Certified Yappers Ft. Mecca and Jamila

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Somebody said something like because a new law passed in
Georgia and it's like you can't look at certain websites. Yeah,
I don't care like that. Yeah, yeah, you can't get
No like I don't care. It's on Twitter anyway, and
I'm like, Nubby.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Is blocked in Georgia. I heard, is it? Lady?

Speaker 3 (00:19):
I got a roll up, you know, right to.

Speaker 2 (00:28):
Go on that draw nice.

Speaker 1 (00:29):
Then I tell you when I had to package, y'all know,
I just moved.

Speaker 2 (00:35):
I had to hurry up and clean off that drawer
before they come. I stuffed it into a little Louis
Vaiton shoe bag. You should have just taped it up. No,
I just I wanted it with me. I wanted to
get you didn't.

Speaker 4 (00:51):
The first box on my back.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
What's up, y'all?

Speaker 3 (01:15):
It's your girl lex P And it's Sugarl Drey and
the call and you are.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
Tuned in to another episode of Poor.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

Speaker 2 (01:25):
We gotta guess today. We got some gays today. Okay, y'all,
if you have been living under a rock, I'm gonna
have to do this introduction.

Speaker 1 (01:34):
But everybody, especially in the TikTok world. Know who these
girls are, Okay, some certified yeahpers okay, some journalism queens Okay,
they are running the TikTok streets.

Speaker 2 (01:48):
Okay. Anytime you want some news, you better be on
their pages. We have Jamella and Mecca from the unhingein
of Marrow Games. Y'all, y'all. First of all, let me
say this.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
Let me just say like, congratulations on like everything that's
been going on with y'all, because I am a watcher,
right Like, I love to see what other women in
this space are doing because I feel like it's not
enough of us in this space. Everybody be like, take
the mics away, it ain't enough of us.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
It's not enough of us. So I really, like I
love seeing like y'all.

Speaker 1 (02:24):
Were at the Essence Festival doing the panel, like all
that good stuff. So I just want to give all
y'all flowers and tell y'all y'all doing y'all's things. Because
one thing I will say that me Andre can attest to,
it's hard to like go from just being on social
media and then like doing stuff in real life because
a lot of people, a lot of times we don't
talk about it much. But it's like people will be

(02:45):
interesting on the internet, but they're not interested.

Speaker 2 (02:47):
In real life. That's a fake, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (02:50):
It's very hard to like make that transition, like we
were just talking about before the cameras started, like that
transition to like mainstream stuff.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
And like, yeah, you know what I'm saying, We're gonna
take it back and start from the beginning. So, now
where did y'all meet.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
We were roommates in college at university, so we met
like freshman year fourteen a while ago. Yes, we met
in twenty fifteen. Okay, so we've been friends for a
little second. I used to go home with her family
cause she's from out here or lived out here, and

(03:27):
being all the way from California, them take your prices.

Speaker 2 (03:29):
My mom was like, you might have.

Speaker 3 (03:30):
To stay, so it's easier to like drive her to
Atlanta or go to like Mobile, Alabama with her dad's
people for like them short holidays, like not Christmas, with
like Thanksgiving, like the little breaks and stuff. Yeah, okay,
so how did y'all come up with the name for
the podcast? Because I feel like y'all have such a
good name for y'all podcast and then yeah, so we

(03:52):
actually had a couple of different names before we were
trying to figure that out, and then we were like
going to different podcasts like let's see this is the
name up.

Speaker 2 (04:00):
That's a name up, that's a name, and so we
were like, Okay, well let's just really think like who
are we?

Speaker 3 (04:05):
And I was like, very unhinged, but there's actually a
podcast like the Unhidden on podcast.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
But what else are we?

Speaker 3 (04:13):
So we were actually thinking about how we talk a
lot about our PR background, like studying journalist, when I
was like, you know, one thing I always learned from
our professors is sometimes it gets a little unethical.

Speaker 2 (04:25):
Yes it's a bit and moral, but it will get
you out.

Speaker 3 (04:29):
And so we just kind of messed that too because
we knew we wanted to like hit on the PR
aspect of things.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
And so yeah, that's pretty much how we came up
with it. I think a lot.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
I see a lot of similarities with like poor Mind's
and y'all as well, because baby, they be dragging y'all
on the TikTok streets.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
Down now see on Twitter, we're like, oh they hate
us on Twitter. You know what I was, I call
my best friend.

Speaker 3 (04:52):
We used to listen to y'all in college when y'all
had the Stellar Roads and y'all was talking about ballers,
I was like, that's a back, it's a day, like
like that's we literally started calling boy who we thought
I had money because in college they didn't have many
money that we thought were doing.

Speaker 1 (05:12):
Yes, but yeah, I wanted to talk about that too,
because one thing about me and Dre are like when
scandal happens or something and.

Speaker 2 (05:19):
We just be like, all right, we're gonna log off
for a few days.

Speaker 1 (05:22):
Yeah, and we're just gonna let it blow over because
something else gonna happen and we just don't really address it.

Speaker 2 (05:26):
But y'all be like, what I got something to say?
Like every time something goes on.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
But I mean, is it more so of like you
feel like you have to defend yourself or is it
more so of like I'm getting paid, I might as
well talk about it, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (05:41):
Like I was gonna say, for me, it was a
lot of like defending me because it's like, wait, no,
that's not who I am.

Speaker 2 (05:46):
I swear to God, I'm not that person.

Speaker 3 (05:49):
I just felt like, oh my gosh, like I'm being
so misunderstood the life of a Gemini, my god, and
like I just felt like, no, I need to like
double down and explain where I'm coming from because I
think also, there was like this point in time where
people started to take me seriously and that was never
the goal. I don't ever want you to do that.
I'm not a serious person. So I was like, Okay,
we're getting besides ourselves. So yeah, that was that. And

(06:10):
then I realized, Okay, me doing that is kind of
giving y'all more attention, giving y'all more heat, giving me
y'all more followers. My god, on today, that won't happen again.
So now I just shut the hell up.

Speaker 1 (06:22):
Yeah I got smart in it because I seen somebody
I can't remember it was.

Speaker 2 (06:27):
They made a video about one of y'all and.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
They were just like, she blocked me, and she was
just backing in the glory they we had blocked.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
It was the weirdest video. I started selling T shirts. Yeah, yeah,
that's the one. I said, hold on, And sometimes that's
all people want.

Speaker 3 (06:44):
They be wanting that moment so bad, like it makes
them feel good about themselves. That all I got to
respond from her, And that's really all they be wanting
sometimes over here. Yeah, so I already know that archetype
in the head, like, oh, this is the list of
celebrities who are yeah so, and when I made mind TikTok,
I used to be on their beefing when Hebrew is

(07:05):
with your life. Oh girl, I've had an arts nemesis
on TikTok for like since the beginning of my text.

Speaker 2 (07:12):
Why specifically them.

Speaker 3 (07:14):
I think that beef with them? They docked me. I said,
I've never talked about you because again, I just I
just be feeling like they be talking too crazy. A
lot of time is dipped in misogyny. Yeah, it's just like,
but y'all are black people's gifts.

Speaker 1 (07:35):
Yeah, but I just feel like when I saw that
video specifically, I was like, this is actually kind of it's.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
Kind of scary, a little bit crazy.

Speaker 1 (07:44):
To see somebody just like forcing themselves to laugh, like
you know you you probably had a hypercord like oh hold,
let me do that again, And I was like it was.

Speaker 2 (07:53):
So it was unhinged a little Yeah, So I feel like,
how do you I'll deal with that? Though?

Speaker 1 (08:01):
Is it like do y'all come up like with a
game plan, like okay, this is what's going on because
we have to address this because sometimes one time things
got so bad with us, we had to come up
with a game play.

Speaker 2 (08:09):
Were like, okay, what are we gonna do? Girl?

Speaker 1 (08:11):
We had to get on Yes, it was like it
was because it got too out of hand. Do y'all
ever like call each other and be like, okay, girl,
this is what we're gonna do.

Speaker 3 (08:20):
I was gonna say that, Yeah, all right, we can.
We can play this a couple of ways. Okay, but
most of the little iddy bitty stuff.

Speaker 2 (08:27):
We just give me in separate tips.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
Though it'd be stuff where it's like I said this
thermat at me, she's not involved, or like vice versa.

Speaker 2 (08:34):
So only when it gets too big.

Speaker 3 (08:36):
Where it's like they're mentioning us as a unit and
it's like, okay, we'll respond as a unit.

Speaker 2 (08:40):
A lot of time if like this is an.

Speaker 3 (08:41):
Independent thought and we're both kind of the same way.
I think about what I said before I said so
if I said it.

Speaker 2 (08:48):
That's what I meant.

Speaker 3 (08:49):
So you're just gonna have to be mad or we
can address it in yeah, we don't have y I
don't really do that either. I'm not really that apologetic
if I said that ship I'm standing on.

Speaker 2 (08:59):
Yeah, I'm more of like I'm gonna explain my.

Speaker 3 (09:06):
Yeah, but I'm not about to sit here and say,
I jama apologize for the thing, but I don't apologize
aspect of TikTok. That will purposely like misconstrue what you're saying. Yeah,
but then it'd be like, now you know I mean that.
And I feel like with us having been in so
much controversy, especially in the last year, you can see
how we have like at the top dealt with it,

(09:26):
but then also like now we turn it more and
so into jokes. Now we brought other people in, like
my brother is my translator, my anger translator, so he'll
be on their cussing because it's like, well, y'all know
I'm not gonna cuss no one.

Speaker 2 (09:37):
He will. So we kind of have that going on too.

Speaker 1 (09:40):
And I think, if I'm being honest, it's gonna get
worse the more mainstream y'all get one.

Speaker 3 (09:44):
To best and told us that, Yeah, I mean, cancel
culture is such a big thing. Like people want to
cancel you for every little team, but they always very
much looking for that thing to cancel you for.

Speaker 1 (09:54):
When you make it from online to like more mainstream.

Speaker 2 (09:57):
TV type stuff. They hate that.

Speaker 1 (10:00):
A lot of people are like why them and not me?
So it's like a lot of people who supported they like,
oh I used to love them, but now that they're
doing like this and they're doing like that, Yeah, it's
it's really weird.

Speaker 3 (10:10):
It's cool when you're on the timeline, Yeah, it's cool
when you're on things bigger than that.

Speaker 4 (10:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (10:15):
It's like a lot of unwarranted Hey, yeah, I told
you right, you get the money ad ad money essence.
Y'all wish you the audacity. Okay, But I want to
talk about to like how did y'all start the podcast?

Speaker 1 (10:36):
Like was that like a conversation that was like this
is what we're gonna do?

Speaker 2 (10:39):
Or did it kind of just happen? You know?

Speaker 3 (10:41):
We we had went live a couple of times together.
It was like a point in time where people were
just starting to realize that we knew each other in
real life, Like, oh, okay, you guys mean like in
real life we were like yeah, Like because we would
we would say stories and I would say Jamila, but
Jamila okay, and she would say Mecca, but Mecca.

Speaker 2 (10:58):
And then there was a point where they really.

Speaker 3 (11:00):
I was like, oh, this is the Jamia because we
had our we have our platform separately from each other.

Speaker 2 (11:04):
So then I think once people really realized that.

Speaker 3 (11:05):
We were talking about each other, then we started going
live together and those lives were doing numbers.

Speaker 2 (11:10):
So we had a very specific live.

Speaker 3 (11:13):
We were talking about Shannon Sharp the day Beat that
lives up I think in the Max that had like
nine thousand people. And yeah, it was like and we
were like and everybody was like start a podcast. Started podcast. Literally,
We're like, let's do it. Yeah, And once that happened,
we just said it. And honestly that I don't even

(11:34):
remember what month that was, but I know one music
fest was in October. The podcast was started in November,
so it was very It was a very quick turnaround
because we ended up our producer ended up reaching out
to us and was like, I can do this for you.

Speaker 2 (11:46):
Was like, well great, because we didn't want to do
it on our own.

Speaker 4 (11:48):
So this wasn't I.

Speaker 2 (11:49):
Don't know how to edit and stuff. Yeah, I mean
we used to Eddie will Last, the Eddy the video.

Speaker 3 (11:56):
If you look at those videos YouTube videos when y'all
was I'm telling you what it up child. We used
to be in my apartment, in our apartment like watching
it on the big screen and just like talking our
own ship watching y'all. So my mom was like, this
is really cool to see how far y'all have come
to as like a long time viewer. It's like I
used to be at the table and apartment.

Speaker 2 (12:15):
Camera.

Speaker 4 (12:18):
We didn't care.

Speaker 1 (12:20):
My wings was already high, was sitting up even higher
because the camera was lenked. So talk about y'allselves though, individually,
because I know you said a lot of times they
group y'all in together and we deal with that a
lot as well. So individually, what do y'all want to
do outside of you know, the podcast that y'all have together?

Speaker 2 (12:40):
Well you should start first.

Speaker 3 (12:42):
Well, so I actually got my degree in film. That's
what I really want to do. I have a production company,
ring A Bell Productions trademarks. Yeah, so I am a
director of boots, Like, that's what I want to do.
I want to create the images and the stories. I'm
also into music management now how artists Audie that I'm

(13:03):
managing and pushing her through the streets, So stay on
the lookout for her all things media. Like, I love
the entertainment space. I want to really like touch on
every component. Like that's really like my love Like I
love creating, acting, singing, dancing. Okay, gonna hit a tune now,
you know me and my karaoke mic against the world.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
Okay, I really need to get in the studio for real,
back right now.

Speaker 4 (13:27):
We got a studio right over there.

Speaker 5 (13:31):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (13:32):
Y'all got to pick a good karaoke song today. Y'all
know we does karryoke?

Speaker 3 (13:37):
Do we actually do karaoke karaoke machine in my house
for yeah? We love That's how we started it on
the show that gets damn.

Speaker 2 (13:47):
Okay, what about you?

Speaker 3 (13:49):
I really want to transition into being like immediate personality
talk show but also like acting. I have such a
love for to be like I'm a too be girl
down Okay, I love I love Black Tobe album in
all them Facebook groups where they're like what two movies
should you watch? So like one of my aside missions
do is I want to be like a to be celebrity.
Sube has their own celebrities. My favorite two celebrity is

(14:11):
BEYONC Williams, and she's like she always has like blonde.

Speaker 2 (14:14):
Hair, she real thick.

Speaker 3 (14:16):
Crystal part yeah, yeah, so and a couple from the
couple They live in Detroit.

Speaker 2 (14:22):
Yeah, Detroit has all the good to Detroit.

Speaker 3 (14:27):
You will die at the end of that movie, but
it'll be a good movie. The plots always there. But
I want to do more like that. And it's been
cool because Kevi on stage has been like giving us
opportunities to like really explore like our acting chops and
like what we want to do. So things are going
real well, and also interviewing like other celebrities or like
people influencers, just interviewing in general. Like we're getting that

(14:48):
those opportunities now with our podcast, everything I.

Speaker 2 (14:50):
Want to do is kind of like happening. So I.

Speaker 1 (14:54):
Love that because we just we saw that y'all were
in La y'all shot with Kevin on stage today, Yeah,
and we came today.

Speaker 3 (15:00):
Every so shout out to Kevi. He always creating opportunities.
We had on yesterday and we were talking about that
and that's literally what he was talking about how he
felt like his superpower and his talent is like bringing
people together and helping them discover their talent. Like he's
really good at that. Yeah, he really We didn't even
feel like work. Oh my god, and it was so
fun And I feel like it was improv too. It

(15:21):
was improv so like we didn't have to, you know,
learn these lines since we did Churchy a few years ago. Yeah,
he had the study of them lines.

Speaker 2 (15:27):
It was only three it was only three words. I
still messed it up. I kept saying. I was like, damn,
what was I supposed to stay hold on?

Speaker 3 (15:34):
I was so scared of breaking character. But then once
I saw every like he was breaking, it like made
us so easy because at first I wanted to like, Okay,
we're gonna be serious. I want I want to really
kill this. Like when he started cracking up, I said,
oh my.

Speaker 2 (15:46):
God, and that was genuinely my goal. I was like,
I'm gonna make this nigg break here. Yeah, say some
bullshit all of us. Like if he wasn't laughing, Malick
was laughing, I was laughing, Dre. It was funnymud. I'm
sorry to see it, I am, because he has such like.
I can't stress enough how much fun we had. Yes,
I didn't. It did not feel like six hours. It

(16:08):
was a good time. Okay.

Speaker 1 (16:09):
So this episode is sponsored by our good friends at
Taylor Ports. Okay, and we're going to talk about a
poor decision that we made this week. This segment is
called poor decisions because that's what we do sometimes. Okay,
I'll go first. I'll go first with my poor decision
I made this week. So y'all know, I just purchased

(16:29):
a home and I'm like, you know, decorating and putting
a lot of things together.

Speaker 5 (16:34):
Guys.

Speaker 1 (16:34):
I had ordered this dining room table, and I thought
it was gonna come in like a few pieces and
I could just you know, put it together. When I
tell you it had like one hundred and fifty screws.
Oh my god, it had about maybe thirty or forty hinges.

Speaker 2 (16:49):
It had so many nails.

Speaker 1 (16:51):
Shall I said, you know what, this was my poor decision,
thinking I can put furniture together. It's halfway done, but
I'm gonna I have to go home after, you know,
we finished it and finish it. But honestly, guys, when
y'all are shopping online for furniture, just go ahead and
add that assembly.

Speaker 2 (17:06):
Oh yeah, don't do that anyway. Yeah, I was like,
you know what, I got this absolutely, Yeah, that was
my poor decision.

Speaker 6 (17:15):
You know.

Speaker 2 (17:16):
I love the handyman.

Speaker 1 (17:17):
Yeah, we're doing the handy people from now on. What
about y'all, what's your poor decision?

Speaker 3 (17:22):
Well, my dog Flex had fleas, and so I don't
know where he got them from either, because I'm clean.

Speaker 4 (17:29):
But you didn't get the same.

Speaker 2 (17:31):
Now we know, Mecca doesn't have fleas right well, you know,
and I thought and.

Speaker 3 (17:37):
He probably got it from outside because he was running
around and it started. He had a little scratch right here,
so I assumed when he was running through the sticks
and stuff, he had scratched himself. The next day he
had tore his entire chest up. So I was like,
I said, oh my god. So I'm like, oh, this
is please and they get the jumping and so then
I was already stressed. I said, I can't put my mind.

(17:58):
He's like a little shit too, and he's less than
a year old. I'm like, I want to be real black.
You gotta go in the garage because I want. That's
crazy because and it's hot in the summertime and he's
beel Like, I can't put him in the garage. But
I had to like sequester him in like a corner
of the house and like double fence his stuff because
I was like, I can't have that all around the house.
But I shaved him myself. Oh I know, he looks

(18:18):
a mess. My baby looks a mess.

Speaker 2 (18:22):
Right now. He is bald and chopped, and he got
a little head that his hair really make him look cute.
He looks so crazy.

Speaker 5 (18:29):
What you.

Speaker 3 (18:32):
Got to send us a picture so we can put please.
We need that, we need that because he looked crazy.
I didn't realize his head was so t Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (18:40):
But it didn't help with the flea. It helped. I
got him someone is at the front line. He took
it for every day.

Speaker 3 (18:46):
And now his hair has been growing out, so he's
still red like where it was it scaf the scaff
fell off, but now he just looked red in a mess.

Speaker 2 (18:56):
He's all right, though.

Speaker 3 (18:58):
I named him for that and my TikTok dollers followers
told him, and I have a video of him a
live being like, well.

Speaker 2 (19:05):
Send me her page's name. I remember seeing. I'm so
a little upset at flex. Why did you do that?
You know how I get back by Michael? Why did he?

Speaker 3 (19:18):
That was right after Michael died. Everyone was on edge.
You have to, Michael Jason, just.

Speaker 2 (19:21):
Stop the roll. It wasn't right.

Speaker 6 (19:25):
It was.

Speaker 2 (19:27):
I should have joined them.

Speaker 3 (19:30):
You know, everyone was on edge. I said, we didn't
know what was stopped worry in the tank?

Speaker 2 (19:35):
Mind you Michael. I was like, well, hold on which
which Michael?

Speaker 3 (19:41):
Oh the every Michael. You're playing every role of Michael.
How that's gonna work? I said, oh, powdered donut. Fuck No,
I thought this is my Oscar. He looked like the
mom in church.

Speaker 2 (19:53):
And what stick out in my.

Speaker 3 (19:55):
In my mind is when his hair caught on fire.
This scene was probably the best thing. It was just
the a goods.

Speaker 2 (20:04):
They don't know, like I appreciate that.

Speaker 1 (20:07):
Y'all can think of that's like hilarious as fun. But
they were like so serious because the thought they were
probably gonna get an Oscar for this, but.

Speaker 2 (20:14):
Did get an Oscar.

Speaker 3 (20:14):
I was gonna stay Precious, but it was actually really good.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
But I laughed, but it was good.

Speaker 3 (20:19):
It was good, but it was like, oh, she's so funny,
like horrible, but I was like, I was so thoroughly enjoyed.
And when I watched Precious today, unfortunately I do laugh.
It's just so I'm terrible to me.

Speaker 2 (20:30):
Like it's just sad.

Speaker 1 (20:34):
Watch didn't make me want to cry, but when the
movie came out, it wasn't funny who it was.

Speaker 2 (20:39):
The second time for me. That was time I would
see her. I remember a white woman turned around and
told me that's not funny when she I was a
kid because she when she threw them, when she threw
that ship.

Speaker 3 (20:49):
Down the side, like you can't take no child to
see that.

Speaker 2 (20:52):
Said what she said, this is not funny business.

Speaker 4 (21:00):
I'm wrong.

Speaker 1 (21:01):
I hate to say this because I love this movie,
but I think that's how Michael B. Jordan was in
The Black Panther, like it's not it's a good role,
but I think he was like this is I think
it was a twist for me.

Speaker 2 (21:14):
I was the brand who does the side dress is
a very. Theyre usually need to.

Speaker 4 (21:22):
Yeah, and they have the cross they usually they like.

Speaker 3 (21:25):
White women are like yeah, very. That brand of man
who have that hairstyle is not He shouldn't have put
that hairst y'all that was created for that role. I
have never in real life. I'm thinking of a specific
person drummer too, horrible person.

Speaker 2 (21:44):
Yes with the dangly ear? Why you got that a minis?
I don't like the fade in the dread. No, I
don't like that growing back. That is going far back.
It's starting to look like your ear rings. You can't
do nothing but be my homegirl. But what about a hoop?

(22:05):
I like hoop?

Speaker 3 (22:06):
I don't like them hoops. I feel like an hoop
is like a certain It's like it comes with a
certain It can't be big, it can't be big. I'll
be a little hoop, A little I just take. I
look like, God, Okay, it's gotta be a real die.

Speaker 2 (22:20):
I like them because it gives nineteen ninety five, you
know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (22:24):
You know Aalen, you know you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (22:31):
Respect to the wife, but need that you know what
Cao he fall out hurt and this beautiful wife, and
you know they good at what they do.

Speaker 3 (22:44):
They are I feard decision for the week, My bad
decision for the week, Your poor decision, my poor decision.
You know, honestly, this was a good week for me.
I didn't make any poor decisions this week. But I
do make poor decisions in life because I'm I just
kind of like, don't really think too too much about

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my decisions.

Speaker 2 (23:05):
I kind of just do it and then be like, oh,
it probably shouldn't have did that.

Speaker 3 (23:11):
Yes, I probably should just kind of stay a little
bit more quiet. I have a habit of just talking
too much. You ever spilled somebody's business and you didn't
mean to, not somebody else's my Oh okay, everybody, I
thought we knew, you know, like I thought.

Speaker 2 (23:33):
I thought that that was mad at Orlandria a love.
I said, I do that all the time, doing that.
But she's a Gemini. It's it's it's it's an accident.
She even say that Letting had a baby. Everybody knew.
I mean, come on, And then when she said, what
was it? When she spelled it to you about it?
So you don't mind telling the class its not that now.

(23:58):
That was intentional. I said that that was, But the
other times she was just talking.

Speaker 3 (24:05):
Yes, I spilled. I spilled my own beings. I don't
spill everybody's beans all the time. But sometimes I'm like, damn,
I did you know that? Hold on, and I just
keep talking, like hold on, let me read, retract, let
me just wind it back.

Speaker 2 (24:16):
Now.

Speaker 1 (24:16):
See, I do like getting tea so and sometimes telling
me tea. Yeah, I'll be acting like I already knew it,
so they'll keep going.

Speaker 3 (24:22):
Oh, yes, yes, absolutely, yeah, that's that's that's an art
to getting tea.

Speaker 2 (24:28):
Oh I knew he was like that.

Speaker 3 (24:29):
And my bestie is no water t I'm gonna call
them every time. I ain't gonna tell nobody.

Speaker 1 (24:32):
That's what I can't wait tell I don't know and
they don't even care. Let me tell you something they
can't Why do we all say that? Who am gonna
tell dret that?

Speaker 2 (24:50):
And it don't matter if I know them.

Speaker 4 (24:54):
Every time?

Speaker 2 (24:55):
Every time? All right, Todd, what are we drinking today?

Speaker 5 (24:59):
What?

Speaker 2 (24:59):
I my poor decision. That's why I'm pulled up too much.

Speaker 3 (25:05):
You see, I finished mine done, So I went to
Magic City. So we went out the other night. Shout
out to Ken the man that's our f Yes, I
love Frankie. So yeah, so we went out the other night.
We went to Ken show, and then after the show,

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everybody wanted to go to Magic City. And I should
have took my ass home because yesterday we had so
many calls, yes, so many meetings all.

Speaker 2 (25:33):
Day and I was so hungover.

Speaker 3 (25:35):
So yeah, that was my bad decision. I should have
took my ass home and been a responsible adul.

Speaker 2 (25:39):
But you made the first meeting I didn't even go
to the first meeting. I did make the first meeting child.

Speaker 3 (25:43):
I've done that a couple of times on the podcast
because we have you know, never leave Houston on a
Sunday that you I don't really be out on Friday
or Saturday, but on Sunday after church, I will go outside.

Speaker 2 (25:54):
Then Monday we record on Mondays.

Speaker 3 (25:56):
It's times where I feel like our followers know when
because I'll be hello, yeah, girl, I was sucked up
last night.

Speaker 2 (26:08):
Sorry. Speaking of Fast City. That burger it was good,
the best life I've never been, the magic.

Speaker 1 (26:16):
That Listen, if y'all go to Magic City, please get
the cheeseburger bird.

Speaker 2 (26:21):
And the fries was so good.

Speaker 1 (26:24):
A potato I was in bed, I got on TikTok
and I was saying, that's a black man that made that.

Speaker 2 (26:33):
He was on the grill with the open toes, Sandy,
he might have a felonie. Hey you he knows something.

Speaker 3 (26:40):
He andthing is I didn't even know that they really
had burgers. I really just said that because I was
trying to force her to come because she was trying
to go home.

Speaker 2 (26:51):
So I was like, yeah, girl, you can get a burger.
Beans and that's how you're gonna get me because there's
food at the club, and good for the club, because
that's the one thing I will give you. Then the
food at the club be good so that it's like
you know what, I will come.

Speaker 3 (27:04):
I can get something to eat and go home. Yeah,
you're gonna get fucked up, but you will eat a
good man. But once my burger came out, I called
that uber, I said, I yeah, I was probably. Yeah,
all I need to go to an Atlanta strip club
because my strip club experience I fear. I said, well, sisters,

(27:25):
did y'all want to be here dancing?

Speaker 2 (27:26):
I'm not entertained. It wasn't even properly could the Magic
City on a Monday popping.

Speaker 3 (27:35):
I appreciate the acrobatics of stripping, you know, like the
girls who are real athletes, so you have to be
athletic to do some of that ship you do jingling?

Speaker 2 (27:43):
I could I could jingle.

Speaker 3 (27:44):
Yeah, that's the Atlanta thing, though, they be doing the
acrobatics out here in Houston.

Speaker 2 (27:49):
They just.

Speaker 3 (27:51):
I went to be live before. I think it's closed
up now, but they was in there.

Speaker 2 (27:54):
Just IF's gone from Houston. Oh really, I was there.
I'm right in the churches at the abbey.

Speaker 1 (28:07):
And I know that's right, but I feel like stripping
now is like it's getting good again. Okay, for a while,
like the money was dried up, the girls weren't really trying.
They started doing only fans online. But now it's like
people want to be outside again.

Speaker 2 (28:22):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (28:22):
So then I went on a bad day because the
girls in New York at the strip club and it
was the club that Cardi Ble was to strip ad,
so I was excited.

Speaker 2 (28:28):
Yeah, they was in there, like yeah, no, enjoy it, baby,
I want to see you. She was mad and she
was at work, and I was just like this, we'll
give me something change. This is what I came for.

Speaker 3 (28:43):
I went to Tutties in Atlanta and did see and
this was right around the time Miami said Cuban girls
at Tutsies and some of the song or Spanish, so
I was like, we wanted to go there for a
Launcher's birthday, my homegirl. We did see a Spanish woman
at Tutsies put something in her vagina and it on fire.

Speaker 2 (29:00):
I was so scared, she's gonna get burned. I like that.

Speaker 3 (29:03):
I always though scared I wouldn't burned because she was
about as far as the camera. Oh I saw listening
that it's shot and I said, you guys, you have
forgive that money.

Speaker 2 (29:13):
That was a that would have scared me, but I
would have been you know what I'm saying. But I
was concerned when I saw when I saw her, I
was a little concerned. But I feel like that's what
you need to do. You should risk your life for
this money. Risk your life.

Speaker 1 (29:24):
You will, No, you already, but I want to y'all
do y'all remember back in the day when Tip Drill
was doing a thing and she fell and hit her
head and she.

Speaker 2 (29:35):
Got really really hurt. When y'all she brought it up,
you know Johnson, Okay, you broke that back. Yeah, I
need to go back and yeah at the pub. Literally
I think that was the argument. Yes, I remember over
here talking about the video. What the Tip Drill video?

(29:58):
Oh no, that too, because that I was up and
I had my hand on the back. Just what was
a show called? Uh bet yeh cut changed the game volume.
But you know what's so crazy because that video Tip Drill,

(30:20):
it was like a big deal. It was like on CNN,
such a big deal. But now if you watch it.

Speaker 3 (30:26):
It's so like it's not as bad as it's It's
not that ass crack and swiping.

Speaker 1 (30:32):
But I ain't doing white Social media is now and
what we see just like you said, scrolling Twitter, Like
somebody said something like because a new law passed in
Georgia and it's like you can't look at certain porn website.

Speaker 2 (30:44):
Yeah I don't care like that. Yeah, yeah, you can't
get no point. They're like, I don't care. It's on
Twitter anyway, and I'm like, horn Hubby is blocked in Georgia.
I heard it, lady.

Speaker 3 (30:57):
I got a roll up right now, you know, all
right to.

Speaker 2 (31:06):
Go on that draw nice. Then I'll tell you when
I had to package. Y'all know, I just moved. I
had to hurry up and clean out that drawer before
they come. I stuffed into a little Louis Baiton shoe bag.
You should have just taped it up. No, I just
I wanted it with me. I wanted to get lost

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the first box on my back.

Speaker 4 (31:31):
I need to know my.

Speaker 2 (31:34):
Stressing all day. I'm stressed. My things are okay outside,
what are we drinking? This name is perfect because I
already see what this conversation is going on. This one
is called unhinged and immoral. Yeah, I'm coming off a
weekend in Turk, so that's exactly what I was doing
this weekend. You had a bob, I had a lot.

Speaker 3 (31:57):
It was so good I didn't even put it on Instagram,
but it said no, that's okay. So everyone has a
different spirit of choice. Literally, we got some whiskey, we
have some tequila, we have some vodka in this. We
have some grapefruit juice, a little bit of lemon juice,
and then we use a hot honey syrup, so you're
probably getting a little bit of that spice on the
back end.

Speaker 2 (32:17):
And then we garnished it there. We garnished it with
a lime wheel. So this is the unhinged and the amoral. Cheers, y'all,
I don't have nothing to cheer one another. You want
a shot? You want a shot too, Well, now you
don't got me drinking. I take the shot them on now, No,

(32:38):
not for you.

Speaker 3 (32:39):
She says she can't do the shot. She needs a
little juice in her drink. And y'all know our drink
of the week, Me Andrea.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
We got a little something different because it's sponsored by Taylor,
all Right, y'all.

Speaker 2 (32:50):
This one right here. It's for the batties who like
a little kicks. Mmm.

Speaker 3 (32:54):
It's given trapped in tiny, bold, bright and unapologetically fun
just like us. We mixing tailor port with some fresh
line tonic water and.

Speaker 1 (33:03):
You already know we have to hit the room with
cayenne or a little ty hand for that spicy atl twist.

Speaker 2 (33:10):
It's cute, it's bold and baby, it's got a little bite,
just how we like it. Cheers cheery like Taylor Port.
I love y'all down, all right, okay.

Speaker 3 (33:23):
Right now it's time to get into topic number one.
So for topic number one, we wanted to talk to
y'all about what is the line between being honest online
or just maybe even in general, being.

Speaker 2 (33:37):
Honest and being an asshole.

Speaker 3 (33:40):
It's a thin line, I tell you that, But I
think that it's all about intention. I feel like intention
leads everything because you can be honest without being a bit. Yeah,
you didn't have to tell me I was ugly without
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (33:52):
You can say it.

Speaker 3 (33:53):
Maybe let's twist it a little bit different, like tell
me to you know, give me some constructive criticism. And
I think it's all about the intention and your goal
is like because also everything don't need to be said,
Like even if you feel like that outfit is ugly,
if you feel like I don't look the best today,
did I ask?

Speaker 2 (34:09):
I didn't ask, so maybe you don't exactly. So it's like,
think about the intention, what's the purpose of you saying
this anyway? And then go from there. And I feel
like you'd be straight okay, what you think?

Speaker 3 (34:20):
Well, I have a little bit thicker skin because I
have mean aunties, and I feel like there's a difference
between mean aunties and nasty aunties, and like when I
say mean, I just feel like they're not so friendly.

Speaker 2 (34:30):
They're very blunt.

Speaker 3 (34:31):
They're very like this is this or so I have
an auntie say, I had done this little updo on TikTok,
and it was like Pamela Anderson and Spider you I'm
talking about okay, the little messy, little messy And she
was in my comments talking about your hair looked drunk.

Speaker 2 (34:47):
Now, mind you. I just.

Speaker 3 (34:49):
Because it's like the hair didn't look I feel like
that kind of describes the type of vibe of like
her in terms of being straightforward. If you're very sensitive,
you would take it away. So I feel like some
of the stuff I don't be taken to heart immediately.
But I can tell when like you're purposely trying to
be nasty and rude. And I think when you start
digging at people's like character, yeah, and not just like

(35:12):
what they've put on the flow.

Speaker 2 (35:13):
Now you being well, now you know you're being nasty.

Speaker 3 (35:15):
Yeah, yeah, Because I think a lot of the time
people use like being real as an excuse to be me. Like,
I'm just being real, girl, I'm just smart. I'm just
giving constructive Criticiz.

Speaker 2 (35:27):
Who what have you constructed? Nothing? I don't believe you.
You're a liar.

Speaker 1 (35:33):
It'd be the main people like that'll say stuff about
like the way maybe we dress or do our makeup
or do our hair.

Speaker 2 (35:40):
Then I go to your page and I'm like, just
isn't that what my brother was saying during my moment?

Speaker 3 (35:45):
And so the thing is I've always I've always dressed
like I've always gone through my faces.

Speaker 2 (35:52):
I had a stud face, I had all of that. Yes,
I saw those pictures.

Speaker 3 (35:57):
I just always been doing what I want to do. Again,
I come from a very blunt, mean family. So you
saying I can't dress the ain't never really make me
feel no type of way. So my brother came on
and was like, we've been.

Speaker 2 (36:07):
Telling this bit.

Speaker 5 (36:08):
She can't.

Speaker 2 (36:09):
I done.

Speaker 3 (36:09):
Went to y'all y'all pages and y'all look a goddamn mess, like,
so he going off on them and it's like you
go on their pages and you're like, you know, I
got this from City Trends because this is the City
Trends outfit.

Speaker 2 (36:19):
We was both we were both there. I know that
was in my car too.

Speaker 3 (36:24):
I know it. And that's why you know when you
can call it out. So it's like people be faking
the funk on, like wanting to call you out, but
they're still there in the same ship.

Speaker 1 (36:30):
So that's how I feel too, Like I feel like
every time it's somebody that's talking about like my hair,
the way I look, the way I as Yeah, why
do you think that you have the credentials to critique me?
And I never said I'm a hair guru. I never
said I was a fashion nee stuff. I never said that.
I just do what I feel good in and what

(36:52):
works for me. I'm not here to be you know
what I'm saying, Naomi Campbell. I'm here to make y'all laugh,
y'all talk about ship.

Speaker 3 (37:00):
And then I also think the way that we present stuff,
we always every video is going to have a comedic element.

Speaker 2 (37:06):
Yeah, so when people take things like even the video
that prompted the Mechacane dress, it was clearly silly.

Speaker 3 (37:13):
It was, And I made sure to say, am I
judging y'all like I'm the fashion police?

Speaker 2 (37:18):
Yes? Do I even have an outfit?

Speaker 6 (37:19):
No?

Speaker 3 (37:20):
I thought we was all gonna get the key. Yeah,
we didn't all get the key. Like I was saying,
I don't have an outfit. I'm just doing what everybody does,
looking at the outfits, being like, oh that's cute, that's
not And it gets I feel like people they don't
see us as people at a certain place. They don't
see you as a human being with feelings and all
this type of stuff.

Speaker 2 (37:40):
So that's why I don't take things to heart anyone.

Speaker 3 (37:42):
And for me, if you if you're going to try
to read me, it better be fun It better be
good because if it's funny, because I'm.

Speaker 2 (37:50):
You got me on that.

Speaker 3 (37:51):
When I will, I will always laugh at a good
little joke. But it's not funny.

Speaker 2 (37:56):
As that, you better be bad. Yeah, And they usually
are up there nine times out of ten, nine and
a half time they're not.

Speaker 1 (38:05):
Somebody said I was, I was on Facebook today because
y'all know I'm a facebooker.

Speaker 2 (38:09):
Now I'm trying to be more on the Facebook. Facebook
got that check the thing.

Speaker 3 (38:13):
Yes, well, I'll be on the look and I'll be
on there to watch on front.

Speaker 2 (38:17):
Excuse me, I was ain't say nothing about we talking
about getting to the bag. You's on my wall. I
like to see them, you know, I from Stocker. We
like them.

Speaker 3 (38:26):
Baby Mama's be fining over one nigga, Oh my god,
live and I'll be That's.

Speaker 1 (38:30):
How my best friend is with Birmingham be Leing. She'd
be on her personal page.

Speaker 2 (38:34):
Yes, why she was like, O live girls.

Speaker 1 (38:37):
She will have her headphones in listening and be like,
you know, like if they be on live going off
about something, she will put her headphones in. Like she
packed literally like half of my apartment because she put
them headphones on and she was listening to somebody live.

Speaker 2 (38:53):
She was like, I know that's real. I said, what
is going on? But Facebook is messy? But that check, yeah,
I just about that check yesterday.

Speaker 3 (39:04):
Roll it Upka told us a long time ago, Like
Facebook definitely got the point Facebook Macabelly. I made a
page after Kiff said make a page.

Speaker 1 (39:12):
Yes, the money is on there, but somebody said I
was on there. I made a video and I was
just like talking and said, Lex, you need to smile.
You look meaner than a junk yard dog.

Speaker 2 (39:22):
I said, you up.

Speaker 4 (39:26):
You know what a jump bart.

Speaker 2 (39:30):
Was corry like stuff like that. Yeah, Like I was like, okay,
I'll take that.

Speaker 1 (39:35):
But it's like when people just get mean and nasty,
I'm like, you're just trying to have a moment.

Speaker 2 (39:39):
Like, yeah, what are we doing here? You know what
we do be seeing comeds where we be like, okay,
yeah that was funny.

Speaker 3 (39:47):
You gotta But like I think some people saw mission
East to get online and spew niggas TVD and rude
and be nasty and like make other people feel or
try to make other people feel bad about themselves because
they're miserable.

Speaker 2 (40:00):
Like we ain't dealing with it.

Speaker 1 (40:01):
I always said, if I can go to your timeline
and I can name ten things you hate, but I
can't name ten things you love, you probably need to
do some real.

Speaker 2 (40:10):
On what you're focusing on.

Speaker 1 (40:12):
You know what I'm saying like, I can name too
artists you don't like, two content creators you don't like.
I can names you don't like, food you don't like,
but I can't say nothing that you do at this point.

Speaker 2 (40:25):
You know what I'm saying. You don't be having to
Oh it's just a blank, It just blank. It just
be blank page on private. That's what gets me.

Speaker 5 (40:40):
Yea.

Speaker 2 (40:41):
It was some girl that had commented on something.

Speaker 1 (40:43):
She was like, this is probably the stupidest podcast I've
ever seen, these dumb holes and she was just going
in I want to her page that she had a podcast.

Speaker 2 (40:52):
Oh of course she did.

Speaker 3 (40:52):
But it usually be that way, like they're usually trying
to get into the entertainment our media space when they criticizing.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
Right, if it was nice, if you're nice, the weak
ass topics, I could have helped you out, Bete, something interesting,

Speaker 3 (41:08):
And don't you have no personality because I think just still,
you know with the complement that Jamal.

Speaker 2 (41:12):
And I get a lot.

Speaker 3 (41:13):
And I can already tell from talking to y'all well
before the cameras started, wrong, is.

Speaker 2 (41:16):
That Oh you'll really act like that? Oh yeah, we
really DECI I was gonna.

Speaker 3 (41:20):
Say from even from people like you know, when you
see people you've grown up with or with college, I'll
be telling people.

Speaker 2 (41:25):
You really act like that, You've always been like that.

Speaker 3 (41:28):
And you know the idea that people have a personality online,
which I don't think there's anything wrong with like a persona,
but it's shit. You need to be able to maintain
it across all platforms exact, you know, absolutely. I think
for me, it's weird when you meet people in person
and they're nothing like they're online persona. Like it's a
little scary, like because I've met people where like online
they have so much to say, they so rod with

(41:49):
the sheets, and then you meet them in person and
they's so quiet and reserve, and it's like wow, So
you really just sit around like curating content all day.

Speaker 1 (41:58):
Oh, they don't be copying for somebody that you reposted
something that was like the best thing about somebody copying
off of you is they can't make a move until
you do. Yeah, so it's like they'll not be doing
anything because you ain't posted nothing yet.

Speaker 2 (42:11):
I agree, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, so do y'all.

Speaker 3 (42:15):
Ever, Like with all of the criticism and backlash that
I think we all get online. Does they ever make
y'all like shy away from giving your opinion on certain topics.

Speaker 2 (42:24):
I feel like y'all both gonna say no, but I
had to ask.

Speaker 3 (42:26):
I was, well, now that we're at the point where
we're we have a little belgimacy because this past year
we did south By Southwest, essence, we did the Urban League.
We're actually on things like poor minds now, So I
actually do have to be aware that y'all might.

Speaker 2 (42:46):
Y'all been legit.

Speaker 3 (42:49):
Now I'm more aware of let me watch what I say,
because I might fuck around and meet this person, I
might whatever whatever. But if it's something that I really believe,
you know, ethic, ethics wise, I'll speak on it. And
they always if they come up to me and say
why you say that? O, Well, I said it because
that's how I felt. Yeah, But I don't just be
you know, five years ago when I never thought that
this was gonna go this way talking out my ass.
So I'm like, I'm never gonna meet you. Like, I'm

(43:11):
so glad my old Twitter got deleted. Okay, you want
to Twitter? I said that was good. I don't really
like shy away from things. I've always been very like,
I know, I know what this is gonna do. Let
me think about who this is gonna impact. I've always
been very like cognizant of that.

Speaker 2 (43:27):
I think.

Speaker 3 (43:27):
More so, it's like, let me really think about the
purpose I'm saying this in, Like how does it relate
to my brand? How does it relate to anything? Like
am I adding anything of value? That's really more and so,
but it's not because of the people, because of me,
and like what I want to give out to the world,
Like some topics I just don't touch because it's like
I don't have nothing.

Speaker 2 (43:46):
I don't have nothing nice to say. Like I've had
so many people be like, Oh, I want you to
talk about this and talk about that. No you don't.

Speaker 3 (43:53):
You gonna like nothing I got to say about this.
I'm gonna just keep it to myself in that group chat.

Speaker 2 (43:57):
Yeah, it gets real.

Speaker 3 (43:58):
Good getting the chat ship as like our friend group,
the Super five. God, I'm really thankful for remember that. Yeah,
I'm really thankful for them because it has become such
an outlet where we can I don't have to say
anything crazy online because it's a group of creators.

Speaker 2 (44:14):
In this group chat. I'll be like, y'all see that
I don't have nothing nice to say exactly everything in
the chat, And y'all get why I'm not saying I'm
to explain, like what's going on?

Speaker 1 (44:23):
But who is in the Super five? Because I was
getting confused at first. You tell me we never knew
who exactly's because every time I would see a video
because Auntie like, I am not I'm on TikTok, but
I'm like, not, I don't be knowing what everybody is.

Speaker 3 (44:37):
I think that was like the funny part about it
is when that whole name was like started, nobody ever confirmed,
like the girl who said it, she never like listens
par five, and people were in the comments just throwing
their own daggers, like I think, cause this person this person.
So it's like, if if you're gonna add me in there,
I'm gonna just take it and run with it and
laugh because it's like, Okay, I guess I am like
miss Super five, but I mean graphic we created. It

(45:01):
was like people on the graphic. That was also always
a part of the joke. It was always so much
more than five.

Speaker 1 (45:07):
People, okay, because I was like, who the hell we
don't know who you want the super five to be. Okay,
that makes sense now because I was like, thik your members,
I can't find a super five.

Speaker 2 (45:19):
It's like we didn't create that. So it's like you did,
you know?

Speaker 3 (45:23):
The internet created this idea. So it's like, I don't
know whoever you wanted to be.

Speaker 2 (45:28):
Baby.

Speaker 3 (45:28):
If you want me to be the super five today,
I will as long as the check clears.

Speaker 1 (45:32):
I know that's right. I like that little TikTok check too.
I get to talk, and I started, yeah, I'll be on.

Speaker 3 (45:39):
I'd be trying to get on TikTok a little bit
more now, and I've been trying to do my little
one too. So now we're gonna get into topic number two,
which is really not a topic.

Speaker 2 (45:54):
It's more of a game.

Speaker 3 (45:55):
So we play would you rather creator a d and
so we're gonna y'all some questions and see what y'all think.

Speaker 2 (46:02):
So would you rather go viral for a hot take
or a wardrobe malfunction? Hot take? I was on the
hot take.

Speaker 3 (46:09):
We go vowel for hot takes all the time, and
that could be good or bad.

Speaker 2 (46:12):
Okay, a wardrobe malfunction can never be flipped as good
I feel like, and it'll die soon. It's like, like,
who cares after I feel like my titty falling out,
but now you just have seen the paint.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
Yeah, yeah, my titty always is out, like always always, I'm.

Speaker 3 (46:33):
A lady be out there, like, is that your areolar shadow?
That'd be probably I'm not gonna lie. I got breastfed.
I don't care who cares.

Speaker 2 (46:41):
It might you might see a little bit of nip.
Shout out to the people who always d m us
like your I'm.

Speaker 3 (46:46):
Like, baby, I don't know if you know this, but
that nipple out and I'm sorry, it's we all got
at this.

Speaker 2 (46:52):
One, bab I ain't taking it down.

Speaker 4 (46:53):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (46:55):
I just feel like there was.

Speaker 1 (46:56):
One video, one Poor Minds episode, and like my nipple
was out, and I mean it was so many people like,
oh my god, les, oh my god. I'm like, y'all,
it's a nipple like, it's nipple, like I understand, thank
you to me. It's like if I have a little
nip slip. It's just never been that serious.

Speaker 2 (47:12):
I know.

Speaker 1 (47:12):
It's because I used to work in the strip club,
so I see naked bodies all the time. I'm like
it's somebody.

Speaker 2 (47:19):
Yeah, okay, it's.

Speaker 3 (47:20):
Literally for me breast Like I've always been very kind
of like, don't look at me, don't look at me.
I'm not it's some shy, but something about being pregnant
and everybody looking at your open puss.

Speaker 2 (47:31):
Yeah, it changed.

Speaker 3 (47:33):
It's like, you know what, maybe this nipple being out
right now ain't that big of a deal. I used
to breastfeed in public, pas titty halfway out. I really
didn't give a damn. I was breastfeeding everywhere.

Speaker 2 (47:44):
You gotta do what you gotta do. I did not,
and I done busted that pussy open a few times.
I never got off the tailorport.

Speaker 1 (47:54):
You know what I'm saying, teport, Okay, would you rather
accidentally post a thirst trap to your family group chat
or on I g close friends.

Speaker 2 (48:05):
Close friends.

Speaker 3 (48:05):
I was gonna say yeah, because let's let's play. Yeah,
I mean our first trap. I would say, yeah, let's
say a news Okay, changed, close friends, close friends still, yes.

Speaker 2 (48:16):
Close friends still, because it's literally you want to hear
something from you. So when we were in college, I
was working with this dude and I had my iCloud
on my phone attached to my iPad at home.

Speaker 3 (48:28):
I left my iPad at home in California, MoMA and
my brother. So this boy sent me a video of
him and like, oh, listen, this is back. We were
just coming off of grinds on me. He was like
in some tight ass Ethica, tight boxers, on on hard
grinding on the sink. Sent that ship to me. All

(48:51):
of a sudden, my mama started calling me. So I'm
not thinking anything of it because I haven't put two
and two together. I answered the phone. It's my mom
and my brother. Now mind you. My mom's a lady
and my brother's in the back ground and she's like
in the front ship.

Speaker 2 (49:06):
They're in the car.

Speaker 3 (49:07):
They haven't even gone in the house. I don't even
know why they had the iPad in the car with them,
but she's like, Macca, what is going on? Is there
anything you need to tell me? And I'm like, what
are you talking about?

Speaker 2 (49:17):
They're just like that nigga grinding in the bathroom. I'm like,
how y'all see that?

Speaker 3 (49:24):
He like, nigga, your your eye clouds connected to the phone,
and so I was just like, yeah, I didn't think
that was cute.

Speaker 2 (49:31):
She like, I would hope not. No, I didn't.

Speaker 3 (49:35):
I didn't like I think I only like a certain
brand of dick pic I would. I do like a
nut video from time to time, me too, exactly. I
feel like when you're doing too much trying to position
the member. Now we're doing too much choreographing the number,
like when you're laying it on the sink.

Speaker 2 (49:56):
Don't like that, Okay, I don't like to see their
feet and why are you dancing? I think I don't
like it? Then yeah, yeah, let's slang troky. Just let it.

Speaker 3 (50:10):
Julni cloted my nudes one time and it was so stupid.
It wasn't even a full nude. This was I was
literally in high school. Shouldn't even been doing it. I
didn't know there was a feature for like your iPhone
to connect like multiple numbers. First of all, Johnnie as
slick as fun, my little brother. He had that ship
for a couple of weeks and was reading messages. Didn't
say ship until I posted up in my pants. So
I'm in the in the mirror just with my panties

(50:33):
was big.

Speaker 2 (50:33):
Yeah, I ain't had no thumb back period.

Speaker 3 (50:38):
It's gonna fuck them up though, And so I kind
of wrote the panties to the side a little bit
to make it look like a little little yeah, and
you know it did. I didn't have titties back then,
so I you know, you had to hit yeah. I
mean the polls was achromatic. I don't even that, Nigga responded,
but I did send that picture. Next thing I know,
Johnie comes in. I think there's a problem. I'm like, wow,

(51:01):
I don't know what I did. But Nigga, you've been
reading my message.

Speaker 2 (51:06):
He said it too. I said, I kept it that
goddamn phone. I did too much.

Speaker 3 (51:13):
I was embarrassed, but I was like, oh my god,
Like that's when I was real thirsty for the boys,
old baby.

Speaker 2 (51:19):
I wanted every last one of them in high school
a good nude when you wasn't you know how when
you were in high school and it was just like
you were overly horny. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (51:28):
I remember one time I walked in on my brother
jacking off.

Speaker 2 (51:30):
And it was like, oh, my.

Speaker 3 (51:34):
Disturbing And the part that has disturbed me to this day.
When I walked in, he didn't stop. He said, you supposed.

Speaker 2 (51:46):
Hold on the fact that you kept it going. Gotta die.
Way got to see it. Nigga I was almost.

Speaker 6 (52:02):
No.

Speaker 3 (52:05):
Like to this day, I be you know back, Oh
my god, I like and I'm just like, you're so
crazy for like, why would you keep going?

Speaker 2 (52:16):
Like he said, what y'all? Well, I had to get
it done almost, I mean, horniness.

Speaker 3 (52:21):
In high school was on a different little I discovered
the tub fassy limited. I wish I could get that
virginity back. Sometimes I feel like that virginity coat. You
don't it beat it differently used to get in that
pan virginity. I'm like, wait a minute, just stand there
and feel good, you know what I mean. I was
standing there like, yeah, everybody.

Speaker 2 (52:47):
Be sitting there squeezing. Wait a minute, Charlie, wheeze, I
wait for new boys to come.

Speaker 3 (52:56):
I'm telling you that it was different. Now you got
to do list and combo and just giving that virginity back. Yeah,
I don't even want to be touched no more. I
used to just stand there and stare like I used to,
I told Cave on stage. You know, I used to
make love to the wall back in my day.

Speaker 2 (53:12):
Love to the wall.

Speaker 3 (53:14):
You know, this is before I had a man. I
was just fantasized, so I just create characters on the wall.
I'd be like, this is Chris Brown, and I'm giving
him the business on that wall I was making up
with my wall, just you know, on the wall, and
I would hug myself and grab that ass in the
back and just you apet you a CuPy, and I
just I had several men's in high school from that alone.
I have several mens. I was anybody I wanted.

Speaker 2 (53:35):
Well, you know now they do the AI thing I
didn't need.

Speaker 3 (53:39):
And the way I didn't need that in high school,
bitch got imagination.

Speaker 2 (53:43):
My imagination was amazing. What is that? What it's a
name for it?

Speaker 3 (53:46):
When you can't think of like the scenarios and you
see the pictures in your head.

Speaker 2 (53:49):
Oh no, I'll do that. What is that spatial synesthesia? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (53:53):
I was.

Speaker 2 (53:53):
My man was a little fizz usher and I used
to be like, okay, I'm going to sleep yeah.

Speaker 1 (54:00):
Him, Like I used to always do that. I used
to have like this imagination. I used to make this
story over like Nelly, like ride through my neighborhood. His
tour bruss broke down. He had like come to my
house and like, oh, I'm gonna wait here for my
bus to get fixed.

Speaker 2 (54:13):
And we would just make sweet love and was fine
fine now, oh my gosh, I used to be obsessed
with Nelly.

Speaker 3 (54:25):
Being obsessed with Nelly made sense, like sometimes people say
who they was obsessed with to be like, I don't
see it.

Speaker 2 (54:29):
Like fool professor Ogilvie. I've never heard somebody said it.
It must have been you.

Speaker 4 (54:39):
You, It needs to be cup.

Speaker 3 (54:47):
He used to actually always pissed me because I'm like,
you're really not even at sea for Nicky.

Speaker 2 (54:52):
He used to be doing her bad. I love that episode.
But Nikki Paker don't love you. I said, yes, fine
him on a series finalite, but that she married before him.
He was the one that was real fine.

Speaker 3 (55:06):
He was he was.

Speaker 2 (55:10):
You had his hair twist I hated them two thousand twisties.
They were like caterpillars. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (55:19):
I didn't like though.

Speaker 2 (55:21):
Their call.

Speaker 3 (55:23):
I remember, you know, when TikTok were trying to make
you seem problematic. I said one time, I can't commit
to a man who wants to do starter locks because
it's just too much commitment. They were like, it's just textures, textures,
Because I said, I I prefer low cutties and with
the deep waves. And I said, well, hold one first
of all I have talking with myself.

Speaker 2 (55:39):
This is but secondly, people with a lot of texture
hair can't they weighed and it was too wet.

Speaker 4 (55:49):
For a texture to have a good.

Speaker 2 (55:53):
I hate when like looser text that they take off
it off, like it off.

Speaker 3 (56:01):
You just wasted everybody time, just wasted everybody. And when
y'all get locked, it looks a mess. Yes, the styles
all meant for black people. Mort A Rican boys just
need ponytails, you know they do. They need a little
sleep when they be shaving.

Speaker 4 (56:15):
The size.

Speaker 3 (56:19):
That little what and wavy like you got the shower.
That's what true, that's where you live. But you remember
that trend and it was just.

Speaker 2 (56:27):
Like the black girlfriend efects and it was like a
white man got a bus because they got like, come on, Daniel,
I said, you don't need a nigga. You feel like Landria.
I don't know though, because I like a white man
with a bususe.

Speaker 4 (56:42):
That old school just.

Speaker 2 (56:44):
I think that I the bus.

Speaker 1 (56:46):
I meant to say, like a fade though, like that
man that that Tamar used today.

Speaker 2 (56:51):
He has a fan like Chravis Kelsey when he was
dating Taylor.

Speaker 3 (56:55):
Yeah like that, Yeah, I feel like that, like they'll
trick because you you think that's wigga. As soon as
he grow that hair out, he's back to a Caucasian
man looking like you gotta pick up.

Speaker 2 (57:07):
See how they got you. Yeah, and they're gonna age differently, and.

Speaker 3 (57:12):
It's over if they that beer immediately, police, that is
not that is not the white man I fell in love.

Speaker 2 (57:19):
I be damned if he shaved that beer with me. Oh,
now you know that's what I'm saying. I need to
see like you know how many like I need to
see you without the makeup. Yeah, that's fine, I need
to see you without that beer. Yes, you're looking a
bit different, a lot different at the beer.

Speaker 3 (57:35):
I don't even like to. I used to be into
like the whole beer, but it's just no, let me
just see what you look like.

Speaker 2 (57:42):
A little of something small. I'm like a little who
I like, Yeah, I love, I mean yes, but.

Speaker 1 (57:48):
I'm more so into like a clean cut just a
little yeah. I think I like flavor right there, Yeah, flavors. Yeah,
you see, the whole beer be a flavor sable.

Speaker 2 (57:59):
It can't be for something. I need that bear. I
can't see what they face looked like for real, but
you but that's why you gotta know what. I don't
ask the pictures like. I was like, let me show
you what would you like look like in middle school?
And then I sent them a sub picture.

Speaker 3 (58:17):
That was the first time to see everybody. I was
something abou middle school that that twelve to thirteen. The
face big in different ways, teeth big, I don't like.
I was just you gotta throw in.

Speaker 2 (58:31):
I had, I had told you then under Bike, yeah,
I have bracelest for five years. Underbyke is severe. I
had a gap and a gap. I had that too,
Yeah I had. But underbody is crazy. Everybody is a
little crazy like that in the pictures.

Speaker 3 (58:45):
My mom just think I was doing it on purpose.
It's like your bottom lip looked big because I'm smiling
like that.

Speaker 2 (58:51):
I'm not doing it on purpose. Middle school was a
time I think we were so cute and wrong. That
was a little dropped lollipop. I thought I was so
grown used to be in the teen parties. I was in.

Speaker 3 (59:08):
That's when take You Down came out ip.

Speaker 2 (59:11):
Because yeah, I was in.

Speaker 1 (59:15):
Yeah, you were still in college and I was, I
mean in high school. I was in college because I
graduated that was seven, so I was college from high school.
I graduated two thousand.

Speaker 2 (59:24):
You was you was in high school. College is a
really good time though, you was big crime.

Speaker 1 (59:30):
We wanted to be grown in my white tea. Yeah,
I was having a time in the club. I went
to a white school, but she was still the parties.

Speaker 2 (59:41):
You know.

Speaker 1 (59:42):
It was like okay, So my like last year of
high school, that's when I started making like black friends.

Speaker 2 (59:46):
I started getting yeah, like I was listening what was
that one Elliott baby?

Speaker 7 (59:55):
Yeah, I used to have head yeah yeah yeah, So
like my high school, like my senior year, that's when
I started, you know, getting a little flavor.

Speaker 2 (01:00:08):
Started with a boy. Yeah, don't get me. That's when I.

Speaker 1 (01:00:14):
Started getting a little you know. But all the years
before that, I was definitely like my white Yes, she
was like Jess.

Speaker 2 (01:00:22):
I was gonna say my sister had a white face. Oh.
It wasn't a phase, it was a lifestyle. I had
to get her up out of there though.

Speaker 3 (01:00:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:00:28):
I was like, I'm disturbed and I rap here some bitch.
I think it's for me though. It was just how
I was raised.

Speaker 1 (01:00:34):
Because I'm still friends with all my friends from high
school till this day. You know what I'm saying, Like
we still talk all the time. It was just that's
what my life was, you know what I'm saying. It
wasn't like I moved there and I was trying to
fit in. These are the people I literally grew up around,
you know what I mean. So it was never like awkward.
We're now as an adult looking back, like, when I
have children, I'm definitely gonna make sure they're in a

(01:00:54):
more mixed environment where it's not just heavy.

Speaker 2 (01:00:56):
On one side from Huh, where are you from, Orange, Texas? Allie, Yes, Beaumont,
My Beaumont Queen is very Oh yeah, where you graduated from.
In high school? I went to high school in Georgia. Oh,
my sister went to Ozan.

Speaker 1 (01:01:16):
They was very good at volleyball, could jump, Yes, but yes,
Osan was like a predominantly black school.

Speaker 3 (01:01:24):
Westbrook was more of like the mixed school. Central was
black as hell. You know, they combined them to the
Central and uh, Ozan is united.

Speaker 2 (01:01:38):
Niggas. I said, all right, now, I know that they
did that. Yes, that's insane.

Speaker 3 (01:01:43):
That's honestly probably one of the only things that have changed,
because every time I go to them, I'm like, this
looks the exact same as I lived here Lamar.

Speaker 2 (01:01:51):
I used to love Lamar College. We used to go
down there for.

Speaker 1 (01:01:54):
The port at Lamar and Beaumont were like t like
if you had a during the time I was in
college that went to Lamar and Baumin like you were
that girl, Like, oh my god, you d't him. I
remember my friend was dating Kappa and I just like,
and he had money too.

Speaker 2 (01:02:13):
Oh no, that's right. I said, Oh you got you
a good one girl. You know he came a Kappa
came to me last night because when I was in
my early twenties.

Speaker 3 (01:02:24):
That was one of my first viol videos where I
was like, I don't send happy Birthday text, I don't
send a Thanksgiving, but I will wish you Happy Founders
Day on J five. Mind you, that video has to
be like four or five years old. They won't let
it die to the point where I reput it out
last year because they kept uploading it and it was
like so pixelated. It was like bad, Like that's how
old it is. It's like, let me just go ahead,

(01:02:45):
since sh ain't gonna give you shot on the flip phone.
It was on an old I found him. I'm two
phones away from that phone. Serry pearl.

Speaker 2 (01:02:56):
Let it go.

Speaker 3 (01:02:58):
That is such a thri I haven't heard those words.
And back in the day, if you was not a
if you didn't have bb a messenger, you was not know.
My parents are like that was just too that damn ground.
Damn I had me that raisor though I had a
palm well it was a fake gass BlackBerry.

Speaker 2 (01:03:18):
Okay, had a ink palm pile. And Mama got me
have a sidekick to you had all the I'm not.

Speaker 3 (01:03:27):
Yeah, they don't let us get phones TOI late anyways,
They was like, yeah, it's gonna be the one that
we can look at.

Speaker 2 (01:03:32):
I don't like all that flipping twisting.

Speaker 6 (01:03:36):
It is.

Speaker 2 (01:03:36):
And I'm like, well, I want what the girls have.

Speaker 3 (01:03:41):
Little to like wear your phone on the lanyard. I
was so old, you know you want to get on
the lanyard we had I know y'all have Cascade out here,
but in California Sacramental we had cal Skate, which was like,
we want.

Speaker 2 (01:03:56):
To be roll bounds.

Speaker 3 (01:03:57):
I want to be Okay, what's it at l When
I said you had your phone on your neck with
that lot of pacifier, I love pacify me. I wouldn't
wait to get grown. My cousin had that belt that
had her.

Speaker 4 (01:04:12):
Aim names on the process.

Speaker 3 (01:04:14):
My sister had one it said it said little JJ right,
but we both got James.

Speaker 2 (01:04:19):
I used to steal it and just wear my bitch,
we both James, Yeah, both a little They get off
the fabulous to all your birthday immediately. Yeah you are
so get.

Speaker 3 (01:04:38):
Get off fabul sports and a Yahoo dot Com oge.
My email was they Envy Mecca and my college professor
to professor Butler said that changed change first the last
name the first.

Speaker 1 (01:04:52):
Time of maturity, when you change your email and all
your names, like your real yeah it name because ghetto
fabulous for too two Like see yeah, you're going to
take like a fire.

Speaker 2 (01:05:11):
Ass picture and put that as the caption ghetto fabulous sports.

Speaker 5 (01:05:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:05:15):
I think for my thirty fifth birthday, I'm gonna have
like a little ghetto party. I just like a yettow
pick like that will be all fun and everybody who
wear like the little name or yeah year my birthday.
I always do like costume parties because my favorite Hallow
holiday is Halloween. Is my favorite holiday is Halloween, so
I always do costume parties. This year it was early

(01:05:36):
twenty ten, so we all just like we did in
high school. I had the double Cammy had me a
little vest, little infinity spot.

Speaker 1 (01:05:42):
I don't know, that's right, my realty glasses. The double
kiddy was I need to have an emo party from.

Speaker 2 (01:05:49):
Like the theme parties are so much fun. I Halloween, baby,
I can't wait to give them to this Halloween. Yeah,
I get it. I love Halloween.

Speaker 3 (01:05:57):
I was the way y'all have see. I was like
the way here needs to see me be her because
I was her last year wife. Yes I did. Oh
and I did a moment what was the other song?
Goodies or something? And she needs to see I was
giving her the business.

Speaker 2 (01:06:14):
I was in my room. Do you do y'all know
that they banned that too from like videos got And
she wasn't even in no crazy clothes. She was just Yeah,
she was just pumping at the flow. And I learned
it and I was grinding.

Speaker 1 (01:06:29):
She was that's a fine, beautiful lady. And like she's
just so like when you talk about people who have
that it factor. I don't nobody knows what it is,
but she has like it's like she floats when she
walks and talks.

Speaker 2 (01:06:45):
It's just very like I love it. I think definitely heavy. Yeah, yeah,
y'all we ain't even finished playing the game.

Speaker 4 (01:06:52):
Damn, y'all chat a way.

Speaker 2 (01:06:56):
Okay, you want to do one more, dre or we
won't move on what you want to do? We could
do one more. Okay, let's do one more. You pick one. Hmmm.
Would you rather only go viral when you ugly or
never go viral unless you crying? Oh? I don't like
crying on camera. I don't either like vulnerability.

Speaker 3 (01:07:19):
It's something by sitting it camera up and being like, okay,
you know it's too much for me, no shock.

Speaker 5 (01:07:24):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:07:24):
I'll say this because we cried on the show before,
but it was on accident. When Melissa Foe came. We
were talking about like our parents and stuff like, I
feel like that. I don't if you were like having
a conversation and you end up crying that yeah, versus
being like you.

Speaker 2 (01:07:40):
In the camera and you just like yeah, yeah, actually
I don't believe it.

Speaker 7 (01:07:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:07:46):
Like I've seen somebody like be on live and they
were like having a good time, then they bring up
something and then they might you know, they be like, oh,
you know, that's okay.

Speaker 2 (01:07:55):
But if you're just like you set up the camera, cried.

Speaker 3 (01:07:57):
On the podcast, we were talking about our goal manifestations
and her parents. I was, I was, I let a
little tear drop, Yeah, little little beyond just a little
d But you know, I have gone viral a couple
of times looking the hot ass. Well actually i've been.

Speaker 2 (01:08:13):
But it don't never be given ugly and you know what,
but I did look a hot mess, so I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:08:20):
I mean, I got on making videos at nighttime in
my bed and my bonnet.

Speaker 2 (01:08:23):
My I like when people come up to me like,
your's actually so ready? Yeah, why don't know? But I
wasn't when I first she is so tiny, very they'd
be thinking I'm Megan Stallion, Yeah ward player. I'm like, yes,
she is, well I thought you were tall. Next, yeah

(01:08:45):
she is. So I was like, oh my god. Because
the first time I made it was at the Tribal Queen's.

Speaker 4 (01:08:49):
Yeah, she.

Speaker 2 (01:08:55):
Put on a little cos every short man will always
talk to Jamila because they be like that. That's mean.
Do you like short men? Though? They be tall to me?
So it don't matter.

Speaker 3 (01:09:08):
You know now that there's a there's like a certain
levels like above five five they be cool.

Speaker 2 (01:09:13):
Somebody that five five men, they're very.

Speaker 4 (01:09:15):
Mean, very mean.

Speaker 2 (01:09:17):
But after five five, I don't mind because you're still
tall to me. Yeah real, But like what said he said,
I'm five to ten, I'm standing on y'a.

Speaker 3 (01:09:26):
Said, well, I don't know, sir, and I don't know
about that. But I mean I've dated, like, I've dated
some really tall men too, and it's like, I don't know.
I didn't have no, I don't have no business doing that,
but well you do don't, so.

Speaker 2 (01:09:45):
Let me tell you.

Speaker 3 (01:09:46):
When I'm in college, I tried to date a six
nine boy and in business that was stupid. I said,
we need to leave these tall, these really tall men
to the really tall girls. Yeah, trying to contort and
get yourself in position in bed. I said, this is
I leave them because now you hunched over, you catch
a cramp.

Speaker 2 (01:10:03):
I can't even reach up that time. Now, I will say,
seeing a tall man like hunched over, like it's ugly.
Now it's like crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:10:11):
I typically don't really like to talk to anybody above
like six too. Okay, but yeah, there comes a point
in time where if you want it so bad.

Speaker 2 (01:10:19):
I'm gonna have to give it to you can have
it thrown off that busy. It's a black owned.

Speaker 3 (01:10:27):
It just do look crazy, like okay, like you're a
whole person taller than me. But you know what I'm saying,
it just have to be with it.

Speaker 2 (01:10:34):
I don't know. I like a little six too. I
think that's a good believe like six two. It's tall,
but it's not like when I'm talking about like six
five and up. You got to leave that for the
stallions of the world. That one I'm gonna throw. Yeah,
I ain't gonna get the next to tall for me.

Speaker 1 (01:10:53):
Yeah, and when I put my heels on, I'm like
six foot six one depending on the height of my heel.
And I love a platform hell too. Like, yeah, I'm
always gonna wear a platform. Hell So when I put
all my six in chills on that, like you know,
I'm six to one, give it to me.

Speaker 2 (01:11:09):
Y'all don't know what to do. You know what I'm saying,
I believe that that. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:11:15):
Okay, So now it's time to get into the out
the b bow about bow. Well, this is an easy
transition because we've been already talking about we have getting
freaky Okay, So for the bed today, we're gonna talk
about are we really that freaky or are we just
like following trends because nowadays, like sex talk on the

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internet is just like very free, like everybody talks about sex,
and it used to be like a taboo thing.

Speaker 2 (01:11:44):
You know what I'm saying. But do we feel now
like people are being performative? But let me tell you why.

Speaker 1 (01:11:51):
So there was a video and I don't mean to
bring up because she has changed her lifestyle, but there's
a video a long time ago that came out of
Black China, you know, giving filatio. And when I tell y'all,
the Headhunters came out like that's it. Yeah, because I
remember that.

Speaker 2 (01:12:06):
Yeah, it was like the Headhunters came out. It was
when I because when I give her yeah you know, yeah,
I mean that that lady who was doing like the
Great Heads. Yes that's me. I'm okay with that because
you're teaching, you're making money. That's a job. Talking about

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the girls that just be like, my pussy is so good.
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:12:32):
When I get up off of a letter couch, you
can't sit behind me. Yeah there, yes, it's like okay.

Speaker 3 (01:12:38):
Girl, Yes that song by Plies, what why was we
listening to that in elementary and.

Speaker 2 (01:13:00):
Came on she got up pretty little. Let me tell
you exactly what we're gonna talk about right now, get
to it. It was the way the track came on.
Why would you kick it off.

Speaker 3 (01:13:15):
The warmer, it's the subject, Ohn dry the lead with
this one child, No need to wonder.

Speaker 2 (01:13:22):
What we're about to talk about. She got a pretty
I never realized that. I just thought about how the
track came on.

Speaker 1 (01:13:31):
You know, I do think that now, like when people
talk about sex is very performative. Like I think it's
okay to have sex discussions and be open with it,
but like, why are you telling us how good like
especially with men too, how good you eat pussy?

Speaker 2 (01:13:45):
Or I don't believe you you know what I'm saying,
or how good Joe stroke was? I Well, we talked about.

Speaker 1 (01:13:52):
There was an episode where we talked about how like women,
like a high percentage of women don't have orgasms during sex.

Speaker 2 (01:13:59):
It was so many men in the comments and like
that number every time and everything.

Speaker 1 (01:14:03):
It just be little do you know, nigga, baby, nigga,
you have no idea, No man, I'm telling you you
would never know. But I think it's just like everybody
just thinks that their sex is great, and I also
think that like sex can be great with one person
and it may be horrible with the eggs. So I

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truly think that people are not as freaking. Some people
really are freaking now.

Speaker 3 (01:14:30):
Yes, now, and then those type of people kind of
scare me, like, wait a minute, now is it?

Speaker 2 (01:14:35):
I don't think I've never heard of that. Yeah, I
don't think I want to do that.

Speaker 3 (01:14:38):
I think when you start getting into like the Kinks,
that's when you realize. I like to call myself like
an old school freak, like you know, back when Adina Howard,
like it was scandalous to stuff like I'm gonna do
some ship in bed, but I'm not.

Speaker 1 (01:14:51):
Gonna all the all the things things like much. But
I also feel like, what is your end goal with this?
Like when we see like a misbe now or Janie,
I'm like, I understand that, get your brand, and that's
your job. You're the performer, you're doing that. But if
you're just like, before you go to work for your

(01:15:11):
nine to five in the car, why.

Speaker 2 (01:15:14):
Are you doing this? Why are you mailing pool? They
be doing that too, But I'm just I just feel like,
but even just how do you preserve the do I
don't you know. I don't know. I don't know. If
they use ice bag.

Speaker 1 (01:15:29):
Ooh icet ice hot ice, you can dehydrated.

Speaker 2 (01:15:34):
I don't think they dehydrated. I think they wanted to
still be juicy. Oh my god, but god on today got.

Speaker 3 (01:15:46):
I think they like juicy, Like the poop means like this,
you like, girl, I'm telling you because people.

Speaker 4 (01:15:53):
Don't wrote us.

Speaker 3 (01:15:54):
Remember that man was writing, he asking, and then he
told me how to leave the sample. He taught me see,
people like that need to be put down and j
and we blocked him immediately.

Speaker 2 (01:16:05):
But I saw how he got. I'm not talking about it.
I'm gonna use it. I'm talking about though, the.

Speaker 1 (01:16:15):
Men and the women who just get like on Twitter
on TikTok, Like there was this video that I saw
on TikTok and this man was playing the song in
the background. He just started like flicking his tongue really
really fast.

Speaker 3 (01:16:25):
I've seen those and I'm like, what are you? What
is that's only attracted to fifty year old ladies who
don't get dick?

Speaker 2 (01:16:31):
Are you? Okay?

Speaker 1 (01:16:32):
But even so too it'll be like a man like
there's this guy he's like a nurse or a doctor.
I don't know what he is, but he's just always
like in his scrubs.

Speaker 2 (01:16:41):
And he's just like.

Speaker 3 (01:16:48):
The comments though, you're so beautiful, the comments. I'd be
like sisters enough, I just cannot.

Speaker 2 (01:16:56):
I'd be so ship god, grip, get a fucking grip,
Like you cannot be embarrass me in the kinds like
y'all just y'all. Criminally. Yeah, some stuff just don't even
turn me on, Like that wouldn't turn me on if
I seen the men doing it.

Speaker 3 (01:17:09):
I feel like I'm more turned on by like sexual attention. Yeah,
ship could never turn me on.

Speaker 2 (01:17:14):
Yeah, I have to. You have have to be interpersonal like.

Speaker 3 (01:17:17):
And not like overly because I've said this before too,
Like if you're talking to a guy and they like
immediately bring up something sex related like out of context,
it's like, uh, hey, yeah, what happened to Hey?

Speaker 2 (01:17:29):
How are you?

Speaker 3 (01:17:30):
You know what I'm saying, Like we know we're gonna
get that, don't get don't you ain't even got to
do too much play. Not to say I'm easy, but
you know, well I'm not hard. So it's like you
know what I'm saying, Like we could just be cool
and like if the chemistry is there's gonna get there.
Like you automatically bringing up sex and being like, oh,
the sexual it's like you're a sexual deviance and you're

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scaring me.

Speaker 2 (01:17:51):
Yeah, you're scaring and you do this all the time.
It's not exclusive to me.

Speaker 1 (01:17:57):
So we were talking about like stuff getting posted on
Twitter and like how Twitter is like a porn side.
Do y'all feel like that's like desensitized us so little.

Speaker 3 (01:18:06):
Me, yeah, because honestly I think that, I mean, not
on no freaking ship, but like I am mutuals on Twitter,
specifically with a lot of porn stars, because something I
found is they don't put that content on TikTok, but
porn stars be funny as in real life.

Speaker 2 (01:18:21):
It's not hilarious and larious and go help that big,
you know.

Speaker 3 (01:18:33):
So it's hilarious when they follow me on a certain platform,
I follow back because like I'm already familiar with your
content and I already know you do this, so it's
like whatever, But like like I said, would be nasty
and raheem, okay, well just.

Speaker 2 (01:18:49):
What it is.

Speaker 1 (01:18:50):
And it's so crazy because even with Janie, like I
was a little bit familiar with her content, but not
like that.

Speaker 2 (01:18:55):
So when she came on, like, oh my gosh, this'
bitch is so cool. I love her. So of course
I started following her and I was like, oh wait,
dam on her for that reason.

Speaker 3 (01:19:09):
Then I found out she was funny, like you'd be
having some bookmarks.

Speaker 2 (01:19:14):
Yes, she just said you can't get you can't, so
I heard.

Speaker 3 (01:19:22):
I can't confirm in Texas, you can't get it confirmed confirm.

Speaker 1 (01:19:26):
But yeah, I just feel like, honestly, unless that is
your job or you know, we're talking about like you know,
if you have a podcast and we're talking about sex
top right, you.

Speaker 2 (01:19:37):
Know, but I don't I think being on the internet
and being like, oh I can do this, I can.
I'm the best you ever. Let's relax on that. Okay,
let's just let's just chill a little bit.

Speaker 3 (01:19:47):
Yeah, it's like a competition, like and I be so
confused because it's like, hey, we all got a baby, yeah,
like we do, we got it.

Speaker 2 (01:19:57):
We got it on the student now and it's like,
what do you want me to do to disprove you?
Put my put in and that I can do that?

Speaker 1 (01:20:03):
But yeah, all yeah, come, oh my god, you all
know that you used to have something called dick yeo
lay yeah, and the girls would write in but I
need to read that, but didn't know it's real good.

Speaker 2 (01:20:19):
This girl know her name shot she started.

Speaker 1 (01:20:22):
It was called dick yo and the girls used to
write in about the men that they were having sex with.

Speaker 5 (01:20:26):
It was.

Speaker 2 (01:20:29):
All right, we're going on. So now it's time to
get into the bout bow bow about. We love a
little thing, can I you know we millennials. Yeah, that
boot just gave y'all some head.

Speaker 1 (01:20:52):
We get into and shout out the Taylor Port. Okay,
So Bob of the Week is just like whatever music.
You know that we've been jamming this week, everything that
we've been listening to. D do you want to start?
Because you were talking about the Metro. We just talked
about Metro.

Speaker 2 (01:21:08):
I was just talking about it. Yes, y'all, I love
this Metro.

Speaker 3 (01:21:12):
You mean you it's the Tailor Metro booming futuristic summer album.
It's so good, like I feel like it's so nostalgic.
I was literally just listening to it on the way here.
I haven't sawd me say that this is said, this said.
This album is for if you were not only cranking
that soldier boy cranking yan yep, crank like all the crank.

Speaker 2 (01:21:32):
That now shootout a crank shootout, he like that, Like
if you what was on YouTube learning every damn if
you was hitting the corn. Yeah, was a time. He's
a little strange now the boy. I said, No, he's
very wrong. Yeah, baby, you know we're gonna throw prayers. Yeah,

(01:22:02):
falling soldier. Okay, So what's your okay? Because I haven't
listened to it yet, So take me through.

Speaker 3 (01:22:07):
There is a good song I screenshot in my face,
drip Barbecue.

Speaker 2 (01:22:12):
What is drip Barbecue? That's the name of the song.
Oh oh, I thought that was the name of rapping.
Now it's like walk a flock of metro boom and
it's some more.

Speaker 4 (01:22:21):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:22:22):
Hey, you know, I don't do the I don't mimer.

Speaker 3 (01:22:27):
He had everybody on there from like that era, even
though I think he Native American. You know what I'm saying,
You know what say he ain't. He said, I'm the
Native American. Shut your black ass up? Do be saying
you little line? I said, I to me to It's
when I got everybody on there walking Roscoe Dad.

Speaker 2 (01:22:55):
Good too. That's why I don't know if.

Speaker 3 (01:23:00):
Gen Z and gen Z was at first saying this
don't sound like they were making a little okay, and
then the Millennias were like, it's not for you, it's not.

Speaker 2 (01:23:11):
It's what we were just talking about, the little JJ.
I'm not gonna lie. I think our generation is like
the best generation of people.

Speaker 1 (01:23:19):
Like we had the balance of social media and life
before social media, like we was outside.

Speaker 2 (01:23:26):
We said that all the time.

Speaker 3 (01:23:27):
That time, like we got to experience both, and it's
just like we we just got so much good stuff.

Speaker 2 (01:23:33):
Like I love our time here, like it's the best.

Speaker 1 (01:23:36):
It's really good because I feel like we know how
to take advantage of the internet. Yeah, still make our
money online, but we still know we got to touch grass,
like how to take a break.

Speaker 2 (01:23:45):
Yeah, truly.

Speaker 3 (01:23:46):
Remember when Toley Credit tweeted, you can't believe me, nigga,
I'm gonna turn my phone off.

Speaker 2 (01:23:51):
Like that's true.

Speaker 3 (01:23:51):
I feel like that encapsulates our generation because again, when
you're talking about should getting to the neck on the internet,
I'm like on turning my phone off.

Speaker 2 (01:23:59):
Yeah, I'm gonna get on this big you know.

Speaker 3 (01:24:03):
And even when we were in college, like from what
we were twenty fourteen, twenty eighteen, it's still not how
it is now.

Speaker 2 (01:24:09):
We had snapchat. Yeah, it was like, don't don't be seen.

Speaker 3 (01:24:12):
There's so much from college years that I couldn't even
show you because it was never document.

Speaker 2 (01:24:17):
It was never It exists only now with my memory. Yeah,
you are the visuals. Yeah, to be literally, what y'all
been listening to? What's y'all for the week? Baby?

Speaker 3 (01:24:26):
I've been listening to k one her Little Fine stood Ass.
The album is sall Now it's what is an album?
So that I forgot what the album is called.

Speaker 2 (01:24:38):
Her name is k one?

Speaker 3 (01:24:39):
One is kwn Okay, Yeah, she's a biracial Nigerian from London.
Stud a lot of red people talking about Yes, that's
a good time for that reason exactly. But it's a
really good album. She got k lying on their flow.
It's it's a real good album.

Speaker 1 (01:24:58):
Okay, I'm gonna check it out because you're like the
four or fifth person that I've seen and I keep
seeing it on my timeline, but I'm like, I haven't
really checked it out.

Speaker 2 (01:25:05):
It's good. It's a it's a good record, all right.

Speaker 3 (01:25:08):
I was gonna say she's gonna get a Grammy off
that because she gonna get that Grammy this time around.

Speaker 2 (01:25:16):
She's gonna get it on the couch tattoos.

Speaker 3 (01:25:22):
Got I have a couple Klan. I was definitely gonna
say folded. I like the new Sweet song both of
them that okay, you like that, and then one thing
about it when Drake put on that badge and make
an accent.

Speaker 2 (01:25:36):
I ain't know he walked on when all the girls
on the I can't be it's but we love it,
and it's just the fact that it's like that's a
bad accent. But when I hear it, I said, this
is a hit that have we got a Nigerian Drake
yet No, I don't not hit that a little afrobeat.

(01:25:58):
He didn't that I haven't heard of. I don't thing
the song with wiz Kid, but he didn't get that.
Chris Brown be doing more of the yeah before before.

Speaker 3 (01:26:15):
Yeah her every reason the veto I feel like, well
he did the song with wiz Kids accent, he didn't
do the accents an accent. Actually quite recent because I
had made a video on TikTok like saying what I
said when Drake hit that badger making accent and the
Canadians were like, that's just the Toronto accent, and the
Jamaicans were laughing. So I was like, are y'all admitting

(01:26:35):
that the Canadian accent or the Toronto accent is just
the badger making accent basically.

Speaker 2 (01:26:39):
I mean, because you know, Baltimore niggas sound like they British.
You know Baltimore.

Speaker 3 (01:26:46):
I was on the mother YouTube you trying to find
the Blues clean.

Speaker 2 (01:26:50):
Yes, you know that, don't go back. Only lady who
ever ate Nikki up.

Speaker 3 (01:26:53):
That's the only person who ever in the dark in Baltimore,
Maryland in the coute.

Speaker 2 (01:26:59):
She was like, yeah, that was.

Speaker 3 (01:27:02):
Yahtih ain't gonna lie, but nobody has.

Speaker 2 (01:27:07):
Please you're out there. I don't know if I feel
like that sounds British.

Speaker 1 (01:27:15):
So it does sound British, dummy, Yeah, dumb, it sounds
a little British. It definitely gets like it's certain times
when like when Irish people say certain things, sometimes it
gives a.

Speaker 2 (01:27:31):
Little Jamaic and I'm like, what the hell, But that's
where it came from.

Speaker 3 (01:27:35):
I was like, and history is Jamaican dialect actually like
originated from.

Speaker 2 (01:27:40):
An Irish aga.

Speaker 4 (01:27:41):
Yes.

Speaker 2 (01:27:42):
During the pandemic, I was on somebody page and it
was a dialect page. And the lady literally.

Speaker 3 (01:27:47):
Started and then went down to the cage a little
and she did what I just like she did, and
she she was reading the history of my everyone's acting.

Speaker 2 (01:27:55):
I was like, this is so interesting because history. I'm
from California.

Speaker 3 (01:28:00):
During the nineteen forties, you have the great migration of
black people from like the Deep South, so you have
a lot of Mississippi, Alabama, Louisiana. And if you hear
like e forty talk how we talk out here, but
it's California now, But you can when you know the history,
you're like, oh.

Speaker 2 (01:28:14):
But I do hear that southern drawling.

Speaker 3 (01:28:20):
But you know what I always say to me, people
from California and people from Detroit, Michigan. Yes I love
the baby, Yeah I love but the same reason because
Detroit and that industrial boom. Yeah the Midwest. Yeah yeah,
same reason. But that's what they say Southern people. We
have like a drawn out British accent too. I just

(01:28:41):
don't really hear it. I just feel like it's a
real country. I don't know, but they say that's where
this country.

Speaker 1 (01:28:46):
That's how they love Dre's voice because she like draws
out her words.

Speaker 3 (01:28:49):
They yes, even though Texas not the South, that's what
they like to say.

Speaker 2 (01:28:57):
What the fuck is more southern than I just want
to say at the Californian, you ain't been that countryst
that is a country state. It's very very country. What
is more country than maybe I pass? I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:29:14):
I'm not no ill pass, so maybe country over that way.
What I'm saying, I mean East Texas's country, but I
feel like the.

Speaker 2 (01:29:21):
Whole Texas country.

Speaker 1 (01:29:23):
But honestly, like but we got green talking about like
Alabama and because like like I said, my best friends
from Birmingham, but it's like she is country, but I'm
like we.

Speaker 2 (01:29:35):
Country.

Speaker 3 (01:29:36):
The one thing I can appreciate, especially not being from
the South originally, is when I go to southern states,
I'm able to really really appreciate, like all of y'all
are southern, but there is a different twist, very thing.

Speaker 2 (01:29:47):
It's not the same.

Speaker 3 (01:29:48):
I'm to the point where I can tell you from Atlanta,
I can tell you from I can tell you from Alabama, Memphis.

Speaker 2 (01:29:54):
Like see, it don't be given the saints And to
me it be the food. Oh yeah, the food intakes this.
It's superior the food here it's okay.

Speaker 3 (01:30:05):
And that's the one thing I wouldn't move back to Texas,
but that's the one thing I do miss. I missed
that bad being on the water, being able to get
seafood like that, like maybe the way I crave crossish.

Speaker 2 (01:30:17):
Different.

Speaker 3 (01:30:22):
I'm actually so this week while I'm not here, I'll
be splitting time. So I'm gonna give you all my business.
My mom is gonna move into my crib in Houston
because I just like Houston.

Speaker 2 (01:30:30):
That city has shown me.

Speaker 3 (01:30:31):
So much love and I've grown so much there that
is like I don't want to give up my place.
Also living as immaculate, so it's like if shit goes
love like, I'm always coming back here, but I will
be splitting time, but I'm gonna have me a little
spot in La.

Speaker 2 (01:30:45):
I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, already set
that mug because I'm like, why are you I mean,
because Houston is fun you know, career realize no, And
that was the thing.

Speaker 3 (01:30:55):
It was funny because right now when I come I
just sleep on Erma's couch. There was a point like
the beginning of this year, because I've been Atlanta once
a month this whole year, so I was like, Oh,
I'm gonna have to get a place out here. And
then like a week later she's called me. She's like, so,
how would you feel about moving to Atlanta?

Speaker 2 (01:31:09):
I love to like check people, So how do you
feel about that?

Speaker 3 (01:31:12):
But you seems to like manifestation and where you're supposed
to be. Spellman was my first choice. I got into
Spellman Howard Hampton. I went to hbcuf Fair, so I
got into most of the colleges there. Spellman didn't have
my major though, because Spelman's majors are very basic, or
at least at the time it was. I knew I
wanted to do communications, they didn't necessarily have that. They
had told me I could create a major like take

(01:31:32):
classes at Morehouse Emory Spellman, and my mom was like,
you're not gonna do that, so that I want.

Speaker 2 (01:31:38):
I always wanted to move up to Atlanta my whole life.

Speaker 3 (01:31:41):
And then during the pandemic, when I was leaving Baltimore,
I called Jamala's sister and I.

Speaker 2 (01:31:46):
Were really, well, we're still close.

Speaker 3 (01:31:47):
We were closer at the time, and we were talking
every day, and I was like, I think I moved
to Atlanta, and she was like, because Jamala's sister live
in Houston. She was like, come to Houston. It's more
your vibe Atlanta. You know you wanna be on the
outskirts if you moved to Atlanta. So I visited jazz
and Houston and that's why I was like, oh yeah,
I'm gonna stay here. So then now it's like I
have to move Tana. I'm like, over the past ten years,
I've tried to come to Atlanta. So I'm like, Okay, I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:32:10):
Trying to convince all my creative friends. I feel like
for black people, if you're not in Atlanta.

Speaker 3 (01:32:15):
Yeah, everyone, this is l a. I think like when
Jay said it, I was like, no, it makes sense.

Speaker 2 (01:32:20):
It's like there's so many opportunities out here. Yeah, well,
my bop of the week, and we're gonna wrap this up.
My bop of the week, y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:32:31):
They be making fun of this song on TikTok and
it's crazy because I was listening to it before it
blew up is uh.

Speaker 2 (01:32:36):
I think her name is Jesse Murphy.

Speaker 1 (01:32:38):
She has a song called Blue Strips, so she's like
a country singer okay.

Speaker 2 (01:32:43):
And she Georgia. I don't know where she's from, and
they don't know what she's saying.

Speaker 1 (01:32:48):
Uh, it's that song boy mad Boy may humane okay,
but anyways, she kind of has like the Amy Winehouse hair.
She's super young, but she's just like she made a
country song that sample Gucci Maine lemonade, So she's coming
like a country girl. But she got a little you know,
she got a little series. And they'd be like making fun,

(01:33:09):
be like, this is not country music. Why do y'all
think y'all can regulate what country music is? First of all,
because they feel like if it's not on im, like,
it don't got to be like that country is. So
I love country music because it can be a lot
of things, just like how rapping hip hop is.

Speaker 2 (01:33:26):
It can be a lot of things.

Speaker 1 (01:33:27):
You got the woke hip hop, you got the twerking
hip hop. It's so many things, and I think country
music is the same thing. And they'd be giving her
a hard time.

Speaker 2 (01:33:34):
But the girl is good. Yeah, she's got some time.

Speaker 3 (01:33:37):
We've been mixing rock elements for the last thirty years.
I feel like it's just you know, racist, and you know,
you know, they changed that whole category at the Grammys.

Speaker 2 (01:33:47):
Don't the last person to get a solid country album.

Speaker 1 (01:33:51):
But the thing is, oh well, I mean she still
won and still Diary Country Tour ever ever of all times.

Speaker 2 (01:34:01):
And that's my mom. Mom. Don't play with my mother. Hello,

Speaker 1 (01:34:06):
So Murphy blue Strips, it's about blue strips, yes, because
she was like talk about the.

Speaker 2 (01:34:15):
Strips in the club and a cute song.

Speaker 1 (01:34:17):
It's like if you're in that era, like you just
got out of a bad breakup, like I ain't mad
at you, like I got my money up, I'm in
the club having a good time.

Speaker 2 (01:34:25):
I'm a bad bitch. That's kind of all like when
you're getting ready to go out. This is a song
you got to listen to. Okay, I don't have to
download that for my platele? What you got dread? What
are we up next? Already? Did my husband te? Okay?

Speaker 3 (01:34:41):
Now it's time to get into our favorite segment of
the show, which is pour your heart out. You know,
if you have any questions, you can always send them
to ask for Minds at gmail dot com.

Speaker 2 (01:34:50):
That's a s k p.

Speaker 3 (01:34:51):
Oh, you are in my nds at gmail dot com.
Let's get into the question.

Speaker 2 (01:34:57):
I know y'all give I love an advice segment, Come on.

Speaker 3 (01:35:01):
Me too, Hey, Drea and Lex loved the podcast and
watching y'all level up. Five years ago, I ended a
nearly ten year friendship after my best friend slept with
my ex. He was my high school college boyfriend and
the guy I lost my virginity too. We broke up
because he was living a lifestyle I didn't want any
part of and I was ready to move on. My

(01:35:22):
best friend knew all of this, and although I had
no feelings for him anymore, I told her I was
uncomfortable with him being friends. She ignored that, claimed ay
trauma bondy during COVID, and eventually admitted he gave her
attention no one else had. She accused me of still
being in love with him, but really I just felt betrayed.
If she had been honest from the start, I might

(01:35:43):
have respected it, even if I didn't like it. I
never thought a friendship breakup would hurt more than a
romantic one, but it does. I miss her, and she's
still with him, and I don't know if I can
ever trust her again.

Speaker 2 (01:35:54):
What should I do?

Speaker 3 (01:35:55):
My God on today, my God today, accuse you and
still being in love, bitch, that was my ex who cares.

Speaker 2 (01:36:01):
If I am or not?

Speaker 4 (01:36:03):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (01:36:04):
I don't like but just don't operate off principle. It's
too many niggas, I agree.

Speaker 2 (01:36:10):
What are we talking about? How many niggas in the world?
Why you gotta go date my.

Speaker 3 (01:36:13):
Own if they're from because like, stuff like that really
flies a lot more often in small towns where it's
less people because the city like Atlanta.

Speaker 2 (01:36:22):
That happened, bitch, I might fight you like you actively
tried to get that. Yeah, I don't know. And then
it's like, now I got to be around both of
y'all canodling and candle in front of me.

Speaker 3 (01:36:31):
It's just our I had I would, I wouldn't where
I was like dating a guy like for months and
you know, we fell off and like one of my
and I hate I hate to talk about it because
it's not anything because we like, he's an moved off,
he done got married and things.

Speaker 1 (01:36:48):
But it's like and then my friend, like my close friend,
not like this. It was my close friend started dating him,
and the way it was brought to me, it wasn't.

Speaker 2 (01:36:57):
From her, it was from somebody else.

Speaker 1 (01:37:00):
And then on top of that, only for them to
start fucking around and then him to try to come
back to me and talking about her like I don't
know what, and.

Speaker 2 (01:37:08):
It just got really weird. That's why it's just it's weird.

Speaker 1 (01:37:11):
And I shut it down immediately, and I'm messy, and
I let her know because I don't move like that.
But I just feel like, like y'all said, it's just
too many men. Men suck, And so if it didn't
work out with me.

Speaker 2 (01:37:22):
Why would you Why do you think bet like that
with me? I don't know, because when I'm with him,
it ain't never like that. He ain't never had with me.
Yeah wait, wait right, yeah, it's coming.

Speaker 1 (01:37:41):
I always tell people this, your turn is on the way.
If you see a man treating a.

Speaker 2 (01:37:47):
Woman, whether it's his sister, his mother, his baby mama,
his ex wife, is a girlfriend, whatever somewhere about, your
turn is on the west.

Speaker 3 (01:37:55):
I don't think people easily change. I do think people
change can if they actively want a lot of times.
To your point, les, if you see him dogging this bit, y'all, yeah,
what makes you thinking not next? I'm talking local Sacramento
Facebook things. But you complaining about your baby father on
Facebook when he got two other baby mamas before you
who used to do the same thing, and you thought

(01:38:15):
your shit was gonna be different.

Speaker 2 (01:38:16):
That's stupid because why he couldn't work it out with
neither one of them? Exactly. I don't have good bad
for you.

Speaker 3 (01:38:21):
Yeah, And then it's like I understand grieving that friendship though,
and that is hard to grieving a friendship, losing a
good longtime friend. But if a bitch is weird or
bitch is weird, and if at the time, I don't
care how long you've been because I I've lost a
long time friend too, but I.

Speaker 2 (01:38:37):
Ain't gonna get it back. I mourned it for that
little moment.

Speaker 3 (01:38:40):
It's like I miss and I'm sad that this had
to end because that there were good times, but the
good times are no longer rolling, and I feel.

Speaker 2 (01:38:48):
Like you should mourn a good friendship. Yes. Is this
considered a good friendship though?

Speaker 3 (01:38:55):
Because she went and slept with your eggs after you
told her how you felt somebody, she still proceeded to
do what she wanted to do.

Speaker 2 (01:39:02):
And I don't know, Like I just feel like people
like that. I get it. Human nature.

Speaker 3 (01:39:07):
We have a tendency to like remember the good time,
and we were romanticized it, like, oh, it's my best friend,
this was such a good time, Like we used to
have such great and fun memories together. But sometimes you
gotta like live in the reality of what he is.
And she's not a good person if that's how she'd
ended up transpiring. So I feel like you need to

(01:39:28):
find peace in just being able to let that situation
go because she not really a good person. It's not
somebody you want to go like yo, ex and either
exactly neither one of them because people put it on
a woman, but like he doesn't know what.

Speaker 2 (01:39:40):
They're doing, what they're doing.

Speaker 3 (01:39:43):
Yeah, he was plotting and she was platt with exactly. Yeah,
I said it because he did it. She might have
did it because she didn't care about your feelings, but
he did it because he wanted to get U under
your skin.

Speaker 2 (01:39:53):
Yeah, and he wanted some get back. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:39:55):
I feel like obviously the thing is obviously because it's
your friend, you're more focused on the girl and you're like,
you're supposed to my homegirl. But the niggas be just
as nefarious as the woman in the situation, if not,
if not more, because they're doing it because they know
I know, yeah, they like even.

Speaker 2 (01:40:14):
Me and are leave you in the desert with our water,
and I be looking at the nigas worse because we
was into me. Was we shared fluids? Now you had
a ball of them.

Speaker 1 (01:40:25):
I remember that Spice Girl song when two become one,
two became one, and look what you're.

Speaker 2 (01:40:31):
Doing to me. I can't go back.

Speaker 1 (01:40:39):
We got to bottle up, right, We got it bottled up.
So now we're moving on to our next segments.

Speaker 2 (01:40:45):
Y'all got seg we got but we have a lot
of segments because this is the tailor. So y'all, I'm
filling the liquor. Shout out to tail y'all did big one.
We love y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:41:00):
And the bottled up segment is basically you know where
people leave us voicemails. They like to get things off
of the chip. You know, it's just a little venting session.
I feel like every time like we.

Speaker 2 (01:41:10):
Need to vent.

Speaker 1 (01:41:11):
Sometimes you need somebody just to hear you out. Okay,
so we got a good bottle up of the week.
I hope uh shake go ahead and play that shit.

Speaker 3 (01:41:22):
Hey, y'all, so I am gonna send You're from Clark
Atlanta and I am taking my final course at brunald Well.
I tell y'all, it is the most stressful thing ever.
Like everything is going good, but it's just my housing.
When I tell you, this cake face, bad built, pumer
looking asshole.

Speaker 2 (01:41:40):
Got me fucked up. She does.

Speaker 3 (01:41:42):
Sat over here at a fifteen K charges all my
motherfucking she has talked about some oh you gotta clean
up for for cleaning and all this, and that bitch
you told me my motherfucking apartment. Asks is why the
fuck am I pay an extra fifteen K?

Speaker 2 (01:41:56):
Who the fuck is this fuck? Because I'm not paying
the flying other.

Speaker 3 (01:42:00):
Bitch out when I literally use my money from Rio
Dja Narrow to pay my motherfucking rent and they done
pocketed half the motherfucking money. And that's how I'm in
the middle of this eviction shit.

Speaker 2 (01:42:12):
Then they gonna wait.

Speaker 3 (01:42:13):
To the end of the lease and try to kick
me out and I said, no, if we an't the
eviction and to judge.

Speaker 2 (01:42:18):
Granted it, where's the marshals.

Speaker 3 (01:42:21):
I'm not volunteering to get myself addicted, babes, I agree
with her. She so just let me make tron Following this,
she was paying her roommate her craft for the rent
and the roommate wasn't paying it. That's that's what it
sounds like because it's fifteen k.

Speaker 2 (01:42:36):
Yeah, so she was being scammed essentially, and they tried
to kick her. Okay, well, you definitely have a case.

Speaker 1 (01:42:42):
You have a case because if you have receipts of
you sending her this money on time every month and
now you're getting evicted, and that'll be on y'all if
you were on the lease as well, that's gonna be
on your uh, your rental history. And when I tell you,
I have never been a victor, thank god, but I
know people who have been evicted and it's so.

Speaker 3 (01:43:06):
But I had a ding on my rental history because
when I moved out of my apartment in Hampton, I
didn't know it. One of the blinds was broken. These
motherfuckers fucked the Mary mack and Hampton, Virginia.

Speaker 2 (01:43:15):
Fuck y'all, why would you send the bill to the
apartment I just moved out of. Wow.

Speaker 3 (01:43:21):
So then they put on my rental history. So when
I'm calling around, I'm like, this don't make any sense.

Speaker 2 (01:43:25):
They sent it.

Speaker 3 (01:43:25):
That's how that's actually how I got it taken off
because it was like, y'all send it the apartment I
just moved out of. How was I ever to get
it right? And why would I fuck my renal history
up over three hundred dollars mile? My mom would have
given me that, Yeah, stupid. The apartments are really really crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:43:41):
But I also don't believe, and I don't care if
it's fifty dollars, it's the principal because imagine if everybody
in that apartment building they try to get over on
them in charge in fifty dollars. I make sure I
prove a point, and whenever I move out of apartments,
I make sure everything's straight, everything is right, because I'm
getting my deposit back.

Speaker 3 (01:43:58):
I ain't never got no depositile me either, because one
thing about it, they always gonna fight.

Speaker 1 (01:44:04):
Oh, but that's why I go in there. Like they'd
be like, oh, we can do the rock through by themselves.
I said, no, I'll be there because my deposit for
the apartment, because.

Speaker 2 (01:44:13):
Y'all deposit for your last apartment was crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:44:15):
My deposit was almost like I want to say, almost
six thousand dollars.

Speaker 2 (01:44:19):
Oh I need that bad, damn I need it, need
that all of them. Then I lost my pool band.
They said, oh, it's two hundred dollars all of them
goddamn boxes. I said, be living, brow your sleeves up.
I'm fighting that man.

Speaker 8 (01:44:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:44:34):
No, I need all my money back.

Speaker 4 (01:44:35):
God.

Speaker 3 (01:44:36):
Oh yeah, yeah, I do that with myself. And then
I have a friend who's really meticulous, and I'll be
doing it like taking pictures. Oh yeah, this was fucked
up when I got here. That was fucked up when
I got here. So y'all ain't gonna say I'll be
getting DEPOSITI.

Speaker 2 (01:44:49):
Yeah, you got to take wealth. And the apartment I
leave in.

Speaker 1 (01:44:51):
I was the first person to move in there because
I was literally the first person to move into the apartment.

Speaker 2 (01:44:56):
Wow, so everything was fresh and new.

Speaker 1 (01:44:58):
But I made sure, Like the only thing that'll probably
say is because like I hung my big TV stand up,
you know, in my room, and there.

Speaker 2 (01:45:04):
Was like some holes in the wall. But you could
feel that with some puddy. Yeah. So that's why I'm like,
I'm getting that money back. Yeah, not leaving six thousand dollars.
That's I was like. My credit wasn't great, yeah, and
then but I had the income. When I see them
the bank staatements, they said don't worry about the baby.

(01:45:26):
We can worry about them.

Speaker 1 (01:45:28):
But at that time it wasn't good, so I had
to pay like first and last month. Oka like that,
Yeah God, but you know I had a.

Speaker 2 (01:45:38):
Time that was a beautiful, lovely apartment. Right but yeah, girl,
we get the Yeah, yeah, sorry girl, you figured out.
Look at God speak.

Speaker 3 (01:45:51):
All the student like you said that Clark can definitely
take that to court and be like, I don't even
got to like that to even give it to you.

Speaker 2 (01:45:56):
I agree, already gave it to her.

Speaker 3 (01:45:58):
She got it.

Speaker 1 (01:46:00):
Just get it off your record, make sure it doesn't
go on your yesday and one thing about it. When
the folks realized you don't got it, what can you
give me? Okay, now we can talk.

Speaker 2 (01:46:08):
Now we can go someway. I love nekoa Jenny and
with a bill collector, y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:46:16):
I got into it with a skill. I thought I
was getting sued, but I was trying. They were trying
to scam me.

Speaker 2 (01:46:22):
That's what happening. I know exactly. He called me and they.

Speaker 1 (01:46:26):
Were like, you took out a loan in twenty seventeen.
It was a payday loan, mind you. I don't take
out loans like ever, like, no payday loans if I
need five hundred dollars, I'm asked the girl. Actually, back then,
I promise you. I had too many people around me
who had money. So in twenty seventeen, I know exactly
where I was and what was going on in my life.

(01:46:48):
So they were trying to say I took out a
pay a loan. I said, well, I know that's false,
and so he starts like just giving me all this information,
because that's what they do. They start talking a lot,
saying all these big words. I said, hey, sir, hold On,
I said, who did I get this loan from? So
I can write down? He said, well, I've already told
you six times.

Speaker 2 (01:47:05):
I said, it's not he was getting mad. He was
getting mad. That's how I do.

Speaker 1 (01:47:10):
When I said, well, hold On, I said, I do
have a lawyer, So I said I'm He said, well,
now you're saying you got a lawyer.

Speaker 2 (01:47:14):
Now I know you're not gonna pay it, and now
I know you're skipping. Yeah. He was like, it's nine
hundred something dollars.

Speaker 1 (01:47:19):
I said, oh, I know for sure if I he said,
because it accumulated fees. And I was like, oh, I
know if it was less than a thousand dollars, I
definitely would have asked dre On my sister for that.
So I was like, I know, y'all are now so
we I'm on the phone hard down, are you? Because
I'm bored at this point. I need a little distraction
like we going back and forth. He said, well, you know,
since you want to get your lawyers involved, you don't

(01:47:39):
plan on paying it back. I'm going to expedite this
and he hung up in my face said, dare you
hang up in the Queens.

Speaker 2 (01:47:46):
I'm not you wanted to call mad right? I said,
you know, we like to call Josh. We love to lawyers. Yeah,
shut up to Josh. We love to call him for anything.

Speaker 1 (01:47:57):
But I was like, it's so crazy because imagine if
it was like an old I always think about older
than my auntie older.

Speaker 2 (01:48:03):
I was gonna say, my mom has felt for that,
and I was like, yes, it really makes me so mad.
That movie The Bee Keeper. Have y'all seen them with
Felicia and Jason staateium you know I love me some
Jason state.

Speaker 3 (01:48:17):
It was sad because they scammed her out of all
her money. I don't want to tell y'all what happened
in case want to watch it?

Speaker 2 (01:48:23):
Sound good? It is good, but they scam the older
like I got all her you got scammed.

Speaker 3 (01:48:28):
Ifore I got scammed, I didn't get the money back,
but I paid a spookulator to put a spell on them. Fun.
Please our usual make sure y'all shot music, beauty collection
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all the things, and thank y'all so much for joining us.

Speaker 2 (01:48:53):
Let everybody know where they can find y'all. Where they
can find y'all podcasts.

Speaker 3 (01:48:57):
So you can find our podcast at Unhinged and Moral
if you were wherever, you will.

Speaker 2 (01:49:02):
Tell where wherever you listen to your podcast.

Speaker 3 (01:49:07):
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A V E L L I with two Eyes Jimmy. Yes,
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Jamila until I get my handle back from someone who
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(01:49:28):
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Speaker 2 (01:49:40):
I love this, Thank you all for coming girl talk.

Speaker 1 (01:49:47):
I love having podcasts on because it'd be like an
easy conversation on topic.

Speaker 2 (01:49:51):
We'd be having too good of We could have probably
talked too more because it can get there. Yes, you
give me two more. Have been like mo us he's big,
going ball for bars. Hello, We'll see y'all next week.
By my a A A A A A A A

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stop bout that caddy.

Speaker 5 (01:50:23):
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I'm gonna dress to kill, shout in.

Speaker 2 (01:50:29):
The club and started shame no d what's what's SI
that makes it okay to the club? Yeah, I love that.

Speaker 5 (01:50:41):
If you're FeMn right, brother, Tonight some night the song
sona night, rock with le with it, rock with it,
staff with.

Speaker 2 (01:50:52):
It, My ladies have your back, sweeting and no rocking
to it to it, So.

Speaker 8 (01:51:01):
Bounce, wheating, drop winning me with it, rock when it's
snap with it, am I let it up, your.

Speaker 2 (01:51:07):
Hats go into it.

Speaker 8 (01:51:08):
We're doing you know, don't roll rocking to it too it?
So do it doing don't need to ask where I'm from.
You already know I represent that a from my head.

Speaker 2 (01:51:20):
Tell my toe hose up on nothing as well.

Speaker 6 (01:51:23):
Here I go my head to the bloods okay too,
then the love it and yeah, rollo that you feel
it right right?

Speaker 2 (01:51:35):
Crip tonight your sonter that night songthing night w it
lean wear that rock when it snap with it? Oh
my letters, pop your back sweating where we rocking? So
its it?

Speaker 5 (01:51:51):
So do it?

Speaker 3 (01:51:51):
Do it?

Speaker 5 (01:51:52):
Do it? Do it?

Speaker 6 (01:51:53):
Bounce wearing rock with it, lean wed it rock when
it snap with it.

Speaker 2 (01:51:58):
I let this bou your hat into into its No, No,
I'll be rocking in some do enjoing. Uh huh, who
ain't rapping that part? Finally that wrong. I don't know
that part. My god, Hey, I hate Hey he didn't
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