Three-Six Mafia

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Who's this numb birthday line? It's Lex, It's leg Alex.
What's show zodiac sign?

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Leo? Leo?

Speaker 3 (00:07):
And it's today your birthday?

Speaker 2 (00:09):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (00:10):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (00:10):
And how old are you on this dart?

Speaker 2 (00:13):
Sax? Got a sax?

Speaker 3 (00:14):
Go?

Speaker 2 (00:14):
Lex?

Speaker 3 (00:15):
Is your birthday? Go?

Speaker 2 (00:16):
Lex?

Speaker 3 (00:17):
Is your birthday?

Speaker 2 (00:17):
Lex?

Speaker 3 (00:18):
Where are you from?

Speaker 4 (00:20):
Here?

Speaker 2 (00:20):
From?

Speaker 4 (00:22):
You?

Speaker 3 (00:22):
Got some short song? It's covered.

Speaker 5 (00:46):
What's up?

Speaker 3 (00:46):
Y'all's your girl? Lex? P? Any Sugarl dray in the
call and you.

Speaker 5 (00:51):
Are tuned in to another episode of poor Mind.

Speaker 3 (00:54):
Brad drunk mind speaks soberthdays. We ain't got no gifts today.

Speaker 5 (01:00):
He ain't got no guests today. And guess what, it's
my birthday.

Speaker 3 (01:04):
It's snow birthday. It's It's day.

Speaker 5 (01:09):
It's Leo season, guys, and we have reached the pinnacle
of Leoism. It's me it is I are you.

Speaker 3 (01:19):
You're the pinnacle.

Speaker 5 (01:20):
I am the Leo. When you talk about Leo's, people
always bring up Robert de Niro.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
Isn't Barack Obama and Leo too?

Speaker 5 (01:29):
I think Barack Obama they talk, they always say Robert
de Niro, Barack Obama and Lex p That's it.

Speaker 3 (01:35):
That's fair, don't you and Robert De Niro have the
same birth.

Speaker 5 (01:38):
Robert de Niro is celebrating with me today. We all sided,
Big Rob. I'll see you in a minute.

Speaker 3 (01:43):
Oh where y'all going?

Speaker 5 (01:47):
I don't know, he ain't.

Speaker 3 (01:51):
What if it's anybody else's fame, he's born on your birthday?
It probably is.

Speaker 5 (01:55):
I feel like August seventeenth, I was born on the Thursday.
That's how you know I'm old, because that's how I say.
You don't say day anymore. You say d Monday, Tuesday, No,
it's Tuesday. That's how you have to say Chuesday.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
I feel like people say that when they get Oh, well,
old people say that because they've been saying it wrong.

Speaker 3 (02:14):
But old people say a lot of stuff wrong.

Speaker 5 (02:16):
Well, that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (02:16):
I'm at that back then, you know they didn't have
as much access to books and stuff.

Speaker 5 (02:20):
Well, I'm saying it because I'm thirty six, and who
put all these goddamn candles on this cake?

Speaker 3 (02:26):
You're part of the three six my field.

Speaker 5 (02:29):
Now, ever since I can't remember, I've been popping my collar,
popping my collar, popping, popping my collar.

Speaker 3 (02:35):
Ever since I can't remember, I've been working these and
putting that money in my hands.

Speaker 1 (02:41):
They used to step to that when I was in
high school. That's the madamoiselle's and the gents.

Speaker 5 (02:46):
I'm a madam moselle today.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
You are a mademoiselle today. You like you stepping right off.

Speaker 2 (02:51):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (02:53):
I love a house of c B two.

Speaker 3 (02:54):
Dress me too, CBB having Q stuff?

Speaker 5 (02:57):
Oh, I said CB two. That's because I've been on
the line.

Speaker 3 (02:59):
What is c s mee? B two is the furniture store.

Speaker 1 (03:01):
I'm sorry, Oh, I'm about to say they got a
house of c B two.

Speaker 5 (03:06):
I said, see, because I was mixing it up. C
B two is the furniture store. I've been doing so
much house dropping yat right? But so yes, it is
my birthday. I am thirty six. I'm just so grateful.
I feel like I'm in such an amazing chapter in
my life. Like everything just else, No one else is
just me and big rab.

Speaker 3 (03:26):
I think so. I mean Joiner Lucas.

Speaker 2 (03:29):
Okay, he's a good rapper.

Speaker 3 (03:31):
Yeah he's got some chew, but that's it.

Speaker 5 (03:34):
Okay, Jordan Lucas, Happy birthday, the big joy, oh little Bee. Oh,
I named my dog. I named my dog after him.

Speaker 3 (03:45):
Was born up. I never knew that I named my dog.

Speaker 5 (03:47):
Well, my dog's name was Bartholomew, but I for sure
I used to call him a little b R.

Speaker 3 (03:51):
I p the little b when Davy Crockey Davy Crockett.

Speaker 5 (03:55):
Now, who's Davy Crockett.

Speaker 3 (03:56):
He's a war hero. Okay, what do we say?

Speaker 1 (04:02):
I think maybe the Civil could be wrong. Don't quote me, guy,
Davy Crockett.

Speaker 3 (04:08):
I've heard that name before.

Speaker 1 (04:09):
Nah, that ain't the Civil because Davy Crockett was old. Yeah,
he died in eighteen thirty six.

Speaker 3 (04:16):
It might've been one of the world wars. He was
born in seventeen eighty six.

Speaker 1 (04:21):
I was right behind August seventeenth, seventeen eighty six.

Speaker 5 (04:25):
And I was right behind him August seventeen, seventeen eighty nine.

Speaker 3 (04:30):
That's right. You was born in nineteen eighty nine. Oh
the Alamo.

Speaker 5 (04:35):
The Alamo.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
That's quite wild from the block.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
He died fighting at the Alamo. Oh, my goodness, old
I was wrong. Not the Civil War.

Speaker 5 (04:43):
See, I'm old enough, so I gotta said, goodness gracious,
great balls of fire.

Speaker 3 (04:47):
Now you don't have to you actually don't have to
say that.

Speaker 5 (04:50):
I do know because I'm like like I'm old, don't
have to on jooes d. That's how I got a phone.

Speaker 1 (04:57):
No, no, old people, they say Chuesday cheese d Yeah, Wednesday?

Speaker 5 (05:02):
Maybe Whennesday is nuts? Nobody says when this day? They
do say Whennesday. That's how it's spelled when.

Speaker 3 (05:10):
Day.

Speaker 5 (05:11):
But I've never heard somebody say when when?

Speaker 3 (05:14):
When this day?

Speaker 5 (05:15):
You ain't around My aunt shout out to mommy Lane.
I love her to death, but she'd be saying, wet silk.
Remember that that store wet seal, will with wet seal.
She used to say what silk? She say Walmarks? She
said Walmarks instead of Walmart. Said, well, you know you
got they got that at Walmarks? And she said, my realness,
she don't call me that you got that a Walmart?

Speaker 3 (05:35):
Why does she say Walmart?

Speaker 5 (05:38):
She says, it's not an X, it's a KS, not Walmarts.

Speaker 3 (05:45):
I think K is an X sound the same.

Speaker 5 (05:47):
They sound the same, but they're they're not the same.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
Well, I mean, first and foremost, it ain't Walmarts either way,
but it ain't Z more X is more like a
z xylophone.

Speaker 3 (06:03):
I don't know, is this is no okay?

Speaker 1 (06:07):
I feel like if they found sit you would just
be you were just over there saying anything any goddamn.

Speaker 5 (06:12):
Okay, what's your favorite birthday song? Like the Stevie Wonder version,
if I got that's a birthday song?

Speaker 3 (06:21):
Yeah, but my favorite is the Alga original Wonder version.

Speaker 5 (06:28):
Yeah, happy birthday?

Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah, I want I feel like if it ain't broke,
why fixie?

Speaker 1 (06:35):
Like that was good enough for like twenty years, but
breakout too.

Speaker 3 (06:39):
It's your birth birthday. It's your birthday, baby, it's your birthday.
And who was gonna love you on your birthday?

Speaker 5 (06:47):
That wasn't alright? But that's to me.

Speaker 3 (06:49):
I don't oh go girl, it's your birthday.

Speaker 5 (06:54):
You I beat his ass?

Speaker 3 (06:57):
You love him?

Speaker 5 (06:59):
That's what I you love morey, Okay, this is we're
not doing. It's my birthday. You have to be nice to.

Speaker 3 (07:05):
Me because song? What's your favorite birthday? Said?

Speaker 5 (07:09):
I know, so it's not a birthday song. Oh he
did say it's somebody's birthday.

Speaker 3 (07:17):
He did say this.

Speaker 5 (07:19):
I know.

Speaker 3 (07:21):
I got caught up by right y the Shanham pain.
So nice one thing I'm.

Speaker 2 (07:31):
Gonna put on my Okay, okay, all.

Speaker 3 (07:34):
Right, all right, we get it, damn ty look at you. Okay.

Speaker 5 (07:38):
So what's the best birthday song? I think they said
Stevie Wonder.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
Yeah, that's a good song, man, that's the original oug
that inspired all of the remains.

Speaker 3 (07:47):
Everybody made a I'm not gonna lie. Remember it's show birthday.
So I know you want to ride SI more easy? Yes,
we straight up on my he eighth this could but
I know you want to. I have a crush on him.
I did.

Speaker 5 (08:04):
I used to have a cruestion on him.

Speaker 3 (08:06):
That Chicago too. Yeah, he's from the shore. Yeah, shout
out to Jeremiah.

Speaker 5 (08:12):
What ose birthday song is it?

Speaker 1 (08:14):
M We have one on our radio and it would
be like, who's his song? No birthday line, it's Lex,
it's leg Alex. What shows zodiac sign Leo Leo? And
it's today your birthday?

Speaker 2 (08:27):
Yes? Yes?

Speaker 3 (08:29):
And how old are you on this day?

Speaker 2 (08:31):
That sex a sax go Lex?

Speaker 3 (08:33):
Is your birthday?

Speaker 2 (08:34):
Go Lex?

Speaker 3 (08:35):
B Where are you from? He's from? I hope you
got some short songs. It's covered. Remember when people used.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
To carry shorts and they remember you used to have
to carry shorts in your bake page.

Speaker 5 (08:48):
No, no, y'all never used to.

Speaker 3 (08:51):
Be cause what.

Speaker 5 (08:55):
No, man, Maybe I was.

Speaker 1 (08:56):
A little fast y'all never used to leave y'all house.
Y'all never used to leave y'all house at one outfitting
then when y'a would get to the party or like
the skating rink, put on something else.

Speaker 5 (09:05):
No, because I would leave out the house of what
I had on. My mom wasn't like and I didn't
try to do too much.

Speaker 1 (09:11):
My mama wasn't strict either, But what I used to
be trying to wear, I used to have to change.

Speaker 3 (09:15):
Did you used to have that ass out? No?

Speaker 1 (09:16):
I didn't used to have my ass out, but it
definitely used to be stuff that my parents would not
have approved it.

Speaker 3 (09:23):
Like it used to be like lowcud or I would
have a fast little girl.

Speaker 5 (09:27):
You know they like to call them pass Not.

Speaker 3 (09:29):
Really because I wouldn't do anything.

Speaker 1 (09:31):
I just used to like to dress a little Gucci,
But I wouldn't really about their life.

Speaker 5 (09:34):
Yeah yeah, not like a lot of my friends and
stuff like not to put my friends on blasts, but
a lot of my friends they were like doing stuff
in middle school, like seventh eighth grade.

Speaker 3 (09:46):
I was like, I held out. You wasn't getting finger popped?

Speaker 5 (09:49):
No, no, nothing, nothing not till I yes, Like when
I became like a sophomore. That that was when I
started like doing.

Speaker 3 (10:01):
In twelfth grade.

Speaker 5 (10:02):
A sophomore.

Speaker 3 (10:03):
Tenth grade, yeah, a sophomore. Yeah, that's when you started
getting Yeah you can touch that little koochie. No, yeah,
I was like six. No, I was like, hey, that's molestation. Six.

Speaker 5 (10:19):
I don't know you was outside when I'm training with you.
Used to have that bike. It used to be on
that bike on that training reels, riding in your neighbor's house.

Speaker 3 (10:30):
No, I didn't used to go to my I didn't
fool with my neighbors.

Speaker 1 (10:32):
My parents actually, like you didn't want me to be
cool with anybody in my neighborhood when I was growing up.

Speaker 3 (10:36):
That makes sense until we moved.

Speaker 1 (10:39):
Oh yeah, but I was like in eighth grade, so
so yeah, the movies couldn't.

Speaker 5 (10:45):
It's my thirty sixth year of life, and Colin, tell
us what you've learned? You know what this year? I'm serious,
are you? No, I'm serious. What I'm about to say serious.
But what I've learned.

Speaker 3 (11:02):
Is just to be still.

Speaker 5 (11:06):
And I say that because it's like whatever I'm going through.
When I go through things, I tend to like get
anxiety and overreact and freak out, whether it's any kind
of situation. But what I've learned is just to be
patient and be still, like God gonna work it out.
He gonna work it out. Every single time I look
at my life and I am seriously so blessed. I

(11:28):
feel like all my friendships are flourishing. You know, my
personal life it's not perfect, but I will say I
have my shit together. You know, you look at people
that be like, you know, they have their shit together,
but they really don't be having their shit together. For
the first time in my life, I feel like I
have my shit together. Yeah, you know, health insurance, car insured,

(11:48):
house insured, everything up to date, like I have my
I'm the girl that has her shit together, and it
took me a long time to get here. Everything used
to be all out of whack and it's not anymore.
And I feel like I'm so grateful for that. You know,
Like I went grocery shopping the other day and groceries
are so expensive. It was a time in my life
where I specifically remember I have to choose between like damn,

(12:13):
do I want to like eat dinner or do I
want to put gas in my car? And then I
was like you know what, let me just go get
me some ramen noodles because it's only gonna be like
a dollar, and I can get something to last me
for the week and then I can put like the
rest of my gas tank.

Speaker 3 (12:24):
So to go from that to.

Speaker 5 (12:25):
Being like, okay, girl, let me just get three hundred
dollars worth of groceries fill my house up, and I
ain't got to worry about it no more. Like going
grocery shopping is a thing that I'm always so grateful for.
So I'm just in a season of like gratitude. Man,
Like life is so good. I feel like the show
is going so well, Like everything is just good. Like
I'm in my home and it's like I've been in

(12:46):
my house for like a month now, and I'm having
it by the time to say yeah, oh, you're right, no,
but I'm saying yeah, I mean I've been in there.

Speaker 3 (12:55):
I'm like, damn yeah.

Speaker 5 (12:56):
I love owning my home. I'm having a ball decorating,
like renovating stuff, putting stuff together, painting. I am literally
just having a ball, Like I cannot wait to get
home and like to finish like the stuff that I'm doing,
like ordering stuff and seeing it coming because I'm like, ooh,
does this look good?

Speaker 3 (13:14):
Does it not? Then it comes in and I'm like,
oh my god, it looks perfect. So I'm just in a.

Speaker 5 (13:18):
Season of gratitude, knowing my worth, valuing myself, loving myself,
and yeah, just you know, being that person that people
can depend on now because I feel like I always
want to be that person that I wish I had
for other people, you know what I'm saying, Like when
I was in certain stages in my life. So I'm
just in a really good season.

Speaker 3 (13:39):
It's good. Yeah, life is. You're a grown woman.

Speaker 5 (13:42):
I'm so grown bro, Like, I am really an adult now.

Speaker 3 (13:49):
Ain't no turning back.

Speaker 5 (13:50):
I ain't no turning I'll be forty in four years.
You will be like, I'm in my late thirties. I'm
in my late thirties.

Speaker 3 (13:58):
Thirty six not still me.

Speaker 5 (13:59):
Oh it might be. I think it is, okay, I
got thirty seven is late next year.

Speaker 4 (14:07):
I know.

Speaker 1 (14:07):
I always be confused when we start talking about dead all, well,
you'll be right. I just I be confused because I
feel like you've always said that it is it's.

Speaker 5 (14:15):
The first four, or no, it's the first three. The
middle four is mid and then the last three numbers.
So thirty nine, thirty eight, thirty seven is late thirty SIGs,
thirty five, thirty four, thirty three is mid thirty, thirty one,
thirty two is.

Speaker 3 (14:32):
Early is early. Okay, that's what it is. That's what
it is.

Speaker 5 (14:36):
So yeah, So I'm in my last year of my
mid thirties then, and I'm just I don't know life.

Speaker 3 (14:43):
This is good.

Speaker 5 (14:43):
I feel like I'm in the right space. My birthdays
I used to be sad. I used to be like,
oh my god.

Speaker 3 (14:48):
What is life?

Speaker 5 (14:50):
Used to be sad, Yeah, because I felt like I
used to feel like I was behind, I wasn't doing enough.
And now I'm learning, like everything is happens on your clock.
Everybody's clock is different. Just because somebody reaches a goal
at twenty five, that other person might reach a goal
at sixty five. Everybody's clock is different. And what I'm

(15:11):
learning is to appreciate my clock. I'm on time with
where my life is supposed to be, and I am
so happy, Like I'm really happy with my life right now,
and you know, it just feels good.

Speaker 3 (15:25):
It feels good to be stress free, to.

Speaker 5 (15:30):
Not worry about certain things that used to just shake
me to the core and I couldn't sleep, you know,
like money or my job or you know, friendships. I
feel like I've become a better friend. Therapy is doing
wonders on me. Child therapy and church that God in
therapy combo can you can't lose with you, I'm telling you,

(15:52):
I feel like I've been such like I've been. That's
the main thing in my therapy sessions I've been talking
about is just being a better friend. And I think
I've done a a really good job of being a
better friend. And I feel it in my friendships, like
I feel like I'm showing up more for my friends
and I'm being present and it's making all of my
friendships like flourish and I'm just in a happier space,

(16:12):
you know. So I've realized I had to look in
the mirror when things were going wrong in my life.
I used to always be like, well, she acting like this,
he acting like this, and I will always point the finger.
Now I had to turn it back on me. What
am I doing wrong? So once I fixed myself, everything
got better.

Speaker 1 (16:32):
Yeah, I think accountability is an important thing, and I
think that, you know, for a lot of people, it's
something that comes with age and maturity.

Speaker 3 (16:39):
Yep.

Speaker 1 (16:41):
A lot of younger people don't really have accountability. Like
people love to, like you said, look at other people
and be like, oh, my life is going this way,
or I be having these issues all the time because
of these people.

Speaker 3 (16:51):
And sometimes it is the people around you, but more
often than I it's you. Yep.

Speaker 1 (16:57):
It's majority of the time you and the decisions that
you're making and the things that you're doing or how
you're handling and maneuvering situations is the reason why you
possibly keep ending up in the same situation. So I
think that that's like a big thing to be able
to acknowledge that and like acknowledge how you've grown from
that space.

Speaker 5 (17:15):
I used to push people away who would hold that
mirror up to me and be like, this is what
you're doing to me and I don't like it, And
you tend to do this often.

Speaker 3 (17:23):
And I'll be like, oh, god, girl.

Speaker 5 (17:25):
And you know what I'm saying. But now I'm like,
you know what, You're not saying this because you're being petty,
or you're saying this because I'm doing something.

Speaker 3 (17:32):
That's not bothering them exactly.

Speaker 5 (17:34):
So I used to push people away like that, but
now I embrace it. Tell me what I'm doing wrong?
Show Tell me how I'm supposed to show up as
your friend, your partner, your sister. How do I need
to love you? Because I love you and I want
to love you properly. So, like I said, I'm in
the season of listening, understand it being a good seasoned woman.

(17:56):
You know, everything's doing well, I said, you know, I
post this on you know I love a face that's
not an auntie, I said, you know what, I have,
the house, I have, the career, my family on the
what the family is on the way.

Speaker 3 (18:10):
All right?

Speaker 1 (18:11):
If I said I love you anything else, No, watch
my little baby probably night like probably on like a
fan like if we go into like you know, Disney
World or something, but you just want to like drop
them off.

Speaker 3 (18:27):
Yeah, I can't drop.

Speaker 5 (18:28):
Them on to mingle with her auntie.

Speaker 3 (18:31):
If I don't have kids. Once I have kids, yeah,
because then they have time. Yeah, because then they can
have playdates.

Speaker 1 (18:38):
And I still don't have kids, I'm probably gonna not
even be in that limb.

Speaker 5 (18:43):
Damn you you don't think you don't be in that limp.

Speaker 1 (18:45):
I'm saying, I'm gonna be moving around like if I
still don't if if you have a kid, if I
still don't have a kid yet, You're gonna still be
I'm still gonna be maneuvering and moving around like I
probably won't even be here.

Speaker 3 (18:58):
Yeah, I feel like you got enough money for a nanny.

Speaker 5 (19:01):
Oh that's not a non negotiable. I'm definitely having a nanny.
I can't do it.

Speaker 1 (19:06):
That's how I'm gonna feel about all my rich friends.
Why are you calling me? Asking me the babies? I
don't get that you have money mood calling it he
called the nails.

Speaker 3 (19:15):
I'm trying to go where you where you're about to go.

Speaker 2 (19:17):
I want to go to.

Speaker 3 (19:20):
In the house with the kids.

Speaker 1 (19:21):
I feel you, I feel you right, You're right, But
no playing. I would watch a kid though, I would.

Speaker 5 (19:26):
Yeah, well, I mean I feel like, you know, we
gotta find the husband first.

Speaker 3 (19:29):
I feel like, you know.

Speaker 5 (19:30):
Sierra blessed the couch with her wifey material pants.

Speaker 3 (19:33):
It's coming, it's coming.

Speaker 5 (19:35):
I'm marinating it, and she said, right here, I believe it.

Speaker 3 (19:38):
I am wife.

Speaker 5 (19:41):
All right, let's get on to these topics, shall I
love a little I know and the blue cheese field
thank you, Ty, because I love a good Martine.

Speaker 3 (19:51):
Let me taste, Let me taste.

Speaker 1 (19:53):
It's the first time we've done like. This is a
that's a very adult ring.

Speaker 3 (19:59):
I love ar you.

Speaker 5 (20:01):
Know, I love it, and I love cheese now me too.
I love out feed of blue. But you know me,
Hoby Jack Kobe No, Kobe Jack is my.

Speaker 3 (20:15):
Bad coby Jack Jack.

Speaker 5 (20:18):
No, that's what I mean.

Speaker 3 (20:19):
Toby Jack pepper Jack. They brothers, Kobe Jack and pepper Jack.

Speaker 5 (20:23):
Yeah, they brothers, one spicy or one not.

Speaker 3 (20:31):
Do you really feel like pepper Jack cheese is spicy
because I don't.

Speaker 5 (20:34):
You know, it got peppers in it, so it has
a little twine. So you know, when I make those
jerk patty burgers, I put pepper Jack on them. That's
set that motherfucker off. Okay, man, you want you bite it?
You know what you say?

Speaker 3 (20:49):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (20:51):
I was like, I don't know what I was thinking,
but waguan was not what I was about to second.

Speaker 3 (20:57):
But this is a very, very very g It's so good.
What are we drinking?

Speaker 5 (21:04):
Yeah, we're going it early because Chatty today already up
here you.

Speaker 1 (21:12):
Dressed up for my birthday with the Queen's birthday yeah, yes,
so you know I have to do something. I did
it for Dre, I gotta do it for you too again. Okay,
a special tribute to you today. So we're gonna call
this one the Lextra Dirty.

Speaker 2 (21:30):
I love that.

Speaker 3 (21:32):
See Lextra dirty.

Speaker 1 (21:35):
Two exes, double LEXI give it to So this cocktail
is giving, rich, refined, and a little reckless.

Speaker 3 (21:44):
Just like Lex.

Speaker 1 (21:45):
We kept it classic with vodka, a splash of vermouth,
and made it dirty, extra dirty, because why be subtle
when you're the star topped with blue cheese stuffed olives
because she's not here.

Speaker 3 (21:57):
For basic garnishes or basic energy.

Speaker 1 (22:00):
Here's to the one who turns every room into a moment,
every sip into a story, and every birthday.

Speaker 3 (22:06):
Into a whole damn production. Okay, cheers to you, X.

Speaker 1 (22:11):
May your life always be full of flavor, laughter, and
just the right amount of drama.

Speaker 5 (22:16):
Thank you, Cheer, cheer.

Speaker 3 (22:21):
A damn good drink. This is a damn good martini.

Speaker 5 (22:24):
Good cheers, cheers, Thank you so much. I love this,
Oh my gosh, cause y'all know, like I will drink
a sweet drink.

Speaker 3 (22:32):
But I love.

Speaker 5 (22:35):
Yeah, I love a savory like when Pudgy came on
here and said a chip chaser.

Speaker 3 (22:39):
I wasn't mad at it. I like the deal. You
know what I'm saying. Deal. You know Pudgy was on
or something. He shout out to Big pudd And I
just feel like it's so grown and refined.

Speaker 1 (22:51):
When people go to the bar and they're like, can
I get a dirty Martini?

Speaker 3 (22:54):
Extra dirty, extra dirty? We about to start saying no,
I gotta laugh like this.

Speaker 1 (23:01):
You don't like the theme of the episode being you
don't have to, but I do?

Speaker 3 (23:06):
You know, yes, I do.

Speaker 1 (23:07):
I feel like you already laugh like that though you
are pretty did oh.

Speaker 5 (23:14):
I had the odd.

Speaker 3 (23:15):
At the end, the high is new. That's new. See
that come with that thirty I like. I like that.
That's a little wrestle at the end, nobody is expecting.

Speaker 4 (23:27):
You see y'all ship eat and shout out to.

Speaker 5 (23:33):
My family at Taylor Port, Like, honestly, I'm not gonna
lie to y'all.

Speaker 3 (23:39):
Working with Taylor Report is the bomb. It's not only fun.
I said the bomb. I'm old. Oh that was on accident,
But I didn't feel saying the bomb. It was the bomb.
Diggity dot com talk come out.

Speaker 5 (23:55):
No, but honestly like Taylor Port. It's been so much
fun working with them. And I actually drink Tailor Port,
so it's great.

Speaker 3 (24:01):
But they sent me, okay, and it's beautiful. It's a beautiful,
beautiful cake.

Speaker 5 (24:05):
I don't know what kind it is. We gonna take
a bit at the end though.

Speaker 3 (24:08):
Yeah, we're gonna have to get a little piece.

Speaker 5 (24:09):
Of that, a little piece of that. But shout out
to Tailor Port. I love y'all so much. Working with
y'all has been so much fun.

Speaker 3 (24:15):
Y'all. Make sure if y'all watch this episode.

Speaker 5 (24:17):
Pour you up some Taylor Port and have a good
birthday episode with your girl.

Speaker 3 (24:21):
Okay, period, bring at that first topic.

Speaker 1 (24:23):
Okay, So for topic number one, I wanted to talk
about why we have been taught that a lady never
kills her age.

Speaker 3 (24:32):
I feel like for.

Speaker 1 (24:32):
Centuries, women have been told you don't tell people your age.
That's something that you keep private, that's that you keep
to yourself. It is a secret because you know, traditionally
age is tied to desirability. Oh yeah, age is tired too.
I mean it's tied to desirability. So a lot of

(24:54):
women feel like, you know, as they get older, they're
not as desirable, especially if you're single. You know what
I mean, I think, I mean, I think in general,
but I think it's harder on the women who get
older and they're still single versus the women who get
older in priority in relationships. And you know, desirability is
tied to how young you are a lot of the time.
So I think, you know, at least that's the way

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I look at it. That's probably why a lot of
women don't like telling.

Speaker 3 (25:17):
People how old they are.

Speaker 1 (25:19):
But I feel like when women get older, they be
getting seasoned, they get season I also feel like the
reason that way of thinking is outdated because that was
tied to fertility as well.

Speaker 5 (25:32):
They used to define you as being a good woman
if you could bear children.

Speaker 3 (25:37):
I think men still define women in.

Speaker 5 (25:38):
That way, right, And so what it's what's so crazy
is like there's so many factors and things that goes
on in a woman's body. Like we are more than
just our over reason what we can create. We're human beings.
So I think as time has progressed and went on,
I think women have become In twenty twenty five, I
feel like women are more comfortable telling their one thing

(26:00):
about me I've always been comfortable telling my age, and
it's so crazy because when I see women my age
are a little even women younger than me lying about
their age, I think it's so crazy. I feel like
the older I get, the better I get, and me
being single or in a relationship doesn't define who I am.
And if a man doesn't want to be with me

(26:21):
because of my age, that's fine. That's just not the
man for me, you know what I'm saying. So I
just feel like I'm gonna be desired by the person
because I just need one. I don't need to be
desired by a whole bunch of people. I don't care
to be desired by a whole bunch of people. I
just need one man to desire me. And I'm cool
with that.

Speaker 3 (26:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (26:41):
So, I just think it's crazy that women feel the
need to hide their age. I've always embraced getting older,
and I think that's just because the women in my life, though,
like I see how they age and how their lives
are and how their lives are going. I'm like, you
know what, hell that looks good? You make forty look good,

(27:02):
you make fifty look good, you make sixty look good,
and it's like it's a blessing to get older.

Speaker 3 (27:07):
It is, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (27:08):
So I just think that that thinking of lying about
your age or feeling like you're too old. And I
use this as an example because I do love her,
Tabitha Tabitha Brown. Yes, she came on the scene later
in her later years in life and has an amazing career.

(27:29):
Now you know what I'm saying, And it's just like
it just shows you life don't stop. I mean, so
did Oprah exactly?

Speaker 1 (27:36):
Oprah didn't really like I think the Oprah Show came
out when Oprah was already in her thirties.

Speaker 5 (27:40):
Yeah, like late thirties, I think.

Speaker 1 (27:41):
Yeah, So, I mean I agree, I definitely feel like
and it's so many women who are in their forties
and their fifties who say, like life only gets better
and better as you age, Yes, sause you become more mature.

Speaker 3 (27:54):
And you just start to like not give a fuck.

Speaker 1 (27:56):
Like for me, that's one of the beautiful things about aging,
my opinion, is like the older that you get, literally
each year that passed by, the list of a fuck
I give what people be thinking and what people have
to say, and the more confident I am and who
I am as a person and what I have to
offer the world. Like I feel like I have a
voice and it needs to be heard, and I don't

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feel shy about speaking certain opinions, are saying certain things
or worrying about if it's gonna rub people the wrong way.
Like I just don't give a fuck, Like this is me,
take it or leave it. You could leave it, that's
fine too, but this is who I am. And I
just think it's like that's something beautiful that comes along
with age as you get older that I think every

(28:38):
woman who has made it to their thirties, forties, fifties
can attest to, Like I think in your twenties it's
a lot of in your teen years.

Speaker 3 (28:47):
In your twenties, it's.

Speaker 1 (28:49):
A lot of uncertainty, And I think in your thirties
it's still a little bit of uncertainty because a lot
of women say, like you think that you haven't figured
out or you think that it gets better when you
hit thirty, but and when you can hit forty, you
really have a lot of clear Yeah, So I definitely
think in your thirties it's still a little bit of
uncertainty too, But it's like things just start to become

(29:09):
a little more clear.

Speaker 5 (29:11):
And I'm glad that you said that that confidence, the
confidence I have now is nowhere near how I was
at twenty five, like the woman I am now, Like
if I was twenty five and I could see like
I had something to show me turning thirty six.

Speaker 3 (29:28):
I'll be like, oh my god, who is that?

Speaker 5 (29:31):
Yes, bitch, And it's just like the confidence that I
have now, Like I know who I am, I know
what I bring to my friendships, to my family. Like
I just I really love myself. I really really do,
and it took me a long time to get here,
you know what I'm saying. So I just think with
a likes better how you feel, tap.

Speaker 3 (29:51):
I love getting older.

Speaker 1 (29:52):
Yeah, I just feel like the way I adapt, the
more confident I becoming myself where I'm at, not stressing
about time and where I'm at in my career or
anything like that.

Speaker 3 (30:02):
Like it's all unfolding.

Speaker 1 (30:03):
Like you said before, we talk about alignment a lot,
Like I feel like those things are just now beginning
a lot for me.

Speaker 3 (30:10):
So I love it. I embrace it. I love the
gray hairs.

Speaker 1 (30:12):
Yeah, yeah, I got a lot, y'all do, but I
want like a streak for real, yeah, or full hair.

Speaker 5 (30:19):
I love to see a silver fox. Oh yeah, I
love the silver fix get dark skin one too.

Speaker 3 (30:24):
I always wonder when I start getting gray hair if
I'm gonna like dye I haven't had. I haven't got
one yet. I feel when you die your hair.

Speaker 5 (30:32):
I feel like when you die your hair, though it
makes it look it makes you look older, actually gray hair,
because you can tell you're trying to cover it up,
like when God, because men do that especially.

Speaker 3 (30:42):
You know what's crazy though, I think quite.

Speaker 5 (30:45):
As it's kept, men have just as much problems with
aging as women do. They make it seem like women
struggle with aging men very much do. I when I
had made a love lex p clip and I was
talking about how I wish this guy, I wish his
hair line will receive because you know how men feel
about their hair because he did something so dirty, the

(31:06):
person I was talking about, so it's like I want
his hairline to receive. And it was a guy that
came in the comments and he was like, I can
just tell by the type of person you are to
make some fun of somebody who can't help it, and
going in on and I went to his page.

Speaker 3 (31:19):
And he was bald. He struck a nerve. That's not
a nerve.

Speaker 5 (31:23):
But the thing is, I'm not talking about you. But
the thing is men with the balding that means you're older.
That's technically you know, But now we know it's genetics.
You can't help it. It has nothing to do with
your age. It's all about genetics. But baby, when you
talk about men and their hairlines, baby, they will It

(31:44):
gets real nasty in the field with men and their hairlines.

Speaker 2 (31:47):
Baby.

Speaker 1 (31:47):
But the crazy thing about men where I think, you know,
it's like this double standard. It's like when men get older,
people tend to like feel like they get more distinguished,
whereas women it's like, oh, you all, old beach.

Speaker 5 (32:01):
I've been called the old few. I said something about
you all. I said something about one of them streamers.
They're like, who is this old bitch?

Speaker 3 (32:09):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (32:09):
Because I said ddg's name wrong. Remember when Queen Naja
came on here and I said DGG or something, I said,
I know who the boys, I know who he is.
There was like this old bitch. I said, hey, respect
your elders. See, that's what the young kids don't do.
They don't respect their elders.

Speaker 3 (32:26):
No more.

Speaker 5 (32:26):
I'm an elder, respect me.

Speaker 1 (32:29):
Yeah, it's like they don't consider us elders when they
comes to respect because.

Speaker 3 (32:33):
My ass fact, that's why the air suspect.

Speaker 1 (32:37):
I mean, we had elders with fat asses back when
I was.

Speaker 5 (32:40):
They didn't look like this though, they moms with they
fat ass.

Speaker 3 (32:43):
No, they did. Thirty year olds in moos.

Speaker 5 (32:46):
No, I'm not gonna lie. When I was younger, I
never saw thirty year olds that looked like this.

Speaker 3 (32:52):
I didn't. I don't know.

Speaker 5 (32:53):
I was an Orange though, yeah, because I feel like
in my family, like they was fine. Like I had
Lindcy and cousins.

Speaker 3 (33:00):
It was fine. Soh I used to look up to it.
And I used to be like, oh, I can't wait
till I get grown. I hope I look like her.

Speaker 5 (33:07):
Yeah, my mom my aunt were like it. Yeah, but
like around sorry y'all in Orange.

Speaker 3 (33:12):
I know y'all feelna be, But like.

Speaker 5 (33:14):
My mom my aunt, like all their friends, like their
little group of friends, like they were fine and stuff,
but it wasn't common.

Speaker 1 (33:22):
Yeah, I yeah, it was like my friends moms and
stuff too. Like I had friends who they moms and
they aunties and they big sisters and stuff was fine.

Speaker 5 (33:30):
Like I don't know, I remember I told you this.

Speaker 3 (33:33):
I've been seeing five. It's just for a lot time.

Speaker 5 (33:35):
See not me, I didn't And honestly, like I said,
out of all my friends parents, remember I told you
the story about Buffy Burley, that lady, the lady Buffy
Burley was fine, but she was white.

Speaker 3 (33:47):
Yes, that's what I'm saying. But we're talking about black women.

Speaker 5 (33:50):
Well I'm just saying women in general. But I would
just say either way white or black, it wasn't common
like seeing like Buffy was like she he was like,
oh my god. She was like Pam Anderson in a
Orange Texas to give you an example, Like you know
what I'm saying. But it wasn't a common thing. So
I guess now when people be like, oh my god,

(34:11):
Like we were out the other ninth when I said my.

Speaker 3 (34:13):
Age, the people that we were with were like, oh
my god.

Speaker 1 (34:17):
And I'm like, yeah, everybody say that all the time.
We tell them how oh we are, which I get it.

Speaker 5 (34:23):
I don't I look thirty five, I get it. I
mean thirty six.

Speaker 3 (34:27):
I feel like.

Speaker 1 (34:30):
Because this generation of thirty something year old, this is
what thirty people.

Speaker 3 (34:36):
This is what people in their thirties look like.

Speaker 1 (34:39):
I think people have this perception though, that when you
hit thirty, you don't look youthful anymore, because of what
we saw growing up. But you got to think about it.
Back in the seventies and stuff, they was looking old.

Speaker 3 (34:49):
They was.

Speaker 1 (34:51):
They was thirty five and thirty six and thirty four
and thirty one, twenty nine, and they was looking old.
They were ably fifty. The way they used to dress, boy,
they used to the hair everything. So I think that
because of that, because that's what we've seen in generations
prior to us, people have this perception that, oh, when
you hit thirty, when you hit thirty four, you hit

(35:14):
thirty six, you're gonna look a certain way. But no,
we millennials we a whole different generation. I feel like
we still dress like youthfully. We still do our makeup
very youthful. We were our hair. I don't know, I
just I can't explain it, but I feel like that
those older generations they used to look old for they age.
I can really say it, like even and this is

(35:34):
no shade because I feel like my dad and my
mom were beautiful and very attractive when they were in
their thirties. But when I look back at pictures of
them when they was in a thirties, they looked like
they was in a fifties the way they used to dress.
Even when you look at movies, like when you think
about the Ray Charles movie, the Muhammad Ali movie, they
looked old as hell, but they was only like twenty

(35:57):
five twenty six. But look at how looked in the movie,
you would have thought they was in their forties. Because
back in the day, that's just how they used to dress.
And that's how they used to.

Speaker 5 (36:06):
Because what's his name that passed away at a young age,
Sam Cook, he was very young when he passed.

Speaker 3 (36:12):
He was born by the rib.

Speaker 2 (36:13):
I was born by the rival.

Speaker 3 (36:17):
In a little tense.

Speaker 1 (36:20):
I was gonna say, y'all was I was trying to
respect him and the original.

Speaker 2 (36:26):
Verse, all right, it's my birth.

Speaker 1 (36:28):
The original version he said, I was born by the
river in a little tin.

Speaker 5 (36:35):
But I thought he was much older when he had
passed away.

Speaker 1 (36:38):
Whenever people tell us that we don't look thirty four
in thirty six, I giddy.

Speaker 3 (36:44):
I do.

Speaker 1 (36:45):
I'm not trying to be funny, but I do giddy
because Also there are some counterparts that I Shae put
that ship up.

Speaker 3 (36:53):
Shae is flashing pictures behind the camera.

Speaker 1 (36:57):
But there are some counter parts that I went to
school with these people. No, these these people, and they
don't be looking thirty four.

Speaker 3 (37:06):
Wow, they be looking by forty four. Life been. But
I think it's also because we take care of ourselves too.

Speaker 1 (37:15):
Yeah, And That's what I was gonna say too, So, like,
how do you feel about people who how do you
feel like, how do you feel about people who bash
women who like do preventative things for like anti agent,
Like when people are like, oh, you say you okay
with getting older, or you say you love getting older,
but you get in botos and you get feelers, or
you go get facials and you doing using salmon DNA

(37:38):
and all of this love to like reverse the anti
aging process. How do you feel about that? Because some
people feel like you're just supposed to. If you truly
love getting older and that's something that you're okay with,
you should just let like nature run its course and
let yourself just naturally get older and age gracefully.

Speaker 5 (37:57):
I am aging gracefully, but I'm aging. How I want
to aid you age? How you want to age. I personally,
Am I gonna have wrinkles one day? Absolutely by, But
I'm a hold off pH on it. Am I gonna
get a little softer on the side and my booty
gonna say? Yes, absolutely, that's a part of my age.

Speaker 3 (38:17):
Worker.

Speaker 5 (38:18):
But what I'm saying, that's a part of aging. Things
tend to go south. I'm not mad at it, but
I'm gonna hold off on it. Cause when I talk
about aging, and I love it, I'm talking about my wisdom.
I'm talking about the inside. But physically, I don't think
there's nothing wrong with preventive care.

Speaker 3 (38:35):
Now.

Speaker 5 (38:36):
I'm not gonna be going to like the drastic measures
of like if I'm sixty five, I'm not gonna be
here trying to look twenty five. I just want to
be a polished sixty five year old right now. Everything
I do, I want to be a polished thirty six
year old. I'm not a thirty six year old woman
trying to look twenty one.

Speaker 1 (38:54):
How do you feel about a lot of these older
women that are like in their six things seventies that
are doing these drastic facelifts.

Speaker 5 (39:03):
I think that's okay.

Speaker 1 (39:04):
They look amazing, I said, I mean, I need to
keep blowing up because I.

Speaker 5 (39:09):
Need to get a little discount because they be like
a hundred K, they said. The one that Chris Janner
got was like one hundred. It was three hundred, three hundred.
Now I looked up the Ponytail Man. He does like
the Ponytail face list in New York. I looked up
his prices and I said, let me start saving right now. Yeah,
he was like one hundred and fifty K, but Chris
was three hundred.

Speaker 3 (39:30):
So you would do a facelift when you get older. Yeah,
I wouldn't be mad at it.

Speaker 5 (39:33):
I mean, I think the thing is this, if I
don't do it, I'm gonna get talked about. But if
I do do it, I'm gonna get talked about. And
I personally want to do it, so I might as
wenna do what I want to do.

Speaker 1 (39:46):
But do you feel like is it something that it's
like you feel like you would have got it regardless,
or do you feel like it's the pressures of being
in the spotlight.

Speaker 3 (39:55):
I would have done a regardless.

Speaker 5 (39:56):
I've always been a very vain girl from a tiny
tot I had. My mom was a vein woman. My
dining room growing up in my house, it was a
beautiful dining room, long table, twelve chairs. The whole wall
was mirrors.

Speaker 3 (40:12):
Do that make you vein?

Speaker 5 (40:14):
My mom had if you look at me, If every
time you pass by mirror you look at it.

Speaker 3 (40:19):
They say that's a characteristic of.

Speaker 5 (40:20):
Being vain, like if you walk by a window and
you look at yourself. But being vein is not like that.
It's not a bad thing to me. It's like always
if it's a mirror, what would I not like? My
mother was a very va and my sister growing up

(40:41):
and she's still like that, was very much a dalled
up girl. I grew up around doll and even though
I'm a doll now, but like I was very much
a tomboy growing up. But I think as I get older,
I learned the way you present yourself. It doesn't matter
if you work at Walm Sophora, a CEO at a company.

Speaker 3 (41:04):
The way you.

Speaker 5 (41:05):
Present yourself is everything. It doesn't matter what kind of
job you have. If you are cleaned up nice, and
I'm not saying you gotta be in one hundred thousand
dollars outfit, It's about how you present yourself, clean and
well kept. My first job. One of my first jobs
I had was working at a bridal store in Orange, Sexis.

(41:27):
It was called Suki's and that was one of the requirements.

Speaker 3 (41:30):
It was like hockey with Akuchi.

Speaker 5 (41:34):
I think a man bought her that that store too.
Let me not say, because I think Sukis is still open. No,
but she was a very respectable woman. Her name was Suki.

Speaker 3 (41:43):
Yes, it's Suki Suky.

Speaker 2 (41:47):
But it was a.

Speaker 5 (41:48):
Beautiful bridal store. And I say that because that was
one of her requirements. Like we had to dress up
very clean cut, because if she's like if a bride
comes in here, I'm not buying from somebody who who
was like slouched over, hair not combed, face not done,
and I'm not looking polished because if you don't present
yourself as well looking well, how are you gonna sell

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me something on the most important day of my life.
So I think looking good is just a part of life.

Speaker 3 (42:18):
I agree.

Speaker 1 (42:18):
I have no stranger to a little tox myself. I
actually had an appointment last week.

Speaker 5 (42:24):
I was saying that looks a little you know, you
got that boatok, shine, But it's a good.

Speaker 1 (42:29):
But I think that I also just have like very
I have like a very weily t zone.

Speaker 3 (42:35):
But but honestly not really. I don't know. I just
think my forehead got this shine.

Speaker 5 (42:40):
But but that Bowtok shine. You everybody know about the
Bowtok shan. Y'all literally get on TikTok and type bowtox shine.

Speaker 3 (42:48):
But it looked good, girl, it looked good. I just
said it, Thank you girl. Last week.

Speaker 1 (42:54):
Yeah, she said she used something I can't remember what
it's called. Is not actually it's not actually botox cause
you know both hoks, the actual brand.

Speaker 3 (43:02):
It takes like two weeks to kick in. I like, God,
something new. This took like four days. I just got
it last.

Speaker 5 (43:10):
I'm finna call you headling because me and my girl
went viral. Y'all s picking up because we never talked
about that.

Speaker 3 (43:15):
Yeah did we?

Speaker 5 (43:17):
We know, because we were supposed to, but we forgot
to bring it up. But you know, I had a
TikTok that went viral a few months ago and I
was talking about everything that I've done to my face
and it was like, literally the comments were like fifty
to fifty. Some people were like, oh my god, she
looks awful, and the other half was like, oh my god,
you look so good. But also my lashes were different.
It was like a lot of you know, but I

(43:38):
just felt like, yes, I have gotten facial balancing and
I absolutely love it.

Speaker 1 (43:42):
But my thing is with them weak ass halls and
comments where they was piecing me the fuck off. It's
because y'all is not gonna act like my girl ain't
being tea, Like we're not gonna act like the face
Card ain't being fired.

Speaker 3 (43:55):
Face Card was never declining.

Speaker 5 (43:57):
It was so fun.

Speaker 3 (43:58):
The videos is.

Speaker 1 (43:58):
There you can literally go to like poor and that's
the thing about poor minds where nobody can ever clock
either one of our tea because you literally can go
back to videos from twenty seventeen yea twenty eighteen before.

Speaker 3 (44:11):
Either one of us had anything.

Speaker 1 (44:14):
Yeah, and it's like y'all not gonna sit here and
act like licks wouldn't always.

Speaker 5 (44:18):
That was funny because when I sent you, I said, oh,
this before even when viral I sent it to you,
I was like, bitch, date this is gonna go viral.

Speaker 3 (44:25):
Yeah you did there.

Speaker 5 (44:26):
You was like, but face being to you did.

Speaker 1 (44:28):
Say it, because like, what the fucking hole say? If
this is if this is the before, right, what can
you really say? Like you didn't need anything done. It
was something that you wanted to do to make yourself
feel better. And I just want to touch on it too,
like people be acting like it's something wrong with people
wanting to do things that is gonna make them feel
better about themselves.

Speaker 3 (44:48):
Especially if you can afford it and you have the means.
The problem be a lot of people don't even be
having the.

Speaker 1 (44:53):
Means to do it, and that's where they always be
saying something or always have something negatives to say, baby,
because you wish you could do yeah, but you can't,
and also if you did. I think too, a lot
of people don't want to get stuff done. And I
say this all the time too, because I think a
lot of people have this idea of like, well, I
just want to be able to say I'm natural.

Speaker 3 (45:13):
Yeah, you naturally look at all?

Speaker 5 (45:15):
Okay, right off?

Speaker 4 (45:18):
What not?

Speaker 3 (45:20):
You naturally look a food?

Speaker 1 (45:22):
You naturally looking all this FuG You naturally look forty two.
I gonna care because I be sick of people always
trying to come for us and other women. Yeah not
just us, but other women who decide to like get
botox or get facial balancing like you got, or like
in the past I've gotten lip feelers before.

Speaker 3 (45:44):
Like, if people want to do that, let people do
what they want to do. Women who want to get surgery,
if you want to be natural, that's great. I don't
see anything wrong with being natural.

Speaker 1 (45:52):
If that's what you want to do, cool, But don't
bash other people for what they want to do. And
some of y'all be basking and oh, I'm natural, I'm natural.
You look natural respectfully.

Speaker 5 (46:04):
Now see but would but I know I do.

Speaker 3 (46:06):
Nobody was questioning if you was not. And that's what
I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (46:09):
That's the thing, like y'all, y'all be trying to make
an announcement.

Speaker 2 (46:12):
It's like we know, we know.

Speaker 5 (46:16):
A little bit, we know a little bit, But like
I said, I feel like I don't ever come for people.

Speaker 3 (46:20):
That's the thing.

Speaker 5 (46:21):
I have always been very straightforward, honest about everything that
I've gotten done to my body. So if I'm making
a video to educate the women who do want to
get it, if you don't want to get it, that's fine,
But why are you commenting? This is for the people
who want to get it and they want some education
and they're doing their research on it.

Speaker 3 (46:38):
But we've talked about this before.

Speaker 1 (46:40):
On the show, because I feel like you have always
been very honest, but like at one point I never
was like dishonest, Like I would never say I never
had anything done. I just wouldn't talk about what I've done.
And that's why though, because I feel like, you damned
if you do, damned if you don't. If you tell
people that, they still gonna try to attack you like
they be doing with you. And then if you don't
say nothing, then people have all of these accusations and allegations.

(47:02):
It's like, for so long I never talked about the
fact that I had got light both and stuff on
the show, and then eventually I started talking about it,
and then like you still get back les, you know
what I mean, people are still gonna say something like
you can't please everybody.

Speaker 3 (47:16):
So I just be feeling like, to each his own.
If you want to tell people, tell them.

Speaker 1 (47:21):
If you don't, you don't cause you also don't owe
people to tell them.

Speaker 5 (47:24):
Yeah, you don't own anything. But like I said, I
know like when I was a young person on the internet,
I used to look at certain women and they would
be the lying Yeah I was weird.

Speaker 3 (47:32):
Yeah, So it's.

Speaker 5 (47:33):
Like I was trying to achieve something that wasn't attainable
being a young, impersonable girl.

Speaker 3 (47:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (47:39):
So me knowing the responsibility of my platform and having
people who look at me and look up to me,
they're like, oh lex your body tea, well, how baby,
I lay it on the table twice. I got these
tities done twice, So I've done this and like, you
know what I'm saying, Like, yes, I do be you know,
working out, and I do eat healthy for the most part,
but there's things that have gone on that are not natural.

(48:01):
So I feel like my testimony is always for the
people who want to get things done. So I can
tell you what to avoid, what to do, what not
to do, and.

Speaker 3 (48:10):
I can help you.

Speaker 5 (48:11):
But it's not for y'all to come and be like, oh,
she looks so much better before, because again, if they
were trying to clock our tea and go viral, they
would have just gone back to an old video and
had something to say.

Speaker 1 (48:21):
And it's live at me. If you can screenshoty do
whatever you wm.

Speaker 5 (48:25):
But I feel like I was beautiful then I'm beautiful
now and I'm having a ball.

Speaker 3 (48:30):
Yeah, like, please go, you need to call up doctor orion. Hmmm.

Speaker 5 (48:35):
I might need to call him myself. I know where
his office at.

Speaker 1 (48:37):
Now A call out girl, Helen and shrink coffe. Yeah,
shout out to hell and Atlanta, Georgia.

Speaker 5 (48:41):
And I said that in the video that I made
that went viral. Y'all go to an injector though, that
doesn't overdo it. When I tell you, I see Helen
maybe twice a year.

Speaker 3 (48:53):
Damn bitch, fucking that all of us. I got some
more too, thank you.

Speaker 5 (48:59):
But I will say Helen does not overdo it. She
doesn't overinject. A lot of injectors, they don't stop. You
asked for this amount and they'll give it to you.
Helen doesn't do that. I the last time I went
to Helen was right before Tribal Queens premiere and I said,
what do your thing? And she was like, okay, you
need this? I said, what about my lips? She said, Girl,

(49:19):
your lips are good. She was like, you're good. We
don't need to do that. She was like, maybe a
little bit right here, but that's.

Speaker 3 (49:25):
All I'm doing.

Speaker 5 (49:25):
I was like you sure.

Speaker 3 (49:27):
I was like, I don't need girl, Helen. Don't play that.

Speaker 5 (49:30):
If anybody goes to Helen, you'll be like you look refreshed.
Every time I go to Helen, people be like, I
don't know what it.

Speaker 2 (49:38):
Is, what did you do?

Speaker 3 (49:40):
What you did?

Speaker 1 (49:40):
But I think too the key is going to somebody
who also looks good.

Speaker 3 (49:44):
Yeah exactly, because Helen.

Speaker 1 (49:46):
Face t Yeah, Helen Face looked good and she shows
her before and after its autust all the time. So
I think that that's like a main key factor as will.
But I mean, I don't know. I just always say,
do what you want to do. Don't let nobody make
you feel bad about anything. I think some people do
be taking it overboard with the work that they be
getting done to they face and to their bodies and stuff.

(50:06):
But I don't feel like me and you are in
that category because to be honest, we haven't did. But
you know what's funny to me, people be trying to
say that about my lips, but I haven't had lip
fillers since twenty twenty one.

Speaker 5 (50:17):
I think the thing is that we've learned obviously, like
when you get filled juicy, Well, I think the thing
is that we've learned, like once you.

Speaker 3 (50:23):
Get feelers, they're that forever.

Speaker 5 (50:25):
They don't dissolve like we originally thought, like sometimes your
body will what's it called tabolize them? But as further
research is going on, feelers like wherever you get them done,
Like when I got feelers right here and all this stuff,
it ain't going away ever, you molltabolize it a little bit,
but they're still But I think with your lips, you
had juicy.

Speaker 3 (50:45):
Lips before and nobody believes it.

Speaker 5 (50:48):
Right, you had juicy lips before, so when you got
your lips done, it just made them a little you know,
But now everything is just so like again, you've always
been a beautiful girl, but now you're just more polished.
They cannot believe a woman is real. They can't take
they can't they can't take all They're like, this is
not allegations.

Speaker 3 (51:09):
Be getting crazy, Yeah, you know job allegations. I'd be like,
when did I have again? Sometimes when did I have time?
We recorded for Minds for seven years. People just can't take.
That's all it is.

Speaker 5 (51:24):
They can't take whether anything that you've touched or not,
it doesn't matter. I look the fuck good, and that's
what you need to just say. Just say I look
good me, you know what I'm saying. Like when people
are looking at you to pick everything, they just say
I look good. Like that's easier to just say, hey, you.

Speaker 3 (51:42):
Know what, you look good and I'm gonna send you
healing no so you can get a little talk, a
little look.

Speaker 1 (51:51):
That's really all I get though these days, is botox.
To be honest, I be gotten anything else.

Speaker 5 (51:57):
Yeah, I do my this is my second facial balance
saying I got my first facial balancing. I think what
was it, year twenty twenty two. And but I will say,
with feelers on the face, people be going like every
six months to do that, and I think that's insane.
Now I will say, I think that's a little crazy.

Speaker 3 (52:13):
It is I do this.

Speaker 5 (52:17):
I took a two and a half year, three year
break in between, because you don't want to overdo it.
I don't even go because they say for botox you're
supposed to go every three months. I don't even do that.
I think if you space it out and you go
to a good injector, you'll have great results.

Speaker 3 (52:32):
And I think my results look great.

Speaker 1 (52:34):
I'll be getting tired of talking about our lukes because
what Nikki said in that video, she says to even
mention my.

Speaker 5 (52:39):
Loops because that's and that's another woman. Because y'all be
trying to be funny. Nicki minar minaj f.

Speaker 3 (52:49):
That's that all.

Speaker 5 (52:52):
Old ladies, nickierd old.

Speaker 1 (52:55):
Ladies be pronouncing everything wrong. Who is Nicki minard face card?
You don't decline has always been sick? Always shout out Tord, shout.

Speaker 3 (53:05):
Out to Nikki Nikki. All right, let's get on to
topic too, topic two. What we got?

Speaker 1 (53:10):
Okay, So topic number two, we're gonna play a game
called truth or trash. So you're gonna say whether you've
done these things or not because it's your birthday. If
it's the truth, if it's yes, you're gonna say truth.
If it's a no, you're gonna say trash.

Speaker 5 (53:24):
Okay, Okay, cool.

Speaker 3 (53:26):
So let's get into number one.

Speaker 1 (53:28):
I have used my birthday as an excuse to text
someone I had no business missing.

Speaker 5 (53:34):
Trash. It's my birthday, You're supposed to text me on
my birthday.

Speaker 3 (53:39):
I would never be like.

Speaker 5 (53:40):
Street, But what do you say, though, Oh, it's my birthday?

Speaker 4 (53:48):
No?

Speaker 1 (53:49):
So like I guess for me, I'm more so thinking
along the lines of I've had people DM me on
my birthday and be like, oh, hey, happy birthday, and
then I text them.

Speaker 5 (54:03):
And was like, hey, but they hit you first, so
that's not the same as this.

Speaker 3 (54:07):
But they dms me.

Speaker 1 (54:09):
I text them when I feel like when you text somebody,
I'm little more personal than a d M.

Speaker 3 (54:15):
But they opened the door. They opened the door. I'm
talking about you, me texting somebody off.

Speaker 5 (54:20):
You texting somebody on your birthday is so desperate and Thursday,
that's fair. I'm just the text to them, like, damn,
it's my birthday.

Speaker 3 (54:28):
You ain't gonna stay happy birthday.

Speaker 5 (54:30):
I know you host be doing that.

Speaker 1 (54:31):
That's a little corny, Yeah, not corny, But I have
definitely had people like message me on my birthday and
you were like and then I text them and be like, hey, I.

Speaker 5 (54:41):
Can only imagine what my phone is gonna do on
my birthday, just because like on one of the clips
with Sierra, I was talking about like that I'm single
now and people already been saying stuff and in my being,
it's just been weird.

Speaker 3 (54:55):
And you've been having the same number since nineteen.

Speaker 1 (54:57):
Seventy three, so that you're definitely you're definitely going to
be miss g because everybody still got.

Speaker 5 (55:02):
Your number, I know.

Speaker 3 (55:04):
But what if that man misses you?

Speaker 5 (55:06):
Which man?

Speaker 3 (55:07):
You right, I should have been more specified.

Speaker 5 (55:10):
How can you get specific without getting too specific?

Speaker 3 (55:13):
To let me in?

Speaker 5 (55:14):
No, I'll beat your ass for that. Actually, I'm trying
to have a good birthday, and that's what you're gonna
do on my on my birthday. Is my birthday, On
my birthday, with my birthday, that's what you're gonna do
on my birthday.

Speaker 3 (55:27):
You ran into him, like a few times I have not.

Speaker 5 (55:30):
I have owned my mother. I have not seen him
since we broken up. You saw him, Shay saw him,
and I did not even know. I did not notice him.
But you know what, this is a theory. I don't
know what it's called. I saw this on y'all know
I love TikTok. They said, when somebody comes in your
life and you learn your lesson or you learn whatever

(55:53):
you're supposed to learn from that person. And y'all separate ways,
whether it's a friend, family member, romantic, you don't run
in ever. See the fact that said he was standing
right behind the cameras. I swear to god, I did
not see that man.

Speaker 1 (56:11):
That did be sad though, because I'd be like, dang,
have I not learned my listen with none of these
niggas bro, I they ain't running into people that I.

Speaker 3 (56:20):
Oh, No, I don't. I don't. I don't either, I don't,
I do not.

Speaker 5 (56:25):
I have not seen that man since twenty eighteen nineteen.

Speaker 3 (56:29):
Thank you, so never.

Speaker 1 (56:30):
But it do be quiet for them though, like it
don't matter. So I take that bag. I don't know
why I'll be running into them, but I'm never tempted
to like talk to people that I used to talk.

Speaker 5 (56:40):
The only reason I seen the other the other man,
is because he came up here trying to come on
lost shot.

Speaker 3 (56:46):
He was up here and you had this thing out
that day.

Speaker 5 (56:50):
Couldn't resist that.

Speaker 3 (56:52):
Said as soon as you walked up in here that
I'll fit on. Said, hey, you didn't have to lift
it up, it was out. You was cutting up. I said,
she got that ass.

Speaker 5 (57:07):
Oh but anyway, so you know, so that's trash. Yeah,
I've gosted a man the day after he gave me
a birthday gift.

Speaker 3 (57:18):
Truth, I've definitely done that before. Truth, you've gone that time.

Speaker 1 (57:21):
I've had a man look a whole trip and I
was like, this is gonna work by.

Speaker 3 (57:26):
I had a blast. Oh a birthday trip. That's a
big one. Gotta dash what about you.

Speaker 1 (57:33):
Come on now, I was going, come on now, you
already know the goddamn into today. Shut up, ibby ghost
niggas just because it ain't even gotta.

Speaker 3 (57:43):
Be today before my birthday.

Speaker 5 (57:45):
Okay, yeah, I've definitely done that before too, definitely, okay, okay.

Speaker 1 (57:50):
I expect everyone to drop what they're doing because he's
my day.

Speaker 3 (57:53):
Trash, trash, yeah, trash. I don't like.

Speaker 5 (57:57):
If you got something to do, if you can pull
up on me, let's have a good time. If not, hey, man,
I don't give a fuck. I know you love me. Yeah,
you got life going on, man, I agree and I
and let me say this too, stop making it y'all's
birthday months. I'm going out what you want. I'm going
out with you once. If you're a friend, if you're
my best friend, I'll give you a weekend or a
week or a trip. But if you're my associate or

(58:19):
you're my friend, invite me the one thing one night.
Like it's different.

Speaker 4 (58:23):
If it's you, dang, yeah, dang, mama.

Speaker 3 (58:31):
Yeah that's all you get.

Speaker 5 (58:33):
Don't invite me. If we're associates, don't invite me. Monday,
we're doing this, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, and then the next week.

Speaker 1 (58:39):
No, babe, but that's a little oh d this is
that's for you. I feel like you're talking to the
young folks. Yeah, women that are thirty and up. We
is not doing that. We're not paying Monday, are Wednesday, Thursday?

Speaker 5 (58:52):
Yes they are, no way, yes they are. They absolutely
are telling the stories. Oh yeah, my friend didn't show up.
They'd be getting mad because if the friend do show up,
she more dressed up than her and it'd be so
many stories.

Speaker 2 (59:06):
But you need to get a stylist, not that shit on.

Speaker 5 (59:09):
Well, I just feel like this this is your birtha
Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (59:15):
I feel like that's like the worst type of friends
ever to have a friend who like when you go places,
they're like, oh, you dressed better than me, or oh,
you didn't tell me that she was gonna wear that,
or you didn't tell me you was gonna wear heels.

Speaker 3 (59:29):
You didn't tell me you was gonna dress up. Bitch,
I'm doing me. You should do you even on your birthday.

Speaker 1 (59:36):
I don't give a fuck with nobody around me got
on their birthday because it's my I mean on my birthday,
because it's my birthday. You could wear whatever you like,
I don't even know what you could wear whatever you like,
I don't know when you're having dress clothes for my birthday.
Like I get maybe if you want to wear a
certain color and then you want everybody else to wear
a different color. But really trying to like tell people

(59:57):
exactly what they can wear and how they should dress.
I just think it's so weird, and it's very much
giving you insecure because you don't want somebody to show
up looking better than you. But if you the type
of woman who you not even comparing yourself to your
friends in the first place, You're never gonna feel like
other people look better than you anyways, because everybody have
their own unique beauty and own unique style.

Speaker 3 (01:00:19):
Who cares you shus be weird? But you're that muse
beauty girl. But I'm just don't you think that's weird?
Be like weird? She came to my birthday dressed better
than me, Why haven't. I'm not gonna lie to you.

Speaker 5 (01:00:33):
I've never had a birthday dinner or birthday outing where
I was like, like when we all went to Miami
that whole week, we just had a ball. I didn't
tell nobody what to wear. We all looked good and
we all just had fun. Like I just think I
agree with you there, Like I don't know. I just
think that's one weird But like I said, I also think,

(01:00:54):
like if I can't show up for your birthday or
if I got something going on, it's gonna be like
a good reason why I'm not there. But I'm not
getting mad at somebody if they don't show up for
my birthday. I'm not me the only person. I'm like
if I do a birthday dinner, only people I'm getting
mad at. Is like if you don't come. If I'm
doing a birthday dinner and you don't come, you're in trouble.

(01:01:14):
Why am I If you don't come to my birthday dinner,
you're in trouble. He'lla's in trouble. What is trouble Beeling's
in trouble and Lauren's in trouble. I'll give my sister
a pass and she got kids.

Speaker 3 (01:01:29):
I'm gonna be mad at you. Well, I don't. I
cannot not show up.

Speaker 1 (01:01:32):
I mean we live in the same either way, I
will still go to wherever.

Speaker 3 (01:01:36):
Yeah, your birthday, Like you don't have a choice.

Speaker 1 (01:01:39):
I'm gonna come, but I'm just like that when it
come to my friends, I'm gonna show up for your birthday.

Speaker 3 (01:01:43):
Yeah, I'm gonna show up.

Speaker 5 (01:01:43):
I think, like me, if your birthday this year was
like so hectic, it was so much going on, I
kept saying, just hey, what you want to do, I'm
pulling up.

Speaker 3 (01:01:51):
Do it. I'll stayed all late that night too. You did.
I was very proud of you. I didn't go home early.
I did not go home early.

Speaker 2 (01:01:59):
You didn't.

Speaker 3 (01:01:59):
You had I was ready to go, I was, but
I out. But I still have fun though. I had
a good time. I had a ball. Okay, let's do one.
Oh yeah, so hold on, wait? What was he?

Speaker 5 (01:02:10):
I expect everyone to drop what they're doing because it's my.

Speaker 3 (01:02:13):
That's trash to me.

Speaker 1 (01:02:13):
I've never been in if you can come, cool, if
you can't cool, But if it, if it becomes an
habitual thing, I will say, like, if it happens year
after year after year, you can't come.

Speaker 3 (01:02:26):
Yeah, we ain't really friends for real, you don't really
with me. But one year that's fine.

Speaker 5 (01:02:33):
Yeah, I'm just not. I feel like my birthdays is
more so about what I want to do. Like my
birthday this year, I might just kind of like do something.

Speaker 3 (01:02:40):
At the house.

Speaker 5 (01:02:41):
Chill, if my table, if my chairs get in time,
I'm gonna have like my close girlfriend's over and we're
gonna have like a girl yo, that's it. I'm gonna
have kiki, we do karaoke.

Speaker 3 (01:02:52):
Yes, I'm gonna bring my robe.

Speaker 5 (01:02:55):
I'll let you about to say your roles.

Speaker 3 (01:02:57):
I was gonna say, leave it at home, leave that.
I'm spending the night, you know, have me a little
palate ready. Actually I'm a sleeping the bed.

Speaker 5 (01:03:13):
I said I have rooms, now, No, I have Look,
I have a.

Speaker 3 (01:03:21):
Home with rooms exactly spacious. Hone okay, one more, one more.

Speaker 5 (01:03:26):
I've canceled plans last minute just because I wasn't feeling
my birthday enough.

Speaker 3 (01:03:31):
Option me. Addition, if that was the.

Speaker 5 (01:03:35):
End of your last, oh, cut that all out.

Speaker 3 (01:03:41):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (01:03:42):
I've canceled my plans last minute just because I wasn't
feeling my birthday enough.

Speaker 3 (01:03:45):
That Martine to dirty. It's lecture.

Speaker 1 (01:03:50):
It's a lecture, as fucked. Yes, that's me. I did
that this year. Yes, I will can't so birthday plans.
I'm not feeling me because I just feel like I
don't like going around other people with like bad energy.
So I would rather just night, you know, like I

(01:04:10):
don't want to have a birthday dinner just because I
feel like, oh, it's my birthday, I have to do it.
But I know I'm not in the mood, and I
know my energy and my vibe gonna be off. I
would rather just not even hang with my friends because
I just don't even want to put y'all in that space.

Speaker 5 (01:04:22):
But we ended up having a good time for your birthday.

Speaker 3 (01:04:25):
But we went later.

Speaker 5 (01:04:26):
We went like a week later, but we brought your
birthday in on Travel Queens.

Speaker 3 (01:04:31):
But that was the next day.

Speaker 5 (01:04:32):
I know, but I'm just saying like it was still wonderful.
I feel like that week things transpired. But Travel Queens
and the night and the night that we went out
that we traded the night of, we still had an
amazing time.

Speaker 3 (01:04:47):
No, yeah, we did.

Speaker 5 (01:04:47):
The Greek restaurant was beautiful, your dress looked good. Dinner
was fantastic. Like we went out to I can't remember
the name of that club, but we went out afterwards
and we.

Speaker 3 (01:04:58):
Had we had a ball. We went to Sweet Yes,
we had a ball. Like it ended up being a
good birthday. No, we did.

Speaker 1 (01:05:04):
I feel like the only reason I canceled my birthday,
to be honest, this year was because I had ordered
this corset.

Speaker 3 (01:05:11):
Which was so beautiful.

Speaker 1 (01:05:13):
It was like this beautiful corset and it was really expensive,
and it ended up getting lost in the mill. Well, no,
it didn't get lost in the mill. It got delivered
to my building and they had a photo like uploaded
on the UPS website and everything, but it was not
in the mail room. And I'm like, what the fuck
did somebody steal my package? And I searched through that

(01:05:34):
mail room all day and I was like, if I
don't find this by six o'clock, I'm canceling my dinner
because I didn't have nothing to wear. So that's why
I ended up canceling it. And then it eventually, like
three four weeks later, crazy enough, ended up showing up.

Speaker 3 (01:05:49):
Somebody definitely had it.

Speaker 1 (01:05:50):
I think somebody took it and then they decided to
like just because it showed up and then it was
in the band they just right. I feel like somebody
took it and then they were they probably couldn't feed
it waste when small enough, but no for real, so yeah, like,
but yeah, I did cancel it, but I think it.

Speaker 5 (01:06:11):
Was okay, because we still ended up having a good
time last year. So now it's time to get into
the bed out about about we'd be having a ball.
You know what, I'm not gonna lie to you. Can
I tell you a secret?

Speaker 3 (01:06:27):
Is it a secret? Yes? I'm fucking I mean, I'm
like popcorn, I need a ball. Looked like she was
about to throw up.

Speaker 5 (01:06:38):
You hate all of us, shame all of us.

Speaker 3 (01:06:40):
Don't stink. I will say this.

Speaker 5 (01:06:43):
I understand why people like the solo episodes because we
do be having a ball.

Speaker 3 (01:06:47):
We be cutting up, cheers, jells.

Speaker 2 (01:06:53):
Atlant.

Speaker 3 (01:06:55):
I'm like, remember that video from because rubbing? Never mind,
just relax.

Speaker 5 (01:07:02):
Okay, So for the bad topic today, as women, does
your sex drive really increase the older you get.

Speaker 3 (01:07:10):
It's been proven that women in their.

Speaker 5 (01:07:12):
Thirties and forties generally have the highest sex drive among
all age group. Okay, many people joke and they say
it's like they're in heat.

Speaker 3 (01:07:23):
Is that how we feel.

Speaker 5 (01:07:24):
As women in our thirties or do y'all feel like it's.

Speaker 3 (01:07:26):
Just like whatever, not being horny?

Speaker 5 (01:07:29):
It's a tiny todd since you used to take that
tricycle to your.

Speaker 1 (01:07:34):
Neighbor's house, I was not horny when I was on
a tricycle. Be she was gonna stop playing with me
in my adolescents.

Speaker 5 (01:07:39):
Okay, I'm not true.

Speaker 3 (01:07:42):
I'm not the truth. I was not horny as a
child like the saw.

Speaker 5 (01:07:48):
No, I wasn't in that little sawting but was biting
your lips.

Speaker 1 (01:07:53):
I didn't start getting horned until I was probably like fourteen.

Speaker 3 (01:07:56):
Oh my god, I'm at thirteen. So you've been horny
from thirteen.

Speaker 5 (01:08:00):
So now I'm thirty four, twenty one years.

Speaker 3 (01:08:04):
It's been a long twenty one because you are horning.

Speaker 5 (01:08:07):
Okay, what how how long you been horning?

Speaker 3 (01:08:10):
I was a freaky little girl too. If you humping
some dials. My dad walked in the room one day.

Speaker 5 (01:08:17):
I was like, what are you doing?

Speaker 3 (01:08:19):
I put my cappage shut down. Y'all know the big
I said, give me my tend ben I want the
big one.

Speaker 1 (01:08:31):
Not but for real, don't have y'all speaking of though.
Have your parents ever caught you doing anything freaky?

Speaker 3 (01:08:36):
You know what?

Speaker 2 (01:08:37):
No?

Speaker 5 (01:08:37):
I never got caught, but I didn't do a lot.
I didn't get really freaky though, until I moved to
the city.

Speaker 3 (01:08:42):
Tell your mama, never walk in you're doing something.

Speaker 5 (01:08:45):
You was I was catching my mom and my sister.
I walked in on my sister having sex. I caught
my mom having sex. Yes, yes, r ip and he
was riding that dick.

Speaker 3 (01:08:56):
I said, Oh, I said, I was scarred. I was
so mad.

Speaker 1 (01:09:06):
No, I need it too, though. You caught your mam
r ipizza my daddy. Yes, one time. I just that's
but it's so funny because your parents will always tell you,
or at least my parents will tell me, knock before
you come.

Speaker 2 (01:09:18):
In the door.

Speaker 5 (01:09:19):
Yes, she did always say that, and I did.

Speaker 1 (01:09:21):
My parents would always say, they make sure you knock
before you come.

Speaker 3 (01:09:24):
In the door. And one day, I don't know, I
just I guess I just had a sense of urgency.

Speaker 1 (01:09:28):
But whatever it is, I want to eat. So I
just opened the door and it was.

Speaker 3 (01:09:31):
In there doing it.

Speaker 5 (01:09:32):
Oh my god, and I oh my god, dog, I
wanted to rip my eyeballs. I walked in on my
sister having sex one time. My sister may beat my ass.
I walked it on my because me and my sister
we had conjoining rooms, so it was her room in
the middle we had our shared bathroom, and then on
the other side it was mine. And then we had
sliding doors, so it was like my room, the sliding door,

(01:09:56):
you're in the bathroom, another sliding.

Speaker 3 (01:09:57):
Door, you're in her room.

Speaker 5 (01:09:59):
And I knew her boyfriend was in there, so I
slid that door open. I creeped in the bathroom.

Speaker 3 (01:10:06):
I was like, what are they doing in there?

Speaker 5 (01:10:08):
If she was on top of him riding that dick?
Running running the family, I said, oh, do you know?
I took off running. What's my friend Hillary's house? You
ran out the house, ran out the house. I ran
to my friend's house. I was mortified. Ran out the
house is so leo because you could have really just.

Speaker 3 (01:10:32):
Down the streets and somebody else.

Speaker 5 (01:10:34):
It was that scene from What's Love Got to doing
it when she was running across.

Speaker 3 (01:10:40):
She was running across the street.

Speaker 5 (01:10:41):
That was me because I can't believe. I could not
believe my sister. I was like, how dare you? It
was so scar scarred my mama.

Speaker 1 (01:10:53):
I never got caught doing nothing sexual, but one time
my mama came in a room where I was twerking
but naked.

Speaker 3 (01:11:02):
Wait, and I was like to.

Speaker 1 (01:11:04):
Shaves naked because I had just got the shower.

Speaker 3 (01:11:13):
I had just got the shower and I was probably
send a pretty wreaky blue sauce and you was naked
to working.

Speaker 2 (01:11:19):
She was like, God, what are you doing? Put the
fucking clothes on.

Speaker 3 (01:11:24):
But Mama, don't cussin. She was like, put some freaking
clothes on. I'm so weak, bro, because.

Speaker 2 (01:11:29):
What do you be doing.

Speaker 3 (01:11:32):
I got new shoes. I'm serious, like I was working,
and she told my daddy Abody, like, I need to
have a talk.

Speaker 5 (01:11:43):
They should have had that talk when they taught you
how to ride that bike.

Speaker 3 (01:11:48):
It was too late for that girl. Let me alone.
But no, yees.

Speaker 1 (01:11:51):
So I never got caught doing nothing sexual, but I
did get caught doing it. And I almost got caught,
like watching Busy Young cut a few times, but my
fingers was too swives.

Speaker 3 (01:12:02):
I had Disney channels moving on the back.

Speaker 5 (01:12:06):
Yeah yeah, y'all. Never got caught doing anything sexual, but
I do. I feel like it's chubby. I told Shade
at the other day, she's talking, No they not, I said, yes,
they always.

Speaker 3 (01:12:13):
You have fingers.

Speaker 5 (01:12:14):
You always talk about your fingers. I think they look
good like little sausages.

Speaker 3 (01:12:17):
But I think the older I.

Speaker 5 (01:12:18):
Get, I get like I used to kind of feel
like you're not you're a lady. You know you're not
supposed to. But honestly, like my next relationship, I think
I didn't have a problem with that my last relationship,
Like we.

Speaker 3 (01:12:31):
Used to be fucking.

Speaker 5 (01:12:32):
I always say this though, like any girl who dates
a man after me, like, please don't look, I.

Speaker 3 (01:12:39):
Was fucking the shit out that nigga. Hey he got fucked, same,
he got fucked a lot. Okay.

Speaker 5 (01:12:46):
I just I enjoy sex, But I don't think there's
nothing wrong with that. I think people try to be
like and I think sex is healthy. I don't think
you need to use sex in a way as like
punishing somebody like oh we're not talking or you're not
doing what I want you to do, so I'm gonna
hide sex from you. I'm not gonna give you sex
or I don't think sex should be used as a weapon.

Speaker 3 (01:13:06):
I think sex should be enjoyed. I think you sho
do that.

Speaker 1 (01:13:09):
It's stupid as hell anyway, Yeah, because one thing about me.
I don't care how mad I am.

Speaker 3 (01:13:14):
You're gonna get this Kuchie to real. I'm just because
it's not about you. It's not about you.

Speaker 1 (01:13:22):
Yes, I think that's so stupid when women do that,
and plus like men they don't be needing much.

Speaker 3 (01:13:30):
They don't.

Speaker 1 (01:13:31):
They really don't too bound you gonna weaponize the one
thing that they need, you're a dummy.

Speaker 3 (01:13:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:13:37):
I don't weaponize sex. I don't weaponize and it's not
gonna get me in to act, right.

Speaker 1 (01:13:41):
I think when women realize that too, like, Okay, you're
not gonna give him no kouchie, he might go get
staring from somebody's mind.

Speaker 5 (01:13:47):
He gonna do that anyway.

Speaker 3 (01:13:49):
No, I'm not gonna say he gonna do that anyway.
He said, yeah, correct. See see I'm telling.

Speaker 5 (01:14:02):
You y'all the thing.

Speaker 1 (01:14:03):
Yes, it's like you gonna take away that thing and
you think you really doing something, you're not doing nothing.
If anything, he probably just gonna end up going get
it from somebody else, especially if he'd be in months
and months and months of you haulding out like czy,
you're not really you didn't really eat that the way
you thought you did.

Speaker 3 (01:14:19):
And me personally I be horny. Yeah I do. I
think sex is fun, sexy is being enjoyed.

Speaker 5 (01:14:27):
But I do enjoy sex with somebody I'm emotionally connected to.
Like when I was younger, I used to be like,
oh yeah, let's just you know, we cool, we fucking whatever.
Now it has to be some kind of like I
have to have feelings for you to have sex with you.

Speaker 3 (01:14:43):
I can't, like I've been feeling that way. Yeah, like
I can't.

Speaker 5 (01:14:47):
Like in my twenties, it was just like, hey, turn up,
were in college, were a little tipsy. But now I
don't care how drunk I am. Y'all was fucking the
Trevis Porter. Yeah okay, now, yeah it was one down.
But now it's like if there's no emotional connection. So
that's why I say I do enjoy sex more as
I get older, because it's like an emotional.

Speaker 3 (01:15:08):
Thing and it'd beautiful. It'd be like, oh, thank god there,
why should you rubbing on me? This woman's what? This
woman's craig?

Speaker 4 (01:15:28):
Are you.

Speaker 2 (01:15:41):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:15:42):
We don't Okay, let's move on. Oh that was funny.
But now I do feel like I don't feel like
your sex drive increase. I think you've either been horny. Yeah,
I'm not want menopause. Here they say that you have
like a decline, but I feel like none of us
can speak today, right because we haven't. Nah, you probably

(01:16:04):
got another te You probably got another ten to fifteen
years before you hit minopause, because some women don't be
hitting menopause today fifties. That's why you gotta be careful
because you can still get pregnant even you know, when
you do perimenopause where you only have a cycle like
three times a year, you still gotta be careful if
you still getting your cycle three times a year, because

(01:16:25):
you can still.

Speaker 5 (01:16:26):
You don't have mad I would be if I was
like forty seven and I got pregnant on accident. Now
I'm at the clinic with these young holes scoot over.

Speaker 3 (01:16:33):
Yeah, you wouldn't have a baby. I didn't have it.
Now I makes you think I'm gonna have.

Speaker 2 (01:16:38):
A thing you didn't.

Speaker 3 (01:16:40):
I don't know what's worse. I don't know what's worse though, like.

Speaker 1 (01:16:45):
Having like risky, taking the risk of having a baby
older or getting an abortion old. I feel like they're
both like very risky when you hit a certain age,
I think it's riskier to maybe have the baby.

Speaker 3 (01:16:59):
You think.

Speaker 5 (01:17:00):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:17:00):
I'm not a doctor, yeah, so let me not even
say that.

Speaker 1 (01:17:03):
But you wouldn't have it if you got like by
your husband, Like I don't know if it's my husband.

Speaker 5 (01:17:07):
It would depend on what we both want to do
and where we're at in life. But honestly, I feel
like at forty seven, that's not gonna be even an issue.
That's not gonna be an issue because either I'm done
having kids and my tubes are tied and he's fit,
Oh you gonna get your tubes hot when you absolutely
absolutely so, there's not gonna be any room for none
of that.

Speaker 3 (01:17:25):
No, I'm not doing that. I think I would do
that too. I'm not gonna lie like I wonld got
her two sided after me. Did she get it to
where it was reversible? Because you know I used to
burn them? Yeah, she got hers burned to a Chris
Barma CoA Crutchy.

Speaker 1 (01:17:39):
I don't know if I would get minds burned. I
probably would just get them tied. But I do think
I would do this.

Speaker 3 (01:17:45):
Literally like a shoe. But to be honest, I'm lying.

Speaker 1 (01:17:47):
I'm just gonna ask my husband, like, we're done having kids,
can you go get if it's ex to me, it's
way less and basive.

Speaker 3 (01:17:55):
Yeah, yeah, and it's reversible. I don't care if somebody
gonna get it, then somebody go get something chopped up
not slapped up. Yeah, I agree, with you on that one.
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Speaker 5 (01:19:33):
So this song is actually something that came out last
year and it was on my playlist and I was like, damn,
I forgot about this song. So it's a song called
Solo by Terrace Martin, Elena Pinderhugh and y'all know this
is my favorite Aaron Ray I love me some, Aaron
Ray Chat love him down. So it was a song
that came out last year. It's called Solo. It's on

(01:19:54):
one of my playlists, and it's such a good song.

Speaker 3 (01:19:56):
It's just about like.

Speaker 5 (01:19:57):
Embracing being solo and embracing being single and by yourself.

Speaker 3 (01:20:02):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:20:03):
Do you remember that song that Jason Jason Rulo, He
had a song called solo. I'm running solo, I'm running solo,
I'm running solo, I'm running solo.

Speaker 3 (01:20:14):
So she loves Jason Derulo. She do you do the way?
She was out of the I don't want to fight,
don't want to you look like young lex Young BBQ.
That's her name, saying you like young bb Q. Is

(01:20:37):
it Young BBQ or Young Barbecue?

Speaker 1 (01:20:39):
I think it's young Barbecue, young beautiful black Crean. Okay,
well it's not barbecue.

Speaker 3 (01:20:46):
Not barbecue. So yeah, that's my bop of the week.

Speaker 5 (01:20:48):
It's called solo by Terra s Martin beg Ray and
Elena I hope I'm saying her name right, Elena pinder Hugh.
It was on my you know list from last year,
so yeah, shout out to them.

Speaker 3 (01:20:59):
That was about what you got. Tyler got a new
song called WWP. I love Tyler. I like Tyler's who
that bliss was. Do you feel like Tyla is the
new Rihanna?

Speaker 5 (01:21:10):
I think that Tyler is Tyler because I think that
she makes amazing music. But to compare her to Rihanna,
Rihanna was a breakthrough artist and did something that a
lot of people hadn't done before, you know, that crossover.
Like we we had a few island hits that we like,
but Rihanna made like that Caribbean style music, very very mainstream.

(01:21:34):
So I think that Tyler is a great artist, but
she's not doing anything like groundbreaking y'all say, But she
makes amazing music she did. I think what Rihanna did
was groundbreaking and it was different to be the first
to do a lot of things. Rihanna was the first
to do a lot of things. I think Rihanna opened
the door for Tyler's if that makes sense.

Speaker 3 (01:21:54):
Yeah, controversial question though.

Speaker 1 (01:21:55):
Do you think at this point, though, anybody in the
music industry can be the first to do any things?

Speaker 4 (01:22:00):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (01:22:00):
Because Beyonce was the first, like black artists to have
an out, you know, a country to you know what
I mean.

Speaker 4 (01:22:12):
Like a.

Speaker 7 (01:22:15):
Yeah, oh yeah by the Ladies. Yeah, okay that you
love It sounded like I couldn't.

Speaker 5 (01:22:25):
Get it out, But yes, I do feel like, you know,
Beyonce is still doing a lot of firsts, you know,
but it's still happening though. That's what I'm saying. It's
a lot of things that haven't been done before, they're
still being done. It's fair, you know, like we're gonna
be the first podcasters that do a lot of things.
We are, because it's crazy to say. It's so many

(01:22:49):
things that black people have not been acknowledged for and
awarded for that we're going to do. And I'm not
saying we just mean you, I mean, everybody in this space.
It's a lot that needs to be done. So yeah, yeah,
it's a lot of things that can still be You're
gonna be the first, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:23:06):
So yeah, it's fair. Yeah, so yeah Tyler, WWP, I
love this. I like I like taller.

Speaker 5 (01:23:13):
I like a little taller though, And what I said
was no discredit her. I think she's an amazing artist
and I think she's doing exactly what she's supposed to do.
She performs, She don't do too many interviews, she don't
talk too much. See a lot of problems with these
new artists.

Speaker 3 (01:23:25):
They talk too much.

Speaker 5 (01:23:27):
Y'all want to go get on streams and try to
do with these t You are not a streamer. You
are an artist, Beyonce. Do you want to be like
a Beyonce?

Speaker 3 (01:23:34):
Don't talk to a then push to start with such
a good song.

Speaker 1 (01:23:38):
But to be fair, back in Beyonce's Tyler days, like
when she was that age, she was talking. I mean,
I feel like it's part of artists development. Like Beyonce
is at a point now where like she's on the
whole nother level. She don't have to talk to nobody.
You don't have to promote, right, she don't have to
promote her tour. She doesn't have to do anything. People

(01:23:58):
are gonna buy the tikis. Like, as soon as people
see Beyonce, it's touring. As soon as people see Beyonce's
coming out with an album, a single, whatever, we're.

Speaker 3 (01:24:05):
Gonna go listen to it.

Speaker 1 (01:24:07):
She come out with films, We're gonna go watch them,
because she's on that level of stardom now. But at
one point, she did used to do interviews.

Speaker 3 (01:24:14):
She did used to go and talk to people.

Speaker 1 (01:24:17):
She did used to do like shows like TRL or
One on six in part she used to do all.

Speaker 3 (01:24:21):
Of this stuff back in the day.

Speaker 5 (01:24:23):
Well, I say that, I guess because you can talk
to us, but talk to us about your music and
what you got going on. I don't need your opinion
on if you think couples should split rent or not.

Speaker 1 (01:24:33):
But I think it's hard for people to find that balance,
like artists or whatever, to find that balance because everything
is so social media based these days, and a lot
of the time when you go on people's shows, they're
going to ask you those questions, whereas back in the day,
I feel like it was more focused on the music
and the talent.

Speaker 5 (01:24:51):
You know who needs to come on the show. Beyonce,
that too, but Missy Elliott. We need to get Missy
on the show.

Speaker 3 (01:24:57):
I think so too. And I know actually what song
I'm going to sing it on film?

Speaker 5 (01:25:02):
And now, no, I wasn't thinking that I have sang
that song many a day. I was thinking that song
take Away, the Golden Song and nine going on. And
we need to have Genie Wine on the show.

Speaker 1 (01:25:21):
Because he having a time in his cons I love genial.

Speaker 5 (01:25:27):
Genuine is doing what he's supposed to do. He still
got his money and he's still having a ball. Same Ogi.

Speaker 3 (01:25:37):
And he be doing these Remember when he was like
same og, Remember when he was like big mood.

Speaker 5 (01:25:52):
Shut out to Gene. We gonna have one on the show, Yes,
come on to show. All right, now, we're going into
our favorite segment of the week. It's to pour your
heart outset. If you want your question to answer on
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(01:26:17):
I got it, go ahead, Wait is it me? It's
two of them, Okay, I'll read the first one. High
lexp Andrena Cole. I love you guys show. I listen
to you guys at work all the time. So my
boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and
some change. He's a great guy, likes dates, flowers, the
whole nine. But we are in two separate places in life,

(01:26:37):
and it just makes me overthink like, is now the
time to be together or should we just wait? I
have my degree and working in my field, but he
is working a decent job that he doesn't really like
and just now starting to get his associate in the
field he likes. I have my own place. He still
loves at home just because it's cheaper.

Speaker 3 (01:26:55):
Am I tripping? Or should I just mine my business
and let it go? Damn?

Speaker 5 (01:26:59):
I wish you to say how old she was because
that makes a big difference too. Yeah, But I also
just feel.

Speaker 1 (01:27:05):
Like if you feel like y'all are in different places
in life and you're trying to focus on what you
have going on, and he definitely need to focus on
what he have going on. Respectfully because he still living home.
He do need to focus on what he have going on.
So I just feel like, just it's not no bad blood.
Y'all can still keep in touch, y'all can still be cool.

(01:27:26):
But I wouldn't just put all my eggs in that
one basket.

Speaker 3 (01:27:30):
That's my advice.

Speaker 5 (01:27:30):
Yeah, I agree, I think that you should. I think
a lot of times women, especially Black women, we feel
like we gotta hold people down and stay down and
do all this stuff. And I'm not saying don't do that,
but I'm saying it's okay to put yourself first and
be selfish sometimes.

Speaker 3 (01:27:43):
What makes you happy.

Speaker 5 (01:27:45):
If being with you truly makes you happy and that's
where you want to see and you want to stick
it out, do that. But if you're truly unhappy and
you feel like y'all are not aligning, it's okay to
let people go and let them go on their own journey.
If y'all are meant to be together, y'all will come back.
Let him go on his journey and you go on yours.
Everything happens for a reason. Don't force anything, you know
what I'm saying. Good luck, queen?

Speaker 1 (01:28:06):
Yes, all right, hey, bookies, First, off love y'all down,
found y'all last year and it really changed my life
so quick.

Speaker 3 (01:28:13):
A little backstory. I got a homegirl of five plus years.

Speaker 1 (01:28:17):
We got close around twenty eighteen because we were both
talking to these dudes who were friends. Mine ended up
being my baby daddy. Yes, we're still together. Lately, me
and her don't talk like we used to because every
time I been she always says stuff like, hey, move
on from him, you could do better, or take a
trip with me. Girl, I got a son, a house,

(01:28:37):
a car, and I'm in school. Relaxed then about work.
She does nails, which I fully support. But when I
told her I'm going to school to be a nurse,
she said, I'm distancing myself because I want to work
for white people instead of being an entrepreneur. Am I
wrong for falling back because it feels like I can't
talk to her without her judge.

Speaker 3 (01:28:55):
In my life.

Speaker 5 (01:28:56):
You are not wrong for falling back. Not everybody wants
to be an entrepreneur. And if we ain't got no
no who gonna do the CPRRA who gonna do the CPR?

Speaker 3 (01:29:04):
And the blood word.

Speaker 5 (01:29:06):
I just feel like when people this is okay, I
have a perfect example. When you are doing something great
in your life that you love and that you're happy about,
watch how the people closest to you react.

Speaker 3 (01:29:18):
Mm hm.

Speaker 5 (01:29:20):
Because a person who truly loves you and is happy
for you, they're gonna be like, I am so proud
of you because this is something that you wanted, versus being.

Speaker 2 (01:29:26):
Like, well.

Speaker 3 (01:29:29):
Is this are you?

Speaker 4 (01:29:32):
No?

Speaker 3 (01:29:33):
If you are happy about, you know, going to.

Speaker 5 (01:29:36):
Nursing school, being a nurse and doing that working in
the medical field, it should be met with nothing but
praises and love. Because being an entrepreneur is not easy
and it's not for everybody. I don't know why people
think being an entrepreneur is like this magical world where.

Speaker 3 (01:29:55):
You just wake up and you're a millionaire.

Speaker 5 (01:29:58):
Y'all know anybody can get an LLC for than fifty dollars, right,
People be talking about as I'm a CEO of this
and that business is making three dollars a year.

Speaker 3 (01:30:08):
Everybody, do we having CEO in a bio?

Speaker 5 (01:30:11):
You literally, once you sign up for an LLC, you're
technically a CEO, a CEO of a business that's pulling
in no revenue. So I think that people need to
stop judging their friends and support them. So no, you're
not wrong for falling back, because if every time I
tell you good news, it's met with negativity because you're
talking about she's a nailtach. Neil text make money if

(01:30:34):
you have a high end client tele that are paying.
But if you're just like and I'm not being shady,
but like, if you're just like.

Speaker 3 (01:30:42):
You know, a nel tech, I do be being shady.

Speaker 5 (01:30:44):
Sometimes you not know multi millionaire either cause let me
tell you something.

Speaker 3 (01:30:48):
I know nurses.

Speaker 5 (01:30:49):
I know way more nurses that are making more money
than nil texts if I'm being real, So you think
that you got bragging rights just because you work for yourself.
People love to throw out that independent ship. Sometimes being
independent it's not what you think it is.

Speaker 1 (01:31:04):
It's hard, and I just think you should do what's
bes for you. Everybody doesn't have ambition to be a
business owner. Some people don't mind working for people, and
there's plenty of people who work for large corporations and
work for the hospitals. People that are nurse practitioners are
ins and they make a lot of money, especially as

(01:31:25):
they continue to climb the latter and continue their education.
Like the options are living at least with that too,
because eventually, even if she did want to step out
and become an entrepreneur, you can start your own travel
nurse company, you can start your own.

Speaker 3 (01:31:42):
Home healthcare.

Speaker 1 (01:31:43):
Like, it's so many different things that you could do
as a nurse if you did want to tap into
the entrepreneurial roles. So, you know, people gotta stop being
closed minded. But either way, that'll come with time if
that's something that you want to do.

Speaker 5 (01:31:56):
Period, girl, you doing the right thing, and congratulations to
you and enjoy your job.

Speaker 3 (01:32:00):
I've been enjoy your life. Fuck that, huh? Until I
need a feel on my big jail. I don't all
right what else we got? Honestly, I know, y'all. Birthday, Yeah,
let's do it. Let's take a shot for my birthday.

Speaker 5 (01:32:17):
Why you make that?

Speaker 3 (01:32:18):
Why are you offer it to men? Say? Yeah?

Speaker 5 (01:32:21):
But I know y'all in the comments telling me happy birthday,
Thank y'all so much. This means a lot to me.
So I know y'all are gonna be in the comments like,
let's what you want birthday? What you want for your birthday?
This is what I want for my birthday. I want
y'all to go subscribe to love lex P. That's all
I want. I don't care if you don't even watch,
Just go subscribe so we can get them subscribers up.
I go live every Thursday. I stream, so even if

(01:32:43):
you don't want to watch the show, I stream every
Thursday at seven pm h YouTube dot Com, Backslash Love LEXP.
All I want for my birthday is a little subscribe.
Go subscribe on all my channels for my birthday, lex
P zero five on Snapchat, lex be on Facebook, all stuff.
I'm so blessed. I would not literally be here without

(01:33:04):
you guys, the poor crew. Thank you for supporting us.
This journey has been crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:33:10):
Damn.

Speaker 5 (01:33:10):
I can't believe we've been doing this shit for that.
It's so crazy that we're like the OG's in this
game now technically kind of, and the fact that I
still feel like we're just getting started. I just feel
like this at thirty six, is the most blessed birthday
I've had in a very long time. Like this is
probably the happiest I've been on a birthday in a
long time. Really, I had a great birthday in Miami.

(01:33:32):
What did we do last year for my birthday?

Speaker 3 (01:33:35):
It was kind of light? Oh no, I went to
New York for my birthday. Yeah I wasna.

Speaker 5 (01:33:39):
Yeah, I had a good birthday last year, but this
year just hits different. I feel like my friendships are
all doing so well. My sister's doing well, my nephews
are healthy. Business is going great. We've been making some mulai.

(01:34:00):
I have to change the name of the show Mone Babe,
Mine and Bab, but honestly possible without the poor crew.
Like seriously, I'm just saying, I really fuck with y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:34:16):
Like I talk about this on LOVELEXP a lot.

Speaker 5 (01:34:18):
Like sometimes I be feeling like damn, a lot of
people don't be understanding me. But it feels so good
to be in a lane and be doing something where
I found my people that understand me, that get me.
So at thirty six years old, I feel comfortable in
my skin. I feel good about myself. I feel good
about who I am, and I know like I know
my purpose in life now. I know my purpose in

(01:34:41):
life at thirty six, I know what I'm here to do.

Speaker 1 (01:34:43):
You gotta keep in mind, though, the people that are
meant to be your people, it's gonna get you with it,
gravitates towards.

Speaker 3 (01:34:50):
It, and they here they all in this room and
shout out to all of y'all.

Speaker 5 (01:34:55):
Ta awall, Craig, Kyla, Shay my knee, see pool, uh
D d love D not here, but shout out to
d GP GP two. You know what I'm saying, everybody,
everybody seriously that has made poor minds like poor minds
changed my life at at thirty six years old, I
can truly say without poor minds, I don't know where

(01:35:17):
I would be. But I found my people, and I
found my space, and I'm happy to be here and
my and my bitch.

Speaker 3 (01:35:26):
We just I was gonna say, dang, I ain't get playing.
I'm laying. I'm laying, I'm winning.

Speaker 5 (01:35:32):
But no, seriously, like wait, we're doing our big one
and I love you like we I love you. You
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:35:42):
If we locked in, ain't no switching up. Hoden cheer, Yeah,
shout out to uh PAS. I think of who song
he was and.

Speaker 5 (01:35:56):
We'll see y'all next week.

Speaker 2 (01:36:00):
Hello, Yeah, I don't we like that?

Speaker 4 (01:36:10):
Okay, just like Hollow Birth, Now the camera were gonna
say lungs, see birds everybody giving everybody. Shay said, I'm

(01:36:34):
not getting no camera. Okay, that's Okay, it's okay, okay.

Speaker 3 (01:36:39):
Let me keep myself right. Oh, I know exactly what
I'm wishing for you. I can make two wishes. Yeah,
but just keep it to yourself. I know that's what
I'm saying. I can make two wishes, right, Okay, thank you.

(01:37:05):
Happy birthday from Taylor Port and from Port.

Speaker 4 (01:37:14):
First.

Speaker 5 (01:37:16):
This song is dedicated to a younger met high school me.
To be proud of the thirty six year old woman
become get damn it.

Speaker 3 (01:37:31):
You know this is from a young queen.

Speaker 5 (01:37:34):
Sung me to sleep all the time.

Speaker 3 (01:37:36):
Hit that ship crab, Let me take my shoes off
you ready, dray.

Speaker 7 (01:37:42):
Hey.

Speaker 5 (01:37:43):
On a Monday, I'm.

Speaker 3 (01:37:45):
Waiting to Tuesday.

Speaker 5 (01:37:47):
I am petty, and by Wednesday I can sleep.

Speaker 2 (01:37:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:37:54):
Then the phone rings and I hear you, and the
darkness is a clear youw because you've come to rescue me.

Speaker 4 (01:38:06):
Foe with you.

Speaker 3 (01:38:07):
I fault so bad I can hardly catch my breath.

Speaker 2 (01:38:13):
I hope bless.

Speaker 8 (01:38:17):
Oh, it seems like I can finally rest my head
on something real.

Speaker 2 (01:38:25):
I like the way it feels.

Speaker 8 (01:38:28):
Oh, if you know me better than I ever know myself.

Speaker 3 (01:38:36):
I love how you can tell.

Speaker 6 (01:38:38):
Of the picture pieces pucires of me of the push Girls,
Breece Chirl, Pieces of Me?

Speaker 3 (01:38:49):
Are you moody? Messy? I can restless and say less.
You never seem to get when I'm angry. You live
saying make me happy. It's your mission and you won't
stop until I'm give me to They're not ready to

(01:39:11):
give it to him. Fall Sometimes I fall so bad
when I hit that bottom crash.

Speaker 2 (01:39:19):
You're all lies.

Speaker 8 (01:39:25):
It's like talking finlyris my head on something real.

Speaker 2 (01:39:31):
I like the way that feels. And if you know
me ptausn't I.

Speaker 3 (01:39:40):
Ever know myself?

Speaker 6 (01:39:42):
I like how you can tell on the pieces pieces,
pieces of me on the pieces piece, do you.

Speaker 3 (01:39:53):
Know everything I'm about to say? And my dad be
And if it's reading on my face, I hope he
never goes away.

Speaker 2 (01:40:09):
You I am waiting.

Speaker 3 (01:40:15):
If I tusday, I am fading.

Speaker 2 (01:40:18):
If you're so I can breathe. It's like I can.

Speaker 3 (01:40:28):
Finally wrist my head on something real.

Speaker 8 (01:40:32):
I like the way that feels, just if you know
me better than I ever knew myself.

Speaker 2 (01:40:43):
I love how you can sell on the present, thought
you can turn.

Speaker 6 (01:40:54):
I love how you can tell on the pieces, pieces
pieces of me.

Speaker 4 (01:41:02):
Other piece girls, A piece girl pieces of me.

Speaker 3 (01:41:09):
It's too dark. It's too dark. Yeah, oh that was good.
You can't try, we can, all right. We'll see y'all
next week. Happy birthday,

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