Phunky Town

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Speaker 1 (00:22):
What's up, Y'all's your girl a lexp.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
And it's your girls writing a call and you are.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
Tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine Brad drunk
Mine speaks sober thought. We ain't got no gifts today.
We ain't got no gifts today. I gotta be happy
when they hear that. Not the bankhead bounce.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
Ain't that used to be?

Speaker 1 (00:43):
I thought it was like back and forth, That's what
I was doing, though. You was going like one two
one two, it's one one one one.

Speaker 2 (00:50):
I it's just one side. It was both sides. That's given,
like haarlem shape.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
I don't know that you know, okay, that's giving? What's
that soul food? Do you remember soul food? At the
end of the movie when Big Mama was dancing and she.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
Was like, no, see, that's what your own.

Speaker 1 (01:14):
Do you remember what I say? You don't talk about
what She was dancing at the recession and she was
going like this, that's what you was she was, I swear.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
I feel like it just depends. It was different variations,
Like I feel like they definitely had the one one
from side to side, but then I feel like they
had people used to be like, oh were you Oh
they did.

Speaker 1 (01:35):
They used to bring it around.

Speaker 2 (01:36):
Oh that's what I'm saying it. It was different variations
of the bounce, it really was. It just depends on
what boie.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
You brought it around town, around the world, you got
funky with it and the speaking of funky Okay, what
what for?

Speaker 3 (01:58):
What?

Speaker 2 (01:58):
I remember that episode where we was talking about you
know that thing being funky back in the day.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
Yeah. Yeah, So I just feel like I have.

Speaker 2 (02:08):
Further claims to support my theory. Okay, go ahead, because
well this is all I'm gonna ask you, because I
would really like your uninstapinion. If it wasn't funky, then
why did jay Z say that in the song what's
that funk? That nasty, that guccy stuff?

Speaker 1 (02:25):
Jay Z said that he did, but he was and
walding an older song.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
Okay, that's fine, But what was they talking about when
they said let me take you to funky town?

Speaker 1 (02:34):
About you take me to funk?

Speaker 3 (02:36):
It's time?

Speaker 1 (02:37):
But I don't think funky was like a bad thing.
I don't think funky was like a bad thing.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
I mean, but it probably wasn't a bad thing. But
then it's also like, you know, one of them things
were like if you don't know no better than funky sign.

Speaker 1 (02:51):
Okay, yeah, funk it, but listen is cool people used
to start and that ain't funk where people started calling
people fat but with.

Speaker 2 (02:59):
P h A T remember fat farm, Yeah, that's what
I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (03:04):
No, I never.

Speaker 2 (03:05):
Did believe you.

Speaker 1 (03:06):
You from Orange exactly. I'm from Orange. I was wearing
Hollister and fucking Abercrombie and Fitch.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
But I feel like the black people. I feel like
because the popular the black population in Orange is not
as much as like the white population. I feel like
the black people was definitely trying to be funky. I
mean fat. First of all, I mean fat.

Speaker 1 (03:27):
I love my black people in Orange tax but I
was not around my black people, and I don't know, really,
I don't know. I really don't.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
I feel bad for you.

Speaker 1 (03:41):
I know why. But I was shopping at like Palais Royal.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
Royal is crazy.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
I used to love to go on Wieners.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
So I remember Wiener. It's like what you have to
be going through the name of store. Wieners.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
Was that somebody's last name? I think it had to
be somebody's last name for sure.

Speaker 2 (03:58):
Winner as the last name is.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
You know what's crazy? Too. I also remember the way
Weianers used to smell, like, No, it didn't smell like wieners.
I love the way it smells. It smelled like wet cement.
I love the smell of wet, like the smell of
like after it rains. There's a word for it, if
y'all want to google it. I don't know what the

(04:21):
name is, but there's a certain name for like wet cement,
or like how it smells after it rains. And I
remember this smell because when I smell it, I'm like,
oh my god, it smells like wieners. But people always
think I mean hot dog winder or man wieners.

Speaker 2 (04:37):
Well, but of all, I feel like man weiers ain't
supposed to smell like nothing.

Speaker 1 (04:42):
Man Weaners have a sense.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
It's shoulting.

Speaker 1 (04:45):
It smells like skin.

Speaker 2 (04:47):
Skin is fine, But like when I smell my arm,
my arm smells like nothing.

Speaker 1 (04:53):
But skin has a sense. It's like a body, like body.
People have a natural sense.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
I don't think man wien are supposed to smell like nothing,
But no, man wiener should smell fresh.

Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah, it smells like you're by unless you wash it.

Speaker 2 (05:10):
And you got that duck butter.

Speaker 1 (05:12):
You know about that duck butter.

Speaker 2 (05:14):
I don't know about it, because I experienced it.

Speaker 1 (05:17):
I know about it. But with my own two eyes,
did you did you scratch? I didn't.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
Crashing smells?

Speaker 1 (05:24):
I didn't. I said you need to go take care of.

Speaker 2 (05:27):
That, and then you took care of you know, I didn't.

Speaker 1 (05:29):
Not too far back, too far. No, I don't forget that.
I don't get down with the duck butter.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
But No, that's what I was saying, though, because I
don't know how we got to duckt butter, but somehow
we always get off. It's okay, I will say it.
I feel bad for you that you didn't experience the
city trend's arrow. So you didn't never wear like baby fat.
You never wore.

Speaker 1 (05:57):
I did wear baby fat.

Speaker 2 (05:58):
You never wore south Pole.

Speaker 1 (06:00):
I never wore so I did wear fooboo. I wore foobo.

Speaker 2 (06:06):
Concerns me because I feel like you too young to
be You was wearing fooble when you were supposed to
be wearing for bah because that was after your era before.

Speaker 1 (06:16):
No, it wasn't. You don't realize. Yes, I'm older than
you dre up, but I still am.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
Of the rare occasions where I minimize you.

Speaker 1 (06:26):
Well, all I'm saying is I wore fobo in middle school.
Remember when Yellow cool J had that song Fatty Girl,
Fatty Girl and they was promoting fob. Okay, maybe I know.
This is why you're right, because I don't don't remember
Fatty Girl by l O cool J. Fatty Girl, fetty Girl?

Speaker 2 (06:46):
What else?

Speaker 1 (06:46):
That's all I know. But it's a real song. I
promise no, I believe it's a real song.

Speaker 2 (06:52):
I think my first introduction to L cool J was
uh and I shouldn't have been listening to these with
doing it and doing it and doing it well like
this he did.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
He did Why did you do that?

Speaker 2 (07:07):
And somebody asked him recently I don't know, but it
was sexy because he was fine.

Speaker 1 (07:13):
Yo, what you didn't think?

Speaker 2 (07:14):
Ill be for real?

Speaker 1 (07:16):
No, I'm not saying that, but I'm saying him doing
that was sexy to you, no offense, L I am
a huge fan.

Speaker 2 (07:23):
See this is the problem. This is the problem where
black people cannot do what white people do. What Kiss
used to put their tongues out all the time, but
now it's the problem when ill ill do.

Speaker 4 (07:35):
No, it was a problem when Kiss get it to
me personally, the pain they faced.

Speaker 2 (07:40):
And nobody talked about this.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
Oh, they definitely got talked about. They definitely don't.

Speaker 2 (07:44):
I don't recall I do, but I be hearing the
ll slander. People be trying to slander the men all
the time, just like they be trying to say nobody
called him big Illy. Y'all don't know that they did call.

Speaker 1 (07:55):
Him big L.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
You know, nobody did not.

Speaker 1 (07:57):
Don't know somebody that called him big L.

Speaker 2 (07:59):
You didn't know him?

Speaker 1 (08:01):
Oh, well, how that song go? It was one J
Low song that she called him big Ellie?

Speaker 2 (08:07):
No she didn't, Yes, she did?

Speaker 1 (08:08):
Did? I can't, I can't. I'm gonna think of it
in a second.

Speaker 2 (08:12):
On the song with him, I think it was or
are you talking about what she said? Are you allie?

Speaker 1 (08:18):
Yeah? She was talking. That is what she was talking to.
You said it. She was asking l O cool J?
Are you allie? But I can't remember your name felling.
She was asking l O cool J, like are you Ellie?

Speaker 2 (08:35):
No? Yeah, because I ain't know if it was. I'm
trying to make sure we hit that five anymore. No,
she was feeling.

Speaker 1 (08:44):
Rule like, no, did you did you did Jaylo tell
you that.

Speaker 2 (08:49):
What I'm trying to ask you is why would she
be talking about l L kol J on the song
with Joe Rules.

Speaker 1 (08:54):
But she might have just finished a session with ll
O coo J. Remember they had that other song. It's
such a shame, but I believe it exactly. Proud is
what you had, baby girl?

Speaker 2 (09:04):
You know it's all fool song that was going to
funky time.

Speaker 1 (09:07):
That's what I'm saying. So she was still talking to
ll Are you Ellie?

Speaker 2 (09:13):
She was are you Elly? He was like.

Speaker 1 (09:19):
Somebody I saw.

Speaker 2 (09:20):
I saw. Going back to what I was gonna say,
he did an interview recently and somebody had asked him
why he never came out with a chapstick line, and
I agreed because he had some of the most iconic lips.

Speaker 1 (09:33):
He was always biting apples. Do you remember that in
his videos?

Speaker 2 (09:37):
See this is where it's like eighty nine ninety one.
I don't remember.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
Oh cool J always had a fresh red apple and
it always but the biting to him like.

Speaker 2 (09:48):
This, that's good.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
You know he had good, good health. He still does
moo yes, cause you.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
Know apples are like they have they're high in fiber.
They gonna make you go. So yeah, I don't know,
but I just feel like if you how did you
not wear South Paul. That's so you never had one
of the puffy jackets with the fur on the hood.

Speaker 1 (10:12):
I did it. I did it. That's not what was
in style for my school where I went.

Speaker 2 (10:18):
Okay, so cool, fine, because I will even say me
going to a school and like I had a lot
of black friends. We even used to wear Hollister in
like Apostle and yeah, yeah, yeah, but what kind of
hook jackets was y'all wearing? What was y'all wearing?

Speaker 1 (10:33):
So I mean we would wear the puffy jackets like
we would wear puff jackets. We wore a lot of
blue jean jackets, a lot of cropped jaw.

Speaker 2 (10:43):
But it was like no brand, No, it was brand.

Speaker 1 (10:46):
Like I said, it was like the Hollister, Aeropostal, Abercrombie
and Fitch. Old Navy, like old Navy was cool. And
when we were in high school, No, Old Navy was
cool for me too, because remember I said, I used
to be Yeah, we know the fars on outside, So
don't say it too loud. Everybody getting got so you

(11:07):
might want to keep it put. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (11:12):
No, that's so old though, like and I paid my dude,
Yeah yeah, but yeah, I met to the community.

Speaker 1 (11:18):
But yeah, I think the the the black brands that
I did wear. Oh, I used to wear. I had
some Nautica stuff I did. I had Nautica.

Speaker 2 (11:27):
Did you used to wear nor face?

Speaker 1 (11:29):
I didn't have. Yeah, north face is still popping. I
don't think it's popping down South necessarily, but I think
that's like a New York thing. But people definitely still
wear a north face. I used to be, Oh my god,
I used to be baby fat down. But you know
what was popular, like Tommy Hill figure. We wore a
lot of Tommy Hill figure a lot like if you

(11:51):
Tommy Hill figure in my day was like having Louis
Vauton on now. Seriously, like if you had that little
red and white on your shop. It was like, bitch
and my mama used to what I used to stay
Tommy Hill figured down. Now.

Speaker 2 (12:06):
That's one thing I can undersea said I never wore
because you know, I'm from Houston and beaf Ma had
these songs big He'll figure yuh boo boo shirt.

Speaker 1 (12:14):
Because that's where everybody found out he was racist. He
was they said Tommy Hill Ficker don't like black people.

Speaker 2 (12:20):
He didn't, and Alil used to be rubbing him RP.

Speaker 1 (12:23):
She did. I wanted that two piece outfit so bad.
Remember the two top she had and it was red
on this side of white on that side, with the
baggy pants and the drawers of Tommy Hill figure draws
and she had that bang.

Speaker 2 (12:37):
But that's not about to say, let's check, because like
it's fried and I'm ready to swag. I used to
want that, but I was like you kind of it's giving.
It's giving you. That's crazy, like with the hair, the pants,
it's it's.

Speaker 1 (12:57):
Can I say this, This is a moment for my girl,
even because on Broken Play they always be talking no
shade of it, They always be talking about event her
cargo pants. But I get real quiet because I love
cargo pants. So do I be cute as fucking her
cargo pants? I love a cargo It'd be such a
difference of what men look for and what women really
like because cargo pants be fly as fuck. I love

(13:20):
to see a girl and cute cargoes and like a
cute top, and she just swaged that ship out.

Speaker 2 (13:27):
Men gonna wear their pants beg, Yeah, they be wearing
them below the butt. They want to let them nuts hang.
They want to let them nuts breath.

Speaker 1 (13:35):
Pants on the ground, But when we want to let our.

Speaker 2 (13:37):
Kouchie breathe, it's because that's why I like cargo breathe.

Speaker 1 (13:42):
Well, they're just comfy and they're they're and then the
cargoes they fitted so they still show that booty a.

Speaker 2 (13:47):
Little bit, but then they baggy at the bottom.

Speaker 1 (13:50):
You can wear some cute sneakers, you know, wear a
cute little crop, a cute little jack.

Speaker 2 (13:55):
You can wear heels too, like I wear heels.

Speaker 1 (13:58):
Yes, you can absolutely wear heels.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
Ye, so like me and be having a problem with everything.
But that's a topic for another day.

Speaker 1 (14:06):
Speaking of pants on the ground, looking like a fool
with your pants on the ground. Do y'all remember when
American Idol, like the auditions used to be the best part,
because do y'all remember I had a flashback moment and
I went down a rabbit hole. William Hung was a
fucking superstar. This was before like going viral was like

(14:28):
a thing. Not everybody goes viral for everything. William Hung
became a millionaire from singing or what was his name,
Ricky Martin, shit bang, shit bangs, old baby. What she moved,
she moved, chet bess, cheap bess, old baby, but she moves,
she moves. And he knew every single fucking word. That

(14:52):
was when you had to have something something special about you.
He was special because you know, no, no, don't say it.

Speaker 2 (15:00):
God, I wasn't.

Speaker 1 (15:01):
Let me tell you what was special about him because
even though he couldn't sing, if you go back and
look at his audition, he knew every word and didn't
stumble over a word, barely spoke English, but knew every
single wasn't messing up the words. He wasn't arguing if
it was r U ellie or are you Ellie? He
knew the word.

Speaker 2 (15:20):
First of all. It's it's only one way to.

Speaker 1 (15:23):
Say you are you? Are you Ellie? I just feel like,
why would she be asking who and have a context
in are you?

Speaker 2 (15:42):
Okay? Anyway, back to William, but William hung I do
remember the era that was so it was such a
good era.

Speaker 1 (15:49):
You have to remember American.

Speaker 2 (15:50):
Idol was just a phenomenal time like it was a
It was a wonderful one of the greatest Fantasia Bno
and Tasa but one of the greatest why Kelly Clarkson
vocalist Kelly Clarkson.

Speaker 1 (16:05):
Because who Kelly. Okay, let me tell y'all. Kelly Clarkson
literally has a talk show right now. And you know
what they tell people, They say, do not go on
Kelly Clarkson and sing your song because she's gonna eat
you up on your own song. Now, we found Jennifer
Hudson there on American Idol as well. Jennifer Hudson is
a Grammy winner. What she has a Tony No, he

(16:25):
has an oscar.

Speaker 2 (16:27):
Jennifer can sing, Yeah, she can't. She can't absolutely sing,
But Kelly Clarkson.

Speaker 1 (16:33):
No way. This is what we're not gonna do. What
I'm saying is I think I was.

Speaker 2 (16:36):
All I was about to say is Kelly Clarkson really
used to eat that up and she won American Idol.

Speaker 1 (16:42):
But what I also will say was I didn't like
how everybody was treating Jennifer Hudson because I think she
wasn't prepared. She would just start Kelly be knowing what
she finna do when they comes to I'm trying to.

Speaker 2 (16:52):
Be funny, but if you could sing, do you gotta prepare?

Speaker 1 (16:54):
Yeah? I'd be prepared all the time.

Speaker 2 (16:58):
And Niece's why this conversation needs very questionable in debatable,
because yeah, like I said, if you gotta sing, well,
if you can't sing, doo, you need to be prepared.

Speaker 1 (17:11):
So I'll say this about put.

Speaker 2 (17:13):
You on the spot right now.

Speaker 3 (17:14):
You won't call my girl and my head devotion.

Speaker 1 (17:21):
He to my loving soul ride on the line. Oh
I kind of ate you heard it?

Speaker 2 (17:30):
Come on, can keep going, keep going?

Speaker 1 (17:31):
I have no down t love it? Oh real yeah,
leo le trouble lesa. You really dole he You've got
a night only one night only. See, I kind of.

Speaker 2 (17:56):
Ate, but that's little. But you just further proved my point.
Do you have to prepare?

Speaker 1 (18:02):
You didn't know that before I came.

Speaker 2 (18:04):
We roll together, you roll with me. You're lying, you're lying. Okay,
we was on FaceTime for like an hour before you
got in the car. Let me say now, I just
had to say that because you're lying.

Speaker 1 (18:16):
Hold on, And the point.

Speaker 2 (18:17):
That I'm making is again, if you can sing, so
I can sing. You can do a little one too.

Speaker 1 (18:27):
Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, but.

Speaker 2 (18:29):
Clearly you sing better than the song.

Speaker 1 (18:30):
No, I don't, but let me. The only thing I
was saying was so I can't remember what song they sang,
but I know this for a fact. What's the other
song from Dreamgirls that Jennifer Hudson blew up again? What's
y'all know the song the big song from dream Girls?
When she was singing a Curtis I'm stopping.

Speaker 2 (18:51):
Right, Oh yeah, I'm not gonna.

Speaker 1 (18:54):
So one thing I did. Okay, So when that movie
came out, let me tell y'all, I'm in music head.
Obviously y'all know that. So when that movie came out,
I was in my Jamie Fox era at the time
because when Ray dropped, I just became obsessed with Jamie Fox, right,
So I was watching everything that he did at the time.
So when Dreamgirls dropped, I became obsessed with Dreamgirls. So

(19:16):
I used to watch every single time Jennifer Hudson perform
that song. But I noticed when she would do the
bridge I'm not going on live. Yeah, that's knowing she
would never do the big note. She would never do
the big note, like I don't think maybe she was
comfortable singing it live or whatever it may be. But
I respected that because it's very much better to perform

(19:39):
and hit the notes that you can hit, and maybe
harmonize and hit a lower note, then try to hit
that high note because it is no shade, no tea.
You see how they've been doing Candy for trying to
do it every bady cheats. You see how they've been
doing her.

Speaker 2 (19:55):
But the crazy thing is that was her song.

Speaker 1 (19:58):
I know, but they've been eating her up or trying
to perf form it live because it's different from hitting
a note in studio and performing.

Speaker 2 (20:04):
I agree with you, but the difference is like if
you hit it before, you should be able to hit
it again. No thirty years ago, Jennifer Hudson, that was
never her song.

Speaker 1 (20:15):
But you know, I get what you're saying. But what
I'm saying is she Jennifer hid it in the studio.
Now can't she hit it live? I truly believe she can,
as I believe Candy can hit it live. But but
I was drinking my drink because I didn't say a
word time.

Speaker 2 (20:35):
Speaking of what do we drink?

Speaker 1 (20:40):
It's delicious, delicious, cool, we're gonnallage. Yeah, that is fresh
sage because it was I'm starting to grow on my
own safe. I am but it's I keep keep going.
I'm not doing it. I got a man, you got
a green thumb. I'm me cutting up.

Speaker 2 (20:58):
We're gonna call this one the Burke and Blend because
it's given elevated, it's giving sophistication, it's giving transitioning into
a new season. We all elevated and growing around here.
Over here at eighty five South, there are lines. So
in this one, we have either spirit, either tequila or vodka.
You can add any spirit you want at home. We
have some elderflower liquor, some lemon juice, and then we

(21:20):
topped it with a ginger lime sparkling water, so just
giving it like a little sprits. And then we garnish
it with a sage leaf. So this is actually like
a sprig of sage, just kind of getting rid of
any bad vibes welcoming in the autumn.

Speaker 1 (21:34):
So this is the burk and Blend. Cheers y'all. Ooh,
this is this islicious Ti Ti. We have to take
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Speaker 1 (23:10):
Y'all know, Can I just say this for this one second,
because I think me and you do a good job
of at the end of the day, Yes, I realized
because obviously we're not gonna talk about it because I
know y'all want us to. But like with the shits
and gigs things that happened and everybody was going crazy
on social media, I realized, oh shit, like we are are.
What we say holds a lot of weight, you know.

(23:32):
And that was a big realization for me because honestly,
I still feel like we in your living room sitting
on the floor and we're not. No I'm saying I
feel that way because I feel like I'm just talking
to my friend. Work doesn't feel like work, and I
think that's why the show is successful. But that moment,
it was a realization that I needed before something serious happens,

(23:55):
you know what I'm saying, before like something really happened.

Speaker 3 (23:57):
But I feel like we don't.

Speaker 2 (23:58):
Say nothing bad.

Speaker 1 (24:00):
We don't.

Speaker 2 (24:00):
We're very we're very conscious about the things that we say.

Speaker 1 (24:04):
But what I say, God gonna throw that that grain,
So that was our grain and weed that. But what
I'm saying is, you know, I see our audience and
that helped us see because, like I said, our words
hold a lot of weight, which I didn't know. That's
what I'm saying. Say So anyways, I say all that

(24:25):
to say in the midst of that, y'all fighting the
wars with shits and gigs. In the Atlanta comment, we
fighting the war because they're like, where fuck where is tight?

Speaker 4 (24:38):
And I try not to respond as I respond to
it because at the end of the day, like things
that we have going on, like Ty is a business woman,
she runs her own business.

Speaker 1 (24:49):
She has a lot going on, so I'm like, it's
not y'all business what her schedule is. So we you know,
we try not to respond. But it got to the
point where people were creating stories time. No, I had
to respond somebody, I ain't gonna lie. I did respond
to one. I had to.

Speaker 2 (25:03):
I did respond to one person because they had left
the commune because we had did the Act Normal podcast
with Jada Indish shout out to to Jada Indiez. But
we had did their podcast and we talked about an
intern that we had on the show, well for the show,
and then we ended up like this was like five
six years ago before we ever even had like any

(25:23):
staff or anything like. She was just then intern.

Speaker 1 (25:25):
We was not paying her because we had no money.

Speaker 2 (25:27):
Yeah, so we were talking about how we had to
like let her go because it had just got weird
or whatever, and somebody left the comment and they was like,
I know they said it was an intern, but I
think they talking about time nobody and I had a
respond back to them. I was just like being fucking
for real, y'all just be saying anything anything.

Speaker 1 (25:45):
It'd be so crazy because I've never.

Speaker 2 (25:47):
Been the narratives that people in their mind.

Speaker 1 (25:49):
Narratives like they felt like it was something like the
girl is working and she just y'all like I felt,
and that's what I was saying. I was like, y'all
have to realize, like we are only here two three
times a month. This is a part time job for
a lot of people, for everybody. So I was like, tis, well,

(26:16):
we be working though now not wes be working. We
be working. We be working so much now you we
are content queens now because you know what I know
we we haven't even gotten to these topics. I will
say this, I am tired, and I know I am

(26:38):
tired of seeing these brand trips and me and Dre
are not on these brand trips. Look at us, it's
so we have hair, always fly, make up always tea
fits be tea bodies, tea. We But this is the
thing though, because personalities, personalities tea. But I feel like
because this is where it comes in at cause y'all

(27:00):
see YouTube channels that get millions of views, and yes
they have influence, but y'all are still underestimating because it
can be somebody that has a million views, but how
many people are buying what they're selling? And one thing
is like, we're honest on this platform. We don't promote
nothing that we don't really like. So when we say something,
they know like okay, they're not lying like they really

(27:20):
like this product. So I feel like we should be
on these brand trips.

Speaker 2 (27:24):
Well yeah, and I don't think it's like necessarily a
million millions of viewers things, cause I be seeing people
who have like smaller platforms than us on brand trips.

Speaker 1 (27:32):
Well that's because I think they value quick content over
long content. We have a show that's an hour and
a half, but they don't realize people are sitting and
watching this show for an hour and a half versus somebody.
Attention span one thing I would say poor mindsets stood
the test of time with attention span because people like

(27:54):
TikTok videos. It's twenty seconds do I buy this foundation
or not tell me? And if you don't tell me
in twenty seconds, I'm scrolling. But we have stood the
test of time of people are paying attention to what
we say. We know that because Bopa the Week is
at the end of the show and they be like, damn, lex,
I love this song you put me on, So I
know y'all listening.

Speaker 2 (28:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (28:14):
So I think that a lot of these brands are
passing up the podcasts that are still here that have
an audience, and y'all are missing out on a whole
nother demographic of people. We have these older people that
aren't on social media. They have cable and they have
YouTube and they be on YouTube scrolling. They don't have Instagram,
they don't have TikTok. There are people out there like that.

(28:36):
They don't even know I have a TikTok. They don't
even know I have an Instagram. They you know what
I realized. Somebody walked up to me that they said,
oh you that girl from Facebook.

Speaker 2 (28:47):
I don't liam b on Facebook.

Speaker 1 (28:50):
Shaane runs our Facebook, but you know how much mine said,
I've been trying to build my personal Facebook. Guess how
many followers I got on there? Five hundred, five hundred.

Speaker 2 (29:00):
I don't even know how many followers I have on Facebook.
I think I might have like a thousand, but I
haven't been active on there since. I was like, so
I use money, and it's mostly my family and my
college friends.

Speaker 1 (29:12):
My personal Facebook is with my real name. That's for
my friends and my family. So I created another one.
It's a lex p Facebook.

Speaker 2 (29:20):
But all, yes, see, I don't have a dragon on
call on Facebook. I just have like, why I'm not
telling y'all money, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (29:27):
Because that's what I'm saying. I didn't realize it's a
two different thing. I didn't realize that. So Facebook has
a whole other thing you have to create. And I
was like, oh, I only have five hundred followers on there.
I'll be trying to post. But but that's what I say,
Like it'd be so much that we be missing out
on cause it be people who have whole careers and
are making hell of money on Facebook. But you know,

(29:48):
like I said, Shaye runs that for us. But I
feel like these brand trips y'all need to start including
podcasters on there.

Speaker 2 (29:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (29:55):
Like it's a lot of people in this space, like,
you know, even though it's like a taboo thing. But
I feel like even with the sex toys, sex toys
is a big industry. Imagine like a Horrible Decisions or
like a cocktails on a brand trip with like couples
or whatever, you know, going to the hedonism stuff like that.

Speaker 2 (30:18):
I ain't gonna lie. I was on Revolve the other
day because I love me some Revolve. I always be
on there shopping, buying clothes and stuff. I was on
Revolve the other day, right and I was like scrawling
new items. A rabbit came up. I said, Wow, a rabbit.

Speaker 1 (30:32):
What's a rabbit?

Speaker 2 (30:33):
You know what a rabbit is? I don't know have one.

Speaker 1 (30:35):
I don't have a rabbit.

Speaker 2 (30:36):
You don't have a rabbit.

Speaker 1 (30:37):
What's a rabbit?

Speaker 2 (30:41):
I ain't talking about the book, That's what I said.

Speaker 1 (30:43):
Bugs.

Speaker 5 (30:44):
No, yeah, a vibrator.

Speaker 2 (30:56):
But I was like scrawling the new items on Revolved.
And like literally they had a rabbit vibrator that Revolve
has everything it does. It's just like Walmart, Hi high
in Walmart.

Speaker 1 (31:07):
If you aren't on Revolve, I suggest everybody go. Revolve
has a lot of good.

Speaker 2 (31:13):
I get a lot of myself from Revolve, always be
taking it and stuff too. But yeah, you know they
definitely had a vibrator on that.

Speaker 1 (31:20):
Okay, So how about you want to get into these
topics of course, Jesus Christ, what's up y'all? As your
girl XP.

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(32:42):
this topic for weeks, and we keep talking talking so
long we don't get to it. Okay, So the first
top is today we want to talk about the desperation
of being in your thirties. So, as y'all know, I
just turned thirty five. Drea is thirty three, and we
are in a state of our lives, like where we

(33:02):
are noticing a lot of things have changed, whether it's
like women who write in on the show, women who
dm us, our friends, our family, and it's a lot
of desperation that happens in your thirties, and it's not
a bad thing. I think it's just the issue that
we need to address. So I personally feel like, and
this is going out to the women, because obviously I'm

(33:23):
a woman. I don't know what goes on with men
in their thirties and this and that, but this is
a woman conversation. I feel like people are so afraid
of being lonely and being single, especially in their thirties,
that they settle for anything. And what I've learned for
me personally, I have a value of certain things. I

(33:49):
value being single and happy versus settling for anything because
I'm not lonely. The feeling of being loneliness sucks, but
being with a partner who sucks is worse. It's a
hierarchy for me, Yeah, you know what I'm saying, so,

(34:09):
but that's not the same for everyone. Because I did
have a conversation with a friend of mine and she
was like, loneliness literally makes me feel like I want
to jump off a damn bridge. She's like, I can't
do it. I need partnership. I need something there. It
doesn't have to be deep, meaningful, I just I like
to have somebody next to.

Speaker 2 (34:27):
Me at m to see. That's where I feel like
it's a difference between being alone and lonely. Yeah, people
be it's okay to be alone because you need a
long time. Fact, being lonely I feel like for some
people is like debilitating. But that's where I feel like
you gotta do more in her work because you should

(34:48):
be okay with be abody yourself. You shouldn't need another
person to make you whole because at the end of
the day, like you were growing into this world. Well
I didn't want to say that because I know, like
you know, you got twins and shit. But but like technically,
even with twins like y'all are born at different times.

Speaker 1 (35:06):
Sometimes they be eating each other in the womb.

Speaker 2 (35:08):
Okay, alright, Like I have seen that, but usually the
one that's getting eight don't survive.

Speaker 1 (35:15):
That's what I'm saying. So you really you was almost
born with somebody, but you still born along.

Speaker 2 (35:22):
You was born into this world, Like it's just me.
I got a feeling for myself, all right. So I'm
just saying like I just feel like that's when you
have to do a little more inner word because I
really kind of pride myself on this, Like you have
to be okay with being by yourself. If you cannot
be by yourself and spend time by yourself, something is

(35:45):
wrong if you gotta always be in a relationship, if
you got to always be around somebody, if you had
to always be and it's not even just like a
romantic relationship necessarily to me, it's friendship. It's all type
of relationships. It could be with your parents whoever. But
if you always gotta be around somebody in a long time,
make you nervous. You need to do some more work

(36:05):
because you need to be okay with being alone. I
think that's a problem when people cannot be alone. It's
I understand yearning for a life partner. I think we
were all put on this earth, and like I personally
do believe everybody has a soul mate. Do I feel
like everybody gonna find them? No, it's a topic for
another time. I just feel like it's so many people

(36:28):
in the world, you may never find your person. Oh
my god, I did watching this show on I just
started watching this show on Netflix cause I was telling
you about it. I feel like the Good Place.

Speaker 1 (36:39):
Yes you did tell me.

Speaker 2 (36:40):
Yeah, yeah. So it's like an interesting, like little quirky show.
But I love like kind of like dead paining humor
type of shows, like I'm a big fan of like
The Office and stuff. So The Good Place is like
a very quirky show. But it's basically like when people die,
this is where you go. And like on the show
the People, everybody who has died, like you don't meet

(37:03):
your soulvate until you go to the Good Place. So
even if you didn't meet them on Earth, you meet
them when you die and you go to the Good Place.
So I was just saying it to say, like I
do feel like I don't know, I feel like everybody
has a soul. Maybe I'm not sure if you will
meet them in this lifetime.

Speaker 1 (37:20):
You know what I've realized. I don't mean to interrupt you.
What I've realized as I gotten older too, Like I
used to connect with people and I used to be
like devastated when it didn't go the way I wanted
to or break up. But what I'm really is realizing
is I'm such a worldly person. I have a personality
that gets along with a lot of people. So sometimes

(37:40):
I connect with somebody for a season, or sometimes it
may be a lifetime bond, whether it's friendship, family, or
by whatever it may be. So what I'm starting to
learn is I'll get this again. I'll get it again,
and if it's meant to be forever. That's why I
always say, am I in love right now? Absolutely? But
if we break up to me, I'm going to be okay.

(38:01):
And I've learned to be okay with that with like
I always was like, oh, I feel so stupid because
I be talking about this and I got a boyfriend
and then next week we break up, and I'm like,
now I'm okay with that, because yes, I love I'm
a lover, and I'm okay with that. I love love,
I love being in love. But guess what, I love myself.

Speaker 2 (38:20):
And I think people enjoy this type of stuff too
because they be feeling like if they break up with somebody,
they're not gonna find somebody else, so they be wanting
that for you.

Speaker 1 (38:32):
Yeah, And that's what I had to rap and I
gotta move on.

Speaker 2 (38:37):
I'm gonna move on and I'm gonna find somebody else
that I'm gonna find somebody else. Then I'm gonna find
somebody else until I find the one.

Speaker 1 (38:43):
Let me tell you how much I am that just
being real.

Speaker 2 (38:45):
Like, however, and to me, finding somebody else doesn't necessarily
mean you have to have all of these sexual partners.
But it's like, if me and somebody break up and
it does not work out, I'm gonna go on a
date and go on a date and going to day
until I find somebody else that I or get along
with and that I like. I enjoy my me toime

(39:07):
that is, But I think you gotta get to I
think you should get to that point before you start.

Speaker 1 (39:11):
That's what I'm saying, and that's what I was getting at.
So like I can wake up tomorrow and I'm gonna
be okay. Like I enjoy writing in my journal. I
write in my journal every day. I enjoy slaying in
my bed and watching True Crime did in my bed
lane feeling like I do be slaying in the bed.

(39:37):
But let me tell y'all how much it's like it's
about having confidence in yourself. Five years ago, I would
have never posted an HD video of me on Instagram,
on TikTok, on Twitter, on anything, bare face, don't makeup,
not a lick of nothing. I be on. I be
on my ship all the time. Nothing on but muse
beauty baby. Yes, nothing, fel this is who I am.

(40:02):
I used to try to quiet my voice down, not
be so loud. Somebody left a comment on our last
video and they were like, Lex, stop all that damn laughing.
It's not that damn funny. Yes the fuck it is.
Everything is funny to me, bro, and I don't be playing.
I'll be laughing. Everything is funny. I don't take shit serious.
Me and Dre could be in the car or get

(40:23):
pulled over. I'm laughing my ass.

Speaker 2 (40:26):
Funny to me. When people be thinking I'm serious.

Speaker 1 (40:29):
And they be like, oh, look at Drea joining in, bitch,
they'd be like, I love when Drea joins in. What
wouldn't be starting at half the time?

Speaker 2 (40:39):
What also?

Speaker 1 (40:40):
I too?

Speaker 2 (40:41):
Take nothing serious? Nothing serious, But.

Speaker 1 (40:44):
That's what I feel like. That's what life is supposed
to be, Like I'm meant to be enjoyed, like we're
supposed to have fun. We're supposed to enjoy it, whether
I'm with friends or not. Let me tell you something.
I be in my house having a ball by myself.
You know what I did this morning? Well, I feel
like if they.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
Had, like if somebody ever hit a camera in my house,
Oh my god, I'm so embarrassed. I'll be doing some
embarrassing stuff song this morning.

Speaker 1 (41:09):
Calm me. If you need someone to talk to, calm me. Satisfaction,
I turn that shit on. I was cleaning up, calm me, okay,
And I had a ball for literally like, no, it's
not embarrassing. It's not No, that's not embarrassing. But what
I'm saying is I have fun alone. You caused that.

Speaker 2 (41:33):
You take themselves too serious, like I can't be around you.

Speaker 1 (41:36):
Yeah. So I feel like in your thirties, in your thirties,
I understand women. Trust me as a woman who was
thirty five, never been married, don't have kids, Do not
get so desperate for partnership and children that you're settling
for anything. That's what I wanted to say.

Speaker 2 (41:53):
But also too, like whatever is for you. I think
when people get in a mindset and really accept that,
like whatever is for you, it's for you, can nobody
stop what's in your past? Can't nobody stop what God
already has ordained for your life. So it's like, once
you really truly believe that and live your life that way,
you are not worried about timelines. I feel like that's

(42:16):
why I can honestly say like at this point in
my life, I don't be worried about timelines, Like, yes,
I still want to have kids, Yes I want to
get married. Yeah, it's certain career heights and career goals
and stuff that I have that I haven't reached it.
But I'm not worried about it because to me, it's
not a matter of if, it's a matter of when.
Come on, God, Yeah, it's a matter of when. It's like,

(42:39):
it's not about if it's gonna happen, it's when it's
gonna happen. Because God has showed me time and time
again that whatever it is that I manifest and that
I want for my life, as long as I put
the work in, it's gonna all come to fruition. I
think that people be scared because they ain't got enough
faith and also a story for another time.

Speaker 1 (42:57):
That is a story for another time. But I also
feel like y'all like to think that y'all have more
control than what y'all.

Speaker 2 (43:07):
Do, are more controlled than what God has.

Speaker 1 (43:09):
Hello. Yeah, because like I said, y'all know that all
that stuff that happened, you know, and it was what
we just talked about. It was literally people like, oh,
cancel Lex and Dre, cancel it. But one thing I
can say.

Speaker 2 (43:26):
Can't cancel mepectfully.

Speaker 1 (43:28):
But no, no, no, but.

Speaker 4 (43:31):
No.

Speaker 1 (43:31):
But let me say this though, because I feel like
one thing I can say about me and my friend,
we don't have a malicious bone in our body. I'd
have met people who are literally malicious people and they
do mean things. So I say all that to say
is we are so spiritual and we move in that
so we're gonna learn our lesson. We're gonna learn our lesson.

(43:54):
But it's not on you to say this is not
what we're supposed to be doing. They need to be canceled.
That's not your say.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
So you know what I'm saying. Nobody has say so
over there.

Speaker 1 (44:04):
Yes, but it's very Yeah, a lot of very week
A lot of people just be very negative, you know
what I mean, And I feel like they be speaking
from a place of not being able to do themselves. Yeah,
but I don't know, going back to like being desperate
in your thirties, I definitely feel like women for sure
get desperate when they get in a thirties and they
just be settling for anything when it comes to relationships,

(44:26):
when it comes to career choices, when it comes to friendships,
people are so afraid of being alone. But it's like,
if you find solace and you find peace within yours,
if you really love yourself, you're not afraid of being alone.

Speaker 2 (44:37):
Being alone is the most peaceful place that you could
be if you really love yourself and have a good
relationship with self. Like, it's okay, Like I understand wanting camaraderie,
wanting to be around other people. Liked camaraderie, wanting to fellowship,
Like that's normal. We humans. Like nobody wants to be

(44:58):
by theyself all the time.

Speaker 1 (45:00):
Nobody wants to.

Speaker 2 (45:01):
Be a.

Speaker 1 (45:04):
Sorry but no.

Speaker 2 (45:05):
You're right though, Like it's like nobody wants to be
and usher was right too, Nobody want to be alone.

Speaker 1 (45:13):
Oh soon.

Speaker 2 (45:15):
So it's fine to want to be around people, but
it's like if you're depending on those relationships, that's when
it becomes a problem. And then I think a lot
of the time, that's when people start putting up with bullshit.

Speaker 1 (45:27):
That's what I wanted to get into. Yeah, the bullshit
you dealing with somebody who is fighting all these demons
who got their own things going on, problems that they
need to solve. They have no business being in your bed,
being in your presence, because a lot of times you
be like this pot a lot women. I'll say this,

(45:48):
The number one thing we have people say are people
that DM me and they say, I was such a
happy person, I was so positive and then I just
turned to something out I never I didn't even recognize
myself anymore. And it's like, yeah, because you are dealing
with something just because you don't want to be by yourself.

Speaker 2 (46:06):
And to be fair, can I say these two like,
I hate when people say stuff like that, because nobody
could turn you into the thing.

Speaker 1 (46:13):
You know what I'll say people, can I feel like
you always?

Speaker 2 (46:17):
But you you always have control over how you respond
and how you react to things. You have control over
how you let things affect you.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
True, but somebody can bring just like somebody can bring
out the good in you, somebody can bring out the
bad in you. If they if you let them stay
around long enough. Now, some people are blessed enough to
recognize those signs, but if you don't and you let
that person stay in your life, that ugly side is
gonna come out. So you are not recognizing yourself anymore

(46:47):
because you've allowed this person to stay in your life.
So that's what I'm talking about because that was me.
I've been there before of trying to fight for something
because you think, oh, this is my person. Let me
tell you how much. I'm not staying with nothing no more.

Speaker 2 (47:01):
But I feel like all the signs be pointing to
that's not your person, and people be trying to be like,
that's my person because it's the desperation.

Speaker 1 (47:09):
And I can say that for myself, Yeah, it was
the desperation because I was scared to be alone because they'd.

Speaker 2 (47:14):
Be like, all the signs is pointing there, this is
not God. God did not say this, He did not
see this. I'd be like, God, whatever show you show me, yeah,
or whatever you believe in, whether it's God, whether it's
the universe, whatever it is that you believe in, Like
they didn't see in this person. And I feel like
the signs be there, but people still be like, no,

(47:37):
I know you. I'm going to prove that it is
my person.

Speaker 1 (47:40):
And no matter how good of a woman you are,
no matter let me say this sah, say this to
the camera, not this sigh. No matter how good of
a woman you are, If that person is not for you,
that person is not for you.

Speaker 2 (47:56):
And also realize the signs when these niggas don't want
to when and let me not even say niggas. When
people don't want to be with you no more, realize
them signs too, because I think sometimes people be trying
to show people that they don't want to be with
the person no more because that they have like nuts.

Speaker 1 (48:11):
They'd be like to be too much in them and
they don't have the they don't they can't let them nut.

Speaker 2 (48:16):
Change yeah, the sign and say no, I don't want
you no more. And they'd be like, I can't read men.

Speaker 1 (48:20):
And let me tell y'all, women, we like it in
black and white. Men love a good gray. They love
them gray sweatsuits. Bitch, But that's where what But that's
what I'm saying. Men are not gonna tell you. Women,
be like, if you want to.

Speaker 2 (48:34):
Be with me, just tell the men the sign's gonna
tell you they're not.

Speaker 1 (48:39):
A man is never gonna want to tell you. His
actions are gonna tell you, because a man that wants
to be with you is gonna look at you in
your face say hey, I'm gonna I want to be
with you, but he's gonna show you.

Speaker 2 (48:50):
Yeah. I feel like it's just a lot of things.
You know, women when they get today thirties, they be
like wanting to have kids, they be wanting to get married.
I think that when you're in your twenties, you feel
like you have so much time, and like nobody talks
about that. But the crazy thing is when you get
to your thirties, you have so much time too, because
like life expectancy is like seventy something eighty something years old,

(49:11):
you have time to have children. But I think that
people have always been taught that, like, oh if you
don't have because if you look at Halle Barry, look
at Janet, Yeah, look at Helle, look at Helle Barry,
look at Jenny. But I also think when you look
back to like our grandparents, me too.

Speaker 1 (49:26):
Time.

Speaker 2 (49:27):
I think when you also look back to like our grandparents,
our aunties, our parents, like everybody was having children really
young and then I feel like our generation, like the Millennials,
really changed this shit. But then I feel like gen
Z back on their bullshit.

Speaker 1 (49:41):
Well, I'll say this, GenZ, gen Z be popping in
babi Gennials because we care about we care about being
financially stable. Millennials were the first generation to say, hey,
I don't give a fuck about this job. I'm moving around,
You're not paying me enough, and I'm gonna tell this
next job what I want. Our parents were taught to

(50:04):
stay there and hold it down. Our parents were saying
hold it down to everything. Millennials were not holding down.

Speaker 2 (50:11):
Shop, hold it down, pop, hold it down. We ain't
holding down nothing, bro. Now we not holding down she
we not holding down a job. We not hold it
out on me nothing. We hold it down.

Speaker 1 (50:22):
But that's how you get one line.

Speaker 2 (50:24):
Yeah, yeah you do.

Speaker 1 (50:26):
Now you want to HOLDO. You already know THO you
only live once. That's the mottel yo yoo A word
a word?

Speaker 2 (50:37):
What's it they said that? I don't know. I just
feel like it makes me sad because I feel like
people be feeling like they don't have enough time when
in reality, I mean, technically that is kind of true,
because you don't know how much time you have here.
But that's why you just have to live your life
like every day is y'r last day. But at the
end of the day, don't do no shep that you

(50:58):
don't want to do just because you scared that you
don't have enough time.

Speaker 1 (51:01):
Right. And I'll say this, so when I'm imagine if
it's meant for you, what is your like like when
you can say I did it, Like what does that
look like to you?

Speaker 2 (51:13):
Like life?

Speaker 1 (51:14):
Yeah, like when you were like, Okay, this is what
I was supposed to do in life.

Speaker 2 (51:17):
I feel like I've said this before, Like I feel
like for me, it's just being able to wake up
every day and do exactly whatever it is that I
want to do, Like being able to afford whatever I
want to afford if I want to go somewhere, if
I want to take my friends somewhere, if I want
to do something for my mom, I could just wake
up on a random Tuesday and be like, Okay, I
did that. So for me, it's that plus for sure,

(51:40):
like having a family is important to me. Like I
feel like if something happened to me and I didn't
never get to have a family, I would be sad
about that, you know. So I feel like having a family,
waking up to my waking up to my kids, waking
up to my husband and our beautiful home, and we
both extremely accessible and accomplished, and then just also being

(52:02):
able to do for the people around me and also
do for other people, because I really want to be
more like philanthropy the more money I made, like, I
really want to like give back to the community and
stuff like that. More so for me, that's when I
feel like I made it. Yeah, Like it's not necessarily
a certain number in my bank account. Yeah, I do

(52:26):
think you need to have a certain number in there, right,
But but for me, it's not a certain number that
I need to see. It's more about the things that
I'll be able to do for other people.

Speaker 1 (52:37):
Okay, that's fair. Yeah, I like that. I like that.

Speaker 2 (52:42):
What is it for you?

Speaker 1 (52:43):
I think for me, I always ask myself this. I
ask myself this a lot because sometimes I find myself
unhappy and sad or and I'm just like and then
I'll get a tweet, or I'll get a DM or
you'll call me, your KILLO call me, and it'll lift
my spirits up. But what I've realized is everything I've

(53:06):
wanted my entire life, I'm doing it now. I think
I try to find my happiness and other people and
materialistic things, and I realized I was sent on here
to make people laugh and make people happy, and I'm
doing that right now. That's why I say a lot
of times we're so busy chasing our dreams and you

(53:28):
don't realize you're living it. And I think for my dream,
it was like I just want to make people feel good.
So I'm like, damn, like I'm living it right now,
like I'm doing what I always wanted to do, and
that's entertained people.

Speaker 2 (53:46):
Yeah. I think people run from their purpose a lot
because they be afraid of who that can really be
if they tap into it.

Speaker 1 (53:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (53:52):
I think you do that for sure. Yeah, and I
think we both do. I think we both do that,
of course, because I think you run away from like
I feel like you're a giving gifts is like making
people laugh, yeah, yeah, like for real, for real, Like
I feel like everybody has their talents, everybody has that
thing that God gave them that makes them special that

(54:15):
they need to tap into, and that's like your purpose.

Speaker 1 (54:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (54:17):
Yeah, So I feel like for you, your purpose is definitely
like your humor. It's making people laugh, it's being able
to put people in a good mood. But I feel
like you definitely run from me a little bit at
times cause I feel like you're afraid of the rejection.
Well no people, but everybody thinks you're so funny.

Speaker 1 (54:37):
Well you know what it is. I think it's because
how I want to do it.

Speaker 2 (54:41):
I think in your head, yeah, I know.

Speaker 1 (54:44):
How I want to do it, and that's what I'm like, Okay,
this because I have to listen to myself and I
have to listen to like God and what he's leading
me to. And I know what I feel comfortable with,
so I know that route that I'm taking and what
the next steps that I'm doing. But like I said,
I think for me, for so long, I thought, oh,
once I make this amount of money, I'm gonna be

(55:06):
happy and everything's gonna be okay. And once I get this,
everything's gonna be okay. And I got there, and I'm like,
the thing that makes me happy constantly is coming here
and being able to have a community that accepts me

(55:27):
and that understands me and that sees me. And now
I can make them feel good because that makes me
feel good.

Speaker 2 (55:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (55:32):
Because I say all that because, like I said, I
spent so much time being unhappy and feeling like, oh
my god, I just need money. I just need this,
Louisvason bag, I just need this. And once I got that,
I was like, what the fuck is this? You get
you get the good man, you get the rich nigga,
you get the this, and you get to that. I'm like,

(55:52):
for me though, I was like, I am a people person.
That's why when all that stuff happened, That's why I
keep bringing it up, cause I know. But I was
just like, oh, I know how it feels to feel
on the outside and feeling like you don't have nowhere
to be. And one thing I can say about poor minds,
we have done an amazing job of creating a space

(56:13):
for black women to come and feel seen, no matter
how you look, how you dress, your body type, your
body shape, your sexual orientation. Like, this is a safe
space and I never want anybody to feel like you're
outside of that, because I know how it feels to
feel on the outside and you don't know where you belong.

Speaker 2 (56:31):
Yeah, I mean I get it. I think, like I said,
like I was going back to what I was saying,
like I feel like people run from their gifts all
the time. Like I feel like I'm kind of like
my power is in like being transparent. But I feel
like for a very long time, like I ran from
like transparence. Yeah, sharing myself, like sharing my full self
with people. And I feel like, but I'm starting to realize,

(56:53):
like that's one of the main things that people love
for me, is like love it my transparency. How I
alway be saying some real shit. I always got to profit, Okay, stop?
Profit is such like it. I mean, that's yeah, that's fair,
But I feel like that's such like a deep word,

(57:15):
but that holds a lot of meaning behind it, a
lot of profound things that people need. Yeah, I do.
I do. I think that I do say a lot
of profound things that people need to hear because I've
been through a lot of shit that I've seen people
don't really know that I've been through because like again
I said, I've always ran from kind of like I
just always feel like I'm almost to keep my busing
to myself, which is fine to a certain extent. I

(57:35):
do feel like when you get in the space that
we're in. It is certain parts of your life that
you have to keep private, right if you want to
remain happy and you want to remain sane. But I
do think it's parts of myself that I don't share
with people, are having shared with people over the years
that I've started to finally share, and I feel like
it really do be helping people. Yeah, so I think

(57:56):
you know, both of us, like we have to just
learn to like live in our truth and our truths
and our gifts and like, you know, that's what people
look for us for. But it's scary, it is, but
that I feel like that should be the desperation in
your thirties, the fine self to find your purpose.

Speaker 1 (58:15):
It shouldn't be a man. I get all upset when
I see women that I know, women that write in
like you have the world at your fingertips just because
you're thirty five. I'm not settling for nothing.

Speaker 2 (58:29):
But I do think society makes you can't blame women
for that, because that's all we've been taught. Like even
look into my family, like.

Speaker 1 (58:36):
I have uns right now, Who'll be like we gonna
have a baby, Yeah, yeah, we're gonna have a baby.

Speaker 2 (58:41):
Yeah, you know, and it's like cause they had kids
at like nineteen and twenty and that's cool, but like
that wasn't my journey, that wasn't my path, and that's okay,
but look how hard and I didn't want your children
have to do that.

Speaker 1 (58:55):
When I if I'm blessed with a child, or if
I ever have a child, I want my child to
have an easy life.

Speaker 2 (59:01):
You can't say if you say when i's or if
for when?

Speaker 1 (59:05):
I don't know, But like I said, what no matter
what I say, if it's in my path, it's gonna
have to happen. So I say that because I don't know,
but I want when I when, or if if when.
I want my child to be like I can do anything.
By the time my oldest nephew graduates high school, I
want him to be like I can do anything because

(59:26):
my aunts he did this X y Z, I got
all the connections in the world. Because that's fool. That's
all had kids at a young age. But what were
your kids able to do off the strength of you?
And I don't believe that a child's like I don't
necessarily like the word legacy because it's not your child's
job to carry on your legacy or have that pressure.

(59:47):
I hate that. I do hate that, but I do
feel like they should have the options.

Speaker 2 (59:52):
And I do hate when people be saying stuff like
that too. Like somebody had actually left the comment under
one of the episodes we just did recent and they
was like, well, if y'all gonna have kids, y'all need
to have them soon.

Speaker 1 (01:00:03):
I've seen it, You've seen it all that they said.

Speaker 2 (01:00:05):
They was like, if y'all gonna have kids, y'all need
to have them soon because if not, if y'all, y'all
are gonna be forty having like a five year old
or a four year old. So if you don't have
them in the next five years, y'all just shouldn't have them.
And I'll just be like, okay, well, like should I
have had one at twenty two like you? And then
they eighteen and like they don't have a college fund.

Speaker 1 (01:00:27):
Fun they like the things that I went through in
my late twenty I'm just saying, like, I hate when
people try to put those timeframes on people, like, oh,
you're not gonna be able to run with your kids,
You're not gonna be able to play with them. Why
cause maybe I be in the gym. I be in
the gym four or five times a week.

Speaker 2 (01:00:42):
I'm very healthy, I'm very I very much can run
and hang with my child. Like what are y'all talking about?
But people try to put that pressure on you because
it's something that they did. And it's like, I didn't
need to have a kid at twenty two, and because
you had one in twenty two, does that make you
better than me because you provide for your child more
than I will be able to provide for mine when

(01:01:03):
I have them at forty.

Speaker 1 (01:01:05):
And also probably not what I went through in my
late twines.

Speaker 2 (01:01:10):
Like that too, make you feel bad about that too,
Like they be like, oh, well, having a nanny, you're
not really being a prison parent. How am I not
being a prison parent because I can afford help. Is
it because you could not afford help that you feel
that way or it's because you feel like I'm really
not present because I'm there.

Speaker 1 (01:01:29):
And let me say something to that too, because people
always say it takes a village. It does take a village.
What's the difference between your baby staying with your sister
or the grandmama or me having a nanny. It ain't
no difference. It takes a village period. So if I
can hire help because I don't have, you know, a

(01:01:51):
mother or a sister or a brother to be here,
it's a village.

Speaker 2 (01:01:55):
I think sometimes people just be mad at the privilege,
because honestly, being able to have a child later in
life is a privilege. And I feel like that's the
problem that people don't look at it like that and
acknowledge it like that, because that's what it is. Yeah,
being able to have a child later in life is
a privilege. Being able to be financially stable when you
finally decide to start a family is a privilege. A
lot of people did not have that privilege, and I

(01:02:17):
think it makes people feel some type of way that
you have the audacity to like both about it, I
guess to well and be grateful. I don't want to
say both about it, but just be grateful for the
fact that because I'm grateful, like no part of me
the older I get when I was younger, I'm not
gonna lie like I used to be, like, oh, I
feel like I missed out on my opportunity to like

(01:02:38):
have a baby, because you know, we've talked about these before,
and like I feel know we both was in situations
where like when we were younger, we could have had
kids with people. But and I used to for a
while feel like, oh I should have did these at
that moment, But like now that I'm thirty three, I'd
be like, fuck no, my quality of life would have

(01:02:58):
been so fucking fuck up if I would have had
and not like the quality as far as like material
or monetary thing, because I would have been straight in
that lane. But when it comes to my mental the
ship I would have had to deal with on a
normal basis, Like I'm so grateful that I decided not
to want not I decided, but God decided for me

(01:03:20):
to not have to take that route, you know what
I mean, And like it's okay when things and I'm
comfortable now at thirty three that when things are going
to happen for me is going to happen, and God
gonna make sure that it happened with the right person,
because one thing I know for show at this point
in my life, my ancestors and God don't play about me,

(01:03:42):
he loo at all.

Speaker 1 (01:03:43):
And that's what I said. I can imagine being they
don't play God period. How bad I struggled up there
doing his beag. That's what I'm saying. Like, being in
my late twenties, I struggled so bad. I cannot imagine
having a child. Yeah, what I was going through and
trying to find myself, trying to find emotional intelligence, trying

(01:04:06):
to be a better person for me, but also while
raising a child. That's why I say a lot of
women and a lot of men, just everybody. A lot
of people give your parents grace. They didn't have time
to go to therapy, they didn't have time to do
self gross because they were self growth, because they were
raising children.

Speaker 2 (01:04:25):
And I know so many people who be like fan
little stuff WHI ch'all know. They don't feel like it's
a bad thing to say, but I know too many
people they be like men, if I knew what I knew,
if I knew what I knew now, I wouldn't have
had my key with these person. I love my baby,
but I wouldn't have had my baby with this person.
And to me, that's like, it's not a terrible thing

(01:04:46):
to say, but it's just like, that's why you should
wait if you can.

Speaker 1 (01:04:50):
Everybody, I'm not gonna lie to you. Nine out of
ten people I know they have children say they wish
they would have waited. I only know one person that
was like this was right and it was their second.

Speaker 2 (01:05:02):
Kids, and then then like it was right, and then
them nine out of ten people be the ones that
be coming in unto our under our videos telling us
that we should have had one five years ago.

Speaker 1 (01:05:11):
Right, and tell me about you and your baby daddy relationship.
That's why it's a baby daddy No shade, no shade,
but I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:05:20):
It's a little shad. No, it's not shade though.

Speaker 1 (01:05:22):
But there's nothing wrong with waiting, and it's nothing wrong
with working on self. So the desperation in your thirties, hey,
focus on yourself.

Speaker 2 (01:05:33):
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to get into the b bow bow Bow Bow Bow
bow Bow. So today I wanted to talk about this.

(01:06:39):
I wanted to let the hype die down. I had
to let it die down because it's been so much
going on and we do not talk about hot topics
on this show. But this led to the bed topic
today because I was having a discussion with somebody and
this is why I felt like it was like a
little weird. Okay, so obviously it's the bed. We're grown,

(01:07:02):
we're adults, we're talking about Shannon Sharp and what went
on a few weeks ago, a month ago with whenever
he was on live having an adult situation with his michelles.
His michelles. It's only one, but he said his michelles.

Speaker 2 (01:07:21):
I know he said it with one, no apostrophe.

Speaker 1 (01:07:25):
He is, Oh, he's gonna add to that. That's on it.

Speaker 2 (01:07:28):
Oh michelles, maybe two of them, twin sisters.

Speaker 1 (01:07:35):
But a lot of people were coming out saying they
felt like it was a PR move because I'm not
saying nothing about I don't know nothing about nothing. But
they were saying it was a PR move because people
be saying whatever about his sexuality.

Speaker 2 (01:07:49):
Having sex for a PR move, that's the topic.

Speaker 1 (01:07:51):
No pleased, but people do that.

Speaker 2 (01:07:54):
That is a good topic.

Speaker 1 (01:07:55):
But like a question, I feel like this stop questions
people's sexuality unless they talk about it. Yeah, first of all,
that's so ain't never said nothing about this in X
y Z lead that man alone when it comes to that.
But a lot of people were saying they felt like
it was a PR move and that's why he was
making it sure it was known that it was a woman,

(01:08:16):
and that's why he was saying her name. So I
wanted to talk about because the conversation I had with
this person.

Speaker 2 (01:08:24):
It was like a back and forth.

Speaker 1 (01:08:25):
Do men be moaning women's name?

Speaker 2 (01:08:27):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (01:08:28):
Do they be be like my drill drill.

Speaker 1 (01:08:37):
Brow br br.

Speaker 2 (01:08:42):
First of all, do they anybody ever moaned my name
like that? I would get up and fucking leave. But
so no, because, first of all, the way he was
moaning that lady name, he sounded like a geriatric senior cee.
The scene he was saying it like his name is Odie's,
like how Cornelie?

Speaker 1 (01:09:01):
He was saying, come on, give us an example. I'm
fama ship.

Speaker 2 (01:09:07):
Mmm, like I don't know. Don't say my fucking name
like that, like fuck what Beyonce was said, don't say
my name if you don't say it, don't say my
fucking name. If you don't say it like this, don't
say it all. Just I'll just be quiet.

Speaker 1 (01:09:26):
Yeah I'm not.

Speaker 2 (01:09:27):
I'll put my hand over a nigga my mouth real quick.

Speaker 1 (01:09:31):
No, because I just like men. I think it's more
of a like have I had a man say my
name before? Yes? But was it something necessarily that turned
me on? Not really, I'm more sot of like just
say baby na damn like you can say my name,
but I don't know. It's just not a thing that

(01:09:54):
I'm just like.

Speaker 2 (01:09:55):
No, yeah, let's super into not gonna lot to you.
That's not my signature move. If you start saying something
that I don't like, I'd be like, oh, like you.

Speaker 1 (01:10:05):
Cover their mouth, cover their mouth. Okay, okay, Well I've
never had a situation well.

Speaker 2 (01:10:10):
No, but I make it sexy. I do it slow.

Speaker 1 (01:10:13):
That's you. That's not slow.

Speaker 2 (01:10:15):
I'm gonna do it slow and then I'm gonna just grab.

Speaker 1 (01:10:19):
But no, But do I feel like men be saying
a woman's name a lot? Like I said, I've been.
I've had situations where a man said my name, but
it wasn't necessarily like oh it turned me on.

Speaker 2 (01:10:30):
Oh, I like I know now if they say like like,
if you said that the right, you gotta That's why
you gotta be with a man who know how to
like talk and big.

Speaker 1 (01:10:40):
Yes, yeah, most men don't know how to do that. Somebody.

Speaker 2 (01:10:44):
You gotta be with somebody who knows how to talk
about my nigven know how to talk.

Speaker 1 (01:10:47):
To me, right.

Speaker 2 (01:10:48):
But what I'm saying, if you get with somebody who
know how to do that then like, yeah, it's fine.

Speaker 1 (01:10:55):
I love it. It wasn't given that. But what what
was crazy about it was a lot of women was like, oh,
I wanted to see the tape. I wanted to see it.
Oh he sounded sexy. No he did it. It did
sounds and he sounded like no about the ass out,
it's no shade. And I said this on live. But

(01:11:17):
like if it would have been like, oh, Cho Sinko
and his wife because o't yo fine and his wife fine?
I think, don't y'all know what he's saying a little bit,
that would have been more believable. But Shannon, it wasn't
given when it was supposed to give. Michelle's, Michelle's, Michelle's. No,

(01:11:38):
it didn't get it didn't do it for me. So
the girls I was like, oh, Shannon, they was in
the comments like oh, and then he sold this. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:11:46):
I wasn't feeling it. I felt like it was like
nineteen fifty three.

Speaker 1 (01:11:49):
Yes, like we were trying to hurry him for a
master came in.

Speaker 2 (01:11:53):
Whoa, it wasn't slavery in nineteen fifty three.

Speaker 1 (01:11:56):
But it was colored. But maybe that's what I'm saying.
It was colors only it was given colors only sex.

Speaker 2 (01:12:05):
It was, well, that's only sex. I don't like.

Speaker 1 (01:12:11):
But what I'm saying, okay, outside of that, I'm just saying,
like I don't mind a man saying my name during sex.

Speaker 2 (01:12:18):
But like you said, do you like for them to
say a real name or do you like for them
to call you lex pe?

Speaker 1 (01:12:22):
No, don't call me lex Pi in the bedroom because
it's given fan because every man that I've dated that
I've been in a serious situation with, they call me
by my real name. Don't say it like that because
that's how he used to say.

Speaker 2 (01:12:35):
I know, I'm just imagining in my head that.

Speaker 1 (01:12:43):
I hate you for that. But no, so if you
call me lex or LEXP and bed turn off, I
don't like that. That's why I said, like you could
say my name in bed. It's not like a thing
that I like. Oh you have to say it. But
like I said, I like my my like my little
pet names that we call each other in real life,
so you can say that.

Speaker 2 (01:13:03):
That's more like you know, I like the pet names.
But I'm gonna ask you what's my name name? Back
of ballet s P A C A A and.

Speaker 1 (01:13:17):
D E.

Speaker 2 (01:13:19):
I E Spack of Valley A. You are so wrong
for them spelling shit out here.

Speaker 1 (01:13:28):
Okay, so let us know, do y'all like when a
man says, y'all now.

Speaker 2 (01:13:32):
Like I can, it's sticky, But just not when he
got there old men, girl, Oh that's not like sting
thrills Trey songs I ain't never seen.

Speaker 3 (01:13:48):
I know, But if he did, he like drill drill, drill, drill.

Speaker 1 (01:14:02):
You can stop now, that's how he was saying. No,
he would not say, I don't even want to picture
that you y'all. Okay, No, No, what's up, y'all?

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out the bob Bow Bow Bow Bow Bow. Okay, So
my Bob of the Week this week is by I
hope I'm saying this right because I'm be messing up. Everybody.
Name is Bob Malayah. She just dropped the project and
it's called oh damn, I don't know what, but the
song is called do It out of love. And this

(01:15:53):
kind of goes into the topic we were talking today
because a lot of times if you heard that title
like do what I Love, you would think it's talking
about doing something for someone out of love. But what
I resonated from this song, and that's why I love music,
because you can interpret a song however you want to
interpret it. So I interpreted it as self love and

(01:16:13):
how to love yourself. You're doing everything out of love
for yourself. You can't love anybody until you love yourself properly.
So it is such a beautiful song. She has such
an amazing voice, It's very rich. It's something about the
girls that are just eating up the R and B
right now. So Malaya do it out of love? That's

(01:16:34):
my bop of the week. Fire shout out to you, Malia.
You did your big one.

Speaker 2 (01:16:40):
Now ain't about love, that's all right, That's all to
do with love. So Future, just drop the mix tape
you went wait to the album called mixtape Okay, and
you know I'm a huge I'm a future saying I

(01:17:01):
have been a future staying for a while now, probably
for like the past ten years. Like we go way
back to peak Coats peak Coat Burt berry and it's
hurt me coat. Yeah, that was our shit because.

Speaker 1 (01:17:16):
It's so crazy because people always put okay, people always
put March Madness as the number one no.

Speaker 2 (01:17:23):
But that's how you know they wasn't really in the
trench man. What peakat was that girl?

Speaker 1 (01:17:27):
Because even with itching my fingers day, my mama said,
that's not what I wanted to do a love song.

Speaker 2 (01:17:36):
Okay, but it's okay, okay, maybe we could do that
my savagies. Like I'm telling y'all like I've been a
Future staying for real before like all of like the
commercial here. So anyways, Future just had an album that
just drops called Mixtape Pluto. He got this song on
there called two Fast. I like this song, okay, I

(01:17:57):
love you know me. I love any song on where
they be talking about on the girl by.

Speaker 1 (01:18:04):
What I do.

Speaker 2 (01:18:07):
I love it because I feel like, treat your girl nice,
not on any girl, but y girl. Yeah, treat your
girl nice, like you should do what do for her?
And I mean tricking and whatever aspect that mean the
hood like if she like cook Wears, take her to

(01:18:27):
home Goods, and she likes Chanelle, take us to Chanil.

Speaker 1 (01:18:30):
Let me tell you I'm not gonna lie. See y'all
if she likes putting them on game right now. If
a man took me the home goods and said, go stupid, yeah,
I'm gonna get that cat, getting that cat immediately.

Speaker 2 (01:18:42):
Anna, what I'm gonna go stupid? If you take me
to home you know what means.

Speaker 1 (01:18:49):
You know what means more to me?

Speaker 2 (01:18:50):
Though?

Speaker 1 (01:18:51):
I like Chanel, I got a Chanel, I got it,
I got a couple of Chanels. What means more to me?
Take me the restoration and say, get a couch for
restorational hardware. That a couch from restoration hardware. I know
if I walk in somebody house, I can see Chanell's
all day. I'm not impressed. If I see that rh

(01:19:12):
on the tag underneath, and then you know when you
get rh that are why are you lifting people cushions up?
Because that's what I do because I'm like, where you
got this from? This whole is nice. It's the fucking fuck.
If I see that rh on there, I know you
mean business.

Speaker 2 (01:19:30):
Yeah That's what I'm saying, So like whatever, whatever, yo, girl,
like I feel like you should treat her nice and
buy it for her soul. Anyways, Yeah, I'm an advocate.

Speaker 1 (01:19:40):
Put out the future shout out to restoration hardware.

Speaker 2 (01:19:44):
But the whole facts. Somebody, one of y'all need to
give us a sponsorship future or restorational harm.

Speaker 1 (01:19:50):
I'll take both.

Speaker 2 (01:19:50):
I take either one or both of them. So yeah,
I love that song, but the whole, Honestly, the whole,
the whole album is good. But I me future albums.

Speaker 1 (01:20:01):
I mean, he's a he's a classic. He gives us albums,
kind of like how Prince does.

Speaker 2 (01:20:07):
He really don't think he's like the Sinatra of our generation.

Speaker 1 (01:20:10):
Absolutely, I think he is how people feel about Sinatra
and classical music. It's how people in rap feel about future.

Speaker 2 (01:20:18):
It's not even about rap. I feel like, one hundred
years from now, this is gonna be classical music.

Speaker 1 (01:20:24):
I don't think it'll be classical, but I think for
the raps stays, future music is legendary. It does it
ages well. Futures music agees well. There's some rappers who
are so hot at one time, and I listen to
that music don't replay value. Futures replay value is one

(01:20:48):
hundred percent, and there's not a lot of artists that
can do that. You know who has replay value Let's
Day is an Artists who have replay value Beyonce, Anita Baker,
Anita Baker, Rihanna, Riah Carey, jay Z, Wayne Lord, Wayne Drake, Future.

(01:21:08):
But we're talking we sa Nicki Minaj. These are artists
who replay value is one hundred Frank, but Frank Ocean.
If we're talking about Frank replay value, okay, it's through
the roof. I'm talking about if you listen to an

(01:21:29):
album and you can listen to it ten years from now,
and that whole still slap. What's what's the name of
that first Frank Ocean album? God, oh my god, life changing, nostalgia,
ultra life changing. I can still put that on.

Speaker 2 (01:21:49):
And I'm gonna tell y'all something. I don't care. I'm
gonna be ninety years old still listening to Nova Kane.
That's my that whole album Forever Swim good, Yes, oh my.

Speaker 1 (01:22:02):
God, swim good to this day swim fuck.

Speaker 2 (01:22:09):
No.

Speaker 1 (01:22:09):
We said jay Z, Yeah, I said jay Z, I
said jay Z, Kanye Kanye. It's it's some people who
know how to make music that's gonna last for years. Yeah,
And I feel like y'all may not like Future because
of whatever his personal life is. But I'm telling you
trap music is something that can last forever. Jez put

(01:22:32):
on a j Z album and that music is still
hard right now. Some people know how to make.

Speaker 2 (01:22:39):
Music winter time.

Speaker 1 (01:22:44):
Jesus, Like Jesus, what still get the club? Nick?

Speaker 2 (01:22:52):
Yeah, we shown, we're showing that we used to really
be outside.

Speaker 1 (01:22:54):
But I'm saying it's a legendary music, and I think
Future makes legendary music. We have to put him in
that category of legends and people who make music that
can last for a lifetime. Because I'm telling you, when we.

Speaker 2 (01:23:11):
Are in our eighties, I'm gonna be listening to the Future.

Speaker 1 (01:23:14):
Still. You sure.

Speaker 2 (01:23:18):
Because you wasn't here. He got a song for that too,
You wasn't here.

Speaker 1 (01:23:24):
Yeah, let's move on. Let's move on.

Speaker 2 (01:23:26):
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I know you are, but that's why people try to
play on PD Pablo top PD Pablo's first album was
so good anything is about to go down when we
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(01:27:39):
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blow blow? What's up? What mean y'all? All I'm saying
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Speaker 1 (01:28:10):
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Speaker 2 (01:28:15):
Congratulations, congratulations, shout question of one. Hey, y'all. So, I
have a close friend of mine and she has this
boyfriend's turned situationship going on right now. And since I've
met her, she's taught me nothing but horrible things about him,
and she has told me so much stuff that now
when she speaks about him, I tell her that I

(01:28:36):
don't want to hear it because she does, and nothing
but goes back to the relationship, and then it comes
back and tell me more disrespectful stuff that he's done.
I've always been the friend to let my friends been
to me all the time, but with her, it's different
because at this point I've grown a hate for her
man and it asks me to hear stuff about him.
I tried to do some self evaluating because I do

(01:28:57):
feel like I'm being a bit mean, knowing that this
is not usually me and friendships. How do you feel
about this situation, because I don't know if I'm just
being harsh and not a good friend, or am I
being reasonable for my actions. Side note, I.

Speaker 1 (01:29:11):
Do think it has something to do with me being
a little bit older than her, and I've grown out
of the face of going through hell and kept going
back in a relationship, so seeing her do it is
kind of like the signs of disrespect are in her face,
and it's upsetting me that she's.

Speaker 2 (01:29:24):
Allowing it and going back. Girl. When it comes to
like friends, that amen, if you have a real concern,
I definitely feel like you should voice your concern. However,
if you voice your concern and your friend don't take

(01:29:45):
heed and they want to still being in the situation,
and you gotta step back and let people learn they
life listens on their own. Because my mama always told
me to say in my whole life growing up, people
know when they've had enough. People know their tolerance level.
You don't never know somebody's tolerance level, but people know
they're on tolerance level. Trust me, When somebody is good

(01:30:06):
and fed up with some shit, no matter what it is,
whether it's a nigga, where it's a situation, whether it's
a job or career whatever, when people are fed up,
they be fed up and they gonna leave. But I
feel like people push their friends away by trying to
pressure their friends to want to do what they want
them to do. And I know sometimes even in because

(01:30:29):
I mean, she didn't say it was like a violent
situation on that thing, but I just know, especially in
like violent situations and stuff, people be always feeling like
they have to like keep telling their friends what to do.
I just feel like you have to say your peace
and speak your peace and be okay with like stepping
away and taking a step back because you can't stress

(01:30:53):
yourself with other people affairs because you got your own
life to worry about.

Speaker 4 (01:30:57):
And.

Speaker 2 (01:30:59):
Just pray for them, hope for the best, hope that
God keep quivering them and keeping them safe in whatever
situation in But like, don't stress yourself about somebody else
situation because if they want us to be in a
better situation, they will put themselves in a better situation.

Speaker 1 (01:31:13):
And I just want to add on to what you
said about like tolerance levels. Yeah, because things that she
can tolerate may not be things that you can tolerate.

Speaker 2 (01:31:27):
But switch the roles.

Speaker 1 (01:31:29):
There's things that you have tolerated for men that she
would never tolerate. Okay, So I think that's what we
have to realize too, because I am in a situation
like that right now. So I'll say this. There's things
that I have been through with men that I have
dated that my friends were looking at me like lex,
what the actual fuck? And then there were situations where

(01:31:50):
I'm looking at them and it was different and I'm like, hey,
what are you doing? So we have to give people grace.
As long as her life is not in danger, all
you need to do is be a friend and let
her vent. When she's ready to go, she'll be ready
to go. Like I said, as long as he's not
beating her putting her life in danger. Sometimes you have

(01:32:12):
to take a step.

Speaker 2 (01:32:13):
Back, agreed, agreed.

Speaker 1 (01:32:16):
All right. Question number two. Hi, Drea high Legs. I'm
a thirty six year old straight mal. Each time I
talk to women and they mentioned my teeth, I have
become instantly insecure. My teeth are not the widest and
I have crooked things. I brush for loss and use

(01:32:36):
mouthwashed twice a day, but I'm still not picture perfect.
I have considered getting braces over the last few years,
but I'm always unsure of how people, specifically women, will
view an adult man with braces. What are your thoughts.
Would you respect someone who is trying to fix their
teeth or would you see it as the major turn off?

(01:32:58):
So let me say this. I had braces in middle school.
My bottom teeth are so crooked because I took off
my retainer, so I have fangs at the bottom. Right.
It is honestly one of my biggest insecurities because when
I record videos, I'm like, oh my God, my bottom teeth,
my bottom teeth. But I talked with my bottom lip.

(01:33:19):
But that doesn't stop me. But I'm saying it's just
a personal insecurity. But I whitened my teeth, I brushed
my teeth, I flost my teeth so let me say this.
First of all, your teeth are not the whitest, but
I don't care how crooked your teeth are. They can
be white. They can be white. So if your teeth

(01:33:43):
are like yellow, some crest whitening strips, some crest whitening,
mouth washed, could I suggest, I don't care what level
your teeth are at, straight crooked, your teeth shouldn't be yellow. Okay,
But I will say that any woman that meets you
and she's judging you for having bryces if I see

(01:34:04):
a man with bryces in this economy, because if you
got braces, unless you're going to one of them bottom
people in their basement, you gotta go to dnnis every
month for bryces you do, you're not gonna. If a
woman is judging you because you have braces, that's not
the woman for you.

Speaker 2 (01:34:19):
Let me tell you something. I had braces before too,
So I've had brace's. Then I had to wear a retainer.
And now y'all know I have veneers or whatever. But
even with my veneers, I still have to wear a
retainer at night sometimes because I used to have like
gaps before I had brace's. So if I don't wear

(01:34:40):
retainers for a long period of time. No matter what,
my teeth are always gonna like start to like migrate
or whatever. So I just feel like anybody who is
interested in bittering themselves and bittering their appearance, I don't
think anything is wrong with that, no matter which way
you choose to go about it, whether you getting veneers,
whether you getting braces, where you're getting a visil line,

(01:35:01):
whatever it is. It's like if you have a problem
with something about yourself fixed and nothing is wrong with that,
and don't let nobody make.

Speaker 1 (01:35:09):
You feel in all type of way about it, because
you might feed me a girl who got braces, and hey,
y'all like.

Speaker 2 (01:35:16):
Brace's game.

Speaker 1 (01:35:17):
Yeah, honestly, if I'm thirty five and he said he
was thirty six, if I met a thirty six year
old man that had braces, it would not bother me.

Speaker 2 (01:35:26):
It wouldn't bother me either.

Speaker 1 (01:35:27):
Yeah, it wouldn't bother me at all. You had to
put a mouth guard on, know when you going downtown. Well,
I shouldn't feel your teeth if what you have bracest
or not, if you know what you're doing. Yeah, that's
what I'm saying. So bracests don't Yeah, braces wouldn't bother me.

Speaker 2 (01:35:39):
Theraces ain't stopping us nothing at all.

Speaker 1 (01:35:42):
So sorry, get your bracest, get your visiline. Yes the woman.
You know what, I've noticed an influx of women online
and men too. Y'all are saying some things that are
so outrageous just because you know it's gonna get Like
one girl said something like, if I see a man
pull out a credit card on the date, I know

(01:36:04):
he broke because why are you using credit to pay
for a meal so.

Speaker 2 (01:36:07):
He can get his points?

Speaker 1 (01:36:09):
That's how I know. That's how I know y'all got
no credit. That's what I'll be saying, like, stop it.
So if a woman is telling you, oh, I don't
like you because you got braces, she don't know, she
don't know, it's okay boo. So yeah, get y'all braces
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Speaker 2 (01:37:21):
So wait, they said, Tata, Yeah, I'm gonna enter the chat.

Speaker 1 (01:37:25):
This isn't about me, okay. I have a friend, okay, right, okay,
So I ain't got her, worry about that. But I
have a friend, okay, And she was she stayed in
the sky. He actually recently moved down to Atlanta for
her for her. I'm gonna say that they were staying together.
But he has his own place now.

Speaker 2 (01:37:45):
But she's been noticing some weird things going on between
him and her best friend. They're texting each other a lot,
They're going to each other's houses and like, we'll tell
her when they're there, so like he'll be like, oh yeah,
so and so pulling up now, and then she'll be like,
oh yeah, I'm about to go poppy and real quick,

(01:38:06):
all of these types of things. This is not the
first time it's happened. It's happened a number of times,
and she's feeling it's making her feel uncomfortable. She's supposed
to talk to the friend about it, but the friend
has been kind of distancing herself. And then when she
told the boyfriend that she was going to have dinner
and talk to the friend about it, he said, don't

(01:38:26):
bring me up in the conversation. Now me, I wouldn't
be going for none of that. That's just me personally,
because why are y'all friends? I introduced y'all, Why are
y'all now taking this relationship and then being sneaky about
it behind my back? So just asking y'all, what would
y'all do in that situation? And would you allow your

(01:38:46):
friend to be good friends with your man or your boyfriend.
I mean ahead, Well, I was just gonna say, like,
I'm cool with my man being friends with my friends
without you being there, Yeah, because I feel like I
trust my friends and I trust my man. But it's like,
cause if I don't trust either one of y'all, why

(01:39:08):
the fuck is y'all in my life? Like if I
feel like you're gonna do some weird sit when you
around my nigga and I'm not around, not saying that,
like y'all could be coordinating like hang out day exactly.
That's what I'm saying, Like is going on, that's what's
going so, yeah, no, absolutely not. But like if y'all
like cause like we've had each other's man's phone numbers

(01:39:29):
and stuff before.

Speaker 1 (01:39:30):
Well, let me tell you something. I would never be like, y'all,
man are never gonna hit you and be like, oh,
Le's gonna pull up and you ain't never gonna really
call me like, oh I'm pulling up an x Y.

Speaker 2 (01:39:41):
But that's but that's what I was about to say.
That's when you have to like nip shit in the bud,
because why the fuck is y'all being friendly with each
other like that? Like it's okay, for y'all to have
like a cordial relationship and be cool. And I trust
my man and my friend enough to have each other
numbers and to be able to communicate with each other,
because you just never know what can happen. But it's

(01:40:02):
when all of the friendly and extra shits start going on,
like why y'all hanging with each other?

Speaker 1 (01:40:08):
Eating in each other house?

Speaker 2 (01:40:10):
Is crazy being in each other house?

Speaker 1 (01:40:12):
Let me say, because I get it. I am a
woman who has male friends. I have dated men who
have female friends.

Speaker 2 (01:40:22):
But guess what they do.

Speaker 1 (01:40:23):
They make sure I'm comfortable. I make sure they comfortable. Hey,
we around together even if something happens. Hey babe, I'm
letting you know. I know you out of town right now.
I need something done. He Abo's gonna help me real quick.
It ain't no weird shit. I'm always letting you know
when we're in each other's presence or x y Z.
So I say all that to say, if I said, Hey,

(01:40:48):
I don't feel comfortable with this relationship, I'm about to
go out to eat with my best friend and have
a conversation, a man should be like, Okay, hey man,
do babe, look I told you where I stand and
you know me and her don't have nothing going on.
Do what you have to do because I'm here for you.
He's gaslighting her to try to make her feel like

(01:41:11):
she's crazy. Well, don't bring me up, you tripping, you tripping,
because let me say one thing that I have learned
about gas lighting too. Because y'all like to make the
first word people like to throw out his insecurity. It's
not about insecurity because guess what, you can have the
most confident woman or man in the world. Why do

(01:41:31):
you want them to feel uncomfortable. She's voiced her opinion
that she's uncomfortable as soon as my man, or my
partner or my friend. Even if my friend says, hey, lex,
this makes me uncomfortable when you do this, I'm changing
that shit. Yeah, I don't ever want you to feel
uncomfortable with anything I'm doing because i'm your partner, I'm
your friend, so I'm gonna hey, let's knit this in

(01:41:53):
the bud. So if you said I'm uncomfortable with this
situation and he's not trying to fix it, that's the
red flag something going on. I need to see the
motherfucking text mess. Let's grow, Yeah, let's grow what's going on?
What's going on? Mm hmmm, because I've been in that situation,

(01:42:15):
but I don't like and was like, oh hey.

Speaker 2 (01:42:20):
I was like, oh okay, and y'all can let me
know how y'all feel. But I also just feel like
that goes into checking a quality control in your friendship
correct when a man, Because that's where I see an issue,
is like, this is your it's supposed to be your
best friend, because that ain't that ain't no best friend
of mine.

Speaker 1 (01:42:40):
Why are you going to my friends dating somebody and
like having sex with somebody there in love with somebody
because obviously they're dating, they're in love. They say I
love you, You're a brother, your brother to me. As
soon as my friend says, hey, I really like this
person like.

Speaker 2 (01:42:56):
Me and him. That's bro?

Speaker 1 (01:42:59):
What up? Bro? You ain't never gonna be in my
presence without her, and if you are my person hers
because we're planning something for her or.

Speaker 2 (01:43:08):
Just because we both happened to be in the same
place and we didn't know the you know what I mean,
because some times you might go to a club whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:43:14):
Yeah, but it's like, but my on you yeah, asked
up if you want to Yeah, that's what it is.
That's what it is. And then my friend and I
have never once in my life had a friend, and
I introduced her to my man and all of a sudden,

(01:43:36):
they start testing. It's crazy, my man don't have none
of my friends numbers? Yeah, because why why?

Speaker 2 (01:43:45):
Why what are we?

Speaker 1 (01:43:46):
What are y'all talking about? And even if he did,
it would be because hey, I'm trying to do something
for her. If that was a scenario, No, we.

Speaker 2 (01:43:53):
That's gonna say. We had we've had each other men
number before. Yeah, But it was more so like and
I think it's also this.

Speaker 1 (01:44:03):
Bust you, But what I'm saying is more so about like,
let's talk about the person. That's what I'm saying. It's
talking about the person they're dating or what's going on.
It's not like, oh, let's hang out so your friend
these understand your friend. That girl is not your friend.
You need to get rid of both of them and
let them.

Speaker 2 (01:44:23):
Be cut both of them all because they both we tie.

Speaker 1 (01:44:30):
That was a good one. That was juicy, all right.
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(01:44:53):
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Check it out, and yeah, y'all gonna love Poor Chronicles.
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Speaker 1 (01:45:52):
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Well, the applications are closed, but you can still leave
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Speaker 2 (01:46:00):
Veil what's up y'all? As your girl x pee and
it's Sugarl Drain a call and we have a very.

Speaker 1 (01:46:08):
Exciting announcement today.

Speaker 2 (01:46:09):
We have a brand new show dropping. Yes, we have
a brand new shout dropping y'all on Patreon. It's gonna
air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles. We're
gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're gonna
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where the hell could you go?

Speaker 1 (01:46:26):
If you can't go to Banlanche, what the hell.

Speaker 2 (01:46:30):
We're gonna be doing? Talk to me, chit chat with me.
We're gonna be spelling a little tea.

Speaker 1 (01:46:35):
Oh my girl, No, you didn't.

Speaker 2 (01:46:40):
God, everything y'all been wanting to see, we're gonna be
doing it right here on Patreon.

Speaker 1 (01:46:45):
Yes, y'all ask us for so much, Well, we've been
to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's
gonna be a time, y'all. Know Poor Minds has grown
into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a
lot of fun still over here at poor Chronicles. So
make sure y'all tune in September. Second it's going down.
Stay shout out to the future the legend. We had

(01:47:17):
to give him his flowers today for giving us this classic.

Speaker 2 (01:47:22):
Ready, ain't My mama said, fucking nigga, hit the streets
and live, got some crack in the corner, and I
did what I did. The neighbors they don't like me.
Y'all got Jay's at the dog So my grandma, I
don't need a bit. I'm sleeping on the floor. Got
my tool and my blow, then my tool, main house,
me and all my wallst together like the zog Scipa,

(01:47:46):
say who got that? Ya? Fu the low And I
keep birds with me like I'm straight out Holly Grove.

Speaker 1 (01:47:52):
My fingers ish the ish your fun at paper? My
fingers that ish, That is your fun at paper. Riding
around the city, and I.

Speaker 2 (01:48:01):
Got that calculator. I'm a motherfucking monsta. When they come
they getting that paper, Hey.

Speaker 1 (01:48:06):
Fingers, is it your fuddy fingers? Is it's your fuddy paper?
I'm riding around city, and I got that calculata all
my motherfucking massa way that they're getting that paper.

Speaker 2 (01:48:20):
A dog and I eat that dog food. I'm a
g I put red on all my shoes. Come in
and see my familiar like I prove and I please,
now guilty yourself proof. I got more fastials then shoes.
I got chicks in the cool. We got shoe instead
of shoe. And to stay on DJ screw when I drop,

(01:48:42):
we coming like screw DJ clue.

Speaker 1 (01:48:47):
I go about the school bending to put you on.
The dudes that hit that blue place.

Speaker 2 (01:48:54):
Hey, ma'am, who got that pig?

Speaker 1 (01:48:58):
Now she ain't the man fucking just started rapping too fast?
And guess what they ISHU? They it's your fun at paper?
My finger? They itching, They it's your fun at paper. Yeah,
I got that. I'm at hey.

Speaker 2 (01:49:19):
They itching for that papers? They itching, they itching for
that paper. Don't ride around the city in I got
that CaCu lester. I'm my mother fucking mother when it
comes to getting it paper a, I.

Speaker 1 (01:49:32):
Don't give a fucking They was real sisters. I'm fucking
her too because I'm a real mister. Call me big mister,
because I got that big dick, I fuck up so
good til she throw up she's sick.

Speaker 2 (01:49:49):
Yeah, it's okay, y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:49:52):
Make sure y'all share the content like subscribe, follow all
that good stuff. And let me say this before we
close off, y'all, there is one Twitter account that is
connected to pour minds. It's p O. You are underscore
in my nds. Y'all are tagging the wrong poor minds page.
If you see at poor minds with no underscore, that

(01:50:13):
is at fake page, do not follow that page. Okay,
they block me Andrea and the poor Minds page on
both so we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok.
It is p O. You are underscore in my.

Speaker 2 (01:50:28):
Nds, all right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook
page the Facebook page it's our face. The crazy thing
is our Facebook page actually have the least amount of follow.

Speaker 1 (01:50:38):
So if you're on Facebook, one that's ours got the
least amount of file, but one that's not us got
like two hundred and fifty. You make if you actually
look at the content because the caption is like whoever
it is, don't speak English, because their catches are like
bumba clad?

Speaker 2 (01:50:53):
Should men?

Speaker 1 (01:50:53):
Should men pay bill? Should men? Pay bill yes, no
check answer lo block block pull pull pull off, Like that's.

Speaker 2 (01:51:04):
Literally with the caption, I'm like, what with that? DC
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