The Name Game

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Kids that have Bible names are the worst Bible names. Yeah,
like Noah be cutting, get your Massona, get.

Speaker 2 (00:09):
Your down from the bucket ball Joe Joe be bad
as hell. Moses. I never knew nobody named Moses. You know,
I do not know what we call them? Little more?
You know little more, I don't you know little more.

Speaker 3 (00:26):
Now, what I do think is interesting that like houd
we having proper names?

Speaker 2 (00:30):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (00:31):
Now that's funny, Like that's Clifford.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
Yeah, what's Nelly named Cornell? Cornelie is nearly that's not
that's not proper. That's old. That is an old name.
Bartholomew legs.

Speaker 3 (00:45):
Nobody's name is Bartholomew except for your dog to suit
suit nobody. I've never in my life met nobody.

Speaker 2 (00:55):
Follow you is a common name in England. In England,
how do you know? How many English people? Do you know?
You don't even know?

Speaker 1 (01:05):
You're in London, dwy right, and you mean a whole
bunch of people named Berthola man his name Bartholomew.

Speaker 2 (01:11):
When I went, what's up, y'all?

Speaker 1 (01:34):
Is your girl xp and it's Sugarl dre in the
call and you are tuned in to another episode of
poor mine.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
We ain't got no gifts today. We ain't got no
gifts today.

Speaker 2 (01:50):
May be loving when we sing that too. They do.

Speaker 3 (01:53):
They love a solo episode. They do like solo episodes though,
because I feel like, you know, we just to really
just chill. We're getting very off topic.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
You're gonna be really staying on track with the tope
and no pressure. There's no pressure because you know, I'm
not gonna lie. I feel like, don't get me wrong,
Like poor Minds is a ball. We have a good time,
but now it's like a lot of people that are
tuning in now they're like new listeners. So I feel
like sometimes I be trying to ease them in, especially
when it's a guests on the show, and I don't

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want to be too dark or too offensive.

Speaker 2 (02:27):
But you donna be hearing I don't care, m M.
I don't you don't think that? Yeah, no, you still
be being dark, damn and offensive. Sh Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:41):
At this point, I feel like when people come on
the show, they should do their research though.

Speaker 2 (02:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:46):
I look, if you do y'all research, then you're gonna
know what to expect from you and for me, like
they gonna know, we're gonna clown, We're gonna have a
good time.

Speaker 2 (02:53):
Don't carry all serios. Cashed All was surprised, you think,
I don't think she was. That she was what's wrong?
She kept asking me what was wrong with me? She said,
what is wrong with you?

Speaker 1 (03:03):
She did at but I feel like everybody asked you that. Okay,
so let me ask you a question. Speaking of my girl,
cash Doll. I love me some cash Doll down. But
you know, there has been a discourse going on. Because
I don't know if this is true or not, because
I didn't see her say it or him say it,
but there's allegedly a discourse going around that her boyfriend
doesn't like when she.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
Wears weave or makeup.

Speaker 1 (03:23):
Yeah, so that's why that she's been going on these interviews,
you know, fresh face, natural hair and stuff like that. Now,
like I said, I don't know how true that is.
I don't know where this discourse came from. But how
do you feel about that, like not wearing makeup or
not wearing you know, fake hair in your head because
you know your man, It's like, no, you look beautiful naturally,
And this is what I like that you look like

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because half of the people are saying they think it's
a controlling tactic and the other half is being like, no,
he's just pouring into her and letting her know how.

Speaker 2 (03:52):
Beautiful she is.

Speaker 3 (03:54):
I mean, I don't think that that's controlling. I feel
like it's a preference thing. Like I feel like it's
a preference thing, like if you're dating somebody and like
he thinks that you look really good and he prefers
how you look without makeup or extensions or whatever, and
you actually look good without eating and you got the option.
Cause I think sometimes the outrage be coming front of

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people that don't.

Speaker 2 (04:15):
Got the option. I see, you ain't even we ain't
ain't even have to go down. I didn't have to
go there, But you also ask are you right?

Speaker 3 (04:23):
So I personally be feeling that way, like cause I
feel like I have dated a lot of guys who
feel that way too. Like they be like, I mean,
it's and don't get me wrong, like they love when
I'm dawned up too, Like if we're going to dinner,
are we going out to eat, were going on a trip,
We're doing anything? They want me to like be cute

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and put why I.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
Used to call you dread doll.

Speaker 3 (04:47):
No you didn't shut up, but no, like they want
me to do my full beam, make sure my hair
is curled and my hair is on point if we're
going out to dinner and it's like a date night
or yeah, but.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
Like on a daily basis, I've dated a lot of gods.

Speaker 3 (05:04):
Majority of the guys that I've dated, they always say,
like on a normal day, like I love when you
just fresh face, You look so pretty that way, you
look so good that way. I love when you just
have your hair slick back in a bun or whatever
the case, make make a fun right yeah, And I
feel like, you know, if you look good without it.

Speaker 2 (05:21):
I don't see.

Speaker 3 (05:21):
Nothing wrong with your man hyping up your natural beauty.
Now if it's not something that you're into. Like if
you just that type of girl where every single day
you want to wear makeup and you want to be
beat and he trying to take away from who you are,
that's different, and that's different.

Speaker 2 (05:37):
But in my.

Speaker 3 (05:37):
Personal opinion, cash y'all always been that type of girl. Yeah,
like on her off days, like when she not doing
shows and she don't have to make appearances and hostings
and all of that stuff.

Speaker 2 (05:48):
She be fresh face, she always been like that even
before him, and she has long ass high yeah.

Speaker 3 (05:55):
Exactly, beautiful, healthy hair, right, And I think like prior
to him, she always being that type of girl, But
maybe it just seemed more to the public like it's
that way because now maybe she feel even more comfortable
going to like events and doing all that stuff without
needing to be because I'm with my man and he
like you. Yeah, I don't think it's controlling. I think
people need to worry about what they mean controlling if

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they got one. Now why cat, I'm just saying people
always in other people relationships, y'all need to not worry
about that lady relationship.

Speaker 2 (06:27):
She seemed happy. Do you remember when you used to
wear that hobbun?

Speaker 1 (06:31):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (06:31):
I loved my hobby. Can we gonna well episode I
used to work, That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (06:38):
I used to It was one point in time where
all I wore was my natural because I have my
natural hair too.

Speaker 2 (06:43):
The Eiffel Tower ain't got shipped on you because that
thing was.

Speaker 1 (06:48):
Sky hagh it was it was you have a lot
of hair, A lot of hair. Yeah, well, I wouldn't know, man,
yours was giving Scott's crape, but my I was given duplex.

Speaker 3 (06:58):
No, but you be always trying to play like you
you'll be frinting because we have all poor minds episodes
where you used to wear your hair in that fucking
afro puff and somebody loved I don't know how, but
I don't know if you saw that that clip, it's
like a video of us on YouTube. It went viral,
reason oh, and like a lot of people started like

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watching it again. It's like an old video of us
from maybe like.

Speaker 2 (07:25):
I had the uh what are they called the twists?

Speaker 1 (07:28):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (07:28):
Yeah, and you had your hair and like a high
puff ball.

Speaker 3 (07:32):
And it was so many people in the comments like
I didn't know les had so much thick, beautiful hair.

Speaker 2 (07:36):
And I'm beautiful. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (07:38):
So it's like, I don't even know why you be
trying to downplay like you ball headed.

Speaker 2 (07:42):
You're not.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
I don't no, I don't be saying that. I always
say it's just my hair.

Speaker 2 (07:47):
Now I'm not.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
Gonna that the wrong would be a ball headed before
y'all get mad to what they waist here, because you
know what, Drea, I don't give a fuck, but.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
I'm saying all that because I have very healthy hair.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
I do and my I have all my edges. I
do have a lot of hair, but my hair just it.

Speaker 2 (08:06):
Won't it don't move you always. My hair has been
right here like my whole life. But that's also not
short though.

Speaker 1 (08:15):
I mean, I don't care about length. Though I've always
been a girl, I don't care about length. I just
don't want people to think I'm finna take off that wig.
You're gonna see that cash doll, baby, because you ain't
finna see that cash doll.

Speaker 2 (08:25):
Yeah, you're finna get a nice good bob. Bitch, You're
finna get that bob. You know what I'm saying. But
I do have healthy hair. I have a lot of hair.

Speaker 1 (08:33):
But I'm a hairy person me too. I'm extremely hair
I'm very hairy. Soo yeah, I'm always I'm like and
I finally got to do my armpits because remember they
were hairy the other week. But you know, I'm in
the process of lighting them up and getting them ready
to go.

Speaker 2 (08:47):
Go where to the club. I've been in the club lately.

Speaker 3 (08:51):
We've been outside of light, which is very unlike us.

Speaker 2 (08:55):
Oh my we are.

Speaker 1 (08:56):
We've been outside. When I tell y'all. I cut up
so bad. That's how you know when people be breaking back,
you know, that's how you know when people single again.
I have been out in the oh my, y'all.

Speaker 2 (09:09):
I have been in these streets and I'm not talking
about so when I went to Houston, I left the house.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
I left my sister's house at noon. I got back
and I'm not lying at five in the morning. The
other day when I went out, I went out Wednesday,
I left my house probably around eight o'clock. I got
back at like four in the morning. This is my lifestyle.
Now Auntie is back outside.

Speaker 2 (09:34):
You know. But I've been having a good time outside
being fun. The streets is calling.

Speaker 1 (09:38):
Yeah, the streets are calling, and I'm picking up the answering.

Speaker 2 (09:44):
It's been a good time.

Speaker 1 (09:47):
I know I've been cutting up, but you know, like
it's much needed. I feel like I'm gonna cell abratory season.
You know. I got my house, you know what I'm saying, decorating,
getting my things together. So I'm just like in a
happy season, like it's and it wasn't like a bad situation,
you know. It's just like, you know, people don't lie whatever,

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So I'm not like Oh my god, I'm just in
a good space mentally, you know what I'm saying. I
think that's what's coming with age too. I'm gonna be
thirty six, thirty six, I'm about to That means I'm
getting close to forty.

Speaker 2 (10:22):
I'm not gonna lie. I'm excited to turn forty.

Speaker 3 (10:24):
Really yeah, I mean, Beyonce said when she turned forty,
it was one of the best dick she said, it's
forty has been like one of the best decades.

Speaker 1 (10:32):
But but because honestly, I'm not gonna lie. When I
turned thirty, my life changed. And like at thirty five,
I purchased a home and I never thought, like I
always wanted home, but I never even thought. I was like,
how am I gonna make this happen? And I made
it happen. If I have done this, and like the
first five six years of my thirties, my forties are

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gonna be insane. Like I just I'm excited. I'm not
like rushing it, but I'm just like, wow, life is
really beautiful. Like when I think about my twenties, I
was life was not good.

Speaker 2 (11:07):
It was an adventure.

Speaker 3 (11:09):
I mean, people say, like, I mean, if you're not
aging you did, right. So that's how I be trying
to Like, it's good to get older.

Speaker 2 (11:17):
That's what I mean, great thing to get It's a
great thing.

Speaker 3 (11:19):
To be able to age and to get older and
to see different chapters of your life and just.

Speaker 2 (11:25):
Different things unfold, you know.

Speaker 3 (11:27):
I think it's very people look at it like it's
a bad thing and a scary thing, when it's really amazing.
It's so many people that don't get to make it
to be you know, thirty four. So many people that
don't get to make it to be thirty six. It's
so many people that don't get to see day forty
is a birthday. So it's a beautiful thing. So many

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people be dying prematurely.

Speaker 2 (11:49):
And I am. And it's not even about death.

Speaker 1 (11:51):
It's just about the wisdom that you get as you
get older, too, Like the wisdom that I have now,
how I handle situations, the mature, the growth that I'm
seeing in myself.

Speaker 2 (12:02):
It's like aging. It's just it has been.

Speaker 1 (12:05):
Fun for me, like it really has, like the growth everything,
like my mentality, how I handle situations, like I'll just
be smiling.

Speaker 2 (12:15):
I'm smiling a lot more now, Like I'm happy. Yeah,
you know. I mean, you gotta list the roll off
your back.

Speaker 3 (12:21):
You don't be this serious as a personal, as a professional,
I don't give a fucker. Yeah, I've always gonna been.

Speaker 2 (12:29):
That way, But you know what, it's crazy about me.

Speaker 1 (12:31):
I embrace that I do give a fuck, but I'm
okay with giving a fuck, but I've learned not to
let that control me. I'd be like, you know what,
I care about this, and it does hurt my feelings,
but I'm not gonna let this ruin my day or
ruin my week. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (12:46):
No, I feel like that's more so what I mean
too when I be saying I don't give a fuck
about stuff, because I feel like everybody cares about things
sometimes like things are going to hurt your feelings, things
are gonna piece you off, but it's about how you
choose to let it control your day or control your outcome.
And I just always been the type of person where

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it's like, yeah, this might have pisced me off, or
it might have hurt my feelings, but I'm about to
go on with my fucking age.

Speaker 2 (13:13):
I'm about to get on with my day.

Speaker 3 (13:14):
I'm about to get on with my life because I
know as time progresses and time passes by. This thing
isn't even gonna be a thing in like another two
months or in another five months, during five years, I'm.

Speaker 2 (13:26):
Gonna look back and be like, this ain't nothing. And
that's what that man said. Well, man, time keep slipping
away from me. That time gonna slip away from you.
If you were too much.

Speaker 3 (13:38):
It is, you gonna rate. You're gonna wake up one day.
You're gonna be sixty five, and you done spend your
whole life dwelling and being upset about things that you
couldn't control. Like people, people always want to control everything.
You can't control life. We can't control nothing. Literally, we
have no control over nothing. The only thing you really
have control over is how you response everything else. It's

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just gonna happen the way it's gonna happen.

Speaker 2 (14:02):
Yep. I agree, And I think when you were linquish
that that's a good word. That's a big word for Elmo.

Speaker 3 (14:10):
When you relinquish that need but control, you just start
to look at life from a different perspective.

Speaker 2 (14:15):
When you relinquish that need for control, What does that.

Speaker 1 (14:18):
Mean when you let go all the needs to want
to control things?

Speaker 2 (14:22):
Like that word I'm not have to add that to
my vocabulary. Yeah, you just gotta live your life. And
speaking of getting older, we're gonna get into this first topic.

Speaker 1 (14:31):
These people ain't oh though, right, but it's gotta come
from somewhere. It came from their ancestors. Sometimes they be,
you know, young bitches with old names.

Speaker 2 (14:42):
I don't trust you, don't trust all. No, that's all.
I came up with this topic because I was telling
Shaded one day. What was your reason? I ain't right?
Something ain't right? Why are you twenty three? Your name
is Illinois? What what? Now?

Speaker 1 (14:58):
Ain't Harriet Harriet in now? I'm not gonna I'm not
gonna lie to you. This is why I think. And
this is no shade to her because she is a
beautiful woman. She is gorgeous. Oh, Harry, No, Ruby Rose,
Ruby is an old bitch name Ruby, But that's why
she added that.

Speaker 2 (15:17):
Rolls on me. No shade to Ruby though.

Speaker 3 (15:19):
But Ruby is also African and in the African but
that's normal, like in the African community, that's cool. But
but we're talking about in our community.

Speaker 2 (15:29):
Ruby is a old name.

Speaker 3 (15:30):
Yeah, we're talking about in our community. That's what I'm saying.
She's African, but.

Speaker 2 (15:34):
She's in our community.

Speaker 3 (15:36):
She lives in America, she do, but she isn't she
ethiotis she is.

Speaker 2 (15:40):
Her mom is from Ethiopia.

Speaker 1 (15:42):
Right, And I'm not gonna get into all that because
y'all gonna be like trying to eat me up all
I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (15:47):
Yeah, that's why I'm about to say, you need the
tread lightly.

Speaker 1 (15:49):
Because her name is Ruby. That's all we talk about
young women with old names. But I was trying to
let you I don't need no explanation. I'm that's what
for me. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (16:00):
When when it comes to certain yes, when it comes
to certain cultures, that's like a cultural rule thing.

Speaker 2 (16:06):
Eleanor's cultural. No.

Speaker 3 (16:08):
When it comes to I'm talking about being black in America,
why is your name Eleanor?

Speaker 2 (16:16):
And you teen? Ruby used to be ten, Ruby was
ten Ruby. Ruby is nuts and you know it Rose.
Make it a little. We don't ever call her ruby.
We don't call we call her ruby Rose. Light it up.
It makes it more digestible. Did you see?

Speaker 1 (16:38):
Because if you see Ruby Rose popping at pussy sounds okay,
you see Ruby popping at pussy?

Speaker 2 (16:44):
Who who is Rose? Ruby popping pussy? How old? How
old is a ruby? And why is she popping at pussy?

Speaker 1 (16:51):
But if you say ruby Rose was popping at pussy,
you like, yeah, I'm with that. That's a big that's
a big different bitch.

Speaker 3 (17:00):
Tris Beatrice, Beatrice? Beatrice is crazy. I mean, it's just
a lot of them.

Speaker 2 (17:08):
You think Evelyn is an old name? Who do you know?
Our age name? Eve lost? Our age? Oh no, that
was Shade.

Speaker 3 (17:17):
It wasn't. I'm like the same almost the same age
as her daughter.

Speaker 2 (17:20):
It really wasn't. I was just trying to make it shady, yes,
because you miss.

Speaker 1 (17:26):
I don't think Evelyn is an old name. I do,
I don't, I don't.

Speaker 2 (17:30):
Evelyn doesn't give old.

Speaker 3 (17:32):
When everybody named Evelyn that I know is like fifty.

Speaker 1 (17:36):
Tread lightly, I don't know. I'm not you brought that, like,
how did not bring her up? And I'm not about to.

Speaker 3 (17:44):
Entertain your foolish needs. I said the people, I know.

Speaker 2 (17:49):
You're right, You're right, you're right.

Speaker 1 (17:51):
What's another one? What's another one? Let me see we
got some names.

Speaker 2 (17:55):
On the list.

Speaker 3 (17:55):
What a police because our old name? M m Martha, Martha,
my mam gonna be calling Martin Luther, Kingeniy.

Speaker 2 (18:05):
Martha Luther, and I don't know why y'all know.

Speaker 3 (18:08):
And that's another sign of being old. Yeah, they love
to butcher an.

Speaker 2 (18:12):
Oh my god, you.

Speaker 3 (18:14):
I can't wait to see you as Stevidy because you
already don't get nobody name right.

Speaker 2 (18:17):
And let me say this, because y'all be in the
comments so mad at me when we have guests on.
I'm really like that in real life. It's like, I
don't know why I'm.

Speaker 1 (18:25):
So bad with names. I don't know if it's just
like I'm from Orange, I can't read that.

Speaker 2 (18:29):
Well, y'all names should have been Bernadee.

Speaker 1 (18:32):
Bernard, I like Bernadette. That means sounds like you know
what my name is, Gertrude. Gertrude, I like a little girl.
If you have to have an old name for real,
I like that you know what my name was supposed
to be. This is a true story, easy, It's a truth.

Speaker 2 (18:49):
I'm not lying this time. You love some lies, I
do love it. I'm not lying. So when my mom
and my.

Speaker 1 (18:55):
Dad had my sister, they were like, obviously the second
kid we wanted to be a boy and came out Obviously.
I didn't have no dick, you know, and sad day.
It was a sad day for them. And my dad
wanted a junior so bad. They were gonna name me Georgetta.
But my mom fought him. She was like, we're not
naming this be, this beautiful child Georgetta. He wanted to

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name me Georgetta because his name was George.

Speaker 2 (19:21):
If you Georgeorgeeta, oh my god.

Speaker 1 (19:25):
I feel like if my name was that, just cause
we would have found a way to shorten this.

Speaker 2 (19:33):
But I think Georgetta actually fits me.

Speaker 3 (19:36):
But your nickname still would have been lex P because
my last name, last.

Speaker 1 (19:40):
Name, Yeah, it still would have been. But I think
Georgetta is more fitting. I give Georgietta when I sing,
I give Georgietta.

Speaker 2 (19:51):
That's like a Georgia. Indeed, that's said it like I get.

Speaker 1 (19:56):
That was very much a beat Mama yr arm, Oh yeah,
I give Georgiata.

Speaker 2 (20:02):
See. But then it's certain names that's on here. I
don't agree. The list is not a let's not. I don't.
That's not an old Hester with the H. Yes. Now
I've heard of Esther, but Hester, I ain't never heard
of that one ursela ursula. That don't give me that.

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Just that gives me little mermaid Bobs. Ingrid. Ingrid is
an old bitch name, but I feel like that's like
I don't know no play people named Ingrid. Right. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (20:37):
Now, the most famous baddie that we know, obviously Bernice Bernice,
like you was in diapers and peoples like.

Speaker 2 (20:43):
Come here, old Bernice's give bernee har Bottle. Yeah, but
Bernice is.

Speaker 1 (20:51):
Yeah, I mean, obviously she's older, you know what I'm saying.
But she's a baddie. No, but that don't count.

Speaker 2 (20:57):
She's gorgeous.

Speaker 1 (20:57):
That cancels out when y'all ask that fat. It don't
even matter what your name is. Your name could be earl, bitch.
We don't give a damn earl.

Speaker 2 (21:06):
We don't give a damn. I'm here to tell you
right now, we don't care. Now, Barbara, that's my mama name. Yeah,
but Bara is old. Every barber I know is older,
Barbara streisand Barbara Walters r RP, damn Barbara.

Speaker 1 (21:20):
Yeah, Barbara's be old. Then I got my aunt. Her
name Mildred, Mildred. Oh, Mildred, No offense on Mildred.

Speaker 2 (21:27):
That's ancient. I ain't heard of Mildred.

Speaker 3 (21:30):
And she's almost eighty. Shit, I mean, but that's what
I'm saying. Their names is appropriate for.

Speaker 2 (21:40):
The times that they was born. I went to high school.
We was born by the river. Bitch shaken. That goddamn Mildred. Shit.
I went to high school with a girl named Barbara,
and I used to be like the same name as
my mama.

Speaker 1 (21:57):
Yeah, that's crazy. Let me see what what else they
got on the list? Mabel, that's Medella's real name.

Speaker 2 (22:03):
It is it is Mabel. Florence. Florence is an older
I had an named Florence. You did well, that's name. No,
I'm surprised. I thought Florence was more.

Speaker 1 (22:20):
Of a.

Speaker 2 (22:22):
No. But wasn't that real name? The runner of the track?
Oh now, too little, she's passed. She died.

Speaker 1 (22:32):
Oh my god, bro, this is why I hate this show.

Speaker 2 (22:38):
This is a point this show is And it don't matter.
What I'm saying is because what okay, we're not I
know that she passed away. Sorry, Florence, Yes, it was okay,
it was flow. Joe, Yes, Joe's real name. But if
she was alive, she would be old, Yes she would
she would be old. Yes, she would be a little older.

Speaker 3 (22:58):
But yes, so my granddaddy. His sister name was Florence.
He had but he had like a living siblings. You
know what, people don't have a lot of kids.

Speaker 2 (23:06):
Priscilla, that's her old name. I went to high school
with Priscilla. You know what I think.

Speaker 1 (23:13):
I've talked about this on the show before, and I
know this girl tired of me talking about her. I
went to high school with a girl named Lashatra. She
gonna comment, No, she not.

Speaker 2 (23:21):
You don't know. I can't wait meet me in the comment.
I just thought it was so crazy because Lashatra, and
that's all.

Speaker 1 (23:28):
It was a white girl. It was a white girl
name Lashatra. Don't that sound like a you know, ethnic?

Speaker 2 (23:35):
But I love a homemade name. I love a homemade name.
I like a home.

Speaker 1 (23:40):
Can I tell you something so embarrassing. This is so embarrassed.
I can't believe I'm telling the story right now. When
I was younger, you know, like, when you were younger,
did you like make up names that you were gonna
name your kids when you got older? Like what did
you want to name your kid?

Speaker 2 (23:53):
Girl? I can't even remember. I can, and it's so embarrassing.
I made it up. I would see I didn't use
the main them up. I just would like write down
names that I like.

Speaker 1 (24:03):
No, I made up a name because it was my
three favorite singers and I meshed their names together.

Speaker 2 (24:09):
And it's so ugly. I can't let me take another
sip of the yet and don't talk back. Why would
you bring it up and not tell us? So, Okay,
I'm gonna say the name, but I want you to
guess the singer's names.

Speaker 1 (24:23):
Okay, So y'all, please don't laugh. Everybody's silence in the background.
The baby's name was gonna be Sean sah.

Speaker 2 (24:32):
Shahn c uh huh, Beyonce Rihanna. It was Lea. Rihanna
wasn't out yet, and I just saw right she wasn't.

Speaker 1 (24:44):
Yeah, she wasn't because she's Rihanna's ourry age, Well my age,
Rihanna's my age.

Speaker 2 (24:48):
I thought that was the.

Speaker 1 (24:49):
Most I was like, yeah, my baby's name's gonna be
Shans Stale and I thought, I.

Speaker 3 (24:53):
Ate, that's just that kind of sound like shudn't see you.

Speaker 2 (24:59):
That, do it not? It was just I.

Speaker 1 (25:04):
Know, but I'm saying the reasoning behind it. Why is
your name me and your baby after Shan and Beyonce.

Speaker 2 (25:10):
I mean literally, it's a baby name Beyonce. Now, nobody
was your baby Beyonce? Is nuts. They got a reputation,
Why would you name? Wouldn't they want to put that pressure? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (25:25):
I don't like naming kids after like celebrities. Yeah that's
a little too much. I mean, imagine your baby's name
having to.

Speaker 2 (25:33):
Be lex P. Crazy, especially when that ain't even your
name anything. Your name, your baby lex P is great.
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (25:47):
Okay, I don't know, but I feel like people who
be having old names.

Speaker 2 (25:53):
Do you think that they just naturally be having like
an old soul. There ain't nothing old about Bernie's soul. Baby,
Ain't no offense. Yeah, ain't nothing old about ruby rules.

Speaker 3 (26:05):
So do you think that people will old names act
like the worst in school and stuff?

Speaker 2 (26:11):
What what if?

Speaker 1 (26:12):
Shakee say the other kids that have Bible names are
the worst Bible names?

Speaker 2 (26:17):
Yeah, like Noah be cutting the fuck up, get your massona,
get your ass down from the damn Mucket ball, Joe
Joe be bad as hell. Moses. I never know nobody
named Moses. I do not know what nigga names. We
call him little Moe, you know, little More. I don't

(26:38):
you know little more?

Speaker 3 (26:39):
Now, what I do think is interesting that like, could
niggas be having proper names? Yes, now that's funny, Like
that's Clifford.

Speaker 2 (26:46):
Yeah, what's Nelly named Cornell? Cornelia? That's not that's not proper,
that's old. That is an old nigga name.

Speaker 3 (26:55):
Bartholomew legs, nobody's name is barth follow you except for
your fucking dog suit nobody. I've never in my life
meant nobody follow you is a common.

Speaker 2 (27:09):
Name in England? And who in England?

Speaker 3 (27:13):
How do you know?

Speaker 2 (27:14):
How many English people? Do you know? You don't even know?
In London twice?

Speaker 1 (27:20):
Right, and you met a whole bunch of people named
Berthola man niggas name Bartholomew when I.

Speaker 2 (27:24):
Went, I don't believe you would, but you would have came,
would have been like my dog. I just told you
just now you're a liar.

Speaker 3 (27:36):
Okay, but no, I definitely feel like hood niggas be
having the most proper name, like Robert, Robert, William.

Speaker 2 (27:44):
Robert who Kelly, here you go again?

Speaker 3 (27:49):
Okay, we don't find out his jury, so you can't
get you on a p and pail leice seeing him
a little common seri JP.

Speaker 1 (27:57):
Okay, moving on, okay, well let me ask you one
more thing about names that were gonna move on for real.
How do you feel about women naming their kids juniors
after them? That's what Kashan did, Kashawan Junior. That's the
baby's name.

Speaker 2 (28:11):
Yuh. So would you name your kid, no matter if
it was a boy or a girl, Drea Junior, respectfully?

Speaker 3 (28:18):
No, cause I don't like my name and us to
name my child of junior?

Speaker 2 (28:22):
Why what was your name?

Speaker 3 (28:23):
I don't think nothing is wrong with it, but I
want to name my kids something that's like Sa. No,
I want to name my kids something that's like not
so typical, like I feel like Andrea is such like
a typical name. But I also think if I'm but
to be fair, to be fair with my parents when
I was born in the early nineties, Elda Millenniu, it

(28:48):
was not I didn't. I don't think my parents knew
that many like black girls with my name, so I
thought they ate that.

Speaker 2 (28:55):
They did.

Speaker 1 (28:56):
I think every black person Andrea, and they always adding, yeah,
it's the call facts.

Speaker 3 (29:04):
So I think that my parents definitely thought they ate
that because they didn't know anybody in proximity to them
with that name. But as I started to get older
and stuff like, I mean, it's a good amount of
people with my name, whether they pronounced it, I Andre, what.

Speaker 2 (29:18):
Was everybody was naming their kids Ashley and Britney.

Speaker 3 (29:22):
Though I have like four cousins name Brittany and they
was all born the same year. It's so many Brittany's
ninety two was a good year, yes.

Speaker 1 (29:31):
But I'm talking about like from like eighty I'll say
eighty five to like ninety three.

Speaker 2 (29:37):
I feel like Jazzmine two though, Yeah that's my sister name, Jazz.

Speaker 1 (29:41):
A lot of Courtney's, yeah, geez, A lot of Brianna's who.

Speaker 2 (29:48):
We know a lot of Breeze. We know a lot
of Brianna's.

Speaker 3 (29:51):
But yeah, so I wouldn't name my child Junior just because, yeah,
I don't feel like my name just eat like that?

Speaker 2 (29:57):
To name you Junior?

Speaker 1 (29:59):
What about a hyphen and we don't have to stay
your last with like a hyphen? Would you do your
hyphen when you get married? Are you gonna hyphen at
your life?

Speaker 2 (30:05):
That name?

Speaker 1 (30:06):
Sew?

Speaker 2 (30:06):
Don't eat? See my last name? Your last name is cute.
My honey's knights, Okay, you're right bad, but it ain't
cute beauty to where I'm like, I need to keep
im okay with women.

Speaker 3 (30:24):
But I think when women do that that to me,
that'd be like a power struggle thing, because I also
feel like, why do you want to get married if
you want to still keep your last names?

Speaker 2 (30:32):
Like Jada Pinkett Smith.

Speaker 3 (30:39):
Let's go in the topic number two. Well, first we
gotta get and I love Jada, I do, I do,
so I love Jada, I really do. But yeah, I
just I feel like it's a it's a power struggle thing.

Speaker 2 (30:51):
That's what Kim it was Kim Kardashian West KKW. She
getting let go with at Kardashian name.

Speaker 3 (30:56):
Yeah, but she built a whole billion dollar empire with
her last name before she got married, so well million
dollar empire at the time before she got married. I mean,
I feel like if you don't build brands and stuff,
then that's understandable. But like you just little Keisha from
seventy third and you and you just want to keep
your last name.

Speaker 2 (31:17):
Williams of why why do you want to keep your
last name? Blood line?

Speaker 3 (31:24):
What the child still don't have the blood line, whether
you keep the last name or not. It's so crazy
that they're no blood in them. Yeah, yeah, it's so
crazy though with that Kardashian name.

Speaker 2 (31:36):
Like Rob was like the last boy. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (31:40):
And then it's also a very uncommon last name and
they built like a legacy with.

Speaker 2 (31:45):
So I get it. But still have more children too,
he can still have time to have a boy. Beyonce
did keep nos Carter, but again Beyonce that she did
keep Nose Carter. But Knowles is a unique last name too,
and that's two good last names, Nole's and Carter. Eight.

(32:06):
I wrong, I think what is it? I think it's
the middle made a video correcting the pit girls. I
can't remember that.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
I think I've asked on TikTok live and they were
just they couldn't give me a real answer.

Speaker 2 (32:18):
Anyways, moving on. Okay, so we got Drink of the
Week with our girl, Charrita. Hi, Charrita.

Speaker 1 (32:26):
Okay, so before we get into the drink of the week,
let us know a little bit about yourself and your
bartending history and all that good stuff, cause they're gonna
be asking in the comments.

Speaker 2 (32:36):
Check.

Speaker 4 (32:37):
So my name is Sharita. I'm originally from Philly. I've
been bartending for about sixteen years. I don't look like it,
look babe. I started in two thousand and eight at
like a family restaurant. I've been bartending ever since, working
in the retail hospitality industry. My most recent role was

(32:59):
just like in management, okay, for programs and things like that.

Speaker 2 (33:02):
So now I'm here and honored. Yes have you here?
So let me ask you this, because we talk about
this a lot.

Speaker 1 (33:10):
Do you notice the difference with like the money in
bartend and like when the strip club, like when Gez
and all them used to be in the strip clubs
and the money then versus the money now like in
the clubs. I don't know if you you probably don't
work in the clubs no more obviously.

Speaker 4 (33:22):
But I didn't work in a lot of clubs. The
only club I actually worked at was King of Diamonds.
I worked at the strip club a couple of years ago, okay,
And even the money then was was trashy.

Speaker 2 (33:31):
These these celebrities out here, they're not really they're not. Okay,
they're not.

Speaker 4 (33:37):
But it definitely has changed more so since COVID. Yeah,
the money has completely changed.

Speaker 2 (33:42):
Yeah, yeah, I feel I'll be like, damn, like knock
on wood.

Speaker 1 (33:48):
I know that you know we're gonna but like, if
I ever had to like go back to work, I
wouldn't go back bartending.

Speaker 2 (33:54):
It's not worth it. Yeah, I don't think it's worth it. Yeah.
I would rather just go Like if y'all seen me somewhere,
I'm gonna go have a non again. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (34:01):
I feel like everybody that I know that works in
the clubs are used to work in the clubs. They
say it the same thing, like it's changed, the lights change.

Speaker 4 (34:08):
And a lot of the places that you do make money,
they're not hiring because people stay because you make money there.

Speaker 2 (34:14):
I'm so it's hard to get in those type of places.

Speaker 1 (34:16):
When I used to work at Dreams and nobody coming
up every time, they be like nope.

Speaker 2 (34:21):
I don't even know help.

Speaker 1 (34:22):
You know, like they literally couldn't hire nobody because I
would always know it always I always.

Speaker 2 (34:26):
Say, no, okay, girl, what we drinking with? All right?

Speaker 4 (34:29):
So this week's drink is inspired by that Andy Bryan scandal.

Speaker 2 (34:34):
Oh yes, hr mistress. Oh right, So this drink is
called full Benefit.

Speaker 4 (34:43):
So it has your spirit of choice, a little bit
of lavender, a little grapefruit juice, lemon juice and it
is topped with a blueberry and lemon veal as a garnish.

Speaker 2 (34:55):
She's floral, she's flirty, she's.

Speaker 4 (34:57):
Scandalous, and she you know, packs a lot of perks
and she is open for new positions.

Speaker 2 (35:05):
Yi period and cleans him out. Yeah, I mean, is
that you're crazy?

Speaker 3 (35:14):
Imagine trying to sneak increase with your little side boo
and that y'all end up on a jumbo truck at
a contract.

Speaker 2 (35:22):
But not only that, can you imagine?

Speaker 1 (35:24):
The wife was probably at home, probably like damn, I
wish we could go on a date night and we
could have some time together.

Speaker 2 (35:30):
And he's like, oh, I gotta go to work, I
gotta do this, and you're at home the cold Play
concert with y'all and it was all yellow like, and
then you took her to a bomb ass concert. You
didn't take her to see no bullshit. You took her
to see Cold Plane like y'all went to a lit.

Speaker 1 (35:49):
Concert, y'all in box seats, bitch or wherever they looked
like they Was he the CEO?

Speaker 2 (35:54):
Yeah? And wasn't she she married too?

Speaker 1 (35:57):
Yes, she's married, but now y'all know they have but
they replaced him with the CEO he had these Well
he resigned.

Speaker 2 (36:03):
Yeah, I'm resigned, So I hope she cleaned him out.
I hope she cleaned him out. I want it all.
I'm coming for what we gonna see. I'm sure we're
gonna be updated shortly. Y'all know we're gonna love the update.
Y'all love lit period.

Speaker 3 (36:18):
Hey, y'all, So this week we are doing our first
business spotlight. You know, we are trying to highlight businesses
that are up and coming. And this is a business
that I love that I have been supporting for a
very very very long time. I love your products so much,
so I'm so excited to have you on the couch.

Speaker 2 (36:37):
Thank you. This is Julisa and she's the owner of
salt x. Oh.

Speaker 3 (36:40):
So I'm gonna let you tell the girls about your business.
Unless they've been living under a rock, they should already know.

Speaker 2 (36:46):
Yeah, unless y'all have been living on the run. So
I'm Julie. I'm the founder of Sault So.

Speaker 3 (36:51):
I started SAW in twenty eighteen as a college student
because all the stuff that we were using it was
just throwing off my pH like it was throwing me
to the moon, right and honestly, like as a woman,
you know, like it can build some sort of insecurity,
can make me super self conscious, especially when you're being intimate.

Speaker 2 (37:09):
You know, like right, you don't want to have to
worry about dealing with day. Thank you exactly, exactly in
the simplest word.

Speaker 3 (37:17):
So I started researching essential oil and natural ingredients, and
then I figured out, dang, God gave us everything that
we needed naturally, we didn't need to use all that
extra stuff.

Speaker 2 (37:28):
And then I started just literally.

Speaker 3 (37:30):
Looking up on my computer finding out how I can
blend these ingredients together to create a soap. I created
one soap. I went to a step show and I
gave out the soaps to the girls at the step
show and they were locked. And at that very moment,
it was up. Like all it took was for one
person to experienced it, for them to tell their homegirls like, oh.

Speaker 2 (37:50):
My god, this product has changed the game. So I
started it. Yeah, I college. That's amazing.

Speaker 3 (37:57):
That's really dope, because I feel like you had a
Beijing and you started what you had. We always talk
about that on the show. People always think they have
to have everything together to start a business, when in reality,
you don't you just need to have the vision and
a plan. Yeah, cause I think even right now people
look at me and say, dang, like I wish I
could do that, m But you don't understand it took
me seven years to get Yeah. We just turned seven

(38:18):
years old in April. Sometimes people will be like, oh,
you know, I want to get to where you are. Girl,
You got you got some years to go, and you
got to be comfortable with the journey. You just can't
try to rush it because you see someone online right
show when they have a warehouse, they have employees, they
have all of these orders coming in. No, this took
real grit, real determination, Like this was not a microwavable product, right,
or business or journey.

Speaker 1 (38:39):
You know. So when you first started and you were
like trying different combinations and doing all that stuff, did
you ever like try something and it was like, oh,
this is not e absolutely, Like how did you did
you have like chemistry were working with or you just
did everything.

Speaker 2 (38:53):
On your own?

Speaker 1 (38:53):
No?

Speaker 3 (38:53):
Girl, I was a broke college student, so everything was
just me trying it on myself, my friends and my family.

Speaker 2 (38:59):
Those were my guinea pigs.

Speaker 3 (39:01):
And so I tried one form on my mom and
she said, baby, uh, this thing over and one thing
I can count on my mom is gonna be honest.
She want to tell me, babes, we gotta go back
to the lab with that one. So, yes, it was
a product I was trying, like this tropical sweet soap. Yeah,
she said stick to the grasslands and stuff that she
used to because this wasn't right.

Speaker 1 (39:21):
And that's why I say to talk about like cause
a lot of times when we use products down there,
because you know, the kouchie war is gonna be in
the commedis I know, because they're always like, oh, it's
a self cleaning uh huh, don't do this, don't put
that you need to wash it.

Speaker 2 (39:35):
But talk about that, like how like what are the.

Speaker 1 (39:38):
Ingredients that we're supposed to be looking at, Like when
we pick up a salt egg so and we see
the ingredient lists, like what are we supposed to.

Speaker 2 (39:43):
Be looking for?

Speaker 3 (39:44):
So you're looking at the essential oils that we put
in in okay, because one of the most important ingredients
is tea tree oil that we use. It's anti fungal,
it's antibacterial. I used t triol on my toe, yeah,
and it's anti fungal.

Speaker 2 (39:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (39:58):
Bacterial on huh uh huh, and you I want to
use antibacterial soap down there, uh huh.

Speaker 2 (40:02):
You see, I thought about everything. Yeah, I ain't no
Joe Schmoke. I did my research. Okay. The tea tree
oil is really really important.

Speaker 3 (40:12):
And I think that people don't understand how valuable essential
oils are, right because they're like the purest form of healing,
Like you can take it. I know some people have
seen videos of people ingesting a reginal oil.

Speaker 2 (40:24):
Love.

Speaker 3 (40:27):
I love Oregonal oil. I've seen there's like pads and tampons. Yeah,
Regonal oil now and t tree oil. That is the
holy Realeah. That's why I tell people, like everything naturally
grown is already here to heal us, Like you don't
have to do you don't have to, you know, find
out other things to use. It's already here. It's already

(40:48):
naturally grown. So I think that is so wonderful that
I was able to figure out how to naturally heal women.

Speaker 2 (40:54):
Yeah, because I didn't want to keep.

Speaker 3 (40:56):
Doing what we were doing in the past, like what
our mama's and our aunties and our grandma's used.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
They were using all of the stuff. We know the
name drunk.

Speaker 3 (41:03):
They were using this stuff that was throwing them off right,
and we're trying to figure out why do I keep
going to the guy?

Speaker 2 (41:07):
Know why? It was a little steak under the movie. Yeah,
when you lay down, you laying down and get your
hair braided, like sit right, hair, baby, I don't want
to be right here. It's no baby, it's a fire. Okay, yeah, literally,
it's not that. It was nor forms and all this

(41:27):
much a lot. They didn't know. They don't know, you
don't know.

Speaker 1 (41:31):
So I do kind of want to talk about because
you have an oil that I've been seeing the girls
talk about too, that like works well on scars, because.

Speaker 2 (41:39):
You know, I'm a surgery girl, Chap, and you know
I was a rough little kid.

Speaker 1 (41:43):
I got the little So talk about the oil and
how does it like how or like what results should
people expect realistically from using that oil.

Speaker 3 (41:53):
So that oil just went viral on TikTok. We sold
like two hundred thousand bottles Wow this year alone.

Speaker 2 (42:00):
Shit amazing. Yeah, because the people the oil is so
it's good for ingrown, it's good for ingrown, it's good
for hyperpigmentation.

Speaker 3 (42:08):
So I had two c sections, okay and The reason
why that oil went viral was because a lady was
telling our customers, Hey, I use this on my lyposuction scars,
and my scars have gone away.

Speaker 2 (42:17):
And you know sometimes they give you the silicone. It
doesn't work. They don't work. It doesn't Let's just be real,
it doesn't work.

Speaker 3 (42:26):
So this oil has lemon, it also has turmeric, and
you know those are naturally brightening ingredients. So when you're
using that, and you're also using a skin like oil
that doesn't clog your pores, that's going to help you
reduce those scarring, reduce the ingrown hairs.

Speaker 2 (42:42):
Because for me, I wax. Y'all wax. Yeah, I'm a waxer. Yeah,
I'm a waxy. Yeah. If I shave, I'll get ingrown
hairs like fraily, I don't know what it is.

Speaker 3 (42:51):
And then as soon as I get my wax, you
know how it's kind of like swollen after you have inflammation.

Speaker 2 (42:55):
You apply that oil.

Speaker 3 (42:56):
As soon as you're done with a wax, it's like
your coochie has taken a deep breath.

Speaker 1 (43:00):
It is incredible. Yet, Jail, I be feeling like my
coochie took.

Speaker 2 (43:08):
A deep breath. Is yeah?

Speaker 1 (43:10):
Friendly it's so refreshing. So the oil does it work
on old scars, new scars, or both.

Speaker 2 (43:18):
You can use them on both.

Speaker 3 (43:18):
I use them on my c section scars, okay, and
then I also use them on my under arms.

Speaker 2 (43:23):
I use it on my butt. So if you have
a darker butt, you got that dark booty hole it is.
It's a little crunchy down there. That's gonna help with
the head by use it on that booty hole I use.
I'm gonna do a three months test time I'm using.

Speaker 3 (43:41):
And the girls use it on their booty hooles. Oh
you gets it on your bikini line. I wish I
could show you. I'll show my bikini line off because
I don't mind. I don't mind, Like I'm like, hey,
I'm a girl's girl. I'm gonna show you the results
so you know I'm not just catting, okay. But it
definitely works, and I like to use it because it's
just soothing. It's very soothing. It has lemon and it
was which is a very calming essential oil. And it

(44:03):
also has peppermin in it, so that gives you so
it'll kind of it'll turn you up if you wanted
to so it's multipurpose.

Speaker 2 (44:12):
I like, uh huh.

Speaker 3 (44:15):
So you were just talking about, you know, the importance
of taking care of yourself down there, especially when it
comes to intimacy. So could you touch a little bit
on We talked about the young jail because you talk
about the erotica jill.

Speaker 2 (44:27):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 3 (44:28):
Okay, So the erotica jail, you like the erotica jo,
I do, girl, I used the both. The erotica jail
is our aphrodisiac shower jail, okay. And the reason why
it's in afrodijacs because we use essential oils that stimulate
your libido.

Speaker 2 (44:45):
Yes. So the reason why I even created this.

Speaker 3 (44:47):
Is because I had a customer who had PCOS and
her libido had plummeted and she had just got pregnant.
Not just got pregnant, she had just got married and
she was trying to conceive and she was trying to
get her you know, her mojo back a little bit.

Speaker 2 (45:00):
Yes, you know, amplify it.

Speaker 3 (45:03):
And so I was thinking, I'm like, dang, I want
to really create something for women because I know a
lot of black women experience PCOS and there's not a
lot of natural solutions they'll just try to give you
something to get you out of the way. But there's
not a lot of natural solutions in terms of helping
you boost your libido.

Speaker 2 (45:17):
And so I said, you know what, let me look
up some of the essential oils. There's essential oils.

Speaker 1 (45:21):
To boost your libido, to get you more turned up
in the moment, to give you that desire.

Speaker 3 (45:27):
And that's what that body washes for because it stimulates
the senses. And you know, the skin is the largest
largest organ on your bias. So it's going to get
deep in there and it's going to get that girl
like a water park.

Speaker 2 (45:37):
Oh, it seeps, it seeps in, it works. Okay, I
like that. So you have the oil, Yes, the.

Speaker 3 (45:48):
Erotica jail, Stony jail, jail, and so those are the three,
like those are our heroes. But we have a complete
like catalog, body wash, body scrubs, oil.

Speaker 2 (46:01):
Deorderant, booty deorderant. I know, y'all love good. I don't
like pineapple, so you go down there.

Speaker 1 (46:10):
Okay, could you imagine eating a booty pineapple in like
a pineapple, a booty apple.

Speaker 3 (46:15):
I like that.

Speaker 2 (46:17):
I love it. See I'm like because I'm so I
am like champion for like smelling good. I love smelling goods.
Like that's my personality. It's literally my personality trade.

Speaker 1 (46:28):
I don't care why people say she always talked about
I love it, because why are you mad that I
like talking about smelling thank you?

Speaker 2 (46:35):
But I have like a very extensive shower routine. I
posted my shower routine.

Speaker 1 (46:39):
The other day that actually kind of like went viral,
and honestly it started from the episode where Drea talked
about you know, salt egg so and like how the
products is. That's the number one compliment like Dre gets
a lot too, is that she smells good.

Speaker 2 (46:52):
So what is your shower routine?

Speaker 1 (46:54):
Like give us the order of like the stuff and
how you use the productsower routine.

Speaker 3 (46:59):
So we have this scrub called body, like our serving
body scrub, right, and it's brown crystallized sugar. Okay, down,
I mean the way my body like if y'all could
just rub me down, just rubbed me out, you have,
It's just it's nice. And I exfoliate four times a week.
I'm in there about thirty thirty to forty five minutes.
I'm taking because I'm so intentional about shower time. So

(47:23):
I don't like to rush the process. I like to
really take care of my body, so I'm using our
exfolid and scrub. I also love our Vitamin Sea scrub,
which is a turmeric and vitamin sea wash which helps
with hyperpigmentation. So in case like you get like back acne,
leg acne under arms.

Speaker 2 (47:38):
Yeah, I love that. I use that daily.

Speaker 3 (47:41):
And I use our grape fruit, our seedless or or
even the seated y only Joe and I just I
just started just all and because I know it's fired
because I made it right.

Speaker 2 (47:51):
I know that's right. Everything that's pH balanced exactly okay.

Speaker 3 (47:57):
So and I think that is really important to know
exactly what you're put on your body because I'm confident
in using salted so because I know exactly what I
put in it. Because I made the formula. Like when
I was in college, I didn't have a chemist, but
now I have a chemist, I know that's right, so
I'm able to like show share what is the the
ingredients and then we're able to create the formula and
everything is just like totally balancing the line. So I

(48:19):
love a good old scrub and as soon as I
get out that shower, I'm putting on my rejuice oil okay,
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 2 (48:24):
And then it just makes me perm Oh my gosh.

Speaker 1 (48:28):
Could you just imagine just laying down, it's just calling out,
wait to use these products.

Speaker 2 (48:33):
Oh my god, They're so good.

Speaker 3 (48:36):
And then I feel like every girl needs to have
their post six hygiene yeah, you know whatever, Yes, And
I feel like these are really good products for that
yeau especially.

Speaker 2 (48:46):
Yeah, you gotta wash it down. You gotta wash it down.

Speaker 1 (48:48):
So let me ask you this though, because you know,
we have a lot of male listeners too, and you
know a lot a lot of people that are part
of the community and some you know, a lot of
strike men as well. Can men use these products?

Speaker 2 (49:00):
Absolutely?

Speaker 3 (49:01):
I recommend that your partner uses saltic soel, okay, because
whatever he uses is going right inside of you.

Speaker 2 (49:06):
So if he's using highly fragrance products.

Speaker 3 (49:10):
And trying to smell like oceans and musk and all
types of stuff, it's going right inside of you.

Speaker 2 (49:16):
Boom direct connect.

Speaker 3 (49:17):
So whatever you use, essentially, it's just gonna knock it off, okay, right,
And so I think that men me personally, my brothers,
my friends, my guy friends, they used salt excelf and
there was just a guy who went viral on TikTok
saying like, hey, y'all use this wash so that y'all
don't throw off your girls pH. I think it's a
love language to take to want to be very conscious

(49:38):
of what you use on your body when you're having
when you have intercourse with your girl. Yeah, you don't
want to just use anything because our pH can get
thrown off so easily, like so easily. So I'm just
super careful with stuff like that, and I think guys
definitely use that.

Speaker 2 (49:53):
Like a really great question.

Speaker 1 (49:54):
Okay, so do you have any plans for future products,
like things that you can give us little to like.

Speaker 2 (50:01):
So we just launched our minis, yes, like last week.
I'm so excited about it. I'm so excited about the
Mini on the Road. Take on the Road. Seriously, it's
so good and it's so cute. Me. I love when
things look good. Yes, I'm a.

Speaker 1 (50:20):
Yeah, I was just I have a packaging girl, don't
you love like I would just talk about that, No,
cap this is probably some of the prettiest packaging it
is I talk about I've talked about the like products
that I use down there, uh huh. But I'm not
gonna lie, it's not like pretty packaging. Uh huh, regular, regular,
but like this is like cute.

Speaker 2 (50:39):
Yeah. I was like, yeah, I keep that, yeah exactly,
uh huh.

Speaker 3 (50:44):
So we just launched our minis. This is great for travel.
You can keep it in your purse. I thought about everything.
I'm like, Okay, for the girls who want to do
a spend the night bag, keeping your purse, keep it discreened,
keep it cute. For the girls who want to travel
and have luggage, it's not taking up too much space.

Speaker 2 (50:58):
Yeah, you know. And then even if you're just want
to have something on the goal, keep it in your
glove compartment.

Speaker 1 (51:07):
You gotta do what you gotta do on the go, y'all.
W W be funky sometimes. Yeah, so sometimes you need
to go to the bathroom wipe it down a little bit.

Speaker 2 (51:16):
You know, you got to do what you got to do.

Speaker 3 (51:18):
So it's it's just so beautiful and I love that
now girls have access to use it and they don't
have to keep transferring products.

Speaker 2 (51:25):
It's a smaller bottles.

Speaker 3 (51:27):
The problem like, no, you got your salt so branded
products everywhere you go and just hold it close.

Speaker 1 (51:32):
Because the housekeepers like to steal salt so I've not
heard about that. And let me tell you something.

Speaker 3 (51:38):
To your products last for so long, Like I've been
using salt XO products since you had the other packaging
bottle clear bottle. Yes, so that one bottle lasts me
for like a whole year. Yeah, yeah, it lasts a
little bit, goes a long waychie well. I mean that's
our problem, okay, but it lathers so well, and it's

(52:02):
just it's so amazing, like this is.

Speaker 1 (52:06):
I think it will be like a good gift, like
a sock her figures like birthday gift. But like what
if you had like a friend and she got she
kind of got a little stick, would you just give
them or would you have a conversation about it?

Speaker 2 (52:21):
I would just.

Speaker 3 (52:21):
Gifted to her because I feel like, you know, what's
wrong with getting your friends some products that you really like?
Like I use this myself like O girl, here you go,
because I think you will really enjoy it and reap
the benefits from you. I can give you position it
like that, like I use it, like make it so
that she doesn't feel like she's isolated in it. It's
all about how you say things, how you present things right,

(52:42):
you know. But for me, I don't really have friends
that would sit down there. You can't be around the
coochy queen would sit down here, yeah, like always keeping
them knowledgeable of what to use and how to take
care of our body. So it's like they know, but
if they do, just in case, it's a loving conversation.

Speaker 2 (52:58):
I think so too, you know.

Speaker 1 (53:00):
But honestly, if you dealisa friend and your coach is stag,
you really just don't care.

Speaker 2 (53:03):
About nah, you know, like come on with the coaching queen,
you know what.

Speaker 1 (53:08):
I like, literally, but I do think that's okay to
have conversations with your friends like that. I feel like
it's so taboo like to be like, oh my gosh, girl,
like my pH was off, Like, oh my gosh, what
are you using? Like I think conversations like this people
act like it's not normal or we all haven't.

Speaker 2 (53:25):
Been through it before.

Speaker 3 (53:26):
Oh no, yeah, And I'm not exempt Like if my
if my pH gets thrown off, I know exactly what
to do.

Speaker 2 (53:31):
It's like you just have to know what to do.
You sit in it and just be like, okay, you
know what my pH is off. I'm just sitting there.
Oh no, baby, I know exactly what do. Okay, let's go.
We're good, you know. Okay, So my exactly.

Speaker 1 (53:43):
Say, somebody is like Julisa, my pH is off. What's
the first step and like what like the products that
she should use? And it's nothing like honestly, sometimes y'all
need to go to the doctor. But we're talking about
something like, Okay, your pH got thrown off, and you know,
it's something like what is the first product they should
dive into?

Speaker 2 (53:58):
First product? You're gonna use our boric assets positories. Okay,
oh I love a little oh.

Speaker 3 (54:03):
Man and our suppositories work in one day. Seven days okay, yeah,
one day.

Speaker 2 (54:10):
Because you don't have time for that. You don't have
time to be sitting down, marinate and for to sign
the fun tonight off, kick that ship out of here.
I love that. I'm sold already. That's all you have
to say. One day.

Speaker 3 (54:26):
I love the Okay, one day that works? When I
tell you, because after your cycle, your pH is.

Speaker 2 (54:34):
Going to be thrown off. There it's just been through
too much. Your cycle be thrown off.

Speaker 3 (54:38):
And even after intimacy, I highly recommend that women in
start of suppository. You know sometimes and it's not all
the time thing, right, but sometimes let's just say he
releases inside of you.

Speaker 2 (54:50):
Release. Let's give it cute class. That was very class.
If you're released this y then it might throw it
off the knocker. Yep.

Speaker 3 (55:02):
Then you gotta put that supository in in one day, okay,
And I took it took me so long to perfect
this formula because a lot of suppositories, it takes so.

Speaker 2 (55:12):
Long, yeah, for it to fully clear up. I don't
have time. And I just told myself, I don't have time.

Speaker 3 (55:17):
I got things to do, people to see, I got
stuff to do, right exactly, knock it up out of
here asap, all right, twenty four hours. Then you're going
to use your Yoni wash, So you can either use
the grapefruit it's our sensitive version either all three work amazingly,
and it's going to maintain your pH okay, so it's
gonna make sure that it does not throw it off.

Speaker 2 (55:37):
So if you use these products, is not gonna throw
you off. It's gonna help you maintain it.

Speaker 3 (55:41):
But if you need to restore your pH, use that
suppository one day and you're.

Speaker 2 (55:45):
Good to go. Well that and it'll have you tastings
so good.

Speaker 1 (55:52):
Yeah, yeah, okay, So tell everybody because obviously you know,
she said, y'all been living under rock. If y'all don't
know where salt xo is, but let them know where
they can follow you at and salt xo where they
can get all the products, all that good stuff.

Speaker 3 (56:07):
Yes, so you can find us at salt dot xo
on Instagram, salt xo on TikTok, saltxo dot com, and
my personal page is Julisa dot xo.

Speaker 2 (56:18):
We have the best feminine hygiene products in the world period,
not the nation in the world.

Speaker 3 (56:25):
And once you try our products one time, I promise
you our customer retention rate is through the roof. They're
coming back. And we've been in business for seven years.
So this is a tried and true product that I'm
really proud of what I've built so far.

Speaker 2 (56:37):
So thank y'all. Let me give you your flowers too,
because as a black woman, a young black woman, you
are you have it together like it's a you know,
I haven't used it yet, becase I'm gonna give you
an honest review now, Yeah, ye know, I can't wait.

Speaker 1 (56:48):
But the way you have because I've always heard of
your products, you know what I'm saying. But the way
you market yourself and the way you have just you
believe in yourself. I mean you peak head to toebro
thang you you know what I'm saying, And the way
I just love to see black women out here really
pushing their business and staying on the goal and getting
it done and helping other women. So congratulations and thank

(57:11):
you for sitting on this couch. And I can't wait
to wash Garfield tonight.

Speaker 2 (57:14):
I can't wait for you. Serious, I've wonta hit you, girl.

Speaker 1 (57:17):
And because I'm big, I have a lot of look,
I got like sixteen a life ol scars now, so
I'm finna use that consistency. Yes, Because I'm a skincare
girl too, So I have a like a fifty step
skincare routine.

Speaker 2 (57:30):
Okay, So I'm gonna add this to my sometimes that's
what it takes.

Speaker 1 (57:33):
Yes, So I'm a person adding this to my routine
is gonna be a breeze because I already have a
long routine anyway, So I'm gonna switch out my products.

Speaker 2 (57:39):
Today, Okay.

Speaker 3 (57:40):
To that, And I think that was a really good
point that you were about to touch on to about consistency,
because the lot of the time people think, oh, I'm
gonna use something once, No, I'm gonna use something twice,
and I should see results already. You have to use
something for a long period of time consistently to see
the results.

Speaker 2 (57:55):
Yeah, because if.

Speaker 3 (57:55):
You've been doing bad for a long time, you can't
do good one time and right change up.

Speaker 2 (58:00):
Yep. So and also y'all before I even go, like,
make sure y'all drinking water. Yep.

Speaker 3 (58:06):
You cannot just use these products and then just be
drinking soda, drinking juice, all that. All that sugar yeast
love sugar, sugar and yeast, they go together. So why
you bacon pies inside your koochie. Your body is breeding
that yeast. It's like it's growing. So when you're getting
your pap smears and your guy know, it's like, oh
my gosh, I can literally see the yeast.

Speaker 2 (58:26):
I can see the discharge of bacon bread. It's bacon bread.

Speaker 1 (58:29):
So try to drink as much water as possible, like
I keep it water by my knights, thaing y'all like
water about y'a nights.

Speaker 2 (58:35):
Yeah, I love me a little water. I love my
my mountain valley. That's my favorite. Why I love my
uh huh, Yes, thank you so much. This is amazing.

Speaker 1 (58:48):
Your products are beautiful, and we leaving out of town tomorrow,
so I'm packing my.

Speaker 2 (58:51):
Stuff up, y'all. So y'all do what I do? I
really do.

Speaker 3 (58:57):
He takes it everywhere she goes the time I be
putting in my little travel size containers.

Speaker 2 (59:02):
But now I could just pick up my bottle and go. Yeah,
so y'all, make sure y'all go to salt xo dot
com and load up on your products and get that
kouchie smella right, shout out to the couchie queen. Yeah,
all right? What's the that topic? Number two?

Speaker 3 (59:18):
Would you be mad at your friend if they congratulated
to privately but not publicly online?

Speaker 2 (59:26):
Do you feel about this?

Speaker 1 (59:27):
I think it depends on the situation, because I'm not
It's crazy because I am an Internet personality, but I'm
not necessarily an Internet girl. You know, Like sometimes a
long paragraph and you're like congratulating me and you're being
sentimental and you're telling me like, oh, you came from
this and you can't whatever the case may be, that

(59:48):
means more to me than an Instagram post.

Speaker 2 (59:50):
Like something thoughtful. So I like thoughtful stuff.

Speaker 1 (59:53):
So honestly, like because a lot of times people do
things on the internet to be performative, So I think
it depends.

Speaker 2 (01:00:01):
But because it depends on the person though as well.

Speaker 1 (01:00:03):
Like if you're a person you always congratulating people online
and you're always telling people like happy birthday, congratulations, then
it's my turn.

Speaker 2 (01:00:11):
You don't do it, that's a little weird.

Speaker 1 (01:00:13):
But if it's just somebody like like we're really close
friends and you took the time out to write me
a sentimental message or whatever the case may be, I
wouldn't care.

Speaker 2 (01:00:20):
But like I said, it just depends on the situation.

Speaker 3 (01:00:24):
What about you, Yeah, I mean I feel that way too.
I just feel like it's weird. It gets weird. It
gets a little weird when you do it with other people.
But then you don't do it with your other like
with specific friends, then I think it's strange. If you
just the person across the board where you don't really
be on social media like that, you don't really write

(01:00:46):
long captions, long paragraphs, you don't really send that type
of stuff on social media, then I wouldn't care because
that's just not even your personality. Like I said, I
think it gets a little strange when it's like specific
to some friends but not all your Yeah, yeah, I agree,
because then it starts to give Okay, well, what's teased?

Speaker 2 (01:01:05):
We really friends? Or are we not? You hating a
little bit?

Speaker 1 (01:01:09):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:01:10):
Or maybe I don't even necessarily want to say hating,
but maybe we just not as close as I thought
we was, because I see that you show love to
other people and you can't. You're you're clearly capable of
showing love to other people and applauding other people when
they have accomplishedments, but like you don't really have their
same energy for me. Then I think it'd be time

(01:01:30):
to reevaluate the relationship, you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (01:01:33):
Yeah, But I think that goes into That's why I
say you could be hating a little bit, because a
lot of times people be like, why her, not me?

Speaker 2 (01:01:41):
Why him and not me? Yeah, and that's not a
friend you want, that's not really your friend. Yeah, Like
I'm we say this all the time of the show.

Speaker 1 (01:01:47):
I'm a strong believer in if you can't clap for
other people, it'll never be your turn. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:01:52):
I mean life is about timing too, Like everything is
everything in your life happens in the time, and it
is supposed to happen.

Speaker 2 (01:02:00):
You can't be looking at other people play and wanting
what they got on.

Speaker 3 (01:02:02):
They play, or feeling like, well that's you, you know,
even if it's beans on it, I don't meant still
that play.

Speaker 2 (01:02:10):
Yeah you tripping? What if you still to play? And
the beans nasty?

Speaker 1 (01:02:14):
I've only had beans that were nasty like one time
in my life, like literally once in my life.

Speaker 2 (01:02:22):
I'm not about to play with you. But anyways, like, yeah,
I just I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:02:26):
I think that life is about timing, and like, if
you too worried about what everybody else is doing, how
you gonna get to where you're trying to go right,
how you gonna accomplish things yourself. You can't be worried
about what other people are doing and comparing your story
to theirs.

Speaker 2 (01:02:42):
So I don't know. I feel like.

Speaker 3 (01:02:46):
If somebody is your real friend out and they be
online all the time being acknowledged by them, it does matter.

Speaker 1 (01:02:52):
And but I have a friend, I have friends like
who don't be on the inn all the time, but
they still make sure to get online. It don't matter
if I post a clip a poor minds are opposed
to clip of ALEXP. They reposting it, and they're always
making sure, you know, because even if they don't have
a lot of followers, it may be somebody in their
followers that would enjoy the content. So I just think
it's all about being supportive too, and making sure your
friends are.

Speaker 2 (01:03:13):
Like, you know visible, you know what I'm saying. I agree,
I agree.

Speaker 1 (01:03:18):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:03:19):
I have had experiences like that with people though, So
I mean, did you say something to me? Yeah, I've
said something before and then I just.

Speaker 2 (01:03:27):
Walked away, like walked away emotionally or like physically, like
walked away like physically, Like we just don't be talking
like that.

Speaker 3 (01:03:37):
Oh okay, so I don't really be caring like one
thing about me, which may or may not be a
bad thing, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:03:43):
But like I.

Speaker 3 (01:03:45):
Reciprocate energy. Yeah, I'm very much that type of person
in every area of my life. I'm gonna try hard
until i'm not no mo Yeah yeah, because like when
you're friends with people and you care about people, just
like in a romantic relationship, you know you're gonna give
a lot in the beginning, especially if you were receiving

(01:04:05):
it back, or even if you not, like maybe when
you cause I feel like when I was younger, I
just used to try to go really hard for my
friends and like try to prove to them they're like, Oh,
I love you, I care about you, I'm supporting you whatever.
As I have gotten older, I don't really care to
go out my way to support people that don't support me.
I recipro k energy, and I feel like my life
has been much more easier and wayless drama and storys

(01:04:30):
since I started putting people in them categories like I'm
gonna give you the energy that you give me until
and then eventually.

Speaker 2 (01:04:36):
If I gotta be that way with you, I'm not
giving you no energy.

Speaker 1 (01:04:39):
I was just about to say that, because I'm the
type of person I don't know how to give. I
don't know how to compartmentalize very well. I don't know
how to be somebody's friend and be like, oh, I
can show up for you this way, but I can't
show up that way.

Speaker 2 (01:04:51):
I know I can do this for you. If I
can't go all in with you, I don't I can't
be your friend at all. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:04:58):
I don't know how to fifty percent give somebody fifty
percent because if you're giving me fifty percent and I'm
giving you one hundred.

Speaker 2 (01:05:04):
We just don't need to be friends.

Speaker 3 (01:05:05):
I know how to give people fifty percent because I
feel like every friendship ain't meant to be one hundred percent, right,
Like I think people go into relationships feeling like, oh,
you need to be a multi purpose friend. Everybody is
not a multi purpose friend. Some people are friends for
this You're friends with some people for this reason, and
you're friends with other people for different reasons. This person
might be fun to go out and have a good

(01:05:26):
time with. You know, you gonna have a ball with them.
This friend, though, is more of an emotionally supportive friend.
This friend is wanted I can go to church with
I could talk to God, talk about God with me.
And this friend might be friends because we've both lost
a parent and we both are grieving or know what
that process or that feeling is.

Speaker 2 (01:05:44):
Like, like I feel like or me and this person.

Speaker 3 (01:05:47):
Might be friends because we work in the same industry,
the same career path.

Speaker 2 (01:05:52):
It's all for different reasons.

Speaker 3 (01:05:54):
And when I think, when you expect one person to
show up for you in like ten different ways, if
that's how you show up, then that's not fair, because
then you might be missing out on good people who
may be good in this one area but not others.

Speaker 2 (01:06:07):
I think that's why.

Speaker 1 (01:06:08):
Like my friend Killer told me that she's like, you
need to make more friends, but I was like, no,
I don't, because I'm okay with my circle. But like
everything you just named, all of my friends show up
for me in all of those ways, like you, Lauren Kiler,
Belin and my sister, like those are like my main
that's my main circle.

Speaker 2 (01:06:26):
All of y'all do all of those for me.

Speaker 1 (01:06:28):
So I'll be like, I'm good, Like maybe I probably
have you know, other friends whore like you know that
do show up in like little ways, but I'm talking
about like my tight circle, like I'm.

Speaker 3 (01:06:36):
Cool, yeah, yeah, I mean I feel definitely in your
tight circle.

Speaker 2 (01:06:41):
It's a little bit different, but I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:06:43):
I just that's why I always be open to making
new friends, because I don't expect everybody to show up
for me the same way because if I'm being completely honest,
I'm not even the type of person that's gonna let
you in like they automatically, no way, So I don't
even expect you to show up in certain ways because
you ain't even gonna know enough about me to show
up in certain ways, you know what, I agree. I

(01:07:03):
just think people got to learn how to like, you know, separate,
because I think people really do like including you. I
do be agreeing with kill it to a certain sting,
and I feel like you could potentially mess out on
like cool relationships just because you like, Oh, I don't
really need no more friends because I got these four people.

Speaker 1 (01:07:22):
Well, I think with me too, I am such a
specific type of person, like I just like certain type
of people. And I know within thirty minutes of talking
to you if we gonna be like I can tell
I know off the rip, like I just know, I
don't know. I can just tell when I'm gonna be
cool with somebody. And like I said, I don't know
how to be I don't know how to compartmentalize.

Speaker 2 (01:07:44):
I don't know how to do that.

Speaker 1 (01:07:46):
So I've recognized that, and that's just how I move,
you know what I'm saying, Like if I feel like, oh,
we can go out together, but we necessarily can't, Like
you can't come over to my house and I can't
tell you my beer because I get drunk and I
like to.

Speaker 2 (01:07:58):
Spell tea bitch.

Speaker 1 (01:08:00):
So I can't be your friend because I'm gonna getdrunk
and start telling all my business.

Speaker 3 (01:08:03):
Not if you don't invite them to your house. But
we people ain't gonna be drunk militia following.

Speaker 2 (01:08:09):
But that's what I'm saying. I like to invite my
friends to the house. No, you don't you lying? No,
Now I do because y'all can help me pack. Y'allays
help me pack. You like me having people, well, no,
not at my house.

Speaker 1 (01:08:21):
But I'm saying like, I just like to have that
relationship where we can go have dinner and we can
get drunk and talk about the week and talk about
our problems. More so, yeah, I do like to talk
on the phone. So if I can't call you and
tell you what's going on, then I'm just that's not
a friendship to me personally, it's you can be an associate. Now,
I'll make associates all day. You know what I'm saying.
You can be my associate, but my friends. If I

(01:08:44):
call you a friend, we gotta be one hundred percent
because all my friends are one hundred percent.

Speaker 2 (01:08:49):
That's fair, that's fair.

Speaker 1 (01:08:51):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:08:51):
I feel like you could I do with you.

Speaker 3 (01:08:53):
I agree with you, but I do think you can
still be friends with people, just people to serve to.
It's just like when people be like, oh, I got
a work friend and that's they work friend. They talk
to them, it's not not your friend, but you mainly
only talk to them. And I was just telling killed
this the other day.

Speaker 1 (01:09:09):
I said, you know how awkward it is though, when
you make a work friend, then y'all try to hang
out outside of work, and it's like, it's a little awkward.

Speaker 3 (01:09:16):
Oh, I don't know that because I didn't have mixed.
I done have some work friends, and I done hung
out with them out.

Speaker 2 (01:09:21):
Side of work, and we all like, cause then you
was work friends. Yeah, but we worked at a club,
so we was partying while we was at work. We were,
but it still could be weird when you hang with
that person one on one.

Speaker 1 (01:09:36):
No, that's different because hang it because when you work
at a club, y'all are essentially hanging out and making drink.

Speaker 2 (01:09:42):
Bitch.

Speaker 3 (01:09:42):
But even when I worked in corporate, I made friends
at work and then we would like go to lunch
and go hang out outside of work, and we was cool.

Speaker 1 (01:09:50):
Yeah, because I feel like the only thing we have
to talk about is work. I don't want to know.

Speaker 3 (01:09:55):
About how we was talking about our lives and everything.
Like my friends shout out to Serena, it used to
be my friend who is Soena?

Speaker 2 (01:10:03):
She was my friend when I used to work at
good Rich Petroleum. She really was.

Speaker 3 (01:10:07):
She was my friend, but she was like ten years
older than me I was now she had moved to
Denver because she had gotten a relationship.

Speaker 2 (01:10:14):
Her man had went to jail.

Speaker 3 (01:10:16):
He ended up getting a telling Serena, b I'm not
telling her bits were you asking me? You acting like
she a fictional person, So bitch, I'm giving you a
little background story.

Speaker 2 (01:10:27):
Don't y'all Serena man one thing about it.

Speaker 3 (01:10:30):
Don't y'all hate when y'all friends think they know everything about.

Speaker 1 (01:10:33):
You, like it is part of it is part of
my life that you had a life of white And
this was very much before you rude.

Speaker 3 (01:10:43):
But she was like ten years older than me, and
we was really really cool, and she used to give
me a lot of great life advice and she ended
up getting pregnant.

Speaker 2 (01:10:51):
I think now she got two kids. We still follow
each other on Facebook.

Speaker 1 (01:10:54):
I'm not gonna lie. I'm still friends. With my my
manager from TGI Fridays. It's like an older white man
and he's married with kids, and he always he calls
me the proud of Orange Texas.

Speaker 2 (01:11:06):
But we cool. Chloe that I used to work for
that became my work friends.

Speaker 3 (01:11:11):
She was my boss, but we ended up becoming friends
and still to this day, me and Chloe still cool.

Speaker 2 (01:11:16):
Shout out to my girl because she about to be
on TV. I know, I love that. I don't have
to Chloe. Alright, alright, let's move on.

Speaker 1 (01:11:24):
Now it's time to get into the bed bow bow
by bow bow. Okay for the bed top of today,
we're gonna talk about love taps, how rough it's too
rough in bed? Like do you are you the kind
of person who like you gonna go all in and

(01:11:46):
there's no bounds, there's no limits. Oh, can things get
a little too like now?

Speaker 3 (01:11:54):
Because if you hit me too hard or something like,
if you smack my booty too hard, I'm gonna get
mad as fuck.

Speaker 2 (01:12:00):
I'm gonna get so angry. I hate that.

Speaker 3 (01:12:04):
I feel like I feel like, yes, you want him
to smack you on your ass, but like not to
the point that you got a whip or you got
like a little steam or it's like a red mark,
like you.

Speaker 2 (01:12:15):
Don't hit me too hard? The fuck bron with nigga.
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (01:12:21):
I like I like rough, I like like I want
it to like borderline kind of hurt a little bit
I do. I don't mind if I have a little
wealth on my booty.

Speaker 2 (01:12:31):
I don't mind that. I feel like that's borderline. Shep
about to get the missy. I like that. You know
what I was watching? I watched, I watched I know
what you did last summer.

Speaker 1 (01:12:39):
I still know what you did last summer the other
day yesterday, because I went and saw the new version
of it last night. But I was watching the I
was refreshing my memory. And the killer punched the a
bitch in her stomach, Like before, you know how mad
you gotta be a punch of bitch in her stomach?

Speaker 2 (01:12:56):
That's crazy? Who punches people in the stomach? Still like
to punch a bitch of her stomach? You mad? Trying
to take the wind a hug. You mad as the
fuck to put a bitch of her stomach, that's crazy.
But I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (01:13:11):
I but I gotta be in the mood for it though,
Like I'm talking like I like to get rough after
like a drunk night.

Speaker 2 (01:13:18):
We done turn, so we went to the club, we
drink it. That's when it really can Yeah, it can
get because I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:13:25):
I used to like like being choked and all of
this stuff during six until I got choked too hard
one time and I was like, excuse me, up the.

Speaker 1 (01:13:37):
Fuck And then it was crazy because we had just
gotten to argument today that.

Speaker 2 (01:13:40):
You are this stupid this so you be mad, That's
what I'm saying. So that's why I feel like, I
don't know, like maybe you need a safe word or something.

Speaker 1 (01:13:51):
No, you do need a safe workuse. Like I used
to have rough sex when this god was dated, and
like I didn't mind. Like we used to like we
used to get real rough and one time he smacked
the funk out of me on your face, I said, holdout, bit.
I mean I think he tried to get a licking
on and I done felt like that too, and then
you'll be like hootle I to smack his ass back,

(01:14:14):
and then it could get domestic.

Speaker 3 (01:14:16):
That's what I'm trying to say, sir, because I did
that before too. I got smacked and I smacked that nigga, but.

Speaker 2 (01:14:21):
He like he smacked me like a sack. He was like,
oh my bad.

Speaker 3 (01:14:27):
And before y'all know it, now y'all swinging in there,
be bro. Because I was so shocked, like why would
you snap me?

Speaker 2 (01:14:33):
He was like, oh my bad. He tried to kept going, no, nigga,
we need to talk about here. Yeah, you smacked me too.
Yeah I'm a lady.

Speaker 1 (01:14:40):
Yeah I forgot he did slap me, and he smiled
a little bit afterwards.

Speaker 2 (01:14:46):
He was happy as a fuck because I was like,
it was like a few time.

Speaker 1 (01:14:52):
Face was probably a little red. It was like he
slapped me the first time. I didn't say nothing. I
was just like, okay, he did it again.

Speaker 2 (01:15:02):
I said, all right, now gonna get up, bitch, get off.
That's what I'm saying. Like, I don't know. Sometimes be
eating a little too serious.

Speaker 1 (01:15:11):
Yeah, I think you because I didn't get it mad.
Like I said, I smacked that nigga bag. Why the
fuck you smacking me like that?

Speaker 2 (01:15:17):
Why would you? Why would I not? Y'all you know
what I'm slapping contest they be having on YouTube.

Speaker 3 (01:15:27):
Definitely smack that nigga bag? We killed y'all was looking
at up going though.

Speaker 1 (01:15:36):
I'm fucking weak, but no, I do like it rough,
but I do think there's like, you know, I think
you know when you're hitting somebody too hard and y'all
don't need to be doing that when you know you
come like if you got built up aggression, maybe we
can leave it smacking out, but like on my ass,
So what you're.

Speaker 3 (01:15:55):
Gonna say, You're gonna be like you can smack me, nigga,
but not today because we just got an argument.

Speaker 2 (01:16:01):
I think you know the arts.

Speaker 3 (01:16:03):
I don't think people be knowing the vibes. I think
they being the es. Okay, I'll say that, what if
somebody pull your hair too hard? Because that happened to
me before too.

Speaker 2 (01:16:12):
My my wig gonna slide off. You know my wings
aren't glued down. Bitch. Yeah, I don't have that happen.
I know you told me that he ripped that wig off.

Speaker 1 (01:16:20):
Oh my god, I was so fucking mad because why
would you pull my hair? He was like, oh, I
thought it was like the little when y'all put the
strings in there?

Speaker 3 (01:16:28):
Shut up, girl, what's he thought it was in? But
even that, imagine the nigga pull that shit too hard
and he pulled a patch on him.

Speaker 2 (01:16:35):
That's what I'm saying. You can pull a track out
if you pull out would especially if it's one of
this the main brad. You know, sometimes they grow out of.

Speaker 3 (01:16:50):
All fight too before you have from from a braid.
A braid done came out me and Lean was talking about.

Speaker 2 (01:16:58):
Me was talking about it. What she was Jamaica because
she said she got a ball, like from my brain
falling out. I remember my brain. That happened to me
before too.

Speaker 1 (01:17:09):
You know, like one time my brain fell out in
school and I've seen it on the ground. I had
to hurry up and cover it up with my foot
and slide.

Speaker 2 (01:17:14):
It over to you and then to pick it up.
I did, no, I said, I did that.

Speaker 1 (01:17:22):
You know, like if your brain fall out, you look
on the ground and see your brain hair, you try
to hurry up and cover it with your foot.

Speaker 2 (01:17:26):
Then you've been down to acting like you tying your
shoe and you stuff it somewhere.

Speaker 3 (01:17:30):
Yeah, so nobody see it. But braids don't really fall out.
I don't really fall out. They be hanging o you.
I feel like you know, I done pulled one out before.
I need that too, Like you gotta when nobody.

Speaker 1 (01:17:43):
Well, especially with the bohole braids too, because you know
the boho braids will shed a life. I'll be getting
off a nigga beer and I'll be like trying to
get all that shut out. But I don't like pulling
the hair, though I do. I like hair has never
been my thing as lack. Yeah, I like I love
an assmac.

Speaker 2 (01:18:02):
I like an ass mac if it's like but you
can't hit me too hard? No, I like to hit
that asshole now. No, why do we sing for like
five minutes? I like, I don't like that.

Speaker 1 (01:18:11):
I like a little I like a little choking. I
don't my heart again? Yeah, you like a like a
wooden purple, a nurple.

Speaker 2 (01:18:23):
When they take your nipples and twist them.

Speaker 3 (01:18:25):
Why the funk would I want somebody twisting my nipples? No, bitch,
the type of she cheot me all.

Speaker 2 (01:18:32):
You don't like a little twisting my h You know
people like nipple play. Some people do like that.

Speaker 3 (01:18:40):
I mean, I like you to like do normal stuff
to it, But why would I want you to twist
it intern it?

Speaker 2 (01:18:46):
What about a flick of the nip? You remember that song?
It didn't go like that. It was the flick of
the rigs. Oh, fuck, y'all know what I mean? You
know she was for real, she really was flick of
the nibs. You know it's look at the flick of
the rigs. Oh you know what, I'm big girl?

Speaker 3 (01:19:09):
What But now I mean I like a little nipple play,
but like normal stuff like lecky, you know, like you
can like pinch it a.

Speaker 2 (01:19:18):
Little bit, But why are you gonna twist it and
turn it?

Speaker 3 (01:19:20):
That's the type of ship that will get you smack
because now I feel like you're trying to hurt me.

Speaker 2 (01:19:24):
But your nipples are always like a niggas trying to
Because why are you trying to? Why do I feel
like you're trying to hurt me? Because you mad at me?
You got the radio dog nipples? Have you ever what
they always? It looks like you can turn the film
a radio. Not you be wanting to turn my nipple?
What the fuck wrong with you?

Speaker 3 (01:19:44):
But I do like certain stuff like I like a
little lip bite. Okay, I like them, but I'm being.

Speaker 2 (01:19:49):
Being too hard before. I don't like niggas be trying
yeah mad because you be cutting up. I do be
cutting up.

Speaker 3 (01:20:00):
I had came across this booking text business that I
had posted on Instagram and like one of my little
dump slide shows a few years ago, where my man
was like I had inserted it into the slide show
and he was like, you're the finest of all time,
but you still don't be acting raid.

Speaker 2 (01:20:16):
And I was like, I guess I don't really be
acting right, but that was nice. I have a picture.

Speaker 1 (01:20:21):
It's still on my Instagram. I think it was when
I went to London. He was like something like.

Speaker 2 (01:20:29):
You saw you find it's fucking it pisses me off.
I actually hate you. Oh he meant that he did.
He hated me real bad. I would have blocked him.

Speaker 1 (01:20:37):
I don't even know if I haven't blocked. He's so irrelevant,
but it was funny.

Speaker 2 (01:20:41):
I would have stopped talking to him after the egg.
I mean I wasn't talking to him at that point.
Oh he just randomly, he just randomly texted me.

Speaker 1 (01:20:47):
But honestly, I loved leaving men's life and terrorizing them,
Like I love the fact that I walked away from
your life.

Speaker 2 (01:20:52):
And you know I terrorized you. Sometimes you have to
do that. I don't even purposely be trying to terrorize
meiga so I know you don't.

Speaker 1 (01:21:00):
Perfectly do it, but sometimes I do know things are
going bad, though, it's time to terrorise them a little
bit before.

Speaker 3 (01:21:05):
You did for real hair believing, because I feel like,
what if you terrorized him too much?

Speaker 2 (01:21:10):
I just don't ever want a nigga to like flip. Well, no,
I'm not saying take shit too far, but how do
you know what's too far? Though?

Speaker 3 (01:21:18):
You know you really don't smack you to that nigga,
smack your ass or give you a purple nurple?

Speaker 2 (01:21:28):
I would break up with a nigga for the flicker
in it? Yes, you straight, because why would you do that?
I just think it's you know, certain people like certain things. Okay,
we just need a safe word maybe.

Speaker 1 (01:21:42):
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Speaker 2 (01:22:00):
I don't. I'm not good at logging, but I'm always
on Snapchat.

Speaker 1 (01:22:04):
Y'all can see me with my everyday life day to day,
and I'm also posting my house updates on there, so
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Speaker 2 (01:22:11):
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Speaker 1 (01:22:35):
So now it's time to get into the bop heyo.

Speaker 2 (01:22:40):
Bo bo boo boo pal bow bow. So y'all know
Bapa the week.

Speaker 1 (01:22:47):
Y'all know, I'm an R and B girly and I
love my R and B songs, but I had to
switch it up this week, Chap, because we were listening
to Boosy the other day and I know how y'all
feel about her, and y'all be having y'alls things to
say about him.

Speaker 2 (01:23:02):
But if you witnessed the run.

Speaker 1 (01:23:07):
That Boosie had, it was like from like two thousand
and six to like what twenty eleven twelve, like his
big big run when he was like on top of
his shit and he was dropping mixtape after mixtape, like
he was dropping hit after hit after hit, and it
was just like he did it independently. Like to see
somebody do that independently was crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:23:30):
So my bop of the week is Superfly by Boosy and.

Speaker 1 (01:23:34):
I feel so real and kn't nobody tell me shit,
I'm a real bad nigga.

Speaker 2 (01:23:40):
He said he was a bad nigga. He did say,
he said he was a bad nigga.

Speaker 1 (01:23:45):
If you ain't never heard Superfly by Boosy, this is
the type of song when you and your girls getting
ready for the club.

Speaker 2 (01:23:51):
And y'all like, yeah, we done, bitches. This is for
the young girls.

Speaker 1 (01:23:54):
Auntie is putting y'all on game, go play super Far
by Boosie while y'all getting ready, And that's gonna be
y'all song.

Speaker 2 (01:23:59):
That's gonna be theme song. I'm telling you.

Speaker 1 (01:24:01):
So that's my bop of the week. I had to
throw it back, but Boosie got hits. I'm gonna make
a Boosy playlist. We love a throwback hits, love.

Speaker 2 (01:24:09):
A throwback kid.

Speaker 1 (01:24:10):
I'm doing a Booty too used to be a Boosy fan,
but yeah, so my bop of the week is folded
by Kaylinney.

Speaker 2 (01:24:18):
Did you see the clip? I love that song, the
clip of her recording the video?

Speaker 3 (01:24:23):
I did see gotty T. I mean she we already
knew that she been working out and stuff for a minute.

Speaker 2 (01:24:30):
And like, you know, being cut up. Yeah, that's a
great song.

Speaker 1 (01:24:35):
It is.

Speaker 2 (01:24:35):
It's a good song.

Speaker 1 (01:24:36):
I just love Klonie as an artisty little R and B.
She don't miss She is just one of the girls,
one of the like the new girls. I couldn't I
count her in like the new generation.

Speaker 3 (01:24:44):
Really well, I say, like the like the only reason
I guess I don't really look at her is new
is because she been out since like twenty twelve.

Speaker 1 (01:24:52):
But when I say new generation, I just mean like
the younger girls. Like when I think of like older
R and B, I'm thinking of like, you know, the
Mariah Carey's, the the Houston's and Tony Braxon's. When I
say like the newer generations, it's like the Summer Walkers. Yeah,
Kilani's and people like that.

Speaker 2 (01:25:06):
Am I saying it right? Is it Kailani or Kalanie?
I think it's Ka Lanne.

Speaker 1 (01:25:12):
You know they're gonna be in the comments talking about me.
Well correct us thing she y'ad damn it.

Speaker 2 (01:25:16):
But Kallanie, come on the show, girl, because we love
you over here.

Speaker 1 (01:25:20):
But yeah, when I say new R and B I
just mean, like, you know, the younger girls that are
making like updated R and B R and B two
do you know? Not necessarily they just came out, you
know what I'm saying. But shout out to her. That's
that was a good bob And she looked fine in
that video. I can't wait to see the video she does.

Speaker 3 (01:25:35):
So now it's time for us sing get into our
favorite segment of the show, which is pouring your heart out.
You know, if you have any questions, you can always
send them to ask poor Minds at gmail dot com.
That's as kp oh you are in my nds at
gmail dot com. Let's get into question number one. Hey,
lex Andrea, I just started listening to the podcast and

(01:25:58):
I love y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:25:59):
You keep me laughing. You can truly lift my spirit.
Now to my situation.

Speaker 3 (01:26:03):
I'm thirty in the military and have been dating my
thirty two year old boyfriend, also military, for two and
a half years. I'm five months away from getting out
and was supposed to move in with him, but I
got cold feed. I've never lived with the man, and
we've had issues that make me uneasy. He's not a
fan of things like girls' trips, and our deployments have

(01:26:24):
called strained. I brought up my concerns but didn't express
them the best way, and now he's upset. To add
to that, he's trying to break He's tried to break
up with me four or five times, usually while one
of us was deployed. I do love him and he
has great qualities, but I'm hesitant about our future.

Speaker 2 (01:26:42):
What do y'all think? Should I still move in or
listen to my good love you bunches, Thank you? What
you think? What you think? You go first? Want me
to go first?

Speaker 1 (01:26:58):
I read the question well, I mean, I just feel like,
if you have a lot of hesitations and it seems
like you have things to address before you take that step,
and I think these are conversations that you need to
have with him. I think that if you want to
take a next step in your relationship, but something is
telling you something and.

Speaker 2 (01:27:17):
You're having doubts to where I always say this.

Speaker 1 (01:27:19):
If you feel like you're having so many doubts where
you have to write us and ask us, then you
need to hold off, like that's a big red flat
to you, like something in your spirit is not sitting
right with you to where you want.

Speaker 2 (01:27:31):
To take that leap forward. And I don't know, I've
been thinking that a lot of times y'all be knowing
the answers.

Speaker 1 (01:27:39):
Y'all just want to hear us say something different, But
you have to listen to that voice.

Speaker 2 (01:27:43):
It's there for a reason.

Speaker 1 (01:27:44):
And I'm not saying break up, But maybe y'all just
need a little more time to align more properly. A
lot of times people will be in love and they
want the same things, but they're not necessarily on the
same page or aligning properly. So it sounds like that
something is not aligned with.

Speaker 2 (01:27:59):
Y'all right now.

Speaker 3 (01:28:00):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I kind of just
feel like in a relationship. To me, this is just
me personally. But I think if it's a lot of
breaking up off and on, or like a person be
trying to break up with you and get back with you,
that's a sign of like emotional immaturity. And I don't
really know if that's somebody that you should want to
be with long term, because anytime it's an issue or

(01:28:24):
a potential issue, they want to break up with you
and not try to work through it. Those are not
signs of sustainability in a relationship. To me, I feel like,
if you gonna be with somebody, then you signing up
to be with them. Now I can understand if you
really have made your mind up and you like this
situation does not work for me, It don't align, let's

(01:28:45):
breakup and we don't cool. But every time you get
mad at me, you're trying to break up with me.
That's lame, and you emotionally immature. And so I definitely
wouldn't want to move in with somebody like that because
I feel like once you add the me of y'all
living together, girl, he the type to lock you out
the house or some she like. I don't know, that's
just where my mind goes to. I pay attention to

(01:29:07):
those type of things in a relationship. If somebody is
like emotionally mature or not, and I feel like they'll
tell you everything that you need.

Speaker 1 (01:29:15):
To know because you're gonna have disagreements, But like, how
do we disagree.

Speaker 2 (01:29:19):
Do you handle disagreements with.

Speaker 3 (01:29:20):
Every time we disagree, you want to break up with me?
That's crazy?

Speaker 2 (01:29:24):
Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:29:25):
I like to be with me and that are like
emotionally mature in that way at least, like if we
have an issue, we gonna talk it out.

Speaker 2 (01:29:32):
I'm usually the one that be like, you know what, bye,
I'm leaving, but like a man doing it all the time.
I don't like that. Yeah, okay, dear poor months. I'm nineteen.

Speaker 1 (01:29:43):
I'm the youngest of nine in an African household from Newark.
There's always been a divide between my older siblings and me,
especially the brothers who carry a lot of unspoken trauma.
Growing up, I was often the target of that, hurt
emotionally and physically. Senior year, I got a full ride
to call it. One of my brothers A claimed he
had saved money for me, but later I found out

(01:30:05):
he used it for his own child. Lied to my parents,
who can't read English, and told them I wasn't serious
about school. I've made the Dean List four times while
double majoring in public health and African American studies. That
Patroth cut deep and I cut him off. Now I
wonder do I try to rebuild with family who's hurt
me or just protect my peace.

Speaker 2 (01:30:24):
And move forward? She said, she the youngest. Yeah, she's
the youngest of nine in an African household. Yeah, I
mean you can rebuild with people in your family.

Speaker 3 (01:30:36):
I just think people gotta look at family like any
other relationship. I say that all the time. People love
to be like, oh, that's my family, that's my brother,
that's my sister. And I try to trade lightly with that,
cause y'all know, I don't have seablings. Well I do now,
but they really young. But I don't have seablings that
I grew up with. But even when it comes to

(01:30:58):
like cousins, uncle, unts, your mom and your dad, your grandparents,
you have to treat your family relationships like you treat
any other relationship. If a person is toxic, if a
person is hurting you all the time, if a person
is bringing a whole bunch of drama to your life,
or they seem like they don't mean you will all
the time, regardless of who they are, why would you

(01:31:19):
keep that person in your life. If it was a friend,
you would just cut them off. If it was a partner,
you would just cut them off. Why not do the
same and treat your family the same. Cause family can
hurt you and not love just because y'all family, they
don't mean that they really love you and want the
best for you. And I feel like people would do
better when you start to look at relationships across the

(01:31:40):
board that way and not feeling like you owe people
so many chances just because y'all got the same mammy
and daddy.

Speaker 2 (01:31:47):
Yep, you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (01:31:48):
Because like your brother and sister can hurt you worse
than a friend can hurt you worse than I don't
know anybody. They could do you more dirty than anybody.
I just I think people just got to keep that
in mind.

Speaker 1 (01:32:01):
And I think it's okay, like in certain situations to
be selfish, it's I think it's not making you happy,
and you're more uncomfortable and unhappy than you are happy.

Speaker 2 (01:32:09):
You have to remove yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:32:11):
I think that we need to learn how to be
selfish sometimes and stop doing things we necessarily don't want
to do.

Speaker 3 (01:32:17):
Yeah, I got family members that I don't talk to
because they need miss up stuff to me. I just
don't that it's not to say that it's.

Speaker 2 (01:32:25):
Not that serious.

Speaker 3 (01:32:26):
But again, why keep you in my life just because
you my family member when you clearly don't mean me
well or you're clearly not a good person.

Speaker 2 (01:32:37):
Agreed, I would rather just cut my losses than not
deal with you. I agree one thousand percent. Oh yeah,
I mean I.

Speaker 3 (01:32:43):
Feel like that's something that you have to ask yourself.
How important easy to you?

Speaker 1 (01:32:47):
Because she said, do I rebuild my family or just
protect my peace and move forward?

Speaker 2 (01:32:52):
Protect your peace?

Speaker 1 (01:32:53):
My main thing is I don't know if you won't
move for or rebuild, but the main thing is protect
your peace. So you have to ask yourself that, can
I I protect my piece and still rebuild with my
family or do I have to protect my peace by
moving on?

Speaker 3 (01:33:04):
And also keep in mind too, you can never people
think that, Okay, maybe if you want to try to
protect yr, maybe if you want to try to like
rebuild the relationship, cool, But what are your brother want?

Speaker 2 (01:33:16):
Right?

Speaker 3 (01:33:17):
Is he even willing to be openly to is he
willing to change? How do you know he not gonna
do it again? Just because that's what you're willing to do,
that doesn't mean that it's the same energy on the
other end. And we have to always keep in mind
the only person that we have control over is ourselves,
and so since you only got control over yourself, I
will personally protect my peace. I will have a conversation

(01:33:40):
with him maybe, and depending on how the conversation go,
then I will decide, Okay, maybe we can rebuild these
or maybe.

Speaker 2 (01:33:46):
I should just protect my peace and keep my d sense.
Good luck, y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:33:51):
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sure y'all follow my YouTube.

Speaker 1 (01:34:17):
My YouTube channel is Drey in the Call with three E's,
and you know, just follow me everywhere.

Speaker 2 (01:34:23):
It's the same thing, Dre and the Call with three E's.
I'm not on Twitter no more. That was the only one.

Speaker 3 (01:34:27):
It was a different and yeah, shot Musicuty Collection Dots.
Come and watch Trevor Queens period.

Speaker 2 (01:34:34):
Y'all can still want travel queens up. You know what
I'm saying, and we'll see y'all next week. Bye, y'all.
It was too young when this came out. No, y'all
was too young. I was too young. I was like
this song, but I knew it though. Yeah, Hey, here
we go. Heard about my past things. I used to do,

(01:34:56):
the games, I used to play the girls that did
And let I know what's on your mind. You think
I'm doing wrong, and I just say, what's real? You
are the only one when I'm not upround? Do you
think of me?

Speaker 3 (01:35:12):
Or what's the jealous ones I'm blaming me to be?
You should nobody now that it's gonna take.

Speaker 2 (01:35:19):
A lot of truths from you or it's to make
it through. You should know.

Speaker 3 (01:35:27):
Your nothing's gonna make you fall from heaven.

Speaker 1 (01:35:34):
Girl.

Speaker 2 (01:35:35):
I just want to know what if people say they
don't know about about you and me, but it's out
your mind because it's jealousy. Don't know about this. Don't
listen to what people say they don't know about.

Speaker 1 (01:36:00):
You and me.

Speaker 2 (01:36:01):
Put it out your mind cause it's jealousy. They don't
know about this girl. Let's talk about what your friends
told you that I'm a selfish man, want my cake
and eat it too. Maybe in my past, but to
change me now now that I've learned to love, it's you.

Speaker 3 (01:36:23):
Just show me how y'all love so real. I'll be
your food to play, to play around on you. I
want to stay with you. You should know find out
that it's gonna take a lot of truths from you
or it's to make it through. You should know that

(01:36:43):
your mind jel, nothing's gonna make you fall from hebus.

Speaker 2 (01:36:51):
Girl, I just won't know know. They don't know about
care about you and me. Put it out your mind
because it's jealousy.

Speaker 1 (01:37:06):
They don't know about listen, don't listen to you what
people say.

Speaker 2 (01:37:14):
They don't know about about you and me. Put it
out to mind because it's jealousy. They don't know about
this kid. They don't know. They don't know about They
don't know how, they don't try. They don't about the nod.

(01:37:49):
These holes don't know howell nigga. They'll know it is there.

Speaker 1 (01:38:02):
It is allow

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