April 12, 2023 • 24 mins
COME HERE! This week's guest is one of TikTok's brightest stars, AdamRayOK. Just a few years ago, Adam's legendary character Rosa took the creator world by storm, but as his career took a meteoric rise... he sorta forgot to tell his mom about it.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
I remember going home one day and I had already
hit a million. I was so excited, and I walk
into my house. My mom's watching my videos, and it
was the one where I was literally making fun of
her secrets. Everybody's got them, and everybody else wants to
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know them. You know, maybe maybe you've got a secret
child out there that another rapper outed on a disc track.
I'm looking at you, Drizzy, Or maybe you've got a
secret recipe, you know, with eleven herbs and spices, and
I'm pretty sure I've figured out what ten of them are,
but I still don't know what that eleventh is. Maybe
it's turmeric or turmeric or whatever it is. I'm looking
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at you, Colonel Sanders, that's your real name. Or you know,
maybe you murdered somebody that's dark. Looking at you, O. J. Simpson.
I don't think that's really a secret anymore. Anyway, Maybe
your secret is that you have over a million followers
on TikTok and you haven't told your mom yet. Every
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parent's worst nightmare. Now, my friend Adam Riyoka knows all
about that. Adam is a twenty three year old creator
from San Antonio, Texas who many know for his alter
ego Rosa, the flaming hot, cheeto loving, nail clacking, gossip
loving latin x TikTok character. Now Adam and I sat
down at VidCon last summer and he told me about
the first time he was recognized in public and how
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it changed his life. I'm will closet full of skeletons
McFadden and this is hashtag storytime, brought to you by iHeartRadio.
So I want to talk to you about the time
when I first got recognized in public as like Rosa. Yes,
so let me tell you. Before Rosa, my life was
so boring, Like I had a boring job. I can
I also say, before Rosa my life was born. That
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makes more interesting. Yeah I've heard that too, so I
don't not believe you. I just kidding, um, But yeah,
I had a boring job, boring car, boring everything pretty much.
So like once I started on social media, it was
kind of just like a whole new world. And mind you,
I had watched like social media creators forever, like that
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was like my thing on my downtime. I was your
favorite creator. Okay, well, how ironic is it that one
of them is like literally one of my best friends.
His name is Louis Castro. I was obsessed and now
he's like my realmi um and like a lot of
people in the Latin community like um Jenny sixty nine,
Manny Mua yeah, um, the Mourio Twins, like so many
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people that I'm friends with today. I was I would
literally watch all the fans and now you're like, I
like wished it into existence, kind of manifested them. So
I started social media, like not intentionally. I literally posted
my first video like for my friends to see. And
when was this? Wait? When? So this was December of
twenty nineteen. Okay, all right, so we're going on three
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years this December. But what a skyrocket to fame. I
mean that's three years. O. No, that's so fast. That's
like scary. I always heard like people say like, oh, yeah,
I've been doing this for years, and I'm like, I've
been doing this for three years, Like what the heck?
That's that's I mean, But that's like, that's that's a milestone.
Three years. And but it's also so fast for what
you've achieved. And I found like three years in social
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media time is like twenty Yeah, it does. It's like
dog years. Yeah for sure. I'm like, whoa, okay, um, sorry,
I get a side checked the lot that's going to happen. Um,
what was it? Oh? Yeah, so I was boring all right,
and then um I started social media December of twenty nineteen,
and then after that, my life, literally, my kid, you not,
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was never the same. I remember after my first video
blew up, I went to work the next day and
I was like, big Orge, I'm putting my two weeks
in like just joking. I literally like talked to him
my co workers. I'm like, it was so good knowing you,
Like I will forget about I'm like, I'm going to
miss you. Just remember me. But everybody was like super
supportive at my workplace. It was so funny. I went
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to work the next day after my video had blew up.
I was like, oh my god, I posted a video
and like it's like going crazy and was this your
very first, very first it also I didn't even have
a name, like it was just like some girl that
I made up. And um. So I went to work
and I told everybody that what had happened, and they
were telling me because everybody had known that I would
watch people on social media. So they were like, bitch,
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if you are making these videos, you can somehow meet
these people, like be friends with these people, and like
kind of just being supportive and I telling me to
keep going, because at that point, I was like what
do I do? Like do I make another video? Do
I like stop? Am I embarrassing myself? I didn't know
what to do. So everybody was just being super supportive
and telling me, like to continue. So I was like, okay,
I guess I remember that day. I went to work
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on my computer and I went onto the TikTok website
to see if like I would see my face yea
like on the four you page. Back then it was
like very much like just the four you page. I
was kind of yeah, yeah, So I was like, let
me just scrow until I see like my video pop up.
I was literally sitting there for hours, and I like,
mind you, I had like two videos up, so like
out of the millions of videos that there was, I
was like, I need to see my video. Get there.
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So um I was there. I was looking for my
video and like talking to everybody about the situation. After
I went home that day, I was like, you know what,
like they're right, if I don't do this, Like, I'm
never gonna know if like what could have happened. You know,
if I would have continued with rows good thing, you
were surrounded by friends who told you to keep going
because what a sad world we'd live, and if they
were like, oh, don't make anymore very hater vibe, Yeah,
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that would have that would be a totally different life. Yeah.
Imagine if it also wasn't created. I know the world
would be a worse place. I would imagine, be sad.
I'm gonna say that on my panel. I just kidding, um,
But yeah, I went home that day. That's when I
created Rosa the name okay, and ever since then, I
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made another video that day I uploaded it, and after that,
every single video that I would upload it like did
its day. Yeah, it like took off and it like
made my face known to millions and millions of people. Yea.
So I remember it was during like COVID was barely starting,
so I was and I was never really like a
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person to go out because like I just wasn't like
that bitch back then. So I would always just stay
in until like my family would want to go out,
or like my friends would want to go out. So
I remember the first time I went out. I was
already doing Rosa for like a month, I want to say,
and I went to I was I was living in
San Antonio and nobody had known kids you, not only
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the people who had TikTok where were like my friends, family,
my mom, my grandma was so clueless as to what
I was doing upstairs in my room. I'm sure they
were like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, they like who I Like,
they knew the type of person I was. Like I
would just always made people laugh, but they didn't know
I was like putting it onto the internet like that. Yeah.
So I was there, and like I said, I had
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never really gone out. My family had no idea that
I was doing social media. I would go out every
now and then, but nobody really ever came up to me.
I kind of just saw like eyes look at me,
but like not really like say anything. They were kind
of hearing whispers like yeah, very that and mind you.
I feel like that's when TikTok was barely like finding
its creative because there was a couple months when TikTok
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after it shifted from musically where it was just cringey
and people were like, this app is terrible, and then
people like you started making characters and like really creating
amazing comedy content on there too, and then I was like, oh,
there's a shift happening. And then yeah, we started to
see kind of the rise of like, yeah, really amazing
talented creators. So that's whenever people were like starting to
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like put like a face, like a name, and like
kind of just like do everything like that. Yeah, So
never nobody really ever came up to me, and then
up until it was just one time, I went out
with my mom and my grandma. Okay, so ironic, right,
the two people that had no idea what I was
doing online. I went out with them to a pizza
place called Peter Pipers shout out Peter Pipers yes, and
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then we I As soon as I entered, I saw
a group of people look at me, and I was like,
because like, I'm not the type to be like, oh, hey,
like you want to picture it, because like I don't
know if they're looking to be this is funny or
like because this is the first time being kind of
you know, yeah, So I was like, yeah, you're not
gonna be like, hey, do you want to Yeah, like oh, TikTok, come,
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you know what I mean. So I was like, yeah,
I'm just gonna ignore it, like I'm not gonna like
pit any attention to it. And then my mom's like,
my mom's like crazy, She's like San Antonio like southside bitch,
you know. So she was like are they looking over here,
like getting all heated? And I was like I don't
know why. I just like ordered the pizza, and so
I think I at one point my mom that didn't
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want it to go up and be like oh, like
do you have a question or like what's what's that?
I help you? Yeah, bury that, and then um, they
just kept smiling at me. So my mom initially thought
they were like making fun of me. Okay, so she
was like mama, mama bears ready yeah. And I didn't
want to say like, oh no, it's because I'm on
social media, like because she had no idea. It's because
they loved me. Yeah, And mind you, at that point,
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I was still straight. I was very closeted, like so
my mom Like, if my mom found out that I
was like putting on makeup and like making funny videos,
she would have been like, huh, you know what I mean,
so I was like, oh my god, what am I
gonna do? What am I gonna say? There's layers to
this now that yeah. So uh, like after we order
our pizza, we're like standing there waiting for it, and
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I guess one of the girls finding gets the courage
to come up to me. But she comes up to
my mom and I'm like, girl, is she the one
on TikTok? Why would you not come up to me?
And she was always could we want to take a
picture with him? And my mom looks at me, She's
like what so why yeah, And then they ended up
telling her like, oh, well he does the videos on
TikTok like blah blah blah. And I was like I
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just looked at my mom and my grandma was like
so it almost like yeah, very like surprised, and I
was just like I just like smiled and like I
didn't say no. So I was like my mom was
like okay, like she just like let them. So I
took a picture with them. Is your mom in the photo?
I hope she's in the back. I think she took
the photo. She literally took the photo. She was like
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so confused, Yeah, literally, what is happening. So then, um,
we took the picture. We didn't talk about it. Literally,
after we took the picture, we got her pizza. She
didn't even ask me about it was your grandma. My
grandma was so confused. She was like she honestly thought
like they were my friends or like she was like, oh,
they're from school or something like just like rekindling old friendship. So, um,
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we ate and then my I guess my mom didn't
want to talk about it in front of my grandma. Yea,
So my grandma went to the restroom and we waited
for her in the car, and that's when I'm sitting
in the back seat. My mom's in the front seat,
and my Mom's like, so, are you going to talk
about like what just happened, Like why random people are
just taking a picture with you? You're like, no, rather
not yeah, And I was like, I don't know how
I was gonna like direct this because I didn't want
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to bring up the fact that I was like gay,
because I wasn't ready to come out to her. But
then I didn't want to bring up the fact that
I was like putting on makeup and like doing videos.
So I was like, how do I like, how do
you say this? And then also not show her video
like immediately after. So I was like, why pretty much
make videos online? I post them and people love them
and they laugh at them, and like that's why they
recognize me. They like my video got a lot of
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views and my faith, they just recognize me. Yeah, And
my mom's like, well, I mean, are you being like safe?
And I was like, well, yeah, I'm not doing anything crazy,
like I wouldn't do anything to like endangerous or like
you know what I mean. Yeah, um, she worried, you
were like like though, I honestly don't know what she
thought I was doing. But I don't know if she
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thought I was doing like only fan vibes were like
what your feet? Yeah, I imagine, or she was like
doing she on her mind. I honestly think she was
thinking like Illuminati vibes. They're like doing something like worshiping
some type of Satanic culture or scientologic Latina vibes, and
she's like very Hispanic, like don't like you know what
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I mean, like the ray those vibes don't invite the spirits.
Yeah yeah yeah. So I was like, yeah, I do
these videos online and people love them and like they
laugh so they recognize me. Yeah. She asked me if
I was being safe and like at one point she
was like, what kind of videos? And I was like,
I can show you, but I don't know if you're
gonna like them, so I mean, if you want to
see them or not, like you let me know. Yeah,
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she was like no, I don't want to see them,
so I was like okay. So then at that point
we ended up like we dropped it at there, and
then after that I continued to make medals of videos
and then I just grew bigger and bigger. I ended
up hitting a million followers. Yeah. I remember going home
one day and I had already hit a million. I
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was so excited and I walk into my house. My
mom's watching my videos and it was the one where
I was literally making fun of her and she was
cracking up, literally sitting on the couch dying of laughing,
like yeah literally, I was like, I literally was like
so nervous because I heard my voice walking in and
I see her laughing. I was like I literally broke
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out laughing too. I was like like my weight was
lifted off my shoulders because I was like, oh my God,
like my mom's laughing at my videos. And what if
your mom was your million follower, Like what if she
was the one to be little that little boop? Oh
my god, let's just say that that sw yes. I
think that's I had a little like spice. Yeah, story,
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she is number one. So I walk in and I
hear my voice and she's cracking up and she's like,
I found your page. And I was like I can see.
And she was like you're so funny, like blah blah
blah blah whatever whatever, and I was like thanks. He's
like I can't believe you hit a million followers, like
she was so excited for me. Oh yeah. And then
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at that point I couldn't hide anything else from her
because I was already getting asked to do a meet
and greet. I was asked to like yeah, it was
like crazy already, and I was like, oh my god,
like I have to just tell her. I didn't tell
her that I was gay. I was just like okay, mom,
Like this is something that I can take seriously, Like
I can make a career out of this. I can
do so much with this, and like if I'm making
people happy, and like I could make my job I'm
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going to do that because she was always just she
was also scared of me quitting my my nine to
five job, yeah of CO two, because I was like
my income, like that was how I was living. Yeah,
and she was like, oh my god, you can't know,
you can't do that, like you don't know what, like
what's going to happen. So I was like trust me, yes,
I have to follow this. Yeah, and then that's when
I ended up meeting Rocio, my manager, and ever since then,
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my life was no longer boring. It's will I will Yeah,
I agree, you live a fascinating life. It was. It
was insane, but that was my the whole like first
time getting recognized and like for my life being like
and I always say, my life did a complete one
eighty yeah, like it just changed completely after like my
first video. And that's the beauty of TikTok especially is
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how quickly you can you can have that full kind
of life altering experience. Yeah. And a lot of my
creative friends also like the same story, like they went
from this to like this a matter of like months. Yeah,
it's crazy to see if somebody making videos in their
bedroom can Yeah, And I love seeing like like for me,
I remember how my background from my videos and like
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to the background now it's like so insane, Like watching
other people's videos start with this background and now they're
like times square like filming it like time square behind them,
and I'm like, that's so insane, Like how exciting is that?
What would you say the moral of the story or
what you you know, the wisdom that you took away
how you were kind of changing, Well, I would I
would want to mention or like add that in the
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beginning of me starting social media, I was like probably
at one of the darkest places of my life that
I had ever been in and now three years later,
I'm at like the highest point of my life. So
I just if I want to put a message out there,
it's definitely to not give up and to just keep going.
As like cheesy as that sounds, like, honestly, like that's
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what I needed to hear. Yeah, if I just kept
that momentum in that mindset, like look where I'm at
right now and it's so insane and also hopefully you're
at the highest you've been in your life so far,
but I still think you've got oh for sure, you
know you're still so much more and like I feel
like now like it's just getting higher and higher and
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higher points in my life. Yeah for sure. Well, I'm
on board for the journey. I'm gonna keep watching. Let's
play that. Let's play a quick lightning round of first, last, best, worst,
and the category we're gonna go with is what about
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a job? Okay, that's fine, Okay, so awgory job. First job? Okay,
mind you, I'm twenty three. I've probably had like twenty
three jobs. I've had so many jobs. Literally my first job,
it was at six Flags in San Antonio. All right,
the worst experience I've ever had, and that's because I
only worked there for one day. Oh my god. Wait
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So your first job and your worst job, same job.
Oh wait, that's totally fine, that's totally valid. Maybe not
my worst. Okay, so there was worse than the one day. Yeah,
because okay, let me do what did you do it
for one day? So I got hired at six Flags.
I was fifteen. That's when six Flags was hiring at
fifteen years old at his child labor. Yeah. So I
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was like, you know what, I have to make money.
Like I was like in the mindset of like being
a grown up hurting. I get that grind on mind you,
San Antonio weather is disgusting and like it's insane. It's
known for like it's bipolar and like hot and like
rain and like everything all seasons in one day. So
I woke up early, super early. Okay, let me start
from the beginning. I got interviewed and I got hired,
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but they required a math test. My jo was a
little bad in school. Why do you doing math at
six Flags? Yeah? I'm like, why do I need to
know how much change I'm gonna give? If it tells
me how much change to give? We're not telling algebra here.
So I ended up failing the math quiz. I would
have been right there with it. I was still a
potential candidate according to six Flags. So they hired me
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on as a janitor. Okay, a fifteen year old janitor.
So it was so bad because I was excited and
I was like, you know what, Like, what's like how
I'm back? Yeah, it's like it's fun, Like six Flags
is like fun place to be at them. So I
wake up super early for the first day of work.
It's like five am. I had to be there like
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at six thirty six legs was a little far from
my house. It's pouring rain, like discussing, thunder lightning, insane,
like the worst thunderstorm I could have ever seen. And
I'm in my car. I had like a nineteen ninety
six Honda Civic or Classic, and my car was like
no AC, had no CY so I had to have
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the windows up because it was raining. With no a C,
I was dying. I was suffocating, just very moist in there,
and I was like, you know what, I'm going to work.
I was still happy because I was like my first
day of work, like nothing can bring me down. The
rain was coming down so hard, like six tacks was
so far from me. I was in the freeway, driving
like forty miles an hour, and I was like and
like holding my string with with both hands because I
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was so scared that my wheel was gonna like I
was gonna lose control. I was still with the smile
on my face, like I got it. I'm almost job.
At one point, the rain got so bad I couldn't
see anything. I was just driving because I was like
you know what, I know, just trueway, trust thee. Yeah,
I'm like I've been on this freeway plenty of times,
like nothing's gonna change overnight, just gonna bird box this,
yeah by that. And then so I finally get there
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and um rain stops. Okay. So I get there. We're
doing like or out. Yeah. The sun is like shining
on the opposite side of sid The sun is like shining,
like there's like birds flying, it's like super pretty. And
I get there. We do like orientation vibes and then
they're like, all right, we're gonna get ready to go
onto the park, like they tell us what we're gonna do.
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Mind you all of the like janitor people who got
hired on we're like all together in one group. So
I have a little buddy with me, like a partner. Yeah,
And they had me a big old trash can. My
job that day is basically go around the whole park
and like empty the trash cans into one big trash cantah.
And so I'm like, you know what, Like I was
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telling my buddy like, hey, we got this, Like it's
gonna be easy. Oh. So we're going it's steaming like beaming.
The sun is beaming. It's so hot, and I'm like
sweating like like not even like cute sweat like dripping
into it, like my shirts like soaked, and um. We're
there and we're kind of just like trying to make
the best out of it. I'm like, oh, so, like
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where are you from, Like I'm trying to talk to him.
At one point, I'm going to a trash can and
I'm like, you know what, Like it's so heavy the bag.
I'm like, we're just gonna have to get it together,
Like we're gonna have to pick it up together. So
my bright idea was to like lift it super fast
so we don't, like, you know, like we don't have
to carry it for so long. Yeah, And he's like, okay, yeah, yeah,
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we're both I think we're both fifteen. We're like a
little them um and uh So we grabbed the bag
and we lifted so fast. The bag is weighted down
to the bottom by liquids. Yeah, and as soon as
we lift it, everything just falls out. And at that point,
I'm already like the inner my thighs are rubbing together.
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I'm like, is she everywhere sweating picking up trash from
the floor. I was like, like it couldn't have gotten anywhere.
And I was like, you know what, I'm fifteen years old.
I don't deserve this. I like, I'm not gonna be here.
My parents are at home asleep. It was like Sunday
and I'm a fifteen year old here at six figs
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in the heat picking up trash with the floor. I
was not I should be here on the rack. My
parents should be here like paying for those season pats, right,
I should be eating, like where's my turkey leg? I'm
here picking up the scraps from somebody out a giant pickle.
I don't want to be on Revolution or whatever it's called.
I couldn't. I was crying. I literally goes like I
need a break. It just give me a second. I
went to the restaurant. I was like, I was like
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wiping up the sweat and like my tears as well,
and I was like, you know what, I quit? I
was like I was. I wasn't even there a full day.
I was a kiden. I was there for like four hours. Wait,
did you just tell your buddy or did you go
to the no to my buddy. I was like, look,
you're gonna hate me, but I gotta go, like you're
on your own. Yeah. Literally, I it was kind of bad.
All my jobs, I've never put in a two week's
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notice if you gotta go. But I saw a TikTok
recently that was like, I don't know if you've seen it.
They're like, name the scam. That's like not like nobody
talks about, but you know it's a scam. And they're
like two weeks notices, Like why should you be putting
in a two week's notice for a company that doesn't
really give a shit about you. That's a good point,
and I'm like, you know what I mean, like like
and for them, they don't have to put a two
week's notice when they're gonna fire you. Yeah, so what's tea?
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Yeah that is a scam. Verty much scamp. That's true. Okay, awesome,
thank you, d thank you. This is so much fun.
This is like it isn't my first podcast, but it's
one where I feel like I talked the most and
even he talk No, this isn't about me, like I said, well, yeah,
this is fine. Well that about does it. For this
week's episode of Hashtag Storytime, I want to give a
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I remember going home one day and I had already
hit a million. I was so excited, and I walk
into my house. My mom's watching my videos, and it
was the one where I was literally making fun of
her secrets. Everybody's got them, and everybody else wants to
(00:39):
know them. You know, maybe maybe you've got a secret
child out there that another rapper outed on a disc track.
I'm looking at you, Drizzy, Or maybe you've got a
secret recipe, you know, with eleven herbs and spices, and
I'm pretty sure I've figured out what ten of them are,
but I still don't know what that eleventh is. Maybe
it's turmeric or turmeric or whatever it is. I'm looking
(01:02):
at you, Colonel Sanders, that's your real name. Or you know,
maybe you murdered somebody that's dark. Looking at you, O. J. Simpson.
I don't think that's really a secret anymore. Anyway, Maybe
your secret is that you have over a million followers
on TikTok and you haven't told your mom yet. Every
(01:22):
parent's worst nightmare. Now, my friend Adam Riyoka knows all
about that. Adam is a twenty three year old creator
from San Antonio, Texas who many know for his alter
ego Rosa, the flaming hot, cheeto loving, nail clacking, gossip
loving latin x TikTok character. Now Adam and I sat
down at VidCon last summer and he told me about
the first time he was recognized in public and how
(01:43):
it changed his life. I'm will closet full of skeletons
McFadden and this is hashtag storytime, brought to you by iHeartRadio.
So I want to talk to you about the time
when I first got recognized in public as like Rosa. Yes,
so let me tell you. Before Rosa, my life was
so boring, Like I had a boring job. I can
I also say, before Rosa my life was born. That
(02:07):
makes more interesting. Yeah I've heard that too, so I
don't not believe you. I just kidding, um, But yeah,
I had a boring job, boring car, boring everything pretty much.
So like once I started on social media, it was
kind of just like a whole new world. And mind you,
I had watched like social media creators forever, like that
(02:29):
was like my thing on my downtime. I was your
favorite creator. Okay, well, how ironic is it that one
of them is like literally one of my best friends.
His name is Louis Castro. I was obsessed and now
he's like my realmi um and like a lot of
people in the Latin community like um Jenny sixty nine,
Manny Mua yeah, um, the Mourio Twins, like so many
(02:50):
people that I'm friends with today. I was I would
literally watch all the fans and now you're like, I
like wished it into existence, kind of manifested them. So
I started social media, like not intentionally. I literally posted
my first video like for my friends to see. And
when was this? Wait? When? So this was December of
twenty nineteen. Okay, all right, so we're going on three
(03:12):
years this December. But what a skyrocket to fame. I
mean that's three years. O. No, that's so fast. That's
like scary. I always heard like people say like, oh, yeah,
I've been doing this for years, and I'm like, I've
been doing this for three years, Like what the heck?
That's that's I mean, But that's like, that's that's a milestone.
Three years. And but it's also so fast for what
you've achieved. And I found like three years in social
(03:34):
media time is like twenty Yeah, it does. It's like
dog years. Yeah for sure. I'm like, whoa, okay, um, sorry,
I get a side checked the lot that's going to happen. Um,
what was it? Oh? Yeah, so I was boring all right,
and then um I started social media December of twenty nineteen,
and then after that, my life, literally, my kid, you not,
(03:56):
was never the same. I remember after my first video
blew up, I went to work the next day and
I was like, big Orge, I'm putting my two weeks
in like just joking. I literally like talked to him
my co workers. I'm like, it was so good knowing you,
Like I will forget about I'm like, I'm going to
miss you. Just remember me. But everybody was like super
supportive at my workplace. It was so funny. I went
(04:18):
to work the next day after my video had blew up.
I was like, oh my god, I posted a video
and like it's like going crazy and was this your
very first, very first it also I didn't even have
a name, like it was just like some girl that
I made up. And um. So I went to work
and I told everybody that what had happened, and they
were telling me because everybody had known that I would
watch people on social media. So they were like, bitch,
(04:39):
if you are making these videos, you can somehow meet
these people, like be friends with these people, and like
kind of just being supportive and I telling me to
keep going, because at that point, I was like what
do I do? Like do I make another video? Do
I like stop? Am I embarrassing myself? I didn't know
what to do. So everybody was just being super supportive
and telling me, like to continue. So I was like, okay,
I guess I remember that day. I went to work
(05:01):
on my computer and I went onto the TikTok website
to see if like I would see my face yea
like on the four you page. Back then it was
like very much like just the four you page. I
was kind of yeah, yeah, So I was like, let
me just scrow until I see like my video pop up.
I was literally sitting there for hours, and I like,
mind you, I had like two videos up, so like
out of the millions of videos that there was, I
was like, I need to see my video. Get there.
(05:23):
So um I was there. I was looking for my
video and like talking to everybody about the situation. After
I went home that day, I was like, you know what,
like they're right, if I don't do this, Like, I'm
never gonna know if like what could have happened. You know,
if I would have continued with rows good thing, you
were surrounded by friends who told you to keep going
because what a sad world we'd live, and if they
were like, oh, don't make anymore very hater vibe, Yeah,
(05:46):
that would have that would be a totally different life. Yeah.
Imagine if it also wasn't created. I know the world
would be a worse place. I would imagine, be sad.
I'm gonna say that on my panel. I just kidding, um,
But yeah, I went home that day. That's when I
created Rosa the name okay, and ever since then, I
(06:06):
made another video that day I uploaded it, and after that,
every single video that I would upload it like did
its day. Yeah, it like took off and it like
made my face known to millions and millions of people. Yea.
So I remember it was during like COVID was barely starting,
so I was and I was never really like a
(06:27):
person to go out because like I just wasn't like
that bitch back then. So I would always just stay
in until like my family would want to go out,
or like my friends would want to go out. So
I remember the first time I went out. I was
already doing Rosa for like a month, I want to say,
and I went to I was I was living in
San Antonio and nobody had known kids you, not only
(06:49):
the people who had TikTok where were like my friends, family,
my mom, my grandma was so clueless as to what
I was doing upstairs in my room. I'm sure they
were like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, they like who I Like,
they knew the type of person I was. Like I
would just always made people laugh, but they didn't know
I was like putting it onto the internet like that. Yeah.
So I was there, and like I said, I had
(07:09):
never really gone out. My family had no idea that
I was doing social media. I would go out every
now and then, but nobody really ever came up to me.
I kind of just saw like eyes look at me,
but like not really like say anything. They were kind
of hearing whispers like yeah, very that and mind you.
I feel like that's when TikTok was barely like finding
its creative because there was a couple months when TikTok
(07:30):
after it shifted from musically where it was just cringey
and people were like, this app is terrible, and then
people like you started making characters and like really creating
amazing comedy content on there too, and then I was like, oh,
there's a shift happening. And then yeah, we started to
see kind of the rise of like, yeah, really amazing
talented creators. So that's whenever people were like starting to
(07:57):
like put like a face, like a name, and like
kind of just like do everything like that. Yeah, So
never nobody really ever came up to me, and then
up until it was just one time, I went out
with my mom and my grandma. Okay, so ironic, right,
the two people that had no idea what I was
doing online. I went out with them to a pizza
place called Peter Pipers shout out Peter Pipers yes, and
(08:19):
then we I As soon as I entered, I saw
a group of people look at me, and I was like,
because like, I'm not the type to be like, oh, hey,
like you want to picture it, because like I don't
know if they're looking to be this is funny or
like because this is the first time being kind of
you know, yeah, So I was like, yeah, you're not
gonna be like, hey, do you want to Yeah, like oh, TikTok, come,
(08:40):
you know what I mean. So I was like, yeah,
I'm just gonna ignore it, like I'm not gonna like
pit any attention to it. And then my mom's like,
my mom's like crazy, She's like San Antonio like southside bitch,
you know. So she was like are they looking over here,
like getting all heated? And I was like I don't
know why. I just like ordered the pizza, and so
I think I at one point my mom that didn't
(09:01):
want it to go up and be like oh, like
do you have a question or like what's what's that?
I help you? Yeah, bury that, and then um, they
just kept smiling at me. So my mom initially thought
they were like making fun of me. Okay, so she
was like mama, mama bears ready yeah. And I didn't
want to say like, oh no, it's because I'm on
social media, like because she had no idea. It's because
they loved me. Yeah, And mind you, at that point,
(09:22):
I was still straight. I was very closeted, like so
my mom Like, if my mom found out that I
was like putting on makeup and like making funny videos,
she would have been like, huh, you know what I mean,
so I was like, oh my god, what am I
gonna do? What am I gonna say? There's layers to
this now that yeah. So uh, like after we order
our pizza, we're like standing there waiting for it, and
(09:43):
I guess one of the girls finding gets the courage
to come up to me. But she comes up to
my mom and I'm like, girl, is she the one
on TikTok? Why would you not come up to me?
And she was always could we want to take a
picture with him? And my mom looks at me, She's
like what so why yeah, And then they ended up
telling her like, oh, well he does the videos on
TikTok like blah blah blah. And I was like I
(10:06):
just looked at my mom and my grandma was like
so it almost like yeah, very like surprised, and I
was just like I just like smiled and like I
didn't say no. So I was like my mom was
like okay, like she just like let them. So I
took a picture with them. Is your mom in the photo?
I hope she's in the back. I think she took
the photo. She literally took the photo. She was like
(10:27):
so confused, Yeah, literally, what is happening. So then, um,
we took the picture. We didn't talk about it. Literally,
after we took the picture, we got her pizza. She
didn't even ask me about it was your grandma. My
grandma was so confused. She was like she honestly thought
like they were my friends or like she was like, oh,
they're from school or something like just like rekindling old friendship. So, um,
(10:48):
we ate and then my I guess my mom didn't
want to talk about it in front of my grandma. Yea,
So my grandma went to the restroom and we waited
for her in the car, and that's when I'm sitting
in the back seat. My mom's in the front seat,
and my Mom's like, so, are you going to talk
about like what just happened, Like why random people are
just taking a picture with you? You're like, no, rather
not yeah, And I was like, I don't know how
I was gonna like direct this because I didn't want
(11:11):
to bring up the fact that I was like gay,
because I wasn't ready to come out to her. But
then I didn't want to bring up the fact that
I was like putting on makeup and like doing videos.
So I was like, how do I like, how do
you say this? And then also not show her video
like immediately after. So I was like, why pretty much
make videos online? I post them and people love them
and they laugh at them, and like that's why they
recognize me. They like my video got a lot of
(11:32):
views and my faith, they just recognize me. Yeah, And
my mom's like, well, I mean, are you being like safe?
And I was like, well, yeah, I'm not doing anything crazy,
like I wouldn't do anything to like endangerous or like
you know what I mean. Yeah, um, she worried, you
were like like though, I honestly don't know what she
thought I was doing. But I don't know if she
(11:53):
thought I was doing like only fan vibes were like
what your feet? Yeah, I imagine, or she was like
doing she on her mind. I honestly think she was
thinking like Illuminati vibes. They're like doing something like worshiping
some type of Satanic culture or scientologic Latina vibes, and
she's like very Hispanic, like don't like you know what
(12:14):
I mean, like the ray those vibes don't invite the spirits.
Yeah yeah yeah. So I was like, yeah, I do
these videos online and people love them and like they
laugh so they recognize me. Yeah. She asked me if
I was being safe and like at one point she
was like, what kind of videos? And I was like,
I can show you, but I don't know if you're
gonna like them, so I mean, if you want to
see them or not, like you let me know. Yeah,
(12:36):
she was like no, I don't want to see them,
so I was like okay. So then at that point
we ended up like we dropped it at there, and
then after that I continued to make medals of videos
and then I just grew bigger and bigger. I ended
up hitting a million followers. Yeah. I remember going home
one day and I had already hit a million. I
(12:59):
was so excited and I walk into my house. My
mom's watching my videos and it was the one where
I was literally making fun of her and she was
cracking up, literally sitting on the couch dying of laughing,
like yeah literally, I was like, I literally was like
so nervous because I heard my voice walking in and
I see her laughing. I was like I literally broke
(13:21):
out laughing too. I was like like my weight was
lifted off my shoulders because I was like, oh my God,
like my mom's laughing at my videos. And what if
your mom was your million follower, Like what if she
was the one to be little that little boop? Oh
my god, let's just say that that sw yes. I
think that's I had a little like spice. Yeah, story,
(13:43):
she is number one. So I walk in and I
hear my voice and she's cracking up and she's like,
I found your page. And I was like I can see.
And she was like you're so funny, like blah blah
blah blah whatever whatever, and I was like thanks. He's
like I can't believe you hit a million followers, like
she was so excited for me. Oh yeah. And then
(14:04):
at that point I couldn't hide anything else from her
because I was already getting asked to do a meet
and greet. I was asked to like yeah, it was
like crazy already, and I was like, oh my god,
like I have to just tell her. I didn't tell
her that I was gay. I was just like okay, mom,
Like this is something that I can take seriously, Like
I can make a career out of this. I can
do so much with this, and like if I'm making
people happy, and like I could make my job I'm
(14:25):
going to do that because she was always just she
was also scared of me quitting my my nine to
five job, yeah of CO two, because I was like
my income, like that was how I was living. Yeah,
and she was like, oh my god, you can't know,
you can't do that, like you don't know what, like
what's going to happen. So I was like trust me, yes,
I have to follow this. Yeah, and then that's when
I ended up meeting Rocio, my manager, and ever since then,
(14:47):
my life was no longer boring. It's will I will Yeah,
I agree, you live a fascinating life. It was. It
was insane, but that was my the whole like first
time getting recognized and like for my life being like
and I always say, my life did a complete one
eighty yeah, like it just changed completely after like my
first video. And that's the beauty of TikTok especially is
(15:11):
how quickly you can you can have that full kind
of life altering experience. Yeah. And a lot of my
creative friends also like the same story, like they went
from this to like this a matter of like months. Yeah,
it's crazy to see if somebody making videos in their
bedroom can Yeah, And I love seeing like like for me,
I remember how my background from my videos and like
(15:33):
to the background now it's like so insane, Like watching
other people's videos start with this background and now they're
like times square like filming it like time square behind them,
and I'm like, that's so insane, Like how exciting is that?
What would you say the moral of the story or
what you you know, the wisdom that you took away
how you were kind of changing, Well, I would I
would want to mention or like add that in the
(15:55):
beginning of me starting social media, I was like probably
at one of the darkest places of my life that
I had ever been in and now three years later,
I'm at like the highest point of my life. So
I just if I want to put a message out there,
it's definitely to not give up and to just keep going.
As like cheesy as that sounds, like, honestly, like that's
(16:16):
what I needed to hear. Yeah, if I just kept
that momentum in that mindset, like look where I'm at
right now and it's so insane and also hopefully you're
at the highest you've been in your life so far,
but I still think you've got oh for sure, you
know you're still so much more and like I feel
like now like it's just getting higher and higher and
(16:36):
higher points in my life. Yeah for sure. Well, I'm
on board for the journey. I'm gonna keep watching. Let's
play that. Let's play a quick lightning round of first, last, best, worst,
and the category we're gonna go with is what about
(16:57):
a job? Okay, that's fine, Okay, so awgory job. First job? Okay,
mind you, I'm twenty three. I've probably had like twenty
three jobs. I've had so many jobs. Literally my first job,
it was at six Flags in San Antonio. All right,
the worst experience I've ever had, and that's because I
only worked there for one day. Oh my god. Wait
(17:19):
So your first job and your worst job, same job.
Oh wait, that's totally fine, that's totally valid. Maybe not
my worst. Okay, so there was worse than the one day. Yeah,
because okay, let me do what did you do it
for one day? So I got hired at six Flags.
I was fifteen. That's when six Flags was hiring at
fifteen years old at his child labor. Yeah. So I
(17:39):
was like, you know what, I have to make money.
Like I was like in the mindset of like being
a grown up hurting. I get that grind on mind you,
San Antonio weather is disgusting and like it's insane. It's
known for like it's bipolar and like hot and like
rain and like everything all seasons in one day. So
I woke up early, super early. Okay, let me start
from the beginning. I got interviewed and I got hired,
(18:02):
but they required a math test. My jo was a
little bad in school. Why do you doing math at
six Flags? Yeah? I'm like, why do I need to
know how much change I'm gonna give? If it tells
me how much change to give? We're not telling algebra here.
So I ended up failing the math quiz. I would
have been right there with it. I was still a
potential candidate according to six Flags. So they hired me
(18:25):
on as a janitor. Okay, a fifteen year old janitor.
So it was so bad because I was excited and
I was like, you know what, Like, what's like how
I'm back? Yeah, it's like it's fun, Like six Flags
is like fun place to be at them. So I
wake up super early for the first day of work.
It's like five am. I had to be there like
(18:45):
at six thirty six legs was a little far from
my house. It's pouring rain, like discussing, thunder lightning, insane,
like the worst thunderstorm I could have ever seen. And
I'm in my car. I had like a nineteen ninety
six Honda Civic or Classic, and my car was like
no AC, had no CY so I had to have
(19:05):
the windows up because it was raining. With no a C,
I was dying. I was suffocating, just very moist in there,
and I was like, you know what, I'm going to work.
I was still happy because I was like my first
day of work, like nothing can bring me down. The
rain was coming down so hard, like six tacks was
so far from me. I was in the freeway, driving
like forty miles an hour, and I was like and
like holding my string with with both hands because I
(19:27):
was so scared that my wheel was gonna like I
was gonna lose control. I was still with the smile
on my face, like I got it. I'm almost job.
At one point, the rain got so bad I couldn't
see anything. I was just driving because I was like
you know what, I know, just trueway, trust thee. Yeah,
I'm like I've been on this freeway plenty of times,
like nothing's gonna change overnight, just gonna bird box this,
yeah by that. And then so I finally get there
(19:50):
and um rain stops. Okay. So I get there. We're
doing like or out. Yeah. The sun is like shining
on the opposite side of sid The sun is like shining,
like there's like birds flying, it's like super pretty. And
I get there. We do like orientation vibes and then
they're like, all right, we're gonna get ready to go
onto the park, like they tell us what we're gonna do.
(20:11):
Mind you all of the like janitor people who got
hired on we're like all together in one group. So
I have a little buddy with me, like a partner. Yeah,
And they had me a big old trash can. My
job that day is basically go around the whole park
and like empty the trash cans into one big trash cantah.
And so I'm like, you know what, Like I was
(20:31):
telling my buddy like, hey, we got this, Like it's
gonna be easy. Oh. So we're going it's steaming like beaming.
The sun is beaming. It's so hot, and I'm like
sweating like like not even like cute sweat like dripping
into it, like my shirts like soaked, and um. We're
there and we're kind of just like trying to make
the best out of it. I'm like, oh, so, like
(20:51):
where are you from, Like I'm trying to talk to him.
At one point, I'm going to a trash can and
I'm like, you know what, Like it's so heavy the bag.
I'm like, we're just gonna have to get it together,
Like we're gonna have to pick it up together. So
my bright idea was to like lift it super fast
so we don't, like, you know, like we don't have
to carry it for so long. Yeah, And he's like, okay, yeah, yeah,
(21:12):
we're both I think we're both fifteen. We're like a
little them um and uh So we grabbed the bag
and we lifted so fast. The bag is weighted down
to the bottom by liquids. Yeah, and as soon as
we lift it, everything just falls out. And at that point,
I'm already like the inner my thighs are rubbing together.
(21:33):
I'm like, is she everywhere sweating picking up trash from
the floor. I was like, like it couldn't have gotten anywhere.
And I was like, you know what, I'm fifteen years old.
I don't deserve this. I like, I'm not gonna be here.
My parents are at home asleep. It was like Sunday
and I'm a fifteen year old here at six figs
(21:53):
in the heat picking up trash with the floor. I
was not I should be here on the rack. My
parents should be here like paying for those season pats, right,
I should be eating, like where's my turkey leg? I'm
here picking up the scraps from somebody out a giant pickle.
I don't want to be on Revolution or whatever it's called.
I couldn't. I was crying. I literally goes like I
need a break. It just give me a second. I
went to the restaurant. I was like, I was like
(22:14):
wiping up the sweat and like my tears as well,
and I was like, you know what, I quit? I
was like I was. I wasn't even there a full day.
I was a kiden. I was there for like four hours. Wait,
did you just tell your buddy or did you go
to the no to my buddy. I was like, look,
you're gonna hate me, but I gotta go, like you're
on your own. Yeah. Literally, I it was kind of bad.
All my jobs, I've never put in a two week's
(22:34):
notice if you gotta go. But I saw a TikTok
recently that was like, I don't know if you've seen it.
They're like, name the scam. That's like not like nobody
talks about, but you know it's a scam. And they're
like two weeks notices, Like why should you be putting
in a two week's notice for a company that doesn't
really give a shit about you. That's a good point,
and I'm like, you know what I mean, like like
and for them, they don't have to put a two
week's notice when they're gonna fire you. Yeah, so what's tea?
(22:57):
Yeah that is a scam. Verty much scamp. That's true. Okay, awesome,
thank you, d thank you. This is so much fun.
This is like it isn't my first podcast, but it's
one where I feel like I talked the most and
even he talk No, this isn't about me, like I said, well, yeah,
this is fine. Well that about does it. For this
week's episode of Hashtag Storytime, I want to give a
(23:19):
huge shout out to Adam Ray. Okay, make sure to
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