Posh Parliament FT. Madame Joyce

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Speaker 1 (00:19):
What's up y'all? Is your girl Lisp? And is your
girl Dre and the call and you are tuned in
to another episode of Poor Mind. We're a drunk mind
seeks sober thoughts. We gotta guess today, We gotta guess today.
So y'all know, we're still in London recording these fire episodes.

(00:41):
So y'all know we had to do a collaboration with
the one and only the Queen Madam Joyce in up.
So I feel like this is this is gonna be
a super easy episode because we already now love you
like we're friends. Our friends. N Yeah you need I

(01:02):
don't know, we got an egg shade. Yeah, So first off,
let me ask you how are you today? Honestly, I'm
so happy to be here. Obviously, we did our episode
and you guys are just such an energy mine. You
guys were such a time. I had a good time.
It was so I'm back again. We're doing a round two.

(01:27):
We had a bit of a party. You took a
bit of shots as well. I'm not gonna lie. By
the time I got home, I was like, oh.

Speaker 2 (01:35):
I just could not believe the live show like that
was so fucking insane. Craziness, crazy, fifteen thousand people at
the arena.

Speaker 1 (01:46):
Yeah. So before we get into that, though, because I
want to lead up to that, because we're gonna get
a little back. I was gonna say, we're gonna get
a little background. Yo. Yeah, so start from the beginning.
What were you doing before podcast? Oh my god, I
was working at this council. I won't say the name.
I've said the name so many times, yeah that I'm
sure people have probably walked in them and be like,

(02:09):
you fucking ship. But yeah, I was working for the council,
which like a government job, and then I got fired.
Oh you were hard core serious? Yeah, I got fired.
I flopped my probation, so they gave me. They gave
me like a six my probation, and I didn't make it.
Like I hated that job of all my heart. And
I had a manager yet that was such a cow.

(02:29):
She God, she was awful. But yeah, I was doing
that before and then I was just a normal girl,
normal job. And then I've always loved doing creative stuff,
So I've always loved acting and performing, but I also
loved talking to people. Yeah, communication is just everything me.

Speaker 3 (02:46):
I can talk for ages.

Speaker 1 (02:47):
I'm that friend that can be on the phone for
five hours and have something to say. It's about relationships.
I'm gonna give you something about geography or something. So
it was just a fun passion project. Yeah. I one
day I decided, well, God gave me the message. To
be honest, it was God that gave me the message
and was like, you should start a podcast. Holy Spirit

(03:07):
was speaking to me. And then a week later I
just started and that was it.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
Yeah, and it just took off. And it just took off, man,
Like that's amazing.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
Yeah, because I feel like we talked about this a
little bit on your show, but just to the girls
and learning are more reserves to say it nicely, There
are a lot more they are, so I think with you,
it's like you're a little more outspoken. So it was
like you finally got to represent for the girls who
want to be free.

Speaker 3 (03:33):
Yes, do you know what it is?

Speaker 1 (03:34):
Yet I'm I'm I'm a bad liar. I'm a bad
lie and I'm I'm a bad liar. So it's like
when people ask me something, they're like, oh, yeah, so
so what did you do here? And I was like yeah, honestly,
Like he was so sick. I will go, I would
tell you the story. And I'm just a bit of
an overshare. I've always been like that since I was young,
and having a microphone now allowed me to OVERSHD to strangers. Yeah.

(04:00):
I love people who overshare, like you know how they
be on it, Like y'all stop telling on y'all business.
Don't I need that entertainment?

Speaker 2 (04:06):
I like, I love a good story, like, but you're
an overshare of to this.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
I love mass, I love tea, I love see. I
just like to know people business.

Speaker 2 (04:18):
I'd be like, what else, but I ain't gonna tell
you me.

Speaker 1 (04:25):
I I was still share. I share like base level
stuff like I'll be like, oh, yeah, I have a
man or I went on a date last night. I
don't get too deep into details, but you gonna know
the gist of what's going on. But like, if I'm
taking an l if I have an embarrassing story, I
take my ls in silence. Okay. Never gonna be like,
oh y'all, let me tell y'all X y Z. Yeah.

(04:46):
But I when y'all be telling y'all the stories where
y'all be losing, I'll be tuned in. Honey.

Speaker 3 (04:51):
You know I hate that because that's me.

Speaker 1 (04:53):
Well you're gonna you're gonna tell it all I was.
I will say, Remember I told you about the UNI,
about the union. You're looking at me like, girl, you
should have said that. I was trying to have your
bad girl. Don't say that. But you know what's crazy
about me?

Speaker 2 (05:10):
I think like as time progresses, as time passes by,
I've become more comfortable sharing my ears. So like, I
tell you what happened, but he's gonna be ten years later.

Speaker 1 (05:20):
Yeah, Okay, that's fair, that's fair. That's me. It can't
be free, yea if the wall tool fresh.

Speaker 2 (05:26):
About it because their pain is still in me, I
can't tell you aboudy. But if it's like five teen
years later and I'm overy, you know, I can talk
to you body, so talk about the how did you
end up linking with like shitting gigs and working with
them and stuff like that.

Speaker 1 (05:43):
Okay, So I was an independent podcast. I was trapped
in this box room. Honestly, it's it's humble beginnings. I
was in a box room doing like a normal studio share,
and so much was happening at the time. I'm not
just a podcast, I'm a personality. So like I do presenting,
I do shoots and stuff, and I just was wearing

(06:03):
so many different hats, like before you have like a
whole theme. It's like you're the editor, you're the producer,
you're director.

Speaker 3 (06:11):
It was too much.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
I know, I suffered. Plus I'm the one only one
that's spending all the money on of that.

Speaker 3 (06:16):
Like it was just too much.

Speaker 1 (06:17):
So at the time, funny enough, there was a big
podcast service that came to me and said that they
wanted to acquire cocktails and takeaways. So I went on
The Boys Show and I got really drunk. Usually I
don't really tell people my business and in terms of
like if something hasn't happened, I won't say it. But

(06:40):
I got really drunk and I told the Boys and
I was like, guys, you know what, I'll be honest,
I'm really tired.

Speaker 3 (06:46):
Yeah, and I.

Speaker 1 (06:46):
Want to sell. I want to I want somebody to
take over and acquire the show. And he was like Joycenow.
He was like, why don't you sign with us? You
should sign with us, And I was like, what do
you do? Like are you y'alls on the mic? Right right?
So they were like we we are starting a production

(07:08):
company and we're having a new umbrella for ships and
gigs and we want you to be our first signing.
And I was like, listen, we are really drunk right now,
so let's just read like if you're serious about it.
So before Yeah, and we spoke and yeah, we're here now.
But one thing I love about that, and I'm so
glad I never signed to the other people, is because

(07:31):
the friendship that we built.

Speaker 3 (07:32):
First is so beautiful.

Speaker 1 (07:34):
Like we are very very good friends and we've been
we've been friends way before we started having a schriariship together.
So yeah, that's that's how it started. And now we're
here and like, the show's amazing. I'm very well looked after,
very well sponsored. Good right, But I think that's a
good thing too, like having a kind of protection. I

(07:57):
think it's kind of like the same way, how because
we're signed at eighty five South, which is a huge,
huge podcast in the States, and it's kind of like
the same thing. It's like it gives us like an
umbrella of protection a little you know what I'm saying.
So it's good to have people who are like in
the business, who know what they're doing, so they can
kind of guide you and protect you at the same time. Definitely,
protection is the key, especially honestly, like being a woman

(08:19):
in podcast like it's hard, and I'm glad that we
have men in our lives that in business that's supportive personally,
that's support well for me, like the boys that that
that all access, they're all in my girls. Yeah, yeah,
I'm happy.

Speaker 2 (08:36):
No, Yeah, I think that's really really important because in
this industry, I think people definitely try to take advantage
of women alike, you know, especially because they think we
don't know as much. So I think it's really good
to have like that insulatd like protection and like family
type of dynamic.

Speaker 3 (08:54):
You know, high key on that.

Speaker 1 (08:56):
Yeah, yes, it's go ahead, go ahead. No.

Speaker 2 (08:59):
I was was gonna ask her because I know we
had kind of talked about this the other day. We
had talked about you had made a really good comment.
You were like, oh, podcasting is like the new rapp
podcast rappers. But I kind of wanted to talk about
that a little bit because it is period money.

Speaker 1 (09:17):
I know, that's right. I was evenesus. Now these are
Jean vite Alross. I bet they by the girl. I
bet they by the fucking girl. I don't saying goodbye. Yes,
we get into it. She yeah, I know that's right.
Have some cute ship about the balance though, I will

(09:40):
always say that I'll probably have on like a five
thousand dollars bag, eight hundred dollars shoes, and I will
have it on with a fashion over outfi. She's all
about a little balance.

Speaker 3 (09:50):
Could I just say, I love same.

Speaker 2 (09:52):
I like fashion over too. I like a little balance.
But sometimes I put that she don't know. I'm not
gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (09:58):
Yeah. Times I'll give me a little know it's a
little something.

Speaker 2 (10:04):
It's crazy, but I love me some fashion over, and
I like she in. The other think for me, was
she in? And maybe like because you're over here the
shipping is in his bed. But in the States, it
takes like three weeks.

Speaker 1 (10:18):
To get your okay, three weeks is absolutely crazy.

Speaker 3 (10:22):
It's crazy.

Speaker 1 (10:23):
But we still have about a week and a bit
two weeks. It depends. It depends on the items. But
fashion over the quality is great for the thick ladies
like me.

Speaker 3 (10:31):
It just gives.

Speaker 1 (10:33):
It gives like this contours like all of a sudden,
my waist is snatched, all of a sudden, my bomb
is bouncing, And have a bouncy Now you have a
big butt. Yes, you didn't notice it the other day.
It's something about them pants that boody is setting free fun.
It's flying. There's a certain material that it hugs it,
but it lets it to jiggle a bit. And when

(10:56):
I said, I thought you was clapping for me when
you everyone in learning to has big booties, I thought
she was happy to see me. I said, okay, thank
you girl. You know what's crazy? That completely went over
my head. I'm telling you that I'm so used to
crazy people. I'm like, yeah clapping, yeah, yeah, the ass

(11:18):
was clapp Yes, your butt was clapping for me for you. Yes,
I saw it because you came in and you were
looking sexy and you had your you had your boobies out,
and I was like, no, I have to return to faith. Okay,
you got your breast out for me. I did have
to turn the favor. You did return? She did. She

(11:40):
but can I say something because I really had this
zipped up to the top. Drea did this. She made
me have a mount. You should she said, I look
like a nurse before, because please show her how you
had it. Well, I'm like, I had like zipped up
to the top.

Speaker 3 (11:54):
So it was like clothes, we need some boobies.

Speaker 1 (11:56):
Okay, And I was like, you know, I'm gonna let
them out today, Auntie cutting up now wet a little?
I can't.

Speaker 3 (12:03):
Yes, I do, definitely.

Speaker 1 (12:05):
So back to the topic the podcasts of the New Rappers,
because I wanted to get into the ships to get
show real because we were all there. Yeah, I'm not
gonna lie to you. I have never seen something like
that in my entire life for a podcast. I mean,
they had the fireworks going off. They had the fire
I mean we were kind of up high so I
could literally feel the fire, like every time it went off,

(12:28):
like I could feel it. It was so not crazy, No,
it was you ain't got hot? Yes I did.

Speaker 2 (12:35):
It was pretty high and it was getting warm. It
was I you sure.

Speaker 1 (12:42):
It wasn't that palma. It probably was. I was a
little tearsy, but y'all know, I'm oh, you know what,
I have hot flashes now, I know. I'm old. I
didn't feel it. I thought I did. Maybe I did not.

Speaker 2 (12:55):
He but it was amazing, Like it was a whole
production and I was like, wow, Rains, we really need
to step our shit up, and like I think we
were telling you this the other day too. I don't
think that anybody in the States could sell.

Speaker 1 (13:09):
Out an arena like that.

Speaker 3 (13:11):
I don't agree.

Speaker 1 (13:12):
Okay, I'll say that as far as podcaster, there's not
a black podcast in the States outside of eighty five South. Well, yeah,
they could do a crowd of fifteen thousand. I don't.
I really don't believe a black podcast. Y'all can correct
me in the comments. Maybe there's somebody I'm missing. I
don't think that there's outside of eighty five because I

(13:33):
think the biggest vigion that they've done is maybe like
twelve or three. It's been like twelve thousand and the States.
That's huge. That's very big, because they could very now
eighty five if they came here, there's a few runs
here they could do. I truly believe they could do
the O two arena like I do.

Speaker 2 (13:47):
I do too, But we're talking about coming here, Yeah,
I'm talking about in America.

Speaker 1 (13:52):
I just I don't know.

Speaker 2 (13:53):
I feel like people, just American people just do not
be supporting a people. Yeah, not like that, not like that,
especially like podcasts, because still, you know, they have a
thing in America where they tell us to shut the
mics off and take.

Speaker 1 (14:03):
Them away from it.

Speaker 2 (14:04):
They said, oh my god, Podacost equipment is to expect.

Speaker 1 (14:13):
It's cleaning too cheap, turning it, you know what's crazy? Okay,
so you know we went on nineties baby right, let
me see how embarrassed I got yesterday. So they posted
our clip on Twitter and so like a bunch of people,
like our people, our fans were like retweeting and laughing.
So I guess it got to the UK crowd and
they were being so dry and they were like, oh
my god, lex P is hilarious, but they weren't being serious,

(14:34):
like they were like, oh, they're so funny. I was like, oh,
thank you, and the girl was like, hey, stop responding
like they're making fun of you. I was like, bro,
how dare you? They're so they are so many because
we had a ball like we're laughing, We're funny. I'm like, okay,
they can see the the bandter between us. But they
were like like Twitter was like, oh, these girls are

(14:57):
not funny, Like they were not feeling us on Twitter
with that clip. But it went crazy on Instagram, like
it was cool on Instagram, but they was the UK
Twitter do not fuck with us and comments under the
YouTube too. Yeah, you shouldn't take anything that people on
Twitter say seriously.

Speaker 3 (15:13):
Yeah people, Oh.

Speaker 1 (15:15):
My god, it's something different about that app. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (15:19):
Everybody feels that way, because I feel like you said that,
Whitney said that, and I think zz yea like I
hate Twitter low key. The only reason I'm on there
is because I just feel like it's another platform where
it's like being an influencer or a public figure, you
have to like engage with people to interact with them.
So I'm on there because of that. But people who

(15:41):
be on Twitter all day, like Les, I'd be like,
how do you do she loves Twitter?

Speaker 1 (15:46):
No, she loves these I love to tweet, It's in
my blood. But I'll say this, I think it's because,
like my followers are, they interact with me a lot.
So a lot of times I don't see the negativity
because I have so many of the the poor crew
we call our listeners, the poor crew talking to me.
So a lot of time I feel like that's my
quick way to kind of like still engage with them,

(16:07):
you know, because I notice, like I don't even tweet
for my timeline anymore. I just tweet from my mentions.
So the only way I'm talking to you is like
if you're talking to me and you're being positive. But
I will say I think my experience with social media
has changed since the podcast has blown up, Like I
don't use social media like I used to anymore. Like
it's not it's more of a job, a job. It's

(16:28):
not like fun, like oh, let me see what she doing,
let me see what he doing. It's more so like
let me get on here, post this content and get off.

Speaker 3 (16:34):
That's like that's me.

Speaker 1 (16:35):
But on TikTok, Yeah, it's the place where I can
just scroll and see what people are talking. Yeah, but
things like Instagram, Twitter, it's a chorre. Honestly, I barely tweet.
I just post nice pictures of me and what I'm
doing and not just s bounce out. I'm not a
tweet tar. I've gotten into trouble for tweeting. Really, Yeah,
especially when you drink them. Trunk tweets will get you

(16:57):
in trouble. I used to drunk tweet a lot.

Speaker 2 (17:00):
I don't be tweeting because everything I say go viral.
That's what That's why I don't like Twitter.

Speaker 1 (17:06):
When I speak you listen. I could be joking. I
just will.

Speaker 2 (17:13):
I will tweet some like ship where I'm just joking,
I'm saying like some bullshit and it'll go viral every time,
and I'm like, damn, I can't say nothing. You right
when I speak, they listen the streets and like I
just be like, I don't have time for these. So
I'm the same way, like I might tweet something every

(17:34):
once in a while, but I mostly just post pictures
and go about my.

Speaker 1 (17:38):
So do you feel like they respect podcasters here? Like
are they still don't like kind of take it serious.
It's so interesting when you're speaking about your experience. I'm
having a similar experience, but here it's crazy, Like I
feel like people in the UK don't respect anyone until
the States give them the okay. So like there's a

(18:02):
lot of podcasters doing amazing. There's a lot of like
this influence of realm. It doesn't get respect this because
because what's so close approximity. You've seen how small London is,
so people will try and oh that's my that's my
friend's sisters, brothers, cousins, French. Yeah, they will try that.

(18:23):
They will try and do it in a way where
it's like, oh, yeah, we're all from the same place.
I don't don't don't get too big for your.

Speaker 3 (18:28):
Boots to ship.

Speaker 1 (18:30):
And then unless you then go to like America and
you start blowing up that they're like, oh, like, oh,
she's actually somebody. But in terms of podcasting, it's still
so new. But what I do love is from when
I first started three years ago till now, I'm starting
to see a lot more respect in the podcast space.
I feel like I love what I'm seeing in America

(18:51):
right now with people like Joe Baden, with people like
who else is there? That radio show The Breakfast Cloud,
Like it's received a lot better in America. For me
and my personal opinion, I do have a lot of
bad girls and bad boys hair and I love them die.

(19:14):
But podcasting is global now and there's people pockets in
America that love it. There's pockets in Germany, there's pockets
in Australia. Like it's become a global thing. But yeah,
in the UK, we're still trying to figure it out.
Trust me, I get the off the myc This girl
she talks too much. Like that's why it's hard. Like people,

(19:36):
it's so crazy because like I do oh, go ahead,
go ahead.

Speaker 2 (19:38):
No. I was just gonna say, when do you think
like the transition happened to where so many people started
listening to podcast I really feel like it was during
a pandemic.

Speaker 1 (19:48):
Yeah, yeah, niggas, I.

Speaker 2 (19:50):
Have nothing to do, So either you picked up a
mic and a camera or you started listening. And I
feel like that's how it really like took off, because
I remem remember I was dating somebody who was like
kind of like relevant well I'm not gonna say kind
of very relevant in the music.

Speaker 1 (20:07):
Get up me and his Flowers girl, very.

Speaker 2 (20:10):
Relevant in the American music industry.

Speaker 1 (20:13):
I want to know, I'll tell you off camp.

Speaker 2 (20:18):
So yeah, I used to date him, and I remember
vividly when Lex and I first started doing Poor Minds.

Speaker 1 (20:25):
This is like twenty probably the end of twenty eighteen.

Speaker 2 (20:28):
And like I was telling him, I'm like, podcasting is
about to be a big thing. Well, actually I started
dating I actually started telling him about it in twenty seventeen,
but poor Minds didn't become like kind of a thing
for us until twenty eighteen. And I was just like,
podcasting is gonna be a huge deal in the next
few years, and I was like, you really should probably

(20:49):
like tap in and probably try to start seeing if
you could like find some podcasts and stuff.

Speaker 1 (20:53):
He was just like.

Speaker 2 (20:54):
Grow whatever, Like he was not trying to listen to me,
Like what are you talking about? And it's so fucking
crazy because fast forward to now, podcasting is this huge
industry and he even was trying to work with us.

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(22:36):
to do. You know what. I love that.

Speaker 3 (22:37):
I love that for you.

Speaker 1 (22:38):
I love a lick back. I love yeah, it's like,
oh we here. I love to be petty oh what head? Yeah, yeah,
I'm finna go to London real quick. We gotta work, yeah,
fren kiss, Oh god, I love a lint because you

(22:59):
didn't you believe in me and me yeap me. I
think a lot of people, and like I said, I
love to show people who gave us love from the
beginning and stuff. But sometimes I gotta like shit on
people real quick because it's like, yeah, because I think
a lot of times too. One thing that I I

(23:20):
you love to see, I do that too. You a
good and is But I will say, let me ask
you this about the the UK market too, because I
feel like in America, one thing about it is like
you really don't become popular until everybody else gotta hop
on the first Like everybody nobody's gonna be like, man,
I don't give a fuck. I'm listening to them. They're hard,

(23:40):
they cool. Like it took for like a lot of
people to start kind of hopping on the train, for
like people close to us to start believing in it.

Speaker 3 (23:48):
Is the same thing, same exact, same thing.

Speaker 1 (23:50):
Like I think it's just a human thing that people
will only give your alcolades if it's if it's confirmed
by other people with everybody else starts seeing, especially especially
being being a black woman in this space, especially being
a thicker woman in this space, especially being a boisterous

(24:13):
woman in this space, and having and and being vocal
and being what's the word being out?

Speaker 3 (24:22):
What's that I'm gonna say out?

Speaker 1 (24:23):
We're thinking it's not the word I was going to
say about you know what'll run with it being out?

Speaker 3 (24:27):
We're thinking.

Speaker 1 (24:29):
People weren't used to that, and especially in the UK,
we're quite a conservative country. You guys are so far
ahead of us.

Speaker 3 (24:35):
I was saying.

Speaker 1 (24:36):
We love to live our chaotic and fun girl energy
through you guys. You know, we watch a lot of
your shows. We love it. We love that, We love
people like Nini leagues, and we love people who are
very loud and boisterous. But if it's from our own community,
keep quiet. We don't like that there's too much, too much.

(24:59):
You know what's crazy to me because people think Poor
Minds is wild, But I'm like, we're actually calm compared
to a lot of the podcasts. Really yeah, like Horrible
Decisions shout out to Mandy and Wheezy, they're crazy. If
you've never been to a Horrible Decisions live show, I
mean they have people out there chains, tying them up,
throwing shoutina cocktails as wild. These are full fledged Like

(25:24):
of course.

Speaker 2 (25:24):
We talk about sex, but those are They're more so
sex based.

Speaker 1 (25:28):
Sex based podcast but that's normal, Like talking about sex
and having a sex life is normal. Like it's not
like it is watched. I was in the Atlanta podcast
show and I watched Horrible Decisions, and my Christian eyes
I could not believe Virginy. My budget eyes, I could not,

(25:50):
but I was looking at my mindage and I was like,
is this happening on stage now? It was it was
like the splushing cake. Oh yeah, yeah they threw There
was a woman that she came out and started pouring
eggs on her body, and then there was a cake
and then somebody Mandy threw the cake. Per se. It

(26:11):
was mad. It's mad. You might see a boody hole
like sometimes, like when I've been in the artist I'm like,
is that a boody hole? Like if I have to
ask that, you know your show is crazy. That's why
I said, poor minds, you gonna get a little tour. Yeah,
you know, we don't talk about this next y. We
never go have a body hole slip out. Yeah, but

(26:34):
I think it's like not that I'm saying like it's normal,
but it's entertaining, Like I love like that fun but
I loved it, but I couldn't. I've never seen anything
like it, and I just kind of I love the
girls in the US. I loved watching the women interact
because they they then had a moan challenge. Oh, they
had a moan challenge and it was like, oh, whoever

(26:57):
has the best moan wins some much.

Speaker 3 (27:00):
Yeah yeah, And I was looking at the.

Speaker 1 (27:02):
Stage and I was seeing like, may I got the
best moan? I've got them and I'm like, you're not
going to jump on stage to do this? And these
girls picked the mic and they were like.

Speaker 2 (27:14):
Yes and out here that would never happen, like they
were fighting for it.

Speaker 1 (27:19):
Will never what someone coming on the mic and morning
they would put your ars on shade bar and every
will laugh at you. Really Yeah, we was clapping like,
hey you bow a UK girl picking up her mic
to morning Man. Oh my, it was to if that

(27:41):
ever happens. Cheek did tell about the contest. You want
a pro, A real pro see Zella guy.

Speaker 2 (27:58):
I don't even want to talk about I'm gonna tell
you after, but it was it was.

Speaker 1 (28:05):
A contest, was a moaning contest. It was not a
mooning contest. But we'll talk about it afterwards. We'll talk
about it. You see, we we we just going absolutely crazy.

Speaker 2 (28:19):
One of the reason I don't want to say, though,
it's because I feel like if I say it, then
I say which show it was, people are going to
try to look up the footage, and the footage is
out there.

Speaker 1 (28:30):
Yeah, yes, oh I never knew that. Yes it's on.
Well it might be on like Patreon or whatever, but
it's final finding. Yeah, I see what you're saying. I'm
just like, yeah, okay, we were We weren't.

Speaker 3 (28:44):
We won't rebt that.

Speaker 1 (28:44):
But what I was saying is I love how liberated
a liberal the US gulies are. I love how in
twined they are with their sexuality and they own it
and it's sexy and it's just honestly a lot of
us wish we were like that, but we were just
in this either. You know, there's a couple of years
behind them.

Speaker 3 (29:02):
We'll catch you.

Speaker 1 (29:02):
We'll be doing I'll do money, trying to just send
he wants to come on stage of money for me
if I'm in the audience, be like me, I couldn't.
I'll tell you You're gonna have one competitor if I'm in
the audience. But why do you think it's so tabooed?

Speaker 2 (29:19):
Because I think too in a lot of ways, America
is still kind of like taboo when it comes to
a lot of things as well, Like I feel like,
I mean, it's only been like forty years since like
Women's Rights the movie.

Speaker 1 (29:33):
Look, you better know your history because I show it's.

Speaker 2 (29:36):
Been like forty fifty years, like with the seventies. Yeah, so,
I mean, it hasn't been in the seventies eighties. It
hasn't been that long. Women could not vote for a
long time. Women could not get furniture on their own,
they couldn't get cards. Like, it's a lot of things
we couldn't do over there either. So I wonder why
it's still so tabooed over here.

Speaker 1 (29:56):
I think it's because the women in America, we're all
on one accord, Like you the bitch, why moaning too,
Nigga were moaning and rubbing our pusses together, and we're
gonna create a group called we moaning. Yes, we moon
Like they're gonna be all in the same record. I
feel like here's kind of like, oh yeah, we already concerned,

(30:16):
like y'all be clutching our pearl steel, like y'all kind
of be was just moaning this morning. And that's the thing,
like we it's not that we don't do it, it
is that we don't when it comes to public speak
about it. Like every conversation I have on my show
is things that us gunn is I've done. That's why

(30:38):
we're we're sitting down watching it. But we're not gonna
say with our mouths like oh I went to grad
sung this voice. Cock. We said cock cock cock cock.
We don't see the girl. We don't say that I
see you getting real dirty. We don't say that in America.
That's like the white Yeah they say that, we see that.

(31:00):
That sounds real, Like, you know you are a nasty
bitch if you say cok, I know you nasty because
she did. She said you gotta go from the first cock. Yeah, yeah,
you see, I was just shook. It took me better. No,
But yeah, it's not it's not that it's not happening.

(31:20):
It's happening, but we're just still quite shy. And reserved
about saying those things, and to be honest, I'll be honest.

Speaker 3 (31:27):
When we were younger, we.

Speaker 1 (31:28):
Had a there was a lot of like slut shaming here.
I've all like the guys made us feel guilty for
wanting to like having sex and enjoy it. It's like,
you can't have a body count if it's more than three,
and it's like what happened? Heartbreaking? Like honestly it was.

(31:48):
It was a lot for us. I remember I was
having a conversation with my friend. I was like, I
remember how the guys used to be when we were younger,
and like any sort of like inkling that a woman
like having slack slack slaps slack slap slack slack sla
It almost scared us into liking things. That's why a
lot of us were probably in toxic relationss when we're younger,
because it was like, Okay, well his ship is a

(32:12):
bit of a dickhead, he's not very nice to be,
but at least it's not an extra bodycout, so no
one you know. So that's that's kind of how it
was growing up, Like we were all lying about bodycounts.
My bodycout was one until I was twenty two. Like, girl,
now that's some people.

Speaker 2 (32:29):
I mean, as far as I'm concerned, I still don't
have kids. And if a kid didn't come from me,
prove it. Where is the who's gonna believe you?

Speaker 1 (32:46):
Where's your proof? Talking about you hate that. I'm just
saying that. But I will say, don't get a twisted though.
In America, I still feel like the men are like
that too, Like they very much be like, oh, y'all
are sy'all everything we say, Like if a mass makes
a joke about something, they're like, oh my god, he
is the funniest person I've ever heard. If I said

(33:08):
or Drea says it, like, oh my god, they're whorees.
But like I said, it's more of a community with
the women, ycause you're like, we don't give a fuck
fuck y'all. We over here and we having fun. Girls
just want to have fun. So the community of women like,
we band together and we have a good time. We
don't need them to have a good time. So I
think maybe that's the difference, like we really don't value
their opinion too much.

Speaker 2 (33:26):
Yeah, slutshaming is for sure universal, It's all over the world.
They definitely be slut shaming us too in America.

Speaker 1 (33:36):
But like Lake said, we.

Speaker 2 (33:38):
Let me let me tell you something right now, we
don't care. We just don't care. We don't give a fuck.
It's like, I'm gonna be me because to me, a
man who will try to slut shame me for living
in my truth or being honest or just being vocal
about certain things. You not the nigga for me, no way,

(33:58):
Like you're not the type of man I want to be.
When you close minded? You like you you're not open
minded enough for me. I can't be with somebody who
does not view things to a certain extent the same.

Speaker 1 (34:10):
Way I view think. I just I don't even want that.

Speaker 3 (34:13):
Like it's not boring, terrible, terrible.

Speaker 1 (34:21):
Okay, So we got we always do this, we end
up chat. We got into the first topic, So go
ahead with the first topic. Droll.

Speaker 2 (34:28):
Okay, So for the first topic, I really wanted to
talk about. Should you completely cut off your eggs, communication,
everything if you get in a new relationship mm hmm,
you know, like no contact. Let me say this, well,

(34:49):
none of your yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (34:51):
In this in this relationship I have, in this one
I have, I feel like but it wasn't because like
was forced to, or it's just because they he does
everything that I need him to do, so I wouldn't.
I realized in the past when I wasn't cutting that
shit off is because the new book wasn't doing something.

(35:11):
So I feel like you should. But it should be
just like automatic and natural. So if you're still talking
to your exes and you're in a new relationship, I
feel like something is missing, and you gotta look in
your relationships like what's missing to where you feel the
need to still talk to your Excuse me, I was
double dicking. That's what was missing for me. He wasn't

(35:32):
giving me that that pen enough, so I had to go.
You know what I'm saying. He wasn't doing it to me,
so I had to go get it from somewhere. Somebody
gonna getting this thing. She was clapping for attention, you
know how it is. So I feel like something is
missing if you're still in contact with your ex. But yes,
you should completely cut off side because it's your ex
for a reason. Now, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (35:54):
I agree. I definitely agree with that.

Speaker 1 (35:56):
I also think on the other behind, I agree with
kutting off your ax completely. But honestly, I feel like
if it's a serious X and you've been together for
two years or whatever and he was like your ex ex,
like it's still still a touchy subjects, yeah, please come off.
But you know there some you just don't really give
a about.

Speaker 3 (36:15):
Yeah, you just proper don't care.

Speaker 1 (36:17):
Like it's one of those things that if they pop
up to you, it's just kind of like, oh, you're right, Yeah,
how's the kids. You're right, there's some exes that I
proper don't care about. It's to me, it's just it
doesn't even mean anything. It's like, yo, even y'all, bro,
you're good, Like what's good? You like, it's not a
thing where yeah, oh my god, that's my ex. Just
like it's not even a threat. It's not even a
threat all mine, They're not a threat. I don't give

(36:40):
a streak though, Yeah, I feel like what you say
streak though, what makes me streaks? I don't think I'm strict.
I think I'm actually very nice and care free. Let
me tell you that in life, when you cut a
nigger off, like they know they ain't getting it, like

(37:00):
they like, damn, I gotta make this work. Dre is
not talking to me no more. When I cut a
nigga off, he be like, I'll see that bitch tomorrow.
She probably on her way right now, will you know
what I'm saying. I think they know. Like I'll be
like I had the ax, like we went back and
we know how you just had that ex where y'all
just keep coming back like this is the first time
you had the longest breakup here, I broke up with

(37:25):
this nigga for three years. Yeah, it was all seven
years on and off. But like the last time, well,
I'll say this, the last time we were like in
a relationship that we broke up. It took us a
year and a half to really break things off. Literally,
so you broke copp but you' oh yeah, he knew.
He was like, I'm not talking to you no more.

(37:46):
He was like, all right, what time I'm picking you
up Tomorrow I'll be like seven s and Joyce.

Speaker 2 (37:51):
We will be on the phone and Lex will be like,
I'm done with him, Drea, I'm not dealing with him
no more.

Speaker 1 (37:57):
Girl.

Speaker 2 (37:57):
I just used to be over here like all right, legs,
that's me.

Speaker 3 (38:02):
I'm a bit of a love.

Speaker 1 (38:04):
That's why I don't I don't allow guys too close
to me because I know what I'm like. The minute
you get into my space. I'm forgiving, I'm loving. I
want to be your baby. And it's all about like
a man apologizing, I'm gonna believe him every time. They
can give me the most bullshit ass apology, like I'm
changed and I want you. I want to make this work.

(38:26):
I want you to be my wife. I want to
give you a child. I'll be like girl he wanted.
He said he want to marry me. But guys, can
we actually start accepting apologies and gifts only? Yeah? Okay,
now I like that only. I'm tired of hearing sorry
with mouth. I need I need sorry, a physical so
with your mouth though, Okay, you're freaking out. I don't

(38:50):
know that's right.

Speaker 3 (38:51):
Let's focus on.

Speaker 2 (38:55):
You.

Speaker 1 (38:56):
Put that run down. You can apologize, but an apology
and like something tangible. I need to know you're sorry.
What's a good apology gift? Like? Okay, say a man cheated,
he cheated with like a girl that you don't like
to like cheating with a bit you don't know, versus
cheating with somebody that's your op is a way different

(39:18):
type of heart. So he cheated with your op. What's
the acceptable gift to forgive him home? Okay? It has
to be more than one. It has to be even
a big funck off gift. Okay, it has to be
multiple gifts, multiple gifts. Okay.

Speaker 2 (39:32):
So you said a house, Yeah, a house? Okay, you
cheated on me with my op? Yeah, oh somebody gotta
die and if because nobody gonna death or dishonored. Okay, okay, okay,

(39:54):
what about you? What's the what's the gift that you're
accepting your forgiving? You know what I really want to
be like talk sick babe?

Speaker 1 (40:01):
Oh my god? Yeah, a house to honestly, you know what,
if you just caught me a little back and kiss
on his cheek, I'll be like, okay, don't look you.
I was like, I ain't mad, No, my bad, I
know you love me. Let that home is what a
heart is, bitch. He might be doing you when he
was thinking about me. Hoo. He loves always saying all

(40:23):
you gotta do is bout her cosmopology and a spinichh dip.
Give me a spinis dip too. Oh you back in
the doll with me? Boo, We back in love. I'm
like girl, that's why he with me right now. Though
I need a proper hole, a proper finan to play
with me. And I serious, Yes, she's serious. At the

(40:47):
end of the day. You know how disrespectful you gotta
be the fuck a bitch?

Speaker 2 (40:52):
You know I don't like you. Notice my you know,
me and this bitch don't get along.

Speaker 1 (40:58):
That is disrespect you.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
No, I don't like this, So you go to sleep
with her. Oh you said about her?

Speaker 1 (41:05):
Your enemies are at you, Oh they are they like
look at this bitch with that spinach, dip in that
martine and like this.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
He came on to beat down, but he feels like
to sleep with my enemy. You gotta low he be
my enemy too. You don't really like me neither.

Speaker 1 (41:23):
You might shake me in my sleep. I said, I
know how y'all doing the UK up. But let me
say I honestly, at this age, there's really nothing to
give me to forgive you, honestly, all jose aside, because
I will say this, Okay, you buy me a house
and a car, I'm gonna be miserable because every time

(41:45):
you leave, I'm gonna think you with my eye and
y'all plot on me is nothing like trusting somebody like
when you lose that trust. And I learned that's why
it took us so long a year and a half,
because I was like, bro, what are you doing? I
to really look at myself in the mirror. Don't trust
this nigga like you're un I was so unhappy, but
I was like, Okay, I have to love myself more.

(42:06):
And I think a lot of times we really don't
be loving ourselves enough. Yeah, And that's the truth. That's
the harsh reality, because I'm like, if I really loved myself,
I wouldn't be dealing with somebody who would bring me
this loan. You wouldn't take him back for a limit
spinish deal. I was taking that nigga back for a
little Spanish deal and a little limit. Oh but it

(42:26):
was a double. It had a little sugar on the
realm too. I just feel like niggas gotta pay the
play just for show that bang bang to look your
way again. Yeah after you cheat it with my eyes?
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(44:04):
the eye until I got paid me. Listen, somebody, let's
let's move on. Okay, Okay, So I do want to
bring this up real quick. And before we move on,
what this is the second topic? What is the big difference?
Because you're you said you're dating somebody from Atlanta? Can

(44:25):
we say that or no? Can we know? We can?

Speaker 3 (44:29):
Okay, we can?

Speaker 1 (44:29):
So you get me dating somebody in Atlanta. Obviously you've
dated men here. What is the difference between the men
in the US and the men here? You know what,
It's interesting because I I'm sitting down with two American
ladies and it's very weird. I feel like when the

(44:49):
American ladies come to the UK, they have a complete
different experience to how the UK girls are. When the
UK girls go to the US, they have a co
completely different experience than the US girls. Okay, before I
could be like, yeah, UK guys, I don't do this,
but I feel like every woman has a different experience.

(45:10):
Like for me, I've had such a fantastic time getting
to know guys abroad because they look after you know,
I'm so spoiled. Okay, guys abroad, Like every time I
go to a different country, like it's like.

Speaker 3 (45:26):
It's like I'm exotic now.

Speaker 1 (45:29):
They do they love a foreign Yeah, they have a
thing in America. They say if she ain't foreign is
born or something like that. Yeah, so yeah, you're she
ain't foreign born. Yeah, so that's why you're gonna come
to the States and clean up Like they're gonna have
a good time with you. Like I think because we're
so used to each other, we don't appreciate each other enough.

(45:49):
Like UK girls, UK boys, we don't appreciate each other enough.
Maybe that's what the case, but when the US girl
has come, it's like, oh, new flavors. So you feel
like they're out here cheap with the women here. What's
that they're they're cheap like UK men are cheap with
UK women. They're cheating. I'm treading very lightly on this
conversation because there was there was a time that I

(46:13):
was flogged in different continents because of this chat, right
here really, Yeah, what I said that, I made a
statement about UK boys and then beat me. They flogged me. Okay,
I tried to tread like I t to try lightly
on this conversation. From my experience, I have better experiences

(46:33):
internationally for me.

Speaker 3 (46:37):
But the UK.

Speaker 1 (46:40):
Guys thinking say this righta thing, that's what, that's what.
But no, honestly, like I feel like I have a
lot more better experiences abroad. One two, I love us guys.

(47:02):
I love them. My man obviously is American. I love
him too, child, But I will say like, I think
the big difference, more so for me is like when
I dated, like I dated a guy from the UK before,
and he liked to travel. I think American men don't
like to travel as much. Like when you date somebody
out the country, like they want to take you.

Speaker 2 (47:24):
I think it's more emphasis placed on different things. Like
I think you meet a man out here, he's like, oh,
let's go to Paris tomorrow, Let's go to Monaco, Let's
go to Micano's, let's go to Santorini. Like in America,
he like two thousand dollars. Yeah, I'd rather just buy
you a band. Yeah, let's just go to the store
real quick. Yeah, let me just pay your rent or

(47:44):
something that we do, and then you know.

Speaker 1 (47:46):
They be on papers a lot ill. Yeah, I can't
leave the country. Yeah, we have an ankle, bras, we
have an ankle.

Speaker 3 (47:55):
You take your criminals, well not me, not no, my.

Speaker 1 (47:59):
Whole away take away, so they do like you don't
be there. I love the hospitality us man, I love
the hospitality. I love the chivalry. Like I find that
the men they're so chivalrous to Like there was I

(48:22):
went on a date with this NFL player. I was
in l A and the top spot to make my
girls proud. So I was in l A and honestly,
he he he just moved to l A. I won't
say what state because the might give it away, but
I remember I was in the car and as I

(48:43):
was about to touch the handle, the guy ran around
the car to open the car door. I wasking daddy,
my daddy. He ran around, Yeah, don't you touch that
door handle. I was like, that's real, Like even like
when you're walking this, like make sure you're walking the

(49:06):
inner side. Like it's just little things like that that
I find that the American guys are so chivalrous.

Speaker 3 (49:11):
They'll they'll they'll run to open the door for you.

Speaker 1 (49:15):
Completely strange. Is like it's for me. I love that
I love. I love a gentleman, and I find that
the gentleman energy in the States is so there, like
it just turns me on, especially during like the southern
parts of America. Have you like making sure that you're good,
like they're just ah ah there. So I was like

(49:38):
this one thing about my man too, like we will
be getting into it because one day I ain't gonna lie.
We went to Target. We kind of got into it
a little bit and Target, but he was like walking
in front of me, like storming off, but he still
opened that door. He was like and I got in,
and I was like, better open their door, daddy, wondering
about the American man. They don't play. I will, But
I feel like.

Speaker 2 (49:57):
Even he like there too a little bit. Yeah, like
he would never let me pay for anything, like I
love a nigga that don't let me pay for anything.
If I pull my car, he'd be like stop it
and pop you.

Speaker 3 (50:11):
You know what's interesting?

Speaker 2 (50:13):
If you don't pap my hand, if I pull my
cord out, I don't like it.

Speaker 1 (50:17):
You know what's so interesting? I I one hundred percent
agree with you. I feel like the men in my
life is so wead because I talk about us girls
UK boys and yeah, a lot of the girls, a
lot of the girls out here were complaining, we're tired.
But I have the most amazing guy friends. I have
the most amazing men as friends in my life that

(50:37):
if I'm out with my guy friends.

Speaker 3 (50:40):
I'm not pulling out nothing.

Speaker 1 (50:43):
I remember there was the time I was like to
the point where it's like, I'm such a princess, Like
if my guy friends come up to me, if they're sorry,
if the bills being paid for, and maybe the woman
gives it to me out like I have, I have
amaze and man in my life. When it comes to
Dayton now in the u K, I've had a different express,

(51:04):
but the man who are my friends had Oh they're
gonna take care.

Speaker 3 (51:07):
They would take care, they will, they will.

Speaker 1 (51:09):
They have this thing that they were doing for a
while with the girls. They were like, oh, just pretend
to grab the receipt. Okay, but you're gonna come across
the wrong American man and he's gonna be like there
you go. Appreciate the mom, Appreciate that good looking out.
So that's all I'm like. It's very hit or miss though,
So don't think it's all daddy energy, because it's very

(51:30):
much not. I think that's what you may attract because
of what you exude. You know what I'm saying, and
you for yeah, you four it say foreign is not boring? Yeah,
maybe here in that extent, they'd be like, oh, where
are you from? Shady?

Speaker 3 (51:44):
I do it, I do it.

Speaker 1 (51:45):
I give him in America's very slang in America, especially
when I sometimes sometimes I will say like if I'm if,
I'm if I'm the States and there's a guy that
I like. Sometimes I just act so stupid, girl, I

(52:05):
know exactly where I go. Excuse me, Honestly, I have
no clue. Can you just can you just let me
know where? I know where? Can you just like from here?
I am queen of I'm not from here, I'm not
from Can you just help me? And he's like, oh,
where are you from? It's actually genius? Where you from?

(52:36):
That is actually really genius because I will say this too,
You're fine. Men are so easy, Oh my god, they
are so easy. Like it's very easy. I don't want
to say I use the word plot because it sounds
so bad, but it's like, if you want a man,
you can literally do the bare minimum and pull them.
It's so easy. Distress stress work every time flotting worked too.

(53:01):
Oh I love a good plum. Tell me you're gonna
help me. This is this is when, this is when. Okay,
So how I got my boyfriend, like we work out
at the gym together or whatever, and I saw him.
I was like, damn, he's fine as fuck, Like you know,
I want to, so I started following him. I knew
he was gonna follow me back because we kind of
knew the same people whatever, So he fought. As soon

(53:24):
as he followed me back, I started posting shit on
my story like I'm working out, I'm posting this ass,
I'm posting everything because I knew he was gonna be
like private storymin my main story because I wanted him
to see it. So as soon as he as soon
as I posted, like ten minutes later, here you go
hard eyes in. It got him just like that conversation started.
The next thing. You know, we love and that's my man.

(53:46):
We don't roll off into the sun, bitch. We in
love because men are easy. Like I knew what I
wanted and mind you, it's a thousand men hard eyes
in that picture, but I wanted that one, you know,
because I didn't want to make it feel like it
was for him. I want to him to feel like
he was chasing me, because you gotta remember, you can't
do too much because they still want to feel like
they I didn't even tell him I did that till

(54:07):
we were like three four months into our relationship, you
know what I'm saying. So I feel like it's little
things you can do to make a man. Sometimes a
man don't even know he wants. You. Gotta let him
know you won't me nigga positioning.

Speaker 2 (54:19):
Yeah, and see with me, I've just you know, I
feel like you can go like a picture, Oh that's a.

Speaker 1 (54:27):
How many are we talking here? Like three fold?

Speaker 2 (54:29):
But you know, take it away back, Okay, take it
away back? Yeah that's hard, too far, that's too far.
I feel like he's gonna be like, damn want you
doing back?

Speaker 1 (54:41):
Then? What you do with? He gonna know what you
freak COVID time is.

Speaker 2 (54:50):
He don't know what you're up to though, and he
gonna see the vibes and he's gonna be like, all right,
and then I feel like if he look at your
page and he feeling you, he gonna slide.

Speaker 1 (54:59):
Yeah he did. It works like a charge.

Speaker 3 (55:02):
You know what's interesting.

Speaker 1 (55:03):
I need to start doing that because I start panicking,
Like if I like a guy but he's got five
pictures and the first ones from twenty nineteen, I'm like, well,
I'm fucked, because's gonna look like I'm really stalking. Yeah,
but if you do like the most recent one and
then you do, you away man, Yeah, you gotta do
the balance. It doesn't look too crazy, so it's like, okay,
oh I saw your resent, but oh ship like, oh,

(55:24):
you also have some nice pictures from twenty nineteen. It
doesn't look too yeah, but this one, this one is
that's you gotta goward out there and if they catch it, cool,
but if they don't, don't keep doing it. That's why
I said, you gotta keep it real, like you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (55:40):
This is good advice.

Speaker 1 (55:41):
All right. Now, you know I'm not going to die aloge,
that's great. Today, that's great today. Who makes you found
on me? Honestly, December, guys, December is my deadline. This
is to get a man, get boyfriend like a serious
relations what happened? If you don't by December, then I'm
whole than you tooccountable, not as our father. These American

(56:06):
bitches told me. She's like I went back to nineteen
sixty seven and like the picture on this bitch ass,
because there's there's no way you guys. You guys have
entered relationships and you don't want to leave the rest
of us behind. Oh yoh oh, no one thing about me.
I feel like I got to take everybody cause it's like,
you know, you got to give the advice, and I lived.

(56:27):
I'm almost ten years older than you, so I know
a little thing or two. I was out there being
wild and crazy. But I feel like there's somebody for everybody.
That's what people don't realize. They want to look at
you or look at us like we're loud where I'm
not just with this and that. But guess what, I
don't need a million men to love me and marry me.
I just need one. It's somebody out hey. You so beautiful.

(56:50):
It's beauty. I love my man down.

Speaker 3 (56:52):
I just honestly I love it.

Speaker 1 (56:54):
What she looks like the sinner, it's just give it
like it's just given. Hey, look but I'm a healed
lover now I used to be like a toxic lover
like crazy, I'm in my heeled love error. I'm not
really sure what error I mean. She So, y'all make
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(57:19):
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Speaker 2 (57:51):
I and we got hell a fake Facebook page on.

Speaker 1 (57:54):
The Facebook page our face.

Speaker 2 (57:56):
The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the
least amount of file. So if you're on face, the
one that's hours got the least amount of file, but
one that's not us got like two hundred and fifty.

Speaker 1 (58:08):
Make if you actually look at the content, because the
caption is like whoever it is don't speak English because
their captures are like bumba clade? Should men? Should men
pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes?

Speaker 4 (58:19):
No?

Speaker 1 (58:21):
Check answer below.

Speaker 2 (58:22):
Block block pull yo pully on poyo, Like that's literally
what the caption I'm like you what that DG is
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Speaker 1 (58:32):
So now it's time to get into the bag the
big bow bow bow bow. So our bed is our
six topic. Okay, and today we wanted to talk about
something a little different. Now Drea has went through this
before me personally, never have, never will not my forte.

(58:58):
I don't believe in it. It's not ministry, but it's not.
So we want to talk about breaking celibacy. Okay, have
you ever been celibate before? Yeah? How long were you
celibate for? I would celebrate, honestly, like sometimes like putting
a title on it is crazy because there's been times

(59:18):
in my life where I've not had sex for like
two years just because i haven't really spoke to anyone.
That thing with my thing would have closed up, you know,
for a hole on you. You know what I'm saying,
You gotta use that hole. You never heard use it before.
You lose it, you know what. Yeah, you know when
life is so tough, it's like sexist, Like the last

(59:39):
thing is like two years.

Speaker 2 (59:42):
Well, I will say this, I fuck you.

Speaker 1 (59:49):
Because I kind of let that stress.

Speaker 2 (59:52):
Now I'm stressed, but I with her. I feel like
you're way too fucking horny. If you're trying to fu,
you ain't got no money. Im grayfu because wow, nothing
even turned me on when I'm back.

Speaker 1 (01:00:05):
Sometimes you're doing it to get to the money.

Speaker 2 (01:00:08):
If I have negative twelve pounds in my account, I
don't want no dig.

Speaker 1 (01:00:14):
So it might be somebody. Look Nate, you remember, Nate,
what was the movie? What was the movie? Set set
it off? I need this money?

Speaker 2 (01:00:24):
Well, she fucked, but she wasn't fucking him to get
that scratched, to get that each scratch.

Speaker 1 (01:00:30):
She was sucking him because she needed That's what I'm saying.
But you were saying, how can you fuck when you
broke very easily? Okay?

Speaker 2 (01:00:36):
Yeah, but she was fucking for money like she was
fucking to get the money. And I would like, hows
be fucking because they horny? They don't be getting no
when they be still baking the niggaves.

Speaker 3 (01:00:48):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (01:00:49):
Sometimes sometimes I wish sometimes I wish that I would
like I couldn't do that. You know what, you know
when you see that, you know, when you see that
you're away.

Speaker 3 (01:01:00):
I can funk for money.

Speaker 1 (01:01:02):
I wish sometimes I do.

Speaker 3 (01:01:04):
I've not got me.

Speaker 1 (01:01:05):
Yeah, yeah, I'm not gonna. I see the girls and
they're like, oh my god, your trip your one big
bully money. I'm like, damn what. It's crazy because me
and my friend we have this saying that we'd be like,
she had to pay that tab, though that tab been paid.
They're like that that tab is getting paid tonight. When

(01:01:26):
a man is doing X, Y Z and he reial
little girls is paying that tab one way or the other. Facts,
you know what I'm saying. You know they're having a
good time. I'm not I'm not hating. No, I'm not hating.
I mean I'm hating because why can't I have the guts?
But no, it's not. It's it's meeting having a good time.

(01:01:48):
Sometimes That's what I always think about it. I just
be like, you know, maybe you were celibate for two
years because it was actually so that one that one
was like no title sun, but but I actually had
an intentional celibacy for a year, okay, because obviously I
wanted to get closer to God, I wanted to get
more to my spirituality. And I also felt like I

(01:02:08):
had a very toxic relationship with guys and sex. I
kind of feel like I attached sex to my emotions
and my and my worth and there were just so
many things I needed to kind of unpacked. I was like, Okay, cool, seriously, seriously, seriously,
no sex for one year. And I've said this story
a couple of times now. I was going strong for

(01:02:31):
one year. One year, no sex, no masturbation, nothing. Because
some of you not be like, I'm not having sex,
play with your pussy. That's me, I think, because that
what the Barbara's going crazy over there. She was always
you gots some batteries. You know how crazy it is
for your batteries to run out. You gotta charge. It's

(01:02:54):
a new battery. It was using it. Yeah, I've never
used the roast toy. I'm not gonna lie. I don't know.
I don't like roads toys. I don't like the road toy.
It's it's like it's too much. You don't want to

(01:03:15):
you don't want to know that crossed and they stayed
crossed for about three days. Let me say this, some
of the vibrants don't need to be vibrating, like like
keep it soft, Like yeah, I was shaken for four days.

Speaker 3 (01:03:30):
It's like it's given. It's given massage, too much, given
too much.

Speaker 1 (01:03:36):
So so you're just like, bro, that that thing is strong,
that pussy is strong. You put the vibrant on the highest.

Speaker 2 (01:03:48):
Set because I agree the roads toy it's oh D,
whoever created thing?

Speaker 1 (01:03:56):
What y'all? Because the first level is enough for me.
I ain't even made it to SEV that's seven levels. Yeah,
it's like seven.

Speaker 2 (01:04:06):
It's like the first one is like that's like the
the next one is like, you know, like a video game.

Speaker 1 (01:04:14):
Get to the next level. She ain't got to level
seven yet, graduated there it's level.

Speaker 2 (01:04:21):
And then it started getting real tricky too, because like
you'll think you back on.

Speaker 1 (01:04:25):
Oh it's not like a Nintendo sixty four, because you'll
think you back on level one.

Speaker 2 (01:04:32):
You'll think it's back on the and then you'll do
that twice and then it'll be like, I don't like it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:41):
It's just a little too that's too much, too much
for me. So you were celebrating no sex and no masturbation. Yeah,
but how was that?

Speaker 3 (01:04:50):
You know what? I enjoyed that?

Speaker 1 (01:04:51):
So you never wanted to real one out? I mean yeah,
I have thoughts like sometimes like when people kissing on
the screen. I got turned off when I see sexies.
I was like, I can't, I can't, I can't do this,
I can't do this. But I really was avoiding any
sort of anything that could put me back into that place. Yeah,

(01:05:13):
and unfortunately, there was one God, there was one sexy
guy that decided to move in downstairs from a flat,
and yeah, he was my he became my neighbor, and
I was like father God. And it's mad because the
first time I actually met him, I was on my
way to I was on my way to the supermarket

(01:05:34):
to get food chopping, and he came.

Speaker 3 (01:05:36):
He came to me.

Speaker 1 (01:05:37):
He's like, oh, yeah, where you going? And I just
moved in and I said, oh yeah, I'm going food chopping.
He's like, okay, let me take it. I was like
fucking hell, Oh my god. I was like fucking he Well,
that's it there, So that's how you broke your celibacy.

Speaker 3 (01:05:48):
No way, wait.

Speaker 1 (01:05:51):
For the food shop. No, no, no, crazy. Okay, obviously,
like first time I met him, you know, it took
me food shop and stuff.

Speaker 3 (01:06:00):
You know, I did shipped to basket.

Speaker 1 (01:06:04):
And then from there we just started going out and
he was just he was just lavish. You were just
buying me things, would just take me on. He was
very lavish. And that's the kind of like you know,
like nice, like you were just like I was just like, nah, man,
this is my tip. This is the type that God
keeps telling me to leave alone. Yeah. But yeah, so
we dated for about two months and then yeah, this

(01:06:26):
game was game.

Speaker 3 (01:06:27):
After that was game.

Speaker 1 (01:06:29):
I feel you though, because but I feel like, but
did you feel like you did it on your terms? Though?
Like it wasn't like the memory you said before you
were having sex. It was like an emotional attachment. It
was all this cause did you feel like it was
a better experience for you after the long celibacy? Yeah,
it was definitely on my time and something. It's something
I wanted to do, right. It was fucking great. I

(01:06:51):
know that thing was juicy. Se I know it was good,
and I know that ass was clap it was why
because I seen it? Did you see it? She got that?
Thanks guys, she.

Speaker 3 (01:07:10):
That's a weapon of mass destruction.

Speaker 1 (01:07:12):
Looking hey, pad of Joyce, don't play honestly, That's why
that's why our cameras from here just spirkings somewhere. I'm saying, like,
let's streak as someone say, do you know what sod
where people meet me? That's just so shocked to see
that I've got a crack. But it's crazy, Like Joyce,
we never knew, and it's just like, well, it's that's

(01:07:33):
why I said earlier, like I seen it the other day,
but today I see it. I said, I see why
that milkshake brings out the boards. That's why he wanted
to take her food shop. I would to take you
to get some bananas too.

Speaker 2 (01:07:51):
Yeah, I'm telling you you want to give banana.

Speaker 1 (01:07:57):
It's that wrongs from my tea. But we're gonna talk
about that a minute. What made you break your celibacy?
How long am I? God?

Speaker 2 (01:08:05):
Like, I actually broke my celibacy for like the last
dude I was dating.

Speaker 1 (01:08:10):
Oh so this was recent? You knew that how to
act shock for the people? God damn? Can I react
with the audience please? To effects? About to effect? Yes,
like I.

Speaker 2 (01:08:24):
Hadn't had sex for like six months until I started
dating the last person, Iran, what's up?

Speaker 1 (01:08:33):
I was like, good morning, queen. She was like, hey,
nothing was nothing was good about them morning. It was
so nice.

Speaker 2 (01:08:42):
It wasn't nothing good about the mornings. Ain't gonna lie,
But it was a it was a healing journey. I
felt like it was good for my personal growth and
for me to really get to know myself. I think
that's important. I think everybody should take a break from
six sometimes.

Speaker 1 (01:09:00):
I agreed, do you know what I'm can because there's
a big conversation about things like pornography and masturbation stuff,
and I feel like anyone that hasn't in their lifetime,
like let's just say you if you, if you cannot
have to take a six months out of no sex,

(01:09:21):
I think that's scary. You know what It's like. No,
I'm not making because I ain't gonna lie. If I
started having sex when I was fifteen and you never
break been going hard. No, If I did take a break,
it was because I was.

Speaker 2 (01:09:39):
But let me say this, though, it's crazy, it was
never like.

Speaker 1 (01:09:47):
I don't know, I've never looked at sex like oh
I need it, I need to have it, or like oh,
I'm so like, I mean, I get horny. Why horny?
Bro the way you lie? You know, I'm saying like,
of course I get horny. But I'm saying like, if
I have about of like a month or two where
I'm not having sex, I'm not going crazy. You never
not have sex for a month. Yes I have, Yes,

(01:10:07):
I have not on purpose. Though I was definitely beating
my meat every day. She would ain't help me. Leave
me alone, bitch? Can I get a break? Oh my god.
But I'm saying, though, I guess like for me, it's
just like, I don't know, I've never felt like, I mean,
probably I should take that time, maybe, But I've never

(01:10:28):
felt like I've had an extremely like unhealthy relationship with
sex or anything like that. So I feel like it
was never like in my journey. I feel like where
my journey is because I'm super spiritual as well, you know,
I feel like every path that I have taken on
it was for Mike, and I'm on the right path.
I feel like everything that I've done that's lead me
to be here. You know, sometimes people need that. Sometimes

(01:10:49):
I don't know, maybe that will happen for me two
years from now. You never know because my story isn't over.
But I said, for me, I needs that, I needs
to beat my meat.

Speaker 2 (01:10:58):
I felt like I needed that I needed to not
have for like six months.

Speaker 1 (01:11:02):
Like it was like a really good time in my life.

Speaker 2 (01:11:04):
And I feel like I focused so much on myself,
my personal growth and like on business. And it's so
crazy because I always say this if people have been
watching the show for a long time, I always say,
I feel like that was like the time where like
the show kind of like yeah, took off or started
taking off when we started getting like crazy opportunities and stuff.

(01:11:25):
Because I was just focusing on myself, focusing on my
business and being an entrepreneur, and I just wasn't worried
about no men, Like it was no man that I
was dating that I was worried about distracting.

Speaker 1 (01:11:38):
Then that nigga came in my life. Lord dies, that's
the thing that they do be coming, they becoming.

Speaker 2 (01:11:43):
They know it's they can smell it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:47):
They can smell that was hot like little seesus, the
nigga swiping beesus. Okay, okay, so celibacy. I say, if
this in your journey, do it. But one thing about me,
I'm gonna scratch that thing. I'm gonna get it scratched.
I'm clapping you feel me. I said, you've gone without

(01:12:13):
having sex? Honestly, I'm gonna be real with you, like
I really, I don't know. It probably has been like
a couple of months, like maybe like three or four
into when I was like in between. Yes, it has,
like I've had times why I'm I'm saying, like, but
it wasn't let me tell you something about lev It's

(01:12:34):
on lie. No it's not. But it's not like, oh,
I'm not having sex, because it was just because shit
was happening. A nigga couldn't come through. The nigga I
wanted to see wasn't. It wasn't like, oh, I'm not
doing it. No, it was just like I literally couldn't
get it. I was looking for it probably, but it
just wasn't happening. That's what I'm saying. If I've gone
a long time without sex, it's not like I was

(01:12:54):
purposely doing it. But there has been bouts where you know,
I haven't had sex for a while, but it wasn't
on purpose, is what I'm saying. So with that being said,
I think that if you do do celibacy. It could
be a good journey for you. You know what I'm
saying about, Like I said, with my journey in life,
you know that wasn't something that I personally have experienced.
But what I do it one day or try it, Yeah,

(01:13:16):
I would be open to it, you know what I'm saying.
If that's where my story leads me to. I feel
like you you saying that you have a good relationship
with sex. Yeah, I can understand why. That's okay. I
think for me, my celibacy journey was because I have
a bad relationship, right, and I wanted to kind of
connect to myself and connect with God in that season, right.

(01:13:38):
So again, it's it's how you feel you're trying to get, Like,
if you're outside, be outside. If you want to be selivent,
be celibate, it's fine. Yeah, I think it's just your journey.

Speaker 2 (01:13:51):
Everybody has a different journey. I feel for me it
was the same thing. Like I just feel like if
you ever feel like six, it's like an escape for you,
that's not good because you need to figure out what
it is that from.

Speaker 1 (01:14:08):
And I think that's what anything to drinking, smoking, whatever,
it's like you feel like you're using it for something
then other than having a good time, and you're actually
really enjoying it. Like everything needs to be in like
you shouldn't over indulge in anything. Yeah, and one thing
about me, I don't have an addictive personality either. I
think we have talked about this on the show, So
I don't get addicted to nothing. If I wanted to

(01:14:29):
drop sex tomorrow, I very much could smoking, drinking whatever.
I'm gonna go to the gym, I'm gonna be healthy.
But it's like I don't have When I notice I
have a negative relationship with something, that's when I'm like, Okay,
this is not for me. I need to realize, cause
I've had to do that with liquor. Like I still
do that every year, Like I'll take a break and
I'll be like, you know what, I'm going too hard,
I'm doing too much. So I think it's like it's

(01:14:51):
important to take a break from things that you're over
indulging in. For sure.

Speaker 3 (01:14:56):
I agree.

Speaker 1 (01:14:58):
I feel like I'm on a I'm on the accidental
celibacy Johnny, because as you were talking, I was like,
what's the lost time I had sex? It's been a while.
Bite yeah, sometimes it be an accident, this is a
this is like like the last time I got my
little back beating. That's why I say, sometimes what happened
to me? I'm like, damn, Yeah, It's like it was

(01:15:19):
a time where I was working two three jobs. I'm like, damn,
it's been like you know, because I'm working so much.
I only had three dollars in rent was dude. So
it's like sometimes you like, you know, you be busy
with things and things happen, but but that's also a
good thing because you know you're working, you're focused, and
you're happening. Ain't no distraction. That dick going distraction? Now,
I agree, good good dick will distract. Dick lo be

(01:15:40):
a distraction. It does. It's such a love for God
needs to change it because I think it's me. I like,
I have sex with people that I like. Yeah, I
feel like that's the best. The best sex that I've
ever had is with people that you love to me,
like love to like. I like that too. If we

(01:16:06):
ain't making love.

Speaker 2 (01:16:07):
Yeah, because I feel like we're in love at least.

Speaker 1 (01:16:13):
I love to pretend, like, let's take it the UK.
I want to do the UK. Men and the US
me have different. Oh that's a great question. I don't
know what I do know, but I forgot you do.

Speaker 3 (01:16:30):
Know, But I don't think I've ever been with a
US guy.

Speaker 1 (01:16:34):
No, I feel like being with a UK man. I
feel like it was it was like, it was cool,
you know, but I don't think I had enough to compare,
Like I only had one. So of course I'm gonna
say American men, it's better if it's good, one is another.
But that's what I'm saying. It was cool, it was cool.
I mean, it wasn't nothing such a baby. That's cool.

(01:16:56):
But I'm saying, but I've had sex with American It
was cool. But that's yes, wasn't It wasn't like, oh
my god, like, but I feel like I can't put
all the UK men just because I have one, you
know what I'm saying, Yeah, that's a good thing because
there's some American men that blew my mind. And then
there was something I was like, so what's the average?

(01:17:18):
What's the average? Are we saying, like for the US
the bat that have you had bad good experiences overall?
If I had, like no, it's like it's very it's
a very small community. Of men who got good peen
in America. They don't be slanging out that good wood
like that. Y'all can get mad if you want to.

(01:17:38):
You it's a thing. It's like it was a study.
It was like seventy nine percent of women don't have
orgasms in the States, like from sex. You know what
I'm saying a lot of women right into the show
and they're like, you know, I'm having sex with my partner,
and then afterwards I got to use my toy, Like
what can I do? Like yeah, yeah, the girls ain't
the girls ain't getting it. Oh, sisters, I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 3 (01:18:02):
I've had a great time.

Speaker 1 (01:18:03):
Hey, I'm a gifst mine I'm getting.

Speaker 2 (01:18:06):
I would say, he said, she said a grand time
over here.

Speaker 3 (01:18:12):
I mean in the u K.

Speaker 1 (01:18:13):
Like like obviously, like I've been with I don't think
i've been I'm trying to think I've been the water abroad,
no UK mad, and I've had I've had a good time.
I've had fun man here, extremely fun and I the
matter here are fun.

Speaker 2 (01:18:31):
Yes, And I feel like it's a lot of African
men in the u K. Yeah, I feel like African
men are real dick. Please, you had you gave me
a flash back.

Speaker 1 (01:18:46):
Don't get me started. You are a wild girl. I
mean that's from what I hear. I don't know. I
never had you heard it from me, bitch, you just
said it was all right. I didn't know. I know
you said we were talking about came in. But like
African men, once we get into like you know.

Speaker 2 (01:19:04):
Yeah, friends, all my friends that have dated like African me,
and they always say, like, African min top tier.

Speaker 1 (01:19:13):
The Sexty's top tier.

Speaker 2 (01:19:15):
And I feel like y'all have a lot of African
min over here, and that's probably why.

Speaker 1 (01:19:19):
We have a good time. She said, we have a
good time. We have a good Okay, so we're gonna
move on. So now it's time to get into the
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Speaker 1 (01:20:00):
Yeah you can read real good. I like that. But yes,
y'all make yeah Cromanti for Spash on this episode What's
up y'all as your girl XP and it's Sugarl Dre
and the call. Y'all know, we have a segment on
Poor Minds called Item of the Week. But do you
have a product or something that you want to promote
and you want it featured on Poor Minds. Your opportunity

(01:20:21):
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Speaker 2 (01:20:23):
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(01:20:48):
Send us an email and we'll work it out.

Speaker 1 (01:20:50):
We gonna figure it out.

Speaker 2 (01:20:51):
Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make
you some money. We love to moret a small business
man and a black business at that, but I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:21:03):
Discriminade. Any business is welcome. Now time to get into
the bop. Okay, So Bop of the Week is whatever
music you've been listening to this week, like the Good
Good Tune, so I'm an R and B girl. The
people know I love me a good R and B tune.
So my Bop of the week this week is by
an artists called d Mott and this song is called

(01:21:26):
My Everything. And I always say this, we need to
get back to the love making music. I want a
man to beg for it. Beg me, you know what
I'm saying, or just make me feel like I am
the last star in the sky. Okay, So dmont My Everything,
It's kind of like how that song is. It's a
good R and B song. I like indie R and B.

(01:21:46):
I don't like big artists. I like sometimes that's when
the music gets watered down so everybody can love it.
I like when people just make what's true to themselves
because that's how you get to the good music. So
dmont My Everything, that's not Bop of the week. What
you've been listening to? I know you got a good
I know you've got a good. You know. I'm very eclectic.
I love aphrobets. Aphrobe's is my first love. But I

(01:22:06):
would like to also jump on the R and B bandwagon, okay,
because honestly, we don't make R and B like we
used to man, seriously, we need to bring back two thousands. Yeah,
be sexy heartbreak love that tip. But there's something that
I came across on TikTok. Her name is Sasha keyboll Okay.

(01:22:26):
It's called hold Up. I really like that song really,
the strings, the like the saxophone in there. Like I
just I love a well thought out musician and I
really really love I love this song. I think it's
so well done. So yeah, big up her, Sasha Keybole

(01:22:47):
hold up. You know what's crazy that you said that,
because I find a lot of good artists on TikTok.
People be sleeping on the music you can find on TikTok,
Like if you set your algorithm up, we're like musicians.
Come on there, you'll find some good ship for real.
And I'm appreciating real music with like real instruments, just

(01:23:07):
like just none of this like beach ship on a computer.
I was. I was like a little flu flu I
swear that. I went to recess Landet It's an event
in the UK, and they had a little section where
there was a guy on stage. I don't even want

(01:23:28):
to say this out loud, but I don't give a
fuck because I'm licky, licky he was. He had a
I don't know who this guy is. He had as
he was wearing a white vest, jeans, and he had
a saxophone and he was blowing, and I was freaking
a lord of massive blood of Jesus. This is a

(01:23:49):
good you liked it? I fucking liked it so bad
blowing and he was and he just looked I think
did he have a do rag?

Speaker 3 (01:23:56):
I don't even remember.

Speaker 1 (01:23:57):
I just know that he had a saxophone in hand,
was blowing, and he looked sexy doing that. I'm always like, yeah,
what else? What else you blow? I ain't gonna I
ain't gonna lie. I want to see a nigga playing
a piccolo? You you deep in your bag? If that's
what you playing a piccolo? Stop, It's like a wind instrument.

(01:24:21):
It's a wind instrument. Clarinet. Do you have clarinets here? Yeah?
But I'm just why is that specific instrument? Exactly? Because
you didn't even know what it is?

Speaker 2 (01:24:35):
If you if you play a piccolo, you deep in
your bag, deep in your bag?

Speaker 1 (01:24:39):
You a wind player? You were like, you said, what
else you blow?

Speaker 2 (01:24:44):
You know?

Speaker 1 (01:24:45):
This couch? Is this count? I don't know what's in
this wrong, but y'all is cutting off.

Speaker 2 (01:24:52):
Okay, all right, so you know I gotta bring it
full a circle. Lord, bring it back to the States.

Speaker 1 (01:24:58):
Okay, little hood is she? Boss man be love?

Speaker 3 (01:25:02):
Oh my god?

Speaker 1 (01:25:03):
You so.

Speaker 2 (01:25:06):
He got a song called mister pot Scraper, and I
love it. I'm gonna read y'all some lyrics.

Speaker 1 (01:25:14):
Okay, thank you, Thank you.

Speaker 2 (01:25:18):
Left pocket full of pink fifties. Why pocket got blues
in it? Plugs singing in packs to me, I know
what to do with it. A thousand dollars shoes, I'm
walking on a damn ounce. He ain't running up a bag.
He running his damn mouth. Oh that was a bar
low key, yeah, okay, he meant that. He said I
missed a swang a doll. Mister beat the road two

(01:25:41):
thousand on the coat, stepping on their throat.

Speaker 1 (01:25:44):
Nigga. Ah, that would so good. Thank you, Thank you,
You're welcome. Appreciate that. I love y'all. I love this song.
You do something to my speriod. I see, I see
it's in me, not me. Thank you, Thank you. Shout
out the boss man love. Okay, So now can I

(01:26:07):
what you want to you like I feel like you.
I see you over there. You like that because you
know what. Trap music is such a new genre for me.
But there was a song in America that was spinning
when three Silk City, it's three ten baby and Blue Faces.

(01:26:30):
I'm like, I ain't never heard this one. You might
be putting a little sleepy.

Speaker 3 (01:26:34):
Honestly, you've probably heard it.

Speaker 1 (01:26:36):
It was spinning, is it? Well? Think? Oh? I know that. Yeah,
it was a vibe.

Speaker 2 (01:26:47):
It was a.

Speaker 1 (01:26:49):
No, no, it's not. I made a TikTok to it.
I was okay, you ate you ate with that one.
That was a vibe. I'm not going on. That was
a good one for the streets. What's up, y'all? Iss
your girl xp Andy shergirls raying a call and y'all
do not forget to call our shot line. I know
you've heard of a hotline, but this is the poor

(01:27:10):
mind's shot line. Yeah, we love to hear from y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:27:13):
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from y'all if we want to know y'all, feedback, y'all,
thoughts on the show, or just what's going on in
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Speaker 1 (01:27:27):
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a brother, cousin, boyfriend. Okay, well I want to hear
about that. Actually, well, you know, they can let a
little some but you know, we want to keep it
cute and short. Like she said, this is not questions,
This is not pour your heart out. So just call
give us a little feedback. What you want to see
on the show, any suggestions, what you think about the show,

(01:27:48):
if you just want to simply give us our flowers,
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If you just want to vent and get some things
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So we're gonna answer our favorite Do you give good advice?

(01:28:09):
I try to. I think you do give good advice.
I do my burst, I do I feel like you're
gonna give I feel like you give good advice. So
this is our favorite segment of the show where we
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You get to skip the line period. Okay, Dre, you

(01:28:29):
want me to read number one? You know I'm gonna
read it, damn because I read the long Okay, right,
you're right, you're right, Go ahead, Hadrian and Lys.

Speaker 2 (01:28:39):
I am in a rough patch with a friend of
mine who I've been friends with for well over fifteen years.
Within the last eight years at least, we have grown
to become best friends, even though we're total opposites. I'm
the stay at home and chilled with the glass of
wine girl, while she likes to turn up and party.
Being that she is so on the scene, she often
tells me stories about her other friends, personal life, and

(01:29:01):
tea that happens while we're partying. I pretty much know
something about all of her friends, even things that maybe
I shouldn't know. At first, the tea was entertaining, but
as we get older, I find myself questioning were the
things I've confided in her while venting has been shared
with her other friends. I've even asked her flat out

(01:29:22):
if she's ever shared my tea with her other friends,
but she swears she would never bring it up because
we're so close. The older I get, the less I
find gossip and tea entertaining. And although I love her,
I'm starting to look at her sideways. I want to
be able to share my life and my friend without
fear of people I don't know personally knowing my business.

(01:29:44):
My question is am I foolish to believe that she
really isn't spreading my business out of the loyalty and
bun that we have, or should I just come to
terms with the facts that I've outgrown the friendship. Please
keep me anonymous as our friend group does enjoy watching
poor minds weakly take slightly.

Speaker 1 (01:30:00):
Hey, y'all, well, I'm telling you you're not getting invited
next week when they have girls night, because if you're
watching this weekly, she asked her about it, she might know.

Speaker 2 (01:30:09):
I don't think so, I mean, I don't mean nothing
will say specifically that would like give it here?

Speaker 1 (01:30:14):
Okay, So how do you feel? I feel like obviously
they've been friends for a long time, They've been friends
for fifteen years, They're best friends. They live they live
different lives, and she feels that she's she's afraid that
her friend is spreading her business or could be spreading
her business. Honestly, I feel like as we get older,

(01:30:36):
we actually need to start keep us something shit to ourselves. Amen,
Like I can't. I'm gonna be honest, and I mean
I'm an overshare her, but I feel like if you
are afraid of information coming out, I know it's your
best friend and it's a win, but I feel like
sometimes we need to actually you don't have to tell
your friends everything, like seriously, Like I agree, I agree, And.

Speaker 3 (01:30:59):
Unfortunately there are some people that love just like for me,
I love just die.

Speaker 1 (01:31:04):
Like I feel like I couldn't be friends with someone
that doesn't, yeah, because I'm I'm I'm someone that likes
chi people who don't want to tell me. Maybe it's
a little weird to me, it's.

Speaker 2 (01:31:17):
Because yeah, Like I feel like if we're friends, like
I'll say this when it comes to like strangers, I'm
never gonna overshare with strangers, but when it comes to
my friends.

Speaker 1 (01:31:27):
Like, if I really fuck with you, you will know
a lot about me.

Speaker 2 (01:31:31):
Yeah, And so people who you're friends with who don't
want to tell you certain things. I think that's a
little strange. I agree, But I also feel like if
you don't want people to find out, you shouldn't tell
them anything. But also you shouldn't be friends with people
that you feel like you can't tell. I really because

(01:31:52):
I don't care if that makes sense. Like I'm never
when I think about my friendships with people and the
stuff that I tell them, I'm never like, Oh, I
wonder if when I'm not around her, she be telling
people my bi Yeah it necross my mind.

Speaker 3 (01:32:05):
It doesn't cross your mind.

Speaker 1 (01:32:06):
Yeah, yeah, And do you know what sometimes like, I
feel like sometimes when people have friendships for a long time,
they feel like they need to stay in those friendships.

Speaker 3 (01:32:17):
But dynamics can change.

Speaker 1 (01:32:18):
Like, for example, when you're younger, you probably had something
in comment, maybe you guys played volleyball together. It's like, oh, yeah,
let's be best friends. But it seems like as you've grown,
you guys have you guys are now completely two different
people in your adult hard years. And she likes to
do some stuff you don't like to do it, and
now you can't trust her. I feel like, honestly, you
should just charge it for me. Yeah, I think sometimes

(01:32:39):
we like to force friendships because of time. Yeah, time
doesn't mean anything, agreed. You can meet somebody and then
this be a person that is your best friend for
life and y'all bonded like that, like, and then you
can be friends with somebody fifteen years and it's like,
you know what, this doesn't serve me anymore. So I
think a lot of times we put so much emphasis
on time when time doesn't really meet much to me

(01:33:00):
when it comes to like bonds with somebody. But I
also think too, another thing, like you said, I don't
feel like that, Like when I because I tell Dre
all my business, I'll never be like, oh I want
I Drea's telling it. I literally that thought has literally
never crossed my mind. Yeah. And another thing too, is
like like if Drea was telling me something about like

(01:33:21):
her business and her boyfriend, my other friends they wouldn't
even care to hear that that. My friends would probably
think it's We're like, okay, why does this matter? Like
what are you telling me this for? So I don't
even think that's like a thing.

Speaker 2 (01:33:33):
I just don't even care though, like I said, because
the things about life shit always gonna come to a head,
like you always gonna find out what the fuck really
going on at some point. So even if you got
a friend where you think you confiding them and you
telling them all your deepest, darkest secrets and you don't

(01:33:54):
want nobody to know.

Speaker 1 (01:33:55):
If she's telling people your business, you gonna find out.
You'll find out.

Speaker 2 (01:33:59):
Agree, it's gonna get back to you some kind of
way at some point. If she missed you like that,
it's gonna get back to you. So it's to me,
it's just not even nothing to worry about. But again,
you know, like personally, I have some sheep that don't
nobody know.

Speaker 1 (01:34:14):
There's some shit I'm taking to you.

Speaker 2 (01:34:16):
Yeah, Like it's certain shit that only I know. And
because I feel that way, I would never tell nobody, right,
So I feel like, if you're telling people stuff and
you're scared about people finding out, just keep it to yourself.
That's the problem with people like overshares. Everybody want to
overshare all they sit. Keep it to yourself. Sometimes it's okay, yo, Yeah,
all right, I hope y'all got some time.

Speaker 1 (01:34:40):
That question along. It is long, it's not too too
it's not bad like the other I'm gonna show it
to hood, okay, so I'll start high ladies. I started
this man about a month ago, and he took me
on dates and paid for everything without a problem. He
even took me to a high class Italian restaurant on
the second date, and in between dates we would talk
on the phone all the time. By the fifth date,
I was ready give him some. My throat wasn't feeling well.

(01:35:02):
I ordered tea on that day. This is very important.
After an intimate night, I woke up in his apartment
and suggested Starbucks, and he suggested a Starbucks medicine ball
for my throat. I'm thinking he was offering it as
a kind gesture since he already knew I had a
little cough. I told him that we could go back,
that we could go, even though I already had tea
at home. We get to Starbucks and once it's time

(01:35:25):
to pay, he's just standing there. I asked him, did
you forget your wallet? He's like, no, I have it.
The barista is just staring at him, as irritated as
I am. I go ahead and pay. He drops me
off and I go about my day. He had no
problem spending money, but once we get intimate. He didn't
want to pay for my nine dollars Starbucks order, and

(01:35:45):
my thing is, it was so embarrassing and uncomfortable for
me to be put on the spot like that. It
was like he completely switched up. I gave my body
to him, and now he doesn't care about my well being.
It didn't sit right with me, so I texted him
about it. I told him at that moment, I didn't
feel safe with him, and that he misled me by
suggesting something and not offering to pay. That's so weird.

(01:36:08):
All he said was it's disappointing that you feel that way,
and that he didn't mind paying until I asked him
if he didn't if he had his wallet. I feel
at this point he was testing me. I'm so upset
because I've been celibate for four months and I wasted
it on him. I didn't text back, and a few
days went by, I got a text for him saying
we should just be friends. I told him better yet,

(01:36:30):
we can just go our separate ways. I feel like
this was intentional and very calculated. Why would I want
to be friends with you? After that? And my tripping?
Was I doing too much? For speaking up. Money isn't
the issue. It was the principal hoping to get some advice.

Speaker 2 (01:36:44):
I think you it was nine dollars fox, like I
was finking if I say this that goodest thing?

Speaker 1 (01:36:53):
Yeah? Are you being like a pigmy? But well, the
truth over two things. I want to say, can we
all let's come, let's come closer. Being taken out for
food is bare minimum? Please please? Can we make stop trick?
He's not a trick if he only buys your food,

(01:37:15):
like agreed second date in Italian? Baby, he should have
taken you to Italian on the first date. You know
what I'm saying. That's the standard, right, Let's let's let's
let's bring it to a new standard. That's the first thing.
Let's let's all give yourself a new standard so we
don't put certain behaviors on and then equate that to
be like, oh my god, he took me Italian, so
that must mean he really likes me. It's like, no,

(01:37:37):
he's got money and he's hungry, right right, Like that's.

Speaker 3 (01:37:39):
The first thing.

Speaker 1 (01:37:40):
Anyways, fact second thing for me, I do feel like
he was testing her, and I think this ship is
so annoying. I see a lot of guys like, oh,
I've spent money on me, and let's see if she'll
spend the money as well.

Speaker 3 (01:37:53):
But to me, I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (01:37:56):
I would have just paid for it, because if you've
taken me on five good dates, you've spent you've looked
after me, you've sorted down my taxi, you saw everything
me paying nine dollars, I will probably look at you sideways,
but I'll be like, well, my brain will tell me
he's paid for five things before.

Speaker 3 (01:38:15):
This one.

Speaker 1 (01:38:16):
Feels like he's just trying to gauge what I'm on.
Maybe he's seeing if he likes me or not. Maybe'll
he's seeing like if I'm just there for the money,
Like that's what my mind is. I think what is
what is annoying about the situator is because he's done
it after the sex. Yeah, if that's what feeling, then
she was celebate. She says she would celebate for four
months and she broke it for him. Yeah, but and yeah,

(01:38:37):
but nobody told her she will continue to be chopping
the money. That Italian Brad must have been real good.
I agree with Joeys.

Speaker 2 (01:38:46):
I just feel like if we don't want on five dates,
and you don't need X, Y and Z, you don't
pay for dinners and all of this stuff. Who gives
the fuck about paying for some nine dollars Starbucks? Yes, now,
if it's the first day, If it's the first day
and you left your card at home, you ain't gonna
see me again, because that's the little because I feel

(01:39:08):
like you tried me.

Speaker 1 (01:39:09):
I'm not gonna lie all that. Oh, like how you
said like I would have thought, like about the five
days before, maybe I'm not gonna lie. None of that
would even cross my mind. I was just been like, oh,
and did scan my little phone? Because I wouldn't even
think he was trying to test me. If he, like,
if you didn't pull out your card for nine dollars,
I'd be like, oh, I got it because it ain't
that serious.

Speaker 2 (01:39:29):
But five days and I'm not even really thinking about
you trying to test me. Yeah, I thought, y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:39:36):
Five days you my man? We in love by now?

Speaker 2 (01:39:38):
Yeah, I just like, yeah, my mind wouldn't even be
going in that. I would just be like, okay, whatever,
like and who cares it's Starbucks? You acting like you
had a let me think like you had carbar.

Speaker 1 (01:39:55):
And But this goes into the conversation that we had
earlier about the celibacy. You weren't even ready to have sex.
You've thought that you owed him something. Yeah, because fank,
you weren't healed yet to be having sex with this man.
Because you felt played. That's what it came down. So
you felt played because you gave him your body. You
shouldn't have gave it to him at all if you
wasn't ready, because honestly, it could have been like he

(01:40:17):
got the sex, and it don't matter if he paid
for the Starbucks or not. He could have left anyway
just because maybe he didn't like it, or maybe he
wasn't vibing with you. Sometimes men, let me tell you
how men will play the long game for some puzzy
men will sit up there and act like the person
you want until they get what they want. So until
you have a healthy view on sex, you shouldn't have
done it anyway. It's what I'm saying. That's a really

(01:40:39):
good point. Yeah, I'm saying, like it was like because
she brought up the oh, but I gave you my body. Girl,
You finna do all this over some starbucks because you
felt played.

Speaker 2 (01:40:48):
And that's That's why I was saying, that's really a
good point that you just said, because at the end
of the day, I think a lot of women missed
that part, Like if you are not ready to have
sex with somebody, don't have sex with them. I think
sometimes women have sex with me and and I'm not
saying that this is the situation with this particular girl,

(01:41:08):
but I think sometimes women have sex with me and
because of what they think will come from the situation
after they have sex. You need to only have sex
with the nigga when you're ready, because I promise you
it's gonna be you not gonna feel played if you
really get a niggas some policy because you just wanted
to because expecting something in return or expecting it to
be a certain way unless you pay that tail.

Speaker 1 (01:41:32):
I think this is something that my older sister taught
me as well. It's one of those things where it's
like you, as a woman, you always need to you
always need to have your power. So if you have
sex with persis because you want to have sex them.
It's not a thing where you're having sex with them
and then you feel like they abuse you know, you
ate my pussy.

Speaker 3 (01:41:49):
And I had a good mother.

Speaker 1 (01:41:50):
That was it. Like even if it's a thing where
a guy takes you out for five days and you
had your time and you try to listen, I'm fucking
you because.

Speaker 3 (01:41:59):
I decided to because I want to fuck you and you.

Speaker 1 (01:42:01):
Look good and stuff, and you had sex and you
and it didn't and that's what he wanted went out
of business.

Speaker 3 (01:42:07):
It wouldn't, it wouldn't.

Speaker 1 (01:42:08):
It wouldn't affect you because it's like everything was done
on your own time. Yeah, So like you were saying, like,
if you're gonna have sex with someone, let it be
on your own times, not because you feel like they
owe you something or because you feel like, oh he's
my boyfriend, now we have emotions, or he likes me
or none of that.

Speaker 3 (01:42:25):
Have sex with someone because you want to have sex
with you.

Speaker 1 (01:42:28):
And if it doesn't and if it doesn't work out,
and if the game is being played, charge it.

Speaker 3 (01:42:33):
You had a good time, that's it.

Speaker 1 (01:42:35):
That's what it is for me. I agree, you do
give good advice. See you, I feel like the young
you know what it is, The young girls here give
they give because like the girls that'd be like younger.
Sometimes I think we're a little more childish, So I
think about like what you're doing at your age. We
were talking to Whitney the other week and the things
that you do. I was not there at all, you

(01:42:57):
know what I'm saying. Yeah, not at twenty six and
like in that age range. So I can mind y'all
the young girl y'all got your haird obviously, the women
around me, women like you. Witne's got older sister, I've
got older sisters. So it's one of those things where
we just kind of observe what all our what all
our the older women in our lives have have taught us,
And we asked questions like honestly, like that's I was

(01:43:17):
asking questions like, guys, teach me something today and I
just take it in.

Speaker 3 (01:43:22):
So yeah, that's what it is.

Speaker 1 (01:43:24):
Thank you, Yeah, and shout out to Yaggy world. We
got our fits on today this episode. Now let the
girls know where they can find you all their good
stuff because they cut me. Oh girls, Hi guys, I

(01:43:47):
swear guys, thank you so much for having me. Please
go and check Poor Mind's episode on my channel Cotails
and Takeaways, where we'll be having more fun if you
guys want to see. But Yeah podcast is Cotails and Takeaways.
If you want to find us, it's Cortoles and Takeaways
on all platforms. If you want to find me, it's
Madam Joyce. So that's m A D. Because I am

(01:44:09):
a mode lady A j O Y C E.

Speaker 3 (01:44:13):
And yeah, thank you so much for having me.

Speaker 1 (01:44:15):
What's it's a grand time? So do you do karaoke? Yeah? Okay?
Lecks got a song? Okay, so you know I'm an
R and B girl. Yeah, I always. I feel like
we gotta do the classics. Were out with the classics.
Now you like R and B, you have to know
this song. This is a classic. I feel like everybody

(01:44:36):
knows this song. Okay, we all got to sing together
all ready.

Speaker 2 (01:44:39):
Oh and I have to shout out real quick. So
make sure y'all got a Muse Beauty Collection dot com.
That's m U s E Beauty Collection dot com. Get
your lip glosses, your lipliners, your mad lick with lipsticks,
all it.

Speaker 1 (01:44:56):
All right? Y'all? Ready? Yes, let me clear my thought
because we've sang this on the show before. But I'm
testing my girls. You know, we across the pond. So
she's been surprising me.

Speaker 2 (01:45:07):
Normally, I always know what the karaoke song picking together,
but she's been picking all the songs because I feel
like I.

Speaker 1 (01:45:13):
Gotta pick the classes to see how good. Because y'all
love the R and B out here, But this is
a this is a super class. You have to know it.
You already. I'm gonna have these are my confessions.

Speaker 4 (01:45:23):
Just when I thought I said all I could save
my chick on the side, and she got one on
the way.

Speaker 1 (01:45:29):
He's on my confessions. Man, I thought, I don't know
what to do. I guess I gotta give part to
him my confession. If I'm gonna tell it, then I
gotta tell it. Damn the cry and I got that
phone call. I'm so through. I don't know what to do,

(01:45:49):
and you part to him my confession. It's gonna be
the hardest thing. I think. Goda I had to do.
Got me talking to myself. I see how I'm gonna.

Speaker 4 (01:45:57):
Tell you about that sh come pap one and I
told y'all I was s creeping with, sleeping with saying
she's three months pregnant and she's keeping it.

Speaker 1 (01:46:05):
The first thing that came to mind was you. Second
thing is how I know him? It's not is it you.

Speaker 4 (01:46:10):
Third thing is me wishing that I never did what
I did, how I ain't readily for no kid, and
by bye to our relationships.

Speaker 1 (01:46:22):
Were I'm so impersoned with the girl. We are three
for three, we are best friends. No y'all hang over.
Oh man, this is a classic. I hope you know it. Okay,
you already? Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:46:40):
When you're feeling in your body, it's about somebody who
makes you change your ways, like hey, you with your
crew that wants.

Speaker 1 (01:46:48):
So they act like you're ready, you don't really know.
And then everything in your past you wanta let it.

Speaker 6 (01:46:55):
Oh, I've been in, done it. Yeah, after all that,
this is what I found. Nobody wants to be your loan.
If you're touched by the words of the song.

Speaker 1 (01:47:09):
This baby, you got it, you got it bad. When
you're on the phone, hang up, you call right back.

Speaker 4 (01:47:19):
You got it.

Speaker 1 (01:47:19):
You got it bad. When you miss aday, We got
your feeling. Whole lives off training. Know you got it bad.
When you're stuck in the house, you don't want to
have fun because all you think about you got it bad.

Speaker 5 (01:47:35):
When you're out with someone, but your keep ball thinking
about somebody, you got it bad?

Speaker 1 (01:47:42):
Why you when you say that you love it and.

Speaker 2 (01:47:46):
You really know if you can used to matter, it
don't matter no more like my money or my cause.

Speaker 1 (01:47:52):
You can't have it all sowers cause the caddy set
out watching me to have you girl.

Speaker 4 (01:48:02):
I'm watching and all I really I tell you all
My people's note was going on, look at your mate
into seeing my song to I'm young man, yr my girl.
I'm gonna tell him to the whole ride brold let
me say I'm youngerl your mo man.

Speaker 1 (01:48:25):
Promise to love you the best. I can't see, y'am,
been there, done it, hunt around. I'm all that this
is what I found. Everybody Yanna just like me. It's
too bad that you can't see because you got it
bad man. Were laying to that two verses. She wasn't done. Listen. Yeah,

(01:49:01):
we gotta be sisters, Auntie. Okay, we don't want me
to be my sister. Ye can be sure, wister? Yeah
you big sisters like okay, okay, we don't keep that
sisters is cool, Joyce always have a good I really

(01:49:21):
love you down. You know what I like about episodes
of you because I like that we have that balance,
like we're gonna have fun. But we're gonna have some
good deep conversation, some good advice.

Speaker 3 (01:49:31):
So thank you so much, y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:49:33):
Make sure y'all follow Madam Joyce on all social media
and we'll see y'all next week, y'all,

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