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June 16, 2025 69 mins

Big Bank sits down for an inspiring and unfiltered conversation with one half of the Pour Minds podcast, Lex P, to talk about building a platform rooted in honesty, humor, and evolution. She discusses overcoming personal struggles, staying authentic in the entertainment industry, and navigating life as a Black woman in media. Lex P also shares how the show’s topics have grown alongside their own personal development, and how confidence, purpose, and connection with their audience remain at the core of the work. This episode also explores love, friendships, setting boundaries, and the power of laughter as a tool for healing. With transparency and intention, they highlight how love and purpose shift with age—and why supporting one another is essential for growth. Tune in and join the conversation in the socials below.

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
It gets no better than this. You are now in
June respectives with the big bang.

Speaker 2 (00:10):
Let's get straight to it.

Speaker 3 (00:11):
Every day I thank God that I'm the blessing on
my ancestor wildest dream. Welcome to perspective of Bank Today.
I got my dog with me. Yeah, the big homie.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
You know it?

Speaker 4 (00:25):
How you doing next? Pit up? I'm so excited to
be here.

Speaker 2 (00:29):
I'm excited to have you here now.

Speaker 4 (00:30):
You know, when you first started this show and I
was seeing the clips and stuff and I watched a
few episodes, I was like, I cannot believe Bank has
not asked me to come on.

Speaker 2 (00:38):
Get it together Okay, Because I.

Speaker 5 (00:40):
Was like, excuse because I see my girl Brianna.

Speaker 2 (00:43):
Had came on here.

Speaker 4 (00:45):
Yes, I love her down but I was like, oh,
when is it gonna be my turn? So I'm super
excited to be here, So thank you for having How
you been, you know, honestly, I can't even lie. I
have been really busy and blessed, like so much has
been going on with poor mine. We just had travel
Queens come out on bet Her. I have Love lexp

(01:05):
another show that I launched on YouTube. We're working the
media room for BT Awards like it's just a lot
of stuff going on, so thank you. You know what's crazy,
I felt like I was going through a really bad
funk like I always do that, like around the holidays,
cause I lost my mom in twenty twenty two, so

(01:26):
holidays are very different for me.

Speaker 5 (01:28):
So I was like in a bit of a funk.

Speaker 4 (01:31):
And I think one thing that's hard for especially like
entrepreneurs or people who don't have a regular nine to
five is like, you know, every day we wake up,
we kind of get a choice of what we get
to do with our days. So I found myself just
kind of waking up and staying in the bed. So
for me, it's important that I stay on my routine
of like working out, you know, doing my skincare, doing

(01:53):
little things like that. So I was in a little
funk like around Christmas time. But like I feel like
I'm a lot better now. I'm better when I'm working,
Like that's what makes me happy.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
Okay, now about to ask you what some things you
do to stay so you just consistently stay busy.

Speaker 4 (02:05):
Yes, Like it's so like it's something so simple and crazy,
but like I'm super into my skin So I knew
when I.

Speaker 5 (02:11):
Stopped doing my skincare.

Speaker 4 (02:13):
I'm like, okay, girl, you need to get out the
bed falling off, yes, because I'm like waking up, I
got pimples on my forehead.

Speaker 5 (02:18):
I'm just stressed out.

Speaker 4 (02:19):
So something as small as like doing my skincare is
like me time. So when I started doing my skincare again,
I was like, okay, let me go back to the gym.
And I lost thirty pounds recently, so I was like
back eating healthy, back.

Speaker 2 (02:32):
Going to the gym.

Speaker 5 (02:33):
So just little stuff to make myself feel like me.

Speaker 3 (02:36):
Well, no, it's dope. Let's get right into it. What
inspires you to be a podcaster? You how to pour
mind start.

Speaker 4 (02:43):
It's so crazy because when I Draa moved to Atlanta first,
that's my co host for y'all.

Speaker 2 (02:49):
Wo don't know.

Speaker 4 (02:50):
Draa moves to Atlanta first, and she was like, girl,
you just need to move out here. You're not doing nothing.
I had graduated college and I wasn't doing anything.

Speaker 5 (02:57):
So when I moved out here, me and Dre had
started a YouTube channel.

Speaker 4 (03:01):
So if you go to our same YouTube channel, look
at our old videos. We was on there doing like
skincare stuff, cooking, just doing anything but my ex at
the time, he was like, man, you Andrea's conversations are
so unhinged. Y'all need to do like something called like
wind down Wednesday.

Speaker 2 (03:17):
He didn't say the word unhinged.

Speaker 1 (03:19):
He did.

Speaker 4 (03:20):
He was like, well, maybe it's crazy or something like that,
but it was something of y'all stupid, y'all bothfuck's done.
You know what I'm saying, because I think like when
it's hard to say that though, because everybody feels like, oh,
I need to have a podcast.

Speaker 5 (03:35):
But it was like every.

Speaker 4 (03:36):
Time we would go anywhere, I mean, we're in the club,
a lounge, a house party, me and Dress start talking
and people just gather around us and just listen. So
he was like, start something called like wind down Wednesday.
Y'all just drinking wine and talking. So it was like, okay,
we might as well just try it, and it just stuck.
Like we stopped doing all of our other YouTube videos
and we just kept doing wine down Wednesday. And when

(03:59):
we linked up with Scream, Scream was the one who
told us. He was like, wind down Wednesday is too generic.
If you hashtag wind down Wednesday, so much stuff is
gonna come up. Y'all need a name that's unique to y'all,
so shout out to scream. He told us to change
our name. We changed it to poor Minds.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
Yeah yeah, he got me in the punka.

Speaker 6 (04:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (04:16):
So y'all, y'all vts now you know that right? You
know what?

Speaker 5 (04:20):
We did say that the other day. I feel like
we are kind of.

Speaker 2 (04:24):
Because it's like y'all came in the game.

Speaker 3 (04:28):
Like I think we came in like a year, like
the same year, but it's like we came in before
it was everybody trying to be a podcast.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (04:37):
For sure, as would make us, I guess, stand out
or be able to be like organic or arthentic.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
Cause it's like you could see the growth of Poor Minds.

Speaker 3 (04:46):
You could see it was just y'all a little small
table first, just y'all too. Now y'all in the big
Bush studio. You know what I'm saying, lick healing the show,
selling out shit there? Well, yeah, like, how how important
do you think it is to just stay you?

Speaker 4 (05:04):
So it's crazy because I think podcasting, first of all,
has been going on for since like two thousand and seven.

Speaker 2 (05:13):
We are late to it.

Speaker 5 (05:15):
And when I say we, I mean like black media is.

Speaker 4 (05:17):
And I think that when podcasting really started booming, we
kind of hopped on it at that time, but it
was like Joe and then Joe Budden had been doing it,
like those people, like in New York. They had been podcasting,
but it wasn't like so much popular like in the South.

Speaker 5 (05:33):
So when we hopped.

Speaker 4 (05:34):
On it, we didn't have anybody to look at, so
we were just kind of winging it, like we don't
know what we're doing.

Speaker 5 (05:40):
Horrible Decisions was extremely popular.

Speaker 4 (05:42):
Cocktails, you know, we have people that we could kind
of see what they were doing, but we didn't. They
were sex based podcasts, and we didn't want to have
a sex based podcast. So at the time, we were
just like, well, let's just talk and let's just do
what we do, so we didn't have anybody to necessarily
copy off of.

Speaker 5 (05:59):
I think now people.

Speaker 4 (06:02):
Are seeing what goes viral, they're seeing what makes people react,
so they're like, oh, they talked about this, I'm gonna
talk about it too. We didn't have that, so I
don't know how to do anything but be me, because
that's what worked. If I try to look at somebody
else and see what they're doing, it's not gonna work
for me. So I think that's what motivates me. Being
myself literally saved my life. Like I was broke, Like

(06:24):
when I moved to Atlanta, I literally had no money.
So like just being me, and I think I used
to be scared to be myself just because I'm very loud.
I have a very loud voice. I laugh loud, I
talk loud, I walk loud everything. But I you know,
but I had to embrace that. I think whenever Poor
Mind started and I realized there's a lot of women
out there like me, people try to make it feel like, Okay,

(06:46):
you're a black woman, calm down, be like it's like no,
unapologetically be yourself because being myself got.

Speaker 5 (06:52):
Me here, you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (06:53):
Fact now, I remember in La y'all remember I recording y'all.

Speaker 2 (06:59):
Like that everywhere?

Speaker 5 (07:00):
Yeah, so it's like you saw that.

Speaker 2 (07:03):
But that's why y'all see, that's why y'all live shows
go so crazy. Oh, y'all really.

Speaker 3 (07:07):
Be partying on stage off the time, you know what
I'm saying. So so I think and message to anybody
out there feeling like you gotta be somebody else man,
being yourself you never run out of content.

Speaker 4 (07:17):
Yeah, I think a lot of times I'm starting to
see more. And I'm not saying me and Drea invented
two best friends having a podcast. It's not what I'm saying,
but I do kind of see like people will send
me they.

Speaker 5 (07:29):
Podcast be like, oh, Les, can you watch it? Can
you check it out for me?

Speaker 4 (07:31):
And I do because I don't mind, you know, helping people,
giving them a tip or two something like that. But
I do notice that I'll see somebody like trying to
talk like Drea or trying to say.

Speaker 2 (07:42):
Things like me or remix it a little bit.

Speaker 4 (07:45):
This is not gonna work because I see what you're doing,
but it doesn't come off authentic.

Speaker 3 (07:50):
Like but do you do you do you take that
as do you be flattered up when you see that
or you get upset?

Speaker 5 (07:55):
I don't get upset because I get it.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
Though.

Speaker 5 (07:57):
It's like if.

Speaker 4 (07:57):
You if you see somebody who is rapping, like when
Young Thug came out rapping, he had everybody rapping like
that because it was working for him, you know. But
I think with podcasting it's a little different because you
are gonna regurgitate the same information that somebody already said,
So if somebody is tuning into bank, it's because they
want to hear what bank has to stay about this,

(08:19):
like we have heard everybody talk about I don't know
Will Smith slapping Chris Rock, but they're coming to you
because they want to hear what bank.

Speaker 5 (08:25):
Has Your perspective period perfect, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (08:30):
So I think being yourself and just standing on your
own too is what's really pot To start a podcast
in twenty twenty five would be so hard right now,
but it's possible, and I'm seeing people.

Speaker 5 (08:43):
We just had a podcast.

Speaker 4 (08:44):
Come on Poor Mindes yesterday, Crash Dummies, and they said
they started their podcast like in twenty twenty one, twenty two,
So that was like after the wave of like covid
and people starting podcasts. But they're so successful now because
they just do them. They do themselves. I think the
relationship battle of the sexiest topics that it's.

Speaker 2 (09:03):
Run to the ground. Really no more you can say
about it.

Speaker 5 (09:08):
What else do y'all want to say?

Speaker 4 (09:09):
Spit rent, don't spit rent, sign the prenup, don't just
do what works for you. We have ran the relationship
topics in the ground, and I think we still touch
on it in Poor Minds, but it was like two
years ago. Me and Dred sat down were like, this
shit is gonna run dry, and we were like, we
have to pivot and we completely rebranded people.

Speaker 5 (09:27):
If you watch Poor Minds in the beginning, that's all
we used to talk about.

Speaker 4 (09:31):
Oh, get girl, find you a BDB, find you a
man's gonna fly you up, a big, big baller. So
that's what we used to talk about. Because girls was
not talking about that bank. They were scared to be like, yeah,
a nigga gotta fly me out, it gotta take me shopping.
But we were young then, so it was cute, it
was fun. It was like riskay. The guys didn't know

(09:52):
how to react to it. It was different at the time.
Then we start talking about relationship stuff and oh are
you splitting rent with your man? Are you signing the
premum up? How much is too much for a first
date spending?

Speaker 5 (10:03):
You know. It was interesting at.

Speaker 4 (10:04):
That time, but now everybody talking about the same topics.
So we're like, okay, we really got a pivot.

Speaker 2 (10:11):
Get redundant.

Speaker 4 (10:12):
Yes, and we completely we did like a secret rebrand.
I don't like the idea of like going blank and
then just popping out with a whole new rebrand.

Speaker 2 (10:22):
I think it's easy to rebrand when you just.

Speaker 5 (10:24):
Kind of.

Speaker 4 (10:27):
Yeah, yeah, we definitely one hundred percent did that, Like.

Speaker 2 (10:29):
Oh no, you could.

Speaker 3 (10:30):
You could definitely see just you know what I'm saying.
Every I think, every year, every every month, every episode
is just you know what I'm saying. You can see,
y'all shit study climbing. You know, some people get here
and just coast every You could just see this what
I'm saying with y'all.

Speaker 4 (10:45):
And I think with now us doing TV, we've made
that crossover that doesn't happen a lot in the podcast
where it's only a handful of podcasters who have made
that transition into TV. So I think with us having
a show based around our friendship, and it has nothing
to do with podcasting, we're traveling, we're eating, you know,
we're showing people where to go, black women and black

(11:06):
men where to go whenever you travel. It's completely different
from poor minds. So the fact that we've done that
too is like, Okay, we got something.

Speaker 2 (11:17):
How do y'all keep the balance though, Like, how do
y'all not butt his as friends?

Speaker 4 (11:20):
You know what's crazy? Because me and Dre used to
butt heads a lot in the beginning. I think, now
I'm not gonna watee you if I'm being honest, We're
grown now. I'm thirty five, she's thirty four. So one,
we don't have nothing to fight about. We've grown, we
got life going on, and two we make money. What
is that?

Speaker 5 (11:37):
Life is good?

Speaker 4 (11:38):
If I'm being honest, Like, I don't want to seem
like materialistic.

Speaker 5 (11:42):
But when you stress and rent dow you, I ain't
trying to hit that mess.

Speaker 2 (11:47):
You don't like nobody.

Speaker 5 (11:48):
Oh, you don't like nobody. You be mad at the world.

Speaker 4 (11:51):
So it's like now that we're like making money and
we get to travel the world. Like travel the world
my best friend is a great time. But we also
know how to give each other space too, you know
what I'm saying. It's like sometimes we'll have a few
days where we don't talk to each other. So then
when we do see each other, when we gotta record,
this is a real conversation because I ain't seen my
girl in four days. Yeah, So I think we know

(12:11):
we figured out what works for our friendship and for
our business, and we separate the two when we're in business.

Speaker 2 (12:17):
Meetings.

Speaker 4 (12:18):
It's not like, oh hey girl, let me it's none
none of that. When we're hanging out as friends, it's
no like, oh well, let's talk about business.

Speaker 5 (12:25):
We completely separate the two worlds.

Speaker 3 (12:28):
ME ask you something growing up, like did you always
see yourself as entertainer? What was your first dream?

Speaker 5 (12:33):
Facts I did. I'm not gonna lie to you. I never.
I always. It's crazy because when I was younger, I
thought I could see so I was like, I'm finna
grow up and be wit and you stand.

Speaker 1 (12:44):
No.

Speaker 5 (12:45):
I just knew I was.

Speaker 4 (12:46):
Gonna be singing Tony Braxt on somebody's stage. It's so
crazy because when I was young, I used to literally
like sit in my room and like make my friends
interview me like it's so crazy. How you really manifest
things like I manifested this, like even us having this conversation.

Speaker 5 (13:02):
I used to do this in my room. My friends,
my girl interview me like.

Speaker 4 (13:05):
So I always knew I was gonna do something like
I was the kid Christmas time go up there and show.

Speaker 2 (13:11):
Him how you do it.

Speaker 5 (13:12):
Baby, I'm like, okay, hold on, let me show you.

Speaker 4 (13:14):
I used to perform Tyrone by Rika Badu every Christmas
every family gathering.

Speaker 2 (13:20):
They used to think it was so funny, like entertainer.

Speaker 4 (13:24):
Oh yes, Like I used to be like a stand
up community. I used to do a Richard Simmons impersonation
when I was younger. I used to get in front
of my whole family and just cut up, and I
loved it.

Speaker 2 (13:33):
So nobody's shocked.

Speaker 4 (13:35):
Nobody is shocked. Nobody the only people that are shocked.
My high school friends aren't shocked. My college classmates are
shocked because in college I was quiet because I was
working by then, So I would be on campus, go
to class, and I would leave. I wasn't really involved
in a lot. I didn't pledge or nothing. I didn't
do none of that. So everybody in college is like

(13:55):
cause I used to go to class, sit in the
back of the classroom, get my work done, and leave.
So I think those are the only people, kind of
like from my past that are shocked.

Speaker 5 (14:02):
But nobody else is shocked.

Speaker 3 (14:04):
Like nobody, what's some of the challenges of being like
a black woman is trying to be successful.

Speaker 4 (14:10):
Honestly, I think the mental side of it. I think
it's like we have to have tougher skin than anybody
else does because it's like if I say one thing
somebody doesn't agree with or like you know, they oh
you loud y'all that weaven head them lashes and this
no wonder you don't have this like And it's so
crazy because it's like that all this has nothing to

(14:33):
do with who I am on the inside.

Speaker 5 (14:35):
And I think that I pride myself.

Speaker 4 (14:37):
And being a really stand up person with values and
the way I carry myself, especially like taking care of
my friends and my family and just being a solid person.
But if you say one thing that somebody doesn't like,
I mean, they are ripping you to shreds. But I
don't get space to make mistakes. Or if I say

(14:57):
something wrong and it offends people, it's not like it's
just like they tear us apart, you know what I mean.
Like it's been a couple of times and me and
Dreda and got canceled.

Speaker 5 (15:06):
But it's not like.

Speaker 2 (15:07):
Only way you can blow up. We need to figure
out a way to get Cather.

Speaker 4 (15:12):
Oh my gosh, But this is the thing that works
for us. Dres more so like I don't care, I'm
not going nowhere. I'm more so like I'm sensitive and
I'd be like y'all, I didn't mean it like that.
I'm sorry, I know because you know what, That's what
happened one time when we were going through a little
something and I was like, y'all, I didn't mean it
like that, and it made it worse.

Speaker 2 (15:32):
What what did you mean? I'm just like, you know what,
let me.

Speaker 4 (15:39):
Yeah, And they gonna bring it up every six months,
like they bring it up every It's like, oh God,
so did.

Speaker 2 (15:45):
You let the critiquing begin and get to you? Like yeah,
But some of.

Speaker 5 (15:51):
The critiquing was good.

Speaker 4 (15:53):
Sometimes you need a little critique because they used to
be like ooh, lix them wigs is still honting.

Speaker 5 (15:58):
I needed that critique wings what stiff bank.

Speaker 4 (16:02):
They used to be like Lex, you're looking a little
tacky today. Sometimes the critique little critique. But when it
comes to like critiquing about my personality, like oh, like
I'll listen to stuff cause they always say I interruptre
a lot, which I do.

Speaker 5 (16:20):
It's something I work on. It's stuff like that.

Speaker 4 (16:22):
But if you're talking about like my personality, like oh,
Lex needs to calm down.

Speaker 5 (16:26):
Why is Lex always laughing? Lexol this Lex?

Speaker 4 (16:29):
So that yes, I am, I'm a lot and if
you can enjoy it, I'm not for you. I will
I'm not downing myself down. I don't know how to.

Speaker 2 (16:39):
Na that's real, you know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (16:40):
You be a damn for because it guess what it's
gonna put you, is gonna put you in the pression state. Right,
you try to be nothing, If you try to be
something outside of yourself, you gonna you the one gonna
feel it.

Speaker 2 (16:49):
Yes, I push you away by me being me.

Speaker 4 (16:51):
Yeah, And it's it's like, you know what, I've just
embraced my loud ass voice and everything. If you don't,
if you can't handle it, just don't watch.

Speaker 2 (16:58):
Don't watch the show. So y'all originally from uh Texas?

Speaker 5 (17:02):
Right, Yes, so Dres from Houston.

Speaker 2 (17:04):
I'm from Orange, Okay. And how did that like shape
your personality just being from the South.

Speaker 5 (17:09):
You know what's crazy?

Speaker 4 (17:10):
I really love the fact I feel like I'm the
best of both worlds cause I'm from a very very
small country town like tiny. I remember being a senior
in high school and we got a Chili's built and
it was on the news. It was like, oh we
got a shit I trip up them a bit, like
it was a big deal like you was lit if

(17:30):
you got hired at Chili's too, because you know, you sixteen,
you can get a job. So I was younger than
all of my friends, so I graduated when I was seventeen,
so no, it was my junior year. So all of
my friends were like working at Chili's and I couldn't
work cause I was fifteen.

Speaker 2 (17:43):
I was like, man, y'all cook it up.

Speaker 5 (17:45):
I was mad as hell.

Speaker 4 (17:46):
But I think it shaped me because I got that
I'm still like a small country girl at heart.

Speaker 5 (17:53):
Then I moved to Houston.

Speaker 4 (17:54):
I lived in Houston for ten years, so that kind
of shaped me too, because Houston is when I got
some game on me. I was working in the strip club.
I was bartending at the strip club. I was green bank,
I ain't know nothing about nothing. But that's when it's
like I got a little smarter and I was like, Okay,
this is what life is, and this is happening out here.

Speaker 2 (18:13):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (18:14):
It is not.

Speaker 4 (18:18):
Man me and total.

Speaker 2 (18:21):
It was shook.

Speaker 4 (18:22):
So and then I was working at the strip club
at the height of the strip club days, when Malaya
was dancing black China was dancing like Bernice and then
was still bartending like I was at the peak of
what Dreams was because Dreams was like a big strip
club in Houston.

Speaker 5 (18:40):
It would just be Drake walk in a random night
Rihanna walk in.

Speaker 4 (18:46):
Like so I think being a country or small country
girl in that atmosphere it taught me a lot. But
now I think just being in that atmosphere prepared me
for this because I'm.

Speaker 5 (18:56):
Not gonna lie like I grew up knowing who you was, Like.

Speaker 2 (19:00):
Hell, yeah, bab you made me feel like I'm old. No, no,
I'm just saying and let me not say up.

Speaker 4 (19:05):
But what I just mean is like when I used
to listen to your music and shit like, you could
have never told me that I would be sitting across
from back doing an interview like this.

Speaker 2 (19:13):
You was already doing interviews as a kid. I mean, yeah, man,
with my class back it was like, you.

Speaker 4 (19:20):
Know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (19:21):
So let me ask you something.

Speaker 3 (19:22):
Do you feel like when you was like I say,
you went to the strip club Green, can you look
back in hindsight and see your full journey?

Speaker 2 (19:29):
Like this made me this, This made me that this.

Speaker 3 (19:31):
This what you have to do, Like because in the
moment of it, we'll be like damn, you know what
I'm saying. But when we get here, it's like like
you just like you just really gave your journey, Like okay,
back back, all that dancing for the and performing for
the family, everything led to this moment, right everything.

Speaker 4 (19:48):
I think The Strip Club two was very significant because
it taught me don't play about your money, but don't
worship money either.

Speaker 5 (19:55):
That money comes and goes.

Speaker 4 (19:57):
Because in this industry too, like the inner tainment industry,
I've learned to don't let people play with you and
lowball you and stuff. And I think that's the mentality
I learned to. But also, sometimes you're gonna have to
do something for free, or sometimes you're gonna have to
do something for a low price, but you never know
what opportunity can come from that. But you have to
know how to decipher what's worth it and what's not.

Speaker 2 (20:19):
Who is your biggest support system like ever.

Speaker 4 (20:22):
Hmmm, honestly, like outside of my mom really like my
sister first of all, Like my sister always was. Like
when I first moved to Atlanta, my mom didn't want
me to go. I didn't even tell her till a
week before I left. I was just like, hey, I'm
going to Atlanta next week, and she was not happy.
But I had told my sister beforehand, and she was like,
you have to do this, like you you can't be

(20:42):
here anymore. Like I was living with her because I
had graduated college, didn't have a good job, couldn't afford
to live on my own.

Speaker 5 (20:49):
So I had moved in with.

Speaker 4 (20:49):
My sister and I was basically helping her with my
nephew and stuff.

Speaker 5 (20:54):
And she was just like, girl, you need to get
up out my house, like.

Speaker 4 (20:57):
You need to go and spread your wings, like you
are hindering yourself by being here. So my sister has
always just been the one that's like taking care of me,
Like my mom was a single mother. So my sister,
you know, the older sister helps raise a little siblings.
So but she's always been the one that's like pushing
me to do stuff, but not letting me too far
out of her range. But now she's just like I

(21:19):
told you, yeah, go be great. So my sister has
always been like my support system for sure.

Speaker 3 (21:25):
You think where you think this undeniable confidence come from?

Speaker 5 (21:29):
You know what's crazy? I haven't always been confident?

Speaker 2 (21:32):
Why not?

Speaker 5 (21:34):
And I don't.

Speaker 4 (21:35):
I hate to say this, but growing up, I went
to a all white school, So I had a lot
of identity issues growing up. You know, like I didn't
felt like I don't look like my friends, you know,
like they all had different type of hair, different skin,
you know, like everything was different about us physically.

Speaker 5 (21:52):
And then with a lot of my.

Speaker 4 (21:55):
Black classmates, I didn't necessarily fit in with them either
because I grew up very spoiled.

Speaker 5 (22:00):
I grew up in the suburbs.

Speaker 2 (22:01):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (22:02):
I had a pull in my bag, You had a
Pocaso in yo out.

Speaker 2 (22:05):
That was me, you know what I'm saying. That was me.

Speaker 4 (22:08):
So I didn't feel like I necessarily fit in with
them either. So I kind of like I went through
it like a phase of just really like finding myself
for a very long time, like I didn't know who
I wanted to be.

Speaker 5 (22:19):
I went through like an emo stage.

Speaker 4 (22:21):
I had piercings, and then I went through a bad
bitch stage. I'm posting throng pictures and this and that,
and I just think that just came with age and
really just being like you know what, this is who
you are? You know, like I struggled with like body
this morphia, you know, getting plastic surgery and things like that,
and I think one day I really just said, I'm like, girl,

(22:42):
this is who you are. This is who God made
you. You cannot change anything else about yourself. You're beautiful, You
have a beautiful personality, and the people that are meant
to enjoy it and be around you you will attract that.
And I think that's where the confidence came from, Like
my circle around me just making me feel like, girl,
you are enough.

Speaker 3 (23:01):
That's the worst place to be in trying to trying
to prove to somebody you something else.

Speaker 2 (23:05):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (23:05):
Yeah, And it's like I try to fit in.

Speaker 4 (23:08):
It's crazy, like I was trying to fit in this
like what I thought I was supposed to be doing
on social media.

Speaker 5 (23:13):
I'm like, okay, I'm a baddie.

Speaker 4 (23:14):
I'm in Atlanta now, I'm like, I gotta have me
at a Chanelle. Man, you know, I gotta have you
the Urban Slides. And I was just like, girl, you
don't give a damn about that shit for real, Like
you know this is not you, you know what I'm saying.
So I think after just doing that for so long
and being really unhappy. It was like, girl, just be yourself.
I'm the funny friend. Yes, Like I like to show

(23:36):
up loud as hell, cracking jokes. That's what makes me happy.
Nothing makes me happier than me just talking and seeing
people just cracking up. I like to see all thirty
two tis now, you know what I'm saying. So I
think that's where the confidence came from realizing what really
was making me happy.

Speaker 3 (23:53):
If you had a chance to give yourself a duover, like,
go back and tell yourself, what would you tell yourself?

Speaker 2 (23:57):
Nothing?

Speaker 5 (23:58):
I do everything the same. I would do everything the same.

Speaker 4 (24:01):
I think this journey that I'm on and the fact
that I can go back and watch it is like,
is amazing.

Speaker 5 (24:07):
I think I'm doing everything right.

Speaker 4 (24:09):
That's why I was saying, like, I don't like when
people feel like they're behind or they're not doing enough.

Speaker 5 (24:14):
I feel like I'm right on time.

Speaker 4 (24:16):
I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be, Like I couldn't
imagine I have an amazing life.

Speaker 5 (24:20):
For real, Like I'd be like, girl, you did that,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (24:23):
They'll often say, what was that moment when you were like?
You know what I'm saying? Patch yourself on the back.

Speaker 4 (24:28):
You know that moment the probably the Tribal Queen's premiere,
Like I was like, bro, I'm on TV. I made it, y'all,
gona let my loud ass on TV. And then they
did not edit out our personalities at all. Like we
was on there cutting up bank like doing the thing.
So like seeing myself because I hadn't seen the show

(24:50):
before the premiere. Yeah, so I'm just like, oh my god,
like I'm really on TV, Like this is crazy. I
that was the moment, Like it really hit me because
that's the main goal that we've always wanted.

Speaker 2 (25:00):
When I met Drea and.

Speaker 4 (25:01):
We were like, we're gonna do YouTube, the goal was
like we still want poor Minds to be on a
streaming service and to get picked up, like that's something
another goal for us. So I think that was the
moment I'm like, oh, yeah, we in this thing.

Speaker 3 (25:14):
What about in podcasts when the moment you know like
poor Mind's here to stay?

Speaker 4 (25:17):
Oh I'm not gonna lie. I think the moment I
always talk about this. It was probably like two moments.
I think one moment was when we did the live
show in Houston and we did like eight hundred tickets,
which you know is a lot. It's hard to sell
Tea Yeah, they especially not in Houston. Yeah that was

(25:38):
a little shade to somebody, but that's all right. But anyways,
I felt that moment in Houston. But also it really
hit me when te Pain asked us to come on
his show and then he came on our show like
te Pain, like are you hitting me?

Speaker 2 (25:55):
Like what?

Speaker 4 (25:58):
I love t Paint Like I can really be like, yeah,
I know Tea Pain, Like I can name drop now,
like I know T Pain, I know and you know what,
somebody name dropped me in the situation.

Speaker 2 (26:10):
That made me kind of mad.

Speaker 4 (26:11):
I think because I'm so down to earth and people
do that a lot.

Speaker 5 (26:16):
They feel like, oh, a lot of people.

Speaker 4 (26:18):
Will hit me up like, oh, such and such want
to come on the show. I told them, you know
what I'm saying, I'm gonna link y'all who said I
wanted them on my show?

Speaker 5 (26:24):
And why are you telling people you can get them
on my show?

Speaker 4 (26:27):
That happens to me a lot, And it's like, I
think people I'm so nice and I'm so friendly, but
people don't really get to see me in business mode
and I'm completely differ.

Speaker 5 (26:36):
Don't play with my guy, don't be inviting people.

Speaker 2 (26:39):
Don't learn from the club.

Speaker 5 (26:42):
I don't play.

Speaker 4 (26:43):
I'm not finna have your homeboy on just because you
feel like, oh, me and you was cool back in
the day, or me and you done did some work together.

Speaker 5 (26:49):
That's not how it worked.

Speaker 3 (26:50):
How you deal with like the and people that doubted you,
and and people that that that you know, didn't feel
if you can be who you are, but now they
feeling titled.

Speaker 4 (27:02):
It's crazy you asked me this. I had an ex
boyfriend called me last week and it threw me for
a loop. He called me at like midnight, and I really,
I don't really like to focus on this too much,
just because I have so many people that love me.
I have so many people that are cheering for me
and Drea and cheering for poor minds and travel coins

(27:23):
and everything.

Speaker 2 (27:23):
That we do.

Speaker 5 (27:24):
But every now and then it do be a person
that tries to rewrite history.

Speaker 4 (27:28):
So when I dated this guy, we all went on
a cruise and this was probably like maybe six months
before I decided to move to Atlanta, and we were
we were talking and he was like, so, what do
you want to do? What are you gonna do with
your life. And I was like, well, I was like,
I want to do radio and TV. And I was like,
and I think I'm gonna move to Atlanta with Drea.

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And he was like he looked at me. He was like, man,
there ain't no money in it. He was like, it
ain't no money in it. He was like, what you
finna do? He was like he was a teacher. He
was like, I'm gonna get you a job at my
high school. We gonna teach, you, gonna move in, We're
gonna get engaged. Like that's basically telling me that's what
I'm gonna do. And I was like no, And I
literally cried for the rest of the day because to

(28:09):
tell somebody your dreams and at that point, I really
hadn't shared with anybody, Like I never told people what
I wanted to do because I was always kind of
like I didn't want people to shut it down. So
when I finally started saying it out loud, the first
person I told is somebody I'm in a relationship with,
and he completely shut it down. So only to fast
forward to last week, He's calling me. He drunk as hell.

Speaker 2 (28:31):
He man, I'm so.

Speaker 5 (28:32):
Proud of you though I always knew, always knew. I said,
hold on, hold at.

Speaker 2 (28:37):
Nigga, Damn, you ain't finna rewrite.

Speaker 5 (28:40):
History because you did not always know.

Speaker 3 (28:43):
But he could have been saying he always knew you
was gonna be somebody special.

Speaker 2 (28:47):
He just didn't know that you was gonna be on TV.

Speaker 4 (28:49):
Well, he wanted me to be a teacher, special teacher
I wasn't doing, and that no shade to the teachers.
I loved my teachers growing up, but that wasn't my job.

Speaker 5 (28:58):
I would have been teaching y'all kids. It's all kind
of bullshit.

Speaker 2 (29:01):
Nothing.

Speaker 4 (29:02):
We would have been in there on Instagram and TikTok scrolly. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying. So I think with people
like that, I just leave them where they at because
it's so many friends and exes from my past who
I know they were like, Damn, that's the one that
got away, whether it's a relationship wise or friendship wise.
Because I'm not lying to you, but I'm a solid

(29:23):
ass person. I don't screw over anybody. If we go
our separate ways, your secrets will always be safe with me.

Speaker 5 (29:32):
I'm not bashing you in the streets. I'm not doing
none of that. So a lot of people I think
they regret how they treated me.

Speaker 2 (29:39):
Let me ask you some.

Speaker 3 (29:41):
Like how difficult is it to sustain a relationship? How
busy you being on it? Like, how difficult is that?

Speaker 2 (29:48):
You know what?

Speaker 5 (29:49):
It's really not that hard. I think I like busy
men because that means you gonna get some money.

Speaker 4 (29:57):
I'm busy, and I think anything can work when you
make time for it, you know what I'm saying. So
busy having a busy schedule doesn't bother me. I feel
like you make time for the things you want to
make time for. So phone calls as long as we
can go on like a date, one or two dates
a month. I'm not even tripping on every week because
we got schedules, we got things to do, as long
as we're making time for each other. Because sometimes you

(30:18):
don't have to take me out to an expensive steakhouse
every night. Sometimes I'm tired. Maybe I just want to
lay up under you and watch the Netflix, you know
what I'm saying. So I think quality time is important
to me, and you make it work whenever you have
busy schedules.

Speaker 5 (30:32):
But I like busy people because I'm a busy person.

Speaker 2 (30:34):
If that makes sense. Do you think you're more private
or more you think you're more private?

Speaker 4 (30:38):
So I am, I'm private, but I'm not secretive. So
I'll talk about like my relationships or things that I'm
going through.

Speaker 5 (30:48):
But I'm not gonna be like telling y'all who it is.

Speaker 2 (30:50):
Details.

Speaker 4 (30:51):
Yeah, no details, But like me, me and whoever I'm dating,
we not high k it.

Speaker 5 (30:55):
Like y'all may go.

Speaker 4 (30:56):
Out to Little Alley Steak and see us out et.
Y'all may go to the club and catch us out
at the club together. It's not like. Or we may
be somewhere in a group picture. You may see us.
It's not like. But y'all not finna know the details
about my relationship and stuff like that, If that makes sense.
I tell so much on poor minds. I'm very open,
but I think it's certain things that I really keep private,
Like if my man makes me mad or my friend

(31:18):
makes me mad. I'm not finna be like posting Justin
the Boy memes all day.

Speaker 2 (31:22):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (31:23):
I hate Adjustin Little Boy posted that, Oh respectfully, if
he wanted to, he would bitch that nigga.

Speaker 5 (31:31):
Do not care. It don't matter how many memes you post.

Speaker 4 (31:35):
So I'm just not that type of person because people
gonna try to look deeper into things anyway.

Speaker 2 (31:40):
So nah, you're right. Let me ask you some where
you see yourself in the next five years though.

Speaker 4 (31:49):
So honestly, like my next endeavor I really want to
get into is acting.

Speaker 5 (31:53):
So I've been taking like acting classes.

Speaker 2 (31:55):
You don't need it, you got it, I know, but I.

Speaker 4 (31:57):
Think there is like I think comedic timing you can't
teach because I don't want to do nothing, like nothing serious.
I want to do like funny stuff, you know. So
I think with that it's just kind of learning more
so of like not overacting and overdoing it because I
do have a lot, so sometimes it can come off
like you doing too much.

Speaker 5 (32:16):
So it's just like little technical things I'm.

Speaker 4 (32:18):
Trying to learn. I just did like an animated movie
that's coming out. I don't want to talk too much
about it, but yeah, that's coming out pretty soon. So
that's like my next project of things, just like doing auditions,
trying to get movie rolls and stuff like that.

Speaker 5 (32:32):
So definitely want to do more of that.

Speaker 4 (32:35):
And like with Love LEXP, it's my personal show that
I have by myself, I would like for that to
be like a daytime show. I feel like the daytime
girls are doing a good job. You know, we got
Jennifer Hudson, Kelly clarksonying, y'all need some mess. The girl's
not messy enough, you know what I'm saying, but messing
like a fun way. Yeah, I think that sometimes gossip gossip,

(32:57):
of course, everybody's like, oh, gossip is so little vibration.

Speaker 5 (33:00):
You know, if you fellow the Shape.

Speaker 4 (33:02):
Room, Shagroom got a hundred million followers, somebody following them.
Everybody is not above gossip. Please just stop, you know.
But I think gossip and like celebrity gossip can be fun.
So that's what I do on lovelex P. I'm not
tearing people down, I'm not talking bad about people. It's
lighthearted jokes and it's fun.

Speaker 2 (33:21):
So do you guess you know, it's.

Speaker 4 (33:23):
Just a solo show, kind of like how like Wendy was,
she would go through the hot topics. I think eventually
maybe y'all have like guests for like the last twenty
minutes or something, but Lovelexp is something. Yeah, I wanted
to be like picked Up. I wanted to be like
a daytime show.

Speaker 2 (33:36):
So did you ever think about live streaming?

Speaker 4 (33:38):
You know what, It's crazy because you know, streaming university
was just this past weekend, and so many people are
like hitting me and dre up, like y'all need to
get into this because y'all would have been perfect, like
cause you know them kids is young, so they was like,
but y'all could have been like the aunties on campus
and y'all could have taught a podcasting class or something
like that. Streaming is something that I don't think that

(34:00):
I could do because they have to. They stream for hours.
I mean they stream all day and I'll just be
on the go too much. And I think, again, I
like to keep my personal life personal. I mean, they
do an amazing job and they make a lot of money,
but they put a lot of their personal business online
because you can't.

Speaker 2 (34:19):
Just stream for like an hour.

Speaker 4 (34:21):
No, no, they be on stream like all day, like
the ones who making money, why are.

Speaker 5 (34:25):
You making money?

Speaker 4 (34:26):
They like they will literally let like Kasanati does the
stream of th On, so he'll like stream for like
a week straight NonStop. DDG be on stream for hours
like the really popular ones that are up there. It's
not like, oh, you get on for an hour and
you get off. No, it don't work like that. They
be on it for hours. Big, My main got time.
I go to bed by seven, okay.

Speaker 2 (34:46):
And I might need a couple of idots. You know
what I'm saying. I can't do this shit live.

Speaker 4 (34:50):
Like I got real shit going on.

Speaker 2 (34:53):
So I believe that to the kids. I believe that
to the kids. What's your wife? My why?

Speaker 5 (35:01):
I feel like my why?

Speaker 4 (35:02):
Honestly, I think I figured out my purpose when we
went on our first tour.

Speaker 5 (35:06):
So seeing.

Speaker 4 (35:09):
It's like people see clips of poor minds. They're like, oh,
these birds, these this, these that. But that's how I
know they don't watch the show because we go through
a plethora of topics. Me and Dre have both been
through so much. We talk about how to be a boss.
We talk about the importance of having your own but
also you know, being a good friend, you know, being
a better daughter, you know, taking advantage of family while

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you haven't.

Speaker 5 (35:33):
We have a lot of deep conversations.

Speaker 4 (35:35):
So when I stopped worrying about the people like who
were the naysayers and the people who were negative, and
I went on we went on our first tour and
to see people like literally in tears, like man.

Speaker 2 (35:46):
Les, I lost my mom.

Speaker 4 (35:48):
I didn't think I was gonna make it, and seeing
you push through that really changed my life. Like seeing
people cry like y'all have changed my life. And I
know it's probably people watching it, like how y'all let
that bitch change your life? But like I said, we
are very deep, complex people. So I think my why
is just like I feel like my purpose here is
to make people feel good. Like we had a guy

(36:10):
at one of our live shows. He was like I
was in I was doing chemo, and every Friday I
could not wait to watch y'all like that was my
highlight of the week. Like I'm going through chemo feeling
like I'm gonna lose my life. But I turned on
Poor Minds and y'all just made me. It was my
escape every Friday for a hour, I just had to
escape from what was going on. So I think I've realized,

(36:30):
like it's deeper than me now, you know what I mean,
Like making people laugh is life changing, Like laughing can
save your life, like being stressful stress can kill you,
you know what I'm saying. So if I can give
somebody a little bit of freedom for an hour, and
a half or two hours, however long the episode is,
I did something good. If I made somebody feel good
about themselves, or I made somebody feel like, you know what,

(36:53):
it's okay to be me, or give somebody some confidence
to chase their dreams, then that's that's my Why.

Speaker 2 (36:59):
Did you ever running to a time where you was
like I quit?

Speaker 5 (37:05):
I don't think so I would bank I was so broke.

Speaker 2 (37:08):
I didn't have no choice. I had to.

Speaker 4 (37:10):
It never crossed my mind to quit. You know why too.
I think once we started to get traction, I realized
how far ahead of the game me and Dre are. Like,
me and Drea just have this thing, I don't know what, like,
we just be ahead of the curve when it comes
to certain stuff, our conversations.

Speaker 5 (37:30):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (37:31):
It just never. No, I've never wanted to quit. It's crazy, y'all.
Been friending someone on y'all?

Speaker 1 (37:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (37:39):
I think it's just because too.

Speaker 4 (37:41):
Drea was so quiet and shy in the beginning, and
people be like, oh my god, lexis so in here.

Speaker 5 (37:46):
I'm like this bitch on huge too.

Speaker 4 (37:48):
Drea is just more like yeah, so when she gets lit,
she gets lit. So I think our personality. They're starting
to see more of her personality like in the past
few years. So you know when people start acting like
or they think they we act like, they start to
look alike. We have the same manner as its because
we be around each other so much. So I just
think that just comes with spending a lot of time

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together too.

Speaker 2 (38:11):
What was your favorite movie growing up?

Speaker 5 (38:13):
Oh, my favorite movie growing up Life.

Speaker 2 (38:17):
I love Life.

Speaker 4 (38:18):
I think we need to movies are so different now.

Speaker 5 (38:22):
I feel like we don't. They don't do a lot
of comedies anymore.

Speaker 4 (38:26):
I feel like the rom coms just like like movies
like Friday, like with Kiki Palmer and Sissy did one
of Them Days. I was so happy, Like one of
them Days. You didn't see it. It's on Netflix, but
it's kind of like it's not a girly movie, but
it's like Friday, but with two women, so they got
to figure out how to pay they rent by the

(38:47):
end of the day. It's just like a movie that
was shot in one day's yeah. Yeah, And I'm like,
that's the type of movies we need again, Like I
want to see more Black's a black cinema.

Speaker 3 (39:01):
You had to compare yourself to an actress, who would
you see yourself?

Speaker 4 (39:05):
You know, it's funny. People say this all the time.
They say, I need to be in a movie with
what's her name, kid Whitley. They say we need she
needs she needs to play my mom.

Speaker 7 (39:13):
She was a.

Speaker 5 (39:14):
Sugar and Friday.

Speaker 2 (39:15):
Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

Speaker 4 (39:17):
So they always say that we need to do a
movie together, like her playing my mom and us doing
something like that because they say we act like yeah,
so I can see that. Yeah, I'm like, okay, that's
my girl.

Speaker 5 (39:27):
I like her.

Speaker 2 (39:28):
Let me see what else we got in here. TV.
They asked about TV. You already on TV.

Speaker 3 (39:35):
You know what I'm saying, Like, what advice would you
give a woman that's trying to start right now to
do to be in your position?

Speaker 2 (39:43):
You know what?

Speaker 4 (39:44):
I always say, The main thing that gets in a
lot of women's way into space is first of all,
women support women first of all, and we have to
decenter men like stop trying to do everything to be
like a pigmy or oh and the nigga's gonna like
it if I say this, Okay, because let me tell

(40:05):
you something. When we sell out these venues or when
we selling something ninety eight percent of the people who
are purchasing are women Black women at that I really
hate to see black women or just women in general,
anybody men, anybody who has black supporters, and they be like, well,
the only people who are rude to me and talk

(40:27):
down on me are black women. That's because your fan
bases black women. You see what I'm saying, Like, so
I say, that's here to the black women. These are
the people that are spending money. Most of the time
when you go to a live show, it's a few
podcasts that I've seen, even men let podcasts, I see it,
it's a lot.

Speaker 5 (40:47):
Of black women in the audience.

Speaker 4 (40:49):
So any advice that I give, I'm not saying pander
to black women and don't be your authentic self. But
I just think that a lot of times people want
to be so male centers with their content, male centered
with everything, and I think, as a woman, you're really
hindering yourself. And then I hate to see a woman
put her dreams on the back burner because your baby

(41:11):
daddy or your man is trying to chase his dreams.
I am never putting anything that I have going on
on the back burner because I'm not gonna ever ask
a man to do that for me, because why can't
we do it together?

Speaker 5 (41:24):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (41:24):
So I think women need to focus on getting their
back together versus trying to, you know, satisfy these men.
Men don't like what they like regardless.

Speaker 5 (41:34):
So I hate to see people with platforms.

Speaker 4 (41:38):
Like I said, men and women be like black women
are the only people that have so much to say
about me. That's because ninety five percent of your these
white women don't know you. These Asian women don't know you.
That's why they're not criticizing you. But if they did
know who you are, they gonna be doing the same thing.
So that would be my advice.

Speaker 3 (41:54):
Do you think it's possible to make to make someone
else completely happen?

Speaker 5 (42:00):
No?

Speaker 2 (42:01):
I don't either.

Speaker 5 (42:02):
I think that.

Speaker 4 (42:04):
If you can't make yourself happy, you have to make
yourself happy. I want to be the little icing on
the cake. The cake need to be good if I'm
here or not the cake. If you have a cake
and it's good and moist, it's gonna taste good with
the icing or without. And if you got a dry
ass cake, that iceing ain't gonna do nothing but try
to cover up the problems.

Speaker 2 (42:25):
Sometimes the icing fuck it up.

Speaker 4 (42:26):
You know what I'm saying, You mad because the ice
it tastes better than the cake.

Speaker 2 (42:30):
Not you mad?

Speaker 5 (42:31):
Yeah, so I no, I don't think you can.

Speaker 4 (42:34):
Somebody has to be one hundred percent happy and know
how to make themselves happy, because one thing I learned
too is you don't want somebody depending on you for
their happiness. Because what if I'm having a bad day
and you call me, I'm upset, I'm not having a
good day. Now I don't fucked up yo day, and
now we both just too mad? Motherfuckers?

Speaker 2 (42:53):
What boundaries did you have to sit that you never
thought you had to sit.

Speaker 5 (42:59):
I am too giving and I'm too trusting.

Speaker 4 (43:04):
So my boundaries that I have to set, honestly, is
realizing that I have to keep my circle very small
because I will give people my last, like give you
my last. I don't know how to compartmentalize things like Okay,
I have to set this boundary with you because I

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know that you'll do too much of this and I
don't know how to love like that.

Speaker 5 (43:28):
And I'm talking about friendships, family, anything.

Speaker 4 (43:31):
I don't know how to I can show up fifty
percent because that's all I can give her. I show
up one hundred percent for everybody. So with that being said,
I don't have a lot of boundaries. So with that,
I have to have a lot of discernment on who
I let be my friend and let around me. Because
I like to love with no limits. I like to

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be a good friend. I like to be a good girlfriend.
I don't want to have to set boundaries on the
way I love you because I can't. I don't know
if you're gonna, you know, do too much with it,
you know what I'm saying. So that just comes with
learning to walk away from people like the first time
they got me fucked up, because I know, oh, this
is not gonna get any better. Yeah, with friends, Like

(44:12):
I said, men, everything works situations.

Speaker 5 (44:16):
I don't know how to be a fifty percent person.

Speaker 2 (44:19):
Yeah, so you do. You gauge it off energy or
you get them a shot to fuck it up.

Speaker 5 (44:24):
You know what.

Speaker 4 (44:25):
I'm not a tester. You know some people like, oh
I'm gonna test you, and I'm gonna do that. I
just I'm who I am. And once you do something
I don't like and I voice it to you and
nothing changes, or I see like this is not making
me feel better, like, this is not bringing value to
my life. And when I say value, it be sometimes
where I'm just like having a bad day and I'll

(44:47):
call Drea, or I'll call my friend b Lyn, or
I'll call my friend Killer and I'm just like I
need a girl's night, and it's just like fills me up.
You know what I'm saying. If you're not bringing value
to my life like that, then what do you hear for?
If every time I'm talking to you it's a disagreement.
You ever met somebody who's a contrarian, Like if you
can be like, oh, man, lets the sky is blue,

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well technically bank it's like, oh for sure. And people
I don't shut up like everything I say you have
to disagree.

Speaker 5 (45:18):
Contrarian, contrarian.

Speaker 2 (45:20):
It's a bunch of them. Motherfuckers.

Speaker 5 (45:22):
Can't. I can't be around people like that.

Speaker 4 (45:24):
Or every time I tell somebody some good news, well
we'll just make sure because you know, girls, shut shut up, girl,
shut up.

Speaker 2 (45:33):
You think it's because that's how they see the.

Speaker 5 (45:34):
World, Yes, And I don't see the world like that.

Speaker 3 (45:37):
Now I'm gonna go back to this, I said, so
what about energy, Like if you just they ain't done
that to you. But you read the wrong energy from
a person, do you do you feel like you tripping?

Speaker 2 (45:47):
Or you just give them a shot.

Speaker 4 (45:49):
Some I don't give them a shot because sometimes you
don't know what somebody's going through, if somebody's dealing with
and I know how not to take things personally, But
if I feel like every time we are each other
and yo energy is off, I'll be starting to feel like, Okay,
well you just don't like me, or you just don't
fuck with me, you.

Speaker 5 (46:03):
Know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (46:04):
But what if a motherfucker trying to be cool but
it just ain't connecting.

Speaker 5 (46:07):
If it ain't connecting, then we're not yea.

Speaker 2 (46:09):
About that energy?

Speaker 3 (46:10):
Like a friend that's want to be your friend so
bad and you want to be their friend, but it's
just it's just something.

Speaker 4 (46:15):
Yeah, I think with stuff like that, I don't force
it neither. You cannot force friendships because then something gonna
eventually happen down the line where y'all gonna clash anyway,
because if it's not fitting right, it's for a reason.
And I think sometimes somebody doesn't necessarily have to do
something for you to you.

Speaker 5 (46:32):
It's not that I don't like you, just not my.

Speaker 2 (46:34):
Type of growl line.

Speaker 4 (46:35):
We are not aligne and that's okay you. I don't
hate you, but you just our energy is not the same.

Speaker 2 (46:43):
I agree with that.

Speaker 5 (46:44):
It's it's a lot of people like that. Yeah, Like
I'd be like, she cool, but she not.

Speaker 4 (46:49):
I don't have a lot of friends though, because I
think my energy is a lot for people, a lot
for people.

Speaker 5 (46:53):
So I'd be like, that's.

Speaker 3 (46:54):
All right, you think it create create? What what you
think your energy creates?

Speaker 2 (46:58):
You know? Other women?

Speaker 4 (47:01):
You know what I think with women. I think it'd
be cool with women. Honestly, I think it's more so
men niggas be hating on me paint Why cause they
ain't be haters?

Speaker 2 (47:12):
Why what you be doing? First? You know what?

Speaker 5 (47:16):
I have dated men. I will say that.

Speaker 4 (47:19):
You know, I don't want to say like that are
entrepreneurs themselves, and maybe they had like a moment where
they fell off or they weren't doing as well, and
instead of just like clapping and cheering me on, it
was just kind of like damn, oh shit, that's lick
all right, Yeah, I see you do your thing. I

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need somebody that's gonna be like this go ahead, girl.

Speaker 2 (47:44):
Yeah, yeah, that's what I need.

Speaker 4 (47:46):
Good, that's what I need. So I'll be feeling like
my energy and I don't want to use the word
necessarily intimidating, but I think sometimes I'm so ambitious and
I'm so like, I'm a go getter a lot of times.
If you're not, that'll make you feel some type of way.
I'll have you looking in the mirror at yourself like damn.
So if you're not confident and you not ambitious and

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you're not a go getter, I'm gonna make you feel
some type of way because I don't care what you
got going on. I'm finna go. So I think my
energy doesn't bother the women around me. We motivate each
other half the time, Me and Dre on the phone
talking about, well what we finna do to get some
more money? Me and all my friends are like that,
Like all we talk about is how can we reach
more success? I always say that I'm never gonna be

(48:30):
the only successful person in my circle. How can I
put you in position? You in position? I'm always like that.
So I don't think I get energy like that from women.

Speaker 3 (48:39):
What you think the biggest misconception that the world got
of you, that got you fucked up, like y'all got
me fucked up.

Speaker 4 (48:45):
That ain't me that I'm friendly because I think people
be trying to test me. Bank sometimes they just be
saying shit to me, like hold on, bitch, we ain't
that cool?

Speaker 2 (48:55):
Ho hold on now? You just okay?

Speaker 4 (48:59):
You know, I just think sometimes you cool, But I'm
not friendly, Like, don't like I think it's okay to
like come up to me and speak. I love taking
pictures with people I love, but like, don't come up
to me and be like.

Speaker 2 (49:17):
Hey, nigga, saying Lex say it?

Speaker 5 (49:20):
Say it because I always say who as nigga on
the show.

Speaker 4 (49:22):
Don't come up to me and be expecting me to
perform being care yeah, like don't like.

Speaker 2 (49:30):
I'm a human being.

Speaker 5 (49:31):
So I think.

Speaker 4 (49:32):
And then sometimes like people will be trying to joke
with me, Like we had a clip yesterday we were
talking about hygiene and stuff and we were giving girls
tips on how to.

Speaker 5 (49:41):
Smell fresh, and then somebody was in the.

Speaker 4 (49:43):
Comments like, I don't know, Lex, last time I seen
you smelled like a little onion under the arms. Nigga,
I don't know yet. Play yeah, like keep it cute. Bitch,
cause one thing about it. Once you get that musty allegations,
that doesn't go don't yeah yeah yeah, but somebody in these.

Speaker 2 (50:02):
Because another nigga seed to come and be like, oh,
you know, they say they're good. I'll be mush.

Speaker 4 (50:06):
Don't play with me like that. I don't like that.
I don't don't don't even joke with me like that.
I do not stank nigga.

Speaker 5 (50:14):
The fuck is wrong.

Speaker 2 (50:15):
With you would say that you like the nigger, don't
fuck you lord your goddamn line. And then I didn't
want to delete it.

Speaker 5 (50:27):
Somebody see that.

Speaker 2 (50:28):
Or she deleted it. She So I gotta lead a
bit chop now you.

Speaker 4 (50:32):
Know what I'm s So I just think sometimes I
play so much.

Speaker 2 (50:36):
Do people think they can play with me all the time? Yeah,
so that's the biggest business. Like, Bro, I'm cool, but
don't play.

Speaker 5 (50:42):
Don't fucking play with me, Bro, don't do that.

Speaker 3 (50:47):
Alright, that's the word with a word over, give you
a word, you say the first word come to your mouth.

Speaker 4 (50:51):
Okay, you're ready. Desire, desire, fire, good night, good one.

Speaker 2 (51:03):
No, that's a good one.

Speaker 3 (51:05):
Passion, Oh, sex, intimacy, love, affectionate.

Speaker 5 (51:17):
Hmmm, boring, lick lecks.

Speaker 2 (51:26):
Who the fuck wrote the bird though? Yeah, damn, it
ain't none but us and sex shit. Let me just
think it. Let me go back to somebody else.

Speaker 4 (51:36):
People do do that to us. I think they be
thinking it's from the clips.

Speaker 2 (51:40):
Like I wrote this ship.

Speaker 4 (51:42):
They be like they want to talk about some dick
and balls. Put these words up there.

Speaker 3 (51:46):
Let me study, Okay, purpose, purpose, faith, legacy, children.

Speaker 4 (51:57):
Honor, loyalty, strength mm hmm, mental freedom mm hmm, finances, water.

Speaker 2 (52:16):
Coochie. See. Yeah, I should start with the other words grace, forgiveness. Uh,
let me go back to the other words. Arouse around.

Speaker 7 (52:39):
Mmm hot, tension mm hmmm, tension, uh, energy, tease, m.

Speaker 5 (52:53):
Gray, sweatpants, thrust, mmm, them.

Speaker 2 (52:58):
Hips touch, oh.

Speaker 6 (53:05):
Rose, You know about that roll girl, seduction, sexy.

Speaker 2 (53:25):
Whisper yearn oh r and b poor minds them girls.
I know it's supposed to be one word, NA, that's
hard them girl? Hey, which one stuck out? Though? If

(53:47):
you can just think of one word that's stuck out?

Speaker 4 (53:49):
One word that stuck out to me is grace because
I talk about that a lot. I think a lot
of times people don't give themselves grace, And I think
we are harder on ourselves than what we think other
people are. So being in this space a lot of times,
like we were talking about comments, comments will stick with
us all day, but you gotta realize this person that
wrote something about you and moved on with their day.

(54:11):
So just give yourself grace, Like, don't be hard on
yourself and learn how to move on. Forgive yourself for
past mistakes like I be mad at myself or maybe
something I said or something I did on the show
I don't like, and I just like, give myself grace,
move on.

Speaker 5 (54:25):
So always give yourself grace it.

Speaker 2 (54:26):
Don't get stuck in no moment. Yes, nah, I agree
with that all right, before we get out here, I
do book or the week? Right, what's the book you read?

Speaker 4 (54:34):
You know? I just finished a book. This is actually
my second time reading call Seven Days in June. I'm
a fiction book reader by the way, Okay, So I like, so,
uh seven Days in June is like it's a it's
like a romance book. So I like, I'm not much
of a like self help book girl, So I do
every now and then, but I like to read like stories.

Speaker 2 (54:56):
Seven Days in June. What it's about?

Speaker 4 (54:57):
So seven Days in June is it's a lo about
a woman who met a man for seven days in June.
They end up linking back up again and kind of
like going through this like rowind Romance. It's really good
and it's like black characters too. I like a little
steamy black book.

Speaker 2 (55:12):
Now, Hey, what's your idea relationship?

Speaker 4 (55:17):
My ideal relationship is like somebody that I can obviously
be myself. Somebody that embraces my personality because that's like
the biggest thing about me. Somebody who's not intimidated but
I want to have a businesses with. Somebody like that
we can do multiple things together. Somebody that understands this
space too, because it's a lot of money, like behind

(55:38):
the scenes as well. So I would definitely like that's
my ideal relationship, Like somebody I can work with, Like
if I could have Drea in like.

Speaker 5 (55:47):
A man version, that would be perfect.

Speaker 4 (55:49):
Like somebody I can work with and make money with,
like cause we andre always say we're essentially married because
we have a friendship and we have a business together.
So for me, that would be like the ideal relationship
is somebody I can work with, uh and somebody who
likes to work. I love ambitious people, hustlers, some people
like that. Somebody that just gets it, you know what

(56:11):
I mean, Like, of course, somebody who is religious. You know,
a Christian, you know. I like educated people who are intelligent,
somebody who is not afraid of like going to therapy.

Speaker 5 (56:22):
Mental health is very important to me. So somebody who
just do it.

Speaker 4 (56:27):
I don't know when I tell you, christ.

Speaker 5 (56:33):
I know, but you know what.

Speaker 2 (56:36):
This is the thing. But what are you willing to
deal with from that? Dude? Nothing.

Speaker 4 (56:43):
I'm not saying you gotta be perfect with nothing, but
this is a thing.

Speaker 5 (56:48):
Though.

Speaker 4 (56:49):
When I say nothing, it's like nobody's gonna be perfect
if you check off nine of ten.

Speaker 5 (56:54):
I'm not gonna trip on one thing.

Speaker 2 (56:55):
But the one thing is your deal breaking.

Speaker 4 (56:58):
Well, like Mike, I don't have crazy deal breakers though,
Like my deal breaker is Max one kid.

Speaker 5 (57:04):
You can't have more than one kid and what else.

Speaker 2 (57:09):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (57:09):
My deal breakers aren't that crazy because even if you're
not in therapy, I like somebody who is open minded.
That's my biggest thing, because if you're not open minded,
that means you're just not willing to change anything. So
I'm not saying you even gotta be a multi millionaire
getting money. You can be somebody who is just as
ambitious as me, making the same amount of money as me,

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and we can figure out how to get more.

Speaker 2 (57:31):
All right, that's cool.

Speaker 3 (57:33):
If you met that guy and he had something that
he wanted you to compromise on, but you don't want
to compromise on how that worked.

Speaker 4 (57:40):
I'm a very compromising person, though, So it depends what
it is.

Speaker 2 (57:45):
And I think they're saying if it goes against who you.

Speaker 4 (57:47):
Are, if it goes against who I am, then then
we're not aligned. And that's okay. And one thing that
I've learned so many people in the world, I'm okay
with walking your way, but I'm never going to be
that woman who is just staying in a relationship just
because I need to have somebody or society makes me
feel like, oh my god, you're thirty five and you're
not married yet.

Speaker 2 (58:05):
I don't care.

Speaker 4 (58:06):
I would rather be wait and find the right person
then be with somebody and struggling and be unhappy just
for the look. Yeah, I'm not into that. So I
named a lot of things, but I will say I
it's not as hard as it sounds, because if you
love somebody. Stuff like that is easy if you love

(58:27):
somebody a little. Those are small things.

Speaker 3 (58:29):
But the crazy part about the list and the idea
that the woman have the nigga that that that has
all that that's those the guys that they ain't attracted to.

Speaker 4 (58:41):
I don't know, well, I feel like the guys I
would say, I'll go back on like the last five
years of my dating life. I have a great dating
life if I'm being honest, like, of course I got
some duds in there.

Speaker 5 (58:54):
But you know when people talk.

Speaker 4 (58:55):
About when people talk about, oh, the dating is trash,
it's being a dating pool, and I'm just like, it
ain't that bad.

Speaker 5 (59:02):
Like, no, things don't always work out like you want
them to.

Speaker 4 (59:05):
But I will say, like the last like the you know,
I've dated some really great guys and maybe we didn't align,
but they were great guys.

Speaker 3 (59:13):
It's good that you said that, because most of the
time when people don't online, people.

Speaker 2 (59:17):
Be like niggas just a fuck nigga.

Speaker 3 (59:19):
Yeah you could be a good dude, just not a
good dude for you, right right, Yeah.

Speaker 5 (59:23):
And I think a lot everybody be like he fumbled me,
he fumbled me.

Speaker 4 (59:27):
No, Sometimes people are just you can be the great
I know I'm a great woman. So if a man
does something to me and we don't work out, that
has no testament of who I am as a woman.
That's okay. He didn't fumble me, that's just we didn't align.
I didn't align with maybe what he wanted. So I've
been dealing with like the same person for like a
year and a half now, like kind of on and off,

(59:48):
and I give we give each other a lot of
grace because we're trying to figure it out and figure
it out if it's worth it, you know. So I
think that being in a relationship requires grace, forgiveness, understanding,
and you just have to be willing to compromise on things.
But there's certain things I know he wouldn't compromise on
and I.

Speaker 2 (01:00:07):
Wouldn't, but we make it work. Facts.

Speaker 3 (01:00:10):
Yeah, a lot of women gotta stop thinking, dude, fun
women could have made a complete path.

Speaker 2 (01:00:17):
That's true.

Speaker 4 (01:00:18):
But I also think that men need to stop playing
with women too. Men will tell a woman I love you,
being a woman's face dating her.

Speaker 2 (01:00:27):
But I do love you. No, I can love you,
but it may not be the love that you want.

Speaker 4 (01:00:32):
But I will say a lot of what men do
is they give placeholders. They do too much with their placeholders,
and they don't they're not honest with that woman that
she's a placeholder.

Speaker 5 (01:00:43):
And that's where a lot of confusion comes in.

Speaker 4 (01:00:45):
Whatsold a placeholder is like, you know, this is not
a woman that you're gonna marry or be even in
a relationship with.

Speaker 3 (01:00:50):
You don't know, You don't know, y'all be knowing, Nah,
you don't know until you show me.

Speaker 2 (01:00:57):
You ain't that.

Speaker 5 (01:00:59):
I think that some time.

Speaker 2 (01:01:00):
Says I can, I can.

Speaker 3 (01:01:01):
You could be potentially that, and you and in the
process of you being potentially that, you could show me na.

Speaker 4 (01:01:07):
And then it's what when she shows you, you're supposed
to walk away and y'all don't y'all keep them around
until something else comes along instead of being honest. I
haven't seen women get a situationships tattooed on them because
they be thinking, oh, this is grown going somewhere, because
that's how they made them feel. And I don't even
blame her for that. You should have been honest.

Speaker 3 (01:01:28):
But I ain't gonna try to try to because y'all
cause I'm saying, but it ain't a lie.

Speaker 5 (01:01:34):
Really, bang, come on now, count I am.

Speaker 2 (01:01:38):
It really ain't a lot because every day things change.
You know what I'm saying. I can meet you today
and feel as if.

Speaker 3 (01:01:46):
Though you're the one, right, but I can't just and
as time progressed, I can feel like you are still
and can't fall in love with you and tell you
I love you right, But things changed.

Speaker 4 (01:01:57):
Right, And once things change, that's you pivot and you
let her know. Hey, you know what, I don't think
that we're aligned, but y'all don't y'all keep them there
because you feel like, all right, she let me hug,
She cool, she a vibe, and.

Speaker 5 (01:02:11):
She know me.

Speaker 2 (01:02:11):
Nigga be thinking I could be tripping.

Speaker 5 (01:02:15):
Shee wasting people time.

Speaker 2 (01:02:16):
I'm just saying.

Speaker 4 (01:02:17):
Then another girl come along and she checks off all
your boxes and it's like, oh, this could be my wife.
Then you gotta break this girl heard and then she
feels like but I thought, because I didn't know that's
what men do a lot.

Speaker 5 (01:02:30):
They y'all do do that a lot.

Speaker 2 (01:02:32):
Y'all or not?

Speaker 5 (01:02:35):
You know what I mean. You ain't been outside a
long time, so I'm.

Speaker 2 (01:02:39):
Telling but I know people that's outside.

Speaker 3 (01:02:41):
Though women listen and we ain't gonna make this no relationships,
all right, all right, But most of the time people
can coct their life in their head and feel like
that's what it's supposed to.

Speaker 4 (01:02:56):
Now, I'm not mad at that. It's you know, it's
called limericks.

Speaker 2 (01:03:00):
What's car limitate words today?

Speaker 4 (01:03:02):
Limerates like when you're just you create, you know, you're
obsessed with this, the something that you basically created.

Speaker 5 (01:03:11):
You're you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:03:12):
And I will say a lot of women do do
that because I will say a man's actions are gonna speak.
I've learned that I don't care what a man tell me.
I don't care how much you say you love me,
you want to be with me, You're gonna have to
show me.

Speaker 3 (01:03:25):
But hold look, but if I tell you I love you,
I could love you, but it may not be enough
love for you.

Speaker 2 (01:03:33):
And that means we don't lie.

Speaker 3 (01:03:34):
That's what I'm saying. Like, like, if I said I
love you, right, I could be loving you with everything
in me.

Speaker 2 (01:03:40):
But what you like?

Speaker 3 (01:03:41):
What's the name of the word again, Limeriate when you
limerate yourself.

Speaker 4 (01:03:49):
Well, but also this, if you really love somebody though,
you're gonna love them how they want to be loved.

Speaker 3 (01:03:55):
Yes, if if a man told you the truth of
how you want to be loved, you'll think he crazy.

Speaker 4 (01:04:02):
No, I will love people how if I love you enough,
I'm gonna love you how you want to be loved
if you tell me this.

Speaker 5 (01:04:09):
Is my love life?

Speaker 2 (01:04:11):
No, No, Okay, this man loved you. He want you
to be a school teacher. You ain't love him enough.

Speaker 5 (01:04:16):
No deliverance.

Speaker 2 (01:04:21):
That's a deliverance.

Speaker 3 (01:04:23):
But you, but you love him enough that you You
didn't love him like that.

Speaker 4 (01:04:28):
I didn't, But that wasn't real love. Looking back on it,
that wasn't real love. But I also wasn't in the
position when I think about being a wife, I wasn't
ready to be anybody's wife.

Speaker 2 (01:04:39):
I like that.

Speaker 5 (01:04:41):
I was not prepared.

Speaker 4 (01:04:43):
If I think about, like my husband and somebody I'm with,
and I gotta take a pivot in my career because
shit getting harder.

Speaker 5 (01:04:50):
We got to figure somehow.

Speaker 4 (01:04:51):
Yeah, I'm gonna do that for my husband because I
know he would make that sacrifice for me. I am
what I was what twenty six, twenty seven at the time,
I'm not eveything in my life for a man who
might propose to me you see.

Speaker 5 (01:05:03):
What I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:05:04):
So I think love love definitely looks different as you
get older too, with your expectations. I think when I
was younger, it was like, oh my gosh, it's supposed
to be like a Disney movie. But now I understand
what it is and how it looks, you know what
I'm saying. So I think with with love, when I
was younger, I used to tell my niggas all the time,
I love you, I love I love telling niggas I

(01:05:25):
love them. Now I'm very careful with that word and
I don't play around with it.

Speaker 3 (01:05:29):
I think, I think, I think and were this then
there right here? I think after you say what you say,
what I think? I think the difference is is people
look at love different. Like if I tell you I
love you, that means I'm one hundred percent with you
now what.

Speaker 2 (01:05:48):
I do with within me and got shit to do
with you.

Speaker 3 (01:05:51):
So if me being me makes you uncomfortable, and that
means you don't love me. Because if I if I
tell you I love you, I mean I love thing
about your love. It come with you and question you
ain't got a couple of my shit? I love you?
You know what I'm saying, and I got you. We
got each other, that's what it is. But then on
the other hand, when you get what's the word again,
when you go to limeriates and shit, you turn around

(01:06:15):
and feel like, I don't love you, but I check
out everything else that you can't.

Speaker 2 (01:06:18):
If your friend, if you had a real friend, ask you,
is he always there for you? Do you respect you?
Do you take care of you? Yeah? But I just
don't like that. It's always something. Okay, we debate.

Speaker 5 (01:06:31):
We're gonna agree to disagree.

Speaker 2 (01:06:33):
Thank you. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:06:34):
Thank you because you're a woman and number man. So
we're gonna always be disagreed. But we agree because I
can come in right now. We in love you know what, baby,
I feel like interstry you in.

Speaker 2 (01:06:47):
You've made enough money. Let's figure out. Let's go get
some houses. She don't want you to be entertainer no more.
You gonna like nigga, you out your mind. You couldn't
love me. But I love you enough. I want to
be I want to build something together and be around
you all day. Baby. I don't want to share you
with the world. I want you this nigga crazy. Yeah, Well,
I think of men.

Speaker 4 (01:07:06):
You don't love me, then, how because part of who
I am is my job.

Speaker 5 (01:07:11):
So if you don't love my job, you can't love me.
That's a big part of me.

Speaker 2 (01:07:14):
You know what I'm saying. One of my job is
got there selling cigarettes a single cigarette, single cigarette. But
I'm getting light off this whatever. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:07:24):
No, no, no, yeah, too far?

Speaker 3 (01:07:29):
What you call what you said when when that person
was no, but the other one what were.

Speaker 2 (01:07:36):
You huh limorates no when you said every time you
say so, mother fucker?

Speaker 5 (01:07:40):
But is contrarian?

Speaker 2 (01:07:42):
Corian words? What's the words?

Speaker 5 (01:07:46):
And contrarian?

Speaker 2 (01:07:47):
Okay, what we're doing? You're good? What's next for you?

Speaker 5 (01:07:51):
So?

Speaker 4 (01:07:52):
So yeah, y'all, make sure y'all check out Love lexp
It drops every Monday at ten a m. Of course,
Poor Minds every Friday, seven pm wherever you listen to
podcasts at. If y'all want to stream Travel Queens, that's
on BT dot com. You can watch it on Hulu,
Filo or YouTube TV. You have to do the BT
her add on. But it's super cute. So if you

(01:08:13):
like travel shows, you'll love that.

Speaker 5 (01:08:15):
What else?

Speaker 2 (01:08:16):
What else I got? Oh?

Speaker 4 (01:08:17):
And if you like, we have another show called Poor
Chronicles that's on our Patreon, so you can go to
patreon dot com backslash poor Mind.

Speaker 5 (01:08:24):
So yeah, it's a lot of stuff. It's a lot
of content.

Speaker 2 (01:08:26):
No, Yeah, keep going, Queen. I thank y'all killing it.
Thank you outside the drill. Yeah, y'all lit Man.

Speaker 3 (01:08:33):
I saw y'all grow from from a seat, so got them? Yes, Bean,
what's the hard I should do a be stalk you
know what I'm saying. Congratulations on everything. Make y'all check
them out, man, follow them and log into the Big
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