September 15, 2025 • 49 mins
Gizelle and Robyn discuss shady vacations, missing birthdays, common birth-dates, French Montana, Robyn’s recent internet drama w/ K. Michelle, banned hairstyles, shady mailbag, Charlie Kirk, the Labubu craze, and more!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect
Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I am Giselle, but I ain't what's up?
Speaker 4 (00:19):
What's up?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for being here with us
sick and me and Robert are like matching. We we're
tweating and we didn't even mean to do it.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
I'm in my I'm in my swimsuit. This is a
big of a bathing suit top. But yes, it's like
such a cute coincidence. The Green Eyed Band.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
That's how much right, That's how much right, and that's
how much reasonly we shady is connected. We are, I know,
I know, I get that, and I feel like when
we record, like we're always kind of our coordinated a
little bit like but unconsciously, you know, or unintentioned.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Yes, it happens.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Yes, ready, yes, all right, shady moment. Oh yeah, tell
me where you are? Yeah, before we get into shady moment,
I we are recording virtually everybody because I am in
Los Cabos, Mexico.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Whoo whoo, whoop whoop, on a girl's.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Trip, and I just want to like plug this resort
because I think it's an awesome resort.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
It's beautiful.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
I'm at Les Blanc, which is in l Cabo. It
is an adults only resort. It is all inclusive, and
the food is amazing. And that's so like rare that
you get to say that an all inclusive resort has
amazing food.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
But this food is so amazing.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
And we'll be like at the you know, at in
the restaurant, finishing up our meal and we're like.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
We feel like we need to pay for this.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Like it's you know, like it's We were at dinner
yesterday and one of my one of the girls, was like.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Asking the waiter.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
She's like, okay, like we're ready to wrap this up,
and we're.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Like, why are you telling you that we could just
stand and leave, Like, well, what are you talking about?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
But she was like, how many girls.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
There's five of us. So there they are my child
childhood friends. We all I grew up with them in Baltimore,
and this is our third trip to Cabo together and
we just come.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
And relax and eat and and chill.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
And so I recommend this if like for people who
are looking for, you know, just a trip with their girls.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
There's a lot of couples here. It's really nice.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
And then it's like every if I like move a toe,
the staff is like, oh, miss do you need anything,
ma'am you know missus Dixon, do you need anything?
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Like yeah, wait good, I'm give it a chill.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
So the service is amazing. So yes, just really love it.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
But my shady moment, my shady moment is that I
am on this trip and today is my child's birthday.
Oh and yes, right, And I'm like, when we planned it,
(03:06):
it's so hard for my five group of friends to
find a weekend or a stretch of like four days
that works for all of us, right, so because there
three of them are doctors, so it's like really hard
for us to find a good weekend to coordinate. So
(03:26):
they threw this weekend out and all of them were like, yes.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Works for me, works for me.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
And so I didn't really like look at the dates
of the weekend. I just looked at my calendar to
see if I had any like events on my calendar, right,
like anything that I needed to do. I did not
realize it was Carter's birthday, and so I planned this
trip and I didn't tell them right away because because
(03:51):
I can't tell them that I'm leaving, like suit too
far out, because every day they're back.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I can't believe you leaving me. I can't believe you
leave an US. I can't leave an US.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Right.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
So the other day I'm like, guys, I'm going to
Cobo for a few days with my girlfriends.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
You know, I always go on the girl's trip. All right,
I'll see you on Sunday, blah blah blah. And they're like,
you're leaving and it's Carter's birthday.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
And I was like, uh, okay, wait, wait when is
the birthday. It's it's Saturday or Sunday. It's right now
as I speak. Okay, it's today, today, today.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
What did you say? Is he so sad? So like
he at first?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Okay, so like one he was the first one to
be like, you're going on a trip on Carter's birthday.
And I was like, and then Carter called me so
then so then I told Carter, I.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Said, Carter, I'm going out of town.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
It's your birthday. I'm so sorry, Like what, like, you know,
I'm so sorry. He's like, it's okay, mom, it's fine.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Right.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
So then like a couple days later, well, yesterday he
calls me and he's like, yeah, Mom, it's messed up.
You're on a trip and it's my birthday. And I'm like,
I'm like, but Carter, you said it was okay, you
were understandable. He's like, yeah, well Corey brought it up.
Corey was talking about you. He said it's messed up.
I said, oh, so Corey gashed you up. Okay, fine,
(05:17):
like Corey.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Being a hater Corey Corey. Right, He's finding like my
may hearing your birthday, she don't love you. I'm like,
oh my Carl, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
So I'm like, you know, I usually, you know, I
always give them money for their birthday, So like I
had to give him like extra money for his birthday.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Yeah, yes, yes, the guy his love at this point, Yes, yeah, okay,
Well does he have a cake?
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Are you sending balloons?
Speaker 5 (05:43):
Like?
Speaker 3 (05:43):
What are we doing? Well?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
One was like I'm gonna handle it. He's like, I'm
you know, I'll get his I didn't. I didn't have
gifts anything like. So One went and got him his gifts.
He said, he's getting his cupcakes and cards and balloons.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
He you know what.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Okay, good for for them because one needs yes handle that,
so yes, right, he's got it. And then I told it,
and then my mom is gonna go see him and
bring him some mom and stuff.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Okay yeah, and then so he's he never heard.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
You know, we're not we don't do like birthdays big anyway,
Like my kids don't ask for parties and stuff like that.
But still, like I'm on, they.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Just want you to be there.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm like okay. So they're like, actually,
uh huh. Corey's like, you're an l mom. You're an
L mom.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
I'm like, Coury, what's that like? Loser?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Like a loser mom. Yes, I'm an L mom. Okay.
Actually you get the shady moment of the two weeks.
You get shady moment of like I'm okay, right, I
get the shady I get the shady moment of Virgo season, right.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Yes, yes, because Virgo season is like everything, yes, everything.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Speaking of Virgo season, before we go into your shady moment,
I saw a post I seem too. They're kind of
a little conflicting, but supposed supposedly and I may We've
talked about this. Do you know that you have the
most common birthday in the US.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
That's somebody. That's what somebody told me.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Somebody sent that to me, that post, and I was like, no,
I don't because I'm so unique.
Speaker 5 (07:20):
I mean, right, but clearly you're not not Now clearly
you're not nine nine, But I personally nine I personally
know at least two other people with your same birthday.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
So you have the most common birthday.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
And in the month of September out of like, what
was it like, out of the thirty dates.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
Twenty nine were in step not thirty. I can't remember.
It was like all of the.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Most common birthdays except for one was in September.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Yeah, because y'all are getting it on for a New
Year's and Christmas.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
That's so crazy, Like why, I don't understand. It's like
it's not how do you just wait to like have sex?
I guess what is it? Like your like, like people
are not waiting to have sex well on Christmas?
Speaker 2 (08:08):
I don't know, no, but I think that definitely you're
gonna have sex during Christmas and New Year's, right, especially
New Year's.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
Because you're like home on vacation.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
I guess are you just like happy you're with your
loved ones? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Like New Year's you went to a party, you got drunk, Yeah,
perfect sex time.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah, okay, I don't get it. And then the other
date that was in September, it was July seventh. And
the reason for that, they say, is because doctors, Yeah,
and they they don't want to work on July fourth,
and so they induced people on July seventh.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Damn right, did you get induced? I never, I wasn't induced.
Did you get induced? I got induced for Corey but
not for Carter?
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Yeah, okay, And I only got and I only got
induced for Corey because one was in the NBA at
that time and we were trying to schedule the birth
around his game schedule so that he could be there.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
I'm lying.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
I was induced, yes, with the twin with the no
with Grace, because she was like yeah, she was like
come to the come to the hospital on that Monday,
and we're gonna do she but Grace was.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Like a week late, so it was like time.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Okay, yeah, it was time.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Okay, let me give you my shady moments. Let's get
to yours.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Because as you were in Cabo, I was in the Bahamas, Yes,
you better. I was celebrating my birth day. Yes, I
was doing the big ones.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
So Saturday, we like rented, well, I like rented a cabana.
Everybody came. We were all in the pool. We're acting
like we're twenty five.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
And by the way, I'm sorry I didn't make it,
but I couldn't do a Bahamas and then cabo like
back to back, no.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Especially with your son being mad at you. Like, yes, yeah,
all of that. Yes.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
So you know how like when you're drunking in the pool,
you just make friends with people, right m hm.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
So we made friends with these girls.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
And I do have to say, for the purposes of
this shady moment, they are white, okay.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
Okay, okay, they're not black, okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
So we made friends with them. We were kicking it.
We were drinking, we were laughing, we were partying. We
were having a ball.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Now, mind you, in my group, there were some guys
in my group, so it's ladies and guys.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
Okay. So later on that night we went to.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Dinner, my whole group, and then we come back to
the We went to the dinner off the property. We
come back to the property and we're like in the
lobby and we see the girls who we were hanging
out with earlier, and everybody's all dressed up. I almost
didn't recognize them, but they saw us. They got so excited.
They're like, yes, And there was like a d in
(10:57):
the lobby, so we're all dancing. They see the guys, okay,
and they and one of them walked up to one
of the guys and pulled her dress down to show
him her titties.
Speaker 6 (11:11):
And I was like, what, ma'am, ma'am and so, and
she did it kind of twice, like like she pulled
her dress down to show of titties, and she put
her back up, and then she pulled her dress down
to show the titties.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
And I now, mind you, titties not covered. Titties are
bare oaties. Because you got so excited about because now
mind you, earlier in the day, she told us she
was going through a divorce.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
She was, I guess on.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
The prow, okay, and she forgot that the guys that
she saw she met them with us. Okay, So you
had no business showing your titties to any guy that
was with us, right, And I'm going back to say.
Speaker 3 (11:58):
Black people don't do this.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
I mean, just for the record, we like, I don't know,
a black woman that's walking up to people.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Just showing her I just flashing titty.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
Maybe maybe she thought it was mighty grop. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
But I gave her kind of like a half hug
and I was like, you need to calm down. I
told her, okay, and then she put her dress back up.
She clearly was She was drunk like wasted. She was
drunk like wasted.
Speaker 3 (12:26):
What is it? What is it?
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Channing titum wasted? She was channing tit and wasted. Is
that is that a song? I don't know.
Speaker 3 (12:33):
I've never heard that.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
I've only heard white girl oated. They were white, she
was white girl wasted.
Speaker 2 (12:37):
Yes, yes, yes, that that title fit her. Okay, yes,
oh but we were we were all wasted earlier in
the day. But then we got ourselves back together. Yeah
at nighttime. Yeah, yes, I guess she. I guess she
kept going going. They kept going, They kept going.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Oh my god, and this is like, okay, that might
be something that you might do, like in your twenties,
but I assume these are I don't know, probably in
the forties.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
Maybe fifties.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
I've never seen such in the first of all, we're
in the middle of a lobby, we're in the the
sls and you pull your dress down the show. Okay, Okay,
you know what, Okay, if.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
She's going through a divorce, she's probably one of them.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
Like she hasn't She's she's just been at home raising
kids and been miserable.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
Like she just got out the house. She's just like, no,
she was trying to she was trying to take a
black man home that night. Okay, that's yes what it was.
And that's yes that.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
Part, that part okay.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
So we're gonna leave, leave our men's alone. So the
French Montana of it all being engaged to the Princess
of Dubai, Yes, I'm so intrigued.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
Are you intrigued? Not really? Why are you intrigued?
Speaker 2 (13:58):
Because it was like because she has this big, huge
diamond on her finger.
Speaker 3 (14:02):
Okay, So did you like ask her father for the
money for the ring? Like this ring is huge, is it?
Speaker 4 (14:10):
Okay? I haven't seen the ring.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
I just I just saw that he was engaged to
the princess of whatever, Okay, And yeah that I mean
I would assume it comes with a lot more than
just some type of casual dating. Relationship, like there's you know,
you don't just engage.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
She gets a stipen, He gets a siping he might.
I mean if this ring is huge, like they gotta live.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
They they want to like they want to make sure
that their princess is walking around with the biggest ring. Right, yes, yes,
well they probably you know, made that happen.
Speaker 3 (14:47):
He probably was going to give me a nice a
nice ring.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
But like, if you're gonna be marrying the princess, well
she gotta have the biggest ring, so.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Right, right, she's a beautiful girl.
Speaker 4 (14:58):
Well is okay, I don't want to talk. Don't even appearance.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
I did see a post where somebody posted like a picture,
an unedited picture of her, and she looks very.
Speaker 4 (15:12):
And she looked very different.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
But maybe she's maybe the old picture that they posted
maybe like that was pre surgery, Like she's probably had
some like surgery and some ecstatic treatments and stuff like.
But I did see something. Now I was like, oh,
that doesn't look like the same person. But I don't
want to talk about physical appearance. But it definitely was
a lot a lot different.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
Okay, but that's a major come up for him.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Major Yes, like you you was on the street, in
the streets of Brooklyn. He went from hanging with Diddy.
You know what that means? So okay, okay, So wait,
do we think Diddy's being invited to the wedding? Oh no,
ain't nobody invited Florence. Ain't nobody Okay. Where by the
(15:56):
time they give French gets married, Diddy, I'm sure will
be out of jail.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
Right, So no, great, no, no.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
Okay, when all right, let's say the wedding is in
a year. You think Diddy's going to be out of.
Speaker 4 (16:08):
Jail in a year?
Speaker 3 (16:09):
I think I think. I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
The way that the way that they're like making him
sit like waiting for bail, I think they're still going
to give him, Like I think he's going to get
a couple of years.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Okay, okay, I mean I kind of want to be
invited to the wedding. I'm gonna be honest with you
because this is gonna be.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
Heavish, Yes, oh yes, it will be leaving.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
Yes, we got to figure out how reasonably Shady can
get to the wedding.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
And then also I think about it as like French Montana,
like I haven't.
Speaker 3 (16:38):
Really heard any music from him lately, So.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
Maybe why does he need to do that. He has
been too busy making the princess happy.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Well that's what I'm saying, Like maybe this is like
his like backup play and he's like, oh shit, like
I'm not on it popping.
Speaker 4 (16:52):
Diddy's in jail, like, so he.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
Can't you know, Diddy can't be like, yeah, he can't
be doing favors with for Diddy like to okay, up speculating,
but you know for his music career to be on
and popping, and so he needed a Plan B.
Speaker 3 (17:06):
This was like his his Plan B.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
Listen that Plan B panned out. Honey, you are marrying
the Prince of Dubai. That means that you are very
close to the king. You're very close to the king. Okay, yes, so,
and I mean I wonder what he had to go
You think he had to go through anything to get
the King's blessing, Like yeah, I don't know, to do
a ritual or something. Ye, something had to happen.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
He was he was vetted for sure, Yeah, yeah, totally vetted.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Okay, moving on, So there's something that happened in the
internet world to reasonably shady that was very unexpected yes,
and we're confused.
Speaker 3 (17:48):
Yeah, it was like whoa.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
Okay, So like Robert and I were my not business
and we was just doing our podcast as he already do, okay,
and then we were just talking about like the reality
world space.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
All of a sudden, it was just like came Michelle,
came from the back your your Delta sister. By the way,
did you know the word? Yes, I knew this. I
didn't know that.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
I didn't know that came from the bank, and just
was like trying to annihilate us nobody.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
She wasn't annihilating you, She's trying to She annihilated me,
I mean, but still, so you know what. Okay, First
of all, we didn't say anything bad towards anyone any person,
didn't say anything bad towards other shows, other networks. The
(18:41):
only point that I was making was that I know,
because I've heard this multiple times from credible sources, that
Bravo historically avoided people from other spec specifically VH one,
like they were not interested in having VH one talent
(19:04):
on Bravo's network.
Speaker 3 (19:06):
I have that's heard that before.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
Okay, So when I heard that there were a VH
one talent not a specific person. I don't care who
the person was. The individual was VH one talent.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
On a Bravo show.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
I was like, well, damn, like you know, and I
say it jokingly, damn did like did Alanna run out
of people? Because Bravo's doing something that they didn't do
historically right right then, period, So like I'm like, it
could it could have been like Mary Sue from Love
and Hip Hop that they added, and I would say
the same thing. It could have been like whomever Billy Bob,
(19:41):
and I would have been like, damn, it got Billy
Bob from VH one. That's like, okay, Yeah, it wasn't
a dig at any one person.
Speaker 4 (19:47):
It was not a personal attack.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
And I wasn't thumbing my nose up at any person
or any you know, Love and hip Hop, none of that.
I have no opinion on anyone that is casting for
a show, like I don't. You can cast whomever. I
just was like, oh, okay, that's interesting. Bravo is now
doing something that they traditionally did not do. But I
will say, and I don't know much about Ky Michelle,
(20:11):
but I know that.
Speaker 3 (20:13):
Gossip blogs like.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
To be messy, and I think the way that it
was reported on that gossip blog. If you just read
the headline and you just kind of and you don't
listen to everything that I said, then you can people
can interpret it as a personal attack, or they can like,
you know, you hear your name and you think like
(20:36):
someone is attacking you personally. So I give everyone who
had a problem with that statement the benefit of the
doubt to say that maybe you comprehend it or you
interpret it wrong, because the intention of the gossip blogs
is to create mess and to create drama and to
not really tell like you know, it's more clip farming,
(20:57):
like you just this. That's a term that the kids use,
by the way, but.
Speaker 3 (21:01):
I like that. That was good. I was like, whoa
clip farming? Yes?
Speaker 1 (21:04):
Yes, so it's more like clip farming. You just want
to put out the clip that's going to draw attention
and draw drama, and then you create the headline that
kind of triggers something and that's that. So, you know,
I apologize if anyone took yeah, I apologize if anyone
took that personally. I was not personally throwing a dig
at anyone. Now, as far as the personal attack and
(21:26):
dig that came at me, I don't really care, like, yeah,
I love my couch, love it. So like I don't
care that you called me a couch potato, Like that's
not an insult.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
I don't care that you said I sell hats.
Speaker 1 (21:36):
Yes, I sell hats, like I don't Okay, yeah, I
don't care that you talk about the drama that I
have with my man.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Everybody has drama with their man.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
Like I'm I'm so like not, I'm not offended or
hurt or woe is me?
Speaker 3 (21:49):
I don't I really don't care.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
But it wasn't a personal insult from my from my perspective,
So that's that.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
That's mine.
Speaker 2 (21:58):
I did feel like the punished and didn't fit the
crime because there was no crime and it was it
was a lot.
Speaker 3 (22:06):
It was a lot, yeah, but it was a lot.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
And then you know, it gets I just think, I
don't know, Like I said, it's we live in a
world where gossip and mess rule and people love drawing,
and so for for me, like you know what, we're
on a podcast like we our podcast is called reasonably
Shady number one, so there's going to be some type
of shadiness number two. Like we talk about current events
(22:31):
and what's going on and so for us suggest we
can talk about something, but it's still not us like
criticizing people or doubt or talking down on people. And
you know, so it's not in my nature to like
shit talk people, like I don't throw insults, I don't
(22:52):
like you know, I'm not I'm not criticizing people for
their personal like I know nobody's perfect, Like I don't
like that type of stuff. I don't throw names whatever,
I don't do that, and I'm not going to do
that back to that person. Yeah, but it's just like, wow,
that was really unnecessary. But I could see that we we.
Speaker 2 (23:11):
Or I trigger people for whatever reason, Like I don't
know why people are triggered by stuff that comes out.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
Of my mouth, like I know, very weird.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
Well great marketing for reasona v shady. So thank you girl, yeah,
thank you all. Yeah, moving on, Okay, let's let's move on.
So I don't know whether you saw this post of like,
and I don't know where this is. I think it's
Florida that little girls can no longer wear.
Speaker 3 (23:39):
Edges, like edges has been banned.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
No no, no, in Jamaica. I actually it's in Jamaica.
It's in Jamaica, edges have been banned and the comment
was curtains belong in the house, not on your fue head.
Speaker 3 (24:00):
And I'm like, it's a what's what? Okay, but.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Appreciate that because there are some that take it to
the extreme. It's like it's no longer your baby hair.
It's like yeah, and then and.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
Then down above your dad right eyebrows it like meets
your eyebrows.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Well, I'm okay if we're banning that because it's I
can see in a school environment it being kind of
distracting maybe, And I think they said, like.
Speaker 3 (24:32):
They so your eyebrows it strate it's.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
The teacher and that has to that has to look
at the students and all their.
Speaker 3 (24:42):
Their all for its cover.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
I appreciate that they're they're teaching them, Like just they
said someone like they they want them to be neat
or something. I don't and I can't remember the whole statement,
but I appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (24:58):
But it is a slippery because we you know, once
we start telling people how to wear their hair, then
it's like you know because like here in this country,
black women couldn't wear braids forever, right, so really past that, Yeah,
like if you're if we're in private schools and right,
and even if like you were a commentator, like if
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you're on TV, if you're on the a very long time,
you could not wear braids. Yeah, yeah, yeah, so we've
gotten past that. I see Jumie rocking her braids all
the time on NBC. So it's a slippery slope. And
you teach your kind of teaching. What do you what
do you teaching the kids?
Speaker 3 (25:37):
Well?
Speaker 1 (25:37):
But I mean I think there there's right, it's like
a fine line because yes, I think private schools, my
son wear is a tider school every day, you know
what I'm saying. And it's like people aren't wearing ties,
then more people aren't dressing the same anymore. But like so,
some private schools have the right to tell the kids
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how to dress or what not to wear or you know,
to be groomed or whatever, and that's up to their
interpretation for whatever reason. And you paid us in your
kids to these schools, and you follow the rules. But
and I don't know, I guess in Jamaica they don't
like edges.
Speaker 3 (26:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
I just want to say, Jamaica, edges ain't never hurt nobody,
But we're gonna move on.
Speaker 3 (26:24):
All right, so can we talk it? They you know,
they should just set like a length limit on them.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
They should not be two inches long the edge the
edges should be like what's that like.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
One quarter of an inch? Yeah? Yeah, maybe they can't
touch your eyebrow.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
As long as they're not touching your eyebrow, you're good,
You're good, okay, all right?
Speaker 3 (26:47):
Yeah yeah, but.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
You said, can you call them edges? If they're three
inches longer? Can you call them edges?
Speaker 3 (26:53):
It's not an edge, right right?
Speaker 4 (26:56):
I don't know brush my beach.
Speaker 3 (26:59):
Okay, oh listen, right, I don't even have edges. How
about that? I mean I know what they need to
have edges? They need to set baby hair, yeah right.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
They need to set a length limit on eyelashes though,
as we both have eyelashes on, but like you know,
they need to be like, okay, eyelashes longer than four
inches or not?
Speaker 3 (27:21):
That not that's got to go. That has got moved.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
Yes, a mess, okay, So this this was intriguing to me.
So Japan, I'm I'm gonna send you to show you
the picture.
Speaker 4 (27:32):
Okay, okay, see it's kind of blurry.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
Japan for me. Okay.
Speaker 2 (27:38):
Japan has transformed a parking lot, like a regular outside
parking lot, into a floating garden to combat pollution. Right,
so you see like your your cars are like under
the thing.
Speaker 3 (27:52):
Okay, yeah, yeah, I'm seeing it out Okay, Okay. How
many times you gotta go to the car wash? Do
you know your car marsh bill is out of control?
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Eat all that pole like all so, so to hell
with the cars? Like this isn't a good idea. I
don't what does that have to do with pollution?
Speaker 3 (28:12):
I don't even understand it. Don't make no dang.
Speaker 2 (28:15):
Okay, so you can see it better this way, okay, yes,
So I guess so I guess they're trying to maybe
because it's a it's a non green space.
Speaker 3 (28:27):
A parking lot is like a non green space.
Speaker 2 (28:30):
Maybe greenery helps with the air quality. It's what I'm thinking.
It's very seventh grade. This is the seventh grade science.
Speaker 3 (28:39):
Okay, So the greenery helps with the air quality, And
they decided, okay, this is this is a space in
which cars still need to park here, to hell with
all the pollen on the cars? Yes, you got to
inch of poland on the car? No? Yeah, no, yeah, yeah, no,
I wouldn't be parking there. I would avoid this parking
lot like the lake. Yeah, we're not going nowhere near it. Yeah, no,
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thank you. This is a side note. There's a side note.
Did that Rutger girl, Mary Mary get married to Bakari?
So they were already they were already married.
Speaker 1 (29:24):
That was like a so yeah, Ellen Rutger and Bakari
sellers recently had a It was kind of like more
like a vow renewal. They've been married for how long years?
Maybe ten years? Maybe it was a ten years?
Speaker 2 (29:39):
Okay, So am I getting this guy confused with the
guy that was on that like, got caught with the dude?
Speaker 3 (29:48):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (29:48):
And he was, yes, yes, you're getting him confused. Andrew
Gillham he was running, He ran for governor of Florida.
Speaker 3 (29:57):
Ye, girl, I thought that was him with him. I was, oh, yeah,
I was. I was so confused and I was gonna
call you.
Speaker 2 (30:05):
Okay, these are the conversations we have without y'all, without
you know, people listening.
Speaker 3 (30:10):
I was like, oh, you're like, what is she doing? Okay,
all right, never mind moving on, moving on?
Speaker 1 (30:16):
Yes, okay, okay, no, but but cary that I can
see where you get them mixed up because they do
have like a similar.
Speaker 3 (30:24):
Build, head shape, all of it.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Yes, everything the same like beard, the word yeah everything they'd.
Speaker 3 (30:32):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, not the same person.
Speaker 1 (30:36):
Okay, okay, hallelujah okay, oh housekeeping announcement everyone, And if
in case you missed it, we are. We now have
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It's the Reasonably She's Mail mail Bag. You know, we
already read a lot of emails that come into us
on episode regular episodes, but we wanted to read like
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we we wanted to read more of your emails and messages,
yes and get And because you all spend the time
to send us emails, we don't want to disregard or
ignore your emails. And so we just created a dedicated
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Speaker 3 (31:20):
So keep the emails come in to What's up at
Reasonably Shady.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
So that we can read your emails, all right, Yes, okay,
another on another note that's a little bit more sensitive.
So the gentlemen that recently died, yesascinated Sean.
Speaker 4 (31:36):
MM was this Charlie Charlie Kirk.
Speaker 2 (31:40):
Okay, so the following day, all the HBCUs were under a.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
Threat, a shooter threat. Okay mm hmm, so to know
me to now all my children go to an HBCU.
So they were on lockdown and.
Speaker 2 (32:01):
Classes were canceled, the the the activities were canceled, the
calf was closed. All that you had to shelter the place,
which I think is fantastic as it relates to safety. Great, Yes,
what hurt did this man have to do with black children?
Like like, keep us out of this? We write days,
(32:22):
we see you, I'm not going this.
Speaker 4 (32:25):
Nothing.
Speaker 3 (32:26):
And the man that killed the man was a white
man like it.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
Yeah, we just this was maga. This was maga on
maga crime. Okay, this didn't have any to do with
the black children out here, So keep black children out
of this, right my PSA.
Speaker 1 (32:42):
Yes, yeah, I will say before this happened, I didn't
know who Charlie Kirk was. But and I don't agree with,
you know, people celebrating his death or whatever or making
light of it. However, I also don't agree with making
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him like a martyr and like Trump had the flag,
the US flag flown at half staff.
Speaker 4 (33:11):
He said something like he wants.
Speaker 1 (33:12):
To award him with a medal of honor and all
this type of stuff. And I'm like, but he wasn't
a politician and he wasn't you know, he didn't.
Speaker 4 (33:21):
Serve the people.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
I don't even I don't understand why they're they're turning
this into like something that has affected the country, Like, no,
this is only this has affected that segment of you know.
Speaker 4 (33:35):
People who believe what they believe.
Speaker 1 (33:37):
Yes, and I do think it's messed up. We didn't
hear this type of response from politicians the media about
the actual politicians in Minnesota that were murdered in cold
blood in their house and their spouse, like their spouses leave.
Speaker 6 (33:58):
You know.
Speaker 4 (33:59):
It's just come on, like why do we make it
make sense? Yeah, make this make sense?
Speaker 1 (34:06):
Like okay, well, you can mourn someone's death, but like
to minimize what happened to the actual politicians in Minnesota,
but turn this, this man's Charlie Kirk's death into like
a political thing like that. He wasn't a servant of
the people like I just I don't, and he was
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his views and his steech teachings and the stuff that
he said is very divisive and racist. This country is
so weird right now, Like it's I don't know where
we're living. I don't how did we get here. It
is really sad that we got here. I saw a
girl on Instagram say, you know what, I have a
really good idea. You know, since we're so divided, you
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have you know, the red side and the blue side
and the maga.
Speaker 4 (34:52):
Who's you know, Like we're just so divided, Like why
don't we.
Speaker 3 (34:55):
Just split the country like down the middle. And if
you believe, you.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
Know, if you're on the blue side and the or
left side, then like you go move to the left
side of the country. You know, if you believe on
the maga and whatever, then you go to the right side,
the right side.
Speaker 3 (35:13):
Okay, but but and then where we're.
Speaker 2 (35:14):
Gonna put Atlanta, we can't do that because where we're
gonna put Atlanta, where we're gonna put La, where we're
gonna put where we're going, there's.
Speaker 1 (35:21):
No more we we all just have to move to
whatever side. And then it's like it's change your mind. Yeah, yeah,
we all moved back. You pick your side, you move,
and then like if you change your views, you can
like go to the other side and live happily.
Speaker 3 (35:36):
Bit on the side.
Speaker 2 (35:37):
I'm like, I'm like, you know what, at this point
in life, I approve of that message because I'm not
mad at it.
Speaker 3 (35:43):
Nonsense.
Speaker 1 (35:44):
That is, the United States of America is too it's
it's it's a.
Speaker 3 (35:48):
Lot, it's fair least it's sad. I had to like.
Speaker 2 (35:52):
So yesterday, his is so crazy because I'm a very
nice person. I feel like when I'm out in the streets,
I'm very nice to people. I'm very aware of my surroundings,
help people.
Speaker 4 (36:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (36:02):
So, walking in front of me on the plane was
a girl. I saw her.
Speaker 2 (36:06):
She on a hat, she on the sweater, she on
the little skirt. She looked really cute, young girl, probably
in her twenties.
Speaker 4 (36:11):
M hm.
Speaker 2 (36:12):
And she was right in front of me, and she
needed help putting her luggage at the top. And I
was going to help her until she turned her head
and I saw she had on a hat. Oh no,
the President's initials on the side of it.
Speaker 3 (36:27):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (36:28):
And I was like, I gasped, and then I did
not help her put her right luggage.
Speaker 3 (36:37):
Right.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
See, And that's why you need to be right, and
that's why you need to be on the left side
of the country and she needn't be on the right
side of the country, and we just mind our business, yes,
and leave each other alone.
Speaker 2 (36:49):
Because I couldn't even help her with a luggage, I
felt but I didn't feel.
Speaker 3 (36:51):
Bad, but I felt yeah, right, right right.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
But it was like, but she's asking for that, like
she's made that statement kind of like I'm sorry, but
she putting it out there.
Speaker 4 (37:04):
She's putting it out.
Speaker 1 (37:05):
As much as I loved Obama, I never wore an
Obama hat on Obama T shirt and Obama nothing like it.
Speaker 3 (37:11):
Just no.
Speaker 1 (37:11):
So it's like when you choose to wear a hat,
a Maga hat or a Donald Trump hat, like you're
also inviting, like you're trying to find your.
Speaker 4 (37:19):
People too, like okay, well you know, I want my people.
Speaker 1 (37:22):
I saw something and I think this is like very interesting.
It was after Charlie Kirk was killed. It was a
young student I think that was at that rally, and
the media asked her like, you know, why are you here,
why are you a part of this organization?
Speaker 4 (37:39):
I think it's called turning point, And she.
Speaker 1 (37:41):
Was like, well, you know, finally, like we we feel
cool again, like before we weren't. It wasn't like like
we didn't we weren't cool, but now we're cool. And
so I feel like that's the mentality for a lot
of people who have the same beliefs aligned with the
conservative MAGA movement, that now they're able to boastfully, be
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loud and proud with their views and they feel like
they're they're cool and it's okay for them to do
it and they can like they won't feel like bad
or chastised for their views.
Speaker 7 (38:23):
And I was like, that's crazy to me, Like you
want to feel cool for being aligned with racism, okay, right,
which is insane?
Speaker 3 (38:34):
Mind you. I tell my kids all the time.
Speaker 2 (38:36):
Don't be out here with Dayton these cool boys, the
boys that are cool then the popular, no, go look
for a nerd.
Speaker 3 (38:43):
So that's oh ye where I am with that? Oh yeah, because.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
Because you know why historically, like we've seen it happen,
like the nerds in school are.
Speaker 3 (38:54):
Like the rich ones it later in life.
Speaker 4 (38:56):
Yes, that is for sure.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
They're the CEOs, yes, yes, they're running the company, yes absolutely.
Speaker 3 (39:02):
And then their business the entrepreneurs.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
Yeah, and then they get their little once they get
their their money and there you know, they ease into
the lifestyle and they they're doing Eli Musk. They like
Eli Musk and the Jeff Bezos.
Speaker 2 (39:14):
Right yeah, and what's the other one? Even, what's my
Microsoft man name?
Speaker 3 (39:19):
Bill Gates? Now Bill Gates, Bill Gates spot out. But
he looks he looks like a cool nerd. Like he's
he's a sophisticated nerd.
Speaker 4 (39:28):
Okay, he got nerds.
Speaker 3 (39:29):
Well you would give you would give him the drawings.
Oh no, you don't.
Speaker 1 (39:35):
You wouldn't give him the panties. Okay, but Jeff, but
Jeff Bezos today? Yeah, yeah, Like I feel like, I mean,
I'm speaking hypothetically, but like I could see where like.
Speaker 4 (39:51):
I could see like if I was, like.
Speaker 1 (39:53):
You know, single, and he was single and we were
like hanging at the pool and he just starts having
a conversation. Okay, just yeah, right, I must Eli Musk heltons.
Speaker 3 (40:07):
He doesn't.
Speaker 2 (40:07):
He has nothing attractive about him, like nothing, no, like
he doesn't look like Bezos has that ball head. He
has a little swag to him. He's my other man
who I just thought to who's I say, Microsoft? Oh
Gates Gates has the little glasses. Bates got the glasses
they're kind of cool.
Speaker 4 (40:26):
M mmm mmmmmy.
Speaker 1 (40:29):
He's start he He was like, you know what, I
started a nerd. I'm gonna stay a nerd. I'm gonna
be true to who I am.
Speaker 4 (40:35):
No mm hmm.
Speaker 3 (40:38):
Okay, So Gates can't get it, No I get it.
Speaker 1 (40:41):
Okay, No, okay, okay, okay, fair enough, fair enough, okay.
Speaker 3 (40:44):
Do you have a la boo boo? What's the lat
boo boo? A lttle boo boo?
Speaker 1 (40:49):
You haven't seen these la boo boos, like.
Speaker 3 (40:52):
Like the little the little he changed from like the little.
I don't have that boo. But I think a little
boo boo is a big thing. It is huge pho.
Speaker 1 (41:00):
First of all, that shit is not little, I feel okay.
First of all, it's not little. I've seen someone. Someone
came in to Glow thirty. She had two laboo booths
hanging off her bag. That shit about this big like
and hang it, I mean almost okay, like I'm gonna
stop it, like right here, it's like this big.
Speaker 3 (41:18):
They're huge. They're like these little, mean looking stuffed animals.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
And so I was like, I'm like, what is the
big deal about these things? And she was just like yeah,
like people go crazy over them, and you know, some
people pay thousands of.
Speaker 3 (41:36):
Dollars and you don't.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
Yes, they're like some of them are like one of
a kind and and and so you pay thousands of dollars,
you don't know what you're gonna get and you open
the box and you I'm like.
Speaker 3 (41:47):
Huh, this is adults.
Speaker 2 (41:49):
These are adults or children? Adults a dog now adult? Absolutely, No,
it's not.
Speaker 1 (41:56):
I'm like, so it started in it's like a Japanese designer, yes,
and it's just turned into this collector's item and people
are going crazy over them, and I'm just like, I
don't get it.
Speaker 2 (42:10):
See, I thought they were unique to Louis Vauton. I
thought it was a Louis Vuitton thing.
Speaker 3 (42:15):
I don't Yeah.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
I don't think so not Maybe maybe the no, I
don't think it's like you don't buy it at Louis Baton.
Maybe the designers, like I don't know, a website online. Oh,
people like buy them and resell them as well, like
they're there. It's just it's weird. It's different. So if
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you have a la boo boo people out here, like,
please email us at what's up at reasonably shad dot
com and tell me why why do you have a
la boo boo? And why do you have a la
boo boo?
Speaker 3 (42:48):
Because I'm gonna get a no no am I getting
that right? I mean, but they're not even cute. They
look crazy.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
It's it's weird, and then are they were like other
I'm trying to remember what was the most recent like
collector's item that people were going crazy over.
Speaker 4 (43:07):
I can't remember the name of these things, but.
Speaker 3 (43:09):
You know, I feel like every.
Speaker 1 (43:12):
Five years or so there's some stupid collector's item that people.
Speaker 2 (43:16):
Okay, well, well the Hello Kitty thing. Hello Kitty had
a phase, did it? Yeah, Hello Kitty had a big phase,
maybe like for four or five years ago maybe yeah, okay,
maybe so maybe right before Yeah, Hello Kitty had a phase.
And Hello Kitty still does like pop ups, okay, and
it's a thing like linea be all the way down
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the street.
Speaker 3 (43:38):
What that's so? Yeah for Hello Kitty? Do you remember?
Speaker 1 (43:42):
I feel like this was around COVID time people were
buying like they were paying thousands of dollars for like
a digital what they called him ef T.
Speaker 3 (43:53):
Do you remember that? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (43:55):
Yes, I think you were like talking to one, yeah,
making one yes, Yes, n f T was the n
f T or n f T yeah something n f
T yes, yes, and that that n f T is.
Speaker 1 (44:09):
Gone gone And there's some people that that spent thousands
of dollars and did not get their money back off those.
Speaker 2 (44:14):
Ny And I think I feel like it was a
Ponzi skin Was it.
Speaker 4 (44:18):
A I think so?
Speaker 1 (44:20):
Yes, I think so somebody was scamming. Somebody was scamming
for sure, for.
Speaker 3 (44:25):
Sure, But there's a lot of scammers out here.
Speaker 1 (44:28):
What yes, it is people were scamming. That was crazy, ridiculous,
like I mean, I mean, yeah, when there's like these
little fads and people throw money at it, keep your
money in your pocket.
Speaker 2 (44:40):
Just stop just especially expectedly nowadays, especially nowadays, we need
to keep our money in our pocket because torow not promised. Now, okay,
this is the last thing you cab to let you go. Okay,
because this this has to do with you, Robin. There's
a new study that suggests that scrolling, scrolling on your
phone while you're sitting on the toilet raises how risks.
(45:01):
We've talked about this, but we talked about magazines. We
didn't talk about scrolling on your phone. No, I mean
it's the same thing hemorrhoids. It's no pain and itchymal.
Speaker 1 (45:18):
Okay, pain and it do you I haven't gotten knows
that I have not gotten the painful and itchy hemorrhoids yet.
Speaker 3 (45:26):
Okay, okay, just the hemorrhoids, yes, just.
Speaker 2 (45:33):
Okay, Well you better leave your phone outside the outside
the bathroom.
Speaker 3 (45:36):
Okay, leave it.
Speaker 1 (45:38):
I'm working on that, working at because I don't want painful,
itchy woods.
Speaker 4 (45:41):
I don't want that.
Speaker 3 (45:42):
No you don't.
Speaker 2 (45:43):
No, no, not in mad capacity. Okay, it makes sense.
Speaker 1 (45:47):
I got my children, though, Oh my gosh, they're driving
me crazy with the no no, no, no, no, no, they
don't have them yet.
Speaker 4 (45:57):
I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (45:58):
They will sit on the toilet for like an hour
whip hole with the shower running like steaming hot.
Speaker 3 (46:08):
You know. Oh no, Joe, damn listen toilet. Tell Corey
that water bill is his birthday present.
Speaker 2 (46:17):
You're gonna pay the water bill for him for that, right, Okay,
that's the birthday present, right?
Speaker 3 (46:25):
Yeah? Well Carter and Carter, oh yeah, it's Carter. They stay.
They say, boys do other things in the shower. No,
do you know what else my kids do in the shower.
What do you know what they do? They watch TV
in the shower.
Speaker 1 (46:42):
They watch They have their phone and they purchased this
like plastic protective case with plastic section cups and it's
on the tile on the shower towel. They put their
phone in the plastic case and they watch whatever it
is that they watch on their phone. If it's something
(47:03):
they're streaming. Uh, it is insane. And they take these
they not. So they sit on a toilet for an
hour and then they and then they take a ship
and then they take a shower for an hour.
Speaker 2 (47:17):
And when they are when they're twenty five, they're gonna
have painful itchy.
Speaker 3 (47:25):
They just gotta stop. This is what Strow does.
Speaker 2 (47:29):
Anyone else's kids do this? Nuts, Yes, let us know,
let us know. And I bet you's gonna be boys.
I bet you it's gonna be girls. Don't do the boys, Okay.
Speaker 1 (47:38):
And then and then one is in the shower having
whole conversations with people like his phone because he's just
he sits it on this ledge that we have that
you know, it's away from the water, and he will
literally be having whole conversations with people in the shower.
I'm like, listen that said you liveing with you live
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with these boys that you live with IM.
Speaker 2 (48:04):
When I say boys, I want include it. I don't
even I don't even understand this life. This is a
life I don't understand.
Speaker 4 (48:10):
No, it's nonsense. It is straight nots it.
Speaker 3 (48:14):
Oh my gosh, all right, well that is our episode.
We love y'all so much.
Speaker 2 (48:17):
Don't ever forget to live your life either reasonable or
shady or both.
Speaker 3 (48:22):
Bye.
Speaker 2 (48:29):
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Speaker 1 (48:34):
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Robin Dixon, ten, Giselle Bryant, and Reasonably Shady
Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect
Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I am Giselle, but I ain't what's up?
Speaker 4 (00:19):
What's up?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for being here with us
sick and me and Robert are like matching. We we're
tweating and we didn't even mean to do it.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
I'm in my I'm in my swimsuit. This is a
big of a bathing suit top. But yes, it's like
such a cute coincidence. The Green Eyed Band.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
That's how much right, That's how much right, and that's
how much reasonly we shady is connected. We are, I know,
I know, I get that, and I feel like when
we record, like we're always kind of our coordinated a
little bit like but unconsciously, you know, or unintentioned.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Yes, it happens.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Yes, ready, yes, all right, shady moment. Oh yeah, tell
me where you are? Yeah, before we get into shady moment,
I we are recording virtually everybody because I am in
Los Cabos, Mexico.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Whoo whoo, whoop whoop, on a girl's.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Trip, and I just want to like plug this resort
because I think it's an awesome resort.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
It's beautiful.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
I'm at Les Blanc, which is in l Cabo. It
is an adults only resort. It is all inclusive, and
the food is amazing. And that's so like rare that
you get to say that an all inclusive resort has
amazing food.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
But this food is so amazing.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
And we'll be like at the you know, at in
the restaurant, finishing up our meal and we're like.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
We feel like we need to pay for this.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Like it's you know, like it's We were at dinner
yesterday and one of my one of the girls, was like.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Asking the waiter.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
She's like, okay, like we're ready to wrap this up,
and we're.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Like, why are you telling you that we could just
stand and leave, Like, well, what are you talking about?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
But she was like, how many girls.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
There's five of us. So there they are my child
childhood friends. We all I grew up with them in Baltimore,
and this is our third trip to Cabo together and
we just come.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
And relax and eat and and chill.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
And so I recommend this if like for people who
are looking for, you know, just a trip with their girls.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
There's a lot of couples here. It's really nice.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
And then it's like every if I like move a toe,
the staff is like, oh, miss do you need anything,
ma'am you know missus Dixon, do you need anything?
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Like yeah, wait good, I'm give it a chill.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
So the service is amazing. So yes, just really love it.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
But my shady moment, my shady moment is that I
am on this trip and today is my child's birthday.
Oh and yes, right, And I'm like, when we planned it,
(03:06):
it's so hard for my five group of friends to
find a weekend or a stretch of like four days
that works for all of us, right, so because there
three of them are doctors, so it's like really hard
for us to find a good weekend to coordinate. So
(03:26):
they threw this weekend out and all of them were like, yes.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Works for me, works for me.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
And so I didn't really like look at the dates
of the weekend. I just looked at my calendar to
see if I had any like events on my calendar, right,
like anything that I needed to do. I did not
realize it was Carter's birthday, and so I planned this
trip and I didn't tell them right away because because
(03:51):
I can't tell them that I'm leaving, like suit too
far out, because every day they're back.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I can't believe you leaving me. I can't believe you
leave an US. I can't leave an US.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Right.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
So the other day I'm like, guys, I'm going to
Cobo for a few days with my girlfriends.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
You know, I always go on the girl's trip. All right,
I'll see you on Sunday, blah blah blah. And they're like,
you're leaving and it's Carter's birthday.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
And I was like, uh, okay, wait, wait when is
the birthday. It's it's Saturday or Sunday. It's right now
as I speak. Okay, it's today, today, today.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
What did you say? Is he so sad? So like
he at first?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Okay, so like one he was the first one to
be like, you're going on a trip on Carter's birthday.
And I was like, and then Carter called me so
then so then I told Carter, I.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Said, Carter, I'm going out of town.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
It's your birthday. I'm so sorry, Like what, like, you know,
I'm so sorry. He's like, it's okay, mom, it's fine.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Right.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
So then like a couple days later, well, yesterday he
calls me and he's like, yeah, Mom, it's messed up.
You're on a trip and it's my birthday. And I'm like,
I'm like, but Carter, you said it was okay, you
were understandable. He's like, yeah, well Corey brought it up.
Corey was talking about you. He said it's messed up.
I said, oh, so Corey gashed you up. Okay, fine,
(05:17):
like Corey.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Being a hater Corey Corey. Right, He's finding like my
may hearing your birthday, she don't love you. I'm like,
oh my Carl, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
So I'm like, you know, I usually, you know, I
always give them money for their birthday, So like I
had to give him like extra money for his birthday.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Yeah, yes, yes, the guy his love at this point, Yes, yeah, okay,
Well does he have a cake?
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Are you sending balloons?
Speaker 5 (05:43):
Like?
Speaker 3 (05:43):
What are we doing? Well?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
One was like I'm gonna handle it. He's like, I'm
you know, I'll get his I didn't. I didn't have
gifts anything like. So One went and got him his gifts.
He said, he's getting his cupcakes and cards and balloons.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
He you know what.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Okay, good for for them because one needs yes handle that,
so yes, right, he's got it. And then I told it,
and then my mom is gonna go see him and
bring him some mom and stuff.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Okay yeah, and then so he's he never heard.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
You know, we're not we don't do like birthdays big anyway,
Like my kids don't ask for parties and stuff like that.
But still, like I'm on, they.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Just want you to be there.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm like okay. So they're like, actually,
uh huh. Corey's like, you're an l mom. You're an
L mom.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
I'm like, Coury, what's that like? Loser?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Like a loser mom. Yes, I'm an L mom. Okay.
Actually you get the shady moment of the two weeks.
You get shady moment of like I'm okay, right, I
get the shady I get the shady moment of Virgo season, right.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Yes, yes, because Virgo season is like everything, yes, everything.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Speaking of Virgo season, before we go into your shady moment,
I saw a post I seem too. They're kind of
a little conflicting, but supposed supposedly and I may We've
talked about this. Do you know that you have the
most common birthday in the US.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
That's somebody. That's what somebody told me.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Somebody sent that to me, that post, and I was like, no,
I don't because I'm so unique.
Speaker 5 (07:20):
I mean, right, but clearly you're not not Now clearly
you're not nine nine, But I personally nine I personally
know at least two other people with your same birthday.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
So you have the most common birthday.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
And in the month of September out of like, what
was it like, out of the thirty dates.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
Twenty nine were in step not thirty. I can't remember.
It was like all of the.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Most common birthdays except for one was in September.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Yeah, because y'all are getting it on for a New
Year's and Christmas.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
That's so crazy, Like why, I don't understand. It's like
it's not how do you just wait to like have sex?
I guess what is it? Like your like, like people
are not waiting to have sex well on Christmas?
Speaker 2 (08:08):
I don't know, no, but I think that definitely you're
gonna have sex during Christmas and New Year's, right, especially
New Year's.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
Because you're like home on vacation.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
I guess are you just like happy you're with your
loved ones? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Like New Year's you went to a party, you got drunk, Yeah,
perfect sex time.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah, okay, I don't get it. And then the other
date that was in September, it was July seventh. And
the reason for that, they say, is because doctors, Yeah,
and they they don't want to work on July fourth,
and so they induced people on July seventh.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Damn right, did you get induced? I never, I wasn't induced.
Did you get induced? I got induced for Corey but
not for Carter?
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Yeah, okay, And I only got and I only got
induced for Corey because one was in the NBA at
that time and we were trying to schedule the birth
around his game schedule so that he could be there.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
I'm lying.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
I was induced, yes, with the twin with the no
with Grace, because she was like yeah, she was like
come to the come to the hospital on that Monday,
and we're gonna do she but Grace was.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Like a week late, so it was like time.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Okay, yeah, it was time.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Okay, let me give you my shady moments. Let's get
to yours.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Because as you were in Cabo, I was in the Bahamas, Yes,
you better. I was celebrating my birth day. Yes, I
was doing the big ones.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
So Saturday, we like rented, well, I like rented a cabana.
Everybody came. We were all in the pool. We're acting
like we're twenty five.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
And by the way, I'm sorry I didn't make it,
but I couldn't do a Bahamas and then cabo like
back to back, no.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Especially with your son being mad at you. Like, yes, yeah,
all of that. Yes.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
So you know how like when you're drunking in the pool,
you just make friends with people, right m hm.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
So we made friends with these girls.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
And I do have to say, for the purposes of
this shady moment, they are white, okay.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
Okay, okay, they're not black, okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
So we made friends with them. We were kicking it.
We were drinking, we were laughing, we were partying. We
were having a ball.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Now, mind you, in my group, there were some guys
in my group, so it's ladies and guys.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
Okay. So later on that night we went to.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Dinner, my whole group, and then we come back to
the We went to the dinner off the property. We
come back to the property and we're like in the
lobby and we see the girls who we were hanging
out with earlier, and everybody's all dressed up. I almost
didn't recognize them, but they saw us. They got so excited.
They're like, yes, And there was like a d in
(10:57):
the lobby, so we're all dancing. They see the guys, okay,
and they and one of them walked up to one
of the guys and pulled her dress down to show
him her titties.
Speaker 6 (11:11):
And I was like, what, ma'am, ma'am and so, and
she did it kind of twice, like like she pulled
her dress down to show of titties, and she put
her back up, and then she pulled her dress down
to show the titties.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
And I now, mind you, titties not covered. Titties are
bare oaties. Because you got so excited about because now
mind you, earlier in the day, she told us she
was going through a divorce.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
She was, I guess on.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
The prow, okay, and she forgot that the guys that
she saw she met them with us. Okay, So you
had no business showing your titties to any guy that
was with us, right, And I'm going back to say.
Speaker 3 (11:58):
Black people don't do this.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
I mean, just for the record, we like, I don't know,
a black woman that's walking up to people.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Just showing her I just flashing titty.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
Maybe maybe she thought it was mighty grop. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
But I gave her kind of like a half hug
and I was like, you need to calm down. I
told her, okay, and then she put her dress back up.
She clearly was She was drunk like wasted. She was
drunk like wasted.
Speaker 3 (12:26):
What is it? What is it?
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Channing titum wasted? She was channing tit and wasted. Is
that is that a song? I don't know.
Speaker 3 (12:33):
I've never heard that.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
I've only heard white girl oated. They were white, she
was white girl wasted.
Speaker 2 (12:37):
Yes, yes, yes, that that title fit her. Okay, yes,
oh but we were we were all wasted earlier in
the day. But then we got ourselves back together. Yeah
at nighttime. Yeah, yes, I guess she. I guess she
kept going going. They kept going, They kept going.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Oh my god, and this is like, okay, that might
be something that you might do, like in your twenties,
but I assume these are I don't know, probably in
the forties.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
Maybe fifties.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
I've never seen such in the first of all, we're
in the middle of a lobby, we're in the the
sls and you pull your dress down the show. Okay, Okay,
you know what, Okay, if.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
She's going through a divorce, she's probably one of them.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
Like she hasn't She's she's just been at home raising
kids and been miserable.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
Like she just got out the house. She's just like, no,
she was trying to she was trying to take a
black man home that night. Okay, that's yes what it was.
And that's yes that.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
Part, that part okay.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
So we're gonna leave, leave our men's alone. So the
French Montana of it all being engaged to the Princess
of Dubai, Yes, I'm so intrigued.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
Are you intrigued? Not really? Why are you intrigued?
Speaker 2 (13:58):
Because it was like because she has this big, huge
diamond on her finger.
Speaker 3 (14:02):
Okay, So did you like ask her father for the
money for the ring? Like this ring is huge, is it?
Speaker 4 (14:10):
Okay? I haven't seen the ring.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
I just I just saw that he was engaged to
the princess of whatever, Okay, And yeah that I mean
I would assume it comes with a lot more than
just some type of casual dating. Relationship, like there's you know,
you don't just engage.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
She gets a stipen, He gets a siping he might.
I mean if this ring is huge, like they gotta live.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
They they want to like they want to make sure
that their princess is walking around with the biggest ring. Right, yes, yes,
well they probably you know, made that happen.
Speaker 3 (14:47):
He probably was going to give me a nice a
nice ring.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
But like, if you're gonna be marrying the princess, well
she gotta have the biggest ring, so.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Right, right, she's a beautiful girl.
Speaker 4 (14:58):
Well is okay, I don't want to talk. Don't even appearance.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
I did see a post where somebody posted like a picture,
an unedited picture of her, and she looks very.
Speaker 4 (15:12):
And she looked very different.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
But maybe she's maybe the old picture that they posted
maybe like that was pre surgery, Like she's probably had
some like surgery and some ecstatic treatments and stuff like.
But I did see something. Now I was like, oh,
that doesn't look like the same person. But I don't
want to talk about physical appearance. But it definitely was
a lot a lot different.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
Okay, but that's a major come up for him.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Major Yes, like you you was on the street, in
the streets of Brooklyn. He went from hanging with Diddy.
You know what that means? So okay, okay, So wait,
do we think Diddy's being invited to the wedding? Oh no,
ain't nobody invited Florence. Ain't nobody Okay. Where by the
(15:56):
time they give French gets married, Diddy, I'm sure will
be out of jail.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
Right, So no, great, no, no.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
Okay, when all right, let's say the wedding is in
a year. You think Diddy's going to be out of.
Speaker 4 (16:08):
Jail in a year?
Speaker 3 (16:09):
I think I think. I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
The way that the way that they're like making him
sit like waiting for bail, I think they're still going
to give him, Like I think he's going to get
a couple of years.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Okay, okay, I mean I kind of want to be
invited to the wedding. I'm gonna be honest with you
because this is gonna be.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
Heavish, Yes, oh yes, it will be leaving.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
Yes, we got to figure out how reasonably Shady can
get to the wedding.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
And then also I think about it as like French Montana,
like I haven't.
Speaker 3 (16:38):
Really heard any music from him lately, So.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
Maybe why does he need to do that. He has
been too busy making the princess happy.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Well that's what I'm saying, Like maybe this is like
his like backup play and he's like, oh shit, like
I'm not on it popping.
Speaker 4 (16:52):
Diddy's in jail, like, so he.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
Can't you know, Diddy can't be like, yeah, he can't
be doing favors with for Diddy like to okay, up speculating,
but you know for his music career to be on
and popping, and so he needed a Plan B.
Speaker 3 (17:06):
This was like his his Plan B.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
Listen that Plan B panned out. Honey, you are marrying
the Prince of Dubai. That means that you are very
close to the king. You're very close to the king. Okay, yes, so,
and I mean I wonder what he had to go
You think he had to go through anything to get
the King's blessing, Like yeah, I don't know, to do
a ritual or something. Ye, something had to happen.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
He was he was vetted for sure, Yeah, yeah, totally vetted.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Okay, moving on, So there's something that happened in the
internet world to reasonably shady that was very unexpected yes,
and we're confused.
Speaker 3 (17:48):
Yeah, it was like whoa.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
Okay, So like Robert and I were my not business
and we was just doing our podcast as he already do, okay,
and then we were just talking about like the reality
world space.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
All of a sudden, it was just like came Michelle,
came from the back your your Delta sister. By the way,
did you know the word? Yes, I knew this. I
didn't know that.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
I didn't know that came from the bank, and just
was like trying to annihilate us nobody.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
She wasn't annihilating you, She's trying to She annihilated me,
I mean, but still, so you know what. Okay, First
of all, we didn't say anything bad towards anyone any person,
didn't say anything bad towards other shows, other networks. The
(18:41):
only point that I was making was that I know,
because I've heard this multiple times from credible sources, that
Bravo historically avoided people from other spec specifically VH one,
like they were not interested in having VH one talent
(19:04):
on Bravo's network.
Speaker 3 (19:06):
I have that's heard that before.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
Okay, So when I heard that there were a VH
one talent not a specific person. I don't care who
the person was. The individual was VH one talent.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
On a Bravo show.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
I was like, well, damn, like you know, and I
say it jokingly, damn did like did Alanna run out
of people? Because Bravo's doing something that they didn't do
historically right right then, period, So like I'm like, it
could it could have been like Mary Sue from Love
and Hip Hop that they added, and I would say
the same thing. It could have been like whomever Billy Bob,
(19:41):
and I would have been like, damn, it got Billy
Bob from VH one. That's like, okay, Yeah, it wasn't
a dig at any one person.
Speaker 4 (19:47):
It was not a personal attack.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
And I wasn't thumbing my nose up at any person
or any you know, Love and hip Hop, none of that.
I have no opinion on anyone that is casting for
a show, like I don't. You can cast whomever. I
just was like, oh, okay, that's interesting. Bravo is now
doing something that they traditionally did not do. But I
will say, and I don't know much about Ky Michelle,
(20:11):
but I know that.
Speaker 3 (20:13):
Gossip blogs like.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
To be messy, and I think the way that it
was reported on that gossip blog. If you just read
the headline and you just kind of and you don't
listen to everything that I said, then you can people
can interpret it as a personal attack, or they can like,
you know, you hear your name and you think like
(20:36):
someone is attacking you personally. So I give everyone who
had a problem with that statement the benefit of the
doubt to say that maybe you comprehend it or you
interpret it wrong, because the intention of the gossip blogs
is to create mess and to create drama and to
not really tell like you know, it's more clip farming,
(20:57):
like you just this. That's a term that the kids use,
by the way, but.
Speaker 3 (21:01):
I like that. That was good. I was like, whoa
clip farming? Yes?
Speaker 1 (21:04):
Yes, so it's more like clip farming. You just want
to put out the clip that's going to draw attention
and draw drama, and then you create the headline that
kind of triggers something and that's that. So, you know,
I apologize if anyone took yeah, I apologize if anyone
took that personally. I was not personally throwing a dig
at anyone. Now, as far as the personal attack and
(21:26):
dig that came at me, I don't really care, like, yeah,
I love my couch, love it. So like I don't
care that you called me a couch potato, Like that's
not an insult.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
I don't care that you said I sell hats.
Speaker 1 (21:36):
Yes, I sell hats, like I don't Okay, yeah, I
don't care that you talk about the drama that I
have with my man.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Everybody has drama with their man.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
Like I'm I'm so like not, I'm not offended or
hurt or woe is me?
Speaker 3 (21:49):
I don't I really don't care.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
But it wasn't a personal insult from my from my perspective,
So that's that.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
That's mine.
Speaker 2 (21:58):
I did feel like the punished and didn't fit the
crime because there was no crime and it was it
was a lot.
Speaker 3 (22:06):
It was a lot, yeah, but it was a lot.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
And then you know, it gets I just think, I
don't know, Like I said, it's we live in a
world where gossip and mess rule and people love drawing,
and so for for me, like you know what, we're
on a podcast like we our podcast is called reasonably
Shady number one, so there's going to be some type
of shadiness number two. Like we talk about current events
(22:31):
and what's going on and so for us suggest we
can talk about something, but it's still not us like
criticizing people or doubt or talking down on people. And
you know, so it's not in my nature to like
shit talk people, like I don't throw insults, I don't
(22:52):
like you know, I'm not I'm not criticizing people for
their personal like I know nobody's perfect, Like I don't
like that type of stuff. I don't throw names whatever,
I don't do that, and I'm not going to do
that back to that person. Yeah, but it's just like, wow,
that was really unnecessary. But I could see that we we.
Speaker 2 (23:11):
Or I trigger people for whatever reason, Like I don't
know why people are triggered by stuff that comes out.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
Of my mouth, like I know, very weird.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
Well great marketing for reasona v shady. So thank you girl, yeah,
thank you all. Yeah, moving on, Okay, let's let's move on.
So I don't know whether you saw this post of like,
and I don't know where this is. I think it's
Florida that little girls can no longer wear.
Speaker 3 (23:39):
Edges, like edges has been banned.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
No no, no, in Jamaica. I actually it's in Jamaica.
It's in Jamaica, edges have been banned and the comment
was curtains belong in the house, not on your fue head.
Speaker 3 (24:00):
And I'm like, it's a what's what? Okay, but.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Appreciate that because there are some that take it to
the extreme. It's like it's no longer your baby hair.
It's like yeah, and then and.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
Then down above your dad right eyebrows it like meets
your eyebrows.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Well, I'm okay if we're banning that because it's I
can see in a school environment it being kind of
distracting maybe, And I think they said, like.
Speaker 3 (24:32):
They so your eyebrows it strate it's.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
The teacher and that has to that has to look
at the students and all their.
Speaker 3 (24:42):
Their all for its cover.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
I appreciate that they're they're teaching them, Like just they
said someone like they they want them to be neat
or something. I don't and I can't remember the whole statement,
but I appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (24:58):
But it is a slippery because we you know, once
we start telling people how to wear their hair, then
it's like you know because like here in this country,
black women couldn't wear braids forever, right, so really past that, Yeah,
like if you're if we're in private schools and right,
and even if like you were a commentator, like if
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you're on TV, if you're on the a very long time,
you could not wear braids. Yeah, yeah, yeah, so we've
gotten past that. I see Jumie rocking her braids all
the time on NBC. So it's a slippery slope. And
you teach your kind of teaching. What do you what
do you teaching the kids?
Speaker 3 (25:37):
Well?
Speaker 1 (25:37):
But I mean I think there there's right, it's like
a fine line because yes, I think private schools, my
son wear is a tider school every day, you know
what I'm saying. And it's like people aren't wearing ties,
then more people aren't dressing the same anymore. But like so,
some private schools have the right to tell the kids
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how to dress or what not to wear or you know,
to be groomed or whatever, and that's up to their
interpretation for whatever reason. And you paid us in your
kids to these schools, and you follow the rules. But
and I don't know, I guess in Jamaica they don't
like edges.
Speaker 3 (26:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
I just want to say, Jamaica, edges ain't never hurt nobody,
But we're gonna move on.
Speaker 3 (26:24):
All right, so can we talk it? They you know,
they should just set like a length limit on them.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
They should not be two inches long the edge the
edges should be like what's that like.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
One quarter of an inch? Yeah? Yeah, maybe they can't
touch your eyebrow.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
As long as they're not touching your eyebrow, you're good,
You're good, okay, all right?
Speaker 3 (26:47):
Yeah yeah, but.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
You said, can you call them edges? If they're three
inches longer? Can you call them edges?
Speaker 3 (26:53):
It's not an edge, right right?
Speaker 4 (26:56):
I don't know brush my beach.
Speaker 3 (26:59):
Okay, oh listen, right, I don't even have edges. How
about that? I mean I know what they need to
have edges? They need to set baby hair, yeah right.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
They need to set a length limit on eyelashes though,
as we both have eyelashes on, but like you know,
they need to be like, okay, eyelashes longer than four
inches or not?
Speaker 3 (27:21):
That not that's got to go. That has got moved.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
Yes, a mess, okay, So this this was intriguing to me.
So Japan, I'm I'm gonna send you to show you
the picture.
Speaker 4 (27:32):
Okay, okay, see it's kind of blurry.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
Japan for me. Okay.
Speaker 2 (27:38):
Japan has transformed a parking lot, like a regular outside
parking lot, into a floating garden to combat pollution. Right,
so you see like your your cars are like under
the thing.
Speaker 3 (27:52):
Okay, yeah, yeah, I'm seeing it out Okay, Okay. How
many times you gotta go to the car wash? Do
you know your car marsh bill is out of control?
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Eat all that pole like all so, so to hell
with the cars? Like this isn't a good idea. I
don't what does that have to do with pollution?
Speaker 3 (28:12):
I don't even understand it. Don't make no dang.
Speaker 2 (28:15):
Okay, so you can see it better this way, okay, yes,
So I guess so I guess they're trying to maybe
because it's a it's a non green space.
Speaker 3 (28:27):
A parking lot is like a non green space.
Speaker 2 (28:30):
Maybe greenery helps with the air quality. It's what I'm thinking.
It's very seventh grade. This is the seventh grade science.
Speaker 3 (28:39):
Okay, So the greenery helps with the air quality, And
they decided, okay, this is this is a space in
which cars still need to park here, to hell with
all the pollen on the cars? Yes, you got to
inch of poland on the car? No? Yeah, no, yeah, yeah, no,
I wouldn't be parking there. I would avoid this parking
lot like the lake. Yeah, we're not going nowhere near it. Yeah, no,
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thank you. This is a side note. There's a side note.
Did that Rutger girl, Mary Mary get married to Bakari?
So they were already they were already married.
Speaker 1 (29:24):
That was like a so yeah, Ellen Rutger and Bakari
sellers recently had a It was kind of like more
like a vow renewal. They've been married for how long years?
Maybe ten years? Maybe it was a ten years?
Speaker 2 (29:39):
Okay, So am I getting this guy confused with the
guy that was on that like, got caught with the dude?
Speaker 3 (29:48):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (29:48):
And he was, yes, yes, you're getting him confused. Andrew
Gillham he was running, He ran for governor of Florida.
Speaker 3 (29:57):
Ye, girl, I thought that was him with him. I was, oh, yeah,
I was. I was so confused and I was gonna
call you.
Speaker 2 (30:05):
Okay, these are the conversations we have without y'all, without
you know, people listening.
Speaker 3 (30:10):
I was like, oh, you're like, what is she doing? Okay,
all right, never mind moving on, moving on?
Speaker 1 (30:16):
Yes, okay, okay, no, but but cary that I can
see where you get them mixed up because they do
have like a similar.
Speaker 3 (30:24):
Build, head shape, all of it.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Yes, everything the same like beard, the word yeah everything they'd.
Speaker 3 (30:32):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, not the same person.
Speaker 1 (30:36):
Okay, okay, hallelujah okay, oh housekeeping announcement everyone, And if
in case you missed it, we are. We now have
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It's the Reasonably She's Mail mail Bag. You know, we
already read a lot of emails that come into us
on episode regular episodes, but we wanted to read like
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we we wanted to read more of your emails and messages,
yes and get And because you all spend the time
to send us emails, we don't want to disregard or
ignore your emails. And so we just created a dedicated
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Speaker 3 (31:20):
So keep the emails come in to What's up at
Reasonably Shady.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
So that we can read your emails, all right, Yes, okay,
another on another note that's a little bit more sensitive.
So the gentlemen that recently died, yesascinated Sean.
Speaker 4 (31:36):
MM was this Charlie Charlie Kirk.
Speaker 2 (31:40):
Okay, so the following day, all the HBCUs were under a.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
Threat, a shooter threat. Okay mm hmm, so to know
me to now all my children go to an HBCU.
So they were on lockdown and.
Speaker 2 (32:01):
Classes were canceled, the the the activities were canceled, the
calf was closed. All that you had to shelter the place,
which I think is fantastic as it relates to safety. Great, Yes,
what hurt did this man have to do with black children?
Like like, keep us out of this? We write days,
(32:22):
we see you, I'm not going this.
Speaker 4 (32:25):
Nothing.
Speaker 3 (32:26):
And the man that killed the man was a white
man like it.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
Yeah, we just this was maga. This was maga on
maga crime. Okay, this didn't have any to do with
the black children out here, So keep black children out
of this, right my PSA.
Speaker 1 (32:42):
Yes, yeah, I will say before this happened, I didn't
know who Charlie Kirk was. But and I don't agree with,
you know, people celebrating his death or whatever or making
light of it. However, I also don't agree with making
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him like a martyr and like Trump had the flag,
the US flag flown at half staff.
Speaker 4 (33:11):
He said something like he wants.
Speaker 1 (33:12):
To award him with a medal of honor and all
this type of stuff. And I'm like, but he wasn't
a politician and he wasn't you know, he didn't.
Speaker 4 (33:21):
Serve the people.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
I don't even I don't understand why they're they're turning
this into like something that has affected the country, Like, no,
this is only this has affected that segment of you know.
Speaker 4 (33:35):
People who believe what they believe.
Speaker 1 (33:37):
Yes, and I do think it's messed up. We didn't
hear this type of response from politicians the media about
the actual politicians in Minnesota that were murdered in cold
blood in their house and their spouse, like their spouses leave.
Speaker 6 (33:58):
You know.
Speaker 4 (33:59):
It's just come on, like why do we make it
make sense? Yeah, make this make sense?
Speaker 1 (34:06):
Like okay, well, you can mourn someone's death, but like
to minimize what happened to the actual politicians in Minnesota,
but turn this, this man's Charlie Kirk's death into like
a political thing like that. He wasn't a servant of
the people like I just I don't, and he was
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his views and his steech teachings and the stuff that
he said is very divisive and racist. This country is
so weird right now, Like it's I don't know where
we're living. I don't how did we get here. It
is really sad that we got here. I saw a
girl on Instagram say, you know what, I have a
really good idea. You know, since we're so divided, you
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have you know, the red side and the blue side
and the maga.
Speaker 4 (34:52):
Who's you know, Like we're just so divided, Like why
don't we.
Speaker 3 (34:55):
Just split the country like down the middle. And if
you believe, you.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
Know, if you're on the blue side and the or
left side, then like you go move to the left
side of the country. You know, if you believe on
the maga and whatever, then you go to the right side,
the right side.
Speaker 3 (35:13):
Okay, but but and then where we're.
Speaker 2 (35:14):
Gonna put Atlanta, we can't do that because where we're
gonna put Atlanta, where we're gonna put La, where we're
gonna put where we're going, there's.
Speaker 1 (35:21):
No more we we all just have to move to
whatever side. And then it's like it's change your mind. Yeah, yeah,
we all moved back. You pick your side, you move,
and then like if you change your views, you can
like go to the other side and live happily.
Speaker 3 (35:36):
Bit on the side.
Speaker 2 (35:37):
I'm like, I'm like, you know what, at this point
in life, I approve of that message because I'm not
mad at it.
Speaker 3 (35:43):
Nonsense.
Speaker 1 (35:44):
That is, the United States of America is too it's
it's it's a.
Speaker 3 (35:48):
Lot, it's fair least it's sad. I had to like.
Speaker 2 (35:52):
So yesterday, his is so crazy because I'm a very
nice person. I feel like when I'm out in the streets,
I'm very nice to people. I'm very aware of my surroundings,
help people.
Speaker 4 (36:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (36:02):
So, walking in front of me on the plane was
a girl. I saw her.
Speaker 2 (36:06):
She on a hat, she on the sweater, she on
the little skirt. She looked really cute, young girl, probably
in her twenties.
Speaker 4 (36:11):
M hm.
Speaker 2 (36:12):
And she was right in front of me, and she
needed help putting her luggage at the top. And I
was going to help her until she turned her head
and I saw she had on a hat. Oh no,
the President's initials on the side of it.
Speaker 3 (36:27):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (36:28):
And I was like, I gasped, and then I did
not help her put her right luggage.
Speaker 3 (36:37):
Right.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
See, And that's why you need to be right, and
that's why you need to be on the left side
of the country and she needn't be on the right
side of the country, and we just mind our business, yes,
and leave each other alone.
Speaker 2 (36:49):
Because I couldn't even help her with a luggage, I
felt but I didn't feel.
Speaker 3 (36:51):
Bad, but I felt yeah, right, right right.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
But it was like, but she's asking for that, like
she's made that statement kind of like I'm sorry, but
she putting it out there.
Speaker 4 (37:04):
She's putting it out.
Speaker 1 (37:05):
As much as I loved Obama, I never wore an
Obama hat on Obama T shirt and Obama nothing like it.
Speaker 3 (37:11):
Just no.
Speaker 1 (37:11):
So it's like when you choose to wear a hat,
a Maga hat or a Donald Trump hat, like you're
also inviting, like you're trying to find your.
Speaker 4 (37:19):
People too, like okay, well you know, I want my people.
Speaker 1 (37:22):
I saw something and I think this is like very interesting.
It was after Charlie Kirk was killed. It was a
young student I think that was at that rally, and
the media asked her like, you know, why are you here,
why are you a part of this organization?
Speaker 4 (37:39):
I think it's called turning point, And she.
Speaker 1 (37:41):
Was like, well, you know, finally, like we we feel
cool again, like before we weren't. It wasn't like like
we didn't we weren't cool, but now we're cool. And
so I feel like that's the mentality for a lot
of people who have the same beliefs aligned with the
conservative MAGA movement, that now they're able to boastfully, be
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loud and proud with their views and they feel like
they're they're cool and it's okay for them to do
it and they can like they won't feel like bad
or chastised for their views.
Speaker 7 (38:23):
And I was like, that's crazy to me, Like you
want to feel cool for being aligned with racism, okay, right,
which is insane?
Speaker 3 (38:34):
Mind you. I tell my kids all the time.
Speaker 2 (38:36):
Don't be out here with Dayton these cool boys, the
boys that are cool then the popular, no, go look
for a nerd.
Speaker 3 (38:43):
So that's oh ye where I am with that? Oh yeah, because.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
Because you know why historically, like we've seen it happen,
like the nerds in school are.
Speaker 3 (38:54):
Like the rich ones it later in life.
Speaker 4 (38:56):
Yes, that is for sure.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
They're the CEOs, yes, yes, they're running the company, yes absolutely.
Speaker 3 (39:02):
And then their business the entrepreneurs.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
Yeah, and then they get their little once they get
their their money and there you know, they ease into
the lifestyle and they they're doing Eli Musk. They like
Eli Musk and the Jeff Bezos.
Speaker 2 (39:14):
Right yeah, and what's the other one? Even, what's my
Microsoft man name?
Speaker 3 (39:19):
Bill Gates? Now Bill Gates, Bill Gates spot out. But
he looks he looks like a cool nerd. Like he's
he's a sophisticated nerd.
Speaker 4 (39:28):
Okay, he got nerds.
Speaker 3 (39:29):
Well you would give you would give him the drawings.
Oh no, you don't.
Speaker 1 (39:35):
You wouldn't give him the panties. Okay, but Jeff, but
Jeff Bezos today? Yeah, yeah, Like I feel like, I mean,
I'm speaking hypothetically, but like I could see where like.
Speaker 4 (39:51):
I could see like if I was, like.
Speaker 1 (39:53):
You know, single, and he was single and we were
like hanging at the pool and he just starts having
a conversation. Okay, just yeah, right, I must Eli Musk heltons.
Speaker 3 (40:07):
He doesn't.
Speaker 2 (40:07):
He has nothing attractive about him, like nothing, no, like
he doesn't look like Bezos has that ball head. He
has a little swag to him. He's my other man
who I just thought to who's I say, Microsoft? Oh
Gates Gates has the little glasses. Bates got the glasses
they're kind of cool.
Speaker 4 (40:26):
M mmm mmmmmy.
Speaker 1 (40:29):
He's start he He was like, you know what, I
started a nerd. I'm gonna stay a nerd. I'm gonna
be true to who I am.
Speaker 4 (40:35):
No mm hmm.
Speaker 3 (40:38):
Okay, So Gates can't get it, No I get it.
Speaker 1 (40:41):
Okay, No, okay, okay, okay, fair enough, fair enough, okay.
Speaker 3 (40:44):
Do you have a la boo boo? What's the lat
boo boo? A lttle boo boo?
Speaker 1 (40:49):
You haven't seen these la boo boos, like.
Speaker 3 (40:52):
Like the little the little he changed from like the little.
I don't have that boo. But I think a little
boo boo is a big thing. It is huge pho.
Speaker 1 (41:00):
First of all, that shit is not little, I feel okay.
First of all, it's not little. I've seen someone. Someone
came in to Glow thirty. She had two laboo booths
hanging off her bag. That shit about this big like
and hang it, I mean almost okay, like I'm gonna
stop it, like right here, it's like this big.
Speaker 3 (41:18):
They're huge. They're like these little, mean looking stuffed animals.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
And so I was like, I'm like, what is the
big deal about these things? And she was just like yeah,
like people go crazy over them, and you know, some
people pay thousands of.
Speaker 3 (41:36):
Dollars and you don't.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
Yes, they're like some of them are like one of
a kind and and and so you pay thousands of dollars,
you don't know what you're gonna get and you open
the box and you I'm like.
Speaker 3 (41:47):
Huh, this is adults.
Speaker 2 (41:49):
These are adults or children? Adults a dog now adult? Absolutely, No,
it's not.
Speaker 1 (41:56):
I'm like, so it started in it's like a Japanese designer, yes,
and it's just turned into this collector's item and people
are going crazy over them, and I'm just like, I
don't get it.
Speaker 2 (42:10):
See, I thought they were unique to Louis Vauton. I
thought it was a Louis Vuitton thing.
Speaker 3 (42:15):
I don't Yeah.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
I don't think so not Maybe maybe the no, I
don't think it's like you don't buy it at Louis Baton.
Maybe the designers, like I don't know, a website online. Oh,
people like buy them and resell them as well, like
they're there. It's just it's weird. It's different. So if
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you have a la boo boo people out here, like,
please email us at what's up at reasonably shad dot
com and tell me why why do you have a
la boo boo? And why do you have a la
boo boo?
Speaker 3 (42:48):
Because I'm gonna get a no no am I getting
that right? I mean, but they're not even cute. They
look crazy.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
It's it's weird, and then are they were like other
I'm trying to remember what was the most recent like
collector's item that people were going crazy over.
Speaker 4 (43:07):
I can't remember the name of these things, but.
Speaker 3 (43:09):
You know, I feel like every.
Speaker 1 (43:12):
Five years or so there's some stupid collector's item that people.
Speaker 2 (43:16):
Okay, well, well the Hello Kitty thing. Hello Kitty had
a phase, did it? Yeah, Hello Kitty had a big phase,
maybe like for four or five years ago maybe yeah, okay,
maybe so maybe right before Yeah, Hello Kitty had a phase.
And Hello Kitty still does like pop ups, okay, and
it's a thing like linea be all the way down
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the street.
Speaker 3 (43:38):
What that's so? Yeah for Hello Kitty? Do you remember?
Speaker 1 (43:42):
I feel like this was around COVID time people were
buying like they were paying thousands of dollars for like
a digital what they called him ef T.
Speaker 3 (43:53):
Do you remember that? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (43:55):
Yes, I think you were like talking to one, yeah,
making one yes, Yes, n f T was the n
f T or n f T yeah something n f
T yes, yes, and that that n f T is.
Speaker 1 (44:09):
Gone gone And there's some people that that spent thousands
of dollars and did not get their money back off those.
Speaker 2 (44:14):
Ny And I think I feel like it was a
Ponzi skin Was it.
Speaker 4 (44:18):
A I think so?
Speaker 1 (44:20):
Yes, I think so somebody was scamming. Somebody was scamming
for sure, for.
Speaker 3 (44:25):
Sure, But there's a lot of scammers out here.
Speaker 1 (44:28):
What yes, it is people were scamming. That was crazy, ridiculous,
like I mean, I mean, yeah, when there's like these
little fads and people throw money at it, keep your
money in your pocket.
Speaker 2 (44:40):
Just stop just especially expectedly nowadays, especially nowadays, we need
to keep our money in our pocket because torow not promised. Now, okay,
this is the last thing you cab to let you go. Okay,
because this this has to do with you, Robin. There's
a new study that suggests that scrolling, scrolling on your
phone while you're sitting on the toilet raises how risks.
(45:01):
We've talked about this, but we talked about magazines. We
didn't talk about scrolling on your phone. No, I mean
it's the same thing hemorrhoids. It's no pain and itchymal.
Speaker 1 (45:18):
Okay, pain and it do you I haven't gotten knows
that I have not gotten the painful and itchy hemorrhoids yet.
Speaker 3 (45:26):
Okay, okay, just the hemorrhoids, yes, just.
Speaker 2 (45:33):
Okay, Well you better leave your phone outside the outside
the bathroom.
Speaker 3 (45:36):
Okay, leave it.
Speaker 1 (45:38):
I'm working on that, working at because I don't want painful,
itchy woods.
Speaker 4 (45:41):
I don't want that.
Speaker 3 (45:42):
No you don't.
Speaker 2 (45:43):
No, no, not in mad capacity. Okay, it makes sense.
Speaker 1 (45:47):
I got my children, though, Oh my gosh, they're driving
me crazy with the no no, no, no, no, no, they
don't have them yet.
Speaker 4 (45:57):
I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (45:58):
They will sit on the toilet for like an hour
whip hole with the shower running like steaming hot.
Speaker 3 (46:08):
You know. Oh no, Joe, damn listen toilet. Tell Corey
that water bill is his birthday present.
Speaker 2 (46:17):
You're gonna pay the water bill for him for that, right, Okay,
that's the birthday present, right?
Speaker 3 (46:25):
Yeah? Well Carter and Carter, oh yeah, it's Carter. They stay.
They say, boys do other things in the shower. No,
do you know what else my kids do in the shower.
What do you know what they do? They watch TV
in the shower.
Speaker 1 (46:42):
They watch They have their phone and they purchased this
like plastic protective case with plastic section cups and it's
on the tile on the shower towel. They put their
phone in the plastic case and they watch whatever it
is that they watch on their phone. If it's something
(47:03):
they're streaming. Uh, it is insane. And they take these
they not. So they sit on a toilet for an
hour and then they and then they take a ship
and then they take a shower for an hour.
Speaker 2 (47:17):
And when they are when they're twenty five, they're gonna
have painful itchy.
Speaker 3 (47:25):
They just gotta stop. This is what Strow does.
Speaker 2 (47:29):
Anyone else's kids do this? Nuts, Yes, let us know,
let us know. And I bet you's gonna be boys.
I bet you it's gonna be girls. Don't do the boys, Okay.
Speaker 1 (47:38):
And then and then one is in the shower having
whole conversations with people like his phone because he's just
he sits it on this ledge that we have that
you know, it's away from the water, and he will
literally be having whole conversations with people in the shower.
I'm like, listen that said you liveing with you live
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with these boys that you live with IM.
Speaker 2 (48:04):
When I say boys, I want include it. I don't
even I don't even understand this life. This is a
life I don't understand.
Speaker 4 (48:10):
No, it's nonsense. It is straight nots it.
Speaker 3 (48:14):
Oh my gosh, all right, well that is our episode.
We love y'all so much.
Speaker 2 (48:17):
Don't ever forget to live your life either reasonable or
shady or both.
Speaker 3 (48:22):
Bye.
Speaker 2 (48:29):
Reasonably Shady is a production of the Black Effect podcast Network.
Speaker 1 (48:34):
For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
or wherever you listen to your favorite shows
Speaker 2 (48:41):
And you can connect with us on social media at
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