(Grand)Mother Knows Best: Nell Fletcher in the sHOT Seat

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Speaker 1 (00:03):
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Speaker 2 (00:34):
So you know, listen, we have.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
To talk about what's been going on in the world
of reality television.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
So rain drops.

Speaker 1 (00:44):
As you know, every Monday night, we have a new
segment called Shots Topics.

Speaker 2 (00:49):
Okay, Claudia, did you have your shot?

Speaker 3 (00:54):
I can go get one, go get a baby snatched,
But when you're my date on Monday, it's up a shot.

Speaker 2 (01:02):
Okay, So nothing happy.

Speaker 4 (01:04):
I sure do?

Speaker 5 (01:07):
Brown and Ready and Carlos got that. You don't even
have your shot. You just got that whatever ginger root extract?

Speaker 4 (01:14):
What is it? It's kind of extract?

Speaker 6 (01:17):
What cool?

Speaker 4 (01:19):
What is it?

Speaker 2 (01:20):
Okay?

Speaker 4 (01:20):
You ready?

Speaker 2 (01:21):
Dustin?

Speaker 1 (01:21):
Yes, Okay, it's ginger apple limit and cayenne damn.

Speaker 4 (01:29):
Okay, So you're trying to do like this. That's what that.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
Yeah, I got things to do, Okay, I don't.

Speaker 3 (01:40):
Think any more like that.

Speaker 7 (01:41):
I'm not really It's not fun drinking unless you're it's
going to end in a happy ending.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
To me. I like the drinker. I'm about to get some.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
Mm hmmm mmm, Dustin, are you like that too?

Speaker 4 (01:50):
No, I don't like drunk sex. I want to remember.

Speaker 3 (01:53):
I love it.

Speaker 5 (01:53):
I don't remember what it felt like when everything looked like,
what was dark, what was light?

Speaker 4 (01:58):
What was big? So I want to remember broa, the
you know the details, the markers. I can be. I
can smoke and have sex, but I don't really like
being drunk.

Speaker 2 (02:10):
Do you smoke during sets?

Speaker 5 (02:12):
No, he smoked before. Somebody you're trying to kill me,
burning me smoke.

Speaker 1 (02:19):
Because for some reasons, that's I can see you doing
this in the in the middle of it, taking a break, yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:28):
Blowing on it. I see them in their face.

Speaker 8 (02:32):
I definitely see that. Ye take that smoke, take a
little break, you know. But no, I need hands free,
so I can't be smoke.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
Well, you drinking smoke, We don't really see you. I
didn't really see you faded.

Speaker 2 (02:49):
Oh you drink or smoke?

Speaker 3 (02:52):
Nothing at all.

Speaker 1 (02:53):
Huh No, I just have I have a lot of
energy and stamina.

Speaker 2 (02:59):
Because I work on a lot so and I know
how to lift lift, you know, I know how.

Speaker 3 (03:07):
We just went in there like that. I know that
you sometimes you have to.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Like go in You gotta like assess the situation, you know,
you gotta like nothing gets it.

Speaker 5 (03:17):
I do and hopefully I get it tonight at all?

Speaker 3 (03:24):
Do you have someone best over?

Speaker 4 (03:27):
I have someone? What am I dating somebody? Nah? I'm single?

Speaker 3 (03:33):
Me too?

Speaker 4 (03:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (03:36):
Three?

Speaker 3 (03:37):
Oh we're all single.

Speaker 4 (03:38):
We're all single? Yeah, child, yeah, think.

Speaker 3 (03:44):
So Carlos talking.

Speaker 1 (03:46):
Let's let's let's let's do our shop topics already, yes,
top number one chairs, water.

Speaker 7 (03:54):
No, it's banana flavoring, malbour room.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
Okay, let's go, all right, let's go all right. So
first things first, okay, breaking news. The biggest topic of
a couple in recent months has been loving hip hop
Atlanta Us I mean DC and Yandy.

Speaker 2 (04:19):
If you watch my.

Speaker 1 (04:20):
Interview with the Kirkim Rashida, it was the first time
that it was talked about whether or not Yandy I
mean DC had an open marriage because Kirki Rasheda alluded
to it in my interview That interview made its way
onto the season of Loving Hip Hop Alanta, which airs

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every Tuesday, and with DC feels like Kirk keeps talking
about his penis and he doesn't understand why a man
keeps talking about his penis. So that's when the rumor
mills started to arise in the sense of does Yandy
and me and DC have an open marriage? After that,
Yandy's former best friend who I also think Dustin was

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the assistant.

Speaker 5 (05:04):
If I'm not mistaken or some thing, there was some
other professional relationship as well.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
Yeah, so Yandy's best friend and somebody who worked for
her did a live and a video and started to
reveal that Yandy allegedly had a boyfriend had a guy
that she was seeing. That conversation and topic also made
his way onto Love and Hip hop Alanta. That scaring

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the season. I mean, DC and Yandy had a sit
down conversation. In this conversation, Yandy revealed that she had
an emotional affair. What has been rumor based on Yandy's
friend was that this person would travel with them, would

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be in the same hotels, So it is now a
topic of discuss I would love to get y'all thoughts
on it. You've been following the story, Dustin, what are
your thoughts on Yandy's saying that she had an emotional affair,
although her friend is saying something differently.

Speaker 4 (06:12):
I'm glad she was halfway honest.

Speaker 5 (06:15):
I think Yandy told just enough of the truth to
be able to say she took accountability in whatever way
she felt was necessary. I'm more focused on the fact
that the friend told in the first place. To me,
I'm sorry, you can call me old school or whatever,
but if we friends and we keep secrets, then I'm
gonna keep the secrets even after we fall out. And
I don't like it when people have a disagreement, usually

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something that could be solved easily through communication, and then
they want to start running all the things that they
kept secret during the whatever time things was good.

Speaker 4 (06:46):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (06:47):
If I was Ma in DC's I would have an
issue to take umbrage with that, because you wasn't saying
shit until she pitched you off. You were okay with
her being deceitful behind my back. So I don't know.
That's just what I felt about it. It was a
bunch of their business that I did not need to know.
I also think it's a note that Yandy quote unquote
help men DC's down. While he did that bit right,

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she stayed loyal, stayed married to him, kept the businesses running,
kept the family together. And so there's a part of
me that feels like he should have some reverence and
respect for that, in addition to the natural respect that
you should have if you're in a marriage, whether it's
legal or not. So I don't know, my boy. Men
DC's kind of dropped the ball on this one. And Yandy,
if she cheated, she was wrong too. But yeah, that's

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where I'm at with a Claudia what you think I.

Speaker 7 (07:35):
Feel you on that, especially when the way she did
hold him down, It's almost like not that she should
get a past, but a little more grace because she
had the weight of the world on her shoulders while
he was in prison. She held it down with much criticism,
and that's when there was lots of drama, love and
hip hop. She was left holding the bag, like just
having to handle everything, and she did. And I mean

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maybe she who knows what other baggages they have it
to you? I mean, you never hear ye any putting
him on blasts, you know, and I'm sure that there's
been things in their relationship that probably weren't flattering to him,
the friend as far as the front that I'm right
with you with that bullshit like mad day now you
want to tell the world. It kind of makes it
difficult for people that have a lot more to lose, celebrities,

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realities to befriend and have friends that are outside the business,
because like it's a little bit unyoked.

Speaker 3 (08:27):
Yes that's not the word, but you're not equally yoked,
if you know it.

Speaker 7 (08:31):
If this goes left, I'm the one who has everything
to lose, and nobody knows you you have everything to
gain and I have everything to lose.

Speaker 3 (08:38):
And then it's like, are you putting extra on it
because you know it could hurt you.

Speaker 7 (08:40):
I had someone that was close to me that was
angry about something and the first the first threat.

Speaker 3 (08:47):
Was I'll expose you to the blogs. And I said, well,
expose what?

Speaker 7 (08:51):
And it became like a whatever, Like I can make
things up, you know, like I can.

Speaker 3 (08:54):
I have access to your life.

Speaker 7 (08:56):
You know, when someone has access to your life, it
gives it a lot of credibility when they say something.

Speaker 3 (09:01):
You know.

Speaker 7 (09:01):
I had a friend that I was really closer before
that did this to me? Said first paulmy, you get
blaked for everything I do. And then when when mad
Day came, was caught trying to go to publicists and
plant stories about me. So I feel bad for Yanny
because we don't really know how much of it is
because of mad Day and an exaggeration, and how much

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is action too you. I don't really you feel like
you can trust those kind of sources to be really accurate.
They could put ten on twenty. Maybe it was an
emotional affair, but the person's like, well, what if that,
I'm gonna say she was like he was clapping cheeks
because why were they not believe me? I was right there?
And I think that's about even if she was. You know,
we got to be able to trust the people that
we have around us, and that should transcend when you're

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mad at me.

Speaker 2 (09:46):
Yeah, no, I agree with that. I agree with that.

Speaker 1 (09:49):
So listen, just to clear the air based on people
wandering the validity of Yandy Emma DC's marriage. So, Yandy
im DC did get mad married on television.

Speaker 2 (10:02):
They signed papers.

Speaker 1 (10:04):
What Yandy later revealed was that that was pretty much
a TV wedding and she did not submit the marriage certificate. However,
what happened was after he was released from prison twenty twenty,
they are now legally married, although a lot of people,
including Rasheeda, are even questioning whether or not their marriage

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even today is still legal now. One thing that men
DC and Yandy did talk about in the episode was the.

Speaker 2 (10:38):
Fact that I mean d D has been.

Speaker 1 (10:44):
Revealed that he has been entertaining women the DMS per audio.

Speaker 2 (10:50):
They talked about you heard me, I've heard you.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
This is what the married couple were saying to each other,
and that was the reason why Yandy said she had
this emotional Now, within this emotional affair, there weren't any
details whether, like Claudia said, was it intimate, was penetration involved?
Wasn't it just conversations? Was it just somebody that they

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could talk to? What I have been told and I
would love to get your thoughts on it, Claudia and Dustin.

Speaker 2 (11:18):
I'll start with you first.

Speaker 1 (11:19):
Claudia, I've always been told that when a woman has
an emotional affair, it's worse than physical because for a woman,
when a woman is emotionally invested in another man, oh baby,
forget about the husband. She wants this man, Claudia, what
do you have to say about that?

Speaker 7 (11:40):
It's true, we're not wired the same. Like a man
could be totally detached from the person he's having an
affair with and just basically get his rocks off and
then will ill yuck by I'm going back to my family.
A woman, we're a lot harder to do that. It's
a lot harder for us. Unless you have an issue
like you or you're an inphomaniac or whatever. It's a

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straight of pork for the most part. You know, if
she's having an emotional affair with someone, it's a lot deeper.
It's way deeper because it's more cerebral. It's more Have
you ever dated someone that's like not your physical type, right,
but something about their personality attracts you that attraction Sometimes

(12:23):
to me, it's been in my past, like when I
dated someone that wasn't easy, Jake, date dropped it fine,
like your faith.

Speaker 2 (12:28):
Dotty, your acts are gorgeous.

Speaker 7 (12:30):
Sorry I did, yes, but I have dated a couple uglies.
But the thing that made me attracted to them, and
those connections with somebody argue even stronger because that wasn't
based on physical emotionally, I was there for me to
overlook my physical and get with that.

Speaker 3 (12:46):
You know what I'm thinking, what attracts me mentally?

Speaker 7 (12:49):
It is deeper, it really is, and it's actually you
can argue a stronger connection than a physical thing. Yeah,
I feel like if she has an emotional connection, that
means she feels that she doesn't have a we have
a connection. It's like you don't feel like your man
is really there for you, or you're not feeling seen
at home, so you go get seen by somebody else.

Speaker 3 (13:07):
And once you have that, it's very easy.

Speaker 7 (13:09):
Like they say, men fall love, women fall in love
on the phone, and men fall love what they see like.

Speaker 3 (13:14):
You're more visual, we are more like what we think
when we hear.

Speaker 7 (13:17):
So if it's an emotional connection, oh, it's very hard
to come back from that because she's probably.

Speaker 3 (13:22):
Disgusted with in DC's she's probably over it.

Speaker 7 (13:25):
She's probably told him a thousand times about something that's
bothered her and he didn't change it.

Speaker 3 (13:29):
And then you seek it elsewhere. It doesn't just happen
because someone's a great husband.

Speaker 7 (13:33):
An emotional connection with someone else doesn't happen when you're
emotionally fed at home, it just doesn't happen. We don't
really do that. I've never had two emotional connections at
the same time. If I'm happy with my guy, I'm
shutting it down with other men because it's like offensive,
but you would even think I'd go there. But if
I'm feeling like neglected, the door's wide open. Now someone
can come get me. Someone can come get me if

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I'm not fed at home. And a lot of times
men think.

Speaker 3 (13:57):
I'm holding it down.

Speaker 7 (13:58):
I'm giving you dick, I'm paying the bills, and they
think that's enough. It's not the emotional of the intimacy though.
When we're watching the TV on the couch, your hand
is always on me, or you're playing in my hair,
or you're checking on me during the day, how was
your day? Little things like that is what gives us.
It's not those big gestures. That's that fake reality TV bullshit.
But I bet you she's been lacking. I mean, Medissa,

(14:19):
I'm not trying to come for you. I'm just saying
I'm assuming maybe she's been feeling like for a long time,
I've done this, that this that that for you. All
I want is for you to like listen to me
and I'm telling a story, stay you know, be in it.
Remember when I told you something you know that's what's
make real really important to women.

Speaker 5 (14:37):
Yeah, I'm with Claudia on this. I think that you're
one hundred percent right about the emotional quotion being paramount
being important.

Speaker 4 (14:46):
Right.

Speaker 5 (14:47):
We all remember a couple of seasons back on Loving
Hip Hop Atlanta when there was a conversation There was
a scene where there was a conversation and man d
C's was being asked if he would have did you know,
stay down basically if Yandy was the one that had
did it bit and had to go do some time
in jail or whatever, and he kind of said he
didn't know.

Speaker 4 (15:07):
He didn't just say yes.

Speaker 5 (15:08):
And after this is post release, right, And I think
ever since then, when it comes to the viewership, they have,
you know, watched his behavior through a different lens after that,
because it was so it was shocking to see him
lack appreciation, lack acknowledgment of someone making that kind of sacrifice,
a multi year sacrifice like that. So I think from

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that point on, it's been kind of a decline as
far as people believing in their union. When you add
in the late reveal of the fact that they were
not legally married, which didn't mean nothing to me. I
actually completely understood why they would not enter into a
legally binding agreement when.

Speaker 4 (15:49):
He has all those things going on.

Speaker 5 (15:50):
There could be restitution involved, all that kind of shit,
so you protect the assets. That's business sappy. So I
understood that. But I also understood why after Yandy had
that kind of positioned their relationship as this shield, you
know what I'm saying, where he where she defended it
against his baby, his other children's pen mothers. We've seen

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her defend their relationship for so long, so for it
to now be revealed as illegitimate in some way, I
think people kind of read that as you're lying you
understand what I'm saying, as opposed to you're doing something
to be smart business wise. And I just think that
all those scenes compile together just paint a picture of
deceit a little bit when it comes to their union overall.

(16:35):
Once you start adding in cheating and emotional cheating and
physical cheating, to me, grow up. If you're gonna emotionally cheat,
you might as well fuck or get fucked, you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (16:45):
Like either way, you.

Speaker 5 (16:46):
Might as well want to make it worth your wild
if you're wild, if you're gonna do that, you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (16:51):
All that, I sometimes I think.

Speaker 5 (16:52):
Carlos and Claudia people say they just had an emotional
affair to try to retain some space for grace or
you know what I'm saying, I didn't go all lan,
I just did that.

Speaker 4 (17:02):
Fuck that, you just as wrong. You might as well
bust you know what I'm saying. That's that's that's how
I feel so well.

Speaker 2 (17:09):
It's a lot.

Speaker 3 (17:10):
Once you have an emotional correction, you start thinking about
that trust and.

Speaker 4 (17:13):
Believe, I ain't going to think about it too long.

Speaker 7 (17:17):
If I was a betting woman, which I am a
betting woman, I would say that men DC lost yancy
and he was probably open to an emotional relationship with
somebody else. The minute on national television when he was
asked if he would do a bit for her and
he said no in front of the world, probably lost
He probably lost her fully that day, like or it

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was a very a huge crack, because that is something
like the world saw you do it, but what you did,
he was not.

Speaker 3 (17:48):
Willing to do for you what she was willing to
do for him, and he said it on TV.

Speaker 7 (17:50):
He could have lied it because he knows the cameras
going on and said baby, of course, and then they
could have had their real conversation off him, like I
don't know, but saying it on camera is saying it
with your chest.

Speaker 3 (18:00):
And I think she and and think about it. We're
just viewers.

Speaker 7 (18:04):
She got to live it, and then she got to
see all of our commentary, our show and twenty other
shows commenting making oh, he didn't want to do it
for you. And then when you're over it, then the
episode airs four months later, whatever it is. Then at
the reunion they gotta hear about it again. I bet
you she's been checked out on that moment.

Speaker 1 (18:22):
Yeah, I mean, listen, a lot of men aren't Pat
poofs right, And and listen when when when Remy did
her bid, rain Joss tell me if I got this wrong,
although I don't think I do. Remy gave pappoos a
pass a whole yes, and rain Jobs tell me if

(18:44):
I got that wrong. I don't think I got it
wrong because she said it in a song before.

Speaker 2 (18:49):
But Rain Joss tell me the comments Remy gave Pappoos a.

Speaker 1 (18:55):
Pass and from my understanding, he never took advantage of it.

Speaker 2 (19:01):
I think that's a conversation, but Rain Johnson got the
wrong or not. So listen.

Speaker 1 (19:06):
It's when I've watched the scene between Yany and DC.
I haven't watched Love and Hip Hopolanta since the Christy
and Jim Jones days and Mama Jones. No, no, they're
not married yet, but but they're still together but not married.
That scene between in DC and Yandy was very different

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in the sense of their chemistry that I saw years ago.
I think, Claudia, you're right and dusn't you're right too.

Speaker 4 (19:35):
In the sense of.

Speaker 1 (19:38):
Some My opinion based on watching it is something is
checked out, meaning it they both look exhausted, and my
heart goes out to them being married.

Speaker 2 (19:51):
It's not easy.

Speaker 1 (19:52):
It's not easy, but there's some work that needs to
be done if they want to salvage the man rich.
Because I don't see chemistry between them anymore. You listen,
and I'm gonna change the subject and go to the
next topic. Say what you want about Kirki and Rashida.

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When you look at them today, they have chemistry. You
could tell they like each other. Walk Kirki and Rashida
when they're together, they act like best friends. They like
each other, they're they're they like each other. Now, Grant,
do they love each other? Sure, but that beloved ain't
ain't ain't ain't enough. Kirk and Rashida like each other,

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and that's the difference that I saw watching this particular season. So,
speaking of liking Dustin and Claudia, Mia b Lyon aka
Mia Thornton, formerly of the Royal Housewives of Atomac, is
in a relationship with Bobby Valentino.

Speaker 2 (21:05):
Claudia, I have a legal note, Claudia.

Speaker 7 (21:12):
Whatever you're gonna say, I think the jobs know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (21:18):
Okay, we thank you. Okay, so.

Speaker 1 (21:28):
Wo shout out to Sunny hostage.

Speaker 2 (21:36):
Okay, I loved Okay. Anyways, Claudia, be nice.

Speaker 7 (21:43):
I'm gonna just speak with my eyes when you talk.
Go ahead, tell a story.

Speaker 2 (21:46):
Okay. So, Mia who was married to Gordon and was
dating her first love for her high school sweetheart.

Speaker 6 (21:57):
Name Ink.

Speaker 1 (21:59):
The Ink dried up and Mia has moved on with
Bobby Dalatino, their own.

Speaker 2 (22:09):
They're on both together, they are dating, doing a lot
of posting, and they're now together. So I would like
to go with Dustin first so Claudia could get her
mind right.

Speaker 1 (22:29):
So when it comes to Mia dating Bobby Dallatino, Dustin,
where you shocked?

Speaker 2 (22:34):
Were you surprised? Is this on brand for Mia? What
are your thoughts on this, on this budding relationship.

Speaker 5 (22:41):
Well, of the three relationships that I've seen here have
since we've been exposed to her life, they've all been
shorter than her. So not only do mea be lying
Mia b Duckan, you know what I'm saying, I think
that's what I think. That's the new Moniker. You know
what I'm saying that we have now. Also, they just
doing what they're doing. They're just doing what they're doing.

(23:02):
They in the discovery phase right now. You know what
I'm saying. They just having a good time together. They
just having a good time together, having fun on their boat.

Speaker 4 (23:10):
And that's it.

Speaker 5 (23:11):
Mia is doing what she did the last time in
her relationship with Ink, making it seem like it's so
much more intense and serious than what it is. And
then in the next van she'll cite the fact that
in the first picture she tagged of them, she said
were just having fun. So she'll say, oh, I just
said were just having fun and then put a thousand
on twenty. As we move forward with all of this,
Bobbie Valentino just happy to be there because this is

(23:33):
good press for him for once. So you know, that's
just what they're doing. But shout out to me. I
hope she's having fun. I hope she's having a good time.

Speaker 2 (23:43):
All right, So let's get off to loving match.

Speaker 9 (23:45):
Bill smart Man, Hey, R Claudia, what are you.

Speaker 3 (24:05):
Said? Legal? What what about Claudia? It's the legal note.

Speaker 2 (24:09):
Listen, don't say anything disparaging.

Speaker 7 (24:12):
Okay, oh everything so expressions and I think Dustin should
translate for me.

Speaker 10 (24:21):
Okay, he translates, Yeah, ok.

Speaker 2 (24:48):
What do you have to say, sir?

Speaker 3 (24:51):
We can't legal.

Speaker 4 (24:54):
Blow down and boats? It is below deck?

Speaker 7 (25:00):
This that below deck a loot banger. I don't know
Titanic ship's going down.

Speaker 1 (25:08):
This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King.
Let's get back into the show.

Speaker 3 (25:14):
You know what. I'm cool with Bobby lost of my
song we want to video met him and Benzino.

Speaker 5 (25:19):
An Anonymous one of my favorite songs. I love Anonymous
by Bobby Valentino. That's my shit.

Speaker 3 (25:25):
He makes dope music.

Speaker 7 (25:26):
It's just this thing just came out of nowhere, and
I just feel like it feels.

Speaker 3 (25:29):
Like I don't know, I don't know mea like that.
I just know that dustin a piggyback off of you.

Speaker 7 (25:35):
I'm glad Bobby Valentino is getting some good press because
he hasn't had a good press in a really long time.
Like the last stories we've heard were, you know, running
from people, owing money and stuff like that. And he
does look they actually I kinda say this, thank you
rain drops. They're like they cracking up. They do look
really happy together. They do look happy together. I mean

(25:57):
don't know what the nature is. I mean, I really
happy with some on my best dies as well, you
know what I'm saying. But they do look hap together.
She's glowing, she got full on professional glam done. He's
happy as hell. He's really not aging. So hey, if
they love it, they.

Speaker 3 (26:11):
Like it, then I love it. Oh bit, I love that.

Speaker 7 (26:17):
For that, maybe they can get on the line of
housewives or I don't know, loving hip hop or or
zeus zeus Bobby, I love you, per That's all I
have to say, right, Okay, Well that that that sums

(26:41):
up shot topic.

Speaker 2 (26:42):
So I do want to get into Columbia.

Speaker 4 (26:47):
Do you like that?

Speaker 2 (26:49):
Kwami dot pamo sweat and.

Speaker 3 (26:52):
I got the sweat like me. I got Bobby Valentino sweat.

Speaker 4 (26:57):
Yeah, I working hard?

Speaker 5 (27:00):
Me as tall, working hard. That's like doing an inkind
press every time. You know what I'm saying? Every time?

Speaker 3 (27:10):
How tall is Mia? I've never been around mat her.

Speaker 2 (27:13):
I'm five nine. Don't shavee me? A'll me is taller
than me? Don't do it?

Speaker 7 (27:24):
Okay, see five said she's tall, So she's over. She's
at least five nine?

Speaker 2 (27:28):
Oh she me is like five ten, five eleven. Wow, Okay,
me as tall? I met a person as me as
a stallion, and Bobby is not.

Speaker 3 (27:41):
So you're saying me is a stallion and Bobby's a
Shetland pony. Me as a little pony, a Shetland pony,
the little ones. Okay, so I said a little pony,
my little pony. You think Bobby's good in bed? Do
you guys get good, big big dick energy from him?

Speaker 2 (28:01):
I don't look at him that way.

Speaker 5 (28:03):
I have no I wouldn't even want to be looking at.

Speaker 2 (28:05):
I don't.

Speaker 5 (28:08):
I did not, haven't given I'll tell you my celebrity
crush offline. It's yeah, god, yeah, yeah, first initials, k.

Speaker 4 (28:20):
Damn okay, that is.

Speaker 3 (28:22):
The damn okay first initial okay?

Speaker 4 (28:25):
Uh huh?

Speaker 3 (28:26):
Well sport or.

Speaker 2 (28:27):
With TV no script it.

Speaker 4 (28:33):
First name? I know, I know exactly who it is.

Speaker 2 (28:37):
Okay wait wait wait said.

Speaker 4 (28:40):
The first name is shorter in length than the last name.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
Right, Oh okay, like doctors really dispected to you?

Speaker 4 (28:48):
Hold on and.

Speaker 3 (28:52):
The kofe? He fine, I got a picture with him.
He's fine. Kevin Hart? You like him? You do like him?

Speaker 4 (29:01):
Sure?

Speaker 3 (29:01):
Don't you?

Speaker 4 (29:03):
And you like to laugh? Is it? Kevin hurt?

Speaker 3 (29:06):
Kevin Rich, Pat Williams coffee brown with a k?

Speaker 6 (29:15):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (29:16):
Okay?

Speaker 7 (29:16):
Okay, okay, Why am I not in this?

Speaker 2 (29:23):
Don't say skitty?

Speaker 7 (29:24):
You know listen, you have something, you have something that
Why am I not getting the message?

Speaker 4 (29:33):
Where?

Speaker 3 (29:34):
Oh be fine, that's got your usual type.

Speaker 2 (29:38):
You said, what I know, I'm trying something new.

Speaker 4 (29:41):
He's fine.

Speaker 3 (29:42):
I would definitely first the ball. Wait wait, wait, first
of the ball.

Speaker 5 (29:46):
Wait wait wait, do y'all think I am you look
taller in person? Oh, Carlos, you look taller than your
professed type in person?

Speaker 2 (29:57):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (29:57):
They say, Bobby is five three that's what Google says.

Speaker 1 (30:00):
Okay, anyways, I want to move on Bobby, Miss Juicy
eighty five three?

Speaker 3 (30:06):
Bobby, what do y'all tell you think? How all do
you think?

Speaker 2 (30:11):
Is I think dust in five six?

Speaker 3 (30:14):
Absolutely not.

Speaker 7 (30:16):
I'm leg no actually one thousand sent No.

Speaker 4 (30:23):
I can't even talk. Claudia, you're five what seven?

Speaker 3 (30:28):
I'm a legit five seven and a half. Bobby vent
is about five three, five four?

Speaker 4 (30:33):
Thank you five.

Speaker 1 (30:35):
I've met calls in person. He's definitely not short, Thank you, Carlos.
But Bobby Valentino word, he's not. Let they say five
three is wild? Okay, you can make up for another area.
So we want to get into Saturday's episode eleven, marriage

(30:55):
himes Belle. Before I bring on my guests, Miss now
to join us, I want to talk about the episode
in general. A lot happens episode. So the biggest thing though,
the biggest thing back that was episode on Saturday.

Speaker 2 (31:15):
So one of the things.

Speaker 7 (31:21):
We did look at colors sweating. Are you crying the sweating?
It's sweating?

Speaker 2 (31:25):
Huh we got the sweat crying. I'm crying crying?

Speaker 4 (31:27):
Are you okay? I'm sad?

Speaker 3 (31:35):
Okay? Uh wait, what's up doing Atlanta side of y'all
have fun? Did y'all hang out after the gold Drink and.

Speaker 4 (31:41):
Hang out went to V twelve Saturday Night.

Speaker 5 (31:44):
Shout out to Vinnie Watson and his incredible restaurant that
he ow was with Kwavo from the Migos.

Speaker 4 (31:49):
We partied in V twelve Saturday Night.

Speaker 5 (31:50):
Cynthia Bailey, you know what I'm saying, Nick Roses, Yeah.

Speaker 4 (31:55):
Yep, yes.

Speaker 1 (31:58):
So what did you guys think about the I do
want to talk to more to that. Let's get into
the conversation that happened in this episode A love in
Marriage Huntsville. One of the things that happens episode was

(32:18):
Miss Nell met with her son Lance. First of all,
I got so many texts over the weekend about how
fine Nel's son Lance is so.

Speaker 2 (32:28):
Lance is Nell's son.

Speaker 1 (32:30):
He used to hang out with Destiny.

Speaker 2 (32:35):
They hung out on the show last season.

Speaker 1 (32:39):
Lance had a baby recently, and Miss Nell in this
episode propositioned to her son that she will stay over
his house at least two nights a week to help.

Speaker 2 (32:54):
Him with this new baby. Lance has I believe one
or two two children.

Speaker 1 (33:00):
Miss miss Nell will correct me if I'm wrong, But
Miss Nell wants to help out her her son. Her husband,
Chris Fletcher, does not like the idea of his wife
being gone two nights a week. What are your thoughts
on that, Claudia, could you handle as let's say you
were somebody who had a baby, would you be able

(33:24):
to be okay with your mother coming over twice a
week leaving her husband to help you with the baby?

Speaker 7 (33:32):
Well, I mean he's feeling like he needs help, right,
Like I remember saying, he was saying, he feels like
it's a lot of it is on him, Like why
is the mom not doing enough? If I'm not doing nothing, Yeah,
your mom will come over to help, but it's probably
very intrusive.

Speaker 3 (33:50):
What's the relationship relationship with the mom though?

Speaker 1 (33:54):
Well, the mother, the child's mother and Lance. There is
some legal stuff going on there that we're not allowed
to touch. But for the sake of this conversation, they're
not in a relationship and they're not together.

Speaker 3 (34:09):
Oh them, No, then there should be no problem with that.
They're not together. He needs help. I don't see anything
wrong with that. I actually think I actually.

Speaker 7 (34:17):
Was Women do it all the time. If they need
help with the baby, they have their mom come help out.
And I think that's the blessing of having grandparents or
having your parents still around, is to have them help out.

Speaker 3 (34:31):
I think that I would welcome that.

Speaker 4 (34:34):
Yeah, I agree with Claudia one hundred percent.

Speaker 5 (34:36):
And I think as black people, we need to stop
this idea that our kids have to do everything the
hard way. If you have a child that is working
hard and showing up and doing their part, there's nothing
wrong with giving them help to get them further along.
If right shout out to this comment or Sandy Always
Real thirty eight eighty nine, it takes a village. And

(34:58):
if Neil is able and more most importantly willing to
help her son with her grand baby, then what's the issue?

Speaker 4 (35:05):
And I think that we keep seeing this theme.

Speaker 5 (35:09):
Echoing when it comes to the Fletchers of we're helping,
we're helping with help, we're helping, we're helping. But what's
wrong with helping if you're willing to and if you've
got it. I think a lot of this is I
think a lot of this is being played against the
commentary from the fans. People have strong feelings about nepotism
and about people helping their kids out financially and stuff,

(35:32):
and I think it's time out for that. We need
to start helping our kids out more. We need to
start pushing our kids forward and doing what we can
when we can. If we have our work and responsible
children that will appreciate the help, we should do that.

Speaker 4 (35:45):
So I just you know, that's how I feel about it.

Speaker 3 (35:48):
Does full company or you shared costody with the mom?

Speaker 5 (35:52):
I don't know what's going on, but because a lot
of my questions were going to be about the mother
of the baby, but Carlos is saying that there was
a legal angle on that that you know, we're avoiding
basically a week and.

Speaker 1 (36:05):
You guys, yeah, miss Nell, miss Nell will be able
to tell us what she's able to tell us. But
based on what the show is showcasing, the mother is
in the picture, she's she's in the picture, but in
the picture of the TV show. Yeah, And that's just

(36:28):
the basis of it. But in terms of whether or
not he has s full custody, I do think we
could ask.

Speaker 7 (36:32):
Him to know that when she can say yes, I
will say this now what I would probably thought I
was when I had, you know, a lot of responsibilities
on me to work and take care of my baby
and my mom wants to come over there and help,
but I know my mother is still married and you know,
she has responsibilities at home.

Speaker 3 (36:48):
Maybe kind of meet halfway.

Speaker 7 (36:49):
Maybe bringing the baby to the grandma's house to leave
her marriage and put a strain over there at her house.
I think that's probably what would probably make it more
palatable for I mean, who are we with a viewers,
but personally, let me drop the baby off instead of
like making her leave her house and spend the night
or stay with me all the time, because then that
can kind of cause some friction.

Speaker 3 (37:10):
Over there at the house, unless you know mister flex
wants to time off.

Speaker 2 (37:14):
Yeah, yeah, no, listen, it's a tough situation. What I
will say is this, I agree with the both of you.

Speaker 1 (37:22):
I think if you are blessed enough to have a
living mother who did an amazing job raising you. I
think if your mother is offering her help voluntarily, that
showcases to me what an amazing mom and grandmother you have.
And I say take advantage of it, because what you

(37:43):
don't want to happen is some scenarios is the wrong
person raising your child. I mean, not raising the wrong
person babysitting your child. You know, we do live in
a world where, like Dustin said, people do feel like, oh,
let me have my kid rich I agree to a
certain extent, like have them learn on the job, but

(38:05):
not to the point where they are visibly struggling, to
the point where they're making.

Speaker 2 (38:10):
Bad decisions, because you are super hands off.

Speaker 1 (38:13):
And in my opinion, I think what miss Nell offered
to me it is beautiful and one thing that I
do want to bring up that a lot of people
may not connect the dots. Miss Nell owns and operates
a daycare center. So her livelihood for many, many, many,
many many many years is taking care of other people's children.

(38:36):
So if that's her nine to five, five to nine,
and do it all over again, why wouldn't she volunteer
to take care of her grandchild, who is somebody that
has the same blood running through their veins.

Speaker 2 (38:54):
If she can do it for the people her client
tele I personally think is a beautiful thing.

Speaker 5 (39:01):
That's exactly why she can't do it, because she got
to listen to them holland ass babies all day at
the daycare. She don't want to hear all that Greg
Lynn and spitting up and shitting up the back of
the diaper, She don't want to deal with all that
one so when she leaves that ship at the daycare,
she don't want to deal with that no more. Chris
don't want to deal with new having an attitude from
dealing with them Holland ass babies all day and now
all night with this nigga. So you know what I'm saying,

(39:24):
that's probably like Chris like, hold on, harpo, we don't
need to do this this way.

Speaker 4 (39:28):
You know what I'm saying. That might be why, But
I think we'll find that she helps him though I do.

Speaker 1 (39:34):
Yeah, yeah, and I think two days a week is
not bad. I think she would think she's moving in
or no shade miss Nell. Worst case if miss Nell said,
how about you two moving with me? Yeah, I think
that is when things would be more of an issue.
And Chris Fletcher like dust instead of You're like my Look,
we raise our kids and I ain't trying to start over,

(40:00):
know seeing you take care of another, you know baby,
So I agree with that.

Speaker 2 (40:05):
Claudia will be back on. She did not get kicked
out of the group. She has not.

Speaker 1 (40:11):
Ran away from her luggage, We did not send her phone.
She is not kicked out of the group.

Speaker 4 (40:16):
She is a family member.

Speaker 1 (40:21):
We will make sure she's back on okay, So Dustin
one of the things that happened in this episode.

Speaker 4 (40:28):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (40:29):
That has some to talk of social media since the
preview was posted on Friday. If the inevitable sit down
between Miss Neil and Dustin, I'll do the honors of
saying her name the way Miss Neil, cass t Shie.

Speaker 4 (40:47):
Scott.

Speaker 11 (40:49):
Scott and Scott Scott Scott and Lettist Scott. I'm asking
Lettist Scott. Yeah, that's her name, Scott. That's right, full name, baby.
Mm hmmm, that's her name.

Speaker 5 (41:10):
She does it every time. Every time she brings her up,
she says her full name, and I die every time.

Speaker 6 (41:16):
Scott.

Speaker 4 (41:16):
I'm happy to sit down with Tricia today because Scott,
she's not Scott. Every time. I love it. I love it.

Speaker 7 (41:32):
I have an appointment to up my gee's and it's
so frustrating. We all laughing at my Wi Fi while.

Speaker 2 (41:37):
No, no, no good, no, no, no, you just came.
You just came on right in time.

Speaker 1 (41:43):
We're gonna talk about this scene between Latitia, Scott and
Miss Nell where they said down and had a one
on one at a coffee shop that Tisha works out
part time because her husband Marceau has not built her
office just yet.

Speaker 2 (41:59):
Okay, soh as we all know in last week, Hey Marceau.
In last week's episode.

Speaker 1 (42:05):
Well the start of the season, Nell's husband, Chris Fletcher,
made a comment that rubbed the Scott's the wrong way.
He talked about NDA's and he said that he does
not have people sign DA's. That that sounds like some
shit the Scotts would do, okay, implying that to Marcel

(42:27):
and Maurice. The wives Kimmy and Tsha did I like
it and they confronted. Well, Tisha and her Hennessy confronted
Chris about.

Speaker 2 (42:39):
It at Tricia's event, Hey Tisha Scott. So at this event,
Tisha decided to confront.

Speaker 1 (42:48):
Chris and and inquire about, why are you talking about
my husband this way in the sense that having NDAs
is something they would do. Now, one thing I know
about producing Love and Matriter Tumpsmith for all these years
is you do not talk to another woman's husband.

Speaker 2 (43:08):
I've learned that.

Speaker 6 (43:09):
I know.

Speaker 2 (43:10):
That's a big numb noe. Miss Nell decided to push.

Speaker 1 (43:14):
Chris back and step in front until Tsha Scott don't
talk to my husband, talk to me. And that's when
they had their little one two one two. So this
sit down was an opportunity for Nell and Tisha to
address it. Unfortunately it did not go that way. Dustin,
what were your thoughts on the sit down between Nell

(43:37):
and Tisha?

Speaker 4 (43:38):
It was doomed from the start.

Speaker 5 (43:39):
I knew Latitia Scott was ready for war when she
put up in the ford instead of the Bends. Normally
she'd be driving that Benz truck that they got. She got,
they got several nice cars, sports cars, the Bends with
the suicide doors, all that shit. When she put up
in a ford, I knew Latitia came to get busy. Okay,
part right in the front might even been handicapped. She

(44:01):
parked right up in the front and pulled up and
got to work. Latitia Scott is very comfortable anchoring this
cast as a season one, episode one founding member, right,
and you can tell because we get to see a
totally different, more and much more confident whether you agree
with her opinions and stances or not. She's very blatant

(44:22):
and honest and upfront with them at this point, and
so she came with a level of clarity and a
level of intention that it was just bound to be
a volcanic eruption of arguing when they said down together,
because miss nell was on the exact same shit. I
don't think they ever really liked each other ever. I
think that they tried to get to know each other
and form some sort of cordial working relationship. But when

(44:45):
they were at that table, they both was like, all right,
now we can finally fucking argue.

Speaker 4 (44:50):
Let's get it on. And that's what we saw at
that table. That's literally what that was.

Speaker 5 (44:54):
So much so that Letitia was determined to remain in
control of the dialogue and remain in the driver's.

Speaker 4 (45:00):
Sept so she got up and left. Once she saw
that miss Nelle was really on that, she left.

Speaker 5 (45:05):
And so I don't know how they can get to
a place where they can talk things out because they're
both mad as hell right now, well at least at
the time of filming.

Speaker 4 (45:13):
So that's what I thought it was.

Speaker 5 (45:15):
I understood it to I anticipated it rather going down
exactly how it went.

Speaker 7 (45:23):
You know, when you like aingraly feeling someone for a
while and then something happened to oh here this is
my time, this is my kind of like getting that
ass for all the stuff that happened like last year
or the year before and whenever, we're going to get
it all up right now now that it was right
to step in front of her husband and to make
it woman a woman, But I probably would have probably
would have had more success to talk to both of
them because he's the one that had You have the

(45:44):
issue with what he said about the NBA is the
wife didn't say it right, you know, it's the fledger
said it. So that's really maybe it's like, hey, you
can maybe have addressed it like no disrespect. I want
to talk to you and your husband together that I
want to talk to your husband behind your back, because
that's what we're trying to avoid, right, being disrespectful, having
sidebars with people's husbands. Okay, like they do want housewives.

(46:05):
But anyways, I think that you know, that was the
right She had the right intention starting off. But it
just that energy, the energy was there, and you know,
when you have the cameras on you, it ain't feeling
as broad each other. It ain't gonna end peacefully. You're
not gonna get it resolved. You're gonna get an eye
checked her or she you didn't check me. It's more
about that, It's more about the egos. But again started

(46:26):
off right with with like, you know you're gonna talk
to me and not my husband. But it needed to
be with both of them and maybe would have been calmer.

Speaker 3 (46:32):
Maybe do you think Carlos would have been calmer if well, no,
I think.

Speaker 1 (46:35):
I think it's what you two are saying. I think
at the end of the day now is still really
from the fact that she feels that Tea should disrespected
her husband and right by approaching my husband, right, my man,
my man, my man.

Speaker 7 (46:52):
Right.

Speaker 2 (46:53):
So that's the energy Nail, in my opinion, had coming in,
like you.

Speaker 1 (46:57):
Dispect my husband, and and because you just you disrespect
my husband, you disrespected me.

Speaker 2 (47:03):
Right.

Speaker 1 (47:04):
Teacher's coming in feeling like Chris Fletcher disrespected her marriage
by telling the world that nda sounds like something that
her husband would do.

Speaker 7 (47:14):
Right.

Speaker 1 (47:15):
So in this conversation, a lot of it, like you
two pointed out, had to deal with a couple of
years of issues when Marcel in Atlanta and there were
allegations Marcell was cheating on Teach in Atlanta, Marcel told
t in the parking lot, I was there with a friend.

Speaker 2 (47:32):
That friend was Chris Fletcher.

Speaker 1 (47:35):
And then that's when Chris Fletcher said, I was with
Marcell but not for a long period of time. We
had one meeting and that's when Nel was like your girl,
he was with me. We went to the Piccadilly or
Home Depot or KFC. I forgot what it was, but
it's never Yeah, okay, got the two plus two.

Speaker 2 (47:56):
So the thing is to me, you too, our writing
sense up.

Speaker 1 (48:01):
They both came in with that energy rightfully so rightfully so,
but it obviously did not go as planned. So without
further ado, let's bring on the one we're talking about
rain drops. Give it up for the beautiful, the amazing.

(48:21):
Her WiFi is better than claudiaus.

Speaker 2 (48:23):
Tonight about it? Give it up y'all for miss nol Fletcher.

Speaker 6 (48:33):
Hello, how y'all doing?

Speaker 3 (48:37):
Hey, welcome? Thank you?

Speaker 1 (48:40):
Okay, So, miss, now, before we get into your storyline
this season, we had a segment topic and I want
to ask you this.

Speaker 2 (48:49):
You've been very open this season. I'm not this season.

Speaker 1 (48:52):
I'm sorry, you've been very open about something. He'll but
ask right when it came to your marriage and the
infidelity experience in your marriage, right. On the recent episode
of Love the hip Hopaganta, a couple named Yandy and
men DC had a conversation and Yandy, the wife, admitted

(49:17):
to her husband that she had an emotional affair with
another man. So, miss now, I want to ask you this,
what is worse in your opinion, the physical affair or
an emotional affair?

Speaker 6 (49:31):
Can you hear me?

Speaker 4 (49:32):
You got a fan on her something?

Speaker 2 (49:34):
Neil, Yep, it's.

Speaker 3 (49:38):
Got that on high.

Speaker 6 (49:41):
Give me sick.

Speaker 3 (49:43):
Got the Angelo Oakly fans over there? Way better? Sorry
about that.

Speaker 6 (49:52):
I apologize again.

Speaker 1 (49:56):
Yes you could have heard of a wind miss Nell
as a married woman men who experienced in fidelity years ago.
I do want to ask you what do you think
is worse an emotional affair or a physical affair?

Speaker 6 (50:11):
Hmmm, I don't know. They're both terrible with emotional women
are very emotional physical Now now you're touching, so I

(50:39):
don't like neither one. I would have to say that
either one. It's you're kind of putting your marriage in
a funky space to even trying to make it work
or get back together, especially as a woman, because we

(51:03):
are emotional, oh, very emotional creature.

Speaker 3 (51:07):
When you say that, you mean like, do you think
it's more meaningful?

Speaker 7 (51:10):
Like I was telling the Fellas earlier, I think women
we fall in love with what we hear, and like
when we're on the phone listening to your voice and
it's like it's it's like, it's not it's less based
on looks for us, right, or physicalities. Right, of course,
nobody wants to imagine the thought of their man, you know,
being intimate with another women. But it's even the fact
that you love her, where you care about this person,

(51:30):
like you you really like that.

Speaker 6 (51:34):
It's the emotional is actually, Claudia, emotional to me is
worse than physical.

Speaker 4 (51:43):
Mm hmm, Okay.

Speaker 3 (51:45):
I know it's hard to pick on, right because you're like, yeah.

Speaker 6 (51:47):
Suck, Yeah, the bow suck. But emotional there's there's feelings involved.

Speaker 4 (51:54):
That's it that can linger on and turn into a
longer connection.

Speaker 3 (52:00):
Exactly like longing for the person. You're thinking about them
when you're with me and all that.

Speaker 7 (52:05):
And it's hard to come back from Yeah yeah, yeah,
but they both suck and they both weren't ask right.

Speaker 6 (52:12):
I wouldn't recommend neither one, of course. You know, physical
you touch me and sometime with them is why I'm
bound thank you, ma'am. And and they're good and can
move on. But if they are emotionally attached to another
woman outside of yourself, then that's hard. That's that's a
hard feel to swallow. So I would have to say emotional.

Speaker 7 (52:36):
No.

Speaker 2 (52:36):
I I definitely agree with that too.

Speaker 1 (52:39):
So the biggest topic tonight, Miss Now, has a lot
to do with you volunteering to stay at your son,
Lancen's home for two days to help.

Speaker 2 (52:50):
Him with his newborn baby.

Speaker 1 (52:51):
There's a lot of questions and commentary about this, and
I would love for you to address as much as
you can, understanding that when it comes to the mother
of this child, you know, we want to be able
to leave that alone in her privacy. So but as
much as you can, can you explain to us just
for the records, that we're able to move on with
the question. We know that we know that Lance has

(53:15):
been married twice.

Speaker 2 (53:17):
Correct, that's correct?

Speaker 1 (53:18):
Okay, So Lance has been married twice. And how many
children does Lance have?

Speaker 6 (53:23):
Lance has three beautiful children.

Speaker 2 (53:24):
Three beautiful children. Okay, So when it comes to.

Speaker 1 (53:30):
Your volunteering to help out Lance, explain to us where
that comes from. If a lot of people, Miss Now
I'm sure you've read the comments. They feel like your
son has grown. He had two wives.

Speaker 2 (53:44):
He he if he can, if he can lay down
and make one, he should be able to stand up
and take care of them on his own without you.
How do you feel about that?

Speaker 6 (53:54):
Actually, to a certain extent, I agree with them. Most
of the time. Everyone hears me going in on all
of my children. With Lance. Let me say this first.
He's a hard worker, and that's why I agree to
help him. Lance will work from sun up to sundown.

(54:15):
Lance is the person that I have to say, hey, Lance,
go home, Lance, clock out. Lance. You just can't leave
the job and then go fall asleep or get up
the next morning and try to do quotes and be
back on the job at seven o'clock in the morning.
Let's make sure his kids get to school. For two

(54:38):
of his kids, he actually have joint custody with the
one he has. Now he has temporarily for custody. We're
not sure how long it's gonna stay that way. That's
the most I can say about that. We have to
go back to court here real soon.

Speaker 3 (55:00):
But Lance is a.

Speaker 6 (55:06):
Hands on death. He's very much hands on, And the
reason why I said I would go to his house
is because if you heard him, he was at my
house and correct, Lance has his own home. Lance's owned
his own home for about what eight ten years now

(55:29):
when he first got his small child. He came here
because I'm on the safety plan as well. So I
am I'm so involved because I have been placed on
the safety plan. He was here in one of the
guest rooms. The reason why volunteer to go to his

(55:50):
house is he he will get up in the morning
and it kind of remind me of when he was
a teenager back at home. It's like, oh no, hell,
wait a minute, now, we gotta closed doors around here.

Speaker 2 (56:08):
As beginning in now, y'all ain't even.

Speaker 6 (56:11):
Sometime about getting it in. I mean, if you if
you used to sleeping with your.

Speaker 4 (56:16):
Ass out, yeah, talk about it. Yeah, you know, get
hot and I don't, Yes, I throw it out. Might
just want to be laid up. You know what I'm saying.
I get it. I get it this a lot.

Speaker 6 (56:30):
Yeah, I forget they hear, you know, because he will
keep his baby all night in the room you know,
houses being let me say that, so he'll be on
the outside of the house. So I'm forgetting that he's here,
and he'll just come in boomomo, and I'm like, oh ship,
let me try to, you know, throw something back, and
it's like this ain't working. Then he want to come

(56:51):
in and like hey, y'all this and y'all good, oh dad,
and just come right in, Hey mammy, give me the baby.
He already got them and got dressed for work. And
I'm like, won't wait a minute, you know, Fletcher like
good morning Sun, Like okay. So that's why I thought
I was doing Fletcher fav work when I agree to

(57:13):
say I just go to his house two days, maybe
three out of the week so Fletcher can have a break. Hell,
I guess he didn't like that, but I was just
trying to help out. Because he come in, like I said,
hand me the baby. He's already ready to get ready
to go out the door. He's talking to his dad

(57:35):
about work or some quotes or contracts he has to do,
or want his dad to meet him out somewhere on
one of the job sites. And I'm like, you know what,
it's too early for me to be talking about this,
or I just can't come to my room like this.
I'm not used to him just being at the house.

(57:57):
So maybe I'll go to his house and let me
be a person that gets up and put my damn
clothes on and go out the door and leave, and
I don't have to worry about him just coming in
dropping the baby on me early he gets to go
out the door.

Speaker 7 (58:13):
That that makes a lot more sense, like what you're saying,
because without your explanation, it could seem like you're babying him.

Speaker 3 (58:20):
You're doing too much, you know what I mean.

Speaker 7 (58:21):
And now you citing the fact that he, you know,
the the care that he has with the other two kids,
and then having temporary full county of this one. Clearly
he's not a bad dad. Clearly that means he's a
really good dad. And the fact that you see your
son working so hard, he's a heart. The fact I
love that you said hard worker and you want to
give him a break and then you go into his

(58:43):
house is more to keep your house peaceful and your
comfortability in your house. That makes total sense, Like, Nah,
you ain't about to have me having to put down
clothes and I'm home and I want to be butt
making my man with the fan on right like out
Morio house. And but does it feel but well me, Now,
do you feel like you bet up on than you
can shoot or are you cool with itself?

Speaker 6 (59:05):
I kind of I'm cool with it, but I would
be lying if I sit here and said, oh, I
didn't bite off more than I should have been. With
everything I have going on right now, it is a lot,
but I'm willing to do it. I signed up to

(59:26):
do it, and I'm gonna do it. That's what you know.
Grandma's support, which I think I'm a grandmom. So I'm
gonna hang in there and I'm gonna see him through it.
Like I said, I signed up for it. I told
my husband what was going on, and like he said, sure,
you know that's all Grundschild. We're not gonna have her anywhere.

Speaker 4 (59:47):
Else, so right, So that's so what you're saying is Tick.

Speaker 6 (59:53):
Care center and the baby beat somewhere else but in
the custody of us.

Speaker 5 (59:58):
So what you're saying is Destiny. So Chris over there
taking care of them or Lance, excuse me, taking care
of them kids? Good, getting up, going to work every
damn day, holding it down. She said, that's a good man, Savannah.
That's why Destiny wanted some of that, ain't it. That's
what you're saying. She saw his work ethic kind of
man he was, and that's why Destiny was like, sign
me up. It makes more sense. See, that's why we

(01:00:19):
needed to have this conversation. We getting light shed on
everything tonight.

Speaker 6 (01:00:23):
Now we don't Yeah, well Lance said Desney wants to
build a man, so I don't know.

Speaker 4 (01:00:28):
Oh oh.

Speaker 6 (01:00:35):
Hey, that's he is still my friend. That's the hard
part that I did not want them to get involved
to begin with, because when things like this happened and
it doesn't work out, I'm in the middle. I'm sad
with Din and then I gotta hear her side, I
gotta hear his side, and.

Speaker 5 (01:00:55):
It's like, you know what, this is Angel Godson's side too, right, Oh.

Speaker 4 (01:01:05):
You know what doesn't a lot of sides. It's a
lot of sides.

Speaker 6 (01:01:09):
Yeah, I'm just getting I'm just getting hit and blows
from every direction right now, and I'm trying to like
hear everybody out.

Speaker 3 (01:01:17):
And it's over women, really, it's all.

Speaker 6 (01:01:20):
It's it's a lot people.

Speaker 7 (01:01:22):
Want to tell everybody just like you don't want to
hear it. Just keep me out of it, working out
amongst yourselves. I don't want to be the person the
founding board for everybody in the middle.

Speaker 6 (01:01:29):
You know what, Claudia, That's where I'm about it with
this ship. I'm like, you know what, I'm tapped out.
Fuck it like y'all do what y'all want to do.
You're damn grown. You're gonna do what you want to
do anyway. You don't damn listen. But every time I
said that, I'm crazy as hell, mis now crazy. I'm
over the top, I'm loud. I don't listen, No, I listen.

(01:01:51):
I'm tired of they bullshit. This is what I was
talking about when I said I didn't need therapy. They
ass needed therapy. You know, I'm doing my own business.
They want to have all the interests and then they
bring it to me and then it gets dropped off
on me and I got to listen to all the
ship I'm good.

Speaker 1 (01:02:12):
Well, well, you seem to be good now, but you
weren't good when what's the name, Dustin latist Scott?

Speaker 4 (01:02:20):
You say her whole name every time.

Speaker 5 (01:02:22):
That's how I knew she had pitched you off like that,
because when you're getting them interviews looking beautiful with all
your ship on. You know what, I'm saying you sit
up there and lettist Scott and see I said down
and Lettista Scott said that's all I knew.

Speaker 4 (01:02:35):
I said, name she hot. We love it, love it.

Speaker 2 (01:02:42):
You know it's good. It's good, it's good.

Speaker 1 (01:02:44):
So I want to take you back to the moment
where you know, this season it did start off with
you seeing that Laticia Scott and Marcel, Kimmy and Maurice
they did have issue with your husband making the comment
that NDA seems to be like something that their husbands

(01:03:04):
would do, Marcel and Maurice and not necessarily him, and
that Tisha was not happy with that comment. I do
want to ask you this, Do you understand where they're
coming from? Or were you more upset with the fact
that t Sha addressed your husband and base what I'm
learning about marriage, when a wife has an issue with

(01:03:27):
the husband, the wife should address the white.

Speaker 2 (01:03:30):
Was that your issue or both?

Speaker 6 (01:03:32):
Well, actually, let me say this, I understood exactly where
they were coming from. I even said to him, what
the fuck? Like, Okay, that's the part where when you
do not know what you're doing, and you knew with
this and you let somebody kind of sidetrack you into

(01:03:56):
catching yourself up in something I can't say, but the
conversation that was being had at that time, Yeah, yeah,
he didn't. He didn't do a good job in in
that conversation in handling his words, and uh, with a

(01:04:17):
pro that he was sitting back with that know how
to handle her words.

Speaker 2 (01:04:24):
So he hooked hisself, honestly.

Speaker 6 (01:04:28):
But with that said, I'm the one that actually said
to Letitia, you can go say something to him, because
I cannot really say exactly what what made him say
that or what was his motive of saying that. I cannot.

(01:04:49):
I'm not him. Basically, he's if I feel like something
is wrong and it's bothering her, then it needs to
be addressed. What I did not expect was hard to
go over there and just run straight in and go
in straight attack mode. And I was trying to hurry
up and get over there and like whoa, whoa, no

(01:05:10):
you get get At that point I had changed my mind,
like no, get your get your ass, get on back
over there, because I did not think she was gonna
go over there and go in on him like that.
I thought she was gonna go over there and maybe say, hey, Chris,
can I talk to you? For a moment. The new
guys had already talked, so I thought she was gonna
pull him to the side and talk to him or

(01:05:34):
some of that nature. But when I seen her going
straight up in his face and hand out, I stepped
in and I was like, no, we're not gonna do this, this, this.
I didn't expect her to do that.

Speaker 7 (01:05:52):
So you're okay with having a conversation because you're the
one that needed to tell her, like, go ahead and
go talk to him, But you didn't, like she said,
came in on ten and she need to come in
at like a six five.

Speaker 3 (01:06:00):
She was came in too hot, a little too hot.

Speaker 6 (01:06:03):
Yeah, she came in very hot, came in very hot.
And that's what I did not like.

Speaker 2 (01:06:08):
But I did.

Speaker 6 (01:06:09):
I did tell her she could go talk to him. Yeah,
I did do that.

Speaker 1 (01:06:14):
So what what Claudian doesn't picked up on the energy
that you both had and your one on one sit down.
So when you sat down with her, what was going
on where the two of you just did not appear
to come to an agreement just based on halving the

(01:06:35):
conversation the first place you brought up the fact that, look,
I'm trying to explain to you where all of this
came from the Atlanta trip your husband saying that my
husband's with him.

Speaker 2 (01:06:49):
Would you like to clear that up to since you
weren't able.

Speaker 1 (01:06:52):
To get it out if the one on one is now, Yes,
Actually what happened was Mar.

Speaker 6 (01:06:59):
So this was like two years ago. Mars and Fletcher
met up in Atlanta, and I was there as well.
And I know I was there because I was having
the girls done and a lot. We don't like to
talk about that type ship, but that doesn't bother me.
It is what it is. If I was not there,
I would tell you I wasn't there, But I was there.

(01:07:20):
I have receipts showing that I was there. I actually
was in our airbnb. Fletcher went out to meet with
Mars because Marshall was considering putting a black restaurant in Atlanta,
so they went to look at some land and then
from there they went out to eat and want to

(01:07:42):
Atlanta Fish Market one of our favorite places, and you
know there's two yes, So they went there to eat
and everything, and from there Fletcher came back to the
Airbnb because he was taking care of me, so I
knew I knew where he was. He wasn't even going
that long, maybe what two hours talks when Marcel when

(01:08:07):
it aired, and Marshall said, Letitia questioned him, and he
paused for a very long time, and then he said,
I was with a friend and the suspense of everybody
wanting to know, and he says, Chris Fletcher, It's like,
what the hell now you look guilty. You make your
Fletcher look guilty. The damn phone over here is ringing

(01:08:31):
off the hook, like, what's going on in your household?
Did you know your husband was in that. I was
there with him. Come down. I'm wrapped up and ship
right now. So it's it's it's good, We're good. So
for her to bring me up and bring this up
and say that my husband keeps putting her husband's name

(01:08:56):
in his mouth, and I was like, no, Mars started
all this shit two years ago. He started this. Now,
did Fletcher add on to the fire, Yes, with the
damn NDA shit he did, you know, I will admit that,
but do not make it seem like it's Fletcher Fletcher,
Fletcher Fletcher, And that's not true. Marceau has a hand

(01:09:19):
in this shit too, And that's why I was trying
to explain to her, and if it was just she
was coming at me, I was coming at her. She
didn't really want to hear what I had to say.
At that point I had to tapped out because I
can't hear. We were talking over each other at that point.
She was trying to say, well she wanted to say.
I was trying to get out what I was trying

(01:09:40):
to say. But I know that she was heated with me,
and at that moment, I was heated with her because
she had at that point she did had get him.
She got in my husband's face, and I didn't expect
it to go that way.

Speaker 4 (01:09:53):
So let's talk about the transparency piecements now.

Speaker 5 (01:09:56):
I think a lot of people would love for you
to clarify exactly the way it means. What you mean
when you say that Letitia and Kimmy as well have
been less than transparent in their expressions of what's going
on in their lives. What is it that you what
areas or what things do you feel like they could
be more transparent about and in what ways could they

(01:10:17):
be more transparent about those things?

Speaker 6 (01:10:20):
Okay, for Kimmy to make the statement, you think we
don't want to talk about our husband's gene kill. Nobody does.
I don't, but I'm not. If it's known and it's
out there, of course I'm not gonna sit in the line.
I'm not telling them to confront Center about something they
say they don't know. Okay, I'm good, you don't have to.

(01:10:42):
What I'm saying is, do not always come to me
asking me about my family, what's going on in my family,
my husband, my children, my grandchildren. It's always what, hey,
now we heard this, or no, you knew about your
grand baby or your husband did this. But then when

(01:11:03):
it comes to your husband or your spouse, Uh, what
you think or I'm not talking about that, or we're
not talking about that. That's not being transparent. Stay the
hell out of my business. If your business is off
for the table.

Speaker 3 (01:11:21):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 6 (01:11:22):
I'm sorry. I say that again, Claudia.

Speaker 7 (01:11:24):
I was.

Speaker 3 (01:11:24):
They're the thing that that happens a lot though.

Speaker 7 (01:11:26):
You know, like everybody want to be in each other's business,
but nobody wants to be fully parent and until they're own.
But that's kind of like what almost all the reality
shows are giving a lot of times. That's why when
someone comes along like yourself, that's pretty transparent.

Speaker 3 (01:11:40):
People rock with that.

Speaker 7 (01:11:40):
They like that because a lot of people, how are
you gonna sign up for a reality show and then
you can't talk about things and then you get mad
when people go and ask you your question.

Speaker 3 (01:11:48):
So you know, keep doing what you do.

Speaker 7 (01:11:51):
That's why they rock with you. But I get the
hypocrisy of it all. It's actually annoying right like it is.

Speaker 6 (01:11:58):
Because I get uh like shut down if I ask
a question about them or something of if they're going on,
not necessarily in their household that's wrong terminology, but something
that's they're dealing with, or something that's been said out
in the streets or in you know, social media. If

(01:12:20):
I say something, it's quick to when not talking about that.
Even Latcha said at the last episode, and I said, well,
you always talk about my family in in my kids,
and we do and we will. M okay, then keep

(01:12:40):
that ship across the board. Let's talk about your shit too,
That's all I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:12:47):
One of the things that people said miss Now they
feel like when it comes to Tisha Marceau that since
day one of them being on the show, they have
been transparent. People feel like Tsha has addressed people saying
her husband had twenty women. They said, Tisha has showed you, guys,
her family, Miss Wanda, her uncles and aunties, cousins and

(01:13:11):
all that.

Speaker 2 (01:13:12):
They feel like Tisha has shown you her issues with
the girls. Some people do feel like Tisha has.

Speaker 1 (01:13:19):
Been transparent and they don't understand why you feel like
she hasn't.

Speaker 2 (01:13:23):
Can you can you touch on that?

Speaker 6 (01:13:26):
Well? For me, you can't please everybody. Everybody's gonna like
who they like, say, depend who they're gonna defend, whether
it's Tisha or whether it's me. Hell, they know what
the hell real transparent is. Hell, I can show my
damn family all them day long. I'm doing that now.
And if my mother was alive, I would show her too,
So you know it is what it is because I've
been coming at about that too. So look, it just

(01:13:48):
seels what it is. Everybody's gonna just decide what they figure,
who they're gonna rock with, who they're not gonna rock with,
what they like, what transparent is to them, and what
transparent is not. So that their definition of transparent, that's them.
That's that's their opinion. They have a way to feel
the way they feel. I have a way to feel.
I can feel the way I feel.

Speaker 7 (01:14:08):
Miss Now, Can I ask you if you want to
put if you care to put a name on it,
who's probably the worst at shutting you down? Because I
feel a lot of people in the comments responding to
you saying you feel shut down, They're like, don't let
it happen, like they rock. They don't want you to
like feel shut down. So is there one person that
she would say of or in particular that does that?
Does that the most to you that you feel like
is closed? You said closed, and they try to shut

(01:14:33):
or try to shut you down and doesn't want to
like give up their information.

Speaker 6 (01:14:38):
Let sha is the one I argue with the most
lat is.

Speaker 3 (01:14:42):
The one argu the go ahead and say that full
name for us?

Speaker 6 (01:14:48):
As far as Nick Jimmy, we we really don't have nothing.
That's there's nothing, miss Now.

Speaker 2 (01:14:58):
Who do you feel like is the least transparent person
on the cast?

Speaker 4 (01:15:04):
Oh, there's that many to choose from.

Speaker 6 (01:15:09):
No, you said, I would have to say, well, see
I do. I know she had a cancel issue, but.

Speaker 3 (01:15:24):
That's what I said.

Speaker 6 (01:15:25):
People identify transparency as different.

Speaker 2 (01:15:31):
But but I want to I want to ask you
about that. So you feel like Kimmy is the least
transparent person on the show. Tell me why you feel
that way?

Speaker 6 (01:15:41):
You know what, I don't know. Maybe it's Destiny. Well,
I'm trying to think, like when you're talking to the
I really don't talk to Kimmy. H. I talked to Destiny,
but I know there's a lot she says she can't

(01:16:03):
talk about too. M hm, Trish, just less it all,
damn hang out there. So I don't know. Me and Leticia, hey,
ide is what it is? It would have to be
Destiny okami for me between those two.

Speaker 4 (01:16:24):
So I have a question for you, miss Nel.

Speaker 5 (01:16:27):
Part of what fans loved the most about you and
Chris's contribution to this cast was your beautiful family.

Speaker 4 (01:16:33):
Right.

Speaker 5 (01:16:33):
We were really introduced to you all and seeing the
relationships and the complexities of the relationships between you and
your adult children, and we were fascinated at seeing that.
And one of the most memorable scenes that was you
all were really vulnerable and brave to share, was when
you all were sitting around that dining that dinner table
and having a family conversation and things kind of got
heated between your daughter Lexi and the rest of your family.

(01:16:57):
And we know that there's been some some videos made
where Lexi kind of shared and expressed her feelings. What
do you want to share about how you feel about that?
How much you how you because we were introduced to
you loving your daughter Lexi, and we saw you all
working through some very personal issues on the screen and
you were brave to share that with the recent you know,

(01:17:18):
expression of feelings from Lexi. What is it that you
want the audience to know about how you and Chris
feel about that part of your family and that dynamic.
Is there anything that you want to share to the audience.

Speaker 6 (01:17:31):
Well, for me, Dustin, I would not entertain that. Okay,
I did not know there was an issue when Lexi
came to the dinner table. I thought we were one big,
happy family. Of course, over the years, there's always been
Lexi the ones not in the household, even we try

(01:17:54):
to do the most for her when she do come
to the household. I had no idea that that was
an issue. Actually, when we sat down at that dinner
table and things started coming up about me and her
mom's past that we had already talked about and we

(01:18:18):
were good. I was just at their house probably three
weeks or so before we decided to sit down and
have that dinner scene. We were all hanging out there,
I wanted to say it stayed at a mom's house
for shit eight ten hours. We all had drinks, liquor,

(01:18:39):
having a good time. So you think you know your
family and you don't. You think they're over something or
you passed something and it's not. You get all these
feelings and emotions that come back up that so make
you think, Okay, we've gotten past this, we've conquered this,
we're family. We locked in and then the damn dinner

(01:19:01):
sing and it's like checkmate, we'll not put y'all ass
on blasts and it's like, WHOA, Okay, Well I did
not see that coming. Honestly, I was told that we
set her up. That's not true. I would never put

(01:19:21):
none of my children on here for a setup. She
was never looked at as a bonus child. Anyone who
knew me, they knew I had four kids. A lot
of people didn't not even know that she was in
mine by largical m So.

Speaker 3 (01:19:42):
I'm not gonna I'm not that. Yeah, but stew with
everything you have going on, right, that's an.

Speaker 6 (01:19:50):
Old enough grandchild that I'm sure that still loves us
and we cannot see right to this day and this
other grandchildren that are smaller that all this has been
scripted by.

Speaker 4 (01:20:02):
I get it, and I wish you are healing with that,
miss Now. Thank you for sharing you.

Speaker 7 (01:20:07):
Miss Now, with everything we have going on right, like
you know, you're a mother or your wife, you're a grandmother,
You're doing this show, and you have all these people
that are using you as a sounding board complaining about
each other, right, and you're trying to navigate and balance
all that, and then on top of everything else, helping
out and being away and being with your son, helping
out with the baby, your grandbaby two or three times
a week.

Speaker 3 (01:20:28):
Do you feel stretched? Do you feel like overwhelmed? Do
you feel like you have too much on your plate?

Speaker 7 (01:20:32):
Or is it just like I know, you know, black
women are used to just putting on the cape and
just figuring it out.

Speaker 3 (01:20:37):
But do you ever feel like I'm overwhelmed, like I
need a break?

Speaker 7 (01:20:41):
Because it's easy to make it look easy, but I
would imagine that's a lot to deal.

Speaker 6 (01:20:47):
With, it is. It can be very stressful. I have
kind of like broken down. I wasn't always in my world,
my mother Lord, rest her soul. I wasn't allowed to cry.

(01:21:15):
It was your strong sucking up you.

Speaker 2 (01:21:19):
Got this.

Speaker 6 (01:21:22):
This season. Hell, all I did was cry, And I
don't know it was because my mom is gone and
I'm able to start releasing some things, or because she's
gone and I don't have her to run to to say, Hey,
I need help here, I need your advice here. How

(01:21:46):
would you handle this? Or as tough as everyone think
I am. Yeah, my mother was very tough and she
didn't play when it came to those those young men
that I'm dealing with now.

Speaker 7 (01:21:58):
I hope your more as a point of release, not
not sadness, but to release because you know, it's not
even I think the world expects women, Black women, the
heads of their household, the heads of their families, the matriarch,
to be teflon, to never show sadness or emotion. That's

(01:22:19):
not weakness, you know what I mean. And it's and
you got to put your your mental health first. And
it's okay to scream like I don't like. That's what
I'm saying. Always people relying on you and complaining to
you about each other. That's a lot to you're taking
on everybody else's stuff.

Speaker 3 (01:22:32):
Where's your time? Like, where's your time? Where it's about you?
And are you okay?

Speaker 2 (01:22:38):
Do you need a break?

Speaker 3 (01:22:39):
Let me give you a break and not like dump
all my stuff on you.

Speaker 7 (01:22:42):
So I hope you So I'm trying to encourage black
women to take that damn cape off because we put
on ourselves. We take Friday be I'm a strong black woman. No,
I'm not saying that anymore, like Nope, I'm weak.

Speaker 3 (01:22:55):
I need help. I can't do it all anymore because
there's nothing wrong with that. Hope you know that, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:23:02):
Care?

Speaker 5 (01:23:04):
Yes, that's why we want you to get that closet.
Did you get your damn closet in that closet?

Speaker 4 (01:23:09):
That's what we need to see. We need that closet
up and rolling. That's what.

Speaker 6 (01:23:14):
I did. Not get the closet. It's actually been on
the burner.

Speaker 4 (01:23:21):
Okay, But we rooted team closet. We root for your closet.

Speaker 2 (01:23:25):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:23:26):
But and and.

Speaker 1 (01:23:29):
What what what the world will see later on this
season because we are we're still filming, believe it or not,
is the world will see a lot of what now
is going through. We just sort of scratch the surface
in terms of what she is going through. But one
thing I will say is, uh, miss Nell, you are

(01:23:50):
an amazing addition to this show, you and your husband
and your family as well. You know how much I
love you. I think you are funny. You me and
me and miss Nell have this fake that she yells
child at miss Nell yells at me, honey when we
see each other child I love it.

Speaker 2 (01:24:07):
But now, miss Nell, you are a firetracker. You are
definitely listen.

Speaker 1 (01:24:14):
Like I said, you're a great addition to this show.
And Claudia you don't know that, but doesn't us. We
want to miss Neil on the show for many many
years and she was like, I don't want to do it,
but she finally said yes a couple of seasons ago,
and you are fantastic and I.

Speaker 2 (01:24:30):
Do want you to you know, listen to Claudia too,
because she is right.

Speaker 1 (01:24:36):
You know, you are a representation of a lot of
black mothers who are the sort of the emotional kid
of the household to where you are there for every
single body and oftentimes you may feel depleted at the
end of the day because you gave yourself to everybody.

(01:24:59):
And what I don't want you to do is have
any stress added to you because that could cost some
health concerns and we all want you to take care
of yourself. And like Laudia said, it's okay to ask
for help, and it's okay to say I feel weak today.
You're not a weak person. You're happy the day of weakness,
and it's okay to embrace that and to ask for help.

(01:25:21):
And I want you to ask for help the same
way people ask for your health.

Speaker 2 (01:25:26):
So please take heed to that.

Speaker 3 (01:25:27):
And it's okay to say no.

Speaker 4 (01:25:32):
And it's okay to scream. We like it. We actually
like itree to do that.

Speaker 6 (01:25:42):
Sometimes that's done out of love. I do not scream
just to be screaming. I do not yell just to
be yelling. I usually do it for my compassion of
I'm trying to get my want to cross to you,
like I need you to hear me. Now. If I'm

(01:26:07):
in a back a boxing match with Latitia Scott, then
that's different. Most of the time. You know, everybody said
she's loud, She's yelling and streaming. That's how she does well.

(01:26:28):
You know what, guys, I have a lot of children
and they are adult children, and that's not always easy.
I do not have the perfect family. Okay, yes, thank you.
You say they're good looking, they're beautiful, but it's a
lot of damn headaches coming with being good looking at beautiful.

(01:26:49):
It's not easy for them. What's white? What's wrong?

Speaker 3 (01:26:56):
You are every day.

Speaker 6 (01:27:00):
About? Like, yeah it is, you know. I sit down,
even with them as adults, I tell them, this is
what you need to do, this is how you need
to move. Do not take this for granted. And then
they go out there and they fuck up, and it's like,
here we go. I told you this ship. You didn't listen.

(01:27:23):
So that's what gets me to know and wright and
I go from zero to one hundred because I'll have
sat down and had these conversations with them. It's not
I don't have just one child and they're not children.

Speaker 3 (01:27:38):
Like I said, I don't just have two.

Speaker 6 (01:27:40):
I just don't have three. And then if you throw
Lexi in there, that's four and they all have some
shit going on or that they do that I don't
agree with. I have to take it as it comes.
So if that makes me loud and you know, yell
the hell, I guess that's just that's just what it is.

(01:28:02):
I'm not all the time, you know, I do you
know get korreshed by Fletcher and.

Speaker 4 (01:28:10):
Like that.

Speaker 6 (01:28:10):
Of course I didn't get to get thirty one years
for nothing, thirty one years this year, so and I.

Speaker 5 (01:28:18):
Want to around the Lance's house at night. He wanted
you home with him so he get correct.

Speaker 6 (01:28:24):
He likes my leg to be thrown over.

Speaker 7 (01:28:30):
All.

Speaker 2 (01:28:33):
Well, don't don't please your man, baby. We love you,
miss Now.

Speaker 12 (01:28:37):
Yes you for coming moving close, just dusting. Hopefully I
get it, but I did get something else. I don't
know if I could say.

Speaker 2 (01:28:47):
It, but no you can't.

Speaker 4 (01:28:50):
Well can I just tell you see you coming up?
We'll see it coming up?

Speaker 6 (01:28:54):
Get it?

Speaker 3 (01:28:55):
Miss Now. I want to tell you I'm looking at
the comments this.

Speaker 7 (01:28:57):
I hope you go back and watch the show tomorrow
or whenever you get time, just so you can see
all the love you're getting in the comments.

Speaker 3 (01:29:05):
People say they want to see a spin off with
you and your hobby. They love you, they love your energy.

Speaker 7 (01:29:09):
And I just want to say your hair is super cute,
like I want to try that yourself, super cute.

Speaker 3 (01:29:14):
I want you to go back to my week girl.
Well it's a good ass wig because sometimes you can tell.

Speaker 6 (01:29:18):
I throw it back and then put it back over
and push it up.

Speaker 3 (01:29:21):
I like that.

Speaker 6 (01:29:22):
Takes me hairstyle.

Speaker 4 (01:29:24):
That's that.

Speaker 3 (01:29:25):
That's that bedroom hair.

Speaker 2 (01:29:26):
Go go in your bedroom.

Speaker 6 (01:29:28):
You got their room hair right now, Yeah, but I.

Speaker 3 (01:29:31):
Ain't got none in my bedroom right now.

Speaker 6 (01:29:34):
No problem in girl, you wait problem? Are you took
you and already kill you? Make it? Know what to do.

Speaker 3 (01:29:44):
But check out the comments tomorrow because they I want
you to see.

Speaker 7 (01:29:46):
I want you to receive all this love that you're
getting in people saying take the cap off and put
yourself first.

Speaker 2 (01:29:51):
Yeah, So take he to that. Miss now, we love you,
miss now, thanks for coming.

Speaker 10 (01:29:55):
On, boob.

Speaker 6 (01:29:56):
I love y'all too. Thank you so much, callos for
having me.

Speaker 2 (01:29:59):
Thanks for we love you booth.

Speaker 1 (01:30:05):
Reality with the King is executive produced by me Carlos King,
produced by Lizzie Nimitz, and a partnership.

Speaker 4 (01:30:14):
With the Lack Effect Network.

Speaker 1 (01:30:16):
You can also find us on my YouTube channel at
the Carlos King Underscore

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