Midwest Mayhem ft. Crash Dummies

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Do people ever compare y'all to James.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
And food had used to no no more though.

Speaker 1 (00:05):
I mean.

Speaker 2 (00:08):
We're American. I'll put it at that. Yeah, we actually.

Speaker 3 (00:14):
Y'all tell y'all partner every single detail about your friends,
and there's drama.

Speaker 2 (00:19):
I'm learning something new right now, so I'm about to
find out something.

Speaker 4 (00:21):
It all depends what you mean. We don't tell each
other that much.

Speaker 2 (00:25):
Yeah, I haven't shook his head in like ten years.

Speaker 4 (00:27):
Hugo, hug me, Let's do it.

Speaker 5 (00:31):
That's fore I went on him and you could smell
must be like.

Speaker 6 (00:37):
Let's say, for some reason, the restaurant was hot, and
he just like fought like some bad wind. And now
he's thinking when that ain't win worst case scenario.

Speaker 2 (00:45):
He already stink.

Speaker 6 (00:46):
There's no way you should let a woman touch you.
It should be like some like I just had turvy.

Speaker 1 (00:52):
I can't do it.

Speaker 2 (00:54):
Whatever they say, we got nothing to do it, like
we don't know.

Speaker 7 (00:57):
These I was in an open relationship. If she wanted
to dad a former wife supremacist and I said no,
but I still stayed in the relationship.

Speaker 3 (01:07):
And what was the reason she wanted to date him
in the first way?

Speaker 1 (01:11):
Make it yeah, so I was to the military.

Speaker 8 (01:14):
The majority of our friends were like gay marine. We
went to the bar with them, and my boyfriend basically
asked me if we could pretend not to be together
so that he could be hit up by all the
gay men.

Speaker 9 (01:24):
And that was pretty early on in our relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:26):
And what's up, y'all is show girl lex Paint any

(01:54):
showgirl dry in the call and you are tuned in
to another episode of Poor Mine. We're a drunk mind
speaks sober. We gotta gas saday, we gotta guess saday.
So y'all have been asking us to have these lovely
couple gentlemen on for a long time. I know y'all

(02:15):
have seen them on your I G feed, on your TikTok,
on your YouTube, everywhere, because they be everywhere. We got
crash dummy that our building. Yeah, a studio audience, live.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
Studio audience, good, good goods and intro.

Speaker 4 (02:34):
I like how coordinated is because I was watching a
lot of y'all content before leading up to this guy.
You was prepared, Yeah, I was prepared. You guys are
very coordinated with the intros. We just like I feel
like we just start out of nowhere.

Speaker 2 (02:45):
Yeah, I like that. I don't think we could do that.

Speaker 3 (02:48):
We argue too much, for we are really arguing, so
we argue down but not as much as we use pseudo.

Speaker 1 (02:53):
No, it's a debate. It's a difference between debating and arguing.
Y'all be arguing or y'all be debating.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
We we do like we do. We don't.

Speaker 6 (03:00):
We don't say words because you know, we just do
like subtle stuff. Oh mic, Yeah, I do this on caramel.

Speaker 1 (03:12):
And then you're like, so you're the more of the
like aggressive one with.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
Your words, the one that had three drinks.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
The third.

Speaker 4 (03:25):
Yeah, it's a very good drink though.

Speaker 1 (03:29):
Look, we don't get insane about it. Sut onto our
tender tie. So I do want to start from the beginning,
you know, for the girls that are watching that don't know,
because I know the guys know, y'all, but we have
a lot of female listeners watchers. So let's start from
the beginning. Because you know, they say take away the mics,
especially from the men, Yeah saying that, Yes, they always

(03:51):
say that. They be like take away the mics but leave.

Speaker 5 (03:56):
Always like the live poor minds.

Speaker 1 (03:58):
Right, But y'all have found a space and y'all have
become really, really successful, and honestly, I'm not gonna lie.
I think podcasting it's not easy, but I will say
for women, it's like doing reality shows, you know, like
women tend to be successful in the reality show space him,
but y'all have found so much success in the space.
So I do want to start from the beginning, Like
when y'all started the show, how y'all came up with

(04:19):
the idea all that good stuff, Okay, go ahead a.

Speaker 2 (04:28):
Group leaders today we take time.

Speaker 6 (04:36):
That y'all gotta start getting him dark a different dude.
But yeah, I feel like it was I don't know
how y'all did it, but ours was just like, oh,
brothers start a podcast, you know, and it's just like
it could have went either way. I feel like we
kind of just found what made it work. I feel
like we're very hard on comedy, like something like I

(04:58):
don't know if y'all like that, but something has to
make me laugh for real or I might not give
it up. So I feel like I'm hard on comedy,
which like that's kind of what we have our podcast for.
So it's like I wouldn't put out anything that wouldn't
make me laugh.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
So it kind of work. And he's the same way.
He's pretty he a hater too.

Speaker 4 (05:17):
I'm a silent hater though I am a I'm a
silent but I judge with like I feel like I
judge with with passion, like I don't judge and make
him changes my opinion on that.

Speaker 2 (05:27):
A hater and a liar.

Speaker 1 (05:29):
Okay, so you the lecks because I'm a hater and
I'm a liar.

Speaker 4 (05:33):
I'm not a liar.

Speaker 3 (05:38):
When I say, that's really determined who the lens and
who there?

Speaker 1 (05:42):
What's y'all sign?

Speaker 2 (05:46):
Thing was born almost two days apart. Oh my god,
oh damn.

Speaker 4 (05:56):
Oh.

Speaker 3 (05:56):
We was just talking about me and on our Patreon episode.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
What they be doing?

Speaker 3 (06:02):
We were just well, I was, I said, I have
had some of the best times in my life when
I was dating a Sagittarius man, like, y'all are a
ball of fun.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
You're gonna have a great time.

Speaker 3 (06:13):
However, y'all are whores, and y'all cannot be monogamy. Like
it's y'all, like a girl has to understand she's gonna
be a part of your roster, that.

Speaker 1 (06:24):
Part of the collection.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
Understand I would of her life though.

Speaker 4 (06:30):
So funny moment.

Speaker 3 (06:31):
Okay, great times, But I feel like y'all could be
good partners when you find that one, you know.

Speaker 1 (06:37):
But like I just feel like y'all be here for
a good time. Y'all consider y'all self husband material?

Speaker 4 (06:42):
Yeah for sure, Yeah I was. I would think.

Speaker 1 (06:45):
So, yeah, y'all want to get married?

Speaker 6 (06:47):
Yeah, okay, good you are.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
I think most fire signs are though, Yeah that's what
that's what we are. Yeah, y'all, I'm a leo. I'm
a fire sign.

Speaker 4 (06:58):
Da what other signs are there? Earth?

Speaker 5 (07:01):
You have earth, water in air like Avatar?

Speaker 1 (07:10):
Understand.

Speaker 4 (07:12):
But yeah, we met in college. We played college football together,
and then after so you know, tough like ten years
now yeh, So we were actually like really friends after
we graduated. Like like Pat was saying, it's about like
starting the podcast, start the podcast, and we just finally
bought some equipment. Yeah, a big part of our show

(07:34):
now is listener calls. But that really didn't start to
maybe like episode like fifty sixty. It started just for
us calling like our friend one time, one of our
friends called this one time live to like bail them
out on the on the show.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
So it but I think that's the best way to
do shows right back in there, like when you just
let it develop, you know what I'm saying, Like something
that happened like hey, this stick, this work, you know
what I'm saying. And the consistency of course as well.
So when did y'all realize, like, okay, this is like
we got something day.

Speaker 4 (08:08):
One, our first clip went viral like our first really yeah,
we got something super cringey now, but back then TikTok
was on that wave. It was like a would you
rather about like would you.

Speaker 2 (08:20):
Rather some wet.

Speaker 4 (08:27):
We like started, we did the Little Girl of Versus
one hundred Men were back.

Speaker 6 (08:32):
Really we really started. We started that ship. We just
hadn't want. I hate when people just like when somebody
started it and then it's happening without them, they come
on there be like I started this ship.

Speaker 1 (08:42):
And yeah, like actually we started. That is funny.

Speaker 3 (08:48):
We feel the same way though a little bit about
the things we used to talk about in the past.

Speaker 1 (08:52):
We'd be like, it's a little cringey, you.

Speaker 4 (08:54):
Know, it's part of the story, yea, you know what
I'm saying, Especially like our outfit we had some trash outfits.
There's nothing like it, you know, what you're still like
finding yourself your own style, and you just try some
ship and you're doing a podcast. You don't think that
many people are going to see it. Sometimes you just
throw on anything. And we did it in like my

(09:14):
third bedroom apartment, like yeah apartment, so it's very like
comfortable at home typ of clothing, not like going out.

Speaker 2 (09:21):
We wasn't even smoking inside. Man, can't do it in here.

Speaker 5 (09:25):
We was doing it in my little second bedroom apartment.

Speaker 1 (09:27):
A clip of us just went viral on our old
episode and I had my natural hair out, so I
had like a whole af ro, and I'm like, you
know what, but it's good to look better.

Speaker 6 (09:37):
We we actually sometimes like we repost yeah, and we
know clips are going to go viral because they went
viral before we had followers. So we'll take that clip
and then post it and just be like, maybe we
shouldn't post this because look what I got on and
we know, we know it's like a million or two
million views, and it's just like it ain't even worth
that little money.

Speaker 2 (09:57):
I'm good on.

Speaker 4 (09:57):
That especially a lot of way, Oh you used to be.

Speaker 2 (10:01):
I wouldn't come on, I wouldn't thick.

Speaker 6 (10:04):
But I was like it was the show like if
like people, Yeah, I was a little punk.

Speaker 2 (10:09):
You know what I'm saying. I think I was drinking
that dark. It was a hen Henny, keep you up.

Speaker 9 (10:14):
You know.

Speaker 1 (10:15):
So when you like college football, you was on the
d line.

Speaker 6 (10:19):
See that's exactly somebody said that to me, and that's
why I lost weight.

Speaker 1 (10:23):
Oh yeah.

Speaker 2 (10:25):
Somebody was like.

Speaker 6 (10:26):
I was like, yeah, I used to play in college
and be like, yeah, you look like you played on
the D line.

Speaker 2 (10:29):
I said, I spread it to the gym. I was like,
let me lose. I lost forty pounds.

Speaker 1 (10:35):
So it's like, I'm not the reason I'm saying that
because I recently lost thirty pounds. So I know the
struggle of being thick. Because they was asking me on
the D line. I don't even play football, so I
feel your play. You know what I'm saying. I'm right
there with you, my brother.

Speaker 3 (10:51):
So I had a question, what did y'all do before
y'all started the podcast?

Speaker 4 (10:58):
I what did I do?

Speaker 1 (11:02):
So I had don't lie.

Speaker 4 (11:04):
I did like a two year little stint like in
NFL camps after college. So I was like the Giants
and the Niners got a regular job after that, didn't
work out, got fired, and then started my own marketing company.

Speaker 1 (11:17):
Okay, okay, so had the entrepreneurials.

Speaker 2 (11:20):
Yeah, I was.

Speaker 6 (11:20):
I was in marketing a little bit before that too,
That's what I did, And I coached college football for
a little bit.

Speaker 2 (11:27):
A little bit. What else on that?

Speaker 6 (11:33):
A little nervously you already on the mic.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
You don't need a wire, Okay.

Speaker 1 (11:44):
Okay, But so being in this podcast space, like, what
are y'all's goals now?

Speaker 4 (11:50):
Like?

Speaker 1 (11:51):
Because I feel like when you've accomplished a lot, it's
kind of like sometimes you kind of have y'all felt
this where y'all felt like, okay, it's kind of like stagnant,
like what is next? So what is y'all's like ultimate
goal for the show?

Speaker 4 (12:03):
I think stuff like this.

Speaker 1 (12:05):
Okay.

Speaker 4 (12:05):
I'm collabing with other creators, other podcasters because the first
three years, especially being in Milwaukee, it's like there's not
too many people coming into into town. We have to
start traveling. So we've been traveling quite a bit, collabing
with other careers.

Speaker 1 (12:21):
Okay, and let me tell you, guys, something like a
lot of people in this space don't know y'all only
doing this show. Y'all self and not having guests is
the smartest thing y'all could have done. I think that
that's advice that we got early on in our career
from Joe, and he told us, do not have guests
on the show because you want people to be fans
of you, because people are going to tune in and
be like, like, say, you have I don't know, like

(12:43):
one of the bucks on the show y'all in Milwaukee
who played for that damn team, So if people tune in,
they tuning in for him. But then the next episode
is not only going to get like three views, but
the fact that y'all have then the podcast with just
y'all for so long, people are fans of you guys.
So I tell people that all the time you're starting
a podcast and you want it to be about you

(13:04):
and your co host, that is the smartest thing y'all
could have done, for sure. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (13:08):
Why did you guys start this podcast?

Speaker 1 (13:10):
Wells ago.

Speaker 3 (13:13):
Twenty eighteen officially, but prior to that, we had created
a YouTube channel and we were doing a little segment
every week called wind Down Wednesday, and we were dropping
that like I think twenty seventeen for like six months,
and then eventually we ended up changing the name to
poor Minds and then changing the whole structure of everything

(13:34):
and turned it into a podcast.

Speaker 4 (13:36):
I don't know me.

Speaker 1 (13:36):
Yeah, in here in the club club.

Speaker 3 (13:39):
In the club was well, she was bartending and I
was just looking cute behind the bar.

Speaker 1 (13:45):
I ain't know how to.

Speaker 2 (13:46):
Okay, hen and coke.

Speaker 1 (13:50):
If you want anything, you.

Speaker 2 (13:50):
Can put it together, you.

Speaker 1 (13:52):
Know, anything more complex.

Speaker 2 (13:53):
I'm not sugar coming to you because your dreams strong.

Speaker 1 (13:59):
Yeah, I asked right for the manhat was like a Manhattan,
and then I slide a little extra, you know, when
he's busted down. So what year did y'all start the podcast?

Speaker 4 (14:08):
Twenty twenty one?

Speaker 2 (14:11):
One?

Speaker 1 (14:12):
That is amazing that it is, because I always say
to start a podcast now, it's so hard up.

Speaker 4 (14:20):
Yeah, I always hope you don't do it, really, Yeah.

Speaker 6 (14:24):
Unless you like, unless you're like successful in some other
talking sure, okay, if you're already talking, like let's say
a streamer. Yeah, our friend has signed as a streamer,
and then he like also like podcasts. He's already talking
on him. You're not going to be like a skateboarder
and then start a podcast skateboarding It ain't gonna work
like that.

Speaker 4 (14:43):
And if you start when it's like you have to
have a niche like our nich is kind of like
doing kind of like the talk show radio type of
vide and if you just two random people giving their opinion.
Because we're just two random people giving their opinion at Birstplace,
I think we kind of had that TikTok Instagram reels
boom as well. So we were you know, and we

(15:03):
I don't think we've ever missed an episode either.

Speaker 1 (15:06):
We're the same way y'all really are us male four?
Like we got crash dummies female pole.

Speaker 4 (15:16):
They saying we're the female versus ye.

Speaker 1 (15:19):
Are so big on consistency and not missing a week now,
have y'all noticed, like speaking of streaming, have y'all noticed
they are starting to clip podcasts like they clip streamers. Yeah,
so like there's whole pages that like clip us that
are dedicated to like making clips and stuff and doing
edits and that has like contributed a lot to the
growth and things like that.

Speaker 6 (15:40):
Yeah, we literally just DM one the only thing we
asked because we will DM them.

Speaker 2 (15:44):
We say good job, like we appreciate it, because sometimes
they'll run up like it's one with like two hundred
and fifty.

Speaker 4 (15:50):
Getting more views on the city.

Speaker 1 (15:54):
Yeah, I was doing so well. We would save the
videos and posting on our planes.

Speaker 3 (15:58):
Our page got flagged whole Facebook page like that. Like
they actually have like four hundred thousand followers and we
have like two hundred on ours.

Speaker 6 (16:08):
They do you dirty, but we DM them and the
only thing we asked, do your thing, like you got
to it before us. We get it, you beat us,
but at least put our link in on bio. They
do it every time though usually they actually fans. It's
the only way they could come and clip your stuff.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
Okay, somebody, I need to tell them because they always
tag us like in the capture stuff. But I need
to tell make sure y'all put the links.

Speaker 4 (16:29):
They're making money on TikTok now.

Speaker 3 (16:33):
Actually got shadow band on top, like we weren't even
making when we weren't even able to monetize our videos
for like a good month, just because we had reposted
one of the videos that want of the pages.

Speaker 4 (16:45):
Yeah, and it's like.

Speaker 1 (16:46):
What the fuck this is us?

Speaker 4 (16:50):
Us? Our videos aren't original?

Speaker 6 (16:52):
Yeah, the first time snap.

Speaker 4 (17:00):
And write a whole paragraph.

Speaker 1 (17:02):
Oh that's why I don't do appeal because I ain't
gonna type all that ship out.

Speaker 4 (17:06):
I mean, he told me not to, he said, I
don't even appeal. I said, I'm appealing.

Speaker 2 (17:12):
I got tired. You be getting the thousands back. I'm
not gonna lie. See like a viral video that a
couple of thousand. But I just like, bro, just let
it go. I'm like, no, I'm writing them. Hen like
he'd be going to court showing up in the.

Speaker 4 (17:27):
You don't the thing with Pat, don't you have to
take everything?

Speaker 1 (17:30):
He said, talping court to I need my already, because honestly,
you have to think about the amount of income that
you have coming in between Facebook, Instagram, TikTok. That is
money all added.

Speaker 4 (17:44):
Up to get I don't care if it's sixty dollars everything. Yeah,
that's me.

Speaker 1 (17:51):
They'd be like, oh, just pay him the extra fifty.

Speaker 7 (17:53):
No.

Speaker 4 (17:54):
I think Also, the they're gonna make fun of me
for this because I always mentioned that I'm from Nigeria.

Speaker 1 (17:58):
I seen it. I said, Jammie's saying that too. Well, No,
he really from not No, I know, but I'm saying
you be saying it. I just said, look, I don't
funk enough nagurious, but give me my citizenship. She used
to have a flag in her bio.

Speaker 4 (18:14):
I heard, I heard you said you went to Legas
how you enjoy it?

Speaker 1 (18:18):
I haven't, okay, so I went in twenty nineteen. I
haven't been back yet, and my life has not been
the same.

Speaker 4 (18:24):
It's like it's city never sleeps, right. I was trying
to take pat there. You don't want to go.

Speaker 2 (18:28):
Because he not, he not, he not, he got some problems.

Speaker 4 (18:32):
No, I don't, Mama, Then they're gonna be his ass
when that's what they told me.

Speaker 2 (18:41):
That was in my DMS.

Speaker 6 (18:42):
Like, hey, if you would make make sure you stepped
to the scause.

Speaker 1 (18:48):
We're going back. I had the time of my life.
I went during like dou'sy December. Yes the time I
tell you I was leaving the club. I left the
club one night at ten, not one more at ten am.
I mean, I just I tried to explain to people
how that was, but I just can't, Like you have
to experience.

Speaker 4 (19:09):
It's different.

Speaker 1 (19:09):
It's so different. No, I haven't been yet, I know,
but I haven't been looked. She didn't invite me exactly.
I'm not on my homegirl, though, was coming to America.
When I came back, I said, I didn't know what,
but it is. It's a time. We keep saying we're

(19:30):
gonna go back. We haven't been, but I always tell
people you have to get hosted. You can't just go
to legos. So honestly, I don't talk to that nigga
no more. So we gotta find a new nigga to
go with.

Speaker 2 (19:41):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (19:45):
Let's do it.

Speaker 4 (19:46):
Okay, we all keep playing the group trip.

Speaker 2 (19:48):
Let's go.

Speaker 1 (19:49):
No listen, every time people sit on this couch and
talk about playing a group trip when we never go
except for one except for my don't be ready, I'm ready,
Doctor Mills shout out to doctor Mail. She was like, Oh,
we're gonna go on a trip.

Speaker 3 (20:00):
And we really went to Abitha like ready to go outside.
If y'all really want to go, I'm playing them tickets.

Speaker 1 (20:07):
We gotta get them tickets.

Speaker 4 (20:08):
Tickets may be like seventeen twenty six, how you want
to fight.

Speaker 1 (20:12):
And that's sitting by the like this. Yeah, we're gonna
be tightest yay. Yes, I'm not even gonna get in
the first topic because y'all know we some Yeah, so
the first topic of today. So, first of all, are
y'all in relationships? We're in a relationship. Are you in

(20:33):
a relationship? You single? Okay, so we're gonna have a
little relationship topic. Has anyone ever hitting you in a
relationship or have y'all ever hidden someone that you've dated?
And I feel like this is more of like a
man thing, if I'm being honest, I feel like women,
when we talk to somebody, we want to post that on,
We want to show that tattoo, we want to you know,

(20:54):
I'm gonna post society your glass. They don't know I'm
with big pet, so have y'all. But I feel like
men like to be more low key.

Speaker 2 (21:05):
You think so I do.

Speaker 4 (21:06):
I think it's women because we just had this conversation
because I was saying that I feel like women will
put like an emoji over use her name. A woman
would put like an emoji over your face. I like
some scene now, a woman would put an emoji over
your face. Agree, And I feel like a dude would
like at least take a picture of like a side

(21:27):
profile or something like that where you're off. But girls,
i'd be seeing like emojis or sometimes Yeah, I just
think they're more open with like I'm hiding you from me.

Speaker 6 (21:38):
Hello, I'm like, come on, I will say, I think
the emoji ship is corny though same like, I think that's.

Speaker 3 (21:53):
Really corny, like when girls poulst their men and then
they put the emoji over the face, so they cut
the head off and do all of that. Weir she
just don't post a nigga at all if you don't
want people to know who you date and just don't
post them. But I definitely do agree. I think it's
more so women that try to be a little more
secretive about who they dating their men.

Speaker 1 (22:11):
I'm like me and bead.

Speaker 5 (22:14):
Because it's like if they rocking with you, they rocking
with you.

Speaker 3 (22:17):
I think women definitely will try to hide their men
because sometimes I think they be afraid then somebody else
might like try to snatch him up.

Speaker 1 (22:31):
They don't get in mad. Not only that, I think too,
when like people kind of know who you are. Because
one time I was with my men and I had posts.
I was posting a pizza because we had went somewhere
we ate like a big ass pizza and like you
could see his leg and like he said, he got
like three or four texts maker oh this, so this
is who you day. So I think a lot of

(22:52):
times it's more so if not that I'm hiding you
what with the text, miss, because while you and my
bis this what Drake said, I'm not hiding you from
the world. I'm not in the world.

Speaker 2 (23:03):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (23:04):
I'm trying to protect you, baby.

Speaker 2 (23:06):
Yeah. I think they do that on purpose.

Speaker 9 (23:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (23:08):
I think they hide them on purpose because most.

Speaker 6 (23:11):
Women know, like, you know, if your dude is talking
to you, gotta know, yeah, you know, if you actually
love him, if.

Speaker 4 (23:19):
You like him or like a highly started after dude
as well. Yeah, yeah, yeah, because I feel like I
feel like guys some.

Speaker 2 (23:27):
People date down because of that. That's a good point.
They don't want nobody to want their partner.

Speaker 1 (23:33):
But you want you to want my nigga, but that
every man is wanted. Yeah, being that, we think they'd
be like it's women fighting after that.

Speaker 2 (23:43):
It's the same for us.

Speaker 1 (23:45):
Really, I got a friend that man, but you say
his girl trash.

Speaker 2 (23:50):
Girls not just playing. God, I'm just playing.

Speaker 1 (23:59):
But I feel like y'all can correct me if I'm wrong,
because I always get into it with my homeboys about this.
I say it's so I feel like it's easier for
a man to find a good woman than it is
for a woman to find a good man. I feel
like y'all have so many options of like women who
get into the bag, who look good, who doing it
for us? The men that have things going for themselves

(24:19):
and look good making money are just good people. The
pool is like this big yeah, and we're all going
after these same men. Yeah.

Speaker 6 (24:29):
I got a lot of friends as girls. It's women
like they all got jobs, all got their career going.
I got my guy friends.

Speaker 1 (24:37):
And they ain't doing ship.

Speaker 2 (24:42):
He claimed.

Speaker 6 (24:42):
He taking care of his mama.

Speaker 2 (24:45):
Mama look healthy to be. She literally goes she crossed fit.

Speaker 3 (24:56):
Be like that though, because I think a lot of
the time as a woman, as you climb the ladder
more and more, it is it's hard to be that are.

Speaker 4 (25:04):
Equally old, I think because guys have there's that ego
to with it.

Speaker 1 (25:09):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (25:10):
So even if you meet that girl that's like up
there in the ladder's only a certain group of guys
that kind of feel like because every guy wants to
feel like the provider, right, And I feel like once
it's the pool just gets smaller. Once you kind of
like go up that ladder. I feel like and models.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
Okay, so you got at that's right.

Speaker 3 (25:34):
So I just feel like it is true to me
and want to date women that maybe don't have that
much going on.

Speaker 1 (25:41):
Do y'all agree with it?

Speaker 2 (25:43):
I think I mean a preference.

Speaker 4 (25:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (25:45):
I think it's some people don't want to date someone
that's popular at all. They don't want nobody knowing about
what they have going on, and they want that. I
don't want attention, like you'll look at sometimes you gotta
look you're the first get a looking person they dated.
I don't watch got check that history because then like now,
like somebody d m me and it's like some you know,
mom of five in Arkansas, and then you're jealous about

(26:08):
this got followers.

Speaker 5 (26:11):
But that's why you can't meet a nigga first bag.

Speaker 1 (26:14):
I was just.

Speaker 6 (26:15):
About to say that whatever whatever vice versus staven that
is for us.

Speaker 2 (26:20):
I don't know how to Okay.

Speaker 1 (26:21):
So what is the usual since you're the single one,
because the girls are coming for you. I'm just letting
you know, every time a man sits on this couch,
the girl's becoming. But what is this type of woman
that you like? You're a successful man. You do well
for yourself. You got things.

Speaker 2 (26:32):
Do you have kids? You got one kid?

Speaker 1 (26:35):
Okay, one kid? That's good. That's the number. That's a
good man, Samanna, that's what you got. One kid? That's it.
So what type of woman do you like? Let the
people know?

Speaker 4 (26:42):
That's crazy.

Speaker 6 (26:43):
I don't think I would ever let a woman know
what I want because because I feel like I feel
like women are so smartt.

Speaker 4 (26:51):
James Bond, I would never.

Speaker 10 (26:57):
I would never disclose that all in a whiskey.

Speaker 2 (27:03):
They could just tell us.

Speaker 1 (27:04):
No, it's not for real.

Speaker 6 (27:06):
I'm just telling no, I got I have five I
got I have five sisters. And I like when I
said I got five sisters, like my sisters are sharks,
like they like they know the game, Like they know
the game for my dad, like they you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (27:19):
So I know how smart women are.

Speaker 6 (27:22):
So a woman can literally I could literally talk for
thirty seconds and she could she could have everything she needs.

Speaker 1 (27:27):
Oh I know that?

Speaker 2 (27:28):
Why so you'll be tricky? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (27:33):
How the fuck did you say thirty seconds?

Speaker 3 (27:40):
He said, sime I got everything he needs to woo him.

Speaker 8 (27:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (27:47):
Rip, you're saying you're easy, easy bro, I'm.

Speaker 2 (27:53):
Just like, I try to be mysterious.

Speaker 6 (27:55):
So it's just like I know when it's calling all
about time, and I like.

Speaker 2 (27:59):
I like roll man, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (28:00):
I also feel like guys aren't that difficult in a sense,
especially when you find like the good guy. I feel
like we like simple shit like if you I don't know, just.

Speaker 2 (28:10):
Like race, like damn you made a left hand leaf
in high school.

Speaker 1 (28:13):
Yeah, yeah, Dre, I just said that. I said, I
love the fact that, like, I love a gracious man
who's just like gratitude and they're like I just like
the effort because I feel like that's how like my mean,
he's just very like I'd be like, I'll boil him
an egg and he'd be like, this is the best boy.

(28:33):
Most men are like that. Yeah, but they're not, though,
you know what, Okay, I'll say this okay because I
want to ask all a question. Oh we've been to
get into another topic. People always say, y'all are dating
men that hate and in the moment, you don't know that.
And I realized that I was dating a man for
a very long time. I'm like, looking back, I'm like
that nigga hated me, he hated me, he did not

(28:56):
like me. But y'all, y'all have probably experienced that. Have
y'all ever dated a one? Be like she cool, but
you don't really fuck with her like that? But it's
something to have around. Why did y'all do that?

Speaker 4 (29:07):
I feel like it's so different from me because I've
been in like very long term relationships. So and I
went to boarding school, so I it wasn't really like
that much relationships when I was in high school. Oh boys, right,
it wasn't all boys.

Speaker 3 (29:26):
They have boarding schools that are not like all boys
and all girls.

Speaker 4 (29:29):
I didn't know they do the Nigers.

Speaker 1 (29:32):
It was oh okay, okay, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 (29:33):
But I do think after a while, because like I
was in an eight eight year relationship, and after a while,
I do think you just start growing into different people
as well. So it's not like that. I don't know
if where the hates a strong word, I would say,
you just ain't feeling like no, you just start, you
just start growing apart. If you start liking different things,

(29:54):
you start and when you don't feel like both people
are kind of elevating at the same rate, that's when
friction starts.

Speaker 6 (30:00):
You ever tried to be yourself, like fully yourself in
front of your partner and then something go wrong. Then
that's when you that's when you be like, all right,
this same my person, like this was fully myself.

Speaker 2 (30:10):
I ain't do nothing wrong. Yeah, it kind of got
a little made.

Speaker 1 (30:13):
Me feel stupid. Yea, I knew my.

Speaker 4 (30:18):
Accent like me.

Speaker 1 (30:18):
It was it was two situations when I really and
it was this was towards the end, I knew my
extent like me. The first situation was we had a
live show and he showed up and he was sitting
on the side of the stage with his phone doing
like this. Oh no, Like every time I looked up,
he was.

Speaker 4 (30:34):
Going like this, what number show was it?

Speaker 1 (30:36):
This was this is probably our second tour, our second tour, so.

Speaker 4 (30:40):
This is his first time.

Speaker 1 (30:41):
This is his first time the show too. Then that
situation was like somebody had made a clip or talking
about like how funny I was, and they were just like,
oh my god, XP is hilarious and you know how
people do like that. And I was watching it and
then he just like he like kind of scoffed, and
I was like, wait, what's you know? Mom? I was like,
you know, I was like, you think I'm funny. He

(31:03):
was like, I mean, I'll be like, what it's cool.
I'm like, I'm Maddy Murphy. That's like that was very strange.

Speaker 4 (31:15):
It was not giving like thing to Again. I think
some guys are they hate seeing their girls. They kind
of get fill away when they're seeing their girls, get
like shine, yeah, and it makes them feel small, I.

Speaker 1 (31:27):
Feel like, but I hate that.

Speaker 3 (31:29):
I think it takes a very specific type of man
that you can date that's gonna be okay with that
and still be secure in hisself and understanding that like
me getting shine and people praising me doesn't take away
from you.

Speaker 5 (31:40):
Therapy either, therapy I've been.

Speaker 4 (31:43):
I've been in therapy for like two a year and
a half, and don't wonder I was always thinking. I
think with me, I always felt like I knew better,
like as I can't be wrong about something, and I
think going to therapy kind of that's that that ego
go that ego and let go like this person can
be right as well. So I think it's knowing that

(32:05):
you can be wrong and you're wrong and everything you
do is not right and being okay saying like you're
right right, yeah, what was.

Speaker 1 (32:11):
It that convinced you to go to therapy?

Speaker 4 (32:16):
So when I got out my relationship, I knew there
was just stuff I need to work on on myself.
And I think I was always afraid to go because
it felt like I don't know you. Kind of again,
it's that male ego thing. You kind of feel like
I'm SUPERMD and do anything. I box and do this,
nothing can break me. And I think it's like really

(32:37):
letting go of that, like that shell and being vulnerable
and stuff like that. The first couple of sessions always
kind of awkward, yeah, but like I have to kind
of go into it and like you feel more comfortable,
and it's just sometimes go there. I don't even know
what I'm going to talk about when I'm there, but
then you're there, then you just start talking about things
you didn't even know that underlying reasons I find a.

Speaker 1 (32:55):
Therapist too, is like finding a partner. Yeah, Like sometimes
you don't have it, They're like, oh this is not
going work and you got to switch it up and
you gotta just keep trying. Finding a therapist is literally
like dating.

Speaker 6 (33:05):
Like for real bad therapists out here too, is they
just be writing stuff down nothing why did I write
all that dumb for you to.

Speaker 1 (33:17):
My friend? And I'm not going to put their business
out there, But one of my friends goes to therapy
as well, and when I tell you, the therapist gave
her the worst advice ever, like basically telling her to
crash out because she was trying to do something that
was like a crash out and there it was like,
maybe you need that. And when I tell y'all the
crash out, like I said, I'm not going to say it,
but it's so die. I'm gonna tell y'all after the show,

(33:38):
it's so crazy and I couldnot believe. And that's why
I agree with you. All therapists aren't good therapy, so
you have to do the work. Like committing to therapy
is one thing, but finding a good therapist and committing
yourself on that journey of finding a good therapist is
another thing.

Speaker 4 (33:54):
I think.

Speaker 2 (33:55):
I think lingo is important.

Speaker 6 (33:56):
I think like them being around someone who had a
similar ground to you, because you could be talking to
somebody that didn't come from like a single parent household.

Speaker 2 (34:04):
Yeah, and they don't.

Speaker 6 (34:05):
None of their friends did either, so they've never actually
been around it, even though they have the work in
the books.

Speaker 2 (34:10):
They don't have the work.

Speaker 4 (34:11):
Really or even like culturally too, yeah, culturally yeah, it's
like I'm not gonna sit here and do that. But
you know who you shouldn't be going.

Speaker 6 (34:17):
To what you mean about that, like as a young
black male and if you're from like the inner city,
I don't know if an old white.

Speaker 1 (34:25):
Guy, but really like oh yeah, yeah.

Speaker 6 (34:28):
Give you what you want unless they like we're in
the inner city at some point in time.

Speaker 1 (34:33):
That makes sense because every time, like I do like
a therapy search or if I'm like in between therapists,
I always you gotta be black, you gotta be a woman,
and you got to be a Christian. Like those are
my three like hard like I can't yeah, anything else
out of the it doesn't make sense to.

Speaker 4 (34:47):
Me from down south.

Speaker 1 (34:48):
Down south, yes, like from Houston. Who's from Houston? But
I'm from Orange, Texas, so I'm a little bit Orange.

Speaker 4 (34:53):
I ain't heard of that I know yet.

Speaker 2 (34:56):
It's like orangeis the small town or literally.

Speaker 1 (35:01):
Two high schools. When we opened the Chili's, it was
on the news when I went, oh, yes, exactly, like
they have a Chick fil A and a Starbucks there.
When I went back.

Speaker 2 (35:13):
I was like, Oh, that's fine.

Speaker 1 (35:15):
Y'all got a Chick fil A and a Starbucks. Like
it's popping chili for me on the news. Always give me, Yeah,
the chili's it was on.

Speaker 2 (35:24):
Dude, you went to a big school.

Speaker 3 (35:26):
Yeah, I grew up in Houston, so I'm from Houston.
So I mean it's a lot of high schools in Houston.
In my high school, actually, my graduating class, I think
we had like fifteen hundred people in the class, like
senior class. The school itself probably like four thousand.

Speaker 1 (35:41):
Yeah, before we move on, I have a question because
we were talking about like the comparison, Like people always
talk like we're the male and female versions. Do people
ever compare y'all to James and food Hart?

Speaker 4 (35:53):
Why you say that?

Speaker 1 (35:58):
He like, y'all know why.

Speaker 2 (36:01):
I mean, it's it's just a difference.

Speaker 6 (36:03):
We're American. I put it at that. Okay, Yeah, we actually, Man,
I ain't even gonna put it out there like that.
But don't know, I don't know why it's a difference now.
It used to not be a difference, but I think
a lot more people, especially after like certain situations happened
in the podcast world, people started paying attention to who's
in these viral clips haters actually not people, not new fans,

(36:26):
not people that wanted to see you do good, people
like let me check into all these podcasters to see
what they're saying. So we're not surprised by anybody that
we put on this pedestal.

Speaker 2 (36:35):
So like after people.

Speaker 6 (36:36):
Did that with us, the research, Yeah, I think we
became even more popular.

Speaker 4 (36:41):
Yeah. So also because we're not famous for anything. Yeah,
there's really much you can google. You probably see like
our college football profile. Yeah that's about it.

Speaker 1 (36:52):
Well, I think it's like because sometimes I can dig
up things that you have said in the past, like
on an early episode, they're like, oh my god.

Speaker 4 (36:59):
I think I was always aware of like what's out
on the internet since we started. So everything we've said
is like it's always been like edgy but very like safe.
And I think it's there's a thing of like being
your authentic self because they are like, you know, like
Ellen Gener is it degenerous?

Speaker 1 (37:17):
Yeah, he got.

Speaker 4 (37:18):
Quote unquote canceled because she was on TV like being
this you know, joyful person and stuff like that, but
behind the scenes that she was doing different. So like,
you guys are your natural self. So so it's like
there's nothing really in your past or your tweet or
something like you said that you'd be like, yeah, I
said that I was younger, but it wasn't anything super
out of pocket.

Speaker 1 (37:38):
Yeah, I'm not gonna lie. I think we said stuff
that was like oh my god, but it wasn't like
this is horrible, we need to cancel her for this.
Never like it was just like stupid.

Speaker 6 (37:46):
Stuff and it'll never be because that's your natural self.
H It's always gonna be something that could be taken
out of context. But some people just like longer the
camera in front of your face, the more they gonna
become themselves.

Speaker 1 (37:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (38:00):
Sure, we were just a little cringey because we were young.

Speaker 3 (38:02):
Like I look back at some of the things that
and ideologies that I used to have and I'd be like,
oh my god, why the fuck would I say this?
But it's not something that I would be super embarrassed
if somebody went and pulled it up, or something that
I feel like would offend a whole community.

Speaker 4 (38:16):
Yeah. Yeah, it's growth too, like if if people could
put a scope on their life, Yeah, five years back
and stuff they said, even stuff I said last week,
I was like I'd like, damn, I said that, I'm
a whole no person, especially when you're like in this
entertainment space. It's like sometimes you try stuff, Yeah it might,

(38:37):
it might not hear.

Speaker 6 (38:38):
We also got the cheat call that we were like, uh,
we deem ourselves a comedy podcast, so it's like we
don't have to talk about what's trending, Like it's not
a big part. Like I feel like it's tough for
those dudes on like the Button podcast because they have
to talk about what's popular because that's what people go
to them for. But people don't come to to us

(39:00):
for that, So we can talk about something totally different
and dodge a case.

Speaker 5 (39:04):
Or like yeah, I don't love an evergreen topic, but.

Speaker 1 (39:10):
You know I'm not gonna like since we're like speaking
of like the Button podcast, I think Mark Lamont Hill
being in an addition to that podcast has really Oh he.

Speaker 4 (39:19):
Is we articulated.

Speaker 1 (39:21):
Man. When I tell you I love a good debate, yea,
I will debate anybody. Mark is that type of nigga
You debated and me be like, you know what, I
was just playing, Bro, You're right, I don't know because
he'll be like, remember, well, in nineteen seventy.

Speaker 2 (39:34):
Four, I got I got a shoulder.

Speaker 1 (39:42):
You have to know your limits, yeah, real and your reach.
And I think that's what I think that we win
on the mics. It was like, we know what we
are great at. You know, I need to sit back
a little bit.

Speaker 2 (39:53):
We do.

Speaker 6 (39:54):
We do disclaimers after if we end up getting too
serious topics because we actually friends and we talk every day,
so sometimes we forget we on the pod and really
start debating stuff. And if you get too serious, we
are like, listen, y'all, like our opinions don't mean ship. YEA,
Like every time if we're your main source of news, listen,
Like y'all.

Speaker 4 (40:13):
Are wrong about that, y'all are wrong about this, Like
just like.

Speaker 5 (40:23):
We apologize it was just my opinion.

Speaker 2 (40:25):
I don't know, I don't apologize to Yeah.

Speaker 3 (40:29):
I hate when people write comments like that so us
they're like, y'all need to talk about more serious ship.
Why y'all never talk about politics? Why y'all never talk about.

Speaker 5 (40:36):
Current events and what's going on in the world.

Speaker 3 (40:38):
I'm like, it's so many fucking podcasts and so many
media outlists that if that's what you're looking for, you
can literally go find it. This is supposed to be
lighthearted and fun, like, that's why we created this environment.
That's why we created this space. If you want something
more serious, it's out there. This ain't it though. And
it's not that we don't have the range. It's not

(40:58):
that we can't talk about it. We just choose to
not go into that. I feel like when you start
talking about politics and religion a lot of the time,
he's just never gonna go to.

Speaker 4 (41:07):
It's always gonna be somebody in the comment that read
up about it.

Speaker 1 (41:10):
Yeah, it was like, actually, like you can't those type
of people.

Speaker 4 (41:17):
You can't just make blankets right around because they're gonna
be like, all right, explain what you means. Like I
don't know.

Speaker 1 (41:28):
Exactly what do you mean by that.

Speaker 6 (41:32):
We had to do it to go back to like
episode like eighty something. It was just like y'all was
wrong about the super Bowl pic.

Speaker 10 (41:38):
Like okay, like when I was got me high, I
was on his Instagram and everything, like listen, be me
a little bro.

Speaker 2 (41:49):
You ain't gonna keep doing this. You got one more
time both times?

Speaker 1 (41:53):
All right, bro to what are we drinking today? Because
I'm a little lit over here.

Speaker 11 (41:58):
In honor of our guests crash dummies. This one is
the crash out. This one has a little bit of tequila,
some hypnotic, some pineapple juice, lime juice, and a little
bit of hot honey syrup. So he gives a little
bit of a spice, but with that hypnotic. That's how
you're gonna crash out, bookie. So cheers, salute job people working.

Speaker 2 (42:18):
Came back quick as hell too.

Speaker 1 (42:21):
I love it. Just hot honey, another shot, you know,
I mean I took the one in the beginning. I
got another one. I got your head when I was
about to say, shit, I have.

Speaker 4 (42:31):
A drink every episode.

Speaker 1 (42:38):
It's honest.

Speaker 2 (42:39):
That's weird. That's weird.

Speaker 3 (42:41):
Had the first but no mag drinking. I was sober
for a good I was too, I was.

Speaker 1 (42:50):
It was great. It was great. I actually think I'm
about to do another challenge.

Speaker 4 (42:52):
You do like the book stuff too?

Speaker 1 (42:54):
Yeah? I did?

Speaker 4 (42:55):
Like was it like a page or something like two pages? Yeah?
A few days. I don't think i've read like a
non fiction book in or fiction? Is it fiction? Is
it's fake? You on your own, buddy, you know somebody's fiction.

Speaker 2 (43:13):
I don't want to be wrong with them on the camera.

Speaker 1 (43:15):
Fiction is real.

Speaker 4 (43:16):
Fiction is real, right? Non fiction fake? I haven't read
a book in general book non fiction is real.

Speaker 2 (43:24):
Yes, non fiction is.

Speaker 1 (43:26):
Like y'all some crime. They'd be like that. This is
why y'all don't debate. Is the is it?

Speaker 12 (43:34):
No?

Speaker 1 (43:34):
Imagine?

Speaker 4 (43:35):
But in reality that that don't make sense though non real?

Speaker 1 (43:40):
Yeah, but I always remember it because I was taught that.
You say, fiction is.

Speaker 2 (43:45):
Fake, right? Fiction like spell rhythm l r H y
t I don't know.

Speaker 1 (43:54):
Is that right? Our h y tah? Is it?

Speaker 4 (43:57):
Well?

Speaker 2 (43:58):
You fire?

Speaker 4 (43:58):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (43:59):
I'm a little you know, don't I read? I spelled
everything wrong? What I asked you spell?

Speaker 3 (44:07):
The other we we did that spelling bee It started
with a ped pneumonia paradactyl.

Speaker 1 (44:18):
This my work, like the dras bar would be like.

Speaker 4 (44:23):
Sammy, oh no, no.

Speaker 1 (44:27):
Is crazy starting with a start said art.

Speaker 6 (44:34):
I did try to see you so real, like we
need him not real, like we don't know if it's
a question that one of us asked and we don't know,
like I will literally cuss him out and here because
he'll do the same thing, like what the fun would
you ask me?

Speaker 1 (44:47):
Something like dry always asked me d words. I don't
know I'll be like, what that means?

Speaker 3 (44:53):
I feel like we both will ask each other questions
and be like, huh, I think that's the beauty.

Speaker 1 (44:56):
Like we're all ignorant. Yeah, in some way in a
certain categories.

Speaker 5 (45:01):
Because nonfiction and fiction just had me thought up.

Speaker 1 (45:04):
I was like, wait, which one is? What is real
and what's fake?

Speaker 2 (45:07):
It's all right, though, I'm saying, but we're gonna I
look up the bok though, We're gonna.

Speaker 1 (45:13):
Yeah, what's the next topic?

Speaker 3 (45:17):
So, but the second topic, I wanted to talk about
sharing all of the tea with your significant other.

Speaker 1 (45:23):
Should you or should you not?

Speaker 3 (45:25):
Like, do y'all tell y'all partner every single detail about
your friends and their drama and everything that they have
going on?

Speaker 1 (45:31):
Or do y'all feel like that's offering me?

Speaker 3 (45:33):
And you know, where's the line of betraying your friend,
your family's traice.

Speaker 6 (45:38):
I'm learning something new right now, so I'm about to
find out something.

Speaker 4 (45:41):
But it all depends because you shouldn't You shouldn't know
the friends that you shouldn't tell things to. And I've
had friends like I'd be like, I'd rather not know
than you tell me because don't involve me and it's
something that if the person I'm with finds out and
be like, oh, you already knew this type of thing.
So it's if it's a secret, you gotta do your

(46:03):
job and keeping in the secret. You tell me something,
you have to do your job.

Speaker 2 (46:06):
Why are you point at me? Bro? Why are you
playing at me?

Speaker 4 (46:11):
You're the only person I know.

Speaker 2 (46:13):
I'm just saying, but why me though about him?

Speaker 1 (46:17):
Are you going to be like, no, let me tell
you what Pat did.

Speaker 4 (46:21):
No, it depends if it's something that Pat doesn't want
her to know, then I won't say, yeah, she would understand.

Speaker 6 (46:27):
I think I think it's I think it's unattractive. On
the other hand, like if I have someone i'm dating
come to me and tell me something about their sister
that I feel like, why.

Speaker 2 (46:35):
Did I have to know that? It becomes like that's
an it to me. No, don't tell me what your
sister did like that, And he said, I'll tell you that.

Speaker 1 (46:52):
With you.

Speaker 3 (46:53):
See, I feel like within lemmits it has to be parameters.
It's like you should just be going to your partner
telling them all of your friends and your family's business.
But I mean personally for me, like Mimmy, he be
telling me so so i'd be like, I gotta spill
a little.

Speaker 1 (47:11):
I'm gonna change that tea somebody, as long as it's
not nothing like serious like that. My friend is like,
oh girl, I got old fifty thousand dollars in taxes
and I'm about to lose my house. I'm not gonna
be like babe as cooling up to dud. I'm not
doing that.

Speaker 4 (47:26):
I feel like it was him definitely telling my girl.

Speaker 3 (47:30):
But what if it's your okay, so is it a
difference between if it's your partner, like your girlfriend, boyfriend
versus your husband.

Speaker 2 (47:38):
Wife husband wife different?

Speaker 1 (47:40):
So too, I'm telling you everything.

Speaker 6 (47:42):
I feel like that's good.

Speaker 2 (47:43):
That's good, that's good juice.

Speaker 1 (47:46):
No I need.

Speaker 5 (47:48):
Once I get married, don't tell me y'all.

Speaker 4 (47:51):
But that's you have to you as a friend. You
have to know that about your friend.

Speaker 1 (47:55):
I just feel like like that right now.

Speaker 4 (47:56):
Yeah, I'm not.

Speaker 1 (48:00):
Like that, but I feel like I literally tell Dre
probably like ninety nine percent of she do. I do,
But I tell her things like I know that if
she told her partner or you know, the guy she
was dating, I'll be like, I don't care if he knows,
because I'll probably call him myself, like, let me tell
you what happened, nigga, if something came.

Speaker 3 (48:17):
Well, I don't telling him a lot of stuff because
he's a little judjy.

Speaker 1 (48:20):
Right, But I'm saying if she did tell him the stuff,
it wouldn't be like shit. I wouldn't care because I
also like know him, I guess, but I'll be telling
people stuff that if it does get out. I really
wouldn't care too much if he stayed in the circle.
People that we know.

Speaker 2 (48:36):
That's because you're a good friend.

Speaker 6 (48:37):
Though, good friends don't tell their other friends too many
secrets while they got lied to their partner. Now you're
messing up what I got going on over here.

Speaker 4 (48:44):
Yeah, we don't know. We don't tell each other that
much that's going on in our lives.

Speaker 2 (48:48):
Yeah, I haven't shook his head in like ten years.
We haven't.

Speaker 4 (48:51):
Really, we don't adapt. We noticed that I tried to
amou cal time to hug me.

Speaker 1 (48:58):
For y'all should hug right now, let's do it.

Speaker 2 (49:01):
Bring it in, bro, I probably come on.

Speaker 4 (49:04):
Bringing in Bro.

Speaker 6 (49:06):
I probably cry, let's pray, let's pray or something to
make it better.

Speaker 5 (49:11):
You just don't like.

Speaker 1 (49:23):
Five A But I got some six inch hes. Yeah,
don't you feel better? You feel better? I can release y'all.

Speaker 2 (49:33):
I just don't want to know about that. I just
don't want to hold those supersom That breathing I feel,
I feel the breathing makes me not want.

Speaker 4 (49:42):
To that's tall.

Speaker 1 (49:44):
Yeah, I'm five as.

Speaker 4 (49:45):
So are you like you have to date somebody that's
tall than you? You don't care?

Speaker 1 (49:50):
Are used to, but now I'm just kind of like,
I just I love being tall. I love wearing platform heels.
I just feel like I just when I walk in
the room. So I like men that like that about me.
So if you're like, it's crazy because I'm uh like
I now I feel like I date men that like
that I'm taller than them.

Speaker 4 (50:09):
They be like, oh you look good, but I find
the tree.

Speaker 1 (50:12):
He can't be short short, you know what I'm saying.
I feel like a man that's like six foot like
I can do that because at my heels, I'm like
six one six two, you know what I'm saying. So
if you're like six foot, like, we can make it work.
You don't got to be like six six you know
what I'm saying?

Speaker 2 (50:24):
Oh you counting that as you're in your heels.

Speaker 1 (50:26):
Yeah, as I'm in my heels because like in my flat,
I'm only I'm like, I'm tall for a woman, but
I'm technically not tall, but I wear platform heels. Like
all my shoes in my closet are like six inches
and uh so, and now most of the time I'm
in heels when I'm out, so I'll be like, Okay, yeah,
I'm like six one, six two. Most of the time
when you meet me, I'm gonna look like a six
to one woman, you know, gotcha? So that's what I

(50:48):
counted as. But height don't really matter to me. I
feel like there's so much more important things to worry about.

Speaker 2 (50:54):
The height.

Speaker 5 (50:57):
Going to therapy, that's the number one.

Speaker 1 (50:59):
That's that's what it is given them. How tall you are, Yes,
I mean I do a little bit because I'm birthing
some baby Lebron's Yeah, I'm sure. Oh, like I my eggs,
I always say this are golden eggs, you know what
I'm saying. Very pristine. I'm gonna have some athletic because
I played volleyball. I was an athlete in high school.

(51:19):
Like I like to work out. I'm gonna have an
athletic child, So you do have to I care more
about the athleticism than the height, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (51:29):
Yeah, it is a little cringe on your partner and
can't do something.

Speaker 1 (51:32):
Oh my god, have you never like went to work
out with your partner.

Speaker 2 (51:35):
It was just like, oh, why you hold them dumb bells, like.

Speaker 4 (51:40):
Saying that you have to see your partner at full
sprint too?

Speaker 1 (51:44):
Yeah, why you can't run half a mile?

Speaker 4 (51:46):
And yeah they got that.

Speaker 1 (51:52):
Yeah, like I need somebody who's coordinated. Like, to me,
a deal breaker is working out because that means you
don't care about your body, and it's more than just
the physical thing, Like you don't care about like your insides,
not even about the way you look on the outside.
Like working out is the part of your life. It
should be a part of your lifestyle just to be healthy,

(52:13):
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (52:13):
So you know, you know, dudes test for that in
the dating face, right, Yeah, like we toss y'all stuff.
Oh yeah, like when it starts, when it starts to
get like okay, we you know at each other places
were moving like boyfriend and girlfriend.

Speaker 2 (52:27):
Man might toss you the keys like.

Speaker 4 (52:31):
That. Let's go to the courthouse right now.

Speaker 1 (52:39):
That's what I need. Do more reps than you in
the gym. Though.

Speaker 6 (52:44):
Sometimes it's it's not about to catch though, it's about
how you go grab it. Because it's like you can
drop ten out of ten, but the way you try
to be smooth with it.

Speaker 2 (52:53):
Yeah, you know what I mean. You're trying to catch
you with your legs.

Speaker 6 (52:56):
And going between your feet, you fall on your butt
like I'm out of here.

Speaker 5 (52:59):
Oh my god, for real, because that would be like
I will try to catch it.

Speaker 1 (53:03):
Be like, oh my god. To me, I'm competitive on everything. Yo.

Speaker 2 (53:13):
Yeah, I like block my shot, but I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (53:19):
I am super competitive like everything, Like I don't care huh.
I don't play ping pong. But you know what what
I'll say that any type of it don't matter if
it's a board game, our phone game. I'm trying to win.

Speaker 2 (53:37):
Competitive. I like that.

Speaker 1 (53:38):
Raham knows that about me. We went bowling one time.
She was like, it's not that deep, Yes it is.
I just be like, they have fun.

Speaker 4 (53:45):
No, I feel it.

Speaker 2 (53:49):
That's why I'm texting my girls. She had bowling. I'm
texting who won.

Speaker 6 (53:53):
About Yeah, it's a hostess.

Speaker 4 (53:59):
Yeah, that's what happened.

Speaker 1 (54:04):
Group of fire sides. I just to have a ball.
I'll be like who cares on the nigga tekes me
who wants?

Speaker 2 (54:10):
But who the fuck you think wants?

Speaker 5 (54:13):
Funny enough, I'm not competitive, but I be.

Speaker 1 (54:15):
Winning, like.

Speaker 2 (54:17):
Win, I do win?

Speaker 4 (54:18):
Yeah, I hate those type of wins.

Speaker 2 (54:21):
A secret winner.

Speaker 5 (54:21):
Yeah, she cares?

Speaker 6 (54:24):
Yes, so when you so, when you lose, you just
get to like, I don't care who ordering pizza like you?

Speaker 1 (54:30):
Just me? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (54:31):
But when you win, y'all like, what's the score again?
Did I win?

Speaker 4 (54:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (54:38):
I like like, I don't give a deep down like
you said that, y'all see what.

Speaker 1 (54:51):
The fun going on?

Speaker 4 (54:53):
A question for y'all because on our podcast we talked
about this. He thought this was weird that I did this.
That sometimes if it's a picture of a group photo,
I might crop everybody else out if I like the photo,
just me, that's weird.

Speaker 1 (55:06):
I'm not gonna lie. Me and my best friend Bee
Lane took a picture of the other day and she
didn't like it.

Speaker 4 (55:11):
I took out exactly, especially where she had thought.

Speaker 1 (55:17):
Shoulder and shoulder touching would shoulder the show.

Speaker 2 (55:19):
Was touching on that's crazy. She didn't you touching the
whole nother human. That's not you didn't like it.

Speaker 1 (55:26):
This is the picture.

Speaker 4 (55:27):
That's what I'm saying. They don't like the picture.

Speaker 1 (55:29):
The pictures. You gotta here past that to her? Where
was she right next to me?

Speaker 4 (55:36):
I don't call that crop. You use a racer body,
you do a last so.

Speaker 1 (55:46):
Na crazy hands, I can't use my thumb.

Speaker 13 (55:51):
Must be straight as a friend picture, I thought you
took her out.

Speaker 2 (55:56):
I'm straight.

Speaker 1 (55:57):
Said she didn't like it.

Speaker 2 (55:58):
We wouldn't have been friends no more.

Speaker 1 (56:00):
I will never post a picture.

Speaker 4 (56:01):
You don't know. That's the thing though, because everybody else
will be like, oh I don't like this picture, and
I'm like, oh, I like my I like. That's what
I'm saying. I no, no.

Speaker 2 (56:10):
We would have been done for at least a month.
Oh my friend.

Speaker 1 (56:14):
You don't know if I would.

Speaker 3 (56:15):
I don't know if it would be fun months, but
I definitely would have been like with my other friend,
like they're all weird.

Speaker 1 (56:22):
She said, you didn't if you didn't like the picture, you.

Speaker 2 (56:24):
Made a green screen.

Speaker 1 (56:25):
That's crazy, Like I wasn't there, but you like the picture.
I'm going to leave you in there. But it's a
picture of me that I like, and you're like, oh,
I don't like it. I'm gonna politely take you out politely.

Speaker 2 (56:38):
It's crazy.

Speaker 1 (56:39):
It's no way to do that politely because I thought
that was just a picture.

Speaker 4 (56:43):
That's that's that's different what she said she didn't like it.
I like what I was it is, but it's just
like the more advanced version what I was talking.

Speaker 1 (56:52):
Yeah, because then her hand was around my waist.

Speaker 4 (56:54):
I have to she's easy with dudes because we just like,
you know, it was like doing something different, like and science.
So it's always a little space.

Speaker 1 (57:01):
Yeah, it's not no space, as they know.

Speaker 4 (57:05):
Another thing was we had a step sibling debate and
Pat was saying that if you're over the age of
like twenty twenty five, you say, and it's twenty one,
let's explain it. Go ahead.

Speaker 6 (57:17):
If you're over the age of twenty one, if your
mom in someone else's dad, or your dad and someone
else's mom get married, those people are not your step siblings.
You didn't grow up in the same household as them.
You're like, you're an adult life right now. Okay, unless
they're way younger than you, like they like not eight nine.
It's good to take on that role, like I'm gonna

(57:38):
beat a big sister y'all never had. But it's just
like if y'all both like, okay, you twenty three, I'm
twenty four, and our parents got married. Old list be
stepsislms like y'all weird, man, you are too old.

Speaker 1 (57:49):
Yeah, we're too old to be talking about. Oh this
is my little sister.

Speaker 2 (57:52):
Thank you, thank you.

Speaker 1 (57:53):
I'm not gonna lie. I do agree with that, Like
we're cool. You family, You're my fan.

Speaker 2 (57:57):
If y'all become best friends, it is like if.

Speaker 1 (58:00):
We got out, I'm gonna say, our parents are married.
You're not my stepbrother. Our parents are married.

Speaker 4 (58:09):
He was my wife's daughter.

Speaker 1 (58:14):
Our parents are married. That's what it is.

Speaker 3 (58:19):
But that's how people be ended up marrying they step siblings.

Speaker 2 (58:25):
M Oh you.

Speaker 3 (58:26):
Know what, Yes, happening all the time, Like people will
their moms and dads will get married and then they'll
end up like.

Speaker 1 (58:35):
They on Clueless. Do you remember how Clueless was? Yeah,
like it was what his son and he married the
daughter yep, and then they ended up hooking up. It
was a little weird, but technically we're not related in
the parents divorced, but that's still weird.

Speaker 6 (58:55):
Sometimes they be trying to all last each other because
you're dating at the same time. It's really all about
who get married first and make sure other person weird.

Speaker 1 (59:03):
You're gonna be weird first, weird, Oh my gosh. But
I'm not gonna lie. I think it's more weird. So
if like me and somebody get married and then our
parents get married after us, they start dating. They're older.
Let old people do what they do. But if our
parents get married first, it's more weird. If the kids

(59:24):
do it, Does that make sense? I mean, now that
we all.

Speaker 5 (59:28):
Grown, y'all all you all motherfuckers, is weird?

Speaker 2 (59:30):
It is? It is more weird.

Speaker 1 (59:31):
But I feel like it's more weird when the kids
would ask no, bloody bloody. So I feel like if
me and somebody are dating and our parents start dating,
that's it's not as weird as if the kids do it.

Speaker 2 (59:43):
That's because that's the most beautiful marriage in the world.

Speaker 6 (59:46):
It's two older people like meeting after their partners die
and like the last fifteen twenty years of their life.

Speaker 3 (59:53):
Yeah, that's already on your way out.

Speaker 2 (01:00:00):
Telling it sounds like some freaky ship going on.

Speaker 1 (01:00:02):
Yeah, y'all just horny.

Speaker 5 (01:00:04):
Yeah, you can find somebody else, right, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:00:08):
It's definitely weird when the when the kids do it
after all. Right, so now it's time to get into
the bed. Bow the bow A bow, bow bow bow bow.

Speaker 2 (01:00:20):
Okay, let's do it.

Speaker 4 (01:00:27):
I heard y'all singing earlier.

Speaker 1 (01:00:31):
Y'all know how to rap. I don't know how to sing.

Speaker 4 (01:00:34):
He's singing choir sing.

Speaker 2 (01:00:36):
Let me hear something like Brian McKnight.

Speaker 1 (01:00:38):
You want to that's what we're singing today. Any time
today from carry on Brian McKnight, you see any time today. Okay,
I missed you today for the bed, we're gonna play
a game called would you Smash with the Twist? So
we're gonna give y'all scenarios of like things in the bedroom,
like would you do this? Or this is like a

(01:00:59):
little bit too far and be honest. And then if
this is something you're like, oh, light work, I've already
done that before.

Speaker 6 (01:01:05):
You know, y'all have to be We don't be too
island sometimes on the pod, I know.

Speaker 1 (01:01:12):
But y'all can be honestly that this is more.

Speaker 2 (01:01:14):
Mind't drunk, mind speaks.

Speaker 4 (01:01:16):
So let it all up, you said, he was the liar.

Speaker 2 (01:01:19):
I ain't lied today, have you?

Speaker 1 (01:01:22):
That's because he said he was single. Was like, okay, poor.

Speaker 2 (01:01:30):
Mile, better put that bottle down New Orleans.

Speaker 1 (01:01:35):
Those were the ones that's be reading four mild and
poor minds holds. Okay. So the first scenario is they
bring toys to the bedroom for them, but not for you.
So a little example, like, you know, something to play
with herself while y'all are messing around, or maybe you know,
put it on a little show for you toys in

(01:01:56):
the bedroom. How do y'll feel about toys in the
bedroom with it?

Speaker 4 (01:02:00):
I think if if if she's pleasure, it's bringing her pleasure. Yeah,
it's good. I'm the type of person I feel like
if like if my girl is pleasured, you know you
get that pleasure from yes.

Speaker 1 (01:02:12):
Well you know I've seen like a lot of men
are intimidated by toys because they feel like I God,
damn bit your lecture. Cut that plussing chilling.

Speaker 4 (01:02:20):
It saves energy for me to team work working rolls
about the double team the double.

Speaker 6 (01:02:29):
I wore a cock ring before cockering with a chicken
on top.

Speaker 2 (01:02:36):
You chick to the like, you know what the chicken going?

Speaker 1 (01:02:43):
It's crazy. Is that that interesting? I mean.

Speaker 6 (01:02:51):
Like it's like it's like a vibrating ring that goes
around and then you.

Speaker 2 (01:02:55):
Put the chicken.

Speaker 1 (01:02:55):
They need to give you an endorse on.

Speaker 2 (01:02:58):
I want the fist koc.

Speaker 1 (01:03:01):
And the weakest here. Okay, okay, what's the next one.

Speaker 5 (01:03:05):
Okay, they talk dirty, but it's Shakespeare quotes.

Speaker 1 (01:03:09):
I'm here for that person.

Speaker 4 (01:03:12):
I think I laughed too much for all that. Like,
I think it.

Speaker 1 (01:03:14):
Could be fun. I'm not mad at that.

Speaker 4 (01:03:23):
Crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:03:27):
That's the thing.

Speaker 4 (01:03:28):
I don't know too much Shakespeare. But what you just mentioned,
so if she starts saying other things, yeah, it's just
general terms.

Speaker 1 (01:03:35):
You gotta But I feel like that is like role play.
You can put the little wig on the little George
Washington Wei, or you could do the accident to come here.

Speaker 6 (01:03:44):
That's some game of throne ship going on.

Speaker 2 (01:03:50):
Yeah, I like that King of the now instead of
a sword trying to get I forgot much sword?

Speaker 1 (01:04:04):
Whatever you.

Speaker 2 (01:04:12):
Got a sword.

Speaker 1 (01:04:14):
I think I think that will go with like role player.
That was so fun because even like you said, like, oh,
I think I'll be laughing too much. But I feel
like who says you can't laugh ding.

Speaker 4 (01:04:24):
It's hard for me. I feel like it's hard to
find something funny and be erect at the same time.

Speaker 1 (01:04:30):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (01:04:31):
I just don't know. It's just like if it's too funny,
like I don't like hearing, like it would be a
Netflix show on in the background or something, and it's
like a comedy that you started laughing, Like, I gotta
turn this TV now because my mind sometimes drifts sometimes,
oh mind, because I need to either have like the
fan go, I need to listen to something.

Speaker 1 (01:04:48):
Yeah. Sex one time and then we had Bernie back
in the background. He said, my ship. We had to
pause the whole section.

Speaker 6 (01:05:02):
I gotta lock in b I laugh hard, Okay, okay,
I I can laugh hard.

Speaker 1 (01:05:07):
So you can't laugh during sex, no laughing.

Speaker 4 (01:05:10):
I can laugh.

Speaker 2 (01:05:10):
I can laugh. I feel like I can talk about anything.

Speaker 4 (01:05:14):
Slap laugh Huh. I can't slap.

Speaker 2 (01:05:17):
Sometimes it happened. Okay, that's a good moment if you
need slap laugh right before.

Speaker 4 (01:05:22):
I like, that's like right before during huh. As long
as she laughs. We laughed on me off too, because like,
what are you laughing at right now? Oh yeah, she
could be she's the one laughing laugh.

Speaker 1 (01:05:33):
I be loving, a little giggle. I love it's like
we have in a moment throws mood. Okay, they make
you sign a no cuddling contract afterwards, that's weird.

Speaker 4 (01:05:47):
It's a little weird.

Speaker 1 (01:05:48):
I'm not doing that because after you dig me down,
we finish caught on the girl, you finish spool you.
I like to be the big spool.

Speaker 4 (01:05:56):
I have been small spoon before. Okay, did you like
it's very consoling a little bit?

Speaker 1 (01:06:03):
It's their therapy.

Speaker 4 (01:06:06):
No, it's a little consoling. I think every dude likes
to be coddled though they be lying though, like laying
on your girl's lap, chilling watching Netflix feeling.

Speaker 6 (01:06:18):
Yeah, that's different though, what do you mean some people
don't find it like that's not their favorite cut up position.

Speaker 4 (01:06:24):
Yeah it is.

Speaker 2 (01:06:24):
It is like, No, I like to be like laid on,
putting the head lock.

Speaker 1 (01:06:30):
Oa. Okay, but I feel like it's it's I don't know,
I feel like something. It makes you feel like vulnerable.

Speaker 4 (01:06:37):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying, because those dudes are vulnerable.
I feel like a lot of dudes, especially like in
closed Door, they're probably more vulnerable around their girls. Once
your girl makes you feel weird about being vulnerable. That's
when the dude starts there.

Speaker 1 (01:06:50):
A man don't trust you if he with his sock song,
if they keep them socks so that nigga do not
fuck or.

Speaker 5 (01:06:57):
He just got that black Tony got to.

Speaker 1 (01:07:00):
Do with him not trusting because his feet ugly is fun.
And that's what I'm saying. He don't trust you if
he leaving the sock song because if it's black tonel
should be able to take him off so you can
see his He don't trust himself.

Speaker 3 (01:07:11):
Okay, you know what though I'm not.

Speaker 2 (01:07:18):
I don't.

Speaker 5 (01:07:19):
I have like a pre work with you have to
have nice speed.

Speaker 2 (01:07:23):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:07:23):
Yeah, well I'll say this. If a man don't take
them socks off while y'all fucking, he don't fuck with
you like that ass.

Speaker 4 (01:07:31):
For real, he's not trying to feet together.

Speaker 1 (01:07:33):
Yeah, he's not trying to be real his real intimateself
Like if he ain't showing you them toes, that's not
a situation you want to be I can't.

Speaker 2 (01:07:41):
I can't do it cuddling.

Speaker 1 (01:07:42):
So yeah, I like to cuddle, but the sock thing
is crazy.

Speaker 5 (01:07:45):
People really do that, yes, yes, like in our thirties.

Speaker 1 (01:07:50):
I don't I don't know because I'll be looking at
them toes. Maybe the toes, but I mean yeah, I
mean niggas will wear they socks to the beach.

Speaker 4 (01:08:04):
Yeah, in the water.

Speaker 1 (01:08:05):
What they socks on?

Speaker 4 (01:08:07):
I found that weird.

Speaker 6 (01:08:08):
I've seen somebody in the full fit like ripped jeans.

Speaker 2 (01:08:12):
He has some phone posits on.

Speaker 4 (01:08:14):
I think this is crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:08:17):
That's crazy.

Speaker 4 (01:08:18):
You have their feet out.

Speaker 1 (01:08:19):
Wow.

Speaker 4 (01:08:20):
I don't know, but I'm Nigerian. If we always wear
like the open toes, I'm cool with it.

Speaker 1 (01:08:29):
What did you stop wearing sandals.

Speaker 4 (01:08:32):
When I stopped?

Speaker 1 (01:08:33):
Are you still do?

Speaker 4 (01:08:34):
No? I wear like slippers now, okay, working like more.

Speaker 1 (01:08:38):
I'm talking about like the throne slippers. I used to
wear those.

Speaker 4 (01:08:40):
I wore them like a little bit in college.

Speaker 1 (01:08:42):
Okay, that was Did you used to wear time?

Speaker 2 (01:08:46):
What the what the do you?

Speaker 4 (01:08:47):
Uyited states? Yeah, some spirits to the g unit.

Speaker 2 (01:08:53):
You talking about the Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:08:56):
Not in high college?

Speaker 8 (01:08:58):
Right?

Speaker 1 (01:09:00):
A g Uni tank?

Speaker 4 (01:09:02):
Maybe want to get a bulletproof fest Oh.

Speaker 1 (01:09:03):
My god, no, option.

Speaker 6 (01:09:09):
I wanted to get shot so bad. The dude I
was beeping with a fifth grade I was like, please
come shoot me, bro.

Speaker 2 (01:09:16):
I'm gonna rap about that ship so hard. Please father
this fifth grade. Please don't do nothing to me.

Speaker 1 (01:09:26):
I'm goodkare oh h.

Speaker 3 (01:09:34):
They keep their eyes wide open the entire time, like
never blink, just staring at you.

Speaker 1 (01:09:39):
That's impossible. I don't like that. You literally can't do that.

Speaker 4 (01:09:44):
It's hard. Like I'm better at it now making eye
contact with people.

Speaker 1 (01:09:48):
Eye contact is important.

Speaker 4 (01:09:50):
But I've always been like, I'll get anxiety sometimes if
like you ever turned down the hallway and it's a
long hallway and somebody else's at the other end of
the hallway, it's always awkward for me. I get so
many it's anxiety for reasons.

Speaker 1 (01:10:04):
Every time I get the elevator, I'm like.

Speaker 2 (01:10:06):
I just text my mama and just like, how you doing.

Speaker 1 (01:10:11):
But I think eye contact is important. But eyes wide
open the entire time, like I do want you to
look at me. But I mean, I'll read this one.
They cry every time they commacts, every single time.

Speaker 2 (01:10:24):
Cry What kind of tears?

Speaker 1 (01:10:25):
Like, uh, I'm thinking of like a tear of joy joy.

Speaker 6 (01:10:29):
If it's just tears and you keep the same face,
you can do all you want.

Speaker 2 (01:10:33):
But if you sobbing like that, lip curl a little bit.

Speaker 1 (01:10:36):
I like a good cryd But there are two different
cries during this is a cry like oh my gosh,
this feels good or gasmic moment. But then it's also
that cry when y'all have a makeup sex Do you
know that makeup sex cry?

Speaker 3 (01:10:47):
When I think of a cry that's like you're happy
and blissful, I think of Maxwell playing in the background.

Speaker 1 (01:10:54):
Yeah, and you just like.

Speaker 4 (01:11:02):
I think that that happens. The guy might expect that
every time. And if you don't cry, yeah, he's gonna
be like, I didn't do something right. I wasn't doing
what I was Yeah, he's.

Speaker 2 (01:11:12):
Gonna be playing a video game. He's gonna pause.

Speaker 4 (01:11:14):
Make him go to the gas station and get that
rhino pill.

Speaker 1 (01:11:19):
Have y'all taking a gas station?

Speaker 2 (01:11:21):
No, I don't need that.

Speaker 1 (01:11:22):
He might heed you in the back of the head.
Push this ship out last crazy, Okay, okay, okay, So
now we're gonna move on. Now we know what y'all
apparently like in the bedroom or not. So now it's
time to get into the b the bo, the vibe.

(01:11:44):
I was trying to stay in the big.

Speaker 3 (01:11:46):
The bow, the bow bow.

Speaker 4 (01:11:51):
Like you know in the what's her name? The hallway.
You're gonna be dancing. Yeah, when y'all do that's sometimes
feel like it's like you, I don't know what I
would do going down the hallway.

Speaker 2 (01:12:08):
Hands, I'm not.

Speaker 1 (01:12:10):
I'm a bust the split. Really my moment to shine.
Oh yeah, I'm gonna bust a whole split.

Speaker 4 (01:12:15):
But y'all go down the hallway, y'all have to coordinate something.

Speaker 1 (01:12:19):
Both bus the slip. I'm an or. I think one
of us gonna bust the split and the other one
help the other one up and then we start hitting
the robot on it.

Speaker 4 (01:12:27):
But you gotta do that while walking.

Speaker 1 (01:12:29):
Yeah, that's easy work.

Speaker 4 (01:12:30):
Split what.

Speaker 1 (01:12:33):
They got it? I gotta do this. Yeah, you know
I got a bad Yeah, I got no one on
the ground. You know I got a bad meat. Okay.
So Bob of the Week is like songs and things
that we've been jamming, you know, whatever you have been
listening to this past week, like you just can't stop

(01:12:53):
listening to it. So I'm gonna start. So an artist Aquila,
she had the song Bloom that was like very popular
on TikTok. She dropped her album and it's so good, y'all.
I love an indie artist and you can just tell,
like they're actually really really into music. Like I said,
she had the song Bloom that was very popular on TikTok,

(01:13:13):
but she has a song called You Got Comfortable, and
I think all women can relate to this song. But
like I said, her whole project is called Falling into
Place Solid. I love when I can listen to a
project from like start to finish and it has like
no skips. Cause I think, like I said, we are
actually getting We put a lot of pressure on these
artists now, you know what I'm saying. So back in

(01:13:34):
the day, artists used to have like singles, but then
they would have filler songs. You can't do that no more.
No every song has to be a hit. So if
you're releasing a project now and every song is like
this is fire, I'm like, okay, I'll fuck with you. You
really take it serious? You don't. You don't get the
space to have filler songs on albums anymore, you know
what I'm saying. So I like this album. Yeah, Like,

(01:13:56):
I think the music has changed a lot because now
people are trying to make TikTok music. But I feel
like we're slowly getting out of that and people are
starting to realize, let me make some music. If it
hits on TikTok, cool, But if it doesn't, at least
I have a good body of work. And this is
a good body.

Speaker 2 (01:14:10):
Of the guitars are back out.

Speaker 4 (01:14:11):
Yay.

Speaker 6 (01:14:12):
I'm seeing a lot of guitars and pianos on ticket.
That's what I want to see.

Speaker 1 (01:14:16):
You know who they make fun of have y'all know,
y'all know that white artist Benson Boone. He be flipping
on stage. Yea, yeah, they are so hard on him.
But I'm like, I like it. Let the white boys
be white. We are. We need them to get back
to flipping and dancing and two stepping and stop trying

(01:14:36):
to rap.

Speaker 4 (01:14:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:14:37):
Well MGK just came up with something.

Speaker 1 (01:14:39):
We were talking about that on our other episode. Yes,
get back to being a white boy.

Speaker 2 (01:14:44):
I like it.

Speaker 1 (01:14:44):
Some grease yay, select that hairbag and get to work,
start dancing. I'm telling you, I'm all for it. So yeah,
shout out to Quila falling into Place. Her whole project
is dope. What y'all been listening to?

Speaker 4 (01:14:59):
Ooh. One of my favorite artist is Saint John, but
I like a lot of his music. Okay, yeah, the
afro beat, like I think with music, I like being
the music where like the women are enjoying the music
because I feel like I like rap music. I think
there's a time and place for rapper, Like if you out,

(01:15:21):
you don't want to be hearing drill music, you know,
and sometimes not the space for that. So I like
the Afro beat, the more island sounding.

Speaker 1 (01:15:29):
Yeah, because his music too is kind of a little He's.

Speaker 4 (01:15:32):
Kind of like an it's like a little island because
he's from I think he's Guyanese too.

Speaker 6 (01:15:36):
Yeah, so yeah, I don't want Yeah, I want to
go to no No more clubs, whereas there's too many
dudes behind the dj B like what the block?

Speaker 2 (01:15:46):
Yeah, what we're doing the music?

Speaker 6 (01:15:51):
Yeah, right, y'all wrap into each other. Y'all going bar
for borrow on another man's song. So uh like, I
think that's your stop. I like the music.

Speaker 2 (01:16:02):
I like the Afro Beast music, like, I like all
that type of stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:16:05):
It's on your playlist right now.

Speaker 2 (01:16:07):
It's don't got to be new, shall I look at
can I look? You know, I don't know what don't
have to be new?

Speaker 1 (01:16:13):
It can be just something.

Speaker 4 (01:16:14):
That there's a song Toronto by snow Agra.

Speaker 6 (01:16:17):
I like every like I love Snow like.

Speaker 1 (01:16:21):
Her she is Nope, she has that soothing voice.

Speaker 4 (01:16:23):
Very It's like you can clean the house with it,
you can ride a nighttime ride with it. If you
hear it out at brunch like a little brunch party too.
It's a vibe. It's always about the vibe, curating the vibes.

Speaker 1 (01:16:35):
Vie women are the tastemakers. I always say that. So
it's a good time.

Speaker 2 (01:16:40):
Kiss you righting now by Duckworth.

Speaker 4 (01:16:41):
That's like the last song list.

Speaker 1 (01:16:43):
Okay, that's R and B.

Speaker 2 (01:16:44):
Yeah, kind of R and B vibe. I love R
and B.

Speaker 4 (01:16:47):
I feel like rap. Most of my rap songs are
like in the car when I'm going places, or when
I'm working out, or like boxing or something.

Speaker 1 (01:16:55):
You know what. It's crazy because a lot of rap
music I like to listen to, like the older stuff,
like the two thousand, stuff like I ain't gonna I'm
gonna put on a little Nelly, you know what I'm saying.
I'm gonna put on the stuff that we really used
to be getting down the Yin Yang Twins. They don't
make the little Lil Wayne. You know what I'm saying applies.
That's what Bootie That's what I'm putting on most of

(01:17:18):
the time.

Speaker 4 (01:17:19):
Sometimes I do listen to like a lot of like
shoot them, shoot them up game music, but sometimes be
in that move.

Speaker 13 (01:17:25):
I'm not gonna lie not shoot them because I had
gone Era, but I was just like, damn, this ship hard.

Speaker 4 (01:17:36):
It's like I wanted to spend the block. I could,
but I won't. But if I wanted to, we like freedom.
It's just like if I was going to this would
be the song. I agree.

Speaker 1 (01:17:50):
Yeah, I have my little my little drill music Era. Yeah,
it's hard, it's good.

Speaker 2 (01:17:57):
Yeah, everything in a choke hole for.

Speaker 1 (01:18:02):
He's soft him up for us.

Speaker 2 (01:18:03):
Oh my.

Speaker 1 (01:18:06):
He said song.

Speaker 2 (01:18:13):
Imagine that's the first Little Dirk song you hear like
my mother died more.

Speaker 4 (01:18:19):
I can stand up for oh so excepting like what
the fuck.

Speaker 1 (01:18:25):
The oh my god, it is so buddy. Okay.

Speaker 3 (01:18:28):
So my vibe going with the theme of afrobeats is
Aria Star and wiz Kid gimme Dad are Star's voice.
I love Aria Sorry, Yeah, oh my god, she's I
love her down and she's beautiful, Like I said, I
love when I she is.

Speaker 1 (01:18:44):
And they're just so creative and they're just who they
are and y'all know wiz Kid is that guy. He
don't mean, he do not miss.

Speaker 4 (01:18:52):
It's interesting seeing him transition into the Western.

Speaker 1 (01:18:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:18:57):
When I was in boarding school Nigeria, that was when
he was getting popular. So I was like, I saw
whist Kid with the jerk during the Jerk era, So
it's interesting to see the transition to I think, like
you guys, there's a lot of the language that they speak.
I don't really understand it either, because everybody Nigeria speaks
very different languages. But it's the thing with afrobeats, I

(01:19:19):
really like, it's like that emotion of the way it
makes you feel. You don't understand a word they say,
what you feel the vibe. H.

Speaker 1 (01:19:32):
We don't know what the hell and we didn't even
know what we was doing for.

Speaker 2 (01:19:35):
Yeah, do y'all go to afrobeats party?

Speaker 4 (01:19:37):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:19:38):
I had afrobeats party in a very very long Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:19:41):
I just went to.

Speaker 2 (01:19:42):
I just went to one in Brooklyn.

Speaker 4 (01:19:44):
It was a DJ named Flight Geran.

Speaker 2 (01:19:46):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:19:47):
I mean they had like that's a cute name. They
had women like dancing on poles. They had like, you know,
the whistle piano.

Speaker 4 (01:19:55):
Piano and everybody's dancing that's.

Speaker 1 (01:19:57):
Body I have never one person that played straight afrobeats
and everybody wasn't having a good time. That vibe just
be different. I love, It's just it sets the vibe
because it's not just too much, but you can still
turn up and then it's like the perfect balance. Like
I think it's so crazy when people don't like afrobeats.
There's a lot of Nigerian clubs in Houston to it's
a lot of Nigerian clubs out here too.

Speaker 2 (01:20:17):
But yeah, the American clubs is they getting out?

Speaker 6 (01:20:20):
I don't even rock with them right now because it's
two dudes making eighty thousand dollars a year going bottle
for bottle, Like y'all should save up your money a
little bit.

Speaker 3 (01:20:29):
Yeah, not Look, the economy is getting tough, so come
and the gaggy is they got them clump.

Speaker 1 (01:20:34):
Oh, let me ask y'all a question before we move on,
because I got ate up on Twitter the other day
because they were talking about buying women drinks buying men drinks,
and I said back in because I'm thirty five. So
when I was in the club days, like when I
was partying turning up, like the men would buy the
bottles and we would just show up. Oh yeah, And
I'm like, nowadays the men are stingy, like they buy

(01:20:55):
a bottle, they don't want to share with the women.
Because when I was in the club, it was like,
you make sure that women have a good time, because
if the women are having a good time, everybody's having
a good time. So I made a tweet and I
was like, it's crazy. I said, the club nowadays is
like the men don't want to share their bottles with
the women. And everybody was like, you broke batch. You
can't go to the club and have a good time.

(01:21:16):
I can't drink my own shit. I gotta share with
the bitches. They were so mad at me, they was
eating me up for days. Red pill community, Oh my gosh,
so let me do so you don't do y'all go
to the club still yet.

Speaker 2 (01:21:27):
The hearing there, I gotta be somebody's birthday or something.

Speaker 1 (01:21:30):
Right, But when y'all are like buying the bottles, y'all
want women. And even if you're in a relationship, I
think you still want women around, not that you're necessarily
trying to for sure talk to them, but you don't
want to be in a section full of niggas.

Speaker 4 (01:21:41):
I turned into a bottle of bartender. They have a
because I don't drink. I drink, but like, like I've
been sipping on this drink. I'm kind of like a
one drink type of person. So I'm pouring. I knew
I'm pouring like shots to the people on the outside
of the booth. Yeah, I don't mind if it's like
girls in the booth, right, it just has to be
like I'd rather the people the other guys know, those girls,

(01:22:03):
the randoms that no one knows. Sometimes I'm like, especially
like the girls, Like there'll be like one girl and
she came here with no one, all right, I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:22:13):
I get stuff like that. But like I said, I
think times have changed a little bit because we used
to like guys used to go to the club with
just their guys. We go to club with just our
girls and we oh ship they pretty come let them
in the station. We sent a drink and turn up.

Speaker 2 (01:22:25):
Yes, it used to be.

Speaker 1 (01:22:26):
It really used to be. We actually used to meet
people outside. Now let me ask y'all this, how's a
woman ever sent y'all a drink in the club. Yes, yeah,
that's so that's normal.

Speaker 6 (01:22:36):
Yes, I feel like that's normal. I never drink it though, Okay,
I go by, I buy them and drink.

Speaker 1 (01:22:41):
Okay, I got you. I'm not gonna I've never bought
a man a drink in the club.

Speaker 2 (01:22:45):
I don't want to feel dizzy after this.

Speaker 4 (01:22:47):
I bought. I bought drinks for for girls that I
wasn't even trying to talk. There was one time these
girls I heard them like trying to get like the
cheapest drink on the thing, and I was like, I
was like, I'll just get y'all a drink. They're like,
they're like debating and I was trying to order.

Speaker 1 (01:23:03):
I was like, oh, you're like, man, hurry up, get
out the wat Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:23:06):
They took it as like they wanted a conversation after
and I was like, no, I was good, Like, I
don't I'm not trying to get it actually, just like
eighty actually don't want to.

Speaker 1 (01:23:15):
I'm not gonna lie. I'm like, if you buy me
a drink, I'm definitely thank you. I'm going on my way.

Speaker 6 (01:23:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:23:20):
I think that's I think that's how it should be.
That's how it used to be back in the day.

Speaker 6 (01:23:23):
But now everybody thinks, like some dudes think if they
buy something for somebody or give something to somebody.

Speaker 2 (01:23:29):
They owe them.

Speaker 6 (01:23:30):
So I feel like some women don't put themselves out there,
like I'm not even gonna go to their session because
like I owe them something.

Speaker 1 (01:23:37):
I owe you a good time and these jokes and
I'm going to fuck came.

Speaker 6 (01:23:39):
I don't even feel like we don't even need to conversate.
I think it's better sometimes you get people shots so
we don't talk.

Speaker 1 (01:23:45):
I just feel like I like the social construct of
like the club used to be, Like we used to
meet people vibe And I'm not saying we gotta get married.
We don't got to date, we don't got to talk.
Let's turn off, have a good time.

Speaker 2 (01:23:56):
Yeah, we can just go home.

Speaker 1 (01:23:57):
Yeah, and they don't got to be more and don't
got to be less.

Speaker 6 (01:24:00):
Just that what it is like we're socialized in age
where everybody thinks something means something.

Speaker 2 (01:24:05):
Oh did you see such and such he bought me
a drink tonight, And it's.

Speaker 4 (01:24:09):
Like, or you can't even be like pictured with the
opposite sex. Yeah, especially when you probably get that you
guys probably getting a lot too. If you guys have
a guy on the podcast and stuff like that, it's like, oh, like.

Speaker 1 (01:24:26):
They have been flirting a whole look at his everything,
at each other. Yeah, look, don't stay too long. That's
why I keep looking at That's why I keep it going.

Speaker 2 (01:24:41):
We just we shared about five lives. We both keep
laughing like because you know what, you know, it's at
the same yo.

Speaker 4 (01:24:51):
They love each other.

Speaker 3 (01:24:53):
Okay, so now it's time for us to get into
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For me, make sure you get your lip glosses, lipliners,
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Speaker 1 (01:25:12):
What do you have paror usual? Y'all know, unit is
by rich Look Hair on Instagram rich Lookhair dot Com.
And y'all gonna make sure y'all follow me on snapchat
lex P zero five. We're getting turned up over there
and I'll be having a ball period.

Speaker 4 (01:25:26):
Okay, do you have a skincare brand? Then?

Speaker 1 (01:25:29):
Do I have a skincare brand?

Speaker 4 (01:25:30):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:25:30):
But you know what, I'm super into skincare, Like, I'm
obsessed with my skin, so like on my Snapchat always
like to show the girls like what I'm using and
just put them on the new things cause I'm like
super like I really wear a makeup probably like once
a week. I'm so into looking great without makeup on,
Like that's what I really care about. So I'll always
be putting them on game on my snap.

Speaker 4 (01:25:51):
You know I've been getting to my skincare games. Yes,
let's start using. Oh yeah, I love the wash I
started used to washing the little I got, uh what's
it called? Like the little red light mask?

Speaker 1 (01:26:05):
Oh my god.

Speaker 5 (01:26:06):
So you have the doctor Dennis gross Wane Amazon.

Speaker 1 (01:26:09):
Oh my god.

Speaker 5 (01:26:10):
So the thing about that mask, I have it too,
and I'm weird all the time.

Speaker 1 (01:26:14):
That's a good mask to have. So you have to
look though, because red light masks, it's like they have
to have a certain voltage and a certain number of
lights to make sure that it's.

Speaker 4 (01:26:23):
Working actually doing something.

Speaker 1 (01:26:24):
Yes, because I love a good red light therapy session.
It does wonders for your skins.

Speaker 3 (01:26:30):
I really like my mask too, because it goes between
the red light and the blue light therapy. The blue
light therapy is really good for like acne pro and
like getting rid of inflammation and pimples. And then of course,
the red light is really good for anti aging.

Speaker 4 (01:26:48):
I was like looking at my eyes like.

Speaker 1 (01:26:53):
You, and I also look at skincare is kind of
like my me time, Like I love just like getting
in my vanity and just doing my little self care
and just kind of like, you know, it's just I
think it's important, like just to take care of yourself
because when you feel good and like you feel like, Okay,
I did my skincare. I have a very intensive skincare routine.
Like I'm very.

Speaker 2 (01:27:13):
Serious self care.

Speaker 6 (01:27:14):
Make you take care of other things too, Yeah you
started taking care of yourself. Next thing, you know, you
didn't clean the house by accident, Like.

Speaker 1 (01:27:20):
You know what, I'm not gonna lie like I'm a
very clean person, and I feel like I can never
like do my skincare. My bathroom is messy, my house
is messy, you know what I'm saying. So I just
feel like it just is all one. Like I love
walking into my house and being like, oh my gosh.
Like every time people walk in my house, they be
like it's so nice to me here.

Speaker 4 (01:27:41):
I'll be like, yeah, are using sunscreen too?

Speaker 1 (01:27:43):
Oh that's what I was putting on my legs, Like you.

Speaker 4 (01:27:45):
Don't really know they have to use sunscreen.

Speaker 1 (01:27:47):
I have to, So I've started using this this certain
type of lotion on my skin and it has vitamin
C in it and retino, so I'm making sure, like
that's what I was spraying on my legs early. That
was like my sunscreen. Gotta make sure you protect your
seat because don't or what you do with your skincare.
If you're not putting on sunscreen, it don't matter.

Speaker 2 (01:28:03):
Some of these boys just got to start with.

Speaker 1 (01:28:08):
Let's start then, let's start with the basics.

Speaker 2 (01:28:12):
Start with some Just get some sera V and.

Speaker 4 (01:28:14):
Rubb rubbing right there.

Speaker 1 (01:28:17):
Why don't y'all ball.

Speaker 2 (01:28:20):
Some people don't watch it.

Speaker 1 (01:28:21):
They don't wash their balls, and they don't like to
wash their as that ship get well, washing your ass
should be. It was saying that. They was like, I'm
not digging in my booty like that.

Speaker 6 (01:28:30):
But them they got ball theodoring now talked of.

Speaker 1 (01:28:34):
My booty the yodering on the other they body the thing.
It is the same thing.

Speaker 4 (01:28:42):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:28:42):
They got a label stuff as men and male. So
y'all don't feel some type of ways ball theodoran is
the same thing as booty theodorant. It's the same ingredients.

Speaker 3 (01:28:51):
Yeah, so we're gonna get into our favorite topic of
the week. We just pour your heart out. Make sure
you send all of your questions to Ask for Minds
at email dot com. Send us show questions, send a
show testimonials. We're gonna do one question this week because
we're getting into We're gonna do the.

Speaker 1 (01:29:09):
Yeah, go ahead, go ahead.

Speaker 3 (01:29:11):
Okay, Hey you guys. I need some advice about a
situation that happened this prior weekend. This guy started talking
to got a hotel for him and I and we
got to the sexual portion. I went down on him
and you could smell musty balls and ass see we
was just talking about that.

Speaker 1 (01:29:28):
I know I wasn't wrong for.

Speaker 5 (01:29:30):
Immediately calling him out, putting my clothes on and leaving.
But was I wrong for blocking him? Absolutely not.

Speaker 1 (01:29:37):
That's my opinion. You ain't wrong for blocking him.

Speaker 4 (01:29:40):
The reason that she blocked him.

Speaker 1 (01:29:41):
Do she need to?

Speaker 2 (01:29:43):
I don't think. I don't think she needs to.

Speaker 6 (01:29:47):
I think that even like even if he called in
that situation, like let's say, for some reason, the restaurant
was hot and he just like caught like some bad
wind and now he's thinking like as of.

Speaker 1 (01:29:58):
That when that ain't win.

Speaker 2 (01:30:01):
Would like I'm just saying worst case scenario. Worst case scenario.

Speaker 6 (01:30:05):
He already stinks, right, nothing he could do about it,
all right, there's no way you should let a woman
touch you and you know you stink.

Speaker 2 (01:30:12):
It should be like something like.

Speaker 1 (01:30:13):
You smell yourself.

Speaker 2 (01:30:14):
You know what I'm saying. I just had I just
had big surgery. I can't do it surgery.

Speaker 4 (01:30:20):
Go to the bathroom real quick, huh, or just go to.

Speaker 2 (01:30:23):
I feel like that's crazy. He's a little white, Huh, it's.

Speaker 4 (01:30:26):
Over like you stink, you know, you feel your thighs
a little sticky.

Speaker 1 (01:30:31):
But I'm gonna lie if I go take your ass home.
I'm gonna also feel some type of way if I
go down to give your head and I smell dow
soap and I got down soap. Correct, that means you
just went in there and wash.

Speaker 4 (01:30:44):
Your Just say that he cares about his cleaniness.

Speaker 1 (01:30:48):
Yeah, but I'm gonna still feel some type of way
about not feel it smells like ass. It's both both
of the situation.

Speaker 2 (01:30:55):
But I should have went home.

Speaker 4 (01:30:56):
Should also wouldn't use the hand, so I would right
off the trace a little bit bit. You gotta get
like the wet wipes I'm taking because.

Speaker 1 (01:31:08):
You got you know, they got that for me in
dude wipes, so y'all will feel comfortable.

Speaker 4 (01:31:13):
They called I'm a wife I'm a white guy now too, well,
I always been a wife guy.

Speaker 3 (01:31:18):
It could just be like, babe, let's take a shower together.
I think we should shower.

Speaker 2 (01:31:24):
Let's do something. Let's not get into it right away,
have me that, all right? Turnround?

Speaker 1 (01:31:35):
Okay. So with our next segment, we're gone do what
the crash jummies do. We're gonna let y'all, you know,
introduce this segment because we're gonna do things. Y'all. Way,
this go around, all right?

Speaker 4 (01:31:46):
So we do a Yeah, we do a segment what
we call our listeners. So the questions this week are
what's the worst date you've ever been on? And what
did your ex do? And you still stayed? And what
did you do?

Speaker 6 (01:32:02):
And yeah, we we saved this like we're supposed to
use this question earlier, like two weeks ago, but we're
saving it for them.

Speaker 1 (01:32:10):
So this is about the world.

Speaker 2 (01:32:12):
Yes, you'll deserve it.

Speaker 4 (01:32:14):
Okay, hello yo yo, I can't hear that.

Speaker 1 (01:32:21):
And that was your ship.

Speaker 4 (01:32:24):
We're actually on poor Minds podcast right now, so this
is all right. We got a question for you, what's
the worst date you've ever been on?

Speaker 2 (01:32:35):
Listen to listen to the first one.

Speaker 1 (01:32:39):
I got calfish pretty bad. But the one I mentioned
was that she had an ex boyfriend's name tattooed on
the net.

Speaker 2 (01:32:47):
And I didn't see it until.

Speaker 1 (01:32:51):
Oh yeah, I just didn't see it until I was
like two hours into the day.

Speaker 2 (01:32:59):
Her friends tattooed on her neck.

Speaker 1 (01:33:02):
Trust no man tattooed on her wrist.

Speaker 11 (01:33:05):
It's just it was.

Speaker 4 (01:33:06):
It was it was uncomfortable. What was a boyfriend's name?

Speaker 1 (01:33:11):
It was, I don't know, it was a it was
a my name is joseph Son't.

Speaker 2 (01:33:16):
Close to that, nobody, nobody wasn't mine a little street?
What's wrong with a long tattoos?

Speaker 7 (01:33:25):
And then I asked her about it, Yeah, and she
was saying that he was locked up, so yeah, it
was about a little weird for me.

Speaker 2 (01:33:35):
That was the worst state.

Speaker 4 (01:33:38):
And then uh after what happened and while.

Speaker 2 (01:33:40):
He was locked up and it was some violent stuff, so.

Speaker 4 (01:33:46):
And then she can go out again?

Speaker 2 (01:33:47):
And I said, no, how old are you?

Speaker 1 (01:33:50):
I'm putting five?

Speaker 2 (01:33:52):
Do you go on day till uh I have I've
been calmed down.

Speaker 4 (01:33:57):
Yeah, ones like that. We just everyone can be funny.

Speaker 2 (01:34:05):
Yeah, you're just a little bit too nerdy.

Speaker 14 (01:34:07):
I just feel like that's a little straight. I mean,
I mean, a tattoo is not that bad. She can't
make up a lot.

Speaker 2 (01:34:18):
She didn't a little country.

Speaker 1 (01:34:20):
But that's all right.

Speaker 2 (01:34:21):
Make your rais and get that ring.

Speaker 1 (01:34:22):
You know what I'm saying, change your minds color up today.

Speaker 2 (01:34:30):
This is a lot like it's always like.

Speaker 1 (01:34:32):
To be hanging up in face like that.

Speaker 4 (01:34:33):
Yeah, we do sometimes to get a good one. It's
your question, Pat, Yo, what's happen? Which one? Which one?

Speaker 2 (01:34:45):
You answer? One or two?

Speaker 4 (01:34:46):
My bad one. We're on poor Mind's podcast right now.
How's it going? Pretty good? Pretty good? Pretty good?

Speaker 6 (01:34:52):
We keep getting all the nerdy dude, we love a
little hard. I got a question for you. What did
your ex do and you still stay?

Speaker 2 (01:35:02):
What did my old So.

Speaker 7 (01:35:04):
I was in an open relationship and she wanted to
date a former white supremacist.

Speaker 4 (01:35:13):
And I said no, but I still stayed in the relationship.

Speaker 2 (01:35:19):
Where you white or black?

Speaker 1 (01:35:21):
He's black. You can tell you.

Speaker 2 (01:35:25):
He got that twine, he said, a white supremacist sound
like sound a little.

Speaker 4 (01:35:29):
Is she black?

Speaker 1 (01:35:30):
Yes, that was gonna kill you. Well, mixed, she's mixed.
It's her mom is her mom? White? Is her mom? White?

Speaker 4 (01:35:42):
Mom?

Speaker 7 (01:35:42):
Was black?

Speaker 1 (01:35:43):
Oh? Because usually the ones with the white mom I
don't know around. But yeah, why did you stay? And
what was the reason she wanted to date him in
the first place?

Speaker 7 (01:35:54):
Okay, So it's kind of a long story.

Speaker 1 (01:35:56):
So making sure.

Speaker 7 (01:36:00):
She just gotten hit by a car?

Speaker 1 (01:36:02):
Me too, And I'm sorry to her credit, this.

Speaker 7 (01:36:07):
Is years ago. Yeah, I made like two or three
tragic mistakes since then.

Speaker 2 (01:36:12):
This is like an old as relationship.

Speaker 7 (01:36:14):
But I hit by a car, broke my left shoulder.
She was looking at the hospital every day I get
out the hospital, first day out the hospital after surgery,
and she wants to bring up that she wants to
date a former white supremacist.

Speaker 2 (01:36:29):
And because she like okay, so she used to go
to this college.

Speaker 7 (01:36:34):
Which I won't name, that had like this big like
sexual like you know, scandal. There's like some dude that
was grooming a bunch of young men and that really
affected her and for some reason that made her want
to like do weird shit like day a former white supremacist.

(01:36:55):
I guess she was so inspired by this dude's story
that he went from being a white supremacist to figure
out how to not be one and turn and he
like found his name, found his Instagram, showed it to
me and said could I date him?

Speaker 2 (01:37:09):
And I was like, dang, no, this has been we
were this is happening.

Speaker 7 (01:37:14):
And she locked herself in the bathroom and cried for
an hour while I'm just sitting there with.

Speaker 4 (01:37:19):
A brocass arm.

Speaker 2 (01:37:20):
Wow.

Speaker 4 (01:37:20):
So after she cried, then you actually let her. No,
so she did it? Then I did not do it.

Speaker 2 (01:37:27):
No, this is a long story. Oh, this is a
this is a this is a long story. So he
could have just said his meat was little.

Speaker 1 (01:37:35):
And just let me ask you a question. Did you
used to spend money on her?

Speaker 7 (01:37:40):
Wait, said one more time?

Speaker 1 (01:37:41):
Did you used to spend money on her?

Speaker 4 (01:37:44):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:37:45):
I was broke to do that. What she want?

Speaker 2 (01:37:47):
What she wants you for?

Speaker 12 (01:37:48):
Bro?

Speaker 1 (01:37:48):
Yeah, I don't know. It's the story, ain't added You
ain't sounding the truth?

Speaker 2 (01:37:54):
Something right?

Speaker 1 (01:37:55):
You leaving some parts out? He hung up.

Speaker 3 (01:37:59):
Well, so I have to say this. I feel like
he was lying. It was something else that he was
leaving parts out here. Tell us what was really going.

Speaker 2 (01:38:08):
It might have been his cousin or no more.

Speaker 4 (01:38:09):
We have to call all girls now, dude, we're right,
that's your question to pat?

Speaker 13 (01:38:19):
Hello?

Speaker 4 (01:38:20):
Hello, yo, all right, we're on Poor Minds podcast right now.
How are you doing? Yes, we got a question for you,
she said.

Speaker 2 (01:38:35):
Back, girl, one or two question?

Speaker 4 (01:38:40):
What is the question? Is your question? Which one?

Speaker 2 (01:38:42):
Which one you answer? One or two?

Speaker 4 (01:38:45):
Did you answer one or two?

Speaker 1 (01:38:47):
The first one?

Speaker 4 (01:38:48):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (01:38:49):
What did your ex do? And you still stay here?

Speaker 1 (01:38:54):
Okay?

Speaker 6 (01:38:55):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (01:38:55):
So is the military. And we were say, and there's
a lot of gay bars up there, and.

Speaker 2 (01:39:07):
The majority of.

Speaker 8 (01:39:08):
Our friends were like gay marines, and we went to
the bar with them, and my boyfriend basically asked me
if we could pretend like not to be together so
he was single for the night, oh and so that
he could be hit on by all the the gay men.

Speaker 9 (01:39:32):
And that was pretty early on in our relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:39:35):
We dated for about two years. Oh okay, you know what,
let me not judge. You go ahead.

Speaker 4 (01:39:41):
Uh, that's crazy, there was.

Speaker 1 (01:39:45):
I was just telling my boyfriend about it right now.
There's other signs that he was like kind of d l.

Speaker 6 (01:39:55):
H.

Speaker 9 (01:39:56):
Just I don't know a lot of it was someone
I didn't realize until like after.

Speaker 2 (01:40:01):
We broke up.

Speaker 9 (01:40:03):
Yeah, that was a huge sign.

Speaker 4 (01:40:05):
Why did you stay?

Speaker 1 (01:40:08):
Why did I say ship? I was I was like
m and he was.

Speaker 8 (01:40:15):
You know, at the time, I thought that he was
like the best looking guy that I could be with.
There wasn't a lot of options when I was out there.

Speaker 1 (01:40:26):
And also like he had an apartment, so I know
that's right, right dude, right dude? Yeah, period, But you
had to do what you had to, so you ain't
gotta do it. No, lore, I still let me ask
you this, would you It sounds like you may have
been bisexual? Would you date a bisexual man again because
you already did.

Speaker 9 (01:40:51):
I don't think I would, Like knowingly, I don't think
I would.

Speaker 1 (01:40:54):
I think that.

Speaker 9 (01:40:56):
I mean, I just have my own personal beliefs about that.

Speaker 1 (01:41:01):
She said, I got my own money now, be you
can afford the apartment.

Speaker 2 (01:41:05):
Now I'm glad you know your worth. Now it's fire.

Speaker 4 (01:41:11):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:41:13):
That was fun. Tell everybody where they can find.

Speaker 2 (01:41:17):
You, guys.

Speaker 4 (01:41:18):
Follow us on Crash Dummies podcasts on all platforms, my
personal pages, Mike dot E s I O b U.

Speaker 6 (01:41:27):
Yeah, saw me p Johnson Junior Underscore it's a lot
of P Johnson's.

Speaker 2 (01:41:31):
Out here, so I got yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Junior.
I gotta you know, I can't even be like my daddy.

Speaker 1 (01:41:41):
Well, I just want to say congratulations y'all with all
your success likewise, you know what I'm saying. Anytime y'all
want to link with somebody who y'all want to get
on their podcast?

Speaker 4 (01:41:49):
You know, we know a lot of people, Okay, we'll.

Speaker 1 (01:41:51):
Definitely you know. I feel like the main thing in
this world is make sure we network and connect people
where we connect people?

Speaker 2 (01:41:57):
Yeah, this was fun. Want so far?

Speaker 1 (01:42:01):
Can we come on crashammies? We don't come on the walk,
and then we can we can really Yeah, we're telling
no walking, whatever y'all want, and we go into a
game too.

Speaker 6 (01:42:10):
Yeah, bottles everywhere to first time here?

Speaker 2 (01:42:18):
All right, about a couple of rolls back from first you.

Speaker 1 (01:42:22):
Can tell makesure y'all follow Crash Dummies and follow them
on everything and we'll see y'all next week.

Speaker 4 (01:42:27):
Got baby, come here, sit down, less talk.

Speaker 1 (01:42:29):
I gotta love to say, so.

Speaker 12 (01:42:30):
I guess I stopped by saying, but you know, the
thing ain't been no walking apart from us take an
you don't understand what yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:42:40):
And I don't want to see you cray and I
don't want to be the one to tell you a.

Speaker 1 (01:42:43):
Last song when you you just don't know what's hung
when you walking talk about it, So we.

Speaker 12 (01:42:56):
Do the best.

Speaker 5 (01:42:57):
I can't get you know this thing because never right time.

Speaker 4 (01:43:02):
Say good bye.

Speaker 2 (01:43:05):
First?

Speaker 1 (01:43:06):
Don't you go to start hating me.

Speaker 4 (01:43:08):
I really don't feel away. I want stans about you girls.

Speaker 1 (01:43:11):
It's not you, it's me.

Speaker 2 (01:43:13):
Got gotta figure out where me.

Speaker 15 (01:43:16):
Oh, it's never right gonna say goodbye, but we know
there you gotta go.

Speaker 4 (01:43:23):
I separate way.

Speaker 1 (01:43:26):
And I know it's hard, but I gotta do it,
and it's killing me. It is never right time, right
time to sing?

Speaker 12 (01:43:35):
Your heart is breaking And a thousand time I found
myself asking why why why am I taking so long
to say this? But trust me, girl, I never meant
to crush your world. Never talk about see today we go?

Speaker 2 (01:43:50):
No, how do you let it go with you?

Speaker 4 (01:43:53):
You just don't know what that's all you're talking about?

Speaker 2 (01:43:58):
Talk about me?

Speaker 1 (01:44:04):
Get along high you guys, you'll see it right time
singing bye the first move because if I don't you
go to start hating me because I really don't.

Speaker 12 (01:44:16):
Feel the way I wants fans about you. Girl, It's
not you, it's me. I gotta gotta figure out what
on me. Oh, it's never time time singabae, but we
know then we gotta go a separate way.

Speaker 1 (01:44:33):
And I know it's hard, but I gotta do it,
and it's killing me.

Speaker 4 (01:44:36):
It's never right right time to sing.

Speaker 2 (01:44:41):
Listen to your heart. You know we should be a party.

Speaker 1 (01:44:45):
Yeah, I just can't do it.

Speaker 12 (01:44:47):
I just can't do it.

Speaker 2 (01:44:49):
Listen to your heart. You know we should be your pod,
And I just can't do it.

Speaker 4 (01:44:55):
And sometimes it makes me want.

Speaker 15 (01:44:57):
To do you hear me crying, say oh, yeah, first

(01:45:20):
start hating me because I really don't feel the way
everyone spells about you.

Speaker 2 (01:45:25):
Girl is not you, it's me.

Speaker 12 (01:45:26):
I got I gotta figure out what I need about
you say the most feel way, But I do it,
but it's killing me.

Speaker 1 (01:45:43):
I never right right. I have to say, by poor
dummy's in this motherfucker stop sucking playing.

Speaker 2 (01:45:53):
With us, And then she slow numbers, Yeah, my

Speaker 1 (01:45:56):
One, it is there, It is there, It is there.

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