non legally a boy. There are men
that have fought and gone to war at eighteen, that's true,

(26:56):
and it become more men than us podcast chair boys
could ever be.

Speaker 1 (27:00):
Hey, we're on the front lines of context. That is true.

Speaker 2 (27:03):
We are we are you know we are, we are?
We are World War two. Vets have nothing on the
podcast vets that we are. We have gone through the trenches.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
Couldn't have said it better myself.

Speaker 2 (27:16):
I tell him, if anybody is owed an apology, it's
Vivian true the facts. This was all three days ago.
I'm getting texts from family members about Vivian needing to
apologize and that Vivian doesn't have the right to get
involved with family squabbles, and she shouldn't have let Trevor
run away from the consequences of his actions. No one
can tell me what the actions were, and if Vivian

(27:39):
doesn't apologize, then she's not welcome around anymore. So whack
whack these roles should be freaking Friday. Yep, yeah, Hannah
says podcast Soldiers. Yes, ma'am, I don't think she owes
an apology. But I had a bad relationship with my
family for years when I was younger, and since it's
proved drastically, I've been a lot happier having them life,

(28:00):
and I don't want to lose them like that. But
I also can't just allow someone to disrespect my wife
so blatantly in respect and expect an apology for it.
But Vivian at this point is starting to feel bad,
and she always stresses too much over absolutely anything she
thinks she might have done to upset someone, So this
really sent her on a series of mental gymnastics, and
she says, if she doesn't want to be the reason

(28:22):
I have a bad relationship with my family yet again,
Vivian is a goat.

Speaker 1 (28:27):
That's true, she's worried about everyone, but you know what
she deserves to be worried about herself.

Speaker 2 (28:32):
Yeah, she's literally thrown her body on the front lines,
ain't It's true? Much like our World War two that's
and our podcast veterans yep, all equally risking it all. Yeah,
you know it's beautiful to see. Hopefully we all can
be an inspiration. I've remained firm. Yeah, you have that
she doesn't owe them anything. But am I the a

(28:55):
hole for not having her do it? Just to get
over with? There are some relevant comments and an update,
But do you think ops the A hole not the
A hole? Tell me what you believe? Yeah, your heart
of hearts. I don't think O PE's a whole. I
definitely don't think Vivian is the a whole. A Vivian
is the angel angel if anything? Uh, and I don't.

Speaker 1 (29:16):
But to answer Ope's question, I don't think that she
should go to Vivian and say, hey, just apologize, because
we are enabling the family and step mom to be
able to pressure her and to something we always say
is like your family, your your problem. Right? So O
p is the one, This is O Pea's step mom,

(29:37):
This is o Peas down, this is PE's cross to bear.
That is your burden bear. So you got to go
to the family and be like, listen, you can't treat
my wife that way. I have drawing a hard line
and you need it. You should. You should apologize. Know exactly,
but exactly needs to get out of the trenches, store
on the battlefield of really really milking this. We that's

(30:00):
relevant comments We got an update. Oh.

Speaker 2 (30:02):
Comment one says, not the a hole. Your wife is
a good person for supporting your brother, whilst your stepmother
is a manipulative and cruel woman and your dad is
supporting her behavior. I think it's time to cut off
both of them and let your brother know that you'll
always have his back. I don't know about cut off,
but I think I think a little bit of a
distance for sure. He had draw a line. Opie says,

(30:24):
he definitely knows we will. The last three visits he's made,
he's stayed with us to avoid her. He just didn't
this time because it was also the kids spring break
and V had a lot of things planned for them
to go do. Now she's been taking him with them,
and Co two says, you're all adults him too. Fact,
your stepmother went on a bowling rampage, then full backcrap

(30:45):
power tripping. She isn't your mother, nor your wife's mother,
not even your brother's mother mother, So where the heck
is she claiming the title? She's the stepmom, and even
if she was, you are all adult. She can't make
any of you do nothing. She has no authority on
who enters you and your wife's home, no more than
where and what your adult brother chooses to be or do. No,

(31:07):
she can't do what she wants. No, she doesn't get
to decide what other adults do with their lives. No,
she can't force others to follow her orders to bully. No,
she doesn't get to do whatever the duck she wants,
or conduct herself in such a horrific extent without consequences.
What is really concerning is how fast she started to
be menacing towards you and her wife. Yeah she threatened quick, Yeah,

(31:29):
how sure she was to not get anyone opposing her,
Certain of being able to force others into her sane demands.
Your wife has nothing to apologize for. She deserves some
for the insanity she had to put up with. Your
stepmother wants to cause pain and control others. She reached
a quite dangerous level of having lost touch with reality.
These sounds actually seriously dangerous, and Nope responds, she has

(31:51):
a daughter of her own from a previous marriage, and
she and my dad have my youngest brother together. Also,
they've been married for a long time, so I'm assuming
that's where she came up with that line. And a
comment three says not the a whole stepmom sounds like
she's on a power trip. Can you tell your dad everything,
Vivian said. Slash threatened that her dislike of Trevor is
also putting a wedge between you and your dad too.

(32:13):
You write to stand up for your wife and Tea.
I'm sorry, everyone else is reasonable and OPI response. I
am planning to speak to my dad one last time
about the situation tonight. I told him the conversation that happened,
but I have no idea what my stepmother told him
happened on the call. So updates, Sam. Here, we're gonna
get back to the stories. But here's three minutes bads

(32:33):
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Speaker 1 (32:38):
April fools. Let's see who is a fool?

Speaker 2 (32:41):
First of all. Thank you for your advice and the
kind words for Slash about Vivian. I spoke to my
dad last night, and I wish I could say it
went well, oh brother, but I think absolutely no one
expected it too. He put me on speaker and my
stepmother was in the room with him. I said that
Vivian will not be apology and that she is an

(33:01):
adult who can make her own decisions about having a
guest in our home. I don't control her decision making.
My stepmom cut in with it. You're controlling her now
by deciding for her. You can't make things right, which.

Speaker 1 (33:13):
I responded, you might be right about that, but in
this instance, it's a risk I'm willing to take. Doesn't
have anything to apologize for. I said, I'm not going
to allow you to continue to cause her or myself
unnecessary stress. I also told them they can't seriously expect
an apology after the way they acted, and if they did,
they were borderline insane. Throw it down. Let them know

(33:37):
you can't bully and belittle someone repeatedly and expect them
to be okay with it forever. And you cannot threaten
an adult and expect it to just go over nicely.
I told them that if they were so willing to
act like children and cut Vivian and by extension, me
and our children out of the family, then we would
save them the hasshole and do it ourselves. I told
them we would be blocking their numbers along with everyone else.

(33:57):
They tried to argue more, but I simply hung up,
which might have been immature, but I was just done.
I blocked everyone's numbers. About an hour later, I get
a Facebook message from my stepsister. I rarely used Facebook,
so I forgot I had her as a friend on there.
My stepsister is the only sibling who isn't my dad's
and is the only one of my stepmoms. She and

(34:20):
Vivian have always been really close. He hasn't been involved
in this situation at all, so I took the chance
called her hmm. She asked me if everything her mom
had told her was true, and I said most likely not,
but this is what happened, and explained it all to her.
She then told me several instances where her mom had
been similar to her and her fiance. She said she

(34:42):
had wanted to cut ties a long time ago, but
didn't want to be the only one in the family
who is on the outs, and she doesn't have a dad,
so no other family to turn to. He asked if
I had really blocked them and planned to keep it
that way, and I said yes, and so did Vivian Trevor.
She called me back and hung up. By the way,
you should never hang up on stories just like.

Speaker 2 (35:04):
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Speaker 1 (35:15):
That's right, there's another relevant update. But let's discuss. Let's talk.
What do you think about using this this crazy stepmother's
daughter as a as a way in Yeah, I mean
I think it is, you know, good to hear her
out because, like Opie said, it's like, hey, she's good
friends with his wife Vivian, and you know she wasn't

(35:35):
involved in the mix. She was completely on the outside.
I think it's totally fair, like pick up the call, answer,
get to hear her perspective. Not that that you know,
would necessarily change this stance with stepmom and everything. It
helps you understand to the point where you can do something. Yeah,
and also just really quick, we never learned what Trevor
did to pick. The step mom would not reveal what

(35:58):
he did, which, which leans way is nothing. Yes, it
leads me to believe that it was absolutely nothing and
she knew that. Oh if people knew that's why she
was kicking them out, then they'd be like, what are
you talking about? What are you talking about? I do
think I will say. My guess is that this is
one in a long line of crazy things that the
stepmom has done. If that's true, I mean, there could

(36:19):
have been maybe more of a time out, you know,
and just see how things go. But it kind of
feels like there's a lot more stuff that she's done
in the past. She's not seem like someone reasonable that
you can maybe get through the stuff through communication.

Speaker 4 (36:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (36:32):
Well, about twenty minutes later I get a call from
her saying that she had called my stepmom. Her mom
had cut the cord with them as well and blocked
their numbers too, as did fiance. So while I might
have lost a decent amount of my family members, I
did actually get to keep the best two out of
the bunch, plus obviously my wife and kids. Thank you
to everyone or advice and we got a few comments.

(36:53):
In a response from Ope comment one, I said, great resolution,
the only rational way to deal with the sane people,
and comment to not the a whole You're stepmother is unhinged.
He has no business telling your wife what to do
with her home.

Speaker 1 (37:04):
What's with that? Bs that Vivian can't let people in
the house without your permission? Why is your father not
defending his son with your stepmother's rude common mm. I
inherited my grandmother's apartment, but she won't let go of it. Oh, Grandma,
just let go. You're gonna be in the ground soon.
That will be like your apartment. Gota pry it out

(37:25):
of your old cold hands. Well, I thirty two female,
have a grandma eighty two female who is living in
an apartment that I own. But let me start with
more context. My grandma is a very toxic person. She
is one of the most evil people that I have
met in my life. Personally, Wow, oh my goodness, grandma
sounds terrible bold statements over here. She is extremely emotionally immature.

(37:49):
I imagine an eight year old spoiled girl in the
body of an eighty year old woman. I don't know
why that's making me laugh. By the way, this comes
from tiny procedure. You're thirty five to twenty one, and
if you want to submit your own stories, go to
the r slash Okay storytime. So abreut it So she
neglected her two kids, my mom and my uncle, to
the point that they are both low contact and walking

(38:10):
on eggshells their whole lives. She was also never interested
in me and my brother, her grandchildren, to the point
that I met her in person maybe only like twenty
times in my entire life. How did she get your apartment?
I don't know. I don't know. I met her for
the first time when I was maybe eight years old.
There was one period of time where she was more

(38:31):
in contact, but for the last twenty years basically no contact. Again,
still somehow living in your apartment interesting. I really hoped
I would never have to deal with her for the
rest of my life. But here we are.

Speaker 2 (38:45):
Here we are. Granny has come back from the dad
to haunt. You lost you alive?

Speaker 1 (38:50):
That's right. Follow that now to the current situation. I
unfortunately lost both of my parents. Wow. My dad passed
away nine years ago due to cancer, and my mom
unexpectedly passed away last year from heart failure. So the
grandma literally outlived her her parents. It was an extremely
difficult situation, not only emotionally, but also because my younger

(39:13):
brother thirty mail has a psychiatric diagnosis and I had
to find him a new place to live, managed a
whole new situation from him, and settle how it will
be from now on. That is a lot to handle. Also,
my family was quite well known in my country due
to their profession, so everything was public. Photographers were, Oh wow,

(39:33):
that's that's crazy. That makes it a lot worse. What
OPI's low key kind of famous. The op is well
known in their country due to their profession, so everything
was very public. OPI is well known due to their profession. Yes,
the family, the family, the whole family. So parents passed

(39:55):
away and you know before the grandma, Grandma's outlived her children.
Opie's got a move that the brother who has a
psychiatric disorder, now he's start like there is a lot
going on.

Speaker 3 (40:06):
This sounds like the Queen of England, you know, it
kind of does like that patriarchy or whatever.

Speaker 1 (40:12):
So professional photographers were everywhere and it was just an
overwhelming time. So OPI, Opie's very famous, a low key
I think Doiley's point could could be royal fans, royalty wow,
big royals, right, hey if this is if that's eup, yeah,
come on the show. Yeah yeah, come on the show
please and give us a crown. Now. My grandma didn't

(40:33):
bother coming to my mom, her own daughter's funeral, and
when the newspapers asked her what will happen with my
brother now because of his mental illness, she literally publicly said,
I don't care about those things. It's crazy. Wow about
the apartment.

Speaker 2 (40:50):
Yo, Riley, Yeah, can you put this into chat and
see if we have enough information to know who these
people are.

Speaker 1 (41:00):
Out that apartment. It originally belonged to my great grandparents
parents have said Grandma Grandma was basically born and raised there.
Then from the ages of around twenty to sixty she
was living in a completely different city. Meanwhile, her mom,
my great grandma, decided to give that apartment directly to
her granddaughter, which is my mom. She had her reasons,
and she decided to skip her daughter in the inheritance

(41:21):
process and give this apartment directly to my mom and
said my mom then owned the apartment, did some much
needed reconstruction and allowed her mom. Grandma from the story
to live there, as I previously said, and you are
probably putting the pieces together. Now. My mom suddenly passed
away this year, so now I inherited and owned the apartment, Shesh,

(41:44):
I am the only owner. Now, the sole owner of
the apartment. We split the inheritance with my brother and
I left him all of the cash. Due to his
mental situation, he wouldn't be able to take care of
any real estate or anything like that. I'm his official
helper in all things admitised station, governmental documents, finance management,
et cetera, et cetera, kind of like power of attorney

(42:04):
in scene. Yep, when my mom passed away, Grandma wasn't
really doing anything or wasn't in contact. And after a
few months, I really needed to visit the apartment and
take pictures to see the overall situation, you know, as
the owner of the apartment, as you should, as one
would do. Hey, I want to go to my house.
My house. I didn't street Downey Street, that is get them. Sorry,

(42:31):
I got excited. I'm called. I called her. Mind you
I heard from her after twenty years and she was
surprisingly nice. We managed to visit her take pictures of
the apartment, and she was quite friendly. I was glad,
but suspicious. Suspicious. Later I found out that my grandma
never signed any contract with my mom, and she was
basically living there rent free, contract free, and eventually responsibility free.

(42:56):
That's a lot of free. I decided to ask her
to sign a regular contract and to provide some reasonable rent.
I'm not a cruel person. I understand she is eighty
two living on a pension, though she is still partially working.
Dang's man, who is this fan? Granny is still partially working? Yes?
Who is this family? Riley? Correct, figure it out.

Speaker 4 (43:17):
It's researching, Hurry, it's te Yeah, Mush.

Speaker 1 (43:23):
I offered her a third of the price that she
would have to pay the owner or landlord if they
were someone else, So basically basically charging a third of
what the rent should be. Yeah. I decided to call
her and ask if she would be willing to do that.
At first she was, she was in a good mood,
and then she said, if you need money, just tell me.

Speaker 2 (43:41):
Boy Oh p's asking for to Okay, so wait, wait
really quick, Yes, sir, it's Ope's house apartment.

Speaker 1 (43:49):
Sorry, it's Ope's apartment. Grandma's trying to live in there
is living just no contract nothing. Okay, So is this
Opie's apartment. Granny's living there, and he's like, hey, Granny,
would you pay a third of what the rent would be? Yes? Okay?
Can we can we get a contract in place? Would
you all? I just want to charge you a third
of what the rent should be?

Speaker 2 (44:09):
You know, how did and and just to fully clarify, yes,
OPI inherited this house.

Speaker 1 (44:16):
Yes, it was passed down through a long rigamarole and
eventually landed in Opie's hands through inheritance. Right. Uh, the
reason why Grandma was living there, she was living there
when Opie's mom was still alive when she ran the apartment, right,
So it kind of so, but Granny's been just like
staying there long free for a long time, no contracts, nothing, right,

(44:37):
just just straight up living in there.

Speaker 2 (44:38):
So it is a tough situation though, because like she
has been living living rent free in that like the
expectations she's going to continue to live there rent free.
I do though, she is just absolutely terrible in a
talk person. I do think it's a little hard to
charge someone who's been living rent free in a place
like that's family.

Speaker 1 (44:57):
Charging a third yeah, Opie says. At first she was
down for this, she was in a good mood, and
then she said, if you need money, just tell me.
I really didn't like this sentence because I don't actually
need money from her. She is living for free in
a place she doesn't own or have any legal rights to.
I told her I would call her in one week
again with more information. I didn't tell her the price.

(45:19):
Yet when I called her for the second time, her
mood was completely different. She had an absolutely not attitude
towards the whole contract situation. At first, she started blaming
her own mother that she had given the apartment to
my mom instead of her. Then she said, how horrible
of a granddaughter I am to want something like this
from her, And she started basically threatening me that she

(45:41):
can ruin my reputation in the newspaper. Now, I am
only a daughter of my parents. I do not work
in any public profession. In fact, I would love to
live a blissfully invisible life, so there's really no reputation
to be ruined. I consider it nasty. Anyway, I'll call
the paper to tell them what you did? Old paid?

(46:01):
Did you charge green wrench? I do think I don't know.

Speaker 2 (46:06):
I don't know what country this is, but I mean
in America you might have like squatters rights if she's
been living there for years and years and years. I
think that there is a potential that, like you just
might be uh wrecked real quick.

Speaker 1 (46:19):
I think Opie had a line where she was basically like,
I don't need the money. Why are we bothering? Why
are we bothering? Like if you don't, if you don't
really if it sounds like you just want to punish
this this granny, that's just awful.

Speaker 3 (46:32):
Okay, it's fifty percent God telling it.

Speaker 1 (46:35):
Hey, y'all, it's John og Host here. We're gonna get
back to the story, but here's a quick three minute
break from asp form response. She cited that I must
honor thy father and thy mother, which was very creepy,
not only because she is not religious, but because it
was the same sentence that my dad always used when
I was not obedient. Made me physically sick. The last
thing was that she started just threatening to unlive herself,

(46:57):
and that was the end of the call. It took
me several minutes to be able to speak. I was
at first crying uncontrollably and then I shared it with
my husband. My husband is a saint. My Night and
the whole in law family are the best people I've
ever met, and I'm really thankful. So we decided to
send her a letter in which I again offered the contract.
I made the price even a little bit lower, and

(47:18):
I also sent a proposition of the contract to where
so if she agreed, she could sign it right away
and send it back. She replied with a handwritten note
of some two paragraphs that she doesn't need any contract
because she has been living there for twenty years or
something like that.

Speaker 2 (47:33):
That could be true. I mean, that could be true
squatter or squat or something.

Speaker 1 (47:37):
That's like that's not squatter's rights, that's like squatters like legacy.
Yes there for what's the full generation? Yeah, yeah, dude,
I mean I don't know.

Speaker 2 (47:50):
Again now where she sounds terrible, but I really I
don't think charging this a granny rent for a house
that stayed within your family for decades that she's been
is like worth it. And also like just feels I
don't know, I just it feels a little bit whack.

Speaker 1 (48:06):
On op side if I'm being honest. For a few
like guessing here totally guessing a few hundred bucks, Yeah,
a few hundred bucks were doing all the palace.

Speaker 2 (48:15):
I don't know, Okay, this palace, even the essentially they
don't need the money, so it's not about the money.
It's about the punishment. And you're punishing yourself if anything else,
you know, that's a good We say self care over.

Speaker 1 (48:26):
Pettiness on this show. This feels like a little bit
at pettiness over self guard. So in the meantime, I
also found out more about her behavior in the apartment building.
Ten years ago. There was an official complaint from the
whole building regarding her unhinged behavior, which the whole building
leading me to leading me to believe all the butlers
in their cult. We're saying that she was calling quite

(48:46):
a ruggus. She was damaging property, leaving some parts of
the building open. So that way some burglary. Burglary happened,
not her intention, by the way, but anyways, she spilled
a whole bucket of water in the hallway, et cetera,
et cetera. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (49:01):
That last one feels like a little of like we're nitpicking.
She's an old woman, she's trying to carry by w
W talk.

Speaker 1 (49:11):
I feel like we're reaching. We gathered all of this
and we delivered it to the lawyer. I hope you're
doing too much. We've already said that. In the end,
we sent her a letter giving her another chance to
communicate and sign the contract. She didn't answer, nothing, silence.
So now I'm standing at the point of taking it
all to court and possibly ordering her to leave the
apartment by law. We're gonna have the police escort Grandy

(49:33):
out of here. All the documents are being prepared, we
haven't sent it just yet. The whole situation is emotionally
very difficult for me. For my whole life, I've always
been conditioned, manipulated and gas lit into submission, being the
caretaker for everyone and not being able to say no,
especially to family, in order to keep the peace. I've
actually had enough, and part of me wants to really

(49:54):
stop being a doormat and stand up for myself and
my rights. Another part of me is somehow scared to
be the villain in someone else's story and be seen
as an evil person ruin the life of an old woman.
By the way, if you do not want to be
an evil person and to uh and to grow into
the best version of yourself. Go to Spotify, Apple podcast,

(50:14):
i heeart podcast app and search Okay story time for
two thousand episodes to Good Advice thousand episodes. That's a
lot of episodes, John, so many, so many, endless, endless
content of good advice giving Gooflee. So that's all I'm saying.
But ladies and gentlemen, we've got one final piece to this, John,
give it to me. But my my thing before we

(50:35):
go into this, I do feel like, as terrible as
this old lady may be, I feel like op is
maybe doing a little bit too much. I'm the cost
of their own happiness. Agree to just let this old
lady pass away in peace. You know, you got like
three years. Maybe it could be twenty could Yeah, that's true,

(50:58):
it could be forty. Will live like with me, dude.

Speaker 2 (51:06):
You know, I think they're going to solve aging in
the next like ten years.

Speaker 1 (51:10):
You could be right.

Speaker 2 (51:11):
I think I think if we at least like Ai,
Twitter is telling me that if you just make it
ten years, we're we're we're we're we're gold we're golden.

Speaker 3 (51:22):
Oh we do some virgin blood. We can do it.

Speaker 1 (51:23):
Yeah, dude, I'm gonna be I'm gonna be having an
HRV like Riley in no time. My heart is going
to be as young as Riley's. Dude, I don't let
me look at it. I look at it. Flex it
on me. Bro I said a pretty good last night
is always flexed on me. Okay, let's see strained for strength.
So my uncle is another almost last living relative. Though

(51:47):
being traumatized by her as her son for his whole life,
he is also an enabler and is now not communicating
with me because I want a contract. Wow, dang, dude,
come on, uncle, solidarity, What's what's going on? It hurts
not only because there's basically no one on my side
of the family left, but because I always liked him
very much. But such is life. I also have a

(52:08):
two year old and I'm currently pregnant with my second baby.
It is really just a lot right now. Also, my
grandma is healthy. She she has longevity in her jeans.
Her mom passed away at ninety three. B yeah, ninety three,
ten more years. Yeah, you got you, you might got to,
you might have a while. You've got You've got potentially

(52:29):
over a decade left away at least, And people living
longer and longer. My grandparents are ninety three and ninety two. Wow,
how old your grandpa?

Speaker 3 (52:39):
Great grandpa, he's ninety two. I need to see him soon.

Speaker 1 (52:42):
Ninety two ninety two, man, And I think my grandpa
and grandma, I think I got another ten years. That's
I think they're I think they're they're they're golden. I
would believe it. I think I think you got good
genes in the family. My grandma my mom were intellectually
sparring yesterday about or like two days of about politics. Dude, lovely,
there we go. That's they're sharp. Yeah, it means the sharp.

(53:05):
My grandpa yesterday was like, are you dealing with the
deed before marriage?

Speaker 3 (53:12):
What did you say?

Speaker 2 (53:13):
I said, yeah, Grandpa, And he's like, you're Catholic?

Speaker 1 (53:17):
Upbreaking me nothing. And then we had a beautiful conversation
about religion and spicy sleep. You get on you for
standing on business, Oh, dude, you know I can't lie.
That's true, Grandpa.

Speaker 4 (53:29):
Grandpa, dude, my great grandpa tried to give me money
to buy in high school.

Speaker 1 (53:34):
I was like, Grandpa, I'm good, I'm scared.

Speaker 3 (53:37):
I don't even know what that looks like.

Speaker 1 (53:38):
That is that is literally that is literally exactly what
I'm going to do as a grandpa. That is exactly
what I'm gonna do.

Speaker 4 (53:45):
H not by that time, you're gonna you're probably gonna
have the WD forty for their you know robot.

Speaker 1 (53:50):
Oh yeah, yeah, your robot. My grandma has longevity and
her jeans. Her mom passed away at ninety three. She
has some difficulty walking, but mentally she is okay, apart
from being that crap crazy of course, So would I
be the a hole if I sued my grandma and
eventually kicked her out of my apartment. So that's the
end of the story. But we we have to have

(54:12):
this conversation, Sam, and ladies and gentlemen, we're gonna we're
gonna see if we can get to the bottom of
the big secret royal family in second here too, So
stick around for that. But I honestly, I'm gonna be
honest here, Sam. I think she kind of might be Yeah,
definitely to herself. I think so too. I think so too.

Speaker 2 (54:32):
Like, while yes it is, you have inherited it, and
so I guess legally you can do what you want.
I think the fact that like the default was the
Graham was staying there rent free. Kind of means that
you inherited that problem when you inherited the apartment, you know.

Speaker 1 (54:49):
Yeah, yeah, and like I think it would be you know,
what's a completely different scenario is hey, uh, you know
me and my husband, we have a two year old,
we have another baby. Hey, we're trying to roll in
the dough. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (55:00):
If if it was a money issue, then I think
that would be totally fine. But again, ops, like it's
not a money issue. Yeah, I'm part of this royal
Scottish family.

Speaker 4 (55:09):
Really Yeah, they said none of this is a perfect match.
We got one in France, we got one in Scotland.

Speaker 1 (55:16):
All right, well yeh, chad if you if you got
it like that, guess in the comments of his video,
somebody go and and s we can find this out. Yeah,
do your internet research and make your top like comment.
I want to see that on this video. Yeah, that's
all that's all I think.

Speaker 2 (55:30):
Op, you're you're a little bit the a holepe And hey,
you know people disagree with us all the time.

Speaker 1 (55:36):
What do you think?

Speaker 2 (55:37):
But your answers in the comments below, and with that,
I think that is the end of this episode. Yes, sir, so,
if you love us. Make sure to subscribe.

Speaker 1 (55:44):
We love you and all

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