September 30, 2025 • 11 mins
Bethenny walks in the L'Oreal Le Défilé show at PARIS FASHION WEEK!
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Speaker 1 (00:12):
So I'm going to Paris.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
I keep saying I'm going to Paris for fashion week,
which makes me sound like a real douchebag from my perspective,
because I don't go just like sit at fashion shows
front road or like flex and pretend that it has
something to do with me, because it doesn't. And yes,
I don't have to be so analytical, like you can
watch something just like looking at art, but I don't know,
(00:36):
there's something about it that can be pretentious for me.
In my life, it's always been that way. I've always
had this thing where like I don't like to be
an interloper. I don't like to be like an imposter
trying to pretend I belong somewhere. And I remember when
I was on Housewives and I would would get invited
to these fashion shows I went to like one or
(00:58):
two because I was always like, it is nothing to
do with me, Like I'm not into fashion, and now
I'm going to pretend I'm into fashion, And then these
people get so pretentious and overnight one day they're like
all about fashion. I love fashion, I just hate the
pretentiousness of it. So I'm going to Paris. It happens
to be Fashion Week, but I'm walking in the Laureal
(01:19):
Paris de Field Fashion Show, which is the most It's
the best of all of them by a mile. Like
calling what the Laureal show is a fashion show is
like calling a mouse a skyscraper. Like their show is
an extraordinary spectacle, like the likes you've never seen. I
(01:42):
try to explain it to people, then I go google
a picture. I'm like, no, they take over part of
a city, like the Eiffel Tower or the Larc de
triomp for last year was opera and this year it's
something else. Like the magnitude of it is so big,
and it's thousands of people and it's just like supermodels
and Lrial's so chill because I don't know when they
(02:03):
plan this, but like they're gone all August, Like we
don't know any of the plans until right before we
get on the plane. And if you saw the spectacle,
like the super Bowl is probably easier to put together,
Like this thing is not a joke. It's not a joke.
It was so shocking last year. Eva Longoria was there,
Jane Fonda, Heidi Klum, Kendall, Jenner, Karra Delevant, like just
(02:24):
so many models from all over the world, all the
like Vogue covers from all over the world. It's just
so moving and so exciting and so glamorous. And last
year I was like a visitor, you know, Like this year,
I'm gonna walk in like I fucking own the joys.
I'm gonna go into the like wardrobe fitting and not
be like a little weird mouse being like it's okay,
(02:44):
whatever you want to put me in. Like I literally
looked at the first dress, thought it was cute, put
it on. I was like, well wear that I had
no idea. Like this year, I'm gonna be like crazy,
I'm gonna walk in with like nine assistants to just
decide what I'm gonna wear.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
None of this is gonna happen the way, but.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
I just mean, like I'm fucking walking in and picking
address that eats down to use the words of this
girl's Silves who said that when I left my Sports
Illustrated walk. So now that I'm an actual, bonified, proven supermodel,
and I have other proof, but I can't tell you
because there are other things I've been offered that are
big secrets that I'm a supermodel. Like now it's like
(03:22):
I made it real. I said it.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
It's real.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
So I'm going tomorrow and I'm bringing members of my team.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Someone Danielle can't come.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
She has a personal issue and we're broken hearted, and
so I'm bringing someone else who works with me.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
And it's different people than.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Last year, which I do like because it is in
major experience and I love as part of my life
and my business to be able to take someone that
works with me to Paris who's never been there before.
Like I remember being young and working and being excited
to go on a business trip, and now even with
my new life and living in Florida, I'm excited to
go on a business trip where I used to be
(03:56):
a little more like dragging ass. But now that I'm
here in Florida, I wake up in the morning, I
have a purpose for where I am now in Florida,
and I understand my relationship to where I'm living now
and what it means to me and why I'm here
at the stage of my life.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
And so now I feel calm.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
I feel nested, I feel rested, I feel secure, I
feel like I have a base. I don't feel unsettled,
I feel happy, I feel at peace. So now I
feel motivated to get on the plane because my boredom
and sometimes loneliness now is different than when I was
in Connecticut.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
When I was in Connecticut, it was like.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Depressing and there was no end in sight, and I
just like had to justify where I was by the
trips I was about to take and the experiences.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
I would get excited about.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Where I am Now, it's not like I'm doing so
many exciting things day to day, but I'm just overall
happier and healthier and so like, I want to go,
but then I also want to come back. I can't
say that I ever wanted to come back to Connecticut
except to like rest and unpacked and go back to
some base. But now I'm excited to be at this
(05:03):
space and eat my fresh fruit and take my walk
and like see the dogs so happy, and it's just
everything's better. I'm having better quality time with my dogs.
Even because of the layout of my house, we have
to at some point do a whole discussion on functionuay
and your environment, because the layout of my house in
Connecticut is a gigantic property, but with even within the
(05:25):
main property a lot of different rooms that aren't like
one open space, and when I lived in New York City.
I had an off the elevator, giant open space, and
I loved knowing where everything is. And so what happened
was because it was these weird, choppy spaces and rooms
off of rooms, the dogs would go and like pee
in other rooms, and they peied one time the first
(05:46):
day here knockwood, please knock wood. But like since then,
which was months ago, they have been very good boys.
I just don't want to say the rest outlet. I
don't wanna jinx myself, but this house in Florida is
an open concept. You kind of pretty much like in
a bedroom, understand where you are, and the dogs have
had I don't want to say it, but they're being
(06:07):
very good boys, and I'm thinking maybe they have less
anxiety because in my last house they were in like
a separate room. You had to walk through it all
the time, and I'd be with them always when we slept,
but during the day they were in the foyer a lot,
and they were with other people that I worked with
when they walked through that area, and they had a bed.
But it was like there were constantly people coming in
and out of my house. Because of the layout. I
(06:28):
have people that are here a lot, but I don't
see them as much because they're in like a completely
renovated garage that is starting to look like an apartment.
And it's just the way that the place is laid
out and the way that the user habits are and
the way that the people traffic is that I have
my own space again. I have my own primary home
without all these people in and out of my life,
(06:49):
and my dogs have one giant main space and like
I see them all day long, and when I go
to watch TV. It's not like they have to stay
in the front foyer because they're gonna peace somewhere. It
just used to be very choppy where I couldn't get
a cadence with them. And now like they're always with me,
and even though I travel maybe even more now, I
(07:10):
don't feel bad about it because they stay in the house.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Someone comes and stays at them. They're here.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
They're so happy, Like they seem different. My dogs seem different.
They seem like they're like on their retirement plan and
(07:36):
like de stress and happy. And I'm so happy about that.
Like my dogs are happy, I'm happy I have quality
time with them. Just all of us seem to be thriving.
We just seem to be like relaxed and just better
and just we have more of a rhythm and a structure,
and I just like, I feel so much better. And
by the way, when it's a new job, a new relationship,
(07:57):
a new friendship, a new anything, a new house, you
need to get used to it and find your way.
I'm not the person that the first day gets somewhere.
I'm gonna like become what it's going to be. I
have to like assess the environment and decide how it's
going to be. Even on a vacation, like what how's
this going to roll? What's our schedule going to be?
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Every day?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
You just figure it out. So here I got here
late July. I was resentful about that because of high
school sports. I thought it was ridiculous and it was
so blazing hot. I got like a face peel in
my face. I didn't want to go in the sun,
and so I was sort of just like a hermit
and thinking, what the fuck I'm now doing my Connecticut
life just with warmer weather outside that I'm not touching
because like I'm inside because I'm scared of getting fried.
(08:38):
And it was such a moment in time. But then
one night I broke the seal and I was like, wait,
it's seven o'clock. It's like cloudy, but it's still light out.
Let me like walk, not cloudy, like the sun's down,
but let me go walk to the beach. And I
was like, wait, this is I really do live at
the beach, Like I live at the beach, and like
I can swim at night, like the ocean is right here.
So I just sort of like had to shake up
(08:59):
my brain and realized this is real, Like is this real?
I thought when I was moving here wasn't gonna be real.
I just thought it was a scam, like it says
it's close, but you're never gonna walk like that kind
of thing, because I've done that before.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
You live near the town, but you never walk to
the town.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
So one day I was like, let me go in
the morning when it's not blazing hot because it was summer.
And so at seven fifteen, when Brinn had left for school,
I just walked down to the beach and I was like,
I'm at the beach, like it's right. And then I
walked for all my steps and then one day I
was like, wait, I'm gonna walk into this place and
get a coffee because I was envisioned a life or
in the morning, I'm gonna just take a walk and
(09:34):
in the middle of it, I'm gonna go get a
nice latte and then I'm gonna come home. And then
the next day I was like, well, wait a second,
I'm just gonna be a person that every day like
swims in the ocean the salt water and my hair
and my face. Like I'm gonna be that person because
I'm that bitch, because my motherfucker says so. And like
now I'm the person that every day I wake up
and Brenda's want me in a room.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
I give her a kiss. I love you.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
I piece the fuck out. I walk to the beach,
I do my business calls on my beach walk, I swim,
I listened to music.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
I come back. I'm fucking exhausted. I come back. I
eat fresh fruit.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
I make like this functional coffee with like this fiber
powder and colostrum, and like I'm just the greatest, Like
I don't even know what's going on. I'm like in
a full like neck deep wellness journey. And by the way,
I'm thinking, and it doesn't have to be here. It
could be you like the mountains, you like the city,
you like this, you like that, you do whatever you want,
(10:25):
but if you could find what speaks to you on a.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Day to day, it's so healthy.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
I by definition, I'm so much healthier because every day
I'm walking outside and going and swimming in the ocean.
Like that has to account for some longevity thing, like
we could take as much medicine as we want and
do as many things and go to longevity clinics. But
I mean, I'm pretty sure that sleeping while waking up,
going to the beach and swimming in the ocean is
(10:55):
good for the soul.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Chicken soup for the soul.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
That the answer that pass, that the faster
So I'm going to Paris.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
I keep saying I'm going to Paris for fashion week,
which makes me sound like a real douchebag from my perspective,
because I don't go just like sit at fashion shows
front road or like flex and pretend that it has
something to do with me, because it doesn't. And yes,
I don't have to be so analytical, like you can
watch something just like looking at art, but I don't know,
(00:36):
there's something about it that can be pretentious for me.
In my life, it's always been that way. I've always
had this thing where like I don't like to be
an interloper. I don't like to be like an imposter
trying to pretend I belong somewhere. And I remember when
I was on Housewives and I would would get invited
to these fashion shows I went to like one or
(00:58):
two because I was always like, it is nothing to
do with me, Like I'm not into fashion, and now
I'm going to pretend I'm into fashion, And then these
people get so pretentious and overnight one day they're like
all about fashion. I love fashion, I just hate the
pretentiousness of it. So I'm going to Paris. It happens
to be Fashion Week, but I'm walking in the Laureal
(01:19):
Paris de Field Fashion Show, which is the most It's
the best of all of them by a mile. Like
calling what the Laureal show is a fashion show is
like calling a mouse a skyscraper. Like their show is
an extraordinary spectacle, like the likes you've never seen. I
(01:42):
try to explain it to people, then I go google
a picture. I'm like, no, they take over part of
a city, like the Eiffel Tower or the Larc de
triomp for last year was opera and this year it's
something else. Like the magnitude of it is so big,
and it's thousands of people and it's just like supermodels
and Lrial's so chill because I don't know when they
(02:03):
plan this, but like they're gone all August, Like we
don't know any of the plans until right before we
get on the plane. And if you saw the spectacle,
like the super Bowl is probably easier to put together,
Like this thing is not a joke. It's not a joke.
It was so shocking last year. Eva Longoria was there,
Jane Fonda, Heidi Klum, Kendall, Jenner, Karra Delevant, like just
(02:24):
so many models from all over the world, all the
like Vogue covers from all over the world. It's just
so moving and so exciting and so glamorous. And last
year I was like a visitor, you know, Like this year,
I'm gonna walk in like I fucking own the joys.
I'm gonna go into the like wardrobe fitting and not
be like a little weird mouse being like it's okay,
(02:44):
whatever you want to put me in. Like I literally
looked at the first dress, thought it was cute, put
it on. I was like, well wear that I had
no idea. Like this year, I'm gonna be like crazy,
I'm gonna walk in with like nine assistants to just
decide what I'm gonna wear.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
None of this is gonna happen the way, but.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
I just mean, like I'm fucking walking in and picking
address that eats down to use the words of this
girl's Silves who said that when I left my Sports
Illustrated walk. So now that I'm an actual, bonified, proven supermodel,
and I have other proof, but I can't tell you
because there are other things I've been offered that are
big secrets that I'm a supermodel. Like now it's like
(03:22):
I made it real. I said it.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
It's real.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
So I'm going tomorrow and I'm bringing members of my team.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Someone Danielle can't come.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
She has a personal issue and we're broken hearted, and
so I'm bringing someone else who works with me.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
And it's different people than.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Last year, which I do like because it is in
major experience and I love as part of my life
and my business to be able to take someone that
works with me to Paris who's never been there before.
Like I remember being young and working and being excited
to go on a business trip, and now even with
my new life and living in Florida, I'm excited to
go on a business trip where I used to be
(03:56):
a little more like dragging ass. But now that I'm
here in Florida, I wake up in the morning, I
have a purpose for where I am now in Florida,
and I understand my relationship to where I'm living now
and what it means to me and why I'm here
at the stage of my life.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
And so now I feel calm.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
I feel nested, I feel rested, I feel secure, I
feel like I have a base. I don't feel unsettled,
I feel happy, I feel at peace. So now I
feel motivated to get on the plane because my boredom
and sometimes loneliness now is different than when I was
in Connecticut.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
When I was in Connecticut, it was like.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Depressing and there was no end in sight, and I
just like had to justify where I was by the
trips I was about to take and the experiences.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
I would get excited about.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Where I am Now, it's not like I'm doing so
many exciting things day to day, but I'm just overall
happier and healthier and so like, I want to go,
but then I also want to come back. I can't
say that I ever wanted to come back to Connecticut
except to like rest and unpacked and go back to
some base. But now I'm excited to be at this
(05:03):
space and eat my fresh fruit and take my walk
and like see the dogs so happy, and it's just
everything's better. I'm having better quality time with my dogs.
Even because of the layout of my house, we have
to at some point do a whole discussion on functionuay
and your environment, because the layout of my house in
Connecticut is a gigantic property, but with even within the
(05:25):
main property a lot of different rooms that aren't like
one open space, and when I lived in New York City.
I had an off the elevator, giant open space, and
I loved knowing where everything is. And so what happened
was because it was these weird, choppy spaces and rooms
off of rooms, the dogs would go and like pee
in other rooms, and they peied one time the first
(05:46):
day here knockwood, please knock wood. But like since then,
which was months ago, they have been very good boys.
I just don't want to say the rest outlet. I
don't wanna jinx myself, but this house in Florida is
an open concept. You kind of pretty much like in
a bedroom, understand where you are, and the dogs have
had I don't want to say it, but they're being
(06:07):
very good boys, and I'm thinking maybe they have less
anxiety because in my last house they were in like
a separate room. You had to walk through it all
the time, and I'd be with them always when we slept,
but during the day they were in the foyer a lot,
and they were with other people that I worked with
when they walked through that area, and they had a bed.
But it was like there were constantly people coming in
and out of my house. Because of the layout. I
(06:28):
have people that are here a lot, but I don't
see them as much because they're in like a completely
renovated garage that is starting to look like an apartment.
And it's just the way that the place is laid
out and the way that the user habits are and
the way that the people traffic is that I have
my own space again. I have my own primary home
without all these people in and out of my life,
(06:49):
and my dogs have one giant main space and like
I see them all day long, and when I go
to watch TV. It's not like they have to stay
in the front foyer because they're gonna peace somewhere. It
just used to be very choppy where I couldn't get
a cadence with them. And now like they're always with me,
and even though I travel maybe even more now, I
(07:10):
don't feel bad about it because they stay in the house.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Someone comes and stays at them. They're here.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
They're so happy, Like they seem different. My dogs seem different.
They seem like they're like on their retirement plan and
(07:36):
like de stress and happy. And I'm so happy about that.
Like my dogs are happy, I'm happy I have quality
time with them. Just all of us seem to be thriving.
We just seem to be like relaxed and just better
and just we have more of a rhythm and a structure,
and I just like, I feel so much better. And
by the way, when it's a new job, a new relationship,
(07:57):
a new friendship, a new anything, a new house, you
need to get used to it and find your way.
I'm not the person that the first day gets somewhere.
I'm gonna like become what it's going to be. I
have to like assess the environment and decide how it's
going to be. Even on a vacation, like what how's
this going to roll? What's our schedule going to be?
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Every day?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
You just figure it out. So here I got here
late July. I was resentful about that because of high
school sports. I thought it was ridiculous and it was
so blazing hot. I got like a face peel in
my face. I didn't want to go in the sun,
and so I was sort of just like a hermit
and thinking, what the fuck I'm now doing my Connecticut
life just with warmer weather outside that I'm not touching
because like I'm inside because I'm scared of getting fried.
(08:38):
And it was such a moment in time. But then
one night I broke the seal and I was like, wait,
it's seven o'clock. It's like cloudy, but it's still light out.
Let me like walk, not cloudy, like the sun's down,
but let me go walk to the beach. And I
was like, wait, this is I really do live at
the beach, Like I live at the beach, and like
I can swim at night, like the ocean is right here.
So I just sort of like had to shake up
(08:59):
my brain and realized this is real, Like is this real?
I thought when I was moving here wasn't gonna be real.
I just thought it was a scam, like it says
it's close, but you're never gonna walk like that kind
of thing, because I've done that before.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
You live near the town, but you never walk to
the town.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
So one day I was like, let me go in
the morning when it's not blazing hot because it was summer.
And so at seven fifteen, when Brinn had left for school,
I just walked down to the beach and I was like,
I'm at the beach, like it's right. And then I
walked for all my steps and then one day I
was like, wait, I'm gonna walk into this place and
get a coffee because I was envisioned a life or
in the morning, I'm gonna just take a walk and
(09:34):
in the middle of it, I'm gonna go get a
nice latte and then I'm gonna come home. And then
the next day I was like, well, wait a second,
I'm just gonna be a person that every day like
swims in the ocean the salt water and my hair
and my face. Like I'm gonna be that person because
I'm that bitch, because my motherfucker says so. And like
now I'm the person that every day I wake up
and Brenda's want me in a room.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
I give her a kiss. I love you.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
I piece the fuck out. I walk to the beach,
I do my business calls on my beach walk, I swim,
I listened to music.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
I come back. I'm fucking exhausted. I come back. I
eat fresh fruit.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
I make like this functional coffee with like this fiber
powder and colostrum, and like I'm just the greatest, Like
I don't even know what's going on. I'm like in
a full like neck deep wellness journey. And by the way,
I'm thinking, and it doesn't have to be here. It
could be you like the mountains, you like the city,
you like this, you like that, you do whatever you want,
(10:25):
but if you could find what speaks to you on a.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Day to day, it's so healthy.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
I by definition, I'm so much healthier because every day
I'm walking outside and going and swimming in the ocean.
Like that has to account for some longevity thing, like
we could take as much medicine as we want and
do as many things and go to longevity clinics. But
I mean, I'm pretty sure that sleeping while waking up,
going to the beach and swimming in the ocean is
(10:55):
good for the soul.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Chicken soup for the soul.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
That the answer that pass, that the faster
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