The Ultimate Gentleman’s Guide to Recovery with Ken | Men’s Divorce Coach - Perspektives

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
It gets no better than this.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
You are now in June to perspect us with.

Speaker 1 (00:10):
Let's get straight to it.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
Hey, y'all, welcome back to the Perspectively Bank. Man, I'm
happy to be back.

Speaker 1 (00:15):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (00:16):
We're back record, were back in the building, so it's
only right I bring a special, special special guest, my partner, King,
ultimate gentleman in the building. How you feeling, King, and Man,
I'm feeling wonderful, blessed to be here.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
Thank you for the opportunity, and I'm excited. I'm a
little nervous. Move on, you get him a couple of shutters.

Speaker 2 (00:35):
Man, what you I really don't drink me neither, but
you know from time to time you know I will,
But I really don't drink.

Speaker 1 (00:41):
But I'm good though. I'm excited.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
Okay, Now I appreciate you pulling up. Man. You say
you come from Missouri, all right down to the city of.

Speaker 1 (00:47):
The Missouri and Missouri all my clients, all the people
that know me online. I think that I stay in
Saint Louis, but now I stay on the outskirts. But yes,
all away from Missouri, seven hours away. I'm excited to
talk to you.

Speaker 2 (01:00):
Hey, where you're mentally at that as like where you're
mentally at right now.

Speaker 1 (01:03):
Mentally, I'm doing good. I'm excited for the growth because
my page page is relatively taking off pretty quickly. So
really just managing my clients, managing my personal life, trying
to keep a balance on that and separate the fuck
that bitch man online and who I am in person.

(01:26):
So I'm doing pretty well. I'm gonna be I'm good.

Speaker 2 (01:28):
So the people that might not know you on the
perspective of platform, tell them who you is, what you do,
how you come, where you're going.

Speaker 1 (01:35):
Okay, So my name is Ken, also known as the
Ultimate Gentlemen on all platforms. I help hiring the men
and men in general heal from divorces and bad breakups
in ninety days or less. And my a lot of
guys come in through divorce, they come in through heartbreak,
they come in through breakups. But when we really get

(01:56):
to work, and it's more so men's in power and
men reprogramming. They mint to see value within themselves instead
of placing it and the old woman, the woman that
left them, the woman they had to leave more new
women to come. Yeah, So I really just work on
I work on work with men. But I speak from
a manhood perspective and a masculinity perspective.

Speaker 2 (02:18):
How did you get into that? My own personal heartbreaks,
own personal heartbreaks, And I say it all the time.
I've been on both sides. I'd have been a low down,
thirty motherfucker ain't doing right. But I also have been
done wrong is with.

Speaker 1 (02:33):
And so during my experiences with you know, women that
I failed with, the women that I didn't do right,
of women that done me wrong, I was always looking
for a meat. So I would go to my pops.
I'd be like, hey, Pop, this is going on or whatever,
and he'll say, boy, you'll be all right. You know
you're young, there's plenty of women out there. Blah blah

(02:53):
blah blah blah blah. That shit never helped, It never worked.
And it's like I was really wishing what I was feeling.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
What I was feeling, I was really opened that fuck like,
and somebody helped me, and I went online trying to
find the answers. You go down that rabbit hole when
you get the certain shit and you just pop up
all over your algorithm. You got different dating coaches and
dating people and stuff like that, and I went through
that cycle, didn't agree with some of the ideologies because

(03:19):
at the time in my mind I kind of had
that ideology that fucked it up with a decent woman
that I had, So I had to really just go
through a processor starting over again. Let me ask you
some so do you make do you make sure that
they don't get it confused when you say fuck that
bitch or fuck these bitches? You know what I'm saying.
Some niggas get a heartbreak and say fuck, that's what

(03:43):
I need to do better. Because the more that I
do it, I was starting to understand that, Yeah, I'm
starting to understand that there's guys who like last night
I posted my lady because he was out here with you,
and one of my guys said, damn, bro.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
I thought it was fuck these bitches, you got a bitch,
But I was like.

Speaker 2 (03:59):
What I was like, Oh, I just say fuck the bitches,
you're doing you good? I said, fuck the bitch, who
did you wrong? So it's the difference between the two.
So I do need to work. Obay, it's not fuck
these bitches, its fuck that bitch, doctor, bitches doctor excuse me?
When women in whole fact just the bitch who hurt you,

(04:21):
she cheated on you, she broke you down, sucked you dry,
took your damn money and all that shit.

Speaker 1 (04:25):
Fuck that bitch. Yeah, but you know, watch my content,
work with me, and we'll get you to a point
to where it's not Fuck these bitches. You just go
find something that's better for you.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
Because most of the time, when somebody get done wrong,
they take it into all all relationships.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
Absolutely, absolutely, that's vice versas.

Speaker 2 (04:42):
Like men and women.

Speaker 1 (04:43):
Both Yeah, both absolutely, bro And I think that that's
the worst thing you can do from personal experience. But
then also we're working with these guys that I work with,
and that's a real big component. We are working on
one another. I tried my abs little best to get
him to a place to where they understand it. Just
because you're an old lady, your wife, your girl for

(05:06):
I have a loan. Just because she did you this
way doesn't mean that that's a representation on all women
in fact, and you can't go out into the world
with that perspective because you bleed on other people that
didn't even deserve fact. And I'm not a hypocrite. I
don't like it. I don't want to do it to
nobody else.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
Have you had a client that just didn't get it?
He just straightened up.

Speaker 1 (05:27):
Shit, I got one right now, It's like that, what
motherfucker is already? Just don't listen. He ain't coming, nah,
he and he.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
Got this perspective because he's a relatively hiring in person.
Where he's at, he's had, he has a child with
this woman. They was together for close to ten years
or so, and right now, basically, I'm sure he played
his parts, but she emasculated, like really, it's fucking with

(05:55):
his mental really brought him down to a low point.
He got to a point based on what he was
telling me, the way he felt as though she was
just draining him financially, mentally, emotionally. And once he found me,
the dude was real fucked up. And you know, so
I built him up, got him back right, but he
just can't let go of. You gotta do this for
a woman. You got to be this way towards women.
You can't act like you like him and shit like that.

(06:17):
I'm saying, no, brother, you shit down there. Forty fuck
is you thinking like this for him? But like that
hurt for some people to just stick with people and
know what I'm saying, like, what about a nigga, Like
just go through your class and go through your train
and go back to the bitch.

Speaker 1 (06:32):
Oh yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, I'm thinking
of one right now. I'm sitting there the same way
that I'm talking over the conte. He's telling me she
cheating on him and she don't want to be with
him no more, and she off cross town with another dude.
They going out or whatever, and I'm saying, hey, bro,
fuck that bitch, like I'm breaking it down to him.

(06:52):
We go through the whole process, and then what tends
to happen is once he started better than himself, that's
when she comes back around. When she come back around,
I'll hear from the motherfucker though. Bo. So it's like
those eight to twelve weeks we spit together. We get
about the sixth seventh week, I ain't hurt from this
motherfucking forever now. And once I reconnect with him, he
tell me, yeah, bro, we fixed it and we worked

(07:15):
it out or whatever it may be, and we're gonna
be back together and this, this, this, this and that,
and I congratulate him, like, you know, I'm happy for you,
that's what you want. Know you hear reoccurring class you
say that, can I say, I said, I promise you
will you come back? I'll charge you though I propish
you whill you come back? So yeah, I do have
that a lot. Uh damn.

Speaker 2 (07:36):
So what about the person that the one that you
dealt with the know she puts you into this space
or really your calling, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker 1 (07:46):
Yeah, how you think she feel about what you're doing now?
Whether it's two different sides of it, because one, she
always knew that I was going to do something related
to this and I was wonta fuck that up? Like
I was the one who was, you know, feeling myself,
you know, started getting older, started branching off and you know,

(08:08):
it's just cheating shit like that. I was the one
that was doing that. So she's I would assume she's happy,
like she's proud of what it is and I'm doing.
Were not in communication anymore, but I would think that
she was happy and she was always known that I
would do something like this, But one in particular, because
it's really two of them that led me to this point.

(08:29):
The first one, I know she's somewhere, aid I know
she's some raid. She used to tell me, like the
way that you the way that I say it, and
the things that I say. She never liked the way
that I spoke on line, so she didn't like how direct,
how vulgar I could be, how I don't sugarcoat nothing.
So she kind of started to pull away for me

(08:51):
in that way. And I don't know where the fuck
she at right now, But one in particular brother actually
hit me yesterday morning. Yesterday morning in my DNS talk crazy,
how can you stop making content about me? Weird ass niggas?
What video about you and all other shit is related
to me? But I think that one in particular to

(09:15):
answer that question, I believe if I allowed her to
be here, she will, she will want to be despite
whatever she feel about me, because I truly didn't do
that one wrong. Yeah, so they definitely pushed me into
my calling now, but I believe that I'm glad that

(09:37):
it did that because it allows me to do what
I do.

Speaker 2 (09:40):
How was you raised coming up single parent?

Speaker 1 (09:42):
No, I had two parents, so my father was in
the household, but I really didn't develop a close close
relationship with my father until I was around seventeen years old.
And that's not taking nothing away from like him, but
he was working all the time, and he wasn't the
father that really spoke a lot. This kind of talked

(10:02):
with his actions or whatever. And when he did speak,
it wasn't long and drawn out and nothing like that.
So we didn't get that father son father son bond it.
I was about seventeen, eighteen years old. Yeah siblings, Uh yeah, yes,
me and my brother my mom and he has five
I believe, yes, I do have siblings.

Speaker 2 (10:21):
So did you see did you see like did your
dad cheat on mom?

Speaker 1 (10:26):
Hell? Yeah, pops had two kids on mama? My younger siblings.
He had two babies on Mama. I won't stay down.
Yeah she did, she did. I didn't really realize it
when I was younger because I was I was young
when my little brother came around. I just remember a
little car seat in front of the door one day

(10:47):
and my popt was like this your brother. I ain't
really understand it, but I'm like, shit, all right, you
know it did? They did? When I got a little
bit older. I remember it was coming out of red
lobsters one day and uh my post was like, boy,
you got it, and that's how you talk. You don't
call her my name, like, hey, boy, you got a sister.
You got a little sister, Like no, I don't. I
ain't got no sister. My ma ain't pregnant. I ain't

(11:07):
seen her belly or nothing like that. And then my
mama had this like just straight face on her, like
she wasn't smiling or nothing, and it looked like in hindsight,
I know it was a hurtful moment for her, but
he was like, boy, just be quiet, you got a
little sister. And then I remember coming around and then
for the longest when she would come to the house,

(11:28):
my mama will be there, but she just go in
the back room because it was still fairly new. And
then now they close as ever. Now I think they
closer to my mama than I am, and I love
my mama. Were closer, but they don't even talk. They
don't even when they need something. They don't even talk
to my father. They call her. Oh.

Speaker 2 (11:44):
She she had to get to a state of acceptance, yes,
state of acceptance, state of forgiveness, and absoluted for it.

Speaker 1 (11:51):
I told her, crazy, I would have done that. Shit.

Speaker 2 (11:55):
You're a man, absolute, but what you want your girl
to stay around if you had a baby on.

Speaker 1 (12:00):
I don't think. I don't think she would stay around.
To be honest with you, what I I don't know
if I can say this, I would try my absolute best.

Speaker 2 (12:09):
If I was a step out cheat, I would try
my absolute best to make sure it ain't no possibility
I even have a betty.

Speaker 1 (12:15):
But if that was the case, to be honest with
you know, I'll just let her go. Yeah, I wouldn't
want to put her through that emotional pain because I
believe it's a difference between Damn, I fucked up, I cheated.
I let you know what you find out, however you
come to grips about it. But when you have a baby,
it's like, I got to remember, you did this ship

(12:36):
every day? Why do niggas leave with that like I
fucked up? I cheated?

Speaker 2 (12:39):
Bro? You want to if you want to got caught,
you want to feel like you fucked up like Rick?

Speaker 1 (12:43):
Why do you need to do that ship.

Speaker 2 (12:47):
On the way you give a cause you got caught
life real and run around up.

Speaker 1 (12:52):
That's really why I'm gonna be honest with you, and
every man could be different, but I do believe that
you just get desensitized or a period of time, because
I remember the first time it's crazy you asked me
about my upbringing, because how I saw the way that
I saw it effected my mom. I remember being youngest,
I ain't gonna never cheat on no woman. But as
soon as I got older, motherfucker went out and cheated.

(13:14):
And the first time I cheated, I couldn't look in
the mirror. I felt like ship. I felt guilty. But
the more I did it, and the more I did it,
I just justified it. It's like, that's what men is
supposed to do. You know, you're a man. You naturally
you biology your biological existence of being a man. This
is natural for you. So do you believe that? Though?

(13:35):
I do believe that it is in a man's nature
to stickish dick in multiple women. If he can't, that's
a that's I think that's a test of strength. Though exactly,
I think it's a rare nigga that that draw very ravery,
very very rare, and I think live very very rare. Yeah,

(13:59):
I'm be honest with you. I don't think a man
is mindful of it until a woman cheating on him.
That's the only way that we really get. From my opinion,
that's the only way that we really beget. We start
to realize, like, fuck this shit don't feel good. What
I do believe it is a man's nature to naturally
want to have intercourse with the other women. Why you

(14:22):
think why you think so what the fuck is in us?
And make a nigga like what is it? I really
do believe it's that masculin energy, that masculine energy that
we just add, Like that same desire that you got
to get up and should build a podcast like this
and get up and come and do something like this,
and get up and build something and grow and develop.
It's that same exact energy when you're get some pussy

(14:44):
or when you're chasing after a woman and when you're
talking to it, it's that thrill you think it's validation
your ego. Yeah, yeah, man, look I just fucked this
bit over here, you know, look at she had that
ass over there. Titties is like this, I did that
right there.

Speaker 2 (14:58):
I get off on get knowing like I can, but
you knowing like I know, I can bust this ship.

Speaker 1 (15:06):
You know what I'm saying. She'd make you feel the
way you on dick racial though, it is. That's ego,
that's the male ego, and.

Speaker 2 (15:15):
That's why niggas put on colone, that's why niggas get
put on nice suits.

Speaker 1 (15:18):
And absolutely no, I can bust it. Real. I got
a woman at own. As soon as I walk outside,
she's smelling me.

Speaker 2 (15:26):
She feels, what the fuck is that ship? I believe
it's the way that God or whatever you believe it
just created us.

Speaker 1 (15:33):
I don't think that. I don't think that you should
demonize it. I think it's just who we are. And
I think as you get older, you learn how to
control it. And it's a daily task for men, especially
when you start to become somebody in today's world. I
think I think mostly women were hypocriticial. They'll say it

(15:55):
takes a try a village to raise kids. It takes
a village for a man too.

Speaker 2 (15:59):
Absolutely, village, Absolutely absolutely, And I'm glad you said.

Speaker 1 (16:04):
I'm glad you say it's a village. I'm glad you.
I'm glad you said the hipocrite part, because I think not.
I think I know that's where I come in, because
when you ask what's wrong with us? Why are we
like this? I believe they are the same way in
their home, right. But we just haven't been conditioned to
think that, because it's crazy.

Speaker 2 (16:26):
If you think about like a cruel niggas, right, y'all
get money together, even some illegal shit or some or
some legal ship, it's envy there.

Speaker 1 (16:37):
But a dude with a cruel woman, it ain't no
envy that.

Speaker 2 (16:41):
A woman don't want to be you now, if she
love you, she just want to serve you and help
you get right. Absolutely, nigga, feel like I can be youth,
I can be the big dog, but I can you
know what I'm saying. A woman just want to play
a position.

Speaker 1 (16:55):
Because she gonna get hers and help you be the
best person you can be.

Speaker 2 (16:58):
Absolutely, a nigga tell on you back though you you
see what I'm saying, I'm the real.

Speaker 1 (17:04):
Hey better you know a sis.

Speaker 2 (17:05):
I'm just letting you know we deserve better, real like
you got the old lady. Y'all outside y'all doing whatever,
a sis, you deserve better. I ain't gonna That's how
you won't be firing out what you be doing a
lot of the time. You know how these nigga beat
be Jesus.

Speaker 1 (17:21):
So real's little to where you ain't saying, hey, bank kidd.
He was out there cheating, right man, nigga, you know
a man gonna be a man. And then brotherfucking telling
though you slick.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
Wait, so he would be like, I ain't what I say.
I ain't he said, Nio, I w was tell my son,
this is crazy, man.

Speaker 1 (17:42):
What's your saying? You believe it's over there?

Speaker 2 (17:43):
Sign?

Speaker 1 (17:44):
I think I'm a tarist, but I'm I don't really
go into that made a six. Yeah, my wife is
tars there. I already ain't nonna change your mind.

Speaker 2 (17:54):
Motherfucker. Can't change your mind, can is?

Speaker 1 (17:56):
Yeah, I ain't gonna lie to you. I am stubbing
once I got my mind made up, and that that's
what I'm doing.

Speaker 2 (18:01):
Yeah, I'm there, ain't think of but they they ain't
going Yeah, yeah, yes.

Speaker 1 (18:08):
That is true. I am a tours I am hard
headed at times, but I don't believe that my toursness is.
I don't believe that I'm just stubborn just because I believe.

Speaker 2 (18:21):
Once I got my mind set on something, because I
really sit there and I think about it, I don't
just do ship just to do it.

Speaker 1 (18:27):
So once I put it in my mind, that's what
I need to do. I'm mad at one hundred percent.

Speaker 2 (18:31):
You can dress it up however you want.

Speaker 1 (18:36):
You clean up a little bit. Yeah, you know.

Speaker 2 (18:39):
But but what thing about them tours But they stop sucking.
They can walk, they can see through you. You could
be walking toward the motherfucker looking straight through you and
see something through you, like like they never know you.

Speaker 1 (18:51):
They knew you. You got that in a way, yes,
and well they don't have no bro, I don't know
you don't like it's over it? Absolutely, that's crazy. Absolutely,
I am like that to be honest with you. Once
you and that's I guess you can say. That's what
I try to teach my guys. Once you cross a
certain line with me.

Speaker 2 (19:11):
I don't give it there how much I love bitch
as old yo, Oh shit, it's surrounded by some thorishness
you teach me by tourists.

Speaker 1 (19:19):
You teaching me something I didn't know. Absolutely, So yeah,
that's stubborn seeing through you walking away. That's my old ship. Right,
she crossed a certain line with me, I don't give
a damn how long we've been together. I will walk away.
Fuck it.

Speaker 2 (19:36):
But for fuck you who graduated from the top of
your class though, Uh shit, it wasn't me.

Speaker 1 (19:42):
I'm trying to.

Speaker 2 (19:42):
Think like your class, Like okay, start class, give me
just give me a a testimony, Like how be like, bro,
you saying my life? You know?

Speaker 1 (19:52):
So there is one guy. He was married to his
wife for seventeen years and in a on a seventeenth
year and like a four to six week time spand
she got pregnant by the dude that she was with
before him seventeen years ago. She got pregnant by him.
He had cameras in the house, so she found out
and she was talking to the other dude. She went off.

(20:17):
They got a divorced. He gave her like five hundred
thousand in alimony, gave her a million dollar property, pays
five thousand dollars money child support financially. He kind of
got fucked over and he spent three years chasing her
every day. This motherfucker even had an old phone in
hers that was still connected to a OYE cloud and
he was watching everything that she was doing. He still

(20:40):
wanted after all of that, and he was chasing her
for years. And when he came to me, he said, Bro,
I'm down on my last million because I've been chasing
this bitch for the last three years, and I'm just
so obsessed with her and I want him back and
I want my family back, and I don't know what
to do.

Speaker 2 (20:54):
After you done gave you money.

Speaker 1 (20:55):
Yeah, we need to sick a bitch on him. Yeah,
I left that part out. He had a woman too,
He had a new woman that was standing with him
like throughout all that. Once he kind of separated their divorce,
she started talking to somebody else, but she was like
with him, Wow, all this stuff was going on. So

(21:16):
she was seeing how it was affecting him. One day
he would have the next day, nah, I can't do
it or whatever. And he was just so focused on
getting her back and just getting next to her, and
she was just dragging him along. Breadcrumb a little bit,
just give him a little bit of attention of kids,
saw some hope when she needed something like his motherfucked

(21:36):
bart the bowl bar, escalating shit like that. Whatever she needed.

Speaker 2 (21:41):
And she was living with another man, like she got
pregnant by another guy and they had four kids together
outside of but once she had with the other guy, damn.

Speaker 1 (21:51):
And when I found him, dude was fucked up, fucked up.
He was obsessive over. He wouldn't listen at first, and
it was very hard for me to break through with him.
But after about eight eight to ten weeks, he got
to a place to where he finally understood that he
no longer needed it no more, he realized who the

(22:11):
fuck he was. So that was really what it is,
because you never needed absolutely, But you've been conditioned since
a child to think that. Men have been conditioned since
birth to put women on such a high ass pedestal
to where they don't even know who the fuck they are.
And shit crazy, my grandma Ray need him say really.

Speaker 2 (22:32):
God, I'm telling you, brother, my wife and she made
it hard for brother. You are a minority because most
gods do not get that type of raising. Most guys
are raised open the door for a woman. Don't ask
a woman no wait, no, no, no, treated like a woman.
She's a woman.

Speaker 1 (22:47):
But and God blessed me.

Speaker 2 (22:49):
With the with a curse. Yeah, and I feel like
it's a given a curse to be a master of
the detachment. Do you think that? So that's natural for you?

Speaker 1 (23:03):
Natural? Like I don't give a who. It can be
my kid, it can be my granddaughter and she five
year there, I got one five, three and one. They
can be I don't like.

Speaker 2 (23:12):
You, Granddad. I won't call they had for y'all. They
call me back, they better call me back. That little
girl you, I believe you know what you're saying. I
believe you better not say that.

Speaker 1 (23:25):
I'm keeping it real. It' shit fucked up, but the truth,
and it's natural for you. God did it. Most guys
don't have that because I didn't ask. That was something
that I had to learn how to do. That was
something that I had to grow into. But brother, most
dudes do not have that. Most people. Most people, and
I only speak from the man perspective because I just

(23:46):
know it hurt more trying to God Damn pull something
towards you.

Speaker 2 (23:53):
It hurts more.

Speaker 1 (23:53):
It hurts more.

Speaker 2 (23:55):
Just imagine when you're thinking about something that's not that's
not for you, or trying to get something that's not
for you.

Speaker 1 (24:03):
It's a big as distraction, same shit you preaching. Absolutely like,
so it's like.

Speaker 2 (24:09):
It's easier to say fuck it.

Speaker 1 (24:12):
It's easy to say it. That's the logical answer for
most of people. When they're going through the stuff that
I talk about, they are in the emotional state, especially
if you were men because you're not used to being
you know, emotional state. Logically, Damn, bro, you went through
a phone. You've seen she was sucking another dick. You
leave that bitch. That's the logical answer.

Speaker 2 (24:33):
Bro, She's starting to look like a dick. If I
seen her with a dick, me too, Like, since you
look like and I don't see those absolutely every time
I look at you, I think, damn, like I don't
even see you as a person anymore.

Speaker 1 (24:49):
I respect you as a person. I have a certain
level of love for you because of what we did,
but we can no longer continue on this journey. I
got to walk away, got too. But most guys don't
have that, or you can say most people don't have that?

Speaker 2 (25:03):
The only way I see myself, God damn going for that?
If this my lifeline, like this, don't I'm eat well,
you know what I'm saying. But I ain't got no food.
I'm just but you you you take care of me?

Speaker 1 (25:17):
Right well? That would hurt, right like if you had
the capital something like.

Speaker 2 (25:21):
That, that would hurt if I needed you, Like I
don't see a reason that I love my wife unconditioned,
but I don't see a reason that I need her
so she don't want me to love me no more.
I just need you to love me and care for me.
But if she don't want to do that no more,
there's nothing else that I need.

Speaker 1 (25:38):
And you wouldn't go down the cycle of like some
people doing, Oh baby, please, what can I do?

Speaker 2 (25:43):
I'm gonna tell you how that works. I don't see
this happen with a nigga, right, he beggar, right, and
then she continued to do what she do And then
if she hurts you and you be like a man,
why you do me like that?

Speaker 1 (25:53):
Because I told you?

Speaker 2 (25:54):
You remember two thousand and six, nineteen whatever, at nine o'clock,
I told you I didn't want you, but you forced me.

Speaker 1 (26:01):
Right, right? Right?

Speaker 2 (26:02):
You know what I'm saying, right, So you nigga, you
knew what type of motherfucker I am.

Speaker 1 (26:07):
So you gotta agree with that, just like like.

Speaker 2 (26:09):
A motherfucker a woman. If a nigga cheat on you,
right and you stay, you know what he capable of?
So why is you hurt the second time?

Speaker 1 (26:18):
Shit? P's logically it makes sense, but mostly that shit
hurt like a motherfucker. I get it. But what I'm saying,
you know what a nigga capable of real shit. I
believed you wouldn't through it when you told me. Uh.

Speaker 2 (26:28):
And this is me being transparent because my woman right here,
I don't lie about who I am. When I first
got well, I never told her that there is a
one hundred percent chance.

Speaker 1 (26:37):
And I'm gonna be lawyer to you and I wanna
be faithful. Now she ain't ain't. She ain't coming into.

Speaker 2 (26:41):
It expected for me to cheat, but I don't have
I don't lie. Do you think lawnchey and faithfulness is
two different things? They two different words? Do you think
it's two different things. I do elaborate before I think lawyer.
I think being loyal to a person is I always
got your back on one hundred percent.

Speaker 1 (26:57):
With you.

Speaker 2 (26:57):
I never do nothing to you physically, bring you no disease.
I would never bring no baby. I would never kill y'all,
would never steal for you. But what I do with
my dick just make me unfaithful. Yeah, because that ain't
that's not towards you.

Speaker 1 (27:12):
You're taking my life personal. I feel you, but it's
the truth. Ship.

Speaker 2 (27:23):
I feel you, but my better I tell me those
ship like that.

Speaker 1 (27:26):
I was about to come on. I hit it. But ship, man,
I told you, man, I feel like the best woman is.

Speaker 2 (27:33):
The best liar.

Speaker 1 (27:36):
What do you mean by that?

Speaker 2 (27:38):
Like, if you're doing something, Because we take as men,
we take respect of everything. So if you out here
cheating or whatever, or whatever you're doing. If I don't know,
my friends don't know, that's respect. Take it to your grade.
Don't break down one day and feel sorry to tell
me the bit I'm out. Yeah, absolutely so if you
if you take this ship to your grade, I don't

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know what you're doing, you're not if you if I ain't,
if you never caught me cheating, I never cheated on you.

Speaker 1 (28:07):
I ain't gonna lie to you. Bade, that's bullshit. But
that's the truth. It's the truth. That's the truth. But
that's fucked up, right, And I only say that, right.
I only say that. I don't disagree with what you're saying,
but I used to believe that until I was on
the other side. I get what you said.

Speaker 2 (28:23):
But what I'm saying, if you sold NOPE all your
life and never got caught, you're not a criminal. It
is correct. You know you're a criminal. No, you know
you're so dope.

Speaker 1 (28:32):
You're not a criminalty to get arrested.

Speaker 2 (28:34):
So if I've been thinking everything down for the last
three hundred and sixty five days and your lady or
my lady ain't never called me, I ain't no cheating.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
How if you.

Speaker 2 (28:46):
Schneek the answers in on the SAT and make the
perfect score, you didn't get caught?

Speaker 1 (28:51):
What are you? You're a scholar? You cat a motherfucking
cheatingh nigga, it was a scholar? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Everybody
you go this, you with their words, dog rope though
walking out. How you say I dressed up my tarsness,
I'm gonna steal there from you and then gymbinis. Hey, babe,

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I am not a cheating I am a scholar, A scholar.

Speaker 2 (29:17):
Man I like, but I feel like I feel like bro.
The reason what make niggas cheat us? And when he is?
When he because you know, I talked to women, I
talked to my wife, I talked to all my friendly
is when you switch up on them, that's when you
become a CHEATERH If you ain't dead, don't not switch up.
Ye ain't different. But you're still hanging out. We'll still

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go out.

Speaker 1 (29:39):
We'll still you.

Speaker 2 (29:39):
My phone is still right there open the phone that
that that can be open.

Speaker 1 (29:44):
Yeah phone. Yeah, the other one is up on up
under the gas. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (29:48):
But what I'm saying is at the end of the day,
when your routine changed, it's when you in the row.

Speaker 1 (29:56):
Uh do you think you can cheat for an extending
period of time when I shu routine change.

Speaker 2 (30:02):
See, I'm a gemini, so also wish you watch my
ship change anyway, just anyway on a day to day basis,
no matter what I'm there.

Speaker 1 (30:11):
Yeah, yeah, so I don't know what to sell other niggas,
you know what I'm saying. But she's different.

Speaker 2 (30:20):
Yeah, you can't like that those focus but I see,
but when you're not wrong about that, And honestly, on
the subject of cheating, I believe that even if.

Speaker 1 (30:32):
I believe that, most ladies know that there's a high
possibility you're gonna do it anyway, but they just prefer
not to know. Bro.

Speaker 2 (30:41):
I feel like me personally, bro, and he just just
you know, it's just my perspective understanding.

Speaker 1 (30:49):
You just say, I feel like me personally. I feel like.

Speaker 2 (30:54):
You know what you got absolutely no matter who it is.
If a woman man, you know what you got. You
know what she capable of. You know, if you don't
hurt this woman to a sudden, yeah, she gonna get
some dip. You know. You know what you got, You
know what you got, and your woman know what she meant.
It's like a woman can meet you and it's a

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certain kind of nigga. Who the fuck I'm gonna be
absolutely after you already let me like this. Absolutely, that's
who wanted me because I had hoes. Absolutely, Absolutely, That's
why I say eighty percent of the battle is just
choosing the right person for you. Yes, standing the birth
comparison is to death for relationship because most of these

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women don't even give the fuck until somebody else know.

Speaker 1 (31:40):
Absolutely absolutely, don't embarrass me. Really, don't not don't do it.
Don't do it, don't hey, don't do it. Don't embarrass me.
So I understand that.

Speaker 2 (31:50):
Then if I don't win it, told my mom and
my sister got to stand on you.

Speaker 1 (31:53):
He'll fuck nigga. I gotta make you a fuck nigga
for real. She keep it in, y'all are be alright,
They'll be all right. That's a hard thing to keep
in though. I'm gonna be honest with you what you
mean till God ship. Sometimes God don't talk back direct.

Speaker 2 (32:12):
How you go to tell somebody that's not going I'm
gonna have to see because now you're making ops, you
create ops. You're telling your sister all this ship about
me that she I come around, she got a no
ton on and.

Speaker 1 (32:22):
Be like fuck this bitch.

Speaker 2 (32:23):
Absolutely, Then you mad because I don't want to go
to their houses and know them.

Speaker 1 (32:27):
Absolutely. I don't know you no more. Bitch. You chose
your side and now men you back cool and don't fun. Well,
she don't fuck with me. Absolutely, Me and my woman
could be having the worst fucking time period ever. That's
between me and you. Yes, I'm gonna go here. I'm
not gonna do the same thing either. No, I ain't
gonna go to my boy. I ain't gonna go to
I ain't definitely going to my clients, but I ain't
going to nobody else saying what I got going on
in my house.

Speaker 2 (32:48):
I think I'm gonna start taking class. Du I'm gonna
get some nigga fucked I. But that's what you said,
because all coach from that perspective, those are deep banks perspect.

Speaker 1 (33:02):
I'm gonna get some niggas there and red on my cup.
I'm talking about they already get sold their buddy. Take it.
You gonna have their motherfuckers on the street.

Speaker 2 (33:10):
Man. I always seeing nigga in the grocery, Nigga their wife,
the wife he rolled eye.

Speaker 1 (33:14):
I like that.

Speaker 2 (33:15):
Wha.

Speaker 1 (33:16):
She's like, Bro, she don't like you. Brook.

Speaker 2 (33:17):
I'll be agreeing with you.

Speaker 1 (33:18):
You know what I'm shit be me. I was like
what I be saying, Well, you know what you be saying? Hey,
I get the same shit. I get the same shit
I get. It's crazy to say that I have a
close I gonna say it in depth like that, but
I had a close friend that was like that when
we grew up together. But as soon as you know,
this old lady started seeing the ship that I was saying,
I couldn't come over that no more so shit, I

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understand though.

Speaker 2 (33:41):
For real real man, I don't know man, but most
of the niggas I know that try to like them.

Speaker 1 (33:48):
Nigga be looking sad all the time. What do you mean?
What what I'm saying? He niggas need de creshed me,
like the try what life not?

Speaker 2 (34:03):
Just faith was just do unto the bitch whatever she's asked, Hell, no,
you got jiggas that do that. Though I know I
work with him, should I understand? And that ship is terrible.
You were mascalating.

Speaker 1 (34:16):
Yourself that ship.

Speaker 2 (34:18):
Them be the niggas who got now run a car
off the bridge and ship with everybody.

Speaker 1 (34:22):
I ain't bullshit them. Nigga be crazy, bro, like the
nigga be ready to snap by anything. Bro.

Speaker 2 (34:26):
Why he's so mad all the time. He mascualated and
he ain't getting no pusst on. He getting some here,
damn pussy.

Speaker 1 (34:33):
And he's paying out of it. You get some what
from here? Damn puss? What that damn ship sucking? They
go your birthday and ship like that? Hell yeah, oh
I understand.

Speaker 2 (34:47):
Damn man, I got caught like that. Now he ain't
with him no more, but he be mad as a motherfucker.
We be talking because he's been with him for ten years.
Like I do everything, bro. And the part about it,
the good men, old ladies, fucking that's fucked up.

Speaker 1 (35:10):
You got to elaborate on that. You can't just leave
that over like.

Speaker 2 (35:13):
Man, this ship if then niggas who the ideal? Man?

Speaker 1 (35:18):
Yeah, the idea like he's what they wanted.

Speaker 2 (35:22):
I could take him around. My dad likes him, my
mom likes him. He's the nigga that will take all
the kids to Chucky. Jesus, He's the guy, yo. You
know what I'm saying, He's always available.

Speaker 1 (35:32):
She fucking I think that's his fault though, to be
honest with you, I believe that's his fault, not because
not her fucking part. But it goes back to what
we were saying. I ain't gonna blame you know, the
man because she's fucking on you. Boy. It goes back
to who did you choose? Eight of the battle is
really choosing the right person.

Speaker 2 (35:52):
You know, the right person can go wrong, Bro. I'm
gonna tell you what me and were discounseling. Yeah, you
know what I'm saying for me too.

Speaker 1 (35:58):
I got you, I got you.

Speaker 2 (35:59):
I'm gonna tell you where it go wrong at bro
in a relationship. And I could be wrong.

Speaker 1 (36:04):
It just my perspective that why I started this ship.
This is no facts. We listen, we don't judge.

Speaker 2 (36:11):
You know what I'm saying is I'm pretty sure y'all,
y'all bucket bucket buck cut butt heads about a lot
of shit. Okay, cool, So that means that's a stable relationship.
If y'all was peaches and cream all the way out,
that gets boring. The women, there's no challenge. Believe so

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once once you get to a woman, because I remember
it was a time that I had started being like
just chilling. My wife started really looking at me like
I was a whole as nigga, Like you think that. Yes,
I don't know if I agree with them. Man, I'm
telling you, bro, because I do you.

Speaker 1 (36:47):
Think they want you to buck ain't. I ain't say that.
I ain't gonna say. I ain't gonna say that.

Speaker 2 (36:54):
But I believe she knows. If she knows, and this
is what I talk about. If she knows, and if
you play with me, if you crossed this line, this
is what's gonna app.

Speaker 1 (37:02):
You eliminate all it. It don't matter what she's gonna do.

Speaker 2 (37:04):
No, you ain't understand what I'm saying. I'm saying they
start saying off the ball, ship starts smaking their lips more. Yeah,
you're right, you damn checked me. You got to correct
that ship.

Speaker 1 (37:14):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (37:15):
But I had that got to a point of piece
where I'm not trying to do that anymore, and I'm hiking.

Speaker 1 (37:21):
And all this shit. Brother, that motherfucker started looking at
me like then when I got back to me, now
you yeah, you hold on to my leg. You love it.

Speaker 2 (37:32):
You loving a nigga to death. I'm telling you, brother,
women don't want to figure you out.

Speaker 1 (37:36):
Is that? Is that who you was when y'all first
got together? Was you like that? Like I'm checking everything
on sight on point. Yeah, your hell, yeah it is,
That's what she's just what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (37:46):
But but the whole time I'm checking it, I always
got something to say.

Speaker 1 (37:50):
And what's wrong?

Speaker 2 (37:51):
You're controlling as soon as I start to be what
you want, you saying, you want me to be.

Speaker 1 (37:58):
The same way that it and I and go dip
that dick off. I believe it's in their nature to
try to pull away from I'm not speaking from a
super religious perspective, but even the story of Adam and
ease To where everything was perfect and she had to
very off, go over there and you could say, you know,
the tree of life, people say sex or whatever it
may be. She had to go off and go see

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what else is facts. She came back to Adam. Adam
had in struggles from God not to eat off this
tree of life. Don't eat from this tree. You got
everything else. She went to him.

Speaker 2 (38:29):
I think if you show a woman that, for one,
she's able to change your mind, that's the sign of weakness.

Speaker 1 (38:38):
You think she'll look at it from a sign of
weakness and she's able to change your mind. Okay, I
mean that's a question if you Adam in on something right?

Speaker 2 (38:45):
Yeah, if you, if you, if you told her all right,
I'm going to play golf with bank tomorrow. Yeah, but
you really want to play, And for no apparent reasons,
she changed your mind to agree.

Speaker 1 (38:59):
She look at you you I agree from that.

Speaker 2 (39:01):
That's what I'm saying, Like, if I could change your
mind on something that you really want to do or
something that a part of your purpose, you're a weak nigga.
And they always try to do that. It's like soldiers,
it's time to go to war. Maybe you shouldn't go.
You shouldn't go. It's all trying to go fight for
the country. If he allows her to change his mind,

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you really just took something away from from that woman.

Speaker 1 (39:25):
Absolutely that was for you.

Speaker 2 (39:28):
But I'm gonna cry when you go, but I'm glad
you went. It did makes sense what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (39:32):
Yeah, Bro, I agree with you one hundred percent. And
that's why I say no, no, no, I agree with you.
It's in their nature. She ain't bad or nothing like that.

Speaker 2 (39:41):
But you know, a couple of days ago, on the
way up here whatever, sometimes she getting her moods or whatever,
I turn around and leave you at Oh, I got
to go take care of this business.

Speaker 1 (39:49):
Facts.

Speaker 2 (39:49):
That's what if I stop everything that I'm doing, Hey,
what's wrong with you? Let's go do whatever?

Speaker 1 (39:56):
Whatever? He lost it. That's what a respects.

Speaker 2 (39:58):
That means, Bro, You're cater to me over you, your
purpose and what you So if you're gonna care to
me over your purpose, you're weak for both of us.

Speaker 1 (40:04):
Absolutely, How can I trust you to lead and God
and make those tough decisions facts that she don't want
to make. So I agree with you from that perspective, absolutely, Bro.

Speaker 2 (40:16):
It could be some simple ship like I can tell
me that I think you should. You know what I'm saying,
eat this today. I don't want that ship, but she
still go eat it. But you ain't gonna tell you
that what I you know?

Speaker 1 (40:27):
What you know you tell my ship. I ask your opinion.
It's different.

Speaker 2 (40:36):
Yeah, I think you should go eat McDonald's. Found on
motherfucker McDonald's. This ship found Floyd to go get the
little meal deal cheeseburger you get.

Speaker 1 (40:44):
You know what I'm saying. You can't bro tell you
how to see. This ship happened before.

Speaker 2 (40:51):
I really do believe on a macro on a on
a macro level, you shouldn't be You shouldn't change your
mind on the macro level, especially if it's something that's
aligned with your purpose, what you got to.

Speaker 1 (41:03):
Do and who you becoming us. That's what I was
getting to.

Speaker 2 (41:05):
You know, I agree with that one hundred percause you
got niggas that You got so many niggas in marriages
and relationship that did not chase their dream and stayed
comfortable with a job for their family and their wives.
It's so many guys out there right now that's not
living their full potential because of that business land next
to us. Fact and guess what, twenty thirty years later,
in your mind, in your heart, you're blaming this woman.

Speaker 1 (41:27):
She's blaming you too, Like why didn't you do more?

Speaker 2 (41:30):
Have you ever seen a woman layout with a nigga
all but twenty nine days on the thirty first, Like
you know, we gotta pay rent tomorrow, bitch.

Speaker 1 (41:36):
We both been laying here where the mother gonna come from? Real?

Speaker 2 (41:39):
See, we both we've both been laying they're condorings, fucking
watching TV and shit supposed to put appear out of
there there?

Speaker 1 (41:45):
Absolutely how many time you seen that?

Speaker 2 (41:49):
She's plenty in my personal life of some guys that
I worked with, I ain't never did no shit.

Speaker 1 (41:53):
Like saying what some people do.

Speaker 2 (41:57):
I don't know. They feel like you can go outside
the week of and just make shit happens.

Speaker 1 (42:02):
It just depends on who you will. Brother, I don't
think that's I don't think that's the majority. No, it's not.
I'm not.

Speaker 2 (42:08):
I'm not I'm not what do you call it generalizing? No,
I'm just saying I feel like every woman is subject
to try man, no matter what Christian women, Buddhists, whatever
the fuck religion, they subject to try you absolutely, but
once you shut it down, they know he ain't gone absolutely,
and the way you move, they know you ain't going.

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But if it's a little bit of anything that they
gonna keep trying, trying and try and trying because first
of all, it's what they do. They'll be like they
smacked their lips first, then they might hit you with
the shut up yeah. Oh hell no, once you get
paid to shut up, yeah, then shut up, shut up nigga.
Oh hell then after that shut up, put sad nigga.

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Then for you know what to be throwing pots at you,
hells on you. You gott I done left at the
smack of the lip, it just escalates real shit the
left where you smacked their lips. What you y'all mighty brof,
I mean gesture me, look at you a certain like

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what that means?

Speaker 1 (43:12):
He's telling it? Look right there?

Speaker 2 (43:13):
What what that means?

Speaker 1 (43:15):
Real ship? Bro?

Speaker 2 (43:15):
But I don't know how to I'm not not say
this ship did not sound like some bullshit. But that's
what they respect, bro, Because I just said around her
women is like they know what they're wrong, absolutely, And
if you ain't saying that when they're wrong, it's just
like this nigga like into me or he's just.

Speaker 1 (43:31):
A bit and they don't want either one of them. Absolutely.
And I speak from a perspective to where I agree
with what you're saying. What I don't think I think
that ship don't even have nothing to do with women
in particular. It's just who you are as a man,
Like you can be the guy who take the kids
the chuck e cheese, and I got a guy who
cook clean the motherfucker do everything. No holda not not

(43:52):
say that because I do all that shit too. I'm saying,
do it when they don't want to. That's what I mean.
That's what I'm getting to. Let me, I'm glad you
brought that. Let me rephrase that.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
I'm saying, like the niggas who got them demnit skiinting
the kid knees up, pull them and come.

Speaker 1 (44:07):
Real shit. And that's why I agree with you and
what you're saying. And I'm saying that just comes back
to who you are as a man, Like what are
you going to allow? I want you not, but we
was raised that happy life, happy life, happy life andition.
Then I say that we've been some instance kids to
be this way. So niggas gonna look at me.

Speaker 2 (44:24):
It didn't even crazy, like all my all my friends
think like me, but they think I'm crazy for saying it.

Speaker 1 (44:30):
Damn we weren't in the same I said. So more
people just like.

Speaker 2 (44:33):
That to be like these niggas weed soon soon as
god damn we get out around people were on the
golf course. Whatever we need to here, he need who.

Speaker 1 (44:41):
Saw he didn't get to be themself? Yeah, you know
what I'm saying, argue yourself all the time. One billion percent.
I like him.

Speaker 2 (44:50):
Give a fuck who it is, cause get what it's
gonna It stresses me out not to be me. You
gonna see it on my face if I if I'm
in a room and I can't be myself or I
can't be banked.

Speaker 1 (45:00):
It gonna be like I could come to the motherfucker
just not be talking, be chilling.

Speaker 2 (45:05):
They be like, what's wrong me too? Ain't shit wrong,
just waiting on the moment. But I'm just saying, like
I have to be me.

Speaker 1 (45:12):
Why do you believe that because I have a perspective
on it. Why do you believe that your friends or
some of these men are this way too, where they
don't want to do the ship, but they do it anyway.
They don't want to fucking they don't want to conceive,
but all they do is conceive. All they do is
just give away bass little by little, give away their

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power a little by a little, why do you think
that is?

Speaker 2 (45:36):
Because they they they they can justify it by still
doing the same ship that they want to do. You
know what I'm saying, Like, I still do what I
want to do, but you know I just can't do
it around her, So that's justifiable.

Speaker 1 (45:49):
It's like.

Speaker 2 (45:51):
It ain't no bitch, because I do what I want
to do. But you putting up a front like you
that you like you that to to the woman. So
you really is you know what I'm saying, Yeah, it's
like that why I asked, Chante, you want the truth
or you want me to you want me to make
it seem like it. First she said she want the truth,
so I just started volunteer and ship. She's like, you

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know what, just tell me true? And I asked, you
don't tell me because you're telling me too much.

Speaker 1 (46:16):
Ship. Yeah, you just tell the direct tree got there.
I pinting out that off to go out there.

Speaker 2 (46:24):
It was a bit of the glove last night that asked, God, damn,
I love that you.

Speaker 1 (46:29):
You know what I'm saying, like, bro, not that truth?
Like if I asked you some ship, don't just tell
me the truth. You know what I'm saying, all right?
Because I'm getting computer. I'm thinking, you my dog, like
you want to you want to hear my life real.
I understand that. I'm that way though as far as
I want the truth, Yeah, I'm like that.

Speaker 2 (46:48):
I don't know. I want the truth. But I ain't
tripping if you can't tell it.

Speaker 1 (46:54):
Nah, I think I am. I'm tripping.

Speaker 2 (46:57):
I ain't because once the truth hit the light, already
know what it is like. I feel even niggas that
search people phone going girl's phone and what's your thinking
about that? I just feel like to me, if I win,
if I went in my white phone, I'm looking for
my way out.

Speaker 1 (47:12):
But I am. I hope they be doing something. N
I ain't like that. I'll go through the phone.

Speaker 2 (47:16):
I'm just saying, so to do what though?

Speaker 1 (47:18):
To leave?

Speaker 2 (47:19):
No?

Speaker 1 (47:19):
I just trust but verified.

Speaker 2 (47:21):
You know what I'm saying. Okay, if it's something there,
what are you doing something in there? No, He's saying,
trust for betterfy, just to make sure she she she
fucked with him, right, you know what I'm saying. But
it's something in there, then what?

Speaker 1 (47:33):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (47:33):
You know what I'm saying. If if it's something in
there to where it violates my principles and what I'm
standing on.

Speaker 1 (47:39):
But any any dedn't with a man's violated that to me, h,
it depends on what. It depends on. Let's say your
old lady she she's manager.

Speaker 2 (47:49):
I don't tell the nigga calls somebody else.

Speaker 1 (47:52):
You can't. You can't do that right there. I think
about you got the report from such and such and
such or whatever it may be. That's cool, like, that's fine,
But if it's on what you're doing today, how.

Speaker 2 (48:02):
You feel an email that you don't need to tax
her email it. This is a professional setting, the emailing
professional sentence.

Speaker 1 (48:08):
I've been out the c for a while.

Speaker 2 (48:10):
So don't they email them in corporate world the fuck
you texting you? Fuck?

Speaker 1 (48:15):
It depends on I'm talking about yo. Now, it's different
if your lady is just the everyday lady who go
to work or whatever. But if she manager, you know,
she kind of whole rank or whatever to where she
got to manage people and stuff like that, then that's
why I can make an exception in a way. It
all depends, now, you're right. And also if she like, hey,
bab hey bank, this is.

Speaker 2 (48:35):
What it is d D cool, But my wife could
have a whole another husband right now, wouldn't because I
ain't going on the phone, ain't checking nothing. Yeah you
better man, Yeah, I can't do what she might not
give you the inclination, and she's doing that though I
wouldn't give a damn she did it. Then I'm just
gonna stay out of that because I'm gonna be looking
for a way out and i don't want to get out.
So let it come to me.

Speaker 1 (48:54):
Wow, And I gotta talked to you like my guds now.

Speaker 2 (48:57):
Uh you really when you say that she can have
a whole nother husband, I'm just saying because I'm not
I'm not proud of and I'm not saying I'm giving
her permission to I'm saying like she has the freedom
to do whatever, even though shell location all that. But
you have a freedom do what the fuck you want
to do because I'm not checking you, I'm not pulling
up at your job, I'm.

Speaker 1 (49:15):
Not shitting ain't.

Speaker 2 (49:16):
So I'm not going through your phone or nothing. Because
some little shit gonna be some big ship to me.
Yeah you got the minus huh, I feel you got
the monitor.

Speaker 1 (49:25):
So it's like I don't even want to see that ship.

Speaker 2 (49:27):
But if I start going to your phone, I'm hoping
you're doing something, Sody tell you. Fuck you.

Speaker 1 (49:31):
Nah, that is how I am.

Speaker 2 (49:32):
Maybe that's not how I But also I'm not no
habitual I'm going through your phone every week or whatever.
If I get like a little feeling we in a
car or whatever, and your shoulder turned a little bit
to the right too much, I'm like, oh, hell no,
I'm going on. I'm gonna check later on and I'm
gonna see what's going on. It may not be the day,
may not be tomorrow, but should I notice it? And
it's just a trust with error.

Speaker 1 (49:53):
Nah, I get it.

Speaker 2 (49:54):
I can't do that because I but you fucking around
and see one of them, one of them Willy Willie's
in that motherfucker have a heart attack, Hang you, mother
fucking sick boy and lost thirty pound.

Speaker 1 (50:08):
Nigga got that. Nigga got paid the last post under reconstruction.

Speaker 2 (50:14):
She but well, honestly, I don't I really do believe
if you had the inclination that she was doing something,
or you thought she was, I don't think you were
the all knowing.

Speaker 1 (50:22):
So do you think they are There's no way you
think old lady doing I don't. I don't want to.

Speaker 2 (50:27):
I don't think I think she will. That's just to
keep me. You don know what I'm saying. That's just
to keep me because I done seen some bitches. Bro,
you cry on the phone, hang up and put some
tears on the nigga dick.

Speaker 1 (50:39):
I have seen it too. So it's like, Bro, they
are the sneakiest ever in life.

Speaker 2 (50:44):
Like my grandmother used to always say, you can ride
down the street see dogs stuck on each other. You
never see cats fucking, but they have a shipload of kittens.

Speaker 1 (50:51):
I understand. So I don't put in that pass on.

Speaker 2 (50:53):
I don't either. I came in the world my name
is another nigga last name, so the game has scarved
me from birth.

Speaker 1 (51:00):
I just you get what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (51:02):
I'm just being one hundred So I just feel like
every woman is capable of it.

Speaker 1 (51:05):
I think we all are capable of it exactly.

Speaker 2 (51:07):
So I ain't putting that past. I'm not saying you
is or you ain't. I'm just saying, if I never
see you never done it.

Speaker 1 (51:14):
That kind of goes back to what you're saying, And
I can understand that a little bit more from my perspective.
It's not a I think that she is or I
think that she will. But I'm also trying to focus
on I cannot me personally. How can I position myself
to her? I can be the best version of myself
personally and show up with my old lady to her.

(51:36):
That's not even the thought or it's not even a
continuous start that you feel like you got to go
act on.

Speaker 2 (51:41):
See, y'all don't stand alone. It's different than the bitting.

Speaker 1 (51:45):
I understand. I just said the other day. I just
said the other day, and I just said the other
day that I came. I'm issues. She gonna be trust issue, bro,
It's just it just ain't gonna work out. That's why
I said. I believe that I'm mature enough right now
to move. Nobody is you need the whole body is bro.
This ship different, Bro, It's an everyday part of city.

Speaker 2 (52:08):
Nobody works, nobody works, nobody cocking in, No, well damn ship.

Speaker 1 (52:13):
So everybody's available. Okay, yeah, that's kind of It's not
like that. Why that. But I'm one of the few.
It's the opposite. I'm wanted the few tour. I get
up and do whatever I wanted to Okay, the whole
city like you in a way. Yeah, I'm saying the
whole Atlanta.

Speaker 2 (52:27):
Will be like you like me. Oh ship, So the
is already available for brunch.

Speaker 1 (52:34):
If they do bruh for Dylan, They available any time,
right right right? Yeah, maybe it's in the weather here.
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (52:43):
Yes, Atlanta, Houston, Miami. If you want a fruitful relationships,
stay cleared those cities.

Speaker 1 (52:50):
I visit. I visit, but I ain't moving. Just just don't
go by yourself. Don't go you said, don't go on
Nah right now, I'm a be honest with you. I
have enough self control now to not indulse because I
did spend the time to where I did in those
not currently what I have you know, have my fair ship.

Speaker 2 (53:10):
Oh, I agree with that. I agree with that.

Speaker 1 (53:11):
Like I ain't on that. I ain't know. I'll just
be speaking from past.

Speaker 2 (53:16):
There, Yeah, speaking from like but I just know, bro,
and I don't just have street nigga friends like all
my friends up, I got pastors.

Speaker 1 (53:31):
I just played. Goddamn, we just had us uh twenty
four men?

Speaker 2 (53:36):
What is it?

Speaker 1 (53:38):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (53:39):
What it's sixteen plus eight? As what twenty four? We
just had a twenty four men.

Speaker 1 (53:46):
Tea time.

Speaker 2 (53:47):
We just had like sixty times all like pastors, doctors, lawyers,
all that we just played. Like all these niggas think
the same way. It ain't just us like niggas just
in the mix that thing like this, it's every nigga.
You can think of it like a square nigga he
think like we do.

Speaker 1 (54:04):
Absolutely niggas is niggas, absolutely, But some niggas just know
how to for next better. I think, think the same
way and what way and what specific category? What you mean,
and like bitches because in what way?

Speaker 2 (54:20):
And bitches because I want to make sure I'm following
so I can respond properly to like.

Speaker 1 (54:25):
Right one right moment that's in trouble off that way.
I understand that, and I do agree with you. But
then also I feel like a lot of men and
this is me speaking because I'm the same way a
lot of men. I ain't been on the other side
what that others been on the other side, or they
haven't consciously been aware of what that shit feels like.

(54:48):
It make you move a little bit differently when you think, damn,
why you fun You know we're not downing before you cheating,
you doing whatever you're thinking, Damn, I wanted she doing
the same thing.

Speaker 2 (54:58):
That's how y'all do it. Put in your mind she is,
It won't hurt.

Speaker 1 (55:02):
Just fucked up though.

Speaker 2 (55:03):
I out of this fuck up just because. Bro, If
you sitting around believing that another motherfucker not gonna do
what it takes to make them happy, You're a fucking fool.

Speaker 1 (55:13):
I don't know if I agree with that bank, I
get it.

Speaker 2 (55:15):
With disperspective, I don't know I agree, although if I
agree with that one because I think I don't think
you are scoring man and nothing like that.

Speaker 1 (55:21):
I don't think that. But also again it goes back
to what I say, I really do believe that eighty
percent of the battle is just choosing the right person.
Like if you it's kind of how you said earlier,
I ain't the right person, That's what I'm saying. So
at the end of the day, I don't know how
to put it. But at the end of the day, Bro,
what I'm trying to say is, yeah, the worst thing

(55:45):
you could do is de a side nigga. That and
that's kind of I'm fuck. I'm glad you said that.
That's what I was gonna say about you. You probably
have been there a couple of times. Yes, so your
perspective is different. You can't go out here like like
even me, I can't coach men and try to for men.
Then I'm fucking another man woman. But also I know

(56:05):
I know women. I know women. I know women that's
really solid, but they ain't opening up. No messages. Ain't
whatever you you're trying to talk to it she a
he trying to talk to me or whatever it may be.

Speaker 2 (56:17):
No, because the situation is fruitful at the moment, I
feel like and I ain't trying to I'm not. I'm
not a bash of women or number I mean either
because I know women that's solid and today not.

Speaker 1 (56:32):
What do you why do you think that happens? You
think it's nature.

Speaker 2 (56:35):
Some shit run its course. Some shit is solid because
it's some shit is convenience. So I'm gonna be solid
to the conveniency. I've been on both sides. I've been
on both sides. I understand that just what I'm saying.
You got just say, Vincent, A woman ain't gonna fuck
it up unless it's worth fucking it up.

Speaker 1 (56:57):
If it's something that worth it.

Speaker 2 (57:00):
Let that shit be something worth fucking it up for
you got these women goddamn throwing their whole relationship away
for a cherry from USh.

Speaker 1 (57:09):
Yeah, that's crazy, is it? That's crazy? But also, but
also it goes back to these are good Christian woman.

Speaker 2 (57:19):
It goes back to who you with, It goes back
to who you wish she like us, but she no,
for damn sure, you ain't front row front row going
up there with us and then motherfucker skating all vacals
and shit like that, doing the.

Speaker 1 (57:31):
Fucking cherry toil and shit like that. If you were me,
or like, if I see a woman, or if I
see her and I see her, she in the club,
she going here, she's doing this, she's doing that, And
if I choose her, why would I be surprised when
the shit happened.

Speaker 2 (57:45):
No, I'm saying a woman could wouldn't do it because
you are sure right now, but the right circumstance, I'm upset.
I'm outside my fucking dress one goddamn me and my
friends and he chose her.

Speaker 1 (58:00):
Yeah, come on, baby, take it. What she gonna feel
as not her per se.

Speaker 2 (58:06):
I'm just saying, well, the woman's gonna feel is that
though I didn't go home, with him.

Speaker 1 (58:09):
I didn't touch him.

Speaker 2 (58:11):
I didn't want I didn't nothing but me and look
at that me and are so territorial.

Speaker 1 (58:15):
It's that.

Speaker 2 (58:16):
No nigga don't like tears.

Speaker 1 (58:18):
Real sit, real sit, bitch. I'm gonna me personal. I gotta.

Speaker 2 (58:24):
But also, I had a show one time, right this
prime example. I had a show one time, uh shit
show genu Wine. He was in there giving out flowers.
She tried to get my wife one. She looked at me.
He telled me, Hey, can she get this? I must
look like a nigga that you don't supposed to get
my bitch in the earth. You get what I'm saying, Like,

(58:45):
we ain't going for that, bro. Certain niggas just ain't
going for it. So once you I feel like, once
you said the dynamics of things, if that ain't being violated,
you ain't violated.

Speaker 1 (58:54):
What your old lady said in that moment, What did
she say? She didn't say.

Speaker 2 (58:57):
She she looked at me like, should I get it?

Speaker 1 (58:59):
Really? Fuck Jean Water? Why why is she that way though?

Speaker 2 (59:03):
What you mean?

Speaker 1 (59:04):
Why is she that way? Because she know she knows
what I ain't playing? Why you ain't playing? Because I
love her and you love her what else? What do
you mean you're gonna stand on that business right?

Speaker 2 (59:14):
Oh no, I ain't gonna do now. I'm just gonna
be like, hey, you got that flower? Yeah, don't get
in the car with him exactly.

Speaker 1 (59:22):
You're gonna stand on the physis. I'm out of here.
I'm going. Yeah, its respect. But that's who you are.
I don't even see her doing that when I ain't there.
That's who you are as a man, though. Yeah, when
that's the lady, but also the same you can be
the same man. And if you choose a bitch, you
choose a woman who do ship like that, that's what's
gonna happen to you.

Speaker 2 (59:39):
But she all tars two though, so, but that don't
mean that don't mean. That just means she's smart.

Speaker 1 (59:45):
Okay, that don't mean hold on, I'm just being real now.
That just means she's smart.

Speaker 2 (59:51):
That don't mean nothing else.

Speaker 1 (59:54):
Yeah, I think you need to give yourselfing more credit. Bro.

Speaker 2 (59:57):
It ain't no credit.

Speaker 1 (59:58):
That's that's ego. Nah.

Speaker 2 (01:00:00):
If a nigga, if a nigga feel like man, nigga
better niggas. I didn't mind man like my man just said. Man,
you think musk can't fuck your bitch and you eat
what he say and you eat none more. Nigga, take
your bit out of the orbit man.

Speaker 1 (01:00:17):
Tomorrow foroy we going to Mars. I feel that, but
I don't want to personalize it well who you are
as a man. Who you are, Yeah, and the late
the relationship you don't feel with your lady. She ain't
going after fucking space with weird ass Elon musk Brouh.

Speaker 2 (01:00:31):
I just feel like at the moment, crazy feel like,
I feel like, for the right in the right moment,
you fuck up the right way, she'll go.

Speaker 1 (01:00:41):
Try not to fuck up.

Speaker 2 (01:00:42):
Be how nigga gonna not fuck up though, be honest
under still still get you fucked up. But I could
be honest with you all day. I'd be honest with
you all day. But the right motherfucker find out I
did something fun to understand, Nigga, you embarrass me. I
feel that I understand, But also I'm still gonna give
you their credit though, because the way, and it goes back.

Speaker 1 (01:01:02):
To what I say personally, is who you are as
an individual, the lady that you chose. I agree. She
looked at you, she said, fuck Genie. One look and
the lady next to her probably had her due next
to or too, and she got her tongue got and everything.
Let me get that fly or whatever. But your lady
ain't like I ain't tripping on that. Look at you first,
you know, I just know how Yo?

Speaker 2 (01:01:22):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:01:23):
Where is it?

Speaker 2 (01:01:24):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:01:27):
Your business might be here, but shit, you might need
to go elsewhere. Dog never.

Speaker 2 (01:01:32):
You just never know, bro, You just never know. And
I ain't putting that out there like I ain't never
in thirty thirty one years, I never a man, never
called this one phone, never nothing, never nothing.

Speaker 1 (01:01:42):
So whatever it is you're doing, keep doing that. Only
a fuck what it is?

Speaker 2 (01:01:46):
So I can't. I can't speak on nobody else. But
I don't say that's because of me. I say this
because of her, right. That's who she is. That ain't
who I am. She respect herself enough to not disrespect me.

Speaker 1 (01:01:56):
And that's why I say when I talk about the ego,
because I agree with you that I'm not speaking from
a perspective of because I'm this kind of man. This
ain't gonna happen to me because I was with a
woman and I was this kind of man and that
type of shit appen. But also I'm still in this
kind of man with a different level of a woman.
We have a different set of problems, but it's not

(01:02:17):
those issues to worry. I had to walk away from one.
I don't have to walk.

Speaker 2 (01:02:21):
Away from this one for these particular problems, not because
I'm special, but because I followed the rule. Eighty percent
of the battles just choosing the right person, and the
other twenty is just managing. And what you were saying earlier,
you was like not changing your mind. And I can
see you and checking this shit, correcting it, we smaking
your lists up or whatever you may, but you just
managing it, and you.

Speaker 1 (01:02:40):
Still doing what you're doing. Oh baby, don't play golf.
I want you to be here with me. Da da
da da. And you was just with it yesterday. All right, baby,
I see you later on. I finla go play golf
from my boys or whatever. I be back. I think
that's how it is. Yeah, Nah, I agree with that.

Speaker 2 (01:02:54):
I'm just fight here for the niggas who got now
ready to go out bad. I'm just trying to spark
they mind, you know, saying spark flying cut.

Speaker 1 (01:03:02):
But Bill, if you think she's doing it, she's doing
you ain't wrong. I'm gonna be.

Speaker 2 (01:03:07):
Honest with you.

Speaker 1 (01:03:07):
Might not be depending on who you are. Like, if
you're not bringing no old ship from your last relationship,
you ain't bringing no old ship from what it used
to be. And you are a fully healed man. If
you got that gut feeling. Let's say women got the intuition,
but we got that ship too. Man. The worst way
real ship I'm talking about, I feel it. So if
that ship is coming in your mind, I ain't saying

(01:03:27):
you one hundred percent right, but you ain't far.

Speaker 2 (01:03:29):
But nigga be fighting it. Yeah, nigga fight, they fight,
they gut real shit. I don't been one of man what
you did?

Speaker 1 (01:03:36):
Uh? I know I'm laying next to the woman. I
know she doing way she moved, the way she talking,
but I'm tricking myself, like, hell nah, she ain't doing that.
She ain't. She ain't fucking no, she ain't talking to
that dude. It really was just for you. It really
was just cool.

Speaker 2 (01:03:55):
Can you let your let your let your woman have
a male best friend like a regular nigga? Not no,
you know what I'm saying, Yeah, a regular like a nigga.
Nigga like you like what's up?

Speaker 1 (01:04:05):
Bro? Hell not fuck? Hey? What what? What your girl?
I don't believe it. I don't believe a woman.

Speaker 2 (01:04:14):
Could serve two masters. So hell no real ship got
me fucked up. But then also I'm gonna try my
best not to choose no woman.

Speaker 1 (01:04:21):
They got that, And if you got that at the beginning,
and you're here with the ship that, I'm saying, if
you ain't let that shit alone by the time I
get around, I'm on to the next.

Speaker 2 (01:04:30):
Then said they got together kid like sixteen seventeen.

Speaker 1 (01:04:33):
Yeah, like your dad ain't even your daddy, no more
like that. I'll be your daddy that.

Speaker 2 (01:04:40):
Yes, I feel I'm just being really like, no disrespecting nothing.
But don't call them to get your health fixed. Put
that ship in the ponent tail.

Speaker 1 (01:04:47):
I feel you, RIGHTO.

Speaker 2 (01:04:49):
We've been figure this shit out.

Speaker 1 (01:04:50):
That's just how I am as a man like I can't.
We're fun. We've been to go sleep outside for somebody
that's pay our ship.

Speaker 2 (01:04:56):
Which is also why it hurts a lot when you
lose that, because you take that role as.

Speaker 1 (01:05:04):
Hurt who it hurt maybe what way? He's what a man?
It hurts a man so much when he has to
walk away from a woman, and when a woman walks
away from.

Speaker 2 (01:05:14):
Him, but I would never walk away from her in
a way to where I won't have her back no
matter what she do. But I can end the relationship
like I ain't fucking with you, but I would never
like this locked. Whatever it is, it is what it
is like you when I met, you gave me purpose.
You made me the first nigga that want some You

(01:05:35):
want to be better for myself. So for me, she
you're a part of that. You keep my lad name
forever whatever. Like I don't look at the money or
material things as part of the relationship, if that makes
sense what I'm saying, the relationship is just us being together.

Speaker 1 (01:05:52):

Speaker 2 (01:05:53):
If we can't be together, it don't mean I'm still
not gonna feel no type of way. No matter how
mad I was about what the subject was.

Speaker 1 (01:05:59):
This's what out signed up for.

Speaker 2 (01:06:01):
You know what I'm saying. This we got, we built
whatever we got. We built this shit together. So no
matter we don't even speak, nigga, send it the little
won let him send it to you. I feel that
you get what I'm saying. I feel that, and I
hope it never ever happens.

Speaker 1 (01:06:14):
What a man like you with that perspective and how
you guys liked in it'd be tough for you the
second half of your life creating a newer identity outside
of that. Nah, I ain't gonna say that, bro, what
identity already me?

Speaker 2 (01:06:32):
I don't get married, I don't little bit.

Speaker 1 (01:06:35):
I know you you, but I'm not necessarily speaking to
you as in you but the archetype of you. Like
if I'm talking to one of my guys and I
hear him say, hen, when I met you, you gave
me purpose. You gave me whatever. I write that ship
down to my mind like, oh fuck, though, don't you
don't you live like that? Don't you attach so much
of your You said a woman gave me purpose? Yeah,

(01:06:55):
like how you said that you made me want to know?
I ain't gonna say she gave me purple. Let me
rephrase that. She sparked me to know. But he don't
want to go to chain gang. You don't want nothing
that's better.

Speaker 2 (01:07:04):
So that's that's that's you led me to want to
be a a man good?

Speaker 1 (01:07:09):
That's better?

Speaker 2 (01:07:10):
Yeah, but yeah, not purpose. Hell, My purpose is to
be here, to be a man. That's what my purpose is.
To be a leader, a man that changed lives and
do this ship. What I'm doing right here, that's better. Yeah,
he said that, you're the first person that made me
believe in love.

Speaker 1 (01:07:23):
Put it like that. I like that. That's better.

Speaker 2 (01:07:25):
Like somebody could love me outside of my family members,
So that's different. So you're gonna always have a special
place more Like I always say I would never get
married again because I don't want to do that no
more I did my time.

Speaker 1 (01:07:35):
I don't say it like that. Real shit, real ship.
Some niggas enough is not supposed to be married. Bro,
do you think he was one of them? Yes? But
I could not not marry her. She come up in
a She come up with.

Speaker 2 (01:07:50):
Everybody that got married, sisters or dad and mama or
everybody don got married.

Speaker 1 (01:07:53):
Nobody in my family never been married. I watched you.
I heard you say that. Yeah, so she asked me
to marry her who was younger. I'm doing it, yeah
like she might as well.

Speaker 2 (01:08:04):
Yeah, but I told her, But I'm still I'm still me, baby,
no matter what we do, I'm still.

Speaker 1 (01:08:09):
The nigga that I am that you married. You know
what I'm saying. So he's have to be unconditional. Cool.
This ship been what two thousand and one when we
got married two thousand or two thousand and one, we
got married, we had already been together like ten years
or whatever. But it's like, okay, you said, but she don't.
She doesn't let go and let God. She let God
deal with me. Yeah, like most good women through. Yeah,

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it's like most good women through.

Speaker 2 (01:08:33):
What can I real Like most I don't believe the
way that you explained it to me.

Speaker 1 (01:08:39):
I don't believe shee your lady. That's I'm gonna get that, nigga.
I'm gonna get him. She gonna let God under you. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:08:44):
So I'm saying with like she, we ain't going back
and forth. We ain't doing all that like she it
ain't nothing to say.

Speaker 1 (01:08:52):
And you think you got you think you know you
got some good ship? Right? What you mean by yes,
your lady some great ship? And that's the that's the perspective.
And I'm speaking for I would use you.

Speaker 2 (01:09:04):
But that still don't mean no, bro, I'm a master
of detachment, not saying I don't I wouldn't love her.

Speaker 1 (01:09:09):
I'm not saying that. I'm not saying that Bro, I'm not.

Speaker 2 (01:09:12):
I went I went half of my life without my mama,
and my mama got a great relationship now.

Speaker 1 (01:09:17):
So I'm just a master of detachment.

Speaker 2 (01:09:19):
Bro, I don't understand. I don't know how to put it,
Like it's a gift and a curse. Like I can
be your best friend today and we can fall out
or not fall out.

Speaker 1 (01:09:28):
We could just not talk. It wouldn't even matter.

Speaker 2 (01:09:31):
I can still love you without talking to you. That
makes sense, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:09:34):
I'm just saying. But that's something I had to learn.
I didn't naturally add. I've always been like that since
the quid.

Speaker 2 (01:09:39):
You know what I'm saying, because at the end of
the day, if if I'm dwelling on something, it only
takes because I'm I'm an overthinker. So if I allow
you to put you on my mind, it's only gonna
hinder me. You can't feel this what I'm going through now.
My bus is not gonna run correct.

Speaker 1 (01:09:56):
I ain't gonna be able to do ship.

Speaker 2 (01:09:57):
I can't do that we wanted to say, And that's
why I have to be very very careful on the
woman that I you. But I know some niggas that
got there can't eat when they got there, going through
a bitch and they can't it and ship that ain't me,
so you not.

Speaker 1 (01:10:10):
He'll do everything that you can do. I don't have
no choice. Who else gonna do it? Right here?

Speaker 2 (01:10:15):
Here's gonna be times things that I want to see you,
that I think about because we don't split up A
few timesaver thought it one year, will years, we don't
win year, we're without each other, six months, all type
of shit. But it's like I'm gonna think of you, yeah, yeah,
And if I see you, I know I love you.

Speaker 1 (01:10:30):
You see what I'm saying. I know I'm in love
with you.

Speaker 2 (01:10:33):
But nah, that you draining it real shit. I can't
sit here and try to fix some shit that's unfixable.
You got some niggas that take time out of their
life and be on field. That's how Grandmam is just
leaving on stairs and Grandad's sleeping down stairs and they
really hate each other absolutely, and the people I work
with as Yeah, I can't do that. What I'm telling
you is what you Everything that you're explaining is what

(01:10:56):
I try to extrapolate, and not even try what I
do extrapolating give guys, because in.

Speaker 1 (01:11:01):
Most situations, that's not normal. Most guys are not able
to do that. You can walk in and all this
never happens. But I'm sure you can walk in see
something you don't like that shit doesn't cross you. It's over.
I'm going I'm moving on with life. I miss you
every day, bitch. I'm mighty.

Speaker 2 (01:11:16):
She know that now. She ain't gonna do it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:18):
She's too slick. It's dudes that can't. It's dudes that
are world. They see that shit and they gonna try
to figure out a way to make it work them.

Speaker 2 (01:11:25):
Nigga's gonna end up killing that later.

Speaker 1 (01:11:28):
Absolutely.

Speaker 2 (01:11:28):
Like like I feel like if you if a man
catch a woman, I don't know what women got in them,
nagad bild the niggaut they cheat them. If a man
catch a woman, like I got so many niggas that
trying to be with a woman after she's cheated.

Speaker 1 (01:11:39):
He's never been the same, Nomo their relationship neither they
still together. I'm saying it doesn't happen, Like, yeah, she
cheating on me back in ninety six, you know what
I'm saying. But he hate her. Yeah, that never goes away. Yeah,
you can't stay with her. You can't, bro, You gotta
do it, won'tways go?

Speaker 2 (01:11:54):
Yeah? You know you you disrespecting the relationship. You you
really playing with this woe because you never gonna let
it go.

Speaker 1 (01:12:00):
Mhm.

Speaker 2 (01:12:01):
No matter how bad you want to, you never gonna
let it go unless you're just a different kind of nigga.
I ain't never seen a nigga got over being cheated on.
So women, if you cheat on the niggas, you let
that nigga go. You know what I'm saying. Don't listen
to the we gonna work it out shit, cause that
niggain't gonna never be the same in my mind. Now
what y'all think? What you think?

Speaker 1 (01:12:24):
Joe, what's your name? Baby?

Speaker 2 (01:12:27):
Girl? Let him go? If you cheat on nigg you
gotta let him go. Yeah, because it's men real men. No,
If she got caught, that means she don't respect.

Speaker 1 (01:12:40):
Why you say that. If she got caught, they mean
she don't respect you. Bro.

Speaker 2 (01:12:44):
They the slickers in the world. So she got caught,
that means she was slopping it was fuck you.

Speaker 1 (01:12:50):
Yeah, I think that's too I think that that's putting
that too much on a pedestal. I don't think that
this slickers in the world shit. They do the same
shit we do.

Speaker 2 (01:12:57):
No, man, I know, bitches dB to playing a year ahead.

Speaker 1 (01:13:01):
The fucking niggle. Oh no, they do the same ship.
We do the same ship.

Speaker 2 (01:13:05):
Niggas got that?

Speaker 1 (01:13:06):
What what are we gonna make it for?

Speaker 2 (01:13:09):
Done this hole ready now?

Speaker 1 (01:13:10):
I fin niggas are just fuck this whole play up.

Speaker 2 (01:13:13):
We do the same ship we do. We delete the
messages we high we do the same So how you
find it? Then women liveing, bro, they ain't even call it.

Speaker 1 (01:13:24):
And I'm not gonna say that. That's why I disagree.
I disagree that because I believe that as men, we've
been raised not you, but as men, we've been raised
to believe that women aren't that way they are and
you have to open your way, slick you. We've been
raised as men to believe that women don't do the
same fuck up ship that we do.

Speaker 2 (01:13:43):
Know they do what I'm saying, but they do it
in a way that Listen, bro, I know a bit
that's never caught her side due on her phone she
be added in from her sister like this nigga in
jail us some ship She called us, sister and add
him in and the sisters sit in the phone now
they talk.

Speaker 1 (01:14:02):
That's cold cold, that's cold, bro.

Speaker 2 (01:14:05):
Niggas won't even think of no shit.

Speaker 1 (01:14:06):
Oh that's motherfucker like that. That's cold. That's cold. I
know some bitches. That was sin.

Speaker 2 (01:14:16):
That was sin, that has not will sent her girl
friends shopping for her while she was fucking and came
home with the groceries. I'm about to go to Target.
I'll be back an hour or two. You know how
long I be in Target this doing dick. So you're
gonna meet me at joe blowhouse with the grocery or

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walk back in Whistland.

Speaker 1 (01:14:39):
Niggas ain't thinking like that. You got to trust for verified?
How she don't call them?

Speaker 2 (01:14:45):
Don't be added in. What are you talking about?

Speaker 1 (01:14:47):
What how you're going to a verify that?

Speaker 2 (01:14:49):
You got to go through that before? Actually, let me
let me let me backtrack. I really do believe you
just have to pay attention.

Speaker 1 (01:14:56):
I really do believe you have because I don't, and
I promise you I it's what you're saying. I believe
we are in the same in that way.

Speaker 2 (01:15:03):
Well, brother, you will know how you will know, No, Bro,
you will know. You may not know the call. You
may not know what she's doing and it is ask
o me, but you you're gonna feel that ship how
this woman though, because you get women don't change. She'll
come make and suck your dick too. She ain't no difference,
Yes they do it ain't Yes, nigga be feeling like

(01:15:24):
ship bro, I need out there, nall.

Speaker 1 (01:15:27):
Mad like they've been a rough day. You don't know,
you don't know what.

Speaker 2 (01:15:31):
Take her back, take her back track for cheating, Take
a back track for cheating.

Speaker 1 (01:15:38):
You don't know what's going wrong with your woman.

Speaker 2 (01:15:41):
That ain't right. No, no, no, wouldn't be wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:15:44):
Saying you don't know when you don't know when she
feeling a way that she wanted to say something. Yes,
so you know that? Yes? How do you know that?
Because she's gonna show me she really want me to
say something. She's gonna show you that she feels on purpose.
But also I guess tee you even if she don't
show it to you, there is something that you, especially
you've been with her funny standing period of time. There

(01:16:06):
is something in you. It says, damn okay, let.

Speaker 2 (01:16:09):
Me say this. I'm glad you said that. I get
what you're saying some off, but guess what, some are
always off.

Speaker 1 (01:16:15):
With the bitch. So you ain't gonna think the bitch
fucking because it don't add up right, right? I feel that.
I feel that I.

Speaker 2 (01:16:24):
Don't think damn man, the bitch tripping, by the way,
is she tripping?

Speaker 1 (01:16:28):
My de is that you're gonna.

Speaker 2 (01:16:29):
Put everything else for that because you don't check she
don't check all the.

Speaker 1 (01:16:32):
Boxes, right? I feel that I understand, which is why
I think it's our job not to be naive what
you were saying earlier. See that you coming, okay, let
me teach one of them classes.

Speaker 2 (01:16:43):
I'll ask you that because I don't disagree with what
it is that you're saying from that perspective, But then
also give yourself. Don't guess what I'm giving myself. Enough
that you respect me, I'm not now if you're not,
I can, but enough that you respect me makes me

(01:17:03):
makes still helps my ego.

Speaker 1 (01:17:05):
Yeah, yeah, I don't. I try not to leave it
from ego. I'm just saying it still helps it though
it still made me feel like shit. It may respect me.

Speaker 2 (01:17:11):
I don't give a fuck what a nigga talking about
A nigga can't say, I think you justified it, like
you was talking about the dudes of it. What you
mean scared to me when you said that. The dudes
that do the ship, they don't want to do it anyway,
but they justify do it in front of it as
you justify how break it out, Sam, She might be
doing whatever, but I don't know because she's still respect me. No,
that ain't justiphied. I'm saying I take respect over everything.

Speaker 1 (01:17:33):
Fuck. The respect is to put a problem that's game
on the bitch she's shap no fuck fuck her out
doing it in the first place. She respected me.

Speaker 2 (01:17:40):
If I didn't catch it, no, I'm telling you, bro,
I can't. That's that. That's a mental fuck. If I
feel like something with you did, I go to digging
and wood. That's taking time off.

Speaker 1 (01:17:51):
Me my purpose absolutely so.

Speaker 2 (01:17:53):
So by you being respectable enough to be that sleep
to get this person to get the grocery to call
on three way bitch, you you're you're covering up for me.

Speaker 1 (01:18:02):
She covering up for you, or if she's covering up.

Speaker 2 (01:18:04):
So you won't leave it, that's still the same thing.
I don't think you're not a cheating until you get
caught they go back to my point.

Speaker 1 (01:18:11):
That's what's that voice right there?

Speaker 2 (01:18:13):
It is. But I'm saying, we gotta agree to disagree,
agree to disagree on because at the end of the day,
what's good for her is good for me. If I
ain't get caught, I ain't getting it, So how to
fuck I'm I'm gonna feel like that on my end
and I feel like that on her end.

Speaker 1 (01:18:26):
Right, Yeah, we got that agreed disagree exactly. I get
with you because I believe respect in the first place.
Is you not doing it or you letting me know
that's what you want to do, Because I'm gonna give
you that same respect.

Speaker 2 (01:18:40):
If she lets you know, she gonna know. If she
lets you know that what she want to do, you
ain't fucking with her.

Speaker 1 (01:18:45):
I don't believe that to be true. So your girls
say I want to want to do that, you're still
gonna fuck with her. I'll respect her, but I'm out
of that. I'm going thinking of that.

Speaker 2 (01:18:52):
What I just say, I said, if if she say
what she want to do and to go against what
you don't want her to do, are you gonna stay?

Speaker 1 (01:19:00):
No? No, But I'm a love her enough to let
her go. So she can do what she want to, right,
but that ain't what she don't want to be. Let
go all. It don't matter what she don't want. You
ain't giving no. I'll get what you said, like I'll
get what you said. But what I'm saying is, and
that's maybe that's another agree to disagree. You can't say
at the beginning we agree, we mindo on mino. That's
what we're doing. This is what we got going on,

(01:19:23):
and should say ten years later, you want to make
some adjustments or whatever, let me know. I love you,
I care about you. But if I can't do that,
I'm elite.

Speaker 2 (01:19:32):
But nine times out of ten, she knowing what type
of nigga you is, what you think she's gonna choose
to do. He thinks she's gonna choose to be sneaky
or tell.

Speaker 1 (01:19:39):
You, possibly be sneak. Probably being sne.

Speaker 2 (01:19:44):
You is she's gonna she's gonna do her best because
I know I don't want to lose you. Because just
cause the nigga cheat or woman cheat, whoever, whatever, that
don't mean they don't love you.

Speaker 1 (01:19:54):
I can say that I agree with it. I think
that it's said. I think there's a difference between when
a man cheats on a woman and when a woman
cheats on a man. We agree, but I don't disagree
when you say that is there's a lack of love.
I do believe that there's a lack of respect on
both parts as far as man respecting the woman, woman

(01:20:17):
respecting the man. But I don't think that unless you
chose a who or unless you chose a woman who
just actively going dicted dick, if she been locked in
with you and she gonna fuck somebody else, I don't
think that's rooted in. My pussy was just a wet well,
my hormones was just moving. I don't think that's rooted
in it. On the inverse, your ship rooted in that

(01:20:38):
majority of the time.

Speaker 2 (01:20:40):
But you got some slicker as niggas out here, tell
you a friend, your bitch out there pussy like always
therefore long ways yeah, always a shoulder yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:20:55):
And on the inverse, and it didn't even meant to
guess what.

Speaker 2 (01:21:02):
Anytime a woman get caught cheating, what they say, what
do they It just happened.

Speaker 1 (01:21:09):
It just happened. That's the look. That's what it is.

Speaker 2 (01:21:13):
Because they really don't even know how they cheat. It
like a woman that you say you've been locked in
with woo woo. They don't know that they've been for
netted by corn artists.

Speaker 1 (01:21:22):
So it just nah, bitch that it ain't just happening.

Speaker 2 (01:21:24):
But it did.

Speaker 1 (01:21:26):
It did, no, no, it did. He been prepping you.

Speaker 2 (01:21:28):
Y'all have been in a whole relationship, but you didn't
know thise You think this just was a cool guys
ni listen, bro, niggas would friend your bitch.

Speaker 1 (01:21:37):
Out there, puss it bro. Yeah, that's why I ain't choosing
no woman that y'all a friend with a man. That's
what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:21:42):
It's like like he ain't he ain't never gonna try
her never never, but he's gonna always be dead for her.

Speaker 1 (01:21:49):
So they're in a relationship. That goes back to what
I said earlier. A woman can't serve two masters a
nigga change and times he doing everything like you're not wrong.
That's why I said a woman came serve two masters.

Speaker 2 (01:22:07):
Brom call your record, min.

Speaker 1 (01:22:11):
Hey man that he three today? Man, my motherfucker so
good of a cor record. But there shout out too
of people. Man on perspective, Oh man, I ain't got
no body is in the fall while you're working. Man.

Speaker 2 (01:22:22):
Yeah, man, what's handing you? You bringing?

Speaker 1 (01:22:25):
I pretty bit yourself. I'm just a little nobody. Don't
want nothing, Man, go ahead and finish. Hey, what you what?
I'm gonna call you? Man? Call you right? College ever started? Coaches?
All right? Bro? Look hello, what were just saying?

Speaker 2 (01:22:44):
Oh? Yeah, that's all I'm saying. He's talking about the relationship.
And I say, that's why I believe ya. He do everything.

Speaker 1 (01:22:50):
Yeah, I say, I'm going with a purpose. I believe.
I agree with you. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:22:55):
So it's like, man, that's how that's what it just
happened came from. They don't even be knowing ship.

Speaker 1 (01:23:00):
You got to stay away from them better and you
as a man, you can't. You can't allow that ship.
But it does what she wants to do. It ain't
your job to try to convince her force her to
do anything different. You just find somebody that's better for you.
I agree. I don't believe it changes no woman in
mind now.

Speaker 2 (01:23:15):
Hell no, I'm believing force her to do nothing. No,
you let them do it. You let them do what
they want to do, so you know exactly what they
want to do. That's what I look at it, and.

Speaker 1 (01:23:22):
It goes back to your morals and principles and who
you are as a man.

Speaker 2 (01:23:26):
Yeah, because you can't police to pus it. Man, that's
just all I'm saying. You can't.

Speaker 1 (01:23:31):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (01:23:31):
They gonna do it. They want to do it, that motherfucker.
But absolutely, they gonna do it. They want to do
their mother for.

Speaker 1 (01:23:36):
You can tell me all they would it be. It's
your okay, But who's going to walk off with it? Yeah? Absolutely? Yeah?
All right, that's a word with a word, bro, of
what to give your word? You say the first thing
come to your mind? Ready?

Speaker 2 (01:23:51):
Yeah, moving on, respect, comparison, thief, drama, fuck, No, that's
one of those two words. That's now, that's cool, that's cool.

Speaker 1 (01:24:10):
History, unimportant, investment.

Speaker 2 (01:24:20):
Walk away, compound word, hustle, crime, stability, comfort, forgiveness, definitely, revenge,

(01:24:43):
no lies, hate, snooping.

Speaker 1 (01:24:50):
Yeahm h oh, patty, patty, patty, patty, petty, petty. Uh,
insecurities questionable.

Speaker 2 (01:25:05):
Fifty fifty.

Speaker 1 (01:25:07):
Depends pre no hell, yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:25:13):
That's two words. Let's see unfinished business mm hmm, unimportant,
Oh love.

Speaker 1 (01:25:28):
Past, past ps PSD past mm hmm past.

Speaker 2 (01:25:34):
Uh what else we got? Let me see consciousness guilp health,
wealth and survival necessary big facts. Let me see which one.
Let me see which one. You have to see it
some of them, I said, I was.

Speaker 1 (01:25:53):
Gonna come back and elaborate on it. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:25:57):
Please, No, I'm not snooping. It was something else. Yeah, yeah, exactly,
Thank Cord, he said, I said here, you said unimportant.

Speaker 1 (01:26:07):
What you mean by that from one perspective? From my
point of view and what it is that I do.
I don't give it. Damn I good I history.

Speaker 2 (01:26:15):
We finally agree on.

Speaker 1 (01:26:16):
So said a thing in my shoes. Oh that's it over.
You ain't live with myself that tourist. I just told
you that. Ye unimportant?

Speaker 2 (01:26:30):
Yeah, that sh it don't matter that, But that's the
art of what I've been saying all day.

Speaker 1 (01:26:34):
Attachment. That's part of detachment. Bro like funk at it.
It is where it is said. That's that's another angle
that I will speak from because I with me, it
was something that was learned with you. It was something
that was.

Speaker 2 (01:26:46):
Just that it was putting me off the rip.

Speaker 1 (01:26:48):
Yeah, so yeah, unimportant. I don't give a damn how
good I history. I don't care how long he is.
I don't give it. Damn for twenty years later. I
don't even care how many kids we got.

Speaker 2 (01:26:59):
That's over all, right, man. So you think I'm fit
me round here, goddamn snooping bitch. You know what it is?

Speaker 1 (01:27:05):
You try that, this what's gonna happen? Like I think.

Speaker 2 (01:27:09):
I think niggas. I think niggas who do all that
and all that shit. Yeah, it's because they unsure what
they gonna do.

Speaker 1 (01:27:18):
Absolutely.

Speaker 2 (01:27:19):

Speaker 1 (01:27:20):
Niggas who be trying to debo the bitch, I don't
do that.

Speaker 2 (01:27:24):
Nah, I ain't talking about you. I'm just saying, period,
just a nigga trying to deboe the bitch and what
you hell.

Speaker 1 (01:27:29):
No, I'm just sitting the law just in case it's
a law that ain't been set. Hey, don't do that
real shit.

Speaker 2 (01:27:34):
You know what I'm saying. I ain't finna monel to
you and see if you're gonna do it. If I
see you do it, and then I already told you
don't do it, I'm gonna give you grace the first
time because you might not know.

Speaker 1 (01:27:42):
I swear I was getting ready to say sometimes you
got to give grace one time though, one time.

Speaker 2 (01:27:47):
If I told you two times. I mean, you're gonna
keep doing it right, you know what I'm saying. I'll
be like, hey, don't raise your motherfucker voice said me
like that. It depends on the contexts with no if
we arguing, that's different. I'm saying, but don't just feel
like you just can't God damn do what you want
to do when you want to do it. I'm talking,
and you just can get upset and say some ship
or you're finished. State I'm gonna stay at my sister's

(01:28:08):
house and like, you know what, they don't do that
sitting ship like that just a no no to me.

Speaker 1 (01:28:12):
Real Now you take all your ship, which for yeah, no,
when you come back, I'm gone everything just or you
just can bro.

Speaker 2 (01:28:21):
I would leave everything, bro, because I just feel like
I want some new ship anyway. I ain't no water.

Speaker 1 (01:28:27):
Throw that ship away. Throw that ship away, but nothing.
Know the history what you said? What the word was?
I say history?

Speaker 2 (01:28:33):
Report that shit is unimport shoes and clothes, that's unimportant.
Throw that absolutely. I wish more people could have in
mindset that you got they gonna get it. They keep waiting,
pass it. I take I take that back. I'll probably
be out of business that they did that. Yeah, you need,
you need. It's a sucker on every day.

Speaker 1 (01:28:52):
Though, Hey, we just don't states. That's no you. That's
your job. Absolutely at absolutely I'm gonna make sure they
don't f dB fuck that. Fuck it man, fuck that damn.
So what book? What book?

Speaker 2 (01:29:10):
What books do you read to help you.

Speaker 1 (01:29:13):
Well? In my time through personal a lot of my
things come from what I went through and when I overcame.
But during that time, I know the Way of the
Superior Man a big one. The way sure Man was
a big one. The summarized version of the forty eight

(01:29:33):
Laws of Power, because I can't lie, I say, I
just read it in depth. Of the forty eight Laws
of Power, there's a decent one. What else it is
a a b.

Speaker 2 (01:29:45):
And really anything that's just purpose related, because that's the
perspective on the front end, it's fucked that bitch.

Speaker 1 (01:29:51):
But when you really work with me, we only spend
probably ten percent of the time talking about the woman.
So anything that's related to who you are and developing
as a man, that's what I've always endorsed.

Speaker 2 (01:30:02):
Book of the Week it God damn it han't been
in the Book of the Week three full a time.
But again, man the whales superior man that motherfucker Debt
loved by show you and it don't show you to
be no fucking it just show you to be that
nigga that you know what I'm saying here here, You
gotta give women grace and show you out that give
them grace. Know that they are women, Know that they
are emotional creasure.

Speaker 1 (01:30:21):
Know that that's who they are. But you cannot fold
to that ship. You can't uh to I just said
this shit the other day. A man has no business
being emotional one A woman's emotional, yeah for sure. But
they in us, though they in us, you just gotta
fight them out.

Speaker 2 (01:30:36):
They in us you got we all got the little
bitch voice in the back of our minds exactly. No,
It shows you how. That's why I get a lot
of ship from what I've been saying. It shows you
how women lose respect for you. She can change your mind,
she can lose respect for you on something she knew,
and that that warship. They came out of that book.
Like when I said, a woman's off the war, a
man's off the war. And if a woman able to

(01:30:57):
stop you, she no longer respect you. That's the truth, bro,
one hundred percent.

Speaker 1 (01:31:00):
I agree with you. I agree with You're supposed to go.
If he's supposed to cry, she's supposed to has snot
on your served, baby, don't go and you still got
to go. And then when you come back a hero,
she gonna have a ship pulled. That my nigga hero. Absolutely,
and I don't And I try not to speak from
that perspective because it's a shitloaded people. I don't think
there's a one shoe that fits on when it comes
to dating relationship. I just meet you at the point

(01:31:22):
to where it's too farther late. You done already did
the shit that you weren't supposed to be doing.

Speaker 2 (01:31:27):
How you know you found your personal How would you
know if you found your person?

Speaker 1 (01:31:31):
I don't believe in the one. I don't believe in
the soul, Nate, but I do believe that you know
that you found your person when you can be completely honest.
You create a space and then to be completely honest,
and you guys come together unjudgmentally, you're not judging one another,
and you know, without a die in your mind, this

(01:31:58):
person got you.

Speaker 2 (01:32:00):
I agree with that. So do you think you can
be completely honest in relationship. Do I think I can
just people? It depends on the person. Uh, yes or no.
I think it's impossibly completely I think you can tell
the truth about the main ship, that that's the moral
of the ship. But it's impossible, like Yef Santi walking

(01:32:22):
that if I like a halfon't like it, I just
ain't gonna be like, hell, none, bitch, you little stupid.
I can't say that here, no, now you got but
that's what sometime that would it be?

Speaker 1 (01:32:31):
Yeah, you got to filter it that are completely honest.

Speaker 2 (01:32:34):
Then you can't say bitch, I don't like that shit,
but you could say it batter they don't look too
good on Hey, baby, you getting fat? You really can't
say that, say what you really can't say. You will
have to be like, it's cool, but I like the
other one better. That's what you have to say.

Speaker 1 (01:32:48):
That's what you want because you say no, no, it's no.

Speaker 2 (01:32:52):
She spent all the time doing that ship and you
think they're right, and you gotta walk with this walk
walk around this ship for the day.

Speaker 1 (01:33:00):
You know what I'm saying that just what you said.
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:33:02):
I'm just saying, like I don't think you just be
completely one hundred percent honest.

Speaker 1 (01:33:07):
Yeah, that relationship.

Speaker 2 (01:33:09):
Again, it depends on who you it because I am
one hundred percent they completely honest person. That's good.

Speaker 1 (01:33:15):
That's just the way that I am. I'm not saying
that everybody. It's shit. But when I'm talking and my
lady tell me, do you think I'm getting big? Hell, yeah,
you're getting big.

Speaker 2 (01:33:25):
But you asked for that though you asked me that question,
I'm saying, do you volunteer your honesty? Put it like that,
do you think you can volunteer your honestly? I used
to think you could, and I no more, you can't.
I used to think you could because I used to
do that shit word.

Speaker 1 (01:33:39):
I used to do that.

Speaker 2 (01:33:39):
That's that's like insulting. Yeah, case like nick picking.

Speaker 1 (01:33:43):
It's like, yeah, what they call it?

Speaker 2 (01:33:46):
You sassin?

Speaker 1 (01:33:48):

Speaker 2 (01:33:49):
You just volunteer. You don't understand?

Speaker 1 (01:33:51):
Yeah, yeah, I don't be volunteer. You are?

Speaker 2 (01:33:52):
You can't. What if you asked you asked, Oh yeah, no,
yeah for sure. Tell the truth absolutely, but sugar coat
the truth.

Speaker 1 (01:34:00):
Gonna call up. Well, if you're like your lady, don't
mind you think it look good, bitch. That looks terrible.
She cool with that year. My lady may not be
cool a bitch. Take that off. I might, she might
need to, Hey, baby, take that off. Don't look good.
So it depends on how you operate. No, I'm not
saying I just said those words.

Speaker 2 (01:34:16):
I'm just saying, like, like, how this look? Yeah, and
she looked like a wet puppet, which you say, like
a wet puppet?

Speaker 1 (01:34:26):
Yeah, I would, but you guys shouldn't. I would, but
you shouldn't.

Speaker 2 (01:34:30):
You shouldn't, Bro, if you can't.

Speaker 1 (01:34:32):
Really you shouldn't say that because even though she'd.

Speaker 2 (01:34:34):
Be like, man, you could have just said you didn't
like it, you didn't have to say you asked me
how you look?

Speaker 1 (01:34:39):
So my complete honest, the first thing came up in
my head.

Speaker 2 (01:34:42):
What's snoopy?

Speaker 1 (01:34:44):
See you like a dare? Like damn, that's fucked up
right out man.

Speaker 2 (01:34:50):
I really enjoyed this, though, Bro, I gotta do with
it again. Absolutely not gonna move to Atlanta though you
said thore was too. Really distractions out here. I love
a Latimer, I love the podcast. I love what you
got going on vice versas, Bro.

Speaker 1 (01:35:03):
I'm a fan.

Speaker 2 (01:35:04):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (01:35:04):
We was on your shit all yesterday just going down.
If I live it, all this shit I have, and
I appreciate you talking this ship.

Speaker 2 (01:35:11):
Let these people know where to find you, how to
contact you, and all.

Speaker 1 (01:35:13):
This show okay right now primarily on Instagram and TikTok.
If you just search in the Ultimate Gentlemen five, I
will pop up. I got my YouTube shit going. I
got to be more consistent on that. There should be
a link in both of my social media platforms so
you can click on that. And if you're a man,
you got a little bit of money. I don't work
with no broke mofucker, get him a free shit. But

(01:35:35):
if your man, you got a little bit of money,
you going through it. Just click the link in the bio,
go through my funnel, fill out the application, and I
get back with you personally. It is me. I am
hitting you up directly from this phone right here, so
we can work with one another and you can finally
let go of that raggedy ass woman and move on
with you.

Speaker 2 (01:35:52):
Let me ask you what more thing before we get
out of here. Yeah, cause this is gonna be to
help you self. Because if a nigga can just go
to your page and get it because you're saying on
your page, what do they get different on one on
one time that they don't get on the page?

Speaker 1 (01:36:06):
You get the gray area. You get the gray area.
So a lot of people believe that their situations is different,
and the reality it is I didn't used to think
that way. What in reality it is on the front
end is fuck that bitch. You get the motivation, you
get that feeling, the damn I know where to go
with in my life. Forty eight hours later, after you

(01:36:26):
no longer watching my shit, you right back to where
you are at in the first funding place. So we're
working with me provably. It's private. None of your shit
is exposed. Nobody else knows, so shy it's a cook
like all that freaky shit or whatever it may be.
It's between you and our brother, and we're gonna go
through step by step process of building you up in
every area in your life. And that's the shit that

(01:36:47):
I just don't have a lot of time to do
on the front end. So wherever you fucked up at,
I mean certain, I'm gonna certain myself in that help
you throw out your blind spots and really get you
to a place to where you can have a fulfilled
life with or without a woman because I'm out of
dating coach. Yeah, dating coach, you break up coach. You
can say that. Yes, and now that was a good

(01:37:07):
that was a good answer to the gray areas. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:37:10):
Yeah, it's like you're getting the surface online. Yeah, but
you wanna get in depth. You know what I'm saying,
and I break you down basicisly so basically your therapist too. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:37:19):
You can say I'm an unqualified therapist.

Speaker 2 (01:37:22):
Unqualified, you qualified, bro, But if you hit a niggas,
you got a testimony, you qualified.

Speaker 1 (01:37:27):
I got plenty of testimony. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:37:29):
That what it is. They go pay for that doctor,
and I got a whole bunch of doctor friends. Aint
went to doctor school, but they doctors going to pay.
Put that doctor ken on that motherfucker. That's what I
went through the area, doctor kill over.

Speaker 1 (01:37:42):
That's a ring.

Speaker 2 (01:37:43):
That's ams like just just planning to see you right there.
You just sparking doctor kidd here. Yeah, mar set up
like this therapy is. Hey man, make sure y'all go
lights to strive. Coming to the big fat network. Sh
outside of my dog king, shout out to doctor King,
doctor ken Man. We locked in and ippreciate you, my
brother and I appreciations. Another fac episode of Perspectives with

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