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September 21, 2022 43 mins

Episode 181 - "The Culture Deserves It" Feat. Ferrari Simmons & Su Solo Produced by: @iHandlebars

Topics include:  Tory Lanez, Erica Banks, Love VS Money, Baller Mail & more.

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":The Culture Deserves It"

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hold Up, hold up, alert, this is let's go, but butler,
alert to building whatever. Hey, y'all, go out. It's your
best deson SONA boy, you know, beat, and it's Joe,
Joe Alonzo, the batter body in the game. Ferrar's vacation,

(00:23):
for Real, real vacation, not a play vacation, like how
one beat says when he's hating. A Real, real vacation.
He's a Disney world with his family. I'm beat here
at night. He said, Disney World Christmas. Oh that's fun,
that's sexy. Okay, well, Damn, let me try to one up.
I'm going to COGNAC, France, next month. Half, yes, I
love it. I gotta find somewhere to go. I'm going

(00:46):
to London, like, like, let's keep it hold down, like. Okay,
all right, I'm going out of that. All right, yeah, yeah,
you are your own with that. So we start to
so that we got man just the case. All right, y'all.

(01:06):
Biden says the pandemic is officially over. Is it? Do
you think it's over? Because I know somebody I covered
right now. No, exactly, I just it's not. It's not over.
So he's not saying that covid is over. He's saying
the pandemonium around Covid. No, because people still broke when
the P PP money went out. That's when the pandemic
really hit. That's that's the part I'm talking to out.
Maybe what he means is the damage that they wanted

(01:28):
to cause is done. They wanted to do a reset.
They wanted broke people to be broker. They wanted mentally
ill people to be more mentally maybe all the damage
that they wanted it to cause they've done enough. Or
maybe he's saying no more excuses for what, though, like yeah,
you gotta go back to words. You know, they did
say that. Now you don't even have to quarantine pretty

(01:50):
much when you got covid, like yeah, you don't. How,
all of a sudden this vaccine just made this ship
go away, like the covid get weaker or I don't
think I know. If Drake had of it one day
and then the next day he was performed. Okay, no,
for real. I guess since Biden feels like he had
it and bounced back like twice, that he's good it twice.

(02:13):
I don't think that's the real body. I don't think
the president gets sick. First of all, there's no way
the president gets sick. I don't think the person we
saw going to office is the robot that we're seeing now.
I don't think this is bidden subday right. Yeah, something
is different subday right. So what different? I believe they
do any damn thing, and I don't think that this

(02:34):
is a human being that's talking to us. I don't
think that's a person that's round the country. Where is
Kamala well, speaking and running the country? UH, for real?
Queen Elizabeth has been laid to rest. Finally, after ten
days of morning. That was the longest funeral ever's this day.
Police officers, I think, or security guard passed out painting. Yeah,

(02:54):
when the cat passed. Yeah, he was standing up too
straight for so long. You know, you gotta be yeah,
been needs a little bit. Let the blood surgey. Let's
just keep it above how y'all feel? So the funerals,
how long it was? They do ten days of morning. Well,
it probably just takes two days of shipping to send Africa,
the jewelry back and just spe like South Africa back

(03:16):
and just talking about educating. But the question is is,
how are you gonna get how are you gonna get
that back, because she did. They're not sending nothing back. Okay,
it's gonna be those who don't blood. For those who
don't know, Queen Elizabeth holds one of the largest clear
cut diamonds from South Africa and it's on her scepter. Uh.

(03:38):
And you know, once the Queen was late to rest,
they took off the scepter, the world jewels, the ORB
which is like a golden globe, and her crown, but
the accepter has the actual big clear cut diamond that
Africa wants back and they're trying to say that it
holds no value. But I'm like, if you don't hold
no value, it don't matter if value or not. Giving bad,

(04:01):
it's the principle. You freaking colonized. How did it get
stolen in the first place? Yea Colonizers. What happens is
white people went to Africa long, long, long, long long
time ago and started raping Africa and they still raping Africa.
Have Africa and entire chokehold. The interest rates in the
banks are ridiculous. So people that are already living in

(04:23):
what we consider third world countries literally have no way
of getting themselves out of this whole like it is disgusting.
How is it that London, England, whatever, they don't have
any gold mines and got all this goal? You stole
it from Africa, you took it from people that have
been colonized, people that don't have a leg to stand

(04:44):
on really in comparison to the money and the power
and the war of tools that the rest of the
world hasn't and you stole it. Give it back then,
which we know ain't gonna happen again. Africa, black folks
around the world, not just Africa, all of Africa's descendants.
Only way for us to get equality and get reparations
that we deserve for period and alert. We do not

(05:06):
condone violence at all. Just no, we do not condone
violence at all. Alert. And you know, South Africa is
part of the Commonwealth, which is led by the Queen,
by the monarch, by the British monarch. So she had
and then Jamaica, didn't? They shut down the more in
her for like twelve days or something like that. A
lot of people, a lot of the CARRIBBANS, for Caribbean

(05:28):
places are part of the Commonwealth, so they are kind
of like ruled by the Queen, but you know, some
of them are breaking off of that. Like recently, I believe,
Barbados broke off of the monarchs, so they're no longer
ruled by the British monarch, which is where Queen Elizabeth resided.
Modern Day slavery bt to to not be confused. It's
just modern dation. This is atmation. We want to give

(05:53):
it up one time for Viola Davis and the woman king,
which is number one. See Melly the weekly. I love it,
I love it, I'm gonna love it. She's one of
the producers. So that is a great little bird, you know,
and hopefully we can get more projects that could be in.
Woman King too, left opens. You just gotta keep supporting man,
because the more you support these type of movies, the

(06:14):
more type of movies these are going to be created
and made for more black actors and black entertainers to,
you know, to being big projects. One thing I can
say is that as a whole, as a culture, I
really feel like we've been supporting US lately a lot.
I mean because, yeah, I said that we supported each other,
but I think after the black lives matter movement it

(06:36):
just took off from because people saying words the power
is not in protests and the power is in the dollar.
So if you say we'RE NOT gonna shop at Louis
vattan anymore, people don't understand black people. We are the
ones that spend all of our money. That's like the
what is it? The how you pronounce that's a black yes,

(06:59):
that's a black company. So it's like they're restocking here soon,
in a couple of days, and it's really away. Was
gonna say that it's real part for now because beyonce
do and said it's back important and they're not that expensive. And,
to be completely honest, before I knew it was a
black owned business, I was like, don't get me no,

(07:20):
tell flar back. I don't know how to. I don't
know at the time anyway, you know. But then once
I found out, I'm like always black owned, I'm going
to change my home. I put it on my calendar,
and I feel like a lot of people have been
doing that lately, like supporting black people and black businesses,
you know, things like that, and that's what it takes.
It's for us to come together and please just don't

(07:42):
be against nobody. To your part, bt, black people really
do drive up the sales and Nelly just didn't interview
where he said that air force ones increased their prices
after his song. We just Su for these brands and
they all do nothing for us. And in the company
what's Soever, you might throw out a little letter. Honestly,

(08:04):
even starbucks, when I tell you, starbucks celebrates pride like
it ain't nobody business, and we know that they're celebrating
it two or three months before it even happens. But
for some reason, why are the black lives matter pins
so hush hush? Why? Like it's you wear it, don't
wear it's political. It's political. What the Fund is the
difference between black lives matter and because they're trying to

(08:26):
make it like a race thing. You know, that's the
only way, that's the only way to tear down black
people's power. Is You gotta tell the white people this
is racist. They're talking about black power. It's just why
so many people kissed us like it's just so much
racism that's going on these days. And I actually have something. Um,

(08:51):
I think it was USC they had a Majorrette team
come to their school and well, actually, a young lady
may made up and the black culture was upset about it.
It's a lot and they were like you need to
keep that at HBCUS, like whatever is for us, we

(09:12):
need to keep that for us. And it just had
me thinking, like there's so much racism going on, because
it's like, well, why not let this young lady shine
for the culture at this P W I? So do
you think like the Hbcu people were like hating on
her for creating this at the P W Y? I
think that I'm not gonna say Hayden, but they're like, Dang,
we can't have nothing for our like our own you know,

(09:34):
we come here because this is what we go to
Ahcu because this is what they have to offer, and
I can't get that here. But now it's like, Dang,
now you you're putting it there too. So it's like,
you know what, though, I think a part of that
fear is once you started there, it's gonna be a
white girl on that. Black people, we influence the world

(09:56):
right now, period, period, period. That girl is not stop
saying it, playing like she's disabled. I don't like all that.
And then look at what we did the same way.
We hyped up the Caucasian girl that was at the
WED in or the backyard, wrapt baby. How about that

(10:22):
millionaire to catch me outside? Girls? No, she was invited
by Oxford University to speak at Oxford University among the
likes of Malcolm X, Mother Teresa Dali Lama. What can
I tell you something? These people are in these positions
are uneducated about the culture. They might think, Yo, if

(10:45):
she comes, she's going, everybody's going to be excited, but
they don't know the coach and the Internet is like,
we don't want to listen to this little girl talk
to us. I think we all just need to understand
that we live in an ignorant as country world. Whatever
this ship is, ignorant is here and it's like, at
this point, stay in school. But does education even matter?

(11:05):
Does school education? Honestly, the fact that the curriculum has
not changed and Lord knows how long. That's the problem. Kids,
good and dumb. Okay, well, somebody got to work for somebody.
You know what, everybody can't be boss. You know what
I said. If you want to go to school, go
to school, but one day you're gonna be working for me,

(11:25):
but don't be mad at me, you ain't gonna have
my salary. Speaking of black people showing up for black people.
We need to all come out for aerial for a
black yeah, when that come out, we need to show up.
We all gonna show up. We're gonna show up. I
don't want to see it. I'm taking all my nieces nephews.
We're going to see it. We're gonna see that and
we already know we're gonna show up for Black Panther

(11:47):
in November and a lot of people are gonna dress
up for that to see the child ago. But let's
shoot your gears and go into this Tory lanes versus August.
Out Tory try to shake August hand and August looked
at him like, I don't know who the hell I
don't mess with you, because she was talking about me,
along with the world, when I was messing with Jada.

(12:08):
So keep that same energy with long, with the world, though,
but you have to stay home if you got the attitude,
because everybody was talking about you. But don't put your
hand out and act like I'm fitting that part. What's up?
But I didn't even know that part. That's why he
got I've seen the video, but I thought he was
just like no, he tried, he reached out to shake
his hand and then August looked at him and walked up.
That's why they also leaked to the audio talking about

(12:32):
hey man, while you speak on my business on the Internet,
what up? What up? What I hate? When is gonna
keep the same energy? Why did you speak on my
business on line? What's in my mind? I didn't understand that,
because if it's on the Internet, everybody is gonna speak
about it. But at the same time, don't come and

(12:54):
say what's up to me like it's all good. Don't
say what's up to me because me, where I'm from,
I'm on site to girl. Don't do that, because I'm
gonna treat you the same way. Now the reaction part,
the alleged reaction, part him getting mad and going back
and storming off. The Punch him in the face, yeah,
or sneaking them, as they say. I'm vertically challenged. You know.

(13:14):
Sometimes Tu people just be angry, like we just ain't
calling the polio up and a half. Okay, I'm five,
one in a half. Okay, that's cute. I'll probably just
get mad at everything. Let's let's Acts Bay. I'M NOT
gonna circle of log like whoever. I like savage. I
don't know. So if you had like thirty, thirty girls

(13:36):
behind you and they're telling you actually disrespect you, you
might go smack her up a couple of times. You
know what I'm saying? I'm pretty level headed. I don't
let people gass me for the most part. If I
feel a way, I feel the way, but I try
my best not to let people gass me. But honestly,
like Tori, I mean, you don't want to get deported
at this point because you just need to want to
go to jail. I was gonna say all these alleged

(13:58):
cases that he has, but I was ain't on the
short people on my on my tip because I'm a
little google for cocoa pus Um. That probably would have
pissed me off too. I would have been I would
have been piste off and then I would have felt
tried and then probably the people behind me would have
been like now, you just don't let her. And the
way he looked down at him, like you're right, I

(14:19):
mean he had to looked down. He's short at fun,
like he's shorter than I was gonna say women and men.
Short Person Syndrome is different. I feel like short men
automatically have Napoleon Complex. So they're gonna get mad regardless.
I didn't see some short dudes get upset like I
want to know. The funniest part about that video is
the woman in the background sitting. You already shot MAG

(14:41):
and Tory right Yo, I crossed. I said if they
showed this in the court room when this man go
to court, because you know l a they're doing investigation
on that and his cases based in L A with making.
And then he gonna say he was in the studio. Well,
that's not making it. That's not making his case for
making any better. And he what I'm saying that you

(15:02):
have anger issue. As soon as August released his statement
before the video followed, he said, uh, Tori, he said
that he was in the studio. He doesn't know what
August is talking about. In this video comes out that
he was actually there, like stir like you're talking about.
Then the audio comes if you just admit it, if
you did it and you as tough as you say

(15:23):
you are, then man up and own up to it
and say you did it. Well, take that picture of
the person that kicked to off the tour. So okay,
let's let's get off. That's funny. Let's get off Tory
for a while. Let's go. Let's go to August. Now,
why in the hell did he post that Damn Picture?
That's what I want to know, real like that. I

(15:45):
feel like that was petty of him and he wanted
to get back at him and he's already had pen
in case on him, so why not make it worse?
I don't look at it like that. I look at
it like. I look at it like he trying to
get some more cloud, just like he did with that
whole Jada thing when the whole entanglement ship came on.
Now he like entanglements, entanglements like like. I mean, you've

(16:06):
got two cloud chasers, though, because story is definitely a
cloud chaser. But he didn't do nothing in this situation
for cloud though, so we can he stick out his hand.
He was giving him a depth. You know, you can't talk,
you can't talk badly about someone or talk on someone
situation and then be mad at the reaction of them
not wanting to talk to you, like you should have
just ate. You have like five big as security. Just

(16:29):
go live your life and worry about this fucking trial
that you got. Okay, worry about that once you have
like a certain platform, like I can give you like
a hood nig off the street or something like that,
but you got a whole platform. People look up to you. Really,
I don't. I mean some people do, though, and so
you got to remember that when you step in any situation.

(16:49):
So it don't matter if somebody tried you or not, like,
I can see if he punched you, then you punched
him back. You were the aggressor allegedly. How else do
you want someone to just be like no, I'm cool.
You'RE NOT gonna like it regardless. You're not gonna like it,
but you gotta eat that. Just let it go. It's
tired of black man. I'm tired of US jeopardizing our
freedom because of our egos. Y'All, are putting yourself in

(17:11):
a position whether other people want you to be. They
want you to they want black men to look like
angry savages. That's why you put them in cages. You know,
we just gotta learn how to control our Egos, because
Egos would cause the demise of your career, your family,
your life, and you know, honestly, it's not even worth it,
because this is more layers that they're gonna add to

(17:31):
this man trial which he's currently on. And you know,
we don't know how this is gonna end, but I
don't want to see nobody in jail. You know what
I'm saying? I'm just that type of yes, no, I'm
with that, but at the end of the day, he
made those choices. He made a choice to go right
back there and get mad and I find that guy.
If he assaulted him, then you just got to accept
what come from that because, like you would taught to

(17:53):
him because you were essentially embarrassed. You were embarrassed people
seeing it, they were laughing at you. When you felt
like that, you had to different. was left honor or
your name. So I mean, and it sounds like a
pattern with Tori because he goes to sauts people in
their lives about it. Yeah, the picture of August Alsina,
it was a lot. I'm speaking of a lot. Erica

(18:13):
Bank says that the look of everything. It's so important
to me. If she ain't think enough, no, her no
idea good enough. No, can dreds, no, skinny no. And
it's like, I don't feel like I'm discriminating, I just
want a certain type of look. She could be the
sweetest girl like ever made in my life. But if
she don't look the port, I don't want her to come.

(18:34):
Like it's just not the vibe my mount. Now, she
could come to the Cook y'all, she could come to
a listening party, but the club, I feel like beaches
gotta look a thirtain way. I want you to go first.
So I want you to go first, all right, well,
because you'll be outside to it. This is a double
edge story. She don't know, she gonna know. I've worked

(18:55):
a nightlife for years, for sure, and I definitely a
lot of girls that only befriended women because they looked
a certain way. Why? Because it was easy for the
entire group to get pulled into a section. It was
easy for you to get taken care of. You gotta
worry about standing on your feet. If you look at
and your crew, look at oh table Taner to snatch
your ass up, girl, bring your friends and come on.

(19:17):
So I've always understood that some people have club friends,
some people have their real friends that come over to
the House for game night and come over to the
cookout or whatever the case is. So I understand it
is a double edged sword. What I think messed her
up is one. You just got the B bl. You
just got thick. So now people are wondering, were you
the skinny friend that wasn't invited before and now you

(19:40):
are projecting this onto other people because you got the
B B l? Or is it because you just wanted
to be an easier time for you in the club?
You want everyone to look a certain way so that
y'all get pulled from the type of men that you
want to get pulled. Well, it's a double edged sword.
I say, I think any girls was wrong like that
was bad. I'm first off, I'M gonna say I'm skinny. Um,

(20:03):
I've actually been asked to go out with Erica banks,
like she didn't ask me to go out a couple
of times. Um, I mean, I'm not really bad on
the ice, so maybe that was a difference like in that.
But I worked in the club for years as well,
and that is how it is being in the club.
People are very, very shallow. Now it's to the point

(20:24):
to where, say, I'm going out and it is easier
to get picked up in the club when you look
good and your crew looks good. Men. It's like say,
like I know certain men that are going out in
the club, I would hit them up like hey, I'm
going out. Is Me and my home girls. What they
look like? What they look like? See me their instagram,
you know, and sometimes I might have that friend with

(20:46):
me that I'm like, you ain't gonna Come? Yeah, and
it ain't that I ain't working with her, but I
just know what's gonna Happen, you know, when we when
we get to that, to that setting. But so, in
a sense she wasn't saying anything that's not going on,
and it's right now, because that's literally what's going on.

(21:06):
And she does have a brand per se. So when
you see her, you see the people around it now
it is it is shallow. It's just like that's just
something that you just don't talk about. This shallow is hell,
especially when you have a platform like I think we
all know. It's like the underground code and it is
a shallow industry. It is just what I'm gonna say.

(21:27):
First of all, she was on her close friends, so
obviously it was. It was on her close friends, it
was on his close friends. was supposed to be a
safe place to talk about what you're talking about. I
don't I don't think that it should have came out,
because close friends is like me and you having a
text message and I screenshot it and posted on Instagram
for the world to see. I feel you. That's like

(21:49):
because you know a lot of stuff go down in
that close friend you. But who the hell does she
think she is to say something like that? For one,
she has a point. She has a point with with
some of the things that she's discussing, because you do
go to some of these clubs, because I've been to
certain clubs. UH, going to L A and L A

(22:10):
way different. Yes, because they want to know the color
of the women's skin that you bring it to the
clubs in Hollywood. I'm telling you, it gets real. So
we can't, I hate that. We can't live in a
world where we have to. We can't be realistic with people.
That's being realistic. These clubs sell these images to other people.

(22:33):
The reason why you go to the club, if you're hot,
the cameraman says, can I take a picture of you? Yes,
let me take a picture of you and your girls.
It's because they're gonna go and give it to the owner,
give it to the promoter and they're gonna promote. This
is the sexiest club in the world. All the batties
are gonna be there, and guess where all the dudes
with money. I want to book a table there. You

(22:54):
think if they have some Munchkins in there? And I
don't want to judge, nobody appearances, but you know, if
you think dude' are gonna be like yeah, I definitely
want to go there and pop bottles and those amazing
looking women. To be honest, everybody, everybody out here, ain't cute.
Everybody out here ain't got no bb like and I

(23:16):
just feel like that's just that ship just shallow too.
I've always known for it to be shallow. You know,
when I go anywhere and I know that that's going on,
that should't makes me feel bad, like knowing, oh, my
homegirl skinny as hell, so they ain't working with her.
You know, that ship is shallow and that and I
would have to deal with that. Well, I'm glad I've
never been shallow because I'm not a promoter. So, wait,

(23:38):
I host partner. No, wait, listen to me. If a
girl that I'm attracted to, if I invite a girl out,
I'm not asking her how your friends look. If I'm
in my city, if I'm in Atlanta, I don't give
a damn. I'm inviting you are. I don't care how
your friends look, because I don't have to sell an image.
You know what it is? Women see every Niggas in
the club that do give a funk about that, like
they have, yeah, because they have to selling image. But

(24:00):
me being me, I don't have to sell it image.
I don't have to go to the club and like
I'm bringing twenty hot girls so that I can get
a paycheck at the ending, like I'm there for a service.
And if you come with a girl. Now it's clubs
that I do understand. If YOU GO TO CERTAIN CLUBS
IN L A, be prepared to expect what you post
to expect. If you go to Vegas, expect what you
need to expect. The thing is, half the time these

(24:22):
holes who got the BBLs and they find and all
this ship ain't going. Ship going on but in the
club every fucking weekend. And money that really, really. You're
worried about the image, but you should be worried about
bottles and drinks and hooks and ship like that. Who
the gonna Bring the money in? Because I'm been is
a Pampa she'll tell you right now if I go
to the club Pamp for not one thing. Not One

(24:45):
so what? What are you doing? The thing is, though,
like I agree with your point, it's a lot of
these girls. It's a couple of them that are actually
in the blogs right now. One of them broke up
with somebody, or got broken up with recently, and before
this relationship she moved herself into this other guy's apartment
that she was. She was, let me just say, she

(25:14):
snuck her ass into this man's home. Okay, it was like, okay,
we're sucking off for two days and it was like, Damn,
she here third day. And then a week later frand
was like, Yo, you know, she ain't left yet. Two
weeks later we lived together died. A lot of these
BBL girls or girls that look a certain type of ways.
Some of them don't be together all the way, whether
it's mentally, financially, emotionally, whatever the case is, they're nothing

(25:35):
but a look. Not all, not not all. It's some nightlife.
My personal experience, I have seen more women who were
focused on their looks and didn't have their personal life
together than not, because most of the time they get
that work done so they don't have to work in life,
so they think they don't. They said, you know what,
she was crying that video right. She got to pay

(25:56):
them bills. Now she said, who are should have about this?
You know you got to pay for water. That's crazy.
Somebody definitely told me. I kind of felt bad for her.
I actually felt very, very bad for her. I feel bad.
It's a choice, like it's a choice right, but I
feel like it comes from being broken, like I feel

(26:17):
like there's something that is not allowing you to move
forward and heal yourself and work, and so I feel
bad in that remark. Bills. She used to work in
the club. Okay, no, it makes fucking sister, because you know,
the ultimate goal, if you are female and you work
in a nightlike business, if you want somebody with a
bag to say I'm coming to save you, and that's

(26:39):
what you're gonna do, to follow the damn rules. Follow
the rules. You better say yes to everything. But that's
what Erico said. She trying to follow the rules. That's
why she's trying to keep the pretty ones around, because
she's trying to follow the rules. I'm speaking to BBLs
and money. Get to love versus everybody loved this second
right here. He said love. The minute I met you, baby,
I knew I want the money or for the love.

(27:04):
It's love versus money. They say you can't put a
price tag on love. Love on the ball or alert show.
Let's get it. We got all right, y'all right, love
versus money. I'M gonna say the couple, y'all, gonna let
me know individually what they're there for and then let
me know they're success right, their success right today, we

(27:27):
have got alright, did he is with Krisha for the
love of it's not even love, though, but for the love,
the love of the Pussy. Specific yes, because he probably
loved a pussy you. I mean I would, I would

(27:49):
say that and I would say Kuresha is there for
the money, but you can always love a Nigga with money.
So she can. Yeah, so she would love hell, yeah,
that money. Mesmero, you don't see how cross should be.
Let me tell you something. I went to the dude
crib one time. I ain't gonna set your name when

(28:10):
I tell you. I was like, I'd be good on people,
but when I seen his crib, like I'm like, okay,
you know you such and such as, what's up, whatever, okay,
we can hang out, whatever, whatever. Went to his crib
and love Italy. I don't even know that it can
happen at fast. I'm like, Oh my God, I love it. First, like, alright,
me tee what you got. Well, you know what I
think when I'll be thinking about these celebrity couples, I

(28:31):
think it's just business. I think it's business because nowadays,
the relationships we yearn for, relationships as common people, and
when we see these celebrities and relationships and then love
and going on jets and all these bags, were like
that's what we want. But what it does it amplifies
that celebrity. We see them all the time in the media.

(28:54):
Now we see everything. So I think you know me,
these celebrity relationships. I think it's just business. Okay, all
I think did he loves having multiple women. I think
he loves a variety of women. I've seen him enjoy
women that were professional, buttoned up, primmed up, very well spoken.
I've seen him with women similar to yr Miami Crisha,

(29:15):
you know, a little more street, a little more edgy
and a lot younger Um, but I think that he
just enjoys women. I think he. I think he needs
multiple women to live life. Is He there for the
love of money? Is He there for just business? When
I when I say money, is it just business for
him or is it? Uh, he actually loved this girl?

(29:36):
I think he cares for her and I think that
the business is great as well, because Karrisha, please is
taking the funk off. Okay, like and she's out here
shouting out Delia and lemonade all saying like did he
is great with that, and Miami. I think she loves
a man who's going to treat her well. I think
she loves a man with really great finances who doesn't

(29:57):
mind taking the trips and the gifts, and they talk
about they talk about taking trips and lavish gifts. So
she loves that. I think if she had in her way,
did he would be monogamous? Did he would just be
with her. I think she is in love. I don't
think they love the same way. That's all. They love
the same way. Kay, did he back so long? No matter,

(30:20):
get her this bad whatever, like he's having a good time.
This is how did he lives, and I think sometimes
some of the women may confuse that as he's in
love with me because he's doing x, Y and Z.
I think when the motherfucker got a crazy ass bag
and they just used to spend money. There's no value
on what I'm doing for you, not not to them.
It doesn't hold the same value. But I feel like
it's always business. With did he, I feel like it's business.

(30:42):
One cuisia side is well, I agree with you, of
bt and UH for Diddy, he's been rich so long
he can get whatever he want whenever he wants. I
feel like when he sees something that's hot, whatever is hot,
he gotta have it. You know what I'm saying. So
it's just whether it be a cassie or Kim Porter or,
you know, J low. You know, they were saying how

(31:02):
hot UH Laurie Harvey was in the Song I want
Lauria on my Christmas list. So he had to go
get see what that was about. Let me go find Laurie,
you know. Let me go the city girls is popula.
Let me see about that. Karesha, none of Y'all wants
for his son. I'M gonna say this show can't give
it up. Like he said. It's like he compared himself

(31:24):
to money. Making Mitch from paying full. He's addicted to that,
that high, that famous high. You know what I'm saying.
He's got to be that guy always and all the time.
But you know, he's it's kind of like he's gonna
have to get pushed out the game, kind of like
a Michael Jordan or Ali or Serena. You know, it's
kind of like your time has come. It's you're getting

(31:45):
too old player to be following behind Karesha. Just sit out,
old player. said they're getting mirror. Let me know the
success rate, what Y'all got? I say a hundred percent,
as long as they both agree to do exactly what
they're doing. I think if somebody has to go left,
didn't gonna be out. I think Kuresha is down or whatever.

(32:05):
So I say a hundred percent, as long as both
parties play their part. When you say success, where you
mean as in like marriage being the in just like
long Javia gonna last. M I think they could be together. Okay,
I think Karresha really wants I think she loves the
bag and she loves the fund that they have, but

(32:27):
she's a lover. She wants to be loved too. So
I feel like if she in the midst of that? No, no, now,
she in a quarious. Now, you know, they they find
with being a she's an aquary. Hesiod's work and I
don't know. But Oh no, I don't know. I don't
think she that Aquarius. I should be with someone, a lover. Yeah, maybe,

(32:49):
maybe she'll look into polyamory like didn't. You'll be right back,
but more of the baller alert show message. Alright, alright,
all right, Ferraris on vacation, so I'm filling in doing
the vol alert. Been in a relationship for about two months,

(33:11):
but as a young man in my mid twenties, I'm
not able to afford this relationship. I can see myself
having a long term relationship with this woman, but she's
a real woman. That requires T LC and a mandatory budget,
eating out, date nights and etcetera. I simply cannot afford

(33:32):
to date her at this moment. What should I do?
The hell out be done. Yeah, tell her, tell her
what it is. Say, Hey, you know what, I find
that I care about you and that I want to
do these things for you, but I am actually unable
to do them and I feel that I am holding
you back or holding us back and because I can't

(33:53):
be the man that I want to be for you.
I'm a fall back until I give my ship together.
They not the wrong honestly, is not is at the
wrong honesty, and then at the end of the day
she's gonna end up cheating on you. So or she
might respect what he has to say and be like,
you know what, baby, I don't even need you for
your money. But she said this is what I want.
She clearly told him what I want like sometimes, but

(34:15):
he said he can't afford it. So obviously the days
that she want to go on ain't in his budget.
He just gotta get creative. I don't know, just have
a talk. You might be right. She might want something lavish,
but she might just be okay with minor gestures. He
might be in his head about what he thinks she wanted.
You gotta have a conversation and map it out. That's listen.

(34:36):
You gotta date what you can afford, and I learned
that the hard way me coming from Arkansas and going
to restaurants and I'm seeing the price. And then when
I moved to the beautiful city of Atlanta, I took
a young lady out on a date I can't remember,
but it was by the built line and when I
seen the entree started off at twenty two dollars, I knew. Yeah,

(35:08):
for him at the time it was Mary. So okay.
So imagine the entree being five. Imagine Apple Bees, going
from apple bees the birth right. So I wasn't. I wasn't.
Obviously I was. Or how he was hurt? Man, listen,
I've just been. This was about five years ago. I

(35:31):
was broke, I was, you know, damn their homeless. And
you know, I've seen a young lady that I liked
and I was honest with myself and saying I can't
afford the date right now. This is not in my
budget or in my uh yeah, like to be real,
and I probably didn't date until probably another year and

(35:53):
a half because I said I can't afford none of
this ship right now. A lot of times men do
need to realize, like in women, they in your tax bracket. Yes,
and if you ain't got it, set your ass down
until you get like you shouldn't even be dating anyway.
Set your ass down for real, number number one. Number
two normalized dating in your damn tax bracket, because don't

(36:14):
get mad at this girl because she want to go
to fucking steak market, but you asked her out on
a date. Now you got all this. She just yesses. Okay,
that's what she expects, that's that's what she wants. You
can't do it, then move around. Don't waste her time,
don't waste your time and don't go broke trying to
please this girl because really whole time you're really just
trying to smash most of the time. But don't go broke.

(36:37):
A lot of men go broke trying to please women
and I never understood it because I was always a
man of prinsip was saying, if I can't afford it,
I ain't gonna do it. So did y'all split the
on Tryer, did you order your train? Okay, I'm gonna
tell you what happened. You weren't hungry. So so what
happened was when the bill came, I I I told

(37:00):
I gotta use the bathroom. I went to the to
the way that I said, Hey, man, could you please
split this bill, but don't I don't want her to
know that it's being split. Just split the ship and
I'm gonna go to the bathroom. I'M gonna come out
and I'm act like the bill just came there. You
just did it like that and I got back. She

(37:22):
got her bill. I got because I'm looking at what
she ordered. She over there ordering like lobster tail. I'm
like wow, never seen a girl or the lobster tail before.
This is crazy. She ordered steak. I'm like, I'll be
ordering a little rock, not even just apple be's Bro
we're going to like Denny's barrel, like little local spots,

(37:45):
like look, let me ask, let me ask a question. Um,
this place that you guys went to, who offered to
go to that spot? She offered that. Okay, she suggested
after you asked her on a date. So when she suggested,
did you take the time to look at the met?
Hell No, I just got off work. I don't work
the twelve hour ships. I'm tired as hell and I'm

(38:05):
like sure, cool. What was your budget? Because if you
didn't have my my budget was probably realistic. Like like no, no,
it was like probably the whole dates. You wasn't supposed to.
He was green, he didn't know, did not understand what
I'm telling about. Five hours from my entree in Arkansas,

(38:29):
like come on, so he like, okay, I can do this.
Tell you gotta think about it. I'm moving from a
different city. I'm not knowing. This is my first time
living in a different city coming from were you embarrassed
to tell her the truth? Sure it wasn't. No, yeah,
let me let me finish, all right. So the two
bills came. She looked at the bill, I looked at
the bill and I was like, okay, cool, you know whatever.

(38:52):
I'm trying to like play it off, like how much
is your bill? Okay, how much is hers? Our bill
was probably leaves about eating. All this had to beat.
So what did she say? She didn't say nothing, and
that's the funniest part, just the punchline right here. Oh
my God, I text her the next day and I
said that was such an awesome date and she's like

(39:15):
that was the worst date I've ever been on on
my life. I was like, I did, it wasn't a date,
it wasn't a date a day and she just went done.
I just met up for dinner. She she like, Y'all
didn't run all the time as much as she was
running it up at the time. Well, I didn't you
tell her that? Mean you weren't on this with her.
You wasn't on this with her, and he wasn't. Yeah,

(39:38):
she wasn't up for me. You should have told me,
I'm taking Youtube restaurant, that you're gonna have to spend
some money. Said, as you said, down says that. As
soon as Y'all sat down, you should have said, listen,
I can't afford this right now. She don't read. What
she would have been like, all right, we ain't gotta
e here, we just I mean, I'm not thinking that's swiftly.
Like I said, I had just worked a twelve hour shift.

(39:59):
I'm getting off of work, I'm tired, I don't even
want to go, but I want to hang out with
this girl. So she said we're going to the bell line.
I asked one of my homeboy what's the Bell Line?
He said, oh, that's a place in Atlanta where you're going.
You Walk in, there's a little restaurants. Cool. She decided
to pick the most expensive restaurant. You decided not to
look it up, knowing damn well your pockets was fucked up,

(40:23):
or continue to sit there? Yeah, watch her ordering now.
I was just sitting over there like this. Somebody washing dishes. Tonight.
Somebody washing them dishes tonight. You Ain't going negative for her.
Somebody washing them dishes tonight. Of the story. Please date
in your text break. Please do say one more time. Please,

(40:46):
dates in your text bracket. We'll be right back. Stay
tuned with more of the baller alert show. All Right, uh,
what an interesting baller mail. Thank you, guys. Let's go
headlot the show. I'll thank you, Joe. Help me see
you more often. Yes, give us some shout out for you,

(41:08):
lady Um. Let's see, I'm gonna give a shout out
to my no good as x Um, who bullish. It
uh not to be good. Good shout out. What I
want to say? Shout out to my people. It is
Um National Hispanic, Hispanic heritage, money, all my Hispanics out there. Well,
I don't have any shout outs. I just want to

(41:30):
inform everybody. Make sure you go registered to vote. Make
sure your voice is heard if you're not happy with
anything that is going on in the government, of the law,
all those things. Registered to vote. The last a registered
to vote in Georgia is October eleven. If you are
in this state of Georgia, please just make sure you
are first of all eligible. Let's make sure you'lible to vote,
then make sure you're registered and then make sure you

(41:51):
ask actually goes out and vote. I'm gonna Send Um
some love to Shaka Zulu his entire family. Um, this
is a very crazy situation they are going through. Keep
in mind Georgia. What is it? A standing the ground,
and the man was definitely, from what I see on
the video, standing his ground. I've known Shaka, not very closely,

(42:11):
but I know him enough to know that his character
is absolutely beautiful. People have so many amazing things to
say about him, so I'm praying for him and everyone involved, honestly, Um,
and shout out to all of my tog out. We
had a tick ride fundraiser here in Atlanta. We're still
dealing with the tick lind genocide in Ethiopia. So shout
out to everyone who was fighting the good fight and
we're gonna come out of the shouting period. As to

(42:34):
Solo at, you know bt at underscore, Jojo Alonso at
I handle bars. I just want to say thank you
everybody for listening and I want to leave you with
a word from our ballers. Lorie Harvey, maintain your power.
I'm very much in his space right now where I'm
not doing anything that's going to compromise my peace and happiness.
So I think just taking control to making sure you

(42:55):
maintain your power. Don't give your power away to anybody. That,
I feel like it's the key to like really being
happy in or out of a relationship, and you can't
literally based on like what other people are going to think,
how other people going to feel, because the end of
the day, issue you issue your life. So it's gonna
make you happy. Like I never wanted to look back
and like, Oh, I wish I did Oh, why didn't
I do it? I'M gonna do it period, period, happeriod.

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