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May 27, 2025 82 mins

*Originally aired December 23rd, 2024*

On this episode of PWB, Big Bank sits down with Dr. Terrence Berry to discuss his journey from a challenging childhood marked by loss and struggle to finding purpose through discipline, community service, and personal growth. Dr. Terrance speaks on  the importance of fasting, vision boards, his Focus 21 Foundation, which aims to empower youth, his reflections on spirituality, the role of education and mentorship, the significance of reading for self-discovery and more. Tune in and join the conversation in the socials below.

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
It gets no better than this. You are now in
June respectives.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
With big bang bang, Let's get straight to it.

Speaker 3 (00:11):
You wouldn't have to keep searching for the good of
people if you surround yourself with good people. Well to
perspective a bank today, I got my brother, doctor Terrence
beard Berry in the building. What's up, my brother? Hey,
how you feeling gain nah for chuffour we started. I
always do like a wellness check check on niggas men
to see where you're at with the where you're at
with it.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
Right now we're doing pretty good. All the prayer and
fast going on. Right now, we're doing pretty good. Okay, faster.
What type of fast you do? I do it intermediate
fast meant thurday at night or seven o'clock in the morning.
Don't eat nothing. You're really not supposed to go to
sleep anyway eating three four hours. But I have to
do it fast sins my mind before I wake up

(00:52):
in the morning. And what time you eat? What time
you break the faster? Get all opinions sometime might eat
it one time day because of the sea mall. Yeah,
I get all work about four in the morning for
five in the morning. By the time he's probably one
o'clock one time. Yeah, one time and very rare do
more than that during the week. Okay, how hard does

(01:15):
it stay disciplined on that hard? Been doing a long
time fast a long time, probably the last fifteen years.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
What's the benefits of fast besides like health? But what's
the benefit? Uh, build up discipline. But that's really what's about.
If you can be disciplined in that area, you can
be disciplining other areas.

Speaker 2 (01:34):
Of your life. Fact fact for people who don't know,
might not know who you is? Who is doctor arms Beard?
What I'm saying from?

Speaker 1 (01:44):
Where?

Speaker 2 (01:44):
From? What? What are you doing? Decater's si you know
what I mean? The real east Side? Okay, greater Okay? Yeah,
So I grew up over on the east side kend
Road area, went to back Now mc now High School.
You know, I had a couple of things in a
couple of different schools from University Mississippi, Georgia State, playing

(02:04):
football and track. But for the most part, it's all
being all about Decater man. Yeah, what your upbring was like? Raised?
What single parent? Same? My mom passed at thirteen. She
had a stroke in my homes after coming from track practice. Damn,
and I was raised by my father man, and he
did all he can do. He did a great job.
You can barely read and write. I'm an old man, baby.

(02:26):
My daddy was long. He had me at forty. Yeah,
and like I said, he can barely read and write.
But he got to the paper well known in the
city Atlanta, you know, smooth and a lot of people
that he had a lot of great relationships. Yeah. So
that's where my huster came from. But for the most part, man,
I was paying bills at fifteen. Yeah. Man, I it

(02:47):
took me a while. I realized I grew up on struggle.
I thought I grew up on little man. Grew up
on struggle. Yeah, And I just realized that maybe a
year ago, and it kind of shaped my mentality and
the way that I look at things. Now. What made
you realize that though therapist, you know, I started going
to therapy. I started going therapy two years ago, but

(03:08):
I started getting asked some real deep questions about my
childhood that I kind of I guess I kind of
blocked it out. My mom passed, never devastating. Yeah, me
and my dadd vote, we didn't know how to handed.
I smoke weed every day he drunk every day. He
was an alcoholic, But I say he was a functional alcoholic,
you know what I mean. He always had a good job.

(03:29):
I always kept the roof over the head. I just
had to make sure we maintained the bills. But when
you lose some now, when you lose somebody, when you
lose your mom, that's a different feeling. When you watch
it die, that's a different feeling. You know. The struggle
came when I realized I had nobody to talk to.
I'm the youngest out of four siblings. My closest one

(03:51):
like fourteen years fourteen years older than me. So I
grew up just me and my dad. Really never had
nobody really talk to. I had my circle and all that.
But it's different when everybody the same age. Yeah, that's
why I know it's very important to have mentors. You
ain't got no mentor, man, it's gonna be reroal. Everybody
need mentor. And yeah, the smoking and the drinking and

(04:13):
all that stuff that I was trying to run from
the pain blocking it out. Yeah, that's the struggle. Man.

Speaker 3 (04:18):
Do you think so when your mom passed, did you
go to the streets to help your pops or what
you do.

Speaker 2 (04:24):
Got a job, So I had a job. My mom
passed at thirteen fourteen, I got the first job. But
I had been already selling since or eleven. Yeah, you know,
I already had been in the streets, but it wasn't
nothing major. But after she passed and I turned up,
I went to the OJ's in the neighborhood, man and
it was all little. And it's crazy because you know,
by the time I was my twenty the same people
that I was dying from were buying for me. But

(04:46):
the point of it was I stayed in the streets
in school, and I think that was the most detrimental
part for me. I remember getting kicked out of school
in tenth grade for selling weed. And when I went
to the board, my dad came, the principal mat there came,
my football coaches came, my teachers came. Everybody came and

(05:06):
vouch for me about my character. But at the same time,
it didn't stop me. They gave me something that they
say they never gave anyone. They gave me two months
to go to Hamilton Alternate School in Scottdale. Ye scott there. Yeah,
it's over now. And I went right back to mack. Now,
all I did to make me get more smarter. Now
I started having everybody around me sell it, you know

(05:28):
what I mean. I bring it just distributed to everybody
else and let themsel whatever. You know.

Speaker 4 (05:32):
But yeah, man, they live and you learn what you
think made you like I turned the corner on all
that ship prison.

Speaker 2 (05:42):
Yeah man, it was a prison. Man, how long you did?
Nine years? One month? Got count that one month? But
because they come out of Hancock, well it was hell.
But but what you went now for traffic Mortial County.
My cousin set me up in Griffin George. Damn. I
had to move and Griffin Man and my uncle U.
I let my uncle control everything. His son was a snake,

(06:06):
you know what I mean. His son have been trying
to get at me, trying to build a relationship with me.
But you know, I always kind of stayed man disciplined
in that there. I thought I was very just you know,
I got busted on my birthday, that's twenty eighth birthday.
I had a landscape becoming their time, So smooth smool,
let me do the tic who do the tickets? Uncle man?

(06:30):
He let me do all his properties down there by
the Dome. I did it that morning, man, and my
cousin called my uncle that day and kept trying to
get us come down there. I had taught to a
few people that we know e J. And the whole
bunch of people were supposed to go into the tap
that night, and I hitting that weed. I have been
fast this first time. They were fast too that week

(06:51):
before I got busted with the first time. I FA
FA five days going to church at Salem, and I
broke that fast when I hit that weed, And that's
what made me make decision, I'm gonna go down here
to work out here, damn. And mind you, I've never
taken any work to Griffin ever. That was the first
time I actually went down there, took something down of myself.
You want to go to jail. When you looked at

(07:12):
you thought about it like, man, Yeah, I had to
Hey man, life changing. But niggas be knowing. Like I said,
I said this ship a few episodes back.

Speaker 1 (07:22):
Man.

Speaker 2 (07:22):
You know when you pensh do the wrong shit, you
can feel it, right, bro, I had a dream two
months exactly like it happened, Exactly like it happened. When
I said when when they finally locked me up, and
I sat back and went to sleep. He gave he
warned me every way he could. I just just didn't
pay no attention. What is though? No, in fact, what's

(07:45):
some shit you learned that now that you know you
couldn't learn on the street. I think this one it's
a certain level of disc one you're gonna learn, man,
because in the streets you can react to everything. Prison talking,
you can't react to everything. You gotta let some stuff go,
and your surroundings is different. It taught me, definitely taught

(08:11):
me the discipline and knowing who to mess with, who
the rock with. On the street, you have a You
had the freedom to pick who you want to hang with,
and now you gotta stay by yourself. You gotta stay
by yourself, especially if you ain't banging. I never was banging.

(08:32):
That was never me, you know what I mean. So,
and it taught me disciplined. Far as reading, I didn't like.
I would tell you I didn't do no reading when
I was on street. I had a barber shop over
on Pantherville. I had a landscaping company. During the I
had a couple of bid this is going on, But
I never was reading. And they and those companies were
never gonna go to next level because I went. I

(08:53):
didn't take time to read. And when I got in prison, man,
that's the first thing I started doing. I started smoking.
Really got I see it, boy, my relationship God, and
I guess that's the main thing. I read over three
hundred books in the nine years and one month on
read five novels. So everything was geared towards self improvement.
And I got my relationship right with God. Man, if

(09:16):
I could be disciplined in now death can be disiplained it. Well,
like you was saying about the phone mine, won't mess
with no phones. I wann't smoking. I wasn't trying to
pay no guards. I wasn't doing nothing. I was focused mind,
body and soul. Worked out every day, playing chest, reading,
you know what I mean, doing everything I can to
be ready when I came home. And that's what I
tell folks. You know, when I go into the prisons
or the jails, whatever it is, bro, you better prepare now.

(09:37):
Don't come home trying to prepare for these streets, cause
the streets gonna be mean. You got to be already,
be ready and be a positioned so when God open
that door, opportunity for you get around people. But you
got to take it, and you got to be ready.
And if you can't speak the language, you can't en
said what you really mean. It ain't gonna work.

Speaker 3 (09:52):
Who's the people you think you disappointed besides yourself?

Speaker 2 (09:55):
When you want My daughter more than anything, I daw
with three. You know she made me pay for it
when I came home. I been home six years. She
made me pay three years. She really didn't. I did everything, bro.
I ain't never seen no child support. I ain't ever
seen on that. When I came home, my child mother
already knew your dad a hustley got it. I made

(10:16):
sure she was straight. Try to spend all the time
I could with him. My daughter right now has an
emotional drawback because of that. She don't really hug. She
don't say I love you. I know she mean it.
You know what I mean? Like I just said, I
just came from d C. She had how she going
for law. My situation that would have happened. She might

(10:37):
not be going for law, but she a prels student.
But I just took it to the air couby do concert.
But it is the emotion. She's not real emotional. She
a Leo liked me, but she she not emotional. So
that's the main person. Everybody else, you know, sisters, brothers, cousin,
all that people that I took care of, y'all know
they were this point at all.

Speaker 3 (10:56):
I care about my daughter. I only got one, you know.
She know all love it though, Nah, are you you
doing some really dope shit out here?

Speaker 2 (11:07):
Man? You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (11:08):
I met you on your on your on your ship,
like we was out there fuck with dtr Barbro and
I met you in action, so and I've been watching
every since then. You do some really dope ship for
the community, for the youth, you know what I'm saying.
Just period with the health journey, you know, I'm trying
to kick niggas on top. Brought me some shit. I
appreciate that, but how hard is it to like come

(11:28):
home and just remain focused. But you was focus in
there though, right, So you was already ready like wallowin.

Speaker 2 (11:36):
Yeah, you gotta be ready, man, that ship wrote down Yeah,
just she wrote down like that. Definitely. I do vision boards, okay.
One of the main thing I'm taking school man. Vision
boards has been very instrumental for me. The vision. I
got the goals that I had in twenty fifteen. Right now,
I'm still finishing the up the truck I got outside
order down in twenty fifteen, the foundation, the business with

(12:00):
the sea moss, you know, all that stuff. That stuff
being wrote down, you know, to building a relationship with
my daughter going to Egypt. I just came back from
Egypt two months ago. They've been on the vision board
since twenty fifteen. Yeah, so I'm big on writing stuff
down with Abaca two two three, say write the vision,
now make it for Abaca two. What's that chapter? Oh yeah,

(12:26):
chapter two. Write the vision now make it plain. I
believe in it. You gotta write that vision now. I believe.
I believe so too. I need to start writing my ship.
Now I be thinking it rolled in my head that
I need to look at it different. Man. Yeah, we
get vision, We get a real poster board and print
out some pictures. And actually, when you sit there and
put them down on their board, man, you make it

(12:47):
ten times more likely to happen. That what people don't
realize when you write it, you make it ten times
or more likely happen. Think about what writing is writing,
it's putting a spell. You casting a spell that you
want to happen. The law of attraction is rhythm law
attraction is real enough. Well so, so y'all just about
to ask you how big are you on? Like manifesting thing?
That's everything, Everything that I'm doing right now in my

(13:10):
life without accomplished in being home, that is manifestation. It's manifestation, man,
not only what I been able to accomplish, but the
people that's around me. I got my daughter making vision boards.
I got the elders and my cousins making vision boards.

(13:31):
Every school we go to we do vision boards. You
know it worked. It worked. Man. Let's get into a
focus twenty one foundation. What that's all about? What is
it all about? Bro? Man? Let me tell you about
this man. Follow one's course until successful. Look at follow
one's course until successful. Twenty one. That's the number breakthrough.

(13:55):
That's the number breakthrough. That's number breakthrough. That's always been
my football number since I was looking. Didn't even know so,
of course I dine he inspired all that, but just
knowing the power that it holds. Man, When I was
at the halfway house, one of the councilors, he's actually
on my board now he one day, spoke that out
focused on the one. He foke out the focus and

(14:15):
the acronym for it. From that point, I walked out
the offer, went upstairs. I had a dude do the
poster board for it, and that was it. God gave
me the vision in two thousand, twenty twelve, I was
doing a lot of meditating. I have never meditated in
my life. Prison taught me somewhere. Man, I ain't gonna
take no lie. You could talk about the negative, but

(14:35):
but I really focus on the positive. Wow. I learned
how to meditate, man, and I was in the room.
They didn't winn sent me back to Cab County because
I got caught on Griffin. They busted my house in
the cab too, so I got trafficcking in two different
counties the same day, the same time, all the board,
so I had to go back to the cab to
do a case. I was on the a floor twenty
three hour lockdown. That's when I really started learning how

(14:56):
to meditate. And God had gave me the vision. But
I want you to take care of these kids, and
it took it a step farther them. Twenty sixteen, I
had been praying about getting out and I got drug charge.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
Man.

Speaker 2 (15:08):
They gave me a license on drugs and thirty to
twenty and the third was supposed to be seven years. Yeah,
the seven years came. Two weeks before I went home.
They brought me a letter and saying they took it
from me. Damn. Five months later, absolute true, my daddy died.
They called me in and tell me that my daddy
had passed away. Later on that day they called him back.

(15:30):
We got a letter from the pro board manipulating the system.
They took my time and gave me three more years.
I won't getting in no trouble.

Speaker 3 (15:38):
Why they say you manipulated since because you won't get
me in trouble because you just they expect you to
get in trouble when you're in prison.

Speaker 2 (15:44):
All right, moving right along with that. Damn, that's cold play.
So nigga, you ain't been in nothing, but you just trying,
you finessing, you're doing something. They feel like they're doing something.
I ain't gonna lie. I say, I want I ain't
use the phone, and I want't fight, you know, getting
fighting all those stuff. You just wasn't getting caught getting caught. Yeah,
you know something I thought I was good at getting
away with my whole life. Yeah you know, but yeah

(16:06):
it's crazy, bro damn. So they set to y'all three
years and then all three years, but I didn't stay.
I didn't stay three years going back to the focus
twenty one. They you know, send me to the halfway
house right after that. I was in half ary four months,
halfway house four months, and I ended up. We went
to eat downtown where the pro boar was at. I

(16:26):
had a friend who had been talking to one a
pro boar for me. Helped me get out, so I
seen her. When I got ready to pay for my
food and lead left, I told the young lady I
was gonna pay for this lady's lunch. I didn't. I
didn't have no thought of no me. I was gonna
turn out on the end. But they set out fragnizing.
I bought the lad to lunch. They sent me back

(16:46):
to prison, so we going back to prison, sent me
to hand cock. So now they send me back to
a level five. When they sent me back to prison,
that's short of my time. I ain't up coming home
in a year and a half instead of doing three year.
But it's how God worked, man, and the thing everybody.
When I went there, I went there. I was there
a witness to be everything I've been in prison, Bro.
I was totally sold out on Yoshua christ y'all wah.

(17:10):
I wasn't playing with it, Bro, and still to this
day doing it. So when I went down there, folks
banging and nibbing and stabbing each other, all the above,
But folks the same folks come talk to me. Roger
just wanted to give my life to God. I don't
know how I want to get out this game, man.
God had used my journey in prison to help so
many people find their way. Now what they did with
the gyms I gave, I don't know. But it was

(17:32):
meant for me to go to Hancock. Never seen nothing
like that. So many young brothers who got life with
our parole all on on the myth, all of them
geeked up, try to run from that pain for that time.
And people don't realize it's like a mental institution. A
lot of these folk don't need to be in prison,
but these folks need to be against some help, so

(17:53):
they mentally gone childhood all the above. But that journey
sent me home early, Bro. It sent me home on
early I went to Handcock. Then I finished like a
last month in Washington, and I came home early and
this hit when I'll tell you by twenty sixteen, I
was praying by coming home because on my papers it
said zero. He didin't say no date, no time, or nothing.

(18:14):
Because I got there thirty. I had a dream about
a black lady. This black lady was in a room
with a bunch of kids. All the kids were happy,
they would smiling, They woul laughing, blah blah, saying like
what's going on? She called me to come in. When
she called me, she gave me. She the paper. She
the paper says songs nine and one. I was praise
the Lord my whole heart until he for his marvelous works.

(18:36):
I studied, I read it over and over. I came
home nine years and one month. She gave me a
song nine and one. God gave me the recipe. Man,
he don't play, but you just got to be paying attention.
This is what I learned about life. God talked to
all of us all the time. But if you ain't listening,
if you ain't fasting, you're gonna be so distracted what's
going on in the world. You're gonna miss it. So

(18:57):
with your fast consist of besides, so I have different fasts.
Sometimes I go on straight water. Sometimes it'll be no
food and water. The most I did is three days.
But I try to make sure I do at least
want some month. Try to get three days and at
least want some month. No food, no water, just straight
trying to stay connected him anywhere like a dry fast. Yeah, nothing,
no food, no water after seventy two hours. Notice man,

(19:20):
I noticed with the sea moss if a person dealing
with high blood high clystraw caunsel. I don't care what
you dealing with your body. You were design the fast,
just like anything God say when he said in the
Word that you farm for seven years, then with the
land has to risk everything. You have to have the risk.
So when you hit that seventy two hours, you'll body
fast with no water, no food, your cells everything, start

(19:42):
eating everything that's bad up in your body. My nigga just.

Speaker 3 (19:44):
Told me that he was done. He said he just
did some days DJ money you know, yeah, he said
he did some he did some days straight. I just
seen him like a week could go at the one
music fast. If you want to hear anything, with your
body fast and is the key. Fastest there you do
three day, ain't no nothing. Stay focused.

Speaker 2 (20:05):
I mean I say focus, stay focused on doing something else.
But when you faster, it has to be some positive.
So whether listen to gospel music reading. You know me personally,
I got a thousand jobs, so I still got to
go work around a bunch of people. And the enemy
are gonna throw everybody you can that you kind of
throw you off. But you gotta stay focused. Man, How
there you? So you go on outside hunger fuck like that? Yeah,

(20:28):
I work ups, trade, trade drop. So you're gonna fans
for three days not eating that and work. I don't know.
I just not only I was doing it in prison.
I'll still work out, but now all I do is walk.
If I'm gonna do that fast, now, all I'm gonna
do is walk. I'm telling you, bro, you can do anything.
You're nah, You're right. They said reset your body, though, man,

(20:49):
everything bro, you reset your mind. That's the biggest thing
that we we don't we don't understand that the food
is designed to kill your mind. Right now? Everything is
your panel gland here. When you looking at the Egyptians,
they always have an acorn in their hand. Your paneal
gland is the smallest gland in your body. You control
your motor function. But it's also known as your third eye.

(21:10):
Every time you bresh your teeth with fluoride, flooriders and
all the food to start paying attention to the label,
the reading, the floor riders in that it makes it hard.
So if it makes it hard, it can't do what
it's been designed to do. Everything you eating is to
dumb you down. You said, fluoride, Make sure glant in
your what your paneal gland? It makes it hard? Hald
like what hard? It's a soft land. Okay, So we

(21:32):
got to think about all the different functions that it
has the smallest land, but it's one of the most
powerful glands in your body, also known as your third eye.
But the Egyptians knew this because when you look at
the Egyptians, that's Syrians and all the different ancient civilizations,
they always have that pine cone. The pine cone resembles
that right there. So what I've learned is watching the
food that I eat as much as I can. You

(21:52):
gotta if you eat anything. And they got injurious and
it looks like an essay. No unity, which you mean essay,
you got too many chemicals in it, man, Yeah, like
charagraph yeah stuff. And you start reading all this stuff
you don't know what to mean that you're like with
all most serious got H phosphate It's uh, I be
what it is? Some type of phosphate. It's the same

(22:14):
stuff you to clean pull paint off the wall, but
it's in our cereal. You know, you're going out of
the country. You start realizing that most of the stuff
that we got is band in over thirty some countries.
You gotta be we gotta be on point, man. We'll
put it in our body. Even with the fish, I
mostly do. I'm a peer and I try to stay
away from the meat, meat contaminated. I don't know if
you up into the vitaminator yeah yeah, yeah, I got

(22:36):
a I'm vegan. Yeah yeah, the truth. But she helped
me understand reading out having bad pain because I was
eating chicken, tomatoes and peanuts. I'm gonna beat that's terrible
for me, you know what I mean. But hey, y'all, good,
y'all can eat meat. We're just supputed to eat chicken
and turkey. It's really y'all can see you meat most meat,

(22:58):
especially chicken, is bad for me. You know what I mean.
So when I when I started learning about my body
and how my body act, Hey, it was a no brainer.
Tied him a back hurt. Yeah, you know we talked
about that. Man. Man gotta change up something. Yeah, my
shit hurt like a mother. And now you drink a
lot of water. Yeah, but I got scoles though my
ship curve, so I think it's getting worse and worse.
I got to keep you sea maws. Sea males can't

(23:21):
fix no curve. They don't tell me what sea moss
can't do. Sea malls can do anything you want to do.
Se Mas is amazing.

Speaker 1 (23:26):
Man.

Speaker 2 (23:27):
It's a video dude walking with doctor saving. He had
the cartilage was missing going, uh, going away in his
back like mine. I'm losing cartilage, you know, he said, save.
You put him on in that purple seams. The cottage
just start growing back the Doctor's till you can't happen.
And God has made an earth for everything. Nine, I
gave you the herbs of the earth. You think he

(23:50):
won't prepare folks doing what it doing. You just gotta
find the earth for you.

Speaker 3 (23:54):
Nah, you're right. I'm damn sure to try that three
day though. Sure, I'm gonna try that ship.

Speaker 2 (24:00):
I'm said. The big thing too, A lot of the
diseases and all the things that we deal with is
because of the gut. So we started studying the chackles.
It's another it's another brain right here. It's supposed to
be three brains. This one the heart, and then the
one that's in your stomach, and the one right here
control so much. That's why you get butterflies when you
get nervous and all these different things. If you keep

(24:21):
that gut down, their body work works so much better,
work like a machine.

Speaker 3 (24:25):
So no, for sure, what's some of the things you
feel like what's told to you by your daddy then
that you couldn't see then that you can see clear now,
like damn.

Speaker 2 (24:38):
You know, my dad always told me I had so much,
so much potential to do more than what I was doing.
Natural leader, you know, and the where God set me up,
people follow me. And my biggest issue was, man, I
was doing all the negative stuff because that's all I
opened my mind. And seeing around you know, where I

(25:00):
grew up, everybody was doing something. He was stealing calls,
selling drugs and I didn't really have anybody telling me
the importance of reading outside of school. My daddy telling man,
you need to read more. Why because he didn't read,
couldn't read. Didn't never look at it like that until
I got older, Like he really survived its loan without reading.

(25:22):
You don't feeling our bills. I wondered why I was
feeling our bills at early age, you know. Like, but
that's one of the main things I took from the
other thing was he all told me to watch my friends.
I had a lot of people support me while I
was gone, but when I came home, a lot of
people hadn't changed same mindset. So I find myself by
myself all the time, you know, for the simple reason

(25:45):
of not ever want to go back. That's one of
the main things. Just mindset, mindset, and a lot of
the guys that I've been fortunate to graduate gravitate to now,
the guys who just come in my circle, you know,
guil one of my mentors, uh, Darryl Anderson or a
National limousine, like a lot of older guys mentors everything. Man, Like,

(26:10):
I feel like my my success up to now at
this point, first and foremost God, but because they have
some great mentors around me, watching them and watching you
know how they move family life. Being around guys who
are really married keep you out a lot of trouble.
You know, guys who are really committed to their marriage
that bun and watching how successful they are. Because I

(26:32):
noticed it say a man who finds a wife, finds
a good thing and obtain favor from the Lord. So
I heard Jamal Brian say, h, everything y'all seen me accomplished,
that's been mercy and grace from God. But now I'm
about met my queen. I'm about to get married. Now
you're about to start seeing some favor. And it made
you start to thinking, like God design is thing for

(26:54):
a reason. You need to come want with somebody. So
when you be connecting with all these different spirits, you
can mess you up for facts, facts, but you gotta
add the right one. Though you ever got to add
the right one, though you're wrong out here, But they
come back to that discernment. Though if you go to

(27:15):
sermon ain't right, You're gonna keep it. And I noticed
childhood makes everything make a difference with everything that you choose,
especially to my relationship. If Dad one day, if mom
wasn't loving all those things right there play a fact
and the people that we choose. So when you really
start working on yourself, because I don't believe that you
can really jump in a relationship and you ain't start
healing healing yourself from childhood trauma and it's trauma that

(27:38):
you create on a daily basis. So once you start
doing that, man, you're gonna choose the right one. Yeah.
Uh so you end up getting an award from Biden
Lifetime Achieving Award. Hey man, this year has been crazy.
I'm gonna tell you. Every year has been so much progress.
But this year I got my doctrine, my unrear doctrine, graduation,

(28:01):
International Humanitarian, I won the UPS Community Service Award for
the whole Southeast for my works in the community, all
these different things. I wanted the mentor the Year from
the under Our Father. I didn't apply for none of
this stuff. I didn't look for an accolades because the

(28:21):
work that I do in the community with the kids,
the reward is watching them and watching them progress, watching
them and become better. I got two guys that I
sent the Foundation. We sent one to Georgia State, we
sent one to Bathune cooking, and we send another one
to Howard. That's where the award comes from. But all year, man,

(28:42):
God has been showing me. Man, I'm watching because sometimes
it feel like it's all in vain. Yeah. I got
kids last month. Just in one week. I had one
go to a mintal institution. I had his brother cut
his risks and try to commit suicide. And I had
another one Lord DJ, shout out DJ. Man. He just

(29:04):
told me her dad that had been touching on him
since he was Look, he ain't never told nobody O
bid you know, like that's bid, Like you just don't
these kids going through so much and have nobody to
communicate with, you know. And I've been there. I've been there.
I've been there, smoking so much weed, trying to forget

(29:25):
my mom and watching her die and listening to it,
watching her have a stroke. I've been there, and nobody
coming to talk to me how to handle this. And
my football coaches these folks were smoking weed with me
and drinking. I was selling weed and my my coaches
in high school. It's crazy, man, Like. Yeah, so that
that that's rewarded, man, is everything for me.

Speaker 3 (29:44):
Man. Yeah, he's saying basically, just giving the giving these
kids an ear and a hug, because I remember I
went to the school, uh with Dr Barray. He was like, man,
a lot of these kids said they ain't never had
a hug before. That's crazy, se it, bro, that's cold.
Not telling nobody they love you like that. That's big
first thing I do when I going up. I don't
know who told. I don't know if nobody told y'

(30:06):
all day, but I love y'all. Anybody need a hug
before this is old, with or when it's old. What
I got you come in in the hug. A hug
means so much. And I'm gonna tell you what I
means so much me. When you're in prison and somebody
can see you, you can't do nothing else but get
the hug. When it's old and you might not see
nobody for a long time, all you can do is
hold on to their hood.

Speaker 2 (30:27):
I'm serious about their hug now. Like you find out,
some animals die if they don't get a certain level
of affection. Their hug is everything. Man, it's gonna be alright.
Sometimes you don't even need words. It's gonna be all right.
Let me get that hug. Nah, that's great. So so
basically feel like you walking in your purpose by that

(30:50):
right with the kids. Yeah, my goal is be the
number one motivational speaker in the country, but my purpose
is focused twenty one cultivate needs kids be leaders and entrepreneurs.
What does the line mentality mean? Oh, man, So I
developed a line mentality by studying studying COVID and the

(31:13):
mama mentality. But I'm a leo and I've always been
attracted to the lions. So when I started studying line,
I started realizing, man, the smartest one in the in
the animal kingdom, it's the chimpanzee. The biggest is the elephant,
the fastest, the cheat them. Why is the lion the
king of the jungman attitude? When he walk up to

(31:36):
the elephant, he see lunch, you know, when he see
anything that's bigger than him, he read it. So I
realized that for me to survive as long as I have,
I had a line mentality. I just finally put a
phrase with it. And now we got the you know,
the books and everything coming out my curriculum is the
line mentality. You know, I'm doing a I'm doing a book,

(31:58):
a self help book called the Line mentality. We gotta.
I've just finished the kids book called the Line mentality.
Everything surrounds on your attitude, how you yourself. I think
the biggest thing that I learned that dealing with people,
that they have a real poor perception of how they look.
And that's why fathers are important. Mothers are everything, the

(32:20):
queens of the Earth's most powerful creatures on the earth.
But a father, a father can changed his whole world around.
But if he ain't got the line mentality that means
protect them, provide visionary, leader, cultivating, it's gonna be hard
for him to walk in his purpose. Yeah. The line
mentality teaches you walk in your purpose, but you got

(32:40):
to have an attitude. You got to have a mindset. Nah,
no facts, you gotta have the mindset. I'd like to
have the mindset. Yeah nah, really shit.

Speaker 3 (32:52):
Let mean I want to ask you the like I
always ask people these questions, Well not questions, it's just
like certain words.

Speaker 2 (33:00):
That I be wanting people. They spawn on you know
what I'm saying. Like manifestation.

Speaker 3 (33:03):
We already talked about that and that's part of the
line mentality and Focus twenty one, right, just manifesting, sending
in that box. You manifested yourself sitting right here right
do you do you ever take that for granted though?
You know how some people are being upset that they
not here, but they actually hear you know what I'm saying,

(33:24):
They actually in their prayer, in their prayers, but they
ambition wanting them to be somewhere else, So they kind
of don't be grateful, if that makes sense what I'm.

Speaker 2 (33:33):
Saying, Yeah, they do. I think that's when the fast
and the prayer really his home. I definitely do take
for granted. I definitely do. Man, I spend to be
so much fathering than I am. But when I look
at where I'm at doing exactly what I need to

(33:55):
be doing and what you pray to be doing and
what I pray to be doing. But there's nothing wrong
with being ambitious. I think see Bear and Sea was
supposed to be numb one see most company in the world.
But if it was what I be to to strate
to do, focus on the one those questions I'll be
asking myself, you know. I definitely so I'm gonna worker halic.

(34:20):
They say I had to go to the hospital because
I wan't get enough sleep. They told me that your
muscles were deteriorating because you're not getting enough sleep. It's
like two years ago, and it's because I'm working so
hard to be that provider that I always wanted to be,
not necessarily just giving people stuff, but putting people in

(34:41):
position same way. So many people have helped me, and
when I'm doing that, I'm missing out. I'm taking for
granted time with my daughter, time with my family. That's
the way I'm taking it for granted too. When you
when you're so focused on you and elevator in areas

(35:01):
you feel is important, but not realizing that our purpose
is to help somebody else. Our purpose is to open
doors for other people and make sure they are right,
make sure their mental health is good. You can lose
sight of that when we start focusing too much on.

Speaker 3 (35:15):
Yourself, spirituality, how you feel about spirituality, and religion.

Speaker 2 (35:22):
Religion is a tool used to control people. I go
to new Birth, I'm on I'm on the prison ministry, outreach,
all that, but I'm not religious. I studied the Crown,
I studied the Bible, the boodh or the dollary Poma,
which is the Buddhist Bible. I read everything bro I
study Newabbi in fibercenters, like, I ain't fluenting everything, but

(35:45):
I know about everything.

Speaker 3 (35:47):
By knowing about everything, how do is? How do it
all exist in the same world?

Speaker 2 (35:55):
It's only one God, period. I agree. Where you grow up,
where you live make a big difference in that if
I grew up in India and I wasn't around Christians
or Muslims, I'd probably be a Buddhist. Does that mean
that I'm not gonna be able to see the most High?
I don't believe it, because these people discipline, these people
living the best life they can. They loving their neighbors,

(36:17):
they love they self, They ain't trying to hurt nobody.
So that's how I feel, Man, I feel like your
relationship with godship between you and Him and how you
worship it between you you and Him. I'm not judgment
at all. When to Egypt, I went to the Marsque,
you know what I mean. I got a lot of
homeboys who Muslims, you know what I mean. Studying, I

(36:39):
go to the Buddhist temple out here in out here,
in living great people to talk to, get wisdom, knowledge
from them as well, you know what I mean. So
with me, man, find your path. Don't let nobody else
direct your path. Find your path to the most high.
Stay connected in the way that makes you feel a home.
Because a lot of us are not whole. Oh, because

(37:01):
we spend too much time trying to please other people.
We spend too much time trying to do what they
say is the right way to praise God. But internally,
you shoul already know because God and you look for
God here where else. You know, I go to church,
He ain't in that church until if we come into
that church, He with you every day. You just gotta
tap in. What's some how big are you don character

(37:26):
like and what's some things that turn you off for people?
When they like you meet a person, if they charant
ain't like this, or if it's like that, I can't
deal with you. I can deal with you how you.
Character is everything to me. It's one of the most
important things that I value my name. My name. No

(37:48):
matter where I go, somebody should have some positive say.
They can say arrogant, they can say whatever you want
to say, but they can't say nobody's characters get back.
He loved people, you know what I mean. He respectful,
he's consistent. You know certain things go along with your characters.

(38:09):
I think characters everything. I think a lot of people
want to be so successful that they missed what's the
most important part about being successful? Successful the equate to
how much money you got, what type of character you have?
That's the sis.

Speaker 3 (38:25):
That's no, I agree with that. Let me see what
else we got relationships? But you're married voice.

Speaker 2 (38:39):
He was engaged. I was just recently engaged, and I
broke it out. I broke it off.

Speaker 1 (38:44):
It was a.

Speaker 2 (38:46):
Heartbreaking. It was twenty five years I invested, were we
invested in each other? Well, we end up having to
go the other way twenty five years while I took
Salona to get it, trying to get it. So she's
my best friend, pride to going to prison. Okay, she
wroughted me the whole nine years. And I'm so big
on Lord ten character that over the six years when

(39:07):
things were here and left, I can't leave. She been
there for me. You know, she's done so much. She
helped me get on my feet. You know she was
in a financial situation where you know, anything that I desired,
she made it happy. And I know she loved me
to death. But somewhere down the line, the respect start
getting lost, and I feel like I would lose it

(39:30):
myself in the midst of it. Who love of respect?
You love of respect? Y'all love respect? And she lost
respect the way that she u the way that she
was talking, the way that she bro she was out
of pocket. You know this whole whole time we known
each other. She's never been out of pocket like she
was the last two years. And I proposed in twenty

(39:52):
twenty two, and every time we try to get a house,
every time we try to bring our family together, that
was the issue. And I really couldn't pinpoint it. No
very spiritual person. It ain't nothing I really can say
about her that's bad. But that controlling that ain't gonna work.
Lack of respect, that ain't gonna work. And I put

(40:14):
up with it. I put up with it for about
a year and a half. You know, I just got time.

Speaker 3 (40:18):
Do you feel like she she she felt as though
you old her so she could talk and say whatever
she wanted to say.

Speaker 2 (40:25):
Many times. What she say bro old me, Damn, I've
been there for you. How them your daddy died. I
was the nurse who was looking over him. Damn.

Speaker 3 (40:34):
She she was everything bro like she been she been there, bro,
And I say, been there. She's saying she wasn't telling
no lie about what she's saying, but she was saying it.

Speaker 2 (40:43):
She won't tell no lie. How that made you feel?
She's she's bringing them a cup. It's Lords, bro, And
when she said it, it activated something.

Speaker 4 (40:51):
Mean.

Speaker 2 (40:51):
Bro, I'm real big on Lords. I love you. You've
been there for me all the above you. You helped
me achieve most of the things I've I've been able
to you. But when you start saying you got what
you got because of me and not God, we got
an issue. Really, we got a issue. Respect is everything, King.
I noticed people don't even understand being submissing me. Submiss

(41:15):
don't mean doing everything a man say. It just mean
being respectful. Because when you respect that man, that man
to go out there and make anything happen. He ain't
got to have the intelligence, he ain't got to have
the book saying, but he he got that hustle, that
line to tell you he gonna make it happen. And
King I used to make it happen, still making it happen.

(41:37):
So do you think you fucked up by trying to
God damn be with him?

Speaker 3 (41:40):
No, don't regret now to day. I just know what
I'm saying. You think y'all would have had a better friendship.
Y'all just stayed friends.

Speaker 2 (41:48):
I don't regret nothing, but I think I think we
did the right thing. Okay, I think it was your time. Yeah,
you know, and I still wonder from time to time
that I made the right decision. But I prayed about it.
I prayed about the world. I prayed about it two years.
He kept giving me the signs.

Speaker 3 (42:04):
So you feel like you feel like at the end
of the day, if I have stayed with you, I
have been I would end up had to be the
person that I don't want to be no more because
you're being disrespectful and that you're gonna bring somebody to
me that I don't want to even see.

Speaker 2 (42:16):
Everybody's gonna argue, it's the way you argue. Yeah, everybody
will have disagreements. But when it started getting in public,
when it started being to the point, w y'all can't
be around each other. Y'all can't even see a word
without argument. Y'all not intimate. Y'all not intimate. The intimate
ain't always just sex. But y'all have no form of intimacy.
We can't even talk and laugh together. Oh I had

(42:38):
an old older cat. Tell me, man, when you can
laugh all day, every day with your spouse, just the
highest form of love. But if you take the laught
out of relationship. But y'all ain't got nothing. You laugh,
somebody else someone laughing somebody, Come on. When that goes

(43:00):
way like that, it's something else or you somebody doing something.
The therapy wasn't working, That's what I'm gonna say. Well,
because we talked about it, man, and I believe it's too.
A friend of yours is a friend of mine. You
got a friend, it ain't my friend. Yeah, man, that's
a problem. Yeah, that's a problem. Yeah, you get me
on that though, friend, You know, I got a spout,

(43:23):
but that's your friend too, yeah, roll yeah, yeah, yeah,
damn man. Disrespect is not tolerated on those shape from fact.
But what's you disrespect for? Though? I had to come
and that's when you When you start disrespecting the man,

(43:45):
not showing him, devaluing his worth, you're gonna get a
version of man you don't like. She got a version
of the man that she didn't like and that I
didn't like. And that that that's everything. I don't call
y'all your name, she never had an issue. I don't
put my hands on you, but becaustant, bigger and arguing

(44:06):
about the pitiest things. I'm I'm big on solutions. If
we can't find a solution to a problem, we don't
need to be around each other.

Speaker 1 (44:15):
Nah.

Speaker 3 (44:15):
I agree, Damn you be missing, Yeah, don't don't continue
to miss but over there, miss you while yoa over there.

Speaker 2 (44:25):
Yeah, I'm not I can dig that. Nah.

Speaker 3 (44:29):
But you know, sometimes people ain't gonna say women people
god damn when they feel like, damn been there for you,
they don't understand it. That still, that don't mean you
could treat me or say anything you want to say.
You know what I'm saying. It's just like most women
be saying like he feels like because he do this,
he can do whatever. You know what I'm saying. Nah,
that shit don't work like that. I think, Yeah, I

(44:54):
agree with that.

Speaker 2 (44:54):
I know. Safety is everything for a women, respect is
everything for a man. So what I didn't understand was
when I wasn't in the situation to give you that
safety bad and then I get a situation where I
can't provide this safety. Why would you start nothing up now?
I don't know up now she could because I don't

(45:18):
know y'all situation. But it sounds like if I got
you right here, I got a level of control. But
if I get you right here now you're starting to
see that I want to be controller, you get you
know what I'm saying, Cause niggas have got damn play possible.
Niggas a play possible, like I gotta figure this ship out,

(45:40):
you know what I'm saying. Right by so, but now
nigga like starting to see it worth like, hold on, man, hey,
tone that down a little bit. Hey, I believe that.
But I also seen man that we all did them
with some type of traumba. So when a woman, for example,
has to be a control all the time, some's wrong

(46:02):
with that because every woman she wanted to be able
to show her femininity on her all the time. You
don't want to have to be strong, you know, all
that independent. I hear that, But that ain't that ain't
your nature. Your nature is to be in a safe
spot where you can be feminine all the time. When
you when you find yourself, always want to be in control.
That's some internal flaws that you need to deal with.

(46:22):
My girl dealing with that. We were dealing with man,
that therapy didn't work with a therapy and what they say.
The lady told me you need to evaluate this. She
told you that you need to re evaluate this. She
the big Okay, it would have worked if she wanted
to work. For the personal. They not gonna change. You're
just gonna deal with it. That ain't gonna work. See,

(46:46):
you had to let her get too far gone. That's
all it is. You let her get too Yeah, you
get letter. You too appreciative.

Speaker 3 (46:53):
You know when you when a niggas appreciative and humble
to a woman, No, for real fact he does said
they go to thinking like you know, mother pussy be
thinking I'll be tripping man, But no, you just say
I rather got there sleep in the shell man, me.

Speaker 2 (47:10):
Man, this personal own bit nothing.

Speaker 3 (47:13):
Listen man, because you ain't gonna never because guess what
if you if you was us like just so good.
This good thing about it is you walking in your
purpose because some niggas are a stay there out of guilt.
You know what I'm saying, Like, man, I can't do
that girl like that?

Speaker 2 (47:30):
She just crazy. Man. I can't do it like that.
She I evacuate that so many times. She she just
like a moment man, mom controlling, but she loving, you know,
she do this, she do that. No, man, that ain't
it man, respect that ain't no compromise with respect. Hell no,
no whatsoever. And when you get to the point where

(47:51):
you you feel bold enough to embarrassed yourself, because if
you try to embarrass your man and puffy, you embarrassing yourself.
For y'all one, that's the last stop. What she doing?
What she did, man, he said like he just with
a last brother went it went there. Yeah, I don't

(48:12):
believe put your hands on nobody, and I don't believe
those words. I called the police who said that. I'm
just telling you it's it's a certain things. I'm lawyer
to a certain extent. I realized it. Now I was
layd to whatever, but now I'm lord to a certain extent.
Put your hands on me. No, no, I take a

(48:33):
whole bunch of stuff. Their word. I called the police
when I ain't did that. Oh no, we never gonna
do that. It's over, damn rap. She could did anything
el with them too. Head shot boom, yeah, gone on
because gues what any of you don't call them, You're
gonna really everything just slowly progress.

Speaker 3 (48:52):
Man, Like first bitch be like, ah, shut up, you
know what I'm saying. Then they shut your whole ad.

Speaker 2 (49:00):
That's up. It just graduate to let this bit you.
Because you just let it graduate. You gotta check. You
gotta check that that first smack at that, Yeah, that ain't.
Don't do that. Yeah, because that ship gonna lead to
some most ship. I don't seen it. I'm a life

(49:21):
coach too. I ain't gonna tell you this. I do
a lot of reading about psychology, so when I be
hearing couples, it's crazy how we can tell somebody else
this stuff and you be sitting there going through this
stuff at the house. You're like, man, I ain't even
taking my own advice. I ain't going to that. Bron
how many years say ship like that? You just don't,

(49:42):
But I ain't. I didn't deal with you. Cant said
you better say it on your brother, you better say it.
I didn't deal with most of the verbal abuse, but
just the disrespect and arguments and disagreements. If we have
disagreement at the house, me and my homeboy was going
back and forth about sports. I had my whole board

(50:04):
or we was having a meeting withever and she might
have jumped in and saying could you hush? I mean no,
could you all? Could you keep it down? That's how
it started. So I'm still talking blah blah blah. She
putting on me, putting on me. I'm like, hey, let
that go, stay out of this. So now you have
turned into a verbal occasion in front of everybody to
me saying get out. It should never come to that, bro,

(50:28):
what you even doing by us? Why are you in him?
But it should never come to that. But why are
you in there? Was it like other ladies in there? Yeah?
It was my whole my whole board, my whole folks
on the one board with them. Oh okay, okay, I
think you're saying like your boys. But the point of
the matter was like, it's just certain conversations you don't
get in, especially two men talking. Spect you're like two

(50:50):
women over there talking. I ain't got to do that.

Speaker 3 (50:53):
Yeah nah, I'm big on that too. Don't disagree with
me in front of nobody. I don't give a damn
how you disagree. Give me a look that I'm tripping
but don't let me pop up loud to my.

Speaker 2 (51:04):
This what I'm telling you. You know how people say
you just missed it. You won't like that. Huh, you
won't like that. Bro. When I said it came over
it last year, it came this last year. You know
they gonna say you got got ship together and just said,
fuck that lady.

Speaker 1 (51:20):
He do that?

Speaker 2 (51:21):
Did you do? I wouldn't do that.

Speaker 1 (51:23):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (51:24):
My partner's hammer Leo. But he'll do that Leo big
on a spip. No to the max, see, but he'll
he'll flip it with though. You know what I'm saying.
You just went in there and got that patience and
all that ship. You know what I'm saying, working on that?
You know, definitely still working on this. My mouth you
real fly to them. Yeah, you know what I mean?
Or mister Barry, you put to the side. Man, come

(51:48):
out quick. But I don't never want to be that
way with my lady. Man. Hell now you can't. I
don't never want to be that way man. So nigga
to the point where I got to be, I'm losing myself, well,
my values and what's import Like I said, she's an
amazing person. She always don't have somebody, you know what
I mean? She just that amazing, but she just not
for me right now now on this stage, y'all life,

(52:11):
how you out? Now? You know what I'm saying. I
got your ship?

Speaker 3 (52:18):
So what you're doing, what you're doing, you're just focusing
on you. You ain't walking around now. I got I
got a friend, but I'm taking everything slow.

Speaker 2 (52:25):
Man, you had her when you had her? No you did?
She think you did though? Right, both women gonna think.
Yeah she she she did. She dan't the dude already
to No, we were talking periodically. It's crazy. She came
to the Polo Fashion Fast show. I had my friend.

(52:48):
She came. Yeah, I was stepping too. We came. Yeah
because y'all at the box and ship too? Right? Yeah?
But it then all she ain't say that. She ain't
get all lie. We talked after. Yeah, it's cool. She's
a big girl, though I say big girl. She's a
real boss. You can't boss me around, you boss. Everybody

(53:09):
else around this can't boss me around. So what the
conversation like? You apologize? She apologized? Anybody apologize? Yeah? All
they help? Man, So you think y'all y'all still main
friends friends, too much, too much invest and her son
is my son. Yeah, when I come to a child
like bro, only because all the relationship, he's my son.
That's real. It's just we do on the line that

(53:31):
this one. Yeah, and you know I can't have you
on the board all the all the compries either. Huh.
But you're a cold nigga, bro, what so what happened
that business? Business? So you got out of jail, laid

(53:53):
out the board, but that fucked up. It won't gonna
work right, you know we got we got our tired
too strong, Bro, I ain't going back trying to hear.
I ain't doing none of that bro tied too strong, Bro. Yeah,
I love the person with all my heart. Bro, I
can't play like that. And I know when I it's
easy for a man to go on than it is

(54:15):
for a female. Wh you think when you when you're
a man of value, the value out here, you know
what I mean at the value out here. So when
you're a man of value, you just got to pick
what you know, what you want. You know, the new
thing is a nigga who knows what he wants. He's saddy.
Now you know that.

Speaker 3 (54:33):
I'm just saying you know that nigga who a nigga
who ain't going back and forth, ain't doing all that.

Speaker 2 (54:40):
I'm telling you. A nigga who got damn with the
relationship helped me REALI bro, like, what you wanted? What
you do? So her dad told me to write write
a letter to God about what I wanted a wife.
And when I pray for her, there's certain things that
I didn't pray for, Okay, and she didn't. She didn't

(55:02):
simplify you know what I'm saying. Controlling the Uh yeah,
allow me to be a man. Yeah, don't tell me
what a man is supposed to do and what a
man need to do. You ain't no man, I've been
doing this a long time. I'm good. I'm good. You
know what I mean. So what I didn't pray for
I didn't get so.

Speaker 3 (55:21):
But were you compromising at first, like when you first
got out, like where you kind of come to mind,
let her control a little bit?

Speaker 2 (55:27):
She went like that. She wasn't as bad she went.
He got bad over last year year and he like
to the point, I'm like, I don't even recognize when
you start when when she started going up for you,
we've been going up I want to say beyond man
from the beginning. Yeah, Bro, since the the point at
the time that I got out, I'd have had my
struggles like every man, even the ones who've been out here. Brother,

(55:50):
And I say, God has went over and be yll
for me. Brother. In fact, they said I couldn't go
in the school system because I'm gonna pro They said
I couldn't going to jails, in prison, I'm on all
this stuff they said I couldn't do. And God has
opened up door left and right, you know what I mean,
getting in rooms that I never thought i'd be in.
You know what I mean. The same way I met Miguel.
You know, she went up there. We went up there,

(56:11):
I said, and I got to meet Bro. I seen
him or I work in magic or Michael Barney, you
know magic. He had to come to call mobile few
we're going to gas up people's stuff. And I had
met Miguel through that company. I met Darren Anderson through
that company. You know what I mean. And when I
say that I want to do something, brother, and I
write it down, it happened. Been like that the whole

(56:34):
time I've been home, Bro, I been up no complaints
to the point where I can't say God ain't in
the midst of it. It's just a few things I
gotta work out. But things that haven't manifests ain't because
God ain't made the door. It's because of me, my
level of focus, focusing on one thing at a time.
That's that's probably my biggest issue, focused on one thing

(56:55):
at a time, trying to do too much and I
can't get things companised like that. That mean too time management, Yeah,
I got to have it one. We got structure. Me.
I'm bad on it, bro, I'm bad on time management.
So that's what I'm working on right now. Old girl,
a new girl got strutched. Structure, she got struct she

(57:18):
got Yeah. I just fucking with you, damn man, So
tell me something, bro, tell me something, Tell tell me something. Bro.
I'm telling you right now, man that every issue that
you got relecting in your health, you get on the
sea moss. I ain't never took mom, But I can't
just take that ship just tastes fine and trying to

(57:38):
do do you want to be here? I'm putting in
a smoothere. Mind take good though mine take. I just
don't like the texture of it. Okay, that's why you
got juicy. You put that in the blinder. Put one
hundred percent juice in. When I say one hundred percent all,
it's supposed to say whatever juice is. You say mango ingredients,
mango not all they Yeah, yeah, you don't read those synostis,

(58:02):
won't see all.

Speaker 4 (58:05):
Man.

Speaker 2 (58:05):
It's amazing, bro. Outside of that, I want you to
come really be a part of one man.

Speaker 3 (58:10):
I'm with whatever you Bro'm on whatever you bro, whenever
you're on the mom I said this ship from the beginning,
I've been here.

Speaker 2 (58:16):
You called me, called me, said, bro, all right, we're here.
Said this event we got coming up on the sixteen
Princess four day boys.

Speaker 3 (58:23):
Men, that's where I met sixteen. We're doing this ship.
Probably ain't eve gonna be out there and by then,
but we're doing a bike com bike show and Monroe. Yeah,
I'm going to a con bike show. Due bought me
the hosting and ship. Come what you what you what
you were doing on? So we got this event A
call county and four hundred kids false a lot of

(58:47):
false kids.

Speaker 2 (58:48):
Get them suits on prom dresses and talking to them,
giving them resources and things like that. But the biggest thing,
that's where I met travels at when I first went
three years ago. Everybody that was lawyers, doctors, judges, audible.
Ain't nobody from the street where them. Kids can't relate

(59:09):
to that, can't relate to that. So everybody around me
is relatable. That's why I would love to have you
with me. Bro, Like, even when we're talking to the kid,
we ain't. We just got to give it to them
wrong and cut. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (59:21):
I don't know no other way, and I don't be
wanting to be in us saying the wrong shipped to
the folks.

Speaker 2 (59:24):
Kid. Bro, you know what I'm saying. I don't know
how yeah saying Holly, you know they ain't saying much
that that's impactful. I'm trying to keep you out of prison.
And I'm trying to tell you right now, if you
ain't going to college, get you a trade. Eighty percent
of of uh the the U eighty percent of things

(59:49):
that are in college won't be there in this ten
years he y'all gonna have. So this is the opportunity
right now where we need more trades. Eighty five percent
tis the twenty twenty five carpenters will be the retired
next year. What that means that means we ain't got
no carpenters. We got we got four hundred and thirty

(01:00:10):
five million dollars just been put in Central George to
build another prison. Why because they testing kids in from
the fourth grade on down to see who gonna feel
the prisoners up. Oh man, that's cold for real. Yes,
So this is what I'm in there telling you folk
like these folk don't build a prison already for y'all,

(01:00:30):
y'all been to get prepared. I understand the mom Dad
made me teaching you now. So the best thing you
can be doing right now is read. So I'm putting
money behind every every grant that I get on getting
these kids in position to read, because that's everything. But
that's that's how I escape from everything. Man. That reading
helped me escape from my reality of feeling like all
I can do is sell drugs, bro, and not knowing

(01:00:53):
that every drug dealer, Bro, you're an entrepreneur. You're a
bit man, you that bro? What you know? You know? Security, finance,
retail or marketing, marketing, you know what I mean. The
list goes on and on. Man, It's nothing you can
do when you had that line intellient man. But you
didn't need somebody to convert to some problem. But if

(01:01:15):
you ain't reading or surrounding yourself with people doing that,
you ain't gonna happen. Nah.

Speaker 3 (01:01:19):
I heard a nigga say one time, like, uh shit, nigga,
you know you you know you can be successful because
we were selling products that you couldn't even market for real.

Speaker 2 (01:01:29):
You know what I'm saying. You had to sell it
on the on the loaf. So man, you get a
legit product that you can God damn yeah, nah for real.

Speaker 3 (01:01:41):
Hey, you say you read, and I do Book of
the Week every every week. So you say you read
a lot of books. What's the number one book you
say you'll go to if a nigga first started reading books, Like,
I'm just noting about to start reading book? Which one
you're telling to pick up first? The Alchemist alchemy that's hard,
that had the alchemi is hard? I got this to yes,

(01:02:01):
break it down a little bit fun.

Speaker 2 (01:02:03):
So the young guy was sitting on the journey to
go find something that he didn't even know he was
going to find put in reality, he was going to
find who he was and his purpose. Thanks. So he
was taking his journey through all these different lands, talking
to all the different people, the same thing we're doing
every day, because when you look at it, everybody's searching

(01:02:25):
for something and what it is is you and we
find our purpose and the wrong thing clothes, you know,
looking at other people lives, social media, all the bove,
but really you need to be looking internally for everything. Hey, alchemist,
man is it? I told her I put in a

(01:02:46):
grant and I told him I want a hundred of
those books because I want to pass those books out
to some of the guys. I deal with girls and
guys by most of the lot of the guys. But
the girls need men too. They need that men perspective
as well, because it's so many fathers. And that's not
think you're talking about knowing your value man, the falls
of everything. But we don't have a lot of value
falls of men who are value. We got a lot

(01:03:10):
of people chasing the bag and thinking that money, money
don't make you a man. Yeah, real shit, And that's
what these women fail to realize too.

Speaker 3 (01:03:19):
Back to that, like a woman, or get a dude
who having a little paper and feel like he's supposed
to be real. Any nigga gets some money, you know,
what I'm saying, you can't hold a nigga to a
standard because you got paper or thinking, because then when
the money go, they go because they ain't never like
the nigga.

Speaker 2 (01:03:36):
You get what I'm saying, Like, you ain't never like
this nigga. You just like that what came with this nigga?
We see that all the time.

Speaker 3 (01:03:42):
Yeah, so it's like that's why I don't know. That's
a whole another story. But the Alchemist, that's hard though.
I listened to that shit. I listened to at least
twice a year because I listened to mine.

Speaker 2 (01:03:52):
I can't. I ain't got nothing yet. I kind of
zone out. I had to read. I ain't got into
the all bubus yet. Yeah, I can't.

Speaker 3 (01:03:58):
I can't understand something the words, but by him, how
they're flowing with the Sinni's eyes.

Speaker 2 (01:04:02):
That should workout. I'm just keeping rid of that ship.
Work out. I can make it out.

Speaker 3 (01:04:08):
Sh But yeah, that althem is hard though. You said,
I'm going to put that ship at the top of
my library. It's in there and put on the top
of my library.

Speaker 2 (01:04:16):
What right there? That's all it's on that. Uh yeah, nigga,
I got let me see it in this phone.

Speaker 3 (01:04:23):
I got h the four Agreement, Bottle Wall, The Making
of a Sleigh, How to make Ship Happen, Think and
Grow Rich by Napoleon the Tenth Roll.

Speaker 2 (01:04:33):
What don go back there? They can grow rich? A
black choice, that is what you want? The original classic version. Yeah,
that that's that's the white man in Poland Hill. But
the black version calls from Uh, he's a professor at Clark.
You actually stay over here on the east side. I
just had a brain free it's called the Polian Hill Foindation.

(01:04:54):
When it sought him out and he got one called
the Black he remixed it U. He went and found
every black billionaire, interviewed them and interviewed over twenty millionaires
over a ten year period and put his book together
and it is phenomenal. That was hard to I'm gonna
get out into what you're talking about. I read a
lot in the Polar Year, but sometimes you you I

(01:05:16):
ain't gonna say it's out of date, but you definitely
need something that's more recent. No no fact set boundary.

Speaker 3 (01:05:21):
Find Pete this and the other fum uh the seventh
Spiritual Laws and success, unfuck yourself. That ship had the
way superiod man, that motherfucker that's so cold.

Speaker 2 (01:05:31):
He read that one? What that cold?

Speaker 3 (01:05:33):
Uh tomic habits I got? I just got that one
when I went to all d Yeah, I'm gonna just
started up.

Speaker 2 (01:05:41):
Yeah yeah. When I went to or just, I ain't
even finished that one yet. I ain't finner mcgil book
before I finished that one.

Speaker 3 (01:05:47):
Yeah, No, I'm gonna go get McGill book. I ain't
and Menial to go play doll two with tomorrow Tomorrow, Tuesday,
the Tuesday, I don't know. We're gonna play what that
ship is right up here? Know what sad rob it
don when he takes some of my text to you.
You're coming out there.

Speaker 2 (01:06:08):
You've beting for your man. He the one't got thathing
got me into that ship. I fucked yeah hard though
didn't get.

Speaker 3 (01:06:16):
Yeah man, before we get out of here, Man, if
you could tell your younger self something, what would you
tell you to.

Speaker 2 (01:06:26):
My younger self something? Listen more than you speak. That
was my biggest issue, and a lot of people come
across my path told me a lot of great things.
I didn't listen. I was too busy trying to talk
mm hmm, not realizing I didn't know nothing. And that's
what I learned from reading so much. Person who know

(01:06:49):
a lot the one realize you don't know nothing facts.
M hmm. That's why people be thinking. People be thinking
I be tripling. I'd be like, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:06:58):
I say that ship so much. Mother, just thinking I'm
on some literate shit. Nigga, I don't because all the
shit we would talk niggas wrong.

Speaker 2 (01:07:08):
Everything.

Speaker 3 (01:07:09):
Like I was just telling my own girl the other day,
Mary Pappo will be interviewing her after this, she talking about, uh,
she talking about this guy that this guy that she's
made up in her head. I'm like, where have you
seen him at? You know what I'm saying, You've never
seen this guy while you're holding on to that. It's
just like saying. Then she was like, I'm telling you
bank that out there.

Speaker 2 (01:07:28):
I was like, Okay, that's something that you made up
in your head as a childhood fantasy. Do you still
believe in Santa Claus.

Speaker 3 (01:07:37):
G It's the truth that guy don't exist because he's
not He ain't gonna exist because he could be that guy,
but he ain't gonna be in the package.

Speaker 2 (01:07:45):
He ain't gonna look like that guy. You get what
I'm saying, or he might not sound like you can
make up something down to the ten and you here
how he gonna sound smell or she I ain't gonna
just put on that. She ain't no perfect person, bro.
I think that's ego to make us feel like we're
gonna get the perfect motherfucker. Yeah, that is and dealing

(01:08:06):
with too many people instead up too because you get
a perspective. You get a perspective of what you wanted,
what you think, you like the person come along. They
ain't freaking like the other war. They ain't gonna do
this like the other person. Wall and you like this,
ain't it?

Speaker 3 (01:08:19):
You're trying to put that with one. You're trying to
put all your holes into one. Bitch on like you're
trying to I'm gonna get a little sprinkled with Yeah,
nobody niggas be trying to have more than one.

Speaker 2 (01:08:32):
Huh. That's why niggas be want more than one. Understand that.
I definitely what John, But that's the true. Do you
realize that it's the only country well a man marriage
one woman?

Speaker 3 (01:08:45):
Yes, you seen that video when the when, the when
with the uh the dude over? You know we be
wearing the turban and ship. The dude, the white dude
told him Dubai, Yeah, he told him that he had
one white man that nigga was on the ground laughing
like white like.

Speaker 2 (01:09:01):
They were like it was a joke. They made a
joke out this man. I get it. I totally get it.
You think you get you think I don't think I
could deal more than one wife. No, not no black woman. Yeah,
she gotta be raised different than India life. Yeah, but
it's only one in here. My problem. My partner, he
deal with white women, he said, Bro, not me, my partner. Dude.

Speaker 3 (01:09:24):
He fucked with him too, but he broke something down.
He like, bro, tell me they kind of feel sorry
for so they automatically hold you up here blacken.

Speaker 1 (01:09:40):
Me.

Speaker 2 (01:09:40):
Did I still like what they smell? I ain't saying that.
I'm just saying, like, I like a black woman. Since
she had any thought of saying that you did anything
right or wrong, you're going down woman? Oh yeah, she mad,
I'm too black any type of way and and say something.

Speaker 1 (01:09:59):
Man.

Speaker 2 (01:10:00):
But that kind of made sense because I see him
interacting with no white women. They is kind of different.
They're different. I've been around they different right, Yeah, they're different.
Asians is too, Indians is too, but they treat that.
But the white women treat the black the white men
how but you know what I'm saying, how black women

(01:10:21):
treat the black men?

Speaker 1 (01:10:21):
Right?

Speaker 2 (01:10:22):
Facts? You know what I'm saying. This is what I
learned coaches everything. When you talk about women from the Islands,
women from Africa, they are raised to be wives. Were
talking about Indians, Asian they're raised to be wives. Look
at most Mexicans, Spanish, they're raised to be wives. In America,
it's so messed up from the Woodlands syndrome and all

(01:10:43):
slavery and all this stuff out that they don't brainwash
us where women feel like they don't need a man
or because of the circumstances of men having the value
of being providers. Now it's to the point like I
can control the situation. But that that ain't it, bro,

(01:11:04):
That's why you have to get somebody who mindset, right,
that's the discernerment, like a pair attention to the red flash, bro,
Like some everybody want a husband, don't Most people don't
want to be a wife. And I feel like my situation,
you know what I mean, I've been through that somebody
who really want a husband, but you gotta have the
characteristic of a wife.

Speaker 3 (01:11:23):
A lot of women just want a husband can tie
and ticking too, hey, man tell you. And they really
don't even want no hook. They just know like, man,
I need to go one and God damn get my man.
I need to gone and get in while I fit
in because this ship again, they don't want to be
on the Tom Jonah cruise playing Bengal and ship. You
know what I'm saying with the girls, they don't do bruh.

Speaker 2 (01:11:45):
It's this shit fucked up for women because and they
fucking it up by by not accepting with God cenem.
I see it all the time, bro. What you should
make your lips and ship? You know what's happening? What
you gotta say fast behind that? Yes it is.

Speaker 3 (01:12:05):
These women are deal with niggas and say he bored,
but God send him to you, well whoever he sent you,
somebody but you.

Speaker 2 (01:12:14):
But then you sit around and be mad and saying
these niggas ain't shit, No, you ain't shit because you
ain't even getting a nigga a chance to be shipped.
The niggas that y'all everybody chasing the same nigga. Go ahead,
so that what you just said though, that you just
manifest that right then, so everybody could come around you.
You might be married on no, but I hear that somewhat.

(01:12:35):
Niggas ain't shit. You manifest that your mouth has so
much power to put out in the universe. What's going on?

Speaker 3 (01:12:42):
Like you're trying to meet niggas in the same circles? Man,
what kind of niggas you think you're gonna meet and
you think he's gonna be different? You knew this nigga
was some bullshit when you mad at him, because how
you met him and you think you're gonna be different.

Speaker 2 (01:12:58):
I'm asking you a question, though, Please help me ysa
that you a lady, you smacked it. Look how he's
gonna be different when he never been He never been that.
But the guy is that you don't even y'all ain't
even look they way. I'm gonna say this a lot
of like you said, people put on their masks. So
some men put on the mask and make themselves seem
a certain type of way, and then after a while
you realize, like, oh, you really just bullshit.

Speaker 3 (01:13:20):
What mass can a nigga put on with the sermon,
and and and one hundred percent. Y'all got one hundred
percent intuition. How can a nigga put on a mask.

Speaker 2 (01:13:27):
I don't believe that wouldn't have one hundred percent.

Speaker 3 (01:13:30):
You treat yourself, bro. And if a woman dealing with
a nigga and she get treat you, really treat yourself.
Can't no nigga trick you?

Speaker 2 (01:13:36):
Y'all definitely way more you. I was locked over with
so many dudes who said that they woman, they wives,
told them not to go outside, told them not to
do whatever. You know. Why in the day that I
got busted, my child mother called this that one of
my best friends, she called me, the young lady that
I was with, she called me. These people called me

(01:13:58):
and told at the time when I g really like,
why are you going down there? Because everybody been meeting
at the club, everybody pup be meeting at the club.
Why are you going down there out the blue? I
don't think you should do that. These folks ain't never
told me they don't think I should do nothing. Y'all
gotta man, y'all, y'all bring babies into the universe, and
a black woman has the eve Jan the eve Jen
said that y'all can make every nationality of people on

(01:14:20):
the earth. And you think y'all got no intuition. When
I went to Egypt, they said before a man can
become a king, a woman had to give him his power.
They gotta They got it on the on the hieroglyphic
that a woman was giving a man the flowers. Why
because they used to propose to the men.

Speaker 3 (01:14:38):
But these South bitch intuition fucked up though so many
women that's already South. It ain't even intuition. They just
going with their mindset. They pessimistic thoughts, right, They trying
to make that they intuition.

Speaker 2 (01:14:50):
But as a man, you said that sometimes people get
intuition and like their yeah so, and I don't believe that. No, no, no, no,
none of that. But also with that, you have to
learn how a person grew up more than anything. That's

(01:15:11):
why it's important to have see it's all the rip.
I know, I know, you gotta go, you gotta see
it's all the rip because now you don't cloud your
judge before the red flags. That's me and ain't women.
So when you really take time to get know somebody, well,
that stuff gonna come out, that trauma gonna come.

Speaker 3 (01:15:25):
Out exactly how you gonna be saying, Nigga ain't ship.
But you y'all already passed the point of getting to
know you.

Speaker 2 (01:15:31):
I don't even know you. You don't even know me
who already been fling. You don't even know me? So
I did?

Speaker 1 (01:15:38):
So what the what?

Speaker 2 (01:15:40):
What am I gonna be? But you notice them very
rarely with a woman date to a dude trying to build.
But a man a man to take a woman wherever
she at and and.

Speaker 3 (01:15:50):
Put time, not no moto to the Niggas ain't doing that,
ship and want that why they hold man.

Speaker 2 (01:15:56):
Niggas ain't doing that.

Speaker 3 (01:15:58):
But I'm just saying, but niggas ain't. Nobody ain't the bomb.
Niggas ain't even doing it no more, like it ain't
got nothing going on.

Speaker 2 (01:16:03):
Shot, stay with your mama. He broke out. I'll tell you, brother,
niggas ain't doing that no more because we got to
cause niggas ain't got It's fifty the one bro most
of them some garbage. But at the same time, it's
some good was out here Wayne for a man to
step in.

Speaker 3 (01:16:24):
Eight Niggas ain't doing that man I said that the
other day, Bro, I went to a party with with
the hom and and she had a party with some
some dudes at the law firm or whatever. And they'll
probably about three hundred women fit the niggas, if not more.
And them nigga ain't even looking at them, bitch. Yeah,

(01:16:48):
I promise some of them gave probably, but the regular
niggas wasn't looking at the middle. Like, Bro, we see
too many niggas already got. I already got a three people, man,
I can't them on that. And now you get what
I'm saying, niggas already four.

Speaker 2 (01:17:04):
Niggas is pull, Bro.

Speaker 3 (01:17:06):
So you think a nigga finn sit around and I
ain't saying this right or wrong. You think a nigga
fann sit around and go through something with something that's
not If I get the betch, if I get one
hundred percent of you, I'm still ain't getting shit.

Speaker 2 (01:17:17):
Niggas don't figure that out too, Bro. If I get
a hum up from this bitch, it's still ain't gonna
add up to nothing that's cold.

Speaker 3 (01:17:24):
It don't bring me no value, right if I get
one hundred percent like all the bitch rubbing back sucking,
dig cooking.

Speaker 2 (01:17:31):
They all doing that. That ain't even the fact. Yeah
I'm saying they all doing that. Yeah, that's like what
you call appreate whatever. I got to have it. But
that's the automatic person, the sense cooking, cleaning, and spirituality.
I got that. I can't even compromise with the woman
who don't have a own lesship God. But going through
the therapy with people and realizing when they're talking about

(01:17:56):
each other and blah blah, he don't do this, he
don't do that, blah blah blah. You and the man
who don't have relationship with God to lead your family
in the way that God wanted to go. But you
knew he had a relationship God. You knew that when
you first met him. So why ten years from now,
five years from now, three years from now you mad
at him because he ain't doing this or that he
won't do that.

Speaker 3 (01:18:15):
For the get go, like I just said in the beginning,
and she stopped looking for the good and people and
find some good people. You'll find a nigga that's a
straight scammer. He robbed banks. He do out of it,
but he gonna be a good hus.

Speaker 2 (01:18:28):
This nigga hold your nigga, do all hold everything negative?
But even he the best Hudson for you. The funk
out of here. Oh that's the yeah, you can let
her up. That's it all right, Hey tell us the

(01:18:48):
importance of seamos before we get out of here. Bro Hey,
boost your immune system or has ninety two minerals out
one hundred and to no other plant on the earth,
No fruit, no vegetable, no meat that you're gonna find,
got that many minerals in it. Your body need to
bounce some vitamins and minerals. That's how doctors say with
curing ads herpie, diabetes, cancer or reptile dysfunctions, all the above,
that's how he was able to cure all that with

(01:19:09):
that so main thinking mute is out your body. I
ain't been sick in seven years. Outside of that. Hair
and nail growth regulate your blood pressure. Cholesterol digestion helps
with muscle memory. If you got to cut on your body,
it'll help it heal faster. You know what I mean.
You can put it on them. I make shade bolder,
I make gummy bears, I make juices, I make jail.

(01:19:29):
It's good for everything that CBD glem it's coming. It's
that we need some sea mass CBD gun come and
it may be something out that, but it ain't mine. Yeah,
I'm going in the water to get this thing. I
ain't ordering off Amazon and all that day. I'm going
to the water to get it. And I'm locked in
with the farm man where they get it from? Where
where they get it from and mostly coming in you know,

(01:19:50):
Caribbean water.

Speaker 3 (01:19:50):
You know what I'm saying. Where do they order it from?
If people want to order the bears what we getting from,
go to.

Speaker 2 (01:19:54):
Bear Seams dot com, her Seams dot com, or you
can go to Bears Sea Mass on i G or
Terrence Beer on Facebook.

Speaker 3 (01:20:01):
What's the turnaround time like bout all the sun to night.
I don't depend on what state you in, but it'll
get down within two days.

Speaker 2 (01:20:06):
Okay, cool. But if you want it already jailed up
that that that presents a problem. But I can still
send there with some dries. Okay, I'll still do that.
But as far as the raw form of it, as
much as you want, don't care how many pounds you want.
I got you so how much of you can eat
it take a day? You can take it too. Much
you want. It's a mere replacement. So seas is not
gonna hurt you. It's one hundred percent that your own
thing is. If you have issues eye dying or things

(01:20:29):
that come out to see advise, you don't eat it
for real. It's big gonna eye down a lot of
some people low on eye dying. But if you can't
eat fish or things out of the water, you can't
eat mother.

Speaker 3 (01:20:37):
So that's like, what if you vegan, you can eat
se mo. Yeah, definitely, that'll eat it. So you're vegan
your pestiearic vegan that shit got meat in it. No,
it's a planet out of the water. Okay, good it go, bro,
I'll tell you you go.

Speaker 2 (01:20:52):
Ask you doctor. They gonna tell you it's good. But
they don't want you to replace those pills that they
give you.

Speaker 3 (01:20:56):
Oh yeah, that's what made me get on my ship.
They try to give me on fourteen pills every day
for the rest of my life.

Speaker 2 (01:21:01):
Blood pressures. Let's roll help with counselor man, see moss
is it is what it is? Bro? Nah for sure, Man,
I appreciate you. Man, doctor, Hey, how I get my
ad put me in Let me want to get my doctors.
So yeah, no man, she y'all tap into the Big
Fat Network.

Speaker 3 (01:21:19):
Man lights to strive, Come in, go get that beary Man,
I'm finna get on and I'm finite.

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Three day fast hey Man. Focus Twitter one dot com
Focus Twitter one dot com dot org. Line mentality, line, mentality,
It's coming, get the book, It's coming. Not lying but lying,
my brother.

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