July 17, 2025 • 41 mins
Are you manifesting all day but nothing good is coming your way? Stop staring at your vision board and seek the answers within!
In this episode, Oliver has a revealing conversation about clairvoyance with go-to Psychic Medium MaryAnn DiMarco.
Plus, find out how growing up with Goldie turned Oliver into a believer, and how his most recent reading was so accurate it will shock you!!
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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
We wanted to do something that highlighted our.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Relationship and what it's like to be siblings.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
We are a sibling Railvalry No, no, sibling, val don't
do that with your mouth, revely.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
That's good.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
So it's been a minute. It has been a minute
since I've spoken to nobody into this microphone that is
potentially reaching billions of people, because I was just informed
that we have just reached the six billion download mark,
which I think is a record. But I was summer
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traveling with the family, all of us in Europe, and
we were in London, and we were in Greece. Now
we're in Colorado, true family, Vaca, all the cousins, brothers, sisters, mom,
pot everyone, and it was just so fun to be
with your entire family like that. Can it get contentious?
It can, but it didn't. It was just fun. And
(01:24):
when you get everyone together, you know, you really feel
the family unit. Obviously you feel it when you're not
because you're just interconnected spiritually, emotionally, but when you're all together,
that energy just starts to pop. Then it was incredible, truly,
(01:45):
truly incredible. But I won't get into the details because
we have Maryanne DeMarco in our waiting room. She's a medium,
she's a psychic, she can see the future. I actually
have experience with this. I'm very interesting in it. I
have been consulting the oracle since I was a kid
because my mother was very into it. So I and
(02:07):
I have a little story to tell. Actually, so let's
let's let's bring her on. Let's let's get into this.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
How's it going.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
I'm good. How you doing.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
I'm doing great. Thanks so much for having me.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Of course, thanks for coming on. It's a little nutty
right now. I'm in a kid's bedroom in Colorado. We
have a full house in the cabin, so there's no
room to do shit. So I'm just sitting on the floor,
you know, very professionally though, in between homes.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
I'm in between homes. I'm in a little condo in Florida.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
I don't even want you to see.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
What's around me, so we've got the same vibe going
on the face in the wall, so you can't see anything.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Okay, And for the record, I am wearing pants. I
just want to make that clear. Likewise, Okay, good, good, well,
I am really excited to talk to you for so
many different reasons. First of all, you know, my mother
has been consulting oracle, both mediums and psychics and astrologers.
So there's these this is a crazy diversion. But there's
these girls who came on our show called the astro Twins,
(03:09):
and they you know who they are. I've heard of them, yes,
And I'm going to get into this story in a second.
I was planning on doing it a little bit later,
but they literally just texted me as we're talking. It's
really fun. Okay, back to my world. So, as a
young man, I have been interested and involved in consulting
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oracles and psychics and it always fascinated me. I would
use some of these sessions to help make decisions about
jobs I didn't want to do but maybe thought I
should do. I know, about finances or relationships or whatever
it is. And they always make you feel good. And
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of course, me being the deep diving question guy, I'm
always like, well what if what if you're doing a
reading and you're like, oh shit, this dude's going to
die in five years? I mean, because not everyone who
does readings has a long prosperous, happy life.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Nah, that is true.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
You know, it's true.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
That's an exercise. That's an exercise in boundaries.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Though, as a reader, well, but how do you deal
how would you deal with something like that? I mean,
and has that happened in your practice? We're like, oh,
Jesus does not look good.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Yeah, you know. When I was younger, because like you,
my mom.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Really into all of this stuff.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Who I grew up learning about ascended masters, psychics coming
in and out of the house, sort of taught to
rely on my own psychic ability.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
So I've always known that I could.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Do this, and I believe that everybody can do it,
each one do Oh absolutely, It's why.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
I wrote the book. It's why I write the books.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
I write because I want someone to not have to
come to somebody like me. I want them to lie
on their own psychic and intuit ability abilities that we've
all been born with. So, to answer your question, when
I was younger, wide open, really no boundaries spiritually, Yeah,
I saw some really scary things. I saw a shadow
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of what I now know is death on a close
friend of mine when I was really young. She died
the next day. I understood what I saw yeah. So
when I started doing this work, I learned quickly that I.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Could say no.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
I could say, don't show me death, don't show me illness.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
I don't want to be responsible for that.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
God.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
When I'm reading somebody, and what I hope when people
interpret their own guidance is that you're seeing the best path,
the most prominent path in your life cycle and in
your soul story.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
So for me, I.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Won't see any of that stuff. Does it mean I
don't get warnings? Does it mean that I can't say
to somebody you know, might want to be careful, here,
take a look what your guides are showing you and
be aware. Absolutely, I get that all the time. It's
supposed to be very helpful, and that's what our guides do.
They're here to guide us. But when I'm reading people,
I don't know that that would serve. So when I
teach psychics, because mostly I teach now, and when I
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teach them about giving readings, will that message serve?
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Will it give care? Concern?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Is there compassion? Is there a good intention? Will that
person walk away saying I walked away with something? Or
are they going to walk away freaked out? I don't
think it serves, because then we can we can manifest
the worst if it gets into our brains. Our brains, right.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Right, that's interesting. Yeah, I mean it's not being deceptive,
it's being selective exactly.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Observation and creation and if you're working from the greater
good and for the highest good, is that going to serve?
I tell people, when you receive a reading, if you're
not feeling it, and if you're feeling like you're getting
something heavy that isn't in alignment with what your gut
is telling you. Is I don't receive that, your hand
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up and you're like, that's not for me, and maybe
get up on out of there too.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
Yeah, as someone more positive.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Right, So you grew up with this, I just like, yeah,
I mean it's interesting. Family business.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
It's such a family business.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
No, I know. I mean, look, we all have a
have a family business, everyone in a family or in
the movie TV business, you know. And you growing up
with you know, in the way that you did. It
was almost like a foregone conclusion that this is what
was going to happen to your life totally.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
I mean I craved normalcy. I didn't really want to
be the psychic kid. I bought my mom talking about
psychic abilities and all things in front of people. I
wanted to just ignore all of that, but I couldn't
deny what I knew to be true. And now at
this age, I understand all of it. I understand exactly
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why I had all these experiences, how much I've learned
throughout my life life by.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
Utilizing these tools.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
And then of course what we learn, we teach, and
so I'm able to give that over to others and
hopefully empower something within themselves to be able to share that.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
At what point were you did you make the decision
that this is your path? You know? I mean because
you were young, you're feeling these things, seeing these things,
and then you get older and you're in high school
and you know you're a young girl woman. Then you
go to college. I don't I went to college. But
at what point is it like, oh, you know what,
this is what I'm going to do? Did you want
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to be like an engineer? First I thought i'd.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Be a teacher. I thought i'd be a foreign language teacher.
I was really foreign languages. I loved acting. I thought
I'd do some acting, and then I wound up getting
into like retail business, and I stayed home with my kids.
And then in my mid to late thirties, I went
through a divorce and we had a close loss at
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that time, so I was in the middle of double
grief managing these two little kids, and I wound up
getting an appointment, having an appointment with this woman named
pat Longo who has just since passed, and I thought
she was a psychic. I thought I was going to
get a psychic reading because I really could use the reading.
And she said to me, oh, I'm not a psychic.
I teach people how to get in touch with their abilities,
(09:17):
and just quite automatically, I looked at her and I said,
I think I'm supposed to see you now. And out
of what felt like a really desperate time, came probably
the most the biggest connection of the most authentic part
of myself, which was learning how to do this. And
at the time I was asking, I was really trying
to manifest. You know, I needed a job, I needed
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stability and needed flexibility to you know, to still stay
home with my kids and do what I needed to
do there. And then I started taking classes with her
and started reading people with just a.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
Few weeks, Yeah, Wow. Yeah, So how does this work?
You know, because look, you don't know me, but I
like psychics. I believe in there's the higher energy, you know.
At the same time, I'm not going to man fest
two feet of snow because I want good skiing, you
know what I mean, Like, I don't believe that necessarily agree.
(10:08):
So you know, if you're manifesting money or selfish things,
or I want a car, or you know, I want this,
I just wonder how this works from a almost a biological standpoint,
because I understand that we can change in real pathways,
you know, kind of fake it before you make it.
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There's all kinds of stuff. I've been in a billion
years of therapy, so you know, I could be a
therapist at this point. So how do how do you
square that? What is manifesting?
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Manifesting for me is well, it's there's steps to it
for me too. Learning how to connect with your guides
we all have them here, your universal team on the
other side, spear guides, loved ones, angels, God, universe, whatever
it is for you, and believing in that connection, believing
that you have the ability to make that connection is
a great start. Understanding how to work with that energy
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within yourself. To make that connection is where you start
with true manifesting. The second half of that is the
understanding that you already know your story within yourself. Your
story lives, it's within you, it resides within you, and
your guides are here to highlight that. They are here
to help you hear your most highest and best self.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
So if we believe in that, and we believe.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
In the power of our thoughts and our mind and
the fact that we know the story, then we know
that we are co creators in our life, with the
universe and within ourselves, that this is a team effort.
So when you're manifesting, pay attention to intuitively, does it
feel good or or is my ego in this? Am
I manifesting something from the greater good and for the
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higher good? Or do I just want to go skiing
next week? And now there's nothing wrong with saying, hey, guides,
I really love a great snowy, fluffy mountain this weekend.
You know, ken you that because we're supposed to have
a little fun with it, Universe doesn't want us to
be so strict. But true manifestation in the real nitty
gritty stuff, If you really want to change your life.
Life takes that power of commitment of the belief system
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within self and within source. But you set it and
you forget it because the underlying value in all of
that is the trust.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
Put it out there.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
Here's what I want, Here's what I see myself intuitively going.
Here's what it feels like to me, And I think,
what I love what you're saying, and what I feel
what you're saying.
Speaker 4 (12:21):
Is that it's not magical. We are part of it.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
So as the universe starts to show you how to
get that story done, how to get to that manifestation
that you're looking for, it's our job to say, yes,
it's our job to do the work that's involved. It's
our job to learn the lessons along the way that
come with all of that. And to me, that makes
I think it's much more beneficial. You appreciate how comes
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so much more.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
But yeah, again and playing Devil's advocator of being the
skeptic even though not really, but I always like to
question everything, do it. There's eight billion people in the world,
right you know how many how many of these people
are at trying to manifest something for their lives, and
how many of them fall short, you know, like that's
where I go to as well. You know, it's like, well,
(13:08):
I got to get out of this poverty. I want
a better life for my kids, and I'm trying to
and it. You know, it doesn't happen for everybody, obviously
it can't. So how do we again square you know,
who's more blessed and who's like not as blessed? Essentially,
you know, exactly how do you know, what do you
say to the person who's like, I've been manifesting something
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pure and personal and it's not about me, but it
just has never worked.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Yeah, the for me and for how I've learned how
to manifest in the way that I teach it is
that even rejection can be protection. That there's something within
that storyline that maybe we have to dig deeper and
understand why those manifestations aren't coming into fruition and what
did your soul come here to learn?
Speaker 4 (13:52):
It's it's a it's a theory.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
It's something that I work on in a meditative state
with my guides and through the work that I do
just to try and understand it on a base level.
I try not to go down rabbit holes because I
feel like it's a distraction from the work, and so
I rather try to understand my own soul story and understand, Hey,
why doesn't that come into fruition Personally? For me, it
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usually brings me back to a space of what I've
been holding onto that's not serving me.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
Is it fear?
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Is it doubt?
Speaker 4 (14:21):
Is an ego?
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Is it my own brain telling me I'm never gonna
get there? You're never going to just always hold yourself down?
Am I listening to people around me that are coming
in and saying.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
You know, you can't do that.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
That's and so you have to really choose how you think.
Free will is a huge part of that, of course,
and so your choices come into play. And then of
course what type of energy are you surrounding yourself and
where does that school of thought come from? It's I
love the question, and it's and it's an honest question
because I think people really wonder about that, and then
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they feel sort of cheated, Yeah, because they see other
people and they're like, Wow, that's really working out for them. Yeah,
where's my bag?
Speaker 4 (15:05):
You know what's going on?
Speaker 2 (15:07):
I've lived that way, you know, I mean, my hat
says Black Sheep, Okay, because even though I've had a
successful career by by anyone's standards, right, I still have
Mom and Kurt and Goldie and Kate and now Wyatt
who's blown up. And I've always had this self deprecating
self talk and I'm the black sheep and blah blah blah,
you know, and it's probably not healthy, but it's part
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of my maybe a protection mechanism, and it's also my humor.
Speaker 4 (15:33):
Protection mechanism is a huge thing.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
What you just said is one of the key components
of the book, the Guides book that I have out
now is why.
Speaker 4 (15:42):
Are we doing that to ourselves?
Speaker 1 (15:44):
And that's the story that I get really curious with.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
Why am I so embedded?
Speaker 1 (15:48):
I talk a lot about comparison syndrome within myself. Oh yeah,
mine too.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
You know what the fuck? This is bullshit? I should
have this? Yeah, I mean, and it's like, Oliver, that
is not healthy. I'm like, I don't care if it's healthy.
This is how I feel.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
It's because you're comfortable there, Oliver, Yeah, we know what
that feeling is. And so what I started to do
is say, well, well, what is it about that situation
that I'm finding is just riling everything up within myself.
And so I started to get to work with that
who gave this to me in the first place?
Speaker 4 (16:19):
Where did it start?
Speaker 2 (16:21):
Take me?
Speaker 1 (16:21):
There guides and then I would go to that age
and start to get to work. It's very therapeutic, but
I do it in a spiritual way, and I started
to understand deeper stories about myself. Does it take the
comparison syndrome away? No, But what it does do is
it lets me answer it differently. It allows me to say, ah,
you know what, that's just my bs, that's just what
I do to myself.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
I've been here before. Let me answer it differently.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
When you answer differently, you change that trajectory of the
feelings and everything else involved with it.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
Yeah, and if you can put yourself in a place
of rather than envy or jealousy or sort of comparison
or that sometimes like hate triad where you're like, what
is this poison that I'm feeling, if you can flip
that and you can truly be happy for that person,
the feeling is overwhelmingly incredible. You're like, oh, my God,
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have actual genuine joy for this person's success, And it
almost is there's an elation to it. It's a relief
and yeah, it's a relief reef.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
And so I go into I go into gratitude for
the reflection of the lesson that I can learn in
that moment, and then I start doing what you do
and saying, you know.
Speaker 4 (17:33):
What, good for them.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
They're a good person, they've worked hard, they deserve it,
or their relationship looks great.
Speaker 4 (17:40):
I hope they find love.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
I love watching love and witnessing whatever it is for you.
And then all of a sudden, I'm out of that space,
and my whole body relaxes, my mind relaxes, and I'm
able to hold myself accountable for the feelings that aren't serving,
and I just I'm able to move on, and that's liberating.
Speaker 4 (18:00):
Most free parts of.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Doing this work for self is allowing myself to move
into those spaces of accountability and then changing it up.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
And it also just opens you up for more success
because you no longer are using that all the capacity
with negative energy. You know, you've opened yourself up to
bringing more in. You know, I try, and it's it's
work in progress shit, you know, But for me personally,
you know, I feel like I have so much untapped
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talent pushing fifty because I have lived my life a
little bit differently. I've not been extremely career oriented. I've
been family oriented. I've been fun. First type of a
guy deathbed scenario. I would rather be on a vacation
in Europe than do a movie, because what am I
going to remember, you know, when I'm surrounded by my grandkids,
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not a movie? You know. Well, yeah, but now that
I'm pushing into my later years, it's like I have,
I know, from a creative place, from a creative stadpoint.
I have so much, and I think differently, and I
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view the world a bit skewed, and you know, there's
a part of me that needs to get it out there.
But there's fear. With the fear that goes with that,
there are there is probably eighthd shit where I get
overwhelmed by a lot of the process.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
We're very similar, very similar. Yeah, you know, I'm fifty
four and I feel like I'm just getting started.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
Yeah, I mean I feel like I've lived.
Speaker 1 (19:36):
Like all these lives. You know, I've lived lots of
different lives. I talk about reinventing yourself in the book,
Like Madonna, you know, she's been all these Like.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
You're fifty four. You look fucking incredible.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
I think it's the natural filter on zoom.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
I got you look good. You look good, Thank you.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Thanks.
Speaker 4 (19:49):
I appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
But it's sort of like, all right, well, what I
don't I don't want you to reinvent the Oliver wheel
like I don't want to reinvent.
Speaker 4 (19:56):
The Marianne Wheel.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
There's parts of myself that are in my show, and
I have to love her all the same, right, And
if I try to fight her, she just fights harder.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
She's a little sassy, right, I'm not really up for
a fight with her, so I have to let her
come through sometimes.
Speaker 4 (20:13):
How I answer her.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Is the key is the change that has made that
shadow for me more thoughtful. It's allowed me to sort
of look and say, all right, I made these choices
and they and your choices have served you well in
lots of in lots of areas, right, being with family
one of the most important things you can do. How
your perspective going forward is it calling you? Is your
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intuitive self calling you to say, Okay, we see what
you've done here, but you know you signed up for
all this creative stuff now, and that ADHD because I feel.
Speaker 4 (20:46):
Like I'm undiagnosed with that as well.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
We have very similar stories and I'm just learning about it.
Speaker 2 (20:50):
You know, Yeah, me too, not thinking?
Speaker 1 (20:52):
So how do I reprocess all of that and allow
it to be even more powerful? How do I use
these things that I thought were holding me down as superpowers? Yeah,
I'm working with my guides. Being a meditative states not
too heavy because I'm not like a deep meditator. I
sort of talk to my guides in my higher powers
just like I'm talking to you. And just because I'm
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psychic doesn't mean that I'm the only one who can
hear them. And it doesn't mean also that I get
out of all of what we're talking about here. Yeah,
plenty of things that have happened. How I answer them,
it's just because I've learned some tools to maybe do
it a little differently.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
So talk about the guides really quickly, because this I
love this idea that everyone can sort of tap into
their higher self, which I do believe. I did a
process called the Hoffmann Institute, and it was incredible and
I've talked about it so much in this podcast. But
it was just about, you know, negative love patterns get
going through your childhood, understanding who your parents were and
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why you are because of their own patterns that they
got from their fucking grandparents, the other parents. And it's
that that, you know, lineage of disaster that you can
break anyway. You have these breakthroughs and you're so clear.
I've never felt more clear on my life. That and
the week after that, I felt psychic. I mean, I
could see things and predict things and encountering people who
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were the coincidences were not just that, you know, So
I do believe that you can get into that. As
far as your guides go, how do you find your guides?
You know, I mean, and are the guides different for everyone?
And do they manifest themselves as faces, as human beings
or is just energy?
Speaker 4 (22:28):
Yeah, yes to all of that.
Speaker 1 (22:31):
You know, it really depends on your upbringing, your frame
of reference for things. Our guides are universal team comprised
of yes, spirit guides, loved ones, angels. Like I said, God,
whatever your frame of references that works.
Speaker 4 (22:46):
I ask people to lean into that.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
Let's again, let's not try and make reinvent the wheels
something so outside of the box that it becomes unrelatable
as you go along in a consistent spiritual practice, more
will be revealed, and then you can see the expansion
that they give you and how they give it to
you when you're working with them, and why I lean
on them so much, and how you do it is
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really just finding a practice that works within your own
authentic space, what works for you. Like I just said
to you, I'm just talking to them. I'm just talking
to them just the way I am speaking to you.
But that's sort of evolved and psychically why it starts
to work and what you what you brought out, You
did this Huffman thing right, and it clear it cleared space.
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So for that time you aren't holding on You learned
a method that you aren't holding on to everything, and
you allowed your psychic abilities to come to the forefront
because all that clutter went away and you entering clarity.
Then when that happens.
Speaker 4 (23:48):
So it's the same thing.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
When you're working with your guides. It's understanding of practice
and what works for you. I teach about how to
do those things in the book, making it consistent, believing
that you can, and then creating a reallylationship just like
with anybody else who would be a guide.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
And this is for people too, who it's not necessarily
going down that a career path as a psycho. This
is just for your own wealthing, This is for.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Your own wellbeing. Every single person can do this. The
books I write are not just they're not for psychics.
I mean they are my last book medium mentor if
you're looking to be a psychic, yes, but that's for
regular people too.
Speaker 4 (24:26):
That's for anybody.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
It's anybody's looking to make a deeper connection and a
higher connection in a really practical way. There's so much
you grew up like me, you know, there's so much
wooiness around all of this, and I find it's so
frustrating because there's a label that's attached to sort of
being a psychic medium and what that means, and.
Speaker 4 (24:47):
It's sort of mystical, and I don't know. I think
I'm supposed to have like a cape and like a thanks.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
The fact of the matter is we we're all born
with disability, every.
Speaker 4 (24:56):
Single one of us. We've just been taught to forget it.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
We've been told not you, that's up there, that's separate
from us.
Speaker 4 (25:04):
But we really are part of that light.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
And so what I hope is that we bring ourselves
back to what the soul notes to be true, and
that is we can all do this, and we're supposed
to be doing it. Our guides want us to do
it so that we can navigate through this life, this
big school, this earth. We figure out and figure out
what our soul came here to learn, because we've all
signed up for something.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
Did you say that you said that we are story.
We already know our story is that you we do?
I well, does that imply that you know it's already
been written?
Speaker 1 (25:39):
I think the and this is just mine now other
spiritualist might disagree with me, but this is how I
see it. I feel like we.
Speaker 4 (25:47):
Have signed up for the lessons.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
Maybe we signed up to learn lessons in fear this
time around scarcity, Like we were talking about imposter syndrome,
whatever it is, and we're like, all right, you know,
put that in my cart. I think I talk about
it being like an Amazon cart. Right, soul comes in,
we add some stuff in the cart. We know that
this is supposed to enhance our soul's ascension in some
way that's out of our realm of understanding.
Speaker 4 (26:10):
We're not meant to really understand that part of it
just yet.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
But we come in with these with these lessons that
we pick how they come into fruition. Though I feel
like it's at the good grace of the universe. I
don't really know who'd come back, you know, if you
believe in reincarnation. I mean, they're like, hey, you know what,
I'll take this horrible, terrible experience and I wouldn't come back, right,
But I might come back and say, all right, I'll
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deal with fear in a different level. I'll deal with
things that go on in the body in a different level.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
You know.
Speaker 4 (26:39):
Maybe it's my health.
Speaker 1 (26:40):
I don't know, but I don't it's just my own
crazy thought. Maybe, But I don't know who'd come back,
and I think it's I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
The thing is, do you do you have the choice?
I mean, of course this is all you know, existential crazy. Yeah,
we have any proof of but but we don't, you know,
if reincarnation exists. I'm not sure we have the conscious
decision making to be like, you know what, I think.
I'm just gonna hang.
Speaker 1 (27:12):
You know, I don't know. I mean, I've done past life.
I've done past life regression, I read past lives, I
have done it in the past I'm fascinated by them.
I think that our soul learns each lifetime like a
very unique thumb print gets etched out, and we learn
from lifetime. After a lifetime, we bring lessons along. My understanding,
just from my own connection and with my guides, is
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that the soul does take on something each lifetime and
it is meant for its development. How we choose that
and why, you know, there is that mystery. I don't Again,
I don't think we're supposed to know exactly everything, but
I am definite believer in that we come here to
learn for sure, and that hope.
Speaker 4 (27:51):
I believe there's a great reason for it.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
Yeah, there's a great.
Speaker 4 (27:55):
Reason for that.
Speaker 1 (27:56):
I mean, there's wonderful things on this earth as two
and I think when people get into deep spirituality, we
have a tendency.
Speaker 4 (28:03):
You hear terms like.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
Raise your vibration and keep yourself elevated and all those things.
It's very exhausting kind of we're supposed to sort of
visit those places of higher vibration. But the fact of
the matter is is that we're earthly and we're here
to figure stuff out. Yeah, you know, and visit those
places as a tool and come back and apply, observe
and learn and teach and give and enrich ourselves and nourish.
Speaker 4 (28:28):
Then we're doing something.
Speaker 2 (28:29):
Yeah, yeah, it's it's you know, I'm not a religious person.
Religion to me, I don't understand it. You know, it
doesn't make sense to me. It feels elitist in the
sense that, oh, well, this God is the God, but
the thousands of others, the spirituality, the mass eye of this, Oh,
(28:50):
that's all bullshit, because this is the guy. I mean,
that's completely crazy to me. You know.
Speaker 4 (28:56):
You know, I didn't go I didn't grow up with
a religion.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
I grew up as a spiritualist, and I craved that
sort of conformity. I found it. Like again, I just
wanted to be like everyone else, you know, I want
to be normal. And so as I got older, I.
Speaker 4 (29:11):
Took on Catholicism.
Speaker 1 (29:13):
All it did was get me back to understanding and
higher power. It got me back to respecting something greater
than this earth, and it would it helped very much
in my parenting at the time, and really understanding. As
I've progressed on, I love to listen to different schools
of thought, of different religions and then apply what resonates
(29:35):
with me most and allow myself to sort of just
work with parts of that energy, but not in its entirety.
I like you think the universe is really vast. I
think it's just infinite in its knowledge and infinite in
its in its in its energy.
Speaker 2 (29:54):
Well, I think I think it speaks. I think it
speaks to we were talking about before, which is you
know this manifestation idea. Yeah, because it's almost like religion
is a is just a tool to find faith, you know,
because faith matters. I could have I could have faith
(30:15):
in you know, yeah, in the six of the six
of Spades, And if I believe in the six of Spades,
just as much as if someone doesn't in God, it's
the same thing, because I believe that this six of
Spades is going to satiate me, it's going to sort
of protect me when things go wrong. Oh, it's the
(30:36):
six of Spades is the reason for it instead of God.
It's like there's a reason. So that matters. I think
because you were actually again manifesting, I agree.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
At the end of the day, Spirit doesn't really care.
Speaker 4 (30:50):
About what you how you believe in that right, right.
Speaker 1 (30:53):
The universe doesn't really care as long as you're being
you know, a good human and you're being kind and
hopefully being kind and loving to your self and process
and that's what they're really here to help us to do.
But they, honestly, to me, it's always been a distraction.
Like I said, it's more important about how are you
processing that energy within yourself? Can you make that connection
on a deeper level. They're not really very picky about
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how you do it. But if they have to use
your frame of reference in order to get you fired
up and to get you paying attention, then yeah, they're
going to use that as a tool as well to
get you going and to make that connection. So if
you believe in the you know, six of spades or
whatever that card was, right, you're like, you know what,
that's my jam.
Speaker 4 (31:33):
That's that's where I resonate most.
Speaker 1 (31:34):
And it brings you, it brings you something.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
Good, then go yeah, yeah, and oh for sure. I
have a friend who's, you know, fifty years old, and
you know, he's single and he wants love, but it's
just tough for him and he's sort of an oddball.
But you know, he's just always searching for something and
he found Catholicism and you just love going to the church.
(31:57):
And he loved, you know, the sermons and love the
people at the church, and he actually ended up getting baptized. Yeah,
And of course I'm making fun of him.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Because I'm like, what du you got fucking baptized.
Speaker 2 (32:09):
It's like it was just like it was crazy what
I said. I said, look, I'm non religious, you know,
and he sends me all these like it's it's now
it's becoming really it's getting religious. But I said, if
this is making you feel good, if this is like
bringing you peace and connecting you to something that is,
you know, keeping your feet on the ground and fucking great.
Speaker 4 (32:32):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (32:33):
I agree. I get sit in a church, I can
sit in a temple, and I can sit at the
beach and still feel grounded and peaceful and you know,
all of those things. So for me, again, it's like
that we go back to that authenticity of who you
are and how you want that to to feel true
(32:53):
within self and not have to work so hard. A
lot of my students come to me, they're just working
so hard trying to make that connection. And instead of
working at trying to make it, let's just receive it.
You just have to sit and receive it, and it's
you'll get activated, you'll connected, you know, and you can
have it be whatever you want it to be. I
(33:13):
love that you're that, although you may not may not
be the way you want to.
Speaker 4 (33:17):
Do it, you're happy for your friend.
Speaker 1 (33:18):
Yeah, and without judgment because you're just like releasing.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
It, zero judgment. But when I start getting you know,
memes about Adam and Eve, I'm like, dude, like I
believe that we evolved. I'm sorry, I don't believe in
Adam and Eve. You know, I mean, you don't. Don't
don't push it on me, like, don't try to convert me.
I'm like, I'm so happy for you that I'm not gonna.
I don't. I don't care about reading this passage or
(33:43):
this or yeah and Noah's ark and I'm like, Okay,
it's great, it's great. I'm happy. It's a great story
and I'm glad you love it. But like I don't,
you know, just just connect to it in a faith
based situation. Let's talk about how it makes you feel.
I'm down with that, you know.
Speaker 4 (33:58):
I'm down with that too.
Speaker 2 (34:02):
Ah, But as far as the manifesting goes, I would
say just going back to that, you know, where I
think people might get the wrong idea where it's like
you're actively manifesting I want this, I want that. It
takes time. I would assume, oh yeah, like you're putting
(34:23):
it out there, and then you never know when it's
going to hit. And I'm prefacing by because of something
that just happened to me. I've been an actor forever.
The business is kind of a knemic right now. I've
always had a job. I've always been on a series,
and now I'm sort of piecing it together and doing
movies here, making money here, doing this, this and that.
(34:43):
I love to talk. I love doing podcasts. I've been
on you know, Drew Barrymore show a few times, you know,
to talking about love and relationships, and trying to see
this idea of me being sort of a host, you know,
maybe even a daytime talk show guy, which is not
really heard of. It's mostly women, but I think with
the right guy it can work, because it is mostly
(35:04):
women if they like watching a man sort of be
emotional and sensitive and talk about things. Anyway, I've always
just said I'd fucking kill a hosting job, either of
the game show hosts, whatever, it is, you know. And
then the Astro Twins who we had on basically said,
you know, July twenty seventh in my chart, there's some
(35:25):
You've got some money coming. You're coming into your money
period right now, you know, and this is gonna be
a good chunk, but it's there's gonna be a lot
of money down the road. I said, oh, July twenty seven,
so fucking SOS is specific. I get an email with
an offer to host a baking show for HBO Max,
you know, and I'm like, well, that's fucking weird, you know.
(35:47):
And this isn't something I'm actively manifesting. I'm not sitting
in meditation saying this is what I want. But I
have thrown it out there to the universe verbally, talking
to my agents, talking to my friends, talking to my parents,
like would fucking kill hosting job? So it happened, and
the start date is July twenty seventh. So it's just
so crazy.
Speaker 4 (36:07):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (36:08):
But you know, it's interesting about that. So you hear
those thoughts coming out of you, right, you know.
Speaker 4 (36:13):
I would I would kill it a host I kill
it hosting. It'd be so good.
Speaker 1 (36:16):
I'd be so good at it. If someone was talking
to you and saying that, you know, you'd be really
good at hosting.
Speaker 4 (36:23):
You should talk about that more.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
You should talk about that more. That's that universe coming in. Yeah,
those thoughts in the higher cell letting you speak it
out loud, they're like, all right, he's on it. He's
on it. Let's give him a validation and through the twins,
no denying it. Now you're marrying it.
Speaker 4 (36:39):
Up with your intuitive self.
Speaker 1 (36:41):
That's key manifesting in its most natural form. You're like
something within me, this feels right, and you're like, you know,
I'm going to set it and forget it. I don't
know what it means right now, but that's school. And
someone else comes in saying, yeah, you know what, we
see that for you? Yeah, when you trusted divine timing, Yeah,
you didn't lay too hard into it. You just know
(37:02):
what might happen, and that it feels good if it does. Yeah,
that to me is the most natural form of manifest Yeah.
Speaker 2 (37:07):
I sort of felt like, because I've never been a
active manifest remaining like I'm gonna.
Speaker 1 (37:11):
Be natural at it. You know, it's just really a
natural if you're if you're a talker, especially and speak
out those dreams, and you speak out what you're looking
to do and looking to achieve, and it just feels
natural to you.
Speaker 4 (37:22):
Universe has big years.
Speaker 2 (37:24):
Yeah listening, Yeah, Universe, I really do. All right, we're
coming up on it, but I just want to know,
you know, do you have to shut it off? Meaning
you know, I'm assuming you do as you're nodding, but
you know, it's like you almost have to turn the
switch off, right. I mean, you've got kids, you've got relationships,
(37:45):
you've got friends, You've got all that. You know, you
don't want to be, you know, seeing dead people. Right,
it's just kind of like, okay, wait, I can't. I
got to switch this ship off.
Speaker 1 (37:56):
You know. Look, you know I pleasure with your kids
because I mean my kids. My kids are like twenty
six and twenty four, you know, and my daughter would
love for me to channel anytime of the day for
her at any time, right. But you know, I think
what it has boiled down to all the years that
I've been doing It's been doing this a long time now.
I just know that it's imperative to my own energy
(38:16):
to shut it down. And just like I wouldn't like
love an unannounced guest, you know, just knocking on my
door and coming in. Same thing with you know, some
deceased loved ones, unless they're my own, because my family's
good and pushy. They're they're coming in. They're Italians. They
don't care. They're knocking down my door in the middle
of the night.
Speaker 2 (38:31):
Got it. I'm I got an Italian horror. Yeah right,
I'm only half. But my sister and I got each
other then for Christmas.
Speaker 1 (38:40):
That's it. It's nice because you're supposed to give, you
supposed to.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
Right, No, exactly, you know, it's fucking crazy too. It's
hardy to rush. I was like, I got a great
gift for Kate. I gave it to her. She starts crying,
and I'm like, I was like, Kate, this isn't I mean,
it's like cute, but what are you doing? She was
hold on, she had gotten me one.
Speaker 1 (38:58):
I love it as well of it. I mean, you
can't make that ship up. I know it's crazy anyway,
I keep going, so yeah, so do I do? I
tell them, yeah, have toy not right now? Absolutely, And
they never cease to amaze me. Honestly though, how they
get through it's it's pretty incredible.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
At that part. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, oh yeah, Well
this has been awesome. Why don't you plug a few
books though, And I want to get something.
Speaker 4 (39:23):
My book right now is coming out.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
Third book coming out is in pre order. It's called
The Guides Book, mapping out life's journey with Spear by
your side, and it's all about connecting with your guides
and everything. We just talked about manifesting and how you
can do it yourself and working through all the roadblocks
in your life.
Speaker 4 (39:39):
And I talk about a lot of mine.
Speaker 1 (39:41):
So it's a little outside my comfort zone this point.
I went for it. Yeah, I was like, I gotta share,
I gotta share. I have another book called Medium Mentor,
which teaches you about your own psychic abilities and your
own connection.
Speaker 4 (39:52):
And you can find everything at Mariannemoco dot com. I'm
right there.
Speaker 2 (39:56):
Awesome.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
Yeah, but on Instagram, Mary and the Medium on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (39:59):
Yeah, marrying the Medium. Okay, cool. Yeah, I'd love to read.
I'd love to read some of these. I'm in a
crazy reading phase of my life.
Speaker 1 (40:07):
I'm just, oh my gosh, read it and we will.
Speaker 4 (40:09):
We'll have like a party discussion and right right.
Speaker 2 (40:12):
Cool. I appreciate you. Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Thanks so much for having me. I really appreciate you.
Speaker 2 (40:20):
Take care, take care. That was great man. She's rad
just bang bang fast. You can feel the Italian in
or two of course. Just I'm going to get those books.
IM want to read those books. I'm always fascinated talking
about this stuff because I I sort of straddle the fence,
you know what I mean, Like I have skepticism at
the same time I believe you know so, but she
(40:43):
makes it clear it's not magical were We all have
the ability to tap into something deeper within ourselves, and
how far we take that it's kind of up to us,
I think. Anyway, I love you. I gotta go river rafting,
and uh, I'll let you know how the river rafting goes.
Come out a
Hi.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
We wanted to do something that highlighted our.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Relationship and what it's like to be siblings.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
We are a sibling Railvalry No, no, sibling, val don't
do that with your mouth, revely.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
That's good.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
So it's been a minute. It has been a minute
since I've spoken to nobody into this microphone that is
potentially reaching billions of people, because I was just informed
that we have just reached the six billion download mark,
which I think is a record. But I was summer
(01:01):
traveling with the family, all of us in Europe, and
we were in London, and we were in Greece. Now
we're in Colorado, true family, Vaca, all the cousins, brothers, sisters, mom,
pot everyone, and it was just so fun to be
with your entire family like that. Can it get contentious?
It can, but it didn't. It was just fun. And
(01:24):
when you get everyone together, you know, you really feel
the family unit. Obviously you feel it when you're not
because you're just interconnected spiritually, emotionally, but when you're all together,
that energy just starts to pop. Then it was incredible, truly,
(01:45):
truly incredible. But I won't get into the details because
we have Maryanne DeMarco in our waiting room. She's a medium,
she's a psychic, she can see the future. I actually
have experience with this. I'm very interesting in it. I
have been consulting the oracle since I was a kid
because my mother was very into it. So I and
(02:07):
I have a little story to tell. Actually, so let's
let's let's bring her on. Let's let's get into this.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
How's it going.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
I'm good. How you doing.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
I'm doing great. Thanks so much for having me.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Of course, thanks for coming on. It's a little nutty
right now. I'm in a kid's bedroom in Colorado. We
have a full house in the cabin, so there's no
room to do shit. So I'm just sitting on the floor,
you know, very professionally though, in between homes.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
I'm in between homes. I'm in a little condo in Florida.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
I don't even want you to see.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
What's around me, so we've got the same vibe going
on the face in the wall, so you can't see anything.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Okay, And for the record, I am wearing pants. I
just want to make that clear. Likewise, Okay, good, good, well,
I am really excited to talk to you for so
many different reasons. First of all, you know, my mother
has been consulting oracle, both mediums and psychics and astrologers.
So there's these this is a crazy diversion. But there's
these girls who came on our show called the astro Twins,
(03:09):
and they you know who they are. I've heard of them, yes,
And I'm going to get into this story in a second.
I was planning on doing it a little bit later,
but they literally just texted me as we're talking. It's
really fun. Okay, back to my world. So, as a
young man, I have been interested and involved in consulting
(03:32):
oracles and psychics and it always fascinated me. I would
use some of these sessions to help make decisions about
jobs I didn't want to do but maybe thought I
should do. I know, about finances or relationships or whatever
it is. And they always make you feel good. And
(03:53):
of course, me being the deep diving question guy, I'm
always like, well what if what if you're doing a
reading and you're like, oh shit, this dude's going to
die in five years? I mean, because not everyone who
does readings has a long prosperous, happy life.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Nah, that is true.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
You know, it's true.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
That's an exercise. That's an exercise in boundaries.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Though, as a reader, well, but how do you deal
how would you deal with something like that? I mean,
and has that happened in your practice? We're like, oh,
Jesus does not look good.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Yeah, you know. When I was younger, because like you,
my mom.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Really into all of this stuff.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Who I grew up learning about ascended masters, psychics coming
in and out of the house, sort of taught to
rely on my own psychic ability.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
So I've always known that I could.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Do this, and I believe that everybody can do it,
each one do Oh absolutely, It's why.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
I wrote the book. It's why I write the books.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
I write because I want someone to not have to
come to somebody like me. I want them to lie
on their own psychic and intuit ability abilities that we've
all been born with. So, to answer your question, when
I was younger, wide open, really no boundaries spiritually, Yeah,
I saw some really scary things. I saw a shadow
(05:13):
of what I now know is death on a close
friend of mine when I was really young. She died
the next day. I understood what I saw yeah. So
when I started doing this work, I learned quickly that I.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Could say no.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
I could say, don't show me death, don't show me illness.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
I don't want to be responsible for that.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
God.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
When I'm reading somebody, and what I hope when people
interpret their own guidance is that you're seeing the best path,
the most prominent path in your life cycle and in
your soul story.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
So for me, I.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Won't see any of that stuff. Does it mean I
don't get warnings? Does it mean that I can't say
to somebody you know, might want to be careful, here,
take a look what your guides are showing you and
be aware. Absolutely, I get that all the time. It's
supposed to be very helpful, and that's what our guides do.
They're here to guide us. But when I'm reading people,
I don't know that that would serve. So when I
teach psychics, because mostly I teach now, and when I
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teach them about giving readings, will that message serve?
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Will it give care? Concern?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Is there compassion? Is there a good intention? Will that
person walk away saying I walked away with something? Or
are they going to walk away freaked out? I don't
think it serves, because then we can we can manifest
the worst if it gets into our brains. Our brains, right.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Right, that's interesting. Yeah, I mean it's not being deceptive,
it's being selective exactly.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Observation and creation and if you're working from the greater
good and for the highest good, is that going to serve?
I tell people, when you receive a reading, if you're
not feeling it, and if you're feeling like you're getting
something heavy that isn't in alignment with what your gut
is telling you. Is I don't receive that, your hand
(07:04):
up and you're like, that's not for me, and maybe
get up on out of there too.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
Yeah, as someone more positive.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Right, So you grew up with this, I just like, yeah,
I mean it's interesting. Family business.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
It's such a family business.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
No, I know. I mean, look, we all have a
have a family business, everyone in a family or in
the movie TV business, you know. And you growing up
with you know, in the way that you did. It
was almost like a foregone conclusion that this is what
was going to happen to your life totally.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
I mean I craved normalcy. I didn't really want to
be the psychic kid. I bought my mom talking about
psychic abilities and all things in front of people. I
wanted to just ignore all of that, but I couldn't
deny what I knew to be true. And now at
this age, I understand all of it. I understand exactly
(07:55):
why I had all these experiences, how much I've learned
throughout my life life by.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
Utilizing these tools.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
And then of course what we learn, we teach, and
so I'm able to give that over to others and
hopefully empower something within themselves to be able to share that.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
At what point were you did you make the decision
that this is your path? You know? I mean because
you were young, you're feeling these things, seeing these things,
and then you get older and you're in high school
and you know you're a young girl woman. Then you
go to college. I don't I went to college. But
at what point is it like, oh, you know what,
this is what I'm going to do? Did you want
(08:31):
to be like an engineer? First I thought i'd.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Be a teacher. I thought i'd be a foreign language teacher.
I was really foreign languages. I loved acting. I thought
I'd do some acting, and then I wound up getting
into like retail business, and I stayed home with my kids.
And then in my mid to late thirties, I went
through a divorce and we had a close loss at
(08:55):
that time, so I was in the middle of double
grief managing these two little kids, and I wound up
getting an appointment, having an appointment with this woman named
pat Longo who has just since passed, and I thought
she was a psychic. I thought I was going to
get a psychic reading because I really could use the reading.
And she said to me, oh, I'm not a psychic.
I teach people how to get in touch with their abilities,
(09:17):
and just quite automatically, I looked at her and I said,
I think I'm supposed to see you now. And out
of what felt like a really desperate time, came probably
the most the biggest connection of the most authentic part
of myself, which was learning how to do this. And
at the time I was asking, I was really trying
to manifest. You know, I needed a job, I needed
(09:37):
stability and needed flexibility to you know, to still stay
home with my kids and do what I needed to
do there. And then I started taking classes with her
and started reading people with just a.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
Few weeks, Yeah, Wow. Yeah, So how does this work?
You know, because look, you don't know me, but I
like psychics. I believe in there's the higher energy, you know.
At the same time, I'm not going to man fest
two feet of snow because I want good skiing, you
know what I mean, Like, I don't believe that necessarily agree.
(10:08):
So you know, if you're manifesting money or selfish things,
or I want a car, or you know, I want this,
I just wonder how this works from a almost a biological standpoint,
because I understand that we can change in real pathways,
you know, kind of fake it before you make it.
(10:29):
There's all kinds of stuff. I've been in a billion
years of therapy, so you know, I could be a
therapist at this point. So how do how do you
square that? What is manifesting?
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Manifesting for me is well, it's there's steps to it
for me too. Learning how to connect with your guides
we all have them here, your universal team on the
other side, spear guides, loved ones, angels, God, universe, whatever
it is for you, and believing in that connection, believing
that you have the ability to make that connection is
a great start. Understanding how to work with that energy
(11:01):
within yourself. To make that connection is where you start
with true manifesting. The second half of that is the
understanding that you already know your story within yourself. Your
story lives, it's within you, it resides within you, and
your guides are here to highlight that. They are here
to help you hear your most highest and best self.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
So if we believe in that, and we believe.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
In the power of our thoughts and our mind and
the fact that we know the story, then we know
that we are co creators in our life, with the
universe and within ourselves, that this is a team effort.
So when you're manifesting, pay attention to intuitively, does it
feel good or or is my ego in this? Am
I manifesting something from the greater good and for the
(11:42):
higher good? Or do I just want to go skiing
next week? And now there's nothing wrong with saying, hey, guides,
I really love a great snowy, fluffy mountain this weekend.
You know, ken you that because we're supposed to have
a little fun with it, Universe doesn't want us to
be so strict. But true manifestation in the real nitty
gritty stuff, If you really want to change your life.
Life takes that power of commitment of the belief system
(12:03):
within self and within source. But you set it and
you forget it because the underlying value in all of
that is the trust.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
Put it out there.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
Here's what I want, Here's what I see myself intuitively going.
Here's what it feels like to me, And I think,
what I love what you're saying, and what I feel
what you're saying.
Speaker 4 (12:21):
Is that it's not magical. We are part of it.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
So as the universe starts to show you how to
get that story done, how to get to that manifestation
that you're looking for, it's our job to say, yes,
it's our job to do the work that's involved. It's
our job to learn the lessons along the way that
come with all of that. And to me, that makes
I think it's much more beneficial. You appreciate how comes
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so much more.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
But yeah, again and playing Devil's advocator of being the
skeptic even though not really, but I always like to
question everything, do it. There's eight billion people in the world,
right you know how many how many of these people
are at trying to manifest something for their lives, and
how many of them fall short, you know, like that's
where I go to as well. You know, it's like, well,
(13:08):
I got to get out of this poverty. I want
a better life for my kids, and I'm trying to
and it. You know, it doesn't happen for everybody, obviously
it can't. So how do we again square you know,
who's more blessed and who's like not as blessed? Essentially,
you know, exactly how do you know, what do you
say to the person who's like, I've been manifesting something
(13:29):
pure and personal and it's not about me, but it
just has never worked.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Yeah, the for me and for how I've learned how
to manifest in the way that I teach it is
that even rejection can be protection. That there's something within
that storyline that maybe we have to dig deeper and
understand why those manifestations aren't coming into fruition and what
did your soul come here to learn?
Speaker 4 (13:52):
It's it's a it's a theory.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
It's something that I work on in a meditative state
with my guides and through the work that I do
just to try and understand it on a base level.
I try not to go down rabbit holes because I
feel like it's a distraction from the work, and so
I rather try to understand my own soul story and understand, Hey,
why doesn't that come into fruition Personally? For me, it
(14:16):
usually brings me back to a space of what I've
been holding onto that's not serving me.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
Is it fear?
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Is it doubt?
Speaker 4 (14:21):
Is an ego?
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Is it my own brain telling me I'm never gonna
get there? You're never going to just always hold yourself down?
Am I listening to people around me that are coming
in and saying.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
You know, you can't do that.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
That's and so you have to really choose how you think.
Free will is a huge part of that, of course,
and so your choices come into play. And then of
course what type of energy are you surrounding yourself and
where does that school of thought come from? It's I
love the question, and it's and it's an honest question
because I think people really wonder about that, and then
(14:57):
they feel sort of cheated, Yeah, because they see other
people and they're like, Wow, that's really working out for them. Yeah,
where's my bag?
Speaker 4 (15:05):
You know what's going on?
Speaker 2 (15:07):
I've lived that way, you know, I mean, my hat
says Black Sheep, Okay, because even though I've had a
successful career by by anyone's standards, right, I still have
Mom and Kurt and Goldie and Kate and now Wyatt
who's blown up. And I've always had this self deprecating
self talk and I'm the black sheep and blah blah blah,
you know, and it's probably not healthy, but it's part
(15:29):
of my maybe a protection mechanism, and it's also my humor.
Speaker 4 (15:33):
Protection mechanism is a huge thing.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
What you just said is one of the key components
of the book, the Guides book that I have out
now is why.
Speaker 4 (15:42):
Are we doing that to ourselves?
Speaker 1 (15:44):
And that's the story that I get really curious with.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
Why am I so embedded?
Speaker 1 (15:48):
I talk a lot about comparison syndrome within myself. Oh yeah,
mine too.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
You know what the fuck? This is bullshit? I should
have this? Yeah, I mean, and it's like, Oliver, that
is not healthy. I'm like, I don't care if it's healthy.
This is how I feel.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
It's because you're comfortable there, Oliver, Yeah, we know what
that feeling is. And so what I started to do
is say, well, well, what is it about that situation
that I'm finding is just riling everything up within myself.
And so I started to get to work with that
who gave this to me in the first place?
Speaker 4 (16:19):
Where did it start?
Speaker 2 (16:21):
Take me?
Speaker 1 (16:21):
There guides and then I would go to that age
and start to get to work. It's very therapeutic, but
I do it in a spiritual way, and I started
to understand deeper stories about myself. Does it take the
comparison syndrome away? No, But what it does do is
it lets me answer it differently. It allows me to say, ah,
you know what, that's just my bs, that's just what
I do to myself.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
I've been here before. Let me answer it differently.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
When you answer differently, you change that trajectory of the
feelings and everything else involved with it.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
Yeah, and if you can put yourself in a place
of rather than envy or jealousy or sort of comparison
or that sometimes like hate triad where you're like, what
is this poison that I'm feeling, if you can flip
that and you can truly be happy for that person,
the feeling is overwhelmingly incredible. You're like, oh, my God,
(17:13):
have actual genuine joy for this person's success, And it
almost is there's an elation to it. It's a relief
and yeah, it's a relief reef.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
And so I go into I go into gratitude for
the reflection of the lesson that I can learn in
that moment, and then I start doing what you do
and saying, you know.
Speaker 4 (17:33):
What, good for them.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
They're a good person, they've worked hard, they deserve it,
or their relationship looks great.
Speaker 4 (17:40):
I hope they find love.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
I love watching love and witnessing whatever it is for you.
And then all of a sudden, I'm out of that space,
and my whole body relaxes, my mind relaxes, and I'm
able to hold myself accountable for the feelings that aren't serving,
and I just I'm able to move on, and that's liberating.
Speaker 4 (18:00):
Most free parts of.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Doing this work for self is allowing myself to move
into those spaces of accountability and then changing it up.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
And it also just opens you up for more success
because you no longer are using that all the capacity
with negative energy. You know, you've opened yourself up to
bringing more in. You know, I try, and it's it's
work in progress shit, you know, But for me personally,
you know, I feel like I have so much untapped
(18:29):
talent pushing fifty because I have lived my life a
little bit differently. I've not been extremely career oriented. I've
been family oriented. I've been fun. First type of a
guy deathbed scenario. I would rather be on a vacation
in Europe than do a movie, because what am I
going to remember, you know, when I'm surrounded by my grandkids,
(18:52):
not a movie? You know. Well, yeah, but now that
I'm pushing into my later years, it's like I have,
I know, from a creative place, from a creative stadpoint.
I have so much, and I think differently, and I
(19:12):
view the world a bit skewed, and you know, there's
a part of me that needs to get it out there.
But there's fear. With the fear that goes with that,
there are there is probably eighthd shit where I get
overwhelmed by a lot of the process.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
We're very similar, very similar. Yeah, you know, I'm fifty
four and I feel like I'm just getting started.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
Yeah, I mean I feel like I've lived.
Speaker 1 (19:36):
Like all these lives. You know, I've lived lots of
different lives. I talk about reinventing yourself in the book,
Like Madonna, you know, she's been all these Like.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
You're fifty four. You look fucking incredible.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
I think it's the natural filter on zoom.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
I got you look good. You look good, Thank you.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Thanks.
Speaker 4 (19:49):
I appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
But it's sort of like, all right, well, what I
don't I don't want you to reinvent the Oliver wheel
like I don't want to reinvent.
Speaker 4 (19:56):
The Marianne Wheel.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
There's parts of myself that are in my show, and
I have to love her all the same, right, And
if I try to fight her, she just fights harder.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
She's a little sassy, right, I'm not really up for
a fight with her, so I have to let her
come through sometimes.
Speaker 4 (20:13):
How I answer her.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Is the key is the change that has made that
shadow for me more thoughtful. It's allowed me to sort
of look and say, all right, I made these choices
and they and your choices have served you well in
lots of in lots of areas, right, being with family
one of the most important things you can do. How
your perspective going forward is it calling you? Is your
(20:37):
intuitive self calling you to say, Okay, we see what
you've done here, but you know you signed up for
all this creative stuff now, and that ADHD because I feel.
Speaker 4 (20:46):
Like I'm undiagnosed with that as well.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
We have very similar stories and I'm just learning about it.
Speaker 2 (20:50):
You know, Yeah, me too, not thinking?
Speaker 1 (20:52):
So how do I reprocess all of that and allow
it to be even more powerful? How do I use
these things that I thought were holding me down as superpowers? Yeah,
I'm working with my guides. Being a meditative states not
too heavy because I'm not like a deep meditator. I
sort of talk to my guides in my higher powers
just like I'm talking to you. And just because I'm
(21:12):
psychic doesn't mean that I'm the only one who can
hear them. And it doesn't mean also that I get
out of all of what we're talking about here. Yeah,
plenty of things that have happened. How I answer them,
it's just because I've learned some tools to maybe do
it a little differently.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
So talk about the guides really quickly, because this I
love this idea that everyone can sort of tap into
their higher self, which I do believe. I did a
process called the Hoffmann Institute, and it was incredible and
I've talked about it so much in this podcast. But
it was just about, you know, negative love patterns get
going through your childhood, understanding who your parents were and
(21:48):
why you are because of their own patterns that they
got from their fucking grandparents, the other parents. And it's
that that, you know, lineage of disaster that you can
break anyway. You have these breakthroughs and you're so clear.
I've never felt more clear on my life. That and
the week after that, I felt psychic. I mean, I
could see things and predict things and encountering people who
(22:12):
were the coincidences were not just that, you know, So
I do believe that you can get into that. As
far as your guides go, how do you find your guides?
You know, I mean, and are the guides different for everyone?
And do they manifest themselves as faces, as human beings
or is just energy?
Speaker 4 (22:28):
Yeah, yes to all of that.
Speaker 1 (22:31):
You know, it really depends on your upbringing, your frame
of reference for things. Our guides are universal team comprised
of yes, spirit guides, loved ones, angels. Like I said, God,
whatever your frame of references that works.
Speaker 4 (22:46):
I ask people to lean into that.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
Let's again, let's not try and make reinvent the wheels
something so outside of the box that it becomes unrelatable
as you go along in a consistent spiritual practice, more
will be revealed, and then you can see the expansion
that they give you and how they give it to
you when you're working with them, and why I lean
on them so much, and how you do it is
(23:10):
really just finding a practice that works within your own
authentic space, what works for you. Like I just said
to you, I'm just talking to them. I'm just talking
to them just the way I am speaking to you.
But that's sort of evolved and psychically why it starts
to work and what you what you brought out, You
did this Huffman thing right, and it clear it cleared space.
(23:33):
So for that time you aren't holding on You learned
a method that you aren't holding on to everything, and
you allowed your psychic abilities to come to the forefront
because all that clutter went away and you entering clarity.
Then when that happens.
Speaker 4 (23:48):
So it's the same thing.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
When you're working with your guides. It's understanding of practice
and what works for you. I teach about how to
do those things in the book, making it consistent, believing
that you can, and then creating a reallylationship just like
with anybody else who would be a guide.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
And this is for people too, who it's not necessarily
going down that a career path as a psycho. This
is just for your own wealthing, This is for.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Your own wellbeing. Every single person can do this. The
books I write are not just they're not for psychics.
I mean they are my last book medium mentor if
you're looking to be a psychic, yes, but that's for
regular people too.
Speaker 4 (24:26):
That's for anybody.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
It's anybody's looking to make a deeper connection and a
higher connection in a really practical way. There's so much
you grew up like me, you know, there's so much
wooiness around all of this, and I find it's so
frustrating because there's a label that's attached to sort of
being a psychic medium and what that means, and.
Speaker 4 (24:47):
It's sort of mystical, and I don't know. I think
I'm supposed to have like a cape and like a thanks.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
The fact of the matter is we we're all born
with disability, every.
Speaker 4 (24:56):
Single one of us. We've just been taught to forget it.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
We've been told not you, that's up there, that's separate
from us.
Speaker 4 (25:04):
But we really are part of that light.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
And so what I hope is that we bring ourselves
back to what the soul notes to be true, and
that is we can all do this, and we're supposed
to be doing it. Our guides want us to do
it so that we can navigate through this life, this
big school, this earth. We figure out and figure out
what our soul came here to learn, because we've all
signed up for something.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
Did you say that you said that we are story.
We already know our story is that you we do?
I well, does that imply that you know it's already
been written?
Speaker 1 (25:39):
I think the and this is just mine now other
spiritualist might disagree with me, but this is how I
see it. I feel like we.
Speaker 4 (25:47):
Have signed up for the lessons.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
Maybe we signed up to learn lessons in fear this
time around scarcity, Like we were talking about imposter syndrome,
whatever it is, and we're like, all right, you know,
put that in my cart. I think I talk about
it being like an Amazon cart. Right, soul comes in,
we add some stuff in the cart. We know that
this is supposed to enhance our soul's ascension in some
way that's out of our realm of understanding.
Speaker 4 (26:10):
We're not meant to really understand that part of it
just yet.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
But we come in with these with these lessons that
we pick how they come into fruition. Though I feel
like it's at the good grace of the universe. I
don't really know who'd come back, you know, if you
believe in reincarnation. I mean, they're like, hey, you know what,
I'll take this horrible, terrible experience and I wouldn't come back, right,
But I might come back and say, all right, I'll
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deal with fear in a different level. I'll deal with
things that go on in the body in a different level.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
You know.
Speaker 4 (26:39):
Maybe it's my health.
Speaker 1 (26:40):
I don't know, but I don't it's just my own
crazy thought. Maybe, But I don't know who'd come back,
and I think it's I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
The thing is, do you do you have the choice?
I mean, of course this is all you know, existential crazy. Yeah,
we have any proof of but but we don't, you know,
if reincarnation exists. I'm not sure we have the conscious
decision making to be like, you know what, I think.
I'm just gonna hang.
Speaker 1 (27:12):
You know, I don't know. I mean, I've done past life.
I've done past life regression, I read past lives, I
have done it in the past I'm fascinated by them.
I think that our soul learns each lifetime like a
very unique thumb print gets etched out, and we learn
from lifetime. After a lifetime, we bring lessons along. My understanding,
just from my own connection and with my guides, is
(27:33):
that the soul does take on something each lifetime and
it is meant for its development. How we choose that
and why, you know, there is that mystery. I don't Again,
I don't think we're supposed to know exactly everything, but
I am definite believer in that we come here to
learn for sure, and that hope.
Speaker 4 (27:51):
I believe there's a great reason for it.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
Yeah, there's a great.
Speaker 4 (27:55):
Reason for that.
Speaker 1 (27:56):
I mean, there's wonderful things on this earth as two
and I think when people get into deep spirituality, we
have a tendency.
Speaker 4 (28:03):
You hear terms like.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
Raise your vibration and keep yourself elevated and all those things.
It's very exhausting kind of we're supposed to sort of
visit those places of higher vibration. But the fact of
the matter is is that we're earthly and we're here
to figure stuff out. Yeah, you know, and visit those
places as a tool and come back and apply, observe
and learn and teach and give and enrich ourselves and nourish.
Speaker 4 (28:28):
Then we're doing something.
Speaker 2 (28:29):
Yeah, yeah, it's it's you know, I'm not a religious person.
Religion to me, I don't understand it. You know, it
doesn't make sense to me. It feels elitist in the
sense that, oh, well, this God is the God, but
the thousands of others, the spirituality, the mass eye of this, Oh,
(28:50):
that's all bullshit, because this is the guy. I mean,
that's completely crazy to me. You know.
Speaker 4 (28:56):
You know, I didn't go I didn't grow up with
a religion.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
I grew up as a spiritualist, and I craved that
sort of conformity. I found it. Like again, I just
wanted to be like everyone else, you know, I want
to be normal. And so as I got older, I.
Speaker 4 (29:11):
Took on Catholicism.
Speaker 1 (29:13):
All it did was get me back to understanding and
higher power. It got me back to respecting something greater
than this earth, and it would it helped very much
in my parenting at the time, and really understanding. As
I've progressed on, I love to listen to different schools
of thought, of different religions and then apply what resonates
(29:35):
with me most and allow myself to sort of just
work with parts of that energy, but not in its entirety.
I like you think the universe is really vast. I
think it's just infinite in its knowledge and infinite in
its in its in its energy.
Speaker 2 (29:54):
Well, I think I think it speaks. I think it
speaks to we were talking about before, which is you
know this manifestation idea. Yeah, because it's almost like religion
is a is just a tool to find faith, you know,
because faith matters. I could have I could have faith
(30:15):
in you know, yeah, in the six of the six
of Spades, And if I believe in the six of Spades,
just as much as if someone doesn't in God, it's
the same thing, because I believe that this six of
Spades is going to satiate me, it's going to sort
of protect me when things go wrong. Oh, it's the
(30:36):
six of Spades is the reason for it instead of God.
It's like there's a reason. So that matters. I think
because you were actually again manifesting, I agree.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
At the end of the day, Spirit doesn't really care.
Speaker 4 (30:50):
About what you how you believe in that right, right.
Speaker 1 (30:53):
The universe doesn't really care as long as you're being
you know, a good human and you're being kind and
hopefully being kind and loving to your self and process
and that's what they're really here to help us to do.
But they, honestly, to me, it's always been a distraction.
Like I said, it's more important about how are you
processing that energy within yourself? Can you make that connection
on a deeper level. They're not really very picky about
(31:15):
how you do it. But if they have to use
your frame of reference in order to get you fired
up and to get you paying attention, then yeah, they're
going to use that as a tool as well to
get you going and to make that connection. So if
you believe in the you know, six of spades or
whatever that card was, right, you're like, you know what,
that's my jam.
Speaker 4 (31:33):
That's that's where I resonate most.
Speaker 1 (31:34):
And it brings you, it brings you something.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
Good, then go yeah, yeah, and oh for sure. I
have a friend who's, you know, fifty years old, and
you know, he's single and he wants love, but it's
just tough for him and he's sort of an oddball.
But you know, he's just always searching for something and
he found Catholicism and you just love going to the church.
(31:57):
And he loved, you know, the sermons and love the
people at the church, and he actually ended up getting baptized. Yeah,
And of course I'm making fun of him.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Because I'm like, what du you got fucking baptized.
Speaker 2 (32:09):
It's like it was just like it was crazy what
I said. I said, look, I'm non religious, you know,
and he sends me all these like it's it's now
it's becoming really it's getting religious. But I said, if
this is making you feel good, if this is like
bringing you peace and connecting you to something that is,
you know, keeping your feet on the ground and fucking great.
Speaker 4 (32:32):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (32:33):
I agree. I get sit in a church, I can
sit in a temple, and I can sit at the
beach and still feel grounded and peaceful and you know,
all of those things. So for me, again, it's like
that we go back to that authenticity of who you
are and how you want that to to feel true
(32:53):
within self and not have to work so hard. A
lot of my students come to me, they're just working
so hard trying to make that connection. And instead of
working at trying to make it, let's just receive it.
You just have to sit and receive it, and it's
you'll get activated, you'll connected, you know, and you can
have it be whatever you want it to be. I
(33:13):
love that you're that, although you may not may not
be the way you want to.
Speaker 4 (33:17):
Do it, you're happy for your friend.
Speaker 1 (33:18):
Yeah, and without judgment because you're just like releasing.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
It, zero judgment. But when I start getting you know,
memes about Adam and Eve, I'm like, dude, like I
believe that we evolved. I'm sorry, I don't believe in
Adam and Eve. You know, I mean, you don't. Don't
don't push it on me, like, don't try to convert me.
I'm like, I'm so happy for you that I'm not gonna.
I don't. I don't care about reading this passage or
(33:43):
this or yeah and Noah's ark and I'm like, Okay,
it's great, it's great. I'm happy. It's a great story
and I'm glad you love it. But like I don't,
you know, just just connect to it in a faith
based situation. Let's talk about how it makes you feel.
I'm down with that, you know.
Speaker 4 (33:58):
I'm down with that too.
Speaker 2 (34:02):
Ah, But as far as the manifesting goes, I would
say just going back to that, you know, where I
think people might get the wrong idea where it's like
you're actively manifesting I want this, I want that. It
takes time. I would assume, oh yeah, like you're putting
(34:23):
it out there, and then you never know when it's
going to hit. And I'm prefacing by because of something
that just happened to me. I've been an actor forever.
The business is kind of a knemic right now. I've
always had a job. I've always been on a series,
and now I'm sort of piecing it together and doing
movies here, making money here, doing this, this and that.
(34:43):
I love to talk. I love doing podcasts. I've been
on you know, Drew Barrymore show a few times, you know,
to talking about love and relationships, and trying to see
this idea of me being sort of a host, you know,
maybe even a daytime talk show guy, which is not
really heard of. It's mostly women, but I think with
the right guy it can work, because it is mostly
(35:04):
women if they like watching a man sort of be
emotional and sensitive and talk about things. Anyway, I've always
just said I'd fucking kill a hosting job, either of
the game show hosts, whatever, it is, you know. And
then the Astro Twins who we had on basically said,
you know, July twenty seventh in my chart, there's some
(35:25):
You've got some money coming. You're coming into your money
period right now, you know, and this is gonna be
a good chunk, but it's there's gonna be a lot
of money down the road. I said, oh, July twenty seven,
so fucking SOS is specific. I get an email with
an offer to host a baking show for HBO Max,
you know, and I'm like, well, that's fucking weird, you know.
(35:47):
And this isn't something I'm actively manifesting. I'm not sitting
in meditation saying this is what I want. But I
have thrown it out there to the universe verbally, talking
to my agents, talking to my friends, talking to my parents,
like would fucking kill hosting job? So it happened, and
the start date is July twenty seventh. So it's just
so crazy.
Speaker 4 (36:07):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (36:08):
But you know, it's interesting about that. So you hear
those thoughts coming out of you, right, you know.
Speaker 4 (36:13):
I would I would kill it a host I kill
it hosting. It'd be so good.
Speaker 1 (36:16):
I'd be so good at it. If someone was talking
to you and saying that, you know, you'd be really
good at hosting.
Speaker 4 (36:23):
You should talk about that more.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
You should talk about that more. That's that universe coming in. Yeah,
those thoughts in the higher cell letting you speak it
out loud, they're like, all right, he's on it. He's
on it. Let's give him a validation and through the twins,
no denying it. Now you're marrying it.
Speaker 4 (36:39):
Up with your intuitive self.
Speaker 1 (36:41):
That's key manifesting in its most natural form. You're like
something within me, this feels right, and you're like, you know,
I'm going to set it and forget it. I don't
know what it means right now, but that's school. And
someone else comes in saying, yeah, you know what, we
see that for you? Yeah, when you trusted divine timing, Yeah,
you didn't lay too hard into it. You just know
(37:02):
what might happen, and that it feels good if it does. Yeah,
that to me is the most natural form of manifest Yeah.
Speaker 2 (37:07):
I sort of felt like, because I've never been a
active manifest remaining like I'm gonna.
Speaker 1 (37:11):
Be natural at it. You know, it's just really a
natural if you're if you're a talker, especially and speak
out those dreams, and you speak out what you're looking
to do and looking to achieve, and it just feels
natural to you.
Speaker 4 (37:22):
Universe has big years.
Speaker 2 (37:24):
Yeah listening, Yeah, Universe, I really do. All right, we're
coming up on it, but I just want to know,
you know, do you have to shut it off? Meaning
you know, I'm assuming you do as you're nodding, but
you know, it's like you almost have to turn the
switch off, right. I mean, you've got kids, you've got relationships,
(37:45):
you've got friends, You've got all that. You know, you
don't want to be, you know, seeing dead people. Right,
it's just kind of like, okay, wait, I can't. I
got to switch this ship off.
Speaker 1 (37:56):
You know. Look, you know I pleasure with your kids
because I mean my kids. My kids are like twenty
six and twenty four, you know, and my daughter would
love for me to channel anytime of the day for
her at any time, right. But you know, I think
what it has boiled down to all the years that
I've been doing It's been doing this a long time now.
I just know that it's imperative to my own energy
(38:16):
to shut it down. And just like I wouldn't like
love an unannounced guest, you know, just knocking on my
door and coming in. Same thing with you know, some
deceased loved ones, unless they're my own, because my family's
good and pushy. They're they're coming in. They're Italians. They
don't care. They're knocking down my door in the middle
of the night.
Speaker 2 (38:31):
Got it. I'm I got an Italian horror. Yeah right,
I'm only half. But my sister and I got each
other then for Christmas.
Speaker 1 (38:40):
That's it. It's nice because you're supposed to give, you
supposed to.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
Right, No, exactly, you know, it's fucking crazy too. It's
hardy to rush. I was like, I got a great
gift for Kate. I gave it to her. She starts crying,
and I'm like, I was like, Kate, this isn't I mean,
it's like cute, but what are you doing? She was
hold on, she had gotten me one.
Speaker 1 (38:58):
I love it as well of it. I mean, you
can't make that ship up. I know it's crazy anyway,
I keep going, so yeah, so do I do? I
tell them, yeah, have toy not right now? Absolutely, And
they never cease to amaze me. Honestly though, how they
get through it's it's pretty incredible.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
At that part. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, oh yeah, Well
this has been awesome. Why don't you plug a few
books though, And I want to get something.
Speaker 4 (39:23):
My book right now is coming out.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
Third book coming out is in pre order. It's called
The Guides Book, mapping out life's journey with Spear by
your side, and it's all about connecting with your guides
and everything. We just talked about manifesting and how you
can do it yourself and working through all the roadblocks
in your life.
Speaker 4 (39:39):
And I talk about a lot of mine.
Speaker 1 (39:41):
So it's a little outside my comfort zone this point.
I went for it. Yeah, I was like, I gotta share,
I gotta share. I have another book called Medium Mentor,
which teaches you about your own psychic abilities and your
own connection.
Speaker 4 (39:52):
And you can find everything at Mariannemoco dot com. I'm
right there.
Speaker 2 (39:56):
Awesome.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
Yeah, but on Instagram, Mary and the Medium on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (39:59):
Yeah, marrying the Medium. Okay, cool. Yeah, I'd love to read.
I'd love to read some of these. I'm in a
crazy reading phase of my life.
Speaker 1 (40:07):
I'm just, oh my gosh, read it and we will.
Speaker 4 (40:09):
We'll have like a party discussion and right right.
Speaker 2 (40:12):
Cool. I appreciate you. Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Thanks so much for having me. I really appreciate you.
Speaker 2 (40:20):
Take care, take care. That was great man. She's rad
just bang bang fast. You can feel the Italian in
or two of course. Just I'm going to get those books.
IM want to read those books. I'm always fascinated talking
about this stuff because I I sort of straddle the fence,
you know what I mean, Like I have skepticism at
the same time I believe you know so, but she
(40:43):
makes it clear it's not magical were We all have
the ability to tap into something deeper within ourselves, and
how far we take that it's kind of up to us,
I think. Anyway, I love you. I gotta go river rafting,
and uh, I'll let you know how the river rafting goes.
Come out a
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