I'm Just Being Honest

This week on Pour Minds, it’s a solo couch takeover with your girls Lex and Drea—and we’re just being honest. Lex kicks things off with a very bold claim: Fetty Wap is the greatest balladeer of our generation. Yes, she said that with her chest. From there, the chaos unfolds. We debate if Future’s “Honest” counts as a slow jam (Lex thinks it belongs at a wedding), and why the Macarena might be the original TikTok dance.

We also get into modern-day prom madness, erotic hypnosis, and how sex gets deeper when the mind gets involved. Drea explains why she’s never been truly d-matized, while Lex shares how breathwork unlocked a whole new level of pleasure.

Plus, we introduce a new commandment: Thou shalt not wear see-through thongs to dinner. We’re just being honest.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Okay, you know who has stout balance.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
I want you to be bun again. The greatest singer
that ever lived Fetty Wap. I know my lifestyle is driven.

Speaker 3 (00:13):
You is it? Whenever you say he's the greatest singer
they ever lived. That's very debatable.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
Only person who sings better than Fetty Wap, it's a
lot of people.

Speaker 3 (00:21):
It's a lot of people that have died. They were
like a word.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
The only person that sings better than Fetty Wap is
Whitney Houston. And when I see people Jackson, But the
only yard say that they debate that could possibly see Brown.

Speaker 1 (00:34):
Chris Brown cannot sing better than Fedy Wap.

Speaker 3 (00:35):
Yes he can't. We can't, Yes he can.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
No, we can't.

Speaker 3 (00:38):
Yes he can, No, we can't prove it.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
You want me to play the true pole, the only
doing pole. The only person that people talk about that
sings better than Fetty Wap that I see the debate
going back and forth, it's lex p That's the only
time I people see like ooh, it's really tight.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
And that's why this whole argument is in bad because
that's a lot you pople do not go back and
forth about. First of all, they do who you're not
in my chat?

Speaker 1 (01:09):
What the chat?

Speaker 3 (01:11):
If it's chesting you in, it's probably your friend.

Speaker 2 (01:36):
What's up? Y'all's your girl Lex.

Speaker 3 (01:38):
Pete and it's your girls Ray in the call and
you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine,
where your mind speaks sober thoughts.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no
guests today.

Speaker 3 (01:53):
I know y'all love to hear that little jingle.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
They do. What's been up?

Speaker 4 (01:58):
Girl?

Speaker 3 (02:00):
Grown nothing? I just feel like I've been so busy
these past few weeks and then just working out trying
to get back on schedule with my fitness regimen because
I feel like the few weeks after my birthday, I
was just wildly but.

Speaker 2 (02:17):
You deserved it.

Speaker 1 (02:18):
You deserved it, Thank.

Speaker 3 (02:19):
You, thank you. But then it's like I don't want
all of my hard work to go to waste that
I did for seventy five hords. So I've just been
trying to like get back in the groove of my
new little challenge because I'm doing a new challenge.

Speaker 1 (02:31):
Now, what's the challenge now?

Speaker 3 (02:33):
I'm doing a twelve week body recomp challenge. So basically,
like body recompositioning is when you lose weight and gay
muscle simultaneously because you know, traditionally most of the time
people shuread first they'll lose the weight, then they'll try
to gain the muscle. So I'm doing both at the
same Okay, I need to gain y'all.

Speaker 2 (02:54):
I'm so skinny right now. I wave myself this morning.
I'm at one sixty eight today officially, so I'm like, okay,
I want to gain ten pounds of strike muscle. Yeah,
so that's what I've been working on, just like kind
of like lifting heavy and just getting these Yeah, I
need some games.

Speaker 3 (03:13):
Yeah, you gotta lift heavy for sure, and then you know,
be in a calorie deficy. Make sure you're getting a
certain amount of protein. Every day.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
You have protein.

Speaker 3 (03:23):
Hard to do the protein, but that's where you gotta
you know. I try to incorporate it throughout my day
and that makes it a little bit easier because I'm
doing like one hundred and forty grams a day right now.
So in the mornings, I always eat turkey baking.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
Okay, I always eat three slices of turkey baking, and
I do a three fourths of a cup of egg whites.

Speaker 3 (03:47):
So y'all need my yok Now, well, well, I mean
what you could do, but you could do eggs if
you like the full eggs, and I'm not really I
don't really like the yolk. And plus the whites are
more higher in protein anyways, So I'll just be doing
three slices of turkey baking. I'll do my egg whites,
and then depending on how much time I have some mornings,

(04:08):
I'll do like the cottage cheese toast.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
I love cottage cheese. Bro I was just talking to somebody.
Cottage cheese is so versatile. It is, it is. We
talked about it on the show a few weeks ago.

Speaker 3 (04:19):
And I'll incorporate that sometimes and that's like right there,
about fifty grams of protein. That's a good bird in brickfast.
And then I do a protein shape because I go
to Lifetime almost every day and they have this protein shake.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
They're called the Founder. Well it's a lot of them
in Atlanta, I know, Okay, okay.

Speaker 3 (04:39):
Yeah, I mean I did say which one I go to,
but I mean, oh, well, everybody go at this point
you probably already go there. Everybody go to that damn
likee some but the shake that I get is called
the Founder it's like forty nine grams of protein just
in that one shape. Okay, then like beef, jerky sticks
and stuff are really good for protein. They have some
really good ones. No, I don't eat pork. Pork, Yeah,

(05:03):
I don't eat pork. Well, I have actually been eating chicken.

Speaker 1 (05:05):
Okay, so you're back with the chicken.

Speaker 3 (05:06):
But I think I'm gonna stop again just because I
feel like it's a reason why it's not for my
blood type. Like I missed it. Yeah, I missed it,
and then I started eating it right before I went
to Jamaica, just because I was like, oh, I can't
go to Jamaica and not have jerk chicken. And it

(05:28):
was worthy shout out to Pepple Tome because I wanted
to Peppa time out there was so good. It was
probably the bitch jerk chicken I ever had in my life.
But now that I've been eating chicken again, I definitely
feel a little fatigue.

Speaker 1 (05:42):
That chicken make.

Speaker 2 (05:43):
You're sleeping, Yeah, Like I said, all you gotta do
is eat a chicken tend or you be right there
for me.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
For me because of my blood type. Yeah, Like I
feel like it's definitely a reason why it's not good
my body, for sure, it feels different. But the thing
that sucks about it is like chicken is one of
the easiest ways to get a whole bunch of rotin
in yo die. So that's why I've been really loving
it again because I got these like real good chicken
strip that you can get. Have you had it a

(06:10):
real good chicken stream? Oh?

Speaker 2 (06:11):
I thought you could say you just had some real
good No, no, I said, it's no man called real good.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
Good than the white packaging and the cursor la yep.
And it's in the frozen section at publics or whatever.
And like one serving gets twenty three grams of protein
and you just pop them in the air fry. You
can put them on your salies. You can make like
chicken wraps with them. So yeah, I need doing a
lot of different stuff, but girl, I could see through
some stuff to like get your protein.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
Yeh, I definitely got to get my da I've been
because I told you I was going to the gym,
but I was only pretty much doing cardio.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
That's how I got so thin.

Speaker 2 (06:43):
Naomi Campbell has been shaking ever since I stepped on
the scene.

Speaker 3 (06:46):
No, you are thin. You are a skinny legend right now.
So I look good because you're tall. I feel like
tall people always look good.

Speaker 2 (06:54):
Slender, Well, I feel like I looked good thick because
that eye. But I carry my different so me being tall,
but it's something about me being this one sixty eight
right now, my clothes, just the way they lay on
my body, my face, like I've been of course, drinking
my water, taking my supplements.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
Like, I just feel better.

Speaker 2 (07:17):
I feel like myself again because honestly, don't get me wrong.
Yes I look good thick, but I don't feel good thick.
I'm still thick.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
Now.

Speaker 2 (07:23):
I'm not saying that I'll always be thick, but yeah,
you not like bony. No, I'm not bony, but I
feel like this is the way I'm supposed to be
at Yeah, this is when I'm healthy and doing things right.
This is how I'm supposed to look. You know what
I'm saying. I feel like when I got my first BBL,
this is what I looked like, like, this is what
I was going for. I was going for a coke bottle,
but still a little like, you know, fit looking just.

Speaker 1 (07:46):
I look good.

Speaker 3 (07:47):
That's why to be a motto is a real thing.

Speaker 2 (07:50):
Oh yeah, people.

Speaker 3 (07:50):
Don't be paying attention to the bm MY chart. But
that's why you gotta pay attention to it, because it's
a certain reason why when you're at a certain weight,
it's unhealthy. No matter what height you are, like you're
still supposed to always be at a certain weight. Now, personally,
I'm way past my BMMI, but if I was at
my BMI because I'm short, I would be like one

(08:12):
eighteen and I don't want to be one aight, Yeah,
that ain't the look.

Speaker 2 (08:15):
I don't think they counter into, like, like I said,
different type of body styles, muscle things like that, because honestly,
even with my b and my like I'm at the
like this is the last you're supposed to be, like
at one sixty something for my height, I'm like, that
don't make no sense. Yeah, yeah, because I'm like, what
five eight, five nine, I'm in that area. So I'm like,
I'm staying I want to stay at one sixty eight.

(08:39):
But I do like when I'm done with this journey
by the end of summer, I want to weigh one
seventy eight, but I want to gain that in straight muscle.
One seventy eight eighty is the area I want to
be in, but I just want to go straight muscle, so.

Speaker 3 (08:51):
It's hard to keep up with that b and my shit,
my mama used to be telling me that. When I
was like ten, I used to be like gris oh yes,
because yea, my mama is a nerd. So she was all, well,
hella streets on the BMI. Like when I would come
in for my physicals and stuff, she would be always like, Okay, yeah,
you ad a good way. You need to stay right there.
You need to stay within neg because of your hate.

(09:13):
So you know, so just a shit God, damn it. No,
that's the yak, the reason why you studtery.

Speaker 2 (09:24):
So she just told us that post Malone brought out
Alan Iverson on his he was performing and he brought
him out or something like that. And it reminded me
of this TikTok of people saying like and this is
not about post Malone, this is just in general, and
they were saying, how like white people don't white no
more like white people like back in the day they
used to embrace their whiteness, and now we're getting back

(09:47):
to that because Machine Gun Kelly just like released a
song and he's like dancing like he's not trying to
rap like he's dancing.

Speaker 1 (09:54):
It's like a pop song.

Speaker 2 (09:56):
But it reminded me of one thing I have to
give my napkin colored sister's credit for, which people don't
like to give them credit for. It's those dance moves
and hold on walk walk with me now, Andrea, get
your your your bag boots and come walking with me now.

(10:17):
White girls in the early two thousands, the way they danced,
it was so carefree. Now the white girls want to twerk,
and they want to get invited to the cookout, and
they want to show they got rhythm. So I was
listening to Britney Spears album in the Zone, which is
my favorite Britney Spears album, because that was when she
was like kind of entering like her little hip hop era,

(10:37):
but she was still like very much a white girl.

Speaker 1 (10:40):
But you know, she had Yin Yang Twins on.

Speaker 2 (10:42):
The album Snoop Dogg was on the album. That man
produced a few songs. You no that man, I'm just
I didn't say who. I just said that man. But
when I was listening to it, I started dancing right,
I'm getting ready and I'm dancing. I was like, oh
my god, this is how they used to dance and
I was eating so bad.

Speaker 3 (11:03):
What was you doing? You want to see this is
how they used to dance. Let me show, y'all. I
feel like they used to dance like that in all
the clubs, Like they used to dance like that in

(11:24):
the black clubs. So it spending your money? Yeah, I
want to dance tonight. You look off beat. That's I
feel like at the neo salt clubs.

Speaker 5 (11:37):
They was on bead they talk about the neo soul clubs.
I'm talking about the pop club a Boom boom about
I look so sad yo. They ate that that was
a good breakdown.

Speaker 3 (11:50):
They ate that.

Speaker 2 (11:52):
I'm sorry, I don't care what y'all say. The early
two thousands, White Girl Moves ate.

Speaker 3 (11:58):
Brittany still called in the two thousands.

Speaker 2 (12:03):
I love it.

Speaker 3 (12:04):
It eats in lower rise pennies.

Speaker 2 (12:08):
And I was listening to that album Grammys on Grammys
on Grammys.

Speaker 3 (12:14):
Yeah, I mean, it was an era, for sure. It was.
It was a time, you know. I don't know if
I feel like the dance moves ate they ate to me.
I don't know if I feel like they ate. I
felt like, you know, it was cool for the times.
I was more into like the neo soul era. How
they dance. They just used to.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
Be you know, okay, your turn, Yeah, I won't drance.

Speaker 1 (12:41):
I won't know.

Speaker 3 (12:44):
Yeah, oh a booty bomb?

Speaker 1 (12:49):
Yes, okay, okay.

Speaker 2 (12:52):
A little one advanced you doing the web of fans
at what.

Speaker 1 (13:00):
Was the.

Speaker 3 (13:02):
I wanna learn it dance so bad? What was the
oh to me of the dance? When I think about you.

Speaker 1 (13:08):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (13:09):
I just be doing the little freestyle I go when
they do that. No, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (13:17):
I don't know that one.

Speaker 3 (13:17):
I just feel like it's a little two advance, like
stepping dances are two advance with me. Except for that
one man's song?

Speaker 1 (13:24):
I know that what's song?

Speaker 3 (13:27):
You know what song I'm talking about?

Speaker 1 (13:28):
I don't what man?

Speaker 3 (13:30):
Everybody had on all white. You would not get me
to say his name. Oh you're talking about I will
not say it. It's like saying, oh.

Speaker 1 (13:41):
Sorry, I couldn't hold it again.

Speaker 3 (13:43):
Oh who is the man? The candy man. It's like
saying candy man three times in the mirror, saying his name.
But but I do know that stuff because he gave
you the direction exactly that. Now you're getting my point.
Now you get where I'm going with these I need directions.

(14:03):
Anything that gives you directions, I could do it. That's
why I could do that. That's why I could do
the what was it? Then to the left? Lift to
the right?

Speaker 1 (14:12):
What song is there?

Speaker 3 (14:13):
The lift to the right?

Speaker 1 (14:16):
My sly?

Speaker 3 (14:17):
Yeah? You know what?

Speaker 2 (14:19):
What's oh?

Speaker 3 (14:22):
Yeah, your TOTSI roll the one.

Speaker 1 (14:27):
Left to the left, to the left.

Speaker 3 (14:31):
If they don't give me directions, I can't do it. Okay,
Like even beyond that, when she came out with the
Remeks to the Frankie Beerbly song, she told you what.

Speaker 2 (14:39):
To do.

Speaker 3 (14:42):
Bunny hot, Bunny hot drop cross sell.

Speaker 1 (14:46):
What was the other one?

Speaker 3 (14:47):
Another one that now will beyond Yeah, No, it wasn't
freaking dress. It was get me bodied, Yeah, get me bodied,
give me bodies. That's what I'm saying. Any dance for
you giving directions.

Speaker 2 (15:01):
One dance did not give us directions, and we all
used to hit the fuck out.

Speaker 3 (15:04):
A global phenomenon. But I think they were giving you direction.
I think they were giving you directions in Spanish. No,
I don't think so. Wrong. I what I'm about a google.
I thought they was telling you what to do in Spanish.

(15:25):
That's why people knew what to do. I don't think
they was given direction. Heah my cut and you know
I fucked with the Latino music. You know what ick
on trouble queens. When I knew you did?

Speaker 1 (15:38):
What were they saying to Macarina?

Speaker 2 (15:39):
Did you google it?

Speaker 1 (15:40):
I'm okay? But either way it goes. They didn't give
us directions, but that was.

Speaker 2 (15:46):
The one, the one song TOLDO. But I do like
songs that got dance move and they give us directions.

Speaker 3 (15:55):
That does make it easier for untie.

Speaker 1 (15:57):
What is said?

Speaker 3 (15:59):
What is said?

Speaker 1 (16:01):
They don't say nothing.

Speaker 3 (16:03):
Give a little living to your body, my corena, because
everybody no directions. That's direction English exactody. They give a
little and good things. Give a little living into your
living my corena. It aye, Yeah, you're righty was but
we was.

Speaker 2 (16:21):
So how did we start doing that? How did that
become the universal day? The first ever TikTok dance? That's crazy.
I don't know. Somebody just made up a dancing that
went with it. The macarena is legendary.

Speaker 3 (16:34):
The macarena is legendary.

Speaker 2 (16:36):
I'm gonna be heating, honestly, because you can hit that
hole of anything. Chase money, fuck bitch, just roll run and.

Speaker 3 (16:46):
You know I ain't never seen nobody do that in
the club. Start. I was gonna say, we should start,
you should start the movement. I'm a.

Speaker 1 (16:56):
Go with everything.

Speaker 3 (16:57):
It's low key, dude, and you can do it to
a so song the true.

Speaker 2 (17:04):
Pictures with me too.

Speaker 3 (17:07):
Okay, Wow, we never became a slow song song. You
about to belt out some Celene beon and something just
starts thinking future. I'm just being Honie. Hello, show you
though the generation that we are in and that's a
slow song. To us it is, but it's nice, but

(17:30):
to us it is. It was about millennials like when
we git all that's gonna be a ballad.

Speaker 1 (17:35):
That is a ballad.

Speaker 3 (17:36):
That's people gonna be that's gonna be their first day
in song for the universe. I mean, the first day.

Speaker 1 (17:43):
On the spot.

Speaker 3 (17:44):
I'm just being but he was because that do be happening.
Niggas be getting shot for being honest.

Speaker 1 (17:49):
And guess what he said.

Speaker 2 (17:51):
I tell the truth. That's he was belting right there
a belt. But that's not a ballot. Though it's a ballad.
What is the definition of a ballot? Let me look
at the The ballad is my heart will go on.
But what is the death by Selendion? By definition, honest
is a ballad. Definition, it's a rap song. He was rapping,

(18:12):
he was singing. He was singing on the chorus, but
he was rapping.

Speaker 1 (18:16):
A slow, sentimental or romantic song.

Speaker 3 (18:18):
That song is not is He was getting sh being
honest and then it.

Speaker 2 (18:25):
Says a poem or song narrating a story in short stanzas.

Speaker 3 (18:29):
That's a story. It's not a ballad.

Speaker 1 (18:34):
It's about it. I don't care what you say.

Speaker 3 (18:35):
It's not not a song.

Speaker 2 (18:36):
In the comments, if y'all think a ballad, ballad.

Speaker 3 (18:39):
A ballad, like I said Selene Dion, she has ballads,
Beyonce has ballats.

Speaker 2 (18:44):
Crazy in Love is a I mean not crazy and
a little bit dangerously in love is a ballad. Honest
is about it.

Speaker 3 (18:49):
Honest is not a ballit he when he hit that note,
it made it anything? If anything? What was that song
that he had? No the woman he was saying something
something about somebody being fine. I've been looking for with

(19:12):
a flashlight. You can't tell a nigga nothing because I
got my cash right turn on the LUTs. I'm looking
for to hes ballet. Yes, a wall that's a ballot.

Speaker 1 (19:23):
You know what else might be about it?

Speaker 3 (19:24):
I don't consider the ballots. If he be rapping that song,
he was singing the whole time. Okay, you know, can
a balance be having ballets?

Speaker 2 (19:34):
Jaded? Is a top jack?

Speaker 3 (19:36):
Is a ballot leaving me dipping out on me already?

Speaker 2 (19:43):
Me?

Speaker 1 (19:44):
I hit that. No, that's a ballot. But I'm not
gonna lie. Future be singing though.

Speaker 2 (19:48):
You know one of my favorite future songs that people
slept on Pie with Chris Brown.

Speaker 3 (19:53):
Fine used to be but Chris Brown was on there.
That's what I'm saying. A song, a good, a great
song of Chris Brown. You know what my song used
to be with with With You know another.

Speaker 2 (20:09):
Chris Brown song that people slept on Transform Remember that
Transformer song he had I Can Transform you on that?
That was triple platinum. I don't know what you talk about.
He got some hits too, he got something.

Speaker 3 (20:23):
They all got some hiss. But yeah, I don't know.
When I think, like I said, when I think of
a ballad, I think of a slow, sensual song where
you're building out notes. A ballad to me is like
a singer who has a colorful singer with credentials. Everybody
can't hit them notes, but that shade's future. But everybody.

Speaker 1 (20:48):
Nobody can hit that. Everybody can hit that note.

Speaker 2 (20:51):
And I'm not gonna lie it says a poem or
song narrating a story. Hey my mama said, fucking nigga
hit the streets of live. That's not got some crack
and the coler soul.

Speaker 3 (21:03):
I did what I did. He telling the story.

Speaker 1 (21:04):
That's a ballot.

Speaker 2 (21:06):
That's a motherfucking ballad for your ass because he's telling
the story.

Speaker 1 (21:10):
Give my brother his things now, all right.

Speaker 3 (21:14):
I don't think so okay, but you know, I hear
what you're saying. Yeah, you feel it a little bit.
I hear what you're saying. I'm never like, oh, I
want to listen to something slow and sensual. Let me
turn on future. Never not one. But you know, I
get the point you're trying to make. I get where
you're going with.

Speaker 1 (21:31):
Okay, you know who has stout ballance.

Speaker 2 (21:34):
I want you to be bun again, maybe the greatest
singer that ever lived, fetty wap. I know my lifestyle
is driven you, is it?

Speaker 3 (21:45):
Whenever you say he's the greatest singer they ever lived,
that's very debatable.

Speaker 2 (21:50):
Only person who sings better than fetty Wap it's a
lot of people.

Speaker 3 (21:52):
It's a lot of people that have died. They were
like a word.

Speaker 2 (21:55):
Only person that sings better than Feedti Wap is Whitney Houston.
And when I see people Michael Jacks. But the only
that they debate that could possibly see Brown, Chris Brown
cannot sing better than feedy wa.

Speaker 3 (22:07):
Yes he can, he can't, Yes he can.

Speaker 2 (22:09):
No, we can't.

Speaker 3 (22:10):
Yes he can, No, we can't prove it.

Speaker 2 (22:13):
You want me to play the true do a pole,
the only doing pole, the only person that people talk
about that sings better than fetty Wap that I see
the debate going back and forth, it's lex p.

Speaker 1 (22:25):
That's the only time I people see like ooh, it's
really tight.

Speaker 3 (22:29):
And that's why this whole argument is in valley, because
that's a lie. You people do not go back and
forth about.

Speaker 1 (22:37):
First of all, they do who you're not in my chat?
The chat?

Speaker 3 (22:42):
If it's chesting you in, it's probably your friend. It's
stricted here.

Speaker 2 (22:49):
All I'm saying is fetty Wop has ballads? Really seven
you know you know it?

Speaker 3 (22:59):
You know that me fair. The only reason I even
know that song Specie I phi lee is because you
used to play it all the time in the car
and I used to be like, what is this? I
never heard these before? A hit free shout out to
Fetty Wap, but like he's a better singer than Chris
Brown and Michael Jackson is crazy.

Speaker 2 (23:20):
I think Michael Jackson had that tone Michael Jackson sing
I'm not saying that, yeah, but he had that tone
that was just it hits you. He has such a
distinctive voice. Chris Brown has a distinctive voice. Chris Brown
can sing. I think if they were sitting there belt team.
Fatti Wap is giving that nigga run for his money.
He is that man can sing. That man can belt

(23:44):
a No, he can, I promise you Fetti Wop can
sit next to your face and they can go back
and forth.

Speaker 3 (23:50):
I don't know if he can see next to my faves,
like I don't know if he can Beyonce Luther Vanros.
I don't know if he can swing. I don't know
if he can sit next to him. He can't sit
next Toronald, I know that much. I don't know if
he can sit that Toronald Osley either exactly.

Speaker 1 (24:04):
No but this, But okay, this is my debate.

Speaker 2 (24:07):
First of all, Ronald Eisley amazing voice, Luther Vandross legendary.

Speaker 1 (24:11):
But let me tell you this.

Speaker 3 (24:14):
I don't you about to say something real ignorant.

Speaker 2 (24:16):
I don't know if Ronald Eisley can hit the notes
that fitting he can.

Speaker 1 (24:23):
I don't know if he can. He has a high register.

Speaker 3 (24:26):
Have you ever seen FEddi Wa perform in person? Like live?
I have a guitar where in my dream exactly, so
you don't even know if he can really hit the
notes in real time.

Speaker 1 (24:38):
It doesn't matter, I believe him.

Speaker 3 (24:42):
With the help of auto tune. Anybody can hit a note.
You can anybody. Yeah, I'm saying like anybody can go
in the booth.

Speaker 1 (24:53):
Okay, but but.

Speaker 3 (24:56):
I just feel like, has anybody ever heard feeddy Wyll
perform in real time?

Speaker 2 (25:01):
I'm sure we can pull something up. I'm sure we
can pull something up. I'll do it one day. But
just like everybody thought T Paint couldn't sing, and he
turned that auto tune off and got on y'all ass.

Speaker 1 (25:11):
So can sing?

Speaker 3 (25:12):
T Pain can sen?

Speaker 1 (25:13):
He can shout out to love T Pain down. That's
what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (25:17):
It's some notes that Ronald Eisley has a lower register.
Fatty Wap can go down on that register? Can Ronald
Easley go up on that register? That's all I'm asking.

Speaker 3 (25:27):
You know, that's fair. But I just don't think that
anybody is ever talking about Ronaldsley in the same comment
or not.

Speaker 2 (25:35):
But I'll say this though, it's because Ronald Easley obviously
makes timeless way better music. So don't get it twisted.
I'm not talking about it. You said, fetti Wap make
tomins he does again. I want it's a timeless song.
I'm gonna be listening to that twenty years from now,
I will.

Speaker 3 (25:51):
I mean, that was the that was the heat of
the summer twenty fifteen, twenty fourteen, twenty fourteen. We was
on our way to Golden the Ye and you know
what else with the windows now you know what else.

Speaker 1 (26:05):
Dropped that summer walk?

Speaker 3 (26:10):
Who are damn he did what?

Speaker 2 (26:17):
He killed the club with that song.

Speaker 3 (26:22):
Okay, let me take my strike because what the is
going on?

Speaker 2 (26:27):
All right, let's get into these topics.

Speaker 3 (26:29):
Let's get into the first stopping Okay, So.

Speaker 2 (26:32):
Topic one, we have to talk about this, y'all know,
prom season just ended. Everybody has been going viral. The
girls are going crazy, the dates are going crazy. Everything
has been just out of the water of what we
used to do. So are the new generations doing too
much with prom? The rental cards have turned into luxury

(26:53):
car and party bus flexes. We are more so looking
at the optics than the actual experience of prom. When
I was going to prom in high school, it was
more so about this is our last party in time together.
We're about to graduate, you know, the seniors. It's about
the seniors. But I got invited to prom all four years,
but I mom didn't let me go my freshman year.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
But anyways, this is about saying goodbye to.

Speaker 2 (27:17):
The seniors and partying one last time before summer and
before they graduate. But now it's more so about like
you got read of bottom zone? Did you pull up
in a Bentley? Is your dress vera wang? You know
what I'm saying? Did you get your hair from Kendred's
boutique type shit? The girls are going They getting the
bundles that I got in my head.

Speaker 3 (27:39):
To be fair, when we was in high school, we
wasn't really wearing bundles. Though times have truly changed, you know,
I saw a post on social media a few weeks ago.
This girl had got her dress, her palm dress made
out of one hundred dollars beauties, the whole palm dress,
And I.

Speaker 1 (27:58):
Think, maybe night I feel like Monopoly has something to
do with that.

Speaker 3 (28:02):
But even still, though, I feel like it was the perception,
you know what I mean, I think that you get
an a for effort for creating us something like that.
I don't necessarily think that's doing too much. I think
maybe she was just trying to be creative. She wanted
to step outside the box. She wanted to look different
from everybody else. She ain't wanted to make sure anybody

(28:22):
else have her dress on. It's fine, but I do
think that it's become like a whole production going to prom. However, though,
as a millennial, are we elder millennius?

Speaker 2 (28:36):
Yeah? Are we? I think we're like the top of
the millennium. Oh no, you know what, I think we
might be in the middle, because my sisters we are.

Speaker 3 (28:42):
We're in the middle. We're in the middle. So yeah,
because I think, like.

Speaker 2 (28:47):
I ain't Kim Kardashi, Oh they are. So I think
millennials go to what ninety five.

Speaker 3 (28:55):
Ninety five. I was born in ninety one, That's what
I'm saying. So millennials, I think it's like ninety six
or ninety.

Speaker 1 (29:04):
Six, ninety six, That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (29:05):
I'm not ninety far.

Speaker 2 (29:06):
Off gen Z Okay. Yeah, yeah, you wasn't far off. Okay,
But yeah, like but I think it's starting like a.

Speaker 3 (29:16):
So we're something like that. So yeah, we like we
in the middle. We in the middle. So but as
an elder millennial, when I was going to prom, it
was still kind of like this.

Speaker 1 (29:29):
It was flashy.

Speaker 3 (29:30):
It was flashy. That's because you were maybe that's the difference.
It was flashy versus the country. Yeah, it was flashy.
Like people was running cars. People was making sure that
they had like the matching outfits with they with their
little boyfriends. We was doing the carssage exchanges, like we
made sure we had I had the carssage. He had
the what called like this, huh.

Speaker 2 (29:52):
He was busted down like this.

Speaker 3 (29:54):
No, this came later. It gave a little lighter, this
a little lighter. I just had some go bang. But
but yeah, but my prime dress, I will say my
prime dress was really expensive because I had praised my
mom about the Prime dress that I wanted. I had,
like and that was at the time when people started
wearing like short prome dresses. I remember before that everybody

(30:16):
was wearing like long prime dress for the longest and
then when I got to high school, well my senior year,
it became the thing to have like the short poofy
prime dresses because like Betsy Johnson was real popular back then.
Yeah so, and she was like known for like the
short like poofy dainty dresses over there, which is actually
coming back in yeah now, but they love the club

(30:40):
in the midou bash and loves to recycle itself. So yeah.
So I had begged my mom for this dress and
it was so cute and I remember I had went
off of in Houston. What's the name of that street
called on the West Yes, yes, off of Harwin but
it's like a lot of dress shops over there, and
it was this dress and it was so beautiful when

(31:00):
I wanted to be so bad and my mom got
me to dress and like that's what I'm saying, like
prom was like an expensive thing back then. I remember
I had got my makeup dun, I had got my
hair done, we had exchanged forstag just me and my
friend pulled up in a being's on swangus.

Speaker 1 (31:16):
Oh that's a lot. Yeah, that's a lot.

Speaker 3 (31:19):
It was a steveddy beans, so you still pull it up.
So this is what I think.

Speaker 2 (31:24):
I think it was just like maybe they are being
a little too hard because we did do Now that
I think about it, you got it.

Speaker 3 (31:35):
We did do a lot in prom for what we
thought was a lot.

Speaker 2 (31:38):
Because I'm not gonna lie, I did something my first
year prom that no, I got a wedding dress.

Speaker 1 (31:45):
I wore, Yes, but it wasn't It was a colored dress.

Speaker 3 (31:48):
It was a color. It was a burgundy gown.

Speaker 2 (31:52):
I hope I found a picture because I want to
send it to Hobby so I can post it.

Speaker 3 (31:55):
I'm gonna see him mine.

Speaker 2 (31:56):
It was a burgundy gown. It was a corset and
when all the way down and had a train, it
was like tiered you know how they had the tiered things.

Speaker 3 (32:04):
It was teered off. It was absolutely gorgeous. I'm not
gonna lie it's a dress.

Speaker 2 (32:08):
It was a timeless dress like I could wear that
today to like an event and they'd be like, oh
my gosh, this is a beautiful dress.

Speaker 3 (32:13):
Do you still have it.

Speaker 1 (32:14):
I don't.

Speaker 3 (32:15):
I don't think I have any of my prom dresses.
I still have my prom dress.

Speaker 2 (32:18):
Yeah, I don't think I have any of my prom dresses.
So my sophomore and junior year, I wore wedding dresses.
Like it was like everybody was like, oh my God,
like my mom. I will say, never held back on
the price of the dresses and stuff I think to wear.

Speaker 3 (32:32):
It was just like a little different.

Speaker 2 (32:34):
It's like designer like we didn't do the designer things
like that. Like we weren't wearing ya cl heels. We
didn't have Chanelle bags. We didn't do that because the
girls are showing up in red bottles and stuff. But
I will say we definitely did splurge on dresses.

Speaker 3 (32:48):
Yeah, we did. We splurged on dresses. I mean, and
just I feel like the all around experience because back
then people were getting limousines. People was renting a Hummer,
limousines and stuff. Yeah, we had read limousine, but it
was from my uncle. He had a funeral home. That's
what remember. I asked you, did you pull up in
a hurt You swear you did.

Speaker 1 (33:09):
Find it.

Speaker 3 (33:10):
But but yes, so like people was doing the Hummer limousines.
People was doing the regular limousines. It was, it was,
It was definitely a big thing. But I agree, but
I think that's just because back then, designer damn. But
you know what I'm lying, because I was gonna say
designer wasn't really that like, really wasn't that important to us.

(33:33):
But in high school, me and my friends used to
be wearing dony Doney and Berg. We used to be
wearing juicy couture. Yeah, we used to be wearing a
little fake Louis Baton bags and stuff on fiesta.

Speaker 1 (33:47):
So I mean, but that's how I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (33:49):
But like because Duney and Burke then to us was
like high end, but we wasn't trying to show up
with like a Chanelle clutch and like Christian a little bit, like,
we wasn't doing that. But back then what we were
doing was expensive. But we have to realize give these
people grace because times have changed and if you can
afford it. I'm not saying y'all are doing too much,

(34:11):
because honestly, if you can afford to do extravagant things
for your child, why not.

Speaker 3 (34:16):
Why not if you can do if you can.

Speaker 2 (34:18):
Afford to give your child an experience of a lifetime,
because look at how we went to prom, you know,
almost twenty years ago, and look how we're talking about
our experiences that our parents gave us. Prom was amazing.
I was that girl at prom name me and my
friends had a ball.

Speaker 3 (34:35):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (34:35):
So I'm like, if your parents can afford to give
you an amazing experience like that and spend the money,
let them do it. If they can now, don't go
into debt doing it. But if you're gonna afford to
give they doing they said they renting helicopters, the exotic cars,
go ahead. I feel like, if you can now, why not?
Why no?

Speaker 3 (34:53):
Like I've seen a pouse where it was a girl
you could tell she lived in the projects or something,
and like her friends that came out in lee as
hard as and they did a little dance for her
before she came out, indeed her main entrance and she
walked outside. I thought that was creative because these like,
at the end of the day, if you ain't got
it like that, work with what you got to get
that work for what they got. Now, I'm not mad

(35:15):
at that. I'm not mad at that either, because that's memorable.
When they and fifty, they're gonna be like, girl, Remember
we had put on them lists and we danced, and
you came out in your prom Drea. I think that's
beautiful and that's real friendship because I would do that
for my friend.

Speaker 1 (35:30):
I would do that now.

Speaker 3 (35:31):
I would do that now, Prairio, it's your Whitney.

Speaker 2 (35:33):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (35:34):
I think.

Speaker 2 (35:34):
And the promposals are cute because we didn't do promposals
in my in my back, in my day, we yeah proposals.
But I think the proposals are cute. I think all
of it is cute. I think as adults again, y'all
be thirty five my age and forty five sitting on
the internet talking about sixteen year olds because you didn't
have that experience, you're projecting on these children and these

(35:58):
parents who can afford to show their child maybe something
that they didn't get to experience. So you know what,
if I grew up poor and I couldn't do X,
y Z, and now I can afford it, let me
give my child something that my parents couldn't give me.

Speaker 1 (36:10):
Why are y'all projecting?

Speaker 3 (36:11):
But I feel like people be thinking more so it's
setting unrealistic expectations. It's wonder for especially for like a
high school milestone. But I don't think it's a such thing.
I think if anything is setting a good expectation, it's
like for you to want more in life, work hard
so you can always get these things, so you can
always live this way. I don't know. But then also,

(36:33):
you know, people were saying that people be wanting to
do all of that for their kids, so they're not
getting married. It ain't gonna be no witting. So maybe
like let me go ahead, ball out, or they gonna
be no college graduation. Now, let me ball out right now.

Speaker 2 (36:48):
Now.

Speaker 1 (36:48):
See, I don't like that.

Speaker 3 (36:50):
I don't I don't like that either. That's racious. Well,
I mean even black people saying it too. I know so,
but I think it be racist against our own self.

Speaker 1 (37:00):
I don't think so.

Speaker 3 (37:01):
I think it's just another world.

Speaker 2 (37:03):
I don't know the word, but I just think, again,
let kids have fun. I don't think it's too much.
I think that y'all be projecting. Yeah, it's just simple projection,
and I think it's a good memory for children to have.
I'll just be tired of seeing people the millennials get
online and judging the kids for what they're doing. Because
guess what, when we were going to prom, people older

(37:25):
than us were probably judging us for the things that
we were doing.

Speaker 3 (37:27):
And a lot of people in our age group. As
I have conversations with people, I'm realizing a lot of
people didn't go to promm So maybe that's why I
be feeling some type of way too, because a lot
of people didn't even get to go to prom, which
is crazy. I really experienced on the level that like
some of us, because I had a great time I
really did. Yeah, me and my boyfriend, we had got

(37:48):
a hotel did the night of prom. We was already
do any but we did. Freaky bitch, we was already doing.
But yeah, we definitely did it prom night. I busted
down food.

Speaker 2 (38:05):
You what you mean?

Speaker 3 (38:06):
You bust it down? Oh as much as my eighteen
year old body could, you are free? I definitely did.
We were so cute that prom. So we had like
the little mansion outfeesh, be real cute. We went to
mice afterwards.

Speaker 1 (38:25):
Y'all was outside.

Speaker 3 (38:26):
Yeah, y'all got to myes a Houston staple. We was
an orange, so.

Speaker 2 (38:30):
We would everybody would we would do go out to
eat before so we would drive to Beaumont Baby to
go to Papados.

Speaker 3 (38:36):
Ooh, y'all was fancy.

Speaker 2 (38:38):
The limo took us to Papaos Baby dart, so we
went to Bamont.

Speaker 3 (38:42):
We would go to Papado.

Speaker 2 (38:43):
We would come back to Orange go to the actual prom.
After prom, everybody would go meet up at Wallhall. Would
be drunk by the end, and then like either we
would everybody would go to a room. We would get
a room and everybody would just turn up. It was
like a bunch of us though, why in the room? No,
I didn't do it after prom.

Speaker 1 (39:00):
I didn't do it.

Speaker 2 (39:01):
So one year I actually my mom let us all
come to the house because I had a pool, and
we all came to my house afterwards and after prom,
she had cleared out the living room. We made a
big palette for everybody to stay. It was a co
ed sleepover.

Speaker 1 (39:14):
Everybody was like, I.

Speaker 2 (39:15):
Was like, y'all cause we was all fucking by them.
But I was like, y'all, let's just keep it g
rated for tonight and let's just have a good time.

Speaker 3 (39:20):
Everybody agreed. It was one couple.

Speaker 2 (39:22):
She was actually I'm of course, I'm not gonna say
her name. It was one of my teammates on the
volleyball team. Her and her boyfriend decide to go in
the pool and start fucking in my pool. My mom
caught them, and of course she had to tell their parents.
It was like such a big deal. And I was
so mad at her cause I'm like, why would you
do that? Like, we're all in the living room, We're
all outside and the pool. Like my mom she had

(39:44):
a patio on the outside of her room so she
could walk out to the patio and see the pool,
and so she had her door open, she had everything
open so she could be monitoring all of us.

Speaker 1 (39:53):
Why would you be in the pool fucking.

Speaker 3 (39:55):
They was making noise. I don't know what was going on,
but I was so. I was so mad. I was
so what did your mom sad?

Speaker 1 (40:03):
I was just like, you know, your teammates and there fucking.

Speaker 3 (40:07):
I said.

Speaker 1 (40:07):
My Mom's like, do you be fucking?

Speaker 3 (40:10):
I was like, no, I do that.

Speaker 2 (40:14):
I know your ass fucking And we were just going
back and forth.

Speaker 3 (40:19):
Was man, would oh my god. I remember I used
to a lot of my mama about She used to
be like, are you having sex? I used to be like,
absolutely nice, No way, Why would I do that after
all of the books and pictures that you showed me
of chlamydia and got a real why would I do that?

Speaker 6 (40:37):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (40:38):
I used to be fucking down.

Speaker 2 (40:40):
Yeah, fucking down is crazy because I feel like I
wasn't fucking I was having sick.

Speaker 4 (40:48):
I was fend fucking you know what fucking is? You
be fucking now, I be making love. I do making
so be making I be making love. I don't be
fucking well.

Speaker 1 (41:00):
I feel like in high school we was having.

Speaker 3 (41:01):
Six what's the difference between fucking and having happened sex?

Speaker 1 (41:05):
It was like you don't you know, it's like that
first time he just like sliding it in.

Speaker 2 (41:11):
You like this.

Speaker 3 (41:14):
Because you're embarrassed after that very first time. No, it
ain't like that no more. You know where it goes,
you know what to do. I know, but it's just
like you ain't you ain't shure, don't be shot.

Speaker 1 (41:23):
Yeah, I was still like having a lot of shot.

Speaker 2 (41:28):
It's like you opened the pantrick, be like you know
where I'm just like in high school you be having
six like when you in college you be fucking we
be making love.

Speaker 3 (41:44):
I'm not gonna talk about it. I'm not gonna talk
about what I was winning college because that's fair college.

Speaker 2 (41:51):
College taught me somethings me too. That's when I learned
how to I know how to fuck, I.

Speaker 1 (41:57):
Know how to ride.

Speaker 3 (41:59):
I can spend trying to keep the deck stealing side.
And then Trina did say that, and I learned.

Speaker 1 (42:04):
Yeah, I'm not gonna lie. College taught me.

Speaker 3 (42:06):
It did. Well, we're not getting into the baby to
move on to well, actually, before we get into the
second topic, is not d I know, I just thought
about it.

Speaker 2 (42:19):
So she's trying to look Ti ty had a prior engagement,
so dressed like Tyl. I was dragging let that girl said.

Speaker 3 (42:27):
I just realized she wasn't ready because I was looking
over here. I wasn't looking over there. Okay, So topic
number two, should women dress more modest according to their bodies?
I want to know what you think about that, because

(42:48):
it seems like in modern times society has shifted to
like women wearing listen lists, and women don't really be
wanting to cover up like that anymore, versus back in
the day, you know that was the thing, like modesty
was key. Yeah, you were a lady you were classy
if you was dressing bodies. These days, a lot of
people tend to believe that the way you dress has

(43:11):
no bearing on how classy you are, because I always
see a lot of women saying online and just in
conversations that I've had with people that it doesn't matter
you know, what you have on. Just because you might
wear something that's a little more seductive or not as classy,
that doesn't mean that you either a fuck right, So

(43:34):
you know, how do you feel about that? Is there
a time and a place for everything? Or do you
feel like you should just be able to wear whatever
you want to wear when you want to wear.

Speaker 1 (43:42):
So I want to shout somebody out real quick too.

Speaker 2 (43:44):
His act on TikTok is at seven one to three
nick cause he made a post about us the other day.
He's not he from Houston the show, but he was
basically saying, like when we were talking about the other
week on our solo episode, we were talking about how
people be talking about us and talking about the way
we dress, and XYZ like, I love the way they dress,
they dress age appropriate, Like you know what I'm saying.
So one, I do think that as you age and

(44:08):
I'm not saying we're old, because we still definitely dress sexy,
but we dress for our body types.

Speaker 1 (44:13):
But we also dress appropriate for the occasion, you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (44:17):
So I think you learn.

Speaker 1 (44:20):
I don't care what body you got.

Speaker 2 (44:21):
I don't care if you're a stick up and down, fat,
skinny BBL body. There's a time and a place for everything.
I'm sorry, and this is coming from somebody who loves
to have their ass out. I do not like when
y'all be wearing like the sea through dresses with the
throngs on and stuff like that to like dinner or
something like that.

Speaker 1 (44:42):
I think that's just now.

Speaker 2 (44:43):
If you're on in Turks, you know what I'm saying,
it's a vacation. But to be in like Atlanta, it's
no beach around. Why do I see everything? I think
that more so just goes with like with taste and
style too. But I also feel like just because you
have a BBL or a big butt or your skinny
skinny people don't get away with nothing just because they're skinny.

(45:03):
If something is revealing, it's revealing to me. I don't
think people can get away with something just because they're thinner.

Speaker 1 (45:10):
Than somebody with a thicker body.

Speaker 2 (45:12):
I think you need to dress appropriately period, no matter
what your body type is.

Speaker 3 (45:17):
I agree what nothing because I just be always roofling.
People feel booth, but I feel like it's a young
To me, it's more of a young thing. Like I
feel like when you're young, you can get away with
more stuff versus when you get older. I do think
it's more about age appropriates. Like at fifty, I don't

(45:40):
ever think it's a propriate for you to have them
on the seat through JS in the club with your
throw showing with pasty. So like I just feel like
at fifty, you probably somebody mama, You probably somebody grandma.
But I think at like twenty one, yeah, cool, you
in college, you having fun, You having a good time,

(46:01):
Like if that's what you want to wear, and then
maybe as time progresses you will realize, Okay, I really
don't want to be as I want to be a
little more maighties like I want to show a little lisz.
But I think when you young you can get away
with stuff like that. Cause I think when I was younger,
I used to wear like sea through stuff and stuff sometimes,
but now it's just being in my thirties. I just

(46:22):
don't never see a reason why I will be wearing
it unless I'm going to a pool, and also unless
I'm at a beach club.

Speaker 1 (46:28):
I do feel like you.

Speaker 2 (46:29):
Can one thousand percent be sexy without showing your nipples.

Speaker 1 (46:34):
And showing your buck crack. And I know y'all gonna
be looking at.

Speaker 3 (46:35):
It, but I never was y'all showing my nipples and
but crag. And I feel like you wasn't really like
that either, Like I mean, outside of wearing a swim suit,
I'm talking about like going to the club, just having
your nipples out. Yeah, but they're doing that now right
That's why I'm people age.

Speaker 2 (46:51):
I'm not gonna lie the twenty something year olds y'all
going out and y'all be wearing the sea through tops
and y'all don't got no paces on. I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 3 (46:58):
I'm not mad at that because you young do what
you want to do.

Speaker 2 (47:01):
That's the age that you're figuring out your style. You're
figuring out what you like. But like I said, I
don't think model right now, I kind of be mad
at your showing though. I mean, like people I feel
like show it, you know, like the print. The print
is cute because I used to have my nipple.

Speaker 3 (47:18):
I used to have nipple rings when I was younger,
and I used to wear like shirts or whatever without
bras and like you could see like my nipple rings
or whatever, like just like the print or whatever. But
I just don't think that that's like your actual nipple.

Speaker 2 (47:33):
I just feel like when you're young, that's the time
that to like be daring and you know, figure out
your style and explore. But I do feel like as
a thirty five year old woman, I don't me personally
for the other girls, yeah what you do. But I
just feel like as I've gotten older, I've found different
ways to be sexy.

Speaker 3 (47:52):
I feel like you can very much be sexy and
be covered up. I don't know why people don't think
that you can. Like I feel like, shit, I'm covering
up right now.

Speaker 1 (48:00):
Where what you want to wear?

Speaker 3 (48:01):
But how that booty hole? As you get older? Yeah,
that's all I was saying. I just feel like as
you get all the certain things issues.

Speaker 1 (48:08):
Certain settings, certain settings.

Speaker 3 (48:11):
Certain settings, certain certain things, certain things.

Speaker 1 (48:14):
Because I see I don't know, like he I said,
you somebody the other and I was like.

Speaker 3 (48:21):
I seen this lady sixty something years old and she
was posting like contie in her lingerie, like twerking and stuff.
I just don't do. I just don't really, I just
don't feel like that is appropriate. Is that age same?

Speaker 2 (48:39):
No, No, it's not age shame because I feel the same,
because I feel the same way about the game. The
game was literally in his bathroom with his boxes on,
with his dick. You could see his dick print. You
too old for that, And that's truly how I feel.
I think that is disturbing.

Speaker 3 (48:53):
Yeah, is don't get me wrong. I feeling like that
across the board, like when he comes to me and women,
it's just like if you a fucking sixty or old
men online and he popping his deck in his speedos.

Speaker 2 (49:04):
Why am I?

Speaker 3 (49:05):
Why the fuck? Yeah, Like, why are you doing that?

Speaker 2 (49:07):
Why are you away shaking that dick? Put that away.
If you're on TikTok shaking that dick, you need to
go to jail.

Speaker 3 (49:14):
Or shaking them totes, shaking them tittles. I don't like this.
Don't shake them tittles up. Don't shake them titties at means.

Speaker 2 (49:21):
Santana said, bounce that ass or shake them titties.

Speaker 3 (49:23):
But Santana thirty, it's okay, he can shake them the tittles.

Speaker 2 (49:28):
But yeah, I think it goes across the board too.
I think men can you know, dial it back to yeah.

Speaker 3 (49:33):
I think men be doing a light y'all. They change, y'all.
Stop fifty with a sheer shirt on with nipple ring.

Speaker 2 (49:40):
No, they be fifty dressing like the Winans. Like if
you're fifty and you got on the mirrorage and rick On,
take them fucking bands off, bitch, take them off, not
bands they well, rick always take them off all that ship.

Speaker 1 (49:58):
I don't want to see that.

Speaker 3 (50:00):
Man.

Speaker 1 (50:01):
I'm not gonna lie. I'm gonna look at a man
who got on.

Speaker 2 (50:04):
A nice little you know, nice little blazer, some nice shoes.

Speaker 1 (50:09):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (50:09):
Like before I look at a nigga, that's like doing streetwear.

Speaker 2 (50:13):
If you're fifty, why are you still doing streetwear?

Speaker 3 (50:15):
What's wrong with a street wear nigga? A fifty?

Speaker 1 (50:17):
No, I don't like that.

Speaker 2 (50:19):
Just like how you feel about the sixty year old
woman in the lingerie, That's how I feel about a
fifty year old.

Speaker 3 (50:24):
Man a streetwear.

Speaker 1 (50:25):
Same thing.

Speaker 2 (50:26):
They need to date each other and your streetwear and
your long Okay, hang now hey, now I agree, we
gotta move on. So let us know what y'all think
about the dressing and age appropriateness and all that good stuff.
So now it's time to yet into the bi bow

(50:47):
the b a bow about bow pal pal Actually it's
shot a clock.

Speaker 3 (50:59):
You know what I have been because I couldn't get
to my titos. I couldn't get to my titos.

Speaker 1 (51:04):
Old, it was lots of I don't want it.

Speaker 3 (51:08):
It was locked up.

Speaker 2 (51:08):
They won't Okay, So for the bad topic today, we're
gonna talk about erotic hypnosis. Can you be tranced into pleasure?
Would you let your partner hypnotize you?

Speaker 3 (51:20):
Yeah? I'm freaky though like that. I definitely I just
be open to whatever. I'm actually right now currently trying
to learn breathwork because I had a conversation last week.
I have made a new friend at this event that
I went to, and she was just telling me, like
some of the best orgasms that she's had has been

(51:42):
after she learned breathwork, and she was like it just
changed her whole sexual life and like her sexual experience
and everything. So yeah, I would definitely be open to hypnosis.

Speaker 1 (51:52):
Okay, I think.

Speaker 2 (51:54):
Sometimes we do be getting hypnotized already, like the famous
word dicmatized. But not a lot of fellas know how
to digmatize a woman, And so I do say, ya don't.
Everybody doesn't have that type of dick. So I do
feel like I'm already under hypnosis, bitch, that's all.

Speaker 3 (52:14):
I don't act right now, you know what, I don't
truly think I've ever been digmatized. I think I bematized
by a lot of things that comes with the men.
But we're just like pure No, no dick ain't never
been that good to me to get me dickmatize.

Speaker 2 (52:34):
Oh well, And when I say digmatized, I don't talk
I'm not talking about like the crazy. I'm not crashing
out behind no dick. But I mean digmatized, just like
the sex be so good.

Speaker 1 (52:45):
I'm in a trance. It's so much pleasure.

Speaker 2 (52:47):
So I want to leave out the connotation that comes
with Let's give it a definition. So when I say digmatized,
I'm just talking about like I'm just in ecstasy.

Speaker 1 (52:58):
I feel like I have entered another realm.

Speaker 2 (53:00):
So I feel like, if you have the right sexual experience,
you're being hypnotized. I think sexual intimacy is a form
of hypnosis within itself already, so it doesn't have to
be no extraness going on from my experience now, stuff
like that, like the breath work I'm interested in that

(53:20):
I would like, you know, to see, But I don't.

Speaker 3 (53:22):
Need to call tantric sex. Yeah, yeah, I took you
to that tantric killing session. That was freaking key ways,
that was freaking I'm assuming that's how the sex be,
but freakier. That's why I'm here for a time, right.

Speaker 1 (53:37):
But I also am a strong believer.

Speaker 2 (53:39):
For me, I realize my best orgasm is my best
sex when I realized sex is a mental thing.

Speaker 1 (53:45):
So hypnosis is a mental thing.

Speaker 2 (53:47):
So I've already kind of tapped into understanding my body
and myself and what turns me on.

Speaker 3 (53:52):
I have to be turned on mentally before.

Speaker 2 (53:54):
So I feel like the hypnosis thing is kind of
what you make it, because hypnosis is so broad of
different things of how to experience hypnosis.

Speaker 1 (54:01):
So I feel like a.

Speaker 2 (54:03):
Sexual experience should be sort of hypnosis.

Speaker 3 (54:06):
Anyway.

Speaker 2 (54:07):
I'm entering another body, another realm, I'm turning into someone else.
I'm turning into somebody that only you know. You brought
something out of my body that nobody else can see.
It's like you unlocking Pandora's box, you unlocking licks peace.

Speaker 3 (54:24):
That's why I feel like it's true with they be
saying like sex is only you not supposed to have
sex before Mary's whoa.

Speaker 2 (54:34):
I thought you said sex with just anybody, but you're
not supposed.

Speaker 1 (54:36):
To have sex with you not.

Speaker 3 (54:37):
But I feel like that's why, because you're not supposed
to know about nothing else, not supposed to think nothing
else is better than what you're getting. Like people are
always like, like, especially people who decide.

Speaker 2 (54:49):
To go.

Speaker 3 (54:51):
Newly celeibate, yeah, or born again virgin or whatever. They're like, oh, yeah,
I'm a born again virgin. I'm trying not to have
sex again. And then people are always asking me, well,
when you find your person, how do you know that
it's gonna be good at night? You're not supposed to
know what's good tonight. If you didn't fuck nobody, you

(55:13):
wouldn't know. And then also it's like we're always on
this constant quest. I feel like, especially I had another
conversation somebody else. I met a lot of people y'all
over the past few weeks. Child. But I had another
conversation with somebody and she was basically saying, she's dating
it's a really really amazing guy and he's super super dope,
but like the sex is just not mind blowing. But

(55:35):
she was like, well, she was dating somebody else prior
to that and the sex was like phenomenal, but he
was the worst nigga she ever dated, which is usually
how it goes, but she was like, he's the worst
nigga she ever dated, and she just can't get that
dick off the mind. But this, this guy is amazing.

(55:57):
But I feel like that's why God put it in
the Bible the way that it is, like we're not
supposed to be out here experiencing people in that way
because it's never enough. That's how we be having these
pultizes to people and it's like, you know they not
good for you, but you keep going back because what
you said decmal sized the deecont fire. So you might

(56:19):
meet an amazing man and you like, oh, he's so great,
he's so dope, you have sex for him, it's me,
but then you like Sneaka over here that I used
to talk to, but I'm just don't lie. See what
he talking about.

Speaker 2 (56:32):
I think I've tapped into myself so deeply and sexually
and intimately by myself. I don't have bad sex anymore.
I cannot remember the last time I have bad sex.
But that's because I took that work on me. Now,
I believe you one hundred percent as far as like
the Bible goes like, we're not supposed to be experiencing that.
But I feel like, honestly, I will never have that
problem again because if I have sex with somebody and

(56:53):
it's like not what I expected, We're having a conversation
and I'm going to not necessarily teach you, but we're
gonna see if it can get there. But again, I
agree with you, we're not supposed to be just having
sex with anybody.

Speaker 3 (57:05):
I've never really, to be honest, I've just I've never
had just like super bad sex, like never from like
my mid twenties, late twenties to now. But I've always
been very vocal.

Speaker 2 (57:24):
I think that's something that we talked about in the show.
Like where whereas like you you said when you were younger,
you are bake it.

Speaker 3 (57:32):
I've never been that type of person, Like I'm always
gonna let you know the real So it's never just
been bad, but either way, like you know what I was,
I had fell into this deep black hole the other day. No, okay, okay,

(57:53):
I have fell into this hole of like Beyonce and
jay Z and they like pages on Instagram and I'm
just like, that's so beautiful. Like she really started dating
as men when she was like nineteen twenty. They married. Okay,
they got married. I'm gonna just cut you on as

(58:13):
off because we ain't got some I thought you was
getting into the story. Okay, she met this man in
nineteen twenty, they got married, they had kids together, they
built this beautiful life together, and she's never really been
with anybody else.

Speaker 1 (58:26):
Yes, and I feel like that'd been That's how you're
supposed to do.

Speaker 3 (58:30):
That's how it's supposed to be. Imagine if that had
happened for us, they're like nineteen teen twenty one. I
wish we would have four minds. Actually, so everybody's story
is looking for y'all.

Speaker 2 (58:42):
Funnly y'all, I'd have been around the dicks and yah, yeah,
couldn't find out baby.

Speaker 3 (58:50):
Okay, Okay, we're still looking and I'm playing because not really.
But I mean, you know, at the end of the day,
I'm not married. I'm not married. When I get married,
then i'll be married.

Speaker 2 (59:04):
We'll talk about it. So let us know how y'all
feel about erotic hypnosis. I do think that it's real.
But I do think that erotic hypnosis is what you
make it. I think it's a personal experience that you
have to know how to tap in mentally to your partner.

Speaker 3 (59:16):
And I think this is why you can't have sex
with just anybody not interested.

Speaker 2 (59:20):
Like, if I get out of my situations that I'm
in right now, my relationship, I guess you'd like to
keep it cute, I will say, like, it's gonna take
me a while to be intimate with somebody again because
the things that I've learned about myself, not only from
the past, but just in this relationship, I've learned so

(59:40):
much about myself.

Speaker 1 (59:41):
So I have to really like dig deep to get that.

Speaker 2 (59:44):
You know what I'm saying. Like the sex that I
have now, the more like it's just different for me.
The more I date, the older I get, it's like
it just gets a little deeper and deeper. This ain't
no regular sex, This ain't no regular Kucie.

Speaker 3 (01:00:00):
Yeah, I be feeling that way. I just it's nice.
That's why I feel like you have to be careful
who you let tapping.

Speaker 2 (01:00:11):
In.

Speaker 3 (01:00:11):
That's why I don't know. I just be ready to
be ready to be lockdown with my men. I mean
I'm already locked down, but I'm ready to be like
married and she because I feel like once I get married,
the freak gone really come out. The freaks come out
of not yeah buddy, yeah buddy.

Speaker 1 (01:00:31):
Okay, So let's know what y'all think about that. We're
gonna move on.

Speaker 2 (01:00:33):
Why do we know?

Speaker 1 (01:00:35):
Why did I know that? Okay, welly doing that chop
Item of.

Speaker 2 (01:00:40):
The week this week, y'all know, y'all be in the
comments timeout why y'all do the same thing.

Speaker 1 (01:00:44):
So I wanted to make my item of.

Speaker 2 (01:00:46):
The week is something that we talked about the other
week because y'all have been blowing me up asking me
about this body wash because I didn't.

Speaker 3 (01:00:50):
Have the name of it.

Speaker 2 (01:00:51):
The Notorium mandelic acid body wash. It's in the blue
bottle Notorium mandelic acid. It eliminates the body odor. It
eliminates the body older. So whenever you wash, you wash
it down with that, then go in with your sensive
body washing. You're gonna be all good. Okay, we're not
gonna get into that topic again, but partly usual, y'all know,
I gotta shout out d D on the hair.

Speaker 3 (01:01:12):
Rich look hair. This is the luxe wave. Make sure
y'all go cop that period. Of course, y'all know my
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Make sure you get your lip glosses, mad equal lipsticks, lipliners,
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(01:01:33):
probably gonna do a little sell soon. I have some
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people have been leaving comments saying, oh, you need some
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dropping soon. And then I also have some new glosses
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(01:01:57):
get all y'all product.

Speaker 2 (01:01:58):
Oh and y'all listen, I know, y'all, I'll be asking
me a lot of questions about like my skincare, my makeup,
body stuff, just in what I'm doing on it every day, y'all.
Please right now, whoever watches this episode, I better have
the amount of views I got. I better have that
many followers on Snap. Y'all, go follow me on Snapchat.
It's lex p zero five. Okay, go follow me on snap.

Speaker 1 (01:02:19):
Y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:02:20):
Always want to know what I'll be doing every day.
I post on Snapchat all day long. If you go
look at my snap right now, I'm doing something right
now and then post it. So if y'all want to
see all my skincare stuff, beauty stuff every day day
and the life stuff, go follow my Snap okay period.

Speaker 1 (01:02:34):
All right now it's time to get into.

Speaker 2 (01:02:37):
The A about about about Okay, So my bop of
the week. You know, we were talking about pop sensations
at the beginning of the episode A little bit. I've
gotten too Britney Spears. Y'all know I grew up on
Britney Spears period. But you know, they were like, we
are missing a black pop star. You know.

Speaker 1 (01:02:55):
The last black pop star that.

Speaker 2 (01:02:57):
We really had that's still doing your thing is Beyonce,
you know. And I wanna talk about this girl because
she came across my TikTok and I was like, wow,
this is a hit.

Speaker 3 (01:03:06):
She's fine.

Speaker 2 (01:03:07):
I love just the beautiful girls doing beautiful things.

Speaker 3 (01:03:11):
So this is a pop song.

Speaker 2 (01:03:12):
It samples my favorite song, Vanity six Nasty Girl. You
know that's my favorite song. That's right.

Speaker 3 (01:03:19):
Pleased to meet you.

Speaker 1 (01:03:20):
Still wan't tell you my.

Speaker 3 (01:03:21):
Name favorite song anyways. So this girl, her name is
Jay Stevens.

Speaker 2 (01:03:25):
She has a song called Shaking My Head and it's
just giving like pop girl, beautiful, black queen, and I
this is what I wanna see. I wanna see black
girls doing on a pop too. I think we have
the R and B game on lock with the new girls.
You know, we got Mariada scientists, you know, Summer Walker,
we got Chloe Bailey, we got Coco Jones. We have
a lot of good people in R and B. Right now,

(01:03:48):
Let's go ahead and get the pop too. The girl
the country girls.

Speaker 3 (01:03:50):
Are being killing it.

Speaker 2 (01:03:51):
M you know what I'm saying. We got the Tanner
or Dale's, we got all that going on in the
country movie. Let's go ahead and give.

Speaker 3 (01:03:56):
Us pop two.

Speaker 1 (01:03:57):
I won't that I need that, give me that too.

Speaker 2 (01:04:00):
So my bop of the week Shaking my Head by
Jay Stevens y'all give it a listen.

Speaker 3 (01:04:06):
I like it. Mm hm period. My pop is Somebody
by Lotto Okay, big yeah. I like that song. I
think he's cute. It's a cute little vacation vibe. I
feel like I don't always have like the good little
summer anthem. She had a song that's good for the
Instagram captions when you're on vacation with your bay or

(01:04:28):
if you just on vacation with your homegirls, whatever. I
think it's a real cute song. And then I also
really really liked the video and I love how she
let her sister Brooklyn direct the video.

Speaker 2 (01:04:39):
Cute.

Speaker 3 (01:04:39):
I thought that was sold open. She said it's such
a good job because it's really really a nice video.
So shout out to Lotto in Brooklyn. I love their relationship.

Speaker 2 (01:04:47):
I feel like it's so important to like keep somebody
close by you and you and I think that's why
a Lotto is just doing such a good job because
she has her sister there to keep her like level headed.
She don't have a yes man like Brooklyn doesn't give
me like yes man vibe, so it seems like she
has a really good confident in her.

Speaker 3 (01:05:01):
I love that. I love that shout out to Lao
in Brooklyn. Period.

Speaker 2 (01:05:05):
Y'all come sit on the couch, all right, So now
it's time to move on to the pour your heart
out segment. We're gonna We're just gonna do one today. Yeah,
you got it.

Speaker 3 (01:05:17):
Oh it's you got your So ask Drea and licks show, right, they.

Speaker 2 (01:05:22):
Know what it is. It's ask four minds at gmail
dot com.

Speaker 3 (01:05:28):
Ask four minds at gmail dot com. That's ask kp O.
You are in my nds at gmail dot com. So
the first question is, Hey lex Andrea. First of all,
I just want to say I love your show down
y'all keep me rolling. I hope to catch a live
show if you ever come to DC any who. I'm
a twenty one year old lesbian. For context, I was

(01:05:49):
in a long distance talking stage since December twenty twenty four.
Things were going well, but then she went into a
sort of depressive episode that really cut down our meaningful communication,
and since we were long distance, that mental and emotional
stimulation was all I had to hold on to. By April,
I started to feel lonely and ended up stepping out
with someone else, even though we had never had the

(01:06:10):
exclusive conversation I still feel super bad because it hurt her.
She was really a good partner and I liked her, Like,
what could I have done differently in this situation? Does
this make me a cheater? I don't think it makes
you a cheater. If y'all haven't had a conversation about
being exclusive, If I'm being completely honest, like you single

(01:06:32):
until you single, until you married, but you for show
single until you and a person have a conversation about exclusivity.
If somebody wants to be exclusive with you and y'all
have that conversation, then obviously the expectation is that yiad
on day other people her going through what she was
going through, and y'all's communication getting thrown off track, and

(01:06:54):
then you not really communicating with her anymore, and then
you met somebody else and you liked them, you started
talking to them. Y'all never were exclusive. You're not wrong
for that. You're not wrong for that, and don't let
nobody make you feel like you are. Because if somebody
wants to be with you and they want to be
exclusive with you, they need to stay what they want

(01:07:17):
and mark their territory.

Speaker 1 (01:07:19):
You better piss on me like a dog on a tree.

Speaker 2 (01:07:22):
Yea market.

Speaker 1 (01:07:24):
Y'all know what I meant got them?

Speaker 3 (01:07:26):
I was like, you know, facts.

Speaker 2 (01:07:29):
I agree with everything she said. Y'all don't have anything
to add. You took the words right on my mouth hole,
an't it?

Speaker 7 (01:07:37):
So?

Speaker 3 (01:07:37):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (01:07:38):
Make sure y'all email us at ask for Minds at
gmail dot com if you want your questions answered.

Speaker 1 (01:07:41):
On the show.

Speaker 2 (01:07:42):
Make sure y'all go follow Drea on YouTube Dre and
the cod with three E. She posts her blogs every
goddamn week, and y'all gonna watch lovelexp drops every Monday
at ten am.

Speaker 3 (01:07:52):
The TV getting hot, y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:07:54):
If y'all watch Real Housewives of Atlanta or Basketball Wives,
we are doing reviews right now.

Speaker 1 (01:07:58):
It's getting too juicy.

Speaker 2 (01:08:00):
So yeah, anything else, music, Beauty Collection dot com and
we'll see y'all next week.

Speaker 3 (01:08:07):
Y'all want to talk about ballots?

Speaker 1 (01:08:09):
Now?

Speaker 3 (01:08:09):
This is a ballot? You ready, Houston Queen. We gotta
let him know. It's just my song, how it really
feels to be a blessing.

Speaker 2 (01:08:28):
Here we go.

Speaker 8 (01:08:31):
Remember those walls I've been baby, they're tumbling down. They
didn't even put up a fire, they didn't even make
a sound. I found a way to let you win
when I never really had a dial standing in the
like ey oh, hey lo, I got my angel NW.

Speaker 2 (01:08:55):
It's like I've been awake.

Speaker 3 (01:08:58):
Have you break out is the reason that I'm taking.
I ain't never gonna shot you out.

Speaker 9 (01:09:07):
Everywhere I'm looking at, I'm surrounded by your brains. Maybe
I can see a halo know you're my saving grace,
everything I needed more sweeping all over your faces.

Speaker 3 (01:09:25):
Maybe I can feel your halo. Probably won't.

Speaker 6 (01:09:29):
I can feel your halo Halo, Hello, Halo, Halo, your hello, Halo.
I can see your halo Halo. Hey, be like a
rain SI burning through my dark is nice.

Speaker 3 (01:09:49):
You're the only one that I want, and I'm addicted
to your line.

Speaker 2 (01:09:55):
Small never fall again. Yeah, I just don't ever feel
like learn Granny can forget.

Speaker 7 (01:10:04):
So put me back to the ground and ye like
I've been awakeed every ruler had your breaking It's the
risk that I'm taking.

Speaker 3 (01:10:16):
I ain't never gonna toug you.

Speaker 2 (01:10:17):
Wow.

Speaker 10 (01:10:19):
Everywhere I'm looking at, I'm surrounding by you, o embreds.
Maybe I can see your halo play it won't fade away, Halo.

Speaker 6 (01:10:32):
I say your halo, Hello, Halo, Halo, Hello, Hello, I.

Speaker 2 (01:10:38):
Say your halo halo.

Speaker 1 (01:10:55):
Shot me say.

Speaker 3 (01:10:58):
I can see your Hello, Hello, thank you. I thought
I had something in my hair period

Speaker 1 (01:11:11):
You said you know what she was doing when she
was in the studio that day