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August 8, 2025 • 101 mins

This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are joined by The Chi’s very own Cortez Smith, better known as Nuck, for a wild ride of storytelling, truth-telling, and bone-hitting honesty (literally). From his real-life experiences growing up in Chicago to landing his breakout role, Cortez opens up about how he dodged the streets, dealt with rejection from Spike Lee, and why one “yes” changed his life forever.

They also get into the rise of hobosexuals—fine men with nowhere to live—unpacking whether looks really get you far when you’re broke. The trio shares Poor Decisions of the Week, debates tattoo regrets (and removals), and dives deep into dating with no motion, the curse of pretty privilege, and why vibes matter more than abs.

Plus: the girls sip on the “Pour & Peace Paloma,” this week’s Taylor Port-sponsored Drink of the Week, and Cortez keeps it real about paying his tab when he had no home, no job—but plenty stroke!

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Lucky for her. You know, you're an attractive guy. Like
I said, you was cooking and cleaning. A lot of
these hor about sexuals be ugly.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
In me, and they be entitled because if they're walking
around with with just say, if they blessed with the hangtime,
so they feel like, hey, that's enough. Ain't nobody really
hidden in that bar? I called it the bone. Ain't
nobody hitting that bone? And they're like, I'm hitting that bone.

Speaker 3 (00:19):
The bone.

Speaker 4 (00:19):
That's what I call love. But I look crazy, But
I look crazy, But I know y'all ain't got all crazy.

Speaker 3 (00:28):
But I don't know, but I call it the bone.
Got that bone hit the I know.

Speaker 4 (00:35):
I know you did go.

Speaker 3 (00:40):
Walking around like a skeleton was.

Speaker 4 (00:42):
In that boney he was living in it.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
But I've grown. I have grown.

Speaker 1 (00:48):
Okay, what's up? Y'all's your girl?

Speaker 3 (01:12):
Lex p?

Speaker 5 (01:13):
And is your girls draining?

Speaker 3 (01:14):
The call?

Speaker 1 (01:15):
And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mind.

Speaker 5 (01:18):
Where a drunk mind speaks sober.

Speaker 3 (01:21):
We gotta guess Suday, we gotta guess Surday.

Speaker 1 (01:27):
Now, y'all have been asking, and y'all know the girls
love to deliver.

Speaker 3 (01:32):
The star of one of.

Speaker 6 (01:34):
Y'all's favorite shows The shy we have at thor and
Short in their contest what.

Speaker 4 (01:45):
They love and hate me at the same time.

Speaker 3 (01:47):
They do they love you. The girls love you. The
girl definitely love.

Speaker 4 (01:51):
Because they love a rough neck. They love tattoo on
the face. He can choke me at anytime. Yeah, down,
I think every girl.

Speaker 5 (01:58):
I think every girl from like the hood.

Speaker 3 (02:00):
No, I need to like for sure nothing.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
I mean you too, You're right, I have my but
I'm saved now, Okay.

Speaker 3 (02:11):
How similar are you to your character?

Speaker 5 (02:13):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (02:14):
Percentage is probably like probably like fifty.

Speaker 3 (02:21):
That's hot. That is hot, that's very hot.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
Now fifty what it's fifty because of the kid, okay, and.

Speaker 4 (02:29):
Then the other fifty I haven't. I haven't, you know, un.

Speaker 2 (02:32):
Alive, nobody else that's a good.

Speaker 5 (02:35):
You wasn't deabling in the street like that.

Speaker 2 (02:37):
I mean I was, I was in it, but I
was just really a victim to a lot of stuff
that was going on. Like I was fortunate enough to
learn from my friends mistakes, but I didn't been shot at,
you know. I mean, I didn't been in drug race
for just walking past talking to my homies because I
grew up with them and there they're come like indict

(02:57):
the block, and my mama had to come, say me,
because they'll be like cold that my mama n ain't
re read ready. She would come and be like get him,
like literally raid dogs out, sixteen's at us.

Speaker 4 (03:11):
And they always knew I was the good kid.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
I was fortunate enough to be uh loved by both sides.
So it was a block called Madison, and they divided
by four corner hustles and mafias. So I was blessed
to be on both sides and be loved by It.

Speaker 7 (03:28):
Sounds dangerous, That's what I was gonna say. Because you're
from Chicago.

Speaker 4 (03:31):
Oh yeah, the heart of it.

Speaker 7 (03:32):
So do you feel like Chicago really just gets like
a really bad rip or is he really is dangerous
as people make it seen? We only of them be
in Chicago, Like.

Speaker 4 (03:41):
I okay, I.

Speaker 3 (03:46):
Like infatuation with Chicago.

Speaker 7 (03:48):
Like she used to watch the Yang documentaries.

Speaker 4 (03:51):
She liked the King Buns and.

Speaker 3 (03:53):
Well, no, I don't I don't date. I don't date
that more. No, I never know. I'm never did.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
I've always liked, you know, more square type what people
call yeah, because I'm safe, you know, I don't know
nothing about that life that's why.

Speaker 3 (04:10):
But that's why it was so intriguing to me.

Speaker 1 (04:12):
Like I when I tell you, I had like a
six month stint where I was just like watching all
the documentaries about everything they had to do anything with Chicago.
It was so interesting and it's so deep. Yes, it's
so deep, and it's so crazy. So I'd be happy
to see like people like, you know, go the opposite
away and get out of that and take the route
that you've taken.

Speaker 4 (04:33):
You know.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
Gangs in Chicago was started to it was really made
to save the community because the government was not funding
or helping the community, so they did it theyself.

Speaker 4 (04:45):
It's even mixed in with like similar to the Black Panthers.

Speaker 2 (04:47):
So they did their own pretty much their own government,
and they neighborhoods and then it just turned foul because
of government infiltrating the province, struck in communities and made
it hard for them to thrive in that community. So
they picked up drugs and you know, they put the
drugs and the alcohols and literally like librecks. The projects

(05:08):
was really literally a project to see how you know,
if you put all of these different obstacles in front
of them, how far would they make it.

Speaker 3 (05:16):
Oh, we know the truth about Reagan? We know?

Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, they put the drugs out there, and
then they locked you up for the drugs they put
out there.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (05:25):
So did you think, though, like your life was gonna
end up like this, like being an actor and being
able to shoot a show that's about your city.

Speaker 4 (05:34):
I knew I was gonna be something in life. I
didn't know what it was going to be.

Speaker 2 (05:38):
From a kid, I always had this light to me,
like always was told even when I walk in the room,
like people know that I'm there. Always was in front
of the camera smiling or reenacting the favorite movie that I.

Speaker 4 (05:50):
Love when I was a kid.

Speaker 2 (05:51):
So I didn't know my grandma's seen it and my
mother my mother's seen it. They was just like they
put me into it to try to, you know, to
see what would with the stick to the wall and
just keep me out of trouble because it was so easy,
Like trouble was around the corner. It's just it's so
easy to get into it and it's hard to get
out of us. And then it was a lot of
people around that was unfortunate and was you know, taken

(06:14):
out or locked up for half of their life, and
I'm just like, man, I want to do something different.
Something that couldn't play basketball for lick, couldn't play football.

Speaker 4 (06:25):
I can make the No.

Speaker 2 (06:27):
It was just like I was on some I'm gonna
prove you wrong and then I'm gonna make the team
and then I'm gonna get off it. I was more
of a money get in like okay with the females. No,
I wasn't making no instant money.

Speaker 4 (06:40):
Even in high school.

Speaker 2 (06:41):
I was selling candy. I was just doing something to
make some bread. I was a flat guy. That's what
I was on.

Speaker 3 (06:46):
That makes sense.

Speaker 1 (06:48):
Well, let me ask you these too. Did you Did
you ever say acting classes?

Speaker 4 (06:52):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (06:52):
Okay, so when you started doing like, were you like
in theater in high school?

Speaker 3 (06:57):
Was that you or was it more later in life
you started doing stuff like that.

Speaker 4 (07:00):
No, So my school was so dope. Man.

Speaker 2 (07:03):
When I I took off for a couple of days when
I was at this competition called pro Scout back in
twenty ten. So my grandmother put me into it just
to you know, see, because she heard from a family
member and the coworker about the competition. She was like, well,
you know I can I can put him in. I
think he is thriving at so I went in it.
I ended up getting the last call because I didn't

(07:23):
really know too much about acting or modeling professionally. And
we went back to my school and we let them
know that I got an agent, and they was like,
all right, well let's put them in theater.

Speaker 4 (07:32):
So they put me in theater.

Speaker 2 (07:33):
And I was like learning a lot of poetry and
doing a lot of reciting of like Langston Hughes just
to get the feel of being in the oh yeah seriously, yeah,
but I had so big a.

Speaker 4 (07:48):
Shakespeare.

Speaker 3 (07:50):
Im was blank, well, y'all get it.

Speaker 4 (07:54):
It was sorry, y'all. He look, sorry, y'all. You know
you're gonna get them people they find us find the reason.
But I just had to get that stage fright together.

Speaker 3 (08:07):
Man.

Speaker 4 (08:07):
It was I would do literally, I would do good
at home.

Speaker 2 (08:09):
And then I get on the stage and I'd be like, man,
start you know, shaking up on my words and stuff.
So I didn't start taking it ultimately serious until I
got in college. And then that's why I started taking
like acting classes there and being around people that was
like minded.

Speaker 4 (08:27):
And that's when I'm like, you know, what college is
not for me?

Speaker 2 (08:30):
Why am I getting in so much debt and I
don't even like, I'm not about to take nothing that's
going to be like it's going to change my life.

Speaker 4 (08:38):
So I'm like, let me go on, you know, on
the good foot. Let me take this risk.

Speaker 2 (08:42):
I dropped out of college twenty fourteen January.

Speaker 4 (08:47):
Man, it just hit the ground running.

Speaker 2 (08:48):
Started doing modeling first because just to get my foot
wet and get.

Speaker 4 (08:53):
My foot in the door.

Speaker 2 (08:55):
And man, modeling was easy to me because you have
to do nothing but look good in front of the
just so.

Speaker 3 (09:00):
That's right, he said. I got that.

Speaker 2 (09:03):
You had to use what you got to get what
you want, you know, so I had to I had
to maneuver, I had to finesse. But I'm like, nah, modeling,
you can only go so far. It was so many
obstacles in front of that. And then I came in
a game with tattoos. I was like fourteen tattoos.

Speaker 4 (09:20):
Yeah, I was. I was.

Speaker 2 (09:21):
I was like I was safe, but I was just
like I was dibbling, dibbing, like I was like euro
step in with like I was.

Speaker 4 (09:28):
A rough neck, but I was safe. I was rough
neck with the conscious. That's like you see what I
did you see what I did. So man, I had
to uh yeah.

Speaker 3 (09:39):
Okay, I feel that makes sense. That makes sense.

Speaker 2 (09:42):
So I made it real hard for myself being in
the industry so young with with tattoos. I remember like
going on Disney auditions and they was like, uh, how
old are you.

Speaker 3 (09:53):
A getting trying to do Disney? Right? They like, how
are you no one.

Speaker 4 (10:03):
Right?

Speaker 2 (10:03):
They like no, because back then it was like you
was a rebel baker.

Speaker 3 (10:10):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (10:12):
Yeah, I was like if you were a bad guy
in the movie, like they would literally draw tax.

Speaker 4 (10:17):
A tattoo on it.

Speaker 1 (10:21):
You remember how they used to do the nerds, Like
it was a girl, she was a nerd, so she
had glasses on and when she was like beautified.

Speaker 5 (10:28):
Like they would make her good, would take the glasses
off and.

Speaker 4 (10:31):
Let the hair fall.

Speaker 3 (10:33):
You have big tails or something.

Speaker 2 (10:35):
The big tails.

Speaker 4 (10:37):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 3 (10:38):
It's like they would take her hair down and take
the glasses.

Speaker 4 (10:40):
Off it and now she's beautifying.

Speaker 3 (10:42):
Right, Yes, that is so funny.

Speaker 7 (10:44):
So what was your big moment where you were like, Okay,
I'm really gonna take acting series.

Speaker 2 (10:49):
Man fifteen, I went for an audition with Spike Lee.
He humbled me super quick. He was like, no, that
ain't it, but come back tomorrow. We're gonna try again.
We talked about stage fright. I heard about old ladies,
like all right, so Spike Lee, he got a movie
coming out.

Speaker 4 (11:04):
I'm like, all right, I ain't think about i'm'n do
to the audition. He won't be there.

Speaker 2 (11:08):
He was there, unbothered, he had the stale his face.
He was like, I'm like, damn, messed up.

Speaker 4 (11:17):
But he was like, come back and I did it again,
and he just gave me notes.

Speaker 2 (11:20):
But he was like, you ain't ready, but but you
got talent though, So he gave me like a small role,
super small role. And then I ended up doing that
and was able to shadow him the whole summer, like
teaching me what was directing about, Like teaching me how
to make.

Speaker 4 (11:38):
Your marks, how to study your lines.

Speaker 2 (11:42):
I got the hang out with Nick Cannon, got the
hang out with La Lah Jennifer Husson.

Speaker 4 (11:47):
So it was so many greats around me that I
seen him working.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
I'm like, bro, I can do this if I put
my mind to it and I study and get rid
of this fear, I really can do this. And I
just man moved to La and December twenty fifteen.

Speaker 4 (12:01):
And just was out there just networking.

Speaker 2 (12:03):
So it was always I was like a Caamelia to
everything that I do because I'm like I can adapt.

Speaker 4 (12:08):
I just learned quick. I wasn't the one that talked fast.

Speaker 2 (12:11):
I was the one that just sit back and just
like really observe and just collect data from everybody that's
around me that's successful. I didn't seen so many people
turn from nobody to somebody. And I'm just like, man,
like I can do that too, and just kept my
head down and working. And man, twenty nineteen is when
it changed. Like went on the audition for the shy
En Man, who would think one yes would change my mind?

Speaker 4 (12:35):
That I'll be telling people.

Speaker 5 (12:37):
That, like it don't matter how many dollars you all,
you need to say one.

Speaker 2 (12:41):
Yes, Like, man, it'll turn you up so much, it'll
be so lit. But it's about my bad. Let me
tell you, let me tell the audience this. But when
you get that yes, and you know you got all
these lights on you, man, make great of it. Make
great of it, Like don't get lost in the sauce
because you hot than you not bro. So it's like

(13:01):
you got to capitalize on everything that you got when
the eyes is on you, so you can plant those seeds.
So when later in life when it gets slow, you
know what I mean, it can you know, turn around
in your favor.

Speaker 3 (13:12):
I agree.

Speaker 5 (13:12):
I agree.

Speaker 7 (13:13):
I was gonna ask you so because I know we
always hear these stories about so many actors and actresses.
They'll be like, oh, I ended up getting the role,
but originally I auditioned for these role. So when you
auditioned for the shot, did you always were you always
auditioning for nuk or did you audition for a different role?

Speaker 3 (13:29):
At first?

Speaker 2 (13:29):
Man, they didn't even have a name to it yet.
This was back like I want to say, like twenty man.
This before I think it was like if not, if
I'm not mistaken, I think it was twenty fifteen.

Speaker 4 (13:40):
It was untitled, they didn't have a name.

Speaker 2 (13:42):
And then I auditioned for a role and I get
a call back and everything they said they was interested,
and they just went blank, like they just didn't.

Speaker 4 (13:49):
Call me back.

Speaker 2 (13:50):
Oh wow, And I seen it coming in twenty sixteen.
I was real close with the uh.

Speaker 4 (13:58):
Serena and Venus well Williams sister, Like.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
I was close with them and they had an opener
and uh, I think it was come to.

Speaker 4 (14:04):
Know every day, Bro, I'm telling you, I'm talking about Camille.
I'm talking about being in the right rooms and just
being cool. Now.

Speaker 2 (14:12):
I can't wait to see them too them and be like, man,
thank you, I got a cool story on how too.

Speaker 4 (14:16):
But I've seen coming. I'm like, bro, what's up with
the you know, I've seen you. What's up with with
the With the audition we did, he was like, man,
were working on something. I'm gonna let you know.

Speaker 2 (14:25):
Two years later, come like, I see the shot coming.
I'm like, man, I was not a fan of it.
I'm like, man, I was mad.

Speaker 3 (14:33):
I was hating.

Speaker 4 (14:34):
I was very better.

Speaker 2 (14:35):
I was very better. We light skinned, so you know,
it hit a little. It hit a little different now
when you tell a light skinned person know it not.

Speaker 4 (14:43):
Let me stop, let me stop.

Speaker 2 (14:45):
But yeah, I was I was getting better that I
was hating. And my grandma loved this show.

Speaker 4 (14:48):
She was like, watch it. You need to study it.
They gonna call you for audition and you better be ready.

Speaker 2 (14:54):
I'm like, I don't even want to audition no more,
like I'm gonna be on Empire.

Speaker 4 (14:57):
Empire. They crushed my little feelings. I didn't even want
to be acting no more. It was what man for hiking?
I wasn't.

Speaker 2 (15:09):
I wasn't man, it wasn't good enough for that. Really,
it was a lot of little like uh CO star roles.

Speaker 4 (15:17):
It was just one.

Speaker 2 (15:17):
They said I was too cute for one, that said
I was too clean cut for one I didn't look
gangst enough.

Speaker 4 (15:22):
I'm like, bro, what.

Speaker 3 (15:23):
Going really lucky? When he said I was too cute,
I was too clean.

Speaker 4 (15:33):
Cook, well, I had tattoos. It just didn't like it
wasn't what they were looking for. So man, I was
I was crushed.

Speaker 2 (15:39):
I'm like, man, I'm probably get his little acting thing
up because it ain't working.

Speaker 4 (15:42):
And damn man, it's when that scene. I'm like, this
is me. Bro. I'm like, I'm not letting nobody else
get this.

Speaker 2 (15:48):
I'm walking around like I'm doing. I'm at work, I'm
at the car wash. I'm just saying my lines to
random people.

Speaker 3 (15:54):
They like what.

Speaker 2 (15:55):
I'm like, nothing character right, I'm talking about around.

Speaker 4 (16:00):
Man, I'm walking around with this little serial box.

Speaker 2 (16:03):
My mama like, man, take that cereal box, Like take
it to the audition because that might So I man
took the cereal box to the audition, They was like,
lose that. But you know, let's see, let's see what
you you know what you got killed it, man, I
didn't see nobody else. I can't even tell you how
them dudes look at the audition. I can't tell you
because I was just so just like tunnel vision focused

(16:25):
on like this is mine, I'm taking this.

Speaker 4 (16:27):
I need I can't take this note.

Speaker 1 (16:29):
When you first got in the game, though, did you
feel like your looks would help you, like had an
advantage because I'm not gonna lie. I see a lot
like I always talk about this interview that Halle Berry did,
like very early on in her career. She was like,
I felt like being beautiful was like kind of like
a punishment, because she said like every time she would
audition for a role, it was like they would be like, oh,
you're too.

Speaker 3 (16:49):
Beautiful for this, like you can't do it.

Speaker 1 (16:52):
And then it's like she said, that's when I started
showing up at auditions like looking extremely rough, and she
said that's when things got better for her. So did
you feel like you know, being fine was gonna help
you and then you realize like they don't give it?

Speaker 2 (17:04):
Damn facts, I thought, because even even in life, in
high school, college life, I always got away with just charming,
always finesse the little situation off of smell show the
little dimples, say the little right things, and I get
my weight. This industry would tell you.

Speaker 4 (17:21):
Get out of.

Speaker 2 (17:24):
You and can get out of it, you know what
I mean. So man, I have to turn it up
a notch. I have to man take my acting very
serious and know how to break down the roads and
understand what am I saying because at first when I
was doing auditions, I was just literally just saying the
words on the paper, but I didn't take the time
to read the scenario to understand what is going on

(17:48):
in it seem even the stuff that you're not saying
that it's on the bottom.

Speaker 4 (17:52):
Like I read every time I do an audition.

Speaker 2 (17:54):
I read it top to bottom, top to bottom, three times,
three different ways.

Speaker 4 (17:58):
I look at it first and third person.

Speaker 2 (18:00):
I look at it like I'm a consumer of what
I'm looking at, and then I look at it as
like I'm the person, and I think about certain things
I have seen or experienced or heard about in my
life to try to make it truth for what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (18:15):
You know what I mean? And not just going on
there and being like all right to be or not
to be.

Speaker 1 (18:19):
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Speaker 3 (18:39):
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Speaker 2 (19:02):
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Speaker 3 (19:10):
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Speaker 3 (19:16):
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Speaker 3 (19:18):
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Speaker 2 (19:22):
They chasing it with the tequila and oh mood.

Speaker 1 (19:26):
Now, this segment is called poor Decision of the Week. Okay,
so you got to talk about like a poor decision
that you made this week that you were like, why
did I do that?

Speaker 3 (19:38):
So I'll start with my poor decision this week.

Speaker 1 (19:40):
So, because we were talking about your tattoos earlier, let
me ask you this.

Speaker 3 (19:43):
Do you feel like do you regret any of your tattoos?

Speaker 4 (19:47):
Yes? And no.

Speaker 2 (19:48):
I say yes because you know, as I'm getting deeper
in this acting thing, it limited me and I have
to work ten times as harder because it's automatically take
myself out of.

Speaker 4 (20:01):
The the uh them finding me a role because I
look like you feel like, all right, I look like
against it. I didn't want to say no, but yeah,
I look like against it.

Speaker 2 (20:15):
You know, tattoos on the neck, tattoos just like.

Speaker 4 (20:18):
They're looking automatically like, Okay, he's gonna play. He's gonna
play like a rough guy.

Speaker 2 (20:22):
But I can play a father, I can play an astronaut,
a vampire, empire, a superhero.

Speaker 5 (20:31):
Yeah, multist Well.

Speaker 1 (20:33):
The reason I asked that because my poor decision of
this week, because I have a tattoo that I absolutely hate.

Speaker 3 (20:37):
It's over because you done read my car, you already
go out with Leo. I felt that now you knew
my tattoo.

Speaker 1 (20:48):
But yeah, so I've been getting it removed at this
point for like a year and a half now, and
like I have two sessions left, but you have to
like do them like on a schedule to make sure
you know you stay right. And my poor decision this
week was I missed my laser tattooing and so now
it's like I have to She said something about like

(21:08):
the healing process and if you miss like a certain window.
So now I gotta wait again and kind of have
to start over a few steps because I missed my session.
And that was my poor decision this week, because I
cannot like it's very light now. But when I tell y'all,
if y'all are watching this, if you are a young
person in your early twenties, just wait on the tattoos. Yes,
please wait on the tattoos. I think we can all agree.

Speaker 7 (21:31):
Yes, yeah, And they say getting them removed her way.

Speaker 1 (21:35):
And I've been going through this process, like I said,
at this point for a year and a half. And
mind you, it's very light now, like it looks really
really good, but it's it's a painful process. I'm so
glad it's very small, but I couldn't imagine like I
see people like before I started getting done, I would
do my research. I've seeing people get stuff removed out
their face.

Speaker 4 (21:55):
Crazy, insane, insane.

Speaker 1 (21:57):
But it's like people with like big stuff on their legs, eggs,
and I'm like, mine is so little on it's right here,
and I'm like, you know, I'll be done a few
more times.

Speaker 3 (22:05):
You know what I'm saying. And Lord knows, I ain't
seen that man and me you have, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (22:11):
All right, you are right, it's definitely a man sname.
But yeah, that was my poor decision this week. If
you get your laser removal, stay on time with your appointments, please.

Speaker 3 (22:20):
What's your poor decisions that y'all made?

Speaker 2 (22:22):
I would say my poor decision is making because I'm
in I do a little fashion to making clothes and
wearing it once and think.

Speaker 4 (22:29):
I can't wear it again. Yeah, I gotta stop doing
that though, right because who care?

Speaker 3 (22:36):
Who said?

Speaker 4 (22:36):
You our own self and our master? Is no way.

Speaker 3 (22:42):
They will say.

Speaker 2 (22:46):
You abusing that, you abusing that. I haven't seen you
in five different places.

Speaker 3 (22:50):
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (22:52):
The outfit that I wore at the BT Carpet Awards
I was like, I was gonna wear it to because
I haven't won on episode.

Speaker 3 (22:57):
I was like, damn, that's what he saw me in
the last time.

Speaker 4 (23:01):
Wouldn't remember.

Speaker 1 (23:02):
I know you probably did it, but I know we
took pictures that day, and I think I posted.

Speaker 3 (23:07):
Them, so I don't want somebody to say.

Speaker 7 (23:09):
Now, I do feel like stuff that's like super memorable,
you need to space it out though, Like I feel
like if you just wore, you need to wait until
like next year.

Speaker 3 (23:22):
No.

Speaker 7 (23:23):
No, But the dress she wore to the bes He Awards,
it's like very It was a leopard two pieces when
we did the all the two pee, I thought you
were talking about the dress. Okay, the media house media.
That would have been fine somewhere today.

Speaker 1 (23:40):
But I took pictures with him and I had the
same leopard on.

Speaker 3 (23:43):
I see what had it on again? In pictures?

Speaker 1 (23:45):
Would have got you? Yeah, they would have caught. I
feel you. You know, next week next.

Speaker 4 (23:51):
You can you can break it. You can change the top.

Speaker 3 (23:56):
Y'all can dress.

Speaker 1 (23:57):
Though you can do that tacky sometimes I like to keep.

Speaker 4 (24:00):
It today.

Speaker 7 (24:03):
That's a little bit where they're living. But I'm gonna
wear some lik right. I still don't want to.

Speaker 3 (24:15):
Hell along. What's your part is it? It's this tailor port.

Speaker 7 (24:19):
Okay, So for me, it would probably be that I
didn't work out today, Like I've been beating myself up
about it because.

Speaker 5 (24:25):
I didn't work out.

Speaker 7 (24:26):
You was in the car like yeah, because I'm yeah,
I'm like a workout girl. So I work out like
at least four or five times a week. But this
morning I was just so tired. I was like, this
is gonna be a slow morning for me. I'm gonna
just get my mentals together, get my mind together, and
just get ready to go record.

Speaker 4 (24:43):
So I didn't work well, you got your mind together.
That's a workout, that's true.

Speaker 3 (24:48):
But I'll be drinking.

Speaker 7 (24:49):
So I was like, damn, I should have worked out
because I'm drinking these extra gallories.

Speaker 4 (24:53):
So you wanted to Okay, balance, I haven't been to
the gym.

Speaker 2 (24:56):
And like like a month and some change. I believe
literally every single week I've been in a different city.
So I haven't found the time to work out, and
I got to take it out of my mind.

Speaker 4 (25:09):
I hit my goal.

Speaker 2 (25:10):
So in March I was weighing about probably like two
forty five and then.

Speaker 4 (25:14):
I lost that and then I got down to.

Speaker 2 (25:16):
Like one eighty nine or something like that, and then
I just start it was swim team. Oh yeah, every
I worked out seven days a week, all cardio, cut
out meat.

Speaker 1 (25:26):
I need to see you watched the show Big I
was on that.

Speaker 4 (25:32):
Yes, I was touching probably like two fifty on the show.

Speaker 5 (25:36):
So did you have to do that for the show?

Speaker 2 (25:38):
Uh no, no, just it worked well with it lunch
break man.

Speaker 4 (25:44):
But the morning it's crap like it's it's literally it's
cater fool. We can get anything that you ever thought about.
We can get that in the morning.

Speaker 2 (25:52):
Then lunchtime it's uh it's called a hot snack. It's
like piece of Italian beefs. Like we got deep dish pizza,
then you got Italian beefs. Then you got wings, you
got steak, you got all of that.

Speaker 4 (26:05):
That's at lunch. Then we got dinner like three hours
after that, and that's a whole nother.

Speaker 2 (26:10):
Yes, we eat a lot if you if you want, everybody,
I don't care if you're an extra, you're eating a lot.
And then you you know, in and out it takes
to be you bored and you see the food you
just or eating. Then they got the snack table, so
you got all types of like chocolate chip cookies, ice
cream and sucker ice cheesecake.

Speaker 3 (26:33):
Yeah, I was gonna come do some interviews that sound good.

Speaker 4 (26:39):
Man. Every day I was giving me a breakfast brito.

Speaker 3 (26:41):
I was getting like, I know that's right, but.

Speaker 4 (26:45):
Yeah, I have to slow it down.

Speaker 1 (26:47):
I'm like as well, I feel like you can, you know,
eat what you want, but it's always in moderation. I
like that's like I take care of my body as well.
But I'm like, hey, if I have a day or
kind of like if I have like a bad breakfast,
then for lunch and dinner, I'm gonna eat healthy or
if like I have a bad lunch, I'm gonna make
sure my breakfast is health.

Speaker 3 (27:08):
It's all about balance for me. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (27:10):
I don't and then if I do have something unhealthy,
it's a small portion, you know, a little bit.

Speaker 3 (27:15):
Like you said, you're an ice cream person, you can
have you.

Speaker 2 (27:17):
A little Oh I cannot say no, Like I'm one
of those one of those plans and cream.

Speaker 8 (27:26):
Oh that is good.

Speaker 4 (27:27):
I'm one of them.

Speaker 3 (27:28):
Like do y'all have Bluebell? Okay?

Speaker 5 (27:32):
I know some places don't really have it like that.

Speaker 2 (27:34):
We got we got a place called andyes, chef Kiss.

Speaker 4 (27:40):
They got like custard. They got like a like a.

Speaker 2 (27:44):
Like a key Line pie custard type of ice cream.
Then they got strawberry shortcake with the with the fresh
cake it'd be hot, and the ice cream with the
fresh strawberries.

Speaker 4 (27:55):
Then they got a lemon bar ice cream Jenny's believe.

Speaker 1 (28:00):
So Jenny's has like a peach cobbler ice cream. It
has like the peaches in there, but it has the
peach cobbler crush right life.

Speaker 7 (28:09):
Yes, and they have that what is it the caramel
brittle something?

Speaker 3 (28:14):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (28:16):
And I love some brown butter no.

Speaker 7 (28:23):
Just but I do feel like certain cities it's so
hard to lock in on your goals and like stay
healthy and eat clean, like and I feel like Chicago
is one of those places.

Speaker 5 (28:33):
Me being from Houston, same.

Speaker 2 (28:34):
Thing, Houston, New Orleans like right down there, essence, I'm like, bro,
I got to stop eating these. They had like a yeah,
with the with the peach it's like the crust in
the peach cobbler inside the with the dipping sauces.

Speaker 3 (28:49):
Like a sweets person.

Speaker 4 (28:50):
Food. I just love food, so let me let me.

Speaker 1 (28:52):
Tell you about New Orleans. We went to Essence last year.
Shape that producer Shane walked in my hotel room because
I have a thing about bean Do you like beans?

Speaker 4 (29:03):
Beans?

Speaker 1 (29:04):
Yeah, I'm a bean eater. I had like a stack
of like these little star pham things getting from this place.

Speaker 3 (29:13):
It was like a stack of like what's it called?

Speaker 1 (29:21):
Because honestly, I know people like I'm like, no, I
really don't.

Speaker 3 (29:24):
Be gassy like that.

Speaker 1 (29:25):
But I had like a stack this high of like
the containers of like empty red beans of rice that
I was eating.

Speaker 3 (29:32):
Yeah, oh it you have to. I was cutting up.

Speaker 1 (29:37):
I was like every time everybody go to sleep, walk
down Bourbon Street on the red beans and rice be
so good when you don't got somebody in your ear
bothering you while you eating it.

Speaker 3 (29:47):
Leave me alone. I can really enjoy it on my own.
You get, no, I like it playing.

Speaker 1 (29:52):
If anything, it'll have like the sausages in it, you know,
a little yeah, little you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (29:57):
But for me to find that because I'm with my
little tarian wave right now.

Speaker 3 (30:01):
Oh you a vegetarian means a rice yea?

Speaker 2 (30:04):
Because you know they cook a lot of it with
like pork broth and like beef broth yea, or chicken broth.

Speaker 1 (30:11):
All that meat in there, you can't do what what
what do they use? Like the soy?

Speaker 3 (30:21):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (30:22):
You gotta find the part.

Speaker 1 (30:24):
So this week's drink of the Week is sponsored by
our good friends over at Tailor Port, and y'all know
it's good because I'm over here lit having a ball.

Speaker 3 (30:33):
We call this one the Poor and Peace Paloma.

Speaker 1 (30:36):
It's the perfect sept for when you're trying to wind
down and keep it cute.

Speaker 7 (30:40):
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with Tailor Port, grapefruit juice, fresh lime, and just the
touch of a gyve. So whether you're laid up with
bay or just catching up on your self care, the
Poor and Peace Paloma is the vibe.

Speaker 3 (30:55):
Let the vibes be smooth and the poor be strong.
Topic one. Now, let me ask you a question.

Speaker 1 (31:04):
And I have to ask you this because you gotta
be you know, we know you're a handsome, attractive.

Speaker 4 (31:09):
Man, right, I mean allegedly.

Speaker 1 (31:11):
And the thing about it is a lot of times
attracting men they get away with a lot of things.
And one thing that I found like I feel like
sometimes the fonder.

Speaker 3 (31:20):
The man, the more bullshit that comes with us, you know,
And a.

Speaker 1 (31:23):
Lot of times they be homeless. Fine, men don't be
having nowhere.

Speaker 2 (31:27):
To stay what they call it, Yeah, yes, couch warriors.

Speaker 1 (31:34):
House warriors. So do you think, like, should you date
if you're homeless? And I'm talking about not I'm not
I'm not talking about like homeless like living under a bridge,
like you're talking about, oh well, you staying on your
white couch and stuff like that, Like do y'all feel
like people? And I'm just not saying just men, men
and women should people date when they're homeless?

Speaker 4 (31:55):
I would say, no, you got a bigger fish to fry.

Speaker 2 (31:57):
But I would say, if you have the advantage to
look good, you might can be able to have an
advantage of like finding a place of state, because everybody
need love and if you are providing.

Speaker 4 (32:10):
Because I was a hobo sexual too. I was sexual
in La I was.

Speaker 7 (32:17):
I mean, I seen your interviews to that you need
with live service. I used to charge people for prom
for sure.

Speaker 2 (32:24):
My mama Like my mama was like, no, I'm not
paying for no more proms.

Speaker 4 (32:28):
It was over with.

Speaker 2 (32:28):
So I had to figure it out, yeah, and I
didn't want to really go, so I just had to
make some bread.

Speaker 4 (32:33):
I've always been about the money. Yeah, but let me
tell you, it got sticky in La.

Speaker 2 (32:39):
It got very sticky man chasing them auditions. Man, I
would have a job, right, I get a nice paying job,
I get an audition, I'm going on my lunch break,
and I get fired.

Speaker 4 (32:52):
Like that happened to me three times. I had. I
had a job with.

Speaker 2 (32:54):
Target, like when they first started that. You know what
instacrat is, yeah, but this was before instacar was a thing.
Like he was personal shopping for people, okay, and it
was like the yeah, yeah, I think it was ran
by Google or something like that, and he was personal
shopping and you were like pack the bags up and
you'll put it outside and then the customers come and
pick it up. Nice paying job, like good. It was

(33:17):
at Culver City. I just got the job. I made
enough to pay my rent. I'm like, all right, well
I could pay my rent. Boom had an audition for
Harley Daves And this was a callback.

Speaker 4 (33:27):
It was for a commercial. So I'm like, I call
my mom. I'm like, man, what should I do? Like?
Should I go there? She was like, well, if it's
a callback, you, Mike can just go in there.

Speaker 2 (33:35):
They want to see you, take a couple of pictures,
you say your little lines, and you come back.

Speaker 4 (33:39):
May I go that? Man?

Speaker 2 (33:40):
It was a whole line full of callbacks, so it
was like at least about fifty people in the line.

Speaker 4 (33:46):
So I get there.

Speaker 2 (33:46):
I'm like, so do I go back or do I stay?
So something to me like, man, ef it just roll
the dice on it. Just stay because you never know,
right man. I stayed that two hours past. So I
did the audition, I mean, the callback, whatever they wanted
me to do.

Speaker 4 (34:01):
I left.

Speaker 2 (34:01):
I called my job back. I'm like breathing, how I'm
trying to make myself. I just got the cut, and
I have my son and even had kids.

Speaker 4 (34:13):
I have my son in the car.

Speaker 2 (34:15):
They're like, bro, you fire for you.

Speaker 4 (34:19):
It's over with.

Speaker 2 (34:20):
Drop your badge off, drop your badge off in your
vest is over with, Bro, it's over with your fire.

Speaker 4 (34:28):
No. I did not get the job.

Speaker 3 (34:31):
Target, man, I was over.

Speaker 4 (34:33):
It was over with. I wanted to roll the dice
on that man. So it got to getting very sticky.

Speaker 2 (34:37):
I couldn't keep calling home because they had gave me
money already to live off of.

Speaker 4 (34:41):
I've been blew that.

Speaker 2 (34:42):
Lat how it got looks so it got ugly. So, man,
I was staying with a friend and it was only
you know, it was a time limit on that. And
then after I moved there, I mean after I left there,
it was getting ugly.

Speaker 4 (34:57):
I'm not the type of dude like what jay Z's said.

Speaker 2 (35:00):
I'm a man with pride, you know what I mean.
So it's just like, I'm not about to like sleep
in my car.

Speaker 4 (35:04):
I wasn't.

Speaker 2 (35:04):
It's too hot, I feel, And man, I had to, Man,
I had to, you know, you had to get down to.

Speaker 1 (35:12):
Be you had to get down to business. So you
were dating women that you necessarily didn't.

Speaker 3 (35:16):
Like like that.

Speaker 2 (35:17):
But I wouldn't go side didn't like her like that.
I actually had love a lot of love for I
loved that.

Speaker 5 (35:23):
You needed somewhere to stay.

Speaker 1 (35:25):
Yeah, you had love for her for allowing you to stay.

Speaker 4 (35:30):
That was that was Yeah, Yeah, I was set that
tail you do. You gotta you gotta pay that tab though.

Speaker 3 (35:39):
You was one two Okay, I'm gonna say I'm gonna say, Okay,
younger days, you know, i'd have been fluid out, Yes,
but that Boom Trips wasn't free. You got to pay
that tab.

Speaker 4 (35:50):
You're right, So you.

Speaker 3 (35:50):
Was staying on somebody couch.

Speaker 4 (35:52):
You was paying that I want on the couch. I
was working my I was on the.

Speaker 3 (35:55):
Bed, the main man dropping it out, paying that tail.

Speaker 4 (36:07):
I was cooking though I was cooking, cleaning up. You know,
you gotta be stay at home.

Speaker 2 (36:14):
While you got a besides them out of nowhere. You
just got to just be spontaneous. You're gonna get put out.

Speaker 1 (36:19):
So then you immediately left, are you kind of like
eat your way out?

Speaker 4 (36:23):
So we fell out.

Speaker 2 (36:25):
We fell out, and I went back to Chicago and
was just figuring out there.

Speaker 4 (36:32):
I'm like, man, it got so ugly.

Speaker 2 (36:34):
I'm just like, man, I hit the the wall was
just like different places that I can stay, and I'm like,
I just got to go back home. Went back home
and figured it out and ended up catching the audition
when I went home.

Speaker 4 (36:47):
So it's just like that that helped a lot.

Speaker 3 (36:49):
Did she know what you were doing though? Like that?
You were kind of.

Speaker 2 (36:52):
Like, no, No, she didn't know. I was like, man,
I was trying to figure out.

Speaker 4 (36:56):
She was helping me, Like I was going on auditions.
I was.

Speaker 2 (37:00):
I had two little appearances and some reality shows. I did,
like a little looking for love type thing.

Speaker 4 (37:06):
It was like love and first kiss. I think it's
called kiss bang love loving first kiss.

Speaker 2 (37:11):
You get money at the end, and I won, How
ny you want like five thousand?

Speaker 4 (37:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (37:18):
I know.

Speaker 3 (37:19):
He went home like bitch, I'm no.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
I was still with it though, and they kind of
like old girl that I won the competition where she
messed the bag up because she told the production people
like I was finessing, and I told her, I said,
look when we did the.

Speaker 4 (37:31):
Thing that love and first kiss. Then man, she picked me.

Speaker 2 (37:35):
She picked three out of out of twenty, and then
the three take her on dates, like you go on
dates and then you spend the night at the bench.

Speaker 4 (37:42):
I'm having real life conversations with her, like just she's.

Speaker 2 (37:45):
From I think she was from like Sacramento, born in Germany.

Speaker 4 (37:50):
I like him. I think of like a marine baby
or something. And man won.

Speaker 2 (37:56):
The competition, told her like what a mom like, and
I got a girl like she gonna pick me up.
But you're cool, like you cool as hell, and we
can be friends, you know what I mean, Like you're
trying to be an actor. I'm trying to be an actor,
but I need this money, Frank, this money.

Speaker 7 (38:16):
It was out of line and I was not.

Speaker 4 (38:23):
I was already tired.

Speaker 3 (38:25):
I had man, I was out.

Speaker 4 (38:27):
I had whip lives from the night before. So I
had to really lay it down to be like, hey,
look I'm Finn go.

Speaker 3 (38:32):
For her to understand, right, Yeah, man.

Speaker 4 (38:35):
She dropped me off at that place, met the lady
and everything.

Speaker 3 (38:37):
I am.

Speaker 4 (38:38):
Yes, So I had to do money.

Speaker 2 (38:40):
Literally right before the right before she dropped me off,
we did something. So I'm like this just to reinsure you, like,
just to reinsure, like, hey, look this is for you.
I don't see nobody else, but I need this money. Yeah, right,
so we Yeah, she told them, man messed the bag up.
They called me and it was just like, yeah, how
are you and forget her name, how are you in

(39:01):
such a touch doing I'm like, we're doing good, you
know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (39:03):
Like I just took out on the date line. Were good.
You know she spent the night over all that yes weekend.
That's the wrong place. You know, we need that money.
That's crazy.

Speaker 3 (39:15):
People don't be looking for love in the wrong place.

Speaker 4 (39:17):
Yeah, I wouldn't. I wouldn't known that at all.

Speaker 2 (39:19):
I'm in need this money in a place to stay,
in a place to stay.

Speaker 4 (39:23):
It was ugly.

Speaker 2 (39:24):
It was twenty eighteen, Oh my god, seventeen eighteen, it was.

Speaker 4 (39:29):
It was crucial. She get real, dude, it gets sticky.

Speaker 7 (39:33):
So do y'all think if you are homelies and you
dating people, should you tell them like transparent and like
you know, right between blessings.

Speaker 10 (39:43):
I don't know, no, no, no, but I like you
and I think you not.

Speaker 7 (39:47):
No.

Speaker 4 (39:48):
This is what you do, you know you do. You
gotta be You gotta be prince charm.

Speaker 2 (39:53):
You gotta go in and do everything, say everything that
they want to hear. You go in that house, you
make sure ain't no but no roommates, because roommates.

Speaker 4 (40:03):
You will get put out for the room. They gonna
be like, no, girl, it's something you know. I don't
like him. He gotta go.

Speaker 2 (40:09):
You told me he was staying here one night, one night,
and in turned to one year he got to go.

Speaker 4 (40:15):
He didne stuck my couch up. Everything. Now, so look,
this is what you gotta go in.

Speaker 2 (40:18):
You gotta check and see if somebody in by myself
and the door laid down differently, differently like whatever your weirdest,
wildest fantasies, laid down, go crazy too much.

Speaker 4 (40:33):
You know where I keeped it from.

Speaker 5 (40:35):
He gonna make it work. You gotta make some sheets shake.

Speaker 4 (40:38):
Sometime I watched the movie cause Spread Spread.

Speaker 2 (40:42):
It was from like aston Cusher was like spread Spread, y'all,
go y'all do y'all research spread This nigga was oh
my bed, could I say?

Speaker 3 (40:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (40:51):
Yeah, well yeah, he.

Speaker 2 (40:53):
Was homeless in La trying to be an actor and
he was making his profit off of different rich women
and humaniography.

Speaker 4 (41:01):
Literally and this was long time ago, like this was
years ago.

Speaker 2 (41:05):
I was a shorty when I was watching this, and
I'm like, damn, this ship like spread like I can really,
So I went in the door, just like that's crazy.
So you got to in the door. You gotta probably
eat it already knew what to do. You probably gotta
lift them up, do everything that you possibly think you.

Speaker 3 (41:20):
Was cutting up too. And that was only one time
you did that. Or the street right, the squeeze.

Speaker 4 (41:28):
You gotta see that that or the squeeze, not the
streets screen.

Speaker 3 (41:31):
Let me I feel like if you were in your twenties, right.

Speaker 1 (41:34):
I feel like, Okay, you know, if people are in
their early twenties and they're struggling, and you know, you
got a girl who's trying to figure it out, staying
with her man or vice versa, y'all in college. Cool,
But I feel like me being in my mid thirties.

Speaker 3 (41:46):
No age, like I don't care how.

Speaker 1 (41:49):
Much because honestly, you're not even coming to my crib, right,
You're not ever gonna even make it to my crib
unless like.

Speaker 3 (41:56):
Unless we get to that.

Speaker 4 (41:57):
They gotta be like five to ten.

Speaker 3 (41:59):
Days in yeah, one thousand percent.

Speaker 1 (42:01):
So I feel like we have to definitely, you know,
use our discernment because there are hobo sexuals out there.

Speaker 3 (42:08):
They are, and now I will say, you know, lucky
for her.

Speaker 1 (42:12):
You know, you're an attractive guy, like I said, you
was cooking and cleaning a lot of these hobo sexuals
be ugly and.

Speaker 4 (42:16):
Me and they be entitled. Yeah, because if they're walking.

Speaker 2 (42:19):
Around with with just say, if they blessed with the hangtime,
so they feel like, hey, that's enough. Ain't nobody really
hidden in that bar? I called it the bone. Ain't
nobody hitting that bone? And there, like I'm hitting that.

Speaker 4 (42:30):
Bone the bone that.

Speaker 2 (42:34):
I look crazy, but I look crazy, but I know
y'all ain't got y'all crazy.

Speaker 3 (42:39):
But I don't know, but I call it the bone.
Got that bone hit the I know.

Speaker 4 (42:47):
I know you did go.

Speaker 3 (42:51):
Walking around like a skeleton.

Speaker 4 (42:53):
In that boney he was living in it.

Speaker 3 (42:56):
But you know I've grown. I have grown. Okay, So
no hobo sexuals.

Speaker 4 (43:02):
And no they're still out here for sure. Let's talk
about the women. You gotta know, you got to be established.
I worked too hard to get to where I'm at
right now to be taken care. I got kids.

Speaker 3 (43:15):
Pay it forward. You did it, pay it forward. I agree.

Speaker 2 (43:21):
It ain't about how you start, you know, ain't about
how you start, It's about how you finished. Oh yeah,
I'm turning the bag full, turning the back. That was desperate.
That's like fight or flight.

Speaker 4 (43:31):
I got pushed up against the walls, like you're about
to be in these streets homeless.

Speaker 2 (43:35):
You can get you know, you can put yourself in
danger or you're gonna figure it.

Speaker 3 (43:39):
Out when you me the girl like that, that's like, y'all.

Speaker 4 (43:42):
I'm in the door.

Speaker 2 (43:43):
I need to know because I didn't have man, I
had some I got kids.

Speaker 4 (43:47):
So I didn't how many kids you got too. I
was like, I didn't. I don't want to.

Speaker 2 (43:53):
I didn't made my choices right, So I got to
do my research in the door. I need to see
what you got going on. You gotta have motion. If
you don't got motion, but.

Speaker 1 (44:04):
Want somebody that's like equally yoked or she just has
to have something going on.

Speaker 2 (44:07):
Yeah, like it can be it can be equally yoke,
but it can also just show me that you got
some type of ambition that you're trying to make it
to the next level. Like this ain't defining who you are.
You just using this as a stepping stone to.

Speaker 3 (44:22):
Move up to the next level.

Speaker 2 (44:23):
Okay, And if you bring a substance to me, like
I'm a man that's busy, like literally, man, every other week,
I'm in different cities.

Speaker 4 (44:30):
I'm trying to figure it out.

Speaker 2 (44:32):
If you can call me and be like, all right,
if you're doing that club of parents, give me half them,
put it up. I'm about to do something with you,
know what I mean. That's the type of woman I'm like,
all right, yeah, Or I got this clothing line out,
all right, let me take all the orders, let me
do all of that right, Yeah, let me take something
off your hands so you can, you know, make your
life easier.

Speaker 4 (44:52):
We can do that, but you don't have nothing going on,
and you're cute, and I come scoop.

Speaker 2 (44:57):
Now I can't do that, And I just like get
so mad at these athletes that be just scooping these
homosexual women.

Speaker 7 (45:05):
Yeah, but I think it's sorry. When I was just
gonna say, I was talking, I literally just did perspectives
with Big Bank the other day and we were just
talking about that how everybody is cute these days, Like
it's not it's not as much of a commodity as
it used to be at one point in time to
run across people that are like overly attractive, because these

(45:26):
days everybody's going to get surgery. Me and included like
me gonna get the skips like that, the little ass
ugly that I mean, they don't want to go work out.
They just want that instant gratification of looking good.

Speaker 3 (45:46):
Harve it out.

Speaker 7 (45:48):
They do life bol suction, but I think they use
a different tool and they just kind of carve the abs.

Speaker 3 (45:55):
Never seen any.

Speaker 1 (45:56):
That like look believe now, I will say I've seen
some women do it, but the women that work out already,
but they do want abs.

Speaker 3 (46:04):
Now those girls.

Speaker 1 (46:05):
Would be looking really tell some girls but they're like
gym but they work out.

Speaker 7 (46:10):
So the legs match. Yeah, the legs are phone, they're muscular.

Speaker 3 (46:13):
It makes sense.

Speaker 1 (46:14):
There's no way like if you built like me at
the bottom and then like.

Speaker 7 (46:18):
You got abs, you don't because where's the rest of
the muscle definition throughout the rest of the.

Speaker 2 (46:22):
Bike exactly, And then you got the side, and the
side don't mesh with it.

Speaker 4 (46:27):
If you got that, that mean side is supposed to
be ripped up to everything.

Speaker 3 (46:31):
Should be ripped up. Oh yeah.

Speaker 7 (46:32):
So it's like it's just not that hard to come
across people that are attracted these days because it's so
much available to everybody.

Speaker 4 (46:40):
Social media made it so on in social.

Speaker 7 (46:42):
Media too, so people just have to have more going
on than just what you look like. Nobody care about
you being cute no more, because you can walk around
every corner and see somebody this right.

Speaker 2 (46:51):
Right, you can catch them everywhere, the airport, grocery store, everywhere.

Speaker 1 (46:56):
But I feel like, honestly, because like I always grew
up like I always grew up like a pretty girl,
but like I grew up to where it was like
I cared more about my personality. Like I loved being
the funny friend. But I feel like as an adult,
I realized the importance of that, Like having a good personality.
Don't get me wrong, being beautiful is like great. Everybody
wants to be attracted. Yeah, but it's like.

Speaker 4 (47:18):
If you got an ugly attitude, you don't go far.

Speaker 1 (47:21):
Being a good agree or just like having you know,
a fun good energy to be. I'm not even saying
you gotta be funny, just having good energy is so
much more important. There's been guys that out dated that
people are like, oh, he's not attracted. I'm like, man,
I have a blast with this. Yeah, he is a
good time. He makes me feel good. He's nice. It's
some guys that like we didn't work out romantically, but
I'm still friends with them to this day because their

(47:44):
energy is.

Speaker 3 (47:44):
Just so great.

Speaker 4 (47:45):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (47:45):
I got I got a lot of like I wouldn't
say exes, but like people that I have dated that
we cool.

Speaker 4 (47:52):
No, It's something that I ain't even pay the time too.
We're cool, Like I'm a cool dude though, Like I
love laughing.

Speaker 3 (47:57):
You have a lot of girl friends.

Speaker 2 (47:59):
Yes, I do have a lot of girl as as friends.
You got to say, not girlfriends. They are missing.

Speaker 7 (48:05):
Girl.

Speaker 4 (48:05):
Homegirl right, home girl right right. Emphasized the home.

Speaker 5 (48:10):
Yeah, I definitely think that's important.

Speaker 4 (48:13):
Though.

Speaker 7 (48:13):
You should definitely care more about what's going on inside,
like your brain, your heart, all of those things matter.

Speaker 2 (48:19):
With your family, ordered to because if you treat your
mama like trash, like I can't have you around my
mama because a little rough my mama.

Speaker 4 (48:27):
Yeah, my mama used to be in the streets.

Speaker 3 (48:29):
I know that's good.

Speaker 2 (48:30):
Legend agreed, that's how you like they agreed. Now she changed,
Like man, she how she is with her grandkids. I'm like,
why was that energy yet? Like why you was not
understanding with me? I did anything wrong? She hitting me
with a six piece.

Speaker 7 (48:48):
And people always say that about grandparents, like they be like,
where was this person when I was a child, Like
it's something about having green kids.

Speaker 5 (48:56):
They just bring a whole different person.

Speaker 4 (48:57):
They understanding. My daughter, she got it, she got it.
She's a tourist. She got a smart mouth, like she
don't even know it.

Speaker 2 (49:04):
She just she just questions a lot of things, and
she questioned my my, my mama authority, and my mama
would be like she'd be understanding. I couldn't even say
live when I was growing up, we couldn't stay live
far that lie.

Speaker 1 (49:19):
I could not say, you got to telling the story.

Speaker 2 (49:23):
Story, you're telling the story. And then this is how
the parents manipulate you. They'll be lying and say, so
you calling.

Speaker 3 (49:29):
Me a lie? Yeah? Yeah, you can't say yeah, but
I should have said that, Yeah, bitch, you're lie.

Speaker 2 (49:34):
But you wouldn't have been here right now. We wouldn't
have had you right. You wouldn't have had you right now.
So you know, I'm glad that you took that.

Speaker 3 (49:41):
But how does your mom feel though?

Speaker 1 (49:43):
When you you said you got your first tattoo at fourteen?
How did she feel when you came out with tattoos?

Speaker 3 (49:47):
You was bad man?

Speaker 4 (49:51):
She I got cussed out. I definitely got cussed out,
got got punched on a couple of times.

Speaker 2 (49:56):
But that was in that little man. I was in
that the stage of rebellion. I didn't care like I
was coming in I got a tattoo, get beat up.

Speaker 4 (50:06):
I was just like got a program in my mind like.

Speaker 2 (50:08):
All right, I'm gonna just catch a little pack up
and get about like a little six piece boo, get
a little punishment.

Speaker 4 (50:13):
I'd be all right, you.

Speaker 3 (50:14):
Know, hell yeah.

Speaker 2 (50:18):
But I regretted now because I got a lot of
dumb tattoos. I just got just to get it so
I can go to school.

Speaker 4 (50:23):
And be like, yeah, look, oh yeah, tattoo man, a
lot of them.

Speaker 3 (50:29):
But what's like the one that you're like.

Speaker 2 (50:30):
I was at the I was bored at the tattoo
spot because it was one of my homies. And I
put a smiley face on my arm just randomly.

Speaker 4 (50:40):
I'm just like, all right, what could I draw? I'm like,
I'm not gonna do my name, just make an evil,
smelly face in my arm.

Speaker 3 (50:46):
Okay, but that's not like bad.

Speaker 7 (50:49):
And I feel like you can't really see because you
got so many now they're kind of like yeah.

Speaker 4 (50:53):
But I look at it every day like man was doing. Yeah,
I almost got a face tattoo though, but at least
you did it.

Speaker 2 (51:01):
No, my tattoo man at the time, he said no,
He's like, well, no, like you tripping down, like what
you're going through? What I was gonna get my uncle
name that passed away right here on my real big
like Mario across the what's.

Speaker 4 (51:15):
The name, and.

Speaker 3 (51:18):
He like, no, shout out to him.

Speaker 2 (51:20):
Shout out to a j the tattoo man, shout out
to you. You really looked out for me and for
seeing a lot in introduced me to like Greek mythology
and and understanding like man understanding, like the all different,
like the man, the what the alls and I with
all of that means like on the spiritual chakras together,

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like he was on that before it was popular and cool.

Speaker 1 (51:45):
I think that tattoos. I hate when anybody has face tattoos,
but I really hate when the girls have tattoos.

Speaker 4 (51:51):
It looks real.

Speaker 7 (51:52):
It's just a little masculine on with men. I feel
like it's when it's right here in the.

Speaker 4 (51:57):
Middle, and I have seen a lot that's not done right. Well.

Speaker 1 (51:59):
I don't like how Rihanna's is like now I had.

Speaker 3 (52:03):
Right here in the middle.

Speaker 7 (52:06):
Yeah, Rihanna is like below, but it's like when it's
like a start in the middle.

Speaker 3 (52:11):
Yeah, yeah, I'd be like on the collar bone.

Speaker 2 (52:15):
Yeah, that's that, Courts, That's what I got a tattoo
on top of my little color bone.

Speaker 4 (52:20):
I have to stop. I can't take tattoos no more.

Speaker 3 (52:24):
They definitely it's different.

Speaker 2 (52:25):
Now, I'm like, what was that going through when I
was a shorty because I was like, literally, just I
might be I want to get my son and my
daughter face, but bro, I don't know what it is.
I guess I didn't get older and I can't take
that pain. Like it's crazy.

Speaker 3 (52:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (52:40):
Last tattoo I got was in October. I got like
two roses right here on my collar bone. And he's
supposed to finish the whole thing.

Speaker 4 (52:47):
And I told him like, bro, I'm cool. He's like, no, no,
sit back down. I'm cool.

Speaker 3 (52:53):
You know what I feel you.

Speaker 7 (52:55):
The last attoo I got, I got a sleep I
got this sleeve like two years ago, and I hadn't
got a tattoo in like ten years. When I got
these and the pain, I was like, oh my god,
I don't remember it hurting these big. I used to
get tattoos all the time when I was younger. I
was like, ain't no waiting. I used to get it
twenty one.

Speaker 2 (53:13):
It was that like that was that rush that I'm like,
oh yeah too, I can't wait to flex.

Speaker 9 (53:18):
I used to like we used to have a group. Yes,
so look our group. Our group was called tatted and slutty.
We were just slutty. Literally, my first name on I.

Speaker 2 (53:28):
G when it first came out twenty thirteen was tatted
and slutty, and then on my bio has said in
slutty we trust So what.

Speaker 3 (53:35):
Was y'all doing? It made y'all sludy.

Speaker 2 (53:37):
Just turned off in my and my nickname in the
hood was freaking nasty, So I already know what he was.
It wasn't no, I wasn't even I wasn't even doing
nothing too crazy freak.

Speaker 1 (53:47):
I just always always homeless.

Speaker 2 (53:54):
Homeless, floody, nasty, freaking nasty himself.

Speaker 3 (53:59):
Trust by if you said you wasn't outside.

Speaker 2 (54:02):
Like that, Now we had our so we kept our
shirts off, okay, and I'm glad that so we was
about to do. Everybody was gonna get that little rock
and roll little tongue right here. Yes, everybody was gonna
get that. I'm so glad I didn't get that. All
of that was like our initiation.

Speaker 4 (54:17):
We was like weever getting tired and slutty. They gotta
get tied on the neck. We gotta go crazy shorty.

Speaker 3 (54:22):
That inside we used to.

Speaker 7 (54:25):
Spring both got there were on a gun right.

Speaker 1 (54:28):
Oh, yes, I went to all White school growing up.
So the guys, they all I appreciate they still have.
Remember they used to get the tribal tattoos around like
of course the girls didn't do it, but like all
the guys like I went to school with, they all
got the little tribal.

Speaker 4 (54:44):
I'm like, I know that is so man, I'm so glad.

Speaker 2 (54:47):
We was gonna we was gonna do that tongue thing
right right there with the tattoo with the rock and
roll tongue with the mouth and we're gonna do little
kisses right here, just slutty, just slut were just gonna
be tighted in the sluck.

Speaker 4 (54:58):
It's crazy, sludy mil Yes, got study, just sluody.

Speaker 3 (55:06):
Got flooded, got sluoded.

Speaker 4 (55:09):
Is crazy. Yes, we used to be on that, like
for real. I was popul on Facebook. Man. You know
I used to cap at five thousands. I used to
have I was at five remember that.

Speaker 3 (55:23):
He used to.

Speaker 2 (55:26):
Well, you know, if you were in high school and
you got five thousand followers, you yah what they?

Speaker 4 (55:31):
Oh he got five You don't know. You probably don't.

Speaker 2 (55:33):
You don't even know, probably like five hundred out of
them five thousand? Is that that I was adding anybody, bro, thirsty.

Speaker 1 (55:40):
You know what's crazy though, because when I get on
my personal Facebook and I have all these friends I
be because I use my personal face but to keep
in contact with like my high school friends, my.

Speaker 3 (55:50):
Family, and I just be halfing the delete.

Speaker 1 (55:52):
People like because I'm like, why did I just adding anybody?

Speaker 4 (55:57):
You're probably adding predators and everything. Don't even know.

Speaker 1 (56:00):
Man, when I say some of the most random ship,
I'd be like, let me delete this person.

Speaker 3 (56:05):
Let me just delete it and get them one out
of here. Right, what's the next topic.

Speaker 4 (56:10):
I'm still stuck on that.

Speaker 3 (56:11):
Man.

Speaker 2 (56:11):
I'm thinking about just going back to that's slutty, bro.
We were slutty for real on the block. My mum used,
pull up, like, bro, put your damn shirt on, Like,
oh time, I was out many pictures like.

Speaker 4 (56:22):
Shirt oh yeah, oh yeah yeah.

Speaker 3 (56:24):
This it was a it was this with your eyes
and you used to go like this show that dimple.

Speaker 4 (56:35):
Ass moment. That's a that's what you. We call it
a head ass moment right there? For the ship, Oh
my god, what a time.

Speaker 7 (56:44):
I used to be having a ball too when I
was a teenager. It's a time to be alive, So okay,
for topic number two, because you said you had kids.
You have two kids, so I wanted to talk about, like,
if you were on a plane, would you give up
your window seat if you pay for your window seat
for somebody who has their kids with them.

Speaker 4 (57:03):
Yeah. I really don't like window seats. I'm a little clausophobic.

Speaker 2 (57:06):
It's just like it weirds me out to be just
having somebody right here and then that wall right there
and just be tight. I actually had a window seat
coming here and they just it bugged me up. Really,
I like, I like the lane.

Speaker 4 (57:19):
Oh yeah, some.

Speaker 1 (57:21):
Tall so I can move people be bumping into you
a little bit, and then the cart when.

Speaker 4 (57:27):
The ooh I got my knee coat one time. Oh
it was thriving for like, and I had a four
hour flight from Chicago to LA and she clipped it.

Speaker 2 (57:35):
In the beginning of I'm I asleep, woke your ass, sop,
I was like that all the whole things, just like
it's really thinking about life a second, guessing like why
am I tall?

Speaker 3 (57:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (57:46):
Only way I will trade a seat with somebody is
if they're giving me another window seat, and if it's
some rolls ahead of me anything else, because I like
a window seat so somebody's like, oh, hey, can we
trade seats with you? So like it's sitting at and
you're trying to move me to our seat or windows
or middle seat.

Speaker 3 (58:04):
Middle sat is insane, man, middle seat is insane.

Speaker 4 (58:07):
I get in. I get offended every time that I
you know, if I if I don't buy my seat
and I just let it just random, they pick it
for me and I get it in the middle, I
get offended. I feel like they called me on my name. Yeah,
it's like, why don't as man's.

Speaker 3 (58:21):
Sitting in the middle, you're too I don't want to
sit in the middle seat.

Speaker 4 (58:25):
Neither.

Speaker 3 (58:26):
No, But I feel like, as a man, where are
you in the middle?

Speaker 4 (58:29):
Bro? And then just you get with who big dudes, And.

Speaker 10 (58:32):
Then now y'all like this, Yeah, as a man, if
you in the middle and if you follow leave, you're
gonna follow.

Speaker 3 (58:39):
Your head nodding. You are grown ass city.

Speaker 4 (58:41):
Then you wake up, dude, like go ahead, you you cool,
go ahead.

Speaker 3 (58:47):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (58:48):
I just feel like I'm not gonna lie. When I'm
in the window seat and a grown man sit in the.

Speaker 3 (58:51):
Middle seat, I'll be like, you ain't had any fifty dollars?

Speaker 4 (58:59):
I rolled myself every time.

Speaker 10 (59:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (59:02):
Yeah, So let me tell y'all, do not do this.
This is the game.

Speaker 2 (59:04):
Let me get y'all game. So I got this thing
where you can do well. I got clear and pre checked.
Now then I know I got all the money. But
before then I was doing I was doing the wheelchair systance.
You know, the wheelchair assistance. It's a that's a finesse. Damn,
I'm giving it up.

Speaker 3 (59:21):
So how was you doing that? So you could just
walk up and be like I need you.

Speaker 2 (59:25):
You call and be like, yeah, I need wheelchair assistance
and all that, and then you pull up and they
got your name right there.

Speaker 4 (59:31):
That's how you phiniate. Man.

Speaker 2 (59:32):
I shouldn't be telling this because now it's gonna be
burnt out. It's gonna be burnt out, especially in Atlanta.
It's gonna be burnt out for sure. So they get
you way past everything. It's really better than pre check.
They put you right past. You get through that.

Speaker 4 (59:47):
They put your bags on the thing for you.

Speaker 3 (59:48):
And you could just be like that's correct. I act
like I just got my BA.

Speaker 4 (59:54):
And get you right past it.

Speaker 2 (59:55):
Right. But if you want an ecstasy, they will not
give you the ecstasy because they said you are disable
and if something wish to happen, you're not liable.

Speaker 4 (01:00:04):
I just got into it with somebody. I went to
New York and I got my little cause I was
flying with United and United didn't have clear.

Speaker 2 (01:00:15):
At the little terminal for what reason, I don't know,
so I enagled it. I'm like, yeah, well now they
hurt my ankle, so now I.

Speaker 3 (01:00:21):
Need pushing on the wheelchair.

Speaker 2 (01:00:22):
So they pushed me all the way there. So the dude,
I'm in New York, dude know what the game is.
We laughing were talking about it. He was like, man,
I watch you on the show.

Speaker 4 (01:00:29):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (01:00:30):
So I'm Fanessa. I'm like, yeah, I'm really Fanessa. I
had to get past that. I'm running late and I
don't want to miss my flight. So we get to
the guy.

Speaker 4 (01:00:35):
I say, don't take me to the death, but he like, man,
I can get you past all this. I'm like, you're right.
I don't want to be so I'm like all right.
So the lady in the.

Speaker 2 (01:00:46):
Door was like, well, you just gave your ex roll
up because you're not you're not liable to see here.

Speaker 4 (01:00:51):
I'm like, what you mean? I stand up, Like what
you mean, I ain't liable? What are you talking about?

Speaker 2 (01:00:55):
So now that just burnt the whole spot up, so
people laugh and everything. I'm saying, now I'm gonna get
my seat.

Speaker 4 (01:01:00):
So she switched my seat. I'm like, all are you right?
It's cool because she gave me a better seat. She
gave me like roll two or something like that.

Speaker 3 (01:01:07):
So I was cool though.

Speaker 2 (01:01:08):
So I get on the I get on the on
the plane and then they see my name, so they're like,
I'm like, well, they told me to sit right here.

Speaker 4 (01:01:16):
They're like no, because the database and updated.

Speaker 2 (01:01:18):
They were like, no, get the exit roll like you
told you know what I mean, like get that, Like
I would rather get that than this. So I'm like,
all right, I said this, but some told me do
not click my seatbelt on because they take their job
too serious.

Speaker 4 (01:01:31):
Lady come back.

Speaker 2 (01:01:32):
She was like a Sikh police. She was like, did
not tell you that you couldn't sit right there? And say,
hold on, you can't tell me that. You ain't telling
me a damn thing.

Speaker 4 (01:01:41):
What are you talking about?

Speaker 2 (01:01:42):
So now I have to turn my gaate stuff right,
So then I have to I forgot who I was now,
so I'm like, let me.

Speaker 4 (01:01:47):
Chill because everybody like there it was.

Speaker 2 (01:01:52):
It was so look if you want to see it,
recline the no, but it's so much depending on what
w flight you on.

Speaker 4 (01:02:03):
A little bit they do, but you need that space though.

Speaker 2 (01:02:07):
If you can't get first class, do the extra road
for extra Yeah, but don't do the wheelchair assistance because
it's going to smoke the whole little.

Speaker 7 (01:02:17):
And y'all shouldn't be doing wheelchair assistance no way, right,
don't do that. My mam would be doing wheelchair seasons.
That's how I know about it, and.

Speaker 8 (01:02:24):
I have done it, and there was.

Speaker 4 (01:02:27):
And it felt like it was red carpet treatment. Right,
you ain't walking.

Speaker 3 (01:02:31):
It was quick and easy.

Speaker 7 (01:02:32):
But then I will say, if you invest in pre check,
clear and digital ID, all of that stuff, you're gonna
be good. As long as you get to the airport
at least twenty thirty minutes before your flight start boarding.

Speaker 4 (01:02:44):
You'll be And I had that. I didn't have had
a five minutes before take off and I got right
on literally just clear. Shout out to clear bro No
who decided.

Speaker 3 (01:02:54):
Clear in Atlanta is bullshit.

Speaker 1 (01:02:56):
You have to have clear and in digital IDA and
for it to be beneficial because I think with the
digital I D though, if you have clear and pre check,
then you automatically get the digital ID because I feel like, yeah, yeah,
but I feel like if you just have only clear
in Atlanta, it does not work that that clear line.

Speaker 3 (01:03:15):
If you just have long, it be long as hell.
So you got to really have all of it. And
it's really not expensive.

Speaker 4 (01:03:21):
It's not.

Speaker 1 (01:03:21):
It's not at Also I'll be feeling like, but I
feel like the digital ID line be getting long.

Speaker 4 (01:03:25):
Now everybody all, everybody will and now so let me
put you on.

Speaker 2 (01:03:30):
It's something that I learned in Atlanta too. I don't
want to get a sauce up, but I'm gonna. I'm
gonna get a sauce up to the people. Though you
go through the International.

Speaker 3 (01:03:39):
I was just about we definitely be doing that that International.
It'd be empty right there.

Speaker 4 (01:03:44):
I'm talking about, especially if you a d ARE. But
the thing is you will have to travel depending on
what terminal you you have to get on that train.
I don't understand that.

Speaker 2 (01:03:56):
When I first started coming to Atlanta, I did not
understand that it was just that train was I lost.

Speaker 4 (01:04:01):
I didn't missed a flight like that.

Speaker 7 (01:04:04):
A train I hate wasn't even working in then yes,
we having walk for our terminal, but luckily we were
at terminal A. But the crazy thing is we were
waiting for like a good three minutes for the train
to come. And then every time me and Lexel turn
our head and look back, so Tom went back up.

Speaker 3 (01:04:26):
Are we tripping?

Speaker 7 (01:04:28):
And then once I we looked at the same time
and we caught it go back up like twenty seconds,
and I was like, I know, you fucking line, and
we just like whatever.

Speaker 3 (01:04:35):
We want to walk, can't even messorry flight.

Speaker 1 (01:04:38):
But you know why people say that Atlanta is like
the most annoying airport, but but it's pretty.

Speaker 3 (01:04:43):
Easy to navigate it is. It's very easy travel a lot.

Speaker 2 (01:04:47):
Yeah, I give you come every once in a while.
You're not going to understand it. It took me a while.

Speaker 4 (01:04:52):
Miami too, is like that.

Speaker 3 (01:04:53):
Miami is confusing.

Speaker 7 (01:04:55):
I hate Miami. The fuck y'all got carpet all throughout
the hole. It'd be hard to row yo luggies.

Speaker 4 (01:05:01):
Put a couple of founna.

Speaker 3 (01:05:04):
I don't like Jamaica Airport either. Oh. I like Jamaica.
It's small and quick.

Speaker 7 (01:05:09):
It'd be oh but you talk about mony go babe,
Kingston is small and kings.

Speaker 3 (01:05:14):
Yea said, but that they don't be wiping the floors up.

Speaker 1 (01:05:18):
It'll always be like it's just dirty in there, like
people just it seems like people will eat their food and.

Speaker 3 (01:05:24):
Just throw it on the floor. It's all.

Speaker 1 (01:05:26):
Every time I'm going to the airport, it's so dirty
in there. I'm like, damn, well gonna be.

Speaker 4 (01:05:31):
I've never been to Jamaica.

Speaker 5 (01:05:33):
Yeah, you gotta go to Jamaica.

Speaker 3 (01:05:34):
I love I love so y'all walk.

Speaker 7 (01:05:40):
So now it's time to get into the big bow
bow about.

Speaker 4 (01:05:47):
B B bringing that back? Huh about bringing.

Speaker 3 (01:05:52):
It ain't never never left.

Speaker 5 (01:05:55):
Yeah, we've been doing that for me.

Speaker 3 (01:05:56):
We love about that's like a Louisiana thing.

Speaker 4 (01:06:00):
Yeah, but I see Alena adopted the too.

Speaker 3 (01:06:02):
Yeah yeah, but.

Speaker 1 (01:06:04):
That's our little themes on that we had before, our
little you know topics, and we've been doing that since
what twenty nineteen.

Speaker 3 (01:06:10):
I don't know why we started that, to be honest,
I haven't seed from.

Speaker 5 (01:06:13):
Sixties and we leave today Louisiana music.

Speaker 4 (01:06:17):
That's the whole little you know cousins.

Speaker 1 (01:06:21):
So for the bad topic this week, since you are
an actor, we want to talk about you making love.

Speaker 3 (01:06:29):
Do you make love like your character.

Speaker 1 (01:06:32):
Or are you like really acting or do you use
some of that pay the tab skills that you have.

Speaker 2 (01:06:37):
It's supposed to We're supposed to be listening and not judging.

Speaker 3 (01:06:42):
I'm not judging. I'm saying, are you a method actor?

Speaker 4 (01:06:45):
Oh? Yeah, so I know, so, I know, yeah, I
so sometimes.

Speaker 1 (01:06:49):
When you're doing your love making scene, you're doing stuff
that you do in real life. Like not that y'all
really haven't said obvious, but yeah, you got.

Speaker 4 (01:06:56):
To bring the real.

Speaker 2 (01:06:58):
You gotta bring the real to it. You gotta make
it a grill like the scene that I got coming.

Speaker 4 (01:07:02):
Up on the last episode.

Speaker 2 (01:07:06):
Man, I thought about a lot of moments that like
we wanted, we wanted like rough, like we wanted to
have like been through a lot and he finally you know,
so I just thought about, oh, yeah, I know what
I'm it's like choking, slapping the cheek.

Speaker 1 (01:07:22):
But have you ever been doing a sex scene and
you're like supposed to be acting but your we we
got hard.

Speaker 4 (01:07:29):
On the on the shot. But I did some Cooper movies.
That's wow, wee we is crazy. I'm a respectful I can't.

Speaker 3 (01:07:38):
But I'm just saying, like, have that ever happened? We
we got what y'all want me to say? Penis?

Speaker 4 (01:07:46):
Have you ever had your penis got hard?

Speaker 3 (01:07:49):
Has it ever happened?

Speaker 2 (01:07:51):
I'm super professional, Like I did some to B films
and it was a a scene. You can hear our
skin like smacking. It sound like sex to the point
that the people when we was feeling, they was like, damn,
it was like, come on, just.

Speaker 4 (01:08:07):
Now my meat was covered. I had.

Speaker 3 (01:08:11):
Draya wat But you say that.

Speaker 2 (01:08:14):
So look, if y'all, if y'all get on the scene
right and y'all have a sex team, whichy'all what you
get wet?

Speaker 3 (01:08:19):
I'm not gonna lie I sing with like damns it.

Speaker 4 (01:08:24):
Yeah no, we're fucking for real.

Speaker 3 (01:08:28):
Paul hr right now, you're gonna give me that dick.
We're about to do this for real. Y'all gonna have
to car Hr on me every time, y'all.

Speaker 7 (01:08:37):
I mean, I mean, I think something I'm probably about
to say too much, but like I think sometimes every
girl done got wet on Xody before you.

Speaker 4 (01:08:47):
Ever got wet looking at me? You ever got wet
looking at the dude looking at just looking at.

Speaker 3 (01:08:53):
It for sure, yea, Like no, y'all be trying to
see what that meant.

Speaker 7 (01:08:59):
Yeah, but I think that's when you know that you
have real chemistry with somebody, because sometimes that happened, and
I think it happened for me, and so that's why
she show we Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:09:08):
Nah, but it's like I'm thinking about. I'm thinking about like.

Speaker 3 (01:09:11):
A real journalist.

Speaker 4 (01:09:12):
Real They don't say we were journals. They probably say penis,
your pains, get hard, penis.

Speaker 1 (01:09:21):
But no, I do feel like for me, I guess
obviously I'm not an actress, so I'm never but I
would just feel like I would feel uncomfortable.

Speaker 2 (01:09:31):
There's too many people in the room for me. Unless
I got a kink of that, yeah, but no, it's
too many people in the room. And were living in
a society right now, likest you know.

Speaker 4 (01:09:41):
I would never want nobody to be like this.

Speaker 11 (01:09:43):
Man han't got hard, and no, we were hard, and
we we as hard, y'all. Look and everybody right now, look, y'all,
it's look. The slut is out, y'all.

Speaker 4 (01:09:58):
It's sunny. It's freak glassy in the flesh.

Speaker 1 (01:10:06):
Okay, has that ever been like when you were acting
and you had a sex scene and it's something that
your character had to do that you were like, I
would never do this.

Speaker 3 (01:10:15):
This is kind of lame.

Speaker 4 (01:10:17):
No, man, he been every scene I have. He's a fucker.

Speaker 3 (01:10:22):
Yeah, he's not a real fucker. He's real.

Speaker 4 (01:10:26):
He was my French, but he's fucking on everything. I
never had.

Speaker 3 (01:10:34):
Coming out because I am a weak of They tuned
freak Nasty.

Speaker 4 (01:10:37):
The novel is coming out.

Speaker 2 (01:10:39):
I got a I got an autobiography coming out, freak
Nasty in the Flesh and trust coming.

Speaker 3 (01:10:46):
Freaking nasty bag, freak nasty back.

Speaker 2 (01:10:50):
It's coming out of November because all the you know,
they said that's the scorpio, so that's what the freaks.

Speaker 3 (01:10:56):
So do y'all y'all have like a because I know
we talked to the cast of Snowfall.

Speaker 4 (01:11:03):
We had Gail being Orange that's my sister.

Speaker 3 (01:11:05):
Right, yeah, and Isaiah and Isaiah and we were talking that.

Speaker 1 (01:11:08):
She was like saying, like how they'll have like a coordinator,
like coordinator so like you know exactly.

Speaker 4 (01:11:15):
What to do in the emotions you're going.

Speaker 3 (01:11:17):
Yeah, so it's not like you're all just kind of
like in pre style and styl It.

Speaker 2 (01:11:21):
Was, man, it's so it's they they got it down
to the t that they started getting a little irritateing.

Speaker 4 (01:11:26):
Like right, okay, yeah, yeah, she's good.

Speaker 2 (01:11:28):
And then you got like you got like a cup on,
and then you got like a little medicine ball type
thing in front of it.

Speaker 4 (01:11:34):
I'm like, can I move that because it's pressing up
against like I did?

Speaker 2 (01:11:37):
Yeah, and it hurt because she bouncing up on me
and the ball is right there, so it's like my
ball is going into me.

Speaker 4 (01:11:44):
So it's like that, like this is not right.

Speaker 3 (01:11:48):
That is a lie.

Speaker 4 (01:11:50):
Yeah, So I'm like, you cool with I looked up.
I said you cool me moving this ball. She's like yes,
thank you.

Speaker 3 (01:11:54):
Okay, So she has stuff on too, Yeah, she got
she got.

Speaker 2 (01:11:57):
Like a it's like a like a pad that she
got on, and then it's like tape, but it's it's
definitely secured. It would not come off unless it be
a case of probably the woman that's too wet and
then they slide off.

Speaker 4 (01:12:11):
But it didn't have to.

Speaker 5 (01:12:13):
I might have the problem.

Speaker 4 (01:12:16):
Another one.

Speaker 3 (01:12:17):
I've seen it for rehearsal. We need a rehearse to
see bo more times. I don't know my lines.

Speaker 7 (01:12:28):
Okay, so I have a question. If NUK had a
six play least, what will be on the play least, it.

Speaker 4 (01:12:34):
Probably be good ship, Yeah, that would make sense. Some jeezy,
just just aggressive music.

Speaker 2 (01:12:43):
He's just angry because the scene I did it was
nothing passionate about that. It was just all thrusting, slapping
ass choking Biden.

Speaker 8 (01:12:54):
Legs.

Speaker 3 (01:12:55):
Why it's been a long summer.

Speaker 4 (01:12:59):
It's been a some of you.

Speaker 3 (01:13:01):
You know, I would say I'm in a transitional period.

Speaker 4 (01:13:07):
Yeah, you know, it's nothing wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:13:09):
Honestly, I'm like focused on my personal life as far
as like putting myself.

Speaker 3 (01:13:14):
Together into yourself, poor, pouring that for myself, pouring.

Speaker 1 (01:13:20):
To myself and becoming the woman I really want to
come and you know, yeah, because I'm what up as fuck?

Speaker 4 (01:13:26):
Wo No, you can't know if you ain't you ain't
wet up, it's wet yeah, what up? Look that's that
Chicago up?

Speaker 3 (01:13:36):
What up?

Speaker 4 (01:13:38):
I had to bring you out to Chicago. We love,
I know, we don't boat weed boat we yes, next
year we're doing.

Speaker 3 (01:13:46):
That, okay, yeah, but we gotta go and like go
with you so you can really show us.

Speaker 2 (01:13:49):
Oh for sure, you're gonna come with me and my
boy Chris Loveton he played on power like we got
a whole thing going. I told him, next year, we're
doing the whole weekend. Yes, starting Thursday to Monday. We
outside everything.

Speaker 3 (01:14:06):
Up.

Speaker 2 (01:14:07):
Now we can't, you said, so you can't start early
because we gonna need you the whole.

Speaker 4 (01:14:11):
Day and it's hot.

Speaker 1 (01:14:12):
I'm pretty good at pacing myself though, like I know
how to. I've been doing this ship for a long time.
You got your first tattoo at fourteen. I do my
first shot at twelve.

Speaker 4 (01:14:21):
Right with you now, I'm right with you.

Speaker 3 (01:14:23):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:14:24):
So I'm sorry, Mama, but I'm about to expose some
stuff that we used to do twelve thirteen.

Speaker 4 (01:14:32):
Twelve thirteen, y'all. I'm sorry, ma, but twelve thirteen.

Speaker 2 (01:14:36):
Y'all, me and my homies, we used to go collect
the crackheads and get them money, and then they go
to the liquors so for us, and then they go
get the bottle for us.

Speaker 4 (01:14:44):
In there, we'll, you know, we'll stretch it out, y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:14:47):
Was collected crackheads? Be strong?

Speaker 4 (01:14:50):
Yeah, no, we come. We au check it out.

Speaker 2 (01:14:52):
You want to make two dollars on bro, We're finna
give you this fifteen dollars. We was getting a paint
of Sobacca or fifth of soo Becca's fifth Disbacca.

Speaker 4 (01:14:59):
Wh but like yeah two dollars around, yeah yeah, and
then they get the change.

Speaker 3 (01:15:05):
Saying collect them.

Speaker 2 (01:15:06):
It's funny like ba fight. So it's like all right,
because they used to get us. This is the term
we call CG. CG is a creative gangster. So what
used to be something that was tough, like get your
young guess ain't nobody drinking? Were like, but you a hype,
you a crankhead? Right, we're not trying to hear that.

Speaker 4 (01:15:30):
Trying to be.

Speaker 2 (01:15:30):
Furious off boys in the hood. We're not trying to
hear that. Don't get the liquor and come back and
take the change. It's only seventy.

Speaker 3 (01:15:37):
Get your loose square. The hard ones they would never
give you.

Speaker 4 (01:15:40):
Yeah, because we'll come back Tom. You know, we have
come back with a loose squab. You know, the loose square.
A loose square is a loose cigarette. We call it
squares that come out of you know, a box.

Speaker 5 (01:15:53):
We called them something else. I can't remember what it's called.

Speaker 4 (01:15:56):
Yeah, we call a loose square.

Speaker 2 (01:15:58):
So we go get him a loose square. We go
get him to two for a dollar. We come back
getting a loose square. Go ahead, man, look out for us, please, man, please,
I'm so weak.

Speaker 4 (01:16:07):
That's what I'm saying. Like I didn't I didn't walk
around the black too.

Speaker 1 (01:16:10):
I'm good at pacing myself and me and Dre are
like we when we drink, we're fun.

Speaker 3 (01:16:15):
We are young girls. They get angry crying I.

Speaker 4 (01:16:19):
Hate a fighter.

Speaker 2 (01:16:20):
Yeah no, that's not at all, or a black out
of work, a black outer.

Speaker 3 (01:16:29):
I'm gonna just turn around and see me and Dray
be like, I love you girl, you my bet.

Speaker 5 (01:16:33):
And I like that with everybody. Oh my god, I
love you.

Speaker 3 (01:16:38):
You get loving when you Yeah, I'm very nice. I'm
gonna be saying.

Speaker 2 (01:16:42):
I turned to it like an activist, like a public
speaker that gathering people.

Speaker 10 (01:16:47):
Around without tell you about zeus. How he had all
these babes.

Speaker 4 (01:16:57):
Like bro, they call me Papa TEIs. They like I
am shut up.

Speaker 3 (01:17:01):
Yeah, you can't get the preach now, becau. I'm gonna
take it.

Speaker 4 (01:17:04):
Hey, depending on the scenery, though, I'm lit.

Speaker 2 (01:17:06):
I'm a When I was drinking, I have a good time, okay,
but we're not gonna get you I'm good.

Speaker 4 (01:17:13):
I've been locked in.

Speaker 2 (01:17:13):
I didn't been around so many different events, environments, birthday parties, everything,
and I haven't touched good job.

Speaker 3 (01:17:20):
We probably because taylor Port got me wet up. The
tailor part got I'm gonna take a little shy, you
know what I'm saying. I'm a little empty ov here.

Speaker 2 (01:17:30):
So y'all should mix, y'all, you know what I mean.
Get you a little shot of taylor Port drink, you know.
So now splash it with.

Speaker 4 (01:17:38):
The come on this four minds though, you gotta drive.

Speaker 3 (01:17:43):
And I stay far now.

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Speaker 1 (01:18:16):
Gotta love that, Gotta love that, Okay, now it's time
to get.

Speaker 3 (01:18:21):
Into Dubie A A A bow.

Speaker 1 (01:18:29):
We love so the bop is like basically you know
what we've been listening to this week and all that
good stuff.

Speaker 2 (01:18:36):
No, we got a term bop in Chicago to bopping y'all,
y'all that's dance.

Speaker 4 (01:18:41):
It was a dance. Ye shout out to Chemo and
d Loo. Man.

Speaker 3 (01:18:43):
Yeah, y'all be dancing in Chicago. Y'all be having the moves.

Speaker 10 (01:18:46):
Now.

Speaker 3 (01:18:46):
Niggas like to cut a run.

Speaker 4 (01:18:48):
They do work.

Speaker 5 (01:18:50):
I used to dance somewhere.

Speaker 4 (01:18:52):
You do a little two step. You know. We tired.
We'll pull something.

Speaker 3 (01:18:56):
You be doing the wear them fans, no, you do
the line.

Speaker 4 (01:19:00):
I don't even want to go. I'm told top bros.

Speaker 2 (01:19:04):
Those times they not like us. I am tired of
what them fans down. I'm tired of it's so fun.

Speaker 3 (01:19:12):
Not a fan.

Speaker 4 (01:19:13):
I don't want to see a fan after this summer. Yeah,
I don't want to see a cowboy hat or a
fan or boots. I don't want to.

Speaker 3 (01:19:19):
Well, I will say they are loud.

Speaker 4 (01:19:21):
They're a little loud, and everybody want to just they
want to make their point.

Speaker 3 (01:19:24):
And just you know they make them Now to where
like they deliberately snap.

Speaker 1 (01:19:30):
So Carnival actually banned fans, yes, like on certain cruise
shes like you cannot.

Speaker 4 (01:19:36):
Have as they should. You can't as they should, Like
why are you making a point? And He's gonna be like, I.

Speaker 7 (01:19:42):
Like you, I don't know because I love a little
cowboy Hey, I really do. I feel like I'm always
wear one.

Speaker 4 (01:19:51):
They burnt it out, well, I feel like.

Speaker 7 (01:19:53):
They did, they did, But You're always interesting to me
because stuff. I said something about these on Twitter. I think,
like maybe like a few months ago, because I haven't
been on Twitter for a while, but I was just like,
it's interesting to me how stuff becomes so trendy because
for so long I feel like they would call people
from Texas in a deep South like we were so country,
We was bust, we.

Speaker 5 (01:20:14):
Was tacky, we was all of this stuff. All it
took was for Beyonce to put all harder.

Speaker 7 (01:20:21):
And put on a little cowboy head, not everybody dressing
like Andy from toy store.

Speaker 3 (01:20:34):
Something to become trendy.

Speaker 1 (01:20:37):
Well, my bop of the week, what I've been jamming
this week, y'all know I love aria stars to the
Afrobeat Superstar.

Speaker 3 (01:20:45):
Oh my gosh, she is just so fired.

Speaker 1 (01:20:47):
Her voice is just so unique, and I love people
who have unique voices. So she just dropped a song
called hot Body, and it's just basically a song about
her how she's so fire and her body is hot
and she having fun.

Speaker 3 (01:20:58):
It's a fun summer song. So that's my bop of
the week. Are Your Star?

Speaker 1 (01:21:03):
Hot Body? Shout out to her because I really love her.
Now I'm ready for her to like take over, like
I need a whole like.

Speaker 4 (01:21:11):
Are your Star moments?

Speaker 3 (01:21:13):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:21:13):
I feel like she doesn't get the recognition that she
really deserves because all her music is like she don't
have no missus. Yeah, she's really She's extremely extremely talented.

Speaker 4 (01:21:23):
So shut out to you.

Speaker 3 (01:21:24):
Yes, what you been jamming now? Lately?

Speaker 7 (01:21:27):
I feel like I've been having a lot of new bopes,
but we're gonna take it old school today.

Speaker 3 (01:21:32):
Y'all.

Speaker 8 (01:21:32):
Remember Gorilla Zone, Yeah, girlfriend say was over?

Speaker 2 (01:21:39):
That was that was our you know, that was our
from the West Side, so we was bopping. That was
our national anthemy No he's from here, yeah, but it
was that.

Speaker 3 (01:21:49):
It was that song.

Speaker 4 (01:21:50):
It was man, get off of me, Get off of me,
body trying to get you so in.

Speaker 3 (01:22:03):
My poppihood Nigga. But for real, y'all.

Speaker 7 (01:22:06):
I had heard this song the other day. I was
like listening to music on title and he just ended
up coming up on my playlist and I was like,
oh my god, I forgot about hood nigga. This was
such a good song, like you like the beat, drop
everything food, we don't rock right seed?

Speaker 1 (01:22:22):
Yeah, that was about remember when he hopped on the remix,
And for a long time people been understand well I
never let a bitch, little bow wi me, Oh my god,
but did we ever figure out what it means?

Speaker 5 (01:22:35):
I think we stopped asking because nobody.

Speaker 3 (01:22:37):
Is nobody what ever.

Speaker 1 (01:22:38):
It's like, I heard so many different stories of what
it meant, but it was like never like a straight
forward answer of I've never let a bitch. I wonder
how he felt, Yeah, because he never talked about it
because you know young I know this is another artist,
but young Job talking.

Speaker 4 (01:22:54):
Oh yeah, what was his name for?

Speaker 3 (01:22:58):
What did he say?

Speaker 4 (01:22:59):
He was like, man, it was just like.

Speaker 1 (01:23:03):
Jo Yeah, so John talked about it. He was like,
I wasn't a fending He was just kind of like,
you know, it's whatever.

Speaker 3 (01:23:09):
Because one thing. I will say. I get an argument
with people about Young Jock all the time.

Speaker 5 (01:23:13):
He a legend hits and he was one of the
first people we ever had on poor mind after hit.

Speaker 1 (01:23:18):
He has a lot all the whole of mine. When
the see nes doing Doe Boy Lou the mine when
be coming man, ju yay on that one?

Speaker 2 (01:23:28):
Yeah, so yeah, but I know you see it. He
had everybody in the hood. I know you see it
in coffee shop. Yeah, he was in that chicken head
when I like it.

Speaker 3 (01:23:42):
Yeah, Jock had them his y'all.

Speaker 4 (01:23:44):
Don't be you know what. I see them in a
couple of days.

Speaker 3 (01:23:48):
What you were listening to?

Speaker 4 (01:23:49):
Man, I've been on my R and B Wave what's
his name is name? Give you young?

Speaker 3 (01:23:56):
Oh?

Speaker 7 (01:23:56):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:23:57):
That album him? Him and Justin bieber Swag. Okay, I
don't know what them boys going through. Stay in that bag,
because they in the bag. I keep hearing people talk
to the bottom. They flawless, start off with would give
you start off with keeper?

Speaker 1 (01:24:15):
Okay, I'm gonna listen to it because I know he dropped.
I just haven't taken the time to listen to it
because I I'm a fan of his, but I know
he dropped.

Speaker 2 (01:24:22):
Then I know Justin Bieber and the feature we didn't
know we needed is Justin Bieber and sexy Red.

Speaker 3 (01:24:27):
Wow.

Speaker 4 (01:24:28):
Okay, now it's decent. It's it's very ignorant, but it's
it's nice. It's it's a nice ignorant Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:24:36):
See, I don't really listen to a lot of like
main mainstream music, like I have to catch it, like
if I'm scrolling, you know what I'm saying. But like
if I'm in the house, I'm listening to like a
lot of indie artists and stuff. Yeah, so I'm gonna
check it out though, because I have been hearing people
say the album is actually really getting Justin Bieber's out and.

Speaker 2 (01:24:51):
Then uh, full Bets fux Bets got a sexy Red
feature too. With that, it's get It Wet remix. It's
like a get It Wet reference, like with twisting all that.

Speaker 3 (01:25:01):
Yeah you.

Speaker 2 (01:25:04):
From the back Road he going crazy? Oh yeah, yeah,
she's talking. She's talking, Craze. Everybody's spirit animal, like she
really is.

Speaker 3 (01:25:16):
I like people.

Speaker 1 (01:25:18):
I always spuck with people who are unapologetically themselves and
they don't give it. Damn because people be talking so
much about her, but she is still don't care and
she goes on that stage, no shoes on, bust that split,
having a ball, and I love that for her.

Speaker 4 (01:25:31):
You know who's been killing it too, Lorilla.

Speaker 1 (01:25:34):
She been Yeah, what's the the b and my award
she's getting awarded everything she needed. Yeah, she's had a
really I can't even say a good year.

Speaker 4 (01:25:45):
She's been on a moment. So she really dropped. She
really had no no domn moment she did.

Speaker 1 (01:25:51):
She had dropped the song and I remember because you know,
everybody listens to Conson that he has a lot of
and he gave her like a bad review.

Speaker 3 (01:25:58):
But this was like a long time ago on something
she had.

Speaker 1 (01:26:00):
I can't even remember the name of the song, but
it was like everybody was like, damn, she had f
NF and now she's falling off.

Speaker 3 (01:26:05):
But it was like, I don't know what that.

Speaker 4 (01:26:06):
Fire put that she like bro stopped playing.

Speaker 1 (01:26:09):
Oh yeah she ain't. She ain't missing. Then for her
to have her own headlining tour that she went on
says a lot. Not everybody can tour exactly.

Speaker 4 (01:26:17):
Shout out to my sister Queen Keith. She been killing
it too, Yes, and.

Speaker 3 (01:26:21):
She's on a loving hip hop and I love her now.
I love her? Is that like a Chicago thing? Everybody
got dimples? Because she got some deep dimple I had that.

Speaker 4 (01:26:34):
Yeah. I think we in the competition and who got who.

Speaker 3 (01:26:37):
Got the deepest dimples? Herd dipples.

Speaker 4 (01:26:39):
I got to the I don't think she got to.

Speaker 3 (01:26:41):
She got got to.

Speaker 4 (01:26:42):
Yeah, okay, nay d.

Speaker 1 (01:26:45):
Look at me diving. They was talking about her dimples.
She got me the I mean yours are deep too.

Speaker 4 (01:26:51):
You know these got me do a lot.

Speaker 3 (01:26:53):
I believe it. You she was ameo.

Speaker 4 (01:26:56):
We know you don't have to go from Kelsey couch,
you know, but you speaking of reala.

Speaker 5 (01:27:02):
I don't think that's ever been our bop on the show.

Speaker 4 (01:27:04):
TA that song, Yeah that's dope. I like how they.

Speaker 3 (01:27:11):
I don't know what the hell she'd be saying, but
I'm like, yeah, I'm good, it's sound good. I know
c k here, but I said she ate that up.
I love her.

Speaker 2 (01:27:21):
Yeah, I'm loving the I'm loving the music right now.
Like a lot of older artists, he's coming back. You know,
they do anything like clips, Like who would have thought clips?

Speaker 4 (01:27:31):
Is we just killing it?

Speaker 2 (01:27:34):
And shout out to them because they said they watched
the shots so shout.

Speaker 1 (01:27:37):
Out to y'all know that's right, Sierra's about to drop
out right, carry just dropped her little bit. The girls
like y'all know, hey, we still hear your period and
she dropping see us.

Speaker 4 (01:27:50):
Who they never lose it. It's just the it's just
us as a community always.

Speaker 1 (01:27:56):
The consumer is different now they used to be, so
it's a lot different. But I will say I commend
them for that because they're able to adjust and still
be able to be successful in this space, because that's hard.
I think what's Madonna used to talk about that all
the time, reinventing herself and how she's That's how she
stayed on top for so long. She was always reinventing herself. Yeah,

(01:28:17):
you gotta think about it. Madonna came out in the
eighties and then it was like she was able to
still be on stage performing with Brittany Spears and Grassina Aguilera.

Speaker 3 (01:28:25):
That was a long gas.

Speaker 2 (01:28:26):
That's a long gas was a crazy era too.

Speaker 3 (01:28:31):
So make it through that, yes, absolutely.

Speaker 7 (01:28:34):
And I feel like that's the same blueprint that Beyonce
is like following. So she just keeps reinventing herself because
the fact that, yes, with all the different acts and
then the fact that like she came out with the
country album and then she has the biggest grossing country
tour of all time anybody, and they don't like that.

Speaker 2 (01:28:54):
But let's keep you know, you know, setting them tones
like yeah, doing that, just showing needs like a younger Beyonce,
like I can do anything.

Speaker 4 (01:29:04):
They're not just gonna put me into the R and
B box.

Speaker 2 (01:29:06):
Like Michael Jackson, they try to put him into that
R and B He like, no, I do everything I do.

Speaker 3 (01:29:14):
Yeah. I think that's the same thing with Chris Brown too.

Speaker 1 (01:29:16):
I think they see a black artist and they feel like, Okay,
you're either R and B hip hop, rap and that
did you know what I'm saying, blues, jazz, whatever. So
it's like, no, like we can do it all rock.

Speaker 2 (01:29:28):
Music, everything, We created everything, every it's nothing that we
haven't created that it is not recycled.

Speaker 3 (01:29:35):
That's all.

Speaker 4 (01:29:35):
I think.

Speaker 1 (01:29:35):
It's so crazy, Like why they be so mad about
country music. It's like we started country.

Speaker 2 (01:29:40):
Music right and that probably started back with slavery when
they was just coming up with like folk tale songs,
just really speaking through the soul of what they was
going through. That's like blues, and then blues turned into
rock and roll. Rock and roll turn into hip hop.
All of that hip hop turned into R and B.
It's just all the same thing.

Speaker 1 (01:29:57):
I remember, like remember, well, I won't say I remember
because I was so young. But like when run DMC
collaborated with Aerosmith, like the world.

Speaker 4 (01:30:08):
Stopped, was like, wait this can work?

Speaker 7 (01:30:11):
What and we don't want to see reincarnation jay Z
and Lincoln Park.

Speaker 3 (01:30:17):
Yes, yeah, but then Nellie said, hold on, Timm girl, oh.

Speaker 8 (01:30:21):
Yeah, my head it over and over again.

Speaker 3 (01:30:27):
Nellie singing down they had they had the hood and
what like, because that was not going being country. Yes,
that was a time. Okay, let's move on. We're getting
chatted now changed all right.

Speaker 1 (01:30:43):
So now we're going to start our favorite segment of
the week, the pour your Heart Out segment. If you
want your question to answer on the show, make sure
you email us at ask for Minds at gmail dot com.
If you're a Patren, remember make sure you put that
in the title. You get to skip the line. Okay, period,
do you give good advice?

Speaker 4 (01:30:58):
For sure?

Speaker 1 (01:30:59):
I told me pop all right now okay and tense
to theory, gonna test it out, all right? So I
met this guy on Facebook dating. We vibed and then
realized he stayed across the street from me.

Speaker 3 (01:31:11):
Wild I know.

Speaker 1 (01:31:12):
We linked a few days later red Flag. He said
he was twenty nine, but was really thirty turning thirty one.
I did a background check and boom, domestic violence charged
from five years ago. We got into it after I
didn't answer my phone while spending time with my mom
and son.

Speaker 3 (01:31:27):
My phone was on silent and he went off.

Speaker 1 (01:31:30):
He said, the only time you don't answer is when
you bent over, called me a hole, said my baby
daddy don't want his son, all types of wild stuff.
He started calling from no caller ID, threatening to talk
to my mom and blowing up my phone saying come
outside or you got two minutes, but was never even outside.
Found out his baby mama keeps their son away because

(01:31:52):
he broke into her house and busted her windshield, not
because she's bitter and he has three kids that he
doesn't see. Everything's calmed down now, but should I still
file a report just in case?

Speaker 3 (01:32:05):
Fucking litely?

Speaker 2 (01:32:07):
I mean, I speak for itself, though I'm not even
answering that bullshit.

Speaker 4 (01:32:10):
Girl, What do you think? Get out? Get away?

Speaker 3 (01:32:19):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:32:19):
No, no, no, that man is Michael Myers in the
Flesh liter that man alone.

Speaker 5 (01:32:25):
I don't even think you need any advice from us.

Speaker 4 (01:32:28):
I think you know what you need to do, go
on YouTube and typing that Eve song. Oh and then
it take od man.

Speaker 1 (01:32:40):
I don't even know you were not, won't you day?
I felt that I need to call my friend to
sing that song her.

Speaker 3 (01:32:46):
Okay, all.

Speaker 4 (01:32:51):
Up, that's wet up ship, that's that tailor that tape
ta oh my god.

Speaker 7 (01:32:57):
So now we're going to get into a new segment
sponsored by Taylor Port called Bottled Up. If you want
to get anything off of your chance to make sure,
you send us a DM and we might play.

Speaker 5 (01:33:06):
On the show.

Speaker 12 (01:33:08):
Heylex Andrea. I love y'all, but let me just tell
y'all how somebody got me fucked up. Why somebody bust
my motherfucking mother windows out her car yesterday? Mind you,
my mother is forty and her man forties. Why is
somebody even fucking with her car that pissed me off
for today? Like I'm about ready to bust me a
motherfucking head. I don't know if y'all can put this
on y'all shit, because I'm being so vulgar. But I

(01:33:29):
wanna bust me ahead right now, because why is people
fucking with my mother?

Speaker 3 (01:33:33):
Play with your mother? You don't play with nobody else,
motherfucking mother. You get what I'm saying. But I love y'all,
y'all have a good day by.

Speaker 2 (01:33:42):
Now.

Speaker 1 (01:33:42):
I do agree with her, cause why are you busting
in somebody's windows? But one thing I have learned, y'all
gotta realize your parents are human too.

Speaker 3 (01:33:49):
Mama probably.

Speaker 4 (01:33:53):
She got that man, she got she's paying that tax, right,
paying that getting that bone hit? Yeah, somebody hit that
phone bone and stop asking that phone and.

Speaker 10 (01:34:06):
It might be somebody who has That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:34:09):
So I think sometimes we like to think of our
parents as a certain way and like, why are you
fucking with her? But this is still a human being
who's probably dating. I'm not saying that that's what it is.
But sometimes it's best to just mind your business. Help
your mama get her window fixed, and let's move on.

Speaker 7 (01:34:23):
Or it might be somebody she beef and weed, the
daughter beef and weed. Yeah, you never know, You just
never know.

Speaker 4 (01:34:29):
But don't crash out.

Speaker 3 (01:34:31):
Yeah, don't crash out.

Speaker 4 (01:34:33):
Then you say your mama forty something.

Speaker 2 (01:34:34):
I mean, you can be anywhere from the mid twenties
to don't be imposive, and then you gotta work your whole.

Speaker 4 (01:34:41):
Ten years to get your life back on. Yeah, I agree,
just fix the window.

Speaker 3 (01:34:44):
Yeah, because her mom's in her mid forties, Like that's
not old.

Speaker 4 (01:34:47):
That's what I'm saying. She's still out here.

Speaker 3 (01:34:49):
She didn't.

Speaker 4 (01:34:50):
Yeah, that bone is still out here, and it's like
the dogs out there that like that bone.

Speaker 1 (01:34:56):
All right, let everybody know we're like a fine. And
also I do want to ask too, what does life
after the shy look for you?

Speaker 2 (01:35:05):
Like?

Speaker 3 (01:35:05):
What else you got coming up?

Speaker 4 (01:35:06):
And the sky is the limit for me? Like I
am not boxing myself in.

Speaker 2 (01:35:10):
I love fashion, I love public speaking, I love art,
love acting.

Speaker 4 (01:35:14):
It's going to be a lot of shows and TVs
and movies and commercials is going to be.

Speaker 2 (01:35:20):
Out that they're going to see this guy that has
been like everywhere because I've been making myself like overly
busy to be seen. Man, skyt's a limit. But I
do love fashion. So I am going to what's everything
like the smoke clear and everything. I'm going to lock
in on my clothing line and really come out with
like a full line, because I man, I can hang

(01:35:41):
with the.

Speaker 4 (01:35:41):
Best of them. Like I'll be looking at a lot
of different fashion shows and a lot of like clothes
and the other I'm like, I can do that or better.
But I just have to lock in and then put
you know, y'all in it.

Speaker 3 (01:35:53):
You gotta put this is this or is it you?

Speaker 7 (01:35:55):
Ever?

Speaker 3 (01:35:56):
It is me?

Speaker 1 (01:35:56):
That's all I was saying when you walked and I
was like, I like your out and I'm glad that
you said that because I like the fact that you
look at other people doing something like why not me?

Speaker 3 (01:36:04):
Why not?

Speaker 1 (01:36:05):
You know they were you know, building up they're bringing
at one point, and now you know, you look at
them where they are. So I always feel like it's just.

Speaker 2 (01:36:12):
I'm gonna definitely bless y'all with some what's some product though,
definitely because I'm I just need you'll size y'all, do
some measurements and all that give me all sizes. Blessh
y'all with a nice outfit, ins and glasses.

Speaker 4 (01:36:23):
And you don't even just just walk in the room,
don't even tell them what you got on.

Speaker 3 (01:36:26):
And they don't know somebody because they be like attack
your ass got on some.

Speaker 4 (01:36:29):
Good ship, and I might throw a little leopard because
I see you like you like red? What what color
you like?

Speaker 2 (01:36:38):
What I mean?

Speaker 7 (01:36:39):
I really like everything to be hony, like I don't
have like a specific I don't really feel like I
have like a specific style.

Speaker 5 (01:36:45):
Like I'm getting into everything.

Speaker 3 (01:36:47):
I got you, Okay, what's making me something?

Speaker 4 (01:36:50):
I got? I got my work?

Speaker 3 (01:36:52):
Well, thank you, corts. What's fun? Aka freak master and
slut Just.

Speaker 4 (01:37:00):
That's crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:37:01):
Make sure y'all follow him?

Speaker 4 (01:37:03):
No, no, what was your nickname in the streets?

Speaker 3 (01:37:07):
I wasn't in the streets you.

Speaker 4 (01:37:10):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (01:37:11):
Okay, my nickname because my real name starts with the T.
People used to call me T dog dog.

Speaker 4 (01:37:18):
I thought you said they call you the drink.

Speaker 2 (01:37:21):
Okay, I don't have a street name.

Speaker 4 (01:37:26):
I wasn't in the street, right, you know? It was yours.

Speaker 3 (01:37:31):
Freaky D.

Speaker 4 (01:37:32):
Freaky D. Now we got another freaky.

Speaker 2 (01:37:34):
In the.

Speaker 5 (01:37:37):
Not freaky she's lying, she's lying.

Speaker 4 (01:37:41):
Freaky D from tics.

Speaker 3 (01:37:42):
I never really had like a nickname like that. It
was just always Drek. That's really like I never.

Speaker 4 (01:37:51):
Heard well not nay nasty nasty comes to my turn
to any one?

Speaker 3 (01:38:00):
Oh, people do call her dreaming. No, they don't.

Speaker 4 (01:38:06):
Where that comes from.

Speaker 3 (01:38:07):
Oh it's a long Live.

Speaker 4 (01:38:11):
The Nasty al y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:38:13):
Make sure y'all follow Corse Hairs on all things, and
make sure y'all tune into the show.

Speaker 3 (01:38:17):
We'll see y'all next week. Bye, y'all. Love, do you
ever dream?

Speaker 4 (01:38:27):
What do you say?

Speaker 3 (01:38:28):
Dy?

Speaker 8 (01:38:29):
Call Jobs?

Speaker 3 (01:38:33):
You're the same, my Candy Ray?

Speaker 4 (01:38:37):
Start usself, Start umselfs us.

Speaker 7 (01:38:41):
Have you ever loved someone so much about you that
give it so much of yourself and things?

Speaker 3 (01:38:49):
Only tell me what you want and die and I
will give it to you.

Speaker 2 (01:38:55):
You you you, my.

Speaker 3 (01:39:03):
Love? Do you ever dreams?

Speaker 8 (01:39:09):
KNDy Coday Jobs?

Speaker 3 (01:39:14):
You're the same, my Candy Ray. I'm sorry you got
to kill now give it to him.

Speaker 4 (01:39:20):
My love? Do you ever dreamy?

Speaker 3 (01:39:24):
It can't be so right. I never thought that I
was found Yeah, all that I need a lot, all
I need all?

Speaker 4 (01:39:33):
I got that wrong.

Speaker 3 (01:39:35):
I found it you, I found it.

Speaker 2 (01:39:38):
In my.

Speaker 3 (01:39:43):
My love.

Speaker 8 (01:39:44):
Do you ever dream?

Speaker 3 (01:39:48):
Do you ever dream? Rain Jobs?

Speaker 8 (01:39:54):
You're the same, my Candy Ray.

Speaker 4 (01:39:58):
You gotta do that, Candy Rain, I did out. Hey
here's the free style.

Speaker 13 (01:40:02):
Hey, Hey, hey, hey, hey, hello, we're going to the
Hey Okay, Hey, Hey, go d go, d D go,
d d go, d d go d d do your
dance d d do you dance?

Speaker 2 (01:40:22):
Go?

Speaker 3 (01:40:22):
Let go, let go?

Speaker 4 (01:40:25):
Lex't le that's sound like el.

Speaker 3 (01:40:32):
I'm playing body father. You all.

Speaker 8 (01:40:35):
What I'm saying, he urry? Do you ever dream?

Speaker 3 (01:40:51):
Garty drops you all? That's saying my candy raid.

Speaker 4 (01:41:00):
And we are the duet.

Speaker 3 (01:41:02):
Yeah, we'll see y'all next week. We out this bitch.
We ain't that up? Hey, I like that? What that is?

Speaker 4 (01:41:11):
It's that candy raymon
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