Stay Out The Business ft. Lady London

Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:00):
Are men messier than we messy boots?

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (00:04):
You know he down the soccer player.

Speaker 2 (00:09):
You know, they say, who is the mess You know
it's probably men are so messy and like they don't
want to live in it. They don't look at it
as gossiping. I remember I told somebody I was friends
with recently. I was like, you gossiping and he was like,
I don't gossip. I'm a man, So I mean maybe
we can. By the way, it's like, maybe we should

(00:32):
name it something else.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
Will that make you comfortable? But you're definitely gossiping.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
Maybe it should be Boston gossip Boy my Phone.

Speaker 2 (00:44):
I don't know. I think that it's just crazy as hell.
Some of the hottest tea that I have ever gotten
in my life.

Speaker 4 (00:50):
The man, the men be having.

Speaker 1 (00:52):
The rundown too.

Speaker 2 (00:53):
They will tell you from top to bottom from man,
let me tell you, and you be tuned into and
y'all let it be yo, mean, why real is ready?

Speaker 1 (01:28):
What's up? Y'all? Is your girl lisp? And it's your
girls raying the call and you are.

Speaker 3 (01:33):
Tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds.

Speaker 1 (01:36):
Where a drunk mind speaks So birthday, we gotta guest today?
We gotta guest today.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
Okay, y'all, y'all know we love to read the comments,
and y'all know we love and we have the girls on. Okay,
So today we have rapper, songwriter, actress, poets, and a
college scholar if you we got Maddy Lennon.

Speaker 4 (02:01):
In the building.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
Hey, y'all, so much for joining us, y'all for having me.
What are you doing girl? You know we have a
time we are and you look great. Everybody looks so good.

Speaker 4 (02:15):
The fashionist cheap.

Speaker 3 (02:19):
So talk about you know, we're gonna start from the beginning. Okay,
So talk about your life, like growing up and how
it's influenced you as an adult and.

Speaker 4 (02:27):
How you got into music and all that stuff.

Speaker 1 (02:30):
Wow. Okay.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
So I grew up between New York and Jersey in
a greater New York City metro college and areas, so
the center and the mecca of hip hop in the
nineties at his peak. So just around music, just always
around hip hop music, Like my mom never censored, no
music around me. Like you listen to an explicit version,
you know, like just girl ghetto, just a mess. But

(02:54):
I grew up really really into my studies. I was
really into school, school came really natural to me, but
I had like behavioral issues.

Speaker 1 (03:01):
You was bad.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
Yeah, you don't give me bad vibe. I know I've
grabbing baptized. Sometimes I thought that I gotta go back
into because I don't know if it took.

Speaker 4 (03:16):
Did me.

Speaker 2 (03:18):
But yeah, I really liked school though, like the academic
portion of it. So I just always wanted to get
into medicine and science and anything like that.

Speaker 1 (03:25):
So I ended up doing going to Howard.

Speaker 2 (03:28):
I under studied medical sciences at Howard, double major in
sports medicine and chemistry. Graduated top of my class at Howard,
went to usc CAXT School of Medicine for Global Medicine.
Wanted to do some administrative stuff before going to med school,
and I was always writing along the way, writing poetry,
never really rapping, but just writing poetry.

Speaker 1 (03:48):
I posted a video doing.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
Poetry online in twenty eighteen, and it like went super
viral at the time. You know, this is like back
when it wasn't normal to have ten million views, right
if people forget that, Yeah we had a time. Yeah
they even calculated. You even showed up in the algorithmself.
It was like eight point seven million views. It was
all over every platform producers, artists started reaching out, like

(04:14):
my idols was reaching out and yeah, I just started
rapping from me. I taught myself how to rap in
like three months.

Speaker 1 (04:23):
But you had never even thought about it before.

Speaker 2 (04:25):
No, And poetry is so different from rap, like you
actually have to count the syllables that you you know,
like it don't fit it on floor at all.

Speaker 3 (04:32):
Away and look, I'm not a deep person. I'll be
understanding poetry all. They be like and the blue Waves everybody. Yeah,
I love the snall I love, but it's it's very deep.

Speaker 1 (04:45):
So do you feel like a lot of your.

Speaker 3 (04:47):
Vocabulary because you know, to say you learn to rap
in three months, people consider you a lyricist. They're like,
when you listen to Lady Lending, it gets deep. You
really have to understand what she's talking about. So do
you feel like having your extensive background and education and
being so educated that helped you.

Speaker 1 (05:04):
Oh yeah, definitely. It's it's a big thing.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
I grew up in the Caribbean household too, so like
it was big for us to like, our vocabulary is
extremely important, our education. It's important if you don't know
a word. My grandmother used to be like, go look
it up, like you couldn't you. My mom used to
make me fucking read the dictionary every Saturday, highlight the words.

Speaker 1 (05:23):
I didn't know.

Speaker 4 (05:23):
Oh lord, Oh yeah.

Speaker 2 (05:25):
Like my vocabulary is pretty intense, and I think it
does trickle into my music for sure.

Speaker 4 (05:30):
Yeah, the very won't understand. I will. I ain't gonna know.

Speaker 2 (05:32):
Yeah, they say that about me on the show too,
They be like, your vocabulary is so extensive.

Speaker 3 (05:36):
Not the Twins right.

Speaker 4 (05:43):
For real.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
But I definitely wanted to talk a little bit about
your documentary, your three part documentary that's about to come
out on October teenth on Tube Always Lady Lyndy, could
you tell us about it? So it is a docuseriies
that follows my journey and making my first album. So
it was super invasive, you know, if I could be
transparent about the filming process.

Speaker 1 (06:06):
It's like, I'm so private, I don't.

Speaker 2 (06:08):
Even want people know. I want to target yesterday, Like
I don't. I'm just let's keep it on the hush,
you know. But it was like they were waking up
with me, going to like going to the store and
going to the studio and moving around with me, and
it was like months of that, like tracking me and
I went to I did a writing camp in Houston
where we recorded my whole album, Damn Near. I recorded

(06:30):
in New York, I recorded in LA and they were
flying with me to go you know, do.

Speaker 1 (06:34):
All of that.

Speaker 2 (06:34):
So it basically recaps the process, the nuances that go
into making an album, because making an album is equally
as sacrificial as it is rewarding. It's like, you got
days where it's like, oh, I'm so inspired, I know
exactly what I wanted to sound like, and then it's
days like I don't even know what I want to
call it. I don't know nothing. So it follows us
a three part episode, a three part series that comes

(06:57):
out all at once on October tenth, and it's probably
an hour or fifty three minutes to an hour each episode.

Speaker 1 (07:03):
Okay, and to watch it.

Speaker 3 (07:07):
Yeah, But I also feel like that's so good for
you because I feel like, obviously people love you and
they connect with you, but unfortunately we are in a
time where people want to know you. So I think
this is a good thing, you know what I'm saying, Like,
like you said, it's sacrifice. You got to give up
a little bit of the privacy because the girls want
to know what you ate for breakfast.

Speaker 4 (07:26):
People are interested in stuff like that.

Speaker 3 (07:28):
As crazy as it might sound, but I think that
it's good to do like more of a like a documentary,
so you can kind of control, you know, what's being said,
what's being done, and it's not necessarily like TikTok and
you say something wrong and then you wake up the
next day and you're getting canceled, you know what I'm saying.
So I like, I think we need to go back
to documentaries. Do y'all remember when like True Life was

(07:49):
a thing on MTV. Yeah, I used to love True Life,
you know what I'm saying. True Life was crazy making
the video situation.

Speaker 1 (07:56):
Yeah, like they used to have making the video.

Speaker 3 (07:58):
They used to go behind the scenes of like seeing
somebody in their process. So I think, like this is
gonna be really interesting for you know, us to see
a side of you.

Speaker 1 (08:06):
That you know that we haven't necessarily seen before.

Speaker 3 (08:09):
Ye, So do you miss like do you feel like
sometimes like cause I know, being an entrepreneur and working
for yourself it's not easy. So do you sometimes feel like, damn,
I should have stayed in the sports medicine and taking
that route, you know, what I'm.

Speaker 2 (08:23):
Saying sometimes like it's one part of me that feels
like I gave up twenty four I gave up a
nine to five to work twenty four to seven.

Speaker 1 (08:30):
Yeah, yeah, right, But I think this was like my
calling weirdly enough, like I feel like you can't.

Speaker 2 (08:36):
I try to quit. I quit wrap every day. I'm like,
I'm not doing it no more. I need to go
just clock in somewhere. It's just not that I need
to fall back on my education. Maybe I need to
go back to school and finish up what I wanted
to do.

Speaker 1 (08:49):
But I don't know.

Speaker 2 (08:50):
I think I have a message to deliver here, and
I don't know if this is the medium, you know.
That's what I always question, is like am I doing
it in the right way? Like I am a vessel
to deliver a message. Don't know where how, But no
I don't. I don't have no regrets as far as
like I should have stayed here, I should have did that.
I think I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be. But
I'm in the season right now where I really want

(09:11):
to like stop talking and listen, like really listen and
be careful what I'm.

Speaker 1 (09:17):
Listening to too. So that's that's just basically right.

Speaker 3 (09:20):
How do you feel though, because now and we're gonna
get to this in a little more depth later, how
do you feel like because you keep saying like I
have a message to give and nowadays like people are
trying to work and pop that ass. So how is
it being like I have a message to seeing people
like girl, we're trying to shake some ass.

Speaker 4 (09:37):
So how do you find that balance?

Speaker 2 (09:39):
You know what's crazy is I think a lot of
people may look at me and be like you not
into that?

Speaker 1 (09:44):
But I love that shit.

Speaker 2 (09:47):
Like in'side my house, like but like that'sh they be
trying to box me into this person that's like so poetic,
like girl, I am ghetto as fucking.

Speaker 1 (10:00):
Like I'm I'm, I'm a key, I'm a good.

Speaker 2 (10:02):
Time all the things. It's just I want it to
be like full dimensional. I just wish that music right
now is just all inclusive, like if we can have
a little bit of everybody come here, because everybody needs
to be here.

Speaker 1 (10:15):
Like we want we need a pop. What we listen
to the club?

Speaker 2 (10:17):
You know what I got there at the club, But
we do need it somewhere. Somebody needs healing, Yeah, somebody.
I mean, at the end of the day, you come
home and tat.

Speaker 1 (10:29):
I'm all Saturday, still gonna. Never would have made it
so they wanted. We just need the balance.

Speaker 4 (10:33):
That's why I need that because I'm a cry every time.

Speaker 2 (10:37):
While I'm crying, we're just not addressing it enough.

Speaker 1 (10:40):
We're not addressing pain.

Speaker 2 (10:41):
We're not addressing you know, vulnerability, transparency, heartbreak or happiness.
Like I'm in a chapter like where as an artist,
I never think to write when I'm not in pain.
I always like, if I'm happy, I don't think to
just write because I'm happy. I'm trying to live in
a moment right right right over here to have a
relationship correct living great. But it's like every time I'm

(11:04):
sad or depressed or I have a breakup or whatever,
and I'm like putting the pad.

Speaker 1 (11:08):
I think we just got to figure out how to
you know all the stuff.

Speaker 2 (11:12):
Yeah, things twerk a little bit, that's the mass. Then
go facts to Jesus, you know all the things.

Speaker 4 (11:18):
We love A good balance, So I go ahead.

Speaker 2 (11:20):
So I do want to ask you, like, how do
you feel about unity and female hip hop right now?
Like do you feel like like what has been your experience,
do you feel like people are like gravitating towards you
and super nice and nurturing or do you feel like
not really, I've had a great experience so far, but
I also like I understand it's not the same for everybody.

(11:43):
I believe in unity amongst diversity period. That's just getting
not to get preachy, but that's biblical. Like you know, eyes, ears,
nose all play a part of the body as a whole.
So I think everybody is supposed to be. It's I
think it's more unity amongst diversity that it should be.
But I haven't had no problems with nobody in the industry,
but I can see how people do have problems with

(12:05):
each other. And I know that everybody is not meant
to get along either, Like it just is what it is.
We have difference of opinions. I think a lot of
people speak on what does it have to do with them,
and I think, yeah, that's how it becomes bad within
you know, women's specifically and female rap. People jump into
things that just aren't you know, Yeah, it's not me.

(12:27):
I'm so out the way that I have. Anybody who
has an issue with me is more of an issue
with yourself because I don't be in the mix of
nothing that that will require that. So I've had good
camaraderie for the most part, Like I haven't had no issues.
Do you ever feel like as your career continues to grow,
do you feel like you'll feel the pressure to be
more in the meets or you feel like you just

(12:48):
gonna still always be out the way type of person.

Speaker 1 (12:51):
Girl, Thank you. I think I'm always gonna be me.
I just I think that in general.

Speaker 2 (13:00):
But like when I think about my level of privacy
is more, it's more private and less secretive. It's more
like rihannam, like we know what we know when whatever
she decides to give us, but we still feel like
we know her a little bit because she leaves it
in the music, she leaves it in the picture, she
leaves it in the like small nuances of who she is.
I don't feel like she does too much talking, like

(13:21):
you can't find them in.

Speaker 3 (13:22):
Rihanna interviews, right, you know, but I feel like that's
when we need to bring that type of celebrity back back.

Speaker 4 (13:30):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (13:30):
Sometimes I be knowing, like I said, good that we're
getting to know you, but on your term because I
don't need to know too much about people. Like sometimes
it's like, and I'm not a person that's like, oh,
shut up and dribble. I don't want to hear your
political opinions on things. But I do feel like sometimes
we cross that line of knowing too much about people

(13:52):
and their opinions on things and this and that, and
that's where things get misconstrued. People tend to be a
little unlikable, you know, because sometimes you see an interview
with somebody you're.

Speaker 2 (14:03):
Like, oh, yeah, I mean and I just think the
day and age that we're in right now with social media,
a lot of the time, people always feel the need
to take up for themselves when it comes to a
lot of stuff that comes out about them on the Internet.
And then sometimes in turn, it does the opposite. They
be thinking, oh, I'm taking up with myself. People don't
understand where I'm coming from, and then it ends up
actually making them less likable. Yeah, just more just lessons,

(14:27):
more like you know, leaving it kind of like maybe
it's true. Maybe it's like I don't know either the
headlines or don't I really don't.

Speaker 5 (14:34):
Care, right, That's why I need to shut the hell's
dress everything I used to be like that when we
were younger, like when we first started the podcast, but
now I'm the same way, Like I'll be like whatever.

Speaker 2 (14:48):
Adverse comments in the comments too, Yes, girl, people be
mean as hell and they always try to put us.

Speaker 1 (14:55):
It's very strange.

Speaker 3 (14:56):
I have to tell y'all story. I wasn't gonna tell
it ahead having a girl. I was scrolling TikTok yesterday
and this guy made a video. He was like, you know,
we talk about niggas being corny and stuff, but we
don't talk about women being corny enough, Like it's just
giving tomato boo. So in the comments that everybody's like
naming people who they think is corny and stuff and
going off.

Speaker 4 (15:16):
And I'm just scrolling.

Speaker 3 (15:17):
Like somebody said LEXP from Poor Mind, Like I said.

Speaker 4 (15:22):
Right, goddamn minute, bitch.

Speaker 3 (15:24):
Now what the hell I called a straight? And I said, ah,
called a straight. But I was laughing, and then like
if people started commenting and laughing on it, but I
was like thinking about it, but I'm like, you're gonna
be corny to somebody or somebody's not gonna like you.

Speaker 4 (15:38):
But it's like you can't get mad.

Speaker 3 (15:40):
And I almost call myself like about to make a
video to respond. But I'm like, you know what, Sometimes
I am corny, but that's okay because I'm me and
I think, and I be.

Speaker 1 (15:48):
Thinking, you funny, I'll be cracking up, we be having
a kid good ky oah ball.

Speaker 3 (15:53):
But I think that we are stuck in this society too,
that people are trying hard to.

Speaker 4 (15:58):
Be liked by everybody.

Speaker 1 (16:00):
Possible.

Speaker 3 (16:00):
Everybody wants to be the cool girl. Everybody wants to
be and it's just like, that's not possible.

Speaker 4 (16:05):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (16:06):
Possible you'll find yourself miserable trying to do it.

Speaker 2 (16:08):
Yeah. And I always think when I see them negative comments,
my silace is like, this is somebody in somebody's basement.

Speaker 1 (16:14):
Yep, just typing mad Cat's sweaty hand. That's my picture.
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (16:22):
That gets me through the like it's probably a little
dirty little man. But that's more everything to me that
you even get negative comments. You know, it's like they
grasp at anything. Like you said, like we was talking earlier,
she's putting a lotion on it. She was like, girl,
because they be on me, like if any anything is

(16:43):
out of place, there's a problem.

Speaker 1 (16:44):
That's how they do with me.

Speaker 2 (16:46):
I mean, obviously, the main thing is my voice always
is always like the top tier.

Speaker 1 (16:51):
Disrespect whatever you want from me.

Speaker 3 (16:56):
When I love your voice. I was about to say
that we had a that went viral.

Speaker 1 (17:01):
You was like, I did.

Speaker 2 (17:08):
It was so funny because everybody was tagging me, And
I said, because that really.

Speaker 1 (17:12):
Was the way it came in. I was never intu
fun so many people that did it.

Speaker 2 (17:16):
And people was like, oh, they're trying to be funny,
blah blah blah, and I'm like, now.

Speaker 1 (17:19):
That's how I said it. I loved dealing. Hey, you
had everybody's saying for a year streight a year.

Speaker 3 (17:31):
I mean, that song was so I remember a girl
slugged me with that song. What she said, because you
said shoddy lurking on my paget She because it was
dealing with the same nigga.

Speaker 4 (17:42):
Man, I'm watching.

Speaker 1 (17:43):
You because this is my beauty, this is my nigga.

Speaker 4 (17:48):
I was going through a hard time.

Speaker 3 (17:49):
I was going through a hard time, okay, and I
was watching I was lurking.

Speaker 1 (17:53):
I was, I said, you got me.

Speaker 4 (17:56):
She ate me up with that one. She Okay, So
before we move.

Speaker 3 (17:59):
On, because I do want to touch on the women
and hip hop souff you had brought up in a second.
But y'all know this episode is sponsored by our good
friends at Taylor Port.

Speaker 4 (18:07):
Y'all know, we got poured up per usual.

Speaker 1 (18:10):
So we have a segment.

Speaker 3 (18:11):
Called a Poor Decisions where we talk about something that
you did, maybe in the past week or just ever,
that you felt like was like a bad decision.

Speaker 4 (18:19):
It doesn't have to be anything major.

Speaker 3 (18:20):
It's maybe something small that you felt like, you know what, maybe.

Speaker 4 (18:25):
I shouldn't have done that.

Speaker 3 (18:28):
My poor decision this week is I'll start please And
y'all know it's always something with my house because I'll
be going through it in my home renovations, guys. So
I have just my garage is just like my mixed place,
Like when I moved my lights and take it. I
just store everything in my garage and y'all know me,
I'm a da girley. I got paint in there, I
got everything in there, And like I was just so

(18:50):
aggravated with I just have a lot of junken boxes
in my house and I ran. I was just not
slowing down. You know how you just get flustered and
you running around. I took my little lamp and I
like just threw it in my garage and it knocked
over a whole tub of paint. Now I got black
paint all over my right. But that's all right because

(19:13):
I was planning on getting the floors done anyway. Now
I have to, like and my whole garage it smells
like paint, which I don't mind.

Speaker 4 (19:22):
I like a little loosen the day.

Speaker 2 (19:25):
You know, do you your car in the yes, Well,
thank god your car wasn't in there.

Speaker 4 (19:30):
It's called that raggedy piece of ship.

Speaker 1 (19:33):
You know.

Speaker 4 (19:33):
I don't give a damn about my car.

Speaker 1 (19:34):
Imagine if it was in there though.

Speaker 4 (19:38):
Yeah, yeah, you.

Speaker 3 (19:42):
Yeah, all over my garage. But you know, we get
through it. We're just blessed that we have a roof
over our head. But that's my poor decision of the week.
Just sometimes I need to slow down and calm down
and look on the bright side. Okay, what's y'all's poor decision?

Speaker 1 (19:57):
But something? Yeah, go ahead. I'm still trying. I feel
like I don't make that many good decisions. I'm trying
to row it out.

Speaker 2 (20:06):
Okay, let me think, what is a poor decision that
I've made within the last week I definitely ended up
doing a three day water fan like last week or
like it was a juice fast, And I don't know
why I decided to do that.

Speaker 1 (20:23):
You feel like it, yes, because I was angry as fuck.

Speaker 2 (20:28):
I feel like I was being mean to people because
I was pissed off because I was hungry. And I'll
never do that shit again. I think that it's amazing
when people do these long fast but I really don't
understand how people do it, Like I just got to
lose my weight way, I just gotta work out and
die y well, not die you but eat clean.

Speaker 1 (20:47):
You just lose the weight.

Speaker 2 (20:48):
Like I cannot do fast. It just makes me so angry.
I feel like I'm a whole different person.

Speaker 4 (20:53):
So you're not doing it ever again.

Speaker 2 (20:58):
Maybe eventually in the future I'll try because I really
want to do a seven day water fast because they
say you research your whole system. This is my water
right here, so I really do want to try that.
But I just I don't know. Maybe it's mind over matter,
but now it was a bad See girl, next time,
go through the Nigga phone.

Speaker 4 (21:14):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (21:15):
I don't just you want to jump start to a diet.

Speaker 2 (21:18):
You go to the phone, THO thirteen fifteen pounds, no appetite.

Speaker 4 (21:25):
For the day, all right, you narrowed it down what
you got.

Speaker 2 (21:29):
Honestly, I was trying to think of something, you know,
but let's just start with yesterday. Me and my friend
go to this buffet out here. I haven't been to
a buffet in years. We were just like, on some
let's go to a buffet type thing. And she was like,
just eat this one portion of the buffet. I don't
suggest you try the buffet, okay, right, Like cool? So

(21:50):
she's like, I only eat this here, So I go
eat whatever she eats. And then, oh my gosh, I
started looking around like this don't look too bad.

Speaker 1 (21:58):
Whateppen?

Speaker 2 (21:58):
So I make a couple of I don't want to play.
I did not make it back to my hotel, y'all
before I was throwing up everywhere. Oh my god, girl
was terrible coming off both ends.

Speaker 4 (22:13):
But I know you were skippy, lost you.

Speaker 3 (22:16):
But I'm I will say this though, I cannot do buffets,
just because more so of like the consumers of people.
You don't be washing their hands and this and that
and what people be doing. People to be picking up stuff,
setting it back down. Don't be using the tongs. You're right,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (22:35):
So you try to be one of the That's what
I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (22:40):
Back in the day, we had such a thing for us.
Not because when I don't know about you, I had
a big family. We used to go and everybody, everybody.
You gotta play like you seven years old. You really twelve.

Speaker 1 (22:49):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (22:51):
A google g gay, I'm young.

Speaker 1 (22:55):
You as a kid, you're telling you're telling yourself to you,
I'm twelve.

Speaker 4 (23:02):
She just tall. Yes, I think the Chinese buffets were
things I have Ryan's in the.

Speaker 2 (23:09):
South, especially the Chinese buffets. We have them on every corner.

Speaker 3 (23:14):
Yeah, they're they're coming out here a lot, a little
lot was it was it like a Chinese buffet.

Speaker 1 (23:19):
It was like a like a yeah, like more of
a hai.

Speaker 4 (23:22):
Yeah yeah, careful, you got to be careful.

Speaker 2 (23:28):
Used to be good. So that was a little buffet,
little pizza buffets. Now all we could do is the
Ruth talents is not the same.

Speaker 3 (23:36):
Yeah, they're definitely not the same. We can't eat the
same things that we did when we were children.

Speaker 2 (23:40):
But like you said, it's the sanitation thing. To like
with the buffets. That I think is something we didn't
think about when we were younger.

Speaker 1 (23:46):
Yeah, people were switching out the plans. I was like,
it's the new joint. Yeah, you know in my head,
I'm like, this just came from the bag.

Speaker 4 (23:57):
Are you better today?

Speaker 2 (23:58):
I feel great, But I was worried last night because
they were texting me like you ready for the day tomorrow.

Speaker 4 (24:02):
I'm like, you know these bathrooms and here be kind
of I'm glad.

Speaker 2 (24:11):
We had a hall situation and feel like it was awful, Thank.

Speaker 1 (24:16):
God, welcome. I went and came like I went, came
like that. I want to feel like that. I would
have did nobody like that. That's crazy.

Speaker 4 (24:23):
Okay, so we don't go ahead and get into his
first time. You want to do this?

Speaker 2 (24:26):
I was, well, I was gonna X South High, tell
us what are we drinking today? Well, for our special guest,
she is an alumni of the illustrious Howard University. Hey,
you you know right, we're gonna call this one the
Lady Legacy because she leads with legacy.

Speaker 1 (24:45):
All right, we like this.

Speaker 2 (24:47):
This one has a red wine bas We added a
shot of Angle Store bitter. Sometimes you just do dashes,
but we actually put a whole shot inside of it.
We added some dragon fruit syrup, a little bit of
lemon juice, and then we garnished it with some beauty
full frozen raspberry. So just to give it a little spark,
a little special, a little bison. All right into this
and this is the lady Legacy. I'll take you to.

Speaker 4 (25:13):
A little spirit too. Yeah, yeah, is love that?

Speaker 2 (25:20):
Okay, Now you already know it's homecoming season, so we
had to come correct poor minds and Taylor Port presents
the HBCU Homecoming Slush.

Speaker 3 (25:30):
It's giving frozen vibes Taylor Port blended with berry sorbet,
lemon juice, and just a splash of vodka.

Speaker 2 (25:36):
And the best part, you can customize it with garnish
sheets to rip your school colors.

Speaker 3 (25:41):
It's fun, it's flavorful, and it's made to celebrate the culture.
The HBCU Homecoming Slush a Tailor Port classic in the making.

Speaker 4 (25:49):
Salute to the season, Salute to Taylor Port.

Speaker 1 (25:52):
So we're gonna get into our first girl.

Speaker 4 (25:56):
We got to talk about it.

Speaker 3 (25:58):
I love talking about this, especially with you know, women
that are in the industry. And Drea Tuck talks about
it a little bit, but I want to talk like women
in hip hop. It's been so much going on and
like you said, there is like unity, but it's not.
And then a lot of that critique comes from men.
So Jermaine Duprix has said that all female rappers are

(26:22):
the same, you know, they all rap about the same thing,
have the same esthetic. And do you think that that's
true for like, you know, the mainstream artists, Like what
do you feel like mainstream wants and they're looking for?
And do you feel like all of the women are
rapping the same?

Speaker 1 (26:36):
I can't say all.

Speaker 2 (26:38):
I think there's a lot of similarities and a lot
of things, but I don't think everybody is rapping the
same and it's always not JD.

Speaker 1 (26:43):
JD's a close friend of mine.

Speaker 2 (26:44):
I have specifically a lot of people, a lot of
critics without credentials come in to speak about women, and
I hate when men speak on women's business period. I
just don't think we don't even this ain't even apples
and oranges, right, this is a spaghetti and hydrogen. I
don't want to talk about nothing that has to do
with no man. We don't stay in y'all business y'all
still taking eyes. But me personally, I don't think that.
I don't think that all women sound the same. I

(27:06):
think they are highlighting a certain vibe right now, and
I just hope to see a shift and an inclusion.
That's all that needs to be done. It don't needs
to be changed. It just needs to be more people
coming in, because it's not that the people don't exist
outside of like the turn up stripper whatever music.

Speaker 1 (27:23):
They got all this stuff too.

Speaker 2 (27:25):
You know, we just need some eyes on it, some
resources put behind it, and to balance it all out,
like kind of how it was back in the day.
You had you had like a Lauren Hill, and then
you also had like a Charlie Baltimore, and then you
had a little Camon, you had a Foxy Like all
of these people are like great messages in just different vibes.
So I think we just need to see a moment

(27:45):
where like we integrate again.

Speaker 1 (27:48):
That's really it.

Speaker 2 (27:48):
And I think that's what men are trying to say,
but they can't articulate it properly, or just don't want
to articulate it properly, so they choose to just say whatever,
speak carelessly without anybody asking them was yeah. I mean,
and I just think it's interesting because if we're gonna
say that all of the female rappers are rapping about
the same shit, do these niggas not be rapping about

(28:10):
the same shit exactly? We know you're all yeah, yeah,
we know, you yell like what we giddy and it's
been that way for like thirty plus years. It's so
I just feel like, you know, if you're gonna say

(28:31):
it about women, say the same thing about me, and
it needs to be some variety with them as well.

Speaker 1 (28:34):
Yeah, got it in our business, Like you said, stay
out of business.

Speaker 4 (28:38):
Stay out the business.

Speaker 3 (28:39):
And I do want to touch on something that Sweety
recently said in the interview that she feels like we
talk about pretty privileged, but we don't talk about pretty punishment.
And she said like she felt like she's been punished
in the industry and people treat her a certain way
because of, you know, how she looks, and it's actually
worked against her. Do you feel like you have experienced that?

(29:01):
I mean, because we can see face card on the
con you're gorgeous. I mean, we you know we can
see it. So do you felt like you've dealt with that?

Speaker 1 (29:10):
Not enough?

Speaker 2 (29:11):
I want some pretty privilege. Okay, I'm gonna keep it
be hone with you. I got any type of pretty privilege.
It ain't kicking in yet. I'm not where I need
to be, so give me some of that. That's that's
what I need. But I don't, I mean, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (29:23):
I can't.

Speaker 2 (29:24):
I can't speak to anyone else's experience in this game.
I know that I've been boots on the ground since
I began. Nothing has ever been handed to me literally
definition of getting it out them and I still am.

Speaker 1 (29:36):
There's just no evidence.

Speaker 2 (29:37):
Of of privilege on my end. For me, I'm not
a commercial mainstream artist. I haven't reached the pinnacles that
I plan to, so I just I'm working like everybody else.

Speaker 3 (29:47):
I think, you know, right, do you feel like, because
because you are beautiful, that people expect you to like
sex it up more and do that, And do you
feel like I'm purposely not doing that because that's what
y'all expect of me, or you just feel like it's.

Speaker 2 (30:00):
Just not me, Like it's just not in my I
love to turn up to it, but I can't. I
don't create it because it's just I don't feel like
even people, what do you want to hear from me?
If I'm being honest with you, Like, I feel like
if one day I was just like put this pussy
on your forehead, everybody would be like, what the what
are you talking about?

Speaker 4 (30:19):
You know, but I get what you're saying.

Speaker 1 (30:20):
It's not it's not.

Speaker 2 (30:22):
I think I don't think I can do it for
long before it's like, are you just doing this for
the check for the sake of it? And also I
just again I'm big on the inclusion, Like, I think.

Speaker 1 (30:33):
That both can exist.

Speaker 2 (30:35):
So I think I would be dumb trying to get
into a crowded lane when there's a lane that's right.
That's why I open, you know, So that's it. But
now I don't maybe people do expect it from me
or maybe not. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (30:47):
I don't know if I knew, I tell you that much.
If I knew, we all trying to figure this ship out.

Speaker 4 (30:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (30:55):
Do you do you ever feel like or have in
your experience? Have you had any execs or like industry
people tell you that people lean more into looks than
actual lyrics, especially since you have so much substance in
your rep a lot of the songs. Yeah, I've had
people like tell or suggest that I dumb it down
or like.

Speaker 1 (31:15):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (31:16):
I physically I've tried to make like Cat in the
Hat Records, but it just I just can't. Like it's
like actually harder than you think for me to.

Speaker 1 (31:26):
Actually do it.

Speaker 2 (31:27):
But yeah, I've had suggestions from executives, from producers, from whatever, but.

Speaker 1 (31:32):
I don't know. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (31:35):
People always want to give suggestions but no real and
they want to give directions to places they never been themselves. Like, yes,
it works for somebody else, which about to keep replicating
artists over and over of the same caliber. But I
think it worked for them because that was their calling
to do that. That was their path. Now you got
to form your path, you know.

Speaker 1 (31:52):
So I don't know.

Speaker 2 (31:54):
I don't listen to nobody but myself and Jesus, and
so it's.

Speaker 1 (31:59):
Not any longevity in that.

Speaker 2 (32:00):
Like like you said, if you keep making the same
artists over and over, I feel like a person will
have a hit or they might have a decent run,
but they're not going to have any sustainability for their
career because we've seen this before. I think that's what
really makes a start is somebody that in their own
lane and doing their own thing and you don't care
what people talking about because you know the VJI that
you got and God got so And I think I

(32:22):
think it's some certain beauty to mystique, Like I feel
like when you don't explicitly show everything or show and
that's just like jo, don't show your hands.

Speaker 1 (32:34):
Your right hand with your left hand is doing right.

Speaker 2 (32:36):
If you can just maneuver through a space and have
this mystique about you but still piqu everyone's interests, there's
something in that to be.

Speaker 3 (32:43):
Discussed, agreecause that's how I feel about you.

Speaker 1 (32:47):
Like I'll be like, hmm, what does she like?

Speaker 4 (32:50):
What don't she like?

Speaker 3 (32:51):
What does she think about this? Cause I'm curious that
what you think about? Like, like I said, the things
that's going on in hip hop right now, you know,
you see Nikki and Cardi going at it very badly,
and then we see other people catching straights, you know,
like Megan JT. You know, people catching straight's. Then we
see other people charming in and add in their opinion.
And you know, I think you have done a great

(33:14):
job of remaining neutral and not saying your opinions. So
how do you feel about the state of hip hop
right now for women and how it's looking with like
the two biggest artists right now beefing and going at
it so badly.

Speaker 1 (33:27):
Yeah, I'm I don't. I don't really.

Speaker 2 (33:31):
I know that I don't have enough money to speak
on this conversation, and that's just what like, I don't spare.
There's actually nothing more than I can say, truthfully if
I'm getting to the bottom of whatever. Not only do
I not have an opinion on other people in general,
I just don't I be I don't even know what's
going on. I'm Patrick star. I live under a rock.
I just found out was arguing this morning. I don't

(33:51):
even I haven't even been on the blogs. I don't know nothing.

Speaker 1 (33:54):
But I just don't have enough.

Speaker 2 (33:56):
People are jumping into a millionaire conversations and my grandmother's.

Speaker 1 (33:59):
Water heater is bro in the hood. I don't know
nothing about nothing. I don't know. I don't know. I
have to I have to be where my feet are.

Speaker 2 (34:05):
I have to focus on getting to the next step
for myself, and I don't think that it requires getting
into anything to get like I just got to focus
on my paper. First full of kindergarten and keep your
eyes on your paper. That's what I just. I'm about
my money. I be at the bank, the boof in
the Bible study. I don't know nothing about what happens
on your blogs.

Speaker 1 (34:24):
That Yeah, that's it. That's all.

Speaker 4 (34:28):
I'm a type of bitch. I talk too much, and
I'm gonna let my opinion be known.

Speaker 1 (34:32):
But I think.

Speaker 4 (34:33):
But I'm also not a rapper. Yeah, but I think
it's important.

Speaker 3 (34:36):
To stay in your lane sometimes when things don't concern you.
You don't have to give an opinion about everything, especially
when it doesn't evolve you. And I'm not even talking
about like the tax bracket like you said, but I
think sometimes involving yourself and things that you necessarily don't
have to be involved in, you just gotta steer clear
of it because it it's gotten ugly.

Speaker 4 (34:56):
You know. I know you don't read the blogs, but
if it's getting real.

Speaker 1 (35:00):
Yeah, I gotta.

Speaker 2 (35:03):
I wanted to definitely, So for topic number two, I
definitely wanted to touch back on what we were just
talking about as far as.

Speaker 1 (35:10):
Men always being in women's being.

Speaker 2 (35:12):
So for the second topic, we gonna talk about, are
men messier than we me?

Speaker 1 (35:16):
Messy boots? Yeah, you know, he down the soccer players
is fu.

Speaker 2 (35:23):
You know, they say who is the miss beat? You
know it's probably a nigga. Men are so messy and
like they don't want to live in it. They don't
look at it as gossiping. I remember I told somebody
I was friends with recently. I was like, you gossiping
and he was like, I don't gossip. I'm a man,
So I mean maybe we can.

Speaker 1 (35:45):
By the way, it's like, maybe we should name it
something else.

Speaker 2 (35:48):
Would that make you comfortable? But you're definitely gossiping.

Speaker 4 (35:51):
Maybe it should be bost gossip by.

Speaker 1 (35:58):
My phone. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (36:00):
I think that ship is just crazy as hell. Some
of the hottest tea that I have ever gotten in
my life. The man, the men be having the rundown too.
They'll tell you from top to body. Man, let me
tell you and.

Speaker 1 (36:13):
You be tuned into what and y'all let it be
your men? Why real comfortable?

Speaker 3 (36:21):
But I will say I think that I want to
say this. I don't like people be like, oh, I
don't have time to gods about them. First of all,
we all have friends that we talked to. You'd be like, girl,
did you see this? You know like I think that's
normal to have conversations, right, but I think as men
like y'all are messy, and it's one thing.

Speaker 4 (36:42):
Like Charlemagne.

Speaker 3 (36:43):
Charlemagne has leaned into his messiness and created a whole
empire from it.

Speaker 1 (36:48):
He has standing what you are?

Speaker 4 (36:50):
You like a little? It's okay.

Speaker 3 (36:52):
You can say whatever you want to Charlemage here be
like yep, because I want I want to know.

Speaker 1 (36:56):
And I loved that about him.

Speaker 3 (36:58):
I love it.

Speaker 2 (36:59):
But that's what you gotta do that I can respect
anybody who's stand on business about what the fuck me right?

Speaker 1 (37:04):
Like I set it in.

Speaker 2 (37:05):
Yeah, that makes the whole dynamic change because it's the problem.

Speaker 1 (37:09):
The people that throw rocks and hide their hands.

Speaker 3 (37:11):
Is what I have issues, Yes, because what I do
notice about a lot of men who do like interviews
and they speak on especially women a lot. They have
so much smoke for women, but they would never say
that about other men, or they would like, I'm gonna
just use you for example, like they'll go on a
rent about Lady London, but they won't speak two words

(37:31):
about like another rapper, like an offset or something like that.
You know what I'm saying, Like you have so much
smoke and energy for women, but you never have that
same energy for men. If you a real gospel, you
got to keep it even for all agendas.

Speaker 4 (37:42):
Now you know you got smoke for everybody?

Speaker 1 (37:44):
Or keep it?

Speaker 2 (37:45):
Keep it when I get in your face too, because
a lot of the times they do, it's talking about
Lady London and I sit down with them and I'm like, so,
what's all of that?

Speaker 1 (37:52):
Mmmm?

Speaker 4 (37:53):
You know?

Speaker 1 (37:53):
And then it's like york I said, what what are
It's like, no, what did you huddle on? Let's get
the time stamps? What you said here? You know what
I mean. So it's like, just be who you are.

Speaker 2 (38:03):
And I can appreciate that a nigga to be like, yeah,
I said that. Let's unpack what I said. Now we
can sit here and be two grown people about it.
But I think it's a lot of the like I
didn't do that, m you know, like girl, and people
be surprised when you bring it to they front door.

Speaker 1 (38:17):
They don't be expecting it.

Speaker 4 (38:18):
Oh I.

Speaker 2 (38:19):
One thing I love is smoke with a nigga's fan.

Speaker 1 (38:23):
Favorite not me. I'm gonna hit it every time.

Speaker 2 (38:27):
You gonna do hit me exactly, Like what do you
want to do about it and stand on it because
you were said he but I feel like a lot
of the time men don't want to like acknowledge the
fact that they missy because they look at it as
a feminine Yeah, they look at it as a feminine trait.
So it's like they don't want to say, oh, I'm
being missy. They be like, oh, I'm just speaking. I'm
just speaking facts. So I'm just stating facts. So like

(38:47):
we be having barbershop talk. That's the same thing as
women spilling tea, y'all call it barbershops exactly. But they
don't be wanting to accept it, like they be like,
you know, I'm a man, I'm not feminine.

Speaker 1 (39:00):
Can get femine energy right now.

Speaker 3 (39:02):
It's funny because you know how like it like when
you go into like the all in the store and
they have lotion, but then they'll just put a blue
cap on it, and men it'll be like it's manly
pick it up now. So it's like it's gossip. Y'all
call it barbershop talk. It's the same damn thing. They
just put a blue cap on it, muskin to make

(39:23):
them feel like you're not doing what we're all doing.
But I don't like you said, it's not to me.
It's not a feminine trade. It's a human trade.

Speaker 4 (39:29):
We all, you know, we.

Speaker 3 (39:30):
All like to get a little a little tea every
now and then. But I wish that when men. It's
just weird, a little weird with men, because like y'all
have all this energy and gets so bold when y'all
speak on women. But it's not that same energy when
you see And that's why I say I respect Charlemagne
because it don't matter who in that chair, if you
want to say something, he gonna say it to you, you
know what I'm saying, whether you're a man or a woman.

(39:50):
But a lot of times, like the messy men and stuff,
they will have energy for one side, not so much
to the other side.

Speaker 1 (39:57):
I mean, Wendy Williams was his OG, right, he learned from.

Speaker 2 (40:01):
The best, learned from the best, stand on it every time,
and then he was trying to say it like some shit, yeah,
like it's Wendy Williams.

Speaker 3 (40:10):
V Williams, Like come on now, you can't do that.
But again, men will use that as a dislike a
woman is your og?

Speaker 4 (40:21):
Hell yeah she is, Like what what are we talking like?

Speaker 1 (40:24):
What's wrong with that?

Speaker 2 (40:25):
This is not nineteen sixty three. But I don't know
it's interesting because, like I said, me and just never
want to stand on it, like they never want to
be like you know where I am a missy beach
that lives the drama cause you are, and you should
acknowledge that and live in it. I also don't think

(40:45):
it's anything wrong with being like I feel like everybody
gossip a little.

Speaker 1 (40:49):
From time to time.

Speaker 2 (40:50):
It's when you over indulge that it becomes a problem
because now your ass is missy.

Speaker 3 (40:55):
Yeah, Like there's no way, Like I don't have conversations
with people like look now, like we checking in every
two hours a girl, now, listen, this is what I
picked up.

Speaker 4 (41:05):
It's just like it's three cats. Yeah, but like.

Speaker 3 (41:08):
We just catch you, old girl, did you see what happened?
And it's like in light conversation. I think even with
like the show that I have love lex Speak, it's
very lighthearted. I'm not getting into details. I don't get
too deep. I'm talking about what everybody else sees. I'm
not doing all research, I'm not looking at no comments,
I'm not doing all that because I feel like there
is a lane for like, you know, celebrity gossip and
things like that.

Speaker 4 (41:28):
But when did it get so dark and ugly and mean?

Speaker 3 (41:32):
It is so mean, and it's allowed because they feel like, oh,
we signed up for this.

Speaker 4 (41:37):
Yeah I didn't sign.

Speaker 2 (41:38):
Up too, like when you signed up for these? So
how you gonna be upset that I said this? But
y'all can get upset at whatever the fuck I want
to get up about number one, And y'all don't know
what it's like or what it feels like to be
in that position. Yeah, hunk a lot from being as
somebody that got one hundred followers and a private page
with the eggs as an avatar. You can say whatever
you want, but imagine having a platform waking up to

(41:59):
over four thousand and common people being yeah, like, you
don't know, I'm still a human that is still a
mental toe, regardless of how strong I may be, how
tough my skin may be, how much resilience I built
throughout the years.

Speaker 1 (42:11):
It's like, m damn motherfuck, how y'all to call me?

Speaker 2 (42:22):
But then but then you gotta look like, why was
I having a key through the comments? Uh? Huh, goddamn
be like that so you be scrawling and you fire ship,
they hurt.

Speaker 1 (42:37):
They got it.

Speaker 4 (42:38):
I can't even lie, I said to ship.

Speaker 1 (42:41):
But do y'all think that pillow talking is missy?

Speaker 2 (42:45):
Do y'all think of your man is like pillow talking
and he's telling you what's going on? Do y'all still
consider that messy with you and your men? Or is
it more like when men are going to everybody else
and telling them t and telling them drama like.

Speaker 3 (42:59):
It is normal, especially with somebody you've been with for
a while, because just like you're my friend and we
talk like I'm gonna talk to him and we gonna
talk about things, and you know what I'm saying. I
think that people look at romantic relationships like it's just romantic.

Speaker 4 (43:14):
No, you're your friends too, and what do you do
with your friends? You talk? But it gets messy when
it's like, damn you talking to everybody?

Speaker 3 (43:22):
Now. I will say, I don't like a bossipy boy.
I don't like a bossyble boy. I don't like I said,
if it's like me and him having a conversation, cool,
But if if you have like like outside of Charlem Man.
I'm not talking about Charlemae because that's his job, but
like if I see a man and he making a TikTok, like,
oh shit, y'all seeing CARDI being Nikki.

Speaker 1 (43:42):
Hey, go to work, build the house to war.

Speaker 3 (43:46):
Hey, don't build something something. Hey, I'm gonna turn into massage.
What is it not misogyny? What's the other one when
women do it against him? No, I can't think of
the goddamn name. Y'all know what I'm talking about. That's
why I need to read. But I say, I'm just
saying though. I don't like when I feel like a

(44:06):
man is just like not it's barbershop talk cool.

Speaker 4 (44:09):
But if you like, I.

Speaker 1 (44:11):
Don't like when they do nothing, y'all giving them way more.
I don't. I don't want to see a man smoking
the hookah, blowing it in the camera, in the front camera.
I hate smoking. Let me say something. I don't know
if I really mind them smoking hookah.

Speaker 2 (44:25):
My mind is the recording on the front camera and
blowing the smoking the camera too bad bitious for me.
And you could smoke Coogan with us, but if you
nudge me to pass it, we got an issue, sir,
because we're not sitting around here waiting the exhale or
your own fucking hookah, I'm not dealing.

Speaker 1 (44:42):
With it, or they order their own hookah and then
they don't want nobody else to smoke. Oh yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 (44:47):
I had that happen to me with a guy, his friend,
and I was like, hey, can I have the hook
He was like no.

Speaker 1 (44:56):
I was like, I was shocked. I hope it starts
tasting like a new Port short.

Speaker 4 (45:03):
I would have shocked, because you know, I feel like
just as much.

Speaker 1 (45:07):
But I do agree with you. Maybe we are being nice,
but we try to keep it fair.

Speaker 3 (45:10):
But I will say, like there's some things that men
will always feel like women can't do.

Speaker 4 (45:14):
I I am still stuck in that those ways. I
do feel like there are some things that men just
like I do.

Speaker 2 (45:20):
So a double standard, Yeah, I'm a double I agree
with some of the ones they put on us. Yeah,
it's don't nudge me for hookah. I'm just that's just
what it is.

Speaker 1 (45:34):
And I don't even smoke hook around me. Yeah. The
camera with the front camera in front of Sofia, that's crazy.

Speaker 4 (45:43):
I cannot get with it.

Speaker 2 (45:45):
A man, it just has never sit right with my spirit,
even when I used to smoke it. Yeah, because we
don't smoke hookah nomore. We haven't for like two years.

Speaker 3 (45:52):
We went out with one time with Big Papa when
I was Damn Big Poppa Hookah and Drea talked about
it first.

Speaker 1 (45:58):
Because I never like this last night, Why are you
putting a tip in your mouth?

Speaker 2 (46:05):
Exactly that I don't like that because we can relate
and we thinking of the man who they women, Right, That's.

Speaker 1 (46:11):
That's what we're speaking of.

Speaker 4 (46:12):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah exactly. We're talking about like men
that we're it's not my sisters.

Speaker 3 (46:17):
Yeah girl, what y'all want? Yeah, y'all have free because
y'all understand what we go through. Y'all date men as well.
We're all struggling together, so they get a pass ahead.

Speaker 1 (46:31):
So what about dirty making?

Speaker 4 (46:33):
I love dirty Mac.

Speaker 2 (46:34):
You know, like when men be talking down on other
men because I don't want you to talk to him, or.

Speaker 1 (46:39):
They hating because they really want you.

Speaker 4 (46:41):
I love a dirty man.

Speaker 1 (46:42):
You always you love a dirty man. I love miss.

Speaker 4 (46:48):
I still gonna but hate on that now because hate
on him.

Speaker 1 (46:53):
He trash.

Speaker 4 (46:53):
He sure is. Tell me about why you think he trashed.

Speaker 2 (46:57):
Give me an essay, But so you ain't never anither
having never dirty Max on another nigga and you was like, actually,
because you told me all of these shit, I'm not
gonna talk to him like it's worked on me.

Speaker 1 (47:07):
The dirty Macin has worked.

Speaker 4 (47:08):
No dirty Macin don't work on me. It made me
want both y'all because I got to see what you're
talking about with him. But I also like your dedication nigga.

Speaker 2 (47:18):
What I I don't know talking about another nigga. I
gotta prove it to me. I'm like, Missouri, I'm gonna
show me state.

Speaker 1 (47:30):
You gotta, you gotta. I need to see it for myself.

Speaker 2 (47:33):
You can talk all of this about anything that's just
across the board with anybody. I don't believe nobody's story
about nobody. You could be like, I don't fuck with
that bitch. You're not gonna like her because whatever whatever,
and I won't believe it. And maybe when I meet her,
I might know a bitch maybe, but I gotta get
there first. I'm very innocent until proven guilty s of
the bitch. So if you dirty macing or a nigga,
I'm automatically think you like him, Let's start there.

Speaker 4 (47:55):
And maybe not like that, but like a.

Speaker 1 (47:57):
Little ivy.

Speaker 2 (48:02):
Like I kind of like it's something about him that
makes me green like NBA something that's my first thought.
Second thought is why are you telling me I'm you know,
I don't like dirty Mac and niggas. I think I
really like niggas who'll be like I don't know about
that niggas like I like niggas like that that are
like I don't give the who are with because you're
gonna only you're really gonna, you know, who the fuck

(48:23):
you really should be like, I.

Speaker 1 (48:24):
Don't bet yeah, Like yeah, that hard how you figure that?

Speaker 2 (48:31):
Like niggas love to hit you with it, and he
don't be neverld be the last start because I don't
even if you say, I don't give a fuck about
that nigga either, no matter what you do, I'm going
to fuck up the nigga. But for me, it has
worked on me because I've listened. But then I won't
fuck with neither one of y'all because y'all ass is missy.

Speaker 1 (48:50):
But that nigga might be all the things you said
he is, so let me stay away from both of y'all.
I don't know. You might be your blessing, you know,
I mean might be, but oh I'm still not married.

Speaker 3 (49:03):
That was a good point that you made, though, Like
when men talk about like other men, it's like they
have a little envious. But I think also too when
men talk about men who they're dating, like when we
see how like people talk about like Aisha Curry.

Speaker 4 (49:17):
And all step needs to leave her because she does this,
or x y Z.

Speaker 3 (49:21):
Or wives Klay Thompson with Meg or people just always
have an opinion. They were doing that with jay Z
when Beyonce she had on something like a sheer dress
and they were like, why do you care about who
this man chose as his partner? That now, that to
me gives like you got a crush on this man.
You feel like you could be a better bitch for him,
Like cause why are you so concerned about who he

(49:41):
now that I don't like if a man ever has
a conversation with me, like.

Speaker 4 (49:45):
Yeah, I don't know why that nigga dating her? Are
you okay?

Speaker 1 (49:48):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (49:49):
You want to fuck that nigga?

Speaker 1 (49:50):
For sure?

Speaker 3 (49:51):
You want to fuck I know you do, because you
feel like you could throw it back better than Beyonce
And you cannot convince me otherwise because why would you
say that, Why do you care why this man is
dating whoever? And I'm just using them as an example,
of course, But to me, that's when I like, that's
where I draw the line for me personally, I.

Speaker 2 (50:09):
Think it's accurate men got these things called fantasy teams.
You have already been fantasized about half of these men.
That's why you care about their damkay.

Speaker 4 (50:16):
They want to know what it's hitting for yo.

Speaker 1 (50:19):
Man, it'd be a few things the dude that I'd
be like.

Speaker 2 (50:23):
If the list is long, because I also think it'd
be weird when dudes always want to hang with their
friends all the time over the girl. I do think
you need to have the ballet. It needs to be balance, Like,
of course, go hang with your homeboys. I know you
don't want to be with me all day every day.
You need that male camaraderie, But like if you want
to hang with him all the time over me, yeah,

(50:46):
a balance I just can't even do. It's like when
I see like when men are like super nice, they
homeboys and go all out of their homeboys and maybe
doing like.

Speaker 4 (50:54):
The bare minimum the girl, what I can't relate.

Speaker 3 (51:00):
Yeah, I don't do that, like you taking your old
nigga on vacation, buying him this and that, and it's like,
oh yeah, we can go to Chipotle real quick and
Netflix and chill.

Speaker 1 (51:12):
M we can go get a cabin in Blue Ridge.

Speaker 4 (51:17):
I actually want to do a cabin in Blue Read.

Speaker 2 (51:19):
I mean, but I'm saying, and you're taking your problems
in Mexico. You're trying to take me to Blue Read.
We got a mother problem.

Speaker 3 (51:26):
We got a big problem because Mexico right there and
them cabins and Blue Ridge, you might as well go
to Mexico.

Speaker 4 (51:32):
And I'm white.

Speaker 3 (51:33):
Folks be tripping over there talking about thousand dollars. Now,
I said, girl, fuck you, I'm gonna like this candle
in my backyard.

Speaker 4 (51:39):
Bitch, You're right, motherfucker's out here.

Speaker 3 (51:45):
But I feel what you were saying. All Right, we're
gonna move on because y'all know I get to chatty.
What we got next, dreill?

Speaker 1 (51:51):
So now it's time to get into the bed.

Speaker 4 (51:55):
Bowl a bowl, the bow, bow bow, our pound.

Speaker 1 (52:00):
What's this song?

Speaker 3 (52:04):
You know?

Speaker 4 (52:04):
I can hold a tune, so whenever you're ready, you
need somebody on the hood.

Speaker 1 (52:10):
Sample.

Speaker 4 (52:18):
Oh my god, I hold one.

Speaker 1 (52:21):
Then she founded like very white and she got so many.
It's okay, see.

Speaker 4 (52:34):
Why are you doing me?

Speaker 6 (52:35):
Like that.

Speaker 4 (52:36):
I ain't never gonna.

Speaker 7 (52:36):
Live that down.

Speaker 1 (52:37):
I'm gonna talking about that.

Speaker 3 (52:39):
For four months.

Speaker 1 (52:41):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (52:41):
So this segment of the bed it's brought to you
by Salt Eggs. So y'all know we love Salt Eggo products.

Speaker 4 (52:49):
Here. They have all the feminine.

Speaker 3 (52:51):
Washes you need, oils, everything, y'all. So make sure y'all
go check out all of her product lines. All of
her products is black owned, for yes, we have to
support the girlies.

Speaker 1 (53:03):
It's black owned.

Speaker 2 (53:04):
And then also she has travel sized products now to y'all,
so you can get your products to go on the road.
That's one of my favorite things about Salt Xo because
we travel so much. I've been needing a little mini
that's airport approves, yesty approved. So yes, y'all sawt xol
some of the best feminine products that I've ever used.

Speaker 1 (53:23):
I've been using them for about three years. And she
has all different kinds.

Speaker 2 (53:26):
She has ones for sensitive vagina, she has ones for
you know, if you want that little tingly minty feeling.

Speaker 1 (53:31):
And she also has like a Rodica Jill even know
if you're trying to get down, like to wash.

Speaker 3 (53:36):
That kettle to go. I got my travel size and
they and these products. Men can use these products. Men
can use these products as well too.

Speaker 2 (53:44):
Yes, it's good for your pH and it's you know,
his needs to be right, so yours could be right.

Speaker 1 (53:49):
That du but having that duck, they having that du
butter all right, you know the visual.

Speaker 3 (54:04):
And landed a little late. But I was like, okay,
in honor of your bar that I went viral off
of what do rich men do it better in bed?
You know, we've explored the topic of sex with men
who are broke because they got they got to pay

(54:25):
rent with this.

Speaker 4 (54:26):
Peen they giving it way all. Yes, but do rich
men really have better skills in bed?

Speaker 2 (54:33):
Like?

Speaker 4 (54:33):
Is it because they have confidence? They're arrogant?

Speaker 8 (54:35):
Like?

Speaker 4 (54:36):
What is it about rich sex? You know future they
made a song about rich sex?

Speaker 3 (54:40):
What is it about rich sex that we as women
maybe enjoy better than broke sex with broke men?

Speaker 1 (54:49):
After thought, I don't think are we having a real conversation?

Speaker 4 (54:55):
Well we have conversation because I'm.

Speaker 1 (54:57):
Feeling real combo.

Speaker 2 (55:00):
The best thick of your life gonna come from a
nigga that don't got no job, or if he got
a job, he responsible for all the red fruit loops
in the bag, a job that just you never even
heard of, child air, mattress on the floor halfway deflated.
That thing, you're gonna put you through that air the
next apartment for I don't know about rich niggas having
better dig they have whatever.

Speaker 1 (55:21):
I don't know they have what they got.

Speaker 2 (55:25):
I think the anticipation is like the lifestyle that you live, Yeah,
more than you know the actual sex.

Speaker 1 (55:32):
Ten times out of nine. But I don't know. I agree,
that's what I think.

Speaker 2 (55:36):
So I think a lot of the time I think
it be the money, the lifestyle. Money make him handsome,
exactly the same thing. Money make him handsome, money make.

Speaker 4 (55:48):
His It's a mind thing.

Speaker 3 (55:51):
It's a mind thing because y'all know that post nut
clarity after you have sex with a rich man and
you're laying in that beautiful master bedroom and you go
to that bathroom and use.

Speaker 4 (56:04):
That salt egg so that's in your bag and white
that koochie off, and looking in this grand mirror with
the marble floor, marble.

Speaker 1 (56:10):
Feel back, tip toeing on the floor like yeah, like
you happy about it?

Speaker 3 (56:15):
It ain't no clarity. It hate no clarity because you're like, wow,
this could be my life. You fanicizing now, but it's
something about you don't have some good, good dick from
that broke man put you through the air mattress, like
she put you through that and it was.

Speaker 4 (56:28):
Good, you dodnet have a good orgasm.

Speaker 1 (56:30):
But you you look at this nigga, the hole in
his draws. You're like, and you're just staring there looking
at this. I'm not doing this again.

Speaker 4 (56:40):
That post. That clarity for a Richmond is great clarity
when you with a broke man. But it's good, it
is good. She'd be like, why am I here? What
have I done?

Speaker 1 (56:52):
That was way back in the day for you child,
I am.

Speaker 4 (56:57):
And that's why I sat because I'll be having the
time in my bathroom.

Speaker 9 (57:07):
And we're.

Speaker 2 (57:09):
We're not like she said, we're the rich niggas now
sleeping with niggas on air mattresses anymore.

Speaker 1 (57:14):
I don't never even be in those type of situations.

Speaker 2 (57:17):
I do think though, that it's possible to find a
man who is successful, who has.

Speaker 1 (57:21):
Good Yeah, I think they're out there.

Speaker 2 (57:24):
I just feel like, probably I don't know, but majority
of the time that's probably not the case, because I
feel like a lot of rich niggas they don't look
Corny's like the money be the personality, and I think
they used to also dealing with women who don't have
much personality either. I'm hold I'm a well not me
because we can have a job. But it's girls that

(57:47):
don't have like Instagram is their personality. So like you,
you'll see a bitch that she's like gorgeous, flawless, and
you meet her in person. You know, I can imagine
like as a man because I've seen girls as like
that I'm cool with on the internet and Linco like whatever,
get drinks while I'm in the city or whatever, and
the bitch is just personality is in the basement. Like
I'll be like, damn yeah, same all right, bro? Why

(58:16):
because I play all day like I can't. I don't
know that the Instagram serious? We got to instagram every
little thing? And you hould up this phone while I
walk past it and I'm gonna go collect it from
the elevator.

Speaker 4 (58:25):
If it's just we always talk about the walk Away video, why.

Speaker 2 (58:32):
But think about other men to deal with that and
and have money, you like, Bro, I don't want to
be around this girl no more.

Speaker 4 (58:39):
I got enough. But I also think with Richmond too.

Speaker 3 (58:42):
It's like sometimes they don't care to give you good sex,
and they're like, okay, so if you don't want to
stick around, it's another girl that looks just like you
who's willing to stick around. So I don't really care
if you know or not. You know what I'm saying, Like, yeah,
but that's a lot.

Speaker 4 (58:55):
Of that too.

Speaker 1 (58:56):
Yeah, that's what I was saying.

Speaker 2 (58:57):
I feel like the money be the personality, like they
sometimes feel like, I don't have to do nothing else,
Like I don't have to I don't have to.

Speaker 1 (59:05):
Be funny, I don't have to be chivalries. I don't
have to have good zick and zick you down, because, like, girl,
you lucky to be dealing with me. I'm a fifty
million dollar Niga.

Speaker 3 (59:15):
And I feel like, honestly, the people that were describing
they honestly belong together. Like the boring I G girls
and the rich men who don't care about nothing'll both underwhelming.

Speaker 4 (59:25):
Yeah they need to go ride off in the sunset.

Speaker 1 (59:28):
Child.

Speaker 2 (59:30):
Let me tell you something. Chivalry over here is the climate,
not the weather. That'll all be always and always.

Speaker 1 (59:38):
I agree that I feel you on the what's fine?

Speaker 2 (59:41):
I cancer okay, yeah, that makes you love a girl,
you know. See, you know I do ship and I
cut up niggas in my songs. Right, I'm always respecting
niggas in my songs. But at home, I be making
plays and stuff.

Speaker 1 (59:51):
So right, like that's and that's me, that's all of us.
I I'll be making plays, folding lunch.

Speaker 4 (01:00:02):
What we cutting up at the crib.

Speaker 1 (01:00:06):
I've been singing folded in my sleep. I've been humming it.

Speaker 4 (01:00:10):
I hope.

Speaker 2 (01:00:13):
I would love y'all do a song together, like. I
feel like that would be such a good song. Yeah,
that would be That would be a good.

Speaker 4 (01:00:26):
How do you feel about it?

Speaker 1 (01:00:27):
Ta, I don't know. Some of my rich niggas have
been my best eaters.

Speaker 2 (01:00:33):
I think rich men have sex or use sex as sport,
like versus the broke niggas who are doing it because
they have they over their head.

Speaker 4 (01:00:41):
You're right.

Speaker 2 (01:00:42):
The rich men are like I can do. Like you said,
it's good if you do, it's good. If you don't,
I'm gonna have a time. So they be having a feast.
That's just my experience, okay, But I can see them
being a little bit less.

Speaker 1 (01:00:56):
When it's sex wise. I can see them being a
little bit less than the broken. I loved it for you, tigh,
thank you. I do.

Speaker 2 (01:01:08):
This?

Speaker 1 (01:01:10):
Okay? She ready to go. She's like, who we refine
it up?

Speaker 4 (01:01:14):
All right? So now it's time to.

Speaker 2 (01:01:17):
Get in sout hey, all about bow bow about?

Speaker 1 (01:01:24):
I love it. So we can get in this stool
right now, we go right. We do have a studio
around the corner.

Speaker 3 (01:01:32):
So the bop of the week is like, whatever song
you've been jamming listening to this week, it doesn't have
to be new, it can be.

Speaker 4 (01:01:37):
Old, you know whatever. So y'all know, I love a
good R and B.

Speaker 3 (01:01:41):
Tune and I'm an old school girly and this song
is new, but it sounds like an old school song.
So there's this guy who went viral on Instagram because
he was singing like Johnny Taylor songs and just like
old R and B songs. And he was like, I
don't like this. I don't like to turn like why end?
Because I feel like it's oh gay j Jones, Oh

(01:02:01):
my gosh. And they were like call him like, oh,
this is a wyan but he got a voice. But
just because you know he has a grill, you know,
he looks a certain way. Whatever but he can really sing.
I mean his voice is so rich and deep in
my head. He sings like what I think I sound like,
so you can understand what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:02:18):
When you stay reaching deep. Are we talking like Miles
from Sinners?

Speaker 1 (01:02:24):
Yeah, yes, he has a deep voice like yes, yeah, yeah.
He like an Al Green like.

Speaker 4 (01:02:31):
Yeah yeah him as an Ol Green.

Speaker 2 (01:02:34):
E J.

Speaker 4 (01:02:34):
Jones.

Speaker 3 (01:02:35):
Okay, So he has a song called gas Station Love
and it has been on repeat.

Speaker 4 (01:02:41):
It is so good.

Speaker 2 (01:02:43):
He's only like twenty three, but he got like that's
his voices like straight out of like Sam Cook.

Speaker 1 (01:02:48):
Yeah him.

Speaker 4 (01:02:49):
Yes.

Speaker 3 (01:02:49):
If you heard a voice like you just let it play,
you would think it was a fifty year old man.

Speaker 4 (01:02:54):
But it doesn't sound like outdated.

Speaker 3 (01:02:56):
Yeah, it doesn't sound like you're listening to like a song.
It was the old school of vibes, but it gives
like this is a young man singing about being in
love and how you met a girl at the gas station.

Speaker 4 (01:03:07):
It's so good girl.

Speaker 1 (01:03:09):
When I tell you, when I listen like a.

Speaker 4 (01:03:10):
Song, I run into the ground. I'm the same way.

Speaker 1 (01:03:13):
Oh it's so good. So that's my bop of the week.

Speaker 6 (01:03:15):
E J.

Speaker 1 (01:03:15):
Jones.

Speaker 4 (01:03:16):
Gas Station Love y'all go listen to It's good.

Speaker 1 (01:03:19):
You're gonna have to see this. To me, grab straighttion
grad straight.

Speaker 4 (01:03:23):
I was waiting for you.

Speaker 1 (01:03:27):
Word you wrote it.

Speaker 4 (01:03:32):
Grad on Straight Show, I'm grand straight, shut little.

Speaker 1 (01:03:35):
Off and he said it just like that. The funny
thing about this moment is that she low key auditioned.
Then she could be on that interloop.

Speaker 4 (01:03:42):
You just don't know every time I'd be like this.

Speaker 1 (01:03:46):
Hair, I hear it because somebody grow up the church
out of town. Don't play with it, just stay with
it undertone.

Speaker 2 (01:03:55):
That what you been listening to the DREI Okay, so
I really have been in my Caribbean music bag I
have like I love Caribbean music.

Speaker 1 (01:04:08):
I love especially Jamaican artists. Like I love me some dicks.

Speaker 2 (01:04:13):
Yeah, friends Jamaican, but yes, it's like I love me
some dicks to depths.

Speaker 1 (01:04:19):
Okay, love me some dicks.

Speaker 2 (01:04:23):
And it's so funny because shout out to liam mom
because her mom is like an older, you know, more
traditional Jamaican woman and she do not like this.

Speaker 1 (01:04:31):
She don't know because she's say he's too vulgar. I
love he was talking about banging on the bathroom floor.

Speaker 2 (01:04:38):
She got some healing music though Dexter got a lot
of stuff that's like very positive.

Speaker 1 (01:04:43):
I agree. I love me bring it to the I
love nexus out.

Speaker 4 (01:04:51):
So so I'm with you on that.

Speaker 1 (01:04:53):
He came out with you all night.

Speaker 4 (01:04:55):
That was for your birthday.

Speaker 1 (01:04:57):
It was a light eyes man, got the girls in
the car. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:05:03):
I don't want no light ideas will keep you away
from me, Like how people light eyed people be thinking
they be having supremacy when.

Speaker 1 (01:05:13):
They be looking at you like this, Yes, you know
you had them, you be doing it. That's not what
I'm a traffic like that. Not we hating a little bit.

Speaker 2 (01:05:23):
Okay, So my song is r b G Real Bad,
Real Bad Girl by Dick's Adepts and stock Ashley.

Speaker 1 (01:05:31):
Is that new he came off these years? Okay? Yeah, yeah,
So I really like the songs it's it's about I'm
gonna listen to it. Check it out. Yeah, if you
like Dick to Depts, you should check it out.

Speaker 2 (01:05:43):
So what you've been listening to, I've been, like I
told you, I wanted to like talk less and listen more, right,
but being very careful about what I'm listening to and
what I'm intaking. So I've been listening to like all
high vibrational music that's like feeding into my spirits.

Speaker 1 (01:05:58):
So it's an artist. I think she's Detroit.

Speaker 2 (01:06:00):
Her name is Charity and she has a song called
Warm and Soft and she's about to drop it officially
October twenty fifth or something. But I've been listening to
like the snippet that she put out, and it is
so good. I told her, like, this song is gonna
heal people, like heal the world for real, for real.
So I've been having the clip on rotation, and I

(01:06:21):
was one of the nine hundred and seventy eight thousand
people who begged her to put out the Actually, so
I noticed yesterday she had put up a post basically
saying like I'm finally gonna put it out, so it drops.

Speaker 1 (01:06:32):
Tomorrow October twenty fifth.

Speaker 4 (01:06:34):
Ooh yeah, I'll shake that shot out with that too.

Speaker 1 (01:06:39):
In the post, she gave you a shout out, yes,
send it, send it to me Suici.

Speaker 3 (01:06:45):
Al Right, Okay, those are our bops of the week
and what we got next item of the week.

Speaker 2 (01:06:51):
So now we're gonna get into the item of the week. So,
of course this episode is sponsored by Salt Egg so
so that's my item of the week period and then
I fall music.

Speaker 3 (01:07:00):
Beauty amused her usual and y'all know we sitting on
that tailor port Hello as always.

Speaker 1 (01:07:05):
Okay, so do we have the pour your heart out? Yes,
yes I do, so go ahead.

Speaker 2 (01:07:11):
Okay, so part usual, y'all know, if y'all have any
questions that y'all want to send and send them to
ask for minds at gmail dot com.

Speaker 1 (01:07:19):
That's a s K p o U R in my
ads at gmail dot com. Send the show questions, send
a show testimonials, because I'm like, they ain't saenting no
testimonial in.

Speaker 4 (01:07:29):
A law, no testimonials. Maybe we've been doing good with
the advice.

Speaker 1 (01:07:33):
Because the testimonials was not googling.

Speaker 3 (01:07:36):
Yeah, they was giving us like we would give them advice.
Mel coming back and let us know, like we their life.

Speaker 1 (01:07:43):
Listen to me. Yeah, I've gotten nothing.

Speaker 2 (01:07:45):
I'm not a professional. So do you feel like you
would give good advice? I think it'd be funny. I'm
not here to fix, she said earlier. But you come
to sit on my couch.

Speaker 4 (01:08:01):
And we can figure this out.

Speaker 1 (01:08:03):
Well, she said, well.

Speaker 2 (01:08:05):
We're gonna figure it out together, all right, all right,
y'all pushing number wing HOLEX Andrea Love y'all. I'm twenty five,
almost twenty six, and have been single for about four years.
I've done a lot of self work and I'm super
comfortable being myself. Oh being by myself, but I do
want my person. Here's my boundary. Within the first month

(01:08:26):
of dating. If I see any weird behavior or conflict
that makes me question your character, I'm out. I just
feel like it's way too early for problems. My friends
say I'm too strict and should allow mistakes, but I
feel like early on you should be doing everything right.
Do y'all think I'm being too strict or am I
moving the right way? I love when people are as
weird as they need to be in the beginning. I

(01:08:47):
need you to get that all out, and I'm gonna
know it all.

Speaker 1 (01:08:50):
Please.

Speaker 2 (01:08:50):
I'll be the first to tell you, like I'd rather
you don't because what they call it love bombing, right
or I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:08:56):
Know what's whatever, it's all love. They love bombing you
to death.

Speaker 2 (01:08:59):
They pinpoint on things that you like that you would
like them to do, and then they make you feel
like this is who they are as a person.

Speaker 1 (01:09:04):
Then lay it down the line.

Speaker 2 (01:09:05):
You too far deep in it with this imaginary person
that you created or the potential of this person who.

Speaker 1 (01:09:09):
Created, and now it's too far to get back. So
get out all the kinks now.

Speaker 2 (01:09:13):
Honestly, I like to third day I'm in my bonner
on FaceTime to see me in my scarf.

Speaker 4 (01:09:19):
Coroll.

Speaker 2 (01:09:20):
Now, I'm gonna keep it a hundred with you. Ten
times out of nine, I got pressed. I'm moving around.
I may have my face beat, I'm gonna be dressed,
but if I'm not like dressed face beat, I'm homeless.

Speaker 1 (01:09:29):
Couture. It's giving the stocks don't match.

Speaker 2 (01:09:34):
It's the comb in my hair all the time, because
I'm always for the rat tail, like I just need
you to see the real because I don't need you
to be surprised at all, and I want to see
the real you too.

Speaker 1 (01:09:43):
So I think you are being a little stricters.

Speaker 2 (01:09:46):
You might want to just let him be himself and
then decide whether that won't work for you, because you
just gotta get to get to the core of a person.
Because I don't know all that strict shit will end
up having you alone alone. And I'm not saying I
don't have boundaries. I'm just saying, just make sure that
it's not just all surface level shit that you probably
could get past the twenty percent.

Speaker 1 (01:10:05):
Don't compare to a good eighty.

Speaker 2 (01:10:09):
You have to be clear on your boundaries and clear
on your standards, like what are you okay with dealing with?

Speaker 1 (01:10:15):
And what are you not okay with dealing with?

Speaker 2 (01:10:16):
I think if you go into a new situation and
you know these things already, then you'll have better discernment
because I agree with you like some of the stuff,
and everybody has different standards. Everybody has different o pins
on things. But some of the things sometimes that I
think people be like, oh that's a deal worker, is
a deal breaker? Are you looking for somebody that's perfect?

(01:10:37):
You're not a perfect person. Yeah, so I agree she
is being probably be in a little street aggression. I
don't know that the nigga could be terrible.

Speaker 4 (01:10:45):
That's what I'm saying. I don't know exactly what you are.

Speaker 3 (01:10:49):
You know what I'm saying, But I feel like you
always say for people to come up with a list
of things that you do when you don't like, and
you have your things that are like a hard no,
like these are your boundaries? But if it's something that's
like a light, it's not that serious. I think some
things can be, you know, looked past. But it's something
that that really is just triggering you and bothering you,
then of course cut it out. But you know, it

(01:11:09):
just depends what you decide. Is you're hard knowing what
things that you can kind of cushion on.

Speaker 2 (01:11:14):
Pendpoint the worst thing about somebody and figure out where
you can live with it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:17):
And that's just what it is.

Speaker 4 (01:11:18):
Come on, now, that's good.

Speaker 1 (01:11:20):
That's what I need to do that I used to
be real street.

Speaker 4 (01:11:23):
But also.

Speaker 2 (01:11:26):
On the upside, I don't have nobody that I feel
like them. I was being too streak and I should
have stuck with that.

Speaker 4 (01:11:30):
Nigga. No, that's true, but.

Speaker 1 (01:11:33):
I've unpacked the whole You already start a whole package.

Speaker 4 (01:11:41):
That is very very true.

Speaker 3 (01:11:43):
Okay, so let us know well, of course we know
we can find you, but still let the people know
where they can find you. You know, everything that you
got up coming up, including the documentary and all that
good stuff.

Speaker 2 (01:11:55):
Yes, so y'all can find me on all social networks
at Lady London, no periods, no underscore, is know nothing,
just straight up exactly how you hear it. I have
an upcoming documentary coming out with tub you can download.

Speaker 1 (01:12:07):
Too Be for free free subscription.

Speaker 2 (01:12:09):
All three episodes will be available October tenth, and my
debut album will be coming out next year.

Speaker 1 (01:12:15):
So I'm excited y'all tune into that.

Speaker 4 (01:12:18):
Yes, I'm excited for that album. And you know she
lives in Houston. She was telling me that, yeah, we
ain't gonna bore you.

Speaker 2 (01:12:25):
We're gonna have a young girls is from here, So
take me out of the city. I'm gonna go to
the hood, to the spot. Oh yeah, yeah, I know
right where we're going. Savoy Wenna have a boy.

Speaker 1 (01:12:38):
We're gonna have as the ball.

Speaker 3 (01:12:40):
So y'all make sure y'all follow Lady London. Check out
always Lady London on tub. Make sure y'all go to
music Collection dot com and get all your lippies, your blushes,
your mats, scaris, and make sure y'all tune into love
XP every Monday morning at ten am.

Speaker 1 (01:12:54):
And we'll see y'all next week. By y'all, this is.

Speaker 4 (01:13:00):
Been saying. The first l is lady, is you singing lead?
You singing lead?

Speaker 1 (01:13:06):
I can't sing this? My rest say, and I can't
sing neither. Now you're from Texas? What's going away?

Speaker 4 (01:13:17):
Come away? Come on? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:13:38):
Yeah, didn't even start your home.

Speaker 8 (01:13:41):
Do it.

Speaker 9 (01:13:43):
We were with one, made for a moment in time,
and it's seen up and lasting that.

Speaker 1 (01:13:51):
You would always be mine. Now you won't help me free,
So I'm letting you fly because I know in my
heart babe, love, whatever time, you'll always be a part
of me indefinitely.

Speaker 4 (01:14:12):
Why don't you know you can't and save me?

Speaker 9 (01:14:16):
Oh knowing because you always be my baby and we're linger.
Oh no way, You're never gonna shake man be cause
you always be my baby back.

Speaker 4 (01:14:32):
Oh share. We all fucked up. You get them, we
get we getting there, h here we go.

Speaker 7 (01:14:43):
I ain't gonna cry, no, and I won't beg you
too stand. I won't similar leave boy, I won't not
stand in your way.

Speaker 4 (01:14:55):
But I never be.

Speaker 1 (01:14:58):
You'll be back again because you know your hot baby
will never be You'll always be a party in definitely.

Speaker 6 (01:15:13):
Boy, don't you know you can say me, oh darling
because you're along with me, my baby Willow wave, you win,
you win, you window willow wavy.

Speaker 8 (01:15:37):
Your Yeah, that one don't felt that ship.

Speaker 1 (01:15:51):
That's why I.

Speaker 4 (01:15:54):
Don't felt that ship. We'll see y'all next week.

Speaker 1 (01:15:57):
No talking there. That's the boy in the building in
the outdoor stand for me, honey, Clouds

All Episodes

Episode Transcript

Popular Podcasts

Spooky Podcasts from iHeartRadio

Dateline NBC

Stuff You Should Know

.css-15opob5{left:0;position:absolute;top:0.8rem;} All Episodes

.css-14f5ked{margin:0;word-break:break-word;display:-webkit-box;-webkit-box-orient:vertical;box-orient:vertical;-webkit-line-clamp:2;overflow:hidden;}Stay Out The Business ft. Lady London

Episode Transcript

Popular Podcasts

.css-r6mb8g{margin:0;word-break:break-word;display:-webkit-box;-webkit-box-orient:vertical;box-orient:vertical;-webkit-line-clamp:1;overflow:hidden;}Spooky Podcasts from iHeartRadio

Dateline NBC

Stuff You Should Know

All Episodes

Stay Out The Business ft. Lady London

Spooky Podcasts from iHeartRadio