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Speaker 1 (00:33):
My wife cheated on me because I haven't saw yet.

Speaker 2 (00:36):
He's just a little sleepy.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
My first wife's name is Amy. If we met in college,
we met approximately thirty years before the age of cell phones.
It was love. The first sign we got married once
we graduated. Live with Amy was great. For the first
two years of marriage. We were making approximately the same
amount of money and we were doing okay financially. By
the way, this comes from Diligent Well forty two nineteen
on the r slashow Okay story Tom Summer, So, after

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about two years of marriage, I started to get fatigued.
When I say fatigued, I mean I was tired all
the time. I was not sleeping the best at night.
Our a long time, to say it nicely decreased. I
had no energy for a long time with Amy. Then
I started to put on weight, I never excessively. Amy
pressured me into making an appointment with my doctor. At
first I resisted, but eventually called my doctor. Of course,

(01:21):
by the time I called my doctor, I had to
wait a little over three months since my doctor was
taking a month long vacation. As alone time was decreasing,
Amy was getting very frustrated. We started arguing about the
little things as well. Had no energy to argue, which
infuriated Amy even more. I was using the little energy
I had for my job, but I did not want
to lose my job. It was about a week away

(01:42):
from my doctor's appointment my employer approached me. My employer
handed me some forms to take to my doctor so
I could go on leave. I did not want to
go on leave, but I understood what my employer was thinking.
I knew my performance was decreasing. Finally, the day of
the doctor's appointment arrived. This made Amy happy. I told
my doctor everything. The doctor filled out the form so
I could go on leave. The doctor thought I had
chronic fatigue, but ordered a sleep study to be sure.

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I was given sleeping pills. I was not sure how
long I would be on leave. I knew chronic fatigue
was not good, but my only hope was something might
turn up in the sleep study. When I told Amy everything,
the doctor told me all she said is hopefully the
sleeping pills will work. The sleeping pills did not work.
I could not sleep more than an hour at a
time before and after the sleeping pills. Man Amy was

(02:26):
getting furious with me, and we had many arguments. Amy
wanted a long time with me, but I could not deliver.
We waited and waited for the sleep clinic to call,
since my doctor's office sent in a referral. Then one
day Amy came home later than usual. She seemed so relaxed.
I wondered what happened, but was too tired to care.
I was happy there was no fighting. Then Amy started

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coming home late more often. This is when I first
suspected something was going on. I decided to watch Amy
when it was her normal time to leave the office.
I saw her leave with a mal coworker. I followed
him to his place. Stocking was devastated. We took vows
to be faithful to one another, and both of us
stated in our vows in sickness and in health. The
next day, I called my lawyer's office and made an appointment.

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At the appointment, I was told that since we made
the same amount of money and lived in an apartment,
we would split everything evenly. I would have to pay
my share of the apartment until the lease ran out,
which was about five months away. When I moved into
the spare bedroom. I wanted to stay in the apartment
since I had to pay my share of the lease anyways,
I also wanted to wait for the call from the
sleep clinic. Once I had the divorce paper in hand,

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I confronted Amy. She went ballistic on me. She did
not want to get divorced. She said this guy was
temporary until my health issues were dealt with. I told
her this was not acceptable. I told her that if
she had a health issue which decreased our alone time
I would wait. She tried fighting the divorce, but my
mind was made up. I had to plan to move

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back into my parents once the least ended. Luckily, I
received a call from the sleep clinic about a month
before I was moving in with my parents. I had
to wait another four months for my appointment. When I
stayed with my parents, I never went out. I was
dealing with the issue of Amy cheating on me, and
I was too tired to go out. The day of
the sleep clinic arrived, I tried to sleep as best
I could, but I was literally wired up. I looked

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like someone from a space movie. I did not sleep much,
but I must have slept enough. The sleep doctor went
over the results with me, and turns out I have
sleep apnea. Once I started sleeping with the CPAP machine,
my energy returned. I was my old self again.

Speaker 2 (04:30):
Amazing, look at that. And then she's gonna be like,
oh cool, Oh we can just cool.

Speaker 5 (04:35):
So I'm gonna drop that guy maybe, and then I'll just.

Speaker 1 (04:39):
Oh my goodness. She could have at least been like,
can we open a marriage? That's at least you could
have done well.

Speaker 5 (04:45):
It could like say that I don't know, that's still
tricky though.

Speaker 1 (04:48):
If you need that and you didn't want to end it,
you could at least done that.

Speaker 5 (04:52):
I just wonder what kind of conversations and there is
more to this story, But I just wonder, like what
kind of conversations they've had it all about this, you know,
because like obviously op is like, hey, like I can't
do this, But I don't know if that's being communicated
to Amy, you know what I mean? And I don't
know if Amy's like, hey, like I want some you
know what I mean? And then and then she's like, hey,

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if you can't deliver, man, I'm just gonna find someone else,
you know what I mean. Like I just I that
obviously would be a tough conversation. You probably wouldn't want
to communicate that. Yeah, at least in nothing that way.
But there's definitely some sort.

Speaker 1 (05:27):
Of communication that they're lacking. Oh, in this situation. Oh sure.
I went back to work and my employer noticed how
much my performance had improved. Yes, I started going out
again with my friends. Life was good, but I was
missing having that special someone in my life. Then I
saw Bianca on one of my morning runs. Oh she
was so beautiful. I immediately went over to her. We

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started talking. We ended up going out and eventually got married.
What We've been married over twenty years?

Speaker 2 (05:54):
What?

Speaker 1 (05:54):
Oh my gosh. A few years ago, Bianca got some
bad news. Oh, she had break cancer. Thank you, they
caught it early enough, so she beat it. It did
take some time for all of this to happen. When
I was going on, we never had any alone time.
Once Bianca was cancer free, we started having alone time again.
After the divorce with Amy, I decided to have no

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contact with Amy. I did run into her at a
mall a few years after our divorce. She was so
shocked to see how good I looked and my energy
had returned. I told Amy about sleep apnea. She then apologized.
Her apology was genuine, so I accepted her apology. Amy
wanted to get back together. I gently told Amy I
was seeing someone and we were getting serious. This was
true as I was thinking about asking Bianca to marry me. Anyways,

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there was no way I would ever be with Amy again.
My opinion of Amy is that she is not a
bad person. She made a selfish decision which was a
deal breaker in our relationship. Once a cheater, always a cheater,
at least this is my opinion. Since I was curious,
I asked Amy why she did not have someone in
her life. Amy said, any guy worth going out with
does not want to go out, or they're due to

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her reputation as a cheater.

Speaker 2 (07:01):
Day look at that.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
That'll do it. Amy added she is considering asking for
a transfer to start over. I wish Amy well and
never saw her again. Originally I thought about getting revenge
on Amy and her coworker. The more I thought about this,
the more I thought. The best revenge would be for
me to live a happy life. Bianca at my side
for over twenty years. Today I am happy. My happiness

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is the best revenge of all. I did have a
friend of mine whose wife cheated on him, my friend David,
and one in mind vice. Since my spouse cheated on me,
I told David he has an important decision to make
as either his spouse will be in his life or
will not be in his life. It is an important
decision either way to stay or to go. I also
told David, this is where you put your happiness first

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and do not worry about getting revenge. David chose to stay.
David told his wife she must cut ties with her
friend who convinced her to cheat, and she had to
admit to her cheating to her parents and their children.
She did all of this as she realized she made
a mistake and love. David told me a few years
after this all happened. If he did not have children,
he does not know if he would have stayed or not.
This happened about ten years ago. Their children are now

(08:11):
out of their house. Since they are still together, it
has worked out for my friend. From time to time,
David talks about the time his wife cheated on him.
He will never forget. David explained that he had to
learn how to trust his wife again. Honestly, I do
not know how he does it. It shows me that
everyone is different, as I could never stay with anyone
who cheated on me. I recently started to think about
all the people I know who have cheated on their spouses.

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In my list, more men have cheated than women. I
realized when making this list. Both men and women cheat.
I am glad I do not associate with any of
these people on this list. I do not see David
as much as I did when we were younger, but
when we do it is for a game of cards.
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Speaker 5 (09:01):
I don't I don't think i'd be able to be
with someone if they cheated.

Speaker 1 (09:05):
I think I would be with OPI.

Speaker 5 (09:06):
I like that OPI is saying, like, you know, don't
get revenge, it's not worth it. Just focus on yourself,
which I think is I think is right.

Speaker 1 (09:14):
Oh yeah, yeah, I do think the level of complexity
David had to go through, you know, his wife, you
have kids with wife, that does add such a bad
That is hard. And didn't have to go through that,
that is hard.

Speaker 5 (09:24):
I think my my thought process with it is like
I don't want my kids to see that, like my
partner cheated on me and then we're still fine in
dandy and then for them to like think it's okay
in the future for their partners.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
To cheat on them, or for them to cheat on
their partners by example.

Speaker 5 (09:42):
Yeah, yeah, because we just read I read a story
with with Sophia just a second ago where it was
like the Sun cheated and the dad also cheated, it
turned out, and so it was like a right and
so I wouldn't want that to be my kids.

Speaker 1 (09:55):
In my opinion, people who cheat are weak and or selfish.
I know my case, I had opportunity to cheat on Bianca.
Whenever I get tempted, I think about how I was hurt.
I do not want Bianca ever to experience that kind
of heart. Also, I've realized Bianca can give me many
years of happiness, while the other people would only give
me one night of happiness. Basically, what I'm saying is,

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do not cheat. Never cheat. Why be in a relationship
if you want someone else, even if it's only for
a night. If you are cheated on, do not worry
about revenge. Your happiness is the best revenge.

Speaker 2 (10:26):
Absolutely that one.

Speaker 1 (10:28):
Ain't that the truth? Yeah? Well, honestly, that was the
best revenge story I've probably ever heard read. It's getting
the best kind of revenge, like he said, and the
way he went about it and kind of, you know,
still forgave that person and still moved on. Yeah, crazy, crazy,
that's impressive. But that's the end of that story.

Speaker 2 (10:48):
My friend is having an affair with a married man,
So I ended our friendship.

Speaker 1 (10:54):
Huh.

Speaker 2 (10:55):
I've been friends with the girl Danielle since high school.
Danielle started telling me about a boy she was dating.
He was in the middle of divorcing his wife for
her abusive nature. I gave her my honest opinion, stay
out of it until the divorce is finalized. It's very
smart advice because she could get dragged in as a

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mistress if what he claims about his wife is true
and he wants full custody. Interesting if he has a
mistress while married still that can be used against him.

Speaker 1 (11:27):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (11:28):
By the way, this comes from user Niki Bayadare on
the r slash okay storytime subreddit. So well, was I
made to look like an idiot? Not only was this
boy still very much married to his wife, he and
Danielle have been secretly dating since before his wife had
their last kid. Oh, she was in fact the mistress.

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This boy has been nothing but abusive to both my
friend and his wife, spinning lies to both of them
and weaving into their psyche that he was a saint
and such a good person. He loves his wife, he
loves my friend. Danielle literally drops work for him. He
has told my friend he will off himself if she
didn't take him on trips or do whatever he wants.

(12:19):
Oh my gosh, that's not very saint like. Told her
how when he is discovered, she will become an instant
mom to his kids. She wants to be a mom
so bad. Oh no, and they will try to have
a baby too. What is going on here?

Speaker 1 (12:32):
Oh my gosh. Manipulation to the max.

Speaker 2 (12:36):
The wife also found out when the boyfriend went for surgery,
Danielle decided to crawl into his bed to cuddle him
because he needed her. Guess who walked in wife and
boyfriend's mom.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
Oh boy, what is going on here? Oh my gosh,
this is a SOAPROPERA wild.

Speaker 2 (12:53):
One I personally witnessed was when he screamed at her
via a phone call at a bachelorette party because she
isn't allowed to drink because he decided my friend was
an alcoholic, but she's allowed to drink with him. Make
it make sense. Our friends banded together that night to
explain his behavior was not correct, and she cried and

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said she knew we all hugged her, and she said
she was ending it well. Four to five phone calls
later on the drive drive home and he was at
her house waiting for her with hugs and kisses. Oh boy,
what is this toxic relationship?

Speaker 1 (13:30):
Oh boy?

Speaker 2 (13:31):
I mentioned this because this show some part of her
is aware he is not a good person, but his
lies in guilt tripping and begging always win. But as
it turns out, she has been lying to all her
friends about him in various ways, and she was so
caught up in his lies to her she couldn't even
determine truth from fiction. Even in everyday conversation. She would

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tell me one thing, but another friend would get a
whole different story of the same event. I eventually realize
she was spinning different stories to everyone and got people
together until we pieced it together the full truth. No,
you get a piece of this story, you get a
piece of that story. Here's a little piece of that story.
I hope you all believe it, and I hope you
can solve the puzzle. Because of this and her parent

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being super concerned for the well being of their child,
she was not properly taking her medications, smoking stuff that
does not mix well with her meds, mental hospital visits.
I staged an intervention.

Speaker 1 (14:28):
Okay, sounds needed.

Speaker 2 (14:31):
At this point, anyone who was against the boyfriend was
cut out her life because they don't want you happy
or whatever. Bs he was feeding her, dude, just let
them be. Yeah, this is upsetting me so much. She's
like defending her actions like, oh, he has a wife
and kids. I'm still going to cheat or let him cheat,

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and I'm still gonna be the mistress.

Speaker 1 (14:54):
Guys.

Speaker 2 (14:55):
I rounded these people back up because we all still
genuinely cared for her, met up and talked about our
love for her and our concerns for her well being.
No one mentioned his name or their relationship. It was
solely about Danielle.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
Oh.

Speaker 2 (15:10):
She excused herself to the bathroom, but made sure to
grab her phone first. That no, bad, you should have
stopped it. You should have stopped it immediately. When she returned,
her whole demeanor shifted. She was cold and told us
she hurt us, but we need to respect her decisions,
even if we don't agree with them. We all paused,

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and I finally said, we can only respect her decisions
if she stops lying.

Speaker 1 (15:35):
There we go because.

Speaker 2 (15:37):
Respect comes for with trust, and she needs to show
us we can trust her. That's very philosophical and you're
trying to be good. Yeah, I said, it should have
not taken all of us piecing her life together the
last few years to get the truth. So if she
wants our respect, she needs to be upfront about her
situation and just be honest. Even if we don't agree

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with her choices, we would at least know the truth
and there would be no confusion with her friends even
if we worried. At least we would have the truth.
Eventually we all left and felt like we didn't make
much progress.

Speaker 1 (16:11):
No, you didn't know.

Speaker 2 (16:12):
There was zero progress there. I think, if anything, you
made it worse.

Speaker 4 (16:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (16:15):
Now you're going to enable her?

Speaker 1 (16:16):
Yeah. Q.

Speaker 2 (16:18):
A week later, Danielle comes to me claiming I was
trying to tell the boyfriend's wife about them. Of course,
for the record, she and boyfriend have been dating for
three years by then, with him still being married and
playing the double life. Three years. Dude, this guy's got game,
this guy's got money.

Speaker 1 (16:38):
Oh yeah, that's true, dude, that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (16:41):
This was over a year after the wife found him
in the hospital bed, and I have it on record
he was also seeing a third girl.

Speaker 1 (16:48):
Oh my gosh, what.

Speaker 2 (16:50):
I was also aware quite a few of her friends
have tried to reach out to the wife. I told
Danielle my piece that she is stupid for staying with
him and his lies, and one day the wife will
learn everything he has done behind her back. And then
a week or so later, I get a call from
the police about an effing sixteen page letter addressed to

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the wife detailing her husband's affair with Danielle. Wow. I
was shocked, but also found it hilarious in a poetic
justice way. I gave the officer anything he needed and
asked what he would like me to do about this.
Without saying it, he pretty much said, the boyfriend with
Danielle tantrum at the station, and he is looking to

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pull someone down with him.

Speaker 1 (17:37):
Oh oh, he said.

Speaker 2 (17:39):
I was pinned because of my last text exchange with Danielle.
But there's no crime for sending a letter. But the
officer said, because of how this boy acted, I am
to contact anyone who was at the intervention and tell
them to cease all contact and block anyone involved with
the boyfriend, his wife and Danielle. I did just that.

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I contacted all those involved and told them, the officer said,
to cut contact, don't cut contact with us because we're
live three pm PST every weekday. Just type our.

Speaker 1 (18:11):
Profile props through whoever did that the friend? Oh sixteen
page detailed letter.

Speaker 2 (18:18):
Dude, this is crazy. This is It sounds like a
crazy movie soap opera. Oh yeah, all of this this. Honestly,
it sounds way too crazy. That the Dan Yelle is
still with this man.

Speaker 1 (18:31):
Doesn't care, and that OPI's still friends with the new Yeah.
I wouldn't if I saw this happening, I'd be like,
friend Kean, stop seeing that woman. She's married.

Speaker 2 (18:41):
No, I love that woman. I love that woman. Honestly,
her lies they're better than your truths. Oh man, that's
literally what Danielle is saying to OPI.

Speaker 1 (18:56):
Oh this poor girl, This poor girl. She won't learn till.

Speaker 2 (19:01):
She's learning right now. And she does. I don't think
she cares.

Speaker 1 (19:04):
Yeah, no, not at all.

Speaker 2 (19:05):
She is so infatuated by this man, the fact that
there's a third person. Yeah, and like I feel like
like they've told Danielle, like you do realize what he's
doing with his mistress, like what he's doing with his wife,
he'll do with you and so on and so forth. Yeah,
and she doesn't care, let's get back to this story.
And I'm getting really tired of Danielle. I kick her

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out of your life as I'm writing. As of writing this,
he is still married. Dude. How much money does this
guy have? I need to Knowire's got to be a trillionaire.
Danielle is still warming his bed as a mistress, and
she has no friends, only co workers she speaks to.
She doesn't leave her house unless it is with him.
As far as I know, he is no longer welcome

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at her parents' house. And I still don't know who
sent the letter. I would rather not know. Part of
me thinks I've burned any support system she had, but
then I remember she was burning though anyway. Yep, if
I said a Fred didn't agree with her boyfriend, So
Reddit and fellow Potatoes, am I the a hole for
ending a fourteen year friendship and thereby burning her friendship

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with others?

Speaker 1 (20:11):
No?

Speaker 2 (20:12):
Girl, No, this girl's crazy. This girl Danielle is crazy.
This girl's crazy, crazy, crazy. Sorry, I'm gonna keep saying it.
She's crazy.

Speaker 1 (20:21):
I hate that she got manipulated into that her value
was with this man, and that she's gonna be the first.

Speaker 2 (20:27):
She I'm not gonna lie. She lost herself.

Speaker 1 (20:30):
Oh yeah, definitely, she lost her all.

Speaker 2 (20:32):
She lost who she was. She was like this man
is just like.

Speaker 1 (20:36):
And it was at such a young age. She probably
doesn't know who she is. No, no, but and her
identity is wrapped up in this.

Speaker 2 (20:42):
Yeah, and she's okay, like this is my support system?
Now is this man who has I'm his mistress, I'm
not even his full on wife. The fact that he's
still married. I don't understand what is going on. It
is crazy, what is going on. But in the friendship,
you don't need it done.

Speaker 1 (20:57):
E easy.

Speaker 2 (20:59):
But that's the end of that story.

Speaker 1 (21:00):
Mary, my grateful best friend, ruined my wedding. So I
ended our twenty five years of friendship.

Speaker 2 (21:05):
Twenty five years down the drain.

Speaker 1 (21:08):
And my able for ending my friendship with my best
friend of twenty five years because what she did during
my wedding. Step on for a long one. I thirty
three female, married thirty two male husband three years ago.
We had been dating prior to our wedding for eight years.
When he went I met my husband, Sam my best friend,
let's call her Laura thirty two female, advised me not

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to exclusively you date him as I should keep my
options open.

Speaker 2 (21:37):
That's a very odd thing to say, Laura Baye.

Speaker 1 (21:41):
By the way, this comes from Purple Wonder one two
three on the RSS showcase Story Time, Saybredden, So, I
remember how baffled I was at this because I had
never dated multiple men at the same time and would
exclusively date and remain in a serious relationship with my exes.
Fast forward to twenty twenty one. We planned a wedding
during COVID as we felt financially ready to do so.

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Laura had known for years that Sam and I were
planning to get married, but kept facing hardships throughout our years.
Father passed away, his mother had a stroke, etc. My
husband is the majority bread winner in his family, consisting
of four other people. A mining detail is that we
are South Asians, so our culture sons lived together, so

(22:24):
I was joining a family of five. Due to COVID,
I was able to tremendously financially save for the wedding events,
and so was he. He proposed to me in April
of twenty twenty one, and by May we were religiously married.
At that time, my friend and I were on good terms.
We had fallouts through the years because of her controlling behavior,

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but we had decided that staying friends was more important.
Laura and I went to the same elementary school, junior
high school, high school, college in New York City. We
were inseparable and everyone knew that Laura was my bridesman.
I'd planned a Hinnah ceremony and reception in September.

Speaker 2 (23:06):
Of twenty twenty one, very nice.

Speaker 1 (23:08):
From May to September, I noticed that Laura's behavior was
starting to change and we stopped communicating much.

Speaker 2 (23:15):
Not good.

Speaker 1 (23:16):
I was busy with my wedding planning, so I didn't
give it much mind, and I had personally given her
and her family an invitation card to my upcoming events
and had asked her to consistently RSVP, so I knew
how many of her family members were coming, about seven
of them. She did an RSVP until two days before

(23:38):
my reception.

Speaker 2 (23:39):
What are you doing?

Speaker 1 (23:40):
Laura? When I told her to RSVP to the Hennah ceremony,
she claimed that I may never die. She claimed I
had never told her about the event and would not
be able to come. I screenshoted a conversation I had
in a group chat with her and my other best
friend proving I had told her that she had read

(24:01):
the text.

Speaker 2 (24:02):
Get caught, You got caught.

Speaker 1 (24:04):
Receipts, She said she must have forgotten. Oh my, oh yeah,
I forgot about that. Oh you didn't.

Speaker 2 (24:10):
You never sent me anything. Ah, you had the receipt just.

Speaker 1 (24:13):
You know, just went on my head. I've got I
sent her a link to address I wanted all the
bridesmaids where, and she replied back saying if she had
asked anyone at her wedding to pay for outfits, they'd
be furious at her.

Speaker 2 (24:26):
You not just say no if you don't want to go.
You're making this already so troublesome.

Speaker 1 (24:30):
I told her that paying for six other bridesmaids dresses
wasn't in my budget. Guys, the outfits were thirty four
dollars on Amazon.

Speaker 2 (24:38):
Okay, there, I was gonna say, that's a little expensive,
but thirty four dollars.

Speaker 1 (24:42):
Come on, show up. She ended up coming to the ceremony.
During this time, we had gotten into an argument where
she said I was being very selfish and not taking
into consideration that I was having everyone in the broader
party incur a lot of expenses. She said she had
to buy my two new outfits, and then on top
of that, expect the wedding gifts. This was my best

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friend complaining that she had to get me a gift
for the wedding. I told her it wasn't necessary. I
wanted her to be there and all I wanted was
for all the girls to pick whatever outfit they wanted,
but for it to be lavender. So yeah, that is
so easy all you had to do. After that, she
complained that I hadn't included her in any wedding shopping

(25:29):
and our culture were Bengali. The friends usually accompany in shopping,
but because it was COVID, we only took my parents,
his parents, and my brother. We weren't even able to
include my sister because she had a ten month and
lived in Queens, New York, where my parents and I
lived in Manhattan, and we were traveling to New Jersey

(25:50):
for bridal outfits. If it wasn't possible to bring my
sister due to where she lived, didn't make much sense
to pick up Laura from Astoria. In addition, everything we
did was very fast. I knew that designs I wanted
and I got custom bridle outfits for gold shopping, also
customary in our culture. We went two days before the wedding,

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conveniently scheduled the same day as our food tasting and queens.
She's like, on top of it.

Speaker 2 (26:18):
It's a very like you gotta get with this, snap, snap,
let's do this right now. Wow quickens.

Speaker 1 (26:23):
In the spread of the moment, I knew exactly what
I wanted, so there wasn't much time spent for shopping
nice for everything else. My mom and dad drove me
to stores during which we had shopped while my mom
was grocery shopping. I didn't make a fuss for anything
in my wedding. All asked for the bridesmaids. There was
a show up. Usually bridesmaids got to plan the party,
have to help with derecorations, all that stuff.

Speaker 2 (26:45):
Oh I gotta do show up so easy.

Speaker 1 (26:47):
Pay you thirty four bucks for a thing, and we're lavender.

Speaker 2 (26:49):
Lavender lavender dress. That was about it. Maybe a couple
other things, but like, come on.

Speaker 1 (26:55):
My husband planned everything in our wedding. I barely did
anything besides choosing the color scheme and pay my half.

Speaker 2 (27:01):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (27:02):
I've never heard of them before, the husband planning the party.

Speaker 2 (27:05):
I think it's just a cultural thing. I mean, wow,
that's easier for the bride. That's awesome as long as
she's like cool with everything. But I think again, Bengali like,
let's go. Sounds nice, sounds like a nice one wedding.

Speaker 1 (27:17):
I never got a bridal shower because she said to
my face that she didn't want. It's a bland one. Guys.
I'm so devastated that I will never experience a bridal shower.
When I showed her my gold design, she said, it's nice.
But if I had seen the one her dad bought her,
I wasn't aware that this was a competition for her wedding.
She's divorced now. By the way her father paid for

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the wedding gold, et cetera, I was single handedly paying
my portion for all three events Sam and I had planned.
We spent over one hundred thousand dollars on events, as
we had dreamt so many years of what we wanted.
One hundred thousand dollars, what one hundred k.

Speaker 2 (28:01):
I want to be invited that wedding. I'll pay thirty
four dollars to wear a dress to go to that wedding.

Speaker 1 (28:07):
Oh my gosh. The day before my wedding, she told
Sam that she didn't have a ride and if he
could drop her off at the wedding. He was so
shocked as it made no sense that she'd asked the
groom on his most important day. I offered her a
spot in my limo in case she didn't have a ride,
but she didn't accept the offer. The wedding was beautiful

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and everyone had a great time. The day after the wedding,
I then mowed my bridesmaids about fifteen to twenty bucks.
In the Begauley culture, the bride's side holds a gate
and demands the grooms to pay up if he wants
her to enter and wed the bride. It's a cute
ceremony and just there for fun and games. And we're
here for fun games every weekday at three d MPSD.

(28:49):
Just tap her profile s tap it. That's what I
can't get by Laura. She do whatever. But Hunter K
and a wedding, Oh my gosh.

Speaker 2 (28:57):
It's honestly, like if you usually when we read these stories,
the wedding is like a disaster. Yeah, Like it's like, oh,
this is all falling apart. Everything seemed great. Just Laura,
It's just Laura, Laura. Laura made things like so tedious
for no reason, like, oh I don't have a ride
to the wedding, could the kid the groom pick me up?

(29:18):
Oh that gold you got your you know, for the tradition?
My dad. You should see what he bought me. No, dude, this.

Speaker 1 (29:29):
Is so weird, such a complition here, not a really
great friend.

Speaker 2 (29:33):
You got divorce Laura for our reason? Oh my god,
it's showing.

Speaker 1 (29:38):
Oh man, oh boy.

Speaker 2 (29:40):
And now you can get a friend, divorce a friendvorce.

Speaker 1 (29:43):
Friend vorce. I told Sam to have an envelope with
a hundred bucks in singles. It's customary to have five
hundred plus, but as I didn't have any younger cousins
and the only people holding the gate would be my
friends who were all my age, so we split it
into six ways. It was just a small amount of money.
Once again, it was a fun event. When I demoted her,

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she sent it back to me and texted me saying
she didn't want it. I told her it was just
for fun, but she started to get angry and regret me,
saying she didn't need money and to keep that crap.
I once again sent it to her, saying it wasn't
my money to have, and it was for my bridesmaids.

(30:25):
At last, she said, it's not rocket science. I don't
want that crap. So, guys, am I the a hole. No,
your friend is just easily offended.

Speaker 2 (30:37):
I don't know what your friend's problem is. Again, thirty
four dollars for a lavender dress at the very beginning, Yeah,
and complaining about that. Yeah, and then it's a part
of the its tradition for you to give the money
to your bridesmaid.

Speaker 1 (30:49):
Yeah, dude, you got like, come on, be a part
of that.

Speaker 2 (30:51):
I just don't understand her wishy washing this. She just
sounds like a really uptight beat.

Speaker 1 (30:56):
Yeah. She doesn't sound like she knows what fun is.

Speaker 2 (30:58):
No, she sounds like he just doesn't care.

Speaker 4 (31:01):
Yeah, hey's John Og host. We're gonna get back to
the stories.

Speaker 1 (31:05):
But a quick three minute break of ads from our sponsors.
My selfish best friend calls drama at a wedding. Now,
I don't want to be your friend at all.

Speaker 2 (31:13):
What did the wedding do?

Speaker 1 (31:14):
Apologies for weird English, It's not my first language. I
twenty seven female, recently ended the friendship with my former
best friend thirty female Annie, who is the maid of
honor at a wedding of one of her best friends
let's call her Grace.

Speaker 2 (31:29):
That was a good, good connecting segue there.

Speaker 1 (31:31):
I kind of have to get the story off my
chest because I am still baffled by the audacity. By
the way, this comes from Jumpy Raspberry sixty four to
ninety four on the r slash okay story Tom Sawbreddit.
So Anne is a lover of drama, not me so much,
and our friendship has always had a dynamic of her
complaining about some drama that happened to her or was

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created by her while I was listening and trying to
comfort her. I am slash was always a doormat, not
gonna lie. She comes from my broken home and had
a really bad childhood, so I had the feeling that
the complaining and the comfort she would get from it
somehow is her way of receiving love and attention.

Speaker 2 (32:13):
H pick me.

Speaker 1 (32:15):
There had been an imbalance in our friendship before the
wedding drama. Example, she texted me a crapload of messages
because some minor drama while I was in hospital. When
I found out that she had forgotten about my surgery,
said oops and continued without even asking me. How I was, Dude,

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I love this little relationship.

Speaker 2 (32:39):
It's fun. I love doormats. Oh, you're literally a dormat
right now.

Speaker 1 (32:44):
Poor girl. At least she knows. That's half the problem
that's solving after.

Speaker 2 (32:48):
It makes it worse if you know that you're a
dormat and you're still like I'm knowing.

Speaker 1 (32:52):
No, to solve a problem, you have to know it,
and that's half of the way.

Speaker 2 (32:55):
But how long do you know that you're a dormat?

Speaker 1 (32:57):
Well, that that's still she's halfway. I just said she's Oh,
I'm not saying she's there all the way.

Speaker 2 (33:01):
Yeah, okay, I want to see when she's not a doormat.

Speaker 1 (33:05):
But it was the straw that broke the camel's back. Disclaimer.
All the details of the story were provided by Annie,
which makes it even more crazy because it went through
her filter. And I still think she is the ahole here.
Grace and Annie were childhood friends and had a good
relationship despite moving into different cities and maintaining a long

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distance friendship. After moving, Grace had made new friends as well.
When her boyfriend proposed to her, she asked Annie and
a girl from the new city to be her maids
of honor. Well. On one evening, Annie complained about this
to me because I know her longer and the other girl,
dea'sn't like Likene, so what before she had ever spoken

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to the other maid of honor. Wait, when it came
to planning the bachelorette party, the other maid of honor
considered a rally team bride versus team groom, to also
being able to include Grace's dogs. The area where they
live is an amazing landscape which would be ideal for
a hiking rally. I am uncertain if Grace knew about

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the plans, but the bridal party loved the idea. Annie
not so much. She kind of guilt tripped them into
planning something else because since she is physically isn't able
to hike and would be excluded from the bacheorette party
because of her weight. This is bees by the way,
She's a little overweight. But we have been on shopping

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tours or city troops, even in the heat with uneven roads,
for hours, and she was still motivated, happy, and it
wasn't a problem at all. But she had told me
that she hates hiking and the nature because she thinks
it's boring. It has nothing to do with her weight.

Speaker 2 (34:51):
No, no, oh, She's like, it's hiking. You want to
do hiking for your wedding.

Speaker 1 (34:58):
That's silly and crazy. So they changed the blands to
an inside activity. Oh my gosh, something creative. Totally Annie's
jam without the dogs. Annie sent me pictures from said
bachelorette party that only showed her happily coloring something. Apparently
the bride was some sort of a doormat too. It

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turned out that she hated her bachelorette party. This is
where the drama starts. Annie called me furious one evening
I was still recovering from surgery because the bride at
texted both her maid of honors as she was disappointed
from her bachelorette party. From what I understood, she would
have wished for more activity and more wedding content. Both

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would have been part of the rally. It led to
a discussion between the maid of honors. A few days later.
The bride had enough and kind of tried to end
this while being fair and wrote a friendly message. I
saw it where she asked both maid of honors to
attend the wedding as regular guests since she had the
feeling that there is a lot of tension between them

(36:02):
and she wants both of them at their wedding, but
doesn't want to trouble them anymore with the planning.

Speaker 2 (36:09):
WHOA.

Speaker 1 (36:10):
I think this was her way of being like, Annie,
can you step side and then have the other person
come up?

Speaker 2 (36:15):
I think mean both of them. It seems like it
was both. If that was the message to both of them.
She was like, both of you are making this way
too stressful and I'm not getting what I want, so
and you guys are fighting.

Speaker 1 (36:25):
Ooh. Annie exploded. She called me crying that she had
been uninvited and showed me the messages. I told her
that the bride didn't uninvite her, but she was certain
because she had tried to call Grace and she didn't
pick up. It was during working hours and Grace has
a job.

Speaker 2 (36:41):
Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (36:43):
I tried to calm her down while she painted Grace
as a total bridezilla who was full of herself, a
narcissist who never thinks about me and got uninvited from
a wedding once and she knows how much she hurts
me with this.

Speaker 2 (36:57):
Dude.

Speaker 1 (36:58):
Ah yeah, yeah, I dude, my head hurts.

Speaker 2 (37:01):
It states that like you guys are no longer than
made of honor. You are still guessed at my wedding.

Speaker 1 (37:07):
Yeah, you just can't hold the responsibilities of being the
maid of honor.

Speaker 2 (37:13):
The fact that I tried calling her she didn't pick up.
She's at work. She sucks.

Speaker 1 (37:18):
This is so crazy. I try to point out that
it's Grace's wedding and she probably felt too tense to
go unlike this and try to find a solution without
uninvited anybody, but it fell on deaf ears. I don't
care if it's her wedding. She has to think about
me too. The bride had asked for an answer at
the end of the message, but Annie said she was

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going to ignore it until she felt like answering to
this uninvited and that she doesn't want to go anymore
after the friendship is over. Dude, Annie, can you not
realize you're the problem girl?

Speaker 2 (37:50):
Dude.

Speaker 1 (37:52):
After not hearing from Annie, Grace actually uninvited her soon after,
which caused Annie to have a tantrum once again. Fun
get f she got. She tried to call me, but
I was on painkillers, so I got a furious phone
message instead, where she ran it about Grace being an
awful bride, full of herself and without any patience just

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because she was too busy to answer. Keep in mind
that Annie was extremely angry when Grace didn't pick up
during work hours, and we go live during work hours
every weekday at three PMPSD. Please stab her profile.

Speaker 2 (38:25):
Stab it please?

Speaker 1 (38:26):
What do we do with Annie? What do we do?

Speaker 2 (38:30):
Work to the orc? Cloud? Dude or cloud?

Speaker 1 (38:32):
She doesn't deserve.

Speaker 2 (38:33):
Sorry, I've been saying dude a lot, but like, I'm
actually baffled in this person because she's so negligent to
see what's going on.

Speaker 1 (38:40):
I want her to get hit with the reality train
so she understands how crazy she sounds. It's crazy Ope
got from her perspective and still is Like this woman
is insane.

Speaker 2 (38:51):
In the fact that Op, like, you understand what's going
on Annie, Like you are invited, yeah, and you called
her during work hours. You still go and you don't
want to respond, and then she gets uninvited.

Speaker 1 (39:05):
This is crazy to me. Man's now I'm really uninvited,
Like what the heck did What did you expect that?
It's so silly. I honestly if I heard my one
of my friends doing this. Sorry, p we can't hang
out next week.

Speaker 2 (39:20):
I'm busy or ever or ever.

Speaker 1 (39:23):
Well, next month, I gotta think.

Speaker 2 (39:25):
I'm busy, so I put that time busy.

Speaker 1 (39:28):
Oh would you as coming to town?

Speaker 2 (39:29):
Do you want to hang out next year?

Speaker 1 (39:31):
Sorry, my dog's gonna die.

Speaker 2 (39:34):
I gotta I gotta go to the bathroom that day, busy.

Speaker 1 (39:37):
In this moment, I single at the time, asked myself
if I would want to have Annie at my wedding
and came to the conclusion that I do not. I
went radio silent, and after recovering, I sent Annie the
longest text message ever explaining why I have no interest
in being friends anymore. I know that this should have
been face to face conversation, but after her not visiting

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me once after surgery or ask if I need help,
I just don't feel like it. I'll take being the
a hole here. Annie has lost two of her best
friends over this wedding drama, but I guess she has
a lot of people who felt whom she can complain
to and how bad we both are. To end the
story on a good note, Grace has her dream wedding.

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As far as I could tell from her Instagram. I'm
nosy and stock to her a little bit. The other
maid of honor apparently, the other maid of honor apparently
got reinstalled and helped the bride through the day. I
hope she enjoyed it and is happy with her marriage.
I freaking called that. I knew she was gonna be reinstalled.

Speaker 2 (40:38):
Well, I think if Annie was still going, she wouldn't
get reinstalled.

Speaker 1 (40:42):
Yeah. No.

Speaker 2 (40:43):
But the fact that, the fact that Annie didn't like
do anything, it was so easy for Grace to be like,
oh wait, that was the problem. Yeah, yeah, come back,
You're my maid of honor by Annie. That sucks.

Speaker 1 (40:57):
Hmmm, that's super.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
The fact that again, because during his entire time, Opie
was in surgery or got surgery and was recovering, and
Annie never asked her once she was doing. Okay, how
are you doing?

Speaker 1 (41:12):
Dide. That's so tough. Uugh.

Speaker 2 (41:15):
My roommate was cyber bullying me, so I can't fish.

Speaker 1 (41:19):
Sure, nah, just throw some water on your computer.

Speaker 2 (41:21):
First off, this happened when I was in college, and
I'm not this petty anymore. Okay, good to know. I
know the title is crazy, but trust me, it will
all make sense. When in college, I twenty female lived
in a sorority house with some of my sorority sisters
that were around my age. I shared a room with
another girl. Let's name her Mary. By the way, this

(41:45):
comes from user stinky cat three on the r slash Okay,
storytime separate it. So it was her first time living
outside her parents' house, and I had gone out on
a limb to advocate for her to live in the
house as she was a newer member.

Speaker 1 (42:00):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (42:01):
I tried to be extra supportive to Mary as she
adjusted to living on her own for the first time
and all the emotions that came with it. That's very nice.
I even offered to be her roommate so I could
look after her, make that transition easier for her, and
try to be helpful. Older sister. Tried to be that
helpful older sister. Okay, that's yeah. Yeah. Plus, like I guess,

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like in the sorority house, like you're big or whatever, so.

Speaker 1 (42:25):
Being a good example here, yeah, look at you.

Speaker 2 (42:28):
Social media was something that was rather new I'm old,
and there were only a few sites available. Whenever something
new came out, we all joined and followed each other. Hice,
when Twitter became big on our campus, I suggested to
Mary following each other as she had recently joined and
I already had an account. Okay. She denied and played
it off, so I did not think much about it.

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We were otherwise really close and did pretty much everything together.
We had been living together for almost the entire school
year at this point and had been going well, or
so I thought. I would notice Mary on her phone
a lot, a lot more catcher's saying things under her
breath and giving me the cold shoulder.

Speaker 1 (43:08):
Hmmm.

Speaker 2 (43:08):
It came out of nowhere. So I would ask other
housemates and they told me I was reading into things
and should let it go. Hmmm. Interesting. I tried not
to think much about it, but it would nag me,
nag at me. Over time. This came to a head
when I was asked to help one of our other
members make their Twitter account. Like I said, it was

(43:30):
still rather new and some people did not know how
to operate it. As I was showing her how to
navigate it and add people, Mary came up to us
and suggested that we added her. I helped facilitate that
and Mary accepted her almost immediately. Mary had a private
account and was very selective about who followed her, so

(43:51):
I found this a bit suspicious weird. So Mary lied
or not necessarily lied. She's just like, oh, I don't
want a Twitter account.

Speaker 1 (43:57):
Yeah, she's doing something with that Twitter account.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
She's ranting about people. It's her little diary, oh, oh,
her little internet diary. Later that day, when I got
on my computer to work on homework, I found that
I still had Twitter open. There were many new notifications,
and when I went to read them, I realized it
was not my account, but the other members.

Speaker 1 (44:19):
Oh.

Speaker 2 (44:20):
Most of the notifications were from Mary, and saw that
she had been writing things about me.

Speaker 6 (44:26):
Oh, not about uop, but we kind of expected she
would complain about my boyfriend and calling me every night
to say good night because it was annoying, make fun
of the way I looked.

Speaker 2 (44:39):
I am a heavier set than she was, and she
felt I looked gross, oh, and would live update what
I did during the day to highlight how lazy she
felt that I was. This was very shocking to read,
and I immediately felt angry and hurt. While I felt
inclined to read more about what she had written, I

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felt bad knowing that I was using another person's account.
It made me feel a bit icky to continue This
is when I decided to make a fake account to
see if I could get married to follow me. Oo, okay,
all right. I made a vague account stating that I
was a member of our sorority from another school, and
you stock images to try and make it look like

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a real account.

Speaker 1 (45:24):
Beautiful, all right, people do this every day. To me, I.

Speaker 2 (45:29):
Like, that's not a real person.

Speaker 1 (45:31):
So I clicked this link. I'm like, no, thank you,
witty lady.

Speaker 2 (45:34):
We go all the way back. I added a few
people that we mutually knew, especially especially ones that I
knew would interact with me, to see if she would
take the bait. It only took a weekend, but she
requested my fake account to follow her. Oh, she requested
your fake account.

Speaker 1 (45:49):
That's crazy.

Speaker 2 (45:50):
When she accepted my follow I decided to do a
deep dive and read all of her tweets who I
quickly noticed that she was using her account as a
diary sorts, like I said, a diary. She would complain
about anything that bothered her, would shout out things like
would shout out things she like, discuss pop culture headlines,

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et cetera. Streaming in my Facebook kind of. I found
many more posts like what I had what I had
read and copied them into a word document for me
to keep in the case I needed it in the future.
Nice Mary wrote many hurtful things about me over the
course of the year we lived together, and was pretty
hurtful after how caring and supportive I have been. At

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the start of the year, while I was accumulating all
of the tweets about me, I noticed that she was
writing about our sorority meetings and our sorority secrets. Oh gosh, listen,
I have friends in the Greek life. You don't. You don't.
That's like sacred stuff. Yeah, the sororities like meetings whatever,
you can do whatever, as long as it's like mundane.

(46:54):
But the secrets, if those go out, you can get
like like they'll joke, not jail time, don't just kick
you out of the disroty, gotcha, but like it like
pretty bad stuff, depending what you do. Just this changed
the focus of my operation. She did not have only
sorority sisters following her, so she was breaching our confidentiality

(47:14):
with these tweets. No wonder she was so selective with
who followed her, So this might even get everyone who's involved. Yeah,
before we continue. What do you do you think Opie's
doing the right thing?

Speaker 1 (47:30):
Yeah, I think she's trying to cover her butt. She's
her right now.

Speaker 2 (47:33):
She's very yeah, especially since she was there for Mary.
But do you think Opie should have waited or like
get all the facts first, or like confronted her immediately?
What do you done now?

Speaker 1 (47:46):
I think what she's doing, she's getting all the facts
right now, okay, and then I think once she understands everything,
she will go after it.

Speaker 2 (47:52):
Okay. I would have like waited, maybe like a couple
of weeks and like, what she's doing the word document,
get it all on paper. Yeah, but then be like,
what the hell are you doing?

Speaker 6 (48:00):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (48:01):
Yeah, totally, especially since you're living with her, because they're.

Speaker 1 (48:03):
Roommates and that's your homie you thought.

Speaker 2 (48:06):
You thought, but she's not really your homemade.

Speaker 1 (48:08):
That sucks. That's what hurts the most.

Speaker 2 (48:11):
Yeah, all the bs talking behind your back for all
that you've done for her, try to be like a
big sister.

Speaker 1 (48:16):
And that's horrible.

Speaker 2 (48:18):
I opened a new word document and began to copy
and paste all these messages and their time stamps.

Speaker 1 (48:24):
She really seats.

Speaker 2 (48:26):
Once I had reached the end, I saved the file
and waited to strike like a little snake. I knew
we were having another big meeting in a few weeks.
In one deceive if she would write anything during that meeting.

Speaker 1 (48:38):
Okay, okay.

Speaker 2 (48:40):
I would casually update the fake account to make it
look like a real person. Mary would even message it
occasionally to get to know them better. So Mary, just like,
is this very selective? People like I like you, You're
not even real.

Speaker 1 (48:53):
This is great. Like if she was actually a media person,
she'd be phenomenal.

Speaker 2 (48:56):
She's like behind the scenes.

Speaker 1 (48:58):
Yeah, she's like connecting with people.

Speaker 2 (49:01):
That's crazy. When the meeting came, I was anxious because
I felt guilty for cat fishing in my roommate, even
though she was doing something that was against our sorority bylaws.

Speaker 5 (49:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (49:13):
See the bylaws is where it comes in. I wait
until I got home that night to check the account,
and boom, there were multiple messages about things that were
being discussed and what she had thought about them. Oh,
p knew she was going to do it. I added
them to the document and then wrote an email to
our chapter president with it attached. After that, I no

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longer longer wanted to be involved.

Speaker 1 (49:39):
Okay, nice, She got out. You got out nice.

Speaker 2 (49:41):
Yeah, You're like, this is the this is the information.
I made plans to move out with one of our
sorority sisters into our own apartment, and I put a
distance between myself and Mary. I was cordial to her
until the move out date and any function that I
saw her at afterwards. Wow, but you know what you
can do every day, guys. You can tap our profile.

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We're live three pm PST every day.

Speaker 1 (50:07):
Just tap it easy, dude. That sucks having someone you
took under your wing and they just kind of like.

Speaker 2 (50:15):
You wanted to be like a role model. Like you're
seeing like this person who has like trouble coming in.

Speaker 1 (50:20):
You're like, I've been there.

Speaker 2 (50:22):
Yeah, yeah, like I want to I see myself in
your shoes. Let me help you out. And then you're like, hey,
let's be roommates. Yes, great, Now we're being like really close.
And then why don't you follow me on Twitter? I
don't have a Twitter. Yeah, okay, that's fine. Everyone has Twitter,
but like that's okay, and then you see that she
has Twitter, and then you look at the account. I'm surprised,

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like nobody else has brought it up. Yeah, because other
sorority sisters follow her.

Speaker 1 (50:49):
Well, it seems like this sorority sister is probably like
at a higher probably had like a higher like status
in the thing, and she was looking for other lower members.

Speaker 2 (50:57):
Still, even then, if you're all this stuff like that
spreads like wildfire drama anything that's like cause everyone like,
especially sororities. I notice that people talk about each other's
backs all the time. But the fact that a lot
of other members and that sorority follow that account and

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they know what she's saying, and like the updates on op.

Speaker 1 (51:22):
No one said a word. So I would would you
also screenshow all the people that are following it?

Speaker 2 (51:30):
Oh I'm petty, Yeah, I'm petty. Af this happened to me.
I can, I can do okay, storytime, but something similar
like this happened to me.

Speaker 1 (51:37):
Yeah oh yeah.

Speaker 2 (51:38):
But again, if I saw her talking to like, oh,
Mary was talking to Sarah and then Sarah was talking
to you know, somebody else, and they're all just like, oh, yeah,
she is lazy. Oh she does like Okay, what the
what the heck? Well why are you talking? I don't
even know you?

Speaker 1 (51:58):
Yeah, so kind of whack.

Speaker 2 (52:00):
I would. I would as long as like everyone's who's
following her, they know what's going on, They're just not
saying anything. It's like, oh, you're someone's bullying you and
everyone's watching and they don't do anything. You're just helping
the bully out.

Speaker 1 (52:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (52:12):
So, as far as I know, she was taken into
a meeting with our sorority governing panel and was reprimanded.
Nice called it. I think she was unable to attend
some events and was encouraged to delete her Twitter account.
Six months later, Mary added me on her new account
and I accepted her. Oh full circle. She no longer

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wrote about sorority meetings. However, However, I did see her
complain about her new roommate, so I guess she did
not learn anything.

Speaker 1 (52:42):
Oh gosh.

Speaker 2 (52:44):
I never confront her about everything that she wrote about me,
and it took me a long time to work through
her the feelings related to what she said. She has
since tried to be my friend. But while I forgive her,
I have not forgotten. That's a strong line right there.
I have done a lot of work on myself and
I am a much stronger and confident girly. And that's

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the end of the story.

Speaker 1 (53:06):
Lfg's that's good that you would work through that. I
I agree with you on not confronting that person because
you only confront people that you super duper care about.

Speaker 2 (53:18):
Well that's the thing. She did super duper care about her.

Speaker 1 (53:20):
At the time. But it's it's different. If you're so
mu's your roommate and you have the option not to
live with them, you can like not confront them and
just kind of separate yourself. But if it's like a
family member like your brother or your sister, you can't.
You gotta confront them about it.

Speaker 2 (53:35):
It's it sucks because again with the sorority, I guess
she did get reprimands. She got like a slap on
the wrist. It seemed like, yeah, like, don't do this, great,
delete the account.

Speaker 1 (53:43):
Great.

Speaker 2 (53:44):
The thing is, I'm seeing this person who is who?
At least I know she's talking behind my back. I'm
seeing her not consistently, but you're gonna seeing her pretty
much on maybe a daily basis, or like at least
a very common basis. I would at least be like, hey,

(54:05):
I saw what you put. Yeah it's out there. What
what the heck? Yeah, So I would at least confront her.
I mean, she got confronted by the panel. Oh, I yes,
but like maybe, oh, Pie's not a confrontational person. But
I would be like, hey, you're talking behind my back.

Speaker 1 (54:24):
As a non confrontational person, you do the right thing.

Speaker 2 (54:27):
I like to be petty, so like I would have
been like, let's full force.

Speaker 1 (54:31):
You got everything out of it you could?

Speaker 2 (54:33):
Yeah, exactly. I want to see her face like pale.
Let's say other story. Guys, have a good one on
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Speaker 2 (54:47):
My friend's girlfriend and keeps flirting with my boyfriend, so
I exposed her.

Speaker 1 (54:52):
Talk to your own boyfriend.

Speaker 2 (54:53):
Get out of here. Hey everyone, so this is a
really long post, but I need to hear your views
on it. I am a twenty eight year old female
from India and I have been dating my boyfriend twenty
nine let's call him Mike, for over a year. Nice
Mike has a very close friend from school, Sam, not
our Sam, but maybe who knew he could be our Sam.

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By the way, this comes from a user rare meeting
fifty five sixty seven on the r slash Okay Storytime
supperated it so Sam again. The friend met his girlfriend,
Sarah twenty five, in college four years ago, and they
started dating around ten months ago. Sam incidantly knew he
wanted to marry her, but Sarah wasn't sure if she

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even wanted to date him. O whoa, whoa, that's intense,
Like I want to marry this girl. The girl's like, dude,
I don't even like you.

Speaker 1 (55:46):
Frick.

Speaker 2 (55:48):
Last year, they were supposed to take a short trip.
The bookings were done, but Sarah canceled two days before
the trip, saying she was uncomfortable taking any trip alone
with Sam. So Sam requested that Mike and I joined
them the trip so they could get to know each
other better. At first, I was uncomfortable taking a nine
day trip with a couple I barely knew, but Mike

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convinced me it would be fine. I was excited to
be with Mike, so I agreed. Sam and I planned
the trip for two months. Mike was not as active
and actively involved because he works at sea, but I
was fine planning the trip with Sam. Mike would get
involved and give his opinions whenever he could talk, and

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he knew about every detail. On the other hand, Sarah
did not even bother to talk or send a simple Hey.
In the WhatsApp group Sam created so we all could
be on the same page, Mike and I had no
idea who this girl was. Mike, Sam and I on
a group call, got on a group call one day.

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We called Sarah at least ten times, but she did
not pick up. Wow black Sarah doesn't want to be
a part of those oh heck. Sam said she was
an introvert, but will open up during the trip. It
felt odd at first, but we let it go. A
few days later, as we were discussing the final details,
Sarah finally joined the call. Let's go took you a

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few days. She did not speak until the rest of
us started joking and having fun. She told Mike that
she wanted to dance with him, as she heard from
Sam that he's a good dancer. It was an odd
thing to say, as it was the first time she
had spoken to us. That's the first thing you say,
Oh wait, what dance with you?

Speaker 1 (57:30):
Mike?

Speaker 2 (57:31):
I thought she was interested in Mike a little more
than Sam. A woman's intuition, right, I gave her the
benefit of the doubt and let it go. I told
Mike about how I felt, and he said, she is
dating Sam, so I might be wrong. He also assured
me he would not let anything escalate, as he didn't
want me to feel insecure. The trip began.

Speaker 1 (57:54):
Oh boy, the beginning of the trip sounds like a
great little context to have, great little setup.

Speaker 2 (57:59):
Sarah. Sarah doesn't want to talk. She only she only
said one time, talk to Sam. No Mike. She wants
to talk to Mike, to talk to Mike, wants to Mike.
The trip began. Mike and I met Sarah at the
airport for the first time. Sarah and I got along,
and I thought to myself it was going to be
a good trip. Boy was I wrong. We booked a

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car from the airport, and as soon as we all
got in, Sam asked all of us to promise that
whatever happened during this trip stays between us. What kind
of quick what is this is that Vegas?

Speaker 1 (58:32):
This is that's a weird thing right there, Like, hey,
whatever happened, you cannot tell anyone else.

Speaker 2 (58:36):
Everyone gets in the car and she's like, all right, guys.
From this point on, red flag, red flag, I don't
talk about this. We all agreed I should have known better.
What do you mean, Everyone's like, okay, that's such a
weird thing to say. The first three days went smoothly.
During the day, we traveled from one place to another,
and at night we drank, ate and danced. Sarah would

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get wasted after who drinks and became clingy.

Speaker 1 (59:01):
Oh.

Speaker 2 (59:02):
She used to come really close to me, called me
her best friend, and kept hitting Mike when he teased me.

Speaker 1 (59:08):
No red flag.

Speaker 2 (59:10):
This is really weird. She also wanted to sleep on
Mike's in my bed with us, which was odd. That
is so weird because she didn't want to share the
bed with Sam. Dude, this is all so weird.

Speaker 1 (59:22):
Sam, Come on, dude, what is going on?

Speaker 2 (59:26):
Sam and Sarah are very weird. I would leave.

Speaker 1 (59:27):
Oh yeah.

Speaker 2 (59:29):
On the fourth day, we all sat to drink around
the bonfire. After eleven pm, we were asked to go
inside the room and continue there nice. The place we were
in was deserted and it wasn't safe for anyone to
be outdoors. There were nomads. That's the thing in India.

Speaker 1 (59:45):
Oh, got it, got it.

Speaker 2 (59:46):
As soon as we got to Sam and Sarah's room,
Sarah pulled Mike's cheeks and called him a cutie. What up,
cutie with a little poll. A few minutes later, she
stood in front of Mike and asked, so, mister Hansome,
will you dance for us or not? What is going
on here? Mike was very uncomfortable, reasonably, so I looked

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at Sam and saw him laughing nervously. She then grabbed
my hand and we started to dance.

Speaker 1 (01:00:15):
Oh, I see you.

Speaker 2 (01:00:16):
This is like a horror movie. Mike and Sam joined
us hardly a few minutes past. When she held Mike's
hand and tried pulling him near her, Mike immediately pushed
her towards Sam. Sam again started laughing and told her
to stop behaving this way. Mike and I went to
our room as we were quite uncomfortable with whatever happened.
Oh yeah, I would be immediately like all right, this

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is too much.

Speaker 1 (01:00:40):
Yeah, like Sam, your.

Speaker 2 (01:00:42):
Girl, Sam, what's up with your girls? Girlfriend? Supposedly that
you want to marry do something. The next day we
went camping. I ever heard Sarah telling Sam how Mike
was with his girlfriend, so she couldn't flirt with him
and she needed to get a man's attention. What is

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going on?

Speaker 1 (01:01:03):
Hmmm mmm, hmmm. I'm trying to understand Miss Sarah here
a hard time? Is Sarah really hard time?

Speaker 2 (01:01:12):
I don't. Do you think Sam lied about him and
Sarah being together.

Speaker 1 (01:01:16):
I think Sam's just trying to do anything he can
to be around Sarah. Okay, and Sarah. She trying to
have a threesome with Opie and Mike. That's what I'm getting.

Speaker 2 (01:01:27):
I think I think at least she wants Mike ultimately,
that's yea. But she wants a man's attention, and she's
like Sam, I want your friend's attention.

Speaker 1 (01:01:36):
She doesn't respect Sam.

Speaker 2 (01:01:38):
She doesn't respect I don't think she respects anyone here
other than Mike. And that's not even respecting Mike. She
just wants Mike. I ignored it and didn't say anything,
as I thought it was not my place. Why Opie.
On the last day of the trip, we decided to
go to a club. We decided to drink a little
bit before we headed out. After two drinks, Sarah was wasted.

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She asked Mike if he would miss after the trip dude.
Mike replied no. W Mike, just no. I changed the
topic before she could say anything. And told everyone to
get ready to go outside. When Mike was wearing his shoes,
Sarah stood in front of him, started singing and moved her.
It would be an insult to call it twerking in

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his face lovely. Mike was shocked and moved away. He
told Sam to keep her away from him. The trip
ended with Mike and ME being highly uncomfortable with whatever happened.
After returning home, Mike and I met his best friends.
At first, I thought of not telling anybody about what

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happened because it was killing me. I was still confused
if Sarah was trying to hit on Mike or if
it was all in my head. You know she was
hitting on Mike. What do you mean? Why do you
try to mind? Don't defend her. I wanted to know
their opinion, as they are also very close to Sam
and knew better than I did. I told them all
what happened. At this point, Mike told us something he

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kept from me during the trip because he knew I
would have been furious with Sarah. Uh oh oh no,
uh oh. During the bonfire, I went to the restroom,
Sarah gave a flying kiss to Mike and said I
love you. In front of Sam, just a I love you,
Mike in front of me, in front of Sam. Oh, gosh,

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at this, I like how this is the point. At
this point, I was done. Mike's friends were shocked after
hearing all this and thought Sam was making a huge
mistake dating her and thinking about marrying her. But you
can marry us every weekday at three pm PSD. Just
tap our profile.

Speaker 1 (01:03:42):
Just marry us, dude, I'm glad. Oh he's finally saying
something mirror. I would have done the twerking for sure.

Speaker 2 (01:03:51):
I would have done it at the very beginning, when
she's pulling Mike close to him and trying to dance
for like, trying to dance with him.

Speaker 1 (01:03:58):
I don't even think she can get drunk with two drinks.
I think she just does two drinks he's trying to Yeah, oh,
I'm always an excuse, like this is Clyke clockwork, two
drinks every time? Weird actions?

Speaker 2 (01:04:09):
Yeah, towards Mike. Also, what is Sam doing? Does he
not like realize that Opie and Mike are like yo.

Speaker 1 (01:04:18):
Sam doesn't have a backbone, man, I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (01:04:21):
Does Sam I realize that samarai Sam is so scared
of losing Sarah, which he doesn't realize has already happened,
so he's doing whatever he can to keep that reality
alive in his mind. No, I think I think he's
just like, as long as Mike's here and Sarah's happy,
I'm happy.

Speaker 1 (01:04:42):
Yeah. So he's using that to try to get closer
to her.

Speaker 2 (01:04:44):
Yeah, and obviously failing at every single moment he can yep, Yeah,
what what would you do here? If you're op Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:04:55):
I think what I would have done is the second
this happened. If that was Mike, I'd probably go to
Sam and be like, Hey, we're gonna spend the rest
of this trip together. You guys are gonna stay together,
but we do not want to hang out with you
guys anymore. Respectfully. I don't think it would be wise
of our time, and that's what we're gonna do.

Speaker 2 (01:05:14):
I would have done that, maybe like the second instance,
but he was continuing. I would have been like, Sam,
your girl is not your girl like your girl wants Mike.
This is weird, we're leaving.

Speaker 1 (01:05:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:05:25):
The next day, Sam asked Mike for his opinion on
whether he thought Sarah was right for him. Mike truthfully
said no and told Sam everything. Sam defended her by
saying she was wasted and didn't mean it. Oh. No, Rather,
he wouldn't listen to Mike. I don't know why he asked.
Now Sam is talking badly about me, saying I broke

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the promise and told everyone what happened, and then I
manipulated Mike. Oh my god. It's sort of like, oh,
he knew he was gonna happen.

Speaker 1 (01:05:55):
Yeah, whenever you say whatever happens here stays here, it's
it's more of the lines of I like crashed my
car here. We're not gonna tell anyone of this.

Speaker 2 (01:06:05):
The only time that's reasonable to say, like, whatever happens
to your stays here is Vegas, because it's just like
that's like the saying whatever happens to Vegas says a vis.
It's still no one's gonna say that. No, it leaves.
It always leaves you.

Speaker 1 (01:06:17):
You tell people sort of like if you won a
lot of money, you don't say anything about it. Yeah, sure,
but this doesn't apply.

Speaker 2 (01:06:25):
No, this is just Sam new things were gonna get
very weird. I guarantee you. Sarah is like, I'm in
the same I'm into Mike. Yeah, I'm into Mike. Like,
I can't wait to hang out with Mike.

Speaker 4 (01:06:34):
Now.

Speaker 2 (01:06:35):
Sam is talking badly about me, saying I broke the
promise and told everyone what happened and that I manipulated Mike.
He also said I manipulated Mike into falling in love
with me. That is one of my favorite among all
the things he said about me. Yeah, this has also
jeopardized Mike and Sam's friendship. So am I the a hole.

Speaker 1 (01:06:54):
Nog trying to keep your man. You're trying to fight
for what you fought for.

Speaker 2 (01:06:59):
That's your man, and Mike like Mike wants you, you're
his woman. Yeah, straight forward, Like if if my best
friend was like quote yeah, pull the quote. But the
fact that Sam, like Mike went up to Sam and like, hey,
she sucks, Sarah, Sarah sucks. She's not right for you,
she doesn't even like you, brother, and she's weird about me.

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And he's like, nah, she was just that's just her personality.
That's so dumb. And then she's like, oh, yeah, uh
your girlfriend. Ope, she's manipulating you to fall in love
with her, bro, Sam, Sarah wants Mike. She didn't do

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that with you at all. Yeah, it was so glatly.
She wasn't into you.

Speaker 1 (01:07:46):
I saw this quote. I throw out the one v
one Like if someone's like, for example, Sarah wants Mike,
you can fight, you can fight. Op try to like,
just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score.
And it's like a one v one, But you have
to realize that the person that OPI has defeated the

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one hundred instead of being one v one hundred, they're
the person that vieded the one hundred. Yes, that's what
you're up against. Yeah, you're against the goalie that has
blocked all the shows. So like girl, she she's going
to be a goalie, like Sarah, stop stop it all star.
She started, she started it, and OPI did what she
had to do to stop it. And I and I

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am all for what Opie did.

Speaker 2 (01:08:32):
And good on Mike. That every like every little thing,
and I mean every little instance. I guess they just
didn't want to make the trip as awkward was awkward.

Speaker 1 (01:08:41):
So they're just like, no, deed to do some awful
things and he did not.

Speaker 2 (01:08:45):
No. Yeah, like Mike could have done the worst thing possible,
cheat cheat, No Mike at every innswert is like no, no, no,
get away from me.

Speaker 1 (01:08:56):
Be gone every time the streets, every time a woman
tries to talk to me, and like stop them. Scared
of women, please stop talking to me.

Speaker 2 (01:09:03):
Yeah it works, it doesn't work for me.

Speaker 1 (01:09:09):
Ah, but that's that story.

Speaker 2 (01:09:12):
I cut my friend off for her terrible behavior, but
now everyone's cutting her off.

Speaker 1 (01:09:17):
Oh to the streets.

Speaker 2 (01:09:19):
Bye. This whole situation hopefully wrapped up just a few
days ago, and I am officially left with no cares
left to give. So I bring it all to you
to judge. I eighteen female, just graduated high school and
I'm getting ready to go to college.

Speaker 1 (01:09:35):
Ingrats.

Speaker 2 (01:09:36):
This whole incident involves my immediate friend group about six people. Okay,
we all have mutual friends in our circles off and overlap,
but it's us as a unit. Most of us were
together in middle school or elementary and have remained friends since.
The main aggressor in this is Emma eighteen female. By

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the way, this comes from user soft Joy eighty two
on the r slash. Okay, story time suppered it. So
Emma and I became friends in freshman year and quickly
became close. Emma ended befriending my other close friends and
we did a lot of the same clubs together.

Speaker 1 (01:10:15):
More time.

Speaker 2 (01:10:16):
Yeah, let me do it the one time. Emma and
I became friends in freshman year and quickly became close.
Emma ended up befriending my other close friends and we
did a lot of the same clubs together. She was
one of the people I considered my closest friends. We
have very opposite personalities. I am non confrontational and try

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to avoid drama like the plague. Emma is either a
drama magnet or more likely a potster, so I'd often
end up being a person to vent to or a
negotiator between her and other friends. Okay, those are not that. Yeah,
you don't like that. The podst is the worst person
to be with.

Speaker 1 (01:10:54):
Yeah, because there you don't want to be the middleman
in that. Because you're a messenger and you know what
happens to the messenger.

Speaker 2 (01:11:00):
Always shoot the messenger. And also potsters or are I'll
always gonna throw you in the pot somehow, some way, somehow,
some way, they're always gonna You're an agreed You're an
ingredient through the pot stirring red flag number one. I
couldn't celebrate my fifteenth and almost sixteenth birthday because of
the drama she caused.

Speaker 1 (01:11:18):
Damn.

Speaker 2 (01:11:19):
The larger circle of friends was divided because of her,
and it got to the point that it if I
invited one group, the other wouldn't come, and if I
invited both, neither would solution don't have one. So that's
already I'm dang, that's already bad. The fact that Emma
had beef with seemingly everyone should have been of red flag. Yeah.

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One day she's best friends with one person, the next
they've committed some awful thing against her. I was never
fully caught up on anything. Saya always stayed neutral, being
the neutral party, because I've been that friend. Is being
the neutral like yeah, everything's okay, Like no, okay, Like
everyone like nobody wins. Point you'd especially you and the

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nutul party. You never win.

Speaker 1 (01:12:04):
Ah, that's so tough.

Speaker 2 (01:12:05):
You never win. You got to speak up for yourself
and if you know this person is bad for you,
get away from it. Yeah, get away from them, especially
if everyone's like no, she sucks, or like they get
away from her. Senior came around, and suddenly I am
a target. I had never known Emma to be a bully,
as she was always acting so sweet, and it's very
popular because of that. However, at the very start of

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the year, she started getting aggressive towards me.

Speaker 1 (01:12:30):
Oh, getting put in the pot.

Speaker 2 (01:12:31):
I told you, you gotta be an ingredient. Either you're
a base ingredient or you're gonna be the main ingredient.
The first flight was when I had a whole period
on my schedule missing and asked her for help during lunch.
Since she's involved in school and her mom is a teacher,
keep in mind for later, I have ADHD. Sometimes I
need a moment to figure things out, and I ask

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a lot of questions because I just don't understand. I
told her that her advice didn't make sense, and she
snapped at me, asking why I couldn't get it through
my thick head. I decided to take the advice she
had given me to the principal, who asked who on
earth gave me that. Every conversation afterwards, I felt like
I was walking on eggshells around her. I could never

(01:13:13):
have it bad because she had it worse. I can
never do good because she did it better.

Speaker 1 (01:13:20):
Ah.

Speaker 2 (01:13:21):
I was incredibly proud of the amount of notes I
was taking for the act. I'm never a good note taker,
but I ended up filling a notebook with thirty four
back to back pages of notes. Whoo, yeah, I remember that.
I showed them to my friends and she told me
that was nothing compared to all the notes she took
for her AP classes.

Speaker 1 (01:13:39):
Yeah, just can't do enough.

Speaker 2 (01:13:42):
It's like, yeah, she's better, she just better. She wants
to be better, and no wonder she has no friends
and everyone's out to.

Speaker 1 (01:13:48):
Get her crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:13:50):
When I could find it about the overwhelming workload I had,
she scoffed and said that I didn't get to complain
because she had so much more work than me. Oh
my gosh, dude, this is just especially your senior year.
You're like, I don't need to hear this. She was
always convinced she was right and would talk down to
me if I disagreed, which sucks when we're in debate together.

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If I tried to correct her on anything, she'd get aggressive,
so I stopped. She did all these things in front
of our friends. We all brushed it off as her
being brash and overly honest, but have recently all reflected
and said she was just being mean, specifically towards me.
She never did to any of our other friends, and
I kept wondering what I did wrong. You're her closest person. Yeah,

(01:14:35):
I'm the closest person. She's gonna dish it out the most.

Speaker 1 (01:14:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:14:39):
Crap hit the fan during homecoming. It started with Emma
complaining about me not making plans with them that she
added me to the group chat. I then proceeded to
ask about the group chat. As I received no such thing,
she called me stupid and walked away.

Speaker 1 (01:14:54):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 2 (01:14:55):
When it was time for pictures, I tried to grab
all my friends and heard them together. Emma really hates
this girl, Lily. I'll be honest, Lily and I don't
get along well either, but we're civil. I tried to
grab a friend and nicely told Lily that we just
needed this friend for the picture, but Lily could hop in.
After Lily ignored me and got into the final picture,

(01:15:17):
Emma was nowhere to be seen, even after I called
and texted her it was time. She showed up just
after the picture was taken and she went nuts. Emma
then proceeded to yell at me in front of all
of our friends for taking the picture without her and
allowing Lillian. Oh boy, I followed her to apologize and
found her with her mom, who was a teacher, venting.

(01:15:40):
Her mom then told her f all of them and
they left. Oh this is a teacher, Oh this mom
first teacher second?

Speaker 1 (01:15:48):
Oh boy.

Speaker 2 (01:15:49):
I tried to apologize again, but her mom got between
us and said, you need to back off. Emma's had
a long night.

Speaker 1 (01:15:56):
Oh god, they were just making fun of me. They
don't like me, they didn't want.

Speaker 2 (01:16:01):
To take the picture of me.

Speaker 1 (01:16:02):
Mom.

Speaker 2 (01:16:04):
When they all sie, I was so shocked that I
stood there before breaking down and sobbing and calling my
mom to get me. I never got an apology from Emma.
In fact, I was the one who sent her countless apologies.
This was also my first bit of girl drama, and
it wrecked me. A few days later, I sent a

(01:16:24):
picture to our group chat with baby bunnies we rescued
and were taking to the shelter. Her only response was,
you know, you probably just put them in a worse place.

Speaker 5 (01:16:33):
Right.

Speaker 2 (01:16:34):
Thankfully she was called out, but it made me cry.
I would try to mend the bridge between us, but
every time there would be a split thing where she
ruined it. She called me stupid over something I was
excited for She dismissed me when I tried to talk.
It made me angry and hurt. Well, she stayed in
her friend group. Okay, I just disan myself from her.

(01:16:57):
When we were together, I said, I just wait it
out till the end. Here is where I feel really petty.

Speaker 1 (01:17:04):
Oh, here we go, feel petty, game Tom.

Speaker 2 (01:17:08):
One of Emma's biggest brags was that she was smarter
than me and better than me and did more work
than me. Well, I walked the stage with high honors
for an act of a thirty and got accepted to
the University of Tennessee Evolves, second best in our state,
below Vanderbilt University.

Speaker 1 (01:17:26):
Wow, okay, I know exactly what this is. I mean,
I know where this is. I grew up in that area.

Speaker 2 (01:17:32):
Okay, this is this is a this is like you.

Speaker 1 (01:17:34):
This is big. Maybe you may happen near me.

Speaker 2 (01:17:36):
This definitely happened near you. Ironically, she acted surprise when
I said I got to walk for high honors. She
didn't oh boy mm in her face. She's also attending
community college in our face. But community college is also good.

Speaker 1 (01:17:50):
Ye, No, community college is great. I went to community college.

Speaker 2 (01:17:54):
Yeah, community college is great. UTK is also the better
branch of the Tennessee university she applied to. Okay, I
don't know she got accepted or not.

Speaker 1 (01:18:03):
University of Knoxville.

Speaker 2 (01:18:04):
Was that University of Oxvilleyeah, it's like a UT but
it's like University of Knoxville. Interesting or University of Tennessee
in Knoxville. Ah, gotcha, gotcha? Okay, I didn't know u TK.
I feel bad about celebrating her downfall. Is this is
not really her down She was working for this. Yeah no,
this is not your downfall. You just have a uprising. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
that's it. Yeah you're good, dude, You're good.

Speaker 1 (01:18:26):
Yeah, it's okay. Still dwell on it. Just like be like, yes,
your keeping you.

Speaker 2 (01:18:30):
You were literally off to bigger and better things. I
feel bad about celebrating her downfall. Had things been different,
I would have celebrated our victory together or felt bad
for her. Now the real petty this is now, this
is the real petty. Emma was still involved in our
friend group after the incident. They were totally caught up
on what happened. I and two friends from the original
six drove home together after having a run in with her.

(01:18:54):
We drove in loops for forty five minutes while I
took the microphone to spill everything she had done, and
they were shocked. So far, I had kept everything on
the down low for the sake of being civil. But
now we have graduated. And speaking of fun graduations, you
can join us like a little graduation party every weekday
live three pm PSD. Just tap our profile.

Speaker 1 (01:19:15):
Yikes. I I don't know what more steps you can
do to be petty. This person was being a bad
friend for a talent for entire entire life. Was telling
you like, you can't do this, You're not good enough
for that, and then you are, and then turns out
they're not even good enough for the thing that you
they said.

Speaker 2 (01:19:32):
They still don't, they still don't celebrate you.

Speaker 1 (01:19:34):
Yeah, that's not a friend, and you can you can
be happy. You'd be happy that you told them wrong. Dude.
There was someone that didn't like me and didn't think
I was a good fit for their daughter. Said, you're
never gonna earn x amount a year? What's up with
so many people bring like and guess what, guess what, Kean,
I am making that much a year now, So they
can go suck it.

Speaker 2 (01:19:54):
They can suck it. I hope they see this, I
really I think, I yeah, this is this is is
this I was gonna say, I.

Speaker 1 (01:20:02):
Just trying to out here. I'm just trying to work hard.
A lot of people.

Speaker 2 (01:20:06):
What do you do back home?

Speaker 1 (01:20:07):
This was? This was like in Georgia.

Speaker 2 (01:20:10):
I wasn't in Georgia. It seems like a lot of
people back home have it out for you. Yeah yeah,
but just like op here, I move on. There's nothing
more you've said, You've honestly your actions speaked louder than
words here. Oh yeah, you got the second highest on
the act, or got the highest on the act. You

(01:20:31):
worked hard on it. You showed Ema like you showed
them up little easily and you shut her up. You
showed her up and you shut her up.

Speaker 1 (01:20:39):
Boom.

Speaker 2 (01:20:40):
Back to the story, though, My friends admitted that they
were confused when they noticed her being aggressive towards me,
since I've never been mean towards any of them. Apparently
all of us were cutting her off because of the
way she treated op Oh, not just them, but yeah,
she's like she sucks. They assured me that if they
had to pick your emma, they'd pick me one hundred percent. No, yeah, no,

(01:21:03):
doy and that I did nothing wrong. Emma doesn't know
she's been cut off yet. We all plan to do
it quietly, although I have been contemplating sending these incidents
to some of the people I know she'll talk about
me too and warning our mutual friends. She did it
to me and she'll do it to them too.

Speaker 1 (01:21:21):
Hmmmm.

Speaker 2 (01:21:23):
Like I said, I said, my piece, Oh yeah, you're
off to bigger, better things. You don't eat Emma again,
distancing yourself, going no contact. She'll get the picture.

Speaker 1 (01:21:34):
They're trying to pull you down. It just means they're
below Guess what.

Speaker 2 (01:21:37):
I thousand percent know this will happen when you cut
her off. She said, come groveling for her. She's like,
and where are you? I wanted, like, how's your life?
Oh my god, I miss you.

Speaker 1 (01:21:47):
You're seeing in a bucket? No, they pulled each other down.

Speaker 2 (01:21:50):
Oh oh, I thought that's like a movie. But yeah,
like actual crabs. Oh yeah, yeah, I've seen grabs in
a bucket. Yeah yeah, and they're like ripping off limbs
and stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:21:58):
It's kind of crazy, like eight and a look at
one time, and like four of them came out dead.

Speaker 2 (01:22:03):
Yeah they would, they will, They will do whatever it's
fit for survival and wild. Yeah, but like I said
I you are onto bigger, better things. You don't need Emma,
who is the A hole. You're good, So just move
on and that's that's it.

Speaker 1 (01:22:18):
That's the end of the story again And if you
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Speaker 2 (01:22:21):
We love you and see you tomorrow.

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