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March 3, 2025 158 mins

Big Bank sits down with chart topping producer Hitmaka for an insightful conversation that explores mental health, personal growth, and the evolving dynamics of relationships. Hitmaka shares his journey from a privileged upbringing in Chicago to success in the music industry, the importance of therapy, self-awareness, and trust. They unpack the challenges of modern dating, the impact of heartbreak, and the disconnect between men and women, masculinity, leadership, cultural influences, the role of communication, the episode examines the pursuit of genuine connections in a world where relationships can feel transactional.

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Speaker 4 (00:57):
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about learning how to answer and the ring. Welcome to
perspective with bank today. I got my partner with me,
the hit maker.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
What it do?

Speaker 5 (01:06):
Brother, how you feeling, dude, blessed man?

Speaker 1 (01:09):
Happy to feeling? Man? Ain't snowing today? You know what
I'm saying? So shit, I see y'all. Motherfuckers Panican boy
nigga dreat used a snow nigga panicking.

Speaker 5 (01:17):
Nigga yesterday day for yesterday it was an ice storm.

Speaker 1 (01:21):
Man. The motherfuckers bro it was over with because we
weren't prepared for it. I love it though, like we
damn they got the same outfit on me in black
and white. It's a murder scene. We finna go wrap
this shit up.

Speaker 5 (01:31):
Hey, let me ask you where your mental lit right now.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
Before we get stuck. I ain't gonna lie. It's in
a It's in a clear space, you know. Ship. I've
been doing the work like I did a last year.
Top of twenty twenty three, I start going to therapy
twice a week, and I was one of the niggas
that was against it. You know what I'm saying, Like man,
like reach nigga, don't go to therapy like fuck Like
it was like when I'm going to tell somebody else

(01:53):
my problems for But as our level up in this game,
it's like when you become the number one and your shit,
it's hard to talk and to relate to motherfuckers. People
don't want to hear successful people complaining about shit. So
I've been going to therapy and just telling my truth
and I'm just I'm just centered, bro, Like I know
who I am. I know where I stand as a man,

(02:13):
I know what I put out there, I know what
I present, I know what I need to be accountable for,
and I'm really excited.

Speaker 5 (02:19):
Nah, that's crazy, man.

Speaker 4 (02:20):
I thought that's crazy you said that because I thought
I knewho I was as a young nigga.

Speaker 5 (02:24):
But now I actually know who I am. You know
what I'm saying. No, I ain't I self therapy, but
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (02:31):
Hiking and things like that and doing this.

Speaker 4 (02:34):
You know what I'm saying, just having different conversations with
different people, that shit really is there. You know what
I'm saying, Because I get off ship. Like you said,
this conversation is gonna be therapeutic for me. Just listen
to how you heal.

Speaker 1 (02:44):
You know what I'm saying, yeah, I'm a fan. I
ain't gonna lie already, Nah, for sure, I want to.
I'm gonna start by asking you open this ship up.

Speaker 5 (03:00):
Beginning.

Speaker 4 (03:00):
Let's take it back to the beginning, right for people
who don't know you, where you come from, how you coming,
how you was raised, when you.

Speaker 5 (03:07):
Came up at you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (03:08):
So people don't know I started out on from South
side of Chicago. So my life and my story way different.
Like it's like the opposite. It's like putting on the
shirt motherfucking inside out for real, for real, Like my
parents been millionaires from the jump, like so like I
never really had to struggle or do none of that shit.
I ain't never had a Hamburger, hot dog, sandwich, Subway, McDonald's,

(03:32):
fucking Chick fil A. I don't even know what that
shit tastes like ever in my life. I ain't never
had one ever, not even a lunchible. I don't even
know what the fuck that shit mean. And I came
in on that type of time. But like you gotta remember,
I got signed. I was always a person that was
like music driven. So Shawna that was signed as DTP,

(03:54):
that had getting some head and when it was on
Ludacris or whatever. She was my next door neighbor. But
her daddy is a famous blues thinker named Buddy Guy,
and that nigga like one of the most legendary niggas
in Chicago and in the world. On the blue shit,
he like, it's like bb king than him, and fucking
we living next door and she was doing her rap
shit or whatever, and that inspired me to be on
my rap shit. Then from there I linked up with

(04:16):
some hood niggas in the hood named LP. They with
name was Infrared, but they turned to LP or whatever.
Yup and fucking um. I was like the star out
there group or whatever. I got my first record deal
when I was fourteen years old. I signed a DMX
record label, Bloodline Records. Oh, I ain't know you was
in the group with them. I ain't know that, but
look this would it get a little crazy. So I

(04:37):
was a young nigga and I was with them, and
I was like the main nigga at the forefront. But
I was a young nigga and we had like eleven deals.
Boy jay Z wanted to sign me. All these different
people wanted to sign me and be a part of
the shit. But the crazy part is that the street
nigga that was running it, it kind of got he
kind of got like damn, like he turned in the

(04:59):
shug like you know what I'm saying, Like you know
how niggas watched this shit, you know what I'm saying,
And he kind of got the best of him, and
fucking he ended up falling out with me. Some street
shit happening. They try to like kill my people's and
do you know what I'm saying, Oh, with some music
shit and fucking I signed a DMX and I was fourteen.
I was the first artist sign the DMX blood Line Records.

(05:20):
I dropped out of school in eighth grade and I
just been doing this rap shit forever.

Speaker 5 (05:24):
Okay, so.

Speaker 4 (05:28):
You went from a rapper to a producer, which one
you think was your purpose?

Speaker 1 (05:34):
I will always start with the rapper, because the rapper
leave me to be the producer. I'm really writing the
songs with these people, you know what I'm saying. I'm
giving them the bars a lot of times, like I
dominate R and B and I got to dominate rap shit.
But it's more so like me throwing the bars and
me having that different perspective and just being able to
see a bunch of shit and just it being in me.

(05:56):
But I think that the main goal, like maybe my
whole life status is to be more of an executive,
you know what I'm saying, Like I'm a producer, but
I'm an executive, Like I'm I'm here not blessed to
be a blessing, Like I don't even care about like
me no more like I just want to like help
the motherfuckers that under me. And you know what I'm saying,
that I'm grooming and shit like that or whatever. So

(06:17):
it wasn't really like rat was good for me, but
I think it was the entry way to be executive
and then to now just to be like a blessing.

Speaker 5 (06:28):
We watched you really grow up in this shit.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
No, no bullshit, I'm the first thing to take all
the bullets for everything. You know what I'm saying, Nigga,
A chain took today. It don't even matter when I
got my chain took. It was like a stain, like
I had a boler and I didn't even know the
niggas that did that shit to me. I was just
a casualty of some politics that was happening that was
over my head and I was just the front of
the shit. And niggas use me for that type of vibe.

Speaker 4 (06:52):
How you some stain throughout that shit, throughout the adversity
and shit like, how you remain like focused, you know,
cause some niggas get shipped like that, they ten and
go hot.

Speaker 1 (07:02):
All out of got is this? I never did nothing,
Like I said, I dropped out of school in eighth grade,
so shit like, I ain't got nothing but the music.
So at that point it fucked me up because I
always looked up the nigga like La Red, Barry Gordy,
you know what I'm saying. Like I was always like
very cognisanting, like watching all these different documentaries and seeing

(07:22):
where this shit going or whatever. But at the same token,
like I think niggas get stuck in the position when
they feel like it's only one way to skin a
cat boy, Like I'm really like I was able to pivot.
I was always producing and writing my own records. Nobody
ever wrote a record for me as a rapper. I
produced all my own records as a rapper. I had

(07:42):
Trey songs, he Marie Lloyd, all these niggas on my
first album, I wrote every word that the R and
B people saying about on my music. So it just
put me in a position and where I had to
understand and take the ego out and say the folk
won't this shit, but they just don't want it from me.

Speaker 4 (07:59):
Oh okay. So so in that moment that really, do
you feel like at first, did you look at that
as a curse?

Speaker 1 (08:09):
Like? Man? Truthfully, nah, because I had so much puss
it by there, Like I always been, like you know
what I'm saying, Like I've always been a flot like
a standout nigga, like when I was like in eighth
grade and all the bought in ninth grade. I'm gonna
keep it a being with you. I ain't even go
through puberty. I'm talking about, I'm swinging through the hallway nigga,
no hell on my big faux foot fox motherfucker, the

(08:31):
green eyes like motherfucker, Like you know what I'm saying.
Like people were attracted to me. Yeah prior to that,
you know what I'm saying. So I always had that
element of just being like the nigga, you know what
I'm saying. But I ain't know what it was, whether
it was my height, whether it was how I was
you know what I'm saying presented, you know what I'm saying,
just through genetics, but shit like I always had that

(08:51):
glow on me, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (08:53):
What I'm saying like through like let me see how
to put this, like just going through shit and seeing
like cause you know, like you said you was a
light skinned nigga with red eye I mean, with green
eyes and all that shit. So I'm pretty sure that
she came with a lot of hatred right and niggas
wanted to push you to the back, and basically you
had to reinvent yourself from young bird hit maker, Like

(09:14):
did you look at that in the beginning as like
damn man?

Speaker 5 (09:18):
Or did you like shit just the way I'm fing
to go?

Speaker 1 (09:22):
It wasn't no other way to go. What was I
gonna do? Like I was in a point to where
my back was against the wall. I ain't gonna lie
when that shit happened with me, Like like I ain't
gonna lie. I said this in an other conversation. I'm like, man, boy,
I thought I had a bowler. I ain't thought a
nigga had Like you know what I'm saying, like, nigga
ain't just want to be around me. It was just
a bad look to be around me off something that

(09:42):
wasn't self inflicted, Like it was off something that had
politics that I ain't had nothing to do with it.
Like think about it, like like on some street shit
like say my og into it with another nigga that's
a OG. But I'm the front line nigga, and it
don't make sense to attack the OG cause the og
ain't a famous niggah. Yeah, so they came for me

(10:05):
like a free picky. So it ain't really it ain't
feel real to me, you know what I'm saying, Like
I felt like I was living into a movie and
then I ain't had no choice. But other than it
just be like fucking, I'm finna just get e folk
something different. I'm finna re rock this shit, you know
what I'm saying, Like, for lack of better words.

Speaker 5 (10:22):
So you ain't.

Speaker 1 (10:23):
You ain't had no time to get builder. You had
to handle the business. I was in the midst of it,
like it was all happening that once, Like I'm the
first nigga that went through that whole world star, that
whole elements or whatever that was going on, Like that
was a real era for niggas. So like I took
all the bullets and the arrows for everybody coming over
the hill after me. You know what I'm saying. It

(10:44):
was just like but niggas watched me grow up, Like, Bro, Bank,
I'm thirty eight years old. Bro. When I did that
shit and that shit was going on, I was a teenager.
So it's twenty years of this shit.

Speaker 5 (10:52):
You know what I'm saying looking back, is you kind
of glad that this shit happened?

Speaker 1 (10:55):
Hell yeah, because now I put me in a position
where I don't give a fuck. Yeah, I know that
the love ain't never real. You're gonna get real love
from a certain amount of people, but these folks don't
get no fuck about me, like in reality you know
what I'm saying. Basically, most definitely reality check and then
it shiitited because think about it, when you go through

(11:17):
something as traumatic as that, the niggas, that street niggas
that you thought that you had around you, they don't
want to be around you either. I'm gonna give example,
right when I was first doing like my hip making shit,
DJ Infamous was like somebody like that that I lived
in Atlanta. He took a liking to me. I went
and did a record called Double Cut for DJ Infamous

(11:39):
featuring Ludacris, Jeezy and uh Juicy J. And like I
did it, it got a plaque to it, shit gold
or whatever, blah blah blah. And I did the hook
and I said hit making. I was the nigga on
the hook and fucking on. When it came time to
do the video, GZ ain't want me in none of
the video with him because he was super street.

Speaker 5 (12:01):
Why why because he felt this.

Speaker 1 (12:03):
It wasn't from Jesu personally, but whoever delivered the message.
You know what I'm saying. It wasn't like dude saying
it to me because I love for Jesus. He one
of my favorite rappers of all time. But they just
ain't think it was a good look to be around, oh,
because of what you had been through. Damn. So it
was like me, it was my song, like I made
the demo, I made the hook. The niggas just did

(12:23):
a verse on my song. Yeah, so I'm mad as hell.
I remember motion family was shooting video shit and just
to go ahead and say it, like boy, I shot
my scenes with Juicy Jay, shot my scenes with Luda
and did all the other ship or whatever. And then
when Jesus came. Jesu was the biggest artist on the song.
So when he came, they were like, bro, you can't
shoot no scenes and boy motion family was there. Boy

(12:43):
they did that ship. They said, action, why I jumped
into Jesus scene boy performing my hook. Boy, I'm about
to go kip crazy on this nigga, And that shit
was like the beginning. But shit come full circle, like
he had also reached out when I came here, making

(13:03):
he reached out. We rekindled, you know what I'm saying
It like that like Gucca and been like try me
like young Berg, I'm gonna make your eyes cry something
telling you know what I mean. Plaques I got with
Gucci right now. So you think.

Speaker 5 (13:18):
By you getting the young Berg off your name and
turn the hit maker, you.

Speaker 1 (13:21):
Gave you a whole new sneak attack. Yeah, Because it's
like when a nigga come present a record to you,
like saying, nigga, be like black higgo higg or a
record young Berg did it before you play it. It's
a it's a it's a dug.

Speaker 5 (13:34):
Yeah, yeah, it's already gonna be a dug Yeah.

Speaker 1 (13:36):
Yeah. But another nigga said, you receive it well, and
then after you so in love with the product and
I come to you and it's really young Berg and
it's like, man, we gotta make this ship work. I
love this record so much, like we gotta make this
out And that's how to like revamp of my career
really with you know what I'm saying, how.

Speaker 5 (13:53):
Did so what?

Speaker 4 (13:55):
What was the most surprising purpose person that you feel
like turned it back on you doing that time?

Speaker 1 (14:01):
Mm hmm she did. Everybody was around me like I
never forget and I love this nigga to this day,
like cap One to be around two Chains or whatever,
like he was my mentor, like he was my big brother.
Like he showed me all that my lingo, like how
I approach women, how I talk to women, everything which

(14:22):
is based off of him because he was an older
elder statement that I was like, he was like the
guy in me and Shi when when that shit happened,
it wasn't a good look to be around. Man, drop
this record about me? You know what I'm saying. Did
all that that shouldn't have passed that shit over fifteen
years ago, but it still hurt me because it like
he taught me, you know what I'm saying, Like he

(14:43):
was like, but it just wasn't a good look to do.

Speaker 5 (14:46):
What made what you think made him?

Speaker 1 (14:48):
I was everybody punchline. Okay, yeah, yeah, you taught that
shit and kept it moving. That's pretty resilience, though, bro.

Speaker 4 (14:55):
Like so so, so, do you hold grudges or you
just be like shit, I get it.

Speaker 1 (14:59):
Never. I just told you me and Gucci got hits,
you know what I'm saying, Like, I can't hold no grudge.
And to be honest, I ain't no love in this
music shit, like it ain't really nothing genuine about it.
So how you separate like I don't. It's just I
don't got no friends. All my friends and niggas, I
work with people that's under my company, all this other shit.

(15:21):
I don't take personal business and personal friendships to heart
because they all taint it and they based off of
what you could do for them or how they could
benefit off of the situation. Like I grew up in
the shit. So I really don't have no real personal relationships.
I ain't got no bitch that I've been down with
from day one ed bitch, meet me right now the

(15:42):
elevator level. Every nigga meet me right now, meet me
as hit makers. I don't gotten too many people. Maybe
one two that could be like yo, where you was
in a position where you couldn't give me nothing that
I still felt beneficial to be a friend.

Speaker 5 (15:57):
Damn is that a lonely space?

Speaker 1 (16:02):
Hey, I'm lonely as hell, but I'm rich, rich and
loneli as whatever about it?

Speaker 5 (16:08):
How that feel though?

Speaker 1 (16:12):
Like? For real?

Speaker 5 (16:13):
For real?

Speaker 1 (16:14):
I feel like you need a therapist. I feel like
you go talk to a motherfucking go complain about rich
nigga problems and survivor remorse twenty four seven. But it
feel like it kind of like it's set up every
other relationship that you possibly could have moving forward, because
like as much as you think people judging you, you
judging them, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (16:36):
So do you? So do you feel as if though.

Speaker 4 (16:41):
You can't trust any relationship like from a female or no?

Speaker 1 (16:45):
Hell no, why not? That's the way I was raised,
Like I had. I got a brother, a high brother.
He ain't my daddy, he ain't come out my daddy, dick.
You know what I'm saying, but sit he my brother
if from my mama, you know what I'm saying, But
the way my mama coddled him, it is because I

(17:05):
feel like he wasn't as ambitious as I was. You
know what I'm saying, Like it was going no direction
I was or and I'm gonna keep it from the
start of this shit like I'm gonna kick shit one
hundred percent. Man, I was blessed to have a real dad.
Bro Like a lot of motherfuckers, I went through a
crazy divorce with my parents, and I took the opposite route.

(17:27):
I went to live with my daddy. My daddy raised me.
So I was really like a fucking the nigga from
Boys in the Hood. You know what I'm saying, Like Trey,
but it's a difference for when you see it, like
talking about boys in the hood. That's why I was saying, like,
look how of mama treated Ricky and look how the
mama treated oh boy. M Like when you going up
and you ascending and women see something good in you,

(17:48):
they handle you a different way. When they see something
bad in you, they handle you a different way. And shit,
that's just where I'm at with it.

Speaker 5 (17:55):
Damn Damn, it's cold.

Speaker 1 (17:59):
You gotta unpacks. Women is shit though, bro, all right,
so think about it, right, So do boy? Right, you
looked at him, She looked at him like it ain't shit, nigga.
So she ain't give a fuck what he did. Go
at the house. She slapped the nigga Da da da
ricky with somebody that was going to the league or whatever.
Like women, as unfortunate as it is, they tell they

(18:22):
put this shit in me in from a jump. So
like women will be like, don't trust that girl. She
don't want to When you look like you going to
the league and you about to be Anthony Edwards or
some shit like that or whatever. Motherfucker be like, man,
put that condom on your dick. Boy, don't do that.
She don't really like you like that. I don't know.
I don't know something about her. I ain't right. When

(18:43):
you're a street nigga and you just saying you got
a certain trajectory, it's like everything get to go and
then you develop and you go from there and you
go to your life, and it be like, damn, like
a woman told me not to trust this bitch. Yeah, yeah,
I had to go with my grandma told me, but
they bleed very much.

Speaker 5 (19:00):
Can't trust and I've been living on that ship.

Speaker 1 (19:03):
That ship fucked you up, though it fucked me up
so crazy. Bro, I ain't gonna lie. I'm gonna keep
it a bean right, It's gonna be in my memoir.
I got shah Heim' read with me right now. Shout
out to my brother shah he read. I'm personally right now.
My parents was going through such a bad divorce. My
own mama told me my daddy was a homosexual based

(19:26):
off ship that was going on, and them divided and
split the money out.

Speaker 4 (19:31):
So basically, yeah, that's that's the that's the most like,
that's the most worst ship a woman can do, is
try to turn a son against his dad, Like I
can't respect that for nothing in the world, no matter what, Like,
how could you Most women, most better women want their
kids to look at their parents, their father through their eyes.

Speaker 5 (19:55):
That's some sucker ship.

Speaker 1 (19:58):
So when you go through all that ship and then
and like when you're in a position where I'm at like, bro,
like I started my career as young berg, I'm on
the screen to it. I didn't literally watch a mama
come drop a motherfucking daughter to me like take my
take my daughter, do what you want with her. Cut
she hold on, helldo hello? He how old was you eighteen?

(20:24):
How was she seventeen? Somebody? So she okay, yeah, yeah yeah.
So she was just trying to say she's trying to
find her daughter away. She wasn't wrong for that though,
because motherfucker come from the slums and you see somebody
that's moving in a higher level to hold Ricky and
fucking doboy fucking analogy that I put together, if you
see a nigga moving at that trajectory, can you blame

(20:46):
a woman for that went through her own trauma trying
to put her daughter with somebody that she thinks going up.

Speaker 5 (20:51):
Trying to touch it.

Speaker 4 (20:53):
So so so basically all right, let's rewind to like
when they do you think mothers actually put their daughter
with older men too?

Speaker 5 (21:01):
Like what they were saying with the U.

Speaker 1 (21:03):
Been going on or you know what I'm saying, Like
if you look at like Africa, you know, ordained weddings,
you know what I'm saying, Like some motherfuckers they just
go and the mama and daddy like back in the
day or whatever with different coaches. They be like yo,
this's your husband type shit. You know what I'm saying.
You won't even know the bitch coming to America as shit,

(21:23):
you've been seeing that shit. He ain't know you telling
me bark like a dog. You don't even know the bitch.
And they put the motherfucking folk together. So it's really different.
But so we can't blame nobody that's in that won't
better for their daughter than what they've seen and what
they went through.

Speaker 5 (21:38):
So you don't got no kids or nothing.

Speaker 1 (21:40):
Nope, So you just work, work, work, work.

Speaker 5 (21:43):
Yep, you feel like sometimes you're about to crash burn them.

Speaker 1 (21:47):
I feel like what I put my body through and
just the NonStop work is also a crash and burn.
But at the same token, the reward at the end
of the shit is greater. But now nobody told me this.
What the fuck the part about this? Oh shit, bank,
I wish I'd owe you to tell me this shit
because I watch You'll program or whatever. But I really
didn't have like them, Like I told you, I dropped

(22:07):
out of school eighth ninth grade, you know what I'm saying,
And I was on the road, I was doing my shit.
I ain't have no no woman. I grew up. You
know what I'm saying with that that they're seeing me
as seeing type shit or whatever. So now it's like
you got the bag, but you just being judgment and
on women because you know this bitch don't like you
if you ain't got no money like that.

Speaker 5 (22:29):
Damn but you ain't.

Speaker 1 (22:30):
I ain't. You ain't wrong though, because at the end
of the day, it's like most of the time.

Speaker 4 (22:36):
These days, you you women ain't fuck with you.

Speaker 5 (22:39):
You ain't got nohing.

Speaker 4 (22:40):
So if you got something, it's like I cannot fuck
with you, even if you got your shit together. I
can't believe that you would fuck with me because niggas
want to know, would you fuck with me if I
ain't had this shit? Basically twenty one questions. Niggas want
to know that the one question.

Speaker 1 (22:54):
See, but the crazy part is this what fucked up
about women and men relationships? That's all in it. Cold
want to know. But a woman got a twenty seven
checklist that she needs to know. You know what I'm saying,
the fuck with you like that, like I ain't gonna
lie like I bro I'm dealing with a not dealing
with but I got a friend, right, try to tell

(23:15):
me like, I want a man that's financially stable. God
hearing blah blah blah. She hit me with like ten things.
Then she said, but the nigga gotta have good feet.
I said, what nigga? You know wealthy that got good feet?
You just asked out all the basketball players, all the
NFL niggas, all the shit. You know what niggas that's
wealthy they got good like But that's how delusional and

(23:37):
lame that motherfuckers be. Like, also feet gonna throw you off.
She's crazy out him.

Speaker 4 (23:42):
Do you think do you think we have to go
outside our culture and get some from a different country?

Speaker 5 (23:48):
Like could these women and other countries breed what? Okay?

Speaker 4 (23:52):
S you know you be goddamn don some other shit?
Do you think, like, cause those women are bread to.

Speaker 1 (23:59):
Be whatever you like? Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
You can. We be honest though, when you bring.

Speaker 4 (24:07):
Them over here, they taint it. They get over here,
they they get turned this on the look.

Speaker 1 (24:12):
Yeah, you introduce her to uh, you introduce you bring
your bitch over and baby Jay beat your bitch Copper
Cove and all the ship. Like, man, this is ain't
the same bitch you don't more like say too much,
like nah, where you at? I messed you with y'all?
Like where the d y'all? Bitch? Like it changed? Bro?
They be experiences and what motherfucker see? And then the

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worst part, the scary part about doing that and building
a bitch is that you can't take them tennies back.
You say, how Dirk said give me them? You can't
take them ships back? Did you just prime and the
bitch up to give up to somebody else? Because me
and successful men, I'm gonna be honest, I ain't going
on no type of level zero. What you mean nothing?

(25:00):
That my way in nowhere? Yeah, if you can't think that,
well I'm at mentally it's the way. And she ain't
from me.

Speaker 5 (25:08):
I mean you don't believe in me.

Speaker 1 (25:10):
Basically, it means that you don't believe me yourself because
you need me so how you can't believe in me?
So then that make you what the new word is?
Do that make you a narcissist? I mean, I'm light skinning.
It's gonna make me sassy for whatever the fuck. You
know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying, like
it just come with it. But at the same talk.
It's like nigga crazy. How a nigga sassy for holding

(25:31):
itself accountable the same level that you holding yourself as
a woman. Facts, are you telling me to what you
ain't gonna take or what you You know what the
funny shit is, it's the biggest thing that to blow me.
You can meet a bitch that's fully embedded around street niggas, right,
that'll be like yo, Like and she could be a
mule in the whole process. Go ahead, and she'd be like,

(25:55):
I don't want no street niggas. This what fuck you
talking about? How you don't I want no street nigga.
I'll be like, yo, So would you date a street nigga? No?
But you in the process of this whole shit. You're
in the process of the whole move so you don't
even want you know what I'm saying, what you want
for yourself? It just be unbelievable, bro, Nah yeah, this
shit crazy?

Speaker 5 (26:15):
Man? How you think you get like that? Though?

Speaker 1 (26:18):
Power struggle, whoever in whoever in a leadership position, whoever
got the power relationship win. I'll be seeing you talk
about certain shit right like I've seen you say something
to where it be like, man, a nigga could get
with a bitch and she got ten million. I think
you said something if I got ten million and you
got it, it never worked?

Speaker 5 (26:41):
Well why not?

Speaker 1 (26:42):
She always gonna believe you about having less money than
her when she gets hot. Everything that she accepted you
for and she loved you, foe, she gonna use.

Speaker 4 (26:50):
It against you, even if she don't see it. It's
just gonna be her.

Speaker 1 (26:54):
Yeah, like she gonna say it. She might not say
it to you, she's saying it to girls, but it's
gonna be like the nigga broke, I'm wearing the pants
in this relationship. That's why bitches don't want to go
fifty to fifty or you know what I'm saying, or this,
that and the third or whatever, because fifty to fifty
to me is like the very minimum. Are we talking

(27:18):
about house bills like that? Shit crazy when they get
to that whatever. But it's like people don't understand that
everybody want to beat somebody in a relationship now in
twenty twenty five.

Speaker 5 (27:31):
They want to beat them.

Speaker 1 (27:32):
What you mean, just want to be ahead of them?

Speaker 5 (27:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (27:36):
Yeah, go ahead, yeah you saying basically like either way,
everybody want to have one up basically.

Speaker 1 (27:41):
So if I'm the man and I got money and
then shit, bitch, you can't say nothing. Take your broke
ass one. If the girl got more money than you,
take your broke ass on too. It ain't never really
like no compromise to where it's like, man, look your money,
my money, combine it together. Un let's be happy together.
But it's more so like I think social media and

(28:02):
all that other shit the kind of play the part
in that because I think when it comes down to,
people just don't want to be embarrassed.

Speaker 4 (28:10):
That's what it is. People don't want to be embarrassed.
If you ever went through like a heartbreak though.

Speaker 1 (28:18):
Yeah once, do you think that fucks you up totally?
Because look I can't. I can't. So sincere like thinking
about like I'm telling you, Like, so I said, I
came from money, right My daddy was taking me to
banks and shit like that or whatever. He took me
to the bank one day, had he signed all these
type of different forms and shit or whatever, and I'm like,
what the fuck is this or whatever? I ain't know

(28:39):
what it was. I was still like in high school
type shit, you know what I'm saying, Like not in
high school, but like in that age rank call. I
dropped out and fucking on. Some told me, I'm smoking
weed with my niggas. Man, I just want some weed money.
I just want some liquor money.

Speaker 5 (28:53):
Nigga.

Speaker 1 (28:53):
You know, you know, niggas just want a fifth for Remy.
This back when niggas want a remy like, man, let
me get a fifth of remy. Go wrap and my
niggas or whatever. I went to the bank and I
found out how to trust fund and she I took
fifty thousand dollars out that motherfucker. The day I found
out cash, I gave it to my bitch.

Speaker 5 (29:12):
Huh.

Speaker 1 (29:13):
I was in check systems. I was a rapper, so
somebody wrote me a bad check. So you know when
they write you the bad chick, you can't open no
bank account and do nothing like that. I gave it
to my bitch. She went with the crib. We elope.
We went to Jersey, got a crib in her name,
did all this other shit. We ended up having a
falling out. She took all the money and left me there.

(29:37):
It was like, shit, go you gotta be out by
this and send me two thousand dollars back out of fifty.
It was like going a here about your business man. Well,
I'm saying what y'all feel out about. I just wasn't
a nigga for her. She wanted richer niggas. That fifty
wasn't enough. She was working for Rockefeller at the time
and doing rockaway and doing all that shit. That just

(29:58):
get my money back. Then you can run out of
money too in a perfect world, but think about it
when you're dealing with a woman. That's more like that's
what therapy did for me. I don't look at that point,
I was mad, But I mean, as a thirty eight
year old man, I ain't looking for no woman to
be rational with me. I ain't never gonna understand what
she's talking about. And I don't even want to. Yeah,

(30:19):
I just want to take it on the chain and
just be like, man, shit, you did that. That's what
it is. That's why I'm doing what the fuck I'm doing.

Speaker 4 (30:26):
So could somebody say, like you a mad black man
when it comes to women, a misogynist?

Speaker 5 (30:30):
What the other words is?

Speaker 1 (30:32):
Hell?

Speaker 4 (30:33):
No, I'm just saying, you know how women listen to
certain shit that we say, will be like really because
basically what you're saying, really, man, fuck these bitch unless
a bitch become as magic, right, he's going to them
to be magical. True, you know what I'm saying. So
so what's that? Do that stem from trauma? What does
it stem from?

Speaker 1 (30:50):
Like?

Speaker 5 (30:50):
What is it?

Speaker 1 (30:50):
It ain't magical, though, bab I just want a bitch
to be realistic, you know what I'm saying. But what it?

Speaker 5 (30:57):
And where you trust that a bitch is being realistic?

Speaker 1 (31:00):
They're around, but you've got to groom a little bit.
But the whole part about it, a bitch don't want
to be realistic until she got kids and she didn't
struck out herself. Yeah, like every girl that want to
be realistic. To the point is because she didn't shot
her load and she feels like her back against the wall,

(31:22):
and now she want to be realistic. When a woman
ain't got no kids and she out there living her
little vibe and being her glow, she ain't trying to
be realistic because the opportunity is don't and she's an
attractive woman. The options are limitless. She thinks she gonna
land on go, But then when you don't, you land
don't know two times and now you got two three

(31:43):
kids to the nigga. You know what I'm saying, Like,
now you present yourself to a rich nigga and you
still want the rich nigga you started with the rich nigga.
You might got rich baby daddy, but he don't give
a fuck about you. He's doing a bad minimum. You
went through all that trauma and now you just finally
submit after all that trauma. Can you present yourself to
a rich nigga that don't want to take care of

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your family? They want his own family.

Speaker 5 (32:07):
Damn, damn. That's a hard pill of swell it is.

Speaker 4 (32:14):
But there's no facts though you're saying. Basically, they don't
get coming sense to they run out of sense.

Speaker 1 (32:20):
Name me one woman that you then inter you or
you done been around or whatever that's young, dumb and
full of calm. That's saying that she ready to settle down.
It's always the motherfuckers that have been through the rig
of my row. Let's say, man, the grass ain't green
over that side, and I'm ready to settle. And this
is what the biggest problem is. Some women got a

(32:41):
problem with the word settle. It's called settled down for
a reason. If I settle down with a chicken. I
might not like the way she sucked my dick. I
might love to puss it, and she might cook my
favorite dish the best. I'm set We all settle with
some assa you right, some way we settling. It ain't

(33:01):
gonna be. You know what I'm saying? What is all
the ways supposed to be? But it don't really translate
to women because I think they've been fed out as
like fair information. Yeah, like Disney shit. You know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (33:15):
So so basically you saying.

Speaker 4 (33:18):
The Martyn woman has to go out there and see
that the fairy tale is not real. And by the
time they find out the fair till is not real,
their value is too low for what they want.

Speaker 1 (33:31):
Do you think I want a wife a bitch that
got kids, got a whole nother family with another nigga?
I'm I'm up up Ferrari's lambor guineas. I own all
my shit, I do everything I'm supposed to do when nigga,
I'm financially stable, I don't got no kids. What's the
chances of me being realistic and accepting a woman with
a kids? She gotta check so many boxes. I gotta

(33:52):
love the kids. I gotta want to cohabitat with that.
Then I ain't got no kids, so I gonna ultimately
resent you. Like why I'm taking care of your kids
while this part of the package deal. I ain't got
no kids. Now, we got to start our own journey
of me nothing inside you trying to make a baby
or whatever. And then it's it's option number three, number four. Yeah,

(34:17):
so who want to do that?

Speaker 5 (34:19):
But it's some single it's some nice girl, nice nice
women out hear that.

Speaker 1 (34:23):
You know, but they ain't got no kids.

Speaker 5 (34:24):
Yeah, they outside doing.

Speaker 1 (34:28):
How old are they? What I'm saying, it's some nice
young No, no young, bitch, you gotta be over thirty.
Duck me. You ain't get enough leving. We ain't Piers.
I ain't trying to hear no playboy Carter respectfully. You
know what I'm saying. I ain't trying to get in
a car. You know what I'm saying. And like, bitch,
you like rod Wave, you already off the list of me.

(34:48):
What you mean, I don't listen to it. It ain't
my era. I still work with him. I still think
he amazingly talented. But you into ship that I into.
I'm trying. If I'm trying to play Anita Bacon, you're
trying to play way we on a whole other level.

Speaker 4 (35:02):
M oh so you're saying around your age, you're really
kind of over with.

Speaker 1 (35:09):
Talking about wish Damna's goods. Yeah, you ever seen a
can in a grocery store the got like the dinn
in it and the motherfucker cheaper than the other kids.
It's one of them. In a respectful way, though, I

(35:32):
ain't trying to talk down no dimn facts of what
you said.

Speaker 4 (35:35):
So basically you feel like where you see yourself though me, yeah,
I'm saying like where you see yourself relationship wise.

Speaker 1 (35:46):
As far as relationship go, I just see myself at
the at the power position. It ain't really like it.

Speaker 4 (35:54):
Is a lot of women though out here that ain't
got no kids, because I be talking to a lot
of women that ain't got no.

Speaker 1 (35:58):
Kids, good women, And they all they did was did
what you did. They changed their dream. Now they successful
now and they can't find a guy. They saying the
same thing you say, too masculine. Now they did too much,
They did too much work to get what they got.
So at the same token, it's hard in a dial
back and turned down to be who you want them

(36:20):
to be. Oh you dead, you look motherfucker girl. Girl
got all this bunny. What if a girl got all
this money right, and she didne did her work, and
she ain't got no kids and all this other shit.
She a straight businessman? If a mentally right? What do

(36:41):
the money mean to me? I got more money, meaning
it don't matter how much money you got as a woman.
In fact, I think men would prefer for you not
to have no money, so you can have all your
first experiences with that man, your first chanelle, your first
pairs trip, your first time on the jet. Fuck, I
look like dealing with a bit sh then been on

(37:01):
jets twenty four seven or whatever. And where we going?
Like I can show you can't. I can't make you can't.

Speaker 5 (37:11):
Yeah, yeah, you.

Speaker 1 (37:13):
Can't grow with us. And that's where the whole disconnect come.
Like think about it, Like the entitled women and certain
entitled women be like, you know, a bitch can't rub
two quarters together. You can see these holes from a
mile away, right, you can look at that gram and
be like, you ain't got no ch nails, you ain't
got this or whatever. You ain't got that she might

(37:36):
be entitled to be. Like, man, you want to see me,
you gotta fuck you want to see me, you gotta
fly me first class? And bitch, you don't even fly
first class on your own dime. Why are you asking
me to do that. I want to treat you like
you at your level, so I could grow with you
if I fly you, if I put you first class,
and I put you on the jet before I even
get to pussy where I even go once, I like
to puss it. Yeah, it regular, sh it's regular. Yeah,

(38:01):
it ain't no surprise, ain't nothing nothing excited about it. Damn.

Speaker 5 (38:05):
So you feel like you're gonna be alone.

Speaker 1 (38:10):
Nah, she's gonna have a Nah. I think that it's
a woman that's gonna understand. In fact, I got you
know what I mean whatever, But it's somebody that's gonna
for everybody that's gonna understand that anything that we're saying
right now not a foreign language. It's about when you
ready to accept it. Yeah. So it could be the
woman that's older, like you said, with no kids, that'd

(38:31):
be like and I'm ready for you to take the lead,
you know what I'm saying? Like, bro, Like, Nah, I
get it, Yeah, like I don hold enough, but they
still damage. They don't even want to tell you about
their past situation because they know you'll cut them off.

Speaker 5 (38:48):
What you want to know? Why would you want to
know that?

Speaker 1 (38:49):
You don't even want to know shit? But she don't
even want to release with no information, Like I didn't
been in a situation where motherfucker been like, nah, I
like you when I'm gonna tell you about this on
when we built that equity up, not knowing that when
you tell me later on or I find out later on,
I'll still cut you off anyway, because once I find out,

(39:10):
and it's a smear campaign, and I feel uncomfortable being
around you, and the fairy tale and the and the
man men live a fairy tale too.

Speaker 5 (39:18):
What you mean?

Speaker 1 (39:20):
You want a bitch that's nasty, but I ain't fuck
that about it?

Speaker 5 (39:23):
Yeah that's ego, that's ego. Yeah, that's that's nigga inside
that ego.

Speaker 4 (39:27):
You think just could like I can't stand a nigga
who feel like she just sucking his dick like that, Bro,
that's how she sucked dick Like nigga feels like she
loved me because she's sucking it good Bro, that's how
she she good at it.

Speaker 1 (39:40):
Nigga taught her that to hand. Yeah, well I'm in
that sign, isn't a bit? Yeah do this yeah bout harbor,
go to ball Harbor eating balls Harbor like that.

Speaker 5 (39:51):
Like but you think that that ship just like you know,
I'm gonna tell you.

Speaker 4 (39:55):
I'm gonna tell you something that that's a misconception with
the With the dudes, they be like the prettier woman
is they feel as if though.

Speaker 5 (40:08):
She ain't you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (40:09):
They can't believe that she's been doing this right, you
know what I'm saying. But them the main ones like
just Sven's a beautiful woman. You catch her and then
she be the one. She'd be nashy.

Speaker 5 (40:19):
He'll think that she just did that for me. Ego.
I'm telling you you got niggas like that.

Speaker 1 (40:27):
Bro.

Speaker 4 (40:28):
Yes, Bro, Bro Tamber I be having her doing anything,
she do anything, Bro, not you be having her do anything.

Speaker 1 (40:34):
Man, Put a fucking wrench in the nigga's hands and
tell them to change the tie. Change tie before and
see how that work out.

Speaker 5 (40:40):
Boy.

Speaker 1 (40:41):
They nigga know that you can't. It's practice make perfect. Boy.
You say you say you say they'll put a rich
in the head to they can't try your time for
nothing boy, and then calling trip away boy, nigga the
Ferrari change the time your nigga calling triple a boy,
practice that make perfect. You think you just landed on
plumbing rock boy, that ship laying it on you.

Speaker 5 (41:03):
Damn man.

Speaker 4 (41:04):
Nah, it's crazy man, It's like and then it's so
fucked up, so many niggas because you got a lot
of niggas that are try and I ain't.

Speaker 1 (41:13):
I ain't hit a bad women. I'm just speaking from
a man.

Speaker 5 (41:15):
But you got niggas, Yeah, yeah, you got you got.

Speaker 4 (41:19):
Niggas that are try it with a woman, right, And
then I think once you go through the wrong experience
one time, it fucks him up for good.

Speaker 1 (41:28):
I went through that. Yeah, I went through that with
somebody uh that I was that I was dating, But
motherfucker took the ship uh public, and I thought that
I would be able to get past it. But me personally,
when you go public is too federal. I can't. I
ain't never gonna be at overlooking. I'm always gonna hold

(41:49):
that against you and we will never be able to coexist.

Speaker 4 (41:53):
Let's shift shift gives what you think make these men
so feminine these days?

Speaker 1 (42:02):
Money? I think that once women led to believe that
once women open theyself up, it just get showered and
just you know what I'm saying, Like, once the puss
it became nonverbal, it just went to another different direction.
Oh look what you mean? What you mean once it
became non verbal. I mean a lot of these football

(42:25):
niggas and niggas that been coddled from day one, they
don't know how to talk to no bitch. They don't
know how I spend no peda, no bitch. So the
initial thing is to let me just give you some
money and get what I want to get out the way.
Oh so they make it feminine cause nigga bhind puss it,
make it feeling it, make it like you don't really care,
and present the man qualities to that situation. You know

(42:47):
what I'm saying, As a man to me, it's like
you gotta understand me and like me for who I am.
Whatever I'm saying to you, how I present it as
a man, you gotta like it, you know what I'm saying.
I think it's feminine to go and to divoge and
just like drive a different direction and just give a
motherfucker what they want just to get what you want. Yeah,

(43:09):
so you think that's that's that's what women do, right,
Come on with it. They drive a different direction to
give you what you want to get what they want. Wow,
I ain't never heard nobody put it like that. Think
about how many women don't really like these niggas, but
they go ahead and drive, swerve and whatever different line.

(43:30):
These women will be like, they different, Like I'm gonna
keep it being with me, with you, with me. We
could talk for three months and that could be one thing,
But I tell a motherfucking woman like, it's best you
fuck me the first night, get me out the way,
off the rip because of the sexual connection don't work.

(43:51):
By the time we talk for three months and we
finally fuck it the in, I'm still dumpy. I don't
care what we built and what relationship equity women build.
I still don't want to fuck with you. You ain't
satisfying my knees and ain't no nigga out here doing
what women do. Women are vulnerable enough, and they so
beautiful and they so great that they, as Simon said,
as a nigga lick that click to the left. Try

(44:14):
try to slide the nigga to the right, right, make
this ship work for them, because in their mind it's
a set up thing the way they want their life
to work. You know what I'm saying, like the left bait,
ain't no nigga like boy, you hit me too much teeth,
you know what, Like man, you might be dead. You
know what I'm saying, Like what, ain't no nigga like man?
You know what I'm saying, sit next time you suck

(44:35):
my dick.

Speaker 4 (44:36):
Niggas they're gonna be like man, ain't fucking she don't
know a little bit man. Woman gonna instruct and you.

Speaker 1 (44:42):
Better hope that the puss it hitting on a high
level to where the man can overlook the fact of
the dick suck and be like, Man, that head ain't fire,
but that puss a busting And I like her and
I like her, But if the puss it ain't busting
the head, man, I ain't nothing like in the world.
I like Jordan's. You're gonna put on some blisty whatever

(45:04):
the fuck.

Speaker 5 (45:06):
What you think make a mascular man.

Speaker 1 (45:07):
Though, being a leader, being having security, having your life
set up, I think the most mascular thing that you
could do for a woman is how a thing, how
all your legos put together before you meet him, like
y'o like shit like this, meat like this the definition

(45:29):
of masculine. This meat is how I present myself. You
ain't gonna like this. You might not like how I
say it. And I think that nine times out of
ten a reason why we gonna be so under five
for talking like this because my delivery, Like I be
saying the right shit, but I just don't know how
to know other way. I'm a virgo. I don't know
other way to put it, how to blunt you know

(45:50):
what I'm saying? Like so, I think masculinity come from
being in a position of where when you in a
hot water, whos gonna vibe for you? Who gonna do
something for you?

Speaker 4 (46:02):
What you what you think the biggest misunderstanding a woman
got for me? Like what you think they misunderstand most
about us?

Speaker 1 (46:13):
That they push it and only puss it that gonna
make them. You know what I'm saying, That they push
it magical niggas still won't other puss it. Your pussy
could be the best you can have, the best head,
you can have the best everything. You could be taking
care of me, But that don't mean I ain't gonna
fuck off on you. Judge. Yeah, it could be the

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best and then deeper than that, right.

Speaker 4 (46:35):
And it don't have any Let me let me say
this to women, man, let me look at the cameras
say this.

Speaker 1 (46:43):
I want if a dude, dude step out on you, it.

Speaker 4 (46:46):
Ain't gotennything to do with you, you know, like women
be taking that ship the heart. I'm gonna just say
that shit because all the dudes I talk to niggas
just be like you said, just want some more pussy.

Speaker 5 (46:56):
It has nothing to do with you.

Speaker 4 (46:57):
But if a woman that's in a relationship step out
on you, it has some everything to do with you,
in my opinion.

Speaker 1 (47:04):
Man, bitch and stupid niggas, the fuck crackheads before you
think a nigga can fucking crackhead motherfucker for in the hood,
and this that the third nigga cable add thing. Your
man a fucked the crackhead before. If you're a street nigga,
what what he not capable of? This fine bitch would
have walked by niggas. Niggas three fourths to they day,
scrolling through Instagram, saying niked holes or whatever, and he can't.

(47:26):
It just stopped him for fucking what the fuck is
talking about niggas? The fuck real live crackheads? Boy, i'n't
seen real niggas. That street niggas get head from crackhead.
Make it make sense? Yeah? Yeah, with a bitch at
home and still got the j head. When you're right

(47:50):
with you, when you're right what you say shot which
where you're right?

Speaker 3 (47:54):
Man?

Speaker 5 (47:55):
Damn man?

Speaker 1 (47:56):
So why you think niggas is built like that? Do
you think it's in a nigga nature. I think it's
constructurally like defined between religion and what people think. Right.
So look, I meet the girl of my dreams today, right,
my name Mohammad. I got three other wives. If I

(48:21):
check all these boxes for this Christian woman that ain't Muslim,
she gonna have to deal with that and go tell
her friends, like, girl, I love this nigga.

Speaker 6 (48:29):
But he loves him and he got this dah dah
dah dah. But you know, in his religion he's supposed
to be able to do that. So man, maybe I
consider it. I don't know them bitches, they live here, this, that,
and the third of them.

Speaker 1 (48:40):
You meet a nigga that just a Christian nigga that
ain't got no religion or nothing like that. It's all
way like you can't have no bitch. It's disrespect if
you got another dude. So religion and all that shit
put it in a box to where like you could
do anything that you want if your name was Akhmed Muhama,
I'm at the bank and you was married to a

(49:03):
woman in your religion, as long as you got enough
money to provide for all these different women you have
as many wives you won't and then a real woman
to go explain that to her mom and daddy and
be like he Muslim. So do you think do you
think certain religions were put in place to like to

(49:23):
create boundaries? Yeah, yeah, I think so. But I also
think that having somebody to yourself forever is just delusion.
How the fuck I'm spend my whole life with you
in this one pusson?

Speaker 5 (49:41):
For real?

Speaker 1 (49:43):
Do that even sound like natural? You think I worked
this hard my whole life to fuck this one pusson? Yeah,
it's a multi millionaire. Like you know what I'm saying,
Like you think that I'm like.

Speaker 4 (50:03):
But but what I'm saying, But how do they category
categorize niggas that think like.

Speaker 1 (50:07):
That though, narcissist, sassy, whatever new words that they came
up with the terms here, but she they ain't say
shit about my granddaddy. My personal granddaddy had different.

Speaker 5 (50:18):
Bits because it went online.

Speaker 4 (50:20):
Like you said, it's more about being embarrassed, like a
woman wouldn't give a fuck if nobody knew.

Speaker 1 (50:26):
Niggas ain't embarrassed to the funeral when they get to
see all the different siblings and shit like that or
whatever they come out. You know what I'm saying, the gate,
the motherfucker at the funerals dropping ruses and the motherfucker
cask and all this other dumb as shit. But it's like,
what is embarrassment? And that's what I want to like
question too, like to add abody what's embarrassment?

Speaker 5 (50:47):
Now?

Speaker 4 (50:48):
You're right, I feel like you with me ain't nothing
I can do can embarrass you. If you want from
one hundred percent with you, you can't be how I'm embarrassed.
If I'm accepting you.

Speaker 1 (50:56):
For who you are, how you embarrassed. If that's really you,
you think that you just a golden ticket out of
every woman in the world that have met a successful
nigga or whatever, and then now you embarrassed by that,
like every bitch wants your nigga. And then a woman
can meet you and like you because you got holes
and think you just goinna get rid of all your hoes,

(51:19):
the lulu the lulu and cry.

Speaker 4 (51:25):
A woman can be cheating with you on your bitch.
Now you may cut your bitch and she crying because
you got another bitch.

Speaker 5 (51:34):
That's I like, what the fuck? What the fuck?

Speaker 1 (51:39):
It's more so about.

Speaker 4 (51:41):
Let me say this, most women feel as if though
their pussy is magical. It's something they see. What they
go to thinking about. Is it's something she doing, not
this who he is?

Speaker 1 (51:54):
You get what I'm saying. It's something that his girl
is doing. The reason why he fucking me? You know
what it is? Though, women don't overly communicate when it
comes to sex. It's a short like it's small group
of women that be like Yo, I like this, I
like that or whatever. They looking for the nigga to
come in and just slut them out and do all
this other shit. I think that women would go further,
they like, yo, eat this pussy to or come fuck me,

(52:18):
do this turn me around do dah da dah dah,
and I'm gonna be happy with it. A lot of women,
I ain't gonna lie. Like I just got through having
a conversation with a woman she told me like ninety
nine point sign of my relationships. I never can and
I was still entertaining a nigga. But I'm like, Yo,
did you express to the nigga how you can? How
you come? Like? You know what I'm saying, Like how

(52:38):
what what turned your own and what put you in
a position to do that? And they don't be saying
that shit because you want to fake it. You don't
know why the money you're gonna fake some shit for
a nigga with some bread. You better fake this shit
in this mansion, bitch. I don't give yo, Yo, you
could be in a motherfucker you know what I'm saying,
and apartments. You know what I'm saying, So motherfucker fake

(53:01):
that type of shit.

Speaker 5 (53:02):
Who you think since you've been in the game, been
your biggest hater?

Speaker 1 (53:10):
Mmmm? People that don't understand my perspective. You know what
I'm saying. I got a different thing, So like I
don't I don't program beats. I used to but like
I work with co producers and niggas that do program
beats and do all that other shit or whatever, so
it's program beats like okay, Wayne, you know what I'm saying,

(53:32):
Like that type of shit. To me, it's like my
gift is to know this it that ain't it and
to come up with the ideas and then to write
to hit records on top. Okay, So motherfucker be like
a discredit what I do because it wasn't like boom
boom dump dum, you know what I'm saying. But I
had to forceight to be like that kid that drawn
that beat that you know what I'm saying, Like, nah,

(53:54):
give me this, and then I write all the records
with my people on top of the shit or whatever.
So they'll be like a lesser successful person to be like, man,
fuck that that's my beat like that, But then it's
the same token. It's like, oh would that beat be
anything without this other person being involved. So people got

(54:15):
a different misconstrued standpoint of how collaborative this shit is.
Bro big perspective of that don't happen with out a
few motherfuckers, you know what I'm saying. But I think
that The unfortunate part is when you broke, you don't
understand that. When you up and you'll relate and your
career go up, you understand it and take a village.
Like when you just at a in the crib on

(54:37):
fruit and loops or whatever. You think it's all me
because you from a broke aspect and you trying to
figure out how to make it out this situation. So
the nigga that got money become your problem. M to
this shit, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (54:51):
Different, So, how how did your your journey as a rap.

Speaker 1 (54:57):
A producer like shape your reality in your perspective? Kind
of fucking me up? It's like I were saying, like
I was a I was a fucking star, you know
what I'm saying, and then something unfortunately happened to me
and then get down love and then reinvent yourself in

(55:19):
you back. I'm bigger than I was as a rapper
right now. But it's like it's a lug and you
is it real? That's my biggest part that I complained
to my therapist about twenty four seven.

Speaker 5 (55:33):
Who do you think the goat producer? Oh?

Speaker 4 (55:36):
Matter of fact, the nigga I had Sean Garrett on
what's nothing? He was like, Uh, you seen that clip
what he said about? Uh, what do you think about
all y'all niggas? You baby Jade, I went off on
all your niggas.

Speaker 1 (55:46):
What you say? I didn't get it. I deleted it
what you said. I was just mad as hell?

Speaker 5 (55:51):
Why dare you mad at me what another nigga said?

Speaker 1 (55:54):
Because you know screen set that up a little bit?
How because he was just hit maker. Hit maker say
in a bunch of different names.

Speaker 5 (56:01):
But you know what I'm saying, he probably begin you your.

Speaker 1 (56:02):
Prop giving my problem when you dealing with somebody that
that that they're trying to reinvent theyselfs and they feel
like that I'm lesser than you know what I'm saying,
It's just like set up for gunfire.

Speaker 5 (56:13):
So you d md us and cussed us out. What
you say? What you say niggas, bro.

Speaker 1 (56:20):
It wasn't that bad. I'm just like, I was just
putting out my stats, like what I did. You know
what I'm saying? Why you just ain't come on, come on,
big facts and say whatever you want to say, cuz
I think it ain't. It ain't Sean Garrett Beef ain't
really with me with himself, so you felt like you
felt like he dished you or he just state the facts?
What do we do that all the time? We could
do that cheese ka fact. I see that nigga fhips

(56:41):
the grand looks and the niggas do that same ship.
Like that nigga walked in when I'm Backstate the movies
in Dallas for Tinking Summer Walker and all the other
ship or whatever at that festival we was at Dallas,
of that ship, Oh Jan Garrett with death, that nigga
walked in the dressing room and act like I ain't
do the last five albums for this girl, like you're
just so amazing. But it's like it's his persona. He's

(57:06):
missing something from his own personal life that ain't got
nothing to do with me. He's fighting his own d man.
So while you get upset, and then right now you
don't see while you get upset when you heard it,
I was lacking therapy at that moment.

Speaker 5 (57:22):
Hey, who you think the all time go produces like
dead or Alive?

Speaker 1 (57:28):
Miss Jones? Okay, what about rapper Drake Son right songwriter?
And I get tricky boy songwriter the greatest or all
time songwriter Sean Erritic schu, Oh, yeah, he do right

(57:53):
songs time.

Speaker 5 (57:53):
But I'm blind.

Speaker 1 (57:54):
It ain't him, it's the Dream, but ship. I'm just
giving him, like, bro, I want to get by, like
I don't got no beef with dream.

Speaker 5 (58:02):
You think the Dream is the number one song of
all time?

Speaker 1 (58:05):
Not of all time but my era? Oh he said, Uh,
didn't he say somebody to dream too? No, he's a hater.
He do it for a living, that's but.

Speaker 4 (58:20):
But but he was he was, he was, he was,
he was, he was spend some stats though.

Speaker 1 (58:25):
He come from an insecure standpoint when you got to
talk down on other people, when you got all the maccolades.
He said, a lot of ships.

Speaker 4 (58:32):
I ain't even know he was a part of. We're
gonna skip, Like, I don't want to talk about niggas.
I just want to ask you about this. I want
to ask you what about.

Speaker 1 (58:41):
Let me say that cool nigga. Yeah he's a legend. Yeah,
I respect him. He's one of the biggest songwriters of
all time. But the way to get your flowers from
what you didn't receive when you thought you were supposed
to receive him ain't to shipped on the next Nigga
says doing it, I never talk bad about nobody that's

(59:02):
coming up. I'll never say, well.

Speaker 6 (59:05):
He's not a hit, makeup because you got to live
up to you.

Speaker 1 (59:08):
I've had sixteen number ones, I sold two hundred million records,
nineteen billion streams, and I'm still young bird. I think
that's a pretty good accomplishment for somebody that they wrote off.
So I think that the way you could do it
as a OG to be like, man, this nigga, regardless
if he got a hot one hundred number one, he
really didn't then cross the line with a lot of

(59:30):
different shit. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (59:31):
What's the difference between the hot one number one hundred
number one and the other number one white people? Oh,
it's like the pop station so so like on bill Board,
what would what would that be?

Speaker 1 (59:42):
That's over everything. It's like it's between like in Bruno
Mars or like in Sexy Red. That's why Bruno Mars
and Sexy Red got a collab coming out. That's why
Bruno Mars and Karbi By make Magic together and they
do that other shit. It's merging the world's Oh it's
Taylor Swift world compared to what we're doing over okay, Yeah,
but I'm so comfortable over here that a lot of

(01:00:03):
people go chase that hot one hundred shit and they
lose theyself and they turn they current fan base. I'd
rather be future in my whole career and ship. If
I catch it hot one hundred and I catch it
but I got the culture, then it be somebody that's
chasing somewhere where I ain't accepted, were not accepted over there.
You lucky if you get one of them. That's why

(01:00:24):
he feels so highly and he could speak so good
about that ship because it takes you to be a
chosen one, like a real like all the stars gotta
line for that ship to happen.

Speaker 4 (01:00:34):
What accolades that you ain't got that you want though,
that you like, like like on your on your bucket
list that you need.

Speaker 1 (01:00:42):
I want to fuck christ Janna, your mama. No, I
really ain't got no accolade. I'm gonna keep it honest, bank,
Like this is what the reality of it is.

Speaker 5 (01:00:59):
Is that.

Speaker 1 (01:01:01):
So with me coming from being a young bird and
me being hit making, now I set realistic goals for myself,
like people got to be like what I never understood
about niggas that was in the street that was making money, Like,
what's your out when it's over? So I developed my out.
You know what I'm saying. My out was I want
to have ten million liquid and on everything that I do,

(01:01:23):
and I surpassed that. So it's kind of like shit,
I'm just here living facts.

Speaker 5 (01:01:29):
I got a spot I do on the car. That's
a word with.

Speaker 1 (01:01:33):
The word you ready mhm. Resilience, what resilience me? Relationship,
beneficial success, undeniable, masculinity, sassine femininity For the women, connection needed,

(01:02:00):
communication number one, vulnerability, I'm not h growth waiting on me.
Trust never happened, ambition, love, condition, legacy, forever, balance, key, creativity,

(01:02:28):
hit making, inspiration Kanye m hm.

Speaker 5 (01:02:35):
Empowerment, women, healing, therapy, mindset.

Speaker 1 (01:02:44):
Fucked up, influence, Come with the territory, passion, women, purpose, women, family,
I want one strength, needed, evolution, ten years, collaboration, key,

(01:03:10):
our fantasy, truth, confident, came back, share, never, h perspective,
big bank, Hey, which.

Speaker 5 (01:03:24):
One of the roads stuck.

Speaker 1 (01:03:25):
Out to you? You can think of what it damn.

Speaker 5 (01:03:30):
Share shure never and you said never, Why.

Speaker 1 (01:03:37):
You gotta get on my boat? It's Noah's our dady,
you gotta get on like I ain't. I'm willing to
share everything boat namely the last thing a woman was
willing to share with you. He's think it could be
a happening this. I only want to give you a wing.

(01:04:00):
You want to give you that with Limon Pepper from
j R. Krickee. Ain't want to get your wing? Got
that moth for women mostly women that you know what
I'm saying, Nigga should be happy with their time though,
like women give you the time, like you should be
happy with that, Like that should be enough for me?
What you mean by that?

Speaker 4 (01:04:16):
That's what That's how they feel like like I'm giving
you my time, that should be enough for your your
riches and your everything. Absolutely not, but ain't that's what
That's what. That's what it is like if you ask
a woman you know and that and and I've seen
dudes online like I don't know, I think these niggas

(01:04:36):
pick me niggas. They was like, i'ma tacking niggas asking
what do women bring to the table? And I don't
be saying when I'm asking what do men get? I
ain't saying, man, Yeah, niggas said that, like you.

Speaker 1 (01:04:51):
What what what in your opinion, what do women bring
to the table, Because I think I heard this conversation before,
but like, what do your girlfriend and your wife bring
this separate to the table?

Speaker 4 (01:05:00):
To me, my wife brought bring to the table a
love that I never had before.

Speaker 5 (01:05:05):
I'm gonna just say that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:06):
But at the end of the day, when I look
at that for what it is, that's something you're telling me.
You know what I'm saying. It's something that I have
to believe. It's circumstantial.

Speaker 5 (01:05:16):
It's still so, but we have to not not down
playing that or nothing.

Speaker 4 (01:05:19):
But I'm just saying, like any relationship, if you're if
you're the soul provider or soul whatever, and you ask yourself,
what really do we get from women beside pussing you
and you saying you love me?

Speaker 1 (01:05:34):
Do you think that the roles were averse and you
was the and the woman was the provider and you
was on some stateman ship? How would that go? I
wouldn't be that, I know, but how would it go
for another nigga?

Speaker 5 (01:05:45):
It'll be a bitch.

Speaker 1 (01:05:46):
Yeah, yeah, So why go back to our previous conversation
and she gonna treat him as such? What you would
matter that the women got money for it ain't successful
for that, she gonna treat him like a.

Speaker 5 (01:05:57):
Bitch if he ain't got none.

Speaker 1 (01:06:00):
But if he got his own, should respect you? Probably
not really, because she got a crutch.

Speaker 4 (01:06:06):
You ain't answer the question of what do women? What
do we get from women?

Speaker 1 (01:06:12):
Nothing? No? For real liabush? Somebody answered that. Please, I'm
asking at what? At what point though?

Speaker 5 (01:06:18):
Like what we get bro stability? Inspiration?

Speaker 4 (01:06:27):
Okay, he's saying, I'm gonna say it in the mic.
He's saying some men that he and I agree with
that some women can ignite a sparking sound.

Speaker 1 (01:06:38):
Are huh?

Speaker 4 (01:06:39):
I'm saying you because you ain't met that woman?

Speaker 1 (01:06:43):
Go ahead, all right? So it's me if I live
in a five million dollar house, I got a shift,
I got a maid, I got everything that's going on
to keep this house together. And this woman already got children.
What can she offer me?

Speaker 5 (01:06:59):
But guess what? You ain't got no peace? What does
she bring you peace?

Speaker 1 (01:07:03):
How? What is that?

Speaker 5 (01:07:04):
Man? What I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:07:07):
You go to therapy? What if you meet this woman?
Don't need therapy no more? What does she give you?

Speaker 4 (01:07:11):
What does she enlighten you in a way? That you've
never been enlightened before. That's why I said it would
have to be magical. You have to meet a woman
that that.

Speaker 1 (01:07:19):
Is lightning the bottle. Man, Huh, that's lightening the bottle.
It ain't a copper cold when I live. It's lightening
the bottle, My boy, go ahead.

Speaker 7 (01:07:27):
I just say like also to you gotta look at
what the what does the woman bring to the table,
because you know, you might't meet a woman that's that
got MS and whatnot. You know, like Swiss man at
Lisa keys. These your keys have bread, you know what
I'm saying. So you know, you see how Swiss was

(01:07:47):
able to go to another level once he got somebody
that was, you know, kind of on that same plane.
You know, I don't think that you have to only
look at your perspective as you have more than woman.

Speaker 5 (01:08:00):
You know, now your.

Speaker 7 (01:08:02):
Situation it's a little bit different, but you got over
like ten million or whatever. But you know, I'm talking
about for the average guy or whatever that.

Speaker 1 (01:08:13):
See see Shah talking about the average nigga. He ain't
talking about like people that's in our position. So yeah,
for the average nigga, I honestly do think that if
you can meet a woman and she might have more
than you and you might have less than her, and
her mental all the way there that y'all can build together.
But that's at the ground level. That's at the shooting

(01:08:33):
in the gym level. Unfortunately, the women that men won't
ain't shooting in the gym brou They done got out
the gym. They own the road. They lebron like they're
in an all star game. So it ain't even shooting
the gym level. I'm a respected woman, way differently that
built with me than someone like. That's what people don't

(01:08:55):
tell you, Like when you get to the money and
you work hard to get into money, how are you
gonna gauge you really fuck with you? No, I agree
with that. I agree with that.

Speaker 4 (01:09:03):
But what I'm saying is, what if you met a
woman right that gave you a feeling that you never
felt before.

Speaker 1 (01:09:09):
He ain't got an do it or puss it, ain't
gotta do it nothing.

Speaker 4 (01:09:12):
You just ain't never felt that magical moment yet, So
you can't never say never.

Speaker 1 (01:09:16):
I can't tell you I ain't felt it yet. Women
leave with puss it. You want to open my DM
right now? It's women. I ain't never spoke words to
that got they puss her face front that motherfucker. Nah,
I ain't talme about that. Can I'm talking about it,
but you don't find that kind in twenty twenty five
when you at this level, that's where you trying to
bring the rationale to it. You speaking from no truth

(01:09:38):
to where it's like, Yo, my woman knew me at
this level. I was able to seeing she accepted me
at this level. She's been through all the bullshit with
me or whatever, name me. How many nigga did that?
That that boy that that that Drea got nigga? What
level she seen him go through? Who Drea the nigga
that played for the Houston Rockets He called twenty fifty

(01:09:59):
million her son the same age as him. Ain't talking
about that.

Speaker 4 (01:10:06):
I'm saying, like, just say, Vincent, I'm just hypothetically speaking.
All right, you just came up because you had to
need to let you up right, you'd have met a
nice lady. She never knows you before she saw your
geral on. You know, niggas walk around fake jeral She
don't know you. She don't know that you hit making
that you could tell she don't know and you just

(01:10:26):
take a liking into her. Right, you meet her and
she's everything that you ever thought in a woman. She
makes you feel the way you want the conversations that
would you get what I'm saying, everything's connected. How can
you not say that she can't spark something in you
to make you really believe in that again, that it's possible,

(01:10:47):
Like it's possible. It's just it's possible. I think we
don'e been. We don't seeing so much ship she's settling.

Speaker 5 (01:10:55):
Why you said that.

Speaker 1 (01:10:58):
She'd have been through too much ship open to even
land on that type of ship she's setting. But we're
all selling, bro, Like if I meet a girl, right,
I meet the girl like you're saying, it's mysterious. A
girl that's off the ship. She don't know who I am.
She seen me with Jerry's she see all that she
already seen. Whether it's fake or not. I'm projecting and

(01:11:20):
I'm manifesting the where I'm going. What you're talking about
every rapping half what it looks like? Yeah, money bag, yo,
talk about any interviews. I was wearing fake Jerry until
I got to that ship. So what you mean? Yeah?
Manifest yeah, yeah, genuine yeah, you see where I'm trying

(01:11:40):
to go. You just notice in my right You're right, nigga,
this ship all could be fake bigger, but you see
what I'm trying to see what it looked like. You
see what it looked like on me? Yeah, you see
what it looked like on me. Can you decide that
even if it's at size when it comes BBS, nigga's
gonna be something you like? Yeah, you smel Mi colone baby. Yeah,

(01:12:04):
So it ain't genius?

Speaker 5 (01:12:05):
What if you met a savings.

Speaker 1 (01:12:08):
You keep trying to pussent genuine like me. You're only
gonna find a genuine shit when you come from the mud.
That's why it triggered so many people when he said,
bit you wasn't with me shooting in a gym? Huh,
but you wasn't like that triggered so many people, and
it was a standout line because think about how many
bitches were shooting in the gymis. I ain't no woman,

(01:12:31):
won't no broke nigga, none zero you got today.

Speaker 5 (01:12:35):
You have a great heart.

Speaker 1 (01:12:37):
You've got to be dumb and broke yourself and at
a level to where the man not supposed to have
no money for you to accept him like that when
you're when you're sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, you're developing your life.
You ain't supposed to have no money, not no real
money like that, I know millions, it's only a like.
So she feels great to pull you up into and

(01:12:58):
you as a man, you find value with it, like man,
I ain't got nothing. Boy, we were slurping oodles and
news like Ladies in the tramp and spaghetti boy like nigga,
like we going crazy together. But it don't exist like
that when you reach a certain age level, because they
look down at you and for that which you think
shall I.

Speaker 7 (01:13:18):
Mean, I hear what he's saying, what I think you
not really understanding with band saying like if somebody don't
know you at all, let's take the jury out of it.

Speaker 1 (01:13:25):
You don't have no jewelry on or nothing. They don't
know you from adaman. No.

Speaker 4 (01:13:29):
But what he's saying that what he's saying, I give
what you're about to say. But what he's saying is
at the end of the day, she's still gonna have
to sniff potential.

Speaker 1 (01:13:38):
But that's even when you young, and when you young, and
you find somebody when you young, you sniff you lying,
cause shitiga, a nigga selling a crack cocaine ain't got
no potential except to go to jail or die. And
you're still fuck with him. And you're young and you're
dealing with a young nigga like that because he's the
dope boy they got. Twenty six is on this ship.
You know what I mean?

Speaker 5 (01:13:58):
Boy, I watched R.

Speaker 1 (01:13:59):
Kelly sit outside my high school and pick up bitches
and the six hundred bands. I watched dope boy niggas.
Everybody say that shit wrong and all of that. I
watched niggas that was dope boys twenty eight years old
pick up a bitch that was his senior year in
high school. Nigga on twenty six is enough ship and
float around that nigga in jail either boy, he out
here whatever doing whatever you're doing?

Speaker 5 (01:14:21):
Nah, he right, And you.

Speaker 1 (01:14:25):
Want the nigga with potentially yo, yo Yo, you were
over yo, But look, this was so funny though. You
were overlooked the nigga that was on junior varsity that
might have turned into a nigga that's in the league
right now. For the nigga that was a drug dealer
on the side and the motherfucking Chevy and Pollos.

Speaker 5 (01:14:43):
Your order nerd nigga who now is a lawyer or.

Speaker 1 (01:14:46):
A doctor boy created uber.

Speaker 5 (01:14:48):
Yep facts and now yeah with you when you're right.

Speaker 1 (01:14:55):
So it don't matter. It's about what the presentation is
and how looking, how I feel to you. So it's
not jenus. If you ain't get it out of the money,
you don't feel like it could be geniu. The only
way it could be genuine is if she got as
much to lose as you, she better have a sack.
If she got a sack and you got a sack,

(01:15:18):
and y'all come together and she of somebody that that
means something, so that ship or whatever, then maybe y'all
can kind of break even if it go good or
go bad. Because the chanell's that I bought for you
don't even up to what you bought for me or
our money I spent for your body, even up to
what you spent on me. You know what I'm saying. Like,

(01:15:39):
if it don't end up like that, then it's just
a l.

Speaker 4 (01:15:42):
Damn I agree, like who will flop And then it's
kind of hard. It's kind of hard to match that
because it's it's a limited of both on everything.

Speaker 5 (01:15:55):
Yeah, say that.

Speaker 7 (01:15:57):
They don't really care for when we got a lot
that they don't want to grow a lot of money
because she's not gonna listen to the shit that they really.

Speaker 1 (01:16:02):
Want to happen. Fifty to fifty, she meet a real
dominant man and she respect like that. Look, this is
what the real thing is, and this is what people
get get throwed off at. Respect is everything. Yeah, once
we lose respect for each other in the relationship is over,
it's over with. So as long as it don't matter
how much money the girl got her, she respect that

(01:16:24):
man or whatever. And he she look at him and
she look up to him like that, it'd be different.
That's why pimping and home and it still go. She
respect the pimp. Damn.

Speaker 4 (01:16:37):
So if you can tell your younger self something when
you first jumped down the port, what would you tell yourself?

Speaker 1 (01:16:41):
She would find a bitch in high school. Find a
bitch and grammar school, build with her, grow with her.
Don't matter how ugly she is, because in twenty twenty four,
you can go ahead and build a bitch. You can
take a nose off of, you can take everything, put
an ass on and put some titntis on her. You
can make her look exactly where you want to look.

Speaker 4 (01:17:00):
Yeah, you're right when you're saying when you're right, you're right.
So you just done you you you just gave up
on that part of it.

Speaker 1 (01:17:10):
I'm still open. But at the same token, I'm a realist.
I think that men are realists. I think that women
are opportunists. They waiting for the opportunity to pass them
men like, Man, I'm just waiting for a bitch to
be real with me. Facts like she like you can
go ahead and tell me, man, I don't even like
the way you fucked like that whatever, but she is

(01:17:31):
the way you hold it down and this that and
the third man, go get the rolls, put the rolls
on this click fuck me. You know what I'm saying.
Like it could go a bunch of different ways. But
at the same token, men just be like they just
want the real bro. So I always ask people this,

(01:17:52):
So you think who you think love? Are conditional?

Speaker 5 (01:17:54):
Men and women?

Speaker 1 (01:17:56):
Man? Yeah, for sure, women in everything condition think about
look at them, Tyler Perry movies, whatever. You know what
I'm saying, Like you've seen the movie, Uh, what's the
one with Taraji where the nigga was building a little
fucking uh machine inside the house or whatever, and like
she wasn't fucking him. She kicked the nigga out of
the house, did all the dumb shit or whatever, and

(01:18:18):
then he became. He got up ten million, he gave
it to Araji. He got up a hundred, He gave
it to Aragi ten million. She still went and came
and killed the niggas. You know what I'm saying, Try
to kill the bitch and kill the nigga. You know
what I'm saying, do all the dumb shit. I think
that you can't put women in a position to where
they feel like they're being getting over on because they

(01:18:39):
too emotional. The emotions just run high. You can't really
like understand it for what it's really worth, like for real,
for real. Damn, what's next with hit maker? Man most stepping?
I mean shit, I had one hundred thirty placements last

(01:18:59):
year to be that new book new memoir with ain't read,
I ain't. I need to help my book too, man,
cap you the one.

Speaker 5 (01:19:08):
Yeah, let's do it.

Speaker 7 (01:19:11):
And I love you know as as a journalist, Wait
you shit down and talk to people to appreciate it.

Speaker 1 (01:19:19):
We gotta lock in new woman for sure, and Jay
and we go super way for sure, new documentary, new records,
new new doc the Vertical. So I'm dealing with the
new doc, new TV show. I'm gonna do a TV

(01:19:40):
show right now. So like shout out to puff free
that nigga. You know what I'm saying, I still got love.
But like they were doing making a band and ship
like that or whatever before they was revamping it. Guess
who the person that's making the band. So now you
get to see this ship, you know what I'm saying,
up close and personal, I start shooting them and doing

(01:20:01):
all this other stuff or whatever. But can I ask
you a question, be for we get about it. Why
do you get so much grace when you're really a
hard nigga on situation?

Speaker 5 (01:20:13):
What you mean? Why do I give or get?

Speaker 1 (01:20:16):
Why do you give grace? Shit?

Speaker 4 (01:20:19):
I found peace, bro, I'm at peace now. So I
ain't like you said, I ain't got no reason to
fortunate nothing or be upset about nothing. It is what
it is, man, I enjoy doing I'm doing this therapy
for me. Man, you know what I'm saying. Like a
lot of stuff like you could tell a lot of
stuff that you were saying I agree on, But I'm
I'm gonna pick. I'm gonna keep saying certain things because

(01:20:41):
I know how other people may think. You know what
I'm saying, So I'm ask the questions for them. But
I know what you're saying. I get I agree with
a lot of shit people saying. I disagree with a
lot of ship people say. But it's perspectives.

Speaker 1 (01:20:52):
Well if you you so, but you I respect you
because you're so pee? Why you ain't ten toes down?
Like what what's what's my girl name? What's the one?
She set it off for this ship too? Chanel? The
other one that don't look like she's supposed to look
on her Instagram. But she looked really good sitting in

(01:21:12):
his chair, which yeah, many mini f baby, she looks
good in this chair. I'm gonna looked against ground. I'm like, yeah,
But and I love her. I love girl, you know
what I'm saying. But like she talks so crazy that

(01:21:34):
you think you can see the gram and see like
big Chanel's g wagon. You know what I'm saying, Like
she talked, so why you ain't standing that? Its just
a I don't know.

Speaker 5 (01:21:46):
It's just I don't know, man, I just feel like,
you know.

Speaker 1 (01:21:50):
She's being humble, you know what I'm saying, But you
gotta do fuck being humble, you up. You gotta spread
the right man. But no, she you want The funny
part of her whole interview was and I really liked
about it. At the end of the motherfucker About two
hours later, she was like, she agreed with you, like

(01:22:11):
she's seeing your perspective the whole way. Yeah, And then
she's softened up and said, Yo, it's really because I'm hurt.
That's the way that I really want to deal like this.
So the only thing that I can really ask for,
like are you're seeing like what kind of woman I want?
Or what kind of should I want to deal with?
Like somebody's trauma list that's passed to hurt. You know
what I'm saying. Yeah, just like that's that's that's linked

(01:22:33):
on it, you know what I'm saying, Like.

Speaker 4 (01:22:34):
Nah, that's crazy you ask me that, though, Man, I don't.
I feel like, you know, this shit got gate keepers
in it too, so you come out too hard. This
shit she got nigga nigs go in the room before
you and keep you out the room.

Speaker 5 (01:22:45):
You get what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:22:46):
How do you think I came across from this interview?
How do you think I came acrossrom it? It's you
not but like perspective for somebody else your truth fuck
them no, But like that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:22:57):
You came out like fuck out. Nigga feels this how
this is how I am?

Speaker 1 (01:23:00):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:23:00):
I do that too, but in a in a different
way now, Like my delivery used to be just so
fucked up, but I'm still saying the same ship, but
just delivering it different, more calm. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:23:15):
That's it.

Speaker 4 (01:23:15):
I'm still saying the same ship, and I'm letting the
people see I'm bringing That's why when you hit me,
I was like, oh, yeah, you.

Speaker 1 (01:23:20):
Had my number two. You ain't had the DM.

Speaker 5 (01:23:21):
You could have called me and come me out.

Speaker 1 (01:23:23):
Yeah. I was so irate at that time when I
just see whatever app was, I'm.

Speaker 4 (01:23:30):
Like, I'm m but I'm gonna always bring people on
and not sensor them.

Speaker 1 (01:23:34):
Let them get off what they want to get off.

Speaker 4 (01:23:36):
But you gonna line, man, you go back, Search bank,
big Bank, Search Black niggas got enough bullshit on line
talking out, so it's on them.

Speaker 1 (01:23:44):
How could that as a as a og and as
a as a big homie, like, how would you think
any advice that you were showing me, like how how
like how to handle women? How to feel about these
things that we spoke about. You just gotta to me,
you just got to go outside.

Speaker 4 (01:24:02):
The norm because you're gonna keep seeing the same ship
inside of your norm.

Speaker 1 (01:24:05):
So you're saying settle, not settle.

Speaker 4 (01:24:07):
I'm saying, go outside your normal, see something different that's settling.

Speaker 1 (01:24:11):
What you mean That sounded like an ugly bitch to me?

Speaker 4 (01:24:14):
Yeah, I'm saying, go somewhere else to find a bitch
instead of copper cold and god damn noble, what what
a what a sack chase is at?

Speaker 1 (01:24:24):
You going? You don't hang around there? But what a
sack chase is at? So where should I go? I
don't know tonight? That not Atlanta love this ship out
the whole city the country. So if you with in
parting game on a young nigga like me, I ain't

(01:24:44):
got no kids, I ain't got no bitch, I ain't
got none of that ship. What would you think for
a nigga that successful. How should they approach moving forward
in a relationship because you come from a privileged position
and the grand scheme of things, because you were able
to grow with somebody think about, let's.

Speaker 5 (01:25:04):
Take I wouldn't do it. I'm just gonna keep one
hundred with you.

Speaker 4 (01:25:07):
I ain't getting a nigga if if if God for
being ever divorced me, I ain't getting no new bitch.

Speaker 5 (01:25:13):
Damn yo being one hundred, I ain't doing that again.

Speaker 1 (01:25:17):
So so what so what? So? What the rest of
your life look like to you? If you if you
wasn't in that position for a nigga like me? All right,
so for me, But you ain't got no kids. I
already already got my kids. So where I having no kids?
What you what that look like?

Speaker 5 (01:25:30):
Shit?

Speaker 1 (01:25:30):
Get a dog? So if you were telling you in
twenty twenty five, I'm a clean slate, I ain't got
no kids.

Speaker 5 (01:25:44):
You got them? Let your last name keep going on?

Speaker 1 (01:25:47):
So how we how I go? That pops on in some.

Speaker 5 (01:25:52):
And don't don't worry about being a feminine.

Speaker 1 (01:25:54):
Put you all on game on perspective? The baby, No
you heard about that? What's that mean? Boy? It's like
a prenap for a baby. What do you mean though,
you go and set all the parameters before the baby
even come into the world. This is the type of
money you get. This for the baby gonna get raised.
This is how we're doing it. You put it in contract,

(01:26:15):
you put it in writing. You can't talk about me,
n da blah blah blah, and then do that. Yeah,
do that. That's one thing you should do.

Speaker 5 (01:26:24):
And just get your get you a few.

Speaker 1 (01:26:26):
You know what I'm saying, Like, cause it's some women
that will donate some kids.

Speaker 5 (01:26:33):
You know what I'm saying, Like, Hey, some kids get
your last name going.

Speaker 4 (01:26:36):
But you know what I'm saying, you got enough paper
to goddamn take care of your kids and be in
the life you do.

Speaker 1 (01:26:42):
You want her to be the d n A donum
with you. I'm just saying, you just gotta pick something
to get you what you want. Man.

Speaker 5 (01:26:50):
Like how I'm doing.

Speaker 1 (01:26:53):
Some good kids. That's nice kids, Nick Cannon, them nigga
like kids. You know what I'm saying, But they take
care of I ain't saying that's a good or bad thing.
Some people think it's a bad thing, But.

Speaker 4 (01:27:06):
Them nigga last name, they gonna be able to split
their fortune with their kids.

Speaker 5 (01:27:10):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:27:14):
Would you recommend for young niggas to take that that
that that look for a ten? Would you tell them
to take a seven? They will provide all the qualities whatever,
Like man, even if she is six, even if she
don't look the way you want, because like I'm kind
of in perspective of that, like, the look might not
be the look that you want. If the puss it
hitting and she giving you peace and this that that

(01:27:35):
might be your person.

Speaker 5 (01:27:36):
That's what I said.

Speaker 4 (01:27:37):
You gotta go outside of your norm bro, like the
look like like and if you get something that looks normal,
don't try to make her look like the rest of
that shit, because then when she started looking like the
rest of that shit, she's gonna start acting like the
rest of that shit. It's all on what you want.
Like we now we we as men starting to be

(01:27:57):
like the women.

Speaker 1 (01:27:58):
That picky with too many of goddamn.

Speaker 4 (01:28:03):
You know what I'm saying, Because at the end of
the day, if you want to if you want a
wife or you want a family, that don't got no
look on it, like I'll be telling the women you
want the perfect, perfect man ain't got no look on it.
You never know like you turn around with God sent
you because he don't look like.

Speaker 5 (01:28:18):
What you think. He spouta look like.

Speaker 1 (01:28:20):
I don't think they didn't do that though that's a lie.
Who is bro it ain't about to look about.

Speaker 5 (01:28:26):
To say, That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:28:28):
Nigga, he don't look like he got no money, so
I ain't fucking with it. Well, this nigga's a good guy.

Speaker 1 (01:28:45):
Is money to Rudo all evil or the or the
or the reward for everything? I don't.

Speaker 4 (01:28:52):
I don't think money ain't real because at the end
of the d know a bunch of niggas with a
bunch of money that's unhappy. True, you know what I'm saying, Like,
I'm just being real, and I know some niggas that
that's that's just living and happening on the motherfucker niggas
smile and laugh every day all day.

Speaker 1 (01:29:10):
Would you rather have rich nigga problem, broke nigga problem?

Speaker 4 (01:29:15):
I rather have no problem? How have it come rich
or broke? I'm just being one hundred because I done
had the money before and stretched out a lot of
it like a lot of street money. It's different, bro
I don't. I don't have the money out streets. I
don't have money in this industry.

Speaker 5 (01:29:32):
Ship.

Speaker 1 (01:29:32):
Would you have to have uh industry money and problems
or no problems?

Speaker 5 (01:29:41):
Broke?

Speaker 4 (01:29:42):
I don't gonna be broke pier, So we can we
carry in that part, so I could take whatever come
with the money, because it comes with it. Like if
a nigga, uh, you ain't ready for the invt then
quit word the pluto. You know what I'm saying, You
ain't ready for the inv and the problems and and
the ship to come with this ship, you might well
get out of it.

Speaker 1 (01:30:02):
You know what the problem is to me? Women worried
about being the prized and don't realize that they really
get the reward. Facts, that's a bar. They worried about
being a prize in a relationship like yo, like he
picked me because I'm this and that a third and
this and that a third. But they always get the

(01:30:23):
reward out the whole thing when the nigga picked him. Facts,
fuck the prize, animal, boy, you throw that ship away
as you got the little at the felt, but the reward, bitch,
walk away with fifty of your ship. You know what
I'm saying, but like the problem is for me and
I'm just saying the candidly is that I hear you

(01:30:46):
talk about certain things or whatever, and I'm very open
to it. I think that what a disconnected is is
that a man really won't you know how you you
present the girlfriend wife conversation, it gets jaded when she
already got kids. Because when you want a bitch to

(01:31:06):
be your wife, she's supposed to bear fruit to your children.

Speaker 4 (01:31:09):
And and when you want a bitch to be your wife,
I don't want.

Speaker 1 (01:31:15):
No nigga have that much control over you.

Speaker 4 (01:31:16):
That can that can that can temper with your emotions
whenever you want to like a baby dad, niggas ain't
with that.

Speaker 1 (01:31:23):
How we gonna mansion and you going through it and
I ain't getting nothing tea and you thinking about what
your your baby. Another nigga is yeah, yeah, no, if
I like, how could I not cheat? You just gotta
take that.

Speaker 4 (01:31:35):
You gotta take the baby like bitch did my baby?
No that my bitch, nigga, he gone gone like you just.

Speaker 1 (01:31:40):
Gotta take her. How could I not cheat? Even in that,
I'm gonna resent you gonna cheat anyway though, it no,
but you're gonna resent the woman for that regardless how because.

Speaker 5 (01:31:52):
Right away, Yo, you.

Speaker 1 (01:31:53):
Ain't make the right picks. You think you finish your
land on me, you know what I'm saying, Like you,
you made a lot of mistakes in your life. You
gotta treat me, we all, but you gotta treat me
with a different type of care because I overly came
and put my success on you and your kids. So
I don't want to hit no mouth, but.

Speaker 4 (01:32:12):
You, you man, you gonnaad have God damn get one
of the robots from you. You wanted to get one
of the robots and he bitchally gonna have that mouth.

Speaker 1 (01:32:19):
Man, Man, I heard that twenty twenty six day, motherfucker
come here, motherfuck you ever seen what's that movie that's
on Netflix? Right? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:32:28):
I see with with the having the babies and everything, But.

Speaker 1 (01:32:32):
I ain't really tripping off that. I just want a
deeper understanding to be like a kind of I'm not
searching for accountability in a woman though, Oh nah, that
ain't done. But if a woman was accountable and was
able to say, like, man, you know what she is
he tripping, I really appreciate you. It would make you

(01:32:52):
feel better about the ship instead of like the emotions
running over and this, How could you feel like a
man and your woman inside a mansion stressed out about
what another nigga did? You think you worked this hard
for that ship? Well, you coming there with clean slate.
You know your woman since she was a teenager, like you.

Speaker 4 (01:33:12):
Said, But at the end of the day, that means
you lacking somewhere. If she if she's still stressing a
word about another nigga, that means you ain't. She don't
even fuck with you if you meet them. If you
meet a woman, bro, and she's still thinking about anything
besides you, she don't fuck with you.

Speaker 1 (01:33:29):
Don't even me dealing her with no way.

Speaker 4 (01:33:32):
I don't give a fuck if it was her daddy, bitch,
I'm your daddy everything now, I'm everything is God then
me nothing else. So anything after that, anything you allow
anything else to stress, especially when I'm.

Speaker 5 (01:33:49):
Providing, protecting everything for you.

Speaker 4 (01:33:52):
Anything else that that that that that that means.

Speaker 1 (01:33:55):
When it come to kids, it's different though, if they
had a relationship with their daddy before and then she
going through her well with that nigga whatever, and she
stressed out, not about you, not about the daddy, just
the relationship that's happening with the kid. You can't do nothing.
I take him with you, take the kid with you.
So you're basically giving everybody get the funk out. Yeah,
take the kid. You let them have that baby then,

(01:34:17):
or let me have it one of the us. We
need even drawn a loud on this ship. What's gonna happen? Hey,
you won't beat my baby or hells cause either way,
you gotta go. Somebody gotta go this podcast. But that's
the truth though, Yo, I appreciate you saying that, but

(01:34:38):
you saying the same thing I'm saying from the jump.
It's my way in no way, oh no facts, it's
my way in.

Speaker 5 (01:34:44):
Nowhere at the end of the day. Man, it is
what it is.

Speaker 1 (01:34:47):
Bro.

Speaker 5 (01:34:47):
It's like.

Speaker 1 (01:34:48):
But bro, listen, when a woman, when you choose a
woman and she choose you back, you can't do nothing
no wrong to her.

Speaker 4 (01:34:56):
So whatever you say, go all that trying to negotiate
with a bitch. She don't really fuck with you. If
you got to negotiate with a bitch, bitches, well, I
don't see I'm trying.

Speaker 1 (01:35:09):
You got me cussing ship. I don't turn into a
whole nother nigga, nigga bullshit man. Listen, listen listen man?
What time is it? Yo? We got we got but
let's rock. Let's rock real quick.

Speaker 5 (01:35:27):
Yeah yeah wo saw let me come back. You ready?

Speaker 1 (01:35:34):
Keep all that in there?

Speaker 5 (01:35:35):
Everything you good.

Speaker 4 (01:35:38):
What I was about to say was before we you
know what I'm saying it took a break. Was when
you take possession of a woman as a man, she's
supposed to.

Speaker 5 (01:35:51):
Be your possession basically.

Speaker 4 (01:35:54):
And by that being said is if she does have
a kid, there's no reason for her to talk to
him though her baby dad talk to me, buddy.

Speaker 1 (01:36:03):
It's minds. How many women gonna be comfortable with you saying.

Speaker 4 (01:36:06):
Hey, well, then that's not the one for me because
I guess what, A real woman that respects you got money.
I don't give a fuck what she got. A real
woman that respects you just because she got money, she
got respect me by telling your fuck if you Oprah, Oprah,
Jeffrey bit, you.

Speaker 1 (01:36:22):
Gonna respect me? If not, you not for me. It's
just what it is.

Speaker 4 (01:36:27):
I'm not lord, I'm not stooping down for I don't
give a fuck good. It could be Virgin Mary.

Speaker 1 (01:36:33):
But in twenty twenty five. How realistic is that you're
talking about a one percent? Now we be a delusion,
Like I be talking about the women, I'm not being
losing brother, then I would be single. That's what I'm saying.
I'm not gonna enter myself in no situation that I
don't control. So you leave men to believe that if
damn five by everything you're saying, it's basically what I'm

(01:36:54):
preaching that it's all fake. I'm saying, if you, if you,
if you don't want to compromise, I'm not compromising certain things.
That's just what it is.

Speaker 5 (01:37:02):
That's just what it is.

Speaker 1 (01:37:03):
Is just what it is.

Speaker 4 (01:37:04):
Anning and bough Like you're not calling my wife at
two o'clock in the morning talking about your child.

Speaker 1 (01:37:09):
You're not. You're not calling her period, bro this mind,
so call me.

Speaker 4 (01:37:15):
That's just like if you had a if I if
I had a baby mama and a girlfriend. Niggas get
out the way of that. Off the rip call hey
my girl gonna U. I ain't in that, y'all communicate.

Speaker 1 (01:37:29):
It ain't stopping them, huh, It ain't stopping them. What
you mean emotions?

Speaker 5 (01:37:33):
You yo?

Speaker 1 (01:37:34):
Like, Like, look, here's an example, right, I've been in
a situation right where I was on Love and hip Hop? Right,
Can a motherfucker try to put something on my jacket
and say that I'm this and I'm not. You know
what I'm saying, blah blah blah. But your next woman
accepts you, knowing all that information, but still a presenter
into your face and.

Speaker 6 (01:37:54):
Saying, I ain't know you was on that Love and
hip hop is nigga.

Speaker 1 (01:38:00):
Like the ship?

Speaker 5 (01:38:01):
Get excused me, bro, But I don't know what kind
of bitches you be dealing with though.

Speaker 1 (01:38:04):
Bro, when emotions get involved, I wouldn't give fuck what
it is. Brother, bitch gotta know you a certain kind
of nigga that's certain, bro. Listen, not even just my
my my wife.

Speaker 4 (01:38:16):
People that deal with me, No, certain ship, don't do
that around him, don't say that around him.

Speaker 1 (01:38:23):
Don't be like that round him. It's a certain president
that just set for certain men. But honestly, you speaking
from a privileged standpoint because your woman cut from the
morals and ethics of that cloth. I'm not even speaking
on my woman. I'm telling I'm speaking on my people.
My people right here, they know certain things like nah,
big ain't going for that certain ship. Certain boundaries is

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just seted with you as the person that you are
true and false until it gets heated and hot.

Speaker 5 (01:38:55):
And but this consequences when it's heated and hot.

Speaker 4 (01:38:57):
Though, So some niggas just don't got no consequence, So
that's when they push your boundaries. It's a consequences Like, man,
that nigga ain't finling way, you didn't even exist.

Speaker 1 (01:39:06):
They've done seen it.

Speaker 4 (01:39:08):
I've seen what happened with dude pushed that by boundary,
we ain't seen him no more.

Speaker 1 (01:39:11):
And what's the consequence, Because this is why I'm scared
to enter into relationships like that.

Speaker 4 (01:39:16):
The consequence is no more communication. I'm not upset or nothing,
just wasted two years of your life.

Speaker 1 (01:39:21):
No, because you're gonna see the signs of a person
that will cross your boundaries in the first week. Think so, yes, man,
I don't believe that shit. You overlooked them, motherfucker line
the first week.

Speaker 4 (01:39:32):
They can lie, but get what energy? Don't lie, bro, energy,
don't lie. King, I won't give a fuck what you say.

Speaker 1 (01:39:38):
You ain't never been in a situation or seeing none
of your partners go through the situation where they felt
like shit was just majestic. She was just amazing and
just whatever. And then the mold switch.

Speaker 5 (01:39:48):
No, because the nigga.

Speaker 4 (01:39:49):
The nigga didn't tell the whole truth on the shit
he been pillow talking with this whole about So she
don't lost respect for you somewhere. You don't need some
whole shit that this hold unseen shit like that nigga,
shit that nigga. So you trying to unhold yourself. But
the respect already gone.

Speaker 1 (01:40:03):
No matter.

Speaker 4 (01:40:03):
But but I gotta fuck with you because I'm in
a safe space once you like, listen, you can, you
can do certain things right to a woman.

Speaker 5 (01:40:13):
She gonna keep it inside because I need you what
meet you for what stability?

Speaker 1 (01:40:18):
But she got all money, all.

Speaker 5 (01:40:20):
Right, I need you for comfort. He hold on lay
by theyself.

Speaker 1 (01:40:25):
It being real. I need you for this time. They
don't want to.

Speaker 5 (01:40:28):
Lay by theyself.

Speaker 1 (01:40:30):
I need you for the cameras.

Speaker 5 (01:40:31):
I need you to walk in the clock. I need
to look like girl him him.

Speaker 1 (01:40:35):
I need that. But think about the nigga like look back.
So look we all like I've seen you talking. We
all in agreements that we want. You know what I'm
saying to treat our women ain't go crazy and sleet
them out. But what about the nigga that's fucking the
leather off of couch.

Speaker 5 (01:40:49):
Hey, I ain't got nothing to do with that, bitch,
don't get caught.

Speaker 1 (01:40:52):
I can't. I can't rush my brain about what a
hold on the pusses that wasn't mine when I get
that's yours. I'm talking about the nigga that willing to
do that while you in a situation what you mean
because of Grass and Breena always on the other side,
everybody in a relationship, right, A girl could be in
a relationship with a nigga that's James Harden, right, But

(01:41:14):
she could be like Dante giving me all the energy
that I need. Jane Harden could be buying everything for it.
She'd be like, man, well he comforted me in a
different level. He look out for me and this, that
and the third. But James Harden is still buying.

Speaker 5 (01:41:28):
I gonna be a whole man. You can't unhold no
hold man.

Speaker 1 (01:41:30):
She is what she is. So you don't believe in that,
believe what. You don't think that holds for.

Speaker 5 (01:41:35):
Time, But they do.

Speaker 1 (01:41:37):
They delivered once, they once they washed up, and that's
what my whole point to you was earlier. They damn
it's good. Do you want you want the can and
chicken to a super but the din in it, or
you want to take it.

Speaker 4 (01:41:48):
Hold of your sh the bitch, the bitch can one,
then I can't. My whole can could be mashed though,
So bitch, you know what I'm saying. I could be
a whole I could be at the recycled center.

Speaker 1 (01:41:59):
So at the end of the day, it's a good
match for me. But if I own a recycled center,
it still ain't no match.

Speaker 5 (01:42:06):
Trash and trash, bro no matter how you look at it.
Trash and trash.

Speaker 1 (01:42:10):
So we can we can put them.

Speaker 4 (01:42:11):
Just because I got some paper don't mean I ain't trash.
So let me get this little dent and put it
dinner and bitch, renew me.

Speaker 1 (01:42:17):
How many women you think stayed with me? And that's trash?
They got paper then all of them? So how how
was that? Ain't no bitch?

Speaker 4 (01:42:27):
But I'm saying so for a nigga that ain't got
no bitches because he not willing to settle, he got
unrealistic expectations like audio got.

Speaker 1 (01:42:35):
Dents in the head. Someone you know how to hire
them better? I ain't got no unrealistic expectations other than
you shutting the fuck up like that's Look, look this
this wag go crazy. Though this wag go crazy, I
don't get it. Six They got mouth still the same way.

(01:42:58):
The tin got that same Yeah, So what you're dealing
with all long got mouth and you're gonna know. But
you're gonna hold resentment to this ship because it's gonna
be like, well, bitch, that's why I'm fucking off with
other holes. But that's just an excuse, be cause nigga
gonna fuck off with other holes anyway.

Speaker 4 (01:43:14):
All that ship is excuses to just make the bitch
feel like, validate what he doing.

Speaker 5 (01:43:20):
If you meet the bitch, he I fucked bitches, the
bitches with that, oh see.

Speaker 1 (01:43:26):
But the part is that's where it gets delusion, and
it gets the line gets kewed. You knew I fucked
with bitches when you met me.

Speaker 4 (01:43:33):
So why are you trying to say that the bitch
made you fukitch because you got mouth. You're just saying, now,
I got a reading, it justified, bitch, you talk too much.

Speaker 5 (01:43:39):
That's why I got such and such. You're gonna have
such such anyway.

Speaker 1 (01:43:42):
No, it means I settled with the six and I
want six talk. Let's just say so. You said I
that you need to be perfect. No, you need to

(01:44:02):
be treating yourself like you said, you need to be
a mute bitch, don't talk. Not really a mute, but
you gotta have an understanding of what you know, the
level of what your nigga can get, and you gotta
be respectable that if you're in a mansion and you
are six, you know you can't carry it the same
way something, but a six don't think they're six. Huh.

Speaker 4 (01:44:23):
A six don't think they're six to you. A dime
could feel like she a five, but she gonna feel
like she's a thirty to you.

Speaker 1 (01:44:30):
Brother. It's about realistic bruh. Have you ever seen like,
let me ask you some women.

Speaker 4 (01:44:39):
Women are the most critical about their selves, right. They
was looking at me like, oh like my.

Speaker 1 (01:44:44):
Hair, I don't like my body. Only they do that
all day no matter who they is. They could be
the baddest bitch in the world. They do that all day.
But as soon as you recognize that you're bashing her.
That's like me saying I don't want to lead wigs
In twenty twenty four. It's impossible. You better don't know

(01:45:06):
about nigga. Wont no bitch you gotta screen though, peeling
off her fore head. Nah, like Nigga, they made it,
they made it too popular, They made it like like, look,
I don't.

Speaker 4 (01:45:20):
See to see to see the women that y'all niggas
deal with, and like I'm just keepping red.

Speaker 1 (01:45:24):
I don't even like that look. I don't even like famous.
I'm just saying I don't even like that look of
a woman that wear wigs, and I don't like that.
It's nothing against it.

Speaker 5 (01:45:32):
I'm talking about for me, my preference, Like I don't
look at that, It's fine.

Speaker 1 (01:45:36):
I look at I don't think, no nigga look at that,
it's fine. I'm just saying, even even even even just
a made up woman, bro, like bro, bro, the ship
that I look at to be like that're bad.

Speaker 4 (01:45:47):
They look so regular normal. They don't look like how
like how all these women look. You know what I'm saying, Like,
because I was raised up around pretty beautiful black women
before all this other enhancement shit started, not nothing is
wrong with it looked good, It looked good, like yeah,
but that ship ain't that goddamn ship. That goddamn ship

(01:46:07):
looked like how unts you know used to look. You
know what I'm saying, how the school teachers look like, damn,
my school teacher find as a motherfucker like that.

Speaker 1 (01:46:15):
Yeah, like you know what I'm saying. She got a
fat ass. She ain't got no titties. You know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:46:19):
You know how the women used to look. She ain't
really had no titties.

Speaker 1 (01:46:23):
I'm just saying I am too, But I'm just I'm
just saying, like you remember how the women used to
be fine as hell.

Speaker 5 (01:46:27):
Sheba ain't got no tittoes. Or she had a flat
ass with some big ass titties.

Speaker 1 (01:46:31):
You know that. I don't know why God did that
back in the day. He's just made it was either
about tripping brother right, big boot ass b We ain't
got no titt though, man, But that was like a
beautiful woman with just like what the little helly used
to have, like the little Bobs and the loch. No, No,

(01:46:52):
we just a regular comback like the rap. How they
have to wrap it up at night, ponytail, you know
you gotta you gotta furl it around and put it
put the thing on you take the thing on that
ship just dropped, that fluffy ship. That's that's bad to me.
Bro to me, you know what I'm saying. So the
ship that that ship that got damn, that's popular ship.

Speaker 4 (01:47:14):
You ain't gonna find it in them because everybody at
that everybody that niggas overlooking the right ship.

Speaker 1 (01:47:20):
Bro, go ahead, the popular bitches don't even they the
unpopular bitches want to look like the popular bitches, no
now because they ain't got a nigga that let them know. Nah, bitch,
you the one, how do you?

Speaker 4 (01:47:36):
How do you bad bitches gonna look when the regular
bitches turned back to the bad bitches?

Speaker 1 (01:47:40):
She had never accept you for saying that because so
many other women will look like that, and men have
rewarded her for that.

Speaker 4 (01:47:46):
And I'm gonna tell you why she will. I' gonna
tell you why she would. She would understand that when
you the nigga you is hit maker, show her off
in the light and show that she's back. She's a
bad bitch, and show.

Speaker 5 (01:47:57):
That when you when you you you who you are,
show like like Gates with his wife a Drenker.

Speaker 1 (01:48:10):
You get what I'm saying. What I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:48:14):
Gonna say she I know she's not a sick. What
I'm saying is, but she's a natural woman.

Speaker 1 (01:48:20):
That ship don't matter if she's not a six. But
you're not and you're not understand what I'm saying. She's not.
She she could be a six if she wasn't if
she wasn't properly groomed, how she groomed herself or whatever.
Even Savannah, I always use Savannah's them. These are ladies, bro,
You're not understanding what I'm saying. My tripping what I'm saying,
these are real women, like ladies like you could tell

(01:48:41):
the aura that everything they not chasing the look You
keep overlooking the fact that when them women found them men,
so they more happy with showing them off based off
the qualities that they provided at that point. They overlook
the looks and what the society's do because of the

(01:49:01):
relationship equity that they built at a younger age.

Speaker 4 (01:49:05):
But you're not understanding what I'm saying. What I'm saying is,
at the end of the day, you will overlook this
woman thinking that she's a six when the whole time
she's a dime. What I'm saying, like, all right, just
save inscient ugly. Nah, not really though, Bro, not really.

Speaker 1 (01:49:20):
I'd have seen some.

Speaker 4 (01:49:21):
Ugly ass whole bay a lot of the rat hole
ugly funck when they first came out, and ain't gontar.

Speaker 1 (01:49:25):
Now she looks good. Now I'm just brit being real.

Speaker 4 (01:49:32):
Who I ain't even gonna call them, call him out,
but I'm just saying a lot on them, like uh,
then I'm turning down that ship looking you know what
I'm saying for real, it's the clothes, it's the it's
the proper it's the proper care, the skin resiments should

(01:49:52):
get different, like, no one is typically.

Speaker 1 (01:49:55):
Ugly, bro a man, it's provided by love. You could
love a bitch to be pretty, no real ship you could, Bro.
You can.

Speaker 4 (01:50:04):
You can light a bit up by giving her confidence
through your love, through your nurturing.

Speaker 1 (01:50:09):
All right, So I'm just being one hundred with you,
if we if we're looking back without being on the
people business. Dreak and Kevin Gates ain't together no more.

Speaker 5 (01:50:18):
Oh I don't know about that, but they not right.
But both of them has glowed up. Though they both
have glowed up. That man ain't that it ain't together.

Speaker 1 (01:50:28):
That's his and she he's hurt. But no, they do
because children in the twina. But without no, I.

Speaker 5 (01:50:34):
Ain't going for that. That's his.

Speaker 4 (01:50:36):
They could, they could be on a break or whatever. Yeah,
I don't know, but but I believe love, bruh. Certain
people relationships. I believe, bro, that's yours. That's just how
I look at things.

Speaker 1 (01:50:47):
When it comes from a younger perspective.

Speaker 5 (01:50:51):
It's just like somebody else, somebody, nobody else can be.

Speaker 1 (01:50:53):
With that wane to stop this ship right now, Yo,
you break up with your wife. You not wife and
no seas.

Speaker 4 (01:50:58):
I'm not wife and none of yo, because at my
time you feel like going to jail to get back,
go back, go back.

Speaker 1 (01:51:03):
I ain't going back. You ain't even cloke, ain't you
ain't want no bitch with no no scream on a wig.
I don't want nothing, Bro. I'm chilling. I mean I'm chilling. Men,
enjoy my life.

Speaker 4 (01:51:13):
All my partners. Who got damn who who's single and
ship them? Niggas got their full head of hand and ship.

Speaker 1 (01:51:19):
You know what I'm saying. The niggas ain't stressing. Relationships
are stressful, bro.

Speaker 4 (01:51:23):
So that's the reason why wouldn't get in another relationship
because it's a stressful situation.

Speaker 1 (01:51:27):
Keep people in relationship the woman a man because I
feel like as a man, we give up a lot
of different times. And like when you build from with
a woman that's from a real down bitch perspective. She
kind of holds you accountable, like or make you feel
like the survivor's remorse. Like, Man, I ain't never finna
do that because I'm up now.

Speaker 4 (01:51:48):
Niggas still will to do what you seel like, do
it totally break it off. Oh yeah, Nah, niggas ain't
nigga niggas.

Speaker 5 (01:51:54):
Niggas. Niggas ain't gonna never do that.

Speaker 1 (01:51:56):
Just break it off.

Speaker 4 (01:51:56):
A woman have to break up, Like I said, leave me,
she has to leave me or some like that. But
at the end of the day, bro, what I'm saying
is what.

Speaker 1 (01:52:04):
Would make you leave a woman? What would you tell
a man that like disrespect? So about it? What is disrespecting?
Twenty twenty five Because motherfucker a woman to call you
a bitch ass nigga in two seconds, it.

Speaker 5 (01:52:19):
Depends that if you mean it. You know what I'm saying.
You call it bitch that nigga, you mad, but y'all
know you mean it and you treat me like.

Speaker 1 (01:52:25):
I'm a bitch of a nigga.

Speaker 5 (01:52:26):
That's disrespect. But you come out your mouth bitch, Nah,
I ain't going for that.

Speaker 1 (01:52:30):
But sometimes like a nigga, ain't going for that when
you don't even need it.

Speaker 5 (01:52:36):
I ain't going for a period either.

Speaker 4 (01:52:37):
I'm just saying, but I feel like, at the end
of the day, bro, I'm just trying to find find
you some up you. You know what I'm saying, because
because because you're a young man with no kids, and
you seem like you want a family like I already
got a family, my kid grown, I got a grand kid.

Speaker 1 (01:52:50):
So I ain't trying to find that now. All right,
So let's finish the rest of this interview. How do
I find me a woman that that that you think
it's worthy was going on, or that I should consider
as someone to treat the way that she's supposed to
be treated.

Speaker 5 (01:53:06):
You gotta to me, like you said earlier, you already
crack the code.

Speaker 1 (01:53:09):
Bro. You gotta find something and nourish it.

Speaker 5 (01:53:12):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:53:13):
You gotta find something and create it for your your
own And that's why you insinuated that you might have
to get a younger, bitch. I ain't saying younger you got.

Speaker 4 (01:53:23):
You got women that just never bro. You got women
that's never met they person. It's just been fucking with niggas.
They ain't never met the person. The ain't never met nobody.
Make them feel as if though they don't need nobody else.
You got a bunch of women out there like that.

Speaker 1 (01:53:37):
But if you add in an infidelity aspect, she I
ain't never gonna feel like she your person? How because
women always want to be number one?

Speaker 5 (01:53:45):
Nah, Bro, you can't be number one bitch, and you
ain't my favorite one.

Speaker 1 (01:53:50):
I ain't gonna be.

Speaker 5 (01:53:50):
No, you gotta be the favorite.

Speaker 1 (01:53:51):
First, all right? That's that's heavy. How you gonna be
number one? First? Off the rip? He come on now,
and niggas gotta stop lying. Well, I got I got
like ten fa favorite pair of shoes.

Speaker 4 (01:54:08):
Tell them, Tell them just because hey, hey baby, just
because I got two three of y'all, don't mean my
heart ain't big enough for you. My heart in my
pocket is big enough for you.

Speaker 1 (01:54:27):
But that's Muslim shit. That ain't that man ship? We
can say. I ain't never seen that shit be respected
by no women unless you have a different.

Speaker 4 (01:54:35):
R because they don't respect the nigga you keep talking about. Brother,
I ain't got nothing to do, no region.

Speaker 5 (01:54:40):
It's the nigga.

Speaker 1 (01:54:41):
Win a bitch, no here a crack. They gonna act
mad m hm. You tell Spraen, Hey, then what I'm on?
Bitch gone.

Speaker 5 (01:54:50):
She's gonna get with her, get gone. What do you
lose either way?

Speaker 1 (01:54:54):
See? But this is the biggest problem you negotiating.

Speaker 5 (01:54:58):
That's the problem.

Speaker 1 (01:54:59):
Ever. It's a hand full of niggas like me and
you that's gonna be its blunt like boy, every woman
that ever meet me be like, man, you blunt like
damn like you just ain't.

Speaker 5 (01:55:09):
I wouldn't like this at first. I growed into this nigga.

Speaker 1 (01:55:12):
Yeah, but think about the seven hundred and sixty five
niggas that didn't pursue her that way. So she not
even accustomed to that. So she might take to you
and be like this something new to me, and it's
a different response, but she's still gonna lie back on
what she really been used to. Because what you do
is you take you turn the hard hand into a

(01:55:35):
soft hand, and she never forget how the soft hand felt.
If that hard hand stay.

Speaker 5 (01:55:40):
Hard, Hey, bitch, I ain't gave you nothing to compare
it to besides me.

Speaker 1 (01:55:46):
Not pimping.

Speaker 5 (01:55:47):
When you try to turn into try to just say
Vincent if you know you're on, I'm not.

Speaker 4 (01:55:53):
I'm just speaking, bro, just hypothetically, like I don't want
people to take this shittaway.

Speaker 1 (01:55:58):
I got talking.

Speaker 4 (01:55:59):
Yeah, the end of the day, it's just like this, Bro.
If you're in a relationship with a woman, right and
she know that you went against you negotiated one of
your non negotiable, you can never be firm again.

Speaker 5 (01:56:13):
That's the bottom line of it.

Speaker 1 (01:56:16):
Oh that fucked me up because I don't want to
date no woman, no kids, so one of my non negotiables.
All right. So but you the way you said I
could be missing out my person. I ain't saying the
kids on my person because she got a kid.

Speaker 5 (01:56:30):
It's plenty of persons out here. She gotta have no kid.

Speaker 4 (01:56:36):
But what I'm saying is I'm saying, like entering into
a relationship, I don't know kid or no kids. When
you go against a non negotiable, when you negotiate a
non negotiable, women know when you did that, and they
know that, and they lose a sense.

Speaker 5 (01:56:48):
Of respect for you.

Speaker 1 (01:56:49):
Right then, So if a girl do some internet shit,
but you or what are your partners or whatever and
do some shit, it's over for right did so, I
wouldn't even day a woman on the internet. Nah, But
it just got the capabilities because you know a lot
of niggas pipe a bitch up on the internet just
all being with him the same way you say you

(01:57:09):
can pipe up and make her feel cute. Bitch might
get some status off being around a nigga and then
she goes correct, you know, correct and say whatever based
off your status. You wouldn't like respectfully, you wouldn't know
who drink is. Kevin Gates ain't put it in that platform.
M I don't know.

Speaker 5 (01:57:27):
I don't know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:57:29):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know. Ye say that, you know
what I'm saying. But like, like, namely, how many times
that women boss me up and put women men in
that platform over women over men? Doing that for women hardly,
but it happens. So what's the what's the give me
before we leave?

Speaker 5 (01:57:48):
Give me.

Speaker 1 (01:57:51):
The unlike the no turning back, Like you know, it's over.

Speaker 5 (01:57:55):
Respect.

Speaker 1 (01:57:57):
Disrespect is over once.

Speaker 5 (01:57:59):
I not even disrespect once. I feel like you've lost respect.
It ain't even gotta be disrepected because you can't rerespect nobody.

Speaker 1 (01:58:08):
What a respect get lost when as a man we
always in an upward position to a woman. Whatever respect
get lost in that because it don't be no line.
I'm thinking, I'm talking about me personally now.

Speaker 5 (01:58:19):
Because it ain't gotta be a lie.

Speaker 1 (01:58:22):
You could do some You could do some unconsciously whole shit.

Speaker 4 (01:58:27):
And a woman to lose respect for you right then,
because we men too, we still got female tendencies because
we come from one.

Speaker 5 (01:58:34):
And you do some unconstorably whole shit that she know
because she done.

Speaker 4 (01:58:37):
Been around gainst us her dad against woo woo woo,
and she see like, Bro, you be bitching and she slowly,
slowly lose respect for you, but you you don't even
know why because she don't know how to explain it
to you, like this whole ship, because you know you're
gonna be mad.

Speaker 1 (01:58:50):
But don't you think before they even get to that
perspective that it's usually about infidelity before even now, I.

Speaker 4 (01:58:57):
Don't care about no man, a woman, no nigga, fucking bro.
I ain't know that part.

Speaker 1 (01:59:01):
Bro. I ain't know that bro.

Speaker 5 (01:59:04):
It's it's it's it's.

Speaker 1 (01:59:07):
I don't know how to explain it, bro, I don't
know how to explain it.

Speaker 5 (01:59:10):
Bro. Women know, bro, when what you'll go for and
what you want go for. I don't feel safe.

Speaker 4 (01:59:15):
Some women don't even feel safe with certain nigga cause
they know your your capability of something you might do.

Speaker 1 (01:59:21):
How she get with them though, If she don't feel safe,
she got with them through money.

Speaker 4 (01:59:26):
Probably, And it's just vulnerable, you know women are. They
try and ship then when they try shit, they motion
get involved.

Speaker 1 (01:59:33):
They try to stick it out as much as they can,
but they they'll stick it with you and ain't even
got no respect for you. So it's your choice to
be like man, now, hold, don't really respect me? A
fucking me? Fuck R I don't agree, I know I do.
I'm just keeping it real.

Speaker 4 (01:59:49):
Like you can get with a woman, bro, and she
can try because at the end of the day, like
you said, it's conditional. The butterflies down at the beginning,
you are a hell of a nigga. You meet her,
you're a hell of a nigga.

Speaker 1 (01:59:58):
Now that we got together, we got.

Speaker 5 (01:59:59):
The actually learn you the exterior and all that.

Speaker 1 (02:00:03):
I fuck with. I fuck with the idea of you
and I get to actually know you, I start to
peak little whole shit and little shit that I don't
really like. But I can't speak on it because I'm
already in. I be embarrassed to walk away. I just
got there.

Speaker 4 (02:00:15):
Had to take two three niggas. I'm instagram in the
last five years. I gotta take this nigga down. So
they try to stick it.

Speaker 5 (02:00:21):
Out, but bitch, I can feel you withdrawing. I can
feel you don't really fuck me, So.

Speaker 4 (02:00:26):
They're gonna push me away from you, even though a
nigga already fucking bitch. They gonna push me to like
a bitch cause I don't even like you because I
know you don't like me.

Speaker 1 (02:00:35):
But don't you get what you what you mean on
both levels.

Speaker 4 (02:00:39):
But you don't really know what you signed up for
it first, men don't, but you just as a woman.
You know, a woman do what I'm saying. Men don't,
But she she knows. Listen, a woman knows you're gonna
infidelically come with it. I'm talking about that.

Speaker 1 (02:00:55):
Whole ship. These women don't respect ohod niggas many man
no matter what, no matter what type of form of fashion.

Speaker 4 (02:01:03):
Is national women, feminine women. No woman respects a nigga
who got whole tennis.

Speaker 1 (02:01:07):
Is I've never really been on that. The whole shit
I ever did with like block a bitch, but that
was for my own piece because she gonna tell your
line up regardless of oh yeah, hell y, I wanna
through the bitch out block a bitch to little bitch,
fuck you only the fuck?

Speaker 4 (02:01:19):
How do you feel about me when it's over on
to my being inside of a relationship, inside of the relationship.
Try to actually be with somebody and they losing respect
for you. It could be anything. It could be controlling.
No women call everything sas if you got an opinion
about something, misch, don't put that on or doing all right.

Speaker 1 (02:01:35):
So look, if you and your bitch go do a
business deal and you say, yo, it's ten million. This
ain't got nothing to do with it. I'm getting five,
you getting five. I'm setting this deal up, and then
you go set the deal up, and then she in
her forefront to make the deal go all the way
through and she say I'm getting you two, I'm taking eight.

(02:01:57):
It's over right. Hold on, you said what you said, basically, bitch,
chump you off and give you two men. But it's
your who deal, is it? It's odeal you you got
perspectives with bank, Say you got somebody that you building
this ship or whatever whatever, and then motherfucker won't buy
a podcast ten million. Y'all did this shit together. You
go and say, Yo, look you getting five. I'm getting five,

(02:02:20):
motherfucker like nah, But how do how do a motherfucker
get that much control of your ship to take take
something of you?

Speaker 5 (02:02:25):
I don't understand.

Speaker 1 (02:02:26):
They might be at the forefront position. Who putting a
motherfucker in the forefront position of their ship? No, it's
they ship.

Speaker 5 (02:02:32):
If it's they ship, I can't.

Speaker 1 (02:02:34):
I can't.

Speaker 5 (02:02:34):
Hey, Ben's can't be choices. It's her ship.

Speaker 4 (02:02:36):
Bitch, give me whatever you're gonna get me. But if
my ship, bitch, my shit. Don't be talking about my ship.

Speaker 1 (02:02:50):
But to think.

Speaker 4 (02:02:52):
But I probablyn't fuck with you the same way. But
bitch on stiff and I ain't gonna get in the
way of the money. Let the play go through the
whole Give me the money, get money, you know what
I'm saying. But you ain't fit got that. You ain't
gonna be the same ship. Ain't men the fuck up
the two.

Speaker 1 (02:03:08):
So what for for for a man? For a man
coming up at twenty twenty five? Like myself? You giving
me game or whatever? What? What? What? What would you say?
Because you ain't got no life for you ain't got
nobody that you can because it's the worst part about
being successful, nothing genuine.

Speaker 4 (02:03:30):
So like, if you find somebody that find you a
business partner that you can create a family with, find
somebody that okay this ship, nigga, we can get some
money together.

Speaker 5 (02:03:40):
I'll learn to love you, like like Grandma and them.

Speaker 1 (02:03:42):
Used to do.

Speaker 4 (02:03:43):
I don't really like him, but I learned and love
is an We're getting money together. We got our kid
who created up a family. A lot of these relationships
are business relationships that we see. You know what I'm saying,
It makes sense, like we can't split up. We got
too much shit together. So that's the that's that seemed
like the point you at right now. You know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (02:04:00):
Get you one of you got damn R and B
women is on summers or whatever.

Speaker 4 (02:04:04):
Papa blow up, get about five six arm in them,
create your family and how it goes and goes?

Speaker 1 (02:04:12):
Ship? So what do you what are you?

Speaker 5 (02:04:13):
What are you trying to do You're trying to get
you trying to build a bit for the runoff.

Speaker 1 (02:04:19):
I'd rather build a bitch and.

Speaker 5 (02:04:22):
Can't build you over. They're gonna run off.

Speaker 1 (02:04:26):
I think one of your most classic clips is that
you're gonna make a bitch up downtown. Tell get up,
I'm gonna change your life. You can't you remember that
you are?

Speaker 5 (02:04:44):
Hey, get up, Get up?

Speaker 1 (02:04:45):
Get up? Rather drinks and water, bitch, you little thirst
stress water post water on it traded sleep, Rather do that.
Their expectations is different.

Speaker 4 (02:04:59):
Ship turned different when you once you sure was she
her worth? Once you clean this up, keep in the house,
No bro, what you clean this bitch up?

Speaker 1 (02:05:08):
You gotta treat like Drake Drake's son. I wasn't trying
to keep my kid from the world, but my world
from the kid. You gotta take the world away from
the motherfucking kid. Bro.

Speaker 4 (02:05:17):
Oh, you better move it to a gust of your rock.
Gonna said you better move it to a gust of
your lover. But you got a bitch in Atlanta.

Speaker 5 (02:05:23):
She's gonna find a way.

Speaker 1 (02:05:25):
It's ready to fuck.

Speaker 5 (02:05:26):
The uber drive the instacart man pull up clone on
its up.

Speaker 1 (02:05:33):
You order. What's your cold? What's the difference between Miami
and Atlanta because it's the same same s he Yeah,
would you taking damage? Woman that they've been through the ship, Well,
I'm not taking I already got I ain't taking none
of the bitches. It's over advice to tell young niggas
to be like yo, like she been through it, because
i'd have seen you do that.

Speaker 5 (02:05:53):
Not if you damaged. If you damage, you can't get
something else that damage.

Speaker 1 (02:05:57):
How I thought we were trauma bond.

Speaker 4 (02:06:00):
Yeah, you can't trumble. But how long that don't last? Though,
because somebody gonna eventually grow. Then when the bitch grow,
you're gonna think she went Hollywood because she do un healed?

Speaker 1 (02:06:08):
Now, don't. I can't be around your trauma ass no more, Bro,
you still trauma bund it. I unhealed.

Speaker 4 (02:06:13):
Now if y'all get together and try to heal together,
that's different. One person can't heal, another person can't still
be damaged. So if you once you like, how you
going to therapy, you do the work. Hey, y'all, you
can get your You know what I'm saying, bit your helper,
you know what I'm saying. Breathe life until you can

(02:06:33):
do that once you hear you can't come from this
space you in now still broken a little bit inside.

Speaker 1 (02:06:39):
You know what I'm saying, You gotta heal first. What
you think, man, I think that it's given that this
shit no for real bitches, forever, go ahead, go out,
go be a player.

Speaker 5 (02:07:00):
But I still think that. Don't nobody want to die
along or lineage.

Speaker 1 (02:07:03):
I ain't gonna you ain't gonna die along.

Speaker 5 (02:07:05):
You rich enough boy, money don't mean ship.

Speaker 1 (02:07:09):
You got four bitches caressing your balls. You in a
bed like you hefner, you go out like in the glory,
get sick.

Speaker 4 (02:07:15):
Then what I'm just saying, niggas get sick. Anything can happen.
Anything can happen.

Speaker 1 (02:07:21):
But at the same talken, a motherfucker might resent taking
care of you, and they might have the idea be.

Speaker 4 (02:07:27):
Whooping you with belts and ship nah. That why you no, Nah,
But that's why you That's why you gotta create buns
bro outside of it, even bitch, you ain't even fucking
whoever friends like you? Know what I'm saying, real ship
bro like, you can't be co depending on nobody. I
don't give a because anybody could time mother can wear
a mask for a hundred years to their position where

(02:07:49):
you're vulnerable.

Speaker 1 (02:07:52):
You don't think that we've just been poisoning from the jump, nah,
Like I had on.

Speaker 4 (02:08:00):
Here and she was speaking like, you know, like my
grandma really fucked me up. Man, I don't trust these
bitches from the gate.

Speaker 5 (02:08:08):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (02:08:09):
So I'm already you're guilty till you prove yourself innocent.
You know what I'm saying, Like, I don't feel like
nobody that nigga on the wall right that day, that's
my problem a long this day.

Speaker 5 (02:08:20):
He passed away solid.

Speaker 4 (02:08:21):
That's the only person I can say solid, because everybody
got a chance to do some sucker shit, even me.

Speaker 1 (02:08:27):
You ain't solid till you die that way. And what
made him solid? What made Dave's so solid.

Speaker 4 (02:08:33):
Because he never ever he was always there for me,
never turned his back, never lied to me, never nothing,
No matter if he disagreed or we disagreed. If he
felt like fuck me, he let me show me. But
fuck you, I ain't gonna ben fuck you.

Speaker 5 (02:08:44):
Well he was.

Speaker 1 (02:08:45):
He was one per one hundred with me. You get
what I'm saying, Like, no matter how I took it,
I could be mad whatever, however he was one hundred percent.

Speaker 5 (02:08:55):
But you knowing, like if a motherfucker's always in agreement
with you.

Speaker 1 (02:08:58):
Ain't the most agreeable nigs.

Speaker 5 (02:09:00):
I ain't a nigga that you're gonna agree with all
the time.

Speaker 1 (02:09:02):
So you always agree with me?

Speaker 5 (02:09:03):
You fake all right, I'm peach you. You know what
I'm saying. You don't never disagree with me. But I'll
be saying some bullshit and I'll be thinking about, damn,
that was some bullshit.

Speaker 1 (02:09:10):
You agree with it, but you'll let me crash. That's
with anybody.

Speaker 4 (02:09:16):
So you know that I can say some bullshit today
that I know some bulls. You'd be like, hell nah, big,
go on by yourself. I ain't going that shit. Well
he gonna tell me right then and there not let
me go bump my head and be like, well I
knew that shit gonna help.

Speaker 1 (02:09:29):
No, he gonna say it right then. I ain't going.

Speaker 5 (02:09:31):
I ain't with that. I can respect that, you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (02:09:38):
What you got like you said, when people, when people
need you, they gonna agree with everything, some of them.

Speaker 1 (02:09:48):
But in the leadership position that we've been in for
the last twenty years, our life. Who the fuck don't leaders.

Speaker 4 (02:09:55):
But guess what I could be in the leadership position
and your motherfucking need me, but the motherfucker with pride
and a real motherfucker being like, Nigga, I need you,
but Nigga, fuck you, and fuck what I need from
you when it come to my boundaries of me being faith.
You know what I'm saying, that's some real ship. Nigga,
walk away from all that ship and they don't give
a fuck by none of that.

Speaker 1 (02:10:14):
Fuck you. Yeah, I did some ship before I even
entertained the rest of it. You know what I'm saying,
I ain't worth it. But that's rare.

Speaker 5 (02:10:23):
Though it's rare, But guess what.

Speaker 4 (02:10:24):
That's why I can only point out one, you know
what I'm saying till I see another one like that.

Speaker 5 (02:10:33):
No, I'm not losing a reality. I'm relusional.

Speaker 1 (02:10:39):
Fuck you mean, nigga, I'm living in reality, all right.
So that's on a friendship on a man perspective, this
digga interview with me, let's go when you think about it,

(02:11:02):
with social media and all this other shit and just
the standards away, go whether how can how can you
lead in the right direction? Though you know what I'm saying,
what do you mean if you standing on more than
principles that's traditional values, how could you consolidate with a
modern woman?

Speaker 5 (02:11:19):
You gotta be you gotta learn how to adapt with anything.

Speaker 3 (02:11:21):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (02:11:22):
You know what I'm saying, A bitch can be a
Martin day woman. What's motters? Before we even get that
what's matter shit twenty twenty five woman, that's you know,
a Martin woman to me.

Speaker 4 (02:11:35):
Is let me see, I ain't never thought about that,
And I always be saying that a Martin woman is
a woman that following the trends.

Speaker 1 (02:11:43):
And I feel bad because you know, I'm writing and
producing all these female rappers and shit or whatever that's
going on. So I'm the one that's preaching that type
of energy. So it's kind of hard like I'm making
I'm profiting from that.

Speaker 4 (02:11:55):
Let me tell you something, bro, You're gonna tell you
the difference. Bro, Like you said earlier, it all depends
on the musical woman listening to. Like I was just,
I was just on the golf course yesterday with my
headphones and listening to Uh I got an R and
B playlist, You know what I'm saying, Like old school
R and B eighties and nineties R and B playlists.

Speaker 5 (02:12:15):
That music created different energy.

Speaker 1 (02:12:18):
All that depends on what a woman watched on her page.
And she all she do is watch fights.

Speaker 4 (02:12:23):
And in these bitch and you know what I'm saying,
the back outside women and all that that whole ain't
to my name. When the bitch is all that she
look up as recipes and motivation know and she listened
to R and B.

Speaker 1 (02:12:38):
Shit Nigga on forty seven knit shar.

Speaker 6 (02:12:40):
Yeah, I don't understand that, but I'm saying that nigga gets.

Speaker 1 (02:12:44):
You at coogle.

Speaker 5 (02:12:46):
Fuck you mean, if that's where your.

Speaker 1 (02:12:48):
Value is at. But they damaged good, how they damaged
they they could be healed, though they could kids could
be grown. So I gotta take that off the table,
accept that the kids could be grown after how grown
season pusses Lawrence know exactly.

Speaker 5 (02:13:05):
What to do. Chicken choker, the nigga said chicken.

Speaker 1 (02:13:16):
No, but ship though all bushes decided though hit.

Speaker 5 (02:13:20):
I feel like.

Speaker 4 (02:13:24):
The problem because I had to talk with just a
lot of my partners though, because they know I've been
in a relationship a long as time, like I don't
even call they name a lot of them niggas.

Speaker 1 (02:13:34):
The ship that you attracted to ain't gonna never be
what you want because that's what it is.

Speaker 5 (02:13:40):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (02:13:40):
You ain't gonna be able to do that with that.
You ain't gonna to do that with what you're attracted to.
Bro the same way with women. I'm gonna get that
to women. To the ship that you're attracted to, ain't
what's for you.

Speaker 1 (02:13:52):
So ain't no bitch for me because she attracted. But
this is what I'm saying, this is what they're for
helping to niggas. Nigga's putting that that type of energy
out there, like if I'm an a day like Instagram
and cars, diamonds and this and that and the third
that's what you get exactly. That's all I'm saying. But

(02:14:13):
if you don't do that, you don't get that.

Speaker 4 (02:14:14):
Yeah, you do, you get what you want well, ship
because at the end of the day, but you're gonna
get what you want well because you listening, ship, you chasing,
that's what listen this ship Like.

Speaker 1 (02:14:24):
You lying with a woman that that that that's lesson
in that don't even look like that. And I ain't
projecting that, but I still got all my ship on.
She probably be like, what you want me phone? I
just got off the phone with a woman. Today's yo, Like,
you got the opportunity to have all these different bitches
and this, that and the third or whatever. What makes

(02:14:45):
you want me? No? Because it's your setup. That's scaled
of bitch, that's scaled that that's set up scare the mark.

Speaker 4 (02:14:52):
The traditional woman. It's like, there's problems. You look like
a problem to a traditional woman. I'm telling you, she
knowing when you walk out the door, how many women's
gonna be at you.

Speaker 1 (02:15:05):
But look check it out. I said that, and I
presented the same thing. I said, Okay, so you a nurse.
If you get a nigga that made a nurse, respectfully,
what make one hundred thousand a year or something like that.
Let's say that a nigga make one hundred thousand, which
you you do, taxes, you do all the other shit.
You got a kid as the woman, where y'all going
what a relationship building from? Nigga only got about fifty

(02:15:26):
thousand dollars to take care of himself and you at
the end of the shit, but it can't even have
a real effective relationship.

Speaker 4 (02:15:33):
You can't say that because we can get together and
put our mind on it. Everybody start from somewhere. Niggas
who had niggas who niggas had zero for their head
on hunder me.

Speaker 1 (02:15:41):
Nigga ain't going for that in twenty twenty five when
a bitch can see it, motherfucker carboon or this, that
and the third.

Speaker 5 (02:15:47):
They still the dealer type.

Speaker 4 (02:15:48):
But you're thinking about the do you think about the holes,
bro No, I'm thinking about all women.

Speaker 1 (02:15:53):
Ain't hole. I'm gonna put that out. Thinking about a
broke bitsches, It ain't a hole. They got shaved room.
I'm thinking about a woman that v H you want
to love hip hop. I know some women that don't
even look at Instagram period, young bitches. I know some
no real ship. I know some bitches you look at Instagram,
you know.

Speaker 5 (02:16:12):
I know.

Speaker 1 (02:16:13):
I know some bitches who don't have it. You got kids.

Speaker 4 (02:16:22):
But I'm saying I know some women that don't have Instagram,
don't even know what TikTok is, don't know what the
crap of coved, don't know what not that ship?

Speaker 1 (02:16:29):
That for real. Yeah, but she's a woman that don't
got Instagram and she still got kids. Though, so she's
been through it without even going through She not with
the nigga that got the kids. How you know she
ain't just say that you know him, because what she

(02:16:52):
said if with you, she ain't a perspective with back.
She ain't saying why wasn't let's talk for two hours?
Walk that you got to be at home shirk scamping,
Yeah you mean yeah, so it ain't no win like
we all this with the real reality. We all fighting
against each other, me and fighting against women and women
fighting against men. And we be lucky if we find

(02:17:14):
somebody that think this thing. But it was a lady.

Speaker 4 (02:17:17):
It was a lady that was just here right interview.
She ain't got no kids. She's a nice lady.

Speaker 1 (02:17:24):
She's a feminine femininity doctor.

Speaker 5 (02:17:26):
Her name is Kelly. She's a really nice lady.

Speaker 4 (02:17:30):
She's she's done her work, she's healed, she has no kids,
and she's looking for a husband.

Speaker 5 (02:17:38):
There's nothing wrong with this lady. She's a beautiful, young lady.
I got to know a lot of them be coming through, bro,
but niggas don't even look a look at them.

Speaker 1 (02:17:46):
What's the instagram?

Speaker 4 (02:17:48):
Let me tell you right now, what the instagram in
it's uh, and I'm gonna give a shout out. It's
the femininity doctor. The femininity doctor. That's her name. Wait,
what that's her name?

Speaker 1 (02:18:04):
Oh there she goes. She popped right up. She thinks
too much.

Speaker 5 (02:18:15):
Oh my god, she think too much. No, look, it's
nothing wrong with that woman.

Speaker 1 (02:18:25):
She got too much an opinion. I can look at
Instagram and not even watch something. That ship. She's trying
to tell niggas about what they're supposed to be.

Speaker 5 (02:18:32):
Ain't talking to nigga.

Speaker 1 (02:18:33):
I ain't saying it about niggas opinion too much. Like no, yes,
she do. You gotta listen to her interviews. Interview gonna
come out before yours. You gotta listen to it. She
is speaking on women need to listen to me. Okay, oh,
let me pull it back up.

Speaker 5 (02:18:53):
That's what I'm saying. Is but but you wouldn't even look.
You wouldn't even look for her.

Speaker 1 (02:18:58):
She ain't got no kids. She don't know. I'm looking
at baby, I'm looking.

Speaker 4 (02:19:09):
Niggas ain't looking for them. This is a nice churchwoman
into God spirit came in. She was glowing when she
walked in here.

Speaker 1 (02:19:21):
Yeah, she gotta get fucked off on what you mean dyo, man.
Bit she she got that witness and dick dick, dick
given every woman know that though she fine, she got it,
she cute. I'm looking at it on the surface value.
But at the same token.

Speaker 4 (02:19:39):
You're saying, you're saying that the person see Basically, you're
saying the person I am would ruin her.

Speaker 1 (02:19:44):
It would make her rotten towards me, that's what.

Speaker 4 (02:19:47):
So so it ain't them, it's you.

Speaker 1 (02:19:53):
See. But look, I'm so transparent. You pick your poison
when you deal with me. She ain't. I ain't lying
to you. So I'm put it's in it all the way.
I'm laying a card on the table, and you know
what the fucked up shit is. I'm gonna say this, man,
anytime I've been a swell bear and just went like
flower card and candy and this that and the third
four a bitch and changed my direction and just been

(02:20:14):
on that type of time. Never worked out. Edy time,
I'm done.

Speaker 5 (02:20:17):
Because you try to do that for a bitch. We
outside to not no no, no for.

Speaker 1 (02:20:22):
The right bitch, though you do it for the righte bitch.
Like Yo, I'm gonna give you something that I'm gonna
change myself, but that you said it too. I think
you fucked me up. I changed for the bitch.

Speaker 5 (02:20:32):
You can't do that. You're dead for it.

Speaker 4 (02:20:34):
You do that because you gonna know you did it. Now,
Look how you expect for a bitch respect somebody that
you she know that's not you. Like a nigga, A
bitch would get with you, right. A woman will ask.

Speaker 1 (02:20:49):
You to change.

Speaker 4 (02:20:50):
As soon as you change, she's gonna feel like you're
a sucker. It's just the tuger walk, like I'm saying powerstroke. No,
it's just like, why can't you be more like this money?
Then when you start doing it's like, girl, it's something
about him. I don't know now because she doesn't. She doesn't,
she doesn't, she doesn't, she don't rearrange you. So you're

(02:21:14):
I can't even really trust you because you don't trust yourself.
You don't trust the nigga that you is because you
done change for me.

Speaker 1 (02:21:21):
So basically, get an ugly bitch. B I ain't said
that now with no confidence, and you can just control
and stomp.

Speaker 5 (02:21:28):
On nah here or not.

Speaker 1 (02:21:30):
That's when when I said that, How I said that?
You said no idea, bro, I said you gotta go
out of your norm, like that's out of your norm.

Speaker 4 (02:21:40):
You wouldn't even looked at that woman. What I'm saying,
why you ain't following me? Why you don't know about him?
I'm just saying, but you wouldn't even you wouldn't even
like if you saw her out how she's dressed. She's
dressed nice, like business lady, casual, but you wouldn't even
look at that. You're looking for a bbbig I.

Speaker 1 (02:21:59):
Told you, I'm it is over ass anyway, I'm different.
I ain't following no tree. That's why you know about
the stream. You're looking on the stream though, head old
man scream, I'm looking for a bit with some big
tennis and a and and no weed. And that's that.
That's respectful, and that that know what's going on. They

(02:22:22):
can respect me.

Speaker 4 (02:22:23):
But at the end of the day, you're still saying
you're gonna get this nice woman and turn her heart
cold because of the nigga that you know you are.

Speaker 1 (02:22:32):
Nah, actually I'm gonna be there for it. But ship
they come with some caveats. You can't get the U,
you can't get to the chip without going through the
playoffs and catching some bumps. And bruises and that motherfucker,
it's gonna be some injuries. It's gonna be free throws
and fist.

Speaker 5 (02:22:46):
So you're gonna tell her that up front, and then
she signed up for it.

Speaker 1 (02:22:49):
That that's what it is.

Speaker 4 (02:22:50):
She can't be mad at nobody but herself. Now, if
you be honest with a woman, Hey, this is what
it is.

Speaker 5 (02:22:56):
I fucked with you.

Speaker 1 (02:22:57):
I'm gonna put you right here on this pedestal. This
is what it is. Is you my one, yourself. I'm
a young bird, sexy lady is sexy. I love and
hip hop, this, that and third blah blah. I followed
seting five hundred bitches, No niggas. You know what type
of time. You know what type of game I'm kicking.
It ain't got nothing to do with none of that.

(02:23:18):
Like you know who you sign up for. You women
know the type of niggas that they But you have
to tell them no nigga, I'll overly tell it. Okay.
So I'm talking to you. I got a camera in
front of me. You think I ain't saying this without
a camera. Okay.

Speaker 4 (02:23:30):
So when you tell her and she deal with that,
then that's that. Whatever come after that, is on her.
You can't she can't be mad no matter what. To know,
what it is is you'll tell a woman that entreat
her like you're going to change.

Speaker 1 (02:23:42):
That's what a nigga do. That what niggas always do.
A nigga tell a.

Speaker 4 (02:23:46):
Woman that like, shit, baby, I ain't really do I'm
gonna some player ship and then be like, because a
nigga don't want the bitch to fuck, so he'll go
to kind of.

Speaker 1 (02:23:54):
Line that won't happen.

Speaker 5 (02:23:57):
Niggas go the line to the.

Speaker 4 (02:24:00):
Niggas go the line because you know what I'm saying,
not saying the lie living a lie.

Speaker 5 (02:24:10):
Oh so so so what you're saying is sneaky, like sneaking.

Speaker 4 (02:24:16):
Okay, if you got holes, you got holes all day
while your phone on side while you this.

Speaker 5 (02:24:21):
If you got holes, I got hold baby?

Speaker 1 (02:24:24):
What respect? Respect was? I told you that's captive. Even
when a woman accept that you want some players ship,
she don't want to see that. No.

Speaker 5 (02:24:33):
I get what you're saying, but I'm saying you're right.
I agree with that totally.

Speaker 1 (02:24:36):
That's a man.

Speaker 4 (02:24:37):
What I'm saying is when a nigga, if a nigga
own that, go hard don't lie when you get caught.
Nigga still lie. But you already told the bitch you
got bitches, but then you a lie about having bitches.

Speaker 1 (02:24:48):
But that's for niggas that ain't had a plethoraal pussing
like Nigga's been getting pussy forever. That's for a nigga
that's trying to hold on in something that don't even
make sense.

Speaker 5 (02:24:57):
What I'm saying is what he's saying.

Speaker 4 (02:25:00):
What I'm saying is listen, you get this woman right
and you tell her, hey, you know, I like you,
I want you to be my one, but I deal
with women.

Speaker 1 (02:25:10):
I deal with other women, right you If if she go.

Speaker 4 (02:25:16):
Through your phone, even though you don't tell her you
went through women, you're gonna say, oh, that ain't nothing
instead of yeah, I told you.

Speaker 1 (02:25:24):
Oh see, I can't relate. I'm on that type of
time that you talking about.

Speaker 5 (02:25:27):
So what the issue is?

Speaker 1 (02:25:28):
Then they still don't respect it. They don't want that.
People want to be people.

Speaker 5 (02:25:35):
Now, you're right, women, you can tell the woman that
do do.

Speaker 1 (02:25:38):
The truth, and they still they You're right. I'm just
like they've on that wall. Don't run through that.

Speaker 5 (02:25:46):
Right through that wall, right, you're right.

Speaker 1 (02:25:50):
See, but this is what we are saying.

Speaker 6 (02:25:54):
You woman, you can't.

Speaker 4 (02:25:59):
Now, I can't treat you like no ho if you're
not a whole at the end of the day, girl,
Hey baby, I can't help that I'm a player.

Speaker 1 (02:26:05):
I can't help that I'm a nice guy. And you
getting that I'm I'm saying I'm a nice guy, like
a nice as a player. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (02:26:14):
Like, See, women, once you make them feel it feel
like special, they want to be the only one to
feel special.

Speaker 1 (02:26:21):
Bro. Bro, you're lying. Bro, now that's true. No, you lying,
and she this's what the reality is. As soon as
you stick dick in her and don't let it be
raw dick. You got a nigga, it don't matter. Don't
matter about how much player shit you kicking. I got
a hundred holes this man. And third you stick some
dick or don't let it be raw dick in the bitch, nigga,

(02:26:43):
You nigga. I'm saying I'm your nigga, But I'm saying
I got bitches too.

Speaker 5 (02:26:48):
Baby.

Speaker 1 (02:26:48):
She don't even understand that. Okay.

Speaker 4 (02:26:51):
But then sometimes because women valuate women and sometimes you have.

Speaker 5 (02:26:55):
To test their toughness. See, that's what nigg to do.

Speaker 1 (02:27:00):
Niggas try to you. You go too long without letting
the bitch feel it. But look this when I go
damn Basirian, this is when I bring you around twelve
bitches that like me at the same time and I'm
entertaining their body. Drink here out here. The ten bitches
that like me may the strongest survive y'all. Doke it out.
I don't give a fuck no.

Speaker 4 (02:27:23):
What I'm saying is, baby, I'll be back like you.
Gotta do this in the beginning and don't stop it
even if you lie like trying to you. You go
home for two months straight while you why you you
don't Everything you said.

Speaker 1 (02:27:37):
Is northing bought? What hull up?

Speaker 5 (02:27:41):
Fixed that right there quick?

Speaker 1 (02:27:42):
I's sure.

Speaker 5 (02:27:45):
May were about to wrap this shit up.

Speaker 4 (02:27:46):
Hey look, hey, no, listen, listen because I gotta go
to Whole Foods anyway.

Speaker 1 (02:27:51):
Listen, bro, I get what they're saying.

Speaker 4 (02:27:56):
They saying if you start to treat them like that, Okay,
I can treat you nice, but you gotta sit back.
Was like a nigga, that's just like a nigga with
a woman, right. The reason why he don't get his
heart broke with wholes because he accept that she's a hoe.
Nigga gonna get their heart broke by the fake good women,
by a woman who's pretending like a woman who like shit.

Speaker 1 (02:28:15):
You know what I was.

Speaker 4 (02:28:17):
You can kind of navigate that, and I feel like
women could too if you let her know what she's
dealing with, not say let her know. I'm not staying
at all now. I'm not Fela late. I'm not finished,
stay up every day.

Speaker 1 (02:28:31):
I agree, all right? They emotional I.

Speaker 5 (02:28:34):
Don't give how emotionally you delusion at this point.

Speaker 1 (02:28:38):
Okay, Nigga can tell yo, bro, why do women deal
with married niggas. Women that go fuck a whole married
nigga and be like, he don't love his wife?

Speaker 6 (02:28:49):
He loved me.

Speaker 1 (02:28:52):
And ain't that happening?

Speaker 4 (02:28:55):
But you supposed you, as a man, supposed to show
this woman I love my wife.

Speaker 1 (02:29:02):
A nigga would play into that like he don't love
his wife. No, that's lying. I'm going home with my
wife here. But it don't matter. I'm just we roommates,
you know how nigga line staying it roommate, But niggas
just lying at that point, we roommates, Nigga, nigga in
that slow head as soon as you go home, Nigga.

Speaker 4 (02:29:19):
I'm just saying, man, it's it's I feel like birds
ain't nothing, no more actions is everything?

Speaker 1 (02:29:25):
Bro?

Speaker 5 (02:29:25):
You know what I'm saying. Like, at the end of
the day, I'm gonna show you if if, if, if
that's who I am, Like you know what I'm saying.
I'm not speaking personally.

Speaker 4 (02:29:33):
I'm just saying, if that's who I am, If I'm
a guy that's telling a woman, Hey, I got bitches,
you gonna eventually see me with a bitch or you're
gonna eventually if you go on my farm.

Speaker 5 (02:29:42):
Telling you, I ain't tying it.

Speaker 1 (02:29:44):
It's in there and I ain't gonna lie. I want
to be treated like a king. I might he supposed
to be in like the United States of America. I'm
supposed to be in Dubai some ship like that. Like,
I ain't going they gonna say you're a nurse. I
wouldn't give what they say.

Speaker 5 (02:29:57):
Yeah, still they be saying I'm a nurs too.

Speaker 1 (02:30:00):
They used to.

Speaker 5 (02:30:01):
I'm healed now though, me too.

Speaker 1 (02:30:04):
The therapy and all that shit. Host They're gonna eat
Dick though.

Speaker 5 (02:30:07):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying. At the end of
the day, Man, it's too many for one nigga. Gotta move.

Speaker 1 (02:30:12):
You gotta move somewhere else to be in a happy relationship,
a new A young guy like you're young.

Speaker 4 (02:30:18):
You know what I'm saying. You can't live in these
black cities. You can't because you're gonna.

Speaker 5 (02:30:23):
Always see your type of she gonna always see hers.

Speaker 1 (02:30:26):
Well, look, it's different though. Think about how this woman
met me when she was downstairs before I opened my mouth,
and this whole shit. It would not love talking to
a kid, this, that, and the third. I'm really a
genuine person. But when you get to the bottom of
it and things to it don't level out. We got
different perspectives and that's why I'm happy to be on
this show. It ain't never gonna make sense until you

(02:30:48):
fall under the level that you manage your king and
you gotta do whatever the fuck he wants you to do.

Speaker 5 (02:30:55):
Yeah, but you got it.

Speaker 1 (02:30:56):
But nig can't say they're no king then do some
queen shit. Not you.

Speaker 4 (02:31:01):
I'm just saying any nigga, any nigga, I'm just telling
you all nigga like you gotta always remain with your
crown up upright. You know what I'm saying because and
that's that like queen ship is submitting to something that
you don't want to do, and we do that because
we care about the woman ship.

Speaker 1 (02:31:18):
That's what I'm Nigga will, Nigga will.

Speaker 5 (02:31:22):
I'm just saying, like just saying, she's saying, well, baby,
why you just can't stay.

Speaker 1 (02:31:26):
In the night a nigga will or wherever you want
to go? Like babe, I thought, we don't want nigga
submit to it. I don't know you different.

Speaker 4 (02:31:43):
I'm just saying, like anything, anything, whatever, whatever it is,
like this, you pistol a woman off, you mad? You
might do something to make up?

Speaker 5 (02:31:51):
Do you ever do?

Speaker 1 (02:31:52):
Do you ever do things to make up? What I
have have to do the make up? If I'm being
honest and true and living in my truth and you
know exactly who I am. If that's the case, that
that's the reason why you ain't got But let's be clear,

(02:32:16):
I got somebody's But at the same that's where you're wrong.

(02:32:38):
I got a lot of bodies. But at the end
of the day, like you got to care that that
much to really to really to do them adjustments. And
I think that if you care that much and you
do them adjustmice and you're not living in your true self,
then you're doing it for the wrong. So if I
really felt like I was wrong in something and I'm

(02:32:59):
doing something, and yeah, I'm making up to But if
I'm not wrong and I feel like that what I'm doing,
whether it become infidelity or this that the third And
I told you from the jump, and I was flat
out and I rolled the red carpet out to let
you know who I am and where I stand. Ain't
no making up on that, no no facts. You gotta
go eat that. You know what I'm saying, Well, you
better go cry. That's where the crying of Rose Race

(02:33:21):
or Hobby come in. I bet you don't want to cry.
But at the end of the day, at the end
of it, it is what it is, bro it is
what it is.

Speaker 5 (02:33:36):
I'm just speaking, I'm just speaking with you.

Speaker 4 (02:33:38):
I don't these are not my perspectives, nah, but all
bushes side though.

Speaker 5 (02:33:49):
If you can't compromise you're doing to be in a relationship.

Speaker 1 (02:33:52):
It's just what it is. This is what it is.

Speaker 4 (02:33:56):
And that's why I say I would never do it. Again,
because you have to compromise it be in a relationship,
but you got.

Speaker 1 (02:34:03):
The relationship equity that makes you uncompromise.

Speaker 5 (02:34:06):
Yeah, but it's but it's still like a tug of water.

Speaker 1 (02:34:09):
Thank You can't compare yourself to no other man. Bank,
your your wife knew you when you ain't hot. Ship.
That ship don't mean nothing, yes it do no no,
all right. So look, think about every woman that meet
you right now. I'm in an elevated level. If I
pull up on you and take you on the first
day in the ferrari and then I go back home
and fuck you in a five six million dollar house,
how the fuck do I even know you like me
for whatever it is you meet me at this person
this level.

Speaker 4 (02:34:32):
I mean, man, bro, some women still date our potential.
Bis can see who you is before you see who
you is. Don't get it fucked up.

Speaker 1 (02:34:39):
They go back to the don't see you nigga, fake Jerry.
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (02:34:45):
Even even a nigga who will hustler a nigga biscus
see potential way before you know what you got.

Speaker 1 (02:34:50):
Like, Nah, he gonna be something, young bitch, That's what
I'm saying. So it's the same thing, ain't me an
old bitch is looking at potential none for sure. You're
looking for potension your next mate. You're looking for what
already made I do. So I'm in that gray area.

(02:35:10):
It's like young enough to be your daddy, old enough
to fuck your mama. You know what I'm saying, Like
too Chain said, you know what I'm saying, Like it's
a weird area age range, Like if I was twenty two,
then you would be able to tell me like man,
like nigga, you got your money, now you got your ones? No, man,
go ahead and get you something. That shit don't work
at thirty eight. You much living and happen. Yeah, too

(02:35:32):
many life experiences that happen. She know too much. That's
why niggas don't really want older women because it's like, boy,
you done been through it.

Speaker 5 (02:35:40):
You know like you can smell you can smell it,
you can you know how walking?

Speaker 1 (02:35:46):
Yeah, he gotta tell you on fucking other bitches. You
know that, and you judging me off that and your
expectations is not even open up to really receive me
the way it's supposed to be received, because you know
what type of nigga.

Speaker 5 (02:35:56):
I am my pH bands out.

Speaker 1 (02:36:00):
Yo. Let me tell you something, Yo, this will buck
me up. I want to end on this level, right,
I want to end on this level. This hot. It's
how crazy shit be. Right. I met a girl, right
and when I first met a like boom, she come
through the crib. It's not recent, it's like a few
years ago. It's like ten years ago. She's like, Man,
you know, I'm vegan. These bitches don't be moving like me.

(02:36:21):
They don't know what they putting in their body. They
don't know what they're doing. These holes be PhD off
and this, that and the third they be violating and
this and the third. Boy, I put that bitch in
the bed, puts a stank like a trash can. And
you know what I said, Why that's something like that.

Speaker 5 (02:36:41):
She probably in't too many.

Speaker 1 (02:36:43):
Mush. She went to the she went to sprouts instead
of whole bitch, fool, vegan, bitch, bitch. It's spurious. So
it is what it is, Bro, you gotta come back through, Bro.

Speaker 5 (02:37:05):
Real ship is here.

Speaker 1 (02:37:06):
What it is, Man, don't edit and then put the
whole thing out just like this. No, I appreciate you
pulling up, bro. Appreciate you broh yeah yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:37:28):
Make sure y'all like to strive and come into the
Big Fat Network. Follow my nigga hit maker. Sir got
a lot of ship coming up.

Speaker 1 (02:37:34):
You better know, man, book, documentary, TV showing away and
not only that. Man, it's just more a hundred placements
this year. I did a hundred thirty last year. Let
him do it again for real.

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