Velle's World FT. Lavelle Dontae

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
If you got it, you want them, you have to
give them that. Mm hmmm, we both we both got
the same.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Everybody just top Okay, I'm line.

Speaker 1 (00:14):
There's some people who would prefer to only be the's
some people who don't want to do that at all.
I'm willing to if, especially if I really really like you,
we get down here, we.

Speaker 3 (00:24):
Can put that thing down, flipping and reverse.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
Yeah, you do it to me at tomorrow. This could
be your night.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
So that means that you aren't into but that's.

Speaker 1 (00:35):
Not necessarily a role. I don't know. I feel like
but I feel like everybody the same. A part of
me feels like everybody has somebody that can make them gay.
Mm hmm, like everybody has somebody that could Like if
you meet the perfect person you come like you, I know,
I know you'll go gay like everybody.

Speaker 4 (01:18):
What's up, y'all, it's your girl lex p And it's
your girl Drea Nicole. You are tuned in to another
episode of Poor Mine.

Speaker 2 (01:27):
Where drunk mind speaks sober.

Speaker 4 (01:29):
We gotta guess today, we gotta guess saday. Now, if
you are anywhere on social media, you are going to
recognize this person. They are an entertainer, a content creator,
a comedian and everything above.

Speaker 2 (01:46):
A performer, the listener and on we have.

Speaker 1 (01:53):
How y'all doing? How y'all doing.

Speaker 2 (01:57):
Professional?

Speaker 1 (01:58):
It's because I'm dry. This is my military lab.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
That's right.

Speaker 3 (02:07):
Well, thank you for content invited me.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
I was like, finally from recognition.

Speaker 2 (02:13):
You know what I'm saying. But we had to recognize
you because you are hilarious, you think, so yeah, if
you keep me, I made myself laugh too, I know
that's right.

Speaker 3 (02:22):
Okay, I'm want to start from the beginning.

Speaker 4 (02:24):
Okay, So where are you from? Originally Jacksonville, Florida, Jacksonville,
and you still live in Jacksonville. So how did you
get started on TikTok?

Speaker 1 (02:31):
So? I'm in the military still. I was active duty
and I was stationed in Kansas, and I think like
during COVID, I was already making content for a while,
but I never thought of like, oh I want to
go out like. I was just thinking like I'm making
my friends laugh, even though I had like a small following.

(02:53):
I was like, oh, I'm just gonna make something funny,
like this is gonna So I would just do stuff
like skates and stuff. And then one of my friends
my friend a Quila. He was like, you need to
get a TikTok blah blah blah. So I made a TikTok.
I didn't know like how to use it, and like
my fifth when I made, got like two hundred and
fifty thousand view and I was like, I'm gonna start

(03:15):
dollar I rod. But that was that was way before
my recent wave of like growing blowing more. I just
had like a like one hundred to two hundred thousand followers,
and it was like that for like a while, like
it took a while for me to get that, and
then I decided like I needed to leave active duty.

(03:39):
I was like, I know, if I leave active duty
and I have more time to focus on content, that
I'm gonna go viral. Like I just told myself that
I believed it. And then that was like November of
twenty twenty two that I started that process and I
still had my old account, and then by June of
twenty twenty three, I signed my final paper I was

(04:02):
gonna leave to Jacksonville, and that was when I made
the first like check that phone video and all of
my stuff that week, the week that I was packing
my bags and finna leave every video I posted.

Speaker 3 (04:12):
What that's all right?

Speaker 1 (04:14):
Yeah, to do it?

Speaker 4 (04:16):
Yeah, because jumping out on a limb, especially do content creation.

Speaker 2 (04:21):
It's scary, scary, scary, scary.

Speaker 1 (04:24):
And I was thinking it was gonna take a long time,
like I wasn't planning on it being like the next day.
I was like, Okay, I'm gonna work hard. I'm gonna
I'm gonna keep posting till I get it right, till
I find you know, my niche. And it was literally
like just the most random thing, you know, it's crazy.
It was like the least effort content like that content
me with a book in my nose, like just me

(04:46):
act stupid and that's what everybody loves.

Speaker 2 (04:49):
Yeah, it's just you being yourself. And I feel like
what's even more scary than like creating content is performing live,
which you do a lot of live shows.

Speaker 1 (04:59):
How to so not okay. So shortly after that, I
went home. I was going by our stuff like that,
and a bunch of celebrities and creators like just was
following me. It was like crazy, like I'm like, oh
my gosh, she should go, Oh my gosh, chance, miss Celevan.

(05:20):
It was some of you who followed me and then
be some mom followed me and I love like. I
used to watch all her YouTube videos and stuff. And
I don't know if I DMed her first or if
she dm me, Like I think she responded to one
of my videos. I think I said I love her,
and then she sent me an audio message laughing like

(05:43):
she was laughing like about one of my videos, and
she was like laughing with her cousin. So then later
on I just went out on a limb and I
was like, can I call you, like, cause I just
wanted to talk to her because even like from the
time that I left Kansas to back to Jacksonville, Florida,

(06:03):
everything that I seen her go through and her YouTube
channel I went through, like my money was funny, I
did that?

Speaker 3 (06:12):
How was that?

Speaker 2 (06:14):
Did you have to deliver taco bell?

Speaker 1 (06:16):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (06:16):
I was so happy.

Speaker 1 (06:18):
I know, I drove when they had me drove and
I had to make it right on the dirt road.
I said, this is the last year I gave up.
But you know, it's crazy. Even though I was unemployed
social media that month, I made the same amount of
money I made in the military. I was like, oh,

(06:40):
but so I just wanted to talk to her. Because
I resonated so much with her journey of like growing.
Even though that happened like a little more rapidly, it
was like it mirrored what I witnessed her go through
on YouTube. So we were trying to call. She gave
me her phone number and we were just on FaceTime.
We were just laughing, like she was laughing and everything
that I said, and usually people just be I can

(07:01):
look at you like that.

Speaker 2 (07:04):
Was not that we was doing a little interest.

Speaker 1 (07:09):
She wanted to.

Speaker 2 (07:14):
It's the facial expressions. I think that when people can
make do comedy with their whole body, that's the taling
some people. I mean, it's easy to tell a joke,
but I feel like you can tell a story by
making the faces and.

Speaker 1 (07:30):
Okay, But so we was on the phone and we
did not like. I kept like I didn't want her
to hang up, so I just kept telling jokes like wait,
like I just well, I'm fin let me say and
she was like bye, boy was laughing. And then right
before she everything literally aligned. I moved back and she

(07:53):
came to Jacksonville to do a show, and I would
think we was talking about her show and like me
coming or something. I think I told her I bought tickets.
When he bought tickets, like like like I wouldn't let
you come in, But she said, you want to open
up for me? I was like, oh, because I've only
been posting like funny videos. Also, I was not playing

(08:14):
on being a comedian. Really, I can sing.

Speaker 2 (08:17):
I'm not sad.

Speaker 1 (08:19):
I was like, I wanted to drop some music. I
want to be an artist. But the video I'm like, okay,
well this is what people like, so and it was easy.
This is so easy to just like be funny. It's
so natural. So I'm like, okay, let me stick to
my funny stuff and then later on I'm gonna drop
the music like Jamie Foss.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
That's what trying to do.

Speaker 1 (08:38):
Is we're gonna do it. Y'all should do it, and
we're gonna blow y'all minds.

Speaker 2 (08:42):
I believe it. I'm gonna be front row.

Speaker 1 (08:46):
But okay, so she asked me to go to open
I said no because it was like, girl, come on now,
I just like I just moved back. I'm just being funny,
Like come on, I'm just posting videos. It's a different
ball game. But the next day it was just like
so heavy on my heart. I was like, I need
to do this. Like it was just the same feeling
of me like deciding to leave Kansas. It was that

(09:09):
same like thing. And I was like, Okay, well it's
now or never because she coming at the end of
the week. So I text her. I was like, can
I do it? And she was like yeah. And what's
crazy is even before then, it's what people telling me
that I need to be a comedian. So I would
like write jokes, so I would like be in the
shower and just like you know, when you're in the shower,
I come up with the best ideas. So I literally

(09:30):
would be like imagining like myself doing stand up and performing.
But I never like really took it seriously. So when
she offered it, I like thought of all of that
and I like wrote my set and I did four
shows with her. Wow, because it was two shows for
two nights.

Speaker 3 (09:46):
That's the first time you've done stand up?

Speaker 1 (09:48):
Yeah? And the first yeah. The first night I did
five minutes, but I felt so good the second time.
I was like, I said, got you ten minutes. She
was like yeah. But also a lot of people think
that I just came out of blue and like, oh
my gosh's talent just came out. I used to do
a lot of public speaking and speeches, and I was

(10:09):
a class president and I'm a meteorologist in the airporce,
so I had to speaking for large crowds period.

Speaker 2 (10:17):
Some meteorologies. He was smart.

Speaker 1 (10:19):
Look at me, he's hailing bits.

Speaker 2 (10:25):
I know.

Speaker 1 (10:26):
So it's like I used to like perform and stuff
when I was younger. I just like took a break
from it. So it kind of like just re emerged,
Like me doing that hurt giving me the opportunity. It
reminded me that I was a performer and I was
an entertainer. And then right after I did that, she
was like the first celebrity that I met, and it

(10:48):
was just so much, so fast, Like because I was
going to work, I was with my military stuff, I
was in school, I was taking my classes, doing my homework,
and then I would go drive to the set or
drive to the venue, go to the green room, rehearse,
and then performed like it was no moment for me
to even sit and be like, oh my gosh. I
talk to her like it was just snapstats snap, and
then once it was all over, I cried like I

(11:11):
was like, oh my gosh.

Speaker 4 (11:12):
I mean the fact that you did a show and
you did five minutes and then you went back and
was like, I'm ready for ten. I don't think people
realize how long that is and being on stage time, Yeah,
that shit is hard.

Speaker 1 (11:23):
It felt like I even for comedians like it take
a long time to master that. And then right after that,
So what got me back into comedy or got into comedy?
I posted video because I loved it so much. I
was like, how do I keep doing that up? I
just made it and I asked the people that follow
me and cousin Tiera, I'm I'm familiar.

Speaker 2 (11:45):
I don't know friends with my best friend Bilyn.

Speaker 1 (11:48):
Yeah, she DM me and connected me with my first
booking agent and he booked me a show. He was like, Oh,
we're goinna get your show. We've been have you? And
then as he booked the show, he was like, people
was in the comments saying, oh, we want you to
come to this city, this city in the comments like yep,
we're going on tour. That's before I even agreed, but
let's go. But we did like five cities. I sold

(12:11):
out everything and that's amazing. My first show I did
was in like Miami Dell and I felt a little unprepared.
It was funny because I'm just funny, but I was like,
I'm not prepared enough. So I did forty five minutes
and I read my emails forty five minutes nuts and

(12:32):
then the show I did after that was in Atlanta
and I did an hour on stage.

Speaker 4 (12:37):
Look, bitch, but this is what I'm so glad that
you're talking about this because this is what I tell people.
I think when you make that transition from social media
to real life, you're never going to lose because I
get being entertaining in front of these cameras, right, but
we see so many people come in this content creation

(13:01):
space and then it doesn't translate in real life and
they can't make a.

Speaker 3 (13:04):
Career out of it.

Speaker 4 (13:05):
One thing I know, baby me and Dre can sell
out some venues and we go out of y'all.

Speaker 2 (13:10):
Yeah, in real life it definitely gives this.

Speaker 4 (13:13):
So it's different the fact that you have made that
transition so quickly and you're still only like scratching the surface.
I can't wait to pull up this episod like yeah,
I'm like, yeah, I had him on.

Speaker 2 (13:24):
The shower and he's bringing me for his elbow. I'm sorry,
y'all's elbow our album you ray y'all elbow Okay, Okay,
I mean y'all hype man on sage you can. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (13:43):
I like that.

Speaker 2 (13:44):
She's gonna be like, hello, I know that's the right.

Speaker 4 (13:48):
Okay, I want to talk about Okay, you're still in Jacksonville.
I want to know why I'm in the military still,
so you have to like show up.

Speaker 1 (13:55):
And I'm in drill. Yes, it's you know, i'd be
doing way more to me, people know, but so monthly,
like we do have to commute there. My family's there,
and I was going for so long, like active duty,
just you know, you get taken away. There's a lot
of benefits on the military, but it's cons as well.
And I missed so much of my niece and nephew

(14:18):
nieces and nephew life. And I just like being like
in driving distance of my family because we grew up
so close. But within the last week I've been driving
so much far, like back and forth. I'm like, I'm
going to move to Atlanta. You should And the flights
are cheaper, yes, you know how much flights are out Jasonville.

(14:39):
They'd be like sixs already know flights comes to Atlanta,
like you know how Like you can get a last
minute flight out of Atlanta and it'd be like less
than a hundred dollars. Yeah, if you need to sometimes
sometimes depending on where you're going, if you going to
another big city is.

Speaker 4 (14:53):
Offensive now, So I can only imagine a hub like
Jacksonville that's not.

Speaker 1 (14:56):
A big it's not a big first, Yes, it'd be
like six seven hundred dollars.

Speaker 4 (15:02):
Well, y'all, I just got approved of my AX. So
I'm an AMEX host. I'm outside.

Speaker 1 (15:11):
We outside, Yeah, lounges.

Speaker 2 (15:14):
You know I'm gonna be in the lounges. Prove me?

Speaker 3 (15:17):
I said, like, dreui did me me? Y'all approved me?

Speaker 2 (15:21):
So I got your companion past because you know what
the so if you need to hop on somebody, oh yeah,
but no, I think that it's so crazy.

Speaker 4 (15:34):
I'll always tell people, if you are a black content creator,
you need to be in Atlanta. Everybody is out here,
and one thing I will say, we love to collaborate.
So it'd be so crazy when I hit people, I'm like, hey,
we need to have them on the show.

Speaker 2 (15:47):
That man.

Speaker 3 (15:47):
But like y'all don't live here.

Speaker 1 (15:48):
I agree and disagree.

Speaker 3 (15:50):
Why do you say that?

Speaker 1 (15:51):
Because I feel like wherever you are and whatever resources
that you have, you need to do everything that you
can to make your dreams go true there because you
can be put in a place where you have all
the resources, but you don't have that discipline or you
don't have the belief in yourself, you know, or the drive.
So even me being in Jasonville or me being in Kansas,

(16:12):
I wasn't in Kansas City. I was in Kansas So
it's like there, I still was pushing my stuff, making
content and learning different things because it's because I wanted it.

Speaker 3 (16:24):
It was in you.

Speaker 1 (16:25):
Yeah, So moving somewhere is not necessarily going to make you. Yeah,
it's not going to change the way you approach your dreams.

Speaker 2 (16:32):
I say, it's different.

Speaker 4 (16:34):
It's an area in the like have like a big
following if you already major strides in your city and
then you're trying to take that next step. Yeah, I
think if you're just starting, you can just start in
your city.

Speaker 1 (16:47):
There's benefits ye too. Yeah, But like I was able
to go because especially now we have the Internet, you
have the ability for everybody to access you and your
talents if you post it and if you're being consistent,
YEA trying to continue, Uh what say, elevate your and
not just be stagnant. Then like it can grow. Like

(17:08):
I'm proofing to put in. I was just but now
where you're at now I'm moving.

Speaker 2 (17:13):
Yeah, that's not I was gonna say. I mean, social
media has changed so much over the years. I think
when we were younger, when I made the decision to
move to Atlanta, we had to move out here. We
didn't have a choice, Like staying in Houston was not
going to help us get to where we were. Yeah,
that's where I'm from.

Speaker 3 (17:31):
I'm from Orange, I'm from.

Speaker 2 (17:33):
Even It's like two hours away from Houston and I live.

Speaker 1 (17:36):
Yeah, I feel like Texas is big. It is, but
I feel like, you know how they say Atlanta is
black Hollywood for sure, but it doesn't really give me
like the entertainment.

Speaker 2 (17:50):
It doesn't. And especially in twenty sixteen, anybody.

Speaker 1 (17:54):
If I do it, show there, come pull up.

Speaker 2 (17:57):
But you ain't wrong, You're not lying, Like especially back then,
like I said, twenty sixteen is when I moved to
Atlanta trying to get into media and entertainment. It just
wasn't a lot of space for that out there, and
we didn't have TikTok. Instagram wasn't what it is now,
So you had to make the move to Atlanta, La
New York if you really wanted to do something. You

(18:17):
made a really good point just now when you said, like,
if you live in a small city, you can still
create the content. As long as you have the drive.
It's gonna blow up. It's gonna go viral. People don't
care if you in fucking Tim Buoks. Two people gonna
still watch it.

Speaker 1 (18:30):
Literally, you just have to post it. There's so many
people that'd be like, oh, they're you trying to wait
for everything to be right. Yep, it's like you have
to post. Just do it, Just do it, Just put
yourself out there.

Speaker 4 (18:40):
So I want to talk about your transition into the
drag scene because you have really taken over and what
I do?

Speaker 2 (18:48):
You do your own makeup?

Speaker 1 (18:50):
Yes, thanks be, I know how to design okay.

Speaker 3 (18:54):
So you have a good hand. See you the resume.

Speaker 2 (18:58):
So how did you get in to make Are you
self taught?

Speaker 1 (19:01):
Did you say I got into make up because after
I came out, I wanted to make my family.

Speaker 2 (19:06):
Man came out you very I do think you have
to ask stuff you do.

Speaker 1 (19:13):
Okay, well, clearly these bitches.

Speaker 2 (19:22):
You might like to just play dress up.

Speaker 1 (19:24):
You know. I guess we're in Atlanta, you know, go ahead. Yeah.
So I came out after I left, and I don't know,
it was just something in me. I think also, so
much of me was a bottled up because I didn't

(19:46):
necessarily know that I was gay. I don't necessarily know.
I don't like when people say, oh, that person gay
or that person like you can sense it, you can
sense their queerness, but you didn't necessarily tell what made
them jump in their draw. You know. It's like, how
do I know? If I ain't never do that, I
was still a virgin.

Speaker 2 (20:02):
People was like you, I don't know, I don't know
what I like.

Speaker 1 (20:07):
Yes, so it's like okay, But I think it was
a part of me, Like I just was trying to
see like if my family was gone, yeah, how they
was gonna react. And I also just wanted to just
start doing more stuff. It was so much like queer
expression that I never was able to partake in because

(20:28):
of like the way I was raised and just like
religious values and stuff, and I had my own apartment.
I'm like, bitch, I'm right here. Yeah, we go to
old cha and I just like started drawing, like playing it,
I shadow and stuff. But I just watched YouTube videos
and I just kept doing anymore.

Speaker 4 (20:44):
That face beat, honey, I mean, because you're a handsome man,
but when you turn into that.

Speaker 2 (20:51):
What's your what's your drag name?

Speaker 1 (20:53):
My jag name is Italy, Italy.

Speaker 2 (20:56):
I love when they name the city I stripped one time.
My name was China. I went by past one time.

Speaker 3 (21:02):
Come over the world. I like Italy.

Speaker 1 (21:05):
I never my drag mom name is British.

Speaker 4 (21:08):
Okay, have a passport?

Speaker 3 (21:13):
See I didn't have my past port.

Speaker 2 (21:14):
Probably are you going you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (21:17):
I don't have mine. You don't have yours, Italy. I
need to get one. You need to get with me
being in the military and stuff like when I did
leave the country, your orders is all you need.

Speaker 3 (21:29):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (21:30):
So I was like, okay, well I need to get
a past but I'm in Germany.

Speaker 2 (21:32):
All right, I know that's right.

Speaker 3 (21:34):
Okay, that does make a big difference.

Speaker 4 (21:35):
So okay, So, but talk about your transition into the
drag war, Like, how.

Speaker 3 (21:39):
Have they've been accepting of you, how is that experienced
be because that's very different.

Speaker 1 (21:43):
That's so crazy, because my friend asked me that earlier today, Michelle,
it hasn't been bad. I feel like all of my experiences,
I'm very grateful, but they're a little bit more elevated
than normal because I have a following. Yeah, I don't

(22:04):
like that because I'm still a person. But you you know, people,
you kind of lose your humanity because you have a platform,
and people just treat you differently and treat you nicer
and kinder. So I may have missed some of the cattiness,
you know, because people are like, oh, I know him,
or they already know me.

Speaker 2 (22:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (22:20):
So I haven't really had like any bad experiences and
I so my transition into drag was not necessarily me
performing on stage. I did a pageant, Oh so I did.
I performed once the same the week that I did
a drag pageant. I had three shows that weekend, back
to back in three different cities. I was driving back

(22:41):
and forth for Miami to get my garment made. Then
I drove back to Jacksonville, drove the Alabama, did the show,
came home, stole my gown, stole my dressing, my friend.
The people came, I rehearsed with them and did the
pageant at night.

Speaker 2 (22:54):
That's right, and I want you one period. I've done
drag before. What have.

Speaker 3 (23:04):
I did do drags?

Speaker 4 (23:05):
So we have a show that just came out on
bt HER called Travel Queens. Yes, this episode drops, y'all
will have seen this episode. So we went to Key
West and we one of the nights we went to
a drag show and like they what was the name
of the club, Dre, I'm a little tipsy.

Speaker 2 (23:19):
I can't remember the name of the club.

Speaker 1 (23:21):
Watch the episode.

Speaker 4 (23:22):
Watched the episode, y'all. My god, it was a time.
So I was like, let me surprise dress. So I
went backstage. They had on this big week. I put
on my little leotar. My makeup already be looking like
drag makeup anyway, so they didn't have.

Speaker 1 (23:35):
To do that.

Speaker 4 (23:36):
Yeah, but it was And being a person who's been
on stage, it was so like intimidating because you have
to really like get your Beyonce like you got it
for horn see, because.

Speaker 1 (23:49):
It's well, I guess you. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (23:53):
I think entertainer by nature though it's in me.

Speaker 4 (23:56):
Yeah, I was horrified. I've been on two Solda tours
before I've.

Speaker 2 (24:01):
Done it all.

Speaker 1 (24:01):
I love being on stage.

Speaker 2 (24:03):
I get horrified everything.

Speaker 1 (24:04):
And they're giving out money yet of us.

Speaker 2 (24:08):
That's a motivation.

Speaker 3 (24:11):
Almost turned into Paris.

Speaker 1 (24:16):
I think the reason why I like be so comfortable
performing is because I know everybody who's coming to see
me wants to have a good time. Like my audience,
like the women that follow me is because my main
demographic is black women. It's like, I know they think
I'm funny. They don't not with no bullshit. They're not
with the men trying them for real, because that's what

(24:38):
I stand for. So yeah, I like just being around now.
It's like I'm with my friends, my homegirls.

Speaker 2 (24:45):
I feel you on that because I be feeling the
same way when we go on tour. When we perform,
I'm never really that nervous because I feel like the
people who paid their money to come see me want
to have a good time for us. They're the last
as long as we show up and we be ourselves
because they're used to watching us on the show, so
they already know what to expect. As long as we
be ourselves, we gonna have a good time, and he's

(25:06):
gonna be lead, so I'll be nervous, Yeah, nervous. I'll
be losing my mind before I go. I you know
what it is.

Speaker 4 (25:16):
I think it's because I have such a personality, but
I'm very introverted, so I always feel like I just
want to make sure I'm everything that they expected me
to be, you know what I mean, Like I want
to show up for them, So I just be nervous
every time.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
But you are enough. And you know what I did
to make me like this is like a random side though,
to make me very very comfortable with who I am.
When I first started making my content, I stopped using filters.
I just like, that's why a lot of my content
I would just wake up and just put the camera on. Yeah,
because I would just force myself to be my most

(25:52):
authentic stelf on the platform. So it's like, I know
they like me. Yeah, they like this the video. This
video went about and it's cresting.

Speaker 4 (25:59):
My eyes literally, And that's a good point that you
made because I got that way, Like.

Speaker 3 (26:03):
I'll still use a filter every now.

Speaker 1 (26:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (26:04):
Yeah, but at the end of the day, every Friday,
when poor minds dropped, y'all, don't feel me, y'all, gonna
see me with no filtering force.

Speaker 1 (26:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (26:12):
That's why when I have another show called Love lexp
I do, I was no makeup.

Speaker 3 (26:16):
Sometimes I just it and it's that episode.

Speaker 1 (26:19):
If they don't like you whatever, right, there's people that's
gonna like you. It's strangers that better than people you know,
right right right, and you in your most authentic form.
So it's like, who cares?

Speaker 2 (26:30):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (26:32):
I'm interested to see how our next tour is gonna go.
I don't know if I'm gonna be nervous on stage.
We ain't been on stage on our own time.

Speaker 2 (26:37):
We haven't. I feel like you'll feel more comfortable though,
because at this point, I feel like you'll be used
to it. You'll be more used to it. And I
always tell you you're hilarious. Just be yourself and people.
I feel like when you put that pressure on yourself
a lot of the time, then you can't be authentically
funny because you're putting the pressure on yourself to be funny,
so you're not being naturally who you are. So I

(26:59):
do have a question, and have you always been like
the funny friend, the funny family member?

Speaker 1 (27:03):
That's why you know, it's crazy. I used to think
like everybody that I knew was goofy, y'all always laughing.
Everybody know. But I was like, oh my gosh, I'm
just I'm just hilarious. It's just me because everybody that
I know, every experience that I have, like work, like
when I was deployed, when I was it's another thing

(27:24):
called NTC where you're like out in the desert, like
you're training.

Speaker 3 (27:28):
Oh my gosh, sare you're a hardcore.

Speaker 1 (27:30):
Not necessarily I'm a meteorologist. I'm an Air Force Okay, okay,
chair for us, that's what they call it. But still,
it's like so many settings, whether they're good or bad,
whether we're stressed, whether we're tired, everybody that I'm always laughing,
like it's always a good time.

Speaker 2 (27:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (27:45):
I do love that about me, Like I always am
like I'm never really in a bad spirit.

Speaker 4 (27:51):
Yeah that's good because you know what's crazy, it's usually
like people always say, like the funny person in the
group is the person that's always like that has the
most hardships, And I bring that energy around to make
everybody feel good, but usually they're like left empty.

Speaker 1 (28:05):
I do be going through it. You know, because I'd
be thinking about the world like I'm like, oh my gosh,
there's so much stuff happening. Yes, I feel stuff hard
and i feel like I'm a little bit of a profit.

Speaker 2 (28:19):
Like I'll be like, yeah, so that's what they say
in the comments.

Speaker 1 (28:23):
That's what I probably like my videos, even though my
video is funny, Like, it's so many people that feel
so connected to the stuff that I've been saying, and
they be Like when I first was doing my stuff
about like infidelity, even though it's like jokes and stuff,
it was people mentioned me like you're spot on, and
I just ended my engagement. Oh my god. But even

(28:43):
like when I'm like one on one on people, sometimes
I'll be talking to them and they'll be like I
need to hear that. Yeah, of course you did.

Speaker 2 (28:51):
I'm telling you what I think people.

Speaker 1 (28:56):
Science, I'm a speaking of the.

Speaker 4 (29:05):
All right, we're gonna get into our first topic.

Speaker 2 (29:07):
Well, no, we gotta ask drink. I'm a leo.

Speaker 4 (29:10):
I'm August seventeenth, birthday August twenty six. Yes, like I'm
on the cussin. Oh that was my dad's birthday, really,
and my dad passed away in twenty twenty.

Speaker 2 (29:19):
But that was his birthday, marshall. Let's him my mom
right there. But he died. He died in August of
twenty twenty, actually like a few weeks before his birthday.
But his birthday is August twenty sex. That's so rd
that is wild. I need me a shot now time. Okay,
come on, washa, And speaking of time, what are we

(29:43):
drinking today?

Speaker 4 (29:45):
This is tasty, all right, So just like him, this
is cute, this is sexy, This gives entertainment.

Speaker 2 (29:52):
Okay, this is villa vella rita all right.

Speaker 4 (29:56):
So we have some tequila, we have some muddled strap berries,
muddled mint. We have some mint mohito syrup and a
little bit aligned juice, so it's a given mohido. And
then we topped it off with a guava sparkling water.
We garnish it with a beautiful strawberry and some fresh mint.
So this is the lavella rita. This is really's delicious.

(30:16):
That strawberry is fresh. Yes, I love me a little
muddled me. I ain't gonna muddlely, but I love it.

Speaker 2 (30:26):
I have a weak okay.

Speaker 4 (30:32):
One okay, So for the first one, we are going
to play a little game called delusional or delivered.

Speaker 3 (30:39):
Okay, so we're.

Speaker 4 (30:41):
Gonna take turns reading off a list of delusions. You'll
say whether it's delusional, but do you kind of still
key believe.

Speaker 3 (30:47):
It or it's delivered?

Speaker 4 (30:49):
You let that ligo, you know what I'm saying. So
is this delusional or delivered? For example, he just needs
time to grow into the man I deserve. Do you
think that's a delusional belief or you've been delivered from believing?

Speaker 1 (31:02):
Ship like that? Me?

Speaker 4 (31:04):
Both of y'all delusion.

Speaker 1 (31:08):
I feel like people are who they are and you
can't be He got potential, he's a good man's avanna. No,
hell no, this is who they are. This is the reality.
This I agree, literally in front of you. He ain't sure,
he don't got no job. His fingernails dirty.

Speaker 2 (31:25):
And I heard it dirty because why because if you're
taking a bath every day, that water is gonna trickle
through them nails. If you even first of all making
sure if you rinse.

Speaker 4 (31:39):
Your dishes before you put them in the dishwasher, that'll
clean your nails. So now I know you got dirty
dishes in your sink. If your nails are dirty, I
just know you dirt.

Speaker 2 (31:46):
You don't wash your hand you don't wash your hands.

Speaker 1 (31:49):
You don't even think to say, oh, let me. You
know you don't give a damn out nothing.

Speaker 4 (31:54):
You know if I start dirt under your nails, I
know you don't give a damn You.

Speaker 1 (31:58):
Don't get your drawers fristy, all up in there, all
type of when all week, crusty and you're playing the
damn game all day. Wait, delusions.

Speaker 2 (32:11):
I think the next.

Speaker 4 (32:13):
Question, y'all don't think he said, y'all don't think people
can change.

Speaker 2 (32:18):
Though I do.

Speaker 1 (32:19):
Yeah, well, you change your own time and hit me
up when you're ready.

Speaker 2 (32:22):
I think people have on the cord.

Speaker 1 (32:24):
Yeah, yes, I don't feel like women should be waiting
on the sidelines for a man to get ready. Because
it's it's eight being people in the world. That mean
it's about four billion niggas ready ready to rumble.

Speaker 4 (32:35):
Mm hmmm, ready, four million niggas are ready to rumble,
right billions.

Speaker 1 (32:40):
We know some of them kids. I don't know the
exact number, but you know it's plenty of motherfuckers that
speak Spanish German all around the world that's ready.

Speaker 3 (32:52):
Yeah, I feel you on that.

Speaker 4 (32:54):
I'll be you know I used to be that girl
that would be like stuck. I'll just be ready to
embrace things. I just feel like in this season, I man,
I'm just like, I'm that girl and I be happy
for you.

Speaker 1 (33:05):
Are you know what I'm saying? You should feel like
you're that girl. If you're watching you that girl. Amen,
you might be let your nails dirty.

Speaker 3 (33:15):
Okay, what's next?

Speaker 2 (33:17):
Okay? I can fix him with love and loyalty.

Speaker 1 (33:20):
Delusion, delusion, delusion, that's definitely delusion because he's just gonna
feel like he the ship. Yeah when he ain't ship.

Speaker 2 (33:27):
I gonna feel like you just gonna stay.

Speaker 1 (33:29):
Yeah, you're doing all this ship, but belie, you shouldn't
be doing all that ship. But I ain't shit. He
don't even deserve all the love and loydy you holding
it down for a mother's looking at that day, paying
for your nails get done? Because why, yail, you're a clown.

Speaker 2 (33:43):
Clown.

Speaker 4 (33:43):
I think that the more you love a man that's
not valuing you, the worse he can actually get because
you are enabling his behavior.

Speaker 3 (33:53):
It's like, it's okay because.

Speaker 4 (33:54):
Deep down you know, and he he knows that he
ain't shit.

Speaker 1 (33:57):
You know, he don't know because you're making him delusion
you valuing a man with no value? Are you kidding me?
Let him know the truth. Y'all need to start being
obvious with the Yeah, I agree. Let him at what
you did today. You don't got no hobbies, you don't
got no goals.

Speaker 2 (34:17):
You been what you did today? He ain't did ship.
I don't fuck him up? Real what with your time?
You know what? It's called something?

Speaker 3 (34:26):
They said.

Speaker 4 (34:27):
I can't think of the name of it, but they said,
that's something that people do, like somebody calls them and
they haven't been doing anything all day and they try
to act like they're doing something. Well, yeah, lying, but
there's an actual name for it. Because people feel like
bad when people try to make them realize, like, you
haven't been productive today. And I'm not saying that you
have to be productive every day. We need a break,

(34:49):
but to be doing nothing all day every day, that's
a nigga what he's doing.

Speaker 1 (34:53):
But a lot of people feel that. Side note, I
feel like a lot of y'all be confusing relaxation with lazy.

Speaker 2 (35:01):
Come on now, because you need a break?

Speaker 1 (35:03):
Is how long have a nap you're gonna take?

Speaker 2 (35:06):
Because why you need a nap when you.

Speaker 1 (35:08):
Episode is the Netflix. You're gonna watch It's time to
get up and get for that.

Speaker 3 (35:12):
Let's go.

Speaker 2 (35:13):
Netflix should be your break. You should watch two episodes.

Speaker 1 (35:16):
Time that break. You're gonna take a nap seat of
the liarne you wake up in the next. Oh, ship,
it's time for me to get ready for bed.

Speaker 2 (35:25):
I gotta get ready, getting ready for bed, and you
been in bed. You ain't got to get ready for ship.
I guess.

Speaker 4 (35:33):
If they do that because we see the nails in
the draw. See, Okay, if I don't chase it, it
means I don't want it enough.

Speaker 2 (35:43):
Delusional?

Speaker 3 (35:44):
You think that's delusion?

Speaker 1 (35:45):
No, no, wait, what.

Speaker 2 (35:47):
If I don't chase it? You either say delusional or delivered?

Speaker 1 (35:52):
Yes, deliver, deliver. Yeah. I guess like you believe that. Yeah,
if you know if you ain't chasing your on it, yeah,
I think and nothing coming out of the sky.

Speaker 2 (36:01):
I think that applies to everything except for people, because
I feel like you shouldn't chase people. You should let
people be who they are. Oh, you need something that's
not working out, let it go. But when it comes
to everything else, when it comes to your goals, when
it comes to the things you want out of life, Yeah,
for sure. If you're not chasing it, you don't want
it to move.

Speaker 1 (36:19):
I agree, but because you can want something like a
person and try your hardest, But if you are trying
your hardest, that might not be the people that you
need your life. So you might get it. But it's like,
is this compatible, which is when it comes to like
your dreams, your goals. If you're not putting all the
effort into making it happen, how do you expect it happen?

(36:41):
Like the door is not going to lock themselves.

Speaker 4 (36:42):
I don't believe you're crely chasing a person. But I
think if you and a person are chasing a goal together,
like we've been in this rough patch, let's get back
to being good, I think that should be something done together,
for sure.

Speaker 3 (36:53):
So I think that's the way you can do it.

Speaker 4 (36:56):
But as far as dreams go, I don't have no
sympathy for lazy people. When it comes to work wherever,
I don't care if you have a nine to five,
if you're a manager, or if you work at Taco
Bell contret I don't care. If you want something and
you want to move up in the world.

Speaker 3 (37:14):
You have to work hard.

Speaker 1 (37:17):
I do, though you do what have sympathy, I mean,
because it takes a lot to you know, you got
to overcome like that barrier. Oh yeah, we was all
in that space where it's like, I'm not sure if
this is gonna happen for me, right, and we were
blessed enough to like take a leap of faith and

(37:38):
start seeing the fruits of our labors or at least
like just have an extra little boost of confidence. But
the people with less confidence may never be able to
escape the the reality that they live and see more
for themselves.

Speaker 2 (37:53):
Right. I agree with you.

Speaker 4 (37:54):
But the reason I say that is because we see
that hard work beat talent. It's so many people that
are on TikTok, are on tours, are in movies, and
people be like, oh they suck, but they work their
ass off, and you at home talking about how good
you can sing, how good.

Speaker 2 (38:10):
You can dance. But you at home because you don't
want to get up what we were saying earlier, put
out the content.

Speaker 4 (38:14):
Put out the content posts because this person was brave
enough to post.

Speaker 2 (38:18):
So that's my saying.

Speaker 4 (38:19):
I get like having sympathy, but I guess being in
this space now and even when I have my nine
defiles I always got upgraded, even when me and Dre
Bad we were both bartenders at a bar literally two
weeks of working there that asked me to be a manager.
Because that's how I am in every single space i'm in.
I'm gonna go super hard because I always want to
be like, oh yeah, let's ask you know what I'm saying.

(38:40):
So I guess when it comes to like hard work
and chasing something, I've always chased everything I've wanted as
far as like.

Speaker 1 (38:47):
Career wise, but that's because you've always had your calling.
Like even now, like you you're living in maybe a
reality that you didn't imagine for yourself, right, And there's
not a lot of people who would chase something that
they can't see. So it's like why would I put
in the effort? Why would I do that? So it's
like you do have to do the work to dismantle

(39:11):
that thought process, but it's so much put against our
community that will make people like that's no, there's no
way that that's going to happen for me, Like that's
not tangible or they see us as other. I always
tell people I'm no different from you. I'm just pushing myself.
I'm just I'm chasing something that we may have not seen.

(39:31):
I know my career may be something that nobody has
ever seen before. But it's like I'm just trying. I'm
doing things outside of my element. So it just takes
that and I don't know what it's going to be
needed for people to snap out of the minimal vision
that they see because it's so much more. I feel

(39:53):
like people don't know that, like how outrageous and how
abundant God's power is because they just see the cap
they think like, this is the most that's gonna happen.
And I don't think it's enough for everybody. Think it's
somebody else in your neighborhood that did it. It's like, oh,
they must be the one lucky person. You could do
it too.

Speaker 4 (40:12):
Literally, it's enough room for everybody, y'all know that's my
favorite saying. Just because it's a Chipotle right now, that
don't mean they're gonna not build that McDonald's across the cub.

Speaker 2 (40:19):
So maybe it's delusion, because I always say that a
healthy amount of delusion is good for you.

Speaker 1 (40:25):
But I don't know if it's delusion or faith. I'm
not delusional, y'a.

Speaker 2 (40:30):
Don't think you're delusion on a little bit. I think
you have to be a little delusional to step out
on faith and like you said earlier, see something that
other people can't see, Like I believe in myself enough
to make this shit happen, and I know it's gonna happen,
even if all these people around me are doubting me.
It's faith too. If you're a believer, for sure, you
know God is the higher power. He's the reason for everything.

(40:52):
We couldn't get to the spaces and places that we're
into without him, for sure, But you still have to
have a certain life of delusion and belief in self
to end up becoming successful. And people like.

Speaker 1 (41:07):
It's like such an unwavering, like unquestionable feeling of success
to me, Like I get what you're saying. And it's
also like I don't necessarily put that burden or responsibility
on myself because I know that there's something else that's
driving me, that's open doors, that's leading me. Like there's

(41:29):
no reason for me to be like trying to convince
myself that I'm good enough because he is.

Speaker 2 (41:35):
Come on, now about to get the shirt he was
raising shirt?

Speaker 4 (41:41):
Hold on, now, I do please read this next one
because I actually had this conversation with my friend yesterday.

Speaker 2 (41:51):
Oh yeah, this is a good one. The questions, he ready,
it's the ba. We got this, and then we got
one off topic.

Speaker 4 (41:58):
We gonna get We're gonna get the nasty time.

Speaker 1 (42:03):
Calm down because I never talk about this type of stuff,
like that's all.

Speaker 2 (42:06):
We getting nasty now, Okay, I read this. Okay, once
I hit insert goal, I'll finally be happy. Delusion once
I hit insert goal, whatever your goal, Maybe I'll finally
be happy once I hit this goal, I'll finally be happy.

(42:28):
I think that's delusion because you only can be happy
when you make the choice to be happy. Happiness is
the choice. No certain level that you arrived at in
life is gonna make you happy, because if you're not
happy internally and you're not happy with self, it doesn't
matter how much money you have in the bank, it
doesn't matter what you got going on, you still never
going to be happy with your life. You're gonna always

(42:49):
find something wrong.

Speaker 4 (42:50):
I agree one thousand percent because it was crazy because
I was talking to my friend the other day and
I was just like, I made another goal for myself
of like what I want to do. And I was
just like, and once I reach this goal, I know,
like I can feel like I did something and I'm
there and I'm like, she was like, you're lying. Yeah,
she was like you just have this conversation. You were like, oh,
once me and dre get on TV, I'll feel like

(43:12):
I did it and I made it. And she was
like a look at you. You still talking about oh
once I do this, once I do that. So I
want hundred percent agree, Like sometimes you have to stop
and be like, look how far I came, and you
got to just stop and clap for yourself and be
happy in this moment because the moment that we're living
right now is the moment that we used to fight
for and be like, God, if you just get me
in front of some cameras or make me have this

(43:33):
and make me have that, I will be happy. And
it's like we get that, and it's just like, oh,
this is nothing, this is normal.

Speaker 1 (43:38):
Yes, you have to be like so grateful for everything.
I remember like just learning that even like when I
prayus come on, but I remember when I just like
shifted my prayer from just asking God for stuff for
being thankful like I would just pray me like, thank you,
thank for this even my bad experiences, like thank you

(43:59):
for showing me how strong I'm thinking from me that
I can endure this. And a lot of people are
always so focused on the next stage of their life,
like oh, like this is not enough. I'm ready for
the next level. I'm ready for what's here's here, and
you're not even looking around at every all of your blessings.
I've been taking my biology to classes just ended. Come

(44:19):
on now, and.

Speaker 3 (44:22):
You is small?

Speaker 4 (44:24):
I like that, and you know the weather that's that's
a black king right now.

Speaker 1 (44:30):
Listen. Okay. My teacher was telling me how and I
don't know if I'm saying this correct, but he was saying,
one American even at like the like low income, uses
enough resources for thirty two people in Kenya.

Speaker 4 (44:46):
Oh my god, And that's crazy. That's crazy. I know
me alone, I can probably eat six cans of beans
by myself.

Speaker 1 (44:55):
But I'm like they eat like rice and beans saying
well me, I ain't trying to say like, oh y'all
ain't got no money or nothing like that. No, but
it's just like there's people who are so like lower
privileged and you're not even considering how blessed you are
because you think about the next day and like, Okay,
well I need this because only this will make me happy.

(45:17):
And it's like, well, you're not. If you're not grateful
for what you have, now, why would I give you
anything more?

Speaker 2 (45:22):
Would I increase? Why would I give.

Speaker 1 (45:24):
You any You don't even know what you have? You
have money, your account, you got to have, you got apartment,
you eating every day, and you ain't even saying thank
you for that?

Speaker 3 (45:32):
And that's true.

Speaker 2 (45:33):
What do you think it is though? What do y'all
think it is about us as humans? Just no matter
what we accomplish, no matter that gold that we check
off that we say, oh my god, I can't wait
to do this, and then once I do it, you
I feel I'm feel like I've arrived. And then we
get it and then we're just like, Okay, this is cool.
On to the next thing, like why can we never
be content? Because the Bible talks about being content and

(45:56):
I feel like that's something I struggle with because I'm
never contented. I just always want more.

Speaker 1 (46:01):
I never feel like greed. You think, so maybe that's
the thing, like we it's all you know coming after
all of us.

Speaker 2 (46:11):
It's capitalism. If we didn't live here, it's we didn't
live here in America country.

Speaker 4 (46:21):
I'm telling you, it's an American thing. I'm telling you
that is exactly what. Don't get me getting a woke now,
but I think that is something that is in American people.

Speaker 2 (46:35):
I mean, she right though, capitalism the white man. We
didn't have this feeling before that.

Speaker 1 (46:43):
I'm in the Air Force and none of her political
statements have anything to do.

Speaker 2 (46:46):
I'm sorry, we're gonna.

Speaker 1 (46:49):
Put that on there yet, bad because I get to
get mad, but when I get out exactly as Yeah, Wenna.

Speaker 4 (47:09):
I'm gonna put you on that, all right, dragon, go ahead,
what topic too?

Speaker 2 (47:13):
Now? Okay, So for topic number two, I wanted to
talk about what's your villain origin story? Because I feel
we all the villain in somebody's story, no matter how
good of a person. Everybody try to paint themselves out
to be and somebody out there that's going to have
a whole different perspective of you and gonna be like, no,

(47:36):
in my story, they need some whole ass sheep. He
is not a Lavella's not a real nigga. He's lying.

Speaker 1 (47:42):
I ain't nobody gonna say that, not one part.

Speaker 2 (47:45):
Of writing a fraud. He is not who he say
he is. I mean they gonna say that about me too.
I'm just saying, you know, it's somebody out there that
has a different story to tell other than what we
think about ourselves, than who we think we are. So
I think we all are dealing in somebody's story. What
whatd y'all say is y'all villaging villaging villain origin story?
What's the pitiest thing that's changed your personality forever that

(48:08):
made you have a breaking point in the turning point
in your life?

Speaker 1 (48:12):
Say I said, I think being a gay black man
in the South, because you have to navigate the world
so differently, Like there's so much times where you have
to turn who you are on and off. And it's
already enough for me to turn down my blackness in

(48:35):
order for me to be safe and feel comfortable. But
for me too, like every all that who I am,
all of my personality, my character is bottled up. That
that's a part of me that was never showcased up
until I was like eighteen nineteen. So now I am
very like if you make me uncomfortable, I'm cutting you

(48:56):
off like you are. Maybe I need a therapist. I
do that. But it's like when you sacrifice you're just
who you are for the world, for the acceptance of
the people around you, and you hear them talking about
the community that you know that you're in, like digging

(49:19):
the booty like you know, but you hear that a lot.
And I'm at a point now.

Speaker 3 (49:29):
You we talked about and we're getting nasty.

Speaker 1 (49:31):
Get ready, I get it now because like just traditions
just it's just saying like, hey, it's taught. But when
so much hate comes to you, it comes to a
breaking point. And a lot of people, you know, they
take the measures that I wish nobody does. But sometimes

(49:52):
it's like, you know what, I'm not letting nobody else
drive me. Yeah, And that's how I am. Like when
people may be uncomfortable.

Speaker 2 (49:59):
If you a little bee thing you cut them off,
probably he's a bitch.

Speaker 1 (50:04):
He just even like I don't be trying to be mean.
That's another thing I think my like when I I
carry that on me so much. If I do a
meet and greet like after my shows and stuff, I
still don't let nobody make me uncomfortable and not trying
to be rude, but I ended up being somewhat like
hold on, I don't like doing that. But it's like

(50:27):
I'm a person and a lot of people there, or
even if I'm in public the grocery store and you
come to me with a flash on, I'm a human
being camera, Hello, hire you what's your name? Because I
don't know what's going on and I'm from Jacksonville, Florida.

Speaker 3 (50:43):
Y'all get scrappy.

Speaker 4 (50:44):
I got my ship in my trunt because we went
to Jacksonville.

Speaker 3 (50:48):
You remember we hosted that party.

Speaker 2 (50:49):
No, we had and I had a ball, I had
a grow side.

Speaker 1 (50:54):
I was.

Speaker 2 (50:55):
It was fun.

Speaker 1 (50:55):
It was fun, but it's dangerous. That's another thing. Well,
the water though, the metal like.

Speaker 4 (51:04):
Exactly, no, it didn't make no goddamn whose my body was?

Speaker 1 (51:09):
It's a lot going on, Like that's another thing, like
growing up in the hood, Like it's just so much different.

Speaker 3 (51:13):
Things made me like I know all about Jacksonville.

Speaker 4 (51:17):
So I had this era in my life where I
was like so interested in like gang drama. There was
so much on Jacksonville. It was so interesting. I said,
y'all get dirty. Y'all have a lot of rappers out there,
it's a lot of rappers, And I said, this is Missy.

Speaker 1 (51:35):
There's a lot of rappers and they had locks. Yes,
the globes, globs.

Speaker 2 (51:41):
That sounds so disrespectful.

Speaker 1 (51:44):
You know what, I'm not going to say the words white.
They little person, little people.

Speaker 3 (51:55):
I think that's that you.

Speaker 1 (51:57):
Call them little people. You're not going to say that
word that rhymes.

Speaker 2 (52:01):
With Oh, we're not supposed to say that. Yes, it's
hard to keep up laville.

Speaker 1 (52:12):
Well, I'm keeping y'all up the day. I'm keeping y'all up.
And if y'all slip up and say the F word
on here.

Speaker 3 (52:19):
Oh, I don't say that.

Speaker 2 (52:20):
Oh, we don't even use that.

Speaker 1 (52:23):
We don't use that word.

Speaker 2 (52:24):
That's not.

Speaker 1 (52:29):
We're in Atlanta. There their allies, we are. They have
a drag queen on this show. It's starring and beats featuring.
But no, no, but that sounds that sounds like I
feel like dwarf.

Speaker 2 (52:43):
Is sounds like professional Dwarf, like dwarfs. Dwarf sounds unseerious.
Taking a seven snow white I do because that's how
I got interested.

Speaker 1 (52:53):
That sounds like that's not like magic and mythical. They
need a professional name.

Speaker 3 (53:01):
She's going down.

Speaker 2 (53:02):
We need to cut all the she's going down on her.

Speaker 1 (53:04):
Oh no, no, no, I get what you're saying. It
sounds magical and they're not magic, but they're not. They're
not magical.

Speaker 2 (53:11):
They're not magical.

Speaker 1 (53:12):
That's not funny.

Speaker 2 (53:13):
They not. I'm not laughing.

Speaker 1 (53:15):
They laughing behind the screen.

Speaker 2 (53:18):
Dowarfism is the proper word, because like.

Speaker 1 (53:23):
They need a scientific word that's not dwarfs don't sound
like why because they put it in Disney movie. It's
like they playing. They need to put it in like
a serious electrician word. I have electricity.

Speaker 2 (53:43):
No, that's all you got, electrocuty.

Speaker 4 (53:46):
I always think of what's his name from Game of Thrones, Tearing,
that's what I think.

Speaker 2 (53:51):
That's what he says.

Speaker 3 (53:53):
It's like Dowfism, and I think it sounds professional.

Speaker 2 (53:55):
I think that man that used to play in the day,
the men that play Leper, Now it was a black man.

Speaker 1 (54:03):
Did he passed away?

Speaker 2 (54:04):
Now it was another man? But he used to be
on the park. He was in everything.

Speaker 1 (54:11):
What movie was he?

Speaker 2 (54:13):
I can't remember his name and I think.

Speaker 1 (54:15):
He was passed away bad Center?

Speaker 2 (54:18):
Yes, what was his name? I don't know. I can't
remember his name. Damn RP to him, he didn't pass away.
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (54:26):
Wow, I don't know that he can't.

Speaker 2 (54:29):
I don't think you could pass away small it's not cancer. Well,
you know sometimes this week to cut these know, I
think sometimes the only reason.

Speaker 4 (54:40):
I asked because you know, like you know, if you
have like a small heart lavelle like me.

Speaker 2 (54:45):
He's trying to lie.

Speaker 1 (54:51):
Let me make sure it's the right man though, somebody
little die.

Speaker 2 (54:55):
Somebody looked it was Gary.

Speaker 4 (54:56):
Called me, Oh, yes, you ain't gonna thought he tell me?
Now that is him, This is him, This is who
I was talking about. Gary paid.

Speaker 2 (55:10):
No, he's alive. Gary Coleman died a long time.

Speaker 1 (55:15):
We're not mixing them up. Okay, no, we're not.

Speaker 3 (55:18):
We because dofism people do?

Speaker 2 (55:21):
Who do Gary? Gary Coleman not?

Speaker 3 (55:24):
I think Gary Coleman had dowarfism.

Speaker 1 (55:27):
He did.

Speaker 2 (55:29):
I know that then why he didn't he he did grow?

Speaker 4 (55:33):
Because what you're talking about Williams versus grown Gary Coleman
is two different sizes.

Speaker 2 (55:39):
But he did, are you right? N Let's okay. No,
So to circle back though to what origin story, the
circle back to what level was just talking about as
far as like and this is sidebar because this has
nothing to do with a billy billion or why can't
get build an origin story out? He didn't have it?
Who didn't know?

Speaker 3 (55:58):
He was loved, but he didn't have it.

Speaker 2 (56:00):
Maybe his parents was both.

Speaker 1 (56:01):
Coleman said he had a kidney I don't know the
first word. He had a kidney transplant.

Speaker 2 (56:08):
He was a little old.

Speaker 3 (56:11):
But he didn't have dwarfism.

Speaker 2 (56:12):
He didn't.

Speaker 3 (56:13):
He wasn't a dwarf.

Speaker 2 (56:15):
Big dick, Big dick, how do you know?

Speaker 3 (56:21):
Slanging it?

Speaker 1 (56:22):
Y'all don't cast me for this, I'm sure to they
we're short too.

Speaker 2 (56:26):
We all do from's.

Speaker 1 (56:31):
That's not a word. We're not going to play. I'm
here with you, guys.

Speaker 2 (56:36):
We're we're part of the meal, the community.

Speaker 1 (56:40):
Y'all really are the LGB? Are you? Are you? LGB?

Speaker 2 (56:47):
Are you? I'm the bee.

Speaker 4 (56:49):
Actually they think I'm the tea, but I'm not the
t They always say I'm the tea and I'm.

Speaker 2 (56:56):
Not the tea, but you just dra queen.

Speaker 4 (56:58):
So it's like, well, you know, it was fun, but
I'm not the tea. I have a full vagina down there. No,
it doesn't, you know what. It's crazy when they first
I first heard that they called me fish when I
was like in college and I went to the gay
club with my gay friend at the time and they
was like, oh, you finish, you fished. I was like,
I don't know what that means, trout Sam, But uh,

(57:22):
I never got offended because I always thought like trans women,
like they did their make up, their hair, like they
were ahead of us.

Speaker 2 (57:29):
And when it came to the.

Speaker 1 (57:31):
Lace, yeah, and I just showed up.

Speaker 4 (57:33):
Yeah, I was like, oh, you think I'm giving tea.

Speaker 3 (57:36):
So I always took it as a compliment.

Speaker 4 (57:38):
So it wasn't until like I got in the social
media world where I realized like they were trying to
be offensive. But to this day, I never found it
offensive because originally I thought that was like a compliment
because I'm like, that means my makeup, my hair, I'm
giving you.

Speaker 1 (57:51):
Compare me to the most lamorous version of feminine expressions.

Speaker 4 (57:54):
Literally, because that was like the time where like Amaya
Scott was like huge dude, and like people used to
be like, oh, who does her wigs? Who does her makeup?
So when people were telling me that, I was like, oh, yeah,
I'm tea. I'm very I'm tea, but go.

Speaker 1 (58:10):
Y'all are so forward thinking, it would never be a
bitch and jason Ville, I think that's a compliment.

Speaker 2 (58:14):
Who is you t be ready to square up?

Speaker 1 (58:17):
Literally?

Speaker 3 (58:18):
No, yeah, I like it.

Speaker 2 (58:19):
I've always been like, Okay, yeah, I'm a doll, and
I love all. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (58:28):
My favorite They find y'all so fine. You real life fine,
not the cameras like I came here, like damn.

Speaker 2 (58:35):
In real life.

Speaker 3 (58:38):
You got a question yourself a little bit.

Speaker 1 (58:40):
But they're just pretty.

Speaker 3 (58:42):
That's enough, okay, Like I need no coochie now.

Speaker 2 (58:48):
But before I got into that, I was just gonna
say I understand what you were saying because sidebar, this
has nothing to do with the villain origin story. But
I was having a conversation with somebody the other day
and they really pieced me off. It was a straight
man and he was basically just saying that he feels
like people choose to be gay, like it's a demon

(59:10):
on them. And I'm like, as a black man, as
a black man in America, you're trying to tell me
all of the odds are already stacked against black men
as it is, you think that they would want to
add another layer that makes their life even harder being
the Being a black man is already hard, being a
black gay man in America is even harder. You think

(59:32):
people are choosing that route because they just like, oh yeah,
this ship leaves, like at the end of the day,
people don't have a choice about those things. So I
could see how it could make somebody like start your
dealing origin.

Speaker 1 (59:44):
Great men are part of I can understand too. They
mine too, and my content because my whole life, I've
always there is no black women women that I know
in my life that haven't been disrespected or assoultiate, sexually
harassed by a black man. Even me when I was
a little and everybody was slapping the girls, I'm like,

(01:00:05):
let me love body too, And I remember slapping this
girl but it was Destiny, and I remember looking at
her and seeing how upset she was, and after that,
I was like, oh my gosh, Like I'm just partaking
and following the lead of everybody around me, but it's
like we are hurting. They're people, and so many straight
black men, I feel like, don't see women as the

(01:00:25):
same species they're so they're so dispecful, they don't see
y'all is equal and a lot of them didn't even
vote for COMMLO because they don't think y'all have the
ability to lead just because you have a vagina. But yeah,
they're part of my villa or story because they.

Speaker 4 (01:00:40):
So they are not all of them, not all of them.
But I was gonna say ninety nine. I feel like,
so the reason I say that, I'm not being funny
when I think of every tough situation I've been through
with my life outside and I'm not even being dramatic

(01:01:02):
outside losing my mom. When I think of every tough
shit that I've been through in my life, it's connected
to a straight man. Seriously, every trauma, every anything that
I've been like through something that hurt me so bad,
I'm like, why would you do that to me?

Speaker 3 (01:01:17):
It's connected to a man.

Speaker 4 (01:01:19):
Whether it was a man I thought it was my friend,
a family member, or somebody I was linked to romantically.
Every time I think about as a man, it's always
been a man my villain. When I was talking, when
I was about to talk about my villain.

Speaker 2 (01:01:33):
Origin story, it was about I'll I'll go ahead, go ahead.

Speaker 4 (01:01:39):
So my villain origin story was I always talk about
this was the man I met when I moved out
here started dating.

Speaker 2 (01:01:46):
I mean he was awful.

Speaker 4 (01:01:48):
He literally I remember having a conversation because he was
already in the industry, and I was like, Hey, me
and my friend are trying to start a show. Can
you like help us get like an internship at the
radio or maybe get us an interview up there?

Speaker 3 (01:01:59):
And he was like, now you I ain't that drunk.

Speaker 4 (01:02:03):
You tried it, but I he literally told me you
were the type of woman that needs to be seen
and not heard.

Speaker 3 (01:02:09):
Those are verbatim.

Speaker 2 (01:02:11):
No way, God, I swear is he told you that
too When we were trying to start are you.

Speaker 1 (01:02:20):
And what y'all did?

Speaker 4 (01:02:21):
Kept going only only only for a year ago for
him to ask to come on the show. He asked
our producer at the time that we had before, Shay
to be like, oh, yeah, I would love to come
on the show.

Speaker 2 (01:02:32):
I bet you would hold ad nigga. He said, y'all
need to be seen and not heard. I need to
be seen that y'all talked too much. Y'all need to
be seen and needs.

Speaker 1 (01:02:39):
The men, y'all make an eye contact with the club
and going home And yeah, I said that you go
home and suck his balls, and he said, you need
to be seen and not heard. And you were you
ready to go home just because you see the bottle service,
you see the bitches with the sparklers, You're like, Oh,
that's the nigga. I want that and that.

Speaker 4 (01:02:59):
Honestly, I think that, like really put a fire under
my ass. And honestly, till this day it's still.

Speaker 1 (01:03:03):
I can't believe that. But don't let that be the
fire for him.

Speaker 4 (01:03:06):
No, it's not for him, because you're gonna see me
on TV. Every time you get on TikTok, every time
you get on anything, You're gonna see my face.

Speaker 1 (01:03:11):
I want do you ever think about that? Like your
exits like I want to see me right now.

Speaker 2 (01:03:15):
I know he doesn't. I have another ask me. I
know they do. I know they see the bag, but nigga, chance, nigga,
you see what the.

Speaker 3 (01:03:24):
Us here crazy?

Speaker 2 (01:03:26):
But they like, I feel so bad for you.

Speaker 1 (01:03:30):
I'll be looking for somebody. I know they be like,
I wonder what they're going through.

Speaker 2 (01:03:35):
M I know they be looking at you like, fuck,
that's his nigga doing.

Speaker 3 (01:03:41):
And I will always be the villain for that.

Speaker 2 (01:03:43):
I love it.

Speaker 4 (01:03:44):
I hope that I was the worst thing that ever
happened to you. Honestly, I hope you're out there saying
how bad I am, because we are gonna be like
you're a liar.

Speaker 3 (01:03:51):
Yeah, because is amazing.

Speaker 1 (01:03:52):
Let's interview our girl.

Speaker 2 (01:03:53):
Yeah, let it.

Speaker 1 (01:03:57):
Let us know what's your villagion or villagiona? He said.
I both said what's your feeling?

Speaker 2 (01:04:02):
While we can't get the word out love it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:05):
Ruggling?

Speaker 2 (01:04:07):
Okay. So for me, I think it's a mixture of
two things. Number one, just always feeling extremely misunderstood by
people that I think it made me feel like, okay, cool, Well,
people are committed to misunderstanding me anyway, So I'm just
gonna close myself off to people and I and then

(01:04:28):
also having fake friends like being friends with people. I've
always been a really genuine friend, a really genuine person.
When I meet people, I show up as my authentic self.
It's not nothing that I'm not willing to do for
my friends. And I feel like I've been in so
many situations with other girls where I thought they was
riding for me as much as I was riding for them,

(01:04:49):
and now you being a whole completely different person behind
my back, you talking shit about me, You low key
a little Jelly's weird, and I think it's made me
very mistrusting of people, to the point that I think
that I kind of screw up relationships before they get
a chance to blossom because I automatically assume, because I've

(01:05:12):
been in so many situations like that, that everybody is
going to be like that, and I don't open my
heart up to really like I'll make a new friend
and we can get kind of cool, but I'm still
kind of sad on you, like, hmm, okay, Bach, we
gonna see what you're going.

Speaker 1 (01:05:26):
That's not good. It's not I mean, it's good to
be prepared for things shifting, but it's not good to
prejudge people based on previous experiences. And I get what
you're saying because like recently, like how you said the
drag scene not shade nobody, but it's certain things. It's

(01:05:49):
very difficult for me to get booked as a drag performer,
very difficult. And I don't know, probably the same thing
because I have a platform because people may think like, oh,
I may take that job or you know, and it's like,
in order for the art form to continue, in order
for people to get more eyes on our community when
you want a mother like me to show up at
your club and participate and want to be involved, because

(01:06:11):
I'm not coming here trying to take over and take
nobody job. I really come like very humble. But I
had a conversation with one of my mutuals, Ruth with
the la uh. She was telling me like, well, you
need to look outside of yourself and realize like you're young,
you're attractive, you're spontaneous, you have a growing career, you're

(01:06:34):
a comedian, you twanted world. Like there's so many things
about us that are normal to us, Like this is
my norm. My norm is I'm a talented, finance bitch
y'all mood. You know what I'm saying, Like that's your norm.
But a lot of people they see you and they
don't see that in themselves, and they feel like indifferent
and they will start attack. They really be jealous of you,

(01:06:56):
and you don't understand that you're coming there with so
much humility because you're so used to how great you
are and they don't know their fullest potential, so they
like just being shady and being weird. But everybody not
like that. You was around people that was insecure you
that was a tax. You're a new city. All the
bitch is here, thinks.

Speaker 2 (01:07:16):
Me unfortunately.

Speaker 1 (01:07:17):
Yeah, but still like you know your tribe. I don't
think you should still like be so cut off because
it's like you still have time to really build your
complete your family, I would say, because family is not
necessarily the people you relate to, it's the people you choose.
So if you're coming to everybody like, oh this bitch

(01:07:39):
might try me. Oh this bitch you know, even like
it's things that you may not really be trying to do,
but it may show off like that she being a
little close offer, she been a little wait now you've
been a weird way because you're prejudging me.

Speaker 2 (01:07:53):
Yeah, because trying to stay away. Yeah, your feelings hurt
or your feelings, you just have.

Speaker 1 (01:07:59):
To allow the people to to not hurt you. Like
no matter what nobody to do with, nobody say like
at the end of the day, you are you, You
have your career, You still that bitch and they acting weird,
but still be open to more family.

Speaker 2 (01:08:14):
And you know what's crazy though the older I get,
I feel like I try to like I'm like, okay,
you know what, I'm not gonna let past situations hinder
me from creating new relationships, and even recently, something so
crazy happened with me and one of my really close friends,
and I just was not expecting that she said happen.
We got into it over something so stupid and not

(01:08:36):
to like place blame, but it was like her fault
and I just couldn't believe.

Speaker 1 (01:08:42):
But it was.

Speaker 2 (01:08:46):
Was too And I feel like for the period of
time that we've been friends, I've been so welcoming, so cool,
so understanding, non judgmental about everything that goes on in
her life. And like, I was having a really rough
day that day and she just like spassed on.

Speaker 1 (01:09:02):
Me, and I was just like what the you know
a lot of times also, there's two things I need
to say, but the main is some people don't be
prepared for that type of kindness. Some people don't They
be thinking like this may bitch might be up to
something like why she being so nice to me, why
she being so kind of me, why she being so real?

(01:09:22):
And they'll self sabotage the relationship like uhh, like because
they think it's something gonna happen eventually, so they'll just
be like whatever. But men do that a lot of men.
They'll be with a bitch that's so real and so
great and cooking food and got a job and doing
all the type of shit rubbing your feet and be like,
just start some bullshit, but cheat on you because you

(01:09:44):
think she too good for.

Speaker 2 (01:09:45):
You, And that's a real thing. You will be dating
me and sometimes who think or know that you.

Speaker 1 (01:09:53):
And the sabotage relationship instead of working on themselves and
rising to the occasion and meet your wife.

Speaker 4 (01:10:00):
Unfortunate, I won't be there to stick around. But anyways,
let's getting nasty, getting nasty.

Speaker 2 (01:10:08):
You ready to get into the bed.

Speaker 4 (01:10:09):
He's enough of all of this positivity, getting nasty and
talk about booty holes.

Speaker 3 (01:10:16):
Now it's time to get into the bed.

Speaker 2 (01:10:19):
Bowl a bow about bow bow bow.

Speaker 3 (01:10:26):
Okay for the bed topic today.

Speaker 1 (01:10:28):
That's right.

Speaker 4 (01:10:28):
Yeah, you're gonna wake up because this ain't that type
of bed. We don't sleep in this bed. Okay, you understand.

Speaker 1 (01:10:34):
We getting none to laughter And because you're going on exactly.

Speaker 2 (01:10:40):
You make him go hard. Do you have a man?
Are you dating right now?

Speaker 1 (01:10:46):
I had my little shit, you know, your little fine.

Speaker 3 (01:10:49):
That's what young kids say, little fine.

Speaker 1 (01:10:51):
I love saying that. I've been saying tall shit, smart ship,
fine ship, short ship.

Speaker 2 (01:10:54):
I know that's right.

Speaker 4 (01:10:55):
Okay, so today we're gonna talk about a rolls in
the bedroom still a thing, are we all?

Speaker 1 (01:11:01):
They're not for gays' if you're living in the stone age, darling,
if you got a nigga and you want to you
have to give up that whole. We both we both
got the same ship. Everybody wants just top I'm lie,
I am. There's some people who would prefer to only

(01:11:23):
be penetrated and some people who don't want to do
that at all. I'm willing to if especial, if I
really really like you, we get.

Speaker 3 (01:11:30):
Down here, we can put that thing down, flipping and reverse.

Speaker 1 (01:11:33):
Yeah, you do it to me, I do tomorrow. This
could be your night. So that means that y'all aren't
into but that's not necessarily a role. I don't know.
I feel like but I feel like everybody the same.
A part of me feels like everybody has somebody that
could make them gay. Mm hmm, like everybody has somebody

(01:11:53):
that could. Like if you meet the perfect person, you
come like you, I know, I know you'll go gay,
like everybody.

Speaker 4 (01:12:04):
Sid the basketball player, y'all know, who we're mutual. Oh,
but she has a girlfriend, so I don't want to
be that would make you go what because you know what,
she's funny, she's fine tail, she has like not she
got like she always Yeah, she do wear like a

(01:12:25):
little puff sometimes or like a bun, and she's she's
so I think it's her personality because she's funny, she's
not too masculine, and she's not feminist.

Speaker 2 (01:12:34):
This is my We mutual love her literally like I would.

Speaker 3 (01:12:38):
I would be in a full blown.

Speaker 4 (01:12:40):
Like if that's the only person in the world, because
I do not like kuchie.

Speaker 2 (01:12:43):
I don't like women, but like, honestly do it for you.
I'm sorry, No, this is no shade.

Speaker 4 (01:12:48):
To her girlfriend, because I know she's in a happy relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:12:49):
But that's just the only person. You're a super only person.

Speaker 4 (01:12:52):
Like if she was single and she was like, hey,
let me take you out, I would be like, absolutely, I.

Speaker 1 (01:12:57):
Don't know what girl would make me straight?

Speaker 2 (01:13:00):
You don't.

Speaker 3 (01:13:01):
I'm sitting right here.

Speaker 2 (01:13:03):
You got two of them. I don't put it on you.

Speaker 4 (01:13:06):
Lavelato cans.

Speaker 2 (01:13:12):
He's talking. I got tattoos, you got tattooed and a grill.
We love a grill, a bottom one. I got a grill,
Like that's really love a grill? Maybe not for you something.
Let me get.

Speaker 3 (01:13:31):
So you think that every man they would have amazing.

Speaker 1 (01:13:34):
They beating me with their homeboys is a choice. It's
not a choice. If everybody a choice, I'm just saying, like,
there's somebody that can get that, like even like, well,
I don't know. I don't want to say everybody, but
I feel like it's the same way. Like it's like flavor,
Like I can't choose what flavors I like.

Speaker 2 (01:13:56):
Yeah, you just what you like.

Speaker 1 (01:13:57):
Yeah, like even guam. I've had alvacollo toes the first
time this year, but I had it again at Dunky
Donuts and I like that one. But I like the
one at the restaurant I was at. I'm like, that's
the only one.

Speaker 2 (01:14:11):
Yeah, good Ice. That makes sense.

Speaker 3 (01:14:14):
So what you've never seen a woman.

Speaker 1 (01:14:16):
That she would be like I hit that, It'll be
bitches at my shoulders that I'd be like, I'll give
you it was one girl. She was like, it was
one girl. I was in Chicago with Michelle. I was
but this airbnb what she looked like, she was short,
she was like brown skin, she was super like. She
had a really I like her accent, and she was

(01:14:38):
just like down at the like I was on top
of the stage. So we had already took pictures and
she was trying to kiss me, like on my cheek
during the picture, and after she was like my gosh,
like that's him. I was like, Goshville.

Speaker 3 (01:14:50):
I was like, it's gonna be.

Speaker 2 (01:14:56):
Took off that week and said, hey, no.

Speaker 1 (01:14:58):
No, I wasn't in drag. Oh that was my birthday show.
So I was just like Luzane like I had on
like a I was watching Oh I had a chain
with it like that.

Speaker 3 (01:15:14):
Okay, so you have had a woman that you wanted.

Speaker 1 (01:15:16):
To her and I like, I don't know, it's it's
a couple of differences, but I think I really love
like super country girls. It's something.

Speaker 3 (01:15:25):
Short, brown skin with an accent.

Speaker 4 (01:15:29):
He said, well, dra you can't really answer this question
because you go, you know, you don't be what's your
type for a female?

Speaker 3 (01:15:41):
I don't think you've ever answered that.

Speaker 4 (01:15:44):
Hmmm.

Speaker 2 (01:15:46):
I just like beautiful girls. I don't think I have
a type. Just like with me and I vibele who
I vibe with, I like who I like with girls?
I mean, you do need to be attractive, but you
like women like I do. I do like fine women.

Speaker 4 (01:16:02):
I I've never seen a stud that made my couchie tingle.
So you like girls, I like girly girls like I
like girls that look like me.

Speaker 2 (01:16:12):
Yes, that's the type of girls that I used to
mess with when I used today girls.

Speaker 1 (01:16:15):
So I don't have a type, you know. I mean
you don't have te Fine, it's fine.

Speaker 2 (01:16:20):
What's your find like?

Speaker 3 (01:16:22):
If you have describe him physically?

Speaker 1 (01:16:24):
Gosh, yeah, he telled We like the same hYP I
think he's like a little bit titller than me. He
got like locks, Oh they're not like but I like him. Yeah,
and his eyes brown. I like locks.

Speaker 4 (01:16:42):
Let me ask you a question, because I know this
is like very scandalous in the community.

Speaker 3 (01:16:47):
Do you mess with dyl men?

Speaker 1 (01:16:50):
No?

Speaker 3 (01:16:51):
Not at all?

Speaker 1 (01:16:52):
Well no, because I have talked that scares me.

Speaker 2 (01:16:55):
Well, there's some men out there, some gay men, like
they with it.

Speaker 1 (01:16:58):
Yeah, yeah, they're with it. But it's like, yeah, that is,
but I can be traded too.

Speaker 2 (01:17:06):
It's just like you can't tell me.

Speaker 1 (01:17:07):
It's just if I'm just a certain ways a certain way. Yeah,
I'm not with that because it's like, if you're not
comfortable with Showcase, you're s especially now to have a platform,
like you might be scared period. But I don't think
I would do that just for like my safety and like,
you know, what the fuck I am nobody's secret. Come on, now,

(01:17:30):
you should be proud of who the fuck on your are?

Speaker 2 (01:17:33):
Would you date someone? Would you date a trans woman?

Speaker 1 (01:17:38):
I just confused the two.

Speaker 2 (01:17:41):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:17:43):
There is somebody that I used to talk to that
transition recently, and in my mind, I've been thinking, like
I wonder if the person that I fall in love
with transitions later on in life, and would I still
be there with them? And I probably would.

Speaker 2 (01:17:58):
There was this person I used to follow.

Speaker 4 (01:18:00):
I don't remember their name on TikTok at all because
I actually don't see them posts anymore. But they were
a married couple and the man transition and she stayed
married to him like he was a full bloone woman
and she was like, I still love him, I don't care,
still hidden, well, still hiding, so she was like still yeah,
but I don't know. I think that's an interesting thing

(01:18:21):
because you know, everybody says you can't help who you
love and you just love a person. You don't love
all the physical things or whatever it may be. You
know what I'm saying. So maybe that's why I'm not
having look in love. Maybe I need a day of
woman maybe.

Speaker 1 (01:18:38):
Because then you with a girl. But then it's like
they're still hitting it. I don't know, and.

Speaker 2 (01:18:44):
They don't they be real.

Speaker 1 (01:18:51):
I don't know. If I've seen footage.

Speaker 2 (01:18:53):
And they got t ds, they got everything, and I
don't want a little titty to be vagina that I'll
be like.

Speaker 1 (01:19:05):
If it's kind of like dark with a little moonlight
peeking in, you're getting the full like lowlight experience of Yeah,
you get the best world.

Speaker 4 (01:19:15):
That's why I said, it's one person in the world
that I would be.

Speaker 2 (01:19:18):
I would.

Speaker 3 (01:19:19):
I would do that.

Speaker 4 (01:19:19):
I would go downtown. I would I would drive downtown
with the windows down.

Speaker 2 (01:19:24):
You know who I love?

Speaker 1 (01:19:25):
Willow Smith, Okay, Willow is Acuti. I like.

Speaker 4 (01:19:32):
I like her confidence and like who she is, Like
she never gave a funk, Like I want to do
rock music, I'm gonna.

Speaker 1 (01:19:41):
Do when she came here because we've been like the
same age. So when with Man, yeah, when they came out,
I've been in love.

Speaker 4 (01:19:49):
Yeah, she's a teeny my hair was about the heat mood.
That is a talented family, the whole family, for sure. Jay.

Speaker 3 (01:19:59):
So do you I feel like role play in the
bedroom is dead role play? I'm in the bedroom.

Speaker 2 (01:20:06):
No, I don't. I do not like close minded men.
I like men that are open minded to whatever, because
I believe, I truly believe that in the bedroom some
men feel like, oh, I'm not gonna do this because
I feel like that makes me gay. Nothing makes you
gay if you do any with a woman. Tell me

(01:20:31):
something with Pegan making man that's like kind, that's like,
that's crossing the line. Okay, come home now.

Speaker 1 (01:20:39):
But for me, what's this? What's this peg?

Speaker 2 (01:20:44):
Like y a pig leg? Oh my god?

Speaker 4 (01:20:49):
But you know what, I'll say this me and I
can't speak for other tall women because like, I'm a
tall woman.

Speaker 3 (01:20:54):
I have a lot of body.

Speaker 2 (01:20:56):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:20:56):
I always say this, I am five eight five nine
right now, one seventy five. I'm a lot of woman.
So I do like sometimes like I'm very dominant in
the bedroom. I am usually, But when I come across
the man that just.

Speaker 2 (01:21:10):
Dominates me in the bedroom, that's very rare.

Speaker 1 (01:21:13):
For me.

Speaker 2 (01:21:14):
I really like that. So I think, like I do,
like the role reversal in the bedrooms.

Speaker 1 (01:21:19):
Are you dominant?

Speaker 2 (01:21:20):
I am too, but I like somebody that's gonna dominate
me more. They happened to me before, really change your life, huh.

Speaker 1 (01:21:31):
Looking up like and they was talking and all types
of stuff. But in my mind, I'm like, you do
this often.

Speaker 2 (01:21:39):
Yeah, that's the scary person on the first time.

Speaker 1 (01:21:42):
It's like, okay, this is two scripts before you got
all the right words say, but it's working.

Speaker 2 (01:21:50):
Like a little in my ear, a little brain.

Speaker 4 (01:21:52):
I think men that especially with me, like I said,
because like I'm a bigger woman, So I feel like
men that are very confident with me the first time
and they're dominant in the bedroom.

Speaker 2 (01:22:03):
I like it. But it also is like, oh you
a whole you a freak.

Speaker 3 (01:22:06):
You nasty.

Speaker 1 (01:22:07):
Do y'all like talking stuff I do. I don't say nothing,
you just say the whole time because I'm goofy and
not only am I? Not only am I? Okay, it
was like one person. It's been a few times that
I talk, but it's like everybody laugh at everything I say.
So it's like I'm shutting up because I'm serious right now,
like I don't want to be Like even if I say.

Speaker 2 (01:22:31):
So, if they say something, you just don't say nothing.

Speaker 1 (01:22:33):
Don't ask me no motherfuck, what do you do? You
just be like it don't matter. No, even if we
are talking, don't ask me no question in the bedroom,
I love to ask me nothing.

Speaker 2 (01:22:44):
I love. They need to know do this bussy feel good?
You need to answer.

Speaker 1 (01:22:51):
I'm here, I'm still going.

Speaker 2 (01:22:55):
But you might leave, Like once you leave, you might
be gone.

Speaker 1 (01:22:58):
If it was I would have I would have exh
my god, somebody call me. Nobody call me.

Speaker 4 (01:23:06):
I'm not saying if it's big yes. Talking in the
bedroom is like the.

Speaker 1 (01:23:10):
Sexy It is no to me. It's like I think
because the movies have really like painted a picture of
what sexy is for me. And they don't talk. When
have you ever seen they do talk? They don't the
music be going, they be like give me this place. No,
they don't movie you want problem? You know back in

(01:23:34):
the day, like they didn't you remember loved basketball? What's
all's playing? No talking? All? I like a little blue light.

Speaker 3 (01:23:45):
Going going.

Speaker 1 (01:23:47):
I don't like red lights. Red light is the monic.

Speaker 2 (01:23:50):
The blue lights remind me of Billy that was the
same you talk.

Speaker 1 (01:23:55):
When they don't find Niggas came in with all that.

Speaker 2 (01:23:57):
Blue blue me, I don't care.

Speaker 3 (01:24:01):
I just need to see.

Speaker 1 (01:24:02):
But you can see better with blue than red.

Speaker 4 (01:24:04):
Well, I don't care. Turn something on TV. We have
grays Anatomy playing turn Wenna.

Speaker 1 (01:24:11):
What's the longest that you ever had sex?

Speaker 5 (01:24:14):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (01:24:15):
Like, I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (01:24:19):
The longest was thirty minutes, like actual, say, like a
man penetrating. Yeah, what about you?

Speaker 2 (01:24:27):
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 4 (01:24:28):
So I went on a trip to Costa Rica a
few years ago. I went with this gorgeous I mean
he looks like a Greek god.

Speaker 3 (01:24:35):
He's so fine.

Speaker 4 (01:24:36):
And when I tell you, it was like hours. Like
it was like we would kind of take a little
break and we would go back, but it was like
a whole like he could.

Speaker 3 (01:24:45):
He was different.

Speaker 1 (01:24:47):
The first person that I was like like my first
Nikki link. Gosh, I shouldn't say this.

Speaker 2 (01:24:52):
You should a safe space.

Speaker 3 (01:24:55):
This is a safe space.

Speaker 1 (01:24:56):
We was watching Modern Family and I was like doing
that for like three to four hours for real.

Speaker 2 (01:25:03):
He without like nutty.

Speaker 1 (01:25:05):
He was like shaking see see. But sometimes I would
know I was distracted like I'm.

Speaker 2 (01:25:11):
Watching this see I guess I'm thinking of Okay, we
had sex for thirty minutes. No, we didn't see nuody
and yeah, of course you can start later.

Speaker 1 (01:25:22):
It was like it was just not liking everybody was
so like everybody. I know that. So like from the
beginning earlier, like before it started, was like kissing this
stuff and getting it started and trying different positions. But
we got in one position that was like perfect, like
I'm watching TV. You right here and we.

Speaker 2 (01:25:42):
Yeah, sometimes we hit that sweet spot, stay right there.
But how could you go that long? I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:25:49):
That was the longest. That was just like a rare day.
I don't know what.

Speaker 2 (01:25:51):
I don't know what that's I say.

Speaker 4 (01:25:54):
Sometimes when you're just like it feels good, y'all are
in that moment. I told y'all that trip we was
off Shrews, so we had to it was a lot.

Speaker 3 (01:26:03):
It was a lot going on.

Speaker 1 (01:26:05):
It wasn't like it was. But also when I first
like started having sex, I would think a lot like
I would be like I would be having six I'll
be just I'd be like his head gonna be but
it's cool.

Speaker 2 (01:26:16):
No, see I don't I didn't like that out he
had you do it see a real virgo?

Speaker 4 (01:26:26):
Yes? Because no, I was definitely like it was like
in the zone, very sensual outer body experience. And I
was like I didn't even realize because I'm not a person.

Speaker 3 (01:26:39):
I don't like to have sex for.

Speaker 2 (01:26:40):
A long time me e. But it was like I
was like, oh my god, let's go to bed twenty minutes.
I'm ready to be lame. I promise.

Speaker 4 (01:26:54):
If he called me right now, I'm on a flight
that man, Yes, what's his name?

Speaker 2 (01:26:59):
I'm waiting because I know what you're talking about.

Speaker 1 (01:27:07):
Wait, we might have on the Patreon, we spend the
block on it.

Speaker 3 (01:27:11):
We might we might take another trip.

Speaker 1 (01:27:13):
That's the last nasty question.

Speaker 2 (01:27:17):
There was nothing into you know you want to get into.

Speaker 4 (01:27:21):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:27:21):
I don't know. That's enough.

Speaker 2 (01:27:23):
What No, you want to talk you want to talk
about we trying to keep it PG. You're right, you're right,
but we can't get nasty nasty.

Speaker 4 (01:27:35):
We can what No, Okay, I'll ask you this, what
are your limits in the bedroom? Like do you have
have you ever been in the bedroom with somebody? They
were like, you were like, no, I have limits, have limits,
So what don't you do. You're not asked, right, well,
I have to make are okay? So you little asked
what was in the bedroom that happened when he was
like this is too far.

Speaker 1 (01:27:54):
If I'm in pain, it's over okay. And it's not
like because that's pain it is, but like okay. It
was I was talking to and before we was getting started,
like we just kissing this stuff, and he like grabbed,
rapped his arms around me and grasped my back. I said,
what the fuck?

Speaker 3 (01:28:13):
He was too freaky, almost centers in that motherfucker out.

Speaker 1 (01:28:19):
I was like, you're this is outrageous. Yeah, in the
moment we just gotta start, like y'all barely kissing. You
really like scratched me, like and what did you do?
I said, what the fuck? I said? I think I

(01:28:39):
think I said he was aggressive. I was like, that
was really aggressive and that was a trigger way for him.
He was like, I'm not aggressive, he's off me. No, no,
but it was a lot like you just scratched me,
like it just it took me out of it. It's
certain things, like physical things, and I know some people
like getting slapped and stuff like that, but to me,

(01:29:01):
it's like are we fighting? You gotta be gentle. You
gotta be it's gentle but rough. Like if you're too gentle,
I'm laughing. You're taking me.

Speaker 2 (01:29:13):
A line, but not too rough.

Speaker 4 (01:29:15):
If you choke, you can't choke me, not too hard. Besides,
what is happening here. That's when people don't know what
they're doing. If you tell a man to choke you
and he squeezed likesophagus, they know.

Speaker 2 (01:29:28):
A real man.

Speaker 4 (01:29:28):
You can tell if he's a freak. If you're telling
the choking, he automatically knows, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:29:34):
I like a little air ear passage. Stop each sometime
we don't.

Speaker 1 (01:29:38):
Got to do all that.

Speaker 2 (01:29:40):
I like a little like.

Speaker 1 (01:29:42):
I like ogen while I'm I like a little flap,
you know, but make him get.

Speaker 2 (01:29:54):
Wag and oh for sure, I'm not eating no hairy bud.
You you ever seen a booty hole you did?

Speaker 1 (01:30:01):
Like?

Speaker 3 (01:30:01):
Because sometimes they be blown.

Speaker 1 (01:30:03):
Out, sometimes they be they be blown out.

Speaker 3 (01:30:05):
I've seen it.

Speaker 2 (01:30:06):
You're you ain't blown out.

Speaker 4 (01:30:09):
I was watching, Remember I told you my friend sent
me that video of her and pegging somebody.

Speaker 1 (01:30:15):
And his booty blown out from her.

Speaker 3 (01:30:18):
I don't know. I think it was just blown out.
In general, that pig like that booty hole has been
eve been through. It was in the military with you, well.

Speaker 2 (01:30:33):
Marines something the Marines or something.

Speaker 3 (01:30:35):
Something's going on down there. So have you seen a
booty hole like that?

Speaker 2 (01:30:38):
A blown out bootyhole?

Speaker 3 (01:30:40):
I don't think so, okay, No, see what would.

Speaker 2 (01:30:43):
You do though, if you've seen when like if you
opened it up and.

Speaker 1 (01:30:46):
You like a stright woman, I see you're going I'm
going to see a nude before we do anything.

Speaker 4 (01:30:51):
Mm hmm you said you're going to see way nude.
Oh yeah, let me see. Let's see your se that.
But yeah, okay, getting started before I drive anywhere, I'm.

Speaker 3 (01:31:01):
Not gonna lie.

Speaker 4 (01:31:02):
If a man sent me a picture of his buttthole,
I would be horrified.

Speaker 2 (01:31:06):
Who is that that we friends with?

Speaker 4 (01:31:09):
That We're not friends with Freddie Gibbs, but he definitely
had his bootyhole.

Speaker 3 (01:31:11):
On the internet.

Speaker 2 (01:31:12):
No, not him, I'm saying. One of our friends, I
feel like, told us that a dude has seen a
picture booty hole. I can't remember.

Speaker 1 (01:31:18):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:31:19):
But Freddy Gibbs actually has a nice booty hole. Who
is that?

Speaker 3 (01:31:22):
He's a rapper, So you can, yeah, you can.

Speaker 4 (01:31:26):
Google Freddy Gibbs boot hold come. But I guess he
sent that to his baby mom or his girlfriend she
posted it.

Speaker 3 (01:31:33):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:31:34):
You probably get on some real freaky stuff, like you.

Speaker 4 (01:31:36):
Know when they do the videos. I don't I always
see the picture. You know, when they do the video,
they like push it out and push it in.

Speaker 2 (01:31:42):
What does that do?

Speaker 1 (01:31:43):
When they flip it out? They like, well, they like
if you flip it out there, don't they get real big?

Speaker 4 (01:31:49):
You know?

Speaker 3 (01:31:49):
They don't flip it out, they just like make it contract.

Speaker 1 (01:31:52):
Some people do that. I don't know what that is.
What is that? It's another thing like when they like
you have to like flick their booty. She's speaking for it,
like the.

Speaker 2 (01:31:59):
Dance do that.

Speaker 1 (01:32:01):
Girls do it and they they it'd be big. But
if your booty like kind of hard and you just
we just take a picture, not y'all. I hate that
too sometimes, Like I've had this before where like they'll
stop and chill out.

Speaker 2 (01:32:26):
I feel like that's cute. If you have a muscle booty,
you can't hit the right can't do it.

Speaker 1 (01:32:34):
Now if you had some ship going and it was
like oh like it got.

Speaker 2 (01:32:37):
You waved to it.

Speaker 1 (01:32:39):
But if it's hard and you.

Speaker 2 (01:32:41):
I can already talk. Yes, it's like.

Speaker 1 (01:32:46):
Hard, like two rocks move literally chill out.

Speaker 2 (01:32:50):
Now, see this is what's here? Blown out boy, I
feel like you can't control your farts. Like if you've
been somebody eyo bud, how are you gonna have any
It's not like this.

Speaker 1 (01:33:07):
It's like.

Speaker 2 (01:33:09):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (01:33:14):
It's not open. It's not open, but it has to
escape a little at the end. I feel like they
firt be loud, real loud.

Speaker 2 (01:33:26):
Control what's all that's not like a trumpet.

Speaker 1 (01:33:37):
Copyright?

Speaker 4 (01:33:39):
Now I have heard see we're breaking down, miss okay.
So yeah, now I have heard if you have a
blown out bootyhole that it's hard for you, like sometimes.

Speaker 2 (01:33:48):
They should you boo boom yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:33:51):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:33:52):
You don't have any friends that have a blown out bootyhole.
They are gonna just volunteer. Also, it's like a garrison.
If you have all blown out.

Speaker 4 (01:34:04):
My bootyhole last night, I would tell you know it's crazy, like,
oh my god, I blew out my bootyhole last night.

Speaker 1 (01:34:09):
Girl, you have to give it some time. You might
give some time like okay, she might retract, okay, But
also I don't even talk this sexual with my friends.
You don't know my friends. I got to know what barely,
not really. They don't really talk to me.

Speaker 2 (01:34:25):
But when Drayon was telling me a story, what time,
I said, this is getting juiced.

Speaker 1 (01:34:28):
I've never even seen my friends like naked.

Speaker 2 (01:34:32):
See I be but booty, I'm like a naked Really,
you was just trying to show us your cheese.

Speaker 1 (01:34:38):
That's because you said you wanted to tell.

Speaker 2 (01:34:41):
So you and your friends don't be like naked in
front of each other.

Speaker 1 (01:34:45):
Said, okay, man, thing and I'm shown like girls my
like girls have seen like my dick, okay and be like, oh, well,
what you got the thing down there? I don't for real,

(01:35:07):
I'm not showing her.

Speaker 2 (01:35:08):
Okay, you don't have to show me.

Speaker 1 (01:35:09):
Maybe put you and.

Speaker 4 (01:35:14):
Your friends y'all don't get like naked in front of
each other.

Speaker 1 (01:35:17):
Y'all don't know me and my closest friend like I
know her. For the longest, we black out drunk and
woke up in separate beds, like we don't even sleep in. No,
I don't know what that is.

Speaker 2 (01:35:29):
That's crazy.

Speaker 4 (01:35:31):
Sleep in the same bed all the time, y'all never
and they never messed around.

Speaker 3 (01:35:36):
And my male friend we slept in the same baby.

Speaker 2 (01:35:38):
We ended a fucking for real, what's he gave?

Speaker 1 (01:35:41):
No exactly and what you did? You said he was
schooling is going down?

Speaker 3 (01:35:49):
You have a school on.

Speaker 2 (01:35:51):
My friend was like when you.

Speaker 1 (01:35:52):
Was in the bed, like you wanted something my men.

Speaker 2 (01:35:55):
Yeah, oh yeah, I do that all the time. But
I also just like, let you know, like I'll leave
my lead get real frisky. I'm not gonna leave nothing
to the imagination. You know exactly what I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:36:07):
Trying to do. You know what thing I do. I'm
saying because I don't got to talk like once were
like kissing this stuff. I know how to like lift
my leg up and put my big toe in your
drawers and pull them off.

Speaker 2 (01:36:20):
Can you say that? No, I've never.

Speaker 1 (01:36:26):
Once you pull him down a certain length, you could
put your big toe like in the waistband and once
you get a grip of it, he could put his
legs out and we kissing and.

Speaker 2 (01:36:42):
Wrapped around.

Speaker 1 (01:36:44):
I'm taking the zippra off with my.

Speaker 2 (01:36:45):
Big sold I am a wait, that's a real talent
for real.

Speaker 1 (01:36:50):
You needn't do that, and that's it's kind of sexy, like.

Speaker 2 (01:36:56):
I think, but I think with a girl that's not
gonna go overwhelmed because they're gonna think you are hot.
Like how you learn how to you know, draws awful,
show big, what you learned to.

Speaker 1 (01:37:06):
It'll work, it would once you grab it. You just
put it in there.

Speaker 3 (01:37:11):
I like that, but honestly, I like, I don't really.

Speaker 4 (01:37:13):
Wear brawls anymore. When I used to feel like when
a guy would like reach around.

Speaker 1 (01:37:17):
Just that's cute, but it's like I hate that moment
where we have to stop kissing.

Speaker 2 (01:37:21):
It's like, okay, yeah, I don't like that.

Speaker 1 (01:37:25):
So that's why I learned how to use my other
body parts because.

Speaker 3 (01:37:28):
I usually just.

Speaker 2 (01:37:31):
I just be naked already. Okay, that's the problem. Okay,
waiting on, you move We gotta move on.

Speaker 4 (01:37:41):
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Speaker 1 (01:38:30):
So you got at my my Mother Week is my
live stand up comedy shows. Go to the nick of
my bi. I might be in your city. You know
what to do. Get the tickets, even if you don't
live there. Get the tickets because I can.

Speaker 2 (01:38:42):
Use the money her, use the money support of black Kings.

Speaker 1 (01:38:47):
Yeah, black entrepreneurship here and you are.

Speaker 3 (01:38:50):
You can get some used beauty.

Speaker 2 (01:38:52):
Yes, I actually have some. Fine, I have some. You
know what I'm saying. I got you will. It's time
to get into the bop. Bow Bow Bow bow. Okay.

Speaker 4 (01:39:09):
Bob of the Week is the songs that we've been
jamming this week. I cannot believe I haven't made this
my bop of the week. And I'm not just saying
that because she's one of my phaves this season. If
y'all been watching lovelex P, y'all know I'm reviewing Real
Housewives of Atlanta and I have never made a housewife songs.
Y'all know they all like to do music and do whatever,
but this is actually a bop. So Shamia has a

(01:39:30):
song called never Had and it's actually really fucking dope.

Speaker 3 (01:39:34):
It gives R and B.

Speaker 4 (01:39:36):
And you know who she works with, her Andrew Well,
I don't know what she works when, but Drew did
an episode.

Speaker 2 (01:39:41):
She works with r L.

Speaker 4 (01:39:42):
Drew does songs with r L to r L, y'all
know that's a RL. But yeah, Shamiah has a song
called never Had and it's giving like good R and B.
Like Shamiah really has a voice on it.

Speaker 2 (01:39:56):
She has a very nice boy.

Speaker 4 (01:39:57):
Yeah. So it was like, okay, I'm actually I've really
found myself. When I'm like listening to music and I'll
go search for a song. I found myself going back
to the song, and I know if I go back
to a song, I like it. Usually if I listen
to a song one time, I'd be like, oh it
was cool, but I never go back to it again.
I caught myself going back to it again. I was like, okay,
it's bopa the week worthy. Okay, So shout out to Shemiah.

Speaker 2 (01:40:20):
Never Had.

Speaker 3 (01:40:20):
That's my bop of the week.

Speaker 2 (01:40:22):
So yeah, that's my bop of the week.

Speaker 3 (01:40:24):
What y'all been listening to?

Speaker 1 (01:40:25):
Let me look it up.

Speaker 2 (01:40:26):
Hold on, So I've been listening to Young Thug in
Future got a new sound called money on Money Okay,
and I really like it. You know, typical trap music,
get you lead in the car.

Speaker 4 (01:40:39):
I feel like people are leading to critical on it,
you think, so it's like, oh, this is not it.
I'm just like, y'all, this is I like, yeah, I
think it was. I thought it was a bob.

Speaker 2 (01:40:49):
It gives your usual young thug future collapse what you
would think it would sound like, like I feel it,
and I feel like young Thug. You know, he just
got out of jail, not that long ago. I don't
know if this is his Is this his first I
think it is the first song. Yeah, I think this
is the first song that he's dropped. So I feel
like for these to be the first song that he's
dropped since he got out of jail. I think it's
a good But someone made a good point.

Speaker 4 (01:41:10):
I saw TikTok today that said, like the reason like
these mainstream artists, these A list artist songs aren't hitting
because now the consumers. They want a TikTok bob. They want,
you know, no shade to them girls, but that's what
they want. They want a quick song that they can
make a TikTok to, and if it's not TikTok worthy,
it seemed as a flop and I just don't agree

(01:41:31):
with that.

Speaker 1 (01:41:32):
So I've been listened to a lot of old school
music I love. But I have been listening to Money
Loan of Superpowers. Yeah, she go to Oh she is, Yes,
I love her, and I've been listening to her long.

(01:41:54):
I just lost it. Oh. I've been listening to floy
Bedtime Okay, I Graituation's Darling, Okay.

Speaker 3 (01:42:03):
Shout out to h Millie. Do you give good advice?

Speaker 2 (01:42:07):
Dug?

Speaker 1 (01:42:07):
You know we used to read emails and give advice
to everybody.

Speaker 2 (01:42:10):
That's okay, Well, we gonna get into our favorite saconent
of the show, which is pour your heart out. If
you have any questions, send them to ask poor Minds
at gmail dot com.

Speaker 4 (01:42:21):
And yo, let's get into week. This question a long no,
you want me to do mine first?

Speaker 3 (01:42:25):
I could do it.

Speaker 2 (01:42:26):
Okay, go ahead, Heydre and Les. First off, I just
want to say I love y'all and watch y'all all
the time. Okay, here's the tea I was getting in
out of this guy. It was long distance, international, not domestic.
Everything was great in the beginning, like it's supposed to be. Chemistry, consistency,
all that. He even sent me money to reimburse me
for Chris Brown floor seats in Vegas the concerts in September.

(01:42:49):
By the way, he was supposed to come see me
twice but had to reschedule both times because of word.
Then suddenly I'm barely hearing from him. Text God, drive
three to five hours between you, replies short fives to
how many calls before bed? And sometimes nothing at all
From what he was giving me, he started giving crumbs.
I didn't say anything because I figured maybe he's grinding

(01:43:11):
before his trip. He was supposed to come in six days.
I felt something was off, but tries to let it
play out. Day four he calls randomly and says long
distance isn't for him. I knew it, mind you, He's
the one who asks me if I could do long
decence in the first place. I tried to offer a
different perspective, be understanding and again. First few days after that,

(01:43:31):
cool then back to the same driver. At this point,
I'm overary. I texted him, saying, you showing me what's up.
I don't feel like you want this and the connection
is not growing. He replies the next morning, talking about
how the distance is why his communication is poor. Boy,
be for real, I said, it is what it is.
But now he wants the tickets back, So now I

(01:43:53):
don't waste it. Almost three months and I can't even
see Chris Brown. The tickets start selling for like two
k each, Like I'm the only one taking the l
my time and my men Christopher and Summer in Briston too,
So what would y'all do? I don't want to be
a bad person, but I'm tired of always being the
one who gets her time wasted and gets nothing in return.

(01:44:14):
I've never even had floor seats before.

Speaker 1 (01:44:17):
Oh so what's the question? She said? What should she do?

Speaker 2 (01:44:22):
What should she do? Because he wants the tickets back,
and the tickets are selling for like two thousand dollars
each now, and now that they're not talking, she's like,
should I give the tickets back?

Speaker 1 (01:44:31):
I'm gonna come get them. Yeah, yeah, who email, I
guess he bought the ticket? Who got him.

Speaker 2 (01:44:41):
You know how these these days aboutly get an email.

Speaker 1 (01:44:43):
If it's in my they mind.

Speaker 2 (01:44:45):
If they're your email, you transfer to yourself, they're yours.

Speaker 1 (01:44:48):
Man, go to that concert, out of the concert.

Speaker 4 (01:44:51):
Yeah, I don't like people who give a gift for
try to take it back so he.

Speaker 3 (01:44:55):
Can take that l to have fun.

Speaker 1 (01:44:58):
To me, it seemed like some old ship that he
used to talk to. Yeah, hain't back and now he's
working out again with his new things and now he
making funny.

Speaker 2 (01:45:06):
Yeah, I'll tell you what you like about who he
really wanted.

Speaker 4 (01:45:11):
I'm telling y'all right now. If a nigga spend the
block on you, I promise you it's because whatever situation,
his new thing is not working out something, and then
as soon as the new ship that he really want
comes back, he's leaving you in the dust. I don't
care if he told you he loved you, y'all was
having doing this and doing that, y'all can be like,
oh my god, it's meant to be.

Speaker 1 (01:45:29):
Girl.

Speaker 4 (01:45:31):
I got bad news for you. And if it does
end up working out with y'all, just because the new
girl and I moved on and she don't want to
know more. Yeah, I'm being honest.

Speaker 2 (01:45:40):
What should she do?

Speaker 1 (01:45:41):
First of all, she said it Chris bncast, and she
got two tickets on one ticket to I sell one
of the motherfuckers, keep one for myself and go see
Chris Breezy. It is Chris Brown.

Speaker 2 (01:45:53):
Yeah, he got everybody on that summer walk and it's
two Yeah, you better hit a life one in two
K and and I go and go get your two
K and get you an outfit.

Speaker 1 (01:46:05):
That's what you do. You block them? Yeah, you anyways
block them.

Speaker 2 (01:46:10):
I wouldn't be giving them tekeys make I'm sorry.

Speaker 3 (01:46:12):
Ye, what you're gonna do? You snooze your loose period?
All right? Hey, beautiful ladies, love y'all down.

Speaker 4 (01:46:17):
So I'm an eighty five percenter straight woman, and that
other fifteen percent is reserved for my celebrity crush, which
will never happen. I've never liked another regular woman before,
but recently, for some reason, I've started having feelings for
my very good friend of nine plus years. I'm trying
to stop having feelings for her, but that's not how
feelings work.

Speaker 3 (01:46:37):
What should I do?

Speaker 2 (01:46:38):
Should I in the friendship distance myself.

Speaker 4 (01:46:40):
Or just hope this goes away? Ooh I'm gonna say
I wouldn't. I wouldn't. I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't either.
I would just kind of maybe distance yourself from her
for a little bit to kind of make those feelings
go away. I think if y'all have been friends for

(01:47:01):
nine plus years and she's never gave you an inkling,
I don't know if she has or not, but I
think like messing up a friendship to make something romantic,
Trust me, it don't work out.

Speaker 2 (01:47:11):
I agree. And that's somebody who has has sex with
a few of the friends you got.

Speaker 1 (01:47:15):
That's another shot, Yes it is, let me get another, he.

Speaker 4 (01:47:20):
Said, what's in this shit with the main period? So
as somebody who has had sex with a few of
their home and I'm talking about homegirls when I was younger.

Speaker 2 (01:47:33):
It's just never a good idea. It's never a good
idea to cross. You're like, please, sir, walk in, Why
am I crying? But yes, I just feel like it's
never a good idea. It usually never pans out will
because one person is always going to end up or

(01:47:55):
having more feelings than the other person, and you won't
be able to go back to the friendship. I think
that you need to make sure that these real feelings
that you have into and not los.

Speaker 1 (01:48:07):
Yes now you know, or the vice versa. Sometimes because
everything going wrong and you just keep dat knees and
ain't ship girls or boys or days, and all of
a sudden.

Speaker 2 (01:48:18):
You like because you always there for me.

Speaker 1 (01:48:21):
Yeah yeah, you just lost. Probably don't even like her
for really you probably just like you're confusing the type
of loves because it's different love that you have for
people that might not even be an intimate thing because
yall might end up getting the bedroom. You be like,
oh bitch, you might. I forgot like relax and get
a rolls.

Speaker 2 (01:48:42):
Yeah, don't get that.

Speaker 1 (01:48:45):
Why that team? No?

Speaker 2 (01:48:48):
Because I got one? What I don't have?

Speaker 1 (01:48:53):
You didn't say you had one. You said you have
I do?

Speaker 2 (01:48:56):
I still have it?

Speaker 3 (01:48:57):
You still okay?

Speaker 2 (01:49:00):
Even when my other ones are.

Speaker 1 (01:49:01):
Dead, you're gonna tell her not to you still got one,
because it's just.

Speaker 2 (01:49:05):
Not if you're trying to get into toys, toys that
ain't the one that you need to get.

Speaker 1 (01:49:10):
What does the rose do?

Speaker 2 (01:49:11):
It vibrates? It is all Remember that man I was
telling all them out the first time that it.

Speaker 1 (01:49:18):
Was like.

Speaker 2 (01:49:20):
Yes, yeah, like Autri and you can't and you can't
really turn it down and don't have.

Speaker 3 (01:49:26):
Like settings on there. That man I was telling you
all about.

Speaker 1 (01:49:28):
They do, but they just all fast.

Speaker 2 (01:49:30):
They're all hard, like start off fast? Do you press
it and you just go fast?

Speaker 4 (01:49:34):
Yeah, that man I was telling about the first time
I used the rolls he used it on me and
I really I passed away.

Speaker 1 (01:49:42):
I had a toy.

Speaker 3 (01:49:43):
What kind of toy was?

Speaker 1 (01:49:44):
I had a flish like, what's all? You like it?

Speaker 3 (01:49:48):
Because you were?

Speaker 1 (01:49:49):
I wasn't even eat.

Speaker 2 (01:49:54):
That's a little rolling over.

Speaker 1 (01:49:57):
Literally I went to sleep in it.

Speaker 2 (01:50:00):
I know that's sleep in it is wild and woke
up like you again.

Speaker 1 (01:50:06):
I had to. I'm looking at this plastic blue thing
and getting harny.

Speaker 2 (01:50:14):
That's not right.

Speaker 1 (01:50:15):
That's like my mind is like you to change your life. Yes,
I threw it away about another one?

Speaker 2 (01:50:20):
You out thinking about it? Can't wait to get home?

Speaker 1 (01:50:23):
Oh I can't wait. Yes, I was cutting niggas off
and I got that.

Speaker 2 (01:50:28):
I literally like, was like, she need to get a massager.
I like the massagers. Yeah, the massagers are cool with
them roses too much?

Speaker 3 (01:50:39):
Too much?

Speaker 2 (01:50:40):
Yeah break, Yeah you was cutting up over there, but
get you a little massager. You don't need to go
mess with your friend. It's not a good idea. If
you really take some time and sit and think about it,
sees you're gonna be like, you know what, I'm so
glad that I listened to them on Poor Minds and
I did not miss with my homegirl, because it's gonna
ruin the pressure, don't work out.

Speaker 1 (01:51:01):
You need to just honor that relationship, keep that what
it is you are. You're desperate, get a therapist in
a way to blanket waited, blanket.

Speaker 4 (01:51:13):
Waterfrol So let the people know where they can find you.
Toward day, social media, all that good stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:51:20):
I am at Lavelle Dante on all platforms. Y'all gonna
spell it out. L A v E L E d
O N t A E. Yeah, my tour days, my
stand up shows, drag comedy shows, all that stuff. The
link is in my bios, in my link tree. I'm
gonna keep it updated. Also, you're gonna look out for
a little music dolling m.

Speaker 3 (01:51:40):
Yeah, we're coming.

Speaker 2 (01:51:41):
We love.

Speaker 1 (01:51:42):
I should play. I should give you all little snippet
after I love.

Speaker 2 (01:51:45):
A good snip and we have a studio in here
to a music a wall is a producer.

Speaker 3 (01:51:54):
Oh well everything house and the mis right here?

Speaker 2 (01:52:02):
All right?

Speaker 3 (01:52:02):
What's going to getting.

Speaker 2 (01:52:05):
By y'all?

Speaker 1 (01:52:08):
Oh? Tony Brexton?

Speaker 5 (01:52:13):
Whoa yeah, yeah, doggery? Listen, girl, who do you think
I am?

Speaker 2 (01:52:28):
Don't you know that he wasn't my man?

Speaker 1 (01:52:31):
Boy? Joe?

Speaker 2 (01:52:32):
Who's he goes way to? You care about it?

Speaker 1 (01:52:37):
Looking at me like I'm murd when I'm the one
who said I didn't want it to worry? Don't you
forget I had bird?

Speaker 2 (01:52:46):
What you're thinking?

Speaker 1 (01:52:47):
Stop paying me? He wasn't man enough for me.

Speaker 2 (01:52:52):
If you don't know, now, he's a chance.

Speaker 1 (01:52:55):
I've already had over man.

Speaker 2 (01:52:57):
You wonder just where he's we were read up him?

Speaker 4 (01:53:04):
Tim?

Speaker 2 (01:53:04):
You know the truth?

Speaker 1 (01:53:06):
I think he just remember you?

Speaker 2 (01:53:08):
You thinking? Did you know about using? Did you know
donut your husband?

Speaker 1 (01:53:16):
Pray?

Speaker 2 (01:53:17):
I'm not thinking about him? But you married him? Do
you know I made him? Please? Do you know he
makes to stay? He wasn't man enough for me?

Speaker 5 (01:53:30):
Listen?

Speaker 1 (01:53:31):
Oh didn't he tell you who?

Speaker 2 (01:53:33):
The truth? That you got to check devon?

Speaker 1 (01:53:36):
And then maybe you could be more in it's better
word about me? Oh hopefully you won't be. I love
the reason why he loved it and why we go,
didn't work it.

Speaker 2 (01:53:51):
Out thinking, Stop naming me. It wasn't running enough on me.
If you don't know, he's just yes you already Yeah,
don't make you wonder just where he's me?

Speaker 5 (01:54:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:54:09):
And I was time to know that you.

Speaker 1 (01:54:13):
For you know?

Speaker 2 (01:54:14):
You think you did you know? Did you know? Don't
your husband? Pray? I'm not thinking about but you're married? Now?
Do you know what made lea? I know he back
to stay with me. He was a man enough. That's

(01:54:38):
not yet, it's all right, Mary? Do you know I
made him leave? Do you know he back to stay?
He was a man enough for me?

Speaker 4 (01:54:58):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:54:59):
So many reason why I love is through. Yeah, But
what makes you think he'll be good to you? It
makes no sense because he will never change very better?
Reckon last a game? Do you know all us back things?

Speaker 5 (01:55:24):
Did you know?

Speaker 2 (01:55:24):
Don't your husbands.

Speaker 1 (01:55:26):
Girlfriend, I'm not thinking about him, but you married him.

Speaker 2 (01:55:32):
Do you know I made him? Do you know head
back to stay? Well, lady, kill.

Speaker 1 (01:55:45):
They just.

Speaker 2 (01:55:47):
Your husband And we're saying, there it is, and then
we don't get your begin We dive and I'm all
in and I'm married, and you know I made him? Lady,
You ain't married head back to stay me. He wasn't
mad enough, he wasn't made.

Speaker 1 (01:56:03):
He wasn't.

Speaker 2 (01:56:05):
You know you.

Speaker 3 (01:56:08):
Read in that ship damn told you want some big lungs.

Speaker 2 (01:56:15):
Let's see how next week I go. We kind of
hate that. Dawn h

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