Make A Scene FT. The OMG Girlz

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Because a lot of times the lady's gonna be putting

(00:02):
that baby first. Yeah, first, Yeah.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
You want to come get quick quick, you want to
come get.

Speaker 1 (00:13):
Looked at it beyond that's crazy. I ain't gonna lie
that type of baby, mam be when I have my kids,
be very careful. Paper drop his n not need to.
I'm sorry, but I should drop that off. What's up y'all?

(01:00):
Your girl lex p and it's your girl Drey in
the call and you are tuned in to another episode
of poor Mind where a drunk mind speaks sober.

Speaker 3 (01:09):
We got some guests today.

Speaker 4 (01:11):
We gots yes, saday okay.

Speaker 1 (01:15):
We are making a lot of our girls dreams come today.
Me personally, my dream is coming true because holda, I
get you him Hey, he mad him man. Look y'all
have in the comments asking we.

Speaker 3 (01:30):
Know y'all grew up with these girls.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
We have the beautiful so nique majia and breathe.

Speaker 4 (01:40):
Let's say d y'all, thank y'all for coming, Thank you, Haught.
We excited to have y'all own because I was just
telling him how I feel like we used to see
them all the time at effect when we used.

Speaker 1 (01:51):
To work out it so my memory from y'all go
is a little further back.

Speaker 3 (01:56):
So I'm look, I'm aunty. I'll want u to be
all auntie now.

Speaker 1 (01:58):
Okay, yeah, So by.

Speaker 3 (02:02):
No, y'all are not auntie age yet.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
Y'all not auntie ag. I'm thirty five, so I am
auntie a right. So I say this to say, by
the time that y'all came out, it was two thousand
and nine, y'all were still young girls. And I'm not
supposed to be listening to y'all right because I'm in college.
I'm supposed to be listening to boosy like a senior
in high school.

Speaker 4 (02:24):
Right, Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:26):
I'm like, but I remember when y'all dropped the Wear
Them Girls at song and y'all was there. I said,
this is about everybody next to somebody something. So y'all
were just ahead of y'all's time. Talent has always there,
So I do want to start from the beginning, you know,
with all of y'all.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
So whose idea was it for the group?

Speaker 4 (02:50):
So it was my mom's idea. She wanted to start
two group. She had a younger group with your su
and a older girls group of French kids.

Speaker 1 (02:59):
They changed names a couple of times, but yeah.

Speaker 4 (03:02):
She was just wanting to create a group, you know,
like escape with just her own type of girl groups.
So she me and Beija grew up together. Our mom's
are best friends. And she was like, you know, I
like to sing. She knew Beaja could sing, so she
was like, let's start there.

Speaker 1 (03:18):
And then we were all.

Speaker 4 (03:19):
Dancing at Major's first birth Yeah, his first birthday party,
like up in my room, and she was up there watching, like,
oh my god. And the crazy part I thought it
was is she was filming for Tiny and Toya. It
was just supposed to be like an episode, like she
was just doing an episode and then when it aired,

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people were like, oh my god, we love these girls,
and like she like, oh no, like this is very
much a serious thing at this point.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
Yeah, that was kind of like our start.

Speaker 4 (03:50):
Yeah, so that influenced too, because let's talk about how
y'all were influencing the girls with the hair, the outfaits everything.
Y'all hate everybody with the pink the park, and they
hear like y'all were really them girls. I mean y'all
still for sure, but like back then, y'all had everybody
following the tree how did y'all come.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
Up with that for the group?

Speaker 4 (04:15):
I mean, I remember first it started off with like
the colored pieces, our first show we ever did. We
would just do like the pieces, and you know, we
wanted to do the tutus the converts. But then when
we came to doing the whole head, I feel like
we were at Chicago's house or something and Auntie was
just like, y'all just need to do all y'all colors,
Like we should just die everybody should just die their

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hair like one color.

Speaker 1 (04:36):
And was like, oh man, that would be hard.

Speaker 4 (04:39):
So everybody started picking their color.

Speaker 1 (04:41):
My favorite color pink, so I was gonna be pink
no matter what.

Speaker 4 (04:45):
Always like I always wanted blue hair. I was like,
I feel like blues.

Speaker 1 (04:50):
And then you know.

Speaker 4 (04:57):
Words, yeah it works. It was it was like spurred
the moment. I was like, we're gonna they're gonna let
us do our whole head. We're gonna do it right now.
They've changed their mind, right.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
But it worked though, because I feel like it gave
into y'all's personality, like you know what I'm saying. Absolutely,
So I do want to talk about like the dynamic
of being in a girl group because y'all were in
a like going through growing up and being a woman
and you know, just trying to navigate life in general.
It's hard, but y'all are having to do that together

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in a business but also trying to maintain friendship.

Speaker 3 (05:31):
So how was that?

Speaker 5 (05:33):
Mhm?

Speaker 1 (05:34):
I mean like it was easy. Yeah, like I was
gonna go.

Speaker 6 (05:37):
We had each other, like I feel like we are starts,
like we the woman excuse me my voice, our voices
a little rest, but just being amongst each other, and
like how we like they were not just personal things
but business too. It just showed us how easy that,
like you know, when you're on the same page. We
got all the same drive and it's like divine moment

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and these like it all worked out and our personalities
like magicja so well to where we like get each
other like you know, yeah we do this, do that.
We balance each other very well. So it's just a
blessing in disguss.

Speaker 4 (06:09):
I feel like we're really not like a traditional like
girl group. Like I feel like when you think of
like girl groups, you think like, oh, like they broke
up and had to have been like a big fight
or they fell out, And with us, that really was
like not our story. Like we're genuinely like friends and family,
so that really wasn't our thing. And I kind of
feel like just us being together, we just get each other.

(06:32):
I feel like our dynamic is just we respect each other.
So it's never gonna be a situation where, you know,
we even if we're upset or we're having a disagreement,
it ain't gonna be no yelling or streaming.

Speaker 1 (06:42):
We're not like hitting the lid.

Speaker 4 (06:44):
It's really just more and so like, Okay, I don't
agree with what you're saying, but you know what I mean,
I'm gonna still respect you. And I think because we
respect each other and we're friends and family, we don't
really have those type of issues.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
That's amazing. They'll realize that it's such a young essor
because we've all seen a lot of girl groups fall apart,
even in the podcasting industry, right, we see people fall
apart literally in front of our eyes, and things dismantled
on social media.

Speaker 3 (07:11):
We don't have a city. We don't know none of
y'all team.

Speaker 1 (07:13):
If y'all be getting into it and fight out, we
don't know nothing. So I have a question.

Speaker 4 (07:19):
So okay, So the group started off your little sister
was in the group, yes, and then in the group yes,
And so y'all are both from Atlanta and then you're
from Alabama. So how did you come into the group? Breathe.

Speaker 6 (07:31):
So my uncle was a security guard and as brother,
he introduced me to them when they were looking for
a new member for the group. They saw my video
on YouTube of me dancing. So Huntie liked it and
she caught me on the phone and she had me
and sing over the phone it's like, okay, sound good.
She was like, can you come up here this weekend?
So thanks to my mom she hear it happen, and
like weekends on and out, like we were coming back
and forth from Obile to Atlanta okay, and then like

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going the studio together. We would do rehearsals together to
see how it fit with the girls. And thank god
they liked me and chose me to So.

Speaker 1 (07:58):
You had like a left off issues we got to have.

Speaker 4 (08:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
Yeah, So I do want to ask you, Zony, because
obviously you know your parents.

Speaker 3 (08:07):
You know you like tiny is your mom?

Speaker 1 (08:10):
Yeah a legend? Like look, I told you I liked
you when I was in college, but I grew up
on your mama here look now, look, I'm gonna be
the OMG mama though, Like, because I always like to

(08:37):
ask people that, Like, I think a lot of times
when people come into this space, they don't have nothing
to live up to, so it's like Okay, if I do, cool,
if I.

Speaker 3 (08:44):
Don't, whatever.

Speaker 1 (08:46):
But like, you grew up in the house with t
I and you know tiny, So how did that feel
like you're trying to step out into your own and
develop as an artist.

Speaker 4 (08:55):
I feel like for me, there was like pressures I
put on myself. I feel like my parents and like
my family were always just like you know, it's whatever
you want, like if you don't, you don't have to
do this, or if you're not feeling it, like it's
not like you know, it's not any pressure on doing it.
But I think for myself, just like growing up around
them and just seeing like greatness, I just felt like

(09:15):
a like I can always be better. I want it
or I just want to be my best self because
I felt like I'm coming up under you know, greatness,
and like I just I feel like I'll put that
on myself more so than anything.

Speaker 3 (09:27):
Right, Okay, that's good though. I like that.

Speaker 1 (09:30):
I like that you didn't feel the pressure from them. Yeah, no,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (09:34):
Yeah, one time, my grandma was like, baby, you don't
have to like be in a group bay, Like you
can do it playground if you want to, Like you
don't have to go to voice lessons. Maybe if I
don't want to, cause I couldn't be a lazy person.

Speaker 1 (09:49):
Right, So let me ask y'all these how has dating
being for y'all now that you know, like ever since
y'all were little to now, Like, how is dating for
y'all being in a spotlight?

Speaker 4 (09:59):
I'm not gonna I would say interesting, Okay, I think
like it for us it was a little bit unique
because we kind of came out of high school like
for us our sophomore year and then for her junior year,
so a lot of like I mean for me, like
a lot of the dating that was happening was like
just my peers if we're on the road or whatever.

(10:22):
But I just like we didn't even really date like
that though, Like I feel like we didn't really have
a traditional like dating experience, like just you.

Speaker 1 (10:31):
Know, talking to differ.

Speaker 4 (10:32):
You know how high school is like in school, you
like people, you know, you have the whole prom thing
and all that, Like we didn't have that experience. But
I think now it's like a young woman for me,
and like even when I was like a young adult,
it was like definitely different. But I learned a lot,
I would say, I would learn I learned a lot, and.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
I mean, I don't know. I feel like it was
pretty chill for the most part.

Speaker 4 (10:55):
I would say for me, I think dating is a
little like skeptical. I don't know how to really explain it.
Like my cousin was talking to us the other day
and she was just like, like, where y'all niggas at?

Speaker 6 (11:06):
Like what is going on? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (11:18):
You know, I feel like for me, I'm so like
closed in, Like I don't really I don't really trust
a lot of people. I don't. I don't know. It's
like I might think you cute, but do I really
want to talk to you, Like do I want to
get into that? I don't know. I feel like I
take like I take good amount of time before I
even really get into anything. Is he because you grew

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up in the spotlight and then with your mom being
tiny and your stepdad being ti, you like I don't
know if you really want to date me for me
or I don't know what your real intentions are?

Speaker 1 (11:49):
Is that why?

Speaker 4 (11:50):
Yeah, I think that definitely has a lot to do
with it, because yeah, I'm definitely just like I don't
know what anybody's intentions are, but I don't know.

Speaker 1 (11:57):
I think also like I'm just a little like crazy.

Speaker 4 (12:00):
I don't know why I put away like you know't
me sometimes it's just me.

Speaker 3 (12:08):
Yeah, I mean I get that.

Speaker 1 (12:09):
So I have to ask this question because before the
camera started rolling, we were talking about hat fishing. Okay,
so we were talking about a lot of times, because
you know how it is. People be like, oh she
a catfish her makeup.

Speaker 3 (12:21):
Yeah, but men be doing the same.

Speaker 1 (12:24):
Yeah they take that hat off, they ball hairline receiving.
But they let me ask you, ladies, the question because
we know how dating is. It's hard to find a good,
genuine person. And how I want you to answer this
too withold y'all. Date a man who wears a hair piece,
and I'm talking about the good hair pieces. You know,

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they be laying them down, they just edging them up.
They look if I love him, I would because I
feel like, you know, okay, you know, I feel I
know for real, because I feel like.

Speaker 4 (12:53):
You know what men like, they only have so many options,
Like like if I love you, I feel like I
could tolerate it, but I wouldn't want to know in
the beginning, like it would be it would have to
be something that like I fall in love.

Speaker 5 (13:09):
Tell me this was going on. I'm like, okay, that's cool,
Like I love.

Speaker 4 (13:12):
You face because I'm trying to figure out, like how
am I finding out?

Speaker 1 (13:19):
Like did you tell me a or am I like
rubbing my hands your head?

Speaker 4 (13:25):
Yeah? Then I'm like, what the fuck this is all?

Speaker 1 (13:28):
Yeah, that would disturb It would disturb me.

Speaker 4 (13:31):
But like if maybe if you taught me up frain,
I would be a little more open to week because
I would know, Okay, we can't go swim in. I'm
just saying like I would know what's off limits. You
need an umbrella in the rain. I love you, we
can't just run to the car. So I would be

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okay if maybe you were open, I guess, But like
if I'm if we just drunk night, I'm running my finger,
it's over, I would be terrified.

Speaker 1 (14:04):
Okay, what are y'all about? The little hair piece? Because
they look good now, it looks like you cannot tell.
I'm serious. Look like if you're on a whole piece
and it looks it's like a big crazy but they
edge it up like it's this regular hair.

Speaker 4 (14:22):
Yeah, they just.

Speaker 3 (14:23):
Glue with that.

Speaker 1 (14:23):
I use bone hold, the bone hold and they edge
it up and it looks natural.

Speaker 6 (14:29):
Okay, Well, I guess if you real about it, I
don't care what it.

Speaker 7 (14:32):
Got be.

Speaker 5 (14:33):
They know, they know, yeah, exactly, you got it. I
know when you go to your hairpointment, you getting.

Speaker 1 (14:38):
Yeah, get a hair cut back. Yeah, I know what's up, daddy,
I got you.

Speaker 4 (14:52):
Yeah, you know what. Ladies, I'm very nervous about the
hair piece. I'm very nervous. It was agreed with it.
I feel like, you know, if I learned this later on,
maybe like, Okay, I already love you. Yeah you know
I love you. But I'm just thinking if you're upfront
with it, if I like you and you upfront, you're like, damn,
like this, I gotta tell you something that's like I'm

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gonna be like.

Speaker 1 (15:20):
She just stopped talking.

Speaker 4 (15:24):
Because he just climbing his hell and then the hair
come off and given car Win, come on.

Speaker 1 (15:31):
I don't know how I would feel about it.

Speaker 4 (15:33):
You're talking worry about it? Maybe, yeah, all a valid point, Like,
you know, I got a kid. What's the hair problems?
Because I need my kid to have Okay, happening to women,
to women, what's the jeans? That's all I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (15:51):
Yeah, how you feel you can't do a hair pres
at all?

Speaker 4 (15:55):
No, that's a toe pay like we're trying to pay
New Spin. This is given George Jefferson.

Speaker 1 (16:02):
Do it now.

Speaker 4 (16:03):
Maybe if it's something like he started losing his hair
as been in a relationship and we're exploring with some options.

Speaker 1 (16:10):
Perhaps, but I'm also okay with a bald milk dud.

Speaker 4 (16:12):
So baby, cut it off.

Speaker 3 (16:13):
Okay, I'm not.

Speaker 1 (16:17):
I had the guy before and he told me whenever
we first started dating he didn't have a hair piece.
But he had the surgery. No, he didn't go down transplane,
he had air transplant. But I feel like, honestly, like
what's the difference. Like, I just feel like if you
if you balled, you balled a bitch, but that's your
real hair out. It don't matter. I mean, I mean,
I'm not trying to be funny. If you if you

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have a kid with me, our baby probably gonna be
bad built. I'm not bad built because I got surgery
a few times. But I'm dude. We just gonna lie together.
But our baby find to be fucked up. You don't
have to deal with it to they's gonna be bald
and bad milk. You know what I'm saying. The baby
gonna have a good personality that we have to count

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what's important. Okay, Okay, we're gonna get into this first
topic today. Okay, we want to talk about the effects
of being a child star again. Y'all came on the
scene very early, like we said earlier, and a lot
of the child stars we are seeing now, we're seeing
the effects of it. Yeah, yeah, for sure, no shade,

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no tea because I got ate up.

Speaker 3 (17:31):
One time.

Speaker 1 (17:31):
I said a joke about Britney Spears and I'm a
Britney Spears stand.

Speaker 4 (17:35):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (17:36):
It was our first live.

Speaker 3 (17:37):
Show and they was like free Brittany. I said, they
be the lock.

Speaker 4 (17:42):
Cutting up with the pennies.

Speaker 1 (17:45):
She do be cutting up a little bit, but again
I just said, it's enough. It's not her fault. She
might just need a little more help. Yeah, we're seeing
kind of like justin Bieber right now, a lot of things,
or Lando Brown, So I want to talk about the
effect of being a child star, like y'all, y'all, good, y'all.

(18:05):
What I can say?

Speaker 4 (18:07):
You know what, that's actually a great question because no
one ever really acts us that. Yeah, but we were
so protected. Our parents never played that. We were never
alone on the road, we were never in sessions, and
no one parent was there. Like and then too, I
think just like our introduction into the industry, like obviously
you know where her mom's group or step you know

(18:27):
what I mean, her dad is, we is. So it's
like I think there was a certain level of respect
also that came into play.

Speaker 1 (18:33):
But I definitely can see how like that could be if.

Speaker 4 (18:37):
There's no parental supervision on the road, you know what
I mean, Because really it's the touring aspect.

Speaker 3 (18:44):
It's the touring that's stuff going down.

Speaker 5 (18:46):
Yeah, I think so much easy access from city to city,
like always around.

Speaker 1 (18:53):
Yeah, and then you're the star, so it's just like whatever.

Speaker 5 (19:00):
This you want to do, that that's cool.

Speaker 4 (19:02):
You know, if your parents aren't there, it's real easy
to have access to like things that you're and then
when you're a child star, you have money, you know
what I mean?

Speaker 5 (19:11):
So it's like you lives different, Like yeah, you're you
can kind of always buy or do whatever you want.

Speaker 4 (19:18):
You know what I mean. If you go to an
adult and say, hey, like I can give you one
hundred dollars to go buy us a bottle, you know,
any adult is gonna I mean not any adult, but
an adult who need a hundred dollars gonna go and
do that.

Speaker 1 (19:30):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (19:30):
If that was me two thousand nights get that hard.

Speaker 4 (19:38):
Start and at seventeen were drinking now bo we was
just paying. My friend Mama was like, good, that's what
I used to wonder what I was seeing about it.
It was in a pink bottle, like real pretty. Yeah,
used to endorse the Yeah, it actually was really good.
It kind of tasted like a rose a little. It

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was like kind of bubbly, like you know what I
used to wonder was good when I was a kid.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
A A I was.

Speaker 3 (20:08):
What's his name from?

Speaker 1 (20:09):
Casey said, yeah, yes, I was old enough.

Speaker 4 (20:14):
I used to watch the Parkers. Yes, she definitely did.

Speaker 1 (20:23):
So did y'all see a lot of that like bad behavior?
Like you said, like the adults like if they needed
that hundred dollars did y'all see a lot of that
pressure coming from more so adults than people y'all's age
when y'all were on tour and stuff like that.

Speaker 4 (20:37):
I just fl like we were always in such a
safe environment, saw anything too crazy, even on the road.
Like and the people that we were with, like you know,
the other artists on the road, they were always like
very like with their parents, their parents. Like Jacob definitely
his his mom and his dad was okay, yes, family,

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we're out there. Even the boys their team were extremely protective.

Speaker 1 (21:06):
Damn near do anything.

Speaker 4 (21:08):
It was like, yes they met when they met us,
we like made them get when I made them. But
they wanted social media, like because we were like on Twitter, Instagram,
we had our own pages. You know, they were like
so like they could only have the group Twitter and
like they didn't even have a group Instagram at the

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time they met us. Like we got to at Instagrams
and you know, so we had a certain level of freedom.
I feel that was like a little bit our parents
let us be who we were, but we were still
very protective.

Speaker 1 (21:39):
Our tours were very kid friendly. Yeah, we very appropriate
that we could have been clubs.

Speaker 5 (21:46):
I'd be thinking bad, like.

Speaker 1 (21:52):
My old ass. I've been in the club since I
was sixteen. Yeah, the pressure from my old ass, and like,
it's just crazy that y'all were I mean, y'all were
so young when y'all had reached that amount of success
and fame.

Speaker 3 (22:08):
And we unfortunately see a lot of people, you know,
succumb to that.

Speaker 1 (22:11):
I agree.

Speaker 4 (22:12):
So because y'all were so young, y'all had a good
experience being in the industry. Would y'all be okay with
your future keys because y'all don't have kids too? Of
y'all y'all don't have kids exactly, Would y'll be okay
with y'all's future kids being in the industry and the
inique with you having a daughter already, would you be
okay with your daughter being in the industry? I would
be okay with it. I guess it's based off of

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my own experience, but I would definitely want to be
very hands on like my parents are. I don't know,
I saw things are a little different now, so it's
just like m I don't know. I guess it all
depends on if that's what she wants to do. Yeah, yeah, first,
but I would be okay with it. I feel like
my mom especially has always been so open to like

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just nurturing whatever she sees that you are into. So
it would be like that for me. I feel like,
if she's into it, I'm going to be all down here.
Yeah yeah, kind of the same way. I think if
I could be there and be a part of it,
then I definitely would be okay with it. But it
would really have to be something that like they really
wanted to do, Like I wouldn't push them into it. Yeah,

(23:19):
I would just want them to be like, hey, this
is something that I'm interested in, I want.

Speaker 1 (23:22):
To do it, and you know I'll be there.

Speaker 4 (23:25):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (23:25):
Same, it had to be their interest and then I
push it, like, but I'll be definitely present, right and
making sure things are.

Speaker 5 (23:31):
Looked over, paywork, all that type of not easy.

Speaker 4 (23:34):
It's just so hard, especially when you see all of
these stories coming out, especially these days. Like that's what
I was going to say.

Speaker 1 (23:45):
I mean when they were talking about the things that
a Man of Binds went.

Speaker 4 (23:49):
Through and the guy from Drake was it Drake and Jaws, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (23:53):
It was literally heartbreaking, Like like I said, even though
like even the stuff that Britty Spears went through, it's
literally heartbreaking. And that's why I say, y'all are so
and fortunate, you know what I'm saying. And I think
it's a difference. It shows like the difference in our
ages because I feel like with my mom, it was
kind of like this is what you're gonna do. You

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going to college, you're getting your degree, but when the
family come over for Christmas, you gonna make us laugh,
stand up, you know what I'm saying. So we I
never really feel like I had a choice in my future.
But I feel like now with social media and we
know how to make money, we know how to monetize this.
Like people, especially black people, it's so different for us

(24:35):
because we wasn't supposed to do this. Yeah, y'all wasn't
supposed to be selling out arenas and going on tours
like that. Like they never meant for us to be
this successful. So I think it's a beautiful thing. But
y'all know the signs to look for, you know, to
be like, Okay, this ain't this ain't right. I'm not
smelling right, no, Wady, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (24:54):
I'm just glad y'all were for take the Like it's
like a very refreshing thing to hear because I feel
like it's so many child stars they stayed that they
feel like they was just thrown out into the wolves
and they weren't protected by the adults around them, especially
because sometimes too, like you have parents that like they
just want their kid to have the opportunity, want the money. Yeah,
you know, so like you, this is the opportunity for

(25:17):
you know what I'm saying, you to make us successful.
We'll do whatever for it. And you know, just with us,
it was like, this is fun. It's supposed to be fun.
If it never feels like it's fun.

Speaker 1 (25:26):
You don't have to do it.

Speaker 4 (25:27):
And you know, everybody kind of always just told us that.
So I think that, you know, because it was fun,
we just like to do it right. You know.

Speaker 1 (25:33):
I had a good time because you hear stories about
people being like I told another parent what was going
on with this parent, and then they went back and
told the parents, Oh, hey, they're on to us. Yeah,
so it's like they had you know what I'm saying,
like no safe space and it should be fun. Because
we were talking about will Smith. Y'all, remember when Willow
dropped hair, I went my hair, Yeah, she she was

(25:55):
on a whole tour and she was like one day
she just showed She's like, I don't want to do this. Yeah,
was like no, he was like, you booked up boo.
We got towards the feeling she shaved off her head.
He was like, oh, you was serious, right, He was like, oh,
you were serious, because you know, we all have our
moments like oh I can't do this, and we wake

(26:15):
up and we were like, oh, I just had a
moment but was like, no, I don't want to do this,
and she shaved off her my queen standing so she
had to keep it off. But it's good that y'all
were in a space to where y'all were able, you know,
to like express yourself.

Speaker 3 (26:35):
Yeah, so when, so when did the when did when
things died down for y'all, What did y'all feel like?
What was next? Because that's kind of a scary feeling too,
I think, yeah.

Speaker 4 (26:46):
I think that that was the biggest feeling probably amongst
all of us, is like what is next? Like, well,
it definitely was scary, but I think that at the time,
you know, I think we all had different ideas about
what we wanted to do, and me and Nik had
been doing a group since we was twelve we met
Breed she was even fifteen yet, so you know, we

(27:07):
had grown together for so long, and I think even
though at the time it was like really scary, I
think we all knew that, you know, we just wanted
to pursue other things and just figure out who we
were as individuals. And now like with us being back,
we have even more to contribute to what we're doing
now as adults, you know, than we did at the

(27:27):
time when we were growing together. So I really feel like,
for me it was scary, but now on the back
end of it, I'm low key kind of like glad
it happened that way because when we came back and
we got like in the studio just the three of
us for the first time, it's like everything that everybody
contributed was just I mean I was like really shocked, honestly,
Like I'm.

Speaker 1 (27:46):
Like, we're just so good, like you know, as I
felt like, but it was it was nice.

Speaker 4 (27:51):
Though, I mean at the time it was scary, but yeah,
we were all that's the most probably all over the
place we've been as a group. Yeah, what's about to
happen out right? Yeah, but definitely made us stronger as
a collective when we came back.

Speaker 6 (28:04):
Those moments are needed because you learn a lot from
those moments and it all makes you stronger.

Speaker 4 (28:08):
Yeah for sure.

Speaker 1 (28:09):
Okay, So I do have another question. So, Okay, obviously
y'all just want a big lawsuit with.

Speaker 4 (28:16):
The OMG dolls. Did y'all feel vindicated in that moment?
Because y'all are really like when I think of certain people,
because now, obviously being an influencer is just such a
big thing. Everybody is an influencer, but y'all were really
influencers before the influencers, Like y'all were pioneers. Y'all influenced

(28:37):
the whole generation. So when y'all won that lawsuit, did
y'all feel vindicated? Because I feel like, especially in the
black community, it's so many of us that like other.

Speaker 1 (28:49):
Creators take from and it's just right.

Speaker 4 (28:54):
I didn't really want to say it, but you know,
like they take from us and they just get away
with But y'all won this lawsuit, Like, how does that
make y'all feel? I mean, yeah, I'm like, it was
such an indescribable feeling. I know for me when we
were sitting there and we were just hearing it, I
feel like all of us were like very emotional, and

(29:15):
it wasn't our first time going through the trial, like
what was it our third trial? Yeah, So like for me,
it was just like telling our like having to explain
our story to people who know us at all, like
they're older, they're you know, different races.

Speaker 1 (29:36):
Because they be thinking we lying, but that's okay to say.

Speaker 5 (29:38):
That everybody every other race but black.

Speaker 4 (29:43):
They were like, yeah, it was white as yeah, because
when you did it at that, that's like the primary population.
But I feel like for them to, like Nie said,
never know us and still feel like, you know, I
mean it was black, yeah, you.

Speaker 1 (30:00):
Know, Like I didn't y'all what was going on until
like it was getting close to y'all closing it and everything,
so I was like, what is this? And then when
I seen the dolls, say, oh my god, it was
like word for word, bar for bar like everything. So
who was the first person that brought it to y'all's
attention about these dolls? It was one of your mama's friends,

(30:25):
My mom's friends.

Speaker 4 (30:26):
Yeah, texted to her like the picture of one of
the dolls, and the picture was the doll that has
like one of our tour looks that we got made
like it wasn't something that you could just buy off
the shelf, and she sent it to all Lesson was like,
y'all see this, and we was like, wait a minute,
like that's too closed, you know, like me, yeah, obviously

(30:46):
by this time, we're not playing with dogs, so it's
not like we was just yeah, super aware of But
my little.

Speaker 5 (30:52):
Sister was crazy around that time though.

Speaker 6 (30:54):
She saw them like on YouTube and stuff, dancing like
and saying, and she was aware of us being home
girls like she's younger, like, but she loves us.

Speaker 5 (31:01):
She was like, three, does you like you know, like
your girl's like yeah. So even when she said that.

Speaker 1 (31:07):
It was like, and I don't even know how big
the dolls were.

Speaker 4 (31:11):
I didn't even know how big this like when I
would see the displays, like I'm like, oh, wait a minute,
you know what I'm saying, Like these, you know, these
dolls a big deal. Like I never at that time
like there would be people that would hit my mom up.
But I don't have like, you know, any kids or
you know what I.

Speaker 1 (31:28):
Mean, You're not in the world, have no idea. Yeah,
that's what I said obviously before y'all came out like this.
Them dolls were everywhere like it wasn't like a little like,
oh this is just a little toy and target. Oh bad.

Speaker 3 (31:44):
But they was cashing it.

Speaker 1 (31:45):
Yeah, commercials everything.

Speaker 8 (31:47):
You know, video they were see, they were gl y'all
were remixing y'all too.

Speaker 3 (31:55):
They grew Oh my god. But I mean, I think
that's a big that's I don't want.

Speaker 1 (31:59):
To say a big flex, but that's just a big
like congratulations testament. So we are the taste makers and
y'all went in there not afraid it. Stood up for
y'allselves because a lot of times we don't get recognized
for the trends that we start. So the fact that
y'all want that because a lot of times people say, oh,
I think this celebrity or this person copied off of me,
and they'll be like, no, they didn't. This is really

(32:21):
x y Z like oh yeah, saying nothing, they will
just create more content, right, No, I'm going to stand
up for myself.

Speaker 5 (32:30):
Yeah, that was a blessing and everything being able to
stand up for ourselves.

Speaker 4 (32:35):
Making that happen.

Speaker 3 (32:37):
But I know I'm lawyers, wasn't cheating.

Speaker 1 (32:41):
G I P coming live from thee.

Speaker 4 (32:51):
Yeah, they really are lawyers. Really were the stars of
the show. He protected us, They got very protective of us,
getting to know us. And these two are so amazing,
Like just watching them continuously have to explain the story
and I'm you know, you're watching people like try to
discredit what they're saying or like bring them down. It

(33:12):
was like very You have to keep a certain level
of composure, you know, And I feel like they did
absolutely amazing because I'm like the super sensitive.

Speaker 1 (33:22):
Emotional one.

Speaker 4 (33:23):
You know, I'm the baby of the group, so I'm
very like, you know, protective of them, so to kind
of have to be there and not be able to
say like anything or defend try to be able to
like step in and try to defend them. I'm just like,
oh my god, they do it so good.

Speaker 3 (33:39):
But it was crazy.

Speaker 4 (33:40):
It was dope.

Speaker 9 (33:41):
Though.

Speaker 3 (33:42):
Everything is over with it now it's close.

Speaker 1 (33:46):
Can y'all say.

Speaker 4 (33:48):
It's almost.

Speaker 1 (33:51):
To move We're in our find sign them checks and
send them over. Okay, all right, all right, all right,
So tom what are we drinking today? Because I'm a
little lit over here.

Speaker 9 (34:05):
Some shot If y'all want another shot, we could do it,
all right, So in honor.

Speaker 4 (34:18):
Drinking the scene.

Speaker 5 (34:22):
Yeah, now you know that's good.

Speaker 4 (34:29):
It's really good.

Speaker 1 (34:30):
Okay, Yeah, I was in here muddling peaches.

Speaker 4 (34:37):
In honor of our favorite Georgia and Alabama peaches because
I was somebody from Alabama. Right all right, I got you, girl,
I got you, so in honor of our Alabama and
Georgia peaches. This is the make a scene, all right.
So we have some repisoidal tequila in there. We have
some peach tea, some passion fruit liquour, a little bit
of lemon juice, a little bit of a guy they

(34:58):
and then we topped it off with a little bit
of gen your beer. And then we garnish it with
a fresh slice peach and some sage. Oh and I
put some sage inside the drink too. So this is
to make a scene.

Speaker 1 (35:14):
I'm gonna do her.

Speaker 4 (35:14):
Thing with dream.

Speaker 3 (35:17):
She did.

Speaker 4 (35:19):
I don't want to sound like theolic. You want to
shy sts for everybody's start.

Speaker 3 (35:27):
Round it up, rounded up youth.

Speaker 1 (35:30):
You never seen like an alcoholic.

Speaker 3 (35:34):
You're always gonna be a lightweight around.

Speaker 4 (35:38):
Okay, y'all into number two. Do y'all think that girl
groups should come back? Or do you think like people
should take a solo pads now because obviously at one point,
like us growing up, y'all are a little bit younger
than us. But even y'all growing up, you know, you
had the Destiny's Child, you had T O C three,

(35:59):
O W. Black. It was just so many girl groups,
and now I feel like we just don't have that. Yeah,
And do y'all feel like that is the way or
do you think like people should just be solo?

Speaker 1 (36:13):
I really feel like it's just all based in like
what you want to do for me.

Speaker 5 (36:19):
I love my group.

Speaker 4 (36:20):
You know, a lot of the successful like solo artists
we see, even like Beyonce, Like, you know, I think
Beyonce is amazing, but I also feel like her being
in Destiny's Child, of course we all know it super
contributed to who she is now, and I just I don't.

Speaker 5 (36:34):
Know, I feel like it's all in your path.

Speaker 4 (36:35):
Like I feel like some people come out and they're
like amazing solo artists, like right now, Tyler is one
of my favorite.

Speaker 5 (36:41):
I couldn't see, y'all, I can't see her in you know,
But I.

Speaker 1 (36:46):
Mean I think there right now, though, there is like
a small resurgence of like, yeah, they're dope. They are,
and their.

Speaker 4 (36:55):
Album is pretty good too, like they have a it's
quite a few songs on there. I actually enjoy, Yes, Siren,
they're like our little sisters from their dope like black.

Speaker 1 (37:08):
Pink, Oh, black pink. Yeah, you know, like just a
little bit.

Speaker 4 (37:12):
Yeah, it's different.

Speaker 3 (37:14):
Is this is what I have to say about the
girl group situations?

Speaker 7 (37:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (37:18):
Like that because I think sometimes I want to watch
my words here. Yeah, so I'm gonna be careful what
I say because this is no Because I was gonna
ask you, why do you think there's a resurging? You know,
like do you feel like people are just feeling like, oh,
we're better together than apart, like we made something magical together.
If I'm honest, I'll tell you, I'm gonna give you

(37:40):
the opposite kind of Okay, I'm gonna tell you why
girl groups fell So you say you need to be
here for I'm gonna tell you why girl groups fell
off because the girl groups, let me tell y'all something,
when they.

Speaker 3 (37:50):
Had escaped you, they did not understand they need togs
to it on my loan.

Speaker 1 (38:00):
Don that like come on, now, we had s WV,
we had seven O two all the groups that you named. Okay,
I'm an army girl. I get real passionate for no reason.
Just bear with me.

Speaker 3 (38:12):
All But Beyonce.

Speaker 1 (38:16):
Decided to take her challenged ash and say shame, blow
your horn now, God, don't work it out. And everybody
wanted to work their ass out, and that wasn't the
path for everybody, you know what I'm saying. So I
get it because Beyonce is a generational talent. You know,
we only but I think that put the pressure on
people like oh, and then everybody started feeling like I'm

(38:38):
the Beyonce. So egos get involved, and when you're in
a group, you can't have no ego.

Speaker 4 (38:46):
You speaking no words.

Speaker 1 (38:48):
I'm telling you because we talk about Beyonce, but we're
not gonna talk that. People don't want to talk about
what Kelly did in Europe with her.

Speaker 4 (38:56):
Eight But all y'all, Kelly did have a song then
she came out with and she said she felt some
type of way wouldn't be one.

Speaker 1 (39:03):
She did, because I mean, how could you not. It's
a natural, it's a natural feeling. But you have to
realize these women are all superstars and are all right.
Michelle did gospel music and was eating them charts, you
know what I'm saying. So I think, yes, there's a
lane for everybody. But I think everybody just saw what
Beyonce did and everybody was like, oh, well, I'm the

(39:25):
Beyonce of the group and I'm gonna go solo, and
it's like that's not everybody's past, you know what.

Speaker 4 (39:32):
I was gonna also say, I feel like it's easier
to just do a solo artist you think. I mean,
I think for like labels or whoever's trying to cure
a group, like for us, we were family and it
was just like pretty much easy to be like, oh
I got this person, I got this person. But for
someone else, you have to find the people they got it.
You got to make sure they yelled together and they

(39:54):
like each other and you know, and then it's like
you gotta pay for outfits and make you know what
I'm saying. Yeah, but I feel like they might be
coming back because we're missing that and now there's so
much out there that it's like, Okay, somebody gotta do
something different, like let's thro.

Speaker 1 (40:14):
A group out there. Let's let's get a group together.
I mean, I love a harmony. That's why I feel
like I love y'all.

Speaker 4 (40:23):
We need the harmonies. Like I feel like girl groups
just give us something that a solo person cannot give us.
It's like we need the little ones who step, we
need the choreography.

Speaker 5 (40:36):
It's definitely the.

Speaker 1 (40:45):
Different times.

Speaker 5 (40:50):
And then it's about groups to they have different personalities,
so you.

Speaker 1 (40:52):
Can white world. Yeah, like this was my favorite. That's
with this one.

Speaker 5 (41:00):
I can mess with this one more so.

Speaker 1 (41:02):
That's what I said. You was my girl, my old
as I was like purple, you.

Speaker 4 (41:11):
Know, you was the blue and needs different personalities, different persons.
Everybody brings something different to the group. I feel like
we need that bad bigger in the program these days. Yeah,
say it again, everybody bigger. It's like, no, together, we

(41:35):
are the problem.

Speaker 6 (41:36):
The Maria Like when you get together, it's like things
you can do individually, but when you bring it together
and even when you do it like because as a group,
we do our group thing, but we also have individual solos.

Speaker 5 (41:44):
Yeah, like adds more to the like.

Speaker 6 (41:48):
Like a prime example, I feel like MiGs did that
they were together and they did they solo stuff. Everybody
ate it up, like it's just more music you have
more contiently you got more to tune into.

Speaker 5 (41:58):
But when they're together, it's it's like.

Speaker 1 (42:00):
A launch ally album crazy crazy.

Speaker 4 (42:04):
I mean, I agree, I feel like you could do
it to get there, but then.

Speaker 8 (42:09):
Careers, I mean, but you gotta keep you gotta keep
the band together.

Speaker 4 (42:17):
How you do it, It's about how you do it too.
Like we respect each other like just as business women too.
So even if they're even now, if there's something that
we want to do, like solo wise, we have a
conversation amongst us, Hey, this is what I'm trying to do.
This is when I'm trying to do it. I don't
want to conflict with nothing that we're doing with the group,
you know, and we just really work it out, like
I feel like when you try to go and do

(42:38):
it and people don't know what's going on, being like.

Speaker 5 (42:42):
Yep, here you know what I'm saying, Like that's what
makes it.

Speaker 1 (42:45):
Like, I mean, I just see this so much even
in the podcasting industry and people be like, oh my god,
what is she doing?

Speaker 3 (42:58):
What she's doing?

Speaker 1 (42:58):
It's be like when me and we had conversation, we'd
be like, look, girl, this is what I'm doing. But
I know my brain before we do is that communicators.
It ain't like and then when I go on these platforms,
you know she has her beauty line, I'll be like, yeah,
I got mused beauty on this GIRLO we got because
it's more odd age.

Speaker 3 (43:19):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (43:20):
And I one thing I loved, I love buff still
about y'all is like y'all are so different, but y'all
mess so well.

Speaker 8 (43:30):
And then y'all stay in y'all's lane. It ain't no
like y'all all the Beyonce of the group.

Speaker 1 (43:34):
There's no I did not say who is the lead
the lead. There's no lead to me because y'all all
shine in your own individual way.

Speaker 4 (43:44):
And you know what I'm gonna say, shout out to
Auntie Tika for that, because she definitely always made it
a point to never be like, oh, this is the
lead this, even with Zunny being her daughter, it was
never like, oh this is how it has to go.

Speaker 1 (43:58):
Or that's what people want to be.

Speaker 4 (44:00):
Yeah, like it was. I feel like it was always
very fair and I feel like she's always allowed us
the space to just have our own how we want
to do it, Like she's never gonna really push us
to do something unless you just feel like y'all gotta
trust me on this one.

Speaker 1 (44:14):
You know it's bigger than what y'all see.

Speaker 4 (44:15):
But outside of that, you know, like she's never ever
made it like, oh, this is who gotta be the lead,
this is who gotta be in the middle. Like we
kind of just go in the studio and vibe like
whatever's best for the record, we're gonna do it.

Speaker 6 (44:31):
But no, honestly got a gift like a vision. And
when she sees something like maga see video she did that,
she killed that, she saw it, she told us, executed it,
and here we are. But like for even that for
a group, like she knows what it is, and I
really appreciate that gift and how she utilized it and
put it through others and like feed it like she
ain't gonna stop either. Once she go and she got
an idea, she's gonna be on full throttle. And I

(44:51):
really appreciate that about herself. Shout out to you until
we love you so much.

Speaker 4 (44:56):
With our group dynamic, I feel like we're all like
I'm very strong, wrong in different areas and we're aware
of that.

Speaker 1 (45:02):
So it's like we messed very well together, Like you know,
I know you're gonna kill this. You will kill this.

Speaker 4 (45:08):
We gonna do that, and we're gonna look good as
a collective.

Speaker 1 (45:14):
To do better than this.

Speaker 5 (45:15):
Yeah, actually listen to each other, like what can I
do here?

Speaker 4 (45:18):
What can I do there?

Speaker 1 (45:19):
Like absolutely, but I feel like we're like that too.

Speaker 4 (45:22):
But I think y'all are y'all are an anomaly because
it's you know, but I agree with it.

Speaker 1 (45:38):
I wish I did say that.

Speaker 4 (45:39):
Literally, That's what I want to say.

Speaker 1 (45:44):
As everybody. What is you all size? Okay?

Speaker 4 (45:49):
Okay, I'm I'm a tourist on the cusp of Arias. Okay,
I'm a Piscy. You a Leo, he's a Leo.

Speaker 3 (45:59):
August I'm August seventeen.

Speaker 1 (46:01):
Wow, I sure that I love that second.

Speaker 5 (46:07):
Okay, I'm March twenty.

Speaker 1 (46:08):
Third, I'm March twentieth.

Speaker 4 (46:10):
Okay. So I was saying, y'all are like an anomaly
because a lot of the time with women, it just
get real caddy and like real competitive, autistical.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
Why do y'all think that happen?

Speaker 4 (46:25):
Like why do y'all think like women as a whole,
we feel like we can't all coexist together and grow
together and become successful together, it always has to be
one person. It's like like she was saying, oh, I'm
the Beyonce. Yeah, people don't want to work for the team,
work for the greater good. I would say maybe because

(46:46):
a lot of times people are so focused on like themselves,
Like it's more about like you know, like I'm here,
I could be here for the group, but like I'm
more so like in my mind not without saying it,
like I'm more so worried about me, and like how
you know what I got going on?

Speaker 1 (47:02):
I think for us, like.

Speaker 4 (47:03):
We've grown up together, we love each other genuinely, so
it's like I'm worried about me, but I'm also worried
about you as an individual in us as a collective,
Like a lot of people get lost in like and
especially when stuff starts to really pick up, it's like outside, yeah,
like they get loud, get loud, they telling you you

(47:27):
to start at telling you you to start telling. And
we just had we had.

Speaker 1 (47:32):
Yeah situation, and if we.

Speaker 5 (47:35):
Didn't talk about it, it's just like let that be.

Speaker 4 (47:37):
Like it's so crazy because even when we were first meeting,
like I feel like just our bond and what we
had going on is just it was a mutual respect.

Speaker 1 (47:46):
It's like, yo, what is this.

Speaker 5 (47:48):
Person saying to you? Because it's what they're saying to me.

Speaker 1 (47:50):
You know.

Speaker 4 (47:51):
We end up having a conversation where one person was
telling all of us like, oh you to start, you know,
and she told you exactly.

Speaker 1 (48:00):
It's so she was like so weird like that. We
had an instance like that, Yeah, we did, because it
was a person who called me was like, oh you
killed it. You he was like he went back and
told her, Oh yeah, alexaid that she was what, like,
what's that about? But when I tell y'all that, yes,

(48:24):
but I see so many times, like I said, in
the world of people, and I see people that fell
into that trap.

Speaker 3 (48:31):
One thing about me this my path is given by God.

Speaker 1 (48:36):
Hello.

Speaker 4 (48:37):
Hello.

Speaker 1 (48:37):
You can't stop and about it. I know that me
and Dre were put in each other's life by God.
So there's nothing that you can do. And so I
think that's what when you have to say level headed
like I'm not bigger than the program, you know.

Speaker 6 (48:52):
What, I'm sure you like to like confromation on show
over and over again, like this is what it is,
like You're destined to do this. God put this on
your path for a reason, because even when we met
each other, how everything just jailed and everything together, you
knew he want nothing but God right from there, and
how things keep going and keep going in our favor.
Ain't nothing but again to him. So credit is where
it's dul.

Speaker 5 (49:19):
I'm grateful for the upbringing I did him in church.

Speaker 6 (49:21):
Yeah, she definitely didn't play about that, and just my
faith in herself, like I'm grateful to have the relationship
that I do, as we all do, though we don't
play about that before we get on stage.

Speaker 5 (49:30):
We pray together all that type of stuff.

Speaker 1 (49:31):
And it's true.

Speaker 5 (49:32):
People that pray together stay together.

Speaker 6 (49:33):
Like transparency is the key, but also prayer and fading
faith together is important.

Speaker 1 (49:38):
If you can't pray with somebody, it's different, y'all, y'all Garlic, Okay,
it's she's so bad.

Speaker 7 (49:58):
You seen me.

Speaker 1 (49:59):
Yeah, she's all.

Speaker 4 (50:00):
About my girl gardy. Yeah, it's going home.

Speaker 1 (50:05):
Like I did not like that.

Speaker 4 (50:06):
I didn't not like that exactly, Michael B.

Speaker 1 (50:08):
Jordan.

Speaker 4 (50:09):
But you've never seen it, y'all.

Speaker 1 (50:13):
Have you gotta go see it?

Speaker 3 (50:17):
Okay, y'all gotta go see it, like y'all.

Speaker 4 (50:19):
Not this week, but I anymore, No no, no, they
renew the make.

Speaker 1 (50:25):
I want to see the demand. You gotta go see that.

Speaker 4 (50:28):
I thought they had cancery, but she said they were new.

Speaker 3 (50:31):
Said they didn't, but I think they.

Speaker 4 (50:33):
Sweet said, if you have really what she said, I see.

Speaker 1 (50:40):
Singers, I saw you saw it early.

Speaker 4 (50:45):
I got a sweet that said, if you haven't seen
seen Centers yet, you are too single.

Speaker 5 (50:50):
You know, because I got movie days by myself all
the time.

Speaker 4 (50:52):
Because I haven't seen it everybody.

Speaker 1 (50:53):
I've seen it with your homegirls, I know, but they've
all seen it. She said, she's not having together.

Speaker 3 (51:01):
We're gonna go, but I am.

Speaker 1 (51:09):
It's yeah.

Speaker 7 (51:09):
I like.

Speaker 4 (51:19):
So I'm the person who I don't want to go
to the movies because I'm gonna fall asleep. I'm gonna
end up squalling on my phone. She's a movie buff, like,
she's really into movies. I don't even be trying to
go to the movies with her because I know I'm
a fall asleep and.

Speaker 1 (51:34):
I be mad. You see that part. I'm trying to
take her. I took her to the Marvel movies Black Panther.
W saw Black Panther I never saw because she said
when he was doing something with the row.

Speaker 10 (51:46):
She said, cook that ship up quite. I don't take said, so, yeah,
we don't go.

Speaker 1 (51:56):
To the Yeah. So my attention spanning short.

Speaker 4 (51:58):
So I'm not even a movie person, but I went
to see Sinners twice.

Speaker 1 (52:04):
I'm gonna see that. It's really but I think in general,
we need to support black directors creators. We have to
do that more. And I like that Ryan Cooper he
a black father and a black husband and.

Speaker 4 (52:18):
Yeah together because she does stuff on his set like, yeah, right,
I love their I'm saying the homes in the family.

Speaker 6 (52:30):
People like, you're gonna need friends there? Are you gonna
have other black familyes together. We're gonna have a cookouts
meet up house like the dads handles.

Speaker 3 (52:39):
Yes, so.

Speaker 1 (52:46):
We got to talk about back flams and okay, so
how are you and your co parentsing situation with the
father of your child? She was so cute though she
ate that. You know what, y'all, I don't know.

Speaker 4 (53:05):
I really enjoy co parenting with my child's father. I
feel like for me, that's like the best thing to
do for myself. It's very what's the word I'm looking for,
It's just who knows, it's just.

Speaker 1 (53:27):
Yeah, it's not.

Speaker 3 (53:33):
Work.

Speaker 4 (53:38):
It's very healthy.

Speaker 1 (53:41):
It's going.

Speaker 4 (53:42):
I'm like, it's a basic A lot of the time,
I have brain farts, but it's very healthy, I say.
I feel like that's just yeah, it's the best thing
for me to be co parenting. I love my child's
father still, and yeah, you know, like I don't know,
what was the question, do you love?

Speaker 1 (53:57):
Do you love?

Speaker 4 (54:00):
Are you.

Speaker 3 (54:05):
Hot?

Speaker 1 (54:07):
You mean you still love?

Speaker 3 (54:10):
Cause you mean like hot?

Speaker 1 (54:11):
Do you mean like hot? SI?

Speaker 4 (54:14):
Listen, No, No, I love my baby daddy.

Speaker 1 (54:22):
I'm not in.

Speaker 4 (54:24):
Yeah, I'm not in love with my child's father. I am.

Speaker 1 (54:28):
I have a lot of love for him.

Speaker 4 (54:30):
I feel like, you know what I tell my girls
all the time, like if it's meant to be, I
feel like it will be. But right now, I'm all
for whatever is healthy for my child and myself because
my piece is like a really big thing to me,
and I just feel like, you know, raising a child
together can be hard, and for me, I felt like
separating the relationship from the.

Speaker 1 (54:52):
The co parent yeah, the romance I feel like I had.

Speaker 4 (54:55):
I had to exit that out to be able to
just get a healthy, like a health healthy comparenting relationship.

Speaker 1 (55:02):
Okay, that's fair, that's true. I like that because a
lot of times the ladies don't be putting that baby first.

Speaker 2 (55:10):
First you want to come get que week come, you
want to come get looked at beyond come get that said,
that's crazy.

Speaker 3 (55:24):
That's my mom be.

Speaker 1 (55:27):
When I have my kids, be very careful.

Speaker 7 (55:30):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (55:32):
His nas not need to with I'll come hard. But
I have a child with whisk the child that's okay, okay, okay,
I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 4 (55:50):
Watching her be a parent though, and not being a parent,
and just like seeing her interact with her like kids
and like her baby's father, I definitely feel like it
makes me feel like, wow, this is like doable, you know,
because it doesn't come off like this is a lot
you know what I mean. I think that from my
point of view, I think that like they both have

(56:11):
a really really deep love and respect for each other,
and they both love you know, that's my god child.

Speaker 1 (56:17):
But they both love my God baby, and I think
they are amazing parents. It's exactly like, because what's your
little sister's name, eris.

Speaker 4 (56:27):
They look alike?

Speaker 1 (56:28):
I don't think they've got.

Speaker 4 (56:32):
She she used to look like eras though people said
that they look like still still.

Speaker 3 (56:39):
Their favorite me.

Speaker 1 (56:41):
Like they was walking down and nobody knew who they were,
Like they was walking out the street and like China.

Speaker 3 (56:46):
Hu, look twin, look twine.

Speaker 1 (56:56):
They think we all look alike in the.

Speaker 6 (57:00):
Hut as a mom and she's killing the ship. Lady
really proud and like look forward to being a mother.
Like how she does it and do it so with ease,
Like it's so beautiful.

Speaker 5 (57:14):
And the relationship.

Speaker 4 (57:20):
Yeah, she's a sad Yeah, mine, I have a very
I have a very close friend.

Speaker 1 (57:27):
Reginae is a sad regin.

Speaker 4 (57:34):
Crazy. Yes, I love very crazy.

Speaker 1 (57:38):
That's how we know. I think you are killing it.
You just seem so calm, so paid. Yeah, be a
graceful woman dealing with a man in general, So be
a graceful woman. And you have a child with a man,
that's a whole other level. It's only a few women
in that basket. Like my sister is that way. She

(57:59):
is a very graceful mother. You are that way. You
It's very rare that you see that, because I'm not
graceful and I don't even have a child. He supposed
to be graceful.

Speaker 3 (58:08):
And be a mother. It's a beautiful thing.

Speaker 4 (58:10):
Api y'all. I appreciate that, y'all, I get a lot
of backlash, Like I feel like, yes, why what do
people be saying? I feel like for me, like with
people growing up with me, like you know, family, house
or whatever, I feel like people have like a vision
of how I.

Speaker 1 (58:30):
Was supposed to grow up or how I was supposed
to do things.

Speaker 4 (58:33):
So it's just like when I was having a hunter
to day was like, oh, you didn't don't have a
ring or and now so you know you want the
baby daddy.

Speaker 1 (58:40):
And all this stuff.

Speaker 4 (58:41):
But I feel like for me, like I didn't really
get to see my mom and my dad together, so
it was never like a thing for me to be like, oh,
I have to keep this unit together and be able
to be a good mom. Like I always saw my
mom being a great mom. So it was just like,
you know, I could do this by myself and do
this with him, right, Because I feel like for real,

(59:05):
for real, like I feel like people be too invested,
like the par of social relationship say that y'all don't
know her, you.

Speaker 5 (59:12):
Know what I mean, Like I know this girl like
and I feel like, no, I do I know this girl?

Speaker 4 (59:18):
Like, and I just think above anything. The most important
thing is her being an amazing mother to her child.
Anything outside of that is her business. But I feel
like her child as well taking care of she clean.
She lived an amazing life. You know. When we was
doing our lawsuit, we hunter had to come you know
what I mean, And so we waking up five six
in the morning to be in court at eight.

Speaker 1 (59:40):
She got her baby with her, you know what I mean.
Like people don't see that.

Speaker 4 (59:43):
They also don't his contribution to that, like him being
there keeping her, you know, while she's handling her business.
So I think people look at it from like such
a relationship based player and they have love and respect
for each other, and they have a child, like they're
gonna have to be cool.

Speaker 3 (01:00:00):
People never want to put the kids first.

Speaker 5 (01:00:02):
Now, yeah, they're great parents.

Speaker 4 (01:00:04):
The parents I'm feel I love that.

Speaker 3 (01:00:06):
I love that. Okay, we're gonna get into the b
ou bow.

Speaker 1 (01:00:14):
Bow bow.

Speaker 4 (01:00:20):
Making kids a little bit. Y'all real business.

Speaker 5 (01:00:25):
Okay, y'all girl business.

Speaker 1 (01:00:27):
Getting O m G. B Yes, yes, take a little skill.

Speaker 4 (01:00:34):
And the name of the game is make him say
O m G.

Speaker 3 (01:00:41):
We're playing the game.

Speaker 1 (01:00:42):
So these are the rules, you know, she said, Mommy
off duty I'm okay on my shot.

Speaker 4 (01:00:55):
One more aside, okay, sothing. So the game, y'all, so
each player must share a move, moment, or a sixy
surprise that would definitely make their partner say, o MG.
What a move, a moment, or a sexy surprise that

(01:01:20):
would make your partner say OMG, okay, okay. So we're
gonna give y'all some scenario.

Speaker 1 (01:01:25):
I was like, okay, so a move that I know
that makes my partner just like OMG all the time,
I'm nervous. Well, I'm just gonna saying so crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:01:34):
I'm gonna keep a life from my music, okay.

Speaker 1 (01:01:38):
But honestly, like I stretch, I stretch a lot now
like I always. Now, I do this thing where I like,
you know, I grabbed my ankles oh so softly and
I'm just pulling behind my every time. He just be like, wow,
that's a queen's he said, like, and he just you know,

(01:02:02):
he can dive in in all types of way. So
that's a that's a move that you o G your partner.
Sometimes you just need to lay on the bed butt naked,
grab your angles, but you really have to stretch because
you're pulling your legs all the way yeah, all the
way back. I mean they got boucom a little bit this, y'all.

(01:02:26):
Really you know, so that's a o MG move for
my om G man. Oh married ah, because I'll be
doing it, but I don't be to talk about it.
That's as Yeah, so what like an OMG move org
Some tourists.

Speaker 4 (01:02:49):
Like taurists like is my most like compatible sign? As
far as like is your No, he's a Capricorn.

Speaker 1 (01:02:59):
Now my first.

Speaker 4 (01:03:03):
Really I can see that. Oh you had a years
and I don't.

Speaker 5 (01:03:14):
I mean, I don't, Okay, I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:03:15):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (01:03:16):
I don't hate him, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:03:20):
I don't hate, but I do.

Speaker 4 (01:03:23):
Feel like, you know, being a fire sign, you know,
I think, Yeah, I think we're just so different. When
it's good, it's really good, you know, it's super good.
He's still like very close to me. But I don't know,
ye like, he's just a Capricorn. That's the only way
I could describe it.

Speaker 1 (01:03:44):
It's just they're so.

Speaker 7 (01:03:46):
A lot.

Speaker 4 (01:03:47):
There are a lot.

Speaker 5 (01:03:48):
They're a lot.

Speaker 4 (01:03:49):
I love him, but I let my man now is
a Libra.

Speaker 1 (01:03:55):
There are a lot too.

Speaker 4 (01:03:56):
I was about to say them libras, he'd be lying,
I love it, but like super dominant though, like how
he is dominant.

Speaker 1 (01:04:11):
But okay, so I have a goofy personality and he
is silly y'all. Haven, Oh my god, we be having
a ball, so it don't matter what I be trying
to be so mad and.

Speaker 5 (01:04:25):
It's but it's listen.

Speaker 1 (01:04:27):
Warning to my girls out there, they a funny nigga
if you want to your life and to be ruined.
And I'm talking about I'm talking about a real funny nigga.
Not everybody think they funny. I'm talking about a real
funny ass.

Speaker 3 (01:04:42):
God speed, bitch.

Speaker 1 (01:04:44):
My mama is with a libra, so we see how
But when when a man love you, they're not They're
not letting them go.

Speaker 3 (01:04:55):
When a liber man loves you, they're not letting you go.

Speaker 11 (01:04:59):
Yeah you don't, Oh I know, Yeah, I think I've
seen it.

Speaker 4 (01:05:06):
So many times, like in real time just being around
and being like just a niece and watching what's going on.

Speaker 1 (01:05:13):
But like, if you want to love.

Speaker 3 (01:05:17):
I love you a liberman. If you want a man
that's never gonna leave until.

Speaker 5 (01:05:21):
You get you a liberman, I'm picking up some game here.

Speaker 1 (01:05:26):
I might you wanta let that came.

Speaker 3 (01:05:28):
I mean.

Speaker 4 (01:05:33):
He was an so I just I don't know. I
don't know, you know what. I feel like Capricorn's are
lovable people, but I think what it really is that
they are so many they are.

Speaker 3 (01:05:51):
Nig I've ever met.

Speaker 1 (01:05:55):
It's like they're mean. What he's not mean when he's
not me, he's.

Speaker 3 (01:06:04):
Ask the girl, he fucking yeah, I bet you.

Speaker 1 (01:06:10):
I X before. I don't like though, I feel like
he is super sweet.

Speaker 4 (01:06:17):
But I do think Capricorns are like they're they're a
little me. But I felt they're so serious.

Speaker 1 (01:06:22):
You know, I have.

Speaker 4 (01:06:26):
Yes.

Speaker 3 (01:06:27):
I say this all the time.

Speaker 1 (01:06:28):
I have watched grass grow.

Speaker 3 (01:06:30):
That was more exciting than a Capricorn.

Speaker 1 (01:06:34):
I hate draw. That was more exciting than a Capricorn.
I mean I get put to sleep, and not in
a good way. I mean, I'm gonna be honest.

Speaker 4 (01:06:45):
I feel like my Capricorn we had we did. We
used to have a lot of fun together. But he
was like very he liked to just have fun with
just me, Like if it's a situation where it's like
we're trying to or I'm trying to like go out,
like it's like a group thing. Like he don't want
to do no double days. Yeah, he don't want to
do no double days. He don't want to do He

(01:07:06):
just wants all my attention, all my time. I mean it,
you know, I mean, I love, I love, I love,
I love.

Speaker 1 (01:07:20):
I dated the Pisces and he was like the most
adventurous person, go with the skill. I've never heard anything
good about a man Pisce, so that's like my friend.

Speaker 4 (01:07:29):
Well, my best friend is a man Pisca.

Speaker 3 (01:07:32):
You don't fall in love with a Pisces.

Speaker 4 (01:07:34):
You have fun with a I can see that, and
you see what I'm saying, Like, I feel like I'm
a little crazy like.

Speaker 3 (01:07:40):
You are, you know, on the it's under cover, very emotional.

Speaker 4 (01:07:47):
Don't give me that though, gives me very like non.

Speaker 1 (01:07:54):
Bother like I.

Speaker 4 (01:07:57):
Feel like sometimes I wish I could be like because
I'm super emotional, like I'm very fiery.

Speaker 5 (01:08:04):
If there's something that is bothering me.

Speaker 4 (01:08:07):
No, because we know you're rising. You're rising is Pisty,
that's I feel like you're emotional.

Speaker 5 (01:08:13):
Like, but my rising is Gurpio.

Speaker 4 (01:08:17):
But like for me, I think maybe that moon is
what makes me a little bit more emotional. But I
do feel like with her like it just seems like
she never like triple like I don't. I feel like
I've never seen her.

Speaker 1 (01:08:34):
She'd be cool, she'd be real cool. I'll be like
man like.

Speaker 5 (01:08:37):
Sometimes I wish I could.

Speaker 1 (01:08:38):
You wish you could be like this.

Speaker 3 (01:08:41):
She keeps her cool on the outside.

Speaker 1 (01:08:44):
She blows up but.

Speaker 4 (01:08:52):
A libre rising in a leo moon.

Speaker 1 (01:08:57):
Oh wow, yeah, it's all over the place is crazy.
All right, you sign, Let's get back to the O move.

Speaker 7 (01:09:08):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (01:09:09):
What's the OMG moon? You got something? Hunter got here?

Speaker 3 (01:09:12):
We know you.

Speaker 4 (01:09:15):
Really listen, y'all. I really don't you know what. I
don't have like no particular move, But for myself, I
feel like anything where I can be on top, that
is where I'm most dominant.

Speaker 1 (01:09:27):
A lot of good things. When I you got lock
and tell, because I was looking at you, I looked
at all y'all because all y'all fine, you got that
booty when you take them pants off, that mother sop
and just.

Speaker 3 (01:09:40):
So a'tack that your friends get up there, and just
things I.

Speaker 7 (01:09:46):
Like to say.

Speaker 1 (01:09:47):
I like.

Speaker 7 (01:09:52):
That.

Speaker 3 (01:09:53):
Okay, okay, what's your OMG move?

Speaker 4 (01:09:57):
I don't know if I really have a move. I
feel like I'm very sponsor. I'm like a little dominant.
So I feel like me just initiating it and just sexy,
you know, like area, like you know, this is what
I want, This is what we're on.

Speaker 1 (01:10:12):
Yeah, like that's kind of my vibe.

Speaker 5 (01:10:14):
More so I feel like it.

Speaker 4 (01:10:16):
I don't know, I feel like it always catches like
my part of off guard, like you know, I love
my corn so but gets really really like you know,

(01:10:42):
like everybody, everybody don't get inside of me, you know
what I'm saying. So I feel like it's the only
person that I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna just initiate it.

Speaker 1 (01:10:50):
That'd be my big thing. Like I feel like niggas
don't really be expecting that.

Speaker 3 (01:10:56):
That CD doesn't turn high.

Speaker 1 (01:10:57):
That that's.

Speaker 3 (01:11:00):
You gonna play that CD?

Speaker 1 (01:11:05):
Y'all? I can, I could if you'll, so you like.

Speaker 4 (01:11:13):
To look in the eyes if it's if it's meant
to because you gotta be careful with you.

Speaker 1 (01:11:17):
Do it right now.

Speaker 3 (01:11:18):
It's punching the air about that, right, y y'all?

Speaker 4 (01:11:21):
Are you agree that there in my life?

Speaker 1 (01:11:26):
Yeah? Said that purple wig.

Speaker 4 (01:11:30):
Yeah, with the perfect wig and the and the eye contact.

Speaker 1 (01:11:34):
Yeah, yeah, when you do it's so goodcause even in conversation.

Speaker 5 (01:11:40):
That's that's where it starts.

Speaker 6 (01:11:42):
That's what you know to make it like and they
got to see that you're not scared to look like
looking like.

Speaker 1 (01:11:47):
You know what else?

Speaker 4 (01:11:47):
I like, come on some surprised like linger, yeah you
no bad, come on now I'm real wrong. Let me
know you Like yeah, I'm like I'm like a big shirt.
I'm like a big T shirt and go to sleeper.
So she likes to pop out.

Speaker 1 (01:12:04):
Yeah, sometimes you just got to pop out.

Speaker 4 (01:12:06):
Like no words like and it's like, you know, it's
that time.

Speaker 11 (01:12:11):
They liking it, like yeah, they like this giving like yes,
like Auntie, look, I.

Speaker 1 (01:12:21):
Thought Auntie was gonna have to teach you something. Still
open to learn very much. We are definitely how do
y'all be doing kegels? You know what? Not a lot?

Speaker 4 (01:12:35):
I tried to get into it forget.

Speaker 1 (01:12:45):
Okay with not knowing that she was over there doing
okay that group.

Speaker 3 (01:12:56):
Like big group of big yeah big mom Okay, okay,
we go.

Speaker 1 (01:13:01):
We got our moves dragon, you got your move right,
give us your move yet? No your OMG move?

Speaker 4 (01:13:09):
All My OMG move is probably I love to say
some crazy sets to and just have him like what
what did you say? You hurt me?

Speaker 1 (01:13:22):
But I mean talking.

Speaker 4 (01:13:23):
I'm a little this girl.

Speaker 3 (01:13:25):
I can't even know what.

Speaker 1 (01:13:29):
It's like. You never knew my back and tight.

Speaker 3 (01:13:40):
He not even that long.

Speaker 1 (01:13:41):
I don't know why he was a wild girl. It
gets crazy, niggas, remember that's on my nikky. I get crazy.
I'm sad, but I like that.

Speaker 3 (01:13:54):
I love a talker in the bedroom.

Speaker 1 (01:13:56):
Yeah, I'm a talker, so I feel like I'll be
seeing that crazy talks. Okay, I like that.

Speaker 8 (01:14:00):
These are some good tips. So y'all make sure y'all
get in the bedroom with your baby.

Speaker 4 (01:14:04):
And nigga too, just and you have.

Speaker 1 (01:14:08):
We were just talking about that.

Speaker 3 (01:14:09):
We was just talking about that and time.

Speaker 4 (01:14:11):
Did y'all wait real quick, did y'all see that Twitter tweet?
What they was like, y'all was going, y'all haven't seen
senors yet, but Bajor, yes, you've seen seniors. They was like,
y'all going crazy over the speed in the mouth, y'all
not real because I ain't the first.

Speaker 1 (01:14:29):
Time I fo y'all. Ever, Well, yes, I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 4 (01:14:36):
Yes, you don't need.

Speaker 1 (01:14:43):
The one.

Speaker 4 (01:14:44):
Go up and see this episode and be like.

Speaker 1 (01:14:49):
Right, and Junior, there we go. I love.

Speaker 12 (01:14:54):
I just don't know if I've had that spirit though,
Like me, it is not really with like she don't
like all that what.

Speaker 1 (01:15:09):
I'm a big or hygie. So for me, it's like
I'm very much you.

Speaker 5 (01:15:14):
Gotta flaw, you got a lie?

Speaker 1 (01:15:16):
You know that. I'm really on that.

Speaker 5 (01:15:18):
But I mean, I don't know, like I've never had
that experience.

Speaker 3 (01:15:22):
I don't really know. It would be like like.

Speaker 1 (01:15:25):
Every little fluid that comes out, I want it. I
don't know what that slibe on my titty. I want
it ever, what excretions is coming out.

Speaker 4 (01:15:41):
But I'm just like people be feeling to realize it's
not like a it's like a dribble, it's a ball down.

Speaker 1 (01:15:50):
Yeah, it's like it gathers up on the tool.

Speaker 4 (01:15:56):
I'm like, I just it's not me. Yeah, I just
feel like, you know what when you really love somebody
or whatever, like kind of anything goes.

Speaker 1 (01:16:08):
Yeah, it's just like, let's have fun. Don' have fun.

Speaker 4 (01:16:14):
Experience that.

Speaker 1 (01:16:18):
I feel like if your penis is inside of me
and it ain't no trojan on now we hey were
now switching up.

Speaker 3 (01:16:34):
Okay, we gotta move on. So now it's time to
get into.

Speaker 1 (01:16:37):
The bow bow Bow Bow bow bow. Okay, So the
bop of the week is the music that we've been
jamming this, you know, whatever, music that you've been listening to.
That's like getting you in the vibe, getting you in
the mood. Okay, So I'll start first. Coco Jones released

(01:16:58):
a new album. Yes, and this is what I say
when I say, let's get back to I don't want
to fill her on the album. There's no skips on
this moh I did her big one. I don't even
have one song that I like. I will say by
myself is my bob. She has a song called Thang
for You. That's my bob, so please just listen to

(01:17:20):
the whole album. She has a song called is It
Mine with Lady Lundy y'all know Lady London. Yes, her
absolutely so. Coco Jones album that is my bob of
the week. Her actual whole album as a whole. She
ate it up at the mcgalla. Yes, absolutely on theme.
I love when the girls show up and they be

(01:17:40):
on theme. So shout out to Coco Jones more. Her
album is fired. Okay, all right, what y'all got what
you've been listening to?

Speaker 4 (01:17:48):
Actually, I'm going through my thing today. I'm like a
big fan of I don't know if y'all know who
Blast is. Yeah, oh yeah, so I'm out like yeah,
I'm listening to a lot of Blasts lately.

Speaker 5 (01:17:59):
He has the song with Eric Bellinger.

Speaker 1 (01:18:01):
I don't know if it's we had Eric.

Speaker 3 (01:18:03):
Bel on the show.

Speaker 4 (01:18:04):
I love Eric Love one of my favorite songwriter, one
of my favorite songwriters.

Speaker 1 (01:18:09):
Are y'all, y'all gonna do something with him? We would,
y'all got to get that all. He's gonna get y'all
a song that's.

Speaker 3 (01:18:14):
So fu.

Speaker 4 (01:18:16):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, he's super dope. But Blast, I like Eric,
that's really I've be listening to a lot of R
and B, like old R and B, so you know my.

Speaker 5 (01:18:31):
Blast is all over the place. But love Blast right now.

Speaker 1 (01:18:36):
Forgot this song. I made this my Bob of the
week a long time ago. But y'all please go listen
to the Pearlo That is my song.

Speaker 3 (01:18:43):
To not when I.

Speaker 1 (01:18:46):
Oh, y'all can listen to.

Speaker 8 (01:18:48):
When y'all get me, I'm telling you, he gonna get
y'all gotta do somewhere Eric, we.

Speaker 5 (01:18:55):
Don't line it up. We're gonna line that ship up
right now.

Speaker 1 (01:18:58):
And I would say, Eric, remember what I told you?
The lex P made that happen, all right, now, Okay,
what you've been listening to dress?

Speaker 4 (01:19:06):
Okay, So I feel like I've been listening to this
song for maybe like four or five months, but I've
never talked about it on the show.

Speaker 1 (01:19:13):
LOHI MEI and Brent Fires for me?

Speaker 4 (01:19:16):
Okay, I love it. That's a good one.

Speaker 1 (01:19:21):
That's a good one. I mean it is is a
great artist. Brent Fires is a great artist.

Speaker 4 (01:19:27):
They really are them together collabab.

Speaker 3 (01:19:32):
I like it jamming over there.

Speaker 4 (01:19:36):
I was gonna say, I've been jamming too, Yes, it is.

Speaker 1 (01:19:40):
That was my the other week. I love it's going
crazy to that song.

Speaker 4 (01:19:45):
I was gonna say. Other than that, I've been really
getting in to my NBA young boy bag.

Speaker 1 (01:19:50):
Okay, am I upset? Or am I hear?

Speaker 11 (01:19:55):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (01:19:55):
I feel you know what I'm saying? Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay,
I feel you Okay.

Speaker 4 (01:20:05):
Hey, That's why I'm in between those, right, But I
like that was in between.

Speaker 1 (01:20:10):
Hey, I'm not gonna lie I didn't understand the n
B A Young boy thing because I'm older. So I'm like,
but when I actually sat down and listened to him.

Speaker 8 (01:20:17):
I'm like, hey, same sisters, I say about I like that,
all right, what you've been listening to?

Speaker 5 (01:20:30):
Listen to listen the one.

Speaker 6 (01:20:32):
Listen He's right here, but it ain't coming up. Bring
Act Back by Heaven on that one.

Speaker 1 (01:20:39):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's today. That's crazy.

Speaker 6 (01:20:42):
In rotation with that, I also been playing on a
Piece of My Heart with Brent and Whizkey and then
definitely had to throw in Magazine of course, come on now.

Speaker 5 (01:20:52):
I'm not even like putting in like that song. People
don't make a scene. It's a vibe like.

Speaker 1 (01:20:58):
Come always talking about make a scene? Like, what is
it about?

Speaker 3 (01:21:02):
What was the vibe y'all trying to give?

Speaker 1 (01:21:04):
You know what?

Speaker 4 (01:21:05):
It really started off as a conversation. I feel like
we were just talking. I was talking about my ex
and I was.

Speaker 3 (01:21:14):
I don't know why you asked, you know, she was
talking about.

Speaker 4 (01:21:18):
Bring bring back excuse me, okay, okay, but we was
talking about like that, and I'm like, you know, I
just feel like, you know, you need to just like
make a scene like pull up, like you know, show
up like you know, like that was kind of my thing.
Like I'm like a very like action based type of person.

(01:21:39):
So I really like for you, like pull up that
I mean something to you, because that's how I am.
Like my words might feel me, but my actions are
always like going to show you what I really feel.
And so we was talking about that, and I feel
like the feeling was kind of mutual amongst all of us,
like everybody was feeling like that. And I can't remember
who was like, that's the song right there. It really
might have been Brie because Bri always be like, that's

(01:21:59):
a song. And we just got to work, like we
had re start from scratch, puoll to beat up, and
we just got to work and it really just happened
like from a combo.

Speaker 6 (01:22:10):
Yeah, that's how all of our songs. A lot of
our songs come from. We were now coming back together.
We do a lot of conversations in the studio and
then from there we get to them.

Speaker 3 (01:22:19):
Like okay, so should we be expecting like an hour.

Speaker 4 (01:22:23):
Yeah, project Ye, it's an easier album yet, but turned
out it depends on the amount of songs.

Speaker 3 (01:22:29):
But if y'all need some background vocals, we.

Speaker 4 (01:22:31):
Got you heard it.

Speaker 5 (01:22:34):
I heard that, I heard you the whole time, all right.

Speaker 4 (01:22:39):
We say this every time on the episode. Please somebody
put links in the studio.

Speaker 1 (01:22:46):
Say this every time we have t pain with.

Speaker 3 (01:22:52):
Queen.

Speaker 1 (01:22:53):
Keep nobody ain't brought me to the studio. The studio
and when I and I'm gonna watch all stories now.

Speaker 4 (01:23:02):
And when you said you in the studio and I'm
say's gonna come on?

Speaker 3 (01:23:07):
Put it on Google Maps.

Speaker 1 (01:23:09):
Yeah, it will be calling.

Speaker 3 (01:23:10):
I'm a knocking, Hey, I'm here.

Speaker 1 (01:23:13):
You will be any here exactly.

Speaker 4 (01:23:21):
Like we all untyy Yeah, I'm thirty four third.

Speaker 11 (01:23:30):
Okay, Yeah, we're getting there.

Speaker 1 (01:23:34):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:23:35):
We really get there.

Speaker 1 (01:23:36):
We don't think it just got there when they hit thirty,
I think, I don't think. I think you're an auntie
when you hit mid thirties, early thirties, is still you
and nice territory?

Speaker 3 (01:23:47):
You still learning?

Speaker 1 (01:23:48):
So I just became an uncy.

Speaker 3 (01:23:51):
No, you was an auntie last year.

Speaker 1 (01:23:52):
I was thirty three. Yeah, thirty three is mid third.
I thought that was early. No, thirty thirty one, thirty
two is early thirty three, thirty four, thirty five, thirty
six is mid thirty seven, thirty eight.

Speaker 4 (01:24:04):
Thirty nine late okay, okay, yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:24:07):
So you've been you've been auntie for a year. Now, Okay,
for a year, I've been I've been in here, I've
been in this game.

Speaker 4 (01:24:13):
Yeah you know, okay, ladies, I was gonna say the OMG, girls,
we've been doing a lot of like living, so we
be giving like very much, untie, like our knees, like
we've been. We've been, you know, doing a lot of
me don't work right, Like listen, the knees might be
happy a little bit. We have been using these knees

(01:24:35):
for a long time. We've been living, okay, since I
were twelve thirteen. Come on, come on, we've been hopping
these next It's given very much, TV give us forward.
I'm just saying, like we write it with.

Speaker 1 (01:24:48):
You, no, I feel you. But because I will say this,
every time we have a guess, I'll be like, ooh,
and they're younger, Like when we had cashed all on
the show, because like cash Doll is in the same
age rages, I was like, Okay, I know it's gonna
be a good episode. So a lot of times I'm
scared to talk to women who are so much younger
than because I'm like, oh, how are we gonna talk?

Speaker 3 (01:25:04):
Y'all are so smart and why.

Speaker 1 (01:25:08):
I get what you're saying, because I don't feel like
I'm like sometimes I'll be like, not on the show,
but like in real life when I have conversations with
younger people, I'm like, I can tell I'm talking to
a twenty nine years Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:25:20):
So you know, we do play a lot. But y'all
are so smart. Y'all are so beautiful. When I tell y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:25:27):
To talk to people who have their head on their
shoulders in this industry, yeah, I'll just be like, I'll
be happy for my black women. Yes, queen y'all.

Speaker 7 (01:25:38):
Y'all know.

Speaker 5 (01:25:43):
Like y'all doing that from the ground up. Y'all been
doing this, y'all real life.

Speaker 1 (01:25:47):
If someone else we're having a moment, come on now,
I feel like, yes, don't y'all get her started to cry. Okay,
do y'all know?

Speaker 4 (01:26:00):
I said, I feel like it's putting at the shot
friend more I love. But okay, so we got to
ask you.

Speaker 1 (01:26:07):
I got a flight to care.

Speaker 4 (01:26:08):
We do, do y'all feel like y'all give good advice
depending on what you asking me about. Yes, I feel
like we have lived this life, and I mean like
we have lived this life.

Speaker 1 (01:26:22):
No, but I'm saying, like, you know, we just.

Speaker 4 (01:26:27):
Be part of like you know, the industry and just
being in business young, and I feel like we do
have a lot to offer in terms of advice, but
I don't feel like we know everything. And that's what
makes us because we know it's room to grow and
we always open to learning and knowing new things. Okay, advice, Well,
we have some listeners that write in every week and

(01:26:50):
they're always asking us for advice. So whenever we have
guests on the show, we're like, Okay, we're just gonna
ask guess.

Speaker 5 (01:26:57):
Okay, So we're gon, we're gonna do this your today,
just mine.

Speaker 1 (01:27:01):
Okay.

Speaker 4 (01:27:02):
So if y'all have any questions testimonials, send them to
ask for Minds at gmail dot com. That's a s
k p O.

Speaker 1 (01:27:09):
You r in my n d s at gmail dot com.
So okay, y'all are you already? Okay?

Speaker 4 (01:27:18):
Hello yo leo.

Speaker 1 (01:27:30):
Five nights. Okay, Hi guys. I'm bree A k A
B D B Big da big Daddy breath and I
love said not me.

Speaker 4 (01:27:47):
And I love you guys podcast anyway. So I've been
dealing with a few niggas and I'm tired of being
that nice girl or the one that doesn't ask for much.
It's time to make these niggas pay, especially if they
want to he of this hot pussy.

Speaker 1 (01:28:01):
I heard that Brokay.

Speaker 4 (01:28:06):
Really low key cutting up in people paying the sk
that's my problem, that's my girl. Anyways, can I get
some advice on how to get money or ask or
ask for things from niggas of all tax bread kids.

(01:28:26):
I'm extremely independent and I don't want to be seen
as a gold digger or broke by doing so. But
goddamn can a nigga pay for a bitch's hair or nails?
But anyways, what is some advice? Love you guys?

Speaker 1 (01:28:38):
It sound like I wrote that I feel like you
gotta be jail like this.

Speaker 4 (01:28:43):
I say, the best, the most feminine thing that you
could do is, in my opinion, is ask a man
for help.

Speaker 1 (01:28:48):
That's what they're supposed to do.

Speaker 4 (01:28:50):
I feel like, if you're a woman, and you a woman,
you got like how she said, she you know, you independent,
like you got your own thing going on.

Speaker 5 (01:28:58):
It's like if a man come in your life, you
know what I.

Speaker 4 (01:29:00):
Mean, You're not in need of anything, so even outside
of like just be like, oh I need money. I
need money if I call you and I'm in need
of anything, whether it's like yo, you know what I mean,
I need you to come give me, like something happened
to my tire on the side of the road whatever,
like as a man, if you really like me or
if we really you know, doing our big.

Speaker 5 (01:29:19):
One, like you should just be there. Like I feel
like just asks closed mouths don't get fit all.

Speaker 1 (01:29:25):
I feel like, long gone are the days where you
used to be like, oh my god, my light billdo
or my phone?

Speaker 3 (01:29:31):
I need my hair done? Like we can't do that
no more.

Speaker 1 (01:29:33):
They can get on to us.

Speaker 4 (01:29:36):
So naturally, can you give me some money for my life?

Speaker 3 (01:29:38):
Build?

Speaker 1 (01:29:39):
That's what I'm saying. Just ask. I think the best
thing you can do is be sweet and ask, like, hey, babe,
I got a hair appointment tomorrow. You know, we got
our date next week. You know, I just want to
look cute. Can you send me somebody get my hair done?
And you're gonna figure out. One thing about it is
if a man is gonna do it, it's in him. Yeah,
a man who has the spirit of giving you, if giving,
he's gonna be that at no matter what. So you

(01:30:02):
can't change a man who that's not in him. So
you'll figure out pretty quick.

Speaker 3 (01:30:06):
Just ask.

Speaker 1 (01:30:07):
I like a provider period, Like I do. I like
a provider, and I don't want to have to force
you to be. Is that back the stickering and laughing ido,
I don't had enough. Now it's a lot of non providers.
Oh okay, but let me correct that. Let me tell

(01:30:31):
y'all something. I don't call people because I think everybody
is beautiful in their own way.

Speaker 3 (01:30:35):
But let me tell you something.

Speaker 1 (01:30:37):
The women that I have seen, like in my early
years of being in the club, the women that I
used to see walking in the strip club Dreams.

Speaker 3 (01:30:44):
That I used to work at with the Burkins. First
time I saw Burkin.

Speaker 1 (01:30:48):
These were women who would be traditionally what we consider unattractive,
but you know what they were. They were nice, They
had a good personality, they were sweet. Yeah, oh hey, daddy,
they were you know what I'm saying. That's what it is.
So if you want to play that game, that's the
game you gotta play. You ain't got nothing to do
with looks. It'd be some of the baddest bitches you know.
Can't get a fucking French froudum friends or a friend.

(01:31:14):
My ship stays okay, oh my son. What do y'all think?
What do y'all think you'll know what?

Speaker 4 (01:31:21):
Yeah, I was gonna say, I don't have I don't
have much to say because I can relate to her.
I'm not really like I don't ask men for things.
I wish that I'm like really nice and like I
got it, I got I got it. But you know what,
I feel like, I don't know if that's going to
be something that would change on me. I feel like
my husband I won't have to ask what I'm praying,

(01:31:45):
praying that I meet a man who I won't have
to Yeah, I love it, you will, thank you, you will,
because that's just not in me.

Speaker 1 (01:31:53):
It's never been in me.

Speaker 4 (01:31:54):
Like I don't even like ask my parents for things
when I feel like I may need it, Like it's
just not in me to do so. I just feel
uncomfortable to ask a man for something. But you know,
I'm feeling like my husband would just be you know,
like here you go go get your But do you
feel like it's me vieah? But do you feel like
like if y'all are like a lot, then you know

(01:32:15):
what I'm saying it's like it's not giving, like Okay,
it's like y'all not together, but y'all together, you know
what I'm saying, Like it's like, you know, he really
liked you for real, Like would you feel comfortable with
doing it still or you just feel like nah?

Speaker 1 (01:32:27):
You know what, friend, I don't feel like I.

Speaker 4 (01:32:30):
Would because I have dealt with people where I feel
where it's like I know you can.

Speaker 1 (01:32:34):
Do this for me, but I'm it's like it's not
going to come out of my mouth.

Speaker 5 (01:32:38):
I'm not I ain't gonna be scared. I be scared,
you know what.

Speaker 1 (01:32:41):
I don't want to be scared.

Speaker 5 (01:32:42):
It's only one person, don't independent.

Speaker 1 (01:32:45):
I'm just like, but I think also, y'all are at
the point of your lives where while I'm I asking
for my nails.

Speaker 7 (01:32:53):
And.

Speaker 1 (01:32:56):
You know, when you because the type of conversations that
I have, I'm like, Okay, what does a house look
like for us? You know?

Speaker 3 (01:33:05):
So the conversation has changed.

Speaker 1 (01:33:07):
He's asking about little things, so obviously we're talking in
a way of like little stuff, like it's all are
in a different text God. So I'm saying, like, y'all
conversations are going to be different.

Speaker 4 (01:33:18):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know, Like I feel like
it's two sides of the coin. Like I feel like
if you don't say anything nine times out of ten,
like nobody's going to do it. But I feel like
you know the person I'm not there with, like you
kind of just.

Speaker 1 (01:33:34):
Know, yes, you know you, just like you know he knows,
Like yeah, I like and you know if I love y'all, y'all, everybody,
we love you?

Speaker 7 (01:33:50):
What about me?

Speaker 4 (01:33:51):
You said?

Speaker 1 (01:33:52):
I mean, you know I love you. I was talking
about them, we love we love you such a.

Speaker 4 (01:33:58):
Comfortable power beautiful.

Speaker 1 (01:34:01):
So well, I'll never talk about it like I don't
He's gonna be always right now this is going on,
we gonna want you to shave y'all name.

Speaker 4 (01:34:18):
How look y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:34:19):
Because we're about to go on tour. So when we
do our landing show, y'all got to pull up on
wet let y'all gotta come on the stage with us,
and we got to be there. So let us know
what y'all got coming up next where everybody can find y'all.
What can we expect all that good stuff?

Speaker 4 (01:34:38):
Well, our group Instagram is og Girls with a z
Our TikTok is at the real Girls with a Z
and our Twitter is the same thing.

Speaker 1 (01:34:47):
Those are our socials.

Speaker 4 (01:34:48):
And we have a project coming out this year that
we were working really hard on. Our single make a
Scene just came out.

Speaker 3 (01:34:55):
Go check that.

Speaker 4 (01:34:55):
I'll go check out the video motion another single that
we drop. Yeah, and yeah, we have a lot of
things in store.

Speaker 5 (01:35:03):
Yeah we got a solid coming too again with you.

Speaker 4 (01:35:06):
Yes, well, thank y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:35:08):
This was so funy y'all fun. It's all like I
already loved y'all down because I told when I I
turned that hup was I was too old to be
listening to y'all.

Speaker 6 (01:35:22):
I learned a lot of people that are older than
us were listening to They were like playing us.

Speaker 1 (01:35:26):
Like ever, I wonder.

Speaker 4 (01:35:31):
Please put her in the stool with y'all with your
hair man, I have a cosmetics brand.

Speaker 1 (01:35:37):
I'm gonna seeing Johns some stuff dot com. Yeah, y'all shop,
I'm gonna see Johns some stuff. Congratulation. Yeah, that's like
everything y'all got. Y'all. Y'all, make sure y'all follow om
G girls on anything. Make sure y'all follow dreda Cold
with three E's on YouTube. She drops blogs weekly. Y'all
followed Love Legs Pee on YouTube, new episodes every Monday,

(01:36:00):
of course, poor minds every Friday, and we'll see y'all
next week.

Speaker 3 (01:36:03):
You're man.

Speaker 7 (01:40:21):
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