November 4, 2025 • 52 mins
When a Libra born to an Aries links up with another Aries? Baby, something divine and dangerous is about to happen — and the cosmos can’t contain it. Today, TS Madison sits down at the mic with the one and only comedian, actor, and unapologetic truth-teller Ms. Pat.
They talk about everything from "The Ms. Pat Show" and its 95% true-to-life origins to her astounding journey from hustling in Atlanta to Emmy-nominated sitcom star. Ms. Pat opens up about raising kids while hustling, the importance of building generational wealth, and how mentors like Lee Daniels and Jordan E. Cooper helped her turn her story into a hit.
Then, Ms. Pat gets all the way real — about unlearning homophobia, raising a gay daughter, losing friends who couldn’t evolve, and how shocked she was initially when she realized just how many parents abandon their queer kids. She drops parenting gospel, too: stop hiding behind religion, stop kicking your kids out at 18, and start watering their flowers instead of pouring gasoline on them.
Plus: being a sexually active grandma, why she refuses to babysit, why she hated her daughter's cheerleading coach so much, what Hollywood taught her, and why she wasn’t pressed when Lee Daniels cut her scene from "The United States vs. Billie Holiday" (“my check cleared!”).
All this, and Ms. Pat proves she’s the definition of an ally — loud, loving, and learning out loud.
🎬 Don’t miss "Ms. Pat Settles It" — Season 3 premieres on BET tonight (Tuesday 11/4) at 10 PM ET / 9 CT — the same day this episode drops!
"Outlaws" is hosted by TS Madison, and is part of the Outspoken Network from iHeartPodcasts, co-produced by Turtle Run Entertainment.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Every time I open up my mouth up and goes out. No, wait,
when did you ines b med bed yourself? Get a job?
Ricking honey, rick hoon.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Chasing it all.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
I'm black like that sbout living its color easy. This
is Outlaws with tears Medicine, Honey? Is it all?
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Is it all?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Is this bit recording?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
What's up?
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Everybody? This is your tears Medicine coming to you loudlive
and always and forever in color. From the Outlaws podcast. Now,
baby listen, I tell y'all, I bring y'all the most interesting,
outspoken outlaw individuals on planet Earth. And today I have
my good girlfriend that I love. That cuss cuts almost
equally as worse. It's me. She's an aries and anytime
(01:08):
y'all hear me talking about aries bit, you know what
that means? She will fight. Okay, fight, shoot and get
to the money. Bitch. Put y'all hands together for my dog,
miss pat.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Hey, sweetheart.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
I starting to look at her and gave her all
this ship and she come here with this, hey sweetheart.
She want to come in all soft and ship like that.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
I mean, I guess that's how people introduce me all.
She'll stab a bit I'm used to. I'm not fighting
no more. Tis I'm fifty three, I'm old. I'm gonna
get my ass.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Well, I'm gonna talk some ship.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
It takes a lot for me to fight. Plus I
got a few little coins. People don't.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
People don't fight people with coins. They soon soon. So
I leave people to funk along.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Yeah, if they come in that space, not too miss passed.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I just say, talk to your ship, and I'm gonna
keep on walking.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
It's it's speaking of got a little corner, miss pat.
I just received a stack of chick, stack of chicks
like this from you, from the mispass settles. It show.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Oh thank you.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I'm so happy. Listen, I see the step chick. I
ain't even cast them, bitch yet, what damn you.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Not like me? I take my recision straight to the bank.
It could be twenty seven cents.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
I put our wanner depositive, bitch, I worked told I
waited on this twenty seven cents I take. Oh my,
I just took one the other day for a dollar
and see the cents. And she looked at me, and
I looked at her like it's a chance. It's gonna clear.
It's through saying so put it in the back. I
run it, yes, Miss Pat.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
I just want to say I was so happy that
Jordan introduced us with each other. Jordan introduced me to
you years ago. We were at a out one hundred
um a party and they were honoring uh, who the
fuck was they honoring. They were honoring somebody and I
(02:58):
got a little honor somewhere in there. And we were
at the party and before we went in, Jordan was
Jordan loved on me, hugged on me, kiss on me.
He said, bitch, I got this show that's coming. It's
called the Miss Pat Show, he said. And I've been
working with Miss Pat for they said. He said, do
you know Miss Pat? I say, I share a comedian
and she cussed like me and he said, yeah, y'all
(03:20):
cussing ship and like.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
And you know what.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
This was years ago, Miss Pat. And I remember him
calling you on the phone. We was outside of the
event and he called you on the phone. And I
got on there and I said, Grid wants to tea
Grid and me and you you key, you say, and
you said, bitch, you'll be doing all that cussing and
shit on there, and said whatever, And we just clicked
right there on the phone and I said, I love Hug.
(03:46):
I want you to know I knew that we were
going to work together from that day. I knew it.
I knew we was gonna work together. I knew we
were gonna do stuff together. I just knew. And this
was before your show came out and got real big.
Is because your show is huge.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Yes it is.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
I mean we I mean we're on bet Plus. But
at least people notice us. Sometimes you can go on
a smaller network and get lost. And thank god, the
Miss Past show never got lost. And back to Jordan,
when we was putting this show together, and you know,
one thing I can say about Jordan, he's gonna look
out for his community. And you know, my daughter is
gay also, so he just had a list of people.
(04:25):
He said, we have to give them a job. And
I remember your name coming up several times. What we're
gonna put at what we gonna do with her? And
he was like, I'm gonna create something for right here,
and we created that.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
You back, I said, I told you. He looked at
me and say, you can't.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Well, it was because I was nervous, he was, and.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
That's why we calm you down and we gave you
the acting coach that was working with me, and he
was great. He was like, well, we got to bring
it back. And as soon as we we came up
with the idea of the court show.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
And we partner with four ninety five, the first thing
he said, we gotta go get to your medicine.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah, and that's what Miss settles it. Boy, listen, Miss P,
I won't tell you I'm so proud of you. Thank
you because you've been one hundred percent authentically yourself from
from the door, like you know how bitch come in
there and they get a little break and ship and
then it changed.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
I hate people talk.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
I can't stand at bullshit.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
I said.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
I always say, be's talking to me like you talk
to your credit You don't talk to your standing.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
How you talk to your creditor? You tell I ain't
got it? Oh you hang up on them.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
I want to need your real voice. And if you talk,
if you talk fake, I cannot be around with you.
I cannot fuck with y'ah.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
And Miss Pat, you the reason why I feel that
your show is so successful, the Miss Pat show so
successful because it is it mimics your life. It is
it is your life. It is. It's your life story,
and you are able to cuss.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
I'm able to be myself.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
And what people don't understand is what you see in
that Mispass show is about ninety five percent of me outside.
You know, I talked shit. I say, I'm fifty three
and I've learned a long time ago. I'm not gonna
hold in anything to make you comfortable. I don't care
what type of setting you got me in, what type
of means of me. I'm always gonna come me. I'm
gonna walk in there as myself and I'm gonna walk
(06:22):
out of them. I'm gonna walk out of there as
myself because one thing I learned about Hollywood, they would
if you fuck around, they will frame you into something
that you're not.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
And I'm not frameable. You can see I got a
lot of curves. Yeah, So I mean, and I just
always talk.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Even when me and Jordan first got together, one of
the things we promised each other we said, we will
always stick with each other and we will never let
them tell us apart.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
And let me tell you something.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
And this reason they have tried, they have tried to
tear our relationship apart.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
They was like, hey, you over here.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
He over here.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
We was like, no, We're gonna always be together, whether
we're working on a mispass show or we're not even
working on the same project. I'm We're always there for
each other. And that's hard to find in Hollywood. Somebody
who truly care about you, because people just care about.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
You for the opportunity.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
That's one person I can truly say that would love
me if I didn't have a dime in my pockecast.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
That's who's in this business.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
I'm telling you he does. Because when we when we
were outside the our one hundred party, he was like, tears,
I gotta get you in front of me, so I
gotta let y'all talk. He says, y'all got some with
the same kind of spirit. I said, what's her sign? Remember?
He said, think ship areas. I said, bitch my mama
as I said, I know she will fight up. I
know this, and you know you met my mom, you know, yeah,
(07:38):
and she loved you. And I said, Mama, the reason
why you love miss pett is because both of y'all, yeah,
and y'all got the sane and you know, I terrorize
it's my mama, Miss Petner. We were together at the
candy show. The show, and I said what I said
to my mama, my son, that will chill. And she
(07:58):
was over there her push chair and I say, it's
something something you was like, ts you be saying this stuff?
Your mom? I said, Wama be saying to you, be
saying that ship she loved as ship she love it.
And it's just like you know, Libra and aries are
like polar polar mirror reflections of each other, Libra sign
and aries. And that's why we that's why we fussing fight.
(08:21):
But it's we got so many characteristics of each other
because we like mirror reflections of each Yeah. So do
you got any liber kids?
Speaker 2 (08:29):
I don't think so. I don't know where my kids are.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
You know what, when when I stopped filing income text
for them, I forget their birthday, I forget their first name.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
I'd be like I be calling them on the roll
up there. I'm not june Bug.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
I'm like, well ship, everybody's june Bug. So they get
on me all the time.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
You don't even know all names.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
Now, don't give a fuck because I don't get I
don't get a tax return, so.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
I mixed up the girls name I mix up everybody name,
so I don't know. I mean sometime I forget their birthdays.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Well, shit, you got a lot going on. I do it,
and then I'm you know, I'm going through mental pause.
I'm fifty three, I'm all. I don't have time. I'm
traveling all the time. I'm just I'm in my own world.
The kids are grown, I have grandkids. You know, they
only want me for shit I can buy. You know,
I'm a sexual active grandmama, so I ain't keeping nobody grandma.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
I'm not baby saying I'm not you know.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
I talked to my girlfriend all the time, and she's
such a sweet grandmama, and I was like, like the
ship her granddaughter. Do, I tell my granda, get the
fuck out my face, gone somewhere, take your ass on,
No baby with your mam and dad.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Now, I love you, but not like that.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
But my but my friends, they treat their grandkids like
queens and kings. I cussed minds the funk out because
that's just you.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
I do it, and I love them.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
But my grandson told me, said he told his Mommy said,
I know what my grandmama is so mean? She said, well,
he said, because I Google Home the Internet and her
mama beat her.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
I said, boss, to get your ass off YouTube.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
Now that's a great segue for me, because I really
want to know what is your origin story, Mispat. I mean,
for those are people that are watching the Outlaw show,
we've watched the Mispatch Show. How much of the Mispat
(10:27):
Show is totally mispacked?
Speaker 2 (10:31):
The first three, probably the first three fourth season was
ninety five per Jordan was just pulling from my life.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
It might have been a few things here and there
that you know, happened to somebody else we know, but
most of that stuff happened to me and he just
wrote it. So about ninety percent of the Mispatch Show
is real, and I think that's why people love it.
You know, two of the episodes that that that I
always think back to. One was the black Hair episode
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and the other one was when I found out my
daughter was gay. The reaction that I had as a
black parent, because you know, growing up in the black household,
you're taught if you gay, it's something wrong with you.
And then when you know, I'm gonna be honest with you,
I'm not gonna use the word hate, but I could
not stand lesbian women. I've been to prison and I
(11:19):
never had a lesbian relationship. I just did not like
lesbian women. Why I don't cause I'm Black and I
was taught not to like them. Oh, gay men were okay.
Gay men was okay.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
Well, you know, I could deal with it.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
I can deal with a man easily, then I can
do with a woman anyway. But gay man, a gay
man was okay. I didn't really have a problem with
a gay man. You know, back in those that you
used the word sissy, But when it came down to women,
I didn't. My daughter had a gay chileicking coach, a
white lady, and I couldnot stand this lady.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
She had never done anything to me. It was a
bullshit that I was taught as a black kid well
to hate.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
I don't even know if I hated it.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
I just did not like her.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
And every day we were arguing, I was like, white bitch,
I will kill you, I'm telling you. And it was
my daughter chile eating coach, and I couldn't. Now mean,
the lady is very cool, not knowing that my.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
Damn daughter was gay.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
And so you know, I think I think a lot
of times as people in this world it don't affect
you until it comes to your dog. And when it
came to my dull step and I realized how gay
people was treated because by this time I have a
gay daughter and I love my gay daughter. I mean
a censel went off and I was like, I'm not
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taking this shit. I must ask for forgiveness and nobody
will ever talk to my daughter the way I talked
to that coach or treated that coach. I just did
not like her, and it was all because of her sexuality,
because that's what I was taught. But when my daughter
came out and said she was gay, I knew immediately
I had to protect her because it was some bitch
out that was gonna act like that with my daughter
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the way I act.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
And he was like, I ain't gonna let that bitch.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Ain't nobody gonna do my daughter like that?
Speaker 3 (12:59):
You know, I lost friends and everything after my daughter
came out and said she was gay. Why because they
was like I had one friend saying, I know you
embarrassed that your daughter's gay. I said, bit, you should
be embarrassed at your daughter taking all that dick that
ain't staying around.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
Fuck are you talking about it?
Speaker 3 (13:11):
He embarrassed by my motherfucking daughter, and I just immediately
went on a ramp where you know you gotta fight Christian,
then you gotta fight the people who don't understand it.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
I had a Christian friend of mine tell me, she said, oh,
we're gonna pray to gay out of Ashley.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
I said, bitch, ain't gonna pray no gay out of Ashley.
I fucking around pray for Ashlety and I can't get
to Heim because I don't pray for Ashley. I don't
mind my motherfucking bed. That ain't me eating a pussy.
That's her eating the pussy, and you let her and
God deal with that shit. The way they gonna deal
with all I'm gonna be is Mama. I'm not gonna
go out here and tell nobody. I want nobody to
pray the chick for lay out of me, right, So
what the fuck I'm gonna pray to.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Pussy out of my daughter?
Speaker 3 (13:43):
Fuck they my daughter eat pussy. If she choose to
eat pussy in her teeth, God gave him to it.
I don't give a fuck all I tell my daughter
eat pussy that don't leak.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
They ain't gonna be all right, I'm sorry, can I hurt?
Speaker 1 (13:57):
Oh, you can do anything you want, You're okay.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
But those are the things that I went through as
a as a gay parent, and then it just opened
my eyes and I didn't realize how big the gay
community was, and I didn't realize how many people turn
their backs on their kids for their sexuality. That's one
thing I can always say, I've never done that. I've
met a lot of kids through my daughter who was
thrown out, who was fucking shun and all of that stuff.
(14:22):
I've never done that. I started fighting from day one
when my daughter came out and said she was preak.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
I me even pregnant. I wish, but my daughter takes
got too many holes to be anyway too.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
And you know what, I'm happy to see her happy,
you know, And I tell people our time, I'm a
gay parent. That's my gay baby. Now I can talk
about it, but you can't fucking talk about And those
are some of the things that I had to fight
through when my daughter came out, you know, just people
that I thought with my friends and just people who
like it was super religious.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
I don't give fuck about your religion.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
According to according to the world, we all are serving
the same guard and he's supposedly love us all. So
I don't think he would have created you gay if
he and say he didn't love you. He love us
all because I mean and I you know, one of
the biggest things I fight when I'm talking about my
gay daughters, people like, you're not born gay?
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Yes the fuck you are you? My daughter came out
my pussy lick at her fingers. I know she was
born gay.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
She was born gay, and I think it because her
daddy will undercover gay.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
You never care, I tell people all the time, Miss
pat I said, gay trans kids.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
There wasn't no trains when I was coming up. I'm
fifty three, so it was a.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Transvesting, cross dressers, cross dress all right, I'm glad.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
Well they didn't look as good as you.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
Well, well, well they couldn't get rid of their chin hair.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
These mother hooking today look better than some of them.
Looking at it. I've been looking at trads be like,
what the fuck.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
Did you do that? I forgot to do with the pus.
This is the famous path. I tell people this when
we're having these conversations. We're black, yes, we're black, and
we ain't just black. We some niggas, yes we are,
and so we niggas from nigga places. And so I
got in trouble recently online because I had said, uh
(16:33):
what I said about Okay, now, y'all, don't get mad
at me in the booth and y'all, because you know,
I'm just reliving a story. And I'm also sitting with
a black woman. I was raised by a black woman,
so you raise your daughter. So we were I'm still
queer trends whatever. So the teachers that y'all, y'all put
(16:55):
the teachers in us, and we had to go around
and not like ourselves a little bit because our parents
already they didn't like gay people. They adn't like gay
people the ship. So we didn't like that. We didn't
like I said, we didn't it was shipped that we
didn't like. We had to really learn to love ourselves,
and then you did and then live out loud and
then tell our parents like fuck that this is who
(17:15):
I am. You gotta you gotta take it. But again,
this is a woman that's sitting across from me right now.
Ladies and gentlemen, who did you who? I can validly say,
when we were growing up miss pell you fifty three.
I'm forty eight this year. Well, when I'm growing up,
it was you was a pop, a punk assisting.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
I think it's with you, pomp Paul.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
It was a pop assistant, a dyke yes, buy dagger, yes,
and this is what it was. So you didn't know
any other terms? No, we did, so all these new
all these.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
New terms very confusing for fifty three year.
Speaker 3 (17:48):
I actually tell a bit about it. I said, gay people,
can we just get back to being gay? I don't
give a fuck what you identify ask just tell me
your name so I can respect you. I don't care
if you're lesbian with a dial do ask Scott.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
If you were to call you big dick, will it bitch?
Big deck? Will it is? Just tell me your name.
I don't need to know your pronouns and ABC's and dfcs.
Just tell me your names.
Speaker 3 (18:09):
And I think that's where the straight world kind of
you know, get like oh, every time you turn around,
it's something new. I don't care what your what your
pronouns are, Just tell me your name, you know, whatever
you If you want me to call you ts Medisin,
it's TS mails on Wednesday.
Speaker 2 (18:24):
If you call me, said bitch. I'm willy today. It's Willy.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
Just tell me your name. I don't care what you
do in the bedroom. And I think that's what that's
what's wrong with society. We're so caught up worrying about
what people do in the backroom.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
You know, is it godling?
Speaker 1 (18:37):
Like we're not God? So who am I to judge you?
Who am I? I don't give a fuck what you do.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
I don't like her. Fuck.
Speaker 3 (18:43):
What you do is you be nice to me and
treat people the way you want to be true. I
don't worry about people's sexuality. If you go in the
grocery store and swallow Q commers, that's so when you
just don't swallow the one I'm gonna buy it, don't
lick shit and put it back, you know, keep it
with well.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
I kept mine with me. I kept my motherfucker Q comba.
God damn it, I've seen you. You are massive about
these stords. But miss Patt, this is the thing that
I said, you gotta know. And I got in trouble
(19:22):
because I said, girl, because I motherfucker said that there's
some white people ship we didn't know about this stuff
and out and I didn't mean that it was white
people ship, Like, what are you talking about? Okay, we
were talking about No, we were having a non binary conversation. Okay,
non binary people. That's listening to the sound of my
voice right now. I understand none binary. I understand trends
(19:44):
and non binary. I understand it now. It took me
a minute to get to the space even and I'm
a transgender, but took me a minute to get your
But I understand it. But I made a statement in
my in you know, in my understanding, Yo, there's some
white people ship. We ain't know nothing about that.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
We just not Oh none binary.
Speaker 3 (20:05):
Yes, well, I had a kid that can tell me
at the house that she was non binaror and I
don't know what it is.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
I understand now, well I don't understand it. I mean,
and I just told her. I said, I'm cool with.
Speaker 3 (20:15):
Whatever you are, but we got a dollar suppointment tomorrow
and the rest of these niggas can't come with you.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
So you leave him them dead in her and you
just bring me you. So there's too much you say,
and you know, come go with me. That's all I'm saying.
So you know, for me, I don't try to understand
and you know, I try.
Speaker 3 (20:38):
I respect, but I can't get into all of that,
you know, trance and none by there.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
It's just too much.
Speaker 3 (20:44):
So again I just I go back to say, what
is your name? And I'm gonna respect you for who
you are? If you whatever you want me to call you,
that is what I would call you. But going deep
diving into to that sexuality, I don't know. I've been
fucking since element entry school and I just know one
way a man I don't. I don't let him put
my legs in the air. I don't turn over. I
(21:05):
just do it like your old mom and daddy did it,
straight up and straight down. And I get up and
go do the dishes.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
I don't do. I don't order no deal dooz off,
no Amazon, I don't. I don't suck on, no tweets.
I don't do any of that. I have sex like
it's nineteen sixty two because that's convenient for me. But
I got a daughter that's I always talking about dicking
bitches down, and I respect her. If they gonna let
her put on that motherfucking plastic from Amazon and get
(21:31):
her yeast infection.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
And more power tell you and I just go I'm not.
I'm what I'm saying here, y'all is I mind my
fucking being?
Speaker 2 (21:40):
What do? What makes you happy? And that's what's wrong
with the world. We're too busy trying to please everybody.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
You If God came, if God said his only begotten
sign here and y'all put him on the cross if
he couldn't please you, Who the fuck am I right?
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Because you ain't put me on no cross. I did
know something.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
No cocoboad on me. Yeah, and tell my dad for
you now.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
I'm not dying for none of you.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Motherfucker fuck you whole ass niggas.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
Yes, and so you know, I just that's how I
look at life.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
Yes, but but I be understanding when you know, sometimes
when people from from a generation say, oh I don't
understand or whatever, and then I like you because you're
progressive enough to be like, Okay, I may not get
it all.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
Yes, how do I respect you? Tell me your name,
that's all. I don't whatever you want me to do.
You can be a butterfly if you want me to say,
you a butterfly, that's what the fuck you are.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
I might not physically see a butterfly, but in your
head you might be a motherfucker butterfly. Now I ain't
gonna let you fly for Cliff because I got reality. Nigga,
you can't fly.
Speaker 3 (22:40):
Okay, But if you want to walk around this motherfucker
and flap your hands like you a butterfly, then do
you do you? Because I don't want nobody fucking with
me when I say I'm something that you might think
I'm not.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
You know, people team me all the time. I lost
ten pound beach stop playing.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
But but miss Pat, I respect that because you're You're
not one of those people that over there like, well,
I don't know what it is, and I just if
it's I'm gonna call them Clay, I'm gonna call them Clay.
You're like, okay, I don't know what it is, but
what you want me to respect you as that's it.
Speaker 3 (23:14):
That's it.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
That's it. And I fuck up even in my own community.
But I still turn around and i'd be like, yo,
I learned, like right now, you just heard me say
I learned about I understand trends. I understand nothing, but
I understand it now. It took a person to sit
me down because I was like, okay, well, I'm trands
and you telling me you none binary, and you know what.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
Is none bynary? It's everything, right, Well, none.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
Binary is not adhering to any of the binary Like
they're not adhering to female, they're not adhering to male.
They're just they're none binary. But I didn't understand. I
understood that, but I didn't understand how they were. How
some of them were telling me that there there, they're trends.
I was like, well, now hold on now, because that's
these were these were my thoughts. See how I got this.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
Non binary is trans to everything, so they said.
Speaker 1 (24:04):
Him and anything that challenges the norm, the binary norms,
its fault can fall under the trends umbrella. However, non
binary people just if they want to get up and
they want to be they want to present how they
can do that and still fall under because what be.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
A man one day, a girl one day or whatever,
they want to be, fish anything.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
So the non binary they don't adhere to it like
binary is male female. Non binary is like, I'm not
adhering to any of that.
Speaker 3 (24:38):
Remind me of the movie Catch Me if it Catch
Me if you can you remember with Leonoida Capri.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
Yeah, yes, he was everything. He was a pilot, he
was a doctor, he was a he.
Speaker 1 (24:48):
Was okay, non binary, Yeah, trends, some trends like me.
You know, my goal was to get to looking woman.
So that's what that was. And but I'm from a
different time too, yes, so I transition and and during
my transition time, we were solely focused on you know
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what I'm saying. We were passing because not only it
was for safety reasons too, like we had to pass, like, bitch,
you couldn't get up there putting no motherfucker wig on,
and and bitch you your your name was where You're
gonna always be motherfucker Willie. Now you get up there
and you put on that wig and you pull, you
pull yourself together, and you get soft enough. You may
be will Amina. Okay, you might be will Amina. Okay,
(25:37):
Oh that's will Amina. I ain't will it no more.
That's will eminah ship you know, so I understand that.
I understand it now. I did not at first like
to see that. How how y'all trends and and and
none by at the same time, it can be both. Well,
it's anything that that challenges the binary. It can fall
under under the trends umbrella. I got it. I can't
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explain it complete, miss past, but I can. Y'all can
get off my ass because I will fight you holes
in public.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Okay, will y'all make sure y'all fight her. I'm just
I'm learning.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
I've learning too. I've learned, and I understand. So don't
come over here jumping out, you know, because they you
know it's it's sensitive, and I understand it being sensitive
because people feel like they've been shut out in other I.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
Understand, yes, and I understand the community.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
I get it, so so I don't want to. I
don't want to say some fucked up ship and be
a part of the community saying fucked up ship. But
what I respect about you, miss pat is that you
saying I don't got it all.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
But I'm willing to meet you where you at and
respect you for what you are.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
And that's all I can That's all you can do,
and that's all I want anybody to do for me.
I mean, who am I to judge? You know?
Speaker 3 (26:44):
You and I tell people all the time, you know,
since I since I started the Mispass show and I
did those episodes about being a black gay parents, my
audience with the with the community has grown tremendously and
a lot of people come up to me and always
thank me for that episode because I'm glad as a
black parent that I could be open minded. And I've
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said some fucked up shit to my daughter, and I've
made some mistakes, but one thing she can always say
that I was always supportive of her sexuality.
Speaker 2 (27:14):
I never shut her out. I never looked a way.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
You know.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
When I just asked her on the phone, I said, look,
are you gay? She said yes, Ma. I said, well,
come on back to home to Atlanta. We live in Atlanta.
You can eat a lot of pussy here, and I
would feel safer if you was here with me.
Speaker 3 (27:28):
Then wherever the fuck you are at and I ain't
seen you in three years? Yeah, So you know I
would say this to parents, and I say this every
night on stage. You know, when your child, don't get
caught up in the Bible and lose the person that
you love, because that's what will happen if you truly think,
if you truly think about it, if we all serving
(27:48):
the same God, you gotta ask, did God love you
through your sins?
Speaker 2 (27:53):
And who the fuck know? If this even a singing?
We don't really know the rules of the world or.
Speaker 3 (27:57):
The rules of the Bible, and shit were wrote by
a couple of white men dog who say they.
Speaker 2 (28:01):
Didn't get it wrong.
Speaker 3 (28:02):
We won't really know until we see if God is
real and we one day in front of him. But
until that day come, I say this to all parents,
if your child is gay, their respect who they are
and support who they are, because a lot of time
you don't know what the fuck you're killing. You could
be killing the fashion designer, a movie director, you could
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be killed the president. You don't know what you are
killing when you got that child because of the sexuality
that you don't like, That child gonna have to come
back one day and mayby have.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
To take care of you.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
But you sitting here because you say God don't love
gay people. All the motherfucker had on white wigs back
in the day. Some of them people in them wooden
teeth and white wigs. Might be in heaven when you
get that heaven is real. So I say this to
any parents that's listening and who think that their child
is gay. Nine time out of ten, your child is gay,
and from one gay parents or another, I will ask
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you to support who that child is and instead putting
gasoline on that fly with water that flowers so he
can grow. Yep, And that's what I would say as
a parent, because as a Black community, when it comes
down to sexuality and being.
Speaker 2 (29:11):
Gay, we have been.
Speaker 3 (29:12):
We're probably some of the worst communities when it comes
down to that. You know, we taught to black man,
he can't cry when you should be able to cry.
We talk to black man, he can't be gay, the
black woman, you can't be happy. All of that bullshit.
As a community, when do it stop? When do we say,
as a parent, it's time to support who you are,
not what I want you to be. I was talking
(29:33):
to somebody and I said one of the things that
I've learned.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
Since I've had a few dollars that was legal in
my life.
Speaker 3 (29:41):
We fuck up as Black parents because as soon as
that child turned eighteen, we tell them to get the
fuck out of our house. Well, the only race that
does that. Italians don't do it. White people don't do it,
or Mexicans don't do it. We just throw all kids
out to the wools. I remember one time my husband
was building the house and this girl was twenty eight
years old.
Speaker 2 (29:58):
It was in Bucket.
Speaker 3 (29:59):
It was back in the nineties and she was building
a five hundred thousand dollars house back then. You can
imagine what it's worth now. And she had stayed with
her parents the whole time and saved her money. And
I remember my husband coming home and telling me that
story in Medisine and that always stuck with me because
when my daughter actually went to college, I said, oh,
it's time for y'all to get out. And I realized,
(30:19):
I said, but get out with what. I don't have
anything for her. I don't have anything save for her,
no future.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
I'm just throwing my child out. And I had to
go back and deal with myself.
Speaker 3 (30:32):
And so when I was building that house, you see
I have built now, and I tell my kids, you
ain't gotta go, no fucking well, save your money so
when you leave up out of here, you can pay
for your house cash.
Speaker 2 (30:42):
Like the story of my husband told me about this
little white girl in Buckhead.
Speaker 3 (30:46):
But as black parents, that's what we do. You eighteen,
it's driving you to go, No, it's not. It's time
for you to continue to help them grow. Now, everybody
got that one piece of shit in their life. Everybody
got that one kid.
Speaker 2 (30:58):
I was on the phone with Mines last night that
you got constantly knock up side the head. But you
gotta love that one too, you do. And that's what
I've learned from being a black parent.
Speaker 1 (31:08):
You know what.
Speaker 3 (31:09):
Stop that shit kicking them out, stop that shit orrying
about their sexuality.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
We gotta learn to support them more.
Speaker 1 (31:15):
Yeah. So, so, miss Patt, I want to go back
just a bit to your personal life. You've been shot,
You've been raped. Yes you done, hustle, yes you done?
(31:37):
You done? Did it?
Speaker 2 (31:38):
Drug?
Speaker 1 (31:38):
So drug?
Speaker 2 (31:39):
Dropped out of school, had two kids at fifteen. By
the time I was fifteen with a mayor man.
Speaker 3 (31:45):
I made a lot of mistakes I have, but you know,
I look back over my life and I've told this
story a million times.
Speaker 2 (31:53):
To have the kids that I have with the eighth
grade education, I ain't do that. Damn bad too. Kids
who went to college.
Speaker 3 (32:00):
Everybody graduated high school, and I've never been a person
that pushes my kids to college.
Speaker 2 (32:05):
I always told my kids, do what make you happy,
because a lot of people go to college and never
use that fucking degree when.
Speaker 3 (32:13):
That was always a star in you that you never
lit because your parents say, oh you got to go
to college. Now, I'm big on education, but I'm also
big that you can make just as much money by
making your own soap or doing hair or whatever the.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
Fuck you want to do.
Speaker 3 (32:28):
But I think back in those days, we didn't support
kids to follow their dreams, what would deep down in
them because society said, oh, you got to go to college,
you got to get in debt. The American dream is
buying a house. That was one of the biggest lie
I was ever told. And I was working at a
doctor's office one day and this guy came in and
I was trying to buy a house at the time.
Speaker 2 (32:49):
I'm getting off Siction eight, and I was like, I just.
Speaker 3 (32:51):
Want the America dream, you know, the white picky fit
and then you know, I just want to buy a house.
Speaker 2 (32:54):
And he looked at me.
Speaker 3 (32:55):
He said, that's the fucked up shit they teach black
people in America, he said, but white people teach their
kids to own a Chick fil A, to own a
franchise and do this and do other shit, while we
just struggling to pay for our house for thirty years, which.
Speaker 2 (33:08):
Is nothing but debt.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
So I just learned to say I'm going to support
my kids whatever they try to do. Now, some of
the shit be dumb as fuck, tids man and be dumb,
and I'll be trying to talk them out of them.
But I also try to stay positive because it takes
some of us a little longer to find ourselves than others.
Speaker 1 (33:29):
It does, miss pat. But the great thing about it
is like me being trends and me having my mother
in my life.
Speaker 2 (33:38):
It is wonderful.
Speaker 1 (33:40):
I couldn't ask for anything more because being out in
the world, like facing the world alone and having to
run into because it's so many different personalities and shit
personality people.
Speaker 3 (33:54):
Can you imagine so many kids like yourself that used
the worlds without a supportive parents. You know, I didn't
know that so many gay kids go homeless and stuff
because of how their parents treat them.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
My daughter taught me all of this shit, And I'm like, what,
who would put their kids out for sexuality?
Speaker 3 (34:17):
I mean, I would be honest. I'm a don't don't
saw dick at my house? Look good, you wouldn't be
sucking on dick at my house. Now, well, you're gonna
have to go outside in the barn. Now, this is
when Jesus come into play. Don't about fucking my house
but me and I don't care who you're a ball girl,
but what if you don't do the ship in my house?
(34:39):
But as far as just doing you know this, only
my child, I would never do that, not even my
lazy child.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
But what I like about you, miss Petteres, you bring
your kids to your to work with. You like to
teach them, and you give them jobs at work.
Speaker 3 (34:52):
You're damn right because it keep asking me for my money. Well,
you know, my my son, my son. I have two
sons that work on the set, and one of them's
really interested in construction and the other one was into lighting,
but he kind of float around. And so my daughter,
actually she does makeup. And my other daughter always been
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so funny. And when I got the show and I
was and I told Jordan, I was like, you might
think I'm bullshit, but I think this girl know how
to write. And that's the only child I have with
like three degrees. And I said, I'm telling you, she's
fucking hilarious. She's like me, but educated, like highly educated.
She's too black sometimes ts And he.
Speaker 2 (35:33):
Was like, oh, I don't know, she ain't never wrote.
Speaker 3 (35:35):
And I said, listen to me, fucking Hi'm my daughter,
and we hide her and Jordan trained her and she's
a really fucking good writer.
Speaker 2 (35:43):
She I remember writing the first season.
Speaker 3 (35:45):
We were writing the first season a Miss Pat Show,
and we wrote a joke and you know how sometime
as a commedy, you can hear a joke but you
don't know you heard that joke. And my daughter came
in she said, Tyler Perot did that on this episode
of that Da Da Da Dad, And I was like what.
Every time we wrote something, she could tell you and
she had heard it before and could pull it up.
And it really it really challenged me and Joy to
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really watch the things that we said to you know,
the jokes that we wrote, because Garyana was always there
to say that original even though as me as a
comedian who don't watch a lot of TV, thinking that
I don't wrote something and she said, they are did that.
And I think that's what people love about the Miss
Past show because you ain't never heard that ship. You
(36:31):
ain't never heard the jokes that were gonna put out
cause we we and you've been there. So we don't
just say one joke. We might run five or ten
jokes that day and the best one hits, you know,
that's the.
Speaker 2 (36:42):
One we take.
Speaker 3 (36:44):
And so I have a writer or makeup, but one
in one enlightening and one in construction. And I told him,
I said, if this is where you want to be at,
then really work hard, you know, think about your own shit.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
Listen for me to come there and see all your
kids on set and your daughter did did my makeup
of all? I love your she loves you too. I
love her girl. That's my judy. You know what I'm saying.
And people should take a page out of y'all book
of being black parents that don't put the kids out
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of the eighteen Yes, make make provisions for them to
acquire wealth, acquire something. When I was forcing them to
be out there on the site.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
You know where I learned it from, tell me Lee Daniels.
So when I first when this is Lee Daniels, show
him and run Howard and.
Speaker 1 (37:41):
Run.
Speaker 2 (37:41):
I went to run Howard Company.
Speaker 3 (37:43):
I felt a producer by the name of John Ratler,
executive producer by the name of John Ratler brought me
in and said that Lee Daniel was trying to create
a sitcom and so, uh, that was Ron Howard Company.
And then I meet Lee Daniel and then I go
and I go on a couple of his sets. And
then when I think I went on a start and
(38:05):
every his relatives was there. He said, I'm not gonna
give you anything, but I'm gonna give you a job.
And I just watched Lee Daniel that whole time of
those years that I was working way we was working
on the Miss Past show, and I just said, this
is what I'm gonna do. And as soon as I
got the opportunity, I said, you know, my kids got
to get a job.
Speaker 1 (38:25):
Because because listen, because Girley, his sister, Girley, she was
doing the wardrobe, but some Girley was doing. You know,
he got his liah.
Speaker 3 (38:37):
And I learned that from Lee. And that's how you
take care of your family. And he always take care
of his family. He always take.
Speaker 2 (38:44):
Care people around him. He really did. I mean.
Speaker 3 (38:49):
And that's one thing I would say about Lee Daniel.
He is and if I call him and he might
cuss me out and I might say a few things
to him, but one thing I know.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
Is if I really need him, he he's gonna be there.
And that's where I learned that from.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
And and all of his kids are they got a
wealthy daddy, Richard than the motherfucker they got a wealthy daddy.
Speaker 2 (39:14):
I think Lee. Last time I talked to Lee daddy,
he had bought some vampire blood.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
I don't know what he called me. The other day
he was like, bitch, you know we're developing my biopic.
Speaker 2 (39:24):
I think I saw that.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
Yeah, we're developing my stuff.
Speaker 2 (39:27):
You know.
Speaker 1 (39:27):
So we got a lot of works together.
Speaker 4 (39:30):
Because he because he told me like, bitch, you my
transsectional miss Pat you know how you talk, bitch, Bitch
you said you bitch is a brilliant you betch it's
a brilliant.
Speaker 3 (39:47):
He know how to make a black woman winning an award,
He really do. He know how to bring out the
best on them. He just came to see our show
for the first time out of five season.
Speaker 2 (39:56):
He had never been to the sea. And it was
so funny because I kept sucking up.
Speaker 3 (40:00):
He don't know, I hate the monologue and it's summody
usually get the day before and I have to fucking
say it off the top of my head. And he
screened out, stop sucking up because I'm here and said,
ain't fucking up because you got fuck up every.
Speaker 1 (40:12):
Week and he fell out laughing. He fell out, but he.
Speaker 3 (40:15):
Loved You know what what I love about Lee is
that you know, it was it was his show, and
he found Jordan for me and he literally said, go
off and make this show.
Speaker 2 (40:28):
And he never fucked with us.
Speaker 3 (40:31):
I honestly, that was the first time he had ever
visited that set because when he was shooting the pilot,
he was shooting. When I shot the pilot in l A,
he was shooting a movie. I can't remember the name
of the movie with Archie Day in it.
Speaker 2 (40:44):
What was that movie?
Speaker 3 (40:46):
He was shooting that movie, so he couldn't make it
to the pilot. And so you know, we took us
a year or so before it got picked up, and
we chose I live here in Atlanta, so we chose
to do it here in Atlanta. So he never really
came down, But I mean, he just literally had me
Enjordan a show and he was always there to support
and fight for the things that we needed. And it's
(41:09):
kind of weird handing two motherfucker show who had never did.
Speaker 1 (41:12):
Got that, But that's because he's a visionary. He put
y'all in the same well. He shot a star because
because when I came to work at the mispatch, I said, Oh,
I don't been down here to work because I went.
I used to do the interviews and stuff at Start,
and I would go down there to the set sometimes whatever,
and I would sitting in his office. It's just like,
it's so crazy how we how we be in each
(41:34):
other's lives, but somewhe in some dimension, this is how
we connected.
Speaker 2 (41:40):
Yeah, and he's a good person.
Speaker 3 (41:42):
I would say that, I mean, and I don't say
it enough to him because he's so busy, But honestly,
I thank him.
Speaker 2 (41:49):
I thank him for believing in me and Jordan.
Speaker 3 (41:51):
I think him for fighting for all the times he
had to get on that phone and fight for the
things he had to fight for.
Speaker 2 (41:58):
Giving us the opportunity.
Speaker 3 (42:00):
I just want to say, me and Jordan U, I
know for a fact that we're very appreciative of what
he'd done for us with the mispat show. And I
will never forget it, because there was so many bumps
in the road along the way that we had to
call lead and to remove those speed bumps for us.
And he was right there and he was ready to fight,
and he was ready to cuss in Holland String So Lee,
(42:21):
if you watching this podcast, I would like to say
thank you for supporting us, because I don't think we
will be here without you. Five season inn and three
Emmy nomination, so.
Speaker 2 (42:32):
We appreciate you.
Speaker 1 (42:33):
So you going to the Emmys this year too?
Speaker 2 (42:35):
No, no, we didn't get our episode anytime. Oh no,
we're not going. I don't have to go to the Emmys.
You know, Reward season is really for somebody like Jordan's
I'm the people champ. The people is what keeps me on.
Speaker 3 (42:51):
You know, them tuning in, them waiting on and them
being patient, them talking about it, them tweeting about it.
Speaker 2 (42:57):
You know, I've seen people wear Emmys and get answer
the same month. I mean, that's TV.
Speaker 3 (43:04):
But to be here after five season on such a
new network like BT Plus and have the support that
we've had to we got our audience out the dirt
because baby I got we got doctor fuck out for
me cussing and me saying the N word and all
of this crazy stuff, the things that we talked about
and black people like, that's not a representation of my family.
Speaker 2 (43:24):
I said, I ain't talking about you, nigga, I'm talking
about my family.
Speaker 3 (43:27):
Yeah, but now I think the audience have calmed down
and learned to a sel that there's a black mama
that cuss, there's a black aunt that cuss. I mean,
I'm in everybody family, whether you try to deny me
or not. I wasn't going anywhere, not as long as
the true people that were still watching, and they are.
We five season and I get asked every time, when
(43:50):
are you coming back? When are you coming back? In
the fact, we're coming back December eleven. That's right, y'all
leave me to fuck up.
Speaker 2 (43:55):
That's right. And if you keep watching, maybe we can
get a season six.
Speaker 3 (43:59):
And I'm just thankful that we could even go this
loan on a BT plus, you know, with all the
one show.
Speaker 2 (44:06):
I'm just so thankful.
Speaker 3 (44:08):
If this is the last season, all I can say
is me and Jordan did what we came to do.
We just wanted to make it a five season. Everything
else is gravy. Everything else is gravy. I mean my cast,
you know, I look at them, I've seen how much
we've grown. It's a family outside of my family. I mean,
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to be able to work on a set where everybody
like each other, that is a miracle. I mean, Tammy
feel likes my real sister. And I say this all
the time, you know, and people I have to argue
with people in the street because they really think that
man is my husband.
Speaker 2 (44:41):
That is not my husband. But no matter what, I
needed that cast all. I'm the comedian.
Speaker 3 (44:47):
I was the least experienced actor on the thing, on
the show, but not one time did I ever feel
that they ever made me feel like I was beneath them.
And I don't think it's because it was a mispassed
show either. I think they cared about me. That's what
I believe.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
Well, your story came from a job well, and I.
Speaker 3 (45:05):
Don't even think it was that they was just they.
I genuinely think that they they they did. They do
appreciate the job, I hope, but I also think that
they they wanted me to win.
Speaker 2 (45:17):
I'm being honest with you.
Speaker 3 (45:18):
That was not a time that Daddy didn't step up
to help, the kids didn't step up to help, Tamman
didn't step up to help. They all had their individual
times where they would pull me to the side and
helped me with something.
Speaker 2 (45:28):
Because acting is not it wasn't my thing.
Speaker 1 (45:30):
It wasn't mine either. And then I got I got
introduced to it or whatever. That's why I was over there.
I was nervous because I was like, I'm gonna tell
you why I was nervous.
Speaker 2 (45:39):
Why we're the most homegrown family.
Speaker 1 (45:46):
I was nervous because it was Lee. I'm gonna tell
you this wasn't even now I know, I'm gonna tell
you this. I don't. Went and did movies and ship
done did great jobs and movie. I was nervous on
the Miss Pat Show. It's because I've I've always taken
Lee's criticism to a different level. I don't. I'm just
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something I done told him I'm gonna share it with you,
and like, I worked with him and I never got up.
I never got on Star like never actually was a
character on Star. I worked all around through Star, like
being an interviewing and doing the stuff whatever. And I
went and I audition was and he called my phone
and tore me up, bitch, I just feel like you
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could do.
Speaker 2 (46:31):
And I was like, it is love.
Speaker 3 (46:33):
It was.
Speaker 2 (46:34):
It was love. It was because Jordan did that to
me too. He was like, I remember season three.
Speaker 3 (46:39):
He was like, oh my god, you have improved. Every
year he would say, you have improved so much. You
improved so much. But leep down inside, I'm a comedian.
Speaker 2 (46:45):
That's what I love.
Speaker 3 (46:47):
That's the thing I can control. And I can take
a criticism from him or Lee or anybody. It only
makes me better. So for Lee to say that to you,
it's because he cared. Because he could have said, oh
that bitch and kept moving. But for him to all
he called me, he watched it. He said, bitch, do this,
and so it made me do this. And so by
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the time I got to come do the Miss Pet Show,
and I knew that he was.
Speaker 1 (47:13):
He had never been at that time, but but Miss
Patt I knew his name was on it, and I
was I was like this, bitch, I said, he's gonna
wear me out.
Speaker 3 (47:21):
Like, no, he's not, because we're not gonna let you
fail at the Miss Patch show. And you know that
there was times I said, coming to you, do redo
it like this, and then then I had to act
in culture whatever I mean, if it wasn't right, We're
never gonna the Mispass show. Were never gonna let you fail. Yeah, way,
wake up to have active.
Speaker 1 (47:43):
I learned this thirty seconds. But it was because and
when he watched this show, He's gonna call me and say, bitch,
why did you while you told? Because he tore me
up and he never gave me a chance to be
on Star and that hurt me. I told her, and
he told me I told because I interviewed him in
one of my car chests and he said, well, bitch,
why you didn't call me and tell me that? I said,
because I thought you knew, like you gave everybody else
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a job over there, but you ain't give me no
motherfucking job you got. You had me doing all of
the core work, which was doing the promos and doing
all this stuff and sitting with the big stars. Whatever
I said I wanted to be, I said, nigga, you
ain't even let me come on that bitch to smoke
a motherfucker cigarette.
Speaker 2 (48:20):
Let me say this to you.
Speaker 3 (48:21):
So I did get an opportunity to do start so Lee.
I don't remember what I was doing at the time.
He was shooting Billy Holliday and so he said, miss Pat,
I'm gonna fly you to Canada and I'm gonna put
you in Billie Holiday.
Speaker 2 (48:35):
He wrote a whole scene for me. I was so
happy because that was a big movie.
Speaker 3 (48:40):
And he cut me out and I never told anybody
that he cut me out. And he called and told
me he was gonna cut me out, and I didn't
give a fuck.
Speaker 1 (48:51):
My check clear.
Speaker 3 (48:54):
I never That's the first time I ever told anybody
I was in Billie Holiday.
Speaker 1 (48:59):
I'm in the cut scenes, but I was in there.
Speaker 2 (49:02):
He cut me the fuck out.
Speaker 1 (49:03):
So he did you like he did me?
Speaker 2 (49:05):
Well, let me say this to you. I didn't.
Speaker 3 (49:08):
I don't think what he created and the move was
so long, I don't think it fitted.
Speaker 2 (49:13):
I don't fucking know, you know.
Speaker 3 (49:16):
And that's why I don't ever tell people I'm in
something until it comes all the way out.
Speaker 2 (49:20):
I keep my mouth shut. And I'm so glad that
this is the first time I ever told anybody I
was in that movie.
Speaker 3 (49:26):
Nobody knew that I was in that movie but me,
Jordan and Lee and my husband. I don't think my
kids knew. I flew out the Canada to do that.
Speaker 2 (49:34):
Wow. I never told anybody. And he cut He didn't
cut a little bit, he cut me completely.
Speaker 1 (49:43):
But listen, you had the Miss Pet show. I did,
and I didn't, you know what.
Speaker 2 (49:48):
It didn't bother me. You know, he called and he
told me. I didn't feel that's fine, that shit happens,
you know, And if the check didn't clear, every about
being cuss the fuck out.
Speaker 3 (49:56):
Yeah, but the check cleared, and it was an opportunity.
It was an opportunity that I'll never forget. And shit happens.
Speaker 1 (50:04):
He gonna watch the show, he gonna cuss o ass
the funk out. He's gonna definitely cuss me out. All right, y'all? Well,
Miss Pat listen, I love you. Thank you for giving
us that exclusive. Thank you for for evolving, thank you
for telling bitches out there to evolve. Thank you, thank
you for being Mispat Lady. Tell tell us what, tell
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tell us where they can find you at Miss Pat
they should know.
Speaker 3 (50:28):
But go to Misspaccomedy dot com and you can get
all my tour schedule. I'm working on us, working on
developing my second special, so and I have a new
book coming out soon. So and you know season three
of the Miss Pat Settles It will be here in
season five for the Miss Pat Show. So just keep
tuning into everything misspac Coomedy dot com.
Speaker 1 (50:47):
That's it, ladies, jenle Tonight on b e T Miss
Pat Settles It Season three is premier, So make sure
that you are tuned in to Miss Pat settles it
to no on b E T Baby and can I.
Speaker 2 (51:02):
Just say this is the funniest season yet.
Speaker 3 (51:04):
When I tell you y'all ain't ready for season three
of the Miss Past Saturday, you put on your pampoint
your depions.
Speaker 2 (51:09):
You're gonna piece yourself. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (51:11):
We had a good season. I'll coming back for season four.
Speaker 2 (51:16):
You damn right to.
Speaker 1 (51:19):
Bye, y'all, bye, Oh my god. Outlaws is a production
of The Outspoken Network from iHeart Podcasts and Turtle Run Entertainment.
Co created by Tyler Rabinowitz and Olivia Piece. I'm your host,
Tis Madison. We are executive produced by Tyler Rabnowitz, Maya
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Howard and Tis Madison. Our simpervising producer is Jessica Krinchch
and our producers are Joey Pat and Common. Our video
editor is Tyler ra Benowitz and our sound editor is
Just Crime. Our associate producer is Trent high Tower. Special
thanks to our producers assistant Daniel.
Speaker 3 (52:00):
Been A Whit.
Speaker 1 (52:00):
Our theme song is composed by Wazi merrit. Our show
art is by Pablo Martinina. Catch you next week, Honey,
Every time I open up my mouth up and goes out. No, wait,
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Ricking honey, rick hoon.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Chasing it all.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
I'm black like that sbout living its color easy. This
is Outlaws with tears Medicine, Honey? Is it all?
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Is it all?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Is this bit recording?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
What's up?
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Everybody? This is your tears Medicine coming to you loudlive
and always and forever in color. From the Outlaws podcast. Now,
baby listen, I tell y'all, I bring y'all the most interesting,
outspoken outlaw individuals on planet Earth. And today I have
my good girlfriend that I love. That cuss cuts almost
equally as worse. It's me. She's an aries and anytime
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y'all hear me talking about aries bit, you know what
that means? She will fight. Okay, fight, shoot and get
to the money. Bitch. Put y'all hands together for my dog,
miss pat.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Hey, sweetheart.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
I starting to look at her and gave her all
this ship and she come here with this, hey sweetheart.
She want to come in all soft and ship like that.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
I mean, I guess that's how people introduce me all.
She'll stab a bit I'm used to. I'm not fighting
no more. Tis I'm fifty three, I'm old. I'm gonna
get my ass.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Well, I'm gonna talk some ship.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
It takes a lot for me to fight. Plus I
got a few little coins. People don't.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
People don't fight people with coins. They soon soon. So
I leave people to funk along.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Yeah, if they come in that space, not too miss passed.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I just say, talk to your ship, and I'm gonna
keep on walking.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
It's it's speaking of got a little corner, miss pat.
I just received a stack of chick, stack of chicks
like this from you, from the mispass settles. It show.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Oh thank you.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I'm so happy. Listen, I see the step chick. I
ain't even cast them, bitch yet, what damn you.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Not like me? I take my recision straight to the bank.
It could be twenty seven cents.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
I put our wanner depositive, bitch, I worked told I
waited on this twenty seven cents I take. Oh my,
I just took one the other day for a dollar
and see the cents. And she looked at me, and
I looked at her like it's a chance. It's gonna clear.
It's through saying so put it in the back. I
run it, yes, Miss Pat.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
I just want to say I was so happy that
Jordan introduced us with each other. Jordan introduced me to
you years ago. We were at a out one hundred
um a party and they were honoring uh, who the
fuck was they honoring. They were honoring somebody and I
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got a little honor somewhere in there. And we were
at the party and before we went in, Jordan was
Jordan loved on me, hugged on me, kiss on me.
He said, bitch, I got this show that's coming. It's
called the Miss Pat Show, he said. And I've been
working with Miss Pat for they said. He said, do
you know Miss Pat? I say, I share a comedian
and she cussed like me and he said, yeah, y'all
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cussing ship and like.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
And you know what.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
This was years ago, Miss Pat. And I remember him
calling you on the phone. We was outside of the
event and he called you on the phone. And I
got on there and I said, Grid wants to tea
Grid and me and you you key, you say, and
you said, bitch, you'll be doing all that cussing and
shit on there, and said whatever, And we just clicked
right there on the phone and I said, I love Hug.
(03:46):
I want you to know I knew that we were
going to work together from that day. I knew it.
I knew we was gonna work together. I knew we
were gonna do stuff together. I just knew. And this
was before your show came out and got real big.
Is because your show is huge.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Yes it is.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
I mean we I mean we're on bet Plus. But
at least people notice us. Sometimes you can go on
a smaller network and get lost. And thank god, the
Miss Past show never got lost. And back to Jordan,
when we was putting this show together, and you know,
one thing I can say about Jordan, he's gonna look
out for his community. And you know, my daughter is
gay also, so he just had a list of people.
(04:25):
He said, we have to give them a job. And
I remember your name coming up several times. What we're
gonna put at what we gonna do with her? And
he was like, I'm gonna create something for right here,
and we created that.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
You back, I said, I told you. He looked at
me and say, you can't.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Well, it was because I was nervous, he was, and.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
That's why we calm you down and we gave you
the acting coach that was working with me, and he
was great. He was like, well, we got to bring
it back. And as soon as we we came up
with the idea of the court show.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
And we partner with four ninety five, the first thing
he said, we gotta go get to your medicine.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah, and that's what Miss settles it. Boy, listen, Miss P,
I won't tell you I'm so proud of you. Thank
you because you've been one hundred percent authentically yourself from
from the door, like you know how bitch come in
there and they get a little break and ship and
then it changed.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
I hate people talk.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
I can't stand at bullshit.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
I said.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
I always say, be's talking to me like you talk
to your credit You don't talk to your standing.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
How you talk to your creditor? You tell I ain't
got it? Oh you hang up on them.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
I want to need your real voice. And if you talk,
if you talk fake, I cannot be around with you.
I cannot fuck with y'ah.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
And Miss Pat, you the reason why I feel that
your show is so successful, the Miss Pat show so
successful because it is it mimics your life. It is
it is your life. It is. It's your life story,
and you are able to cuss.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
I'm able to be myself.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
And what people don't understand is what you see in
that Mispass show is about ninety five percent of me outside.
You know, I talked shit. I say, I'm fifty three
and I've learned a long time ago. I'm not gonna
hold in anything to make you comfortable. I don't care
what type of setting you got me in, what type
of means of me. I'm always gonna come me. I'm
gonna walk in there as myself and I'm gonna walk
(06:22):
out of them. I'm gonna walk out of there as
myself because one thing I learned about Hollywood, they would
if you fuck around, they will frame you into something
that you're not.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
And I'm not frameable. You can see I got a
lot of curves. Yeah, So I mean, and I just
always talk.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Even when me and Jordan first got together, one of
the things we promised each other we said, we will
always stick with each other and we will never let
them tell us apart.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
And let me tell you something.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
And this reason they have tried, they have tried to
tear our relationship apart.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
They was like, hey, you over here.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
He over here.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
We was like, no, We're gonna always be together, whether
we're working on a mispass show or we're not even
working on the same project. I'm We're always there for
each other. And that's hard to find in Hollywood. Somebody
who truly care about you, because people just care about.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
You for the opportunity.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
That's one person I can truly say that would love
me if I didn't have a dime in my pockecast.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
That's who's in this business.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
I'm telling you he does. Because when we when we
were outside the our one hundred party, he was like, tears,
I gotta get you in front of me, so I
gotta let y'all talk. He says, y'all got some with
the same kind of spirit. I said, what's her sign? Remember?
He said, think ship areas. I said, bitch my mama
as I said, I know she will fight up. I
know this, and you know you met my mom, you know, yeah,
(07:38):
and she loved you. And I said, Mama, the reason
why you love miss pett is because both of y'all, yeah,
and y'all got the sane and you know, I terrorize
it's my mama, Miss Petner. We were together at the
candy show. The show, and I said what I said
to my mama, my son, that will chill. And she
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was over there her push chair and I say, it's
something something you was like, ts you be saying this stuff?
Your mom? I said, Wama be saying to you, be
saying that ship she loved as ship she love it.
And it's just like you know, Libra and aries are
like polar polar mirror reflections of each other, Libra sign
and aries. And that's why we that's why we fussing fight.
(08:21):
But it's we got so many characteristics of each other
because we like mirror reflections of each Yeah. So do
you got any liber kids?
Speaker 2 (08:29):
I don't think so. I don't know where my kids are.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
You know what, when when I stopped filing income text
for them, I forget their birthday, I forget their first name.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
I'd be like I be calling them on the roll
up there. I'm not june Bug.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
I'm like, well ship, everybody's june Bug. So they get
on me all the time.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
You don't even know all names.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
Now, don't give a fuck because I don't get I
don't get a tax return, so.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
I mixed up the girls name I mix up everybody name,
so I don't know. I mean sometime I forget their birthdays.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Well, shit, you got a lot going on. I do it,
and then I'm you know, I'm going through mental pause.
I'm fifty three, I'm all. I don't have time. I'm
traveling all the time. I'm just I'm in my own world.
The kids are grown, I have grandkids. You know, they
only want me for shit I can buy. You know,
I'm a sexual active grandmama, so I ain't keeping nobody grandma.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
I'm not baby saying I'm not you know.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
I talked to my girlfriend all the time, and she's
such a sweet grandmama, and I was like, like the
ship her granddaughter. Do, I tell my granda, get the
fuck out my face, gone somewhere, take your ass on,
No baby with your mam and dad.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Now, I love you, but not like that.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
But my but my friends, they treat their grandkids like
queens and kings. I cussed minds the funk out because
that's just you.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
I do it, and I love them.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
But my grandson told me, said he told his Mommy said,
I know what my grandmama is so mean? She said, well,
he said, because I Google Home the Internet and her
mama beat her.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
I said, boss, to get your ass off YouTube.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
Now that's a great segue for me, because I really
want to know what is your origin story, Mispat. I mean,
for those are people that are watching the Outlaw show,
we've watched the Mispatch Show. How much of the Mispat
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Show is totally mispacked?
Speaker 2 (10:31):
The first three, probably the first three fourth season was
ninety five per Jordan was just pulling from my life.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
It might have been a few things here and there
that you know, happened to somebody else we know, but
most of that stuff happened to me and he just
wrote it. So about ninety percent of the Mispatch Show
is real, and I think that's why people love it.
You know, two of the episodes that that that I
always think back to. One was the black Hair episode
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and the other one was when I found out my
daughter was gay. The reaction that I had as a
black parent, because you know, growing up in the black household,
you're taught if you gay, it's something wrong with you.
And then when you know, I'm gonna be honest with you,
I'm not gonna use the word hate, but I could
not stand lesbian women. I've been to prison and I
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never had a lesbian relationship. I just did not like
lesbian women. Why I don't cause I'm Black and I
was taught not to like them. Oh, gay men were okay.
Gay men was okay.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
Well, you know, I could deal with it.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
I can deal with a man easily, then I can
do with a woman anyway. But gay man, a gay
man was okay. I didn't really have a problem with
a gay man. You know, back in those that you
used the word sissy, But when it came down to women,
I didn't. My daughter had a gay chileicking coach, a
white lady, and I couldnot stand this lady.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
She had never done anything to me. It was a
bullshit that I was taught as a black kid well
to hate.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
I don't even know if I hated it.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
I just did not like her.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
And every day we were arguing, I was like, white bitch,
I will kill you, I'm telling you. And it was
my daughter chile eating coach, and I couldn't. Now mean,
the lady is very cool, not knowing that my.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
Damn daughter was gay.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
And so you know, I think I think a lot
of times as people in this world it don't affect
you until it comes to your dog. And when it
came to my dull step and I realized how gay
people was treated because by this time I have a
gay daughter and I love my gay daughter. I mean
a censel went off and I was like, I'm not
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taking this shit. I must ask for forgiveness and nobody
will ever talk to my daughter the way I talked
to that coach or treated that coach. I just did
not like her, and it was all because of her sexuality,
because that's what I was taught. But when my daughter
came out and said she was gay, I knew immediately
I had to protect her because it was some bitch
out that was gonna act like that with my daughter
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the way I act.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
And he was like, I ain't gonna let that bitch.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Ain't nobody gonna do my daughter like that?
Speaker 3 (12:59):
You know, I lost friends and everything after my daughter
came out and said she was gay. Why because they
was like I had one friend saying, I know you
embarrassed that your daughter's gay. I said, bit, you should
be embarrassed at your daughter taking all that dick that
ain't staying around.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
Fuck are you talking about it?
Speaker 3 (13:11):
He embarrassed by my motherfucking daughter, and I just immediately
went on a ramp where you know you gotta fight Christian,
then you gotta fight the people who don't understand it.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
I had a Christian friend of mine tell me, she said, oh,
we're gonna pray to gay out of Ashley.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
I said, bitch, ain't gonna pray no gay out of Ashley.
I fucking around pray for Ashlety and I can't get
to Heim because I don't pray for Ashley. I don't
mind my motherfucking bed. That ain't me eating a pussy.
That's her eating the pussy, and you let her and
God deal with that shit. The way they gonna deal
with all I'm gonna be is Mama. I'm not gonna
go out here and tell nobody. I want nobody to
pray the chick for lay out of me, right, So
what the fuck I'm gonna pray to.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Pussy out of my daughter?
Speaker 3 (13:43):
Fuck they my daughter eat pussy. If she choose to
eat pussy in her teeth, God gave him to it.
I don't give a fuck all I tell my daughter
eat pussy that don't leak.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
They ain't gonna be all right, I'm sorry, can I hurt?
Speaker 1 (13:57):
Oh, you can do anything you want, You're okay.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
But those are the things that I went through as
a as a gay parent, and then it just opened
my eyes and I didn't realize how big the gay
community was, and I didn't realize how many people turn
their backs on their kids for their sexuality. That's one
thing I can always say, I've never done that. I've
met a lot of kids through my daughter who was
thrown out, who was fucking shun and all of that stuff.
(14:22):
I've never done that. I started fighting from day one
when my daughter came out and said she was preak.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
I me even pregnant. I wish, but my daughter takes
got too many holes to be anyway too.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
And you know what, I'm happy to see her happy,
you know, And I tell people our time, I'm a
gay parent. That's my gay baby. Now I can talk
about it, but you can't fucking talk about And those
are some of the things that I had to fight
through when my daughter came out, you know, just people
that I thought with my friends and just people who
like it was super religious.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
I don't give fuck about your religion.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
According to according to the world, we all are serving
the same guard and he's supposedly love us all. So
I don't think he would have created you gay if
he and say he didn't love you. He love us
all because I mean and I you know, one of
the biggest things I fight when I'm talking about my
gay daughters, people like, you're not born gay?
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Yes the fuck you are you? My daughter came out
my pussy lick at her fingers. I know she was
born gay.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
She was born gay, and I think it because her
daddy will undercover gay.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
You never care, I tell people all the time, Miss
pat I said, gay trans kids.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
There wasn't no trains when I was coming up. I'm
fifty three, so it was a.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Transvesting, cross dressers, cross dress all right, I'm glad.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
Well they didn't look as good as you.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
Well, well, well they couldn't get rid of their chin hair.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
These mother hooking today look better than some of them.
Looking at it. I've been looking at trads be like,
what the fuck.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
Did you do that? I forgot to do with the pus.
This is the famous path. I tell people this when
we're having these conversations. We're black, yes, we're black, and
we ain't just black. We some niggas, yes we are,
and so we niggas from nigga places. And so I
got in trouble recently online because I had said, uh
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what I said about Okay, now, y'all, don't get mad
at me in the booth and y'all, because you know,
I'm just reliving a story. And I'm also sitting with
a black woman. I was raised by a black woman,
so you raise your daughter. So we were I'm still
queer trends whatever. So the teachers that y'all, y'all put
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the teachers in us, and we had to go around
and not like ourselves a little bit because our parents
already they didn't like gay people. They adn't like gay
people the ship. So we didn't like that. We didn't
like I said, we didn't it was shipped that we
didn't like. We had to really learn to love ourselves,
and then you did and then live out loud and
then tell our parents like fuck that this is who
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I am. You gotta you gotta take it. But again,
this is a woman that's sitting across from me right now.
Ladies and gentlemen, who did you who? I can validly say,
when we were growing up miss pell you fifty three.
I'm forty eight this year. Well, when I'm growing up,
it was you was a pop, a punk assisting.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
I think it's with you, pomp Paul.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
It was a pop assistant, a dyke yes, buy dagger, yes,
and this is what it was. So you didn't know
any other terms? No, we did, so all these new
all these.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
New terms very confusing for fifty three year.
Speaker 3 (17:48):
I actually tell a bit about it. I said, gay people,
can we just get back to being gay? I don't
give a fuck what you identify ask just tell me
your name so I can respect you. I don't care
if you're lesbian with a dial do ask Scott.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
If you were to call you big dick, will it bitch?
Big deck? Will it is? Just tell me your name.
I don't need to know your pronouns and ABC's and dfcs.
Just tell me your names.
Speaker 3 (18:09):
And I think that's where the straight world kind of
you know, get like oh, every time you turn around,
it's something new. I don't care what your what your
pronouns are, Just tell me your name, you know, whatever
you If you want me to call you ts Medisin,
it's TS mails on Wednesday.
Speaker 2 (18:24):
If you call me, said bitch. I'm willy today. It's Willy.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
Just tell me your name. I don't care what you
do in the bedroom. And I think that's what that's
what's wrong with society. We're so caught up worrying about
what people do in the backroom.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
You know, is it godling?
Speaker 1 (18:37):
Like we're not God? So who am I to judge you?
Who am I? I don't give a fuck what you do.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
I don't like her. Fuck.
Speaker 3 (18:43):
What you do is you be nice to me and
treat people the way you want to be true. I
don't worry about people's sexuality. If you go in the
grocery store and swallow Q commers, that's so when you
just don't swallow the one I'm gonna buy it, don't
lick shit and put it back, you know, keep it
with well.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
I kept mine with me. I kept my motherfucker Q comba.
God damn it, I've seen you. You are massive about
these stords. But miss Patt, this is the thing that
I said, you gotta know. And I got in trouble
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because I said, girl, because I motherfucker said that there's
some white people ship we didn't know about this stuff
and out and I didn't mean that it was white
people ship, Like, what are you talking about? Okay, we
were talking about No, we were having a non binary conversation. Okay,
non binary people. That's listening to the sound of my
voice right now. I understand none binary. I understand trends
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and non binary. I understand it now. It took me
a minute to get to the space even and I'm
a transgender, but took me a minute to get your
But I understand it. But I made a statement in
my in you know, in my understanding, Yo, there's some
white people ship. We ain't know nothing about that.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
We just not Oh none binary.
Speaker 3 (20:05):
Yes, well, I had a kid that can tell me
at the house that she was non binaror and I
don't know what it is.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
I understand now, well I don't understand it. I mean,
and I just told her. I said, I'm cool with.
Speaker 3 (20:15):
Whatever you are, but we got a dollar suppointment tomorrow
and the rest of these niggas can't come with you.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
So you leave him them dead in her and you
just bring me you. So there's too much you say,
and you know, come go with me. That's all I'm saying.
So you know, for me, I don't try to understand
and you know, I try.
Speaker 3 (20:38):
I respect, but I can't get into all of that,
you know, trance and none by there.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
It's just too much.
Speaker 3 (20:44):
So again I just I go back to say, what
is your name? And I'm gonna respect you for who
you are? If you whatever you want me to call you,
that is what I would call you. But going deep
diving into to that sexuality, I don't know. I've been
fucking since element entry school and I just know one
way a man I don't. I don't let him put
my legs in the air. I don't turn over. I
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just do it like your old mom and daddy did it,
straight up and straight down. And I get up and
go do the dishes.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
I don't do. I don't order no deal dooz off,
no Amazon, I don't. I don't suck on, no tweets.
I don't do any of that. I have sex like
it's nineteen sixty two because that's convenient for me. But
I got a daughter that's I always talking about dicking
bitches down, and I respect her. If they gonna let
her put on that motherfucking plastic from Amazon and get
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her yeast infection.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
And more power tell you and I just go I'm not.
I'm what I'm saying here, y'all is I mind my
fucking being?
Speaker 2 (21:40):
What do? What makes you happy? And that's what's wrong
with the world. We're too busy trying to please everybody.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
You If God came, if God said his only begotten
sign here and y'all put him on the cross if
he couldn't please you, Who the fuck am I right?
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Because you ain't put me on no cross. I did
know something.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
No cocoboad on me. Yeah, and tell my dad for
you now.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
I'm not dying for none of you.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Motherfucker fuck you whole ass niggas.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
Yes, and so you know, I just that's how I
look at life.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
Yes, but but I be understanding when you know, sometimes
when people from from a generation say, oh I don't
understand or whatever, and then I like you because you're
progressive enough to be like, Okay, I may not get
it all.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
Yes, how do I respect you? Tell me your name,
that's all. I don't whatever you want me to do.
You can be a butterfly if you want me to say,
you a butterfly, that's what the fuck you are.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
I might not physically see a butterfly, but in your
head you might be a motherfucker butterfly. Now I ain't
gonna let you fly for Cliff because I got reality. Nigga,
you can't fly.
Speaker 3 (22:40):
Okay, But if you want to walk around this motherfucker
and flap your hands like you a butterfly, then do
you do you? Because I don't want nobody fucking with
me when I say I'm something that you might think
I'm not.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
You know, people team me all the time. I lost
ten pound beach stop playing.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
But but miss Pat, I respect that because you're You're
not one of those people that over there like, well,
I don't know what it is, and I just if
it's I'm gonna call them Clay, I'm gonna call them Clay.
You're like, okay, I don't know what it is, but
what you want me to respect you as that's it.
Speaker 3 (23:14):
That's it.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
That's it. And I fuck up even in my own community.
But I still turn around and i'd be like, yo,
I learned, like right now, you just heard me say
I learned about I understand trends. I understand nothing, but
I understand it now. It took a person to sit
me down because I was like, okay, well, I'm trands
and you telling me you none binary, and you know what.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
Is none bynary? It's everything, right, Well, none.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
Binary is not adhering to any of the binary Like
they're not adhering to female, they're not adhering to male.
They're just they're none binary. But I didn't understand. I
understood that, but I didn't understand how they were. How
some of them were telling me that there there, they're trends.
I was like, well, now hold on now, because that's
these were these were my thoughts. See how I got this.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
Non binary is trans to everything, so they said.
Speaker 1 (24:04):
Him and anything that challenges the norm, the binary norms,
its fault can fall under the trends umbrella. However, non
binary people just if they want to get up and
they want to be they want to present how they
can do that and still fall under because what be.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
A man one day, a girl one day or whatever,
they want to be, fish anything.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
So the non binary they don't adhere to it like
binary is male female. Non binary is like, I'm not
adhering to any of that.
Speaker 3 (24:38):
Remind me of the movie Catch Me if it Catch
Me if you can you remember with Leonoida Capri.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
Yeah, yes, he was everything. He was a pilot, he
was a doctor, he was a he.
Speaker 1 (24:48):
Was okay, non binary, Yeah, trends, some trends like me.
You know, my goal was to get to looking woman.
So that's what that was. And but I'm from a
different time too, yes, so I transition and and during
my transition time, we were solely focused on you know
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what I'm saying. We were passing because not only it
was for safety reasons too, like we had to pass, like, bitch,
you couldn't get up there putting no motherfucker wig on,
and and bitch you your your name was where You're
gonna always be motherfucker Willie. Now you get up there
and you put on that wig and you pull, you
pull yourself together, and you get soft enough. You may
be will Amina. Okay, you might be will Amina. Okay,
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Oh that's will Amina. I ain't will it no more.
That's will eminah ship you know, so I understand that.
I understand it now. I did not at first like
to see that. How how y'all trends and and and
none by at the same time, it can be both. Well,
it's anything that that challenges the binary. It can fall
under under the trends umbrella. I got it. I can't
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explain it complete, miss past, but I can. Y'all can
get off my ass because I will fight you holes
in public.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Okay, will y'all make sure y'all fight her. I'm just
I'm learning.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
I've learning too. I've learned, and I understand. So don't
come over here jumping out, you know, because they you
know it's it's sensitive, and I understand it being sensitive
because people feel like they've been shut out in other I.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
Understand, yes, and I understand the community.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
I get it, so so I don't want to. I
don't want to say some fucked up ship and be
a part of the community saying fucked up ship. But
what I respect about you, miss pat is that you
saying I don't got it all.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
But I'm willing to meet you where you at and
respect you for what you are.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
And that's all I can That's all you can do,
and that's all I want anybody to do for me.
I mean, who am I to judge? You know?
Speaker 3 (26:44):
You and I tell people all the time, you know,
since I since I started the Mispass show and I
did those episodes about being a black gay parents, my
audience with the with the community has grown tremendously and
a lot of people come up to me and always
thank me for that episode because I'm glad as a
black parent that I could be open minded. And I've
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said some fucked up shit to my daughter, and I've
made some mistakes, but one thing she can always say
that I was always supportive of her sexuality.
Speaker 2 (27:14):
I never shut her out. I never looked a way.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
You know.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
When I just asked her on the phone, I said, look,
are you gay? She said yes, Ma. I said, well,
come on back to home to Atlanta. We live in Atlanta.
You can eat a lot of pussy here, and I
would feel safer if you was here with me.
Speaker 3 (27:28):
Then wherever the fuck you are at and I ain't
seen you in three years? Yeah, So you know I
would say this to parents, and I say this every
night on stage. You know, when your child, don't get
caught up in the Bible and lose the person that
you love, because that's what will happen if you truly think,
if you truly think about it, if we all serving
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the same God, you gotta ask, did God love you
through your sins?
Speaker 2 (27:53):
And who the fuck know? If this even a singing?
We don't really know the rules of the world or.
Speaker 3 (27:57):
The rules of the Bible, and shit were wrote by
a couple of white men dog who say they.
Speaker 2 (28:01):
Didn't get it wrong.
Speaker 3 (28:02):
We won't really know until we see if God is
real and we one day in front of him. But
until that day come, I say this to all parents,
if your child is gay, their respect who they are
and support who they are, because a lot of time
you don't know what the fuck you're killing. You could
be killing the fashion designer, a movie director, you could
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be killed the president. You don't know what you are
killing when you got that child because of the sexuality
that you don't like, That child gonna have to come
back one day and mayby have.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
To take care of you.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
But you sitting here because you say God don't love
gay people. All the motherfucker had on white wigs back
in the day. Some of them people in them wooden
teeth and white wigs. Might be in heaven when you
get that heaven is real. So I say this to
any parents that's listening and who think that their child
is gay. Nine time out of ten, your child is gay,
and from one gay parents or another, I will ask
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you to support who that child is and instead putting
gasoline on that fly with water that flowers so he
can grow. Yep, And that's what I would say as
a parent, because as a Black community, when it comes
down to sexuality and being.
Speaker 2 (29:11):
Gay, we have been.
Speaker 3 (29:12):
We're probably some of the worst communities when it comes
down to that. You know, we taught to black man,
he can't cry when you should be able to cry.
We talk to black man, he can't be gay, the
black woman, you can't be happy. All of that bullshit.
As a community, when do it stop? When do we say,
as a parent, it's time to support who you are,
not what I want you to be. I was talking
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to somebody and I said one of the things that
I've learned.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
Since I've had a few dollars that was legal in
my life.
Speaker 3 (29:41):
We fuck up as Black parents because as soon as
that child turned eighteen, we tell them to get the
fuck out of our house. Well, the only race that
does that. Italians don't do it. White people don't do it,
or Mexicans don't do it. We just throw all kids
out to the wools. I remember one time my husband
was building the house and this girl was twenty eight
years old.
Speaker 2 (29:58):
It was in Bucket.
Speaker 3 (29:59):
It was back in the nineties and she was building
a five hundred thousand dollars house back then. You can
imagine what it's worth now. And she had stayed with
her parents the whole time and saved her money. And
I remember my husband coming home and telling me that
story in Medisine and that always stuck with me because
when my daughter actually went to college, I said, oh,
it's time for y'all to get out. And I realized,
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I said, but get out with what. I don't have
anything for her. I don't have anything save for her,
no future.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
I'm just throwing my child out. And I had to
go back and deal with myself.
Speaker 3 (30:32):
And so when I was building that house, you see
I have built now, and I tell my kids, you
ain't gotta go, no fucking well, save your money so
when you leave up out of here, you can pay
for your house cash.
Speaker 2 (30:42):
Like the story of my husband told me about this
little white girl in Buckhead.
Speaker 3 (30:46):
But as black parents, that's what we do. You eighteen,
it's driving you to go, No, it's not. It's time
for you to continue to help them grow. Now, everybody
got that one piece of shit in their life. Everybody
got that one kid.
Speaker 2 (30:58):
I was on the phone with Mines last night that
you got constantly knock up side the head. But you
gotta love that one too, you do. And that's what
I've learned from being a black parent.
Speaker 1 (31:08):
You know what.
Speaker 3 (31:09):
Stop that shit kicking them out, stop that shit orrying
about their sexuality.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
We gotta learn to support them more.
Speaker 1 (31:15):
Yeah. So, so, miss Patt, I want to go back
just a bit to your personal life. You've been shot,
You've been raped. Yes you done, hustle, yes you done?
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You done? Did it?
Speaker 2 (31:38):
Drug?
Speaker 1 (31:38):
So drug?
Speaker 2 (31:39):
Dropped out of school, had two kids at fifteen. By
the time I was fifteen with a mayor man.
Speaker 3 (31:45):
I made a lot of mistakes I have, but you know,
I look back over my life and I've told this
story a million times.
Speaker 2 (31:53):
To have the kids that I have with the eighth
grade education, I ain't do that. Damn bad too. Kids
who went to college.
Speaker 3 (32:00):
Everybody graduated high school, and I've never been a person
that pushes my kids to college.
Speaker 2 (32:05):
I always told my kids, do what make you happy,
because a lot of people go to college and never
use that fucking degree when.
Speaker 3 (32:13):
That was always a star in you that you never
lit because your parents say, oh you got to go
to college. Now, I'm big on education, but I'm also
big that you can make just as much money by
making your own soap or doing hair or whatever the.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
Fuck you want to do.
Speaker 3 (32:28):
But I think back in those days, we didn't support
kids to follow their dreams, what would deep down in
them because society said, oh, you got to go to college,
you got to get in debt. The American dream is
buying a house. That was one of the biggest lie
I was ever told. And I was working at a
doctor's office one day and this guy came in and
I was trying to buy a house at the time.
Speaker 2 (32:49):
I'm getting off Siction eight, and I was like, I just.
Speaker 3 (32:51):
Want the America dream, you know, the white picky fit
and then you know, I just want to buy a house.
Speaker 2 (32:54):
And he looked at me.
Speaker 3 (32:55):
He said, that's the fucked up shit they teach black
people in America, he said, but white people teach their
kids to own a Chick fil A, to own a
franchise and do this and do other shit, while we
just struggling to pay for our house for thirty years, which.
Speaker 2 (33:08):
Is nothing but debt.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
So I just learned to say I'm going to support
my kids whatever they try to do. Now, some of
the shit be dumb as fuck, tids man and be dumb,
and I'll be trying to talk them out of them.
But I also try to stay positive because it takes
some of us a little longer to find ourselves than others.
Speaker 1 (33:29):
It does, miss pat. But the great thing about it
is like me being trends and me having my mother
in my life.
Speaker 2 (33:38):
It is wonderful.
Speaker 1 (33:40):
I couldn't ask for anything more because being out in
the world, like facing the world alone and having to
run into because it's so many different personalities and shit
personality people.
Speaker 3 (33:54):
Can you imagine so many kids like yourself that used
the worlds without a supportive parents. You know, I didn't
know that so many gay kids go homeless and stuff
because of how their parents treat them.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
My daughter taught me all of this shit, And I'm like, what,
who would put their kids out for sexuality?
Speaker 3 (34:17):
I mean, I would be honest. I'm a don't don't
saw dick at my house? Look good, you wouldn't be
sucking on dick at my house. Now, well, you're gonna
have to go outside in the barn. Now, this is
when Jesus come into play. Don't about fucking my house
but me and I don't care who you're a ball girl,
but what if you don't do the ship in my house?
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But as far as just doing you know this, only
my child, I would never do that, not even my
lazy child.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
But what I like about you, miss Petteres, you bring
your kids to your to work with. You like to
teach them, and you give them jobs at work.
Speaker 3 (34:52):
You're damn right because it keep asking me for my money. Well,
you know, my my son, my son. I have two
sons that work on the set, and one of them's
really interested in construction and the other one was into lighting,
but he kind of float around. And so my daughter,
actually she does makeup. And my other daughter always been
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so funny. And when I got the show and I
was and I told Jordan, I was like, you might
think I'm bullshit, but I think this girl know how
to write. And that's the only child I have with
like three degrees. And I said, I'm telling you, she's
fucking hilarious. She's like me, but educated, like highly educated.
She's too black sometimes ts And he.
Speaker 2 (35:33):
Was like, oh, I don't know, she ain't never wrote.
Speaker 3 (35:35):
And I said, listen to me, fucking Hi'm my daughter,
and we hide her and Jordan trained her and she's
a really fucking good writer.
Speaker 2 (35:43):
She I remember writing the first season.
Speaker 3 (35:45):
We were writing the first season a Miss Pat Show,
and we wrote a joke and you know how sometime
as a commedy, you can hear a joke but you
don't know you heard that joke. And my daughter came
in she said, Tyler Perot did that on this episode
of that Da Da Da Dad, And I was like what.
Every time we wrote something, she could tell you and
she had heard it before and could pull it up.
And it really it really challenged me and Joy to
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really watch the things that we said to you know,
the jokes that we wrote, because Garyana was always there
to say that original even though as me as a
comedian who don't watch a lot of TV, thinking that
I don't wrote something and she said, they are did that.
And I think that's what people love about the Miss
Past show because you ain't never heard that ship. You
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ain't never heard the jokes that were gonna put out
cause we we and you've been there. So we don't
just say one joke. We might run five or ten
jokes that day and the best one hits, you know,
that's the.
Speaker 2 (36:42):
One we take.
Speaker 3 (36:44):
And so I have a writer or makeup, but one
in one enlightening and one in construction. And I told him,
I said, if this is where you want to be at,
then really work hard, you know, think about your own shit.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
Listen for me to come there and see all your
kids on set and your daughter did did my makeup
of all? I love your she loves you too. I
love her girl. That's my judy. You know what I'm saying.
And people should take a page out of y'all book
of being black parents that don't put the kids out
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of the eighteen Yes, make make provisions for them to
acquire wealth, acquire something. When I was forcing them to
be out there on the site.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
You know where I learned it from, tell me Lee Daniels.
So when I first when this is Lee Daniels, show
him and run Howard and.
Speaker 1 (37:41):
Run.
Speaker 2 (37:41):
I went to run Howard Company.
Speaker 3 (37:43):
I felt a producer by the name of John Ratler,
executive producer by the name of John Ratler brought me
in and said that Lee Daniel was trying to create
a sitcom and so, uh, that was Ron Howard Company.
And then I meet Lee Daniel and then I go
and I go on a couple of his sets. And
then when I think I went on a start and
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every his relatives was there. He said, I'm not gonna
give you anything, but I'm gonna give you a job.
And I just watched Lee Daniel that whole time of
those years that I was working way we was working
on the Miss Past show, and I just said, this
is what I'm gonna do. And as soon as I
got the opportunity, I said, you know, my kids got
to get a job.
Speaker 1 (38:25):
Because because listen, because Girley, his sister, Girley, she was
doing the wardrobe, but some Girley was doing. You know,
he got his liah.
Speaker 3 (38:37):
And I learned that from Lee. And that's how you
take care of your family. And he always take care
of his family. He always take.
Speaker 2 (38:44):
Care people around him. He really did. I mean.
Speaker 3 (38:49):
And that's one thing I would say about Lee Daniel.
He is and if I call him and he might
cuss me out and I might say a few things
to him, but one thing I know.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
Is if I really need him, he he's gonna be there.
And that's where I learned that from.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
And and all of his kids are they got a
wealthy daddy, Richard than the motherfucker they got a wealthy daddy.
Speaker 2 (39:14):
I think Lee. Last time I talked to Lee daddy,
he had bought some vampire blood.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
I don't know what he called me. The other day
he was like, bitch, you know we're developing my biopic.
Speaker 2 (39:24):
I think I saw that.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
Yeah, we're developing my stuff.
Speaker 2 (39:27):
You know.
Speaker 1 (39:27):
So we got a lot of works together.
Speaker 4 (39:30):
Because he because he told me like, bitch, you my
transsectional miss Pat you know how you talk, bitch, Bitch
you said you bitch is a brilliant you betch it's
a brilliant.
Speaker 3 (39:47):
He know how to make a black woman winning an award,
He really do. He know how to bring out the
best on them. He just came to see our show
for the first time out of five season.
Speaker 2 (39:56):
He had never been to the sea. And it was
so funny because I kept sucking up.
Speaker 3 (40:00):
He don't know, I hate the monologue and it's summody
usually get the day before and I have to fucking
say it off the top of my head. And he
screened out, stop sucking up because I'm here and said,
ain't fucking up because you got fuck up every.
Speaker 1 (40:12):
Week and he fell out laughing. He fell out, but he.
Speaker 3 (40:15):
Loved You know what what I love about Lee is
that you know, it was it was his show, and
he found Jordan for me and he literally said, go
off and make this show.
Speaker 2 (40:28):
And he never fucked with us.
Speaker 3 (40:31):
I honestly, that was the first time he had ever
visited that set because when he was shooting the pilot,
he was shooting. When I shot the pilot in l A,
he was shooting a movie. I can't remember the name
of the movie with Archie Day in it.
Speaker 2 (40:44):
What was that movie?
Speaker 3 (40:46):
He was shooting that movie, so he couldn't make it
to the pilot. And so you know, we took us
a year or so before it got picked up, and
we chose I live here in Atlanta, so we chose
to do it here in Atlanta. So he never really
came down, But I mean, he just literally had me
Enjordan a show and he was always there to support
and fight for the things that we needed. And it's
(41:09):
kind of weird handing two motherfucker show who had never did.
Speaker 1 (41:12):
Got that, But that's because he's a visionary. He put
y'all in the same well. He shot a star because
because when I came to work at the mispatch, I said, Oh,
I don't been down here to work because I went.
I used to do the interviews and stuff at Start,
and I would go down there to the set sometimes whatever,
and I would sitting in his office. It's just like,
it's so crazy how we how we be in each
(41:34):
other's lives, but somewhe in some dimension, this is how
we connected.
Speaker 2 (41:40):
Yeah, and he's a good person.
Speaker 3 (41:42):
I would say that, I mean, and I don't say
it enough to him because he's so busy, But honestly,
I thank him.
Speaker 2 (41:49):
I thank him for believing in me and Jordan.
Speaker 3 (41:51):
I think him for fighting for all the times he
had to get on that phone and fight for the
things he had to fight for.
Speaker 2 (41:58):
Giving us the opportunity.
Speaker 3 (42:00):
I just want to say, me and Jordan U, I
know for a fact that we're very appreciative of what
he'd done for us with the mispat show. And I
will never forget it, because there was so many bumps
in the road along the way that we had to
call lead and to remove those speed bumps for us.
And he was right there and he was ready to fight,
and he was ready to cuss in Holland String So Lee,
(42:21):
if you watching this podcast, I would like to say
thank you for supporting us, because I don't think we
will be here without you. Five season inn and three
Emmy nomination, so.
Speaker 2 (42:32):
We appreciate you.
Speaker 1 (42:33):
So you going to the Emmys this year too?
Speaker 2 (42:35):
No, no, we didn't get our episode anytime. Oh no,
we're not going. I don't have to go to the Emmys.
You know, Reward season is really for somebody like Jordan's
I'm the people champ. The people is what keeps me on.
Speaker 3 (42:51):
You know, them tuning in, them waiting on and them
being patient, them talking about it, them tweeting about it.
Speaker 2 (42:57):
You know, I've seen people wear Emmys and get answer
the same month. I mean, that's TV.
Speaker 3 (43:04):
But to be here after five season on such a
new network like BT Plus and have the support that
we've had to we got our audience out the dirt
because baby I got we got doctor fuck out for
me cussing and me saying the N word and all
of this crazy stuff, the things that we talked about
and black people like, that's not a representation of my family.
Speaker 2 (43:24):
I said, I ain't talking about you, nigga, I'm talking
about my family.
Speaker 3 (43:27):
Yeah, but now I think the audience have calmed down
and learned to a sel that there's a black mama
that cuss, there's a black aunt that cuss. I mean,
I'm in everybody family, whether you try to deny me
or not. I wasn't going anywhere, not as long as
the true people that were still watching, and they are.
We five season and I get asked every time, when
(43:50):
are you coming back? When are you coming back? In
the fact, we're coming back December eleven. That's right, y'all
leave me to fuck up.
Speaker 2 (43:55):
That's right. And if you keep watching, maybe we can
get a season six.
Speaker 3 (43:59):
And I'm just thankful that we could even go this
loan on a BT plus, you know, with all the
one show.
Speaker 2 (44:06):
I'm just so thankful.
Speaker 3 (44:08):
If this is the last season, all I can say
is me and Jordan did what we came to do.
We just wanted to make it a five season. Everything
else is gravy. Everything else is gravy. I mean my cast,
you know, I look at them, I've seen how much
we've grown. It's a family outside of my family. I mean,
(44:28):
to be able to work on a set where everybody
like each other, that is a miracle. I mean, Tammy
feel likes my real sister. And I say this all
the time, you know, and people I have to argue
with people in the street because they really think that
man is my husband.
Speaker 2 (44:41):
That is not my husband. But no matter what, I
needed that cast all. I'm the comedian.
Speaker 3 (44:47):
I was the least experienced actor on the thing, on
the show, but not one time did I ever feel
that they ever made me feel like I was beneath them.
And I don't think it's because it was a mispassed
show either. I think they cared about me. That's what
I believe.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
Well, your story came from a job well, and I.
Speaker 3 (45:05):
Don't even think it was that they was just they.
I genuinely think that they they they did. They do
appreciate the job, I hope, but I also think that
they they wanted me to win.
Speaker 2 (45:17):
I'm being honest with you.
Speaker 3 (45:18):
That was not a time that Daddy didn't step up
to help, the kids didn't step up to help, Tamman
didn't step up to help. They all had their individual
times where they would pull me to the side and
helped me with something.
Speaker 2 (45:28):
Because acting is not it wasn't my thing.
Speaker 1 (45:30):
It wasn't mine either. And then I got I got
introduced to it or whatever. That's why I was over there.
I was nervous because I was like, I'm gonna tell
you why I was nervous.
Speaker 2 (45:39):
Why we're the most homegrown family.
Speaker 1 (45:46):
I was nervous because it was Lee. I'm gonna tell
you this wasn't even now I know, I'm gonna tell
you this. I don't. Went and did movies and ship
done did great jobs and movie. I was nervous on
the Miss Pat Show. It's because I've I've always taken
Lee's criticism to a different level. I don't. I'm just
(46:06):
something I done told him I'm gonna share it with you,
and like, I worked with him and I never got up.
I never got on Star like never actually was a
character on Star. I worked all around through Star, like
being an interviewing and doing the stuff whatever. And I
went and I audition was and he called my phone
and tore me up, bitch, I just feel like you
(46:30):
could do.
Speaker 2 (46:31):
And I was like, it is love.
Speaker 3 (46:33):
It was.
Speaker 2 (46:34):
It was love. It was because Jordan did that to
me too. He was like, I remember season three.
Speaker 3 (46:39):
He was like, oh my god, you have improved. Every
year he would say, you have improved so much. You
improved so much. But leep down inside, I'm a comedian.
Speaker 2 (46:45):
That's what I love.
Speaker 3 (46:47):
That's the thing I can control. And I can take
a criticism from him or Lee or anybody. It only
makes me better. So for Lee to say that to you,
it's because he cared. Because he could have said, oh
that bitch and kept moving. But for him to all
he called me, he watched it. He said, bitch, do this,
and so it made me do this. And so by
(47:08):
the time I got to come do the Miss Pet Show,
and I knew that he was.
Speaker 1 (47:13):
He had never been at that time, but but Miss
Patt I knew his name was on it, and I
was I was like this, bitch, I said, he's gonna
wear me out.
Speaker 3 (47:21):
Like, no, he's not, because we're not gonna let you
fail at the Miss Patch show. And you know that
there was times I said, coming to you, do redo
it like this, and then then I had to act
in culture whatever I mean, if it wasn't right, We're
never gonna the Mispass show. Were never gonna let you fail. Yeah, way,
wake up to have active.
Speaker 1 (47:43):
I learned this thirty seconds. But it was because and
when he watched this show, He's gonna call me and say, bitch,
why did you while you told? Because he tore me
up and he never gave me a chance to be
on Star and that hurt me. I told her, and
he told me I told because I interviewed him in
one of my car chests and he said, well, bitch,
why you didn't call me and tell me that? I said,
because I thought you knew, like you gave everybody else
(48:06):
a job over there, but you ain't give me no
motherfucking job you got. You had me doing all of
the core work, which was doing the promos and doing
all this stuff and sitting with the big stars. Whatever
I said I wanted to be, I said, nigga, you
ain't even let me come on that bitch to smoke
a motherfucker cigarette.
Speaker 2 (48:20):
Let me say this to you.
Speaker 3 (48:21):
So I did get an opportunity to do start so Lee.
I don't remember what I was doing at the time.
He was shooting Billy Holliday and so he said, miss Pat,
I'm gonna fly you to Canada and I'm gonna put
you in Billie Holiday.
Speaker 2 (48:35):
He wrote a whole scene for me. I was so
happy because that was a big movie.
Speaker 3 (48:40):
And he cut me out and I never told anybody
that he cut me out. And he called and told
me he was gonna cut me out, and I didn't
give a fuck.
Speaker 1 (48:51):
My check clear.
Speaker 3 (48:54):
I never That's the first time I ever told anybody
I was in Billie Holiday.
Speaker 1 (48:59):
I'm in the cut scenes, but I was in there.
Speaker 2 (49:02):
He cut me the fuck out.
Speaker 1 (49:03):
So he did you like he did me?
Speaker 2 (49:05):
Well, let me say this to you. I didn't.
Speaker 3 (49:08):
I don't think what he created and the move was
so long, I don't think it fitted.
Speaker 2 (49:13):
I don't fucking know, you know.
Speaker 3 (49:16):
And that's why I don't ever tell people I'm in
something until it comes all the way out.
Speaker 2 (49:20):
I keep my mouth shut. And I'm so glad that
this is the first time I ever told anybody I
was in that movie.
Speaker 3 (49:26):
Nobody knew that I was in that movie but me,
Jordan and Lee and my husband. I don't think my
kids knew. I flew out the Canada to do that.
Speaker 2 (49:34):
Wow. I never told anybody. And he cut He didn't
cut a little bit, he cut me completely.
Speaker 1 (49:43):
But listen, you had the Miss Pet show. I did,
and I didn't, you know what.
Speaker 2 (49:48):
It didn't bother me. You know, he called and he
told me. I didn't feel that's fine, that shit happens,
you know, And if the check didn't clear, every about
being cuss the fuck out.
Speaker 3 (49:56):
Yeah, but the check cleared, and it was an opportunity.
It was an opportunity that I'll never forget. And shit happens.
Speaker 1 (50:04):
He gonna watch the show, he gonna cuss o ass
the funk out. He's gonna definitely cuss me out. All right, y'all? Well,
Miss Pat listen, I love you. Thank you for giving
us that exclusive. Thank you for for evolving, thank you
for telling bitches out there to evolve. Thank you, thank
you for being Mispat Lady. Tell tell us what, tell
(50:26):
tell us where they can find you at Miss Pat
they should know.
Speaker 3 (50:28):
But go to Misspaccomedy dot com and you can get
all my tour schedule. I'm working on us, working on
developing my second special, so and I have a new
book coming out soon. So and you know season three
of the Miss Pat Settles It will be here in
season five for the Miss Pat Show. So just keep
tuning into everything misspac Coomedy dot com.
Speaker 1 (50:47):
That's it, ladies, jenle Tonight on b e T Miss
Pat Settles It Season three is premier, So make sure
that you are tuned in to Miss Pat settles it
to no on b E T Baby and can I.
Speaker 2 (51:02):
Just say this is the funniest season yet.
Speaker 3 (51:04):
When I tell you y'all ain't ready for season three
of the Miss Past Saturday, you put on your pampoint
your depions.
Speaker 2 (51:09):
You're gonna piece yourself. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (51:11):
We had a good season. I'll coming back for season four.
Speaker 2 (51:16):
You damn right to.
Speaker 1 (51:19):
Bye, y'all, bye, Oh my god. Outlaws is a production
of The Outspoken Network from iHeart Podcasts and Turtle Run Entertainment.
Co created by Tyler Rabinowitz and Olivia Piece. I'm your host,
Tis Madison. We are executive produced by Tyler Rabnowitz, Maya
(51:41):
Howard and Tis Madison. Our simpervising producer is Jessica Krinchch
and our producers are Joey Pat and Common. Our video
editor is Tyler ra Benowitz and our sound editor is
Just Crime. Our associate producer is Trent high Tower. Special
thanks to our producers assistant Daniel.
Speaker 3 (52:00):
Been A Whit.
Speaker 1 (52:00):
Our theme song is composed by Wazi merrit. Our show
art is by Pablo Martinina. Catch you next week, Honey,
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