More Than Skin Deep with Hunnii

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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I got my dollar, honey, what's up? Queen, how you feeling?

Speaker 1 (01:02):
I am just holdo.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
First off, you said this make my skin feel like honey. Butter, honey, butter.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
Most skin gotta put honey on you.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
You make it yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:17):
I do. That's one of my comforties.

Speaker 3 (01:19):
How long does it take to make one? No, we're
just speaking about loan befo.

Speaker 1 (01:23):
Y'all right? Right right? Five five hours? Make one? Make
a badge?

Speaker 3 (01:30):
How many? How many is a batch? Okay we're getting
to that in a second. But how's your meltal right? Now?

Speaker 1 (01:37):
It's good. It's good.

Speaker 3 (01:38):
It was.

Speaker 1 (01:39):
It was a little all over the place, but it's good.
I'm good. I'm in a good space right now.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
Okay, now it's though. For people who don't know you,
tell them who you are, where you come from, how
you coming, where you're going.

Speaker 1 (01:51):
I'm honey. For the people who don't know me, I
always got something to say about something. I'm from Brown Country, Florida.
I probably said that's so country, but yeah, okay, well
it is what it is. Oh, I didn't know I
had a country accent, but apparently moving to Atlanta let
me know that I got a country accent. I'm an

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entrepreneur as hard as hell, you don't get out there
and make no money. Baby, you ain't gonna make no money.
I got about three companies right now, two of which
is really doing its thing, and I'm just out here
trying to educate the people, trying to educate the ladies
that it's okay not to be a whole. It's okay.
It's okay to how morals, okay to how standards. Like

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I'm literally country in everything that y'all know, and i
just want you all to open up your minds to
a different way of thinking.

Speaker 3 (02:41):
Do you have times that let just be one like
and hold on that. I'm just saying, women periods? Is
you whoever ask the question? Is like, just say you
said it's okay to be not the a whole? Right?
Do you have those moments be like man, I might
as will yeo with my niggas? Yeah? All right now,
I get it. I'm just saying like even if you

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if you wasn't if you were singing you know how
cause they saying like the bitches, the women who with
multiple niggas is the one that's having their way basically
they is they is so that what I'm saying, like,
have you went through that fade like, man, well you
know what, I ain't finla debuting no one I have
not that's good, that's CONUNDI.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
I've looked at it and I'm like, damn these hoes winning.
But then I have a conscience. Can I go to
thinking about my decisions and I go to doing too much?
That shit gonna make me feel a certain kind of way,
And then I look at myself different. I did a
lot to really accept me for who I am because
I did something. Y'all know if you if you know me,

(03:42):
you've been following me for a while, I'm very vocal.
But if you don't go back this and name you
know whatever. But I worked a lot to get to
where I'm at mentally.

Speaker 3 (03:53):
Oh no, you ain't not going at now?

Speaker 1 (03:54):
Ain't no cool?

Speaker 3 (03:56):
So how you what was your journey like, like coming
from or the like? What was your upbringing like typical.

Speaker 1 (04:03):
Black poor people? Yeah, tuck black poor people. Shit, you know,
daddy ain't really there, Mama over there. Worried about the
damn government check? Just you know, you a check? You
an income text check? You a fool sam check? You
would a Section eight check? You will use a check?

Speaker 3 (04:22):
Damn you The ticket.

Speaker 1 (04:23):
Yeah, you the ticket.

Speaker 3 (04:24):
Damn. I ain't never heard anybody said like that.

Speaker 1 (04:26):
You're right, have as many as you can. That kind
of vibe.

Speaker 3 (04:30):
So, so do you think back in the day people
having kids just to make away some people?

Speaker 1 (04:35):
Yeah, some people I could speak. I could speak for
my my upbringing and my mom. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (04:41):
What was your first dream who you wanted to be
as a kid.

Speaker 1 (04:45):
I wanted to be a social worker, A social worker.
I wanted to be a social worker because I said,
I'm gonna help these kids because they don't deserve this.
Really CHILDE went to school for that and I was like,
you know, I don't making no money. And then on
top of that, I'm like real compassion and kids. I

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can't bring out y'all home with me. It's gonna drain me.

Speaker 3 (05:09):
I was like no, yeah, and seeing and yeah, just
being you said, like being involved, you go to taking
a nation, Yeah, taking all their stuff, like seeing what's
going on with them, and go to affecting your real life.

Speaker 1 (05:21):
I know me. So I was like, it's it's it's
a way for me to be able to help the masters,
and I can help more people. I just not doing
social work.

Speaker 3 (05:31):
So what you do now? To like help the kids, like,
how do you you know what I'm saying put forth
that energy that you had to be a social record,
what do you use now to.

Speaker 1 (05:41):
Like, you know, I try to be. I don't think
I really come off as compassionate when I'm sending my messages.
I'm working on that, but just basically trying to talk
to them and just say so, it's like I said earlier,
it's okay to go the other route. It's okay to
not be a whole. It's okay to be with one person.
It's okay to be by yourself, like just really contradict

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and everything it is that you know, and just I'm
all going tours the motivational speaker out.

Speaker 3 (06:10):
But by then, okay, what's the struggle of it? You
gotta tell them the struggle side of it to it.

Speaker 1 (06:13):
This struggle of it is you're not gonna be the
hype o. Many me ain't gonna look past you. But
it's okay because those not to me, and that you
want anyway, you want them to look past you. You
want them to go on over there with her, go
over there with her and do whatever you're gonna do.
And you really gotta focus on you, and that ship
is boring. It's boring, it's draining, and you get lonely.

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But at the end of the day, you want your
conscious clean. You want to be able to look at
your in the mirror, at yourself and be like, I
love you. Yeah, I you know, through all my that
I got going on and out idd this, that and
the other, I still could look in the mirror and say,
I love you every piece of me, every part of me,
all that, the good, the badg of this. But hey, girl,
I love you.

Speaker 3 (06:53):
You cool? Hey what was your what was your like
moment where you was just like nothing, be.

Speaker 1 (06:59):
Different, always been different. I always never followed people. I
always just did my own thing. And I think once
social media really took off because we in two different
what's the word I'm looking for, We two different errors.

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So we had MySpace and Facebook was just like becoming
a thing and right, So social media wasn't what it
was for me back then now, but I always had
social media, MySpace, and you had to keep up with
what was going on back then, and I just never

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was able to keep up with that because I'm like,
it's a lot of stuff I just don't care about.
I don't care about who little Jojo. I don't care
about what t Sheppard Street do. I don't care about
a lot of stuff. So I never really fit in
with certain people. And moving to Atlanta further lets me
know that rightaway was right. I don't put my peers
they weird. They just say what way was right with

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my peers? They are weird. Everything they do is just weird.
And I really had to find my way with that
because I'm trying to be around these people, being around
this group, and it's just I wish I could see
how she looked behind this camera. That's exactly how it
was looking. I'm like, I can't do this well.

Speaker 3 (08:23):
Put you at the what space that puts you in?
When you when you were you different, like and you
stand on being different space that puts you in?

Speaker 1 (08:30):
I didn't know. I started a question who I was okay.
I started to question, like like what what you said earlier,
like even with the it's okay not to be a
whole you started to question like, damn, I want to
kind of fit in. I want to be able to
hang around these people. This still in there. But then
I realized, I'm like, this is not my crowd. This

(08:51):
is not my people. I don't should I come. I
do my job and then I just go and buy
my business. I want to hang with y'all. I want
to knowne of that because it's just not me, and
then I'm gonna have to be fake and be phony
and he and my social battery is just like, I
ain't got time for this.

Speaker 3 (09:05):
So what's a circle? Look like?

Speaker 1 (09:08):
It's really good?

Speaker 3 (09:09):
It's like that, not a circle.

Speaker 1 (09:14):
Literally literally, it's the dots. I don't have a circle
because people but one, it's either everybody want to you
or somebody hating on you. Either the niggas want to you,
and the women is like, bitch you. That's just like,
that's how that's been my experience in Atlanta. Not saying
that everybody's experience, but my experience has not been good either.

Speaker 3 (09:39):
The dudes want to the women want to over you.

Speaker 1 (09:41):
Basically pretty much. It's like and I ain't really trying
to I ain't even trying to throw a bitch of
the shoe fit wear it because sometimes you be feeling
for me too when I be having to wear it.
But I ain't really throwing a direct shot at you.
But it's just whatever whatever.

Speaker 3 (09:58):
Damn. So what do it make you an outcast?

Speaker 1 (10:02):
Yeah? No, because I go home and I sleep very well.
I sleep very well knowing that I am being my
most authentic self. I'm not performing to people around me
and things around It's just child this ship I done
seen up here in this little year and a half

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i've been. I just was like, yeah, I'm gonna just
go home.

Speaker 3 (10:27):
So when I because I think the first time I met.

Speaker 1 (10:30):
You was on podcast, so that you just get up here. Yep,
I had just made it up here.

Speaker 3 (10:34):
Oh for real. But that been like a year or
two ago.

Speaker 1 (10:37):
Right about a year and a half something like that.

Speaker 3 (10:40):
So how did your podcast come about? Seriously misguided podcast?

Speaker 1 (10:44):
It actually started out as Smooch loves Honey, smooches my sister,
and I'm honey and that's that's my blood sister. I'm
saying that nobody ever believes that same I'm saying daddy,
and I just wanted to do a podcast. I want
to be able to come and just say whatever it is.
I wanted to say that. I just didn't want to
do it by myself because I was like, I was
a little scared, and she was like, Okay, I'll do

(11:05):
it with you, and it just was me, really you,
mainly was me talking shit on the podcast. She was there,
but it was like she was like a little place
old or whatever. I'm gonna support her. And then like
earlier later last year, that's when I came up with
the name seriously Misguided because I was like looking at

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her and she was looking at me, and she said
some stupid shit. I ain't gonna say what she said,
but it was just like, but you are seriously misguided,
and I was like, yeah, I couldn't think of a
name that fit what I was trying to do at
the time when I started a podcast. But when it
came to me, I was like, Okay, now I gotta rebrand.
I got to change all this shit because I want
to be able to the content needs to fit the name.

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And now the content fits the name.

Speaker 3 (11:57):
What you think your podcast bringing to the world that's not.

Speaker 1 (11:59):
Here besides realness you get in the whole different side
of it. I'm not just saying what it is that
people always say, Oh, she's just saying what people want
her to say. But no, what the black culture has
this thing about? Now, what goes on in my house
stays in my house, and that shit breaks you down.
That shit fucks with you emotionally, and you grow up

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with all these problems and all this shit and you
don't really know how to handle it. And we have
this notion that we got to do everything by ourselves.
We blah blah blah. But the actuality sometimes we just
we need somebody to talk to, somebody that's saying some
shit that were already thinking, but we just like we
ain't too sure about it. So I just want to
be like the most show people that you could be authentic,

(12:43):
true self the voice and it's okay. And then whoever,
don't fuck with you, just don't fuck with you.

Speaker 3 (12:49):
It's hey, not real shit, because not you gotta be fake?
Who want to do that line? So how you how
you choose your topics and stuff it?

Speaker 1 (13:00):
Honestly, I don't really have no real mythic to be
honest with you. Whenever I do try, and this is
the real problem of whenever I do try to sit
down and I'm like, Okay, what I'm gonna talk about today?
I drawing blank. I draw blank, like Courtney she when
she text me what she text me about the topics
I seen it, but I was like, okay, all right,

(13:22):
I'm gonna have to think of something, think of something
sound And probably maybe maybe four hours before I got
here that I thought of the topics that I thought of.
But it was just like, whatever's.

Speaker 3 (13:32):
Going on, I ain't even give it, let me ain't
get them.

Speaker 1 (13:37):
It was it was like four things. Whatever was going
on at that moment of time or I don't know.
This all depends on how I feeling once I once
the camera turned on and we started talking, we start
having a conversation. Then it's like, it's just it just ended.

Speaker 3 (13:51):
Up having for sure, you just let it flower? Do we?
So up beside the podcast, you got this skincare business?
What made you decide to go into this?

Speaker 1 (14:02):
I had really bad exma and acne, real bad, so
I had to come over with some natural stuff to
try to clear that up because I was like, oh,
hell no, I thought I started thinking I was ugly, y'all.
I was like, oh, you're so ugly, friend, But it
turns out to agne friends A and the exma baby

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that make your skin real dark. It just makes you
look like a little no shape, but lett you look
a little dirty.

Speaker 3 (14:32):
And I was glowing it got glowing.

Speaker 1 (14:34):
You get what I'm saying, Like, come on, I had
to really buckle down on that and try to figure
it out.

Speaker 3 (14:41):
How long you been had the product?

Speaker 1 (14:44):
About four years? Okay, but I had it four years.
I've been using it for myself for four years. I
started really pushing it to people by probably about three
months ago. Make it work, No, I just didn't care
about giving it to other people because I didn't make
it for other people. I made it for me.

Speaker 3 (15:04):
So where you hit the recipe from Google.

Speaker 1 (15:07):
I grew every ingredient that's in there. I googled it
to see what effect it has on the skin and
how helps and all that Google time and time, hours
and hours and fucking hours of googling.

Speaker 3 (15:20):
So what's the challenges of building a new bland? Like,
because it's so many other people got skincare, Like, what's
the challenges? What method you're gonna use and make your
stand up?

Speaker 1 (15:29):
I actually want to do this. I call it a
CBS ethic where I don't know if you know, but
CBS got as big as it did because it started
to go to smaller pharmacies and either buy them out
or collab with them. So then now CBS got hundreds
of cbs is all over the place now because CBS

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built CBS from the ground up, but because they just
started buying out smaller pharmacies. So I was like, okay,
well I could find and fluenceries and people who want
to create their own brand or of some kind of
product and get them to Hey, you think you want
to create a body butter? Sure, why not I create

(16:11):
a body Butter. I do the legwork. I do everything
behind it. All you do is marketing dope, and you
get your percentage what you get. I get my percentage
when I get So that's that's where I'm at with that.

Speaker 3 (16:23):
As a black woman podcasting and you know what I'm saying,
just in brutal and it's what's the ups and downs
to it?

Speaker 1 (16:30):
Like people not supporting but you gotta die?

Speaker 3 (16:35):
Though, so is somebody gonna support you gotta die?

Speaker 1 (16:37):
You don't never come from the people that's in your circle, right,
it always comes from outside of people, Like I got
people that support the people who supported it died. I
don't know if there are people, but it's starting anything fresh,
for anything new, and you don't. I do have influence,
but the type of influence I have with the business
that I'm trying to push don't match. And I didn't

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really understand that at first. Now now I get it.
Like the type of content I'm pushing with the influence
I got, I'm marketing towards me and a lot of men.
You gotta market towards something that men is going by. Ultimately,
I don't have a women following, So that's like the
downside of having skincare. A lot of men don't like
take care of their skin. They don't really give a

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about that type of stuff.

Speaker 3 (17:20):
Why you think you have you don't have a women following.

Speaker 1 (17:23):
On because I really contradict everything that women think that
they know or everything that women know.

Speaker 3 (17:31):
I'm glad you said let's get into it. What is it?
What is it that they think they know? That's the
number one contradicting thing that women think that they know.

Speaker 1 (17:41):
Oh, I don't know if there is number one, but
I'm gonna say this one. That pussy can control all men.
I'm gonna go with that one.

Speaker 3 (17:51):
Such. Nah, you're right, that shit can't do nothing.

Speaker 1 (17:57):
So it can control some men. But the and that
it is that you trying to control the pussy ain't
gonna control damn.

Speaker 3 (18:07):
So do you think what percentage of women do you
think are delusional?

Speaker 1 (18:13):
I'm gonna go with a hogh number and say about
seventy seventy five maybe maybe.

Speaker 3 (18:21):
Damn what you think makes make some delusion? Music the music,
the music, or the culture in general.

Speaker 1 (18:31):
The culture in general, the music, the culture, the music.
The culture comes from the music. Yo, you think about it.
You think about it back in the days, Uncle Luke
and all these. The culture we have now comes from music.

Speaker 3 (18:45):
Yeah, yeah, because niggas rapping about taking care of women
and they make it make him feel like every niggas
supposed to take care of when.

Speaker 1 (18:53):
Every nigga supposed to take it with women that you
got the other women over here rapping about how a
niggas supposed to take care of you and if he
ain't taking care you, then fuck that nigga.

Speaker 3 (19:02):
Yeah, when did it change? Like niggas used to get
fresh to get bitch and now niggas pay to get bitches.
Like when did that change?

Speaker 1 (19:10):
When bitches started being more vocal about, Hey, I ain't
got time to be trying to be dating you and
acting like I like you give me some money, you
give me some money, I give you my time. You
ain't got no money, ain't got no time.

Speaker 3 (19:22):
Okay, then so how do they how how did that work?
When when they want to get serious? How can I
get serious when I bought you?

Speaker 1 (19:29):
That's the worst kind of thing that you even want
to think about. Why would you want to get serious
with somebody who you bought?

Speaker 3 (19:35):
That's what I'm saying. But you know, like just say instance.

Speaker 1 (19:38):
Those are simps. I've been hearing a lot of definitions
of sims and different kind of thing. I just feel
that some simple ass shit like you gotta match, you
gotta match love languages. And if her love language is
buying her shit and you think you're gonna just keep
buying her stuff and she gonna eventually just love you
for you, that's you.

Speaker 3 (19:56):
You know what I'm saying. It's sometimes it don't be
the dude. Sometime the dude be cool a little bit on,
tricking off on, and then she go to falling in
love with the tricking and thank you supposed to love
her traditionally, that's delusional.

Speaker 1 (20:10):
Who started that's illusions? But I don't know who started
that shit. You're right, I don't know who started at
but you fall in love with the lifestyle, and you
don't want that to go nowhere because at the end
of the day, I don't care how many how much
people out here seeing the shit that they singing. Niggas

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ain't just out here taking care of bitches, you man,
You ain't walking out the door right now and it's
a nigga out that's saying, hey, honey, come over here,
I want to take care of you. You gotta you
find them niggas. Them niggas come somehow find you when
y'all find each other. And okay, that's cool, but it ain't.
Niggas ain't just out here just popping off and just

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taking care of bitches. If that's the case, why everybody
is being taken care of? Why the fuck I ain't
being taken care of? Like you gotta ask yourself these
just like, like, why you ain't being taken If it's
so many niggas out here it's ready to take care
of bitches, why you ain't being taken care of?

Speaker 3 (21:06):
But you know, you hear most women be like I
can get it, like they can get a nigga that's
gonna do whatever, Like like what that means, y'all?

Speaker 1 (21:16):
Fuck know where you like where like people hit the lottery, Yeah,
how often you more, You're more likely to be struck
by lightning, But hitting the lottery how often. I'm not
saying it's not possible, but I am seeing it ain't

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that often that is happening. Like okay, I could Okay,
I got a nigga that was good to me and
he did whatever whatever, this, that and the third cool.
I never once said to that nigga, Oh well, what
you wanna do? The next nigga will bitch? Where is
he at? Where? You know? How much work and hard
how much shit I had to put in for that
nigga to do the ship he's doing. Niggas ain't just

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you're talking that ship no real shit like bus the
thing that shit.

Speaker 3 (22:08):
Happened like.

Speaker 1 (22:10):
A nigga actually like you. First of all, you can
you can fuck. I can fuck with future and she
can fuck with future and Future did way more ship
for her than he ever did for me. Why because
he actually liked it. That bitch I was cool, but
I like this one. So nigga's gonna trick off on
who they like the most. Nigga actually likes you, and
some bitches ain't likable. I'm one of them people I ain't.

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You know, a lot of people don't be liking me.

Speaker 3 (22:35):
It's cool, Okay, why do you say that.

Speaker 1 (22:37):
It's it's it's it's.

Speaker 3 (22:39):
It's it's what you're thinking.

Speaker 1 (22:42):
I'm talking about as far as like females.

Speaker 3 (22:44):
They might do. They just don't know you.

Speaker 1 (22:47):
I don't know, because in no comments, they be not
liking me, Like, yeah, for sure, for sure, anybody tell
the truth.

Speaker 3 (22:56):
Pick anybody like anyone would. That's not delusional, you'll pick
me right, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (23:02):
Basically I don't want to be delusion. They don't look
fun over there.

Speaker 3 (23:10):
So you're saying, like most of these women think right,
they could just wake up and get her like an
NFL player tomorrow, where he at is?

Speaker 1 (23:23):
Where he at? Where are you supposed to go? I
just said this to somebody.

Speaker 3 (23:27):
It's only fifty teams, and how many players on teams?
It's seven million.

Speaker 1 (23:35):
I said this is about a female. I ain't gonna
say her name, but I said this about her. I
was like, damn, that bitch lucky. She looked up. She
got too too. NBA plus back to back, uh Drea,
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I said, damn she lucky I
said this to a guy. He said, she had bitch,

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ain't lucky. She strategically placed herself in those places for
her to be able to get the niggas that she got.
I say, you, motherfucker. I never thought about it that way. Literally,
I never thought about it that way. And then I
was inside. This has nothing to do with that conversation,
but it brought me back to that conversation. I was
somewhere I forget wherever lounge I was at, and I

(24:20):
was like, shit, I ain't gonna meet mister fucking one
hundred thousand ere up in this motherfucker.

Speaker 3 (24:27):
I ain't even your atmosphere.

Speaker 1 (24:31):
It's your ass everywhere that you place yourself at. So
I was like, you know, I don't even want to
watch the fight. It was the tanking of the dude fight.
I said, I don't want to be here watching the fight.
I'm just gonna go home because this is not where
I need to be at because the kind of people
that I want to talk to I ain't in here.
I'm looking at what's in here and what's any here.

Speaker 3 (24:51):
I don't want to talk to you like ball like
this makes my stomach. Let me go. Hold. I got shit,
which one that was.

Speaker 1 (25:05):
The one that I shouldn't have been there? I want
to say experience. I think you know, I think it's
called experience. Mmm, you're not worth.

Speaker 3 (25:18):
Like in real life? Who you think she more men
and women? M.

Speaker 1 (25:29):
I don't know. I don't know. I think I think
men cheat more. For your honest, I think men cheat
more and women cheat better. That's what I think. That's
what I think. I'm gonna go with that answer. But
being that you brought it up, I did. One of
the topics that I did want to ask you was

(25:51):
what would you tell a female, a woman that did
get cheated on and she took her man back?

Speaker 3 (25:58):
Well, when I tell her, we would you tell him?
I would tell her if you take him back, let
it go. Don't take him back and think he owe you.

Speaker 1 (26:08):
Some Oh oh you nothing, you know?

Speaker 3 (26:11):
Oh you ship don't. That's you asked me because I've.

Speaker 1 (26:18):
Seen this, and I was like, I'm gonna ask him this.

Speaker 3 (26:21):
I feel like, if you take him back, gimim forgive him.
Don't take him back looking for like he's finna do
something extra. You gotta take him back. If you take
him back, give him a new start.

Speaker 1 (26:34):
So that goes like vice versa, or like you don't
think men like take one back after.

Speaker 3 (26:42):
Some niggas do.

Speaker 1 (26:43):
But like, okay, what hm hmm?

Speaker 3 (26:47):
Would you never know how.

Speaker 1 (26:52):
You're still with you married? You're married right, legally married,
and you're still with your wife. You cheated allegedly, so
I'm gonna make the conscious decision to assume that you
she never cheated on you. At least you don't know nothing.

Speaker 3 (27:13):
I don't know. That's good enough for me. Okay, but
who's who's in the right mind gonna not put in
their mind that the motherfucker pober have though, Like women
are the sneakiest women on creatures on earth. I'm not
saying she did. I'm not saying she ain't. I ain't gonnay,
I'm gona put a passer right, you know what I'm saying.
But if she did, she got enough respect for me

(27:34):
for me to not find out. I can love you
for that made the best lie win. I can say
that we take respect over everything. We take respecting lords
over everything. So you showing lords and respect by not
even nothing to get to me, you know what I'm saying.

(27:54):
I could take that now when I find out, let
me know, you have no more respect for me, and
you don't have no more lords for me.

Speaker 1 (28:02):
Okay, So speaking of loyalty, why is it that men
can give loyalty to their homies and their friends, but
they can't give that same loyalty.

Speaker 3 (28:10):
To their girls because it's a different type of lords.
It's the loyalty that you're looking for, Like women think
to me, like I don't like to speaking in general.
I'm just speaking my perspective. You know what I'm saying.
Everybody got their own definition of everything. Because I could
be giving you my awe, I could be giving you
my one hundred percent lords and be unfaithful. That's two

(28:34):
different words.

Speaker 1 (28:36):
Technically, faithful and loyalty are synonyms of each other.

Speaker 3 (28:41):
How google them, motherfucker look them up.

Speaker 1 (28:43):
I googled it before I put it on there. I
made sure I looked at it. What they say they
sending them, it's loyalty and faithfulness is one and the same.

Speaker 3 (28:53):
So I can't work.

Speaker 1 (28:55):
You gotta find different word.

Speaker 3 (28:58):
They know what I'm saying. So all right, let me see.
So a person can be if your dude cheat on you,
that means he's not loyal to you.

Speaker 1 (29:06):
Depends. Yeah, It depends on what it is that we
agree to. Are we in a committed relationship? Were in
a committed relationship where you ain't stepping out and I'm
not stepping on?

Speaker 3 (29:15):
What's the committed monogamy relationship or committed relationship?

Speaker 1 (29:19):
One in a relationship where you ain't stepping out and
I ain't stepping out?

Speaker 3 (29:22):
But what he is? What that? Dude? Then? I don't know.
Have you seen one?

Speaker 1 (29:28):
Do you?

Speaker 3 (29:28):
Is your cousin one, your brother, your uncle? Was your
dad one? Your uncle granddad?

Speaker 1 (29:32):
Like? What is this?

Speaker 3 (29:33):
Where is this guy at?

Speaker 1 (29:34):
I don't know? Okay, but why is it that me
and can't okay? So like how they say men are
what's in in men to desire most for women? And
this that and the third okay whatever? Why is it
that If I was to come to you and say, hey, Bank,
I want to have an open relationship, that's what you

(29:58):
would be okay with it totally. You don't nothing I
do get bad to you, nothing you do get bad
to me. Respect each other. We come home, we build
our foundations, we do all this stuff that we do.

Speaker 3 (30:07):
But but but it would be a barrier there now,
Like I wouldn't be as open to you as then
I just spoke about this on another podcast. I wouldn't
be as open to you as I could be because
now you have somebody else in your ear. And women
are very emotional creatures. So if she dealing with another dude,
he has a part of her that another woman would
probably never have a me, you get what I'm saying.

(30:28):
So once a dude start dealing with you, you you open.
Niggas don't really open up to women, not even their
own cand of Like you said, it takes so much
for them to start being open to her. So I
ain't finna just go be goddamn willing there there with
a new bitch. A woman go start being you know
what I'm saying, one open to a dude when she

(30:48):
first start dealing with him and liking him. So I
can't trust it, even though I love you and I
agreed to this, But now you down here. Though I
said it made the best lie win, I got a
place that I gotta Now I gotta build something else
up that I can trust with everything that makes sense,
It makes sense. Change you gotta switch rolls. But it's

(31:11):
the truth.

Speaker 1 (31:12):
Though it makes perfect sense, but it's one of the
ones where it's God damn, it's fucked up.

Speaker 3 (31:18):
But it's the truth. Though it's truth. I'm speaking understood
like it's the truth.

Speaker 1 (31:22):
Because I am a woman and.

Speaker 3 (31:25):
And I got much to lose, Like like, okay, if
a woman, if a woman, Okay, if I'm fucking with
a woman and she do you y'all get into it
or whatever, all the things you gonna do, your feelings
gonna be hurt. But if I'm fuck with a nigga,
I got too I mean, you fucking with a nigga.
I got so much to lose. Anything can happen. I
could be damn it, like you never know what this
dude on. This dude could be fuck with you to

(31:47):
get to me. I got shit going on, like anything
can happen, And then nigga could get in this feeling
behind fucking my bit. You want to do something to me?
And women get careless, like I said, they're a little
bit drop me off at home. You know everything about it,
You know where you work at. Be gonna put a
tracking advice on your car. Anything that's fair.

Speaker 1 (32:07):
You make a fair point, I can I can't agree
with fair.

Speaker 3 (32:12):
I'm just saying so that's the only that's the only reason.
But but but will I respect that? Yes? Will I
do that? Yes, I respect it, But it won't be
the same that we will have to adjust the relationship, right.

Speaker 1 (32:27):
You when you're right?

Speaker 3 (32:28):
You?

Speaker 1 (32:28):
Right?

Speaker 3 (32:30):
Thank you?

Speaker 1 (32:33):
I know, right?

Speaker 3 (32:34):
Not making me sound like a pig? What you really wich?
You rather be lied to and be happy or know
the truth and be hurt? If you say that is.

Speaker 1 (32:47):
So crazy that you're asked it because I just have
this conversation and for me, just tell me truth, tell
me the truth, let me hurt, let me work through
my hurt, and we get past that. Lying to me
for me is like I don't know, I just feel

(33:08):
like it's just a level of betrayal that it's like
how can I trust you? How can I trust you
if you're gonna keep fucking lying? Like, just tell me
the truth. I'm that's in the previous relationship I was in,
Like I just said, like, I'm not your average female,
and I know a lot of people say that, but
I'm not. So if I'm being open and honest with

(33:28):
you about my shit, I don't even want to tell
you this shit, but I'm telling you because it's fair.
Why you can't give me that same respect back.

Speaker 3 (33:39):
Okay, all right, I agree with that. But me, let's
see it. Let's fast forward, and I told you some
shit to hurt you. How long are you gonna be
hurt about this incident?

Speaker 1 (33:51):
M I probably was recently, probably heard about three weeks.

Speaker 3 (33:56):
Okay, So how much do I have to deal with that?

Speaker 1 (34:03):
For me?

Speaker 3 (34:04):
What's my duty after I hurt you?

Speaker 1 (34:05):
Basically in that situation, it's a lot of reassurance that
comes behind that. But my thing is, if you lie
to me and I end up finding out about it,
it put us in a more For me, it puts
me in a fucked up situation because now I feel like,
now I can't trust you.

Speaker 3 (34:26):
Get that.

Speaker 1 (34:27):
But if you came to me and you told me
whatever it is that you told me, I can work
through that because out of respect for me, you respect
It's like you respect me on a whole different level.

Speaker 3 (34:36):
Okay, I get that. But you're right, You're right what
you're saying. But let's flip this. If I come to
you and tell you the truth, right and you need reassurance,
what if my reassurance ain't enough to reassure you, do
you trust me?

Speaker 1 (34:51):
Now? I think trust is something that's just you just
rebuild it.

Speaker 3 (34:55):
No. I think once trust is broken, you always gonna
be watching that person. Yeah, so at the end of
the day, I might as well just let the shit
come out.

Speaker 1 (35:05):
See, but it depends. It's if I'm your girl, me
and you, we together and we don't been through whatever
it is. We don't been through, not necessarily wouldn't been
through bad shit. We just you know, we don'et been
through our business shit, friendship, this whatever, we haven't been
through whatever, And you come to me and you lay
down and we lay down in the bed together, and

(35:26):
we share our secrets and we talk to each other
about our vulnerbriarents, all this other extra shit. Right when
it comes down to something that can potentially put our
relationship in what we build in jeopardy. At that point,
whatever the fuck that is, you need to come and
tell me.

Speaker 3 (35:42):
I respect that.

Speaker 1 (35:43):
I'm not looking for you to come and tell me
every single little thing that happens in your life and this,
that and the third, but things that can put us
in this fucked up space to where now we can
potentially depart ways from each other. And you don't want that.
I don't want that. I know I love you, you
know you love me, but some ship happened, and I
ain't really too proud of the ship that happened. But

(36:05):
you know what I will. I'm come and I'm gonna
tell you that. Okay, all right, And now you gotta
figure out.

Speaker 3 (36:11):
What I'm saying. I'm saying, you're right, You're right by
what you're saying. Totally I agree with that. But I'm saying,
when I do be honest, how long do you expect
for me to be too? What do you call it?
To adapt to your feelings?

Speaker 1 (36:33):
Like?

Speaker 3 (36:33):
How long do you expect for me to cause you know,
sometimes women want you to stop what you're doing to
cater to their feelings because they're hurt, Right, that's the
reassurance that you're talking about. So how long do.

Speaker 1 (36:45):
I do that?

Speaker 3 (36:46):
That? Not?

Speaker 1 (36:47):
Necessarily I can only speak for me. I can't speak
for that.

Speaker 3 (36:50):
I'm asking you what I'm saying, we're together, I long
do How long do I do that?

Speaker 1 (36:54):
It depends on when you come to me and you're
trying to tell me the truth about something. Let's just
say you cheated on me, and whatever led to you
cheating on me, whatever, maybe I contributed, whatever the fuck happened?

Speaker 3 (37:06):
You ended up cheating, right, I won't support Yeah.

Speaker 1 (37:09):
Okay, is that something that you're gonna keep doing?

Speaker 3 (37:14):
Probably? Nine man?

Speaker 1 (37:15):
Right, So when you come and you coming to tell
your truth and you want to be open and you
want to be honest with because you don't want to
hurt me if I end up finding out, because that's
gonna make a situation worse. So if you're coming to
me and you saying this, that and the third that
need to be part of your truth, facts that need
to be That's how I feel. This is what I
did and I do probably will do it in the future.
I don't really know how to whatever the fuck and

(37:38):
then allow me to process those feelings, in process those
emotions and make the determination whether I even want to
stay with you. And nine times out of ten I'm
not gonna say that that's a high percentage. Six times
out of ten, you probably ain't gonna end up staying
depending on the caliber.

Speaker 3 (37:52):
I understand that what you're saying, but you're still missing
on what I'm saying. What I'm saying is how long
do I have to deal with my truth because it
hurts you? That's what I'm saying. How long do I
deal with that?

Speaker 1 (38:03):
Everybody's different. I went through my ship, but I went
through my ship in two three weeks. Okay, Okay, So
for me it was two three weeks, but it was
a lot of things that I had to work through
within myself to be to be comfortable with the truth
that came to me. Okay, cause he let me rephrase
that the truth that I was looking for. But hey, okay,

(38:24):
what else?

Speaker 3 (38:25):
See that's the worst shit ever that Okay, Okay, let
me ask you something out of those two weeks, if
I'm thinking, like this is throwing me off, honey, I
don't want to keep talking about this shit if you're
gonna leave or you're gonna it.

Speaker 1 (38:35):
Wasn't really really talking about it type of thing. For me.
It was more so you go over there, I go
over there. Let's just process this that's going on.

Speaker 3 (38:43):
Okay. But when you go over there and I go
over there, and I'm going on my life, and then
you feel like you you ready to talk to a
I don't really on the trust bitchc Am I wrong?

Speaker 1 (38:52):
Oh You're not wrong, But that's a communication that you
have to have, like, because what I've experienced, for me,
whenever a man get caught in his ship and it's
his pot to stir. He don't want to talk about
that shit. I don't want it. Let's just act like
it didn't even happen.

Speaker 3 (39:09):
Nah, I don't think so. I think I get what
you're saying. It ain't nothing gonna happen. Niggas want to
get to the conclusion, right, But if you staying, don't
thank you. Finna be Unfinna just let you drag me
because I did something right.

Speaker 1 (39:23):
You right, But at the same time, a lot of
men don't give you the eat, don't even give you
the time to process the ship that they doesn't need.
Like you just said, bit as you leaving thor you
saying goddamn nigga just didn't ship two days ago. Give
me a.

Speaker 3 (39:38):
Second, okay, well, why you take a second. I don't
want to talk about this. Well ahead, hold on you
right by what you're saying. But I'm trying to make
a point right here. You right by what you're saying. Honey,
what I'm saying. You're right, But baby, I did it.
I can't put the two pastes back in the two
paste damn thing cannot it can't go back here there,
this shit out. So what we're doing, Baby, I love you.
I'm just I'm fucked up. You know what kind of

(40:01):
nigga you got? You know who you told? What you
think I'm gonna do sit around and talk about this
shit all day and be miserable with you about this
about being me.

Speaker 1 (40:10):
It ain't necessarily about you sitting and talk about it
all day. But that goes back to what I was
saying about being honest with the conversation.

Speaker 3 (40:16):
But that's honest.

Speaker 1 (40:18):
But some men, when you're trying to have that kind
of conversation with him, they still continue to lie.

Speaker 3 (40:22):
But the I'm saying, when a nigga ain't lyne take nigga, okay.

Speaker 1 (40:25):
So when a nigga not line, you gotta have for Again,
I was speaking for me, not y'all, but for me,
I am a very understanding person and people have told
me I'm too fucking understanding. But at the same time,
like you said, you know the kind of nigga that
you got, So therefore some niggas ain't you might not

(40:47):
leave him right then and there when he do whatever
the fuck it is that he do, because you know
the kind of caliber of nigga that you have. But
that's what I was saying about having a conversation and
being understanding of the situation it is that we're doing.
How are we doing this? Do you need time to
process this? Do I need to do this? Do I
need that? Whatever the fuck it is, we need to

(41:07):
work through that and figure it out. But let's not
drag it the fuck out.

Speaker 3 (41:11):
Most most of the time when women need process to
do something, that's when they say we're on a break,
they go do it, and then it don't count. That's
what usually happened.

Speaker 1 (41:18):
That is that is what usually happened. But that is
you know what I just said that. I was like, I'm
not I'm not the girl that's gonna get her lip back.
I don't do that. Like, regardless of whatever happened between us,
I'm not gonna go. Can't no nigga hurt my feelings

(41:39):
bad enough to make me say I'm about to go
fuck this other niggas It's impossible.

Speaker 3 (41:43):
You can't make me do that.

Speaker 1 (41:44):
I went and fucked him because I want to do that,
because you hurt my feelings.

Speaker 3 (41:48):
Probably already m if I I just.

Speaker 1 (41:50):
Want to I probably already know the nigga for so
you you get what I'm saying. So when it comes
down to it, it ain't no nick I don't understand this. No,
should have looked back. I don't get it. Who the
fuck is you hurting when you do this? You like,
who are you? Pick me? Pick me? But it's not.
It's to ask yourself. If that nigga didn't give a

(42:12):
fuck about going out and fucking and tricking on you,
why would he give a fuck about you going to
go fuck the homeboy? He Aboady already knew that you.
He probably knew he was going.

Speaker 3 (42:21):
Thank you, honey. See these women be I just had
a woman on here. She just said that. No, these
niggas be hurt. Some niggas do. Some niggas be hurt.

Speaker 1 (42:29):
And a lot of niggas no, not something. A lot
of niggas don't be They don't the niggas up. The
niggas don't be hurt.

Speaker 3 (42:35):
The niggas who know the ratio don't be hurt. They
don't give up. You gonna tell your ass' even.

Speaker 1 (42:42):
The times and guess what he gonna be right over
there with the bitch. He just cheated on you with
bitch onto the nest, the bit stress free. That's it.
I ain't got no obligation towards that.

Speaker 3 (42:52):
I was trying to crack the cold on. How long
does it usually tape? Like okay, am I being the losion?
Or do or do most women feel as when a
nigga half hurt them in a way and she knows
he's he knows she's hurt that he owes her.

Speaker 1 (43:12):
A lot of women feel like that. I don't feel
like that, but a lot of women feel like that.

Speaker 3 (43:16):
Yeah, that's what's That's what I was trying to get
to like. It's like, okay, we all got choices, right,
you know what I'm saying. It's like like you said
you want to you went digging, went digging because you
know what type of nigga he was right. So when
women go to me, go digging and don't leave, it's like,
I want to just have one up. I want to

(43:37):
I want to be right for me.

Speaker 1 (43:39):
It was more so of some niggas know how to
play their role very well. And when you start to,
when I start feeling like you're playing on my intelligence.
Now I need to know what's really going on. Okay,
that's just me personally. And if I once I now
once I know, now I can move accordingly. Now I

(44:01):
understand what kind of person you is. Now I get
it because what you're presenting to me is not what's
actually going on. That makes sense. Okay, So now that
I know, now I have the information to decide what
the fuck I'm gonna do, how I'm going to move,
How do I feel about this? How did what the fuck?

Speaker 3 (44:21):
Let me ask you something? So did the role that
he was playing? Was that making you happy? What's the
role that he playing as your dude? Was you happy
or unhappy?

Speaker 1 (44:31):
A little bit of both?

Speaker 3 (44:32):
Okay, a little bit both? It was it was it
was mellow.

Speaker 1 (44:34):
It was mellow.

Speaker 3 (44:35):
Okay, cool, So by you being mellow, you're gonna go
look for something to find you more unhappy?

Speaker 1 (44:40):
No, it wasn't for this particular situation. It wasn't. Bitch,
you was pllling on my motherfucker top and I needed
to know. I needed to know what was going on,
and so for me it just was like little stuff.

Speaker 3 (44:56):
Then what was the outcome after that? Though?

Speaker 1 (44:59):
Now I know what is that's going on? Now I
know the kind of person you is, and now we
can move accordingly. If we're gonna decide to we're gonna
move forward.

Speaker 3 (45:05):
Okay, we decide to move forward, what's.

Speaker 1 (45:08):
Accordingly I tell you about it, I'll count.

Speaker 3 (45:17):
All right, hypothetically not you don't tell your situation, but
hypothetically like what would be like No, no, I'm gonna
just say this, Okay, cool. If I know I hurt
you in a way that destroyed you, right, and I
can tell that you withdraw some back from me, right,
how do I trust you moving forward? Not even with

(45:38):
sex like cause niggas, some niggas don't give a fuck
about that. Like I said, as long as you respect me,
oh fuck what you're doing, that's your puss. You're gonna
get up and walk out here with that by yourself.
You take that motherfucker wherever you want to go with it.
It ain't mine. You can say it how many time
you want to see it. That's your shit, you know
what I'm saying. But on some g shit, once I
feel like you've lost respect for me over with yeah,

(46:01):
you know what I'm saying. So so and that comes
from elect huh h what just little ship that you
wouldn't even know? Oh yeah, that bit on that. So
now niggas starting to withdraw. Well, now he being a
fake ass nigga. He's he'll fuck nigga because he's noticed, Hey,
I took some out this woman that I can never
replace the relationship move. But a woman would expect for

(46:26):
you to stay in it because you messed up.

Speaker 1 (46:28):
Yeah, but why would you want to stay in something
that you already know ain't going nowhere?

Speaker 3 (46:33):
I'm I'm asking, I'm asking. I'm asking, like from a
woman point of view, Like, like for our listeners, you
know what I'm saying, Like, how does it? How does
that work? Like? How does that work?

Speaker 1 (46:43):
How does what work?

Speaker 3 (46:46):
Say? If your dude, right, did a deal breaker? Okay,
you know it's a deal breaker. He know it's a
deal breaker, but you're trying to work through it. You're
trying to process it right, right, But in this process
he us, notice, like I took some out of I
love her, I know she loved me, but it'll never
be the same no more. How does that work?

Speaker 1 (47:08):
It don't, It don't work.

Speaker 3 (47:11):
But that's every relationship.

Speaker 1 (47:13):
That's every relationship. And it's the fact of the matter
is we stay in situations because it's familiar to us. Yep,
So we I'm gonna stay with you, even though you
did what is you did. But that don't mean I'm
not hurt from what it is that you did. But
you're familiar to me. I'm just gonna and a lot
of women got to know she I think are probably
said is what she did say this not in these
exact words. But I'm just gonna get with another nigga

(47:34):
and he gonna he gonna do the same ship. He
gonna cheat on me too.

Speaker 3 (47:38):
But the thing about it is, we gotta we gotta
think about the dude too now because now he's miserable
because you just selling them for me, because you know
the next shi gonna do the same ship. But now
I'm not getting nothing from you now, I gotta go
find what I used to get from you. Yeah, Oh,

(47:59):
I thought you said, like living know what the wrong? No,
you ain't let me know what I'm wrong.

Speaker 1 (48:04):
You're right, I get what you're saying too. You're absolutely right.

Speaker 3 (48:09):
It's old. But nobody want to let it go.

Speaker 1 (48:11):
Nobody don't want to let it go because we both
are in familiar places.

Speaker 3 (48:14):
I know you, you know me, or the dude feel
guilty or try to love you guilt now, or.

Speaker 1 (48:19):
He feel guilty but most most men end up staying
out of familiality. Like that's the that's the We all
do this. We are creatures that have it.

Speaker 3 (48:28):
You're right, we do it.

Speaker 1 (48:32):
I already know what I'm gonna get over here. Yeah,
so it's like I'm gonna end up just staying where
I'm at, even though she gonna she's gonna get over
that ship. But like you said, a lot women, don't.
You don't get over that shit nothing. You may let
it go, but you ain't over it with him.

Speaker 3 (48:49):
You just talking about it, but you ain't letting it.

Speaker 1 (48:51):
You ain't let it go.

Speaker 3 (48:52):
Yeah, damn, that's cold.

Speaker 1 (48:56):
But I'll be trying to find like, but.

Speaker 3 (48:58):
Any person, I'm sorry to cultn't you'll but any person,
not even in relationship, any person, brother, sister. Everybody's gonna
disappoint you because you can't get you from another person,
right right, So when somebody disappoints you like you, you
ain't gonna have nobody. So what's the best what's the
best option for a man? What you think the best
option for a man? I think most especially in Atlanta,

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were gonna speak about Atlanta. I think relationship is just
a nod and void in.

Speaker 1 (49:27):
I've never I have not tried dating in Atlanta yet,
but I have heard that.

Speaker 3 (49:33):
I have heard that because you're gonna ultimately let your
girl down, then once you let her down, she gonna
let you down.

Speaker 1 (49:42):
But that I don't even think that's just in Atlanta.
I think that's just right now in this generation period,
because women aren't made the same way that your wife
is made the same way your grandma was made, and
men aren't made the same way that you need.

Speaker 3 (49:55):
Grandmama is doing what the young hole doing nothing?

Speaker 1 (49:57):
Man, right, But back then, and I'm talking about Fanny Maids, Animis, Jerdy's,
I'm talking about dogs, girl, y'all. You know, I'm talking
about dogs, grandmother Florence is and shit like my real
mom right now, that shit hit Ike and Florence. Baby,
you couldn't tell them that they wasn't the thing on
the thing and Ike was over there doing his mother.

Speaker 3 (50:17):
But that were different though, that was it.

Speaker 1 (50:19):
That's what I'm saying. It's we were different now. So
relationships in general are different. Everybody wants to know, you know,
everybody wants to feel happy. Everybody wants to feel instant gratification.
Nobody don't want to work for shit, and when shit
get hard in your relationship, or she's not acting the
same or he's not acting the same. Now all of
a sudden, you're trying to feel this void that you

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have with somebody else.

Speaker 3 (50:41):
I think, what what fucked up? Like? You're right by
we're saying is just like too much. Too many people know,
like a woman would be with you forever, however you
is don't want nobody else don't know, Like the only
reason why they get mad is somebody else knows somebody else,
Like I gotta treat you like this because I have
told my sister what you did. I told my mama,
I told this my friend. So now I gotta like,

(51:03):
I got an attitude what you were really. I really
don't even give a fuck. I know what y'all a
nigga got, but I gotta beef this way because I
don't want to feel a look stupid till some motherfucker
that's stupid.

Speaker 1 (51:16):
That's true. And on top of that, you got the
you gotta you gotta adjudge that ship based off for
the kind of man too, because bitch, if he done
made you look stupid three, four, five, six, seven, and
nineteen goddamn times. Now at this point, you gotta just
start keeping sh it to yourself because men want you
to hold they they shortfalls a secret they don't want

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nobody to know.

Speaker 3 (51:39):
But niggas do it for women like I, like I'm
gonna keep it with a honey with you unless it's
just an old bitch, you ad. Nigga like a dude
will hold everything in that he go through with this girl.
He won't even tell his friends because guess what, I
don't want y'all to look at her like that, because
I don't want y'all to know what I'm going for
just to tell a nigga tell everybody all up goodness.

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And now I gotta act a certain way when he
around you.

Speaker 1 (52:03):
That's true.

Speaker 3 (52:04):
And now I come around no, because he, bitch, don't
even like me no more. You know what I'm saying.
You know what I'm saying. But when you come around me,
my friend, still, what's up? Baby? What's up you?

Speaker 1 (52:15):
But men and women are different because I don't remember
if you said this, but we are maybe I ply
say we are emotional reachers, which means that if you
did something to me that emotion right now, I don't
really know how to. I need to talk about that shit,
and I probably gonna talk about it to whoever the
closest person is to me. I'm gonna talk about it now.
I can admit for me in my situation and my

(52:37):
relationship is some things. I just done kept that shit
to myself because I know you're going to look at
this person different. And I know I'm not done with
this nigga yet, so I don't want this to be
an awkward situation when he comes around. I know that,
but it's like little shit that that may be transpired.
I probably had something to say about it, but the

(52:57):
big shit is like, oh okay.

Speaker 3 (52:59):
But I think that I that I think that's dis
lawyer though, like you, you're paying your niggas a fuck
nigga to other people.

Speaker 1 (53:06):
But it's kind of hard to not. It's kind of
hard when certain situations transpired in front of people. Now,
motherfucker want to come and talk you. Okay, girl, say girl,
that shit ain't happened. You ain't really see what it
is that you saw. This shit happened in front of
multiple people. So now somebody come to me and they

(53:26):
asking me, well, not somebody, but if that person come
to me and asking me how you feel? Did this,
that and the third? And I have that conversation with them.

Speaker 3 (53:33):
That's this da that would that was fan that made
them just actuallyamn been fuck out my house.

Speaker 1 (53:40):
That is yeah, that's true. That's true.

Speaker 3 (53:42):
Henry Jane paying all the god damn bills and all that.
I got that business. Nah, But I ain't telling nobody
to be traditioning the Mardern world. It's a Mardern red.
But I'm just I'm just trying to We're trying to
crack the cold here. You know what I'm saying. What
I'm saying is yes, people in your business. Yeah, because
the end of the day, you get to feel how
you really want to feel.

Speaker 1 (54:03):
What's her name said? Beatty right said, don't laugh, it's
just you know me and I don't know you. You
probably did the same thing.

Speaker 3 (54:10):
Facts like, you gotta think a woman will call you,
your friend will call you and drag her nigga right
then tomorrow they back cool, they on fuck good whatever
right now and now she really don't like you because
you don't like him all I got a problem with him.

Speaker 1 (54:31):
I got a friend.

Speaker 3 (54:32):
I hate this figgure.

Speaker 1 (54:34):
I got a friend that's like, I got a friend
that's like that, and she got a friend that's like
how you describe me. I'm the friend that you gonna
call me. You're gonna talk about whatever it is you're
gonna talk about with your nigga. Girl. I can't stand
no mess child with what you're gonna do. You're gonna
say whatever you're gonna say this, that, and the third, well,
you make sure you think about it. I'm that friend.
And then she got another friend that hates his fucking

(54:57):
guts and she had she said, she told me, she said,
I had to stop talking to her about my relationship
ship because now when I'm back cool with him, go
to your point. When I'm back cool with him, she
still got a problem with him. Like, bitch, this ain't
your nigga, is my niggam.

Speaker 3 (55:12):
I'm gonna call you back. Oh, I'm gonna call you back.

Speaker 1 (55:14):
He there, I'm gonna call you back. I don't want him.

Speaker 3 (55:17):
Then, how the fuck but you created that? Though you did?
You created that At the same time, your friend ain't nothing,
but another friend is telling the other fleeend your fleeing business.
That's it, Like you put your ship on display, you know,
what I'm saying. I can see now if you broke
up with that nigga, I'm done with him. Hell Ya.

(55:38):
You can put a whole hate committed out for the nigga,
but you know you ain't done.

Speaker 1 (55:42):
You know you ain't done yet, So why is you
doing that?

Speaker 3 (55:44):
None of nigga.

Speaker 1 (55:45):
Huh, women be mad at the nigga. They're trying to
convince themselves that they are done at the time until
they get to talking to the niggas. Now they going
back to the niggas. So now you when you talk
to your homegirl, you're saying the worship, the worship you
could possibly say, you commit to her.

Speaker 3 (56:00):
This is why I'm done with this.

Speaker 1 (56:01):
So she's trying to take your side with this ship.
Would you just graduating the house? What he want to
deal with you? And actually to come back and go
out to eat back over there with her? But you
forgot to call your friend and say, nah, how bad?
I really want the phone?

Speaker 3 (56:16):
But that's confused.

Speaker 1 (56:17):
Now you be having to product, you be having to
talk through you ever had a come you ever been
mad as fuck about some shit and you called your
best friend or your mom or whoever, and she ain't
answer the phone, but then somebody else answer the phone.
You done talked about the ship, and now with your
mom or your best friend call you back. You're like, girl,
I ain't even want nothing. I ain't i aven't want
to talk no more because you already talked about it.
You done got out your aggression, this, that and the third. Okay,

(56:40):
now I'm cool talk to God that yeah, that that that.
I agree with that. But the problem with that is
a lot of people don't have a relationship with God
and they don't know when God talking back to them,
so therefore they can't hear him, and they need to
be able to hear somebody, and they flash.

Speaker 3 (56:54):
Well, I can't stand as a woman thinking that a
man is like a woman, Like just say, Vincent, just
because you gotta talk to somebody about what's going on,
they don't mean I have to talk nobody about that,
like you could think, like because me and you into
it the erabouty know it, ain't nobody know shit, bitch,
I ain't even he talking about Dad. I'm regular no

(57:14):
real shit, Like what the fuck? Like what that shit
makes you a whole like makes you a whole ass
nigga that you you sitting around just talking about some
shit that you ain't evenna walk away from that show
you you lack control, That's true, you know what I'm saying.
Like that makes people that's around you can't trust you broken,
You don't even how to make a decision. So I'm
sitting around saying, I don't know what my nerd nigga

(57:37):
looking like. Man, I can't do no betting with this nigga.
He can't even control this bitch or he can't even
control his emotion. He letting this shit affect him. Am
I tripping or not?

Speaker 1 (57:48):
You ain't tripping? You right, You're right when you weren't.

Speaker 3 (57:50):
Saying that a woman no their characteristic, So they'll try
to put that off on you. You know what I'm saying.
They come around like just say if inncent Gve me
and U was in a relationship and were getting to
it or whatever, and we ain't talking a couple of days,
then I bring you back around. You're looking at everybody
funny because you think they know ef I don't know.

Speaker 1 (58:10):
It depends on the kind of nigga that you're dealing with,
Like the nigga that I deal I know for a fact, whatever,
whatever the fuck happened, regardless of whether it was Nigga
it was him. Don't nobody know. If somebody know, that's
probably because I don't win and told them thank you.
But I don't be doing that so because I want
to be able. That's why I don't do all that
social media shit when shit going. I want to be

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able to go back to my nigga in peace.

Speaker 3 (58:32):
Only exactly all the time. Only time a nigga, a
nigga got a really having its heart, I'm done with
that bitch. For a nigga to say what it is like,
I ain't for with who because of this Other than that,
a nigga gonna, god damn try to hide because I
don't want you to know how much of it to suck.
I am for this over am my tripper. When you right,

(58:55):
you're right, nigga will be like, oh no, my boom,
we're go.

Speaker 1 (59:03):
Lie like the motherfucker ain't going.

Speaker 3 (59:05):
Nowhere lying for the bitch. No, that's a good one, brother,
Nigga better get you one like nigga know, man, I
really I hate this bitch.

Speaker 2 (59:11):
Bro.

Speaker 3 (59:12):
He didn't mind, but I can't say that to another
man or to another woman. I can't say that because
at the end of the day, I know these are
just untreated emotions I'm going through right now. I know
I love this bitch, I know this ship. Were just
going through something. Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (59:28):
You ain't say no mess. That's why relationships is not
for the week.

Speaker 3 (59:39):
I just feel like relationships ain't for everybody.

Speaker 1 (59:41):
No, it's not. That's why everybody not ship. That's why
everybody fucking around, everybody doing the ship that they're doing.

Speaker 3 (59:47):
Lationships ain't for everybody. This ship for for people that shit,
I don't know. Man, like you gotta be happy. Man,
you gotta be all the way happy with yourself before
you can be in a relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:00:02):
I can agree with that.

Speaker 3 (01:00:03):
You know, you can't be broken in trying to be
another broken motherfucker, or be fixed and try to be
a broken motherfucker. It ain't gonna work. Y'all got all
meeting in the up. Shall use a whole? I was
a whole. Let's just figure this ship out. You know
what I'm saying. I'm done with all this bullship. You ready?
You don't ready to look at it? You know what
I'm saying. Now we can be honest about everything, last

(01:00:25):
about the past. We can last, we can. You know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:00:27):
That was as I was just saying earlier about honesty,
that ship takes relationships a long way. I'm not saying you.

Speaker 3 (01:00:35):
Can't tell this bitch, don't tell me the wrong ship.

Speaker 1 (01:00:40):
Like I'm just saying, like certain ship, you you keep
to yourself. Yeah you got a train ran.

Speaker 3 (01:00:46):
On you that you did. Huh. You know what, Although
we come.

Speaker 1 (01:00:59):
With relationships, I feel like it's gotta be a level
of honesty that's there for y'all to be able to
really like work through y'all ship. So people can't be
able to come in and just say certain ship and
he may feel this true or she may feelish true
because we damn the talk about a lot of shit.

Speaker 3 (01:01:16):
No, I think. I think though for real ones, you
get your your person that you fuck with though ain't nothing,
You ain't nothing. You're supposed to be a shamed though.
Like it is what it is, what it is, It
is how it go and go, nigga, Really it is
what it is. You know what I'm saying. All Right,
that's the word. With a word, I'm gonna say a word.
You say the first word come to your head. Ready.

Speaker 1 (01:01:36):
I think infidelity, niggas, damn dating, terrible proposal mm hmm
far fetched.

Speaker 3 (01:01:53):
For a play limited damn satisfication.

Speaker 1 (01:02:05):
Mm hmmm, fuck satisfication.

Speaker 3 (01:02:10):
Yourself, fantasies, a plane, turn offs, a liar, chemistry, loving.

Speaker 1 (01:02:29):
D ms, stay out.

Speaker 3 (01:02:33):
Past codes, Give it here, h possessive, I am revenge,
revenge not needed, confrontation, not at all, sugar dad, chill, allowance,

(01:03:08):
give it up and that's your freedom. Give it here, security,
give it here first, love all man, baby dad, damn

(01:03:30):
unfinished business done, moving on, not sure healing, doing it
perspective mm hmmm.

Speaker 1 (01:03:47):
Different.

Speaker 3 (01:03:49):
Okay, all right, So what kind of books you read?
I do the book of the week. No, perlet me
see what what? Uh? What? What words stuck out the most?
Which one it was? Possessions, possessive, possessive?

Speaker 1 (01:04:04):
That's stake out to you. Yeah, yeah, because you answered it.

Speaker 3 (01:04:08):
What you think may make people possessive of other people?

Speaker 1 (01:04:13):
Good qualities, good attributes that you don't find a lot
of people you want to kind of hold that close
and dear to you.

Speaker 3 (01:04:20):
Yeah. So what books you read? Books?

Speaker 1 (01:04:24):
I do?

Speaker 3 (01:04:24):
What book are you read right now? I'm gonna let
you pack the book of the week.

Speaker 1 (01:04:28):
I am reading. Ah, dang, I'm pretty sure you're familiar
with Scheyenne Bryant.

Speaker 3 (01:04:35):
Who that writer?

Speaker 1 (01:04:38):
Uh no, Nick? Oh oh yeah ye yeah, yeah yeah,
I'm reading her book.

Speaker 3 (01:04:45):
Oh what is it? Lifebook?

Speaker 1 (01:04:47):
Yes, lifebook. It's like self help books. It's called Mental
de Talks.

Speaker 3 (01:04:51):
Okay, good, yeah, for sure you listen. Are you reading?

Speaker 1 (01:04:55):
No, I'm gonna read. I gotta physically have it highlighting
ship writing stuff down. I'm one of those people. The
week is Mental Detalks by Shy and right.

Speaker 3 (01:05:06):
That's dope. So what's next for honey?

Speaker 1 (01:05:09):
What is next for honey? I am actually going to
start back podcasting because I have not been doing that
because I've been on my mental detalk shit and just
really pushing seriously this guided for sure? For sure?

Speaker 3 (01:05:23):
Or do you have? Guess? It's just you just.

Speaker 1 (01:05:26):
Because where we act we don't because it's like in
the studio at the house this that the third So
we don't. But we want to have guests.

Speaker 3 (01:05:34):
Why don't you do them like remote?

Speaker 1 (01:05:35):
Like it just don't hit the same, Yeah, you don't
hit if you If I do a remote guess it's
like somebody that I just can't possibly get in the
same room with at that moment of time, our schedules
is like completing. But most of the time I want
to be able to be face to face. It just
hits completely different. You can really feel the vibe, you know.

Speaker 3 (01:05:55):
On your healing journey. What's your biggest struggle?

Speaker 1 (01:05:59):
Boundaries? Boundaries? That's my biggest shop.

Speaker 3 (01:06:02):
Oh you think you're people pleasing?

Speaker 1 (01:06:04):
I am definitely a people is just people. I'm aquarius,
aquer Yeah, for sure. People that's like close to me
that I I you know, I don't want to lose
and part of seting boundaries that you're gonna end up
losing people because of the boundary that you said.

Speaker 3 (01:06:18):
In facts going on. I'm a Gemini, so we both
what that means. Gemini spot to be Homeboys, homegirl.

Speaker 1 (01:06:29):
I don't know. I don't know liberals, right, I don't
know why Gemini.

Speaker 3 (01:06:37):
I'm saying, what the problem is? What's up?

Speaker 1 (01:06:39):
I don't I don't really. I don't really fallow too
far into the whole sign thing. I just know like
how people are and then it just so happens that
they are geminized.

Speaker 3 (01:06:49):
Oh my god, how.

Speaker 1 (01:06:53):
For real?

Speaker 3 (01:06:54):
How what they want you to do?

Speaker 1 (01:06:57):
What you can't have no rebuttal of nothing. What I
say is what I say. They want you to do
what they want you to do when they want you
to do it. They are up and down. They I
might feel this way today, I might feel this way
later today, and I might want you to leave me
to fuck alone just right now. I'm talking to you.
Believe me to fuck alone right now, even though I'm

(01:07:19):
in the conversation with you, bitch le Malone. They just
they real touchy, like you really don't know what you're
gonna get with a Gemini. And two of my sisters
are Gemini's. I got a my brother bab Mama Gemini,
my peoples is a Gemini, is like three other people
that I know Geminis, and they are all like right,

(01:07:41):
and it's like you don't never know what you gonna
get with them. They like box the chocolates you like,
and you gotta like really like you gotta walk light
like for real free, you gotta walk like because any
little thing of set them cleaning the fuck off like
this shit is crazy. And I don't follow. I don't
do all that because my aquariusessm that ain't a word,

(01:08:04):
but me being Aquarius is completely different from other aquariuses.

Speaker 3 (01:08:07):
That I said all Geminis are the same and say
that I'm just saying most of them that you meant.

Speaker 1 (01:08:11):
I didn't that the ones I know, but you're a Gemini.
I don't know you on a person.

Speaker 3 (01:08:18):
To one, Oh I did.

Speaker 1 (01:08:20):
Well, there you go, right.

Speaker 3 (01:08:21):
I ain't gonna run from it at me. I don't
even know who the some daby.

Speaker 1 (01:08:27):
So it'd be like, how can you now try to
be with somebody that don't know what the fuck? I
need to really have a sit down with your wife,
like at this point we need to talk, because that's
a real understanding for try is he mm hmm.

Speaker 3 (01:08:44):
But all you have to do. I can tell you
what to do, what you do.

Speaker 1 (01:08:50):
Listen, Oh, when they talk, when they want to talk,
Listen to when they want to talk, when they guess
what they're saying.

Speaker 3 (01:08:59):
You're not under standing what I'm saying. Let me finished,
Let me finish.

Speaker 1 (01:09:03):
When they when they talk, they He's gonna tell me
this the words.

Speaker 3 (01:09:08):
Don't listen to the words. Listen listen to the aura.
Who son, listen to the aura. Listen to the aura.
But I'm gonna keep it one hundred with you, though
even though them folks is wish you wash it down
the motherfucker. Mm hmm, even though we wish you wash

(01:09:33):
it on the motherfucker. One of them is retarded, the
other them is crazy, right, but both of them slid.

Speaker 1 (01:09:40):
That is a true statement.

Speaker 3 (01:09:42):
That is a true statement, and both of them will
hold you down, give fun. I'm gonna cush you out,
but I'm still gonna do it. That's with you one
hundred percent. Which if I don't fuck with you, you
know I don't fuck with your period.

Speaker 1 (01:09:53):
That's true.

Speaker 3 (01:09:54):
So that's what I'm saying, Like were the bed son,
It's just a little bit. It takes certain picture.

Speaker 1 (01:10:02):
Takes a lot of work to be able to deal.
You know what it takes. It takes a lot of
chatience and understanding.

Speaker 3 (01:10:09):
It takes that. It takes that it takes to know
that these people are battling with theirselves because they can
see like I can see everybody. That's why this is perspectives,
because I can I can see why you feel how
you feel. I can see why she feel how she feel.
I see why she feels how she feel, And everybody
can be right wrong, I have different feelings and be

(01:10:29):
right at the same time, and so that makes that
makes it that makes me battle with myself because I
can be dead ass right and wrong at the same
time and you can too, and I know that. So
I'm gonna be going back and forth like like I
asked him a hundred times, what you thinking about this? Noah,
hell and do the opposite because you could be right
but wrong and it'll work both ways. But it's how

(01:10:53):
I felt on which one that I felt right right?
But dude, it's the most caring Winnie Careen.

Speaker 1 (01:11:04):
Mm hmm right, Winnie Karen.

Speaker 3 (01:11:07):
But what I'm saying, Nigga, ain't gonna never leave you
for dead, no matter what how bad I am. I
can say bitch, fuck you and still you gonna get
that changing to your phone. If I said I'm gonna
do something, I'm gonna do it, huh, No matter what

(01:11:28):
it is. I'm a juster driving me. If I say
I'm gonna do something, I'm gonna do it no matter what.
If I commit to something, no matter what position we in,
I'm still gonna do what I said I was gonna
do unless it's fucking. If it's fuck, it's fuck you
all the way. But if if I said Okay, I
bought your car. I bought it, you know what I'm saying.

(01:11:51):
But they got a cotonoat. If we split up, I'm
gonna still pay the carconoe until again. I'm not finna
fuck your name. Huh. I'm still gonna do the shit
like I said, I'm gonna do It'm do it. I
might just gonna pay it off just so I can
go and stop talking to you. Whatever I can go,
you know what I'm saying. Whatever, I'm gonna stand on
what I said, I'm gonna do. Like you don't meet
them kind of people. Am I tripping?

Speaker 1 (01:12:15):
You ain't tripping? You absolutely right? You you are, absolutely.

Speaker 3 (01:12:18):
But it doesn't count for something it do it do
so he ain't really did nothing wrong. Whatever ship you
tripping on? You just tripping. This is a one of
a kind. Nigga Everagen, every gemin now you know it's
one of a kind.

Speaker 1 (01:12:32):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 3 (01:12:33):
And they stand out Prince Tupac, Trump, Kanye, all these
people stand out people. Am I tripping? They want of
a kind? Nobody even sound like us? Like nobody voice?

(01:12:54):
You ever heard sound like my voice? Nobody's voice? You
ever heard sound like clean? You? Nobody voice you ever
heard sound like trump like we're creatures.

Speaker 1 (01:13:03):
All I know is coming y'all are definitely special creatures,
and y'all are. I'm not speaking for all geminis, but
I'm just the ones I done dealt with which I'm right,
You wrong? You shut up? I am talking, and that

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is an attribute that is.

Speaker 3 (01:13:27):
But I'm gonna show you something that's just in the moment,
because you could be right and when I process, I
may and I'm gonna come tell you you you were right? Right?

Speaker 1 (01:13:40):
WHOA?

Speaker 3 (01:13:44):
But y'all them up for who talking ain't never been right.
So these niggas ain't never been right.

Speaker 1 (01:13:52):
I've been right a couple of times.

Speaker 3 (01:13:54):
De nigga ain't never been right. Shut of court, ain't
never been right in their life. So I ain't talking
about talking about like some real ship. Broah.

Speaker 1 (01:14:06):
I don't know. I just feel like I just feel
like geminized are some draining ads people.

Speaker 3 (01:14:11):
It is. I can see how it's draining.

Speaker 1 (01:14:13):
It's because it's so many different and right, and it's
like you're trying to peel them back and you're trying
to understand them and you're trying to listen and you're
trying this and you try to that and it be like.

Speaker 3 (01:14:25):
And niggas think you sposed to be over shipped like soon.
I just crusted you out ten minutes ago.

Speaker 1 (01:14:30):
Regular you just caught my phone and said you it's
getting to a point like you need to chill, like
when I I'm chill.

Speaker 3 (01:14:42):
But the thing about it is is it's so hard
to disconnect from us.

Speaker 1 (01:14:48):
What are what are?

Speaker 3 (01:14:48):
What?

Speaker 1 (01:14:48):
What? What are Aquarius? Like water signs or something like that.

Speaker 3 (01:14:51):
I think, yeah, Aquarius, queer Gemini leaving?

Speaker 1 (01:14:57):
Oh where airtimes are?

Speaker 3 (01:14:59):
Ain't I think it's air sign? Yeah, but let me
let me ask you some Let me tell you something though,
before you get out of here. And this from a man, you.

Speaker 1 (01:15:07):
Know what I'm saying that Gemini.

Speaker 3 (01:15:10):
Yeah, and you should never teld me that they's a
man at the end, he can't do nothing wrong none
at the end of the day, No matter what, we
are the most missed people on earth. Once you have
a Gemini in your life, when they're no longer in

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your life no more, you're gonna miss them forever, no
matter whether they could be friend, brother, sister, cousin, family member, whatever,
because they the life of the party. Hold look cold on.
Let me, Let me cook, Let me cook, Let him cook.
They the life of the party that makes you feel

(01:15:53):
more special than you even as a friend. They're your
biggest cheerleader, from which you're on which you can't do
no wrong unless it's against me. Am I right or wrong? Now?
Please be honest. You can't do anything. I'm always on
your side unless it's me and you at it.

Speaker 1 (01:16:14):
Oh, yeah, that's true. Huh, that's true.

Speaker 3 (01:16:18):
I take your side one unless it's against me. What's up? Pe?
What up? Twin? What? I don't even know?

Speaker 1 (01:16:29):
Your name started with a P.

Speaker 3 (01:16:31):
What's up? Twin?

Speaker 1 (01:16:33):
He said, I should have never told him you was
a Gemini and that that's my boy right now. He
can't do nothing wrong.

Speaker 3 (01:16:41):
We twin? Man, we gotta come on here, man, so
we can figure this out. Man.

Speaker 4 (01:16:45):
Man, look, I'm a person.

Speaker 3 (01:16:47):
I'ma just come sit down when you consist. I've been
here til you like. Yeah, put it by the mic.
We went to uh where the fuck? We went to
this club?

Speaker 4 (01:17:01):
But it was just y'all had so many other duck
posters around. And look this me back then street nigga
from Cincinnati. MANU these niggas with all this duck shit, Man,
I ain't really I don't really like how that's feeling.

Speaker 3 (01:17:12):
Ron.

Speaker 4 (01:17:12):
It look a little different, But yeah, I was just
telling her, you know, we've been having some conversations and
ship and you know I'm getting older, but I respect
your relationship and how you curse you and ship that
you be saying. I be really feeling like you understand
like I do.

Speaker 3 (01:17:30):
I do well. I just told her she ain't gonna
find another you, Bro. It ain't no another nigga like this.
What about it? O me?

Speaker 1 (01:17:47):
It's plenty of you men. It's plenty of y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:17:53):
Know that. That's how Hey, I'm gonna tell her to
put us on group to BRO.

Speaker 4 (01:17:58):
Yeah, for sure, I told her. Look, I told her, Man,
I can't be going therapy with.

Speaker 3 (01:18:05):
No past or nothing.

Speaker 1 (01:18:06):
Man, I don't know nothing.

Speaker 3 (01:18:08):
About what I've been through.

Speaker 1 (01:18:08):
Man.

Speaker 3 (01:18:09):
No, we both goe with BRO. We both count I
told her, Bro, we could be on and off, but
one thing about it, the Lord is gonna be one hundred.
That's the same.

Speaker 4 (01:18:17):
I ain't gonna never I ain't gonna never let you
down with what I supposed to do.

Speaker 1 (01:18:22):
I might then I just say that I that I
ain't say nothing I ain't had nothing to say when
he said live, just sat down. Guess what.

Speaker 4 (01:18:32):
Look, I ain't gonna never I ain't gonna never fuck
you over on it. I ain't gonna I ain't no
sucker nigga. Take my TVs back, we.

Speaker 1 (01:18:39):
Get it to all.

Speaker 3 (01:18:40):
Bro, Come on, I'm mad at you.

Speaker 1 (01:18:43):
So I ain't sent I ain't sent a few money.

Speaker 3 (01:18:46):
Bro, I just said that that nigga. That nigga was
what the phone on. I just said. Listen, bro, the
only thing people get mad at us about is how
we are as as how we are, not what we've
done to you. Whatever I did to make you mad,
it was for.

Speaker 1 (01:19:01):
Me, and I'm just I just steel like I don't
give it. Sometimes. I just feel like that when I
wake up.

Speaker 4 (01:19:08):
It don't got nothing to do with nobody.

Speaker 1 (01:19:12):
I just don't. I don't.

Speaker 3 (01:19:14):
We're doing this ship. Hey, we're doing this ship that much? Bro?

Speaker 1 (01:19:17):
Imkay I try.

Speaker 4 (01:19:18):
I'm checking in my room.

Speaker 1 (01:19:19):
My phone was dead. I was on the phone with
me all right.

Speaker 3 (01:19:25):
Later, and every time we talked to were gonna make
sure you know I love you. That's gonna be the
last words. You're gonna know that I love you. So
if anything happened last thing you heard, last thing that
nigga right there on there wha I heard would love you, bro.
I'm just being one hung up man, Hey, twell, tell
you four will to find you at I'm gonna get
twin on them. Motherfucker. We could have cut up.

Speaker 1 (01:19:48):
I don't even know why I did that. I don't
know why I did that, but.

Speaker 3 (01:19:53):
You know he's just a proved a point though. Am
I right or wrong? Though? Shot that?

Speaker 1 (01:19:59):
But that's why I just you. Did you hear me
say anything when he was over that talk when he
was cooking? You hurt me say anything?

Speaker 3 (01:20:06):
Let him cook. But y'all go deal with certain nigga
that leave you for dead. I know you don't deal
old nigga leave for dead like oh oh, he said
he wanted to Hey partner called by my mama off.
You know, hey man, he follow honey man, make sure

(01:20:31):
y'all tell him whe to follow you a.

Speaker 1 (01:20:32):
Y'all can find me on social media. Honey, underscore underscore
h U n N.

Speaker 3 (01:20:37):
Why you're looking stretched up?

Speaker 1 (01:20:42):
It's so crazy because y'all don't know. I've been takes,
but we've been had this whole conversation.

Speaker 3 (01:20:48):
Did well we was.

Speaker 1 (01:20:50):
Child, we was going through it. Whenever reached out to him,
and he was busy doing all the ship that he
got going on whatever whatever whatever. I was dealing with that,
and he was saying the exactly, but he just said,
he don't want to go sit down with a pastor
and this that and so, because I don't know my
mother fucking street niggas that I would want to go,
not street.

Speaker 3 (01:21:10):
But you're gonna gonna that's gonna be to to to
to again one.

Speaker 1 (01:21:15):
But that's but that and that, that's what he That's
what when I reached out of you and I told
him I reached out to you, he was like, I
don't know why you reached out to him, because it
ain't gonna go in your favor because it's.

Speaker 4 (01:21:31):
You.

Speaker 3 (01:21:32):
That's basically what he said.

Speaker 1 (01:21:33):
But I'm not like when it comes down to me
and who I am as a person, like I try
to understand different perspectives on why people feel the way
that they feel.

Speaker 3 (01:21:46):
But I'm gonna telling what you should leave here with
before we get out of here, because we got another
one coming in. You should leave it here. You can't
take it personally because you just seen that whoever he's
being I justsrip, but I just destrived it before he
even caught. So that's not a personal attack on you
that that's who he is. I just described who I
am and I never met this dude. I just described

(01:22:08):
him to you, So it's not personal. So everything you're
taking personal is not personal. Like what you take personally
is when a person go back on their word. A
nigga ain't going back on his word if he did
something within hisself that didn't have nothing to do with you.
That's like if I wake up moody or whatever the fuck,
which I don't like that word. It sounds like a
nigga you a bit, like should I take me like
you moody? I think like that sounds like you call

(01:22:29):
it a little bit, but it's all. It's all you
got a little tune. Yeah, like damn, turn it down,
pull your skirt down, sound like that sounded like that,
but you moody, moody. That's a bit. But at the
end of the day, you can't just take it literally
a person, because at the end of the day, it

(01:22:50):
all come back to some solid shit. With that dude.
You gotta be a therapist. It's freak it's everything. You
have to be everything. You really have to pour into
this guy. You have to you have to fill him
up because we drain ourselves every day through our thoughts,

(01:23:13):
so you gotta make sure he full. So you gotta
go find a scream. You gotta go get baptized and
all that. You gotta go find a strip. You gotta
go find a stripp water, go get some healing. Keep
working on yourself so you can work on this guy too,
because he gonna forever need that. Basically, y'all likes to

(01:23:34):
strive and come into the Big Fat Network.

Speaker 1 (01:23:37):
It was It was a baptize for me.

Speaker 3 (01:23:39):
Okay, go ahead, make sure y'all likes to strive and
come into the Big Fat Network. Hone. I appreciate you
coming through. Tell my twin pull up, put us on
group tick. It was fun and were gonna cut up
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